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Looking to see if anyone has experience with this cute nerdy little Rican girl I had made plans with? SHE chooses the time and agrees to the location. Last text from her is " I am excited to meet you! The time for the date comes and goes and she does not confirm with me and stands me up for the date. Has anyone else been ghosted by her? A lot of seeking girls have been standing me up or ghosting me lately which makes me wonder if they share intel on us like we do with them LOL not that I have mistreated anyone. Any previous arrangements simply fell through because of incompatibility.
https://members.seeking.com/member/34d3bcd3-e566-46e8-89fd-4dd97087809dFrom my experience, about 40 to 60 percent always cancel on the first date. Granted I never schedule a meeting on the day of first chatting with SB. I usually plan on the following week. So SB may have met someone who's schedule is more open then mine. I try not to let it discourage me. I will try to make another scheduled meeting. If I get no response or they cancel again. I will just move on. Sometimes they come back and say I was too nervous or whatever. So for me it's common place for a new SB to always cancel and sometimes ghost the first meeting. I never get a hotel until I am sure it's going to be used.
The opposite happens too. A new SB can be eager to meet. Which usually means she's more pro than SB. I make it a point to meet those types in public and they usually will say they prefer meeting at a hotel room. Which in that case. They would need to chat for a while and be very attractive. Some legit SBs don't like to be seem in public with some old guy, but most likely they are pro to semi pro. You just have to use common sense and never come off desperate.
I have met her a couple times. She doesn't host or drive. She looks like her pics. Does have some acme on her face. Nice tits for a skinny girl.
Pros and cons. First time I met her, She was apprehensive. Didn't want to do too many positions. Prefered to meet at hotel. I didn't try to DFK her, because she didn't seem to want to kiss. She definitely has a "pro" vibe. After meeting She will start asking you to send her money. Always something about an emergency situation. Seems to have a driver too. Wasn't on any noticeable drugs, but did ask me if I had any smoke. I did ask about bare and she said if I had recent tests. Ok. I ask her if she was tested and she just said she didn't have anything. But from the pro vibe and her somewhat shady vibes. I was covered. From my experience definitely wasn't a typical SB. More of a STGS vibe. She's nice but I have a feeling her boyfriend or maybe she has a pimp is controlling her. She been on seeking for a while and doesn't have her stuff together. The last time I saw her she was almost an hour late and after we were done got a shower and her ride pick her up. Seemed like she had another date to see. I won't repeat. Or give out her number. She on seeking find her yourself. If she doesn't respond to your profile. It's because there's something she doesn't like about you. Plain and simple.Well, she's upgraded to asking for money before even meeting. First time she said I would be buying her breakfast. Yeah cause you need 35 dollars for that, lying ****. Second time she said she was in an emergency and if I did her that "huge favor" she'd meet for nothing the next time because she it wasn't about the money, she wanted a connection. But get this, if I didn't, then she wanted 5-6 $$ for meet ups. ROFL. Piece of trash masquerading as a pretty girl. I have her PayPal and Venmo too, I should do something with that.
So on 3 different occasions, she immediately asks straight up for money before even meeting. Tries to bait you by saying you can then meet for no money if you have been sending money online. Scamming little shlt.
Has anyone seen her? She's down to meet me. Says she's available weekdays no weekends.
https://members.seeking.com/member/c517573f-e72a-45ce-9845-47eb834a055e
I'd had some luck on IG finding SBs but its alot of work.
Anyone else looking into different avenues? Seeking is no longer what it once was and IMO, it works if you're willing to travel or expand your search radius substantially.
It was a fkn gold mine in 2014-2017.
WaltoDerri267
06-12-24, 18:11
I'd had some luck on IG finding SBs but its alot of work.
Anyone else looking into different avenues? Seeking is no longer what it once was and IMO, it works if you're willing to travel or expand your search radius substantially.
It was a fkn gold mine in 2014-2017.How exactly do you go about this? I regret not dipping my toes in the golden era, thinking 300 was too much lmao!
WaltoDerri267
06-12-24, 19:33
Rosemary 25 PHL.
This one wants $300 just for the honor of being in her presence! Do any of you guys ever actually meet and greet I never would. In addition, I always find it fascinating when you look at a girls wishlist and find a purse or two for $2,599 or more. Keep dreaming Felicia LOL.
https://members.seeking.com/member/960362c5-b080-4c85-9bfe-168659305bfb#.She wants 300 for just showing the fuck up plus and 500 for intimacy. Got offended when I said we can just skip to the fun part, no need for formalities. "I'm not a prostitute" says the girl who just quoted me 500 for intimacy because she has the delusional need "to know if she wants something long term with a man" by meeting him and talking first (for 300 ofc) lmao. I told her I don't get paid for just showing up at work and she said she does, and that she could make 2 K for a one night stand. Bullshit. She wouldn't be on seeking beggin strangers for shoes money if that was the case.
How exactly do you go about this? I regret not dipping my toes in the golden era, thinking 300 was too much lmao!Just DMing them and being not weird. Its a hit or miss and alot of these girls get tons of msgs so they might not even see it.
Rubber Ducky Boston
06-14-24, 16:23
Just DMing them and being not weird. Its a hit or miss and alot of these girls get tons of msgs so they might not even see it.I guess the better question is how do you identify / find people who you think might be open to arrangements in the first place?
WaltoDerri267
06-14-24, 17:59
Just DMing them and being not weird. Its a hit or miss and alot of these girls get tons of msgs so they might not even see it.Ok but what do you say exactly? LOL "Hey would you be interested in an arrangement?" or is there a script? Share the knowledge bro.
Ok but what do you say exactly? LOL "Hey would you be interested in an arrangement?" or is there a script? Share the knowledge bro.Pretty sure he's just BSing. Sounds like a good way to get reported and / or for people to label it as harassment.
Pretty sure he's just BSing. Sounds like a good way to get reported and / or for people to label it as harassment.Not BSing, but girls who are influencers / models are a bit more open to it.
There are lots of lesser known influencers who have small followings who would be good SB recruits. Its not really effective though because instagram is a simp fest.
Not BSing, but girls who are influencers / models are a bit more open to it.
There are lots of lesser known influencers who have small followings who would be good SB recruits. Its not really effective though because instagram is a simp fest.Of the scores of these women I've messaged, not one that is a real person and not running a scam, has even read the message I've sent much less responded. They're all about getting followers and that's it. I'm an attractive, muscular tattooed man that knows how to spit game too LOL. The poker player in me says RERAISE.
https://members.seeking.com/member/34cb277a-e052-4eeb-ab31-dec29e4a3b8f
Moved to texting and set up a meet for an hour later. Then they hit me with "before we meet I need 20 bucks to get something to eat. I have terrible ulcers. " So I decide to screw with them. "Ok I'll definitely do that. But first just send a confirmation selfie of you holding up a pinky. Easy, right?" The send 3 pics that they stole from insta or somewhere but not the pinky one LOL. Idiot.
UsaBlinkGuy11
06-16-24, 18:21
Seems like every girl expects minimum 4 x $ these days, regardless of how you look or how old you are.
I guess you all are paying these prices?
I used to be able to get no more than 2 x $ somewhat consistently. Usually would pay even less than that, and these were average looking college girls or girls that had part time jobs.
Dunno. I guess inflation has hard lined the prices.
I personally can't justify spending more than 2 x $, regardless of how hot the girl looks or if I was like 65 years old LOL. Not judging anyone. To me, 1 session of just 1 round, maybe two rounds, shouldn't cost more than that, but oh well.
Good luck gents, impressed that you all are fighting the good fight.
Seems like every girl expects minimum 4 x $ these days, regardless of how you look or how old you are.
I guess you all are paying these prices?
I used to be able to get no more than 2 x $ somewhat consistently. Usually would pay even less than that, and these were average looking college girls or girls that had part time jobs.
Dunno. I guess inflation has hard lined the prices.
I personally can't justify spending more than 2 x $, regardless of how hot the girl looks or if I was like 65 years old LOL. Not judging anyone. To me, 1 session of just 1 round, maybe two rounds, shouldn't cost more than that, but oh well.
Good luck gents, impressed that you all are fighting the good fight.A while ago had posted abouts getting girls that were more reasonable. They are still there. It's more about timing and how comfortable you present yourself. Also express that you are looking for something steady but not clingy. Send a nice message if their gift demands are too high, be polite and say "I am sorry that's too much for me" Wait a week or 2 send them another message saying could we meet half way or say look this for a repeated experience if we click. Also don't do sex talk or dic pics when first discussing a meeting. . Its more how you are going to represent a comfortable atmosphere for them. As soon as they have a bad experience like a stalker, someone whos fake, or they are somewhat new or they just been turned down. These 4 xx ot 6 xx bill girls usually will take a more reasonable offer. I also don't make a day of it. It's usually a couple hours when meeting. I treat them like we will meet again and I usually do if the chemistry is there But it does take alot of time and patience. I have now been on a few different SB sites for a few years. Bouncing off different ones when my sub or credits expire.
Because I had a bunch good meetings but because of time or schedules I didn't repeat. I will sometimes go on the SB sites and I will start getting texts from past SB to meet again. This is with out renewing sub or buying credits. Its because they saw me on. I am not saying this to act like I am something special. . I am saying that I treat people respect. Even SBs. . also This is without ever paying 4 or more for a gift. . I always explain that I do the best I can and if the gift is within my means I will be more likely to repeat. Has my gifts been a little higher. Yeah but like 50 bucks. I am still in the 2 to 3 range. I have couple regular friends, that are in that range. Also I am done with SB sites for now. I am now trying different avenues. Even reddit has groups looking for SB or hook ups and that site is free.
On a side note. I don't put up with any 5 hit or bs either. No money upfront, never send them money, no money for platonic meets. I am nice but firm.
So just be patient. Also if you had SB that you seemed to click with and she seemed reasonable with her wants. Maybe stick with her or reach out again. Good luck out there.
A while ago had posted abouts getting girls that were more reasonable. They are still there. It's more about timing and how comfortable you present yourself. Also express that you are looking for something steady but not clingy. Send a nice message if their gift demands are too high, be polite and say "I am sorry that's too much for me" Wait a week or 2 send them another message saying could we meet half way or say look this for a repeated experience if we click. Also don't do sex talk or dic pics when first discussing a meeting. . Its more how you are going to represent a comfortable atmosphere for them. As soon as they have a bad experience like a stalker, someone whos fake, or they are somewhat new or they just been turned down. These 4 xx ot 6 xx bill girls usually will take a more reasonable offer. I also don't make a day of it. It's usually a couple hours when meeting. I treat them like we will meet again and I usually do if the chemistry is there But it does take alot of time and patience. I have now been on a few different SB sites for a few years. Bouncing off different ones when my sub or credits expire.300-400 isn't unreasonable, especially in today's economy. I generally get nasty CIP fun with hot submissive girls. One's that aren't shooting up and being "stuck" in my bathroom for 45 minutes.
I really appreciate the feedback when it comes to information about girls- be they scammers or legit. And I'm not telling anyone to not complain about ppm. But unless there's constructive advice like JD just gave it does nothing. We are a tiny tiny slice of men on seeking. We can't do anything to change what is the reasonable p p m currently. There are other options like STG, but that's 99.9% infested with heavy drug users, especially here in the Philly region. I have intel to share (but not contact info) in my next post.
300-400 isn't unreasonable, especially in today's economy. I generally get nasty CIP fun with hot submissive girls. One's that aren't shooting up and being "stuck" in my bathroom for 45 minutes.
I really appreciate the feedback when it comes to information about girls- be they scammers or legit. And I'm not telling anyone to not complain about ppm. But unless there's constructive advice like JD just gave it does nothing. We are a tiny tiny slice of men on seeking. We can't do anything to change what is the reasonable p p m currently. There are other options like STG, but that's 99.9% infested with heavy drug users, especially here in the Philly region. I have intel to share (but not contact info) in my next post.As someone who most likely has their own collection of friends. I don't see you putting up your best ones you see now. Seriously as you like to brag how safe you are. I wouldn't want to touch some of the chicks you are with. And the funny thing is we most likely have.
On top of that crusader. I am just trying to give some advice for those who are trying but maybe going at it the wrong way. You maybe the biggest pussy slayer here dude. More power to you. I prefer to be more on the side lines. I try to be helpful in my own way. When I go on seeking. We both know who is who. Meaning it's all that hard to see who we can pick out and taken home on seeking. Newer profiles can take some time. As for I love busting nuts in girl. Don't we all. I just try to be careful. Even 7 xx dollar girl can get something and give it to you. I am just more afraid to pass something around. If the girl checks out. Bare is all good. Granted I am not the biggest spender and have to be more careful..
UsaBlinkGuy11
06-21-24, 13:20
I think I just have a different personal opinion about it.
I am not sure for others, but I would say 99% of women I see on seeking I would not give them more than 2 x $ ppm.
I would say out of 1,000 girl profiles I see. Maybe 1 out of 1,000 I would be willing to fork over up to 5 x $.
My thinking is that if I am going to pay these "normal" rates, I literally will only take the absolute perfect girls LOL. In terms of what I prefer looks-wise.
Therefore. Almost all girls do not qualify. I had a couple girls who were normal looking college girls asking for 4 x $. They looked so mid. Like any other girl walking down the street. I don't know how anyone pays 3-4 x $ for that?? But I guess it's just a different way of thinking compared to mine.
Obviously we all have a right to pay what we think something is worth. If it's worth it for some, then they will pay. If it's not worth it, then they will pass (kind of like what I am currently doing).
Hopefully those still in this game are able to secure deals that they are happy with.
Onward.
I think I just have a different personal opinion about it.
I am not sure for others, but I would say 99% of women I see on seeking I would not give them more than 2 x $ ppm.
I would say out of 1,000 girl profiles I see. Maybe 1 out of 1,000 I would be willing to fork over up to 5 x $.
My thinking is that if I am going to pay these "normal" rates, I literally will only take the absolute perfect girls LOL. In terms of what I prefer looks-wise.
Therefore. Almost all girls do not qualify. I had a couple girls who were normal looking college girls asking for 4 x $. They looked so mid. Like any other girl walking down the street. I don't know how anyone pays 3-4 x $ for that?? But I guess it's just a different way of thinking compared to mine.
Obviously we all have a right to pay what we think something is worth. If it's worth it for some, then they will pay. If it's not worth it, then they will pass (kind of like what I am currently doing).
Hopefully those still in this game are able to secure deals that they are happy with.
Onward.That's the thing. There's different types of girls and different levels of what they want. Granted it seems that the avg. Is probably 4 xx.
I can only afford what I can afford. So for me to wait a month to see a 5 xx. Just isn't for me.
I prefer seeing 2 girl a week. So I stick to a range that works for me and because I have wife to worry about. I just can't fuck anyone bare. I sure would not want to share a SB info to a bunch of dudes who could careless about their own health. I mean seriously. Who would.
I prefer seeing 2 girl a week. So I stick to a range that works for me and because I have wife to worry about. I just can't fuck anyone bare. I sure would not want to share a SB info to a bunch of dudes who could careless about their own health. I mean seriously. Who would.No one would JD. But what makes the girl check out ok? Case in point are my previous 2 long term ladies. Yes, we went bare after a few times. She gave me the story that I was the only dude she was fucking. The truth was, she was fucking another one of my friends raw. This happened with 2 different ladies. My friend and I did recommend these girls to each other. But the ladies never were aware. To them, we met organically through seeking.
So despite what you will be told by ladies in this game, they almost ALWAYS have other dudes. The most common number of suitors is 3 dudes per hot chick. 2 paying SDs and one vanilla guy or FWB dude. That seems to be the most common configuration of a chicks roster. I've found this to be true 95% of the time.
I'm fortunate that I know the other SD and he's a safe guy. That helps mitigate the STD risk.
No one would JD. But what makes the girl check out ok? Case in point are my previous 2 long term ladies. Yes, we went bare after a few times. She gave me the story that I was the only dude she was fucking. The truth was, she was fucking another one of my friends raw. This happened with 2 different ladies. My friend and I did recommend these girls to each other. But the ladies never were aware. To them, we met organically through seeking.
So despite what you will be told by ladies in this game, they almost ALWAYS have other dudes. The most common number of suitors is 3 dudes per hot chick. 2 paying SDs and one vanilla guy or FWB dude. That seems to be the most common configuration of a chicks roster. I've found this to be true 95% of the time.
I'm fortunate that I know the other SD and he's a safe guy. That helps mitigate the STD risk.You don't! You can only manage risk. No sex is the safest. To a condom. But a condom can break. Right. A bunch of guys on a sex forum. Which includes any type of sex workers to SB. Which alot of guys brag about banging girls bare Seems very high risk for me. So I cross my fingers and hope for the best.
As one who seems to contribute alot. Do you say to everyone on here what SB you are banging now. Or is it after the fact or if someone schedule doesn't match yours? I am just saying. The difference is I appreciate everyone advice from yours to Epics. But I do hate when people complain. If I am fisherman I will show the lake and the area. But I am not handing you the fish. If the fish is not for me sure you can have it.
PhillYogynist
06-21-24, 18:07
WarmQueen.
Exchanged messages with her a couple years ago. Quite real and very pretty. Knows what this is about but wanted $800. Countered with $400 which was rejected and ended the conversation. She disappeared for a while, but resurfaced recently (AFAIK). Maybe she's recalibrated her expectations?
https://members.seeking.com/member/1cd75701-5624-48ff-99ee-d50aefad67a1
WarmQueen.
Exchanged messages with her a couple years ago. Quite real and very pretty. Knows what this is about but wanted $800. Countered with $400 which was rejected and ended the conversation. She disappeared for a while, but resurfaced recently (AFAIK). Maybe she's recalibrated her expectations?
https://members.seeking.com/member/1cd75701-5624-48ff-99ee-d50aefad67a1For some on here this may seem like common sense.
Like this girl. 800 is way to high. 400 is too high for me. So I probably wouldn't try. She looks very attractive from what I can see. But she is 32 and probably even older. Most lie about their age. Especially as they get older. So that's alittle old for that amount. She has been on seeking for a little while. If she is not on all the time. She is not trying to make a living from this and is probably being choosy. Now this just my take on it.
If you really want to pull her in. Try 5. And if you both have chemistry and seem to vibe well. Say hey I would like to meet next week but your gift needs to be more in range of what I can do. If she does not go for it. Let her go or pay the price.
Also some guys have money, some guys have a personality, some guys have looks. Some guys are good in bed. Of course the same is true on the girls side. So which ever one (s) are your strongest, is the one you can use to win over the SB. Whether it's to meet them or keep it going. Obviously mine is not grammar.
For me I am getting older. I am getting tired of the chase. Also as other have pointed out, girls asking for more money. You can still find girls that are more reasonable and are somewhat normal, it just takes a lot of time. I used to see multiple new girls a month. It was fun but very time consuming. The thrill of meeting someone new has diminished over time Also I let some girls go to get other ones. Only to miss some I had see in the past. I already did the bucketlist. I might as well enjoy the people I see now who seem to be enjoying me as well. I mean I see one girl 29 for 1 xx to 2 xx Been seeing her for 7 months. She works but doesn't want a serious relationship. Wants sex and likes a few dollars. She also had a few bad experiences, besides bad dates, being ripped off. She is not on seeking. Girls have their own stories of bad dates, being raped etc. So when you think sex talk is going to win them over. You are delusional. If the sex talk does seem to be working. LOL she is working you to get that money.
https://members.seeking.com/member/102af337-4f49-480f-82e0-a1c702523796
Cute with a slutty look- I send out tons of messages and go from there. Her copy and paste response: 'hello, I am looking for a sugar daddy long term. Money in exchange for whatever you would like. Text me if this interest you" and then her real number. We're texting for a few and she asks for money to upkeep her beauty. I tell her I'd never send money to anyone I'm not in an arrangement with. So she's, of course, not interested. Don't waste your time.
UsaBlinkGuy11
06-22-24, 15:31
For some on here this may seem like common sense.
Like this girl. 800 is way to high. 400 is too high for me. So I probably wouldn't try. She looks very attractive from what I can see. But she is 32 and probably even older. Most lie about their age. Especially as they get older. So that's alittle old for that amount. She has been on seeking for a little while. If she is not on all the time. She is not trying to make a living from this and is probably being choosy. Now this just my take on it.
If you really want to pull her in. Try 5. And if you both have chemistry and seem to vibe well. Say hey I would like to meet next week but your gift needs to be more in range of what I can do. If she does not go for it. Let her go or pay the price.
Also some guys have money, some guys have a personality, some guys have looks. Some guys are good in bed. Of course the same is true on the girls side. So which ever one (s) are your strongest, is the one you can use to win over the SB. Whether it's to meet them or keep it going. Obviously mine is not grammar.
For me I am getting older. I am getting tired of the chase. Also as other have pointed out, girls asking for more money. You can still find girls that are more reasonable and are somewhat normal, it just takes a lot of time. I used to see multiple new girls a month. It was fun but very time consuming. The thrill of meeting someone new has diminished over time Also I let some girls go to get other ones. Only to miss some I had see in the past. I already did the bucketlist. I might as well enjoy the people I see now who seem to be enjoying me as well. I mean I see one girl 29 for 1 xx to 2 xx Been seeing her for 7 months. She works but doesn't want a serious relationship. Wants sex and likes a few dollars. She also had a few bad experiences, besides bad dates, being ripped off. She is not on seeking. Girls have their own stories of bad dates, being raped etc. So when you think sex talk is going to win them over. You are delusional. If the sex talk does seem to be working. LOL she is working you to get that money.1 x $ - 2 x $ is ideal.
Good luck getting that though.
WaltoDerri267
06-22-24, 15:41
For the fellas with insurance, just get tested at your nearest CVS and ask the woman to also provide clean testing.
