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https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/7aa38624-71e8-4175-8465-252cd7c6e510
200 per meet (from way south shore but stays in Dorchester occasionally).
Haven't sampled the goods but she seems down.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/1e927513-d4ea-4333-aba1-2164d583105bClassy woman, we met a few times. Intelligent and looking for love.
Here's a fun little fact, its only bragging when you pull these woman with your charm, when your pay them and any asshole in the city with a dick and 300 bucks can fuck them to its really nothing to brag about LOL.Where is the "like" button?
FrankShooter87
07-13-18, 09:54
A few messages then ghost town.
very nice and intelligent. I feel like she is doing well financially, so I'm surprised to see her on here. I'm not that attracted to her, but I'm sure she would be fun.
FrankShooter87
07-13-18, 10:04
Do not see this girl.
Saw her twice. Had a good time. Then she started messaging me like crazy hundreds texts and a similar number of calls in 3-4 days. Started sending me pics of her cats. Very odd. Very attractive, but very weird. This is her 2nd account i've seen, so had probably been kicked off the site before
https://www.seeking.com/member/6add1c6a-a9ec-4dcc-9f95-25dbc173fad0
Do not see this girl.
Saw her twice. Had a good time. Then she started messaging me like crazy hundreds texts and a similar number of calls in 3-4 days. Started sending me pics of her cats. Very odd. Very attractive, but very weird. This is her 2nd account i've seen, so had probably been kicked off the site before
https://www.seeking.com/member/6add1c6a-a9ec-4dcc-9f95-25dbc173fad0Looks like her profile got shutdown. Do you have any screenshots of the pics or her profile or even her display name so we can avoid?
Thanks for the heads up!
https://www.seeking.com/member/a491db17-9ce7-4493-a805-bf88fc5411cc
My research on her turned up her being arrested for selling heroin. This will be a bad thing for some of you, and although I have a hard time believing it, a good thing for others.
Malibu1980
07-14-18, 09:45
Last night met this 22 yr old Gothic girl off SA. She was interested in our tag team since me and my brother share the profile. We talked last week and wanted 200 but wouldn't send face pics at all so I blew her off, so last night she texts out of nowhere asking what we are doing, I said up front you want to come down, 100 bucks we will do it tonight and she accepted and came down for our tag team, BBFS, into really anything except pics and videos and she was cute. All for 100 bucks. Ill try and upload the link but for some reason since this site came back up I can't upload.
A few messages then ghost town.Also under profile Zzzzxxx.
https://www.seeking.com/member/6362f7e3-a439-4444-9595-a876c4802f55
Also under profile Zzzzxxx.
https://www.seeking.com/member/6362f7e3-a439-4444-9595-a876c4802f55I remember asking her about that and she said that she had a stalker. I did not try to figure out how another profile helped that situation.
SixPacking
07-14-18, 14:51
Last night met this 22 yr old Gothic girl off SA. She was interested in our tag team since me and my brother share the profile. We talked last week and wanted 200 but wouldn't send face pics at all so I blew her off, so last night she texts out of nowhere asking what we are doing, I said up front you want to come down, 100 bucks we will do it tonight and she accepted and came down for our tag team, BBFS, into really anything except pics and videos and she was cute. All for 100 bucks. Ill try and upload the link but for some reason since this site came back up I can't upload.Just copy and paste the link that'll work fine.
Last night met this 22 yr old Gothic girl off SA. She was interested in our tag team since me and my brother share the profile. We talked last week and wanted 200 but wouldn't send face pics at all so I blew her off, so last night she texts out of nowhere asking what we are doing, I said up front you want to come down, 100 bucks we will do it tonight and she accepted and came down for our tag team, BBFS, into really anything except pics and videos and she was cute. All for 100 bucks. Ill try and upload the link but for some reason since this site came back up I can't upload.Kool sounds like you had some fun!
https://www.refinery29.com/2018/07/202426/sugar-daddy-seeking-arrangement-personal-experience
OMG on #2 - Excellent point. They always do that.I was speaking of my own experience. I am just an ordinary guy that has an ordinary dick. When I meet a woman on match.com, if she sleeps with me, she might really like me. When I meet someone from BP, CL or SA, She only wants one thing. Money.
I had that very same conversation with a girl I met last year. We talked, and I told her about my experience with providers. She pointed out, "I am not a hooker, I am not a prostitute. I just need some help now because I am in financial difficulty. " I told her a normal girl from BP will take $100 -150, and that's the amount I usually left at her desk quietly. I could be a sensitive guy. I kept seeing her for 5 months, she would talk like we have some kind of relationship. One time, I forgot to leave her money. And she texted me when I was on my way home. I checked my pocket, and I only have $80. So I drove 10 minutes back to her place and gave her those $80. She didn't say anything. When I got home, I received a few texts from her: "I don't feel like that I can see you anymore. If you respect me, you would stop by ATM and withdraw some money. How can you pay a cheap hooker $150 but only pay me $80? That my friend, is the truth of your relationship with any of those girls.
A prostitute, exchange sex with money. I respect a prostitute, work for her money, nothing to be ashamed of. But the very girl who talked down on prostitutes will value herself, our "relationship", with dollars.
Years pass by, I have my share of encounters. I don't talk with every one of these girls anymore, to me, it's a moot point. I will be respectful, be nice, and treat it like a business. Some guys here like to chat with girls, perhaps give a few directions to the lost souls. I don't. I don't consider myself better than those girls, and certainly, don't believe I can change anything in their lives other than giving them money.
FrankShooter87
07-15-18, 20:18
Looks like her profile got shutdown. Do you have any screenshots of the pics or her profile or even her display name so we can avoid?
Thanks for the heads up!I don't sorry. If I see the account again, I will make sure to screen shot and post. It's been a while, so I don't have them myself anymore. Not surprised she's taken her account down.
I was speaking of my own experience. I am just an ordinary guy that has an ordinary dick. When I meet a woman on match.com, if she sleeps with me, she might really like me. When I meet someone from BP, CL or SA, She only wants one thing. Money.
I had that very same conversation with a girl I met last year. We talked, and I told her about my experience with providers. She pointed out, "I am not a hooker, I am not a prostitute. I just need some help now because I am in financial difficulty. " I told her a normal girl from BP will take $100 -150, and that's the amount I usually left at her desk quietly. I could be a sensitive guy. I kept seeing her for 5 months, she would talk like we have some kind of relationship. One time, I forgot to leave her money. And she texted me when I was on my way home. I checked my pocket, and I only have $80. So I drove 10 minutes back to her place and gave her those $80. She didn't say anything. When I got home, I received a few texts from her: "I don't feel like that I can see you anymore. If you respect me, you would stop by ATM and withdraw some money. How can you pay a cheap hooker $150 but only pay me $80? That my friend, is the truth of your relationship with any of those girls.
A prostitute, exchange sex with money. I respect a prostitute, work for her money, nothing to be ashamed of. But the very girl who talked down on prostitutes will value herself, our "relationship", with dollars.
Years pass by, I have my share of encounters. I don't talk with every one of these girls anymore, to me, it's a moot point. I will be respectful, be nice, and treat it like a business. Some guys here like to chat with girls, perhaps give a few directions to the lost souls. I don't. I don't consider myself better than those girls, and certainly, don't believe I can change anything in their lives other than giving them money.I will say I just met one that I do like to hang with. And gives the best head I've ever had. Can you say DT? I'm not going to share. Is that wrong? We've met twice per week at $150 per visit, and it's f'ing heaven for me. I'm helping her out in other ways too. Giving her rides. Helping around the house. It's great.
Now not sure how to wind things down with the others but not too concerned about that.
I agree this is all business. And the illusion of some sort of sugar benefactor seems to be just that. An illusion. I'm sure there are guys out there who have the bucks to just drop money on girls for platonic times. But let's be real. That's not the majority of the situations on SA.
Just want to give a shout out to all the Seniors for the PMs and advice. Switched over from AMPs and am loving this lifestyle.
Paul Sweeter
07-16-18, 11:28
She's too young for me but seemed nice. She was very respectful when I said that I like older.
Lynn area,
Link:
https://www.seeking.com/member/48b7871b-c045-ff2a-5016-3d5d7f3a1721
I will say I just met one that I do like to hang with. And gives the best head I've ever had. Can you say DT? I'm not going to share. Is that wrong? We've met twice per week at $150 per visit, and it's f'ing heaven for me. I'm helping her out in other ways too. Giving her rides. Helping around the house. It's great.
Now not sure how to wind things down with the others but not too concerned about that.
I agree this is all business. And the illusion of some sort of sugar benefactor seems to be just that. An illusion. I'm sure there are guys out there who have the bucks to just drop money on girls for platonic times. But let's be real. That's not the majority of the situations on SA.
Just want to give a shout out to all the Seniors for the PMs and advice. Switched over from AMPs and am loving this lifestyle.I felt I need to change my statement in the other posts. Most of the providers mainly just want money, and money is the base of every possible "relationship".
Like in your case, if you remove money from it, you will see how quickly she stops you at the door. We all had experience that a ATF girl, once she retires, you won't hear anything back from her.
My original thoughts were referring to SA situation. And SA "relationship" is more confusing than seeing girls off BP and CL.
Paul Sweeter
07-16-18, 11:37
I've been on SA since January. I was on POF, Zoosk, Match, you name it.
SA is totally different. First of all, the quality of the ladies in the looks dept is much better. 2nd, I feel like I am the one in demand. And they are seeking from me.
On the other sites, they were acting like they only want the white knight on the white horse. F**K that.
Its not always a good experience just like there are winners and losers on the new BP sites.
As for a relationship, I think that SA has all levels. Some even say, "I am financially independent and just looking for a LTR. ".
Others come out and say (and a turn off and not necessary to say right up front), "I need help to pay my rent or I'll be kicked out" Which is too much drama.
I have found SA a good experience and especially in Florida where I am heading. There are some exceptional Latinas in their 40's that fit the role of you help me and I help you. With NSA and FWB.
I am not currently looking for LTR. If I were, I would probably go to Europe and bring a mid-forties divorced lady back here and move in with her and shut down the SA and mongering.
Having too much fun right now.
Definitely, if you don't pay, you don't PLAY on SA.
I will say I just met one that I do like to hang with. And gives the best head I've ever had. Can you say DT? I'm not going to share. Is that wrong? We've met twice per week at $150 per visit, and it's f'ing heaven for me. I'm helping her out in other ways too. Giving her rides. Helping around the house. It's great.
Now not sure how to wind things down with the others but not too concerned about that.
I agree this is all business. And the illusion of some sort of sugar benefactor seems to be just that. An illusion. I'm sure there are guys out there who have the bucks to just drop money on girls for platonic times. But let's be real. That's not the majority of the situations on SA.
Just want to give a shout out to all the Seniors for the PMs and advice. Switched over from AMPs and am loving this lifestyle.
I've been on SA since January. I was on POF, Zoosk, Match, you name it.
SA is totally different. First of all, the quality of the ladies in the looks dept is much better. 2nd, I feel like I am the one in demand. And they are seeking from me.
On the other sites, they were acting like they only want the white knight on the white horse. F**K that.
Its not always a good experience just like there are winners and losers on the new BP sites.
As for a relationship, I think that SA has all levels. Some even say, "I am financially independent and just looking for a LTR. ".
Others come out and say (and a turn off and not necessary to say right up front), "I need help to pay my rent or I'll be kicked out" Which is too much drama.
I have found SA a good experience and especially in Florida where I am heading. There are some exceptional Latinas in their 40's that fit the role of you help me and I help you. With NSA and FWB.
I am not currently looking for LTR. If I were, I would probably go to Europe and bring a mid-forties divorced lady back here and move in with her and shut down the SA and mongering.
Having too much fun right now.
Definitely, if you don't pay, you don't PLAY on SA.My friend was telling me in FL that men are in demand. Big time, there might be ladies chasing you when you get there. Maybe you need to register as a Sugar babe in that case.
RI CheeseHead
07-16-18, 13:47
Is there a SA for Dummies or anything? LOL, j / k, but really, I have no idea what to put in the profile, what to say in the 1st attempt to talk with them? Anyone have pointers? PM or post.
Is there a SA for Dummies or anything? LOL, j / k, but really, I have no idea what to put in the profile, what to say in the 1st attempt to talk with them? Anyone have pointers? PM or post.I'd say put something interesting in the profile.
Be clear about your expectations.
In the intro message say "Hi I read your profile. You're very cute. I'm looking for XYZ" I usually say I'm looking for a mutually beneficial arrangement. Ask them what they want.
I've had chicks say in their first message back "$200 per meet. No anal. " LOL.
Is there a SA for Dummies or anything? LOL, j / k, but really, I have no idea what to put in the profile, what to say in the 1st attempt to talk with them? Anyone have pointers? PM or post.When you get a chance check out the Richmond, VA SA forum. That seems to have the most information out of all the SA threads across the country. A lot of good info in there even though it doesn't apply to your location.
In my experience you will have the best luck if your schedules line up within a day or two of first starting to talk. Also if you are shooting for the younger college age type, the majority of them can't or don't want to host so have a plan for that as well.
Is there a SA for Dummies or anything? LOL, j / k, but really, I have no idea what to put in the profile, what to say in the 1st attempt to talk with them? Anyone have pointers? PM or post.There actually sort of is. Here's a link to the thread:
Sugarbaby Thread Highlights, Index, and FAQ (http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?15100-Sugarbaby-Thread-Highlights-Index-and-FAQ)
FrankShooter87
07-17-18, 13:42
When you get a chance check out the Richmond, VA SA forum. That seems to have the most information out of all the SA threads across the country. A lot of good info in there even though it doesn't apply to your location.
In my experience you will have the best luck if your schedules line up within a day or two of first starting to talk. Also if you are shooting for the younger college age type, the majority of them can't or don't want to host so have a plan for that as well.
Is there a SA for Dummies or anything? LOL, j / k, but really, I have no idea what to put in the profile, what to say in the 1st attempt to talk with them? Anyone have pointers? PM or post.I've generally had much better success when they don't ask for money for a meet up. I've had a few where I've talked them out of providing money for a meet (I'd never pay to have lunch with someone), but those girls are still too focused on getting money without putting forth effort. I also agree about the previous comment regarding schedules. If things don't line up with schedules in the first day or so, it's probably not going to work.
