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Bran001
01-13-21, 11:27
Anyone seen her?In a Dracula movie once I think.

Bran001
01-13-21, 11:29
https://www.seeking.com/member/efc02b2f-f827-4aec-b114-71beb29a6eb1

I won't try to diagnose from reading the profile, but I'm sure it's indicative of what you'd run into if you spent any time with her.

JDeller
01-13-21, 12:24
This girl posts under a different profile every week and has had mixed reviews. She has contacted me several times and I never responded back.


Has anyone seen This one. She's kind of pushy which makes me almost not want to but is asking if I'll meet her and or her and her sister. Listed as Boston but is Midwest like Groton.

https://www.seeking.com/member/35475948-1ccf-4af8-9d35-ccfef85503d3

DarkClouds
01-13-21, 12:36
I'm guessing this is that Desteni girl with many profiles. And, if it is, she's not worth pursuing.


Has anyone seen This one. She's kind of pushy which makes me almost not want to but is asking if I'll meet her and or her and her sister. Listed as Boston but is Midwest like Groton.

https://www.seeking.com/member/35475948-1ccf-4af8-9d35-ccfef85503d3

PaulRew
01-13-21, 14:58
Has anyone seen This one. She's kind of pushy which makes me almost not want to but is asking if I'll meet her and or her and her sister. Listed as Boston but is Midwest like Groton.

https://www.seeking.com/member/35475948-1ccf-4af8-9d35-ccfef85503d3See his post a couple pages back, #4468.

Newbie978
01-13-21, 17:20
This girl posts under a different profile every week and has had mixed reviews. She has contacted me several times and I never responded back.I saw her and her supposed "sister" on a different profile for my first SA meet. I didn't think I would actually meet up with them, they said they wanted $300 each and told them I only had $300 total. They were funny (probably high on weed) and I had an OK time, but after 1 pop they immediately got dressed and rushed me out. I don't know if I'd repeat, but I would probably try to negotiate better pricing or ground rules first. Like someone said in another post, one was a lot more enthusiastic than the other.

Also, they definitely aren't sisters.

https://www.seeking.com/member/10cf41f2-c046-4440-bd3a-c387a2a387fc

Chuchunga
01-13-21, 18:46
https://www.seeking.com/member/4de9f3e9-b6ef-4e95-8a2e-996b8227dd7a

Wanted 400 ppm. Bbfscip is available. She will say she's infertile but after you fuck her she'll send you a pic of a pos pregnancy test and ask you for money for an abortion. Supposedly had an abortion over the summer LOL. Wasn't bad, not too tight, former dancer, has a record, and her therapist license is definitely expired. If you like it bare and like it crazy. It's not a bad catch. Don't host her in your home tho, she has a tendency to show up uninvited as well. She's on a bunch of apps, def has an appetite, so YMMV. Can trade info if you don't have a premium acct.

Tribeca67
01-13-21, 18:54
In a Dracula movie once I think.LOL she's made another account.

Satine
01-13-21, 21:02
https://www.seeking.com/member/8d211c77-4a39-4d1c-8dd5-d3ce9d01c270

Wants to set up a meeting. Anyone had experience with her?

Tribeca67
01-13-21, 22:56
https://www.seeking.com/member/4de9f3e9-b6ef-4e95-8a2e-996b8227dd7a

Wanted 400 ppm. Bbfscip is available. She will say she's infertile but after you fuck her she'll send you a pic of a pos pregnancy test and ask you for money for an abortion. Supposedly had an abortion over the summer LOL. Wasn't bad, not too tight, former dancer, has a record, and her therapist license is definitely expired. If you like it bare and like it crazy. It's not a bad catch. Don't host her in your home tho, she has a tendency to show up uninvited as well. She's on a bunch of apps, def has an appetite, so YMMV. Can trade info if you don't have a premium acct.Sounds like a crazy girl!

Ymch520
01-13-21, 23:49
Hello fellows,

I tried to create account few times and it is getting deleted within few minutes. And I tr very wweek. Now it shows invalid email. No response from customer service. Any clue or advise for me?

Bran001
01-14-21, 08:37
Hello fellows,

I tried to create account few times and it is getting deleted within few minutes. And I tr very wweek. Now it shows invalid email. No response from customer service. Any clue or advise for me?Have you been banned there in the past? If so you'd have to, at the very least, use a different email address I believe.

You could go on Reddit and reach out to / you / seekingarrangement -- customer service sometimes responds that way.

BostonJones
01-14-21, 10:29
https://www.seeking.com/member/8d211c77-4a39-4d1c-8dd5-d3ce9d01c270

Wants to set up a meeting. Anyone had experience with her?Messaged her 3 months ago and got no response, so clearly she has good taste and judgement. Have fun.

NastySD
01-14-21, 12:14
This is likely a scam. She's mad cool. She agrees to everything then comes the sob story. Living in a motel, can't afford it, nowhere to go, 7 months pregnant. Extend the motel for her for $90 and she'll see you the next day.

I blocked.


Anyone seen her?

suaimmagine
01-14-21, 12:49
You can get submissive models for 300 or less it's scarce but possible. What did you tell her after she mentioned 700+??I said, "that doesn't align with my budget. Thanks anyway."

She said, "what do you have in mind?

I said, "the amount you charge to people who have a clue.”

Didn't hear back after that.

HounDog3
01-14-21, 13:11
Have you been banned there in the past? If so you'd have to, at the very least, use a different email address I believe.If you were banned, there have been reports SA tracks your IP address as well. You may need a VPN. Make sure you tunnel through USA hops because they may be checking country of the IP address. Coming from an offshore location could also cause your signup to bounce.

I On Da Street
01-14-21, 16:10
If the pics are real but I seriously doubt it. She wouldn't be living in Bourne.

https://www.seeking.com/messages/inbox/22905c4b-8e7d-4d34-97cb-0d8486b5320f

PPM 1000.

Spike77
01-14-21, 16:53
If the pics are real but I seriously doubt it. She wouldn't be living in Bourne.

https://www.seeking.com/messages/inbox/22905c4b-8e7d-4d34-97cb-0d8486b5320f

PPM 1000. Fix your link. It is pointing to your message box. I may have some information if it is who I am thinking.

SolitaryMan603
01-14-21, 16:59
If the pics are real but I seriously doubt it. She wouldn't be living in Bourne.

https://www.seeking.com/messages/inbox/22905c4b-8e7d-4d34-97cb-0d8486b5320f

PPM 1000.You linked to your messages.

Ymch520
01-14-21, 23:15
Have you been banned there in the past? If so you'd have to, at the very least, use a different email address I believe.

You could go on Reddit and reach out to / you / seekingarrangement -- customer service sometimes responds that way.No. Idea if they banned as on my first try it was just few minutes. But let me figure reaching out customer service th reddit.

Ymch520
01-14-21, 23:17
If you were banned, there have been reports SA tracks your IP address as well. You may need a VPN. Make sure you tunnel through USA hops because they may be checking country of the IP address. Coming from an offshore location could also cause your signup to bounce.I believe I might have VPN on that time, let me make sure. That could be the reason if they are strict on IP address. Tx though.

I On Da Street
01-16-21, 05:49
Fix your link. It is pointing to your message box. I may have some information if it is who I am thinking.https://www.seeking.com/member/d46a6fd7-eaa3-4d30-a634-c8a0f1972b4a

I On Da Street
01-16-21, 05:50
You linked to your messages.https://www.seeking.com/member/d46a6fd7-eaa3-4d30-a634-c8a0f1972b4a

Gianni Versace
01-16-21, 07:20
If you were banned, there have been reports SA tracks your IP address as well. You may need a VPN. Make sure you tunnel through USA hops because they may be checking country of the IP address. Coming from an offshore location could also cause your signup to bounce.Speaking of VPN, which company is the best VPN provider out there?

WillSmith96
01-16-21, 13:32
Speaking of VPN, which company is the best VPN provider out there?I've used a few and didn't love any, now use Nord and it's fine. Note that a number of the services, ex STG, will deny inbound requests from known VPN sources.

Spike77
01-16-21, 14:11
https://www.seeking.com/member/d46a6fd7-eaa3-4d30-a634-c8a0f1972b4aTake it for what it is worth but I can confirm through someone I know, a) She is real, b) She lives in Bourne, c) At least one person was dumb enough to pay her 1 k. Oh yeah, her real job is a nanny. Imagine your wife agreeing to that LOL.

I On Da Street
01-16-21, 18:51
Take it for what it is worth but I can confirm through someone I know, a) She is real, b) She lives in Bourne, c) At least one person was dumb enough to pay her 1 k. Oh yeah, her real job is a nanny. Imagine your wife agreeing to that LOL.Wife would be either blind or bi.

Downtown Boy
01-16-21, 19:17
https://www.seeking.com/member/fa332827-2286-4cae-b84e-b61438f10367

I know a lot of people are taken time off due to covid-19 but tomorrow is not promised to us. (short life span). Blame the men in black for creating a shitty earth human. So I've been seeing as many girls as I can. I just love driving to Maine because the human beings from Earth haven't destroyed that state yet. (key word is yet)). There is still trees. Animals and clean air up there unlike the disgusting state of Massachusetts. But anyways I rented a room and hang out with Felicia for hours. She looked like koukla. Looked absolutely amazing. Freshly showered. So sexy with her dress and high heels. She is so feminine I just love kissing her and making out with her we had so much fun and I cannot wait to see her again. Hope everybody's having a good weekend.

ActonMan
01-17-21, 06:34
If you were banned, there have been reports SA tracks your IP address as well. You may need a VPN. Make sure you tunnel through USA hops because they may be checking country of the IP address. Coming from an offshore location could also cause your signup to bounce.I have been banned twice I'm sure because some sb didn't like my offer but all I needed to do was change all my info including email and I got back in I even used the same photos No new VPN.

Malden Male
01-17-21, 12:07
Hello all,

Have a Tuesday meet setup with https://www.seeking.com/member/6fbee979-be8d-490f-872d-806517b6b829 and wondering if anyone has any experience with her.

Is open to all 3 inputs and bb after a couple of meets.

Thanks in advance gentlemen. Malden Male.

Joebags
01-17-21, 12:43
https://www.seeking.com/member/fa332827-2286-4cae-b84e-b61438f10367

I know a lot of people are taken time off due to covid-19 but tomorrow is not promised to us. (short life span). Blame the men in black for creating a shitty earth human. So I've been seeing as many girls as I can. I just love driving to Maine because the human beings from Earth haven't destroyed that state yet. (key word is yet)). There is still trees. Animals and clean air up there unlike the disgusting state of Massachusetts. But anyways I rented a room and hang out with Felicia for hours. She looked like koukla. Looked absolutely amazing. Freshly showered. So sexy with her dress and high heels. She is so feminine I just love kissing her and making out with her we had so much fun and I cannot wait to see her again. Hope everybody's having a good weekend.She was a pro who advised massage is FS on the table now she is hot.

Spill
01-17-21, 13:29
I've used a few and didn't love any, now use Nord and it's fine. Note that a number of the services, ex STG, will deny inbound requests from known VPN sources.Interesting. I was not having a lot of progress with Nord. Now using IP Vanish. Although STG now blocks IP Vanish.

Tribeca67
01-17-21, 16:01
Take it for what it is worth but I can confirm through someone I know, a) She is real, b) She lives in Bourne, c) At least one person was dumb enough to pay her 1 k. Oh yeah, her real job is a nanny. Imagine your wife agreeing to that LOL.She is fine, I can see some idiot's though paying that much. Wonder if she looks exactly like her photos.

CandyMan555
01-18-21, 23:54
I've used a few and didn't love any, now use Nord and it's fine. Note that a number of the services, ex STG, will deny inbound requests from known VPN sources.I use Express VPN and it says I am in New York so when I link to STG I get blocked so I have to log out of VPN to see STG or put in a different city.

The Hunter
01-19-21, 09:01
This one will probably block me soon. She wanted $300 sent to her before even considering meeting.

https://www.seeking.com/member/75a91443-e1a8-4d9b-9e06-f479817cb6c1Had the same response. Send me 300 I need to get groceries. Ya right.

Happy Hunting.

Joe Parkers
01-19-21, 11:17
Had the same response. Send me 300 I need to get groceries. Ya right.

Happy Hunting.Scams have increased lately. A year ago it used to 1 out 5 now its 4 out 6. I have noticed (my opinion) all the ones that say "Massachusetts, Massachusetts, United States" with no city name and have out of states numbers are scams, again not starting an argument here. I have had a good sample to say so. (note also they will all say they are in boston LOL can't name any other cities).

Rnyce1
01-19-21, 13:02
Hi guys,

Long time member not much to contribute. Mostly someone who goes to the strip clubs.

Messing around with SA and pretty much a lot of disasters, flakes or no shows.

Any one see this person https://www.seeking.com/member/048af29f-3825-491d-b0e6-7ba9d4449b1b.

Or is this a fake too.

BostonJones
01-19-21, 13:17
Scams have increased lately. A year ago it used to 1 out 5 now its 4 out 6. I have noticed (my opinion) all the ones that say "Massachusetts, Massachusetts, United States" with no city name and have out of states numbers are scams, again not starting an argument here. I have had a good sample to say so. (note also they will all say they are in boston LOL can't name any other cities).Had one the other day say "downtown" when I asked her what part of Boston she was in. SMH Next!

Kittykardashian.

https://www.seeking.com/member/1510c0a8-4fc7-4ef5-9a45-b9f7bebe51e2

Hobbyist420
01-19-21, 16:44
Hi guys,

Long time member not much to contribute. Mostly someone who goes to the strip clubs.

Messing around with SA and pretty much a lot of disasters, flakes or no shows.

Any one see this person https://www.seeking.com/member/048af29f-3825-491d-b0e6-7ba9d4449b1b.

Or is this a fake too.Tip to weed out scammers: click on all the pic (s) in the profile, and right click the pic and select "search google for image". If one pops up, like in this instance: its a scammer.

Will also say the amount of scamming and cashapp begging def has gone up on there.

Hobbyist420
01-19-21, 16:46
Had one the other day say "downtown" when I asked her what part of Boston she was in. SMH Next!

Kittykardashian.

https://www.seeking.com/member/1510c0a8-4fc7-4ef5-9a45-b9f7bebe51e2I will also say: this might not only mean she is a scammer, but also real but a pro.

