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Burbs Monger
05-05-21, 09:19
Thanks, that was my gut but she talked a good game. This is why the board is so valuable.
Be Safe.
Saw her a while back before she went to rehab. Dead fish with a Nasty attitude to match. I'd save your money and time.
https://www.seeking.com/member/1048186e-dcdb-4e00-b637-bf0868de6b3d
Anyone have any experience with Vanilla Thaii? I've chatted her and she dances at a club locally. Curious if anyone has actually met up with her before.
Buddy Rock
05-06-21, 15:12
https://www.seeking.com/member/1048186e-dcdb-4e00-b637-bf0868de6b3d
Anyone have any experience with Vanilla Thaii? I've chatted her and she dances at a club locally. Curious if anyone has actually met up with her before.She's always trying to get me to go to A club in Harrisburg to meet her.
OverKill418
05-07-21, 18:52
This one was supposed to come over last week and had a last minute"emergency". Today never showed up after confirming yesterday. Same then called and said that she didn't get paid at work and was too stressed to text and cancel. Don't waste your time.
https://www.seeking.com/member/b71bba98-89e8-4f90-b2a8-bb3103ceea8f
Socalcasualguy
05-08-21, 16:14
This one was supposed to come over last week and had a last minute"emergency". Today never showed up after confirming yesterday. Same then called and said that she didn't get paid at work and was too stressed to text and cancel. Don't waste your time.
https://www.seeking.com/member/b71bba98-89e8-4f90-b2a8-bb3103ceea8fThanks for the heads up, as well as posting a pic, instead of just a link. WAY easier to I'd the person, as the scammer often change / delete their profiles and make new ones.
ReadyToTumble
05-12-21, 12:10
She's always trying to get me to go to A club in Harrisburg to meet her.That is one wide ass. Not buying that.
OverKill418
05-13-21, 09:01
Thanks for the heads up, as well as posting a pic, instead of just a link. WAY easier to I'd the person, as the scammer often change / delete their profiles and make new ones.I tried to post screenshots but not right format. Best thing is I tell told her we have sites to share info on scammers and flakes and she said if I did that, it's on me. I'm like, first off, it's your actions that are the issue and so what? Next time at least apologize for wasting my time.
OverKill418
05-17-21, 17:50
This one wanted to set up a FFM. On way to meet, she cancels and blocks me.
Been talking to these two. Anyone have any intel or experience with either? They both seem to have a bit of a K Ave vibe? Otherwise this site has been pretty dry lately.
EvaFayy.
https://www.seeking.com/member/8f8ac8a3-94d9-4891-a48b-a0f1da96d2d2
Xobarbie.
https://www.seeking.com/member/daf551a4-4ff7-4ea0-9b6c-6370ea568209
Fun Jersey
05-26-21, 09:53
Been talking to these two. Anyone have any intel or experience with either? They both seem to have a bit of a K Ave vibe? Otherwise this site has been pretty dry lately.
EvaFayy.
https://www.seeking.com/member/8f8ac8a3-94d9-4891-a48b-a0f1da96d2d2
Xobarbie.
https://www.seeking.com/member/daf551a4-4ff7-4ea0-9b6c-6370ea568209Met with evafay once. Good experience but not exceptional. Showed signs of being a user. Was really hard to schedule with.
OverKill418
05-26-21, 12:00
Met with evafay once. Good experience but not exceptional. Showed signs of being a user. Was really hard to schedule with.Messaged her and got nasty messages in return. Her profile also was gone. Couple days it came back. She was saying her girlfriend was messaging me and she's mad at her when though she's on the site. I was like why don't both of you meet me and solve the issue? She kept messaging me on the site and I was like, you are nuts and obviously on dope.
OverKill418
05-26-21, 12:03
This one wants to meet at cheerleaders where she works. Got into VIP and her box was dry, and she had body odor.
The second one is on STG. I always wondered if she was real.
https://philadelphia.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_e/hi-there-fellas-who-wants-to-p/348542379388
Been talking to these two. Anyone have any intel or experience with either? They both seem to have a bit of a K Ave vibe? Otherwise this site has been pretty dry lately.
EvaFayy.
https://www.seeking.com/member/8f8ac8a3-94d9-4891-a48b-a0f1da96d2d2
Xobarbie.
https://www.seeking.com/member/daf551a4-4ff7-4ea0-9b6c-6370ea568209
This one wants to meet at cheerleaders where she works. Got into VIP and her box was dry, and she had body odor.She's on stg as well https://mount-laurel-nj.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_e/new-girl-ready-for-fun/900497103834.
Thanks fellow mongers for all of your intel and comments confirming my spider senses LOL. You all saved me a bunch of aggravation, funds and possible OD situation. Love these boards and the brohood! Happy Memorial Day and special thanks to all who have served 🇺127480;. <<that’s supposed to be a USA flag lol.
Runner.
The second one is on STG. I always wondered if she was real.
https://philadelphia.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_e/hi-there-fellas-who-wants-to-p/348542379388
OverKill418
05-31-21, 15:45
This one will ask for money to feed her baby within a couple texts.
This one will ask for money to feed her baby within a couple texts.If she lets me pump her body full of it on a daily basis I'll feed whoever she wants. LOL.
If she lets me pump her body full of it on a daily basis I'll feed whoever she wants. LOL.I almost fell of the couch laughing here. Mmm. That would be fun to fill her up!
On a different note, I also am just totally annoyed with the amount of fakes on there now. I got bored the other night and after some texts it became apparent the one I was chatting with was a scammer. Called her? Out on it, waited till she read it then immediately blocked her. I have contacted SA about the amount of phony profiles and the excessive membership fee. 30 days later-crickets.
PH.
OverKill418
06-02-21, 08:54
I almost fell of the couch laughing here. Mmm. That would be fun to fill her up!
On a different note, I also am just totally annoyed with the amount of fakes on there now. I got bored the other night and after some texts it became apparent the one I was chatting with was a scammer. Called her? Out on it, waited till she read it then immediately blocked her. I have contacted SA about the amount of phony profiles and the excessive membership fee. 30 days later-crickets.
PH.She was mad when I told her only an idiot would actually send her money. Her attitude was that guys should just want to help her without anymore in return because that's what it is to be an SB.
She is proof that some people deserve to be thrown out of a helicopter screaming.
www.seeking.com/member/2d1a806e-58b6-4243-b4c2-27aa1fddf9ca
Texted back and forth and seemed real. Asked her to write the date on paper and take a selfie and she did. She wanted to meet up right away. Couldn't make it happen right away so bought some pics off her instead. Quite the body and seems open to a lot. Hit her back up to meet when schedule was finally free and completely nothing.
Anyone any else have any experience with her?
Also, this one got back to me, but she just said she isn't on often and wanted to know what I was looking for. Haven't heard back.
www.seeking.com/member/78da5d97-e09d-475c-bd16-67ee38be0b17
Basically same with this lady as well.
www.seeking.com/member/9e7654bd-626f-4ee3-859f-5f0219f9c8ba
Is real, just not on the site often. VERY particular about who she meets up with. Also uses protection for everything including oral, which is a no go for me. Not the prettiest face in the world either. Nice body though and nice lady from our chatting.
www.seeking.com/member/2d1a806e-58b6-4243-b4c2-27aa1fddf9ca
Texted back and forth and seemed real. Asked her to write the date on paper and take a selfie and she did. She wanted to meet up right away. Couldn't make it happen right away so bought some pics off her instead. Quite the body and seems open to a lot. Hit her back up to meet when schedule was finally free and completely nothing.
Anyone any else have any experience with her?
Also, this one got back to me, but she just said she isn't on often and wanted to know what I was looking for. Haven't heard back.
www.seeking.com/member/78da5d97-e09d-475c-bd16-67ee38be0b17
Basically same with this lady as well.
www.seeking.com/member/9e7654bd-626f-4ee3-859f-5f0219f9c8ba
ProCatHunter
06-18-21, 11:34
https://www.seeking.com/member/17b4464b-cd64-4677-a690-2b83a18f5471
This one is amazing. Petite blond coed. Her tag line is accurate. Super adorable and likes to dress up for daddy.
Allowance requirements were $ $ $ $ which I normally never do, but ended up agreeing to because she sucked me in. Was well worth it but because I only infrequently visit, and going to have to let her go. Maybe one of you gents can have fun with her.
https://www.seeking.com/member/17b4464b-cd64-4677-a690-2b83a18f5471
This one is amazing. Petite blond coed. Her tag line is accurate. Super adorable and likes to dress up for daddy.
Allowance requirements were $ $ $ $ which I normally never do, but ended up agreeing to because she sucked me in. Was well worth it but because I only infrequently visit, and going to have to let her go. Maybe one of you gents can have fun with her.Couldn't find that profile.
ProCatHunter
06-19-21, 09:03
Couldn't find that profile.Sorry fellas. It's now deleted.
BuffBill75
06-22-21, 08:26
Good morning gents. Have any of you had the pleasure of meeting either of these ladies?
https://www.seeking.com/member/1e62c1a0-e962-4c20-9cb8-ffe3872ad332
https://www.seeking.com/member/ccaff03c-c2b3-4040-b1b0-19e33ca8f26c
Burbs Monger
06-22-21, 09:52
I know the first one very well and posted about her a while back. She has a rocking body if you like petite thin ladies, however like so many she has demons. I stopped seeing her a while ago because of her habit, her many legal issues, her outstanding warrants, her gang affiliation, and her overall ghetto lifestyle. She still texts me and just got out of rehab again, but has no reliable transportation, lives in Chester, and still has issues. She does have an * now apparently but I have so many pics and vids of her already from our escapades 2 years ago.
Best of luck if you take the plunge.
Be Safe.
Good morning gents. Have any of you had the pleasure of meeting either of these ladies?
https://www.seeking.com/member/1e62c1a0-e962-4c20-9cb8-ffe3872ad332
https://www.seeking.com/member/ccaff03c-c2b3-4040-b1b0-19e33ca8f26c
Anyone seeing or has seen little Miss? Feedback?
https://www.seeking.com/member/8ccc3209-ff8d-44da-a095-8dfa4da317a1
Buddy Rock
06-22-21, 12:27
I know the first one very well and posted about her a while back. She has a rocking body if you like petite thin ladies, however like so many she has demons. I stopped seeing her a while ago because of her habit, her many legal issues, her outstanding warrants, her gang affiliation, and her overall ghetto lifestyle. She still texts me and just got out of rehab again, but has no reliable transportation, lives in Chester, and still has issues. She does have an * now apparently but I have so many pics and vids of her already from our escapades 2 years ago.
Best of luck if you take the plunge.
Be Safe.Was talking with her. Stopped after she wanted me to send her a dick pic to prove I wasn't a cop. LOL.
Seemed weird so I didn't pursue.
Buddy Rock
06-22-21, 13:00
Was talking with her. Stopped after she wanted me to send her a dick pic to prove I wasn't a cop. LOL.
Seemed weird so I didn't pursue.Also quoted 400 FYI.
BuffBill75
06-22-21, 14:33
Was talking with her. Stopped after she wanted me to send her a dick pic to prove I wasn't a cop. LOL.
Seemed weird so I didn't pursue.Sound like more trouble than it's worth. I had a weird feeling about her. You just confirmed it.
Back in March you asked about her, and said you were moving to text. A couple of people, including me, replied (I can still see the posts).
Anyone seeing or has seen little Miss? Feedback?
https://www.seeking.com/member/8ccc3209-ff8d-44da-a095-8dfa4da317a1
Back in March you asked about her, and said you were moving to text. A couple of people, including me, replied (I can still see the posts).Yes, I'm not asking at random, I'm asking b / c I've been seeing her and I was wondering if others were as well. I was being cagey b / c one of the participants here outed me with her and sent her to this forum.
ProCatHunter
06-29-21, 17:42
https://www.seeking.com/member/17b4464b-cd64-4677-a690-2b83a18f5471
This one is amazing. Petite blond coed. Her tag line is accurate. Super adorable and likes to dress up for daddy.
Allowance requirements were $ $ $ $ which I normally never do, but ended up agreeing to because she sucked me in. Was well worth it but because I only infrequently visit, and going to have to let her go. Maybe one of you gents can have fun with her.Profile is back up now gents. Go get her. Don't bother pm'ing me and asking for details on her if you're not a senior member who has posted actionable intel on the board. Sharing is caring my friend.
ProCatHunter
06-29-21, 17:44
Yes, I'm not asking at random, I'm asking b / c I've been seeing her and I was wondering if others were as well. I was being cagey b / c one of the participants here outed me with her and sent her to this forum.Why are brothers outing each other on the board here?
So I decided to check out SA. I have been on a few months but never upgraded. I would get a few messages, but never responded. SA has a discount going on. . Great So I decided to upgrade. As soon as I send my card info. And signed back on I was suspended. WTF. I never even got a chance to read or even send a message. If there is something up with my profile why was it not suspended a month ago when it was a regular account. That you really can't do anything with. Nothing changed but me paying to see how the site works. That's some shady sh! T. I know I can write them. I am thinking about canceling. Just because I have to go through this BS. Why would my account be suspended? So SA can get the bots ready?
So I decided to check out SA. I have been on a few months but never upgraded. I would get a few messages, but never responded. SA has a discount going on. . Great So I decided to upgrade. As soon as I send my card info. And signed back on I was suspended. WTF. I never even got a chance to read or even send a message. If there is something up with my profile why was it not suspended a month ago when it was a regular account. That you really can't do anything with. Nothing changed but me paying to see how the site works. That's some shady sh! T. I know I can write them. I am thinking about canceling. Just because I have to go through this BS. Why would my account be suspended? So SA can get the bots ready?Hey I know this is frustrating as heck, but reading the GF SB thread here (Richmond, VA) indicates you are not alone. Others have had problems too with account suspension. That site is walking a FOSTA-SESTA tight rope and any slight sniffle or sneeze....
So it sounds like your choices are to "cancel" your membership, at which point your ENTIRE 'investment' will be lost. Yeah, read the fine print, they have a pretty strict "NO REFUNDS" policy!
So your best bet is a kindly worded request for help through the ticket system. See if you can charm them into helping you get your account reinstated and identifying any "issues" that you could correct. Might not hurt to read their guidelines too, so you can talk with them about your profile.
Never fear, others have gone hat in hand to CS and gotten their accounts restored! Just don't let your frustration guide your actions AND not cloud your approach when reaching out for help! You'll get there! Just hope the time it takes is less that the level of minimum wage for your time!
Good luck!
Burbs Monger
07-03-21, 10:53
This is good advise. If you ask the help desk, they will typically identify what specifically in your profile was the issue. However, if a member of members reported you for something, they will never identify the member. It is always best to be calm and apologetic and they usually will let you off with a warning and restore your account, that's been my experience in the past.
Be of luck and Be Safe.
Hey I know this is frustrating as heck, but reading the GF SB thread here (Richmond, VA) indicates you are not alone. Others have had problems too with account suspension. That site is walking a FOSTA-SESTA tight rope and any slight sniffle or sneeze....
So it sounds like your choices are to "cancel" your membership, at which point your ENTIRE 'investment' will be lost. Yeah, read the fine print, they have a pretty strict "NO REFUNDS" policy!
So your best bet is a kindly worded request for help through the ticket system. See if you can charm them into helping you get your account reinstated and identifying any "issues" that you could correct. Might not hurt to read their guidelines too, so you can talk with them about your profile.
Never fear, others have gone hat in hand to CS and gotten their accounts restored! Just don't let your frustration guide your actions AND not cloud your approach when reaching out for help! You'll get there! Just hope the time it takes is less that the level of minimum wage for your time!
Good luck!
This is good advise. If you ask the help desk, they will typically identify what specifically in your profile was the issue. However, if a member of members reported you for something, they will never identify the member. It is always best to be calm and apologetic and they usually will let you off with a warning and restore your account, that's been my experience in the past.
Be of luck and Be Safe.I appreciate the advice but I already went with a different approach and basically said it's BS. I mean I am a new customer that wanted to pay. I also said that I would spread the news that your site is bogus. Anyway they did respond said it was my payment that was the issue. Hmm its Visa from a major bank that I just used. Well maybe it could be. But my point is, I was instantly suspended when I went to start an upgrade.
To my account. It's like SA wants to make sure they have their bots ready or maybe they want to hold my account until the sale ends. SA did respond and said my suspension is lifted but also stated that my payment did not go through. Here is the response.
Hi there,
Thank you for reaching out to us. I'm very sorry to hear that your payment was declined and your account suspended. Our automated fraud system detects fraud for multiple reasons and using various different criteria. In most cases, suspended accounts will be reviewed by a member of our team within 48 hours, and if cleared, you will be able to access the system again.
As mentioned, all of your attempts were declined. Please note that any recent charges you see are just pending authorizations that will fall off shortly.
Unfortunately, our system is continuing to flag your payments. We were able to reinstate your account, however, the only way you will be able to upgrade is by waiting 24 hours for the hold to clear automatically.
Again, we are very sorry for the inconvenience, but unfortunately, there is no way currently to lift the hold on your billing. We would greatly appreciate your patience and cooperation in this matter!
[Deleted by Admin]
Do you work for SA? If you do sent me a PM and lets talk about advertising. Otherwise they probably don't need you to defend them.
