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Any experience with this one?
https://members.seeking.com/member/52c99d51-498b-40de-97ef-a907c1aba9c2
I am meeting up with her tomorrow. Will report back.DUDE! Looks like she has on Stripper shoes in a couple of those pics! If so, she's skilled at extracting $ from walking ATMs. Just saying.
Mythbuster
12-20-21, 23:06
https://members.seeking.com/member/e70c7ab7-ca3d-401c-8e05-8a35ce316b78
Saw her a while back. Cute MILF. Pics a little filtered but not bad to look at. A little flabby but not bad considering her age. She was a little nervous but willing. After a quick meet and greet go to the room. She says "no kissing and use a condom". Well. We're already here so I stick my cock in her mouth BB. Meh skills. I put her face down and hit her from behind. She did not quote a number I gave her more than I should have because she was a cool person and she indicated loosening up on the kissing thing if we became more regular.Thank you for the report. I had been talking to her also but I couldn't get over the distance. I'm old and lazy and I'd have to be really motivated to spend more than an hour in a car to see anyone! Did you get so see her in Pennsylvania or did you need to go to NJ.
Rubber Ducky Boston
12-21-21, 14:27
Looks like she either blocked or deleted her account, since its not showing up anymore for me on seeking, but am talking to her now. Actually found her on a different (not sugar related) website, so didn't even have to pay membership to talk to her haha. Anyways, she is 100% a pro based on how she communicates. Rates are slightly higher than I want at 400 ppm, but I'm going to see if that's negotiable, though 400 ppm isn't out of my budget if the person is actually very attractive, in good shape, not old, and doesn't have health or hygiene concerns. Since she is a pro, I have a feeling she's been around though, so I wonder if any of you guys know her, have any info about her.
Too busy during the holidays to meet, but after things slow down, assuming nothing scares me away, or nobody has anything bad to say about her, will probably meet up, and report back.
Socalcasualguy
12-21-21, 18:32
Looks like she either blocked or deleted her account, since its not showing up anymore for me on seeking, but am talking to her now. Actually found her on a different (not sugar related) website, so didn't even have to pay membership to talk to her haha. Anyways, she is 100% a pro based on how she communicates. Rates are slightly higher than I want at 400 ppm, but I'm going to see if that's negotiable, though 400 ppm isn't out of my budget if the person is actually very attractive, in good shape, not old, and doesn't have health or hygiene concerns. Since she is a pro, I have a feeling she's been around though, so I wonder if any of you guys know her, have any info about her.
Too busy during the holidays to meet, but after things slow down, assuming nothing scares me away, or nobody has anything bad to say about her, will probably meet up, and report back.Since she deleted her account, how about posting a pic (s) to help gather intel.
Rubber Ducky Boston
12-21-21, 19:23
Since she deleted her account, how about posting a pic (s) to help gather intel.Well not sure if she deleted the account or blocked, but regardless I don't have photos since I don't have access to her account anymore. Asked her to send proof pictures, she said she would later today. I know its not a lot to go off of. Ill post pics if / when I get them.
The tri-state area used to be a gold mine! Now its beat.
I am holding off until the spring. Wonder how much the price increase is going to be.
Haven't seen her in a while, looks like she made a new profile.
https://members.seeking.com/member/21ef7464-35d8-45ed-b187-c1ae7b28fdd1
The tri-state area used to be a gold mine! Now its beat.
I am holding off until the spring. Wonder how much the price increase is going to be.Membership will be $109.99 / month.
Socalcasualguy
12-29-21, 16:24
Membership will be $109.99 / month.What a rip off!! The site has severely declined in quality over the years, yet the price continues to climb.
BuffBill75
12-30-21, 09:00
https://members.seeking.com/member/25f68d65-c3a1-4fe6-8a7e-1c8cadf77b4f
I'm supposed to meet this one next week. Has anyone seen her before?
Hey gents, I just came across this forum yesterday (when trying to get intel on an SA profile) and, yes, I think I read all 60 pages and it was really eye-opening. Thanks to everyone who has contributed. I hope to reciprocate. As of right now, I'm not bringing anything to the table. I have a couple of fish-on but not in a hurry. Anything that I COULD have commented on in the previous pages has been addressed by others or is stale because the providers are gone. You know, I thought I was being careful but I didn't realize how naive I was until I read this thread. I guess the reasons why I haven't had any bad experiences yet (with subscribers and / or the website) was a combo of not necessarily looking for a college-aged arrangements (my reason was that there would be no common ground but I didn't know how dangerous they could be with blackmail, etc) combined with dumb luck. I mean, I haven't given anyone a reason to report me or get angry but, apparently, you don't need to do that to get in trouble. But maybe what I found most disturbing was to read that someone on this forum gave a heads up to a provider, which is so out-of-bounds. We finally have half a playbook and it was outed. Weak. Especially because he probably did it to gain leverage ("I'll post a bad review". "Where?) or just curry favor. I've only recently started cross-referencing these profiles with escort websites and again, because I've been naive, I was surprised at the large percentage of escorts on SA. At least the ones that didn't necessarily present as an escort in their profile. With all that said, I still think SA offers the best opportunities, at least in my experience. I've gotten almost NOTHING on SB despite a similar approach with despite a lower quality of profiles to choose from. Same with AM. What they have in common is that there are "credits" that you have to use to (try to) communicate with a subscriber. Which gives the site incentive to set up as many bots as possible to eat up your credits so you buy more. SA doesn't have that. Sure, the monthly rate is high and getting higher, but it's up to you how much you get out of it. Anyway, thanks again for the eye-opening intel and the comedy that has come with it. I hope to add something useful despite the older demographics of most of my search terms. Good luck in the new year and be safe.
https://members.seeking.com/member/25f68d65-c3a1-4fe6-8a7e-1c8cadf77b4f
I'm supposed to meet this one next week. Has anyone seen her before?I have talked to her. She seems legit, but because she can't host or even drive. I didn't pull the trigger. She went down to $$$ 5 but with the added expenses with room. I think she is high. She said she would find a way to get to the place if I gave her a time and a place. Later someone else backed out. So sent her a message with a lower rate $$$ and she never responded. I actually found another girl for $$ and hosted which I will post my experience with. It was not good. I think am staying away from the girls that don't aleast drive. If you have a positive experience with Amber DM me and let me know. I think she is fine but probably just an uncover pro provider.
First. We did text back and forth a lot more than the avg. Girl because of the area she is at. Camden near Ben Franklin Bridge she "hosts" I say that lightly.
Anyway I get to her place, row house apartment on a main street. Bottom floor she was waiting on the porch. Well she definitely did not look as good as her pics. But she was super friendly and I had canceled before on her. She can tell I wasn't so willing. She said just come and relax. So I did. Place is somewhat of a mess. We go to a bunk bed. She takes off her clothes and she is very coherent, good but obvious a SW as she looks alittle rough.. She was not as pretty as her pics and very small / shinny. She was shaved nicely. Seemed willing to do what I wanted. So I go with the flow. I figured if I am in a jam she could take care of business. But of course at a way better rate. So she gets right down to business.. Nice and into it, the mic..but her hands were ice cold and rough. Like she is a carpenter. LOL I said to her that I tell you must "party" a lot she said she does but has it together. Anyway told her to switch it up and do k9. I had my own condom. Which I told her and she said good. But could have probably not wore one. I was not taken and chances with her. We probably did it for maybe 5 or so minutes. I want to switch positions but I did not like how the bed and sheets looked. So I told her I wanted an oral finish. Which she said ok. She did ask for the 2 beans. I said you are not some college girl. She said well you agreed to the price and you can have an hour to do what you want. I told her ok. But next time I get a better rate. She said ok and started on she mic..Probably about a minute into that some girl in back part of the apartment said she is home and some other dude needs his stuff. I said what's going on said she don't worry about it. We will just go outside when he gets his stuff we will finish. We go outside for like a minute and I see some young dudes outside too. Not really at her spot but like next door. Its around 3 pm. So no big deal. But I am not trying to get into with anyone around there. At this time my whole mood changed. I said I should get a break. She said oh just wait. I told her I guess its your day. I got things to do and left. I did text her back to say if you finished the job. We could have repeated in the future. But she never responded. Anyway YMMV. But she just a SW that probably borrowing a room and if you dont finish or she gets your mula . Someone interrupts. Didnt stick around to she if she was going to finish.. She does do what you want. Very skinny. Definitely would bag it up.
https://members.seeking.com/member/d4040778-2849-4db9-bfc2-e5d74b64ff3e.
Burbs Monger
01-01-22, 11:28
My general rule of thumb is never let the SB host on the first few dates, especially in suspect neighborhoods. For me, that is a recipe for disaster. I am very clear about that. My philosophy is if I am in 100% control of the date, there is a less likely of things getting out of control. Too many of these stories and things are crazy these days.
Best of luck to those that see a SB at their hosting location but not for me.
Be Safe.
First. We did text back and forth a lot more than the avg. Girl because of the area she is at. Camden near Ben Franklin Bridge she "hosts" I say that lightly.
Anyway I get to her place, row house apartment on a main street. Bottom floor she was waiting on the porch. Well she definitely did not look as good as her pics. But she was super friendly and I had canceled before on her. She can tell I wasn't so willing. She said just come and relax. So I did. Place is somewhat of a mess. We go to a bunk bed. She takes off her clothes and she is very coherent, good but obvious a SW as she looks alittle rough.. She was not as pretty as her pics and very small / shinny. She was shaved nicely. Seemed willing to do what I wanted. So I go with the flow. I figured if I am in a jam she could take care of business. But of course at a way better rate. So she gets right down to business with the BJ. Nice and into it, but her hands were ice cold and rough. Like she is a carpenter. LOL I said to her that I tell you must "party" a lot she said she does but has it together. Anyway told her to switch it up and do k9. I had my own condom. Which I told her and she said good. But could have probably not wore one. I was not taken and chances with her. We probably did it for maybe 10 or so minutes. I want to switch it up but I did not like how the bed and sheets looked. So I told her I wanted an oral finish. Which she said ok. She did ask for the 2 beans. So she we went back to that. Probably about a minute into that some girl in back part of the apartment said she is home and some other dude needs his stuff. I said what's going on said she don't worry about it. We will just go outside when he gets his stuff we will finish. We go outside for like a minute and I see some young dudes outside too. Not really at her spot but like next door. Its around 3 pm. So no big deal. At this time my whole mood changed. I said I should get a break. She said oh just wait. I told her I guess its your day. I got things to do and left. I did text her back to say if you finished the job. We could have repeated in the future. But she never responded. Any YMMV. But she just a SW that probably borrowing a room. She does do what you want. Very skinny. Definitely would bag it up. She changes her name on SA too. https://members.seeking.com/member/d4040778-2849-4db9-bfc2-e5d74b64ff3e.
BuffBill75
01-01-22, 11:47
I have talked to her. She seems legit, but because she can't host or even drive. I didn't pull the trigger. She went down to $$$ 5 but with the added expenses with room. I think she is high. She said she would find a way to get to the place if I gave her a time and a place. Later someone else backed out. So sent her a message with a lower rate $$$ and she never responded. I actually found another girl for $$ and hosted which I will post my experience with. It was not good. I think am staying away from the girls that don't aleast drive. If you have a positive experience with Amber DM me and let me know. I think she is fine but probably just an uncover pro provider.Thanks Brother.
My general rule of thumb is never let the SB host on the first few dates, especially in suspect neighborhoods. For me, that is a recipe for disaster. I am very clear about that. My philosophy is if I am in 100% control of the date, there is a less likely of things getting out of control. Too many of these stories and things are crazy these days.
Best of luck to those that see a SB at their hosting location but not for me.
Be Safe.Yeah that's true. I just don't have a spot for that. Besides renting hotel which adds to the expense and my time is very limited. I have heard of a couple home invasion too, which I have a feeling could be these girls black mailing someone and if you don't pay there pimps invade your house. I did read something like that happening in philly once.
OverKill418
01-02-22, 00:29
Thanks Brother.Tried to get a conversation going with her. Didn't go far.
Burbs Monger
01-02-22, 11:50
That's why I always gauge their interest in a car date. Usually works, you control the date, the location, and the time. Of course, there are still risks, but I believe less than walking into an unknown apartment or house of a stranger.
Best of luck.
Be Safe.
Yeah that's true. I just don't have a spot for that. Besides renting hotel which adds to the expense and my time is very limited. I have heard of a couple home invasion too, which I have a feeling could be these girls black mailing someone and if you don't pay there pimps invade your house. I did read something like that happening in philly once.
Greetings my Philly brothers. I am chatting with this one and thought one of you might have interacted with her even though her profile is fairly new. We've chatted on the phone and she sounds quite sexy.
https://members.seeking.com/member/dceaa79e-0068-4c8c-8b5c-418d9df6a37a
First. We did text back and forth a lot more than the avg. Girl because of the area she is at. Camden near Ben Franklin Bridge she "hosts" I say that lightly.
Anyway I get to her place, row house apartment on a main street. Bottom floor she was waiting on the porch. Well she definitely did not look as good as her pics. But she was super friendly and I had canceled before on her. She can tell I wasn't so willing. She said just come and relax. So I did. Place is somewhat of a mess. We go to a bunk bed. She takes off her clothes and she is very coherent, good but obvious a SW as she looks alittle rough.. She was not as pretty as her pics and very small / shinny. She was shaved nicely. Seemed willing to do what I wanted. So I go with the flow. I figured if I am in a jam she could take care of business. But of course at a way better rate. So she gets right down to business.. Nice and into it, the mic..but her hands were ice cold and rough. Like she is a carpenter. LOL I said to her that I tell you must "party" a lot she said she does but has it together. Anyway told her to switch it up and do k9. I had my own condom. Which I told her and she said good. But could have probably not wore one. I was not taken and chances with her. We probably did it for maybe 5 or so minutes. I want to switch positions but I did not like how the bed and sheets looked. So I told her I wanted an oral finish. Which she said ok. She did ask for the 2 beans. I said you are not some college girl. She said well you agreed to the price and you can have an hour to do what you want. I told her ok. But next time I get a better rate. She said ok and started on she mic..Probably about a minute into that some girl in back part of the apartment said she is home and some other dude needs his stuff. I said what's going on said she don't worry about it. We will just go outside when he gets his stuff we will finish. We go outside for like a minute and I see some young dudes outside too. Not really at her spot but like next door. Its around 3 pm. So no big deal. But I am not trying to get into with anyone around there. At this time my whole mood changed. I said I should get a break. She said oh just wait. I told her I guess its your day. I got things to do and left. I did text her back to say if you finished the job. We could have repeated in the future. But she never responded. Anyway YMMV. But she just a SW that probably borrowing a room and if you dont finish or she gets your mula . Someone interrupts. Didnt stick around to she if she was going to finish.. She does do what you want. Very skinny. Definitely would bag it up.
https://members.seeking.com/member/d4040778-2849-4db9-bfc2-e5d74b64ff3e.She used to post on STG in cherry hill / south jersey and lived in camden.
She aint no sugar baby.
Would appreciate any info on these two. Been chatting past couple of days.
PPM but first meeting is just to chat: https://members.seeking.com/member/e989efae-f3ea-46d9-bde0-bd41c2447ef3. Able to hold a convo.
Stated $$. 5: https://members.seeking.com/member/a35b83dd-43d4-479c-a0ea-48e80b7819ca.
Would appreciate any info on these two. Been chatting past couple of days.
PPM but first meeting is just to chat: https://members.seeking.com/member/e989efae-f3ea-46d9-bde0-bd41c2447ef3. Able to hold a convo.
Stated $$. 5: https://members.seeking.com/member/a35b83dd-43d4-479c-a0ea-48e80b7819ca.The same for me with the top link. She said meet to chat. I still might meet but not sure if it's worth driving to her. If closer I would have by now. Report if you meet her. I'll do the same.
OverKill418
01-05-22, 11:02
If you ever meet this one, she is a thief. Hooked up, went to a room. I had to pee and stupidly left my wallet in my pants. She took 120 $ out and bolted. This was about 2 years ago, but she's back. I know she's in NYC, but don't know if anyone goes up there.
https://members.seeking.com/member/be023f32-e2fc-4c67-841b-9374ba3d7f5e
FlyGuyEddie007
01-05-22, 18:03
If you ever meet this one, she is a thief. Hooked up, went to a room. I had to pee and stupidly left my wallet in my pants. She took 120 $ out and bolted. This was about 2 years ago, but she's back. I know she's in NYC, but don't know if anyone goes up there.
https://members.seeking.com/member/be023f32-e2fc-4c67-841b-9374ba3d7f5eFollow the golden monger rules my friend. All providers will rip you off leaving your wallet unattended! You should be thankful she didn't take your whole wallet and just throw it away and then you lose your IDs credit cards as well as the money.
Always always always always! Only take the money with you you're willing to spend lock up your wallet your phone other personal items in your car prior to going in for an in call.
If you're doing a cardate always lock up your stuff in the trunk prior to doing the car date these girls will go through your pockets while they're giving you a BJ!
There are a lot of thieves on there. I learned the hard way and was ripped off twice when I first started and was naive. Besides hiding your money or not leaving it unattended when you go to the bathroom another thing is don't ever pay up front even at your place or in a hotel. They can always take the money, get ready to leave, and say they will scream and accuse you of something if you prevent them from leaving with the money. If they insist maybe show them you have the money and tell them you were ripped off before when handing money over at the beginning. It's better for them to leave without you getting any action than to risk being ripped off.
OverKill418
01-06-22, 00:34
There are a lot of thieves on there. I learned the hard way and was ripped off twice when I first started and was naive. Besides hiding your money or not leaving it unattended when you go to the bathroom another thing is don't ever pay up front even at your place or in a hotel. They can always take the money, get ready to leave, and say they will scream and accuse you of something if you prevent them from leaving with the money. If they insist maybe show them you have the money and tell them you were ripped off before when handing money over at the beginning. It's better for them to leave without you getting any action than to risk being ripped off.Yup never pay until she leaves.
SweetGirl. Just an FYI -- because I'm usually after soccer moms but know that most of you guys are more interested in "college" girls: 5'7 24 year-old Latina w F / T legit job wanted $500 PPM / allowance and could not host. Says she got that from previous arrangements. Eventually went down to $400. Declined over a combo of that number, no face pic, and logistics with our schedules. https://members.seeking.com/member/0f253852-fd76-4b3e-93ff-0ff976b7a7bb..
EscapeReality. 24 year old Asian w F / T legit job. Corresponded a bit about work stuff and not donations because, from the language of her profile, she doesn't seem hung up on $. Allegedly. Let it fade because I wasn't feeling it. https://members.seeking.com/member/45fb366f-7822-446a-8189-3b8267f02db0.
Sweetbabiixo. 24 year old Great photo. Quick initial correspondence about how she isn't on the site much. Seemed promising but she read and did not respond to the last message after expressing interest. Oh well. https://members.seeking.com/member/7b0775a1-de1d-4e34-a268-7ffde044fc7e.
WanderingTraveller. 32 year old East Indian. Says she's in town for a month. Very brief correspondence that went nowhere. https://members.seeking.com/member/fa9ad8d4-8441-4056-9f07-485910d1d841.
Not very helpful, but could save you time.
