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Tldrl if too busy, read the last paragraph.
I had a date, the went well by most metrics. The expected reimbursement was paid (more than 24 hours later); vigorously testing the hardwood floor of my office. Because, of the design of it, a comfortable sleeping suite, is transformed within. So, multiple smiles were had, at least by one truly. Though, within hours of good-byes and reimbursement, with the hollow "thank you's" I am told that -.
More is needed for another date. Informed my personality and magnetism were the only reasons she "overlooked" taking less (that she never specified) to enjoy the moment with me. Going forward, it would be more.
This is Bullshit.
I will not beat around the Bush with you guys. I have a beautiful wife (maybe the hate for me working so much at my company is motivation.) . Luckily, she (for the most part) is up for the naughty adventures. - A mix of issues and attitude make it less intimate than most would want. I bring this up to ask.
If there is a woman at home that holds her beauty in mind or body. Why are we allowing such blackmail?.For one thing you are dealing with a generation of inflated self worth, beyond that these girls fuck for money so they may seem personable at the time you are with them but it's Always about getting more. It's always your choice whether you want to pay them or not but if they think they can get more out of you than they will go for it.
Getting married in a scam and modern women are being brain washed and weaponized against men by the elites of the west.
Tldrl if too busy, read the last paragraph.
I had a date, the went well by most metrics. The expected reimbursement was paid (more than 24 hours later); vigorously testing the hardwood floor of my office. Because, of the design of it, a comfortable sleeping suite, is transformed within. So, multiple smiles were had, at least by one truly. Though, within hours of good-byes and reimbursement, with the hollow "thank you's" I am told that -.
More is needed for another date. Informed my personality and magnetism were the only reasons she "overlooked" taking less (that she never specified) to enjoy the moment with me. Going forward, it would be more.
This is Bullshit.
I will not beat around the Bush with you guys. I have a beautiful wife (maybe the hate for me working so much at my company is motivation.) . Luckily, she (for the most part) is up for the naughty adventures. - A mix of issues and attitude make it less intimate than most would want. I bring this up to ask.
If there is a woman at home that holds her beauty in mind or body. Why are we allowing such blackmail?
In this forum, we are not the lower level predictable vases. (We are men, we are predictable.).
Last paragraph:
Why is this allowed?
As a singular body of consciousness (I am not touching the sex issue) . This forum section has many men I am sure we could become friends in real life. Hell, we might be able to advance each other as well. Why allow women that do not understand how you reached your status, your situation rule your situation with equal weight?
In desperate moments why do you cave?
If you guys do not want this public, please just DM me. I want to know.
RandomTask101
03-21-22, 14:38
I'm not sure I followed your entire post, but the answer is. Don't cave. The power dynamic is in our favor (unless you enjoy findom, which is fine). Just move on to somebody who you align with better.
That's in the case I interpreted from your post (sort of upselling next date). In the case of actual blackmail, that is a lot tougher.
To stay a bit on topic, I haven't dived back in, but a friendly face from a couple years ago-ish looks to be back on SB.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/7a713053401a432e
Tldrl if too busy, read the last paragraph.
I had a date, the went well by most metrics. The expected reimbursement was paid (more than 24 hours later); vigorously testing the hardwood floor of my office. Because, of the design of it, a comfortable sleeping suite, is transformed within. So, multiple smiles were had, at least by one truly. Though, within hours of good-byes and reimbursement, with the hollow "thank you's" I am told that -.
More is needed for another date. Informed my personality and magnetism were the only reasons she "overlooked" taking less (that she never specified) to enjoy the moment with me. Going forward, it would be more.
This is Bullshit.
I will not beat around the Bush with you guys. I have a beautiful wife (maybe the hate for me working so much at my company is motivation.) . Luckily, she (for the most part) is up for the naughty adventures. - A mix of issues and attitude make it less intimate than most would want. I bring this up to ask.
If there is a woman at home that holds her beauty in mind or body. Why are we allowing such blackmail?
In this forum, we are not the lower level predictable vases. (We are men, we are predictable.).
Last paragraph:
Why is this allowed?
As a singular body of consciousness (I am not touching the sex issue) . This forum section has many men I am sure we could become friends in real life. Hell, we might be able to advance each other as well. Why allow women that do not understand how you reached your status, your situation rule your situation with equal weight?
In desperate moments why do you cave?
If you guys do not want this public, please just DM me. I want to know.
For one thing you are dealing with a generation of inflated self worth, beyond that these girls fuck for money so they may seem personable at the time you are with them but it's Always about getting more. It's always your choice whether you want to pay them or not but if they think they can get more out of you than they will go for it.As I even form these thoughts in my head I feel myself sounding like a skeptical old man. The simple fact is the sugarbowl is now being filled with young ladies from the entitled generation of participation trophies and social media influencer dreams. Pretty girls with a couple cute beach pics or videos on their Instagrams or tiktoks are getting gifted with clothes, makeup, swag, and sometimes even $ by brands and companies just to plug their products to a relatively small audience. It's no wonder these girls feel that they deserve lucrative paydays just for existing. I miss the days when sugar dating was actually a fun way to make connections and actually add mutual value on each side. But just like every other business model today, there's a paradigm shift where the relationship doesn't matter beyond the moment. And never more than the bottom line.
MythMan2010
03-21-22, 18:32
As I even form these thoughts in my head I feel myself sounding like a skeptical old man. The simple fact is the sugarbowl is now being filled with young ladies from the entitled generation of participation trophies and social media influencer dreams. Pretty girls with a couple cute beach pics or videos on their Instagrams or tiktoks are getting gifted with clothes, makeup, swag, and sometimes even $ by brands and companies just to plug their products to a relatively small audience. It's no wonder these girls feel that they deserve lucrative paydays just for existing. I miss the days when sugar dating was actually a fun way to make connections and actually add mutual value on each side. But just like every other business model today, there's a paradigm shift where the relationship doesn't matter beyond the moment. And never more than the bottom line.100% honesty here. My close rate after connecting with a girl on SA or WYP via text was 50% want to meet, and 50% of those girls were up for a reasonable arrangement. That's a 25% close rate. About 4 years ago.
Now? I think all of them are self-important retards with absurd expectations and too many ways to get easy money (Only F a and s, beta sugar dads, etc). I'm out for awhile and just working good AMPs and a few strippers in different states that are more reasonable. Fuck it.
DionysusVice
03-21-22, 22:57
100% honesty here. My close rate after connecting with a girl on SA or WYP via text was 50% want to meet, and 50% of those girls were up for a reasonable arrangement. That's a 25% close rate. About 4 years ago.
Now? I think all of them are self-important retards with absurd expectations and too many ways to get easy money (Only F a and s, beta sugar dads, etc). I'm out for awhile and just working good AMPs and a few strippers in different states that are more reasonable. Fuck it.First I want to thank everyone for the responses. It was a domino effect that had me rant a bit. I know why I do this, but. The juice is becoming less worth the squeeze.
Also, please enlighten me how to work a stripper into a SB. I'm tired of SA and etc. And, just like most other guys, sounds like a venture worth exploring. As I have never had the luxury. I k ow to not meet them I. The strip club. (for closing that night) but. Where do they pop up outside that arena? Haha.
MythMan2010
03-22-22, 13:59
First I want to thank everyone for the responses. It was a domino effect that had me rant a bit. I know why I do this, but. The juice is becoming less worth the squeeze.
Also, please enlighten me how to work a stripper into a SB. I'm tired of SA and etc. And, just like most other guys, sounds like a venture worth exploring. As I have never had the luxury. I k ow to not meet them I. The strip club. (for closing that night) but. Where do they pop up outside that arena? Haha.Strippers are like vampires so hard to find them out in the day, and if they work the day shift you will never see them in the wild. If you do try to close meeting a stripper where she works, try not to be a frequent customer of dances and just someone she likes seeing and you have to be generous ($20 for no reason while you talk etc) That being said, if she's only a tease at the club (no mileage) then you are getting zero mileage when out of the club. When she mentions it's her birthday or has a need, you jump on it with "let's go shopping together" and if she bites then you know she's a possible girl for outside the club fun. Hope that helps.
Her profile is down but the pics looks familiar I know she is a pro anyone know who she is.
DJprofessorK
03-24-22, 09:47
This isn't meant to knock anyone's hustle, just a report from my end. I met a cute college dropout on SA who I saw frequently for 2 $ per date. Some of her SB friends convinced her to become a dancer because 'it was easier'. We met for coffee a few times after that and she told me that her ask had risen to 8 $ because she could make 2 $ in 45 minutes by just grinding on old guys and she essentially 'didn't have to do anything'. I scoffed at the new figure, and she immediately said, 'we can discuss it', but I didn't budge. I can definitely vouch that she hasn't needed to have a traditional job for the past couple of years. I realize that there are plenty of guys here that have enough game to score dates with dancers, however for every 1 of them, there are 9 who will gladly hand over their money simply to have someone blow in their ear and get a rager. Once a woman gets over the potential stigma of her social circle knowing she's a dancer, she can absolutely make more doing that. Part of the allure of being an SB is plausible deniability, complete privacy when you meet with the right people, plus additional perks. Once someone is beyond that point. Being an SB loses a lot of its attraction.
Just my two cents.
Strippers are like vampires so hard to find them out in the day, and if they work the day shift you will never see them in the wild. If you do try to close meeting a stripper where she works, try not to be a frequent customer of dances and just someone she likes seeing and you have to be generous ($20 for no reason while you talk etc) That being said, if she's only a tease at the club (no mileage) then you are getting zero mileage when out of the club. When she mentions it's her birthday or has a need, you jump on it with "let's go shopping together" and if she bites then you know she's a possible girl for outside the club fun. Hope that helps.
This isn't meant to knock anyone's hustle, just a report from my end. I met a cute college dropout on SA who I saw frequently for 2 $ per date. Some of her SB friends convinced her to become a dancer because 'it was easier'. We met for coffee a few times after that and she told me that her ask had risen to 8 $ because she could make 2 $ in 45 minutes by just grinding on old guys and she essentially 'didn't have to do anything'. I scoffed at the new figure, and she immediately said, 'we can discuss it', but I didn't budge. I can definitely vouch that she hasn't needed to have a traditional job for the past couple of years. I realize that there are plenty of guys here that have enough game to score dates with dancers, however for every 1 of them, there are 9 who will gladly hand over their money simply to have someone blow in their ear and get a rager. Once a woman gets over the potential stigma of her social circle knowing she's a dancer, she can absolutely make more doing that. Part of the allure of being an SB is plausible deniability, complete privacy when you meet with the right people, plus additional perks. Once someone is beyond that point. Being an SB loses a lot of its attraction..Comes at a cost. Once they go down that road they are introduced to the world of pimps and narcotics, most build up such resentment towards men that they end up being lesbians. From my experience strippers are the worst of all in the adult entertainment industry.
ChiefQueef
03-24-22, 12:52
I just got banned from SA for "soliciting" (conveniently a few days after they charged me for 3-month renewal). I do not discuss compensation even in texts, much less the site itself. I wrote their contact us page to ask what happened and they responded with a boilerplate email without any details, just that they have "obtained and verified information" and that they won't respond any further.
Anyone deal with this successfully? I saw a previous post that the admin told them to read the TOS and they got their account reinstated, but I was not given any option like that. I have half a mind to refuse charges on the recent renewal, but not sure if I want to burn that bridge.-Create a new account using a different device (if cell, then use a new profile).
-Do not use a VPN or any location spoofing.
-Upload totally new pics. Ideally you mask your face in case you need to repeat these steps, etc.
-Use a different payment method. I suggest using google pay, so that you can refund in case SA decides to ban you, or request your I'd, etc. In the future. Services were not fully rendered; hence the grounds for a refund.
ElectricHug
03-24-22, 13:37
-Create a new account using a different device (if cell, then use a new profile).
-Do not use a VPN or any location spoofing.
-Upload totally new pics. Ideally you mask your face in case you need to repeat these steps, etc.
-Use a different payment method. I suggest using google pay, so that you can refund in case SA decides to ban you, or request your I'd, etc. In the future. Services were not fully rendered; hence the grounds for a refund.Thanks. Has anyone here done a chargeback? Did SA follow through on their threat to send to collections? Any idea if they are more vigilant about banning your subsequent new accounts after that?
Social media and inflation are killing this sport.
There are big geopolitical moves being made atm, I would actually suggest you guys just pay up now because in a few months or a year all of this shit is going to come to an end with hyperinflation.
Her profile is down but the pics looks familiar I know she is a pro anyone know who she is.https://members.seeking.com/member/ec728972-5b40-4d11-bfd6-792dc4ac8837
SandPiper540
03-24-22, 21:39
She's legit.
Did you ever meet her?We went to dinner, but that was all. The pics weren't really very accurate. I told her I'd get back in touch, but I don't think I will. She wants a minimum of 400. I'll fish around for something tighter.
German5050
03-29-22, 14:24
This one will host. She's a mess. Bigger than her pics. Def on too many meds. Will not repeat. 350.
https://members.seeking.com/member/9a7fbc9c-9ca9-49ca-ab72-e251c9f35d55
No one pull the trigger on this one yet?? Her only fans is decent but still can't figure out what her angle is with the dick pics.
https://members.seeking.com/member/7444026b-999e-4b33-8be8-2bc9c3e37e38
SmallAsianCock
04-03-22, 10:25
No one pull the trigger on this one yet?? Her only fans is decent but still can't figure out what her angle is with the dick pics.
https://members.seeking.com/member/7444026b-999e-4b33-8be8-2bc9c3e37e38Am waiting to hear from her.
SmallAsianCock
04-03-22, 10:26
Any info on this lady?
https://members.seeking.com/member/9017059c-1924-468d-8425-2b7966a3ddc1
ElectricHug
04-03-22, 15:12
At the beginning of an SD relationship, is there an expectation that you clarify with her whether you are being exclusive or not? I began one that was perhaps toeing the lines between a SD relationship and a regular relationship, and when she found I was seeing another girl as well, she became quite jealous and broke it off a few days later. I had assumed an SB would not expect exclusivity, particularly early on. Was that wrong of me? I guess more communication is better, but do you normally feel the need to spell that out or leave it unsaid and assumed?
DJprofessorK
04-03-22, 18:36
From what I've been told from multiple SBs, is that because so many SD's want bare services (and many SD's use $ as an ultimatum in order to get it), it puts their mind at ease if he's only seeing one person. Because if he's going raw with her, he's going raw with other people. On the flipside, many SD's also get very territorial and possessive of the women. I don't remember where and who said it to me, but I remember being told that one SD said that he decided to play in the bowl because he 'didn't want to share women with plumbers and mechanics'. In my opinion, that sort of elitism brings shame to the hobby, but to each their own.
