Seeking Arrangements

[BleedGreen88]

I'm early 30's, good looking, make a good salary. This girl, 22, a senior in college, messages me first. We chat a little, I get her number, talk on the phone for 20 minutes, and we wound up grabbing lunch and some drinks today, purely as an initial meet and greet. Get over the fact that she has a 22 year old female brain and we vibe well. She tells me I'm cute and look like I'm 26, etc. She then asks me stuff about past SBs and then she talks about how she's only been in 2 relationships (all SD) and that they would just give her a few hundred bucks here and there when she needed a new outfit, phone, etc. Can't figure out if she wants a more vanilla relationship with me periodically throwing her some dollars, or she's trying to work me into a platonic relationship. Sense I got was that she was against PPM. We went to a decent lunch spot in the north end where she got a drink and a pasta, figure she's not milking me for some mediocre pappardelle. Guess I'll see how deep the rabbit hole goes and the next date turns out.

Got another meet and greet tomorrow with a college senior LOL.

[PaulRew]

I'm early 30's, good looking, make a good salary. This girl, 22, a senior in college, messages me first. We chat a little, I get her number, talk on the phone for 20 minutes, and we wound up grabbing lunch and some drinks today, purely as an initial meet and greet. Get over the fact that she has a 22 year old female brain and we vibe well. She tells me I'm cute and look like I'm 26, etc. She then asks me stuff about past SBs and then she talks about how she's only been in 2 relationships (all SD) and that they would just give her a few hundred bucks here and there when she needed a new outfit, phone, etc. Can't figure out if she wants a more vanilla relationship with me periodically throwing her some dollars, or she's trying to work me into a platonic relationship. Sense I got was that she was against PPM. We went to a decent lunch spot in the north end where she got a drink and a pasta, figure she's not milking me for some mediocre pappardelle. Guess I'll see how deep the rabbit hole goes and the next date turns out.

Got another meet and greet tomorrow with a college senior LOL.The next date should be at her place, your place or a hotel. If she needs more M / G's you are being played for the free lunch / dinner scam.

[Member #6450]

I'm early 30's, good looking, make a good salary. This girl, 22, a senior in college, messages me first. We chat a little, I get her number, talk on the phone for 20 minutes, and we wound up grabbing lunch and some drinks today, purely as an initial meet and greet. Get over the fact that she has a 22 year old female brain and we vibe well. She tells me I'm cute and look like I'm 26, etc. She then asks me stuff about past SBs and then she talks about how she's only been in 2 relationships (all SD) and that they would just give her a few hundred bucks here and there when she needed a new outfit, phone, etc. Can't figure out if she wants a more vanilla relationship with me periodically throwing her some dollars, or she's trying to work me into a platonic relationship. Sense I got was that she was against PPM. We went to a decent lunch spot in the north end where she got a drink and a pasta, figure she's not milking me for some mediocre pappardelle. Guess I'll see how deep the rabbit hole goes and the next date turns out.

Got another meet and greet tomorrow with a college senior LOL.I don't about that but I have heard of SB's being on those other regular dating apps. Sounds like you might have something good going. Enjoy.

[Joe1223]

I'm early 30's, good looking, make a good salary. This girl, 22, a senior in college, messages me first. We chat a little, I get her number, talk on the phone for 20 minutes, and we wound up grabbing lunch and some drinks today, purely as an initial meet and greet. Get over the fact that she has a 22 year old female brain and we vibe well. She tells me I'm cute and look like I'm 26, etc. She then asks me stuff about past SBs and then she talks about how she's only been in 2 relationships (all SD) and that they would just give her a few hundred bucks here and there when she needed a new outfit, phone, etc. Can't figure out if she wants a more vanilla relationship with me periodically throwing her some dollars, or she's trying to work me into a platonic relationship. Sense I got was that she was against PPM. We went to a decent lunch spot in the north end where she got a drink and a pasta, figure she's not milking me for some mediocre pappardelle. Guess I'll see how deep the rabbit hole goes and the next date turns out.

Got another meet and greet tomorrow with a college senior LOL.I usually use the M&G to talk the details out. Tell her what you are looking for and ask her out right is she ok with meeting you to fuck regularly, with a little tack ofc. Don't waste your time beating around the Bush and havIng multiple M&G. You are both adults and she needs to know what you want otherwise you will just get frustrated. I actually try to let the girls know what I am looking for even before the M&G, using the meet just to do a physical look over and eliminate some of the creep factor. The follow up meeting is usually at a hotel to get the party started with having the details of donation already worked out. Good luck with your next visit.

[Gianni Versace]

I'm early 30's, good looking, make a good salary. This girl, 22, a senior in college, messages me first. We chat a little, I get her number, talk on the phone for 20 minutes, and we wound up grabbing lunch and some drinks today, purely as an initial meet and greet. Get over the fact that she has a 22 year old female brain and we vibe well. She tells me I'm cute and look like I'm 26, etc. She then asks me stuff about past SBs and then she talks about how she's only been in 2 relationships (all SD) and that they would just give her a few hundred bucks here and there when she needed a new outfit, phone, etc. Can't figure out if she wants a more vanilla relationship with me periodically throwing her some dollars, or she's trying to work me into a platonic relationship. Sense I got was that she was against PPM. We went to a decent lunch spot in the north end where she got a drink and a pasta, figure she's not milking me for some mediocre pappardelle. Guess I'll see how deep the rabbit hole goes and the next date turns out.

Got another meet and greet tomorrow with a college senior LOL.Sounds like fun man. Keep in mind if you met on the SA site it is important in my opinion to transition to the term Friends instead of using the term SB. Sounds to me because of the age difference between the 2 of you she is just looking for a guy to go out and have fun with that will pay for stuff when you are out wit her because lets be real here how many guys her age will pay for things? Prob not much. Go out and have fun with her. Take her back to your place and reap the free ass. =).

[Ymch520]

I'm early 30's, good looking, make a good salary. This girl, 22, a senior in college, messages me first. We chat a little, I get her number, talk on the phone for 20 minutes, and we wound up grabbing lunch and some drinks today, purely as an initial meet and greet. Get over the fact that she has a 22 year old female brain and we vibe well. She tells me I'm cute and look like I'm 26, etc. She then asks me stuff about past SBs and then she talks about how she's only been in 2 relationships (all SD) and that they would just give her a few hundred bucks here and there when she needed a new outfit, phone, etc. Can't figure out if she wants a more vanilla relationship with me periodically throwing her some dollars, or she's trying to work me into a platonic relationship. Sense I got was that she was against PPM. We went to a decent lunch spot in the north end where she got a drink and a pasta, figure she's not milking me for some mediocre pappardelle. Guess I'll see how deep the rabbit hole goes and the next date turns out.

Got another meet and greet tomorrow with a college senior LOL.Give me some tip bro. LOL.

Enjoy. Have a fun.

[CandyMan555]

"Too long to post here"? _Here_ is the right place to post a long scammer story, so we can all benefit from your experience.Any info would be appreciated I am supposed to meet her next week.

Thanks CM.

[CandyMan555]

"Too long to post here"? _Here_ is the right place to post a long scammer story, so we can all benefit from your experience.Any info would be appreciated Thanks CM.

[CandyMan555]

https://members.seeking.com/member/b63ab7ee-c0cd-4bc1-a671-ebc819c4a136

She says she is from Lynn.

[TheList00]

https://members.seeking.com/member/b63ab7ee-c0cd-4bc1-a671-ebc819c4a136

She says she is from Lynn.We talked for a but, easy to find her facebook but lynn is such a shithole city I didn't pursue.

[CandyMan555]

We are supposed to meet next week and would like to know I'd anyone has info.

https://members.seeking.com/member/49651342-a882-4477-8e56-aa2fee459d56

Thanks CM.

[Melo Yello]

Check back about 5 post.


We are supposed to meet next week and would like to know I'd anyone has info.

https://members.seeking.com/member/49651342-a882-4477-8e56-aa2fee459d56

Thanks CM.

[CandyMan555]

"Too long to post here"? _Here_ is the right place to post a long scammer story, so we can all benefit from your experience.Looking for info supposed to meet next week Thanks.

[Gianni Versace]

We talked for a but, easy to find her facebook but lynn is such a shithole city I didn't pursue.Exactly with Lynn being such a shithole city shouldn't sb donation be priced accordingly based on city?

[CandyMan555]

Check back about 5 post.Supposedly a scammer but no info given.

[Gianni Versace]

I had the same problem. Signed up with a vanilla Visa e-gift card, but when I went to renew with a new vanilla Visa e-gift card it wouldn't accept it. I don't care too much so I just instead used a real credit card. Eventually I'll order a new card so I don't have to worry about my card info being out there.The issue is not your card number being out there. The issue is if your data was compromised such as what happened to the Ashley Madison platform than your name and information would be public information which could potentially be embarrassing.

[NewEngland]

https://members.seeking.com/member/bad76812-e91a-41dd-be76-a9774fdbe5f3

Hi anyone have luck getting in contact and meeting her.

[FrogPilot]

The issue is not your card number being out there. The issue is if your data was compromised such as what happened to the Ashley Madison platform than your name and information would be public information which could potentially be embarrassing.Aha, I see, seems more of a concern for married fellows, rather than me. I'd still prefer that not to happen, but I don't know of any way around the payment option if gift cards still aren't working.

[JoeBell]

Hazel_Eyed_Lass.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b8e2a09f-3133-be51-955d-bb40025f002e

Not sure if she's been discussed before. Didn't find anything on search.

[JClearMan1]

Hazel_Eyed_Lass.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b8e2a09f-3133-be51-955d-bb40025f002e

Not sure if she's been discussed before. Didn't find anything on search.I want to know why she's wearing a "normal hair" wig in one of her photos.

[CandyMan555]

The issue is not your card number being out there. The issue is if your data was compromised such as what happened to the Ashley Madison platform than your name and information would be public information which could potentially be embarrassing.I had so many issues with Vanilla card that I bought an Amex gift card and had no problem.

[LoveOralNs]

Hi.

I have seen a couple of ads on Secret Benefits that I thought were interesting and worth trying but I can't get any vanilla or prepaid visa to work. Anyone have suggestions of a card that works??

Thanks for your help.

[Boston234]

I was wondering what is people's experience with strippers?

I've met three so far and they were definitely all about the money. One was OK, one I passed, and the last one I only found out she used to be a stripper after meeting her a few times. The last one honestly wasn't the best experience. She was very attractive but she would ignore texts and be stone cold when we met. I think she had a narcissistic personality disorder.

Not sure if most strippers are like this and I should avoid them in general?

[suaimmagine]

Hi.

I have seen a couple of ads on Secret Benefits that I thought were interesting and worth trying but I can't get any vanilla or prepaid visa to work. Anyone have suggestions of a card that works??

Thanks for your help.I'd stay clear of that site. TONS of bots and very few real women. SA has a lot of scammers and flaws, but SB is the worst. Here's a post from a former employee.

https://www.reddit.com/r/sugarlifestyleforum/comments/n2mf23/beware_secret_benefits_from_employee/

[James Woods]

"Too long to post here"? _Here_ is the right place to post a long scammer story, so we can all benefit from your experience.Quick Quick Version:

She reached out via SA. Usual pleasantries. Seemed to check out. Moved the convo to Snap Chat. Set up a meet at a local hotel. Wanted 4. 5 for BBFS or 5 for Greek.

Seemed like a pro, she didn't pop any other red flags.

Later at hotel she comes in, makes small talk, we get comfortable. She asks about the donation, we get that out of the way. She is heavier than in the pics but I roll with it. She plays with Mr. Happy for a couple min, gets a text notification, apologizes, and says she will be right back. Leaves her purse on the bedside table to "prove she will be back", and runs out to her car. 15 min goes by and it becomes clear that she took off. Blocked me on all communications. I check the bag (not a half bad LV knock off) and it's empty sans a bottle of shitty perfume.

Buyer beware. YMMV.

JW.

[CandyMan555]

James Woods;5745393]Quick Quick Version:

She reached out via SA. Usual pleasantries. Seemed to check out. Moved the convo to Snap Chat. Set up a meet at a local hotel. Wanted 4. 5 for BBFS or 5 for Greek.

Seemed like a pro, she didn't pop any other red flags.

Later at hotel she comes in, makes small talk, we get comfortable. She asks about the donation, we get that out of the way. She is heavier than in the pics but I roll with it. She plays with Mr. Happy for a couple min, gets a text notification, apologizes, and says she will be right back. Leaves her purse on the bedside table to "prove she will be back", and runs out to her car. 15 min goes by and it becomes clear that she took off. Blocked me on all communications. I check the bag (not a half bad LV knock off) and it's empty sans a bottle of shitty perfume.

Buyer beware. YMMV.

JW. [ / QUOTE.

Most guys show her the money but do not give it to them.

I have had 2 walk outs a long time ago when I first started in this hobby.

Be careful.

[Gianni Versace]

James Woods;5745393]Quick Quick Version:

She reached out via SA. Usual pleasantries. Seemed to check out. Moved the convo to Snap Chat. Set up a meet at a local hotel. Wanted 4. 5 for BBFS or 5 for Greek.

Seemed like a pro, she didn't pop any other red flags.

Later at hotel she comes in, makes small talk, we get comfortable. She asks about the donation, we get that out of the way. She is heavier than in the pics but I roll with it. She plays with Mr. Happy for a couple min, gets a text notification, apologizes, and says she will be right back. Leaves her purse on the bedside table to "prove she will be back", and runs out to her car. 15 min goes by and it becomes clear that she took off. Blocked me on all communications. I check the bag (not a half bad LV knock off) and it's empty sans a bottle of shitty perfume.

Buyer beware. YMMV.

JW. [ / QUOTE.

Most guys show her the money but do not give it to them.

I have had 2 walk outs a long time ago when I first started in this hobby.

Be careful.I would also NEVER EVER get a hotel room for a outcall before even meeting the SB. You need a meet and greet first before ever booking a hotel room plain and simple.

[MinorLeague]

I was wondering what is people's experience with strippers?Not recently. Back in the 2000's I fucked a couple Burning Angel models (paid) who were also strippers, those were the days.

[JDeller]

First, do m&g first. What if you discover the girl is a whack job? Lifeless? Terrible personality? Happened to me once at m&g and couldn't wait to bail.

Second, make hotel reservation as late as possible-preferably when you see them arrive in parking lot.

Third, show the money if they ask (and they will) and put it in a secure place so they can't just grab and dash, move it during a break in the action and always give the money at the end.

After a few dates I just move to venmo. Most guys aren't comfortable with that but I like the convenience and avoids making the whole deal seem transactional and them feeling like a _ It also tends to limit any further discussion of money, like, "Can we do a higher ppm moving forward? "My oil bill just came".


I would also NEVER EVER get a hotel room for a outcall before even meeting the SB. You need a meet and greet first before ever booking a hotel room plain and simple.

[James Woods]

I would also NEVER EVER get a hotel room for a outcall before even meeting the SB. You need a meet and greet first before ever booking a hotel room plain and simple.Normally that is my policy too. I was thrown off a little because the conversations seemed good. I can usually tell after the first few messages back and forth if it is going to be a waste of time. Like I said, no real red flags. The date was going well to that point.