I have 2 prospects. One is a pro (and very responsive) and the other one I suspect is pro (comes & goes) but there is nothing about her on any sites or any of this forum. I'll report back. Good luck.
https://members.seeking.com/member/4bc47e7a-9c54-435f-a5cf-764afad901e4
This one's a treasure. She wants 7 bills per meet. I did have one with whom I chatted who went as high as a thou, but otherwise this is a high-water mark for me.
I told her she was rubber-room insane.
BuffBill75
01-07-22, 13:37
https://members.seeking.com/member/4bc47e7a-9c54-435f-a5cf-764afad901e4
This one's a treasure. She wants 7 bills per meet. I did have one with whom I chatted who went as high as a thou, but otherwise this is a high-water mark for me.
I told her she was rubber-room insane.I told her the same thing.
OverKill418
01-07-22, 13:44
I told her the same thing.I'm meeting a NYC girl that's way more hotter than her and she only wants 500 $ pmm. That's a little over my usual but might rather see top shelf fewer per month, than trash more per month.
This girl is cute, but for 700, she needs model looks and doesn't have it.
OverKill418
01-07-22, 13:46
Follow the golden monger rules my friend. All providers will rip you off leaving your wallet unattended! You should be thankful she didn't take your whole wallet and just throw it away and then you lose your IDs credit cards as well as the money.
Always always always always! Only take the money with you you're willing to spend lock up your wallet your phone other personal items in your car prior to going in for an in call.
If you're doing a cardate always lock up your stuff in the trunk prior to doing the car date these girls will go through your pockets while they're giving you a BJ!Sometimes the most valuable lesson has a high price.
OverKill418
01-07-22, 13:51
Kayla and me had Meetup set. She texts me to say we are on and asks where to meet. I pick two places close to her and said pick one. Never heard back. Typical time wasted.
https://members.seeking.com/member/adb62edf-8f0d-4a5b-9246-b9244eac8ece
Kayla and me had Meetup set. She texts me to say we are on and asks where to meet. I pick two places close to her and said pick one. Never heard back. Typical time wasted.
https://members.seeking.com/member/adb62edf-8f0d-4a5b-9246-b9244eac8eceNever make a chick think. Especially at a first meeting. They won't. It's too much effort for them.
My guess is, you were outbid for her time and charms.
HollywoodGuy
01-07-22, 14:15
I have had decent success with negotiating once I get there, but I struggle with my first move. How do you cut through the bullshit without scaring them off? Obviously there are some who actively seek ppm (including the high volume ones) and they are easy to talk to. But what about those who are open to it but don't want to admit it right away? I don't have time to pretend to be interested in what they have to say nor is that necessarily effective. FWIW I am relatively young, average looking and only have one pic. Maybe it's one of those factors (and not what I say) that is the problem.Just let them know at some point in the middle of a paragraph, "that you are a very good lover but a very bad faker" nothing more. They'll get the gist of it. Almost always gets their head nodding in agreement.
OverKill418
01-07-22, 14:23
Never make a chick think. Especially at a first meeting. They won't. It's too much effort for them.
My guess is, you were outbid for her time and charms.Possible. She literally said we were on and then nothing. Possible she had more than one option and just decided at the spur of the moment. To be fair, don't need the drama and flakiness. For all I know, she did some dope and passed out. I have meetings the next two days, so will see what happens.
Greetings my Philly brothers. I am chatting with this one and thought one of you might have interacted with her even though her profile is fairly new. We've chatted on the phone and she sounds quite sexy.
https://members.seeking.com/member/dceaa79e-0068-4c8c-8b5c-418d9df6a37aThat first picture looks familiar but I can't place her now. Going to look through some old pics I have saved.
Same here, I like her profile, but there's something sneakily familiar. Not saying that's a red flag, just saying the hairs on the back of my neck tell me I know her somehow.
That first picture looks familiar but I can't place her now. Going to look through some old pics I have saved.
That first picture looks familiar but I can't place her now. Going to look through some old pics I have saved.Nope, can't find one, I tried.
I reached out to this one. Quoted $$ then went to $$ just to watch her eat / drink. Said men pay her that amount but was willing to "work" with me. Lectured me on the definition of a hooker. Hard pass.I talked to her after your post. Tried and tried to meet but she wouldn't bend unless I would to pay her 200 for at least our first platonic meet. She expected the $ before our date began. No guarantees after that. I suggested multiple options and got shot down every time. Got hours of phone time and umpteen texts.
She was 100% focused on not connecting the help to sex. Too bad because I really like her look and if she could get past that point....I just couldn't see taking the chance on one or more dates and it never progressing.
PH.
With all these scammers and flakes on SA I can guarantee that the few who are worth anything and ask for reasonable payment can get as many hookups as they want. For instance, if you find an attractive young white woman on SA with a good attitude who gives a girlfriend experience for say 200 to 300 don't think because you keep her to yourself she is low volume. Even though she may tell you she is looking for one regular she might just be as busy as escorts advertising on certain websites.
Fireball25
01-07-22, 22:37
I talked to her after your post. Tried and tried to meet but she wouldn't bend unless I would to pay her 200 for at least our first platonic meet. She expected the $ before our date began. No guarantees after that. I suggested multiple options and got shot down every time. Got hours of phone time and umpteen texts.
She was 100% focused on not connecting the help to sex. Too bad because I really like her look and if she could get past that point....I just couldn't see taking the chance on one or more dates and it never progressing.
PH.Sorry you had the same experience. I'm surprised I haven't seen this one on here.
https://members.seeking.com/member/d842174e-dbbf-43c7-aa9c-622e6a3f5680
She is on and off, but couldn't establish a connection to ultimately meet. I would have liked to meet her.
Sorry you had the same experience. I'm surprised I haven't seen this one on here.
https://members.seeking.com/member/d842174e-dbbf-43c7-aa9c-622e6a3f5680
She is on and off, but couldn't establish a connection to ultimately meet. I would have liked to meet her.Seriously- I would take the day off work in the blink of a eye for that.
Interesting how she is a dancer so she could get any number of guys from her job in after hours play but she specifically mentions she doesn't want to escort. So if I am reading her profile right she is looking for more than a quick FC. More traditional SB- hang out, go places and do things together then fun after.
If that's the case she already knows her 'value' I wouldn't touch the money subject until I met her and got a good feeling of what she is truly looking for. She might just be that true SB with a real kink.
PH.
OverKill418
01-08-22, 12:32
Seriously- I would take the day off work in the blink of a eye for that.
Interesting how she is a dancer so she could get any number of guys from her job in after hours play but she specifically mentions she doesn't want to escort. So if I am reading her profile right she is looking for more than a quick FC. More traditional SB- hang out, go places and do things together then fun after.
If that's the case she already knows her 'value' I wouldn't touch the money subject until I met her and got a good feeling of what she is truly looking for. She might just be that true SB with a real kink.
PH.Like anything else, your value is what the market will offer. I see guitars occasionally and know that what I think and what is offered as a fair price is dependent on the buyer. Too many of these girls brag that they know their worth, when they don't even know the competition. Usually it's the mediocre looking ones with the worst attitude. Just like a girl wearing 50 $ of Walmart clothing telling me she likes the finer things in life. When she probably can't tell the difference between champagne and dishwasher soap.
OverKill418
01-08-22, 12:41
There are a lot of thieves on there. I learned the hard way and was ripped off twice when I first started and was naive. Besides hiding your money or not leaving it unattended when you go to the bathroom another thing is don't ever pay up front even at your place or in a hotel. They can always take the money, get ready to leave, and say they will scream and accuse you of something if you prevent them from leaving with the money. If they insist maybe show them you have the money and tell them you were ripped off before when handing money over at the beginning. It's better for them to leave without you getting any action than to risk being ripped off.Love this advice and used it last night. Had a girl that wanted me to come to her place last night. She added new pics and she looked about 25 lbs thinner than her first group of pics. So, I'm thinking chemical demons. She also kept telling me up about how great I was and that she was there to make me happy. So, another warning sign. Starting to sound too good to be true.
I go to her address and it's really a bad area, next to a bad town with very high crime rates. I was like, this can go real bad and my inner voice was screaming that I need to get out of there. I also have a relatively expensive car and didn't want it stolen. I text her that I wasn't going to leave my car there and if she wanted to see me, will get her and go to a hotel, or she can meet me. She responded that she didn't have a car and was not just getting in mine.
I thought with my head, not my dick and I'm worried she's setting me up. I blocked her and went home. Enjoyed a night with my medical weed from the NJ dispensary and later, got a message from a girl in Philly that wants to meet tonight. So, alll good in the end.
Overkill418 that was a good move getting out of there. It's probably better she didn't get in your car. It might have been hard getting rid of her. For instance, I met someone at a seedy hotel in bad area and told her I would take her so someplace else. She got in the car and said she owed money and needed to bring it in the hotel first. To make it short, I ended up giving her $20 just so she would leave the car. I got out of dodge and a few minutes later she texts saying she needs more money. That was the last I ever heard from her, thank God.
OverKill418
01-10-22, 18:52
Overkill418 that was a good move getting out of there. It's probably better she didn't get in your car. It might have been hard getting rid of her. For instance, I met someone at a seedy hotel in bad area and told her I would take her so someplace else. She got in the car and said she owed money and needed to bring it in the hotel first. To make it short, I ended up giving her $20 just so she would leave the car. I got out of dodge and a few minutes later she texts saying she needs more money. That was the last I ever heard from her, thank God.Hooked with a cool girl from SA who lives in South Philly. Today, she asks me to send 125 $ for groceries. I told her that I don't use any cash apps and can't help her until next week. Obviously, have meets with two others before I'm supposed to see her again.
Seems like many of the SA dates think that once we have been together a time or two they are entitled to ask for an advance at any time. I make it clear upfront that I won't do that LOL. I recently dumped a great long term regular for that bs. Now she's asking to get back together.
Runner.
Hooked with a cool girl from SA who lives in South Philly. Today, she asks me to send 125 $ for groceries. I told her that I don't use any cash apps and can't help her until next week. Obviously, have meets with two others before I'm supposed to see her again.
Hooked with a cool girl from SA who lives in South Philly. Today, she asks me to send 125 $ for groceries. I told her that I don't use any cash apps and can't help her until next week. Obviously, have meets with two others before I'm supposed to see her again.Does the grocery money request off-set her coolness or will you go back?
OverKill418
01-11-22, 12:39
Seems like many of the SA dates think that once we have been together a time or two they are entitled to ask for an advance at any time. I make it clear upfront that I won't do that LOL. I recently dumped a great long term regular for that bs. Now she's asking to get back together.
Runner.I honestly think much of it is a control game. I did have one that I was seeing a few months, she asked me to cover her emergency dental bill. I did, thinking after a few months, why rip me off now? I also just lost my mom and was kinda distracted and thinking what kind of degenerate would try and scam me now? Well she ghosted after that. Another lesson learned. She actually called a few months later saying that she was sorry and felt so bad. She wanted to come see me and make it up. Then asked for 400 $ to cover her college tuition. I said no and blocked her. She started messaging me on Facebook, calling me from burner numbers, calling from her work phone ect. Begging me to take her back and that she learned that she needs to make amends and be a better person. All bullcrap.
Anyone have any info on Cyn? Seems relatively new but has been in this game before.
https://members.seeking.com/member/87a8fc77-75a0-4bde-825f-471adea64718
Have been chatting recently but nothing finalized. Will report back if I get more but looking for ppm and wanted some concrete numbers if anyone knew previously.
Philly is the dreggs.
If you can't confirm she's a legit single mom, a college girl or atleast has a car and drives. AVOID.
I honestly think much of it is a control game. I did have one that I was seeing a few months, she asked me to cover her emergency dental bill. I did, thinking after a few months, why rip me off now? I also just lost my mom and was kinda distracted and thinking what kind of degenerate would try and scam me now? Well she ghosted after that. Another lesson learned. She actually called a few months later saying that she was sorry and felt so bad. She wanted to come see me and make it up. Then asked for 400 $ to cover her college tuition. I said no and blocked her. She started messaging me on Facebook, calling me from burner numbers, calling from her work phone ect. Begging me to take her back and that she learned that she needs to make amends and be a better person. All bullcrap.
Wow! Sorry to hear you had a girl stalking you on FB, calling from burner numbers, etc. Something like that is why I have a Sugar identity and why, to me, OpSec is so critical. Text / Voice App layered on top of a burner number is my approach. I find a wacko like that it's time to get a new App number. IF that fails, the Delaware River figures in the future of the phone and a new burner. Start over. Hope you can eventually lose this girl. Good luck!
OverKill418
01-11-22, 23:40
Wow! Sorry to hear you had a girl stalking you on FB, calling from burner numbers, etc. Something like that is why I have a Sugar identity and why, to me, OpSec is so critical. Text / Voice App layered on top of a burner number is my approach. I find a wacko like that it's time to get a new App number. IF that fails, the Delaware River figures in the future of the phone and a new burner. Start over. Hope you can eventually lose this girl. Good luck!Yeah I did, she gave up. Haven't seen her on SA for a while, I just hopped back on this month. It's all good, I'm divorced, nothing to hide, was kinda funny seeing her go through such dramatics. She much have run out of marks to grift.
Member #6218
01-13-22, 15:07
think that once we have been together a time or two they are entitled to ask for an advance at any timeI learned this lesson with my first Stripper SB. We were cool at first then it was like a faucet. She wouldn't leave me alone. Even called the wife. Tg for cool wife. Any who.
Best app ever. I tell them I use it and that when it is on, I am playing. Cuts those calls down. Textfree. Us.
This is about SA profiles in particular. I've noticed a pattern where someone claims to be "new to the area", they are very attractive (so that's 2 red flags), are quick to reply to any contact and then, after just one or two exchanges, ask for your cell phone number. (3rd red flag). I don't have a burner or an app, so I usually ignore fast requests. Especially if they didn't view my profile (but I know you can stop those notifications if you want). Anyway, two days ago, one of them gave me her number (Boston area code despite the stated DE location) and asked for mine. Instead of ignoring her, I let curiosity get the best of me. I asked her where she was located and she was able to respond consistent to her stated location on the profile, but then I ignored her after that anyway and she blocked me. Yesterday, a very TBTBT candidate showed up and again, rapid response to exchange cell phone numbers and meet. I answered her request for my number by writing something along the lines of "I'd rather communicate on this platform at least for a little longer, if that's ok. " I was immediately blocked.
So my question is, What do they get out of the "scam" to get your cell phone number? Sell it to solicitors of extended car warranties? What else can be done if they simply have your number other than doing a reverse search and finding out your name, age and where you live? I'm sure I'm coming across as a moron but I thought I'd ask. Please be gentle.
Burbs Monger
01-14-22, 17:43
I believe they are bots or scammers. A phone is valuable for scammers as they use them to send malware links to your cell hoping you will click on them.
You should definitely get one of the following- a burner phone, google voice, WhatsApp, or any number of texting apps. Using your real number is foolish.
Be Safe.
This is about SA profiles in particular. I've noticed a pattern where someone claims to be "new to the area", they are very attractive (so that's 2 red flags), are quick to reply to any contact and then, after just one or two exchanges, ask for your cell phone number. (3rd red flag). I don't have a burner or an app, so I usually ignore fast requests. Especially if they didn't view my profile (but I know you can stop those notifications if you want). Anyway, two days ago, one of them gave me her number (Boston area code despite the stated DE location) and asked for mine. Instead of ignoring her, I let curiosity get the best of me. I asked her where she was located and she was able to respond consistent to her stated location on the profile, but then I ignored her after that anyway and she blocked me. Yesterday, a very TBTBT candidate showed up and again, rapid response to exchange cell phone numbers and meet. I answered her request for my number by writing something along the lines of "I'd rather communicate on this platform at least for a little longer, if that's ok. " I was immediately blocked.
So my question is, What do they get out of the "scam" to get your cell phone number? Sell it to solicitors of extended car warranties? What else can be done if they simply have your number other than doing a reverse search and finding out your name, age and where you live? I'm sure I'm coming across as a moron but I thought I'd ask. Please be gentle.
I believe they are bots or scammers. A phone is valuable for scammers as they use them to send malware links to your cell hoping you will click on them.
You should definitely get one of the following- a burner phone, google voice, WhatsApp, or any number of texting apps. Using your real number is foolish.
Be Safe.Thanks. I appreciate the feedback. Have a great weekend everyone.
This is about SA profiles in particular. I've noticed a pattern where someone claims to be "new to the area", they are very attractive (so that's 2 red flags), are quick to reply to any contact and then, after just one or two exchanges, ask for your cell phone number. (3rd red flag). I don't have a burner or an app, so I usually ignore fast requests. Especially if they didn't view my profile (but I know you can stop those notifications if you want). Anyway, two days ago, one of them gave me her number (Boston area code despite the stated DE location) and asked for mine. Instead of ignoring her, I let curiosity get the best of me. I asked her where she was located and she was able to respond consistent to her stated location on the profile, but then I ignored her after that anyway and she blocked me. Yesterday, a very TBTBT candidate showed up and again, rapid response to exchange cell phone numbers and meet. I answered her request for my number by writing something along the lines of "I'd rather communicate on this platform at least for a little longer, if that's ok. " I was immediately blocked.
So my question is, What do they get out of the "scam" to get your cell phone number? Sell it to solicitors of extended car warranties? What else can be done if they simply have your number other than doing a reverse search and finding out your name, age and where you live? I'm sure I'm coming across as a moron but I thought I'd ask. Please be gentle.Several years ago there was an outfit called "Exposing Johns" that posted on CL & BP. They got dudes to respond to adverts and send texts about sex for money or sex acts they wanted to perform on the "girl", using their cell phone numbers. For those that could be I'd'ed through SM or other means as IRL people, the site posted their IRL name and phone number on a easily search engine found website. Nothing like a spouse, girl friend or potential employer finding your explicit texts on that website! But alas they were good guys and for $500 payment would scrub your information off their site! I see no reason why this kind of scam couldn't work on SA, after all women are free members.
Just because you haven't thought of a scam, doesn't mean the next oe isn't just around the corner. Feel free to monger for escorts or sugar babies using your real name & number. Just be prepared to suffer consequences.
One should follow the same "rules' as online mongering when on SA too.
IWe were cool at first then it was like a faucet. She wouldn't leave me alone. Even called the wife. Tg for cool wife.How did that happen? And the wife was OK with it?
Not sure how the OP does it without a burner but when you discuss allowance it should be off the site or else some disgruntled chic can report you and get you banned for talking about allowances and $$ A lot of the pros on there will quickly try to move you to text for the same reason. They have probably been reported before so they move off the site to talk $$ They don't want to waste time chatting it up if your allowance is too low or if you don't seem serious.
Several years ago there was an outfit called "Exposing Johns" that posted on CL & BP. They got dudes to respond to adverts and send texts about sex for money or sex acts they wanted to perform on the "girl", using their cell phone numbers. For those that could be I'd'ed through SM or other means as IRL people, the site posted their IRL name and phone number on a easily search engine found website. Nothing like a spouse, girl friend or potential employer finding your explicit texts on that website! But alas they were good guys and for $500 payment would scrub your information off their site! I see no reason why this kind of scam couldn't work on SA, after all women are free members.
