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I've never understood the stance taken by some on USASG that we must insist upon referring to Sugar Babies as prostitutes. The best sex I've ever had is with some women *who don't know that their prostitutes yet*. There's absolutely no good reason to try to convince them that they are.Here is the deal. If you sell your body for sex than you are a *****, all these terms and other labels need to stop.
I do like the way you worded it though with the asterisk LOL.
Panama7996
09-21-21, 00:29
Sent you a pm.
I moved on from this one. I've been trying for almost a week now and still no dice. She constantly sends live nudes and videos of her playing with herself yet will not entertain so much as the IDEA of us meeting up. Even for a coffee! I think she either just gets off on the idea of meeting up with someone, or is extremely shy / new to this game.
Today I finally went direct and asked what size allowance it would take to meet up with her (as I have yet to send her any money at all and figured that was the cause of the cold feet). She proceeded to tell me that she magically started her monthly cycle today (meaning she can't meet for a week-ish now) and then curved the topic completely.
Luck is either against me or she is playing games. Regardless, I have no tolerance for wasting my time. If anyone has any luck with this one, please do let me know how the hell you got through fog.
Maxamillion8
09-24-21, 11:14
Can you share some info or PM?
Sent you a pm.
I moved on from this one. I've been trying for almost a week now and still no dice. She constantly sends live nudes and videos of her playing with herself yet will not entertain so much as the IDEA of us meeting up. Even for a coffee! I think she either just gets off on the idea of meeting up with someone, or is extremely shy / new to this game.
Today I finally went direct and asked what size allowance it would take to meet up with her (as I have yet to send her any money at all and figured that was the cause of the cold feet). She proceeded to tell me that she magically started her monthly cycle today (meaning she can't meet for a week-ish now) and then curved the topic completely.
Luck is either against me or she is playing games. Regardless, I have no tolerance for wasting my time. If anyone has any luck with this one, please do let me know how the hell you got through fog.
Maxamillion8
09-24-21, 11:25
Talked like normal girl. No progress on meeting, even in public. Starts asking for $$ for nails and facial to meet me via PayPal.
https://members.seeking.com/member/c71c6290-8894-4846-9265-a3a48130d0b3
Panama7996
09-25-21, 20:39
Never got a response from biscuits via dm or forum.
Talked like normal girl. No progress on meeting, even in public. Starts asking for $$ for nails and facial to meet me via PayPal.
https://members.seeking.com/member/c71c6290-8894-4846-9265-a3a48130d0b3
SmallAsianCock
09-25-21, 23:18
Talked like normal girl. No progress on meeting, even in public. Starts asking for $$ for nails and facial to meet me via PayPal.
https://members.seeking.com/member/c71c6290-8894-4846-9265-a3a48130d0b3She wanted 100 in advance to meet at her home. She even sent an address. I ignored hare after that.
Maxamillion8
09-28-21, 11:06
She wanted 100 in advance to meet at her home. She even sent an address. I ignored hare after that.I always reply that I have the same concerns in paying advance just as much as you. If I don't pay and you do not show up, we don't have anything to loose except my time. If I pay and you don't show up or address is wrong, I have $$ to loose. For public place meet payout. I feel my time is more expensive per hr than hers LOL. So if both are investing the same time, calculating time I'd be loosing more. So thanks but no thank you to any exchanges before we meet and verify we are who we are. There are few real girl out there, I have a girl driving up from Fayetteville to see me today without any payment. So I am sure girl next door don't need me to pay her.
MikeoDamerika
09-28-21, 13:39
#1). Communication from Jess.
"I ask for 700 for PPM, Cinderella rules (no overnight) at first, protection is a must except for BJ. Then if we vibe, happy to discuss a more long term thing. Long term is all based on what we can work out. Long term is less about the price, but more about the value. Hard to discuss that when we don't know each other and don't know what value there maybe beyond $$ you know? I'm kink friendly and love to explore. ".Has anyone actually met with Jess? I'm close. Please give or pm some details if you have.
I always reply that I have the same concerns in paying advance just as much as you. If I don't pay and you do not show up, we don't have anything to loose except my time. If I pay and you don't show up or address is wrong, I have $$ to loose. For public place meet payout. I feel my time is more expensive per hr than hers LOL. So if both are investing the same time, calculating time I'd be loosing more. So thanks but no thank you to any exchanges before we meet and verify we are who we are. There are few real girl out there, I have a girl driving up from Fayetteville to see me today without any payment. So I am sure girl next door don't need me to pay her.Can you give me Fayetteville girls number?
MikeoDamerika
10-02-21, 11:18
Anyone ever see her when she was in Raleigh?
Hannah is her name.
https://members.seeking.com/member/2...2-7dfdd74b1425
SmallAsianCock
10-02-21, 21:00
Anyone ever see her when she was in Raleigh?
Hannah is her name.
https://members.seeking.com/member/2...2-7dfdd74b1425The profile is no longer on SA.
MikeoDamerika
10-04-21, 13:34
I've talked to her. Would live to what if anyone has seen her.
https://members.seeking.com/member/3a633940-af40-455f-bd92-b42f731ad378
LuvTheLadeez
10-04-21, 17:29
Is Secret Benefits just a bunch of fake profiles? Which one has the best / most responsive ladies? And does this stuff really work??
SmallAsianCock
10-04-21, 22:05
I've talked to her. Would live to what if anyone has seen her.
https://members.seeking.com/member/3a633940-af40-455f-bd92-b42f731ad378She has been discussed in this forum. Here's what she sends out.
"I ask for 700 for PPM, Cinderella rules (no overnight) at first, protection is a must except for BJ. Then if we vibe, happy to discuss a more long term thing. Long term is all based on what we can work out. Long term is less about the price, but more about the value. Hard to discuss that when we don't know each other and don't know what value there maybe beyond $$ you know? I'm kink friendly and love to explore. Thoughts?
MikeoDamerika
10-05-21, 10:15
She has been discussed in this forum. Here's what she sends out.
"I ask for 700 for PPM, Cinderella rules (no overnight) at first, protection is a must except for BJ. Then if we vibe, happy to discuss a more long term thing. Long term is all based on what we can work out. Long term is less about the price, but more about the value. Hard to discuss that when we don't know each other and don't know what value there maybe beyond $$ you know? I'm kink friendly and love to explore. Thoughts?Thanks. I got the same thing. I'm just wondering if anyone has actually seen her.
BumbaCloth
10-05-21, 15:40
I'm going to be in the Raleigh Durham area for business wondering what the Sugarbaby scene is like out here? What's average allowance / ppm? Any recommendations? I used seeking.
Swimmer123
10-06-21, 13:08
I'm going to be in the Raleigh Durham area for business wondering what the Sugarbaby scene is like out here? What's average allowance / ppm? Any recommendations? I used seeking.As Comrade Dyatlov would say in the HBO Chernobyl, "not great, not terrible". Definitely some GPS creep, more than you would expect for Raleigh NC. Have met some legit ones but there are plenty of "pay upfront / online only". I made a post in the Richmond forum with a strategy on how to beat scammers so go check that out anyone who is interested. There is speculation CH Sb's who have the sorority look are somewhat organized, however chapel hill SB scene has been very quiet lately. ECU girls in Greenville are generally down and plenty don't have issues driving to Raleigh to meet.
Has anyone see her. Just wondering she seems nice, Not sure if she's semi pro.
https://members.seeking.com/member/0bbf19d7-f74c-4d2e-b446-c314bd3848e9
Snicole1.
Has anyone met her.
Snicole1.
https://members.seeking.com/member/0bbf19d7-f74c-4d2e-b446-c314bd3848e9
Swimmer123
10-09-21, 08:27
Has anyone met her.
Snicole1.
https://members.seeking.com/member/0bbf19d7-f74c-4d2e-b446-c314bd3848e9Haven't meet with her but she is straightforward DTF from the convo we had. I think she has a kid so she can only stay for a couple hours. Another monger reviewed her here a while back.
Has anyone see her. Just wondering she seems nice, Not sure if she's semi pro.
https://members.seeking.com/member/0bbf19d7-f74c-4d2e-b446-c314bd3848e9
Snicole1.Not met her yet but talked and she's easy to chat with. Kind of got the semi pro vibe as well. There was a good review here a while back. Said she was a lot of fun.
GentleGiant78
10-09-21, 12:02
Has anyone met her.
Snicole1.
https://members.seeking.com/member/0bbf19d7-f74c-4d2e-b446-c314bd3848e9I met her a year ago so my info is dated. She is definitely semi pro, but she was very nice, easy to communicate with, showed up when she said she would, looked like her pics and was overall a pleasant experience. I tried to see her again but apparently she didn't like me because she never responded to my texts after we met. No recollection of what the damage was, but I was probably too cheap and she found more lucrative options.
OrangeTrees
10-16-21, 07:57
Curious if anyone has met this one from Clayton? I'm getting signals that it's either a scam or TGTBT due to the lucrative pics on the profile but thought I'd ask anyway. Stay safe.
https://members.seeking.com/member/ad70cbb5-b8c6-43ac-9e08-49790de2a317
Ganggang123
10-16-21, 09:46
Curious if anyone has met this one from Clayton? I'm getting signals that it's either a scam or TGTBT due to the lucrative pics on the profile but thought I'd ask anyway. Stay safe.
https://members.seeking.com/member/ad70cbb5-b8c6-43ac-9e08-49790de2a317Has a bf. I think the idea of allowance seems good to her but gets cold feet at the thought of actually meeting. Waste of time imo.
German5050
10-18-21, 17:50
I met her a year ago so my info is dated. She is definitely semi pro, but she was very nice, easy to communicate with, showed up when she said she would, looked like her pics and was overall a pleasant experience. I tried to see her again but apparently she didn't like me because she never responded to my texts after we met. No recollection of what the damage was, but I was probably too cheap and she found more lucrative options.She's not a pro. A cool girl just a bit low key. Definitely DTF and I had a lot of fun. 3. 5-4 xx.
German5050
10-19-21, 08:17
I've had success with sharing intel on what I would consider my favs, but like many don't want to broadcast on here. If you want information on any SB down in Charleston area I would be happy to trade for the same in RDU. Just PM me.
LikesGirls
10-20-21, 16:56
Has a bf. I think the idea of allowance seems good to her but gets cold feet at the thought of actually meeting. Waste of time imo.I got to message with her a bit and your analysis is spot-on. Money is tight and she reluctantly joined the site (she didn't say if her BF pressured her but I got the vibe he did), and she was fine at first chatting with the guys but gets cold feet every time. She confessed she was hoping to find someone who'd be ok with phone sex, online fantasies, that kind of thing.
This one, Jenissi, made plans to meet up and then right before we were supposed to be at the restaurant asked for gas money. Avoid. https://members.seeking.com/member/4a269443-819d-4895-a672-ce7071a2b816.
This one, Jenissi, made plans to meet up and then right before we were supposed to be at the restaurant asked for gas money. Avoid. https://members.seeking.com/member/4a269443-819d-4895-a672-ce7071a2b816.You should have sent it to her, no questions asked. My understanding is these girls were actually schooled in the art of scamming by their teachers in college. So go ahead and support your local college community in Chapel Hill.
Has a bf. I think the idea of allowance seems good to her but gets cold feet at the thought of actually meeting. Waste of time imo.Since I have a SO, I actually like when they have a BF or other form of SO.
I had one in Wilmington for 2 1/2 years, coed at UNCW with a live in BF the whole time. Hell, they were engaged the last eight months. I even met him a few times & had beers with him at the restaurant she worked in. Poor guy had no idea I was balls deep in all three holes just a short time before she went to work at 4:00 pm.
It makes it safe if they catch feelings, which this one did. We knew it would end sooner or later. As weird as it seems that a young 20 something can actually catch feelings for a Daddy more than twice their age, it happens. They got married about a year after I saw her last.
Best two & a half years of my life! Sexual athlete beyond compare!
JerseyBred
10-25-21, 06:14
Is Secret Benefits just a bunch of fake profiles? Which one has the best / most responsive ladies? And does this stuff really work??Not all are fake I've seen women I know professionally on there. A few nurses I recognize from hospitals so it's real. But definitely some fakes out there for sure.
I think I recognized this picture. Where have I seen this before. She's staying at hotel on new Bern.
https://members.seeking.com/member/c0c8341a-a8a0-427f-816e-489b410823a3
LuvTheLadeez
10-26-21, 23:04
Not all are fake I've seen women I know professionally on there. A few nurses I recognize from hospitals so it's real. But definitely some fakes out there for sure.Thanks for the info bro. Nobody seems to really write back. Trying to meet someone off of there, just prefer the 1-1 nature of it all.
SmallAsianCock
10-30-21, 02:22
Any info on this lady in Raleigh? Any info will be appreciated.
https://members.seeking.com/member/15351fb1-8e1c-816e-2940-f1853a2ccb9e
Is Secret Benefits just a bunch of fake profiles? Which one has the best / most responsive ladies? And does this stuff really work??I really can't say that there aren't a bunch of fake profiles, but I can say there are real ones and I've had some success. Not always, but enough to keep me going back. The sugar baby thing has a place in my playbook.
SmallAsianCock
11-01-21, 22:21
Any info on this lady in Raleigh? Any info will be appreciated.
https://members.seeking.com/member/15351fb1-8e1c-816e-2940-f1853a2ccb9eTook one for the troops and scored. She is DTF and open to a lot. She's not from Here but made the trip to meet in Raleigh.
Took one for the troops and scored. She is DTF and open to a lot. She's not from Here but made the trip to meet in Raleigh.Does she look better in person than her pictures?
I'm just curious, how many of you guys out here are tapping this one.
https://members.seeking.com/member/045955c7-4f63-4523-aa8b-53a34f8a025f
Ganggang123
11-03-21, 08:56
Yall probably curious how this ended =.
No I don't know which female gave out my addy, could've been a Sa chick or a regular chick I met organically or a dating app tbh no idea LOL.
Went outside with my concealed carry and nobody was there.
Kid just stopped responding.
This did tell me to slow my role tho and be a bit more cautious.
Stay safe fellas. And don't cower amongst these youngins haha.[blue]The screenshot was deleted because the telephone number is not edited. Moderator12[blue]
Since I have a SO, I actually like when they have a BF or other form of SO.
I had one in Wilmington for 2 1/2 years, coed at UNCW with a live in BF the whole time. Hell, they were engaged the last eight months. I even met him a few times & had beers with him at the restaurant she worked in. Poor guy had no idea I was balls deep in all three holes just a short time before she went to work at 4:00 pm.
It makes it safe if they catch feelings, which this one did. We knew it would end sooner or later. As weird as it seems that a young 20 something can actually catch feelings for a Daddy more than twice their age, it happens. They got married about a year after I saw her last.
Best two & a half years of my life! Sexual athlete beyond compare!
Ganggang123
11-03-21, 11:45
Forgot to upload pic LOL.
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SmallAsianCock
11-03-21, 20:38
Does she look better in person than her pictures?The pics are a good representation of her. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. She is a nice gal and will beg to be fucked until she begs you to stop. Mild BDSM. I'll definitely be seeing her again.
