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In my experience, no one is posting their gems on the board. There are some out there and if you put in the effort to meet up with them, build trust, and establish an arrangement it is unlikely they will be posted here to be flooded with messages. If you put in the effort, aren't a basement dweller, and are halfway decent looking their is a lot of opportunity on SA. It's not easy and there are flakes to weed through but there is fun to be had.💯 💯.
No guy is going to post the gems.
KcirtaPanner2
08-10-22, 07:32
💯 💯.
No guy is going to post the gems.Agreed with both of you, however if anyone is interested in *trading* info on said gems, feel free to PM me.
Takes some effort but you can find some gems. All depends on your and your game, they're not just going to land in your lap.I agree with you.
It is definitely a lot of work but, I've ran into some real & rare gems here.
Agreed with both of you, however if anyone is interested in *trading* info on said gems, feel free to PM me.I'm going to join today and try this out. Its recommended to get a vanilla visa correct?
If I find gems I will trade with trusted mongers. That is the entire reason for this blog!
I posted a review of a hottie (along with other average girls) once but she was just a little too young and immature for me and I was done with her after a few times.
Just to clarify, when you guys say gem, I take it you mean someone long term and you really connect with, not necessarily a hottie, correct? A few guys have posted reviews of some real hotties. Queenofgreen comes to mind.
BTW, if any of you guys ever hooked up with princess nunu based on my review I would love to hear back. PM of course. And your welcome. She is long gone BTW.
💯 💯.
No guy is going to post the gems.
I'm going to join today and try this out. Its recommended to get a vanilla visa correct?
If I find gems I will trade with trusted mongers. That is the entire reason for this blog!Is a cc safe for this??
See how the location is set to "New Hampshire, New Hampshire" instead of naming a town? That's common to MANY scammer profiles. Always a red flag in and of itself.The scammers always have ethnicities listed that obviously don't match the photo as well. Another easy tell.
MinorLeague
08-11-22, 06:35
Just to clarify, when you guys say gem, I take it you mean someone long term and you really connect with, not necessarily a hottie, correct?I've been on SA since it started because it's to find gems; my definition of a gem is a girl who isn't a pro / who I can't get from an agency, and who I wouldn't typically be able to pick up at a bar / from my civilian life. So 9's, 10's in my book. Otherwise for me SA is not worth the effort / time it takes. I can just stay home or find someone on TER.
MinorLeague
08-11-22, 06:38
Is a cc safe for this??The charge is noticeable on whatever card you use, though technically someone can also see your profile by making a sugar baby account. I've always used a personal (non-family) card since that's easier for me, and I figure risk is somewhat low in terms of that news getting out there. Note SA has a tendency to just keep charging, even if you cancel the recurring, and even if you remove a card (it takes at least two times of removing the card from your account to take effect).
More risky in my opinion than using a personal card is having your photo on your public profile. I used to keep at least one image public, but lately I've taken to making all my pictures private and including in my profile that if a girl is interested, just ask me and I'll share photos. I don't share until I check their photos / they look reasonably real and not someone I know. I started seeing girls from Tinder and Bumble on SA and in general I prioritize discretion more than something like credit card data leaks. YMMV of course.
Edit: I also used to use a fake photo I found online that reasonably looks like me for the one public photo but stopped doing that because some girls really look and they don't like when things feel off. I know some guys who like block out their face with an emoji or a cute dog but I haven't done the former and don't have a dog. PS: I hate it when girls like draw with black marker on their photos to block out some or all of their faces; looks awful.
DarkClouds
08-11-22, 07:56
You're focusing too much on appearance. I don't want to date any fatties or uglies (thick is fine), but the performance you can get from some of the non-pros on SA is what really makes it worthwhile.
I've been on SA since it started because it's to find gems; my definition of a gem is a girl who isn't a pro / who I can't get from an agency, and who I wouldn't typically be able to pick up at a bar / from my civilian life. So 9's, 10's in my book. Otherwise for me SA is not worth the effort / time it takes. I can just stay home or find someone on TER.
Longjblues
08-11-22, 11:30
Any info on 35 yr old, "red"head, 5'5, in Haverhill? Seems direct and new.
"Baby Red".
35 • Female • Haverhill, Massachusetts, United States.
Hot little red head you won't forget.
https://members.seeking.com/member/89313555-752e-42de-8db9-f48712a42a7c
https://worcester.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/Starting-your-AM-OFF-right-Wi/109737266716
So this girl (Kenzie. Sophia) has been advertising on and off for 2 years. Her pimp has other girls under his belt. You can actually see him in the mirror. She's 29 years old. Finding her real name is not that hard if you do some digging on the internet. I have never met her. But can someone tell me anything about her? Does she really do anal?? Does she kiss? Pussy smell nice? And fresh?. Does she host from a nice safe house? Just anything. She advertises on seeking arrangements and skip the games. I'm hoping to hear back from someone that has actually met her. It's really tiring reading reviews from guys that have never seen girls. But just like to talk about them LOL. Not mentioning names. But it happens over and over again. If you haven't met the girl don't say a single word about her. It's not going to help me out. I know post count and hooker credit means a lot to some broke ass dudes on this forum. Not to me. Just looking for real accurate but as possible. BTW she has changed her phone number 10 times this week.
ARegularGuy
08-11-22, 18:16
She quoted me 600 and said, "its pretty standard". I took a pass.
ARG.
https://members.seeking.com/member/7761d6e4-fe14-429f-b096-ac32bc368d61 - Anyone have feedback. PM is fine if not here. Thanks.
She quoted me 600 and said, "its pretty standard". I took a pass.
ARG.Got quoted way less than that she has a solid body, face isn't the best but it was a nice fun ride.
SeekingCury
08-12-22, 16:34
Anyone know this one? Face / hair seems a bit man-ish but I'm intrigued.
https://members.seeking.com/member/f633600a-a3e5-42a5-be08-97a2b2001787
Got quoted way less than that she has a solid body, face isn't the best but it was a nice fun ride.I'd pay the 600. Is she real?
Member #6101
08-13-22, 13:12
Like anything I get tired of seeing the same girls I have met on SDM or SA. I have 3 girl's info that I have been given permission to share to a few enthusiasts. 3 girls that are great at fucking and just need to text them to set up appointments, non pros too.
If you have any similar girls who will circumvent the usual meet and great and just like to set something up we can trade info.
I've texted a few girls and they all went to $1 K. I've been on and off of SA and it just seems like the ask from these girls is going up? I used to pay 400 for really great girls? Ugh.
I've texted a few girls and they all went to $1 K. I've been on and off of SA and it just seems like the ask from these girls is going up? I used to pay 400 for really great girls? Ugh.I'd pay 1 k if they were spending a whole weekend with me and we're always ready to go.
BigGuy3344
08-13-22, 19:54
I've texted a few girls and they all went to $1 K. I've been on and off of SA and it just seems like the ask from these girls is going up? I used to pay 400 for really great girls? Ugh.Which ones are asking 1 k now?
DarkClouds
08-13-22, 20:07
I've spent 6-8 hours with several ladies who were 8 or 9/10 in my mind and the allowance wasn't anything out of the ordinary (although you can add to that cost of drinks, food, etc.). We just clicked. And for me it's not just about appearance. A 10/10 girl that isn't enamored with me is sort of useless. A 9/10 girl that pushes all my buttons is like a slice of heaven. The trick is to be patient and wait for the ones that don't have a big 1 k head. As the fishing analogy goes. Waiting without a fishing line is pointless. You got to have several lines in the water and then have the patience to catch the big kahuna (and throw the 1 k misfits back in the water LOL).
I'd pay 1 k if they were spending a whole weekend with me and we're always ready to go.
DarkClouds
08-13-22, 20:17
Actually never mind. 1 k is worth it for a whole weekend, as in 48 hours. Although I don't think I would want any more than 6-8 hours of disruption to my normal life LOL. Going to spend the rest of the time sleeping and stuff anyway.
I'd pay 1 k if they were spending a whole weekend with me and we're always ready to go.
SeekingCury
08-14-22, 14:50
Actually never mind. 1 k is worth it for a whole weekend, as in 48 hours. Although I don't think I would want any more than 6-8 hours of disruption to my normal life LOL. Going to spend the rest of the time sleeping and stuff anyway.Yeah I once had a girl for about 48 hours with me on a small weekend trip. Tossed her 700 and she drained me about five times and also had a lot of hanging out time too. Those are the keepers. Shame she moved though, used to have a lot of fun and was a genuine screamer, a surprising new kink.
Which ones are asking 1 k now?This one wants 1 k https://members.seeking.com/member/6ca7a73e-4bd7-4676-a6db-b4e64cdb6353 - haven't met her nor tried to negotiate yet.
This one wants 1 k https://members.seeking.com/member/6ca7a73e-4bd7-4676-a6db-b4e64cdb6353 - haven't met her nor tried to negotiate yet.With that nose, she should be the one paying you 1 K.
SixtyNineX10
08-17-22, 14:52
This one wants 1 k https://members.seeking.com/member/6ca7a73e-4bd7-4676-a6db-b4e64cdb6353 - haven't met her nor tried to negotiate yet.I think she would play for $600 - $700 - but said it was for an hour, so hit me as more of a pro. Not in my budget and even if it was. Not sure I would spend it on her.
RonRokz 007
08-18-22, 00:46
Like anything I get tired of seeing the same girls I have met on SDM or SA. I have 3 girl's info that I have been given permission to share to a few enthusiasts. 3 girls that are great at fucking and just need to text them to set up appointments, non pros too.
If you have any similar girls who will circumvent the usual meet and great and just like to set something up we can trade info.Hello, I have PM'd you.
I think she would play for $600 - $700 - but said it was for an hour, so hit me as more of a pro. Not in my budget and even if it was. Not sure I would spend it on her.If they give a time limit, it's a pro and not what I personally look for.
The students / young professionals who do this for rent help / extra cash / kink don't raise time limits.
I know there's a sister site for foreign girl (but the payment options suck) but anyways my question is if you guys know any you tubers or tiktoks or anything of men traveling to foreign countries, showing the girls, documenting their trips etc. I found one TikTok of a guy seemingly doing that and was wondering if there were more.
I'm assuming scam but had to check. Anyone know this one?
https://members.seeking.com/member/956621a3-1a1f-4a6b-9043-297e6d6bf574
DarkClouds
08-21-22, 19:38
My rule of thumb is not to touch any profile less than 30 days old (most scammers will be reported and deleted within 30 days). But this one sure looks tempting.
I'm assuming scam but had to check. Anyone know this one?
https://members.seeking.com/member/956621a3-1a1f-4a6b-9043-297e6d6bf574
I'm assuming scam but had to check. Anyone know this one?
https://members.seeking.com/member/956621a3-1a1f-4a6b-9043-297e6d6bf574Scam LOL that's pornstar sarah vandella.
Scam LOL that's pornstar sarah vandella.Bwahaha I never know the pornstar ones apparently but always seem to pick out the ones obviously too good to be true. Thanks for the name though.
SixtyNineX10
08-22-22, 13:35
Any feedback from anyone on this lady. PM is fine to. Seems familiar to me, but I don't know why. Sometimes these profiles all blend to together. LOL.
https://members.seeking.com/member/a572bd0c-8eaf-4293-b8dd-3a6c3c958da1
I recently joined SB and noticed that a girl that I regularly see at the gym is also on SB. She was among the first girls to like my profile. What is the best way to approach her outside SB?
I recently joined SB and noticed that a girl that I regularly see at the gym is also on SB. She was among the first girls to like my profile. What is the best way to approach her outside SB?Lead with that. Not an opener, but strike up a conversation and steer it that way if she's flirty.
I recently joined SB and noticed that a girl that I regularly see at the gym is also on SB. She was among the first girls to like my profile. What is the best way to approach her outside SB?That's going to be tough to try to get with her and not make yourself look like you stalking her. Good luck though because it's not going to be easy at all having this conversation.
Patriarchist
08-23-22, 20:59
I had this chick over. She didn't ask a single thing about me. In fact I believe the first question she asked was if the donation was going to be cash. LOL fuck that. I Know their type. Was hardly making eye contact with me either and said she had to leave within an hour of arriving. Sent that useless thot away; I'm not dealing with these ice queens. Guarantee it would have been lame CBJ and CFS at best.
https://members.seeking.com/member/3b14449a-082d-4a43-9e20-2e18b34201f8
I recently joined SB and noticed that a girl that I regularly see at the gym is also on SB. She was among the first girls to like my profile. What is the best way to approach her outside SB?If she liked your profile you know she is interested in you. Why not talk to her online first instead of surprising her at the gym? Just hit her up online and mention you recognize her from the gym. Nothing creepy about being upfront and honest. Girls actually appreciate that. Plus, there's a good chance she already recognizes you from the gym. And if she doesn't, you will both bump into each other eventually. Then it will be awkward and creepy. The only thing I can think of that works against your favor is if she doesn't recognize you from the gym and discretion is the upmost importance to her. Then you are screwed (not in a good way).
MyDarkSide
08-23-22, 22:16
I recently joined SB and noticed that a girl that I regularly see at the gym is also on SB. She was among the first girls to like my profile. What is the best way to approach her outside SB?LOL. If interested I'd be very cautious and not bring it up outside SA. She liked your profile; keep it there.
I recently joined SB and noticed that a girl that I regularly see at the gym is also on SB. She was among the first girls to like my profile. What is the best way to approach her outside SB?My first goal is always to get laid. After that decide if you want to continue to repeat with her. If not I wouldn't say anything, if so get comfortable with her and eventually it will come up probably very quickly after the prime objective is done. I wouldn't take a chance of spooking her before making your play. Discretion is usually a big part of this for the boys and the girls.
KcirtaPanner2
08-24-22, 21:31
https://members.seeking.com/member/c211c7ae-110c-4be8-8f8e-ef4e821b7edb#.
This one asked for 5. But said her BF has to be there to watch or join in. Figured I'd post since I know some of you guys are into that. I'm contemplating, never done it before, scares me a little bit tbh.
CandyMan555
08-24-22, 22:56
The charge is noticeable on whatever card you use, though technically someone can also see your profile by making a sugar baby account. I've always used a personal (non-family) card since that's easier for me, and I figure risk is somewhat low in terms of that news getting out there. Note SA has a tendency to just keep charging, even if you cancel the recurring, and even if you remove a card (it takes at least two times of removing the card from your account to take effect).
More risky in my opinion than using a personal card is having your photo on your public profile. I used to keep at least one image public, but lately I've taken to making all my pictures private and including in my profile that if a girl is interested, just ask me and I'll share photos. I don't share until I check their photos / they look reasonably real and not someone I know. I started seeing girls from Tinder and Bumble on SA and in general I prioritize discretion more than something like credit card data leaks. YMMV of course.
Edit: I also used to use a fake photo I found online that reasonably looks like me for the one public photo but stopped doing that because some girls really look and they don't like when things feel off. I know some guys who like block out their face with an emoji or a cute dog but I haven't done the former and don't have a dog. PS: I hate it when girls like draw with black marker on their photos to block out some or all of their faces; looks awful.I used a photo of my back shoulders with a very slight turn of my head and they accepted it.
Better than no photo at all \.
CM.
