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I have about 2 years ago. Top 10 bbjj for sure.
Wow, she seems intriguing. Have any of you seen her or spoken with her? She's pretty straightforward and shows all of her pictures, flaws and all. Pics 6 and 7 particularly.
https://members.seeking.com/member/b9eb152c-9fcf-46e7-92ab-e76dbb54f365
Wonder if shes the same Cece from post# 939?
Hobbyist420
03-12-22, 21:33
Have you guys found that when you are trying to set something up with some of these SBs that when they are adamant about condoms, they can eventually become BBFS situations or do you have to ask first?Usually indicative of a semi-pro; or at least a girl who has talked to enough guys who ask / request it that they make sure to put it out there.
Some can be cajoled out of it, but takes trust and usually the ones who more more semi-pro-ish. It's a no go for them no matter what the price or other considerations.
Colgate9174
03-12-22, 22:59
Any Intel on this one? Seems real but is VERY eager to meet from the first interaction. Makes me feel a little sus.
https://members.seeking.com/member/09d24efb-e22f-4d4e-a5a1-3171ac7ff8d9
Have you guys found that when you are trying to set something up with some of these SBs that when they are adamant about condoms, they can eventually become BBFS situations or do you have to ask first?Many of the decently-educated (students / grad students / young professionals) are atuned to sexual health and want condom usage.
One 23 yr old I was seeing w / out them recently started asking me to use; she's had a couple of vaginitis infections and assumes (probably correctly) that they came from men. It's not just the typical std's.
Has that bad girl Asian vibe that I love! Any info would be great.
https://members.seeking.com/member/76705204-4173-4495-89b6-0ab82f2a876c
Has that bad girl Asian vibe that I love! Any info would be great.
https://members.seeking.com/member/76705204-4173-4495-89b6-0ab82f2a876cShe's on other sites. https://www.eros.com/massachusetts/boston/files/6773770.htm?cat=54.
Wow, she seems intriguing. Have any of you seen her or spoken with her? She's pretty straightforward and shows all of her pictures, flaws and all. Pics 6 and 7 particularly.
https://members.seeking.com/member/b9eb152c-9fcf-46e7-92ab-e76dbb54f365
Wonder if shes the same Cece from post# 939?This chick looks like fun and no bs. Has anyone here met with her recently?
Ok here's another one. She's a little new. Just wondering if she had a previous profile and created a new one.
https://members.seeking.com/member/2bdba8b3-2262-4993-a57c-8610e70e048d
Wanted a couple dates first to build a connection. Also, wanted some funds upfront because she was struggling and it would show I'm earnest. Maybe she should stop buying expensive clothing and having drinks out.Late to the party with this one but can corroborate with another post that she's a fake or scammer. I actually met with her once for drinks after she was pretty insistent on meeting. During the meet, she said she was financially responsible and actually has a bunch of money ($10,000 is what she said) saved up for a move to NYC after college. Didn't think much after the first meet and greet. Continued to text a little and then out of the blue asks for money to pay for school books. Doesn't make sense to claim you're financially responsible but need $ for books. I told her I never pay upfront before a meeting and she proceeds to ghost me.
You dodged a bullet, I think she blocked me with her original SA account but see her under a new account here: https://members.seeking.com/member/1f809c27-892c-4b53-9efa-e818144d6feb.
Hobbyist420
03-14-22, 17:34
She's on other sites. https://www.eros.com/massachusetts/boston/files/6773770.htm?cat=54.This is like the 4th EROS pro I've seen on SA this year LOL.
Also, some girls (or, ahem, "girls") will rope ya in for a few hours or days of texting until they ask for the cashapp. The scammers, real or fake, know if they ask right away, their ass will be more likely to be reported.
Is this some fetish or what?
https://members.seeking.com/member/acd4df7b-d8db-43eb-83a8-bd364de7ed28
This chick looks like fun and no bs. Has anyone here met with her recently?She's batshit fucking crazy. Didn't see her for a few weeks after first time and she started stalking and threatening to out me to people. Total bipolar psycho with a loose pussy.
Mattis1775
03-14-22, 20:51
Is this some fetish or what?
https://members.seeking.com/member/acd4df7b-d8db-43eb-83a8-bd364de7ed28She could be a guy for all we know. These freaks who are into anime and dresses like them are just weird. Plus, this person isn't looking for anything, just: Attentive, Emotional connection, Life of leisure, Luxury lifestyle. To me, she just wants company and nothing more. Hard pass.
Is this some fetish or what?
https://members.seeking.com/member/acd4df7b-d8db-43eb-83a8-bd364de7ed28Her name is Surreal. Any more questions? LOL.
She's batshit fucking crazy. Didn't see her for a few weeks after first time and she started stalking and threatening to out me to people. Total bipolar psycho with a loose pussy.Thanks for the heads up. I guess I'll stick with the Brazilian roulette a little longer.
I On Da Street
03-15-22, 09:36
She's batshit fucking crazy. Didn't see her for a few weeks after first time and she started stalking and threatening to out me to people. Total bipolar psycho with a loose pussy.A fair assessment. If you like crazy, and you have your hobby life isolated maybe. She's going to attach real quick though. I think from previous conversations with other hobbyists, she is also not a fan of darker ethnicities (I may have my preferences but I never just put out a no, sight unseen, on anyone) She Hosts out of a large apartment complex off of 139 in Marsh Vegas. She had hit me up recently, lives alone now but I declined, at which point she lost it at me.
Member #6450
03-15-22, 11:10
This is like the 4th EROS pro I've seen on SA this year LOL.
Also, some girls (or, ahem, "girls") will rope ya in for a few hours or days of texting until they ask for the cashapp. The scammers, real or fake, know if they ask right away, their ass will be more likely to be reported.Reached out to her on Snapchat. She wanted me to text her instead. She just wrote back "Text", but before I had a chance to it looks like she's not here anymore. As of yesterday morning she was still in the Boston area, but she's gone now and based on her Snapchat post she is now in San Diego. I did a little digging and found a site that showed her rate is $450/ hr. Not sure if that is accurate though. She has no reviews that I can find.
HankChinanski
03-15-22, 16:56
Anyone else experiencing more girls getting annoyed or angry when intimacy gets brought up when discussing an arrangement? It's been a problem I've been encountering a lot more lately, when I first joined it wasn't that common but lately I'm getting irritable or angry tirades on how "no one wants to just help a girl out anymore none of the men on here are real sugar daddies" rants, one had a meltdown because she has a minimum wage job and is struggling on paying rent, getting gas and food and when I mentioned meeting first to see how we click and go from there she immediately spews out "even if we click I don't want anything sexual at all or until I get comfortable but could we start an allowance" I counter with ppm first and if it seems long term then an allowance and that we can do ONE arrangement with no intimacy but it won't be much for that reason and her reaction at that you would've thought I fucked her mom and sister at the same time while setting her possessions on fire. I'm very curious what it's going to be like on there when gas hits six dollars a gallon it's going to be a fucking shit show.
Member #6450
03-15-22, 17:56
Anyone else experiencing more girls getting annoyed or angry when intimacy gets brought up when discussing an arrangement? It's been a problem I've been encountering a lot more lately, when I first joined it wasn't that common but lately I'm getting irritable or angry tirades on how "no one wants to just help a girl out anymore none of the men on here are real sugar daddies" rants, one had a meltdown because she has a minimum wage job and is struggling on paying rent, getting gas and food and when I mentioned meeting first to see how we click and go from there she immediately spews out "even if we click I don't want anything sexual at all or until I get comfortable but could we start an allowance" I counter with ppm first and if it seems long term then an allowance and that we can do ONE arrangement with no intimacy but it won't be much for that reason and her reaction at that you would've thought I fucked her mom and sister at the same time while setting her possessions on fire. I'm very curious what it's going to be like on there when gas hits six dollars a gallon it's going to be a fucking shit show.From what you are saying it sounds like these women want all the benefits of an arrangement and not have to provide anything in return. Why would any sane guy enter into a deal like that? None that I know of. It's entitlement. They think they are owed something just because they are an attractive woman. As for the one you mentioned working a minimum wage job? Sorry honey, you should have done better in school. Most of these women are complete disasters and can't manage their own finances or carry massive debt. I mainly stick to escorts. I have dated civ women every now and again too. Most of them have bad credit and way too much debt from making dumb financial decisions. I'm usually able to suss that out early on and break it off. Who needs that in their life? SA seems like something I could do, but based of what I've read here I'll stick to escorts.
Sasuke9015
03-15-22, 18:40
Had met this lady from Tryst. She was advertising as a Full body sexual massage. But, ended up having FS for the right price.
Now she is also on Seeking, trying her best. I messaged her and she said she was looking for initially meetups for chemistry and connection and would slowly warm up to the deed. Buy, she is asking for an allowance which is 300 more than the amount I paid for FS with her.
Looks like everyone is moving to Seeking just to get paid more than their normal service rate.
https://members.seeking.com/member/fe5d8c47-cf43-428f-be92-76b390b8eb05
HottieMaybe
03-15-22, 19:02
Had met this lady from Tryst. She was advertising as a Full body sexual massage. But, ended up having FS for the right price.
Now she is also on Seeking, trying her best. I messaged her and she said she was looking for initially meetups for chemistry and connection and would slowly warm up to the deed. Buy, she is asking for an allowance which is 300 more than the amount I paid for FS with her.
Looks like everyone is moving to Seeking just to get paid more than their normal service rate.
https://members.seeking.com/member/fe5d8c47-cf43-428f-be92-76b390b8eb05She is on all the platforms, I think. I personally liked her fine. Can't really blame these women for differential pricing, this is their job.
Anyone else experiencing more girls getting annoyed or angry when intimacy gets brought up when discussing an arrangement? It's been a problem I've been encountering a lot more lately, when I first joined it wasn't that common but lately I'm getting irritable or angry tirades on how "no one wants to just help a girl out anymore none of the men on here are real sugar daddies" rants, one had a meltdown because she has a minimum wage job and is struggling on paying rent, getting gas and food and when I mentioned meeting first to see how we click and go from there she immediately spews out "even if we click I don't want anything sexual at all or until I get comfortable but could we start an allowance" I counter with ppm first and if it seems long term then an allowance and that we can do ONE arrangement with no intimacy but it won't be much for that reason and her reaction at that you would've thought I fucked her mom and sister at the same time while setting her possessions on fire. I'm very curious what it's going to be like on there when gas hits six dollars a gallon it's going to be a fucking shit show.It's the new tactic where they play victim. 9/10 are not even real. The real ones just don't understand the game and english enough to know what "mutually beneficial" means.
KangTheMonger
03-15-22, 19:25
It's the new tactic where they play victim. 9/10 are not even real. The real ones just don't understand the game and english enough to know what "mutually beneficial" means.Do you think they try and play games because they know they can get away with it?
Do you think they try and play games because they know they can get away with it?I just put that if they want something platonic then I am not a fit right at the top of my profile. And as someone else said if they seem dicey about intimacy on the first date then I give them a small gift and buy a meal or a coffee. They get the good stuff when I get the good stuff. It's not that different from regular dating for more seasoned guys and girls. I think any guy over 25 or maybe 30 is going to lose interest if there's no intimacy by date #2.
That being said there are definitely game players and scammers so I bring that up too. That there are a lot of 'rinsers' on Seeking and therefore I want something from them to prove they are a legit baby or deserving of my cash.
This chick from Nashua and I were hitting it off and I mentioned shopping as a date after some intimacy. She was into it and we agreed to meet at some outlets up in NH. The morning of she texted and said I hope you're not expecting anything physical on this date. I laughed and told her then there's no date. She got all prissy so I blocked her. Oh well.
NewEngland
03-15-22, 21:23
She is on all the platforms, I think. I personally liked her fine. Can't really blame these women for differential pricing, this is their job.If you like a big Bush she is your girl.
KangTheMonger
03-15-22, 21:38
I just put that if they want something platonic then I am not a fit right at the top of my profile. And as someone else said if they seem dicey about intimacy on the first date then I give them a small gift and buy a meal or a coffee. They get the good stuff when I get the good stuff. It's not that different from regular dating for more seasoned guys and girls. I think any guy over 25 or maybe 30 is going to lose interest if there's no intimacy by date #2.
That being said there are definitely game players and scammers so I bring that up too. That there are a lot of 'rinsers' on Seeking and therefore I want something from them to prove they are a legit baby or deserving of my cash.
This chick from Nashua and I were hitting it off and I mentioned shopping as a date after some intimacy. She was into it and we agreed to meet at some outlets up in NH. The morning of she texted and said I hope you're not expecting anything physical on this date. I laughed and told her then there's no date. She got all prissy so I blocked her. Oh well.That's crazy to me, because I think that a lot of these girls have done a lot less with dudes in their regular lives.
Yet you were about to take this girl on a shopping trip yet she tried to pull a fast one LOL.
HankChinanski
03-16-22, 00:37
I just put that if they want something platonic then I am not a fit right at the top of my profile. And as someone else said if they seem dicey about intimacy on the first date then I give them a small gift and buy a meal or a coffee. They get the good stuff when I get the good stuff. It's not that different from regular dating for more seasoned guys and girls. I think any guy over 25 or maybe 30 is going to lose interest if there's no intimacy by date #2.
That being said there are definitely game players and scammers so I bring that up too. That there are a lot of 'rinsers' on Seeking and therefore I want something from them to prove they are a legit baby or deserving of my cash.
This chick from Nashua and I were hitting it off and I mentioned shopping as a date after some intimacy. She was into it and we agreed to meet at some outlets up in NH. The morning of she texted and said I hope you're not expecting anything physical on this date. I laughed and told her then there's no date. She got all prissy so I blocked her. Oh well.Funny thing is I have it stated on my profile not interested in online or platonic arrangements and they STILL hit me up like what the fuck, one girl got mad when I mentioned fwb so I pointed out what I wrote and she didn't know what platonic meant, they're starting to get ridiculous on there.
Gianni Versace
03-16-22, 05:13
Funny thing is I have it stated on my profile not interested in online or platonic arrangements and they STILL hit me up like what the fuck, one girl got mad when I mentioned fwb so I pointed out what I wrote and she didn't know what platonic meant, they're starting to get ridiculous on there.It's because most likely they do not read your profile before messaging you. This is the same as when a sb favorited you and sends you a message via dm. Don't you think it's funny when this happens and when you click on her profile it states she has never visited your profile? LOL.
Gianni Versace
03-16-22, 05:18
Her name is Surreal. Any more questions? LOL.Sadly she looks to be one of the weirdos who are in to Japanese Anime and cosplay. You would probably see her and her likeminded friends at the Anime 2022 convention May 27-29 at the Park Plaza Hotel. LOL.
