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Powerhouse100
01-28-21, 22:33
I've seen her 3-4 times, but always at $$ per meet. She's an ok time.HD69,
What does her body really look like? How long did you spend with her for the $$?
HoosierDaddy69
01-29-21, 00:22
First one is in a relationship with her girlfriend for about 2 yrs. Told me she may be interested in watching but her girlfriend isn't into guys much https://www.seeking.com/member/e253ae7f-3a6f-436a-9790-394c6a68f481.She never mentioned having a GF. But w / e, idgaf. She said she could host and had no room mates, etc. She started out asking for $500 - got her to agree to $250, that was her bottom price (for me at least). Finally got her car fixed and wants to come up to jax to see me. Of course. There's a $50 gas money so we're back to $300. She just IDK, doesn't seem particularly fun and is just kinda average looking IMO so IDK, I may canx on her. I was hoping someone had tried and validate her performance.
Second one I shied away from since she sort of points out in her profile she's not really looking for p2 p which could just be a ruse idk https://www.seeking.com/member/92e04d78-793d-4628-8aaa-f29ee962bc2b.She does ay she doesn't want to feel like a hooker so we tabled the $ convo for F2 F at the meet and greet. Not set in stone yet though so IDK.
Third one I talked with before when I was last on SA. She seemed down and fun then disappeared -- I saw recently she was back online and so far no replies to my re-engage message https://www.seeking.com/member/d0765d25-2181-4c1a-b435-83e23e71aec2.She's a bar tender at a strip club, works weird hours, and is somewhat flaky. Disappears for days then wants to text / talk all day out of nowhere. IDK yet. I like her look though.
Last one I'm supposed to maybe meet up with this weekend. Has said she's down but doesn't always want it to be about sex and sometimes wants to just go out and maybe explore around area etc.
She did tell me recently she got a new vibrator and was trying it out when she took a little bit to reply to my text so there's that LOL https://www.seeking.com/member/17cd8132-5e44-4bbd-a46c-fb610e82ef08.Comms have been bad with her. Then I would get weird / random texts. Then she hmu on SA with a new number. Said her phone was stolen, etc. IDK yet. Nothing set in stone with her either.
HoosierDaddy69
01-29-21, 00:27
Sorry I didn't mean to imply it was anything bad like that. But she does enjoy strip clubs, blunts and her homies.
My apologies if that was taken wrong. I hope to get to meet up with her soon. No problem man. I was just clarifying for those that know her. She's actually a sweet heart and a pretty cool chick. She just dresses like a dyke and hangs out with her group of friends at strip clubs LOL.
I remember she did send me a pic of her rack and OMG looks amazing.
Can you confirm they are nice Hoosier?I mean if they had a glory hole for boobs 9 out of 10 chicks would be like make mine like hers. Perfect natural D tata's.
I drove Uber for a couple of years in Tampa. Made the sugar run from Clearwater Beach to Orlando several times, young girls in the back seat yacking on the phone the whole 2 hours.
Met up with this one last weekend. Had to Uber her to my place, she stays in Avalon area.
Travels back and forth between here and Orlando. But doesn't have a car. Told me she's even taken an Uber to Orlando before LOL.
She's really petite and she's really into girls. Told me she's been with more girls than guys and she loves kissing hot girls.
She's got no tits to speak of but a really nice ass and her BBBJ was really good. She goes really slow and kept good eye contact too.
She was cool just to hang out with. We talked for a while, had a couple drinks.
She does have life issues going on but don't we all. She was cool though.
I think she's cuter in person and I had imagined in my mind based on her looks that maybe she would have more of a smokers voice, I don't know why LOL. But she has a cute young sounding voice. But can talk a little hood too but she was fun to hang out with.
Supposedly will be back in town Monday.
I plan to repeat.
https://www.seeking.com/member/94131546-01f1-4fcf-ae46-75a7f9a32e5e
She never mentioned having a GF. But w / e, idgaf. She said she could host and had no room mates, etc. She started out asking for $500 - got her to agree to $250, that was her bottom price (for me at least). Finally got her car fixed and wants to come up to jax to see me. Of course. There's a $50 gas money so we're back to $300. She just IDK, doesn't seem particularly fun and is just kinda average looking IMO so IDK, I may canx on her. I was hoping someone had tried and validate her performance.
She does ay she doesn't want to feel like a hooker so we tabled the $ convo for F2 F at the meet and greet. Not set in stone yet though so IDK.
She's a bar tender at a strip club, works weird hours, and is somewhat flaky. Disappears for days then wants to text / talk all day out of nowhere. IDK yet. I like her look though.
Comms have been bad with her. Then I would get weird / random texts. Then she hmu on SA with a new number. Said her phone was stolen, etc. IDK yet. Nothing set in stone with her either.1st one. Sent a pic of her gf. She's pretty hot looking too. Didn't show much of her body but doesn't look like a big girl, cute face. I get the idea they're into some fun things but I haven't pursued it hard because I don't t typically like going to them.
2nd one. No knowledge.
3rd one. I knew she was a bartender, not sure I knew at a strip club. When we talked before comms were good and we talked about meeting then it just kind of fell off and I hadn't renewed my membership but hunted her out and she hadn't been on in a couple weeks then started showing up again on site. I re-engaged but she hasn't even read it so no more intel to share.
4th one. Yeah she admitted to me she's a horrible texter and it was her cousin who stole her phone smh. She was pissed -- I suspect she's into the candy but I like her look. We just haven't pinned anything down.
We were supposed to have lunch this week but she sleeps in late and it hasn't panned out. Not sure where I stand on her yet. I'm on the fence. She seems like she'd be fun and may be a one and done with her crappy comms idk.
I will update if anything progresses on my send with any of them.
https://www.seeking.com/member/92b1df11-45eb-4679-aa7e-3e4482f0208d
You can't make this shit up man.
So I engaged her a few days ago, she finally messaged me back late yesterday afternoon and move to text after a few pleasantries. Her messages indicate she's seeking nsa fwb type thing from the rip.
So we text and a little more small talk. She's in beaches area.
Then she hits me with '800 for all the sugar' and '500 if you only want oral' LOL.
So I replied in a respectful type way that my price points aren't anywhere near that level to which she replies 'Broke much' haha.
So I retorted with 'Ridiculous much' and we had some smart ass texts back and forth but it never got out of hand or ridiculous. She ends it with 'Next' LOL.
But wait. It gets better.
About 90 minutes later I get a text to my burner that says 'Hey this is XXXX from SA' - just being politically correct and not using the name but it's a guys name LOL.
I responded with 'Who?
So we go back and forth and he send me a screen shot from SA. Of him talking to. You guessed it. Rosalia LOL.
The last message she sends to him was my phone number in the screen shot LOL.
So, I suspect what happened was she had copied and pasted my number to text me. Then she doesn't recall that she doesn't have her number 'copied' into her clipboard and paste my number instead to him. Idk.
There wasn't anything in the screenshot he sent me to make me believe she did it intentionally so I send dude her number and said good luck, she wants 8 bills and that's crazy.
DUDE replies with 'that ain't too crazy' WHAT?
I think I encountered one of the dudes who is driving up prices smh.
Anyways he text a few minutes later and tries to clarify that 8 isn't too crazy for a pro blah blah blah. I just said good luck man.
WTF.
As I said, you can't make this shit up haha.
Next! Is right.
FourSeasons2
01-29-21, 09:41
https://www.seeking.com/member/92b1df11-45eb-4679-aa7e-3e4482f0208d
About 90 minutes later I get a text to my burner that says 'Hey this is XXXX from SA' - just being politically correct and not using the name but it's a guys name LOL.
I responded with 'Who?
So we go back and forth and he send me a screen shot from SA. Of him talking to. You guessed it. Rosalia LOL.
The last message she sends to him was my phone number in the screen shot LOL.
So, I suspect what happened was she had copied and pasted my number to text me. Then she doesn't recall that she doesn't have her number 'copied' into her clipboard and paste my number instead to him. Idk.
There wasn't anything in the screenshot he sent me to make me believe she did it intentionally so I send dude her number and said good luck, she wants 8 bills and that's crazy.
DUDE replies with 'that ain't too crazy' WHAT?
I think I encountered one of the dudes who is driving up prices smh.
Anyways he text a few minutes later and tries to clarify that 8 isn't too crazy for a pro blah blah blah. I just said good luck man.
WTF.
As I said, you can't make this shit up haha.
Next! Is right.Wanting to convince you that's a reasonable rate.
FourSeasons2
01-29-21, 10:08
Third one I talked with before when I was last on SA. She seemed down and fun then disappeared -- I saw recently she was back online and so far no replies to my re-engage message https://www.seeking.com/member/d0765d25-2181-4c1a-b435-83e23e71aec2.
I had texted her back and forth about 1. 5 year ago, spotty comms. We set up a meet and greet. She then No showed.
Powerhouse100
01-29-21, 13:42
https://www.seeking.com/member/92b1df11-45eb-4679-aa7e-3e4482f0208d
You can't make this shit up man.
So I engaged her a few days ago, she finally messaged me back late yesterday afternoon and move to text after a few pleasantries. Her messages indicate she's seeking nsa fwb type thing from the rip.
So we text and a little more small talk. She's in beaches area.
Then she hits me with '800 for all the sugar' and '500 if you only want oral' LOL.
So I replied in a respectful type way that my price points aren't anywhere near that level to which she replies 'Broke much' haha.
So I retorted with 'Ridiculous much' and we had some smart ass texts back and forth but it never got out of hand or ridiculous. She ends it with 'Next' LOL.
But wait. It gets better.
About 90 minutes later I get a text to my burner that says 'Hey this is XXXX from SA' - just being politically correct and not using the name but it's a guys name LOL.It's something when these girls imply we're broke because we won't pay their exorbitant prices, yet, they are the ones selling pussy! SMH.
Who sells pussy unless you're broke!
HoosierDaddy69
01-29-21, 15:32
HD69,
What does her body really look like? How long did you spend with her for the $$?They're professional quality pics, not photoshopped. She's got a banging body. Implants under the muscle so those are perfect. She works out, no gut, nice ass, etc. If you're into the 30 something MILF. She checks all those boxes. Her smile is the only thing. Teeth aren't rotted, jacked up or anything, just tiny and you can tell she's self conscious about that in her pics. But not in person, she smiles openly. One of the reviewers last year described them as "tiny Chicklets". I'd say that's pretty accurate. Service wise she is ok. BBBJ. DATY - CFS, greek is a no go, and was denied BBFS both times. But otherwise GFE. No time limit, etc. But we never socialized or met up or dinner / drinks, etc. Just got straight to it. IDK, maybe a HH or so? Was not marathon sex. But I was never rushed. I left empty & satisfied.
So 3 days of texting and my best sales pitch. This one wants 500 PPM. So I focused on, what do I get (as someone suggested) - the reply was a ton of No this and No that, protection required, never anal.
Even tho I was NOT willing. I said how ab 400 (just to see) - she refused. I then tried to avoid the $ talk and say. Lets meet for coffee and because I think we are close. NOPE. 500 just to meet for any of her time.
WTF is really going on.
Gentlemen. If you take a shot at this and get a better response, PLEASE PM me. Because this is killing me.
https://www.seeking.com/member/fd3a01b5-15ce-4d32-a157-154abae3c172
- DonJon.
So 3 days of texting and my best sales pitch. This one wants 500 PPM. So I focused on, what do I get (as someone suggested) - the reply was a ton of No this and No that, protection required, never anal.
Even tho I was NOT willing. I said how ab 400 (just to see) - she refused. I then tried to avoid the $ talk and say. Lets meet for coffee and because I think we are close. NOPE. 500 just to meet for any of her time.
WTF is really going on.
Gentlemen. If you take a shot at this and get a better response, PLEASE PM me. Because this is killing me.
https://www.seeking.com/member/fd3a01b5-15ce-4d32-a157-154abae3c172
- DonJon.I believe its affecting us bottom dwellers as well. Just about every STG girl I hit up wanted 60,80 or more for a simple blowjob in my ride. One girl says CBJ only. Finally found one that was willing to go below the raised prices but I guess she's getting hit up by better offers while on my drive and Caspers on me.
Someone updated the Hooker Handbook and didn't tell the rest of us.
https://www.seeking.com/member/117526cd-f35b-4e10-a816-0a57497b1bf8
Anyone have intel on this one. Had messaged her twice and no comms. Then finally engaged me maybe a week ago, then wasn't logged on for several days.
Now today she's engaging maybe too much and rates seem TGTBT and says she's very submissive etc (after we moved to text).
I like her look and she sent another pic that seems legit but wanted to see if anyone has any knowledge.
She lives north of the airport supposedly. Name is Kim.
Thanks all.
HoosierDaddy69
01-29-21, 17:44
So 3 days of texting and my best sales pitch. This one wants 500 PPM. So I focused on, what do I get (as someone suggested) - the reply was a ton of No this and No that, protection required, never anal.
Even tho I was NOT willing. I said how ab 400 (just to see) - she refused. I then tried to avoid the $ talk and say. Lets meet for coffee and because I think we are close. NOPE. 500 just to meet for any of her time.
WTF is really going on.
Gentlemen. If you take a shot at this and get a better response, PLEASE PM me. Because this is killing me.
https://www.seeking.com/member/fd3a01b5-15ce-4d32-a157-154abae3c172
- DonJon.I thought she was a cute curvy chick based on her SA pics. Did a video chat on SA w / her. Lasted about 5 minutes. She's kinda big for "curvy" so I never asked about price. Good thing too LOL.
I thought she was a cute curvy chick based on her SA pics. Did a video chat on SA w / her. Lasted about 5 minutes. She's kinda big for "curvy" so I never asked about price. Good thing too LOL.She's a damn Amazon at 6'2" LOL.
HoosierDaddy69
01-29-21, 17:56
https://www.seeking.com/member/117526cd-f35b-4e10-a816-0a57497b1bf8
Anyone have intel on this one. Had messaged her twice and no comms. Then finally engaged me maybe a week ago, then wasn't logged on for several days.
Now today she's engaging maybe too much and rates seem TGTBT and says she's very submissive etc (after we moved to text).
I like her look and she sent another pic that seems legit but wanted to see if anyone has any knowledge.
She lives north of the airport supposedly. Name is Kim.