MinorLeague
08-25-22, 00:21
https://members.seeking.com/member/c211c7ae-110c-4be8-8f8e-ef4e821b7edb#.
This one asked for 5. But said her BF has to be there to watch or join in. Figured I'd post since I know some of you guys are into that. I'm contemplating, never done it before, scares me a little bit tbh.Yea I'm not into a guy watching me / that does nothing for me. In some rare cases the second person will also rob / mug you so something to be aware of / always control the environment. I don't like her face either.
MinorLeague
08-25-22, 00:23
This one wants 1 k https://members.seeking.com/member/6ca7a73e-4bd7-4676-a6db-b4e64cdb6353 - haven't met her nor tried to negotiate yet.I've been talking with her, she's going to be MIA starting next week because she's getting a boob job. I'd jump in at the $1 K if she were younger and her bottom wasn't as thick.
MyDarkSide
08-25-22, 00:28
Is a cc safe for this??May issue is a data breech like that other ash mad dating site a while back more than charges appearing. They made up searchable data base to number, name, billing address. It was wild. Imagine putting in your zip code and getting a list of names on sa. Any hidden pic I use comes from a public social media site. Plausible deniability.
https://members.seeking.com/member/c211c7ae-110c-4be8-8f8e-ef4e821b7edb#.
This one asked for 5. But said her BF has to be there to watch or join in. Figured I'd post since I know some of you guys are into that. I'm contemplating, never done it before, scares me a little bit tbh.Trust your gut and if it feels off then stay away. Don't put yourself in a position to be ripped off especially for what imo is an average looking SB. Plenty of other choices to pick from and it is back to school season so it should only get better.
Is a cc safe for this??Ofc not but just use a CC in your name only and that has good fraud alerts. You can always tell the CC company your card was stolen and they will cancel the transactions. I was hacked the day after I signed up years ago and never renewed my subscription.
https://members.seeking.com/member/c211c7ae-110c-4be8-8f8e-ef4e821b7edb#.
This one asked for 5. But said her BF has to be there to watch or join in. Figured I'd post since I know some of you guys are into that. I'm contemplating, never done it before, scares me a little bit tbh.It's always some risk. . . Adding in 2 of them vs. 1 of you. . . You better really have the hots for her. IMHO she's very ordinary looking and I'd pass on that.
If you want to go for it insist on a meetup first at a coffee shop. The worst of the criminals won't agree to that.
KcirtaPanner2
08-25-22, 13:17
It's always some risk. . . Adding in 2 of them vs. 1 of you. . . You better really have the hots for her. IMHO she's very ordinary looking and I'd pass on that.
If you want to go for it insist on a meetup first at a coffee shop. The worst of the criminals won't agree to that.I think she's sexy but yeah, at the very least I would meet them somewhere briefly in public first.
Trailman44
08-25-22, 15:13
https://members.seeking.com/member/c211c7ae-110c-4be8-8f8e-ef4e821b7edb#.
This one asked for 5. But said her BF has to be there to watch or join in. Figured I'd post since I know some of you guys are into that. I'm contemplating, never done it before, scares me a little bit tbh.This one reached out to me and was willing to drive to me. She wanted her straight boyfriend to come and join in too. She mentioned DVP. Similar donation and was willing to do anything but anal uncovered. I never met with her as it is not yet my thing but throwing it out there. https://members.seeking.com/member/9f9079bc-b372-4e55-8425-64b209397b9d.
I'm fed up with paying for hotels. Trying to find girls in the 350-400 range who could host and who aren't weirdos?
Any advice.
Anyone meet up with her?
https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/10dbde74-7100-428a-b9fb-f167bc7ac25b
LaurentDing
08-26-22, 20:55
https://members.seeking.com/member/411278e2-1db8-4647-8db7-2fd59b96941f
Link attached above. Honestly she looks so hot but I never got a response from her though she checked my profile. Now I am wondering if the site is reserved for those billionaires?
Anyone meet up with her?
https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/10dbde74-7100-428a-b9fb-f167bc7ac25bYour link is to your messages so we can't see who you are referring to.
I'm fed up with paying for hotels. Trying to find girls in the 350-400 range who could host and who aren't weirdos?
Any advice.Narrow your search to Winchester area and hope for the best. Typically the older ladies have hosting options and very few of the younger girls are not going to be able to provide hosting due to the price of rents. Single moms are another option however it may take some time for them to allow you into their save space. I had a single mom that warmed up to me and would visit her regularly after she put her daughter to bed. She was 23 and had her own apartment subsidized by her parents that eventually ended and she had to move back home. Rents are high and most girls usually have to have roommates.
LaurentDing
08-26-22, 22:10
Narrow your search to Winchester area and hope for the best. Typically the older ladies have hosting options and very few of the younger girls are not going to be able to provide hosting due to the price of rents. Single moms are another option however it may take some time for them to allow you into their save space. I had a single mom that warmed up to me and would visit her regularly after she put her daughter to bed. She was 23 and had her own apartment subsidized by her parents that eventually ended and she had to move back home. Rents are high and most girls usually have to have roommates.Man I think I know the mom you are talking about. I would really like to know more about her. I will really appreciate it if you could help. Thanks! (I privately messaged u).
Your link is to your messages so we can't see who you are referring to.https://members.seeking.com/member/a894f5f4-6e06-4032-9404-e9d2c5f248a6
Thanks.
https://members.seeking.com/member/a894f5f4-6e06-4032-9404-e9d2c5f248a6
Thanks.Used to host out of Pawtucket. Liked to be dominated. Was into the whole daddy thing. No condoms asked for and anal was okay. Originally settled for 3 but have heard she now starts negotiating at 6. She's a little chunkier than she was back then. Good luck.
Man I think I know the mom you are talking about. I would really like to know more about her. I will really appreciate it if you could help. Thanks! (I privately messaged u).There are a lot of single Moms out there so I don't think you know her?? I would never give out her info anyway as she was UTR and I actually picked her up off FB. A
I was referring to single m9ms because you said you were looking for a no hotel option. You can either host yourself, if you have that option, most don’t, or find a girl that has an apartment and is willing to trust you to invite you to her home. This may take a few hotel visits as she probably won’t want to risk it or her having to explain who you are.
Banjomania
08-28-22, 07:56
I ended up there once. I cannot remember what I paid, but somewhere between 3 and 6. One of my more unusual episodes. The house was nice. She had a room on the second floor. I walked in and noted quite a few domination toys. After a few preliminaries I bent her over the bed, took a paddle she had on a bookcase and started spanking her with the paddle. She LOVED it. So I kept her bent over and stuck my cock in bare and drove it home for some time, all the while continuing to spank her ass with the paddle. Eventually I blew my wad and was on my way. She's actually quite nice and seems intelligent. Just likes to be dominated. Her ass was quite red when I left. Never went back.
Used to host out of Pawtucket. Liked to be dominated. Was into the whole daddy thing. No condoms asked for and anal was okay. Originally settled for 3 but have heard she now starts negotiating at 6. She's a little chunkier than she was back then. Good luck.
Discretion23
08-28-22, 10:49
Is it just me or has there been an explosion of late 40's and 50+ year Olds on Seeking? I have chatted with one and was looking for a 300+ donation. I politely told her I would be happy wining and dining her but I can easily be with women my age.
Is it just me or has there been an explosion of late 40's and 50+ year Olds on Seeking? I have chatted with one and was looking for a 300+ donation. I politely told her I would be happy wining and dining her but I can easily be with women my age.I saw a 70 yr old on there the other day. I just kinda laughed.
VikTerpentian
08-28-22, 16:58
Who is paying them so much?
VikTerpentian
08-28-22, 17:01
https://members.seeking.com/member/c67ff9fe-0779-48a2-a406-071cfb5df2aa
Sweet girl, lives in Nova Scotia. Canada, but expects you to fly her from there to the US.
JuanRoz2011
08-29-22, 07:05
Does anyone knows how to paid membership with prepaid card? Thanks.
Who is paying them so much?I've had some ask for a bigger donation on date #1 (like 400 if the normal rate is 300) but only if we're f*ing on the first date. 1 K to meet and then 500 for platonic dates for a few months is nuts. That's the definition of rinsing. But maybe someone is paying that? Who knows.
I've started a conversation with her but I'm pretty skeptical. Newish profile and I'm sure I've seen her pic on Seeking in the past.
https://members.seeking.com/member/06b9b355-8ff0-471d-bacb-9141f43456f3
Any experiences good or bad?
DrinIvisible
08-29-22, 11:20
I've started a conversation with her but I'm pretty skeptical. Newish profile and I'm sure I've seen her pic on Seeking in the past.
https://members.seeking.com/member/06b9b355-8ff0-471d-bacb-9141f43456f3
Any experiences good or bad?You guys need to watch more porn so you could recognize the obvious fake pornstar profiles. Annabel Redd!
GuideMaster67
08-29-22, 11:31
There's also a lot of under the radar girls I've noticed in the city. There's one particular Blonde Latina I know who's got her whole apartment, pet dog, etc paid for by people. She used to be on the site as far as I know but has been doing the UTR thing for a while.
She says the relationships are platonic but with the amount of money she's getting I seriously doubt it.
RareFind2021
08-29-22, 11:32
I'm going to join today and try this out. Its recommended to get a vanilla visa correct?
If I find gems I will trade with trusted mongers. That is the entire reason for this blog!How did you make out with the vinall card? I did that last year but have heard it may not work now?
Turned out to be a pic scammer. (Wants $ for pics before meeting.) Shocking, I know!
I've started a conversation with her but I'm pretty skeptical. Newish profile and I'm sure I've seen her pic on Seeking in the past.
https://members.seeking.com/member/06b9b355-8ff0-471d-bacb-9141f43456f3
Any experiences good or bad?
JuanRoz2011
08-29-22, 17:58
Had anyone seen this one.
https://members.seeking.com/member/9f243b6d-31c3-4e82-8492-5a354c6b3cfa
DarkClouds
08-29-22, 18:01
Thumbs down from me. Didn't measure up to my vetting and terms.
Had anyone seen this one.
https://members.seeking.com/member/9f243b6d-31c3-4e82-8492-5a354c6b3cfa
JClearMan1
08-29-22, 19:48
https://members.seeking.com/member/91ebea4c-6baa-4326-91de-3a1c8b6f88d6
Can't host, wants $750 for any date that ends in sex. GTFO.
JuanRoz2011
08-29-22, 20:40
Thumbs down from me. Didn't measure up to my vetting and terms.Thanks bro for the advice. She asked me 300 for covered sex and bbj but something seems off.
JuanRoz2011
08-29-22, 20:45
How did you make out with the vinall card? I did that last year but have heard it may not work now?I used google pay. It shows on my card as google transaction.
DarkClouds
08-29-22, 20:50
I believe that's only possible if you have an Android phone. The Seeking app was removed from the iPhone App Store. And I don't know about traceability, if something like an Ashley Madison hack results in the publication of a list of all members.
I used google pay. It shows on my card as google transaction.
Would be easier to find and understand sometimes than the some of the women on this site. Yup. Gone again. An enigma. For what it's worth the user name is "Amazing2022" in case anyone has run across it. Or does. It's now moved into "too much effort" land for me.So this one is back but have no expectations of how long the profile will be up so apologies in advance. Apparently only is active when she wants to "fish" or communicate. Have had a few good conversations but long lapses. Could be a case of chasing too much and should move on. Wondering if real or I should do just that. Appreciate any feedback if you have or do reach out. Profile is "Letsmake2022 amazing". Thanks guys -.
https://members.seeking.com/member/ec4f671f-0ca7-440a-9b03-8edd2a4cb0ab
NicosWave24
08-31-22, 08:08
https://members.seeking.com/member/335570a0-4a6e-43c2-894b-3546787d6b7c
Wanted to share a good one since nobody actually seems to do that here. She's a cool chick, totally down to earth with a bangin body. I've chilled at her place for pretty much the whole day before just gettin sweaty and kickin it. Only problem is she really isn't that great of a lay and head game is sorely lacking. I still find myself going back though because it's a safe spot and I really actually dig this chick. Anyways, if a safe spot and bangin bod is what you lookin for then here ya go.
https://members.seeking.com/member/335570a0-4a6e-43c2-894b-3546787d6b7c
Wanted to share a good one since nobody actually seems to do that here. She's a cool chick, totally down to earth with a bangin body. I've chilled at her place for pretty much the whole day before just gettin sweaty and kickin it. Only problem is she really isn't that great of a lay and head game is sorely lacking. I still find myself going back though because it's a safe spot and I really actually dig this chick. Anyways, if a safe spot and bangin bod is what you lookin for then here ya go.Cannot seem to log into this one, just goes round and round. How about cutting and pasting the information from the site.
DarkClouds
08-31-22, 10:42
You have to be a member of the site to be able to view the profiles.
Cannot seem to log into this one, just goes round and round. How about cutting and pasting the information from the site.
KcirtaPanner2
08-31-22, 18:27
https://members.seeking.com/member/335570a0-4a6e-43c2-894b-3546787d6b7c
Wanted to share a good one since nobody actually seems to do that here. She's a cool chick, totally down to earth with a bangin body. I've chilled at her place for pretty much the whole day before just gettin sweaty and kickin it. Only problem is she really isn't that great of a lay and head game is sorely lacking. I still find myself going back though because it's a safe spot and I really actually dig this chick. Anyways, if a safe spot and bangin bod is what you lookin for then here ya go.How much are we talking and is she really in or near Boston?
DrinIvisible
09-01-22, 13:05
Hey guys,
I wanted to share a scammer profile. She met with for coffee, I paid for her meal. We talked about everything and she was open for pretty much everything. Long story short, she dashed with the money from my hotel while I went in the bathroom. We made out and everything so I had my guards were down. Unfortunately, I was left with a hard-on and down $500.
https://members.seeking.com/member/3fa17715-e211-4534-94b5-3abf19579d1f
Hey guys,
I wanted to share a scammer profile. She met with for coffee, I paid for her meal. We talked about everything and she was open for pretty much everything. Long story short, she dashed with the money from my hotel while I went in the bathroom. We made out and everything so I had my guards were down. Unfortunately, I was left with a hard-on and down $500.
https://members.seeking.com/member/3fa17715-e211-4534-94b5-3abf19579d1f500 for her?? Honestly you can get a smoking hot college girl full GFE for all of that and then some. Pros tend to ask for the money up front so you need to be aware of that. The younger less experienced or nonpro girls, at least my experiences have been, don't typically look for the money until we have finished.
Hey guys,
I wanted to share a scammer profile. She met with for coffee, I paid for her meal. We talked about everything and she was open for pretty much everything. Long story short, she dashed with the money from my hotel while I went in the bathroom. We made out and everything so I had my guards were down. Unfortunately, I was left with a hard-on and down $500.
https://members.seeking.com/member/3fa17715-e211-4534-94b5-3abf19579d1fWas talking to her and she seemed really really adamant about meeting. We postponed meeting and ultimately didn't. Appreciate you toftt and sucks that you got whacked. Her face was a little chubby but her body looked good in the pictures.
