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Hobbyist420
08-10-21, 10:49
Yes. Hard to get hot chicks for a bargain. This site may not be it.Yeah, inflation and sugar baby how-to sites killed that. $400 is the new norm (and that's if you're lucky) and girls are also pressing more and more for payment before and after.
LordOfThEeyes
08-10-21, 19:56
https://www.seeking.com/member/aab78931-e026-49e8-9b7f-20482889c458
So I'm very sure this chick isn't real. The profile seems real. And the phone comes up as her name on caller is. But every single message she texts ends in "baby". Also she wanted to sell pics like 5 texts in so there is that 😂.
This site has been twisted by the scammers sheesh.
LordOfThEeyes
08-10-21, 20:06
https://www.seeking.com/member/2a061a7b-7b44-402d-aed8-0b785cc13245
She's out of Malden. Started fine with some chatting until she dropped the 500 allowance. Also said she has a friend and wanted dinner. After I said no she ghosted.
https://www.seeking.com/member/a084daab-dafb-4661-8ff9-94c6544cdedd
Wanted to take things slow and not Perdue intamate encounters.
https://www.seeking.com/member/e8ddd0c1-5a83-4459-af51-61a6c05af350
This girl is delusional. Wanted 250 for head and 300 for everything. Some guys said she asked for 4. Her pics are extremely old. Not worth 2.
Any one had experience with this girl? I am chatting her and she deleted her profile to " focus on me" LOL. . Any intel please let me know.
Mattis1775
08-11-21, 08:01
https://www.seeking.com/member/2a061a7b-7b44-402d-aed8-0b785cc13245
She's out of Malden. Started fine with some chatting until she dropped the 500 allowance. Also said she has a friend and wanted dinner. After I said no she ghosted.
https://www.seeking.com/member/a084daab-dafb-4661-8ff9-94c6544cdedd
Wanted to take things slow and not Perdue intamate encounters.
https://www.seeking.com/member/e8ddd0c1-5a83-4459-af51-61a6c05af350
This girl is delusional. Wanted 250 for head and 300 for everything. Some guys said she asked for 4. Her pics are extremely old. Not worth 2.First one, those two look like moochers, wants and won't give. They got spoiled by some desperate old guy or loser with a lot of money.
Haven't seen or talked to the second one. But, not worth the time.
The third one wanted 300 and can't host. A member here wrote that she ghosted him.
I've only found a couple that was within my range. Most are 500 and up and the over the time ones were 1,500.
WillSmith96
08-11-21, 10:45
She's a nice kid, good commo skills, showed up on time, and sucked a good cock. However she is much larger than her pics, and a huge belly on a very short woman just didn't work for me. To be fair she calls out overweight on her profile, but so much so that's it's very difficult to fuck her.
https://www.seeking.com/member/e3e18681-5f8b-4eea-b4ad-57f906efa40a
Any one had experience with this girl? I am chatting her and she deleted her profile to " focus on me" LOL. . Any intel please let me know.Without a link or pics. I have no idea who this might be.
ShineDrums
08-11-21, 11:58
What was the damage?
She's a nice kid, good commo skills, showed up on time, and sucked a good cock. However she is much larger than her pics, and a huge belly on a very short woman just didn't work for me. To be fair she calls out overweight on her profile, but so much so that's it's very difficult to fuck her.
https://www.seeking.com/member/e3e18681-5f8b-4eea-b4ad-57f906efa40a
LordOfThEeyes
08-11-21, 12:48
https://www.seeking.com/member/4507c8f2-561a-4016-99fb-39a57c65cb3a
Seems real enough and reasonable. Wants more of a SB long term. Still skeptical. Wanted to know if anyone had any interaction.
https://www.seeking.com/member/4507c8f2-561a-4016-99fb-39a57c65cb3a
Seems real enough and reasonable. Wants more of a SB long term. Still skeptical. Wanted to know if anyone had any interaction.A high school education and she is "investing herself into real estate. " I have no idea what that means and unless it means she's studying to be an agent it cannot mean anything that makes any sense. When someone says something that makes no sense, I'm skeptical too. If it were me I'd ask her about that. . . The explanation will reveal if she's totally wacky / unrealistic.
"No PPM" is a red flag. Unless a week's allowance is the same as what ppm should be there is no way I'd give more than a ppm amount on faith.
And I'd get decent pics that show her body. "mini BBW" could mean anything. Much of it not great.
LordOfThEeyes
08-12-21, 10:21
A high school education and she is "investing herself into real estate. " I have no idea what that means and unless it means she's studying to be an agent it cannot mean anything that makes any sense. When someone says something that makes no sense, I'm skeptical too. If it were me I'd ask her about that. . . The explanation will reveal if she's totally wacky / unrealistic.
"No PPM" is a red flag. Unless a week's allowance is the same as what ppm should be there is no way I'd give more than a ppm amount on faith.
And I'd get decent pics that show her body. "mini BBW" could mean anything. Much of it not great.Annnnnnnd she started the sob stories and needing money ASAP. God this site is a disaster.
Annnnnnnd she started the sob stories and needing money ASAP. God this site is a disaster.I've been on this site for quite a while & recently let my membership expire & deleted my profile. You're absolutely right bro. It's turned into a total & complete shit show.
Mattis1775
08-12-21, 13:50
I've been on this site for quite a while & recently let my membership expire & deleted my profile. You're absolutely right bro. It's turned into a total & complete shit show.I had one from New Bedford, number ending in 7973. After the initial chat, days later she writes back asking for gas money. Desperately. Accepts CashApp, FB payment, Western Union, she accepts all forms of payment. Ignored.
I filter the ads, avoid spoiled, luxury lifestyle, traveling, basically most of the categories looking for just companionship. Those who show skin is a small indication for bedroom action. You still need to invest in time to gather enough interest. Those who are interested, look for over 500+.
I manage to find a couple and they actually found me. There are good ones, just got to find them or have them find you.
Annnnnnnd she started the sob stories and needing money ASAP. God this site is a disaster.Honestly, reading her profile, I'd never have even messaged her in the first place. There are ways to make using SA a little more efficient and one of them is weeding out certain styles of profiles. I'd have weeded her out instantly.
But I'm willing to pay more than some are, and the profiles I do pick often are the girls who are looking for 3-400 and won't take less. I won't go higher however.
Mattis1775
08-12-21, 21:40
https://www.seeking.com/member/ec6a6a80-173a-4104-b479-010aace3943d
She's listed in Boston. But, lives in S. America. Needs helping coming back, apparently used to live in Boston under a Visa perhaps. And, I thought I've seen it all on SA. Everyday is always something different. My membership is almost expiring soon. Had fun, got a few, definitely a hit or miss on this. Need lots of money to play on this website. Not for regular guys like me.
A high school education and she is "investing herself into real estate. " I have no idea what that means and unless it means she's studying to be an agent it cannot mean anything that makes any sense. When someone says something that makes no sense, I'm skeptical too. If it were me I'd ask her about that. . . The explanation will reveal if she's totally wacky / unrealistic.
"No PPM" is a red flag. Unless a week's allowance is the same as what ppm should be there is no way I'd give more than a ppm amount on faith.
And I'd get decent pics that show her body. "mini BBW" could mean anything. Much of it not great.Sounds like a genus. Maybe she wants to rent you some space in her body?
https://www.seeking.com/member/ec6a6a80-173a-4104-b479-010aace3943d
She's listed in Boston. But, lives in S. America. Needs helping coming back, apparently used to live in Boston under a Visa perhaps. And, I thought I've seen it all on SA. Everyday is always something different. My membership is almost expiring soon. Had fun, got a few, definitely a hit or miss on this. Need lots of money to play on this website. Not for regular guys like me.Seeking a few years ago was golden lots of girls to choose from and all fair prices. This year is shit and the worst. Ugly girls and high ppm.
SoxInSeven
08-13-21, 17:27
Any intel on this one? She's been on for awhile. I originally dismissed her as someone genuinely looking for a wealth long term companion. But more and more seems to be just be a working gal.
https://www.seeking.com/member/3eb36c1d-c15c-468b-991e-b9fdac8ae32a
Hobbyist420
08-13-21, 17:54
https://www.seeking.com/member/e8ddd0c1-5a83-4459-af51-61a6c05af350
This girl is delusional. Wanted 250 for head and 300 for everything. Some guys said she asked for 4. Her pics are extremely old. Not worth 2.This one is a semipro. The pics are super old, and she is a BBW, and not GFE. Also on secretbenefits and I think I saw her booty on listcrawler once.
https://www.seeking.com/member/ec6a6a80-173a-4104-b479-010aace3943d
She's listed in Boston. But, lives in S. America. Needs helping coming back, apparently used to live in Boston under a Visa perhaps. And, I thought I've seen it all on SA. Everyday is always something different. My membership is almost expiring soon. Had fun, got a few, definitely a hit or miss on this. Need lots of money to play on this website. Not for regular guys like me.Another phenomena now on there: profiles, scammer or otherwise, now find a way to change their location which will list Boston or Massachusetts, Massachusetts. But they are from another country (usually S. America but also some E. Europe). Avoid / block / don't engage obv the play here once a monger hears that.
I dunno. I think you're doing it wrong. I've found plenty of hot ass on SA. I haven't linked them all but it seems that you can get most hot 20 something single moms for 250-300 and if you're willing to shell out 400, you'll get pretty much whatever you want. Be nice to these girls. I'm just saying. Respect goes a long long way. I'm definitely not attractive and it hasn't been even the smallest issue. Yes. You'll have to send a lot of messages. I try to only contact women who are online at that moment for the most part.
Seeking a few years ago was golden lots of girls to choose from and all fair prices. This year is shit and the worst. Ugly girls and high ppm.
https://www.seeking.com/member/732479b6-e266-4d98-afcb-5e2711ff9849
This one texted me last night looking to do 100 for car fun in her complex. I declined told her that she sounded like a crackhead setting people up and she said I understand and never texted back. Embarrassing when your trying to be a sugar baby and your 40 yrs old trying to do car fun. This site has gone downhill. I was meeting so many hot chicks and now its all scammers and people like this.
Another phenomena now on there: profiles, scammer or otherwise, now find a way to change their location which will list Boston or Massachusetts, Massachusetts. But they are from another country (usually S. America but also some E. Europe). Avoid / block / don't engage obv the play here once a monger hears that.The capability to change your city / location has always been part of SA. It's useful when you travel. Scammers will put whatever city they happen to be targeting. It's always been that way, nothing new. Just have to weed them out which is not difficult.
I've found many women who list Massachusetts, Massachusetts are in fact legit. They may be located farther outside the Boston area and list this way as an attempt to draw more guys. Don't count them out just because of that. If you're interested say hello and find out their actual location. You can asses pretty quickly whether they're real or not.
Another phenomena now on there: profiles, scammer or otherwise, now find a way to change their location which will list Boston or Massachusetts, Massachusetts. But they are from another country (usually S. America but also some E. Europe). Avoid / block / don't engage obv the play here once a monger hears that.It's easy -- SA shows you the country where they most recently logged in from. Hers shows Venezuela. Not complicated at all.
I have been in contact with this woman. Has anyone seen her before?
https://www.seeking.com/member/5a686e94-49d7-4bb3-bfce-5c9111ae50d2
Sent her a message but said account deactivated. Must have recieved lots of messages from creeps.
BustySeeker2
08-15-21, 08:27
Anyone here get a much better reply rate on messages on SB then they do on SA?
DrinIvisible
08-15-21, 22:27
It's easy -- SA shows you the country where they most recently logged in from. Hers shows Venezuela. Not complicated at all.To be fair, I use a VPN that connects me through Sweden. So, my recently logged in location shows to be Sweden. Keep that in mind, not necessarily everything is fake about that. I agree though too many crappy accounts are there.
To be fair, I use a VPN that connects me through Sweden. So, my recently logged in location shows to be Sweden. Keep that in mind, not necessarily everything is fake about that. I agree though too many crappy accounts are there.Very very very few legit SB's do this. Many many many scammers do. I do the math.
Mattis1775
08-16-21, 21:58
Well, I've been officially banned from SA. The worst part is that I didn't message that many women and my profile doesn't state anything that says otherwise. Banned for Escort or Prostitution. Fuck them. Has anyone protested their ban? I protested my ban of DL and went into empty ears.
AsianHotWifeX
08-17-21, 11:01
Well, I've been officially banned from SA. The worst part is that I didn't message that many women and my profile doesn't state anything that says otherwise. Banned for Escort or Prostitution. Fuck them. Has anyone protested their ban? I protested my ban of DL and went into empty ears.All it takes is one complaint and they will instantly ban you there. Can't discuss any kind of arrangement, best to always take the conversation off site. I have been banned 3 or 4 times for nothing there but at least I don't have to pay.
Well, I've been officially banned from SA. The worst part is that I didn't message that many women and my profile doesn't state anything that says otherwise. Banned for Escort or Prostitution. Fuck them. Has anyone protested their ban? I protested my ban of DL and went into empty ears.Did you mention ppm or certain words used mainly on STG? If so that's most likely why. You have to get to them to text as quickly as you can off the site.
Well, I've been officially banned from SA. The worst part is that I didn't message that many women and my profile doesn't state anything that says otherwise. Banned for Escort or Prostitution. Fuck them. Has anyone protested their ban? I protested my ban of DL and went into empty ears.I've been banned like 5 x. Just make a new profile under a different IP and change your info slightly so it doesn't match your old info and you can get back on. Its very easy to get banned, as soon as someone reports you sa will delete you and you have no say in it. I think half the time there full of shit but yea hopefully you didn't lose that much of your membership if its not at the beginning of it.
Well, I've been officially banned from SA. The worst part is that I didn't message that many women and my profile doesn't state anything that says otherwise. Banned for Escort or Prostitution. Fuck them. Has anyone protested their ban? I protested my ban of DL and went into empty ears.But a nicely worded message to SA's admin explaining that I'm NOT looking for prostitution but a real relationship / arrangement, and having the messages to prove it, has earned me re-instatement at least half a dozen times. I always get the girls straight to text as soon as possible, and only light banter in messages, asking general questions and giving only enough info to intrigue them.
They're reasonable to talk to (SA) and once they've been reassured by reading your actual messages and seeing it's the girl who's made the transgression, they'll reinstate you.
Anyone meet this one? Seems dtf and the price is normal.