Thanks all.Supposed to meet Tuesday (I couldn't this weekend, so you may beat me to it) but I'll circle back afterwards.
HoosierDaddy69
01-29-21, 18:06
She's a damn Amazon at 6'2" LOL.But yeah, she's a big girl.
Hey thanks for this info Hoosier. Glad I stuck to MY price because her pics almost got me!
- Don Jon.
I thought she was a cute curvy chick based on her SA pics. Did a video chat on SA w / her. Lasted about 5 minutes. She's kinda big for "curvy" so I never asked about price. Good thing too LOL.
This one is asking for PPM just to meet. Made it clear no intimacy. Says "she likes to get to know a guy first". I said cool. Lets get to know. Then allowance starts after your comfortable and we have real intimate dates. No reply. We never got to the price BTW.
https://www.seeking.com/member/ee9ae249-eb7c-41e9-985d-cddf4570fe18
FRUSTRATED!
- DonJon.
HoosierDaddy69
01-29-21, 19:27
This one is asking for PPM just to meet. Made it clear no intimacy. Says "she likes to get to know a guy first". I said cool. Lets get to know. Then allowance starts after your comfortable and we have real intimate dates. No reply. We never got to the price BTW.
https://www.seeking.com/member/ee9ae249-eb7c-41e9-985d-cddf4570fe18
FRUSTRATED!
- DonJon.But relax man, there's so many others on there that will. DM me if you want to get more specific like we did last year. But I've learned that when they say "Networking" and / or do not list FWB or specifically state anything about their role as a SB. They're just a waste of damn time. You can still message them. And some will pleasantly surprise you. But stop getting your hopes up before she's drained your sack at least a few times or these bitches will always find a way to frustrate and disappoint you.
This one is asking for PPM just to meet. Made it clear no intimacy. Says "she likes to get to know a guy first". I said cool. Lets get to know. Then allowance starts after your comfortable and we have real intimate dates. No reply. We never got to the price BTW.
https://www.seeking.com/member/ee9ae249-eb7c-41e9-985d-cddf4570fe18
FRUSTRATED!
- DonJon.Anytime you see travel, fashion etc. Expect a higher than normal price tag. And someone who is probably going to try and keep it platonic either always or at least until she gets paid more than once.
Next haha.
Powerhouse100
01-29-21, 21:01
Hey thanks for this info Hoosier. Glad I stuck to MY price because her pics almost got me!
- Don Jon.Yeah, I conversed with her here and there, one of my biggest issues, besides her exorbitant price, was her spotty coms. If you look at the way she takes pics— those angles— it should make you pretty suspect of what she's hiding. Her coms are so spotty, as I do with others, I don't respond as much. I guess I try to mimic or match how they communicate. So if it takes them 12 hours to respond, I'll wait 13 hours as well to respond. As I get older, I find I less willing to tolerate such bs. At any rate, I stopped dealing with her all together since I knew I wasn't paying her prices.
FunNthaSun
01-29-21, 23:33
I tell you I've been reading the reviews here and your right sugaring is getting tough for ole Fun over here with the 250-350 allowances. It does appear that most of the allowances are going up but in all honesty I've never paid as much as what I'm seeing being paid and I think I've had the pleasure of meeting with many that are being reviewed here. I've found out that being consistently available when they are in absolute need really goes a long way and kind of gets me some serious discounts on allowances. Times I've found to be most promising is end of the month when rent is due or a random message during the week asking of same day meetings when many sd's need time to work out their schedule. Keep in mind I've already had conversations with them and have made it clear what my budget allows. So that has been working really well for me. But we all know the nature of the game when they find one that pays a better allowance the other gets let go. Insert gapeach568. Saw her a few times and had fun each time. Cute face, sexy body and a really cute ass (no greek). Loves lingerie and will wear them when meeting but comms went unanswered for awhile and when she did finally respond I was informed that I was laid off LOL. Oh well so is the life of a sporting man. -Fun-.
https://www.seeking.com/member/631adff0-10ee-4dc2-8466-817124d2fdf9
HoosierDaddy69
01-30-21, 16:57
I tell you I've been reading the reviews here and your right sugaring is getting tough for ole Fun over here with the 250-350 allowances. It does appear that most of the allowances are going up but in all honesty I've never paid as much as what I'm seeing being paid and I think I've had the pleasure of meeting with many that are being reviewed here. I've found out that being consistently available when they are in absolute need really goes a long way and kind of gets me some serious discounts on allowances. Times I've found to be most promising is end of the month when rent is due or a random message during the week asking of same day meetings when many sd's need time to work out their schedule. Keep in mind I've already had conversations with them and have made it clear what my budget allows. So that has been working really well for me. But we all know the nature of the game when they find one that pays a better allowance the other gets let go. Insert gapeach568. Saw her a few times and had fun each time. Cute face, sexy body and a really cute ass (no greek). Loves lingerie and will wear them when meeting but comms went unanswered for awhile and when she did finally respond I was informed that I was laid off LOL. Oh well so is the life of a sporting man. -Fun-.
https://www.seeking.com/member/631adff0-10ee-4dc2-8466-817124d2fdf9Had one last night hmu, haven't seen her in 8+ months. Had a thing for parts of 2019/2020. She just split with her BF and came running back to Daddy because, you guessed it. Rent is coming due soon. We chilled for a bit, smashed for a bit, slept for a bit, smashed some more, made me breakfast, cashapp $200 - and she has to cum see me again for the rest of her rent on Sunday. LOL These girls always come and go. I've found that when you're firm, but fair with them, they always come back around. Can't fault them for going elsewhere if someone wants to give them 300-400.
Powerhouse100
01-30-21, 20:10
I tell you I've been reading the reviews here and your right sugaring is getting tough for ole Fun over here with the 250-350 allowances. It does appear that most of the allowances are going up but in all honesty I've never paid as much as what I'm seeing being paid and I think I've had the pleasure of meeting with many that are being reviewed here. I've found out that being consistently available when they are in absolute need really goes a long way and kind of gets me some serious discounts on allowances. Times I've found to be most promising is end of the month when rent is due or a random message during the week asking of same day meetings when many sd's need time to work out their schedule. Keep in mind I've already had conversations with them and have made it clear what my budget allows. So that has been working really well for me. But we all know the nature of the game when they find one that pays a better allowance the other gets let go. Insert gapeach568. Saw her a few times and had fun each time. Cute face, sexy body and a really cute ass (no greek). Loves lingerie and will wear them when meeting but comms went unanswered for awhile and when she did finally respond I was informed that I was laid off LOL. Oh well so is the life of a sporting man. -Fun-.
https://www.seeking.com/member/631adff0-10ee-4dc2-8466-817124d2fdf9No wonder she, more or less, blew me off. I kept asking her to send me a full body pic but she kept saying she was watching a movie with a girlfriend and her man. We gradually just stopped communicating and we our separate ways. Oh well.
FunNthaSun
01-31-21, 08:59
No wonder she, more or less, blew me off. I kept asking her to send me a full body pic but she kept saying she was watching a movie with a girlfriend and her man. We gradually just stopped communicating and we our separate ways. Oh well.Yes she told me she had a boyfriend now but said that she still wanted to meet here and there but she never would respond until that final message of me being laid off. She does have a female roommate that has a profile on sa but I didn't get a chance to see what her girlfriend look like. She lives on the Southside about ten minutes from my house so meeting was very convenient. But oh well the Fun continues.
Anyone have any intel on this one?
Haven't yet gotten a response to my message, but hopeful.
Thanks.
https://www.seeking.com/member/fa0ba5e8-9c04-4047-be1b-81a1ffa2f84b
HoosierDaddy69
02-01-21, 23:43
This is the one I was talking about in my previous review. She continues to text me thinking I'm going to give her 300 per meet. I refuse to meet with her because it's just not going to happen. She gives me a lot of sob stories about why her financial situation is dismal, but I'm not moved by any of them! I keep asking for an introductory meet but she's stuck on $300! SMH.
https://www.seeking.com/member/b0b0adee-3621-45f9-b594-7c7c7260781bLike a lot of you, she has been blowing me up lately. But someone made reference to our convo here and she called me out on it. No biggie, except that she informed me that she she keeps detailed records of everyone she's interacted with on SA. Even sent me screenshots of her notes about me, which include my name (no biggie we follow each other on SM, etc), screen name, dates visited, amounts paid, etc. I won't be seeing her anymore due to her little black book. She claims it just help keep her records / thoughts straight etc and not any malicious intent. And it's entirely possible because I'm certain she's been assertively texting many others trying to pay her bills, etc. But I thought my fellow mongers should that it exists.
Powerhouse100
02-02-21, 01:09
Like a lot of you, she has been blowing me up lately. But someone made reference to our convo here and she called me out on it. No biggie, except that she informed me that she she keeps detailed records of everyone she's interacted with on SA. Even sent me screenshots of her notes about me, which include my name (no biggie we follow each other on SM, etc), screen name, dates visited, amounts paid, etc. I won't be seeing her anymore due to her little black book. She claims it just help keep her records / thoughts straight etc and not any malicious intent. And it's entirely possible because I'm certain she's been assertively texting many others trying to pay her bills, etc. But I thought my fellow mongers should that it exists.HD69,
I appreciate the heads up. I haven't talk to her in about a week. Honestly, the begging is just plain tired and I get weary of it. This girl begs so much, she might as well be standing on the corner somewhere with a sign or something asking for a buck. I definitely will not see her azz now!
FourSeasons2
02-02-21, 09:13
Anyone have any intel on this one?
Haven't yet gotten a response to my message, but hopeful.
Thanks.
https://www.seeking.com/member/fa0ba5e8-9c04-4047-be1b-81a1ffa2f84bTexted back and forth with her. Comms were sporadic. Would reply days later.
Like a lot of you, she has been blowing me up lately. But someone made reference to our convo here and she called me out on it. No biggie, except that she informed me that she she keeps detailed records of everyone she's interacted with on SA. Even sent me screenshots of her notes about me, which include my name (no biggie we follow each other on SM, etc), screen name, dates visited, amounts paid, etc. I won't be seeing her anymore due to her little black book. She claims it just help keep her records / thoughts straight etc and not any malicious intent. And it's entirely possible because I'm certain she's been assertively texting many others trying to pay her bills, etc. But I thought my fellow mongers should that it exists.Yes there are some big hairy moles on here trying to score points. They obviously don't make enough $ to be a real SD. Unfortunately I only provide reviews by PM.
HoosierDaddy69
02-02-21, 19:32
Like a lot of you, she has been blowing me up lately. But someone made reference to our convo here and she called me out on it. No biggie, except that she informed me that she she keeps detailed records of everyone she's interacted with on SA. Even sent me screenshots of her notes about me, which include my name (no biggie we follow each other on SM, etc), screen name, dates visited, amounts paid, etc. I won't be seeing her anymore due to her little black book. She claims it just help keep her records / thoughts straight etc and not any malicious intent. And it's entirely possible because I'm certain she's been assertively texting many others trying to pay her bills, etc. But I thought my fellow mongers should that it exists.She wasn't upset that this board exists or about what I posted (it's all factual). And I do sincerely believe that she really is "the dingy blonde" and needs to keep notes to keep her conversations organized, Otherwise she'd really be a mess. I do not believe she intends it as anything malicious or devious. But then again, neither did Heidy Fleiss.
She wasn't upset that this board exists or about what I posted (it's all factual). And I do sincerely believe that she really is "the dingy blonde" and needs to keep notes to keep her conversations organized, Otherwise she'd really be a mess. I do not believe she intends it as anything malicious or devious. But then again, neither did Heidy Fleiss.I always thought Heidi was fugly, how accurate is the pics the girl you're talking about?
Powerhouse100
02-02-21, 23:05
Like a lot of you, she has been blowing me up lately. But someone made reference to our convo here and she called me out on it. No biggie, except that she informed me that she she keeps detailed records of everyone she's interacted with on SA. Even sent me screenshots of her notes about me, which include my name (no biggie we follow each other on SM, etc), screen name, dates visited, amounts paid, etc. I won't be seeing her anymore due to her little black book. She claims it just help keep her records / thoughts straight etc and not any malicious intent. And it's entirely possible because I'm certain she's been assertively texting many others trying to pay her bills, etc. But I thought my fellow mongers should that it exists.HD69,
The reason I responded the way I did is because of what you wrote:
"Even sent me screenshots of her notes about me, which include my name (no biggie we follow each other on SM, etc), screen name, dates visited, amounts paid, etc. I won't be seeing her anymore due to her little black book. ".
HD69,
Based on what you wrote, you seemed to be concerned about what she wrote and I would too. Personally, I won't be seeing her because she informed you of what she has for a reason--like, for example, "if you cross me, I got something for you. " At any rate, I would not see someone who has made it clear she is keeping meticulous records on me and others and I'd advise everyone else to do the same. Fortunately for me, I use an app, but even it can be traced in many cases.
HoosierDaddy69
02-03-21, 11:23
HD69,
The reason I responded the way I did is because of what you wrote:
"Even sent me screenshots of her notes about me, which include my name (no biggie we follow each other on SM, etc), screen name, dates visited, amounts paid, etc. I won't be seeing her anymore due to her little black book. ".
HD69,
Based on what you wrote, you seemed to be concerned about what she wrote and I would too. Personally, I won't be seeing her because she informed you of what she has for a reason--like, for example, "if you cross me, I got something for you. " At any rate, I would not see someone who has made it clear she is keeping meticulous records on me and others and I'd advise everyone else to do the same. Fortunately for me, I use an app, but even it can be traced in many cases.I was just clarifying to say I don't believe that is her intent. She's just interacting with so many that she has to keep it organized or we all start running together. I'm more concerned about someone else, a jealous BF, LEO, etc getting a hold of it and doing something with it. I'm not seeking fame from SA LOL. But yeah, once I learned this existed, I was done (probably done regardless) seeing her.
HoosierDaddy69
02-03-21, 11:44
I always thought Heidi was fugly, how accurate is the pics the girl you're talking about?Her looks is the least of her problems.
Considering making an investment. Does anyone have any intel?
1.) https://www.seeking.com/member/52eef096-4e1f-4afa-921f-bf613d9c5f9a.
2.)https://www.seeking.com/member/1dd3e855-ccec-4421-b740-7e188df9c989.
3.)https://www.seeking.com/member/03003708-7c9f-4f51-8c9b-a59dc3fb13aa.