Hey guys,
I wanted to share a scammer profile. She met with for coffee, I paid for her meal. We talked about everything and she was open for pretty much everything. Long story short, she dashed with the money from my hotel while I went in the bathroom. We made out and everything so I had my guards were down. Unfortunately, I was left with a hard-on and down $500.
https://members.seeking.com/member/3fa17715-e211-4534-94b5-3abf19579d1fI'm guessing you paid in advance? It's not that she searched your stuff when you were in the bathroom, stole the money and ran?
I never paid a SB up front or had one ask for payment up front (scammers aside), always at the end as I'm leaving. This is one of the distinguishing differences between true SB's and pros who demand money up front.
DrinIvisible
09-02-22, 14:33
Hey guys,
I wanted to share a scammer profile. She met with for coffee, I paid for her meal. We talked about everything and she was open for pretty much everything. Long story short, she dashed with the money from my hotel while I went in the bathroom. We made out and everything so I had my guards were down. Unfortunately, I was left with a hard-on and down $500.
https://members.seeking.com/member/3fa17715-e211-4534-94b5-3abf19579d1fI know, I am quite experienced at that. I had left the money on the table so her to take afterwards. She played the game well (actually too well). She kissed, got naked, let me bite her nipples. By that time, my guard was down because I wouldn't think this could happen. Oh well, licks wounds and moves on on to the next adventure!
VikTerpentian
09-02-22, 15:00
Seems friendly to talk to and ready to meet.
https://members.seeking.com/member/a55451b2-0d92-47ab-bea6-1aff4b79feed
BigGuy3344
09-02-22, 18:30
Per the title.
Any success stories? Feel free to share. .
Hopelessromant
09-02-22, 20:18
Seems friendly to talk to and ready to meet.
https://members.seeking.com/member/a55451b2-0d92-47ab-bea6-1aff4b79feedShe is indeed very friendly and ready to meet. Then when you set up a date, she asks for money deposited into her Uber account.
LaurentDing
09-03-22, 09:55
Cannot seem to log into this one, just goes round and round. How about cutting and pasting the information from the site.This girl was willing to talk by text, and exchanges pics which match the pics on her account. She asked for a ppm which was ideal for me. However, when I asked when to meet, she ghosted and never texted back. Really skeptical about this one.
LaurentDing
09-03-22, 10:00
OK, so this girl is very easy to set up appointment with. I guess it's bc her ex sugar daddy left the town and she was eager to find a new one to replace him. 350 for a bareback section. She has huge tits but also bit tanky. Age 24 with a normal job. I really don't know how to recommend about this one since she has pros and cons. Her tits are pro, but she's a bit oversized. Also she said her pussy was sore in second round. And she seems only do 2 rounds so a pro in this which is not surprising given her past arrangements.
All in all, if you want to have someone quick to line up with, try her.
LaurentDing
09-03-22, 10:22
Sorry guys here is the link:
https://members.seeking.com/member/aace2ad6-59d7-4a85-8615-c7e33340cb2f
LaurentDing
09-03-22, 10:26
She also yelled "creampie in me" in action.
She is real slutty!
FriendlyKing
09-03-22, 13:39
Scammer alert! Looked legit at the beginning but she was into selling videos once we moved to text.
DarkClouds
09-03-22, 16:40
She just changed her name to Joanna. Trying to escape her reputation?
I know, I am quite experienced at that. I had left the money on the table so her to take afterwards. She played the game well (actually too well). She kissed, got naked, let me bite her nipples. By that time, my guard was down because I wouldn't think this could happen. Oh well, licks wounds and moves on on to the next adventure!
Anyone have any experience with or has seen her?
https://members.seeking.com/member/89bbfebd-33c8-4e58-b3ae-874c18f12111Fucked the shit out of her a couple years ago, waitress at the cabaret, 400 then.
Fucked the shit out of her a couple years ago, waitress at the cabaret, 400 then.She messaged me once a few months ago. She wants something crazy like $750 for an hour. No way!
Mattis1775
09-05-22, 13:30
Gotten maybe 5 emails the past two weeks on 33% off on membership. Must be desperate for new membership after banning members. Thought about doing it again after gotten banned for no reason at all. Just don't want to deal with the workaround regarding the CC. We'll see.
She messaged me once a few months ago. She wants something crazy like $750 for an hour. No way!Yikes, was actually 300, but I fucked her in the ass, so gave her 4, we hung out for a while, too bad, she's up for everything.
Gotten maybe 5 emails the past two weeks on 33% off on membership. Must be desperate for new membership after banning members. Thought about doing it again after gotten banned for no reason at all. Just don't want to deal with the workaround regarding the CC. We'll see.You should post the code.
Profile Title: Gentlemen start your engines.
Seeking: https://members.seeking.com/member/a8608df2-bec8-4815-a876-0871d8876fed.
Has anyone got an opportunity to set something up w / this one? So far, been emailing. However, from the convos, it seems as though she wants to do things a certain way. I don't know if there's hidden messages in the profile details I need to figure out. But wondering if any one has jumped on this, tried, or experienced. Any insights would be helpful.
Profile Title: Gentlemen start your engines.
Seeking: https://members.seeking.com/member/a8608df2-bec8-4815-a876-0871d8876fed.
Has anyone got an opportunity to set something up w / this one? So far, been emailing. However, from the convos, it seems as though she wants to do things a certain way. I don't know if there's hidden messages in the profile details I need to figure out. But wondering if any one has jumped on this, tried, or experienced. Any insights would be helpful.Have never seen her or heard from hear but the pics look a little off? Not sure if she is actually 23 and in college but who knows. She may be leading up to a pay first or buy content strategy so just be aware of the typical scam. If she continues to email without wanting to do a meet and greet at a minimum you probably should just move on.
DarkClouds
09-06-22, 13:03
My golden rule of don't engage with profiles less than 3 months old applies here. You might occasionally miss out on a newbie, but more likely you will avoid a lot of headache.
Have never seen her or heard from hear but the pics look a little off? Not sure if she is actually 23 and in college but who knows. She may be leading up to a pay first or buy content strategy so just be aware of the typical scam. If she continues to email without wanting to do a meet and greet at a minimum you probably should just move on.
Does anyone know a work around after being banned on S. A. Or more importantly, Secret Benefits?
I've been off for a few years and would like to get back on, including What's Your Price. I use.
A V. P. and. (Private Internet Access) and I've changed credit card numbers. I think they find you by.
BILLING ADDRESS! I may be out of luck there. LOL.
Is there a You Tube video or cheat sheet on how to get around the bans? Thanks so much for any help.
I'd like to have an active autumn, after the past few years. LOL Be safe out there. .
KangTheMonger
09-07-22, 08:19
Does anyone know a work around after being banned on S. A. Or more importantly, Secret Benefits?
I've been off for a few years and would like to get back on, including What's Your Price. I use.
A V. P. and. (Private Internet Access) and I've changed credit card numbers. I think they find you by.
BILLING ADDRESS! I may be out of luck there. LOL.
Is there a You Tube video or cheat sheet on how to get around the bans? Thanks so much for any help.
I'd like to have an active autumn, after the past few years. LOL Be safe out there. .Try the information from this reddit post https://www.reddit.com/r/sugarlifestyleforum/comments/n396te/blocked_on_sa/?sort=new.
SixtyNineX10
09-07-22, 12:33
https://members.seeking.com/member/a572bd0c-8eaf-4293-b8dd-3a6c3c958da1
Anyone have info here. Pm is fine if you prefer. Can't host but np. I can. LMK. Thanks.
OkWhatever
09-07-22, 14:42
I've been banned on SA multiple times. The 1st time was because I was being too explicit on the site. The second time was because someone reported me for no apparent reason. This has been discussed before, but the key to not getting banned is by taking the conversation off the site ASAP.
I never had an issue getting back on with different burner numbers / e-mail addresses. I used my same credit card and / or Google Play to pay for SA without issues.
Does anyone know a work around after being banned on S. A. Or more importantly, Secret Benefits?
I've been off for a few years and would like to get back on, including What's Your Price. I use.
A V. P. and. (Private Internet Access) and I've changed credit card numbers. I think they find you by.
BILLING ADDRESS! I may be out of luck there. LOL.
Is there a You Tube video or cheat sheet on how to get around the bans? Thanks so much for any help.
I'd like to have an active autumn, after the past few years. LOL Be safe out there. .
OkWhatever
09-07-22, 14:46
Back on SA after being off for the summer. Is it me, or do most of these women have serious daddy issues?
KcirtaPanner2
09-07-22, 15:21
This one is too far for me and she doesn't drive so I figured I'd share (got her permission too) https://members.seeking.com/member/9dc8019f-2aa5-48c1-8465-aad552037636.
She says she's in an "open relationship", is 3 months pregnant, but can host, and agreed to 200 (she doesn't like the term PPM, so make sure you call it an allowance). I'm too lazy rn to upload but she looks pretty good in her private pics. If she tickles your fancy she's all yours, fellas.
This one is too far for me and she doesn't drive so I figured I'd share (got her permission too) https://members.seeking.com/member/9dc8019f-2aa5-48c1-8465-aad552037636.
She says she's in an "open relationship", is 3 months pregnant, but can host, and agreed to 200 (she doesn't like the term PPM, so make sure you call it an allowance). I'm too lazy rn to upload but she looks pretty good in her private pics. If she tickles your fancy she's all yours, fellas.She has been around for a while. Never met her and chatted just never were able to align schedules. I wonder who knocked her up.
I could not find the review but I remember reading she was a scam or even worse a setup. Can anyone confirm or deny this?
This one is too far for me and she doesn't drive so I figured I'd share (got her permission too) https://members.seeking.com/member/9dc8019f-2aa5-48c1-8465-aad552037636.
She says she's in an "open relationship", is 3 months pregnant, but can host, and agreed to 200 (she doesn't like the term PPM, so make sure you call it an allowance). I'm too lazy rn to upload but she looks pretty good in her private pics. If she tickles your fancy she's all yours, fellas.
Backbayduo
09-07-22, 18:06
Been off and on SA for years with good success. Recently went back on after a year away or so, and after it's rebranding, and not seeing any of these girls you are posting or a good selection at all. Seems far less active than previously. Am I missing something?
Back on SA after being off for the summer. Is it me, or do most of these women have serious daddy issues?The younger ones typically do. Or a bad breakup recently.
KcirtaPanner2
09-07-22, 21:25
I could not find the review but I remember reading she was a scam or even worse a setup. Can anyone confirm or deny this?Could be. It's a new profile but she definitely seems like she's been around, which isn't always a good sign. But she misunderstood me at one point and thought I wanted to come see her, and she was ready to send the address, which doesn't seem like scammer behavior. A setup, no idea, but you would think in that case she wouldn't even mention having a partner.
I've been banned on SA multiple times. The 1st time was because I was being too explicit on the site. The second time was because someone reported me for no apparent reason. This has been discussed before, but the key to not getting banned is by taking the conversation off the site ASAP.
I never had an issue getting back on with different burner numbers / e-mail addresses. I used my same credit card and / or Google Play to pay for SA without issues.Thank you so much. I appreciate it. I'll try a burner number. That may be it. Thanks again. .
Try the information from this reddit post https://www.reddit.com/r/sugarlifestyleforum/comments/n396te/blocked_on_sa/?sort=new.Thank you so much! I sincerely appreciate the help. .
NicosWave24
09-08-22, 13:40
How much are we talking and is she really in or near Boston?She wanted 4 I gave her 350 then 3 after the first time. She's out in Springfield area.
Profile reads like a total scam.
Says she takes online classes but gets "hit on around campus. " She lives "in the downtown area" which is language no one from Boston uses. There is nothing we refer to as "downtown. " Wants "guys who are local" but then says "2-3 hrs. " 99.98% sure it's a scam profile.
Profile Title: Gentlemen start your engines.
Seeking: https://members.seeking.com/member/a8608df2-bec8-4815-a876-0871d8876fed.
Has anyone got an opportunity to set something up w / this one? So far, been emailing. However, from the convos, it seems as though she wants to do things a certain way. I don't know if there's hidden messages in the profile details I need to figure out. But wondering if any one has jumped on this, tried, or experienced. Any insights would be helpful.
I could not find the review but I remember reading she was a scam or even worse a setup. Can anyone confirm or deny this?Can't confirm a scam or a setup but I can say in my experience she is a huge time waster. She had another profile started a couple of years ago and was just recently deactivated over the summer. When she first was on there we started talking and after seeming like we were on the same page making plans with her was like trying to nail jello to the wall.
She was always 100% about it until the day of our set plans and there was always an excuse. Talking to others. She was doing this same shit with most. I eventually stopped talking to her and she was a good lesson in the people on there who aren't really serious or ready to actually meet someone off the site.
Either that or they are holding out for the "perfect" one to come along before they actually go through with it.
Based on the pregnancy, and her back on the site with new profile, looks like she did indeed find that perfect someone.
She might be more serious about meeting up now but don't let her string you along!
KcirtaPanner2
09-09-22, 11:40
Profile reads like a total scam.
Says she takes online classes but gets "hit on around campus. " She lives "in the downtown area" which is language no one from Boston uses. There is nothing we refer to as "downtown. " Wants "guys who are local" but then says "2-3 hrs. " 99.98% sure it's a scam profile.The only thing I'll say is I don't understand why a scammer would put something like "No guys my age or younger" in their profile. If you're just out to scam people online why limit your pool? I suppose it's because it makes your profile seem more believable but most of them are not that smart.
Hobbyist420
09-09-22, 12:23
Been off and on SA for years with good success. Recently went back on after a year away or so, and after it's rebranding, and not seeing any of these girls you are posting or a good selection at all. Seems far less active than previously. Am I missing something?Its slowly dying because they refuse to police the scammers on there.
The only thing I'll say is I don't understand why a scammer would put something like "No guys my age or younger" in their profile. If you're just out to scam people online why limit your pool? I suppose it's because it makes your profile seem more believable but most of them are not that smart.9/10 guys would message her anyway no matter what the exclusions are. Hell I've done it. And have been successful more often than not even when it comes up that I am not in their age range or looking for something they don't have listed on their profile.
This profile does set off a lot of red flags so whoever is conversating with her. Continue with caution.
Any info on 35 yr old, "red"head, 5'5, in Haverhill? Seems direct and new.
"Baby Red".
35 Female Haverhill, Massachusetts, United States.
Hot little red head you won't forget.
https://members.seeking.com/member/89313555-752e-42de-8db9-f48712a42a7cYou have to go to her. She's a little chubbier than her pics would lead you to believe. She can be very chatty. Aside from that, pretty much everything goes. BBBJ, BBFS, she will rim you & you can see her for 200.
I hope this helps.
DarkClouds
09-09-22, 18:32
What we often tend to forget is that profiles are like resumes. White lies and exaggeration are ok and expected. Profiles are written to save face in case friends run into them and to allow the ladies to look at themselves in the mirror each morning. What they actually will accept and even embrace might be entirely different. Read the profile (in fact, I suggest reading it carefully because there could very well be a quiz) but don't take it literally.
9/10 guys would message her anyway no matter what the exclusions are. Hell I've done it. And have been successful more often than not even when it comes up that I am not in their age range or looking for something they don't have listed on their profile.
This profile does set off a lot of red flags so whoever is conversating with her. Continue with caution.
