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ASandler007
11-02-17, 18:09
How do you pay for it without using cc? I do not want my name with sa or anyone stored.
GreatGatsby
11-02-17, 20:23
Hello friends,
Can someone tell me how this site works?
If I purchase a subscription, I can send messages to girls and do other things, I understand this part. What I want to know is if the girls can respond to me even without having a subscription. Say, there's a lady that I really like, and I send her a message. If she doesn't have subscription, can she not message me back? Or, since they're the receiving end, they don't need to purchase the subscription? If former applies, I am willing to try for a month to see how successful I can be.
Thanks in advance, and stay safe.
GG.
Berserker06
11-02-17, 22:51
Hello friends,
Can someone tell me how this site works?
If I purchase a subscription, I can send messages to girls and do other things, I understand this part. What I want to know is if the girls can respond to me even without having a subscription. Say, there's a lady that I really like, and I send her a message. If she doesn't have subscription, can she not message me back? Or, since they're the receiving end, they don't need to purchase the subscription? If former applies, I am willing to try for a month to see how successful I can be.
Thanks in advance, and stay safe.
GG.Basically, girls have free access to the site as far as I can tell. They can message you back, and they can message you without you messaging them. I've been pretty successful this month, four girls lined up at this point, all DTF.
DaddyOne23
11-03-17, 21:30
How do you pay for it without using cc? I do not want my name with sa or anyone stored.I get a one vanilla card and load it with $80. I then have to go to onevanilla.com to update a zipcode to that card you just got. Then go to SA, sign up and make sure the billing zip code matches. You can use a fake address in that zipcode. Have fun!
ASandler007
11-06-17, 11:29
I get a one vanilla card and load it with $80. I then have to go to onevanilla.com to update a zipcode to that card you just got. Then go to SA, sign up and make sure the billing zip code matches. You can use a fake address in that zipcode. Have fun!Thanks! I will give this a shot.
Member #5589
11-06-17, 16:36
Thanks! I will give this a shot.I've had problem with prepaid cards. There's some small print about not being valid for purchases outside of the USA. Since SA's non-USA at least for payment purposes, prepaids, including Vanilla Visa, have been rejected.
If your card's refused, contact SA customer support and they can run the card via a USA processor, which is what they've had to do for me.
Al Melrose
11-06-17, 17:25
Well, it finally happened to me. Set up a meeting, girls seemed very backpagey but I was in an SA slump. Meeting at her condo near 159/ Central on Oak Forest. She puts dog away. Tell me she is closing window, I guess sign for guy to come on up. Guy busts in starts the she is 17 story I have read elsewhere, while waving a gun. I leave $150 poorer. Debate whether to call 911, figure not worth the $150 if my name get published anywhere. I can't figure out the condo thing however, they are risking me coming back, perhaps they are just watching someone else's.
Her account has been deactivated.
DMichaels69
11-06-17, 17:34
Good you got out ok.
Well, it finally happened to me. Set up a meeting, girls seemed very backpagey but I was in an SA slump. Meeting at her condo near 159/ Central on Oak Forest. She puts dog away. Tell me she is closing window, I guess sign for guy to come on up. Guy busts in starts the she is 17 story I have read elsewhere, while waving a gun. I leave $150 poorer. Debate whether to call 911, figure not worth the $150 if my name get published anywhere. I can't figure out the condo thing however, they are risking me coming back, perhaps they are just watching someone else's.
Her account has been deactivated.
Well, it finally happened to me. Set up a meeting, girls seemed very backpagey but I was in an SA slump. Meeting at her condo near 159/ Central on Oak Forest. She puts dog away. Tell me she is closing window, I guess sign for guy to come on up. Guy busts in starts the she is 17 story I have read elsewhere, while waving a gun. I leave $150 poorer. Debate whether to call 911, figure not worth the $150 if my name get published anywhere. I can't figure out the condo thing however, they are risking me coming back, perhaps they are just watching someone else's.
Her account has been deactivated.Are you sure it was deactivated? Maybe she just blocked you. You should post any pictures of her so other guys can be safe.
SugarDaddyX
11-07-17, 13:02
Well, it finally happened to me. Set up a meeting, girls seemed very backpagey but I was in an SA slump. Meeting at her condo near 159/ Central on Oak Forest. She puts dog away. Tell me she is closing window, I guess sign for guy to come on up. Guy busts in starts the she is 17 story I have read elsewhere, while waving a gun. I leave $150 poorer. Debate whether to call 911, figure not worth the $150 if my name get published anywhere. I can't figure out the condo thing however, they are risking me coming back, perhaps they are just watching someone else's.
Her account has been deactivated.Do you have any pictures or a description that would be helpful in case she pops back on the site with a new profile?
You can make an anonymous tip to the police that a thug is walking around the complex waving a gun and then give the condo address. Pretend like you are a concerned neighbor.
SDX
Al Melrose
11-07-17, 15:07
This is the pic she sent me. It is not her, but similar, short Hispanic, probably 5'0 130 lbs. SA name DollFaceBaby123, number (312) 897-6336.
She quoted me 400 cause her bd died. Not sure what to take of this one https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/8fb1e92e-8836-4ada-94eb-5e6f3fb61848.
HitMan1783
11-07-17, 23:22
She quoted me 400 cause her bd died. Not sure what to take of this one https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/8fb1e92e-8836-4ada-94eb-5e6f3fb61848.I saw her yrs ago. Known to have a BP ad. She quoted me 150 BBBJ and 300 GFE. When isaw her BBFS was on the menu.
Are you sure it was deactivated? Maybe she just blocked you. You should post any pictures of her so other guys can be safe.What was her profile name and any other particular details you can remember about her text? Z may be right, she could have just blocked you, and her profile is still active. One of us can look for her.
Another M&G time waster to avoid.
This one wants $150 each for her and her friend just to show up for a M&G. She was very clear that no action could be had on the first M&G visit and went silent as soon as I challenged that $150/ person B. S.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/13f5b202-7bcd-4e06-86e0-b1b5c803d49b
Is seeking arrangements really the only one you guys use? Has anyone used secret benefits with any success?
Thanks.
SugarDaddyX
11-15-17, 09:48
This one demands you send money to her via Western Union or PayPal before she will M&G. I have send a report ticket to SA. The pictures she sends via text have darker skin than the pictures in the profile and the age switched from 19 to 21 while we were talking, so things just don't add up. It might be a guy behind the profile trying to get a payday.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/a62c3b5b-6cf3-4c3a-bd31-e83d1b8e0117
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/b640a545-b339-44e3-ab93-ec081050d430
SugarBabe 2 x: Nice so far, young, seeking 500 per visit though and will not discuss anything in detail online prefers to meet first. Some red flags raised. May pass unless someone here has a positive experience with her (she claims to be a newbie, only one SD in the past).
As a side note, did SA stop allowing nude or explicit photos in the private pics? Seems like fewer profiles have them since I came back on and getting harder to see the cow before buying milk. If I come across any profiles with t or a I'll update here.
SugarDaddyX
11-15-17, 15:05
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/b640a545-b339-44e3-ab93-ec081050d430
SugarBabe 2 x: Nice so far, young, seeking 500 per visit though and will not discuss anything in detail online prefers to meet first. Some red flags raised. May pass unless someone here has a positive experience with her (she claims to be a newbie, only one SD in the past).
As a side note, did SA stop allowing nude or explicit photos in the private pics? Seems like fewer profiles have them since I came back on and getting harder to see the cow before buying milk. If I come across any profiles with t or a I'll update here.She is full of shit. The picture is not her. It is a model from NYC named Melanie Iglesias. Another time waster.
SDX
The site was a bust for the first few weeks, but finally got a few hits! Have two meets for coffee today with potentials looking for an arrangement. Indicated that I'm looking for mostly physical, so hopefully they feel the same. I'll report back on how it goes. Wish me luck!!
I posted this a couple of weeks ago on Milwaukee board when I was up there in town.
Anyway, Lexi Belle showed up and so I messaged her. We swapped texts and I was a little skeptical (for obvious reasons!) it was really her. She indicated she wanted 500 PPM which was more than I wanted to do. She adjusted to 400. She is in logan square, but I got a hotel room in the Loop, on a bit of a leap of faith. Heard from her 15 minutes before our meeting time saying she was running late, and I was like, oh boy here we go, she's going to flake.
30 minutes later I got a knock and it's her. She's as cute as in her vids. A bit heavier and clearly a bit down on her luck. I rather enjoy a desperate ex porn sugar baby, but maybe that's just me. I'll spare the details but suffice to say it was all I hoped for. I've seen her again since, though I've ratcheted down her PPM for under 300 with no complaints from her. I think she just needs cash bad so if you're thinking of using her, I'd low ball. But that's just me.
PS she's super super super submissive. like super submissive.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/d8b19d72-4f5d-e284-a385-4531fdbe42cf
SeanStyles
11-18-17, 16:34
I posted this a couple of weeks ago on Milwaukee board when I was up there in town.
Anyway, Lexi Belle showed up and so I messaged her. We swapped texts and I was a little skeptical (for obvious reasons!) it was really her. She indicated she wanted 500 PPM which was more than I wanted to do. She adjusted to 400. She is in logan square, but I got a hotel room in the Loop, on a bit of a leap of faith. Heard from her 15 minutes before our meeting time saying she was running late, and I was like, oh boy here we go, she's going to flake.
30 minutes later I got a knock and it's her. She's as cute as in her vids. A bit heavier and clearly a bit down on her luck. I rather enjoy a desperate ex porn sugar baby, but maybe that's just me. I'll spare the details but suffice to say it was all I hoped for. I've seen her again since, though I've ratcheted down her PPM for under 300 with no complaints from her. I think she just needs cash bad so if you're thinking of using her, I'd low ball. But that's just me.
PS she's super super super submissive. like super submissive.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/d8b19d72-4f5d-e284-a385-4531fdbe42cfSo this is really Lexi Belle? I have a hard time believing this, but am all over it! She's one of my all time favs and this would be a dream for me. Bucket list worthy!
Al Bundy78
11-18-17, 17:04
So this is really Lexi Belle? I have a hard time believing this, but am all over it! She's one of my all time favs and this would be a dream for me. Bucket list worthy!The ad has been taken down. Can you give us more info? How can we contact her?
The ad has been taken down. Can you give us more info? How can we contact her?The ad is back up.
RealDealxxx
11-19-17, 10:56
Can also verify it's her. Based on OP's message below, contacted Lexi. She was prompt in response, and gave me a cell. Texted her and she responded quickly. She only does outcall and came to my place in Edgewater via uber. I arranged uber and so could track her making her way. Wanted 400 and I offered 250 and she went for it.
It's her. She's cute and bubbly. A bit chubbier than in her day but thin by any normal standard. She's clearly desperate for cash and she worked me over. It's a bucket list for me, since I've rubbed off to her probably 100's of times. She even took load in face, and allowed me to call her names. My advice: she needs the cash; she'll start at 400-500, but I bet she'd take 200.
I posted this a couple of weeks ago on Milwaukee board when I was up there in town.
Anyway, Lexi Belle showed up and so I messaged her. We swapped texts and I was a little skeptical (for obvious reasons!) it was really her. She indicated she wanted 500 PPM which was more than I wanted to do. She adjusted to 400. She is in logan square, but I got a hotel room in the Loop, on a bit of a leap of faith. Heard from her 15 minutes before our meeting time saying she was running late, and I was like, oh boy here we go, she's going to flake.
30 minutes later I got a knock and it's her. She's as cute as in her vids. A bit heavier and clearly a bit down on her luck. I rather enjoy a desperate ex porn sugar baby, but maybe that's just me. I'll spare the details but suffice to say it was all I hoped for. I've seen her again since, though I've ratcheted down her PPM for under 300 with no complaints from her. I think she just needs cash bad so if you're thinking of using her, I'd low ball. But that's just me.
PS she's super super super submissive. like super submissive.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/d8b19d72-4f5d-e284-a385-4531fdbe42cf
ItsHowdyDoody
11-19-17, 11:46
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/b66984ea-dcd5-443f-bd4c-08ece9d11507
The one above was a classic. We texted back and forth a bunch in summer, she laid out that she was not looking to do anything physical but would drop hints of being open to do so. Toward the end of the month she wanted 1 k in money for her rent, to show I was serious. LOL. I did not partake, but did get her to give me the address of the apt complex she lives. I did not verify it to be true or anything, just seeing what her deal was. After I didn't do this, she came back with wanting 2 k a month just to hang out, but again wanted the money without actually meeting. She does have a fb from what I saw and all that, so again, one to avoid. Probably a very clever scam, or she legit just wants to be paid to do zero.
Had success with another, equally as attractive girl on there, who didn't mind doing per meet visits. I told her about these negotiations, and her response was "do their pussies shoot fireworks or something" LOL.
Jabroni307
11-19-17, 17:56
Can also verify it's her. Based on OP's message below, contacted Lexi. She was prompt in response, and gave me a cell. Texted her and she responded quickly. She only does outcall and came to my place in Edgewater via uber. I arranged uber and so could track her making her way. Wanted 400 and I offered 250 and she went for it.
It's her. She's cute and bubbly. A bit chubbier than in her day but thin by any normal standard. She's clearly desperate for cash and she worked me over. It's a bucket list for me, since I've rubbed off to her probably 100's of times. She even took load in face, and allowed me to call her names. My advice: she needs the cash; she'll start at 400-500, but I bet she'd take 200.Kinds seems wierd the only guys vouching for her are newbies with 1 or 2 posts ever.
LoveToRoll
11-19-17, 18:52
Can also verify it's her. Based on OP's message below, contacted Lexi. She was prompt in response, and gave me a cell. Texted her and she responded quickly. She only does outcall and came to my place in Edgewater via uber. I arranged uber and so could track her making her way. Wanted 400 and I offered 250 and she went for it.
It's her. She's cute and bubbly. A bit chubbier than in her day but thin by any normal standard. She's clearly desperate for cash and she worked me over. It's a bucket list for me, since I've rubbed off to her probably 100's of times. She even took load in face, and allowed me to call her names. My advice: she needs the cash; she'll start at 400-500, but I bet she'd take 200.Yeah, I call bullshit. She was in ohio during the weekend so unless she can be at two places at once, this didn't happen.
CloaknDagger36
11-19-17, 19:07
Kinds seems wierd the only guys vouching for her are newbies with 1 or 2 posts ever.I would like to find out if it's really her. I don't have a SA account, but I might sign up just for the chance.
SugarDaddyX
11-19-17, 20:12
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/b66984ea-dcd5-443f-bd4c-08ece9d11507
The one above was a classic. We texted back and forth a bunch in summer, she laid out that she was not looking to do anything physical but would drop hints of being open to do so. Toward the end of the month she wanted 1 k in money for her rent, to show I was serious. LOL. I did not partake, but did get her to give me the address of the apt complex she lives. I did not verify it to be true or anything, just seeing what her deal was. After I didn't do this, she came back with wanting 2 k a month just to hang out, but again wanted the money without actually meeting. She does have a fb from what I saw and all that, so again, one to avoid. Probably a very clever scam, or she legit just wants to be paid to do zero.
Had success with another, equally as attractive girl on there, who didn't mind doing per meet visits. I told her about these negotiations, and her response was "do their pussies shoot fireworks or something" LOL.In my experience, the profiles that are very terse, like one sentence in About Me and one sentence in What I Am Looking For, tend to be women who are not too serious about finding an arrangement and meeting. I would guess the young lady in the profile you posted is hoping to get lucky and find an extremely desperate, gullible guy who will send her money. Even if she has a. 1% success rate, it was worth her effort. Think of it like those phone scams that are going around nowadays. Someone from India calls and says they work for the IRS and they need you to give them your bank information or credit card information. They have a high failure rate because most people realize they are a blatant scam. But if they can successfully scam just 1 person out of every 1,000 or 2,000 calls (ie. an elderly person who is not all there), then the paycheck makes it worth their time.
You can report any member that is asking to be sent money before meeting. Take a screenshot of the conversation of her asking to be sent money and attach that to the report you send to SA. SA is trying to keep its image up and will delete profiles. In the last year or two, I have traced profiles that were asking to be sent money or asking to trade pics / vids for money to either men in the US or West African scammers. Word has spread on the internet that there are some really gullible, pathetic men on SA, and now it is becoming a playground for scammers and catfishes. If conversation is in British English (ie. colour vs color, holiday vs vacation) and the person does not know the local geography and customs, they might be some dude sitting in an internet cafe in Nigeria or Ghana. The West Africans have also learned how to use burner internet phone numbers.
SDX.
John HandCock
11-19-17, 22:44
In my experience, the profiles that are very terse, like one sentence in About Me and one sentence in What I Am Looking For, tend to be women who are not too serious about finding an arrangement and meeting. I would guess the young lady in the profile you posted is hoping to get lucky and find an extremely desperate, gullible guy who will send her money. Even if she has a. 1% success rate, it was worth her effort. Think of it like those phone scams that are going around nowadays. Someone from India calls and says they work for the IRS and they need you to give them your bank information or credit card information. They have a high failure rate because most people realize they are a blatant scam. But if they can successfully scam just 1 person out of every 1,000 or 2,000 calls (ie. an elderly person who is not all there), then the paycheck makes it worth their time.
You can report any member that is asking to be sent money before meeting. Take a screenshot of the conversation of her asking to be sent money and attach that to the report you send to SA. SA is trying to keep its image up and will delete profiles. In the last year or two, I have traced profiles that were asking to be sent money or asking to trade pics / vids for money to either men in the US or West African scammers. Word has spread on the internet that there are some really gullible, pathetic men on SA, and now it is becoming a playground for scammers and catfishes. If conversation is in British English (ie. colour vs color, holiday vs vacation) and the person does not know the local geography and customs, they might be some dude sitting in an internet cafe in Nigeria or Ghana. The West Africans have also learned how to use burner internet phone numbers.