No insurance? Hit up the AHF clinic in center city. I go here periodically and get a full screening. Thursdays are the best days.
After I have my results I always say to a potential sb "Hey, just for your peace of mind I am happy to share my clean tests". Especially when they counter for a higher amount than what I initially offered.
I also offer to cover the costs of birth control. Look into VCF strips too. Vaginal Contraceptives. It is the 21st century. Everything is treatable or preventable. Prep can prevent HIV.
If condoms are a must for you or her, invest in Skyn brand condoms. Extra lube. Thank me later.
P.S. Herpes can be spread via non sexual contact so even condoms won't 100% protect you. Skin to skin contact of any kind, sharing drinks, food, etc.
1 x $ - 2 x $ is ideal.
Good luck getting that though.Well it's very possible for most anyone. If you have the patience to find someone who you are compatible with. And of course I know SB will see other people.
Now don't get me wrong. If you just want to bang a bunch of new random girls every month. That's your thing. I have done it and still meet a few new people here and there. If I find someone who seems to click with me and she's somewhat normal and is cool with what I can give her and she's reliable, great!. We will most likely meet at least 2 x a month. Some girls like stability and not a bunch of random dicks trying to push what ever weird things they can think of on to them. Do the girls like to be tied up, all positions, pics taken, rough or very pleasurable? It depends on the girl. See I try to get them to tell me what they are into and I try to make it happen. Of course this takes a few meetings. Most girls have a Preference to something. Some like it rough, some like passionate. I like it all. So I try to find one that fits each roll and keep her around. So if I give that girl what she's into. She will most likely want to hang out again.
One of the common issues for the girls I seem to click with. Are guys who think they are entitled. That's the biggest issues I hear. If you have money and you show you have money and you think money is the answer. And you just act like a dick. Yeah.. these girls will charge you up. Same with the girls who think they are entitled. They will ask for the most and only care about money and nothing else
Overtime the girls I seem to click with will do just about anything you want anyway. Maybe not in the first meeting. But You can feel which girls are just into money. You can feel which girls are into the sex. Because I am not wealthy. I only go with chicks that are into the meeting. So that's what works for me. I am not knocking what anybody else does.
I use this forum for information. For Techniques that keep me safe, for information about scammers, for pics sellers and other time wasters out in the game. It was not too long ago that a girl was meeting guys and grabbing their money and running out of the hotel. Another one who pulled a gun I believe. So there's good info here.
If people find my information useless. I don't need to post anything. I do post SBs. Profile Info to find them. If they are not a good match for me. They could be a good match for someone else.
I don't give out numbers. It's not hard to find them with their profile and contact them yourself.
For the fellas with insurance, just get tested at your nearest CVS and ask the woman to also provide clean testing.
No insurance? Hit up the AHF clinic in center city. I go here periodically and get a full screening. Thursdays are the best days.
After I have my results I always say to a potential sb "Hey, just for your peace of mind I am happy to share my clean tests". Especially when they counter for a higher amount than what I initially offered.
I also offer to cover the costs of birth control. Look into VCF strips too. Vaginal Contraceptives. It is the 21st century. Everything is treatable or preventable. Prep can prevent HIV.
If condoms are a must for you or her, invest in Skyn brand condoms. Extra lube. Thank me later.
P.S. Herpes can be spread via non sexual contact so even condoms won't 100% protect you. Skin to skin contact of any kind, sharing drinks, food, etc.A while ago I had posted about a friend of mine who I would share info with. He was on S. A and I was on SB. We would share info on the girls. When our credits and or subscription would expire we would switch sites. Over time we where seeing the same girls. Bare too. He Eventually he got trich. He said there were no symptoms but his wife did have symptoms. So that was a mess. I was freaking out and got tested I came back negative. He stop everything and I started all over and cut off everyone. The only thing that may have helped me, is a didn't in nut in them. I would take a piss and wash my dick.
I do get tested every so offten. First was a 10 or 12 panel test that I ordered on line. I think it was 129. Some half off special. That was not fun. Because they drew blood and missed my veins and had to use my other arm. I was all clean. But I had black and blue marks on both arm.
Another time my wife had something going on. So I just went to my doctor. Her test showed a uti. But my test showed up with Mycoplasma. Which I had zero signs of. Its the newest Std out there or maybe they never just never checked on that before. But From what I read everyone has it sometimes. It can be in your lungs. But over time your body should be able to clear it out. My doctor still put me on some kind of medication. I was retested aout 2 months later and everything was negative.
I have read that juices and supplements can help prevent diseases too. Like Ginger and Pomegranate juice can help. Vitamin D. And there are a few other supplements. I just try to be on top of things and be heathly.
If a girl is adamant about condoms. I will wear it. If the girl is sketchy. I will wear condoms. If the girl is sketchy but says she is clean. I will mostly wear a condom. If she has tests done herself and they are negative. Probably wont wear a condom. If I been seeing her for awhile, everything is bare. I understand she is probably banging a bunch of other guys bare too. I just say if you are seeing a bunch of randoms be please be careful or just dont bother seeing me.I just try to manage the risk the best I can for me.
Seems real but wants more than I am willing to offer. I guess she gets some big cash from some gents.
Her response:
Hey sorry you seem lovely but allowance is absolutely too low for me. Best of luck out there!
https://members.seeking.com/member/6cfa103a-314a-4210-972e-141da3ca5ab2
Seems real but wants more than I am willing to offer. I guess she gets some big cash from some gents.
Her response:
Hey sorry you seem lovely but allowance is absolutely too low for me. Best of luck out there!
https://members.seeking.com/member/6cfa103a-314a-4210-972e-141da3ca5ab2What was your offer?
It appears this lady made a new profile but still uses the same business model.
Her response:
Hi Jenny nice to meet you, I do charge 300 for the meet and greet hope that's okst.
NEXT.
https://members.seeking.com/member/6d4cbf83-3af7-43a7-b886-5398e015fd6e
It appears this lady made a new profile but still uses the same business model.
Her response:
Hi Jenny nice to meet you, I do charge 300 for the meet and greet hope that's okst.
NEXT.
https://members.seeking.com/member/6d4cbf83-3af7-43a7-b886-5398e015fd6eI reported her for sending me that. That's rinser BS and I do everything to make it harder for them.
https://members.seeking.com/member/cd4b63bb-8d7c-4eaa-895a-e3dc8274a4c9
Chatted with her a bit. Seems expensive but probably worth it. She's horny, turned on by this and ready to fuk.
This one is a scammer.
Her / His response:
Hey I have got so many text on here so I need to let you know that I want a full discreet arrangement.
I can't host or have arrangement close to me.
And I need to let you know that if I have to meet you going to handle my gas to get to you upfront.
https://members.seeking.com/member/6cde1165-697e-4aba-a995-59c6273a32a6
This one is a scammer.
Her / His response:
Hey I have got so many text on here so I need to let you know that I want a full discreet arrangement.
I can't host or have arrangement close to me.
And I need to let you know that if I have to meet you going to handle my gas to get to you upfront.
https://members.seeking.com/member/6cde1165-697e-4aba-a995-59c6273a32a6Want to make sure I'm understanding what she's saying.....If she's looking for money upfront for "gas" before the M&G then, yeah, I'd agree she's a scammer. But a true SD would be more than willing to Uber her to the M&G or provide funds to cover her transportation expense.
LovesToParty
07-04-24, 06:17
Want to make sure I'm understanding what she's saying.....If she's looking for money upfront for "gas" before the M&G then, yeah, I'd agree she's a scammer. But a true SD would be more than willing to Uber her to the M&G or provide funds to cover her transportation expense.The broken English / bad grammar is another tell tale sign of a scammer. Could be located anywhere.
The broken English / bad grammar is another tell tale sign of a scammer. Could be located anywhere.Almost all profiles with Asian pics are fakes. They'll have pics of a 20 year old girl but their age is listed as 37 LOL. And their profiles talk about some stupid shit they copied and pasted. Stuff like "The wind on the mountain is less expressive than the man who works hard" LOL.
https://members.seeking.com/member/d02bf9fc-b558-4e98-b951-d0b3170aa2b3
Seemed too good to be true with her requests / requirements. Turns out she is only really attracted to women and is mechanical with men.
https://members.seeking.com/member/d02bf9fc-b558-4e98-b951-d0b3170aa2b3
Seemed too good to be true with her requests / requirements. Turns out she is only really attracted to women and is mechanical with men."pansexual".
"homoromantic".
"feminist".
"sexist".
When they throw around all these labels, it's basically just asking for a headache.
UninhibitedFla
07-07-24, 17:57
I can attest that she is real. Teenage enthusiasm in the fit body of a forty-something. If you're just looking to throw your money around without time and substance she's not for you.
https://members.seeking.com/member/b7a5f0b0-abeb-4e38-813f-1b3f9f0771ba
A world class rinser. Wants a 500 meet and greet fee.
NEXT.
https://members.seeking.com/member/38a6b732-9e70-4b2e-a9f3-ecb452f8bbda
A world class rinser. Wants a 500 meet and greet fee.
NEXT.
https://members.seeking.com/member/38a6b732-9e70-4b2e-a9f3-ecb452f8bbdaI forgot I'd chatted with her for a few days. When I was finally able to nail her down it was 5-6 for the pleasure of feeding her.
This lady wants to sell online content. Nope.
Her Response:
I'm Jay, glad to be speaking with you! I've had previous arrangements and experiences before and I overall just looking for good chemistry and us having no pressure on us! Just want to have fun and see where things take us! Definitely want to hear more on what you're wanting as well. I'm out of town until the 15th, if you'd be interested we could do a little online fun? But if you are not let me know as well!
https://members.seeking.com/member/56a5abb0-7414-445e-8207-d941eae6f883
Another content seller. Next.
Her response:
I'll love to start with my FaceTime masturbation video live now for just little $.
We can get free porn on the internet hun.
https://members.seeking.com/member/f288741f-dc05-41b5-a9f5-50e64155b061
UsaBlinkGuy11
07-10-24, 12:18
A lot of them popping up.
Easy to spot them too.
- grainy pictures.
- usually only 3 pictures.
- age is like 35,37, 42.
- NO bio at all, just a blank profile. Or if they have a bio it looks like it was copy pasted from somewhere.
- recent join date, like literally joined the site today or yesterday.
You can see many of these profiles these days, didn't use to be like this.
I don't message them, obviously they are not real girls.
A lot of them popping up.
Easy to spot them too.
- grainy pictures.
- usually only 3 pictures.
- age is like 35,37, 42.
- NO bio at all, just a blank profile. Or if they have a bio it looks like it was copy pasted from somewhere.
- recent join date, like literally joined the site today or yesterday.
You can see many of these profiles these days, didn't use to be like this.
I don't message them, obviously they are not real girls.Thanks for the warnings and what to look for.
Yeah, Seeking is a mess these days. General confusion as to what is a Sugar Baby. Sugar Daddy RELATIONSHIP. Escorts looking for Johns, Johns looking for naive girls to pump & dump, OF and content sellers looking for subs, scammers looking for "money upfront" scams, etc, etc, etc. Oh and not to mention the few that buy the "marketing" on the requisite rebrand that Seeking is now "just" a dating site.
These days it pays to be selective, sort and screen. I guess there are guys who go with the position that they should message each and every profile that is out there, as it's a numbers game. But that sets one up to be hit up by the content sellers, rinsers and scammers. I guess if one has unlimited time, then that's AN approach. Also, one who does this probably is sending some "generic" cut & paste message to each and every girl out there, messages that are easy to detect and get ignored.
What works for me is this:
1. Setting my profile as private. Thus scammers can't see it and message first. BUT, anyone I approach can see the profile and respond.
2. Set limits on the distance I am willing to travel. After all unless one goes there on bidness, is one really going to drive 2-hours to DC regularly to meet with a girl?
3. State in the profile that you are unwilling to travel over XYZ time or distance.
4. Use the search function and the filters provided. I have certain physical criteria and other filters and set those up for saved searches in several age ranges. Why look at "everything" when certain things are a non-starter.
5. Be different than "most guys" and actually READ THE GIRL's PROFILE. I use that to decide if she's a good fit, sounds like she know what she's doing, etc. So many pretty faces that are as dumb as a doorknob or with an entitled attitude. NEXT!
6. Once someone crosses one of my pre set, personal boundaries, I block the profile and move on. Life is too short to try to convince girls to have a different view, etc. I don't waste any time arguing with them, nor cursing them out or trying to "get even" when they act badly. I Just move on.
7. I do a few "getting to know you" and "introduce myself" emails on Seeking and if things are positive, get offsite to my burner / app number ASAP. I try to avoid any discussion of P2 P, money, sugar or the other "code" words as to avoid getting profile banned by the BOTs.
8. Try to set up a Meet & Greet withing a week or 10-days of offsite chatting. M&G is a platonic, unpaid meeting to see if there is chemistry, evaluate limits and perhaps negotiate PPM. Any girl who insists on a paid M&G is an automatic NEXT! Not going to argue or try to convince someone as this is rinser behavior or entitled stuff a girl learned off of TicTok. Now that said, as a nice gesture, I do provide a "gift" at the end of the M&G for those I wish to continue with. (Usually on the order of 10-50% of agreed PPM.) I never tell them I am gifting and if she asks she doesn't get. I do offer to provide gas money or an Uber / transportation if she needs it.
9. Finally, and this is KEY: I frequently go to CostCo and buy the Jumbo box of patience to nip on while filtering, sorting, scanning profiles on Seeking.
It's a jungle out there! Have a plan and patience and there is a reward at the end!
This lady looks like one of my former SBs so I took a shot hoping to strike gold again. But Syd is out of my price range. Wants 3 k a month minimum. Oh well. I figured she'd be pricey. I need more gold to make her happy.
https://members.seeking.com/member/c45c0fd6-d00f-4303-bfad-6fb3b7d45c9c
This lady knows her worth.
Her Response:
Can you go higher future daddy? 😍 I have a business and time is literally money. I've learned this from the MVPs. No time for a serious relationship here.
No. I won't go higher. Next.
https://members.seeking.com/member/11f3a0a3-2c44-41b2-b7d3-241c478d162e
She's real. But, it was a challenge to try and schedule with this lady. Likely talking with multiple gents. Turns out she has a child at home. That's not going to work for me. Too many opportunities to have the scheduled meetings cancel due to child care issues. I'll pass.
https://members.seeking.com/member/dc2ec97c-d4e9-4548-8893-76a82338db91
Holy Sheite
07-12-24, 03:31
I have been in a Sugar relationship for over a year with the most amazing woman I have ever met! A true sex machine!! Friendly, beautiful and intelligent. The one we are all searching for. She is selective and has a very limited space for a new daddy that I have offered to help fill. Trust me, I am constantly looking and doing meet and greets and know the frustration of finding a great one out there. So. Here's the deal. I am looking for another such lovely baby that I can meet from a trusted source as well. So, if you have such a lovely to introduce me to, I will provide the necessary contact and reference for you to meet this amazing Sugar. Kind of an Amazing Sugar Swap. So. If this is you, PM me and we can swap info, contacts and pictures.
This is legitimate, and I look forward to providing my Sugar with a new Daddy (or two). Let's help each other. And please don't just write me asking for a hook up. This is only for those who have a similar amazing Sugar to share!
I was texting with this lady. She wanted to speak on the phone or do a video call. So I called her. (No video) She's Russian. Wants 600 ppm. Says she's beautiful. (Yeah, ok, I'll be the judge of that.).
She wanted a pic from me and said she'd send me one of her. She sent me the one from the site. (the one I uploaded) Wanted to meet at the hotel.
My conclusions are: 1. This lady is a pro. 2. She likely doesn't look like her pics. 3. Too expensive and she insisted on condoms. I'll pass.
https://members.seeking.com/member/84e2922c-ec69-424d-bf51-cca973a99b9d
I have been in a Sugar relationship for over a year with the most amazing woman I have ever met! A true sex machine!! Friendly, beautiful and intelligent. The one we are all searching for. She is selective and has a very limited space for a new daddy that I have offered to help fill. Trust me, I am constantly looking and doing meet and greets and know the frustration of finding a great one out there. So. Here's the deal. I am looking for another such lovely baby that I can meet from a trusted source as well. So, if you have such a lovely to introduce me to, I will provide the necessary contact and reference for you to meet this amazing Sugar. Kind of an Amazing Sugar Swap. So. If this is you, PM me and we can swap info, contacts and pictures.
This is legitimate, and I look forward to providing my Sugar with a new Daddy (or two). Let's help each other. And please don't just write me asking for a hook up. This is only for those who have a similar amazing Sugar to share!Many I ask for some details? Age? Height? Weight? Hair color? Endowment? Single / SO? Education? Price Range?
What part of the Philly Area is she located?
Holy Sheite
07-13-24, 00:24
Many I ask for some details? Age? Height? Weight? Hair color? Endowment? Single / SO? Education? Price Range?
What part of the Philly Area is she located?My preference is to not publish this info. Will share via private message if you contact me.
Holy Sheite
07-13-24, 06:18
Many I ask for some details? Age? Height? Weight? Hair color? Endowment? Single / SO? Education? Price Range?
What part of the Philly Area is she located?She is AA, mid 40's. 5'4" 110. Petite, athletic build. Black hair. She is well educated (advanced degree). With a professional career. She is a single mom with kids.
She is located in the Center City area, but meets at convenient places.
She is AA, mid 40's. 5'4" 110. Petite, athletic build. Black hair. She is well educated (advanced degree). With a professional career. She is a single mom with kids.
She is located in the Center City area, but meets at convenient places.Wow my guy, this is the woman you were hyping up so much? Mid 40's? WITH KIDS? Sheez. No wonder you're trying to trade her off.
https://members.seeking.com/member/9b2ac4d3-0e8d-46c2-b73a-7e9d4533cf88
This girl was on here before as Jelliebean or something further back in the reports. She's exhausting. The usual "I'm NoT a HoOkEr" nonsense like she's not there for money. Claims she wouldn't do sex for cash no matter how bad her financial state was. Sure. Said she had a medical issue she needed to take care of and all the while kept giving me maybe I'll meet tomorrow this that and the other thing, completely wishy-washy, even saying maybe the site isn't for her anymore. All this just for a meet and greet for lunch before even getting intimate. Doesn't want to share her number either, and since she was stalling without at least moving off the website, I said "Guess you wouldn't want to share your number either?" the well was soured not too long after since she kept saying all I wanted was to just talk about the arrangement. Like no shlt lady, that's the whole point of the site. Wants to have her emotional cake and eat it too. Was a breast cancer survivor too according to her so probably had masectomies and she said her hair wasn't real. Wow, what a catch. Whined about how I didn't say anything about her being a breast cancer survivor when I specifically shared how my mom had malignant tumors and had to have a hysterectomy, so I'm glad they both came out of their ordeals. The selective memory was strong with her so I knew I was going to get nowhere and blocked.
https://members.seeking.com/member/752f9d2c-bc84-4cbc-9376-a5a51bbba57e
Can someone point to another review of her? I think I saw something before just need a link. She's a rinser though. Wants money for meeting for drinks.
Holy Sheite
07-14-24, 17:11
Wow my guy, this is the woman you were hyping up so much? Mid 40's? WITH KIDS? Sheez. No wonder you're trying to trade her off.
https://members.seeking.com/member/9b2ac4d3-0e8d-46c2-b73a-7e9d4533cf88
This girl was on here before as Jelliebean or something further back in the reports. She's exhausting. The usual "I'm NoT a HoOkEr" nonsense like she's not there for money. Claims she wouldn't do sex for cash no matter how bad her financial state was. Sure. Said she had a medical issue she needed to take care of and all the while kept giving me maybe I'll meet tomorrow this that and the other thing, completely wishy-washy, even saying maybe the site isn't for her anymore. All this just for a meet and greet for lunch before even getting intimate. Doesn't want to share her number either, and since she was stalling without at least moving off the website, I said "Guess you wouldn't want to share your number either?" the well was soured not too long after since she kept saying all I wanted was to just talk about the arrangement. Like no shlt lady, that's the whole point of the site. Wants to have her emotional cake and eat it too. Was a breast cancer survivor too according to her so probably had masectomies and she said her hair wasn't real. Wow, what a catch. Whined about how I didn't say anything about her being a breast cancer survivor when I specifically shared how my mom had malignant tumors and had to have a hysterectomy, so I'm glad they both came out of their ordeals. The selective memory was strong with her so I knew I was going to get nowhere and blocked.
https://members.seeking.com/member/752f9d2c-bc84-4cbc-9376-a5a51bbba57e
Can someone point to another review of her? I think I saw something before just need a link. She's a rinser though. Wants money for meeting for drinks.See. You assume too much. First off, if I showed you a picture you could never guess her age. Second, best sex is still best sex. I am in it for the enjoyment. Not the statistics. Third. She is more experienced than most young bimbos. She can teach you all kinds of new tricks. And new kinks. So keep on missing out. I have no intention of passing on her. Just looking for new adventures.
If anyone is interested and not biased. Contact me. If not. Your loss, not mine.
https://members.seeking.com/member/752f9d2c-bc84-4cbc-9376-a5a51bbba57e
She is not in Philly, like far away in Doylestown and doesn't drive- right now that would be $60 one way. Told me in a passive aggressive way that men are happy to Uber her back and forth. I don't know if she hosts. I think she has gps too, and wanted 7 x $ or something ridiculous for a platonic first meet over dinner. I was thinking 3 tops for the whole shebang at the time and am pretty sure I just laughed at her.
https://members.seeking.com/member/39fcb711-ce4c-49e6-a935-a0fec561adb0
I generally take it as a red flag when a girl from seeking calls me "dear" or "luv" etc. This girl does that and when we we chatting details she requested 5 and then gave time frames for services. She used the phrase "I don't clock watch" to me that's some STG bullshit and is a step closer to want I want to avoid- ie some chick that's on seeking to keep a heavy drug habit going.
https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/363048e3-f8f7-4010-aca5-6c32aa9012df She's horny and turned on by this. But she has a big belly. Hard pass.
https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/a31bdcb6-5ee2-46a3-b1ba-d1692488ccee Thinks she's a lot hotter than she is. Think she wanted to switch to Signal or Kik or something. Lost interest.