TSmithers24
09-10-22, 11:37
I'm guessing you paid in advance? It's not that she searched your stuff when you were in the bathroom, stole the money and ran?
I never paid a SB up front or had one ask for payment up front (scammers aside), always at the end as I'm leaving. This is one of the distinguishing differences between true SB's and pros who demand money up front.I almost always pay after and sometimes in cash app on the way home. Could easily stiff them but I would never. One beautiful college girl I saw for about 6 months but had to stop due to her schedule changing, went back on the site. She was asking 6 ppm, more than I gave her but I think she's worth it. Met a guy at a hotel, had sex and he bolted without paying her. She now asks for it to be given up front.
Recently, on Seeking, I have noted & experienced a scam by Asian women. I don't know the end result yet, however, it's extremely scammy. Others may have already experienced this & have been further into the scam. Currently, this has happened with about 4 women. The same base scenario is below. But here's how it works:
Connection: An Asian woman with pictures that seem real, will reach out to you via Seeking.
Off Platform: Either they quickly get off the platform and are quite willing to chat on regular text, WhatsApp, Telegram. Sometimes even Snapchat. They then end up deleting their account, so they can focus "solely on you".
Their Story: Each of them have a range of stories around the same general idea.
1. They want to develop a relationship slowly with you, because their last relationship, they caught their ex, supposedly on camera. (which is why they won't do video chat sometimes).
2. They will take pictures & send them to you daily, showing what there eating, going to the gym. Say they post them to Instagram, but won't give you the link.
3. They say they have a business, usually in the "design industry", or they work for as a "Designer" in some field. Designer of Jewelry, or designer of clothes. But they can't give out the business name or the business doesn't have a website. They say they only work with Royals and top celebrities, got to keep their clients privacy. LOL. I show them 5 people online who started a jewelry or clothing brand, who are doing extremely well, selling to celebrities. There statements are usually, well our designers make $1 million a year. (I'm like okay, do the math.)
4. They'll talk about how a parent or relative recently died, but there "uncle' or another type of family member taught them about business, and taught them about investing. Specifically about Crypto or currency trading. Weird because they tend to talk about the line "profit of 15% - 25% Saying it multiple times in a conversation is big red flag.
5. They get mad if you don't respond to their messages daily. But, at the same time, won't answer your own questions.
6. "Some" will do a live video chat. However, I believe it to be faked, given that the quality video through WhatsApp is grainy. That's not usually the case w / WhatsApp. I've even done the video feature on seeking. It's actually pretty high quality, & that was between a computer & iPhone during peak hours.
7. At some point, they'll tell you some type of sob-story how they tried to help out their company or their business by taking cash from their "trading account" to help out their employees, and to cover losses during "Covid."
Overall, it's some type of long-term play. I have yet to find the end result. But, currently, I do still communicate w / them to see how far it will end up. But I wanted to reach out to anyone here, if they've experienced this, cause you may have only been contacted by one person. I've got 4 on the hook. One, got angry at me, because she thought I would steal her Instagram account, and she wouldn't give me the link. Because I told her, "you're scared of me receiving a live photo" but you create photos & videos to supposedly a million followers who don't know you at all." She was hella pissed, and was like, and then the broken English sentences started coming.
Anyone experience this?
Recently, on Seeking, I have noted & experienced a scam by Asian women. I don't know the end result yet, however, it's extremely scammy. Others may have already experienced this & have been further into the scam. Currently, this has happened with about 4 women. The same base scenario is below. But here's how it works:
Connection: An Asian woman with pictures that seem real, will reach out to you via Seeking.
Off Platform: Either they quickly get off the platform and are quite willing to chat on regular text, WhatsApp, Telegram. Sometimes even Snapchat. They then end up deleting their account, so they can focus "solely on you".
Their Story: Each of them have a range of stories around the same general idea.
1. They want to develop a relationship slowly with you, because their last relationship, they caught their ex, supposedly on camera. (which is why they won't do video chat sometimes).
2. They will take pictures & send them to you daily, showing what there eating, going to the gym. Say they post them to Instagram, but won't give you the link.
3. They say they have a business, usually in the "design industry", or they work for as a "Designer" in some field. Designer of Jewelry, or designer of clothes. But they can't give out the business name or the business doesn't have a website. They say they only work with Royals and top celebrities, got to keep their clients privacy. LOL. I show them 5 people online who started a jewelry or clothing brand, who are doing extremely well, selling to celebrities. There statements are usually, well our designers make $1 million a year. (I'm like okay, do the math.)
4. They'll talk about how a parent or relative recently died, but there "uncle' or another type of family member taught them about business, and taught them about investing. Specifically about Crypto or currency trading. Weird because they tend to talk about the line "profit of 15% - 25% Saying it multiple times in a conversation is big red flag.
5. They get mad if you don't respond to their messages daily. But, at the same time, won't answer your own questions.
6. "Some" will do a live video chat. However, I believe it to be faked, given that the quality video through WhatsApp is grainy. That's not usually the case w / WhatsApp. I've even done the video feature on seeking. It's actually pretty high quality, & that was between a computer & iPhone during peak hours.
7. At some point, they'll tell you some type of sob-story how they tried to help out their company or their business by taking cash from their "trading account" to help out their employees, and to cover losses during "Covid."
Overall, it's some type of long-term play. I have yet to find the end result. But, currently, I do still communicate w / them to see how far it will end up. But I wanted to reach out to anyone here, if they've experienced this, cause you may have only been contacted by one person. I've got 4 on the hook. One, got angry at me, because she thought I would steal her Instagram account, and she wouldn't give me the link. Because I told her, "you're scared of me receiving a live photo" but you create photos & videos to supposedly a million followers who don't know you at all." She was hella pissed, and was like, and then the broken English sentences started coming.
Anyone experience this?They try this on Tik Tok as well. As soon as the present the Whats App link I immediately block them. Whats app is notoriously scam ridden so always exit the conversation as soon as they present it.
Longjblues
09-11-22, 09:13
PetiteBaby, 34,5'1, thin, Boston, actually located in Danvers, quoted $350, and hosting.
I apologize for lack of link. Any info on this one? Anyone recognize?
Recently, on Seeking, I have noted & experienced a scam by Asian women. I don't know the end result yet, however, it's extremely scammy. Others may have already experienced this & have been further into the scam. Currently, this has happened with about 4 women. The same base scenario is below. But here's how it works:
Connection: An Asian woman with pictures that seem real, will reach out to you via Seeking.
Off Platform: Either they quickly get off the platform and are quite willing to chat on regular text, WhatsApp, Telegram. Sometimes even Snapchat. They then end up deleting their account, so they can focus "solely on you".
Their Story: Each of them have a range of stories around the same general idea.
1. They want to develop a relationship slowly with you, because their last relationship, they caught their ex, supposedly on camera. (which is why they won't do video chat sometimes).
2. They will take pictures & send them to you daily, showing what there eating, going to the gym. Say they post them to Instagram, but won't give you the link.
3. They say they have a business, usually in the "design industry", or they work for as a "Designer" in some field. Designer of Jewelry, or designer of clothes. But they can't give out the business name or the business doesn't have a website. They say they only work with Royals and top celebrities, got to keep their clients privacy. LOL. I show them 5 people online who started a jewelry or clothing brand, who are doing extremely well, selling to celebrities. There statements are usually, well our designers make $1 million a year. (I'm like okay, do the math.)
4. They'll talk about how a parent or relative recently died, but there "uncle' or another type of family member taught them about business, and taught them about investing. Specifically about Crypto or currency trading. Weird because they tend to talk about the line "profit of 15% - 25% Saying it multiple times in a conversation is big red flag.
5. They get mad if you don't respond to their messages daily. But, at the same time, won't answer your own questions.
6. "Some" will do a live video chat. However, I believe it to be faked, given that the quality video through WhatsApp is grainy. That's not usually the case w / WhatsApp. I've even done the video feature on seeking. It's actually pretty high quality, & that was between a computer & iPhone during peak hours.
7. At some point, they'll tell you some type of sob-story how they tried to help out their company or their business by taking cash from their "trading account" to help out their employees, and to cover losses during "Covid."
Overall, it's some type of long-term play. I have yet to find the end result. But, currently, I do still communicate w / them to see how far it will end up. But I wanted to reach out to anyone here, if they've experienced this, cause you may have only been contacted by one person. I've got 4 on the hook. One, got angry at me, because she thought I would steal her Instagram account, and she wouldn't give me the link. Because I told her, "you're scared of me receiving a live photo" but you create photos & videos to supposedly a million followers who don't know you at all." She was hella pissed, and was like, and then the broken English sentences started coming.
Anyone experience this?They will eventually lead you to open a trading account with their fake 'broker'. First they will trade along with you on a buy signal that was shared by their 'uncle' or 'dad'. You will see that those sessions would have made you a lot of money depending on the lot size you commit to. Then comes the real money transfer to their 'broker'. That would be the last time you will ever see your money! This is well documented modus operandi. Google it. Run away from such set up. You will waste money as well as time and emotions.
How many accounts is this junkie going to make?
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09-11-22, 16:46
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Mattis1775
09-11-22, 16:51
1. They want to develop a relationship slowly with you, because their last relationship, they caught their ex, supposedly on camera. (which is why they won't do video chat sometimes).
This alone should've triggered your spider senses. I've had a couple Asian women, after visiting some AMPs, messaged me with that same shit. Seems to be common and been talked about in the Massage Parlor thread. One idiot sent me a pic and said she was in NYC. But, the background had cars I don't recognize. Oops.
How many accounts is this junkie going to make?She's still better looking and better price point then 70% of girls posted on this group. 90% of the girls posted on here in the last year wont even consider CIM nvm COF for 100
RareFind2021
09-12-22, 00:22
Has anyone had any luck recently using a prepaid card like Vanilla card online? I did last year setting the billing address to an actual address. But I've heard they may not be allowing that anymore.
I switched over to SB for a few months. Some limited success at the beginning. The cost structure is annoying bc you have to unlock profiles to communicate for credits. With Seeking I find myself messaging tons of chicks and having many go nowhere convos. On SB less convos since you essentially have to pay for every one. But I like the verification videos and won't message anyone who isn't verified. Same mix of girls. SB system seems to be designed more to get right to it. I've had meetups same day and within a few days of communication. I haven't had the same weeks long back and forth. I think it's because all the views into the system are based on latest activity so when people appear in your feed they are active.
There are a lot of girls with GPS though. I'm highlighting a few. The first one was also on Seeking and could be had for 4-500. In SB she asked me for $3 K for the first meet up. The second asked for 1500. Crazy.
May switch back to Seeking as I'm running out of credits and there's a 25% off code SEP2022 V25.
Seems like most of the girls on SB are clearer on what I'm looking for though. Decisions decisions.
BigGuy3344
09-13-22, 10:48
I switched over to SB for a few months. Some limited success at the beginning. The cost structure is annoying bc you have to unlock profiles to communicate for credits. With Seeking I find myself messaging tons of chicks and having many go nowhere convos. On SB less convos since you essentially have to pay for every one. But I like the verification videos and won't message anyone who isn't verified. Same mix of girls. SB system seems to be designed more to get right to it. I've had meetups same day and within a few days of communication. I haven't had the same weeks long back and forth. I think it's because all the views into the system are based on latest activity so when people appear in your feed they are active.
There are a lot of girls with GPS though. I'm highlighting a few. The first one was also on Seeking and could be had for 4-500. In SB she asked me for $3 K for the first meet up. The second asked for 1500. Crazy.
May switch back to Seeking as I'm running out of credits and there's a 25% off code SEP2022 V25.
Seems like most of the girls on SB are clearer on what I'm looking for though. Decisions decisions.Did you counter offer or just too far out of range / GPS?
Did you counter offer or just too far out of range / GPS?My usual response is "Thank you. You seem very nice. But I have others who aren't looking for that level of support and are ready to meet in the next few days. If your expectations change let me know. ".
As some guys on here have posted once you start negotiating down the performance also probably goes down. And if I offer 3-4 I'm going to get 20% of their effort.
Most I can remember spending for a meet was 600 and it was for a 2 day date with an overnight in between. In Vegas. With a show girl. Sure I took her out to dinner and shopping but the PPM was 6. Good times. Can't see myself ever spending more than that these days on a first meet up.
Must be some rich guys out there sitting on piles of money and just chucking it at these girls.
BigGuy3344
09-13-22, 13:19
My usual response is "Thank you. You seem very nice. But I have others who aren't looking for that level of support and are ready to meet in the next few days. If your expectations change let me know. ".
As some guys on here have posted once you start negotiating down the performance also probably goes down. And if I offer 3-4 I'm going to get 20% of their effort.
Most I can remember spending for a meet was 600 and it was for a 2 day date with an overnight in between. In Vegas. With a show girl. Sure I took her out to dinner and shopping but the PPM was 6. Good times. Can't see myself ever spending more than that these days on a first meet up.
Must be some rich guys out there sitting on piles of money and just chucking it at these girls.Was the second one (multi colored dress) good to go (in terms of what she would offer)? Any specifics? No way am I agreeing to that # but may try to get her down or if she's not getting it she may realize she has to come down significantly.
I switched over to SB for a few months. .I am glad you're having success on SB, however it doesn't seem to be working for me.
Paid $169 for 500 credits. Messages 50 newest members that fit my criteria, and I get exactly 1 (yes, that's numero uno (ONE)) reply. And after a few messages back and forth, that 1 reply also disappeared.
I am glad you're having success on SB, however it doesn't seem to be working for me.
Paid $169 for 500 credits. Messages 50 newest members that fit my criteria, and I get exactly 1 (yes, that's numero uno (ONE)) reply. And after a few messages back and forth, that 1 reply also disappeared.Let me emphasize I had some limited success at the beginning. Met a few and then went through what you did which was many messages turning into no reply or a one word reply. Then I would favorite people, grant them access to my pics, and if they messaged me I would respond quickly and get their number. But I am running out of credits and may switch back to SA just because I feel like on SB I have to check my fishing lines more frequently than SA. Meanwhile since I have been on SB I've got 94 messages on SA since I left and I kind of want to read them. Which requires me to renew my subscription. So may hop back over there for awhile. The beauty is that I still can message the people I opened a convo with on SB without re-upping my credits.
Not sure I like either platform 100% I just don't want to be paying for both I guess.
And yeah replies on SB disappear after 30 days so then my plan would just be to re-message them again?
Damn a lot of effort for some action.
Has anyone had any luck recently using a prepaid card like Vanilla card online? I did last year setting the billing address to an actual address. But I've heard they may not be allowing that anymore.Anyone have an answer to this? I have tried both vanilla visa and amex and neither worked.
Was the second one (multi colored dress) good to go (in terms of what she would offer)? Any specifics? No way am I agreeing to that # but may try to get her down or if she's not getting it she may realize she has to come down significantly.No specifics and sex was not guaranteed unless there was chemistry. I tried to pin her down and the # came up and I lost interest.
Anyone have an answer to this? I have tried both vanilla visa and amex and neither worked.Email seeking and have them manually do it for you. Give them any area code in mass if they ask. Most prepaid cards won't work but manually if seeking does it they will.
Any information on this one?