I ran into a pro the other day who was in town from Miami, and when I asked her where in Boston she lived, she said "cambridge" and I LOL'd at the response. She the nsays, "I travel alot so I don't know every city". Way to tell on yourself LOL.

DarkClouds
01-19-21, 17:13
Agree. I just filter out the ones with no city or Boston. Has served me well.


Scams have increased lately. A year ago it used to 1 out 5 now its 4 out 6. I have noticed (my opinion) all the ones that say "Massachusetts, Massachusetts, United States" with no city name and have out of states numbers are scams, again not starting an argument here. I have had a good sample to say so. (note also they will all say they are in boston LOL can't name any other cities).

Style20
01-19-21, 21:34
Scams have increased lately. A year ago it used to 1 out 5 now its 4 out 6. I have noticed (my opinion) all the ones that say "Massachusetts, Massachusetts, United States" with no city name and have out of states numbers are scams, again not starting an argument here. I have had a good sample to say so. (note also they will all say they are in boston LOL can't name any other cities).Some scammers now put in their description " do not ask for my location, just send your address" I guess the scammers starting to realize we know who they are.

ManDownUnder
01-20-21, 00:33
About a month ago I decided to give WYP a try based on reading some positive posts in this forum (thank you). Set up basic profile and purchased 100 coins for $50 (if you spend $250 you get 1,000 coins) and started my search. If you see a girl you like you can make her an offer. A First Date Incentive (FDI). A girl can also send you a FDI. The girl / you can either: accept, counter or ignore the offer. If she / you accepts the offer / counter, you can send each other a message. However, the message remains locked until you spend your coins to unlock the message, then you can message each other as much as you like. What really sucks is the higher the FDI, the more coins are needed. Coins required = 20% of the offer – so a $200 offer requires 40 coins (which would cost me $20 just to start messaging). A super hot girl sent me a $300 FDI, which I would be willing to pay, but didn't want to spend $60 (20% of $300) just to start messaging.

After a few weeks I found a button where you can request a refund of coins spent. Reasons for refund: girl accepted offer but never responded to message, girl refused to meet because of COVID, WYP banned the girl. I've requested 4 refunds and surprisingly all 4 were approved.

It's clear based on the girls I chatted with or met, they have no idea how WYP works. One girl I met thought she should get paid a $100 FDI for me to buy her one drink (she referred me to a UTube video – which I easily found. Where a girl explains this approach). One girl accepted a $50 FDI, but she renegotiated once we met, I agreed and a fun time was had. One girl accepted a $100 FDI, we had fun, I gave her an envelope with the FDI. Later she said she was disappointed, thought the FDI had something to do with the # of coins, not what she would get. I agreed to make it up to her at our next meeting.

Last week I signed up with SA, hands down so much better than WYP. SA has been a full time job this past week and I've just scratched the surface. First girl flaked the M&G, but I have 6-8 very positive leads. I also created a profile on Secret Benefits and have been getting messages from some pretty hot girls, but it looks like SB uses a method similar to WYP, so holding off for now.

Alejhenry
01-20-21, 06:18
https://www.seeking.com/member/36d21e96-1ce1-4165-8092-7e7acc266bec

Has anyone meet with Kiki? She's currently on SA as SugarFun93, but know she was around previously under a different account.

Chuchunga
01-20-21, 10:54
https://www.seeking.com/member/36d21e96-1ce1-4165-8092-7e7acc266bec

Has anyone meet with Kiki? She's currently on SA as SugarFun93, but know she was around previously under a different account.Wanted at least 500 ppm. No bare.

Backbayduo
01-20-21, 12:20
https://www.seeking.com/member/36d21e96-1ce1-4165-8092-7e7acc266bec

Has anyone meet with Kiki? She's currently on SA as SugarFun93, but know she was around previously under a different account.I've met her. She was fun, hosted at her place. Very talkative, a bit crazy, but seems clean and good to play with. Not crazy in a bad way, just not necessarily laid back. Wasn't quite as hot as her pictures, but it's definitely her. I haven't gone back due to cost. Has a boyfriend who is in to sharing her.

Melo Yello
01-23-21, 09:47
Anyone see her?

https://www.seeking.com/member/d41aafab-1087-4169-a12d-bb6189acb6f1

WCFields62
01-23-21, 10:05
Anyone see her?

https://www.seeking.com/member/d41aafab-1087-4169-a12d-bb6189acb6f1I'm scheduled to in a couple days. So I'd also love to hear any reports!

WCFields62
01-23-21, 13:48
Anyone see her?

https://www.seeking.com/member/d41aafab-1087-4169-a12d-bb6189acb6f1I'm seeing her in a couple days so would also be interested in anyone's experience.

Joe1223
01-23-21, 15:20
I'm scheduled to in a couple days. So I'd also love to hear any reports!I've never seen as she is out of my age range I go for but don't be surprised if she is all business and performs like it's not her first time. I'm sure you will have a successful time but you should be discussing details already including donations so you are surprised and go home blue.

DarkClouds
01-23-21, 15:40
Cute face, overweight, shy, hard to schedule, and not very experienced. Reasonable allowance expectations for PPM.

https://www.seeking.com/member/3e74b946-7e68-4a1a-9ce1-e5c9a4d5819a

Newbie978
01-24-21, 02:54
Agree. I just filter out the ones with no city or Boston. Has served me well.Some scammers are using real cities. I had one supposedly from Concord NH message me, it was further than I liked but she seemed nice and cute. We take the chat to texting and she ends up asking me to buy some dirty pictures to help with her phone bill. I didn't have cash app so I was actually trying to set it up, but then I got busy for 45 minutes and she gave me a horrible attitude. I told her I got caught up but was still interested (she instantly became nice again) so I blocked her from texting me. She then blocked me on seeking but then changed her city to Chesapeake Virginia.

So now I have a policy where I'm not paying for pics. There are too many women out there and I only want to spend my time chatting with ones that actually want to meet in person. Her messages disappeared from my inbox, so they may have banned her by now.

Black Label 6
01-24-21, 11:03
Her availability might be better if you saw her after Mid November, although she was considering moving to get away from her roommate. BBFS, and I believe CIP was available. She likes it rough. No kissing. Make sure you use a burner, she will contact you when she needs attention,.

Her current profile is.

https://www.seeking.com/member/c94f20cb-0869-4d76-9824-91546731f971

She's been on an off the site for years.Got her contact info and willing to share?

WCFields62
01-24-21, 11:32
Take it for what it is worth but I can confirm through someone I know, a) She is real, b) She lives in Bourne, c) At least one person was dumb enough to pay her 1 k. Oh yeah, her real job is a nanny. Imagine your wife agreeing to that LOL.So what was feedback on the experience? If we took the crazy cost out of the equation, would it be a positive experience. Since we'll never experience it first hand, it would be fun to hear about it, LOL.

WCFields62
01-24-21, 11:35
Anyone have any experience with this lady?

https://www.seeking.com/member/b83872c4-a9d6-46a8-83a1-7aa098b918b5

RandomChance72
01-24-21, 15:39
Got her contact info and willing to share?Also interested in contact info.

Syedna
01-24-21, 15:59
Anyone have any experience with this lady?

https://www.seeking.com/member/b83872c4-a9d6-46a8-83a1-7aa098b918b5She's only meeting "virtually" right now so don't waste your time bro.

Bran001
01-24-21, 16:25
Anyone have any experience with this lady?

https://www.seeking.com/member/b83872c4-a9d6-46a8-83a1-7aa098b918b5I've tried twice (she had a profile, deleted it, and made a new one) to engage her. She shows interest and then just kinda falls off the radar. I think that she's not 100% committed to doing this. I'd not waste my time; I'm done trying that's for sure.

GlennDoyle91
01-24-21, 19:05
Has anyone tried onlyfans as an Avenue to pick up chicks?

WCFields62
01-24-21, 19:41
I've tried twice (she had a profile, deleted it, and made a new one) to engage her. She shows interest and then just kinda falls off the radar. I think that she's not 100% committed to doing this. I'd not waste my time; I'm done trying that's for sure.Thank you, that was my experience as well.

Spike77
01-24-21, 20:09
So what was feedback on the experience? If we took the crazy cost out of the equation, would it be a positive experience. Since we'll never experience it first hand, it would be fun to hear about it, LOL.I didn't get the juicy details and I really can't say too much more on this without the possibility of outing myself. But feel free to backchannel me if you are that curious.

Style20
01-25-21, 00:56
Has anyone tried onlyfans as an Avenue to pick up chicks?You not going to pick up chick on that shit. They will scam you out of $1000. They will say whoever spoiled them with more tips is the one that will get to meet them. So you either join their fans or you will be blocked if you keep asking to meet up LOL.

GlennDoyle91
01-25-21, 03:15
You not going to pick up chick on that shit. They will scam you out of $1000. They will say whoever spoiled them with more tips is the one that will get to meet them. So you either join their fans or you will be blocked if you keep asking to meet up LOL.Is this conjecture, or is this from personal experience? There have been rumors of raffles or straight up paying for those girls. Dunno the amount. But those are also ones probably in the top 10%. If you're not in the top 1%, OF is about minimum wage.

There really isn't a way to search by location, so that kinda blows.

Style20
01-25-21, 09:45
Is this conjecture, or is this from personal experience? There have been rumors of raffles or straight up paying for those girls. Dunno the amount. But those are also ones probably in the top 10%. If you're not in the top 1%, OF is about minimum wage.

There really isn't a way to search by location, so that kinda blows.It's from stories I read when that Disney girl join onlyfans and they were talking about it.

Satine
01-25-21, 14:01
https://www.seeking.com/member/8d211c77-4a39-4d1c-8dd5-d3ce9d01c270

Wants to set up a meeting. Anyone had experience with her?She wants $250 just to meet the first time. Enough said.

BostonNorth16
01-25-21, 14:51
I just bought a Vanilla card at Walgreens to upgrade my SA account again like I always do but it won't work because it doesn't allow foreign transactions? Is this new? Where can I get a prepaid card that works?

Tribeca67
01-25-21, 15:32
I just bought a Vanilla card at Walgreens to upgrade my SA account again like I always do but it won't work because it doesn't allow foreign transactions? Is this new? Where can I get a prepaid card that works?Did you register your card by calling the number on the back and choosing a zip code?

SolitaryMan603
01-25-21, 15:36
I just bought a Vanilla card at Walgreens to upgrade my SA account again like I always do but it won't work because it doesn't allow foreign transactions? Is this new? Where can I get a prepaid card that works?I used one at the beginning of the month. Someone mentioned here adding it to your google pay account and using google pay for the transaction. That worked for me. It was a OneVanilla prepaid mastercard not sure if there are different types.

Tribeca67
01-25-21, 19:16
Says she from LA.

Gianni Versace
01-26-21, 09:21
Some scammers are using real cities. I had one supposedly from Concord NH message me, it was further than I liked but she seemed nice and cute. We take the chat to texting and she ends up asking me to buy some dirty pictures to help with her phone bill. I didn't have cash app so I was actually trying to set it up, but then I got busy for 45 minutes and she gave me a horrible attitude. I told her I got caught up but was still interested (she instantly became nice again) so I blocked her from texting me. She then blocked me on seeking but then changed her city to Chesapeake Virginia.

So now I have a policy where I'm not paying for pics. There are too many women out there and I only want to spend my time chatting with ones that actually want to meet in person. Her messages disappeared from my inbox, so they may have banned her by now.LOL I had a girl that was trying to sell me her panties before a meet. Like WTF? Haha.

Ho Hunter 328
01-26-21, 23:03
Has anyone tried onlyfans as an Avenue to pick up chicks?


You not going to pick up chick on that shit. They will scam you out of $1000. They will say whoever spoiled them with more tips is the one that will get to meet them. So you either join their fans or you will be blocked if you keep asking to meet up LOL.I personally know escorts with OF accounts, and they will definitely meet up. Don't expect it to be cheap though. For the majority of girls with OF accounts though they'll just lead you along to get as much as they can out of you.

Stay safe, and happy hunting.

GlennDoyle91
01-26-21, 23:05
I personally know escorts with OF accounts, and they will definitely meet up. Don't expect it to be cheap though. For the majority of girls with OF accounts though they'll just lead you along to get as much as they can out of you.

Stay safe, and happy hunting.I mean. Isn't that always the case? It's just about the price at that point, LOL. I think the amount we throw around is respectable enough to be of interest.

MajorVX
01-27-21, 01:24
Thank you, that was my experience as well.Same thing with me. I thought we were going to meet until the day and then she didn't answer. I did get verification pics though.

ClPost045
01-27-21, 10:11
Has anyone met this one before? Supposed to meet her tomorrow. Brazilian speaks no English.

https://www.seeking.com/member/d41aafab-1087-4169-a12d-bb6189acb6f1

WCFields62
01-27-21, 10:52
Has anyone met this one before? Supposed to meet her tomorrow. Brazilian speaks no English.

https://www.seeking.com/member/d41aafab-1087-4169-a12d-bb6189acb6f1She is a wonderful human being. Very sweet. Even with the language barrier she is a better communicator than most. I expect you will have a wonderful time. PM me if you have any questions.

MajorVX
01-27-21, 16:28
She is a wonderful human being. Very sweet. Even with the language barrier she is a better communicator than most. I expect you will have a wonderful time. PM me if you have any questions.Message sent, I'm also about to meet her. Would like to know rate and other specifics.

Aimstraight
01-27-21, 23:26
This one wants 600 just to meet for dinner. Told her too much and she replied ok goodbye. LOL Wasn't rude and seemed more business like over txt.

Banjomania
01-28-21, 08:55
She is unique, a professional woman from Brazil here because her son ended up here. She really speaks no English at all. Make sure she is in range of a cell connection because without her google translator there won't be much to say. That being said DFK is the same in any language and there really is no need to talk while that is going on. I have seen her once and communicated many times by text. I cannot remember exactly but maybe I paid 250, not much. She really is a sweetheart. And seriously hot. She is far from my current haunts or I would be with her weekly.


Message sent, I'm also about to meet her. Would like to know rate and other specifics.

DarkClouds
01-28-21, 23:16
Going through my favorites on SA, which includes all of the beauties I saw, almost saw, wish I saw, hope to see, glad to know are still around.

