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Anyone looking for a sugar baby / Sugar daddy relationship or has information to share please do so here. Let's make this a great addition to the already great forum!
Anyone looking for a sugar baby / Sugar daddy relationship or has information to share please do so here. Let's make this a great addition to the already great forum!I have a very cute blonde I met on a dating web site who is actually looking for a SD. Feel free to message PM.
Any sb around or recommendation around morrisville or lawrenceville areas.
I have a very cute blonde I met on a dating web site who is actually looking for a SD. Feel free to message PM.LMK. Looking for SB.
I have a very cute blonde I met on a dating web site who is actually looking for a SD. Feel free to message PM.I'm interested.
CalrtonBanx47
04-11-21, 07:50
Thread is dead but would love to see what the scene is like in cnj.
Absolutely would love to see more info here. I have DM'd with a bunch on SA, but mostly only found luck meeting gals from NYC. Staying more local would be ideal. Happy to share info on any I have chatted with or give feedback.
Thread is dead but would love to see what the scene is like in cnj.
Cnj is pretty dead tbh on sa. You're going to have to go to NYC / long island if you want to meet any girls. It used to be alot better.
Does anyone have any info on Local girls in the Edison area?
Thomas Tommy
10-22-22, 08:10
Last year I saw https://members.seeking.com/member/879bb3bc-55c6-4687-ab22-f0287a78db66 a couple times. First time was fine, she got pretty drunk, came over to my place and we had fun. She said she wanted to cook me dinner for the second date. She came over with her equipment and the ingredients, and cooked, while downing a bottle and a half of wine. Then we go to the bedroom. After sex, she's very chatty, but I'm falling asleep. After the third time I yawned, she asked "should I go?" in an annoyed-you-don't-find-this-interesting tone, and I agreed that she should go. That was a mistake. She took a half hour to clean up, then another half hour to pack up her shit in the kitchen. It's late, I call an Uber, and that takes a while because I'm in NJ. Finally, she leaves. A few days later, I noticed that my watch collection is 3 watches light. I'm not 100% sure it was her. I was seeing another SB at the same time. But I'm 99.9% sure Lonely_Chef took my watches.
If you see her wearing a nice Omega Planet Ocean on a bracelet, ask her where she got it and tell her a friend had one that was stolen.
Anyone know anything about her? Normally tons of tattoos aren't my thing but she has a really sexy look of "bad ass hot white trash girl" about her. Feels a little like a guilty pleasure.
https://members.seeking.com/member/511829a9-0e8e-426d-abcc-53db1de3a7d1
WaltoDerri267
08-15-24, 23:31
https://members.seeking.com/member/d...c-b2aa4fe5cd3e
This girl is a good, VERY good rinser / scammer. She plays the long game with good morning texts and nudes etc etc for weeks, comes out of nowhere with a sob story. Another fellow monger gave her a trial run and she tried to run the same game. She cries broke but slipped and told a third friend she's going out drinking with her friends on a weeknight when her and I had plans. She's just tryna get her nights out paid. Glad I never sent money. Changes her location around Jersey and the Philly area and wanted to warn others. Report her page on seeking too.
Janet is a variation on the traveling scam. Listed in Tampa, she reaches out because she's staying for a few months with an aunt dying of cancer a few towns over. Gives a phone number, texts, but doesn't push for money, until you want to meet, then wants half up front. You know how it is. Not happening:
https://members.seeking.com/member/08a417ff-07a9-4f8d-ab5a-e0b19b571743
https://members.seeking.com/member/67632317-1b38-4674-80e7-55064c189fed
Out of country scammer in Brazil using VPN to mask their activity. Wants pre-payment.
AA. I'm not saying she's playing a long game, but she's got weird expectations. She won't meet unless you commit to weekly allowance (even if you don't meet weekly). Platonic M&G first. She's really nice, but just has different expectations.
https://members.seeking.com/member/46ee4a70-d6f2-45ce-af00-880c6199ab46
Katy advertises Bridgewater. After some communication, ppm of 450. Decent communication although a little delayed responses. Made a plan. She confirmed multiple times. And no show. No follow up, no response to WTF happened.
https://members.seeking.com/member/b68d3dbf-db50-4a5d-926c-08a7477ffdf6
Lindsay in Easton.
https://members.seeking.com/member/10837386-d233-4ef0-9dd3-7ac36bbb23e3
She's a hot redhead. Says all the right things, including that's willing to travel to CNJ (brings it up proactively). But after texting, she wants you buy content before meeting. Time waster. She's something else all right.
Linda in Easton, came to Bridgewater.
Ad currently deactivated or I'm blocked. She comes and goes from the site.