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GuyInTheCorner
07-21-18, 11:02
Met with two ladies. Both at my hotel.
https://www.seeking.com/member/8b3e3a79-11c8-7964-7c61-5c9c806a0449
More down to earth and real than I expected and what her pics and profile suggest. But virtually no head game and crazy paranoid about germs and sperm. Got up to wash repeatedly. Nice girl, but I don't plan to see her again.
https://www.seeking.com/member/3cd13f29-1f2f-4e2d-aeae-5f51ef8b2b82
She is for real. Funny, sweet, and genuine. Had a good time. Very talented hands and mouth. But very passive beyond that point.
Oh and there is some girl. NaughtyBby6 or something like that. Who is a total scammer. Avoid.
Met with two ladies. Both at my hotel.
https://www.seeking.com/member/8b3e3a79-11c8-7964-7c61-5c9c806a0449
More down to earth and real than I expected and what her pics and profile suggest. But virtually no head game and crazy paranoid about germs and sperm. Got up to wash repeatedly. Nice girl, but I don't plan to see her again.
https://www.seeking.com/member/3cd13f29-1f2f-4e2d-aeae-5f51ef8b2b82
She is for real. Funny, sweet, and genuine. Had a good time. Very talented hands and mouth. But very passive beyond that point.
Oh and there is some girl. NaughtyBby6 or something like that. Who is a total scammer. Avoid.What were they a $king for?
Curious about those having luck on SA. Do you put a photo on your profile? If so, is it real?
I imagine many of us may not want to post or share a real photo.
Curious about those having luck on SA. Do you put a photo on your profile? If so, is it real?
I imagine many of us may not want to post or share a real photo.Not for nothing, but if you want any success you pretty much need a picture. You can make it half your face and set others private so you decide who sees them. But as for a fake, remember how we feel when we get fakes from girls. Just my 2 cents.
I'm usually pretty careful but current SB wanted bare for whatever reason. Says she is clean. So we did it and was quite amazing. But now I'm having all of those post BBFS doubts. Is this a paternity ploy? Do I ask for paperwork? Seems kind of silly at this point. Am I over thinking this?
I'm usually pretty careful but current SB wanted bare for whatever reason. Says she is clean. So we did it and was quite amazing. But now I'm having all of those post BBFS doubts. Is this a paternity ploy? Do I ask for paperwork? Seems kind of silly at this point. Am I over thinking this?If you worth a lot, you don't want child support.
GuyInTheCorner
07-22-18, 22:23
Not for nothing, but if you want any success you pretty much need a picture. You can make it half your face and set others private so you decide who sees them. But as for a fake, remember how we feel when we get fakes from girls. Just my 2 cents.False. No pic and I do quite well. You have to be a little more proactive in reaching out to the women and you have to have enough skill with words to paint a picture for them in your profile and your opening messages.
Hi,
Anyone has seen bad_habit. We are planning to meet later this week, any info would be appreciated.
https://www.seeking.com/member/90ca7334-3fec-43ab-b3c0-227cc00016f0
Curious about those having luck on SA. Do you put a photo on your profile? If so, is it real?
I imagine many of us may not want to post or share a real photo.I've some some very good luck on SA and I have a fake, private photo in my ad. I found a pic of someone from another country that looks very similar to me but is not a direct face pic. Anyone who knows me would know the photo is not of me. Anyone getting to know me, once the conversation moves to txt or kik, I send a real face pic. No one has complained about the discrepancy in photos yet.
I Is this a paternity ploy?
Very likely.
Whatever you do DO NOT COME IN HER, and if kids arent in your future, get snipped.
SixPacking
07-23-18, 18:15
False. No pic and I do quite well. You have to be a little more proactive in reaching out to the women and you have to have enough skill with words to paint a picture for them in your profile and your opening messages.Are you saying that you have no public pic, no private pic and you are scoring girls without texting / Kik / Snap etc a pic of yourself prior to meeting them?
Banjomania
07-23-18, 23:15
Are you saying that you have no public pic, no private pic and you are scoring girls without texting / Kik / Snap etc a pic of yourself prior to meeting them?I have one private pic on SA that is quite distant. Often they ask me to upload more pics and then I say I won't but if we exchange numbers I can text them. That usually gets the number and you are off to the races.
GuyInTheCorner
07-23-18, 23:31
Are you saying that you have no public pic, no private pic and you are scoring girls without texting / Kik / Snap etc a pic of yourself prior to meeting them?No. I share once we get to text or kik. I'm just saying you don't need one on the site.
Very likely.
Whatever you do DO NOT COME IN HER, and if kids arent in your future, get snipped.Well crap I've now come inside her five times. The good news is she doesn't know any info about me besides KIK. I didn't realize there were paternity scans out there. Seems like a long con.
SixPacking
07-24-18, 21:27
No. I share once we get to text or kik. I'm just saying you don't need one on the site.I have my pics on private. One a girl views them I snatch them back if she does not respond basically right away. My opinion is that I still have my pics once I unshare with her unless she is super savvy and she saves them immediately.
Not judging but with your method you can't get your pics back. I will say that what you are doing does intrigue me because is forces her to give a number.
Longjblues
07-25-18, 00:08
The proverbial horse is out of the barn!! Post BBFS doubts?
Well crap I've now come inside her five times. The good news is she doesn't know any info about me besides KIK. I didn't realize there were paternity scams out there. Seems like a long con.
I'm usually pretty careful but current SB wanted bare for whatever reason. Says she is clean. So we did it and was quite amazing. But now I'm having all of those post BBFS doubts. Is this a paternity ploy? Do I ask for paperwork? Seems kind of silly at this point. Am I over thinking this?
Remember her? Now on SB using the same line 'friends get 500-1000 per meet'. Got it down to a manageable $ but no hosting either side so had to be hotel. That's OK but wanted to see the goods first. She won't do dinner or even a lunch for discretion. Got some photos but they might be a bit older although one shows a fairly attractive woman. All in all might be small chested and no waistline, can't be sure but definitely desirable. She initiated the first contact, just as before, and immediately knew her spiel. Might be ok if you can host but just wasn't comfortable fronting a room without knowing for sure she'd show. She doesn't have a credit card so couldn't reimburse her if she booked. That was tough to get around, has a job, college educated, car, wanted hefty allowance, and no credit card. Maybe shouldn't be so cautious but just didn't satisfy my vetting. Probably just me. Welcome your experience with her if any. Stay safe!
Seems like a long con.Yeah, 18 years of payments on your part.
Well crap I've now come inside her five times. The good news is she doesn't know any info about me besides KIK. I didn't realize there were paternity scans out there. Seems like a long con.Don't know how good that news is. Kik isn't impregnable (LOL), and she can get a lawyer to subpoena any records on there.
How can I send an Order to Kik? Law Enforcement Resource Center (https://lawenforcement.kik.com/hc/en-us/articles/204142145-How-can-I-send-an-Order-to-Kik-)
Wild Walleye
07-26-18, 09:59
Well crap I've now come inside her five times. The good news is she doesn't know any info about me besides KIK. I didn't realize there were paternity scans out there. Seems like a long con.I'm just waiting for someone to pull a paternity scam on me. I guess the doctor who performed the vasectomy would have to provide an affidavit.
OkWhatever
07-27-18, 19:01
I haven't had much luck on SA recently. Anyway, had this one come over. When she showed up, I wasn't even sure it was the same woman. She looked "OK", but was dressed very casual looked unkempt. The little head took over, so I went with it. We talked for a bit and she has a very sad background which I won't get into here. BBBJ and CFS $.20. She didn't smell good either.
https://www.seeking.com/member/02493e2d-0f91-4984-a83c-d0cd72f46f84
I met her for a quick talk, and she is lovely, normal, and all around interesting. Don't know what she's hoping to charge.
Hi,
Anyone has seen bad_habit. We are planning to meet later this week, any info would be appreciated.
https://www.seeking.com/member/90ca7334-3fec-43ab-b3c0-227cc00016f0
Just switched over to cc since they no longer take paypal. And they required name, etc. I had previously used a ghost email account with a fake name. Used a $100 prepaid debit that I get as a rewards for my spending so they can't rebill in my 30 days.
Downtown Boy
07-28-18, 18:13
I'm about to join this site because my under-the-radar girls are running out and there's only a few girls posting on Backpage problem with Backpage is there Junkies hosting out of trap houses and I can't get caught up in that my question is a lot of girls on seeking Arrangements have tattoos in their profile what the hell does that even mean? Are they looking for guys with tattoos?
I met her for a quick talk, and she is lovely, normal, and all around interesting. Don't know what she's hoping to charge.Did you ever end up with FC. We met and she didn't exchanged number yet.
Downtown Boy
07-29-18, 09:29
Did you ever end up with FC. We met and she didn't exchanged number yet.This is why I haven't paid seeking arrangements website yet because I'm afraid that a lot of girls ask for money to meet for a dinner date with no intentions of having sex they just do this probably to hundreds of guys and make a lot of money I'm not saying all the girls do this but you get the point.
My first attempt to talk to a chick on there. Dingbat wants $500 to meet every time "until we both know we're a good fit" then monthly 800 minimum. For which she'll see you 3 times during said month. For 800 that is, maybe if you go 1 k she'll see you 4. She's really hot (if the pics are real of course) but 500 is madness to me.
https://www.seeking.com/member/71fb341b-2e9c-4ef8-b269-a25fc33ff332
My first attempt to talk to a chick on there. Dingbat wants $500 to meet every time "until we both know we're a good fit" then monthly 800 minimum. For which she'll see you 3 times during said month. For 800 that is, maybe if you go 1 k she'll see you 4. She's really hot (if the pics are real of course) but 500 is madness to me.
https://www.seeking.com/member/71fb341b-2e9c-4ef8-b269-a25fc33ff332800/3 = 266 so offer less and settle on something in that range. If you do end up with 800 per Month and she will meet 3 legit Times that's not terrible. You can find lower cost options though. I would just stay friendly make your offer and if she balks then say too bad this isn't going to work out because I really like you. She may come back to you later after she strikes out!
This one is a total headcase. Wants a monthly allowance established before we even met. Then when I said no let's discuss PPM. She then says she is not a prostitute. Ignored her and then she says she will meet for $500. Okay so you don't want to be treated like a prostitute but you'll take $500 per date (like a prostitute). As if the amount per meet makes you any different. I wrote a long response outlining the hypocrisy of her stance and she basically said all men are assholes. She's pushy, insulting, etc. I'd say run away from her.
https://www.seeking.com/member/061f5c38-175b-4b22-9a5c-a6f9f73e1969
Had another profile "Exotic Lover101". But got banned or suspended.
This one is a total headcase. Wants a monthly allowance established before we even met. Then when I said no let's discuss PPM. She then says she is not a prostitute. Ignored her and then she says she will meet for $500. Okay so you don't want to be treated like a prostitute but you'll take $500 per date (like a prostitute). As if the amount per meet makes you any different. I wrote a long response outlining the hypocrisy of her stance and she basically said all men are assholes. She's pushy, insulting, etc. I'd say run away from her.
https://www.seeking.com/member/061f5c38-175b-4b22-9a5c-a6f9f73e1969
Had another profile "Exotic Lover101". But got banned or suspended."I tell them the old joke about the man who asks a girl if she will sleep with him for a million dollars. Of course, she says yes. He then offers her two dollars and she slaps his face, saying, 'What do you think I am?' He answers, 'I know what you are. We are just haggling over the price. '.
https://quoteinvestigator.com/2012/03/07/haggling/
Longjblues
08-01-18, 23:41
Good report from NH. Ladies are mostly just over the nh / ma border.
I've had some good luck on SA. Here are a few worth checking out if you are on the site. I didn't have to take any of them out to lunch or dinner first. Treat them well and with respect and you will be well rewarded.
https://www.seeking.com/member/599d05db-1fdd-4ebf-b922-5b9adf9a1e56
This girl has a good head game, BBBJCIM. I've met her a few times at her apartment. More is on the menu, but I have not explored that. $.
https://www.seeking.com/member/46083804-77bf-4f22-b808-0da9603cec13
I met her at her apartment. Very friendly girl, likes to please. BBBJ and FS available. She wants more of a relationship than an arrangement. Depending on the time you want to put in, no cost to $$.
https://www.seeking.com/member/bf306028-5f5d-48bc-aecf-a1ca29d72f72
Cute girl, met her once for a car date. It was shark week, so only got BBBJCIMSW. Very good head game, more is on the menu. $.
https://www.seeking.com/member/968d0243-f268-477b-93a8-93bcd698c4ae
Met her a couple of times. She is into some kinky things. Has an open relationship with her partner and he likes to get pictures while she doing her thing. Everything on the menu. $$.
https://www.seeking.com/member/f89f6d8d-31de-49f3-bca3-15d5576937ab
Met this girl at a hotel, she drives for Uber and has a flexible schedule. BBBJ and CFS $$.
https://www.seeking.com/member/4072a439-c8d9-42e6-b66c-f568785789a7
This woman has amazing long legs. She can't host but is very sensual, used to be a stripper. BBBJ and CFS is all I've tried. $$.
I don't have any additional contact information for these woman.
Enjoy.
Medford Guy
08-02-18, 09:20
Hey gents, anyone have experience with Kelly / Bella out of Malden?
She has agreed to BBFSCIP and BBFSCIA. Just wanted to get any info someone has that has visited her.
https://www.seeking.com/member/bd747b47-75f1-405b-94d2-cbbae047f732
Thanks. Medford Guy.
Hey gents, anyone have experience with Kelly / Bella out of Malden?
She has agreed to BBFSCIP and BBFSCIA. Just wanted to get any info someone has that has visited her.
https://www.seeking.com/member/bd747b47-75f1-405b-94d2-cbbae047f732
Thanks. Medford Guy.She is nice fun to be with. You won't go wrong.
Any intel on this one? Out of Providence. Seems super desperate for cash.
https://www.seeking.com/member/81dfd852-1c81-469c-bae6-fa8c8ff85b3a
SixPacking
08-02-18, 13:36
Any intel on this one? Out of Providence. Seems super desperate for cash.
https://www.seeking.com/member/81dfd852-1c81-469c-bae6-fa8c8ff85b3aWas set up to meet with her a couple months ago after two weeks of texting. Menu was wide open including bare, she was hosting and things were great including texting the evening before. Morning of I head down south and text her I have left. Nothing. Get halfway there and still nothing so I turned around. Days later she texts and says I gave her a bad vibe, WTF. Looked back thru our texts and and no red flags, too bad.
Medford Guy
08-02-18, 13:49
She is nice fun to be with. You won't go wrong.Thanks, appreciate the feedback. She gives off a very friendly vibe. Do you recall the donation?