SDX.That really isn't new, SD4 ME was full of these people years ago. They just flow along with whatever site is popular at the moment. Like you said most can be determined just after a couple of messages. SD4 ME at one time had a warning about being contacted by anyone in africa. Reporting is like reporting a working girl, within an hour a new profile is up. Not sure what the answer is. I know from my observation that escorts don't visit the site so often if they aren't getting business.
Hi, I'm about to meet with her. I want to make sure she is legitimate. Anyone met her before? You can PM if you prefer. Thank you.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/09c88528-566d-459b-8c20-8b8684db968e
Al Bundy78
11-20-17, 15:32
I would like to find out if it's really her. I don't have a SA account, but I might sign up just for the chance.Profile has been taken down again. Looks like the guys who called BS on the profile and the rave reviews were right.
SeanStyles
11-21-17, 00:11
This.
Kinds seems wierd the only guys vouching for her are newbies with 1 or 2 posts ever.And this.
Yeah, I call bullshit. She was in ohio during the weekend so unless she can be at two places at once, this didn't happen.You can follow Lexi on her social accounts to know her whereabouts as she leaves clues. She's one of the most successful porn stars around, so these ads are sure to get attention from men who, like me, have fantasized about such an encounter. It's either a trap, scam, LEO, or a complete waste of time. Either way, it's disappointing.
Jabroni307
11-23-17, 14:52
If anyone is down to do a BBFS trade, hit me up. I have a bunch I'm willing to trade.
HitMan1783
11-23-17, 18:31
If anyone is down to do a BBFS trade, hit me up. I have a bunch I'm willing to trade.Did you get my pm?
Jabroni307
11-23-17, 19:43
Did you get my pm?The one from a while ago? Yep! It was great info. I sent you a list of my own today.
HitMan1783
11-23-17, 19:54
The one from a while ago? Yep! It was great info. I sent you a list of my own today.Oh ok good on that one but will send you some more.
Did any of you meet with this bbw?
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/ab16df01-a9bc-4c33-beb9-3333e0e87bb7
I did. There was so much drama. So had to talk down the allowance to a single bill.
But if you don't mind bbw, and have enough patience to withstand the drama, BBFS can be had.
PM if interested for additional info and trades.
Hi, I'm about to meet with her. I want to make sure she is legitimate. Anyone met her before? You can PM if you prefer. Thank you.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/09c88528-566d-459b-8c20-8b8684db968eHer profile has been deleted. Did you go thru with the meet? Was it worth it?
Al Melrose
11-25-17, 18:56
Did any of you meet with this bbw?
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/ab16df01-a9bc-4c33-beb9-3333e0e87bb7
I did. There was so much drama. So had to talk down the allowance to a single bill.
But if you don't mind bbw, and have enough patience to withstand the drama, BBFS can be had.
PM if interested for additional info and trades.I did over a year ago, had a different profile that showed more of her tats. Yes she was a pain, but I was desperate. Picked her up from work. Got non-stop texts for a couple months. She just hit me up from her new profile, I don't think she remembered we already had "an arrangement".
Berserker06
11-27-17, 12:22
If anyone is down to do a BBFS trade, hit me up. I have a bunch I'm willing to trade.YGPM, found a girl a couple of weeks ago, BBFSCIP.
ToplessnCago
11-30-17, 18:11
Paid for a month of premium service, $80. Built a profile with one public and one private pic. Exchanged messages with approx. 350 women. Collected 60 phone numbers of women between the ages of 18 and 25, with a few exceptions (late 20's, early 30's). All of the 60 said they wanted to meet and have sex for money. Rates varied from 200 to 500 for one hr and some up to two hrs. Met with 6 of them so far. All 6 of them included BBBJ, dfk, daty, dato, msog, 69, mish, k9, fuma, bls. 3 of them included BBFS (including 2 greek). I would repeat with 4 of the 6, 1 maybe, 1 definitely no.
Had about 20% flake out on me so far. That means they said they wanted to meet, but when it came down to actually doing it, they either went silent at the last minute or came up with excuses why they couldn't meet.
Due to the relatively young ages, 80% of the women could not host due to living with family, roommates, etc. I learned to factor in the flake out rate when paying for hotels and plan to meet in hotel parking lot before booking the room. Also, found that booking multiple women for the same hotel (different times) was helpful for reducing the hosting cost.
On a positive note, one unexpectedly showed up with a friend and we had a threesome! I guess that counts as met with 7! LOL.
I will probably keep working my way down the list that I have compiled until I find the top 3 or 4 of the group and then just revisit those going forward. I will probably not pay for another month of premium membership since this represents too much time and effort for the ROI. Much easier and faster to pay a well reviewed escort for roughly the same price and service level.
ItsHowdyDoody
12-01-17, 13:04
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/0ac69cbf-1989-4639-b50a-1fe29feb3239
This gem basically wants free money to do zero again, as have a few others. Texted a bunch, claims she hasn't ever done this before, etc. Is a real person, but just wants a hand out for nothing. Would go AWOL anytime we had a planned meeting, and would return a few weeks later with an excuse. Was always some kind of time wasting garbage, even tho she would appear to be down for something. A time waster to avoid.
YGPM, found a girl a couple of weeks ago, BBFSCIP.I got a few myself if interested in trading.
INTravelingMan
12-02-17, 21:40
This girl has GPS. She wants 500 per and says she gets it all the time. Real bitchy attitude when you tell her she is too high.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/3939edc2-8b46-4ac2-b60d-509b65ceb425
INTravelingMan
12-03-17, 12:18
Another one that thinks others on the site "value themselves too low" and wants 500 per meet. By the looks of her pictures, not even that cute.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/c42f2948-9e8e-4198-9673-eed0decb10d7
INTravelingMan
12-03-17, 18:52
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/4ff16491-46a0-4e26-9b95-17860416b5da
BARBIESTACKS.
Wants just to be eyecandy and nothing more. Really had no answer to what kind of sugar she is providing if a guy is providing money as his portion of the sugar relationship.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/71e5f9c6-a778-4b27-80aa-531c5cc97cc0
Queenie2016.
Claims she had a 500 per meet arrangement that turned monthly, but that ended recently. Not worth it based on pics.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/42623f0b-4af3-b7d6-f055-1e87be5e1767
AngelDesire_.
Wants 700 per meet. Hot girl with a thick curvy body. Big boobs, big ass and looks to be in fairly good shape. But not worth 700!
Jabroni307
12-03-17, 20:10
I'd love to trade for BBFS girls.
Paid for a month of premium service, $80. Built a profile with one public and one private pic. Exchanged messages with approx. 350 women. Collected 60 phone numbers of women between the ages of 18 and 25, with a few exceptions (late 20's, early 30's). All of the 60 said they wanted to meet and have sex for money. Rates varied from 200 to 500 for one hr and some up to two hrs. Met with 6 of them so far. All 6 of them included BBBJ, dfk, daty, dato, msog, 69, mish, k9, fuma, bls. 3 of them included BBFS (including 2 greek). I would repeat with 4 of the 6, 1 maybe, 1 definitely no.
Had about 20% flake out on me so far. That means they said they wanted to meet, but when it came down to actually doing it, they either went silent at the last minute or came up with excuses why they couldn't meet.
Due to the relatively young ages, 80% of the women could not host due to living with family, roommates, etc. I learned to factor in the flake out rate when paying for hotels and plan to meet in hotel parking lot before booking the room. Also, found that booking multiple women for the same hotel (different times) was helpful for reducing the hosting cost.
On a positive note, one unexpectedly showed up with a friend and we had a threesome! I guess that counts as met with 7! LOL.
I will probably keep working my way down the list that I have compiled until I find the top 3 or 4 of the group and then just revisit those going forward. I will probably not pay for another month of premium membership since this represents too much time and effort for the ROI. Much easier and faster to pay a well reviewed escort for roughly the same price and service level.
Al Bundy78
12-04-17, 08:30
I tried the site seeking arrangement, no luck, its a Millennial mine field. Most girls there are think that a sugar daddy likes to give money for nothing in return, or they over value themselves. I mean lets be real, they are offering their bodies in exchange for money, they need to stick to what the market will allow for a non-pro.
I have had better results getting personal numbers from some of the nicer, younger hotel foreign providers and continuing a p4 p arrangement after they leave their agency. I find a good kitty licking and a true big O for them opens way more doors than offering more cash. Alot of these younger girls haven't had mongers tend to their needs first. Remember, if you can get a woman to cum when you lick her kitty, she will think about you every time she is horny or unsatisfied by someone else and then you can get her to do whatever you want. It also is important to point out that the kind of girl that will be best for this are the young foreign inexperienced girls that quit their agency after a month or two because that job isn't for them. They want to return to a "normal life" but are willing to meet up if it means a great orgasm and some cash. Stay away from the girls that ask you for drugs, for obvious reasons. Drugs might be a quick way into their pants, but it can also get you set up by their dealers if they get in too deep with drugs and they tend to be too flaky. Thats my $0. 02, happy hunting!
INTravelingMan
12-05-17, 00:51
Claudialynnrain.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/77f124cf-e8b8-47db-8a38-c38751125fa6
Wants 500-600 per date. Attractive girl but looks kind of plastic. Her pictures make her look different based on the hair color and styles. Nice body with a tat across the chest in all pictures that shows it's the same girl. Looks petite and has a spinner body with big boobs that are probably fake.
DiamondRod99.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/7abcef7b-7abc-4ae0-941d-8f9ac10e296a
Wants 500 per meet. No BJ, CFS, no greek. Hot little body and very pretty face but GPS still. Just started on the site about 5 days ago so may be learning the ropes if she hopes to get any dates.
A Sultry Siren.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/0c6eeaff-6d3d-4ac7-b4af-b690ee19ca54
Wants 400-600 per meet and $3500 monthly. Maybe a typo about the.
"and" part of the allowance and may be an "or". Thick girl with big boobs and big butt. Insists that she is worth it because of her intelligence and multiple degrees. If she is looking for a job, I am sure someone will hire her for her degrees.
Gerkin Jerkin
12-05-17, 15:02
This girl just asked for $1 k per meeting.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/9565d902-8eb8-44c8-aa5c-5d37bad51730
Seeking Arrangement has been very labor intensive for me. A lot of work for little pay off. I think I will stuck with the professional hos.
SugarDaddyX
12-05-17, 18:34
Claudialynnrain.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/77f124cf-e8b8-47db-8a38-c38751125fa6
Wants 500-600 per date. Attractive girl but looks kind of plastic. Her pictures make her look different based on the hair color and styles. Nice body with a tat across the chest in all pictures that shows it's the same girl. Looks petite and has a spinner body with big boobs that are probably fake.She is a stripper at one of the south side strip clubs. She has pathetic guys paying $500 just to touch her boobs in a VIP room.
SDX.
DMichaels69
12-05-17, 18:45
That is pathetic.
She is a stripper at one of the south side strip clubs. She has pathetic guys paying $500 just to touch her boobs in a VIP room.
SDX.
OF Charlie
12-06-17, 00:52
I have a few days off this month, so decided to join and paid for the upgrade on SA. Today is day 6. Sharing my success or lack of.
Was supposed to have my first meet and greet yesterday. The girl never showed up. No calls or texts. Have a message scheduled for Thursday. She claims to be a professional. We will see. Have another meet / greet for Friday and one next Monday. Next Friday, I got a Milwaukee girl who is willing to drive down to see me. And in 2 weeks, I had a girl who will be visiting here scheduled. The deal was that I pay for her 3 nights of hotel in exchange for 6 hours of her time. 325 for the hotel. I had her sent me the plane ticket confirmation and I called the airline and confirmed. She is a part time lingerie model. She sent me the link to her IG account. She is Korean.
Some lessons / observations:
* know what you want to get out of the site upfront.
* knowing what you want to get out of it will help you target the right girls.
* some girls don't consider themselves hookers. You have to decide if you want to play their game or move on right away.
* if a girl ignores you or rejects you, don't sweat it. Just move on. More girls are joining each day.
* don't be afraid to go after the hot ones. The ratio of girls to guys is in our favor.
* I am Asian, so you success will be different (unless you are Asian too).
All feedbacks are welcome. I will post follow up updates on my success or lack of.
So what's the average cost per meet on those six?
Paid for a month of premium service, $80. Built a profile with one public and one private pic. Exchanged messages with approx. 350 women. Collected 60 phone numbers of women between the ages of 18 and 25, with a few exceptions (late 20's, early 30's). All of the 60 said they wanted to meet and have sex for money. Rates varied from 200 to 500 for one hr and some up to two hrs. Met with 6 of them so far. All 6 of them included BBBJ, dfk, daty, dato, msog, 69, mish, k9, fuma, bls. 3 of them included BBFS (including 2 greek). I would repeat with 4 of the 6, 1 maybe, 1 definitely no.
Had about 20% flake out on me so far. That means they said they wanted to meet, but when it came down to actually doing it, they either went silent at the last minute or came up with excuses why they couldn't meet.
Due to the relatively young ages, 80% of the women could not host due to living with family, roommates, etc. I learned to factor in the flake out rate when paying for hotels and plan to meet in hotel parking lot before booking the room. Also, found that booking multiple women for the same hotel (different times) was helpful for reducing the hosting cost.
On a positive note, one unexpectedly showed up with a friend and we had a threesome! I guess that counts as met with 7! LOL.
I will probably keep working my way down the list that I have compiled until I find the top 3 or 4 of the group and then just revisit those going forward. I will probably not pay for another month of premium membership since this represents too much time and effort for the ROI. Much easier and faster to pay a well reviewed escort for roughly the same price and service level.
INTravelingMan
12-07-17, 10:07
Jessxx22.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e7e65ce2-2c56-42fa-91be-d3568186e137
Wants $4 K a month. Enough said.
Jdollx.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/messages/e2afceb2-6190-48a1-a75e-1d65cc3ba4a5?mailbox=archive
Wants $1500-2500 a month for one date a week. Mixed girl with a cute face, but probably very thick as she only has one picture that does not show the lower body. She also lists herself as curvy so you know that's probably why.
ToplessnCago
12-07-17, 19:54
The average is approx. 300. However, the times are not locked in to one hr. I've paid both 250 and 500 and had a full 90 minutes. On the other hand, I think the fastest was 45 minutes for 300. I was expecting a second pop, but she had other ideas. As with any arrangement, setting clear expectations up front helps.
So what's the average cost per meet on those six?
INTravelingMan
12-08-17, 01:27
You would think I was lying if I told you what some girls ask for in allowance. But I have proof. You are overpaying. Or maybe I just get the good looking guy discount?
The average is approx. 300. However, the times are not locked in to one hr. I've paid both 250 and 500 and had a full 90 minutes. On the other hand, I think the fastest was 45 minutes for 300. I was expecting a second pop, but she had other ideas. As with any arrangement, setting clear expectations up front helps.
ToplessnCago
12-08-17, 16:38
Feel free to share proof. I am specifically interested in apples to apples comparisons including SA links of 18 - 24 yo's in the western suburbs with the level of BBFS you received and rate. PM if necessary. If you share details, I will contact each one, setup a meet and share the results.
You would think I was lying if I told you what some girls ask for in allowance. But I have proof. You are overpaying. Or maybe I just get the good looking guy discount?
ToplessnCago
12-08-17, 19:30
Thought this pricing analysis might be helpful:
41 (67%) out of 61 women provided rates.
$200 = 7 women (17%.
$250 = 3 women (7%.
$300 = 13 women (32%.
$350 = 5 women (12%.
$400 = 8 women (20%.
$500 = 5 women (12%.
$300 or greater = 31 women (76%.
Less than $300 = 10 women (24%.
Average rate for all 41 = $329.
32 (78%) are located in the western suburbs.
9 (22%) are located in Chicago.
Naturally, menu and performance is not part of this assessment (or I would be one exhausted guy). .
I tried SA for 2 months on the summer. I tried for white women from 21-50 with slim / athletic builds. (I'm middle aged but look good for my age). Anyway many never responded which surprised me. I got flaked on a few times. A few that sounded like potential matches went dark when trying to set up a day to meet. The ones that did want to meet wanted a lot for a gift- 400 seemed to be avg asking price. Some asked for $500,700, etc. One said her minimum was 1,000- craziness! Note many couldn't host- so that would mean having to get a hotel room + drinks or dinner which adds to the cost of what they want. Not as much of an issue if you're visiting Chicago on business on the company's dime- but for locals it adds up. Many others never responded. I wonder if they were phony ads just pretending to be real in order to keep men getting the SA subscription. I know of one guy who had a lot of success on there- of course this guy was rolling in dough- so if money is no object it's candyland. The two gals I met were near my age- so not exactly babies in the truest sense of the definition. They were cool, but in the end I decided to quit- the cons (there were some I didn't mention as well) outweighed the pros for me at this time.
I don't get this. I've had plenty of girls just not respond or want 400+. But I ignore those and keep it moving. Found plenty of girls around 200-300. I don't say anything special nor am I extremely good looking. Little on the heavy side but I still don't have bad luck like this. I think the older you may be and depending on what you put out in your profile makes them think you might give more. All I do is PM asking how they are and if they're into NSA fwb pay per visit meets. If they respond yes go from where is no move on. Every time I sign up I get more girls than I can afford and I'm not rich.
I tried SA for 2 months on the summer. I tried for white women from 21-50 with slim / athletic builds. (I'm middle aged but look good for my age). Anyway many never responded which surprised me. I got flaked on a few times. A few that sounded like potential matches went dark when trying to set up a day to meet. The ones that did want to meet wanted a lot for a gift- 400 seemed to be avg asking price. Some asked for $500,700, etc. One said her minimum was 1,000- craziness! Note many couldn't host- so that would mean having to get a hotel room + drinks or dinner which adds to the cost of what they want. Not as much of an issue if you're visiting Chicago on business on the company's dime- but for locals it adds up. Many others never responded. I wonder if they were phony ads just pretending to be real in order to keep men getting the SA subscription. I know of one guy who had a lot of success on there- of course this guy was rolling in dough- so if money is no object it's candyland. The two gals I met were near my age- so not exactly babies in the truest sense of the definition. They were cool, but in the end I decided to quit- the cons (there were some I didn't mention as well) outweighed the pros for me at this time.