Older bird, 37 hard years. Pierced tongue. Seriously depressed and is kind of a downer to talk to and be around. Will take anything in the 2-4 x range, just negotiate if you're interested. One caution, she gets kind of clingy and is blowing up my phone that we're going to be in some kind of relationship together. That said, she's great in bed.
Melissa from Levittown.
https://members.seeking.com/member/bfd850f8-5a58-4710-8d92-4a2246667fb6
She comes to CNJ supposedly. Review on her in the Philly section is that she's a cash-and-dash junkie. I never met her and all she did was beg for money in "advance. ".
Katy advertises Bridgewater. After some communication, ppm of 450. Decent communication although a little delayed responses. Made a plan. She confirmed multiple times. And no show. No follow up, no response to WTF happened.
https://members.seeking.com/member/b68d3dbf-db50-4a5d-926c-08a7477ffdf6Against my better judgement, I tried again with Katy in Bridgewater:
https://members.seeking.com/member/b68d3dbf-db50-4a5d-926c-08a7477ffdf6
Same story. We have a plan, she confirms, and then the time arrives and nothing. The weird thing, she's never asked for ANYTHING. Money, nothing. Absolutely no idea what the deal is here, but she's a time waster.
10 years ago, SA was a gold mine in central NJ. Its a fucking ghost town now.
ThrowAway00
01-27-25, 17:08
10 years ago, SA was a gold mine in central NJ. Its a fucking ghost town now.I wasn't on a decade ago, but happy to share my recent experience. So I joined for 1 month on a discounted rate with the goal of IDing as many prospects as possible. Reaching out to anyone who looks hot and has been active in the past month, once we click and align on the idea that this isn't some long, drawn out courtship process and cut the bullshit, determine a menu and a price. Then do a videochat, so we both know we're real people, talk some dirty details. Then proceed or log them for another day. I've had a decent amount of success this way. Yes, there are some STG girls on here overcharging. Yes, there are scammers. But I view this more as a lux service that doesn't require some of the insane verification requests you'd find on Tryst.
Here are some of my personal best practices:
- Get a burner number, obv.
- Get snapchat, use that for comms and video chat. This should connect to your burner, obvs.
- Have a story. Why are you here, what are you looking for, and what do future plans look like. All of these should help build your narrative to ensure the girl you are 1) also not a scammer and 2) that gives them the plausible deniability that they're actually dating and not doing something else. While that's not true, they kinda need to hang on to that little bit chastity to keep them around.
- Ask lots of specific, location based questions. "Oh you're from Jersey City? Have you been to X? What's your favorite dish?" - use your small talk to investigate.
- Give them the option to pay for content while you work out the logistics of your date. If they have a bunch of shit canned, ready to go, then maybe take a step back. It should be custom, I like videos where they say "Hi, _ first. OnlyFans is kind of the exception here. Some of these girls are just strippers doing extras, which isn't something you need to screen out (unless you want to). You're just trying to screen out scammers so use OFs own verification protocol to help you. If some more rapport building is required, then you got a good one.
- Do your research. Reverse image searches, number / email / username look ups. Sometimes they'll request something on CashApp, which will follow some naming convention that will help you I'd a scammer or not.
- Take an acceptable amount of risk. Pre-verification, pick a number you're willing to just lose. You can miss out on a lot of solid contacts because you're not willing to just send $50 first before they send over some custom video. Remember, they're also worried about getting scammed or extorted or something like that. If someone is good enough to get around your checks, then that's money well spent too; tuition.
- Negotiate. A pro will have their number and stick to it. If they're not pro, they will be flexible. If you're cool, don't look like an absolute mutant, and you've successfully dangled the idea that this type of arrangement may happen on a recurring basis, they can't help but do their own mental accounting / extrapolating.
Over the past two years I've spent a total of 2 months on SA and got a solid stable of 30 contacts that are hot, in my $ range, and down. You put in some work, deal with a little bit of bull shit, I think you get a much better outcome than STG or Tryst.
I wasn't on a decade ago, but happy to share my recent experience. So I joined for 1 month on a discounted rate with the goal of IDing as many prospects as possible. Reaching out to anyone who looks hot and has been active in the past month, once we click and align on the idea that this isn't some long, drawn out courtship process and cut the bullshit, determine a menu and a price. Then do a videochat, so we both know we're real people, talk some dirty details. Then proceed or log them for another day. I've had a decent amount of success this way. Yes, there are some STG girls on here overcharging. Yes, there are scammers. But I view this more as a lux service that doesn't require some of the insane verification requests you'd find on Tryst.
Here are some of my personal best practices:
- Get a burner number, obv.
- Get snapchat, use that for comms and video chat. This should connect to your burner, obvs.