If someone meets with her and it is a positive experience I would love to know. Maybe this was some other girl using her pics, or something? I am an optimist.

Have fun. Be careful.

JW.

[BR1201]

I was wondering what is people's experience with strippers?

I've met three so far and they were definitely all about the money. One was OK, one I passed, and the last one I only found out she used to be a stripper after meeting her a few times. The last one honestly wasn't the best experience. She was very attractive but she would ignore texts and be stone cold when we met. I think she had a narcissistic personality disorder.

Not sure if most strippers are like this and I should avoid them in general?Strippers is a pretty wide open topic pun intended. I've been seeing one off of SA for several years. I've also dated a few here and there. They are definitely all about the money at first. Because they can't usually separate what they're doing on SA with what they do at the club. Consistent bonus is they usually know how to make you feel good, desired, etc and they like to put on a bit of a performance. Obviously they like to get naked so you don't have to make much of an effort there.

Once you get a routine going you find out who they really are because they don't have to do their whole hustle to get you to pay for things. Many of them are indeed crazy and the result of some trauma but some just are hot and realized pretty quickly how to use their assets to make guys give them what they want. I would say overall experiences have been positive. A lot of them need help doing simple things like managing money, investing, real estate, legal problems, etc.

One additional unique bonus above other potential hotties on SA is you can usually sample the goods at the club before committing to some kind of OTC relationship. You have to get used to their lifestyle though and that's probably the worst part about the whole dynamic. By night they are in hustle mode and doing whatever they want to extract money out of guys. By day, outside the club, similar attitude to some extent but I've had a lot of fun with them if you can get them to talk about their stripper persona as just a job or separate it from what you do together. Like don't talk about the club all the time. Because if you let your relationship be defined by that then you're just a glorified customer who they know outside.

Just depends on what you're up for from a BS tolerance perspective. There is a significant amount of BS to deal with.

[MamboMikea]

Have you been able to link Venmo etc to an anonymous credit card? I have found that most will only link to and withdraw money from a verified checking 3.


After a few dates I just move to venmo. Most guys aren't comfortable with that but I like the convenience and avoids making the whole deal seem transactional and them feeling like a _ It also tends to limit any further discussion of money, like, "Can we do a higher ppm moving forward? "My oil bill just came".

[ColoHobbyist]

Once you get a routine going you find out who they really are because they don't have to do their whole hustle to get you to pay for things. Many of them are indeed crazy and the result of some trauma but some just are hot and realized pretty quickly how to use their assets to make guys give them what they want. I would say overall experiences have been positive. A lot of them need help doing simple things like managing money, investing, real estate, legal problems, etc.
This is very much my experience as well. The mindset that makes for a successful stripper is 100% hustle, 24/7. As long as you can deal with that, they can be a lot of fun. Had a fairly long term thing in the pre-SA era with a straight up gorgeous woman in Orange County, CA back in the day. She'd had a tough childhood and had a lot of demons, but she was also smart, curious, and eager to learn. We bonded over a shared passion for food and wine, as well as both of us discovering that we were into D / s play. She was very submissive once she'd realized I was a safe space.

One thing I'd add is that a lot of times these girls are used to the men in their life using them, not only as sex objects, but also economically. If you can slide into a space where you can add value to their life beyond the financial, with actual mentor ship, emotional support, and access to social, business, and cultural spaces, you can find yourself with something special. If you can't, you'll either be another leech or another customer, and it'll probably never be special. And, let's be honest, if your only jam is fucking beautiful women, that might be okay too.

[Bran001]

Have you been able to link Venmo etc to an anonymous credit card? I have found that most will only link to and withdraw money from a verified checking 3.It's my understanding that Venmo does not share bank account info with the recipient -- only the Venmo details which can be anonymized (fake name, anonymous gmail account, etc.).

[Bran001]

If someone meets with her and it is a positive experience I would love to know. Maybe this was some other girl using her pics, or something? I am an optimist.
Your optimism got you in that situation in the first place, and it'll happen again if you don't adjust your approach a bit.

The distance between a girl who will merely dash with the cash, and a girl who'll bring a guy in to also rob you and / or beat you, is relatively small.

[Discretion23]

That sucks! In this game long enough, this crap eventually happens. Most of us learn the hard way. Good luck in the future!


Quick Quick Version:

She reached out via SA. Usual pleasantries. Seemed to check out. Moved the convo to Snap Chat. Set up a meet at a local hotel. Wanted 4. 5 for BBFS or 5 for Greek.

Seemed like a pro, she didn't pop any other red flags.

Later at hotel she comes in, makes small talk, we get comfortable. She asks about the donation, we get that out of the way. She is heavier than in the pics but I roll with it. She plays with Mr. Happy for a couple min, gets a text notification, apologizes, and says she will be right back. Leaves her purse on the bedside table to "prove she will be back", and runs out to her car. 15 min goes by and it becomes clear that she took off. Blocked me on all communications. I check the bag (not a half bad LV knock off) and it's empty sans a bottle of shitty perfume.

Buyer beware. YMMV.

JW.

[HounDog3]

Later at hotel she comes in, makes small talk, we get comfortable. She asks about the donation, we get that out of the way. She is heavier than in the pics but I roll with it. She plays with Mr. Happy for a couple min, gets a text notification, apologizes, and says she will be right back. Leaves her purse on the bedside table to "prove she will be back", and runs out to her car. 15 min goes by and it becomes clear that she took off. Blocked me on all communications. I check the bag (not a half bad LV knock off) and it's empty sans a bottle of shitty perfume.This is a key difference between sugar dating and escorts: professional providers require payment up front, SB's are given the gift at the end of the session. In almost 5 years of sugar dating I had only one SB demand the gift up front and it was the one and only time I was scammed. If the SB wants the gift up front, turn around and walk away. Hard pass.

[MamboMikea]

You missed the point. I don't want Venmo or similar to be removing money from my bank account. Only a protected and safe credit card.


It's my understanding that Venmo does not share bank account info with the recipient -- only the Venmo details which can be anonymized (fake name, anonymous gmail account, etc.).

[Joe1223]

This is a key difference between sugar dating and escorts: professional providers require payment up front, SB's are given the gift at the end of the session. In almost 5 years of sugar dating I had only one SB demand the gift up front and it was the one and only time I was scammed. If the SB wants the gift up front, turn around and walk away. Hard pass.Read HDs comments twice. True words!!

I have never had a true SB ask for money up front and if they do it's a hard no there is the door. It takes some discipline to walk away but it will never fail you.

[Spike77]

After a few dates I just move to venmo. Most guys aren't comfortable with that but I like the convenience and avoids making the whole deal seem transactional and them feeling like a _ It also tends to limit any further discussion of money, like, "Can we do a higher ppm moving forward? "My oil bill just came".Careful with Venmo. I wouldn't recommend friending anyone. Most people know to use an anonymous name and to set their transactions to private. But there is a second setting to make all your past transactions private (many don't know this). Remember, your transaction history cannot be deleted. They can only be set to private. Also, Venmo openly admits to selling your information to third parties. I understand it's easier to use and feels less transactional but cash is probably the safest way to go. And there is nothing stopping a girl for asking more money no matter how you are paying her. Just my 2 cents.

[JDeller]

There is no account info. Just your profile name. Make sure all transactions are set to private so the whole world doesn't see you are making regular payments to someone with a sexy female avatar.


Have you been able to link Venmo etc to an anonymous credit card? I have found that most will only link to and withdraw money from a verified checking 3.

[NicosWave24]

You missed the point. I don't want Venmo or similar to be removing money from my bank account. Only a protected and safe credit card.I prefer using cashapp without any bank info or anything connected. You can deposit cash at like cvs and a couple other places just showing an I'd and your cashapp code on the phone then it's on your account to send to whom ever you want. Super easy, just keep it stacked or load it when you need it. Never have to worry about having banking info on your phone or being connected to your account or anything like that. It's worked for me for a while now.

[Bran001]

This is a key difference between sugar dating and escorts: professional providers require payment up front, SB's are given the gift at the end of the session. In almost 5 years of sugar dating I had only one SB demand the gift up front and it was the one and only time I was scammed. If the SB wants the gift up front, turn around and walk away. Hard pass.With new / young SB's I've given the gift up front -- not because they asked (they didn't) but just to clear their mind that they aren't going to get scammed by me. This has been greeted by a heartfelt "THANK YOU. ".

Whether we think about it or not, it's in the back of the mind of these girls. "Will he actually give me the gift?" Again, not a situation where she asks for it. We all know that pro's and thieves ask for it up front.

[Gianni Versace]

Normally that is my policy too. I was thrown off a little because the conversations seemed good. I can usually tell after the first few messages back and forth if it is going to be a waste of time. Like I said, no real red flags. The date was going well to that point.

If someone meets with her and it is a positive experience I would love to know. Maybe this was some other girl using her pics, or something? I am an optimist.

Have fun. Be careful.

JW.Yeah man it gets the best of us sometimes. Like I have mentioned before in a previous post I was scammed for buying a $100 STEAM gift card once I was on my way to meet he SB. Good thing I was able to recoup my losses by reselling them on ebay for a 20% loss. Better than losing out on $100 for a gift card and not getting laid LOL. Be careful out there fellas.

[JoshDan]

I was trying check out some of the links, but almost all of them are showing up as "This profile no longer exists", is there a trick I am missing here?

[LoveOralNs]

I'd stay clear of that site. TONS of bots and very few real women. SA has a lot of scammers and flaws, but SB is the worst. Here's a post from a former employee.

https://www.reddit.com/r/sugarlifestyleforum/comments/n2mf23/beware_secret_benefits_from_employee/Hmmmm That's unfortunate. Thanks for the warning though. Some of the women looked great.

[CandyMan555]

Hmmmm That's unfortunate. Thanks for the warning though. Some of the women looked great.And the typical message is Hi or Hey.

Costly.

[GlennDoyle91]

Lex? Jasmyn?

https://members.seeking.com/member/25a67de7-e44b-4736-bce2-6d48153220cb

Weird girl. Promises to squirt and let you finger her. And whatever else for 350? 300. Definitely delivered on the first part. But once that was done, they got dressed in a hurry and left.

I should have let the big head do the thinking and not paid till I was done. So. I'm out 300+ Cost of room.

Attached are their pictures. Buyer beware.

[CandyMan555]

Lex? Jasmyn?

https://members.seeking.com/member/25a67de7-e44b-4736-bce2-6d48153220cb

Weird girl. Promises to squirt and let you finger her. And whatever else for 350? 300. Definitely delivered on the first part. But once that was done, they got dressed in a hurry and left.

I should have let the big head do the thinking and not paid till I was done. So. I'm out 300+ Cost of room.

Attached are their pictures. Buyer beware.Texas? Her profile says.

[GiilsonWH]

Lex? Jasmyn?

https://members.seeking.com/member/25a67de7-e44b-4736-bce2-6d48153220cb

Weird girl. Promises to squirt and let you finger her. And whatever else for 350? 300. Definitely delivered on the first part. But once that was done, they got dressed in a hurry and left.

I should have let the big head do the thinking and not paid till I was done. So. I'm out 300+ Cost of room.

Attached are their pictures. Buyer beware.I Don't see any pics attached LOL.

[Mfp79]

I was trying check out some of the links, but almost all of them are showing up as "This profile no longer exists", is there a trick I am missing here?Nope. There's just a lot of churn with SA. Girls will find what they need, or get scared and deactivate.

[GlennDoyle91]

Nope. There's just a lot of churn with SA. Girls will find what they need, or get scared and deactivate.Whoops. Posting in the wrong state, LOL.

[ColoHobbyist]

There is no account info. Just your profile name. Make sure all transactions are set to private so the whole world doesn't see you are making regular payments to someone with a sexy female avatar.Similarly, there's no reason not to have a completely separate Venmo / CashApp / PayPal for black ops. I have an entirely separate bank account for such purposes in fact. The only thing it's tied to is a brokerage account, and that's to facilitate UTR money transfers. Nothing that goes to playmates is tied to an account where my actual name is available for scrutiny.

[Bran001]

Similarly, there's no reason not to have a completely separate Venmo / CashApp / PayPal for black ops. I have an entirely separate bank account for such purposes in fact. The only thing it's tied to is a brokerage account, and that's to facilitate UTR money transfers. Nothing that goes to playmates is tied to an account where my actual name is available for scrutiny.You have a bank account that is nowhere tied to your real identity, SSN, etc? If not, it's not "completely separate".

If it's simply not wanting your name not being available to funds recipients, Venmo and CashApp work that way already.

[Mattis1775]

https://members.seeking.com/member/a9976532-c33c-4f70-82dd-ba805e9913c9

Where's the high rollers? Someone take a dive and let us know how much you blew on this, if it's even real. It definitely sounds fun. But, it will definitely be over 2 K, if not more!

[Bran001]

https://members.seeking.com/member/a9976532-c33c-4f70-82dd-ba805e9913c9

Where's the high rollers? Someone take a dive and let us know how much you blew on this, if it's even real. It definitely sounds fun. But, it will definitely be over 2 K, if not more!Read. The. Profile. "Platonic".

[Gianni Versace]

https://members.seeking.com/member/a9976532-c33c-4f70-82dd-ba805e9913c9

Where's the high rollers? Someone take a dive and let us know how much you blew on this, if it's even real. It definitely sounds fun. But, it will definitely be over 2 K, if not more!Looks like the D Squad to me. Hard Pass.

[Mattis1775]

Read. The. Profile. "Platonic".Basically, they'll entertain you without even touching you. They'll still make out big $$ for the right sucker.

[Joe1223]

This cutie is open to anything except physical sex but would love to chat. Needless to say, that's as far as I got and ended with a polite thank you. LOL.

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/messages?box=Inbox&requested_profile_id=7761143
https://members.seeking.com/member/5c72b8ed-6ee0-4e05-9819-0d0653ae070c

[NicosWave24]

So I got this girl on the line that I have only texted with so far and haven't met yet. She decided to tell me that she has 4 therapists including one that specializes in dissociative identity disorder. First I thought, wow Red flag no thanks this girls nuts. Then I found myself wondering how her different personalities may compare to each other in the sack. Like could I get one for round one that have her like switch it up for round 2 and compare them? Idk maybe I'm just as fucked In the head as she is.

Thoughts?

[Bran001]

So I got this girl on the line that I have only texted with so far and haven't met yet. She decided to tell me that she has 4 therapists including one that specializes in dissociative identity disorder. First I thought, wow Red flag no thanks this girls nuts. Then I found myself wondering how her different personalities may compare to each other in the sack. Like could I get one for round one that have her like switch it up for round 2 and compare them? Idk maybe I'm just as fucked In the head as she is.

Thoughts?DID doesn't work that way. Only in the movies.

[NicosWave24]

DID doesn't work that way. Only in the movies.Hey a mfer can dream right lmao.

[I On Da Street]

Looks like you're linking to two different girls there's. Both the same story?


This cutie is open to anything except physical sex but would love to chat. Needless to say, that's as far as I got and ended with a polite thank you. LOL.