Her pics are an accurate reflection. Safe, clean, decent incall. Can be a little apprehensive and tends to gold plate her rates. You should be able to negotiate down significantly. Tends to not want to host for the first meeting, but ok thereafter. And you can probably twist her arm into hosting the first meeting as well.
Hey gents, anyone have experience with Kelly / Bella out of Malden?
She has agreed to BBFSCIP and BBFSCIA. Just wanted to get any info someone has that has visited her.
https://www.seeking.com/member/bd747b47-75f1-405b-94d2-cbbae047f732
Thanks. Medford Guy.
Medford Guy
08-03-18, 15:58
Her pics are an accurate reflection. Safe, clean, decent incall. Can be a little apprehensive and tends to gold plate her rates. You should be able to negotiate down significantly. Tends to not want to host for the first meeting, but ok thereafter. And you can probably twist her arm into hosting the first meeting as well.Glennie, thanks for the feedback. She definitely has GPS, but hope to get that down. Look forward to a fun time on Saturday.
Hey gents, anyone have experience with Kelly / Bella out of Malden?
She has agreed to BBFSCIP and BBFSCIA. Just wanted to get any info someone has that has visited her.
https://www.seeking.com/member/bd747b47-75f1-405b-94d2-cbbae047f732
Thanks. Medford Guy.She is friendly but not attractive.
You will get everything you want on the cheap.
I probably won't go back however.
If anyone has a contact of someone who can host I can share some of my old friends.
I've been off the site for a while.
Glennie, thanks for the feedback. She definitely has GPS, but hope to get that down. Look forward to a fun time on Saturday.How the hell can that dinosaur have GPS? She should be free at most.
GuyInTheCorner
08-04-18, 10:28
How the hell can that dinosaur have GPS? She should be free at most.Seriously. She should be paying me.
LordOfThEeyes
08-05-18, 11:34
So it seems that a lot of you have success with this site. My question is. What does your profile say. Short and sweet or elaborate. I'm looking to make a splash. But not super splash because I'm not daddy whorebucks LOL.
So it seems that a lot of you have success with this site. My question is. What does your profile say. Short and sweet or elaborate. I'm looking to make a splash. But not super splash because I'm not daddy whorebucks LOL.See post 522 & 523 for some ideas. I'm explicit as hell in describing what I want and have had a great hit rate. Beware of GPS!!
Hey gents, anyone have experience with Kelly / Bella out of Malden?
She has agreed to BBFSCIP and BBFSCIA. Just wanted to get any info someone has that has visited her.
https://www.seeking.com/member/bd747b47-75f1-405b-94d2-cbbae047f732
Thanks. Medford Guy.That's kelly, Paulsweet here first mentioned about her. I have met her, friendly gal.
Last night met this 22 yr old Gothic girl off SA. She was interested in our tag team since me and my brother share the profile. We talked last week and wanted 200 but wouldn't send face pics at all so I blew her off, so last night she texts out of nowhere asking what we are doing, I said up front you want to come down, 100 bucks we will do it tonight and she accepted and came down for our tag team, BBFS, into really anything except pics and videos and she was cute. All for 100 bucks. Ill try and upload the link but for some reason since this site came back up I can't upload.I love Goth girls, would love her contact, if you wouldn't mind.
CandyMan555
08-05-18, 19:28
https://www.seeking.com/member/a838eee1-e069-d8a7-a26c-84a7b7f0a320
Thanks CM.
Medford Guy
08-05-18, 21:39
That's kelly, Paulsweet here first mentioned about her. I have met her, friendly gal.Very nice woman and delivered on everything discussed. No rush, good time.
LordOfThEeyes
08-06-18, 15:36
Not sure if we went over this. But is t true you need a premium membership to view messages?
KingOfFours
08-06-18, 16:06
Not sure if we went over this. But is t true you need a premium membership to view messages?Yes, on SA, it CERTAINLY IS, unfortunately true! That is how they justify their insane prices! And I'm NOT a current paying member! : (And I'm done "paying my dues" by subscribiing to these overpriced Sugar Baby sites!
I DO, however, have 100% certain intel (my own!) for a full GFE, slam dunk bareback cum in pussy hoe who I've inseminated several times, who used to be a "massage girl" but is now on SA. Former stripper. She's a hot MILF with substantial bolt-ons. I've got plenty of face, body, and cunnt pictures of her. She gets 150/200, incall. But I'm not putting those pics here. Not this time! But I've never heard of her ever refusing bareback services for anybody. And I know of plenty dudes besides myself who easily got ultra-GFE service if they wanted it.
But I have a dilemma. Long story short, I am trying to reach a particular girl, who I have intel for, and who happens to live very close to me. She is on SA, but I can't communicate with her now, because I'd need to pay 90 more fucking dollars just to send a goddam message!
So here's what I'm offering: If you are a paying member, please just chat up this particular girl, and get me her email or her number? I do have many other under the radar leads for you, in addition to the one above, that I've myself inseminated. So if you are an SA member and wouldn't mind helping each other out, please contact me privately!
Was chatting up this one. We shared pics and then she just full on blocked me.
https://www.seeking.com/member/45dab529-cbb6-414d-80c6-61e8f9c3e9b0
33 years old from Marshfield. Seemed cool?
I just opened an account with them. How many messages can a free member send. I sent a few and it reached the limit. Is the limit per day or week, how does it work?
Thanks,
-BH.
I just opened an account with them. How many messages can a free member send. I sent a few and it reached the limit. Is the limit per day or week, how does it work?
Thanks,
-BH.Even if you send them.
I don't think you will be able to read them.
Without a premium membership.
I just opened an account with them. How many messages can a free member send. I sent a few and it reached the limit. Is the limit per day or week, how does it work?
Thanks,
-BH.I think you can send 5, but no more, and you can't read any replies without paying.
I think you can send 5, but no more, and you can't read any replies without paying.The site is amazing, but 90 per month, wow! To their credit I have to say that the women know that the guys who contact them are not bums or fakes. I will not pay but the concept makes sense.
-BH.
FarFarAway
08-07-18, 13:45
The site is amazing, but 90 per month, wow! To their credit I have to say that the women know that the guys who contact them are not bums or fakes. I will not pay but the concept makes sense.
-BH.If you aren't willing to pay $90 for a month of immersion in limitless amounts of quality pussy, that you will likely be paying 2-3 per for, you cannot afford sugaring.
SixPacking
08-08-18, 10:21
Last night met this 22 yr old Gothic girl off SA. She was interested in our tag team since me and my brother share the profile. We talked last week and wanted 200 but wouldn't send face pics at all so I blew her off, so last night she texts out of nowhere asking what we are doing, I said up front you want to come down, 100 bucks we will do it tonight and she accepted and came down for our tag team, BBFS, into really anything except pics and videos and she was cute. All for 100 bucks. Ill try and upload the link but for some reason since this site came back up I can't upload.Are you ever going to post the link to the Goth girls profile?
Are you ever going to post the link to the Goth girls profile?Second this message.
BostonMan781
08-08-18, 16:37
Dude just pay 90 bucks. And send a bunch of messages and get numbers it lasts me a while till I need a membership later on. Stop being so cheap.
Malibu1980
08-08-18, 16:52
Are you ever going to post the link to the Goth girls profile?I met her a month ago and people are still looking for her link, I've moved on, she's like 10 girls ago so I suggest you do the same and move on LOL.
Downtown Boy
08-08-18, 16:59
I see a lot of ads that say online only what the hell does that mean? Are these just cam girls looking to make money?
I see a lot of ads that say online only what the hell does that mean? Are these just cam girls looking to make money?It means they do not want to meet you, they just want to talk with you online and maybe send you some pictures.
SO you pay them for their sparkling personality and wealth of life experience.
Sounds like a fair deal, no?
I see a lot of ads that say online only what the hell does that mean? Are these just cam girls looking to make money?Yup. They want to make videos and send pics and expect you to pay them hundreds to do it. Plenty of suckers out there.
If you are rich, seeking arrangement is your playground. It gathered the best pusses that you can possibly get in the area for you. The website is a "sugar-coated" escort website. Funny how, some girls will tell you they just want to travel around, and some guys will enjoy just the company but not require sex. Any guy with a functioning dick will see through that crap. The concept of sugaring is not new, I've first heard of it, was 20 years ago. A friend of mine, 7 digits income, he had some gorgeous women under his "payroll". I remember he told me: Kid, you need to learn how to get money, not the pussy. Pusses are candy in a jar when you have money.
So far I like some women I see on SA. If you have money, enjoy.
Another question. How do you protect your privacy paying with your credit card? Or maybe a gift card can be used. How do you explain your SO a charge from SA on your credit card statement?
-BH.
Another question. How do you protect your privacy paying with your credit card? Or maybe a gift card can be used. How do you explain your SO a charge from SA on your credit card statement?
-BH.Go buy a prepaid visa card.
Get seperate accounts from your wife.
FarFarAway
08-09-18, 11:45
Another question. How do you protect your privacy paying with your credit card? Or maybe a gift card can be used. How do you explain your SO a charge from SA on your credit card statement?
-BH.Answering two questions in this thread -.
The online only girls are violating the terms of service, report them.
To learn EVERYTHING you need to know about being in the sugar bowl, go to the Richmond VA thread, and its archive.
SouthShoreAlex
08-09-18, 15:53
Another question. How do you protect your privacy paying with your credit card? Or maybe a gift card can be used. How do you explain your SO a charge from SA on your credit card statement?
-BH.Download the app on your burner, and pay with google play.
Another question. How do you protect your privacy paying with your credit card? Or maybe a gift card can be used. How do you explain your SO a charge from SA on your credit card statement?
-BH.Don't use your real credit card. SA or WYP could leak your info easily. prepaid credit card will be the best choice.
I will be wading back into this site and hope to meet at least a couple of open minded, non-pro college girls into having fun and open minded in bed.
Thinking once school is back, lots of new girls in town that there will be a lot of them on SA.
I will be wading back into this site and hope to meet at least a couple of open minded, non-pro college girls into having fun and open minded in bed.
Thinking once school is back, lots of new girls in town that there will be a lot of them on SA.Not really, the students I communicated with were GPS a lot. So I am going to let the membership lapse for now.
Malibu1980
08-09-18, 23:14
Not really, the students I communicated with were GPS a lot. So I am going to let the membership lapse for now.What college girls you talking to, I've met plenty for 100 or less. Alot start out having gps but can be talked down.
Not really, the students I communicated with were GPS a lot. So I am going to let the membership lapse for now.You don't think October / November things will be better on SA as far as the college girls go?
I understand that too many of them think from reading forums and articles written by sugar babies that we are all desperate and willing to pay them for.
Talking with us.
Have to believe that many are more realistic than that or am I being naive?
Medford Guy
08-10-18, 09:26
Hooked up with MissyX76 at her place in Mendon. If you don't like cigarette smoke and cat box smells find another. Sweet girl who needed some help and was in a tough bind. Happy to oblige, although should have burned my clothes when I was done due to the cigarette and 420 smell. Great head game, never mentioned donation so went with a number I thought was fair and she didn't complain (this was after the deed, not before). Very playful, open to just about anything and has already pinged me looking for a return visit. Only been a few days since I saw her.https://www.seeking.com/member/85cbdbf8-047b-488b-8f4f-258500707f53
Hey guys, anyone in the Mendon area reach out to Melissa. She's in a bind and could use a little help.
What college girls you talking to, I've met plenty for 100 or less. Alot start out having gps but can be talked down.
You don't think October / November things will be better on SA as far as the college girls go?
I understand that too many of them think from reading forums and articles written by sugar babies that we are all desperate and willing to pay them for.
Talking with us.
Have to believe that many are more realistic than that or am I being naive?I haven't tried to talk down the price, If the number is out of my range, I just move on. And I avoid girls ask for money for the first meet or mentioned allowance.
And why do I get favored from Ukraine, are they for real?
https://www.seeking.com/member/0e23b2de-8c10-6ee9-6b03-3f24027e2b80
Have anyone met her yet? She didn't reply my message but she looks good.
Longjblues
08-10-18, 10:53
I tried to engage her in conversation without any luck, about 9 months ago. I inquired if discreet affair or mutually beneficial friendship align with her interests / expectation, with no response.
Pics are very nice, and she is very convenient for me, if she is actually in Peab. My guess is that she wants to be paid / gifted for being platonically friendly to you, and be your arm candy "for dinner and travel".
https://www.seeking.com/member/0e23b2de-8c10-6ee9-6b03-3f24027e2b80
Have anyone met her yet? She didn't reply my message but she looks good.
I tried to engage her in conversation without any luck, about 9 months ago. I inquired if discreet affair or mutually beneficial friendship align with her interests / expectation, with no response.
Pics are very nice, and she is very convenient for me, if she is actually in Peab. My guess is that she wants to be paid / gifted for being platonically friendly to you, and be your arm candy "for dinner and travel".She's been a member since April 14th, 2014, that tells you something right their (either GPS or waiting for a Unicorn, which we all know don't exist).
She also states she's a bartender in downtown historic Salem, can't be that hard to actually find and meet, and see what her story is, hard to ignore you in person I wouldn't get too fixated on any one of these women, if they don't respond, there are plenty of others.
Thank you guys for answering my other questions, but unfortunately I have another one.
I hate to be dishonest with any provider, just not my style, but after reading some posts I suspect that you lose 80% of potential connections if you are married. I do not want to drop 90 and not be able to enjoy the experience to the fullest. Should I say not-married? Also does it matter what income I show? Should I avoid using my real town, just Boston for privacy. Does it matter if I have a fake pic or most guys do not use any? Does my age matter?
If I decide to go in all the way I would like to know all the tricks.
Thanks again,
-BH.
Wow man. Building your mongering career on a bedrock of honesty? I do admire you for that. But I also wonder how successful that will be. Please keep us posted on this admirable experiment.
Thank you guys for answering my other questions, but unfortunately I have another one.
I hate to be dishonest with any provider, just not my style, but after reading some posts I suspect that you lose 80% of potential connections if you are married. I do not want to drop 90 and not be able to enjoy the experience to the fullest. Should I say not-married? Also does it matter what income I show? Should I avoid using my real town, just Boston for privacy. Does it matter if I have a fake pic or most guys do not use any? Does my age matter?
If I decide to go in all the way I would like to know all the tricks.
Thanks again,
-BH.