Potholes774
03-16-22, 07:25
Hey guys anyone have any info on this girl?
https://members.seeking.com/member/6703bde6-6d78-4f02-862a-09d96c121aaf
Anyone else experiencing more girls getting annoyed or angry when intimacy gets brought up when discussing an arrangement? It's been a problem I've been encountering a lot more lately, when I first joined it wasn't that common but lately I'm getting irritable or angry tirades on how "no one wants to just help a girl out anymore none of the men on here are real sugar daddies" rants, one had a meltdown because she has a minimum wage job and is struggling on paying rent, getting gas and food and when I mentioned meeting first to see how we click and go from there she immediately spews out "even if we click I don't want anything sexual at all or until I get comfortable but could we start an allowance" I counter with ppm first and if it seems long term then an allowance and that we can do ONE arrangement with no intimacy but it won't be much for that reason and her reaction at that you would've thought I fucked her mom and sister at the same time while setting her possessions on fire. I'm very curious what it's going to be like on there when gas hits six dollars a gallon it's going to be a fucking shit show.I was wondering if wanting to have conversations was a code word for intimacy, but I think that's what many of the SB's on SA are really looking for, and to get an allowance for that.
NicosWave24
03-16-22, 13:21
Anyone have any experience with Sasha from franklin? I get pro / semipro vibes from her via text but that doesn't necessarily bother me if she's got a real.
https://members.seeking.com/member/bdc352df-1013-ff6e-e498-2a7a3895ffe0
NicosWave24
03-16-22, 13:24
Anyone else experiencing more girls getting annoyed or angry when intimacy gets brought up when discussing an arrangement? It's been a problem I've been encountering a lot more lately, when I first joined it wasn't that common but lately I'm getting irritable or angry tirades on how "no one wants to just help a girl out anymore none of the men on here are real sugar daddies" rants, one had a meltdown because she has a minimum wage job and is struggling on paying rent, getting gas and food and when I mentioned meeting first to see how we click and go from there she immediately spews out "even if we click I don't want anything sexual at all or until I get comfortable but could we start an allowance" I counter with ppm first and if it seems long term then an allowance and that we can do ONE arrangement with no intimacy but it won't be much for that reason and her reaction at that you would've thought I fucked her mom and sister at the same time while setting her possessions on fire. I'm very curious what it's going to be like on there when gas hits six dollars a gallon it's going to be a fucking shit show.The 2 I met from my first month on seeking we're both straight up like "ya well we can do whatever you want, this is pretty much just a loophole to escort anyways. Both know why we're here". Lmao, in the other hand that's the reason I chose to see those 2. Had another girl wanted 5 bills for a dinner date with nothin like na girl you're outa your mind.
Anyone else experiencing more girls getting annoyed or angry when intimacy gets brought up when discussing an arrangement? It's been a problem I've been encountering a lot more lately, when I first joined it wasn't that common but lately I'm getting irritable or angry tirades on how "no one wants to just help a girl out anymore none of the men on here are real sugar daddies" rants, one had a meltdown because she has a minimum wage job and is struggling on paying rent, getting gas and food and when I mentioned meeting first to see how we click and go from there she immediately spews out "even if we click I don't want anything sexual at all or until I get comfortable but could we start an allowance"
All girls know the deal on Seeking. They just pretend to not know out of convenience. The girls throwing fits when asked for intimacy are not that clueless, they're just looking for suckers; a guy desperate enough to shell out for the promise of future intimacy. You can't reason with them, they already know they're fishing for the impossible and it's an act. Just thank them for their time and move on.
I have been in contact with a 40 something on south shore whose SA tag was legsxoxo2503. We didn't chat much and then she shut off her profile, but she gave me contact info before. Reached out to her this week and she's still up for a PPM, just looking to see if anyone had any experience. Tried to search her username on this forum with no results. Attached one of the pics that was on her profile.
Anyone else experiencing more girls getting annoyed or angry when intimacy gets brought up when discussing an arrangement? It's been a problem I've been encountering a lot more lately, when I first joined it wasn't that common but lately I'm getting irritable or angry tirades on how "no one wants to just help a girl out anymore none of the men on here are real sugar daddies" rants, one had a meltdown because she has a minimum wage job and is struggling on paying rent, getting gas and food and when I mentioned meeting first to see how we click and go from there she immediately spews out "even if we click I don't want anything sexual at all or until I get comfortable but could we start an allowance" I counter with ppm first and if it seems long term then an allowance and that we can do ONE arrangement with no intimacy but it won't be much for that reason and her reaction at that you would've thought I fucked her mom and sister at the same time while setting her possessions on fire. I'm very curious what it's going to be like on there when gas hits six dollars a gallon it's going to be a fucking shit show.Number one SA rule, if ANYONE messages or favorites you that hasn't viewed your profile, your wasting your time.
MamboMikea
03-16-22, 19:17
Sounds more like a wife, LOL.
From what you are saying it sounds like these women want all the benefits of an arrangement and not have to provide anything in return. Why would any sane guy enter into a deal like that? None that I know of. It's entitlement. They think they are owed something just because they are an attractive woman. As for the one you mentioned working a minimum wage job? Sorry honey, you should have done better in school. Most of these women are complete disasters and can't manage their own finances or carry massive debt. I mainly stick to escorts. I have dated civ women every now and again too. Most of them have bad credit and way too much debt from making dumb financial decisions. I'm usually able to suss that out early on and break it off. Who needs that in their life? SA seems like something I could do, but based of what I've read here I'll stick to escorts.
Gianni Versace
03-16-22, 20:04
Number one SA rule, if ANYONE messages or favorites you that hasn't viewed your profile, your wasting your time.That's not true. I've seen girls on SA who have favorited my profile and not visited my profile before.
Hobbyist420
03-16-22, 21:11
Hey guys anyone have any info on this girl?
https://members.seeking.com/member/6703bde6-6d78-4f02-862a-09d96c121aafGave off semi-pro vibe to me when I suggested DATY, and said I could "do it for 100 more" than the donation I suggested. I blocked after.
Also she doesn't send many pics, which usually indicates she's bigger than the pics.
I passed.
Anyone who knows how I can reach Julesdd, please PM. I saw her once and had a great time.
Do you think they try and play games because they know they can get away with it?Everyone wants free money without doing any of the work. The least they can do is lay there and spread them legs.
For those who have seen Delilah, what did you agree upon for the arrangement. Starting to talk numbers now and don't want to come in too low! Thanks! All help is appreciated! DM or in the forum is fine.
https://members.seeking.com/member/5934842a-172c-4f83-be69-ac4e4a1406d6
For those who have seen Delilah, what did you agree upon for the arrangement. Starting to talk numbers now and don't want to come in too low! Thanks! All help is appreciated! DM or in the forum is fine.
https://members.seeking.com/member/5934842a-172c-4f83-be69-ac4e4a1406d6Look at post #6497.
Anyone who knows how I can reach Julesdd, please PM. I saw her once and had a great time.She's on POF if you can find her profile. I seen here there browsing months ago.
For those who have seen Delilah, what did you agree upon for the arrangement. Starting to talk numbers now and don't want to come in too low! Thanks! All help is appreciated! DM or in the forum is fine.
https://members.seeking.com/member/5934842a-172c-4f83-be69-ac4e4a1406d6We agreed on 300 but never met. Others PMed me that her range is 250-350 before I made my offer. No idea why she ghosted me and I blocked her after that.
HottieMaybe
03-17-22, 14:37
I am on SA and SB because my limiting factor in this hobby is time, not money. Specifically meeting time (I've got plenty of time for research and texting.) I also have a pretty hot wife. So I consider it worth putting up with the BS to find young, clean, tight girls with relatively low mileage. (Yes I realize that a college girl who, when she needs money, thinks "hey I will just go online and find a guy twice my age to bang me for money" is probably pretty high volume compared to most college girls, but she is still low volume by sex worker standards.)
So my last two girls both had profiles up for less than 24 hours. They created a profile, found a guy (s) and deleted the profile before anyone they knew could see it.
This is just the sort of girl I want. Very non pro, doing this very occasionally when they don't want to work a couple of extra shifts.
And so my new tactic is to always sort profiles by "newest."
Maybe this is obvious and you are all already doing it, but I think this is the way to catch the passing hotties before they disappear.
JClearMan1
03-17-22, 14:46
I have been in contact with a 40 something on south shore whose SA tag was legsxoxo2503. We didn't chat much and then she shut off her profile, but she gave me contact info before. Reached out to her this week and she's still up for a PPM, just looking to see if anyone had any experience. Tried to search her username on this forum with no results. Attached one of the pics that was on her profile.I was super close to setting something up with her, but it kind of fell apart when she tried to explain her current living / hosting situation. It seemed really complicated, so I just drifted away from the conversation.
LincolnBoston
03-17-22, 16:08
I was super close to setting something up with her, but it kind of fell apart when she tried to explain her current living / hosting situation. It seemed really complicated, so I just drifted away from the conversation.Meh. No BBFS and larger than pics. Can't host. Pros. No drama and straightforward attitude.
That's not true. I've seen girls on SA who have favorited my profile and not visited my profile before.True. I think there is a bug in the app version (versus the web version) where the flag does not get set even though they've seen your profile.
JClearMan1
03-17-22, 17:07
Number one SA rule, if ANYONE messages or favorites you that hasn't viewed your profile, your wasting your time."Number one rule"? That's literally a feature of the site. You can favorite users from the search results, without ever looking at their profile.
JClearMan1
03-17-22, 17:07
True. I think there is a bug in the app version (versus the web version) where the flag does not get set even though they've seen your profile.What app version?
"Number one rule"? That's literally a feature of the site. You can favorite users from the search results, without ever looking at their profile.This isn't 100% true but it is a possible indicator of desperate pro / scammer using the shotgun spam approach.
In some circumstances SA allows someone to quickview a profile and message / like / request photos without actually triggering the Viewed Profile notification.
Number one SA rule, if ANYONE messages or favorites you that hasn't viewed your profile, your wasting your time.If you are a paid member of SA there is a setting in privacy that allows you to block yourself from being seen viewing profiles. You can still favorite or message from there.
I would think that setting is available on the women's side too?
This isn't 100% true but it is a possible indicator of desperate pro / scammer using the shotgun spam approach.
In some circumstances SA allows someone to quickview a profile and message / like / request photos without actually triggering the Viewed Profile notification.Not sure what the big deal is with trying to figure out what the girls are up to. They either agree to meet you or they don't. If one likes you but won't reply to messages just move on. Your profile should be straight forward what you are looking for and if the " scammers" are not reading it, it takes 5 secs and tell them to move off the site to communicate or just tell them you are not interested in a platonic arrangement. Don't waste a lot of time trying to figure this shit out. Be up front and polite and they either want to meet and greet or they want money up front. I typically just say no thank you to any prepay bs and look for the next one. SA is a part time job to find the right match. Being polite and quick to the point will get you to the go or no go selection quickly. Girls under 20 are a real challenge because they are naive and are thinking everyone wants a penpal. 23 and up know the game and that's when you need to control the conversations but you also need to be able to say thanks but no thanks. If a girl wants to meet quickly then just do it and don't wonder why. Set up a meeting at a hotel so it's safe and if she gives you what you are looking for work out a better arrangement for Incall or better prices because of the hotel for repeat hookups. If she is a pro and you don't care then bang away, if you don't want a pro it's pretty easy to figure it out by the conversation prior to meeting. Just don't pay crazy money and complain after. Most of the girls I am communicating with want a "mentor" aka penpal. I say thank you but I want a FWB arrangement and it isn't platonic. The past 5 girls have been this way and I just say not for me and keep looking. Eventually you will find the one that will bang you. Hang on to her for a while and have fun.
SixtyNineX10
03-18-22, 11:07
This is spot on advice. Don't over think it. The site is full of all kinds of ladies, a lot of BS of course, but also real opportunities. Especially if you have a little game. It's hard work and time consuming but that's the game. Bottom line is you need time and money to play. You might find an occasional Unicorn and you might not, but you will eventually find ladies who want to meet with you. Pro, SB or maybe a combination of both. I find that timing is everything with many of these women. If they need money or are in the mood, you better be ready to react quickly and meet, which can turn a cup of coffee into a visit to the FC that very day.
Once you develop a regular meet up with a lady, it can be really fun. If your looking for high volume, that's more challenging than it used to be but that was never really my goal. But to each his own. This is usually just a NSA / FWB situation, so don't plan on talking about how to solve world peace or whatever, just take it for what it is and enjoy. I see one lady two hours away from me maybe every other month or so, but she usually responds when I text and we pick right up where we left off last time. There are all kinds on the site but it's a bit addictive when it works well. Don't overthink it and these ladies are not your GF. Just more like a friend, with benefits obviously!
Not sure what the big deal is with trying to figure out what the girls are up to. They either agree to meet you or they don't. If one likes you but won't reply to messages just move on. Your profile should be straight forward what you are looking for and if the " scammers" are not reading it, it takes 5 secs and tell them to move off the site to communicate or just tell them you are not interested in a platonic arrangement. Don't waste a lot of time trying to figure this shit out. Be up front and polite and they either want to meet and greet or they want money up front. I typically just say no thank you to any prepay bs and look for the next one. SA is a part time job to find the right match. Being polite and quick to the point will get you to the go or no go selection quickly. Girls under 20 are a real challenge because they are naive and are thinking everyone wants a penpal. 23 and up know the game and that's when you need to control the conversations but you also need to be able to say thanks but no thanks. If a girl wants to meet quickly then just do it and don't wonder why. Set up a meeting at a hotel so it's safe and if she gives you what you are looking for work out a better arrangement for Incall or better prices because of the hotel for repeat hookups. If she is a pro and you don't care then bang away, if you don't want a pro it's pretty easy to figure it out by the conversation prior to meeting. Just don't pay crazy money and complain after. Most of the girls I am communicating with want a "mentor" aka penpal. I say thank you but I want a FWB arrangement and it isn't platonic. The past 5 girls have been this way and I just say not for me and keep looking. Eventually you will find the one that will bang you. Hang on to her for a while and have fun.
"Number one rule"? That's literally a feature of the site. You can favorite users from the search results, without ever looking at their profile.The idea is that SBs really ARE viewing your profile, but if you look at their profile is says that they HAVE NOT. This used to happen when the SB was using the app versus the website. I've had more than one message me with details they could have only gotten by reading my profile. But their profile say not viewed you yet. There were using the app at the time. This was a while back and I do not know the version of the app. I do not use the app.
JClearMan1
03-18-22, 16:54
The idea is that SBs really ARE viewing your profile, but if you look at their profile is says that they HAVE NOT. This used to happen when the SB was using the app versus the website. I've had more than one message me with details they could have only gotten by reading my profile. But their profile say not viewed you yet. There were using the app at the time. This was a while back and I do not know the version of the app. I do not use the app.Someone else said it in another response: it takes a small amount of effort to figure out if a girl is real and interested. I start with a polite introduction, and see where it goes. I've been screwing a different girl every other week since December. In addition to that I basically have a girlfriend. And all that is aside from my wife.
NicosWave24
03-19-22, 14:30
Anyone have any experience with Sasha from franklin? I get pro / semipro vibes from her via text but that doesn't necessarily bother me if she's got a real.
https://members.seeking.com/member/bdc352df-1013-ff6e-e498-2a7a3895ffe0No feedback but got a meeting set up next week. Video chat with her went well, she seems open minded. Going to meet and greet and hopefully grab a room will report later 🤙.