A2
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EDITOR'S NOTE: This report was deleted because it contributed nothing of value and in fact constituted a complete waste of bandwidth.
The purpose of this Forum is to provide for the exchange if information between men on the subject of finding women for sex. Let's stick to the subject.
So I straightened out what was going on with SA. It was my bank that flagged the payment. So I had to tell the bank it's was ok. Which is a first for me. Maybe I flipped a little when my account was suspended. I look at it this way I'm a paying customer and if I didn't do anything wrong I'm not going be very polite especially when I never even got started and they want like 2×× 3 xx every 90 days.
I have been on a few Adult dating websites in the past. I can't think of the one right now. But it had girls sending you messages left and right. Said they were up to almost anything. When I tried to get info on where they were at they would give me very generic messages. In fact all the messages were generic. I would say to them that your fake and not even close to my area. So that was canceled right away. I had some luck years ago with AM. But its a shell of itself now.
So now it's SA and I can say I talked to a number of girls and a couple wanted to meet right away. But wow they are up there is price 5 xx what I have been seeing. A couple of girls don't say what they want but I can tell they interested. Some even gave me their numbers. But I did not text / call them. I am just feeling them out and SA. So far it seems ok. I can see it will take some work with some girls. It's got its positives and negatives.
So I straightened out what was going on with SA. It was my bank that flagged the payment. So I had to tell the bank it's was ok. Which is a first for me. Maybe I flipped a little when my account was suspended. I look at it this way I'm a paying customer and if I didn't do anything wrong I'm not going be very polite especially when I never even got started and they want like 2 3 xx every 90 days.
I have been on a few Adult dating websites in the past. I can't think of the one right now. But it had girls sending you messages left and right. Said they were up to almost anything. When I tried to get info on where they were at they would give me very generic messages. In fact all the messages were generic. I would say to them that your fake and not even close to my area. So that was canceled right away. I had some luck years ago with AM. But its a shell of itself now.
So now it's SA and I can say I talked to a number of girls and a couple wanted to meet right away. But wow they are up there is price 5 xx what I have been seeing. A couple of girls don't say what they want but I can tell they interested. Some even gave me their numbers. But I did not text / call them. I am just feeling them out and SA. So far it seems ok. I can see it will take some work with some girls. It's got its positives and negatives.If you look for my posts in this thread I walk through what I did back in the winter. I used SA pretty intensely for a month, saw 4 different women at least once each and out of that 4 ended up with the one I'm still seeing and have even traveled a bit with. It takes time, persistence and (if you're trying to see as many as possible in a short period of time) a fair bit of cash. For me it was worth it to find someone I'm compatible with, is great in bed and not a drug user (I suspect one of the 4 was, that's a red line for me for a SB).
Charlie is real but a disappointment. Don't waste your time unless you want something only half finished.
PH.
JohnSmith2215
07-09-21, 18:40
Hey Guys,
Long time lurker first time poster.
Was very active on SA for a few years, a few years ago. Just bought a new membership this weekend.
Haven't met anyone yet but thought I'd give back a little bit of what I've received.
Pretha.
https://www.seeking.com/member/da0f4d87-a7a2-4d69-86f5-fe5ab8067a57
Said she wanted to start with nude video chats and then would be open to meeting in person. Honestly, I believed her.
I offered my snapchat and she said she only used IG (which I don't have) because people called her randomly on snap.
Blocked me when I didn't agree to IG.
Xxtor.
https://www.seeking.com/member/c7e0ebef-d365-4c40-a253-2bad9820f539
Approached her nicely, she offered number, said she's had profiles before, didn't follow up yet but seemed to be game / know the drill.
Kardibree23.
https://www.seeking.com/member/8f124bab-6ba8-403d-ab51-d459e6b55f01
Didn't really answer my message; just said hey and sent her number. Didn't follow up yet.
Kcon17.
https://www.seeking.com/member/87ffd269-2539-49ec-aee0-b22822edb5ea
Wanted 400 ppm, pretty firm on that so I didn't take the convo further.
Kitkatee12.
https://www.seeking.com/member/6559cbc2-8e7f-4cd4-8651-b3c044b76726
Seemed game, friendly, moved quickly to social media, convo fell off (I put attention elsewhere) but seemed interested in meeting.
Sweetbabygirlxxoo.
https://www.seeking.com/member/00e40b38-267a-4cd3-be02-929aa60e9312
Sent number after first message; didn't follow up yet.
Ark_7, sexwax, kittycat23, Badlilbabii, and shawties16 all blocked me for sending a friendly opening message; being more direct may be a better route with them.
JohnLongDong
07-11-21, 08:12
Charlie is real but a disappointment. Don't waste your time unless you want something only half finished.
PH.I had been talking with her and she said she doesn't deliver fully. She gave me a warning. I am guessing you didn't get one from her. Plus she wanted a Lyft or Uber from where she lives. She lives a good 40 miles from me. I said not interested.
Charlie is real but a disappointment. Don't waste your time unless you want something only half finished.
PH.I've talked to her (but never pulled the trigger, because she's pretty up front that she doesn't do everything on the first date). I was never able to find out how much she *will* do, though.
I had been talking with her and she said she doesn't deliver fully. She gave me a warning. I am guessing you didn't get one from her. Plus she wanted a Lyft or Uber from where she lives. She lives a good 40 miles from me. I said not interested.Yes, exactly.
I had been talking with her and she said she doesn't deliver fully. She gave me a warning. I am guessing you didn't get one from her. Plus she wanted a Lyft or Uber from where she lives. She lives a good 40 miles from me. I said not interested.I got the same message from her. And she wanted 250 for a BJ. I just laughed.
OverKill418
07-14-21, 09:54
Hey Guys,
Long time lurker first time poster.
Was very active on SA for a few years, a few years ago. Just bought a new membership this weekend.
Haven't met anyone yet but thought I'd give back a little bit of what I've received.
Pretha.
https://www.seeking.com/member/da0f4d87-a7a2-4d69-86f5-fe5ab8067a57
Said she wanted to start with nude video chats and then would be open to meeting in person. Honestly, I believed her.
I offered my snapchat and she said she only used IG (which I don't have) because people called her randomly on snap.
Blocked me when I didn't agree to IG.
Xxtor.
https://www.seeking.com/member/c7e0ebef-d365-4c40-a253-2bad9820f539
Approached her nicely, she offered number, said she's had profiles before, didn't follow up yet but seemed to be game / know the drill.
Kardibree23.Kittkate was texting me and then hit me up for money. Claims her apartment flooded and needed to get a hotel room. Blocked instantly.
ReadyToTumble
07-14-21, 15:21
Hey Guys,
Long time lurker first time poster.
Was very active on SA for a few years, a few years ago. Just bought a new membership this weekend.
Haven't met anyone yet but thought I'd give back a little bit of what I've received.Here is my experience.
Kcon17. - We had a date set up in KOP. Then she told me she is a one shot CFS girl. That she expected to spend less than a hour and that she was gone right after my pop.
https://www.seeking.com/member/87ffd269-2539-49ec-aee0-b22822edb5ea
Wanted 400 ppm, pretty firm on that so I didn't take the convo further.
Kitkatee12. I had numerous times dates with her. In fact we talked and she was shopping in a not to far supermarket. She said she was going to bring her groceries home and we were going to hit the Inn of the Dove. Then crickets. She is flakey. I don't know anyone that met her.
https://www.seeking.com/member/6559cbc2-8e7f-4cd4-8651-b3c044b76726
Seemed game, friendly, moved quickly to social media, convo fell off (I put attention elsewhere) but seemed interested in meeting.
ReadyToTumble
07-15-21, 14:44
Kittkate was texting me and then hit me up for money. Claims her apartment flooded and needed to get a hotel room. Blocked instantly.That's complete bullshit. She lives in Central Bucks area. She is no where near the area that was hit even though her profile has something different.
Burbs Monger
07-15-21, 19:36
I talked with her a while ago and I thought she was in the Levittown area which was hammered by rain and flooding, however, she is a total flake and I never met her thank god. KCON- she is a total ***** when I talked with her, way too many rules for the price of admission.
Be Safe.
That's complete bullshit. She lives in Central Bucks area. She is no where near the area that was hit even though her profile has something different.
OverKill418
07-16-21, 15:26
I talked with her a while ago and I thought she was in the Levittown area which was hammered by rain and flooding, however, she is a total flake and I never met her thank god. KCON- she is a total ***** when I talked with her, way too many rules for the price of admission.
Be Safe.Amazing that any of these girls still are getting responses, more guys need to be checking here. It's saved me a few headaches.
Mayfran on SA in West Chester, Pa.
Has anyone seen her? Would like to hear your experience. Please PM me.
Thanks,
PH.
Mayfran on SA in West Chester, Pa.
Has anyone seen her? Would like to hear your experience. Please PM me.
Thanks,
PH.I had a terrible experience with her last year.
Initially she asked for $300.
I declined since she is on the heavier side and I prefer a more petite body.
Then we negotiated for $100 for just oral.
Told me she was doing this to save money to move out west and had a few regulars.
Told me her oral was the best.
She came to my house. Looked like her pics.
But when it came time to perform, she wanted to do it her way.
I kept telling her I didn't like how she was doing it (too hard) but all she.
Would say was I need to relax and let her do her "job" and "she's very good".
It got to the point it was uncomfortable and no pleasure no matter how many times I would tell.
Her I'm not enjoying it.
She Ended up letting me have sex. Busted quick and told her to leave.
Would not recommend or repeat.
If I am paying I like to give direction and communicate what I like.
She clearly didn't understand that.
Worst oral I have ever received.
But some may like her skills.
User comehereboys is a scammer. Makes plans to meet and then asks for you to send her cash at the last minute. Here's a link to her profile: https://www.seeking.com/member/73f7ce80-1231-4705-b437-b9c5d3f0aa71.
The profile is a little weird, asking to text or snapchat right away, but what the hell? Maybe worth a shot. We snapchatted and she sent a bunch of pictures--she's a model with an agency in Philly and her real name and info is easy to find. She sends real pics--but, she can barely keep the game up. Obviously not a very bright bulb. She can't stop herself from being rude in messages and has a hard time communicating. I might send "Looking forward to seeing you soon" and she would reply "What they hell is that supposed to mean?" And she would send lots of pics, so I felt compelled to reply something like, "You've got great eyes" and she would reply "Please don't comment on my appearance until you give me an allowance. ".
Anyway, right before we meet she wants me to send her some money and won't accept cash when we meet. Typical scam. Avoid.
User comehereboys is a scammer. Makes plans to meet and then asks for you to send her cash at the last minute. Here's a link to her profile: https://www.seeking.com/member/73f7ce80-1231-4705-b437-b9c5d3f0aa71.
The profile is a little weird, asking to text or snapchat right away, but what the hell? Maybe worth a shot. We snapchatted and she sent a bunch of pictures--she's a model with an agency in Philly and her real name and info is easy to find. She sends real pics--but, she can barely keep the game up. Obviously not a very bright bulb. She can't stop herself from being rude in messages and has a hard time communicating. I might send "Looking forward to seeing you soon" and she would reply "What they hell is that supposed to mean?" And she would send lots of pics, so I felt compelled to reply something like, "You've got great eyes" and she would reply "Please don't comment on my appearance until you give me an allowance. ".
Anyway, right before we meet she wants me to send her some money and won't accept cash when we meet. Typical scam. Avoid.This has happened a lot to me the last few months and it's usually the women in their 20's.
They agree to meeting and then ask for money right before it's time. Always some excuse to get you to pay.
Unfortunately there must be guys outside there that actually do give money people to meeting.
I had a terrible experience with her last year.
Initially she asked for $300.
I declined since she is on the heavier side and I prefer a more petite body.
Then we negotiated for $100 for just oral.
Told me she was doing this to save money to move out west and had a few regulars.
Told me her oral was the best.
She came to my house. Looked like her pics.
But when it came time to perform, she wanted to do it her way.
I kept telling her I didn't like how she was doing it (too hard) but all she.
Would say was I need to relax and let her do her "job" and "she's very good".
It got to the point it was uncomfortable and no pleasure no matter how many times I would tell.
Her I'm not enjoying it.
She Ended up letting me have sex. Busted quick and told her to leave.
Would not recommend or repeat.
If I am paying I like to give direction and communicate what I like.
She clearly didn't understand that.
Worst oral I have ever received.
But some may like her skills.She ]Started at $400, I agreed to 3.
I saw the big tits and was into it. Didn't notice the belly till we met but she was all happy and looking good otherwise so I continued with our M&G.
We got something to eat and it started off well.
Told me a while not exactly the same, similar story.
Was real flirty, rubbing on me and when we were almost done told me how much she needed sex constantly and "doesn't like latex".
She finished her drink and said lets go. I thought we were off to the races. But it was not to be.
Got out to the parking lot where there were others in and around and I said I would follow her back to her place and she says- oh no you misunderstood. What? Uh no I didn't.
Tells me she lives a hour away. Now we already aren't in West Chester but further north and you live a hour away? Why did we meet at this place? My guess to get a free meal and drinks.
Anyway the story ended soon thereafter. I am not going to argue about this shit. I had a good meal. (no I didn't pay anything since we didn't finish our date).
She called on the way home and said we can do it next time.
After a long pandemic break, I came back and was a member for just 30 days.
It takes time to filter the scammers, GPS and picture sellers, but met some great ladies for fun times.
I treat the lady w respect and treat the meet as I would with someone not on SA.
It works for me. I met nice, beautiful women for fun company.
Like others said, how you treat the potential SB determines what you end up with.
Good luck w your search.
WillieZee914
07-26-21, 18:46
That's complete bullshit. She lives in Central Bucks area. She is no where near the area that was hit even though her profile has something different.She asked me to pay her phone bill so that we could meet the next day, because it was about to get shut off. I said sure, I'll pay it direct to ATT wireless, just give me your name and zip. Crickets. Shows that she just wanted a cashapp. Keep moving.
JohnLongDong
07-30-21, 22:20
https://www.seeking.com/member/161a193b-7656-4365-b53a-da9506542d86
This one is slippery. She didn't get anything but she makes it sound like she wants to meet for dinner and then go to a hotel afterwards. She is close by so she mentions a restaurant nearby. She says she would like me to send some $ for gas to get there. And her allowance. I said what? I don't know you; haven't met you; don't know if you have balls or what and you are asking for what? She then apologizes and says I can give her everything at the restaurant. I say I don't discuss anything about anything and anything I give you is after we become friends. Crickets. This is a typical encounter.
JohnLongDong
07-31-21, 10:25
SA can be a very precarious adventure. It can be great also. It is potluck to say the least.
1. Scams. Scams can be avoided by following the rule, stop your communication once they ask for $ before you ever meet the person. When they ask for CashApps before meeting, you know they may be a guy or a girl it doesn't matter, they won't meet you. I don't give anything to any new meet until our meeting is done. Some will dash.
2. Mental illness and drug addicts. I have run into drug addicts and paranoid schizophrenics. And probably one was both. When communicating with them, look for sudden bursts of anger. You don't want to be alone with them. They are very unpredictable. Unfortunately I had one encounter like that. I ran as fast as I could.
3. Gage their mental health and physical health at meet and greets. Use the time with them to judge their state of mind. Sometimes you can't tell but if they are disheveled, you will know right away. Fentanyl and heroin users nod out frequently. Crystal Meth users rage.
4. When a woman reaches out to you from a far distance away and has no ties to the area, it usually means it's a story that's coming and an attempt to gain your sympathy for a payout. I have been reached about dying grandmothers without $ to bury her. They get very creative as they claim instant attraction towards you.
5. I have started a couple without intimacy with very small allowance and let the friendship grow. One worked out very well. She was a recent graduate at the time and thought the small amount was aiding her survival without hitting up her parents. It was very much appreciated. She gave me clues along the way.
Add anything else that you have experienced. The good experiences, not many, have been very easygoing. Most of the bad ones had clues.
JohnLongDong
07-31-21, 11:55
This lists as her being in California but she sends guys favorites and messages saying she is in your City.
But she is also in Boston, as there is a discussion about her on the SB thread on her there.
https://www.seeking.com/member/bf68c598-acb5-4111-bf09-002f9d0bb83e
I haven't gotten to the request for deposit yet. I keep on asking to meet at a public place. She said her ppm is 300 for 3 hours. She is staying at the Westin. Never responds to meeting at a public place.
Any experience or intel on this date? Thanks for the help!
https://www.seeking.com/member/905e1247-b334-4238-99fb-927d736d71f4
Any experience or intel on this date? Thanks for the help!
https://www.seeking.com/member/905e1247-b334-4238-99fb-927d736d71f4A friend of mine fucked her. She was fun. Her teeth are a mess so he didn't repeat. I forget the cost, but he never pays more than 300. He also said he thought she might have a pimp. But that was just speculation on his part. The fucked up teeth are first hand knowledge. LOL.
YellowLuvin
08-05-21, 15:50
A friend of mine fucked her. She was fun. Her teeth are a mess so he didn't repeat. I forget the cost, but he never pays more than 300. He also said he thought she might have a pimp. But that was just speculation on his part. The fucked up teeth are first hand knowledge. LOL.Definitely has a pimp / driver / candy problems.