So, yes, back to what I've been told by SBs, many of the men in the bowl explicitly expect monogamy or exclusivity. It's also why many SB's lie about having boyfriends. Trust me, many of the bf's don't care. They're a new generation. It's the guys our age and older who get upset about it. Her boyfriend just knows that if he keeps his mouth shut he's going to get a new PS5 out of it. He'll learn to manage. Haha.
Either way, expectations should be clearly stated up front. And coming from someone who has met quite a few very health conscious women in the hobby, many of them view their health as something they have to absolutely safeguard. With one women even saying to me, 'if I mess up once....that's it...who would marry me after that?' Heavy stuff.
At the beginning of an SD relationship, is there an expectation that you clarify with her whether you are being exclusive or not? I began one that was perhaps toeing the lines between a SD relationship and a regular relationship, and when she found I was seeing another girl as well, she became quite jealous and broke it off a few days later. I had assumed an SB would not expect exclusivity, particularly early on. Was that wrong of me? I guess more communication is better, but do you normally feel the need to spell that out or leave it unsaid and assumed?
FarFarAway
04-03-22, 19:41
Either way, expectations should be clearly stated up front. And coming from someone who has met quite a few very health conscious women in the hobby, many of them view their health as something they have to absolutely safeguard. With one women even saying to me, 'if I mess up once....that's it...who would marry me after that?' Heavy stuff.I do hear that many guys expect to go bare w / SBs, and all that goes w / that. I personally don't, because I think like that girl. Mostly concerning all of those incurable viral diseases. And I have a SO, so coming down w / one of them isn't a soluble problem.
If you're going to be banging someone regularly you have to discuss STDs and pregnancy, IMHO. I cover both at the M&G, and offer to show a girl my recent STD panel, and offer to pay for hers if she wants it. I also ask if she has gotten gardasil, since that not only knocks out genital warts, it prevents me from getting throat cancer from eating a HPV infected girl. That being my reasoning always leads into a spirited discussion that sometimes makes a girl blush, which is exactly the point.
ElectricHug
04-05-22, 10:09
From what I've been told from multiple SBs, is that because so many SD's want bare services (and many SD's use $ as an ultimatum in order to get it), it puts their mind at ease if he's only seeing one person. Because if he's going raw with her, he's going raw with other people. On the flipside, many SD's also get very territorial and possessive of the women. I don't remember where and who said it to me, but I remember being told that one SD said that he decided to play in the bowl because he 'didn't want to share women with plumbers and mechanics'. In my opinion, that sort of elitism brings shame to the hobby, but to each their own.
So, yes, back to what I've been told by SBs, many of the men in the bowl explicitly expect monogamy or exclusivity. It's also why many SB's lie about having boyfriends. Trust me, many of the bf's don't care. They're a new generation. It's the guys our age and older who get upset about it. Her boyfriend just knows that if he keeps his mouth shut he's going to get a new PS5 out of it. He'll learn to manage. Haha.
Either way, expectations should be clearly stated up front. And coming from someone who has met quite a few very health conscious women in the hobby, many of them view their health as something they have to absolutely safeguard. With one women even saying to me, 'if I mess up once....that's it...who would marry me after that?' Heavy stuff.You're right as far as bare goes -- I genuinely hadn't even thought of that since I never do it outside a monogamous relationship (and even among those I've had a string of women who won't take birth control for one reason or another.).
ChuckTheFin
04-05-22, 23:25
Anyone had any luck with this one? Looks TGTBT. I've gotten no response yet.
https://members.seeking.com/member/a49d5b4f-6f4b-4c49-8b30-5594e22bb426
StormyTuesday
04-06-22, 15:44
I was perusing the talent pool the other day on SD4 Me and considering how SA has taken a nosedive the past year or so, I am thinking of going premium for a month or 3. Any first hand opinions out there? I dabbled on Secret Benefits last year and found it to be a scam. They send messages from various girls to you without letting the girls know. I would respond and then scratch my head why practically none of them replied back.
I have a few people on SA push for texting but then calling from a blocked number? WTF is up with that? I never answer my phone anyways. Anyone interacted with one of these people and actually take a call? The last one "Flame of Desire" didn't want to connect because I was too busy for her because I didn't answer in the middle of the day. I would think its easier to scam people with text unless maybe they are recording the conversation and trying to blackmail people who are married or something?
I have a few people on SA push for texting but then calling from a blocked number? WTF is up with that? I never answer my phone anyways. Anyone interacted with one of these people and actually take a call? The last one "Flame of Desire" didn't want to connect because I was too busy for her because I didn't answer in the middle of the day. I would think its easier to scam people with text unless maybe they are recording the conversation and trying to blackmail people who are married or something?Nobody under 40 (50++?) prefers to call vs text, something fishy here if this is just the initial conversation. I've only done voice / video calls right before meets. Which have saved me from catfish twice.
If you have access to her private photos, I'd do a reverse image search on them. The public one looks like it is cropped / zoomed in from a larger photo to avoid detection (or she is using 15 old camera tech! Good luck.
DJprofessorK
04-12-22, 09:56
I couldn't agree with this more. NO ONE I'm aware of is excited about answering their phones these days. My assumption is that these are scam calls looking for a verbal 'yes' confirmation when you pick up in order to use your voice for some sort of nefarious means.
Nobody under 40 (50++?) prefers to call vs text, something fishy here if this is just the initial conversation. I've only done voice / video calls right before meets. Which have saved me from catfish twice.
If you have access to her private photos, I'd do a reverse image search on them. The public one looks like it is cropped / zoomed in from a larger photo to avoid detection (or she is using 15 old camera tech! Good luck.
I couldn't agree with this more. NO ONE I'm aware of is excited about answering their phones these days. My assumption is that these are scam calls looking for a verbal 'yes' confirmation when you pick up in order to use your voice for some sort of nefarious means.Interesting. I will have to dive into this one. That does sound like it is the most likely reason. It is amazing how anyone could believe that anytime you are on a phone call it is most likely being recorded by someone. Either the person you are calling or Uncle Sam, or some foreign entity. After learning about all that Snowden revealed its not longer conspiracy about the monitoring.
ElectricHug
04-12-22, 13:20
My assumption is that these are scam calls looking for a verbal 'yes' confirmation when you pick up in order to use your voice for some sort of nefarious means.Just FYI -- there is no documented instance of this being a thing, and really, it kind of falls apart if you think about it any deeply.
https://www.snopes.com/fact-check/can-you-hear-me-scam/
DJprofessorK
04-12-22, 17:41
Just FYI -- there is no documented instance of this being a thing, and really, it kind of falls apart if you think about it any deeply.
https://www.snopes.com/fact-check/can-you-hear-me-scam/https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=txVmwuJFCw0
This is enough for me to be weirded out. I'm still not answering my phone. Haha. Maybe I'm just paranoid.
ElectricHug
04-12-22, 19:07
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=txVmwuJFCw0
This is enough for me to be weirded out. I'm still not answering my phone. Haha. Maybe I'm just paranoid.Can't say that local news bit showed anything, but to each his own. A scam company would be better off imitating your voice saying "yes" than jumping through all those hoops of a scam phone call and splicing together recordings. There is not some Mission Impossible-style, nationwide database of voice identification, particularly for a one-syllable word "yes" said over a cell phone connection.
Aafakljgadkg
04-16-22, 17:27
https://members.seeking.com/member/9ca6e79b-64e2-49a5-9f79-214c97e49deb
Anyone got experience to share?
Private message me if you don't want it public.
Member #6718
04-17-22, 17:25
Any comments on her.
https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/1cabaa38-fe7a-4649-8e5a-9e8b4fc11ad8Spoke with her, she said she only offers anal and oral because she is a "virgin". Was asking 4 ben.
Member #6718
04-18-22, 18:38
https://members.seeking.com/member/44a722bc-cfb0-4fa0-bba2-84df5b29c42f
I'm pretty new to SA and trying it out for a change of pace. Had this girl reach out to me, shared her private pic after some convo, and at first I thought she was fake with that profile pic.
She's actually pretty cute in the other pics.
Every response to me was one or two word, delayed responses, but with exclamation marks at least, LOL.
She randomly hit me up to meet her one day last week if I was free to meet.
I asked if she has her own place, states no, has a roommates.
Asked what all she was into, dinner, public etc. She replied with one word, Hotel.
Idk seems sketchy, any intel?Well this is going back a while so may not be useful any more but she is real. Had a M&G with her a while back, she admitted main pic was fake but rest are legit. Absolutely gorgeous IRL, but very hard to pin down.
Member #6718
04-18-22, 19:03
I had a very nice night with Liz. For you who like attractive, fit, confident, sexy and classy women you should contact her. Although she has. Been on the site for awhile, she has not done too many meets until recently. She is. Definitely a MILF. I was overtaken by her genuine sexuality. Most times I meet women on SA we go to dinner or have drinks. This time she came straight to my room. We enjoyed wine (her) and beer (me) and had a really cool night.
https://www.seeking.com/member/33871acd-022f-05fb-1420-cc06fc79de25I only just stumbled on this and been going back through to read some old history. LOL on her having not done too many meets back in 2020. I am pretty confident I was her first ever SA meet back in 2014, and yes it was good but she had some BS rules that her hubby wanted back then. But we stayed in touch over text off and on and let's just say she has been enjoying herself ever since. Her body count must be hundreds deep now. She even said she would sometimes go on Tinder after SA dates if she didn't feel satisfied to get more action.
https://members.seeking.com/member/2e1f656e-baed-4691-9c47-2f7a08d4bbb1
Any info on her!?
SmallAsianCock
04-18-22, 23:30
100 mg Viagra or 20 mg Levitra.
Has anyone made contact with this one. She sure sounds legit, I'm hoping to visit her this weekend. https://members.seeking.com/member/aee76fe2-00fd-4f5b-8e1e-ab583a0a78c4.Did you meet her? What's the damage!?
Maxamillion8
04-19-22, 12:31
Quoted $$$ per meet pr 1 k month. Available after 7 pm weekdays or weekends. Does not work for my schedule.
Good luck.
https://members.seeking.com/member/2e1f656e-baed-4691-9c47-2f7a08d4bbb1
Any info on her!?
Galleydude
04-21-22, 00:34
Do not fall for this scammer. She scammed me for $60 but atleast I came out safe. Asked to send $50 advance and I declined. Agreed to meet and once I reached came out of her apt and sat in my car and demanded all the money in advance, I declined and she wouldn't leave my car. Gave her $60 and left unhurt.
https://members.seeking.com/member/65e95f8e-7e60-4a84-be51-7c2d6f89140a
SuperDave3038
04-21-22, 06:46
Any info on this one? Exchanged some messages but let my membership expire before getting offsite contact like a dummy. Would love to hear if she's worth the renewal. Feel free to PM.
https://members.seeking.com/member/aeecd683-7d2e-4378-8294-2efe7e505075
Member #6718
04-21-22, 08:25
She has good experience in this hobby. She left for foreign studies after we met. Met her in public without any expectations from either side in Chapel hill area. Her asks is high 4 Benjamin per meet to start with. No hosting. Limited action. She is particular in what she will and what she will not do behind closed doors. That all restrictions came after the doors were closed. LOL. With that limitations, I can't spend that kinda money. I'd pass.I have met with her recently too, was fun to hang out with but agree in action she just didn't feel into it at all, so have not pursued again.
Member #6718
04-21-22, 10:02
Any info on this one? Exchanged some messages but let my membership expire before getting offsite contact like a dummy. Would love to hear if she's worth the renewal. Feel free to PM.
https://members.seeking.com/member/aeecd683-7d2e-4378-8294-2efe7e505075Don't have specific details but I had messaged her and she seemed legit. I also saw her on Feeld, the alt / swing dating app.
Member #6718
04-21-22, 10:30
Has anyone done anything with her? Seems to have GPS. I had got some messaging going with her previously and while I may have low balled a bit at 3 she basically laughed at it and that was end of that. I suspect she may have gotten lucky with one whale in the past and trying to recreate lost glory.
https://members.seeking.com/member/4f78a6d0-d55d-477d-9173-03ddd84a32fc
Member #6718
04-21-22, 17:32
Any feedback on her?
https://members.seeking.com/member/d36cf052-43f1-4b7a-9d42-a6359c76ce39
SmallAsianCock
04-21-22, 22:50
Any feedback on her?
https://members.seeking.com/member/d36cf052-43f1-4b7a-9d42-a6359c76ce39She must have multiple handles on SA. I had private convos with her but it went no where. I don't remember the details but I'll look for our conversations and update this thread.
SmallAsianCock
04-21-22, 22:57
Does anyone know of hotels which allow early check in. I would like to check in around noon.
Member #6718
04-22-22, 06:57
Does anyone know of hotels which allow early check in. I would like to check in around noon.Do you have status with any of them? That usually helps. I am usually able to check in early at Hilton or Hyatt brands as long as the place isn't sold out.
SuperDave3038
04-22-22, 10:53
Do you have status with any of them? That usually helps. I am usually able to check in early at Hilton or Hyatt brands as long as the place isn't sold out.Dayuse.com
Used several times, good rates on short stays generally around the airport. Modeled for people on layovers. I'm sure that's a small fraction of their business lololol.
SmallAsianCock
04-22-22, 21:22
Dayuse.com
Used several times, good rates on short stays generally around the airport. Modeled for people on layovers. I'm sure that's a small fraction of their business lololol.This is exactly what am looking for and to use for future dates. Perfect. I appreciate the lead.
Biscuits1234
04-23-22, 02:01
(Mods if there's any details in here that aren't allowed feel free to edit them out during approval).
Summary:
Fayetteville-based SA user by the name of Merycontrary is a fucking PSYCHO! Severely mentally ill. Masked it well in the beginning but I ended up having to run like my life depended on it. No link to her profile as I blocked her everywhere while driving home to protect myself from potential blackmail.
In case she makes a new account I'll do my best to describe her appearance: white, short, thin, brunette, short haired (but wears wigs), two cheek piercings, septum piercing, tongue piercing, lots of tattoos.
Detailed Story:
Connected with her on the site and quickly moved on to snap for communications. Agreed very quickly and willingly to a meet for a couple hundred bucks. Arrived at the location and we agreed to do the deed in the car. We chatted a bit to lighten the mood. This is where my spidey senses started tingling. It was like she had just done a fresh line of coke she was so ADHD. Impossible to keep a conversation going and her sense of humor changed with every sentence. I attributed it to nerves until she claimed to be diagnosed with BPD and personality disorder. Needless to say what happened shortly after removed any sense of doubt I had with said claim.
I got her into the back seat and we started. It was the most normal part of the whole ordeal. I'll even go as far as to say it was a great smash. At least for the first 5 minutes; after which she kept stopping and acting super disinterested. I ended up going limp because of how abruptly she killed the mood.
Little did I know how much of a mistake that was. She flipped the fuck out because I went soft on her. Got out of my car, started screaming (mind you we were in close proximity to other houses), saying I had a little dick (the irony of her gagging 5 minutes prior), and just kept losing her shit and pacing around freaking out.