Ganggang123
11-04-21, 00:26
Asks for 3 k ppm LOOOOOOL and swears "this is what I always get".
Responded with show me one simple screenshot of 3 k hitting your account and ill send you 3 k rn on my life.
"your wasting my time" guess she didn't want a free 3 k LOLLLL.
Asks for 3 k ppm LOOOOOOL and swears "this is what I always get".
Responded with show me one simple screenshot of 3 k hitting your account and ill send you 3 k rn on my life.
"your wasting my time" guess she didn't want a free 3 k LOLLLL.I had the same experience with https://members.seeking.com/member/6949a7d0-9e6e-4237-8066-b9120ac8e3be, she said she usually get 5 K but ok with 3. 5 K. And the max is 4 meeting per month.
DJprofessorK
11-04-21, 13:03
They can at least make it believable.
While in Vegas, I was speaking with someone who I was suspecting of lying to me when she claimed that she always got $8 for a single meet. I wasn't rude to her, but I left her alone.
One night after a night of some light gambling, I was bored in my suite and I messaged her. 'I gambled a little too much and I've just got $3 left in my budget, can you make that work?
She drove to my hotel within an hour and we had a great time. Normal chick, we talked for hours, had fun, and she still texts from time to time.
I don't blame any of these women for shooting high, that's fine, but the blatant lying is laughable. When they do that, there's no point in even negotiating with them.
Asks for 3 k ppm LOOOOOOL and swears "this is what I always get".
Responded with show me one simple screenshot of 3 k hitting your account and ill send you 3 k rn on my life.
"your wasting my time" guess she didn't want a free 3 k LOLLLL.
Ganggang123
11-04-21, 13:19
Listen, I'd imagine some of us are capable of entertaining shit like that if we really wanted to but theres still a value on things regardless of net worth so lets keep these hoes in check collectively please LOL.
I had the same experience with https://members.seeking.com/member/6949a7d0-9e6e-4237-8066-b9120ac8e3be, she said she usually get 5 K but ok with 3. 5 K. And the max is 4 meeting per month.
BartonFink
11-04-21, 15:33
I've turned down plenty of girls whose sense of self-worth were, shall we say, somewhat out of line, and I always suggest they hang onto my number, just in case they're a little strapped for cash "Maybe a day will come when you need (whatever I was willing to pay), and I'll be ready. " And it's worked more than once. Sometimes I've reached back out to them, sometimes they've reached out to me.
They can at least make it believable.
While in Vegas, I was speaking with someone who I was suspecting of lying to me when she claimed that she always got $8 for a single meet. I wasn't rude to her, but I left her alone.
One night after a night of some light gambling, I was bored in my suite and I messaged her. 'I gambled a little too much and I've just got $3 left in my budget, can you make that work?
She drove to my hotel within an hour and we had a great time. Normal chick, we talked for hours, had fun, and she still texts from time to time.
I don't blame any of these women for shooting high, that's fine, but the blatant lying is laughable. When they do that, there's no point in even negotiating with them.
DJprofessorK
11-04-21, 17:23
Exactly. Same here.
I've turned down plenty of girls whose sense of self-worth were, shall we say, somewhat out of line, and I always suggest they hang onto my number, just in case they're a little strapped for cash "Maybe a day will come when you need (whatever I was willing to pay), and I'll be ready. " And it's worked more than once. Sometimes I've reached back out to them, sometimes they've reached out to me.
Just starting to dip my toes into the sugar bowl for the first time. (not sure why I haven't ended up here sooner!
I've been doing a lot of reading over the past few weeks, and am about to pull the trigger on a paid account at Seeking.
Have any of you tested the difference between the "premium" and the "diamond" account levels? Do you get more / better responses and connections with the diamond? Or is it just a scammer magnet?
Thanks!
Just starting to dip my toes into the sugar bowl for the first time. (not sure why I haven't ended up here sooner!
I've been doing a lot of reading over the past few weeks, and am about to pull the trigger on a paid account at Seeking.
Have any of you tested the difference between the "premium" and the "diamond" account levels? Do you get more / better responses and connections with the diamond? Or is it just a scammer magnet?
Thanks!Diamond is a waste of money.
DJprofessorK
11-05-21, 21:06
I've also heard that women will adjust their ask higher if you're a diamond member. And they'll use it against you if you attempt to negotiate.
Diamond is a waste of money.
SmallAsianCock
11-05-21, 22:17
Just starting to dip my toes into the sugar bowl for the first time. (not sure why I haven't ended up here sooner!
I've been doing a lot of reading over the past few weeks, and am about to pull the trigger on a paid account at Seeking.
Have any of you tested the difference between the "premium" and the "diamond" account levels? Do you get more / better responses and connections with the diamond? Or is it just a scammer magnet?
Thanks!Sign up for the premium membership when they have a promotion going. Am sure they'll have one around thanksgiving, Christmas, and the new year.
Appreciate the quick responses on the diamond level and the promo. They've been offering a 20% every few logins, so I'll probably just take that.
Hoping to share some stories or lessons learned soon!
I've also heard that women will adjust their ask higher if you're a diamond member. And they'll use it against you if you attempt to negotiate.At that point you go from a sap to a super sap. The days of that site being even somewhat legit are long gone.
I posted the question on the Wilmington board, any info on her, seems.
Too hot to be true.
Is she pro?
https://members.seeking.com/member/44879cb2-b913-4eb6-9dab-00c0c443aa6b
TheChosenOne91
11-08-21, 08:09
https://members.seeking.com/member/1e4c272d-6e92-4402-aec0-358a9cc5d8da
Anyone seen this one? This one seems pro. After initial greeting on site we moved convo to text. She was responding and texting faster than I can think. LOL. It was a turn off and then she asked for the famous money for pics. Wanted $50 for 10 pics. I stopped the convo there. And of course she tried to guilt by asking if I could afford it.
MrMayhem23
11-08-21, 23:07
I posted the question on the Wilmington board, any info on her, seems.
Too hot to be true.
Is she pro?
https://members.seeking.com/member/44879cb2-b913-4eb6-9dab-00c0c443aa6bShe's a real person anyway. I spoke with her on her social media a couple years ago. I forget what alerted me to inquire about meeting up but I did. As I recall she had an insane number back then. If she's been active since perhaps she's arrived at a more suitable donation. I also recall she had recently lost a decent amount of weight. I don't know if this helps at all but that's what I know. I did not pursue and deleted her social media because I felt like it was a dead end. Please post if you follow up. She's not bad looking.
SavageThing
11-09-21, 13:44
Dude, we are definitely fishing in the same pond! Like my best friend says that turned me on to SA, if I'm paying for a Baby, she's going to be my type & worth it!Anyone see Lilith? https://members.seeking.com/member/624a7051-404e-4922-a245-592fd96a84dd.
OutWestGuy
11-19-21, 11:10
Met this one a few weeks ago. Easy to set up a meet and semi pro vibe. Overall a pleasant experience as she came back to mine after dinner. She had a tight outfit on and nice perky breasts and ass. Opened with a BBBJ but everything else covered. Let me go a few rounds including final round finishing in 69 with blowing a load in her mouth. Very fun girl and can take a good pounding, light choking, fun doggy slapping that ass. I will probably repeat. Damage was 5.
OutWestGuy
11-19-21, 11:31
Wasn't sure if this one was real at first as I think she has two profiles and not much on there. She is real and 20. Her pictures are probably a few years old but looks about the same. We set up a meet and she had never done this before except meeting for dinner. She comes back to a room after dinner and after chatting we start making out. Her tits are almost flat chested but she has a nice ass. She seemed nervous at first but spread those legs nice and wide to let me finger her under those jeans so I knew she wanted it. After taking turns sucking on each other she let me slide it in without a condom. She was very tight and enjoyed a rough standing doggy. Sweet girl and would repeat. Damage was 5.
SmallAsianCock
11-19-21, 23:58
Met this one a few weeks ago. Easy to set up a meet and semi pro vibe. Overall a pleasant experience as she came back to mine after dinner. She had a tight outfit on and nice perky breasts and ass. Opened with a BBBJ but everything else covered. Let me go a few rounds including final round finishing in 69 with blowing a load in her mouth. Very fun girl and can take a good pounding, light choking, fun doggy slapping that ass. I will probably repeat. Damage was 5.Link to h we profile.
https://members.seeking.com/member/d292015f-e73e-4a4b-a641-bf049d07b760
SmallAsianCock
11-20-21, 00:01
Wasn't sure if this one was real at first as I think she has two profiles and not much on there. She is real and 20. Her pictures are probably a few years old but looks about the same. We set up a meet and she had never done this before except meeting for dinner. She comes back to a room after dinner and after chatting we start making out. Her tits are almost flat chested but she has a nice ass. She seemed nervous at first but spread those legs nice and wide to let me finger her under those jeans so I knew she wanted it. After taking turns sucking on each other she let me slide it in without a condom. She was very tight and enjoyed a rough standing doggy. Sweet girl and would repeat. Damage was 5.https://members.seeking.com/member/831390ba-de64-49ba-843e-da27b2001200
OutWestGuy
11-22-21, 19:02
Any intel? We set up a meeting soon for what sounds like I can do whatever I want.
https://members.seeking.com/member/0dc5a3c1-e014-44a7-8d90-2479344da73d
LiquidCoil
11-22-21, 22:44
Wasn't sure if this one was real at first as I think she has two profiles and not much on there. She is real and 20. Her pictures are probably a few years old but looks about the same. We set up a meet and she had never done this before except meeting for dinner. She comes back to a room after dinner and after chatting we start making out. Her tits are almost flat chested but she has a nice ass. She seemed nervous at first but spread those legs nice and wide to let me finger her under those jeans so I knew she wanted it. After taking turns sucking on each other she let me slide it in without a condom. She was very tight and enjoyed a rough standing doggy. Sweet girl and would repeat. Damage was 5.By "a room" do you mean you booked a hotel room after dinner went well?
A few of you have PM'd me asking how things are going so far as a newbie in the bowl, and how to get started. I put a (longer than expected) post together responding to a Sugar Bowl question over in the main escort thread, that might be useful to others:
http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?8628-Escort-Reports&p=5645514&viewfull=1#post5645514.
If this kind of newbie info has value, let me know and I'll make another post (s) with "lessons learned" so far.
Sorry, it looks like she blocked me and I can't link to profile, but see the attached photo (If you're chatting with someone that looks like a younger Mary Louise parker this is probably her). User name was Odessa (or similar) in the Winston area (but was willing to meet closer to triangle).
Good conversations for about a week, said all the right things, and was DTF. She moved things to SMS pretty quickly, and it still went ok. Scheduled a meet and when she assumed I was close to the location (haha jokes on her, I was running late AF), she texted 10 minutes before the time with some story about just figuring our my SMS was a burner number, how she had been a victim of sexual assault, and that she needed my real cell# before she would get out of her car and go in. I acted like I was there already and called BS, said maybe we could just meet by the entrance etc. And get comfortable. She kept pushing for SMS and trying to tease out other personal info (which car are you in, how far did you have to drive to get here etc.). At this point I knew it was a scam, and I was just wasting her time to see how far she would take things, and what other tricks she was going to attempt. She eventually got belligerent and quit responding and apparently blocked me.
Be safe.
https://members.seeking.com/member/44a722bc-cfb0-4fa0-bba2-84df5b29c42f
I'm pretty new to SA and trying it out for a change of pace. Had this girl reach out to me, shared her private pic after some convo, and at first I thought she was fake with that profile pic.
She's actually pretty cute in the other pics.
Every response to me was one or two word, delayed responses, but with exclamation marks at least, LOL.
She randomly hit me up to meet her one day last week if I was free to meet.
I asked if she has her own place, states no, has a roommates.
Asked what all she was into, dinner, public etc. She replied with one word, Hotel.
Idk seems sketchy, any intel?
https://members.seeking.com/member/c51e136e-bec6-4954-97c2-c1c694668a0a
Any intel on this one as well? She reached out to me and sent me her private pics immediately. Not too sure about her from her profile about being on another account or everything being about her, seems like she might be GPS.
Not sure. Thoughts?
https://members.seeking.com/member/c51e136e-bec6-4954-97c2-c1c694668a0a
Any intel on this one as well? She reached out to me and sent me her private pics immediately. Not too sure about her from her profile about being on another account or everything being about her, seems like she might be GPS.
Not sure. Thoughts?I haven't chatted with her, but in general I've noticed a strong correlation between the number of items on their wish list and the GPS level. At 6X she is up there.
https://members.seeking.com/member/44a722bc-cfb0-4fa0-bba2-84df5b29c42f
I'm pretty new to SA and trying it out for a change of pace. Had this girl reach out to me, shared her private pic after some convo, and at first I thought she was fake with that profile pic.
She's actually pretty cute in the other pics.
Every response to me was one or two word, delayed responses, but with exclamation marks at least, LOL.
She randomly hit me up to meet her one day last week if I was free to meet.
I asked if she has her own place, states no, has a roommates.
Asked what all she was into, dinner, public etc. She replied with one word, Hotel.
Idk seems sketchy, any intel?Sketchy. Main image comes up on image search (Pintrest & The Chive), which is pretty rare in my experience so far on Seeking. So you're not even dealing with a sophisticated scammer here. If "she" gave you access to her other photos, I'd image search them and see.
Once I figure out it's a scammer, I've been playing these out just to learn as many of their tricks as possible when big head is in control.
LiquidCoil
11-23-21, 18:39
https://members.seeking.com/member/44a722bc-cfb0-4fa0-bba2-84df5b29c42f
I'm pretty new to SA and trying it out for a change of pace. Had this girl reach out to me, shared her private pic after some convo, and at first I thought she was fake with that profile pic.
She's actually pretty cute in the other pics.
Every response to me was one or two word, delayed responses, but with exclamation marks at least, LOL.
She randomly hit me up to meet her one day last week if I was free to meet.
I asked if she has her own place, states no, has a roommates.
Asked what all she was into, dinner, public etc. She replied with one word, Hotel.
Idk seems sketchy, any intel?One of the first things to do if you're skeptical is reverse image search on Google:
https://www.pinterest.co.kr/pin/735846026617529268
And yes, what you're describing is sketch on its face.
A few of you have PM'd me asking how things are going so far as a newbie in the bowl, and how to get started. I put a (longer than expected) post together responding to a Sugar Bowl question over in the main escort thread, that might be useful to others:
http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?8628-Escort-Reports&p=5645514&viewfull=1#post5645514.
If this kind of newbie info has value, let me know and I'll make another post (s) with "lessons learned" so far.Review and am testing the waters. We would greatly appreciate a "lessons learned" post from you at your convenience.
Any intel? We set up a meeting soon for what sounds like I can do whatever I want.
https://members.seeking.com/member/0dc5a3c1-e014-44a7-8d90-2479344da73dI know her.
I haven't chatted with her, but in general I've noticed a strong correlation between the number of items on their wish list and the GPS level. At 6X she is up there.Never thought about looking at the wish list like that very interesting observation!!