I appreciate the confirmations. My spider senses seems to pick up some weirds vibes. This board is rocks!
Definitely has a pimp / driver / candy problems.
MilesNoDavis
08-11-21, 10:23
Beeyou2 fulbaby.
https://www.seeking.com/member/95e2ebb4-18d6-4f71-9258-4674f35d623c
Burbs Monger
08-12-21, 15:38
Fellow Mongers,
Looking for any assistance on the above prospect. Her link on SA https://www.seeking.com/member/b73f5c4c-ba1b-4fe8-8da0-622430aa3d6b..
Got her number and we have been texting. She initially started at 6 bens but I have gotten her down to 400. No trips to Greece, cover required for main event. Very paranoid about how clean I am even though I get tested monthly with very recent results. She is in the snj area next week.
Let me know if you have partaken, will take the plunge if I get positive feedback.
Thanks and Be Safe.
Fellow Mongers,
Looking for any assistance on the above prospect. Her link on SA https://www.seeking.com/member/b73f5c4c-ba1b-4fe8-8da0-622430aa3d6b..
Got her number and we have been texting. She initially started at 6 bens but I have gotten her down to 400. No trips to Greece, cover required for main event. Very paranoid about how clean I am even though I get tested monthly with very recent results. She is in the snj area next week.
Let me know if you have partaken, will take the plunge if I get positive feedback.
Thanks and Be Safe.Looks like her profile is down.
Burbs Monger
08-13-21, 10:39
Not sure why the link is not working. She is still on. She is a premium member so probably using the hidden feature to reduce messages. Her primary location is now philly, with other locations in ridgewood nj and kop.
Thanks and Be Safe.
Looks like her profile is down.
Not sure why the link is not working. She is still on. She is a premium member so probably using the hidden feature to reduce messages. Her primary location is now philly, with other locations in ridgewood nj and kop.
Thanks and Be Safe.I now assume she blocked me. LOL.
Uncountable
08-13-21, 12:55
I now assume she blocked me. LOL.You are probably not blocked. The link was incorrectly posted with a period at the end. Try this.
https://www.seeking.com/member/b73f5c4c-ba1b-4fe8-8da0-622430aa3d6b
Fellow Mongers,
Looking for any assistance on the above prospect. Her link on SA https://www.seeking.com/member/b73f5c4c-ba1b-4fe8-8da0-622430aa3d6b..
Got her number and we have been texting. She initially started at 6 bens but I have gotten her down to 400. No trips to Greece, cover required for main event. Very paranoid about how clean I am even though I get tested monthly with very recent results. She is in the snj area next week.
Let me know if you have partaken, will take the plunge if I get positive feedback.
Thanks and Be Safe.Extra dots at end of link.
She is cute, good luck and hope that works out. I generally don't ever discuss $ before meeting as I have found once we have talked for a bit the arrangement is more to my liking but also understand some girls won't meet until that is agreed upon.
PH.
Fellow Mongers,
Looking for any assistance on the above prospect. Her link on SA https://www.seeking.com/member/b73f5c4c-ba1b-4fe8-8da0-622430aa3d6b..
Got her number and we have been texting. She initially started at 6 bens but I have gotten her down to 400. No trips to Greece, cover required for main event. Very paranoid about how clean I am even though I get tested monthly with very recent results. She is in the snj area next week.
Let me know if you have partaken, will take the plunge if I get positive feedback.
Thanks and Be Safe.Now that I fixed the link. That is Kayla. I fucked her. She was 400. She insisted on covered sex. She was 19 YO when I saw her and not a great fuck. She is cute and has a good body but she was 19 so that is to be expected at her age. I met her a second time hoping things would improve with familiarity. They did not. An average fuck at best. I didn't return.
Burbs Monger
08-13-21, 18:28
I apologize for incorrect link. Thanks for the info even though it's disappointing that she is a lousy lay. Anybody else have similar experience with her?
Thanks and Be Safe.
Now that I fixed the link. That is Kayla. I fucked her. She was 400. She insisted on covered sex. She was 19 YO when I saw her and not a great fuck. She is cute and has a good body but she was 19 so that is to be expected at her age. I met her a second time hoping things would improve with familiarity. They did not. An average fuck at best. I didn't return.
I am curious how to get around giving out my Mr and Mrs credit card numbers when trying to get in the door with SB. I now have purchased a master card debit card that they (master card) won't accept because its a subscription. Just curious if anyone has a work around to keep it on the down low at home?
Burbs Monger
08-17-21, 12:35
I use to use visa vanilla card for SA and SB. They changed a few years back on what they would accept so now you have to use cards that can be used internationally like Amex gift cards or centurian Visa cards. Just remember to do the transaction via a vpn to conceal the transaction.
Best of luck and Be Safe.
I am curious how to get around giving out my Mr and Mrs credit card numbers when trying to get in the door with SB. I now have purchased a master card debit card that they (master card) won't accept because its a subscription. Just curious if anyone has a work around to keep it on the down low at home?
I am curious how to get around giving out my Mr and Mrs credit card numbers when trying to get in the door with SB. I now have purchased a master card debit card that they (master card) won't accept because its a subscription. Just curious if anyone has a work around to keep it on the down low at home?I'm with BurbsMonger, the OneVannilla is the way to go with SA. That worked as recently as a month ago.
Not sure about SB however. Suggest you look on the FAQ section or contact Cust Svcs at SB and ask which prepaid cards they accept. That kind of question should be answered ASAP as they want to collect the $ and the only time SB gets paid is when you buy credits.
The point of the OneVanilla is that, I believe, it works with foreign transactions and I believe these sites use overseas processors? That maybe why the MC no worky? Hope if I'm wrong someone chimes in.
But kudos to you for looking for a way to keep this private! Pay cash for the purchase of the OneVanilla, wear your mask and don't buy it in any place you frequent.
But a question. Why SB? Seems like general reports are that SA is better than SB. Once one signs up with SA one can contact as many girls as they can/wish in a month. With SB you burn credits to contact girls and some reports suggest there are many fake profiles and even bots that contact you to get you to respond and spend credits. After all, the only thing SB is selling are credits, so the incentive is to get you to spend as many as possible, to have to buy more.
Burbs Monger
08-26-21, 13:09
I appreciate the several of you that sent me dms on this one. I decided to pass as several of you confirmed that she is way overpriced and provides a very lackluster experience. I am grateful that you toftt and apologize for the poor return on investment. Saved me the time and expense.
Be Safe.
I apologize for incorrect link. Thanks for the info even though it's disappointing that she is a lousy lay. Anybody else have similar experience with her?
Thanks and Be Safe.
JohnLongDong
08-29-21, 11:02
Are students coming back to campus this semester? There seems to be a much lower number of college age girls on site than 2 years ago. One "student" I texted with says her semester already started. I am wondering if that is true.
MerryIvory
08-29-21, 12:14
Are students coming back to campus this semester? There seems to be a much lower number of college age girls on site than 2 years ago. One "student" I texted with says her semester already started. I am wondering if that is true.Classes begin August 31. Move in days were this week. I've noticed a slight uptick in new profiles, but not what I have been hoping for.
Has anyone seen Mandee from West Chester? She messaged me but my account isn't active. She has a look I like and is nearby. If she's real I might pay for another month.
https://www.seeking.com/member/05b00dbe-6d30-4292-8d19-dd4d1a95d518
Burbs Monger
08-30-21, 11:37
Agreed, I have seen some additional profiles but no where near the number in years past. After a few weeks in school, money starts to get tight so you might see lower expectations shortly, at least I am hoping.
Be Safe.
QUOTE=MerryIvory;5518506]Classes begin August 31. Move in days were this week. I've noticed a slight uptick in new profiles, but not what I have been hoping for.
Not sure if this is the right place to post this, but the SB I've been seeing for a few months is interested in being with a woman, either alone or in a threesome with us. She's looking to give DATY more than receive but I assume both. I suggested lining up an escort I know who sees women and I believe is gay IRL (Latte Luv) but she kind of balked at the pay for sex part of it (ironically).
I'm vaguely aware of swinger clubs like The Pleasure Garden Club over by Purple Orchid. Is that an option? Anyone know what it's like? Can she do a little girl on girl action there?
Not sure if this is the right place to post this, but the SB I've been seeing for a few months is interested in being with a woman, either alone or in a threesome with us. She's looking to give DATY more than receive but I assume both. I suggested lining up an escort I know who sees women and I believe is gay IRL (Latte Luv) but she kind of balked at the pay for sex part of it (ironically).
I'm vaguely aware of swinger clubs like The Pleasure Garden Club over by Purple Orchid. Is that an option? Anyone know what it's like? Can she do a little girl on girl action there?
Why don't you join one of the Swinger websites? I'm guessing there is a list on The Pleasure Garden Club website. SLS comes to mind. That way BOTH of you can review the girl, trade emails with her and get a vibe or not. This is adult dating and now instead or two people having to vibe, you need to get 3 to vibe.
What you are looking for, a singe female (SF), is in the swinging world a unicorn! Everyone wants them: single guys, couples and other single females. So SFs figure this out early in their ventures in 'the lifestyle' and quite a few of them become divas. Even the BBWs! But just like the SB sites SFs on the swinger sites get TONNES of emails, so a no reply situation isn't uncommon. But with patience and the right attitude you should fin success!
Now if you venture into the Lifestyle, you need to be honest. Lots of drama and potential drama there so many will "interview" you to see who you are and what you are about as a way to avoid any drama. As such if there is a large age difference between you and your SB that will be noted and asked about that. What is your story going to be?
While Swinging is, in many ways, a "liberal" kind of thing, there are a number of unwritten rules out there that are VERY conservative. Thus, just like your SB doesn't want to engage a P2 P situation, many swingers look down on or frown on P2 P situations. It may be viewed as a risk situation. Pros could be looked at as unclean or unsafe. After all, this is recreational sex and in many swinger's minds anyone who has to P2 P must be "off" in some way.
Now a few questions that you could focus on (for you two, no need to answer here), and perhaps it was brevity that they weren't stated here. 1) How did her desire arise to play with a woman and what is behind that? 2) What EXACTLY is she looking for from the F2F contact? Kissing? Mutual touching? Toys? Give/receive DATY? Strap-on play? You said you assumed... 3) Are you part of the equation and how? Leaving them alone? Just watching? Watching and then joining in? All 3 together at once? Overall point is that most couples (and you two are a "couple") that are successful have excellent communication and discuss everything involved, all possibilities as a way to avoid in encounter speed bumps or drama.
But kudos to you! First, you found a SB that has hung around for several months! Then she feels comfortable enough with you to be willing to explore her sexuality with you!
It came up in conversation that when she got on SA she was also on Tinder looking for a woman. She's interested in the whole experience, but focused on giving oral. I offered to set her up with Latte Love who I'm pretty sure is gay IRL. It was just going to be the two of them, but if it worked out I would also be open to a threesome. That still might happen (the 2 of them), but Latte travels constantly and was already out of town when I reached out. As an aside, Latte also kind of chastised me for playing the middle man, saying she'd be more comfortable just hearing from the woman. I've never had a threesome (although I've thought about it with Stacey and Karla advertising them in DE) so it wasn't really my motivation, just trying to do something nice.
I guess I've been seeing her for about 6 months, 1-2 x / week. Sometimes a straight up booty call, but more often dates. Dinner, music, sports etc. She's met some of my friends as well. We've done a handful of overnights but that's a bit challenging with her kids. Next up is a weekend in NYC. Lots of contact outside of that as well, mostly texts. All in all it's been great. Part of that is being really open and honest about sex. For example, she asked me if I was having sex with other women so I said yes and told her more or less what (AMPs, stripper extras etc) but also said she's the only person I'm having unprotected sex with. She also asked how I met my last "SB" who was really just a prostitute who grew into a SB. No issues with either response, AFAIK. And the sex just keeps getting better. It's also pretty amazing to be involved with someone in this way who is NOT a drug user. I don't want to go through that again, ever.
I don't think I'm ready for the swinger thing, seems a bit much. Thanks for the low down. It just occurred to me it might be an option for her so I thought I'd ask.
Why don't you join one of the Swinger websites? I'm guessing there is a list on The Pleasure Garden Club website. SLS comes to mind. That way BOTH of you can review the girl, trade emails with her and get a vibe or not. This is adult dating and now instead or two people having to vibe, you need to get 3 to vibe.
What you are looking for, a singe female (SF), is in the swinging world a unicorn! Everyone wants them: single guys, couples and other single females. So SFs figure this out early in their ventures in 'the lifestyle' and quite a few of them become divas. Even the BBWs! But just like the SB sites SFs on the swinger sites get TONNES of emails, so a no reply situation isn't uncommon. But with patience and the right attitude you should fin success!
Now if you venture into the Lifestyle, you need to be honest. Lots of drama and potential drama there so many will "interview" you to see who you are and what you are about as a way to avoid any drama. As such if there is a large age difference between you and your SB that will be noted and asked about that. What is your story going to be?
While Swinging is, in many ways, a "liberal" kind of thing, there are a number of unwritten rules out there that are VERY conservative. Thus, just like your SB doesn't want to engage a P2 P situation, many swingers look down on or frown on P2 P situations. It may be viewed as a risk situation. Pros could be looked at as unclean or unsafe. After all, this is recreational sex and in many swinger's minds anyone who has to P2 P must be "off" in some way.
Now a few questions that you could focus on (for you two, no need to answer here), and perhaps it was brevity that they weren't stated here. 1) How did her desire arise to play with a woman and what is behind that? 2) What EXACTLY is she looking for from the F2F contact? Kissing? Mutual touching? Toys? Give/receive DATY? Strap-on play? You said you assumed... 3) Are you part of the equation and how? Leaving them alone? Just watching? Watching and then joining in? All 3 together at once? Overall point is that most couples (and you two are a "couple") that are successful have excellent communication and discuss everything involved, all possibilities as a way to avoid in encounter speed bumps or drama.
But kudos to you! First, you found a SB that has hung around for several months! Then she feels comfortable enough with you to be willing to explore her sexuality with you!
It came up in conversation that when she got on SA she was also on Tinder looking for a woman. She's interested in the whole experience, but focused on giving oral. I offered to set her up with Latte Love who I'm pretty sure is gay IRL. It was just going to be the two of them, but if it worked out I would also be open to a threesome. That still might happen (the 2 of them), but Latte travels constantly and was already out of town when I reached out. As an aside, Latte also kind of chastised me for playing the middle man, saying she'd be more comfortable just hearing from the woman. I've never had a threesome (although I've thought about it with Stacey and Karla advertising them in DE) so it wasn't really my motivation, just trying to do something nice.
I guess I've been seeing her for about 6 months, 1-2 x / week. Sometimes a straight up booty call, but more often dates. Dinner, music, sports etc. She's met some of my friends as well. We've done a handful of overnights but that's a bit challenging with her kids. Next up is a weekend in NYC. Lots of contact outside of that as well, mostly texts. All in all it's been great. Part of that is being really open and honest about sex. For example, she asked me if I was having sex with other women so I said yes and told her more or less what (AMPs, stripper extras etc) but also said she's the only person I'm having unprotected sex with. She also asked how I met my last "SB" who was really just a prostitute who grew into a SB. No issues with either response, AFAIK. And the sex just keeps getting better. It's also pretty amazing to be involved with someone in this way who is NOT a drug user. I don't want to go through that again, ever.
I don't think I'm ready for the swinger thing, seems a bit much. Thanks for the low down. It just occurred to me it might be an option for her so I thought I'd ask.Just a general dumb question, please don't shoot the messenger. But Latte Love is right. Why are you in the middle of this? IF F2 F is something the SB wants to do, let her do it. You can be supportive without driving the bus. Why would I want to pay some girl to hook up with my SB? Perhaps the SB would be put off by a hard core dyke or a pro sex provider?
There is a kinda unwritten rule in the Lifestyle. The women are really in charge. The women make the final decision as to who plays, so let her decide who she wants and then feel her out as to if you are welcome to join and what would be your role in the encounter. So let her do her thing, looking around. Resist the temptation to be "Mr. Fixit" in this situation, unless specifically requested.
But in general it sounds like she is more of a GF than a SB at this point? Not judging, just observing.
Good luck and have fun!
Well, she's never set up time with an escort before and I was willing to pay. I took Latte's chiding. She's right. So when she comes back around I'm make my offer to my SB again and send her the link. That said, as I mentioned in the other post she seemed uncomfortable about the 'paying for sex' part. I had zero issues with paying for a woman to hook up with her. It's something she said she wanted and I proposed a way to get (one she had not considered). Like any other gift.
As far as being girlfriend vs SB, in my mind if I'm paying a weekly stipend she's still a SB (and I am). That said, it's a very GFE situation, which I'm enjoying (and I think she is too). Sometimes I ask myself why do I prefer this kind of relationship right now and part of the answer is coming out of a long marriage I don't want to be in a relationship where I'm constantly trying to get sex. There's no question we're having sex when we see each, usually more than once. The other issue is my work and personal life is pretty complicated at this point so this was my way to simplify my sex life.
Just a general dumb question, please don't shoot the messenger. But Latte Love is right. Why are you in the middle of this? IF F2 F is something the SB wants to do, let her do it. You can be supportive without driving the bus. Why would I want to pay some girl to hook up with my SB? Perhaps the SB would be put off by a hard core dyke or a pro sex provider?