They bring back so many memories. I must be getting senile. But that's one of my favorite pass times. I blame covid.

ManDownUnder
01-30-21, 01:26
I learned a lot from reading this forum (thank you), so I thought I would share my M&G experience. It's been a shit ton of work to get my first 10 meetings, here's how they went.

1 - drinks, back to my place, fun was had, already seen again.

2 - coffee, made mistake of picking Starbucks, no seating. She was cool going to my place, fun was had, already seen again.

3 - drinks, WYP $100 first date incentive, have one drink then she says she has plans, we leave together and part ways, later that night she texts me that I forgot to give her the first date incentive, LOL. Blocked.

4 - dinner, I get to restaurant and she ghosts me. I hit her up for gas $, crickets.

5 - drinks, she says she wants to get to know me first. Dinner following week. She says still not ready but will have fun next time. Set next date, we'll see, maybe she's just looking for free meals. She's funny as shit, so I don't really care either way.

6 - drinks. I had 2 beers, she sucks down a cocktail, martini and 2 tequila shots. OMG. Back to my place, more shots, crazy fun was had. She said she had great time and I can contribute $50 less going forward, I'm good with that!

7 - drinks, back to my place for dinner. Made out like teenagers, but it was already pretty late and she had early meet. She agreed to fun next time. I made clear before meet no fun, no sugar, so no amount given and was happy she didn't ask. Working on setting 2nd meet.

8 - coffee, could tell she was a newbie based on profile and texting, but when she shows up to M&G with a friend, give me a break. Next day she's asks for Uber money, LOL. Not spending my time with newbies anymore (2 other newbies I chatted with, didn't meet, just endless texting).

9 - no M&G, she agrees to come directly to my place, fun was had, but it really wasn't that fun.

10 - no M&G, she agrees to come directly to my place, fun was had and this one was fun.

While it's a lot of work, and outcome uncertain, I find this so much better than escorts.

If no sugar is given unless fun is had they are escorts. Simple as that. Call them what you want when you are with them if it gets them to fuck you without bullshit for compensation but between us men let us be truthful.

If a chick won't fuck you unless she's getting paid she's a hooker, end of.

A2

ManDownUnder
01-30-21, 11:05
If no sugar is given unless fun is had they are escorts. Simple as that. Call them what you want when you are with them if it gets them to fuck you without bullshit for compensation but between us men let us be truthful.

If a chick won't fuck you unless she's getting paid she's a hooker, end of.

A2Ok, I don't disagree with your comment, but why would you add this comment to my post?

DarkClouds
01-30-21, 12:06
Thanks for sharing. Personally, I've met maybe 100 or more very lovely ladies off that platform and I've never done a M&G. I feel it's a waste of time. Never sent money either for photos or otherwise.

I will meet at a public place as a precursor to proceeding to a private spot, if that makes the lady feel more comfortable about it all. I never mention "fun" or any of the other surrogate words. There is no need. If the lady isn't into it, you will have a bad experience regardless of whether you explicitly got her to agree to this or that.

But it requires patience, sometimes months of back and forth with long breaks to establish trust and find the right timing for both parties.


I learned a lot from reading this forum (thank you), so I thought I would share my M&G experience. It's been a shit ton of work to get my first 10 meetings, here's how they went.

1 - drinks, back to my place, fun was had, already seen again.

2 - coffee, made mistake of picking Starbucks, no seating. She was cool going to my place, fun was had, already seen again.

3 - drinks, WYP $100 first date incentive, have one drink then she says she has plans, we leave together and part ways, later that night she texts me that I forgot to give her the first date incentive, LOL. Blocked.

4 - dinner, I get to restaurant and she ghosts me. I hit her up for gas $, crickets.

5 - drinks, she says she wants to get to know me first. Dinner following week. She says still not ready but will have fun next time. Set next date, we'll see, maybe she's just looking for free meals. She's funny as shit, so I don't really care either way.

6 - drinks. I had 2 beers, she sucks down a cocktail, martini and 2 tequila shots. OMG. Back to my place, more shots, crazy fun was had. She said she had great time and I can contribute $50 less going forward, I'm good with that!

WCFields62
01-30-21, 13:26
I learned a lot from reading this forum (thank you), so I thought I would share my M&G experience. It's been a shit ton of work to get my first 10 meetings, here's how they went.

1 - drinks, back to my place, fun was had, already seen again.

2 - coffee, made mistake of picking Starbucks, no seating. She was cool going to my place, fun was had, already seen again.

3 - drinks, WYP $100 first date incentive, have one drink then she says she has plans, we leave together and part ways, later that night she texts me that I forgot to give her the first date incentive, LOL. Blocked.

4 - dinner, I get to restaurant and she ghosts me. I hit her up for gas $, crickets.

5 - drinks, she says she wants to get to know me first. Dinner following week. She says still not ready but will have fun next time. Set next date, we'll see, maybe she's just looking for free meals. She's funny as shit, so I don't really care either way.Thank you for sharing your experiences. May I ask (just for curiosity) how old you are and what your average donation was?

ManDownUnder
01-30-21, 15:37
Thank you for sharing your experiences. May I ask (just for curiosity) how old you are and what your average donation was?50's, on average 2.

ARegularGuy
01-30-21, 17:10
I have been going back and forth with this one on and off for sometime and just recently establish 300 ppm and that she can't / won't host. I told her I was getting the vaccine soon next week (true) and that I would like to get together after that. She gets an attitude like, "What, you want me to wait a month for a maybe date?" It went down hill ever since but, she sure looks hot. We never agreed on the where or how to get together. Has anyone had better luck with her? I think the younger you are the better her attitude will be. She says guys are sending her $ just to txt! She is neither sweet nor a rookie it seems.

ARG.

On whatsyourprice.com Wisteria https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/myW2ordn5jjWOpQ56wY9ZQlM.

On seeking.com Ccherryy https://www.seeking.com/member/15602996-ddd2-4c3f-82d1-1c6167490b28.

WCFields62
01-30-21, 17:10
But it requires patience, sometimes months of back and forth with long breaks to establish trust and find the right timing for both parties.Interesting and true statement. For example, when Wanderlustgoddess first appeared I established a conversation with her and then all of a sudden she ghosted me. Would read everything I sent but never respond. I was bewildered as I hadn't said anything that I could think would be the least bit offensive or off-putting. Then I found this forum and read about several here that had seen her and so with well over 6 months of silence I sent her another message and she responded positively.

You just never know. I find so many conversations go silent (perhaps the woman becomes very interested in one prospect and simply loses interest in all others) and if you wait a while and 'bump' the conversation it might re-ignite.

Melo Yello
01-30-21, 20:46
https://www.seeking.com/member/5ae8a92e-9bc1-44cf-bbb4-f0e9cc2e4f7c

Cute girl, easy to communicate with, no drug use, can't host, nice body, great BBBJ and great FS. Lots of dirty talk and gets into it.

Definitely a good experience. $$ damage.

DarkClouds
01-30-21, 22:50
SA is a bit like regular dating. And not much like STG. No girl wants to hear that you're deliberately planning to make her wait. You have to string her along. That takes patience and creativity. You have to come up with good excuses. Not cut off communication, not see her, but still make her believe you want to see her asap. You have to enjoy the chase as much as you enjoy the kill. And accept that she could be playing the same game with you. Otherwise this might not be the right hobby for you.


I have been going back and forth with this one on and off for sometime and just recently establish 300 ppm and that she can't / won't host. I told her I was getting the vaccine soon next week (true) and that I would like to get together after that. She gets an attitude like, "What, you want me to wait a month for a maybe date?" It went down hill ever since but, she sure looks hot. We never agreed on the where or how to get together. Has anyone had better luck with her? I think the younger you are the better her attitude will be. She says guys are sending her $ just to txt! She is neither sweet nor a rookie it seems.

ARG.

On whatsyourprice.com Wisteria https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/myW2ordn5jjWOpQ56wY9ZQlM.

On seeking.com Ccherryy https://www.seeking.com/member/15602996-ddd2-4c3f-82d1-1c6167490b28.

Socrates68
01-30-21, 23:03
Speaking of VPN, which company is the best VPN provider out there?I'm a fan of Cryptostorm myself. Read their info, they are very serious about privacy etc and if it ever comes to it they will shut down and reopen as another company (they've already one it once many years back -- rather than give up personal info. Sorry, company no longer exists, we can't provide you with xyz).

Luckly, they've been solid for the past few years I've used them.

Many payment options, all through "other" companies (again, no tracking as to who you are). I've purchased many 'tokens' through them over the past three years and have never had a single issue with billing.

Socrates68
01-30-21, 23:25
I see that there is a spot where you can send a gift to these girls.

I'm curious as it says you can add a note to the gift. Basically for a select few it seems almost better / easier to buy a $30 gift and attack your TXT # to it rather than drop the $ for a single month's subscription.

Does anyone know if this is even possible or if SA would trim out the 'note'?

I'm not against spending $100 if I thought there were a few girls available to talk to but so far I've only had one or two which seem to spark serious interest.

Slimthugga
01-31-21, 00:16
Talked to bostonbabe92 any info? Or https://www.seeking.com/member/84b132f8-1190-41cd-bed6-4674b7ce3560.

Bran001
01-31-21, 08:37
I see that there is a spot where you can send a gift to these girls.

I'm curious as it says you can add a note to the gift. Basically for a select few it seems almost better / easier to buy a $30 gift and attack your TXT # to it rather than drop the $ for a single month's subscription.

Does anyone know if this is even possible or if SA would trim out the 'note'?

I'm not against spending $100 if I thought there were a few girls available to talk to but so far I've only had one or two which seem to spark serious interest.Buying a gift just to get an SA woman to talk to you is a bad idea. Please realize that there is a significant group of women (or men. Who knows who is hiding behind the profile? Who run the scam of asking and getting "gifts" on there. With no intention of meeting you.

You do you, but this is not how to make a good in-person connection on SA.

Bran001
01-31-21, 08:40
Sorry, company no longer exists, we can't provide you with xyz).That's not how it works.

Bran001
01-31-21, 08:44
SA is a bit like regular dating. And not much like STG. No girl wants to hear that you're deliberately planning to make her wait. You have to string her along. That takes patience and creativity. You have to come up with good excuses. Not cut off communication, not see her, but still make her believe you want to see her asap. You have to enjoy the chase as much as you enjoy the kill. And accept that she could be playing the same game with you. Otherwise this might not be the right hobby for you.You guys are why women have a bad attitude on SA. How about a better plan -- wait to start communicating until you're actually ready to meet?

Anyone who's done this successfully for some time knows that long drawn out conversations do not lead to meet-ups. You are going to be much more successful on there if you can truthfully tell someone "Let's meet this week" or "Let's meet next week. " Tee it up. If they in turn waffle, forget them and move on.

Otherwise you're just having "fun" messaging on there. I guess it's your $, but I'd rather meet someone than just chat and then go whack off looking at their pictures.

IAmAzn
01-31-21, 09:07
Hey folks, whenever I click on one of your recommendations I always get. "This profile can no longer be found". Is this because I'm not a paying member to the site or is there another reason? Thanks.

Gianni Versace
01-31-21, 09:12
Hey folks, whenever I click on one of your recommendations I always get. "This profile can no longer be found". Is this because I'm not a paying member to the site or is there another reason? Thanks.It's because the sb deactivate heir profile.

DarkClouds
01-31-21, 09:21
Agree.

I was addressing a different scenario. One in which you've started the communication and need to take a long pause. In that case I would lean towards keeping the communication going rather than going silent. If she's a good communicator, use the opportunity to get to know each other.


You guys are why women have a bad attitude on SA. How about a better plan -- wait to start communicating until you're actually ready to meet?

Joe1223
01-31-21, 10:25
Hey folks, whenever I click on one of your recommendations I always get. "This profile can no longer be found". Is this because I'm not a paying member to the site or is there another reason? Thanks.If the girl decides she is done she will delete her profile and that is the message you get.

WCFields62
01-31-21, 10:26
I have been going back and forth with this one on and off for sometime and just recently establish 300 ppm and that she can't / won't host. I told her I was getting the vaccine soon next week (true) and that I would like to get together after that. She gets an attitude like, "What, you want me to wait a month for a maybe date?" It went down hill ever since but, she sure looks hot. We never agreed on the where or how to get together. Has anyone had better luck with her? I think the younger you are the better her attitude will be. She says guys are sending her $ just to txt! She is neither sweet nor a rookie it seems.

ARG.

On whatsyourprice.com Wisteria https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/myW2ordn5jjWOpQ56wY9ZQlM.

On seeking.com Ccherryy https://www.seeking.com/member/15602996-ddd2-4c3f-82d1-1c6167490b28.Body is very hot. Face not so much. She seemed very nice to me though.

WCFields62
01-31-21, 10:33
https://www.seeking.com/member/5ae8a92e-9bc1-44cf-bbb4-f0e9cc2e4f7c

Cute girl, easy to communicate with, no drug use, can't host, nice body, great BBBJ and great FS. Lots of dirty talk and gets into it.

Definitely a good experience. $$ damage.Too bad her age limit is 51.

PaulRew
01-31-21, 12:41
Buying a gift just to get an SA woman to talk to you is a bad idea. Please realize that there is a significant group of women (or men. Who knows who is hiding behind the profile? Who run the scam of asking and getting "gifts" on there. With no intention of meeting you.

You do you, but this is not how to make a good in-person connection on SA.Buying a gift before you meet a girl is a really bad idea. Let's make it even more straight forward, Think of buying a gift in the same way you do as when a girl asks for a deposit prior to a meet.

If a profile suggests " Check out my wishlist" or " Show your serious by visiting my wishlist" etc I block and move on.

IAmAzn
01-31-21, 13:09
If the girl decides she is done she will delete her profile and that is the message you get.That must happen a lot. I haven't seen anything every time I click on a link. No matter if it is in Boston or LA or Vegas. Very sad.

HounDog3
01-31-21, 15:10
Buying a gift before you meet a girl is a really bad idea. Let's make it even more straight forward, Think of buying a gift in the same way you do as when a girl asks for a deposit prior to a meet.