One of the first things to do if you're skeptical is reverse image search on Google:
https://www.pinterest.co.kr/pin/735846026617529268
And yes, what you're describing is sketch on its face.Ah I usually do, shoot. And bad part is she hid her photos after I hid mine. So no way to tell if she was just posting a main pic from the internet vs her other pics, those coulda been fake too though! Thanks for the tips, nonetheless!
SmallAsianCock
11-24-21, 00:24
https://members.seeking.com/member/c51e136e-bec6-4954-97c2-c1c694668a0a
Any intel on this one as well? She reached out to me and sent me her private pics immediately. Not too sure about her from her profile about being on another account or everything being about her, seems like she might be GPS.
Not sure. Thoughts?I also was given access to her private pics. And I am interested. Just don't have premium privileges at this time to message her. Waiting to see SA will offer discount during thanksgiving.
Review and am testing the waters. We would greatly appreciate a "lessons learned" post from you at your convenience.Enjoy the bowl. I'll start putting some thoughts together for a post or two.
I also was given access to her private pics. And I am interested. Just don't have premium privileges at this time to message her. Waiting to see SA will offer discount during thanksgiving.FWIW, I've been getting a 33% discount offer email every 3-4 days on the (unpaid) burner account I created. Might be worthwhile to create a few just for that.
I wasn't planning to write this one so soon, but this chick just messaged me and has so many red flag opportunities in her profile, she made it easy.
Here are some of the top ones I see, that are easy to screen out quickly (see attached image).
First, the "Info box" right under their photo on the profile screen is gold. It will show Account Creation Date, Last Active Date, and Recent Location.
General Rule: If you see an account created within the past 1-3 days, with only 1 photo (total, including hidden), a lame 1 sentence (or less!) "About Me" and "Seeking" AND they are messaging or favoriting you already, it's probably a scammer.
Now I have seen a few of these where after a few days more text and photos get added as the lady realizes she needs to bring some more profile-game, and generally these turn out to be legit. But if they don't get updated, you'll also probably notice the profile is gone in a week or so. They either got reported, or found some marks and are off with a new account.
Next, look at her Recent location (New Zealand. Seeking figures this out from their IP address) and where she claims to be from in her profile (Virginia) - if these aren't congruent, scammer.
A few other observations on this one. She claims to be Middle Eastern, but has blond hair and very anglo facial features. The photo is also clearly zoomed in from another photo, likely an attempt to thwart image search.
And for those of you that have read this far, here is an opportunity. Keep an eye on the Member Since & Last Active date. If you've been checking out talent on the site for more than a few days, and all the sudden you see a "new" hottie pop into your search that you haven't seen before check out the dates. If she has been a member for a while (months++) and is just now jumping back onto the site, it's a good indicator that she has either lost her daddy and needs a new one soon and / or needs some quick cash. I'm sure you can find a way to use this.
SmallAsianCock
11-24-21, 11:09
FWIW, I've been getting a 33% discount offer email every 3-4 days on the (unpaid) burner account I created. Might be worthwhile to create a few just for that.Yes I got it as well.
Here's the link. I hope it works for all.
https://members.seeking.com/billing/memberships?promo=BFCM2021E33&utm_source=sa_ibm&utm_medium=email&utm_term=Logo&utm_content=BF-CyMon_33_promo&utm_campaign=BF-CyMon2021_Nov24_ENG_33&xtor=-%5BSA%20-%20BlackFriday-CyMon%202021%20-%2033off%20-%20Nov-24%20-%20EN%20(1)%5 D-5 BCTA_Main%5 D-&bxid=%5 BNTc0 MTE2 ODYxNDEwS0%5 D-spMailingID=19567863&spUserID=NTc0 MTE2 ODYxNDEwS0&spJobID=2242542449&spReportId=MjI0 MjU0 MjQ0 OQS2.
I also was given access to her private pics. And I am interested. Just don't have premium privileges at this time to message her. Waiting to see SA will offer discount during thanksgiving.Gotcha, yeah it seems like these girls are hitting tons of guys up randomly too, to bait. Go get premium man! Hopefully there will be a discount soon for you.
Let me know if you pursue!
Sometimes I wonder. Is there another site, that I'm not aware of, that has all of us Guys on here including me, with their SA links and pictures posted for the girls to discuss and review. Makes you wonder sometimes.
If the chick is a few years, 5+ years older than you, are you considered a sugar daddy? Or are you the sugar baby, but giving her the sugar? Do older women still just want to be paid or are they usually just looking for an escape?
How do you keep some of these girls from getting too attached, sometimes I might disclose too much of my lavish lifestyle but mainly to keep the convo not too generic, and I'm always doing something fun, I don't give my personal cell or host. Do you just reiterate that you'll just looking for NSA / FWB thing? No long term arrangement? I feel like I've talked to girls that are both transactional or girls just looking for a potential relationship and not too focused on payment.
Random PSA:
I was taking to this one girl, and we both mentioned being discrete, then later throughout the conversation she tells me that she showed a few of her girl friends and they approved and though I was hot. Like. I could care less about what her friends think.
But Just a friendly reminder, if you are being discreet, the person you are sharing your pics with may not, and may share your pics around, and if you think the area you're living in is small, usually it is -And sometimes people do know each other.
Just something to think about. Happy Seeking.
Never thought about looking at the wish list like that very interesting observation!!Scrolling through their items might also give you a feel. If it's all jewelry and $500+ purses & shoes, probably high maintenance and / or a straight up rinser.
I like the ones with sex toys and sexy outfits on their lists, or better yet completely empty!
But either way click them, by default the chicks get a notification when you do, so they might get a little more attentive to you.
Sometimes I wonder. Is there another site, that I'm not aware of, that has all of us Guys on here including me, with their SA links and pictures posted for the girls to discuss and review. Makes you wonder sometimes.
Random PSA:
I was taking to this one girl, and we both mentioned being discrete, then later throughout the conversation she tells me that she showed a few of her girl friends and they approved and though I was hot. Like. I could care less about what her friends think.
But Just a friendly reminder, if you are being discreet, the person you are sharing your pics with may not, and may share your pics around, and if you think the area you're living in is small, usually it is -And sometimes people do know each other.
Just something to think about. Happy Seeking.Yea, this part is scary. I've been trying to find a service that will find a very similar photo to mine that I can use. Close enough to pass, but not close enough someone who knows me would recognize it as me. Found one AI tool that claimed to do this, but it's not close at all. If anyone has seen anything like this, please share.
Sometimes I wonder. Is there another site, that I'm not aware of, that has all of us Guys on here including me, with their SA links and pictures posted for the girls to discuss and review. Makes you wonder sometimes.
If the chick is a few years, 5+ years older than you, are you considered a sugar daddy? Or are you the sugar baby, but giving her the sugar? Do older women still just want to be paid or are they usually just looking for an escape?
How do you keep some of these girls from getting too attached, sometimes I might disclose too much of my lavish lifestyle but mainly to keep the convo not too generic, and I'm always doing something fun, I don't give my personal cell or host. Do you just reiterate that you'll just looking for NSA / FWB thing? No long term arrangement? I feel like I've talked to girls that are both transactional or girls just looking for a potential relationship and not too focused on payment.
Random PSA:
I was taking to this one girl, and we both mentioned being discrete, then later throughout the conversation she tells me that she showed a few of her girl friends and they approved and though I was hot. Like. I could care less about what her friends think.
But Just a friendly reminder, if you are being discreet, the person you are sharing your pics with may not, and may share your pics around, and if you think the area you're living in is small, usually it is -And sometimes people do know each other.
Just something to think about. Happy Seeking.I keep thinking about the same thing. My current SB is older than me. Well. You are giving sugar to the Baby. Older or not. She still the Sugar Baby.
+1 for the PSA. This point might be what others might have already been doing but was never discussed AFAIK. Providing a resembling pic is definitely recommended. I guess one can simply search for their photo online and it definitely gives out similar images that can be used.
G.
PghGuy2005
11-26-21, 15:14
...I've been trying to find a service that will find a very similar photo to mine that I can use...I use the picture of a foreign film actor who sort of kind of resembles me!
LikesGirls
11-26-21, 16:29
Yea, this part is scary. I've been trying to find a service that will find a very similar photo to mine that I can use. Close enough to pass, but not close enough someone who knows me would recognize it as me. Found one AI tool that claimed to do this, but it's not close at all. If anyone has seen anything like this, please share.You can a Google Image search of your own photo, and it will present you some that will resemble you somewhat closely.
Hey guys how the Sb works do I have to pay membership to message.
How can I get around and if I pay just want to try one month.
Can I use a gift card?
Thanks guys.
SmallAsianCock
11-28-21, 00:00
Any info on this lady? I've been txting with her and have agreed to meet. I would love any info.
https://members.seeking.com/member/cf163a70-f307-42c2-aa88-d71bb799a0c1
Hey guys how the Sb works do I have to pay membership to message.
How can I get around and if I pay just want to try one month.
Can I use a gift card?
Thanks guys.I'm not aware of a way for men to get messaging without paying, I believe females can if they verify with university email (but this is coming from a female I chatted with on there, have not verified any of this).
Yes, you can use a prepaid Visa or Mastercard (I got one from the grocery store) , but you will need to follow the instructions that came with the card and go "register" it with a name and address on the website first. I used a fake name, and real address (not mine) and it worked fine. You'll need to make sure the info you setup on the card and what you use on seeking matches exactly or the card will get declined.
Also, sign up for a free account first, and you should get an email within a few days for 25-33% off a paid account.
TheChosenOne91
11-29-21, 00:58
I'm not aware of a way for men to get messaging without paying, I believe females can if they verify with university email (but this is coming from a female I chatted with on there, have not verified any of this).
Yes, you can use a prepaid Visa or Mastercard (I got one from the grocery store) , but you will need to follow the instructions that came with the card and go "register" it with a name and address on the website first. I used a fake name, and real address (not mine) and it worked fine. You'll need to make sure the info you setup on the card and what you use on seeking matches exactly or the card will get declined.
Also, sign up for a free account first, and you should get an email within a few days for 25-33% off a paid account.Cool trick I learned, cards are matched by the zip codes. So be sure to at least use the same exact zip code. Any other information doesn't matter or need to be exact such as name or street of the address. I personally do it this way.
Scrolling through their items might also give you a feel. If it's all jewelry and $500+ purses & shoes, probably high maintenance and / or a straight up rinser.
I like the ones with sex toys and sexy outfits on their lists, or better yet completely empty!
But either way click them, by default the chicks get a notification when you do, so they might get a little more attentive to you.Nice hints, yeah, definitely never thought to utilize the Wishlist as foreshadowing insights into their personality or that it gives a notification. I thought I saw that somewhere but you confirmed it.
GentleGiant78
11-29-21, 14:00
Hey guys,
I've been chatting with this one and she won't throw out a number first. I want to make an offer that's high enough for her to take seriously but not too high that it breaks the budget. Has anyone else had any luck or interaction with her? I'd really appreciate any information anyone has!
https://members.seeking.com/member/496ad6c5-a3d1-4c31-afa8-b66322c9f724
Hey guys,
I've been chatting with this one and she won't throw out a number first. I want to make an offer that's high enough for her to take seriously but not too high that it breaks the budget. Has anyone else had any luck or interaction with her? I'd really appreciate any information anyone has!
https://members.seeking.com/member/496ad6c5-a3d1-4c31-afa8-b66322c9f724If she is even real which I doubt. $300 should be your first and only offer. Don't fall for their " I usually get" b. S.
Even and that make sure you are getting exactly what you want as well or it is a guaranteed disappointment.
DJprofessorK
11-30-21, 23:16
If she is even real which I doubt. $300 should be your first and only offer. Don't fall for their " I usually get" b. S.
Even and that make sure you are getting exactly what you want as well or it is a guaranteed disappointment.I was told by a new-ish SB in Vegas that 'seasoned' SB's are advising them to rarely throw out their expectations first. Geriatric rich dudes, scared newbies, and idiots will sometimes offer way over the market rate. And by her giving a number that may be lower than he was going to offer would essentially cause her to leave money at the table.
She told me this because some lonely geriatric SD who has comps for days at Vegas casinos was offering 1 K just for women to have dinner with him, she said she was going to quote him 5 $ because of how old he was and wasn't attracted to him, but he came in first with a much higher offer. She made it sound like he was a widower. I let her know that I stick to around 3 $ and she said yes, but I passed because I didn't want a lackluster experience with someone who was expecting a lot more. I'm sure she'll go on a few 'adjustment dates', but I don't want it to be me and have a lousy time.
I was told by a new-ish SB in Vegas that 'seasoned' SB's are advising them to rarely throw out their expectations first. Geriatric rich dudes, scared newbies, and idiots will sometimes offer way over the market rate. And by her giving a number that may be lower than he was going to offer would essentially cause her to leave money at the table.
She told me this because some lonely geriatric SD who has comps for days at Vegas casinos was offering 1 K just for women to have dinner with him, she said she was going to quote him 5 $ because of how old he was and wasn't attracted to him, but he came in first with a much higher offer. She made it sound like he was a widower. I let her know that I stick to around 3 $ and she said yes, but I passed because I didn't want a lackluster experience with someone who was expecting a lot more. I'm sure she'll go on a few 'adjustment dates', but I don't want it to be me and have a lousy time.This is great advice for ANY negotiation. Whether it is a car, house, or a "date". An early mentor told me to never be the first one to go to a price, "when you set the price first, you are only competing with yourself".
I recently joined seeking as that website allows to subscribe with a gift card. I was getting a lot of replies from girls wanting vacations and 600 per visit. I stumbled on a few that were willing to meet at 200 or below and so my advice to all of you is to be persistent. There are a few gems out there.
This is great advice for ANY negotiation. Whether it is a car, house, or a "date". An early mentor told me to never be the first one to go to a price, "when you set the price first, you are only competing with yourself".In legitimate business transactions. Don't let anyone tell you those girls-women are not WGs, it is very simple they sell their pussy and their are many, many of them around so don't fall for the garbage they post on there. Make a legitimate offer, make it clear what you expect and always be a gentleman but never let them gauche you or fall for their scams. No one should be paying a girl $500 or a thousand or paying one for company.
Guys need to stop being delusional these girls do not like you, they can pretend and string you along but the truth is always going to come out.
StormyTuesday
12-02-21, 18:18
Gotcha, yeah it seems like these girls are hitting tons of guys up randomly too, to bait. Go get premium man! Hopefully there will be a discount soon for you.
Let me know if you pursue!There was a discount, 25% off and I jumped on it for a three month gig. After 20 months on the covid sidelines I have decided to jump back in. For all you Senior Members who have been around for five plus years. I'm back.
SmallAsianCock
12-03-21, 10:46
There was a discount, 25% off and I jumped on it for a three month gig. After 20 months on the covid sidelines I have decided to jump back in. For all you Senior Members who have been around for five plus years. I'm back.Welcome back. You should work on getting the 33% discount. Set up a dummy account with a different email address. Never pay on this dummy account, Whenever discounts are offered, you will receive the 33% discount in your email. Now login to you regular SA account. Then go back to your dummy SA email account that you're getting the 33% discount. Click on the link in the email. This will bring up 33% discount in your regular SA account. Bingo!