Suddenly she tried to reach through my window (it was down for fresh air during the session) and steal my phone. I foiled her attempt, and then she decided to pepper spray me before I could finish rolling my windows up and leave. Didn't even know she had it. Thankfully it was cheap shit and lasted only a few minutes. I was even able to get off the property and drive a couple blocks away to clear my eyes. Albeit painfully.
But that's not the best part: she forgot to take the cash with her when she started freaking out! I didn't even realize it until I got back home to wash my face. I honestly don't even know how to feel about the whole thing. I went home blue balled, in pain, but with all my money and belongings and no lasting injuries. Such a roller coaster.
Really brings a whole new meaning to "don't stick your dick in crazy".
(Mods if there's any details in here that aren't allowed feel free to edit them out during approval).
Summary:
Fayetteville-based SA user by the name of Merycontrary is a fucking PSYCHO! Severely mentally ill. Masked it well in the beginning but I ended up having to run like my life depended on it. No link to her profile as I blocked her everywhere while driving home to protect myself from potential blackmail.
In case she makes a new account I'll do my best to describe her appearance: white, short, thin, brunette, short haired (but wears wigs), two cheek piercings, septum piercing, tongue piercing, lots of tattoos.
Detailed Story:
Connected with her on the site and quickly moved on to snap for communications. Agreed very quickly and willingly to a meet for a couple hundred bucks. Arrived at the location and we agreed to do the deed in the car. We chatted a bit to lighten the mood. This is where my spidey senses started tingling. It was like she had just done a fresh line of coke she was so ADHD. Impossible to keep a conversation going and her sense of humor changed with every sentence. I attributed it to nerves until she claimed to be diagnosed with BPD and personality disorder. Needless to say what happened shortly after removed any sense of doubt I had with said claim..Here is the link https://members.seeking.com/member/99a5ab8c-849d-4292-9229-b7abd682b09d.
Biscuits1234
04-23-22, 21:07
Here is the link https://members.seeking.com/member/99a5ab8c-849d-4292-9229-b7abd682b09d.Yep. Avoid this one like the plague unless you want to take a risk of getting robbed or worse.
One thing I completely forgot to mention in my report is that at one point she screamed "my husband is going to find you and kick your ass". Meaning two things:
1) There's a high risk of someone else being secretly present (or at least aware of your presence) if any of you try to meet her.
2) Some poor bastard married that and may be just as if not more insane and / or short-fused.
Be careful out there guys.
Member #6718
04-24-22, 09:16
Yep. Avoid this one like the plague unless you want to take a risk of getting robbed or worse.
One thing I completely forgot to mention in my report is that at one point she screamed "my husband is going to find you and kick your ass". Meaning two things:
1) There's a high risk of someone else being secretly present (or at least aware of your presence) if any of you try to meet her.
2) Some poor bastard married that and may be just as if not more insane and / or short-fused.
Be careful out there guys.Thanks for the heads up. But honestly looking at her pics I am not the least surprised she looks like a crackhead. You would have to pay me to tap that not the other way round LOL.
Member #6718
04-24-22, 09:32
We pay them to leave. No way I want to be around them for more than a couple hours. It would be unbearable to hang around with these narcissists any longer even if they were the ones paying.
If you two are going at it the entire time, that math could end up in your favor.
Anyone seen this? https://www.seeking.com/member/31e7d9be-ffa7-4ae2-9867-1e0fffdc4fb7.
I face timed and she wants 1 k to meet for entire weekend. 36-48 hours basically.She took 4 * for one night. Very pro feel. She seemed a bit spaced out tbh.
JakkSparrow
04-24-22, 16:05
Does anybody have any info on this one.
https://members.seeking.com/member/0f645b6e-42cd-449a-bed5-7c641624e058
She says two girls $6. Do you think she is legit!?
Are there any trusted SB you know off? No luck at all help me out here please.
Member #6718
04-25-22, 11:29
https://members.seeking.com/member/0f645b6e-42cd-449a-bed5-7c641624e058
She says two girls $6. Do you think she is legit!?
Are there any trusted SB you know off? No luck at all help me out here please.She is legit. Her wife is hot, she is not. They are a lesbian couple.
She is legit. Her wife is hot, she is not. They are a lesbian couple.Did you have a dream with them? Is it safe to go to their location!?
BlueWaters
04-26-22, 09:45
Anyone ever met this girl? Had contact early 2020 - spent a while texting and a couple video calls but nothing ever came of it. Wanted to treat her out for a nice dinner and maybe work something out but could never get anything set up due to everything being closed early when the lock downs first started making things difficult. Still kicking myself over this one haha, probably one of the cutest girls I've ever seen on SA. Think she mentioned she had ties to Arizona? No clue if she's even still in Raleigh.
Any info on her?
https://members.seeking.com/member/6ca8e74f-1342-489a-9fbf-f0f8de5d9c18
Started texting with her, if she is real I want to give her a try.
Maxamillion8
04-26-22, 15:09
Anyone ever met this girl? Had contact early 2020 - spent a while texting and a couple video calls but nothing ever came of it. Wanted to treat her out for a nice dinner and maybe work something out but could never get anything set up due to everything being closed early when the lock downs first started making things difficult. Still kicking myself over this one haha, probably one of the cutest girls I've ever seen on SA. Think she mentioned she had ties to Arizona? No clue if she's even still in Raleigh.Girls have learned new thing by saying that they will start online and do video calls before they meet. There are girls probably taking $100's from multiple guys for few pics and videos and never have to meet anyone. Most of the time the faces of video is covered due to her privacy. Takes few weeks before SHE decides if YOU are worth to meet or not. So whenever I get asked to prove my self, I simply tell her that I pay top $$ to be on this site and she probably not paying anything. Thats enough for me to prove that I am not a cheap guy and who is serious about an arrangement. I meet for lunch or coffee without any expectations from either side because I want to be sure about her as much as she want to be sure about me. But there are also good female profiles who are fair and genuine about arrangement. Iv met few girls but also after that it's hard to get consistently meet with her works and other commitments and these type of girls are not depending on arrangement which is what you want.
Been chatting with this fine looking lady, very direct and too the point, Anyone had any experience meeting her?
https://members.seeking.com/member/19e8c025-e4f1-4fd8-b8be-65d1cf880ab1
Maxamillion8
04-26-22, 15:30
Started getting calls that they are calling from SA and there is a problem with LE by me talking with someone and all other BS. Calls started coming in once I shared the No with below linked person.
https://members.seeking.com/member/300500fd-ef78-410c-bf63-ffb726967a59
Be careful guys.
MM.
Started getting calls that they are calling from SA and there is a problem with LE by me talking with someone and all other BS. Calls started coming in once I shared the No with below linked person.
https://members.seeking.com/member/300500fd-ef78-410c-bf63-ffb726967a59
Be careful guys.
MM.These people are so lame. Cops do not call people. They show up at your door knocking. Or pull you over. They don't call ahead LOL. I had someone saying they were a cop and that the person was under age blah blah blah. I don't ever answer my phone. So they actually left a voicemail. I'm guessing some of these people are overseas or something. Some pretty stiff penalties for pretending your a cop or other agent of the government. Granted most people probably would not go out of their way to contact the po po. I've only done it once and that was to report a Stolen Cashiers check and they told me they could care less if it was under 5 k.
Member #6718
04-27-22, 16:26
Been chatting with this fine looking lady, very direct and too the point, Anyone had any experience meeting her?
https://members.seeking.com/member/19e8c025-e4f1-4fd8-b8be-65d1cf880ab1Profile gone so I guess another scammer.
Member #6718
04-27-22, 16:28
Started getting calls that they are calling from SA and there is a problem with LE by me talking with someone and all other BS. Calls started coming in once I shared the No with below linked person.
https://members.seeking.com/member/300500fd-ef78-410c-bf63-ffb726967a59
Be careful guys..Good to know, I had chatted with her but didn't bother with the bs about must have monthly allowance.
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/lqwMzODaAPjnjar5vyV3b61r
Meet this one last year for a meet and greet, she is real. I asked her if she could meet at a local strip club LOL which she agreed. We had dinner and drinks back at Peking lot there was some dfk and she allowed my hands to travel places. She mention there would be more the next time but it was too expensive for my taste.
SmallAsianCock
04-27-22, 21:43
"Only ladies with big pussy lips please".
"Only ladies with big pussy lips please".Lucious, lips a plus.
Lucious, lips a plus.The work of a cunning linguist.
Maxamillion8
04-29-22, 12:55
"Only ladies with big pussy lips please".Go scientific to hash out the dumbos.
Luicious Virtical Lips.
SmallAsianCock
04-29-22, 21:11
Go scientific to hash out the dumbos.
Luicious Virtical Lips.I love the "Luscious Vertical Lips". So I'll update my profile to include " Well endowed Luscious Vertical Lips".
Biscuits1234
05-02-22, 20:31
I deleted my SA account after that fiasco with the bipolar chick down in Fayetteville to wash my hands of the scene completely. That situation really opened my eyes to how insane most of the women in this hobby are (especially the attractive ones on SA).
Anyways, I woke up to an ominous text on my burner from an unknown number saying: "Just wait until everyone finds out you're a sugar daddy, it's going to be so embarassing". No clue who it was, how they got the burner number, or what their goal was. Didn't even entertain them with a response. Guessing it was the first step in a blackmail attempt. The length these skanks will go through to try and get the upper hand and make a quick buck!
Take this tale as a sign to be more careful out there gentlemen. Even though my precautions will (hopefully) pay off, I know that there are a plethora of guys in the scene who don't look out for themselves like they should. Below are some of the steps I've taken to protect my identity. Some of them are admittedly pretty extreme, but highly recommended if you want to rest easy when faced with dumb threats or crazy SBs.
1) Get a proper burner phone. Google Voice / TextNow doesn't count. Get a proper shitty phone with a fake name and pay with a gift card (if possible) or cash. If you're on a sugar daddy website you should be able to afford this without a hitch.
2) Come up with a good fake name. My best advice is to pick a name that starts towards the opposite end of the alphabet. Avoid using the name of anyone tied closely with your real social media profiles (if you have any). Don't want your real profile to show up recommended next to your friend's whose name you used, do you?
3) If you insist on using real pictures of yourself: take unique ones specifically for your profile and blur / crop your face out of it. Take them in places that aren't necessarily associated with you. Never send saveable pictures of yourself thru any media channels and never use those pictures anywhere else.
4) Most younger women on SA want to talk via a social media app. Make a fake account. Use a unique username, fake display name, etc. I recommend you only install the app on a burner phone as well. Do not link any identifiable information to your fake account.
5) Hopefully by now you've established a vague and easy-to-remember pseudo-identity for yourself. Unless you're outright marrying an SB, never ever reveal any real details about who you really are and what you really do.
6) When in doubt, back out. If you have any reason to think you're being played, set up, toyed with, or if she's asking too many questions: ask yourself if she's really that good of a lay and if it's worth putting you and your career at risk. The answer should almost always be "no".
7) Remember: you are nothing but a cash cow to most of these women. They can and will turn on you if they see an opportunity to milk you for more money. Give them nothing to work with.
Hope this helps someone out there.
I was wondering who has seen Luna Valentine.
https://members.seeking.com/member/9c191c6a-fd74-4845-a566-0cfb04c111b5
Member #6718
05-02-22, 21:41
I was wondering who has seen Luna Valentine.
https://members.seeking.com/member/9c191c6a-fd74-4845-a566-0cfb04c111b5Open to discuss this privately.
Sorry this happened, but it seems like you've got things pretty tight. WTF have thing come to when we can't even count on the ladies making an honest dishonest living ;)
A few other lessons learned (these have all been "oh shit" moments for me) :
1. If she will be in your car, make sure any identifying info (ex registration, inspection paperwork etc.) is removed or locked up tight.
2. If your car has named "profiles" (seat / mirrors etc.) - remove your name from them and just use initials or a generic name.
3. Pay for food / drinks (really anything where your CC might be exposed to them) with cash if possible. If you do pay with a card at a nice restaurant, be ready to preempt the waiter / waitress when they are returning with it before that say "Thanks for dining with us Mr Jones".
4. Don't keep your wallet or any other info in the room.
I deleted my SA account after that fiasco with the bipolar chick down in Fayetteville to wash my hands of the scene completely. That situation really opened my eyes to how insane most of the women in this hobby are (especially the attractive ones on SA).
Anyways, I woke up to an ominous text on my burner from an unknown number saying: "Just wait until everyone finds out you're a sugar daddy, it's going to be so embarassing". No clue who it was, how they got the burner number, or what their goal was. Didn't even entertain them with a response. Guessing it was the first step in a blackmail attempt. The length these skanks will go through to try and get the upper hand and make a quick buck!
Take this tale as a sign to be more careful out there gentlemen. Even though my precautions will (hopefully) pay off, I know that there are a plethora of guys in the scene who don't look out for themselves like they should. Below are some of the steps I've taken to protect my identity. Some of them are admittedly pretty extreme, but highly recommended if you want to rest easy when faced with dumb threats or crazy SBs.
1) Get a proper burner phone. Google Voice / TextNow doesn't count. Get a proper shitty phone with a fake name and pay with a gift card (if possible) or cash. If you're on a sugar daddy website you should be able to afford this without a hitch.
2) Come up with a good fake name. My best advice is to pick a name that starts towards the opposite end of the alphabet. Avoid using the name of anyone tied closely with your real social media profiles (if you have any). Don't want your real profile to show up recommended next to your friend's whose name you used, do you?
3) If you insist on using real pictures of yourself: take unique ones specifically for your profile and blur / crop your face out of it. Take them in places that aren't necessarily associated with you. Never send saveable pictures of yourself thru any media channels and never use those pictures anywhere else.
4) Most younger women on SA want to talk via a social media app. Make a fake account. Use a unique username, fake display name, etc. I recommend you only install the app on a burner phone as well. Do not link any identifiable information to your fake account.
5) Hopefully by now you've established a vague and easy-to-remember pseudo-identity for yourself. Unless you're outright marrying an SB, never ever reveal any real details about who you really are and what you really do.
6) When in doubt, back out. If you have any reason to think you're being played, set up, toyed with, or if she's asking too many questions: ask yourself if she's really that good of a lay and if it's worth putting you and your career at risk. The answer should almost always be "no".
7) Remember: you are nothing but a cash cow to most of these women. They can and will turn on you if they see an opportunity to milk you for more money. Give them nothing to work with.
Hope this helps someone out there.
GentleGiant78
05-03-22, 20:04
I'm sure I'll get roasted for this but why'all just pick the wrong girls. I get all this for a quick fuck, but I'm on my third long term (shortest was 1. 5 years) SB and I don't follow any of this. They know my real name, my address, I travel with them, passports, IDs, hotel reservations all in my real name. They stay at my house and pet sit for me when I'm out of town. I've trusted all three of them implicitly and they've done the same with me. I do their freaking taxes for them LOL. I even got invited to the first ones wedding and the most recent ones graduation! There's good ones out there, just choose better and then you don't have to worry as much. But to each their own.