If a profile suggests " Check out my wishlist" or " Show your serious by visiting my wishlist" etc I block and move on.In case you're not convinced yet or still on the fence, add my voice to the chorus of don't do it. Asking for gifts in advance then never meeting is one of the classic sugar baby scams on SA. You don't even know if it's a girl behind the profile and not a guy. Don't do it. Pay the cost of the upgrade to premium for a month. If you put in the effort, and it does take work, and have a decent game you'll reap the rewards.

Likewise, do not pay for texting that was mentioned in another post and never pay for pics or vids when pornhub is free. Don't pay for a meet & greet and never send money in advance-she will never ever show.

HounDog3
01-31-21, 15:23
Too bad her age limit is 51.


https://www.seeking.com/member/5ae8a92e-9bc1-44cf-bbb4-f0e9cc2e4f7c

Cute girl, easy to communicate with, no drug use, can't host, nice body, great BBBJ and great FS. Lots of dirty talk and gets into it.

Definitely a good experience. $$ damage.I've found it's not always a hard limit so much as a suggestion or ideal. If you like the profile and you're over the age limit, go for it anyway, all you have to lose is the time to write a message. On the plus side, you may get the girl.

ARegularGuy
01-31-21, 16:39
I here you there. I did manage to keep the connection since before the pandemic. It happens.

ARG.


SA is a bit like regular dating. And not much like STG. No girl wants to hear that you're deliberately planning to make her wait. You have to string her along. That takes patience and creativity. You have to come up with good excuses. Not cut off communication, not see her, but still make her believe you want to see her asap. You have to enjoy the chase as much as you enjoy the kill. And accept that she could be playing the same game with you. Otherwise this might not be the right hobby for you.

DpmSaturn14
01-31-21, 18:08
I learned a lot from reading this forum (thank you), so I thought I would share my M&G experience. It's been a shit ton of work to get my first 10 meetings, here's how they went.

1 - drinks, back to my place, fun was had, already seen again.

2 - coffee, made mistake of picking Starbucks, no seating. She was cool going to my place, fun was had, already seen again.

3 - drinks, WYP $100 first date incentive, have one drink then she says she has plans, we leave together and part ways, later that night she texts me that I forgot to give her the first date incentive, LOL. Blocked.

4 - dinner, I get to restaurant and she ghosts me. I hit her up for gas $, crickets.

5 - drinks, she says she wants to get to know me first. Dinner following week. She says still not ready but will have fun next time. Set next date, we'll see, maybe she's just looking for free meals. She's funny as shit, so I don't really care either way.

6 - drinks. I had 2 beers, she sucks down a cocktail, martini and 2 tequila shots. OMG. Back to my place, more shots, crazy fun was had. She said she had great time and I can contribute $50 less going forward, I'm good with that!

7 - drinks, back to my place for dinner. Made out like teenagers, but it was already pretty late and she had early meet. She agreed to fun next time. I made clear before meet no fun, no sugar, so no amount given and was happy she didn't ask. Working on setting 2nd meet.

8 - coffee, could tell she was a newbie based on profile and texting, but when she shows up to M&G with a friend, give me a break. Next day she's asks for Uber money, LOL. Not spending my time with newbies anymore (2 other newbies I chatted with, didn't meet, just endless texting).

9 - no M&G, she agrees to come directly to my place, fun was had, but it really wasn't that fun.

10 - no M&G, she agrees to come directly to my place, fun was had and this one was fun.

While it's a lot of work, and outcome uncertain, I find this so much better than escorts.

If no sugar is given unless fun is had they are escorts. Simple as that. Call them what you want when you are with them if it gets them to fuck you without bullshit for compensation but between us men let us be truthful.

If a chick won't fuck you unless she's getting paid she's a hooker, end of.

A2How the heck have you gotten to this point? I've been trying for month's, and end up with nothing but one dead end after another. LOL. I'm just about ready to throw in the towel when my membership runs out! I'd be happy with just one or two of what you have experienced.

ManDownUnder
02-01-21, 02:25
How the heck have you gotten to this point? I've been trying for month's, and end up with nothing but one dead end after another. LOL. I'm just about ready to throw in the towel when my membership runs out! I'd be happy with just one or two of what you have experienced.As I said it was a ton of work. Probably 35 offline conversations yielded 10 girls that agreed to meet, 5 ended in bed, 3 duds and 2 in process.

Based on my experience so far (one month in), this is in-between seeing an escort and having a girlfriend. My approach (based on what I've read in this forum) is to treat the girl like they are your girlfriend. In return, the good ones will make you feel like she is your girlfriend (no delusions, I realize they are there for the $. None have asked for contribution up front, where as most escorts I've been with want $ up front. Escorts typically watch the clock, and I always feel pressured to finish within the specified time. None of my successes watched the clock. One went for 3 hours. My #9, ironically, the prettiest with a rocking body, I didn't like at all because she made me feel like she didn't want to be there.

I would say on average the girls I've seen have had a very pretty face (7/8), but could lose a few pounds (body 6/7). I realize that if I target higher quality, my success rate will be much lower or probably cost more.

ManDownUnder
02-01-21, 02:38
Too bad her age limit is 51.No girl will ever ask to see I'd to verify your age. If the pics on your profile are reasonably accurate, you should be good to go. I asked one girl that I was a few years above her range, she said no problem.

Bran001
02-01-21, 14:28
How the heck have you gotten to this point? I've been trying for month's, and end up with nothing but one dead end after another. LOL. I'm just about ready to throw in the towel when my membership runs out! I'd be happy with just one or two of what you have experienced.You have to have an approach (game they call it) that works for them.

What is your initial message? What do you say -- let me know and I'll give you my impression.

There are a ton of women on SA who don't intend to meet; they could be gift scammers, money up front scammers, or just people who are bored and chat up men for the fun of it. But it definitely can work. I've always had good success although it can be a bit of work. I tend to get bored with most of them, so I'm usually looking for the next. I've been seeing my current SB for a little over 3 months and still very hot for her so so far so good.

Joe Parkers
02-01-21, 17:56
I learned a lot from reading this forum (thank you), so I thought I would share my M&G experience. It's been a shit ton of work to get my first 10 meetings, here's how they went.

1 - drinks, back to my place, fun was had, already seen again.

2 - coffee, made mistake of picking Starbucks, no seating. She was cool going to my place, fun was had, already seen again.

3 - drinks, WYP $100 first date incentive, have one drink then she says she has plans, we leave together and part ways, later that night she texts me that I forgot to give her the first date incentive, LOL. Blocked.

4 - dinner, I get to restaurant and she ghosts me. I hit her up for gas $, crickets.

5 - drinks, she says she wants to get to know me first. Dinner following week. She says still not ready but will have fun next time. Set next date, we'll see, maybe she's just looking for free meals. She's funny as shit, so I don't really care either way.

6 - drinks. I had 2 beers, she sucks down a cocktail, martini and 2 tequila shots. OMG. Back to my place, more shots, crazy fun was had. She said she had great time and I can contribute $50 less going forward, I'm good with that!

7 - drinks, back to my place for dinner. Made out like teenagers, but it was already pretty late and she had early meet. She agreed to fun next time. I made clear before meet no fun, no sugar, so no amount given and was happy she didn't ask. Working on setting 2nd meet.I am happy you had great times. But beside reading your adventures. I don't see any valuable info here. Give us names, links, things that can be helpful for us. I am not trying to be an ass but I feel that needed to be said.

Joe1223
02-01-21, 19:27
As I said it was a ton of work. Probably 35 offline conversations yielded 10 girls that agreed to meet, 5 ended in bed, 3 duds and 2 in process.

Based on my experience so far (one month in), this is in-between seeing an escort and having a girlfriend. My approach (based on what I've read in this forum) is to treat the girl like they are your girlfriend. In return, the good ones will make you feel like she is your girlfriend (no delusions, I realize they are there for the $. None have asked for contribution up front, where as most escorts I've been with want $ up front. Escorts typically watch the clock, and I always feel pressured to finish within the specified time. None of my successes watched the clock. One went for 3 hours. My #9, ironically, the prettiest with a rocking body, I didn't like at all because she made me feel like she didn't want to be there.

I would say on average the girls I've seen have had a very pretty face (7/8), but could lose a few pounds (body 6/7). I realize that if I target higher quality, my success rate will be much lower or probably cost more.This is pretty much spot on for success. Understanding the girls are not escorts or don't want to be treated as such anyway is key. I agree with having a targeted group regarding age, beauty, body type that gives you what you need but doesn't turn you off. I prefer under 27-28 but struggle to really connect with the 18-19 you. I love the 23 yo's as they are usually aware of what this is about and many are sick of the "boys" treating them shitty. I just closed out with an 18 yo I got as a rookie to this action because she kept asking for more money and was hard to really have a real conversation. The sex was great, for me anyway, but like Bran mentioned you can get bored if you don't have the right match. I'm over 60 and in decent shape so I list my age a little younger than actual as some of the girls feel really weird about doing over 60 yo dudes. I'm hanging on for a little longer as these young hotties do a body good. The key to my success has been that them good, promote them and be reliable and not a freak. Most of my arrangements last for several months and the girls really start to get kinky as they get warmed up to the deal. You need to know how to read the room and make sure you can converse with them on their level not their grandfathers.

Bran001
02-02-21, 09:03
I am happy you had great times. But beside reading your adventures. I don't see any valuable info here. Give us names, links, things that can be helpful for us. I am not trying to be an ass but I feel that needed to be said.I think it's worth commenting on the "names" thing. For the type of woman I look for, she would NOT want to be "reviewed" and absent her doing something really untoward, betraying trust, etc. , I'd not post who I was seeing even after it ended. I'd feel it violated their trust. But those who ask for what I think is silly money, or who flake, are pro's with escort ads, or who bait and switch; I'll post a link.

Big Stu
02-02-21, 09:38
https://www.seeking.com/member/d3597c30-5bf6-4911-83c1-32a9b2df8d39 Google her and you'll see she's an adult film star or as she put it mattress actress. I imagine her rate will be high so probably be a one and done.

I should have a few reviews this week or next. The arrangements I had I let one go but then one vanished, I think she was just on for holiday help and the 3rd thought I was avoiding her when I was really quarantining for 2 weeks but she got mad & moved on. Nice girl has a cum fetish, I'll probably post about her. I think I have a few that might work really well for me including a 30 year old mom from NH that comes down to Boston for 2 days a week for her job. We did a vid call & she pointed out if the connection is there and I get a hotel, it means she doesn't have to pay for the hotel herself & she gets to spend the entire night with a man she can have fun with & get some money for it. So that works great for me.

BR1201
02-02-21, 18:11
https://www.seeking.com/member/d3597c30-5bf6-4911-83c1-32a9b2df8d39 Google her and you'll see she's an adult film star or as she put it mattress actress. I imagine her rate will be high so probably be a one and done.

I should have a few reviews this week or next. The arrangements I had I let one go but then one vanished, I think she was just on for holiday help and the 3rd thought I was avoiding her when I was really quarantining for 2 weeks but she got mad & moved on. Nice girl has a cum fetish, I'll probably post about her. I think I have a few that might work really well for me including a 30 year old mom from NH that comes down to Boston for 2 days a week for her job. We did a vid call & she pointed out if the connection is there and I get a hotel, it means she doesn't have to pay for the hotel herself & she gets to spend the entire night with a man she can have fun with & get some money for it. So that works great for me.Saw posts about her a few years ago. She wanted 1000 per meet or something in that range.

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02-02-21, 19:32
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Bran001
02-03-21, 08:40
Saw posts about her a few years ago. She wanted 1000 per meet or something in that range.My current SB was intrigued so I sent her a message on SA; no response yet.

Bran001
02-03-21, 08:53
My current SB was intrigued so I sent her a message on SA; no response yet.Classic. "My time is very valuable. I expect compensation for our first (platonic) meeting. I don’t have time to have coffee with every Tom dick and Harry on here". We have a winner!

Oscar13
02-03-21, 10:16
We have a winner!The response I got was that she is looking for a "very wealthy" man. On the bright side her movie clips were pretty good, nice angles and she takes it like a champ.

Mattis1775
02-03-21, 15:37
Classic. "My time is very valuable. I expect compensation for our first (platonic) meeting. I dont have time to have coffee with every Tom dick and Harry on here". We have a winner!Wow. I would've wrote back to told her to go screw herself and look elsewhere. I guess you do act and say things like that when you receive hundreds of messages from guys with one liners or worse.

SHawker25
02-03-21, 22:24
Has anyone had this issue? This has happened to me once before. Exactly at 50% into the time of the subscription, they cancelled my account stating that I solicited sex. I never did a nything like that on the site. And this happened again this month, my 2nd subscription. Not once did I mention sex or anything, all I said is I am looking for a companion. And suddenly in exactly 2 weeks, I get it cancelled. Any thoughts?

Gianni Versace
02-03-21, 22:40
Has anyone had this issue? This has happened to me once before. Exactly at 50% into the time of the subscription, they cancelled my account stating that I solicited sex. I never did a nything like that on the site. And this happened again this month, my 2nd subscription. Not once did I mention sex or anything, all I said is I am looking for a companion. And suddenly in exactly 2 weeks, I get it cancelled. Any thoughts?You were obviously to explicit in your conversations. Always take the conversations off site.

Spike77
02-03-21, 22:44
Has anyone had this issue? This has happened to me once before. Exactly at 50% into the time of the subscription, they cancelled my account stating that I solicited sex. I never did a nything like that on the site. And this happened again this month, my 2nd subscription. Not once did I mention sex or anything, all I said is I am looking for a companion. And suddenly in exactly 2 weeks, I get it cancelled. Any thoughts?I have been on and off this site for 3 years and have never been banned (knock on wood). I am surprised how many people have reported getting banned. Not only once but multiple times. In your case (I am taking you at your word) my guess is they have some type of program that flags certain keywords. Right or wrong it is possible they added "companion" to that list. Either that or someone reported you. My advice, which seemed to have worked so far, is to take conversation off the site as quickly as possible. Don't use words or phrases which you think may be flagged. Lastly, don't say anything that will piss a girl off. It is not worth it.