I get 66% discount from my dummy WYP account.
DJprofessorK
12-06-21, 16:27
Just last week, someone I met on SA years ago sent me a tirade on my burner IG account telling me that I 'exploited' her because I was 'too cheap to pay what she deserved' during our dates. Mind you, I never once haggled with her and gave her exactly what SHE asked for during our dates, which at the time was $2. 5 to $$$. She said that I should have been giving her $5 or $6. She went on to say that she's gone onto full blown escorting and guys are lining up to pay her current rates (Which I don't believe). She also stated that SA was full of gross, cheap creeps and that the men who are into escorting are much better (I would never pit hobbyists against one another, but again, I don't believe her characterization).
This freaked me out, so I went to her IG page and she had a massive collection of recently posted DM screenshots where she was sending private convos to guys work, girlfriends, and wives. Many with the caption that she was 'outing abusers' and 'protecting women'. Many of the screenshots were years old and some of the gf's even asked, 'Why are you doing this now? This happened a long time ago. ' Additionally, most of the screenshots were just men asking for nudes or asking for a discount. Sure, it can come off as rude, but I don't think that's abuse.
I showed the convo to another woman I met on SA, and she blew the woman off saying, 'She's having a bad day. You didn't do anything. I think she's projecting. I wouldn't worry about it too much. '.
I have always had cordial relations with women I've met on SA after the fact. Always. Even when I've seen them in their civilian life. More often than not, they come up to me and say hello. Or they smile and nod, and go about their business. This is the first time ANYTHING like this has happened to me in my few years of being on SA. Completely threw me off.
She has since changed her profile name and made it private, I'm guessing due to backlash, and I've gotten off IG. I think I'll stay off for at least a few weeks.
I used to think that treating people like equals on SA made it less weird and more respectable. From now on, I'm going to keep people more at a distance or only use it when I'm traveling. Stay safe out there.
TheChosenOne91
12-06-21, 22:36
Just last week, someone I met on SA years ago sent me a tirade on my burner IG account telling me that I 'exploited' her because I was 'too cheap to pay what she deserved' during our dates. Mind you, I never once haggled with her and gave her exactly what SHE asked for during our dates, which at the time was $2. 5 to $$$. She said that I should have been giving her $5 or $6. She went on to say that she's gone onto full blown escorting and guys are lining up to pay her current rates (Which I don't believe). She also stated that SA was full of gross, cheap creeps and that the men who are into escorting are much better (I would never pit hobbyists against one another, but again, I don't believe her characterization).
This freaked me out, so I went to her IG page and she had a massive collection of recently posted DM screenshots where she was sending private convos to guys work, girlfriends, and wives. Many with the caption that she was 'outing abusers' and 'protecting women'. Many of the screenshots were years old and some of the gf's even asked, 'Why are you doing this now? This happened a long time ago. ' Additionally, most of the screenshots were just men asking for nudes or asking for a discount. Sure, it can come off as rude, but I don't think that's abuse.
I showed the convo to another woman I met on SA, and she blew the woman off saying, 'She's having a bad day. You didn't do anything. I think she's projecting. I wouldn't worry about it too much. '.
I have always had cordial relations with women I've met on SA after the fact. Always. Even when I've seen them in their civilian life. More often than not, they come up to me and say hello. Or they smile and nod, and go about their business. This is the first time ANYTHING like this has happened to me in my few years of being on SA. Completely threw me off.
She has since changed her profile name and made it private, I'm guessing due to backlash, and I've gotten off IG. I think I'll stay off for at least a few weeks.
I used to think that treating people like equals on SA made it less weird and more respectable. From now on, I'm going to keep people more at a distance or only use it when I'm traveling. Stay safe out there.Minding sharing their SA profile name so we can stay clear?? PM me if needed.
Just last week, someone I met on SA years ago sent me a tirade on my burner IG account telling me that I 'exploited' her because I was 'too cheap to pay what she deserved' during our dates. Mind you, I never once haggled with her and gave her exactly what SHE asked for during our dates, which at the time was $2. 5 to $$$. She said that I should have been giving her $5 or $6. She went on to say that she's gone onto full blown escorting and guys are lining up to pay her current rates (Which I don't believe). She also stated that SA was full of gross, cheap creeps and that the men who are into escorting are much better (I would never pit hobbyists against one another, but again, I don't believe her characterization).
This freaked me out, so I went to her IG page and she had a massive collection of recently posted DM screenshots where she was sending private convos to guys work, girlfriends, and wives. Many with the caption that she was 'outing abusers' and 'protecting women'. Many of the screenshots were years old and some of the gf's even asked, 'Why are you doing this now? This happened a long time ago. ' Additionally, most of the screenshots were just men asking for nudes or asking for a discount. Sure, it can come off as rude, but I don't think that's abuse.
I showed the convo to another woman I met on SA, and she blew the woman off saying, 'She's having a bad day. You didn't do anything. I think she's projecting. I wouldn't worry about it too much. '.
I have always had cordial relations with women I've met on SA after the fact. Always. Even when I've seen them in their civilian life. More often than not, they come up to me and say hello. Or they smile and nod, and go about their business. This is the first time ANYTHING like this has happened to me in my few years of being on SA. Completely threw me off.
She has since changed her profile name and made it private, I'm guessing due to backlash, and I've gotten off IG. I think I'll stay off for at least a few weeks.
I used to think that treating people like equals on SA made it less weird and more respectable. From now on, I'm going to keep people more at a distance or only use it when I'm traveling. Stay safe out there.Doesn't really make sense. SB's have always been more expensive than typical escorts and more expensive. Its meant for a more intimate connection than straight up escorting. I don't partake (too expensive for me) but I understand the scene. She sounds like she's blowing smoke to guilt you into giving up more money.
So I counted out SA several years ago because it was not possible to pay by gift card and also seemed like a lot of effort. Gift card payment makes it better so I am reconsidering since the escort game is such a waste of time lately. I can't get girls to reply, too many mongers. Can anyone tell me if its possible to get SA dates without having much of a profile? No way I am putting my picture on the website. I'm curious to know what is the minimum info required to get a girl to respond. Also appreciate any newbie advice for getting girls' attention on the site and figuring out who's real (I got a lot of obviously fake profile emails when I first set up a free acct). Thanks for info.
SmallAsianCock
12-11-21, 01:25
So I counted out SA several years ago because it was not possible to pay by gift card and also seemed like a lot of effort. Gift card payment makes it better so I am reconsidering since the escort game is such a waste of time lately. I can't get girls to reply, too many mongers. Can anyone tell me if its possible to get SA dates without having much of a profile? No way I am putting my picture on the website. I'm curious to know what is the minimum info required to get a girl to respond. Also appreciate any newbie advice for getting girls' attention on the site and figuring out who's real (I got a lot of obviously fake profile emails when I first set up a free acct). Thanks for info.I have had a profile on SA for a couple of years. I've never used a pic. And I do date a lot of women from there. A few will ask for a pic. And of those, Most will accept the reason I don't put up a pic. And I date a lot. Some prefer to meet for lunch or dinner first. Majority will meet in a hotel room.
Am also on SB without a pic. And it's the same. Most of the women want the money more than they care what you look like.
Doesn't really make sense. SB's have always been more expensive than typical escorts and more expensive. Its meant for a more intimate connection than straight up escorting. I don't partake (too expensive for me) but I understand the scene. She sounds like she's blowing smoke to guilt you into giving up more money.This is a real **** so what you need to do is throw her b. S. Right back at her. Get as much personal information as you can (not difficult in the internet age) tell her to fuck off and that you will out her to her friends, job, parents, or any way you can throw dirt at her. Than tell her she took advantage of you and want your money back, always fight fire with fire.
The Creature
12-11-21, 22:38
What level of hotel are you taking them to? I have not been able to find any hourly hotels around here.
I have had a profile on SA for a couple of years. I've never used a pic. And I do date a lot of women from there. A few will ask for a pic. And of those, Most will accept the reason I don't put up a pic. And I date a lot. Some prefer to meet for lunch or dinner first. Majority will meet in a hotel room.
Am also on SB without a pic. And it's the same. Most of the women want the money more than they care what you look like.
I posted the question on the Wilmington board, any info on her, seems.
Too hot to be true.
Is she pro?
https://members.seeking.com/member/44879cb2-b913-4eb6-9dab-00c0c443aa6bShe is real. I met with her a few months ago. Was asking for 600 talked her down to 350. Pictures are amazing, but she has put on quite a bit of weight. If she looked like her pictures I would repeat, but its quite a difference.
DJprofessorK
12-12-21, 11:57
This is a real **** so what you need to do is throw her b. S. Right back at her. Get as much personal information as you can (not difficult in the internet age) tell her to fuck off and that you will out her to her friends, job, parents, or any way you can throw dirt at her. Than tell her she took advantage of you and want your money back, always fight fire with fire.I'll consider that if she tries to come back around. Right now, I'm just going to lay low for a bit. However, as of right now, she's someone else's problem. Whoever it is, I wish them the best. Not everyone is made for sugaring and might enjoy escorting more, and vice versa. If she realized she was better suited for one than the other, that's great. I just don't appreciate her taking her frustration out on me.
I do believe that her tactics will upset the wrong person though. If's not a matter of if, but when.
I'll consider that if she tries to come back around. Right now, I'm just going to lay low for a bit. However, as of right now, she's someone else's problem. Whoever it is, I wish them the best. Not everyone is made for sugaring and might enjoy escorting more, and vice versa. If she realized she was better suited for one than the other, that's great. I just don't appreciate her taking her frustration out on me.
I do believe that her tactics will upset the wrong person though. If's not a matter of if, but when.You are welcome and I sent you a pm. I don't distinguish between escorts and sugar babes because it's one and the same. For whatever reason though they think they are worth more, I can tell you firsthand that every sugar babe experience I had was identical to an escort- hooker.
SmallAsianCock
12-12-21, 22:18
What level of hotel are you taking them to? I have not been able to find any hourly hotels around here.Look at Oro Hotel (I think that's the name). I think the one In Durham will do hourly.
https://members.seeking.com/member/baf23154-a850-41a8-ba79-956033b1a727
I had a meeting with this one, she is DTF. However, asked for 300 agreed on 250. Not worth at all. Super rushed (business transaction). Lame excuses for being late more than 3 hours and more excuses so she can leave early after the first round.
So I counted out SA several years ago because it was not possible to pay by gift card and also seemed like a lot of effort. Gift card payment makes it better so I am reconsidering since the escort game is such a waste of time lately. I can't get girls to reply, too many mongers. Can anyone tell me if its possible to get SA dates without having much of a profile? No way I am putting my picture on the website. I'm curious to know what is the minimum info required to get a girl to respond. Also appreciate any newbie advice for getting girls' attention on the site and figuring out who's real (I got a lot of obviously fake profile emails when I first set up a free acct). Thanks for info.You must use the right gift card. You need to get the $100 Vanilla Card, the one time use one, not the reloadable one that you can put $20-$500 on, it won't work. Plus an added advantage of the $100 one is when they try to charge it again, since there's only a penny left on it, your account ends. Then you decide when to renew & get another card. By then I've got enough that I've seen a couple and am texting a bunch. I let those play out before I renew.
I'm very picky, only 7-10's, slim, perfect asses, 18-25, although I have a 31 why o that has the body of a 21 why o.
As far as not posting your real pic, I don't & I think it increases the number of Babies that go to text. There curious to see who is messaging them. I've had a paid account on & off about two years, my first was Tony Soprano from the waist to the nose. I think a Baby I called out fir being a scammer ratted me out. I got booted off the site. Luckily it was when I didn't have a paid membership, I was in between. It's a hassle, but I set up another one, with a random pic from a men's clothing website, feet to chin.
As far as how to get Babies attention, just complementing them, I start out pretty basic & when we go to text get sexual but not rude, all these Babies get dick pics & insulted by creeps so just being funny & semi respectful at first goes a long way. Eventually I may be telling the same Baby that I'm going to eat her like a cupcake! LOL.
Good luck!
SmallAsianCock
12-14-21, 12:02
https://members.seeking.com/member/baf23154-a850-41a8-ba79-956033b1a727
I had a meeting with this one, she is DTF. However, asked for 300 agreed on 250. Not worth at all. Super rushed (business transaction). Lame excuses for being late more than 3 hours and more excuses so she can leave early after the first round.She's been around for some time and has been reviewed here under different name. I'll search and post.
You must use the right gift card. You need to get the $100 Vanilla Card, the one time use one, not the reloadable one that you can put $20-$500 on, it won't work. Plus an added advantage of the $100 one is when they try to charge it again, since there's only a penny left on it, your account ends. Then you decide when to renew & get another card. By then I've got enough that I've seen a couple and am texting a bunch. I let those play out before I renew.
I'm very picky, only 7-10's, slim, perfect asses, 18-25, although I have a 31 why o that has the body of a 21 why o.
As far as not posting your real pic, I don't & I think it increases the number of Babies that go to text. There curious to see who is messaging them. I've had a paid account on & off about two years, my first was Tony Soprano from the waist to the nose. I think a Baby I called out fir being a scammer ratted me out. I got booted off the site. Luckily it was when I didn't have a paid membership, I was in between. It's a hassle, but I set up another one, with a random pic from a men's clothing website, feet to chin.
As far as how to get Babies attention, just complementing them, I start out pretty basic & when we go to text get sexual but not rude, all these Babies get dick pics & insulted by creeps so just being funny & semi respectful at first goes a long way. Eventually I may be telling the same Baby that I'm going to eat her like a cupcake! LOL.
Good luck!Sounds like we have the same taste. Tried to PM but full.
Sounds like we have the same taste. Tried to PM but full.My bad, I cleared some now, thanks for the heads up!
DavidWashburn
12-15-21, 08:42
Look at Oro Hotel (I think that's the name). I think the one In Durham will do hourly.I think you may mean OYO Hotel.
322X Kuber Blvd, Durham, NC, 2770X.
LostInNc97
12-15-21, 14:32
Has anybody had an experience with her? Is she DTF or just dating? Thanks in advance.
Has anybody had an experience with her? Is she DTF or just dating? Thanks in advance.I saw her about a year ago. She was nice enough, and DTF but was a little nervous. Her pics are a bit flattering and she isn't built quite like I normally prefer, so haven't repeated.
Bachelor1234
12-15-21, 17:24
Has anybody had an experience with her? Is she DTF or just dating? Thanks in advance.She was reviewed on 12-02-20. Post #2282. Reviewer said she was bigger than her pictures.
Bachelor1234
12-15-21, 19:32
Fellow Mongers, I've been using Visa Vanilla Gift cards successfully on Seeking Arrangements on and off for the last couple of years. Until today. System stopped taking them for me. Anyone else run into this? Anyone know a fool-proof plan for paying with an untraceable / discreet card?