There is a kinda unwritten rule in the Lifestyle. The women are really in charge. The women make the final decision as to who plays, so let her decide who she wants and then feel her out as to if you are welcome to join and what would be your role in the encounter. So let her do her thing, looking around. Resist the temptation to be "Mr. Fixit" in this situation, unless specifically requested.
But in general it sounds like she is more of a GF than a SB at this point? Not judging, just observing.
Good luck and have fun!
BuffBill75
09-07-21, 16:45
https://www.seeking.com/member/6044540e-c164-46e2-84b3-b7d1beffb4bc
Gents any info on this one? I'm chatting with her but it's hard to get a handle on what she's really about.
Burbs Monger
09-07-21, 17:14
I talked / wasted my time on Brooklyn. She texted a good game, price was higher than I normally like but I was able to get her to agree to a coffee meet to discuss financial particulars and if we could work something out. Needless to say, I enjoyed my coffee and went in a different direction. Hope you have better luck.
Be Safe.
https://www.seeking.com/member/6044540e-c164-46e2-84b3-b7d1beffb4bc
Gents any info on this one? I'm chatting with her but it's hard to get a handle on what she's really about.
I have never traded info with her but just the fact that the pics are super filtered raises a thousand red flags. Just IMHO. Always do your homework to minimize disappointments!
Runner88.
https://www.seeking.com/member/6044540e-c164-46e2-84b3-b7d1beffb4bc
Gents any info on this one? I'm chatting with her but it's hard to get a handle on what she's really about.
BuffBill75
09-08-21, 11:38
I have never traded info with her but just the fact that the pics are super filtered raises a thousand red flags. Just IMHO. Always do your homework to minimize disappointments!
Runner88.Exactly why I figured I'd ask.
Burbs Monger
09-08-21, 14:23
Fellow Mongers,
Has anybody had any luck hooking up with this one? https://www.seeking.com/member/be0b2a37-89c0-427d-99f1-116e609c0578.
I am getting intermittent responses from her and still don't know much about her. Any intel would be helpful.
Thanks and Be Safe.
YellowLuvin
09-08-21, 19:56
PM for details.
Fellow Mongers,
Has anybody had any luck hooking up with this one? https://www.seeking.com/member/be0b2a37-89c0-427d-99f1-116e609c0578.
I am getting intermittent responses from her and still don't know much about her. Any intel would be helpful.
Thanks and Be Safe.
Fellow Mongers,
Has anybody had any luck hooking up with this one? https://www.seeking.com/member/be0b2a37-89c0-427d-99f1-116e609c0578.
I am getting intermittent responses from her and still don't know much about her. Any intel would be helpful.
Thanks and Be Safe.Damm she is cute, but I always wonder when I see a girl that has a wish list like that. They know what they are on SA for so does anyone really send them items off the wish list? I would rather do it in person if they want something. FWIW I have never met anyone from SA that had over 20 items on the list. Some have none- most have had 3 or 4. One day I should ask one of them about it.
Good luck with her!
PH.
Burbs Monger
09-09-21, 11:23
I have never bought anything from a wish list. Just because they have it doesn't mean I need to look at it. I am still waiting to get intel, but I will share whatever I find out.
Be Safe.
Damm she is cute, but I always wonder when I see a girl that has a wish list like that. They know what they are on SA for so does anyone really send them items off the wish list? I would rather do it in person if they want something. FWIW I have never met anyone from SA that had over 20 items on the list. Some have none- most have had 3 or 4. One day I should ask one of them about it.
Good luck with her!
PH.
I have never traded info with her but just the fact that the pics are super filtered raises a thousand red flags. Just IMHO. Always do your homework to minimize disappointments!
Runner88.She has had a couple of accounts before under different name. Not sure if her account got banned or someone is reusing her photos. Fun time could be had. A little bit of unnecessary.
Drama too.
Burbs Monger
09-11-21, 10:28
It would appear based on some intel Kristen is TGTBT. Sounds like she is the bait for her bf or handler to potentially rob you of your financial assistance. I figured something along these lines. I will still wait to hear from her to confirm several additional details to confirm the intel is accurate. But I would avoid this one.
Be Safe.
PM for details.
It would appear based on some intel Kristen is TGTBT. Sounds like she is the bait for her bf or handler to potentially rob you of your financial assistance. Always appreciate intel that creates heightened awareness. Is there a new scam out there or a new way of operating? Always interested in reports on scams, so one knows what to look out for. As long as a dude doesn't pay up front and follows the "rules" then how does this work?
Sounds like someone PM'ed you with a horror story? Sure wish they would add a report in the Ripoff section, no need to I'd the girl if that would be of concern. We all can learn from the experiences of others.
Thanks for the heads up!
JohnLongDong
09-11-21, 15:53
I have never traded info with her but just the fact that the pics are super filtered raises a thousand red flags. Just IMHO. Always do your homework to minimize disappointments!
Runner88.She has more than 1 profile FYI.
https://www.seeking.com/member/d4377af0-0f71-454c-84ac-2da74017e4c4
Socalcasualguy
09-11-21, 15:58
She has more than 1 profile FYI.
https://www.seeking.com/member/d4377af0-0f71-454c-84ac-2da74017e4c4Just a general thought:
How about we start posting a few pics, along with the profile links?
This helps if the girl is a scammer and has her profile deleted, and then creates a new one. Also allows us to see her pics, without going to her profile, and giving her a heads up that we looked at it. The lower profile we keep things, the better off for everyone. Just my suggestion.
Burbs Monger
09-11-21, 16:39
I like the idea. I have noticed several girls with multiple profiles using different pics and different phone numbers. Usually the ladies are not this smart and typically use the same photos, number or social media and just change their profile name.
Be Safe.
Just a general thought:
How about we start posting a few pics, along with the profile links?
This helps if the girl is a scammer and has her profile deleted, and then creates a new one. Also allows us to see her pics, without going to her profile, and giving her a heads up that we looked at it. The lower profile we keep things, the better off for everyone. Just my suggestion.
Burbs Monger
09-11-21, 16:40
Correct, didn't get too into the weeds but didn't sound like a good experience. I am waiting for her to dm me back to confirm several other details.
Be Safe.
Always appreciate intel that creates heightened awareness. Is there a new scam out there or a new way of operating? Always interested in reports on scams, so one knows what to look out for. As long as a dude doesn't pay up front and follows the "rules" then how does this work?
Sounds like someone PM'ed you with a horror story? Sure wish they would add a report in the Ripoff section, no need to I'd the girl if that would be of concern. We all can learn from the experiences of others.
Thanks for the heads up!
BuffBill75
09-14-21, 09:33
Damm she is cute, but I always wonder when I see a girl that has a wish list like that. They know what they are on SA for so does anyone really send them items off the wish list? I would rather do it in person if they want something. FWIW I have never met anyone from SA that had over 20 items on the list. Some have none- most have had 3 or 4. One day I should ask one of them about it.
Good luck with her!
PH.I've messaged her back and forth. She isn't really great at getting back and social media definitely shows she has a BF.
WillieZee914
09-20-21, 17:55
I saw a message from SA that my profile was being deleted due to "soliciting sex in exchange for compensation".
My SA membership expired about 3 months ago (I used a prepaid credit card so the monthly dues wouldn't go through automatically). I really haven't been on there since it expired since it's useless without the ability to communicate. My profile was not even active, I had put it in non-active status.
Has anyone else had a similar issue?
I mean, I really don't care, I have used SA for several years and I can easily recreate a profile and matching email address. I am just being curious.
Did a provider report me? Did a pissed off ex report me (I had a few of those). Are they trying to show LE that they are aggressively policing their website? Are they just cleaning out the inactive profiles? Just wondering.
I saw a message from SA that my profile was being deleted due to "soliciting sex in exchange for compensation".
My SA membership expired about 3 months ago (I used a prepaid credit card so the monthly dues wouldn't go through automatically). I really haven't been on there since it expired since it's useless without the ability to communicate. My profile was not even active, I had put it in non-active status.
Has anyone else had a similar issue?
I mean, I really don't care, I have used SA for several years and I can easily recreate a profile and matching email address. I am just being curious.
Did a provider report me? Did a pissed off ex report me (I had a few of those). Are they trying to show LE that they are aggressively policing their website? Are they just cleaning out the inactive profiles? Just wondering.All of the above! Read the defacto USA SB board Richmond, VA SugarBabbies, to see what others have experienced. Lots of recent convo on this in last month or so, but you'll have to sift through the local reports. Reading others experiences can show you what to avoid and how to get reinstated or what to do to create a new profile!
GOOD LUCK!
Burbs Monger
09-21-21, 09:00
Welcome to the club! I have been banned several times in the past for some of things you have mentioned. These bans were early on in my SA career. I have learned from my mistakes and have done my research and have been off and on SA now for years with no issues. There are many wise words on the board but the golden rule I follow is never directly or indirectly discuss money in exchange for anything sexual, virtual or irl on the site. Discuss all specifics off site as soon as possible with any prospects.
It seems like a simple rule but can be challenging to follow 100% of the time. I use terms like mutually beneficial, equally rewarding, symbiotic arrangement, etc etc to convey a give and take scenario and let them know if they are interested or want to learn more then specifics need to be discussed offline, no exceptions. I lose 50% of prospects this way but this method has served me well.
Best of luck and Be Safe.
I saw a message from SA that my profile was being deleted due to "soliciting sex in exchange for compensation".
My SA membership expired about 3 months ago (I used a prepaid credit card so the monthly dues wouldn't go through automatically). I really haven't been on there since it expired since it's useless without the ability to communicate. My profile was not even active, I had put it in non-active status.
Has anyone else had a similar issue?
I mean, I really don't care, I have used SA for several years and I can easily recreate a profile and matching email address. I am just being curious.
Did a provider report me? Did a pissed off ex report me (I had a few of those). Are they trying to show LE that they are aggressively policing their website? Are they just cleaning out the inactive profiles? Just wondering.
Welcome to the club! I have been banned several times in the past for some of things you have mentioned. These bans were early on in my SA career. I have learned from my mistakes and have done my research and have been off and on SA now for years with no issues. There are many wise words on the board but the golden rule I follow is never directly or indirectly discuss money in exchange for anything sexual, virtual or irl on the site. Discuss all specifics off site as soon as possible with any prospects.
It seems like a simple rule but can be challenging to follow 100% of the time. I use terms like mutually beneficial, equally rewarding, symbiotic arrangement, etc etc to convey a give and take scenario and let them know if they are interested or want to learn more then specifics need to be discussed offline, no exceptions. I lose 50% of prospects this way but this method has served me well.
Best of luck and Be Safe.This is another reason to move to a burner phone or texting app asap. I guess if you're obnoxious the woman can report you but at least they can't scrape the SA DMs for key words.
Burbs Monger
09-29-21, 08:45
Fellow Mongers,
I am looking for intel on this one. We have moved to text from the site and she is saying all the right things except she needs to host at her place, which is typically a no go for me the first few times. She has a kid with some medical issues apparently. I have attached the link here, https://members.seeking.com/member/d5acc8b7-8902-466e-b435-81f8260dfd0f . Unfortunately, I am unable to post her profile pic for some reason, but if she sends me a pic, I will post.
Thanks and Be Safe.
Fellow Mongers,
I am looking for intel on this one. We have moved to text from the site and she is saying all the right things except she needs to host at her place, which is typically a no go for me the first few times. She has a kid with some medical issues apparently. I have attached the link here, https://members.seeking.com/member/d5acc8b7-8902-466e-b435-81f8260dfd0f . Unfortunately, I am unable to post her profile pic for some reason, but if she sends me a pic, I will post.
Thanks and Be Safe.A friend of mine was texting her. She eventually wanted him to buy some of her videos before she would meet him. He thought she was a scam.
Burbs Monger
09-29-21, 12:29
Interesting, she hasn't even mentioned pics or vids yet. I will see if I can set some bait to see if she is a fraud or not.
Thanks and Be Safe.
A friend of mine was texting her. She eventually wanted him to buy some of her videos before she would meet him. He thought she was a scam.
She reminds of a scammer I met back just before the COVID shutdown started. The first time I met her went perfect. Wild GFE and more. The second time she flaked out. She worked from her dumpy apt complex in Blackwood just off the pike. Gave the whole daughter story. If its the same girl her real job was a bartender and her real name starts with S. Back then her number ended with 3408. Love this board and the intel!
Fellow Mongers,
I am looking for intel on this one. We have moved to text from the site and she is saying all the right things except she needs to host at her place, which is typically a no go for me the first few times. She has a kid with some medical issues apparently. I have attached the link here, https://members.seeking.com/member/d5acc8b7-8902-466e-b435-81f8260dfd0f . Unfortunately, I am unable to post her profile pic for some reason, but if she sends me a pic, I will post.
Thanks and Be Safe.
Burbs Monger
09-29-21, 21:42
Sounds pretty much the story. Another hard pass. Can usually count on this board for intel.
Thanks and Be Safe.
She reminds of a scammer I met back just before the COVID shutdown started. The first time I met her went perfect. Wild GFE and more. The second time she flaked out. She worked from her dumpy apt complex in Blackwood just off the pike. Gave the whole daughter story. If its the same girl her real job was a bartender and her real name starts with S. Back then her number ended with 3408. Love this board and the intel!
Burbs Monger
10-04-21, 14:01
As an FYI, I recently noticed that SA has removed the fwb tag from their list and replaced it with friends. Probably a good idea to stay away from any reference of fwb when dm'ing a prospect. Big brother is always watching and I have heard from some of the ladies the number of sd's has dropped significantly lately. Not sure if this is by choice or SA doing another crackdown. My subscription ends soon, thank god as this past month has been a total waste with only 1 short term success and so many scamming b's. Time to take another several month break until semester break to see if the lake gets restocked.
Be Safe.
As an FYI, I recently noticed that SA has removed the fwb tag from their list and replaced it with friends. Probably a good idea to stay away from any reference of fwb when dm'ing a prospect. Big brother is always watching and I have heard from some of the ladies the number of sd's has dropped significantly lately. Not sure if this is by choice or SA doing another crackdown. My subscription ends soon, thank god as this past month has been a total waste with only 1 short term success and so many scamming b's. Time to take another several month break until semester break to see if the lake gets restocked.
Be Safe.Yeah noticed that FWB is missing. Also the girls that browse your profile can see how many items you ever bought on the store for girls. I tried to toggle it off but everything I sign on and its toggled on. I never bought anything for anyone. I may buy the cheapest sex toy on someones list. Just for the hell of it and atleast it won't show 0.
Any intel on this lady?
https://members.seeking.com/member/cbf0adde-b2d3-4021-9c25-eca52954fec3
Burbs Monger
10-06-21, 09:30
I will keep my zero, I have no intentions of buying anything for someone without meeting them first. It's just a "tangible" deposit to me and that's a definite red flag and hard pass. I would highly advise not to do it even if it's 10 to 15 bucks or whatever.
Be Safe.
Yeah noticed that FWB is missing. Also the girls that browse your profile can see how many items you ever bought on the store for girls. I tried to toggle it off but everything I sign on and its toggled on. I never bought anything for anyone. I may buy the cheapest sex toy on someones list. Just for the hell of it and atleast it won't show 0.
Burbs Monger
10-06-21, 09:32
I texted with her offsite and eventually blocked her. I don't recall why but I know if I block someone it's for a good reason.
Be Safe.
Any intel on this lady?
https://members.seeking.com/member/cbf0adde-b2d3-4021-9c25-eca52954fec3
HELP!
Anyone have any recommendations for places on that cooridor.
Clean and no bed bugs would be nice. Doenst need to be hourly rates but the 2:30 checkin most places sell is complete bullshit.
I texted with her offsite and eventually blocked her. I don't recall why but I know if I block someone it's for a good reason.
Be Safe.I had a quick meet and greet with her today. She not as pretty as the pics she sent me. Has gained weight. Not attractive to me at all. Good move to block her Burbs!!
ReadyToTumble
10-07-21, 15:24
I had a quick meet and greet with her today. She not as pretty as the pics she sent me. Has gained weight. Not attractive to me at all. Good move to block her Burbs!!Was she wearing her flannel. What kind of pic is her in her profile.
Yeah noticed that FWB is missing. Also the girls that browse your profile can see how many items you ever bought on the store for girls. I tried to toggle it off but everything I sign on and its toggled on. I never bought anything for anyone. I may buy the cheapest sex toy on someones list. Just for the hell of it and atleast it won't show 0.I haven't seen this toggle your talking about. Where is it?
PH.
I haven't seen this toggle your talking about. Where is it?
PH.When you click on your profile to edit it. Its on the bottom of the page. Its a slide or toggle on or off. SHOW how many items bought on online store. It actually is now off on my profile and seems to have stayed off.
Burbs Monger
10-11-21, 15:52
Fellow Mongers, anybody have any success with this one?
https://members.seeking.com/member/8d879096-bdff-4c7c-8129-1d8120d1fa07
I just started talking with her.
Thanks.
Be Safe.
When you click on your profile to edit it. Its on the bottom of the page. Its a slide or toggle on or off. SHOW how many items bought on online store. It actually is now off on my profile and seems to have stayed off.Found it! Thanks. That's unreal, I guess I never bothered to look so close.