TheList00
02-03-21, 22:47
Has anyone had this issue? This has happened to me once before. Exactly at 50% into the time of the subscription, they cancelled my account stating that I solicited sex. I never did a nything like that on the site. And this happened again this month, my 2nd subscription. Not once did I mention sex or anything, all I said is I am looking for a companion. And suddenly in exactly 2 weeks, I get it cancelled. Any thoughts?My thought its to steal your money and make you pay another 100. I swear they make shit up or woman get butthurt when you say no then they report you and the site just goes with it. I've been banned numerous times for sex talk but that's fine because that's what I'm there for and can admit it but true story, they banned me for trying to get sex from underage woman on the site. Now this pissed me off because you need to be 18 to join the site so there's no way there's anyway listed on the site as being under 18 , so when I advised them of this it still went nowhere. This is when I knew the site is on lying to steal your money with made up shit. But we are at there mercy since all the other sites are pay per convo which is a joke. Cost me 50 bucks on WYP to open 5 convos that basically weren't what I was looking for. Talk about a waste of money. I'm now on sugardaddymeet.com. Its not bad, 50 a month, unlimited messaging and there's some cute woman there.

SHawker25
02-03-21, 22:56
I have been on and off this site for 3 years and have never been banned (knock on wood). I am surprised how many people have reported getting banned. Not only once but multiple times. In your case (I am taking you at your word) my guess is they have some type of program that flags certain keywords. Right or wrong it is possible they added "companion" to that list. Either that or someone reported you. My advice, which seemed to have worked so far, is to take conversation off the site as quickly as possible. Don't use words or phrases which you think may be flagged. Lastly, don't say anything that will piss a girl off. It is not worth it.I swear all I said was I am looking for a companion to spend some time with. Or someone to hang out and have fun. And anything explicit I would always take it off site on my text or snapchat. I have no idea what the heck happened, and it happens exactly when 50% of the subscription was used. Exactly at that point.

Spike77
02-03-21, 23:03
I swear all I said was I am looking for a companion to spend some time with. Or someone to hang out and have fun. And anything explicit I would always take it off site on my text or snapchat. I have no idea what the heck happened, and it happens exactly when 50% of the subscription was used. Exactly at that point.So weird, did SA offer an explanation as to why your account got banned when they reinstated your account last time?

HounDog3
02-04-21, 00:30
Wow. I would've wrote back to told her to go screw herself and look elsewhere. I guess you do act and say things like that when you receive hundreds of messages from guys with one liners or worse.Yes, tell her to go screw herself, piss her off and have her report you so your account is banned. That kind of advice is what can give fellow mongers here problems. Sometimes it's just worth it to not bother. Block her and move on.

Joe1223
02-04-21, 08:03
Yes, tell her to go screw herself, piss her off and have her report you so your account is banned. That kind of advice is what can give fellow mongers here problems. Sometimes it's just worth it to not bother. Block her and move on.I agree, attempting to challenge a "girl" or troll on SA is a waste of time. Similar to having a political disagreement on FB. LOL.

They may or may not be real so if you can't agree on terms just go to the next one without giving it a thought. The goal is to move off SA to another means of communication ASAP in order to clear the SA filters but you still need to be civil there. Otherwise she could go back and report you and SA may chose to block you from the 3rd party communications.

Bran001
02-04-21, 08:28
Wow. I would've wrote back to told her to go screw herself and look elsewhere. I guess you do act and say things like that when you receive hundreds of messages from guys with one liners or worse.Echoing the other posts; if I did that she would have vindictively reported me and I'd be banned. No. Told her "we're not a good match" and blocked.

DarkClouds
02-04-21, 08:49
I would suggest not using the word "companion". No standby words with double meanings.


I swear all I said was I am looking for a companion to spend some time with. Or someone to hang out and have fun. And anything explicit I would always take it off site on my text or snapchat. I have no idea what the heck happened, and it happens exactly when 50% of the subscription was used. Exactly at that point.

DurtyDawg
02-04-21, 09:40
https://www.seeking.com/member/e7b1872d-f09e-4171-9131-821206d3b2f8

I almost spit coffee all over my keyboard while reading this one!!.

WCFields62
02-04-21, 11:48
I would suggest not using the word "companion". No standby words with double meanings.Wow, I've never been banned. And only recently, upon discovering this site, stop using the term PPM. Maybe because I'm a longstanding customer?

WCFields62
02-04-21, 11:48
https://www.seeking.com/member/e7b1872d-f09e-4171-9131-821206d3b2f8

I almost spit coffee all over my keyboard while reading this one!!.My kind of girl. I wonder if she's cheaper than Kimerly.

OkWhatever
02-04-21, 12:40
I was banned twice. Once was my fault as I was talking game directly in messages on SA. The second time, I have no fucking clue. I think someone reported me for rejecting her. I never got re-instated. I signed up again recently, but haven't renewed. I used a protonmail account and new burner #.


Has anyone had this issue? This has happened to me once before. Exactly at 50% into the time of the subscription, they cancelled my account stating that I solicited sex. I never did a nything like that on the site. And this happened again this month, my 2nd subscription. Not once did I mention sex or anything, all I said is I am looking for a companion. And suddenly in exactly 2 weeks, I get it cancelled. Any thoughts?

Gianni Versace
02-04-21, 13:05
https://www.seeking.com/member/e7b1872d-f09e-4171-9131-821206d3b2f8

I almost spit coffee all over my keyboard while reading this one!!.On to the Next. I can't even believe some guys would waste their time on someone like that. Talk about being treated like dog shit.

Mattis1775
02-04-21, 14:57
I agree, attempting to challenge a "girl" or troll on SA is a waste of time. Similar to having a political disagreement on FB. LOL.

They may or may not be real so if you can't agree on terms just go to the next one without giving it a thought. The goal is to move off SA to another means of communication ASAP in order to clear the SA filters but you still need to be civil there. Otherwise she could go back and report you and SA may chose to block you from the 3rd party communications.I had accounts blocked and / or removed for no reason at all. SA will do it whether you're the coolest guy on the site or the biggest jerk. Blocking and filtering is definitely a way to go. Good point. I checked some girls on SA (free account) and didn't really see much within 25-miles. Not enough to catch my attention. Not sure if a paid account will show more. But, I'll have to think whether the 99 is worth it for the first month. If I do it, I'll have to put some free time to really search the whole site within a month. I want to ensure I get my money's worth.

PaulRew
02-04-21, 19:51
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Bran001
02-04-21, 21:49
Wow, I've never been banned. And only recently, upon discovering this site, stop using the term PPM. Maybe because I'm a longstanding customer?I'm a long-time customer and got banned this past summer. I am very careful on there. I wrote to customer service and they reinstated me once I promised to never do again what they would not tell me I did LOL. Really.

PaulRew
02-04-21, 22:26
Gentlemen, there are some great posters on this thread and it is obvious who they are. If you are new and thinking of doing a VIP membership review their posts and reach out.

Bran001
02-04-21, 22:30
Gentlemen, there are some great posters on this thread and it is obvious who they are. If you are new and thinking of doing a VIP membership review their posts and reach out.I'm always happy to help those who are new to SA or having trouble making connections there.

MajorVX
02-05-21, 11:40
They both want cashapp and claim they'll come meet you. One of them barely spoke English through text so I'm guess that one is from out of the country. Neither could provide a selfie. One other tip, if a girl doesn't want to see your pic or care what you look like, it's a scam. Don't send money through cashapp and this will go away.

HounDog3
02-05-21, 12:43
I checked some girls on SA (free account) and didn't really see much within 25-miles. Not enough to catch my attention. Not sure if a paid account will show more.When I have enough to keep me busy, I let my premium account lapse for a few months and revert to free, then return to a paid account when it's time to start prospecting again. I never observed any difference in search results between premium and free. Don't expect to see more girls by paying for a month. Check your search parameters, they may be to tight. Also your city. Many girls list their city as Boston but could be located anywhere from south shore to north shore or in between. They do this to increase their prospective pool of guys, not as part of a scam. Try expanding your area to 50 miles.

Spike77
02-05-21, 14:57
They both want cashapp and claim they'll come meet you. One of them barely spoke English through text so I'm guess that one is from out of the country. Neither could provide a selfie. One other tip, if a girl doesn't want to see your pic or care what you look like, it's a scam. Don't send money through cashapp and this will go away.Not providing a city is another dead giveaway that the profile is potentially fake as the case in your example. Any profile that lists Massachusetts, Massachusetts as opposed to say Boston, Massachusetts should be a red flag.

Spill
02-05-21, 16:37
Not providing a city is another dead giveaway that the profile is potentially fake as the case in your example. Any profile that lists Massachusetts, Massachusetts as opposed to say Boston, Massachusetts should be a red flag.For me, this is a non-issue and not a red flag. Caution, sure. But EVERYTHING in an SB's profile should be read with caution. For privacy reasons, people do not always put down the town they live in. From experience:

1. I've met legit SB's from Massachusetts, Massachusetts.

2. I've had at least 2 SB's use a different town than their actual town in their profile. They were great.

3. Many who use Boston as their city are really not from Boston, but that does not mean they aren't legit.

There is no set guideline, so don't throw the babe out with the bathwater.

Spill
02-05-21, 16:44
They both want cashapp and claim they'll come meet you. One of them barely spoke English through text so I'm guess that one is from out of the country. Neither could provide a selfie. One other tip, if a girl doesn't want to see your pic or care what you look like, it's a scam. Don't send money through cashapp and this will go away.- "Don't send money through cashapp and this will go away". YES, do not send money through cashapp. This should be a no-brainer. But I doubt this will make it go away.

- "if a girl doesn't want to see your pic or care what you look like, it's a scam". MAYBE. But I've had 2 experiences that did not require a photo and were legit.

SolitaryMan603
02-05-21, 17:33
For me, this is a non-issue and not a red flag. Caution, sure. But EVERYTHING in an SB's profile should be read with caution. For privacy reasons, people do not always put down the town they live in. From experience:

1. I've met legit SB's from Massachusetts, Massachusetts.

2. I've had at least 2 SB's use a different town than their actual town in their profile. They were great.

3. Many who use Boston as their city are really not from Boston, but that does not mean they aren't legit.

There is no set guideline, so don't throw the babe out with the bathwater.Almost all that I have met up with or in the process of setting something up with have put a town near where they live but not where they actually live. Hell I put the next town over in my profile. I had one with Massachusetts, Massachusetts and when I asked where she was from she didn't know why it said that and wasn't aware it did.

SolitaryMan603
02-05-21, 17:57
Thought I would share what has worked and hasn't worked as far as the first message for me. I've been most successful getting a response when I send a first message stating what I'm looking for: discrete, mutually beneficial, let's chat if that is interesting etc. The next most successful has been f they have something in their profile I can tailor into a first message as either a shared interest or a follow up question but I find most don't put enough in their profile to come up with much.

I've abandoned these because of the low response rate: Giving a compliment. A generic hi, how was you week, or something similar. Asking for more details on what they are looking for or their interests.

Favoriting and sending a message seems to bring the best response rate.

Curious to hear approaches that work and don't work for others.

Dano7
02-06-21, 11:34
Do any of you use Secret Benefits? Signed up and bought 100 credits, but no luck so far. Was attracted to the one off pricing and there are some great profiles, but not sure this is legit and / or is super hard to get anything real going.

Joe1223
02-06-21, 11:54
Do any of you use Secret Benefits? Signed up and bought 100 credits, but no luck so far. Was attracted to the one off pricing and there are some great profiles, but not sure this is legit and / or is super hard to get anything real going.I have had success with all of the sites however SA is the leader just because of the selection. I think the overall consensus here has been the same, as it has been asked about a fair amount. Good to experiment and see how it goes but I feel there may be more bots on SB, if that is such a thing, because many seemed to never reply.

Spill
02-06-21, 13:13
https://www.seeking.com/member/d3597c30-5bf6-4911-83c1-32a9b2df8d39

The ex mattress actress. I apologize is she was discussed already (her profile is pretty new 2/2/2021).

Bran001
02-06-21, 14:01
https://www.seeking.com/member/d3597c30-5bf6-4911-83c1-32a9b2df8d39

The ex mattress actress. I apologize is she was discussed already (her profile is pretty new 2/2/2021).There's been some discussion here. Scroll down a few days worth.

Bran001
02-06-21, 14:03
Thought I would share what has worked and hasn't worked as far as the first message for me. I've been most successful getting a response when I send a first message stating what I'm looking for: discrete, mutually beneficial, let's chat if that is interesting etc. The next most successful has been f they have something in their profile I can tailor into a first message as either a shared interest or a follow up question but I find most don't put enough in their profile to come up with much.

I've abandoned these because of the low response rate: Giving a compliment. A generic hi, how was you week, or something similar. Asking for more details on what they are looking for or their interests.

Favoriting and sending a message seems to bring the best response rate.

Curious to hear approaches that work and don't work for others.Yes something pretty specific without being blunt is good. Something showing you read the profile is good. I never "favorite" I just don't use that feature.

A polite follow up after a day or two works too. Some women don't respond because they are flooded with messages; others are just terrible at communication.

WCFields62
02-06-21, 15:14
https://www.seeking.com/member/e7b1872d-f09e-4171-9131-821206d3b2f8

I almost spit coffee all over my keyboard while reading this one!!.I tried to engage this one, mostly out of curiosity. I got a very nice / polite response that really was nothing other than an acknowledgement that I messaged her. So she's either getting more attention than she can handle or she's not interested due to my age. You'd think with a profile like hers that anyone who does message her is OK with her 'rules' and that the amount of messages she receives would be less than the average, but she certainly is not desperate.

NewEngland
02-07-21, 10:54
I tried to engage this one, mostly out of curiosity. I got a very nice / polite response that really was nothing other than an acknowledgement that I messaged her. So she's either getting more attention than she can handle or she's not interested due to my age. You'd think with a profile like hers that anyone who does message her is OK with her 'rules' and that the amount of messages she receives would be less than the average, but she certainly is not desperate.Just an FYI she now list chicago as home no longer ct.

Bran001
02-07-21, 12:28
Just an FYI she now list chicago as home no longer ct.Either a travelling escort or an outright scammer.

WCFields62
02-07-21, 17:13
Either a travelling escort or an outright scammer.Ahhh yes, Chicago now. Jeez, I missed my chance LOL! Yeah, I have no doubt it's one of those two.

LordOfThEeyes
02-08-21, 12:15
https://www.seeking.com/member/5ae8a92e-9bc1-44cf-bbb4-f0e9cc2e4f7c

Cute girl, easy to communicate with, no drug use, can't host, nice body, great BBBJ and great FS. Lots of dirty talk and gets into it.