HoosierDaddy69
02-04-21, 11:38
Considering making an investment. Does anyone have any intel?
1.) https://www.seeking.com/member/52eef096-4e1f-4afa-921f-bf613d9c5f9a.
2.)https://www.seeking.com/member/1dd3e855-ccec-4421-b740-7e188df9c989.
3.)https://www.seeking.com/member/03003708-7c9f-4f51-8c9b-a59dc3fb13aa.Are you still in Daytona area? I've found a few decent ones there the past several weeks.
HoosierDaddy69
02-04-21, 11:39
https://www.seeking.com/member/5d0e849d-05f4-4cad-a465-8f4fea95f932
Seems legit and I have a meet set up for this weekend. Anybody got any info / intel they can share? PM is fine.
https://www.seeking.com/member/5d0e849d-05f4-4cad-a465-8f4fea95f932
Seems legit and I have a meet set up for this weekend. Anybody got any info / intel they can share? PM is fine.Can't help with this one but she looks like a keeper. So as you know I have provided reviews in the past but had three SB call me out on them which naturally caused a riff. So no doubt we have an informant and since it started happening, I have been getting ghosted every time I request information on a potential sb, and what's weird I have had great comms and meets set up. Anyone else having this problem?
I'm trying to confirm a pattern.
If you get blocked, you see the circle with a line through it. Some of them change username to just say Sugar Baby and others you still see their username.
I think if you still see their username, that means they're still active and blocked you. But if you see just Sugar Baby that means they closed / deactivated their account?
Can anyone confirm this logic is correct, or backwards or what?
I think I'm right because ones where I can still see their username have sometimes changed location LOL.
https://www.seeking.com/member/5d0e849d-05f4-4cad-a465-8f4fea95f932
Seems legit and I have a meet set up for this weekend. Anybody got any info / intel they can share? PM is fine.Not sure why I haven't ever messaged her. But not a bad looker.
Be curious myself. Let us know how it goes.
HoosierDaddy69
02-04-21, 15:28
https://www.seeking.com/member/4616ace0-64c1-4857-a838-a8a6892d7ba7
Been chatting with her off / on for a few weeks. Finally got her locked in at $$$ per meet because she agreed to travel to me.
Claimed to be a pre school teacher. Now I see she's a pro and a well reviewed pro at that LOL. Didn't know when I agreed to take her to dinner and a couple hours of fun afterwards that she was going to maximize her earning potential in Jax LOL. Idgaf tho, she seems fun.
https://jacksonville.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_e/sweet-as-heaven-hot-as-hell/543200803796
ZoomLens2013
02-04-21, 15:43
https://www.seeking.com/member/4616ace0-64c1-4857-a838-a8a6892d7ba7
Been chatting with her off / on for a few weeks. Finally got her locked in at $$$ per meet because she agreed to travel to me.
Claimed to be a pre school teacher. Now I see she's a pro and a well reviewed pro at that LOL. Didn't know when I agreed to take her to dinner and a couple hours of fun afterwards that she was going to maximize her earning potential in Jax LOL. Idgaf tho, she seems fun.
https://jacksonville.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_e/sweet-as-heaven-hot-as-hell/543200803796Thanks for links. I reported her profile on SA, since Escorts are unwanted there. No need to muddy the already murky waters.
So I have ALSO been trying to figure this out. What you described below is EXACTLY the pattern that I have seen.
I'm trying to confirm a pattern.
If you get blocked, you see the circle with a line through it. Some of them change username to just say Sugar Baby and others you still see their username.
I think if you still see their username, that means they're still active and blocked you. But if you see just Sugar Baby that means they closed / deactivated their account?
Can anyone confirm this logic is correct, or backwards or what?
I think I'm right because ones where I can still see their username have sometimes changed location LOL.
So I have ALSO been trying to figure this out. What you described below is EXACTLY the pattern that I have seen.My experience and research shows that when an account is deactivated the system changes the name to sugar baby and if you click on the message the bottom will read that the account has been deactivated by the user if you are blocked you will see a message telling you it's been deactivated or you have been blocked hope this helps.
HoosierDaddy69
02-05-21, 12:35
Thanks for links. I reported her profile on SA, since Escorts are unwanted there. No need to muddy the already murky waters.It's the SW's and STG $60 QV girls that don't belong on seeking. Just my personal preference. And I still see my fair share of those types.
The realty is a lot of these SB's have been an escort or done escort things before. Otherwise, they wouldn't be so easily persuaded by a reasonable PPM. It s what it is man LOL.
Get to virtually test drive the product before I rent it. Not too bad.
ZoomLens2013
02-05-21, 14:33
https://www.seeking.com/member/6211c8e3-f96c-4038-b9e2-f35bce09dc4e
This one wants 5 bills for discreet ppm.
ZoomLens2013
02-05-21, 15:13
Thanks to whoever posted the link to Savannah Star's porn site. That helped me decide not to waste my time. We were going to meet but her vids show she's not my type.Yeah, no kidding. That was a totally useful video link. I just blocked her.
HoosierDaddy69
02-05-21, 15:18
https://www.seeking.com/member/6211c8e3-f96c-4038-b9e2-f35bce09dc4e
This one wants 5 bills for discreet ppm.I passed on her last year after a few texts back and forth.
ZoomLens2013
02-05-21, 15:22
Get to virtually test drive the product before I rent it. Not too bad.Damn, that's a nice nipple!
ZoomLens2013
02-05-21, 15:25
I passed on her last year after a few texts back and forth.She can't host either, which completely kills it for me.
ZoomLens2013
02-06-21, 09:58
If a girl has something like this in her profile description, does it mean she's doing this as a pro? "so only hit me up if you're ready to meet day of or the next day. " LOL Pic filters aside, she seems to be a good lookin' girl. But, she's definitely not into a lot of conversation. (Yeah, I'm one of the chatty ones with these girls).
https://www.seeking.com/member/41e09500-45a2-4609-b873-218bf8d1be43
If a girl has something like this in her profile description, does it mean she's doing this as a pro? "so only hit me up if you're ready to meet day of or the next day. " LOL Pic filters aside, she seems to be a good lookin' girl. But, she's definitely not into a lot of conversation. (Yeah, I'm one of the chatty ones with these girls).
https://www.seeking.com/member/41e09500-45a2-4609-b873-218bf8d1be43Never mind that crosseyed or walleyed girls are a total boner killer for me (doesn't matter how hot otherwise. I know, weird, but whatever), I'd be a little more worried about the "spoiled brat" self description. Unless she's going for the "I've been bad, and daddy needs to punish me" angle, I guess it would strike me as a red flag.
And to answer your question, yes I would assume that's day-of PPM.
FunNthaSun
02-07-21, 01:44
If a girl has something like this in her profile description, does it mean she's doing this as a pro? "so only hit me up if you're ready to meet day of or the next day. " LOL Pic filters aside, she seems to be a good lookin' girl. But, she's definitely not into a lot of conversation. (Yeah, I'm one of the chatty ones with these girls).
https://www.seeking.com/member/41e09500-45a2-4609-b873-218bf8d1be43She's been reviewed here before. Reviews have been somewhat mixed so YMMV but I've never had a single issue from meeting with her. She's really not into alot of small talk but is a really pleasant and down to earth person.
LTlurker53
02-08-21, 17:47
https://www.seeking.com/member/e5d4a675-7fc6-4aaf-85af-d7f16789eaa5
Saw this lady recently. Visits jacksonville regularly. Stays in a nice clean hotel. Works as a professional accountant by day but flexible for meet ups and will host. She is 40 not 30. And she is a bigger girl. Huge tits and big nipples. She is cool. Easy to talk to. And she loves giving head. I mean loves it. She sucked for almost an hour and swallowed every drop.
Work out your own arrangement. To each his own there.
HoosierDaddy69
02-08-21, 22:23
https://www.seeking.com/member/2246c64a-0a41-474b-ba98-41439a9248fc
When it comes down to it. She says she wants $300 PPM (but she's negotiable). But she wants to be taken on dates etc first. Which, okay to each his own. But I made it clear no allowance for dates w / o intimacy. She says that's fine. But she is just average looking at best, pics are real, but very forgiving angles, etc. And it turns out she's not negotiable. I offered $$ and she said nothing less than $300. So don't waste your dinner dollars on her LOL. There's too many others that look better for $200 or less.
On to the next one LOL.
LTlurker53
02-08-21, 23:24
If you don't have a premium sa account to see and contact these girls don't pm someone and ask for a girls contact info. Good lord.
https://www.seeking.com/member/e5d4a675-7fc6-4aaf-85af-d7f16789eaa5
Saw this lady recently. Visits jacksonville regularly. Stays in a nice clean hotel. Works as a professional accountant by day but flexible for meet ups and will host. She is 40 not 30. And she is a bigger girl. Huge tits and big nipples. She is cool. Easy to talk to. And she loves giving head. I mean loves it. She sucked for almost an hour and swallowed every drop.
Work out your own arrangement. To each his own there.
She dropped a lot of names when I met her. I didn't want my name dropped so kinda faded away, seems she's forgotten me enough to stop texting me.
Like a lot of you, she has been blowing me up lately. But someone made reference to our convo here and she called me out on it. No biggie, except that she informed me that she she keeps detailed records of everyone she's interacted with on SA. Even sent me screenshots of her notes about me, which include my name (no biggie we follow each other on SM, etc), screen name, dates visited, amounts paid, etc. I won't be seeing her anymore due to her little black book. She claims it just help keep her records / thoughts straight etc and not any malicious intent. And it's entirely possible because I'm certain she's been assertively texting many others trying to pay her bills, etc. But I thought my fellow mongers should that it exists.
Another one to add to the GPS nope no way category.
https://www.seeking.com/member/f7580320-c010-47ed-9ede-d13510fd5122
Good comms on site and moved to text. Has 310 area code which was a red flag but good initial comms in text. Agreed to meet for lunch today (Tuesday) via text yesterday morning.
A couple hours later she asks if I'll be paying for our initial lunch date and tried to explain facts of life on that but I played along and asked what she thought was reasonable. She quoted $$$ - for lunch! GTFOH.
NEXT LOL.
ZoomLens2013
02-09-21, 12:47
If you don't have a premium sa account to see and contact these girls don't pm someone and ask for a girls contact info. Good lord.People who do that don't belong that website. Yeah, I'll be a gatekeeper. LOL.
I'm still going to do her in the ass!.Whose boobs are these? Don't think I was ever clear on that haha.
I want to play with them LOL.
Whose boobs are these? Don't think I was ever clear on that haha.
I want to play with them LOL.Don't ya luv puffy nipples. I did do her in the ass, but it just wasn't fun. She's a middle eastern gal, but out of state now, so its all moot. Her vaj wasn't shaved. YUCK.
Don't ya luv puffy nipples. I did do her in the ass, but it just wasn't fun. She's a middle eastern gal, but out of state now, so its all moot. Her vaj wasn't shaved. YUCK.Yes I do. But damnit.
Sorry the dream didn't end like you wanted.
HoosierDaddy69
02-11-21, 15:08
She's been reviewed here before. Reviews have been somewhat mixed so YMMV but I've never had a single issue from meeting with her. She's really not into alot of small talk but is a really pleasant and down to earth person.This was very helpful and the very reason this board is so valuable. I too tend to get a little chatty with most of them. I have my reasons and I've reaped benefits from my tactics. But it was clear that would not work with her. So armed with this insight, I re engaged her and had a solid meet at a very reasonable price point. She's definitely the girl in the pics. She's pleasant, a little shy at first but opens up, well groomed / fresh and a fairly open menu (DFK & Anal play the only No's I got). I will most likely repeat and the visual of that booty / kitty in K9 still lingers positively in my mind.
FunNthaSun
02-11-21, 22:43
This was very helpful and the very reason this board is so valuable. I too tend to get a little chatty with most of them. I have my reasons and I've reaped benefits from my tactics. But it was clear that would not work with her. So armed with this insight, I re engaged her and had a solid meet at a very reasonable price point. She's definitely the girl in the pics. She's pleasant, a little shy at first but opens up, well groomed / fresh and a fairly open menu (DFK & Anal play the only No's I got). I will most likely repeat and the visual of that booty / kitty in K9 still lingers positively in my mind.Glad you had a nice time. But more to your point I agree about this forum being a very valuable asset in the monger business. I can't tell you how many times the reviews here have saved me from wasting my time and coins and also on the flip side connecting with providers that are a total blast. I will say that every positive review from one monger may not yield the same with another monger (YMMV) but for the most part this forum is gold.
HoosierDaddy69
02-12-21, 20:09
https://www.seeking.com/member/b91607b1-42ea-4a24-95e7-b5ee90adf292
https://www.seeking.com/member/b4492e58-b9de-432b-99f6-91b83b1f4a51
Same girl. We had messaged last month under Lenaexoxo profile. Rather than give me her number, she prefers snapchat. Ok no biggie, And after she checks all the boxes, DTF, meet in person, reasonable donation, etc. Move to Snap and she starts with the selling pics crap or yes we can meet tomorrow, can you please send me $20 cashapp so I can get food" This crap goes on and on until eventually I delete / block her on snap. And now here we go again this week under Playgirlxoxo1 profile. Once again she checks all the boxes. Redirects number attempt to snap, and then here comes the pics / vids or just send me money for food.
Just save your time / energy.
https://www.seeking.com/member/b91607b1-42ea-4a24-95e7-b5ee90adf292
https://www.seeking.com/member/b4492e58-b9de-432b-99f6-91b83b1f4a51
Same girl. We had messaged last month under Lenaexoxo profile. Rather than give me her number, she prefers snapchat. Ok no biggie, And after she checks all the boxes, DTF, meet in person, reasonable donation, etc. Move to Snap and she starts with the selling pics crap or yes we can meet tomorrow, can you please send me $20 cashapp so I can get food" This crap goes on and on until eventually I delete / block her on snap. And now here we go again this week under Playgirlxoxo1 profile. Once again she checks all the boxes. Redirects number attempt to snap, and then here comes the pics / vids or just send me money for food.
Just save your time / energy.Messaged with her via text under Lena and one night she wanted me to have a pizza delivered because she had allegedly just got home from work and left her debit card at work (LOL yeah ok).
I just blew her off. Then she messaged me earlier today in the new profile like I wouldn't recognize etc.
I just ignored her.