Told me she gets 1000 and more for platonic dates and the same for videos! Who are these idiots giving away this type moolah?
I told her I get BBBJ and BBFS for $15 and under. So do you believe me?
Words are cheap.
Don't fall for their BS.
Told me she gets 1000 and more for platonic dates and the same for videos! Who are these idiots giving away this type moolah?
Told me she gets 1000 and more for platonic dates and the same for videos! Who are these idiots giving away this type moolah?This site is nuts. A girl wanted me to pay her 300 bucks to have drinks with me at a bar. I understand these girls do not want to feel like sluts but this is ridiculous.
Told me she gets 1000 and more for platonic dates and the same for videos! Who are these idiots giving away this type moolah?Nobody is giving them that kind of money!! They're full of shit, full of themselves, and have a very skewed view of how the world should treat them because they're "Special".
Yeah, okay Sweetheart. Take your self-worth to the bank and see what you get for it. Morons.
This site is nuts. A girl wanted me to pay her 300 bucks to have drinks with me at a bar. I understand these girls do not want to feel like sluts but this is ridiculous.I ask $1000 for a date as well. Don't get many takers though.
This site is nuts. A girl wanted me to pay her 300 bucks to have drinks with me at a bar. I understand these girls do not want to feel like sluts but this is ridiculous.I use SA more for a long term thing than just hook-ups. Woman who insist on get compensated for cocktail / dinner meets are out. My response to their request always is, "this is an interview for both of us to see if we have enough chemistry & comfort to move forward. I'm more then willing to fund this interview by paying for dinner. If we click and our adult senses kick in after dinner, I'm fine with providing some allowance. " The ones who are looking for something long term usually understand this.
Any intel on this one? She's been on for awhile. I originally dismissed her as someone genuinely looking for a wealth long term companion. But more and more seems to be just be a working gal.
https://www.seeking.com/member/3eb36c1d-c15c-468b-991e-b9fdac8ae32aI was texting her for months, always was busy. We finally set up a lunch date and she bails. I think she is flaky, but let me know if it works out. She said she would be ok with 500.
Malden Male
08-19-21, 14:26
https://www.seeking.com/member/732479b6-e266-4d98-afcb-5e2711ff9849
This one texted me last night looking to do 100 for car fun in her complex. I declined told her that she sounded like a crackhead setting people up and she said I understand and never texted back. Embarrassing when your trying to be a sugar baby and your 40 yrs old trying to do car fun. This site has gone downhill. I was meeting so many hot chicks and now its all scammers and people like this.Chatting with her now and she's down for unrushed, multiple bare fun for 200 roses.
Chatting with her now and she's down for unrushed, multiple bare fun for 200 roses.Yea I stopped talking to her, not hard to get her real name and find out she has a bf through social media.
Chatting with her now and she's down for unrushed, multiple bare fun for 200 roses.Sorry, automatic "hide profile" for me.
This is a scammer. Avoid like the plague. Will try to have you pay cash app but will actually meet you at hotel to try you to pay her without going to your room. This is a new type of scammer that I had not encountered LOL.
https://www.seeking.com/member/333b78c0-25e8-4f05-9ed1-bfc66dfc6579
This is a scammer. Avoid like the plague. Will try to have you pay cash app but will actually meet you at hotel to try you to pay her without going to your room. This is a new type of scammer that I had not encountered LOL.
https://www.seeking.com/member/333b78c0-25e8-4f05-9ed1-bfc66dfc6579That's interesting because this chick is an addict but neva scammed anyone she always comes through. She was in RI now in Randolph.
https://www.seeking.com/member/333b78c0-25e8-4f05-9ed1-bfc66dfc6579
Any intel on this one? Just so many scams lately!
LordOfThEeyes
08-21-21, 14:24
This is a scammer. Avoid like the plague. Will try to have you pay cash app but will actually meet you at hotel to try you to pay her without going to your room. This is a new type of scammer that I had not encountered LOL.
https://www.seeking.com/member/333b78c0-25e8-4f05-9ed1-bfc66dfc6579Anyone that mutters the texts the word payment through cash app is an instant block. Seeking has been filled with scammers from russia as of late.
That's interesting because this chick is an addict but neva scammed anyone she always comes through. She was in RI now in Randolph.I agree. I've seen her multiple times about a year or two ago. never scammed me
Anyone seen this one? She seems legitimate. Lives with family but will do car dates. She is DTF $-.
https://www.seeking.com/member/09a15e6f-152f-4fa4-813e-e31875fcded3
Anyone managed to tap this ass?
https://www.seeking.com/member/46b37c3b-deb7-4f3b-9f15-27d6fbbb9112
Richcecato33
08-25-21, 16:08
Talking with this one, actually we were supposed to meet past Saturday, but had some personal issues and had to cancel. Agreed on all BB but no Greek for $$ 5. She sent me some extra pics too. Any info would be really appreciated.
https://www.seeking.com/member/b62e03c6-018f-4eb0-9a8a-10ecf1e35519
Anyone managed to tap this ass?
https://www.seeking.com/member/46b37c3b-deb7-4f3b-9f15-27d6fbbb9112Maybe if she pays me.
NewEngland
08-25-21, 17:53
Maybe if she pays me.Second that.
Maybe if she pays me.Not even if she pays me.
AsianYumYum
08-25-21, 23:22
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But your post specifically calling him out is ok???
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NewEngland
08-28-21, 12:28
Hey guys.
Hooked up again the other night it has been tough to get her.
I fellow monger was blown off at the last min.
I got lucky as it was a last min cancel by a fellow monger.
Found this one on secret benefits and was hoping for a connection. Everything was going a little to good, she was new to it, into sex, kinks, blah blah. So I figured I would see if she wanted to do a meet and greet to discuss details about her benefits and then she hits me with " here is the deal". She is stuck in Fla taking care of a sick aunt who died and she needs to pay to bury her. As soon as she does she will be back to her NH campus and we can meet. Wants me to send her money to help out, anything would be helpful. Needless to say I sent my condolences and told her I'll be anxiously waiting for her return. LOL Don't waste your time or money.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/4bffb1563afa661d
AZN Monger
08-31-21, 17:05
Chatted with this girl. Asking price is $500, but was okay with $350. Any previous experience with this one?
https://www.seeking.com/member/f1acab7f-3162-4895-9587-4eb683ffa75d
NewEngland
08-31-21, 19:16
Hi got a email on this site from a SA poster positive reviews adds to there value for sure.
They do look here the smart one's.
Chatted with this girl. Asking price is $500, but was okay with $350. Any previous experience with this one?
https://www.seeking.com/member/f1acab7f-3162-4895-9587-4eb683ffa75dLOL 350 is laughable, drug addict from south shore but comes to revere all the time to stay with her grandma but its her cousin and friends to drink and get high all night. We are friends on facebook and she was willing to blow me for 80 but then when it came time to meet and get her she turned all shady, telling me where to pick her up and where we were going to go drive to and park I told her no we are coming to my place and she went pyscho and began threatening me to the point where I blocked her on facebook. So there's my two cents and the fact she wanted 500 and will take 350 is fucking laughable.
Chatted with this girl. Asking price is $500, but was okay with $350. Any previous experience with this one?
https://www.seeking.com/member/f1acab7f-3162-4895-9587-4eb683ffa75dMy two cents, she looks and sounds crazy.
Hobbyist420
09-01-21, 14:26
Hi got a email on this site from a SA poster positive reviews adds to there value for sure.
They do look here the smart one's.Especially the semi-pros.
I also believe there are forums like this as well for SBs.
Hi got a email on this site from a SA poster positive reviews adds to there value for sure.
They do look here the smart one's.LOL did someone message you here thanking you for your positive reviews? From your recent post history it can only be one lady.
Especially the semi-pros.
I also believe there are forums like this as well for SBs.It would be interesting to see what's on those SB forums.
Patriarchist
09-02-21, 10:29
It would be interesting to see what's on those SB forums.This is probably different from what you're thinking, but on Reddit there is a board called sugarlifestyleforum. It has a mix of SDs and SBs. I find reading it quite repelling though. It is mostly filled with spoiled women mooching off of rich old men, along with the rich men bragging about how they give thousands of dollars to these useless thots.
This is probably different from what you're thinking, but on Reddit there is a board called sugarlifestyleforum. It has a mix of SDs and SBs. I find reading it quite repelling though. It is mostly filled with spoiled women mooching off of rich old men, along with the rich men bragging about how they give thousands of dollars to these useless thots.I used to read that a few years ago. They had an SB-only private forum too, and there was an SD-only private forum. I participated in the SD-only one for just a couple of months. They disbanded it when they learned that a bunch of women had infiltrated it LOL. Total high school scene there on Reddit. I too advocate ignoring that subreddit. It's as you describe.
Reddit is a good place to end up getting yourself doxxed if you're not extremely careful about what you post and how you communicate privately. I strongly recommend NO private communication; there are people out there who exist to cause trouble, doxx, and at worst blackmail.
Patriarchist
09-02-21, 19:12
I used to read that a few years ago. They had an SB-only private forum too, and there was an SD-only private forum. I participated in the SD-only one for just a couple of months. They disbanded it when they learned that a bunch of women had infiltrated it LOL. Total high school scene there on Reddit. I too advocate ignoring that subreddit. It's as you describe.
Reddit is a good place to end up getting yourself doxxed if you're not extremely careful about what you post and how you communicate privately. I strongly recommend NO private communication; there are people out there who exist to cause trouble, doxx, and at worst blackmail.It's too bad that forum even exists. Women who start becoming interested in arrangements use forums like those as a reference to set their expectations about how much money they can / should be getting. This leads to girls holding out for that one gem that is going to give them full time job pay for fucking them a few times a month while ignoring all other decent offers.
Hobbyist420
09-03-21, 01:42
It's too bad that forum even exists. Women who start becoming interested in arrangements use forums like those as a reference to set their expectations about how much money they can / should be getting. This leads to girls holding out for that one gem that is going to give them full time job pay for fucking them a few times a month while ignoring all other decent offers.There are also Tik Tok how-tos for SBs as well as plenty of blog posts and literature on how to extract cash.
The pure days are gone it seems.
There are also Tik Tok how-tos for SBs as well as plenty of blog posts and literature on how to extract cash.
The pure days are gone it seems.Exactly. This notion that men offering "too much" ruin it for other men is rooted in the 1990's.
It's too bad that forum even exists. Women who start becoming interested in arrangements use forums like those as a reference to set their expectations about how much money they can / should be getting. This leads to girls holding out for that one gem that is going to give them full time job pay for fucking them a few times a month while ignoring all other decent offers.I go on Reddit and visit that forum and couple others about sugar life. It cracks me up.
Have been on a SB one also, there are some women on all these forums who spread propaganda about how much money.
They get for having dinner, gifts, etc and not having to have sex all the time. The new interested girls / women all buy it without issue.
There is also supposed SB's on tik tok who tell the girls what to do and how much they should be getting.
Many also perpetuate the lie that you can have a SD and not have to have sex in order to get money, gifts, etc.
Have actually met some newbies who were following what they were told to do on first meets.
When I suggested we go to another place since we were hitting it off, "she told me we had already spent to much time together for a first meet and she should go".
Then told me that is what the experienced girls have told her online to do.
I did not bother with her after that and the others with the rules they were following and how rigid they were, you could see they would be no fun.
Wanted to add that the expectations of the girls on Seeking now are over the top ridiculous because of all the propaganda spread by these supposed pro SB's online.
Before could go out have dinner, drinks, do something like a real date then go back to her place, hotel, etc and spend a few hours maybe the night together.
I would pay for everything, they had a fun time, good sex, and would give them a few 2-400 and they were ecstatic.
Now I get you need to pay me for first meet, buy me gifts to get my attention, I want 600,800, 1,000 for a coupe of hours.
Also take me to this expensive restaurant, etc. Then they do not want to have sex, do not want to have a fun time out and want to leave in an hour or two.
Fuck that and fuck them! If and when I go back I will be searching away from the city for girls who actually appreciate what goes on and you.
Not these jaded, money grubbing hoes around the city.
NewEngland
09-03-21, 12:55
Other than she smokes this 1 is good great body and action is good.
ttps://www.seeking.com/member/dcecf030-50c1-4ad7-98d4-312bd06eabef
ChuckTown67
09-03-21, 16:09
My two cents, she looks and sounds crazy.She responded to me asked if I was interested in a double to which I replied yes. Then nothing.
Other than she smokes this 1 is good great body and action is good.
ttps://www.seeking.com/member/dcecf030-50c1-4ad7-98d4-312bd06eabefWhat is it with you dudes and finding old ladies on a site with so much young pussy.
Member #6450
09-03-21, 21:40
I go on Reddit and visit that forum and couple others about sugar life. It cracks me up.
Have been on a SB one also, there are some women on all these forums who spread propaganda about how much money.
They get for having dinner, gifts, etc and not having to have sex all the time. The new interested girls / women all buy it without issue.
There is also supposed SB's on tik tok who tell the girls what to do and how much they should be getting.
Many also perpetuate the lie that you can have a SD and not have to have sex in order to get money, gifts, etc.
Have actually met some newbies who were following what they were told to do on first meets.
When I suggested we go to another place since we were hitting it off, "she told me we had already spent to much time together for a first meet and she should go".
Then told me that is what the experienced girls have told her online to do.
I did not bother with her after that and the others with the rules they were following and how rigid they were, you could see they would be no fun.Here's another one for you and will open your eyes to what these SB's are all about. Check out at theclownlife on Instagram. Her IG is public.
https://instagram.com/theclownlife?utm_medium=copy_link
SteveInMa428
09-04-21, 09:18
Hey guys; Just a fair warning; Do NOT go see Cupcake out of Tewksbury / Lowell. Its a set up. After months of chatting back and forth and her whining I decided I'd give her a shot. Drove 45 minutes to see her at a popular hotel in Tewksbury right off the highway. Upon entering the room, go a big hug. I then walked into the bathroom to check things out and found a person hiding in the bath tub. I immediately kicked the guy in the head with my steel toed sneaker (blood right away! I told her to fuck off and thanked her for wasting my time! As I was walking out the guy came out and wanted to attack me. He changed his mind when I walked towards him. He ran back in the room and slammed the door. Buh bye!!
I can't post the link as I am no longer a member of SA. Just look her up. BAD news!!