NewEngland
03-19-22, 19:10
https://members.seeking.com/member/bad76812-e91a-41dd-be76-a9774fdbe5f3
This one is worth the ride to the nutmeg state her schedule is tight. She will ride you big time she is nice and tight worth the trip as I said before and the rate is fair unlike others.
HankChinanski
03-20-22, 01:16
No feedback but got a meeting set up next week. Video chat with her went well, she seems open minded. Going to meet and greet and hopefully grab a room will report later 🤙.Hope it goes well, I spoke with her but when she said everything would be covered I wasn't down and she got mad when I said the amount she wanted I should be getting a BBBJ at least with covered FS. Figured I'd give you the heads up in case she pulls something on ya.
"Number one rule"? That's literally a feature of the site. You can favorite users from the search results, without ever looking at their profile.I apparently should have worded is as "my" number one rule. Some of you guys need to relax a little. I'm just sharing my experience which I thought was the point of this site.
A fair assessment. If you like crazy, and you have your hobby life isolated maybe. She's going to attach real quick though. I think from previous conversations with other hobbyists, she is also not a fan of darker ethnicities (I may have my preferences but I never just put out a no, sight unseen, on anyone) She Hosts out of a large apartment complex off of 139 in Marsh Vegas. She had hit me up recently, lives alone now but I declined, at which point she lost it at me.I had seen her twice. Didn't for a bit and she lost it when I was busy and took more than an hour to answer. Calling me all sorts of shit threatening me. She's fucking wack.
I have been in contact with a 40 something on south shore whose SA tag was legsxoxo2503. We didn't chat much and then she shut off her profile, but she gave me contact info before. Reached out to her this week and she's still up for a PPM, just looking to see if anyone had any experience. Tried to search her username on this forum with no results. Attached one of the pics that was on her profile.She tried to get me to go for just head for 300 x like no thanks she's not that good.
I never tried Seeking but what are the chances of having good success for someone who is 23 good paying job I'm not rich by any means.
I just want to pay right away no sugar baby type shit is it worth for me?
I never tried Seeking but what are the chances of having good success for someone who is 23 good paying job I'm not rich by any means.
I just want to pay right away no sugar baby type shit is it worth for me?The woman on seeking could care less how old you are and what your job pays. They are there for money and don't care if how you make it or get it. As long as you hit there offer they will come. I find your average price to pay is 300.
Seemed intriguing but then in a span of hours changed locs 3 x. Small favor, if someone can grab pics we may get more info. She will share but snatch back as soon as you look so saving them fast is important. I have a bad feeling about this one guys.
https://members.seeking.com/member/3df190e6-c708-4fe8-974e-561933f12be2
JClearMan1
03-20-22, 21:39
I never tried Seeking but what are the chances of having good success for someone who is 23 good paying job I'm not rich by any means.
I just want to pay right away no sugar baby type shit is it worth for me?All but three of my encounters from SA have been "pay per meet", which is probably what you're looking for. Two of the three I didn't pay anything for, one of them I previously reported here, the other left SA in January but we kept in touch and recently met up in person, no allowance ever discussed. The last of the two is the "girlfriend" I mentioned in one of my recent comments. I buy her stuff and pay for things occasionally, but no more than I would any regular girlfriend. I see her often.
Patriarchist
03-21-22, 15:17
I never tried Seeking but what are the chances of having good success for someone who is 23 good paying job I'm not rich by any means.
I just want to pay right away no sugar baby type shit is it worth for me?You have to be aware that a lot of women especially in and around Boston will ignore guys younger than 30 simply because they expect that younger guys will not have much money to offer. This is not to say there aren't decent looking girls you can get in bed with for a couple hundred bucks. At the end of the day, it's still generally a numbers game.
Member #6445
03-21-22, 19:11
I never tried Seeking but what are the chances of having good success for someone who is 23 good paying job I'm not rich by any means.
I just want to pay right away no sugar baby type shit is it worth for me?25 yo similar situation. Ppm works. Like people have suggested it is a numbers game. I have had moderate success. Been vanilla dating recently for the last 2 months or so can't make specific recommendations. Good luck.
Hobbyist420
03-21-22, 19:11
You have to be aware that a lot of women especially in and around Boston will ignore guys younger than 30 simply because they expect that younger guys will not have much money to offer. This is not to say there aren't decent looking girls you can get in bed with for a couple hundred bucks. At the end of the day, it's still generally a numbers game.Younger dudes under 30 might find some success on SA, but another allure of why women go on SB site is to not just find dudes with money, but to find older dudes with money.
I saw a few profiles who would say, "no offense to the cryptobros, but looking for an experienced guy over 35" and such.
Just be a gentleman, know your rate window going into a conversation, and ask lots of questions (also to weed out spammers).
All but three of my encounters from SA have been "pay per meet", which is probably what you're looking for. Two of the three I didn't pay anything for, one of them I previously reported here, the other left SA in January but we kept in touch and recently met up in person, no allowance ever discussed. The last of the two is the "girlfriend" I mentioned in one of my recent comments. I buy her stuff and pay for things occasionally, but no more than I would any regular girlfriend. I see her often.This is very good to know going to try my luck and see if I get any success.
Thank you all who replied appreciate the feedback.
I never tried Seeking but what are the chances of having good success for someone who is 23 good paying job I'm not rich by any means.
I just want to pay right away no sugar baby type shit is it worth for me?If you are 23 years old trust me you don't need SA. Don't waste your money on it. I would spend money on a life coach and improve your social skills. I'm sure if you go to the bar in Boston every girls will want to talk to you if you are not weird. Base on what you are saying, it sound like you want a pro. For me, I joined SA just to see what is the hype. I played around with it until I got banned. It was alright for me because I get to find girls of my type that I can go straight to sex because of money. A lot of the girls on SA will want $400, which is ridiculous because they are horrible in bed.
MinorLeague
03-22-22, 00:06
All but three of my encounters from SA have been "pay per meet", In my experience there's definitely much more PPM on SA than there was a couple years ago. Pro's / agency disguised as nonpro SB's as well.
MinorLeague
03-22-22, 00:07
You have to be aware that a lot of women especially in and around Boston will ignore guys younger than 30 simply because they expect that younger guys will not have much money to offer.I once dated a kgirl outside the business (not a good decision I know) and she said one reason she preferred older clients was less stamina / energy / cups. This was a while ago though, probably more viagra now and such.
NicosWave24
03-22-22, 08:44
Hope it goes well, I spoke with her but when she said everything would be covered I wasn't down and she got mad when I said the amount she wanted I should be getting a BBBJ at least with covered FS. Figured I'd give you the heads up in case she pulls something on ya.Hey I appreciate the feedback. I asked her about it and she said protection only for FS because no birth control. I generally take what these women say with a grain of salt until we actually meet tho so we'll see. She's definitely semi-pro at the very least but I don't really care as long as I get a couple hours and a couple nutz. We'll see.
NicosWave24
03-22-22, 08:50
You have to be aware that a lot of women especially in and around Boston will ignore guys younger than 30 simply because they expect that younger guys will not have much money to offer. This is not to say there aren't decent looking girls you can get in bed with for a couple hundred bucks. At the end of the day, it's still generally a numbers game.I've found the opposite to be true at least for the under 30 women. I've spoken and traded pics with 5 or 6 from my 1 month on seeking and met 2 and all but one basically said to me "oh thank got your young and good looking most guys that message me are older". Idk, I take what they say with a grain of salt in general but I feel like my age and reasonably good looks hve helped me out.
I've found the opposite to be true at least for the under 30 women. I've spoken and traded pics with 5 or 6 from my 1 month on seeking and met 2 and all but one basically said to me "oh thank got your young and good looking most guys that message me are older". Idk, I take what they say with a grain of salt in general but I feel like my age and reasonably good looks hve helped me out.There are more younger ones on there now who really either have not much of a clue and are looking for fantasy land or have watched videos, read things from other girls.
Telling them there are plenty of younger guys on there, they will get paid for having dinner with a guy, will be showered with gifts, taken on trips around the world, have their rent / car / tuition paid, etc.
The level of cluelessness and fantasy land thinking is over the top now.
I find it amusing that there are younger girls on there thinking a guy under 30 will be on there and have plenty of money to give them.
These girls just have no clue about things or how sugar dating world works at all.
You should be able to find some young hotties there and if I were you I would be looking to pay very minimal for them.
You have the leverage over these girls so use it.
I've found the opposite to be true at least for the under 30 women. I've spoken and traded pics with 5 or 6 from my 1 month on seeking and met 2 and all but one basically said to me "oh thank got your young and good looking most guys that message me are older". Idk, I take what they say with a grain of salt in general but I feel like my age and reasonably good looks hve helped me out.I tend to agree with your outlook on looking younger and decent looking. I had great successes when I was in my 40's vs 60's. The girls were very happy and playful when they would show up more so before vs now. I'm far from a troll but the age thing does seem to matter. Ofc I don't play any games any longer and try to get right to the point of this program so they may be a little put off? I am also very firm on what I will donate so me being relatively inflexible may frustrate them. Back in the Montreal days the girls would usually comment "oh thank god you are young and in decent shape". Most of those girls were/are college girls and were operating pre SA. I had more than cancel the remaining appointments and spend the night with me all for their hourly rate. Best of times for sure.
Anyone talk to this girl? Seems cute, good response via text (albeit short but to the point).
https://members.seeking.com/member/f54dd859-bfa1-40ca-9285-8fe5a977c0a1
Anyone talk to this girl? Seems cute, good response via text (albeit short but to the point).
https://members.seeking.com/member/f54dd859-bfa1-40ca-9285-8fe5a977c0a1She's from Lynn / Salem. We were friends on facebook, she's been doing this for what 7 yrs plus. Used to actually post on escort sites then stopped a few years ago now is just on seeking. I never met her since its to proish. I got her snap on seeking last week and we talked. Her private pics didn't do it for me tho. She has no sex appeal and the pics of her feet was a turn off. They looked all jacked up and stuff.
DrinIvisible
03-22-22, 21:00
Anyone talk to this girl? Seems cute, good response via text (albeit short but to the point).
https://members.seeking.com/member/f54dd859-bfa1-40ca-9285-8fe5a977c0a1She used to go by the name Dreyla before. I saw her in December. This is her new profile, everything is on the menu. A but talkative as she does kick-boxing, natural boobs. Just want you to keep *ucking. I was exhausted in the 2 hours we were together, LOL! BBFSCIP is available, if that's your thing.
MinorLeague
03-23-22, 09:28
Have you met up with her yet?? Cannot tell if she is real or not.I might meet her today, she said she's ok coming to see me in Boston. Will TOFTT if she ends up coming.
If you are 23 years old trust me you don't need SA. Don't waste your money on it. I would spend money on a life coach and improve your social skills. I'm sure if you go to the bar in Boston every girls will want to talk to you if you are not weird. Base on what you are saying, it sound like you want a pro. For me, I joined SA just to see what is the hype. I played around with it until I got banned. It was alright for me because I get to find girls of my type that I can go straight to sex because of money. A lot of the girls on SA will want $400, which is ridiculous because they are horrible in bed.1. I agree with you that SA is not the place for a 23 yr old guy. For all the reasons you (and others) already stated.
2. $400 for a college girl or recent grad or grad student is very common here in Boston. If they truly are "horrible" in bed don't see them again. Or see them just for the tight young body experience. But it all depends on what you're looking for. I am way more interested in a non-pro nerdy girl who might not be as good at giving great sex as a pro girl is. But I've also found the nerdy girls who give it as good as the pro's. Those are the keepers for me. It takes time for the search which is OK with me.
MinorLeague
03-23-22, 11:10
A lot of the girls on SA will want $400, which is ridiculous because they are horrible in bed.I prefer younger girls (18-21 is the best for me, I'll go 22-25 on occasion) for their bodies and personalities / innocence (typically); I care less about how good they are in bed since I can take the lead on that part.
Seemed intriguing but then in a span of hours changed locs 3 x. Small favor, if someone can grab pics we may get more info. She will share but snatch back as soon as you look so saving them fast is important. I have a bad feeling about this one guys.
https://members.seeking.com/member/3df190e6-c708-4fe8-974e-561933f12be2Currently profile says "Massachusetts, Massachusetts" as the location. That's always a red flag for me.
MinorLeague
03-23-22, 12:00
Seemed intriguing but then in a span of hours changed locs 3 x. Small favor, if someone can grab pics we may get more info. She will share but snatch back as soon as you look so saving them fast is important. I have a bad feeling about this one guys.
https://members.seeking.com/member/3df190e6-c708-4fe8-974e-561933f12be2Not my style (edit: She's not my style) but I asked for photos, will share if she sends.
MinorLeague
03-24-22, 01:55
I blocked her so can't share her profile link, attaching the pics she had in her profile. Before meeting she said her last SD gave her 5-8 K a month (yea right). Basically in person she has the body shape of a shorter Grimace, completely different face from the photos, and I wouldn't be surprised if she's older than 20 (age that was in her profile). I told her I had a work emergency and ran away; paid for her Uber both ways.
MinorLeague
03-24-22, 01:58
Hey I appreciate the feedback. I asked her about it and she said protection only for FS because no birth control. I generally take what these women say with a grain of salt until we actually meet tho so we'll see. She's definitely semi-pro at the very least but I don't really care as long as I get a couple hours and a couple nutz. We'll see.Took me a while but I finally remembered -- Saw her maybe 5 years ago when her name was Sandra. Soft body, not chubby but not skinny either, she's had at least one baby for sure. These days her attitude is much more cold / professional than before and she seems to have increased her rate from $300 to $400.
She has a profile on SB too and she is way beyond thick and no where near curvy.
Good for you turning her down.
I blocked her so can't share her profile link, attaching the pics she had in her profile. Before meeting she said her last SD gave her 5-8 K a month (yea right). Basically in person she has the body shape of a shorter Grimace, completely different face from the photos, and I wouldn't be surprised if she's older than 20 (age that was in her profile). I told her I had a work emergency and ran away; paid for her Uber both ways.
The Hunter
03-24-22, 10:17
So I had left SA for a while but decided to give it another try. I recently met these 2 young ladies.
https://members.seeking.com/member/317efb13-7a17-4378-ad5d-ac4c4a111033
She is a super talkitive young hippie type. Offered to come to my place for 2. 5 I said I was "more comfortable at 1. 5" and she aggreed. We set it up and she was fairly punctual. A little chubby smaller tits but sexy but is the girl in here pictures. Double tounge peircing wich came in handy. First she started by offering a massage which I was happy to accept. After about 15 minutes of that it was on to the main event. Really good BBBJ lots of spit and drool licked and sucked on the boys this went on for about 10 minutes. I decided to DATY the only issue for me personaly was she has a very hairy Bush that's not my style but no bad smell or anything just like my kitty smooth. Then it was on to some mish the Cowgirl and finally k9 she has a beautiful wide ass that I unloaded on. All and all worth the price everything was bare but no CIM or CIP. But for some of the girls out here's asking price I will repeat.
https://members.seeking.com/member/699fd6a8-69b4-4adf-9788-0d05746cb51a
This one didn't go down as smoothly. We text she wanted 3. 5 I apologized for wasting her time then wished her the best and she said she could work with me 2. 5 I said "I am sure you are worth every penny but I am more comfortable at 2" She agreed. She is the girl in the pics but somewhat filtered. Set up the time at her place (one of those building communites in Danvers) Got there the place had hardly any furniture but what am I an interior decorator critic? Place stunk of weed and there where blunt packs everywhere. She brought me to the beedrom told me to get comfortable. Got underessed and laid on the bed. She started with a BBBJ it was good to start but it was the same the whole 10 minutes, same pace, same depth just very one note. She has potential with it but needs to learn different techniques. Was playing with her tits and my hads wandered lower. I asked if she did DATY and she said oh no you don't want to do that. A red flag. Slid on the cover and and went at it K9 tight fit and fun but she is all around very mechanical. Would be willing to give it another try.