HoosierDaddy69
02-13-21, 16:07
She stays off of Southpoint Rd at one of the less than great places. Broke, wanted money cash app to her to pay for her room.
She sent me a couple nice looking pics, has a great looking ass. Even sent a small video but she scamming for most part, wanting to sell pics, vidz and gain your trust to meet etc.
Went back and forth on text and now she has blocked me on SA LOL.
Be interested to know if anyone made a run at her.
https://www.seeking.com/member/77b4e133-ea85-4bf5-a19e-d2293c5032aeShe's legit. Forehead looks more normal in person haha. Never came at me trying to sell pics / vids, but I never asked her to send me anything either. She is staying at motel in Baymeadows now. The room looked lived in, several large suitcases of clothes, she has 2 bald kitty's one is her tiny little Vag and the other a cat (like Mr Bigglesworth). Claims it's her female cousin living there with her. IDK. There was some young white dude walking around / hanging out on a picnic table 50 yards away. She was clean, smelled good. Kitty was super tight! Very reasonable price of admission. She is tiny though. I bet she weighs no more than 105 lbs.
TomCat4871
02-13-21, 20:04
Same deal, at least one text she was rather commanding!
"I need money, send me $20" LOL.
Just blew her off.
https://www.seeking.com/member/b91607b1-42ea-4a24-95e7-b5ee90adf292
https://www.seeking.com/member/b4492e58-b9de-432b-99f6-91b83b1f4a51
Same girl. We had messaged last month under Lenaexoxo profile. Rather than give me her number, she prefers snapchat. Ok no biggie, And after she checks all the boxes, DTF, meet in person, reasonable donation, etc. Move to Snap and she starts with the selling pics crap or yes we can meet tomorrow, can you please send me $20 cashapp so I can get food" This crap goes on and on until eventually I delete / block her on snap. And now here we go again this week under Playgirlxoxo1 profile. Once again she checks all the boxes. Redirects number attempt to snap, and then here comes the pics / vids or just send me money for food.
Just save your time / energy.
FunNthaSun
02-13-21, 21:46
She's legit. Forehead looks more normal in person haha. Never came at me trying to sell pics / vids, but I never asked her to send me anything either. She is staying at motel in Baymeadows now. The room looked lived in, several large suitcases of clothes, she has 2 bald kitty's one is her tiny little Vag and the other a cat (like Mr Bigglesworth). Claims it's her female cousin living there with her. IDK. There was some young white dude walking around / hanging out on a picnic table 50 yards away. She was clean, smelled good. Kitty was super tight! Very reasonable price of admission. She is tiny though. I bet she weighs no more than 105 lbs.I was in the baymeadows area and actually saw her walking her bald kitty next to one of the hotels. Man was it ugly LOL. I was chatting with her for awhile when she first joined and almost pulled the trigger so that's how I recognized her when I saw her walking her cat. Yes the cat was on a leash LOL. There also was a dude with her when I saw her. She is really skinny like you said and I saw nothing that enticed me so I won't peruse any meets with her.
NobodyWhat
02-13-21, 23:36
Ash is crazy.
HornyGoat69
02-14-21, 18:36
This was very helpful and the very reason this board is so valuable. I too tend to get a little chatty with most of them. I have my reasons and I've reaped benefits from my tactics. But it was clear that would not work with her. So armed with this insight, I re engaged her and had a solid meet at a very reasonable price point. She's definitely the girl in the pics. She's pleasant, a little shy at first but opens up, well groomed / fresh and a fairly open menu (DFK & Anal play the only No's I got). I will most likely repeat and the visual of that booty / kitty in K9 still lingers positively in my mind.Just saw her today at a baymeadows apt. Said she had moved recently. Nice place not a dump. BBBJ and covered FS. Nice body and ok experience. Felt slightly rushed and most importantly smell from South killed it for me. After my fingers were in the cup of sugar, I will need a bucket of soap to take the stench of dead fish off. I am not repeating.
HG.
DiscreetFun306
02-15-21, 08:34
Same here. Wanted me to send money for food. Snapchat score was in single digits which indicates brand new account. Another big red flag. Snapchat in general is usually not a good sign. Texting is my preferred form of communicating.
In my experience:
Texting. Around a 50/50 chance of getting at least a meet and great.
SnapChat. Maybe 10%.
WhatsApp / Kik. Always is scam. I don't even deal with these anymore.
https://www.seeking.com/member/b91607b1-42ea-4a24-95e7-b5ee90adf292
https://www.seeking.com/member/b4492e58-b9de-432b-99f6-91b83b1f4a51
Same girl. We had messaged last month under Lenaexoxo profile. Rather than give me her number, she prefers snapchat. Ok no biggie, And after she checks all the boxes, DTF, meet in person, reasonable donation, etc. Move to Snap and she starts with the selling pics crap or yes we can meet tomorrow, can you please send me $20 cashapp so I can get food" This crap goes on and on until eventually I delete / block her on snap. And now here we go again this week under Playgirlxoxo1 profile. Once again she checks all the boxes. Redirects number attempt to snap, and then here comes the pics / vids or just send me money for food.
Just save your time / energy.
DiscreetFun306
02-15-21, 08:49
Here is a new one I just came across.
SugarbabyErika69 https://www.seeking.com/member/4f3ad80d-37f3-416f-8f5e-948e3baf4697 wants me to transfer money to her Amazon GC before meeting to prove I'm legit, but says you can do it with a transaction password that I can give her after we meet. My spidey senses are tingling a scam, so I'm going to pass. Doing a quick google search I don't see anything about using a password when adding to amazon gc balance. Has anyone come across this before?
Fishguy717
02-15-21, 14:43
Anyone have any intel on this one?
Haven't yet gotten a response to my message, but hopeful.
Thanks.
https://www.seeking.com/member/fa0ba5e8-9c04-4047-be1b-81a1ffa2f84bDid you ever get anything out of this girl? We've texted, but like so many others, her comms suck. I do know she lives on the west side, but that's about it.
Here is a new one I just came across.
SugarbabyErika69 https://www.seeking.com/member/4f3ad80d-37f3-416f-8f5e-948e3baf4697 wants me to transfer money to her Amazon GC before meeting to prove I'm legit, but says you can do it with a transaction password that I can give her after we meet. My spidey senses are tingling a scam, so I'm going to pass. Doing a quick google search I don't see anything about using a password when adding to amazon gc balance. Has anyone come across this before?Always check where they login from. You would have quickly spotted this 'person' logged in from India.
HoosierDaddy69
02-15-21, 16:31
Ash is crazy.Some are the fun kind of crazy and most are the bat-shit kind of crazy. Was there something specific you wanted us to know?
HoosierDaddy69
02-15-21, 16:38
Here is a new one I just came across.
wants me to transfer money before meeting to prove I'm legitAny request of this nature is 100% BS and you will never meet them. NEVER NEVER NEVER fall for that.
Scooter points out an obvious catch. But the more tech savvy will spoof their IP address / location through a VPN proxy, etc Also, premium members can hide location / login info. And it's very easy for them to get a US based (dot) edu (college) email to be a free SB premium member.
So nothing is 100% foolproof. But you can rest assured that them asking for something "to prove you're real / serious" is 100% a scam.
Fishguy717
02-16-21, 07:55
https://www.seeking.com/member/cd48efa5-a6ef-4521-96f2-84d2aaa8f9d7
Goes by 'Selena Bunny' on snapchat, which is where she immediately sent me. We went around and around a bit, but I couldn't get her to send a verifying, particular pic. She's another that just wants money for pics / videos. I figured as much, pretty much anytime they send you straight to snap chat that's where it's headed.
ZoomLens2013
02-16-21, 12:44
https://www.seeking.com/member/cd48efa5-a6ef-4521-96f2-84d2aaa8f9d7
Goes by 'Selena Bunny' on snapchat, which is where she immediately sent me. We went around and around a bit, but I couldn't get her to send a verifying, particular pic. She's another that just wants money for pics / videos. I figured as much, pretty much anytime they send you straight to snap chat that's where it's headed.Yeah, it went almost straight to SC for me, too. However, I've been chatting with her since last night. This morning, I got her to say she wants 350 per meet. I'm working to get that price lower, though. We'll see how it goes. She hasn't asked me to pay for pics / vids, yet. I did make a comment on her SC story being made up of pics that clearly show she's a SC nude model.
Yep, you beat me to it Fish. We must have been messaging her at the same time. Anyway, correct. Time waster.
https://www.seeking.com/member/cd48efa5-a6ef-4521-96f2-84d2aaa8f9d7
Goes by 'Selena Bunny' on snapchat, which is where she immediately sent me. We went around and around a bit, but I couldn't get her to send a verifying, particular pic. She's another that just wants money for pics / videos. I figured as much, pretty much anytime they send you straight to snap chat that's where it's headed.
HoosierDaddy69
02-16-21, 15:28
https://www.seeking.com/member/82045dc5-df80-4a3b-af60-953865f15cf1
https://www.seeking.com/member/47c8fc4d-cc4e-458a-9fcd-197ed45e9ead
Same girl. Seems fun, DTF, etc. Anyone got any intel? Trying to set meet w / her now.
DM is fine.
LTlurker53
02-16-21, 15:57
But the pic looks familiar and only one profile opens for me so there mist have been something off or jist didn't click.
https://www.seeking.com/member/82045dc5-df80-4a3b-af60-953865f15cf1
https://www.seeking.com/member/47c8fc4d-cc4e-458a-9fcd-197ed45e9ead
Same girl. Seems fun, DTF, etc. Anyone got any intel? Trying to set meet w / her now.
DM is fine.
ZoomLens2013
02-16-21, 16:11
https://www.seeking.com/member/cd48efa5-a6ef-4521-96f2-84d2aaa8f9d7
Goes by 'Selena Bunny' on snapchat, which is where she immediately sent me. We went around and around a bit, but I couldn't get her to send a verifying, particular pic. She's another that just wants money for pics / videos. I figured as much, pretty much anytime they send you straight to snap chat that's where it's headed.Following up on my earlier post, I lowballed her at 200, but she didn't take it. I chose not to make a higher offer upon her rejection. So, 350 ppm seems to be where she's at. Again, that was for a meet, and she never offered to sell me pics / vids.
In the dance department. Wackos and emperors are a couple of the theaters you might see her in, emperors alot recently.
https://www.seeking.com/member/82045dc5-df80-4a3b-af60-953865f15cf1
https://www.seeking.com/member/47c8fc4d-cc4e-458a-9fcd-197ed45e9ead
Same girl. Seems fun, DTF, etc. Anyone got any intel? Trying to set meet w / her now.
DM is fine.
HoosierDaddy69
02-16-21, 17:44
In the dance department. Wackos and emperors are a couple of the theaters you might see her in, emperors alot recently.I've been to Emperors a handful of times the past few weeks. Haven't seen her. But these girls always float around anyways. Those clubs also have the same ownership. Nothing naming her in the strip club thread.
Was hoping for some meeting intel LOL.
Surely one of our fellow mongers has sampled this previously.
Fishguy717
02-17-21, 10:15
I've been to Emperors a handful of times the past few weeks. Haven't seen her. But these girls always float around anyways. Those clubs also have the same ownership. Nothing naming her in the strip club thread.
Was hoping for some meeting intel LOL.
Surely one of our fellow mongers has sampled this previously.We chatted a few months back, she told me she was at GC, and to come see her. I did, and saw her from a distance, she just didn't do anything for me. She texted and asked me if I was there, told her something came up. She's attractive, but looks like makeup is caked on pretty good. I'm spoiled with the younger girls anyway.
HoosierDaddy69
02-20-21, 15:41
https://www.seeking.com/member/474b4868-f22c-478c-8f20-6cbecc623e09
Profile says she's 19 which she confirmed in messaging on site. Move to text and after much banter back and forth she confirmed age 19 again. Then she sent me some lingerie type pics, I asked again if she was legitimately a legal adult and she reply's with she's only 16 years old, etc. Replied with how adamantly opposed I am to underage / minors, etc, and blocked / deleted.
Be very careful.
Traveler6940
02-22-21, 14:03
https://www.seeking.com/member/474b4868-f22c-478c-8f20-6cbecc623e09
Profile says she's 19 which she confirmed in messaging on site. Move to text and after much banter back and forth she confirmed age 19 again. Then she sent me some lingerie type pics, I asked again if she was legitimately a legal adult and she reply's with she's only 16 years old, etc. Replied with how adamantly opposed I am to underage / minors, etc, and blocked / deleted.
Be very careful.That profile is deleted which is great news.
Fishguy717
02-25-21, 08:42
Wants money up front, asked pretty much immediately. Told her I'd bring it to her, and she said no, too many fakes on here. I said if I'm bringing you money in person, how is that fake? Crickets.
https://www.seeking.com/member/0d37af98-8235-406d-92fb-76d75bba9011
HoosierDaddy69
02-25-21, 13:44
https://www.seeking.com/member/0ab8f315-40ba-49e5-a8b8-a4b3543146e0
Not even a hello LOL. This is her reply to my intro message. These f at cking bitches LOL.
Anyone talk to Madi too?
I've been texting with her. Well until she dropped the "I need 500 per week" = 2 k a month. I did the normal. "that's possible depending on. " No reply yet.
Does anyone have info on her?
https://www.seeking.com/member/49ef758b-6355-44fb-acef-5703ebaecf2b
- DonJon.
LOL. WTF, it seems like SA cloned the same chick over and over. Here is another one that dropped the " I need 2 k a month".
Anyone have feedback on this one? Hopefully ya'll didn't give her 2k a month. LOL.
https://www.seeking.com/member/166a0e2d-faaa-45d3-8b01-c47c88d10dc9
- DonJon.
HoosierDaddy69
02-26-21, 20:50
Anyone talk to Madi too?
I've been texting with her. Well until she dropped the "I need 500 per week" = 2 k a month. I did the normal. "that's possible depending on. " No reply yet.
Does anyone have info on her?
https://www.seeking.com/member/49ef758b-6355-44fb-acef-5703ebaecf2b
- DonJon.
LOL. WTF, it seems like SA cloned the same chick over and over. Here is another one that dropped the " I need 2 k a month".