Just because you haven't thought of a scam, doesn't mean the next oe isn't just around the corner. Feel free to monger for escorts or sugar babies using your real name & number. Just be prepared to suffer consequences.
One should follow the same "rules' as online mongering when on SA too.
I believe they are bots or scammers. A phone is valuable for scammers as they use them to send malware links to your cell hoping you will click on them.
You should definitely get one of the following- a burner phone, google voice, WhatsApp, or any number of texting apps. Using your real number is foolish.
Be Safe.I used Pinger. Basically a fake number for texting and in a pinch as a phone. When I was still married I buried it deep in a folder on my phone and turned off all notifications so a "new message" notice wouldn't pop up that my wife could see. And it has a block function, so if someone goes off the rails you can just block her.
Any info on SA Saint?
https://members.seeking.com/member/d26978e1-60dc-4bb8-9e8b-73913bb63610
Messaged and immediately told me to text her at (610) 931-8796. So far $$ so kinda steep.
OverKill418
01-16-22, 13:53
Not sure how the OP does it without a burner but when you discuss allowance it should be off the site or else some disgruntled chic can report you and get you banned for talking about allowances and $$ A lot of the pros on there will quickly try to move you to text for the same reason. They have probably been reported before so they move off the site to talk $$ They don't want to waste time chatting it up if your allowance is too low or if you don't seem serious.Met a smoking hot one in NYC. She only talks business via facetime or WhatsApp. Kinda like it, you know what your are getting and no proof.
This is about SA profiles in particular. I've noticed a pattern where someone claims to be "new to the area", they are very attractive (so that's 2 red flags), are quick to reply to any contact and then, after just one or two exchanges, ask for your cell phone number. (3rd red flag). I don't have a burner or an app, so I usually ignore fast requests. Especially if they didn't view my profile (but I know you can stop those notifications if you want). Anyway, two days ago, one of them gave me her number (Boston area code despite the stated DE location) and asked for mine. Instead of ignoring her, I let curiosity get the best of me. I asked her where she was located and she was able to respond consistent to her stated location on the profile, but then I ignored her after that anyway and she blocked me. Yesterday, a very TBTBT candidate showed up and again, rapid response to exchange cell phone numbers and meet. I answered her request for my number by writing something along the lines of "I'd rather communicate on this platform at least for a little longer, if that's ok. " I was immediately blocked.
So my question is, What do they get out of the "scam" to get your cell phone number? Sell it to solicitors of extended car warranties? What else can be done if they simply have your number other than doing a reverse search and finding out your name, age and where you live? I'm sure I'm coming across as a moron but I thought I'd ask. Please be gentle.The "new to the area" and can't answer any specifics about the area things are definitely red flags. I don't think an out of town area code is a red flag by itself, unless she's saying she was born and raised here. Moving to text quickly isn't really a red flag -- I want to get them to text as fast as possible to stop wasting time and not risk losing their attention. I don't want to sit on SA all day waiting for replies. And I don't know why you wouldn't get an app -- Google voice is free and you could have a number in the time it takes to read this.
I used Pinger. Basically a fake number for texting and in a pinch as a phone. When I was still married I buried it deep in a folder on my phone and turned off all notifications so a "new message" notice wouldn't pop up that my wife could see. And it has a block function, so if someone goes off the rails you can just block her.Yes, the value of the App is you can block someone who goes off the rails. But in extreme cases, you just dump the burner and start over. Less of a headache than burning you IRL phone. But yeah, stuff like layering an App on an IRL phone works, until it doesn't. There are always ways to take short cuts with the rules.
Point is a very active poster here did what you did. Layered an App on his IRL phone. Problem was that often the App failed. Unfortunately the App failed while his SO was borrowing the phone and as a result he's no longer with us.
I know we all tend to take technology for granted and assume it always works. But if it doesn't, then one has to face the consequences. So it is easier to just get a cheap burner and layer an App on that. Seems to be the best OpSec we have these days.
Thanks for all the helpful feedback. I have a few other fish-on with SA and will relay findings when I get to the money part or something else useful. In the meantime, re SA profiles also being on other sites, someone from SA kind of sort of reminds me of an ad that is up every day from Fiona in NE PHL. I have checked this thread and there was some discussion of Fiona awhile ago, the gist of which is that -- even though her photos are dated -- she's still in great shape and is good company. Does anyone know if Fiona has an AKAs?
Yes, the value of the App is you can block someone who goes off the rails. But in extreme cases, you just dump the burner and start over. Less of a headache than burning you IRL phone. But yeah, stuff like layering an App on an IRL phone works, until it doesn't. There are always ways to take short cuts with the rules.
Point is a very active poster here did what you did. Layered an App on his IRL phone. Problem was that often the App failed. Unfortunately the App failed while his SO was borrowing the phone and as a result he's no longer with us.
I know we all tend to take technology for granted and assume it always works. But if it doesn't, then one has to face the consequences. So it is easier to just get a cheap burner and layer an App on that. Seems to be the best OpSec we have these days.Agreed. If my wife took my phone (which is password locked) and really went through it she could have found the app and all the messages. Definitely a risk. That said, the existence of another phone, a burner, if found would have created huge suspicion. Not sure how I could explain away a phone. It could be effectively hidden I suppose, but that implies a trade off between easy access to Pinger and the risk of it being found on my IRL phone.
Thankfully I don't have this problem anymore since I split with my wife. I still use Pinger for my mongering, it keep it off my notifications and to be able to block / ignore pests.
Agreed. If my wife took my phone (which is password locked) and really went through it she could have found the app and all the messages. Definitely a risk. That said, the existence of another phone, a burner, if found would have created huge suspicion. Not sure how I could explain away a phone. It could be effectively hidden I suppose, but that implies a trade off between easy access to Pinger and the risk of it being found on my IRL phone.
Thankfully I don't have this problem anymore since I split with my wife. I still use Pinger for my mongering, it keep it off my notifications and to be able to block / ignore pests.5+ years ago when I was in SA and married, I only communicated thru email. I had a separate email that I logged into incognito on my phone and always closed the browser when done.
Fortunately single today so the past 2 years I've used google voice to communicate.
Been taking a break from SA for a couple months. The return on investment is terrible these days.
(for monthly membership and time spent).
PiesOnlyPlz
01-21-22, 20:17
https://members.seeking.com/member/d31cff26-32c8-4a17-99eb-354389275bd1
Talked to this one both on and off the site. Things were going fine until she requested $600 a meet. I'm never paying that! Maybe you can talk her down. But I didn't even try.
And as far communicating with the babies and not getting caught by the Mrs. I just use the Burner app. This way I don't need a 2nd phone. Plus it's pass word protected so even if she gets my phone, she can't open the app and look at my messages. And if I want to me extra cautious, I hide my burner app in an app hider (the one that looks like a calculator).
https://members.seeking.com/member/d31cff26-32c8-4a17-99eb-354389275bd1
Talked to this one both on and off the site. Things were going fine until she requested $600 a meet. I'm never paying that! Maybe you can talk her down. But I didn't even try.
And as far communicating with the babies and not getting caught by the Mrs. I just use the Burner app. This way I don't need a 2nd phone. Plus it's pass word protected so even if she gets my phone, she can't open the app and look at my messages. And if I want to me extra cautious, I hide my burner app in an app hider (the one that looks like a calculator).Good move! The more dudes who turn down 600 from these girls, the faster they will learn. $600 should buy you a 10 girl off Eros / Tryst who hosts in an upscale Apt or 5-star hotel and perhaps multiple hours at that.
Hey, just saying, but sounds like you are trying to convince yourself you have "good enough" OpSec!
Because you are new I'll relate the story of an App layered on an IRL phone. A prolific poster here did just that: GV layered on his IRL phone. Unfortunately the App failed frequently. One day his SO was borrowing his phone and one of his SBs called, the App failed and the SO was talking to the SB! Needless to say he's no longer with us. So yeah, that "can" work, until it doesn't. You are putting your trust in tech and hoping it doesn't "burp" at the wrong point in time. Don't do that over being "cheap" and not having to buy a second phone, a burner.
Also when I have thought I knew it all and had everything figured out, is when the hobby bites me in the azz. A few bucks in OpSec is sure less than a divorce and loss of 50% of your 401 K, etc. Just make sure, when you take a risk in the hobby that you are aware of the consequences, and willing to accept them when the risk goes against you.
Good luck mongering!
OverKill418
01-22-22, 11:40
Met this girl, had meet up and she was all over me. We even planned a vacation in Costa Rica this summer. When we left the restaurant, she was swapping spit with me and saying how great I am and that she would see me asap. She was supposed to come over and the day she was supposed to, she ghosted. No responses, but still on the site looking. Just a typical goofball. She's on Levittown so just take her with a grain of salt.
Socalcasualguy
01-22-22, 13:05
Met this girl, had meet up and she was all over me. We even planned a vacation in Costa Rica this summer. When we left the restaurant, she was swapping spit with me and saying how great I am and that she would see me asap. She was supposed to come over and the day she was supposed to, she ghosted. No responses, but still on the site looking. Just a typical goofball. She's on Levittown so just take her with a grain of salt.Please don't tell me you gave her any money?
OverKill418
01-22-22, 13:20
Please don't tell me you gave her any money?Ohh hell no. No allowance until you get on your back. Of course found her on Facebook in five minutes.
PiesOnlyPlz
01-22-22, 20:44
Good move! The more dudes who turn down 600 from these girls, the faster they will learn. $600 should buy you a 10 girl off Eros / Tryst who hosts in an upscale Apt or 5-star hotel and perhaps multiple hours at that.
Hey, just saying, but sounds like you are trying to convince yourself you have "good enough" OpSec!
Because you are new I'll relate the story of an App layered on an IRL phone. A prolific poster here did just that: GV layered on his IRL phone. Unfortunately the App failed frequently. One day his SO was borrowing his phone and one of his SBs called, the App failed and the SO was talking to the SB! Needless to say he's no longer with us. So yeah, that "can" work, until it doesn't. You are putting your trust in tech and hoping it doesn't "burp" at the wrong point in time. Don't do that over being "cheap" and not having to buy a second phone, a burner.
Also when I have thought I knew it all and had everything figured out, is when the hobby bites me in the azz. A few bucks in OpSec is sure less than a divorce and loss of 50% of your 401 K, etc. Just make sure, when you take a risk in the hobby that you are aware of the consequences, and willing to accept them when the risk goes against you.
Good luck mongering!Thanks for the advice! I've met with a few other babies recently, I'll be posting some details soon!
I read 2 good reviews on them about "Lilly" with nice photos and a portion of her profile attached. Here's a different version of her profile, so you'll get the gist. https://escortbabylon.net/info_stats/2673694074. This Lilly has also received good reviews on this thread, which is where I got the link from a discussion in June. Anyway, the portion of her profile on them ends with "ask me about my friend Naomi". Or something like that. So I texted yesterday, starting the message with "Lilly" and using it in a few subsequent texts while we made arrangements. I get there, it's clearly not the one from the photos, and she eventually introduces herself as "Naomi". Nice enough girl, but I never would have made an arrangement with her. So, if you want to meet the Lilly in the photos, be sure you pin her down in communications that she's not sending Naomi in from the bullpen. I'm sure I come across as a rookie to some on this thread, but it might help others. Good luck. I think I'm going to stick with EE and some SA. But that's getting tedious too. As this thread has hit on quite a bit recently. I'd rather save up for a nice hosted room with an EE caliber provider than walk through these minefields.
https://members.seeking.com/member/340454fb-a310-4bc1-825f-75c264105f0b
I contacted this one first on SB, then again on SA. On SB we chatted awhile and agreed to meet. After we shared our schedules she claimed she was unable to meet at any of the times that I was free, but offered to sell me pics and videos instead. I asked for one as a sample to see what I was getting but she wouldn't budge. No pics unless I pay. I said no thanks and text me if she has free time to meet. She said OK but of course I never heard from her. A week or two later contacted her on SA. Not sure if she realized I was the same one she chatted with on SB. Anyway, this time I let her share her schedule first. Amazingly she was free so we said let's meet. After going through some details about the meet she pulls the old "before we meet I'm going to need half so I know it's not a scam" out of her ass. LOL. She's, at that point I just say no way and stop chatting. I had another 2 or 3 oull the same shit. If I have time I'll post those too.
Burbs Monger
01-27-22, 14:07
Fellow Mongers,
Been a while since I posted about a decent SB on SA. I have not had the best of luck lately but today hit a diamond in the rough. I am not willing to share a link yet until I ask her permission. She is my type, petite 5' 2", 110 lbs, dark hair br eyes, small boobs. We started texting this morning and by 11:30 I was balls deep. We negotiated for quick oral service for 1 bill, but once we got started and I wanted to sample more. She wanted 2 bills for safe play I countered with 3 bills for a non latex experience. I believe she needed it just as much as I did, so she agreed. As always, YMMV.
She is local in montgo county for you suburb dwellers and she drives. She definitely sounds and performed like a wild minx, very sloppy oral and very vocal. No trips to the islands but sounds open to a trifecta experience. I am seeing her tomorrow for another lunch quickie.
Be patient and diligent and things seem to work out.
Best of luck and Be Safe.
Fellow Mongers,
Been a while since I posted about a decent SB on SA. I have not had the best of luck lately but today hit a diamond in the rough. I am not willing to share a link yet until I ask her permission. She is my type, petite 5' 2", 110 lbs, dark hair br eyes, small boobs. We started texting this morning and by 11:30 I was balls deep. We negotiated for quick oral service for 1 bill, but once we got started and I wanted to sample more. She wanted 2 bills for safe play I countered with 3 bills for a non latex experience. I believe she needed it just as much as I did, so she agreed. As always, YMMV.
She is local in montgo county for you suburb dwellers and she drives. She definitely sounds and performed like a wild minx, very sloppy oral and very vocal. No trips to the islands but sounds open to a trifecta experience. I am seeing her tomorrow for another lunch quickie.Thanks for the review and glad you find a quality SB. She sounds like my type as well.
Petite and willing to things for extra $$.
Hopefully proves don't go up once she gets popular from this site.
Fortunately I'm willing to pay for a months premium unless you want to.
Trade. I have a Russian "friend" not on SA. In Montco.
So I am up in NYC now, but I went on a date a ways back with a mid 20's sb, paisley / paisley lady / Ariel. Saw her on seeking up here, and thinking about messaging her and seeing if she wants to make an arrangement. Anyone have any experience with her? (I'll try to find a link to her seeking profile, but it seems gone).
Fellow Mongers,
Been a while since I posted about a decent SB on SA. I have not had the best of luck lately but today hit a diamond in the rough. I am not willing to share a link yet until I ask her permission. She is my type, petite 5' 2", 110 lbs, dark hair br eyes, small boobs. We started texting this morning and by 11:30 I was balls deep. We negotiated for quick oral service for 1 bill, but once we got started and I wanted to sample more. She wanted 2 bills for safe play I countered with 3 bills for a non latex experience. I believe she needed it just as much as I did, so she agreed. As always, YMMV.
She is local in montgo county for you suburb dwellers and she drives. She definitely sounds and performed like a wild minx, very sloppy oral and very vocal. No trips to the islands but sounds open to a trifecta experience. I am seeing her tomorrow for another lunch quickie.
Be patient and diligent and things seem to work out.
Best of luck and Be Safe.Good work Burbs. I'm having no luck right now finding a replacement for my non latex lady. I just have to keep at it. Eventually, something will work out.
Burbs Monger
01-27-22, 17:49
I would only provide info to known senior contributors who have provided value to the board.
I could be up for a trade depending on her willingness to share her goodies.
Be Safe.
Thanks for the review and glad you find a quality SB. She sounds like my type as well.
Petite and willing to things for extra $$.
Hopefully proves don't go up once she gets popular from this site.
Fortunately I'm willing to pay for a months premium unless you want to.
Trade. I have a Russian "friend" not on SA. In Montco.
I would only provide info to known senior contributors who have provided value to the board.
I could be up for a trade depending on her willingness to share her goodies.
Be Safe.Sent you a PM.
Kindmadame.
https://members.seeking.com/member/1a973670-0936-4c18-92c3-fa9fbcecaab1
Odds favor scam but she shared some pictures that matched the one (and only one) picture on her profile. Tried to sell me them first, then just sent them. She's open to meet but I haven't pressed it. She also hasn't pressed selling them, or directly asked for money since, so who knows.
Mythbuster
01-31-22, 23:29
Kindmadame.
https://members.seeking.com/member/1a973670-0936-4c18-92c3-fa9fbcecaab1
Odds favor scam but she shared some pictures that matched the one (and only one) picture on her profile. Tried to sell me them first, then just sent them. She's open to meet but I haven't pressed it. She also hasn't pressed selling them, or directly asked for money since, so who knows.Did she contact you or did you make 1st contact? I've been contacted by 2 or 3 women out of Delaware who were trying to sell pictures. I don't think it's a Delaware thing just a distance thing. They may figure they can string you along with some promises and use distance as an excuse, IMHO!
Kindmadame.
https://members.seeking.com/member/1a973670-0936-4c18-92c3-fa9fbcecaab1
Odds favor scam but she shared some pictures that matched the one (and only one) picture on her profile. Tried to sell me them first, then just sent them. She's open to meet but I haven't pressed it. She also hasn't pressed selling them, or directly asked for money since, so who knows.She sent me a message too. I'm not a paid member at the moment so can't read it and can't comment on her.
OverKill418
02-01-22, 21:57
She sent me a message too. I'm not a paid member at the moment so can't read it and can't comment on her.Exchanged numbers, tried to sell me pics. I told her to swallow some cyanide tablets. That ended the conversation quickly.
Maybe try some therapy.
Exchanged numbers, tried to sell me pics. I told her to swallow some cyanide tablets. That ended the conversation quickly.
Burbs Monger
02-07-22, 09:45
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https://members.seeking.com/member/31041552-9c23-478a-ad99-22ec001a0b96 Very cool girl. Easy to correspond with. Smart, good sense of humor. North PHL. I allowed the correspondence to trail off because she seems to spend more time in Harrisburg than PHL, doesn't look like she can host and there's some inconsistency with the photos. I'm not doubting she's real; I'm just saying that I hope the one photo is dated. 300.
https://members.seeking.com/member/3692a0e7-0690-4568-91d5-7143c93833da. Caution. Inconsistency with photos. Seems to be in a hurry to exchange cell numbers (her area code was Portland, which she acknowledged) but, as mentioned previously, I'm skeptical about quickly wanting to jump to cell contact, so I asked some local knowledge of where she said she lived and, surprisingly, she passed with flying colors. But one of her photos wasn't good and I let it fade. And I'm glad I did because she now lists her location as Utah.
https://members.seeking.com/member/c9eee8d5-b6b5-4f83-88a2-ed896fdc99c6. Beautiful girl. Friendly. But 2 of her photos seem to be of someone else. When she mentioned my photos, she particularly loved my dog. Who isn't in any of my photos. Which I mentioned (nicely) before getting the dial tone.
https://members.seeking.com/member/f0f3d008-7e74-4619-9032-7920ed0b46cc. She's a live one who initiated correspondence after I simply "favorited" her profile. Seems to be more interested in sharing (OK probably selling) videos. Will supplement later.
https://members.seeking.com/member/67db1f2a-951c-48fe-b9a9-8a4349cac648. She's a slam-dunk. If you want it. Lively conversation. Interested in meeting yesterday. I faded after she sent me her private photos. I wasn't good. For me at least. But she lives in Bucks and commutes to Center City. Which seems like where she wants to meet.
https://members.seeking.com/member/b55b018a-56fc-4332-aa77-8832f1026e2a. So far so good. Good back and forth. 400 and can host near Temple you.
https://members.seeking.com/member/b5ad87c1-85f6-4a4a-9d43-d8d94a615246. Cool girl. I actually met her a long time ago at a hotel. She couldn't host then. But this is a new profile -- and I didn't recognize her face -- so I reached out. She doesn't waste time in responding and setting the ground rules, but they're fair. I recommend, especially if you want a quick turn-around. She may even be open to hosting if some trust is established. She's in Delco.