PH.
JohnLongDong
10-12-21, 01:37
HELP!
Anyone have any recommendations for places on that cooridor.
Clean and no bed bugs would be nice. Doenst need to be hourly rates but the 2:30 checkin most places sell is complete bullshit.Try dayuse.com.
Burbs Monger
10-12-21, 10:30
I have used dayuse, but the number of hotels is very limited and typically not convenient. When I book a hotel, I always call a few days ahead of my reservation and ask politely for early check in. As a Marriott rewards member, I have never had an issue checking in at like 9 am during the week. Certainly, the pandemic has helped as hotels were not very booked in the past year and half. I have noticed lately the price of hotels has skyrocketed and it's getting tougher to get a decent hotel under 125. I use kayak, hotel tonight and dayuse and it's getting challenging these days.
Would love to hear other options.
Be Safe.
Try dayuse.com.
ReadyToTumble
10-12-21, 12:04
fellow mongers, anybody have any success with this one?
https://members.seeking.com/member/8d879096-bdff-4c7c-8129-1d8120d1fa07
i just started talking with her.
Thanks.
Be safe.no intel but cute as fuck. Lmk how thigs go.
Poker Shark11
10-14-21, 16:57
Anyone have SBs or UTRs that you see that you are willing to trade info for a UTR I see when she comes into town. Girl I have is sexy and REALLY into having fun and amazing skills. No holds barred (excluding greek) YMMV. She's 27 with a great body and priced right. I'm looking for 18- 33 year old with slim or athletic builds that won't break the bank (I'm not cheap but also not stupid) and are into meetups rather than wine and dines etc. Hit me up in DM fellas.
Poker Shark11
10-19-21, 16:40
I joined SA with a premium membership and I'm putting in the work. Any suggestions who to start with? I'm looking for good to go girls down with PPM. I'll certainly find a few on my own. Happy hunting boys!
Well after just over three months of being on this site and spending hundreds and hundreds they suspended my account and did not give me back money for my remaining credits. Of all the money I spent and ladies I talked to one out of every 10 led to some thing the rest were flakes or fake accounts. If I could do this all over again I would likely not do it. I did meet one good person through all of this though but that does not justify the amount of money spent. I was suspended because a girl I got in an argument with submitted our conversation of me talking about paying for sex which is a no-no even though that's what these sites are obviously all about. Just wanted to share my story. Stay safe.
This is another reason to move to a burner phone or texting app asap. I guess if you're obnoxious the woman can report you but at least they can't scrape the SA DMs for key words.What happen to me on WYP. I guess I should of taken this more seriously. I didn't think they would ban the guys since we are the ones paying to keep these sites running. Definitely go to text and get off the site. People will report you. I had a few snobby girls wanting 4-500 and would report me since I thought they weren't worth it. One even trolled me on the site when I was online giving me crap " see your back on the site trying to find a girl for the low price you want. GL" I was like stop stalking me. LOL This is a lesson learned though and I really should have read more on this forum about this. Always good info here. I don't think I'm going back to any of these sites though. Stay safe.
Sorry to hear about that aggravation Dave. A lot of have been there but if you can stay in line and not take any chances or use any suggestions, etc you can stay out of the dog house. In general since my last ban I never mention funds or payments. I ask to move to text message to talk details. If some girl won't than I'm not interested and she will probably be problematic and a pain to hang with anyhow. I also never engage in any debate, talk down or even when the girl may be rude or just plain unreasonable I don't engage. The only thing I can't control is when a girl sends a message and comes right out and says how much will you pay me or ppm or something money related. In general I won't reply or just reply with my number. The smart, reasonable girl will text. Any other advice is welcomed! I might be missing out on a few but that's ok!
BurbsMonger wrote a great post about 3 weeks ago #858. That was great advice from experience.
Stay smart on that site and occasionally the hard work and expense can pay off!
Well after just over three months of being on this site and spending hundreds and hundreds they suspended my account and did not give me back money for my remaining credits. Of all the money I spent and ladies I talked to one out of every 10 led to some thing the rest were flakes or fake accounts. If I could do this all over again I would likely not do it. I did meet one good person through all of this though but that does not justify the amount of money spent. I was suspended because a girl I got in an argument with submitted our conversation of me talking about paying for sex which is a no-no even though that's what these sites are obviously all about. Just wanted to share my story. Stay safe.
Mythbuster
10-20-21, 20:34
I joined SA with a premium membership and I'm putting in the work. Any suggestions who to start with? I'm looking for good to go girls down with PPM. I'll certainly find a few on my own. Happy hunting boys!I got a 3 month membership too last week. Mostly out of boredom. I can already tell that it's going to be like panning for gold. Out of my 1st 10 messages. Five responded 2 responded with phone numbers. I had to set up google voice again to handle those.
Only 1 contact has continued to respond but she has changed her number twice and seems a little cagey about meeting but I have verified an I'd of an actual woman from the some of the info that she has provided. But has said that she's looking for an investor in a business. I'll post the profile when I see a result one way or the other.
The other that sent a number suggested that she'd like to meet in a hotel lobby bar. She never approved me to see her additional photo which I hoped would show a face so that's a no go for me. This could be an oversight because of her popularity but it is what it is. She may have been a traveler because her profile seems to be down.
A 3rd also responded and when I suggested a local bar / restaurant countered that she liked more intimate settings. I never got anymore of her pictures either but may follow up.
https://members.seeking.com/member/b55b018a-56fc-4332-aa77-8832f1026e2a
This one said she was staying in a local short stay in Horsham and wanted me to get a room and then notify her so she could come over and show me what I was missing. I don't think I'm missing much. My logic tells me if she has a room why should I get one. It could be a way to paint me into a corner and give her more leverage. Am I being to cautious?
https://members.seeking.com/member/3e93032d-3423-4372-80b5-f8116f271450
I had a funny conversation with this one. At one point unhappy with my suggestions of meeting up, she asked if I had read her profile. I said I had and repeated to her what it said. She ended up deleting everything thing she had written. I was picking up a little edge from her anyway. Seems real just immature or unsure of what she wants.
https://members.seeking.com/member/a27dfd9d-15de-4fb7-b68f-b047e2ad0318
And this stripper contacted me. Probably testing out the waters because she wasn't too aggressive. I tried to work the club angle a little bit but she might want to keep these things separate.
https://members.seeking.com/member/4acc0574-5287-4d8e-8eea-a8b87f016a5f
ChrisHansen92
10-20-21, 21:29
Long term member of all the sites (close to 10 years). Not maybe senior status in your eyes but experienced enough. Never, never, never used a credit based site. You will always pay the most and get the least results. Always per dollar spent, always! You may be tempted but when your credits run out and you didn't get laid pulling out your credit card to buy more credits just stop. I hate Seeking but compared to WYP (cross over requiring credits) and Secret Benefits the worst rip off (they spend a ton on pop up ad's and full of non responsive bot's) pay a one month fee to message every and any girl you want on Seeking. All of them. Watch what you say and get them to start texting off the site ASAP. We are not building a nuclear reactor here. Copy and paste Secret Benefits in the search bar. Read the honest reviews. If you doubt me check the Secret Benefits links and look for girls on there guy's have actually seen and are GTG. For those that will "call me" on this post I am going to ask you to "Man Up". If Secret Benefits is a great non bot site post some GTG girl's with their links please. Your honor. The defense rest's.
Sorry to hear about that aggravation Dave. A lot of have been there but if you can stay in line and not take any chances or use any suggestions, etc. you can stay out of the dog house. In general since my last ban I never mention funds or payments. I ask to move to text message to talk details. If some girl won't than I'm not interested and she will probably be problematic and a pain to hang with anyhow. I also never engage in any debate, talk down or even when the girl may be rude or just plain unreasonable I don't engage. The only thing I can't control is when a girl sends a message and comes right out and says how much will you pay me or ppm or something money related. In general I won't reply or just reply with my number. The smart, reasonable girl will text. Any other advice is welcomed! I might be missing out on a few but that's ok!
BurbsMonger wrote a great post about 3 weeks ago #858. That was great advice from experience.
Stay smart on that site and occasionally the hard work and expense can pay off!
Sorry to hear about that aggravation Dave. A lot of have been there but if you can stay in line and not take any chances or use any suggestions, etc you can stay out of the dog house. In general since my last ban I never mention funds or payments. I ask to move to text message to talk details. If some girl won't than I'm not interested and she will probably be problematic and a pain to hang with anyhow. I also never engage in any debate, talk down or even when the girl may be rude or just plain unreasonable I don't engage. The only thing I can't control is when a girl sends a message and comes right out and says how much will you pay me or ppm or something money related. In general I won't reply or just reply with my number. The smart, reasonable girl will text. Any other advice is welcomed! I might be missing out on a few but that's ok!
BurbsMonger wrote a great post about 3 weeks ago #858. That was great advice from experience.
Stay smart on that site and occasionally the hard work and expense can pay off!All great advice. I am guilty on a few of those. Thanks for info.
Fellow Mongers, anybody have any success with this one?
https://members.seeking.com/member/8d879096-bdff-4c7c-8129-1d8120d1fa07
I just started talking with her.
Thanks.
Be Safe.Total BS, although you may have already figured out at this point. One of those that string you along with texts appearing interested, then on the day of the meet asks you to send $$ ahead of time. Also this is at least her 2nd profile. The last one probably got shut down / flagged.
Happy Hunting,
AC.
Burbs Monger
10-21-21, 21:00
Thanks, several members pm'd me about her and came to the same conclusion. I have taken another break from SA as the site continues to go downhill. I am grateful for two long term great SB's that keep me very satisfied but strange is always tempting. I will get back on around winter break but for now I am on hiatus.
Be Safe.
Total BS, although you may have already figured out at this point. One of those that string you along with texts appearing interested, then on the day of the meet asks you to send $$ ahead of time. Also this is at least her 2nd profile. The last one probably got shut down / flagged.
Happy Hunting,
AC.
Total BS, although you may have already figured out at this point. One of those that string you along with texts appearing interested, then on the day of the meet asks you to send $$ ahead of time. Also this is at least her 2nd profile. The last one probably got shut down / flagged.
Happy Hunting,
AC.I am really beginning to wonder how many fake profiles there are on SA to keep us buying a monthly subscription. I get on and look at the profiles and see multiple profiles in towns that just densest seem like they would support that many SB. Profiles that when looking closely- or even not so close have pictures of the girl with palm trees and exotic locations- saw a few that when really looking the cars have a European license plates.
One I just looked at this morning listed the location as 'middle city west'. Odd, people don't talk like that. Just say center city Philadelphia.
I agree with BM and others- SA is going downhill and feel either they themselves are creating these fake profiles to keep up interest or they don't care that the profiles are overtaking it.
PH.
I am really beginning to wonder how many fake profiles there are on SA to keep us buying a monthly subscription. I get on and look at the profiles and see multiple profiles in towns that just densest seem like they would support that many SB. Profiles that when looking closely- or even not so close have pictures of the girl with palm trees and exotic locations- saw a few that when really looking the cars have a European license plates.
One I just looked at this morning listed the location as 'middle city west'. Odd, people don't talk like that. Just say center city Philadelphia.
I agree with BM and others- SA is going downhill and feel either they themselves are creating these fake profiles to keep up interest or they don't care that the profiles are overtaking it.
PH.I hear you and agree with the stated frustration!
The question is. What is a viable alternative?
I am really beginning to wonder how many fake profiles there are on SA to keep us buying a monthly subscription. I get on and look at the profiles and see multiple profiles in towns that just densest seem like they would support that many SB. Profiles that when looking closely- or even not so close have pictures of the girl with palm trees and exotic locations- saw a few that when really looking the cars have a European license plates.
One I just looked at this morning listed the location as 'middle city west'. Odd, people don't talk like that. Just say center city Philadelphia.
I agree with BM and others- SA is going downhill and feel either they themselves are creating these fake profiles to keep up interest or they don't care that the profiles are overtaking it.
PH.I agree with you completely and have thought the same as you for the last bit on WYP site also. On SA do you get offers for $10-50 from people out of state that are clearly TGTBT? I always say no to those it's obvious fakes trying to use up credits. I do think the sites produce them to keep us paying. It's because really are not that many girls doing this in your area and it would be slow so you wouldn't renew. Took time and learning to see a lot. Like I said before this is good and bad. You do meet real people but such a large percent are fake or only after pay to date. Stay safe.
I hear you and agree with the stated frustration!
The question is. What is a viable alternative?As you have said, do your DD. Just block and move on I guess.
PH.
Poker Shark11
10-24-21, 12:13
https://members.seeking.com/member/3cbcfe82-0c0a-401a-8dad-9c064f7de856
BellerTabs07 is basically a junkie begging for "$15 for Dunkin" Through CashApp or her brother's PayPal. Got nasty when I declined.
https://members.seeking.com/member/b56f176e-7684-488e-9323-e14e23dee34a
Ginger_Next_Door is such a hot fuck toy. We had a couple hours of high energy sex. Was a straight PPM with her coming over. She's into everything (except for showers etc) and has great skills. I recommend her HIGHLY. Not gorgeous but very cute.
Socalcasualguy
10-24-21, 15:55
https://members.seeking.com/member/3cbcfe82-0c0a-401a-8dad-9c064f7de856
BellerTabs07 is basically a junkie begging for "$15 for Dunkin" Through CashApp or her brother's PayPal. Got nasty when I declined.
https://members.seeking.com/member/b56f176e-7684-488e-9323-e14e23dee34a
Ginger_Next_Door is such a hot fuck toy. We had a couple hours of high energy sex. Was a straight PPM with her coming over. She's into everything (except for showers etc) and has great skills. I recommend her HIGHLY. Not gorgeous but very cute.What was the damage for Ginger Next Door?
Do you have a pic to post? These girls change profile names all the time.
Poker Shark11
10-24-21, 23:37
What was the damage for Ginger Next Door?
Do you have a pic to post? These girls change profile names all the time.$$$$ was the damage and well worth it.
$$$$ was the damage and well worth it.Appreciate the report. Does she still look like that pic?
Socalcasualguy
10-26-21, 19:19
$$$$ was the damage and well worth it.Thanks for the updated info.
Looks familiar.
Does she happen to have a scar on her stomach / mid-section?
Thanks for the updated info.
Looks familiar.
Does she happen to have a scar on her stomach / mid-section?She went by Maggie when I saw her back in Feb / Mar. Met her out, hit a hotel after and had her over once. Definitely fun in bed but body was a little off and she had a weird affect. I also got the impression, both from her and from comments here at the time, that she was pretty high mileage. Seemed pretty nice and otherwise normal. Didn't seem to be a partier at all.
Socalcasualguy
10-27-21, 18:39
She went by Maggie when I saw her back in Feb / Mar. Met her out, hit a hotel after and had her over once. Definitely fun in bed but body was a little off and she had a weird affect. I also got the impression, both from her and from comments here at the time, that she was pretty high mileage. Seemed pretty nice and otherwise normal. Didn't seem to be a partier at all.Yeah, she's been around for a while. Rather high mileage. Used to be much cheaper than $$ as well. I never partook, but I've heard a lot about her. Decent enough, but not at $$ and her high mileage.
Poker Shark11
10-28-21, 00:40
Yeah, she's been around for a while. Rather high mileage. Used to be much cheaper than $$ as well. I never partook, but I've heard a lot about her. Decent enough, but not at $$ and her high mileage.All I know is she's a hot fuck with a+ skills and a great pussy. She's cool and actually priced lower than a lot of other girls I've been talking to. I've NEVER had any interest in banging a virgin, high mileage= knows how to make a schlong feel incredible. And she squirts over and over and over if you know what to do.
I just got hit with this when I sign in:
Verify Your Account.
It looks you have signed in from a new device or location. Please select an option to verify your account.
Text a verification code to my account recovery phone number. Not Set.
Email a verification code to * at * com.
Simple enough, but the code never shows up in my email. Support doesn't reply.
Anyone else get this? I always login from a Incognito window, so it would never recognize me (as I'd expect most to). Never seen this before.
Thanks!
Socalcasualguy
10-28-21, 12:57
All I know is she's a hot fuck with a+ skills and a great pussy. She's cool and actually priced lower than a lot of other girls I've been talking to. I've NEVER had any interest in banging a virgin, high mileage= knows how to make a schlong feel incredible. And she squirts over and over and over if you know what to do.Different strokes for different folks- not a problem.
By high mileage, I'm saying more than the average SA woman. I understand most see at least a few, but there are others, who I would classify as "high mileage" who see near a pro numbers, and with that comes added risks. That's all I'm saying. You do you.
Different strokes for different folks- not a problem.
By high mileage, I'm saying more than the average SA woman. I understand most see at least a few, but there are others, who I would classify as "high mileage" who see near a pro numbers, and with that comes added risks. That's all I'm saying. You do you.Well said. That's exactly what I meant as well. I don't harbor any illusions any of those women are virgins or even are exclusive, but I get the impression that she's seeing a volume of guys that would put her in the "escort" bucket for me. She just happens to advertise through SA. If you're going bb with her (I did) just file that away in your risk calculation.