LiquidCoil
12-16-21, 10:59
So what are the main scams to look out for on these sites? From what I've read on this thread:
-Just before first meet, SB texts "need gas money", then ghosts with the $20-30.
-Paying for any meet & greet (sounds like there is some debate on this, but also sounds like there are some SBs who make money only doing platonic M&G free lunches).
-SB who lives in another state, eventually paying them to "visit" or travel with you, then they ghost. Has a non-local SB ever worked out for anyone here? I get those favorites / messages from SBs in other states and countries and I do not understand how that could ever work. Unless I happened to travel there? Now that I think about it, giving money to a SB to travel across state lines without being 1,000,000% sure they are over age is lunacy.
-Any kind of deposit, obviously.
-Has anyone ever dealt with threatened blackmail?
-Anything else to be aware of?
Has anybody had an experience with her? Is she DTF or just dating? Thanks in advance.Saw her about a year ago, seems like she had lost a lot of weight recently, still big, but definitely DTF.
HappyHunter1
12-17-21, 00:14
So what are the main scams to look out for on these sites? From what I've read on this thread:
-Just before first meet, SB texts "need gas money", then ghosts with the $20-30.
-Paying for any meet & greet (sounds like there is some debate on this, but also sounds like there are some SBs who make money only doing platonic M&G free lunches).
-SB who lives in another state, eventually paying them to "visit" or travel with you, then they ghost. Has a non-local SB ever worked out for anyone here? I get those favorites / messages from SBs in other states and countries and I do not understand how that could ever work. Unless I happened to travel there? Now that I think about it, giving money to a SB to travel across state lines without being 1,000,000% sure they are over age is lunacy.
-Any kind of deposit, obviously.
-Has anyone ever dealt with threatened blackmail?
-Anything else to be aware of?Had a blackmail attempt once. Great conversation. Claimed could not get texts from my app so I gave her cell to my business phone. First message is "I have your name, number, and all information. I want $300 now!
Message went on every little bit for about three hour, then she referenced a name in the text. Damn if it wasn't the name of the previous owner of the number. I finally responded and said call my house if you want! I don't give a crud! Hope that poor boy did not get into too much trouble. I can almost hear trying to explain, "Honest Honeybuns, it wasn't me. I didn't do anything. I have no idea who that crazy woman is!
Lesson learned. Never give up personal information or traceable numbers.
Hello all. Longtime SA guy here, TONS of great experiences and a few bad ones over a lotta years. Someone reported me for soliciting or some shit (they were just pissed off I said no to some outrageous rate) right before COVID. Got back with an old fiance that didn't work out in the summer of last year and thought I was headed to getting married again. Things really went south the last few months. I got a cancer diagnosis, am doing ok, but she didn't want to deal and took off.
I need back on SA. Or some access to it. Help!
1. I'll pay someone to help me setup a profile using their card, or whatever.
2. I'll pay someone to help you get around whatever SA has that seems to know it is me. I've tried VPN, everything.
3. I'll pay someone for referrals. I only go hot. 7 or 8, slim, etc. Love group stuff, and travel. Willing to pay for quality (just not for NO quality like who ever reported me).
Let me know and thanks.
PghGuy2005
12-19-21, 12:59
... get around whatever SA has that seems to know it is me...Did you set up the VPN correctly *before* signing up on SA? Also you cannot use email addresses you've used before on SA. Hotmail / Outlook is better for free web mail as they allow creation of aliases which function as independent email addresses for the same mailbox. Use a good VPN such as Private VPN and turn it on before launching the browser. Also clear browser cache, cookies etc before launching browser preferably in private / incognito mode.
For payment use a gift card or.
PghGuy2005
12-19-21, 13:08
She was reviewed on 12-02-20. Post #2282. Reviewer said she was bigger than her pictures.http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?20290-The-Raleigh-area-quot-Sugar-Bowl-quot-(SA-WYP-SD4-ME)&p=5094778&viewfull=1#post5094778.
SmallAsianCock
12-22-21, 21:35
Hello all. Longtime SA guy here, TONS of great experiences and a few bad ones over a lotta years. Someone reported me for soliciting or some shit (they were just pissed off I said no to some outrageous rate) right before COVID. Got back with an old fiance that didn't work out in the summer of last year and thought I was headed to getting married again. Things really went south the last few months. I got a cancer diagnosis, am doing ok, but she didn't want to deal and took off.
I need back on SA. Or some access to it. Help!
1. I'll pay someone to help me setup a profile using their card, or whatever.
2. I'll pay someone to help you get around whatever SA has that seems to know it is me. I've tried VPN, everything.
3. I'll pay someone for referrals. I only go hot. 7 or 8, slim, etc. Love group stuff, and travel. Willing to pay for quality (just not for NO quality like who ever reported me).
Let me know and thanks.You are probably being tracked by your IMEI, or your hardware Ethernet Address. Changing the device, email address will probably get you back on SA. I also have multiple logins on SA. So when one is banned, am able to use the other.
Fellow Mongers, I've been using Visa Vanilla Gift cards successfully on Seeking Arrangements on and off for the last couple of years. Until today. System stopped taking them for me. Anyone else run into this? Anyone know a fool-proof plan for paying with an untraceable / discreet card?I just renewed with one, and it worked fine. You need to go into the "activation" (or setup) for the card ex: www.CardCo.com/activate and take a few minutes to fill out the details Use a real (but not yours) address from the city you are in, complete it all accurately. Then use this exact address as the billing address on SA. I've seen others that had luck with only the zip code matching, but that never worked for me. I got errors until I had a full address match in my city.
You are probably being tracked by your IMEI, or your hardware Ethernet Address. Changing the device, email address will probably get you back on SA. I also have multiple logins on SA. So when one is banned, am able to use the other.Thanks guys. I have a Christmas project.
SmallAsianCock
12-23-21, 23:16
Any information on this lady. She'd been around long enough that I hope some on have have played with her.
https://members.seeking.com/member/ca84a27c-cd47-4e01-891e-f3a202689e23
LikesGirls
12-24-21, 01:51
You are probably being tracked by your IMEI, or your hardware Ethernet Address. Changing the device, email address will probably get you back on SA. I also have multiple logins on SA. So when one is banned, am able to use the other.The IMEI and MAC (hardware) address aren't exposed to SA. Cookies on the device might be the culprit. Try using incognito mode.
Rdudreaming
12-24-21, 18:59
Dreamed I had met her on secret benefits, and yes, there are some real ones on there. She noted that she offers 'Discreet Good Times '. As I recall my dream, she did just that. VERY open minded, with a very full menu, with some specialty items not seen on most menues. I suggest that if you have a taste for the exotic, just ask as she said she had experience providing more than the things I was interested in. It's her, clean, freah, friendly, but not for those that need an olive oil clone. Hosts in a modest, but safe, apartment near downtown Chapel Hill. I will repeat.
SmallAsianCock
12-25-21, 12:30
Hey guys,
I've been chatting with this one and she won't throw out a number first. I want to make an offer that's high enough for her to take seriously but not too high that it breaks the budget. Has anyone else had any luck or interaction with her? I'd really appreciate any information anyone has!
https://members.seeking.com/member/496ad6c5-a3d1-4c31-afa8-b66322c9f724She sent her number on my very first message to her. But now she's not texting me.
Anybody ever seen this lady?
https://members.seeking.com/member/be448ba2-9afb-4904-b720-12fd3cd97612
Anybody ever seen this lady?
https://members.seeking.com/member/be448ba2-9afb-4904-b720-12fd3cd97612She's been on and off the site for a while. I exchanged messages with her back some time ago when she seemed new. We were both cautious and never figured out a meet, but she seemed real / legit.
MikeoDamerika
12-27-21, 18:13
Hey fellas,
I'm going down to Atlanta for a few weeks. Anyone have any good contacts down there? Would love to meet someone.
SmallAsianCock
01-02-22, 20:47
Anyone has info on this lady.
https://members.seeking.com/member/dbc44144-2bad-4f93-bd6b-298ae6939c41
Cindy Fireball
01-06-22, 11:38
Anyone has info on this lady.
https://members.seeking.com/member/818a3b3b-cff8-463c-a2e3-d4c5c68f7d2f
LiquidCoil
01-06-22, 17:37
Anyone has info on this lady.
https://members.seeking.com/member/818a3b3b-cff8-463c-a2e3-d4c5c68f7d2fTo each their own of course, but I really do not understand the appeal of a girl "offering" findom. Once a profile mentions that or that they are looking for platonic / online-only, it's an immediate pass.
SmallAsianCock
01-06-22, 19:51
To each their own of course, but I really do not understand the appeal of a girl "offering" findom. Once a profile mentions that or that they are looking for platonic / online-only, it's an immediate pass.I think she used to have another profile. I'll look and post.
SmallAsianCock
01-06-22, 19:54
Any information on this lady. She'd been around long enough that I hope some on have have played with her.
https://members.seeking.com/member/ca84a27c-cd47-4e01-891e-f3a202689e23Met with her about a week ago. PM For details.
LikesGirls
01-06-22, 21:00
Met with her about a week ago. PM For details.Can you post a public review please? Thanks!
LikesGirls
01-06-22, 21:02
It seems that 99% of the new profiles are obviously scams. One or two lines at most, many are "nurses making the best I can" or "a student I just moved to the area" or simple variations of those themes. Usually one or two photos.
My membership just expired, and I don't intend to renew at the new rate, which I think is insane. Maybe next time I find a special rate.
NeedSiteAccess
01-07-22, 10:34
It seems that 99% of the new profiles are obviously scams. One or two lines at most, many are "nurses making the best I can" or "a student I just moved to the area" or simple variations of those themes. Usually one or two photos.
My membership just expired, and I don't intend to renew at the new rate, which I think is insane. Maybe next time I find a special rate.Seems that way. Coming back into this after several years off, definitely seems like more of a grind. My hit rate on responses back is lighter than I remember, and definitely more platonic / fake profiles to get through.
Bachelor1234
01-07-22, 10:54
I think she used to have another profile. I'll look and post.GoddessLeah had a profile under the name Soy a couple years ago. We texted but she seemed a little shy about meeting up.
https://members.seeking.com/member/5d807806-a712-4bcd-8523-6d72f6171871
Any info on this one? We exchanged messages. Seemed pretty down on her luck and needing cash.
Coast To Peaks
01-10-22, 13:39
I just renewed with one, and it worked fine. You need to go into the "activation" (or setup) for the card ex: www.CardCo.com/activate and take a few minutes to fill out the details Use a real (but not yours) address from the city you are in, complete it all accurately. Then use this exact address as the billing address on SA. I've seen others that had luck with only the zip code matching, but that never worked for me. I got errors until I had a full address match in my city.I have been off SA for awhile. For TOS violations. Tried many ways to get back on but with no success. Been reading this thread about methods that worked. I got a new laptop and I got a Visa gift card and put in an address etc. I signed up for a month with renewal. It went through, however I got a note back saying they usually do not accept gift cards but would in my case. I have walked the straight and narrow for the last week not wanting to get banned so quickly. While banned from SA I used Secret Benefits and Sugar Daddie Meet with enough success to make me wonder if SA is really worth it. I am also banned from WYP which is a sister site to SA. Doubt I will get back with them. I think the secret is the address on the credit or debit card.
Happy hunting guys.
LiquidCoil
01-10-22, 13:40
Anyone else use the Burner app and have trouble receiving texted photos? I've had it happen twice in a row where a girl says she sent me a photo and I see nothing. I tested it with my own phone and it seems like it's working fine, but wondering if there's another variable I'm missing.
SmallAsianCock
01-10-22, 22:13
Anyone else use the Burner app and have trouble receiving texted photos? I've had it happen twice in a row where a girl says she sent me a photo and I see nothing. I tested it with my own phone and it seems like it's working fine, but wondering if there's another variable I'm missing.Most likely it is the sending party's network / device that is the problem. I do run into this problem sometimes depends whether am on cellular, or my home network.
SmallAsianCock
01-10-22, 22:19
I have been off SA for awhile. For TOS violations. Tried many ways to get back on but with no success. Been reading this thread about methods that worked. I got a new laptop and I got a Visa gift card and put in an address etc. I signed up for a month with renewal. It went through, however I got a note back saying they usually do not accept gift cards but would in my case. I have walked the straight and narrow for the last week not wanting to get banned so quickly. While banned from SA I used Secret Benefits and Sugar Daddie Meet with enough success to make me wonder if SA is really worth it. I am also banned from WYP which is a sister site to SA. Doubt I will get back with them. I think the secret is the address on the credit or debit card.
Happy hunting guys.I think the secret is the hardware address of the device you are using to connect to SA. They have to know the type of device you're using so they can properly format the display.
DJprofessorK
01-11-22, 00:30
Anyone else use the Burner app and have trouble receiving texted photos? I've had it happen twice in a row where a girl says she sent me a photo and I see nothing. I tested it with my own phone and it seems like it's working fine, but wondering if there's another variable I'm missing.Has anyone else complained of not being able to send you photos? Twice in a row as in the same girl has tried to send you photos? Or two different people attempted to send you photos with no success? Is this a new phenomenon?
If this problem only exists for a single sender, my negative worldview would suggest that this is a scammer who is aware that you're using a burner number and wants you to cave and use your actual number in an attempt to find out who you really are.
OR.
I could be 100% incorrect, and the photos just aren't going through for some reason.
Be safe.
Has anyone else complained of not being able to send you photos? Twice in a row as in the same girl has tried to send you photos? Or two different people attempted to send you photos with no success? Is this a new phenomenon?
If this problem only exists for a single sender, my negative worldview would suggest that this is a scammer who is aware that you're using a burner number and wants you to cave and use your actual number in an attempt to find out who you really are.
OR.
I could be 100% incorrect, and the photos just aren't going through for some reason.
Be safe.This happens to me all the time. Mostly with the Latina agencies that keep texting me from a different number each time. I ask the to Whatsapp me and that works fine. You can have regular WhatsApp for your regular number and have a Business WhatsApp (different app) for your burner number. Pretty easy to setup.
G.
LiquidCoil
01-11-22, 07:28
Or two different people attempted to send you photos with no success? Is this a new phenomenon?Two completely unrelated people, but the only ones I've asked to text photos to the Burner app's number (other than the test photos I texted from my own actual number to make sure it wasn't completely broken).
This happens to me all the time. Mostly with the Latina agencies that keep texting me from a different number each time. I ask the to Whatsapp me and that works fine. You can have regular WhatsApp for your regular number and have a Business WhatsApp (different app) for your burner number. Pretty easy to setup.
G.Thanks, never knew about Business WhatsApp.
SmallAsianCock
01-12-22, 00:28
How do you politely tell a woman you want to see her again but the first time you saw her, the pussy smelled very bad.
LikesGirls
01-12-22, 02:02
I think the secret is the hardware address of the device you are using to connect to SA. They have to know the type of device you're using so they can properly format the display.The hardware address isn't exposed outside of your network (or mobile network if you're using a phone and not on wifi). They format the screen based on interactions with your web browser.