Anyone have feedback on this one? Hopefully ya'll didn't give her 2k a month. LOL.
https://www.seeking.com/member/166a0e2d-faaa-45d3-8b01-c47c88d10dc9
- DonJon.$2 K a month isn't terrible all things considered, just depends on what you're getting in return. Like any other ROI. I paid my last long term SB $2 K monthly for over a year. But I also smashed her down a couple of times a week. She would occasionally cook / clean for me. And the best part, she introduced me to probably 8-10 other girls that we played with during that time. Obviously, they're not all like her.
These girls are more attractive than half of the chicks on SA. So they're going to get a decent rate. If you're wanting to smash and dash, just get the lowest ppm they'll agree to and enjoy.
FYI, I've traded messages on SA with both. But have not moved to text with either.
Ok, thanks for sharing. I've never gone over 1200/ mo personally. So knowing you have definitely puts a different perspective on it.
I don't want to miss out because I'm being cheap. But also don't want to get screwed if others are negotiating better than me. LOL.
$2 K a month isn't terrible all things considered, just depends on what you're getting in return. Like any other ROI. I paid my last long term SB $2 K monthly for over a year. But I also smashed her down a couple of times a week. She would occasionally cook / clean for me. And the best part, she introduced me to probably 8-10 other girls that we played with during that time. Obviously, they're not all like her.
These girls are more attractive than half of the chicks on SA. So they're going to get a decent rate. If you're wanting to smash and dash, just get the lowest ppm they'll agree to and enjoy.
FYI, I've traded messages on SA with both. But have not moved to text with either.
HoosierDaddy69
02-26-21, 21:34
Ok, thanks for sharing. I've never gone over 1200/ mo personally. So knowing you have definitely puts a different perspective on it.
I don't want to miss out because I'm being cheap. But also don't want to get screwed if others are negotiating better than me. LOL.Aint going to fuck them all, no matter how hard I try. Also, aint going to click with everyone or get the best price on every girl. Connection, vibe, etc goes a long way with these girls. For all you know, she could be telling everyone else she wants $3 K. Regardless, if you enjoy your time / experience with her that's ultimately all that matters. Besides, you two are only $800 a month apart. I'm sure you can think of $800 worth of extras she can do for you LOL. Worse case scenario, share her with your buddies here once a week to make up the difference haha. Enjoy brotha!
Powerhouse100
02-26-21, 23:59
Ok, thanks for sharing. I've never gone over 1200/ mo personally. So knowing you have definitely puts a different perspective on it.
I don't want to miss out because I'm being cheap. But also don't want to get screwed if others are negotiating better than me. LOL.I don't think you're being cheap. I think you're being economical and wise. We can't spend all of our money on pussy, as there is more to life than sex. Look, if Walmart had to depend on me as its only customer, its business would suffer immensely. It's better that a company has a slew of customers so it doesn't have to depend on one person all the time.
What I'm saying is, instead of these girls asking us (one person) for what is equivalent to a house note (2-3 k / month), why don't they (many do, I'm certain) have multiple guys contributing to achieve their financial goals. It's better to get 10 k a month from 10 guys than from one, I guess, unless he's rich like that. To think I have to give someone 2-3 k a month for pussy is insane. At some point, I'm going to get tired of that pussy anyway. And let's face it, no matter what, a woman is a woman is a woman; whether she is a girlfriend, wife, sister, etc. , a woman is a woman--in other words, a woman will, in most cases, take you through the wringer, at some point! I can only tolerate certain ones for so long because it's only a matter of time the BS will begin. Off soapbox! LOL.
Fishguy717
02-27-21, 12:03
Strings it out for a while, as if she really wants to meet in person, but in the end, wants $$ for pics and videos. Don't waste your time unless you're into that.
https://www.seeking.com/member/938fc23b-ab9f-42ac-8d3b-ef056967e1e8
ZoomLens2013
02-27-21, 14:31
Strings it out for a while, as if she really wants to meet in person, but in the end, wants $$ for pics and videos. Don't waste your time unless you're into that.
https://www.seeking.com/member/938fc23b-ab9f-42ac-8d3b-ef056967e1e8I had an interaction with her a few weeks ago and it was basically the same thing. I thought I blocked her, but then I got a lengthy message from her that had a phone number requesting that I text her. That's a total tip-off that she's selling something that isn't pussy. LOL.
DiscreetFun306
02-27-21, 15:31
I had an interaction with her a few weeks ago and it was basically the same thing. I thought I blocked her, but then I got a lengthy message from her that had a phone number requesting that I text her. That's a total tip-off that she's selling something that isn't pussy. LOL.I've been chatting with her today. Same deal. I was hesitant to even contact her since she hadn't filled out anything on her profile but I saw it was active since 2019 so I thought what the hell I'll give it a try. She quickly moved to text with MA area code. After a few quick texts to setup a meet and greet she hit me with the "I'm babysitting my mom (yes she said mom) and would need money for a nanny". Said I would be happy to pay for nanny but she gets the money in person when we meet. As expected. Crickets I now see her account shows Orlando.
Strings it out for a while, as if she really wants to meet in person, but in the end, wants $$ for pics and videos. Don't waste your time unless you're into that.
https://www.seeking.com/member/938fc23b-ab9f-42ac-8d3b-ef056967e1e8Lengthy message on SA with a 508 area code number. And will settle for ppm etc.
Said she was in OP then her SA location changed to Orlando LOL.
So I played along and she said 300 ppm. So I asked when, she goes with 'whenever you want but my gas is $50 first' LOL.
Next!
HoosierDaddy69
02-27-21, 16:39
Lengthy message on SA with a 508 area code number. And will settle for ppm etc.
Said she was in OP then her SA location changed to Orlando LOL.
So I played along and she said 300 ppm. So I asked when, she goes with 'whenever you want but my gas is $50 first' LOL.
Next!Otherwise, exact same thing LOL 508 XXX 8413.
Lengthy message on SA with a 508 area code number. And will settle for ppm etc.
Said she was in OP then her SA location changed to Orlando LOL.
So I played along and she said 300 ppm. So I asked when, she goes with 'whenever you want but my gas is $50 first' LOL.
Next!She told me a $100 for a room. She will provide the drinks, weed and some great sex but I need to send it first 😂.
HoosierDaddy69
02-27-21, 21:49
https://www.seeking.com/member/4273c242-d0b9-42be-bbe7-a97995ec0bbd
Anybody got any intel? She's saying all the right things except starting at $500 ppm. But I got her down to something acceptable to me for the quality experience she's describing LOL. She seems fun!
This one has potential but showed up waisted repeatedly ask the same questions couldn't stay focused got so frustrated the great blue vein stopped pumping blood to the shroom. Tried to get some brain but did the stop talk start ask a question routine almost left but the fella kept crawling back in the bed but great spirit.
https://www.seeking.com/member/1dd3e855-ccec-4421-b740-7e188df9c989
Traveler6940
03-02-21, 11:23
Spectacular waste of time.
https://www.seeking.com/member/5645a1b2-f84f-4d62-9e27-6b21f45c8e1a
One of the most extreme cases of GPS I've seen in awhile. Wants 5 bills whether anything happens or not. Seemed promising at the start then clammed up and would only go with an arrangement of maybe / maybe not depending on how she feels. Pass.
HoosierDaddy69
03-02-21, 16:39
Spectacular waste of time.
https://www.seeking.com/member/5645a1b2-f84f-4d62-9e27-6b21f45c8e1a
One of the most extreme cases of GPS I've seen in awhile. Wants 5 bills whether anything happens or not. Seemed promising at the start then clammed up and would only go with an arrangement of maybe / maybe not depending on how she feels. Pass.But to be fair, she said all of that in her profile, so I never bothered engaging her.
Fishguy717
03-03-21, 12:05
Nice pics of a nice body, and they are likely real. Thus the little head was convinced it would be worth the drive to the sticks in Middleburg. And sticks they were!
Then a crappy dirt road with pits and big puddles in it, little head thinks a little less. Then a really low end trailer, with 3 cars in front of it, and one girl looking like could have been older sister coming out and going into a crappy RV.
Little head lost out. Big head turned around and bailed. Go for if you want!
https://www.seeking.com/member/cd3dad97-9838-4f97-844a-b602fdcdb874
Nice pics of a nice body, and they are likely real. Thus the little head was convinced it would be worth the drive to the sticks in Middleburg. And sticks they were!
Then a crappy dirt road with pits and big puddles in it, little head thinks a little less. Then a really low end trailer, with 3 cars in front of it, and one girl looking like could have been older sister coming out and going into a crappy RV.
Little head lost out. Big head turned around and bailed. Go for if you want!
https://www.seeking.com/member/cd3dad97-9838-4f97-844a-b602fdcdb874I'm apparently permanently banned from SA.
I often in the area you spoke of. If you have digits would you mind sharing via PM?
HoosierDaddy69
03-03-21, 18:38
Nice pics of a nice body, and they are likely real. Thus the little head was convinced it would be worth the drive to the sticks in Middleburg. And sticks they were!
Then a crappy dirt road with pits and big puddles in it, little head thinks a little less. Then a really low end trailer, with 3 cars in front of it, and one girl looking like could have been older sister coming out and going into a crappy RV.
Little head lost out. Big head turned around and bailed. Go for if you want!
https://www.seeking.com/member/cd3dad97-9838-4f97-844a-b602fdcdb874Glad I was busy at work and saved myself the trip. She looks amazing in those pics though.
https://www.seeking.com/member/474b4868-f22c-478c-8f20-6cbecc623e09
Profile says she's 19 which she confirmed in messaging on site. Move to text and after much banter back and forth she confirmed age 19 again. Then she sent me some lingerie type pics, I asked again if she was legitimately a legal adult and she reply's with she's only 16 years old, etc. Replied with how adamantly opposed I am to underage / minors, etc, and blocked / deleted.
Be very careful.Not only be very careful about the obvious underage thing, but this is also a common scam used to blackmail.
"I'm the girls dad. Just pay me $500 and I'll not go to the police". If / when that happens, sincerely just do the same thing HD described above. Block / delete.
First hand knowledge.
Be careful.
https://www.seeking.com/member/36a88244-86c5-4ad0-8445-18934f64490f
HoosierDaddy69
03-06-21, 15:26
So you don't get my latest take on Amber LOL.
HoosierDaddy69
03-06-21, 15:28
https://www.seeking.com/member/83b97b5c-5e59-47e8-bb72-282d17926e57
Just another fake trying to do online only.
Claims she's a college athlete, wrestling to be exact. Yet UNF / JU / FSCJ none list female wrestling on their Athletics page.
Don't waste your time.
So you don't get my latest take on Amber LOL.Cleared out some old ones. Sorry bro.
Uhmmmm, not making fun of, but.
ZoomLens2013
03-09-21, 15:43
Uhmmmm, not making fun of, but.No, I think it's a product of tiny camera lenses with no field of depth.
Jringo2020
03-09-21, 21:10
Uhmmmm, not making fun of, but.She is legit if you can get in touch with her.
She is legit if you can get in touch with her.Ewee. No. Pass. Hard pass.
HoosierDaddy69
03-10-21, 21:02
https://www.seeking.com/member/826cd1a8-22e0-4386-87e9-0d1fd65d98cd
While I smash Crys.
MyNameIsMike
03-11-21, 01:16
She wants 400 but is she high?? Unbelievable! I talked her down to 300. Now on the day before we are supposed to meet asks to up my end to 400. I reply that we agreed on 300. She then says that she knows that but 400 would really make her happy. My reply was, "You know what would make me really happy? You asking for 200. " I am seriously doubting that I will be seeing her tomorrow night.
Fishguy717
03-11-21, 08:15
She wants 400 but is she high?? Unbelievable! I talked her down to 300. Now on the day before we are supposed to meet asks to up my end to 400. I reply that we agreed on 300. She then says that she knows that but 400 would really make her happy. My reply was, "You know what would make me really happy? You asking for 200. " I am seriously doubting that I will be seeing her tomorrow night.Who were you referring to?
She wants 400 but is she high?? Unbelievable! I talked her down to 300. Now on the day before we are supposed to meet asks to up my end to 400. I reply that we agreed on 300. She then says that she knows that but 400 would really make her happy. My reply was, "You know what would make me really happy? You asking for 200. " I am seriously doubting that I will be seeing her tomorrow night.Any reference as to who you had this conversation with? LOL.
https://www.seeking.com/member/826cd1a8-22e0-4386-87e9-0d1fd65d98cd
While I smash Crys.I was thinking something similar when I saw their profile LOL.
MyNameIsMike
03-13-21, 00:55
https://www.seeking.com/member/d1bdf166-1ba9-4b63-aad1-6aabb421b0c0
Goes by Aubrey. Before 'she' came to my hotel said that she wanted me to give her the money 1st when I met her in the parking lot. Then sent me a long text message but it had some of those icons from the scammers in africa.
MyNameIsMike
03-13-21, 00:56
She wants 400 but is she high?? Unbelievable! I talked her down to 300. Now on the day before we are supposed to meet asks to up my end to 400. I reply that we agreed on 300. She then says that she knows that but 400 would really make her happy. My reply was, "You know what would make me really happy? You asking for 200. " I am seriously doubting that I will be seeing her tomorrow night.https://www.seeking.com/member/d1bdf166-1ba9-4b63-aad1-6aabb421b0c0
FunNthaSun
03-13-21, 20:35
https://www.seeking.com/member/b91607b1-42ea-4a24-95e7-b5ee90adf292
Anyone have any info on this one been chatting for a few and she just seems wayy to eager to meet which is usually a red flag. PM is ok.
HoosierDaddy69
03-14-21, 14:03
https://www.seeking.com/member/b91607b1-42ea-4a24-95e7-b5ee90adf292
Anyone have any info on this one been chatting for a few and she just seems wayy to eager to meet which is usually a red flag. PM is ok.See post #5074.
http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?17487-The-Sugar-Thread-Intel-Reviews-Contacts&p=5205234#post5205234.
FunNthaSun
03-14-21, 14:27
See post #5074.
http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?17487-The-Sugar-Thread-Intel-Reviews-Contacts&p=5205234#post5205234.Yes I actually scrolled back a couple pages and found the review right after I posted mine. Definitely got the same excuses about needing money right now for baby needs and such. I almost headed that way after the pics she sent me buy the rushing was throwing up red flags.