KingOfFours
08-11-18, 11:14
If you aren't willing to pay $90 for a month of immersion in limitless amounts of quality pussy, that you will likely be paying 2-3 per for, you cannot afford sugaring.Some of us have absolutely ZERO interest in "sugaring", sir. There are, nevertheless, some real hoes on SA who will meet up for sex with random strangers like any escort would, for a one-shot deal for sex, just like any escort would. In fact, some I indeed recognized as escorts who are, or were, advertising. And there is one ultra-GFE escort on there near Providence who I've inseminated numerous times for 150/200. I personally prefer to fuck them and pay them to leave. I'm not at all intersted in "sugaring" them. So I'm not willing to pay 90 bucks in order to send just a few messages to those precious few that just want to meet up and fuck an anonymous stranger, with no bullshit.
But I am willing to share the contact info and pics if I have them, for the various local bareback full service escorts I know, if anyone who is a paying SA member, wants to give me some contact info for some of the girls that they know, who are HOES on there, and who are willing to meet up for an hour of bareback sex, without drama. I'm surely willing to pay 200 for those, if they will fuck on the first date, and if its bareback. But with their phone number or email, please--NOT just the SA profile! .
Wow man. Building your mongering career on a bedrock of honesty? I do admire you for that. But I also wonder how successful that will be. Please keep us posted on this admirable experiment.I never give them my number or real name, but I do not invent my biography, if they ask me about my family situation or work I always tell them the way it is. I do not consider it honesty, I just communicate with them like I do with anybody else. But this site is different, to get your money worth you need to represent yourself "properly".
-BH.
BostonMan781
08-11-18, 14:17
I constantly have luck on this site. Met a new 21 year old girl, pretty hot. I don't pay outrageous prices at all. I negotiated $40 an hour to hangout with me. For like 4 hours. You guys just don't do it right.
Member #6503
08-11-18, 15:02
I constantly have luck on this site. Met a new 21 year old girl, pretty hot. I don't pay outrageous prices at all. I negotiated $40 an hour to hangout with me. For like 4 hours. You guys just don't do it right.The time commitment is the issue for me. Like King I have no interest in sugaring. I suspect many of us. Don't have the time and aren't in the situation where we even could dedicate chunks of time to these girls.
The time commitment is the issue for me. Like King I have no interest in sugaring. I suspect many of us. Don't have the time and aren't in the situation where we even could dedicate chunks of time to these girls.I assume that a large percentage of these girls will just fuck for a fee. I recognize some faces there from the past. For the most part "sugaring" is just a fancy word for "pay for play". Most of the girls who hope to find a real wealthy sugar daddy will be disappointed. Most of our dreams as well as theirs will never materialized.
-BH.
FarFarAway
08-12-18, 11:42
I assume that a large percentage of these girls will just fuck for a fee. I recognize some faces there from the past. For the most part "sugaring" is just a fancy word for "pay for play". Most of the girls who hope to find a real wealthy sugar daddy will be disappointed. Most of our dreams as well as theirs will never materialized.
-BH.You guys can play the way you want. Seeking is a site that does permit those of us who want real arrangements to find them. If there is too great an influx of escorts to the site, it will get bashed by FOSTA the same way CL and BP did. So, please don't screw it up for those of us who can get what we need here. Get yourself another safe, outside the US site for escorts.
Now, I am not holier than thou. I will be in your fair city Friday, and I am contacting gals left and right on Seeking. I make it clear I am a traveler, so it is most likely these will be 1-night stands, but it is also true there is much business to be done in Boston and I might be back, so they don't have to think of themselves as escorts, just on a 'delayed' ongoing arrangement. LOL.
It is interesting to me that many girls in Boston say they aren't interested in married guys. They have more morals than those in southern California, where it mostly doesn't matter, I guess. HA.
Longjblues
08-13-18, 07:47
Anyone have info or experience with 5'6, athletic body, in her 30's, MILF on SA.
Nice pics. Can't get link right now. Pm or post. Any info appreciated.
SpecialOne8
08-13-18, 08:11
ALL of these sites, whether SA, AL, Established Gentlemen, etc, all have a certain number of pros that advertise in there. Why wouldn't they? There is little or no enforcement of policies that would restrict such use, so they do. I have gandered upon them and found that a large minority of women there are also UTRs on USA, so there you have it. My BFF and fellow "domesticated" male has been seeing three young ladies he found on EG more than a year ago. He is convinced NONE of them are UTRs. I don't want to burst his bubble, so I keep it to myself that two of them are trolling on USA. You'd think for a gal having her rent paid in a decent apartment complex located in a yuppy part of town, taken to nice lunches and dinners, not to mention nice furniture and weekends on the beach in 5-star resorts would be enough to be a one-SD kind of girl, but apparently not. The amount of money he would save by simply seeing one or two pros or UTRs would curl your toes! But hey, it's only money, right?
There is no honor amongst thieves. As long as you go into such arrangements with your eyes wide open, it's no problem. It's when you look at the same "arrangement" through rose-covered glasses that can cause angst.
You guys can play the way you want. Seeking is a site that does permit those of us who want real arrangements to find them. If there is too great an influx of escorts to the site, it will get bashed by FOSTA the same way CL and BP did. So, please don't screw it up for those of us who can get what we need here. Get yourself another safe, outside the US site for escorts.
Now, I am not holier than thou. I will be in your fair city Friday, and I am contacting gals left and right on Seeking. I make it clear I am a traveler, so it is most likely these will be 1-night stands, but it is also true there is much business to be done in Boston and I might be back, so they don't have to think of themselves as escorts, just on a 'delayed' ongoing arrangement. LOL.
It is interesting to me that many girls in Boston say they aren't interested in married guys. They have more morals than those in southern California, where it mostly doesn't matter, I guess. HA.
Longjblues
08-13-18, 09:11
I haven't had very good luck or experiences in Lynn, but I am forever curious. Below is a screenshot of her profile.
Anyone have info or experience with 5'6, athletic body, in her 30's, MILF on SA.
Nice pics. Can't get link right now. Pm or post. Any info appreciated.
If you not a paying member then the initial messages they let you send, the girls cannot read them, they just receive a generic message that you are interested. Also I noticed that only 25% of the ladies who post there are actually visiting the site, majority of them already gave up. Still Boston has a lot of very active and hopeful ladies, but in the suburbs only a few who are still active. I think their dream of finding a real Sugar Daddy is very rarely realized.
-BH.
ALL of these sites, whether SA, AL, Established Gentlemen, etc, all have a certain number of pros that advertise in there. Why wouldn't they? There is little or no enforcement of policies that would restrict such use, so they do. I have gandered upon them and found that a large minority of women there are also UTRs on USA, so there you have it. My BFF and fellow "domesticated" male has been seeing three young ladies he found on EG more than a year ago. He is convinced NONE of them are UTRs. I don't want to burst his bubble, so I keep it to myself that two of them are trolling on USA. You'd think for a gal having her rent paid in a decent apartment complex located in a yuppy part of town, taken to nice lunches and dinners, not to mention nice furniture and weekends on the beach in 5-star resorts would be enough to be a one-SD kind of girl, but apparently not. The amount of money he would save by simply seeing one or two pros or UTRs would curl your toes! But hey, it's only money, right?
There is no honor amongst thieves. As long as you go into such arrangements with your eyes wide open, it's no problem. It's when you look at the same "arrangement" through rose-covered glasses that can cause angst." large minority" ?
I have her number and FB. I communicated with her 6 months ago. She is in Natick, agreed to a car date BBBJ for 50, but I never went to see her, just do like car dates. She was reviewed here once and also recommended by a trusted senior.
https://www.seeking.com/member/5eb28b14-31cc-46b2-af0f-6c7b5b718c91
-BH.
I have her number and FB. I communicated with her 6 months ago. She is in Natick, agreed to a car date BBBJ for 50, but I never went to see her, just do like car dates. She was reviewed here once and also recommended by a trusted senior.
https://www.seeking.com/member/5eb28b14-31cc-46b2-af0f-6c7b5b718c91
-BH.Oh yea, I remember her too. Didn't Tu Eres talk about her?
Banjomania
08-14-18, 23:10
Had a top ten of all time encounter today with a graduate student off SA. Unfortunately, I cannot share her digits or any other information at her request, but I just share this for those who are SA doubters. It takes energy and commitment to succeed on SA, but when you do the rewards are often off the charts. I would say that at least four of my top ten lifetime experiences are from SA at this point. This woman today was a uniquely intelligent and lovely friend. We had lunch once previously with no sex. Today was all sex at lunch time. Two hours of joy for all. I am sure I will get some gripes about not sharing, but those of you who do great on SA will understand.
BostonMan781
08-15-18, 10:10
"I'm sorry for the inconvenience. Unfortunately, we have permanently removed your account and we are unable to reinstate it. We are also unable to reply to you again or disclose further details. Please read our FAQs for further information.
You have been permanently banned from SeekingArrangement and are not allowed to access the website again. Future attempts to access the site will be considered a violation of our Terms of Use. ".
Well I'm banned for life, I've tried to find out why and they won't tell me.
"I'm sorry for the inconvenience. Unfortunately, we have permanently removed your account and we are unable to reinstate it. We are also unable to reply to you again or disclose further details. Please read our FAQs for further information.
You have been permanently banned from SeekingArrangement and are not allowed to access the website again. Future attempts to access the site will be considered a violation of our Terms of Use. ".
Well I'm banned for life, I've tried to find out why and they won't tell me.Come on now, we're not some dumb girls here. While they might not tell you why, I'll bet top dollars you know exactly why you were banned.
Had a top ten of all time encounter today with a graduate student off SA. Unfortunately, I cannot share her digits or any other information at her request, but I just share this for those who are SA doubters. It takes energy and commitment to succeed on SA, but when you do the rewards are often off the charts. I would say that at least four of my top ten lifetime experiences are from SA at this point. This woman today was a uniquely intelligent and lovely friend. We had lunch once previously with no sex. Today was all sex at lunch time. Two hours of joy for all. I am sure I will get some gripes about not sharing, but those of you who do great on SA will understand.You could post link to her page as if we found her on the site.
I know why. PM me if interested in discussing. It's a good idea to understand the SOP on SA.
Come on now, we're not some dumb girls here. While they might not tell you why, I'll bet top dollars you know exactly why you were banned.
Longjblues
08-15-18, 15:16
Not asking for Profile Name, just tell us the City / town she is listed under on SA. If its Boston, never mind.
Pleas don't make us beggggggggg! You won't be violating your promise to her, by just the city / town name.
Had a top ten of all time encounter today with a graduate student off SA. Unfortunately, I cannot share her digits or any other information at her request, but I just share this for those who are SA doubters. It takes energy and commitment to succeed on SA, but when you do the rewards are often off the charts. I would say that at least four of my top ten lifetime experiences are from SA at this point. This woman today was a uniquely intelligent and lovely friend. We had lunch once previously with no sex. Today was all sex at lunch time. Two hours of joy for all. I am sure I will get some gripes about not sharing, but those of you who do great on SA will understand.
BostonMan781
08-15-18, 20:01
Come on now, we're not some dumb girls here. While they might not tell you why, I'll bet top dollars you know exactly why you were banned.I've never paid a girl for sex on SA. I've only offered girls cash for cuddling in underwear.
Although it's still early days for me on SA, this hasn't been my experience. In any case, whether or not an experience is an all time top ten should not be determined while in the glow of that experience, but rather after much time has passed. My top ten have been via TER / BP etc. I don't see that changing overnight.
Had a top ten of all time encounter today with a graduate student off SA. Unfortunately, I cannot share her digits or any other information at her request, but I just share this for those who are SA doubters. It takes energy and commitment to succeed on SA, but when you do the rewards are often off the charts. I would say that at least four of my top ten lifetime experiences are from SA at this point. This woman today was a uniquely intelligent and lovely friend. We had lunch once previously with no sex. Today was all sex at lunch time. Two hours of joy for all. I am sure I will get some gripes about not sharing, but those of you who do great on SA will understand.
"I'm sorry for the inconvenience. Unfortunately, we have permanently removed your account and we are unable to reinstate it. We are also unable to reply to you again or disclose further details. Please read our FAQs for further information.
You have been permanently banned from SeekingArrangement and are not allowed to access the website again. Future attempts to access the site will be considered a violation of our Terms of Use. ".
Well I'm banned for life, I've tried to find out why and they won't tell me.You could just get a burner and create a new email address. It's not like they know who you are. If you really can't figure this out PM me and I will help.
Saw posting on SB for this beautiful and sexy woman. Very appealing. Sent a message complimenting her and said she'd probably get a ton of responses. She answered saying she'd send more photos if I gave personal email. Asked if text would be easier. No answer and I was blocked right away. Even my message to her is gone. Can't give the link, it's gone. She was a hot widow. Just wondering if this is some type of scam.
Saw posting on SB for this beautiful and sexy woman. Very appealing. Sent a message complimenting her and said she'd probably get a ton of responses. She answered saying she'd send more photos if I gave personal email. Asked if text would be easier. No answer and I was blocked right away. Even my message to her is gone. Can't give the link, it's gone. She was a hot widow. Just wondering if this is some type of scam.Just a guess but text=phone and she cannot or does not want to do phone. Easier to remain anonymous via email.
Saw posting on SB for this beautiful and sexy woman. Very appealing. Sent a message complimenting her and said she'd probably get a ton of responses. She answered saying she'd send more photos if I gave personal email. Asked if text would be easier. No answer and I was blocked right away. Even my message to her is gone. Can't give the link, it's gone. She was a hot widow. Just wondering if this is some type of scam.Seen this before. Wants a personal email. Part of a hacking scheme. She disappeared because someone probably reported her.
CoolGuy1985
08-17-18, 20:18
I chat with girls and at times they message me. At various levels they just disappear. They don't read chats, they are online, but just disappear. Am I doing something wrong? I don't even ask for sex, I just ask for their allowance and meeting up.
I chat with girls and at times they message me. At various levels they just disappear. They don't read chats, they are online, but just disappear. Am I doing something wrong? I don't even ask for sex, I just ask for their allowance and meeting up.First few messages try to flirt.
Then say hey what are you looking for financially.
Then move off the site to text or Kik.
Or:
Say hey my philosophy is to meet up a few times before we agree on a monthly allowance. I'm thinking $1-2 per meet if that works for you. Let's meet soon as I've got a bunch of money to spend and a lot of SBs interested but I think you're special.
Than move to text or Kik. The quicker you get them off SA the better you will be. The app sucks on mobile phones. It looks like tinder but with many buttons and tabs so it's difficult to communicate. I think it's on purpose to benefit the SA owners.