I hope these help you all in your search. Please share your experiences because knowledge is power.
Happy Hunting all.
The Hunter.
NicosWave24
03-24-22, 11:51
I prefer younger girls (18-21 is the best for me, I'll go 22-25 on occasion) for their bodies and personalities / innocence (typically); I care less about how good they are in bed since I can take the lead on that part.One I've been seeing recently fits this. Her body is bad af but terrible in bed. She's cool tho and I stay for hours at a time at her place so I general have an ok time. World class tits tho, oh man LOL.
NicosWave24
03-24-22, 13:49
Took me a while but I finally remembered -- Saw her maybe 5 years ago when her name was Sandra. Soft body, not chubby but not skinny either, she's had at least one baby for sure. These days her attitude is much more cold / professional than before and she seems to have increased her rate from $300 to $400.Ya the cold / professional code came out so I bailed. I'm cool with a pro or semipro but she could do a better job at pretending she's into it and at least being clear and nicer about it. Got the vibe she would want $ up front and Probly bounce after 1 pop, no thanks.
Since the first girl was bare everything I am assuming the second girl slid on the cover, it wasn't you who did? No bare from her?
So I had left SA for a while but decided to give it another try. I recently met these 2 young ladies.
https://members.seeking.com/member/317efb13-7a17-4378-ad5d-ac4c4a111033
She is a super talkitive young hippie type. Offered to come to my place for 2. 5 I said I was "more comfortable at 1. 5" and she aggreed. We set it up and she was fairly punctual. A little chubby smaller tits but sexy but is the girl in here pictures. Double tounge peircing wich came in handy. First she started by offering a massage which I was happy to accept. After about 15 minutes of that it was on to the main event. Really good BBBJ lots of spit and drool licked and sucked on the boys this went on for about 10 minutes. I decided to DATY the only issue for me personaly was she has a very hairy Bush that's not my style but no bad smell or anything just like my kitty smooth. Then it was on to some mish the Cowgirl and finally k9 she has a beautiful wide ass that I unloaded on. All and all worth the price everything was bare but no CIM or CIP. But for some of the girls out here's asking price I will repeat.
https://members.seeking.com/member/699fd6a8-69b4-4adf-9788-0d05746cb51a
This one didn't go down as smoothly. We text she wanted 3. 5 I apologized for wasting her time then wished her the best and she said she could work with me 2. 5 I said "I am sure you are worth every penny but I am more comfortable at 2" She agreed. She is the girl in the pics but somewhat filtered. Set up the time at her place (one of those building communites in Danvers) Got there the place had hardly any furniture but what am I an interior decorator critic? Place stunk of weed and there where blunt packs everywhere. She brought me to the beedrom told me to get comfortable. Got underessed and laid on the bed. She started with a BBBJ it was good to start but it was the same the whole 10 minutes, same pace, same depth just very one note. She has potential with it but needs to learn different techniques. Was playing with her tits and my hads wandered lower. I asked if she did DATY and she said oh no you don't want to do that. A red flag. Slid on the cover and and went at it K9 tight fit and fun but she is all around very mechanical. Would be willing to give it another try.
I hope these help you all in your search. Please share your experiences because knowledge is power.
Happy Hunting all.
The Hunter.
Seemed intriguing but then in a span of hours changed locs 3 x. Small favor, if someone can grab pics we may get more info. She will share but snatch back as soon as you look so saving them fast is important. I have a bad feeling about this one guys.
https://members.seeking.com/member/3df190e6-c708-4fe8-974e-561933f12be2I can vouch for her. I have seen her a couple of times. She is very cautious with discretion. Any questions feel free to PM me.
The Hunter
03-24-22, 23:27
Since the first girl was bare everything I am assuming the second girl slid on the cover, it wasn't you who did? No bare from her?Yes after the BBBJ she slid it on.
TimLuvsTits69
03-25-22, 08:50
I'm assuming that I've been blocked as every girl that I click on it says " profile-de-activated" Anyone have this happen? I have never discussed any sex, any money, I've not been offensive, just wondering what's going on?
https://members.seeking.com/member/699fd6a8-69b4-4adf-9788-0d05746cb51a
This one didn't go down as smoothly. We text she wanted 3. 5 I apologized for wasting her time then wished her the best and she said she could work with me 2. 5 I said "I am sure you are worth every penny but I am more comfortable at 2" She agreed. She is the girl in the pics but somewhat filtered. Set up the time at her place (one of those building communites in Danvers) Got there the place had hardly any furniture but what am I an interior decorator critic? Place stunk of weed and there where blunt packs everywhere. She brought me to the beedrom told me to get comfortable. Got underessed and laid on the bed. She started with a BBBJ it was good to start but it was the same the whole 10 minutes, same pace, same depth just very one note. She has potential with it but needs to learn different techniques. Was playing with her tits and my hads wandered lower. I asked if she did DATY and she said oh no you don't want to do that. A red flag. Slid on the cover and and went at it K9 tight fit and fun but she is all around very mechanical. Would be willing to give it another try..I was in communication with this lady over a month ago. She texted me every day and very persistent to meet. I didn't go for it. Something seem amiss about her. She live in those apartment buildings and she also mentioned she have a kid. I don't want the baby's daddy all of a sudden show up!
MinorLeague
03-25-22, 13:17
I'm assuming that I've been blocked as every girl that I click on it says " profile-de-activated" Anyone have this happen? I have never discussed any sex, any money, I've not been offensive, just wondering what's going on?Sometimes I get that and I have to clear my cache, log out, back in, refresh, and it works again. I've never actually been banned and I've used SA since they started pretty much. I try not to say anything that might be considered bannable but I routinely say things like do you have any boundaries, what did your last arrangement include, etc.
PjDaniels928
03-25-22, 17:20
https://members.seeking.com/member/4187999c-34ec-46a4-bdee-405164c0ff05
Hey all, anyone set something up with her? Was thinkin about taking the plunge.
https://members.seeking.com/member/4187999c-34ec-46a4-bdee-405164c0ff05
Hey all, anyone set something up with her? Was thinkin about taking the plunge.Did you read her profile? Not sure how much of a plunge it will be unless you are just looking for company.
Member #6450
03-25-22, 20:20
Did you read her profile? Not sure how much of a plunge it will be unless you are just looking for company.Pretty sure I've seen her on Facebook Dating too.
Which I didn't know was a thing, but Facebook Dating is a complete joke. Works like Tinder with swiping right or left. Seems the only people I match with are asian scammers who will message you to switch to WhatsApp. Their profile will say they live in a city or town nearby however all their photos are from locations clearly not nearby. It's nothing but a crypto scam. Read something on Reddit some poor sap got scammed out of $1000 by indulging one of these scammers. There are real people on it though but with all the scammers it's tough. Of course FB does nothing about these scammers.
PjDaniels928
03-26-22, 01:33
Did you read her profile? Not sure how much of a plunge it will be unless you are just looking for company.Haha yeah I'm aware, but read intimacy and wasn't sure if that meant she was open. Shame, she's a smoke.
The Hunter
03-26-22, 10:50
I was in communication with this lady over a month ago. She texted me every day and very persistent to meet. I didn't go for it. Something seem amiss about her. She live in those apartment buildings and she also mentioned she have a kid. I don't want the baby's daddy all of a sudden show up!Yes she is constantlty texting to come back. I felt the same about the kid and the baby daddy potential issue, but said fuck it toftt and wasnt bad. May venture over today to give her a shot to improve on the last time.
If you are 23 years old trust me you don't need SA. Don't waste your money on it. I would spend money on a life coach and improve your social skills. I'm sure if you go to the bar in Boston every girls will want to talk to you if you are not weird. Base on what you are saying, it sound like you want a pro. For me, I joined SA just to see what is the hype. I played around with it until I got banned. It was alright for me because I get to find girls of my type that I can go straight to sex because of money. A lot of the girls on SA will want $400, which is ridiculous because they are horrible in bed.I Feel what your saying I been improving myself looks / money etc etc I consider myself a good looking male I just suck at talking to women I don't know what to say other than what's up.
I discovered this at 19 (from going through all of HS a loner and no pussy to easily banging sexy chicks every week paid of course) and ever since I have been addicted that I gave up on regular women but I'm trying to make it 50/50 paid and free so.
I'm putting myself out there wish me luck.
Haha yeah I'm aware, but read intimacy and wasn't sure if that meant she was open. Shame, she's a smoke.This is what her profile says:
"I want a genuine, mentoring relationship that will lead to intimacy. ".
Gents, when they say that things "will lead to intimacy" in the future, they are a rinser. They will lead you on / string you along, trying for an allowance for these platonic dates that "build trust," and intimacy miraculously will NEVER happen. It's called rinsing.
This is what her profile says:
"I want a genuine, mentoring relationship that will lead to intimacy. ".
Gents, when they say that things "will lead to intimacy" in the future, they are a rinser. They will lead you on / string you along, trying for an allowance for these platonic dates that "build trust," and intimacy miraculously will NEVER happen. It's called rinsing.Solid advice and obvious for anyone who's been in the bowl 5 minutes. But just like paying upfront or paying for M&G some guys will still do it over and over. How many stories are there on here of paying before the meet and getting insta-ghosted? The same stories go back decades now, the same mistakes. Some guys will do what they do. You can't fix thirsty.
PjDaniels928
03-27-22, 17:29
Solid advice and obvious for anyone who's been in the bowl 5 minutes. But just like paying upfront or paying for M&G some guys will still do it over and over. How many stories are there on here of paying before the meet and getting insta-ghosted? The same stories go back decades now, the same mistakes. Some guys will do what they do. You can't fix thirsty.Didn't even know there was a term "rinsing" smh and yeah that makes complete sense, thanks fellas, happy hunting.
MinorLeague
03-28-22, 09:22
Solid advice and obvious for anyone who's been in the bowl 5 minutes. But just like paying upfront or paying for M&G some guys will still do it over and over. How many stories are there on here of paying before the meet and getting insta-ghosted? The same stories go back decades now, the same mistakes. Some guys will do what they do. You can't fix thirsty.I don't know, I've been able to convince girls on SA to fuck when their profiles have said stuff like that. YMMV obviously but while I never pay upfront, I will send a gift through SA or an Uber gift card in advance if I get the sense the girl is real. Some will ghost of course, but when they do meet up and then you flash more cash in front of them, they go all the way 99% of the time in my experience. I find that small investment worth it for me, same as if I have to pay for dinner before we fuck BBFS, but I've posted before about who I'm looking for on SA and that's why it's worth it when I find someone.
Anybody received random text message from someone that claimed to met you on Seeking? I have a girl name Nina.
I don't have time or money to deal with girls asking for money upfront or hedging on intimacy. For me its just a total waste of time or money no matter how hot the girl looks or what she says.
I don't know, I've been able to convince girls on SA to fuck when their profiles have said stuff like that. YMMV obviously but while I never pay upfront, I will send a gift through SA or an Uber gift card in advance if I get the sense the girl is real. Some will ghost of course, but when they do meet up and then you flash more cash in front of them, they go all the way 99% of the time in my experience. I find that small investment worth it for me, same as if I have to pay for dinner before we fuck BBFS, but I've posted before about who I'm looking for on SA and that's why it's worth it when I find someone.
TimLuvsTits69
03-28-22, 14:16
https://members.seeking.com/member/e4f35549-a8a0-4a18-9c49-cb465d400d27 Don't bother with this one. Scammer, after a little small talk, switches it over to Crypto. Not sure what her angle was, told her I wasn't interested in Crypto until I started to see some pussy pics. That ended quickly.
I don't know, I've been able to convince girls on SA to fuck when their profiles have said stuff like that. YMMV obviously but while I never pay upfront, I will send a gift through SA or an Uber gift card in advance if I get the sense the girl is real. Some will ghost of course, but when they do meet up and then you flash more cash in front of them, they go all the way 99% of the time in my experience. I find that small investment worth it for me, same as if I have to pay for dinner before we fuck BBFS, but I've posted before about who I'm looking for on SA and that's why it's worth it when I find someone.From your post history it sounds like you have more budget and more patience than the average guy. Good on you, it probably helps your cause in the long run. Me? My patience is razor thin for girly games. Has it cost me a girl in the past? Maybe but also maybe not. Regardless, I set the rules and that's the way I like it. No simping, no pedestaling. Ever.
Hobbyist420
03-28-22, 17:03
https://members.seeking.com/member/e4f35549-a8a0-4a18-9c49-cb465d400d27 Don't bother with this one. Scammer, after a little small talk, switches it over to Crypto. Not sure what her angle was, told her I wasn't interested in Crypto until I started to see some pussy pics. That ended quickly.If they start talking crypto = scammer.
Aint no real woman on a SA into crypto (unless they are the buyer, if you get my drift).
Hobbyist420
03-28-22, 17:08
Anybody received random text message from someone that claimed to met you on Seeking? I have a girl name Nina.This is girl?
She hit me up. And since she's from Peabody (the "P" stands for "pro" I often say), she may be part of a team of another girl or two from the same area there.
I've run into a few teams on SA, which also tracks to folks saying they've run into more pros on there more than ever in the last year.
This is girl?
She hit me up. And since she's from Peabody (the "P" stands for "pro" I often say), she may be part of a team of another girl or two from the same area there.
I've run into a few teams on SA, which also tracks to folks saying they've run into more pros on there more than ever in the last year.I thought I attached a photos. This person was aggressive to meet. She won't give me any information. I told her I never talked to you and she say yes we have. She just changed her numbers.
This is girl?
She hit me up. And since she's from Peabody (the "P" stands for "pro" I often say), she may be part of a team of another girl or two from the same area there.
I've run into a few teams on SA, which also tracks to folks saying they've run into more pros on there more than ever in the last year.Ever find her escort AD if she has one?
CandyMan555
03-28-22, 22:03
Anyone have any info on Meetup4fun.com ??
https://www.meetup4fun.com/search_results.php
Anybody received random text message from someone that claimed to met you on Seeking? I have a girl name Nina.Common scam. They get you to make some "admissions" and then hit you with the "she was underage" and usually "I'm her father and I'm coming after you. ".
The blackmail threat comes after that.
If you don't know who's texting you on your burner number, "new phone who dis" or nothing.