ZoomLens2013
03-15-21, 12:09
https://www.seeking.com/member/4357f26c-2242-4b11-8f85-3750f7f7f55c
I briefly hung out with this girl the other night. Very friendly and talkative. Self-admitted stoner. She is DTF at 4 benjis but will do "foreplay" type things for 2-3 benjis. She has a boyfriend, but they don't live together. She has a female roommate, but she has an outside access directly to her bedroom. She is willing to host, but approach her with respect since she's a bit skittish. She won't text you nudes, so don't bother asking.
FunNthaSun
03-15-21, 21:08
https://www.seeking.com/member/4357f26c-2242-4b11-8f85-3750f7f7f55c
I briefly hung out with this girl the other night. Very friendly and talkative. Self-admitted stoner. She is DTF at 4 benjis but will do "foreplay" type things for 2-3 benjis. She has a boyfriend, but they don't live together. She has a female roommate, but she has an outside access directly to her bedroom. She is willing to host, but approach her with respect since she's a bit skittish. She won't text you nudes, so don't bother asking.I had some conversations with her some weeks ago and she made it very clear to me that she was DTF and that was it. Didn't want to get to know me or know anything about me just meet, get down to business and part ways. I mean that part didn't bother me LOL it was the four Benjamins that made the steam die on this train.
Fishguy717
03-16-21, 07:50
https://www.seeking.com/member/4357f26c-2242-4b11-8f85-3750f7f7f55c
I briefly hung out with this girl the other night. Very friendly and talkative. Self-admitted stoner. She is DTF at 4 benjis but will do "foreplay" type things for 2-3 benjis. She has a boyfriend, but they don't live together. She has a female roommate, but she has an outside access directly to her bedroom. She is willing to host, but approach her with respect since she's a bit skittish. She won't text you nudes, so don't bother asking.So did you drop the 4 bens? How does she look in person? Body? Skills?
I had some conversations with her some weeks ago and she made it very clear to me that she was DTF and that was it. Didn't want to get to know me or know anything about me just meet, get down to business and part ways. I mean that part didn't bother me LOL it was the four Benjamins that made the steam die on this train.We texted for a bit and made an arrangement. I ask her what time she wants me there and she replied with anytime before noon. So I clean up and get there at 10, text her and she's like what? I just got done walking the dogs, why didn't you text me? I'm like, I did, just now. Anyway, I get to the door, she's looking ratchet with no make up at all. Nice tatas tho. Two dogs and one is a pit. She has a roommate still there sleeping and the dogs are barking like cray cray. I tell her these are the things she should let the guy know about beforehand. I leave. She starts blowing up my phone, calling me a pussy and a loser and now the price will be 175 for a BJ. I figured if I blocked her quickly she would diss me to the SA mods, so I played it easy and told her I apologize and that 175 is ok with me. I will wait a few days and then block her on SA first then on my gv #.
ZoomLens2013
03-16-21, 13:36
So did you drop the 4 bens? How does she look in person? Body? Skills?No, I did not. I told her I could not sustain a 400 ppm. I think she's cute enough and seemed to have a nice, petite body, at least from what I could tell thru her clothes. Nice jiggly ass that got a little swat when she got out of my car. The pic on her profile seems pretty accurate, at least.
Considering Sicily's comment below, I could see her talking smack after something like that. She doesn't have her life together and is struggling to make ends meet. This is why I appreciate this forum, because it helps reveal the crazies before I go further. LOL.
https://www.seeking.com/member/b99d6970-5f97-419b-9add-672cb378e590
Only wants to sell pics, until she gets to the area. LMFAO. Then she really wants to get to know the person. . SMH.
RuggerForFun
03-17-21, 09:12
https://www.seeking.com/member/b99d6970-5f97-419b-9add-672cb378e590
Only wants to sell pics, until she gets to the area. LMFAO. Then she really wants to get to know the person. . SMH.Traded messages with about 10 girls yesterday and got similar stories from about half of them.
https://www.seeking.com/member/b99d6970-5f97-419b-9add-672cb378e590
Only wants to sell pics, until she gets to the area. LMFAO. Then she really wants to get to know the person. . SMH.Traded messages with her last night, knew where it was headed. Said she's married and her husband gets off on her having fun and being doted on by other guys.
Big shocker her profile is gone now.
I knew it was bs from the beginning so glad I didn't waste a ton of time on her.
https://www.seeking.com/member/ebbddefc-0ea9-4458-b267-c3d67e93505b
LatinaHunpster
03-23-21, 17:42
So this morning I found my account had been permanently deactivated / banned for "soliciting sex for compensation".
This is complete bullshyte as I limit what I communicate on the site. Of course SA does not provide the slightest inkling of what my supposed transgression was, nor do they provide a direct means to contact them and ask for an explanation, or open a ticket, because they no longer recognize the email address I have on file with them.
To compound matters they billed me $100 on a debit card on 3/21- just 2 days ago.
I have watched SA profile after profile in violation of their stated policies on "online only" arrangements, regularly see non-paying tranny males or couples among the supposed women. Regularly report pic / video sellers and nothing is done. I do hope some decent competition arrives soon, as although there are definitely some hot women on the site, SA really sucks!!
So this morning I found my account had been permanently deactivated / banned for "soliciting sex for compensation".
This is complete bullshyte as I limit what I communicate on the site. Of course SA does not provide the slightest inkling of what my supposed transgression was, nor do they provide a direct means to contact them and ask for an explanation, or open a ticket, because they no longer recognize the email address I have on file with them.
To compound matters they billed me $100 on a debit card on 3/21- just 2 days ago.
I have watched SA profile after profile in violation of their stated policies on "online only" arrangements, regularly see non-paying tranny males or couples among the supposed women. Regularly report pic / video sellers and nothing is done. I do hope some decent competition arrives soon, as although there are definitely some hot women on the site, SA really sucks!!They are such hypocrites. Mainly because the people they have in charge of banning accounts aren't 'in the know' and just click here and there and don't know anything about anything.
I think they should have mongers man their help desk. Help clean that up. But that would never happen. They just follow some silly manual or something and continue to take people's money.
I remember a couple years ago when their site was down for close to 2 days. Maybe a little more I don't recall. Think they gave any credit for that? Nope!
He knows he has no competition in that niche since he owns secret benefits and others as well. Ok I'm jealous because he's making a killing haha.
HoosierDaddy69
03-24-21, 02:19
So this morning I found my account had been permanently deactivated / banned for "soliciting sex for compensation".
This is complete bullshyte as I limit what I communicate on the site. Of course SA does not provide the slightest inkling of what my supposed transgression was, nor do they provide a direct means to contact them and ask for an explanation, or open a ticket, because they no longer recognize the email address I have on file with them.
To compound matters they billed me $100 on a debit card on 3/21- just 2 days ago.
I have watched SA profile after profile in violation of their stated policies on "online only" arrangements, regularly see non-paying tranny males or couples among the supposed women. Regularly report pic / video sellers and nothing is done. I do hope some decent competition arrives soon, as although there are definitely some hot women on the site, SA really sucks!!I'm starting to suspect there's something built into their algorithm that will ban you for excessive reporting of other profiles. Even though I never violated the rules, had an almost 15 year profile banned last summer. Haven't reported anyone for "virtual / online only" bullshit with the new profile and no problems yet. Like it or not, having those hot chicks who really only want to sell content and the "stay at home" culture perpetrated by the pandemic have driven up his membership base. Mr Wade knows you will do what all the rest of us have done, create another account and continue to enjoy his data base of females as it dwarfs all other competitors combined. I recently re-visited sugardaddyforme.com (it used to be better than SA once upon a time) and it's sad, there might be 15 girls within a 100 miles of jax active in the last 2 days. Smh. It is what it is for lack of a more articulate description.
LTlurker53
03-24-21, 09:05
I've been on and off SA for maybe two years or so. It has definitely devolved locally. Seems most ladies are selling their pics and vids only. And who knows who they really are to begin with. Some are asking for a ridiculous allowance. Most seem not to be able to host. That obviously makes it even more expensive and quite a chore.
While I have met some special ladies in the past the last 6-12 months are disappointing.
In the other hand. If you are going out to of town I have made excellent connections in other cities. I recently had travel to Charlotte. Got back in premium and scouted the area there. Got a handful of connections going and one rose above the rest. We hit it off and met three days in a row. Even better there was no expectation of an allowance after the first day.
We both had a great time. It's also nice to know I have a connection with a pretty young lady and hope to travel back there or meet up elsewhere at some point. To me that's the essence of this site. I'm not looking for transactional but something deeper. It makes all the difference. And for 3 xx or 4 xx you can make a connection and spend an entire evening.
LatinaHunpster
03-24-21, 18:43
I'm starting to suspect there's something built into their algorithm that will ban you for excessive reporting of other profiles. Even though I never violated the rules, had an almost 15 year profile banned last summer. Haven't reported anyone for "virtual / online only" bullshit with the new profile and no problems yet. Like it or not, having those hot chicks who really only want to sell content and the "stay at home" culture perpetrated by the pandemic have driven up his membership base. Mr Wade knows you will do what all the rest of us have done, create another account and continue to enjoy his data base of females as it dwarfs all other competitors combined. I recently re-visited sugardaddyforme.com (it used to be better than SA once upon a time) and it's sad, there might be 15 girls within a 100 miles of jax active in the last 2 days. Smh. It is what it is for lack of a more articulate description.As a service to the list, I will later post an account of the basics of how I contacted them, what I said (in general terms) and how it worked.
Obviously you don't won't to all use the exact same language etc.
Fishguy717
03-25-21, 07:34
Anyone had any luck with this one? She seems legit, although like most, comms are spotty at best. But she hasn't tried to ask for money or sell pics. Her profile pics are pretty hot. I did get out of her that she lives in the Argyle Forest area (OP). Just curious if anyone has seen her in person. Also wonder of course, if she's a stripper somewhere, thus her handle.
https://www.seeking.com/member/1e78c09a-6f81-49d0-8379-bdd19f1e0543
Traveler6940
03-25-21, 13:00
Anyone had any luck with this one? She seems legit, although like most, comms are spotty at best. But she hasn't tried to ask for money or sell pics. Her profile pics are pretty hot. I did get out of her that she lives in the Argyle Forest area (OP). Just curious if anyone has seen her in person. Also wonder of course, if she's a stripper somewhere, thus her handle.
https://www.seeking.com/member/1e78c09a-6f81-49d0-8379-bdd19f1e0543She's been reviewed before 4-6 mo back as I recall. Review was "Meh" & she's into that Findom crap as I recall. Take one for the team and give us an update.
So this morning I found my account had been permanently deactivated / banned for "soliciting sex for compensation".
This is complete bullshyte as I limit what I communicate on the site. Of course SA does not provide the slightest inkling of what my supposed transgression was, nor do they provide a direct means to contact them and ask for an explanation, or open a ticket, because they no longer recognize the email address I have on file with them.
To compound matters they billed me $100 on a debit card on 3/21- just 2 days ago.
I have watched SA profile after profile in violation of their stated policies on "online only" arrangements, regularly see non-paying tranny males or couples among the supposed women. Regularly report pic / video sellers and nothing is done. I do hope some decent competition arrives soon, as although there are definitely some hot women on the site, SA really sucks!!I just got back on a few weeks ago after being banned for the same thing. Everything I tried to get back on didn't work. I finally got ona new PC with a new cc and different IP address and different pic, etc. So, I'm on now for a few weeks and today I get a warning.
Warning: You have committed a violation of the SeekingArrangement Terms of Service. Your account was flagged for the following reason:
• Using the site for Commercial Activity.
We recently noticed that the messages you've sent on / off of the site or your profile information indicate that you are attempting to sell services, recruit or promote a business. If this is your first offense, please reach out to the Customer Support Team as you may be eligible for account restoration.
In order to continue using SeekingArrangement, you must re-read, electronically sign, and agree to our Terms of Service. Please log into SeekingArrangement to do so.
Notice the on and off the site verbiage? Do they have shills / undercover ops to get you to say certain shit offline in texts? On Snap or KIK? Or can the the person complain to seeking with copies of the off line chat? I wonder.
https://www.seeking.com/member/7e5f9cd4-9f1a-480f-b8d0-4ec8bb8e465a
Used my secondary GV # as I did a search prior to texting her / him / it / he she / that / and found reports of a craigslist scammer with the #.
Fishguy717
03-26-21, 07:15
She's been reviewed before 4-6 mo back as I recall. Review was "Meh" & she's into that Findom crap as I recall. Take one for the team and give us an update.Yeah, I searched the thread for 'goddess' and saw "Petite Goddess" (not her) and "Short Stack Goddess (not her, but I miss her, she was fun), both from a couple of years ago. Nothing since.
We have a lunch date set for next week. I'll let you know if it happens. On the front end, as shitty as her comms are, I'm not optimistic.
Never never never get in a pissing contest with an SB, on the site or off the site. They report out of spite and even if you think you won the argument with her, you lose the argument with SA. It isn't worth the shit you have to go through later. Just block and move on.
I just got back on a few weeks ago after being banned for the same thing. Everything I tried to get back on didn't work. I finally got ona new PC with a new cc and different IP address and different pic, etc. So, I'm on now for a few weeks and today I get a warning.
Warning: You have committed a violation of the SeekingArrangement Terms of Service. Your account was flagged for the following reason:
Using the site for Commercial Activity.
We recently noticed that the messages you've sent on / off of the site or your profile information indicate that you are attempting to sell services, recruit or promote a business. If this is your first offense, please reach out to the Customer Support Team as you may be eligible for account restoration.
In order to continue using SeekingArrangement, you must re-read, electronically sign, and agree to our Terms of Service. Please log into SeekingArrangement to do so.
Notice the on and off the site verbiage? Do they have shills / undercover ops to get you to say certain shit offline in texts? On Snap or KIK? Or can the the person complain to seeking with copies of the off line chat? I wonder.
DiscreetFun306
03-26-21, 13:19
Yeah, I searched the thread for 'goddess' and saw "Petite Goddess" (not her) and "Short Stack Goddess (not her, but I miss her, she was fun), both from a couple of years ago. Nothing since.
We have a lunch date set for next week. I'll let you know if it happens. On the front end, as shitty as her comms are, I'm not optimistic.I chatted with her about 6 months ago and the comms quickly started getting spotty. After reading other reviews at the time I stopped pursuing. I hope you have better luck.