Think of sitting at a bar and chatting it up with a lady. She excuses herself to visit the restroom. On her way back she runs into an old friend (perhaps someone she was chatting with when she was at the bar last week). Will she come back and continue the conversation with you? When? Who knows?
I chat with girls and at times they message me. At various levels they just disappear. They don't read chats, they are online, but just disappear. Am I doing something wrong? I don't even ask for sex, I just ask for their allowance and meeting up.
Longjblues
08-18-18, 08:59
I concur. Although I haven't had much success since I only am available to meet during the day, and with the lady hosting, my experiences have directed me to the conclusion that the sooner you take conversation off SA, and to text / email, the better.
First few messages try to flirt.
Then say hey what are you looking for financially.
Then move off the site to text or Kik.
Or:
Say hey my philosophy is to meet up a few times before we agree on a monthly allowance. I'm thinking $1-2 per meet if that works for you. Let's meet soon as I've got a bunch of money to spend and a lot of SBs interested but I think you're special.
Than move to text or Kik. The quicker you get them off SA the better you will be. The app sucks on mobile phones. It looks like tinder but with many buttons and tabs so it's difficult to communicate. I think it's on purpose to benefit the SA owners.
Seen this before. Wants a personal email. Part of a hacking scheme. She disappeared because someone probably reported her.For a number of reasons, I always try to take them off SA. I give them an email, non-personal of course. One reason is that anything written on SA is owned by SA.
I concur. Although I haven't had much success since I only am available to meet during the day, and with the lady hosting, my experiences have directed me to the conclusion that the sooner you take conversation off SA, and to text / email, the better.I can only do day dates too. I find that stating that upfront helps in 2 ways 1) Obviously sets the tone for the relationship IE we are. It doing fancy dinners, arm candy BS. We are meeting, chatting, and getting busy. 2) Figure out very early in the prose whether this will work out.
I play a broad search and destroy technique. I lay it all on the line in the first few messages and send the initial exploratory message to 10 at a time. No responses get a follow up "hey are you not interested in money I have an envelope in my hand for you". Any GPS I say "sorry but that's a little over my budget good luck to you". I've had the GPS girls come back and start lowering their # many many times. I've stopped doing the meet and greet thing because it's a waste of time. Skip to the first date and if they're not what you want give them a gift certificate or something. Hi, d onto the cahs They love CVS and Walgreens.
I chat with girls and at times they message me. At various levels they just disappear. They don't read chats, they are online, but just disappear. Am I doing something wrong? I don't even ask for sex, I just ask for their allowance and meeting up.There are different types of girls on here wanting different kinds of arrangements so depends who you are talking to. A seasoned pro or former backpage girl doesn't want to go back and forth with endless emails. You are wasting their time. A hot college girl who is hesitant and cautious because they never did this before may require a lengthy email exchanges before meeting. One of my top UTRs is a hot college chick I met on SA. It took a month of texting everyday for her to become comfortable with me. She finally took a leap of faith and we met. Now it's like having a girlfriend without the drama. Also keep in mind, the hotter they are, the more hits they are getting from other guys. So you are competing with other guys. When it happens to me I don't sweat it. I just move on. It's a numbers game. The more women you talk to, the more likely you have a chance at meeting someone. It's not for everyone. Some people don't have the time or patience. Some people misinterpret SA as a replacement for backpage. Although there has been an influx of backpage girls due to FOSTA its still a whole different ballgame.
JimXuper90
08-18-18, 17:19
I chat with girls and at times they message me. At various levels they just disappear. They don't read chats, they are online, but just disappear. Am I doing something wrong? I don't even ask for sex, I just ask for their allowance and meeting up.Some of them might be bots that created by the website itself.
There are different types of girls on here wanting different kinds of arrangements so depends who you are talking to. A seasoned pro or former backpage girl doesn't want to go back and forth with endless emails. You are wasting their time. A hot college girl who is hesitant and cautious because they never did this before may require a lengthy email exchanges before meeting. One of my top UTRs is a hot college chick I met on SA. It took a month of texting everyday for her to become comfortable with me. She finally took a leap of faith and we met. Now it's like having a girlfriend without the drama. Also keep in mind, the hotter they are, the more hits they are getting from other guys. So you are competing with other guys. When it happens to me I don't sweat it. I just move on. It's a numbers game. The more women you talk to, the more likely you have a chance at meeting someone. It's not for everyone. Some people don't have the time or patience. Some people misinterpret SA as a replacement for backpage. Although there has been an influx of backpage girls due to FOSTA its still a whole different ballgame.Completely agree. Mirrors my experience.
CoolGuy1985
08-18-18, 22:24
There are different types of girls on here wanting different kinds of arrangements so depends who you are talking to. A seasoned pro or former backpage girl doesn't want to go back and forth with endless emails. You are wasting their time. A hot college girl who is hesitant and cautious because they never did this before may require a lengthy email exchanges before meeting. One of my top UTRs is a hot college chick I met on SA. It took a month of texting everyday for her to become comfortable with me. She finally took a leap of faith and we met. Now it's like having a girlfriend without the drama. Also keep in mind, the hotter they are, the more hits they are getting from other guys. So you are competing with other guys. When it happens to me I don't sweat it. I just move on. It's a numbers game. The more women you talk to, the more likely you have a chance at meeting someone. It's not for everyone. Some people don't have the time or patience. Some people misinterpret SA as a replacement for backpage. Although there has been an influx of backpage girls due to FOSTA its still a whole different ballgame.Thanks to all the seasoned players I have digits of 5-6 gals now. Rates are high but let's see how it goes.
I agree with the hot college girl thing. One was asking for 500 bucks for some books. When I asked what do I get in return, she asks what do I expect. When I said well physical intimacy, she said she was surprised she wasn't expecting it. I was like yeah, I will give 500 to you for just talking to me.
JimXuper90
08-18-18, 23:42
Thanks to all the seasoned players I have digits of 5-6 gals now. Rates are high but let's see how it goes.
I agree with the hot college girl thing. One was asking for 500 bucks for some books. When I asked what do I get in return, she asks what do I expect. When I said well physical intimacy, she said she was surprised she wasn't expecting it. I was like yeah, I will give 500 to you for just talking to me.I have two girls asked me to pay them $200 just to have them eat dinner with me. Where do they get these ideas that we are so desperately lonely?
You should've asked them if you were the appetizer, the entree, or the main course!
I have two girls asked me to pay them $200 just to have them eat dinner with me
I chat with girls and at times they message me. At various levels they just disappear. They don't read chats, they are online, but just disappear. Am I doing something wrong? I don't even ask for sex, I just ask for their allowance and meeting up.Basically, have had pretty good luck but every so often something crazy comes along. Several post as being in Boston, but are so far away it's half day of back and forth travel. One 53 yo posted Boston but in Rhode Island because the state is to small and everybody knows everyone. She didn't want to message, text, or email but would talk. Gave the burner #. She called. Ambled through the prelim convo. Repeatedly said was not a hooker just in a bad spot financially. On SA since 2014, but that was SA's error. Finally to the $, wanted 6000 per month. Remember she's 53 lives in RI and is not a hooker. I guess just a dreamer. Said I was the bad person for not wanting to help her. Glad it was the end of a nice day and I was partaking so turned out to be a real hoot.
OkWhatever
08-19-18, 12:44
Here is a nice mature / MILF type. There was no money exchanged and none asked for. She just asked to be spoiled, which didn't mean much more then a drink and offering to get her dinner when we met. Met her out and she looked just like her pics. Noticed that she was married. Typical crappy marriage story and will be eventually divorced. Husband treats her like garbage. I didn't want to really get into it.
BBBJ, DATY, CFS, heavy french kissing all for $0. 00. Just bought her a drink and was nice to her.
If you reach out to her. Be a gentleman. Just offer to take her out to dinner / drinks and act normal. You will probably get laid.
https://www.seeking.com/member/4a148313-3850-4cc6-9f83-7595624459e5
JimXuper90
08-19-18, 17:38
You should've asked them if you were the appetizer, the entree, or the main course!They even picked up the restaurant for me. "I always want to try this place, if we can meet over there will be great. ".
CoolGuy1985
08-19-18, 19:24
Erin was reviewed by Ebloke and she also conatcfed me for an arrangement. I asked her for her digits and she hasn't been online since. Could any of you who has seen her provide me her digits? You can confirm with her if you want and then PM me the number.
Her SA link
https://www.seeking.com/member/46083804-77bf-4f22-b808-0da9603cec13
FarFarAway
08-19-18, 23:07
Brothers. I've been in your city 3 days, and totally saturated the local under 30 group on SA. I'd guess I hit 100. All I have to show for it was one nice dinner. I spoke w / that POT before I traveled, I could not get any of the others to even take a phone call. Perhaps I am chopped liver, the local talent may not have liked some aspects (6 decades). Your POTs are more offended by married men than those on the west coast. There is definitely local dependency on success I guess. I have done similar trips to San Fran where I had a SB in my hotel room each of my 3 nites there, FCing w / one. IDK what my fault was, I am all ears. BTW, I am not interested in any UTRs.
RI CheeseHead
08-20-18, 00:15
Here is a nice mature / MILF type. There was no money exchanged and none asked for. She just asked to be spoiled, which didn't mean much more then a drink and offering to get her dinner when we met. Met her out and she looked just like her pics. Noticed that she was married. Typical crappy marriage story and will be eventually divorced. Husband treats her like garbage. I didn't want to really get into it.
BBBJ, DATY, CFS, heavy french kissing all for $0. 00. Just bought her a drink and was nice to her.
If you reach out to her. Be a gentleman. Just offer to take her out to dinner / drinks and act normal. You will probably get laid.
https://www.seeking.com/member/4a148313-3850-4cc6-9f83-7595624459e5Did this end up at your place, hers, or a hotel?
Brothers. I've been in your city 3 days, and totally saturated the local under 30 group on SA. I'd guess I hit 100. All I have to show for it was one nice dinner. I spoke w / that POT before I traveled, I could not get any of the others to even take a phone call. Perhaps I am chopped liver, the local talent may not have liked some aspects (6 decades). Your POTs are more offended by married men than those on the west coast. There is definitely local dependency on success I guess. I have done similar trips to San Fran where I had a SB in my hotel room each of my 3 nites there, FCing w / one. IDK what my fault was, I am all ears. BTW, I am not interested in any UTRs.Women here in the Northeast are the most uptight, opinionated, and closed minded than anywhere else in the country, even the young college girls.
Sorry man.
They even picked up the restaurant for me. "I always want to try this place, if we can meet over there will be great. ".Hahaha They are not that entitled. WOW! Where do they think that any of that is even remotely going to happen.
Where do they fill their heads with that bs?
GuyInTheCorner
08-20-18, 07:52
Brothers. I've been in your city 3 days, and totally saturated the local under 30 group on SA. I'd guess I hit 100. All I have to show for it was one nice dinner. I spoke w / that POT before I traveled, I could not get any of the others to even take a phone call. Perhaps I am chopped liver, the local talent may not have liked some aspects (6 decades). Your POTs are more offended by married men than those on the west coast. There is definitely local dependency on success I guess. I have done similar trips to San Fran where I had a SB in my hotel room each of my 3 nites there, FCing w / one. IDK what my fault was, I am all ears. BTW, I am not interested in any UTRs.FFA, don't know what to tell you. I have had phenomenal experience in Boston. Much better than at the homebase in DC. Sure some have been 30 something's and therefore out of your range, but quite a few 20 somethings. Including a handful of college gals. I am about two decades younger than you so perhaps that is the difference?
GuyInTheCorner
08-20-18, 07:58
For those looking for daytime only meetings:
- I've had less than great experience in Boston (heck also in DC) with that crowd. You tend to get either pros, crazy, or desperate because they don't have a solid job. Look for a legit reason why they are available during the day (married, night shift work, undergrad).
- daytime AND hosting? Even tougher, especially in the city, unless you are looking for a pro. My advice is to get a place. I do that in DC and it works well.
- FWIW my best experiences in downtown Boston have all been in the evening, often later at night, at my hotel.
Malibu1980
08-20-18, 10:58
I won't post any links, those I talk to and know me can PM [Deleted by Admin]
I'm getting tired of seeing posts like this, we are not running a PM site.
A2
FarFarAway
08-20-18, 21:02
FFA, don't know what to tell you. I have had phenomenal experience in Boston. Much better than at the homebase in DC. Sure some have been 30 something's and therefore out of your range, but quite a few 20 somethings. Including a handful of college gals. I am about two decades younger than you so perhaps that is the difference?That seems likely. Yes, I had gotten the 1 week promotional rate on a Seeking membership so it was a new email and new profile, I could have easily listed anything other than married, without consequence, that was clearly a mistake. I have learned at the feet of some real masters, F Scott, JZLizard, and they reported strategies similar to mine, and successes similar to my SF experience. IDK that these girls are all that great at judging age, I know I can't judge theirs very well. So, I would have said late 40's rather than the 50's I (thankfully) can claim. Usually, I have decent game, the nice guy approach works for me. That's the really surprising part. Getting them to message on the site or text, but not converting them. So, for those of you following in my footsteps.
Laissez Faire
08-20-18, 22:24
So I figured I'd give SA a try. What did you all do to pay the fee and remain somewhat anonymous? Was thinking either a prepaid card or using google pay with a throw away google play store email. Any particular way work better? I noticed the app has he 7 day trial, but the month seems to be more worth it if I'm going to give it a fair shot.
CoolGuy1985
08-20-18, 23:07
It would really take me some time to understand SA. Most of the girls start at 400-500 and I am like how much I need to negotiate to bring them down to a realistic figure. Some girls are hot agreed, but in highly photoshopped images and their best poses. A few blocked when I offered 150-200, and then many would do a very hard negotiation. I got 12-13 numbers by now but only 1 materialized. As someone suggested, most of them cannot host, so they need to be picked up (or Uber) and then dropped. ! very few can travel, but then they increase price (though when I offer to pick / drop or Uber, they do not adjust their prices).
Anyways, long story short, had first date with SA today. Pics looked better than person. She was a BBW. She was young and youthful and had quoted only 80 bucks.
I had a BBBJ which she did fine. I had to pick her up, bring her at my place and then I arranged an Uber for her. Total cost=100.
But even knowing she was a BBW, pics appeared to be much better, which happens all the time. How can you commit even a 200 in such a case when there are not even many reviews available.
However, it was decent for me. No ups no downs. 100 bucks BBBJ.