OF Charlie
12-09-17, 10:31
Thought this pricing analysis might be helpful:
41 (67%) out of 61 women provided rates.
$200 = 7 women (17%.
$250 = 3 women (7%.
$300 = 13 women (32%.
$350 = 5 women (12%.
$400 = 8 women (20%.
$500 = 5 women (12%.
$300 or greater = 31 women (76%.
Less than $300 = 10 women (24%.
Average rate for all 41 = $329.
32 (78%) are located in the western suburbs.
9 (22%) are located in Chicago.
Naturally, menu and performance is not part of this assessment (or I would be one exhausted guy). .While the total rate is important, I prefer to look at the average hourly rate per meet. I had 3 $400 offers yesterday. One was for 1 hour, one was for 4 hours and the last one had no time limit (I had a coffee meet with her yesterday. She is Asian and I am Asian, so that might have contributed to this no time limit).
OF Charlie
12-09-17, 10:40
I don't get this. I've had plenty of girls just not respond or want 400+. But I ignore those and keep it moving. Found plenty of girls around 200-300. I don't say anything special nor am I extremely good looking. Little on the heavy side but I still don't have bad luck like this. I think the older you may be and depending on what you put out in your profile makes them think you might give more. All I do is PM asking how they are and if they're into NSA fwb pay per visit meets. If they respond yes go from where is no move on. Every time I sign up I get more girls than I can afford and I'm not rich.I just joined last week and had my first session with a 21 yr white actress yesterday. She has done a couple of movies. She asked for 250, but it ended be more as she could not host and I had to get a room. I have 4 more sessions scheduled already. If an Asian guy like me can get white young girls, you should not have problems.
I won't renew after this month, mostly because I can't keep up and my little junior is going to fall off with all those fucking.
I don't get this. I've had plenty of girls just not respond or want 400+. But I ignore those and keep it moving. Found plenty of girls around 200-300. I don't say anything special nor am I extremely good looking. Little on the heavy side but I still don't have bad luck like this. I think the older you may be and depending on what you put out in your profile makes them think you might give more. All I do is PM asking how they are and if they're into NSA fwb pay per visit meets. If they respond yes go from where is no move on. Every time I sign up I get more girls than I can afford and I'm not rich.I'm not the tallest guy out there, but I work out regularly and am good looking. I don't know- couldn't tell you. I do know that I was expecting better luck after reading the Richmond review board. I thought guys would have a major advantage- being that there are supposed to be more women on the site than guys and gifts would be lower but it seemed like gals were overwhelmed with options or just had crazy expectations and were looking for a golden lottery ticket. Also there were too many fakes who were actually pros or porn actresses- not regular gals.
Maybe the women on there now are more reasonable- who knows. I only tried for white women who were thin or had an athletic build as that's whom I most attracted to. I gave most of them my number after my subscription ended- very few contacted me- so they obviously weren't interested. That was my experience. Hopefully you guys have better luck.
I'm not the tallest guy out there, but I work out regularly and am good looking. I don't know- couldn't tell you. I do know that I was expecting better luck after reading the Richmond review board. I thought guys would have a major advantage- being that there are supposed to be more women on the site than guys and gifts would be lower but it seemed like gals were overwhelmed with options or just had crazy expectations and were looking for a golden lottery ticket. Also there were too many fakes who were actually pros or porn actresses- not regular gals.
Maybe the women on there now are more reasonable- who knows. I only tried for white women who were thin or had an athletic build as that's whom I most attracted to. I gave most of them my number after my subscription ended- very few contacted me- so they obviously weren't interested. That was my experience. Hopefully you guys have better luck.Cost of living is less in places like Richmond than Chicago so lower amount of $ goes further.
The cheap girls in Chicago are cheap for a reason. They aren't the head turners. The head turners are usually the ones that are picky and have higher $ expectations. Sounds like you have standards / preferences that don't align well with cheap play (I know this isn't hard and fast rules, and what's not and what's average is subjective).
Lastly, SA is a huge numbers game. You have to throw mud against a wall, and a lot of mid, to get some ones that stick.
You answered your own question. Whenever guys talk about looks it's always YMMV in reality. Limited yourself to only white thin athletic girls you'll have a way harder time getting what you want since you're already limited in looks then you got to find one that would be OK with you and then have her price match what you want. That's a hard bargain. FYI those younger thin white athletic girls will always want top $. They were the hot girl in school who only fucked the popular guys usually. Why would they give it up for $200 when they know an older guy will dish out $300-500 all day. Unless they got a vice to support but then the looks diminish.
I found a sexy little 18 yr old who's a bit nerdy in looks but damn sexy naked w my dick in her mouth and for a very reasonable price (under $300) keep trying and don't limit yourself so much. You'll have a blast. Otherwise if you want to fuck 10's all day you're going to pay for it.
I'm not the tallest guy out there, but I work out regularly and am good looking. I don't know- couldn't tell you. I do know that I was expecting better luck after reading the Richmond review board. I thought guys would have a major advantage- being that there are supposed to be more women on the site than guys and gifts would be lower but it seemed like gals were overwhelmed with options or just had crazy expectations and were looking for a golden lottery ticket. Also there were too many fakes who were actually pros or porn actresses- not regular gals.
Maybe the women on there now are more reasonable- who knows. I only tried for white women who were thin or had an athletic build as that's whom I most attracted to. I gave most of them my number after my subscription ended- very few contacted me- so they obviously weren't interested. That was my experience. Hopefully you guys have better luck.
You answered your own question. Whenever guys talk about looks it's always YMMV in reality. Limited yourself to only white thin athletic girls you'll have a way harder time getting what you want since you're already limited in looks then you got to find one that would be OK with you and then have her price match what you want. That's a hard bargain. FYI those younger thin white athletic girls will always want top $. They were the hot girl in school who only fucked the popular guys usually. Why would they give it up for $200 when they know an older guy will dish out $300-500 all day. Unless they got a vice to support but then the looks diminish.
I found a sexy little 18 yr old who's a bit nerdy in looks but damn sexy naked w my dick in her mouth and for a very reasonable price (under $300) keep trying and don't limit yourself so much. You'll have a blast. Otherwise if you want to fuck 10's all day you're going to pay for it.Good for you guys. I'm glad you're finding success on there. If I'm on a site like that I'm going to go after who I'm attracted to- otherwise there's no really point for me. Pau is correct- Richmond is a smaller city and has a lower cost of living so it makes sense that the gifts are lower. They have the most comprehensive arrangement thread on here which is why I read it looking for tips before I signed up over the summer. However, some of these chicks want 3000-4000+ a month. That's like 35-40,000 a year tax free and like I said earlier doesn't count getting a nice hotel room + dinner+ drinks. That's not exactly being cheap for most guys & way too much- for me at least to do on any kind of regular basis. Anyway, I just wanted to share my experience on there for others thinking about it. Good luck.
ItsHowdyDoody
12-10-17, 15:35
So I have been on SA since summer. Tried it in smaller cities near Chicago area, and in Chicago, and yes the location matters when it comes to prices and all that. If you are wanting some hot girl 18-24, most likely you will not get it for anything less than 300. If you are getting it, I have found it is mostly for a reason as someone mentioned. (drug problem, scam, or legit pro etc.) The best success I have had is selling myself a bit on what they would get with me, vs. Someone else (as I am not super old, or unattractive). You don't see a lot of shared profiles of successful hot girls, because usually a lot of work and messages went back and forth to find them. I have shared a few that have wasted my time or have found to be scamming guys, as there is no reason to even try with those that do so.
In a smaller market, like Indiana, Wisconsin, better prices can sometimes be had, but the girls in a lot of cases have already seen major money thrown their way by some desperate guy, so it makes finding a "cheap"price rare. In this instance, it is the one time I don't think you want to find the cheapest deal really, you want a good mutual fit. I did get lucky a few times this summer, with some attractive, 18 year olds, who hadn't yet gotten the influx of 50-80 year olds throwing thousands their way, and managed to keep it in a 100-200 range. That is an outliers at best. Any time we spent wasn't timed like a pro date, so I didn't keep track of hours or anything like that. I also didn't treat them like you would a backpage or whatever. As some mentioned, the hot girl in hs knows her worth. That also means, however, if she had similar offers from someone who was also the hot guy in hs, vs someone who wasn't, it is most likely the former would win.
So yes, super hot girls are out there, and maybe in one's price range, but they are not available to everyone, like regular dating.
I just got SA yesterday, and I have to say the site gets alot of new people everyday. Surprised at the volume of girls on the site. I read the forums for a bit, and I followed some of your guys advice, and so far it has been working great. I have been talking to 4 girls and we got some meetups this coming week. There is alot of GPS and girls that overvalue a shit ton, but that is common. I am picking the more common girls and I have to say it is working out quick well. I will write reviews when I meet up with any. Just curious if any of you guys have girls that will trade, just curious.
Gerkin Jerkin
12-12-17, 16:32
This dumb bust out broad wants a new car for an allowance. Hahaha https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/4e507b91-95b7-4d60-af02-092fd1c820ba.
Scammer beware:
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/7abcef7b-7abc-4ae0-941d-8f9ac10e296a
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/820bb76b-edd3-4ea0-aba3-9249b3ce3121
Was her name Alexa or something. Something that she had a bad transmission and needed 500?
This dumb bust out broad wants a new car for an allowance. Hahaha https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/4e507b91-95b7-4d60-af02-092fd1c820ba.
Buckeyebrent
12-14-17, 12:49
SA has been a huge timewaster, but I do have a couple of gems I have met. These are not them:
Sugarbabez1214 seemed ok at 1st, got t text, made arrangement, then she said she needs money sent in advance. I can't find link any more, hopefully she was taken off site.
Diooon, texted with her, and seemed like getting nowhere, but came down to it, she said she was a TS:
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/28b96d3a-c2a4-44e4-8314-aaf204aa352a
Xoxo7 e wanted $200 for a meeting at starbucks:
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/08e712bb-1f54-4b3c-a001-78af2f033186
Some details on a few ladies, might save you some time:
Sarah026- Pics are way old and very misleading, she's a small bbw, all covered, no BJ, dead fish. Not worth it if it were free!
https://seekingarrangement.com/member/5b67092c-6fe7-4fc4-bf49-ec9ffa89a78f
Cuteblondebarbe: GPS -$500/ PPM. Likely a traveling pro.
https://seekingarrangement.com/member/d79027b0-fb8c-4b76-9fa7-9a8a08b9bd70
Goree. GPS - $500 / ppm.
https://seekingarrangement.com/member/76f2f988-3e68-4bb8-8329-df055cdd590b
Chicagobaby2019 - pics are extremely over flattering, pretty skanky in person and a small bbw.
https://seekingarrangement.com/member/b46fab2c-24af-4ebc-b918-2b87e8dd8472
HaileyL- GPS - $500/ ppm.
https://seekingarrangement.com/member/e08a4482-a475-ab46-9ebd-f69d8db79007
Any girls that are worth the visit? I messaged some of those girls you guys posted and thankfully I will decline them. You guys have anyone worth sharing?
ItsHowdyDoody
12-15-17, 09:57
Any girls that are worth the visit? I messaged some of those girls you guys posted and thankfully I will decline them. You guys have anyone worth sharing?You have to put your own work into that thru trial and error. Would I share the few I am having success with now? No, they would get mad and most likely figure out I sent them to them, since we are an ongoing "arrangement". I would share a few types that I consider the seasoned pros, pretending to be wanting a daddy. Those are the ones you can cross reference and see have posted on backpage, or CL before, etc. Most of those I ignore, as I'd rather convert a hot one into something more.
Any girls that are worth the visit? I messaged some of those girls you guys posted and thankfully I will decline them. You guys have anyone worth sharing?A lot of time and effort goes into finding a good one. Hours of messages (literally many many hours!) , m&g's, cost of sessions that are a let down down, etc. It's a lot of work, time and effort involved.
Not to mention that the girls may not want to be shared. I know that's the case with the girls in my rotation, theyve actually taken down their profile from SA since they found a guy that meets their needs (ie. Me!
But if you have done your own work and have some things to share / swap, you'll find guys more willing to do the same.
ToplessnCago
12-17-17, 23:48
Diooon, texted with her, and seemed like getting nowhere, but came down to it, she said she was a TS:
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/28b96d3a-c2a4-44e4-8314-aaf204aa352a
Xoxo7 e wanted $It always confuses me when they do that. I mean, why hide it at all and make you go through all the motions when you aren't looking for a ts to begin with? Does any hetero guy looking for a women suddenly have an epiphany when they find out and say "oh, ok I'll fuck a ts!" Pre-op, post-op, either way. I'd like to know. Do guys just change lanes mid-stream like that?
Dr StrangeLust
12-19-17, 10:46
Is willing to meet for 300 Wednesday. Checking her number yields nothing. Hoping for any helpful info here or via my inbox.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/11c21a64-2bb0-4726-be1a-521103b44236
I realize I'm new and all and am also new to SA, but I'll definitely contribute as I have more experience with the SA women. There are several other hotties who have made it clear they would play with whom I'm getting to know (Snapchat mostly) but haven't met because I don't have a lot of free time and I live in Wisconsin (SA disaster here ha) that I would share, probably best via my inbox.
Here's one more: PrincessDakota1, who wants 400:
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/55a96702-d7cd-ba30-fc57-6693840bb9bc
Thanks to all here for the very helpful information.
Member #5929
12-26-17, 12:24
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/b46fab2c-24af-4ebc-b918-2b87e8dd8472
She asks for $300 would be amazing but if not $200. She says she stays in the west loop.
She has a Facebook page. And I have her number. Anyone seen her? I would love to trade for a Latina or black that's a good experience. Please PM me.
Cuteblondebarbe: GPS -$500/ PPM. Likely a traveling pro.
https://seekingarrangement.com/member/d79027b0-fb8c-4b76-9fa7-9a8a08b9bd70
I met her last month. She splits her time between Mizzou and visiting her daughter in Chicago. Got her for $600 to spend the night. Money well spent.
Gorgeous face, tight body -- didn't like her boob job, but I just don't like fakes. Got two glasses of wine into her and then we fucked like 5 times. She is a squirter, so be warned. Hot and wild. All holes access too. She loves to fuck.
HaileyL- GPS - $500/ ppm.
https://seekingarrangement.com/member/e08a4482-a475-ab46-9ebd-f69d8db79007Has anyone seen her face? $500 is not practical expectations unless its an overnight. Got to stop taking their offers as the gospel. I've never had an overnight with a Practical for more than $500 and usually all access was discussed before hand.
Member #5929
12-26-17, 20:58
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/ca6aafda-6bdc-499c-a62d-1596a00d37bc
She wants $300. Salvadoran Latina. She says stays in worker park. 25 yo. She won't kiss until gets to know you. Anyone have any experiences with her?
ChicagoGoer
12-26-17, 22:31
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/b46fab2c-24af-4ebc-b918-2b87e8dd8472
She asks for $300 would be amazing but if not $200. She says she stays in the west loop.
She has a Facebook page. And I have her number. Anyone seen her? I would love to trade for a Latina or black that's a good experience. Please PM me.If you aren't in a pinch, I personally wouldn't recommend. Everything covered and performance can be lackluster depending on her mood. I was able to dream for 150 but forced to get a room. Photos are slightly outdated, she is a bit larger then those pics now.
ChicagoGoer
12-26-17, 22:34
Scammer beware:
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/7abcef7b-7abc-4ae0-941d-8f9ac10e296a
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/820bb76b-edd3-4ea0-aba3-9249b3ce3121The 18 year old is legit, met her for coffee but no FS or BJ per her rules. She is petite and hot but may be too much investment for little reward.
Butchcasidy
12-27-17, 04:21
Was curious if anyone has sampled this your peach? If so what was the donation?
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/02b99a00-b0ca-4420-a804-fabb565c9b73
Member #5929
12-27-17, 17:11
https://seekingarrangement.com/member/3cc17616-dad0-465b-a043-4309befe7c69
Meowzzz hit me up and wants $300 but looks like she will take less. Anyone have an experience with her?
https://seekingarrangement.com/member/3cc17616-dad0-465b-a043-4309befe7c69
Meowzzz hit me up and wants $300 but looks like she will take less. Anyone have an experience with her?She was the first one I ever met of SA I believe a few months ago. Was a lot bigger than her pics indicate, pretty much a small BBW, mostly in the caboose. Wasn't as cute as the pics lead you to believe either. She had to drive a long way to reach me so I didn't try to negotiate. Session was quick. Not my type physically so not repeat worthy for me, especially at that price point.
Member #5929
12-27-17, 18:05
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/ff34ea89-2c32-748c-24d7-b6804b24dfb8
Has anyone seen BarbadianPrincess from SA? She seems really nice. Totally my type. Anyone with any experiences with her?
GoldenGreek
12-30-17, 14:17
What does GPS mean?
This girl has GPS. She wants 500 per and says she gets it all the time. Real bitchy attitude when you tell her she is too high.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/3939edc2-8b46-4ac2-b60d-509b65ceb425
GoldenGreek
12-30-17, 15:26
The 18 year old is legit, met her for coffee but no FS or BJ per her rules. She is petite and hot but may be too much investment for little reward.What does the man get then? Just company / eye candy?
What does GPS mean?Golden Pussy Syndrome.
What does the man get then? Just company / eye candy?A couple years ago, SA was the best way to have a guaranteed good time and to not have to worry about any BS. But the last 8 months or so, it's all down hill. I had a girl text me that if I send her $100, she'll send me a couple nude / sexy pics. I told her that I can get free ones on Google. A date would be 150-200 and now they all think they're some high end Vegas showgirl. As long as some fool is willing to pay, the prices will continue to go up.