Hey guys; Just a fair warning; Do NOT go see Cupcake out of Tewksbury / Lowell. Its a set up. After months of chatting back and forth and her whining I decided I'd give her a shot. Drove 45 minutes to see her at a popular hotel in Tewksbury right off the highway. Upon entering the room, go a big hug. I then walked into the bathroom to check things out and found a person hiding in the bath tub. I immediately kicked the guy in the head with my steel toed sneaker (blood right away! I told her to fuck off and thanked her for wasting my time! As I was walking out the guy came out and wanted to attack me. He changed his mind when I walked towards him. He ran back in the room and slammed the door. Buh bye!!
I can't post the link as I am no longer a member of SA. Just look her up. BAD news!!Agree 1000% I texted with her for weeks and everything planned to do was always shady, she's a addict with a bf, and a liar. I'm glad you whopped his ass.
Patriarchist
09-04-21, 11:40
Exactly. This notion that men offering "too much" ruin it for other men is rooted in the 1990's.If anything it's more true now than ever, since the SBs have raised their demands so high collectively due to the internet. The men that pay so much can afford it regardless, but the small percent of men fulfilling those demands reinforces the SBs ridiculous standards that the majority of men will not be meeting.
What is it with you dudes and finding old ladies on a site with so much young pussy.Love if you can share some that you have seen. Spread the love. Otherwise to each his own.
Discretion23
09-04-21, 13:23
Wanted to add that the expectations of the girls on Seeking now are over the top ridiculous because of all the propaganda spread by these supposed pro SB's online.
Before could go out have dinner, drinks, do something like a real date then go back to her place, hotel, etc and spend a few hours maybe the night together.
I would pay for everything, they had a fun time, good sex, and would give them a few 2-400 and they were ecstatic.
Now I get you need to pay me for first meet, buy me gifts to get my attention, I want 600,800, 1,000 for a coupe of hours.
Also take me to this expensive restaurant, etc. Then they do not want to have sex, do not want to have a fun time out and want to leave in an hour or two.
Fuck that and fuck them! If and when I go back I will be searching away from the city for girls who actually appreciate what goes on and you.
Not these jaded, money grubbing hoes around the city.This is the same as hiring someone, they want the best and we want a good employee that is honest and fair. I have interviewed so many people in my real job over the last year that are no where qualified, just like the SB life, so many want something for nothing.
It is hard getting through all the "noise" lately and finding someone decent, in both avenues of life right now.
If anything it's more true now than ever, since the SBs have raised their demands so high collectively due to the internet. The men that pay so much can afford it regardless, but the small percent of men fulfilling those demands reinforces the SBs ridiculous standards that the majority of men will not be meeting.Worst time on there right now. Like guys know you use to be able to see hot girls for no more then 400. I saw models for 150 to 300 ppm a few years back. Now it's 300 for a platonic date then 800 for the bedroom. I saw one girl last year for 150 and she tells me now guys are paying her 500 for dinner!
suaimmagine
09-04-21, 20:53
Worst time on there right now. Like guys know you use to be able to see hot girls for no more then 400. I saw models for 150 to 300 ppm a few years back. Now it's 300 for a platonic date then 800 for the bedroom. I saw one girl last year for 150 and she tells me now guys are paying her 500 for dinner!These girls aren't getting 300 for a platonic date. It's bs. They just say that as negotiating point and to make themselves feel good. They're not getting 800 for FS, either. Freeze 'them out and check back in a couple of weeks. I've gone this route and it's amazing how quickly the price drops. Not to nothing, but at least 30% less in my experience.
FirstClass1
09-04-21, 21:05
Hey guys; Just a fair warning; Do NOT go see Cupcake out of Tewksbury / Lowell. Its a set up. After months of chatting back and forth and her whining I decided I'd give her a shot. Drove 45 minutes to see her at a popular hotel in Tewksbury right off the highway. Upon entering the room, go a big hug. I then walked into the bathroom to check things out and found a person hiding in the bath tub. I immediately kicked the guy in the head with my steel toed sneaker (blood right away! I told her to fuck off and thanked her for wasting my time! As I was walking out the guy came out and wanted to attack me. He changed his mind when I walked towards him. He ran back in the room and slammed the door. Buh bye!!
I can't post the link as I am no longer a member of SA. Just look her up. BAD news!!Bravo. Glad to hear your instincts were on point. They both deserved a lot more.
I go on Reddit and visit that forum and couple others about sugar life. It cracks me up.
Have been on a SB one also, there are some women on all these forums who spread propaganda about how much money.
They get for having dinner, gifts, etc and not having to have sex all the time. The new interested girls / women all buy it without issue.
There is also supposed SB's on tik tok who tell the girls what to do and how much they should be getting.
Many also perpetuate the lie that you can have a SD and not have to have sex in order to get money, gifts, etc.
Have actually met some newbies who were following what they were told to do on first meets.
When I suggested we go to another place since we were hitting it off, "she told me we had already spent to much time together for a first meet and she should go".Here's the thing. The girls who are delusional enough to believe everything they read or hear from these forums and tik tok were never your target SBs. You have to weed out a substantial number of fakes / toe-dippers / princesses to find the gems.
My first SB asked for 300 in an area where the lower-end of PPM was 400. I actually upped her to 400 because she was so amazing for my needs, extremely flexible, loyal, and fun to be with. I didn't want to lose her to some other schmuck who would offer a lot more. And indeed, she said she got higher offers but she stuck with me because our chemistry was good.
I had to go through hundreds of messages, dozens of m&gs to find 3 viable SBs. And even then, life happens and sometimes you cannot continue the SR for various reasons.
If you are unable to find a SB it is either because you are lowballing or your profile / messaging is not seductive enough. Just because you are offering an insane salary does not mean everyone suddenly wants to jump on your d.
Mutual attraction enhances sex a million-fold and if you are just looking for a dead-fish fuck go and find a regular escort, don't go looking for a sugar baby then complain about the outrageous prices. It is outrageous, to be sure, but it's been that way since the beginning of time. Sex work is one of the most lucrative things one can do with no real qualifications.
If anything it's more true now than ever, since the SBs have raised their demands so high collectively due to the internet. The men that pay so much can afford it regardless, but the small percent of men fulfilling those demands reinforces the SBs ridiculous standards that the majority of men will not be meeting.The sex market for men has been "winner-take-most" for most if not all of human history. I for one am grateful that one can substitute $$$ for brute strength and sexual attractiveness in the modern era. If we were living in another time these hot girls would not even look at you despite how much $ you are willing to shell out.
Anyone talked to her? Texted a bit. Her story seems inconsistent like a scam bit she hasnt hit me up for cash or anything so tryi g to figure out what her angle is.
Anyone talked to her? Texted a bit. Her story seems inconsistent like a scam bit she hasnt hit me up for cash or anything so tryi g to figure out what her angle is.What story does she give? I was going to message her; can see if we get the same story LOL.
I've been talking to this chick on snap. Likes the fact I'm local and just moved to the area and really knows nobody. Meeting tomorrow or Tuesday, seems cool, looks good and I got a good price of it. I don't have her seeking name or link because my buddy is the one who got her snapchat and just sent me the snap name to message but here's a pic that she sent me via snap.
What story does she give? I was going to message her; can see if we get the same story LOL.She sent photos that I was able to match to some I found online. No way the photos are her. Then when we planned I time to meet, asked for money to do her nails or get gas or some other bullshit. Now disappeared. Basically another scammer trying to get money sent to her. But she's more patient in chatting to try to seem legit.
Saw this insta and now the behavior makes sense. Instead of being equals in this game SBs now think of us daddy's as shit and ATMs. I see the creator says it's all made up but if you read comments from women it shows that they believe it.
Oh the headache this creates.
Here's another one for you and will open your eyes to what these SB's are all about. Check out at theclownlife on Instagram. Her IG is public.
https://instagram.com/theclownlife?utm_medium=copy_link
No one is paying these bitches for platonic dates. I mean. Who the fuck would do that? I could get plenty of hot chicks to hang out if they knew I didn't expect them to fuck. Even if you read the threads on Sugar Lifestyle Forum on Reddit they're pretty clear with newbie sugar babies that you will be fucking if you want to find a sugar daddy. In fact, in many threads I've seen sugar babies and sugar daddies tell women that if you're not into oral or anal this ain't for you.
These girls aren't getting 300 for a platonic date. It's bs. They just say that as negotiating point and to make themselves feel good. They're not getting 800 for FS, either. Freeze 'them out and check back in a couple of weeks. I've gone this route and it's amazing how quickly the price drops. Not to nothing, but at least 30% less in my experience.
Hobbyist420
09-06-21, 15:07
She sent photos that I was able to match to some I found online. No way the photos are her. Then when we planned I time to meet, asked for money to do her nails or get gas or some other bullshit. Now disappeared. Basically another scammer trying to get money sent to her. But she's more patient in chatting to try to seem legit.Oh yeah, they are getting smarter by long roping for a venmo or cashapp (and smarter that the photos on their profile are doctored which makes them harder to cross reference in search), because you'll also probably be less likely to report them after a day or two of sweet talking as supposed to within the first 10 minutes asking, 'Hey, can you send me $25? I'll send you nudes!
NewEngland
09-06-21, 15:53
https://www.seeking.com/member/ad1086ba-f794-492f-b0a0-2477952a583b
40 is her age but has a body and the energy of a 20 something.
AZN Monger
09-06-21, 20:16
LOL 350 is laughable, drug addict from south shore but comes to revere all the time to stay with her grandma but its her cousin and friends to drink and get high all night. We are friends on facebook and she was willing to blow me for 80 but then when it came time to meet and get her she turned all shady, telling me where to pick her up and where we were going to go drive to and park I told her no we are coming to my place and she went pyscho and began threatening me to the point where I blocked her on facebook. So there's my two cents and the fact she wanted 500 and will take 350 is fucking laughable.Yikes. She did tell me to pick her up in Revere, but I'm glad I never went through with it. Thanks for the intel.
NewEngland
09-07-21, 13:59
Photos do not show he good looks pictures make her look like a BBW she is not.
https://www.seeking.com/member/88c7dc8b-2728-4075-b0d9-31e6d96b715f
603 area code. Hillsborough, New Hampshire.
Says she is in a bad $ituation. Not my type. Smoker etc.
Scammers are never my type.
https://www.seeking.com/member/88c7dc8b-2728-4075-b0d9-31e6d96b715f
603 area code. Hillsborough, New Hampshire.
Says she is in a bad $ituation. Not my type. Smoker etc.
Mattis1775
09-12-21, 08:21
Photos do not show he good looks pictures make her look like a BBW she is not.Last I spoke to her, she said she wasn't taking in new members. Either that, or she was being polite and wasn't interested.
NewEngland
09-12-21, 10:15
Last I spoke to her, she said she wasn't taking in new members. Either that, or she was being polite and wasn't interested.I would try every couple of weeks you never know what mood you catch all them in. Holiday season is coming so mongers get busy and have least time to play with babies so that is an open time to grab busy ones.
I've been talking to this chick on snap. Likes the fact I'm local and just moved to the area and really knows nobody. Meeting tomorrow or Tuesday, seems cool, looks good and I got a good price of it. I don't have her seeking name or link because my buddy is the one who got her snapchat and just sent me the snap name to message but here's a pic that she sent me via snap.Her SA name was dollbaby, but her profile got deactivated this morning. Do you mind sharing the snap in DM? She looks legit and new to the game.
https://www.seeking.com/member/e4ab2191-d24d-41fa-b26d-26e17044d55a
Then she will think about being intimate next date; x.
Mattis1775
09-13-21, 11:33
https://www.seeking.com/member/e4ab2191-d24d-41fa-b26d-26e17044d55a
Then she will think about being intimate next date; x.It's a 50/50 shot. Sometimes it works out. But, try a video conference first. If she charges for that then move on.
It's a 50/50 shot. Sometimes it works out. But, try a video conference first. If she charges for that then move on.There was discussion in the past, don't remember if it was here or ThE otheR forum, about perils of video conference. Conclusion was that video conference is too risky, not recommended, even more so if you have a significant other. The video can be recorded and used for nefarious purposes against you.
Hyperion11
09-14-21, 08:30
https://www.seeking.com/member/e4ab2191-d24d-41fa-b26d-26e17044d55a
Then she will think about being intimate next date; x.Yeah, no!
I never paid for platonic dates (except the drinks / dinner / coffee and maybe uber fees). I was really tempted a couple times, when the girls looked hot in the pics, but managed to push back every time.
I just posted it for a laugh. She is mint but what would she want for sex. I have spent 300 for 11 pm-7 am on a colombian girl in town on a tourist visa. Met for dinner moved to hotel never discussed money, she actually ghosted me after, thinking I was cheap. gave her 300,120 food drinks (half mine) , 100 for hotel via hotwire. Mostly I pay 100-150 for young college girls and mid 20 latinas to blow me. I host so that helps and I have bomb weed.
https://www.seeking.com/member/4c192d44-211e-4c45-bf8c-58849b058227
Exchanging texts. Anybody have any info. PM works.
DrinIvisible
09-16-21, 20:34
I have met her more than once. She's a pleasure to play with. All the possibilities, quite submissive. 250 per session cannot host. Sprayed creampies in every hole. She's open to meeting more guys. She's okay to be gang banged too if that's of someone's interest.
https://www.seeking.com/member/0fa94a14-ec0a-4ac1-a4d3-856ebd69e291
Hyperion11
09-16-21, 22:07
I have met her more than once. She's a pleasure to play with. All the possibilities, quite submissive. 250 per session cannot host. Sprayed creampies in every hole. She's open to meeting more guys. She's okay to be gang banged too if that's of someone's interest.
https://www.seeking.com/member/0fa94a14-ec0a-4ac1-a4d3-856ebd69e291Does she look like her pics?
Luxy (Boston).
$700 per meet. Hot. Won't budge on price. Wants dinner and a bang.
https://www.seeking.com/member/3bfd607f-64ca-4b6e-be3f-606ec9a22e73
BratttyPapaya (Manchester, NH).
Single mom, freaky, can host. $300. Didn't even make it to FS. Foreplay made me explode. Will repeat.
https://www.seeking.com/member/9c6547a8-3168-4b22-8cf2-a267d44a96ca
Angeline94 (Boston).