So I figured I'd give SA a try. What did you all do to pay the fee and remain somewhat anonymous? Was thinking either a prepaid card or using google pay with a throw away google play store email. Any particular way work better? I noticed the app has he 7 day trial, but the month seems to be more worth it if I'm going to give it a fair shot.Check out the Seeking Arrangement thread on the Richmond, VA boards. Tons of great information to get you going on the right foot.
Hey check it out. They removed the search term feature when searching profiles. BUT you can still do it by editing the URL. For example to see women within 100 miles who like spanking:
https://www.seeking.com/search?q=spanking&radius=100
Just found this on another forum.
JimXuper90
08-21-18, 15:26
It would really take me some time to understand SA. Most of the girls start at 400-500 and I am like how much I need to negotiate to bring them down to a realistic figure. Some girls are hot agreed, but in highly photoshopped images and their best poses. A few blocked when I offered 150-200, and then many would do a very hard negotiation. I got 12-13 numbers by now but only 1 materialized. As someone suggested, most of them cannot host, so they need to be picked up (or Uber) and then dropped. ! very few can travel, but then they increase price (though when I offer to pick / drop or Uber, they do not adjust their prices).
Anyways, long story short, had first date with SA today. Pics looked better than person. She was a BBW. She was young and youthful and had quoted only 80 bucks.
I had a BBBJ which she did fine. I had to pick her up, bring her at my place and then I arranged an Uber for her. Total cost=100.
But even knowing she was a BBW, pics appeared to be much better, which happens all the time. How can you commit even a 200 in such a case when there are not even many reviews available.
However, it was decent for me. No ups no downs. 100 bucks BBBJ.I got blocked for offering 100-200 as well. So don't be surprised a lot of girls are on the site to catch a whale.
BostonMan781
08-21-18, 17:20
It would really take me some time to understand SA. Most of the girls start at 400-500 and I am like how much I need to negotiate to bring them down to a realistic figure. Some girls are hot agreed, but in highly photoshopped images and their best poses. A few blocked when I offered 150-200, and then many would do a very hard negotiation. I got 12-13 numbers by now but only 1 materialized. As someone suggested, most of them cannot host, so they need to be picked up (or Uber) and then dropped. ! very few can travel, but then they increase price (though when I offer to pick / drop or Uber, they do not adjust their prices).
Anyways, long story short, had first date with SA today. Pics looked better than person. She was a BBW. She was young and youthful and had quoted only 80 bucks.
I had a BBBJ which she did fine. I had to pick her up, bring her at my place and then I arranged an Uber for her. Total cost=100.
But even knowing she was a BBW, pics appeared to be much better, which happens all the time. How can you commit even a 200 in such a case when there are not even many reviews available.
However, it was decent for me. No ups no downs. 100 bucks BBBJ.I always pickup the ladies. I'm cheap and won't pay for ride sharing. Also you are paying way too much. Don't just jump into that stuff. Talk to them a little before. I usually pay 60-80 for an hour of hang time with a lady. Sometimes more if they are really hot.
Hosts in Providence. Wants $500.
https://www.seeking.com/member/22bce32b-3d80-4252-a2a8-3b79051c6c15
FarFarAway
08-21-18, 23:49
I got blocked for offering 100-200 as well. So don't be surprised a lot of girls are on the site to catch a whale.You're taking a real risk if you are making that $ offer on the seeking website. They are under HUGE pressure b / c of FOSTA to keep pay for play off the site. I do know of people who got banned for doing it, and your membership $ goes too if that happens. Take the talk off the site to text. Also, just my preference, if you want to treat them like cheap escorts, don't do it on seeking. I have real arrangements w / real SBs I meet on the site, I don't have any place to go if it goes down. As long as it retains credibility as a dating site, I'm happy. If it becomes just the next backpage, well, you're fine but I am hosed.
Hosts in Providence. Wants $500.
https://www.seeking.com/member/22bce32b-3d80-4252-a2a8-3b79051c6c15Have you seen her?
I am having tough time to get her to respond.
You're taking a real risk if you are making that $ offer on the seeking website. They are under HUGE pressure b / c of FOSTA to keep pay for play off the site. I do know of people who got banned for doing it, and your membership $ goes too if that happens. Take the talk off the site to text. Also, just my preference, if you want to treat them like cheap escorts, don't do it on seeking. I have real arrangements w / real SBs I meet on the site, I don't have any place to go if it goes down. As long as it retains credibility as a dating site, I'm happy. If it becomes just the next backpage, well, you're fine but I am hosed.It's supposed to be a sugar daddy site not barter with a crack ***** site. I figured the 90 a month would filter out the ex backpage people. I wouldn't be surprised if this site gets closed down eventually.
Hosts in Providence. Wants $500.
https://www.seeking.com/member/22bce32b-3d80-4252-a2a8-3b79051c6c15Question is, is anyone giving it. My max is 300 for a multiple hour encounter. But there are many girls that will give you a BBBJ for 100, just have to ask around and like previous posters said, take the negotiation off SA and do it on kik, or your text ap.
I always pickup the ladies. I'm cheap and won't pay for ride sharing. Also you are paying way too much. Don't just jump into that stuff. Talk to them a little before. I usually pay 60-80 for an hour of hang time with a lady. Sometimes more if they are really hot.60-80 and hour? Are these college girls or older women? That's for sex? How do you get them to agree to that amount, curious?
Can answer here or pm me very curious I try to see all different points and tactics to figure out what I will do when back on in the fall.
Thanks man.
JimXuper90
08-22-18, 15:49
You're taking a real risk if you are making that $ offer on the seeking website. They are under HUGE pressure b / c of FOSTA to keep pay for play off the site. I do know of people who got banned for doing it, and your membership $ goes too if that happens. Take the talk off the site to text. Also, just my preference, if you want to treat them like cheap escorts, don't do it on seeking. I have real arrangements w / real SBs I meet on the site, I don't have any place to go if it goes down. As long as it retains credibility as a dating site, I'm happy. If it becomes just the next backpage, well, you're fine but I am hosed.It's never a real dating site. You pay these girls for whatever service you desire. It's just a backpage that charge you $90 a month. You pay whatever price you can afford as I saw many of you laughed at people who try to keep the price low. And everybody can use they own way to approach these girls. If he can get a college go to do tag team with him for $100, good for him. I doubt SA will ban people just simply offer a price. The owner setup whatsyourprice as well. What I do was offering 100 for a date. When she asked what service the date include, I asked for cell numbers and kik for the details. When I said I got blocked for 100-200 offers, they don't even want to discuss what the offer is for after that.
JimXuper90
08-22-18, 15:53
I always pickup the ladies. I'm cheap and won't pay for ride sharing. Also you are paying way too much. Don't just jump into that stuff. Talk to them a little before. I usually pay 60-80 for an hour of hang time with a lady. Sometimes more if they are really hot.You are right. If I send uber to pickup girls from different area, it usually add up $30-$50 to the cost.
60-80 and hour? Are these college girls or older women? That's for sex? How do you get them to agree to that amount, curious?
Can answer here or pm me very curious I try to see all different points and tactics to figure out what I will do when back on in the fall.
Thanks man.This has been discussed ad nauseam. You will not get any and every girl you want for 100-200. What you will get is a girl that likes you, is attracted to you, and enjoys spending time with you. And guess what, a girl that likes you will give you a great experience as opposed to a BP experience where she's counting the minutes until you leave. But you will say "what about the hot ones? Yes, it's true even for the hottest girls on the site. For $800 they will let Shrek touch them but for me I've never been interested in a girl that needs to hold her nose as I'm diddling her. In the end you make your own sugar bowl experience. Approach the girls like BP and you will get a BP experience. Use more finesse and game and you get a different experience (and different girls) entirely.
Longjblues
08-23-18, 10:00
My guess is that BostonMan pays them $200 and then has session with them of 2. 5 to 3 hrs, thus calculating out to $60-80 per hour.
Most of the ladies agree to a gift amount, not as to the time spent.
I always pickup the ladies. I'm cheap and won't pay for ride sharing. Also you are paying way too much. Don't just jump into that stuff. Talk to them a little before. I usually pay 60-80 for an hour of hang time with a lady. Sometimes more if they are really hot.
Banjomania
08-23-18, 22:19
A woman contacted me on SA today. That in and of itself is rare. Supposedly a nanny late 20's trying to pay off student loans. She had not been on a date yet on SA. So she said. But she refused to meet in public and wanted only to meet in a hotel room, for safety reasons she said. She said that a friend had been stalked by a guy she met in a bar and hotels rooms were safer. My spider sense was not comfortable. I thought, could this be a robbery? Who thinks it's safer to meet a guy you never met before in his hotel room? Something was odd, not wanting to meet in public first off SA. So I decided to pass. Anyone think I overreacted? I mean, I know regular ladies for hire do this all the time, but a woman who contacted a man off SA and had never been with one before?
Aimstraight
08-23-18, 23:42
Don't think you over reacted at all. They could be legit but does sound like some sort of set up. Maybe even LE. I've gotten a similar message or two in the past that has triggered my spidey sense. Once I tel then I will only meet in public they block me. I'm guessing your spidey sense was right on the money.
A woman contacted me on SA today. That in and of itself is rare. Supposedly a nanny late 20's trying to pay off student loans. She had not been on a date yet on SA. So she said. But she refused to meet in public and wanted only to meet in a hotel room, for safety reasons she said. She said that a friend had been stalked by a guy she met in a bar and hotels rooms were safer. My spider sense was not comfortable. I thought, could this be a robbery? Who thinks it's safer to meet a guy you never met before in his hotel room? Something was odd, not wanting to meet in public first off SA. So I decided to pass. Anyone think I overreacted? I mean, I know regular ladies for hire do this all the time, but a woman who contacted a man off SA and had never been with one before?
FarFarAway
08-24-18, 00:07
It's supposed to be a sugar daddy site not barter with a crack ***** site. I figured the 90 a month would filter out the ex backpage people. I wouldn't be surprised if this site gets closed down eventually.Keep in mind the girls pay nothing, most of them. The fee filters out guys who want to hit on the drug-riddled hookers. If the ratio of the membership to the sugar is low enough, they'll be on seeking.
A woman contacted me on SA today. That in and of itself is rare. Supposedly a nanny late 20's trying to pay off student loans. She had not been on a date yet on SA. So she said. But she refused to meet in public and wanted only to meet in a hotel room, for safety reasons she said. She said that a friend had been stalked by a guy she met in a bar and hotels rooms were safer. My spider sense was not comfortable. I thought, could this be a robbery? Who thinks it's safer to meet a guy you never met before in his hotel room? Something was odd, not wanting to meet in public first off SA. So I decided to pass. Anyone think I overreacted? I mean, I know regular ladies for hire do this all the time, but a woman who contacted a man off SA and had never been with one before?Good job, not a chance in the world I would take that risk. Too many girls available on here. Some type of rob scam, doubt law enforcement would waste their time.
Longjblues
08-24-18, 10:54
You answered your own question, "who does this", banjo man!
You take her at her word that's she is newbie and doesn't do this professionally?
She is a professional, not a scammer. If she wanted to set you up, she would control location. She wants to meet at your hotel room, so you control entrance. I have had a number of ladies initiate conversation / contact. Mostly ladies who have been doing it on regular basis.
I never meet in public.
I think you over reacted. Please provide link. Thank you.
A woman contacted me on SA today. That in and of itself is rare. Supposedly a nanny late 20's trying to pay off student loans. She had not been on a date yet on SA. So she said. But she refused to meet in public and wanted only to meet in a hotel room, for safety reasons she said. She said that a friend had been stalked by a guy she met in a bar and hotels rooms were safer. My spider sense was not comfortable. I thought, could this be a robbery? Who thinks it's safer to meet a guy you never met before in his hotel room? Something was odd, not wanting to meet in public first off SA. So I decided to pass. Anyone think I overreacted? I mean, I know regular ladies for hire do this all the time, but a woman who contacted a man off SA and had never been with one before?
Member #6503
08-24-18, 15:59
A woman contacted me on SA today. That in and of itself is rare. Supposedly a nanny late 20's trying to pay off student loans. She had not been on a date yet on SA. So she said. But she refused to meet in public and wanted only to meet in a hotel room, for safety reasons she said. She said that a friend had been stalked by a guy she met in a bar and hotels rooms were safer. My spider sense was not comfortable. I thought, could this be a robbery? Who thinks it's safer to meet a guy you never met before in his hotel room? Something was odd, not wanting to meet in public first off SA. So I decided to pass. Anyone think I overreacted? I mean, I know regular ladies for hire do this all the time, but a woman who contacted a man off SA and had never been with one before?Was this KrysM by any chance? It sounds like her story. Next she'll tell you her friends get 500-1200 per meet. Stay away from that one if so.
SixPacking
08-24-18, 17:25
A woman contacted me on SA today. That in and of itself is rare. Supposedly a nanny late 20's trying to pay off student loans. She had not been on a date yet on SA. So she said. But she refused to meet in public and wanted only to meet in a hotel room, for safety reasons she said. She said that a friend had been stalked by a guy she met in a bar and hotels rooms were safer. My spider sense was not comfortable. I thought, could this be a robbery? Who thinks it's safer to meet a guy you never met before in his hotel room? Something was odd, not wanting to meet in public first off SA. So I decided to pass. Anyone think I overreacted? I mean, I know regular ladies for hire do this all the time, but a woman who contacted a man off SA and had never been with one before?I agree with long john I think you may have overreacted. I also see absolutely no reason, as I almost always do, for you guys not to post links to their profiles. If you had posted a link to her profile someone might have said that they had seen her and that she's an awesome girl. Or they might have said the opposite and at least you'd have a lot more information.
To be perfectly honest here, not just you but most guys participating here, there's not a single good reason not to post a profile. If you review a girl post the link it's not like you're posting where she lives or her phone number or her email address. If she still has an active profile on seeking guess what? If she has an active profile she's still looking around for c*ks that are not yours! So post the damn links!
Ok, rant over.
SixPacking
08-24-18, 17:27
So I'm getting ready to jump back in after a few months of being away from seeking. I am considering What's your Price though and I'm curious as to what kind of experiences you guys may have had on that site, any and all feedback is certainly appreciated.
JimXuper90
08-24-18, 21:10
Seeking arrangement has iOS app now. Just installed it.
Saw a chick on SA using the name Pickford https://www.seeking.com/member/1519bacb-4463-6b01-c421-960d4c5e5837 She is in her early 30's and living in Somerville. She's cute -- but something is a little off about her.