A couple years ago, SA was the best way to have a guaranteed good time and to not have to worry about any BS. But the last 8 months or so, it's all down hill. I had a girl text me that if I send her $100, she'll send me a couple nude / sexy pics. I told her that I can get free ones on Google. A date would be 150-200 and now they all think they're some high end Vegas showgirl. As long as some fool is willing to pay, the prices will continue to go up.True that.
Had a girl this week get mad at me. Spent the last two weeks scheduling our first meeting with her. She rescheduled last minute twice. Told her I was moving on. She begged to meet, needs money to fix her car ASAP. Next scheduled date, no show! Ride problems or whatever. Told her I'm done. She begged like crazy, will be over the next day and treat me extra well. Drum roll please. No call no show.
Next day. Bs excuses fly, told her to pound sand. Her reply "ok we'll just help me with my car then" Me: "hell will freeze over before that happens " Her: HOW CAN YOU DO THIS TO ME I NEED MY CAR FIXED OMG WHAT AM INSUPOOSED TO DO NOW. It's NOT FAIR!! "YOU ARE SO MEAN OMG ".
Had another girl I had seen several times delete my number and block me because I didn't want to advance her $1000 for her to buy Christmas presents. 22 year old called ME selfish and entitled because she needs, and feels entitled to having, my money more than I do.
Member #5589
12-31-17, 16:43
True that.
Had a girl this week get mad at me. Spent the last two weeks scheduling our first meeting with her. She rescheduled last minute twice. Told her I was moving on. She begged to meet, needs money to fix her car ASAP. Next scheduled date, no show! Ride problems or whatever. Told her I'm done. She begged like crazy, will be over the next day and treat me extra well. Drum roll please. No call no show.
Next day. Bs excuses fly, told her to pound sand. Her reply "ok we'll just help me with my car then" Me: "hell will freeze over before that happens " Her: HOW CAN YOU DO THIS TO ME I NEED MY CAR FIXED OMG WHAT AM INSUPOOSED TO DO NOW. It's NOT FAIR!! "YOU ARE SO MEAN OMG ".
Had another girl I had seen several times delete my number and block me because I didn't want to advance her $1000 for her to buy Christmas presents. 22 year old called ME selfish and entitled because she needs, and feels entitled to having, my money more than I do.I've found that a significant percentage of the girls on SA just like messing with guys, just as in this post, and have absolutely no intention of following through with an actual meet.
I've found that a significant percentage of the girls on SA just like messing with guys, just as in this post, and have absolutely no intention of following through with an actual meet.You figure all it takes is a few hot pictures and 30 minutes or so a day replying to a guys and eventually someone is going to bite. All it really takes is one guy to fall for it a month and you got your rent / mortgae paid. I see a lot of the BP girls who link their snapshot have "premium" offerings, if guys weren't paying they wouldn't all be doing it. Figure a good looking chick can pull in a few grand a month without providing any services.
Hey ya'll.
Happy New year! Just a question. Recently struck out on SA and was wondering if anyone still uses AF Finder. I know it's been around for a long time, but wanted to get a pulse of anyone's experience.
Appreciated as always!
DMichaels69
01-01-18, 11:40
Sounds like high school level antics. Unfortunately there are too many mongers with that maturity level which makes it easy pickings for the idiot women on that site.
I've found that a significant percentage of the girls on SA just like messing with guys, just as in this post, and have absolutely no intention of following through with an actual meet.
ItsHowdyDoody
01-01-18, 14:07
GPS could easily be called gullible people syndrome also. A hs girl from the site showed me the various ways they scam guys off of there. (because I was so persistent, and didn't blink when she tried to scam me) It really just takes one dummy to send 300-500 some girls way, and you then have another profile that stays up like a cockroach.
As far as people wanting free advice on random profiles they are questioning, you really have to make your own decision on that, based on time, just like the rest of us have that frequent the site. The girl I am using now, it took a few months of back and forth, and one over paying idiot I had to wait out, to get a consistent thing going. She is a just graduated, hot for high school chick, but in no way would I have gotten that handed to me by someone on the forum. It just takes time.
IlikeBlowjobs
01-04-18, 20:38
I live in will county, and have been working SA for about 6 months, off and on. I've gotten 2 regular hookups out of it, for pretty reasonable prices. They're not super hot, by any means, but one is 19 and a lot of fun. The other one is a nice person, but fairly blah on the sex. I've got another hot one that I'm trying to reel in currently, 18-19, very sexy. Slightly more cost, but worth it I think.
I find that being very direct, but not too crass is the way to go. I don't really offer them that much. One lady told me that most of the messages she gets are: "I want to fuck your ass while I choke you. ".
Act a little classy and it can work out. Also, make sure posted income is over 100 k.
Her profile has been deleted. Did you go thru with the meet? Was it worth it?She is a player like many other girls. She went with one SG who is paying a premium and doesn't know yet where he is getting into. But whatever, money makes those do anything for you. Stay safe.
Member #5929
01-08-18, 19:23
Anyone interested in seeing brunettegirl08 this weekend? She is coming in just for the weekend from Michigan. Out of my $ range. She is asking for 600.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/ea6a1a7d-a96f-4ae5-bea7-472051de7888
Hi there,
I am wondering has anyone seen these girls here: I am wondering if they are worth.
Wants 300 per meet: https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/71eb6986-3b9f-db84-229e-4529ae2a6411.
Wants 200 per meet: https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/2a2f6223-ad60-4c07-aa34-4d71a503e809.
Wants 300 per meet: https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/ecf707be-6bd3-4b79-bd39-81c6b6954523.
Wants 200 per meet: https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/79baaf62-fb3d-4ee3-8220-552e729346a3.
Wants 300 per meet: https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/d4acd8d9-2ca1-ef3d-294f-6a0e96b036df.
ItsHowdyDoody
01-09-18, 12:20
LOL, the pregnant one, or the crypto kitty, why would you entertain either of those at that price? The 41 year old I have seen on normal dating sites, and has been there for years. I am pretty certain that anyone that age should not be above a standard EMP parlor visit, when there are a lot hotter girls to be had at similar prices.
Hi there,
I am wondering has anyone seen these girls here: I am wondering if they are worth.
Wants 300 per meet: https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/71eb6986-3b9f-db84-229e-4529ae2a6411.
Wants 200 per meet: https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/2a2f6223-ad60-4c07-aa34-4d71a503e809.
Wants 300 per meet: https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/ecf707be-6bd3-4b79-bd39-81c6b6954523.
Wants 200 per meet: https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/79baaf62-fb3d-4ee3-8220-552e729346a3.
Wants 300 per meet: https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/d4acd8d9-2ca1-ef3d-294f-6a0e96b036df.
Why would you pay to bang Curvy and Few Extra Pounds girls when plenty of slim and athletic ones are available for the same price range? And certainly no shortage of average either.
Hi there,
I am wondering has anyone seen these girls here: I am wondering if they are worth.
Wants 300 per meet: https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/71eb6986-3b9f-db84-229e-4529ae2a6411.
Wants 200 per meet: https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/2a2f6223-ad60-4c07-aa34-4d71a503e809.
Wants 300 per meet: https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/ecf707be-6bd3-4b79-bd39-81c6b6954523.
Wants 200 per meet: https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/79baaf62-fb3d-4ee3-8220-552e729346a3.
Wants 300 per meet: https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/d4acd8d9-2ca1-ef3d-294f-6a0e96b036df.
LOL, the pregnant one, or the crypto kitty, why would you entertain either of those at that price? The 41 year old I have seen on normal dating sites, and has been there for years. I am pretty certain that anyone that age should not be above a standard EMP parlor visit, when there are a lot hotter girls to be had at similar prices.75% chance cryptos is a scam where you have to send cryptos before first date.
ItsHowdyDoody
01-10-18, 17:10
Why would you pay to bang Curvy and Few Extra Pounds girls when plenty of slim and athletic ones are available for the same price range? And certainly no shortage of average either.Exactly, even entertaining some of those that are below average at what should be super hot girls prices, just makes it harder to find the hot ones. If they hear of others that are not even close to good looking getting decent money (and they do talk, they do read forums, they do have friends on the site, and pass notes back about guys, etc.) it just drives the price of the hot ones up. So don't, or negotiate down.
Rocket Dork
01-10-18, 17:13
Anyone interested in seeing brunettegirl08 this weekend? She is coming in just for the weekend from Michigan. Out of my $ range. She is asking for 600.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/ea6a1a7d-a96f-4ae5-bea7-472051de7888Wow! She is WAY out of my range! LOL Rocket Dork.
ItsHowdyDoody
01-11-18, 11:57
75% chance cryptos is a scam where you have to send cryptos before first date.Crypto is also on POF fwiw. Why even bother with someone like that? Lilahxxxxxxx is the name there.
I dreamt of her mid last year. She has some drama. She works at a tanning salon. Asked for 250 and insisted for a hotel room. I had to take off from work early to make it work. While enroute she canceled saying she is unable to get out until later in the night. So that meet never happened. But later she kept texting the following days and one night I told her I happen to be in the area and can meet for a drink. Ended up doing a car date for just. 1 w bbj. She was thick and rushed the whole time. I don't think it was worth it for me.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/b46fab2c-24af-4ebc-b918-2b87e8dd8472
She asks for $300 would be amazing but if not $200. She says she stays in the west loop.
She has a Facebook page. And I have her number. Anyone seen her? I would love to trade for a Latina or black that's a good experience. Please PM me.
Wow! She is WAY out of my range! LOL Rocket Dork.If it's multiple hours I'd be interested. No way for 1 hour of play.
Member #5929
01-23-18, 22:59
She is from Bolingbrook. Latina. 4'11". She is looking for $300 tonight. Anyone had any experiences with her?
https://seekingarrangement.com/member/c012fda6-8589-49cd-ab16-84a5e8aa8abd
She is from Bolingbrook. Latina. 4'11". She is looking for $300 tonight. Anyone had any experiences with her?
https://seekingarrangement.com/member/c012fda6-8589-49cd-ab16-84a5e8aa8abdI would definitely take those funds and invest the time to see an agency girl for that price. Judging by her pics, her looks aren't enough. But that's just me. I am very picky and will only shell out the cash when I think the girl is a near 10.
Good luck if you pull the trigger though!
ItsHowdyDoody
01-24-18, 08:04
I would definitely take those funds and invest the time to see an agency girl for that price. Judging by her pics, her looks aren't enough. But that's just me. I am very picky and will only shell out the cash when I think the girl is a near 10.
Good luck if you pull the trigger though!Yea, she is more in the 200-250 range I would say. They do talk to other friends of theirs on the site, which you can find with detective work a bit. I have had much hotter for less, but I also am pretty slow into getting into what I really want from them also. I think the less people treat this like an agency site the better, these are mostly girls that just want a little extra cash. I stay away from the pros, or the one's I've seen on other sites, would rather "talk" one of the on the fence one's into something better. Anyways, the less people pay out that kind of cash for the lower quality girls, the better for us all.
I'd actually be less inclined to want them if another monger posted they did have experience with them. If I wanted someone who has been thru a barrage of guys, again I'd try an agency.
Yea, she is more in the 200-250 range I would say. They do talk to other friends of theirs on the site, which you can find with detective work a bit. I have had much hotter for less, but I also am pretty slow into getting into what I really want from them also. I think the less people treat this like an agency site the better, these are mostly girls that just want a little extra cash. I stay away from the pros, or the one's I've seen on other sites, would rather "talk" one of the on the fence one's into something better. Anyways, the less people pay out that kind of cash for the lower quality girls, the better for us all.
I'd actually be less inclined to want them if another monger posted they did have experience with them. If I wanted someone who has been thru a barrage of guys, again I'd try an agency.I haven't reactivated my membership but check the site from time to time, and one thing that I noticed is that SA recently updated terms of use. Now they don't want anyone setting up a pay per meet arrangement, as that would violate their terms. They legit want to be a dating site for sugar dads / babes.
Will it work? Who knows. Can you imagine finding some cutie college girls who agree to see you a few times for a few hundred bucks? True value! However, I doubt that's how things will turn out, even with the slight change in terms of use.
I haven't reactivated my membership but check the site from time to time, and one thing that I noticed is that SA recently updated terms of use. Now they don't want anyone setting up a pay per meet arrangement, as that would violate their terms. They legit want to be a dating site for sugar dads / babes.
Will it work? Who knows. Can you imagine finding some cutie college girls who agree to see you a few times for a few hundred bucks? True value! However, I doubt that's how things will turn out, even with the slight change in terms of use.I saw that too. I'm guessing that's advice from their legal team to cover their butt. There are already have plenty of scammers on SA who dupe guys to send them money and then ghost them. Bottom line is it needs to be beneficial for both parties. If you give them an allowance gift ahead of time with only promises I doubt you'll hear from them again.
ItsHowdyDoody
01-26-18, 08:52
I saw that too. I'm guessing that's advice from their legal team to cover their butt. There are already have plenty of scammers on SA who dupe guys to send them money and then ghost them. Bottom line is it needs to be beneficial for both parties. If you give them an allowance gift ahead of time with only promises I doubt you'll hear from them again.Yes I saw this also. I doubt it changes the sight much. It is pretty easy to flag a profile if they are doing something wrong, underage, or you catch them scamming. They are just being more proactive about it which is good. Plenty of guys tho will still send money without meeting someone, or fall for a "real" arrangement and send 3 k for no reason a month. That's the real slog of the site, guys getting desperate and sending too much money, or paying too much per meet for lessor quality girls. If you are gentlemanly in your replies on the site, really nothing can go wrong from this new disclaimer stand point. Just don't be so blatant.
Would you like to play with this nympho MILF? HUGE natural tits. All holes open. And she squirts like a fire hydrant. I met her through SA. She can host at her home in Aurora near the Premium Outlets. The thing is if you text her be quick to set a meeting up because she won't hesitate to block you. She loves sexting and dirty talk, so don't be shy. Just tell her when you can see her and how much you're offering.
The first 5 contributing seniors can pm me for her number. If you have a white SA girl or an UTR to offer me that would be great, but not necessary.
Troy Akerman
01-26-18, 12:36
Tried sending you a message. You are full.
Would you like to play with this nympho MILF? HUGE natural tits. All holes open. And she squirts like a fire hydrant. I met her through SA. She can host at her home in Aurora near the Premium Outlets. The thing is if you text her be quick to set a meeting up because she won't hesitate to block you. She loves sexting and dirty talk, so don't be shy. Just tell her when you can see her and how much you're offering.
The first 5 contributing seniors can pm me for her number. If you have a white SA girl or an UTR to offer me that would be great, but not necessary.
FruitNinja
01-26-18, 20:00
Is willing to meet for 300 Wednesday. Checking her number yields nothing. Hoping for any helpful info here or via my inbox.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/11c21a64-2bb0-4726-be1a-521103b44236
I realize I'm new and all and am also new to SA, but I'll definitely contribute as I have more experience with the SA women. There are several other hotties who have made it clear they would play with whom I'm getting to know (Snapchat mostly) but haven't met because I don't have a lot of free time and I live in Wisconsin (SA disaster here ha) that I would share, probably best via my inbox.
Here's one more: PrincessDakota1, who wants 400:
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/55a96702-d7cd-ba30-fc57-6693840bb9bc
Thanks to all here for the very helpful information.Only been on here for a few weeks and have been making a killing. Met three, two of which are fucking amazing in bed. Seems that most are a little chubby but a chubby 20 year old is right up my alley. These two are definitely traveling pros. They are not in Chicago anymore. One I had was a total dud. Cute as hell but a starfish. Couldn't suck dick for shit. I had one that wanted to have breakfast. If she wasn't interested no cost but if she was then it would be 300 and she would fuck me the next time. She wanted a $600 allowance. Yeah pay for my breakfast, give me $300 because you know she would be interested and then your number gets blocked. Do guys actually fall for this shit? Jeez!
SugarDaddyX
01-28-18, 22:48
I was seeing a hot 23 year old from the city. We agreed to $300 per meet, plus I had to pay for hotel and drinks, so we are talking about $400 per date. She did show me proof of her college bills she was going to pay off with the allowance. We met a couple times and had out of control rough, sweaty sex. There was good chemistry. She would orgasm so much, her juices would flow down the condom and leave my balls wet. Very satisfying, energy draining sex.
By the third date, she is trying to get me to raise the allowance to $375, not to mention I still have to pay for a hotel room. She reads me wrong as some desperate loser that she has got wrapped around her finger. I balk and tell her I can't go higher. She gets all pissed off and tries playing the guilt game, but I have none of it and just ignore her texts and calls. A week later she apologizes and says we can fuck at her apartment at the original allowance. I still ignore her. About three more weeks later, she is offering her apartment for $250 per date. She says she just needs my dick in her pussy. I am still debating whether to take up her new offer, but the moral of the story is: if you are fucking her like she has never been fucked before, you hold the bargaining power in the arrangement, not her.
SA actually accidentally upgraded me to a Diamond member so I am getting a higher volume of messages than I'm used to. If anyone is interested in trading info on verified performers, PM me.
SDX.
I haven't had a girl try to raise the rate, but I've had several drop their rate. Usually when I'm ready to move on to a new girl I'll just tell them my situation has changed at work and I need to scale back my activities. Some have in turn dropped their rate.
It could have been about the quality dick. But my hunch was that it was because they didn't want to lose weekly money with a decent guy. Girls always seem to say how guys on SA are d-bags, rude, creeps, fakes, etc. When they find a guy who's a good guy, not a fake, etc. They come to realize that it's worth it to take less money with a decent guy than go through the whole process of trying to weed through creeps to find another decent guy. A bird in the hand was better for her than jumping back into the SA pool.
Just my 2 cents and experience.
I was seeing a hot 23 year old from the city. We agreed to $300 per meet, plus I had to pay for hotel and drinks, so we are talking about $400 per date. She did show me proof of her college bills she was going to pay off with the allowance. We met a couple times and had out of control rough, sweaty sex. There was good chemistry. She would orgasm so much, her juices would flow down the condom and leave my balls wet. Very satisfying, energy draining sex.
