Sugar Babies and Arrangements 2. 0 [Archive] - Page 11

GAGuy2020

05-04-23, 18:55

Been able to get on twice but the whole moderation system is flawed because women can lie, scam, cheat and steal. But as soon as you call them out on it or give them some attitude for their bad behaviors, they can report you when they're believed without review. Could barely make it one to two months before having to go off when these stupid 304's. It sucks because I have to admit that's the best side around. It would just be nice to be able to call out scammers without repercussions.

Well gents, I've been banned again from seeking. I might get back on, I've kept a lot of receipts on spam accounts. Emailed seeking support with uploads of spam accounts. Now I have to wait 72 hours to get a final result of whether I will be permitted back on or banned. I'm sure all already know how this site has been taken over by bots, spam accounts. The sick shit is you can't report them. Instead of seeking moderators doing their job, they suspend you instead of the spam account.

GAGuy2020

05-04-23, 19:00

9 times out of 10 that's always a scam. The best counter to that is not high one time visits but to promise them smaller long-term payments. An example would be instead of offering $500 a visit offer $1, 000 to $2,000 a month but she has to be able to accommodate four to six visits. You are the prize gents, and if they're really interested in money, they would rather have larger monthly pay out than a one-time or two-time hit it and done. Their time is worthless because they're f*cking somebody for free and your money is the power.

Never pay up front because there's no guarantee a way to force them to provide their time so pay per visit and that way they have the ability to make more but a smaller one-time visits and then you can call it and stop anytime that you want without being forced to pay the full amount if you don't want to.

My buddy never paid more than $400 per visit and that's including the hotel room so that averages about 200 to $300 per visit plus room.

If she's even real she's insane wants $500 a visit.

Sob story is:

I live with my dad and he has been in the hospital at Norfolk general due to a stroke. He has an infection in his leg and everything. So basically I'm stuck here at the house trying to figure out how I am going to be paying the bills. I'm a full time student and it's hard. All I do is cry.

SrUnderbridge

05-06-23, 14:53

So I've gotten on Tinder, Feeld, Bumble and Hily (marriage has shifted to "Open" mode, so looking for actual dates / relationships). There are quite a few ladies there who are specifically looking for SD's! Not so much on Feeld, but happens all the time on Tinder and Hily.

They will often use some phrasing in their profile that they are looking for someone to take care of them, or sometimes even just blatantly state looking for an SD.

Generally you get ones that are mid 20's and down to legal. They don't seem too shy about asking pretty quickly for an arrangement.

I had one that started off as if it was a regular dating situation. Back and forth on the app chat feature, moved to text and set up a date. She had to cancel the first due to real work, the second due to "family issues", but I decided to give one last try. Third time was the charm! Picked her up for dinner and she was spilling out of the top of her dress. Huge, huge titties (M cups! Daddy likee.)! Dinner was a normal chat and telling stories, her holding my hand, etc. She said how sushi was a good first date choice, and I asked what a good second date choice would be. "Take me to Italy" First hint.

She never brought up money, and we retired to the FC. In her words "The better the place the hornier I get". Clue number two. I guess the Holiday Inn at City Center was good enough. Holy crap was she enthusiastic! Even said Greek would have been on the menu if she had known to prepare. And I'm 60+ and she's 40 years younger.

It was only after getting thoroughly fucked and sucked that she said "Can I have a benji to get my hair done? Or make that two. ".

Nice of her to bring that up after the festivities were over, and not before. However, not looking for a sugar situation right now, if I can get the milk for free. Still, had a great night out and only cost was dinner and the hotel.

But though I'd share with you mongers of another source of SB's that's out there and seems separate from the usual sites. You can find SB's on the regular dating apps, and I'd say I get a couple of offers every week. Some real hotties, too. So there's a different way to find them, or let them find you, and the apps are less of a layout in cash than the big sites.

Sapphi1048

05-06-23, 17:19

She's real. She's actually porn "star" Alice Visby. She hosts. Got to say, not the experience I was hoping for from a pornstar, but still worth the effort. Nice person, quite interesting to be honest.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9e18094f-31fd-4b74-921b-48c313a64e13Is she still all covered?

AtItAgain11

05-15-23, 21:46

Anyone pull the trigger yet or have info.

https://members.seeking.com/member/49b1d965-ba00-4480-8c25-0b2cfc0f9c55

BumbaCloth

05-16-23, 16:51

Any info on her?

https://members.seeking.com/member/94af3ae9-8899-4bb1-8a29-328715c39e41

DomBradley

05-18-23, 10:09

Started talking to this one this morning. Wondering if any of you have seen her. Didn't find any reviews through search but might have went by a different name in the past.

https://members.seeking.com/member/60a51f50-4460-4f19-b47f-d37a7ad919d5

GAGuy2020

05-18-23, 12:15

Never had much luck finding SB on non-sugar sites. Plenty of greedy girls that demand you spend on them but nobody willing to make an arrangement. Tons of girls you can take on dates and pay for everything with basically a guarantee to get it all but they come with maintenance and emotional upkeep.

Anyone had success meeting SB open girls without taking out first? My time is limited and want to stick to a more treat her right and private play arrangement. No ouside dates or filler at the start but maybe later. Was very easy on SB sites but hard off of them, most girls want to be spoiled but also want to wait days or weeks to put out like "modern" dating.

So I've gotten on Tinder, Feeld, Bumble and Hily (marriage has shifted to "Open" mode, so looking for actual dates / relationships). There are quite a few ladies there who are specifically looking for SD's! Not so much on Feeld, but happens all the time on Tinder and Hily.

They will often use some phrasing in their profile that they are looking for someone to take care of them, or sometimes even just blatantly state looking for an SD.

Generally you get ones that are mid 20's and down to legal. They don't seem too shy about asking pretty quickly for an arrangement.

I had one that started off as if it was a regular dating situation. Back and forth on the app chat feature, moved to text and set up a date. She had to cancel the first due to real work, the second due to "family issues", but I decided to give one last try. Third time was the charm! Picked her up for dinner and she was spilling out of the top of her dress. Huge, huge titties (M cups! Daddy likee.)! Dinner was a normal chat and telling stories, her holding my hand, etc. She said how sushi was a good first date choice, and I asked what a good second date choice would be. "Take me to Italy" First hint.

She never brought up money, and we retired to the FC. In her words "The better the place the hornier I get". Clue number two. I guess the Holiday Inn at City Center was good enough. Holy crap was she enthusiastic! Even said Greek would have been on the menu if she had known to prepare. And I'm 60+ and she's 40 years younger.

It was only after getting thoroughly fucked and sucked that she said "Can I have a benji to get my hair done? Or make that two. ".

Nice of her to bring that up after the festivities were over, and not before. However, not looking for a sugar situation right now, if I can get the milk for free. Still, had a great night out and only cost was dinner and the hotel.

But though I'd share with you mongers of another source of SB's that's out there and seems separate from the usual sites. You can find SB's on the regular dating apps, and I'd say I get a couple of offers every week. Some real hotties, too. So there's a different way to find them, or let them find you, and the apps are less of a layout in cash than the big sites.

Father Glucose

05-18-23, 13:31

I've only had a couple that I've had public parking lot M&Gs just to ease their minds, but for the most part it's warming up to them via texting and meeting in private. Been staying away from the local scene just to ease my nerves. Most recently was on a work trip to the west coast and I was able to link with two SBs while I was there. Just set some boundaries for yourself. Its worked for me in here, RVA, NC, and out west. There's plenty that are down for the cause. Just got to stick to your guns.

Never had much luck finding SB on non-sugar sites. Plenty of greedy girls that demand you spend on them but nobody willing to make an arrangement. Tons of girls you can take on dates and pay for everything with basically a guarantee to get it all but they come with maintenance and emotional upkeep.

Anyone had success meeting SB open girls without taking out first? My time is limited and want to stick to a more treat her right and private play arrangement. No ouside dates or filler at the start but maybe later. Was very easy on SB sites but hard off of them, most girls want to be spoiled but also want to wait days or weeks to put out like "modern" dating.

SrUnderbridge

05-28-23, 19:34

Jayden -.

19, cute, in the area, decent rack. Asking for two benjies allowance per week.

Sadly, Tinder doesn't really have a very good search system, so finding an individual profile is tough. The best you can do is narrow down age, distance, and gender.

So they are there, guys!

GAGuy2020

06-04-23, 14:05

So there is tons of girls from India in Norfolk, assume medical but can only find Filipino. Where are all them Indian girls online at?

BumbaCloth

06-05-23, 11:16

So there is tons of girls from India in Norfolk, assume medical but can only find Filipino. Where are all them Indian girls online at?I know Old Dominion university has a large population of Indian girls but it rare seeing them on sugar sites. My experience with Indian girls from New York are all GPS.

BumbaCloth

06-11-23, 21:21

Anyone seen or talked to these ladies.

WillowRose.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0c13d7c9-efb5-4d84-877f-480e96df8fda

Southernbelle.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7a8f6ff6-cb32-4661-a696-9be626ac7ade

Bosskitten.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d585058a-843a-4fd7-8aa8-fd6a058bf5ae

Yellow78

06-15-23, 16:49

These 3 remind me why I still do this! LOL.

BumbaCloth

06-26-23, 23:19

Any info?

https://members.seeking.com/messages/archive/b24a18c7-3054-435b-a547-172fe1c68c23

GiveItRaw10

07-05-23, 16:25

Texted, goes by Meghan. Had her send me verification photos, and they are nothing like the pics on her profile. She's somewhere between eating disorder and junky in the pics she sent. I passed. She didn't "have a specific price".

https://members.seeking.com/member/e0284670-2787-408f-8e5a-7c637821d4e6She is being pimped out! I surprised called on her FB (not to worry I use spam fb account) some dude picked up. My guess, she is bait for some unexpected punter walking into a bashing. Be careful fellas.

GiveItRaw10

07-06-23, 09:15

Gents, I don't know if this is only happening to me, but I've noticed quite a few perverted dude posing as SB's on seeking. Not sure if these dudes are the handlers or just simply perverts, but it all goes the same way.

1. You ask for their number or social app?

2. Chat for a bit through text (nothing explicit).

3. Ask for video call to verify each other. Of course they refuse, instead "they" continue to want to chat but asks for the specifics of the arrangement (what I want, how much, etc.). NEVER text that shit!

4. Don't provide the specifics but rather insist on a phone call instead. Still "they" decline and make an excuse that they are busy (if they are so fking busy, why would they be online in seeking and why would they be eagerly texting you).

5. They go dark and never respond back.

I don't know why'all but it has become difficult to find legit members on seeking in this particular area. The entire seeking app has become a troll infested, lurking criminals, perverse invasion of sick motherfuckers! Be careful gents, and watch why'alls six.

Raw.

TopGun9

07-07-23, 09:44

GiveItRaw10

07-18-23, 21:09

Third party scammer. I use a burn snap account for these reasons. Most numbers this scammers provide you are either a network of other individuals. Basically you are not talking with the member on the platform. Could be moderator, could be pimp / handler, or could be third party scammer that transitions to an outside source (outside of state or country) to scam or spam you.

Raw!

Espo123

07-19-23, 08:17

Seems like this area has just gone downhill. TLs, TAs, even SBs are either GPS or scammers / flakes. GL all. Feel free to DM me to trade info.

Third party scammer. I use a burn snap account for these reasons. Most numbers this scammers provide you are either a network of other individuals. Basically you are not talking with the member on the platform. Could be moderator, could be pimp / handler, or could be third party scammer that transitions to an outside source (outside of state or country) to scam or spam you.

Raw!

Hoss Cartright

07-29-23, 11:53

Seeking has been lacking lately. I did find a gem in Glacier_girl. A little heavier than I like, but a gem nonetheless. Goes straight to FC. Good luck with her. Anyone have any inte they would like share / trade. The quality has been lacking lately. The good ones are asking 3 k allowance. That's crazy!

OneMan8

07-31-23, 16:35

I've been on the site on and off for over the last 7 years. With the proper techniques and patients, you can find pay dirt! A true SB that loves to say Daddy in the heat of the moment. So be patient and keep fighting my friends!

OneMan8

08-01-23, 15:10

She is legit. PM for details.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d273fc12-6aae-454b-97db-d6c5d4ead895

Cckyashell

08-03-23, 09:09

GiveItRaw10

08-03-23, 09:25

Don't waste your time with this one. She is real and lives in the area but has no intentions of meeting. Strictly an online type of arrangement!