NeedSiteAccess
01-12-22, 10:30
How do you politely tell a woman you want to see her again but the first time you saw her, the pussy smelled very bad.After your date, say that you feel a little sweaty and want to hop in the shower before continuing on. Ask her to join you in there.
But realistically though, if it was "very bad" she probably didn't shower before she came to see you, which shows lack of effort.
How do you politely tell a woman you want to see her again but the first time you saw her, the pussy smelled very bad.It's only a sign of a transmittable disease.
How do you politely tell a woman you want to see her again but the first time you saw her, the pussy smelled very bad.Does her first name start with the letter A?
How do you politely tell a woman you want to see her again but the first time you saw her, the pussy smelled very bad.I've had this issue numerous of times. You can request them to shower with you prior, but the smell doesn't go away. And to be honest the stench just always lingers. Best bet is to move on and find someone else. I don't get it. How can it get so bad? Do they not smell themselves??I've had a couple that I've hated to let go but that smell is just too much to ignore. Is that wrong? LOL.
DJprofessorK
01-15-22, 14:06
I've had this issue numerous of times. You can request them to shower with you prior, but the smell doesn't go away. And to be honest the stench just always lingers. Best bet is to move on and find someone else. I don't get it. How can it get so bad? Do they not smell themselves??I've had a couple that I've hated to let go but that smell is just too much to ignore. Is that wrong? LOL.If I'm being honest, I attribute this to America's subpar healthcare system. I've also run into this issue a couple of times, and it was clear that it was something that she needed to have addressed. But lest we forget, SB's can posture all they want, the vast majority of them are broke and attempting to make ends meet. Doctor visitors and regular checkups are one of the first things that get put to the backburner when one has to make hard decisions.
Ask a person without healthcare coverage how often they see the dentist.
How do you politely tell a woman you want to see her again but the first time you saw her, the pussy smelled very bad.Taking a bath isn't going to wash away the disease.
If I'm being honest, I attribute this to America's subpar healthcare system. I've also run into this issue a couple of times, and it was clear that it was something that she needed to have addressed. But lest we forget, SB's can posture all they want, the vast majority of them are broke and attempting to make ends meet. Doctor visitors and regular checkups are one of the first things that get put to the backburner when one has to make hard decisions.
Ask a person without healthcare coverage how often they see the dentist.I can't buy that end of the argument. Health care is assistance is available now for everyone who cannot afford it and with what these girls charge they should at the very least have good hygiene.
I can't buy that end of the argument. Health care is assistance is available now for everyone who cannot afford it and with what these girls charge they should at the very least have good hygiene.Don't over think this. Her pussy is stanky because it keeps getting filled up and she's dirty. Just move on.
Don't over think this. Her pussy is stanky because it keeps getting filled up and she's dirty. Just move on.Tell that to the other guy, I never seen her, nor would I.
DJprofessorK
01-17-22, 23:03
Tell that to the other guy, I never seen her, nor would I.Haha. You're entitled to your opinion.
GentleGiant78
01-19-22, 15:35
I've been chatting with Alexobunny and I've come to the conclusion that she's either a ton of fun or totally mental. Have any of you had the pleasure of meeting her in person or better yet taking her to the FC? I'd love to know what I'm walking into ahead of time LOL. Feel free to PM me if you'd rather keep it private.
https://members.seeking.com/member/6b0c20e9-0488-4471-9bd0-0438eacc9943
County health departments across NC, and probably across the entire country, offer free testing and treatment. I have randomly gone for testing a few times as an adult, especially when I'm getting into an exclusive relationship with a potential wife / gf. You can get results by phone within a day or two for stuff like syphilis and gonorrhea. However, they ask for an in person return if you choose to get tested for HIV.
It is 2021, how is it that people still don't know this.
County health departments across NC, and probably across the entire country, offer free testing and treatment. I have randomly gone for testing a few times as an adult, especially when I'm getting into an exclusive relationship with a potential wife / gf. You can get results by phone within a day or two for stuff like syphilis and gonorrhea. However, they ask for an in person return if you choose to get tested for HIV.
It is 2021, how is it that people still don't know this.And as I pointed out earlier no excuse for this.
LiquidCoil
01-20-22, 09:31
It is 2021, how is it that people still don't know this.It's 2022.
I've been chatting with Alexobunny and I've come to the conclusion that she's either a ton of fun or totally mental. Have any of you had the pleasure of meeting her in person or better yet taking her to the FC? I'd love to know what I'm walking into ahead of time LOL. Feel free to PM me if you'd rather keep it private.
https://members.seeking.com/member/6b0c20e9-0488-4471-9bd0-0438eacc9943I came to the same conclusion and took a pass. She is a lot of fun to chat with but my spidey senses kept going off. Good luck!
I've been chatting with Alexobunny and I've come to the conclusion that she's either a ton of fun or totally mental. Have any of you had the pleasure of meeting her in person or better yet taking her to the FC? I'd love to know what I'm walking into ahead of time LOL. Feel free to PM me if you'd rather keep it private.
https://members.seeking.com/member/6b0c20e9-0488-4471-9bd0-0438eacc9943I haven't been able to get her to engage, so your doing better than me. If pics are real she's worth the effort & at least a M&G.
Unpaid of course!
OutWestGuy
01-28-22, 09:18
Any details on this one. Sounds open to some fun but old reviews on here are sketchy. Feel free to PM me.
SmallAsianCock
01-28-22, 23:53
Any details on this one. Sounds open to some fun but old reviews on here are sketchy. Feel free to PM me.It helps to add a link or pic. Name sounds familiar. I may have met her about a year ago. I think we met during the first year of COVID. OI will not see her again.
SmallAsianCock
01-29-22, 00:07
HumbleEmpath Seems to only want to sell pics.
https://members.seeking.com/member/6981412e-11d2-4e4b-a708-e3d0baae3f3c
Any details on this one. Sounds open to some fun but old reviews on here are sketchy. Feel free to PM me.Saw her about a year ago. Said she was moving and is back now. Not sure I'd go again. But your mileage may vary.
DJprofessorK
02-03-22, 11:37
Is anyone else immediately turned off by 'Spoil Me' and 'My Wishlist is the best way to get a response' verbiage on some SB profiles?
It gives me the impression that she's less concerned about meeting the right person she can form and arrangement with, but instead she's just on the site to get stuff for little or nothing in return.
Maybe it's just me.
Is anyone else immediately turned off by 'Spoil Me' and 'My Wishlist is the best way to get a response' verbiage on some SB profiles?
It gives me the impression that she's less concerned about meeting the right person she can form and arrangement with, but instead she's just on the site to get stuff for little or nothing in return.
Maybe it's just me.You are 100% correct. Pisses me off that some of these chicks use their profiles as a free online store.
What pisses me off even more is if any idiots out there that actually send them gifts.
LiquidCoil
02-03-22, 12:57
Is anyone else immediately turned off by 'Spoil Me' and 'My Wishlist is the best way to get a response' verbiage on some SB profiles?
It gives me the impression that she's less concerned about meeting the right person she can form and arrangement with, but instead she's just on the site to get stuff for little or nothing in return.
Maybe it's just me.For sure, and as someone else pointed out, when they've spent hours making a 50+ item wishlist. One the other day had that plus demanding money for M&G -- I just immediately hid the profile.
County health departments across NC, and probably across the entire country, offer free testing and treatment. I have randomly gone for testing a few times as an adult, especially when I'm getting into an exclusive relationship with a potential wife / gf. You can get results by phone within a day or two for stuff like syphilis and gonorrhea. However, they ask for an in person return if you choose to get tested for HIV.
It is 2021, how is it that people still don't know this.So I get tested at least once a year at anylabtestnow and it cost me about $ 300+ for a full panel. I always include HIV just because you never know. How does this work at health departments?
What does it cost? I need discretion more that the savings.
Is anyone else immediately turned off by 'Spoil Me' and 'My Wishlist is the best way to get a response' verbiage on some SB profiles?
It gives me the impression that she's less concerned about meeting the right person she can form and arrangement with, but instead she's just on the site to get stuff for little or nothing in return.
Maybe it's just me.Nope, it's not just you. Huge turn off and a hard pass when I see that. These SB sites just give an already entitled chick an avenue to take it to the next level. I would hope that guys aren't just sending them stuff just for existing but I know better.
Meh, I guess I'm getting crochety but I expect to be charmed out of my resources just a little bit!.
You are 100% correct. Pisses me off that some of these chicks use their profiles as a free online store.
What pisses me off even more is if any idiots out there that actually send them gifts.Maybe the best thing to do is write the attorney generals office and say you thought you were on a dating site but girls were propositioning for money. I know it sounds evil but I hate that site and everyone on it.
She is a thief! Avoid her! She has been on SA under different profile names. She is bad news, will attempt to extort.
Is anyone else immediately turned off by 'Spoil Me' and 'My Wishlist is the best way to get a response' verbiage on some SB profiles?
It gives me the impression that she's less concerned about meeting the right person she can form and arrangement with, but instead she's just on the site to get stuff for little or nothing in return.
Maybe it's just me.Yes, it turns me off. For the reasons you mentioned, I use these statements as a way to screen them out. After all, they are as much a candidate for an arrangement as you are. I like it when they eliminate themselves from my consideration before I waste any time on them. If all I'm looking for is a really nice piece of ass, I'll just spend money for a higher tier well reviewed provider. There are plenty of them. If you are looking for something more, then that is probably a different story and these candidates have probably told you as much as you need to know.
StormyTuesday
02-05-22, 15:05
So I get tested at least once a year at anylabtestnow and it cost me about $ 300+ for a full panel. I always include HIV just because you never know. How does this work at health departments?
What does it cost? I need discretion more that the savings.I have been getting the full panel STI testing free since 2016 at my local county health dept, usually once or twice a year. The one time I got chlamydia they fixed me up for free as well. Hardly anyone is ever in there when I am there. In this way I can offer to show the SB my clean bill of health (I white out my name) along with my 2015 vasectomy letter.
StormyTuesday
02-05-22, 15:59
She sent her number on my very first message to her. But now she's not texting me.Maybe I am old school but I have taken over 65 SBs to the FC since 2015, which included a 2 year exclusive and a 20 month covid break. I RARELY commit to a "number". I tell her that it depends on how much fun we have. Yeah, some disappear when I don't play the number game. IMHO that is why SA has gotten crappy. Too many escort johns coming in and treating these girls like escorts. I was an escort john back in 2014 so I know that game as well, negotiate up front and hand it over when you walk through the motel room door. Granted, it helps to do the meet and greet first and it helps to have an honest face and voice. I appreciate the input from the Raleigh brothers on this topic but a bit of history. The Raleigh SA site was a satellite offspring of the east coast granddaddy site, the Richmond SA forum. Think I'm kidding? Their forum has over 20,000 posts, Raleigh has 2000 posts. Hollywood Guy is long gone but I see that Far Far Away is still posting very valuable tips on the SB game up there in Richmond. Might help to give the lingerie ads a rest and peruse the Richmond posts every so often. Just my two cents.
StormyTuesday
02-05-22, 16:09
Welcome back. You should work on getting the 33% discount. Set up a dummy account with a different email address. Never pay on this dummy account, Whenever discounts are offered, you will receive the 33% discount in your email. Now login to you regular SA account. Then go back to your dummy SA email account that you're getting the 33% discount. Click on the link in the email. This will bring up 33% discount in your regular SA account. Bingo!
I get 66% discount from my dummy WYP account.Appreciate the advice, though honestly I have kept three accounts since 2015, one for premium and two back-ups (non-premium) that I can rotate over to. Comes in handy when I want to circle back around to a SB who didn't vibe well with me on the initial messaging. I use a fairly different profile approach on my "dummy" non-premium accounts to see if I get more or even different favorites coming in. Also, since 2017 I have had access to a SB's account, so I can see what competition is out there, so to speak, both in quantity and quality.
DJprofessorK
02-06-22, 00:57
Hollywood Guy is long gone but I see that Far Far Away is still posting very valuable tips on the SB game up there in Richmond. Might help to give the lingerie ads a rest and peruse the Richmond posts every so often. Just my two cents.If we're thinking of the same 'Hollywood Guy' he hit me up with some VERY solid intel while I was out in Vegas on business last year. Also added that if I was ever in the Los Angeles area, he had additional information to share. Really good dude.
StormyTuesday
02-08-22, 11:33
Seems like more and more SBs are asking for upfront cash transfers (CashApp, Venmo, etc) either prior to meeting up, or during the m & g, or before the fun in the FC. I have never given $ (30,50, 100, etc) up front, and don't intend to. But I am curious. Has anyone done a mobile cash transfer prior to a real live sugar date in the FC? If so, did you also go to the FC the same day as the cash transfer?.
At the risk of sounding like an idiot, what is a FC that you keep referring to?
Seems like more and more SBs are asking for upfront cash transfers (CashApp, Venmo, etc) either prior to meeting up, or during the m & g, or before the fun in the FC. I have never given $ (30,50, 100, etc) up front, and don't intend to. But I am curious. Has anyone done a mobile cash transfer prior to a real live sugar date in the FC? If so, did you also go to the FC the same day as the cash transfer?.
Have any of you guys gotten anywhere with this one? Says she can host in Spring Hope. Sent a wall text of her rules and requirements including needing a selfie and a dick pic (WTF?) and she will send more pics of herself back. I called her out because there is no way in hell I'm sending that out and we actually had a good back and forth conversation. Enough so that I considered actually pursuing something with her. I mean, whoever I'm texting sounds cool. Definitely not a bot. Then she sent the list and asked for a dick pic again! Maybe it is her copy paste reply over text.
https://members.seeking.com/member/7444026b-999e-4b33-8be8-2bc9c3e37e38
DJprofessorK
02-09-22, 10:36
Have any of you guys gotten anywhere with this one? Says she can host in Spring Hope. Sent a wall text of her rules and requirements including needing a selfie and a dick pic (WTF?) and she will send more pics of herself back. I called her out because there is no way in hell I'm sending that out and we actually had a good back and forth conversation. Enough so that I considered actually pursuing something with her. I mean, whoever I'm texting sounds cool. Definitely not a bot. Then she sent the list and asked for a dick pic again! Maybe it is her copy paste reply over text.
https://members.seeking.com/member/7444026b-999e-4b33-8be8-2bc9c3e37e38What exactly is the justification for the dick pic? I've never in my life met a woman who enjoyed receiving dick pics. Not a single one.
That sounds like something that could potentially be used to blackmail someone in the future.
LiquidCoil
02-09-22, 10:47
What exactly is the justification for the dick pic? I've never in my life met a woman who enjoyed receiving dick pics. Not a single one.
That sounds like something that could potentially be used to blackmail someone in the future.Not to mention, why would you ever send your actual dick pic?.
What exactly is the justification for the dick pic? I've never in my life met a woman who enjoyed receiving dick pics. Not a single one.
That sounds like something that could potentially be used to blackmail someone in the future.She says to judge your size, if you are serious about meeting and somehow hygiene. She did confirm her message is standard copy paste because I called it out again.