First off, if I showed you a picture you could never guess her age.Maybe not guess what it is but I sure as hell would be able to tell what it ISN'T: young.
Second, best sex is still best sex. I am in it for the enjoyment.That's cool and everyone enjoys different things. I don't enjoy a woman who is essentially a decade older than me.
Third. She is more experienced than most young bimbos.So in other words, she's used up more? That sure tastes like a very sour grape.
She can teach you all kinds of new tricks. And new kinks.That's very doubtful on the former, and for the latter, I'm happy with the kinks I have, thanks.
So keep on missing out.I'll have to take your word on that.
https://members.seeking.com/member/752f9d2c-bc84-4cbc-9376-a5a51bbba57e
She is not in Philly, like far away in Doylestown and doesn't drive- right now that would be $60 one way. Told me in a passive aggressive way that men are happy to Uber her back and forth. I don't know if she hosts. I think she has gps too, and wanted 7 x $ or something ridiculous for a platonic first meet over dinner. I was thinking 3 tops for the whole shebang at the time and am pretty sure I just laughed at her.It's worse than that. I KNOW there's been reports about her here before, I just didn't remember how insanely ridiculous they are. Below you can see just how much worse. God, I hate how they don't have to pay anything which means they don't have their time / money wasted. Else she'd never be on the site with how insane she is with her pipe-dream amounts. Actually used the words "buy me a house" Good lord, how I wish she could have her seeking page plastered all over her personal social media. That I would pay 5 benis for.
https://members.seeking.com/member/39fcb711-ce4c-49e6-a935-a0fec561adb0
I generally take it as a red flag when a girl from seeking calls me "dear" or "luv" etc. This girl does that and when we we chatting details she requested 5 and then gave time frames for services. She used the phrase "I don't clock watch" to me that's some STG bullshit and is a step closer to want I want to avoid- ie some chick that's on seeking to keep a heavy drug habit going.
https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/363048e3-f8f7-4010-aca5-6c32aa9012df She's horny and turned on by this. But she has a big belly. Hard pass.
https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/a31bdcb6-5ee2-46a3-b1ba-d1692488ccee Thinks she's a lot hotter than she is. Think she wanted to switch to Signal or Kik or something. Lost interest.Here's the chubby one https://members.seeking.com/member/85040d02-1453-4e83-b58e-9965b6f64fbf.
Here's the average looking one https://members.seeking.com/member/cce6131e-d65c-4866-835d-6363d21282b2.
Mythbuster
07-15-24, 23:18
https://members.seeking.com/member/752f9d2c-bc84-4cbc-9376-a5a51bbba57e
She is not in Philly, like far away in Doylestown and doesn't drive- right now that would be $60 one way. Told me in a passive aggressive way that men are happy to Uber her back and forth. I don't know if she hosts. I think she has gps too, and wanted 7 x $ or something ridiculous for a platonic first meet over dinner. I was thinking 3 tops for the whole shebang at the time and am pretty sure I just laughed at her.Other have said it already but she is out of touch with pricing and I do venture into higher pay ranges occasionally. I think I was offered the possibility of a $$ massage! She seems real but there is a lot of overhead. You need to transport her and it can't be too close to home. She does say that other guys pay for whatever she actually offers but who knows. Just skip the aggravation!
Mythbuster
07-15-24, 23:27
Wow my guy, this is the woman you were hyping up so much? Mid 40's? WITH KIDS? Sheez. No wonder you're trying to trade her off.
https://members.seeking.com/member/9b2ac4d3-0e8d-46c2-b73a-7e9d4533cf88
This girl was on here before as Jelliebean or something further back in the reports. She's exhausting. The usual "I'm NoT a HoOkEr" nonsense like she's not there for money. Claims she wouldn't do sex for cash no matter how bad her financial state was. Sure. Said she had a medical issue she needed to take care of and all the while kept giving me maybe I'll meet tomorrow this that and the other thing, completely wishy-washy, even saying maybe the site isn't for her anymore. All this just for a meet and greet for lunch before even getting intimate. Doesn't want to share her number either, and since she was stalling without at least moving off the website, I said "Guess you wouldn't want to share your number either?" the well was soured not too long after since she kept saying all I wanted was to just talk about the arrangement. Like no shlt lady, that's the whole point of the site. Wants to have her emotional cake and eat it too. Was a breast cancer survivor too according to her so probably had mastectomies and she said her hair wasn't real. Wow, what a catch. Whined about how I didn't say anything about her being a breast cancer survivor when I specifically shared how my mom had malignant tumors and had to have a hysterectomy, so I'm glad they both came out of their ordeals. The selective memory was strong with her so I knew I was going to get nowhere and blocked..This one is a serial antagonizer! Her goal is to get you to block her. These are different pictures than I saw except for the 1st one. This person is playing a game but obviously have access to a lot of pictures of this woman. I know this because I have approached her with multiple accounts and it's the same pattern aggressive and confrontational. She (or he) will eventually block you if they can't have any more fun. Do not give them any information because they may be using it to harm you.
https://members.seeking.com/member/6383f52d-ec67-484a-8f26-597ce54b3a14
Anyone ever meet or talk to Blossom?
Always cancels. On me anyway. Any luck?
https://members.seeking.com/member/cd77c1c3-f8a0-4c38-8f1a-60137b18f567
https://members.seeking.com/member/6383f52d-ec67-484a-8f26-597ce54b3a14
Anyone ever meet or talk to Blossom?Can't remember exactly what it was. She had a pro vibe though. Think she lives in North Philly but isn't going to school. Usually a red flag for me.
Always cancels. On me anyway. Any luck?
https://members.seeking.com/member/cd77c1c3-f8a0-4c38-8f1a-60137b18f567Same here. Tried a few times and would get replies but she would then never follow through.
Would be curious too whether anyone actually got to meet.
AC.
Always cancels. On me anyway. Any luck?
https://members.seeking.com/member/cd77c1c3-f8a0-4c38-8f1a-60137b18f567I have met her about a year ago, for M&G. Which I did offer some gas moolah because she kept cancelling on me. When we did meet she seemed chill and seemed interested. I did offer her 3 benz but she stated that she had TOM. I had contacted her again and she would just cancel again. But she would text me back stating how sorry she is.
I am very straight up person. I told her I could do 4 benz but that would be my max and I would probably only meet once or twice a month if we clicked. She would just say try again on this day and that she was very interested.
She is older than her pics and what she states. Probably more like 25 and up. Still looks attractive to me. Thin blonde. She did say she went to school for dentistry. At that time she was on SB and seeking and on alot. I am no longer on any sites. But she seems like a rinser or looking for a whale. Anyway I gave up. I usually wait some and try again. I tried about 2 times and each time she would cone up with an excuse. Also if someone is not interested I move on. There needs to be some chemistry to work right and if the other person is like luke warm or canceling I just move on. It could have been the money too. But I have my limits and after 3 benz. Its just too much for me anyway. I do like to repeat if there's good vibes.
Anyone else had an experience with her?
UsaBlinkGuy11
07-18-24, 13:41
https://members.seeking.com/member/6383f52d-ec67-484a-8f26-597ce54b3a14
Anyone ever meet or talk to Blossom?I'm interested in meeting her.
She doesn't respond to messages though.
Always cancels. On me anyway. Any luck?
https://members.seeking.com/member/cd77c1c3-f8a0-4c38-8f1a-60137b18f567Same situation for me too.
Responds to messages, some conversation.
But ultimately never finalizing to an intimate encounter.
WaltoDerri267
07-18-24, 22:06
https://members.seeking.com/member/6383f52d-ec67-484a-8f26-597ce54b3a14
Anyone ever meet or talk to Blossom?Spoke to her once about a year ago, she said she was interested but then never followed up with me. Time waster.
WaltoDerri267
07-18-24, 22:23
It appears this lady made a new profile but still uses the same business model.
Her response:
Hi Jenny nice to meet you, I do charge 300 for the meet and greet hope that's okst.
NEXT.
https://members.seeking.com/member/6d4cbf83-3af7-43a7-b886-5398e015fd6eAbsolute time waster, I posted about her before. She refuses to get intimate except for another 500 on top of the meet and greet lmao.
WaltoDerri267
07-19-24, 18:44
Man I don't know where the fuck these bozo ass bitches are getting these ridiculous numbers from. Wants 800, rubbers, even with proof of clean tests. Why the fuck are clean tests not enough anymore? Are they that scientifically ignorant? Rhetorical. I know theyre fucking stupid. Avoid fellas.
https://members.seeking.com/member/e7048e9c-11d9-4ce9-b7b5-015572579bed
Man I don't know where the fuck these bozo ass bitches are getting these ridiculous numbers from. Wants 800, rubbers, even with proof of clean tests. Why the fuck are clean tests not enough anymore? Are they that scientifically ignorant? Rhetorical. I know theyre fucking stupid. Avoid fellas.
https://members.seeking.com/member/e7048e9c-11d9-4ce9-b7b5-015572579bedActually seems like what we are seeing is an influx of women that took the bait of TicTok influencers. There's girls on TT telling these young women that they can get 5-figure allowances, apartments, cars, etc from Sugar Daddiies and don't have to sleep with them. Others tell the girls to "know your worth" and encourage girls to ask for rates that would top most Tryst / Eros girls.
Or maybe its Instagram or other SM that pump unrealistic expectations into these girls heads. Sadly, after a few weeks or months "in the Bowl" many of these girls give up. Unfortunately there isn't a SD for every want to be SB. It's competitive and only the Model quality girls find the few 1% dudes willing to pay the exorbitant levels.
But I get where these girls are coming from with the STD stuff. Since their "culture" is likely hook-up culture they see sex through the lens of easy hook-ups, whereas SDs might have a family or a job that keeps them busy enough they don't have time or the inclination to hook up all the time. So girls think dudes are as promiscuous as the likely are, and that means for them, condom usage is protective.
I had a SB once that had STIs a couple of times, even though I tested clean, so she was hooking up with a FB and likely others. She actually said to me, oh well, getting an STI is just a risk of dating.
It's an interesting world out there!
Man I don't know where the fuck these bozo ass bitches are getting these ridiculous numbers from. Wants 800, rubbers, even with proof of clean tests. Why the fuck are clean tests not enough anymore? Are they that scientifically ignorant? Rhetorical. I know theyre fucking stupid. Avoid fellas.
https://members.seeking.com/member/e7048e9c-11d9-4ce9-b7b5-015572579bedKinda like this one. Wants 700 but was probably cool with 600. Wasn't sure if she was going to do with condoms or not. Either way, I got the feeling she had a bit of GPS but at least she wasn't acting rude or conceited. Ultimately I passed on her, have some more comfortable prospects. Pictures below are just of her.
https://members.seeking.com/member/320f63cf-8c62-4db7-b00a-4d29a077002e
This one is surprisingly cool and personable. With all the tats and the looks I figured she'd act like another egotistical ho but she is cool to negotiate, (started semi-high but not at an unreasonable amount). I'm clean as well but she didn't want to budge on condoms. But for those who are ok with protection, she definitely is kinder and more likeable than most of the bimbo wh0 res asking for your arm and leg and she also doesn't text or talk like a tiktoker /5 year old.
Spoke to her once about a year ago, she said she was interested but then never followed up with me. Time waster.Yup. She kept pushing the time back. From what was going to be 12 to 1 then 4:00. I took a pass at that point.
UsaBlinkGuy11
07-23-24, 13:32
Many girls on SA looking for short term only.
Usually they will be excited to meet you for about 1 week starting from first messaging with you.
It goes like this:
You message them, they respond, they are excited to continue, and they plan a meet with you.
You meet them, obviously they want PPM. That's fine, you two meet and hook up.
A majority of them will then ghost / flake at this point.
Very few girls on the site will stay with a consistent thing that continues each week or every 2 weeks, at least this has been my observation. Very few long term thinkers on the site.
For those that are looking for one off hook ups, this is great. You can run your lay count up, doing these 1 time deals. The girls are okay with this too. They have no problems fucking you and never seeing you again after that. They are just in a certain mood and you happen to be messaging them at the right time.
So if you want to fuck them, you can. You just have a limited amount of time to do it before that window closes and they've moved on from the mood that they are in.
Just something to keep in mind, there are a lot of girls on seeking right now that operate this way.
I prefer long term encounters so that's what I aim for. I'm aware a lot of these girls are just in a moment though and are only interested for a maximum of 1 week. These 1 week type of relationships though are not too appealing to me.
You message them, they respond, they are excited to continue, and they plan a meet with you.Man you're lucky if they even do -that. - This one always acts like she wants something special and no matter how nice you are she just makes up reasons why she can't meet.
https://members.seeking.com/member/f1dcb8dc-a046-4665-afcc-0d301d52197e
WaltoDerri267
07-23-24, 22:01
Anyone seen this girl and can vouch for her? Or is she talking to you currently? Seems too good to be true.
WaltoDerri267
07-23-24, 22:07
Many girls on SA looking for short term only.
Usually they will be excited to meet you for about 1 week starting from first messaging with you.
It goes like this:
You message them, they respond, they are excited to continue, and they plan a meet with you.
You meet them, obviously they want PPM. That's fine, you two meet and hook up.
A majority of them will then ghost / flake at this point.
Very few girls on the site will stay with a consistent thing that continues each week or every 2 weeks, at least this has been my observation. Very few long term thinkers on the site.
For those that are looking for one off hook ups, this is great. You can run your lay count up, doing these 1 time deals. The girls are okay with this too. They have no problems fucking you and never seeing you again after that. They are just in a certain mood and you happen to be messaging them at the right time.
So if you want to fuck them, you can. You just have a limited amount of time to do it before that window closes and they've moved on from the mood that they are in.
Just something to keep in mind, there are a lot of girls on seeking right now that operate this way.
I prefer long term encounters so that's what I aim for. I'm aware a lot of these girls are just in a moment though and are only interested for a maximum of 1 week. These 1 week type of relationships though are not too appealing to me.It's sad to see. I met tons of girls like this who I actually wanted to continue seeing. One day they just stop responding. Others who wanted to keep seeing me, were unfortunately not what I was looking for. Too many demands, mental health problems, drama, etc. I appreciate the ones who just get to the point and get right to fucking for those nights you just want to scratch the itch.
Man you're lucky if they even do -that. - This one always acts like she wants something special and no matter how nice you are she just makes up reasons why she can't meet.
https://members.seeking.com/member/f1dcb8dc-a046-4665-afcc-0d301d52197eI had the same experience with her.
UsaBlinkGuy11
07-25-24, 20:37
Man you're lucky if they even do -that. - This one always acts like she wants something special and no matter how nice you are she just makes up reasons why she can't meet.
https://members.seeking.com/member/f1dcb8dc-a046-4665-afcc-0d301d52197eIt is tough, long term is very hard to get. Very very hard.
Communication is there on day 1, but that's all you get, just that day.
The next day, communication falls off a cliff. Terrible response times, girl is basically 20% there mentally, you can be texting her, but she is not actually "there". And this will be obvious due to the response times you get. Very delayed.
This is about 95% of cases, in my experience.
Very very tough game to get long term.
Short term is a bit easier, meeting them the same night to fuck is ideal. However, if you do this, you will never see the girl again. She's going to ghost.
So pick which path you want to go down.
UninhibitedFla
07-28-24, 20:09
It is tough, long term is very hard to get. Very very hard.
Communication is there on day 1, but that's all you get, just that day.
The next day, communication falls off a cliff. Terrible response times, girl is basically 20% there mentally, you can be texting her, but she is not actually "there". And this will be obvious due to the response times you get. Very delayed.
This is about 95% of cases, in my experience.
Very very tough game to get long term.
Short term is a bit easier, meeting them the same night to fuck is ideal. However, if you do this, you will never see the girl again. She's going to ghost.
So pick which path you want to go down.My long term experiences have been quite difference from those expressed here. Almost every baby I've met has reached back out to me numerous times to hookup again regardless of whether or not I have had the same interest. PPM is never $300.
My long term experiences have been quite difference from those expressed here. Almost every baby I've met has reached back out to me numerous times to hookup again regardless of whether or not I have had the same interest. PPM is never $300.I have had about 80%-90% interest from SBs to meet up again. Being committed to actual communication is key and also staying attractive to the SB on multiple levels. I don't treat a SB like a sex worker- I manage to keep things non transactional and I come from a place of helping them as they need.
Communication involves listening and meeting these young ladies where their at. Being honest about who I am is important too. I've learned to communicate in the language they use with the sensibilities they generally have. I am big on consent throughout the entirety of our time together,. Even if we're naked and doing other stuff I still ask if it's OK to fuq her before I do, giving her that last opportunity to choose is HUGE for them. And it also almost always improves the time I have. Also being respectful about their boundaries goes a long way. Simply put, if a hot 22-27 year old girl feels safe and heard she is more likely to unleash her slutty side and give me more. And if she has second thoughts, even during the act, it's ok for her to stop.
Also I stick to 3 x $ to 4 x $ for them and check back in if they're satisfied with it, I don't try to get the lowest p p m possible. But that's just me, you do you. If a girl tells me they require 5-7 I'll tell them I only go to 4 and I don't hate on them unless they become demeaning. Often, based on what else I bring, they will be cool with 4. I'm pretty normal, single and stay in shape. I'm not asking to come to their place, which is a huge risk for a woman with a strange man. I'm also blunt about the sex, in a non creepy way. We're adults and know that sex is a big part of SD / SB (but not everything). And being up front, obviously weeds out the rinsers.
My biggest issue is "NEXT" With so many to choose from, even with the crazy amount of AI fakes on there (I stay away from almost all "Asian" profiles these days, unless I've seen them for a long time). For now I've settled on an amazing hot younger girl that sweet as pie and fucking hot.
I had the same experience with her.Stopped pretending she was interested with her "my phone is off" story so I called her out and called her a flake. And of course, the sour grapes of "I was having doubts but now I know I made the right decision" reply. Sure honey.
Same rinser scam that comes back every year with a new profile. Word for word the same reply as last year.
Hi, I wouldn't have a problem with that type of arrangement but I should warn you; you might not like how I do things when it comes to the first meeting.
NEXT.
https://members.seeking.com/member/de1466c4-ab66-4a0d-8adc-f84cbbf2b853
Same rinser scam that comes back every year with a new profile. Word for word the same reply as last year.
Hi, I wouldn't have a problem with that type of arrangement but I should warn you; you might not like how I do things when it comes to the first meeting.
NEXT.
https://members.seeking.com/member/de1466c4-ab66-4a0d-8adc-f84cbbf2b853This was a new ploy to keep interest. Scammers getting creative. I appreciate the entrepreneurial effort. However, I doubt some fool sent her money and he's taking her to Zahav.
Was texting with this lady and she asks the question, " so what do your arrangement's look like? Would you mind describing them to me?" This type of question is usually an indication the lady is actually looking for something specific. Likely a platonic arrangement. Or I'm just not attractive enough to her for her to be intimate. So I told her, my arrangements are not platonic. They are adult relationships. She went dark.
Best of luck gents.
https://members.seeking.com/member/d7456002-d3a7-46fd-a316-dafb8460c552
This one is my bad. She's real. She's damn pretty. Her eyes are amazing. Hypnotizing even. So much so, that I didn't do my usual vetting. She was lovely and pleasant at the meet and greet. But those eyes. Wow. She's a good person. A bit thicker than the pics but still well proportioned.
Once we moved to a more private setting. We are not compatible in the bedroom at all. I won't visit her again. Not worth it to me. Best of luck gents.
https://members.seeking.com/member/509a7b66-e3ad-4d8d-90fe-3251607e02ef
This one is my bad. She's real. She's damn pretty. Her eyes are amazing. Hypnotizing even. So much so, that I didn't do my usual vetting. She was lovely and pleasant at the meet and greet. But those eyes. Wow. She's a good person. A bit thicker than the pics but still well proportioned.
Once we moved to a more private setting. We are not compatible in the bedroom at all. I won't visit her again. Not worth it to me. Best of luck gents.
https://members.seeking.com/member/509a7b66-e3ad-4d8d-90fe-3251607e02efROFL!! Refused to do it without a condom, didn't she?
https://members.seeking.com/member/de1466c4-ab66-4a0d-8adc-f84cbbf2b853
Like reported below, fake scammer. Tried to pass me off some pics when I asked for a verification pic.
https://members.seeking.com/member/8d7df9e0-d0ae-4fff-bb46-32df6f45e872
This one has a similar MO to one from some months ago. Sends pics right away to fool you. I figured they were of a porn or cam girl. Asked to send verification pic but doesn't send the actual pose, tries to pass off some other pose. When I tell them to send the right pose, they get angry and defensive. Even though "she" just tried to send the supposed selfie for verification I asked. At that point I just let "her" prove me right some more by getting madder and cursing more at me.
I blocked the one in the pics below so I can't link it but she's ridiculous. Full of herself and basically acts like she's a hot little 20-something wanting a rich dude to take care of her.
Was texting with this lady and she asks the question, " so what do your arrangement's look like? Would you mind describing them to me?" This type of question is usually an indication the lady is actually looking for something specific. Likely a platonic arrangement. Or I'm just not attractive enough to her for her to be intimate. So I told her, my arrangements are not platonic. They are adult relationships. She went dark.