OneMan8

08-03-23, 11:47

This one is legit. She's pushed doubles with a really cute blonde but save your money and just stick with her. I of course opted for the double and quickly realized Bri had all the talent. Treat her well and she'll knock your socks off.

https://members.seeking.com/member/ef50eabd-8c91-41e6-862d-81e1eda32899I can confirm and concur that Bri is a sweet treat. In my dream, her friend had to be her driver as Bri has transportation issues. She will let you Uber her once she gets to know you.

GAGuy2020

08-03-23, 17:45

Found another SD site. Put in about a week's worth of work and had one good experience. There was more potential but the timeline ran up and started to get fed up with the BS also. So there was good and bad.

The biggest letdown was a tranny with heavy filters and strategic photos to look like a chubby cam nerd. I pity the guys on that dudes only fans. Met in public and ran two seconds into it. No thank you dude! The worst thing is the dude hid it all. If you're going to live that lifestyle at least be open with it not a catfish.

The good time was the quality blonde with her hosting and that was fun but she quickly became a freak with crazy rules and her body count started to show. Not to mention she was constantly busy so that became a problem. It's a shame because it could have gone somewhere, but with enough experience with red flags, it's better to move on.

Had another meet and greet in public with somebody that really enjoyed filters but in person was about 10 years older, smelling of cigarette smoke and 7-Eleven trailer trash. Was plain Jane as could be, would barely be open to the idea to move forward for free. She was that basic.

There's other potentials but communication was trash poor. Biting my tongue to call out poor behavior and stupid 304's started to become work so had to walk away before getting a ban so at least I can go back. It's a shame the SD sites with trouble are still better than all the escort sites combined.

AtItAgain11

08-04-23, 22:47

Another one trying to scam wants half up front.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c92c1438-a1ef-4bb6-aba0-b7d6bf0e68e0

GiveItRaw10

08-05-23, 23:16

Real person, living in the area, but the account ran by a dude, pushing his girls OF account. Snap, instagram, twitter all ran by the dude / partner to promote content! Fuck these people! Fuck all people in this area! I don't like violence one bit, but these people need to be dragged in the streets naked until their skin completely falls off! And I hope they are reading this!!

AtItAgain11

08-06-23, 10:56

Another bullshitter. Says she's was in chesapeake, but now is in Albany but then after said she was on Tallahassee for school but she said "I'm down for whatever 😂 to think some people fall for that bullshit.

https://members.seeking.com/member/dea39a42-f810-43e8-b20d-e94f23d68ead

Cckyashell

08-07-23, 11:18

Any one have any feedback or insight on this lady?

Cckyashell

08-08-23, 13:26

Any one have any feedback or insight on this lady?Much older than pictures by at least a decade. I made it work but will not repeat as I don't like getting catfished.

GiveItRaw10

08-10-23, 19:05

Okay gents, I know I've mainly posted negative posts (not my fault, thought it would be more helpful) but the seeking "complex" for female members have become a haven for scammers, catfish fks, ghosties. Whether or not this people are in the area, I hate ever single one of them, and I'm completely sick of these people. This is the first time on seeking that I was completely manipulated by the words and arrangement that was agreed. I should have noticed it by ever damn "yes" response (which I was still suspicious) but after a video call and a good sexy convo over a video call, she hooked me in. After convo we agreed for day and allowance. A week we would be chatting, and we chatted about some. Kinky stuff (another red flag I should have picked up). It wasn't until I suggested to meet at a place where it is public and in some areas can be private, is where she went straight narcissistic. I asked her if she would be okay to touch my little head if we get the chance (reason for saying that is because throughout the week our convos were ALL sexual, again kink sexual), so I didn't think nothing of it for asking. She accused me of being a cop and went on a rant that I was being rude, disrespectful. She blocked me on seeking (most likely reported me). This person is a straight scammer and knows how to manipulate and play the victim afterwards. I will not be surprised that this person is know to be someone that will extort money. If this is the new women of America, I'm straight up leaving and joining the pride group and going after Trans! I'm done! Normally I take a week prior to posting, but I'm too pissed. Be careful of these assholes!

Raw.

Btt123

08-11-23, 13:54

Anyone meet her?

https://members.seeking.com/member/4f20eb3a-406e-4e9b-be59-ac20d9577af9

GiveItRaw10

08-11-23, 15:20

Anyone meet her?

https://members.seeking.com/member/4f20eb3a-406e-4e9b-be59-ac20d9577af9Profile is not available for me. Either I blocked this person or she blocked me. Most definitely I blocked her. What she look like?

Passport4

08-14-23, 18:17

I have my eye on a SB and saved her to favorites. When I do a search, she does not appear. She falls under the filters I have set as to age range, picture, and ethnicity, but does not appear. I would think that she may have blocked me, but if I go t my favorites, she appears and is actually was online. I am not a current paying member, so I cannot send her a message. Does anyone know why she does not appear in search?

BumbaCloth

08-14-23, 23:16

Any info on her?

https://members.seeking.com/member/d273fc12-6aae-454b-97db-d6c5d4ead895

Passport4

08-14-23, 23:30

EasyGoingJ

08-16-23, 11:53

GiveItRaw10

08-17-23, 20:13

I know I've probably put nothing but bad posts, but here is an experience that wasn't a scam and turned out to be legit. Nice body, sexy mixed type of girl, and had an open minded menu, but can be a bit privileged / spoiled (the way a women looks at you when you do something NOT their way). Would definitely repeat if she would consider ppm (300 is what we agreed). Wants 1. 5 k - 2 k a month allowance instead of ppm. Not my thing! If you can do that, go for you it.

Raw.

GiveItRaw10

08-18-23, 21:51

Something I'd like to say / show about SA. The photo attached shows a screen shot of a notification of a message from an "apparently real" female member. Notice the Chinese characters in the initial (first) message then the additional messages were translated in English. Fellas, this is a Chinese server interfacing the conversation and then China bot farmer working under SA interprets your message into English but the reason for the "glitch" is to data mine your identity when you provide photos / messages / numbers. The lurkers are real!

GiveItRaw10

08-18-23, 21:58

The main convo. The main issue is our security has been compromised.

GiveItRaw10

08-18-23, 23:21

Meet the man that you will be scammed by!

I'm done! I'm seriously done with these people in this area. China servers, Crack head thugs, God damn what happened to this area?!

Nymking

08-19-23, 02:42

Meet the man that you will be scammed by!

I'm done! I'm seriously done with these people in this area. China servers, Crack head thugs, God damn what happened to this area?!Fellas, take note of her face, not the user I. D. because she's on (at least) her 4th profile. She'll likely be on a new one before long.

Nymking

08-19-23, 02:44

This one wants ppm for an initial meet & greet.

GAGuy2020

08-21-23, 11:32

Don't pay if she ain't putting out! She wants to charge like a 304, she better play like one! At worst case only pay for her coffee doing a coffee M&G. Honestly you should be doing public free M&G but if she wants to charge, she better give back more than acknowledging you exist. Don't be played! This is for sugar daddies not pay pigs ruining the market. Pigs go back to your kink sites not sugar sites!

This one wants ppm for an initial meet & greet.

ShaniPie

08-22-23, 18:30

https://members.seeking.com/member/3da00770-c417-4e16-80e8-ade617b8fddf

Real. She's in the navy. Pics are old and touched up but she's not too far off. Kinda dull, just lays there. It's straight to business, don't have to worry about taking her anywhere. Communication can be a challenge, almost as much as punctuality. Does not host.

ShaniPie

08-22-23, 18:43

https://members.seeking.com/member/de2c7abf-853e-40ef-abb6-8e6f46e372c9

Real. Real weird too. Alcoholic. Definitely an interesting time. Wouldn't dare go back for seconds.

GiveItRaw10

08-26-23, 00:02

Let me welcome yall with 2 shit talkers! One you see as "exoticazain" yeah? Crazy as fuck and will waste you time. Wants to expect upfront money before meet. Will go on a psychotic rant and label you as doing bad! The second photo, * ain't even in the 757! Lurks about with a fake profile saying she still In the 757 but really says is in Woodbridge VA. Fuck this counts! Fuck this system! Fuck all of yall, I'm out!

GiveItRaw10

08-26-23, 11:38

https://members.seeking.com/member/de2c7abf-853e-40ef-abb6-8e6f46e372c9

Real. Real weird too. Alcoholic. Definitely an interesting time. Wouldn't dare go back for seconds.I 100 percent agree. She is weird. Most probably bipolar.

TopGun9

08-27-23, 13:47

Does anyone use Sugardaddyforme?

Sent around 50-60 messages and have yet to receive a single response.

The site seems like it was designed in the 1990's. Pics look low quality, can't see a baby's join date or last active date / time. Can't sort by newest, most recent active, distance, etc.

Is this site still legit, do you hunt on here?

EyeGetsPussy

08-30-23, 14:30

I was reassigned back to the Hampton Roads area back in March after spending the last couple of years in Japan. I have been active on the seeking website since my return. I was very surprised to see how inactive this forum has become. I have had many successful dates over the past several months (see below). Hopefully this forum returns to the glory days of old.

EyeGetsPussy

08-30-23, 20:43

Additional dates below.

I was reassigned back to the Hampton Roads area back in March after spending the last couple of years in Japan. I have been active on the seeking website since my return. I was very surprised to see how inactive this forum has become. I have had many successful dates over the past several months (see below). Hopefully this forum returns to the glory days of old.

GiveItRaw10

09-01-23, 20:04

Johnny 5

09-01-23, 21:03

Question from yall. Would you agree to an arrangement 500 for 1 hour with someone fairly decent looking, has had experience and not afraid to try kinks? It's just a question. Also, the arrangement would be 3 times a month. Would yall go for it? Remember, it's only for 1 hr ppm.It's up to you and what you're looking for, but I wouldn't do it. Clockwatching is the opposite of what I'm trying to do when I'm in the bowl. "Has had experience" sounds like she's been around the block a few times.

That being said, if she were truly hot (not just "fairly decent looking") and the conversation before setting the terms led me to believe the experience would be way above average, 500/hour is unfortunately a high-end market rate for a pro nowadays. I might consider it on that basis, not an ongoing arrangement up front.

Snake27

09-02-23, 10:00

Question from yall. Would you agree to an arrangement 500 for 1 hour with someone fairly decent looking, has had experience and not afraid to try kinks? It's just a question. Also, the arrangement would be 3 times a month. Would yall go for it? Remember, it's only for 1 hr ppm.The going price for a SB seems to be 200 to 300 in this area. Personally, I've been at 300 for 3 years now, and I try to stay steady and consistent with 1 SB for at least 6 months. The higher price buys you warmer feelings and increased reliability, I think. A girl will resent being low-balled and is more likely to disappear. Over the last 10 years I've had 4 SBs who demanded 400, and I paid it. They were pretty "high end" girls, but I can't afford that. So, 300 is my limit. It seems cynical to ask for 500. Like, "let's see what this fool will pay". But it all comes down to personal interaction. If you like her and it's worth it and you have the money, why not?

GAGuy2020

09-02-23, 13:55

If she's charging per hour then that's a hooker not a SB. You have to break these girls bad habits and set the standards because most are experienced or idiots. There's hookers that go to sugar sites to sell and there's idiots that show up thinking they're worth $1,000 per night. You can get a top level Brazilian model in this area for $300-400 for an hour and they provide the room.

Typically a girl would meet and charge of per meeting fee not per hour fee and the average girl will meet for anywhere between 2-4 hours. Had a few girls with busy schedules say they can only hang out for about 2 or 3 hours and that's about average. Honestly, if she doesn't want to do something long term, a pay per visit would be $200 to $300 and then you usually covering the room and no short-term time limits.

If you ever feel like she's rushing you out of the door or limiting you with hooker rules then she's probably a hooker. Don't give hookers sugar money. Another thing you need to break is these are sugar sites not pay pig fetish sites. So if she tries to treat you like a wallet or a pay pig send her packing to fetlife.

Question from yall. Would you agree to an arrangement 500 for 1 hour with someone fairly decent looking, has had experience and not afraid to try kinks? It's just a question. Also, the arrangement would be 3 times a month. Would yall go for it? Remember, it's only for 1 hr ppm.

ShaniPie

09-05-23, 01:47

https://members.seeking.com/member/c6781b25-e193-415f-b3c5-88a74b3550b9

Any info?

SwordKnight

09-05-23, 10:52

Question from yall. Would you agree to an arrangement 500 for 1 hour with someone fairly decent looking, has had experience and not afraid to try kinks? It's just a question. Also, the arrangement would be 3 times a month. Would yall go for it? Remember, it's only for 1 hr ppm.No.

First off, if you do something kinky that often, it gets to be normal, not kinky. If you have filet mignon every night, you stop appreciating it.

Second, 500 is way too high IMO. I might, maybe, go with that for two good looking kinky girls, but not one "fairly decent". (I may have been spoiled in my time overseas; in Paris or Prague you can get much much better for cheaper than you see here).