LatinaHunpster
03-26-21, 18:38
Never never never get in a pissing contest with an SB, on the site or off the site. They report out of spite and even if you think you won the argument with her, you lose the argument with SA. It isn't worth the shit you have to go through later. Just block and move on.They can get you knocked off the site with little effort.
FunNthaSun
03-26-21, 22:41
I just got back on a few weeks ago after being banned for the same thing. Everything I tried to get back on didn't work. I finally got ona new PC with a new cc and different IP address and different pic, etc. So, I'm on now for a few weeks and today I get a warning.
Warning: You have committed a violation of the SeekingArrangement Terms of Service. Your account was flagged for the following reason:
Using the site for Commercial Activity.
We recently noticed that the messages you've sent on / off of the site or your profile information indicate that you are attempting to sell services, recruit or promote a business. If this is your first offense, please reach out to the Customer Support Team as you may be eligible for account restoration.
In order to continue using SeekingArrangement, you must re-read, electronically sign, and agree to our Terms of Service. Please log into SeekingArrangement to do so.
Notice the on and off the site verbiage? Do they have shills / undercover ops to get you to say certain shit offline in texts? On Snap or KIK? Or can the the person complain to seeking with copies of the off line chat? I wonder.Wait. Off the site conversations?? Wow I guess I could have been kicked off the site a long time ago from 'off the site' conversations. Personally I've never been kicked off the site but it's crazy to think that they could ban you from the site from conversations you have off the site. What business is it of theirs what's talked about off the site?? They don't know what type of relationship you've developed with a sb. They don't know if the sb is only providing a one-sided conversation. I've never got into a heated back and forth with a sb but I just don't see how they can kick you off the site for a disgruntled sb.
I chatted with her about 6 months ago and the comms quickly started getting spotty. After reading other reviews at the time I stopped pursuing. I hope you have better luck.I messaged her about a week ago and saw she finally read it this morning sometime and no reply. So you both got further than I did LOL.
But so far doesn't seem I'm missing out on anything except more spotty comms LOL.
ZoomLens2013
03-27-21, 08:25
For those of you who also like to keep your SB's separate from the STG girls:
https://www.seeking.com/member/5b98a328-0d5f-41c2-bcfc-001e37adaa4b
And.
https://jacksonville.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/petite-fun-young-playful-most/074466209773
I know she was mentioned a few pages back, but I saw the STG link shared on the Escorts thread, so I figured I'd combine them here.
Bill Blaskey2
03-27-21, 10:41
Her arm looks a little chewed up in one of those pics. Be careful.
For those of you who also like to keep your SB's separate from the STG girls:
https://www.seeking.com/member/5b98a328-0d5f-41c2-bcfc-001e37adaa4b
And.
https://jacksonville.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/petite-fun-young-playful-most/074466209773
I know she was mentioned a few pages back, but I saw the STG link shared on the Escorts thread, so I figured I'd combine them here.
HoosierDaddy69
03-27-21, 10:53
Her arm looks a little chewed up in one of those pics. Be careful.They were positive from what I recall. I've never see her so nothing to add.
DiscreetFun306
03-27-21, 13:28
Here is another time waster: https://www.seeking.com/member/8bc99618-dc4a-4dc2-93c4-66804a331ff6.
She is pulling the usual "Wimpy" routine: I will gladly meet you Tuesday if you send me money for a hamburger today.
Wait. Off the site conversations?? Wow I guess I could have been kicked off the site a long time ago from 'off the site' conversations. Personally I've never been kicked off the site but it's crazy to think that they could ban you from the site from conversations you have off the site. What business is it of theirs what's talked about off the site?? They don't know what type of relationship you've developed with a sb. They don't know if the sb is only providing a one-sided conversation. I've never got into a heated back and forth with a sb but I just don't see how they can kick you off the site for a disgruntled sb.I copied and pasted that from his email. Maybe he shouldn't have told me that. They do keep a tight lip as to how they do their shit and how they decide to ban people, but he probably wasnt thinking when he sent the email. AND, he also post 6 months worth of alias emails I used too. Kinda unsettling.
They knew all that.
Never never never get in a pissing contest with an SB, on the site or off the site. They report out of spite and even if you think you won the argument with her, you lose the argument with SA. It isn't worth the shit you have to go through later. Just block and move on.HA, I know this already and as much as I do try, sometimes I just get too pissed off and respond.
I copied and pasted that from his email. Maybe he shouldn't have told me that. They do keep a tight lip as to how they do their shit and how they decide to ban people, but he probably wasnt thinking when he sent the email. AND, he also post 6 months worth of alias emails I used too. Kinda unsettling.
They knew all that.If you just skimmed over Sicily's post or just don't think it's important. Here is your gut check. You are NOT anonymous to big tech. Maybe other users, SBs, STG Girls etc; But big tech is all up in your junk and has been since you started. There are so many ways to link your online shit together, it boggles the mind. Bottom line: if part of your justification for playing the game is your presumed anonymity, then you should get out now. I'm only pointing this out because I see a bunch of posts around defeating the I'd tech and such as that, it just all leaves me SMH. Now it IS true that the mechanics of singling out a user and fucking with them in a meaningful way based on this truth is problematic. I am not saying it's imminent that someone from SA is going to call your wife and rat you out or show up to your door with some cement shoes. But the thing that saving you ass from that is the numbers, not the knowledge. They 100% know who you are.
Fishguy717
04-02-21, 12:06
This one must be hard up for money. We messaged a couple of months ago, exchanged numbers, I sent her a pic and heard nothing back after asking for the same. Figured I wasn't her type, that's cool. Out of the blue she texted me today, wanting to 'have some fun' for 600. Gave her an 'LOL' and she dropped it to 500. Told her she was way off, and good luck.
https://www.seeking.com/member/1d9c4601-8400-4698-9a72-9e8308db70c5
FunNthaSun
04-04-21, 13:45
Well I guess I spoke too soon on my last post about never having my account suspended. Logged on the other day to find out I've been permanently banned because of. Well, you know. But in all honesty SA is not what it used to be and there are more and more profiles that only want to sell pics or have online arrangements. The ones that actually do want to meet are asking for wayy too much allowance in my opinion. I definitely had fun the time I was a member and didn't have really any bad experiences. Some was just a one time meeting and others I continued to see. I still have about 3 or 4 that I can meet with at any time and I'm pretty satisfied with that plus was able to get contact info from four others before I was banned that I have the opportunity to pursue. I've read the ordeals some of you had to go thru to get back on like IP and email changes etc and I just don't feel like going thru all that LOL. Maybe when my well runs completely dry I'll try or maybe that may be a sign to step away from the hobby altogether who knows.
Happy hunting guys -Fun-.
LatinaHunpster
04-05-21, 19:55
Well I guess I spoke too soon on my last post about never having my account suspended. Logged on the other day to find out I've been permanently banned because of. Well, you know. But in all honesty SA is not what it used to be and there are more and more profiles that only want to sell pics or have online arrangements. The ones that actually do want to meet are asking for wayy too much allowance in my opinion. I definitely had fun the time I was a member and didn't have really any bad experiences. Some was just a one time meeting and others I continued to see. I still have about 3 or 4 that I can meet with at any time and I'm pretty satisfied with that plus was able to get contact info from four others before I was banned that I have the opportunity to pursue. I've read the ordeals some of you had to go thru to get back on like IP and email changes etc and I just don't feel like going thru all that LOL. Maybe when my well runs completely dry I'll try or maybe that may be a sign to step away from the hobby altogether who knows.
Happy hunting guys -Fun-.Might be worth a try.
This one must be hard up for money. We messaged a couple of months ago, exchanged numbers, I sent her a pic and heard nothing back after asking for the same. Figured I wasn't her type, that's cool. Out of the blue she texted me today, wanting to 'have some fun' for 600. Gave her an 'LOL' and she dropped it to 500. Told her she was way off, and good luck.
https://www.seeking.com/member/1d9c4601-8400-4698-9a72-9e8308db70c5Haha. The true funniest part of this is the last line in her profile "Money is nice of course but I'm not looking to be anyone's escort. ".
Ummm. Okay. Haha.
LatinaHunpster
04-06-21, 10:11
First let me say I was surprised that they did. But they did. A couple things up front:
*I was accused essentially of offering compensation for action. I try to be careful about that sort of thing, but probably screwed up with somebody I was texting- but had no specific memory of it! I believe they will ban guys after a complaint but no specific evidence.
*I ended up exchanging a couple of emails back and forth with SA about this issue. Ultimately, as a condition of re-instatement the person at SA I had to state in a follow up email that I had re-read the rules and would comply going forward, Easy enough!! Re-instated in 48 hrs.
*Your situation is unique to you so don't write them with exactly what I did, mix it up a little bit with your wording etc.
OK- first, once they deactivate you, you can't just go to their help desk, so you need to address your email to: support@seeking.com. Compose your email from the email address associated with your banned account (so they at least know who it is).
*BTW, I think this is only likely to work if you have been banned VERY RECENTLY. I would suggest you not try it otherwise.
*Here is essentially the Letter I wrote to them:
"To Whom it may concern.
I received an email today telling me that my account was permanently banned for "soliciting sex for compensation". I would like to be provided with some explanation of why this action was taken against my account.
In my profile I had stated that I would like intimacy to be part of an agreement if possible which I believe is probably not an uncommon hope of most men on the site. Additionally, I stated I expected to provide spoiling and an allowance as part of an agreement which I believe most women are expecting on SA. I do not think this means I was "soliciting" or anything of the sort. SA approved my profile so I assumed it was perfectly fine.
Let me finish by saying I have had members on SA who have reacted badly to completely civil conversations if they don't like the exchange, issue an insult and then abruptly block me. My concern is such a person may have made bogus claims to have me removed from SA.
I am hoping this situation can be reviewed and resolved and my account reinstated as soon as possible.
Best regards".
SO THAT'S IT. MIX UP YOUR WORDING IF YOU WRITE THEM. IF A BUNCH OF YOU JUST CUT AND PASTE THIS VER BATIM THEY WILL BE ONTO IT IN NO TIME!!
THEY RESPONDED TO THIS INITIAL QUERY AND WITHIN A FEW EMAILS BACK AND FORTH I HAD MY ACCOUNT REACTIVATED.
Hope this helps someone!
PervNerd48
04-06-21, 17:24
Haha. The true funniest part of this is the last line in her profile "Money is nice of course but I'm not looking to be anyone's escort. ".
Ummm. Okay. Haha.To be fair, she's playing the same game we are. If she came out and said she was an escort, she'd be banned.
Seen them a bit before but would like to pin them down. Any guidance on Yourfavorite baby or tequilandtanlines?
Tequilandtanlines.
https://www.seeking.com/member/c6cb3981-35b7-4499-b032-829a9f4bfa9e
Yourfavorite baby https://www.seeking.com/member/ade55dc5-c145-401b-8127-abce995c2493.
To be fair, she's playing the same game we are. If she came out and said she was an escort, she'd be banned.Trust me, I totally get that. Of course she is.
I just think it's hysterical.
RuggerForFun
04-07-21, 08:47
Seen them a bit before but would like to pin them down. Any guidance on Yourfavorite baby or tequilandtanlines?
Tequilandtanlines.
https://www.seeking.com/member/c6cb3981-35b7-4499-b032-829a9f4bfa9e
Yourfavorite baby https://www.seeking.com/member/ade55dc5-c145-401b-8127-abce995c2493.Met her for coffee. Much heavier in person. Does not look nearly as good as pics. Cannot believe she has the nerve to say her body is "average". I felt kind of catfished So I offered her less than market value for an arrangement and she got offended. This was about a year ago.
Fishguy717
04-07-21, 09:03
This one came out of the box wanting to text, first red flag. Then sent me a hot pic (attached here) that was TGTBT. Then sent me a link to a site that says it's for group chat, but my pc is pretty well protected, and detected a virus in the little app they want you to run. I would avoid.
https://www.seeking.com/member/3ffca668-decf-4c0c-ac49-7558245afafa
To be fair, she's playing the same game we are. If she came out and said she was an escort, she'd be banned.I know this isn't my side of the house, but I'd like to add my. 02 on this if I may. I've been wanting to speak this w / out offending the brethrens of this hobby.
After reading many of these profiles it seems that SA allows the ladies to persue their wants and desires w / out consideration of other's. I really don't get how some SDs allow that for themselves, but ok, Whatever.
SURE, it's a dating site. But with the "Seeking" section of SA, these ladies are permitted to voice their terms. But the moment men / SDs try to negotiate or discuss, whether discretely or not-so discretely, they (the ladies) get offended and feel they're not inclined to give as much as they take. It's a 1 way street that guys are forced to drive on.
I suppose the reason for all this is so SA is not labelled another "hooker" site and get under Big Uncles radar such as in the case of BP. I personally believe SA is still a hooker site with men being the ones getting fucked w / out getting fucked. In general, I have more respect for the hoes on STG and those types of "dating" sites than I do with SA-type of sites. At least theres a sense of mutual agreement (tits for tat) -- w / out all the rip-offs of course. LOL.
As for those die-hard SDs who genuinely want to find a girl who they can spoil with monetary gifts or gifts in general w / out expecting nothing in return, more power to them. If that's how they (SDs) want to blow their wad w / out any expectancy of getting their wad blown-- wonderful. All theyve created is a bunch of egotistical money-hungry b!+chest who has no regards of others.
Once again, this is just my. 02. I don't mean to knock any SDs or their lifestyles. I'm sure theres plenty of SDs-SBs relationships that's working for some of ya'll. YES, I DO understand the quality of girls is way better according to some of the reviews I've read. Better looks, better accommodations, and less of the bullshit of that comes with main-stream Mongering. I wish you gents the best of luck and hope none of yall go falling in love w / any of these hoes. HA!
PervNerd48
04-07-21, 12:29
I know this isn't my side of the house, but I'd like to add my. 02 on this if I may. I've been wanting to speak this w / out offending the brethrens of this hobby.
After reading many of these profiles it seems that SA allows the ladies to persue their wants and desires w / out consideration of other's. I really don't get how some SDs allow that for themselves, but ok, Whatever.
SURE, it's a dating site. But with the "Seeking" section of SA, these ladies are permitted to voice their terms. But the moment men / SDs try to negotiate or discuss, whether discretely or not-so discretely, they (the ladies) get offended and feel they're not inclined to give as much as they take. It's a 1 way street that guys are forced to drive on.