And now I can't find the eros link for a Brazilian I met on Friday. Aline. Ridiculous body if you like the curvy Brazilian thing. Smart. I went through with it because of the pictures and 4 star reviews on E Monkey. Glad I got it out of my system but won't be back. She was initially too into it and then not enough. Also, the language barrier still exists even though one reviewer said it wasn't bad. If I find the link, I'll send it. She'll be back in June.
ReadyToTumble
02-09-22, 11:31
https://members.seeking.com/member/31041552-9c23-478a-ad99-22ec001a0b96 Very cool girl. Easy to correspond with. Smart, good sense of humor. North PHL. I allowed the correspondence to trail off because she seems to spend more time in Harrisburg than PHL, doesn't look like she can host and there's some inconsistency with the photos. I'm not doubting she's real; I'm just saying that I hope the one photo is dated. 300.
https://members.seeking.com/member/3692a0e7-0690-4568-91d5-7143c93833da. Caution. Inconsistency with photos. Seems to be in a hurry to exchange cell numbers (her area code was Portland, which she acknowledged) but, as mentioned previously, I'm skeptical about quickly wanting to jump to cell contact, so I asked some local knowledge of where she said she lived and, surprisingly, she passed with flying colors. But one of her photos wasn't good and I let it fade. And I'm glad I did because she now lists her location as Utah.
https://members.seeking.com/member/c9eee8d5-b6b5-4f83-88a2-ed896fdc99c6. Beautiful girl. Friendly. But 2 of her photos seem to be of someone else. When she mentioned my photos, she particularly loved my dog. Who isn't in any of my photos. Which I mentioned (nicely) before getting the dial tone.
https://members.seeking.com/member/f0f3d008-7e74-4619-9032-7920ed0b46cc. She's a live one who initiated correspondence after I simply "favorited" her profile. Seems to be more interested in sharing (OK probably selling) videos. Will supplement later.
https://members.seeking.com/member/67db1f2a-951c-48fe-b9a9-8a4349cac648. She's a slam-dunk. If you want it. Lively conversation. Interested in meeting yesterday. I faded after she sent me her private photos. I wasn't good. For me at least. But she lives in Bucks and commutes to Center City. Which seems like where she wants to meet.
https://members.seeking.com/member/b55b018a-56fc-4332-aa77-8832f1026e2a. So far so good. Good back and forth. 400 and can host near Temple you.
https://members.seeking.com/member/b5ad87c1-85f6-4a4a-9d43-d8d94a615246. Cool girl. I actually met her a long time ago at a hotel. She couldn't host then. But this is a new profile -- and I didn't recognize her face -- so I reached out. She doesn't waste time in responding and setting the ground rules, but they're fair. I recommend, especially if you want a quick turn-around. She may even be open to hosting if some trust is established. She's in Delco.
And now I can't find the eros link for a Brazilian I met on Friday. Aline. Ridiculous body if you like the curvy Brazilian thing. Smart. I went through with it because of the pictures and 4 star reviews on E Monkey. Glad I got it out of my system but won't be back. She was initially too into it and then not enough. Also, the language barrier still exists even though one reviewer said it wasn't bad. If I find the link, I'll send it. She'll be back in June.I think everyone but one has a deactivated profile.
LurkingDog
02-09-22, 15:08
I think everyone but one has a deactivated profile.I didn't get any active profiles either. . .
LD.
MerryIvory
02-09-22, 20:20
I think everyone but one has a deactivated profile.Some of the URLs have a period at the end. You have to delete it manually.
https://members.seeking.com/member/b3b2fe82-5c79-4197-a737-e600f6b5cab5
Met her last night for a 15 minute car date in Phoenixville.
Price was right. Everything available.
But probably won't repeat. She's thicker than my preferred body type.
And had more hair below than I was expecting.
This Asian was mentioned sometime back in post 1027. I was chatting with her and we decided to meet.
As was mentioned before she acted like she wasn't interested so much in the $ aspect so I had a good feeling about meeting her.
She arrived late and used a few F bombs on the phone when she couldn't find me. In a flannel shirt not even tucked in her jeans. I was disappointed that she arrived like this was a second thought, we talked for a bit and when we finally got to the arrangement part things changed quickly.
I was wasting her time for anything under 500.
Oh. I wished her well and with a hug said goodby.
PH.
Per this video:
https://youtu.be/sx3Dg_igqVg
Looks like founder Brandon Wade is getting married and intends to totally de-emphasize the "sugar dating" part of the website! Now it is "suppose to be" just a 'dating website!
Wonder if the heat is getting turned up on the site as a venue for prostitution and now that he's getting married, wants to further insulate himself from FOSTA-SESTA type liabilities? Any one think things will change on the site? More stringent BOT reads of emails and any mention of sugar or anything that the BOT thinks is compensation will get you booted? Will girls fall off if there is no sugar?
But clearly Wade is an idiot! He violated one of the primary "rules" - NEVER fall in lover with a Hooker! No pre-nup? LOL!
OverKill418
02-14-22, 16:36
Maybe try some therapy.Just want to get rid of trash and it's not like she's a human with a soul or anything.
That's like Burger King announcing they're no longer selling burgers. There's already 'regular' dating sites like Match and PlentyofFish. And hook up sites like Tinder. Dummy.
Per this video:
https://youtu.be/sx3Dg_igqVg
Looks like founder Brandon Wade is getting married and intends to totally de-emphasize the "sugar dating" part of the website! Now it is "suppose to be" just a 'dating website!
Wonder if the heat is getting turned up on the site as a venue for prostitution and now that he's getting married, wants to further insulate himself from FOSTA-SESTA type liabilities? Any one think things will change on the site? More stringent BOT reads of emails and any mention of sugar or anything that the BOT thinks is compensation will get you booted? Will girls fall off if there is no sugar?
But clearly Wade is an idiot! He violated one of the primary "rules" - NEVER fall in lover with a Hooker! No pre-nup? LOL!
ReadyToTumble
02-15-22, 12:44
Some of the URLs have a period at the end. You have to delete it manually.Since you are maybe a little more url savy than me, can you report the correct link please.
This Asian was mentioned sometime back in post 1027. I was chatting with her and we decided to meet.
As was mentioned before she acted like she wasn't interested so much in the $ aspect so I had a good feeling about meeting her.
She arrived late and used a few F bombs on the phone when she couldn't find me. In a flannel shirt not even tucked in her jeans. I was disappointed that she arrived like this was a second thought, we talked for a bit and when we finally got to the arrangement part things changed quickly.
I was wasting her time for anything under 500.
Oh. I wished her well and with a hug said goodby..I was the one who posted about her at 1027. Her profile is gone -- at least to me -- but I remember thinking she wasn't worth whatever her price would be. Thanks for TOFTT.
That's like Burger King announcing they're no longer selling burgers. There's already 'regular' dating sites like Match and PlentyofFish. And hook up sites like Tinder. Dummy.Hey Brandon, why should I fork over $90 per month to a "regular" dating site? Especially one that has so many frauds or may be allowing bots on the site.
I can do most of the others for free or nearly so.
As you said, what a dummy.
PH.
PiesOnlyPlz
02-20-22, 17:28
https://members.seeking.com/member/b3b2fe82-5c79-4197-a737-e600f6b5cab5
Met her last night for a 15 minute car date in Phoenixville.
Price was right. Everything available.
But probably won't repeat. She's thicker than my preferred body type.
And had more hair below than I was expecting.She messaged me yesterday evening. She seemed as though she wanted to do a same day meet but I already had other plans. Will report back if actually end up seeing her.
She messaged me yesterday evening. She seemed as though she wanted to do a same day meet but I already had other plans. Will report back if actually end up seeing her.She does have hygiene issues. Body odor. And is unreliable with timing.
I let her know I'm not interested in seeing her again.
She does have hygiene issues. Body odor. And is unreliable with timing.
I let her know I'm not interested in seeing her again.Hmm, sounds like maybe she has a habit and isn't thinking enough about herself only what she can score quickly.
Too bad.
She kept promising to meet but really just wants to sell pictures.
PH.
I met Yanika after some short conversations. Matchup our schedule and off I went to her incall, next day appointment, She hosts our of a private apartment, but it's security building in a nice residential area. She sometimes has children staying with her. Starndard BBBJ snd CFS, she loves to kiss and is very sensual. Make her orgasm by being patient and no fingerbanging, loves oral, giving and receiving. Sweet Thai girl speaks well and has friendly, open personality. Definitely will see her again Damage was three bills.
https://members.seeking.com/member/77f94b10-f238-4c1f-b159-70243b97eb41
ProCatHunter
02-22-22, 11:29
Anyone else ever connect with this one? Can't post info because of board guidelines, but she was the batshit crazy one that is incredible in bed. Temple student, huge tits, and communist. Not many others fit the bill so you'd know her if you banged her.
https://www.seeking.com/member/17b4464b-cd64-4677-a690-2b83a18f5471
This one is amazing. Petite blond coed. Her tag line is accurate. Super adorable and likes to dress up for daddy.
Allowance requirements were $ $ $ $ which I normally never do, but ended up agreeing to because she sucked me in. Was well worth it but because I only infrequently visit, and going to have to let her go. Maybe one of you gents can have fun with her.
https://members.seeking.com/member/865652d3-0bb4-424e-a1f3-50d8555d5ac3
https://members.seeking.com/member/7b983b6a-056e-4350-85f8-0bcba3a4874c
https://members.seeking.com/member/23be7ffc-d56f-4ff2-acfe-617e5ea75bcd
https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/43141482-e80c-4538-af3c-c235399df2a7
PiesOnlyPlz
02-26-22, 00:23
https://members.seeking.com/member/865652d3-0bb4-424e-a1f3-50d8555d5ac3
https://members.seeking.com/member/7b983b6a-056e-4350-85f8-0bcba3a4874c
https://members.seeking.com/member/23be7ffc-d56f-4ff2-acfe-617e5ea75bcd
https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/43141482-e80c-4538-af3c-c235399df2a7I can't pull up the profile for the first one. If you still see her as active, then chances are she blocked me or I blocked her at some point. I've been on SA on and off for over 5 years so it's definitely possible. If you want to post up a screen shot of the first ones profile, I may have more insight.
I can't pull up the profile for the first one. If you still see her as active, then chances are she blocked me or I blocked her at some point. I've been on SA on and off for over 5 years so it's definitely possible. If you want to post up a screen shot of the first ones profile, I may have more insight.I can't see the first one either. Don't have any intel on the second 2. I must have corresponded with the last one because it went to my messages page and said the correspondence had been deleted. So I don't remember who it was or how our correspondence went. Good luck. I may have a few to relay soon.
SweetWillyRoll
02-28-22, 22:16
https://members.seeking.com/member/1e62c1a0-e962-4c20-9cb8-ffe3872ad332?_cf_ref=aHR0cDovL3d3dy51c2FzZXhndWlkZS5ubC8%3D
She had a baby a couple months ago and is back and has been hitting me up, recently. I met her a couple times last summer and was hitting it raw for 200-250. She's. A little, but pretty fucking hot. Great ass.
If I didn't have a regular arrangement that I'm quite pleased with, I'd hit her up if I wanted to get some easy action.
https://members.seeking.com/member/1e62c1a0-e962-4c20-9cb8-ffe3872ad332?_cf_ref=aHR0cDovL3d3dy51c2FzZXhndWlkZS5ubC8%3D
She had a baby a couple months ago and is back and has been hitting me up, recently. I met her a couple times last summer and was hitting it raw for 200-250. She's. A little, but pretty fucking hot. Great ass.
If I didn't have a regular arrangement that I'm quite pleased with, I'd hit her up if I wanted to get some easy action.This has been touched on by a few people, but I found her social media before sending her a text that she solicited and there was a ton of drama / theft / drugs / feuds, etc. Still. Tempting. But not enough. Good luck.
Burbs Monger
03-01-22, 20:29
Everyone hits this raw, but that's why you should RTFF. She is a hard pass now for so many reasons. I blocked her outright.
Be Safe.
This has been touched on by a few people, but I found her social media before sending her a text that she solicited and there was a ton of drama / theft / drugs / feuds, etc. Still. Tempting. But not enough. Good luck.
Mythbuster
03-10-22, 00:16
I gave seeking a try for a couple of months and was on Adult Friend finders for a month or two and it's got me wondering if I'm better off with just finding some target rich enviro moments to pursue what I seek in real life instead of on the internet. This isn't just an idle thought because in my experience, I've always been more successful in person in all the aspects of arrangements and dating. I've been actively working on two women in my personal life that I would never date seriously but with whom I'd enjoy a mutually beneficial arrangement. I like it because at this point in my life I can be brutally honest and tell them that we can have fun but I'm here for one thing and it's not a commitment! I'm old and I'm lazy. I don't want to drive further than 20 minute. I don't want someone setting up on me while I'm setting up on them! Thoughts? While I was going through a divorce I cultivated a wide range of bartender friends at multiple local bars and that's sort of my normal hunting grounds if I'm looking a little younger, but I've also noticed that you can meet some good looking older women at higher end locals but after a month or two you'll find out why they are available!
Thanks for listen to my rant!
Now that my membership has expired for seeking I seem to be getting all kinds of messages, half of them are from profiles that are gone in a week. Adult friend finders. I don't know what's up with the site people do get back to you but it's a woman's market so it may take weeks to have a full conversation. The quality isn't that great unless you want to put yourself in some weird situations. Are there any other sites to try?
I gave seeking a try for a couple of months and was on Adult Friend finders for a month or two and it's got me wondering if I'm better off with just finding some target rich enviro moments to pursue what I seek in real life instead of on the internet. This isn't just an idle thought because in my experience, I've always been more successful in person in all the aspects of arrangements and dating. I've been actively working on two women in my personal life that I would never date seriously but with whom I'd enjoy a mutually beneficial arrangement. I like it because at this point in my life I can be brutally honest and tell them that we can have fun but I'm here for one thing and it's not a commitment! I'm old and I'm lazy. I don't want to drive further than 20 minute. I don't want someone setting up on me while I'm setting up on them! Thoughts? While I was going through a divorce I cultivated a wide range of bartender friends at multiple local bars and that's sort of my normal hunting grounds if I'm looking a little younger, but I've also noticed that you can meet some good looking older women at higher end locals but after a month or two you'll find out why they are available!
Thanks for listen to my rant!
Now that my membership has expired for seeking I seem to be getting all kinds of messages, half of them are from profiles that are gone in a week. Adult friend finders. I don't know what's up with the site people do get back to you but it's a woman's market so it may take weeks to have a full conversation. The quality isn't that great unless you want to put yourself in some weird situations. Are there any other sites to try?Play to your strengths, play in the most familiar surroundings, play where you find it!
There was a dude here, Fbtom, who could pick up a girl for play at the bar, in line at Wawa and at Walmart. So if that is where your skill set lies, go for it! Much easier to make decisions face-to-face than miles of texting off a website. Paying for website access is one way, real life encounters skips so many steps.
Go for it!
GranAnimal
03-14-22, 01:13
Hello Fellow Mongers.
I relocated from NH to Easton back in September. One of the Allentown members told me about this section as there is no place to put this up there. I was very active up in NH since 2011 and I'm just as active here. I'm exclusively on SA and WYP. I've had great luck here as their are way more women to choose from down here compared to NH. I've met some great women here and they are very friendly. I don't know if you guys get up by the ABC area but here is what I've found so far.
I have also met some scammers on SA:
https://members.seeking.com/member/7db7e4dd-1a00-4b64-a9a3-c478b75f43ac
Beware of this one I took her on 5 dates buying lunch / dinners and when she realized that I was not giving her money she ghosted me.
https://members.seeking.com/member/ab090db3-54e6-4fd4-84a5-fcd4200664e8
This one reached out to me and we setup two different dates and she blew me off both times, never ripped me off.
https://members.seeking.com/member/73694819-723b-4aa5-9544-84c3ed0e82ee
This one in Bethlehem was fun but young and hot $$. 5 worth it for me. No BS with this one you just have to have a place to go.
https://members.seeking.com/member/8367ae8a-b20d-43ec-a6a4-5228cd04051e
Wind Gap, this is the first women I met off of SA when I moved to PA. Took her for Shushi and 2 hours later we were at my place, worth seeing $$. 5.
https://members.seeking.com/member/2eeab153-961e-4a2e-8a20-acd4d821e1c8
Easton, one of my all time favs, 21 and I have no right getting this one at my age. Love those Latinas $$.
All these girls are GFE / FS the ones I have been with.
If any Monger have any women up in my area please feel free to PM me.
I hope this helps some of you guys out.
Good and stay safe!
I'm trying to venture into Sugardating with SA. But I don't know where to start. Do you mostly meet up with them at restaurants and see where it goes? Or can the arrangement be prearranged. I would hate to take her out for dinner only to walk away with a case of blue balls.
I'm trying to venture into Sugardating with SA. But I don't know where to start. Do you mostly meet up with them at restaurants and see where it goes? Or can the arrangement be prearranged. I would hate to take her out for dinner only to walk away with a case of blue balls.This is adult dating and there are no rules per se. When I am in the bowl I want to evaluate the girl and the situation before committing funds or taking risks. A word of general warning: Just be careful to NOT talk about sex for money, or use "code words" that imply sex-for-money on the SA PM messaging as BOTS scan messages and you can get booted off the site (no refund!). When you get to that point in a convo, take it offsite to text, Kik, SC, etc.
Some UTR Pro girls will be fine skipping a Meet & Greet (M&G) and head directly to the fuck chamber (FC). A lot of the hot college girls., or single Moms, will want to meet to make sure you aren't a serial killer or creepy and thus want a M&G. I want to meet to see if the girl is psycho, is a rinser or if her style matches my needs. I have never taken a girl out for dinner or something that is a HUGE money outlay as a M&G, just coffee or drinks. The pay for dinner stuff is a carry over from the WYP site and usually the style of a rinser.
In any kind of mongering I had to learn that going home with "blue balls" was always a possibility. I had to learn to think with the Big Head first as to stay safe. A few times when I didn't do that I found trouble: got ripped-off, had bad dates, found wacko girls or other dangerous situations. So I insist on a M&G as a way to vet the girl and determine her situation and our compatibility. Just like any kind of mongering follow rule #1: NO MONEY UP FRONT. Money when the panties hit the floor.
I will say this after talking to MANY SBs at M&G and asking about their experiences on SA. A LOT of guys treat girls like prostitutes (well, they are, but most don't want t feel like they are). So I found that treating them like GFs to some extent has better results. So for the most part I have never offered a girl to meet me for the first time at the FC. Again, I think UTR pros are the few that would so that.