RedBaron Daron

09-05-23, 16:12

The going price for a SB seems to be 200 to 300 in this area. Personally, I've been at 300 for 3 years now, and I try to stay steady and consistent with 1 SB for at least 6 months. The higher price buys you warmer feelings and increased reliability, I think. A girl will resent being low-balled and is more likely to disappear. Over the last 10 years I've had 4 SBs who demanded 400, and I paid it. They were pretty "high end" girls, but I can't afford that. So, 300 is my limit. It seems cynical to ask for 500. Like, "let's see what this fool will pay". But it all comes down to personal interaction. If you like her and it's worth it and you have the money, why not?I'm with Snake on the one. My current UTR is 250 a pop but she has a safe location and is not a clock watcher so sometimes we spend 90+ minutes together. She is very enthusiastic and responsive and I can relax and enjoy her rather than rushing to the finish line, LOL. We have talked about her bringing a friend so if that happens it would be more around the 4-500 mark. A girl may get one guy to pay some outrageous amount and then think that all guys should pay that. Unless she travels and / or has glowing reviews the guy should stick to more reasonable numbers.

AtItAgain11

09-09-23, 20:41

Anyone have any news about this one. Not too sure is she's legit since she's seems so new. Maybe it's a new account. ?

SrUnderbridge

09-10-23, 02:45

Anyone have any news about this one. Not too sure is she's legit since she's seems so new. Maybe it's a new account. ?What site is she on?

Looks like a nice huge rack!

AtItAgain11

09-10-23, 07:41

What site is she on?

Looks like a nice huge rack!She's on SA. But not sure if she's legit. Think she might be trying to sell content.

BumbaCloth

09-10-23, 16:57

She's a Pro.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d273fc12-6aae-454b-97db-d6c5d4ead895

https://callescort.org/757-899-1376

https://sumosear.ch/images/webpage/petite-blonde-goddess-available-for-upscale-gentleman-discreet-incall-location/57975738

MrHockey40

09-10-23, 18:28

I met with her a few times this summer and didn't pay that much and we met for 2 or 3 hours.

She's a Pro.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d273fc12-6aae-454b-97db-d6c5d4ead895

https://callescort.org/757-899-1376

https://sumosear.ch/images/webpage/petite-blonde-goddess-available-for-upscale-gentleman-discreet-incall-location/57975738

GiveItRaw10

09-11-23, 12:26

Beware of this one fellas.

Rjm4181

09-13-23, 19:36

ShaniPie

09-13-23, 20:04

https://members.seeking.com/member/c6781b25-e193-415f-b3c5-88a74b3550b9

Any info?This one is good to go boys. Easy set up, great lay. Will do a 3 way, will even host on occasion. PM me for details.

GiveItRaw10

09-14-23, 09:03

I don't think I've seen such a bad area for girls playing games. I was stood up 4 times in 4 days, even by Bri because her retarded friend (and doesn't want to meet without her). I met one, but she "doesn't do anything on the first date". I finally went to see a rather unattractive woman and over paid just to empty my nuts in her. Is it me or what? But these girls in your area are a lot of talk, and just seem to be scared.You got to keep in mind, these apparent SB's (well most of them) are attached to a SO. Whether, it be a bf or male partner, most of them do the chit chat. Even Bri has a man. The others that might seem legit tend to be content promoters and not even in the area. My subscription ended last night, so I took the advantage of messaging as many of the known scammers I know on SA with a big fuck you! Can't call out scammers and / or time wasters on SA because SA support won't do shit. Instead, SA support bans you.

ShaniPie

09-15-23, 08:28

https://members.seeking.com/member/474f3b63-9074-49aa-bcbc-e74b45c7d605

Another one that's good to go. She's using a filter on her face pics, but I don't think she needs to be. Great ass. Gives a fantastic blowjob. She doesn't have transportation, so be ready to provide that. PM for details.

Passport4

09-15-23, 20:19

I am not currently a paying member of SA as I usually only join every 3-4 months. But I notice lately that no matter how many profiles I look at, that very few look at mine. First of all, I'm listed as married, I have no photo. But I believe the real issue is my age, as it's now listed over 70. I have been a member for going on 8 years, so I was obviously younger when I created my profile. I tried to change the date of birth, but iit cannot be done online. You have to contact SA, which I did. While they said that they have a problem if you want to change it 10 years, they implied that less than that would not be an issue. But I had to give them the birthdate of when I registered and the new birthdate that I want. Unfortunately, the original date I gave was wrong as I didn't remember what I had used almost 8 years ago. Now they have given me 2 choices. Give them the correct date, which I don't know, or send them an ID showing it's me. I will not do that, so I'm sure in a day or 2 my account will be locked.

What does it take to create a new profile today? Do they require any ID? Do I need to use a VPN to register? I know I need another email, but that's not a problem.

Anyone who has had to create a new profile, please advise on what I should do as I won't do anything until an expert advises me. Thank you.

GAGuy2020

09-17-23, 11:40

So the biggest problem is that's one of the best sites but it's also the most risky because you have no voice and they don't trust you. Some random 304 or even a scammer reports you for calling them out and they will believe idiots over you. Being rude to a scammer should not be a bannable offense . Once they get your payment they don't care about you. It's rarely that you can fight it and get reestablished.

So was able to successfully get on after a ban. It had been about a year so time could also be a factor but using the same name on the payment didn't flag anything. All other information was changed like address and a burner phone was used and a different payment card. But the first and last name on the card was the same and they didn't flag that. Can't remember if the billing address was the same but I think it was.

Problem with that site is the amount of online only time wasters and the scammers will get to you. Can't last more than a month before calling out the idiot scammers and getting flagged. On the second account, pandered to all those fukn idiots and it works for a couple weeks but then I was just too much. Flagging the scammers does nothing but you treat your scammer bad and they report you with full backing of the site. Honestly, online only should be a bannable offense. 1/2 online only are dude with stolen pics.

If you're on there that's great, walk on eggshells but it's too much work. There is second and third tier sites that are better on your stress levels in fighting scammers.

I am not currently a paying member of SA as I usually only join every 3-4 months. But I notice lately that no matter how many profiles I look at, that very few look at mine. First of all, I'm listed as married, I have no photo. But I believe the real issue is my age, as it's now listed over 70. I have been a member for going on 8 years, so I was obviously younger when I created my profile. I tried to change the date of birth, but iit cannot be done online. You have to contact SA, which I did. While they said that they have a problem if you want to change it 10 years, they implied that less than that would not be an issue. But I had to give them the birthdate of when I registered and the new birthdate that I want. Unfortunately, the original date I gave was wrong as I didn't remember what I had used almost 8 years ago. Now they have given me 2 choices. Give them the correct date, which I don't know, or send them an ID showing it's me. I will not do that, so I'm sure in a day or 2 my account will be locked.

What does it take to create a new profile today? Do they require any ID? Do I need to use a VPN to register? I know I need another email, but that's not a problem.

Anyone who has had to create a new profile, please advise on what I should do as I won't do anything until an expert advises me. Thank you.

GAGuy2020

09-17-23, 17:04

Come on y'all! Some of you guys need to start treating the SD sites correctly because it's setting false expectations and creating b*tches who don't know how to act and are trying to use or abuse people.

First off SD sites are not a place for the "pay pig shaming" fetish. Go to fetish or kink sites if that is your thing but that culture is creating rude and entitled 304's. The behavior is unacceptable so stop rewarding it or asking for it, go to those specific slave and master sites if you want to be abused. These are for mutually beneficial arrangements not kinks.

There's another big problem with these platonic only or online only idiots being supported and reinforced. Nobody said you can't go on dates without s*x but nobody is here to be platonic. Sorry if you don't have any friends or you're that thirsty for someone to acknowledge you exist but the sites are not for making "friends only". This is also not O F where you don't meet in person so don't treat it like it plus half the time these are dudes with stolen photos or boyfriends using their girlfriends content to get to your money.

If you don't set the expectation that a physical relationship has to be on the table, you are just enabling these 304's to use men as wallets without bringing anything to the table. You are both already providing time and attention so if she wants money on top of that she needs to give something else on top of that.

Stress these are not dating sites where you have to wait 2 weeks to get to know each other before getting physical so don't fold when girls try to pull that BS. Also don't go on them looking for a wife or to pander to the girls looking for a husband that is not what these are for.

Before the typical "I can do what I want" fool steps up, know that you have spaces for abuse kinks, to make platonic friends, and meet wives. Leave the SD sites for people that want to have mutually spoiling arrangements of any length.

You don't come to SD sites to feel used but to have fun to spoil these girls and for them to spoil you back with what they have not to just acknowledge you exist or use you as a wallet. They have to put in effort too and that includes open to a physical relationship. Stressing again, these are not dating sites with dating site waiting rules.

If you're paying she's putting out, but you are more than welcome to class it up with the date out in between so she doesn't feel transactional about it and so it feels like going out with a girlfriend. That's what the sites are for!

If anybody gets hurt feelings about this, know that she's not forced to do anything so if she doesn't want to, you just don't pay if she does not play. You can buy a meal, just don't do it more than once until she steps up to the plate. After seeing dozens of girls, never had to buy anything more than I get to know you coffee. You cut the fat on these sites, you don't play games because you don't bring boyfriend energy and benefits if she doesn't bring girlfriend energy and benefits.

ShaniPie

09-18-23, 08:44

https://members.seeking.com/member/56fa81a1-485b-4548-a939-5b099c82c7cf

Another one that's good to go. Those pics are are probably a bit old, she's gained a couple pounds, but nothing bad. She's got a special request when you meet up. PM for details.

ShaniPie

09-18-23, 20:49

https://members.seeking.com/member/609d181d-f61c-4c3f-937c-1446045a0373

Pics are AT LEAST 5 years old. She's much bigger in person. Much! Don't waste your time.

GAGuy2020

09-25-23, 12:36

Just finished a month long run before hitting that wall of annoyance so taking another break. Yeah it was hard to get to that one month point because the scammers, the entitle 304's trying to bleed guys dry, and pure idiots trying to act like it's a dating site just builds up too much. Ain't nobody going to date you for 2 weeks no box, especially if you're going to be asking for money day one.

It was a good run, met a cute with nice mom rack but her bigger belly and no time due to something like 3 kids was too much. Another crazy entitlement was the ones that can start talking and then stop talking mid conversation and then disappear for days at a time acting like they did nothing wrong with no warning.

If you give women choices and reward bad behavior they become privileged and entitled which does not deserve respect. Call them out on your discretion how savagely or how gently if you're still trying to hit. Had a few good moments calling out some stupid entitled 304's.

Everybody woman gets respect until they become disrespectful. They're the ones begging for money and attention online so it's up to them to be well-behaved. Well off guys are more rare than pretty girls so don't let a pretty girl treat you like trash, and definitely don't reward that behavior by giving her time or money but feel free to hit it and ghost her. Burners, pay cash, you not hosting, and fake names boys!

Met a nice 22 yo eager to please at the end but then becomes the problem of sustainability and justification. Average 304 is $100-200, average upper end 304 is $300-400, and SB is 200-400 plus $200+ hotel so $500-800 unless hosting brings it down.

It's not being cheap but smart with your money. The SB choice has the most fun experiences, almost no rules or limits, making it sound like the win but the emotional and financial upkeep adds up to almost feeling like work. Short-term fun but long-term maintenance is not something I have time for.

Plus like I said there's always more new pretty faces out there for less. Going to give the market a little time to build back up to some fresh faces.

GAGuy2020

09-25-23, 13:19

Met a hardcore train wreck that's worthy of a story post or exposing the scammers. Protect yourself first off because some of these users are wild and crazy. You need to use fake names, burners, use cash, and never host. Lost user name because blocked after the conversation but vent them!

Simi-skinny half Asian 304 MILF started off with a sob story about having a teen kid and needing thousands before she gets kicked out of her house. Set the expectation that she can be taken care of if she contributes with her own abilities to the arrangement. She hesitates like she doesn't know what she's here for but that also suggests that there's some stupid idiots that are giving "her" money just for a sob story. Just so you guys know most of these stories are fake.

If it's not a guy with stolen photos, it's typically a guy and his girlfriend running the scam asking for money, especially if up front. You can even go as far as FaceTiming or phone calls with the girl because she's working with her boyfriend. Don't send these girls money! If girls want money they have to be able to provide a service, not a sob story or not just acknowledging that you exist over a meal. Never pay unless you get the box first, also if a larger sum don't pay it all up front day 1.