MinorLeague
09-16-22, 01:20
This one wants 1 k https://members.seeking.com/member/6ca7a73e-4bd7-4676-a6db-b4e64cdb6353 Also all covered.
Anyone experience this?This has been going on for many years. It's very simple. . . They move you into adding funds into a fake Forex or Crypto trading account. At that point they either steal the funds immediately or play a longer con if they think that if they show you "profit" you'll add even more. No matter what, they ultimately steal the money.
It's really quite simple.
Also all covered.And apparently doesn't drive. Hosting only.
JClearMan1
09-18-22, 12:17
I am glad you're having success on SB, however it doesn't seem to be working for me.
Paid $169 for 500 credits. Messages 50 newest members that fit my criteria, and I get exactly 1 (yes, that's numero uno (ONE)) reply. And after a few messages back and forth, that 1 reply also disappeared.This was exactly my experience on SB. Through Seeking, I've fucked 22 different women since December 20,2021. Many of those ended up being one time deals, but I currently have 7 different ladies in regular rotation. Two of them have never asked for money or anything, just fucking. I message as many new members as possible and don't mind spending the time needed to turn the conversation into getting laid.
This was exactly my experience on SB. Through Seeking, I've fucked 22 different women since December 20,2021. Many of those ended up being one time deals, but I currently have 7 different ladies in regular rotation. Two of them have never asked for money or anything, just fucking. I message as many new members as possible and don't mind spending the time needed to turn the conversation into getting laid.With that type of effort on seeking I'm very impressed. I would have placed you in a position immediately. To fuck 22 you must have initiatated contact with well over 1000, gotten contact info from 400-600 . Attempted to meet 50 plus, with last minute gas scams coming up. Well done.
Us.
JClearMan1
09-18-22, 12:57
With that type of effort on seeking I'm very impressed. I would have placed you in a position immediately. To fuck 22 you must have initiatated contact with well over 1000, gotten contact info from 400-600 . Attempted to meet 50 plus, with last minute gas scams coming up. Well done.
Us.Looking at my message history, which is incomplete because I closed my first account in July and reopened a new one in August, I've messaged close to 100 women, had replies from about half and actually met 4 (since August 3). That's about the same pace I was on throughout the rest of the year before August.
JClearMan1
09-18-22, 13:55
Looking at my message history, which is incomplete because I closed my first account in July and reopened a new one in August, I've messaged close to 100 women, had replies from about half and actually met 4 (since August 3). That's about the same pace I was on throughout the rest of the year before August.- Lisa from Framingham, fun fuck all holes, but I think she's an alcoholic; have seen her many times—met her the first day I set up my account. Let me record video. Bare, $300.
- Kate from Brighton, maybe the oldest lady on Seeking. No recording. Bare, no gift.
- Liv from Brookline, hilariously met me to fuck in her car in the parking lot of Angell Memorial. Didn't try to record because we were in her car and pressed for time. Has messaged me to meet again, but couldn't make the time. Bare, $300.
- Aaliyah (definitely not her real name) in Downtown Boston, was a pro for sure. No recording. Covered, $300.
- Cheryl from Brighton, let me fuck all holes. Let me record video. Bare, originally $200, but raised price to $450, so I don't bother anymore (she's not a $450 lay).
- Toni from Weymouth. Repeated a few times in the winter, definitely fun but I got bored quickly. No recording. Covered, $200.
- Imani from East Boston. Saw once, she's got an annoying personality so no repeat. Let me record video. Bare, $350.
- Cassandra from Acton, let me do everything you can possibly imagine and then some. All holes open. I still see her weekly. Always lets me record video. Bare, no allowance but I have bought her things though she doesn't expect it.
- Talia from Cambridge, saw her once for a covered romp. Let me record video. Covered $400.
- Kat from Malden, saw her a couple times, was a basic lay but scheduling was difficult. I may try to see her again, even though it's been months now. Bare, $200.
- Anna from Stoughton, basically the same as Cassandra with the added twist that Anna and I meet at hotels because she's cheating on her husband. Always let's me record video. Bare, no allowance but I do have to get us a hotel.
- Christine from Dedham, also cheating on her husband, but then he took her on a romantic getaway for their anniversary and afterward she stopped seeing me. No recording. Bare, no allowance requested.
- Jackie from Arlington, lots of fun but I haven't heard from her in months. Let me record video. Bare $350.
- Denise from Newton, another one that lets me do all kinds of stuff to her; I've seen her twice because the allowance request is more than most. Always let's me record video. Bare, $500.
- Pamela from Quincy, super fun spinner that lets me fuck any way I want; repeated many times, even though k have to get us a hotel. Always let's me record video. Bare, $300 + hotel.
- Nora from Dorchester, weird and lives in a rooming house. Let me record video. Bare, $200.
- Judy from Malden, was a nightmare: she's ugly and was using fake pictures; her apartment was a gross mess (she's clearly struggling with mental health issues and wouldn't stop talking about being autistic). Didn't ask to record, don't want to remember. Bare, $250.
- Liza from Everett, quick fuck nothing interesting. No recording. Covered, $300.
- Madison from Brighton, loud sloppy wet fuck; was fun but I haven't repeated because every time I tried to schedule something, she wasn't available and then every time she tried to schedule something, I wasn't available. Let me record video. Bare, $300.
- Maya from Brighton, mediocre but conveniently located so I've seen her a few times. She offers different "gift amounts" for different lengths of time, so I'm guessing she's a pro. It's always too dark to record so I haven't asked. Bare, $150 qv $200 hhr $300 hr.
- Karen in Lawrence, let me fuck all holes, stay as long as I want. I've only been twice because she's pricy. Always let's me record video. Bare, $500.
- Elaina in Brighton, current favorite. No recording yet because I haven't asked. Bare, $300.
JClearMan1
09-18-22, 14:16
- Lisa from Framingham, fun fuck all holes, but I think she's an alcoholic; have seen her many timesmet her the first day I set up my account. Let me record video. Bare, $300.
- Kate from Brighton, maybe the oldest lady on Seeking. No recording. Bare, no gift.
- Liv from Brookline, hilariously met me to fuck in her car in the parking lot of Angell Memorial. Didn't try to record because we were in her car and pressed for time. Has messaged me to meet again, but couldn't make the time. Bare, $300.
- Aaliyah (definitely not her real name) in Downtown Boston, was a pro for sure. No recording. Covered, $300.
- Cheryl from Brighton, let me fuck all holes. Let me record video. Bare, originally $200, but raised price to $450, so I don't bother anymore (she's not a $450 lay).
- Toni from Weymouth. Repeated a few times in the winter, definitely fun but I got bored quickly. No recording. Covered, $200.
- Imani from East Boston. Saw once, she's got an annoying personality so no repeat. Let me record video. Bare, $350.
- Cassandra from Acton, let me do everything you can possibly imagine and then some. All holes open. I still see her weekly. Always lets me record video. Bare, no allowance but I have bought her things though she doesn't expect it.
- Talia from Cambridge, saw her once for a covered romp. Let me record video. Covered $400.
- Kat from Malden, saw her a couple times, was a basic lay but scheduling was difficult. I may try to see her again, even though it's been months now. Bare, $200.
- Anna from Stoughton, basically the same as Cassandra with the added twist that Anna and I meet at hotels because she's cheating on her husband. Always let's me record video. Bare, no allowance but I do have to get us a hotel.
- Christine from Dedham, also cheating on her husband, but then he took her on a romantic getaway for their anniversary and afterward she stopped seeing me. No recording. Bare, no allowance requested.
- Jackie from Arlington, lots of fun but I haven't heard from her in months. Let me record video. Bare $350.
- Denise from Newton, another one that lets me do all kinds of stuff to her; I've seen her twice because the allowance request is more than most. Always let's me record video. Bare, $500.
- Pamela from Quincy, super fun spinner that lets me fuck any way I want; repeated many times, even though k have to get us a hotel. Always let's me record video. Bare, $300 + hotel.
- Nora from Dorchester, weird and lives in a rooming house. Let me record video. Bare, $200.
- Judy from Malden, was a nightmare: she's ugly and was using fake pictures; her apartment was a gross mess (she's clearly struggling with mental health issues and wouldn't stop talking about being autistic). Didn't ask to record, don't want to remember. Bare, $250.
- Liza from Everett, quick fuck nothing interesting. No recording. Covered, $300.
- Madison from Brighton, loud sloppy wet fuck; was fun but I haven't repeated because every time I tried to schedule something, she wasn't available and then every time she tried to schedule something, I wasn't available. Let me record video. Bare, $300.
- Maya from Brighton, mediocre but conveniently located so I've seen her a few times. She offers different "gift amounts" for different lengths of time, so I'm guessing she's a pro. It's always too dark to record so I haven't asked. Bare, $150 qv $200 hhr $300 hr.
- Karen in Lawrence, let me fuck all holes, stay as long as I want. I've only been twice because she's pricy. Always let's me record video. Bare, $500.
- Elaina in Brighton, current favorite. No recording yet because I haven't asked. Bare, $300.Here are 10 screenshots, one each from one of the women listed above. I have 3 more but the site only allows 10 at a time.
JClearMan1
09-18-22, 14:18
Here are 10 screenshots, one each from one of the women listed above. I have 3 more but the site only allows 10 at a time.Sorry, I actually only had two more to share.
DarkClouds
09-18-22, 14:19
Thanks for sharing. Interestingly, I've had just as many successes, but at a lower price point and therefore not much overlap with your list. Will DM you to discuss a few swaps if you're open to it.
- Lisa from Framingham, fun fuck all holes, but I think she's an alcoholic; have seen her many timesmet her the first day I set up my account. Let me record video. Bare, $300.
- Kate from Brighton, maybe the oldest lady on Seeking. No recording. Bare, no gift.
- Liv from Brookline, hilariously met me to fuck in her car in the parking lot of Angell Memorial. Didn't try to record because we were in her car and pressed for time. Has messaged me to meet again, but couldn't make the time. Bare, $300.
- Aaliyah (definitely not her real name) in Downtown Boston, was a pro for sure. No recording. Covered, $300.
- Cheryl from Brighton, let me fuck all holes. Let me record video. Bare, originally $200, but raised price to $450, so I don't bother anymore (she's not a $450 lay)...
SteveCarlter
09-18-22, 20:37
Here are 10 screenshots, one each from one of the women listed above. I have 3 more but the site only allows 10 at a time.Dude. How'd you get them to let you film it? NICE!
JClearMan1
09-18-22, 23:34
Dude. How'd you get them to let you film it? NICE!I just say something like "do you mind if I record myself fucking you, so I can jerk off to it later?" And they've said "yes" that many times.
GabeNunzio
09-19-22, 08:23
- Lisa from Framingham, fun fuck all holes, but I think she's an alcoholic; have seen her many timesmet her the first day I set up my account. Let me record video. Bare, $300.
- Kate from Brighton, maybe the oldest lady on Seeking. No recording. Bare, no gift.
- Liv from Brookline, hilariously met me to fuck in her car in the parking lot of Angell Memorial. Didn't try to record because we were in her car and pressed for time. Has messaged me to meet again, but couldn't make the time. Bare, $300.
- Aaliyah (definitely not her real name) in Downtown Boston, was a pro for sure. No recording. Covered, $300.
- Cheryl from Brighton, let me fuck all holes. Let me record video. Bare, originally $200, but raised price to $450, so I don't bother anymore (she's not a $450 lay).
- Toni from Weymouth. Repeated a few times in the winter, definitely fun but I got bored quickly. No recording. Covered, $200.
- Imani from East Boston. Saw once, she's got an annoying personality so no repeat. Let me record video. Bare, $350.
- Cassandra from Acton, let me do everything you can possibly imagine and then some. All holes open. I still see her weekly. Always lets me record video. Bare, no allowance but I have bought her things though she doesn't expect it.Any tips on how to find Cassandra? I'm in the action area and can't find her on SA, perhaps it's a different user name?
SixtyNineX10
09-19-22, 12:57
Can anyone help with information on this one? Thanks. PM is fine too.
https://members.seeking.com/member/52a0080b-cfe2-41eb-97bc-7c859763695e
Any tips on how to find Cassandra? I'm in the action area and can't find her on SA, perhaps it's a different user name?It's pretty rare for the profiles to use their real names and locations. More likely the location is "Boston".
JClearMan1
09-19-22, 18:36
Any tips on how to find Cassandra? I'm in the action area and can't find her on SA, perhaps it's a different user name?That's not her username and I'm not going to share it either. Like I said, I see her weekly and she's basically my girlfriend.
JClearMan1
09-19-22, 18:37
It's pretty rare for the profiles to use their real names and locations. More likely the location is "Boston".Her location on the site says "Boston" and her username is not Cassandra.
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RamblinJavlin
09-19-22, 19:04
He'll yeah. Is there a cliud I could go to see your "catalog"?
JClearMan1
09-19-22, 19:11
He'll yeah. Is there a cliud I could go to see your "catalog"?This site deletes videos in 24 hours, but given the content probably sooner: https://www.veed.io/view/18864b7a-5114-46ad-a846-20810687b2e4.
That's not her username and I'm not going to share it either. Like I said, I see her weekly and she's basically my girlfriend.I love Cassandra, she is my girlfriend to lmao.
KcirtaPanner2
09-20-22, 16:20
Can anyone help with information on this one? Thanks. PM is fine too.
https://members.seeking.com/member/52a0080b-cfe2-41eb-97bc-7c859763695eWent back and forth with her awhile back. Can't host, wanted 500 which I rejected on principle because she refused to send pics (at that point she only had that pic on the right on her profile, the one showing off her body wasn't there) and I have other options. I got her to show me one face pic through the site which she deleted after like 30 seconds. She's as hot as any of the Brazilian girls you'll find on the ad sites, and given that she's seemingly not a pro and was actually very friendly over text, I'll give her a shot at some point if she's still doing 500. Would love to hear from anyone else who gives her a shot.
KcirtaPanner2
09-20-22, 16:37
With that type of effort on seeking I'm very impressed. I would have placed you in a position immediately. To fuck 22 you must have initiatated contact with well over 1000, gotten contact info from 400-600 . Attempted to meet 50 plus, with last minute gas scams coming up. Well done.
Us.I would say I've been with at least 15-20 since joining in February, and have turned down probably dozens more for one reason or another (usually the $$). This is not to brag, not everyone is looking for that kind of variety, and I honestly think a lot of guys on there make it harder than it needs to be (and this is backed up by what the women tell me), or their approach is just terrible. I had to learn the ropes myself and there's always room for improvement. If I had to give one quick tip I would say that Jclear is absolutely correct that overlooking the newer accounts is a mistake. It's pretty easy to determine if someone is a scammer, and there's obviously ways to tell just from viewing a profile. Also, take the "What I'm Seeking" portion of their bios with a grain of salt. Very few on there are going to make it obvious in their profile that they're willing to fuck right away for cash for obvious reasons. Of course it takes time and effort as many here have pointed out, but the rewards can be worth it for sure.