Sorry this happened, but it seems like you've got things pretty tight. WTF have thing come to when we can't even count on the ladies making an honest dishonest living ;)
A few other lessons learned (these have all been "oh shit" moments for me) :
1. If she will be in your car, make sure any identifying info (ex registration, inspection paperwork etc.) is removed or locked up tight.
2. If your car has named "profiles" (seat / mirrors etc.) - remove your name from them and just use initials or a generic name.
3. Pay for food / drinks (really anything where your CC might be exposed to them) with cash if possible. If you do pay with a card at a nice restaurant, be ready to preempt the waiter / waitress when they are returning with it before that say "Thanks for dining with us Mr Jones".
4. Don't keep your wallet or any other info in the room.
DirtyDeeds38
05-03-22, 23:17
I'm sure I'll get roasted for this but why'all just pick the wrong girls. I get all this for a quick fuck, but I'm on my third long term (shortest was 1. 5 years) SB and I don't follow any of this. They know my real name, my address, I travel with them, passports, IDs, hotel reservations all in my real name. They stay at my house and pet sit for me when I'm out of town. I've trusted all three of them implicitly and they've done the same with me. I do their freaking taxes for them LOL. I even got invited to the first ones wedding and the most recent ones graduation! There's good ones out there, just choose better and then you don't have to worry as much. But to each their own.What you're describing is more traditional long-term committed sugar dating. That's not typically what goes on with seeking and such. It's a revolving door. A lot of sugar daddies prefer a variety. I've had a few sugar babies that were long-term but I didn't keep privacy things from. And I did trust them. But they are far and few between. The majority of young women willing to sugar date have a few screw loose and you best protect yourself. You think with Johnny Depp went through was a nightmare, you have no idea what lurks out there in the sugar bowl.
But yes, if you develop a true relationship, which is what you're doing and trust is established then you can have more of an open door policy. I don't advice stop though. I dated a sugar baby who seems perfectly normal for about a year. Then the crazy slowly but surely started to reveal itself. It's in there lurking somewhere.
Are you finding them? I'm in sb and couple other sites, not finding any luck.
I'm sure I'll get roasted for this but why'all just pick the wrong girls. I get all this for a quick fuck, but I'm on my third long term (shortest was 1. 5 years) SB and I don't follow any of this. They know my real name, my address, I travel with them, passports, IDs, hotel reservations all in my real name. They stay at my house and pet sit for me when I'm out of town. I've trusted all three of them implicitly and they've done the same with me. I do their freaking taxes for them LOL. I even got invited to the first ones wedding and the most recent ones graduation! There's good ones out there, just choose better and then you don't have to worry as much. But to each their own.
Member #6718
05-04-22, 13:32
I'm sure I'll get roasted for this but why'all just pick the wrong girls. I get all this for a quick fuck, but I'm on my third long term (shortest was 1. 5 years) SB and I don't follow any of this. They know my real name, my address, I travel with them, passports, IDs, hotel reservations all in my real name. They stay at my house and pet sit for me when I'm out of town. I've trusted all three of them implicitly and they've done the same with me. I do their freaking taxes for them LOL. I even got invited to the first ones wedding and the most recent ones graduation! There's good ones out there, just choose better and then you don't have to worry as much. But to each their own.I have the same approach with sbs in general. I will from time to time go more casual for someone particularly hot, but I have had some great relationships with sbs.
Member #6718
05-04-22, 18:47
Are you finding them? I'm in sb and couple other sites, not finding any luck.Mostly on seeking.
Sb is mostly a scam.
Had a little luck on tinder / bumble / hinge but harder work for sure.
Sb definitely feels like the run around. I'll dig deeper with seeking, appreciate the tips!
Mostly on seeking.
Sb is mostly a scam.
Had a little luck on tinder / bumble / hinge but harder work for sure.
Biscuits1234
05-04-22, 19:55
I'm sure I'll get roasted for this but why'all just pick the wrong girls. I get all this for a quick fuck, but I'm on my third long term (shortest was 1. 5 years) SB and I don't follow any of this. They know my real name, my address, I travel with them, passports, IDs, hotel reservations all in my real name. They stay at my house and pet sit for me when I'm out of town. I've trusted all three of them implicitly and they've done the same with me. I do their freaking taxes for them LOL. I even got invited to the first ones wedding and the most recent ones graduation! There's good ones out there, just choose better and then you don't have to worry as much. But to each their own.If it got up the chain in my company that I was in the sugar business I would immediately lose my position, and would likely struggle to find a replacement that even comes close to my current salary. For obvious reasons I'm not going to state what company it is I work for or what we do. All I can really say is that me getting exposed as a sugar daddy would cause a serious headache for more people than just myself. Lot's of fragile connections held together by mandatory good PR.
Frankly I'd rather be moderately paranoid for my future's security than rely on "trust" to not bite me in the ass and cost me everything I've worked for up to this point in life; just for a good lay nonetheless.
Sorry, not sorry.
If it got up the chain in my company that I was in the sugar business I would immediately lose my position, and would likely struggle to find a replacement that even comes close to my current salary. For obvious reasons I'm not going to state what company it is I work for or what we do. All I can really say is that me getting exposed as a sugar daddy would cause a serious headache for more people than just myself. Lot's of fragile connections held together by mandatory good PR.
Frankly I'd rather be moderately paranoid for my future's security than rely on "trust" to not bite me in the ass and cost me everything I've worked for up to this point in life; just for a good lay nonetheless.
Sorry, not sorry.Absolutely agree with this. All this SB stuff is just temporary fun. And not worth losing everything else that you have built up in your life. Luckily I have not had any bad SB experiences where I got cheated or got robbed. But got ghosted a lot. The worst that happened was one SB got too drunk and I had to let her stay the night at the hotel I booked. Which I had done before but I would always let them book in their name rather than my name if they plan to stay the night. I politely declined to see her again. Though the sex was good the drinking was not to my tastes. I have one SB since 2 years now though I still like to hunt. But kind of tired. And will quit this after current SB moves on. No where have I exposed my real name. I usually get a dependent credit card with a phony name and use that when I have to use it in front of the SB. My current SB still calls me by my SA profile name. And that's all she cares about. Being paranoid in this hobby is a very good thing IMHO.
G.
Great job making sure you've picked a house sitter quality SB the first time you ever meet.
I'm sure I'll get roasted for this but why'all just pick the wrong girls. I get all this for a quick fuck, but I'm on my third long term (shortest was 1. 5 years) SB and I don't follow any of this. They know my real name, my address, I travel with them, passports, IDs, hotel reservations all in my real name. They stay at my house and pet sit for me when I'm out of town. I've trusted all three of them implicitly and they've done the same with me. I do their freaking taxes for them LOL. I even got invited to the first ones wedding and the most recent ones graduation! There's good ones out there, just choose better and then you don't have to worry as much. But to each their own.
I'm sure I'll get roasted for this but why'all just pick the wrong girls. I get all this for a quick fuck, but I'm on my third long term (shortest was 1. 5 years) SB and I don't follow any of this. They know my real name, my address, I travel with them, passports, IDs, hotel reservations all in my real name. They stay at my house and pet sit for me when I'm out of town. I've trusted all three of them implicitly and they've done the same with me. I do their freaking taxes for them LOL. I even got invited to the first ones wedding and the most recent ones graduation! There's good ones out there, just choose better and then you don't have to worry as much. But to each their own.Just curious but what would you say you actually end up paying per week or month on your SB?
SmallAsianCock
05-06-22, 20:40
Any info on this lady will be appreciated.
Maxamillion8
05-07-22, 12:34
Any info on this lady will be appreciated.Check your PM.
Check your PM.Could I have the same info please?
I'm sure I'll get roasted for this but why'all just pick the wrong girls. I get all this for a quick fuck, but I'm on my third long term (shortest was 1. 5 years) SB and I don't follow any of this. They know my real name, my address, I travel with them, passports, IDs, hotel reservations all in my real name. They stay at my house and pet sit for me when I'm out of town. I've trusted all three of them implicitly and they've done the same with me. I do their freaking taxes for them LOL. I even got invited to the first ones wedding and the most recent ones graduation! There's good ones out there, just choose better and then you don't have to worry as much. But to each their own.You got lucky but most spend months on that site only to be scammed. It's so bad now that you can't even get through a month without management expelling your membership for any reason they choose.
Member #6718
05-08-22, 07:28
You got lucky but most spend months on that site only to be scammed. It's so bad now that you can't even get through a month without management expelling your membership for any reason they choose.I have been back on seeking for 3 months since early Feb. In that time I have slept with around a dozen women from there. To avoid getting whacked off the site never talk money or use phrases like ppm on the site. Move that conversation to text (google voice if you need to) asap. If you start getting an off vibe from anyone, block them immediately so they can no longer see your profile to file a false report. Don't get into pointless arguments with internet strangers.
My personal approach is probably a bit closer to vanilla dating than most of you guys on here, and I have met many women on seeking who don't want any allowance from me at all. But for anyone where I have provided finances I move that conversation offline quickly.
Member #6718
05-08-22, 07:33
Just curious but what would you say you actually end up paying per week or month on your SB?In this area, assuming you want to see someone once or twice a week, you can get a very hot sb for $2 k a month. For ppm I find you can get hot women in the $300-$500 range with $400 being the most common. There are some women with GPS who look for or demand more, but keep digging and you will find plenty in that range. And many of those will accept less if it is consistent. Like most of these women are going to much prefer seeing the one same guy twice a week every week for a long period of time for $2 k a month than trying to find 4 one off ppm guys. Like if you are a married guy and have $1. 5-2 k a month and consistency to offer, you should be able to find a great sb in this area using seeking.
SmallAsianCock
05-08-22, 10:41
I have been back on seeking for 3 months since early Feb. In that time I have slept with around a dozen women from there. To avoid getting whacked off the site never talk money or use phrases like ppm on the site. Move that conversation to text (google voice if you need to) asap. If you start getting an off vibe from anyone, block them immediately so they can no longer see your profile to file a false report. Don't get into pointless arguments with internet strangers.
My personal approach is probably a bit closer to vanilla dating than most of you guys on here, and I have met many women on seeking who don't want any allowance from me at all. But for anyone where I have provided finances I move that conversation offline quickly.Completely agree 100% with SeekingRdu. Move the convo off the site as quickly as possible. Move on if they prefer to chat on the site. I date a lot of these girls from the site. And I even give some away to a few on here who have my number.
SmallAsianCock
05-09-22, 07:30
Could I have the same info please?Glad I did not bite. She posted additional pics and she is much heavier than I like.
So I joined SA a week ago, have a few conversations going, one chick flat out offered PPM. Etc. I get a call today from an unknown / unlisted number claiming to be from SA and something about a complaint of solicitation. I thought I read a post here saying the same thing. I would love to compare contacts with that person here and see if any patterns.
Sigh.
Maxamillion8
05-09-22, 12:26
So I joined SA a week ago, have a few conversations going, one chick flat out offered PPM. Etc. I get a call today from an unknown / unlisted number claiming to be from SA and something about a complaint of solicitation. I thought I read a post here saying the same thing. I would love to compare contacts with that person here and see if any patterns.
Sigh.I have had a same experience. Iv shared the profile as well (couple a pages back). Please share the profile here as an alert. It will help others.
Maxamillion8
05-09-22, 12:28
Glad I did not bite. She posted additional pics and she is much heavier than I like.Not sure what happened but she suddenly blocked me. I guess we have someone over here informed her that she is in discussion. I will caution my self before mentioning any intel. I will stick to not reveling the details in public anymore. But really, I thought we are on same team LOL.
EscortReview89
05-09-22, 16:52
Lynn.
https://members.seeking.com/member/d313158d-34b0-4a78-8033-359b562a8b16
Talking a little, pics trace back to a OF account under Goddess Lynn.
MichelleSuzy1234.
https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/64cadbef-cf81-4ddf-92cb-1372c3062876
Went to to phone call after reaching out, doesn't do FS, but said 400 for Greek and oral, virgin do to medical issue.
SmallAsianCock
05-11-22, 22:14
Any info on this lady will be appreciated. She was quick to throw out her number and just as quick to say what she wants for PPM. PM me with any info you may have. Planning on meeting her.
https://members.seeking.com/member/aa44c888-faf2-4aa5-a8ac-da30fa8e6180
SmallAsianCock
05-11-22, 22:33
I see "No Strings Attached" and "Platonic" a lot of times in ladies Seeking profiles. I feel those 2 are diametrically opposed. That one cannot be both. What am I missing here.
I have been back on seeking for 3 months since early Feb. In that time I have slept with around a dozen women from there. To avoid getting whacked off the site never talk money or use phrases like ppm on the site. Move that conversation to text (google voice if you need to) asap. If you start getting an off vibe from anyone, block them immediately so they can no longer see your profile to file a false report. Don't get into pointless arguments with internet strangers.
My personal approach is probably a bit closer to vanilla dating than most of you guys on here, and I have met many women on seeking who don't want any allowance from me at all. But for anyone where I have provided finances I move that conversation offline quickly.Just tried to send you a PM, yer mailbox is full. .
Member #6718
05-12-22, 09:37
Just tried to send you a PM, yer mailbox is full. .Cleared it up.
LikesGirls
05-19-22, 08:31
Has any of you gents seen this girl in person or at least communicated with her? Initial vibe seems fine but if possible I'd love to get some intel. Thanks!
https://members.seeking.com/member/7dd57465-cfa6-4d81-ba6b-2fae83bcbdbc
Spooner Strum
05-19-22, 11:20
This may or may not be the spot for this, but has anybody tried to set up a woman with a cam girl account and help them make $$? Could be an interesting venture.
GentleGiant78
05-19-22, 20:15
Has any of you gents seen this girl in person or at least communicated with her? Initial vibe seems fine but if possible I'd love to get some intel. Thanks!
https://members.seeking.com/member/7dd57465-cfa6-4d81-ba6b-2fae83bcbdbcShe's real. Seemed like a decent person. We did a m&g but she wasn't my type. She's not a pro but I got short term, high volume vibes from her. Also, she couldn't host and didn't have a car.
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/lqwMzODaAPjnjar5vyV3b61r
Meet this one last year for a meet and greet, she is real. I asked her if she could meet at a local strip club LOL which she agreed. We had dinner and drinks back at Peking lot there was some dfk and she allowed my hands to travel places. She mention there would be more the next time but it was too expensive for my taste.Just out of curiosity, how much was she talking about?
She is real cool older chick but just did not connect in during the deed. PPM type not shaved its been a while for that.
https://members.seeking.com/member/ce37ea4e-be80-4fa0-9c34-725f79d758f3What was the damage for this one and how she look in person besides the 70's Bush. LOL.