Anyway, the base agreement had been arranged. She said she had a limited timeline of like a day or two. Then asking her to go ahead and meet today triggered some sort of bipolar breakdown where she suddenly couldn't meet over stress and can meet next week but then reinforce the story that her life is going to be in disaster if she doesn't get the money in the next 2 days. She even tried to throw out some sort of Facebook and Instagram to prove that she's real but those can just as easily be falsified. Don't sign up or friend her!

So she ended up saying no to the money that could "save her and her kids life" due to bipolar anxiety or the scammers being called out to meet in private because waiting a week does not make it "safer". LOL!

You don't want that crazy on your D or the scammers got called out when it was time to put out. Never met anybody in a true emergency that would turn down the solution, even at a smaller risk arriving. She not going to be robbed with no money, not going to be assaulted with a physical relationship on the table already, so there was no reason to say no unless a scam to get money from the guys online. Be safe boys!

GAGuy2020

09-25-23, 13:35

AlBsJunk

10-03-23, 13:41

So have this new conspiracy theory. First off have you noticed hotels going from $100-150 to $150-250? Even lower mid level hotels trying to get $200+ on freaking weekdays! That's a huge spike but not the biggest problem of this conversation.

Starting to notice suspiciously large number of sold out hotels with no events, conferences, or meetings. That's not even the weirdest part, the weirdest part is there is almost no cars in the parking lots. Sure you see people and cars but like 1/3 or 1/4 the amount you would typically expect for a sold out huge hotel.

One theory was they were secretly hosting illegals like other cities but you don't see anyone roaming the halls or outside to support that.

It would be ok if this was a few hotels filling up but one day trying to meet up with a SB had us calling or going to nearly 10 hotels with them all being sold out. Wild! What is your theory? Could be something to do with money laundering.They are struggling with help. Used to have a lot of illegals, but there is a big crackdown, so help is hard to find. When this happens, they block off rooms for less maintenance, then jack up the prices on the available rooms. Lower end notels just follows suit and blame it on inflation. Not a new tactic, just more extreme lately since they are given more excuses to do so. Even when the economy is great, if corporations need a higher stock value, an easy fix is to lay off employees, keep demand high but product low to jack up prices. They can make the same profit or more with a much lower labor cost.

AtItAgain11

10-09-23, 13:51

Kamile wants online only and the other one Gia wants 700-1200 she crazy.

VA Joe

10-16-23, 17:02

Hi has anyone met this SB? Is she legit? I'm meeting her tonight for dinner. Just checking to see if she is safe to meet with. Thank you.

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/45b33d31db85f13c

AtItAgain11

10-17-23, 15:58

Scammer. Don't waste your time fellas hit me that let me get 30 LOL.

Espo123

10-18-23, 07:25

Its pretty funny to see that escorts are now making accounts in SA. Encountered 3 so far within the month, where the convo seemed way too transactional, only to find their picture and listing on EROS as well 🤣.

Snake27

10-18-23, 07:58

If you have credits on SB, this girl is legit and very nice and intelligent. Also, quite tall. The profile looks legit -- has videos -- but I happen to know her from seeking.com where I don't have an account at the moment.

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/a1edb03f5221e2c3

GAGuy2020

10-19-23, 08:38

Met some ok girl next door kind of girls but with raising hotel costs it's hard to justify $400-500 with the hotel. It's not about money but for the same or usually less we can get model level latinas hosting. More girls need to host but finding the majority live with tons of roommates. Plus if some of these girls were actually making the money they are asking for they could afford their own place. LOL.

At this point my buddy can only justify SBs because they are in 20's or new faces but plain Jane is not worth a revisit when you know better value is out there. These dumb 304's need to stop buying bags and start renting nice places, then they could earn more by hosting. But they aren't here because they're smart or good with money. LOL.

AtItAgain11

10-23-23, 19:54

This funny as girl wanted money sent to her straight to her Venmo beforehand to know I'm serious lmao. Scammer alert!

GiveItRaw10

10-24-23, 12:49

This funny as girl wanted money sent to her straight to her Venmo beforehand to know I'm serious lmao. Scammer alert!I was just about to post the exact same thing. Same message, same tactic she used on me.

GiveItRaw10

10-25-23, 07:37

Father Glucose

10-25-23, 14:36

This one is real. Short and can have a straight up attitude. She also a pro, seen her on stg, just started posting. She wanted 500-600 ppm. Got her down to 350 and she wasn't happy. Definitely reflected on her performance.Yeah, I messaged her a few months ago and she was out of my range for ppm as well, plus I would've had to get a room. Shortly after, I started seeing her post on the pro sites.

Edited because looka here:
https://skipthegames.com/posts/chesapeake/female-escorts/asian/lets-get-to-it-/741639900131

GiveItRaw10

10-30-23, 18:22

Scatter brain! Not legit and is in that "findom" stuff! False promises to sucker you into a paypig relationship! Who the fuck believes in this type of craziness? These people are out there and apparently growing quite a bit. GAguy said it best, this kink stuff or whatever these sickos want is a disease and spreading rampant on the seeking site. Real question? How, or who can accept being a findom / paypig to these fucking hoes? Real question! I mean, I get that some might get suckered into it through an online exchange or whatever, hell I've been suckered before, but the paypig thing? Seriously? The hell is the gratification in that?!

Gidden Lade

11-04-23, 23:07

Distrizzy

11-05-23, 00:02

Yeah, I messaged her a few months ago and she was out of my range for ppm as well, plus I would've had to get a room. Shortly after, I started seeing her post on the pro sites.

Edited because looka here:
https://skipthegames.com/posts/chesapeake/female-escorts/asian/lets-get-to-it-/741639900131Saw her and she was pretty chill. Dancer. Not rushed at all. No GFE. CBJ. No DATY. Arrived and she was in pajamas, sweats. Thought she could of been a bit more dressed up as opposed to looking like she just woke up. I like GFE and more professional effort, but she was nice and made the experience pleasant. Down to earth and chatty. Probably won't repeat because CBJ really? And when I open the door be in a teddy or something. Just mindblowing that these providers are not putting in effort. A.

DoggieFan

11-05-23, 18:06

So have this new conspiracy theory. First off have you noticed hotels going from $100-150 to $150-250? Even lower mid level hotels trying to get $200+ on freaking weekdays! That's a huge spike but not the biggest problem of this conversation.

Starting to notice suspiciously large number of sold out hotels with no events, conferences, or meetings. That's not even the weirdest part, the weirdest part is there is almost no cars in the parking lots. Sure you see people and cars but like 1/3 or 1/4 the amount you would typically expect for a sold out huge hotel.

One theory was they were secretly hosting illegals like other cities but you don't see anyone roaming the halls or outside to support that.

It would be ok if this was a few hotels filling up but one day trying to meet up with a SB had us calling or going to nearly 10 hotels with them all being sold out. Wild! What is your theory? Could be something to do with money laundering.For sure, a Baby that can host is a real find. I can expense hotels about an hour or more out of Richmond, but love a girl that hosts! Unfortunately if I want to dip my wick in local talent I need to burn hotel reward points. My bosses wife wants me to use the company account, so they get the points. Hell, I'm already using their corporate AE, they must literally have millions of points! Felt like telling her she's cramping my Sugar Daddy style! LOL.

Passport4

11-06-23, 22:06

I have not been a paid member of Seeking for a while with all the flakes, scammers and pros. But yesterday, I logged on and had an offer of 1 free hour of pad membership that was good for 24 hours. So today I logged on and accepted the offer that did not require a credit card. I first went thru all of the ladies that had favorited me or had sent a message for the last 4 months and messaged them that I was away but will return after Thanksgiving. I left my email. Only 2 replied and of the 2 only one had an email conversation while the other said she on SA was going to message me but didn't. Now I'm married and am much older, so now I don't know if that is what scared them off or if they weren't real to begin with. I've never had a free offer before, but should anyone get the same, be ready with a plan as an hour goes by quickly. Give your number or email, because as soon as the hour expires, you can no longer read any messages.

Passport4

11-14-23, 00:17

It's amazing how far the scammers will work to try to get you to send them money.

I got the free hour from SA and sent a message with my email address to all of those that messaged me and to some active ones who I had favorited. It was amazing, but only 2 replied. I communicated with one and since I'm out of the country til Thanksgiving, she didn't want to message and said to call when I got back.

The other one said she was going to send me an invite to Google Chat. I didn't get anything for a few days and then I got an email to chat. I had to download the app as I had never used it before. She said she was new to it too as she usually texted. But she never gave me her number, nor did I ask since it was easier to not get texts while my wife could be near.

So we chat for 3 days twice a day for a long time. I'm 14 hours ahead of Eastern time, so it was when we were both up.

She said she was in Virginia Beach. I had favorited her, but could not find her on my saved favorites. She said she got banned for discussing prices with another guy. Her fault but he asked.

She tells me she is a single mother of a 7 year old and cannot host as she has to move in about 5 days when she will be able to. I get all of her sob stories about her husband being killed and that her job as a baker isn't full time. She asks if I have any real estate connections as she needs to be out of her apartment and is looking for a place that doesn't require a 3 month deposit plus a pet deposit per pet. I say I have no connections.

She says she is hard up and joined SA to earn some quick money. The conversation asks me my favorite sex things and elaborates with hers. She says she's 29 and while needing money now, she was looking for something regular. Just what I was looking for.

She sends some regular pictures as well as a few sexy ones, but not lewd or nude.

We converse for all of this time and she says she found a house for rent and sends me the address. While she didn't know who I am or where I live, the place was about 20 minutes from my house.

So on my morning of Day 4 she says the landlord insisted on the deposit and that other people were looking at the house and didn't want to lose it. I told her that I would only give her cash as I did not want to leave a trail since I'm married. This posed a timing problem for her and she asked if I could do a cash app or PayPal. I refused. Then the hard press came. While in our conversations she sounded so sincere, looking back there were a few signals that she might not be real. Finally when she asked if I could do Bitcoin since it's anonymous, the gig was up.

I told her it was cash only given by hand or nothing. BULLET DODGED, END OF STORY.

Passport4

11-17-23, 17:19

Has anyone seen Kimmy? She is looking to be a sugar babe but will do PPM. I was concerned that she lives in not the best neighborhood of Norfolk and has roommates. She's very responsive in texts and says she aims to please you however you want.

https://members.seeking.com/member/1bf842d2-7a6e-4f1a-981d-66d7ed1a7482

DoggieFan

11-19-23, 10:45

VA Joe

11-20-23, 21:03

I am interested in helping her. PM me her contact information please. Thank you.

Has anyone seen Kimmy? She is looking to be a sugar babe but will do PPM. I was concerned that she lives in not the best neighborhood of Norfolk and has roommates. She's very responsive in texts and says she aims to please you however you want.

https://members.seeking.com/member/1bf842d2-7a6e-4f1a-981d-66d7ed1a7482

ShaniPie

11-21-23, 14:23

Allowance & menu? She look like pics?Your inbox is full.

Monkey Busines

11-26-23, 20:05

Any intel yet on this new member?

https://members.seeking.com/member/02ebbb85-243c-4d40-8d29-c57aacfa00b1

BumbaCloth

12-07-23, 22:39

Anyone talked to them?

Clk18999.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8589fea6-ae04-4b67-a98e-64e13d524146

RareFind.

https://members.seeking.com/member/183b0938-1782-4311-84d7-d700d37c7411

VA Joe

12-08-23, 07:40

Hi Has anyone seen this one? She is on SB trying to see if she is legit or a scam. Thank you.

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/2e44edc3f1669a15

ShaniPie

12-08-23, 07:45

Hi Has anyone seen this one? She is on SB trying to see if she is legit or a scam. Thank you.

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/2e44edc3f1669a15She's "Megan"'s sister.

https://members.seeking.com/member/474f3b63-9074-49aa-bcbc-e74b45c7d605

VA Joe

12-08-23, 23:35

Her ad is not active. Do you know if her sister Tucker / Rhianna is a legit provider / sugar baby? Thank you.

She's "Megan"'s sister.

https://members.seeking.com/member/474f3b63-9074-49aa-bcbc-e74b45c7d605

Snake27

12-14-23, 23:02

Espo123

12-15-23, 21:28

Got the go ahead to put it out there. 22y/o curvy, 5'7. Nice girl, DM me for more info

BumbaCloth

12-18-23, 19:39

Looks like some Virginia Beach hotels are now listed on the Dayuse app if your look for a short stay hotel.

Passport4

12-19-23, 09:57

Looks like some Virginia Beach hotels are now listed on the Dayuse app if your look for a short stay hotel.They have been available for a while, but you may or may not book them for Friday, Saturday or Sunday. I had that issue on a Friday at all 3 of the hotels not being available. But it appears that they are available this weekend on all days, so I do not know if the policy changed or if they were just all booked when I tried. At that time, I checked several Friday's and nothing was available. And the best part is that you do not have to pay in advance. You can also book thru dayuse.com.