By the third date, she is trying to get me to raise the allowance to $375, not to mention I still have to pay for a hotel room. She reads me wrong as some desperate loser that she has got wrapped around her finger. I balk and tell her I can't go higher. She gets all pissed off and tries playing the guilt game, but I have none of it and just ignore her texts and calls. A week later she apologizes and says we can fuck at her apartment at the original allowance. I still ignore her. About three more weeks later, she is offering her apartment for $250 per date. She says she just needs my dick in her pussy. I am still debating whether to take up her new offer, but the moral of the story is: if you are fucking her like she has never been fucked before, you hold the bargaining power in the arrangement, not her.
SA actually accidentally upgraded me to a Diamond member so I am getting a higher volume of messages than I'm used to. If anyone is interested in trading info on verified performers, PM me.
SDX.
I was seeing a hot 23 year old from the city. We agreed to $300 per meet, plus I had to pay for hotel and drinks, so we are talking about $400 per date. She did show me proof of her college bills she was going to pay off with the allowance. We met a couple times and had out of control rough, sweaty sex. There was good chemistry. She would orgasm so much, her juices would flow down the condom and leave my balls wet. Very satisfying, energy draining sex.
By the third date, she is trying to get me to raise the allowance to $375, not to mention I still have to pay for a hotel room. She reads me wrong as some desperate loser that she has got wrapped around her finger. I balk and tell her I can't go higher. She gets all pissed off and tries playing the guilt game, but I have none of it and just ignore her texts and calls. A week later she apologizes and says we can fuck at her apartment at the original allowance. I still ignore her. About three more weeks later, she is offering her apartment for $250 per date. She says she just needs my dick in her pussy. I am still debating whether to take up her new offer, but the moral of the story is: if you are fucking her like she has never been fucked before, you hold the bargaining power in the arrangement, not her.
SA actually accidentally upgraded me to a Diamond member so I am getting a higher volume of messages than I'm used to. If anyone is interested in trading info on verified performers, PM me.
SDX.Way too many other girls to play with than dealing with this GPS drama. Dump this one and find another girl to play with in your price range.
ItsHowdyDoody
01-29-18, 18:28
I was seeing a hot 23 year old from the city. We agreed to $300 per meet, plus I had to pay for hotel and drinks, so we are talking about $400 per date. She did show me proof of her college bills she was going to pay off with the allowance. We met a couple times and had out of control rough, sweaty sex. There was good chemistry. She would orgasm so much, her juices would flow down the condom and leave my balls wet. Very satisfying, energy draining sex.
By the third date, she is trying to get me to raise the allowance to $375, not to mention I still have to pay for a hotel room. She reads me wrong as some desperate loser that she has got wrapped around her finger. I balk and tell her I can't go higher. She gets all pissed off and tries playing the guilt game, but I have none of it and just ignore her texts and calls. A week later she apologizes and says we can fuck at her apartment at the original allowance. I still ignore her. About three more weeks later, she is offering her apartment for $250 per date. She says she just needs my dick in her pussy. I am still debating whether to take up her new offer, but the moral of the story is: if you are fucking her like she has never been fucked before, you hold the bargaining power in the arrangement, not her.
SA actually accidentally upgraded me to a Diamond member so I am getting a higher volume of messages than I'm used to. If anyone is interested in trading info on verified performers, PM me.
SDX.Just sounds like a battle of ego between arranger and arrangee. She maybe didn't like it or care / need it as much as you thought, but she may also have decided she was wrong to ask more. Someone like that is fishing around for other mongers so I would personally move on. The one I just let go was due to her getting a real bf, I never would have asked her for more than what she gave, out of the blue, and she wouldn't have jacked price on me out of the blue either. Just sounds like.
Something off, from someone not invested in the matter.
Hey guys,
I just found out about SA so my question is in order to be able to chat / start conversation with someone do you need to be a premium user.
Hey guys,
I just found out about SA so my question is in order to be able to chat / start conversation with someone do you need to be a premium user.Yes. Non premium access only let's you look.
Hey guys,
I just found out about SA so my question is in order to be able to chat / start conversation with someone do you need to be a premium user.Yup. That's their thing. You can look but you cannot touch without coughing up the $$.
Yup. That's their thing. You can look but you cannot touch without coughing up the $$.Ok so my quesrion is is it worth the money or to stick with NG girls from backpage till I get verified from EEC and Angelisangels.
I have been on SA--looking for 5 months and subscribed 2 months. It seems to be a buyer's market out here in Colorado; I didn't find it so much that way back in Illinois on a recent trip so YMMV. I would recommend only subscribing month to month. I had no trouble getting many, many good responses that were affordable. I am a fat, old retired guy. I just had 3 fantastic hours this morning with my 24 year old College babe. She's not the fittest girl on the planet, but her 38 DD's and fantastic deep kissing more than make up for any deficit in looks.
You can see my review in the Colorado Springs forum. I try to get a text number and / or email ASAP so I don't have to keep subscribing; I think it's expensive for the subscription. It is much better than Secret Benefits at least out here. The SB chat is TERRIBLE! This sugar baby thing is soooooo much better than the massage / escort scene--at least for me. I want to play, but I also want a connection to the girl as well. Happy hunting.
Hey guys,
I just found out about SA so my question is in order to be able to chat / start conversation with someone do you need to be a premium user.
Ok so my quesrion is is it worth the money or to stick with NG girls from backpage till I get verified from EEC and Angelisangels.It depends. If money is no object than it probably is. Even if money isn't an object- many guys won't give the sugar the gals on there are looking for. How picky are you? Are you looking for 21 yr old hardbodies or if they're out of shape / stretch marks. fat, or older are you cool with that? Can you afford a nice hotel plus incidentals like a night out on the town along with their gift? I like them fit and in shape myself. Many of the replies I got back wanted 400-600+ and that wasn't necessarily an overnight more like an hour or two plus I still would have had to get a room for many of those. One asked for minimum 1000 (she was much older than 21- like 40 by the way) and I'm in relatively good shape for my age, which I turned down by the way. If you're younger and in good shape you might have more success. Now this was just for the Chicago area which is pricey. Other parts of the country are probably cheaper. So if you travel a lot that might be better- especially if your company picks up the hotel cost. The ones that say they do want to meet sometimes go dark or worse are no shows. I'm not sure why? Maybe their profiles are fake or maybe they're not serious. Whatever the reason- booking a room ahead of time is risky as you might have to eat that cost as well as your time. Also, some on there are pros pretending to be regular gals which I wasn't looking for.
If you decide to do it- I'd only try it for a month or two. Also, there's a ton of good info on the Richmond, VA forum. I would read some of the basics and try to learn from the more experienced sugar mongers- keeping in mind that Richmond is cheaper than Chicago so the gifts are lower there.
It depends. If money is no object than it probably is. Even if money isn't an object- many guys won't give the sugar the gals on there are looking for. How picky are you? Are you looking for 21 yr old hardbodies or if they're out of shape / stretch marks. fat, or older are you cool with that? Can you afford a nice hotel plus incidentals like a night out on the town along with their gift? I like them fit and in shape myself. Many of the replies I got back wanted 400-600+ and that wasn't necessarily an overnight more like an hour or two plus I still would have had to get a room for many of those. One asked for minimum 1000 (she was much older than 21- like 40 by the way) and I'm in relatively good shape for my age, which I turned down by the way. If you're younger and in good shape you might have more success. Now this was just for the Chicago area which is pricey. Other parts of the country are probably cheaper. So if you travel a lot that might be better- especially if your company picks up the hotel cost. The ones that say they do want to meet sometimes go dark or worse are no shows. I'm not sure why? Maybe their profiles are fake or maybe they're not serious. Whatever the reason- booking a room ahead of time is risky as you might have to eat that cost as well as your time. Also, some on there are pros pretending to be regular gals which I wasn't looking for.
If you decide to do it- I'd only try it for a month or two. Also, there's a ton of good info on the Richmond, VA forum. I would read some of the basics and try to learn from the more experienced sugar mongers- keeping in mind that Richmond is cheaper than Chicago so the gifts are lower there.Wow thanks for the awsome reply will try to see what is the best thanks alot again for the advice.
ItsHowdyDoody
01-31-18, 09:41
Frankly, if you are worried about a subscription cost, you won't have a lot of success. Chicago is tough, as it is more expensive. I have eaten the cost of hotels a few times mid day, with nothing to show for it. (with tenacity tho, that person ended up actually showing up after a few hotel misses, and became my regular, just grad hs, super hot chick) I am fit and have no problem meeting someone on my own, so that helps. I negotiate, but don't insult them either.
The yuckier looking girls I won't pay anything more than a trip to a eurospa, or NG girls. Anyone over 30 I do not even bother with. (sugar daddy, not cavities) Really, since that is not my motive for the site to just have a volume of girls, I don't partake. As Kellster said some seasoned pros are on their pretending to be a bit innocent. Others are fakes, or hs girls just trying to get guys in trouble. (or scam them) You can get to know that a bit after being on there a while. This one was so hot, and so good, I almost found myself taking the bait and just sending her money for her persistence, LOL. I did not though. We had coffee for free and I moved on.
Have tried in Michigan and Wisconsin, and they are a bit cheaper, although I did find more scammers in those areas for whatever reason.
It really isn't an escort site. Until you find the super hot one you are looking for, can agree to something decent, and then its much better than agency. It can be much worse also though, their are no sure things.
FruitNinja
02-03-18, 07:29
Frankly, if you are worried about a subscription cost, you won't have a lot of success. Chicago is tough, as it is more expensive. I have eaten the cost of hotels a few times mid day, with nothing to show for it. (with tenacity tho, that person ended up actually showing up after a few hotel misses, and became my regular, just grad hs, super hot chick) I am fit and have no problem meeting someone on my own, so that helps. I negotiate, but don't insult them either.
The yuckier looking girls I won't pay anything more than a trip to a eurospa, or NG girls. Anyone over 30 I do not even bother with. (sugar daddy, not cavities) Really, since that is not my motive for the site to just have a volume of girls, I don't partake. As Kellster said some seasoned pros are on their pretending to be a bit innocent. Others are fakes, or hs girls just trying to get guys in trouble. (or scam them) You can get to know that a bit after being on there a while. This one was so hot, and so good, I almost found myself taking the bait and just sending her money for her persistence, LOL. I did not though. We had coffee for free and I moved on.
Have tried in Michigan and Wisconsin, and they are a bit cheaper, although I did find more scammers in those areas for whatever reason.
It really isn't an escort site. Until you find the super hot one you are looking for, can agree to something decent, and then its much better than agency. It can be much worse also though, their are no sure things.I don't see these problems. I spot it easily, I move on. On some points I agree. Younger is better. Naive, more pliable, physically and mentally. My 30 year old (Body 8. 5 Face Solid 8+ is much more demanding than the 24 year old. A mix of Filipino and Blonde European. Stunning natural face. A little chubby but I'm OK with it. She behaves when I'm with her and she has fun as well. Shy, smarter than she projects. To me the psychology is automatic. If you have anything your willing to share or tell me please do. Until then I will continue to hunt this playground of cuties.
I don't see these problems. I spot it easily, I move on. On some points I agree. Younger is better. Naive, more pliable, physically and mentally. My 30 year old (Body 8. 5 Face Solid 8+ is much more demanding than the 24 year old. A mix of Filipino and Blonde European. Stunning natural face. A little chubby but I'm OK with it. She behaves when I'm with her and she has fun as well. Shy, smarter than she projects. To me the psychology is automatic. If you have anything your willing to share or tell me please do. Until then I will continue to hunt this playground of cuties.Couldn't agree more. I've gravitated in the past few years exclusively to SA, less risk, more discrete. From what I've seen, even though everyone wants the young, 20 year old hardbody, the baggage that comes along with that doesn't make it worth it. My 29 year old (DD enhanced, 120 lbs. Body 9, face 9) understands the friendship, knows and LIKES what her end of the arrangement, and gets how important discretion is. If you can find a single mom in her late 20's / early 30's you'll have alot more luck than mining for the diamond in the rough 21 year old. Of course, allowance can be higher with older and they may ultimately be looking for more than just casual meets every so often. Especially if they'are the model, or ex-model type, but just manage that upfront. Always check job listed and education on the profile. Good way to tell. MUA, aestheticians, in some cases dancers (by that age they're on the down side), are a great well to tap. Just my 2 cents.
Has anyone seen Svetanaaaaa, or have any info? I have traded a lot of messages with her. She might have GPS.
Thanks.
BT.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/2cd81775-fde9-cb46-6675-eeb7e340a43b
ItsHowdyDoody
02-04-18, 11:53
I don't see these problems. I spot it easily, I move on. On some points I agree. Younger is better. Naive, more pliable, physically and mentally. My 30 year old (Body 8. 5 Face Solid 8+ is much more demanding than the 24 year old. A mix of Filipino and Blonde European. Stunning natural face. A little chubby but I'm OK with it. She behaves when I'm with her and she has fun as well. Shy, smarter than she projects. To me the psychology is automatic. If you have anything your willing to share or tell me please do. Until then I will continue to hunt this playground of cuties.No it sounds like you have a good thing going! I def think older can be easier, but they also can be on the downside and are sometimes jealous of the younger girls, and know this maybe their last hurrah. Over 30 I wouldn't even bother with honestly. The easier, more readily available age is probably 27-30 or so. Younger is tougher, but more rewarding if you get one, to me at least. I've turn down a lot of 5's, 6's, and 7's to go after 9, 10's, just because it is more fun.
As far as that Svetlana is concerned or whatever, from the pic she has zero right to have any syndrome of any kind. Talk her down to a manageable dollar amount, or move on. I would guess she is bigger than the picture with the only shot she has, probably tatted up, def not wholesome, possibly a pro. Just my sense, never talked to, wouldn't try to.
As far as that Svetlana is concerned or whatever, from the pic she has zero right to have any syndrome of any kind. Talk her down to a manageable dollar amount, or move on. I would guess she is bigger than the picture with the only shot she has, probably tatted up, def not wholesome, possibly a pro. Just my sense, never talked to, wouldn't try to.I saw her private pics a while ago. I did not see any tats, but that can change overnight, as we all know. She also looked more "average" than slim, but still very do able. Based on the conversations I had with her I thought she might be a semi pro.
FruitNinja
02-05-18, 20:27
Couldn't agree more. I've gravitated in the past few years exclusively to SA, less risk, more discrete. From what I've seen, even though everyone wants the young, 20 year old hardbody, the baggage that comes along with that doesn't make it worth it. My 29 year old (DD enhanced, 120 lbs. Body 9, face 9) understands the friendship, knows and LIKES what her end of the arrangement, and gets how important discretion is. If you can find a single mom in her late 20's / early 30's you'll have alot more luck than mining for the diamond in the rough 21 year old. Of course, allowance can be higher with older and they may ultimately be looking for more than just casual meets every so often. Especially if they'are the model, or ex-model type, but just manage that upfront. Always check job listed and education on the profile. Good way to tell. MUA, aestheticians, in some cases dancers (by that age they're on the down side), are a great well to tap. Just my 2 cents.That's interesting. I met a dancer, maybe an ex dancer and have had her willing but on hold. She was stripping out of town told me she lived in Hyde Park, she actually lived on the edge of Englewood. Not sure what to make of it. The location got me a little cautious about inviting her to my house but she's hot. Thoughts?
FruitNinja
02-05-18, 20:31
As far as that Svetlana is concerned or whatever, from the pic she has zero right to have any syndrome of any kind. Talk her down to a manageable dollar amount, or move on. I would guess she is bigger than the picture with the only shot she has, probably tatted up, def not wholesome, possibly a pro. Just my sense, never talked to, wouldn't try to.The fact that she's asking you to "don't waste my time" tells me she's a pro. There's a lot of them. At the end of the day anyone that has been in the hobby in one form or another know to expect the unexpected.
That's interesting. I met a dancer, maybe an ex dancer and have had her willing but on hold. She was stripping out of town told me she lived in Hyde Park, she actually lived on the edge of Englewood. Not sure what to make of it. The location got me a little cautious about inviting her to my house but she's hot. Thoughts?Never invite them to your home. That's asking for trouble imo. Meet her at a bar or for coffee if you're going to meet. If things go well you can go to a hotel afterwards if you think she's cool and genuinely likes you. She sounds like a pro with possibly a pimp though. I'd probably pass, but it's your call.
ItsHowdyDoody
02-06-18, 15:19
Tracing some of the phone numbers is hilarious sometimes. For every wholesome super hot, somewhat down on her luck ex cheerleader, there is some thuggish dancer whose a seasoned pro.
Fruit I think you were pointing your quote at someone else, I recommended to stay clear or talk her down, she does look / sound like a pro. If I wanted that kind of thing, I'd use an agency. I don't even want an ex dancer even.
Just me, but even the wholesome 19 why / o I did have, I did not invite her to my home. Too young, too much trouble, it just takes one bad argument and her knowing where you live is a bad thing all the sudden. Plenty of social media, or other ways other than having a pimp, to harm oneself. She knew my first name, and that was that. I searched her facebook to make sure a bunch of her friends were not also on there, as they sometimes work in teams. Do your own due homework really.
Never invite them to your home. That's asking for trouble imo. Meet her at a bar or for coffee if you're going to meet. If things go well you can go to a hotel afterwards if you think she's cool and genuinely likes you. She sounds like a pro with possibly a pimp though. I'd probably pass, but it's your call.Since stripping is sex work them by definition she would be a pro but I wouldn't assume she had a pimp. Some people are ashamed of their neighborhood or want to say a part of the city they think more people know about. Agree I would never ever allow a provider into my home or know where I live, just a recipe for a setup or blackmail. I'm married and I don't even like my fat ugly house cleaning ladies in the house without my wife there.