SixtyNineX10
03-30-22, 10:57
Has anyone partaken?
https://members.seeking.com/member/3f219754-e05c-47df-ade6-62c4a71a3b17
MamboMikea
04-01-22, 14:29
Has anyone partaken?
https://members.seeking.com/member/3f219754-e05c-47df-ade6-62c4a71a3b17Yes, I just had a morning date with her. She lives in her mom's house and can host. She wanted 400, but it was all so worth it.
It turned out that her mom was home, but they were cool with me being there. Her mom looks pretty good too, so it was obvious where Jbandss got her looks from.
She and I started out in her bedroom, removing our clothes and jumping onto her bed. She is very sensual and kisses good, her lips and tongue felt soft and warm around my cock. I was anxious to taste her pussy, so she spun around into 69. Well during that, her mom snuck in. Jbandss was getting excited and when she spun around, her mom was looking up at me with my cock in her mouth, who then guided me in bare into Jbandss' pussy.
So, yes, it was a bit pricey, but wow, I got to creampie both daughter and her mom.
Don't mention mom. I think it would scare her off, but if you get to see her, you might get a special treat. April Fool's!
Yes, I just had a morning date with her. She lives in her mom's house and can host. She wanted 400, but it was all so worth it.
It turned out that her mom was home, but they were cool with me being there. Her mom looks pretty good too, so it was obvious where Jbandss got her looks from.
She and I started out in her bedroom, removing our clothes and jumping onto her bed. She is very sensual and kisses good, her lips and tongue felt soft and warm around my cock. I was anxious to taste her pussy, so she spun around into 69. Well during that, her mom snuck in. Jbandss was getting excited and when she spun around, her mom was looking up at me with my cock in her mouth, who then guided me in bare into Jbandss' pussy.
So, yes, it was a bit pricey, but wow, I got to creampie both daughter and her mom.
Don't mention mom. I think it would scare her off, but if you get to see her, you might get a special treat. April Fool's!Hahaha awesome. I needed that today. Well done.
Anyone see this one? We talked for awhile under old profile. Feels like a pro. I'm thinking everyone's just going to say yeah she's a pro. But have you actually seen her?
https://members.seeking.com/member/572c5746-8a98-4ddd-b46d-24059264d8eb
BostonJones
04-03-22, 15:13
https://members.seeking.com/member/25d3fa53-c109-4708-9297-d7f796ad5bc4
Using pictures of porn star Ashley Adams.
BostonJones
04-03-22, 15:52
Anyone see this one? We talked for awhile under old profile. Feels like a pro. I'm thinking everyone's just going to say yeah she's a pro. But have you actually seen her?
https://members.seeking.com/member/572c5746-8a98-4ddd-b46d-24059264d8ebLink isn't working for me so I'm asking. Is this the Valentina that is of middle eastern descent, black hair, about 4'10"-5'0", at least DD cup size and probably bigger, Winnie the Pooh tattoo on her right upper arm?
If so, yes she is real, yes I've met her. She used to do premium snapchat and she is on * as Valattina, also on Fetlife as atinababy. Bear in mind my sugar style is different than the usual poster. I do not have a sig-other and I like to get out and enjoy the city, so my relations on Seeking sometimes feel like conventional dates but with an enormous age gap (usually), I've had guys at Bruins games tell me to reel in my daughter (I took a Red Wings fan).
Back to Val. Met her in the city and we went on a bit of a pub crawl. Went to one place where she was friends with the bartender, another place some people she knew where there, including one guy not to far from my age (mid-50's) and I think he might have been or still was one of her "daddy's". They wanted to go to a club in the Seaport and clubs aren't my thing so I passed. I was kind of put off that she bailed on me, but that's life. I would try to get together with her again because she is a good time and that little Persian body is banging, but she doesn't seem to share that sentiment. Good luck and have fun if you can get her out, I'm pretty sure you'll have a good time. Never got to the allowance stage, but I wouldn't be surprised if she throughs out a pretty big number, that's the vibe I got.
What payment types are working on SA these days- It seems like every time I try to sign up, getting blocked. Granted I have been blocked many times, but still never had this much trouble signing up again.
LincolnBoston
04-04-22, 13:24
https://members.seeking.com/member/18a34589-4c04-4942-a572-47acf4f7aa38
Anyone have intel on this one?
Seems legit but not sure how curvy she is in real life. I can't handle a gut.
20% off right now with code VWO20PB.
$87.99 to sign up.
Have fun.
https://members.seeking.com/member/18a34589-4c04-4942-a572-47acf4f7aa38
Anyone have intel on this one?
Seems legit but not sure how curvy she is in real life. I can't handle a gut.She's on Fetlife and has sex with trannys. She's beyond fat and disgusting body wise naked.
I would have so much pussy from Asia and South America, would be swimming in it.
Get so many likes, messages, etc from those areas would be pimping it up. LOL.
Ridiculous!
20% off right now with code VWO20PB.
$87.99 to sign up.
Have fun.Think I may have to go on and see who I can meet.
Thanks for sharing.
Anyone seen her below?
https://members.seeking.com/member/9c6fa9eb-d8f1-407a-a594-c99f12b3af07
Let me know. Thanks.
Malden Male
04-05-22, 08:38
She's on Fetlife and has sex with trannys. She's beyond fat and disgusting body wise naked.She has a bit of a gut, but she's a pretty cool chick, fun to talk to, cute tits, and pretty open minded.
I would have so much pussy from Asia and South America, would be swimming in it.
Get so many likes, messages, etc from those areas would be pimping it up. LOL.
Ridiculous!And you don't need the ap in a city like Medellin. Absolute smoke shows go for 300 k pesos which is about 80 $ although guys do overpay and get less in return. My avg girl there goes for 150 k 42 $ with a 50 k tip 14 $ if I have a good time. Girls I've contacted thru SA fron Medellin try to quote you in us dollars. A teacher makes about 300 us dollars a month in Colombia. Lots of info on the sister site to this board.
Gianni Versace
04-07-22, 00:32
And you don't need the ap in a city like Medellin. Absolute smoke shows go for 300 k pesos which is about 80 $ although guys do overpay and get less in return. My avg girl there goes for 150 k 42 $ with a 50 k tip 14 $ if I have a good time. Girls I've contacted thru SA fron Medellin try to quote you in us dollars. A teacher makes about 300 us dollars a month in Colombia. Lots of info on the sister site to this board.Where can you meet these smoke shows in Medellin??
Where can you meet these smoke shows in Medellin??Read thAT. Make a fake facebook, you can Pm me and be my friend, tinder, the clubs by pargue lleras, massage parlors. You will find everything from pros, to women looking for school clothes for their kids, to girls that want an older boyfriend. I wish I was younger and had a telecommuting job instead of being a contractor and could live there year round.
There's so many different approaches and just like the us some will BBBJ some won't. Chupa sin condom necdssario.
DarkClouds
04-09-22, 14:24
WTF is their obsession with grabbing dinner? Haven't they heard of delivery? I prefer to eat alone. Don't need some prudish female trying to converse while I'm enjoying my meal. LOL.
WTF is their obsession with grabbing dinner? Haven't they heard of delivery? I prefer to eat alone. Don't need some prudish female trying to converse while I'm enjoying my meal. LOL.It's cause they too broke to get McDonalds LOL and Tinder dates want to split the bill.
DarkClouds
04-11-22, 18:58
LOL. Also, when did sex become a thing that women hate? I'll do anything but sex! No! Please no sex! What is happening to our society. Have dildos become too good?
It's cause they too broke to get McDonalds LOL and Tinder dates want to split the bill.
WTF is their obsession with grabbing dinner? Haven't they heard of delivery? I prefer to eat alone. Don't need some prudish female trying to converse while I'm enjoying my meal. LOL.I don't understand your comment. They are looking for Sugar Daddy, someone that is a generous who spends lavishly on a girl. That is my understanding. You can always say no, or go to a different website.
GntleGuy84
04-12-22, 05:37
Anyone seen her below?
https://members.seeking.com/member/9c6fa9eb-d8f1-407a-a594-c99f12b3af07
Let me know. Thanks.Did you meet her?
I don't understand your comment. They are looking for Sugar Daddy, someone that is a generous who spends lavishly on a girl. That is my understanding. You can always say no, or go to a different website.My experience with girls that want a dinner meet and greet is a waste of time unless you don't mind only having a decent meal with a cute girl. I did a lunch and dinner date with 2 different girls and it went no where so now I only do coffee or cocktail meet and greets. I limit the time to less than an hour unless something spectacular happens. You can figure out their mo quickly and save some cash at the same time. Dinner can become uncomfortable if the girl isn't what you are looking for and you are struggling to kill the clock while she orders a big meal and lots of drinks. I personally am not looking for a "friend" but I am looking for a "FWB" with emphasis on the benefits.
Some guys just can't help themselves in making something simple so complicated. A girl knows within 30 sec of meeting you whether she'll go the distance or not. It doesn't take 3 dates, and it doesn't take a 7-course meal. She knows very quickly if it's a go or not. Why are guys so eager to waste their time and money is beyond me. If it takes her a month to bang, she simply doesn't like you that much. The girls that will rock your world are the ones that are attracted to you, not the ones going in hating every second of it and taking forever to coming around. It is literally that simple!
Love when they tell you up front they have GPS and should be avoided. Saves you so much time when they just say it.
They do not even realize they are telling the guys to avoid them, as they have a bad attitude.
This one is great she says she is not looking for low money meet ups LOL.
https://members.seeking.com/member/853fc25a-412b-42df-9e91-82092d153a73
Did you meet her?Yes I did. She gets at it.
I'm still trying to figure out some of the pro habits (short texts, instant pictures, etc). I'm interested but asking if anyone has experience with this one?
https://members.seeking.com/member/ff2c5452-22d8-47f5-884a-2700a63e4541
Some guys just can't help themselves in making something simple so complicated. A girl knows within 30 sec of meeting you whether she'll go the distance or not. It doesn't take 3 dates, and it doesn't take a 7-course meal. She knows very quickly if it's a go or not. Why are guys so eager to waste their time and money is beyond me. If it takes her a month to bang, she simply doesn't like you that much. The girls that will rock your world are the ones that are attracted to you, not the ones going in hating every second of it and taking forever to coming around. It is literally that simple!Yes, there are a lot of girls who will try to rinse you. It's not that difficult to weed those girls out prior to meeting them face to face. However, there are some girls that want to play it out like they are in a relationship so they feel better about themselves. Not all of these girls are seasoned pros who are just going to give it up on the first meeting. Some want some type of emotional connection before they sleep with you. Some of the best arrangements I have had was where we took some time to get to know each other first. You just have to be smart and use common sense. If you get the feeling she is rinsing you just move on. But I usually have a good sense of that prior to the first face to face meeting. Bottom line, if you want a quick lay, SA is not for you. There are plenty of free escort sites out there. No need to spend a 100 bucks a month. If you want something successful and long term, you need to put the time and effort in. You should get a good idea of who the person is and their motives prior to your first meeting.
She is no longer on SA.
Yes I did. She gets at it.
She is gone too.
I'm still trying to figure out some of the pro habits (short texts, instant pictures, etc). I'm interested but asking if anyone has experience with this one?
https://members.seeking.com/member/ff2c5452-22d8-47f5-884a-2700a63e4541
She is gone too.Eh, at least I got some pics sent to my fake number. She's cute whoever she is.
Had plans to met up with a girl in woburn and she flaked last minute. So in a moment of weakness I met up with Hot tamale.
https://members.seeking.com/member/6c22ddf2-8415-4c50-948f-96d40d35a127
She sent me some pics where her breasts looked full and she looked like a pretty bbw, which really isn; t my type.
Sent me pics of big full dds. And a pic in lingerie. Should have ran when I saw her place or gone to a massage parlor.
Saggy post baby booobs. At least 250 pounds. I couldn't get it up. No furniture in the living room and at least 50 empty dunkies cups.
She tried for like 10 minutes before I said its not going to happen. Doubt she is 21 either. Said her place costs her 2200 a month.
Flash Lidar
04-13-22, 19:00
https://members.seeking.com/member/588912c8-6262-4668-9e5b-46125f7ba367
Pic and video seller. I blocked her.
https://members.seeking.com/member/588912c8-6262-4668-9e5b-46125f7ba367
Pic and video seller. I blocked her.Her profile has all the signs of a content seller. Have to give her credit for being upfront about it.
Had plans to met up with a girl in woburn and she flaked last minute. So in a moment of weakness I met up with Hot tamale.
https://members.seeking.com/member/6c22ddf2-8415-4c50-948f-96d40d35a127
She sent me some pics where her breasts looked full and she looked like a pretty bbw, which really isn; t my type.
Sent me pics of big full dds. And a pic in lingerie. Should have ran when I saw her place or gone to a massage parlor.
Saggy post baby booobs. At least 250 pounds. I couldn't get it up. No furniture in the living room and at least 50 empty dunkies cups.
She tried for like 10 minutes before I said its not going to happen. Doubt she is 21 either. Said her place costs her 2200 a month.I've met mostly fat chicks on this site. The skinny ones seem like druggies.
My experience with girls that want a dinner meet and greet is a waste of time unless you don't mind only having a decent meal with a cute girl. I did a lunch and dinner date with 2 different girls and it went no where so now I only do coffee or cocktail meet and greets. I limit the time to less than an hour unless something spectacular happens. You can figure out their mo quickly and save some cash at the same time. Dinner can become uncomfortable if the girl isn't what you are looking for and you are struggling to kill the clock while she orders a big meal and lots of drinks. I personally am not looking for a "friend" but I am looking for a "FWB" with emphasis on the benefits.I don't think that dinner first dates are necessarily a "waste of time," but at the same time being 'stuck' sitting at dinner with someone I don't really like after 3 minutes is not my idea of a good time.
I also go with coffee or cocktail meet & greets. And I've had several GOOD sugar relationships start that way. The girls I like -- who are in it mostly for the money and sex -- have no problems with a short m&g like that. Once I know I like them and the feeling is mutual, then sure dinner can be nice even if there will be no sex afterwards (no -- no allowance for that but of course I pay for dinner). That's the goal; finding someone you like enough to have dinner with, but who also is happy to meet you for a couple of hours in a hotel room.
Anyone meet with this one? Was messaging with her and can't tell if she is real or has some other agenda.
https://members.seeking.com/member/6e3f38fc-16d0-4c91-ab45-34c46501cb8a
Anyone meet with this one? Was messaging with her and can't tell if she is real or has some other agenda.
https://members.seeking.com/member/6e3f38fc-16d0-4c91-ab45-34c46501cb8aI have been in contact with her also but haven't recognized any red flags. I opted to not pursue her for no particular reason, just busy. I would recommend a quick M&G and see what she is all about. My guess is she is a single mom who needs some help with expenses and may just want some adult companionship.
Intel on this one? https://members.seeking.com/member/876626eb-e1b1-4bf6-822f-873072e0b882.
Getting some pushiness, can't tell if just eager or a pro or what.