Tried to make plans but she ghosted me. Hot pics but she took them down. $600 per meet. Seems like a pro.
https://www.seeking.com/member/10b98673-6998-46a9-9fab-b6ea35e1c9f1
Arwen (Cambridge).
Grad student, can't host, $400. Down to F with little effort. Pretty plain Asian but who knows how freaky she'll be behind closed doors. Bad at responding but going to keep trying.
https://www.seeking.com/member/b9c1f40c-3205-4930-b7f8-bd5adb86f33e
Erica563 (New Bedford).
Can host. Seems new to this. Too far for the looks. A little chubby plus buttahface. Seems down for anything though. $300+. Ugh may do it but unclear whether it's better than a visit to a FS AMP.
https://www.seeking.com/member/ecceecb2-8415-4360-a12b-9e6ea6465588
Speaking of AMPs I think this one works in one in Waltham. Looks like the mamasan at High St.
Qing Qing (Boston).
https://www.seeking.com/member/b0a19383-8b85-4e0f-bb59-6dfceefb8b99
Wanderlustgrl89 (Brockton).
Single mom, can't host, wants $ to meet. No thanks. Talked pretty dirty.
https://www.seeking.com/member/f1acab7f-3162-4895-9587-4eb683ffa75d
EasygoingSB (Tewksbury used to be Revere / Peabody).
She's been reviewed here. Khloe. Fat. But good head game. Gets really wet. Sometimes smells. But I've repeated in a pinch. $300. Can't host.
https://www.seeking.com/member/ed8cdb90-2c66-4e78-b9c4-29090b8c1611
Xoxobbotb (Boston).
Very vague about details but language implies Pro. Hot but not going to pursue.
https://www.seeking.com/member/d7ebbcdf-2a0c-4177-b09c-4feca40b0e2c
Good luck!
This one blocked me but she was really hot.
https://www.seeking.com/member/2ba55c9b-8483-4383-a063-35897a9d1595
Would love to know if anyone had any success with her.
I remember someone reviewed her. In conversation. Any intel would be appreciated. Pm works.
https://www.seeking.com/member/5837e30a-ebeb-4228-8cd7-2045af7b22e5
I have met her more than once. She's a pleasure to play with. All the possibilities, quite submissive. 250 per session cannot host. Sprayed creampies in every hole. She's open to meeting more guys. She's okay to be gang banged too if that's of someone's interest.
https://www.seeking.com/member/0fa94a14-ec0a-4ac1-a4d3-856ebd69e291Can you please PM her digits? I'd love to see her when I'm in town soon.
Can you please PM her digits? I'd love to see her when I'm in town soon.Why don't you just message her yourself, he provided the link.
This one blocked me but she was really hot.
https://www.seeking.com/member/2ba55c9b-8483-4383-a063-35897a9d1595
Would love to know if anyone had any success with her.Her profile is gone. Word must be out.
DrinIvisible
09-17-21, 18:28
Does she look like her pics?Of course, she does! I would have otherwise stated that.
Banjomania
09-18-21, 07:22
Erica from NB has been on Seeking and SB off and on a bunch of times during the pandemic. I have texted with her, but I got the impression that she would ghost if I actually forced a meeting. She had a song and dance about poverty and offered to sell pictures. Maybe it was just me. So I ghosted her.
Luxy (Boston).
$700 per meet. Hot. Won't budge on price. Wants dinner and a bang.
https://www.seeking.com/member/3bfd607f-64ca-4b6e-be3f-606ec9a22e73
BratttyPapaya (Manchester, NH).
Single mom, freaky, can host. $300. Didn't even make it to FS. Foreplay made me explode. Will repeat.
https://www.seeking.com/member/9c6547a8-3168-4b22-8cf2-a267d44a96ca
Angeline94 (Boston).
Tried to make plans but she ghosted me. Hot pics but she took them down. $600 per meet. Seems like a pro.
https://www.seeking.com/member/10b98673-6998-46a9-9fab-b6ea35e1c9f1
Arwen (Cambridge).
Grad student, can't host, $400. Down to F with little effort. Pretty plain Asian but who knows how freaky she'll be behind closed doors. Bad at responding but going to keep trying.
https://www.seeking.com/member/b9c1f40c-3205-4930-b7f8-bd5adb86f33e
Erica563 (New Bedford).
Can host. Seems new to this. Too far for the looks. A little chubby plus buttahface. Seems down for anything though. $300+. Ugh may do it but unclear whether it's better than a visit to a FS AMP.
https://www.seeking.com/member/ecceecb2-8415-4360-a12b-9e6ea6465588
Speaking of AMPs I think this one works in one in Waltham. Looks like the mamasan at High St.
Qing Qing (Boston).
https://www.seeking.com/member/b0a19383-8b85-4e0f-bb59-6dfceefb8b99
Wanderlustgrl89 (Brockton).
Single mom, can't host, wants $ to meet. No thanks. Talked pretty dirty.
https://www.seeking.com/member/f1acab7f-3162-4895-9587-4eb683ffa75d
EasygoingSB (Tewksbury used to be Revere / Peabody).
She's been reviewed here. Khloe. Fat. But good head game. Gets really wet. Sometimes smells. But I've repeated in a pinch. $300. Can't host.
https://www.seeking.com/member/ed8cdb90-2c66-4e78-b9c4-29090b8c1611
Xoxobbotb (Boston).
Very vague about details but language implies Pro. Hot but not going to pursue.
https://www.seeking.com/member/d7ebbcdf-2a0c-4177-b09c-4feca40b0e2c
Good luck!
Erica from NB has been on Seeking and SB off and on a bunch of times during the pandemic. I have texted with her, but I got the impression that she would ghost if I actually forced a meeting. She had a song and dance about poverty and offered to sell pictures. Maybe it was just me. So I ghosted her.That's the strategy of a fair number of women on SA; no intention of meeting and hoping to catch someone willing to pay for pics / vids. The SA account is free to them and it costs them nothing but time to try.
Peng Ting. What is this world coming to?
About Me.
Looking for someone to spoil me with gifts and take me shopping.
Treat me right and I'll treat you right!
I'm not looking for a sexual relationship and you MUST be willing to pay for the first meet or at-least take me shopping.
Looking for something long term.
https://www.seeking.com/member/36bd088d-083b-4c68-ac16-9c7c90e367ab
Ah maybe here.
Any hints as to who speaks a nice greek chat?
Thinner the better for me.
Thanks.
This one looked promising until I saw the private pic. I just don't think I can unsee that belly now.
https://www.seeking.com/member/7b92ca24-85bb-4629-adc9-a3b749c1d8bb
This one looked promising until I saw the private pic. I just don't think I can unsee that belly now.
https://www.seeking.com/member/7b92ca24-85bb-4629-adc9-a3b749c1d8bbAttaching pics sorry!
Trailman44
09-19-21, 09:14
Anyone have experience with this one?
https://www.seeking.com/member/c0f51807-79a7-4c36-881c-6960ce9c85ec
RandomChance72
09-20-21, 08:13
Her profile is gone. Word must be out.Profile is back.
Luxy (Boston).
$700 per meet. Hot. Won't budge on price. Wants dinner and a bang.
https://www.seeking.com/member/3bfd607f-64ca-4b6e-be3f-606ec9a22e73
BratttyPapaya (Manchester, NH).
Single mom, freaky, can host. $300. Didn't even make it to FS. Foreplay made me explode. Will repeat.
https://www.seeking.com/member/9c6547a8-3168-4b22-8cf2-a267d44a96ca
Angeline94 (Boston).
Tried to make plans but she ghosted me. Hot pics but she took them down. $600 per meet. Seems like a pro.
https://www.seeking.com/member/10b98673-6998-46a9-9fab-b6ea35e1c9f1
Arwen (Cambridge).
Grad student, can't host, $400. Down to F with little effort. Pretty plain Asian but who knows how freaky she'll be behind closed doors. Bad at responding but going to keep trying.
https://www.seeking.com/member/b9c1f40c-3205-4930-b7f8-bd5adb86f33e
Erica563 (New Bedford).
Can host. Seems new to this. Too far for the looks. A little chubby plus buttahface. Seems down for anything though. $300+. Ugh may do it but unclear whether it's better than a visit to a FS AMP.
https://www.seeking.com/member/ecceecb2-8415-4360-a12b-9e6ea6465588
Speaking of AMPs I think this one works in one in Waltham. Looks like the mamasan at High St.
Qing Qing (Boston).
https://www.seeking.com/member/b0a19383-8b85-4e0f-bb59-6dfceefb8b99
Wanderlustgrl89 (Brockton).
Single mom, can't host, wants $ to meet. No thanks. Talked pretty dirty.
https://www.seeking.com/member/f1acab7f-3162-4895-9587-4eb683ffa75d
EasygoingSB (Tewksbury used to be Revere / Peabody).
She's been reviewed here. Khloe. Fat. But good head game. Gets really wet. Sometimes smells. But I've repeated in a pinch. $300. Can't host.
https://www.seeking.com/member/ed8cdb90-2c66-4e78-b9c4-29090b8c1611
Xoxobbotb (Boston).
Very vague about details but language implies Pro. Hot but not going to pursue.
https://www.seeking.com/member/d7ebbcdf-2a0c-4177-b09c-4feca40b0e2c
Good luck!Was going to sign up with SA. You meet theses all these chicks? Trying to see if its worth signing up or not. Chicks seem hot but not sure if its spam like other sites or if this is legit?
Thanks.
Hobbyist420
09-22-21, 15:21
Was going to sign up with SA. You meet theses all these chicks? Trying to see if its worth signing up or not. Chicks seem hot but not sure if its spam like other sites or if this is legit?
Thanks.I will say, now it's $100 a month, not so sure now. I know people have had success if they are on for multiple months, but since the rona hit. The site is alot of scammers looking for cashapp, venmo, etc and girls looking for online only, or paying to just meet for coffee and stuff.
Rates start at around $400 now unless you are lucky. You'll also have more success outside the city, especially in RI, West MA, and on the North Shore. But also alot of those girls are single moms, semipros, or desperate women with issues or even worse, those who try to rob you and shit, so YMMV. Good luck.
Was going to sign up with SA. You meet theses all these chicks? Trying to see if its worth signing up or not. Chicks seem hot but not sure if its spam like other sites or if this is legit?
Thanks.Been on SA for 4+ years I usually keep the account active for a month or two. Get numbers set up dates and then am off for a long time until I need to get back on. I renewed my account this time on September 10th. I've gone to text with about 10 girls but only met one new one so far (BrattyPapaya). I met Khloe years ago. I have a hotel date tomorrow with one on my list. We had coffee last week. Not going to divulge details yet. She's expensive but we are hanging for at least 4 hours with the promise of multiple sessions. Order in food. Claims to like it rough.
As luck would have it I've continued messaging and also have texted with 4 other potentials. One I met up today virtually that I really want to meet in person with instead of the one tomorrow but I'm it going to ghost first girl. It's too bad because I really only have budget for one expensive date til end of the month.
Navigating SA is almost a full time job you have to constantly message and ask nice questions and say nice things to gain their trust. Then get to the juicy details via text so you don't get banned. And manage to keep everyone straight. It's sorta fun but also a pain in the ass. I have more profile intel and date costs I will post later.
If your budget includes spending 3-400 for a date or higher plus a hotel to bang 20 yr olds then I guess it's worth it. If not their are other sites.
The single moms are also really easy. They just want attention it's like shooting fish in a barrel.
Don't bring up sex, always let them do it. I've gotten even the most prissy girl on there to tell me some pretty dirty stuff. This innocent nurse told me she wants me to tie her up and gag her as an example.
More to come.
Anyone else have trouble buying one online? All my credit cards do fraud alert, then after I say its a good transaction the vanilla visa site won't accept it.
Trailman44
09-23-21, 10:10
So after a break I am chatting with a few ladies on seeking. I have been talking with this one:
https://members.seeking.com/member/563cae50-2326-491b-bd94-cd13e361fc41
She seems real and has shared her address but wants payment on a gift card. Has anyone done this with someone that is real? Anyone else chatting with her / met her?
So after a break I am chatting with a few ladies on seeking. I have been talking with this one:
https://members.seeking.com/member/563cae50-2326-491b-bd94-cd13e361fc41
She seems real and has shared her address but wants payment on a gift card. Has anyone done this with someone that is real? Anyone else chatting with her / met her?Even If someone in here says she's trustworthy and advised you to send the money. Do not do it. 100% chance are she will block you and the address is not really where she live.
LikesBikes
09-23-21, 10:42
Got a winner here. Anyone up for the challenge?
https://members.seeking.com/member/76154d5c-c420-47ff-ae7f-d9c1f8c6fd71
LOL!
Trailman44
09-23-21, 10:48
Even If someone in here says she's trustworthy and advised you to send the money. Do not do it. 100% chance are she will block you and the address is not really where she live.Yes and thank you. I would never send it to her. She said she would take it in person. Just curious if anyone has ever asked for that. I sniff a scam but am mot 100% sure.
Yes and thank you. I would never send it to her. She said she would take it in person. Just curious if anyone has ever asked for that. I sniff a scam but am mot 100% sure.Since I don't have seeking arrangement and never will. It seem everyone would rather meet for coffee first before they handle money. So ask her to meet you at walmart if she really serious and you'll be glad to give her money upfront to cashapp and the rest when you fuck.
Here we are in 2021, with about a million examples AND warnings from guys having been burned and we still get the question: Should I send her a deposit before meeting?
It's like groundhog day or something. It doesn't matter what she says or how hot she is, that deposit you're sending is blocking your ass the second it hits her (or most likely 'his') inbox.
Trailman44
09-23-21, 11:26
Here we are in 2021, with about a million examples AND warnings from guys having been burned and we still get the question: Should I send her a deposit before meeting?
It's like groundhog day or something. It doesn't matter what she says or how hot she is, that deposit you're sending is blocking your ass the second it hits her (or most likely 'his') inbox.Not the question I asked. She wants payment on a gift card "in person". She didn't ask for a deposit. Just curious if any one else has run across this. I have never sent a deposit and have never been scammed. Been around for a bit and am not an idiot. Answer the question I asked or not.
DrinIvisible
09-23-21, 11:34
Not the question I asked. She wants payment on a gift card "in person". She didn't ask for a deposit. Just curious if any one else has run across this. I have never sent a deposit and have never been scammed. Been around for a bit and am not an idiot. Answer the question I asked or not.My take is: If you buy the card with a cash transaction and not through one of your credit cards, I don't see any harm.