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/messages?box=Inbox&requested_profile_id=7761143
https://members.seeking.com/member/5c72b8ed-6ee0-4e05-9819-0d0653ae070c

[Joe1223]

Looks like you're linking to two different girls there's. Both the same story?Same girl on both sites. Looks like one like is dead. Try again.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5c72b8ed-6ee0-4e05-9819-0d0653ae070c

[SwimSays]

Basically, they'll entertain you without even touching you. They'll still make out big $$ for the right sucker.When I first started on SA a few years ago I would ignore all Platonic listed profiles but over time started feeling them out if I was interested and they were conveniently located to me.

In my experience 50% of them are open to more than a platonic arrangement. My current long term SB actually had platonic listed on her profile and I fucked her ass directly after our meet and greet.

Not saying you shouldn't write off most platonic profiles but if you are into her look / profile vibe and you see potential there sometimes its worth exploring it.

[Chuchunga]

https://members.seeking.com/member/ad4427af-d6e7-4e48-98c1-400f2e605159

Med student apparently looking for 3 K per month or so. Has a sob story about breaking up with a bf. After talking with her I think he dodged a bullet LOL. Think she is fake. Platonic only in conversations. I'm posting a picture here cause I swear I've seen this profile before but I can't put my finger on it. Hoping someone else recognizes it.

[Chuchunga]

When I first started on SA a few years ago I would ignore all Platonic listed profiles but over time started feeling them out if I was interested and they were conveniently located to me.

In my experience 50% of them are open to more than a platonic arrangement. My current long term SB actually had platonic listed on her profile and I fucked her ass directly after our meet and greet.

Not saying you shouldn't write off most platonic profiles but if you are into her look / profile vibe and you see potential there sometimes its worth exploring it.I find if they list it in their profile text. They are only looking to sell their * If they choose the tag only and there's no mention in the text, it's a coin flip that they actually know what Platonic actually means or what the tag on the profile implies.

[ColoHobbyist]

You have a bank account that is nowhere tied to your real identity, SSN, etc? If not, it's not "completely separate".

If it's simply not wanting your name not being available to funds recipients, Venmo and CashApp work that way already.It's a business account and it's tied to a Nevada LLC I set up a long time ago for another project. Could it be traced to me? Absolutely. I'm not trying evade the Feds. I'm creating barriers against casual searches. Besides, it's helpful come tax time too since mentorship of these young women isn't very profitable, especially when you include the T&E costs associated with closing the sale.

[ColoHobbyist]

So I got this girl on the line that I have only texted with so far and haven't met yet. She decided to tell me that she has 4 therapists including one that specializes in dissociative identity disorder. First I thought, wow Red flag no thanks this girls nuts. Then I found myself wondering how her different personalities may compare to each other in the sack. Like could I get one for round one that have her like switch it up for round 2 and compare them? Idk maybe I'm just as fucked In the head as she is.

Thoughts?Run.

I started seeing a girl last year that was super smart, tight body, naive as hell, and a great lay. She always seemed a little manic, but whatever. Then last week, just ahead of a scheduled meet, she texts me a bathroom selfie in a hospital type situation, saying they were taking her phone and she was being put on a 72 hour hold. She texted again about 4 days later saying she was going in-patient for eight weeks.

Got to draw the line somewhere and this is it for me.

[ColoHobbyist]

When I first started on SA a few years ago I would ignore all Platonic listed profiles but over time started feeling them out if I was interested and they were conveniently located to me.

In my experience 50% of them are open to more than a platonic arrangement. My current long term SB actually had platonic listed on her profile and I fucked her ass directly after our meet and greet.

Not saying you shouldn't write off most platonic profiles but if you are into her look / profile vibe and you see potential there sometimes its worth exploring it.Definitely. A decent number I've chatted with don't even know what Platonic means. Others just want to feel like they're being valued as something more than a piece of fuckmeat.

[Spill]

I find if they list it in their profile text. They are only looking to sell their * If they choose the tag only and there's no mention in the text, it's a coin flip that they actually know what Platonic actually means or what the tag on the profile implies.Agree. Sometimes they hit that tag meaning that they are open to platonic also.

[LarryLegend33]

I'm concentrating on black babies only to mix things up in 2022. Seems like a lot of pros, flakes, and women like this who ask for 6 k / month! WTF? Will post more as I acquire new info.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e62a0977-de56-4563-903a-5acf556a0923

[Mattis1775]

When I first started on SA a few years ago I would ignore all Platonic listed profiles but over time started feeling them out if I was interested and they were conveniently located to me.

In my experience 50% of them are open to more than a platonic arrangement. My current long term SB actually had platonic listed on her profile and I fucked her ass directly after our meet and greet.

Not saying you shouldn't write off most platonic profiles but if you are into her look / profile vibe and you see potential there sometimes its worth exploring it.Most likely open to the idea for more. But, wanted to start slow? Sounds like a GF. LOL. Could be the case. But, I believe a lot of us don't want to invest in such a platonic meeting, to include dinners and long walks. I still get messages from Grace, who is an older MILF / GILF RN out of Maine. No meet, just wants to chat. And, for the most part, based on her messages, I can tell she doesn't even know who she's writing to, like a generic message. She often sends recorded videos as well. She didn't ask for money or anything and is always listed as a Premium Member.

[JDeller]

Some of my best experiences over the past two years have been with AA babes much younger and equally or more attractive than her for 300 to 350. She is delusional.


I'm concentrating on black babies only to mix things up in 2022. Seems like a lot of pros, flakes, and women like this who ask for 6 k / month! WTF? Will post more as I acquire new info.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e62a0977-de56-4563-903a-5acf556a0923

[Mfp79]

When it rains, it pours. The last month has seen an explosion of interest for me. I'm now overbooked. Saw 2 SBs today after seeing a regular yesterday and I'm tapped out. Usually pre-Christmas is this busy but for some reason it's moved to mid to late Jan. In the past 2 weeks, I saw 6 girls:

V, 23 Latina, 400. Decent performance but nothing special. Met a few times now but probably cut her loose for better options.

A, 21 white chick, 500. Good performance but pricey and not amazing looking (7/10) given the cost. I'm. On the fence for a repeat just because of that.

J, 26? White chick, 400 but might be ok with 300 next time. Super submissive, amazing performance. Our schedules don't line up though so probably an infrequent member of the rotation.

G, 31 Italian spinner, 300. Regular for me who was away for holidays and just got back. Ol reliable, but her departure made me look for backups.

K, 29 Latina, free, and hosted! Not amazing looks or performance wise but convenient and the price is right.

M, 28 Asian, 400. Good performance, looks, good time but another case of mixed schedules.

I have 2 more M&Gs lined up that I may just cancel at this point. My problem now is literally just finding time to see them all before they move on.

[HounDog3]

When it rains, it pours. The last month has seen an explosion of interest for me. I'm now overbooked. Saw 2 SBs today after seeing a regular yesterday and I'm tapped out. Usually pre-Christmas is this busy but for some reason it's moved to mid to late Jan. In the past 2 weeks, I saw 6 girls:

(deleted for brevity)The "review" is useless without links to SA profiles, or SA screen names, for others to pursue. Especially when you're cutting them loose or not sure if, when, you will repeat so it's not like you want to keep for yourself. Also claiming to have spent $2K on SBs in the past two weeks? I'm not calling bullshit, just saying it's rather uncharacteristic for contributors on this board.

[TopDog69]

Use this code for 33% off first month if you're on the fence: ABANFAV33.

Or click on this link: https://members.seeking.com/login?redirectTo=/billing/memberships?promo=ABANFAV33&utm_source=sa_ibm-program&utm_medium=email&utm_term=upgrade&utm_content=day7&utm_campaign=abandon_gen_fav_nonprem3_33off&xtor=-%5BSA-EN%20-%20Abandoned%20Favorited%20Non-Premium%20-%20Gen%2003%20Discount%2033%20off%20-%20(Oct%202021)%20 (1)%5 D-5 BCTA_Main%5 D-&bxid=%5 BNjgyNzM0 NjYzODMxS0%5 D-spMailingID=19299336&spUserID=NjgyNzM0 NjYzODMxS0&spJobID=2282188122&spReportId=MjI4 MjE3 MzU0 MAS2.

[Ymch520]

Use this code for 33% off first month if you're on the fence: ABANFAV33.

Or click on this link: https://members.seeking.com/login?redirectTo=/billing/memberships?promo=ABANFAV33&utm_source=sa_ibm-program&utm_medium=email&utm_term=upgrade&utm_content=day7&utm_campaign=abandon_gen_fav_nonprem3_33off&xtor=-%5BSA-EN%20-%20Abandoned%20Favorited%20Non-Premium%20-%20Gen%2003%20Discount%2033%20off%20-%20(Oct%202021)%20 (1)%5 D-5 BCTA_Main%5 D-&bxid=%5 BNjgyNzM0 NjYzODMxS0%5 D-spMailingID=19299336&spUserID=NjgyNzM0 NjYzODMxS0&spJobID=2282188122&spReportId=MjI4 MjE3 MzU0 MAS2.Thank you bro.

[Mfp79]

The "review" is useless without links to SA profiles, or SA screen names, for others to pursue. Especially when you're cutting them loose or not sure if, when, you will repeat so it's not like you want to keep for yourself. Also claiming to have spent $2K on SBs in the past two weeks? I'm not calling bullshit, just saying it's rather uncharacteristic for contributors on this board.Fair. I don't want to post links of girls I've seen for all to see, but if anyone's interested in someone specific I can answer on PM. In the past I have traded with folks here and even ran a spreadsheet of girls for folks to share.

I guess my points that I was too tired to actually make:

* It's exceptionally busy unexpectedly. Is it just me or is anyone else seeing this? I've typically renewed during the holidays but if this is a pattern others are seeing too I may defer a month in the future.

* Persistence can pay off. I had pretty meh luck in November / December and was ready to fall back on regulars, but now I'm seeing how far I can push this.

* There's still good value at 300-400. I made an exception with the one 500 but I would recommend others try to stick to 300-400 for everyone else's benefit.

[Joe1223]

Same girl on both sites. Looks like one like is dead. Try again.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5c72b8ed-6ee0-4e05-9819-0d0653ae070cChanged her name not her service.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7642c1cb-085c-44b3-a236-6fee2f665f13

[Dano7]

I've been off and on Secret Benefits since last spring with limited success. Lots of garbage like others write but did meet two escort types that don't advertise on the usual boards. I'm looking for a girl who's cute and enjoys herself, doesn't sugar date as a job and will take a modest fee (in the 100's) for semi-regular visits with a nice, in-shape guy in his fifties. Too much to ask? If you know anyone please pm. Otherwise, not looking for advice or other non-substantive info. I don't have a direct trade but maybe we can work something. Thanks for reading!

[Mattis1775]

I started on SA account awhile back and never used it for communication, just to view profiles. I did have another account, which got suspended because someone must've sent them information. I even appealed without success. For some reason, the account that I used to review profiles got suspended as well. WTF. I don't even use it to message anyone, nor did I have a subscription. A few mongers here have said that they lost their accounts for no reason. Or, a user reported them with false information. I know some of you are big on SA. But, this is too much of a headache.

[NewEngland]

Hi any inforo on her she looks I has seen her working somewhere.

https://members.seeking.com/member/1c5f2272-f636-735e-2bc5-63750702e24f

[ActionJ1]

Fair. I don't want to post links of girls I've seen for all to see, but if anyone's interested in someone specific I can answer on PM. In the past I have traded with folks here and even ran a spreadsheet of girls for folks to share.

I guess my points that I was too tired to actually make:

* It's exceptionally busy unexpectedly. Is it just me or is anyone else seeing this? I've typically renewed during the holidays but if this is a pattern others are seeing too I may defer a month in the future.

* Persistence can pay off. I had pretty meh luck in November / December and was ready to fall back on regulars, but now I'm seeing how far I can push this.

* There's still good value at 300-400. I made an exception with the one 500 but I would recommend others try to stick to 300-400 for everyone else's benefit.Can confirm. Suddenly in mid January, everyone I messaged was interested, and women who stopped responding weeks earlier reappeared and wanted to meet. I don't know that it'll be a trend, for this time of year, but I'm guessing a lot of people either hit limits to unemployment or some additional benefits started expiring or something.

[Chuchunga]

https://members.seeking.com/member/ba15f8ee-9af0-45bc-bda5-94f04dd2479c

Came over no problem, took money and ran. At least got a quick BBBJ before she bolted haha.

[Gianni Versace]

I started on SA account awhile back and never used it for communication, just to view profiles. I did have another account, which got suspended because someone must've sent them information. I even appealed without success. For some reason, the account that I used to review profiles got suspended as well. WTF. I don't even use it to message anyone, nor did I have a subscription. A few mongers here have said that they lost their accounts for no reason. Or, a user reported them with false information. I know some of you are big on SA. But, this is too much of a headache.It is a huge headache and a big commitment but if you can spend 1 month and work the girls you will come out ahead. Just saying.

[MamboMikea]

While I agree with the points you are making, you don't even respond to a PM.


Fair. I don't want to post links of girls I've seen for all to see, but if anyone's interested in someone specific I can answer on PM. In the past I have traded with folks here and even ran a spreadsheet of girls for folks to share.

I guess my points that I was too tired to actually make:

* It's exceptionally busy unexpectedly. Is it just me or is anyone else seeing this? I've typically renewed during the holidays but if this is a pattern others are seeing too I may defer a month in the future.

* Persistence can pay off. I had pretty meh luck in November / December and was ready to fall back on regulars, but now I'm seeing how far I can push this.

* There's still good value at 300-400. I made an exception with the one 500 but I would recommend others try to stick to 300-400 for everyone else's benefit.

[HounDog3]

Can confirm. Suddenly in mid January, everyone I messaged was interested, and women who stopped responding weeks earlier reappeared and wanted to meet. I don't know that it'll be a trend, for this time of year, but I'm guessing a lot of people either hit limits to unemployment or some additional benefits started expiring or something.Timing is right for credit card bills arriving from holiday spending.

[JClearMan1]

https://members.seeking.com/member/ba15f8ee-9af0-45bc-bda5-94f04dd2479c

Came over no problem, took money and ran. At least got a quick BBBJ before she bolted haha.Wait. You got a BBBJ, but you're saying she's a scammer? Which is it?

[CandyMan555]

https://members.seeking.com/member/ba15f8ee-9af0-45bc-bda5-94f04dd2479c

Came over no problem, took money and ran. At least got a quick BBBJ before she bolted haha.CASSANDRA FROM RANDOLPH??

Thanks CM.

[ColoHobbyist]

I started on SA account awhile back and never used it for communication, just to view profiles. I did have another account, which got suspended because someone must've sent them information. I even appealed without success. For some reason, the account that I used to review profiles got suspended as well. WTF. I don't even use it to message anyone, nor did I have a subscription. A few mongers here have said that they lost their accounts for no reason. Or, a user reported them with false information. I know some of you are big on SA. But, this is too much of a headache.I believe that once you've had an account suspended, your IP address is also blackballed. May take a hot minute until the bots get your second account. This is one of many reasons to use a VPN. It's also a good reason to not get any more than a 30 day subscription.

[Chuchunga]

CASSANDRA FROM RANDOLPH??

Thanks CM.I don't think so. I think that's another one.

[Chuchunga]

https://members.seeking.com/member/08f1a8d9-ef2c-4d92-a573-4f743e26130d

Is looking for 10 k per month. Did I die and the game changed to pay per pound? I don't understand how they can get these numbers and then lie through their teeth saying someone gave them this much.