Member #6718
05-20-22, 16:42
Just out of curiosity, how much was she talking about?I would be curious too, I saw her on seeking.
Some of the prices gals are asking for, and, it seems, guys are paying around here are crazy. I am getting girls in Greensboro wanting 8. Are they out of their minds? It's Hicksville nc there not NYC.
BlueWaters
05-21-22, 14:09
Lynn.
https://members.seeking.com/member/d313158d-34b0-4a78-8033-359b562a8b16
Talking a little, pics trace back to a OF account under Goddess Lynn.
MichelleSuzy1234.
https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/64cadbef-cf81-4ddf-92cb-1372c3062876
Went to to phone call after reaching out, doesn't do FS, but said 400 for Greek and oral, virgin do to medical issue.I've met Michelle a few times for PPM 2019-2020 so it's been a while. Your post didn't lead to her profile but it's here:
https://members.seeking.com/member/1e142607-f35f-4c18-80b6-938e19fc81f0
Girl in the pictures is her. She's a cute petite girl, looks Hispanic but of Italian descent if I'm not mistaken. I met her mostly for dinner dates and once for private PPM at a hotel. Interestingly enough she told me she is a virgin too but wasn't aware it's due a medical issue, I just assumed she was lying because she wasn't comfortable with FS. Figured no way a tight college girl like her isn't getting dicked down by college guys on the regular. Shame because with that tight body she'd probably be a millionaire by now if she did; I'm honestly surprised some rich fuck hasn't taken her for himself by now.
Overall she's a pretty fun girl to take out for dinner and have a nice chat. She was somewhat uncomfortable kissing the few times I met up with her and would turn her cheek which I found kind of weird because it's not like I'm some old grandpa. The one time I did meet her at hotel for private PPM was awkward too which is why I didn't repeat. Didn't seem like she planned her schedule properly because she had just gotten off work and I basically got the impression she seemed in a rush to make it back home before family dinner. DATY but she didn't seem into it at all so I didn't force things. She was still turning her cheek when I tried to kiss her so me being a gentleman, I didn't want to force that either. I honestly didn't know what the fuck else to do so a little BBBJ which was ok with her tight mouth and small tongue but overall the meeting was just so awkward. I kissed her feet and fondled with her breast a bit and just sent her on her way. Lasted 15 minutes tops, it was too awkward, almost as if she was uncomfortable being naked and with her body so I just left it at that. Met her again for dinner a couple months later and she acted as if nothing unusual happened the last time we met so I figured that's just the way she is or maybe she's shy when it comes to sexual things.
Overall cool girl to take out to dinner, she's kinda fun to talk to. Wish she'd told me about the anal when I met her but again, this was a few years ago and maybe she's just gained some confidence since then. Would TOFTT and try again but I'm not local to RDU anymore so I'd be curious to hear what others experiences are with her. Sweet girl, treat her nicely.
I would be curious too, I saw her on seeking.
Some of the prices gals are asking for, and, it seems, guys are paying around here are crazy. I am getting girls in Greensboro wanting 8. Are they out of their minds? It's Hicksville nc there not NYC.I quit the site about 3 years ago but I get amusement hearing these stories. It's the long and expensive route to meeting basically what used to be available through escort agencies at half the cost and a tenth of the aggravation.
Nothing more pretentious than meeting these women at a coffee shop or restaurant when both of us know the reason why we were meeting but somehow to make the woman feel like she isn't a hooker you meet and agree to it on the next time, meanwhile you wasted $100 or so on dinner and drinks plus your time with someone who would never date you nor would you want to date them. So next time it's a straight up cash transaction to get what you thought you wanted only to find out she is usually unhygienic, in a rush and an overall disappointment.
Member #6531
05-22-22, 11:26
Hey. I'm getting back into the SB scene and I'm wondering if anyone has contact info for this woman? It's been a few years since we talked and I don't have her info anymore. Send a private message if you can help.
Member #6718
05-22-22, 14:09
I quit the site about 3 years ago but I get amusement hearing these stories. It's the long and expensive route to meeting basically what used to be available through escort agencies at half the cost and a tenth of the aggravation.
Nothing more pretentious than meeting these women at a coffee shop or restaurant when both of us know the reason why we were meeting but somehow to make the woman feel like she isn't a hooker you meet and agree to it on the next time, meanwhile you wasted $100 or so on dinner and drinks plus your time with someone who would never date you nor would you want to date them. So next time it's a straight up cash transaction to get what you thought you wanted only to find out she is usually unhygienic, in a rush and an overall disappointment.I think it depends on your overall MO. I stumbled upon this from other sugar dating forums, and got into sugar more from a regular dating perspective than the escort direction. Some of these girls on seeking I have had legit regular dating experiences / relationships from, without any allowances of cash changing hands. That is what makes it all the more comical when some average looking chick in fucking Greensboro thinks guys need to pay her 800 to hookup.
This may or may not be the spot for this, but has anybody tried to set up a woman with a cam girl account and help them make $$? Could be an interesting venture.If they are able to pic / video verify, but then start saying they want to do 'virtual' only. Test their answer. I've had probably about a half dozen sign up. A couple were then later inclined to meet in-person.
SmallAsianCock
05-23-22, 01:11
Does anyone have a lead on Tiffany. Looks like she's been around since 2019. And info will be appreciated.
https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/27cda71e-cfa4-4667-9bb8-fa0fab094fa6
Spooner Strum
05-23-22, 09:44
If they are able to pic / video verify, but then start saying they want to do 'virtual' only. Test their answer. I've had probably about a half dozen sign up. A couple were then later inclined to meet in-person.Yep. Chaturbate is my go to site.
SmallAsianCock
05-23-22, 19:47
Does anyone have a lead on Tiffany. Looks like she's been around since 2019. And info will be appreciated.
https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/27cda71e-cfa4-4667-9bb8-fa0fab094fa6Here's the right link to her profile.
https://members.seeking.com/member/44a722bc-cfb0-4fa0-bba2-84df5b29c42f
What was the damage for this one and how she look in person besides the 70's Bush. LOL.I don't remember but it was nothing crazy I would say 2 as guess.
This may or may not be the spot for this, but has anybody tried to set up a woman with a cam girl account and help them make $$? Could be an interesting venture.I did this back in the day when webcam as new and the cameras plugged into your computer! Used a room in my apartment that had a roman tub it was good times for about a year.
Has any of you gents seen this girl in person or at least communicated with her? Initial vibe seems fine but if possible I'd love to get some intel. Thanks!
https://members.seeking.com/member/7dd57465-cfa6-4d81-ba6b-2fae83bcbdbcDid you end up meeting? I have met her and her roommate at the time. Other than being high on something they seemed fine but location was too close to home so never returned but have gotten back into contact lately.
I see "No Strings Attached" and "Platonic" a lot of times in ladies Seeking profiles. I feel those 2 are diametrically opposed. That one cannot be both. What am I missing here.They don't friends ect to see there real intentions.
LikesGirls
05-24-22, 10:56
Did you end up meeting? I have met her and her roommate at the time. Other than being high on something they seemed fine but location was too close to home so never returned but have gotten back into contact lately.Do you mind telling me when you met her? (approximately if you'd rather not give exact date). And have you made new plans with her? Just wondering how truthful she is as she told me she hasn't yet seen anyone from the site.
Anyone ever met her?
https://members.seeking.com/member/c1ab2d2f-8b66-44a8-b5fb-45e41e49e419
Chat is going well but I feel like I'm missing something. She doesn't fit the mold at all.
Do you mind telling me when you met her? (approximately if you'd rather not give exact date). And have you made new plans with her? Just wondering how truthful she is as she told me she hasn't yet seen anyone from the site.June last year.
And no she keeps saying she is out of town.
Anyone ever met her?
https://members.seeking.com/member/c1ab2d2f-8b66-44a8-b5fb-45e41e49e419
Chat is going well but I feel like I'm missing something. She doesn't fit the mold at all.I haven't met her but have connected with several. What do you mean she doesn't fit the mold?
Met this one on secret benefits. She goes by Syn3. She's a mother of 3 but body is OK. Forgot her age but in her 20's. Cool asf and dtf. Looking for 1500-2 k per month though flexible on arrangement. I would've given her a spin but she said she's a witch. Like, she's studying to become one. No judgment but not my thing.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/06309b30a45765d3
EscortReview89
05-28-22, 23:56
This seems like a LE trap, or a set up, she is down for anything and everything, and for 300 PPM.
https://members.seeking.com/member/ec8d4455-1e64-45a7-9632-2b15866abdc7
This seems like a LE trap, or a set up, she is down for anything and everything, and for 300 PPM.
https://members.seeking.com/member/ec8d4455-1e64-45a7-9632-2b15866abdc7300 ppm is a fair amount especially for someone just starting out. The account is new so could be fake. Have you searched the number or pic to see what comes up? You could do video call through the app which I've done before or you could setup a lunch date. I always tell them no cash on first meeting, we're just feeling each other out. Keep us updated.
LatinoHeat919
05-29-22, 18:56
Did you end up meeting? I have met her and her roommate at the time. Other than being high on something they seemed fine but location was too close to home so never returned but have gotten back into contact lately.They are pro. We called them the Pittsboro trio. They used to stay in Pittsboro on a trailer. Saw her roommate by in the day. H is their bff.
EscortReview89
05-29-22, 19:31
300 ppm is a fair amount especially for someone just starting out. The account is new so could be fake. Have you searched the number or pic to see what comes up? You could do video call through the app which I've done before or you could setup a lunch date. I always tell them no cash on first meeting, we're just feeling each other out. Keep us updated.I looked up the photo, seems to be a model take in Dubai, which when I asked, "cool photo, where is that" she gave the city, but kept asking to meet right that second, at 11 pm and I'm an hour away, I told her I was looking to get coffee first, and see how it went, she ghosted me right after.
I've met Michelle a few times for PPM 2019-2020 so it's been a while. Your post didn't lead to her profile but it's here:
https://members.seeking.com/member/1e142607-f35f-4c18-80b6-938e19fc81f0
Girl in the pictures is her. She's a cute petite girl, looks Hispanic but of Italian descent if I'm not mistaken. I met her mostly for dinner dates and once for private PPM at a hotel. Interestingly enough she told me she is a virgin too but wasn't aware it's due a medical issue, I just assumed she was lying because she wasn't comfortable with FS. Figured no way a tight college girl like her isn't getting dicked down by college guys on the regular. Shame because with that tight body she'd probably be a millionaire by now if she did; I'm honestly surprised some rich fuck hasn't taken her for himself by now.
Overall she's a pretty fun girl to take out for dinner and have a nice chat. She was somewhat uncomfortable kissing the few times I met up with her and would turn her cheek which I found kind of weird because it's not like I'm some old grandpa. The one time I did meet her at hotel for private PPM was awkward too which is why I didn't repeat. Didn't seem like she planned her schedule properly because she had just gotten off work and I basically got the impression she seemed in a rush to make it back home before family dinner. DATY but she didn't seem into it at all so I didn't force things. She was still turning her cheek when I tried to kiss her so me being a gentleman, I didn't want to force that either. I honestly didn't know what the fuck else to do so a little BBBJ which was ok with her tight mouth and small tongue but overall the meeting was just so awkward. I kissed her feet and fondled with her breast a bit and just sent her on her way. Lasted 15 minutes tops, it was too awkward, almost as if she was uncomfortable being naked and with her body so I just left it at that. Met her again for dinner a couple months later and she acted as if nothing unusual happened the last time we met so I figured that's just the way she is or maybe she's shy when it comes to sexual things..As far as Michelle, I see her ever now and I the years, most recently about 2 months ago, everything is on the table, except vag penetration. I've thrown some ridiculous offers just to test. And it's always no, so I feel like the medical issue is real. She is super cute, tiny, nice, takes direction well.
LikesGirls
05-31-22, 22:19
As far as Michelle, I see her ever now and I the years, most recently about 2 months ago, everything is on the table, except vag penetration. I've thrown some ridiculous offers just to test. And it's always no, so I feel like the medical issue is real. She is super cute, tiny, nice, takes direction well.I believe this girl also had (has?) an account called something like BrownEyedGirl, whom I've seen and while "Michelle" doesn't show her face on the two photos she resembles BrownEyedGirl a lot down to the car keys she's holding and her body type / height / ethnicity are the same. BrownEyedGirl goes by a name that starts with a J and also refuses vaginal sex.
BlueWaters
06-01-22, 05:09
As far as Michelle, I see her ever now and I the years, most recently about 2 months ago, everything is on the table, except vag penetration. I've thrown some ridiculous offers just to test. And it's always no, so I feel like the medical issue is real. She is super cute, tiny, nice, takes direction well.Thanks for the reply regarding Michelle. Wish I had known she was so sexually open but as mentioned, it's been a few years so maybe she's become more comfortable over time. Hope you don't mind if I send you a PM? BTW for anyone reading- I wasn't trying to talk bad about her at all. The girl is very sweet, gentle, and cute as hell.
LatinoHeat919
06-01-22, 09:39
Anyone have anything to report on this one?
She asked for 5 Ben's to hit the couch.
https://members.seeking.com/member/2c490491-f9d3-4162-98f8-84841b34f08e
Feel free you pm if you don't feel like posting for everyone.
ElectricHug
06-01-22, 09:46
Anyone have anything to report on this one?
She asked for 5 Ben's to hit the couch.
https://members.seeking.com/member/2c490491-f9d3-4162-98f8-84841b34f08e
Feel free you pm if you don't feel like posting for everyone.5 when she is "49" (over 50)? How long have you been at this? Seems way OTT.
Dollersine
06-01-22, 10:37
I am looking for some help guys and girls that might be reading this. I am from the lake area north of Charlotte about 20 miles north of uptown. I had a great UTR and she has been ghosting me for a while and I am not sure why. Oh well. I am currently looking for another 1 or 2 to fill the void. I have asked for help on the Charlotte boards but I haven't gotten an answer. I read all the NC boards and I see you SB categories are active so I figured I would ask here.
Do you feel that seeking is worth it? What package works best, remember I am not looking to find many girls just 1 or 2 that fits the bill. (yes I know that isn't easy). Any help advise would be greatly appreciated, if you know of a UTR in my area that would also help. If you ever are in my area I can give you some hits that might fit you itch?
Thanks in advance.
As I always say use you big head and stay safe out there!
LatinoHeat919
06-01-22, 11:20
5 when she is "49" (over 50)? How long have you been at this? Seems way OTT.Long. I usually go the young ones. Which I usually pay half and that price. But I haven't seen anyone in a year. That's why I was wondering what's the price market today 😂.
Member #6718
06-01-22, 12:35
Anyone have anything to report on this one?
She asked for 5 Ben's to hit the couch.
https://members.seeking.com/member/2c490491-f9d3-4162-98f8-84841b34f08e
Feel free you pm if you don't feel like posting for everyone.I wouldn't fuck her for free.