Edit: pic seller. Oh well
NewEngland
04-15-22, 12:44
https://members.seeking.com/member/bad76812-e91a-41dd-be76-a9774fdbe5f3
Meet up with her the other great breast pretty face love to play will ride you all day.
She does have kids and busy with a high powered job. But worth the time and the travel to ct.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/cb6c707a6e02f6f4
Met up with her today. Told her I was typically offering $200 she countered with 400 we agreed on 300 plus a hotel for the first time. She was very good at communicating and I had to cancel for the first date but rescheduled for the next day. She need money for her car payment so she was anxious to meet without any BS.
She sent me a pic and it was very hot but she has gained a little weight. She isn't heavy at all but I prefer slim slim. Her pics on the ad are very accurate. She was ok with BB but no CIP because she isn't on BC. Overall she is into it and brought her vibrator because she wants to get off so the pressure was off me. Very clean and fresh smell. She did mention that Incall may be available after she gets comfortable, depending on when as she has roommates. She seemed ok with me right away so as long as you aren't a freak she should be able to offer it. Overall a good time but she was not looking to hang out after, which works for me. Not a lot of small talk and we got right to it. Does not have a pro vibe at all but she mentioned she did this once before but it ended quickly due to scheduling issues??
I would see her again but would try to do 250. I think she needs cash and as long as it is a regular thing and no hassle she would probably be OK with it.
https://members.seeking.com/member/bad76812-e91a-41dd-be76-a9774fdbe5f3
Meet up with her the other great breast pretty face love to play will ride you all day.
She does have kids and busy with a high powered job. But worth the time and the travel to ct.With the understanding that "41 yo" on Seeking is close or often above 50 in real life.
NewEngland
04-15-22, 19:34
With the understanding that "41 yo" on Seeking is close or often above 50 in real life.No smart guy looked up her facebook plus young for her age and a lot better time than a 24 who is clueless.
Forgot to grab the link before I reported. Starts out reasonable then changes her story saying she needs 10 K for a student loan and all these excuses about her mom. Not worth the time. Avoid at all costs.
JClearMan1
04-19-22, 20:28
Anyone seen her below?
https://members.seeking.com/member/9c6fa9eb-d8f1-407a-a594-c99f12b3af07
Let me know. Thanks.What's the username? I'm getting "Profile not available".
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/cb6c707a6e02f6f4
Met up with her today. Told her I was typically offering $200 she countered with 400 we agreed on 300 plus a hotel for the first time. She was very good at communicating and I had to cancel for the first date but rescheduled for the next day. She need money for her car payment so she was anxious to meet without any BS.
She sent me a pic and it was very hot but she has gained a little weight. She isn't heavy at all but I prefer slim slim. Her pics on the ad are very accurate. She was ok with BB but no CIP because she isn't on BC. Overall she is into it and brought her vibrator because she wants to get off so the pressure was off me. Very clean and fresh smell. She did mention that Incall may be available after she gets comfortable, depending on when as she has roommates. She seemed ok with me right away so as long as you aren't a freak she should be able to offer it. Overall a good time but she was not looking to hang out after, which works for me. Not a lot of small talk and we got right to it. Does not have a pro vibe at all but she mentioned she did this once before but it ended quickly due to scheduling issues??
I would see her again but would try to do 250. I think she needs cash and as long as it is a regular thing and no hassle she would probably be OK with it.Jealous I can't see what these girls look like or how to reach them. Too cheap and lazy to join.
PinayLuver
04-20-22, 20:44
What's the username? I'm getting "Profile not available".I am wondering if it is possible to buy a premium account with a store bought card. I want to get on the site but would prefer to not use one of my CC.
Any advice would be appreciated.
GangumStyle
04-21-22, 02:10
So I am writing this to give hope to those of you whom have had no luck on Seeking. I was one of those people. But after a little getting use to the site, I finally found a girl in my area.
This was a homerun. 31 years old, athletic, great natural C cups and an ass for days. I had her dress up in yoga pants for first visit and she did not disappoint. Great looking pink leggings with thong underneath. She didn't ask for cover and I was a little skeptical, but I got the vibe that she only does this very discreet and rare. Of course I could be wrong.
I have been seeing her for past few months, $$ she is ok with video and toys etc. She is legit 8. She is single mom of 2, looking for extra cash. I hope it never ends. A true Unicorn.
Again, don't give up. Dreams come true!
Longjblues
04-21-22, 10:31
Exchanged messages with "CottonCandy" on SA, from Lynn area. She seemed grounded until she quoted her allowance requirements, $500.
So I am writing this to give hope to those of you whom have had no luck on Seeking. I was one of those people. But after a little getting use to the site, I finally found a girl in my area.
This was a homerun. 31 years old, athletic, great natural C cups and an ass for days. I had her dress up in yoga pants for first visit and she did not disappoint. Great looking pink leggings with thong underneath. She didn't ask for cover and I was a little skeptical, but I got the vibe that she only does this very discreet and rare. Of course I could be wrong.
I have been seeing her for past few months, $$ she is ok with video and toys etc. She is legit 8. She is single mom of 2, looking for extra cash. I hope it never ends. A true Unicorn.
Again, don't give up. Dreams come true!As many on here have stated, including myself, working SA takes time and patience to be successful. Unlike the escort sites, you typically are looking for a different type of lady therefore the extra time investment necessary. Congratulations for sticking with it and the score you found. I typically will keep a good SA find as long as it works for both parties as the investment in time can be exhausting depending on one's expectations.
So I am writing this to give hope to those of you whom have had no luck on Seeking. I was one of those people. But after a little getting use to the site, I finally found a girl in my area.
This was a homerun. 31 years old, athletic, great natural C cups and an ass for days. I had her dress up in yoga pants for first visit and she did not disappoint. Great looking pink leggings with thong underneath. She didn't ask for cover and I was a little skeptical, but I got the vibe that she only does this very discreet and rare. Of course I could be wrong.
I have been seeing her for past few months, $$ she is ok with video and toys etc. She is legit 8. She is single mom of 2, looking for extra cash. I hope it never ends. A true Unicorn.
Again, don't give up. Dreams come true!I would ask if you can share but I know the chance of guys sharing girls on this site is slim to none.
I would ask if you can share but I know the chance of guys sharing girls on this site is slim to none.Chances are not slim but none. As they should be. The OP ponied up the steep entry fee and put in countless hours to find his unicorn, good for him.
Chances are not slim but none. As they should be. The OP ponied up the steep entry fee and put in countless hours to find his unicorn, good for him.I know but even for regular escort from stg they are hiding them also. They keeping all the girls go themselves.
I know but even for regular escort from stg they are hiding them also. They keeping all the girls go themselves.This guy is coming here with seeking advice as if hes a pro with posts on his name. Come on. There are tons of woman on seeking. 30 to 50 new profiles a day of a woman joining. I've met tons of gems, tons of not so gems, crackheads, escorts etc. This dude coming here acting like he done something that I haven't done several times before is laughable. I mean we don't even know what she looks like. Remember woman who someone finds hot and attractive others may find ugly, I mean he might like fat chicks and she's a bbw. Who knows. My point is one persons opinion of what he thinks a gem is to another person is not. Do you know how many messages I get from guys offering me a UTR and its some cum dump on craigslist who replies every ad for years but to that person he got duped into believing they " never ever do this " so lets not get to excited over a single mom with 2 kids taking 200 bucks. Probably nothing special to us but to him he hit the lotter.
CandyMan555
04-21-22, 22:21
I am wondering if it is possible to buy a premium account with a store bought card. I want to get on the site but would prefer to not use one of my CC.
Any advice would be appreciated.Use vanilla gift card.
This guy is coming here with seeking advice as if hes a pro with posts on his name. Come on. There are tons of woman on seeking. 30 to 50 new profiles a day of a woman joining. I've met tons of gems, tons of not so gems, crackheads, escorts etc. This dude coming here acting like he done something that I haven't done several times before is laughable. I mean we don't even know what she looks like. Remember woman who someone finds hot and attractive others may find ugly, I mean he might like fat chicks and she's a bbw. Who knows. My point is one persons opinion of what he thinks a gem is to another person is not. Do you know how many messages I get from guys offering me a UTR and its some cum dump on craigslist who replies every ad for years but to that person he got duped into believing they " never ever do this " so lets not get to excited over a single mom with 2 kids taking 200 bucks. Probably nothing special to us but to him he hit the lotter.That sound amazing! Can you tell me what is your experience on seeking?
Partimer109
04-21-22, 23:43
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/cb6c707a6e02f6f4
Met up with her today. Told her I was typically offering $200 she countered with 400 we agreed on 300 plus a hotel for the first time. She was very good at communicating and I had to cancel for the first date but rescheduled for the next day. She need money for her car payment so she was anxious to meet without any BS.
She sent me a pic and it was very hot but she has gained a little weight. She isn't heavy at all but I prefer slim slim. Her pics on the ad are very accurate. She was ok with BB but no CIP because she isn't on BC. Overall she is into it and brought her vibrator because she wants to get off so the pressure was off me. Very clean and fresh smell. She did mention that Incall may be available after she gets comfortable, depending on when as she has roommates. She seemed ok with me right away so as long as you aren't a freak she should be able to offer it. Overall a good time but she was not looking to hang out after, which works for me. Not a lot of small talk and we got right to it. Does not have a pro vibe at all but she mentioned she did this once before but it ended quickly due to scheduling issues??
I would see her again but would try to do 250. I think she needs cash and as long as it is a regular thing and no hassle she would probably be OK with it.https://www.reddit.com/r/sugarlifestyleforum/comments/mmjsqw/secretbenefitscom_total_scam/
SalamanderFour
04-22-22, 06:28
https://www.reddit.com/r/sugarlifestyleforum/comments/mmjsqw/secretbenefitscom_total_scam/Thanks for the link to the review of the site. I agree, Sec Benef and Seek Arrang are designed to suck your wallet dry. Maybe after all the $ you get success, maybe not, but you're still out cash. Meeting a sugar baby shouldn't be rocket science, but oddly it's surprisingly hard.
Discretion23
04-22-22, 08:54
My regular SB was not available so I reached out to her a last week, and communication from her was pretty quick. In all fairness, I met her once pre-pandemic, so she was a little familiar with me (I did reviewher back then). We went right to texting and she was quick to meet. We discussed price and made an incall appointment that evening. She showed on time (female roommate dropped her off, some have said it is her mother). She is nice enough, doesn't act like a pro, but I believe she is a semi-pro. She is super skinny, like see ribs skinny with a couple of marks here and there, but was not acting weird.
Moved to bedroom, lfk on the bed, ask to straddle me, mor lfk, started removing clothes. She started with BBBJ, eventually moved to Mish and BBFS. She was complaining about my size and asked for lube. Lubed up and tried again. More complaints, we did not have this issue3 years ago. Anyway, finished with BBBJCIM. All for 250 and about hour of time.
Discretion23
04-22-22, 10:05
https://members.seeking.com/member/77b42b5a-d22b-4fae-9598-72e3e539b6a2
My regular SB was not available so I reached out to her a last week, and communication from her was pretty quick. In all fairness, I met her once pre-pandemic, so she was a little familiar with me (I did reviewher back then). We went right to texting and she was quick to meet. We discussed price and made an incall appointment that evening. She showed on time (female roommate dropped her off, some have said it is her mother). She is nice enough, doesn't act like a pro, but I believe she is a semi-pro. She is super skinny, like see ribs skinny with a couple of marks here and there, but was not acting weird.
Moved to bedroom, lfk on the bed, ask to straddle me, mor lfk, started removing clothes. She started with BBBJ, eventually moved to Mish and BBFS. She was complaining about my size and asked for lube. Lubed up and tried again. More complaints, we did not have this issue3 years ago. Anyway, finished with BBBJCIM. All for 250 and about hour of time.
As many on here have stated, including myself, working SA takes time and patience to be successful. Unlike the escort sites, you typically are looking for a different type of lady therefore the extra time investment necessary. Congratulations for sticking with it and the score you found. I typically will keep a good SA find as long as it works for both parties as the investment in time can be exhausting depending on one's expectations.Have never tried SB, does not take paid card, but on SA off and on for many years and it has work well for me. I'm not really interested on a quick bang, only on rare occasions, but rather find find one or two at a time where I can see weekly. The one I'm seeing now is off SA since Christmas, a hot separated MILF from NH / MA border in her mid 30's, everything is still going great, the best I have had so far, so I keep her to myself until then. Yes, investment in money and mostly time are required to be successful. Once you find the one, ride it until as far as you can, it's a lesson I learned in my 4 to 5 years on SA.
BostonJones
04-22-22, 11:01
https://members.seeking.com/member/77b42b5a-d22b-4fae-9598-72e3e539b6a2Glad you had success! She's left my message unread for over a week, I'm guessing she's filtering by age (I'm in my mid-50's and my profile states that) so for those that want to enjoy her company, be aware if you're an old f**k like me, you might get ignored.
PinayLuver
04-22-22, 11:01
Use vanilla gift card.Thank you for the info.
Chances are not slim but none. As they should be. The OP ponied up the steep entry fee and put in countless hours to find his unicorn, good for him.Also, if I told my SB I wanted to pimp her out to random guys on the internet I would never hear from her again.
https://members.seeking.com/member/77b42b5a-d22b-4fae-9598-72e3e539b6a2That's jade from Exeter NH. Mom pimp's her out. Both are hard core junkies. Pussy stinks. Let's dudes raw dog her. $250? LMAO.
https://www.reddit.com/r/sugarlifestyleforum/comments/mmjsqw/secretbenefitscom_total_scam/I have been able to pull a few girls from SB but have had better success with SA. I agree there are plenty of scammers or content sellers but one just needs to recognize the red flags for these and bail out as soon as they show. Also prepaying is just a absolute no go. Many continue to attempt faith but eventually they all learn. I gave up on the STG escorts types a long time ago in search of a different type of encounter and girl. Yeah it does cost more and requires more effort but I have not been disappointed with who I end up actually meeting up with. The majority of the girls are always multiple repeats or long term arrangements. This particular girl was great and typically I would not have shared the results until I had moved on but I am looking for a different body type. I'm not a begger so I can be choosy. LOL.
NewEngland
04-22-22, 14:22
https://members.seeking.com/member/f48ab3ac-9041-43f5-a670-3133b4607a3e
Anybody have 411 on this beauty please private inbox me.
https://members.seeking.com/member/754c1906-b724-47cb-9dbe-72158291461f
I met with this one a few times in Manchester during the Winter, a young gymnast type body to die for, clean, fun and like sex, dfk, BBBJ. Unfortunately did not allow bare nor anal, so I did not make it a long term arrangement for 400 each meet. If you can have her bare she's definitely fun. And worth it.
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Glad you had success! She's left my message unread for over a week, I'm guessing she's filtering by age (I'm in my mid-50's and my profile states that) so for those that want to enjoy her company, be aware if you're an old f**k like me, you might get ignored.Her mom created the profile. Her mom has control of the phone Mandy loves candy does not even touch her phone at all. And trust me her mother doesn't care who she fucks. Her mother just wants money to get drugs. So she probably got a lot of messages. But she's fucks 70 year old dudes. I know an 80 year old guy that used to f* her all the time.