[TheList00]

I don't think so. I think that's another one.No the chick who scammed him is melissa not cassandra.

[Mfp79]

While I agree with the points you are making, you don't even respond to a PM.I answered the one question you asked via PM in my follow up post below so I didn't think it warranted a response.

[Mfp79]

Timing is right for credit card bills arriving from holiday spending.Oh good theory! My other thought was girls being on break from school during Jan. One girl was in that boat at least.

[JClearMan1]

I can't get to the link for this profile because I blocked them. Lead me all the way to an apartment building lobby, I texted to let them know I was there, and asked for the apartment number. They then said they would come down to meet me before going up. Seemed totally reasonable. About 10 second later they asked for a deposit. I said I would give them money when we were at their place. They then asked for half of the original deposit, which I then replied with "No" and "Bye". Anyway, username is "lovely8".

[JClearMan1]

She wants $500 for a meet, plus you have to get a hotel. I was sooooooo tempted, but passed. https://members.seeking.com/member/a08c9226-3543-456d-baa8-04f002175526.

[PaulRew]

I can't get to the link for this profile because I blocked them. Lead me all the way to an apartment building lobby, I texted to let them know I was there, and asked for the apartment number. They then said they would come down to meet me before going up. Seemed totally reasonable. About 10 second later they asked for a deposit. I said I would give them money when we were at their place. They then asked for half of the original deposit, which I then replied with "No" and "Bye". Anyway, username is "lovely8".I am sorry this happened to you JClear.

We all know that unfortunately the scammers, deposit before meet, and gas money girls are here to stay. Also, I am sure most understand that SA gives not one single fuck about this, all they care about is active female profiles to attract more of us. Having said all that, Lovely8 takes it to a different level, its one thing to ask for a deposit while you are sitting at your house, a whole different level to ask after you have committed your time and actually drove to her place. While I am usually a fan of block and move on I really hope a few of you with active memberships fuck with "her". I have attached her profile and her pictures in case she reinvents herself.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d8dc6903-16ba-44b5-bf0d-e3d51a57248c

[Spill]

I can't get to the link for this profile because I blocked them. Lead me all the way to an apartment building lobby, I texted to let them know I was there, and asked for the apartment number. They then said they would come down to meet me before going up. Seemed totally reasonable. About 10 second later they asked for a deposit. I said I would give them money when we were at their place. They then asked for half of the original deposit, which I then replied with "No" and "Bye". Anyway, username is "lovely8".https://members.seeking.com/member/d8dc6903-16ba-44b5-bf0d-e3d51a57248c

[JClearMan1]

Definitely a pro. Sent me her number almost immediately, then replied with a hotel in braintree and asked for a $300 allowance. I passed.

https://members.seeking.com/member/44231637-7859-4a76-b887-b3e3de7a1522

[TheList00]

Definitely a pro. Sent me her number almost immediately, then replied with a hotel in braintree and asked for a $300 allowance. I passed.

https://members.seeking.com/member/44231637-7859-4a76-b887-b3e3de7a1522Now that's the cassandra I was talking about and that the other guy was asking if was her, yea she's a pro. Crack addict, wow 300 bucks. She has alot of nerve asking that, offer her 60 she will take it.

[Chuchunga]

Definitely a pro. Sent me her number almost immediately, then replied with a hotel in braintree and asked for a $300 allowance. I passed.

https://members.seeking.com/member/44231637-7859-4a76-b887-b3e3de7a1522Thats cassaundra from randolph.

[Chuchunga]

https://members.seeking.com/member/32990c73-dea5-46c5-92dd-2396120adddd

Hot pics. Wants about 500 but expects a deposit LOL. At least before the convo ended I got her to admit her scam haha.

[Chuchunga]

Person wanted to video chat and then sent me the attached image. I've yet to see this scam before.

[Chuchunga]

I believe that once you've had an account suspended, your IP address is also blackballed. May take a hot minute until the bots get your second account. This is one of many reasons to use a VPN. It's also a good reason to not get any more than a 30 day subscription.They blackball the IPs but on a larger provider like Comcast they really can't cause of the shared IP structure and everyone still using only IPv4. The bigger issue is a payment block at the IP level is handled differently by their provider and you will need to use a different IP for that every time. What I find helps is using a newer 4 G cellphone and its data plan or tethering since the IPs are pretty scrambled at that point. Unless you store session information, every connection would look like a brand new one that way. I've gotten pretty good getting around account blacklisting so PM me if you need help LOL.

[Style20]

https://members.seeking.com/member/32990c73-dea5-46c5-92dd-2396120adddd

Hot pics. Wants about 500 but expects a deposit LOL. At least before the convo ended I got her to admit her scam haha.Lop, I bet she have a OF just to make you subscribe and never get any refund. These scammers are definitely making over $50 k a day.

[Ymch520]

Now that's the cassandra I was talking about and that the other guy was asking if was her, yea she's a pro. Crack addict, wow 300 bucks. She has alot of nerve asking that, offer her 60 she will take it.She is reaching out every single profile and gicing phone number right away and price too. I tried asking 100 and she just ignored my message and keep asking so honey what you thinking ajd when you want to come. LOL. I'd definitely pass her. Not worth I guess.

[CandyMan555]

Renewed yesterday with Amex gift card no problem.

[FrogPilot]

1. https://members.seeking.com/member/5d028dc0-d76f-4c32-bddf-bb9b6579bdc9.

- saw a couple times.

- pics are accurate.

- all in for 400 and willing to get right down to it at the first meet.

- unable to host.

- bit of a pro / semi pro vibe, interested in doing the deed and bouncing, and a little cold, stiff, maybe warms up once gets more comfortable with you.

- super flakey and a pain in the ass to schedule with and text back and forth with, that's why I moved on after a couple meets, I don't have time for that shit, also showed up late for both meets.

2. https://members.seeking.com/member/f4644b48-7e38-4443-bf43-50ee82f41c11.

- never actually met but spoke on the phone, can at least tell you she's real.

- unable to host.

- all in for 400.

- was willing to come to my place for the first meet and get right to it.

- flaked on the day of scheduled first meet with some bullshit excuse.

- contacted me a week later with typical bullshit "sorry I had a crazy week. Can we try again" but I didn't bother to pursue further.

Figured some may want to try their luck with either of them if they like their look. Personally, I moved on to other SBs who have better communication skills. I'm an easygoing guy and am flexible and willing to work with people but I have very little tolerance for having my time wasted, especially if I'm paying.

[ColoHobbyist]

She wants $500 for a meet, plus you have to get a hotel. I was sooooooo tempted, but passed. https://members.seeking.com/member/a08c9226-3543-456d-baa8-04f002175526.At the end of the day, women like this are in a weird middle ground between pro and non-pro. $500 is pro money and would be about what I'd expect for a woman with her looks and good reviews. If the pics are accurate and she delivers a quality experience, then $500 plus hotel would be fair. But that money for an unknown quantity is a gamble I'm not willing to make. If the money wasn't an issue, likely time would be an issue and the logistics of doing the dance with her, then getting the room, then risking a flakey or bad experience would make a well reviewed pro for the same money worth every penny. Obviously we all have our tastes, but empirically, her looks would demand good reviews for that price. If she's got rules or zero passion, her pro price is $400 max IMHO, $350 wo MSOG, CBJ, etc.

[suaimmagine]

She is reaching out every single profile and gicing phone number right away and price too. I tried asking 100 and she just ignored my message and keep asking so honey what you thinking ajd when you want to come. LOL. I'd definitely pass her. Not worth I guess.She hit me up too. Nice person, abysmal lay.

[Gianni Versace]

Just wanted to let you guys know that for some of the SB's I had made contact with that would not accept my lower price points before a few months ago I am now starting to hear back from a few different other girls who will now see me at the lower price. So do not be afraid to offer the girls $100-$150. As I have mentioned before. Membership is good to sign up for a month and than work full time at it. SA is still a Gem imo even with the massive amounts of scammers on the site now. You just need to be smart.

[EvilTmp]

Just wanted to let you guys know that for some of the SB's I had made contact with that would not accept my lower price points before a few months ago I am now starting to hear back from a few different other girls who will now see me at the lower price. So do not be afraid to offer the girls $100-$150. As I have mentioned before. Membership is good to sign up for a month and than work full time at it. SA is still a Gem imo even with the massive amounts of scammers on the site now. You just need to be smart.The amount she wants is the amount she needs to pinch her nose and fukk you. The more she needs, the more she doesn't like you. They can dress it up however they want but that is the bottom line, no bullshit. Talk is cheap, action speaks loudest. The less she likes you, the less rewarding the deed will be. This is not some fancy psychology, just basic common sense. That's why it's important to meet in person and get her honest appraisal. If after meeting you she throws a 500 at you, she doesn't care one bit about seeing you. For 500 she will do anybody. If that's the 'pro' experience you're going for then you're all set. If not, you need to reassess.

100-150 is the price they need to leave the house. Anything above that is how much they don't care about you.

[BleedGreen88]

SA prospects probably correlate with the overall economic status of the country (this hypothesis could be a PhD thesis), but I think times are good now to be a SD. Just last night, got a smattering of messages from interested SBs. Shared those with the most promise down below. Have gotten all their numbers and texting back and forth / sending pics, planning meets (they are definitely not bots). Figured I'd share and see if I could get some eskimo brothers LMFAO. Seeing the white chick tomorrow afternoon for lunch, got a smoke show on the backburner I'm meeting with Friday night for drinks. SA can be feast or famine but it seems it's a bull market for finding SBs at this point. Definitely feel free to trade other providers as well.

Just FYI I am 33, so I skew younger in terms of girls on the site.

https://members.seeking.com/member/16aae8da-8ef6-4c93-9bb0-3aedc4c62b4e

https://members.seeking.com/member/1d828bee-9ab8-4513-92e5-545cd4ca09c8

https://members.seeking.com/member/8204aa08-3a1d-4b9d-b18f-e4d36fbaa5fd

https://members.seeking.com/member/91f0d4b1-4ada-4646-b853-36a906f35a7e

https://members.seeking.com/member/62323906-f87a-4dd8-a742-70f5bf6c4a78

[Javazer]

The amount she wants is the amount she needs to pinch her nose and fukk you. The more she needs, the more she doesn't like you. They can dress it up however they want but that is the bottom line, no bullshit. Talk is cheap, action speaks loudest. The less she likes you, the less rewarding the deed will be. This is not some fancy psychology, just basic common sense. That's why it's important to meet in person and get her honest appraisal. If after meeting you she throws a 500 at you, she doesn't care one bit about seeing you. For 500 she will do anybody. If that's the 'pro' experience you're going for then you're all set. If not, you need to reassess.

100-150 is the price they need to leave the house. Anything above that is how much they don't care about you.I don't post often anymore because I'm mostly interested in longer "arrangement". I have a different take on that. I have a wide "price" range, 300 to 600, and tend to look for long term arrangements, not just numbers or how many I take to the FC. The ones I have given 300 or less I have never repeated with only rare exception. The 3 sb I'm seeing right now are 20,26 and 38, have jobs or go to school, and all of them are GFE and BBFS. None of them have ask me for any donation upfront and are happy with what I gave them after the meet and greet. I always treat them well and have always been rewarded back, mutually beneficial in time and money in the long run for me and for them, they don't have to see 10 or 15 dudes a month. I still see the 3 of them so no info here.

The ones who I stop seeing, of course YMMV:

"Gradstudent" in Salem NH, lasted about a year but her work schedule has changed and is no longer compatible with mine. Very nice body and always fresh, GFE, wet, BBFS, DFK, no anal. 500.

"Yourlittlesecret" in Manchester Nh, lasted about 6 months before she move out of State during Covid and came back with personal problems and no longer reliable on time. GFE, BBFS, CIP, Anal. 300.

[Hobbyist420]

SA prospects probably correlate with the overall economic status of the country (this hypothesis could be a PhD thesis), but I think times are good now to be a SD. Just last night, got a smattering of messages from interested SBs. Shared those with the most promise down below. Have gotten all their numbers and texting back and forth / sending pics, planning meets (they are definitely not bots). Figured I'd share and see if I could get some eskimo brothers LMFAO. Seeing the white chick tomorrow afternoon for lunch, got a smoke show on the backburner I'm meeting with Friday night for drinks. SA can be feast or famine but it seems it's a bull market for finding SBs at this point. Definitely feel free to trade other providers as well.Indeed. I just got back on after a long hiatus with the $73 promo. I find the scammers aren't as plentiful and I am getting legit leads (including one BBFS I am prob going to bang tonight) on several 20-something latinas.

The scammers still exist obviously but they are easier to find (wacky out of state phone numbers for example). They also are getting a little smarter: once you send them your number, they block you on SA so you can't report them haha.

I found one scammer who wasted my day texting saying they'd come over, then asked for cashapp. I looked up the cashapp, found a name, and it was a 50 yr old woman in NYC who got a PPP loan LOL.

The 18-19 year olds, esp inside 495, still a challenge and not as easy to bag pre-2019. And I have seen 3 actual pros on there (which I report LOL). But it is getting a little better. Esp single moms.

I will add the suggested allowance from girls is 300-400. There is one lead I am gonna suggest 200 ppm. see how it goes

[suaimmagine]

SA prospects probably correlate with the overall economic status of the country (this hypothesis could be a PhD thesis), but I think times are good now to be a SD. Just last night, got a smattering of messages from interested SBs. Shared those with the most promise down below. Have gotten all their numbers and texting back and forth / sending pics, planning meets (they are definitely not bots). Figured I'd share and see if I could get some eskimo brothers LMFAO. Seeing the white chick tomorrow afternoon for lunch, got a smoke show on the backburner I'm meeting with Friday night for drinks. SA can be feast or famine but it seems it's a bull market for finding SBs at this point. Definitely feel free to trade other providers as well.

Just FYI I am 33, so I skew younger in terms of girls on the site.

https://members.seeking.com/member/16aae8da-8ef6-4c93-9bb0-3aedc4c62b4e

https://members.seeking.com/member/1d828bee-9ab8-4513-92e5-545cd4ca09c8

https://members.seeking.com/member/8204aa08-3a1d-4b9d-b18f-e4d36fbaa5fd

https://members.seeking.com/member/91f0d4b1-4ada-4646-b853-36a906f35a7e

https://members.seeking.com/member/62323906-f87a-4dd8-a742-70f5bf6c4a78So you don't waste too much time:

1. Deleted.

2. Platonic.

3. Maybe legit.

4. Platonic.

5. "Emotional connection" = platonic.

[AZN Monger]

Is the "Gradstudent" still on Seeking?


I don't post often anymore because I'm mostly interested in longer "arrangement". I have a different take on that. I have a wide "price" range, 300 to 600, and tend to look for long term arrangements, not just numbers or how many I take to the FC. The ones I have given 300 or less I have never repeated with only rare exception. The 3 sb I'm seeing right now are 20,26 and 38, have jobs or go to school, and all of them are GFE and BBFS. None of them have ask me for any donation upfront and are happy with what I gave them after the meet and greet. I always treat them well and have always been rewarded back, mutually beneficial in time and money in the long run for me and for them, they don't have to see 10 or 15 dudes a month. I still see the 3 of them so no info here.