I can't find her profile. I met her on SA in early 2020. White. Thin. Pleasant attitude. She hosted in the Fishtown area from corner row home. Has anyone seen her lately? I texted her but got no response.
Mythbuster
10-28-21, 18:12
I just got hit with this when I sign in:
Verify Your Account.
It looks you have signed in from a new device or location. Please select an option to verify your account.
Text a verification code to my account recovery phone number. Not Set.
Email a verification code to * at * com.
Simple enough, but the code never shows up in my email. Support doesn't reply.
Anyone else get this? I always login from a Incognito window, so it would never recognize me (as I'd expect most to). Never seen this before.
Thanks!I got the same message. If you are using gmail click on the promotion filter at the top of your email. It didn't come to my main mailbox.
BuffBill75
10-30-21, 15:16
I got the same message. If you are using gmail click on the promotion filter at the top of your email. It didn't come to my main mailbox.Same thing happenedto me. I'm using a yahoo mail address and can't get the email. Seeking says it's yahoo's fault and yahoo says it's seeking's fault. Meanwhile I can't log in.
Anyone have any experience with Kitty? I thought there was a past report but searched and didn't see anything. Appreciate any help! Please comment or DM. Thanks.
Runner.
https://members.seeking.com/member/4acc0574-5287-4d8e-8eea-a8b87f016a5f
Mythbuster
11-01-21, 23:45
Anyone have any experience with Kitty? I thought there was a past report but searched and didn't see anything. Appreciate any help! Please comment or DM. Thanks.
Runner.
https://members.seeking.com/member/4acc0574-5287-4d8e-8eea-a8b87f016a5fShe asked to see my pictures and I asked to see hers after granting access. I haven't heard anything from her since I aske what club she worked at. I'm guessing she wanted to keep this separate from her club work.
Mythbuster
11-01-21, 23:50
Does anyone know anything about this one:
https://members.seeking.com/member/3b224908-fc12-44fd-a585-d384f5689cdf
She comes on really strong with the dirty talk so if that is your thing, batter up! Only one picture but I searched the number given and it matched the name given. I hate to be suspicious but it almost seems like the dirty talk is so quick and consistent that they might have script. Feel fishy.
So I ran across this one a few days ago. She seems very likeable at first, DTF, reasonable allowance, but then the night before we were to meet she hit me up for a C-note "for her electric bill". I said (politely) I didn't think I could do that, since we'd never even met, and *BOOM* she went off on me.
*sigh*.
https://members.seeking.com/member/3ed8697d-46f3-4cba-b1d9-80788d2d0fed
Poker Shark11
11-02-21, 02:36
So I ran across this one a few days ago. She seems very likeable at first, DTF, reasonable allowance, but then the night before we were to meet she hit me up for a C-note "for her electric bill". I said (politely) I didn't think I could do that, since we'd never even met, and *BOOM* she went off on me.
*sigh*.
https://members.seeking.com/member/3ed8697d-46f3-4cba-b1d9-80788d2d0fedShe's definitely NOT 23. The Smile creases say at least 40.
Same thing happened to me. I'm using a yahoo mail address and can't get the email. Seeking says it's yahoo's fault and yahoo says it's seeking's fault. Meanwhile I can't log in.Ditto. Yahoo mail.
I can still get on line but when I view another member it doenst show up as I viewed them. Almost like I am in a hold status but I can still communicate with others on the site.
Sent 3 emails to tech support. Nothing. But they are able to send me upgrade to diamond status junk every few days.
PH.
Hey all. I know there have been many posts about whether SA is worth the price of admission. Just to leave my 2 cents from experience during COVID and the GPS that has taken over the local monger market. I believe it is.
Locally, I found a few SB that were more fun, and WAY more value, than the repeat posters on STG, EA, and such. I actually found a woman around my own age (-3 yrs) on SA that was looking for a regular (read: not financial) relationship because women can join free there. Locally, I'm finding girls that will have dinner / drinks and a couple hours at a hotel in the 250 range, some with very few limits.
The real SA gold mine for me has been Mexico. I travel there frequently, and have found a LARGE number of latin hotties half my age that will spend an entire night for less than what a local pro charges for an hour. The point of all this is, the 80 or 90 admission fee for a month on the site has been worth it compared to trolling the local spots (Philly / SJ) or the SW turned internet pro.
The local market is always a YMMV and in flux, but if anyone is interested in Mexico (especially Mexico City) info, feel free to PM me.
SA can really suck, not cheap, have many scammers, fake profiles and take forever. The but is, I have found it to eventually pay off. After some work I now have a long term weekly regular, cool, chill and 1/2 my age. We came up with a very reasonable $ plan that works perfect for both of us. It's more than just funds and we can see a good friendship developing. For now it's working out perfectly.
I have a few others I have met in my search in the $$$ or more range but with a bit of work no need to go there. As we all see a lot of these girls are totally unreasonable and clueless with their gift lists LOL. Just IMHO!
Runner.
Hey all. I know there have been many posts about whether SA is worth the price of admission. Just to leave my 2 cents from experience during COVID and the GPS that has taken over the local monger market. I believe it is.
Locally, I found a few SB that were more fun, and WAY more value, than the repeat posters on STG, EA, and such. I actually found a woman around my own age (-3 yrs) on SA that was looking for a regular (read: not financial) relationship because women can join free there. Locally, I'm finding girls that will have dinner / drinks and a couple hours at a hotel in the 250 range, some with very few limits.
The real SA gold mine for me has been Mexico. I travel there frequently, and have found a LARGE number of latin hotties half my age that will spend an entire night for less than what a local pro charges for an hour. The point of all this is, the 80 or 90 admission fee for a month on the site has been worth it compared to trolling the local spots (Philly / SJ) or the SW turned internet pro.
The local market is always a YMMV and in flux, but if anyone is interested in Mexico (especially Mexico City) info, feel free to PM me.
BuffBill75
11-03-21, 15:11
Ditto. Yahoo mail.
I can still get on line but when I view another member it doenst show up as I viewed them. Almost like I am in a hold status but I can still communicate with others on the site.
Sent 3 emails to tech support. Nothing. But they are able to send me upgrade to diamond status junk every few days.
PH.So I went to the support link on the page and opened a ticket. It took them a few days but they responded. I asked them to change the email on the account to my Gmail and it worked.
Burbs Monger
11-03-21, 19:42
If I can add my 2 cents, I think we need to clarify "if it's worth it". We all know different strokes for different folks. If you are looking to find one reliable, value or low financial need, no mental issues or bad habits who is half your age and a 10 and local, etc etc etc, that can be a challenging task now and take up a ton of time and lots of aggravation. If you don't mind putting your Johnson into any hole at any price that's easy on SA.
For me personally, SA was worth it several years ago as I have found 2 excellent SB's who really are unicorns. Pre-pandemic and OF craze, it was easy finding hot college girls at reasonable price points. Nowadays, SA has not been worth it for me as the number of college aged young ladies has dropped significantly while financial needs have escalated disproportionately to services offered. In addition, the number of scams, flakes, bait and switch and virtual only SB's represents the majority of profiles these days IMHO.
Even a blind squirrel finds a nut once in while. There are definitely diamonds in the rough on SA, as well as other sites. The question is, for me, how much time is worth it digging for them on top of the 99/ month subscription fee.
To each his own.
Be Safe.
SA can really suck, not cheap, have many scammers, fake profiles and take forever. The but is, I have found it to eventually pay off. After some work I now have a long term weekly regular, cool, chill and 1/2 my age. We came up with a very reasonable $ plan that works perfect for both of us. It's more than just funds and we can see a good friendship developing. For now it's working out perfectly.
I have a few others I have met in my search in the $$$ or more range but with a bit of work no need to go there. As we all see a lot of these girls are totally unreasonable and clueless with their gift lists LOL. Just IMHO!
Runner.
She's definitely NOT 23. The Smile creases say at least 40.Agreed, but practically every woman on there shades the truth a little somewhere, and anyway that's not really as important to me as trying to reach into my wallet that way is.
ReadyToTumble
11-04-21, 13:08
Does anyone know anything about this one:
https://members.seeking.com/member/3b224908-fc12-44fd-a585-d384f5689cdf
She comes on really strong with the dirty talk so if that is your thing, batter up! Only one picture but I searched the number given and it matched the name given. I hate to be suspicious but it almost seems like the dirty talk is so quick and consistent that they might have script. Feel fishy.No intel but I have had girls come on strong with the dirty talk and were for real and other ghost me. Play it out.
By any chance did she say " Phone Home Elliot" . LOL.
ReadyToTumble
11-04-21, 13:09
She asked to see my pictures and I asked to see hers after granting access. I haven't heard anything from her since I aske what club she worked at. I'm guessing she wanted to keep this separate from her club work.We talked and she ghosted me too after asking about the club.
ReadyToTumble
11-04-21, 13:13
Kayloveslife.
https://members.seeking.com/member/67db1f2a-951c-48fe-b9a9-8a4349cac648?&locale=en_US
Cassixoxo.
https://members.seeking.com/member/c461ef78-e2b2-452d-a4a1-7dc1b287ac4c
Poker Shark11
11-05-21, 00:40
Kayloveslife.
https://members.seeking.com/member/67db1f2a-951c-48fe-b9a9-8a4349cac648?&locale=en_US
Cassixoxo.
https://members.seeking.com/member/c461ef78-e2b2-452d-a4a1-7dc1b287ac4cI got a response from Cassi but that was it. I have a feeling she's on the higher end. She's hot so why not.
Finally heard back from her and she wanted 450! She said she would take less but than ghosted. Bye Felicia LOL. Some of these girls are a bit unrealistic (especially with the gift lists and $3,000 purses haha) and IMHO guys that will spend that kinda money are only fueling the situation.
https://members.seeking.com/member/4acc0574-5287-4d8e-8eea-a8b87f016a5f
We talked and she ghosted me too after asking about the club.
If I can add my 2 cents, I think we need to clarify "if it's worth it". We all know different strokes for different folks. If you are looking to find one reliable, value or low financial need, no mental issues or bad habits who is half your age and a 10 and local, etc etc etc, that can be a challenging task now and take up a ton of time and lots of aggravation. If you don't mind putting your Johnson into any hole at any price that's easy on SA.
For me personally, SA was worth it several years ago as I have found 2 excellent SB's who really are unicorns. Pre-pandemic and OF craze, it was easy finding hot college girls at reasonable price points. Nowadays, SA has not been worth it for me as the number of college aged young ladies has dropped significantly while financial needs have escalated disproportionately to services offered. In addition, the number of scams, flakes, bait and switch and virtual only SB's represents the majority of profiles these days IMHO.
Even a blind squirrel finds a nut once in while. There are definitely diamonds in the rough on SA, as well as other sites. The question is, for me, how much time is worth it digging for them on top of the 99/ month subscription fee..5 years ago these girls would take 60 for bbjcim and 100 for BBFS. It's was incredible.
Every SB on SA was looking to meet in person. No scammers or pros.
Now it's a cest pool of scams, pros and overpriced SBs. Even the fat girls are getting paid!
Straight to the point. Pictures are better, quick in and out.
Burbs Monger
11-05-21, 17:32
What's Miranda's profile name or do you have a hyperlink?
Be Safe.
Straight to the point. Pictures are better, quick in and out.
Socalcasualguy
11-05-21, 19:17
Straight to the point. Pictures are better, quick in and out.Do you have a pic?
How much was she?
Poker Shark11
11-08-21, 12:16
Any info:
https://members.seeking.com/member/78ba2fe3-3428-4c2e-9427-f1957df2d309
https://members.seeking.com/member/be0b2a37-89c0-427d-99f1-116e609c0578
https://members.seeking.com/member/ec68ba78-e6ae-4c07-9bef-29935fb5e649
What I know:
This girl is good to go for PPM $$$No real rules bbbfcip if you're clean.
https://members.seeking.com/member/417f93be-7dfa-4325-8d00-74bdd5e120be
Just wants attention. Unwilling to meet YMMV.
https://members.seeking.com/member/f8073b4d-28c4-406b-8733-d7798f7e6544
Sensitive about a 'review' DO NOT MENTION! Nicest pussy I've felt in decades. Really hot vigorous fuck. Super chill. $$$$ YMMV.
https://members.seeking.com/member/2e0c05c7-6028-4771-9cdb-fe8941b743e3
BuffBill75
11-08-21, 14:11
https://members.seeking.com/member/be0b2a37-89c0-427d-99f1-116e609c0578
Has anyone has any experience with this lady?
Poker Shark11
11-08-21, 15:40
https://members.seeking.com/member/be0b2a37-89c0-427d-99f1-116e609c0578
Has anyone has any experience with this lady?She hit me up last night asking about meeting this week. I responded but haven't heard back. When I know I'll report back.
Burbs Monger
11-08-21, 21:22
I posted about here a little while back. We messaged back and forth, but got no where. I got some pm's that she has a bf or handler who may be up to good so I stop pursuing.
https://members.seeking.com/member/be0b2a37-89c0-427d-99f1-116e609c0578
Has anyone has any experience with this lady?
Finally heard back from her and she wanted 450! She said she would take less but than ghosted. Bye Felicia LOL. Some of these girls are a bit unrealistic (especially with the gift lists and $3,000 purses haha) and IMHO guys that will spend that kinda money are only fueling the situation.
https://members.seeking.com/member/4acc0574-5287-4d8e-8eea-a8b87f016a5fShe's a thief. I keep a little extra, easily accessed but not in plain sight, for those moments when you need a bit more. After round one, like a minute's inattention was all it took for her to snatch it and bolt.
I really don't understand why chicks do that; they can get so much more if they just take their allowance every week like a good girl.
Thanks for the additional intel Kenny G.
Runner.
She's a thief. I keep a little extra, easily accessed but not in plain sight, for those moments when you need a bit more. After round one, like a minute's inattention was all it took for her to snatch it and bolt.
I really don't understand why chicks do that; they can get so much more if they just take their allowance every week like a good girl.
Hey guys, let me introduce you to this princess. She tried to start talking about ppm on this site but I never do that. Moved to Text where she informed me that she does not meet for less than $1,000 ppm. Yes you heard it. That certainly is the record times two LOL. I was tempted to send back some colorful response but resisted the urge. The last thing I need is her doing some kind of negative report and risk a possible ban. In these types of situations I have learned to LMAO and quietly walk away. I thought you would get a kick out of this one! So the search continues.
Runner.
https://members.seeking.com/member/bc475e4a-0641-4021-9dd2-eb0033c121e9
BuffBill75
11-10-21, 14:43
I posted about here a little while back. We messaged back and forth, but got no where. I got some pm's that she has a bf or handler who may be up to good so I stop pursuing.Thanks brother. I'll move on. But damn it's hard to pass up that body.
Mythbuster
11-14-21, 20:04
Any info:
https://members.seeking.com/member/78ba2fe3-3428-4c2e-9427-f1957df2d309
I went back and forth with her for a bit. She switched numbers a couple of times but I think I finally got her real number because it was searchable and came back with data that led to a real identity. She seems pretty nice but into a lot of different thing and very busy. My opinion is that she is as much of an amateur as I am at this. I got distracted by some other things but will try to set up a meeting soon. I got the impression that she was willing to do a meet and greet without payment to sort things out.
Mythbuster
11-14-21, 21:18
No intel but I have had girls come on strong with the dirty talk and were for real and other ghost me. Play it out.
By any chance did she say " Phone Home Elliot" . LOL.Yes so I let it play out and met up with her. I'm sure every guy on this board has had the experience of the girl not meeting your expectations that I did. She only has the one picture and the additional that she sent was taken from the same angle. So a lot thinker than I usually like but she was really nice and easy to talk to over dinner. One thing led to another and I ended up back at her place. Nice and really into things but not my type. She's looking for a more routine thing so I guess she threw me a freebie. I sent her a message later that something long term with her probably wasn't for me and there was no blow back. I think had sensed it already. Anyway if you like her and meet her, If you want the long term thing with someone pretty laid back, she's the one for you!
Yes so I let it play out and met up with her. I'm sure every guy on this board has had the experience of the girl not meeting your expectations that I did. She only has the one picture and the additional that she sent was taken from the same angle. So a lot thinker than I usually like but she was really nice and easy to talk to over dinner. One thing led to another and I ended up back at her place. Nice and really into things but not my type. She's looking for a more routine thing so I guess she threw me a freebie. I sent her a message later that something long term with her probably wasn't for me and there was no blow back. I think had sensed it already. Anyway if you like her and meet her, If you want the long term thing with someone pretty laid back, she's the one for you!Not sure if she "threw you a freebie"? Prolly more like she was chill about the $ aspect and didn't want things to be transactional. Proper etiquette would suggest you left her an envelop with a "gift" on her night stand. She sounds kinda passive, but perhaps is seething that she didn't get any sugar.
ALWAYS ask about the sugar and define the situation up front! Don't assume anything. Don't cheat these girls.
Have heard many stories like yours from girls. They were circumspect about the sugar part, but definitely wanted it yet the dude stiffed them. So it makes girls jaded going forward and many drop out. Also most girls ARE looking for a repeat situation and they all tell about guys who promise that and then ghost after first date. Another way girls are made to feel like a prostitute that turns them off. While it IS prostitution, what makes it palatable to many is the illusion of "gifts" or "help" or sugar and not pay to play. So I try to find that balance and feed the girls psyche as she needs.