As far as learning goes, there use to be one thread on USA that dealt with SBs and that was the Richmond, VA SB thread. It still acts like a national clearing house as the dudes there tolerate questions and posts from all over. The advice there was so good that another thread was created capturing the best of the best. (Sugarbaby Thread Highlights, Index, and FAQ) One can read that thread and find answers on every topic. (definitions, profiles, contacting, prices, hotels, tactics, tips & tricks, etc.) So with a little reading on can get some tips, pointers and suggestions. The 'how to" thread can be found here:
http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?15100-Sugarbaby-Thread-Highlights-Index-and-FAQ
Lots of guys stumble into dating without much background or forethought. "Experiential learning" is one way to approach things, but that can be dangerous. For my money, learning a few things upfront, before venturing out, makes sense. Guys don't plan to fail, but in many situations they fail to plan. So I approach it as how can I control the situation without being a jerk and still selling myself as someone she wants to get naked with. The second, what is my Plan B if something goes wrong at any stage of the M&G or date?
Good luck, be safe!
. I have never taken a girl out for dinner or something that is a HUGE money outlay as a M&G, just coffee or drinks. I wholeheartedly agree with this reply. I will add one minor detail from experience. Forgetting about the expense of going to dinner (which I don't mind at all if the company is good) I stick to drinks / coffee on M&G's for one simple reason. Dinner can be a LONG time to sit with someone if there is zero chemistry, she is completely disengaged, can't hold even a basic conversation, or is sitting there fooling on her phone the whole time.
Best of luck.
This is adult dating and there are no rules per se. When I am in the bowl I want to evaluate the girl and the situation before committing funds or taking risks. A word of general warning: Just be careful to NOT talk about sex for money, or use "code words" that imply sex-for-money on the SA PM messaging as BOTS scan messages and you can get booted off the site (no refund!). When you get to that point in a convo, take it offsite to text, Kik, SC, etc.
Some UTR Pro girls will be fine skipping a Meet & Greet (M&G) and head directly to the fuck chamber (FC). A lot of the hot college girls., or single Moms, will want to meet to make sure you aren't a serial killer or creepy and thus want a M&G. I want to meet to see if the girl is psycho, is a rinser or if her style matches my needs. I have never taken a girl out for dinner or something that is a HUGE money outlay as a M&G, just coffee or drinks. The pay for dinner stuff is a carry over from the WYP site and usually the style of a rinser.
In any kind of mongering I had to learn that going home with "blue balls" was always a possibility. I had to learn to think with the Big Head first as to stay safe. A few times when I didn't do that I found trouble: got ripped-off, had bad dates, found wacko girls or other dangerous situations. So I insist on a M&G as a way to vet the girl and determine her situation and our compatibility. Just like any kind of mongering follow rule #1: NO MONEY UP FRONT. Money when the panties hit the floor.
I will say this after talking to MANY SBs at M&G and asking about their experiences on SA. A LOT of guys treat girls like prostitutes (well, they are, but most don't want t feel like they are). So I found that treating them like GFs to some extent has better results. So for the most part I have never offered a girl to meet me for the first time at the FC. Again, I think UTR pros are the few that would so that.
As far as learning goes, there use to be one thread on USA that dealt with SBs and that was the Richmond, VA SB thread. It still acts like a national clearing house as the dudes there tolerate questions and posts from all over. The advice there was so good that another thread was created capturing the best of the best. (Sugarbaby Thread Highlights, Index, and FAQ) One can read that thread and find answers on every topic. (definitions, profiles, contacting, prices, hotels, tactics, tips & tricks, etc.) So with a little reading on can get some tips, pointers and suggestions. The 'how to" thread can be found here:
http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?15100-Sugarbaby-Thread-Highlights-Index-and-FAQ
Lots of guys stumble into dating without much background or forethought. "Experiential learning" is one way to approach things, but that can be dangerous. For my money, learning a few things upfront, before venturing out, makes sense. Guys don't plan to fail, but in many situations they fail to plan. So I approach it as how can I control the situation without being a jerk and still selling myself as someone she wants to get naked with. The second, what is my Plan B if something goes wrong at any stage of the M&G or date?
Good luck, be safe!
I wholeheartedly agree with this reply. I will add one minor detail from experience. Forgetting about the expense of going to dinner (which I don't mind at all if the company is good) I stick to drinks / coffee on M&G's for one simple reason. Dinner can be a LONG time to sit with someone if there is zero chemistry, she is completely disengaged, can't hold even a basic conversation, or is sitting there fooling on her phone the whole time.
Best of luck.Some very good tips, as usual. Thank you.
If I can put my. 02 cents in.
Want to stress, do NOT mention sex acts OR money! These sites have been cracking down to the point that they don't even want you to mention sex acts, let alone, the forbidden S&M. They WILL permanently ban your IP address and you may find it difficult to even make another account.
I think probably the best use of time / monetary resources would be as mentioned in these prior posts:
Move quickly to an off site "chat" or convo, once a mutual interest has been established. The M&G should be, as stated, in a "quick, but inexpensive setting". If you invite psycho to dinner, you're not only a little more committed financially, but time wise, as well. (Do you really want to suffer through ANY more time then you have to with a psycho?
As also mentioned,. The girls on those sites do NOT think of themselves and even look down upon even as much as the high end escorts who make thousands of dollars more than them and MAY in fact even have higher standards or morals. They do NOT want to be treated like a hooker, a call girl, an escort, a street walker, or any "regular" sex worker. So, do THAT, and you'll likely lose their interest quickly and things will become sour, rather than sweet. Treat it / them not like you would in a traditional relationship and things will more than likely progress further and quicker.
Good luck, happy hunting, and be safe!!
Mythbuster
03-21-22, 22:53
Some very good tips, as usual. Thank you.
If I can put my. 02 cents in.
Want to stress, do NOT mention sex acts OR money! These sites have been cracking down to the point that they don't even want you to mention sex acts, let alone, the forbidden S&M. They WILL permanently ban your IP address and you may find it difficult to even make another account.
I think probably the best use of time / monetary resources would be as mentioned in these prior posts:
Move quickly to an off site "chat" or convo, once a mutual interest has been established. The M&G should be, as stated, in a "quick, but inexpensive setting". If you invite psycho to dinner, you're not only a little more committed financially, but time wise, as well. (Do you really want to suffer through ANY more time then you have to with a psycho?
As also mentioned,. The girls on those sites do NOT think of themselves and even look down upon even as much as the high end escorts who make thousands of dollars more than them and MAY in fact even have higher standards or morals. They do NOT want to be treated like a hooker, a call girl, an escort, a street walker, or any "regular" sex worker. So, do THAT, and you'll likely lose their interest quickly and things will become sour, rather than sweet. Treat it / them not like you would in a traditional relationship and things will more than likely progress further and quicker.
Good luck, happy hunting, and be safe!!A lot of good advice has been offered on this board already. I would just add. You have to be critical about yourself. Know who you are and where you are comfortable. What you are willing to spend just to get to know someone. I like dinner at certain places where either I don't have many attachments or know the staff well enough that I can send a text and get out if I need to. It's all about you and your comfort. Think about what you need 1st to feel comfortable and like Shampoo55 said you're going to have the blue balls sometimes.
Mythbuster
03-21-22, 22:59
Hello Fellow Mongers.
I relocated from NH to Easton back in September. One of the Allentown members told me about this section as there is no place to put this up there. I was very active up in NH since 2011 and I'm just as active here. I'm exclusively on SA and WYP. I've had great luck here as their are way more women to choose from down here compared to NH. I've met some great women here and they are very friendly. I don't know if you guys get up by the ABC area but here is what I've found so far.
I have also met some scammers on SA:
https://members.seeking.com/member/7db7e4dd-1a00-4b64-a9a3-c478b75f43ac
Beware of this one I took her on 5 dates buying lunch / dinners and when she realized that I was not giving her money she ghosted me.
https://members.seeking.com/member/ab090db3-54e6-4fd4-84a5-fcd4200664e8
This one reached out to me and we setup two different dates and she blew me off both times, never ripped me off.
https://members.seeking.com/member/73694819-723b-4aa5-9544-84c3ed0e82ee
This one in Bethlehem was fun but young and hot $$. 5 worth it for me. No BS with this one you just have to have a place to go.Great info and welcome to the board. Many of us can use this information especially if we take a trip up to Windcreek up in Bethlehem.
Mythbuster
03-21-22, 23:14
Play to your strengths, play in the most familiar surroundings, play where you find it!
There was a dude here, Fbtom, who could pick up a girl for play at the bar, in line at Wawa and at Walmart. So if that is where your skill set lies, go for it! Much easier to make decisions face-to-face than miles of texting off a website. Paying for website access is one way, real life encounters skips so many steps.
Go for it!Thanks! Recently went out with one of my free to play targets and realized why I hadn't in months. Still waiting for another to get off the Covid bench but I'm starting to see some activity in some of the local bars that I pursue for new targets. I'm mostly in southwest Bucks and Monco and like to frequent those higher end bars where you find the female population enjoying their super charged ladies night cocktails or $5 wines. I need a list of these kind of places if its out there somewhere. (Blue Bell Inn, and Panache are my two place to investigate right now).
I'm not totally done with SA but I haven't reupped yet. I've noticed that I have 14 unopened messages at this point but my unopened messaged seemed to double once my membership expired. Anyone have any intel on other sites that are useful?
Thanks! Recently went out with one of my free to play targets and realized why I hadn't in months. Still waiting for another to get off the Covid bench but I'm starting to see some activity in some of the local bars that I pursue for new targets. I'm mostly in southwest Bucks and Monco and like to frequent those higher end bars where you find the female population enjoying their super charged ladies night cocktails or $5 wines. I need a list of these kind of places if its out there somewhere. (Blue Bell Inn, and Panache are my two place to investigate right now).
I'm not totally done with SA but I haven't reupped yet. I've noticed that I have 14 unopened messages at this point but my unopened messaged seemed to double once my membership expired. Anyone have any intel on other sites that are useful?There is a bar in Lower Bucks, if memory serves, that is essentially a swinger's bar or a place one goes to get picked up. Met a couple there once, but it has been so long ago I don't remember the name.
Most other sites do the pay for credits racket. Can't tell if contacts are real or bot generated until after you spend your credits.
Burbs Monger
03-23-22, 17:30
If you are looking for the meat market, try Del Friscos in Philly. Full of MILFs, upscale ladies looking for action. However, the drinks are crazy expensive as well as the food.
Be Safe.
There is a bar in Lower Bucks, if memory serves, that is essentially a swinger's bar or a place one goes to get picked up. Met a couple there once, but it has been so long ago I don't remember the name.
Most other sites do the pay for credits racket. Can't tell if contacts are real or bot generated until after you spend your credits.
Mythbuster
03-25-22, 22:38
If you are looking for the meat market, try Del Friscos in Philly. Full of MILFs, upscale ladies looking for action. However, the drinks are crazy expensive as well as the food.
Be Safe.That's my kind of spot! I was just there late last year. It was a boy's night but we were more caught up on catching up than prowling so I didn't roam far from our table. I'd love to find a place like that in the burbs! (I wish there was a thread for that kind of thing) Anyone have any recent experience on SA. I have about 14 unanswered messages but I'm worried that they are just bots or scam artist. I'll probably do a short stint on the site in another month or two.
Met this one last night in Pottstown.
Agreed in 60 for a car BJ.
Heavier than her pics.
Asked for money to be put on dash.
I hesitated but gave in so she doesn't think I was going to rip her off.
10 seconds into the BJ I tell her how I like it done.
She ignores me. Tells me she will do it her way.
I ask her again. She refuses. Says she knows how to give a BJ.
Grabs my money and leaves.
Not worth chasing after her for 60 and risk cops getting involved.
Stephaniiee from.
Pottstown.
https://members.seeking.com/member/652f23ca-c2b7-41e3-8672-18c0080d25cc
ReadyToTumble
03-28-22, 15:54
There is a bar in Lower Bucks, if memory serves, that is essentially a swinger's bar or a place one goes to get picked up. Met a couple there once, but it has been so long ago I don't remember the name.
Most other sites do the pay for credits racket. Can't tell if contacts are real or bot generated until after you spend your credits.I picked up a few couples there who wanted to be cucked or a mfm.
I'm 99.9% sure this is Firecracker, a pro from Lancaster (discussed in the Lancaster Escort thread):
https://members.seeking.com/member/1e8bb8b8-3793-4df3-bb17-b86e9656b577
Met this one last night in Pottstown.
Agreed in 60 for a car BJ.
Heavier than her pics.
Asked for money to be put on dash.
I hesitated but gave in so she doesn't think I was going to rip her off.
10 seconds into the BJ I tell her how I like it done.
She ignores me. Tells me she will do it her way.
I ask her again. She refuses. Says she knows how to give a BJ.
Grabs my money and leaves.Yesterday I got suspended and then permanently banned from SA.
For use of escort terminology.
Actually it's a good thing. It's gone downhill so much that I was just wasting.
My money on monthly membership and so much work for little return.
Time to find a new mongering site.
I'm 99.9% sure this is Firecracker, a pro from Lancaster (discussed in the Lancaster Escort thread):
https://members.seeking.com/member/1e8bb8b8-3793-4df3-bb17-b86e9656b577I read that forum occasionally too. You can find the post on Lancaster STG and "firecracker" keyword. Supposedly a good time but definitely a user and questionable teeth. Little spinner.
Firecracker is listed as 5'1 to 5'3. This one says 5'7.
Yesterday I got suspended and then permanently banned from SA.
For use of escort terminology.
Actually it's a good thing. It's gone downhill so much that I was just wasting.
My money on monthly membership and so much work for little return.
Time to find a new mongering site.Do you remember what you wrote? I've had a decent amount of success on SA and I want to avoid getting banned. Thanks.
Hey Fellow Mongers, some of you may have already seen this but I went to renew my SA profile today and believe it or not they offered me a 20% coupon. It brought the monthly cost down to $90, still excessive for all of the scammers, fakes and bots. Regardless I have stayed active on the site with some continued ongoing success. As most of you know, it takes a lot of sifting and sorting but can be worth it. The discount code for today was VW020 PB.
Best to all!
Runner.
Do you remember what you wrote? I've had a decent amount of success on SA and I want to avoid getting banned. Thanks.DO NOT talk about the date particulars through SA email. Get the girl to offsite communication ASAP: text, SC, Kik, etc. THEN you can talk about sugar for her time.
Even if the girl asks you something about money, defer and say something like let's talk about that offsite. I have had girls intentionally try to bait me into sex 4 money talk, so beware. Have had to tell girls that I don't want to get banned in order to move such a convo offsite.
SA cannot afford to look like it is an overt prostitution site so I has invested heavily into technology to spot that and ban the members. BOTs scan emails.
So trying to find the "right" words or phrases or things to say is the wrong approach. Just don't do it. Take any "dating particulars" convo offsite!
Hope this helps!
DO NOT talk about the date particulars through SA email. Get the girl to offsite communication ASAP: text, SC, Kik, etc. THEN you can talk about sugar for her time.
Even if the girl asks you something about money, defer and say something like let's talk about that offsite. I have had girls intentionally try to bait me into sex 4 money talk, so beware. Have had to tell girls that I don't want to get banned in order to move such a convo offsite.
SA cannot afford to look like it is an overt prostitution site so I has invested heavily into technology to spot that and ban the members. BOTs scan emails.
So trying to find the "right" words or phrases or things to say is the wrong approach. Just don't do it. Take any "dating particulars" convo offsite!
Hope this helps!I don't know exactly but it's possible bots are scanning messages for escort terminology or some women will report you if you treat them like an escort. That has happened to me a few years ago.
I always tell them to text me to discuss details offline but some will still insist in discussing ppm in the site.
It's been too much work for low return the last year and now there's women are asking for 400-500 for quick fun (if they actually will meet).
2 years ago you could get 3-4 hrs for $300.
5 years ago you could get a quickie BBJ+BBFS for 100 from a college student or single mom.
Social media has ruined it for us guys.
Too many options for these ladies to make money.
Tik tik, * selling pics and videos, desperate guys paying just for dinner companionship.
CooperTown
04-05-22, 18:21
This girl is on SA and SDM and available https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?userId=61432753.
A little pricy but the only person that was found. She's been in the business for quite a while and seems very trustworthy. Close to downtown.
News flash: She lied in her SA profile. It's her. I saw her a week ago, the SA pics match her FB pics. She's short, I'd say 5'3, about 100 lb. Definitely using something, kinda spaced out and yet present the whole time. Decent visit, might repeat.
Firecracker is listed as 5'1 to 5'3. This one says 5'7.
PartyTimeGuy
04-07-22, 23:01
It's been too much work for low return the last year and now there's women are asking for 400-500 for quick fun (if they actually will meet).
2 years ago you could get 3-4 hrs for $300.
5 years ago you could get a quickie BBJ+BBFS for 100 from a college student or single mom.
Social media has ruined it for us guys.
Too many options for these ladies to make money.
Tik tik, * selling pics and videos, desperate guys paying just for dinner companionship.There is way too much GPS out there. Even below average girls want $$$ and up for an hour. It is our own fault. If some idiots will pay them double and triple what they should be worth, then that becomes the going rate. I have to believe that some guys are just looking for a one time or very occasional roll in the hay. At $$$$ and $$$$$ a pop, you can get to a point where your SB makes far more an hour than you do. LOL.
PartyTimeGuy
04-08-22, 11:42
Entering that tight young new SB recruit for the first time. A moment worth capturing.
WRONG — apologies, they're two different people. Wow they could be twins though.
Dreamygirl88 is Mallory, completely different person than Firecracker. My mistake gentlemen, apologies.
News flash: She lied in her SA profile. It's her. I saw her a week ago, the SA pics match her FB pics. She's short, I'd say 5'3, about 100 lb. Definitely using something, kinda spaced out and yet present the whole time. Decent visit, might repeat.
Name is Layna, met her on SDM and not sure if she's on any of the other SB sites. Have any of you spoken with her at all? We've moved on to off-site texts but she's a little too eager. Claiming I'm the only person she's talking to and how much she likes me, even though we've barely spoken. Kind of a huge red flag. Thought I'd check before I just ignore her completely.
https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?userId=70750936
Name is Layna, met her on SDM and not sure if she's on any of the other SB sites. Have any of you spoken with her at all? We've moved on to off-site texts but she's a little too eager. Claiming I'm the only person she's talking to and how much she likes me, even though we've barely spoken. Kind of a huge red flag. Thought I'd check before I just ignore her completely.
https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?userId=70750936Not sure how many have a membership with that site, so wondering if posting a picture or two of Layna might help others recognize her from SA and SB? Help us help you?
Not sure how many have a membership with that site, so wondering if posting a picture or two of Layna might help others recognize her from SA and SB? Help us help you?Sorry, good point. Here's a couple photos.
Name is Layna, met her on SDM and not sure if she's on any of the other SB sites. Have any of you spoken with her at all? We've moved on to off-site texts but she's a little too eager. Claiming I'm the only person she's talking to and how much she likes me, even though we've barely spoken. Kind of a huge red flag. Thought I'd check before I just ignore her completely.
https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?userId=70750936Haven't interacted with her but -- funny you should ask -- because she is the only person who has sent a message to my bare-bones profile: viewed me; liked me; asked for a photo. Not sure that helps. Maybe she's just aggressively hunting down leads.