I would say I've been with at least 15-20 since joining in February, and have turned down probably dozens more for one reason or another (usually the $$). This is not to brag, not everyone is looking for that kind of variety, and I honestly think a lot of guys on there make it harder than it needs to be (and this is backed up by what the women tell me), or their approach is just terrible. I had to learn the ropes myself and there's always room for improvement. If I had to give one quick tip I would say that Jclear is absolutely correct that overlooking the newer accounts is a mistake. It's pretty easy to determine if someone is a scammer, and there's obviously ways to tell just from viewing a profile. Also, take the "What I'm Seeking" portion of their bios with a grain of salt. Very few on there are going to make it obvious in their profile that they're willing to fuck right away for cash for obvious reasons. Of course it takes time and effort as many here have pointed out, but the rewards can be worth it for sure.I agree with what you are saying. Your odds greatly increase depending on what quality level you set your standards at. If you are free wheeling and are up for banging anyone regardless of age or size you will run out of money first and some will give it up free just for the companionship. As you move the scale down to the younger hot college girls the challenges become more difficult, pricing, flaking out, hosting, etc. I have found that 30 yo is the threshold for an easier time to hook up with ladies as they tend to be more serious and understand the game. I limit my searches to a slimmer or fit body type and age not to exceed 30 as well as a 300-400 gift limit. The pool is much smaller but it works for me. I usually am able to flag a scam quickly and am quick to write them off. Usually selling of OF content which is useless to me. I have noticed the NH college girls not to be as plentiful this year so far. Not sure what that is all about?
Hobbyist420
09-20-22, 18:53
Volume is key. So is timing and a little luck. Will agree on 18-29 being more of a source for scammers and flakes esp since COVID. Also yes if your threshold is smaller you will find more success (i.e. game semi-pros)
Curious JClearMan1 how long did it take you to amass your latest conquests? I usually go on and off for a month at a time when I go on SA.
I have been browsing for a while and decided to subscribe last night. Here is one of the girls request. She. Sent it through text.
(1/5) I'll be upfront. I'm not looking for an allowance and will never settle for ppm because I'm not a hooker and I won't be seeing us that way when we do.
(2/5) meet. I'm only interested in someone I can count on anytime I need help financially. Trust me I'm not cheap but at the same time I'm considerate and not.
(3/5) pocket teary. Only if you feel like I deserve more and can do more. Make life easy for me. When we meet, we'll spend quality time together, great sex.
(4/5) I'm in for anything as long as it's not the extreme / dangerous stuffs. I'm good with blowjobs, anal, being a sub. I'm also std free. I have my updated.
(5/5) test results and I'm willing to show you when we meet. If you have yours then we are good to go raw, but if no. Then we have to use protection.
Hyperion11
09-21-22, 08:59
I have been browsing for a while and decided to subscribe last night. Here is one of the girls request. She. Sent it through text.
(1/5) I'll be upfront. I'm not looking for an allowance and will never settle for ppm because I'm not a hooker and I won't be seeing us that way when we do.
(2/5) meet. I'm only interested in someone I can count on anytime I need help financially. Trust me I'm not cheap but at the same time I'm considerate and not.
(3/5) pocket teary. Only if you feel like I deserve more and can do more. Make life easy for me. When we meet, we'll spend quality time together, great sex.
(4/5) I'm in for anything as long as it's not the extreme / dangerous stuffs. I'm good with blowjobs, anal, being a sub. I'm also std free. I have my updated.
(5/5) test results and I'm willing to show you when we meet. If you have yours then we are good to go raw, but if no. Then we have to use protection.Interesting. Will you try to meet her? I am curious what would come down to as financial effort and if she's being vague on it on purpose.
Anna is super attractive. She reached out to me with just one picture which showed nothing, and sent me a full face pic and I was going to be in her area so I met her for a quick bite. No money was discussed prior to meeting but we had a few common interests and I was in the area so the meeting happened. Everything is covered with her including BJ which is a deal breaker for me so we had a nice lunch and left. Guys actually give her money when they don't hook up which I didn't and she wasn't upset about it. Has texted me a few more times about our common interests and maybe I will break down the BJ for condom, but for me there are so many other options in the 200-300 range. If you can afford it and don't mind CBJ I think you will have a good time.
Email seeking and have them manually do it for you. Give them any area code in mass if they ask. Most prepaid cards won't work but manually if seeking does it they will.I have read in other parts of the forum they will ban you for using a vanilla card. Not sure if that's true or not. I think I'm going to try it just to see what happens and report back.
Anna is super attractive. She reached out to me with just one picture which showed nothing, and sent me a full face pic and I was going to be in her area so I met her for a quick bite. No money was discussed prior to meeting but we had a few common interests and I was in the area so the meeting happened. Everything is covered with her including BJ which is a deal breaker for me so we had a nice lunch and left. Guys actually give her money when they don't hook up which I didn't and she wasn't upset about it. Has texted me a few more times about our common interests and maybe I will break down the BJ for condom, but for me there are so many other options in the 200-300 range. If you can afford it and don't mind CBJ I think you will have a good time.Please explain to me why so many people on this site, put a woman's name as the subject line & don't include a link? Maybe it's just me but, how am I supposed to know who Anna is.
No disrespect intended but I don't get it.
Please explain to me why so many people on this site, put a woman's name as the subject line & don't include a link? Maybe it's just me but, how am I supposed to know who Anna is.
No disrespect intended but I don't get it.If you bother to scroll down a little bit you'll see that the link was provided in post 7160. Feel free to ignore my post if you don't like the way I respond.
CandyMan555
09-21-22, 19:08
Recently, on Seeking, I have noted & experienced a scam by Asian women. I don't know the end result yet, however, it's extremely scammy. Others may have already experienced this & have been further into the scam. Currently, this has happened with about 4 women. The same base scenario is below. But here's how it works:
Connection: An Asian woman with pictures that seem real, will reach out to you via Seeking.
Off Platform: Either they quickly get off the platform and are quite willing to chat on regular text, WhatsApp, Telegram. Sometimes even Snapchat. They then end up deleting their account, so they can focus "solely on you".
Their Story: Each of them have a range of stories around the same general idea.
1. They want to develop a relationship slowly with you, because their last relationship, they caught their ex, supposedly on camera. (which is why they won't do video chat sometimes).
2. They will take pictures & send them to you daily, showing what there eating, going to the gym. Say they post them to Instagram, but won't give you the link.
3. They say they have a business, usually in the "design industry", or they work for as a "Designer" in some field. Designer of Jewelry, or designer of clothes. But they can't give out the business name or the business doesn't have a website. They say they only work with Royals and top celebrities, got to keep their clients privacy. LOL. I show them 5 people online who started a jewelry or clothing brand, who are doing extremely well, selling to celebrities. There statements are usually, well our designers make $1 million a year. (I'm like okay, do the math.)
4. They'll talk about how a parent or relative recently died, but there "uncle' or another type of family member taught them about business, and taught them about investing. Specifically about Crypto or currency trading. Weird because they tend to talk about the line "profit of 15% - 25% Saying it multiple times in a conversation is big red flag.
5. They get mad if you don't respond to their messages daily. But, at the same time, won't answer your own questions.
6. "Some" will do a live video chat. However, I believe it to be faked, given that the quality video through WhatsApp is grainy. That's not usually the case w / WhatsApp. I've even done the video feature on seeking. It's actually pretty high quality, & that was between a computer & iPhone during peak hours.
7. At some point, they'll tell you some type of sob-story how they tried to help out their company or their business by taking cash from their "trading account" to help out their employees, and to cover losses during "Covid."
Overall, it's some type of long-term play. I have yet to find the end result. But, currently, I do still communicate w / them to see how far it will end up. But I wanted to reach out to anyone here, if they've experienced this, cause you may have only been contacted by one person. I've got 4 on the hook. One, got angry at me, because she thought I would steal her Instagram account, and she wouldn't give me the link. Because I told her, "you're scared of me receiving a live photo" but you create photos & videos to supposedly a million followers who don't know you at all." She was hella pissed, and was like, and then the broken English sentences started coming.
Anyone experience this?Yo see an attractive woman nit her up she responds and you go back and forth for days and whern the mention switching to Whats App Telegramand smention cryptocurrency and Bitcoin I am out of there.
First class SCAM.
Mattis1775
09-21-22, 19:32
Yo see an attractive woman nit her up she responds and you go back and forth for days and whern the mention switching to Whats App Telegramand smention cryptocurrency and Bitcoin I am out of there.
First class SCAM.Pretty much explains why I've been getting so many emails with discounted membership. SA is turning into a scam center and real members are bouncing.
CandyMan555
09-21-22, 19:35
https://members.seeking.com/member/262f6d1a-c086-43c8-b76f-12a395845580
Met this Lebanese one from Seeking said she was from Los Angelos going to B you had sex and she massaged me and said to take off my ring due to too much oil WHEN SHE LEFT I couldn't FIND MY COLLEGE RING.
After she left she send me pictures of us having sex, and said if I don't send her money she is going to send the pictures to the contacts on my phone She said she was 17.
What a DISASTER.
https://members.seeking.com/member/262f6d1a-c086-43c8-b76f-12a395845580
Met this Lebanese one from Seeking said she was from Los Angelos going to B you had sex and she massaged me and said to take off my ring due to too much oil WHEN SHE LEFT I couldn't FIND MY COLLEGE RING.
After she left she send me pictures of us having sex, and said if I don't send her money she is going to send the pictures to the contacts on my phone She said she was 17.
What a DISASTER.Well then she shouldn't be on a dating site that says adult only. These scammers really are trying way to hard to extort guys now. It's getting ridiculous.
I have read in other parts of the forum they will ban you for using a vanilla card. Not sure if that's true or not. I think I'm going to try it just to see what happens and report back.I used my vanilla Visa last month and it worked. But not all work. You can just email and ask them to activate the membership for you and they'll just ask for a zip. If they stop taking pre paid cards this is going to suck and I definitely won't be using my real cc. Will have to find another way.
MinorLeague
09-21-22, 22:15
https://members.seeking.com/member/262f6d1a-c086-43c8-b76f-12a395845580
Met this Lebanese one from Seeking said she was from Los Angelos going to B you had sex and she massaged me and said to take off my ring due to too much oil WHEN SHE LEFT I couldn't FIND MY COLLEGE RING.
After she left she send me pictures of us having sex, and said if I don't send her money she is going to send the pictures to the contacts on my phone She said she was 17.
What a DISASTER.Did you meet at her place or something?
Hobbyist420
09-21-22, 22:45
Watch out for BrightQueen. Another scammer who I believe after talking also had a boyfriend / pimp in the background setting up to scam / rob people (found this out after I cross ref'd her number linked to this sumo listing:
https://sumosear.ch/images/webpage/sexy-nice-body-horny/48639282
Avoid like the plague.
https://members.seeking.com/member/e72444bf-6b3c-4797-ba29-823999b5541a
CandyMan555
09-21-22, 22:59
Did you meet at her place or something?Met at a hotel I put all my money in the room safe when I get there.
JayRyder99
09-21-22, 23:09
Which pic one is Cassandra?
She offers services in W Concord now correct?
Here are 10 screenshots, one each from one of the women listed above. I have 3 more but the site only allows 10 at a time.
Met at a hotel I put all my money in the room safe when I get there.Then how did she get pictures of you having sex with her? Or your ring, honestly you had just taken it off and then completely shat out your brain and didn't find it to put back on? OR CONTACTS ON YOUR PHONE?
This is either the world's worst lie or the worst example of hobbying I've ever heard of.
https://members.seeking.com/member/262f6d1a-c086-43c8-b76f-12a395845580
Met this Lebanese one from Seeking said she was from Los Angelos going to B you had sex and she massaged me and said to take off my ring due to too much oil WHEN SHE LEFT I couldn't FIND MY COLLEGE RING.
After she left she send me pictures of us having sex, and said if I don't send her money she is going to send the pictures to the contacts on my phone She said she was 17.
What a DISASTER.Out of curiousity what was your donation? And how was her performance?
CandyMan555
09-22-22, 09:50
Then how did she get pictures of you having sex with her? Or your ring, honestly you had just taken it off and then completely shat out your brain and didn't find it to put back on? OR CONTACTS ON YOUR PHONE?
This is either the world's worst lie or the worst example of hobbying I've ever heard of.She took pix when I was not looking She was massaging me full body and was doing my fingers and suggested I take my ring off so she could do my fingers I put it on the night stand \.
Lebanese student from LA huge tits dark skin says she is Economics major at B you has a older married sister in NY Mother and father in L A says her father is a teacher in LA.
Live aand learn!
She took pix when I was not looking She was massaging me full body and was doing my fingers and suggested I take my ring off so she could do my fingers I put it on the night stand \.
Lebanese student from LA huge tits dark skin says she is Economics major at B you has a older married sister in NY Mother and father in L A says her father is a teacher in LA.
Live aand learn!Does them picture have her face on it or at least a special tattooed of hers that's recognizable?
CandyMan555
09-22-22, 10:55
Does them picture have her face on it or at least a special tattooed of hers that's recognizable?Nothing recognizable.
Longjblues
09-22-22, 14:26
Did she steal your phone, and your ring? How would she get access to your contacts?
https://members.seeking.com/member/262f6d1a-c086-43c8-b76f-12a395845580
Met this Lebanese one from Seeking said she was from Los Angelos going to B you had sex and she massaged me and said to take off my ring due to too much oil WHEN SHE LEFT I couldn't FIND MY COLLEGE RING.
After she left she send me pictures of us having sex, and said if I don't send her money she is going to send the pictures to the contacts on my phone She said she was 17.
What a DISASTER.
Just block her and move on. Most likely its over.
I will be posting about a girl that threatened to shoot me because I wouldn't send her a 100.00 for dinner and hennesey.
Patriarchist
09-22-22, 17:00
This is a pattern I've noticed before, but is becoming more blatant lately: Young black women are very responsive to my messages and I'm able to easily pull numbers, whereas a lot of times I'm ignored by young white women.
For example I've been talking to 4 attractive black females all in their early twenties the last couple days. At the same time, I got left on read by several white women under 30.
I am trying to figure out if this is just specific to me, or if others have noticed it.
I am a white dude, early thirties for background.
JClearMan1
09-22-22, 17:10
I would say I've been with at least 15-20 since joining in February, and have turned down probably dozens more for one reason or another (usually the $$). This is not to brag, not everyone is looking for that kind of variety, and I honestly think a lot of guys on there make it harder than it needs to be (and this is backed up by what the women tell me), or their approach is just terrible. I had to learn the ropes myself and there's always room for improvement. If I had to give one quick tip I would say that Jclear is absolutely correct that overlooking the newer accounts is a mistake. It's pretty easy to determine if someone is a scammer, and there's obviously ways to tell just from viewing a profile. Also, take the "What I'm Seeking" portion of their bios with a grain of salt. Very few on there are going to make it obvious in their profile that they're willing to fuck right away for cash for obvious reasons. Of course it takes time and effort as many here have pointed out, but the rewards can be worth it for sure.I've also been told by almost every lady that I've met in person that I'm one of the few men that messaged them and didn't come across as a psycho, looking for something for free or flat out ghosted.
JClearMan1
09-22-22, 17:11
Volume is key. So is timing and a little luck. Will agree on 18-29 being more of a source for scammers and flakes esp since COVID. Also yes if your threshold is smaller you will find more success (i.e. game semi-pros)
Curious JClearMan1 how long did it take you to amass your latest conquests? I usually go on and off for a month at a time when I go on SA.It usually takes about 5 days from first contact to fucking.