Mythbuster
11-15-21, 17:37
Not sure if she "threw you a freebie"? Prolly more like she was chill about the $ aspect and didn't want things to be transactional. Proper etiquette would suggest you left her an envelop with a "gift" on her night stand. She sounds kinda passive, but perhaps is seething that she didn't get any sugar.
ALWAYS ask about the sugar and define the situation up front! Don't assume anything. Don't cheat these girls.
Have heard many stories like yours from girls. They were circumspect about the sugar part, but definitely wanted it yet the dude stiffed them. So it makes girls jaded going forward and many drop out. Also most girls ARE looking for a repeat situation and they all tell about guys who promise that and then ghost after first date. Another way girls are made to feel like a prostitute that turns them off. While it IS prostitution, what makes it palatable to many is the illusion of "gifts" or "help" or sugar and not pay to play. So I try to find that balance and feed the girls psyche as she needs.Good Points, I do know where she lives and tis the season. So maybe I'll try to drop something off for her. I said maybe a freebie because I did spend about $ on dinner and drinks for her.
Mythbuster
11-16-21, 09:57
I'd say relatively new at this but I had a great arrangement about 10 years ago that last 2-3 years. We still keep in touch today even though she moved out of state 6 or 7 years ago. She has even come over to the house in the last couple of years and sends me holiday cards. But in that arrangement, I had met her and another girl at a private party were things were pretty spelled out. I made an arrangement with girl 1 who was shrewd negotiator but provided almost no value, so a rip off. Girl 2 who was better looking but more innocent gave me her number one night when I gave her a ride home, met up with me once and decided she wanted in. All she asked was that I pay her the same and look at her the same way I looked at Girl 1. Girl 1 got quickly dropped and Girl 2 was a star! The kind of woman that gets stopped on the streets of center city Philadelphia and asked about how she looks so good. Anyway how do you guys do it? When I start off I always feel like I offer too much. I guess I could do the "How much do you usually get" and then negotiate down when I get a ridiculous number.
WillieZee914
11-16-21, 12:04
I'd say relatively new at this but I had a great arrangement about 10 years ago that last 2-3 years. We still keep in touch today even though she moved out of state 6 or 7 years ago. She has even come over to the house in the last couple of years and sends me holiday cards. But in that arrangement, I had met her and another girl at a private party were things were pretty spelled out. I made an arrangement with girl 1 who was shrewd negotiator but provided almost no value, so a rip off. Girl 2 who was better looking but more innocent gave me her number one night when I gave her a ride home, met up with me once and decided she wanted in. All she asked was that I pay her the same and look at her the same way I looked at Girl 1. Girl 1 got quickly dropped and Girl 2 was a star! The kind of woman that gets stopped on the streets of center city Philadelphia and asked about how she looks so good. Anyway how do you guys do it? When I start off I always feel like I offer too much. I guess I could do the "How much do you usually get" and then negotiate down when I get a ridiculous number.My first question is "how much have you gotten in the past". Knowing that they will inflate what they really got, my second statement is ALWAYS something to the effect that it's more than I'm able to provide, and try and push her to a monthly amount that is basically 25% less than a weekly or ppm. I thinks it's all about selling to them the consistency and the chance to get to know each other / reduce risk / maintain your own private lives without the strings of a bf / gf relationship. The ones that ask for rediculous amounts I generally blow off. What I'm referring to is the college or younger female that needs consistent help with bills. There is not an exact science to any of this. Good luck.
Burbs Monger
11-16-21, 19:14
I always treat the bowl like I buy a new car. There is always the MSRP that we know is never the final price and always too high. There is the invoice price that is a low price but not necessarily the lowest because of dealer hold backs and other incentives. The key for me, I am always 100% prepared to walk away if I don't get what I want and buy another model or go to another dealer. I never give the dealer what I can afford or what I want to offer. You make the first move and you will lose a majority of the time. Just like the car market, inventory is low but there are deals to be had. I am fortunate to have 2 very reliable unicorn SB's that are extremely affordable and solid knockouts. Sometimes I want to test drive a different make and model. It takes work and good negotiation skills to uncover them and also timing. You never know when that 500 accessory goes on sale for 300 because nobody is buying it at the high mark up.
Keep at it Myth. I may have one for you that we talked about last week or so. I am seeing her again this week.
Be Safe.
My first question is "how much have you gotten in the past". Knowing that they will inflate what they really got, my second statement is ALWAYS something to the effect that it's more than I'm able to provide, and try and push her to a monthly amount that is basically 25% less than a weekly or ppm. I thinks it's all about selling to them the consistency and the chance to get to know each other / reduce risk / maintain your own private lives without the strings of a bf / gf relationship. The ones that ask for rediculous amounts I generally blow off. What I'm referring to is the college or younger female that needs consistent help with bills. There is not an exact science to any of this. Good luck.
I have had decent success with negotiating once I get there, but I struggle with my first move. How do you cut through the bullshit without scaring them off? Obviously there are some who actively seek ppm (including the high volume ones) and they are easy to talk to. But what about those who are open to it but don't want to admit it right away? I don't have time to pretend to be interested in what they have to say nor is that necessarily effective. FWIW I am relatively young, average looking and only have one pic. Maybe it's one of those factors (and not what I say) that is the problem.
Burbs Monger
11-17-21, 09:44
For me, I talk about trust, consistency, and reliability. I never mention ppm or allowance until we are off the site. I let them know I do ppm until we have trust and open communication. Most of these ladies want a steady stream of revenue with someone they can count on week to week. This approach has worked consistently for me. Some ladies refuse ppm, I say good luck and move to the next one, it's that simple. For those that refuse it but might be open to it, I leave it up to them with a hypothetical and say " if you wanted ppm, how much are you thinking?" and then let them know once we establish trust we can move to an allowance. However, the allowance will never come because they will be gone, I will be bored, etc etc.
This approach worked for me with my 2 long term SB's and both are perfectly happy with ppm. I have been with both of them for over 2 years and yes they know about each and yes we have done 3 somes together. Neither have asked for an allowance as we are very consistent seeing each other and because we have trust there are perks for each, gifts, mini vacations, dinners, emergency money etc etc.
Best of luck and Be Safe.
I have had decent success with negotiating once I get there, but I struggle with my first move. How do you cut through the bullshit without scaring them off? Obviously there are some who actively seek ppm (including the high volume ones) and they are easy to talk to. But what about those who are open to it but don't want to admit it right away? I don't have time to pretend to be interested in what they have to say nor is that necessarily effective. FWIW I am relatively young, average looking and only have one pic. Maybe it's one of those factors (and not what I say) that is the problem.
Mythbuster
11-19-21, 01:30
Just in the interest of sharing information. This one told me that she just wanted someone to pay her rent ($1400).
https://members.seeking.com/member/19241bfb-9d8d-4b79-bb9c-a0d580df0c1a
Just in the interest of sharing information. This one told me that she just wanted someone to pay her rent ($1400).
https://members.seeking.com/member/19241bfb-9d8d-4b79-bb9c-a0d580df0c1aThat's a pretty penny to pay for no intimate time. Wonder how she would help out for that tidy chunk of change.
Looking for 400. Hosts in Northeast. Wouldn't discuss less.
Too many others to pay that amount.
https://members.seeking.com/member/e7a15249-47c8-462c-ac3d-7d7a235d8440
I noticed it's rare here for someone to post SBs with whom they have had success. People are saying they have a few gems they have seen for while but give no info. [Deleted by Admin]
Burbs Monger
11-20-21, 21:13
Why would we give you that information when you have posted, wait for it, wait for it, 2 fucking posts. You have not earned that right yet, at least not from me.
Be Safe.
I noticed it's rare here for someone to post SBs with whom they have had success. People are saying they have a few gems they have seen for while but give no info.
Why would we give you that information when you have posted, wait for it, wait for it, 2 fucking posts. You have not earned that right yet, at least not from me.
Be Safe.
I noticed it's rare here for someone to post SBs with whom they have had success. People are saying they have a few gems they have seen for while but give no info.I'm not talking about private information. There are plenty of links here to seeking arrangements. But barely any to legit ones. Why not give links to the good ones. People still have to do the work contacting them. The reason I haven't posted is because I never signed in until recently. I was a member but just lurked. And I did bring up a good one but can no longer find her on SA. So if anyone knew about her and posted a link it would have been to a good SB, which, like I said, is rare here. I know of another good one but am waiting for others to post ones they know.
I'm not talking about private information. There are plenty of links here to seeking arrangements. But barely any to legit ones. Why not give links to the good ones. People still have to do the work contacting them. The reason I haven't posted is because I never signed in until recently. I was a member but just lurked. And I did bring up a good one but can no longer find her on SA. So if anyone knew about her and posted a link it would have been to a good SB, which, like I said, is rare here. I know of another good one but am waiting for others to post ones they know.Umm, You have total 3 posts. This one where you complain about getting information, telling us how you would share but are waiting. Your second post about how you want us to share and your first post asking about a SB named Linda.
Do you see the pattern? You ask but you don't give.
There is information given here. If your asking for exact amounts and phone numbers most times you will not get that. A true SB does not think of themselves as a escort or anything close to it and need to be treated as such. They are picky with who they date. Some date only one guy, some may date a couple guys but most aren't a revolving door like you find on STG or list crawler.
I'm not gong to post publicly a SB phone number or exact details of my date with her. I don't know you. You might call her and say "so and so went out with you and did xxx for SSS I want the same deal. " She is now horrified and disappears.
I would suggest you read the pages of the Richmond SB here on USAG and try to get a better understanding.
Good luck,
PH.
BuffBill75
11-21-21, 12:46
I have had decent success with negotiating once I get there, but I struggle with my first move. How do you cut through the bullshit without scaring them off? Obviously there are some who actively seek ppm (including the high volume ones) and they are easy to talk to. But what about those who are open to it but don't want to admit it right away? I don't have time to pretend to be interested in what they have to say nor is that necessarily effective. FWIW I am relatively young, average looking and only have one pic. Maybe it's one of those factors (and not what I say) that is the problem.I always ask them how much they expect once off the site. In the negotiation the first person that throws out a price is at a disadvantage.
I always ask them how much they expect once off the site. In the negotiation the first person that throws out a price is at a disadvantage.Hi,
I take each meet individually and not sure I agree here.I try not to talk about the money till we meet. I am always dressed nice and willing to put time into a meet. If it doesn't work out so be it.
If I am meeting with a girl who I am pretty sure is going to ask for more than I am willing to spend I will come out and give a amount maybe 50 less than I will go for, lets say I am OK with 300. I will say 250 At this time she knows where its at. She can counter with a amount that I can accept or walk away from. I will not go back and forth as I feel it isn't conducive to a good arrangement an sets a tone for a transaction relationship. If she says 'oh no, I usually get xxx' I tell her she is very pretty and that she is out of my league. If your not creepy, dressed nice and can hold a good conversation more than likely she will adjust what she is looking for.
Remember she isn't a escort. She wants to think of herself as a nice girl who just needs a bit of help.
The initial amount I offer is all based on how I read her. If she is a bit chubby or what have you I will offer less. The 23 yr old spinner platinum blonde cutie won't give me that wiggle room as she will get the best offers.
In this environment where it seems girls are asking for excess amounts I would rather give a amount than have her lay out some outlandish number like 500 that is just too much to even counter offer.
I just like anyone don't want to spend more than I have to and if I see promise that I want to see her for a while I will discuss a different amount for either multiple dates per week, extended time together or something like that.
PH.
Umm, You have total 3 posts. This one where you complain about getting information, telling us how you would share but are waiting. Your second post about how you want us to share and your first post asking about a SB named Linda.
Do you see the pattern? You ask but you don't give.
There is information given here. If your asking for exact amounts and phone numbers most times you will not get that. A true SB does not think of themselves as a escort or anything close to it and need to be treated as such. They are picky with who they date. Some date only one guy, some may date a couple guys but most aren't a revolving door like you find on STG or list crawler.
I'm not gong to post publicly a SB phone number or exact details of my date with her. I don't know you. You might call her and say "so and so went out with you and did xxx for SSS I want the same deal. " She is now horrified and disappears..I'm not looking for private information as I stated in the first sentence of my post which you quoted. Since you bring up pattern yes I do see a pattern. The pattern is providing links to SB profiles who for whatever reason do not work out while rarely (note I say rarely, I'm not saying never) providing links to the those who do. That was my only point in my first post on the matter. It had nothing to do with private information. If you want to criticize me for not posting any I know fair enough, but it doesn't disprove what I just said. I don't want to hijack this thread so won't post anymore about it unless what I said is misconstrued.
I'm not looking for private information as I stated in the first sentence of my post which you quoted. Since you bring up pattern yes I do see a pattern. The pattern is providing links to SB profiles who for whatever reason do not work out while rarely (note I say rarely, I'm not saying never) providing links to the those who do. That was my only point in my first post on the matter. It had nothing to do with private information. If you want to criticize me for not posting any I know fair enough, but it doesn't disprove what I just said. I don't want to hijack this thread so won't post anymore about it unless what I said is misconstrued.There are UTR escorts on SA, but genuine SBs are a different than escorts. They date a guy, or maybe a couple of guys, regularly, they don't just do random PPM dates with everyone who messages them. I have been seeing an SB for over a year. If we stop seeing each other and she's back on SA, I'll provide the appropriate recommendation, but there's nothing for me to say about her right now because she's not looking for anyone else.
Burbs Monger
11-22-21, 23:03
I have shared offsite some quality SB's to legitimate posters and senior members. In return, they have shared as well. The pattern and lesson here is, if you give to the board and add value, you will get value and intel from the board. It's quite simple. Not sure why mongers don't grasp this concept.
Be Safe.
There are UTR escorts on SA, but genuine SBs are a different than escorts. They date a guy, or maybe a couple of guys, regularly, they don't just do random PPM dates with everyone who messages them. I have been seeing an SB for over a year. If we stop seeing each other and she's back on SA, I'll provide the appropriate recommendation, but there's nothing for me to say about her right now because she's not looking for anyone else.
I have shared offsite some quality SB's to legitimate posters and senior members. In return, they have shared as well. The pattern and lesson here is, if you give to the board and add value, you will get value and intel from the board. It's quite simple. Not sure why mongers don't grasp this concept.
Be Safe.Tongue in Cheek!
Youse just don't get it, do youse? Why should I HAVE TO share anything, the internet is here, it is free and I am entitled to any answer I want just for asking! That's the way it's suppose to work. FREE information! Anyone who thinks otherwise must be an OG! Enough with this "share and share alike" stuff, just give me the info I want! You're NOT my parents!
And then you act like this is some kind of exclusive "club" or something? I mean I can walk in any place and get free pussy, why do I need to "prove" myself to a bunch of guys who couldn't get laid in a convention of horny women?
I hope the intended humour resonates and those that need to it, see how ridiculous this looks?
GuidoPitHair
11-24-21, 23:03
Does vanilla Visa work as payment for site?
Burbs Monger
11-25-21, 09:33
Not anymore.
Does vanilla Visa work as payment for site?
Does vanilla Visa work as payment for site?You need the One Vanilla Visa Card. Plus you need to wait 24-hrs after loading it before trying it on the SA site. Worked for me recently.
All I see is end subscription or pause payment. How to end auto pay? Thanks.
All I see is end subscription or pause payment. How to end auto pay? Thanks.Think this is correct.
SETTINGS- PAYMENTS -MANAGE SUBSCRIPTION- CANCEL SUBSCRIPTION.
Try clicking on your username, then payments then cancel subscription. You then should be able to manually pay once your subscription expires. Hope that helps!
Runner.
All I see is end subscription or pause payment. How to end auto pay? Thanks.
Try clicking on your username, then payments then cancel subscription. You then should be able to manually pay once your subscription expires. Hope that helps!
Runner.Thanks. I saw that but wasn't sure if doing that would cancel my current month subscription.
I mean she must be trippin!
Started off at $400 ppm, quickly bid against herself and dropped to 250, then 175, then the lowest she would go 150! WTF! I'd pay 100, maybe.
But hey, clearly an UTR type of girl or a sure thing if fatty is of interest. If you text her and can't get laid.
Bella Doll.
I mean she must be trippin!
Started off at $400 ppm, quickly bid against herself and dropped to 250, then 175, then the lowest she would go 150! WTF! I'd pay 100, maybe.
But hey, clearly an UTR type of girl or a sure thing if fatty is of interest. If you text her and can't get laid.
Bella Doll.Even fat girls are getting paid on SA now. And a ridiculous amount.
There are backpage / STG quality girls asking for 300.
It's out of control.
I refuse to pay these women.
I rather spend that kind of money on a date and eventually get some action.
Mythbuster
12-07-21, 01:15
Even fat girls are getting paid on SA now. And a ridiculous amount.
There are backpage / STG quality girls asking for 300.
It's out of control.
I refuse to pay these women.
I rather spend that kind of money on a date and eventually get some action.The question I find myself asking is do I like the chase / challenge or the action? I'd have to admit that it's mostly the chase unless the action is exceptional! Chasing and gathering intel is my thing but I love great action. It's difficult to find great action!