Blackmail definitely occurred to me but some of these girls want to play some weird games. I suspect this one is either an excellent scammer or the craziest fuck ever.
Seems like more and more SBs are asking for upfront cash transfers (CashApp, Venmo, etc) either prior to meeting up, or during the m & g, or before the fun in the FC. I have never given $ (30,50, 100, etc) up front, and don't intend to. But I am curious. Has anyone done a mobile cash transfer prior to a real live sugar date in the FC? If so, did you also go to the FC the same day as the cash transfer?.I still try to do cash. Only a few times have a used 3rd party app. I rather not have digital trail or the transaction show up in my CashApp log or bank statement. But I never ever send money before meeting, that is usually a scam. Also I never transfer or give any $$$ to the end of our meeting. If a chick wants up front money sent through a third party app I just move on.
SmallAsianCock
02-09-22, 22:16
I still try to do cash. Only a few times have a used 3rd party app. I rather not have digital trail or the transaction show up in my CashApp log or bank statement. But I never ever send money before meeting, that is usually a scam. Also I never transfer or give any $$$ to the end of our meeting. If a chick wants up front money sent through a third party app I just move on.I uSed to be that way. Never send cash before meeting. But lately, I have changed that. I would send 25-50 for some pics. What has that done for me? It has helped me weed out a few that I would have met for 350-400. And I would be totally disappointed. When they send naked pics, I see things that I would normally not see with their clothes on.
SmallAsianCock
02-09-22, 22:21
Appreciate the advice, though honestly I have kept three accounts since 2015, one for premium and two back-ups (non-premium) that I can rotate over to. Comes in handy when I want to circle back around to a SB who didn't vibe well with me on the initial messaging. I use a fairly different profile approach on my "dummy" non-premium accounts to see if I get more or even different favorites coming in. Also, since 2017 I have had access to a SB's account, so I can see what competition is out there, so to speak, both in quantity and quality.I think SA has caught on to the earlier described way I used in getting a higher discount. Now it does not work. It flags it as "I valid Promo Code ".
StormyTuesday
02-10-22, 13:36
At the risk of sounding like an idiot, what is a FC that you keep referring to?Haha. Fair enough. About 4 years ago the east coast USA SG Richmond forum (the east coast patriarch of the SA / SB / SD world) put a glossary out of the abbreviations. Fuck Closet. (hotel room, house date, car date, etc).
StormyTuesday
02-10-22, 14:43
As I mentioned in a previous post, I don't do $ up front and I don't do cash transfers. Last week I was texting on Kik with "Rudy" who said she could host at her house in Cary. She wanted to meet the same day, but I was unable to. She then texted me for a $30 on cash app for dinner that day. First red flag. I told her I don't do $ up front or cash apps. Then two days later we arrange to meet at her house, she gives me her address and I drive over there. She starts in again on the cash app up front this time for $100. I again told her no cash app and no cash up front. I told her we could do a car date for $.2 and she said ok. I told her it would have to be cash and I sent her a pic of the two Grants and one Jackson on my car seat. Oddly she wanted nothing to do with actual cash. I get near her house and she is still playing games. I turn around and drive the twenty minutes back home. The next morning she starts in again, saying she would be okay with an apple gift card, but not cash. She sends me a very hot pic but is still playing games. Personally I am not convinced the address is actually the house she lives in. She did have a rockin bod (if that was really her LOL). I walked away but feel free to play her games if you want to.
https://members.seeking.com/member/52ca86e4-0c36-4df5-98f4-bc76fab1bae6
The other one I did take to the FC yesterday for a hotel date. I was her first SD back in Oct. 2018, she had just graduated college and got on SA. We did 3 sugar dates, the first one was covered the next two were bb. $$ each time. Had a good time though she was a quirky artist type. She then moved to Asheville and distance got in the way.
When I got back on SA two months ago after a 20 month covid break I saw that she was still doing the SA thing. I reached out to her a couple of weeks ago and turns out she was spending half her time in a town ten minutes from me. We set up a hotel date yesterday but it was a bit complicated. Her DL had been revoked and she was staying with very "nosy" people unaware of her SB thing. She said her "her value had gone up. She was getting 400 currently but would accept 300 from me" I negotiated to 260. She gave me the address but I decided to uber her to a location two miles away. She arrives, gets in my car and we drive to the hotel. Her quirky nature by her own admission had evolved into some mental health issues. But I figured the good times we had three years ago were enough for me to continue. Wrong. Not a good time this time. She just laid there like a zombie (she is a major pharma queen). My mistake though was not re-confirming the BB with my hard copy reports (vasectomy and STI county health reports). Long story short. Leave this one alone. She is a mess.
https://members.seeking.com/member/76f5b997-cd29-4ffb-9e0c-1a2e069d9153
Not to mention, why would you ever send your actual dick pic?.Very true. However, I'm probably still not going to ever have even a fake one on my phone at the ready.
Anyway, I had to let this one go. Wanted 200 just for me to meet her for lunch. She would meet only at one bar which is in the same block as the Spring Hope PD. Nowhere else. Too many red flags for me. She talks a damn good game too if you chat her up.
Spoke to her for a few months last year. Got freaked out about the D pic request as well but ended up giving in and sending it. WE were suppose to be a few times but my spider senses kept me away for some reason. I can verify pics are accurate. We skyped once. Her number, skype and snapchat changed or she blocked so I'm surprised to see her back on. She host in Spring hope and Knightdale of all places which seemed very odd to me.
Have any of you guys gotten anywhere with this one? Says she can host in Spring Hope. Sent a wall text of her rules and requirements including needing a selfie and a dick pic (WTF?) and she will send more pics of herself back. I called her out because there is no way in hell I'm sending that out and we actually had a good back and forth conversation. Enough so that I considered actually pursuing something with her. I mean, whoever I'm texting sounds cool. Definitely not a bot. Then she sent the list and asked for a dick pic again! Maybe it is her copy paste reply over text.
https://members.seeking.com/member/7444026b-999e-4b33-8be8-2bc9c3e37e38
I uSed to be that way. Never send cash before meeting. But lately, I have changed that. I would send 25-50 for some pics. What has that done for me? It has helped me weed out a few that I would have met for 350-400. And I would be totally disappointed. When they send naked pics, I see things that I would normally not see with their clothes on.That you think it's actually their pictures they send to you.
MythMan2010
02-13-22, 08:47
We all know it's been dry for a long time out there. Just throwing this out there, once you get past the girls with the bullshit cash app BS, inflation and no jobs is starting to wear down these chicks. That's the trend at least, let's hope it lasts.
German5050
02-14-22, 11:12
Sounds like the sugar dating scene has been full of scammers in RDU lately. I'll update after my week on my luck.
German5050
02-14-22, 13:57
Sounds like the sugar dating scene has been full of scammers in RDU lately. I'll update after my week on my luck.This one wants allowance AND ppm. Lols.
https://members.seeking.com/member/d28b44b9-fed8-4b3e-a5fe-8f073d562015
This one wants allowance AND ppm. Lols.
https://members.seeking.com/member/d28b44b9-fed8-4b3e-a5fe-8f073d562015There is a sucker waiting in the future.
LiquidCoil
02-16-22, 16:54
This one wants allowance AND ppm. Lols.
https://members.seeking.com/member/d28b44b9-fed8-4b3e-a5fe-8f073d562015So far nearly every girl the subject has come up with suggests an allowance. I can barely imagine a situation in which I would agree to one instead of PPM unless it was an 8/9 out of 10 giving me some kind of bulk discount. But instead the requested allowance is always an estimated few meetings per month that works out to a high PPM anyway.
Member #6600
02-17-22, 18:15
So far nearly every girl the subject has come up with suggests an allowance. I can barely imagine a situation in which I would agree to one instead of PPM unless it was an 8/9 out of 10 giving me some kind of bulk discount. But instead the requested allowance is always an estimated few meetings per month that works out to a high PPM anyway.That's because you're thinking in terms of sex. Sugar relationships can involve real emotions and caring, actual love. When that's the case an allowance is better. You can meet without thinking, "Is this worth a PPM" or "Is she only meeting twice this week for the PPM". It's because she likes you. She'd get the same allowance meeting you 1/4 as often. Also, you actually care for her and know the money makes her life better.
The guys on this forum are all about paying as little as possible. If you're an actual SD, you have money and don't play hardball with these women.
LiquidCoil
02-17-22, 22:12
That's because you're thinking in terms of sex. Sugar relationships can involve real emotions and caring, actual love. When that's the case an allowance is better. You can meet without thinking, "Is this worth a PPM" or "Is she only meeting twice this week for the PPM". It's because she likes you. She'd get the same allowance meeting you 1/4 as often. Also, you actually care for her and know the money makes her life better.
The guys on this forum are all about paying as little as possible. If you're an actual SD, you have money and don't play hardball with these women.Hmm, that might be a fair point, and I admit I do not have much experience yet in this arena.
I'm certainly not scouring for the cheapest possible provider like some here do, but neither am I in a class where dropping thousands a month would mean nothing. From what I read, that sounds like a very small percentage of SDs, so I don't know what you mean by an "actual" SD beyond making a no-true-Scotsman kind of point. I'd also wonder if you're risking some naivete approaching an SB relationship with true love in mind.
DJprofessorK
02-17-22, 23:34
The guys on this forum are all about paying as little as possible. If you're an actual SD, you have money and don't play hardball with these women.My experience is anecdotal, but three different SB's told me that actual wealthy men were not only the stingiest, but also treated them like complete and utter garbage.
One went into specifics, mentioning a guy who owned a chain of very successful car dealerships, would expect her to show up within 15 minutes of whenever he called. Would gift her used items. And demanded to see her so often that each visit averaged to about 150 bucks. She stopped seeing him, not because the money was bad, but because he was so entitled and so disrespectful that she felt it wasn't worth the trouble.
Another SB said that a man flew her out for the weekend, degraded her the entire time, and referred to her as if she were an animal.
All money is not good money. And if you think men with money don't play hardball, I think you're mistaken.
I think a large issue is that SA is loaded with working girls who think they can demand more money by calling themselves sugar babies. But that's just my take.
LiquidCoil
02-18-22, 09:00
My experience is anecdotal, but three different SB's told me that actual wealthy men were not only the stingiest, but also treated them like complete and utter garbage.Ha, reminds me of the local boy from Wilmington talking about a homeless guy: "If he can say 'You have any spare change? He can say 'Welcome to McDonald's, can I help you please? " - Michael Jordan.
It's because she likes you. She'd get the same allowance meeting you 1/4 as often. I meant to add -- in the background both parties are aware that if she does that consistently, the relationship will likely end soon and she would get zero allowance, much less 1/4th.
Haven't met with her but discussed a possible arrangement. She says she's tired of cheap guys on SA, her words not mine, offering 350. Didn't even want to ask how much she wanted and convo didn't go much further than that. She sounded like a ***** to deal with, have since been blocked.
Anyone see Lilith? https://members.seeking.com/member/624a7051-404e-4922-a245-592fd96a84dd.
DJprofessorK
02-21-22, 16:13
Haven't met with her but discussed a possible arrangement. She says she's tired of cheap guys on SA, her words not mine, offering 350. Didn't even want to ask how much she wanted and convo didn't go much further than that. She sounded like a ***** to deal with, have since been blocked.Not to be a jerk, but when she's one of the oldest women on the site AND she has 3 children that would probably limit her availability, what sort of other offers is she fielding?
In the triangle, there's a COPIOUS amount of women in their early to mid 20's, who would gladly accept 350. I think a lot of people, men and women, would do much better in the bowl if they were actually aware of their competition.
PghGuy2005
02-21-22, 18:00
We all know it's been dry for a long time out there. Just throwing this out there, once you get past the girls with the bullshit cash app BS, inflation and no jobs is starting to wear down these chicks. That's the trend at least, let's hope it lasts.It has been dry so far but may change for the better for us? Well with the tight labor market and minimum wage of $15/ hr that may not happen any time soon.
You're exactly correct in your assessment. I just didn't like her disparaging tone towards guys who would be willing to spend that much on her. The SB market in Raleigh is in dire need of a correction. The highest tier girls in this area (ie hot college girls, mid-20's, 9's or 10's) only should be making that much ppm.
Not to be a jerk, but when she's one of the oldest women on the site AND she has 3 children that would probably limit her availability, what sort of other offers is she fielding?
In the triangle, there's a COPIOUS amount of women in their early to mid 20's, who would gladly accept 350. I think a lot of people, men and women, would do much better in the bowl if they were actually aware of their competition.
While I'm on, might as well contribute to the board instead of just complaining. Did meet up with this girl, she's real, pics are real, she can host and is a fun time.
https://members.seeking.com/member/1df12625-f220-4917-8415-2129f6e4a415
Hullaballo
02-22-22, 01:37
While I'm on, might as well contribute to the board instead of just complaining. Did meet up with this girl, she's real, pics are real, she can host and is a fun time.
https://members.seeking.com/member/1df12625-f220-4917-8415-2129f6e4a415How much for how long?
Toy Soldier
02-22-22, 12:46
I know it has been discussed here before, but things have changed over time. So, can someone tell me how to sign up on Seeking totally discreetly, please?
I recall some discussion about purchasing pre-paid Visa cards, but also recall that they may not work.
What do you do about loading photos of yourself? Etc, etc.
Thanks in advance.
Anyone ever meet this one!
https://members.seeking.com/member/bc472b88-8e83-463a-97a8-3c8973ec07cc
SmallAsianCock
02-25-22, 00:08
Anyone ever meet this one!
https://members.seeking.com/member/bc472b88-8e83-463a-97a8-3c8973ec07ccI have not met her but we engaged in texting for a couple of days and it did not end well. She wanted to sell content. She sent a 2 second video (literally2 seconds) of her ass and wanted me to send $$. I declined.
Anyone ever meet this one!
https://members.seeking.com/member/bc472b88-8e83-463a-97a8-3c8973ec07ccI was texting with her too. We seemed to come to an agreement to get together but when it was time to follow up and agree on a time I stopped getting a response.
I believe JNG-S on 2/6/22 at the grey bar hotel site is her so I'm not to worried she ghosted me. I would pick a neutral location to try again if she gets back to me.
I know it has been discussed here before, but things have changed over time. So, can someone tell me how to sign up on Seeking totally discreetly, please?
I recall some discussion about purchasing pre-paid Visa cards, but also recall that they may not work.
What do you do about loading photos of yourself? Etc, etc.
Thanks in advance.Check out my last few posts here on how to use prepaid / gift credit cards. Still accurate as of 2 days ago when I renewed. NOTE: once you start typing in the first few CC numbers, you will get a warning "Prepaid cards may not work. " just ignore it. If you follow the other steps in my post it seems to work fine.