Best of luck gents.
https://members.seeking.com/member/d7456002-d3a7-46fd-a316-dafb8460c552She's cute as alllll hell tho. Timid personality but opens up when she's comfortable with you. However, you hit the nail right on the head. 100% Platonic smh.
Mythbuster
08-01-24, 22:35
Was texting with this lady and she asks the question, " so what do your arrangement's look like? Would you mind describing them to me?" This type of question is usually an indication the lady is actually looking for something specific. Likely a platonic arrangement. Or I'm just not attractive enough to her for her to be intimate. So I told her, my arrangements are not platonic. They are adult relationships. She went dark.
Best of luck gents.
https://members.seeking.com/member/d7456002-d3a7-46fd-a316-dafb8460c552I have messaged her off line and actually almost met her. This is probably at least her 4th account on Seeking. The best that I can tell is that maybe she attended Temple you at some point and has been very slow at matriculating. Maybe she's 23 maybe she's 28. Anyway, I'm pretty sure she'll do the deed but even according to her, she's pretty vanilla when it comes to sex. She will also want a gift for the M&G. I think the lowest that I could negotiate was $. At 1st she would accept a $$ ppm but I think the last quote she gave me added $$ to the original. She just seemed too much about the money and too little about offering an experience for me!
Thought she looked appealing. We started texting. I thought with her pics,(that look like Florida to me) not having any recognizable Philly landmarks or locations. Also, the area code of the phone number she is using is Tampa.
So I asked her, "When will you actually be in Philly?" She confided she's in Tampa now. Then went dark. Likely a scammer or a chick looking for long distance sugar. Either way, I'm out.
https://members.seeking.com/member/81346cd8-ade1-474f-bbdf-f051d7eb6810
UsaBlinkGuy11
08-02-24, 19:36
She just seemed too much about the money and too little about offering an experience for me!A lot of them are like that in the philly area.
I screen those ones out and everyone here should too.
Thought she looked appealing. We started texting. I thought with her pics,(that look like Florida to me) not having any recognizable Philly landmarks or locations. Also, the area code of the phone number she is using is Tampa.
So I asked her, "When will you actually be in Philly?" She confided she's in Tampa now. Then went dark. Likely a scammer or a chick looking for long distance sugar. Either way, I'm out.
https://members.seeking.com/member/81346cd8-ade1-474f-bbdf-f051d7eb6810That isn't Tampa either. We don't have hills like that.
PhillyJawn
08-03-24, 23:49
This one is my bad. She's real. She's damn pretty. Her eyes are amazing. Hypnotizing even. So much so, that I didn't do my usual vetting. She was lovely and pleasant at the meet and greet. But those eyes. Wow. She's a good person. A bit thicker than the pics but still well proportioned.Once we moved to a more private setting. We are not compatible in the bedroom at all. I won't visit her again. Not worth it to me. Best of luck gents.
https://members.seeking.com/member/509a7b66-e3ad-4d8d-90fe-3251607e02efCurious what the issues were? I've known her for a bit but haven't dove in. Definitely a booze problem. Welcome to PM as well.
UsaBlinkGuy11
08-04-24, 10:47
Curious what the issues were? I've known her for a bit but haven't dove in. Definitely a booze problem. Welcome to PM as well.Issue probably was she doesn't understand that she is being paid to provide an experience.
Very common problem that a lot of girls have on the site.
WaltoDerri267
08-05-24, 07:43
Anyone seen this girl and can vouch for her? Or is she talking to you currently? Seems too good to be true.This post is for anyone in the Philly / Jersey area. This girl just wasted 2 weeks of my life LOL daily good morning texts stopped 2 days before we were supposed to meet. Attitude completely changed up because I didn't immediately send money before meeting and she came up with some emergency but still said willing to meet. A buddy of mine happened to message her and she said she was busy getting drinks with her girls at 8 pm on a Wednesday. When confronted she just brags that men always send her money without meeting. She would stop talking to me around 7 pm daily because "she's tired from work" . When she is just out partying on some poor sucker's dime. Report and block her for being a professional rinser. She is GOOD at psychological manipulation and her bio is bullshit. Don't know if she actually meets up for play.
https://members.seeking.com/member/d96f97c5-2d65-4bcc-9fdc-b2aa4fe5cd3e
I pushed back one hour for dinner and she ghosted, when I pressed she lost her shit on me saying I wasted her time, fucked up her schedule by "canceling" bla bla bla. I did not cancel. A work thing came up but I actually managed to fix it to stay on time. She doubled down on being irrationally upset. It seems she is either impulsive, insane, or both. Sounded more like she was looking for a reason to just shift the blame to me to end whatever the f this was.
She also logged on daily and changes her location frequently and added "I respond quicker to wishlist" during our time talking and her insisting she "wants something real" LOL. Uses imessage email to not reveal her number and apparently too lazy to just use a texting app.
She just wants free shit. Spoiled brat with daddy issues. Good luck gents report back if you meet her.
WaltoDerri267
08-05-24, 07:47
I have messaged her off line and actually almost met her. This is probably at least her 4th account on Seeking. The best that I can tell is that maybe she attended Temple you at some point and has been very slow at matriculating. Maybe she's 23 maybe she's 28. Anyway, I'm pretty sure she'll do the deed but even according to her, she's pretty vanilla when it comes to sex. She will also want a gift for the M&G. I think the lowest that I could negotiate was $. At 1st she would accept a $$ ppm but I think the last quote she gave me added $$ to the original. She just seemed too much about the money and too little about offering an experience for me!I actually knew this girl when I went to Temple. I was on my way out when she was a freshmen. She paid me no mind then but I did manage to actually meet up for a date just for the thrill of fucking someone I knew irl. She apparently is a ditz and did not remember me, or did and did not say anything to make it not awkward. She really is more about the money and according to a buddy she matched with she jacked up her price. She wanted 6 bens from me.
Edit: Note to mods, I am not using her real name despite having known her irl.
WaltoDerri267
08-05-24, 07:56
Was texting with this lady and she asks the question, " so what do your arrangement's look like? Would you mind describing them to me?" This type of question is usually an indication the lady is actually looking for something specific. Likely a platonic arrangement. Or I'm just not attractive enough to her for her to be intimate. So I told her, my arrangements are not platonic. They are adult relationships. She went dark.
Best of luck gents.
https://members.seeking.com/member/d7456002-d3a7-46fd-a316-dafb8460c552Fellas I can vouch she is real and DTF. Has gone by many names on seeking. I met her last winter and she hit me up again this year apparently not remembering me. I am using new pictures but still LOL. Sex was good, Head game is decent, body is great. But she's boring. Just lays there. Yaps a lot if you can get her talking. Complains no one is consistent. She demanded 6 benjamins that she demands in the bedroom before starting and counts it in front of you. Made me make her take her to dinner. Has the classic pretentious attitude of "I'm not a hooker I'm a sugar baby" even though she's not fucking for free LOL. Hence her attitude of defining what an arrangement is because she doesn't like "just sex". Whatever helps her sleep at night I guess. Apparently now she asks for 7 benjamins and 2 just to show up for dinner.
I was actually willing to see her again but her worst offense was asking me to buy her a birthday dress (couldn't use what I just gave her apparently) and she would send me pictures. Naturally I assume she means nudes and she does too and this conniving ***** sends regular selfies after I send her 1 benjamin. The same ones she posts on her IG for free. Like I said in an earlier post I know her irl and she apparently didn't remember me. She recently tried to add me on social media but I refuse to be blackmailed by someone like this so I denied her. She is hot in person, great tits, but not worth the headache.
Unless you want to check fucking a hot indian girl off your bucket list, I recommend search for better value because this one has GPS.
PhillYogynist
08-05-24, 08:54
Wasn't one read through of her profile enough to make you move on? Lots of red flags in it to me. Long verbose "about me"; comes out and sates that she gets crazy when frustrated or angry, full of copy and pasted text about how she's sophisticated, blah, blah, blah. I wouldn't have even bothered sending a message.
This post is for anyone in the Philly / Jersey area. This girl just wasted 2 weeks of my life LOL daily good morning texts stopped 2 days before we were supposed to meet. Attitude completely changed up because I didn't immediately send money before meeting and she came up with some emergency but still said willing to meet. A buddy of mine happened to message her and she said she was busy getting drinks with her girls at 8 pm on a Wednesday. When confronted she just brags that men always send her money without meeting. She would stop talking to me around 7 pm daily because "she's tired from work" . When she is just out partying on some poor sucker's dime. Report and block her for being a professional rinser. She is GOOD at psychological manipulation and her bio is bullshit. Don't know if she actually meets up for play.
https://members.seeking.com/member/d96f97c5-2d65-4bcc-9fdc-b2aa4fe5cd3e
I pushed back one hour for dinner and she ghosted, when I pressed she lost her shit on me saying I wasted her time, fucked up her schedule by "canceling" bla bla bla. I did not cancel. A work thing came up but I actually managed to fix it to stay on time. She doubled down on being irrationally upset. It seems she is either impulsive, insane, or both. Sounded more like she was looking for a reason to just shift the blame to me to end whatever the f this was.
She also logged on daily and changes her location frequently and added "I respond quicker to wishlist" during our time talking and her insisting she "wants something real" LOL. Uses imessage email to not reveal her number and apparently too lazy to just use a texting app.
She just wants free shit. Spoiled brat with daddy issues. Good luck gents report back if you meet her.
UsaBlinkGuy11
08-05-24, 19:30
Wasn't one read through of her profile enough to make you move on? Lots of red flags in it to me. Long verbose "about me"; comes out and sates that she gets crazy when frustrated or angry, full of copy and pasted text about how she's sophisticated, blah, blah, blah. I wouldn't have even bothered sending a message.Same.
Took one look at the profile and noped out of there.
Kinda GND cute pics. So I reached out. Turns out she's another scammer once we moved to text. Houston area phone number. Likely a dude. Wanted to meet the same day. I can't. Wants me to send 1/2 ppm up front then the rest after we meet. She wants to avoid being scammed. I guess by being the scammer first!! NEXT.
https://members.seeking.com/member/b80bc66c-19dd-40d3-86fc-83ff199f3c56
WaltoDerri267
08-07-24, 14:20
Wasn't one read through of her profile enough to make you move on? Lots of red flags in it to me. Long verbose "about me"; comes out and sates that she gets crazy when frustrated or angry, full of copy and pasted text about how she's sophisticated, blah, blah, blah. I wouldn't have even bothered sending a message.Yes, but my birthday was coming up and I wanted to treat myself LOL. Crazy pussy is phenomenal pussy.
HankScorpio
08-08-24, 00:01
Kinda GND cute pics. So I reached out. Turns out she's another scammer once we moved to text. Houston area phone number. Likely a dude. Wanted to meet the same day. I can't. Wants me to send 1/2 ppm up front then the rest after we meet. She wants to avoid being scammed. I guess by being the scammer first!! NEXT.
https://members.seeking.com/member/b80bc66c-19dd-40d3-86fc-83ff199f3c56That pic is from a moderately famous social media influencer / camer / porn person.
That pic is from a moderately famous social media influencer / camer / porn person.So famous that you don't have a name to give?
https://members.seeking.com/member/b6c69142-54af-46c9-baf1-1085a887e963
Same as Gia from eros. So she's a pro. Lives by the crappy parts of West NJ south of Cherry Hill. Huge tits but unimpressive anything else. Including performance. Expects extra for GFE. At least she doesn't ask for a lot. But that was on Eros. She might get SB fever.
https://members.seeking.com/member/9b565841-cf76-461b-b071-ac9f9e0da002
Serious GPS on her. Seven and a half benis. I played along to get her number. She's just a step or two above Karen material but she's a lunatic if she thinks she deserves that much for an almost 40 year-old. Won't negotiate.
https://members.seeking.com/member/4812122c-9b7e-42ef-b8cf-66be5217b0c6
Newer to all this. A tad chubby but not unattractively so. Is big on getting tested so you better be willing to do so. I get those regularly so she was happy to meet for a walk around the park to introduce ourselves. Allowance type who "doesn't want to work" so yeah. Basically a moocher. If you have the pockets, I guess she's young enough and doesn't have a big ego, at least not outwardly. Has some baggage too, but no kids, so that's a plus. I suppose one of you will be lucky enough to catch her when she stops pipe dreaming about the amount.
Guys, the days of crusing the site for 1 month is over with. Its gnna take 2-3 months to find something decent and it will be older.
HankScorpio
08-08-24, 22:02
So famous that you don't have a name to give?
https://members.seeking.com/member/b6c69142-54af-46c9-baf1-1085a887e963
Same as Gia from eros. So she's a pro. Lives by the crappy parts of West NJ south of Cherry Hill. Huge tits but unimpressive anything else. Including performance. Expects extra for GFE. At least she doesn't ask for a lot. But that was on Eros. She might get SB fever.Famous enough that I recognized her face. Not so famous that I knew her name off the top of my head.
One of her aliases is eevee frost. You can google it and get tons of hits. She tries to keep a low profile these days and I think she is going into some type of academic psychology or something like that.
And she is moving away from adult work.
Guys, the days of crusing the site for 1 month is over with. Its gnna take 2-3 months to find something decent and it will be older.You are preaching truth Boatie. My recent experience confirms these sentiments.
You are preaching truth Boatie. My recent experience confirms these sentiments.It's still good if you can travel and or are mobile. Its not the same!
UsaBlinkGuy11
08-09-24, 19:08
So famous that you don't have a name to give?
https://members.seeking.com/member/b6c69142-54af-46c9-baf1-1085a887e963
Same as Gia from eros. So she's a pro. Lives by the crappy parts of West NJ south of Cherry Hill. Huge tits but unimpressive anything else. Including performance. Expects extra for GFE. At least she doesn't ask for a lot. But that was on Eros. She might get SB fever.She gives terrible service?
Lame, such a buzzkill when they do that.
Guys, the days of crusing the site for 1 month is over with. Its gnna take 2-3 months to find something decent and it will be older.Yes, that is the case now.
WaltoDerri267
08-13-24, 16:44
This girl pulled off a stunt Friday that reminded me of similar stories I have read here where she seems fine, asks for a ride, chats you up and at the last minute demands the payment without having done a damn thing. This starts an argument that just goes in circles with her refusing to leave my car and I even offer her a couple bucks for her time. She's insisting her clearly bullshit story is true. "It's my nieces birthday tomorrow but this friend of mine said he'd do me the favor of getting the stuff and he can't meet later because his wife is a *****" LOL.
Refused my offer of taking her myself to get the stuff, refused to send the money after we reach the hotel and did our thing, refused all other logical options and of course meeting this random guy in the wawa parking lot first was the only way because "he had her ID card" . What the fuck did that have to do with anything? Just one weird convenient excuse after another to push the scam in her direction. She finally slipped and offered to talk to him for part of the money at least and told me to wait in the car and that she would leave her bag and wallet as "proof" she'd be back.
This was the detail that reminded me of the other stories where a girl would leave either an empty bag or one full of junk. This was indeed junk. I play along but insist I wait across the street and not in the parking lot. I distract her by asking her to grab me something inside the wawa and use this chance to throw her bag out my window and speed off. Block her. Of course she has another number she's harassing me off of LOL. I told her where I left her shit and wished her the best.
I can't fucking stand these thieves. Ironically were the same age and interesting how radically different our lives are. Be careful out there fellas. Her body is decent but she is not as cute. Never believe a word these scammers say.
https://members.seeking.com/member/4783d42f-45a9-47e4-98f1-c384a0cc73b0??locale=en_USS
This girl pulled off a stunt Friday that reminded me of similar stories I have read here where she seems fine, asks for a ride, chats you up and at the last minute demands the payment without having done a damn thing. This starts an argument that just goes in circles with her refusing to leave my car and I even offer her a couple bucks for her time. She's insisting her clearly bullshit story is true. "It's my nieces birthday tomorrow but this friend of mine said he'd do me the favor of getting the stuff and he can't meet later because his wife is a *****" LOL.
Refused my offer of taking her myself to get the stuff, refused to send the money after we reach the hotel and did our thing, refused all other logical options and of course meeting this random guy in the wawa parking lot first was the only way because "he had her ID card" . What the fuck did that have to do with anything? Just one weird convenient excuse after another to push the scam in her direction. She finally slipped and offered to talk to him for part of the money at least and told me to wait in the car and that she would leave her bag and wallet as "proof" she'd be back.
This was the detail that reminded me of the other stories where a girl would leave either an empty bag or one full of junk. This was indeed junk. I play along but insist I wait across the street and not in the parking lot. I distract her by asking her to grab me something inside the wawa and use this chance to throw her bag out my window and speed off. Block her. Of course she has another number she's harassing me off of LOL. I told her where I left her shit and wished her the best.
I can't fucking stand these thieves. Ironically were the same age and interesting how radically different our lives are. Be careful out there fellas. Her body is decent but she is not as cute. Never believe a word these scammers say.
https://members.seeking.com/member/4783d42f-45a9-47e4-98f1-c384a0cc73b0??locale=en_USSDamn dude you got some crazy situations!! I just don't understand why these girls can't go through on their half of the bargain and get paid. I thought the scams and snatch and dash were more of a STG thing but I guess there's desperation everywhere.
UninhibitedFla
08-13-24, 19:22
This girl pulled off a stunt Friday that reminded me of similar stories I have read here where she seems fine, asks for a ride, chats you up and at the last minute demands the payment without having done a damn thing. This starts an argument that just goes in circles with her refusing to leave my car and I even offer her a couple bucks for her time. She's insisting her clearly bullshit story is true. "It's my nieces birthday tomorrow but this friend of mine said he'd do me the favor of getting the stuff and he can't meet later because his wife is a *****" LOL.
Refused my offer of taking her myself to get the stuff, refused to send the money after we reach the hotel and did our thing, refused all other logical options and of course meeting this random guy in the wawa parking lot first was the only way because "he had her ID card" . What the fuck did that have to do with anything? Just one weird convenient excuse after another to push the scam in her direction. She finally slipped and offered to talk to him for part of the money at least and told me to wait in the car and that she would leave her bag and wallet as "proof" she'd be back.
This was the detail that reminded me of the other stories where a girl would leave either an empty bag or one full of junk. This was indeed junk. I play along but insist I wait across the street and not in the parking lot. I distract her by asking her to grab me something inside the wawa and use this chance to throw her bag out my window and speed off. Block her. Of course she has another number she's harassing me off of LOL. I told her where I left her shit and wished her the best.
I can't fucking stand these thieves. Ironically were the same age and interesting how radically different our lives are. Be careful out there fellas. Her body is decent but she is not as cute. Never believe a word these scammers say.
https://members.seeking.com/member/4783d42f-45a9-47e4-98f1-c384a0cc73b0??locale=en_USSGlad you made out ok. Personally I stay away from those who have all filtered photos because you really don't know what you're going to meet in real life. I think that holds true for physical appearance and mental state of mind.
Also, I remember messaging her a few weeks ago and when I saw your report I suddenly remember her replying but like others stated, one scan of her about me and I didn't want anything to do with it. Anyway, I only have like two weeks left on my sub and I luckily found something ongoing and successful so I figured I'd message her back and troll her. All I can say is she is the Rinser of all rinsers lmaoo. Rinse & repeat if I may. Anyway I'm actually certain she's unemployed and just stays home all day or maybe she does have a job in cosmetology who knows? Same ol program. Good morning texts and what not, can't use her real number so she uses her imessage. Sweet and bubbly the whole nine. Can't meet at the moment bc she's too busy this that and the third. Then the home run swing for the fences moment, her roommate didn't pay the electricity for three months and the power is out at her house and she won't be able to text me when she's home. I gave her the run around for a few days and got her hopes up LOL. It was fun. It's soo crazy the amount of woman I've encountered of the last month who just come right out and ask for money. Or the first thing out there mouth is "oh my window is broken in the car" "oh it wasn't a good week my car broke down". I will say I found a few with reasonable PPM and knew how to play things. But it took a sea of messaging and all in all, this site is a pain in theeee cheeks dealing with everything and is draining. If you have the patience for it all then by all means. But I'll be glad when my sub is up and I can rid myself of it haha. Got lucky and found what I needed for the time being and had a few laughs.
This girl pulled off a stunt Friday that reminded me of similar stories I have read here where she seems fine, asks for a ride, chats you up and at the last minute demands the payment without having done a damn thing. This starts an argument that just goes in circles with her refusing to leave my car and I even offer her a couple bucks for her time.Don't positively reinforce this behavior. Just drive to the nearest police station. You don't even need to really do anything, she either freaks out and runs or you can just tell the police, "She's a hookup but now I want her out of my car cause she's trying to scam me. " It's your car, you have every right to have her leave it.
she would leave her bag and wallet as "proof" she'd be back.Yeah I fell for that once but it was with some craigslist girl I saw a few times back when they still allowed that kind of stuff on their site. I had no reason to think she was going to steal from me because we meet occasionally but each time it was a worse and worse meet up. Looks like her family kicked her to the curb and she went to live basically anywhere. Was ages ago and essentially the first pro I ever hung out with so. Lesson learned.
And I'm noticing that too. Way too many thieving little w h 0 re $ who want you to send money before anything. Even meeting in person for a hello. They ALWAYS have a story. This one below does that A LOT. One time with one number it was her birthday. Another time she was late on a bill of some kind. Then there was her not being able to drive over cause she needed to pay her car's insurance. Yeah, cause if you don't pay it your car instantly turns off and you cannot drive it anymore. JFC these sluts.
https://members.seeking.com/member/fdb699d3-091b-45f5-8a0e-571f18ed04b7
Tried this other one below again. Already posted a report about her but it was long enough that she probably didn't remember me. She didn't. Takes ages to reply back. Acts like a hooker. "I want this amount for X hours and this amount for X+1 hours" nickel and diming you because she "values her time. " And yet she takes days or a week to reply. Called her out for what she is like 11 days ago, then sent a reply back JUST TODAY with her usual yadda yadda of "I found you online, I'm going to let everyone know on your FB about you" I'm using a fake number and she already tried that before where she tries to scare you by saying she found your personal info online and she's going to post your record. What a miserable life she must have that she thinks that catch-all shot in the dark is going to apply to everyone she talks to. Grade-A white trash that one.
https://members.seeking.com/member/cb1982cd-8bbf-4081-96ba-3a46571ac40c
WarmQueen.