The ones who I stop seeing, of course YMMV:

"Gradstudent" in Salem NH, lasted about a year but her work schedule has changed and is no longer compatible with mine. Very nice body and always fresh, GFE, wet, BBFS, DFK, no anal. 500.

"Yourlittlesecret" in Manchester Nh, lasted about 6 months before she move out of State during Covid and came back with personal problems and no longer reliable on time. GFE, BBFS, CIP, Anal. 300.

[Javazer]

Is the "Gradstudent" still on Seeking?Yes she is as of few days ago.

[JClearMan1]

Holy shit. This lady just said she "usually" gets a $500 "donation" for dates. https://members.seeking.com/member/faee45fe-6228-4523-beb5-7e526a79dd2d.

If any of you have paid that, I'm laughing at you.Out of nowhere Helen, Wisemiss, texted me today. I reminded her of who I was and what she'd quoted for an allowance.

[SportsGuyRed]

Anyone been to Vegas in the last 6-9 months and use SA?

I have a trip next month to Vegas and plan on setting up 4-5 dates with SA.

I can trade info for Worcester, Boston, NYC, and Miami.

[TopDog69]

https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/e3193fbd-a211-4fa6-900c-9d22fa8bcf98

Any intel on this one? Thanks.

[BostonJones]

Anyone been to Vegas in the last 6-9 months and use SA?

I have a trip next month to Vegas and plan on setting up 4-5 dates with SA.

I can trade info for Worcester, Boston, NYC, and Miami.Yes, been to Vegas a few times in the last 12 months, a couple of dozen times in the last decade. It is ridiculously easy to meet SA women there. 400-800 is pretty much the sweet spot for girl-next-door college non-pro non-stripper types. I know that price range is way above the usasexguide consensus, but the supply of horny men constantly churning through that town pushes the market up. I've never been there, looking for SA fun, and not had company in my room. Start messaging 2 or 3 days before you go, Amy sooner and it can go stale fast, and you'll have so many choices you might regret committing early.

[Rjm4181]

https://members.seeking.com/member/0d4e7592-05fe-4cce-9da4-6589ff737a1f

I was in town looking for a date, and I guess she saw me on there and contacted me first. She goes by Lexi and was very fast to try and set something up, even though it was hard for us to find a table anywhere. After a few hours she shows up at the hotel, I should have just said "I forgot my whaling harpoon" and left her there; much bigger than the pictures. However we go out to eat after trying a few restaurants that were full. And of course she milks it for all she can, which is fine it I'm with a good looking girl, but she is not. Get back to the room and she disrobes, then immediately throws out a rubber on the bed. Eh, I knew it wasn't going to happen then. We talk about allowance and go with 3 bills, entirely to much and probably my worst experience on SA, mostly due to my own apathy. Her big ass then tries to get me hard, covered EVERYTHING, it's not happening. I tell her that and send her on her way. Sorry guys, in this case I know I'm the reason these girls get away with that shit, I'll try to do better.

Also made the mistake of giving Bekky my number. However, I'd have been better off with her. But she just hounds the shit out of you to meet and even in her pictures looks kind of dirty and addicted. I couldn't do it.

[BR1201]

I think everyone is getting this offer but 25% off with code VDAY22 B25. Enjoy!

Also I just had a field day in Miami using SA to find some dates. The talent was off the hook. Filtered out the pros by doing a few coffee dates. It didn't hurt that I had a premium room at a gorgeous hotel on the beach. Having them meet me at a Tiki bar and then charming them to my room worked great. Most of the civilians were cool With 300-400 or a shopping trip / gift certificates. A couple of bombshells wanted 1000 so I just kept it to lunch and drinks.

[JClearMan1]

https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/e3193fbd-a211-4fa6-900c-9d22fa8bcf98

Any intel on this one? Thanks.That's a link to your messages (the conversation with that user).

[JClearMan1]

https://members.seeking.com/member/0d4e7592-05fe-4cce-9da4-6589ff737a1f

I was in town looking for a date, and I guess she saw me on there and contacted me first. She goes by Lexi and was very fast to try and set something up, even though it was hard for us to find a table anywhere. After a few hours she shows up at the hotel, I should have just said "I forgot my whaling harpoon" and left her there; much bigger than the pictures. However we go out to eat after trying a few restaurants that were full. And of course she milks it for all she can, which is fine it I'm with a good looking girl, but she is not. Get back to the room and she disrobes, then immediately throws out a rubber on the bed. Eh, I knew it wasn't going to happen then. We talk about allowance and go with 3 bills, entirely to much and probably my worst experience on SA, mostly due to my own apathy. Her big ass then tries to get me hard, covered EVERYTHING, it's not happening. I tell her that and send her on her way. Sorry guys, in this case I know I'm the reason these girls get away with that shit, I'll try to do better.

Also made the mistake of giving Bekky my number. However, I'd have been better off with her. But she just hounds the shit out of you to meet and even in her pictures looks kind of dirty and addicted. I couldn't do it.Small world. I just finished a conversation with her where she agreed to $200 allowance, but the deal fell apart over hosting, which I cannot do.

[TopDog69]

https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/e3193fbd-a211-4fa6-900c-9d22fa8bcf98

Any intel on this one? Thanks.This is the link:

https://members.seeking.com/member/ea665462-1f42-4bbd-876c-42123ba3c649

[RandomChance72]

Any of you guys got around being banned by SA? I already tried pleading ignorance and asking for a second try but didn't work.

[Mattis1775]

Any of you guys got around being banned by SA? I already tried pleading ignorance and asking for a second try but didn't work.No. It's useless to argue. Just open a new account with another email.

[Chuchunga]

Any of you guys got around being banned by SA? I already tried pleading ignorance and asking for a second try but didn't work.Just make a new account, dispute the charge with your CC and use a different card and email address.

[SalamanderFour]

Just make a new account, dispute the charge with your CC and use a different card and email address.What was the infraction? What are the limits; do / no do?

[Joe1223]

What was the infraction? What are the limits; do / no do?They usually don't tell you all the detail but all it takes is for one of the girls to report you for something they disliked. That happened to me on Bumble. Move off SA ASAP when talking with these girls. If they won't then set up a MG and talk details in person.

[Cumisher]

Been doing the agency thing for awhile now. Want to try something different. What is the success rate? Is it a lot of work? Meeting etc? It'll be nice to secure 2-3 regulars and not have to deal with the hit or miss stuff from agencies.

[Joe1223]

Been doing the agency thing for awhile now. Want to try something different. What is the success rate? Is it a lot of work? Meeting etc? It'll be nice to secure 2-3 regulars and not have to deal with the hit or miss stuff from agencies.Assuming you are interested in hot young college age ladies then it may be worth it. Everyone has different standards but don't confuse the Sugar baby sites for escorts sites. It takes time, sometimes a lot of it, money, usually more than you are hoping to shell out, and patience as the younger ladies can be a bit flaky as they try to wrap their head around the sex for money thing. Some girls will try to just sell content or want to be a "friend without benefits".

Personally I like the SB route vs the escorts and have found some good ladies ranging from 200-400. I never exceed 400 and typically only keep a long term arrangement for 200-350 max. I would say it is a part time job but others seem to have multiple girls at any given time. It all depends on your personal taste in women. I have a particular type I am attracted too and willing to pay and it may limit the selections. If you are near Boston or other larger city or University you may find a larger pool to choose from. I am in NH so the ratio of quality ladies is somewhat less but I am also not working a bunch of girls at the same time.

Test it out for a month and see how it works for you. If you get frustrated then move back to what you know.

[Hobbyist420]

Personally I like the SB route vs the escorts and have found some good ladies ranging from 200-400. I never exceed 400 and typically only keep a long term arrangement for 200-350 max. I would say it is a part time job but others seem to have multiple girls at any given time. It all depends on your personal taste in women. I have a particular type I am attracted too and willing to pay and it may limit the selections. If you are near Boston or other larger city or University you may find a larger pool to choose fromI will add as someone who lives in Boston area, I usually find it harder to find ladies in my price range (same as yours) as much as I used to pre-pandemic (and pre-sugar baby advice social media).

Great talent on north shore, providence, however for me latest round so far. Also noticing more semi-pro moms, but that can be a plus too if you are into that type of thing and they usually are BBFS.

[suaimmagine]

I will add as someone who lives in Boston area, I usually find it harder to find ladies in my price range (same as yours) as much as I used to pre-pandemic (and pre-sugar baby advice social media).

Great talent on north shore, providence, however for me latest round so far. Also noticing more semi-pro moms, but that can be a plus too if you are into that type of thing and they usually are BBFS.Agree completely. Boston SB's are developing crazy expectations. Providence is better. Either way, BBFS and better value than escorts make it worth the effort. It's a lot of work weeding through scammers, rinsers, and fake SB's that want to be paid for platonic dates. Worth the effort IMHO.

[Accu13]

So I just made a new premium account. I've used the site a few years ago. I don't get much time to 'play around' working from home, but I got a perfect window of opportunity this Thursday. I really don't have time to weed through all the BS. Anyone have a reliable, willing to do everything on the first meeting, preferably younger, contact? I plan on being more active in the future, but don't want to miss this opportunity by lining something up with a flake who will no-show, or want to meet a few times before taking it to the next level. Thanks in advance. Hopefully.

[Gianni Versace]

Assuming you are interested in hot young college age ladies then it may be worth it. Everyone has different standards but don't confuse the Sugar baby sites for escorts sites. It takes time, sometimes a lot of it, money, usually more than you are hoping to shell out, and patience as the younger ladies can be a bit flaky as they try to wrap their head around the sex for money thing. Some girls will try to just sell content or want to be a "friend without benefits".

Personally I like the SB route vs the escorts and have found some good ladies ranging from 200-400. I never exceed 400 and typically only keep a long term arrangement for 200-350 max. I would say it is a part time job but others seem to have multiple girls at any given time. It all depends on your personal taste in women. I have a particular type I am attracted too and willing to pay and it may limit the selections. If you are near Boston or other larger city or University you may find a larger pool to choose from. I am in NH so the ratio of quality ladies is somewhat less but I am also not working a bunch of girls at the same time.

Test it out for a month and see how it works for you. If you get frustrated then move back to what you know.Interesting once I set the hook I immediately erase the term sugar baby and daddy from the girl. I never refer to myself as a sugar daddy and I immediately transition the relationship to being friends with benefits. Works for me.

[Gianni Versace]

Been doing the agency thing for awhile now. Want to try something different. What is the success rate? Is it a lot of work? Meeting etc? It'll be nice to secure 2-3 regulars and not have to deal with the hit or miss stuff from agencies.Yes and only if you can spend one full month working full time finding those few special girls. Personally my comfort zone is between $100-$150 so takes a lot more work. If you are willing to pay $200-$300 per meet you will do just fine. I personally still have a hard time paying a girl that amount of money.

[Joe1223]

So I just made a new premium account. I've used the site a few years ago. I don't get much time to 'play around' working from home, but I got a perfect window of opportunity this Thursday. I really don't have time to weed through all the BS. Anyone have a reliable, willing to do everything on the first meeting, preferably younger, contact? I plan on being more active in the future, but don't want to miss this opportunity by lining something up with a flake who will no-show, or want to meet a few times before taking it to the next level. Thanks in advance. Hopefully.SA and quick is a formula that won't work for the majority of girls on these sites. As mentioned in many posts it takes time sometimes a lot of time. You could probably cut right to the chase but then that takes money. Offer a girl $1 K and she will probably have no issue with meeting you without any screening. It sounds like you should be looking for a pro on an escort site if your time is limited.

If you are asking for a referral or a contact for a girl that others have already invested in than that may be a reach also. All of the girls I have seen are very much into discretion and prefer their info be kept private. Ofc depending on your location someone here may know a pro working SA and would be willing to share. Girls flaking in this game is as common as the sun setting so you need to plan for disappointment and just make it part of the equation. I would recommend an agency if you want more of a sure thing but even that has it's own drawbacks.

[Bran001]

As a long-time user of SA, I agree 1000%.


SA and quick is a formula that won't work for the majority of girls on these sites. As mentioned in many posts it takes time sometimes a lot of time. You could probably cut right to the chase but then that takes money. Offer a girl $1 K and she will probably have no issue with meeting you without any screening. It sounds like you should be looking for a pro on an escort site if your time is limited.

If you are asking for a referral or a contact for a girl that others have already invested in than that may be a reach also. All of the girls I have seen are very much into discretion and prefer their info be kept private. Ofc depending on your location someone here may know a pro working SA and would be willing to share. Girls flaking in this game is as common as the sun setting so you need to plan for disappointment and just make it part of the equation. I would recommend an agency if you want more of a sure thing but even that has it's own drawbacks.

[Evenings]

Man, I tried SA, but I don't have the patience. But I miss the days of easily finding the college coed types escorting. You'd think there'd be more given all the colleges in the area, but yeah. Most or all are on SA now. I have a friend who cross-checks SA with Tinder. If on Tinder, he'll message them there and occasionally meets up for free (price of drinks or whatever). But, it's like a part time job and he enjoys the "intrigue", although his hit rate is low. The girls want payment plus Hermes handbags. Yeah. No.

I guess all that's left for options is going to southeast Asia?


So I just made a new premium account. I've used the site a few years ago. I don't get much time to 'play around' working from home, but I got a perfect window of opportunity this Thursday. I really don't have time to weed through all the BS. Anyone have a reliable, willing to do everything on the first meeting, preferably younger, contact? I plan on being more active in the future, but don't want to miss this opportunity by lining something up with a flake who will no-show, or want to meet a few times before taking it to the next level. Thanks in advance. Hopefully.

[Bran001]

It iS time-consuming but the gems are there. The young women (I focus more 22-25) I like do want payment, but not Hermes. More like Patagonia. And 90% of them are bi.


Man, I tried SA, but I don't have the patience. But I miss the days of easily finding the college coed types escorting. You'd think there'd be more given all the colleges in the area, but yeah. Most or all are on SA now. I have a friend who cross-checks SA with Tinder. If on Tinder, he'll message them there and occasionally meets up for free (price of drinks or whatever). But, it's like a part time job and he enjoys the "intrigue", although his hit rate is low. The girls want payment plus Hermes handbags. Yeah. No.

I guess all that's left for options is going to southeast Asia?

[Bran001]

Any of you guys got around being banned by SA? I already tried pleading ignorance and asking for a second try but didn't work.Any messaging about "PPM" and such is likely to get you banned on SA now. DO NOT talk money in SA chat.

[Style20]

Any messaging about "PPM" and such is likely to get you banned on SA now. DO NOT talk money in SA chat.So what Is the point of of the site then? Do they want you to pay and add these girls to message them about your life and not meeting people?

[CandyMan555]

https://members.seeking.com/member/d47d0956-5fea-4ef4-9b41-9067c94da977

Supposed to be in Malden Info appreciated Thanks CMN.

[PatMine22]

https://members.seeking.com/member/d47d0956-5fea-4ef4-9b41-9067c94da977

Supposed to be in Malden Info appreciated Thanks CMN.She was reviewed on here maybe search Daisy? Supposedly a street walker / casino girl / ex drug addict. I think there was one good review and multiple negative ones.