Anyone seen her before? PM me if you'd prefer. Thanks!
https://members.seeking.com/member/7b4aea0c-abac-4fcb-8de2-8ec9cf34bd7f
I met her for lunch Pay to meet which I never did before but I got down to a decent rate and it was not prepaid so I could bail if she was not real. Her pics are real. I had the opportunity to leave with her and go somewhere but my spider sense was going off. She invited me back to her place then ghosted me after she left and came up with the usually excuse line. She followed up with the emergency need money texts where I called her out and it ended there. She is super hot and good personality. She would of made a great SB and actually the only one I have ever met that I would consider putting on a real allowance. She did have a driver that looked like a dude but she claimed it was her dike sister.
I was texting with her too. We seemed to come to an agreement to get together but when it was time to follow up and agree on a time I stopped getting a response.
I believe JNG-S on 2/6/22 at the grey bar hotel site is her so I'm not to worried she ghosted me. I would pick a neutral location to try again if she gets back to me.
She is real cool older chick but just did not connect in during the deed. PPM type not shaved its been a while for that.
https://members.seeking.com/member/ce37ea4e-be80-4fa0-9c34-725f79d758f3
Any one ready to go and a true sub. Did not get a chance to take it to the next level been too buy someone take the plunge and report back.
https://members.seeking.com/member/5ce7a598-56b9-4842-9b57-6911eecfaab7
Another PPM good to go but does not travel and too far for me to make that trip. Someone take one for the team and report back.
https://members.seeking.com/member/aafc80b5-8a3f-4d3e-9a82-84c29f3b5fa4
SandPiper540
03-07-22, 10:51
Has anyone made contact with this one. She sure sounds legit, I'm hoping to visit her this weekend. https://members.seeking.com/member/aee76fe2-00fd-4f5b-8e1e-ab583a0a78c4.
ElectricHug
03-08-22, 12:34
I just got banned from SA for "soliciting" (conveniently a few days after they charged me for 3-month renewal). I do not discuss compensation even in texts, much less the site itself. I wrote their contact us page to ask what happened and they responded with a boilerplate email without any details, just that they have "obtained and verified information" and that they won't respond any further.
Anyone deal with this successfully? I saw a previous post that the admin told them to read the TOS and they got their account reinstated, but I was not given any option like that. I have half a mind to refuse charges on the recent renewal, but not sure if I want to burn that bridge.
Maxamillion8
03-08-22, 14:26
She has good experience in this hobby. She left for foreign studies after we met. Met her in public without any expectations from either side in Chapel hill area. Her asks is high 4 Benjamin per meet to start with. No hosting. Limited action. She is particular in what she will and what she will not do behind closed doors. That all restrictions came after the doors were closed. LOL. With that limitations, I can't spend that kinda money. I'd pass.
Anyone seen her before? PM me if you'd prefer. Thanks!
https://members.seeking.com/member/7b4aea0c-abac-4fcb-8de2-8ec9cf34bd7f
SmallAsianCock
03-08-22, 20:30
I just got banned from SA for "soliciting" (conveniently a few days after they charged me for 3-month renewal). I do not discuss compensation even in texts, much less the site itself. I wrote their contact us page to ask what happened and they responded with a boilerplate email without any details, just that they have "obtained and verified information" and that they won't respond any further.
Anyone deal with this successfully? I saw a previous post that the admin told them to read the TOS and they got their account reinstated, but I was not given any option like that. I have half a mind to refuse charges on the recent renewal, but not sure if I want to burn that bridge.Sorry about that mate. You can always try SB. The responses are not as great as SA. But at least they are not as strict.
DJprofessorK
03-08-22, 20:31
I just got banned from SA for "soliciting" (conveniently a few days after they charged me for 3-month renewal). I do not discuss compensation even in texts, much less the site itself. I wrote their contact us page to ask what happened and they responded with a boilerplate email without any details, just that they have "obtained and verified information" and that they won't respond any further.
Anyone deal with this successfully? I saw a previous post that the admin told them to read the TOS and they got their account reinstated, but I was not given any option like that. I have half a mind to refuse charges on the recent renewal, but not sure if I want to burn that bridge.Some years ago, I was banned for mentioning in a message that I liked to take photos during my dates if the girl was into it. Now, I don't know if she reported me or if SA just routinely scans for keywords, but I was banned and told that I was attempting to start an adult entertainment company. Which is absolutely bonkers. They refused to lift the ban, and I just left it alone. About 3 months after that, I randomly tried logging back in. Same email address, same username, same password, nothing changed. And it let me back in.
I have no clue what I did. Maybe the ban is only temporary or timed dependent upon the offense. Real or imaginary.
Some years ago, I was banned for mentioning in a message that I liked to take photos during my dates if the girl was into it. Now, I don't know if she reported me or if SA just routinely scans for keywords, but I was banned and told that I was attempting to start an adult entertainment company. Which is absolutely bonkers. They refused to lift the ban, and I just left it alone. About 3 months after that, I randomly tried logging back in. Same email address, same username, same password, nothing changed. And it let me back in.
I have no clue what I did. Maybe the ban is only temporary or timed dependent upon the offense. Real or imaginary.I had the same thing happen years ago. I never discuss money on the site but was told I violated the TOS. Wasn't really looking to meet anyone at the time anyway so let the premium expire. Signed up again a few months later with same account and not problems.
Some years ago, I was banned for mentioning in a message that I liked to take photos during my dates if the girl was into it. Now, I don't know if she reported me or if SA just routinely scans for keywords, but I was banned and told that I was attempting to start an adult entertainment company. Which is absolutely bonkers. They refused to lift the ban, and I just left it alone. About 3 months after that, I randomly tried logging back in. Same email address, same username, same password, nothing changed. And it let me back in.
I have no clue what I did. Maybe the ban is only temporary or timed dependent upon the offense. Real or imaginary.I don't know why you guys put up with this, by all means contact your credit card company and get it refunded.
There is absolutely nothing on that website that doesn't spell fraud.
ElectricHug
03-09-22, 17:15
I had the same thing happen years ago. I never discuss money on the site but was told I violated the TOS. Wasn't really looking to meet anyone at the time anyway so let the premium expire. Signed up again a few months later with same account and not problems.Have dates with a couple of strong POTs, maybe that will tide me over until then, ha.
Any comments on her.
https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/1cabaa38-fe7a-4649-8e5a-9e8b4fc11ad8
DJprofessorK
03-09-22, 20:07
This is a link that leads to your inbox, not a profile.
Any comments on her.
https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/1cabaa38-fe7a-4649-8e5a-9e8b4fc11ad8
SmallAsianCock
03-09-22, 21:07
Any comments on her.
https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/1cabaa38-fe7a-4649-8e5a-9e8b4fc11ad8There's been recent comment on her. I think I commented as well. Do a search.
DionysusVice
03-11-22, 15:58
*To clarify, I get fully what the site is about (SA). I get the expectations, rules, and unsaid limitations.
With that out of the way. I have met quite a few girls / ladies off of the site. Being moderately successful, along with being in good shape while in my mid 30's, at least ok looking, and being overall adequate at personability and fun fun. I must say I am 9 out of 10 times disappointed in the holistic quality of SBs. They tend to fall into 3 categories and the 4th being titled "Unicorn".
I am going to list my experiences and simply pose the question to everyone:
Is there truly enough upside to continue this venture? And, has anyone else experienced the same experiences and outcomes?
1. Angular Queen.
On so many of the meetings I have had, many of the girls had significantly more weight than expected, or did not match their pictural embodiment.
I am a visual man, as I am sure many of you are. But, this comes up so often, I am starting to wonder the amount of filtration and perfect angles are being used. Yes, I try to look my best in my pictures. Yes, I chose the angles that cast me in the right light. But, I also make sure what is in the pictures is an accurate representation of myself. Yet, while casting fog and trying to do a poorly executed magic trick these ladies expect to be benefited as much as those within the top tier. I feel with both misrepresentation and most likely knowing their place, they should know top beneficial arrangements should be kept in perspective.
2. Hollow Beauty.
When I am lucky enough to be graced with the presence of the same beauty digitally was presented to me.
I have been very pleased to meet with a girl that represented herself accurately, even displays grace. If even for a moment. But, once sitting down it is fully business. This (at least for me) is very off putting. As someone that daily dances within the business world and contractual deals. The less business you discuss, the more lucrative the contract. With that mentioned, I get you are attractive. I get you are used to holding all the cards. But, please learn to play poker, or be willing to learn. Maybe I am old fashioned, but aren't these arrangements meant to be beneficial in more than just money. But, even within the cylinder of economics, stock goes up and down. And, once over lunch or dinner conversation ensues, I find myself falling asleep. I think for many men, these are the headless horsemen from Sleepy Hollow, and should be held to standards, regardless of looks.
3. Almost Cinderella.
OK, so she has looks, she has the gift of gab, and she knows how to dance with you in the desired dealings.
But, when it comes times to deliver or naturally move to the agreed / mutually eluded to next steps. All of a sudden a loop hole or a thing magically appears. Though this thing was unforeseen, I am still held to the foreseen expectation. If any pushback is to arise, a pout along with an excuse manifests. Now, the alternative to this is, the first or even a few meetings went well. Then, like a bear trap is activated, more needs are wanted, expectations change, or simply. Demands are expected to be happily acquiesced. Hey! I got married, if this is what I wanted, I would not turn to this location or "hobby."
4. The Unicorn.
She is what I am attracted to. She is what I expect. There is nothing more, nothing less, no one's life is altered or stressed for the worse.
Thanks if read the whole thing!
Biscuits1234
03-11-22, 19:16
*To clarify, I get fully what the site is about (SA). I get the expectations, rules, and unsaid limitations.
With that out of the way. I have met quite a few girls / ladies off of the site. Being moderately successful, along with being in good shape while in my mid 30's, at least ok looking, and being overall adequate at personability and fun fun. I must say I am 9 out of 10 times disappointed in the holistic quality of SBs. They tend to fall into 3 categories and the 4th being titled "Unicorn".Couldn't have said it better myself. A striking percentage of women on SA fall into the first two categories.
Unfortunately, there are also a significant amount of men out there who still pay their ludicrous prices for arrangements. I've had moments where I offered less to settle for less (desperation in a competitive market), only to be promptly "bought-out" by some other high roller with low standards whom has no respect for his own money. I've had unkempt land whales with year (s) old accounts message me trying to get half a grand+ for a meet and greet; which means some fool out there is paying those prices! Yuck.
Then there's the "cinderellas" as you describe. Beautiful, excellent social skills, prompt with communication, no bullshit. Until she gets in the door. Suddenly it becomes clear that a worn out couch cushion would have rewarded you with a better time. The one unicorn arrangement I managed to win over lasted about 7 months. She unfortunately moved away to take care of aging family.
I've already given up on STG and other sites. SA is (and has been) on the downward spiral for a while now. It's only a matter of time before I abandon that ship too.
SmallAsianCock
03-12-22, 01:32
Any info on this lady.
https://members.seeking.com/member/d4954685-2e79-43fd-b5da-f5f2d50db8da
Couldn't have said it better myself. A striking percentage of women on SA fall into the first two categories.
Unfortunately, there are also a significant amount of men out there who still pay their ludicrous prices for arrangements. I've had moments where I offered less to settle for less (desperation in a competitive market), only to be promptly "bought-out" by some other high roller with low standards whom has no respect for his own money. I've had unkempt land whales with year (s) old accounts message me trying to get half a grand+ for a meet and greet; which means some fool out there is paying those prices! Yuck.
Then there's the "cinderellas" as you describe. Beautiful, excellent social skills, prompt with communication, no bullshit. Until she gets in the door. Suddenly it becomes clear that a worn out couch cushion would have rewarded you with a better time. The one unicorn arrangement I managed to win over lasted about 7 months. She unfortunately moved away to take care of aging family.
I've already given up on STG and other sites. SA is (and has been) on the downward spiral for a while now. It's only a matter of time before I abandon that ship too.How guys are paying whatever they charge now to spend endless hours going through fakers and scammers and the entitled ones with the statement" I know my worth" the site is so far in the drain now that only the unaware or desperate are even bothering with it and to top it off after they get their subscription money from you the harassment begins for really no reason. To make matters worse almost all the legitimate hookers I met through agencies in the past had superior hygiene to almost anyone I met on there and I mean at the asking price of $500 and up how disappointing does it get when they show up un showered and in a rush?
A few back and forth messages and went for the digits and got radio silence.
Any info on this lady.
https://members.seeking.com/member/d4954685-2e79-43fd-b5da-f5f2d50db8da
SmallAsianCock
03-14-22, 17:29
A few back and forth messages and went for the digits and got radio silence.I also exchanged messages with her a few times on SA. She expressed interest but then went silent.
SmallAsianCock
03-14-22, 17:32
We texted for some time. She wanted 300 for a dinner date and 500 for the deed. I passed.
https://members.seeking.com/member/34df9c62-01ad-4ee8-a387-0324a99905d5
Has anyone made contact with this one. She sure sounds legit, I'm hoping to visit her this weekend. https://members.seeking.com/member/aee76fe2-00fd-4f5b-8e1e-ab583a0a78c4.She's legit.
Did you ever meet her?
DionysusVice
03-17-22, 10:51
If anyone wants to use it for 25% off. Debating if I want to further frustrations.
Promo=SP2022 V25.
Aafakljgadkg
03-17-22, 11:29
https://members.seeking.com/member/175ab7d5-53f5-4287-97da-11fc0a60323f
Else, it worth the drive.
https://members.seeking.com/member/175ab7d5-53f5-4287-97da-11fc0a60323f
Else, it worth the drive.Definite scam. The pics are a model on IG. Olivia something. We are not lucky enough to have that locally.
Maxamillion8
03-17-22, 13:01
https://members.seeking.com/member/175ab7d5-53f5-4287-97da-11fc0a60323f
Else, it worth the drive.Definitely Fake. Google the pictures and you will also be able to confirm the same.
DionysusVice
03-20-22, 23:53
Tldrl if too busy, read the last paragraph.
I had a date, the went well by most metrics. The expected reimbursement was paid (more than 24 hours later); vigorously testing the hardwood floor of my office. Because, of the design of it, a comfortable sleeping suite, is transformed within. So, multiple smiles were had, at least by one truly. Though, within hours of good-byes and reimbursement, with the hollow "thank you's" I am told that -.
More is needed for another date. Informed my personality and magnetism were the only reasons she "overlooked" taking less (that she never specified) to enjoy the moment with me. Going forward, it would be more.
This is Bullshit.
I will not beat around the Bush with you guys. I have a beautiful wife (maybe the hate for me working so much at my company is motivation.) . Luckily, she (for the most part) is up for the naughty adventures. - A mix of issues and attitude make it less intimate than most would want. I bring this up to ask.
If there is a woman at home that holds her beauty in mind or body. Why are we allowing such blackmail?
In this forum, we are not the lower level predictable vases. (We are men, we are predictable.).
Last paragraph:
Why is this allowed?
As a singular body of consciousness (I am not touching the sex issue) . This forum section has many men I am sure we could become friends in real life. Hell, we might be able to advance each other as well. Why allow women that do not understand how you reached your status, your situation rule your situation with equal weight?
In desperate moments why do you cave?
If you guys do not want this public, please just DM me. I want to know.
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