Exchanged messages with her a couple years ago. Quite real and very pretty. Knows what this is about but wanted $800. Countered with $400 which was rejected and ended the conversation. She disappeared for a while, but resurfaced recently (AFAIK). Maybe she's recalibrated her expectations?
https://members.seeking.com/member/1cd75701-5624-48ff-99ee-d50aefad67a1I've met her. Cute. A very nice lady. 36 YO. Has 3 kids. It shows on her body once we got behind closed doors. Still, a nice shape to her but not who I want to have a long term arrangement with.
She was fun but we are not a match.
Maybe one of you gents might be a good match? Mostly available Mondays or Fridays.
This girl pulled off a stunt Friday that reminded me of similar stories I have read here where she seems fine, asks for a ride, chats you up and at the last minute demands the payment without having done a damn thing. This starts an argument that just goes in circles with her refusing to leave my car and I even offer her a couple bucks for her time. She's insisting her clearly bullshit story is true. "It's my nieces birthday tomorrow but this friend of mine said he'd do me the favor of getting the stuff and he can't meet later because his wife is a *****" LOL.
Sorry this happened to you. Doesn't sound like a Sugar baby, more of an escort related scammer.
Now not being critical, but I had to learn this "no money upfront" the hard way too. In fact, for the edification of lurkers or those who are new, I'll reference "the rules" which apply to escorts and equally to SBs. Some techniques for not paying up front in that thread.
http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?13919-My-Suggestions.-Rules-For-BackPage
So when a girl pulls a stunt like that, first stay calm and don't get physical. The advice with Streetwalkers is to have a roll of fake bills accessible and toss those out the window so the girl goes after the money. "OK, here's you money, go get it!" Might not work with a SB, however. But I have had something similar happen to me. One time I drove to a busy gas station, got out of the car and walked around and opened the passenger door and stated loudly, "Please get out of my car. " I had to repeat that several times, increasing the volume until other people at the gas station took notice and some White Knight piped up and said something and she got out of the car.
Another time, I stopped and did the same thing and some dude stopped in front of me. He got out, identified himself as an off duty LE officer, pointing to the badge on his license plate. He told the woman that IF I wanted her out of my car she had to exit the car. She eventually got out.
Gas station, police station or somewhere in view of a security camera might be good too. Get her exiting the car in good shape in case she claims battery later.
Now as far as a girl leaving a purse or something as "collateral" DON'T DO IT! Purse could be a dollar store special with worth-nothing make up in it or whatever. So what if she loses $10 of merch? She trades up, you trade down. Same thing goes for cell phones. Unless you're and expert it could be a $20 prepaid phone.
So yes, scammers will play all kinds of games, tug at your heart strings and other 'stuff' to get you to part with your money. It's gotten increasing difficult to operate in the bowl so one needs to be on their toes. While all of this stuff looks "easy", being prepared with an exit plan at all times is valuable.
Again, sorry for your bad experience! Hang in there! With experience and knowledge one is better able to stay safe! Good luck!
WaltoDerri267
08-15-24, 22:06
Sorry this happened to you. Doesn't sound like a Sugar baby, more of an escort related scammer.
Now not being critical, but I had to learn this "no money upfront" the hard way too. In fact, for the edification of lurkers or those who are new, I'll reference "the rules" which apply to escorts and equally to SBs. Some techniques for not paying up front in that thread.
http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?13919-My-Suggestions.-Rules-For-BackPage
So when a girl pulls a stunt like that, first stay calm and don't get physical. The advice with Streetwalkers is to have a roll of fake bills accessible and toss those out the window so the girl goes after the money. "OK, here's you money, go get it!" Might not work with a SB, however. But I have had something similar happen to me. One time I drove to a busy gas station, got out of the car and walked around and opened the passenger door and stated loudly, "Please get out of my car. " I had to repeat that several times, increasing the volume until other people at the gas station took notice and some White Knight piped up and said something and she got out of the car.
Another time, I stopped and did the same thing and some dude stopped in front of me. He got out, identified himself as an off duty LE officer, pointing to the badge on his license plate. He told the woman that IF I wanted her out of my car she had to exit the car. She eventually got out.
Gas station, police station or somewhere in view of a security camera might be good too. Get her exiting the car in good shape in case she claims battery later.
Now as far as a girl leaving a purse or something as "collateral" DON'T DO IT! Purse could be a dollar store special with worth-nothing make up in it or whatever. So what if she loses $10 of merch? She trades up, you trade down. Same thing goes for cell phones. Unless you're and expert it could be a $20 prepaid phone.
So yes, scammers will play all kinds of games, tug at your heart strings and other 'stuff' to get you to part with your money. It's gotten increasing difficult to operate in the bowl so one needs to be on their toes. While all of this stuff looks "easy", being prepared with an exit plan at all times is valuable.
Again, sorry for your bad experience! Hang in there! With experience and knowledge one is better able to stay safe! Good luck!Thanks man, crazy how far they are willing to go to scam. I was talking to another buddy of mine from here and he *confirmed* that she used the same sob story about it being her "nieces birthday" that day (days earlier) and trying to negotiate with him a very specific $270 LOL. He clocked the bullshit immediately. I didn't because she didn't ask for the money up front via text, only when we were close to the hotel and she was like "actually I have to do this thing" which led to the whole mess.
I realized I blocked her on seeking and didn't save her pic but I got her main photo from my email. Fellas take a look and avoid this ***** like the plague. Women are master manipulators.
WaltoDerri267
08-15-24, 22:08
Don't positively reinforce this behavior. Just drive to the nearest police station. You don't even need to really do anything, she either freaks out and runs or you can just tell the police, "She's a hookup but now I want her out of my car cause she's trying to scam me. " It's your car, you have every right to have her leave it.
Yeah I fell for that once but it was with some craigslist girl I saw a few times back when they still allowed that kind of stuff on their site. I had no reason to think she was going to steal from me because we meet occasionally but each time it was a worse and worse meet up. Looks like her family kicked her to the curb and she went to live basically anywhere. Was ages ago and essentially the first pro I ever hung out with so. Lesson learned.
And I'm noticing that too. Way too many thieving little w h 0 re $ who want you to send money before anything. Even meeting in person for a hello. They ALWAYS have a story. This one below does that A LOT. One time with one number it was her birthday. Another time she was late on a bill of some kind. Then there was her not being able to drive over cause she needed to pay her car's insurance. Yeah, cause if you don't pay it your car instantly turns off and you cannot drive it anymore. JFC these sluts.
https://members.seeking.com/member/fdb699d3-091b-45f5-8a0e-571f18ed04b7
Tried this other one below again. Already posted a report about her but it was long enough that she probably didn't remember me. She didn't. Takes ages to reply back. Acts like a hooker. "I want this amount for X hours and this amount for X+1 hours" nickel and diming you because she "values her time. " And yet she takes days or a week to reply. Called her out for what she is like 11 days ago, then sent a reply back JUST TODAY with her usual yadda yadda of "I found you online, I'm going to let everyone know on your FB about you" I'm using a fake number and she already tried that before where she tries to scare you by saying she found your personal info online and she's going to post your record. What a miserable life she must have that she thinks that catch-all shot in the dark is going to apply to everyone she talks to. Grade-A white trash that one.
https://members.seeking.com/member/cb1982cd-8bbf-4081-96ba-3a46571ac40cFunny enough I threatened to drive to the police station and she didn't budge. It seemed she feared who ever she was working with more than the cops. She even cited that I had already booked the room so it would be lost money and I was like yeah. That's why I'm even more pissed than normal LOL she had zero shame.
WaltoDerri267
08-15-24, 22:10
Glad you made out ok. Personally I stay away from those who have all filtered photos because you really don't know what you're going to meet in real life. I think that holds true for physical appearance and mental state of mind.Thanks man, that is a good point about the filtered pics. Years in the game and sometimes I decide to roll the dice and give someone a chance when they sound sincere and I ignore the red flags like a dickhead. It's never NOT a scam.
WaltoDerri267
08-15-24, 22:17
Also, I remember messaging her a few weeks ago and when I saw your report I suddenly remember her replying but like others stated, one scan of her about me and I didn't want anything to do with it. Anyway, I only have like two weeks left on my sub and I luckily found something ongoing and successful so I figured I'd message her back and troll her. All I can say is she is the Rinser of all rinsers lmaoo. Rinse & repeat if I may. Anyway I'm actually certain she's unemployed and just stays home all day or maybe she does have a job in cosmetology who knows? Same ol program. Good morning texts and what not, can't use her real number so she uses her imessage. Sweet and bubbly the whole nine. Can't meet at the moment bc she's too busy this that and the third. Then the home run swing for the fences moment, her roommate didn't pay the electricity for three months and the power is out at her house and she won't be able to text me when she's home. I gave her the run around for a few days and got her hopes up LOL. It was fun. It's soo crazy the amount of woman I've encountered of the last month who just come right out and ask for money. Or the first thing out there mouth is "oh my window is broken in the car" "oh it wasn't a good week my car broke down". I will say I found a few with reasonable PPM and knew how to play things. But it took a sea of messaging and all in all, this site is a pain in theeee cheeks dealing with everything and is draining. If you have the patience for it all then by all means. But I'll be glad when my sub is up and I can rid myself of it haha. Got lucky and found what I needed for the time being and had a few laughs.Bro thank you for trolling her and validating that she really was just playing the long game. I will say she is good, VERY good. Has real conversations, sends nudes unprompted, and everything. I got a couple texts saying " I know this is outa nowhere and I don't want you to think this is all I'm after but my car insurance is due and I really can't afford it" yada yada. I said sure, just email me the bill and she said she would but never did and her energy and good morning texts stopped LOL. Nothing was sent because she was bullshitting and had no bill to send.
Funny enough she claims to work all fucking day in a salon and claims to fall asleep by 7 pm. My buddy texted her and she said she was getting drinks with her bitches on a Wednesday night at 8 pm. She's just one of those smart scammers because she confirms other simps send her money without meeting when I had an argument with her.
A ghetto ass ***** that goes out on weeknights is not a ***** I want to waste time let alone money on. Her bio was full of contradictions and I still tried because I had some great crazy pussy in the past. This ***** will get fat and old and with no money once she becomes unfuckable. Sucks for her types.
PhillYogynist
08-16-24, 07:35
What was her number? Curious if she's adjusted her expectations at all.
I've met her. Cute. A very nice lady. 36 YO. Has 3 kids. It shows on her body once we got behind closed doors. Still, a nice shape to her but not who I want to have a long term arrangement with.
She was fun but we are not a match.
Maybe one of you gents might be a good match? Mostly available Mondays or Fridays.
Funny enough I threatened to drive to the police station and she didn't budge. It seemed she feared who ever she was working with more than the cops. She even cited that I had already booked the room so it would be lost money and I was like yeah. That's why I'm even more pissed than normal LOL she had zero shame.Wait, I'm a bit confused. You met this. Girl on SA? Did you do a meet and greet with her to gage compatibility and PPM?
Suggesting a platonic M&G helps me weed out scammers. Many fakes will ask for $ upfront or to meet for the M&G. That makes them an instant PASS. I found it's a good screening, filtering tool. In some cases I'll discuss PPM/ Allowance before agreeing to meet for the M&G . In extreme cases I'll do a video chat. Point is these things take time, time scammers aren't willing to spend. But vetting saves me.
My point is that if not, and you're using the site like an escort site, (no judgement) then in that case, ALL of "the rules" apply.
One of the things that took me a long time to learn was that there's no price to safely. So if and when a Date goes south, GTFO with my health and property in tact. I learned to chalk those up to "tuition paid". Also had to budget as it were for the occasional loss. Really stinks to have the prize in sight and have to walk away.
Now that I think of it, I guess I have developed / evolved a style that's polite, laid-back but VERY firm I think girls can sense I'm serious and firm (and if need be, take a partial loss) and that focuses them quickly. They have to decide to get something or nothing Or they need to realize I'm not going to play their game.
Come to think about it, had a related example last night. Met a girl that was highly promoted by dudes. Anyway, pick her up and get into the PPM discussion. She wouldn't state an amount, and since I don't bid against myself I lowballed her: think street rates. THEN she came back with her figure which was GPS. Blah, blah, blah was her story. We did a little back and forth, before I turned the car around and headed back to where I picked her up. Sure I would have lost a deposit, wasted time and gone home with blue balls, but better that than fall for her GPS scam. So we get 2 blocks from her house and the reality set in. She was about to get nothing. Suddenly her game was over and she got reasonable. But would not have gotten there if I wasn't calm, cool and collected and NOT willing to play her game.
I dunno, make such a style could work for you too?
UsaBlinkGuy11
08-16-24, 11:19
I don't risk health or property either when engaging in this.
I'm going to be honest though but most girls I message I actually end up passing on them.
Stuff like filtered pictures or an incoherent bio is basically an automatic no from me.
Also if I slightly detect that the girl in the profile isn't actually the girl I'm chatting with, then I also move on.
It's very hard for any girl on that site to actually make it with me.
I even have my profile hidden from search completely so no one can find me. They would have to wait until I message them first LOL.
But this is just how I use the site. Push all the low quality away and distance myself from it, and only selectively pick certain ones.
WaltoDerri267
08-16-24, 20:38
Wait, I'm a bit confused. You met this. Girl on SA? Did you do a meet and greet with her to gage compatibility and PPM?
Suggesting a platonic M&G helps me weed out scammers. Many fakes will ask for $ upfront or to meet for the M&G. That makes them an instant PASS. I found it's a good screening, filtering tool. In some cases I'll discuss PPM/ Allowance before agreeing to meet for the M&G . In extreme cases I'll do a video chat. Point is these things take time, time scammers aren't willing to spend. But vetting saves me.
My point is that if not, and you're using the site like an escort site, (no judgement) then in that case, ALL of "the rules" apply.
One of the things that took me a long time to learn was that there's no price to safely. So if and when a Date goes south, GTFO with my health and property in tact. I learned to chalk those up to "tuition paid". Also had to budget as it were for the occasional loss. Really stinks to have the prize in sight and have to walk away.
Now that I think of it, I guess I have developed / evolved a style that's polite, laid-back but VERY firm I think girls can sense I'm serious and firm (and if need be, take a partial loss) and that focuses them quickly. They have to decide to get something or nothing Or they need to realize I'm not going to play their game.
Come to think about it, had a related example last night. Met a girl that was highly promoted by dudes. Anyway, pick her up and get into the PPM discussion. She wouldn't state an amount, and since I don't bid against myself I lowballed her: think street rates. THEN she came back with her figure which was GPS. Blah, blah, blah was her story. We did a little back and forth, before I turned the car around and headed back to where I picked her up. Sure I would have lost a deposit, wasted time and gone home with blue balls, but better that than fall for her GPS scam. So we get 2 blocks from her house and the reality set in. She was about to get nothing. Suddenly her game was over and she got reasonable. But would not have gotten there if I wasn't calm, cool and collected and NOT willing to play her game.
I dunno, make such a style could work for you too?Yes I did meet her on SA, and I usually do a M&G to see what our compatibility is like. Funny enough, on their sugar forums on reddit they are actively teaching and discouraging each other from doing unpaid meets MGs which is hilarious LOL but that's a another topic.
I have noticed the pattern of when I do not do this I often end up with an unpleasant experience but I was just stood up 3 times before and I just wanted to get my rocks off.
I usually vet via phone call because I can gauge their personality better by their voice as well. This is what I get for being a vet and disregarding the rules even once when I know better. I just wanted to warn others to avoid this *****. I confirmed with another buddy that she pulled the same sob story on him days apart so it was most definitely an elaborate set up.
MisterMister46
08-21-24, 10:43
I'm recreating my SA profile after some time away. Previously, I had a regular picture but I've decided I want to be a bit more discreet this time, so I'm using a face blurred picture. However, seeking is saying that my photo is "Not Primary Eligible". What's the deal with this? Is it because of the blur? Plenty of women have main photos that don't show their face.
SA is also rejecting my nickname with the error "Please use a real name. ". WTF, who doesn't use a fake name on seeking and how the hell would they know? The nickname I choose is a regular name.
Is this because I haven't paid for the premium membership yet? I wanted to set up the profile first.
I'm recreating my SA profile after some time away. Previously, I had a regular picture but I've decided I want to be a bit more discreet this time, so I'm using a face blurred picture. However, seeking is saying that my photo is "Not Primary Eligible". What's the deal with this? Is it because of the blur? Plenty of women have main photos that don't show their face.
SA is also rejecting my nickname with the error "Please use a real name. ". WTF, who doesn't use a fake name on seeking and how the hell would they know? The nickname I choose is a regular name.
Is this because I haven't paid for the premium membership yet? I wanted to set up the profile first.A possible work around would be use a pic of your self in one of the paid photo search apps. Choose one of the pics of the doppelganger that the app thinks might be you. That now is your face pic to keep SA happy and you are still anonymous.
Yes I did meet her on SA, and I usually do a M&G to see what our compatibility is like. Funny enough, on their sugar forums on reddit they are actively teaching and discouraging each other from doing unpaid meets MGs which is hilarious LOL but that's a another topic.
Perhaps you are in the wrong subreddit? Like the SexWokersOnly sub there are a bunch of subs that are inhabited by men-hating, risers and pro girls that become a toxic echo chamber.
It's hard enough with "influencers" on TikTok and other SM platforms telling girls that they can get all of the luxuries in the world with an "online only" Sugar Daddy. No sex required!
For me this isn't escort-lite dating as I am interested in a true, traditional Sugar RELATIONSHIP! But sigh, girls report a lot of dudes act like Johns and don't get why they get rejected. Don't know if there is a shift where P2 P sex is more acceptable these days or more guys on line are wandering into the Sugar Bowl with a lack of knowledge, but it is an order of magnitude harder to Sugar in the last 5 years.
Mythbuster
08-21-24, 20:34
I'm recreating my SA profile after some time away. Previously, I had a regular picture but I've decided I want to be a bit more discreet this time, so I'm using a face blurred picture. However, seeking is saying that my photo is "Not Primary Eligible". What's the deal with this? Is it because of the blur? Plenty of women have main photos that don't show their face.
SA is also rejecting my nickname with the error "Please use a real name. ". WTF, who doesn't use a fake name on seeking and how the hell would they know? The nickname I choose is a regular name.
Is this because I haven't paid for the premium membership yet? I wanted to set up the profile first.I usually use somewhat publicly available picture of myself maybe two or three but set my setting to private so that only people I allow to see my photos can see them. I thought the user names were the only thing publicly visible but it's been a while since I've used the site!
This lovely lady is shopping for the highest M&G appearance fee.
Her response:
So what would you give me for our first meet?
My response:
Something in proportion to what you give me.
https://members.seeking.com/member/6d2ddde5-445e-4a7e-9822-449ce61b5bad
Rubber Ducky Boston
09-03-24, 12:15
Never seen it this bad before on SA in my 8 ish years on the site. For my filters (less than 35 years, 30 mile radius from delaware county, slim or athletic, non platonic), there are only maybe around 100 or so accounts active regularly. 30 of them look like they're fakes. Another 30 seem to think a shot-putter's body type counts as "athletic". Another 20 or so look kinda busted, or have terrible pics that make me suspicious they're hiding something. And another 10 or so probably have unrealistic expectations, talking about how they deserve to be treated like a queen and worshipped or how cultured they are or some other stuck up nonsense.
I don't usually bother paying for memberships unless I see at least 20+ accounts I'd be interested in messaging. Only about 1 out of every 10 I message ends up proceeding to in person meetings, of which not all end up working out long term. But with how things look now, I may never pay for membership again.
Never seen it this bad before on SA in my 8 ish years on the site. For my filters (less than 35 years, 30 mile radius from delaware county, slim or athletic, non platonic), there are only maybe around 100 or so accounts active regularly. 30 of them look like they're fakes. Another 30 seem to think a shot-putter's body type counts as "athletic". Another 20 or so look kinda busted, or have terrible pics that make me suspicious they're hiding something. And another 10 or so probably have unrealistic expectations, talking about how they deserve to be treated like a queen and worshipped or how cultured they are or some other stuck up nonsense.
I don't usually bother paying for memberships unless I see at least 20+ accounts I'd be interested in messaging. Only about 1 out of every 10 I message ends up proceeding to in person meetings, of which not all end up working out long term. But with how things look now, I may never pay for membership again.Yeah, I activated a couple weeks ago to check it out again. It's awful right now.
WaltoDerri267
09-03-24, 22:57
Never seen it this bad before on SA in my 8 ish years on the site. For my filters (less than 35 years, 30 mile radius from delaware county, slim or athletic, non platonic), there are only maybe around 100 or so accounts active regularly. 30 of them look like they're fakes. Another 30 seem to think a shot-putter's body type counts as "athletic". Another 20 or so look kinda busted, or have terrible pics that make me suspicious they're hiding something. And another 10 or so probably have unrealistic expectations, talking about how they deserve to be treated like a queen and worshipped or how cultured they are or some other stuck up nonsense.
I don't usually bother paying for memberships unless I see at least 20+ accounts I'd be interested in messaging. Only about 1 out of every 10 I message ends up proceeding to in person meetings, of which not all end up working out long term. But with how things look now, I may never pay for membership again.Every time I do log back on and see someone I like, she tends to want money for nothing or she responds over a month later when my sub is not active LOL.