FruitNinja
02-08-18, 09:10
Never invite them to your home. That's asking for trouble imo. Meet her at a bar or for coffee if you're going to meet. If things go well you can go to a hotel afterwards if you think she's cool and genuinely likes you. She sounds like a pro with possibly a pimp though. I'd probably pass, but it's your call.I never take them to my house on the first go around. But I can usually feel out bad people so if after we break the cherry and I feel she's OK, no problem bringing them home. I live in a upper middle class neighborhood, and I'm comfortable in my own house. I can understand if you are married but I'm single. The police department is 5 blocks from my house and I always slip that in as in how safe my neighborhood is because of the location of the PD. I've been doing CL and now SA for over ten years and have had two dozen or more to my house and never a problem. Now if I felt they were a pro or something then no way.
FruitNinja
02-08-18, 09:11
Meet this cute 19-year-old Latina. Cute as all Plays water polo for a local university so the body is tight and form. Just perfect. We meet for lunch, and then she wants to go bowling. We get to the bowling thing and I start making out in the car. She has no problem with it. DFK and all. Let's me paw her body without any hesitation. We stop at my house and hang out for a while. Driving her home, we start discussing what we're looking for. We're both on the same page. She says she doesn't sleep with anyone unless it's after five dates. I'm ok with that. She's clearly infatuated with me because I have real life game and she's in love with it. I drop her off at home and we spend 45 minutes talking in front of her parents' house. I barely get home and she's calling me and we talk for another half hour. I ask her who wore the pants in her house and she says her father. I ask her to really think about the question again and she says, "you know, you're right it is my mom. ".
One hitch. She says she's interviewing one other guy for the position. I say whoa! "I'm not interested in getting into a competition with some guy. " I've learned that dating sites are shit because there's always that hope that the next guy or girl will be better, so you / they have a hard time committing on the hope that the next message in the inbox will be Mr. Or Mrs. Perfect. So, I tell her I bring plenty to the table and am not getting into something like this. That was on the ride to her house. Yet she still called me after. She also texted additional pictures.
Not sure how I'll play it but I think I will wait and see if she texts. I'm not texting first. She's a simple girl, 19, never really experienced anything in her life. She's talking about going to see Hamilton. That's a hefty fee for two tickets here in Chicago. She's also a bit of a freak from what she's told me. Yet she has a five-date rule. Sounds to me like she just wants to be shown the town. Interestingly enough she had no problem being touchy feely with a guy almost 3 times her age. In a bowling alley no less. She's a blast but I think she's playing guys just for the adventures. We'll see.
When I got home I facetimed the 24-year-old that I've been doing for a while. The 30-year-old smoking hottie texted me that she got me new sheets for my house at half price from her friend that works at Bloomingdale's. I've also got a three-hour fuck date with a 25-year-old spinner for $250.
The one thing that this SA does for sure is take up a lot of time. Fortunately, I have plenty.
ItsHowdyDoody
02-08-18, 12:57
Meet this cute 19-year-old Latina. Cute as all Plays water polo for a local university so the body is tight and form. Just perfect. We meet for lunch, and then she wants to go bowling. We get to the bowling thing and I start making out in the car. She has no problem with it. DFK and all. Let's me paw her body without any hesitation. We stop at my house and hang out for a while. Driving her home, we start discussing what we're looking for. We're both on the same page. She says she doesn't sleep with anyone unless it's after five dates. I'm ok with that. She's clearly infatuated with me because I have real life game and she's in love with it. I drop her off at home and we spend 45 minutes talking in front of her parents' house. I barely get home and she's calling me and we talk for another half hour. I ask her who wore the pants in her house and she says her father. I ask her to really think about the question again and she says, "you know, you're right it is my mom. ".
One hitch. She says she's interviewing one other guy for the position. I say whoa! "I'm not interested in getting into a competition with some guy. " I've learned that dating sites are shit because there's always that hope that the next guy or girl will be better, so you / they have a hard time committing on the hope that the next message in the inbox will be Mr. Or Mrs. Perfect. So, I tell her I bring plenty to the table and am not getting into something like this. That was on the ride to her house. Yet she still called me after. She also texted additional pictures.
Not sure how I'll play it but I think I will wait and see if she texts. I'm not texting first. She's a simple girl, 19, never really experienced anything in her life. She's talking about going to see Hamilton. That's a hefty fee for two tickets here in Chicago. She's also a bit of a freak from what she's told me. Yet she has a five-date rule. Sounds to me like she just wants to be shown the town. Interestingly enough she had no problem being touchy feely with a guy almost 3 times her age. In a bowling alley no less. She's a blast but I think she's playing guys just for the adventures. We'll see.
When I got home I facetimed the 24-year-old that I've been doing for a while. The 30-year-old smoking hottie texted me that she got me new sheets for my house at half price from her friend that works at Bloomingdale's. I've also got a three-hour fuck date with a 25-year-old spinner for $250.
The one thing that this SA does for sure is take up a lot of time. Fortunately, I have plenty.Nice on all that going. Yes it can take up time. I would say though, with the 19 , don't take any chances, verify her age. Make sure she does it, especially if she is sending texts.
CoolPatrick
02-08-18, 15:02
http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/showthread.php?4167-Escort-Reports&p=3719051&viewfull=1#post3719051.
This is a UTR girl at Nashville on SA. I don't go for SA route but I hope you guys have great options like this. .
The one thing that this SA does for sure is take up a lot of time. Fortunately, I have plenty.That is certainly true. I can't keep up with the current girls in my rotation, yet the lure of what else is out there continues to be hard to resist.
FruitNinja
02-09-18, 11:09
Nice on all that going. Yes it can take up time. I would say though, with the 19 , don't take any chances, verify her age. Make sure she does it, especially if she is sending texts.Yeah she's supposed to hang out all day Sunday. That's when I'll hit her up on the ID. I don't do anything without that. I'm pretty sure she's of age. Saw her college I'd.
FruitNinja
02-09-18, 11:11
That is certainly true. I can't keep up with the current girls in my rotation, yet the lure of what else is out there continues to be hard to resist.My problem now is the young one wants monogamous and I've been off the site since I started talking to her. The site shows when the last time a female was on the site, I'm assuming it's the same the other way around. Actually I'm going to PM you.
The site shows when the last time a female was on the site, I'm assuming it's the same the other way around. Actually I'm going to PM you.Privacy settings Hide this in terms of actual date / time stamp. HOWEVER.
You do show up with activity as "Hidden" and if she sorts by most recently active, you appear in order of your activity without the actual date / time showing. So her feed would show Joe Blow. ONLINE, YOU -- HIDDEN, Hayood Jablome - 1 HOUR AGO and she can do the math.
LatinPoker
02-12-18, 20:59
That is certainly true. I can't keep up with the current girls in my rotation, yet the lure of what else is out there continues to be hard to resist.The lure of something new seems to keep us all in the hobby. Be safe out there!
ThrilHouse
02-13-18, 14:35
Anybody willing to get information on a SA girl? I don't have premium.
Membership and she keeps messaging me. I had premium but got nothing from it as I didn't have time to invest. Usually go the pay route, the girls does seem like game but don't want to pony up the $, for more duds. PM if you could help, just looking for outside contact for her. Long shot but worth a try!
FruitNinja
02-14-18, 02:37
I'm her third meet (she seems pretty normal and open) and the first to get to home plate. A little busy for my taste. She has a lot going on. Kind of a pain to see but I think it will be worth it. In her mind we are dating. I didn't comment because I wanted that ass. As nice as I though it would be. If she can slow down a little she's definitely a long term prospect. Typical psychology. Same hot buttons.
She's a smart Latina, lots of personality. Joked about who changed her heat on her side of the car. HAHAHA!
We play in a crazy house. But the ends are worth the means.
FruitNinja
02-16-18, 10:26
So I get a PM from a member yesterday. Not going to mention any names. Goes something like this. "Hey when you're done with the Latina can you pass her on to me?" It doesn't work that way. When I explain that you have to do your homework and or join the site I get a profanity filled reply. Mind you this is the first time this guy has ever messaged me. I don't know the guy from Adam. I'm not sure what the thinking is here but it costs a lot of time and a lot of money to play this game. If you can't score on SA go back to paying for pros. I'm amazed at the gall of some guys.
ItsHowdyDoody
02-16-18, 12:31
So I get a PM from a member yesterday. Not going to mention any names. Goes something like this. "Hey when you're done with the Latina can you pass her on to me?" It doesn't work that way. When I explain that you have to do your homework and or join the site I get a profanity filled reply. Mind you this is the first time this guy has ever messaged me. I don't know the guy from Adam. I'm not sure what the thinking is here but it costs a lot of time and a lot of money to play this game. If you can't score on SA go back to paying for pros. I'm amazed at the gall of some guys.Ya, this isn't an agency section. I have had a few of those types also. It's almost better to just post the profiles of ones we know to be scams or a waste of time. Posting a positive review or highlighting a profile, sorta defeats the time, effort of the arrangement site to begin with. I doubt fruit or anyone who has taken time to weed thru everyone, is going to just hand a girl over like a trading card.
I doubt fruit or anyone who has taken time to weed thru everyone, is going to just hand a girl over like a trading card.Some expect that.
Gerkin Jerkin
02-16-18, 13:19
So I get a PM from a member yesterday. Not going to mention any names. Goes something like this. "Hey when you're done with the Latina can you pass her on to me?" It doesn't work that way. When I explain that you have to do your homework and or join the site I get a profanity filled reply. Mind you this is the first time this guy has ever messaged me. I don't know the guy from Adam. I'm not sure what the thinking is here but it costs a lot of time and a lot of money to play this game. If you can't score on SA go back to paying for pros. I'm amazed at the gall of some guys.One thing I like about this site is the flow of information between Mongers. What do you care about passing on info about someone you are done with? Especially if you clear it with her. I'm not sure what the problem is.
Been doing the SA bit for a few weeks. Mostly unanswered messages. A few no shows. I get it. Not many hot young girls want to bone a sixty year old. But I keep trying. I have had some luck occasionally which is what keeps me playing the game. Attached is a photo taken yesterday afternoon after doing all manners of dirty and nasty things to this young lady. And no, I am not sharing, at least for the moment, but trying to tell you that sometimes you get lucky.
She pulled her profile about an hour after we met. She wants me to see her once a week. Which I will do for a while. And guys. Those are triple D's.
Randolph.
Regnet Exitium
02-16-18, 14:58
Been doing the SA bit for a few weeks. Mostly unanswered messages. A few no shows. I get it. Not many hot young girls want to bone a sixty year old. But I keep trying. I have had some luck occasionally which is what keeps me playing the game. Attached is a photo taken yesterday afternoon after doing all manners of dirty and nasty things to this young lady. And no, I am not sharing, at least for the moment, but trying to tell you that sometimes you get lucky.
She pulled her profile about an hour after we met. She wants me to see her once a week. Which I will do for a while. And guys. Those are triple D's.
Randolph.Holy fuck I don't want digits just need to see more of those big tits please post some more pics!
Been doing the SA bit for a few weeks. Mostly unanswered messages. A few no shows. I get it. Not many hot young girls want to bone a sixty year old. But I keep trying. I have had some luck occasionally which is what keeps me playing the game. Attached is a photo taken yesterday afternoon after doing all manners of dirty and nasty things to this young lady. And no, I am not sharing, at least for the moment, but trying to tell you that sometimes you get lucky.
She pulled her profile about an hour after we met. She wants me to see her once a week. Which I will do for a while. And guys. Those are triple D's.
Randolph.Congrats and well done! SA can be a bit challenging, but when you find that diamond in the rough it definitely pays off.
FarFarAway
02-16-18, 15:26
Been doing the SA bit for a few weeks. Mostly unanswered messages. A few no shows. I get it. Not many hot young girls want to bone a sixty year old. But I keep trying. I have had some luck occasionally which is what keeps me playing the game. Attached is a photo taken yesterday afternoon after doing all manners of dirty and nasty things to this young lady. And no, I am not sharing, at least for the moment, but trying to tell you that sometimes you get lucky.
She pulled her profile about an hour after we met. She wants me to see her once a week. Which I will do for a while. And guys. Those are triple D's.
Randolph.Don't sell yourself short, Randolph. You just have to find the right girl. I have been in the bowl less than 2 years and have had several who are 1/3 my age. I have a 19 YO on the line right now who has no interest in any sugar, just lessons. They are on SA, they are on a site I troll called PantyDeal, on CL, in the mall, they are all over. They have real daddy issues, and they are submissive. I think I've started to be able to recognize a look, but if I can get one to message me and ask, it becomes clear. FarFarAway.
Y It's almost better to just post the profiles of ones we know to be scams or a waste of time. This board isn't that active which sucks because at least posting the bad ones would save us all a lot of time and effort (and money). Those of us who have done our own legwork know what goes into it and we aren't going to pass on good ones so easily. Trading is OK but even that hasn't been that good on this board.
Stay away from this one, she's only out to collect money in advance and then will block you and go silent. She's got multiple profiles under similar variations of this username too.
Letshaveagoodtimexo - https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/b22c15cb-28d9-4aa9-8f3c-b2c0f787ab87.
This one is a waste of time. Pics aren't even close to accurate- she's a small BBW at least twice the size of her pics and not nearly as pretty. Dead fish, all covered, not worth your time.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/5b67092c-6fe7-4fc4-bf49-ec9ffa89a78f
Been doing the SA bit for a few weeks. Mostly unanswered messages. A few no shows. I get it. Not many hot young girls want to bone a sixty year old. But I keep trying. I have had some luck occasionally which is what keeps me playing the game. Attached is a photo taken yesterday afternoon after doing all manners of dirty and nasty things to this young lady. And no, I am not sharing, at least for the moment, but trying to tell you that sometimes you get lucky.
She pulled her profile about an hour after we met. She wants me to see her once a week. Which I will do for a while. And guys. Those are triple D's.
Randolph.Yowza! Showoff! LOL congrats man. You are one of the lucky few.
Al Melrose
02-16-18, 21:08
Been doing the SA bit for a few weeks. Mostly unanswered messages. A few no shows. I get it. Not many hot young girls want to bone a sixty year old. But I keep trying. I have had some luck occasionally which is what keeps me playing the game. Attached is a photo taken yesterday afternoon after doing all manners of dirty and nasty things to this young lady. And no, I am not sharing, at least for the moment, but trying to tell you that sometimes you get lucky.
She pulled her profile about an hour after we met. She wants me to see her once a week. Which I will do for a while. And guys. Those are triple D's.
Randolph.Do you mind telling how much this arrangement is costing you?
Congrats and well done! SA can be a bit challenging, but when you find that diamond in the rough it definitely pays off.Agreed 100 percent. Diamonds are out there. But they're far and few between and take lots of time to find.
FruitNinja
02-17-18, 08:49
One thing I like about this site is the flow of information between Mongers. What do you care about passing on info about someone you are done with? Especially if you clear it with her. I'm not sure what the problem is.I care and think it would be very disrespectful to ask a girl you've developed a connection with if you could just hand her off to the next guy like she's a piece of meat. And why would I spend mt time and effort to spoon feed someone lazy that doesn't want to do the footwork. I'm not someone's agent. I already spend a significant amount of time and money in this hobby.
I have no problem telling anyone how I do it or what has worked for me but I'm not doing anyone's work for them. Teach a man to fish.
FruitNinja
02-17-18, 08:51
Been doing the SA bit for a few weeks. Mostly unanswered messages. A few no shows. I get it. Not many hot young girls want to bone a sixty year old. But I keep trying. I have had some luck occasionally which is what keeps me playing the game. Attached is a photo taken yesterday afternoon after doing all manners of dirty and nasty things to this young lady. And no, I am not sharing, at least for the moment, but trying to tell you that sometimes you get lucky.
She pulled her profile about an hour after we met. She wants me to see her once a week. Which I will do for a while. And guys. Those are triple D's.
Randolph.Well done!
FruitNinja
02-17-18, 09:56
This one is a keeper. Freshly showered after the fun.
This one is a keeper. Freshly showered after the fun.Good work. Your comments about your efforts and how you treat her are excellent. I think the value of the arrangement forum is to let people know about the rip off artists and scammers, as well as the ones that are pro or semi-pro. When you find a keeper like this one, I think it is unreasonable for other monger to expect you to share her information. When the time comes, and your arrangement with her ends, you can always share the link to her profile.
I care and think it would be very disrespectful to ask a girl you've developed a connection with if you could just hand her off to the next guy like she's a piece of meat. And why would I spend mt time and effort to spoon feed someone lazy that doesn't want to do the footwork. I'm not someone's agent. I already spend a significant amount of time and money in this hobby.
I have no problem telling anyone how I do it or what has worked for me but I'm not doing anyone's work for them. Teach a man to fish.Agreed 100 percent.
FruitNinja
02-17-18, 14:11
Some expect that.If only life were that easy. I think part of the reason I've had good success with the SB route is that I treat them with respect. I even treat pros with respect. I've shared CL short term girls before and it was a disaster at the girls expense. That's not how I roll. Most of these girls are young and naive. I can honestly say that I have loved them all and they have been very good to me in return. This 19 year old has been through some real trauma in her life. I will help her get past that because I care for her as a person. All my long term SB's have benefited from being with me. I stay in touch with all of them. I remember their birthdays. I randomly reach out to just say "I hope you're well. ".
Most of the ones I've been with have had some bad experience with men or boys their age. That's what they're running from. You have to know how to get them back on track. To just give out their information to a complete stranger is beyond my comprehension.
SA is the best site to date. If you can't score there you're doing something wrong. Or maybe you're the guy they are running from. There is no cookie cutter answer to "how do you do it?" All I can say is that guys need to sharpen their skills. You need to have some game, not be a jerk, and know the psychology of what makes these girls tick. Sell yourself, differentiate yourself from the crowd and above all when you meet them, make them laugh. It's no different than real life.
If only life were that easy. I think part of the reason I've had good success with the SB route is that I treat them with respect. I even treat pros with respect. I've shared CL short term girls before and it was a disaster at the girls expense. That's not how I roll. Most of these girls are young and naive. I can honestly say that I have loved them all and they have been very good to me in return. This 19 year old has been through some real trauma in her life. I will help her get past that because I care for her as a person. All my long term SB's have benefited from being with me. I stay in touch with all of them. I remember their birthdays. I randomly reach out to just say "I hope you're well. ".