ProCatHunter
12-07-21, 07:26
I've been having lots of success in the 300 range with attractive ladies in bmore and Philly. Dc and NYC are definitely more expensive, and if you're spending those amounts, you're overpaying.
No hate on the guys who have it and are willing to drop it, just saying that with a little game, the allowance and the parties drop. Just had a very nice afternoon date with a young lady yesterday. Currently works the night shift for work but was a lot of fun. Will share details on the board when I'm done with her.
I've been having lots of success in the 300 range with attractive ladies in bmore and Philly. Dc and NYC are definitely more expensive, and if you're spending those amounts, you're overpaying.
No hate on the guys who have it and are willing to drop it, just saying that with a little game, the allowance and the parties drop. Just had a very nice afternoon date with a young lady yesterday. Currently works the night shift for work but was a lot of fun. Will share details on the board when I'm done with her.Hey, not being argumentative, just sharing a different view. But IF I was offering 300 ppm I'd be able to date anyone as that is the top of the range around the Delaware Valley IMHO.
Most of what I have found is in the 100 to 200 range. I mean I have one girl who shows up every 3-4 weeks wanting a date and she only wants 100. Dated a girl last week at a 3 hr SS and gave her 300, but met her this week for a freebie, since the agreed 'help' was 150. Got a hot little AA chick in Upper Darby that wants me to come play and she wants 150, but might do 100. Dated a SB from Widner area for 100.
So I think it all comes down to what you are looking for? Good sex? Sex with a Trophy Baby? The hunt?
Just adding my two cents to hopefully keep donations to a decent range. I am typically in the 150 to 300 range. Did 400 a few times to try out a metro NYC gal with overnight benefits. I have had a very regular at 200 ppm. Works very good for both of us since we have developed a great connection, dependability, drama free, etc. I try to find reasonable, down to earth and realistic dates where we can both legitimately help each other. If the girl is unrealistic, won't comprise, etc that's usually enough of a red flag for me to pass. About twice a month I still get the random $1,000 minimum ppm request and lmao. Can't imagine that ever!
Runner.
Hey, not being argumentative, just sharing a different view. But IF I was offering 300 ppm I'd be able to date anyone as that is the top of the range around the Delaware Valley IMHO.
Most of what I have found is in the 100 to 200 range. I mean I have one girl who shows up every 3-4 weeks wanting a date and she only wants 100. Dated a girl last week at a 3 hr SS and gave her 300, but met her this week for a freebie, since the agreed 'help' was 150. Got a hot little AA chick in Upper Darby that wants me to come play and she wants 150, but might do 100. Dated a SB from Widner area for 100.
So I think it all comes down to what you are looking for? Good sex? Sex with a Trophy Baby? The hunt?
Just adding my two cents to hopefully keep donations to a decent range. I am typically in the 150 to 300 range. Did 400 a few times to try out a metro NYC gal with overnight benefits. I have had a very regular at 200 ppm. Works very good for both of us since we have developed a great connection, dependability, drama free, etc. I try to find reasonable, down to earth and realistic dates where we can both legitimately help each other. If the girl is unrealistic, won't comprise, etc that's usually enough of a red flag for me to pass. About twice a month I still get the random $1,000 minimum ppm request and lmao. Can't imagine that ever!.I only meet women from SA for quick fun - 15-30 min.
Sometimes a quic csr BJ and others my place for BJ+FS.
Used to pay $60-100 couple years ago.
Now my price range is $100-200.
$200 is my limit.
For me, no one is worth $400 for quick play.
Don't forget there are a lot of White knights out there who not only overpay but tell these women they are charging too little. Thus jacking up prices. It's the only aspect of life where people willingly pay more than they have to. Mind boggling. This happened on the old escort boards before SA even existed. And it happens on SA.
Mythbuster
12-09-21, 22:50
Sometimes just stating what you may for what quality is very helpful! I've been out of the game for probably 10 years. I probably over payed in he past but a lot of it is not knowing what things are worth. When the 40 yo MILF gives me a $300 price and says I need to come up with the accommodations, information from the board gives me the knowledge to say that's way too high and try to renegotiate or just drop it!
From my own experience and public info on the board it seems that $300-$400 is the opening price stated for ppm but things can get negotiated down from there.
Burbs Monger
12-10-21, 09:28
I agree with Ken. Typically, my strategy has been to negotiate a normal date and get to their 300-400 ppm financial assistance, then let them know that I only have time for a car quickie, which is what I really want. The ppm quickly drops to the 100-200 range. This strategy works like 50% of the time as some ladies think they are above getting hammered in the back of a car. I honestly like the car quickie but finding private spots is challenging so as to not interrupt the moment.
Be Safe.
I agree with Ken. Typically, my strategy has been to negotiate a normal date and get to their 300-400 ppm financial assistance, then let them know that I only have time for a car quickie, which is what I really want. The ppm quickly drops to the 100-200 range. This strategy works like 50% of the time as some ladies think they are above getting hammered in the back of a car. I honestly like the car quickie but finding private spots is challenging so as to not interrupt the moment..A car quickie also gives you an idea of sexual compatibility without investing too much time or money.
Imagine paying $400 for an hour and find there's room many rules and everything is covered.
What I love about SA is it's the college girl or single mom who didn't fuck 10 guys before you like STG or listcrawler ads.
And many are wiling to go bare.
I always avoid pros on SA.
Becca_24 (https://members.seeking.com/member/7f32d6ed-e951-4f90-9090-57c93624f5c7) is a time waster -- exchanged a bunch of texts, agreed to a meetup, only to get "should I send my cashapp now?" Wouldn't agree to cash.
BeautifulSexyGrk (https://members.seeking.com/member/21fb4af6-6663-4fb3-a8f4-40c1118c5bd6) not sure if she's legit or not. Agreed to $$$ and a half, then got annoyed that I couldn't meet in the next 2 days. May be more of a travelling UTR.
I'm wondering if anyone has info on AlaynaBabyyy (https://members.seeking.com/member/6cb740da-890e-4451-b75b-31cff29ace09). She asked $$ for a platonic meet, and I said no way. She dropped it to $$ for a platonic dinner. I am looking for a long term SB so I'm willing to sink $$ to meet someone good, but not to be rinsed, so any info would be appreciated.
What does it mean if under their profile pic it says "member since" and the date but no "last active"? Is the account disabled somehow? Or am I blocked by this individual?
LurkingDog
12-10-21, 20:25
Becca_24 (https://members.seeking.com/member/7f32d6ed-e951-4f90-9090-57c93624f5c7) is a time waster -- exchanged a bunch of texts, agreed to a meetup, only to get "should I send my cashapp now?" Wouldn't agree to cash.
BeautifulSexyGrk (https://members.seeking.com/member/21fb4af6-6663-4fb3-a8f4-40c1118c5bd6) not sure if she's legit or not. Agreed to $$$ and a half, then got annoyed that I couldn't meet in the next 2 days. May be more of a travelling UTR.
I'm wondering if anyone has info on AlaynaBabyyy (https://members.seeking.com/member/6cb740da-890e-4451-b75b-31cff29ace09). She asked $$ for a platonic meet, and I said no way. She dropped it to $$ for a platonic dinner. I am looking for a long term SB so I'm willing to sink $$ to meet someone good, but not to be rinsed, so any info would be appreciated.Your first one doesn't link to anyone now. I suspect it was a scam.
LD.
What does it mean if under their profile pic it says "member since" and the date but no "last active"? Is the account disabled somehow? Or am I blocked by this individual?If she's premium, she can disable "online status / last active" (just like we can). "Join date" is a separate setting.
Becca_24 (https://members.seeking.com/member/7f32d6ed-e951-4f90-9090-57c93624f5c7) is a time waster -- exchanged a bunch of texts, agreed to a meetup, only to get "should I send my cashapp now?" Wouldn't agree to cash.
BeautifulSexyGrk (https://members.seeking.com/member/21fb4af6-6663-4fb3-a8f4-40c1118c5bd6) not sure if she's legit or not. Agreed to $$$ and a half, then got annoyed that I couldn't meet in the next 2 days. May be more of a travelling UTR.
I'm wondering if anyone has info on AlaynaBabyyy (https://members.seeking.com/member/6cb740da-890e-4451-b75b-31cff29ace09). She asked $$ for a platonic meet, and I said no way. She dropped it to $$ for a platonic dinner. I am looking for a long term SB so I'm willing to sink $$ to meet someone good, but not to be rinsed, so any info would be appreciated.I would stop until you read more on here and especially the Richmond Va. SB forum. Agreeing to sink 350 into the second girl in your post. (I couldn't get the link to work and did try to search here by name also) before meeting her is nuts unless she is that perfect SB that someone has PM you about. WHy? Well you don't know her. Setting up a price like that before hand can lead to poor performance and unless you look like Tommy boy negotiating in person should get you a lower price.
Then notahooker. I looked at her and was going to message her but didn't. And now you saying she wants cash before hand? NEVER pay before hand. EVER. Don't pay till the panties drop. With that being said I have slipped a few SB $ 20- 50 if we met and she traveled a distance to meet me, dressed up and paid for someone to watch her kid or paid for uber etc.
Look, if she wants to get help she needs to put out. That is the "mutually beneficial" part of this. You take her to dinner pay out $150-200 for that then give her 200 just to watch her eat and drink? guess what she is going to say thank you good bye. She had a nice meal and didn't do anything for it except show up.
Read back one of my posts with Mayfran- I understood well what we were going to do and she lead me on- in the parking lot after dinner she says thanks and walks away. Now, supposedly she does put out so who knows why things worked out the way they did. She was rubbing her hand all over my leg at dinner and was leading me on with all kind of how she likes to do xxx. But I sure didnt hand her any $ so all I am out is the price of her meal.
There is a ton to learn about SB and each one is different. Take a step back, read up on others methods on meeting and negotiating first.
I hope you take this as constructive and good luck.
PH.
If she's premium, she can disable "online status / last active" (just like we can). "Join date" is a separate setting.Thanks for the response. Interesting.
Read back one of my posts with Mayfran- I understood well what we were going to do and she lead me on- in the parking lot after dinner she says thanks and walks away. Now, supposedly she does put out so who knows why things worked out the way they did. She was rubbing her hand all over my leg at dinner and was leading me on with all kind of how she likes to do xxx. But I sure didnt hand her any $ so all I am out is the price of her meal.
Sorry about the bad experience with MayFran! Stinks when they play games! Perhaps she has learned to rinse rather than the risks of putting out? Seems like more & more I have to apply "escort rules" to the SB situations. Perhaps I was lucky with the date I got?
Thanks for sharing!
Fireball25
12-11-21, 19:01
I'm wondering if anyone has info on AlaynaBabyyy (https://members.seeking.com/member/6cb740da-890e-4451-b75b-31cff29ace09). She asked $$ for a platonic meet, and I said no way. She dropped it to $$ for a platonic dinner. I am looking for a long term SB so I'm willing to sink $$ to meet someone good, but not to be rinsed, so any info would be appreciated.I reached out to this one. Quoted $$ then went to $$ just to watch her eat / drink. Said men pay her that amount but was willing to "work" with me. Lectured me on the definition of a hooker. Hard pass.
I reached out to this one. Quoted $$ then went to $$ just to watch her eat / drink. Said men pay her that amount but was willing to "work" with me. Lectured me on the definition of a hooker. Hard pass.I find it easy to believe guys overpaying for sex on SA, like $400-$500, but I have a really hard time someone paying $200 to watch a woman eat a meal AND then pick up the tab? Seems highly unlikely.
I find it easy to believe guys overpaying for sex on SA, like $400-$500, but I have a really hard time someone paying $200 to watch a woman eat a meal AND then pick up the tab? Seems highly unlikely.One told me $100 And $150 more for sex. I asked what we would do for $100. She said dinner. I said I only do short meet and greets. She said it would be less for that. I never asked how much less because her photo didn't show her face. Her one pic didn't show much of her body either. I asked if she could send a face pic. She said no. I asked if guys meet without seeing her face. She said yes. If she was close maybe I would meet without seeing a face pic, but I'm not driving any distance without seeing a face.
I find it easy to believe guys overpaying for sex on SA, like $400-$500, but I have a really hard time someone paying $200 to watch a woman eat a meal AND then pick up the tab? Seems highly unlikely.I've chatted with multiple college aged women from SA over the last year that said the same. There are older men that will take them to dinner and give them $200 and no sex.
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/RokY13bKlJlMLqO5neVE27Ma
I've seen her on this thread before but I can't find it. Any experiences?
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/RokY13bKlJlMLqO5neVE27Ma
I've seen her on this thread before but I can't find it. Any experiences?18 post since 2016 and mostly asking. Time to give to the group.
Just sayin'.
PH.
I've chatted with multiple college aged women from SA over the last year that said the same. There are older men that will take them to dinner and give them $200 and no sex.Read title above.
Read title above.That is amazing. Really amazing. If you know any of them, tell them they can buy me dinner for $100.
ReadyToTumble
12-16-21, 11:35
Check out this Dancer on SA. I love love love her body.
Any intel. She is clearly a dancer.
https://members.seeking.com/member/f7b36c19-b663-4d86-a45d-e40d83131135
Did I say I love her body.
ReadyToTumble
12-17-21, 14:04
Check out this Dancer on SA. I love love love her body.
Any intel. She is clearly a dancer.
https://members.seeking.com/member/f7b36c19-b663-4d86-a45d-e40d83131135
Did I say I love her body.Someone has to have seen this girl dance somewhere.
Burbs Monger
12-17-21, 15:06
Fellow Mongers,
Just got notified that SA is increasing their prices again starting 1/4/22. It's not worth it now at 99, so not sure what the new pricing is but my guess is another 10 bucks. I will wait for my discount code or maybe not re-up for a while.
Happy hunting.
Be Safe.
Fellow Mongers,
Just got notified that SA is increasing their prices again starting 1/4/22. It's not worth it now at 99, so not sure what the new pricing is but my guess is another 10 bucks. I will wait for my discount code or maybe not re-up for a while.
Happy hunting..Whenever I've gone back on, I just create a new account and then wait a couple of days, and they tend to offer a 25% or 33% discount a couple of days after making the new account. This would be a pain in the ass if you're on the site all of the time, but if you're just hopping on occasionally to find new people it's an option.
PiesOnlyPlz
12-18-21, 23:48
Just some notes on a few of the women I've come across on SA. I understand that some of them may have been discussed before.
https://members.seeking.com/member/b009891b-d431-46fe-9a3d-a2fa4397eb12
She's real but mostly just an experienced escort. She used to dance at the Gold Club. Gives a half assed BJ.
https://members.seeking.com/member/dc86dda2-5395-4736-8c8f-9e814474342c
After A few messages We exchanged numbers and did some texting back and forth. She has a very open menu but given her looks I think Her numbers are outrageous. She first quoted me 6 bills, but then lowered it to 4. Hard pass for me.
https://members.seeking.com/member/e2e90af4-afab-461b-a92c-00b9c45452a3
She's real, and a true beauty in person. Unfortunately this one couldn't work out for me as she insisted on no BB, which for me is a deal breaker.
I've been on SA on and off for 4 or so years. I have a few more in the pipeline that I'm working on, I'll keep you guys posted.
https://members.seeking.com/member/e70c7ab7-ca3d-401c-8e05-8a35ce316b78
Saw her a while back. Cute MILF. Pics a little filtered but not bad to look at. A little flabby but not bad considering her age. She was a little nervous but willing. After a quick meet and greet go to the room. She says "no kissing and use a condom". Well. We're already here so I stick my cock in her mouth BB. Meh skills. I put her face down and hit her from behind. She did not quote a number I gave her more than I should have because she was a cool person and she indicated loosening up on the kissing thing if we became more regular.
Thanks for your report BDM! Appreciate the info and details. What was the damage? Quite thoughtful for you to also give her some extra!
Runner.
https://members.seeking.com/member/e70c7ab7-ca3d-401c-8e05-8a35ce316b78
Saw her a while back. Cute MILF. Pics a little filtered but not bad to look at. A little flabby but not bad considering her age. She was a little nervous but willing. After a quick meet and greet go to the room. She says "no kissing and use a condom". Well. We're already here so I stick my cock in her mouth BB. Meh skills. I put her face down and hit her from behind. She did not quote a number I gave her more than I should have because she was a cool person and she indicated loosening up on the kissing thing if we became more regular.
Any experience with this one?
https://members.seeking.com/member/52c99d51-498b-40de-97ef-a907c1aba9c2
I am meeting up with her tomorrow. Will report back.
Any experience with this one?
https://members.seeking.com/member/52c99d51-498b-40de-97ef-a907c1aba9c2
I am meeting up with her tomorrow. Will report back.Damm that made my dick hard. Until I saw the hairy armpits. Hopefully she shaved that off. I like a trimmed bush but hairy arms? Naww.
Im sure if she wanted to get together with me I would overlook it though ! Good luck, she is cute.
PH.
LurkingDog
12-20-21, 16:28
Any experience with this one?
https://members.seeking.com/member/52c99d51-498b-40de-97ef-a907c1aba9c2
I am meeting up with her tomorrow. Will report back.Good luck! It appears she's only been a member since 12/15 so you are likely one if her first meet-ups. Looking forward to seeing your FR.
LD.
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