I'm not into a Dom chick. Best of luck gents.
https://members.seeking.com/member/de83edb0-fe1a-4046-99d5-e6e10e924878
Her reply:
I'm a single parent (only parent) so I don't very much get out of the house due to no babysitters so I'm searching for mainly online interactions and conversations aside from the days I am able to get a sitter and can meet up! Does that sound like something you would be okay with?
It is not ideal for many men I've noticed so don't hesitate to shoot me down!
Nope.
https://members.seeking.com/member/19294207-1536-487e-89aa-866c379611b4
Using a phone number with a Canadian area code. Only asks questions over text. Doesn't give any information about herself. When I asked, "why did she moved to Philly from Canada?" she went dark.
Likely scammer. Who knows.
https://members.seeking.com/member/25078dcd-3221-4b67-813c-5c933a420446
Rubber Ducky Boston
09-04-24, 10:48
Every time I do log back on and see someone I like, she tends to want money for nothing or she responds over a month later when my sub is not active LOL.You have to leave your number in the message you send, and let them know that you're logging off the site, so that way ball's in their court if they message you much later on. They can still contact you.
UsaBlinkGuy11
09-04-24, 12:09
Seeking has been very dead the past 4-6 weeks.
A large decrease in activity. Less girls are on the site and even less are responding to messages, almost like a ghost zone now.
I think it may be because the school semester is just starting and a lot of girls are going back to school, or some other seasonal type of thing is happening right now.
I don't think this level of deceased activity will be the new normal, it'll probably pick back up later.
WaltoDerri267
09-05-24, 00:44
Seeking has been very dead the past 4-6 weeks.
A large decrease in activity. Less girls are on the site and even less are responding to messages, almost like a ghost zone now.
I think it may be because the school semester is just starting and a lot of girls are going back to school, or some other seasonal type of thing is happening right now.
I don't think this level of deceased activity will be the new normal, it'll probably pick back up later.I thought back to school would be the time of year it would swing back into busy season?
Mythbuster
09-05-24, 23:10
I thought back to school would be the time of year it would swing back into busy season?In my experience it's more of a returning SBs but in reality a lot of them stay local through the summer. I have found it difficult to connect with them early as they try to get use to their new class schedule. I may buy in nearer to the end of the semester or early next year as the need for Spring Break money increases.
Using a phone number with a Canadian area code. Only asks questions over text. Doesn't give any information about herself. When I asked, "why did she moved to Philly from Canada?" she went dark.
Likely scammer. Who knows.
https://members.seeking.com/member/25078dcd-3221-4b67-813c-5c933a420446She's definitely a scammer / phony account. I had to block her on Telegram, as she began messaging nonstop in fractured English.
UsaBlinkGuy11
09-07-24, 14:37
I thought back to school would be the time of year it would swing back into busy season?It's hard to tell.
Either way, I do think activity on the site has decreased the past 4-6 weeks.
The reason why? Who knows.
MisterMister46
09-08-24, 11:52
https://members.seeking.com/member/b49c6e55-14c8-4a8e-8809-9b2fb875ca6c
She seems real via message and was open to meeting for 300, but she has absolutely no weekend or evening availability due to having a kid, so I had to pass.
https://members.seeking.com/member/b49c6e55-14c8-4a8e-8809-9b2fb875ca6c
She seems real via message and was open to meeting for 300, but she has absolutely no weekend or evening availability due to having a kid, so I had to pass.Was going to pull the trigger but changed my mind after I found her social media. I'd be curious if anyone takes the plunge.
Was going to pull the trigger but changed my mind after I found her social media. I'd be curious if anyone takes the plunge.Why is that an issue??
Rubber Ducky Boston
09-09-24, 08:32
Was going to pull the trigger but changed my mind after I found her social media. I'd be curious if anyone takes the plunge.How do you find people's socials? Google photo search no longer seems to work well for this.
Why is that an issue??Didn't like what I saw, preference issue on my part.
How do you find people's socials? Google photo search no longer seems to work well for this.There are other options that usually work. Facecheck, pimeyes, etc. They're all paid though. I don't think there are any free ones left.
The cost of living is getting so bad that alot of these girls are living at home or moving back home so it diminshes the need to sell that ass.
It's really skimp. Thankfully I hve UTRs and girls from the past.
WaltoDerri267
09-12-24, 20:40
It's hard to tell.
Either way, I do think activity on the site has decreased the past 4-6 weeks.
The reason why? Who knows.More like the last 4-6 months to find quality.
TL DR SB is ungrateful and becomes unhinged because I said no to money for nothing.
Saw her in July for a successful date went off on me recently because I was firm on my rule of not sending money outside of meets. Told me she was sick and needed meds and me she couldn't because she was sick just having been at her dad's. (Why didn't her own dad buy her medicine?) She then listed everything she didn't like about our date despite saying she had a great time LOL.
Display name Serina. Serious GPS but I went along to treat myself for BBFS CIP overnight.
Claims I didn't let her choose the movie when I said "there's a movie *I* want to see, would you like to join me? She could have said no, she said yes. It was my birthday so of course I wanted to do what *I* wanted to do!
Said I didn't let her choose the restaurant when I asked if she liked seafood and she said she loved it and was okay with the spot I chose because she has been there before. She could have suggested another spot. But she did not. Then she claimed I didn't let her choose her meal LOL bullshit! She mused over the menu for a ridiculous amount of time, stepped away to smoke, and came back still not having decided. When asked she responded "oh. Idk" . So I suggest the full course special they offered us and she agreed. Again, having all the freedom to say no and choose her own thing instead. She said yes. Even said she enjoyed her meal.
One valid point was her complaint about the shower in the room being broken but I found this amusing because neither of us had noticed until around midnight and the front desk informed me that there was no maintenance staff on site to repair right then and there. All other rooms were booked out. It was something completely out of my control but she bitched that " I made her stay there". Sorry love, I wasn't exactly stoked you smelled like BO either and came in a dirty wig and dirty dress.
She acted like she was held captive hahaha. She was free to waltz out the door at any time and grab an uber. Best of all she complained about "me using her lotion and it not feeling very mutually beneficial" despite her having gotten her gift amount IN FULL as if she could not have easily bought herself a new bottle LMAO. 2 little pumps for a massage that I asked for and she obliged happily while apparently secretly resenting me for it. Selfish can these brats be? Told me to learn how to be "a real SD and find someone cheaper" and I told her to stfu and learn how to be a real SB who earns her keep instead of being an entitled brat. Classic arrangements always have been mutually beneficial since before the internet, not this delusional bullshit they want it to be.
I then reminded her of my upcoming trip to South America and how I could easily find half a dozen women who go above and beyond and are grateful for what they can get and no wonder tons of US mongers are flying down south. Way to fumble a long term arrangement because you preferred to be an selfish brat!
P.S. Seems I only come here to share bad stories. Just a testament to how far downhill the sugar bowl in Philly has become. I just wanted to have fun clappin College girl cheeks but alas, even those are rare these days. I just want to unwind and have fun again!
More like the last 4-6 months to find quality.
TL DR SB is ungrateful and becomes unhinged because I said no to money for nothing.
Saw her in July for a successful date went off on me recently because I was firm on my rule of not sending money outside of meets. Told me she was sick and needed meds and me she couldn't because she was sick just having been at her dad's. (Why didn't her own dad buy her medicine?) She then listed everything she didn't like about our date despite saying she had a great time LOL.
Display name Serina. Serious GPS but I went along to treat myself for BBFS CIP overnight.
Claims I didn't let her choose the movie when I said "there's a movie *I* want to see, would you like to join me? She could have said no, she said yes. It was my birthday so of course I wanted to do what *I* wanted to do!
Said I didn't let her choose the restaurant when I asked if she liked seafood and she said she loved it and was okay with the spot I chose because she has been there before. She could have suggested another spot. But she did not. Then she claimed I didn't let her choose her meal LOL bullshit! She mused over the menu for a ridiculous amount of time, stepped away to smoke, and came back still not having decided. When asked she responded "oh. Idk" . So I suggest the full course special they offered us and she agreed. Again, having all the freedom to say no and choose her own thing instead. She said yes. Even said she enjoyed her meal.
One valid point was her complaint about the shower in the room being broken but I found this amusing because neither of us had noticed until around midnight and the front desk informed me that there was no maintenance staff on site to repair right then and there. All other rooms were booked out. It was something completely out of my control but she bitched that " I made her stay there". Sorry love, I wasn't exactly stoked you smelled like BO either and came in a dirty wig and dirty dress.
She acted like she was held captive hahaha. She was free to waltz out the door at any time and grab an uber. Best of all she complained about "me using her lotion and it not feeling very mutually beneficial" despite her having gotten her gift amount IN FULL as if she could not have easily bought herself a new bottle LMAO. 2 little pumps for a massage that I asked for and she obliged happily while apparently secretly resenting me for it. Selfish can these brats be? Told me to learn how to be "a real SD and find someone cheaper" and I told her to stfu and learn how to be a real SB who earns her keep instead of being an entitled brat. Classic arrangements always have been mutually beneficial since before the internet, not this delusional bullshit they want it to be.
I then reminded her of my upcoming trip to South America and how I could easily find half a dozen women who go above and beyond and are grateful for what they can get and no wonder tons of US mongers are flying down south. Way to fumble a long term arrangement because you preferred to be an selfish brat!
P.S. Seems I only come here to share bad stories. Just a testament to how far downhill the sugar bowl in Philly has become. I just wanted to have fun clappin College girl cheeks but alas, even those are rare these days. I just want to unwind and have fun again!Modern women are pretty terrible man. There is a reason why they are selling that ass and no decent guy is trying to wife them up.
99% of these girls are lower middle class trash.
UsaBlinkGuy11
09-13-24, 14:08
More like the last 4-6 months to find quality.
TL DR SB is ungrateful and becomes unhinged because I said no to money for nothing.
Saw her in July for a successful date went off on me recently because I was firm on my rule of not sending money outside of meets. Told me she was sick and needed meds and me she couldn't because she was sick just having been at her dad's. (Why didn't her own dad buy her medicine?) She then listed everything she didn't like about our date despite saying she had a great time LOL.
Display name Serina. Serious GPS but I went along to treat myself for BBFS CIP overnight.
Claims I didn't let her choose the movie when I said "there's a movie *I* want to see, would you like to join me? She could have said no, she said yes. It was my birthday so of course I wanted to do what *I* wanted to do!
Said I didn't let her choose the restaurant when I asked if she liked seafood and she said she loved it and was okay with the spot I chose because she has been there before. She could have suggested another spot. But she did not. Then she claimed I didn't let her choose her meal LOL bullshit! She mused over the menu for a ridiculous amount of time, stepped away to smoke, and came back still not having decided. When asked she responded "oh. Idk" . So I suggest the full course special they offered us and she agreed. Again, having all the freedom to say no and choose her own thing instead. She said yes. Even said she enjoyed her meal.
One valid point was her complaint about the shower in the room being broken but I found this amusing because neither of us had noticed until around midnight and the front desk informed me that there was no maintenance staff on site to repair right then and there. All other rooms were booked out. It was something completely out of my control but she bitched that " I made her stay there". Sorry love, I wasn't exactly stoked you smelled like BO either and came in a dirty wig and dirty dress.
She acted like she was held captive hahaha. She was free to waltz out the door at any time and grab an uber. Best of all she complained about "me using her lotion and it not feeling very mutually beneficial" despite her having gotten her gift amount IN FULL as if she could not have easily bought herself a new bottle LMAO. 2 little pumps for a massage that I asked for and she obliged happily while apparently secretly resenting me for it. Selfish can these brats be? Told me to learn how to be "a real SD and find someone cheaper" and I told her to stfu and learn how to be a real SB who earns her keep instead of being an entitled brat. Classic arrangements always have been mutually beneficial since before the internet, not this delusional bullshit they want it to be.
I then reminded her of my upcoming trip to South America and how I could easily find half a dozen women who go above and beyond and are grateful for what they can get and no wonder tons of US mongers are flying down south. Way to fumble a long term arrangement because you preferred to be an selfish brat!
P.S. Seems I only come here to share bad stories. Just a testament to how far downhill the sugar bowl in Philly has become. I just wanted to have fun clappin College girl cheeks but alas, even those are rare these days. I just want to unwind and have fun again!Yeah every other guy wants to clap college girl cheeks.
Literally every single one of us here wants to do that, plus every single other guy in philly LOL, you are not the only one.
I think people forget that literally every other guy that exists in this city has the same goal LOL.
WaltoDerri267
09-13-24, 15:16
Yeah every other guy wants to clap college girl cheeks.
Literally every single one of us here wants to do that, plus every single other guy in philly LOL, you are not the only one.
I think people forget that literally every other guy that exists in this city has the same goal LOL.LOL I did not forget, I am expressing frustration that it is not as simple as it used to be only a few years ago. You would think there would be even more college girls selling ass since the cost of living is higher than ever and each generation of college girl passing on intel is easier than ever with social media and texting. At least seeking is still great in other places.
LOL I did not forget, I am expressing frustration that it is not as simple as it used to be only a few years ago. You would think there would be even more college girls selling ass since the cost of living is higher than ever and each generation of college girl passing on intel is easier than ever with social media and texting. At least seeking is still great in other places.The younger GenZ kids parents arent as carefree as boomers were. Millenials were / are generation 304.
They are living at home and they are on cam sites.
More like the last 4-6 months to find quality.
TL DR SB is ungrateful and becomes unhinged because I said no to money for nothing.
Saw her in July for a successful date went off on me recently because I was firm on my rule of not sending money outside of meets. Told me she was sick and needed meds and me she couldn't because she was sick just having been at her dad's. (Why didn't her own dad buy her medicine?) She then listed everything she didn't like about our date despite saying she had a great time LOL.
Display name Serina. Serious GPS but I went along to treat myself for BBFS CIP overnight.
Claims I didn't let her choose the movie when I said "there's a movie *I* want to see, would you like to join me? She could have said no, she said yes. It was my birthday so of course I wanted to do what *I* wanted to do!
Said I didn't let her choose the restaurant when I asked if she liked seafood and she said she loved it and was okay with the spot I chose because she has been there before. She could have suggested another spot. But she did not. Then she claimed I didn't let her choose her meal LOL bullshit! She mused over the menu for a ridiculous amount of time, stepped away to smoke, and came back still not having decided. When asked she responded "oh. Idk" . So I suggest the full course special they offered us and she agreed. Again, having all the freedom to say no and choose her own thing instead. She said yes. Even said she enjoyed her meal.
One valid point was her complaint about the shower in the room being broken but I found this amusing because neither of us had noticed until around midnight and the front desk informed me that there was no maintenance staff on site to repair right then and there. All other rooms were booked out. It was something completely out of my control but she bitched that " I made her stay there". Sorry love, I wasn't exactly stoked you smelled like BO either and came in a dirty wig and dirty dress.
She acted like she was held captive hahaha. She was free to waltz out the door at any time and grab an uber. Best of all she complained about "me using her lotion and it not feeling very mutually beneficial" despite her having gotten her gift amount IN FULL as if she could not have easily bought herself a new bottle LMAO. 2 little pumps for a massage that I asked for and she obliged happily while apparently secretly resenting me for it. Selfish can these brats be? Told me to learn how to be "a real SD and find someone cheaper" and I told her to stfu and learn how to be a real SB who earns her keep instead of being an entitled brat. Classic arrangements always have been mutually beneficial since before the internet, not this delusional bullshit they want it to be.
I then reminded her of my upcoming trip to South America and how I could easily find half a dozen women who go above and beyond and are grateful for what they can get and no wonder tons of US mongers are flying down south. Way to fumble a long term arrangement because you preferred to be an selfish brat!
P.S. Seems I only come here to share bad stories. Just a testament to how far downhill the sugar bowl in Philly has become. I just wanted to have fun clappin College girl cheeks but alas, even those are rare these days. I just want to unwind and have fun again!Link? Who were you even referring to?
Update on this one:
https://members.seeking.com/member/fdb699d3-091b-45f5-8a0e-571f18ed04b7
So after almost months of nothing but tedious time wasting texts, she FINALLY drove to see me. Settled on a rather comfortable amount after her constantly trying to get me to send money before we meet or trying to get me to agree to "online fun. " She came over, exactly the same girl in the pics, very cute, knew how to present herself well. The only problem is she's not very affectionate. No kissing, no hugging, none of that. Wasn't trying to kiss on the mouth once we began. Sex was pretty good, and she does dirty talk, but before we even began she was using some bullshit excuse about her niece and picking her up at a certain blah blah blah blah. She barely came in to my place and is already looking to leave by a certain time like your usual pro setting up a certain time limit. Don't think she even came, she says she did but oh well, it was over in like 30 minutes and again, she isn't frigid or anything, you just can tell she's doing it out of obligation. Once we got dressed, I settled the arrangement with her and even gave her ten extra bucks for gas cause she had finally been considerate enough to drive to me. Sadly, that kind of selflessness was squandered by her not kissing or hugging again. Shook my hand at least but was already trying to get me to give her more for pics and videos. I gave her some load of bs about it being ok now to go see her and maybe giving her stuff for online fun but I meant none of it. Didn't want me to walk her to her car and was already deciding to not see her a second time. This was confirmed when she texted me saying she ran out of gas, couldn't pay for it even though I literally just gave her over 2 bennis and wanted me to send her 40 more bucks. I had enough of her bs and blocked her number.
Not on seeking, she's instead on secret benefits. Absolutely awful garbage fire of a person. The only reason I bothered was to see if I could eventually talk her down. Wants 6 bennis (and she claims that's her lower offer) but for you to go visit her in the Bensalem area. Won't fuck without a condom, but she also basically turns every conversation into a "how much are you going to give / do for me?" like an egotistical narcissist. Just about every conversation with her was completely unpleasant except for the dinner date we did. At that point I simply strung her along and played dumb to see how much I could frustrate her. English isn't even that great. It sucks since she's probably the hottest Indian girl I've meet so far.
Wants 5 just for a meet and greet. 1 k for being intimate. Nope.
https://members.seeking.com/member/2f027790-295d-456e-bd80-a7de4a52fc5e
SteveStone123
09-27-24, 12:41
This profile should be another fake one as the location is showing as Japan.
https://members.seeking.com/member/547e7955-89b1-4a95-85ae-56bd94e2527f
SteveStone123
09-27-24, 12:59
Another fake profile from Japan.
https://members.seeking.com/member/1cce86dd-d817-4c16-a19b-2a140c684992
Its crazy how the site was full to the brim in 2013,2014,2015,2016 and even 2017 to some extent and they did no advertising and now they are constantly marketing on social media sites and their #s must be dropping judging by all the bots that are on the site now.
Demographics is real and so are cam sites!!
Got her number and did some texting. She's submissive, overweight, dtf.
However she wants $500 ppm (seemed like it could be negotiated). Biggest problem for me is she doesn't want to do BB. Not my cup of tea.
https://members.seeking.com/member/b375eb5d-6105-4d6d-9c32-6615569f8035Her new pics show just how big she is. I've had her number for quite a while and reached out a few months ago (before I saw the big, big gal pics). Agreed to 400 but wants to meet at the hotel. No public meet means no-go for me. Given her new profile pics I'm glad she saved me the aggravation.
https://members.seeking.com/member/2ee2cd74-47bc-4bf3-91d4-2c811cb82d10
Met up with her awhile ago for a M&G at a restaurant on Broad street. Was pleasant enough and surprisingly not a rinser. Never pulled the trigger though. Looks like she is trying to cast a wider net now.
https://www.eros.com/pennsylvania/philadelphia/files/1412385.htm
These women always claim not to be SW or Pros and yet they do literally everything that pros do. Won't do it without protection, (even if you provide bullet proof evidence of being STI-free) want tons of money, can't even make it a friendly thing and give a mechanical performance. I didn't do it with her aside from the one date so I won't say all those apply to her as well, but I wouldn't hold my breath.
Previously, if a profile had only 1 pic it's 95% likely a scammer of some kind. That still holds true. However, I have now been coming across 3 pic profiles of scammers. Usually, after I view the profile, the scammer favorites my profile WITHOUT viewing mine. I usually wait a few days to message. Sure enough, after a day or 2 the scammer location is changed to some far off region of the country.
So beware of the 3 pic profile favorite, who doesn't view you. It's likely a dude in his mom's basement looking to scam.
WaltoDerri267
10-03-24, 03:08
KCesar68;7033233]Link? Who were you even referring to?
Goes by Serina or Vee or whatever these days. Cuter in person. Pros: Great body, great blowjob, down for a raw trip to pound town just be prepared with spermicide because she doesn't like plan b or other birth control.
Cons: Asks for 5 bennies. Does not come down. Bad hygiene and shit attitude when she doesn't get her way / free money for nothin LOL.
WaltoDerri267
10-03-24, 03:16
Its crazy how the site was full to the brim in 2013,2014,2015,2016 and even 2017 to some extent and they did no advertising and now they are constantly marketing on social media sites and their #s must be dropping judging by all the bots that are on the site now.
Demographics is real and so are cam sites!!Pains me that gen z is not with the P4 P as one would hope and that I didn't fully take advantage in those golden years because I was too cheap for a 3 bennie ppm not realizing the value. I mean in those days you could also get a fat assed Puerto Rican at motel 6 for 3 Jacksons. And they WEREN'T on drugs. Yet. My successful ventures have been with older Millenials who seem to still be in the game sometimes when they need assistance. However, they are not consistent. Or did not age well. Had a great lay a few months ago with a Temple Alumn, creampie and all, but her tits were lopsided and asked for drinks just to renege on her earlier promise to stay the night. Eh. I held out hope all of 2023 with multiple seeking dates, most of which were fun, but I could not find one consistent person for a reasonable agreement. I will share my positive reports soon as now I have more free time. I got to offset my negative reports LOL.