ColoHobbyist
04-23-22, 00:29
I have been able to pull a few girls from SB but have had better success with SA. I agree there are plenty of scammers or content sellers but one just needs to recognize the red flags for these and bail out as soon as they show. Also prepaying is just a absolute no go. Many continue to attempt faith but eventually they all learn. I gave up on the STG escorts types a long time ago in search of a different type of encounter and girl. Yeah it does cost more and requires more effort but I have not been disappointed with who I end up actually meeting up with. The majority of the girls are always multiple repeats or long term arrangements. This particular girl was great and typically I would not have shared the results until I had moved on but I am looking for a different body type. I'm not a begger so I can be choosy. LOL.I've actually had better success on SB than SA, but that's a byproduct of location as much as anything. Some areas are better for one than the other. The other thing that can help on SB is that if you position yourself as a genuine SD, you'll be beating them off with sticks. LOL.
Thanks for the link to the review of the site. I agree, Sec Benef and Seek Arrang are designed to suck your wallet dry. Maybe after all the $ you get success, maybe not, but you're still out cash. Meeting a sugar baby shouldn't be rocket science, but oddly it's surprisingly hard.There's another guy in that forum who says he worked at SB and it's entirely a scam. I know for a fact SB is not just a site but is actually the same service for multiple sites, they just have different URLs. So if you go to sb.com and anothersite.com it's all the same profiles. The user in the forum confirmed they make fake profiles. My guess is 50% are fake, the other 50 come from all these various sites and no one checks them after making a profile. Bots can be expensive to run, but just cranking out fake pics and profile content is not.
SalamanderFour
04-24-22, 08:49
There's another guy in that forum who says he worked at SB and it's entirely a scam. I know for a fact SB is not just a site but is actually the same service for multiple sites, they just have different URLs. So if you go to sb.com and anothersite.com it's all the same profiles. The user in the forum confirmed they make fake profiles. My guess is 50% are fake, the other 50 come from all these various sites and no one checks them after making a profile. Bots can be expensive to run, but just cranking out fake pics and profile content is not.Chu, thanks for the info. Still looking for a reasonable alternative. The websites are just money grabs.
CandyMan555
04-24-22, 12:53
Chu, thanks for the info. Still looking for a reasonable alternative. The websites are just money grabs.You get tons of messages and it cist about $3. 00 to read each one and then the message from the woman I "Hi" that's it or Hello.
I stopped clicking on the messages and don't buy any points to pay for messages RIPPOFF!!
There's another guy in that forum who says he worked at SB and it's entirely a scam. I know for a fact SB is not just a site but is actually the same service for multiple sites, they just have different URLs. So if you go to sb.com and anothersite.com it's all the same profiles. The user in the forum confirmed they make fake profiles. My guess is 50% are fake, the other 50 come from all these various sites and no one checks them after making a profile. Bots can be expensive to run, but just cranking out fake pics and profile content is not.Couple years ago, I posted the same profile on SB that I had on SA at the time, same wording no difference. I had zero success on SB while SA was, and for me continues to be, very successful. As has been said here repeatedly, you have to be willing to put in the time and effort.
From the Terms of service on SB: "From time to time, we may create test accounts to test certain features of the site." I take that to mean SB creates fake profiles. They admit it in their Terms. Forget all the innuendo and argumentative opinion, this is a matter of fact.
You get tons of messages and it cist about $3. 00 to read each one and then the message from the woman I "Hi" that's it or Hello.
I stopped clicking on the messages and don't buy any points to pay for messages RIPPOFF!!I'm not sure it's a total scam, and it is of course a sponsor of this site as it comes up when one logs in. Many ads are fake, and I think some bots message, but I met a couple of "pros" and think a few others have at least been real. Overall, tough to navigate and a money drain, even if you only use credits to message, which is their only value. This latest round of $89 I have met no one and will not buy more credits. They also don't cancel you when asked.
Banjomania
04-25-22, 07:48
At this point both sites have plenty of fake profiles. Most of the unsolicited contacts I get on SA are women from someplace far away expressing how they loved my profile (which they haven't visited). SB seems to have plenty of bots to steer around but more local content. They definitely have become more comparable in terms of success rate. The trick with SB is not to message anyone, or open secret pictures, unless you are fairly confident that the profile is real. Otherwise, it can be a money drain. Most of the time you can discern the real from fake by reading the profile and looking for elements that no fake profile writer would have thought of.
I'm not sure it's a total scam, and it is of course a sponsor of this site as it comes up when one logs in. Many ads are fake, and I think some bots message, but I met a couple of "pros" and think a few others have at least been real. Overall, tough to navigate and a money drain, even if you only use credits to message, which is their only value. This latest round of $89 I have met no one and will not buy more credits. They also don't cancel you when asked.
I have had success on SB but there is a very low legitimate response rate and the site engages in shady practices.
I created a fake female profile to see the competition LOL and the site would randomly send messages. Once I realized this I deleted the acct.
I am also almost certain the site creates fake profiles from stolen social media.
In addition to being fraudulent and shady, the system limits you on how many messages you can send and there are all kinds of gimmicks to waste your money.
SA allows you to send as many messages as possible in a 30 day period. I usually send out 200 in that time period and have about 20 phone numbers. On SB, I am lucky to get five for the same amount of money.
I On Da Street
04-25-22, 12:30
At this point both sites have plenty of fake profiles. Most of the unsolicited contacts I get on SA are women from someplace far away expressing how they loved my profile (which they haven't visited). SB seems to have plenty of bots to steer around but more local content. They definitely have become more comparable in terms of success rate. The trick with SB is not to message anyone, or open secret pictures, unless you are fairly confident that the profile is real. Otherwise, it can be a money drain. Most of the time you can discern the real from fake by reading the profile and looking for elements that no fake profile writer would have thought of.In some fairness, there is an option to disable to show when you visit a profile, along with other levels of activity.
I'm not sure it's a total scam, and it is of course a sponsor of this site as it comes up when one logs in. Many ads are fake, and I think some bots message, but I met a couple of "pros" and think a few others have at least been real. Overall, tough to navigate and a money drain, even if you only use credits to message, which is their only value. This latest round of $89 I have met no one and will not buy more credits. They also don't cancel you when asked.https://www.reddit.com/r/sugarlifestyleforum/comments/n2mf23/beware_secret_benefits_from_employee/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
This was posted a while ago on them.
Hobbyist420
04-29-22, 17:40
At this point both sites have plenty of fake profiles.Yep, although SA's fake profile problem isn't as nefarious because it's just the website's admin not QCing accounts good enough to get out the scammers. Its gotten somewhat better, but at least its not SB where the site is obviously juicing conts of women with pics stolen from social media or old dormant profiles from SA and using that as evidence tha they have pussy stock, where they don't. I'd stay away from SB IMO.
Made contact with her but she told me she thought she would make a costly SB. So being curious I engaged her to find out what that means. I never got an amount from her but we exchanged a few messages trying to figure out what she wanted. She states the benefit would need to outweigh the cost? Then she put a knife in it and said no matter the arrangement, it is sex work something she told herself she would never do. I assumed we were done with the conversation at that point but asked her again anyway, still waiting for an answer. Not sure if anyone has had better luck but I guess I can cross her off my list.
Can't figure out what she is actually looking for. She is real but didn't try to sell any content, ask for a prepayment and money never came up. The search continues.
https://members.seeking.com/member/98104e3c-2a33-4da5-bbde-d4484b50ac5a
https://members.seeking.com/member/e6995354-e996-4d16-9ad9-2079b1a531dd
Apparently a lesbian. Full blown GPS. Says someone bought her her car so she's worth thousands. Since a lesbian won't do intimacy due to "microtraumas". I can't tell if she's serious or mentally ill. If one of you were the one to buy her the car, I'd like to offer you an opportunity to invest that you can't resist! LOL.
https://members.seeking.com/member/e6995354-e996-4d16-9ad9-2079b1a531dd
Apparently a lesbian. Full blown GPS. Says someone bought her her car so she's worth thousands. Since a lesbian won't do intimacy due to "microtraumas". I can't tell if she's serious or mentally ill. If one of you were the one to buy her the car, I'd like to offer you an opportunity to invest that you can't resist! LOL.
Reminds me of this POT who once who told me she got 50 k from her last SD in the past year but drove up in a rust bucket worth maybe 1 k. Sure sweetie.
My rule of thumb is if you can't independently verify something, it never happened. These girls lie as if it's their job.
That's jade from Exeter NH. Mom pimp's her out. Both are hard core junkies. Pussy stinks. Let's dudes raw dog her. $250? LMAO.Has anyone plowed her mom? Just wondering even if there both less than attractive that mom daughter thing is hot as hell.
DarkClouds
05-03-22, 14:29
Something is going on. Is always up late at night. Seems to have lost a lot of weight if you compare with her older pic (with a tree in the background). Has anyone actually met her?
https://members.seeking.com/member/e6995354-e996-4d16-9ad9-2079b1a531dd
Apparently a lesbian. Full blown GPS. Says someone bought her her car so she's worth thousands. Since a lesbian won't do intimacy due to "microtraumas". I can't tell if she's serious or mentally ill. If one of you were the one to buy her the car, I'd like to offer you an opportunity to invest that you can't resist! LOL.
Something is going on. Is always up late at night. Seems to have lost a lot of weight if you compare with her older pic (with a tree in the background). Has anyone actually met her?I'm just assuming it's another scam and don't put any effort into it tho I keep texting. Every second I can waste of their time is less time for them to try to exploit our slower brothers here.
DarkClouds
05-04-22, 21:34
Nah, she's real. I've had some meaningful discussions with her.
I'm just assuming it's another scam and don't put any effort into it tho I keep texting. Every second I can waste of their time is less time for them to try to exploit our slower brothers here.
Has anyone plowed her mom? Just wondering even if there both less than attractive that mom daughter thing is hot as hell.Not going to lie man, felt gross after just the daughter. I don't even want to dare think about the mom.
Not going to lie man, felt gross after just the daughter. I don't even want to dare think about the mom.I haven't been back and there no other options up here it's pretty sad.
I haven't been back and there no other options up here it's pretty sad.Yeah I'm a NH based fella too, but I end up traveling to Boston, Worcester, RI and Portland. If you find something consistently avail for NH I'd be curious too but no thanks to that one. Was excited for local too but too far gone for my taste.
NewEngland
05-06-22, 14:03
Hi anyone have the scoop on this 1.
https://members.seeking.com/member/eed2468a-58c9-4a40-9d06-7aed8b474f91
In some fairness, there is an option to disable to show when you visit a profile, along with other levels of activity.https://www.reddit.com/r/sugarlifestyleforum/comments/mmjsqw/secretbenefitscom_total_scam/
https://www.reddit.com/r/sugarlifestyleforum/comments/u1odb2/experiences_with_secret_benefits_utter_trash_and/
MovieDude39
05-08-22, 09:50
Hello,
Anyone see this girl. I have been talking to her and she wanted $750.
Nah, she's real. I've had some meaningful discussions with her.Thats what I'm saying. It's discussions. Have you met her yet?
DrinIvisible
05-08-22, 21:06
Hello,
Anyone see this girl. I have been talking to her and she wanted $750.I talked to her too, looks very consistent in her asking. No anal and protection was a must! Solid pass!
BostonJones
05-09-22, 10:43
Hello,
Anyone see this girl. I have been talking to her and she wanted $750.Quoted me the same, also 250 for non-intimate. Will do bare oral but everything else covered.
https://members.seeking.com/member/9b7030eb-15e1-466b-90b3-e82334c96a08
KcirtaPanner2
05-09-22, 13:37
Well, here's a new one LOL. I've been talking to this really cute chick, 21, not super friendly through messaging but very quick to agree to hook up for a reasonable price. I initially asked if she could host, as I usually do, and she not surprisingly says no. Lives in a tony suburb with her family. She agrees to a hotel date. I mentioned Mondays being good for me, so she hits me up today, asks if I'm free all day, I say yes. She says cool, if my parents leave later tonight do you want to stop by? Now, I'm in my mid 30's, but I look much younger, so I can *almost* see how she would think this might not be a terrible idea. Of course I have no intention of taking her up on this offer, so I say are you sure that's a good idea? "Oh yeah don't worry they go into the city for 4 or 5 hours." Okay.
If you think that's bad, just wait. I say, would you be able to come to me in (name of city) like we talked about? She says, and I quote:
"I won't be able to because I also have to babysit the little ones."
WTF. She's going to have a grown man, total stranger, come over while her parents are out and the siblings (I was afraid to even ask how old) are there, and pay her money to bang her? Am I wrong or is that not insane? I understand she's almost certainly done this with boyfriends / guys her age before but this is a tad different, no? Maybe I'm naive but I was floored. Anyway thought you guys might get a kick out of that one. And no I will not be sharing her info, I honestly fear for this girl and her family's safety already without putting it out there publicly that she's willing to do this LOL.
MinorLeague
05-09-22, 16:04
Well, here's a new one LOL.Sounds kind of fishy. Did you run Intelius on her number / info, find any social media belonging to her? Better safe than sorry in my book.
Well, here's a new one LOL. I've been talking to this really cute chick, 21, not super friendly through messaging but very quick to agree to hook up for a reasonable price. I initially asked if she could host, as I usually do, and she not surprisingly says no. Lives in a tony suburb with her family. She agrees to a hotel date. I mentioned Mondays being good for me, so she hits me up today, asks if I'm free all day, I say yes. She says cool, if my parents leave later tonight do you want to stop by? Now, I'm in my mid 30's, but I look much younger, so I can *almost* see how she would think this might not be a terrible idea. Of course I have no intention of taking her up on this offer, so I say are you sure that's a good idea? "Oh yeah don't worry they go into the city for 4 or 5 hours." Okay.
If you think that's bad, just wait. I say, would you be able to come to me in (name of city) like we talked about? She says, and I quote:
"I won't be able to because I also have to babysit the little ones."
WTF. She's going to have a grown man, total stranger, come over while her parents are out and the siblings (I was afraid to even ask how old) are there, and pay her money to bang her? Am I wrong or is that not insane? I understand she's almost certainly done this with boyfriends / guys her age before but this is a tad different, no? Maybe I'm naive but I was floored. Anyway thought you guys might get a kick out of that one. And no I will not be sharing her info, I honestly fear for this girl and her family's safety already without putting it out there publicly that she's willing to do this LOL.You should share her info because it seem to me she won't go to you. So she want you to go to her instead meaning she might set you up and robbed you. So if I was you. I would try to see her in a different day and see if she won't come to you still. If she won't come to you at all, then she's definitely up to no good.
KcirtaPanner2
05-10-22, 05:38
You should share her info because it seem to me she won't go to you. So she want you to go to her instead meaning she might set you up and robbed you. So if I was you. I would try to see her in a different day and see if she won't come to you still. If she won't come to you at all, then she's definitely up to no good.She is still totally willing to come to me, I think she just figured since I had asked about her hosting she would present the idea to me. And she is real, I have my own ways of verifying it and I feel like I'm pretty good at sniffing out fakes / scammers anyway, I'm not new to this LOL.
https://members.seeking.com/member/566ebedd-933e-41a0-a2b5-32122c65c4da
Met with this one recently, a divorce mom of two, works at night for government subcontract, Does not host, meeting took place in my hotel room early afternoon. Was attracted by the profile picture but looks chubbier in person, not fat or bbw, overall a decent personality, good, bare, loud and sloppy at sex. Gave her 300, don't know if I would repeat, met her only because my regular isn't available right now.