Not the question I asked. She wants payment on a gift card "in person". She didn't ask for a deposit. Just curious if any one else has run across this. I have never sent a deposit and have never been scammed. Been around for a bit and am not an idiot. Answer the question I asked or not.Usual scam for gift card is they will ask for the card number when you arrive before giving out the room number. Once you give them the number, they have access to the card and you won't get a room number or any reply.
I've been texting with her, but haven't met because schedules don't align. Seems genuine.
Anyone have experience with this one?
https://www.seeking.com/member/c0f51807-79a7-4c36-881c-6960ce9c85ec
Trailman44
09-23-21, 12:17
Usual scam for gift card is they will ask for the card number when you arrive before giving out the room number. Once you give them the number, they have access to the card and you won't get a room number or any reply.Thanks sounds. Never done it and never will. Best!
The best way not to get scammed is to stop treating these woman like there your gf and kissing there ass and actually thinking they like you. Treat them for what they are. There just woman looking to make money by the means they feel are necessary. Now not all woman are trying to scam but like anyone else once they spot a mark and an easy target then they will go for the kill. I read how you guys hand over the money when you walk in the door and how you have an ongoing thing and she said your best sex of her life so you trust her lending her money up front. I mean how dumb can you be. 70 % of these chicks have bfs. I agree with another guy here, single moms, legit single moms are the best ones to meet. But just use common sense and you won't get scammed.
ManDownUnder
09-23-21, 15:40
Thanks sounds. Never done it and never will. Best!I guess if you give her the GC at the end, then no harm. However, I agree there is a very high probability that she will ask for in advance and scam you. She'll just want to make sure it's real and you are not going to scam her, LOL. It also makes no sense, why would she want a GC over cash?
Hobbyist420
09-23-21, 15:56
Got a winner here. Anyone up for the challenge?
https://members.seeking.com/member/76154d5c-c420-47ff-ae7f-d9c1f8c6fd71
LOL!I just don't understand why girls like this don't just start an OF or do web camming. They'd make more money. Maybe they don't because that involves actual work.
As FYI to newbies on here: DO NOT send any gift cards, venmo, cashapp, etc before meet. Even if the girl is real; the thing today for theis new crop of SBs is often the old adage of "if you say a pervy, gross thing to 10 girls, 1 one like it".
Ditto with these girls, who are often real (there used to be WAY more fake profiles a few years ago), and they essentially try to talk to as many guys as they can to get them to send them anything. If for example, they talk and text 20 dudes, they only need 1-3 of them to actually send them money of any amount and they can call it a day without ever having to meet, put out, or shit even text you again. I mean if you did some example math, say they talk to 100 dudes week; if they get 10 dudes a week to send them $25, that's $200 a week for as minimal work as possible. It's a grift that is more and more popular, and they are often girls you'll see on multiple SB and even dating sites who look for these gullible dudes as a job.
If any girl ever tells you it's a requirement, or keep pressing about it, tell them why you won't send and only transact in person. It's against SA's policy to send money before meet (which they don't enforce, sadly, even if you report them), it can lead to a paper trail (which even a single dude like me is uncomfortable with), and obv explain to them why its sugar for intimacy, and if they don't understand it and keep pressing: then block their ass and on to the next one.
My take is: If you buy the card with a cash transaction and not through one of your credit cards, I don't see any harm.Do not waste your time with a gift card. If they want a card over cash it's a scam waiting to happen.
Hobbyist420
09-23-21, 18:44
The best way not to get scammed is to stop treating these woman like there your gf and kissing there ass and actually thinking they like you. Treat them for what they are. There just woman looking to make money by the means they feel are necessary. Now not all woman are trying to scam but like anyone else once they spot a mark and an easy target then they will go for the kill. I read how you guys hand over the money when you walk in the door and how you have an ongoing thing and she said your best sex of her life so you trust her lending her money up front. I mean how dumb can you be. 70 % of these chicks have bfs. I agree with another guy here, single moms, legit single moms are the best ones to meet. But just use common sense and you won't get scammed.Good post.
Will also add: all of my top SB true UTR experiences. They don't ask for the money upfront. Its not even a discussion until they are about to leave. Obv more rarer today than it was during the BP / CL era.
You can also have good experiences from girls who do ask up front; but those are usually from semi-pros. Who can be good experiences, but just understand that you aren't going to get that UTR attention. They usually are dating someone else ("dating" being a loose term if you catch my drift LOL), you are less likely to get overtime, and you are also less likely to get "value" (meaning you'll pay more of the market rates that are inflated nowadays, or clock watchers).
This is also why UTR single moms are the best value: they want a good time as well as money. It's not just about the money for them, mom is stressed and she needs dick haha. But single moms also tend to me the most likely semi-pros too, because they got bills to pay, but they'll usually be more candid about what they expect as supposed to a 21 year old texting you to send cashapp every 20 minutes. As always YMMV.
Purnikator
09-23-21, 20:58
I have been using SA and there is a girl who said she is 18 wanted to meet with me and stuff. So we started texting (used a google voice number) and talked about arrangements and no money amount or any explicit sexual was mentioned. We did exchange pictures mostly casual pictures but she did sent one nude photo later. Yesterday, her parents texted me with the number demanding an explanation why I am sending these messages to her 16 years old daughter or s / he would call the police. I briefly explained that her daughter was pretending she was 18 on a dating site and that I wouldn't have continued if I knew. I blocked her shortly after. In my mind, I know nothing is probably going to happen, but I've been really paranoid about this. How likely is the police going to track me down, and if they do, for what crime? Any advice will be greatly appreciated!Since last week, I have been communicating with this girl who pretended to be 19 on SA. Mostly well mannered messages like "how are you" and "how is it going" until yesterday evening. She shared 3 pics with power plants and then suddenly shared a pic showing her lower back. Then in the evening, a person using the same number texted to claim as the girl's father and started exactly like in attached post about going to police. Now profile seems to have gone or blocked me. I apologized saying I was not communicating with minor but then he said we could resolve this "man to man" and asked to settle by sending money". I somehow managed not to send anything until now but wanted to check for advice and wanted to share for awareness. Thank you.
https://members.seeking.com/member/b49e4567-da6b-44cf-b072-34a3acdaeefe
Since last week, I have been communicating with this girl who pretended to be 19 on SA. Mostly well mannered messages like "how are you" and "how is it going" until yesterday evening. She shared 3 pics with power plants and then suddenly shared a pic showing her lower back. Then in the evening, a person using the same number texted to claim as the girl's father and started exactly like in attached post about going to police. Now profile seems to have gone or blocked me. I apologized saying I was not communicating with minor but then he said we could resolve this "man to man" and asked to settle by sending money". I somehow managed not to send anything until now but wanted to check for advice and wanted to share for awareness. Thank you.
https://members.seeking.com/member/b49e4567-da6b-44cf-b072-34a3acdaeefeDon't send them a penny. These scams are not even good well thought scams. There old and typical. I'm really 16 and the father texts you which is actually her bf. The best one is the I can't meet I have no gas in my car so send me 50 for gas, yea because driving 10 miles to my house takes 50 bucks in gas. I just fight back with them. Punk them out, talk shit, there your typical internet losers all talk no action. Stand up to them, don't be afraid of the police because trust me 1000 % these scammers are never going to police and the biggest reason is once you make a police report you have to give your info and then the case becomes public record so noones cop calling.
Since last week, I have been communicating with this girl who pretended to be 19 on SA. Mostly well mannered messages like "how are you" and "how is it going" until yesterday evening. She shared 3 pics with power plants and then suddenly shared a pic showing her lower back. Then in the evening, a person using the same number texted to claim as the girl's father and started exactly like in attached post about going to police. Now profile seems to have gone or blocked me. I apologized saying I was not communicating with minor but then he said we could resolve this "man to man" and asked to settle by sending money". I somehow managed not to send anything until now but wanted to check for advice and wanted to share for awareness. Thank you.
https://members.seeking.com/member/b49e4567-da6b-44cf-b072-34a3acdaeefeI had a similar scam attempted with me. I told them I would meet them and pay them off. I gave them the address to a local gun range in Manchester and apparently they decided to do a no show LOL. Just push back on all of these rip off attempts and tell them to eff off. Most of them are so lazy they will give up pretty quick if you ignore them.
Hobbyist420
09-24-21, 13:48
Since last week, I have been communicating with this girl who pretended to be 19 on SA. Mostly well mannered messages like "how are you" and "how is it going" until yesterday evening. She shared 3 pics with power plants and then suddenly shared a pic showing her lower back. Then in the evening, a person using the same number texted to claim as the girl's father and started exactly like in attached post about going to police. Now profile seems to have gone or blocked me. I apologized saying I was not communicating with minor but then he said we could resolve this "man to man" and asked to settle by sending money". I somehow managed not to send anything until now but wanted to check for advice and wanted to share for awareness. Thank you.
https://members.seeking.com/member/b49e4567-da6b-44cf-b072-34a3acdaeefeAlways use VOIP numbers (I. E. Textnow). Don't share pictures that you use on social media or professional profiles. Don't even respond when stuff like this happens; immediately block the number after, and I'd also maybe even get and use a new number for SB activities as well for extra security so no bullshit comes across your eyes. Also report the profile to SA; I am sure if you mention posing as underage, they will take action to remove it.
I will add the profile is not up anymore, so that's good but I am sure the scammer will just start a new one.
I saw some posts about this. I've only sent money to a girl once and it was after we were texting for months because she was far away. And even though I knew who she was, we had talked on the phone, shared some explicit pics I still had some hesitation before sending her $ pre-date.
It's your money so do with it whatever you want but I will just tell you you DON'T have to do this. If someone is asking for it they've either been scammed or are a scammer period. If a girl can't carve out 30 minutes to meet you for coffee or a drink with no pre-compensation then shame on her.
I've had the most success with negotiating in person too. Women are bad negotiators face to face. Behind a keyboard they feel empowered. In person they crumble. I once got a girl down from 600 to 300 in person. That being said the 1000 per date crowd will probably want something in advance and quite frankly aren't worth it unless you are literally throwing away money.
I happy for the 3-4 range and have paid 5-6 on the high end. Sometimes you can get a 3-4 end girl do a card date or something filthy for less but it's rare. I also offer things like Amazon GCs or other gift cards to turn it from a money based relationship to gifts.
Your mileage may vary. Good luck.
Personal opinion is if someone asks for money predate just tell them you have 5 others who will meet you for nothing.
SolitaryMan603
09-24-21, 21:59
I had a similar scam attempted with me. I told them I would meet them and pay them off. I gave them the address to a local gun range in Manchester and apparently they decided to do a no show LOL. Just push back on all of these rip off attempts and tell them to eff off. Most of them are so lazy they will give up pretty quick if you ignore them.I usually give the address of the police station in some random town.
As for the gas money. I tell them I'll meet at the gas station of their choosing and fill up their tank. Usually they argue a little then give up.
The weird ones.
AnonymousSex (Shrewsbury).
https://members.seeking.com/member/463b37dc-e421-4210-b69c-0bbda9caacd3#.
Just wants sex. Come over have sex. Leave. Sounds too good to be true. Spidey sense tingling. Hard pass.
Coquettepanda16 (Wilmington).
https://members.seeking.com/member/df63615e-a80a-414b-8eac-c8d2a1efb598
Just weird with her panda obsession. I just couldn't get past that. And she messaged non stop. Seemed like a stage 5 clinger.
The strippers.
GorgeousGurl (RI).
https://members.seeking.com/member/dc0acde5-7b4c-4ce6-9a50-54f342ada0e1
Cute single mom. No idea where she dances. Seems to want a different type of experience than guys pawing her all night long at the club. Won't get intimate quickly. Not sure I want to put in the effort for something I can presumably get in a room at her work for a lot less money.
Honey6193 (RI).
https://members.seeking.com/member/936aad5c-cb38-4ed1-bef7-dec7eda92003
Petite dancer. Isn't very responsive. Same comment as one above.
Greek_Girl_ (multiple locations).
https://members.seeking.com/member/34864005-d194-46c8-9f15-9eae5f29c965
Rather notorious dancer from popular club in Providence. Advertises on Tryst and other sites. Expensive but hot. Will probably run you 6-7 per date.
Aliyah is 4 you.
https://members.seeking.com/member/5017b988-083f-413b-b2c1-7f5d6db79bbd
Not sure where she dances but seems to be straddling the line between escort and dancer. Messaging was difficult and I gave up.
The Expensive Young Ones.
Holly190 (Boston).
https://members.seeking.com/member/23ed3c5e-d8f1-495f-be38-712c5bad00a9
1 k per date. Need I say more?
Poppi Rae (Concord, NH).
https://members.seeking.com/member/5896375f-c2e5-498b-ba04-0067054f41db
Petite spinner. 800 per date. And won't do certain things. Next.
Will be doing a post on single moms and escorts next.
Still haven't found anyone consistent. I've gotten laid a few times but nothing to write home about.
This one is out of Providence so probably will check that board. Just seeing if anyone has any experience with her good or bad?
https://members.seeking.com/member/b95f74ee-6b20-43b0-9f03-fe96bb0cbdff
23, Asian.
Thanks!
SpicyPrince
09-27-21, 11:43
This one is out of Providence so probably will check that board. Just seeing if anyone has any experience with her good or bad?
https://members.seeking.com/member/b95f74ee-6b20-43b0-9f03-fe96bb0cbdff
23, Asian.
Thanks!I did speak to her and she sounds genuine. I have access to the pics she gave. However, she pulled the race card and send she doesn't like Indian men so did not pursue it further.
SpicyPrince
09-27-21, 12:32
Any info on these ids.
DiscreetKitten.
https://members.seeking.com/member/2a5d3417-4cdc-415f-8ab6-1c813a4c36a6
Julie.
https://members.seeking.com/member/fc8f9f27-7f86-4199-90f7-5ca973a37599
Fierylass.
https://members.seeking.com/member/c4e817a7-b47e-4c71-94b3-cb8cd438e6cb
StLex.
https://members.seeking.com/member/3096223b-fd4e-498d-a1e7-f259260abe77
Xtine.
https://members.seeking.com/member/d9ad3e8a-3757-41c5-a59d-40ec255e9fd7
BostonLady.
https://members.seeking.com/member/132da701-4a7f-42ac-9a5f-29be9de088b9
Taybayyy 25 Boston.
https://members.seeking.com/member/7b322aec-0d2b-4889-b70b-769698f8f9a1
Youch what happened between pics 1 & 2? Pretty sure it's the same chick.