KCesar68;7033233]Link? Who were you even referring to?
Goes by Serina or Vee or whatever these days. Cuter in person. Pros: Great body, great blowjob, down for a raw trip to pound town just be prepared with spermicide because she doesn't like plan b or other birth control.
Cons: Asks for 5 bennies. Does not come down. Bad hygiene and shit attitude when she doesn't get her way / free money for nothin LOL.https://members.seeking.com/member/6ccbf173-b157-4216-bed6-a4c04a1d2ab8
Her? Only "Zee" I could find.
Pains me that gen z is not with the P4 P as one would hope and that I didn't fully take advantage in those golden years because I was too cheap for a 3 bennie ppm not realizing the value. I mean in those days you could also get a fat assed Puerto Rican at motel 6 for 3 Jacksons. And they WEREN'T on drugs. Yet. My successful ventures have been with older Millenials who seem to still be in the game sometimes when they need assistance. However, they are not consistent. Or did not age well. Had a great lay a few months ago with a Temple Alumn, creampie and all, but her tits were lopsided and asked for drinks just to renege on her earlier promise to stay the night. Eh. I held out hope all of 2023 with multiple seeking dates, most of which were fun, but I could not find one consistent person for a reasonable agreement. I will share my positive reports soon as now I have more free time. I got to offset my negative reports LOL.Yeah dude, I've been on a single mom spree for the past year or so and its mostly millenials, late 20's to mid 30's. Totally hear you on the golden years thing as far as pay / economics goes. I didn't really have the $$ back then in the beginning but was able to make it happen and I regret not just forking out a few hundred more for a few girls I passed up on because I was being cheap. I've had alot of good experiences and as I enter my my late 30's I'm starting to slow down. I've been doing this for over a decade now and I'm kind of over it. The lack of options, high prices and declining quality along with a lower libido have made it less appealing. I'd like to try normal dating again but everyone I talk to says its a complete waste of time. I'm sure I could get a gf if I really wanted to but I'm just not a simp anymore and have seen enough of these modern 304's where I don't want them messing up my life. I dont beg women to have sex with me and im used to getting that gawk gawk 3000 when I want, i aint doin choreplay to get some neck dropped on me, ya heard!! lol
I got lucky on my trip down south and found a nice 23 year old Gen Z blonde girl I met at the beach, filled her up big with a big creampie.
The younger ones are out there but they are few and far between and you're going to have to pay up. Good luck to all of why'all!
https://members.seeking.com/member/2ee2cd74-47bc-4bf3-91d4-2c811cb82d10
Met up with her awhile ago for a M&G at a restaurant on Broad street. Was pleasant enough and surprisingly not a rinser. Never pulled the trigger though. Looks like she is trying to cast a wider net now.
https://www.eros.com/pennsylvania/philadelphia/files/1412385.htm
These women always claim not to be SW or Pros and yet they do literally everything that pros do. Won't do it without protection, (even if you provide bullet proof evidence of being STI-free) want tons of money, can't even make it a friendly thing and give a mechanical performance. I didn't do it with her aside from the one date so I won't say all those apply to her as well, but I wouldn't hold my breath.I met her for a meet and greet a couple years ago on North Broad St. She was ok. But messaging afterword she was abrasive so I never followed through.
Yeah dude, I've been on a single mom spree for the past year or so and its mostly millenials, late 20's to mid 30's. Totally hear you on the golden years thing as far as pay / economics goes. I didn't really have the $$ back then in the beginning but was able to make it happen and I regret not just forking out a few hundred more for a few girls I passed up on because I was being cheap. I've had alot of good experiences and as I enter my my late 30's I'm starting to slow down. I've been doing this for over a decade now and I'm kind of over it. The lack of options, high prices and declining quality along with a lower libido have made it less appealing. I'd like to try normal dating again but everyone I talk to says its a complete waste of time. I'm sure I could get a gf if I really wanted to but I'm just not a simp anymore and have seen enough of these modern 304's where I don't want them messing up my life. I dont beg women to have sex with me and im used to getting that gawk gawk 3000 when I want, i aint doin choreplay to get some neck dropped on me, ya heard!! lol..I have a 24 year old with a perfect body that love to fuq and take nuts. If you're looking for "services" you're going to fail with actual sugar babys that are 18- 26. There are hookers on in that age range and on the site but I'm on Seek to get away from hookers. NO judgement at all if that's what you want. There's room fr all of us. The pickens are slim though. Communication on their level is key, as is confidence.
A lot of big gals on here lately. Pickens are slimmer (ironic) than ever.
https://members.seeking.com/member/62b21c68-40c4-4197-be89-a796514e4987
This one is kind of cute. Lives in the northeast supposedly. Has an hourly rate. I don't know the damage but if you are looking for that hit her up.
WaltoDerri267
10-07-24, 21:08
https://members.seeking.com/member/6ccbf173-b157-4216-bed6-a4c04a1d2ab8
Her? Only "Zee" I could find.Her. Looks crazy in some pics for sure but she was cuter in person but not the most hygienic. One of those hippie girls that sells crystals.
https://members.seeking.com/member/39fcb711-ce4c-49e6-a935-a0fec561adb0??locale=en_USS
WaltoDerri267
10-07-24, 21:27
https://members.seeking.com/member/2ee2cd74-47bc-4bf3-91d4-2c811cb82d10
Met up with her awhile ago for a M&G at a restaurant on Broad street. Was pleasant enough and surprisingly not a rinser. Never pulled the trigger though. Looks like she is trying to cast a wider net now.
https://www.eros.com/pennsylvania/philadelphia/files/1412385.htm
These women always claim not to be SW or Pros and yet they do literally everything that pros do. Won't do it without protection, (even if you provide bullet proof evidence of being STI-free) want tons of money, can't even make it a friendly thing and give a mechanical performance. I didn't do it with her aside from the one date so I won't say all those apply to her as well, but I wouldn't hold my breath.How much did she ask for? She's hot AND thick? I might bite.
WaltoDerri267
10-07-24, 21:30
Yeah dude, I've been on a single mom spree for the past year or so and its mostly millenials, late 20's to mid 30's. Totally hear you on the golden years thing as far as pay / economics goes. I didn't really have the $$ back then in the beginning but was able to make it happen and I regret not just forking out a few hundred more for a few girls I passed up on because I was being cheap. I've had alot of good experiences and as I enter my my late 30's I'm starting to slow down. I've been doing this for over a decade now and I'm kind of over it. The lack of options, high prices and declining quality along with a lower libido have made it less appealing. I'd like to try normal dating again but everyone I talk to says its a complete waste of time. I'm sure I could get a gf if I really wanted to but I'm just not a simp anymore and have seen enough of these modern 304's where I don't want them messing up my life. I dont beg women to have sex with me and im used to getting that gawk gawk 3000 when I want, i aint doin choreplay to get some neck dropped on me, ya heard!! lol
I got lucky on my trip down south and found a nice 23 year old Gen Z blonde girl I met at the beach, filled her up big with a big creampie.
The younger ones are out there but they are few and far between and you're going to have to pay up. Good luck to all of why'all!Yeah man, there was also the risk of my secret getting out if my account happened to be seen by someone I knew as I also went to Temple at the time. I should have risked it for at least one hot white girl to cream pie in. Now theyre all probably snatched up and engaged to men who are none the wiser they sold ass in college LOL.
I will say there is still hope for seeking in other parts of the country and definitely in other countries. Brazil is lacking though, GPS is catching up to them. Going to stick to the local cheap pros.
Wants 1 k ppm. No thanks. Next.
https://members.seeking.com/member/620d6d10-5955-4f54-8d2c-a8bc4f4460b3
First red flag- Wanted to communicate over telegram.
Second red flag- she wanted to host the first meeting.
Third- She wants babysitting money before we meet.
Of course, a scammer.
Next!!
https://members.seeking.com/member/fbacb9ad-cf73-4f8b-a17d-3798a0f742b8
How much did she ask for? She's hot AND thick? I might bite.She didn't look thick to me. But she also won't do anything without first meeting for a M&G. She won't rinse though, she legit wants to know you first. She said 5 bennis but like another person on here said, she's not much in the way of endearing herself to you. I think there was a single time when she actually become a little coquette but the rest of the time it's too business-why.
After we were done the m&g I fucking offered her a ride home so she would save on the Uber and she fucking wanted me to give her 50 for it. . .
Her reply to meeting up:
"I would need some kind of help to save your spot. I'm very busy girl. " Scammer I assume (though valid photo).
Then: "Meeting up with me will probably ruin hooking up with other girls boring" Exact quote.
https://members.seeking.com/member/10837386-d233-4ef0-9dd3-7ac36bbb23e3
Another member of the 1 k ppm club. Nope, not for me.
Next.
https://members.seeking.com/member/7f4870ff-dce9-4846-bcb8-8a431a29053d
https://members.seeking.com/member/d4cb4005-7751-4721-a88c-7a9e68d7b7d4
Reported her before when she tried to scam / blackmail me. She even took pictures of my car and license plate trying to scare me with them. Be sure to report her.
https://members.seeking.com/member/d4cb4005-7751-4721-a88c-7a9e68d7b7d4
Reported her before when she tried to scam / blackmail me. She even took pictures of my car and license plate trying to scare me with them. Be sure to report her.PM me I have some history with her as well and can possibly help.
SeekingSkank
10-21-24, 07:13
When I called her on her scam and told her the first time I was reporting her she said "so what, Ill just make a new account".
I just take her conversation and keep reporting her. LOL!
https://members.seeking.com/member/d4cb4005-7751-4721-a88c-7a9e68d7b7d4
Reported her before when she tried to scam / blackmail me. She even took pictures of my car and license plate trying to scare me with them. Be sure to report her.
I have a nice reliable one if someone wants to get her info in exchange for this one's new number:
https://members.seeking.com/member/c1292ef6-c04a-4f90-889f-65361651da5a
I had her old one but I was trying to reconnect. DM me if you have any news on her.
When I called her on her scam and told her the first time I was reporting her she said "so what, Ill just make a new account".
I just take her conversation and keep reporting her. LOL!Yeah I have the texts also of when she tried to black mail me. I report her too. It's so fucking that seeking bans your alt accounts if you have a paid one for some stupid rule but they keep on letting scumbag scammers like her back on to the site.
Another member of the 1 k ppm club. Nope, not for me.
Next.
https://members.seeking.com/member/7f4870ff-dce9-4846-bcb8-8a431a29053dI'm messaging with her now as well. Haven't gotten to the $$ ask yet. That would make four who have asked for that. Not worth it to me.
She might be real. Seems engaging. Wanted to have adventures and witty banter. Then, she unlocked her private pics. She's 30 lbs heavier now. With a 5'2" frame that is just too much for me. The profile pic has to be 5 years old. Pre-pandemic weight gain.
I'll pass. I won't pay a lady that big.
https://members.seeking.com/member/453a3a3a-d6ce-4955-a854-25e447e4be22
She might be real. Seems engaging. Wanted to have adventures and witty banter. Then, she unlocked her private pics. She's 30 lbs heavier now. With a 5'2" frame that is just too much for me. The profile pic has to be 5 years old. Pre-pandemic weight gain.
I'll pass. I won't pay a lady that big.
https://members.seeking.com/member/453a3a3a-d6ce-4955-a854-25e447e4be22Damn dude you were NOT kidding and 30 lbs seems pretty generous too. And the absolute worst part of all is, None of it went to her tits. They look almost the same in her profile pic and that pic of her in the black beach outfit. Absolutely tragic.
I can attest that she is real. Teenage enthusiasm in the fit body of a forty-something. If you're just looking to throw your money around without time and substance she's not for you.
https://members.seeking.com/member/b7a5f0b0-abeb-4e38-813f-1b3f9f0771baI had an unusual correspondence with Aurora. I messaged her and she responded, "I think you are searching for someone younger" Huh? I responded, "My previous sugar partner was 35. Not far off from your age. " Her next response was, " I can't meet once a week".
She just was very negative in her responses. If she'd doesn't dig my look just block me. LOL.
Any gents have info about her? Is this even real? Is she a member of the 1 k ppm club? She reads my messages but never responds.
https://members.seeking.com/member/4b1ab2ce-2675-4487-ba42-9124d7deebb2
https://members.seeking.com/member/898c3d16-af9f-4114-aea7-654be358912f
Anyone know what's up with this one? Insane body with genuinely big breasts that honestly could give a non-boob job porn star a run for her money but she isn't fake apparently cause she I'd'ed. Anyone talk to her?
Pathfinder04
10-28-24, 10:15
https://members.seeking.com/member/6cac92a7-215d-44ed-8172-2c5cb27c4e1d
Getting big scammer vibes from this one. She goes to text and is very responsive, and her identity checks out. However once you get chatting, the requests for money start coming in. She won't actually meet but she always has some emergency that requires 75 or $100. I dropped the convo, If one of you guys actually gets together with her let me know.
Pathfinder04
10-28-24, 16:37
She might be real. Seems engaging. Wanted to have adventures and witty banter. Then, she unlocked her private pics. She's 30 lbs heavier now. With a 5'2" frame that is just too much for me. The profile pic has to be 5 years old. Pre-pandemic weight gain.
I'll pass. I won't pay a lady that big.
https://members.seeking.com/member/453a3a3a-d6ce-4955-a854-25e447e4be22Curvy blondes are my weakness, and she is super nice, but I'm not paying her the "$600 - $2 K" she quoted me. I didn't bother countering.
PiesOnlyPlz
10-28-24, 20:09
I reactivated my SA account after a long hiatus. This one below reached out to me this evening. She was straight to the point, and actually a bit pushy about me coming over tonight. Assuming she isn't a scam, she's definitely a pro (maybe she's already been mentioned here). She quoted me $$$ but the main event has to be wrapped up. Which for me is a no go. I'm going to pass but maybe she makes sense for you.
https://members.seeking.com/member/67d1246e-5919-451d-9484-c270e84bd8a4
She's real. Works weekdays until 500 pm. She will take a long lunch for an hour and do a car date in West Chester. I'm not a fan of a car date especially when the lady wants the full ppm for the experience. Not worth it to me. If you can meet in the evenings she might be a good fit or you. We didn't talk money, just schedule.
https://members.seeking.com/member/0628e1fe-718e-415c-bf87-8e08d56334c9
She's real. Works weekdays until 500 pm. She will take a long lunch for an hour and do a car date in West Chester. I'm not a fan of a car date especially when the lady wants the full ppm for the experience. Not worth it to me. If you can meet in the evenings she might be a good fit or you. We didn't talk money, just schedule.
https://members.seeking.com/member/0628e1fe-718e-415c-bf87-8e08d56334c9"Honestly if you don't have an iPhone I'm probably going to think you're not a real person."
Cringe as fck. That alone is reason to not really bother. Seriously, if you worship iphones that much that you think other people don't even have any kind of other phone, and one that is actually good, you can go right to hell. Stuck up ****. From the profile alone you can tell she wants a piggy bank not a SD.
https://members.seeking.com/member/51928748-22da-4e0c-83c9-9b421210c9e7
Wants to do monthly allowance of over 3 k. Says she won't do ppm cause "people meet once then that's it" Gee, I wonder why. Told her to try Mr. Bezos or Mr. Musk then blocked her ridiculous ass.
Rubber Ducky Boston
10-30-24, 17:50
https://members.seeking.com/member/51928748-22da-4e0c-83c9-9b421210c9e7
Wants to do monthly allowance of over 3 k. Says she won't do ppm cause "people meet once then that's it" Gee, I wonder why. Told her to try Mr. Bezos or Mr. Musk then blocked her ridiculous ass.Dang, she's not attractive enough that I'd date her for free even.
https://members.seeking.com/member/4b1a8cfb-2b3b-4501-990b-65b77efa9c8b
I had a lot of interest in this one with her simultaneous appearance of girl next door and low-tier model so I resubbed. Total rinser. Wants a 'tip' for meeting up for dinner the first time, wants to have multiple meets before a decision, won't talk about the amount over text, has to discuss it in person. If not a tip she asked if I would cover her parking and gas for the meets. JFC. All the classic tactics. A shame. Didn't really make it to amounts because I told her that nickel and dime crap about covering her "costs" just makes her sound like a stuck up hooker and not a FWB / SD style arrangement.
https://members.seeking.com/member/e7ddffad-e61b-48b2-a026-aaf7b922afe4
Entire look and pics screamed "want to be Kardashian". I'm surprised she even bothered replying to me at all. I'll let you read the rest for yourself.
https://members.seeking.com/member/4b1a8cfb-2b3b-4501-990b-65b77efa9c8b
I had a lot of interest in this one with her simultaneous appearance of girl next door and low-tier model so I resubbed. Total rinser. Wants a 'tip' for meeting up for dinner the first time, wants to have multiple meets before a decision, won't talk about the amount over text, has to discuss it in person. If not a tip she asked if I would cover her parking and gas for the meets. JFC. All the classic tactics. A shame. Didn't really make it to amounts because I told her that nickel and dime crap about covering her "costs" just makes her sound like a stuck up hooker and not a FWB / SD style arrangement.Actually I think she's a stuck up stripper. A friend of mine spoke with her and she wanted to meet him at the club she was dancing. Stripper bullshit ploy. Not worth the time.
She's real. Looks like her pics. Tiny and tight. (That dress pic exaggerates her bust size. She's not that big) I didn't find her face all that attractive, but I'm no Brad Pitt either. We had a productive meet and greet. Agreed on 4 ppm and she agreed to meet in a few days. I gave her a small gift for showing up and agreeing to move forward. Turns out she won't meet for an intimate date. She's a rinser who plays the long game. Clever girl. NO intention of developing an arrangement. At least, not with me.
https://members.seeking.com/member/d44272d3-d898-4976-8c6e-2225f6974488
Actually I think she's a stuck up stripper. A friend of mine spoke with her and she wanted to meet him at the club she was dancing. Stripper bullshit ploy. Not worth the time.Yup, she sent me pics of her on one of those giant dancing rings. She's not even that skinny and doesn't make up for it with big D cups or bigger. I was hoping she wouldn't be a total *****, but alas, she decided she wanted to go the "pay me money" route instead of the "I want to have sex with a friend but with that bonus at the end" route that is a lot more casual makes it more GFE.
I reactivated my SA account after a long hiatus. This one below reached out to me this evening. She was straight to the point, and actually a bit pushy about me coming over tonight. Assuming she isn't a scam, she's definitely a pro (maybe she's already been mentioned here). She quoted me $$$ but the main event has to be wrapped up. Which for me is a no go. I'm going to pass but maybe she makes sense for you.
https://members.seeking.com/member/67d1246e-5919-451d-9484-c270e84bd8a4Couldn't meet her right away and she started with trying to sell me content, she really needs the money, please help, blah blah blah. Red flag, probably drugs.
Her new pics show just how big she is. I've had her number for quite a while and reached out a few months ago (before I saw the big, big gal pics). Agreed to 400 but wants to meet at the hotel. No public meet means no-go for me. Given her new profile pics I'm glad she saved me the aggravation.She looks kinda cute. I don't have premium privileges on SA. Can anyone help me connect with her, please. Would appreciate it.
She looks kinda cute. I don't have premium privileges on SA. Can anyone help me connect with her, please. Would appreciate it.And what are you going to do to pay us back for helping you? It's not just women, (especially these SB hos) that don't like moochers. Sub isn't a 20 dollar expenditure.
https://members.seeking.com/member/b5a1e931-3a27-40b1-b20a-a87e33356a60
Managed to make contact with her. Looks hot but no verifications and contact number did not match. Can't host either. Wanted to know my price range per meet and I told her about the lunatic that wanted 3. 2 k a month so I explained I'd rather hear her price. Might have been a mistake since she then replied with 2.3 to meet 3 x a month. IOW 766 ro$es. Kept trying to ask convince me that If I had been looking for a year (I hadn't, that's just what I let her think) that it's a long time to wait and she's a good "price" (but they're not hookers, amirite? XD) for her in her early 20's for being "hot and tight" but I wasn't buying it. Had her do a verification pic to make sure she's even real then pretended I was cool with 7 bennis just for per meet, not a monthly thing. I'm now just going to keep leading her on until she gets pissed and stops contacting me.
https://members.seeking.com/member/6ee52ede-e839-4ea2-813e-8a4c4df28855
Another time waster who says she's "not a hooker", but still wants to be paid. Look, I don't mind it being more of a friendly kind of arrangement, I think everyone wants that, but when bitches like her then Also want to spend time doing non-sexual things because they don't want to feel like prostitutes and won't even put out, what is the point of this when you could try traditional dates and hope to score? The whole reason to this kind of arrangement is skipping all that crap. She's not even in her 20's and really young or really hot to justify the effort. I'm a sucker for big titties like hers on a curvier body but this BS isn't worth it. She said she isn't into meeting right now and wants to "create a connection" so the usual pipe dream of getting a hot guy that she is romantically attracted to And is going to pay for her middle-aged fat body. Called her out on it and she of course blocked me on seeking but still got her pics. At least I can jerk off to her private photos, as unremarkable as they might be.
https://members.seeking.com/member/898c3d16-af9f-4114-aea7-654be358912f
Got a hold of this one. Same shlt. Looking for chemistry to casually date and not make it feel so transactional. Ok, sure lady, whatever you say. Started off with a woe-is-me story about being super stressed out about financial things. She constantly changes her location to a million different places. I guess she either realized I was on to her crap or she just randomly blocks people but I did get blocked out of nowhere. Says she lives in Toms River NJ so not even remotely close to Philly. Now her profile says she's in Texas so don't count on her even meeting up.
https://members.seeking.com/member/6ee52ede-e839-4ea2-813e-8a4c4df28855
Another time waster who says she's "not a hooker", but still wants to be paid. Look, I don't mind it being more of a friendly kind of arrangement, I think everyone wants that, but when bitches like her then Also want to spend time doing non-sexual things because they don't want to feel like prostitutes and won't even put out, what is the point of this when you could try traditional dates and hope to score? The whole reason to this kind of arrangement is skipping all that crap. She's not even in her 20's and really young or really hot to justify the effort. I'm a sucker for big titties like hers on a curvier body but this BS isn't worth it. She said she isn't into meeting right now and wants to "create a connection" so the usual pipe dream of getting a hot guy that she is romantically attracted to And is going to pay for her middle-aged fat body. Called her out on it and she of course blocked me on seeking but still got her pics. At least I can jerk off to her private photos, as unremarkable as they might be.
https://members.seeking.com/member/898c3d16-af9f-4114-aea7-654be358912f
Got a hold of this one. Same shlt. Looking for chemistry to casually date and not make it feel so transactional. Ok, sure lady, whatever you say. Started off with a woe-is-me story about being super stressed out about financial things. She constantly changes her location to a million different places. I guess she either realized I was on to her crap or she just randomly blocks people but I did get blocked out of nowhere. Says she lives in Toms River NJ so not even remotely close to Philly. Now her profile says she's in Texas so don't count on her even meeting up.I could be wrong but I swear the first one was an escort on all the major boards at the time in the Philly / SNJ area in the 2010-11 range and went by the name Independent Sarah.
https://members.seeking.com/member/7c562cca-3a5b-4c0c-8f49-10a1321b6861
Rinser. Wants 100 for meeting for drinks. Tried to pass it off as what happens "in general" and I called her out for her bull. The usual sour grapes insults when I told her she shouldn't try to rinse other guys.