I haven't met her but have connected with several. What do you mean she doesn't fit the mold?I'm not sure how to answer this without coming across as too dismissive but I generally fit SBs in to 1 of 3 categories:
1. Sex workers in denial.
2. Ladies that have fallen on hard times and hope a SD solves their problems.
3. Young girls that have grown up in a world where being a SB is glamorized on Instagram, etc. And they haven't yet had their bubble burst (modern day version of wannabe video vixens).
If they don't fit in to one of those categories and otherwise have a lot of positive things going on in life, I start to wonder if I'm missing something. Not good or bad, just would be refreshing to know that I'm not missing anything.
As far as Michelle, I see her ever now and I the years, most recently about 2 months ago, everything is on the table, except vag penetration. I've thrown some ridiculous offers just to test. And it's always no, so I feel like the medical issue is real. She is super cute, tiny, nice, takes direction well.I seen her (she goes by Jen on WYP).
She is down for anything, specially back door.
300.
LikesGirls
06-01-22, 18:08
Any intel on this one?
https://members.seeking.com/member/27e939ca-1f53-41c2-8a78-d1017e9d3834
I did a M&G that went well (not a hint of an initial gift, good conversation, she seems smart, is pretty), and thinking about moving forward.
I wouldn't fuck her for free.Bro you tripping, she can get it for free all day!
Any intel on this one?
https://members.seeking.com/member/27e939ca-1f53-41c2-8a78-d1017e9d3834
I did a M&G that went well (not a hint of an initial gift, good conversation, she seems smart, is pretty), and thinking about moving forward.I don't have any details but it sounds like a hit. Just curious, what type of allowance is she asking? I've met some who don't ask for anything, some asking a little and some asking a lot. I had one tell me $1000 a week which was crazy.
I believe this girl also had (has?) an account called something like BrownEyedGirl, whom I've seen and while "Michelle" doesn't show her face on the two photos she resembles BrownEyedGirl a lot down to the car keys she's holding and her body type / height / ethnicity are the same. BrownEyedGirl goes by a name that starts with a J and also refuses vaginal sex.Yes, same girl.
Wondering if any others play this messed up game as well, LOL.
I look for bi sexual SB's, for the purpose of them pretending to be my significant other, in order to swing with married couples.
Example, my current SB. For 500, will F* all night in a hotel room with anywhere from 1 to 10 couples couples showing up, with most times the number being 2 couples.
So I end up f*ing her, plus all the hot soccer moms I can handle, for 500 and the cost of a hotel room.
Now, I'm 40's, balding, kinda fat, small d*, hairy. These wifes would never in a million years want to f* me. But they and their husbands really want to f* my SB. So they take one for the team.
We occasionally do weekend parties, but for that its normally 1500.
Figured it was time I let others know how to get more bang for your buck.
*edit* - nope, my SB aint for sale, find your own! but...if you have one to trade, maybe we all could meet up and plan a swing party!
Member #6718
06-02-22, 10:57
Bro you tripping, she can get it for free all day!At that level of quality, I can get it for free all day too.
Member #6718
06-02-22, 11:00
Any intel on this one?
https://members.seeking.com/member/27e939ca-1f53-41c2-8a78-d1017e9d3834
I did a M&G that went well (not a hint of an initial gift, good conversation, she seems smart, is pretty), and thinking about moving forward.I talked with her a long time ago, and looks like she not been active for a while. I got to texting and it was clear she was dtf in a ppm type situation, so felt a bit pro / semi-pro. In the end we couldn't work out a time to meet and it fizzled. I would say she was legit and pretty damn hot though.
Member #6718
06-02-22, 11:04
I seen her (she goes by Jen on WYP).
She is down for anything, specially back door.
300.She is quoting 400 from what I see. Think she would still do 300? I had declined previously because of the no vag rule, but I do love small chicks and might give her a spin.
She is quoting 400 from what I see. Think she would still do 300? I had declined previously because of the no vag rule, but I do love small chicks and might give her a spin.Not sure, she did tried to upsell last minute but I told her we had agreed 300 and she was ok.
Someone else mention it might be age thing?
She is quoting 400 from what I see. Think she would still do 300? I had declined previously because of the no vag rule, but I do love small chicks and might give her a spin.She will take 300 all day long.
In a pinch, money tight, gas low, she will do 150.
My normal was 200.
Dollersine
06-02-22, 12:06
I am looking to get advise on seeking for a SB. Is the site worth it. How is the best way to play and what plan is best.
Member #6718
06-02-22, 13:00
Not sure, she did tried to upsell last minute but I told her we had agreed 300 and she was ok.
Someone else mention it might be age thing?Interesting on age thing. I am late 40's. So not super young but not as old as some of us LOL.
Member #6718
06-02-22, 13:01
I am looking to get advise on seeking for a SB. Is the site worth it. How is the best way to play and what plan is best.Feel free to PM and I will share my experience and approach.
I am looking to get advise on seeking for a SB. Is the site worth it. How is the best way to play and what plan is best.I personally use WYP and instagram.
I had luck in both.
Pardon my ignorance but what site is WYP?
BartonFink
06-02-22, 19:13
What's your price dot com.
I recommend it as well.
Pardon my ignorance but what site is WYP?
Nani305 (on SA) AKA Stephanie from Henderson. Don't waste your time. Sob stories, begs for money, flakes on meeting. I don't think she's a fraud but she's a big talker relative to what she delivers.
Sorry, don't have profile link as I blocked her.
ElectricHug
06-03-22, 10:47
What's your price dot com.
I recommend it as well.
I personally use WYP and instagram.
I had luck in both.I have a decent handle on SA, but how do you go about using WYP and Instagram?
Instagram seems overwhelming to me -- so many accounts, most I assume who would be uninterested in anything -- what do you search for?
WYP is hard to find info on the forums due the 3-letter search limit -- do you just have a set dollar figure that you immediately offer to most that you are interested in, and then move the conversation to text as quickly as possible?
She is quoting 400 from what I see. Think she would still do 300? I had declined previously because of the no vag rule, but I do love small chicks and might give her a spin.Did a search on wyp and she didn't show up.
I have a decent handle on SA, but how do you go about using WYP and Instagram?
Instagram seems overwhelming to me -- so many accounts, most I assume who would be uninterested in anything -- what do you search for?
WYP is hard to find info on the forums due the 3-letter search limit -- do you just have a set dollar figure that you immediately offer to most that you are interested in, and then move the conversation to text as quickly as possible?I meet and greet $100-150, about 6 out 10 lead to intimate meetings.
Instagram I friend girls from local college / sorority and clubs.
TarHeelFan
06-03-22, 12:22
I seen her (she goes by Jen on WYP).
She is down for anything, specially back door.
300.I thought that was Jen. Glad you also chimed in and yes she loves back door. Have not seen her in a while and lost her digits though so maybe I need to get back on there and hookup again.
I thought that was Jen. Glad you also chimed in and yes she loves back door. Have not seen her in a while and lost her digits though so maybe I need to get back on there and hookup again.I mean for backdoor at $300 is ok but I don't really like seeing her, she is just not really into it. And kissing is awkward.
She can have decent conversations. And is very friendly.
Dream with her last year, She is good looking, gorgeous. We had dinner and back to her place. 8/10.
Damage was 300 back thn plus dinner $140 had a great time.
I found out she also advertised on tryst. Now she is asking $550 for hr outcall only.
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/pwBZ4v2GJnP3mBB0eXDWnjbg
Member #6718
06-03-22, 15:36
Dream with her last year, She is good looking, gorgeous. We had dinner and back to her place. 8/10.
Damage was 300 back thn plus dinner $140 had a great time.
I found out she also advertised on tryst. Now she is asking $550 for hr outcall only.
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/pwBZ4v2GJnP3mBB0eXDWnjbgYeah she is full on pro. I have chatted with her on Insta (saw her via Bumble) and found her on WYP, Seeking and some escort sites. From her personal Insta looks like she has a very nice house, lives with her sister and their kid I think, and I would bet any money it's all paid for by her fucking. I declined to even discuss her ppm expectations once I saw how wide she is. Looks hot though I got to agree.
Member #6718
06-04-22, 12:05
300 ppm is a fair amount especially for someone just starting out. The account is new so could be fake. Have you searched the number or pic to see what comes up? You could do video call through the app which I've done before or you could setup a lunch date. I always tell them no cash on first meeting, we're just feeling each other out. Keep us updated.https://members.seeking.com/login?redirectTo=/member/ec8d4455-1e64-45a7-9632-2b15866abdc7
I believe she is fake. I got texting with her and arranged to meet (very quickly I might add) but then she insisted on money for an Uber upfront. Told her if she sends me a pickup location I will have an Uber pick her up. Never heard from her again.
Yeah she is full on pro. I have chatted with her on Insta (saw her via Bumble) and found her on WYP, Seeking and some escort sites. From her personal Insta looks like she has a very nice house, lives with her sister and their kid I think, and I would bet any money it's all paid for by her fucking. I declined to even discuss her ppm expectations once I saw how wide she is. Looks hot though I got to agree.She is hot! It was a good time back thn not sure now.
I hit her up and she was willing to do 350 for me LOL.
EscortReview89
06-08-22, 13:23
Goes by "doll" is in the area until August with a fried that can join. She will ask for money up front, and try an black mail you. She found my family and threatened to send text and other info to them, she also got my last name which I never shared. I would like the profile but I already reported her.
Member #6718
06-08-22, 17:55
Goes by "doll" is in the area until August with a fried that can join. She will ask for money up front, and try an black mail you. She found my family and threatened to send text and other info to them, she also got my last name which I never shared. I would like the profile but I already reported her.Oh shit I talked to the same one. Thought she was coming over until she asked for money. I also blocked her but happened to screenshot the profile. Stay very far away guys.
EscortReview89
06-08-22, 20:29
Oh shit I talked to the same one. Thought she was coming over until she asked for money. I also blocked her but happened to screenshot the profile. Stay very far away guys.Yes, that one, sadly my attachment didn't upload. If her profile is up SA doesn't care either.
Member #6531
06-09-22, 13:57
I've been getting to know a non-SB provider. She's looking for someone to pay her deposit, first months rent, and starting utilities in a studio or one-bedroom, in return for a year of weekly services, and exclusivity.
She see's it as her way out of the game.
PM me if you want her contact info and would seriously consider it.
If you're curious why I didn't jump on it, she has a very well-managed habit. But I'm only looking for someone who's entirely clean.
EscortReview89
06-09-22, 17:29
Follow up on Lynn, she is using SA to sell her OF and looking for pay pigs.
TheChosenOne91
06-10-22, 01:18
Lowballer.
https://members.seeking.com/messages...e-cf8567e952e7
I guess I'm a low baller LOL. She's hot but $500 for dinner and $1 k to play. No bueno.
Supply and demand don't warrant $1 k for one night imo.
I've been getting to know a non-SB provider. She's looking for someone to pay her deposit, first months rent, and starting utilities in a studio or one-bedroom, in return for a year of weekly services, and exclusivity.
She see's it as her way out of the game.
PM me if you want her contact info and would seriously consider it.
If you're curious why I didn't jump on it, she has a very well-managed habit. But I'm only looking for someone who's entirely clean.I'd almost be ashamed to bring this here.
Those goods would have to be sampled first, and I bet she won't do that!
Someone with a habit willing to stick to a contract, that would be a first.
Lowballer.
https://members.seeking.com/messages...e-cf8567e952e7
I guess I'm a low baller LOL. She's hot but $500 for dinner and $1 k to play. No bueno.
Supply and demand don't warrant $1 k for one night imo.That link is dead it's linked to your messages.
TheChosenOne91
06-10-22, 12:50
That link is dead it's linked to your messages.Thanks here is the correct link: https://members.seeking.com/member/0d2128b7-0065-4c19-a881-6aed0bd9c4b1.
EscortReview89
06-10-22, 14:15
I'd almost be ashamed to bring this here.
Those goods would have to be sampled first, and I bet she won't do that!
Someone with a habit willing to stick to a contract, that would be a first.She's a cutie, but won't answer text, could be a good PPM.
Thanks here is the correct link: https://members.seeking.com/member/0d2128b7-0065-4c19-a881-6aed0bd9c4b1.That pays her $500 for dinner needs to reevaluate their life. The insanity goes on.
Member #6718
06-10-22, 17:43
That pays her $500 for dinner needs to reevaluate their life. The insanity goes on.I am guessing she isn't getting any hits. She isn't even that hot.
Anyone who has this shit in their profile is an immediate next:
"I know what I deserve".
ElectricHug
06-10-22, 18:02
Anyone who has this shit in their profile is an immediate next:
"I know what I deserve".Or a mention of "findom" -- genuinely don't understand how that's even a thing and don't believe 99.99% of the girls looking for it will ever find someone willing.
Or a mention of "findom" -- genuinely don't understand how that's even a thing and don't believe 99.99% of the girls looking for it will ever find someone willing.I think the same EXACT way!
Geneva Guy
06-13-22, 07:33
Or a mention of "findom" -- genuinely don't understand how that's even a thing and don't believe 99.99% of the girls looking for it will ever find someone willing.Met a college girl on SA a few years ago, she was looking for findom. Met up with her and within 30 minutes headed to bed. Told her that the only findom she was getting was my semen deep in her pussy and loaded her up good. Been a couple years, still filling that pussy for a reasonable rate. She had bad luck with BF wouldn't eat her out. I do and she begs for it before I fuck her silly. Make a counteroffer boys!
GG.
MythMan2010
06-13-22, 09:41
They either hit one payday for $500 with some loser a single time OR their friends tell them they are are killing it with some SB relationship at $2000 a pop. In their minds they are like "oh I'm worth that" instead of letting the market tell them what they are worth. I've met with plenty of girls that could have done $250 with me weekly that hold out for the whale that's not coming and they get $0.
I always keep things friendly and try to keep a few girls that are interested around so when they can't buy fucking $5 gas they let reality set in. I probably like the chase as much as the finish but so much more rewarding.
Early on I gave in with more money and the experience was always slightly disappointing.
That's my view. Sorry to go on about it.
Nani305 (on SA) AKA Stephanie from Henderson. Don't waste your time. Sob stories, begs for money, flakes on meeting. I don't think she's a fraud but she's a big talker relative to what she delivers.
Sorry, don't have profile link as I blocked her.https://raleigh.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/mini-bbw-back-in-town-ready-to/151120517597
Claims to be from Winston-Salem. Good scam, lots of text, a phone call, wrote my name on a mirror and took a selfie. Fell for the "Can you cashapp me gas money". Lesson learned cost me $50. Oo.
This one: https://members.seeking.com/member/2b8f740c-bfce-42e1-9658-d9a690638691.
Sigh.
Claims to be from Winston-Salem. Good scam, lots of text, a phone call, wrote my name on a mirror and took a selfie. Fell for the "Can you cashapp me gas money". Lesson learned cost me $50. Oo.