[PatMine22]

This one is "PrettyCee" is annoying.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e1ee524a-a56f-4ea2-bd11-92cda17859bf

She had another profile last month saying that she saved her mouth for her boyfriend. She would have sex with you behind his back but no BJ or kissing. She seemed to be okay with 250 per meet but then wouldn't return texts consistently or make time to meet. I'm not sure she's real. Her story is she has now ditched the boyfriend. I think she is in East Boston.

[ColoHobbyist]

So what Is the point of of the site then? Do they want you to pay and add these girls to message them about your life and not meeting people?The point is to use the site to make a connection. Get a basic idea of whether they're looking for something short term, long term, or <gasp romantic, THEN move off the site to text / Kik / WhatsApp / etc to work out specifics and logistics.

The girls that are DTF for a price know what's up. The ones that want something else generally don't. If you suggest going to texting and they say yes, better than 90% chance you'll seal the deal if your numbers work.

[Joe1223]

This one is "PrettyCee" is annoying.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e1ee524a-a56f-4ea2-bd11-92cda17859bf

She had another profile last month saying that she saved her mouth for her boyfriend. She would have sex with you behind his back but no BJ or kissing. She seemed to be okay with 250 per meet but then wouldn't return texts consistently or make time to meet. I'm not sure she's real. Her story is she has now ditched the boyfriend. I think she is in East Boston.When they state "I won't do anything physical unless I'm sexually attracted to you " just move on. The majority are attracted to you for the cash option and she will probably set an outrageous price because she will never be attracted to you. These girls are not your gf or lover but will tolerate you for a certain amount of money. This one is upfront and s telling you she doesn't like you. I prefer a chemistry that isn't preconceived in the description. I find if you can have a normal conversation and the donation is discussed during the first meeting she will either signal that she can stand you for a little while or not. I chose not pursue girls that I have to convince to fuck me or pay outrageous money. I tell them what I will pay, including a hotel, if hosting is an issue and they either agree, think about it or decline. It is usually a lot of work to get to this point so if I have to continue to earn my way into the bedroom at each meeting I just say no thank you and move on. You need to establish a comfortable amount you want to pay, a particular type or class of girl and then go from there. You can't hit everyone of them as you will suffer from blue ball burn out while you sort thru them all. I like to hang on to the ones I match with as long as I can because the hunt for replacements is a *****. Even the long term girls can become a labor of love so set your limitations and stick to them. This one sounds like she is full of drama before you even meet her as in boyfriend. Quit while you are ahead and still have the money in your pocket.

[Richcecato33]

Hello fellow mongers! Do any of you have any info on this girl? I've been talking to her and may see her soon, but any info about her would be very appreciated.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4fb4c1bc-58fd-419a-a5d1-beb5f7eaea46

[FriendlyKing]

Long time reader, first time posting. Thought of sharing some info, not very active on SA but met some women over the past couple of months. As many others always say, it takes time and effort for sure.

Olinda.

Dominican. Pics are 80% accurate, she might have gained couple of pounds compared to the pics. Not sure if she hosts, I always meet in the hotel the first time. Agreed for 300 over text and she showed up at the hotel. The deed was very mechanical and she was unable to take the pounding and asked me to stop. She gave some stupid reason and wanted to leave, I just gave her the money and asked her to GTFO.

Diana.

Brazilian. Pcs are accurate. Good body, clean and was very eager to please. She was involved in the act and spent 2+ hours with me. 300.

I met another women who is a working professional in the same field as mine. We hit it off well and we meet frequently. No money involved, FWB kinda arrangement. She is off SA now.

It definitely takes time to scan through the profiles in SA but still I prefer SA over escort sites.

[SaltWaterLbc]

Hello fellow mongers! Do any of you have any info on this girl? I've been talking to her and may see her soon, but any info about her would be very appreciated.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4fb4c1bc-58fd-419a-a5d1-beb5f7eaea46Says she doesn't have a car and someone will drive her?. I said they will just wait around? She said for like an hour or two. I am in Boston, so 3 hour drive there and back, then maybe an hour here. Sound suspect but, maybe I am overly paranoid. Let me know if she is worth it.

[Joey1994]

Hello fellow mongers! Do any of you have any info on this girl? I've been talking to her and may see her soon, but any info about her would be very appreciated.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4fb4c1bc-58fd-419a-a5d1-beb5f7eaea46I get the underage vibe. Who leads with "I'm 20"?

[Oscar13]

Says she doesn't have a car and someone will drive her?. I said they will just wait around? She said for like an hour or two. I am in Boston, so 3 hour drive there and back, then maybe an hour here. Sound suspect but, maybe I am overly paranoid. Let me know if she is worth it.I had almost the same conversation with her. Truck being fixed, pays someone to give her rides. That someone would drop her off and go "have dinner or something. " Sounded sketchy to me for that reason, and figured even if it was completely straight up it would be a rush job. Quoted $400 and for that I'm not looking to be rushed.

[Hobbyist420]

I met another women who is a working professional in the same field as mine. We hit it off well and we meet frequently. No money involved, FWB kinda arrangement. She is off SA now.Great to hear. I found a few free FWB situations pre-2020. Some women just want good time and dick. SA would be the place to find it now, you'd think, with CL and BP gone where a woman can be discreet and get dick.

SBing in itself has become a business. But we've all been inside for 2+ years and you just got to get a little lucky to find that girl who is looking for the above.

[SaltWaterLbc]

I had almost the same conversation with her. Truck being fixed, pays someone to give her rides. That someone would drop her off and go "have dinner or something. " Sounded sketchy to me for that reason, and figured even if it was completely straight up it would be a rush job. Quoted $400 and for that I'm not looking to be rushed.Yeah $400 for a rush or rob, all set. I have three other SB's that are good to me. So that is a pass for me. Although I need an Asian and a redhead to complete met set.

[Bran001]

So what Is the point of of the site then? Do they want you to pay and add these girls to message them about your life and not meeting people?Well the point of the site first and foremost is to stay in business. And after FOSTA-SESTA they won't stay in business if they permit sexual acts for money to be negotiated on the site.

The strategy is simple. Find initial mutual interest on the site and then move quickly to texting / WhatsApp / etc.

If the girl doesn't know that talking "PPM" etc will get you banned, tell her. "SA bans people for talking money here on the site. We should text to discuss more details. ".

[HankChinanski]

Hello fellow mongers! Do any of you have any info on this girl? I've been talking to her and may see her soon, but any info about her would be very appreciated.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4fb4c1bc-58fd-419a-a5d1-beb5f7eaea46Been chatting with her on snap, from the score on her snap plus the profile she's definitely real but I think a pimp / handler is involved (more than likely her driver or personal Uber as she says to me) as well as hard drugs judging how sporadic she'll hit me up and then ghost for a couple of hours or so after setting something up and completely forgetting our conversations. Was supposed to come over last night but didn't hear from her again until after a few hours and I was asleep at that point. She set her boundaries to me which only things not on the table is anal, face fucking and bdsm. If anyone actually meets her I'd like to hear how it went.

[Richcecato33]

Been chatting with her on snap, from the score on her snap plus the profile she's definitely real but I think a pimp / handler is involved (more than likely her driver or personal Uber as she says to me) as well as hard drugs judging how sporadic she'll hit me up and then ghost for a couple of hours or so after setting something up and completely forgetting our conversations. Was supposed to come over last night but didn't hear from her again until after a few hours and I was asleep at that point. She set her boundaries to me which only things not on the table is anal, face fucking and bdsm. If anyone actually meets her I'd like to hear how it went.I haven't see. Her yet, but she is definitely real. I've seen her profile on FB and her sister is also on SA. I ended up sending her some $ for few vids and it's defined her on the vids, the cashapp is on her sister name. Her sister is pretty hot, older and married to a ex UFC fighter who attempted suicide and now has some brain damage from it. They all leave together along with her sisters 3 kids. She asked me to pick her up the day we meet, I will report my experience as I may TOFTT, just need to make my schedule work.

[SixtyNineX10]

Does anyone have feedback on this one?.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6e1ab090-6518-46b4-9fa9-970c80dd0235

[HankChinanski]

I haven't see. Her yet, but she is definitely real. I've seen her profile on FB and her sister is also on SA. I ended up sending her some $ for few vids and it's defined her on the vids, the cashapp is on her sister name. Her sister is pretty hot, older and married to a ex UFC fighter who attempted suicide and now has some brain damage from it. They all leave together along with her sisters 3 kids. She asked me to pick her up the day we meet, I will report my experience as I may TOFTT, just need to make my schedule work.Just met her finally and she's real. Seemed new at this by how she was acting but she was cool just have weed and offer to smoke her up when you hang with her.

[SaltWaterLbc]

Just met her finally and she's real. Seemed new at this by how she was acting but she was cool just have weed and offer to smoke her up when you hang with her.Was she good though? And she okay with bare?

[FriendlyKing]

Great to hear. I found a few free FWB situations pre-2020. Some women just want good time and dick. SA would be the place to find it now, you'd think, with CL and BP gone where a woman can be discreet and get dick.

SBing in itself has become a business. But we've all been inside for 2+ years and you just got to get a little lucky to find that girl who is looking for the above.I had one such arrangement in the past too. The only issue is, they tend to get emotionally attached to you after a period of time and you have to cut them off.

[PlayTrey]

Anybody been with this one: https://members.seeking.com/member/585e27ff-13d9-4783-be24-d33b1adc2747.

[PlayTrey]

Any information on this one: https://members.seeking.com/member/585e27ff-13d9-4783-be24-d33b1adc2747.

[Hobbyist420]

Does anyone have feedback on this one?.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6e1ab090-6518-46b4-9fa9-970c80dd0235400, BBFS. Nice body, GFE, good time but is def had semi-pro mom vibes.

[ColoHobbyist]

Great to hear. I found a few free FWB situations pre-2020. Some women just want good time and dick. SA would be the place to find it now, you'd think, with CL and BP gone where a woman can be discreet and get dick.

SBing in itself has become a business. But we've all been inside for 2+ years and you just got to get a little lucky to find that girl who is looking for the above.I've had a lot of success finding free FWB situations on SA & SB. There are three important things that have led to my success with this:

1) Don't look for this. These women are out there, but you find them by looking for an actual sugar relationship, not freebies or a UTR pro.

2) You can't be a troll. You have to have game and look decent.

3) Be okay with a 6 or below. The girls just looking to get laid aren't the hottest out there. If they were hot, they'd be charging or hooking up the old fashioned way.

Added tip: These kinds of girls don't last on the sites. Keep your eye on new profiles and snag 'them quick.

[Spike77]

I've had a lot of success finding free FWB situations on SA & SB. There are three important things that have led to my success with this:

1) Don't look for this. These women are out there, but you find them by looking for an actual sugar relationship, not freebies or a UTR pro.

2) You can't be a troll. You have to have game and look decent.

3) Be okay with a 6 or below. The girls just looking to get laid aren't the hottest out there. If they were hot, they'd be charging or hooking up the old fashioned way.

Added tip: These kinds of girls don't last on the sites. Keep your eye on new profiles and snag 'them quick.To each their own but I can bang ugly women for free without this site. The reason I go to SA is to bang young hot women. Money isn't a huge issue for me but I do have a price range that I look for. I have been asked in the past by a couple of SBs if I wanted to date traditionally but not sure I could date someone 20 plus years age difference.

[Javazer]

To each their own but I can bang ugly women for free without this site. The reason I go to SA is to bang young hot women. Money isn't a huge issue for me but I do have a price range that I look for. I have been asked in the past by a couple of SBs if I wanted to date traditionally but not sure I could date someone 20 plus years age difference.I am with you there. Would only meet 7 or higher in the scale. Look and chemistry are very important to me rather than the number of girls I see. Right now, my mood is into MILF with a regular job.

[SixtyNineX10]

Doing them for free is ok though. Now having said that, there are exceptions to every rule and I too like MILF's so I stretch the rules for them. Used to see a really hot 40 yo, just an unbelievable body with perfect fake tits, a great ass and mid section you could bounce quarters off of.

I honestly never felt bad about giving her sugar, she was so worth it. I mean how else could I ever get with one like that again? I have some game, but I am not young. LOL. And truthfully, she was really not all that great in the rack, but wow that body. It was like an addiction for me.

[Gianni Versace]

She began asking for $300 PPM. Finally agreed on $125. BBBJ, CIM & BBFS.

https://members.seeking.com/member/080929c6-fea1-47fc-a32e-575e1417c1c4

Fair warning. Although pictures looked good. She is much thicker / larger in person. I would definitely classify her as a small bbw. If you like really big girls that are decent looking than this one could be for you. Sadly I am not into big girls.

[BR1201]

I've had a couple who wanted to move to dating and one actually started hinting at moving in together and possible marriage. I was like whooooaaa there. Pumped the brakes on that. Possibly pumped the brakes a little too hard so she now only sees me once a month at best. But it's better than having a hot stalker or stage 5 clinger I guess. Have to once in awhile remind myself why I'm on there and that is to bang hot twenty somethings with no strings LOL.

I was seeing an Indian girl from BU for a few months and she never asked for an allowance. I just bought a few meals and some gifts. Then she started treating me like a BF asked to go on a double date and meet her friends and I immediately ghosted her. I feel bad but not that bad. Got to set boundaries.

On the banging an ugly girl for an allowance topic I have done that when it wasn't horrible. Usually a case where they posted old pics and had gained since then. It's a little awkward in a hotel room to not bang them when you've already made the effort. There are a few I do regret and now I do a photo verify before meeting or meet in public to weed out the weeds.

[BR1201]

She began asking for $300 PPM. Finally agreed on $125. BBBJ, CIM & BBFS.

https://members.seeking.com/member/080929c6-fea1-47fc-a32e-575e1417c1c4

Fair warning. Although pictures looked good. She is much thicker / larger in person. I would definitely classify her as a small bbw. If you like really big girls that are decent looking than this one could be for you. Sadly I am not into big girls.I can't access the profile but kudos to you, $125 is pretty much can't lose. Small BBWs need love too!

[Gianni Versace]

Finally got to see Destiny who I thought was hosting in Salem but actually hosts from her apt in Lynn Ma. I believe she hosts from some sort of transitional housing. She asked for $150. I suggested $100 and we compromised at $120 for an hour multiple pops. Good BBBJ cfs not a clock watcher.

https://members.seeking.com/member/570a0a35-5d9f-41d4-9878-d2568f3ac27d

I think she is fairly new to this. Doesn't seem like a pro.

[Gianni Versace]

I can't access the profile but kudos to you, $125 is pretty much can't lose. Small BBWs need love too!I have to admit SA has treated me pretty well all 3 times I have been on it. Thank you man.

[TopDog69]

https://members.seeking.com/member/beca5f44-3683-41fe-8e3e-14c1add2b43c

Anyone seen this chick? She's been stalking me a little bit. A bit scammy at times.

[Tdg222]

Finally got to see Destiny who I thought was hosting in Salem but actually hosts from her apt in Lynn Ma. I believe she hosts from some sort of transitional housing. She asked for $150. I suggested $100 and we compromised at $120 for an hour multiple pops. Good BBBJ cfs not a clock watcher.

https://members.seeking.com/member/570a0a35-5d9f-41d4-9878-d2568f3ac27d

I think she is fairly new to this. Doesn't seem like a pro.Can you share her number message me thanks.

[PlayTrey]

Anybody talk to this girl https://members.seeking.com/member/699fd6a8-69b4-4adf-9788-0d05746cb51a.