I didn't get the "*****" vibe from her -- don't think she's selling to just anyone, but YMMV.
Wanted $$ got away with paying $$ for BBBJ. Skills were INCREDIBLE. CIM but she spit.
Personality is. Okay. Body is great. Face is kinda beat.
Might repeat.
Agree. Also stay away from her "twin" AshD. Sounds like trouble to me.
Was this KrysM by any chance? It sounds like her story. Next she'll tell you her friends get 500-1200 per meet. Stay away from that one if so.
A woman contacted me on SA today. That in and of itself is rare. Supposedly a nanny late 20's trying to pay off student loans. She had not been on a date yet on SA. So she said. But she refused to meet in public and wanted only to meet in a hotel room, for safety reasons she said. She said that a friend had been stalked by a guy she met in a bar and hotels rooms were safer. My spider sense was not comfortable. I thought, could this be a robbery? Who thinks it's safer to meet a guy you never met before in his hotel room? Something was odd, not wanting to meet in public first off SA. So I decided to pass. Anyone think I overreacted? I mean, I know regular ladies for hire do this all the time, but a woman who contacted a man off SA and had never been with one before?If this is the same girl, she made initial contact with me immediately after I signed with SA 8 months ago. Her friends get 500-1000 per meet. Now she's on SB with 2 listing. Absolute discretion, won't meet for lunch or anywhere in public, doesn't have a credit card, travels for work, college loans plus, plus, plus. At one point, believe there was a post mentioning she was a twin, not positive. She sent some covered photos. Body not as shapely as others available on SA and SB. There were too many warning signs for me.
CandyMan555
08-25-18, 09:47
Saw a chick on SA using the name Pickford https://www.seeking.com/member/1519bacb-4463-6b01-c421-960d4c5e5837 She is in her early 30's and living in Somerville. She's cute -- but something is a little off about her.
I didn't get the "*****" vibe from her -- don't think she's selling to just anyone, but YMMV.
Wanted $$ got away with paying $$ for BBBJ. Skills were INCREDIBLE. CIM but she spit.
Personality is. Okay. Body is great. Face is kinda beat.
Might repeat.Links?
Links not working?
Chinhap554
08-25-18, 09:56
[never mind]
Member #6503
08-25-18, 11:19
Hey guys, any intel on this one https://www.seeking.com/member/1a12d12f-6a27-4c74-9e17-f4b5fc327d56.
RandomFragment
08-25-18, 12:57
Are a little off, too.
Saw a chick on SA using the name Pickford https://www.seeking.com/member/1519bacb-4463-6b01-c421-960d4c5e5837 She is in her early 30's and living in Somerville. She's cute -- but something is a little off about her.
I didn't get the "*****" vibe from her -- don't think she's selling to just anyone, but YMMV.
Wanted $$ got away with paying $$ for BBBJ. Skills were INCREDIBLE. CIM but she spit.
Personality is. Okay. Body is great. Face is kinda beat.
Might repeat.
Laissez Faire
08-25-18, 13:14
Been speaking with this one https://www.seeking.com/member/81dfd852-1c81-469c-bae6-fa8c8ff85b3a but have yet to set up a meet, she says she only meets out of her home, so wasn't sure if more pro or not. She didn't give me an outrageous number yet, but we've been chatting a bit back and forth to see if we can coordinate a time. Any seen or spoken to her?
SixPacking
08-25-18, 13:24
Go back a few pages and you'll see a brief discussion about her. She actually blew me off after we had set something up and I was on my way to visit her apartment in Providence. I do have a report from a guy who actually saw her and said he had a pretty good time. I guess with as with everything it's YMMV
Been speaking with this one https://www.seeking.com/member/81dfd852-1c81-469c-bae6-fa8c8ff85b3a but have yet to set up a meet, she says she only meets out of her home, so wasn't sure if more pro or not. She didn't give me an outrageous number yet, but we've been chatting a bit back and forth to see if we can coordinate a time. Any seen or spoken to her?.
Been speaking with this one https://www.seeking.com/member/81dfd852-1c81-469c-bae6-fa8c8ff85b3a but have yet to set up a meet, she says she only meets out of her home, so wasn't sure if more pro or not. She didn't give me an outrageous number yet, but we've been chatting a bit back and forth to see if we can coordinate a time. Any seen or spoken to her?Yes she is great. Totally safe. I was skeptical too especially where she tells you to park. But worth the time and $.
Kind of a trek for me so haven't been back.
JimXuper90
08-25-18, 21:30
I am not sure this is serious.
If you looking for young hot dates, then maybe you can find them on SA, I do not know what the success rate there is, I never paid them.
But if you are single and want to fuck older gals 40+ or 50+, OKcupid is 100% free, just be polite, patient and persistent.
-BH.
SixPacking
08-26-18, 19:49
Looking for current info on her. She has two profiles, her current one she pulls down and then puts back up is here:
https://www.seeking.com/member/d0906547-076b-b8db-9f8c-7e358582b611
She has an older profile that I assume she can no longer access, it is here:
https://www.seeking.com/member/9877a03e-67df-4400-9e64-35190679ef04
Public posts or PM's are all appreciated.
Me $$ Never met up with her though.
Hey guys, any intel on this one https://www.seeking.com/member/1a12d12f-6a27-4c74-9e17-f4b5fc327d56.
She's legit. Well kept body and sane.
Love the way her pussy looked.
Hard to get her off. But I saw her about 10 times before I got bored.
If you looking for young hot dates, then maybe you can find them on SA, I do not know what the success rate there is, I never paid them.
But if you are single and want to fuck older gals 40+ or 50+, OKcupid is 100% free, just be polite, patient and persistent.
-BH.Been there but never had any luck there.
BostonNorth16
08-27-18, 16:18
I have been going back and forth with this one: https://www.seeking.com/member/b2284951-07f5-4ce3-a3e3-74e5be1b60ff.
Has anyone seen her?
Longjblues
08-27-18, 16:21
I am going back & forth with her as well. Have not met her yet, or even set a date.
Still discussing. She gets back to me haphazardly.
I have been going back and forth with this one: https://www.seeking.com/member/b2284951-07f5-4ce3-a3e3-74e5be1b60ff.
Has anyone seen her?
WillSmith96
08-27-18, 16:23
https://www.seeking.com/member/85cbdbf8-047b-488b-8f4f-258500707f53
Hey guys, anyone in the Mendon area reach out to Melissa. She's in a bind and could use a little help.I agree with Medford Guy's description all around; a sweet girl in a bind, and very open-minded. Setup was very easy after initial contact on SA. If smoke is a deal-breaker she's not for you, but I didn't find it overpowering. She's in Mendon and seeking a small handful of regulars.
I am going back & forth with her as well. Have not met her yet, or even set a date.
Still discussing. She gets back to me haphazardly.
Odd...I clicked on the link to view her profile. Within seconds she favorited me and gave me access to her hidden pics.
I suspect she is chatting it up with a ton of guys.
CandyMan555
08-27-18, 20:29
Been there but never had any luck there.If you google O K Cupid and click on the reviews There is not much positive!!
Garretts65
08-27-18, 20:44
She's legit. Well kept body and sane.
Love the way her pussy looked.
Hard to get her off. But I saw her about 10 times before I got bored.Don't laugh, I'm new here. I had an M&G only with her for coffee because of my paranoia.
She was cool. Looks like her profile is gone.
OkWhatever
08-27-18, 20:51
This one wanted 500-1,000. I talked her down to 300. Ended up passing as I felt it would be rushed. It turns out she has a twin sister on the site as well. I asked her about it, got flaky answer.
https://www.seeking.com/member/e22bed51-c3ca-8d2f-cb54-e606c413b87f
Twin sister.
https://www.seeking.com/member/5eb69fbc-e50c-5798-af10-5f9dd50a034d
OkWhatever
08-27-18, 20:52
I agree with Medford Guy's description all around; a sweet girl in a bind, and very open-minded. Setup was very easy after initial contact on SA. If smoke is a deal-breaker she's not for you, but I didn't find it overpowering. She's in Mendon and seeking a small handful of regulars.Does she take in the back door?
OkWhatever
08-27-18, 20:54
Any info on this one? She blew me off a while back, now trying to set something up with me again. I'm not sure yet.
https://www.seeking.com/member/9e87e934-7db1-4d4f-9541-c5cc95ca1bd1
WillSmith96
08-28-18, 06:45
Does she take in the back door?I have seen her once. She told me no anal on the first trip, but promised it from here on out.
Laissez Faire
08-28-18, 08:18
Any info on this one? She blew me off a while back, now trying to set something up with me again. I'm not sure yet.
https://www.seeking.com/member/9e87e934-7db1-4d4f-9541-c5cc95ca1bd1Seems like it’s deactivated now.
Didn't follow through on the arrangement.
https://www.seeking.com/member/85cbdbf8-047b-488b-8f4f-258500707f53
Hey guys, anyone in the Mendon area reach out to Melissa. She's in a bind and could use a little help.
SixPacking
08-28-18, 08:54
Seems like its deactivated now.Still up on my end. For whatever reason I have her in my blocked folder. I have to assume if you can't see the profile she blocked you.
Malibu1980
08-28-18, 14:03
So I just got my account banned today. Honestly such a fucking scam they pull to steal my 90.00 bucks. I'm ten days in my membership so I sign on this afternoon and I've been banned for according to them potentially talking to underage girls. What kind of bullshit is this. Everyone on the site is 18 and over, all the profile ages I contact are 18 and over so hows anyone underage. I swear I'm being scammed by the site into making a new account and paying another 90.00. They have no phone number so I had to dispute my credit card charges. This happens to much. I've been reported before because woman who you say no to get all butthurt and just hit the report button and the site does nothing at into looking into it. I emailed them and waiting for a reply but I expect nothing to come out of this. Anyone here ever been banned and if so is there any chance of being reinstated or do I need to make a new account. I just lost all my contacts to I've made over the months.
Laissez Faire
08-28-18, 16:10
Still up on my end. For whatever reason I have her in my blocked folder. I have to assume if you can't see the profile she blocked you.Hmm interesting inf, I don't recall messaging her before, but ¯\12484_ perhaps I did when I put out a bunch of feelers.
JimXuper90
08-28-18, 16:52
This one wanted 500-1,000. I talked her down to 300. Ended up passing as I felt it would be rushed. It turns out she has a twin sister on the site as well. I asked her about it, got flaky answer.
https://www.seeking.com/member/e22bed51-c3ca-8d2f-cb54-e606c413b87f
Twin sister.
https://www.seeking.com/member/5eb69fbc-e50c-5798-af10-5f9dd50a034dTwin sister? I got one of them messaged me. She asked for $400 and I eventually passed.
SixPacking
08-28-18, 18:20
Maybe this was the Cosmic gods paying you back for posting reviews of your conquests but never sharing profile links? LOL
So I just got my account banned today. Honestly such a fucking scam they pull to steal my 90.00 bucks. I'm ten days in my membership so I sign on this afternoon and I've been banned for according to them potentially talking to underage girls. What kind of bullshit is this. Everyone on the site is 18 and over, all the profile ages I contact are 18 and over so hows anyone underage. I swear I'm being scammed by the site into making a new account and paying another 90.00. They have no phone number so I had to dispute my credit card charges. This happens to much. I've been reported before because woman who you say no to get all butthurt and just hit the report button and the site does nothing at into looking into it. I emailed them and waiting for a reply but I expect nothing to come out of this. Anyone here ever been banned and if so is there any chance of being reinstated or do I need to make a new account. I just lost all my contacts to I've made over the months.
SixPacking
08-28-18, 18:22
Sweet sexy girl, can be had for $200. Can host once you see her at a neutral site first. Fairly submissive and I found her sexy as fuck.
https://www.seeking.com/member/4140fc91-0caf-457b-801e-85d75bafbf7e
LordOfThEeyes
08-28-18, 20:23
So I just got my account banned today. Honestly such a fucking scam they pull to steal my 90.00 bucks. I'm ten days in my membership so I sign on this afternoon and I've been banned for according to them potentially talking to underage girls. What kind of bullshit is this. Everyone on the site is 18 and over, all the profile ages I contact are 18 and over so hows anyone underage. I swear I'm being scammed by the site into making a new account and paying another 90.00. They have no phone number so I had to dispute my credit card charges. This happens to much. I've been reported before because woman who you say no to get all butthurt and just hit the report button and the site does nothing at into looking into it. I emailed them and waiting for a reply but I expect nothing to come out of this. Anyone here ever been banned and if so is there any chance of being reinstated or do I need to make a new account. I just lost all my contacts to I've made over the months.Also arnt they in the wrong of they are letting under aged girls on their site?
So I just got my account banned today. Honestly such a fucking scam they pull to steal my 90.00 bucks. I'm ten days in my membership so I sign on this afternoon and I've been banned for according to them potentially talking to underage girls. What kind of bullshit is this. Everyone on the site is 18 and over, all the profile ages I contact are 18 and over so hows anyone underage. I swear I'm being scammed by the site into making a new account and paying another 90.00. They have no phone number so I had to dispute my credit card charges. This happens to much. I've been reported before because woman who you say no to get all butthurt and just hit the report button and the site does nothing at into looking into it. I emailed them and waiting for a reply but I expect nothing to come out of this. Anyone here ever been banned and if so is there any chance of being reinstated or do I need to make a new account. I just lost all my contacts to I've made over the months.Happened to me multiple times. Just keep emailing them. They usually reinstate you within 48 hours. My banishment was due to "questionable account activity". Yeah fuck yah SA.
Sweet sexy girl, can be had for $200. Can host once you see her at a neutral site first. Fairly submissive and I found her sexy as fuck.
https://www.seeking.com/member/4140fc91-0caf-457b-801e-85d75bafbf7eAgreed. She dances at a local club. But worth a trip for the home visit. I was a little rushed but whatever.
CandyMan555
08-28-18, 21:58
She's legit. Well kept body and sane.
Love the way her pussy looked.
Hard to get her off. But I saw her about 10 times before I got bored.Any contact info for her?