BumbaCloth

12-19-23, 14:50

She wants $500 allowance.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5edd79fa-c2fd-4404-811f-b40c7c7f065f

GAGuy2020

12-22-23, 18:36

So I've been kicked off due to silly mods and able to get back in a few times but it's becoming more work so if anybody has a SB they want to introduce to me? I'll take care your next session if I meet up and everything works out. Feel free to message directly and I can throw one or two your way too if anybody else is looking to share contacts.

BumbaCloth

12-24-23, 18:25

She wasted my time. Got her down from 400 to 250 confirmed the day before, day of our date ghosted me no text no call.

https://members.seeking.com/member/891e144a-e40c-4c96-b95e-74889026bb02

Espo123

12-25-23, 13:02

She wasted my time. Got her down from 400 to 250 confirmed the day before, day of our date ghosted me no text no call.

https://members.seeking.com/member/891e144a-e40c-4c96-b95e-74889026bb02Saw her earlier this year. She's super skinny, super down for stuff. Out near suffolk woodlands area. IF you do get to meet her she's pretty open.

Been getting the run of the mill ghosts here and there. Theres one particular girl who I believe is a bot but will text all the way to setting up a time and saying she's on the way to straight ghosting. Done that with me around 2 times now, to when she texts me again with the same bs I just fuck around. Shit is getting lame over here with that, or you have tons of GPS LOL.

BumbaCloth

12-25-23, 15:50

Saw her earlier this year. She's super skinny, super down for stuff. Out near suffolk woodlands area. IF you do get to meet her she's pretty open.

Been getting the run of the mill ghosts here and there. Theres one particular girl who I believe is a bot but will text all the way to setting up a time and saying she's on the way to straight ghosting. Done that with me around 2 times now, to when she texts me again with the same bs I just fuck around. Shit is getting lame over here with that, or you have tons of GPS LOL.It seem like all the SBs are trying to New York allowances ask for 400 & 500 even old heads in there late 30's and 40's.

Espo123

12-25-23, 16:21

It seem like all the SBs are trying to New York allowances ask for 400 & 500 even old heads in there late 30's and 40's.One girl said she usually does 1 k. The fuqq?!

BumbaCloth

01-18-24, 20:51

Did someone review her before under a different name?

https://members.seeking.com/member/5edd79fa-c2fd-4404-811f-b40c7c7f065f

BumbaCloth

03-11-24, 17:34

Sells pics & videos.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0e41f438-e559-42c4-b57c-8c6a72e4fcf1

Passport4

03-12-24, 01:15

I logged into SA on Sunday, and was once again given an hour free as premium once activated. So I did my homework and looked at all of the ladies I had gotten messages from that were still active as well as more that had either looked at my profile or who I thought could be interesting. I had created a copy of a message that I could send to all of them that had my play email and said I had interest in them, that I'm out of town but will be back if they wanted to communicate to use email.

I sent out about 50 messages. I also read the ones that I had previously received.

Now due to my age which is over 70 (I tried before to get it changed, but seeking wanted proof by asking for an I'd which was a no go) I didn't expect a large amount of emails. I got a greater number than expected, but the idiots responded thru seeking instead of to my email. And of course my 1 hour was up. I'm still getting a couple responses but again, only thru seeking. How stupid can they be?

For those of you who question why my age is over 70, it because I've been on Seeking about 10 years and was in my early 60's when I joined.

GAGuy2020

03-12-24, 16:22

The women are liars, fools, and scammers at heart but there is some hidden treasures and one shots worth dealing with the BS. I have had a few same day hookups but on average it takes about 3-5 days. You shotgun message and take what you can get. More luck than finding a match. The site and hookup culture punishes men. I've had days I can't give out hundreds because "same day is too fast", "I do online only", "I want to date a few times and get to know you first online" or nobody responds. Even after just messaging me. LOL Welcome to online games where b*tches thinking ghosting is acceptable and the worst women think they can be picky. On the plus side I have great success stories I'll post in a bit.

I logged into SA on Sunday, and was once again given an hour free as premium once activated. So I did my homework and looked at all of the ladies I had gotten messages from that were still active as well as more that had either looked at my profile or who I thought could be interesting. I had created a copy of a message that I could send to all of them that had my play email and said I had interest in them, that I'm out of town but will be back if they wanted to communicate to use email.

I sent out about 50 messages. I also read the ones that I had previously received.

Now due to my age which is over 70 (I tried before to get it changed, but seeking wanted proof by asking for an I'd which was a no go) I didn't expect a large amount of emails. I got a greater number than expected, but the idiots responded thru seeking instead of to my email. And of course my 1 hour was up. I'm still getting a couple responses but again, only thru seeking. How stupid can they be?

For those of you who question why my age is over 70, it because I've been on Seeking about 10 years and was in my early 60's when I joined.

GAGuy2020

03-12-24, 21:26

Been MIA for a reason. Just finished a 2 to 3 month sugar run. There was definitely more good than bad but started feeling the games burnout near the end of it. I would say at least 50-75% was putting scam artist in check or calling them out. Don't let somebody demand money from you and provide nothing, because she needs to bring something to the table. Women are fighting for men in this market! Pretty girls aren't rare, guys with good money are.

Also, like always, never overpay! Not one of these girls cost over $200/250 but nowadays it's the hotels that'll get you, pushing $150-200. That's putting most girls around the $300-500 range and no P is worth more than $300 even though you can pay that much. The good news is a larger number are hosting for free. Got most of these girls for around $150 plus hotel so just under $200 if you find a nice cheap hotel.

To start off some of y'all need to stop the platonic and online only stuff because half of those are scammers playing you, probably dudes using girls photos, or girls with broke boyfriends lying to your face and not hooking up. Plus paying for something you can't even taste is ruining the market because girls think acknowledging that you exist or just saying hi to you is worth money. If she's not smashing, you're not paying. If you're into the pay pig garbage lifestyle, go to the fetish sites where you belong because a sugar baby is not a financial abuser, pay pig is a fetish not a sugar daddy.

Now on to the good, ended up meeting a couple of nice college girls and MILFs. I'll try to recap to the best of my knowledge.

Hit a thick Latina / black MILF. Huge tits, fun time, but not worth repeating due to single momma drama that comes with all second hand goods over time.

Had a cute Richmond girl that hit the career over men wall that actually drove down for me. She was nice but the red flag is I think she was looking more for a relationship than the money. Thick but little tits, very kinky but not looking for a girlfriend.

Had a very tight cute Asian college girl from Richmond. Another girl coming down just for me. Not a thin flat Asian like I typically enjoy, but some very nice curves on a shorty without being fat. A little too Americanized and greedy, but a fun romp.

Cute white bean pole in an open relationship where the broke boyfriend caused her to go out for money was very fun. She was a personal favorite for a handful of visits. She ended up getting greedy.

Met a few girls near the Roanoke area online and planned to meet but the distance was just too far to sustain plus they get a little trashing out there. LOL.

There was a really fun girl from Williamsburg that was a nice, tight fit but there was nothing unique about her and she ended up having a little bit of mental issues in the long run. Another girl with little tits that got old, boobs make the package and lacking them gets old.

I think there was more but they're not at the front of my mind at the moment in my old age. LOL. There is one other curvy white girl with huge tits. That was fun but she had some health issues and stinky P is not fun to play with.

The part that I really get a kick from was hooking up with only fans girls that fools pay just to see naked. I've paid less than rest of the fools probably doing subscriptions to actually hit. Its strange though because most girls don't advertise they sleep around on the side and play the guy's online for subscriptions and tips without telling them it's an option.

The main thing that you really have to fight is these broke literal trailer park girls in dirty clothes and junky cars demanding $1,000 for some overused P or to be nice to you, just because some fools overpaid her in the past. Know their worth and make sure you're fair but setting the expectations they are not models. Brazilian models are around 400 to $500 so broke college girls and used MILFs don't deserve to be paid more than models. You're not paying these girls for sex or for their time, you're paying them to leave after you smash.

BumbaCloth

03-14-24, 12:27

Anyone seen her?

https://members.seeking.com/member/4f20eb3a-406e-4e9b-be59-ac20d9577af9

Bananaa

03-23-24, 22:23

Anyone seen her?

https://members.seeking.com/member/4f20eb3a-406e-4e9b-be59-ac20d9577af9Spoke with her a long time ago. Never met. She's pretty up front about price and seems open to meeting for fun. Been a while, so don't recall details. I think she lost weight. Looked better before.

BumbaCloth

03-24-24, 17:18

She messaged chatted for a little bit asked for her contact went silent on me.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f53da67e-b763-4a87-8dfa-e236e6de4d02

VA Joe

04-05-24, 06:19

Hi does anyone have info on this one? Is she legit? Thank you for any information.

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/34c27b41b7e36056

Buwanda

04-05-24, 08:47

Previous posts last year indicate she's a pro.

https://backpagegals.com/escorts/female-escorts/virginia-beach-13644553

https://callescort.org/757-899-1376

https://sumosear.ch/images/webpage/petite-blonde-goddess-available-for-upscale-gentleman-discreet-incall-location/57975738

https://members.seeking.com/member/d273fc12-6aae-454b-97db-d6c5d4ead895

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/937e2f389833d4f4

Interesting the she keeps changing her name often. Prices seem awlful high for what the photos show nor is she petite!
Any info would be appreciated.

Thanks.

GolfMan57

04-05-24, 08:53

Spoke with her a long time ago. Never met. She's pretty up front about price and seems open to meeting for fun. Been a while, so don't recall details. I think she lost weight. Looked better before.Had a meet set up with her last year, I drove over an hour to get there and she tells me she in on the way and when she was running late, I called and all of a sudden she quoted a much higher amount then we had agreed to.

ShaniPie

04-08-24, 12:58

Hi does anyone have info on this one? Is she legit? Thank you for any information.

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/34c27b41b7e36056She's legit. Pics are older, she's a bit bigger in person. I didn't pull the trigger.

UsaWaw

04-08-24, 13:49

I don't have a report to add yet but I just wanted to say thanks to all you guys that post about the SBs. I've learned a lot about how it works from reading this thread and it inspired me to try myself. It's so annoying to go the previous route that I'm going to give it a shot and maybe be able to spend some private time with a nice college chick for some bills.

UsaWaw

04-15-24, 23:21

Anyone talked to them?

Clk18999.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8589fea6-ae04-4b67-a98e-64e13d524146She messaged me unsolicited and after a couple of messages back and forth asked if we could text pics. I was going to ask the same thing so she definitely has some kind of savvy. She is looking for 500 each time and send a couple of face pics, her number did not turn up anything in a quick google. We haven't met so can't say much more than that at this time.

Nymking

04-16-24, 15:57

Hi does anyone have info on this one? Is she legit? Thank you for any information.

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/34c27b41b7e36056Not 100% she's legit. She probably is. But I think she's a "get together when it's convenient to me / I have the need" type. She contacted me on SA and quickly went off site. Exchanged brief pleasantries and asked if I was free that night. Explained my schedule wouldn't allow it. Crickets for a week to that and my follow up until an out of the blue "are you free tonight" (after I'd already explained in detail that evenings aren't an option for me).

May be worth it if you're able to meet spur of the moment on her terms, but probably not worth the time engaging otherwise.

Passport4

04-26-24, 08:57

UsaWaw

04-28-24, 21:41

I logged in today and it now says that I'm not searchable as I haven't completed my profile. I've had this account since 2016 and never had a picture posted. Now it is requiring a picture. Anyone know what has changed and why?FWIW this just happened to me too. It happened the first time I logged in after connecting to SA from another country with a VPN. Could be related? Very annoying although now the fake profiles won't be able to waste my time as easily.

Passport4

04-29-24, 06:48

FWIW this just happened to me too. It happened the first time I logged in after connecting to SA from another country with a VPN. Could be related? Very annoying although now the fake profiles won't be able to waste my time as easily.I was in NYC when I logged in, but was not using a vpn, as I was using my phone. But that is an interesting thought. Now that imo back home, I wonder if it will fix itself?

JjrSki

05-07-24, 22:22

UsaWaw

05-08-24, 12:29

Buwanda

05-08-24, 15:06

So has anyone actually seen her?I did once, never again. Definately bi-polar, ADHD and then some. Not petite. Major, major family issues with two under age kids. I'd avoid at all cost. Just my two cents.

Rebranded

05-09-24, 10:35

Has to be a pro (or fake), does anyone know what her deal is? Wondering if anyone has seen her advertise elsewhere, I have not but I'm sure there are places I don't know to look.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0ea38c00-40a3-4b18-9ffd-73acb8b364b3

Impossible to be stealthy with that kind of ink!Over priced with limited services on the table. Everything covered. Never shuts up and family issues. Cancelled three times to due one of her sons is going to prison, court dates, parolle officers etc.