- Have a story. Why are you here, what are you looking for, and what do future plans look like. All of these should help build your narrative to ensure the girl you are 1) also not a scammer and 2) that gives them the plausible deniability that they're actually dating and not doing something else. While that's not true, they kinda need to hang on to that little bit chastity to keep them around.
- Ask lots of specific, location based questions. "Oh you're from Jersey City? Have you been to X? What's your favorite dish?" - use your small talk to investigate.
- Give them the option to pay for content while you work out the logistics of your date. If they have a bunch of shit canned, ready to go, then maybe take a step back. It should be custom, I like videos where they say "Hi, _ first. OnlyFans is kind of the exception here. Some of these girls are just strippers doing extras, which isn't something you need to screen out (unless you want to). You're just trying to screen out scammers so use OFs own verification protocol to help you. If some more rapport building is required, then you got a good one.
- Do your research. Reverse image searches, number / email / username look ups. Sometimes they'll request something on CashApp, which will follow some naming convention that will help you I'd a scammer or not.
- Take an acceptable amount of risk. Pre-verification, pick a number you're willing to just lose. You can miss out on a lot of solid contacts because you're not willing to just send $50 first before they send over some custom video. Remember, they're also worried about getting scammed or extorted or something like that. If someone is good enough to get around your checks, then that's money well spent too; tuition.
- Negotiate. A pro will have their number and stick to it. If they're not pro, they will be flexible. If you're cool, don't look like an absolute mutant, and you've successfully dangled the idea that this type of arrangement may happen on a recurring basis, they can't help but do their own mental accounting / extrapolating.
Over the past two years I've spent a total of 2 months on SA and got a solid stable of 30 contacts that are hot, in my $ range, and down. You put in some work, deal with a little bit of bull shit, I think you get a much better outcome than STG or Tryst.I'm an OG man, I appreciate your insights and while they are valuable. Its just the dynamics of the market have changed. I could get 30 numbers in a month and have plenty of options to choose from, now I have to stay on for 2-3 months and my search radius has increased alot. 100 miles+.
Like I said. Back in the day there were lots of 20 somethings that were hot and down to suck and fuck for cash and it wasnt pulling teeth like it is now. I'm also a bit older and my sex drive just isn't what it used to be. (I stated in my early 20's).
ThrowAway00
03-19-25, 12:12
I'm an OG man, I appreciate your insights and while they are valuable. Its just the dynamics of the market have changed. I could get 30 numbers in a month and have plenty of options to choose from, now I have to stay on for 2-3 months and my search radius has increased alot. 100 miles+.
Like I said. Back in the day there were lots of 20 somethings that were hot and down to suck and fuck for cash and it wasnt pulling teeth like it is now. I'm also a bit older and my sex drive just isn't what it used to be. (I stated in my early 20's).Thanks. Are there more active forums where people talk SD / SB stuff? The threads for all of NJ are dead.
Thanks. Are there more active forums where people talk SD / SB stuff? The threads for all of NJ are dead.Philly or maybe some of the NYC stuff. 10 year ago there was a big thread on it on one of the other forums but it got deleted and it folded it another forum I think? Haven't been there in ages.
NJ was fire 10-15 years ago. The pandemic totally killed the market.
Philly or maybe some of the NYC stuff. 10 year ago there was a big thread on it on one of the other forums but it got deleted and it folded it another forum I think? Haven't been there in ages.
NJ was fire 10-15 years ago. The pandemic totally killed the market.Philly's pretty active, but when they say Philly, they mean Philly (guys have been blocked posted off topic. Ie. , NOT Philly). There's a smaller thread in the Pennsylvania. Philadelphia Suburbs, too. A lot of the girls cross boarders, so your thinking is smart. One girl in Philly works several days a week in Princeton. She's more professional if that's your jam. There's also a ton of girls right along the border if you're willing to drive over the river.
Here are some of my personal best practices:
- Get a burner number, obv.
What's your favorite burner app? I've been Hushed, but it's become unreliable. I send messages and they don't go out. Girls text and I don't get. Some days are fine, some are horrible.
ThrowAway00
03-24-25, 12:29
What's your favorite burner app? I've been Hushed, but it's become unreliable. I send messages and they don't go out. Girls text and I don't get. Some days are fine, some are horrible.I use google voice, connected to a burner google acct. Its great because you can use Meet right from there and it stays in that ecosystem with out touching any of my personal details. Also looks less conspicuous than some app that is clearly a burner app. Handles media OK, but I usually have them email me any media. Or Snapchat, which if you have it connected to your burner is actually great for P2P privacy with out having to do the whole encrypted messaging thing.
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