This one: https://members.seeking.com/member/2b8f740c-bfce-42e1-9658-d9a690638691.
Sigh.Profile is already down or just blocking me. Phone number is: 336-561-9311.
Member #6718
06-13-22, 12:19
Claims to be from Winston-Salem. Good scam, lots of text, a phone call, wrote my name on a mirror and took a selfie. Fell for the "Can you cashapp me gas money". Lesson learned cost me $50. Oo.
This one: https://members.seeking.com/member/2b8f740c-bfce-42e1-9658-d9a690638691.
Sigh.Damn dude that sucks. For the amount of effort they put in for $50 these chicks would be better off working a few hours at mcdonalds. She must have blocked you thanks for the heads up.
https://raleigh.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/mini-bbw-back-in-town-ready-to/151120517597Don't think Nani is a pro.
SmallAsianCock
06-14-22, 00:26
Any info on this lady will be appreciated. She's been around since 2021 so am hoping someone can PM me. We have been texting and have agreed to meet.
https://members.seeking.com/member/a2b71e43-f944-4340-82bd-b7dffdc8d946
Any info on her, I saw some one posted here, much info further.
https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/27cda71e-cfa4-4667-9bb8-fa0fab094fa6
SmallAsianCock
06-16-22, 20:37
Any info on her, I saw some one posted here, much info further.
https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/27cda71e-cfa4-4667-9bb8-fa0fab094fa6We have been texting back and forth. The backside pics on SA are likely fake. She did send face picks and she looks okay. Want 3 bills to meet. She was very eager to meet. Am yet to bite the bullet.
LikesGirls
06-16-22, 23:51
We have been texting back and forth. The backside pics on SA are likely fake. She did send face picks and she looks okay. Want 3 bills to meet. She was very eager to meet. Am yet to bite the bullet.How were you able to see the profile? The link was to a message mailbox.
SmallAsianCock
06-17-22, 09:49
How were you able to see the profile? The link was to a message mailbox.I had previously messaged her on SA. So the link to me to my convos with her. Initially I was surprised that clicking on the link would do that. So I went back and voila! It is a message link.
Here's the link that should have been posted.
https://members.seeking.com/member/44a722bc-cfb0-4fa0-bba2-84df5b29c42f
RocketMike
06-17-22, 18:07
Anyone tried to contact her? She responded pretty quickly and immediately wanted to set up a meet. She woul confuse me with other people she was talking to. I don't have a problem with that, I'm just not 100% sure she's legit. Her profile has been up for a while now though.
https://members.seeking.com/member/e57ed497-0bc9-4227-adc6-9d874e575919
Did you ever get through and get any details?
Anyone tried to contact her? She responded pretty quickly and immediately wanted to set up a meet. She woul confuse me with other people she was talking to. I don't have a problem with that, I'm just not 100% sure she's legit. Her profile has been up for a while now though.
https://members.seeking.com/member/e57ed497-0bc9-4227-adc6-9d874e575919
RocketMike
06-19-22, 16:35
Did you ever get through and get any details?Yes I did. She quickly offerd P4 P at $300 but I had to set up the place. I wasn't comfortable having her come to my house so I would have had to get a hotel room. I got sketched out and didn't go any further until I could determine if she was real and not settling me up for something. I want to because her pictures are nice. Her story was that she was trying to make a bunch of money in a hurry which is fine by me but I had alarm bells going off in my head so I'm just trying to see if anyone else has seen her.
Yes I did. She quickly offerd P4 P at $300 but I had to set up the place. I wasn't comfortable having her come to my house so I would have had to get a hotel room. I got sketched out and didn't go any further until I could determine if she was real and not settling me up for something. I want to because her pictures are nice. Her story was that she was trying to make a bunch of money in a hurry which is fine by me but I had alarm bells going off in my head so I'm just trying to see if anyone else has seen her.Pm me her number, ill take one for the team, LOL.
SmallAsianCock
06-20-22, 22:06
Anyone had progress with this lady. Any info PM me.
https://members.seeking.com/member/b0f29838-46b2-4b94-a1e2-c1454f616fc4#.
Guys, how's your experience now days with sb $ expectations? I'm seeing steep upward trend. Even an average sb asking 5+.
Member #6718
06-23-22, 18:20
Guys, how's your experience now days with sb $ expectations? I'm seeing steep upward trend. Even an average sb asking 5+.If they are average 300.
If they are hot 400.
Anything above is gps.
GutterMind4
06-23-22, 18:26
I haven't had that many experiences this year but I have chatted with hundreds of girls. The 10% that I actually get to chat offsite and discuss money, start 5 to 1 k. Admittedly, I do chase the model types over the GND type. But, they end up looking more GND than models when I get finally meet them. I've paid 3 in Orlando and Atlanta (latinas) and 5 in Charlotte, Raleigh, and Atlanta and 7 in Vegas (knockout but that's low out there for that quality). All were multi-hour, what ever I wanted. I have about 5 more lined up in Charlotte, Raleigh, and Charleston when I get back to that town that are asking 4 to 5. I've also been blocked for offering 3 or 4 to some girls (not even a counter), and some respectful declines from ladies that say they have no trouble getting 8 to 1 k. And of course the occasion crazy ass that says 15 to 2 k (actual common market rate in Vegas). I have negotiated (usually successfully) with all of them to get to that amount but, could now repeat for less with a few of them. So there's really no real guide.
I've decided that I would risk what my budget would allow for that trip and hope it turns into a regular UTR for next time I'm in town for 2 to 3 bills. At the end of the day, the only value I have found with SB is the no rush, open menu, take as much time as I need. The same time with a pro would have easily ran 15 to 2 k on most of those dates. But the work (time) it has taken has been brutal. Good luck.
Guys, how's your experience now days with sb $ expectations? I'm seeing steep upward trend. Even an average sb asking 5+.
Anyone has info on this lady. I'll appreciate you PM ASAP. Thanks.
https://members.seeking.com/member/234ec443-c860-448f-a9e2-ce2b7c89ec99
https://members.seeking.com/member/45a17b68-caa0-41de-b2d1-ea721cf16edd
Any info on her? Gave number instantly.
SmallAsianCock
06-27-22, 21:16
This one was quick to drop her number. But wants a 100 deposit before meeting. She blocked me on SA without cause. She sent convos with other guys to get me to buy into the deposit. But I did not bite.
https://members.seeking.com/member/6433e74e-ad54-4e3d-8838-d3690acd44d2
SmallAsianCock
06-27-22, 21:23
Anyone has info on this lady. I'll appreciate you PM ASAP. Thanks.
https://members.seeking.com/member/234ec443-c860-448f-a9e2-ce2b7c89ec99I was to meet with her about a week ago. But she failed to show up. Then she blocked me on SA. Because the amount she was asking was so low, I invited her to lunch to make sure she's not LE. She was a no show.
I need some help on how this SA works. I did waste my membership last time about 6 months ago. Now I am planning to take again find someone. Seniors please help this newbie and guide him into success. PM me.
Thank you.
RocketMike
06-28-22, 13:03
Made contact with this one and she seemed really nice but I got completely sketched out by several "little" things during our conversations.
1) she wanted to set up a meet right away. Not necessarily bad by itself.
2) she was at a hotel but I couldn't cone there because all her stuff was there. Again, not that unusual.
3) she wouldn't give me a price and asked me how much I wanted to pay. Nope!
4) she said a sheriff was always near her location so we had to do car play. Nope.
5) it was odd that I reached out to her at 10 am but she didn't respond until 5:30 with a "What time were you thinking?" Then she sent me a couple of pics that looked reasonable.
I got sketched out and told her nevermind. I've never has a girl not give me a price via text plus the sheriff comment were the two big flags. Has anyone else met with her? Can anyone verify she's not working for Durham sheriff or Durham city police?
Am I being paranoid?
https://members.seeking.com/member/af16d926-96ad-4bfb-bc25-ddd989f0ea31
Maxamillion8
06-28-22, 15:02
https://members.seeking.com/member/b15e18d4-04ee-4010-b0d6-df1c36ef7426
Talked really nicely, moved to texting. She started sharing some screen shots of crypto she claims to do business in. I asked to meet for a coffee or something. She wanted to talk more for few days before meeting. Asked me to share my investments screenshot so she can advise me. LOL. I politely reject that and next I started getting is all kinda heat from her. Badmouthing and frustration started coming along with lot of racist comments. I have reported her to SA. Whoever is talking to her. DO NOT share anything private info.
MM.
DJprofessorK
06-28-22, 18:37
https://members.seeking.com/member/b15e18d4-04ee-4010-b0d6-df1c36ef7426
Talked really nicely, moved to texting. She started sharing some screen shots of crypto she claims to do business in. I asked to meet for a coffee or something. She wanted to talk more for few days before meeting. Asked me to share my investments screenshot so she can advise me. LOL. I politely reject that and next I started getting is all kinda heat from her. Badmouthing and frustration started coming along with lot of racist comments. I have reported her to SA. Whoever is talking to her. DO NOT share anything private info.
MM.That's commonly known as the 'Pig Butchering' scam. Look it up. They often use pictures of attractive Asian women on dating sites and suggest working together on investment deals, build trust, and then find a way to scam you.
Good job on reporting the profile. I doubt it was even a woman.
Stay safe out there, guys.
I haven't had that many experiences this year but I have chatted with hundreds of girls. The 10% that I actually get to chat offsite and discuss money, start 5 to 1 k. Admittedly, I do chase the model types over the GND type. But, they end up looking more GND than models when I get finally meet them. I've paid 3 in Orlando and Atlanta (latinas) and 5 in Charlotte, Raleigh, and Atlanta and 7 in Vegas (knockout but that's low out there for that quality). All were multi-hour, what ever I wanted. I have about 5 more lined up in Charlotte, Raleigh, and Charleston when I get back to that town that are asking 4 to 5. I've also been blocked for offering 3 or 4 to some girls (not even a counter), and some respectful declines from ladies that say they have no trouble getting 8 to 1 k. And of course the occasion crazy ass that says 15 to 2 k (actual common market rate in Vegas). I have negotiated (usually successfully) with all of them to get to that amount but, could now repeat for less with a few of them. So there's really no real guide.
I've decided that I would risk what my budget would allow for that trip and hope it turns into a regular UTR for next time I'm in town for 2 to 3 bills. At the end of the day, the only value I have found with SB is the no rush, open menu, take as much time as I need. The same time with a pro would have easily ran 15 to 2 k on most of those dates. But the work (time) it has taken has been brutal. Good luck.Thanks Buddy!
I have had very similar experience. Somehow recent surge in asking price kinda made me think. Perhaps inflation is catching up on these girls, LOL.
BTW your observation is spot on "GND type. But, they end up looking more GND than models". I have also observed for many girls first few meets they are very well groomed and they take efforts to look good and presentable. But slowly, they get careless.
Just an observation.
If they are average 300.
If they are hot 400.
Anything above is gps.I tend to make them focus on experience than money and pay on little lower side.
GardenGuy00
06-30-22, 00:25
New account but a veteran monger. I've done SA off and for years. With it being hit or miss and the price of meets are crazy. One of my work colleagues who lives in Durham. And is on here. Thanks Steve. You know who you are. Pointed me to something I've never heard of. Professional cuddler. I seriously doubted it. But he shared with me his go-to female cuddler. I will admit. I'm tired of the SA bullshit lately. And wasn't expecting anything different. I joined the site he recommended. It's a per hour rate. You pay to "cuddle" your pro. I messaged the cuddler he recommended. He mentioned that she cuddles with you. And eventually it gets a little more involved. He's into that kinda thing. Cuddling that is. I'm not. He's gone through a few of these girls. After he quit the bowl. I booked his "favorite". Chubby young female from south of Raleigh. 60 bucks an hour. At her home. Got to pay thru the site. I booked several hours. Hey, I had to take one for the team. I book this pro. And met her at her home. I'm greeted by this very cute young bbw. We talked. Conversed for a bit. She asks me to get comfortable. So we got to our underoos. We spoon for a bit. She pushes that bbw ass into me. And we start getting friendlier. I give her a massage and it got pretty hot and heavy. I left happy. Try to talk me into an overnight. For about 360 coins. She said she would do six to eight hours for an overnight. Will repeat. For sure. Way better than paying for dinner and some sb wanting 500 bucks just to meet. If anyone wants to start a list of these pro cuddlers who put out? I'm willing to take one for the team again.
Cuddlecomfort is the site. Skip the rest.
Serendipity7 is the one you want to book. Look. Just be clean, well mannered. And she is open. Not a full on pro. More like UTR. Trying to help the rest of us out.
SmallAsianCock
06-30-22, 00:46
Thanks Buddy!
I have had very similar experience. Somehow recent surge in asking price kinda made me think. Perhaps inflation is catching up on these girls, LOL.
BTW your observation is spot on "GND type. But, they end up looking more GND than models". I have also observed for many girls first few meets they are very well groomed and they take efforts to look good and presentable. But slowly, they get careless.
Just an observation.Wow. That's what I've been experiencing with my "girl" Lately. She would look so great, I was cautious I'll mess up her makeup. Two days ago, I went to pick her up and she was in sweats, I kid you not in the summer, and complaining of stomachache. I drove 35 minutes to her place. And had to wait 30 more minutes before she came out complaining of stomach pains. And got mad because I did not ask how she was feeling.
GardenGuy00
06-30-22, 05:04
Adding to my other posts. Met a user on SA. Blondie. Had a good time. For only 300 we had good time. Lived og Greenville Blvd. In the drake apartment. Her real name was Jewel Laurie. Great girl. Great body.
GardenGuy00
06-30-22, 16:12
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She's real and quick to give out her number for meetup.
She's real and quick to give out her number for meetup.Is this the one you talking about.
https://members.seeking.com/member/25bfd2a2-5b68-4bed-bbec-4c52051c1bb4
She isn't active since September last year. So one definitely can't get in touch with her on SA. If you can share her number then I can try to check her out. Also if you have seen her then please share more details, like is she good enough in the looks dept as there is no face pic, what was the damage.
TIA.
LikesGirls
07-03-22, 21:11
Is this the one you talking about.
https://members.seeking.com/member/25bfd2a2-5b68-4bed-bbec-4c52051c1bb4
She isn't active since September last year. So one definitely can't get in touch with her on SA. If you can share her number then I can try to check her out. Also if you have seen her then please share more details, like is she good enough in the looks dept as there is no face pic, what was the damage.
TIA.I have seen her, she's very pretty and very sweet. I lost her number but would love to reconnect with her.
Is this the one you talking about.
https://members.seeking.com/member/25bfd2a2-5b68-4bed-bbec-4c52051c1bb4
She isn't active since September last year. So one definitely can't get in touch with her on SA. If you can share her number then I can try to check her out. Also if you have seen her then please share more details, like is she good enough in the looks dept as there is no face pic, what was the damage.