Definitely a good experience. $$ damage.Did you get a hotel or did she drive to you? And was thr FD uncovered?

WCFields62
02-09-21, 13:27
This one wouldn't participate in any form of photo verification and came across like a scammer:

https://www.seeking.com/member/766815bc-f976-4d82-bb44-a303b52240c4

Wondering if anyone has info about these three:

Seems legit:

https://www.seeking.com/member/4d9ac7d0-e361-4412-8172-086fefca4f07

Wanted to immediately switch to Snapchat:

https://www.seeking.com/member/21b9a93c-a19f-4938-a509-7ed3ae431160

Intelligent and probably legit:

https://www.seeking.com/member/a427ee59-2ec6-47bf-b1df-5ecd7c6bdc23

It's been a bad week. Many conversations have dried up due to the women not logging back in.

Newbie978
02-09-21, 14:39
I just finished a one month trial of seeking. The first few days were really cool, I got a lot of messages and leads (a lot of scams or pic sellers too). The next few weeks were decent but not as busy. Most of my final week was completely dead. I got no messages and couldn't really find anyone. The last day I was getting several messages from many promising leads. It's like they decided to boost my profile in hopes of me staying. Did this happen to anyone else?

DarkClouds
02-09-21, 14:41
Yes, they boost your profile a couple of days before your membership is ending in order to get you to renew. My take is that membership will not pay off until this pandemic is over / under control. I will not be renewing until then anyway.


I just finished a one month trial of seeking. The first few days were really cool, I got a lot of messages and leads (a lot of scams or pic sellers too). The next few weeks were decent but not as busy. Most of my final week was completely dead. I got no messages and couldn't really find anyone. The last day I was getting several messages from many promising leads. It's like they decided to boost my profile in hopes of me staying. Did this happen to anyone else?

Gianni Versace
02-09-21, 15:05
I just finished a one month trial of seeking. The first few days were really cool, I got a lot of messages and leads (a lot of scams or pic sellers too). The next few weeks were decent but not as busy. Most of my final week was completely dead. I got no messages and couldn't really find anyone. The last day I was getting several messages from many promising leads. It's like they decided to boost my profile in hopes of me staying. Did this happen to anyone else?Like everything in life its a cycle. There are only so many sb's that are on the site which is why I do not think its worth it to pay for a membership each month. I do think that a membership every 3 or 4 months could be worth while depending on how you like the relationship you had established with your SB.

Newbie978
02-09-21, 16:25
Like everything in life its a cycle. There are only so many sb's that are on the site which is why I do not think its worth it to pay for a membership each month. I do think that a membership every 3 or 4 months could be worth while depending on how you like the relationship you had established with your SB.I tend to agree with you, after a month I think I have enough leads to work with for a while. I just found it odd that on my last premium day I got more messages than another other day. However, I would sign up again if the girls I am talking to don't work out or I get bored.

Also fellas, today is a good day to sign up if you're on the fence. They have a special, $75 instead of $90 for one month. Just make sure to take off auto renewal right away, I think they tried charging my card again after a few weeks (lucky for me it was maxed out- haha).

JDeller
02-09-21, 20:41
Did you make it to the FC? I was 1 for about 200 sent messages. Could have had a few more but didn't like looks or personality or vibe.


I just finished a one month trial of seeking. The first few days were really cool, I got a lot of messages and leads (a lot of scams or pic sellers too). The next few weeks were decent but not as busy. Most of my final week was completely dead. I got no messages and couldn't really find anyone. The last day I was getting several messages from many promising leads. It's like they decided to boost my profile in hopes of me staying. Did this happen to anyone else?

Gianni Versace
02-09-21, 20:52
I tend to agree with you, after a month I think I have enough leads to work with for a while. I just found it odd that on my last premium day I got more messages than another other day. However, I would sign up again if the girls I am talking to don't work out or I get bored.

Also fellas, today is a good day to sign up if you're on the fence. They have a special, $75 instead of $90 for one month. Just make sure to take off auto renewal right away, I think they tried charging my card again after a few weeks (lucky for me it was maxed out- haha).You mean this valentines promo LOL.

Bran001
02-09-21, 22:42
Did you get a hotel or did she drive to you? And was thr FD uncovered?OK I thought I knew all the acronyms. What does FD mean?

Kenankel
02-10-21, 00:50
OK I thought I knew all the acronyms. What does FD mean?Prob just a typo for FS.

MeatMan
02-10-21, 11:13
With WYP, SA and all the other legitimate hookup sites, do you guys post your face pics in your profile?.

SolitaryMan603
02-10-21, 11:36
With WYP, SA and all the other legitimate hookup sites, do you guys post your face pics in your profile?.On SA my public pic you can't make out my face. My private pics have my face and are recent. If I am interested in one I will share my pics. I've had a handful stop responding after I share but I figure if they aren't attracted to me that would happen eventually anyway. I give it a week or so and if they have looked at my profile and still no response I revoke the access to the private pics. I like to be discrete but I have no real concerns work or personal life wise if someone found out I was on the site so its more just to keep my face pics out of the hands of scammers. Both my public and private pics are only on SA so you can't reverse image search and find me. Most of my social media is private and only shared with friends or I have deleted it so low chance they can find me by searching the internet alone. I can't say if it impacts my response rate since I've had it that way from the start.

NastySD
02-10-21, 13:23
I have zero public photos and will share them if there is interest.


On SA my public pic you can't make out my face. My private pics have my face and are recent. If I am interested in one I will share my pics. I've had a handful stop responding after I share but I figure if they aren't attracted to me that would happen eventually anyway. I give it a week or so and if they have looked at my profile and still no response I revoke the access to the private pics. I like to be discrete but I have no real concerns work or personal life wise if someone found out I was on the site so its more just to keep my face pics out of the hands of scammers. Both my public and private pics are only on SA so you can't reverse image search and find me. Most of my social media is private and only shared with friends or I have deleted it so low chance they can find me by searching the internet alone. I can't say if it impacts my response rate since I've had it that way from the start.

Bran001
02-10-21, 13:27
Prob just a typo for FS.I've seen FD used a bunch here though! Maybe just a bunch of guys who can't type? Heh.

Bran001
02-10-21, 13:29
With WYP, SA and all the other legitimate hookup sites, do you guys post your face pics in your profile?.I have no public pic, but private pics that show my face clearly.

This has never been an issue for me with regard to generating interest.

I revoke pic access once I know it's going nowhere, both for security and it's how I keep track of who I might be interested in. (I don't delete messages).

Joe1223
02-10-21, 14:13
With WYP, SA and all the other legitimate hookup sites, do you guys post your face pics in your profile?.I have a pretty good pic of me on public but I do have sunglasses on. It shields me pretty good. After making contact and either sharing a couple private pics or moving off SA I will send them to my fake IG account which has a few more pics that are more giving so they can get a sense of security and that feeling that I am "real". Have never had an issue with my identity being exposed yet. But I am very selective as to who I hook up with and won't go with what I feel are pros.

DarkClouds
02-10-21, 14:37
Not on the site. Not offline. If it's a deal breaker, so be it. I do expect to see theirs though. Is it an unequal arrangement? That depends on your perspective.


With WYP, SA and all the other legitimate hookup sites, do you guys post your face pics in your profile?.

Newbie978
02-11-21, 06:14
Did you make it to the FC? I was 1 for about 200 sent messages. Could have had a few more but didn't like looks or personality or vibe.What's FC? I reached out to a few girls, but most reached out to me first. I'd say 50-75 percent were down with PPM (pay per meet). I've met up with 4 girls in one month but could've more than doubled it if I had more time and money. I did have a pretty clear profile pic so that may have helped me.

Nflfan
02-11-21, 07:07
With WYP, SA and all the other legitimate hookup sites, do you guys post your face pics in your profile?.I have public no fee account. No face or profile. Just browse for due diligence. I notice however any pic I have access to can be downloaded. Keep that bit of Intel in mind.

BostonNorth16
02-11-21, 08:40
I have spoken with her by text several times and we have set several meetings but she backed out last minute from all of them. Has anyone hooked up with the first one?


This one wouldn't participate in any form of photo verification and came across like a scammer:

https://www.seeking.com/member/766815bc-f976-4d82-bb44-a303b52240c4

Wondering if anyone has info about these three:

Seems legit:

https://www.seeking.com/member/4d9ac7d0-e361-4412-8172-086fefca4f07

Wanted to immediately switch to Snapchat:

https://www.seeking.com/member/21b9a93c-a19f-4938-a509-7ed3ae431160

Intelligent and probably legit:

https://www.seeking.com/member/a427ee59-2ec6-47bf-b1df-5ecd7c6bdc23

It's been a bad week. Many conversations have dried up due to the women not logging back in.

BostonNorth16
02-11-21, 08:45
Has anyone met this one: https://www.seeking.com/member/09db8418-5e09-43ea-8a4e-568aa09da85e.

I have spoken with her and I'm curious if she is for real.

JDeller
02-11-21, 10:11
FC basically means did you have sex. It is short for f**k closet. If more girls were reaching out to you, than you reaching out to them, then you have a good profile and are doing well. Getting four girls to the FC out of one month subscription is very good provided they are hotties. Slim, pretty, sexy, twenty something. I am still working on a few hotties but had only one success. I could have had more but I declined a few just because they were average at best. Not slim or sexy or personality was annoying.


What's FC? I reached out to a few girls, but most reached out to me first. I'd say 50-75 percent were down with PPM (pay per meet). I've met up with 4 girls in one month but could've more than doubled it if I had more time and money. I did have a pretty clear profile pic so that may have helped me.

LordOfThEeyes
02-11-21, 18:47
OK I thought I knew all the acronyms. What does FD mean?OMG I didn't know that one letter typo was going to cause such a responce. Yes FS.

LordOfThEeyes
02-11-21, 18:49
Has anyone met this one: https://www.seeking.com/member/09db8418-5e09-43ea-8a4e-568aa09da85e.

I have spoken with her and I'm curious if she is for real.I mean with a name called gold charmer. I would assume at the very least GPS to the max.

Bran001
02-12-21, 07:28
Has anyone met this one: https://www.seeking.com/member/09db8418-5e09-43ea-8a4e-568aa09da85e.

I have spoken with her and I'm curious if she is for real.Feeble profile, highly filtered photo, 23 but calls herself a "young girl" = likely not real. To me.

Tribeca67
02-12-21, 14:38
I know there's a sale going on right now but is it a good time to renew or is it dead? When I sign in there's not too many good looking girls and most are far away I'm thinking about waiting another month or two.

Bran001
02-13-21, 07:55
I know there's a sale going on right now but is it a good time to renew or is it dead? When I sign in there's not too many good looking girls and most are far away I'm thinking about waiting another month or two.Seems a little dead to me right now. The new profiles are mostly "doing virtual only. " I'd prob wait until covid tamps down more and people are more ready to meet up.

Newbie978
02-13-21, 19:25
Seems a little dead to me right now. The new profiles are mostly "doing virtual only. " I'd prob wait until covid tamps down more and people are more ready to meet up.I don't know if it was just me but on my last day of paid membership I had so many messages from girls. But the previous 5-7 days before that I had very few prospects.

Bran001
02-13-21, 21:38
I don't know if it was just me but on my last day of paid membership I had so many messages from girls. But the previous 5-7 days before that I had very few prospects.I believe that they "promote" your profile as it's expiring. That gets it more views. I've never seen "bot" messages on SA like some other sites.

ManDownUnder
02-14-21, 02:25
I believe that they "promote" your profile as it's expiring. That gets it more views. I've never seen "bot" messages on SA like some other sites.Yes, I got this email the last day of my first month saying they were giving my profile a free boost. I got a ton of favorites, views and messages. Although many were from outside of MA.

Black Label 6
02-15-21, 06:09
She will have you park next to her truck, she will get out house and walk to your passenger side and get in then her partner will open your door and put a knife to your chest.

2X Holloway St Berkeley, MA.

Cell: (774) XXX-2903.

https://www.seeking.com/member/fa5bd09e-123e-4b03-9934-f9e81ce155fc

ManDownUnder
02-15-21, 09:25
Girl I've seen twice said next time I could just cash app her the donation (she said giving her cash makes her feel like a prostitute, LOL). The cash app creates a paper trail I don't like, but there is already a paper trail with all the texting. She has been to my place, so she can google my address and get my real name and other real info about me. Recommendations please. Should it be a hard no, what's the risk?

Rome400
02-15-21, 10:48
Girl I've seen twice said next time I could just cash app her the donation (she said giving her cash makes her feel like a prostitute, LOL). The cash app creates a paper trail I don't like, but there is already a paper trail with all the texting. She has been to my place, so she can google my address and get my real name and other real info about me. Recommendations please. Should it be a hard no, what's the risk?She probably just needs to pay bills, and doesn't want to have to deposit the cash in the bank. On the flip side you will also have her info.

DarkClouds
02-15-21, 11:10
Pay attention to phrases like "financial domination" and "don't waste my time" in the her profile.


Girl I've seen twice said next time I could just cash app her the donation (she said giving her cash makes her feel like a prostitute, LOL). The cash app creates a paper trail I don't like, but there is already a paper trail with all the texting. She has been to my place, so she can google my address and get my real name and other real info about me. Recommendations please. Should it be a hard no, what's the risk?

DarkClouds
02-15-21, 11:11
(Sorry my previous comment, was meant for this post.).

Pay attention to phrases like "financial domination" and "don't waste my time" in the their profiles.


She will have you park next to her truck, she will get out house and walk to your passenger side and get in then her partner will open your door and put a knife to your chest.

2X Holloway St Berkeley, MA.

Cell: (774) XXX-2903.

https://www.seeking.com/member/fa5bd09e-123e-4b03-9934-f9e81ce155fc

SolitaryMan603
02-15-21, 11:15
Girl I've seen twice said next time I could just cash app her the donation (she said giving her cash makes her feel like a prostitute, LOL). The cash app creates a paper trail I don't like, but there is already a paper trail with all the texting. She has been to my place, so she can google my address and get my real name and other real info about me. Recommendations please. Should it be a hard no, what's the risk?I just do cash. I'm more concerned about having to explain what all the transfers are if I get audited or she does. I don't know how much of a risk or concern it really is but I don't want to explain to an IRS agent that the 24 and 27 year old's I am sending money to every week are not employees / contractors I am paying under the table.