This sound too easy. I don't want to get robbed. She is willing to host.

[Hobbyist420]

I can't access the profile but kudos to you, $125 is pretty much can't lose. Small BBWs need love too!


She began asking for $300 PPM. Finally agreed on $125. BBBJ, CIM & BBFS.

https://members.seeking.com/member/080929c6-fea1-47fc-a32e-575e1417c1c4

Fair warning. Although pictures looked good. She is much thicker / larger in person. I would definitely classify her as a small bbw. If you like really big girls that are decent looking than this one could be for you. Sadly I am not into big girls.I bagged for $200 but covered, well done. I do think she was on BP before but not for a long time; her pics are also old and she is bigger than pics but she does have a big round booty. I didn't repeat.

[NicosWave24]

After my first month on seeking I managed to bag a couple. First is a Mid twenties, normal girl, has a real job, total smokeshow, world class natural tits and this tattoo that drives me nuts. I'm totally addicted LOL and to top it all off she's just really cool to chill with I think we kicked it for like 5 hrs the first time we hung out. Only problem is, she's just not that great of a lay, and headgame is weak af. I keep going back tho just for that body!

Second one is this little Bbw chick who turned out bigger than she led on but I went with it anyways after meet and greet. She's not huge, but I'd say not quite fat but more than thick. She swears she's a newbie and even said she hadn't been laid at all in like 4 years. That being said though she is orgasmic af, has a soaking wet juicy pussy, and head game on point. Also down for anything / trying mee stuff.

Going to see them each some more I just wish I could take the bbw's skills and giv them to the smokeshow. Such a woman would be wife material. If I didn't already have one of those lmao.

[Potholes774]

For those of you desperate to get some. She will except 100. Don't take the first amount she says. At first I thought to good to be true until I asked her for pictures and now I know why. Definitely a hard pass for me but maybe one of you would take one for the team LOL.

https://members.seeking.com/member/96544b6b-8342-4ec9-8988-2abb48eb4d8f

[NewEngland]

Going to be down that way on business trip wondering if anyone has 411 on this mid age women.

https://members.seeking.com/member/bad76812-e91a-41dd-be76-a9774fdbe5f3

[DotHill]

Anybody talk to this girl https://members.seeking.com/member/699fd6a8-69b4-4adf-9788-0d05746cb51a.

This sound too easy. I don't want to get robbed. She is willing to host.Block the Tamale. The first message is "I am ready to suck that big * daddy!" Out you go to the block list! Don't waste your time.

[JMan98]

Hello fellow mongers! Do any of you have any info on this girl? I've been talking to her and may see her soon, but any info about her would be very appreciated.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4fb4c1bc-58fd-419a-a5d1-beb5f7eaea46Have you met up with her yet?? Cannot tell if she is real or not.

[IAmDreaman35]

After my first month on seeking I managed to bag a couple. First is a Mid twenties, normal girl, has a real job, total smokeshow, world class natural tits and this tattoo that drives me nuts. I'm totally addicted LOL and to top it all off she's just really cool to chill with I think we kicked it for like 5 hrs the first time we hung out. Only problem is, she's just not that great of a lay, and headgame is weak af. I keep going back tho just for that body!

Second one is this little Bbw chick who turned out bigger than she led on but I went with it anyways after meet and greet. She's not huge, but I'd say not quite fat but more than thick. She swears she's a newbie and even said she hadn't been laid at all in like 4 years. That being said though she is orgasmic af, has a soaking wet juicy pussy, and head game on point. Also down for anything / trying mee stuff.

Going to see them each some more I just wish I could take the bbw's skills and giv them to the smokeshow. Such a woman would be wife material. If I didn't already have one of those lmao.How does this whole Seeking Arrangements thing work? Can you really find quality girls on there? Trying to build a new rotation and what about prices? What is the average donation price for a lady on there? And are any of them BBFS friendly? I might have to look into this.

[MinorLeague]

How does this whole Seeking Arrangements thing work? Can you really find quality girls on there? Trying to build a new rotation and what about prices? What is the average donation price for a lady on there? And are any of them BBFS friendly? I might have to look into this.SA was much better a few years ago; for a time I had three at the same time, all under 21, tight bodies, beautiful faces, one was an actual runway model, all BBFS; they even let me film. These days there are a lot of below average girls (I'd rate most under a 5/10) as well as haggard, old ones and pro's. Also if you see average / BBW in their profile they're likely just fat. You can probably find someone pretty easily to bang for under $$$ but I'm not into that since 1. I could do that for free probably in the civilian world and 2. I can see a pro with a much nicer face / body.

You can find an occasional diamond in the rough, but it can take a very long time and a lot of messaging and pricing might be high. My last arrangement ended about 2/3 years ago and I haven't found anyone meeting my preferences yet. But when you find a 9 or 10 and BBFS, BBBJCIMNQNS Greek etc it's well worth it in my opinion. I've stayed on SA and paid the monthly fees because when I do find someone hot it's someone I couldn't get at home, at a bar, or hobbying.

[Hobbyist420]

SA was much better a few years ago; for a time I had three at the same time, all under 21, tight bodies, beautiful faces, one was an actual runway model, all BBFS; they even let me film. These days there are a lot of below average girls (I'd rate most under a 5/10) as well as haggard, old ones and pro's. Also if you see average / BBW in their profile they're likely just fat. You can probably find someone pretty easily to bang for under $$$ but I'm not into that since 1. I could do that for free probably in the civilian world and 2. I can see a pro with a much nicer face / body.

You can find an occasional diamond in the rough, but it can take a very long time and a lot of messaging and pricing might be high. My last arrangement ended about 2/3 years ago and I haven't found anyone meeting my preferences yet. But when you find a 9 or 10 and BBFS, BBBJCIMNQNS Greek etc it's well worth it in my opinion. I've stayed on SA and paid the monthly fees because when I do find someone hot it's someone I couldn't get at home, at a bar, or hobbying.Agree with this. Although as noted, the pickings are slimmer (although less scammers than say a few months ago. Still exist, but not as bad as 2021). And it takes longer / luck to find that attractive UTR or even the reliable BBFS semi-pro. But success on this last run, although not what it used to be in terms of ease and cost and amount of women that actually are serious/interested.

Before COVID, SA was much easier for sure. Within a 36 hour period, I had 3 SA women: gave a 18 year old a facial, multi-hour BBFS with a 28 year old big booty mom, and creampied a 19 year old: all for 300 a piece.

Sadly, those days are gone or you have to pay 1 K+. Even had a mom quote me more than $600 today LOL on to the next one.

[NicosWave24]

How does this whole Seeking Arrangements thing work? Can you really find quality girls on there? Trying to build a new rotation and what about prices? What is the average donation price for a lady on there? And are any of them BBFS friendly? I might have to look into this.I paid for 1 month in January and found the 2 I talked about. The hot one was 350 first meet but has been less since and the bbw was 2. The latter I may have over paid the one time I saw her but I had a good time. The bbw was down for BBFS but I don't mess with that, too risky for me personally. It takes a lot of time and effort texting a bunch to weed through the bs was it was totally worth it for me. I had a 3rd that was def real and willing but wanted too much and a 4th that I haven't been make our schedules work yet. Send out a lot of messages and switch to texting quickly helps to weed out some. Be picky with the ones you txt and actually think you can meet rather than up front with who you message. The more lines in the water the more likely one of them gets hooked.

[FindFun]

For those of you desperate to get some. She will except 100. Don't take the first amount she says. At first I thought to good to be true until I asked her for pictures and now I know why. Definitely a hard pass for me but maybe one of you would take one for the team LOL.

https://members.seeking.com/member/96544b6b-8342-4ec9-8988-2abb48eb4d8fI know of this one. I will say that the loss of my self esteem outweighed any monetary cost incurred.

[Potholes774]

Happy Thursday guys. I found another one that will except $100. Again don't accept her first amount. She will try to say she gets 400 from guys just for hanging out which I doubt it. Definitely not worth more then 100. She's skinny and smells like cigarettes. The way she talks you can tell she's been using in the past (has all her teeth LOL). You would have to host. Sadly her pictures were deceiving on her profile. I give her a 2 out 10. Take that as you will. Good luck and happy hunting.

https://members.seeking.com/member/beca5f44-3683-41fe-8e3e-14c1add2b43c

[RandomChance72]

Just met her finally and she's real. Seemed new at this by how she was acting but she was cool just have weed and offer to smoke her up when you hang with her.I spend a lot of time in her area. If she's okay with you passing on her contact info I'd take it. Unfortunately I'm on SA timeout so I can't message her myself.

[Potholes774]

Happy Thursday guys. I found another one that will except $100. Again don't accept her first amount. She will try to say she gets 400 from guys just for hanging out which I doubt it. Definitely not worth more then 100. She's skinny and smells like cigarettes. The way she talks you can tell she's been using in the past (has all her teeth LOL). You would have to host. Sadly her pictures were deceiving on her profile. I give her a 2 out 10. Take that as you will. Good luck and happy hunting.

https://members.seeking.com/member/beca5f44-3683-41fe-8e3e-14c1add2b43cI meant to say accept not except LOL.

[JMan98]

Been chatting with her on snap, from the score on her snap plus the profile she's definitely real but I think a pimp / handler is involved (more than likely her driver or personal Uber as she says to me) as well as hard drugs judging how sporadic she'll hit me up and then ghost for a couple of hours or so after setting something up and completely forgetting our conversations. Was supposed to come over last night but didn't hear from her again until after a few hours and I was asleep at that point. She set her boundaries to me which only things not on the table is anal, face fucking and bdsm. If anyone actually meets her I'd like to hear how it went.I met her, picked her up at her house. Does live with sister, no transportation as of now because her truck is broken. She is the girl in pics and is 20. No BBFS because not on bc. Good BBBJ, spent a couple hours with me. .4 oo.

[TheList00]

Looks like Daisy made a new friend.

https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/zblQBO8R0Qgp3d8JVowp6mEX

[PlayTrey]

I know of this one. I will say that the loss of my self esteem outweighed any monetary cost incurred.I reached out to her. Just never respond to me. I guess I don't have what it takes.

[PlayTrey]

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[TopDog69]

Happy Thursday guys. I found another one that will except $100. Again don't accept her first amount. She will try to say she gets 400 from guys just for hanging out which I doubt it. Definitely not worth more then 100. She's skinny and smells like cigarettes. The way she talks you can tell she's been using in the past (has all her teeth LOL). You would have to host. Sadly her pictures were deceiving on her profile. I give her a 2 out 10. Take that as you will. Good luck and happy hunting.

https://members.seeking.com/member/beca5f44-3683-41fe-8e3e-14c1add2b43cMet her at dunks. Bought her a coffee, I was offering to get her something to eat too as she looked like she needed some food. She didn't want any. Chat with her for 5 minutes and left. Didn't want to make her feel bad. One of those situation meeting up before definitely helped. $3 coffee saved the hotel cost and 'what the fuck did I just do" guilt.

[Potholes774]

I reached out to her. Just never respond to me. I guess I don't have what it takes.Oh, maybe it depends how you're approaching her. Trust me it's not going to take much. She sounds desperate for cash.

[PlayTrey]

Oh, maybe it depends how you're approaching her. Trust me it's not going to take much. She sounds desperate for cash.She finally did. She's not bad looking. Looks thin, but looks kind of like a guy.

[Tribeca67]

Think she's in Lynn.

[Potholes774]

She finally did. She's not bad looking. Looks thin, but looks kind of like a guy.Hahahaha yes! That's what threw me off like WTF looks like a dude haha. Don't do it! But if you do, good luck and stay safe!

[SixtyNineX10]

I assume someone has feedback on this lady. Looks like she has been on the site for 6 years or so. Any intel would be great. Thanks.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b167b7cd-5b32-4baf-a02b-79247d498eee

[PlayTrey]

Just curious, A lot of the arrangement do you guys spend multiple hours with them? I feel like I was out hustle. Before we meet she say she could stay for a few hours. Well first of all she was over an hour late. She say she was sharing car with her mom. When I was done, she say she have to leave early so she can give her car back to her mom. Any of you guys have an experience with this, where the girl making excuses to leave early?.

[SwimSays]

Just curious, A lot of the arrangement do you guys spend multiple hours with them? I feel like I was out hustle. Before we meet she say she could stay for a few hours. Well first of all she was over an hour late. She say she was sharing car with her mom. When I was done, she say she have to leave early so she can give her car back to her mom. Any of you guys have an experience with this, where the girl making excuses to leave early?.Completely varies girl to girl / encounter to encounter. I try to set and manage expectations going into a meeting before hand so everyone is on the same page. If the excuses are already flowing then I would just move on.

[Joe1223]

Just curious, A lot of the arrangement do you guys spend multiple hours with them? I feel like I was out hustle. Before we meet she say she could stay for a few hours. Well first of all she was over an hour late. She say she was sharing car with her mom. When I was done, she say she have to leave early so she can give her car back to her mom. Any of you guys have an experience with this, where the girl making excuses to leave early?.Sounds like she isn't into you. Best to accept that and continue with whatever you can get with her or just move on. Typically it is a chemistry the college girls or single mothers are looking for to hold her interest. They learn fast that getting money isn't the hard part but being able to deal with older dudes banging them is the challenge. If she is a pro or semi pro then she may just want to get it done and make a few bucks with zero attachment risks.

Having the ability to carry on a conversation with younger girls is an art in itself if you are a lot older then them. If you can't keep them entertained beyond just a chew and screw then they probably won't put any extra effort into it.

[FrogPilot]

Just curious, A lot of the arrangement do you guys spend multiple hours with them? I feel like I was out hustle. Before we meet she say she could stay for a few hours. Well first of all she was over an hour late. She say she was sharing car with her mom. When I was done, she say she have to leave early so she can give her car back to her mom. Any of you guys have an experience with this, where the girl making excuses to leave early?.It absolutely varies from girl to girl, depending on how comfortable they are with you, the situation, and what they are looking to get out of the relationship. I've been with some who are basically escorts, they want to show up, provide sex, and leave (this is not always a bad thing). Others, once comfortable, hang out a bit more, to varying degrees. And I'm seeing one right now who is at the other end of the spectrum, we usually spend the entire day together, going to restaurants, museums, sporting events, etc. And sometimes she stays over, which is great to get another pop in the morning without any added cost.

If it's important to you, as someone else said, just be up front with her about what your expectations are and move on if she can't meet them. Or use it as a bargaining chip to try to negotiate a cheaper price if she can only spend a limited amount of time with you, haha that's what I'd do.

[PlayTrey]

It absolutely varies from girl to girl, depending on how comfortable they are with you, the situation, and what they are looking to get out of the relationship. I've been with some who are basically escorts, they want to show up, provide sex, and leave (this is not always a bad thing). Others, once comfortable, hang out a bit more, to varying degrees. And I'm seeing one right now who is at the other end of the spectrum, we usually spend the entire day together, going to restaurants, museums, sporting events, etc. And sometimes she stays over, which is great to get another pop in the morning without any added cost.