Casey 20 Brookline.
https://members.seeking.com/member/1582641a-80f4-46d7-9e05-280169b78287
Cute college girl. Met her at Starbucks. Asked for 5 and I offered 4 and we were off to the races. Wouldn't go all the way first time and the oral and overall performance was so bad I cut my losses. Had to give her instructions. She told me usually she only has to let the guys touch her? I got this vision of some wicked old dude feeling her up and lost my wood like hopping in a freezing cold pool. Maybe she'll get better with experience?
Lulu 25 Western Ma.
https://members.seeking.com/member/7a752ec6-7e77-41a4-8f7f-8b528985c6e1
Too far out west for me but seems really cool and down for whatever. If you're in Worcester or farther west and a biker chick is what you're looking for I'd give her a shot.
Supra95 20 Boston but now says CT?
https://members.seeking.com/member/26b1d295-cde0-4989-9fdf-2cdaa9310a20
Pretty hot. Into stocks. Texted back and forth but seems to want an investor not a date. I think she may be scamming as her location changed. Annoying.
Girly girl 1987 24 Boston.
https://members.seeking.com/member/decd2ecd-d62d-4309-a011-102ee94e2a65
Literally wants you to buy her expensive shoes with nothing in return. As far as I can tell. Every sexual thing I suggested she just chuckled and went back to shoes she wanted.
Allie 25 Boston.
https://members.seeking.com/member/ed97b7e8-9c8d-4f1f-be2d-14d2d1bda973
Back and forth but won't tell me what she wants. She's hot so prob too expensive.
BostonBlondeBeauty.
https://members.seeking.com/member/f1bd8736-8940-4c23-ac3d-2bbf0e1b6bb5
Pretty sure this is Cassandra who's been posted about on here before. Pics are prob pre drug problem. I believe some members on here got ripped off by her.
Chatted with Lulu about 3-4 years ago. She seems sweet and genuine, but she was looking for something way out of my budget range. I believe she wanted $800 for first meet, with no guarantee of any private time, and was looking for something north of 3 K per month allowance for a long term thing. Plus shopping trips and dinners! Don't remember her location, but I think she was closer to the city back then??
Right on with BostonBlondeBeauty. That is Cassandra with her 4th or 5th new profile.
Casey 20 Brookline.
https://members.seeking.com/member/1582641a-80f4-46d7-9e05-280169b78287
Cute college girl. Met her at Starbucks. Asked for 5 and I offered 4 and we were off to the races. Wouldn't go all the way first time and the oral and overall performance was so bad I cut my losses. Had to give her instructions. She told me usually she only has to let the guys touch her? I got this vision of some wicked old dude feeling her up and lost my wood like hopping in a freezing cold pool. Maybe she'll get better with experience?
Lulu 25 Western Ma.
https://members.seeking.com/member/7a752ec6-7e77-41a4-8f7f-8b528985c6e1
Too far out west for me but seems really cool and down for whatever. If you're in Worcester or farther west and a biker chick is what you're looking for I'd give her a shot.
Supra95 20 Boston but now says CT?
https://members.seeking.com/member/26b1d295-cde0-4989-9fdf-2cdaa9310a20
Pretty hot. Into stocks. Texted back and forth but seems to want an investor not a date. I think she may be scamming as her location changed. Annoying.
Girly girl 1987 24 Boston.
https://members.seeking.com/member/decd2ecd-d62d-4309-a011-102ee94e2a65
Literally wants you to buy her expensive shoes with nothing in return. As far as I can tell. Every sexual thing I suggested she just chuckled and went back to shoes she wanted.
Allie 25 Boston.
https://members.seeking.com/member/ed97b7e8-9c8d-4f1f-be2d-14d2d1bda973
Back and forth but won't tell me what she wants. She's hot so prob too expensive.
BostonBlondeBeauty.
https://members.seeking.com/member/f1bd8736-8940-4c23-ac3d-2bbf0e1b6bb5
Pretty sure this is Cassandra who's been posted about on here before. Pics are prob pre drug problem. I believe some members on here got ripped off by her.
Taybayyy 25 Boston.
https://members.seeking.com/member/7b322aec-0d2b-4889-b70b-769698f8f9a1
Youch what happened between pics 1 & 2? Pretty sure it's the same chick.It is the same girl according to the tattoo.
What happened? 10 hard years happened. Typical semi-pro who thinks she can use old pics and get away with putting 10 years younger on her profile. IRL she's probably 35 and easily looks over 40.
The weird ones.
AnonymousSex (Shrewsbury).
https://members.seeking.com/member/463b37dc-e421-4210-b69c-0bbda9caacd3#.
Just wants sex. Come over have sex. Leave. Sounds too good to be true. Spidey sense tingling. Hard pass.
.So the deal is she leaves the door open, you walk in, lock it, go to her bedroom and she will be naked and blindfolded, you have sex with her while she is blindfolded and then you leave your money and go. WTF? Shakedown? Blackmail? Anybody want to take the risk and report back. LOL.
Trailman44
10-02-21, 07:44
So the deal is she leaves the door open, you walk in, lock it, go to her bedroom and she will be naked and blindfolded, you have sex with her while she is blindfolded and then you leave your money and go. WTF? Shakedown? Blackmail? Anybody want to take the risk and report back. LOL.I have been chatting with her but probably won't take the plunge. She wants 400 (450 to go BB) for what amounts to a QV. No foreplay, no msog. I'd rather meet someone else and get more time.
I have been chatting with her but probably won't take the plunge. She wants 400 (450 to go BB) for what amounts to a QV. No foreplay, no msog. I'd rather meet someone else and get more time.If it sounds TGTBT then it probably is. Invite a stranger into my house, then have sex with said stranger, then blackmail or report a rape. It may end up costing more than he high entrance fee. Good luck to the risk taker but these days are weird enough without going the extra mile for more weird shit.
This hottie wanted me to hand over 400 at the m&g with promises of fun afterwards.
Yeah right. Anybody take this risk successfully with this one.
https://members.seeking.com/member/4195b4f0-5449-4a8a-b30c-d0f880e45895
If this is a scam, it's a pretty sick one!
https://members.seeking.com/member/4a2a3191-0907-45fe-b5b2-6d048242c7c4
I by no means am an expert or doctor, but don't most Quadriplegics use motorized wheel chairs?
God bless her if she is real and enjoying herself!
If this is a scam, it's a pretty sick one!
https://members.seeking.com/member/4a2a3191-0907-45fe-b5b2-6d048242c7c4
I by no means am an expert or doctor, but don't most Quadriplegics use motorized wheel chairs?
God bless her if she is real and enjoying herself!I saw an Asian in a wheelchair account yesterday and it's recent location was "Australia" this account is newer but looks like the same pic. So I'm leaning heavily towards scam.
She either blocked me or left the site.
This hottie wanted me to hand over 400 at the m&g with promises of fun afterwards.
Yeah right. Anybody take this risk successfully with this one.
https://members.seeking.com/member/4195b4f0-5449-4a8a-b30c-d0f880e45895
Trailman44
10-03-21, 10:35
I'm going to be in Worcester and have been speaking with this one. Anyone have any experience?
https://members.seeking.com/member/40764423-0cd4-4d3c-b4a8-14f8717ee0cc
BostonNorth16
10-03-21, 12:00
Does anyone use their own credit card? What are the risks? No one sees my statements so that is not a worry for me.
She either blocked me or left the site.Is this the same girl?
https://members.seeking.com/member/bcf9f161-2c57-436e-8e77-8f4c0040f0a4
Yes. She is using a different profile name now. Probably reads this site. LOL.
Is this the same girl?
https://members.seeking.com/member/bcf9f161-2c57-436e-8e77-8f4c0040f0a4
Anyone seen Alina from Framingham lately? Is she still there? Is she still seeing people? How does she look nowadays? Any info appreciated.
I have been chatting with her but probably won't take the plunge. She wants 400 (450 to go BB) for what amounts to a QV. No foreplay, no msog. I'd rather meet someone else and get more time.She represents the opposite of what SA is all about: multi-hour un-timed BCD, extended foreplay, BB with no upsell, msog, etc. Forget her, to many other good choices.
Does anyone use their own credit card? What are the risks? No one sees my statements so that is not a worry for me.I used my CC for the first time signing up and then had bogus charges almost immediately after. Also they automatically renew your subscription and it may be hard to turn it off without canceling the CC.
Anyone have better, same, or worse with https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/?.
Was going to check out sugar daddy, looks "OK".
NewEngland
10-03-21, 19:53
Start talking this one and she comes out and wants a grand for each meeting the Kitty better be more than Magic.
https://members.seeking.com/member/3f4ba468-38a5-49e6-aff2-3f8d3fee8fdd
Start talking this one and she comes out and wants a grand for each meeting the Kitty better be more than Magic.
https://members.seeking.com/member/3f4ba468-38a5-49e6-aff2-3f8d3fee8fddA grand for what? That's insane she's not even that hot. There's pornstars on SA asking for less.
Anyone have better, same, or worse with https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/?.
Was going to check out sugar daddy, looks "OK".I did not find it that great. I was only able to hook up with one girl after talking with many. Probably with giving it a try but I won't set your expectations too high.
I used my CC for the first time signing up and then had bogus charges almost immediately after. Also they automatically renew your subscription and it may be hard to turn it off without canceling the CC.I have used mine a few tomes and nrver had those issues. I sign up and then immediately go to setting to turn off the autorenew.
One caution, my cc company has flagged the charge as possibly fraud. Depending on your card company they may call or text you, so be careful if they text a phone or call a number that your wife might check. They likely will not call your burner.
Has she improved at all? Is she changing for the better or just changing?
Does anyone use their own credit card? What are the risks? No one sees my statements so that is not a worry for me.There was discussion about this on ThE otheR forum and several posts reporting they use their own cards with no problem other than possibly raising a fraud alert that's easily cleared when the card's customer service department calls.
MontereyJack
10-04-21, 16:48
There was discussion about this on ThE otheR forum and several posts reporting they use their own cards with no problem other than possibly raising a fraud alert that's easily cleared when the card's customer service department calls.What happens if there's another Madison type leak or data breach? Criminals have your name and billing info and can connect them to your profile. Up to you if that matters. To each their own.
CandyMan555
10-04-21, 22:18
Anyone have better, same, or worse with https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/?.
Was going to check out sugar daddy, looks "OK".Seeking is so easy to use and navigate sent messages you get a notice if someone favorites you or looks at your profile.
Hands down way better Be careful what you write in your messages no mention of money ppm sex etc If they ban you you have to start all over.
Happy Hunting.
Billlc3425
10-04-21, 22:38
Does anyone use their own credit card? What are the risks? No one sees my statements so that is not a worry for me.Sites get hacked often these days, and data dumps can occur. Your probably fine if no one is looking at your statements. But if your interested in a little more privacy you can purchase an online visa gift card, and use that for seeking. Its what I did for one month of sign up. It also has the benefit of preventing them from continually charging you if you forget to cancel.
Yes. She is using a different profile name now. Probably reads this site. LOL."Natick" Girl 3rd profile in as many days. New one today:
https://members.seeking.com/member/5de8cbd2-39cb-48a8-bdc0-e6538983f9dc
Seriously this girl must have a ton of time on her hands to keep creating new profiles. If she's desperate for cash they are hiring at Home Depot.
What happens if there's another Madison type leak or data breach? Criminals have your name and billing info and can connect them to your profile. Up to you if that matters. To each their own.True, however, the same is true of every online site where a credit card is used that has / had a major data breach. The issue with Seeking is the tie-in to your profile and here there are two scenarios.
A data breach of SA's card processor will presumably not expose your profile no more than a data breach of any retail store's card processor would expose that store's accounts.
The other scenario is a breach of SA itself, in which case we don't know whether SA stores card numbers. If they're smart about it, they're processing charges as subscriptions and have no need to save card numbers, as the case with many retailers to limit liability. Monthly re-billing happens automatically by the card processor; SA is not rerunning the card. On the other hand, a data breach of SA is far more likely to expose profile user names and passwords (rather than card numbers) which is a separate problem not related to the question at hand.
Anybody see this one? In conversation. Pm works.
https://members.seeking.com/member/9ba69f86-b1ae-4119-bd57-fff64411c74e
CandyMan555
10-05-21, 16:39
When I am on another screen I get pop up messages from Seeking such as Hey xxxxx just viewed you or Hey xxxx just sent you a message.
This is ok when I am using the computer but if someone else in my house was using it I would be embarrassed.
Any advice how to prevent this?
Thnks CM.
When I am on another screen I get pop up messages from Seeking such as Hey xxxxx just viewed you or Hey xxxx just sent you a message.
This is ok when I am using the computer but if someone else in my house was using it I would be embarrassed.
Any advice how to prevent this?
Thnks CM.Pop-up messages happen only when logged-on. When you finish visiting Seeking be sure to log off. Not just close your browser but actually log off. It's that simple.
Also, when you (are logged on and) receive a pop-up, I believe there's an option to click on the pop-up window to turn them off, if I remember correctly.
When I am on another screen I get pop up messages from Seeking such as Hey xxxxx just viewed you or Hey xxxx just sent you a message.
This is ok when I am using the computer but if someone else in my house was using it I would be embarrassed.
Any advice how to prevent this?
Thnks CM.First of all you need to be more discreet when you are surfing SA and you must have your own private device. Using a shared device is a disaster waiting to happen.
I use a dedicated iPad for all of my hobbies and hide all of my fake app accounts in the extra app on my devices. I search the sites only when I am certain I am in a secure situation. You should have dedicated email, text or other apps used for communication and they should not have any of your real info that leads to the real you.
Joe Parkers
10-05-21, 20:17
Anyone have better, same, or worse with https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/?.
Was going to check out sugar daddy, looks "OK".I am on both and I can tell you that you will find the same women on both, basically most of girls that on seeking are on sugardaddy. Seeking is a lot easier to navigate and more user friendly but once you get around sugar daddy you're good. The one thing I love about sugar daddy is once you start talking to someone you will still can even if your account expired which not the case in seeking 2 times the price of sugardaddy.