Sorry, good point. Here's a couple photos.She's a rinser. I'm not going to lie, I'm tempted to ask you to set up a meeting with her and me show up to see her so I could tell her off face to face.
Thanks, guys. Funny enough, today I finally got the sob story of money stolen from her in a scam, and she can't pay rent or buy groceries or blah blah blah the usual bull.
I replied with my sympathy and telling her that I hate scams. For instance, because of scams, I never sent money ahead of actually meeting a SB in person and having actual face to face interaction.
Strange, she hasn't written back.
Here is her current SA profile. I'm pretty sure I traded messages with her a few months ago under a different profile that was probably banned LOL. If I remember correctly I think my spider senses were going off that she seemed to be a semi pro and really looking to make a quick buck. Not for me LOL.
https://members.seeking.com/member/f14ba9f4-0f06-4817-a3be-fdcff9be97b7
Happy Hunting!
Runner.
Haven't interacted with her but -- funny you should ask -- because she is the only person who has sent a message to my bare-bones profile: viewed me; liked me; asked for a photo. Not sure that helps. Maybe she's just aggressively hunting down leads.
CooperTown
04-15-22, 19:38
I texted with Layna quite a bit a couple weeks ago. Pictures are real and I verified them. She kept saying she'd see me but wanted $50 for an Uber, couldn't afford gas, didn't want to drive, etc. I think she's just trying to make a quick easy buck off of people. I'd stay away.
I texted with Layna quite a bit a couple weeks ago. Pictures are real and I verified them. She kept saying she'd see me but wanted $50 for an Uber, couldn't afford gas, didn't want to drive, etc. I think she's just trying to make a quick easy buck off of people. I'd stay away.Thank you. I definitely got the same impression after three different sob stories on consecutive days, and after each time I simply apologized for her bad luck, she stopped messaging me.
I'm more in Central PA, so I didn't want a regular SB. I was really just hoping to find an UTR girl in Philly to have a fun night with when I'm in town occasionally. So far I've either found scammers or girls wanting 5-6. Oh well.
PartyTimeGuy
04-24-22, 11:19
Some girls have everything one would want. Cute. Lithe. Energetic. Funny. Accommodating. Curious. Adventurous. Skillful. Sexy. Coy. Luscious. Feisty. Playful. Supple. Clever. Adorable. Affectionate. Adaptable. Creative. Daring. Free-Spirited. Imaginative. Lively. Passionate. Perky. Resourceful. Spontaneous. Stimulating. Talented. Vibrant. Likes to call me "Daddy" in a sultry and teasing way and does anything I want. Definitely a KEEPER!
Does anyone have any experience with Berlyn profile name? See picture attached.
Thinking about messaging but wondering if it is a scam.
Gents, see this long post about China scams on Seeking.
Beware.
http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?9746-quot-Sugarbabies-quot-quot-Arrangements-quot-Amateurs-or-Not&p=5888174&viewfull=1#post5888174.
PartyTimeGuy
04-25-22, 00:09
Gents, see this long post about China scams on Seeking.
Beware.
http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?9746-quot-Sugarbabies-quot-quot-Arrangements-quot-Amateurs-or-Not&p=5888174&viewfull=1#post5888174.Scams have infiltrated almost everything on line today. Another good reason I prefer finding my own SBs in the wild.
Some girls have everything one would want. Cute. Lithe. Energetic. Funny. Accommodating. Curious. Adventurous. Skillful. Sexy. Coy. Luscious. Feisty. Playful. Supple. Clever. Adorable. Affectionate. Adaptable. Creative. Daring. Free-Spirited. Imaginative. Lively. Passionate. Perky. Resourceful. Spontaneous. Stimulating. Talented. Vibrant. Likes to call me "Daddy" in a sultry and teasing way and does anything I want. Definitely a KEEPER!Hot AF. She looking for another regular? She looks like a home run.
PartyTimeGuy
04-25-22, 16:10
Hot AF. She looking for another regular? She looks like a home run.I have been seeing her for quite a while. That is unusual for me. I usually get bored with women I see regularly, no matter how good they are. Variety is, after all, the spice of life. But she has qualities that make her consistently satisfying and interesting, and often new and different. So few men or women I know, including me, have that ability. So, while our age difference really makes it highly unlikely this will ever be other than a business relationship, I am pleased with the continuation. Does she have other regulars? Haven't asked and don't care. I see plenty of other women, although she never asks about that, either. We accept this for what it is for as long as it works for both of us. Does she want other regulars? She has never brought it up. If she wants this, she is no wallflower and I am sure she would ask. However, when I tire of her, which will be inevitable but not any time soon that I can see, I am sure there will be a very long line to fill my shoes.
Some girls have everything one would want. Cute. Lithe. Energetic. Funny. Accommodating. Curious. Adventurous. Skillful. Sexy. Coy. Luscious. Feisty. Playful. Supple. Clever. Adorable. Affectionate. Adaptable. Creative. Daring. Free-Spirited. Imaginative. Lively. Passionate. Perky. Resourceful. Spontaneous. Stimulating. Talented. Vibrant. Likes to call me "Daddy" in a sultry and teasing way and does anything I want. Definitely a KEEPER!Excellent find.
She's a gem!
MythBuster2 0
04-29-22, 11:47
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Heads up,
This one is a scammer.
I broke the cardinal rule of Sugaring for the first time, ever, for her.
DON'T SEND MONEY BEFORE YOU MEET HER.
She had a good story, got me. I was stupid.
Maybe you can learn from my stupid mistake.
Her profile name is Berlyn.
She gives the name Amber.
Her PayPal is Amber23Xx. I know the PayPal last name but can't put it here due to site rules.
See attached profile shot.
Don't be fooled like I was.
PartyTimeGuy
05-03-22, 15:30
Heads up,
This one is a scammer.
I broke the cardinal rule of Sugaring for the first time, ever, for her.
DON'T SEND MONEY BEFORE YOU MEET HER.
She had a good story, got me. I was stupid.
Maybe you can learn from my stupid mistake.
Her profile name is Berlyn.
She gives the name Amber.
Her PayPal is Amber23Xx. I know the PayPal last name but can't put it here due to site rules.
See attached profile shot.
Don't be fooled like I was.There is LOTS of this happening: both on the internet and in person. Some SBs want to get paid for a meet. Are you kidding me? Pay to MEET some girl? Don't be a sap. NEVER EVER pay a SB before the panties hit the floor.
PS: Most scammers want gift cards and then you are sunk. But you can dispute a PayPal payment. Tell PayPal you never received the "product" purchased. The onus is on the seller to produce proof it was "shipped." You can get your money back by filing a claim, and you have 180 days to do so. The scammer has no seller protection without a waybill for a product shipped or a tracking letter for a service delivered. Legitimate providers of goods and services have these, and this scammer obviously won't and you will get your money back in a claim. If the scammer gets enough of these she will be banned from PayPal.
Everyone here should send this scammer a dollar and dispute it. I will. It will serve her right for being stupid enough to use PayPal, and arrogant enough to be a scammer.
OverKill418
05-03-22, 16:18
This one wants me to send her money to buy a dress and get her nails done before meeting. I told her I'm a former Vegas casino dealer and not stupid. She then said that she's from NYC and guys always pay for that. I said then move back to there because that doesn't play in Delco.
https://members.seeking.com/member/8e3b2be7-7170-4b20-852d-ad8d7025b9ad
Met her for dinner, planned an intimate date but she never showed. She was asking 500 ppm. Not as cute as pics, kind of full of herself.
https://members.seeking.com/member/fd9f3580-6278-44ef-bcdd-da47f5e8a80c
FairyTallPrincess -- GPS -- wants $$ 5 PPM, wouldn't budge. I told her good luck with that.
https://members.seeking.com/member/deddcf65-5c69-49cb-8aac-d47541137def
Met her for dinner, planned an intimate date but she never showed. She was asking 500 ppm. Not as cute as pics, kind of full of herself.
https://members.seeking.com/member/fd9f3580-6278-44ef-bcdd-da47f5e8a80cThank you for the feedback. I have looked at that profile many times. Now I can just hide it.
FairyTallPrincess -- GPS -- wants $$ 5 PPM, wouldn't budge. I told her good luck with that.
https://members.seeking.com/member/deddcf65-5c69-49cb-8aac-d47541137defI think I see a pattern here. I corresponded with her awhile back. You like the smart ones who, you would think, aren't there for the money. But it sounds like they're just as bad as the rest at valuing themselves. Maybe we should target profiles with poor spelling and lots of emojis.
OverKill418
05-07-22, 13:19
Here's another one that wants money for her nails before meeting and then tried to gaslight you for telling her nothing until arrangement starts.
https://members.seeking.com/member/fa5d279e-7702-43fa-a6b5-12e99187c5d7
I think I see a pattern here. I corresponded with her awhile back. You like the smart ones who, you would think, aren't there for the money. But it sounds like they're just as bad as the rest at valuing themselves. Maybe we should target profiles with poor spelling and lots of emojis.Great point, honestly.
FairyTallPrincess -- GPS -- wants $$ 5 PPM, wouldn't budge. I told her good luck with that.
https://members.seeking.com/member/deddcf65-5c69-49cb-8aac-d47541137defShe looks over 35 to me in her pics. She's not hot enough to command 5 $$ ppm.
Warning,
She is a scammer.
I posted earlier about this, was using a different name but same pictures See below.
She (maybe he) plays innocent, still a scammer.
https://members.seeking.com/member/d9a81f36-79fc-4731-a75b-ca3a6281b2d1
After permanently jammed from SA, I decided to try out SB.
Created a profile and within a week I had over 50 messages.
With SB you have to buy tokens to respond to messages.
Spent $160 on tokens and replied to at least 40 messages.
No reply back from 37 of them. Of the 3 replies only 1 was willing to meet at an over inflated price.
I declined.
Used up the rest of the tokens by sending messages and no replies back.
This site is a joke. Worse than SA.
Don't waste your time or money.
I had to contact customer service to even close my profile permanently.
The irony is I recognized a few is the profiles that were also on SA but they weren't even replying.
After permanently jammed from SA, I decided to try out SB.
Created a profile and within a week I had over 50 messages.
With SB you have to buy tokens to respond to messages.
Spent $160 on tokens and replied to at least 40 messages.
No reply back from 37 of them. Of the 3 replies only 1 was willing to meet at an over inflated price.
I declined.
Used up the rest of the tokens by sending messages and no replies back..Any site, like SB or AshMad, that charges per message has a built-in incentive to populate the site with bots to get real people to respond, run out and pay more to replenish. That's why, despite the cons of SA, I'm ok with the flat rate and I get a lot more responses. Sorry you had that experience. I have one message left on SB and I'm saving it for that "just in case" profile. Good luck.
At the end of the day and for a lot of reasons I am still a SA member. I've seen several posts about being kicked off Seeking and people trying to get back on with little or no success.
I have been banned before but had success getting back on with this approach:
How To Get Around A Seeking Ban.
I too was "banned" (as if they can really ban anyone LOL) and getting around their security protocols is really quite easy. To circumvent their "ban" you need to do the following:
1. use a different browser than you normally do.
2. Clear History, Cookies & Cache.
3. Change your MAC address on your computer. (easy to do just google it).
4. Create a new Gmail or Yahoo account.
5. Change your burner cell number (more on why in later steps).
6. Purchase a gift card and register (important) the card online Use a fake address and your new phone number as they track phone numbers & addresses in the banned security software.
Now you are ready to sign up again.
1. Always use the same browser you do not use for any other use.
2. Make sure when you confirm the sign up email you are clicking on the email opened in this browser.
3. Make sure if you are using the gift card you exact match the fake address & Phone number you created.
Enjoy!
Any site, like SB or AshMad, that charges per message has a built-in incentive to populate the site with bots to get real people to respond, run out and pay more to replenish. That's why, despite the cons of SA, I'm ok with the flat rate and I get a lot more responses. Sorry you had that experience. I have one message left on SB and I'm saving it for that "just in case" profile. Good luck.
3. Change your MAC address on your computer. (easy to do just google it).
Good advice in general! One small caveat! I did step 3, Change MAC address in the past. 3 months later my internet service was cut off without explanation. Call to CS revealed that they had done a routine "audit" and detected a MAC address that they did not recognize and was not in their system and BOOM cut off the internet. So an additional step: Once you change your MAC address, call and notify ISP of the change so you don't get cut off when they do an audit.
All fwiw.
PartyTimeGuy
05-23-22, 17:16
I posted this in the Richmond SB thread, because I do SB hunting in northern VA, and the Richmond SB thread seems to be the motherlode for SB discussion and advice. However, I do spend considerable time recruiting SBs in the wild in eastern PA (as well as all points north of there to Boston and west to Chicago). So I am referencing my post as it may be useful to some SDs in the Philly area. Happy hunting!
http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?9746-quot-Sugarbabies-quot-quot-Arrangements-quot-Amateurs-or-Not&p=5932194&viewfull=1#post5932194
Not sure how many guys give up their addresses to a girls that they never met. I never do until I at least have met them few times. I know a few years back some houses were being invaded and families were tied up, some times the husband was shot. Sometimes it was a robbery and nothing else. Police would only say they were still investigating. I do know that it was reported that it could have been extortion. I know a guy was killed by 16/17 year old girl in philly. They said she might have been an escort or a "date". The reason I am saying this has anyone had any problems or know of any who did?
I had broke my own rule. But I still felt like it was safe. As of now nothing has happen. But it may. Basically a girl I never met wanted to meet. Schedules didnt line up. Agreed to meet at night. She was very bubbly seemed eger . I told her I don't normally do this. She said she didn't either.. but felt good about it. We texted just about the whole day. She said she is good to come over at 11.I told her the address. She said she will be there in 20.min. 25 minutes go by so I sent her a message. Nothing back i sent her a message saying if you're nervous. We can meet outside a store no big deal. But at the same time I thought it was odd. Her profile is over 2 years old. She was all gung-ho about it. She winds up telling thats she was nervous. So I said ok. I did remind her that she seemed ok. . She apologized and said she broke her rule. Blah blah. I told her I thought whole thing is crazy. I said it kind of felt like a set.up I told her you seem to know what your doing.. doesn't really say anything.
Not sure how many guys give up their addresses to a girls that they never met. I never do until I at least have met them few times. I know a few years back some houses were being invaded and families were tied up, some times the husband was shot. Sometimes it was a robbery and nothing else. Police would only say they were still investigating.I never give me address.
Tell them to meet me at a location 2 minutes away and we will drive back to my place together.
PartyTimeGuy
05-25-22, 00:21
I never give me address.
Tell them to meet me at a location 2 minutes away and we will drive back to my place together.I would never, EVER bring a SB to "my place. " You can find anything you need to know about someone from an address. Most of the time that would not be a problem. However, that one time you bring some sweet young thing back to "your place" and then subsequently unceremoniously dump her, ghost her and / or piss her off in some way? You might discover that hell hath no fury like a crazy biatch scorned. It can be bad enough with civvies, but multiply that by 10 for someone you are paying to fuck; horror stories abound when they know who you are and where you live. That just might be a day you will wish you could get back to do over.
PartyTimeGuy
05-25-22, 00:49
At the end of the day and for a lot of reasons I am still a SA member. I've seen several posts about being kicked off Seeking and people trying to get back on with little or no success.
I have been banned before but had success getting back on with this approach:
How To Get Around A Seeking Ban.
I too was "banned" (as if they can really ban anyone LOL) and getting around their security protocols is really quite easy. To circumvent their "ban" you need to do the following:
1. use a different browser than you normally do.
2. Clear History, Cookies & Cache.
3. Change your MAC address on your computer. (easy to do just google it).
4. Create a new Gmail or Yahoo account.
5. Change your burner cell number (more on why in later steps).
6. Purchase a gift card and register (important) the card online Use a fake address and your new phone number as they track phone numbers & addresses in the banned security software.
Now you are ready to sign up again.
1. Always use the same browser you do not use for any other use.
2. Make sure when you confirm the sign up email you are clicking on the email opened in this browser.
3. Make sure if you are using the gift card you exact match the fake address & Phone number you created.
Enjoy!Bans are getting more sophisticated. Some will deny you if you are using a proxy to hide your IP address and can also have several ways to tell who you are from information in your computer's operating system. The only way to get around such bans is to sign up using a different computer with a different IP address. All of the other suggestions you made still apply, since they can also recognize you from your browser, email address, home address, phone number or credit card.
PartyTimeGuy
05-25-22, 12:26
After permanently jammed from SA, I decided to try out SB.
Created a profile and within a week I had over 50 messages.
With SB you have to buy tokens to respond to messages.
Spent $160 on tokens and replied to at least 40 messages.
No reply back from 37 of them. Of the 3 replies only 1 was willing to meet at an over inflated price.
I declined.
Used up the rest of the tokens by sending messages and no replies back.
This site is a joke. Worse than SA.
Don't waste your time or money.
I had to contact customer service to even close my profile permanently.
The irony is I recognized a few is the profiles that were also on SA but they weren't even replying.Almost everything on line now is crawling with fakes and scammers. That incudes sugar sites, dating sites, message boards like Craigs List, Facebook, Twitter, etc etc "Girls" who don't reply or ask you for deposits or to confirm your identity are just the mild tip of the iceberg. Worse things are waiting for you in scammers who hijack your computer for ransom, steal your identity or find out who you are and where you live and do something harmful to you or you property.
All this crap and other motivations have moved me to doing things "old school," I. E. I do my sugaring in person, in the wild, so to speak. After all, there were SDs and SBs long before there was an internet with sugar sites. In my youth I managed quite well to find tail for pay without a computer or a cell phone. It isn't the easy way out, and it requires more patience, time and some skill. But most things that are worthwhile aren't always simple or unchallenging. And, sometimes, the old ways are the best ways.
Bans are getting more sophisticated. Some will deny you if you are using a proxy to hide your IP address and can also have several ways to tell who you are from information in your computer's operating system. The only way to get around such bans is to sign up using a different computer with a different IP address. All of the other suggestions you made still apply, since they can also recognize you from your browser, email address, home address, phone number or credit card.Some dudes need to be permanently banned from SA, like the dude in my area who picked up the girl from home, drove her out of the area and raped her and then kicked her out leaving her stranded in East Jabib. Way to go Joe C! Guess it makes him feel like a real MAN that he can abuse an 90 girl!
I mean the girl has your full name, email address, phone number, address, etc. What kind of 'genius' does that?
ReadyToTumble
06-02-22, 12:52
https://members.seeking.com/member/a85ecf25-d3fa-416b-a524-55df3eb98f76?ref=email-sa-favorite-rollup-cta&locale=en_US
She looks familar.
Any info on Cassixoxo?
https://members.seeking.com/member/c461ef78-e2b2-452d-a4a1-7dc1b287ac4c
Any info on Cassixoxo?
https://members.seeking.com/member/c461ef78-e2b2-452d-a4a1-7dc1b287ac4cWants 500 ppm.
https://members.seeking.com/member/a85ecf25-d3fa-416b-a524-55df3eb98f76?ref=email-sa-favorite-rollup-cta&locale=en_US
She looks familar.She looks over 40 and worn out.