JimXuper90
08-29-18, 00:37
So I just got my account banned today. Honestly such a fucking scam they pull to steal my 90.00 bucks. I'm ten days in my membership so I sign on this afternoon and I've been banned for according to them potentially talking to underage girls. What kind of bullshit is this. Everyone on the site is 18 and over, all the profile ages I contact are 18 and over so hows anyone underage. I swear I'm being scammed by the site into making a new account and paying another 90.00. They have no phone number so I had to dispute my credit card charges. This happens to much. I've been reported before because woman who you say no to get all butthurt and just hit the report button and the site does nothing at into looking into it. I emailed them and waiting for a reply but I expect nothing to come out of this. Anyone here ever been banned and if so is there any chance of being reinstated or do I need to make a new account. I just lost all my contacts to I've made over the months.You won't last long even after you get this account reinstated this time. This site is a scam in some way. Whoever thinks this site is different than BP or any other escort sites. Here is the difference. You get scammed for $90.
Laissez Faire
08-29-18, 07:23
Been speaking to her and will likely take a chance, seems pretty sweet so far, can't host though, so debating on getting a room somewhere, anyone have any experiences? Otherwise it'll be a Hail Mary toftt haha. https://www.seeking.com/member/915a8a8e-c49b-465c-8bbd-4790afb6c53e.
OkWhatever
08-29-18, 10:17
Seems like its deactivated now.Met her out. Total headcase, married going through bad divorce, TONS of drama, baggage, bad living situation. Couldn't wait to leave. Avoid.
Cheese4256
08-29-18, 13:02
So I just got my account banned today. Honestly such a fucking scam they pull to steal my 90.00 bucks. I'm ten days in my membership so I sign on this afternoon and I've been banned for according to them potentially talking to underage girls. What kind of bullshit is this. Everyone on the site is 18 and over, all the profile ages I contact are 18 and over so hows anyone underage. I swear I'm being scammed by the site into making a new account and paying another 90.00. They have no phone number so I had to dispute my credit card charges. This happens to much. I've been reported before because woman who you say no to get all butthurt and just hit the report button and the site does nothing at into looking into it. I emailed them and waiting for a reply but I expect nothing to come out of this. Anyone here ever been banned and if so is there any chance of being reinstated or do I need to make a new account. I just lost all my contacts to I've made over the months.I got banned for "using escort language" which violates their terms of use and the law. I can't say that language didn't happen occasionally, but it's often the woman who brings it up, and I've been on the site for over a year now, although I only recently started trying to meet anyone. There was no warning, and while their support team has been intermittently responsive, they've said their, "decision is final," at least 3 times now over the course of a week+. I got bumped up to a support supervisor, allegedly, but I'm going to keep asking to speak with someone.
In the meantime, it seems clear men & women have created new SA accounts after being banned. Have you used the same payment method (I. E. , the same credit card), or what? It seems if they really wanted to ban someone they could be more thorough than just using an email address as their only identifier. I suppose I could use a prepaid card.
RI CheeseHead
08-29-18, 13:06
Agreed. She dances at a local club. But worth a trip for the home visit. I was a little rushed but whatever.Which club?
Malibu1980
08-29-18, 14:01
So I just got my account banned today. Honestly such a fucking scam they pull to steal my 90.00 bucks. I'm ten days in my membership so I sign on this afternoon and I've been banned for according to them potentially talking to underage girls. What kind of bullshit is this. Everyone on the site is 18 and over, all the profile ages I contact are 18 and over so hows anyone underage. I swear I'm being scammed by the site into making a new account and paying another 90.00. They have no phone number so I had to dispute my credit card charges. This happens to much. I've been reported before because woman who you say no to get all butthurt and just hit the report button and the site does nothing at into looking into it. I emailed them and waiting for a reply but I expect nothing to come out of this. Anyone here ever been banned and if so is there any chance of being reinstated or do I need to make a new account. I just lost all my contacts to I've made over the months.So after some emails back and forth I am reinstated. I told them I wanted proof of what I was doing and that I was very serious of going further if I could with defamation. I take high offense to being accused of something serious as contacting underage woman on the site. First off that doesn't even exist everyones 18 and if there not and put 18 anyway well how the fuck would I know. But I have my real pics up on that site and don't need that accusation hanging over me but I'm back up and back at it so lets see how long it lasts before the next bullshit comes around.
BostonMan781
08-29-18, 17:02
I got banned for "using escort language" which violates their terms of use and the law. I can't say that language didn't happen occasionally, but it's often the woman who brings it up, and I've been on the site for over a year now, although I only recently started trying to meet anyone. There was no warning, and while their support team has been intermittently responsive, they've said their, "decision is final," at least 3 times now over the course of a week+. I got bumped up to a support supervisor, allegedly, but I'm going to keep asking to speak with someone.
In the meantime, it seems clear men & women have created new SA accounts after being banned. Have you used the same payment method (I. E. , the same credit card), or what? It seems if they really wanted to ban someone they could be more thorough than just using an email address as their only identifier. I suppose I could use a prepaid card.I got banned and this time they won't give me the reason why. They can't discuss it.
SteveInMa428
08-29-18, 17:08
I got banned and this time they won't give me the reason why. They can't discuss it.I got banned after a week / I contacted them too, and they said it was final as well. I told them I wanted names of the people who ratted me out and they said they never do that. I guess you get hung without a trial. That site is full of bullshit anyway. And, I never said anything offensive or threatening to anyone. Luckily I got about ten numbers I can use at any time. I already met two. One was FANTASTIC, the other not so much. So. Screw you SA!
FarFarAway
08-29-18, 17:15
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JimXuper90
08-29-18, 18:08
I got banned and this time they won't give me the reason why. They can't discuss it.I got banned for "solicitation". What do they think Seekingarrengment is?
There is this delusion that SA isn't about hookers. I don't know why people are buying into that. The entire "arrangement" is literally a FINANCIAL arrangement. Event he credit card processors are looking the other way and guys say shit like "well the cops aren't going to go there because X" when they are already doing it.
SA is just trying to get as much as they can before they get shut down.
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OlmanDriver
08-30-18, 09:37
I got kicked off before even paying the 90 bucks because they said my initial profile remarks were not allowed. I pushed the envelope with the profile and it was obvious the site wasn't going to work like a backpage did.
Downtown Boy
08-30-18, 10:35
So basically the owner of the website reads or moniters all the messages that guy's send to girls? That's what I think is going on, if I pay the first months fee and I try to give all the girls my Facebook email or cell number (so I won't have to keep paying the monthly fee) there probably going to ban me, am I speaking the truth? That's the only way they make money by making you pay and it's safe to say a lot of the ads are spam I mean no 18 year old girl would just post all these pictures of herself I don't believe that.
Longjblues
08-30-18, 10:54
Not a problem taking the conversation to text or email, or even suggesting it. But mentioning certain words, "incall, outcall, donation, etc" will get you banned. Asking about "menu, bjs, daty, etc", I am sure will get you banned.
You just have to be a little smarter than that. Use common sense, and "date" language and courtesy. "Allowance", "benefits", "date" are ok. Of course, the lady can complain about you as well, and that can get you banned.
The earlier you go to text or email the better.
So basically the owner of the website reads or moniters all the messages that guy's send to girls? That's what I think is going on, if I pay the first months fee and I try to give all the girls my Facebook email or cell number (so I won't have to keep paying the monthly fee) there probably going to ban me, am I speaking the truth? That's the only way they make money by making you pay and it's safe to say a lot of the ads are spam I mean no 18 year old girl would just post all these pictures of herself I don't believe that.
JimXuper90
08-30-18, 12:35
Not a problem taking the conversation to text or email, or even suggesting it. But mentioning certain words, "incall, outcall, donation, etc" will get you banned. Asking about "menu, bjs, daty, etc", I am sure will get you banned.
You just have to be a little smarter than that. Use common sense, and "date" language and courtesy. "Allowance", "benefits", "date" are ok. Of course, the lady can complain about you as well, and that can get you banned.
The earlier you go to text or email the better.What if the girl reports you after your date didn't work out? I had not mentioned incall outcall donation not even roses. All I asked was how much for the date.
Not a problem taking the conversation to text or email, or even suggesting it. But mentioning certain words, "incall, outcall, donation, etc" will get you banned. Asking about "menu, bjs, daty, etc", I am sure will get you banned.
You just have to be a little smarter than that. Use common sense, and "date" language and courtesy. "Allowance", "benefits", "date" are ok. Of course, the lady can complain about you as well, and that can get you banned.
The earlier you go to text or email the better.In addition to the above suggestions help not getting you banned, it'll get you farther with the ladies.
I wouldn't say zero. I've had a few encounters in the 18-21 space, recently, from SA. But, yes, spam is part of the world we live in.
So basically the owner of the website reads or moniters all the messages that guy's send to girls? That's what I think is going on, if I pay the first months fee and I try to give all the girls my Facebook email or cell number (so I won't have to keep paying the monthly fee) there probably going to ban me, am I speaking the truth? That's the only way they make money by making you pay and it's safe to say a lot of the ads are spam I mean no 18 year old girl would just post all these pictures of herself I don't believe that.
In addition to the above suggestions help not getting you banned, it'll get you farther with the ladies.I don't know if there is some sort of double standard but I frequently have SBs tell me explicitly what they will and won't do. As far as I know they are not getting banned. Are we as men being singled out here? #METOO!
I appreciate all the tips. Guess SA is becoming either A) more PC so they don't get shutdown or B) banning people randomly so they can make more bucks.
There's a thread on the Let's Talk Sugar forum about the eventual potential demise of SA. I hope it doesn't go away but maybe something better will be next. Hosted in NL!
I don't know if there is some sort of double standard but I frequently have SBs tell me explicitly what they will and won't do. As far as I know they are not getting banned. Are we as men being singled out here? #METOO!
I appreciate all the tips. Guess SA is becoming either A) more PC so they don't get shutdown or B) banning people randomly so they can make more bucks.
There's a thread on the Let's Talk Sugar forum about the eventual potential demise of SA. I hope it doesn't go away but maybe something better will be next. Hosted in NL!Always good to play it safe.
Just noticed her on SA: https://www.seeking.com/member/0e5661d0-07e0-1dfc-88f7-7ba717269116.
So after some emails back and forth I am reinstated. I told them I wanted proof of what I was doing and that I was very serious of going further if I could with defamation. I take high offense to being accused of something serious as contacting underage woman on the site. First off that doesn't even exist everyones 18 and if there not and put 18 anyway well how the fuck would I know. But I have my real pics up on that site and don't need that accusation hanging over me but I'm back up and back at it so lets see how long it lasts before the next bullshit comes around.
I got banned and this time they won't give me the reason why. They can't discuss it.Seriously, you can call the credit card company and do a chargeback. Those cost the company a fee in addition to the amount they pull back (or so I've been told). Too many of those and they get dumped by the processor. You should threaten this right away, because most companies, especially those on the edges of legality, are susceptible to it.
JimXuper90
08-30-18, 20:36
Seriously, you can call the credit card company and do a chargeback. Those cost the company a fee in addition to the amount they pull back (or so I've been told). Too many of those and they get dumped by the processor. You should threaten this right away, because most companies, especially those on the edges of legality, are susceptible to it.Using a prepaid credit card with a fake name will make the chargeback dispute difficult.
JimXuper90
08-30-18, 20:38
This guy I know, he's paying 2 k a month for one girl in Boston area and he wouldn't tell me who she is. Ha.
CandyMan555
08-30-18, 21:28
I met this one this afternoon my hotel Romanian girl BBBJCIM cfs daty beautiful tits no drama $250 no rush.
https://www.seeking.com/member/f6792867-d5b8-4418-a407-9723c6463cc7
BostonMan781
08-30-18, 21:29
I got banned after a week / I contacted them too, and they said it was final as well. I told them I wanted names of the people who ratted me out and they said they never do that. I guess you get hung without a trial. That site is full of bullshit anyway. And, I never said anything offensive or threatening to anyone. Luckily I got about ten numbers I can use at any time. I already met two. One was FANTASTIC, the other not so much. So. Screw you SA!I've met alot of good looking women on there. Especially college girls.
Just noticed her on SA: https://www.seeking.com/member/0e5661d0-07e0-1dfc-88f7-7ba717269116.This one was on BP / CL in the Leominster area for the last couple of years. Average to poor reviews from what I remember. I never made a visit.
Laissez Faire
08-31-18, 08:50
My 7 day trial just expired and of course 4 people responded to my initial message afterwards. Already have a few numbers to see if theyll pan out, but the hunt of SA is kind of addictive haha, cause if they pan out, they payout is pretty great! Now to debate whether I re-up for the 30 subscription to try to close those last few or not, but sounds like a few people are having troubles with SA
Christobel
08-31-18, 10:03
Has anyone seen her?
Just noticed her on SA: https://www.seeking.com/member/0e5661d0-07e0-1dfc-88f7-7ba717269116.
Using a prepaid credit card with a fake name will make the chargeback dispute difficult.Yeah. But SA may not know it's a pre-paid with fake name. You can still level an empty threat to see how far it gets you.
Has anyone seen her?I saw her during her BP Leominster days. Heavy smoker, somewhat rushed, ok body but couldn't get by the face and greasy hair. I though I saw later comments of people getting ripped off by her, but I could be mistaken. Not a repeat for me. Hence the "Trasha" moniker. She also wined about guys trying to negotiate a lower price. CFS, BBBJCIMWS 250. The picture I posted was the one I thought she looked more like in real life. The other 2 pics on SA, while her, I think are a little misleading. It may just be a matter of taste.
JimXuper90
08-31-18, 17:48
Yeah. But SA may not know it's a pre-paid with fake name. You can still level an empty threat to see how far it gets you.I don't do empty threat well. And I doubt SA will have that problem since everyone is using fake prepaid cards these days. They aren't stupid.
Apothecary
09-01-18, 01:05
Any luck yet?
Been speaking to her and will likely take a chance, seems pretty sweet so far, can't host though, so debating on getting a room somewhere, anyone have any experiences? Otherwise it'll be a Hail Mary toftt haha. https://www.seeking.com/member/915a8a8e-c49b-465c-8bbd-4790afb6c53e.
Hello all,
I'm moving to Boston next month and just wanted to introduce myself. Been on SA for a few yrs and had some ups and downs especially since BP was down. Thanks for all the info and I'm looking forward to share my experience soon.
I met this one this afternoon my hotel Romanian girl BBBJCIM cfs daty beautiful tits no drama $250 no rush.
https://www.seeking.com/member/f6792867-d5b8-4418-a407-9723c6463cc7Thumbs way up.
I've been off for a while and just connected with a nice one from old emails and will probably keep it going $250 no rush.
I can't host anymore like back in my heyday.
Are there enough on there who can host at their houses, apartments, dorm rooms or old age homes?
Need to have more options now that BP and CL are gone. Especially for business travel.
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