TIA.Not her. Tall black girl using same name. Sorry, didn't know that names could be duplicated.
CuriousVaMan
07-03-22, 23:59
Not her. Tall black girl using same name. Sorry, didn't know that names could be duplicated.Is this the one.
https://members.seeking.com/member/169d5f9c-ef78-423c-9c25-ce8d792b4ec4
Is this the one.
https://members.seeking.com/member/169d5f9c-ef78-423c-9c25-ce8d792b4ec4Yes, that is the one I saw.
Made contact with this one and she seemed really nice but I got completely sketched out by several "little" things during our conversations.
1) she wanted to set up a meet right away. Not necessarily bad by itself.
2) she was at a hotel but I couldn't cone there because all her stuff was there. Again, not that unusual.
3) she wouldn't give me a price and asked me how much I wanted to pay. Nope!
4) she said a sheriff was always near her location so we had to do car play. Nope.
5) it was odd that I reached out to her at 10 am but she didn't respond until 5:30 with a "What time were you thinking?" Then she sent me a couple of pics that looked reasonable.
I got sketched out and told her nevermind. I've never has a girl not give me a price via text plus the sheriff comment were the two big flags. Has anyone else met with her? Can anyone verify she's not working for Durham sheriff or Durham city police?
Am I being paranoid?
https://members.seeking.com/member/af16d926-96ad-4bfb-bc25-ddd989f0ea31I talked to her quite a bit and believe that she is real but also afraid of being abused because of past experience. Right now she seems destitute and quite desperate but still cautious. She is in a bad location because of her circumstances. I did not actually meet with her.
Member #6718
07-05-22, 17:44
To save why'all some time these two are money upfront scammer attempts:
CleverPrincess.
https://members.seeking.com/member/ddfb99d3-b43d-4bc5-a8f7-f8d73a435bbc
BrookeTheBest.
https://members.seeking.com/member/18b346ed-2bb2-42ea-a347-52f2d0650ee3
SmallAsianCock
07-06-22, 21:07
To save why'all some time these two are money upfront scammer attempts:
CleverPrincess.
https://members.seeking.com/member/ddfb99d3-b43d-4bc5-a8f7-f8d73a435bbc
BrookeTheBest.
https://members.seeking.com/member/18b346ed-2bb2-42ea-a347-52f2d0650ee3I have been communicating with this lady. Initially she wanted 500. Finally agreed to 300. We have not met yet. But after reading the original post, I went back and asked her if she required a deposit. She said No. So we will see. Here is her pic from her SA profile. The link is gone now.
Member #6718
07-07-22, 02:36
I have been communicating with this lady. Initially she wanted 500. Finally agreed to 300. We have not met yet. But after reading the original post, I went back and asked her if she required a deposit. She said No. So we will see. Here is her pic from her SA profile. The link is gone now.Yep that is her. She did a twist on the deposit scam. First talked about bringing some drugs (I partake in some occasionally) which I would have funded. When that was off the table, she suggested she would go shopping for lingerie, which of course I would also fund. When I said that I would not be sending any money in advance of meeting, the convo ended.
Any info on her?
https://members.seeking.com/member/4a278a7d-813e-443c-b649-66cc11d09b59
To save why'all some time these two are money upfront scammer attempts:
CleverPrincess.
https://members.seeking.com/member/ddfb99d3-b43d-4bc5-a8f7-f8d73a435bbc
BrookeTheBest.
https://members.seeking.com/member/18b346ed-2bb2-42ea-a347-52f2d0650ee3CleverPrincess was a scammer. Quick to respond to messages but as soon as I shot down any possibility of sending money she disappeared. Her profile is now gone, probably will just start a new profile and keep trying to scam.
Any info on her?
https://members.seeking.com/member/4a278a7d-813e-443c-b649-66cc11d09b59Quoted 300 ppm and communication is good so far. She agreed to meet in motel, Is that normal!? How do I know these girls are legit?? (her account seems active from 2020).
Actually I am new to SA thing. Can someone please guide me. Thanks in advance.
I do see you seniors succeed. Help this junior!!
Member #6718
07-08-22, 09:25
Quoted 300 ppm and communication is good so far. She agreed to meet in motel, Is that normal!? How do I know these girls are legit?? (her account seems active from 2020).
Actually I am new to SA thing. Can someone please guide me. Thanks in advance.
I do see you seniors succeed. Help this junior!!Meet at your motel? That means she is dtf and probably semi pro LOL.
I have not seen her but have communicated and know enough to know she is a real person at least.
Quoted 300 ppm and communication is good so far. She agreed to meet in motel, Is that normal!? How do I know these girls are legit?? (her account seems active from 2020).
Actually I am new to SA thing. Can someone please guide me. Thanks in advance.
I do see you seniors succeed. Help this junior!!I would say use some fucking caution. Her profile is using coded language for car dates. I'd meet for coffee or lunch first. But I am the super cautious type. Go for the motel if you have nothing to lose.
LikesGirls
07-10-22, 15:19
I would say use some fucking caution. Her profile is using coded language for car dates. I'd meet for coffee or lunch first. But I am the super cautious type. Go for the motel if you have nothing to lose.She's real and safe to meet at your hotel room. She won't host. I didn't ask about car dates.
She's real and safe to meet at your hotel room. She won't host. I didn't ask about car dates.Can someone get a screenshot of the post, I think I am blocked from seeing the profile. Might be someone I saw. Thanks.
Any info on this one, sounds but weird but might meet to ight.
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/7GBPdRga0r9pzX35Q2On6DwW
SmallAsianCock
07-13-22, 23:34
Wondering if anyone had a lead to this lady.
https://members.seeking.com/member/f3233b19-c08b-4c10-ad70-adabc0de930b
She's real and safe to meet at your hotel room. She won't host. I didn't ask about car dates.She is legit and talkative girl.
TheChosenOne91
07-14-22, 18:01
https://members.seeking.com/member/bccaa400-f268-452c-a4fd-aeff4926efe7
She's a scam. She will act sweet and want to meet up. But after the meet, she will scam you.
SmallAsianCock
07-14-22, 21:40
https://members.seeking.com/member/bccaa400-f268-452c-a4fd-aeff4926efe7
She's a scam. She will act sweet and want to meet up. But after the meet, she will scam you.Please share how she tried to scam you.
Please share how she tried to scam you.I gave her a burner number and she randomly called me. She was wanting pics of me as well. I did not share and blocked the call.
LikesGirls
07-16-22, 22:53
I gave her a burner number and she randomly called me. She was wanting pics of me as well. I did not share and blocked the call.Did she try to sell you something, or ask you for money in advance? If not, how is the above a scam?
Member #6718
07-17-22, 08:59
Did she try to sell you something, or ask you for money in advance? If not, how is the above a scam?Girls have been known to get dick pics and then use them as part of attempted blackmail scams.
Looking her number, I lost all my contact.
I did meet with her every month.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/efd636ecd316284f
She is nice girl but not showing up lot of time.
TheChosenOne91
07-17-22, 19:25
Please share how she tried to scam you.I did a small allowance at our first meet and she proceeded to scold me for wanting to meet girls on the site, mentioned that I didn't know her and that she could have easily set me up to rob or harm me. She laughed at the idea of guys wanting to meet up with women on the site and mentioned she could easily take advantage of men. I counted my losses and moved on. Also to mention, she wanted $2k before we even met. Lol
If you want to give it a try, have at it and report back. During our talks and texts, she acted like she was into the sugar baby thing and was very seductive. This happened sometime within last year or two. She vanished and is now back on the site.
https://members.seeking.com/member/bccaa400-f268-452c-a4fd-aeff4926efe7
DJprofessorK
07-17-22, 22:47
I did a small allowance at our first meet and she proceeded to scold me for wanting to meet girls on the site, mentioned that I didn't know her and that she could have easily set me up to rob or harm me. She laughed at the idea of guys wanting to meet up with women on the site and mentioned she could easily take advantage of men. I counted my losses and moved on. Also to mention, she wanted $2k before we even met. Lol
If you want to give it a try, have at it and report back. During our talks and texts, she acted like she was into the sugar baby thing and was very seductive. This happened sometime within last year or two. She vanished and is now back on the site.
https://members.seeking.com/member/bccaa400-f268-452c-a4fd-aeff4926efe7As someone who was robbed by an SA contact years ago, I don't blame you. If something feels off, cut your losses, get out of there, and live to see another day. She's playing with fire, because I know some messed up dudes who would have beaten the brakes off of her the second she joked about setting them up to get robbed. These aren't people who I'd ever consider friends, but I know them. A couple of them frequent a bar I hit up with buddies. And they have no shame telling you that they'd FIND a reason to hit a woman. Her even lightly referencing setting someone up is one of those reasons.
I've had dates with women who think it's funny to con men on SA for free dinners, clothes, and presents. Putting off intimacy as long as they can. Up to and including, faking their period, scheduling times for their friends to 'run into them in public', and the fake emergency call from a gf who is having a crisis and needs her help that minute. I don't know why they felt the need to tell me this stuff, considering I was a dude they were sleeping with that they met off of SA, but I appreciate the candid honesty, I guess. A lot of the women on SA seem to think that the site is full of awkward, timid guys who can't get women in the 'real' world. And I always interject, just because you met ONE tech nerd from the triangle, I promise you. That is NOT SA. You're messing with someone's money, and while there are a lot of married men who are scared to be found out, there are other serious men who will MESS THEM UP.
I'm actually shocked that she spoke so recklessly and joked about setting someone up or exploiting people. That's dumb. She's going to run into the wrong person one day. I hope she learns to put a higher priority on her safety.
Did she try to sell you something, or ask you for money in advance? If not, how is the above a scam?Didn't say that was her scam. Just giving info on what happened when I gave my number. Calls without warning or asking to talk are generally odd in this game. I do not waste time with any of them who give off odd vibes.
As someone who was robbed by an SA contact years ago, I don't blame you. If something feels off, cut your losses, get out of there, and live to see another day. She's playing with fire, because I know some messed up dudes who would have beaten the brakes off of her the second she joked about setting them up to get robbed. These aren't people who I'd ever consider friends, but I know them. A couple of them frequent a bar I hit up with buddies. And they have no shame telling you that they'd FIND a reason to hit a woman. Her even lightly referencing setting someone up is one of those reasons.
I've had dates with women who think it's funny to con men on SA for free dinners, clothes, and presents. Putting off intimacy as long as they can. Up to and including, faking their period, scheduling times for their friends to 'run into them in public', and the fake emergency call from a gf who is having a crisis and needs her help that minute. I don't know why they felt the need to tell me this stuff, considering I was a dude they were sleeping with that they met off of SA, but I appreciate the candid honesty, I guess. A lot of the women on SA seem to think that the site is full of awkward, timid guys who can't get women in the 'real' world. And I always interject, just because you met ONE tech nerd from the triangle, I promise you. That is NOT SA. You're messing with someone's money, and while there are a lot of married men who are scared to be found out, there are other serious men who will MESS THEM UP.
I'm actually shocked that she spoke so recklessly and joked about setting someone up or exploiting people. That's dumb. She's going to run into the wrong person one day. I hope she learns to put a higher priority on her safety.You are spot on here and it's the reason that site is criminal. Exploitation is going on from both sides and SA is the one benefiting. These stupid girls that are new to this and heard it's easy money are not realizing every trick they are using is old and worn out and all it takes is one nut job to go off the rails. Guys paying a hundred plus a month for a site full of scammers and bullshitters is ridiculous.
PghGuy2005
07-19-22, 19:10
...home. I'm greeted by this very cute young bbw. We talked. Conversed for a bit. She asks me to get comfortable. So we got to our underoos. We spoon for a bit. She pushes that bbw ass into me. And we start getting friendlier. I give her a massage and it got pretty hot and heavy. I left happy. ...Okay so you undressed down to underclothes but please explain what you meant by "getting friendlier" and "I left happy" ! You her a massage with her being partially clad?!
Member #6531
07-22-22, 08:04
Jess / Jessie / Kricket (because she uses a few different names).
Met once after talking briefly via text. First date went nowhere. She didn't want to go anywhere public or private. She's a meth head who literally wanted to fuck behind a dumpster, and then go through the dumpster to see if there was anything worth keeping. Not worth anyones time. Unless you're trying to bang 30-something addicts.
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/739YwOLk5gp3kB90GjyENdXv
Kylie.
Saw her for a few months. Ended things because I got hit with some financial uncertainty and the hobby is the first to go.
Kylie is a real SB, not an escort. She's looking for someone who can afford real, meaningful support. While you could probably get away with less, I'd guess you'll be in for around $1,600/ mo.
She's a looker, though her weight fluctuates. Pictures may or may not be accurate depending on when you catch her. She's heavily scarred and has had a child. But that doesn't necessarily make her less attractive.
She's also got a good head on her shoulders. She was raised with some amount of privilege, by smart people, in a good school district. She's not a genius, but she's above average.
I also liked the level of communication we had. She was fine with not needing to speak to each other frequently.
Then there's the sex drive. Holy shit. This is a woman who might be more experienced and open than I am. We clicked on that level and I have zero regrets.
If you're looking for a commitment with a good looking, down to earth, closet freak that you can take out in public, she's probably the one.
One disclaimer. She made some hints, over time, about possible victimization in the past. I think she starts out with her guard up, so don't expect to get laid on a first date, and don't be creepy.
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/739YwOLk5gpM1DV0GjyENdXv
Be careful of this one. She goes by Samantha. It was easy to get her to drop her number. Convos via txt was quick to what I was comfortable of offering. She started with 600 and able to host. But quickly accepted 350. Agreed to Greek (often a red flag). As convo proceeded, we agreed to do Apple Pay. This is where her SCAMMING tactics reared it's ugly head. I told her I use a texting app. So she demanded my iPhone number. When I refused, she sent her CashApp info so I can send the 350 for a Sunday appt. I told her I only pay on a meet up. Then she went on ranting about not being an escort. Blah blah blah. I just blocked her.
https://members.seeking.com/member/89237832-880b-4093-9341-c158f678a7d6
https://members.seeking.com/member/93162d0a-ae24-4fbb-8572-b84cffaeeb1e
Anyone had any conversations with TinyRed? Seems to pop up from time to time.
Connected with her 300 PPM. Hosted at her dorm. Very pretty girl in person, nice tight body with the curves that I like. We texted for a couple of weeks before meeting and the vibe was cool. She's young and it showed in the comms.
Spent a couple hours together. Felt like GFE with bbj and daty and the rest was covered (I didn't ask but just personal preference for me). She wasn't great in any area but I think it's due to inexperience. She seemed a little shy and nervous which some may like. Not a huge issue for me but the drive was a bit longer than I'd like so no plans to make this a regular.
https://members.seeking.com/member/31f2da5b-f0d6-4824-a54a-6d431ec7bf25
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