She contacted me with her text number, red flag right off the bat. But she's exactly who she presents. Two bills, one pop, her place in Blandon (it's owned by her 'sugardaddy' a 72 year old man, and it's a hoarders paradise). She's clean, pretty, sexy, very wide open, and everything is on the table, all bare services. Definitely go see her if you're in her area. Good time was had.
https://members.seeking.com/member/5ee7fc85-9858-4f07-a39c-ab9677ccbc03
OverKill418
06-03-22, 12:47
Wants 500 ppm.Also, flakey.
PiesOnlyPlz
06-05-22, 13:07
https://members.seeking.com/member/88041c93-9071-455e-bbff-d091fc3c3a06
This one started out promising. We moved things to text and set a date to hang out. A few hours later she asked me to buy some of her pics. I never spend money before I meet a girl, so I declined. I haven't heard back from her since. The hunt continues.
ReadyToTumble
06-06-22, 09:44
Wants 500 ppm.She looks like she could be worth it.
Did you ever meet her in person?
She looks like she could be worth it.
Did you ever meet her in person?Nope. Agreed to a meet and greet but she ghosted.
Hey, I am totally fine going to see a regular pro to scratch my itch, but on SA I am at least looking for something with the APPEARANCE of something different.
https://members.seeking.com/member/d8f5dad6-9677-4c89-b4bb-275ad3d8ea3b
This one sends me her number on her first response on the site. I decide to let her cool off and text her a couple hours later. She basically was wanting to meet up "right now" because she's leaving for FL tomorrow. I was too tired and un-interested to bother asking what "allowance" she was looking for.
Hey, I am totally fine going to see a regular pro to scratch my itch, but on SA I am at least looking for something with the APPEARANCE of something different.
https://members.seeking.com/member/d8f5dad6-9677-4c89-b4bb-275ad3d8ea3b
This one sends me her number on her first response on the site. I decide to let her cool off and text her a couple hours later. She basically was wanting to meet up "right now" because she's leaving for FL tomorrow. I was too tired and un-interested to bother asking what "allowance" she was looking for.Annnndddd after another cocktail and a little boredom, I decided to ask anyway LOL.
ReadyToTumble
06-07-22, 09:18
Annnndddd after another cocktail and a little boredom, I decided to ask anyway LOL.God damn. She is fucking hot and I like her vibe. Making me want to re-up my SA membership. I'd throw her a nickel.
SixtyNineX10
06-08-22, 10:39
Fitnesschic- https://members.seeking.com/member/7769baa8-cdab-4795-a99a-b7f96d1e9ff4. Feel free to pm me if you prefer.
Fitnesschic- https://members.seeking.com/member/7769baa8-cdab-4795-a99a-b7f96d1e9ff4. Feel free to PM me if you prefer.She's real. I corresponded with her for a bit but it sort of dried up. I got the impression -- despite a back & forth with more than just one-word answers -- that neither of us were really feeling it, so I don't know what she's looking for in an arrangement. (I'm assuming that's the part you were asking about).
SixtyNineX10
06-08-22, 15:35
https://members.seeking.com/member/7769baa8-cdab-4795-a99a-b7f96d1e9ff4
PiesOnlyPlz
06-08-22, 16:09
Fitnesschic- https://members.seeking.com/member/7769baa8-cdab-4795-a99a-b7f96d1e9ff4. Feel free to pm me if you prefer.I tried to click on the link you provided but the profile isn't showing up for me. If her profile is active, it probably means I blocked her (or she blocked me LOL) for one reason or another. If you can provide a pic or screen shot of her profile, I can most likely give you more info.
SixtyNineX10
06-08-22, 17:20
She's real. I corresponded with her for a bit but it sort of dried up. I got the impression -- despite a back & forth with more than just one-word answers -- that neither of us were really feeling it, so I don't know what she's looking for in an arrangement. (I'm assuming that's the part you were asking about).Thanks for the quick feedback. Will let you know if it goes anywhere.
I tried to click on the link you provided but the profile isn't showing up for me. If her profile is active, it probably means I blocked her (or she blocked me LOL) for one reason or another. If you can provide a pic or screen shot of her profile, I can most likely give you more info.I had the same issue but then remembered to not "copy" the period at the end. That's for future reference because he already corrected the link.
PiesOnlyPlz
06-09-22, 18:36
I had the same issue but then remembered to not "copy" the period at the end. That's for future reference because he already corrected the link.Aha! I never copy, I always just click. I should have spotted the period. Thanks.
SixtyNineX10
06-09-22, 19:36
Aha! I never copy, I always just click. I should have spotted the period. Thanks.Yep. Shame on me. I remember a guy posted like 10 reviews with the period at the end. Never again. Good info on this site!
PiesOnlyPlz
06-11-22, 19:07
https://members.seeking.com/member/0e0ece6b-f2b5-4a7c-9fc0-e3150f0134e9
Met up with this one. She's real but her pictures are from thinner time. Not huge by means, just a little sloppy for my taste. She wanted 2 bills. But once I met her in person, I just wasnt feeling it so I passed.
Nope. Agreed to a meet and greet but she ghosted.I met her, and had a decent platonic meeting (no fee request or anything). I was excited for the intimate date we scheduled, then she was drunk out of her fucking mind when the time of the date came (kept texting to ask where we were meeting, even after the phone call where I told her let's find another time). I am not going to fuck a girl who's that far gone -- the last thing I want her to do is decide the next day that I raped her. She's cute but not worth the flakiness and the addiction problem.
I met her, and had a decent platonic meeting (no fee request or anything). I was excited for the intimate date we scheduled, then she was drunk out of her fucking mind when the time of the date came (kept texting to ask where we were meeting, even after the phone call where I told her let's find another time). I am not going to fuck a girl who's that far gone -- the last thing I want her to do is decide the next day that I raped her. She's cute but not worth the flakiness and the addiction problem.Are you talking about this girl?
https://members.seeking.com/member/0de49eda-decc-462c-af85-eb0020ca81dc
IF so she is permanently drunk as she as asking for $4,000.00 to $5,000.00 per month or $48,000 to $60,000 per year! At a rate of $1,000.00 per meeting! She told me MANY guys have offered her that, I hope you weren't one of them.
I mean shit at $250 per meet I could fuck 4 times for what this broad wants. She is delusional or drunk! Very few times have I had to pay over $200 ppm to a SB, PLus drop $150 on a room. Yeah, she can't host!
I mean maybe you are new and don't know any better? I guess if she can get those prices, there are way more suckers out there than I think? Just saying!
Are you talking about this girl?
https://members.seeking.com/member/0de49eda-decc-462c-af85-eb0020ca81dc
IF so she is permanently drunk as she as asking for $4,000.00 to $5,000.00 per month or $48,000 to $60,000 per year! At a rate of $1,000.00 per meeting! She told me MANY guys have offered her that, I hope you weren't one of them.
I mean shit at $250 per meet I could fuck 4 times for what this broad wants. She is delusional or drunk! Very few times have I had to pay over $200 ppm to a SB, PLus drop $150 on a room. Yeah, she can't host!
I mean maybe you are new and don't know any better? I guess if she can get those prices, there are way more suckers out there than I think? Just saying!No, I was talking about Cassiexoxo, who was mentioned by the previous poster.
Hey all, I apologize in advance for no hyperlink to the profile, we deleted each other before I had a chance to report LOL. But, inflation IS getting out of hand. Had been talking to this married bi / lesbian couple in Swedesboro NJ for a bit (username DoubleTroub) and all was going well until allowance was discussed. They were down with 3 somes (mandatory, they don't play separate) playing with each other (obv) the 3 of us all taking turns while the 3rd watched, 2 v 1 , etc. They said they don't host, BJ is bare but all sex is covered. And then (here's the kicker) said they were expecting 500 . EACH. For EACH visit. I laughed (to myself) wished them luck on that, then bailed. Like I said, no link to profile, but pics attached.
Are you talking about this girl?
https://members.seeking.com/member/0de49eda-decc-462c-af85-eb0020ca81dc
IF so she is permanently drunk as she as asking for $4,000.00 to $5,000.00 per month or $48,000 to $60,000 per year! At a rate of $1,000.00 per meeting! She told me MANY guys have offered her that, I hope you weren't one of them.
I mean shit at $250 per meet I could fuck 4 times for what this broad wants. She is delusional or drunk! Very few times have I had to pay over $200 ppm to a SB, PLus drop $150 on a room. Yeah, she can't host!
I mean maybe you are new and don't know any better? I guess if she can get those prices, there are way more suckers out there than I think? Just saying!We ALL know all SB'S start with a super high number. And all guys start with a low number. It's a delicate process of negotiation to where the SD needs to establish, rules and boundaries, while getting the SB to understand he respects and cares for her, all the while letting her know she's going to be taken care of and getting her to open those legs. Like I said it can be a very delicate process. It's much more delicate than dealing with your average escort, as these girls don't want to be considered that. Even tho, they are STILL essentially providing the same, although, the SB I've had for over for years has done WAY more. Me, maybe just being a guy, I always want more. But, as far as the sack, (AND anywhere else) she had been everything I've ever needed.
Funny, tho. This girl, Cassie, listed "no drinking" in her profile🤣 maybe she should stick to that🤔.
We ALL know all SB'S start with a super high number. And all guys start with a low number. It's a delicate process of negotiation to where the SD needs to establish, rules and boundaries, while getting the SB to understand he respects and cares for her, all the while letting her know she's going to be taken care of and getting her to open those legs. Like I said it can be a very delicate process. It's much more delicate than dealing with your average escort, as these girls don't want to be considered that. Even tho, they are STILL essentially providing the sameI agree with the above statements 100%. Hiring a SB is like going to the car dealership. They know they will ask way too much, I know I will lowball, and we both know the real number lies somewhere in between. The difference is, with some of these girls now, they actually believe they will get that ridiculous asking price. And I, for one, don't have the patience to begin negotiations with those types. I just move on to the next one on the list and start over. Yes, maybe I lose out on a gem here or there, but I've been playing in the sugar bowl long enough to tell the difference between an "ask" and an "expectation" at this point. And honestly, some of the fun in the sugar game is actually in the chase. When I need a sure thing, I can drop 20 on B-way or the Ave or head to stg. As someone in a previous post mentioned, just know the difference between a "want" and a "need".
OverKill418
06-13-22, 09:57
We ALL know all SB'S start with a super high number. And all guys start with a low number. It's a delicate process of negotiation to where the SD needs to establish, rules and boundaries, while getting the SB to understand he respects and cares for her, all the while letting her know she's going to be taken care of and getting her to open those legs. Like I said it can be a very delicate process. It's much more delicate than dealing with your average escort, as these girls don't want to be considered that. Even tho, they are STILL essentially providing the same, although, the SB I've had for over for years has done WAY more. Me, maybe just being a guy, I always want more. But, as far as the sack, (AND anywhere else) she had been everything I've ever needed.
Funny, tho. This girl, Cassie, listed "no drinking" in her profile🤣 maybe she should stick to that🤔.I had been talking to a NYC girl that wanted a 10 k a month allowance. Had good conversation and respectfully declined. She kept texting me every few weeks and I'm like if you were getting that, why are you fishing to see if I changed my mind? I'm sure you are not madly in love with me, so obviously your expectations are unreasonable.
Hey all, I apologize in advance for no hyperlink to the profile, we deleted each other before I had a chance to report LOL. But, inflation IS getting out of hand. Had been talking to this married bi / lesbian couple in Swedesboro NJ for a bit (username DoubleTroub) and all was going well until allowance was discussed. They were down with 3 somes (mandatory, they don't play separate) playing with each other (obv) the 3 of us all taking turns while the 3rd watched, 2 v 1 , etc. They said they don't host, BJ is bare but all sex is covered. And then (here's the kicker) said they were expecting 500 . EACH. For EACH visit. I laughed (to myself) wished them luck on that, then bailed. Like I said, no link to profile, but pics attached.Thanks for the heads up. I've reviewed that profile a few times, being only slightly tempted by the darker haired one, but you saved me the time with the 500/500 thing. Wow. Ridiculous. Even for just the one.
I had been talking to a NYC girl that wanted a 10 k a month allowance. Had good conversation and respectfully declined. She kept texting me every few weeks and I'm like if you were getting that, why are you fishing to see if I changed my mind? I'm sure you are not madly in love with me, so obviously your expectations are unreasonable.So IF a girl keeps texting you after you have told her "NO!" to 10 K per month, wouldn't that indicate a level of desperation and flexibility? Otherwise could it be an obsessive type that needs to be blocked? If it were me I'd try again to negotiate a better deal and if rebuffed, politely wish her adieu. It's all part of the game, like a box of chocolates, each one is a bit different!
I mean every text or contact doesn't need to be responded to and it seems the new ethos of the day is ignoring unwanted texts. Don't over think this, just enjoy and have fun!
So IF a girl keeps texting you after you have told her "NO!" to 10 K per month, wouldn't that indicate a level of desperation and flexibility? Otherwise could it be an obsessive type that needs to be blocked? If it were me I'd try again to negotiate a better deal and if rebuffed, politely wish her adieu. It's all part of the game, like a box of chocolates, each one is a bit different!
I mean every text or contact doesn't need to be responded to and it seems the new ethos of the day is ignoring unwanted texts. Don't over think this, just enjoy and have fun!There's a term in negotiation called "anchoring". If she starts at $10 k that's the anchor you're negotiating down from there. What would be the counter to get to a reasonable compromise, ten cents? $10 k is a hard no.
RedBaron Daron
06-14-22, 17:46
Hey all, I apologize in advance for no hyperlink to the profile, we deleted each other before I had a chance to report LOL. But, inflation IS getting out of hand. Had been talking to this married bi / lesbian couple in Swedesboro NJ for a bit (username DoubleTroub) and all was going well until allowance was discussed. They were down with 3 somes (mandatory, they don't play separate) playing with each other (obv) the 3 of us all taking turns while the 3rd watched, 2 v 1 , etc. They said they don't host, BJ is bare but all sex is covered. And then (here's the kicker) said they were expecting 500 . EACH. For EACH visit. I laughed (to myself) wished them luck on that, then bailed. Like I said, no link to profile, but pics attached.So you got to take the Duff with the Muff? For a Grand? Yeah good call!
RBD out.
RedBaron Daron
06-14-22, 17:50
So IF a girl keeps texting you after you have told her "NO!" to 10 K per month, wouldn't that indicate a level of desperation and flexibility? Otherwise could it be an obsessive type that needs to be blocked? If it were me I'd try again to negotiate a better deal and if rebuffed, politely wish her adieu. It's all part of the game, like a box of chocolates, each one is a bit different!
I mean every text or contact doesn't need to be responded to and it seems the new ethos of the day is ignoring unwanted texts. Don't over think this, just enjoy and have fun!It's like this current housing market. There is usually some clown out there willing to pay it.
RBD out.
It's like this current housing market. There is usually some clown out there willing to pay it.
RBD out.Yeah, but I don't want to be the Sap who buys and then takes a 20% bath after we slide into recession and housing prices slide. 30-yr rate is over 6% now and mtg applications have nearly dried up, so we're getting close. Doubt there are enough dudes to keep paying these high prices to girls as inflation eats away buying power. Me thinks if one looks around, there is some girl that is comparable at a lesser rate and no need for buyer's remorse later when you find her.
IF you chase something in life because the other guy is after it too, often times there is disappointment waiting around the corner. So what if you "win" in getting the girl, in the end you shot a couple of tablespoons of jizz and your wallet is a whole lot lighter. I mean it isn't like you can post on FB, "Look what I got and you didn't!" Overpaying is the ultimate act of thinking with the little head.
So I'm happy to let the clowns take a bath and perhaps learn from "experience!" I'll wait for another opportunity or a girl that gets educated and reasonable.
ReadyToTumble
06-16-22, 13:49
https://members.seeking.com/member/7769baa8-cdab-4795-a99a-b7f96d1e9ff4She wants 5 a meet on a regular basis. NO BB.
She wants 5 a meet on a regular basis. NO BB.Thanks for sharing. I'm glad I didn't continue corresponding with her. There was a range in age / quality in the photos too that slowed me down too.
ReadyToTumble
06-17-22, 14:00
So this girls I fucked before. Pre covid. I fucked her in her house with her kids toys downstairs. Her kids weren't home or anything like that but it kind of messed with the vibe. . etc. We went up to her bedroom. Turns out she has a police tracker on her ankle. She offers to let me BB I pass but she is a pretty good fuck. I think like 250.
So I rejoined recently to reconnect with someone I saw there. She hits be up long story short. She now has a bf for like 4 years. She wants me to come over and fuck her, creampie her and her boyfriend watches then he gets sloppy seconds after and I can watch. So I do like MFM's and DP, DPP, splitroast. But she doesn't want any of that. She wants what I mentioned before and now the topper she quotes me 5. Now its a hard pass.
https://members.seeking.com/member/1ec243f4-871a-4dcb-bdfe-a89bf48b64d3
ReadyToTumble
06-17-22, 14:04
https://members.seeking.com/member/21f3fe9c-08ab-4cd4-8a12-2e42cb50c1a1
I'm think she may be fucking dumb and can't spell secret. ?
But she is hot as fuck. But what's up with the other gal in the background of one of her pics.
Is she a stripper? I usually don't go for black girls but we've had some good conv.
https://members.seeking.com/member/21f3fe9c-08ab-4cd4-8a12-2e42cb50c1a1
I'm think she may be fucking dumb and can't spell secret. ?
But she is hot as fuck. But what's up with the other gal in the background of one of her pics.
Is she a stripper? I usually don't go for black girls but we've had some good conv.She probably did a voice-to-text and yes, she is smoking hot. I started a correspondence with her and she is good to go. I have been a little busy elsewhere, so I haven't gotten to the terms yet. But my impression was the same as yours: she's a dancer and that photo was taken in the changing room so that other girl was a co-worker. Good luck.
https://members.seeking.com/member/21f3fe9c-08ab-4cd4-8a12-2e42cb50c1a1
I'm think she may be fucking dumb and can't spell secret. ?
But she is hot as fuck. But what's up with the other gal in the background of one of her pics.
Is she a stripper? I usually don't go for black girls but we've had some good conv.She has another profile in Pensie or DE with the same misspelled version of secret. Welliscreet. Yeah, she gives great convo, if you can keep her on track. She kept disappearing and coming back to the convo. Tried to nail her down on a time to meet and she kind kept diverting the convo. Claims she bought a "house" in the riverfront in Wilm. I dunno, I think she's a scam. Talks like a stripper or an escort, definitely NOT a SB.
I know it's been said 100's of times, but I don't think it can be stressed enough. NEVER send $ up front before actually meeting someone in person. Just my latest example to hammer the point home:
This one (EasygoingActress) https://members.seeking.com/member/836c7a49-ac13-4bab-97af-f328a2036d95 wanted to move chat off site on first day of communicating (she offered Snapchat initially). We went to text on second day and discussions flowed well and seemed very natural. After a few days of general chat, we began to set up a date for the weekend. Wanted 300 ppm and was offering to stay until morning. Then the red flags went up. She was talking about coming to my house for the first date (my second hard no rule) and wanted 100 up front deposit. After several attempts of "you don't trust me, we have been taking for days" and "I would never rip you off" pleas, "She" (or he or it at this point) finally saw I wasn't going to budge.