Major drama queen. Waste of money!

Rebranded

05-09-24, 15:41

BumbaCloth

05-13-24, 01:21

Anyone uses Sugar Daddy Meets? Thinking about trying it since it seems like much is happening on SA & SB.

UsaWaw

05-15-24, 10:18

I paid for PimEyes to do some "research" on a SB I thought might be a cam / OF girl. I'm not going to be able to use it much so if anyone wants me to run a search for them reply or PM and I'll be happy to let you know what is found.

GAGuy2020

05-15-24, 18:02

I'm very interested but I don't see the site having access behind paywalls so unless she used a photo as an avatar, many don't, I don't see too much value in it. Did you get any good results?

I paid for PimEyes to do some "research" on a SB I thought might be a cam / OF girl. I'm not going to be able to use it much so if anyone wants me to run a search for them reply or PM and I'll be happy to let you know what is found.

UsaWaw

05-15-24, 22:07

I'm very interested but I don't see the site having access behind paywalls so unless she used a photo as an avatar, many don't, I don't see too much value in it. Did you get any good results?Yeah I found one who is either using stolen pics or is an aspiring porn star, the OF of one who didn't want me to know about it, and quite a few who were not obviously fake accounts but are using pics from all over. I didn't find exactly what I was looking for but I think its another tool in the toolbox.

"Poundcake" from SA was actually justa_barbi, who has an OF of course but has also done a few pro porn scenes in the past year, some with prominent hotwife / pro-ams. Her profile said "I will ride you to nut" so it seems to have been deleted.

BumbaCloth

05-16-24, 11:12

Anyone talked to her?

https://members.seeking.com/member/fed7f685-4ab5-492c-a74c-5547133fc8e8

GAGuy2020

05-17-24, 00:44

Spoiler alert, most pretty end escorts and SB have OF. A few bold uglies do too but nobody wants to see that. Some hide it better than others but ran into a couple SBs that you could tell the photos they send you are from their OF cams or I was able to get them to admit it later or you catch them trying to sell you photos in conversation. Don't pay for photos!

The funny part is that a few of them OF girls that SB don't advertise to fans so I smashed a few cuties that guys pay more than I did. They only have a chat or see photos. LOL Moral of the story don't do OF, find their price and get kitty.

One thing I would like to do is use the software to find cute friends content. It's hot to find Friends, coworkers, neighbors content.

Yeah I found one who is either using stolen pics or is an aspiring porn star, the OF of one who didn't want me to know about it, and quite a few who were not obviously fake accounts but are using pics from all over. I didn't find exactly what I was looking for but I think its another tool in the toolbox.

"Poundcake" from SA was actually justa_barbi, who has an OF of course but has also done a few pro porn scenes in the past year, some with prominent hotwife / pro-ams. Her profile said "I will ride you to nut" so it seems to have been deleted.

ArtistOfWar1

05-17-24, 06:49

That didn't go straight to scam mode.

Anyone familiar?

https://members.seeking.com/member/90bd2ca3-9e57-4507-8209-a0c03c0f840c

https://members.seeking.com/member/b41d76e1-b307-4df6-8c0a-e8fef9c91548

https://members.seeking.com/member/bff9c539-fdc6-44ff-8d35-277ee80c4260

https://members.seeking.com/member/5002a092-9835-4ae6-97d8-3dab59751e17

UsaWaw

05-17-24, 10:54

Totally, I always try to find OF / etc. as a way to do more research to make sure they are what I'm looking for. This one chick on SB had ring light in the far background of one of her pics, dead giveaway! I wouldn't pay more than like $10 for someone I was about to give hundreds to that's for sure. I haven't had to yet because so many of them have a freemium scam pricing model so you can see enough for free. A lot of the time OF rips can be had for free too esp. If they have some specialty.

I get 25 searches a day if you want to search anyone. I found out that my ex gf from like 20 years ago did softcore bondage "porn", which is hilarious but I wanted to find better.

Spoiler alert, most pretty end escorts and SB have OF. A few bold uglies do too but nobody wants to see that. Some hide it better than others but ran into a couple SBs that you could tell the photos they send you are from their OF cams or I was able to get them to admit it later or you catch them trying to sell you photos in conversation. Don't pay for photos!

The funny part is that a few of them OF girls that SB don't advertise to fans so I smashed a few cuties that guys pay more than I did. They only have a chat or see photos. LOL Moral of the story don't do OF, find their price and get kitty.

One thing I would like to do is use the software to find cute friends content. It's hot to find Friends, coworkers, neighbors content.

GAGuy2020

05-18-24, 12:28

I mentioned it before but we should make a post sharing local only fans girls. Don't have to give real names but they're public Only fans accounts so it would be nice to see a list of local girls and the hottest thing is to see if you recognize anybody. LOL. I found my brother's ex doing amateur level porn before OF

Totally, I always try to find OF / etc. as a way to do more research to make sure they are what I'm looking for. This one chick on SB had ring light in the far background of one of her pics, dead giveaway! I wouldn't pay more than like $10 for someone I was about to give hundreds to that's for sure. I haven't had to yet because so many of them have a freemium scam pricing model so you can see enough for free. A lot of the time OF rips can be had for free too esp. If they have some specialty.

I get 25 searches a day if you want to search anyone. I found out that my ex gf from like 20 years ago did softcore bondage "porn", which is hilarious but I wanted to find better.

Unassuming2018

06-01-24, 15:25

I've shot many of them in this area. I could easily compile a list, LOL.

I mentioned it before but we should make a post sharing local only fans girls. Don't have to give real names but they're public Only fans accounts so it would be nice to see a list of local girls and the hottest thing is to see if you recognize anybody. LOL. I found my brother's ex doing amateur level porn before OF

GAGuy2020

06-02-24, 11:24

You should make a post about it or if not, I'd be happy to DM directly.

I've shot many of them in this area. I could easily compile a list, LOL.

Eagle7415

06-13-24, 21:16

https://members.seeking.com/member/9894f2e0-63f5-468f-a155-dfff504e73ec

I met Dori for dinner then fun afterwards in Wilmington, NC in 2022 had a good time with her for 5 bens, pics are touched up and she is actually 32, mom body, but fun and likes to drink. BBBJ, cfs. Looks at her phone a lot.

Recently reached out to her in Virginia Beach earlier this week for dinner / fun tonight, confirmed the date 3 times today and purchased her special request at the abc store, because l live a couple of hours away, texted right up until dinner meeting time at a very nice restaurant of her choosing. Totally ghosted me, throughout our meeting two years ago and all communication I have been nothing but respectful. Just be on guard when communicating with her. I've met about a lot of ladies on SA over the last 3 years and this has never happened to me before.

DoggieFan

06-30-24, 10:44

After the terrifying episode with Julia (reported Mar 17), I urged her to get psychiatric help, and she did, with a prescription for a serotonin re-uptake inhibitor, which seemed to help.

Still, she got to be so tiresome with her pitiful, repetitive messages begging for support and telling me she "loves" me, that I would always block her after a few weeks. Then she'd reappear after a few more weeks with a new phone number (a shy "Hey") and I'd help her out again. Eventually I'd block her again after she ramped up the frequency of messages and become annoying. This cycle has repeated about 5 times. I've given her on average about $200 per month. Sometimes I wonder if I'd be less charitable if Julia wasn't young and pretty, with a slender athletic body and a beautiful smile and smooth dark complexion. We've had some great sex. Maybe a vague hope to revive that, though it would be terrible, is why I don't just throw the burner phone away. Perhaps I need a psychiatrist too, LOL.

In August, while I was traveling, I got a collect call from the Norfolk jail. I looked up the arrest records online and found that Julia had been arrested for cursing and being drunk in public. I could just imagine the little tornado cursing and gesticulating with a beer bottle. But I figured she'd be ok -- they'd let her out after a day or two -- and that is what happened.

Around the first of this month, Julia started another cycle of communication and I decided to not take her word for it that she was stuck in a parking lot with no gas and would miss work. I advised her to call in sick for work and I said I'd check on her in person the next day. She apparently slept in the car and it turned out that her story was true. So, I filled up her tank, gave her $100, and bought her lunch. I had almost forgotten how pretty she is and how charming she can be when she's not in a fit of rage. But I avoided the temptation. I always figured she could find another sugar daddy or a "significant other" or that her family would take care of her. I'll probably end up blocking her again, though I think I'll put up with her until after the New Year.Not trying to be heartless, but the way you describe her physical attributes, the answer to her money issues is between her legs.

I had a similar experience, minus the mental issues. A hot 31 year old with adulting issues. In her defense, she was tied down in a two bedroom apartment taking care of her 90 year old grandma with dementia. Her only source of income was seeing a few regulars. I loved it because she had a killer body, gorgeous long red hair. Looked like an early 20's girl.

I started to realize I was getting too involved in making sure she was okay, financially. The answer was I found her other squared away guys to go see her. At least two or three still see her now on the reg. I lost interest about 3 months ago after hitting it for over three years. I never asked for a freebie or discount, because I knew she was literally using the money for rent, utilities & food. What I did like is I helped her sometimes when I couldn't see her. She always gave me credit on my next visit, which is pretty rare with SBs.

GAGuy2020

07-12-24, 19:01

Just finished a good run and have some good memories. Going to take a break after that because these girls are getting expensive with Biden's inflation and idiots over paying. Before anybody chimes in with stop being cheap, it's not cheap to know value and refuse to overpay.

More good than bad so that's always a plus. Even helped with with a decent purge of online only, platonic only, and scammers. If they aren't real or putting out, don't give them time or resources! If you want to be used as a paypig, go to a fetish site, not a sugar daddy site.

Stand strong, don't be afraid to offer their worth and most will take what they're worth. You would be shocked how many $500-800 girls will take $200-300. Don't let these 304's play you! That one idiot that paid her $1,000 makes her think she's worth a thousand but she's still that $200 girl.

One key advice is to always double book because it's easier to cancel than it is to make up an appointment, or you get the rare chance of two visits in the same day. Locking in dates with these 304's is like herding cats. It's funny how even paying more than they're worth takes so much effort to make arrangements. Beggars can be choosers and that is ridiculous.

The biggest highlight was an all-time low record freshly turned 18 year old, check IDs guys! Little bit of a cash me outside hood rat style and mannerisms but curves where it mattered. They are a headache in all games at that age but no regrets. Just watch out for the broken crazies.

Retired a few favorites due to repetitiveness or finding better quality. Had some new faces coming down from as far as Richmond and Fredericksburg. Almost got a couple from DC but they started being little sh*ts at the end about driving. Don't let some 304 demand a high price honestly outside her value that you agree to and then expect you to buy meals or drinks on top of that.

Tell these girls if they want traditional dating they would be on traditional dating sites so don't try to wine and dine them traditionally if they're going to charge you untraditionally. You will be surprised how many girls will cut the fat and the games when you call them out on it and tell them to earn their demands. Many are fine going straight to the bedroom and that's all some are worth. No hate, reality!

Probably not the best round in numbers, but there's some unique one shots that made it worth it. As always, remember that as the guy with money, you are the prize not her, so she has to fight for you. You should not be fighting for her, you are paying to cut out traditional waiting and dating games. They may not be hookers but if they're asking for money like hookers they can't be acting like princesses, they should be treating you like the King first.

If you're spoiling these girls and not getting equivalent returns, you're setting up these girls to fail with others. There's nothing wrong with equivalent exchange and these girls need to give and not just take.

Snake27

07-14-24, 21:56

For about a year, I've been trying, in a low-key way, to find a sugarbaby (SB) in a stripclub (SC), with not much success because I'm particular about what I want. So, it didn't work, until I found Penny, a slender, modest, friendly girl. The potential advantages of a SC over the SB sites is that you see what they look like, can talk to them in person and judge their personality and whether you have any connection. On the other hand, the SC girls often flake out, or draw the line at extras, or maybe some of them just don't like me, or they quit the club rapidly and disappear -- there is a lot of turnover at this area's clubs because the money is not very good.

A lapdance is a good way to see how sexual they are, and Penny passed that test with flying colors. She's very enthusiastic in bed. Dates with her cost $300, and we've had 3 in as many weeks, meeting in hotels.

I wonder if others have had any success with SCs as a source of SBs? It wasn't very efficient for me, but I think Penny will last awhile.