Joe1223
02-15-21, 14:00
Girl I've seen twice said next time I could just cash app her the donation (she said giving her cash makes her feel like a prostitute, LOL). The cash app creates a paper trail I don't like, but there is already a paper trail with all the texting. She has been to my place, so she can google my address and get my real name and other real info about me. Recommendations please. Should it be a hard no, what's the risk?I use cash for the first few times but once I am comfortable and feel secure, that she isn't going to track me down or rip me off, I move to an online cash app. I have a few because some girls use different ones. I also use fake names for these so she doesn't know my real name when transferring money. It really depends on your comfort level with the girls you hook up with. It does make it easier and most of the girls I find like it. I also use it to send an occasional bonus for special days like Birthdays or Christmas, etc. I don't like cash as it forces me to make a stop at the ATM and holding cash is a pain as well as a rip-off risk depending on who you are seeing. However cash is king and just ask the girl what she wants.

Joe1223
02-15-21, 14:06
She will have you park next to her truck, she will get out house and walk to your passenger side and get in then her partner will open your door and put a knife to your chest.

2X Holloway St Berkeley, MA.

Cell: (774) XXX-2903.

https://www.seeking.com/member/fa5bd09e-123e-4b03-9934-f9e81ce155fcYou should post this on the Rip-off thread also.

I always approach with caution when the first time is not in a public space. Usually the better girls want a brief meet and greet to see if you are their "type" so when someone is willing to meet right away my radar goes off. Hopefully they didn't get you for much but I'm surprised they even let you know where they were for fear of retaliation. Maybe a 911 call for a suspicious person is in order??

Vannila Stash
02-15-21, 14:25
You should post this on the Rip-off thread also.

I always approach with caution when the first time is not in a public space. Usually the better girls want a brief meet and greet to see if you are their "type" so when someone is willing to meet right away my radar goes off. Hopefully they didn't get you for much but I'm surprised they even let you know where they were for fear of retaliation. Maybe a 911 call for a suspicious person is in order??Street smarts = Always Always Keep you Drivers door Locked.

JDeller
02-15-21, 15:22
As soon as I know her real name and address and feel comfortable I see very low risk here. I like the convenience because it is one less thing to worry about (e. G. Blue pill, takeout, liquor store, water, mouthwash, lube, reservation, excuse to leave SO, etc.). The IRS is only concerned if you make a 10 k transfer so there is no issue there.


Girl I've seen twice said next time I could just cash app her the donation (she said giving her cash makes her feel like a prostitute, LOL). The cash app creates a paper trail I don't like, but there is already a paper trail with all the texting. She has been to my place, so she can google my address and get my real name and other real info about me. Recommendations please. Should it be a hard no, what's the risk?

MajorVX
02-15-21, 15:42
She will have you park next to her truck, she will get out house and walk to your passenger side and get in then her partner will open your door and put a knife to your chest.

2X Holloway St Berkeley, MA.

Cell: (774) XXX-2903.

https://www.seeking.com/member/fa5bd09e-123e-4b03-9934-f9e81ce155fcI knew she was too good to be true.

Bran001
02-15-21, 22:49
I just do cash. I'm more concerned about having to explain what all the transfers are if I get audited or she does. I don't know how much of a risk or concern it really is but I don't want to explain to an IRS agent that the 24 and 27 year old's I am sending money to every week are not employees / contractors I am paying under the table.If you were "audited" they'd see all the cash withdrawals and ask as well.

I have CashApp with an anonymous GMail acct, but almost never use it. Current SB gets cash. I think either is fine.

DarkClouds
02-15-21, 23:03
Cash is hardest to trace.


If you were "audited" they'd see all the cash withdrawals and ask as well.

I have CashApp with an anonymous GMail acct, but almost never use it. Current SB gets cash. I think either is fine.

DarkClouds
02-16-21, 22:11
This one is real. Cute face. Pretty accommodating.

https://www.seeking.com/member/254b7a21-c6c9-41df-8820-cd8e99a235e9

MeatMan
02-17-21, 09:14
She will have you park next to her truck, she will get out house and walk to your passenger side and get in then her partner will open your door and put a knife to your chest.

2X Holloway St Berkeley, MA.

Cell: (774) XXX-2903.

https://www.seeking.com/member/fa5bd09e-123e-4b03-9934-f9e81ce155fcSo, you didn't lock your doors from the start and she had a partner come out, gets in YOUR CAR, AND puts a knife to your chest?. I'm no sleuth but, when a violent crime happens and it's ON someone's property, wouldn't you get the law involved?. This is suspect. One of the many reasons why I overlook most regular members when they post things like this. Not saying it didn't happen but...........

MajorVX
02-17-21, 12:06
So, you didn't lock your doors from the start and she had a partner come out, gets in YOUR CAR, AND puts a knife to your chest?. I'm no sleuth but, when a violent crime happens and it's ON someone's property, wouldn't you get the law involved?. This is suspect. One of the many reasons why I overlook most regular members when they post things like this. Not saying it didn't happen but...........I would have to agree with you. But I did talk to this girl too and she was very pushy, and I had to go see her within the hour of talking and she only wanted $100. She did give me that same address he posted and she looks really hot. There were plenty of red flags so I didn't go. A girl like that, and wanted me to go there right away, when I didn't, she blocked me.

Maybe she's great and he wants to keep her for himself, or maybe he got burned and used the knife as a way to justify it.

There's something not right both ways.

Gianni Versace
02-17-21, 14:50
If you were "audited" they'd see all the cash withdrawals and ask as well.

I have CashApp with an anonymous GMail acct, but almost never use it. Current SB gets cash. I think either is fine.Just saying Cash is King. I had a SB ask to be paid via CashApp instead of Straight up Cash. I refused to sign up for Cashapp and Venmo for the reason that once you get in the habbit of paying digitally what is to stop the SB to reach out to you constantly to ask for some Sugar? Cash is King.

Joe1223
02-17-21, 16:23
Just saying Cash is King. I had a SB ask to be paid via CashApp instead of Straight up Cash. I refused to sign up for Cashapp and Venmo for the reason that once you get in the habbit of paying digitally what is to stop the SB to reach out to you constantly to ask for some Sugar? Cash is King.I use Both Cash App and Venmo and you are correct, the SB will ask for random gifts but I politely decline them. I make sure that I see the rules when it comes to gifting but will give them special attention for Birthdays or special holidays. I have also been asked for extra cash from girls when I was only dealing with cash so in my opinion it will happen regardless. I am fortunate to be able to "help" the girls out beyond our regular meetups but I also do not go over my set donation. I do find the E payments to be so much more convenient than dealing with cash but I never carry cash anyway so it comes natural to me.

Ymch520
02-17-21, 21:31
https://www.seeking.com/member/e97d801a-378c-43f8-805d-2bcffb2c5b36

Anyone has experience with this? I don't have experience on SA. But I guess it seems legit. I am thinking to arrang meeting and let's see.

Bran001
02-17-21, 22:34
https://www.seeking.com/member/e97d801a-378c-43f8-805d-2bcffb2c5b36

Anyone has experience with this? I don't have experience on SA. But I guess it seems legit. I am thinking to arrang meeting and let's see.Profile's gone already.

Bran001
02-17-21, 22:39
Just saying Cash is King. I had a SB ask to be paid via CashApp instead of Straight up Cash. I refused to sign up for Cashapp and Venmo for the reason that once you get in the habbit of paying digitally what is to stop the SB to reach out to you constantly to ask for some Sugar? Cash is King.App or no app I have no patience for girls who ask for money outside of dates. They get a polite no the first time and dropped the second time. Honestly, it doesn't happen to me.

It's the opposite. I got a text yesterday from my steady sb telling me she replaced her iphone 7 with a 12 and that she'd never have spent that money if it weren't for me and she thanked me. She's a grad student and lives very frugally.

Dano7
02-18-21, 09:54
I had my first meaningful correspondence on the site with a chick named Nina from Revere. Back and forth a bit until she asked about ppm. I'm new to "sugar," but have seen many escorts and this is the most like that. I played dumb but gleaned she wants $450-500 for a "date," which is at least double what I'd want to pay. When asked what this would entail, ex. Overnight or at least long visit, she went dark. Is this what these girls expect? Might be out of my league but that's a dangerous amount for me in either not being worth it, or awesome and tempted to blow huge cash. Thoughts?

TheList00
02-18-21, 16:24
https://www.seeking.com/member/fc9f499a-29db-4279-af95-b40a459d4f08

Can someone pm me if they have her new number or email. Used to meet her and lost touch and she was off seeking, she's now back active and I text the number I have ending in 6497 and nothing. If anyone has any info to share so I can reconnect I'd appreciate it.

Newbie978
02-18-21, 19:55
https://www.seeking.com/member/e97d801a-378c-43f8-805d-2bcffb2c5b36

Anyone has experience with this? I don't have experience on SA. But I guess it seems legit. I am thinking to arrang meeting and let's see.She messaged me several months ago before I decided to pay for premium. I messaged her back when I finally did get premium, but all we did was chat some small talk and we each went our separate ways. She never said anything to make me think she was a scam and never once brought up money. She did mention that she had a roommate and would need to meet me at my place or hotel.

Vivid Dream
02-18-21, 20:12
I use Both Cash App and Venmo and you are correct, the SB will ask for random gifts but I politely decline them. I make sure that I see the rules when it comes to gifting but will give them special attention for Birthdays or special holidays. I have also been asked for extra cash from girls when I was only dealing with cash so in my opinion it will happen regardless. I am fortunate to be able to "help" the girls out beyond our regular meetups but I also do not go over my set donation. I do find the E payments to be so much more convenient than dealing with cash but I never carry cash anyway so it comes natural to me.Sorry, I have not used cash app or Venmo. Does this reveal your real identity to recipients?

Joe1223
02-18-21, 20:51
Sorry, I have not used cash app or Venmo. Does this reveal your real identity to recipients?I use fake account names so they don't know who I am. You can call your profile anything you want, similar to here. All of my accounts have fake profiles for this reason.

DarkClouds
02-18-21, 21:25
You still have to eventually link it to your real account, right? Unless you've found a way to fund the online payment app with cash or a cash-funded credit card.


I use fake account names so they don't know who I am. You can call your profile anything you want, similar to here. All of my accounts have fake profiles for this reason.

DrinIvisible
02-18-21, 21:27
I use fake account names so they don't know who I am. You can call your profile anything you want, similar to here. All of my accounts have fake profiles for this reason.The Venmo or the app company will still have a chain to identify you when you enter your bank / credit card info, no?

Joe1223
02-19-21, 02:41
The Venmo or the app company will still have a chain to identify you when you enter your bank / credit card info, no?Yes it isn't as discreet as cash but I find the convenience worth it. The chance of someone following the bank info back to me is a long shot. I'm certainly not worried about the IRS as I can spend my money anyway I chose to. It's like having someone's license plate, what can you do with it with access to the database? If you book a hotel room they could track you down also but unless you are a freak or causing a girl to worry about her safety you probably will be OK. I've been playing here for quite a few years and have never had an issue with a girl finding my real identity. Although I have had a few that I wish would, LOL. I am very selective as to the “type” of girl I am looking for and my target audience is more toward the college girls, GND or single Moms. I steer clear of the pros or semi pros who may pose a higher risk. Like I said I use cash until I feel it's a good fit and if the girl wants to move to the E payment I will do it. It works for me but some may not like it.

Jus2000
02-20-21, 02:18
I had my first meaningful correspondence on the site with a chick named Nina from Revere. Back and forth a bit until she asked about ppm. I'm new to "sugar," but have seen many escorts and this is the most like that. I played dumb but gleaned she wants $450-500 for a "date," which is at least double what I'd want to pay. When asked what this would entail, ex. Overnight or at least long visit, she went dark. Is this what these girls expect? Might be out of my league but that's a dangerous amount for me in either not being worth it, or awesome and tempted to blow huge cash. Thoughts?Profile link?

Bran001
02-20-21, 08:33
Yes it isn't as discreet as cash but I find the convenience worth it. The chance of someone following the bank info back to me is a long shot. I'm certainly not worried about the IRS as I can spend my money anyway I chose to. It's like having someone's license plate, what can you do with it with access to the database? If you book a hotel room they could track you down also but unless you are a freak or causing a girl to worry about her safety you probably will be OK. I've been playing here for quite a few years and have never had an issue with a girl finding my real identity. Although I have had a few that I wish would, LOL. I am very selective as to the type of girl I am looking for and my target audience is more toward the college girls, GND or single Moms. I steer clear of the pros or semi pros who may pose a higher risk. Like I said I use cash until I feel it's a good fit and if the girl wants to move to the E payment I will do it. It works for me but some may not like it.Totally the same here. My current SB is happy with cash, so that's easy. I stop at the atm on my way to see her. If she wanted me to switch to an app payment I'd have no issue with it.

There are many many aspects to "security" doing this. As Joe mentioned, one is being highly selective who you see. That helps; obviously is not a guarantee. And it's just a numbers game; I don't see a lot of girls. If it's a new one every week, the numbers catch up with you faster.

Tribeca67
02-20-21, 14:06
The Venmo or the app company will still have a chain to identify you when you enter your bank / credit card info, no?My friend sometimes uses a vanilla gift card to send them via PayPal. Fake name and e-mail I think that's the safest way if you don't want to use cash.

Spill
02-20-21, 15:01
https://www.seeking.com/member/fc9f499a-29db-4279-af95-b40a459d4f08

Can someone pm me if they have her new number or email. Used to meet her and lost touch and she was off seeking, she's now back active and I text the number I have ending in 6497 and nothing. If anyone has any info to share so I can reconnect I'd appreciate it.How about a review?

DarkClouds
02-20-21, 15:03
I agree with being selective. However, not sold on the numbers argument. The more often you see the same person, the more data she has on you to piece together a more complete profile of you. This reduces your anonymity (with her) over time. The longer you see her the more attached she is likely to become and the more likely she is to be able to track you down if she woke up one day and went "Bobbitt".

That's the reason I don't bring anyone home, no matter how safe and sane they might appear. In a desperate moment they're very capable of showing up unannounced and disrupting your private life. Always remember who has more to lose (it is usually you, not her).