JClearMan1
09-22-22, 17:18
Which pic one is Cassandra?
She offers services in W Concord now correct?http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/attachment.php?attachmentid=675439&d=1663524922
And no, she doesn't.
DarkClouds
09-22-22, 17:18
Bro, are you kidding me? I don't want to walk down a slippery racial slope here. But, of course, white women get a lot more attention than black women.
This is a pattern I've noticed before, but is becoming more blatant lately: Young black women are very responsive to my messages and I'm able to easily pull numbers, whereas a lot of times I'm ignored by young white women.
For example I've been talking to 4 attractive black females all in their early twenties the last couple days. At the same time, I got left on read by several white women under 30.
I am trying to figure out if this is just specific to me, or if others have noticed it.
I am a white dude, early thirties for background.
DarkClouds
09-22-22, 17:20
Just look at the pics posted by JClearman. They're all white women.
This is a pattern I've noticed before, but is becoming more blatant lately: Young black women are very responsive to my messages and I'm able to easily pull numbers, whereas a lot of times I'm ignored by young white women.
For example I've been talking to 4 attractive black females all in their early twenties the last couple days. At the same time, I got left on read by several white women under 30.
I am trying to figure out if this is just specific to me, or if others have noticed it.
I am a white dude, early thirties for background.
If you bother to scroll down a little bit you'll see that the link was provided in post 7160. Feel free to ignore my post if you don't like the way I respond.I spelled it out that I was not being disrespectful I was just wondering. Next, check again you didn't post A response, you wrote A new post.
https://members.seeking.com/member/262f6d1a-c086-43c8-b76f-12a395845580
Met this Lebanese one from Seeking said she was from Los Angelos going to B you had sex and she massaged me and said to take off my ring due to too much oil WHEN SHE LEFT I couldn't FIND MY COLLEGE RING..You answered an ad that says on it that she's 25 years old. She can't do anything to you so don't sweat it. Sorry to hear about the ring though, that sucks.
JClearMan1
09-22-22, 17:42
The Cassandra I described is not the SA user who's username is literally Cassandra. I've been getting a lot of private messages and replies in this forum about her, so I should clarify something here: the woman I'm seeing disabled her SA account months ago. If you're talking to someone, it's not her.
Patriarchist
09-22-22, 18:33
Bro, are you kidding me? I don't want to walk down a slippery racial slope here. But, of course, white women get a lot more attention than black women.Maybe, but that does not really explain why I have such a high response rate from attractive black women. Literally every one of them responds to me and I get their numbers every time. It would only explain how white women are less responsive. Many of them aren't as attractive as the black girls either.
Just look at the pics posted by JClearman. They're all white women.I didn't see age statements about any of those women and neither were any links provided to confirm what they look like. Off topic, but I do not even get the point of that post. There are no links to any of the women's profiles, It's just a bunch of pics of male genitalia.
Nothing recognizable.I mean, if there's nothing to verify it's her in the pic. They don't have any case. But I just hope she don't know your real name and phone number. That is why when a girl ask for verification and job occupation is never a good thing. You don't know the risk you taking when someone need your info.
I've also been told by almost every lady that I've met in person that I'm one of the few men that messaged them and didn't come across as a psycho, looking for something for free or flat out ghosted.Girls that I have met and fucked said the exact same thing.
Just be respectfully, sane, and a bit funny and you will unlock their pussies when you message them.
Here are 10 screenshots, one each from one of the women listed above. I have 3 more but the site only allows 10 at a time.I think the part that surprises me the most is the amount of women that will let you go in bare.
Girls that I have met and fucked said the exact same thing.
Just be respectfully, sane, and a bit funny and you will unlock their pussies when you message them.I agree. Most woman who I meet say the same thing. Guys waste there time. Begging for pics, looking to text all day or are just cheap. If you are serious about sex like I am if you message someone, get to texting and make solid plans with a decent price tag they will meet that night or next and will remember you for repeats.
Girls that I have met and fucked said the exact same thing.
Just be respectfully, sane, and a bit funny and you will unlock their pussies when you message them.Do you all have a opening line or message that you send to each one? Or is each individual message custom made to each one?
Just look at the pics posted by JClearman. They're all white women.Racism is alive and well. Even if it just shows up in a subconcious pre-programmed preference for skin color in a sexual partner. I'd be willing to bet they are getting a lot less serious suitors on their profiles across all the sugar sites.
Any information on this one?
Maybe, but that does not really explain why I have such a high response rate from attractive black women. Literally every one of them responds to me and I get their numbers every time. It would only explain how white women are less responsive. Many of them aren't as attractive as the black girls either.
There are a number of stacking societal factors that would lead to results like those:
1) Black women are the least sought after in the sexual marketplace. While white women (even average looking ones) get flooded with messages, black women get only a fraction of them. This means their likelihood of responding is an order of magnitude higher.
2) Part of being less sought after, leads to a great deal less entitlement. A large percentage of white women will only respond to someone on seeking if they'd also consider them on tinder. Black women, generally having a far less financially well off dating pool to begin with, often come in more prepared to make. Concessions. To find someone able to help them financially.
3) Black women are statistically way more likely to come from humble beginnings, so aspects of your profile (I. E. Your income) may, by and large, meet their standards, whereas those more privileged may automatically rule you out.
4) Black women are way more likely to be using sugar dating to make ends meet, and less likely because they simply think they deserve to be spoiled. If you're struggling, you're going to be way less likely to ignore messages.
While I myself would have a preference for white (or asian) girls, nearly all of my successes have been girls of color, mostly black. In fact, my most successful arrangement, which lasted 6 months with an absolute smokeshow (many would rate her a 10), was with a black girl. Whereas I rarely even get a response from even moderately attractive white girls.
I have had the same experience as Action and Patriarchist. I have been way more successful with beautiful black women who are intelligent, fun and no drama on SA. Not so much with white girls. Average at best, more gps, more uptight, more entitled and more negative personality issues.
I really don't care what the reasons are. And I believe it has very little to do with racism.
I believe it is just a preference for certain physical characteristics. Many white guys prefer white girls, so what. For me, a white guy, I am perhaps more attracted to black women than whites, Asians and Latinas.
OkWhatever
09-26-22, 13:43
OK, mixed review on this one. She says she is 53 and she may be telling the truth. All her pics are on SA are 10+ years old and most likely filtered as well as angled in such a way as to not show her body. Communication with her was good and direct. She wanted 2 K / month which I rejected. She then asked for 500 PPM which included all holes and as along as I want including all night. Because I'm dumb and a sucker for slutty MILFs and overnight with all holes struck me as a good deal. I said yes. So after that was negotiated, she went me more pics off the site which were also 10+ years old.
Anyway, I ended up meeting her at her place before we went out for drinks / dinner.
CONS.
30+ pounds heavier than any of her pics, old pics all around, asking for way too much, she's pretty big.
PROS.
Hosts in a clean and nice apartment with street parking, safe and good neighborhood, all holes open, you can stay for as long as you want including overnight, loves her booze.
Also, she seemed very experienced. Meaning almost semi-pro. She had everything prepared at her place. Anyway, I think she may be worth it for some people. But no way I'm seeing her again for 500.
https://members.seeking.com/member/d7e8a92a-1186-4171-9f90-84935e9a645f
Hobbyist420
09-26-22, 18:22
Watch out for BrightQueen. Another scammer who I believe after talking also had a boyfriend / pimp in the background setting up to scam / rob people (found this out after I cross ref'd her number linked to this sumo listing:
https://sumosear.ch/images/webpage/sexy-nice-body-horny/48639282
Avoid like the plague.
https://members.seeking.com/member/e72444bf-6b3c-4797-ba29-823999b5541aI also believe this girl is using another profile as well: https://members.seeking.com/member/320a8656-3726-41bc-950c-f330a39df073.
Stay safe.
OK, mixed review on this one. She says she is 53 and she may be telling the truth. All her pics are on SA are 10+ years old and most likely filtered as well as angled in such a way as to not show her body. Communication with her was good and direct. She wanted 2 K / month which I rejected. She then asked for 500 PPM which included all holes and as along as I want including all night. Because I'm dumb and a sucker for slutty MILFs and overnight with all holes struck me as a good deal. I said yes. So after that was negotiated, she went me more pics off the site which were also 10+ years old.
Anyway, I ended up meeting her at her place before we went out for drinks / dinner.
CONS.
30+ pounds heavier than any of her pics, old pics all around, asking for way too much, she's pretty big.
PROS.
Hosts in a clean and nice apartment with street parking, safe and good neighborhood, all holes open, you can stay for as long as you want including overnight, loves her booze.
Also, she seemed very experienced. Meaning almost semi-pro. She had everything prepared at her place. Anyway, I think she may be worth it for some people. But no way I'm seeing her again for 500.
https://members.seeking.com/member/d7e8a92a-1186-4171-9f90-84935e9a645fI don't know all these woman have to posts old pics as if we ain't going to notice when we meet. I talked to this chick on secretbenefits because her pics were pretty hot. So I find her Facebook and the pic she posted to the secretbenefits site was taken in 2018 and in her actually pics now she looks old and worn down. I just ended up blocking her. But yeah between filters and old pics you never know what surprise your going to get when you show up for an actual meet.
OkWhatever
09-26-22, 20:37
Yeah she looked old and worn out. Admitted to having Botox and lots of fillers. And her pics were pretty hot including the ones she sent me. I was disappointed when I met her, but went through with it. Anyway, I vowed never to do that again. I'm actually going to tell any woman that I plan to meet that if they don't look like their pics, I'm going to walk immediately. This shit happens with regular dating apps as well.
I don't know all these woman have to posts old pics as if we ain't going to notice when we meet. I talked to this chick on secretbenefits because her pics were pretty hot. So I find her Facebook and the pic she posted to the secretbenefits site was taken in 2018 and in her actually pics now she looks old and worn down. I just ended up blocking her. But yeah between filters and old pics you never know what surprise your going to get when you show up for an actual meet.
MamboMikea
09-27-22, 10:07
Talk about gps. Sexy, but she wants 800, might talk her down to 500 for ppm And was closed minded about BBFS.
I politely declined, but maybe someone else will have better success or silly money.
Talk about gps. Sexy, but she wants 800, might talk her down to 500 for ppm And was closed minded about BBFS.
I politely declined, but maybe someone else will have better success or silly money.Had the pleasure of seeing her a few weeks ago. Super chill, hot as fuuuck. Yeah a bit on the pricey side compared to others in the area but we had a great time together. Amazing head, great dirty talk while fucking and some anal as well. Open to toy play if that's your thing too. Sure, covered, but that makes me more excited to see her again once you folks realize how fun she is to see.
KcirtaPanner2
09-27-22, 12:18
I've also been told by almost every lady that I've met in person that I'm one of the few men that messaged them and didn't come across as a psycho, looking for something for free or flat out ghosted.The bar is very low, for sure.
Had the pleasure of seeing her a few weeks ago. Super chill, hot as fuuuck. Yeah a bit on the pricey side compared to others in the area but we had a great time together. Amazing head, great dirty talk while fucking and some anal as well. Open to toy play if that's your thing too. Sure, covered, but that makes me more excited to see her again once you folks realize how fun she is to see.Are you all really traveling that far from Boston to Maine? I've been setting my distance to 25 and 50 miles only. 2 hours of driving for tail, I'm not 100% sure. I've also been clicking on "Other Locations" to drill down to a specific city. It's been great when I hitup Foxwoods & enter "Ledyard." Filtering has been working wonders into getting more "responses" No definite finalizations yet, but, a higher response rate.
Can you explain more about how your doing your travel. Solo, Uber. Then you got to think about a hotel out there as well? What was your total outlay: $800 (for the full day, or were your relegated to hours at a time? + Gas + hotel?
Recently a friend shared a tip with me to help weed out who is real on the SB / SD sites and also to get some more information about them before making plans / meeting.
He has a free account on Fet Life that allows him to browse a directory of people into the kinky lifestyle by city and state.
A lot of the profiles will also list out specifically what they are into in the bedroom. Out of curiosity I setup an account and browsed the towns of people I tend to go after on these sites.
To my surprise. There were many matches from both Seeking / SB / WYP to FL. The profiles in a lot of cases had a lot more sexy photos of them. Which are dated from when they were posted. As well as their Do's and Don'ts in their personal sex lives.
With this info I actually started reaching out to people on SD / SB that I normally would have skipped over their profiles since I knew they were real. Got a better look at them. And also knew that what they sexually desired lined up with my interests. With this intel it makes them a lot more attractive and worth connecting with.
As a noob. I get the impression that as a single male it's a lot harder to initiate hookups through FL. Seems like attractive active females get bombarded all day and night on there. I am sure it can be a good source of free hookups in your area, but for my purposes I think it's best as a source of extra information on potential SB / SD relationships.
Not sure if this has been shared before but figured some would find it useful. I've known of the site for a long time but personally never setup an account until recently.
JClearMan1
09-27-22, 13:39
Just look at the pics posted by JClearman. They're all white women.Whoa.
Imani is black.
Lisa is Asian.
Liv is Indian (as in India).
Judy is Asian.
Denise is Puerto Rican.
Liza is Brazilian (as in from Brazil).
Maya is Asian.
JClearMan1
09-27-22, 13:44
I agree. Most woman who I meet say the same thing. Guys waste there time. Begging for pics, looking to text all day or are just cheap. If you are serious about sex like I am if you message someone, get to texting and make solid plans with a decent price tag they will meet that night or next and will remember you for repeats.This is how I do it.
DarkClouds
09-27-22, 13:49
I guess I stand corrected. Perhaps fair-skinned would be a better description? If Imani is black she's either mixed or something. Liv is kind of dusky, so that makes sense. Again, apologies if I over-generalized.
Whoa.
Imani is black.
Lisa is Asian.
Liv is Indian (as in India).
Judy is Asian.
Denise is Puerto Rican.
Liza is Brazilian (as in from Brazil).
Maya is Asian.
JClearMan1
09-27-22, 14:15
OK, mixed review on this one. She says she is 53 and she may be telling the truth. All her pics are on SA are 10+ years old and most likely filtered as well as angled in such a way as to not show her body. Communication with her was good and direct. She wanted 2 K / month which I rejected. She then asked for 500 PPM which included all holes and as along as I want including all night. Because I'm dumb and a sucker for slutty MILFs and overnight with all holes struck me as a good deal. I said yes. So after that was negotiated, she went me more pics off the site which were also 10+ years old.
Anyway, I ended up meeting her at her place before we went out for drinks / dinner.
CONS.
30+ pounds heavier than any of her pics, old pics all around, asking for way too much, she's pretty big.
PROS.
Hosts in a clean and nice apartment with street parking, safe and good neighborhood, all holes open, you can stay for as long as you want including overnight, loves her booze.
Also, she seemed very experienced. Meaning almost semi-pro. She had everything prepared at her place. Anyway, I think she may be worth it for some people. But no way I'm seeing her again for 500.
https://members.seeking.com/member/d7e8a92a-1186-4171-9f90-84935e9a645fCovered or bare?