DoneThatOnce

07-23-24, 19:29

Anyone seen this one across the JRB? Quite a message on her profile.

https://members.seeking.com/member/ef8fd015-c989-4942-af39-b601ad9b92be

UsaWaw

07-26-24, 16:14

JLocking in dates with these 304's is like herding cats. It's funny how even paying more than they're worth takes so much effort to make arrangements. Beggars can be choosers and that is ridiculous.Man this is so true. I'm having a hell of a time. Like I have money, I want to give it you, why are you making this so difficult? Just stupid stuff where even a tiny bit of forethought would get them exactly what the want but they can't seem to manage it.

GAGuy2020

07-26-24, 16:51

I guess that's ok but almost all strippers I know have a somewhat serious boyfriend. Hell it's pulling teeth to get a number without spending tons first. Some times they are open relationships but that usually just means he sees other girls and she is loyal so good luck.

You can sometimes luck out and catch them going between her soon to be ex and guy on the side, ya know the one she told him not to worry about. LOL. Might work better in bigger cities, I actually hit it in the VIP before but smaller clubs in desperate areas like this make too much to play outside the club.

The problem is most don't play outside the club for less than 500-1000. If they can make hundreds for a few hours of low touch lap dances they have an inflated self-worth outside the club for sex.

Sounds like a good find and $300 is a good average price if hot but it's usually too much wasted time, dances, gifts, and drinks to get to that pay out. If you perfect it I would love to hear how. Plus you take into account that you're spending money on hotels too so that could be $400 to $600 per meet. Yikes! Had some girls off the site go as low as $200 plus room so they're not my first choice the sites are best.

For about a year, I've been trying, in a low-key way, to find a sugarbaby (SB) in a stripclub (SC), with not much success because I'm particular about what I want. So, it didn't work, until I found Penny, a slender, modest, friendly girl. The potential advantages of a SC over the SB sites is that you see what they look like, can talk to them in person and judge their personality and whether you have any connection. On the other hand, the SC girls often flake out, or draw the line at extras, or maybe some of them just don't like me, or they quit the club rapidly and disappear -- there is a lot of turnover at this area's clubs because the money is not very good.

A lapdance is a good way to see how sexual they are, and Penny passed that test with flying colors. She's very enthusiastic in bed. Dates with her cost $300, and we've had 3 in as many weeks, meeting in hotels.

I wonder if others have had any success with SCs as a source of SBs? It wasn't very efficient for me, but I think Penny will last awhile.

Snake27

08-20-24, 00:23

For about a year, I've been trying, in a low-key way, to find a sugarbaby (SB) in a stripclub (SC) ... (etc)An update on my stripper SB, whom I called Penny. We've been exploring the landscape our sexual imagination. Insert your juiciest Blak Gekko story here and you get the idea. Where is BG, anyway?

Penny has a live-in boyfriend, who abuses her when they argue (I've seen the bruises) and he allegedly has multiple girlfriends and doesn't make much money, though it's hard to imagine having girlfriends without money, but I guess it depends on the people. Penny and I meet once a week at a hotel which is 5 minutes from our respective homes. For operational security, she erases our messages right away. She says that her BF would not follow her to the hotel because he has no car. Still, I'm nervous and I'll probably stop fairly soon. Seems dangerous. The hotel is pretty fancy but only $100 on an off-day. The total, $400 including $300 to the SB, is double the cost of a decent incall, but worth it for the girlfriend-like treatment that came after establishing trust. Penny is adventurous and not burned out by high volume.

UsaWaw

08-20-24, 10:35

The total, $400 including $300 to the SB, is double the cost of a decent incall, but worth it for the girlfriend-like treatment that came after establishing trust. Penny is adventurous and not burned out by high volume.Man you are living the dream, that price is pretty good if you factor in the per hour price, assuming you meet for longer. I would love to find a girl like to visit when I'm in town.

GAGuy2020

08-21-24, 19:24

That's a pretty good setup and I would say it's about average price but watch out if he gets a car because if she has to delete her text messages she's got eyes on her. Hopefully he's kept busy with the other girls so won't be your problem. Watch those hotel prices. They're going up. Even the motels want to charge $150 and hotels are pushing the $200 range.

Message me if you're willing to share her. We don't have to exchange private information. You just tell me where she works and can meet her to see if we click.

An update on my stripper SB, whom I called Penny. We've been exploring the landscape our sexual imagination. Insert your juiciest Blak Gekko story here and you get the idea. Where is BG, anyway?

Penny has a live-in boyfriend, who abuses her when they argue (I've seen the bruises) and he allegedly has multiple girlfriends and doesn't make much money, though it's hard to imagine having girlfriends without money, but I guess it depends on the people. Penny and I meet once a week at a hotel which is 5 minutes from our respective homes. For operational security, she erases our messages right away. She says that her BF would not follow her to the hotel because he has no car. Still, I'm nervous and I'll probably stop fairly soon. Seems dangerous. The hotel is pretty fancy but only $100 on an off-day. The total, $400 including $300 to the SB, is double the cost of a decent incall, but worth it for the girlfriend-like treatment that came after establishing trust. Penny is adventurous and not burned out by high volume.

Snake27

09-16-24, 18:50

An update on my stripper SB, whom I called Penny. We've been exploring the landscape of our sexual imagination ...A short update. I recently called it quits with Penny, mostly due to financial reasons. It's my usual problem with sugar babies. I have no staying power, financially. Our four months was a pretty good run by my standards. Now my wallet is resting and gasping for air.

Penny is doing ok money-wise as a stripper and hence doesn't really need me. She stated that she "really liked" me and at a later point said that she "loved" me, though the illusion of sentimentality was undoubtedly part of her hustle and she calmly accepted it when I said I had to quit. My interpretation was that she liked me enough to encourage with the arrangement.

She said she'd bake me a cake. A nice chocolate cake. On 3 occasions she promised a cake, but I didn't actually receive one. The first time something came up and we had to cancel the date and she gave the cake to her family instead. The second time she promised a cake but forgot to bake it before she came to me. The third time, she allegedly did bake the cake but forgot to bring it to the date. I guess it's the thought that counts.

DtForMe

09-16-24, 23:16

Pm me her # ill bake a cake for her and send it to you why

A short update. I recently called it quits with Penny, mostly due to financial reasons. It's my usual problem with sugar babies. I have no staying power, financially. Our four months was a pretty good run by my standards. Now my wallet is resting and gasping for air.

Penny is doing ok money-wise as a stripper and hence doesn't really need me. She stated that she "really liked" me and at a later point said that she "loved" me, though the illusion of sentimentality was undoubtedly part of her hustle and she calmly accepted it when I said I had to quit. My interpretation was that she liked me enough to encourage with the arrangement.

She said she'd bake me a cake. A nice chocolate cake. On 3 occasions she promised a cake, but I didn't actually receive one. The first time something came up and we had to cancel the date and she gave the cake to her family instead. The second time she promised a cake but forgot to bake it before she came to me. The third time, she allegedly did bake the cake but forgot to bring it to the date. I guess it's the thought that counts..

BumbaCloth

09-17-24, 12:59

She sent me a message the other day a little on the older side but if she's down might TOFTT. Anyone talked to her before?

https://members.seeking.com/member/24ffcf15-3277-4a5f-8ac3-9cc474893913

UsaWaw

09-17-24, 17:05

She sent me a message the other day a little on the older side but if she's down might TOFTT. Anyone talked to her before?

https://members.seeking.com/member/24ffcf15-3277-4a5f-8ac3-9cc474893913She messaged me some months ago but I haven't been back yet to meet. At the time she wanted to do the meet for dinner once before fun to see if she was into it, which is great if you have the time. She's older but still younger than me and looks to be in pretty good shape. It's all about the skills and enthusiasm in the sex dept so would also love to hear if anyone has met up with her.

Father Glucose

09-30-24, 15:59

Got a text from an old SB I hadn't seen in a while and it got me thinkin. What's going on in the sugarbowl? Not as much activity on the this site as it used to be.

BumbaCloth

10-01-24, 13:22

Got a text from an old SB I hadn't seen in a while and it got me thinkin. What's going on in the sugarbowl? Not as much activity on the this site as it used to be.Lately it seems like most SBs only want compensated meet & greets or dinner dates. Others SBs think this is New York or Miami with what they are asking for.

Father Glucose

10-01-24, 13:49

Lately it seems like most SBs only want compensated meet & greets or dinner dates. Others SBs think this is New York or Miami with what they are asking for.Yeah, thanks. I was debating going back on seeking for a month to see what happens but I think I'll hold off for a bit.

Buwanda

10-01-24, 15:57

Yeah, thanks. I was debating going back on seeking for a month to see what happens but I think I'll hold off for a bit.To me they're all over priced with limited options any more. Completely and totally ridiculous! They all in their 20's, yeh right! All petite, 5' 3" AND 150# and expect family support in addition to providing limited services and most are now outcall or expect you to pay for the room! $3/ hr is my limit, anything more and I'm look'in else where!

Just my humble, senior two cents!

BumbaCloth

10-01-24, 17:44

To me they're all over priced with limited options any more. Completely and totally ridiculous! They all in their 20's, yeh right! All petite, 5' 3" AND 150# and expect family support in addition to providing limited services and most are now outcall or expect you to pay for the room! $3/ hr is my limit, anything more and I'm look'in else where!

Just my humble, senior two cents!It's not just the young ones, you got the late 30's & 40 somethings thinking this pretty woman were they just want to get treated with no reciprocation or do bare minimum and expect to compensate like they are in their 20's.

GiveItRaw10

10-25-24, 18:52

Hey mates, been out for a bit and out of the area for a good minute.

Decided to jump in the SB seen again. Came across this beauty. https://members.seeking.com/member/30854c0d-9f2c-4b36-9f5d-b06c42c86013.

She has an OF but can tell its been inactive on it. She is very upfront when texting. I'm not trying to incriminate myself through text, but she definitely gets to the point with the rates / sessions / dos / donts. I've tried not to answer back with the topic of ppm rates and what all I want, soni tried asking if we could meet somewhere in public to chat about it. She thought that was weird. Instead, she wanted the address of where we would meet up (privately) whether it be my home or a hotel. What yall think? Spammer, or LEO? Has anyone met her?

Cheers and be safe.

GiveItRaw10

11-04-24, 08:12

Eagle7415

11-06-24, 21:37

https://members.seeking.com/member/6847a16c-ef76-4c65-bb27-338830f2a8d9

This lady, pic are accurate but will play games and stand you up at a restaurant. Be careful. Seniors PM for more details.

BugsyInnc

11-06-24, 22:56

https://members.seeking.com/member/6847a16c-ef76-4c65-bb27-338830f2a8d9

This lady, pic are accurate but will play games and stand you up at a restaurant. Be careful. Seniors PM for more details.How about sharing with everyone? Been chatting with her too and a few red flags. Hadn't pulled the trigger yet. Please share.

EasyeOne

11-08-24, 21:26

How about sharing with everyone? Been chatting with her too and a few red flags. Hadn't pulled the trigger yet. Please share.She's been reviewed over the years, a few boards in NC and here. Example post #2649.

By now she is more of a pro and tends to overbook. Or maybe goes with the higher amount.

BugsyInnc

11-15-24, 19:23

Any info? Chatting with this one.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a22a612c-5721-4009-9bbe-786e821a4790

BumbaCloth

11-25-24, 19:34

Don't know who's spending 6 ben franks on a 60 year old pro?

https://members.seeking.com/member/74910d46-0449-4b9e-812e-e63334ad1a42

https://www.eros.com/virginia/files/2924755.htm?cat=4594

Father Glucose

11-26-24, 10:05

Don't know who's spending 6 ben franks on a 60 year old pro?

https://members.seeking.com/member/74910d46-0449-4b9e-812e-e63334ad1a42

https://www.eros.com/virginia/files/2924755.htm?cat=4594Damn! Thats what she quoted? Curious if its the same off the eros ad. Not curious enough to ask myself though. LOL.

BugsyInnc

11-26-24, 13:40

Damn! Thats what she quoted? Curious if its the same off the eros ad. Not curious enough to ask myself though. LOL.Met her via Tinder several (5 or more?) years ago for dinner. Was a total head case, very attractive otherwise. She was searching for a DOM, not my scene, bailed after dinner. Easy to find her local info, she has a profession (beyond her links here), suspect she has an addicition to a certain lifestyle. As always, YMMV.

BumbaCloth

11-26-24, 23:58

Damn! Thats what she quoted? Curious if its the same off the eros ad. Not curious enough to ask myself though. LOL.Yup that was on eros Jillian Fox is cheaper and a little younger plus a porn star. Anyone reviewed her?

BumbaCloth

12-01-24, 06:27

Any info on her?

https://members.seeking.com/member/2f8ce493-ddd5-41ca-8e3a-f4b76fdad736

BumbaCloth

12-03-24, 17:27

What happen to the discount code for SA?