How do you guys screen once you move from SA to texting?
How do you guys screen once you move from SA to texting?I usually have them send me a selfie of them holding up a certain number of fingers to make sure they are real. Then meet at a neutral location to make sure you're not getting mugged. I try to only book hotels that are able to be canceled. Other than that texting is the best bc you can say whatever you want without getting banned from sa.
Anyone ever see this one? I know she's in RI but she keeps popping up on my SA home page and she looks hot.
https://members.seeking.com/member/842843f2-005e-4ab1-b08c-088d3c215579
Full time college student. I am eager to please and open minded. Looking for some help getting me though school, let's chat!
How do you guys screen once you move from SA to texting?If you can get them to go to email. Not easy these days. Many will use their actual email address which contains their name. A quick search with their name and city and you have their mug shot or an article in a local paper about their arrest.
How do you guys screen once you move from SA to texting?Most girls are reluctant to move to text on their real phone. So I have a fake IG, TikTok, SC, FB and a text app just in case. Once you move to one of their social media outlets it's easy. I really don't work that hard a screening after that. They either want to meet at a reasonable price or not. I get to the number game very quickly.
CandyMan555
10-07-21, 16:12
How do you guys screen once you move from SA to texting?I use spokeo.com sometime you get nothing.
BostonNorth16
10-08-21, 08:35
Where can I purchase an online visa gift card? What is the brand name?
Sites get hacked often these days, and data dumps can occur. Your probably fine if no one is looking at your statements. But if your interested in a little more privacy you can purchase an online visa gift card, and use that for seeking. Its what I did for one month of sign up. It also has the benefit of preventing them from continually charging you if you forget to cancel.
BostonJones
10-08-21, 16:52
https://members.seeking.com/member/6aa3d9f2-5e8b-455e-a5d1-4bcb4bb5828f
Using pictures from Swedish Model https://www.google.com/search?client=safari&rls=en&q=Klara+Linnea+Hellqvist&ie=UTF-8&oe=UTF-8.
WillSmith96
10-09-21, 10:43
Where can I purchase an online visa gift card? What is the brand name?Target or Walmart.
CandyMan555
10-09-21, 23:12
Is there any way to tell if photos sent to my cell phone are legit??
Thanks CM.
InterTravlr56
10-10-21, 09:15
Anyone ever see this one? I know she's in RI but she keeps popping up on my SA home page and she looks hot.
https://members.seeking.com/member/842843f2-005e-4ab1-b08c-088d3c215579
Full time college student. I am eager to please and open minded. Looking for some help getting me though school, let's chat!***** never responds.
Hobbyist420
10-10-21, 10:01
Is there any way to tell if photos sent to my cell phone are legit??
Thanks CM.Google image search.
https://www.google.com/imghp?hl=EN
Download the file and plop it in there.
Evaheb, 28, Wellesley.
https://members.seeking.com/member/5f68a9d1-0491-4737-88a9-1e5cf376fe62
Tough to communicate with won't give out any details on what she wants. Pretty good private pics. I wonder what it takes to bang her.
Juztme4 u, 33, South Shore.
https://members.seeking.com/member/2d01abef-f67f-4bd3-8fb1-a81a5bb6a19f
Single mom. Cute. Gets pretty dirty in her messaging. But doesn't seem to ever want to meet.
Mermaidcayy, 29, Southern NH.
https://members.seeking.com/member/0cb5e38d-9173-4a97-80e3-cae87af17c10
Hot, all holes open, quoted me 6. But with a drive and a hotel definitely overpriced. Passed.
WorshipThis, 38, Milton.
https://members.seeking.com/member/0bc0f568-94aa-491f-a6c4-264622860018
MILF, can host, talks some pretty serious game. 4 was agreed upon. Place was a mess. No cover but smell turned me off. Decent time but won't repeat.
Alexaaaa23,23, Boston.
https://members.seeking.com/member/ef1e7599-4050-41a1-ad90-a07829f7eb5c
GPS says she is being courted by 50+ guys. Mmmm hmm. Great pics. But can already tell she wants more than she's worth.
CheekyTemptress, 26.
https://members.seeking.com/member/8dac0fc3-aa55-4abb-89cb-fa954769db8b
Says Boston but is really from Cape Cod. Will take $250 for a romp. Travel to you. Everything is covered and is pretty good. Did not pursue the 3rd hole but might be available.
https://members.seeking.com/member/ebae297a-c7fa-48d2-a8b5-ed85f770a7ca
What's this broads deal? Is she real? Always on there with new accounts. Looks good though.
Hobbyist420
10-13-21, 15:10
https://members.seeking.com/member/ebae297a-c7fa-48d2-a8b5-ed85f770a7ca
What's this broads deal? Is she real? Always on there with new accounts. Looks good though.Either a fake account trying to get cashapp money, or an actual person trying to get cashapp money. They get reported via screenshot, and then kicked off the site. But one can easily make a new profile with new user name to get around that. SA's quality control around these things is horrible.
Also semi-pros / pros also tend to make new profiles on a regular basis to not leave the pro scent because they know the men are getting smarter in hunting for UTR.
Member #6453
10-13-21, 21:48
This girl wanted $500 for an evening out. Drinks, talk and fun at her place.
She wanted payment up front. Agreed to give her $100 and $400 in her apartment. Got to restaurant and had 45 minutes of nice conversation. Foolishly gave her the remaining $400. At that point she bolted out and climbed into a van that was waiting the entire time for her.
Of course, her cell phone line went dead. She is now listed on SA as Sweet Chick. She has been through a number of names and profiles in the last few days, but is consistently listed as being from Natick.
She is a complete scam.
Member #6453
10-13-21, 23:08
Either a fake account trying to get cashapp money, or an actual person trying to get cashapp money. They get reported via screenshot, and then kicked off the site. But one can easily make a new profile with new user name to get around that. SA's quality control around these things is horrible.
Also semi-pros / pros also tend to make new profiles on a regular basis to not leave the pro scent because they know the men are getting smarter in hunting for UTR.Report to follow. She will take your money and run.
Hobbyist420
10-14-21, 15:29
This girl wanted $500 for an evening out. Drinks, talk and fun at her place.
She wanted payment up front. Agreed to give her $100 and $400 in her apartment. Got to restaurant and had 45 minutes of nice conversation. Foolishly gave her the remaining $400. At that point she bolted out and climbed into a van that was waiting the entire time for her.
Of course, her cell phone line went dead. She is now listed on SA as Sweet Chick. She has been through a number of names and profiles in the last few days, but is consistently listed as being from Natick.
She is a complete scam.Ugh that SUCKS.
Pre-BP shutdown, I never worried about this shit from girls on SA (naive on my part, but I also screened well). Also seems more boyfriends getting involved in these scams.
Before it was no money before meet. And now its also no money until the deed is done and if they refuse, then move on to the next one. Risk aint worth it.
Member #6453
10-14-21, 15:51
Ugh that SUCKS.
Pre-BP shutdown, I never worried about this shit from girls on SA (naive on my part, but I also screened well). Also seems more boyfriends getting involved in these scams.
Before it was no money before meet. And now its also no money until the deed is done and if they refuse, then move on to the next one. Risk aint worth it.She started the run as soon as the cash touched her hands. There was no time to respond, although a response might have been dangerous.
The problem, as I see it, is that dishonest people always have the upper hand. Let's say that one is in her apartment and the $500 has been passed over. Then, a big man shows up and threatens violence. There are a few guys on this site who know how to handle a threat, but I am not one of them. Nor would an encounter that might result in the presence of law enforcement be worthwhile. In fact, I would gladly forgo $500 rather than involve LEO.
That is why reviews matter. Real reviews that involve actually seeing the gal.
This girl wanted $500 for an evening out. Drinks, talk and fun at her place.
She wanted payment up front. Agreed to give her $100 and $400 in her apartment. Got to restaurant and had 45 minutes of nice conversation. Foolishly gave her the remaining $400. At that point she bolted out and climbed into a van that was waiting the entire time for her.
Of course, her cell phone line went dead. She is now listed on SA as Sweet Chick. She has been through a number of names and profiles in the last few days, but is consistently listed as being from Natick.
She is a complete scam.Unfortunately you had to learn the hard way in a big way. My opinion and have posted several times, I will never pay that much and I will never pay up front. Ever. Coffee dates are the best for meet and greets as it's low risk and then make a date for an outcall at a hotel for the first time. You have more control of the situation and if she decides to flake her real intentions are exposed. Don't check in until she arrives either.
I know it hard to resist sometimes but if you read these posts you see a common denominator. Paying first smells like a rip-off. Good luck next time and we have all been there so just keep trying.
Has she improved at all? Is she changing for the better or just changing?Transformed to Stacey Mack:
https://www.eros.com/massachusetts/boston/files/3575369.htm?cat=1
RandomChance72
10-15-21, 16:57
The problem, as I see it, is that dishonest people always have the upper hand. Let's say that one is in her apartment and the $500 has been passed over. Then, a big man shows up and threatens violence. There are a few guys on this site who know how to handle a threat, but I am not one of them. Nor would an encounter that might result in the presence of law enforcement be worthwhile. In fact, I would gladly forgo $500 rather than involve LEO.
That is why reviews matter. Real reviews that involve actually seeing the gal.Reviews matter. But there are small tips and tricks that can help further mitigate risk. One trick I use is to offer three different price points based on services offered. For example I might offer:
Option 1: FS for 200.
Option 2: BBFS for 250.
Option 3: BBFS w/ Anal for 300.
If a girl is planning to steal your money and run, she'll likely choose option 3 to maximize her payday. Obviously there are some girls who are cool with BBFS anal, but I think we all know that these are rare.
I like this trick because it alerts me to start looking for other clues if a girl agrees to option 3. Another dead give away I've seen is girls who choose option 3 quickly and without hesitation. In my experience, even girls who are down with anal usually ask lots of questions and add qualifiers (i.e. "how big are you? "I'm not really that into anal", "we can try but I can't promise anything", etc.).
At the end of the day, there's always some risk involve. But if you're smart, you can mitigate some risk.
Reviews matter. But there are small tips and tricks that can help further mitigate risk. One trick I use is to offer three different price points based on services offered. For example I might offer:
Option 1: FS for 200.
Option 2: BBFS for 250.
Option 3: BBFS w/ Anal for 300.
If a girl is planning to steal your money and run, she'll likely choose option 3 to maximize her payday. Obviously there are some girls who are cool with BBFS anal, but I think we all know that these are rare.
I like this trick because it alerts me to start looking for other clues if a girl agrees to option 3. Another dead give away I've seen is girls who choose option 3 quickly and without hesitation. In my experience, even girls who are down with anal usually ask lots of questions and add qualifiers (i.e. "how big are you? "I'm not really that into anal", "we can try but I can't promise anything", etc.).
At the end of the day, there's always some risk involve. But if you're smart, you can mitigate some risk.This tactic may work for your average back page type hooker. But I hope you are not asking the average college chick or young professional these types of questions on this site. This is why they delete their account in the first week or two.
The best advice I can give and what previous posters have already mentioned, never give money upfront. Just don't do it. Anyone that asks for money upfront is a scammer. I made this mistake once years ago. I will never make that mistake again knowing that one simple rule.
RandomChance72
10-15-21, 19:42
This tactic may work for your average back page type hooker. But I hope you are not asking the average college chick or young professional these types of questions on this site. This is why they delete their account in the first week or two.Girls that delete their accounts within the first two weeks are usually the ones who have their dreams shattered once they realize most guys won't pay them purely for the benefit of being in their company.
Regardless. At some point money is discussed (whether its at the M&G or before). This would be the time to utilize this approach. When I wrote my original post I assumed I didn't need to add the obvious disclaimers (establish rapport, don't frame it as a choice / ultimatum, remember not to be hyper logical, etc). But I guess I'll state it explicitly for those less savvy at using their soft skills.
As always, tips are tips. Use what works for you.
Billlc3425
10-16-21, 00:16
Where can I purchase an online visa gift card? What is the brand name?Right here.
https://www.vanillagift.com/
She's still on here making profiles avoid at all costs.
https://members.seeking.com/member/9756c608-571f-42d8-9cf7-142be4283e4a
She will take your money and quite literally run away with it. Into a van.
Transformed to Stacey Mack:
https://www.eros.com/massachusetts/boston/files/3575369.htm?cat=1ON SA with the new profile: https://members.seeking.com/member/b6694b2e-4592-4255-9add-ec32cd7d3b2b.
Gianni Versace
10-17-21, 11:25
ON SA with the new profile: https://members.seeking.com/member/b6694b2e-4592-4255-9add-ec32cd7d3b2b.It's kind of crazy but I remember Jenna from back in the day when she kind of looked like the girl next door & introduced her to many of the guys on here. Can't believe her transformation & look to be a full blown hooker now.
It's kind of crazy but I remember Jenna from back in the day when she kind of looked like the girl next door & introduced her to many of the guys on here. Can't believe her transformation & look to be a full blown hooker now.I met her a couple of times when she was thin and trim. She was just starting her hooker journey and hadn't been bitten by demons yet. I actually would pick her up at her house so you knew she was naive. Great visits with her and full GFE with all BB options. She started to raise her prices once she became popular so I never went back and the demons got a hold on her.
That is why reviews matter. Real reviews that involve actually seeing the gal.The college and grad school girls I see don't have reviews and my relationship with them would not have me posting reviews (of anyone I see regularly). I will respond here if it's someone who's flaked, or starfished, etc.
You don't need reviews -- you need "game. " An approach, and patience, and talking to these girls the way they want to be talked to.
Then you send up sleeping with as many 20-25 yr old girl-next-door students and recent grads as you want.
Evaheb, 28, Wellesley.
https://members.seeking.com/member/5f68a9d1-0491-4737-88a9-1e5cf376fe62
Tough to communicate with won't give out any details on what she wants. Pretty good private pics. I wonder what it takes to bang her.
Her profile says "platonic. " That often means no banging at all.
The college and grad school girls I see don't have reviews and my relationship with them would not have me posting reviews (of anyone I see regularly). I will respond here if it's someone who's flaked, or starfished, etc.
You don't need reviews -- you need "game. " An approach, and patience, and talking to these girls the way they want to be talked to.