Most of the ones I've been with have had some bad experience with men or boys their age. That's what they're running from. You have to know how to get them back on track. To just give out their information to a complete stranger is beyond my comprehension.
SA is the best site to date. If you can't score there you're doing something wrong. Or maybe you're the guy they are running from. There is no cookie cutter answer to "how do you do it?" All I can say is that guys need to sharpen their skills. You need to have some game, not be a jerk, and know the psychology of what makes these girls tick. Sell yourself, differentiate yourself from the crowd and above all when you meet them, make them laugh. It's no different than real life.Some of the girls I see have been through bad life experiences. Some just need to talk to someone they can trust. Show some kindness and compassion it's surprising how much some of these girls will tell you about their life experiences. I remember their birthdays as well. They really appreciate that.
This one is a keeper. Freshly showered after the fun.Way to go, Ninja. I've had a lot of luck on arr finders, and a little luck on whatsyourprice. I guess I need to check out SA. Thanks for the posts.
This is the first I am hearing of this sort of. I met a stripper at 390 who had mentioned a site like this but I was not really listening. So I am just wondering are they all just like escorts or is it a dating site? From the reviews it sounds like more of a dating site.
FruitNinja
02-18-18, 01:41
This is the first I am hearing of this sort of. I met a stripper at 390 who had mentioned a site like this but I was not really listening. So I am just wondering are they all just like escorts or is it a dating site? From the reviews it sounds like more of a dating site.It's a sugar baby site but there are pros there as well.
FruitNinja
02-18-18, 01:49
Some of the girls I see have been through bad life experiences. Some just need to talk to someone they can trust. Show some kindness and compassion it's surprising how much some of these girls will tell you about their life experiences. I remember their birthdays as well. They really appreciate that.Ron M,
I treat it as dating. The young Latina actually asked me "what are we?" After three dates and two good sessions. I replied "what do you want us to be?" She says she wants to be dating. I said sure. And to your point she has had some trauma in the dating arena. I have her psyche figured out. She tells me everything. Word of warning to guys getting involved with a 19 year old. You are dealing with a child. You have to overlook a lot of immaturity even if they are mature for their age. It comes out after they get comfortable with you.
I've got her on an allowance which considering that I've fucked her three times this week and will fuck her tomorrow it's a bargain.
Pic after play. Our cum dripping down her legs. And she called me to the bathroom so I could see it.
FruitNinja
02-18-18, 01:53
Way to go, Ninja. I've had a lot of luck on arr finders, and a little luck on whatsyourprice. I guess I need to check out SA. Thanks for the posts.Jim,
What's "arr finders".
Jim,
What's "arr finders".Arrangement Finders.
ItsHowdyDoody
02-18-18, 12:13
It's a sugar baby site but there are pros there as well.Obviously SA site as covered in the forum, is secret arithmetic. Just good old fashioned mathematics buffs getting together per a setup set of agreed upon meetings. No fun leading people on fruit.
Arrangement Finders.Good to know. I thought it was a site for pirates lmao.
FruitNinja
02-18-18, 22:44
Arrangement Finders.Has anybody good experience with this site?
SugarDaddyX
02-19-18, 19:07
Has anybody good experience with this site?I've tried all of the sugar websites at one time or another. I was on Arrangement Finders back in 2012. I had a couple bangs, but otherwise it was mostly a waste of money. Many of the profiles were unactive and had been abandoned, yet the website seemed to use them to message you, so you would buy a subscription. Sugardaddyforme did similar shilling. I do not think they ever got the market share that SA got. I'd be interested to hear what the site is like in 2018. Did it ever gain any traction?
Arrangement Finders is owned by the same group as Ashley Madison. I wonder if the hackers stole the user information from that site like they did Ashley Madison.
SDX.
I've tried all of the sugar websites at one time or another. I was on Arrangement Finders back in 2012. I had a couple bangs, but otherwise it was mostly a waste of money. Many of the profiles were unactive and had been abandoned, yet the website seemed to use them to message you, so you would buy a subscription. Sugardaddyforme did similar shilling. I do not think they ever got the market share that SA got. I'd be interested to hear what the site is like in 2018. Did it ever gain any traction?
Arrangement Finders is owned by the same group as Ashley Madison. I wonder if the hackers stole the user information from that site like they did Ashley Madison.
SDX.I suspect SA does that as well. I had a lot of messages before signing up. Once I signed up- the messages dried up. I met three gals so it's not like no one is on there, but also had another go radio silent the day we were supposed to meet and another one was a no show which ticked me off. It's probably part of SA's strategy to have fake profiles and then email guys to get us to sign up & keep renewing. I emailed some of the gals my cell before my membership lapsed if they wanted to get a hold of me. Sure enough not one of them texted or called me, but later I saw a few emails in my inbox from them after my SA membership lapsed. There's no other explanation I could think of since you can see the email history which clearly states my membership is ending on this date contact me here.
I suspect SA does that as well. I had a lot of messages before signing up. Once I signed up- the messages dried up. I met three gals so it's not like no one is on there, but also had another go radio silent the day we were supposed to meet and another one was a no show which ticked me off. It's probably part of SA's strategy to have fake profiles and then email guys to get us to sign up & keep renewing. I emailed some of the gals my cell before my membership lapsed if they wanted to get a hold of me. Sure enough not one of them texted or called me, but later I saw a few emails in my inbox from them after my SA membership lapsed. There's no other explanation I could think of since you can see the email history which clearly states my membership is ending on this date contact me here.I signed up too. Just had the basic non pay membership. I didn't go any further. Plenty of free websites to find girls that will play for pay.
I suspect SA does that as well. I had a lot of messages before signing up. Once I signed up- the messages dried up. I met three gals so it's not like no one is on there, but also had another go radio silent the day we were supposed to meet and another one was a no show which ticked me off. It's probably part of SA's strategy to have fake profiles and then email guys to get us to sign up & keep renewing. I emailed some of the gals my cell before my membership lapsed if they wanted to get a hold of me. Sure enough not one of them texted or called me, but later I saw a few emails in my inbox from them after my SA membership lapsed. There's no other explanation I could think of since you can see the email history which clearly states my membership is ending on this date contact me here.Yeah, I've been off and on SA for a year and a half now, and everytime my member lapses, I'll get a bunch of messages out of the blue.
Yeah, I've been off and on SA for a year and a half now, and everytime my member lapses, I'll get a bunch of messages out of the blue.The same thing happens to me. I wondered if the women were being paid based on how many guys they could get to renew.
I also gave a few my number before my paid membership expired. A couple actually sent messages.
Ron M,
I treat it as dating. The young Latina actually asked me "what are we?" After three dates and two good sessions. I replied "what do you want us to be?" She says she wants to be dating. I said sure. And to your point she has had some trauma in the dating arena. I have her psyche figured out. She tells me everything. Word of warning to guys getting involved with a 19 year old. You are dealing with a child. You have to overlook a lot of immaturity even if they are mature for their age. It comes out after they get comfortable with you.
I've got her on an allowance which considering that I've fucked her three times this week and will fuck her tomorrow it's a bargain.
Pic after play. Our cum dripping down her legs. And she called me to the bathroom so I could see it.Whats her allowance just wondering so I should decide whether to find people on SA for a flat fee instead of TER and p411.
The same thing happens to me. I wondered if the women were being paid based on how many guys they could get to renew.
I also gave a few my number before my paid membership expired. A couple actually sent messages.Did they send texts after your paid membership expired? I've had women on there send me texts & meet me, but only while I was still a paid member. Like I said once my membership stopped- nothing except future emails on SA which I couldn't read. Very suspicious. If they seriously wanted to meet me a text or a phone call would have been the easiest & quickest way to do that.
Did they send texts after your paid membership expired? I've had women on there send me texts & meet me, but only while I was still a paid member. Like I said once my membership stopped- nothing except future emails on SA which I couldn't read. Very suspicious. If they seriously wanted to meet me a text or a phone call would have been the easiest & quickest way to do that.After my membership expired I got those messages on SA also. I don; t think the women that contacted me via text sent messages on SA after I gave them my number and told them my membership was expiring.
FruitNinja
02-21-18, 11:27
Face about a 6 but the body was awesome. The girl knows how to make a man feel like a man. Nice and tight. Amazing BJ skills. Practices with a dildo. Had no problem with me grabbing her head to my dick for round two.
Face about a 6 but the body was awesome. The girl knows how to make a man feel like a man. Nice and tight. Amazing BJ skills. Practices with a dildo. Had no problem with me grabbing her head to my dick for round two.Pretty nice pic. Well done Ninja. I like thin gals too. I'm curious what kind of gift did you two settle on? A lot of the gals I emailed wanted 400- 500 and up for like an hour. You can PM me if the board is too public.
Way to go, Ninja. I've had a lot of luck on arr finders, and a little luck on whatsyourprice. I guess I need to check out SA. Thanks for the posts.Well, it's been a week on SA, and dear lord this is a monger's paradise. Have met half-a-dozen young ladies all producing terrific results (BBBJ from all). Message me if you've had similar luck and we can swap stories. .
FruitNinja
02-25-18, 13:08
Well, it's been a week on SA, and dear lord this is a monger's paradise. Have met half-a-dozen young ladies all producing terrific results (BBBJ from all). Message me if you've had similar luck and we can swap stories. .Which asks the question: Why are so many guys having problems? I will not share contact numbers. I will share profile link when I am done. Requests for contact information will be ignored.
MaxxLapper
02-25-18, 13:28
After my membership expired I got those messages on SA also. I don; t think the women that contacted me via text sent messages on SA after I gave them my number and told them my membership was expiring.Very good. The smartest thing to do, is to bring them to e-mail or text (burner app) so you don't lose contact. E-mail used to be productive, but that gets slow responses. Definitely if you can do it, text is the best.
ItsHowdyDoody
02-25-18, 14:49
Which asks the question: Why are so many guys having problems? I will not share contact numbers. I will share profile link when I am done. Requests for contact information will be ignored.I think this thread best used to share profiles that are not any good. If a link or profile is shared here, the vultures will attack and I am betting that girl will be long gone. (Or if she isn't, gross, she's basically an agency girl).
Known scammers, ones who are real pros, etc. Should be shared to cut down on people's time wasters.
FruitNinja
02-25-18, 21:15
I think this thread best used to share profiles that are not any good. If a link or profile is shared here, the vultures will attack and I am betting that girl will be long gone. (Or if she isn't, gross, she's basically an agency girl).
Known scammers, ones who are real pros, etc. Should be shared to cut down on people's time wasters.Totally agree. I had one today that wanted $750 to start. I know a few guys that are on the site. Some very high net worth individuals and I know only one that would possibly spend that much for punani. One guy I know would and he's a madman with a net worth in the 100's of millions. Most of us are of means to be able to play on SA but he's over the top.
On another note. The Latina is working out great. I like training the young ones. First time she squirted was today. She's in love. LOL!
And before anyone writes and asks for contact numbers. Please don't waste your time. I will not respond. I will help but I will not do your work for you. You have to understand that this is time and money consuming but it beats the hell out of pros.
FarFarAway
02-25-18, 21:31
Pretty nice pic. Well done Ninja. I like thin gals too. I'm curious what kind of gift did you two settle on? A lot of the gals I emailed wanted 400- 500 and up for like an hour. You can PM me if the board is too public.IMHO if the subject of time or 'menu' is in the discussion, what you've got yourself is an escort, a great / rare one perhaps, but still an escort, not a SB. Of course, I don't expect a quick hit from my SBs, I essentially 'date' them until we're ready for the FC, and that's the only time they get sugar.
FruitNinja
02-26-18, 03:08
IMHO if the subject of time or 'menu' is in the discussion, what you've got yourself is an escort, a great / rare one perhaps, but still an escort, not a SB. Of course, I don't expect a quick hit from my SBs, I essentially 'date' them until we're ready for the FC, and that's the only time they get sugar.I'm fine with this one. She's a little needy. Likes the attention. Still lives with mom and dad. Moving out next year with friends. Definitely not a pro. We ate breakfast in her area. I was the only non Latin. She's fun. But alas she's 19. Good luck.
FruitNinja
02-27-18, 11:16
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Post or don't post, share or don't share but when you put up vanity posts (nothing wrong with those, guys have been playing "smell my finger" since there have been guys) but don't whine about it. If you post about fucking something hot guys are going to ask.
The "read receipt" feature is there to identify assholes. Whenever you get one just delete the PM, it's what I do.
No more whining though.
A2
Sweet_cheeks 13.19 why / o college student. Cute but not hot. Decent chatting skills. Got to the issue of allowance. For online, $1,200 for pictures of herself. For meets. $6,000 a month. That's $72,000 a year, tax free. Pass.
FruitNinja
02-27-18, 22:49
Sweet_cheeks 13.19 why / o college student. Cute but not hot. Decent chatting skills. Got to the issue of allowance. For online, $1,200 for pictures of herself. For meets. $6,000 a month. That's $72,000 a year, tax free. Pass.Anyone that asks me for money or anything up front gets a quick good bye. The girls that contact me from out of state or out of country get blocked. In a weeks time I knew the landscape. I run two businesses. I've seen every scam ever invented. Well maybe not. But I can spot them a mile away. There's plenty of young hot girls that want to fuck daddy. Concentrate on those.
FruitNinja
02-28-18, 19:18
She's getting very comfortable around the house.
You have to understand that this is time and money consuming but it beats the hell out of pros.No it doesn't. I just kicked one recently to the curb. I got tired at looking at the dust on my vanity and wondering when I'd have to call myself a good lawyer.
FruitNinja
02-28-18, 19:46
No it doesn't. I just kicked one recently to the curb. I got tired at looking at the dust on my vanity and wondering when I'd have to call myself a good lawyer.I don't know that I need to get a lawyer involved. They are nothing legally but room mates, and that's debatable. I haven't read much as I've only been around for a while, Buyer always beware.
LatinPoker
02-28-18, 21:01
She's getting very comfortable around the house.She's gorgeous! (Needless to say you're one lucky SOB!).
FruitNinja
03-02-18, 10:25
https://imgur.com/removalrequest
OF Charlie
03-03-18, 10:14
1) if you can't afford the $80 monthly fee, then SA is probably not for you.
2) if you don't have the time to invest to talk, text or meet SBs, then it's not for you. SA requires a lot of time and effort.
3) expect girls will flake on you. That is just a part of this.
4) know what you want to get out of SA before you join. Are you looking for one SB to committ yourself to or are you looking to sleep with as many girls as you can.
5) target the right girls. By this I mean if you are a 5 and you are trying to score a 9 or 10 girl, it is next to impossible unless you got a boat load of money that you don't mind spending.
6) recognize what type of girl you are dealing with right away. Some of the girls don't consider themselves hookers, so you can't talk to them that way. If you don't have the time to talk to them normally, then move on to the next one.
7) most girls have daddy issues, so learn to deal with it.
8) don't sweat over getting rejected. More girls join each day.
9) most of the girls can't host as they either live at home still or have roomates, so you need to factor in the hotel cost if money is an issue for you.
10) if a girl lists her body type as curvy, chance is good that she is fat. There are plenty of girls, so no need to settle.
Gerkin Jerkin
03-03-18, 11:39
1) if you can't afford the $80 monthly fee, then SA is probably not for you.
2) if you don't have the time to invest to talk, text or meet SBs, then it's not for you. SA requires a lot of time and effort.
3) expect girls will flake on you. That is just a part of this.
4) know what you want to get out of SA before you join. Are you looking for one SB to committ yourself to or are you looking to sleep with as many girls as you can.
5) target the right girls. By this I mean if you are a 5 and you are trying to score a 9 or 10 girl, it is next to impossible unless you got a boat load of money that you don't mind spending.
6) recognize what type of girl you are dealing with right away. Some of the girls don't consider themselves hookers, so you can't talk to them that way. If you don't have the time to talk to them normally, then move on to the next one.
7) most girls have daddy issues, so learn to deal with it.
8) don't sweat over getting rejected. More girls join each day.
9) most of the girls can't host as they either live at home still or have roomates, so you need to factor in the hotel cost if money is an issue for you.
10) if a girl lists her body type as curvy, chance is good that she is fat. There are plenty of girls, so no need to settle.You are exactly correct with all of these points. I would add:
1. If the pics are extreme closeups of a face and no body, she is probably fat;.
2. After my experience on there, I will not mess with a single mom. Too much freaking drama;.
3. There are a lot of girls using the site as a dating website. I make it clear I am not looking for a girlfriend.
4. I am in my 40's. I get bored listening to 20 year olds complain about theor parents.
5. I prefer escorts because they get the room and the expectations are clear;.
6. Many of the girls are delusional. I had one fat girl text me she wants $4000 a month. The young girls also tend to be really flaky.
7. I have had 2 girls who wabt to spebd a lot of time texting. I don't have time for that.
8. I have heard every b. S. Story looking for cash. I understand that's what this is about but I'm not sending you money unless you earn it.
9. I have had 2 amazing experiences. I met a Mexican flight attendant who invited me to her hotel and we drank whiskey and fucked for 3 hours. We still keep in touch but she has not been back to Chicago. I see a girl a few times a month. We get a jacuzzi suite, smoke up and she loves anal. The extent of that is every 10 days she send me a text saying "hey" and we set it up. No senseless chatting every day. Other than that, the amount of time it takes does not make it worthwhile to me because I have things to do.
1) if you can't afford the $80 monthly fee, then SA is probably not for you.
2) if you don't have the time to invest to talk, text or meet SBs, then it's not for you. SA requires a lot of time and effort.
3) expect girls will flake on you. That is just a part of this.
4) know what you want to get out of SA before you join. Are you looking for one SB to committ yourself to or are you looking to sleep with as many girls as you can.