Snake27

12-21-24, 17:46

An update on my slender, pretty 22 yo stripper SB named Penny, who I had given up on in September due to my financial woes. She didn't give up on me, though, and kept talking to me. After I recovered, we resumed our arrangement at a lower rate of meeting. We've met 6 times since October 1 at $300 per meet in a nice hotel 5 minutes from each of our respective homes. Prior to that I think we met 10 times, so a total of 16. We also had lunch at a restaurant a few times; no charge for that. Her apartment is off-limits. A neighbor watches the kids while Penny comes to see me.

At Penny's request, we went to a sex shop (Romantic Kingdom) a couple times to pick out some dildos, outfits, and a stimulant she likes to put on her clit. I also bought her some new stripper shoes. The sex is good and adventurous, worth the $300. She's not burned out and doesn't have a lot of rules like on STG. She doesn't seem to be crazy. For Christmas I bought toys for her 2 little kids and a computer tablet for her. Always be generous with your sugarbaby around Christmas time.

Penny had some trouble with her live-in boyfriend. Apparently a big strong brute who beat her (I saw the bruises many times on her arms and legs), doesn't have a job, cheats on her openly, and steals her cash. He was the father of her 1-year-old. She also has a 4-yo from a previous boyfriend who has abandoned her and somehow avoids paying child support. Through a combination of the police and her family, she managed to get the present boyfriend thrown out. One is tempted to say that she makes poor choices about men, but this is not so clear because a good husband is not necessarily a good father. We see this in many animal species, for example in a certain species of bird the husband helps to build the nest, then the female flies off and fucks another male (father) to obtain superior genes. When the eggs hatch the cuckolded father helps provide food and protection for the chicks. All we can say is that if that bird species is still existing in a million years, these instincts were good.

Snake27

12-21-24, 22:57

An update on my slender, pretty 22 yo stripper SB named Penny, ..... When the eggs hatch the cuckolded father helps provide food and protection for the chicks .....Well, I should have written "cuckolded husband" to be clearer. But the last part of that post was not really about cuckolding or birds, but that sometimes we are driven by instincts beyond our control. Whether it's good or bad, time will tell.

SrUnderbridge

12-28-24, 02:36

She's new to SA, but I've met her from an irl dating site a few years ago.

https://members.seeking.com/member/ac721bff-1518-4de6-85d6-574bec16326c

Had quite a few chats with her, and a nice meetup. Sub and pretty nice.

Wondering if anyone has given her a shot and how you fared. You can PM if you'd like.

BigWhite86

01-23-25, 11:38

This one wanted 1 for meet and greet and 3 in ppm after, said nah to mg fee. Came back later and said would meet anyways without the fee. Didn't show, then messages me about being broke for not paying mg fee.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e6e4b9a3-552c-49de-88d2-38ef462265c9

Stay safe and don't let these 304 ruin your bowl.

- BW.

Passport4

02-07-25, 22:19

I'm currently in Miami since early January, and will be here another 6 weeks. I changed my SA location to Miami. I'm currently not a paid member.

Being much older, in Tidewater I rarely get any profile views even if I favorite a lady, much less any unsolicited offers to view private pictures. I only become paid every 4 months and then contact many potentials for that month. The tidewater board either has the same ladies as 4 months earlier, or ones that have not been online for months. In Miami, it's unbelievable how many views, favorited and unsolicited private pictures I get. Unfortunately, most of them are from different areas of the US with many from the Philippines, Venezuela and other South American countries. In other words, there must be many scammers fishing the Miami area. Additionally, all of the ladies think their shit doesn't stink as they are definitely good diggers, and you can tell that just by reading their page if they are even real. While many are very attractive, many also have the same look, same handbag, and love to post their photos on boats or high end limited production cars. Even most of the fugky ones appear to be gold diggers. SA isn't what it used to be, and probably will continue going down hill. In Tidewater I get messages several times a day from Secret Benefits where I haven't been a paying member of SB for years, all from Tidewater since I didn't change my location. Time to find one interesting lady somewhere and get off of these sites.

UsaWaw

02-08-25, 12:16

Additionally, all of the ladies think their shit doesn't stink as they are definitely good diggers, and you can tell that just by reading their page if they are even real. While many are very attractive, many also have the same look, same handbag, and love to post their photos on boats or high end limited production cars. Even most of the fugky ones appear to be gold diggers. Welcome to South Florida, where literally everything is fake: butt, boobs, lips, face, profiles, life, etc. The goal seems to be chasing that "Luxury Lifestyle" which in reality for 99.999% of people just means being in a picture being close to expensive material goods that they will never own and that the people who they are with don't own. Its maddening!

On the plus side, while the SB scene is terrible you have some absolutely incredible pros in the area with extremely reasonable rates given the market.

Buwanda

02-08-25, 13:24

BumbaCloth

02-08-25, 13:44

Anyone I talked to these ladies?

Sadie.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0e1dfe12-09c0-4387-b425-c3bf1985b1a9

DarkCrystal1476.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9eee9fd7-ed1f-443b-9119-ddab3f2a06e7

Kay.

https://members.seeking.com/member/58119846-2ad6-41f5-9872-5b1eba9376cd

UsaWaw

02-10-25, 11:42

Any info on her?

https://members.seeking.com/member/2f8ce493-ddd5-41ca-8e3a-f4b76fdad736She looks so familiar. Definitely get a pro vibe from her but maybe she just knows what's up LOL.

UsaWaw

02-11-25, 10:54

Looks like ol' Alice is back: https://members.seeking.com/member/a39a396e-4010-4315-bd0e-68fda5662c13.

She is so pretty I'm very tempted. I know some people have seen her and I didn't find anything concrete in the search, I'd love to hear details if anyone has them.

GAGuy2020

02-13-25, 10:41

Just finished a run and it was wild. Usually stop around v-day because it goes stale with these broken 304's getting "boyfriends" or they stop cheating on broke bf for a bit to feel like a real relationship but they back to single right after. LOL.

The most wild experience was seeing a girl in prison posting and texting. Trying to sell pics and ask for money on her books. She don't get out for months.

Ran in to a few OF girls secretly sleeping around on the side but broken 304 thought she could over charge 600-1000, because some fool paid that. Don't pay that much! These are still trailer park girls hiding behind makeup! You can get a Latina model for $200.

Can get them 1000 girls at 200 plus room so don't inflate these dumb girls self worth to think market value is settling or insulting. Some fool paid that's why they ask. If they are 1000 girls they would not be living in the hood with hood cars (or no car), nobody cares you can afford it but you hurt them when they need to be grounded back to earth later.

Had a good time with black / Latina mix girls this round but they are crazy and not sustainable long term. Bipolar! Love the thickness!

Went traveling and there are hidden gems but DC and Richmond have some stupid whales paying 200 girls at 600+ so you pay higher for trash. Humbled some delusional girls with almost no effort to hit. Funny part is met a DC girl from Virginia Beach. LOL.

Had to shut down tons of scammers! Stop paying for photos of these girls or supporting online only! SB is not OF! Had to teach these new / dumb girls class and they need to send for free if they are selling met ups, no surprises of bad bodies at these prices. Plus all girls must meet!

If they think free photos is giving away value, they have no other value. Do your part and don't pay because so many just following the pattern of OF programming. One long term girl I had for less than 200 was scamming some idiot hundred to talk online and paying for her nails / hair where I was hitting it for 1/2 of what he paid.

Also this ain't a pay pig kink site so stop there is other places for that.

Last good experience was 19-20 year old with broke boyfriend. Many good times and funny to see them sneaking around. Be safe, don't overpay, call out scammers.

Scorpio22

02-13-25, 11:39

Just finished a run and it was wild. Usually stop around v-day because it goes stale with these broken 304's getting "boyfriends" or they stop cheating on broke bf for a bit to feel like a real relationship but they back to single right after. LOL.

The most wild experience was seeing a girl in prison posting and texting. Trying to sell pics and ask for money on her books. She don't get out for months.

Ran in to a few OF girls secretly sleeping around on the side but broken 304 thought she could over charge 600-1000, because some fool paid that. Don't pay that much! These are still trailer park girls hiding behind makeup! You can get a Latina model for $200.

Can get them 1000 girls at 200 plus room so don't inflate these dumb girls self worth to think market value is settling or insulting. Some fool paid that's why they ask. If they are 1000 girls they would not be living in the hood with hood cars (or no car), nobody cares you can afford it but you hurt them when they need to be grounded back to earth later.

Had a good time with black / Latina mix girls this round but they are crazy and not sustainable long term. Bipolar! Love the thickness!.Can you post some of the profiles your hooking up with? You don't have to give details. Are you black, white, Latino? I was killing it back in 2017-19 but ever since covid its been a struggle to land multiple girls. A lot of them don't even drive and I'm not paying for ubers back and forth from the southside.

These girls for the most part aren't taking 200 which is what I start off with expecting to do 300. Nobody's going for the cheap nowadays and I was operating out the 120 to 250 range on avg.

UsaWaw

02-13-25, 13:32

Last good experience was 19-20 year old with broke boyfriend. Many good times and funny to see them sneaking around. Be safe, don't overpay, call out scammers.
Damn, that sounds like an awesome run. Care to share some profile links? I'm getting drowned with BS on SA and SB.

Lost Cajun00

02-17-25, 23:45

Nope, she or he whoever the hell you messaging will waste your time. Request deposit. Quoted 200 for a m&g. Told the person, ft instead. Quoted 80. Fake ass profile, complete scammer! I also think this person lurks on this forum.Well I had a totally different experience. After hitting Savannah up on SA, we switch to text. Discussed details. Settled on 3 bills. Came to the room. Nicely made up. Good conversation. Good sex. Will see again when I'm back in the area.

UsaWaw

02-28-25, 10:10

Any info on her?

https://members.seeking.com/member/2f8ce493-ddd5-41ca-8e3a-f4b76fdad736I finally messaged her she wanted to go right to text. She's looking for straight up pay for service but she then asked to buy pics and video. She couldn't manage to send me a sample, either through text or email, then kept asking if I got it and asking for more help for hotel etc. So either really out of it or a direct scammer, either way not worth the trouble which is too bad bc she looks like she could be cute.

BumbaCloth

02-28-25, 22:29

She's new to SA said guys are giving her 800 ppm.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9aa10f3e-d28f-4a59-bf45-46da7d32795b

BumbaCloth

03-09-25, 11:00

TikTok & reddit is ruining the sugar scene. These girls think they are dime pieces in Miami or something? This one wants $1 k ppm for a couple of hours.

Echo.

https://members.seeking.com/member/516ef875-fb36-430c-bb2b-6b6c726fe3be

GAGuy2020

03-09-25, 13:44

So the problem with these girls is that they get tons guys telling them no and one idiot overpaying $600+. So then they think they're worth that one idiot's price. What they fail to realize is that the idiot overpaying typically doesn't revisit or do long-term... showing she's not at that value. Don't be that idiot that overpays she's not worth it.

Literal Brazilian / Colombian upper end models here ask around $250-400 so don't pay the girl next door who lives in the trailer park with caked on makeup covering up skin issues the $1,000 she wants because she's popular on only fans with help from filters.

The funny part is you can expose it further by these girls driving trashy cars living in trailer parks and some still work trashy jobs showing they're not making the money they're trying to charge you. You can splurge every once in awhile or pay a $400 girl $600 to cut the red tape but don't justify the 304 brain by extremely overpaying because you don't care or have the money... It messes up the market and fills these poor 304s heads with delusions that actually ends up hurting them and then the market because other idiots see them asking and getting that on occasion.

Eagle7415

03-09-25, 17:00

https://members.seeking.com/member/f5818f6a-3e39-4f44-9125-309fffc112df

See posts for Dorianne, new profile waste of time.

MrHockey40

03-22-25, 10:36

https://members.seeking.com/member/f5818f6a-3e39-4f44-9125-309fffc112df

See posts for Dorianne, new profile waste of time.I am supposed to meet with her tomorrow.

Passport4

03-24-25, 17:27

Currently, I am a non paying member. I usually sign up for a month about once a quarter, once I have seen new talent, especially ones that have contacted me first, those that favorited me, or those that look interesting to me. But here is what seems to be happening now. I get a lot of messages from ladies who are either not in our area or even in the USA, who I block immediately. I have a pretty wide range of what I want to see on my searches, and once I delete those that are interested in marriage, I search a range in age of 21-60+. But it seems that there are very few new ladies joining, and it is just the same ladies who keep appearing as recently active until some of them disappear to have not logged in in a month or more. I know there are plenty of scammers on Seeking, but it is making me doubtful to bite the bullet and join again for a month. Is Seeking doing this because they know that I check in frequently but am not paying?