OkWhatever
09-27-22, 15:09
BBBJ and covered for everything else. My choice though. She never mentioned a condom, brought them though because I always wear protection.
Covered or bare?
Are you all really traveling that far from Boston to Maine? I've been setting my distance to 25 and 50 miles only. 2 hours of driving for tail, I'm not 100% sure. I've also been clicking on "Other Locations" to drill down to a specific city. It's been great when I hitup Foxwoods & enter "Ledyard." Filtering has been working wonders into getting more "responses" No definite finalizations yet, but, a higher response rate.
Can you explain more about how your doing your travel. Solo, Uber. Then you got to think about a hotel out there as well? What was your total outlay: $800 (for the full day, or were your relegated to hours at a time? + Gas + hotel?I'm in NH, I travel everywhere. Pretty much from Foxwoods to Portland.
I never travel more than 45 minutes and my range has been mostly 200-300 plus a hotel if necessary.
Are you all really traveling that far from Boston to Maine? I've been setting my distance to 25 and 50 miles only. 2 hours of driving for tail, I'm not 100% sure. I've also been clicking on "Other Locations" to drill down to a specific city. It's been great when I hitup Foxwoods & enter "Ledyard." Filtering has been working wonders into getting more "responses" No definite finalizations yet, but, a higher response rate.
Can you explain more about how your doing your travel. Solo, Uber. Then you got to think about a hotel out there as well? What was your total outlay: $800 (for the full day, or were your relegated to hours at a time? + Gas + hotel?
CandyMan555
09-28-22, 01:06
Covered or bare?I can only meet during the day!
OkWhatever
09-28-22, 13:40
Is it worth messaging woman that have Platonic or Mentor? I mean, what man in his right min is going to give money to a woman to be his friend.
I've seen a few hot ones that have both.
KcirtaPanner2
09-28-22, 15:20
https://members.seeking.com/member/fb4085d6-8a84-4bcc-b224-1b9c923128d4
Asked for 400, can't host. Anyone seen her?
DarkClouds
09-28-22, 15:27
An old man whose tools no longer work.
Is it worth messaging woman that have Platonic or Mentor? I mean, what man in his right min is going to give money to a woman to be his friend.
I've seen a few hot ones that have both.
JClearMan1
09-28-22, 15:42
Is it worth messaging woman that have Platonic or Mentor? I mean, what man in his right min is going to give money to a woman to be his friend.
I've seen a few hot ones that have both.Yes, absolutely. A lot of times that's just some BS they put in their profile so they won't come off as slutty or something (as if we'd care?
An old man whose tools no longer work.I mean, that's the dream for these girls. Gifts and money without sex.
DarkClouds
09-28-22, 16:11
If we want to have a larger discussion on platonic, there can be many reasons why a girl might use that label:
A) they misunderstand what the word means, d'oh.
B) they want to come across as not slutty (to JCM's point), not to us mongers actually but to anyone in their personal circle who might run into their profile.
C) they really do want platonic (e. G. Older guys whose tools no longer work).
D) they mean to say that they're ok with both platonic and non-platonic (but they don't realize some guys are filtering them out because they said platonic. How dare you!
Bottom line is, as I've said before, use the profile as a guide but don't take it literally. If you really like the girl, give it a shot. She's probably long forgotten what she put in her profile LOL.
Yes, absolutely. A lot of times that's just some BS they put in their profile so they won't come off as slutty or something (as if we'd care?
Member #6449
09-29-22, 09:33
https://members.seeking.com/member/335570a0-4a6e-43c2-894b-3546787d6b7c
Wanted to share a good one since nobody actually seems to do that here. She's a cool chick, totally down to earth with a bangin body. I've chilled at her place for pretty much the whole day before just gettin sweaty and kickin it. Only problem is she really isn't that great of a lay and head game is sorely lacking. I still find myself going back though because it's a safe spot and I really actually dig this chick. Anyways, if a safe spot and bangin bod is what you lookin for then here ya go.What did you give her? Covered or bare?
In the past I have paid for Seeking using a "Vanilla Gift" brand Visa gift card. As recently as a few months ago this brand of gift card worked on Seeking. Today I tried using a new gift card from Vanilla and it got rejected. Does anyone know if Vanilla Gift is no longer allowing purchases on Seeking? And if so does anyone have any other suggestions for anonymous payment?
OkWhatever
09-29-22, 13:47
This all makes sense. I don't care anymore. I'm messaging anyone that I like. Most of these women don't even know what they want.
If we want to have a larger discussion on platonic, there can be many reasons why a girl might use that label:
A) they misunderstand what the word means, d'oh.
B) they want to come across as not slutty (to JCM's point), not to us mongers actually but to anyone in their personal circle who might run into their profile.
C) they really do want platonic (e. G. Older guys whose tools no longer work).
D) they mean to say that they're ok with both platonic and non-platonic (but they don't realize some guys are filtering them out because they said platonic. How dare you!
Bottom line is, as I've said before, use the profile as a guide but don't take it literally. If you really like the girl, give it a shot. She's probably long forgotten what she put in her profile LOL.
I know its a long shot but does anyone know or has had success getting to do some good anal with a SB. I'm not talking just the head. Someone that seemed to really enjoy it. I know most girls on SB if they get comftable enough with you they would but lately I've found no one other then the rt1 strip club bartender that someone posted recently about. If anyone knows someone please reach out. Private messege me if you want. I'm willing to swap also. I'm not really looking for numbers directly. A seeking url would be fine as I can and will messege them myself to see if they are interested.
Member #6449
09-29-22, 21:56
How are you guys negotiating so much bare with the girls you meet on Seeking?
This post will be about various unique activities that you can do, in order to do the following:
1. Reduce the cost of future engagements / arrangements.
2. Increase the likelihood of women communicating more, contacting more, and focused on going out versus there thought process of "show me the money".
3. Making the date / arrangement a bit more fun.
Backstory:
So I started chatting up a kind of a "hippy" style of a woman. She was into crystals, those emotional triggers, tantra, and all that jazz. The woman was in her 40's, therefore, I simply listened & took the info in. Yes, she had 1 kid, was single & never married. Yes, she had the whole "hippy" and "love" vibe, but also, through in the word of "finances" a lot (LOL). I did the Seeking video chat feature, in which we were both allowed to see each other. We continue to chat (wasn't able to meet up yet, due to other dates already pre-planned and her timeframe of having to take care of the kid in the morning, whereas, also, I work weekends. So our timing really sucked, but we still are in the stages of pre-planning). Anyway, she had started sending me these links to various quizzes, to I guess get to know me better as she wanted to know what she wanted to "do to me". Again, I listened. (nope, I didn't want to believe it. But.).
Action Plan:
So these links she shared with me (not sharing them all yet), since I didn't get a chance to put them into action on the hippy. I was able to put them into action on 3 other women, whereas, I already had dates aligned up w / them. Fortunately, these were 2nd dates for two, and 1st date for another one (curvy shaped woman). One at $300, and another at $400 - and the 3rd it was a discussion (see below). Typically, I like long types of experiences, spending hours on end. Hence, I enjoy going to the Casino, grabbing dinner, and pulling off some multiple hours of intimacy.
This time, I put the hippy's advice and a quiz into action. It was called the 5 Love Languages (.
https://5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/love-language). Now, it's important you don't just give the quiz to the woman and let her do it on her own. You need to be fully involved. As a sample of 2, thus far, the next steps needs to be followed:
1. Tell Her About the 5 Love Languages Quiz, so that we can be closer and to try & commit to the long term thing.
2. Give her the quiz. On her own phone or a laptop.
3. While she is doing the quiz, you must go down on her and eat that pussy like your life depended on it. Note: This is a kind of a long quiz, maybe even 30 or 40 minutes. So stretch you jaws in advance. Only do a little bit of fingering (don't get to excited).
4. Note: Whatever you do, do not penetrate. Don't even let her slob on the knob.
5. After the quiz is done, just totally stop eating her out & get the answers of the quiz.
6. Then go eat or do something else quickly, while she's still dripping wet, walking around the room or hallways.
7. Then when you're out doing something up, you can bring up your arrangement and ask about how she thought to the "Activity. " Tell her you'd like to do more of those & more interesting things to bring us closer.
8. Cost Reduction Question: Then say, something like, "if we're able to continue to do this, can we set up consistently at "lower price range" (I. E. Knock of $50 to even $200).
As of right now, it has worked. I aim to do this each time at least on the 2nd date for the higher costs ones.
Other Activities I've been doing:
1. Card Games: Have a full deck of cards & found some sexual card games on Google & just simply copied the rules & change some to customize it.
2. Seconds of Ice Cube Game: Get a bucket of ice, and playing cards and a timer (phone). Each number corresponds to number of seconds to perform the task. 10, Jack, King, Queen, Ace, are all different erogenous zones of where task will be performed. Separate the 10 through ace in one pile & all the other numbers in another. You get to put ice on her, get her wet, and cold before & makes the date longer.
3. BlackJack: When I'm at casino, I'll win enough to throw the her $100 to $200 to play along side of me.
4. Roulette: I only do this game to prolong the date.
5. Slots: Try & win between a $50 & $100 & throw it her way on some slots & have her sit on your lap.
Results: I already mentioned the results of the 1st too. The 3rd was a discussion. Before she had arrived, she stated "we never discussed about the arrangement. You can throw me $300 -$400, is what you can do if ya want). Because it was a last minute type of date & she was willing to drive about 1. 5 hours to me, I was like, "yeah we can chat more about it when you get here). She wasn't fully my type (curvy, a slightly bit of that "college heavy size, not the out of shape heavy size). Since it was the first, I performed the quiz, ate her out. I was a bit ticked off, whereas, on her inner thigh, there was a scratched, large pimple. Whereas, if you saw it too, you'd have to ask before diving in, albeit with some plastic just in case. I guess it embarrassed her a bit, and she almost cried, and put her hands over her head while I was muff diving, but, I continued. Then once I was done, and she finished the quiz, I had said, yea, how about we do this consistently and we do around $200. She was like, that's great.
She immediately called me the next Sunday to plan for the next week.
Do you all have any other activities or engaging things you all do to provide some uniqueness to your nights? I'd like to make a list, and we can have this post dedicated to something about just for various activities. Things that don't cost a lot, but can result in a positive or lower cost outcomes. For me, a hippy gave me the ideas & it turned out to be quite, as them girls would say "beneficial".
OkWhatever
09-30-22, 08:45
Go see Lillyloveslilacs. See review a few pages back. She loves it up the hershey highway and mentioned that upfront.
I know its a long shot but does anyone know or has had success getting to do some good anal with a SB. I'm not talking just the head. Someone that seemed to really enjoy it. I know most girls on SB if they get comftable enough with you they would but lately I've found no one other then the rt1 strip club bartender that someone posted recently about. If anyone knows someone please reach out. Private messege me if you want. I'm willing to swap also. I'm not really looking for numbers directly. A seeking url would be fine as I can and will messege them myself to see if they are interested.
How are you guys negotiating so much bare with the girls you meet on Seeking?For me there is almost no negotiating. Most of the time the topic doesn't even come up. IF she brings up covered I tell her I have had a vasectomy and I'm clean (both true). That usually ends the concern. Occasionally they ask for proof of one or the other but that is rare. If they still want covered I pass. If that comes up when we are naked and horny I will put one on if she has one with her, but will not be seeing her again. (That only happened once).
Longjblues
09-30-22, 09:28
There is no negotiation. Condoms are never discussed in 90% of the meets.
How are you guys negotiating so much bare with the girls you meet on Seeking?
OkWhatever
09-30-22, 09:57
I always wear protection, but from my experience most women don't care and never even mention protection.
How are you guys negotiating so much bare with the girls you meet on Seeking?
KingOfFours
09-30-22, 10:08
I know its a long shot but does anyone know or has had success getting to do some good anal with a SB. I'm not talking just the head. Someone that seemed to really enjoy it. I know most girls on SB if they get comftable enough with you they would but lately I've found no one other then the rt1 strip club bartender that someone posted recently about. If anyone knows someone please reach out. Private messege me if you want. I'm willing to swap also. I'm not really looking for numbers directly. A seeking url would be fine as I can and will messege them myself to see if they are interested.https://members.seeking.com/member/381d5f15-4729-43a1-885e-a237f9bf9027?_cf_ref=aHR0cDovL3d3dy51c2FzZXhndWlkZS5ubC8%3D
https://members.seeking.com/member/25d06c95-e54c-4c12-9f6e-b36115725189?_cf_ref=aHR0cDovL3d3dy51c2FzZXhndWlkZS5ubC8%3D
She was able to host much closer to Boston, last time I inseminated her, too. But depending on her circumstances, she might ask you to get a room if you can't host.
Bareback ass to mouth, ass to pussy, cum in every hole, videotaping, she loves it! And some other absolutely outrageous antics that I won't even post here! For a very fair price!
The face pic in the second, older SA link is quite accurrate, a bit glammed up, though. I can provide a link to my own pics of her (without face) to cuntributing seniors. My most recent, unedited pictures, with face, and showing her shape and figure, nicely, from late spring 2022, however, are reserved for my trusted email contacts only.
OkWhatever
09-30-22, 10:24
That's StephieG from RI LOL.
Old news.
https://members.seeking.com/member/381d5f15-4729-43a1-885e-a237f9bf9027?_cf_ref=aHR0cDovL3d3dy51c2FzZXhndWlkZS5ubC8%3D
https://members.seeking.com/member/25d06c95-e54c-4c12-9f6e-b36115725189?_cf_ref=aHR0cDovL3d3dy51c2FzZXhndWlkZS5ubC8%3D
She was able to host much closer to Boston, last time I inseminated her, too. But depending on her circumstances, she might ask you to get a room if you can't host.
Bareback ass to mouth, ass to pussy, cum in every hole, videotaping, she loves it! And some other absolutely outrageous antics that I won't even post here! For a very fair price!
The face pic in the second, older SA link is quite accurrate, a bit glammed up, though. I can provide a link to my own pics of her (without face) to cuntributing seniors. My most recent, unedited pictures, with face, and showing her shape and figure, nicely, from late spring 2022, however, are reserved for my trusted email contacts only.
PeanutsHucko
09-30-22, 10:45
NIcoWave24,
I tried emailing you but your inbox is full. I would like to ask you a question about "Good girl" Thanks, Peanuts.
https://members.seeking.com/member/335570a0-4a6e-43c2-894b-3546787d6b7c
Wanted to share a good one since nobody actually seems to do that here. She's a cool chick, totally down to earth with a bangin body. I've chilled at her place for pretty much the whole day before just gettin sweaty and kickin it. Only problem is she really isn't that great of a lay and head game is sorely lacking. I still find myself going back though because it's a safe spot and I really actually dig this chick. Anyways, if a safe spot and bangin bod is what you lookin for then here ya go.
Longjblues
09-30-22, 13:29
Any info on this one? Requested allowance of $400. Out of Fitchburg area.
https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/68cb1d62-91e6-406c-a2ba-17f1010be3d0
Any info on this one? Requested allowance of $400. Out of Fitchburg area.
https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/68cb1d62-91e6-406c-a2ba-17f1010be3d0Lots, search Desteni.
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