If it's important to you, as someone else said, just be up front with her about what your expectations are and move on if she can't meet them. Or use it as a bargaining chip to try to negotiate a cheaper price if she can only spend a limited amount of time with you, haha that's what I'd do.I'm pretty much new to this and only spend a week on this website before I got banned. I talk to her and got to know her in the beginning. I pretty much ask her through text before meeting if she is going to hang round and she say she can hang around for a couple of hours if I want. I do remembered she ask if I want her to come back. I just say no because it's going to be late and who knows how long I'm going have to wait. Its not a bad thing. I was hoping to go another round after paying so much.

[BR1201]

I assume someone has feedback on this lady. Looks like she has been on the site for 6 years or so. Any intel would be great. Thanks.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b167b7cd-5b32-4baf-a02b-79247d498eeeI'm pretty sure she was reviewed on here in the last 3 months. If I recall correctly she was on the north shore in Malden, Revere, Danvers maybe? 400 per date. I think BBFS and BBBJ CIM were on the menu. She was heavier than her pics and the reviewer said he would repeat if it wasn't so expensive. I'll keep looking back through the archives LOL.

[Gianni Versace]

I'm pretty sure she was reviewed on here in the last 3 months. If I recall correctly she was on the north shore in Malden, Revere, Danvers maybe? 400 per date. I think BBFS and BBBJ CIM were on the menu. She was heavier than her pics and the reviewer said he would repeat if it wasn't so expensive. I'll keep looking back through the archives LOL.Any girl that has been on the site for that long is a hard pass. If she has been on the site for that long she must be damaged goods. Thats like a hardened pro that nobody wants.

[RandomChance72]

Any girl that has been on the site for that long is a hard pass. If she has been on the site for that long she must be damaged goods. Thats like a hardened pro that nobody wants.Or they have GPS.

[NicosWave24]

I met her, picked her up at her house. Does live with sister, no transportation as of now because her truck is broken. She is the girl in pics and is 20. No BBFS because not on bc. Good BBBJ, spent a couple hours with me. .4 oo.Did you just take her to a hotel? Any signs of demons or anything sketchy?

[BR1201]

Probably a fake profile. Location says Ireland. I just thought the pic of her ass in the mirror is funny. Looks like she took a dump and didn't wipe. Yuck LOL.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f7b5d623-cf72-4998-ac82-a0d94cbf6bf2

[Waznak]

Any reviews on https://members.seeking.com/member/09d24efb-e22f-4d4e-a5a1-3171ac7ff8d9 ?

I think she goes by HumbleGymGirl before I guess.

[HankChinanski]

Happy Thursday guys. I found another one that will except $100. Again don't accept her first amount. She will try to say she gets 400 from guys just for hanging out which I doubt it. Definitely not worth more then 100. She's skinny and smells like cigarettes. The way she talks you can tell she's been using in the past (has all her teeth LOL). You would have to host. Sadly her pictures were deceiving on her profile. I give her a 2 out 10. Take that as you will. Good luck and happy hunting.

https://members.seeking.com/member/beca5f44-3683-41fe-8e3e-14c1add2b43cWish I saw this beforehand, she came to my place to chill and smoke weed. She seemed awkward the whole time, was able to converse but she totally was out of it, I'm suspecting she uses since we did talk about fooling around and coincidentally I offered 100, she seemed a little reluctant but took it although what transpired after she definitely didn't get it. She was so not into it and her not being into it made me not into it. She had some weird excuse like she's ticklish every where when I would touch her, didn't like to kiss, never heard the term "feel each other up" before. Asked her to give me head since I figured it wss the only way to get hard at this point, under a minute of my dick in her mouth she says she has terrible gag reflex and can't give head cause of done swollen tissue in her throat and admits she's not good at it. She says so where's the condom, I immediately address that I'm not hard and she's being awkward, do not pass go do not collect 100 dollars.

We finish the sopranos episode we were watching, she starting spouting a lot of "woe is me" and "I'm hungry and I have cigarettes and I'm so poor" I basically say if you're hinting you want money just ask. She does I tell her most I'll give her is 20, she asked if I could give her more and I say no. Immediately got her an Uber home after sending her the 20.

Do not bother with this one.

[Lily1234]

This one is also on sa. Always quick to reply so I assumed pro.

Anyone seen her?

https://tantra.eros.com/massachusetts/boston/files/4509459.htm?cat=6909

[Hobbyist420]

Just curious, A lot of the arrangement do you guys spend multiple hours with them? I feel like I was out hustle. Before we meet she say she could stay for a few hours. Well first of all she was over an hour late. She say she was sharing car with her mom. When I was done, she say she have to leave early so she can give her car back to her mom. Any of you guys have an experience with this, where the girl making excuses to leave early?.This one did this to me too, 400, same playbook and everything:

https://members.seeking.com/member/2ed946a6-4380-448b-966c-faa7ca90076f

I'm guessing her "mom" is actually her bf or something if this is the common excuse to get out once you bust. Not the first SB whose told me "only did this once before" (multiple times obv) or "had to borrow car from 'her mom' (which could also mean she's pulling multiple plays).

She wasn't late for me, she's like the pics, the booty was phat with BBBJ/CFS...but she was shy about kissing/DATY... and, yeah, probably not repeating now haha.

[TheList00]

Anyone meet or talk to her, have her snap and number, we texted, wants to meet quickly but feels kind of pro'ish, I feel like I seen her pics somewhere.

https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/485ac26e-620c-49f2-b124-3c4962b6d8a1

[TheList00]

https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/485ac26e-620c-49f2-b124-3c4962b6d8a1

Anyone seen or talked to her, looks familiar.

[Joe1223]

Anyone meet or talk to her, have her snap and number, we texted, wants to meet quickly but feels kind of pro'ish, I feel like I seen her pics somewhere.

https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/485ac26e-620c-49f2-b124-3c4962b6d8a1Can't open the link because it is linked to your messages.

Do you care if she is pro'ish or are you looking for just a "civilian"? If not then pull the trigger and see what she is all about otherwise do a M&G and feel her out. At least she isn't dragging her feet to meet you so you may as well see what she is about if you like her look. Did she give you a donation amount?

[TheList00]

Can't open the link because it is linked to your messages.

Do you care if she is pro'ish or are you looking for just a "civilian"? If not then pull the trigger and see what she is all about otherwise do a M&G and feel her out. At least she isn't dragging her feet to meet you so you may as well see what she is about if you like her look. Did she give you a donation amount?https://members.seeking.com/member/eca1f39a-9d92-4f87-9754-d7071e41181f

Sorry my fault on the link.

[CandyMan555]

https://members.seeking.com/member/eca1f39a-9d92-4f87-9754-d7071e41181f

Sorry my fault on the link.https://members.seeking.com/member/70624289-fc18-4380-ba17-39b60a0fd9f8

I think this is the same one from Arlington.

I should have given her 100 dollars as soon as she came into the room.

Looks like she came from Melina and Cass near Albany st skinny a size tits teeth missing unattractive excessive baby damage flab.

What was I thinking, An escort in NYC told me that if you don't like what you see give her some money and send her away.

I was not prepared for this.

Do your home work.

I am pretty sure these two are the same.

CM.

[Hobbyist420]

https://members.seeking.com/member/70624289-fc18-4380-ba17-39b60a0fd9f8

I think this is the same one from Arlington.

I should have given her 100 dollars as soon as she came into the room.

Looks like she came from Melina and Cass near Albany st skinny a size tits teeth missing unattractive excessive baby damage flab.

What was I thinking, An escort in NYC told me that if you don't like what you see give her some money and send her away.

I was not prepared for this.

Do your home work.

I am pretty sure these two are the same.

CM.Also another good rule of thumb:

If a girl makes a different number of accounts in a short amount time: avoid.

[Gianni Versace]

https://members.seeking.com/member/70624289-fc18-4380-ba17-39b60a0fd9f8

I think this is the same one from Arlington.

I should have given her 100 dollars as soon as she came into the room.

Looks like she came from Melina and Cass near Albany st skinny a size tits teeth missing unattractive excessive baby damage flab.

What was I thinking, An escort in NYC told me that if you don't like what you see give her some money and send her away.

I was not prepared for this.

Do your home work.

I am pretty sure these two are the same.

CM.Those 2 are the same. Glad I didn't see her. She originally agreed to $100 with multiple pops and she would host in Arlington. Than she asked me to buy her a cell phone instead of the $100. Needless to say I decided not to deal with her.

[Gianni Versace]

Also another good rule of thumb:

If a girl makes a different number of accounts in a short amount time: avoid.That is actually good advice. Any idea why a girl would make multiple accounts on SA?

[Hobbyist420]

That is actually good advice. Any idea why a girl would make multiple accounts on SA?The only legit reasons would be they got locked out of an account and they needed to make a new one.

But most of the time, they are either scammers / cashapp askers (they make the multiple accounts so they can keep spamming after one of them gets axed when reported) or semipros / pro like that Cassandra girl, who have major issues.

[Chuchunga]

I assume someone has feedback on this lady. Looks like she has been on the site for 6 years or so. Any intel would be great. Thanks.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b167b7cd-5b32-4baf-a02b-79247d498eeeThere's a post further back saying she will do stuff for 400. Thicker than her pics too.

[CandyMan555]

Those 2 are the same. Glad I didn't see her. She originally agreed to $100 with multiple pops and she would host in Arlington. Than she asked me to buy her a cell phone instead of the $100. Needless to say I decided not to deal with her.You will be pissed I would not do again for free!! Horrible.

[CandyMan555]

If you have the S A app on your cell phone they have a new very upscale new log in page and then on this site USA on the sidebar there is an upscale ad for secret Benefits very simi; ar to the new S A phone app so I belive and someone mentioned this a while back that the two sites are related.

What are your thoughts??

[SCX13]

Any info on this one? She definitely looks like a pro and familiar. Just can't place her.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b2ba0b19-9507-4ee1-91e4-ee3ac6933731

[Style20]

Wish I saw this beforehand, she came to my place to chill and smoke weed. She seemed awkward the whole time, was able to converse but she totally was out of it, I'm suspecting she uses since we did talk about fooling around and coincidentally I offered 100, she seemed a little reluctant but took it although what transpired after she definitely didn't get it. She was so not into it and her not being into it made me not into it. She had some weird excuse like she's ticklish every where when I would touch her, didn't like to kiss, never heard the term "feel each other up" before. Asked her to give me head since I figured it wss the only way to get hard at this point, under a minute of my dick in her mouth she says she has terrible gag reflex and can't give head cause of done swollen tissue in her throat and admits she's not good at it. She says so where's the condom, I immediately address that I'm not hard and she's being awkward, do not pass go do not collect 100 dollars.

We finish the sopranos episode we were watching, she starting spouting a lot of "woe is me" and "I'm hungry and I have cigarettes and I'm so poor" I basically say if you're hinting you want money just ask. She does I tell her most I'll give her is 20, she asked if I could give her more and I say no. Immediately got her an Uber home after sending her the 20.

Do not bother with this one.Seem like all the junkies from stg moving to seeking for more money LOL.

[SCX13]

Ok here's another one. She's a little new. Just wondering if she had a previous profile and created a new one.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2bdba8b3-2262-4993-a57c-8610e70e048d

Wanted a couple dates first to build a connection. Also, wanted some funds upfront because she was struggling and it would show I'm earnest. Maybe she should stop buying expensive clothing and having drinks out.

[Tribeca67]

Any one seen her before?

[NewEngland]

Ok here's another one. She's a little new. Just wondering if she had a previous profile and created a new one.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2bdba8b3-2262-4993-a57c-8610e70e048d

Wanted a couple dates first to build a connection. Also, wanted some funds upfront because she was struggling and it would show I'm earnest. Maybe she should stop buying expensive clothing and having drinks out.Found her to be a online fake.

[SCX13]

Ok I figured as much. Thanks for confirming my suspicions.


Found her to be a online fake.

[JoshDan]

If you have the S A app on your cell phone they have a new very upscale new log in page and then on this site USA on the sidebar there is an upscale ad for secret Benefits very simi; ar to the new S A phone app so I belive and someone mentioned this a while back that the two sites are related.

What are your thoughts??SA and WYP are related, they are started by the same guy. SB I don't think is related this. You can tell that WYP and SA have the same UX.

[NicosWave24]

Any recent intel on Melissa? Seen her a while ago but she's been hittin me up recently tryina meet. Seems kinda desperate tbh so idk what's up.

[Sasuke9015]

Any recent intel on Melissa? Seen her a while ago but she's been hittin me up recently tryina meet. Seems kinda desperate tbh so idk what's up.I met her in January and have to say she is the worst experience I have had on SA. Does not seem interested and makes excuse for everything. Difficult to communicate with also. I would recommend to stay clear.

[PlayTrey]

Anybody seen this girl before? She's in Peabody and could host. Def a pro. She claimed to be 21. I did some digging and maybe she's 43.

[Chuchunga]

Any recent intel on Melissa? Seen her a while ago but she's been hittin me up recently tryina meet. Seems kinda desperate tbh so idk what's up.If it's the one I'm thinking. This is the one I wrote about that scammed me.

[FindFun]

Found her to be a online fake.She lists ethnicity as Asian. Those pics don't look too Asian.

[Syedna]

Anybody seen this girl before? She's in Peabody and could host. Def a pro. She claimed to be 21. I did some digging and maybe she's 43.Links work much better than pictures or mentioning someone by name. It doesn't exactly narrow it down.

[JoeBell]

Links work much better than pictures or mentioning someone by name. It doesn't exactly narrow it down.https://members.seeking.com/member/ea665462-1f42-4bbd-876c-42123ba3c649

[SaltWaterLbc]

Hey gents,

I posted awhile ago about my SB who wanted to do a GB. Unfortunately, with work and scheduling it didn't pan out. However, since my workload has grown I can't see her as much. So she needs more daddies and asked me to post here for her. She is super cool, smokes trees and has a great personality. Below is her link on SA. So first and foremost she is a good little cumslut. She is fine with BBBJ, anal (she just started to do it so go easy but, she does scream. I just go slow and press on), facials, choking, slapping (hard on the ass and medium on the face), roleplay and bondage. So you can tie her up and make her your little cumslut. You can discuss what she wants ppm. I normally give her $400 and she hangs out for a few hours. With this if you guys have any girls in the area you want to trade, be happy to accept them.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8e29df22-6bc6-4053-8e22-34817778d1f9

[EarlJones2009]

https://members.seeking.com/member/5934842a-172c-4f83-be69-ac4e4a1406d6

Just saw this one. She's open to pretty much anything. Sort of shy and quiet, but open to BBBJ, Russian, daty and CIP. She can host in Lowell, but evidently that might be coming to an end fairly soon as I think she's moving out of her apartment. She's a college kid, soft body, a little extra padding, but great tits. If you have any other questions, PM me.

[PlayTrey]

https://members.seeking.com/member/ea665462-1f42-4bbd-876c-42123ba3c649That's the one. I am no longer a member anymore hence the reason I attached a photo.

[SCX13]

Have you guys found that when you are trying to set something up with some of these SBs that when they are adamant about condoms, they can eventually become BBFS situations or do you have to ask first?

[SCX13]

Wow, she seems intriguing. Have any of you seen her or spoken with her? She's pretty straightforward and shows all of her pictures, flaws and all. Pics 6 and 7 particularly.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b9eb152c-9fcf-46e7-92ab-e76dbb54f365

Wonder if she’s the same Cece from post# 939?