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Used this code in April when you posted. Thinking about renewing and its still active.Curious, if you are banned. Can you use the same credit card?
Potholes774
05-12-22, 22:11
Curious, if you are banned. Can you use the same credit card?I heard the site goes by your IP address. They block anything that has to do with that IP. Just download a vpn to change your IP and use a different card. You should be good to go.
This one is basically a fat pig girl. She met me for lunch one day and we never discussed donations or any sort of compensation. After lunch we sat in the car near where we met and got into dirty talk. She pulled out a fat boob and soon we were making out like high school kids. The BJ was decent, and that was about all we had time for. A few days later we discussed a longer meeting and neither one of us could host. I told her I could get a room and meet after work. She then said, it will be 600 dollars. I knew what she meant but acted stupid and said, I will take care of the room and it would be around 150.
She got all insulted, thinking I was offering her 150. Since we had not discussed any donation, I said well, I usually do 600 for a 3-4 hour meeting with dinner and drinks and she insisted we had at some time before agreed to 600 per hour. LOL, not in your wildest dreams would I agree to that, maybe you are confusing me with someone else you talked to. It ended with me saying I had lost my desire to meet her again. She was ugly and acted like an angry ex wife and then I blocked her number. The end.
Quoted me the same, also 250 for non-intimate. Will do bare oral but everything else covered.
https://members.seeking.com/member/9b7030eb-15e1-466b-90b3-e82334c96a08Totally my type (casual sex-positive and a grad degree) but 750 is 33-50% too much. Covered for intercourse isn't a problem for a first date as a decent percentage of people are walking around with asymptomatic chlamydia anyway.
https://members.seeking.com/member/04fa9a26-df9f-44ae-bd4b-f93569c09a0d
Here is a nice athletic mixed beauty I sampled not long ago. A young student who travel often between Keene and the Sea Coast and hard to get in touch with, I met her days after an initial meet and greet at a hotel in Manchester area, a nice shaved, clean and athletic body is nice to play with, on the shy side at first but very open to pretty much everything. My only regret was she felt the need to go in the bathroom and count the allowance (500) I put in a envelop for her after our playtime, she knew what we agreed on. Just a mood killer after a great session.
https://members.seeking.com/member/04fa9a26-df9f-44ae-bd4b-f93569c09a0d
Here is a nice athletic mixed beauty I sampled not long ago. A young student who travel often between Keene and the Sea Coast and hard to get in touch with, I met her days after an initial meet and greet at a hotel in Manchester area, a nice shaved, clean and athletic body is nice to play with, on the shy side at first but very open to pretty much everything. My only regret was she felt the need to go in the bathroom and count the allowance (500) I put in a envelop for her after our playtime, she knew what we agreed on. Just a mood killer after a great session.Why would that offend you? She doesn't know you from shit and she's supposed to trust that you didn't screw her over in the agreed money. I mean I count my money at the bank, store, casino after I get it from a cashier to make sure I'm not getting screwed. Sorry but come on.
Why would that offend you? She doesn't know you from shit and she's supposed to trust that you didn't screw her over in the agreed money. I mean I count my money at the bank, store, casino after I get it from a cashier to make sure I'm not getting screwed. Sorry but come on.No, she did not offended me at all, she just killed my mood to see her again and make it a regular thing like I offend do. BTW, the three times I saw, the three times she did it. Mood is everything to me, I'm not on sa to bang as many girls I can, I have passed on some hot ones over the years.
Scam artist. Robbed me a couple years ago when she had a live profile. Proceed with extreme caution.
ARegularGuy
05-18-22, 18:09
Found her on SA, Boston area. I'd post the link but I don't want to give it exposure, the profile will probably get changed fairly quickly and then other guys will get scammed too. She hosts, she bargains, quick to reply, easy to set a date, insists on Amex gift card. Complete waste of time. She / he uses 347 and 202 area codes.
DarkClouds
05-18-22, 21:03
If you see profile that's less than a few weeks old, Skip.
Found her on SA, Boston area. I'd post the link but I don't want to give it exposure, the profile will probably get changed fairly quickly and then other guys will get scammed too. She hosts, she bargains, quick to reply, easy to set a date, insists on Amex gift card. Complete waste of time. She / he uses 347 and 202 area codes.
DarkClouds
05-18-22, 21:07
But they only have to be scammed once to become jaded skeptics.
https://members.seeking.com/member/04fa9a26-df9f-44ae-bd4b-f93569c09a0d
Here is a nice athletic mixed beauty I sampled not long ago. A young student who travel often between Keene and the Sea Coast and hard to get in touch with, I met her days after an initial meet and greet at a hotel in Manchester area, a nice shaved, clean and athletic body is nice to play with, on the shy side at first but very open to pretty much everything. My only regret was she felt the need to go in the bathroom and count the allowance (500) I put in a envelop for her after our playtime, she knew what we agreed on. Just a mood killer after a great session.
DarkClouds
05-18-22, 21:13
Bad attitude. Wanted the gift upfront and I refused. After I left she blocked me and changed her profile display name.
I have been in contact with this woman. Has anyone seen her before?
https://www.seeking.com/member/5a686e94-49d7-4bb3-bfce-5c9111ae50d2
Anyone have any info on any Indian sbs. Pm me. I can trade some info on some white beauties.
I heard the site goes by your IP address. They block anything that has to do with that IP. Just download a vpn to change your IP and use a different card. You should be good to go.Are VPNs free and which one do you recomend?
RandomFragment
05-20-22, 11:47
Many of the decent ones are still suspicious bordering on paranoid that they're going to be taken, just like we should be. It does take some of the allure out of it, but also reminds you what it is.
Why would that offend you? She doesn't know you from shit and she's supposed to trust that you didn't screw her over in the agreed money. I mean I count my money at the bank, store, casino after I get it from a cashier to make sure I'm not getting screwed. Sorry but come on.
KingOfFours
05-20-22, 13:17
I just wanted to give you Boston mongers a heads up about her--she now has ability (sometimes!) to host closer to Boston, near Attleboro, but still can host (sometimes!) in Rhode Island. I just inseminated her again a few days ago. Probably about the 12th load I've left in her 3 holes, over the years. She's still the same world-class cumslut! The previous depraved pictures (without the face) that I posted of her can be found by putting Stephie or Stephieg69 into the appropraite forum's search engines.
https://members.seeking.com/member/25d06c95-e54c-4c12-9f6e-b36115725189
Alright fellas, I have this lady on the line https://members.seeking.com/member/a9a7bbb6-398c-4bf7-bde5-aa29767bdffc She checks my boxes and seems cool almost too too to be true. I've searched and I can't find anything on her. Who's linked her? Any intel?
Alright fellas, I have this lady on the line https://members.seeking.com/member/a9a7bbb6-398c-4bf7-bde5-aa29767bdffc She checks my boxes and seems cool almost too too to be true. I've searched and I can't find anything on her. Who's linked her? Any intel?No intel other than some nice nudes she sent. Have M&G scheduled for Tuesday.
Alright fellas, I have this lady on the line https://members.seeking.com/member/a9a7bbb6-398c-4bf7-bde5-aa29767bdffc She checks my boxes and seems cool almost too too to be true. I've searched and I can't find anything on her. Who's linked her? Any intel?She's a newer more sophisticated scammer. Invests a little time before she asks you to venmo a cute poor girl. She sent me 5 topless pics and pussy pic and ass pic without me paying or asking for nudes, I just asked to see her figure. Agreed to my price, etc, then next morning asks for money when I had her confirm that she read my profile that says I don; t' buy videos or pics or send money to people beffore I meet them. This was her last message.
Don't like being told no and I litterly got 100 people trying to message me at once I've done like 50 videochats and everyrhing just getting old frfr.
I have a new theory that all these accounts with two adjectives are a new breed of fakes. I am going to stop wasting time with new accounts.
Also this girl worked basically the same scam two hours before we were going to meet.
https://members.seeking.com/member/1c07c34f-83bb-4c39-a955-65a09cea0b8e
This one also said she lived 8 miles from me wanted 20 bucks for gas before we met.
https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/316c344c-53e1-4427-b8b9-64e8ee920d57
RandomFragment
05-21-22, 12:25
Not sure if it's true, but yeah I think it's just better to avoid new accounts altogether.
She's a newer more sophisticated scammer. Invests a little time before she asks you to venmo a cute poor girl. She sent me 5 topless pics and pussy pic and ass pic without me paying or asking for nudes, I just asked to see her figure. Agreed to my price, etc, then next morning asks for money when I had her confirm that she read my profile that says I don; t' buy videos or pics or send money to people beffore I meet them. This was her last message.
Don't like being told no and I litterly got 100 people trying to message me at once I've done like 50 videochats and everyrhing just getting old frfr.
I have a new theory that all these accounts with two adjectives are a new breed of fakes. I am going to stop wasting time with new accounts.
Also this girl worked basically the same scam two hours before we were going to meet.
https://members.seeking.com/member/1c07c34f-83bb-4c39-a955-65a09cea0b8e
This one also said she lived 8 miles from me wanted 20 bucks for gas before we met.
https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/316c344c-53e1-4427-b8b9-64e8ee920d57
I have a new theory that all these accounts with two adjectives are a new breed of fakes. I am going to stop wasting time with new accounts.I've met a few with that pattern of username. They were real. So not sure if SA is now suggesting random usernames or something but I don't think that's a foolproof method.
I do agree the number of fakes or girls who want you to send them money before you even meet is on the rise. Unfortunately there seem to be enough dumbasses to make this worth their while. I just restate I don't do that and move on.
This one also said she lived 8 miles from me wanted 20 bucks for gas before we met.
https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/316c344c-53e1-4427-b8b9-64e8ee920d57FYI this is a link to your convo so doesn't work for us.
Also this girl worked basically the same scam two hours before we were going to meet.
https://members.seeking.com/member/1c07c34f-83bb-4c39-a955-65a09cea0b8e
This profile only has one picture, no verifications checked off, and no actual content in the About Me section. Don't waste your time with any profiles like this.
I've met a few with that pattern of username. They were real. So not sure if SA is now suggesting random usernames or something but I don't think that's a foolproof method.
I do agree the number of fakes or girls who want you to send them money before you even meet is on the rise. Unfortunately there seem to be enough dumbasses to make this worth their while. I just restate I don't do that and move on.
FYI this is a link to your convo so doesn't work for us.Seeking lets the girl or anyone have the system generate a username. It’s usually adjective + noun like CuteGirl or SecretProvocateur or some lame name. My user name is actually one of the defaults right now but I liked it so I kept it LOL.
I agree with a lot of other reports. The scam factor is high, there's a lot of only fans and content sellers invading the platform right now. Would be nice to have a better way to get them banned. I had a girl from CT who seemed legit and we talked a couple times. But the day we planned to meet she texted and said she had to cancel but would I like some pics to tide me over? I said I guess so. So she sent one. And then a menu of pics and videos plus prices and a link to her OF site. It's actually pretty crazy I have her FB and IG plus I know where she works and lives. And she's got a porn site? Wonder if her fellow employees at the car dealership know about this. Whatever. I reported her and sent evidence and yet she's still on there (verified using a backup account).
In the meantime I've seen a few of these ones too:
https://members.seeking.com/member/e2ae0d1e-c5f4-4481-85ec-f3459e7f3ea0
"I am very platonic, if you are expecting physical activity do not message me. Also expect to pay for my time. ".
It's a lot of work to find real ones these days who are ready to have some fun. But they are out there.
KcirtaPanner2
05-22-22, 14:33
I've been on SA for 3 months now and I have to say, I can't believe I didn't do this earlier. I've been hobbying for over about a decade and I've been coming here even longer, for some reason I never even paid attention to this thread or SA, I just figured it was another escort site. In 3 months I've been with at least 5 different girls, and only one was a pro. All good to great experiences. One or two who will probably be regulars. I've been scammed a few times and learned my lessons, but I can't imagine every going back to the ad sites at this point. Like has been said you got to put in the time and effort, and you're going to pay for quality, but I guess I'm just saying I give SA my whole hearted endorsement LOL.
I've been on SA for 3 months now and I have to say, I can't believe I didn't do this earlier. I've been hobbying for over about a decade and I've been coming here even longer, for some reason I never even paid attention to this thread or SA, I just figured it was another escort site. In 3 months I've been with at least 5 different girls, and only one was a pro. All good to great experiences. One or two who will probably be regulars. I've been scammed a few times and learned my lessons, but I can't imagine every going back to the ad sites at this point. Like has been said you got to put in the time and effort, and you're going to pay for quality, but I guess I'm just saying I give SA my whole hearted endorsement LOL.I've said this before. And I agree 100 %. I would never meet anyone from escort sites or skipthegames or any of these crackheads who post when for a couple bucks more you can for quality of attractive college woman or single moms, drug free and totally UTR. I mean I know guys here don't want to spend the 100 a month and then blow up my inbox begging for seeking numbers. But 100 bucks get you unlimited messaging for 30 days. I got about 50 numbers and snaps in that time and here I am now 3 months later from when my membership expired I still can't get to everyone.
RandomFragment
05-22-22, 16:10
Anyone have any experience with or has seen her?
https://members.seeking.com/member/89bbfebd-33c8-4e58-b3ae-874c18f12111
KcirtaPanner2
05-22-22, 17:28
Anyone have any experience with or has seen her?
https://members.seeking.com/member/89bbfebd-33c8-4e58-b3ae-874c18f12111I believe she quoted me something absurd like 800. Wouldn't budge either.
BruinsFan90
05-23-22, 00:18
Hey gents long time lurker here. Saw this one Sharmila and want to see her. I think she took it down her seeking profile, or I would post pics. Anyone meet up with her? Was planning on trying to see her this upcoming weekend.
Hey gents long time lurker here. Saw this one Sharmila and want to see her. I think she took it down her seeking profile, or I would post pics. Anyone meet up with her? Was planning on trying to see her this upcoming weekend.Spoke to her 4-5 months ago and sounded like she was down for everything (uncovered) at $400. Couldn't host. Located near the airport as I recall. Some elements of her story sounded weird and did not make a lot of sense. But she was pretty hot with a British accent.
We texted for a while then she went quiet so I have no idea if she's real. Good luck though!
BruinsFan90
05-23-22, 12:44
Spoke to her 4-5 months ago and sounded like she was down for everything (uncovered) at $400. Couldn't host. Located near the airport as I recall. Some elements of her story sounded weird and did not make a lot of sense. But she was pretty hot with a British accent.
We texted for a while then she went quiet so I have no idea if she's real. Good luck though!Yeah she is pretty hot and didn't say no to uncovered. She did say $400 So wish me luck!
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