Then you send up sleeping with as many 20-25 yr old girl-next-door students and recent grads as you want.Bran has the formula for the SA girls I prefer. I use the soft no pressure approach but try to get to the number details as soon as I can to allow me to either pass or get more serious. I never review or expose the girls I am with or have been unless they a scammers, want prepay or turn to a high volume provider. Most of the girls I have seen are regular college girls or single moms. They eventually move on to real life or find a real partner. I have found platonic and luxury lifestyle profile tags tend to go nowhere for me.
I am currently working a smoking hot 20 yr old that I have been communicating with for a few months. We have a scheduled meet up this week after patiently waiting for her to commit and agree on a good gift amount. It may all crash and burn but she continues respond so hopefully it will happen this week. But like a lot of these inexperienced girls you just don't know until they show up.
Banjomania
10-17-21, 21:01
Not to give you guys any ideas, but I banged an SB a couple of times a few years ago and she told me a story of getting taken by a guy she met on Seeking. He seemed mature and responsible. They went out to dinner at Grill 23. He ordered an expensive steak and an excellent bottle of Cabernet which he downed most of. Then he excused himself to go to the men's room. She never saw him again. He bolted and left her to deal with the bill. She was not maybe the most beautiful bulb on the planet, but nothing wrong with her. African American grad student in her early 30's. I certainly enjoyed my times with her. He was just a scammer. So, it goes both ways.
Unfortunately you had to learn the hard way in a big way. My opinion and have posted several times, I will never pay that much and I will never pay up front. Ever. Coffee dates are the best for meet and greets as it's low risk and then make a date for an outcall at a hotel for the first time. You have more control of the situation and if she decides to flake her real intentions are exposed. Don't check in until she arrives either.
I know it hard to resist sometimes but if you read these posts you see a common denominator. Paying first smells like a rip-off. Good luck next time and we have all been there so just keep trying.
Hobbyist420
10-18-21, 18:02
Bran has the formula for the SA girls I prefer. I use the soft no pressure approach but try to get to the number details as soon as I can to allow me to either pass or get more serious. I never review or expose the girls I am with or have been unless they a scammers, want prepay or turn to a high volume provider. Most of the girls I have seen are regular college girls or single moms. They eventually move on to real life or find a real partner. I have found platonic and luxury lifestyle profile tags tend to go nowhere for me.This is the way to go, esp to not waste your time.
Although I found its harder to find someone who: actually wants to text on a regular cadence (or even gets back to you after you text them) to actually pry out these details, who doesn't ask for money via app before meet, or isn't a hardened semi-pro of some type.
The UTRs are harder and harder to find, but being on SA for more than 1 mth helps, as well as aiming for outside greater Boston for best options of price and availability.
Aimstraight
10-18-21, 21:30
Rue is nice enough and no problems communicating. Wants 500 hr meet and requires at least 2 hours per meet. Are you wanting to pay 1 K for a 2 hour visit?
https://members.seeking.com/member/2d1fc762-1f58-4f33-b0e8-d67923ac66ea
WillSmith96
10-19-21, 10:00
Looking at that booty there's only one thing I wanted, but she's a hard No on anal.
https://members.seeking.com/member/92a71386-448b-44c4-8a2c-ffd14d670f46
I am currently working a smoking hot 20 yr old that I have been communicating with for a few months. We have a scheduled meet up this week after patiently waiting for her to commit and agree on a good gift amount. It may all crash and burn but she continues respond so hopefully it will happen this week. But like a lot of these inexperienced girls you just don't know until they show up.I did 2 coffee dates with a 20 yr old with an amazing athletic, thin, tight body, then finally a hotel room date. Such a disappointment. Her sex skills were barely a 3 out of 10. She's texted me a couple of times since, but honestly I have little enough time that it's just not compelling. Classic inexperienced Catholic girl.
Not to give you guys any ideas, but I banged an SB a couple of times a few years ago and she told me a story of getting taken by a guy she met on Seeking. He seemed mature and responsible. They went out to dinner at Grill 23. He ordered an expensive steak and an excellent bottle of Cabernet which he downed most of. Then he excused himself to go to the men's room. She never saw him again. He bolted and left her to deal with the bill. She was not maybe the most beautiful bulb on the planet, but nothing wrong with her. African American grad student in her early 30's. I certainly enjoyed my times with her. He was just a scammer. So, it goes both ways.I doubt that the restaurant would look to hold her responsible. If she said that was the case I'd put the entire story in doubt.
I did 2 coffee dates with a 20 yr old with an amazing athletic, thin, tight body, then finally a hotel room date. Such a disappointment. Her sex skills were barely a 3 out of 10. She's texted me a couple of times since, but honestly I have little enough time that it's just not compelling. Classic inexperienced Catholic girl.Hmmm, not my experience at all with Catholic girls. Maybe it is the "inexperienced" part that was the problem. You can PM me her SA profile link if you want. I am a patient instructor.
For all the class they show.
There's nothing like a Catholic Girl.
At the CYO.
When they learn to blow.
-Frank Zappa.
Hmmm, not my experience at all with Catholic girls. Maybe it is the "inexperienced" part that was the problem. You can PM me her SA profile link if you want. I am a patient instructor.
Inexperienced for sure.
Looking at that booty there's only one thing I wanted, but she's a hard No on anal.
https://members.seeking.com/member/92a71386-448b-44c4-8a2c-ffd14d670f46Thanks for the clickbait. Thought I was going to see a nice Spanish chick with a tight, big perfect ass and I click the profile and get this fat whales disgusting ass in my face and now I can't unsee what I just saw. Thanks for that.
I had warned everybody about this scammer. Always check the forum. Sorry this happened but I knew she was FOS.
This girl wanted $500 for an evening out. Drinks, talk and fun at her place.
She wanted payment up front. Agreed to give her $100 and $400 in her apartment. Got to restaurant and had 45 minutes of nice conversation. Foolishly gave her the remaining $400. At that point she bolted out and climbed into a van that was waiting the entire time for her.
Of course, her cell phone line went dead. She is now listed on SA as Sweet Chick. She has been through a number of names and profiles in the last few days, but is consistently listed as being from Natick.
She is a complete scam.
Thanks for the clickbait. Thought I was going to see a nice Spanish chick with a tight, big perfect ass and I click the profile and get this fat whales disgusting ass in my face and now I can't unsee what I just saw. Thanks for that.LOL. Different strokes for different folks!
https://www.seeking.com/member/27227ad0-eb6c-44f5-8ab7-8c5923ba3c48
This one has been emailing on the site any reports would be helpful.I took a break from SA, just becoming active again. This one had been of interest and seems to be gone now. Anyone seeing her?
PinayLuver
10-23-21, 12:32
So I finally got the boot from SA. Not sure exactly why and I sent an email to them asking what prompted them to suspend my account. SA went crickets, nothing no reason. I was talking to this 33 yo woman who I thought was up for a banging but she threw up a couple of red flags and when I called her out on it she went crazy on me calling me all kinds of names. I think she may have complained about me to SA but not entirely sure because SA won't give me a reason.
My question, is there a way to pay for a one month subscription without using a CC. I did try to make another account and as soon as I went to pay for it I immediately got shut down so they are totally flagging me and I need an alternate way to sign up for at least one month.
WillSmith96
10-23-21, 12:45
So I finally got the boot from SA. Not sure exactly why and I sent an email to them asking what prompted them to suspend my account. SA went crickets, nothing no reason. I was talking to this 33 yo woman who I thought was up for a banging but she threw up a couple of red flags and when I called her out on it she went crazy on me calling me all kinds of names. I think she may have complained about me to SA but not entirely sure because SA won't give me a reason.
My question, is there a way to pay for a one month subscription without using a CC. I did try to make another account and as soon as I went to pay for it I immediately got shut down so they are totally flagging me and I need an alternate way to sign up for at least one month.Exact same scenario here, and this week. They charged me with a solicitation TOS violation, which I absolutely did not commit. I emailed support and demanded a refund, which they claim they are processing. We'll see if I actually get it.
Buy a $100 Visa gift card at Staples, that caps your risk.
PinayLuver
10-23-21, 13:04
Exact same scenario here, and this week. They charged me with a solicitation TOS violation, which I absolutely did not commit. I emailed support and demanded a refund, which they claim they are processing. We'll see if I actually get it.
Buy a $100 Visa gift card at Staples, that caps your risk.Thank you! I didn't even get a response back from them. I don't intend to stay on SA but there is one woman I was going back and forth with. I might be able to get some from her. Just before I was shut down we were negotiating $$.
Hooker Alert! LOL.
https://members.seeking.com/member/4d864886-3407-4b9d-8703-99ce0a278e42
https://www.preferred411.com/P168210
https://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/show.asp?ID=261265
Hooker Alert! LOL.
https://members.seeking.com/member/4d864886-3407-4b9d-8703-99ce0a278e42
https://www.preferred411.com/P168210
https://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/show.asp?ID=261265I'm shocked! Hookers on SA? LOL.
Thank you! I didn't even get a response back from them. I don't intend to stay on SA but there is one woman I was going back and forth with. I might be able to get some from her. Just before I was shut down we were negotiating $$.You implied you were negotiating price on SA. If that's the case it's no wonder you were shut down. You cannot discuss money or sex acts on SA, they will terminate your account every time. Take it off the site to text as soon as possible.
PinayLuver
10-24-21, 14:09
You implied you were negotiating price on SA. If that's the case it's no wonder you were shut down. You cannot discuss money or sex acts on SA, they will terminate your account every time. Take it off the site to text as soon as possible.
In either case I did not get to the point of negotiations online.
The one that I mentioned about in my post was not completed as we had already met briefly in public but she wanted me to get back to her with a quote and when I tried to go back on SA to take the negotiating offline I was suspended.
In one of them there was a discussion of sex as a possibility but nothing in detail was mentioned and it was initiated by the woman not me and yes that was online .
I have that same discussion with other woman previous and was never shut down then.
I'm not able to get back on the site unless I can do so with a visa gift card or something similar because my account was suspended and flagged.
Mattis1775
10-25-21, 09:49
You implied you were negotiating price on SA. If that's the case it's no wonder you were shut down. You cannot discuss money or sex acts on SA, they will terminate your account every time. Take it off the site to text as soon as possible.Correct. If you're connected and it seems like the conversation is going both your ways, take it offline and chat by text or email. Though the person can get back at you if negations don't go their way and will submit text or email evidence to SA and shut you down. I don't bother playing in SA. It's expensive, too much work and tremendous amount of drama.
She wants $2,000 for a private meet.
Says she has a master's, and is better looking than average. Can't make this stuff up.
https://members.seeking.com/member/55267c7f-2bce-40fa-92dd-1ff612a72a87
Hobbyist420
10-25-21, 17:31
So I finally got the boot from SA. Not sure exactly why and I sent an email to them asking what prompted them to suspend my account. SA went crickets, nothing no reason. I was talking to this 33 yo woman who I thought was up for a banging but she threw up a couple of red flags and when I called her out on it she went crazy on me calling me all kinds of names. I think she may have complained about me to SA but not entirely sure because SA won't give me a reason.
My question, is there a way to pay for a one month subscription without using a CC. I did try to make another account and as soon as I went to pay for it I immediately got shut down so they are totally flagging me and I need an alternate way to sign up for at least one month.That sucks, hope you get your money back.
Tips here:
- always try to get the convo off SA ASAP. Whether its snap, kik, text, etc. Anywhere but SA. Not only will the convo be better and more prompt because you can be more looser with your words, it's way easier to spot scams off SA than on it, because the scammers / cashapp askers KNOW if they are caught doing so in SA chat, they'll get the boot too. And you'll have a better chance of getting that revealing intel off the site chat. Many times I was able to spot a scammer trying to use pics from instagram girls offsite, when I asked for more pictures, because the 1-3 they will use on SA will often be edited. Which can throw off the google image search.
- also, once things go sour, esp on SA chat, but on ANY chat: INSTABLOCK. DISENGAGE. Don't call anyone out on BS in SA chat, because they might spam report you for revenge, which I fear in this instance, may of cost you your account (and most importantly, the money you spent). Just block, report / screenshot to SA when applicable (I. E asking for cashapp, or when you run a google image search and see a pic scooped off some instagram profile), in silence. Like a monger ninja.
I will meet her tomorrow. I will report back the experience.
Has anyone met her and can share the scoop?
Rue is nice enough and no problems communicating. Wants 500 hr meet and requires at least 2 hours per meet. Are you wanting to pay 1 K for a 2 hour visit?
https://members.seeking.com/member/2d1fc762-1f58-4f33-b0e8-d67923ac66ea
Kira.
https://members.seeking.com/member/5e312b89-c313-4463-aff5-a3213998960a
AJacquelyn.
https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/fbc4cd0f-8b49-4d07-a668-b655acc0aa50
5 footPixie.
https://members.seeking.com/member/64b20a09-22a6-4a83-94ee-99f833e7a200
Patriarchist
10-27-21, 11:38
Kira.
https://members.seeking.com/member/5e312b89-c313-4463-aff5-a3213998960a
AJacquelyn.
https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/fbc4cd0f-8b49-4d07-a668-b655acc0aa50
5 footPixie.
https://members.seeking.com/member/64b20a09-22a6-4a83-94ee-99f833e7a200AJacquelyn has been hitting me up lately to meet. She quoted 600 ppm at first but I talked her down to less. Have not pulled the trigger yet. Her pics look pretty good, but I am wondering if they are recent because her profile says she has a kid. It also says she wants to meet at her place. IDK what the situation is with the kid when she hosts. I'd be interested to know what happens if you meet her.
AJacquelyn has been hitting me up lately to meet. She quoted 600 ppm at first but I talked her down to less. Have not pulled the trigger yet. Her pics look pretty good, but I am wondering if they are recent because her profile says she has a kid. It also says she wants to meet at her place. IDK what the situation is with the kid when she hosts. I'd be interested to know what happens if you meet her.She quoted me $600 as well. Told me she could host in the mornings or evenings. Otherwise wants money for a babysitter.
5 footPixie wants $500/ week.
Aimstraight
10-27-21, 21:16
Talked to this girl who wanted cash just to meet and have dinner. Talked constantly and interrupted me a lot. Pretty annoying. I passed.
https://members.seeking.com/member/5c7d8e1c-6a6b-4bf0-aba4-8c573f3ff092
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