Comically, immediately after the discussion ended, their profile location changed from North Philly to Lincoln Nebraska. At least their screen name was appropriate.
ReadyToTumble
06-20-22, 16:36
She has another profile in Pensie or DE with the same misspelled version of secret. Welliscreet. Yeah, she gives great convo, if you can keep her on track. She kept disappearing and coming back to the convo. Tried to nail her down on a time to meet and she kind kept diverting the convo. Claims she bought a "house" in the riverfront in Wilm. I dunno, I think she's a scam. Talks like a stripper or an escort, definitely NOT a SB.So her profile has her location in cherry hill. I ask if she can host, she says no my place is in Del but its undergoi9 ng construction. I have a friend in North Philly. HE LETS me use his place. She tell me she loves fmf. Just wants money for her gf. Hard pass.
OverKill418
06-20-22, 17:46
It's like this current housing market. There is usually some clown out there willing to pay it.
RBD out.Yup big time ignore. Was seeing someone down the shore. She flaked out, had a date, drove to her place and not there. Called and she hung up. Weird because a few days before she even made me dinner. These girls are like feral cats. Never expect them to be stable.
So her profile has her location in cherry hill. I ask if she can host, she says no my place is in Del but its undergoi9 ng construction. I have a friend in North Philly. HE LETS me use his place. She tell me she loves fmf. Just wants money for her gf. Hard pass.Wellisecreet etc. Yes, she confirmed she has two profiles on SA and that her friend put the northern one up for her. Didn't realize the friend was a dude.
She says she was a stripper for 2-months at one point, "years ago! Pic of girl in red-orange bikini is her friend and apparently NOT at a strip club. Yes, sent me pics of her "house" under construction. She has several jobs, could not keep track of all of them, her convo wasn't a straight line, more like a woman in a store, pinballing around. Knows how to operate an excavator. Also heard she likes girls too.
Has GPS and as far as play goes EVERYTHING is to be COVERED and has ZERO flexibility or compromise, even after several dates. Felt like I was talking to a stripper, but something was "off" in the overall presentation / delivery. I'm sure those who think she's a "smoke show" will race out to drop a TONNE of money on her, plus an expensive hotel she requires.
What I am finding is that few girls bother to flirt or even try during convos. It's all about the 500 PPM or whatever they want prerequisite to getting naked. I mean, at least TRY to entice me to open my wallet for you. You presence isn't "enough", Not impressed by a girl that is a 10 and lays there like a sack of potatoes! I guess there are plenty of Simps out there that the visual is all they need?
Me? Like RTT, I'll PASS!
Wellisecreet etc. Yes, she confirmed she has two profiles on SA and that her friend put the northern one up for her. Didn't realize the friend was a dude.
She says she was a stripper for 2-months at one point, "years ago! Pic of girl in red-orange bikini is her friend and apparently NOT at a strip club. Yes, sent me pics of her "house" under construction. She has several jobs, could not keep track of all of them, her convo wasn't a straight line, more like a woman in a store, pinballing around. Knows how to operate an excavator. Also heard she likes girls too.
Has GPS and as far as play goes EVERYTHING is to be COVERED and has ZERO flexibility or compromise, even after several dates. Felt like I was talking to a stripper, but something was "off" in the overall presentation / delivery. I'm sure those who think she's a "smoke show" will race out to drop a TONNE of money on her, plus an expensive hotel she requires.
What I am finding is that few girls bother to flirt or even try during convos. It's all about the 500 PPM or whatever they want prerequisite to getting naked. I mean, at least TRY to entice me to open my wallet for you. You presence isn't "enough", Not impressed by a girl that is a 10 and lays there like a sack of potatoes! I guess there are plenty of Simps out there that the visual is all they need?
Me? Like RTT, I'll PASS!I just want to put my two cents in. And with today's economy, it might not even be worth THAT, but generally speaking, these girls that are on these sites, asking for that kind of money. Either have NOT met anyone, OR they've found themselves a real sucker. I'm voting for the first.
Most of the guys on the sb sites are regular mongers, and do NOT have the means NOR the want to spend that kind of money, even once, let alone repeatedly. Talk to these girls. Let them feel like they're going to have multiple dates. And GIVE then multiple dates. Most guys are one an done, from what info I'VE heard from any SB I've ever spoken to (may be untrue, but I'm a believer). You'd be surprised what you can get by continuing to date a girl (from one of THESE sites, not our usual STG, and kitty ads, etc) on the regular. A few dates, on the more expensive side, treating them with respect, and flattering them a bit, might just get you one that will stick.
Don't get me wrong, no chance in hell, I'm paying 500/ ppm. But a reasonable price, repeatedly, and the girl gets attached. (In a sense). She still going to go bang ya brother, if he's got money in his pocket! But if she's shown a sense of regularity, she'll be less likely to turn down future dates, even if they are longer / less money.
The ppm method is SUPPOSED a temporary thing, transitioning to a more steady "allowance". Which, if given multiple dates over multiple hours, can yield WAY less, per meet.
I could be all wrong, but, hey, give it a shot, or don't. Either way, good luck, happy hunting, and be safe.
I just want to put my two cents in. And with today's economy, it might not even be worth THAT, but generally speaking, these girls that are on these sites, asking for that kind of money. Either have NOT met anyone, OR they've found themselves a real sucker. I'm voting for the first.
Most of the guys on the sb sites are regular mongers, and do NOT have the means NOR the want to spend that kind of money, even once, let alone repeatedly. Talk to these girls. Let them feel like they're going to have multiple dates. And GIVE then multiple dates. Most guys are one an done, from what info I'VE heard from any SB I've ever spoken to (may be untrue, but I'm a believer). You'd be surprised what you can get by continuing to date a girl (from one of THESE sites, not our usual STG, and kitty ads, etc) on the regular. A few dates, on the more expensive side, treating them with respect, and flattering them a bit, might just get you one that will stick.
Don't get me wrong, no chance in hell, I'm paying 500/ ppm. But a reasonable price, repeatedly, and the girl gets attached. (In a sense). She still going to go bang ya brother, if he's got money in his pocket! But if she's shown a sense of regularity, she'll be less likely to turn down future dates, even if they are longer / less money.
The ppm method is SUPPOSED a temporary thing, transitioning to a more steady "allowance". Which, if given multiple dates over multiple hours, can yield WAY less, per meet.
I could be all wrong, but, hey, give it a shot, or don't. Either way, good luck, happy hunting, and be safe.You're not all wrong -- which you obviously know because it's worked for you. I've worked out similar deals with multiples from SA. It's a pretty good system.
JohnLongDong
06-25-22, 14:38
A female member wrote me, with the following and in fact it's the second one to write the same word by word description of what they were seeking:
Ideally Iq would like to meet over dinner or lunch first with a small cash gift of $400 to establish a connection and then we continue with friends with benefits arrangement that would hopefully last long term. $600 allowance per week. Meeting once or twice at my place or yours. But I'm open to suggestions. Just want to get that out of the way so we don't waste time.
Her photos are super hot. Is she real? Who knows but my thinking is if you give her 400 for meet and greet you will have 1 dinner and that's it. They will cut off contact after that.
I just said I have only given something for meet and greet when I liked the girl so much and I knew she was going to be a good friend, and the amount was under 100. And she was. But my gut here, it's a fast scam taking a few guys here and there.
https://members.seeking.com/member/a44215b9-0117-43eb-b9c7-4dfb70397b42
BuffBill75
06-25-22, 15:07
A female member wrote me, with the following and in fact it's the second one to write the same word by word description of what they were seeking:
Ideally Iq would like to meet over dinner or lunch first with a small cash gift of $400 to establish a connection and then we continue with friends with benefits arrangement that would hopefully last long term. $600 allowance per week. Meeting once or twice at my place or yours. But I'm open to suggestions. Just want to get that out of the way so we don't waste time.
Her photos are super hot. Is she real? Who knows but my thinking is if you give her 400 for meet and greet you will have 1 dinner and that's it. They will cut off contact after that.
I just said I have only given something for meet and greet when I liked the girl so much and I knew she was going to be a good friend, and the amount was under 100. And she was. But my gut here, it's a fast scam taking a few guys here and there.
https://members.seeking.com/member/a44215b9-0117-43eb-b9c7-4dfb70397b42If you giver her money at the meet and greet you'll never see her again.
ReadyToTumble
06-28-22, 15:56
https://members.seeking.com/member/2017e3ac-3de7-40a0-919e-c6f29d89d2c4
She looks good.
https://members.seeking.com/member/2017e3ac-3de7-40a0-919e-c6f29d89d2c4
She looks good.Have not met her, but she gives off pro vibes based on the language she uses. Offered to meet for 450 with her hosting.
https://members.seeking.com/member/a4ed996d-dd17-4541-8427-58e5f5ebd34e
Open to PPM. Asked for 300. I passed.
https://members.seeking.com/member/9d07d278-1204-4e62-aff4-c2b55042c65c
Open to PPM but wants to get drinks first. It sounded like she was willing to skip the drinks if I insisted. But the PPM was a no-starter at 500.
https://members.seeking.com/member/c93b65b6-22b4-4b7a-a2de-704bb3144d1d
Wants to be wined and dined and showered with gifts with little in return.
https://members.seeking.com/member/2017e3ac-3de7-40a0-919e-c6f29d89d2c4
She looks good.No info but she looks GREAT!!
Rubber Ducky Boston
06-29-22, 15:46
Have not met her, but she gives off pro vibes based on the language she uses. Offered to meet for 450 with her hosting.She offered you, or you offered her 450 w / her hosting?
She offered you, or you offered her 450 w / her hosting?Sorry, she offered me 450 with her hosting. She said she did not drive and would get a room in Philly and that would be included in 450.
Talked to this one and she was having a bad go of it on the site. Said guys just wanted a prostitute, wanted to immediately show up at her house to fuck and she didn't think that was safe and wanted to get to know someone. But Hey, she made plans to meet for a drink, I confirmed with her an hour beforehand and THEN she goes completely ghost and blocks me on SA. Thus no link.
So anyone else have any success with this woman? Similar experiences?
Talked to this one and she was having a bad go of it on the site. Said guys just wanted a prostitute, wanted to immediately show up at her house to fuck and she didn't think that was safe and wanted to get to know someone. But Hey, she made plans to meet for a drink, I confirmed with her an hour beforehand and THEN she goes completely ghost and blocks me on SA. Thus no link.
So anyone else have any success with this woman? Similar experiences?I've taken many looks at this profile and I couldn't tell whether she was saying, "let's get to the point" (and the "let's get to know each other" was a smokescreen). I guess not. That sucks.
So this girl has red flags all over her!
First when I contacted her her post / advert said she was in South Philly. I get to talking to her and she SAYS she is in Allentown! So much for the "HONEST is key" part! Now I see she changed her location to KoP. Still NOT honest.
Oh she talks kinda a slutty game to try to get you going, but look at those pics, she is thick, plump or small BBW however you rate her. Must be why she leads with her tits in the pictures? Seems to avoid full body shots. Didn't ask but from Her s / and assume they are DDs or DDDs.
Anyway she wanted to meet in KoP and drink then fuck. But this plump girl who I would have to drop 150 on a room in that area asked for 300-400 PPM! WTF! I can pay much less than that for a really nice looking girl. So total outlay for some fatty 450-500? Hard Pass.
But when I politely pointed out that she didn't match my budget, instead of negotiating she BLEW UP on me. I'm no cheap assed wh*re, blah, blah, blah. I always get a kick out of that! 1) Yer on a prostitution website and you were acting like an easy sl\/t, 2) Always pleased when the unstable ones blow up BEFORE I meet them.
https://members.seeking.com/member/17d1ceec-9a42-46d7-8cc3-4b5b1e20876f
She is very friendly and very eager to meet. My only reservation is that she wanted my cell phone number. Not right off the bat. But kind of soon. I don't think she can host. I don't know her pricing because I didn't have an opportunity to schedule.
https://members.seeking.com/member/9fe4a78b-cd38-4d36-83f1-180eec65906d
Highly intelligent, very attractive. Accomplished. Professional. Open marriage but highly discreet. I thought this was going to be a slow-burn but then got a highly specific itemization which did not appear to include FS.
https://members.seeking.com/member/5fb64353-7026-4a6d-b14b-499e251f6680
Obviously young and beautiful. Intelligent and friendly too. Wants the guy to get a room in Center City so add that to whatever price she's looking for and it's certainly too high. I was curious to see what that was, regardless, but correspondence stopped.
https://members.seeking.com/member/16e7cf6d-2439-4779-82c1-36be3ed043cd
Wow. Ready-to-meet in Center City. I thought she was a civilian but saw her ad on edusa too.
Sorry I haven't closed on these so I can provide a full report but I have a good rotation now in addition to being short on time.
Good luck.
https://members.seeking.com/member/17d1ceec-9a42-46d7-8cc3-4b5b1e20876f
She is very friendly and very eager to meet. My only reservation is that she wanted my cell phone number. Not right off the bat. But kind of soon. I don't think she can host. I don't know her pricing because I didn't have an opportunity to schedule.What do you mean by "kinda soon?" I say this because I have almost ZERO conversations with women on that site's email any more. Too paranoid of saying something that gets interpreted wrong and gets me banned for TOS violation. I usually do one or two messages if a girl is interested and then ask for her # so we can text and talk details or specifics of meeting.
I think girls are starting to become aware of the tight restrictions on the site and thus are more willing to go offsite. Many don't know it is $110/ mo fee for a guy and no refunds when banned. But when they learn this their attitude changes greatly!
Oh and when you say a girl asks for your cell number, does that mean you are mongering from a cell phone registered in your IRL real name? You don't have a burner phone and no GV or app layered on the burner?
SweetWillyRoll
07-05-22, 20:44
What do you mean by "kinda soon?" I say this because I have almost ZERO conversations with women on that site's email any more. Too paranoid of saying something that gets interpreted wrong and gets me banned for TOS violation. I usually do one or two messages if a girl is interested and then ask for her # so we can text and talk details or specifics of meeting.
I think girls are starting to become aware of the tight restrictions on the site and thus are more willing to go offsite. Many don't know it is $110/ mo fee for a guy and no refunds when banned. But when they learn this their attitude changes greatly!
Oh and when you say a girl asks for your cell number, does that mean you are mongering from a cell phone registered in your IRL real name? You don't have a burner phone and no GV or app layered on the burner?I get them off the site as soon as possible for this very reason. I don't mind at all when they want to go right to phone.
Did anyone ever meet with "Nicole" on SA from the Warminster area? Mid 20-s, good looking, studying to become an X-ray technician or something along those lines. She has been on and off SA, but I don't see here there anymore so no links unfortunately.
What do you mean by "kinda soon?" I say this because I have almost ZERO conversations with women on that site's email any more. Too paranoid of saying something that gets interpreted wrong and gets me banned for TOS violation. I usually do one or two messages if a girl is interested and then ask for her # so we can text and talk details or specifics of meeting.
I think girls are starting to become aware of the tight restrictions on the site and thus are more willing to go offsite. Many don't know it is $110/ mo fee for a guy and no refunds when banned. But when they learn this their attitude changes greatly!
Oh and when you say a girl asks for your cell number, does that mean you are mongering from a cell phone registered in your IRL real name? You don't have a burner phone and no GV or app layered on the burner?A: It was within the first correspondence after a little back-and-forth. Not all girl's are aware of the filter / restrictions, which is why I had to let that other one with the long menu know that she might want to delete it, which she did. Then again, I don't know if the girls get banned for that or just guys. But I think most are aware that only guys have a subscription; they may not know how much it costs. And yeah, as discussed before, I don't have a burner or GV or app layered on the burner. I know it's stupid but something nags me that that would be the Point of No Return, so I'm just careful bordering on paranoia, so everyone with those precautions / layers in place should ignore it if I ever express concern about the speed with which I'm asked for my number. I might go back to using an App, but many don't like the apps and say so in their profile. Anyway, I post this stuff FWIW. Good luck everyone.
Annnndddd after another cocktail and a little boredom, I decided to ask anyway LOL.Is she on SA? Please share the link!
This one wants 3,000/ month. Nope. Next.
https://members.seeking.com/member/7b04764a-2d75-45b4-b58a-66bf853a5113
This is another 750 ppm so 3,000/ month. Any gent actually meet her? Looks hot.
https://members.seeking.com/member/5ba202c8-a4a5-4508-800f-a5a89e5392c7
This lady seemed legit. The bad news for me is she can only meet after 4:30 pm on weekdays. That's out of my window of opportunity.
https://members.seeking.com/member/7edba2d2-8376-43f6-bac9-af931889d915
This one wants 800 ppm. She wouldn't negotiate with me.
https://members.seeking.com/member/16e7cf6d-2439-4779-82c1-36be3ed043cd
Is she on SA? Please share the link!I did share the link in my original post. We have since blocked each other so can't copy it again from the site. She's posting in FL now anyway, which coincides with some of the discussion I had with her back then.
Rubber Ducky Boston
07-07-22, 10:40
This one wants 3,000/ month. Nope. Next.
https://members.seeking.com/member/7b04764a-2d75-45b4-b58a-66bf853a5113LOL her profile said if she only wanted 500 ppm per week, she'd work at mcdonalds. Yeah sure. Eating at nice restaurants and laying on your back for a few hours = working at mcdonalds 40 hours a week. What an attitude.
LOL her profile said if she only wanted 500 ppm per week, she'd work at mcdonalds. Yeah sure. Eating at nice restaurants and laying on your back for a few hours = working at mcdonalds 40 hours a week. What an attitude.Henry, I was going to write the same thing about the 3 K / month girl (re McDonalds) but GLh beat me to it.
As for the others.
1. The 3 K / m 750 ppm one always struck me as fake because she was back & forth from L. A. But she also telegraphs that she's expensive in her bio so I didn't bother. But yes, hot.
2. I've looked at the 4:30 weekdays one, which would work for me -- so thanks for the legwork -- but I'm on the fence as far as I like a little more curves.
3. Coincidently, I wrote about Chloexo earlier this week. I didn't get to the numbers but knew she couldn't host, so I was holding off on that for awhile. HOWEVER, I stumbled across her in another profile on escort directory e d you s a so I'm thinking that, if you want to meet her, she would have a lower price if you initiated contact through that profile.
OverKill418
07-08-22, 12:34
Henry, I was going to write the same thing about the 3 K / month girl (re McDonalds) but GLh beat me to it.
As for the others.
1. The 3 K / m 750 ppm one always struck me as fake because she was back & forth from L. A. But she also telegraphs that she's expensive in her bio so I didn't bother. But yes, hot.
2. I've looked at the 4:30 weekdays one, which would work for me -- so thanks for the legwork -- but I'm on the fence as far as I like a little more curves.
3. Coincidently, I wrote about Chloexo earlier this week. I didn't get to the numbers but knew she couldn't host, so I was holding off on that for awhile. HOWEVER, I stumbled across her in another profile on escort directory e d you s a so I'm thinking that, if you want to meet her, she would have a lower price if you initiated contact through that profile.I read that McDonald's thing as was thinking that she's in no way in that league. Lot of 6's thinking that are super models. At 3 k a week, I expect a gumade, not a SB.
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