Totally the same here. My current SB is happy with cash, so that's easy. I stop at the atm on my way to see her. If she wanted me to switch to an app payment I'd have no issue with it.

There are many many aspects to "security" doing this. As Joe mentioned, one is being highly selective who you see. That helps; obviously is not a guarantee. And it's just a numbers game; I don't see a lot of girls. If it's a new one every week, the numbers catch up with you faster.

TheList00
02-20-21, 15:16
How about a review?She's been reviewed many times. Been on seeking for years different name and profiles.

MajorVX
02-20-21, 20:19
She's been reviewed many times. Been on seeking for years different name and profiles.I have her number.

Syedna
02-20-21, 21:05
https://www.seeking.com/member/fc9f499a-29db-4279-af95-b40a459d4f08

Can someone pm me if they have her new number or email. Used to meet her and lost touch and she was off seeking, she's now back active and I text the number I have ending in 6497 and nothing. If anyone has any info to share so I can reconnect I'd appreciate it.If you have a membership message her. If not, get one like the rest of us.

Bran001
02-20-21, 21:32
I agree with being selective. However, not sold on the numbers argument. The more often you see the same person, the more data she has on you to piece together a more complete profile of you. This reduces your anonymity (with her) over time. The longer you see her the more attached she is likely to become and the more likely she is to be able to track you down if she woke up one day and went "Bobbitt".

That's the reason I don't bring anyone home, no matter how safe and sane they might appear. In a desperate moment they're very capable of showing up unannounced and disrupting your private life. Always remember who has more to lose (it is usually you, not her).I certainly don't bring anyone to my home. Ever. Yes. I have more to lose than these women. That's always the case; it's just "table stakes" for playing in the Sugar Bowl.

TheList00
02-20-21, 22:56
If you have a membership message her. If not, get one like the rest of us.If I could message I would. But I've been banned again and blocked and until everytime I make new account I get flagged off. I have to get a cheap phone to make a new account. No big deal not going to lose sleep over it I was simply just asking.

Ymch520
02-21-21, 10:43
If I could message I would. But I've been banned again and blocked and until everytime I make new account I get flagged off. I have to get a cheap phone to make a new account. No big deal not going to lose sleep over it I was simply just asking.Sorry to hear this man. I was in same trouble for long time. Someone suggested me here to write customer service. I did and explained and asked for a reason. And what within 24 hours they replied stating that it's system glitch and theunflagged my account. I am using it now for 3 months. It's different story that I have no luck yet. LOL. Need some advise from others on hat from others here. But I'd suggest you to try writing customer service.

HounDog3
02-21-21, 13:44
If I could message I would. But I've been banned again and blocked and until everytime I make new account I get flagged off. I have to get a cheap phone to make a new account. No big deal not going to lose sleep over it I was simply just asking.If emailing SA customer service / support (as suggested below) does not work, try a new email address and VPN before you get a burner phone. Although the VPN may cost a small monthly fee.

JohnTies
02-21-21, 16:17
Ataurus88.

https://www.seeking.com/member/539c3801-d339-40d5-a9ab-7147b665b5ac

She is a good one, she will do you the pleasure of eating with you if you pay her.

She does not want anything physical. How nice of her to offer eating with you for a little compensation.

She says first date in the header but her about me says not looking for anything physical, not just first date.

Guessing she is 18 and read that guys iwll pay her to eat with them. LOL.

Do these girls actually think someone will bother with them?

TripLongrin
02-21-21, 23:57
This one is in Wrentham. Has a four month old. I blocked because she was annoying me but may be someone else's taste. Agreed to meet for $200 but cannot host. I ended up blocking her when she got overly persistent and giving me shit for not responding right away. Seems desperate for cash so putting it out there.

LordOfThEeyes
02-22-21, 00:44
Ataurus88.

https://www.seeking.com/member/539c3801-d339-40d5-a9ab-7147b665b5ac

She is a good one, she will do you the pleasure of eating with you if you pay her.

She does not want anything physical. How nice of her to offer eating with you for a little compensation.

She says first date in the header but her about me says not looking for anything physical, not just first date.

Guessing she is 18 and read that guys iwll pay her to eat with them. LOL.

Do these girls actually think someone will bother with them?These girls have such unrealistic expectations. But alas you have that one asshole that is that pathetic that he does this and screws it up for the rest of us blokes wanting a blowie.

LordOfThEeyes
02-22-21, 00:45
https://www.seeking.com/member/bafeb5ee-60a0-4389-a032-c4a3331ecaf6

Why do girls shoot for 500 all the time.

ThomasPl31
02-22-21, 10:32
This one is in Wrentham. Has a four month old. I blocked because she was annoying me but may be someone else's taste. Agreed to meet for $200 but cannot host. I ended up blocking her when she got overly persistent and giving me shit for not responding right away. Seems desperate for cash so putting it out there.There is no link to the girl.

ThirdBasePleas
02-22-21, 11:20
https://www.seeking.com/member/36d21e96-1ce1-4165-8092-7e7acc266bec

She knows what she wants, anyone have any experience?

Spill
02-22-21, 11:33
https://www.seeking.com/member/bafeb5ee-60a0-4389-a032-c4a3331ecaf6

Why do girls shoot for 500 all the time.Lots of reasons. Some good, some not so good. This one is dreaming, however.

Spill
02-22-21, 11:50
She's been reviewed many times. Been on seeking for years different name and profiles.Well, given the names and profiles are different, there is no way search for those many reviews. And, as much as I love reading this thread, 4700+ posts is a lot to look through.

JDeller
02-22-21, 12:00
It is simple negotiation. For this one I would just counter and see if she bites. Personally I would counter 150.


https://www.seeking.com/member/bafeb5ee-60a0-4389-a032-c4a3331ecaf6

Why do girls shoot for 500 all the time.

JDeller
02-22-21, 12:13
I believe this is Krystalp27. Dtf, nice bbbjcimws but not crazy about her physically.


Well, given the names and profiles are different, there is no way search for those many reviews. And, as much as I love reading this thread, 4700+ posts is a lot to look through.

Syedna
02-22-21, 13:32
These girls have such unrealistic expectations. But alas you have that one asshole that is that pathetic that he does this and screws it up for the rest of us blokes wanting a blowie.The site is loaded with these.

As soon as I see "spoil me" or "wishlist " I scroll right on by.

Spike77
02-22-21, 14:08
https://www.seeking.com/member/bafeb5ee-60a0-4389-a032-c4a3331ecaf6

Why do girls shoot for 500 all the time.My guess is that many sugar babies read from the same sugar baby forums and come up with that number. Sort of like the same thing we do with this forum. When I first joined seeking about three years ago, I found the going rate to be around 300 for hot college / young professionals. I joined back up last month and experienced the same thing with a lot of girls starting with 500. Seems like too much of a coincidence. Also need to consider supply and demand due to COVID. There are a lot of desperate guys out there right now who don't mind paying a premium. I am sticking with my regulars for now and hoping over time things will calm down.

I On Da Street
02-22-21, 14:25
This one is in Wrentham. Has a four month old. I blocked because she was annoying me but may be someone else's taste. Agreed to meet for $200 but cannot host. I ended up blocking her when she got overly persistent and giving me shit for not responding right away. Seems desperate for cash so putting it out there.That's funny, she went much for GPS with me which made me just kind of stop replying. The funny thing was she would only do it via Snapchat.

The story of the single mom and the baby daddy not involved, well her snap storylines blow that story out of the water. I really don't care what your situation is, and can understand some fibbing for protection but just don't lie outright.

I have another one that hits me up, actually went out and gifted a few times but got nothing back She still hits me up and I respond but I know it won't happen and she's looking for spoiling. Its time for me to get some spoiling.

Ymch520
02-22-21, 14:45
Hi,

Fist time I am got in touch withsome on SA. And she is asking 250 ppm. She has not tell me what's inclided. But being ideal guy at first, I told her I am looking casual only. Not sure how she interpret. Should I ask her straight up about what's included or let it go with flow as gf and developing connection? Appreciate any feedback.

SolitaryMan603
02-22-21, 15:22
Hi,

Fist time I am got in touch withsome on SA. And she is asking 250 ppm. She has not tell me what's inclided. But being ideal guy at first, I told her I am looking casual only. Not sure how she interpret. Should I ask her straight up about what's included or let it go with flow as gf and developing connection? Appreciate any feedback.I would tell her what you are expecting. Early on when I start communicating with them off the site I tell them I am looking for an arrangement that is physical and not platonic. If that is what she is expecting it shouldn't be a problem but if she is looking for platonic you saved yourself time and aggravation. As for the 250 my opinion is it depends on how far from Boston you are and how young / hot she is. In Southern NH 200-300 seems to be the sweet spot for me. The closer they are to Boston the more they seem to expect.

Gianni Versace
02-22-21, 15:56
https://www.seeking.com/member/bafeb5ee-60a0-4389-a032-c4a3331ecaf6

Why do girls shoot for 500 all the time.Because I am sure some suckers pay that amount. Thats the bottom line. Some guys ruin it for everyone else because they pay these crazy prices when they think with there little head instead of the big one.

Gianni Versace
02-22-21, 16:11
I certainly don't bring anyone to my home. Ever. Yes. I have more to lose than these women. That's always the case; it's just "table stakes" for playing in the Sugar Bowl.I have been seeing this SB for the past 3 months. A few times she has insisted she wanted to come back to my house & spend some time with me. As much as I know how fun it could be to have her over I have to think about the potential risk that she ends up being a psycho and cause me headaches. You know what they say you don't shit where you eat.

JDeller
02-22-21, 18:00
That is about average for an average girl. Just take her for coffee or lunch and get down to details and see if you really want to go to FC with her.


Hi,

Fist time I am got in touch withsome on SA. And she is asking 250 ppm. She has not tell me what's inclided. But being ideal guy at first, I told her I am looking casual only. Not sure how she interpret. Should I ask her straight up about what's included or let it go with flow as gf and developing connection? Appreciate any feedback.

Hobbyist420
02-22-21, 19:15
https://www.seeking.com/member/bafeb5ee-60a0-4389-a032-c4a3331ecaf6

Why do girls shoot for 500 all the time.This one is a semi-pro. And has advertised on eros / lc before. I almost booked when she was quoting 300 but no GFE and she wanted me to pay for the uber. I passed.

Bran001
02-22-21, 20:39
https://www.seeking.com/member/bafeb5ee-60a0-4389-a032-c4a3331ecaf6

Why do girls shoot for 500 all the time.500 happens all the time around Boston. That said, to me she's no 500 girl. Not close.

Joe1223
02-22-21, 23:58
Hi,

Fist time I am got in touch withsome on SA. And she is asking 250 ppm. She has not tell me what's inclided. But being ideal guy at first, I told her I am looking casual only. Not sure how she interpret. Should I ask her straight up about what's included or let it go with flow as gf and developing connection? Appreciate any feedback.Move the conversation off SA as soon as possible then be upfront and tell her what you are looking for, politely. If you keep leaving hints that are up for interpretation you will end up disappointed. Most girls are looking for the easy way of receiving money and if they think you are ok with no sex they will lead you on. I put that I am not looking for platonic in my profile so if they respond and act surprised when I mention sex I just refer to my profile and that I was up front with them. Meet for coffee or something really casual and quick. You will know right away if it is going to happen or not, don't waste your time chasing the unicorn and move on if the vibe isn't there. Also don't be disappointed if she pulls a no show, just go onto the next one.

Big Stu
02-23-21, 13:51
https://www.seeking.com/member/b808b073-b844-4274-881a-d868bdcf8420 Has anyone seen or talked to her? She looks like my type and she said her prices range from 250 to 500 but she wants an upfront $50 deposit for the meet and greet which she says she'll put to the actual visit. Yes I know most ladies asking for a deposit are scammers. She's been on the site for 9 days so maybe she isn't a scammer, as they are usually booted off pretty quickly. I might give it another week and see if she is booted off or not.

https://www.seeking.com/member/1127e4a2-8eb8-40b5-939e-4664897b5bec - This one is straight up escort. She told me escorts have sex and sugar babies don't. She wants 500 for the hr. Told me she gets that in all the cities she visits. I told her I'd pass.

Joe1223
02-23-21, 13:59
https://www.seeking.com/member/b808b073-b844-4274-881a-d868bdcf8420 Has anyone seen or talked to her? She looks like my type and she said her prices range from 250 to 500 but she wants an upfront $50 deposit for the meet and greet which she says she'll put to the actual visit. Yes I know most ladies asking for a deposit are scammers. She's been on the site for 9 days so maybe she isn't a scammer, as they are usually booted off pretty quickly. I might give it another week and see if she is booted off or not.

https://www.seeking.com/member/1127e4a2-8eb8-40b5-939e-4664897b5bec - This one is straight up escort. She told me escorts have sex and sugar babies don't. She wants 500 for the hr. Told me she gets that in all the cities she visits. I told her I'd pass.Looks like a dude to me?? But she certainly isn't a rookie and good luck with the prepay. Offer her a meet and greet for coffee and if she refuses move on but that is only my opinion. I won't even pay the 23 yos 500, so to even think of shelling that kind of cash for a mature girl would never happen.

SwimSays
02-23-21, 14:01
https://www.seeking.com/member/b808b073-b844-4274-881a-d868bdcf8420 Has anyone seen or talked to her? She looks like my type and she said her prices range from 250 to 500 but she wants an upfront $50 deposit for the meet and greet which she says she'll put to the actual visit. Yes I know most ladies asking for a deposit are scammers. She's been on the site for 9 days so maybe she isn't a scammer, as they are usually booted off pretty quickly. I might give it another week and see if she is booted off or not.

https://www.seeking.com/member/1127e4a2-8eb8-40b5-939e-4664897b5bec - This one is straight up escort. She told me escorts have sex and sugar babies don't. She wants 500 for the hr. Told me she gets that in all the cities she visits. I told her I'd pass.IMO both of these scream PRO escort to me, the 2nd one just came out and was honest about it. Giving you a price range for meetings and requiring a deposit that she will put towards the visit, this is all PRO talk. Also the bit about not willing to send verification photos ("No I won't be sending pics with 2 fingers up".

Not saying she's not real and actually will deliver on everything she says, but know the risks you are opening yourself up to with ANY deposit first sugar baby or escort.