5) target the right girls. By this I mean if you are a 5 and you are trying to score a 9 or 10 girl, it is next to impossible unless you got a boat load of money that you don't mind spending.
6) recognize what type of girl you are dealing with right away. Some of the girls don't consider themselves hookers, so you can't talk to them that way. If you don't have the time to talk to them normally, then move on to the next one.
7) most girls have daddy issues, so learn to deal with it.
8) don't sweat over getting rejected. More girls join each day.
9) most of the girls can't host as they either live at home still or have roomates, so you need to factor in the hotel cost if money is an issue for you.
10) if a girl lists her body type as curvy, chance is good that she is fat. There are plenty of girls, so no need to settle.Bro, number 10 hits hard. Gents, please heed #10. I hate seeing that word used to describe what is really fat. I don't see anyone who thinks she's 'curvy,' Lmao.
FruitNinja
03-03-18, 23:43
Bro, number 10 hits hard. Gents, please heed #10. I hate seeing that word used to describe what is really fat. I don't see anyone who thinks she's 'curvy,' Lmao.I'm OK with a little meat on a 19 year old. It's been my experience that the hotter the woman the worst the sex. There have been exceptions but for the most part that's been my experience.
I'm not all about model types. I actually was seeing a model many years ago. The most beautiful woman I have ever bedded and that's saying a lot. I joked with my friends that she did her nails while I pounded her. That's about how exciting she was.
The best piece of ass I've ever had is the 30 year old I meet with once a week or so. She's a businesswoman that want's a fuck buddy as she has no time for a relationship. This woman gives unbelievable head. She's thin, about 5'7" and has one of the tightest pussies I've ever experienced. All she wants to do is please me. I spent the night the other week. We went to breakfast. I pulled up in front of her building and she forced me to the back seat where she gave me a blow job so I wouldn't forget her. Crazy.
FruitNinja
03-04-18, 10:26
This will be a game changer.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stop_E...raffickers_Act
Ok guys I need a bit of advise. This is my 2nd go around on the site, and things are going really well. I've been chatting with someone that's open to everything (low ball per meet offer and she hosts). She's sent pics and confirmed where she lives. She sent me her address already! Her school schedule lines up with my work schedule, and we're meeting tomorrow morning. She's open to diving right in.
Have any of you experienced anything that moved pretty quickly? We've been chatting on and off for a week or so and exchanged pics, but I struck out hard last time, so this is a change of pace.
Any insight would be appreciated!!
FruitNinja
03-06-18, 00:51
Ok guys I need a bit of advise. This is my 2nd go around on the site, and things are going really well. I've been chatting with someone that's open to everything (low ball per meet offer and she hosts). She's sent pics and confirmed where she lives. She sent me her address already! Her school schedule lines up with my work schedule, and we're meeting tomorrow morning. She's open to diving right in.
Have any of you experienced anything that moved pretty quickly? We've been chatting on and off for a week or so and exchanged pics, but I struck out hard last time, so this is a change of pace.
Any insight would be appreciated!!As I've said before, there is no set formula. I've been doing the SB thing for 13 years. Expect the unexpected. Go with your gut. Be smart.
Ok guys I need a bit of advise. This is my 2nd go around on the site, and things are going really well. I've been chatting with someone that's open to everything (low ball per meet offer and she hosts). She's sent pics and confirmed where she lives. She sent me her address already! Her school schedule lines up with my work schedule, and we're meeting tomorrow morning. She's open to diving right in.
Have any of you experienced anything that moved pretty quickly? We've been chatting on and off for a week or so and exchanged pics, but I struck out hard last time, so this is a change of pace.
Any insight would be appreciated!!I'd meet in a public place first- for a drink or coffee- get to know her, & then if things go well, hit a hotel. She sounds like a pro. Most women wouldn't be so eager to invite a stranger into their home. Also I'd be worried about possibly getting robbed. If things go well and you've seen her a few times then going to her place would make more sense. But that's me.
JustPlay02
03-07-18, 16:10
Totally agree. I had one today that wanted $750 to start. I know a few guys that are on the site. Some very high net worth individuals and I know only one that would possibly spend that much for punani. One guy I know would and he's a madman with a net worth in the 100's of millions. Most of us are of means to be able to play on SA but he's over the top.
On another note. The Latina is working out great. I like training the young ones. First time she squirted was today. She's in love. LOL!
And before anyone writes and asks for contact numbers. Please don't waste your time. I will not respond. I will help but I will not do your work for you. You have to understand that this is time and money consuming but it beats the hell out of pros.Just curious about the cost of doing this. Is it a per visit or periodic allowance. How much can on expect to spend?
Member #5929
03-07-18, 20:53
Anyone seen this girl from SA? She is looking to meet tonight. 1. 5. She needs to be picked up Grand and Austin. She told me it was cool to give her number out. She is Greek and Ecuadorian. Seniors PM me for her number.
https://seekingarrangement.com/member/aabf2753-4c92-4e55-88d6-32a9da680165
Just a heads up. We messaged back and forth, got the number, and upon some deep web search found a connection between a male and the number. It could definitely be a coincidence, but upon further contact, the person seemed too friendly and definitely texted like a dude trying to be a girl. Just a bad vibe. I wouldn't partake. I can be wrong, but I will always follow my gut. Stay safe.
BellaBooBell.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e8f3579f-a8f7-4510-9ac1-dbd2a0883839
Anyone seen this girl from SA? She is looking to meet tonight. 1. 5. She needs to be picked up Grand and Austin. She told me it was cool to give her number out. She is Greek and Ecuadorian. Seniors PM me for her number.
https://seekingarrangement.com/member/aabf2753-4c92-4e55-88d6-32a9da680165Couldn't find her profile. Seems fishy to me. I'd rather meet somewhere first. And always, always try to do some research on all the info you can get from people before meeting.
I'd meet in a public place first- for a drink or coffee- get to know her, & then if things go well, hit a hotel. .This is excellent advice, and should always be followed. A number of BP women and pros are migrating to SA. Even meeting her in public has risks for a set up.
Awesome advise all thank you. Due to a few delays our meet got pushed to tomorrow. We're doing coffee ybher place, than if all goes well I'm going to take the plunge and go for it. I know it's risky, but I'll give it a go. I have screen shots of the pics she sent me (legit as I've asked about very specific things to help verify), so if things go south I can at least warn everyone!
But nothing but great things will happen.
Positive thoughts!
Came across a 21 yr old half Filipino half Puerto Rican girl who said she was on seeking Arrangement. She's in NWS smoking hot body pretty face. Any of you guys talk to her? Also loves bare
I met her off SA meaning not on SA and she's in need so after I meet her I might be able to share info but she's picky and not going to see guys for escort prices. I'm thinking 2 per meet at least. Her pics were too good to be true but I had her verify meet and greet set for tomm or sat.
Finally got to meet her today! She's legit and super sweet. Against my gut and advice, I ended up just going straight to her place. She's not even interested in pay per meet, she's open to whatever whenever I can. No time limit on our meets. SA really does work! You just got to out some effort into it.
SugarDaddyX
03-10-18, 18:16
Here is another time waster looking to get something for nothing and constantly online. She will imply sex, but then that becomes a dominatrix session for $700 or a lap dance for $300. I talked to her when she joined last year, and yeah she might have been average body type then, but definitely packed on the pounds. Too much sitting around playing video games. SA needs to add obese to body type. Oh, and no man is gonna pay to be seen with a chick that has five pounds of metal embedded in her face and razor scars on her arms.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/26626115-cea2-4c94-8392-e7a96658c447
SDX
AlexYummy187
03-11-18, 08:23
Came across a 21 yr old half Filipino half Puerto Rican girl who said she was on seeking Arrangement. She's in NWS smoking hot body pretty face. Any of you guys talk to her? Also loves bare
I met her off SA meaning not on SA and she's in need so after I meet her I might be able to share info but she's picky and not going to see guys for escort prices. I'm thinking 2 per meet at least. Her pics were too good to be true but I had her verify meet and greet set for tomm or sat.I am totally interested to learn of your adventure with this one if you are willing to share.
FruitNinja
03-11-18, 09:25
Here is another time waster looking to get something for nothing and constantly online. She will imply sex, but then that becomes a dominatrix session for $700 or a lap dance for $300. I talked to her when she joined last year, and yeah she might have been average body type then, but definitely packed on the pounds. Too much sitting around playing video games. SA needs to add obese to body type. Oh, and no man is gonna pay to be seen with a chick that has five pounds of metal embedded in her face and razor scars on her arms.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/26626115-cea2-4c94-8392-e7a96658c447
SDXShe has a bright future with all those accessories. Can't get through a metal detector. What a mess.
BabyBoy2013
03-12-18, 16:49
Couldn't find her profile. Seems fishy to me. I'd rather meet somewhere first. And always, always try to do some research on all the info you can get from people before meeting.I talked to this chick also said she was currently in the hospital getting detoxed because of some shoulder injury sounded like BS. On the other hand she seemed really nice and actually sent me more pictures of herself, also said she was located up north over on Peterson. Seemed eager to meet as soon as she gets out. Does anyone else have any info on her?
FruitNinja
03-13-18, 08:23
I talked to this chick also said she was currently in the hospital getting detoxed because of some shoulder injury sounded like BS. On the other hand she seemed really nice and actually sent me more pictures of herself, also said she was located up north over on Peterson. Seemed eager to meet as soon as she gets out. Does anyone else have any info on her?I talked to her and she told me that she was in the hospital. I didn't push it. Not looking for drama.
Ok so I decided to take the plunge and try out the above. So far it has been nothing but scam artists. Always ends with them sending me some link to either to supposedly vote for their online web cam profile or to create a verified I'd?? The 2nd one I already found on a search that it is definitely a scam attempt to phish your personal info. Is SA and other arrangement type sites this same way too? It almost seems like there is no real profiles other than the ones that are considered curvy or BBW (no thanks!
FruitNinja
03-15-18, 12:02
Ok so I decided to take the plunge and try out the above. So far it has been nothing but scam artists. Always ends with them sending me some link to either to supposedly vote for their online web cam profile or to create a verified I'd?? The 2nd one I already found on a search that it is definitely a scam attempt to phish your personal info. Is SA and other arrangement type sites this same way too? It almost seems like there is no real profiles other than the ones that are considered curvy or BBW (no thanks!That's not at all my experience on SA.
Wants money upfront first.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/c0f2cc15-a082-4aa5-bb10-6be2879cceaa
Ok so I decided to take the plunge and try out the above. So far it has been nothing but scam artists. Always ends with them sending me some link to either to supposedly vote for their online web cam profile or to create a verified I'd?? The 2nd one I already found on a search that it is definitely a scam attempt to phish your personal info. Is SA and other arrangement type sites this same way too? It almost seems like there is no real profiles other than the ones that are considered curvy or BBW (no thanks!I have found AM to be a complete waste of time. I purchased some minutes years ago, prior to their being hacked. I had -0- success. I get 5-10 notices a day from women sending messages. Many are from China. I doubt that many of the profiles on there are real. I have seen some that are on SA also, same profile, same pics. I have emailed a few of the ones that post their contact info. Every one of those wanted me to do a verification site, vote for them on some web cam site, etc. I have not had those issues on SA.
ItsHowdyDoody
03-16-18, 11:50
Wants money upfront first.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/c0f2cc15-a082-4aa5-bb10-6be2879cceaaThank you, saves me some time as she was on radar. Much more helpful than "I am meeting this sketchy girl does anyone have any info" .
FruitNinja
03-16-18, 14:38
Thank you, saves me some time as she was on radar. Much more helpful than "I am meeting this sketchy girl does anyone have any info" .I had viewed her before and thought I would take a chance and see what response I got. She wants 450. GPS to say the least.
I have found AM to be a complete waste of time. I purchased some minutes years ago, prior to their being hacked. I had -0- success. I get 5-10 notices a day from women sending messages. Many are from China. I doubt that many of the profiles on there are real. I have seen some that are on SA also, same profile, same pics. I have emailed a few of the ones that post their contact info. Every one of those wanted me to do a verification site, vote for them on some web cam site, etc. I have not had those issues on SA.I was able to cancel on AM. Going to give SA a shot, wish me luck LOL.
FruitNinja
03-16-18, 18:44
They got me twice. Both GV numbers and my picture is nondescript and shows no face so I give a shit. I emailed SA tech support and told them about it and said that the male community is talking about it. I think if we all email them they may actually do something about it. They said their lawyers are working on it.
Has anyone tried sites like instabang or fuckbook aka instanthookup? Most review sites I find online seems to favor or like them and the profiles showing up on there is like almost too good to be true LOL.
FruitNinja
03-19-18, 01:02
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/1196fed5-9b49-47d9-814c-3dc7105f0c81
Odd encounter. Don't waste your time.
Call Me Booger
03-19-18, 10:25
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/1196fed5-9b49-47d9-814c-3dc7105f0c81
Odd encounter. Don't waste your time.I did not meet with her in person, but I messaged her quite a bit a week or two ago. She basically told me she works 7 days a week and has practically no free time. She did invite me to come visit her at her job and sent me the location. The address was a typical nail salon place. I checked it out via google maps. I would be shocked if anything more happens there, it screams of a legit nail salon.
FruitNinja
03-19-18, 11:30
I did not meet with her in person, but I messaged her quite a bit a week or two ago. She basically told me she works 7 days a week and has practically no free time. She did invite me to come visit her at her job and sent me the location. The address was a typical nail salon place. I checked it out via google maps. I would be shocked if anything more happens there, it screams of a legit nail salon.She has an overbearing Asian mother that doesn't let her make a move without her approval. Virgin and not looking to give that up. She's never even kissed a man. Like I said. Very odd.
Al Melrose
03-20-18, 04:59
I did not meet with her in person, but I messaged her quite a bit a week or two ago. She basically told me she works 7 days a week and has practically no free time. She did invite me to come visit her at her job and sent me the location. The address was a typical nail salon place. I checked it out via google maps. I would be shocked if anything more happens there, it screams of a legit nail salon.I messaged with her a few weeks ago, told me we could meet at her church. Kept asking me how much I would pay, but would never reply when I asked what were her expectations.
FruitNinja
03-20-18, 08:47
I messaged with her a few weeks ago, told me we could meet at her church. Kept asking me how much I would pay, but would never reply when I asked what were her expectations.She's not a cop but a waste of time. Setting up a bust at a church? I don't see that happening.
RockaBilly1032
03-21-18, 01:30
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/7590c92b-0c56-4820-8812-1d8cbb898cbf
While her specialty isn't something I'm in to, I was able to negotiate something I did want. We set up a day and time to meet. When the day came she ghosted me and never returned any of my messages afterward. Avoid!
SugarDaddyX
03-21-18, 10:24
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/7590c92b-0c56-4820-8812-1d8cbb898cbf
While her specialty isn't something I'm in to, I was able to negotiate something I did want. We set up a day and time to meet. When the day came she ghosted me and never returned any of my messages afterward. Avoid!I saw this line in her profile: "Purchasing an item on my wishlist guarantees a smiles and a response. ".
That right there tells me she is not serious about meeting. I immediately cut out any profiles saying they need something bought from their wishlist on SA or Amazon. Also any sugar baby asking for a cash advance on PayPal or Cash App before they will meet is a scammer and not a sugar baby.
SDX.
FruitNinja
03-22-18, 10:12
Set up a MG. I verified Monday if we were still on for MG. Verified again Tuesday night. Wednesday lunch she was a no show and the number was disconnected.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/f81c67ef-852d-4f9d-8462-a4bb51ca5f38
Just wondering what do you guys typically consider a standard allowance for these girls?
I may have found a potential on AFF but she is asking $$ ouch!!
https://adultfriendfinder.com/profile2/kindaabigdeal999
AlexYummy187
03-23-18, 06:24
Finally got to meet her today! She's legit and super sweet. Against my gut and advice, I ended up just going straight to her place. She's not even interested in pay per meet, she's open to whatever whenever I can. No time limit on our meets. SA really does work! You just got to out some effort into it.Would you be willing to let us know her SA link.
ItsHowdyDoody
03-23-18, 07:43
Just wondering what do you guys typically consider a standard allowance for these girls?
I may have found a potential on AFF but she is asking $$ ouch!!
https://adultfriendfinder.com/profile2/kindaabigdeal999IMO, as the forums have mentioned, this depends on who you are, who they are, and what your budget is. For me, nobody is worth an allowance, unless they are a 9/10 or above. Until that point they are per meet. If they are older than mid twenties, they are not allowance worthy. But, that is me. I am not super old, have good income, fit, but am also practical. I am not going to drive the price of a lower tier girl up, just to be able to have someone.
So, what is standard for me maybe different to you, the girl, etc.
FruitNinja
03-24-18, 09:28
IMO, as the forums have mentioned, this depends on who you are, who they are, and what your budget is. For me, nobody is worth an allowance, unless they are a 9/10 or above. Until that point they are per meet. If they are older than mid twenties, they are not allowance worthy. But, that is me. I am not super old, have good income, fit, but am also practical. I am not going to drive the price of a lower tier girl up, just to be able to have someone.
So, what is standard for me maybe different to you, the girl, etc.I think this is the awkward time in negotiations. I usually as what her previous arrangement was like to see if that elicits what she's wanting. I sometimes will say "Baby, I don't want to spend too much on the other hand I don't want to insult you. Why don't you tell me what you want. " In my opinion if you're spending over 300 for 3-4 hours you're paying too much. I'm with a 19 year old smoking Latina. Averages to 250 a date. And she hangs out once in a while to just be with me.
Natefarwell
03-24-18, 09:36
Hello All:
Asking for some help please. I do not post much but Money T can tell you I am good. Any how, I can no longer look numbers up on Facebook anymore. Would anyone know why that would be? I used to just put in the number on the search and if they had it attached, there page would show up. However, the last two days no one shows up. I searched numbers I know worked in the past and once again they do not show up anymore. Anyone have any help. As we all know this is a helpful too for SA girls.
Thanks.
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