There's a "Kendra" from Allentown that I already blocked who was an obvious scam. Cute freckled redhead but with a Kentucky area code and she "just moved there."
She's real. She can only meet evenings and weekends. Works 9-5 during the week. That won't fit my schedule. Hopefully she finds her match. Spoke to her and she sounds intelligent and sexy.
Oh well.
https://members.seeking.com/member/9c532d73-d2c3-4098-b1cf-8c60ccf9ebac
While I'm not a fan of lip filler I still gave this lady a shot. She's another member of the 1 k ppm club. Too much for me both in allowance ask and lips. Next.
https://members.seeking.com/member/2ac31a9d-a5eb-4faf-9c8e-b369110660cc
MisterMister46
11-15-24, 18:16
https://members.seeking.com/member/775df36a-f261-4ce1-8f33-619f88a74e0c
Initially wouldn't say how much to meet, but eventually told me 2 k. Yeah no thanks.
https://members.seeking.com/member/96cee1dd-5a3c-4b2b-b49a-f711a9bf8b60
Knew she was going to be a stuck-up time wasting POS but she insisted she wasn't going to string me along despite the fact I already knew she would so I just made plans with others while I waited to see what she'd do. Wishy washy attitude with the maybes and not moving to text or even really talking about the arrangement. Never met up like she said she would so I called her out.
https://members.seeking.com/member/55c90347-1c2b-4f80-bf1b-9942e7727363
This one is pretty much also kind of a wasted effort. She looks ok and is down to meet right away but wasn't willing to go raw, even though I'm tested. Wanted 4 bennis. Later on I found this:
https://skipthegames.com/posts/philadelphia/female-escorts/caucasian_e/cute-thin-brunette-looking-to-/482820078293
But REMEMBER guys! They're not hookers. They only ask you for your money and are willing to offer up their box but NO WAY are they pros. Riiiiight. I'm going to mess with her for a bit.
https://members.seeking.com/member/775df36a-f261-4ce1-8f33-619f88a74e0c
Initially wouldn't say how much to meet, but eventually told me 2 k. Yeah no thanks.She has 2 active profiles. A friend had a meet and greet with her. She wanted 1 k ppm for an arrangement then. This is why she's on the site ALL THE TIME. Very few dudes will pay her tariff. I guess she finds 1 a month so she's satisfied with that. The dudes obviously don't stick around.
https://members.seeking.com/member/7df13422-66a6-4a6b-ab4f-3bd5e4ede456
This lady won't meet in public. Straight to behind closed doors. That's not my thing. Likely the pics are fake. I'll pass.
https://members.seeking.com/member/83d109db-82f9-46c9-bf05-ccd497cc127a
https://members.seeking.com/member/bfd850f8-5a58-4710-8d92-4a2246667fb6
Awful from the start. Just 5 texts in and gives me a sob story about her kid needing diapers cause of a stomach ailment. Can't meet because she can't leave her alone with the sitter with no diapers / wipes. When I said about how she was begging already she blocked me on the site, but I pretended I wanted to try and have a clean slate so I could kick her when she was down through texting. What a piece of garbage.
https://members.seeking.com/member/bfd850f8-5a58-4710-8d92-4a2246667fb6
Awful from the start. Just 5 texts in and gives me a sob story about her kid needing diapers cause of a stomach ailment. Can't meet because she can't leave her alone with the sitter with no diapers / wipes. When I said about how she was begging already she blocked me on the site, but I pretended I wanted to try and have a clean slate so I could kick her when she was down through texting. What a piece of garbage.Got to love, cum dumpsters. They make awful decisions, and then think simps will pay for it.
PiesOnlyPlz
11-19-24, 14:58
https://members.seeking.com/member/34468f7a-7359-4bf2-afac-b706b2b0add3
I think she's a rinser. Before discussing any details, she wants a platonic dinner date. I don't have time for dinner dates without knowing me and the lady are on the same page.
https://members.seeking.com/member/1cf42d4d-2f75-40a9-a17d-6e9baaf665d2
Thought this one would be an easy score since she has a *dirty girl" type of look. But she wants me to purchase content before meeting. 😒.
https://members.seeking.com/member/423f3560-edf0-4200-81d7-371d75101291
Seems real. Quoted me $$$$ a meet. Can't host. I didn't move forward.
DasHottCalla
11-19-24, 17:26
https://members.seeking.com/member/178f3493-120c-40fa-941d-79cc0038fb56
Went on a date with this one got intimate at her place. Gave requested allowance (4). Decided not to see her or talk to her any more. Come to find out she took a pic of me and posted on the "are we dating the same guy website" found my wife, brother, and basically texted them all the details. Probably stay away from this one. She seems mentally unstable.
https://members.seeking.com/member/178f3493-120c-40fa-941d-79cc0038fb56
Went on a date with this one got intimate at her place. Gave requested allowance (4). Decided not to see her or talk to her any more. Come to find out she took a pic of me and posted on the "are we dating the same guy website" found my wife, brother, and basically texted them all the details. Probably stay away from this one. She seems mentally unstable.ROFL. Serves you right.
MisterMister46
11-19-24, 20:17
https://members.seeking.com/member/178f3493-120c-40fa-941d-79cc0038fb56
Went on a date with this one got intimate at her place. Gave requested allowance (4). Decided not to see her or talk to her any more. Come to find out she took a pic of me and posted on the "are we dating the same guy website" found my wife, brother, and basically texted them all the details. Probably stay away from this one. She seems mentally unstable.Wow, thank you for the warning. Did she try to blackmail you? If so, maybe you can press charges.
https://members.seeking.com/member/a940f564-49fc-45e2-9ca9-6fd21aec4359
Won't chat on Seek- insists on switching to text immediately. Dropped rates and said she gets half when she's in the uber on the way. I asked for a confirmation pic and she actually sent one. Everything else is a scam though- refers to herself as an escort- but that's a couple steps up from what she is.
DasHottCalla
11-20-24, 05:45
Wow, thank you for the warning. Did she try to blackmail you? If so, maybe you can press charges.She didn't ask for additional money. Just seemed as if she wanted to prolong the arrangement. She's just being a terrorist since I'm not responding to her. Sending me screenshots of pictures of me and my kids, of my wife’s Facebook profile. Shes now tryna find out where I work for some reason
DasHottCalla
11-20-24, 05:46
ROFL. Serves you right. Are you ok buddy? A post to give a heads up To fellow brothers in this lifestyle warrants this response?
She didn't ask for additional money. Just seemed as if she wanted to prolong the arrangement. She's just being a terrorist since I'm not responding to her. Sending me screenshots of pictures of me and my kids, of my wifes Facebook profile. Shes now tryna find out where I work for some reasonI had a nut ass or 2 try shit like this. Hope it goes away but I suspect it won't. As for others laughing about it after you do us the solid of warning us. That's just screwed up. They're the kind of people that will do things like tell a reviewed SB who is great fun that they were reviewed on here. In order to gain favor with them. This is why there aren't solid reviews on this thread anymore. Not accusing the laugher of doing this just saying it's the same energy.
We message back-and-forth for about a week and then she states 1 k for meet and great LOL.
https://members.seeking.com/member/5550f6e0-e957-4c40-9ff0-f975835880a6
https://members.seeking.com/member/178f3493-120c-40fa-941d-79cc0038fb56
Went on a date with this one got intimate at her place. Gave requested allowance (4). Decided not to see her or talk to her any more. Come to find out she took a pic of me and posted on the "are we dating the same guy website" found my wife, brother, and basically texted them all the details. Probably stay away from this one. She seems mentally unstable.You should post her pic here for the rest of us who aren't on Seeking.
DasHottCalla
11-21-24, 06:48
I had a nut ass or 2 try shit like this. Hope it goes away but I suspect it won't. As for others laughing about it after you do us the solid of warning us. That's just screwed up. They're the kind of people that will do things like tell a reviewed SB who is great fun that they were reviewed on here. In order to gain favor with them. This is why there aren't solid reviews on this thread anymore. Not accusing the laugher of doing this just saying it's the same energy.She's a nut for sure. She's in the Wilmington Delaware area. I think I was able to solve the problem though. It looks like she deleted her profile so I'll attach some pictures. As for the laughing dude, I think you're 100% on the spot. I didn't post to seek pity. Genuinely trying to warn others. Wife or not, I think all of us value discretion. I don't believe anyone will get that with her. Just a very trashy person all around.
Having a hard time uploading with the file size restrictions. I uploaded it on another site
https://tinypic.host/image/IMG-5248.2mwT1v
https://tinypic.host/image/IMG-5239.2mwOgm
She's a nut for sure. She's in the Wilmington Delaware area. I think I was able to solve the problem though. It looks like she deleted her profile so I'll attach some pictures. As for the laughing dude, I think you're 100% on the spot. I didn't post to seek pity. Genuinely trying to warn others. Wife or not, I think all of us value discretion. I don't believe anyone will get that with her. Just a very trashy person all around.
Having a hard time uploading with the file size restrictions. I uploaded it on another site
https://tinypic.host/image/IMG-5248.2mwT1v
https://tinypic.host/image/IMG-5239.2mwOgmDude that sucks and sorry to hear. I almost meant her a few months ago but she kept asking personal questions. You can't be to careful with some of these crazy ones and thanks for the heads up.
SouthRidge224
11-21-24, 12:20
Dude that sucks and sorry to hear. I almost meant her a few months ago but she kept asking personal questions. You can't be to careful with some of these crazy ones and thanks for the heads up.I saw her a few years ago. My experience wasn't great either.
https://members.seeking.com/member/12cc52ad-c227-47f6-ada0-e18cc5a213a3
Hooker that's angry AF.
https://members.seeking.com/member/a940f564-49fc-45e2-9ca9-6fd21aec4359
Hooker scam- Wants half up front when they're "in the uber" LOLOLOL.
https://members.seeking.com/member/9159603b-1169-4b7c-a29b-5569563f25dc
Hooker- wants 1 k.
https://members.seeking.com/member/73689aa2-42d7-4c09-93c8-24b742b9940a
Feels like a heavy drug user. Recommend avoiding.
https://members.seeking.com/member/bf0ffb43-8179-4912-9df2-c8f18048cc7f
Real and cool but expensive- I didn't get a taste, found hotter girl.
https://members.seeking.com/member/12cc52ad-c227-47f6-ada0-e18cc5a213a3
Hooker that's angry AF.
https://members.seeking.com/member/a940f564-49fc-45e2-9ca9-6fd21aec4359
Hooker scam- Wants half up front when they're "in the uber" LOLOLOL.
https://members.seeking.com/member/9159603b-1169-4b7c-a29b-5569563f25dc
Hooker- wants 1 k.
https://members.seeking.com/member/73689aa2-42d7-4c09-93c8-24b742b9940a
Feels like a heavy drug user. Recommend avoiding.
https://members.seeking.com/member/bf0ffb43-8179-4912-9df2-c8f18048cc7f
Real and cool but expensive- I didn't get a taste, found hotter girl.
MisterMister46
11-23-24, 13:29
https://members.seeking.com/member/fcd465e1-bf7c-4a05-8187-8ede2f7a5399
Lulu: Wants 800 per meet along with jewelry, flowers, nice dinners, other gifts, and will only meet at fancy hotels.
https://members.seeking.com/member/10837386-d233-4ef0-9dd3-7ac36bbb23e3
Lindsay: Didn't get the ppm rate, but she wants you to buy a video before meeting. For what it's worth, this one didn't seem like the other scams and she may be real. But I never ever send money beforehand, so I declined.
https://members.seeking.com/member/12cc52ad-c227-47f6-ada0-e18cc5a213a3
Ali: 500 per meet along with being spoiled.
https://members.seeking.com/member/453a3a3a-d6ce-4955-a854-25e447e4be22
Liberty: Asked for 600 - 2 k.
https://members.seeking.com/member/db4e9122-4d2a-4d9b-baf4-b18d9ee66d98
Lyss: Also asked for 500.
CharlieSteel
11-23-24, 21:20
Pretty. Bright brown eyes. Silken hair. Creamy soft skin. Great bod. Big puffy suckable nips. Sassy. Daring and adventurous. Desperate to please. Daddy issues. Tight pussy. Loves it up the ass. Rims like a champ. Vocally multi-orgasmic. A squirter. You probably couldn't build too many women from scratch with better specifications, and especially not a college-aged SB. This one is definitely one of my ATFs. She will coyly smile as she makes an explosive sound with her lips off my cock like it is a lollipop, lick me sloppily up and down, and give me that come hither look as she coos, "I want Daddy to fuck me REALLY hard. Baby needs Daddy's big cock. Pretty please?" Then she DTs me to the hilt with those big liquid eyes staring up at me as her tongue swirls and flutters. It is all I can do not to pop right then and there. But delaying gets me quite ready to fuck her brains out in every imaginable position as she squeals in delight while begging me to do it harder and faster.
Life IS very good my brothers.Can I still find her anywhere does she have a contact.
SeekingSkank
11-27-24, 11:16
Pretty. Bright brown eyes. Silken hair. Creamy soft skin. Great bod. Big puffy suckable nips. Sassy. Daring and adventurous. Desperate to please. Daddy issues. Tight pussy. Loves it up the ass. Rims like a champ. Vocally multi-orgasmic. A squirter. You probably couldn't build too many women from scratch with better specifications, and especially not a college-aged SB. This one is definitely one of my ATFs. She will coyly smile as she makes an explosive sound with her lips off my cock like it is a lollipop, lick me sloppily up and down, and give me that come hither look as she coos, "I want Daddy to fuck me REALLY hard. Baby needs Daddy's big cock. Pretty please?" Then she DTs me to the hilt with those big liquid eyes staring up at me as her tongue swirls and flutters. It is all I can do not to pop right then and there. But delaying gets me quite ready to fuck her brains out in every imaginable position as she squeals in delight while begging me to do it harder and faster..What a great experience! Thank you for the lift LOL. Any chance I can DM you for a contact?
What a great experience! Thank you for the lift LOL. Any chance I can DM you for a contact?Try clicking on the actual post. It was from 5 years ago.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/63cdcafcffcd58ae
https://members.seeking.com/member/34468f7a-7359-4bf2-afac-b706b2b0add3
Getting ready to meet with this one wanted to know if anyone had been able to seal the deal with her and if this art teacher is any good.
I posted about her in the Baltimore forum, but I figure it should be mentioned here as well. Sarah claims to be single, attending school in Baltimore, and that her home is near Philly. Upon further research, she has a boyfriend and that she looks to be attending school in PA. Sarah is only looking for online only anyways, so avoid this one.
https://members.seeking.com/member/9e60c950-578b-45f0-b73b-9702110f7a63
https://members.seeking.com/member/a598e8fa-d09b-45ca-b01b-f16b3fdbe024
Pro- pics seem real but maybe outdated. Asked for a lot.
Pretty dry on the site lately. I have a couple young hotties I'm banging but always want more LOL.
MisterMister46
11-29-24, 14:16
https://members.seeking.com/member/10837386-d233-4ef0-9dd3-7ac36bbb23e3
Lindsay: Didn't get the ppm rate, but she wants you to buy a video before meeting. For what it's worth, this one didn't seem like the other scams and she may be real. But I never ever send money beforehand, so I declined.
Interesting update on this one. Didn't end up meeting with her because she wouldn't meet without me sending money ahead of time. She claims that plenty of guys do it and she has the "pick of the litter".
But last night she texted me begging to send her $100 because she said she was stranded and needed it to get home. I declined and told her she should ask someone from the "litter".
PiesOnlyPlz
11-29-24, 22:07
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/63cdcafcffcd58ae
https://members.seeking.com/member/34468f7a-7359-4bf2-afac-b706b2b0add3
Getting ready to meet with this one wanted to know if anyone had been able to seal the deal with her and if this art teacher is any good.I posted about her previously. She wanted to do a paid dinner date with me. I'm not interested in that.
Turtle1234
11-30-24, 12:52
Anybody figured out how to pay for seeking with s gift card?
https://members.seeking.com/member/22b897af-e18e-4a04-93e7-6174e5487ea7
Hooker and got nasty, blocked me LOL.
Also if you're blocked you can still copy and paste link.
Anybody figured out how to pay for seeking with s gift card?I don't know about gift cards, but some sites let you use Google Pay, I know SDM does, not sure about Seeking. But if they do, that's another way of not giving them your name / card number.
Can you use a Pre-paid Visa / MC or specifically want to use a gift card?
Anybody figured out how to pay for seeking with s gift card?I get a Vanilla Visa and call the SA customer service line from a burner number. I give them my burner email that I use for my acct and in 5 minutes I have full access.
I get a Vanilla Visa and call the SA customer service line from a burner number. I give them my burner email that I use for my acct and in 5 minutes I have full access.Vanilla Visa? Not familiar with that. But wouldn't they ask you for a name anyway? How's that work?
https://members.seeking.com/member/a598e8fa-d09b-45ca-b01b-f16b3fdbe024
Pro- pics seem real but maybe outdated. Asked for a lot.You can talk her down. She wanted 7 bennis I said nah and we went down quite a bit. She SEEMS like she'd be ok but I'd rather not risk it. A shame cause her bod doesn't look so bad despite her age. Sadly, she's a bit full of herself not even wanting to meet at your place if it's too far for her which is like. A few blocks. Would rather try more GND types. According to her, she says she's a dancer, so yeah, probably not any quality time. Already had that Sapphire skank try to rinse me and she's a stripper too.
Seems real and adorable. Works double shifts during the week. Prefers weekend meetings. Our schedules won't align.
https://members.seeking.com/member/7279bf57-cf7a-4b44-8eec-ec6f72e57bb9
WaltoDerri267
12-04-24, 19:10
I got this girls number a while ago but she never responded. She seems to be back now. Anyone have experience with her and know if she's legit or a rinser? Ppm?
Pics below.
https://members.seeking.com/member/732afb86-b23d-4403-bde3-5d1d118ca2a9
WaltoDerri267
12-04-24, 19:21
https://members.seeking.com/member/fcd465e1-bf7c-4a05-8187-8ede2f7a5399
Lulu: Wants 800 per meet along with jewelry, flowers, nice dinners, other gifts, and will only meet at fancy hotels.
https://members.seeking.com/member/10837386-d233-4ef0-9dd3-7ac36bbb23e3
Her bio is fucking hilarious then because it's the complete opposite of what she is asking for. No sex to boot lmao.
https://members.seeking.com/member/b34eeb29-4df8-4cb8-9129-216ab5b692f5
Has anyone chatted with her? She looks like she loves to fuq- serious good girl vibes.
https://members.seeking.com/member/722b4b5e-39ef-4d51-8529-256e5dadc86d
Pics much better than in person. DTF.
https://members.seeking.com/member/188c714e-1332-4099-a176-cb6aa94d4ae2
Rinser that's getting fatter.
https://members.seeking.com/member/04119c03-1c3c-4bcf-a8c8-764998d61460
GPS but sweet.
Rubber Ducky Boston
12-05-24, 17:38
https://members.seeking.com/member/b34eeb29-4df8-4cb8-9129-216ab5b692f5
Has anyone chatted with her? She looks like she loves to fuq- serious good girl vibes.
https://members.seeking.com/member/722b4b5e-39ef-4d51-8529-256e5dadc86d
Pics much better than in person. DTF.
https://members.seeking.com/member/188c714e-1332-4099-a176-cb6aa94d4ae2
Rinser that's getting fatter.
https://members.seeking.com/member/04119c03-1c3c-4bcf-a8c8-764998d61460
GPS but sweet.How do you have the free time to 1) screen all these people, and 2) actually meet a decent percent of them? Impressed by the volume of accounts you've posted over time.
How do you have the free time to 1) screen all these people, and 2) actually meet a decent percent of them? Impressed by the volume of accounts you've posted over time.Well I'm not married and have a non traditional work schedule. And when I talk to them I know how do so. I understand what's important to normal women- and that's different than what pros find important. Also a lot of them seem to find my 'look' attractive, so they're turned on to fuck me. Also I steer clear of ones that look like they're drug addicts, fat or ugly (ish).
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