I suppose the reason for all this is so SA is not labelled another "hooker" site and get under Big Uncles radar such as in the case of BP. I personally believe SA is still a hooker site with men being the ones getting fucked w / out getting fucked. In general, I have more respect for the hoes on STG and those types of "dating" sites than I do with SA-type of sites. At least theres a sense of mutual agreement (tits for tat) -- w / out all the rip-offs of course. LOL.
As for those die-hard SDs who genuinely want to find a girl who they can spoil with monetary gifts or gifts in general w / out expecting nothing in return, more power to them. If that's how they (SDs) want to blow their wad w / out any expectancy of getting their wad blown-- wonderful. All theyve created is a bunch of egotistical money-hungry b!+chest who has no regards of others.
Once again, this is just my. 02. I don't mean to knock any SDs or their lifestyles. I'm sure theres plenty of SDs-SBs relationships that's working for some of ya'll. YES, I DO understand the quality of girls is way better according to some of the reviews I've read. Better looks, better accommodations, and less of the bullshit of that comes with main-stream Mongering. I wish you gents the best of luck and hope none of yall go falling in love w / any of these hoes. HA!I can understand what you're saying.
In a perfect world, there'd be a higher-end market in Jax. When I lived in the Northeast, there were providers who were middle-to-high end. No IV drug use, even some who didn't smoke tobacco! Or even weed! Actual appointments in clean hotels. They'd screen, but not in a way that made you fear for your anonymity. A clear understanding of what services were and were not provided before you entered the room, and a clear understanding as to the donation. Real efforts at presentation- women that were showered, had makeup but only perfume if you wanted, some nice lingerie. Women that you'd enjoy have a bit of conversation before and after the deed. They didn't have to be 20-year old spinners; these were women between 30 and 50 who understood a man's needs and could make him feel respected in an hour's time.
I've been in Jax for close to two years. If there's a provider out there who actually provides that level of service for an affordable rate, I haven't found it. There's the STG girls, there's a handful of Eros girls who are far beyond my price range and are mostly mysteries. There's a handful of travelers. But there's no group of what I'm providing.
Maybe I'm the anomaly here. I'm not looking to fall in love, but I'd love to be an appreciative customer. No luck yet.
I can promise you that I'm not jacking up the rates, because I honestly haven't found anyone worth jacking the rates up for.
If this belongs somewhere else, I'm happy to move the post. I don't want to violate the rules.
I can understand what you're saying.
In a perfect world, there'd be a higher-end market in Jax. When I lived in the Northeast, there were providers who were middle-to-high end. No IV drug use, even some who didn't smoke tobacco! Or even weed! Actual appointments in clean hotels. They'd screen, but not in a way that made you fear for your anonymity. A clear understanding of what services were and were not provided before you entered the room, and a clear understanding as to the donation. Real efforts at presentation- women that were showered, had makeup but only perfume if you wanted, some nice lingerie. Women that you'd enjoy have a bit of conversation before and after the deed. They didn't have to be 20-year old spinners; these were women between 30 and 50 who understood a man's needs and could make him feel respected in an hour's time.
I've been in Jax for close to two years. If there's a provider out there who actually provides that level of service for an affordable rate, I haven't found it. There's the STG girls, there's a handful of Eros girls who are far beyond my price range and are mostly mysteries. There's a handful of travelers. But there's no group of what I'm providing.
Maybe I'm the anomaly here. I'm not looking to fall in love, but I'd love to be an appreciative customer. No luck yet.
I can promise you that I'm not jacking up the rates, because I honestly haven't found anyone worth jacking the rates up for.
If this belongs somewhere else, I'm happy to move the post. I don't want to violate the rules.**Your last paragraph: Nah, you're in the right spot.
I appreciate your reply. Even though it's a different angle from the way I see it, it's still a genuinely honest perspective. Thanks.
I can understand what you're saying.
In a perfect world, there'd be a higher-end market in Jax. When I lived in the Northeast, there were providers who were middle-to-high end. No IV drug use, even some who didn't smoke tobacco! Or even weed! Actual appointments in clean hotels. They'd screen, but not in a way that made you fear for your anonymity. A clear understanding of what services were and were not provided before you entered the room, and a clear understanding as to the donation. Real efforts at presentation- women that were showered, had makeup but only perfume if you wanted, some nice lingerie. Women that you'd enjoy have a bit of conversation before and after the deed. They didn't have to be 20-year old spinners; these were women between 30 and 50 who understood a man's needs and could make him feel respected in an hour's time.
I've been in Jax for close to two years. If there's a provider out there who actually provides that level of service for an affordable rate, I haven't found it. There's the STG girls, there's a handful of Eros girls who are far beyond my price range and are mostly mysteries. There's a handful of travelers. But there's no group of what I'm providing.
Maybe I'm the anomaly here. I'm not looking to fall in love, but I'd love to be an appreciative customer. No luck yet.
I can promise you that I'm not jacking up the rates, because I honestly haven't found anyone worth jacking the rates up for.
If this belongs somewhere else, I'm happy to move the post. I don't want to violate the rules.You're not wrong! Before moving here in 2010, I spent 10 yrs in Philly. And it's a WHOLE other world up there. Be it on their versions of BP etc and other sites. And yes even on CL before they got rid of all their 'adult' categories.
It was much easier to find someone you could see regularly without all the bs and nonsense you see here. And all the candy addicted wannabes that are just looking for their next fix, hobby be damned. And who cares who it is or any of the 'details' as long as they get their fix.
It's a much more tiring game here than it is up there. But that's just how it is.
It's truly like living on 2 different planets.
Sure there have been the occasional one here or there from SA that have worked out for a bit. But in the overall grand scheme of things, the two markets are MILES apart. It is what it is.
HoosierDaddy69
04-07-21, 23:20
You're not wrong! Before moving here in 2010, I spent 10 yrs in Philly. And it's a WHOLE other world up there. Be it on their versions of BP etc and other sites. And yes even on CL before they got rid of all their 'adult' categories.
It was much easier to find someone you could see regularly without all the bs and nonsense you see here. And all the candy addicted wannabes that are just looking for their next fix, hobby be damned. And who cares who it is or any of the 'details' as long as they get their fix.
It's a much more tiring game here than it is up there. But that's just how it is.
It's truly like living on 2 different planets.
Sure there have been the occasional one here or there from SA that have worked out for a bit. But in the overall grand scheme of things, the two markets are MILES apart. It is what it is.A lot of what you describe could be said for Jax 10+ years ago. I think, like everything else, this game just changes over time. I especially hate the OnlyFans effect it's had on the game. Girls that might have otherwise been a provider (even if only occasionally or UTR, etc) now don't have to. They can make as much or more by selling their pics / vids. I still detest SA for allowing them to do it and not really enforcing their rules. But they're always going to take the path of least resistance and do whatever gets them the most traffic. Traffic = revenues. Mr Ward could care less how hard you have to look for a new spinner to spin.
FunNthaSun
04-10-21, 16:49
So I found the email seeking sent me notifying me of my account being suspended in my spam mail so I decided to email them back just to find out which message violated the terms and conditions. I had explained to them that the extent of my conversations always confined to the options listed on the site such as no strings attached-discrete-mutually beneficial-meet for dinner / drinks and that if intimacy was ever discussed it had nothing to do with the monetary allowances requested. I recieved a return email that said if I read the terms and conditions again and return an email stating in writing that I acknowledged and would abide by those terms that my account would be reinstated. I did that and my account was reinstated. Still no clue of what message or messages got me suspended in the first place but I figured it best I didn't press to much for an answer. I only have a week left on this membership and probably won't renew for awhile.
First let me say I was surprised that they did. But they did. A couple things up front:
*I was accused essentially of offering compensation for action. I try to be careful about that sort of thing, but probably screwed up with somebody I was texting- but had no specific memory of it! I believe they will ban guys after a complaint but no specific evidence.
*I ended up exchanging a couple of emails back and forth with SA about this issue. Ultimately, as a condition of re-instatement the person at SA I had to state in a follow up email that I had re-read the rules and would comply going forward, Easy enough!! Re-instated in 48 hrs.
*Your situation is unique to you so don't write them with exactly what I did, mix it up a little bit with your wording etc.
OK- first, once they deactivate you, you can't just go to their help desk, so you need to address your email to: support@seeking.com. Compose your email from the email address associated with your banned account (so they at least know who it is).
*BTW, I think this is only likely to work if you have been banned VERY RECENTLY. I would suggest you not try it otherwise.
*Here is essentially the Letter I wrote to them:
"To Whom it may concern.
I received an email today telling me that my account was permanently banned for "soliciting sex for compensation". I would like to be provided with some explanation of why this action was taken against my account.
In my profile I had stated that I would like intimacy to be part of an agreement if possible which I believe is probably not an uncommon hope of most men on the site. Additionally, I stated I expected to provide spoiling and an allowance as part of an agreement which I believe most women are expecting on SA. I do not think this means I was "soliciting" or anything of the sort. SA approved my profile so I assumed it was perfectly fine.
Let me finish by saying I have had members on SA who have reacted badly to completely civil conversations if they don't like the exchange, issue an insult and then abruptly block me. My concern is such a person may have made bogus claims to have me removed from SA.
I am hoping this situation can be reviewed and resolved and my account reinstated as soon as possible.
Best regards".
SO THAT'S IT. MIX UP YOUR WORDING IF YOU WRITE THEM. IF A BUNCH OF YOU JUST CUT AND PASTE THIS VER BATIM THEY WILL BE ONTO IT IN NO TIME!!
THEY RESPONDED TO THIS INITIAL QUERY AND WITHIN A FEW EMAILS BACK AND FORTH I HAD MY ACCOUNT REACTIVATED.
Hope this helps someone!It's been at least a year since SA deleted or whatever my account. Let me see if I can find out what for an maybe bullshit my way back in. Too many girls trying to sell pictures and videos either way.
This one came out of the box wanting to text, first red flag. Then sent me a hot pic (attached here) that was TGTBT. Then sent me a link to a site that says it's for group chat, but my pc is pretty well protected, and detected a virus in the little app they want you to run. I would avoid.
https://www.seeking.com/member/3ffca668-decf-4c0c-ac49-7558245afafaHell YEAH I'd pay for that! It's got to be a fake profile.
I got a PM from this lady, and she wanted to know if I was in JAX sometime. Her private photos show a nice, MILF type with what I suspect are not OEM boobs. She said she wanted something that included intimacy and would prefer meeting for lunch than dinner. She preferred to 2-3 hour meet up. I'll admit I am curious.
https://www.seeking.com/member/528f3e99-d9f4-4ee3-bc72-d8765463ec7c
I got a PM from this lady, and she wanted to know if I was in JAX sometime. Her private photos show a nice, MILF type with what I suspect are not OEM boobs. She said she wanted something that included intimacy and would prefer meeting for lunch than dinner. She preferred to 2-3 hour meet up. I'll admit I am curious.
https://www.seeking.com/member/528f3e99-d9f4-4ee3-bc72-d8765463ec7cThe obnoxious drunk🥴🤪 "Meet For Drinks" girl
I can understand what you're saying.
In a perfect world, there'd be a higher-end market in Jax. When I lived in the Northeast, there were providers who were middle-to-high end. No IV drug use, even some who didn't smoke tobacco! Or even weed! Actual appointments in clean hotels. They'd screen, but not in a way that made you fear for your anonymity. A clear understanding of what services were and were not provided before you entered the room, and a clear understanding as to the donation. Real efforts at presentation- women that were showered, had makeup but only perfume if you wanted, some nice lingerie. Women that you'd enjoy have a bit of conversation before and after the deed. They didn't have to be 20-year old spinners; these were women between 30 and 50 who understood a man's needs and could make him feel respected in an hour's time.
I've been in Jax for close to two years. If there's a provider out there who actually provides that level of service for an affordable rate, I haven't found it. There's the STG girls, there's a handful of Eros girls who are far beyond my price range and are mostly mysteries. There's a handful of travelers. But there's no group of what I'm providing.
Maybe I'm the anomaly here. I'm not looking to fall in love, but I'd love to be an appreciative customer. No luck yet.
I can promise you that I'm not jacking up the rates, because I honestly haven't found anyone worth jacking the rates up for.
If this belongs somewhere else, I'm happy to move the post. I don't want to violate the rules.When it comes to sex providers I've run the gamut, from high end to low end and everything in between though I personally have never been attracted to the street walking scene, car dates just aren't my style. While all of us are searching for that thing that gets us off, which differs from monger to monger, finding that thing can be an exercise in frustration at times. I can't tell you the money that I've blown through trying to satisfy that urge. When the "right one" comes along, which doesn't happen very often, it's personally worth all the time, money and effort I've put forth. For many of us it's more about the hunt which while trying to find "the one" leads us to see many women, some decent some not so much. But that first encounter always sends a bit of adrenaline coursing through my veins, one vein in particular! That first feeling of satisfaction as my cock is entering their pussy then sometimes again as I'm about to plunge my cock into their asshole is all part and parcel of the game we're all ultimately involved in. Such is the life of a sporting man. JD.
LatinaHunpster
04-11-21, 08:30
So I found the email seeking sent me notifying me of my account being suspended in my spam mail so I decided to email them back just to find out which message violated the terms and conditions. I had explained to them that the extent of my conversations always confined to the options listed on the site such as no strings attached-discrete-mutually beneficial-meet for dinner / drinks and that if intimacy was ever discussed it had nothing to do with the monetary allowances requested. I recieved a return email that said if I read the terms and conditions again and return an email stating in writing that I acknowledged and would abide by those terms that my account would be reinstated. I did that and my account was reinstated. Still no clue of what message or messages got me suspended in the first place but I figured it best I didn't press to much for an answer. I only have a week left on this membership and probably won't renew for awhile.I think what we are finding out is that they likely re-instate if you send them a query (at least soon after they deactivate you). Which tells me that somebody's "report" or complaint to them is about all it takes to trigger the event in the first place and they do not have the time or inclination to actually "investigate" anything in the first place. It's just a cya business move on their part.
The obnoxious drunk🥴🤪 "Meet For Drinks" girlThe amount quoted seemed a bit steep for only drinks, although she did say she couldn't host. Doesn't sound like a fun afternoon.
The amount quoted seemed a bit steep for only drinks, although she did say she couldn't host. Doesn't sound like a fun afternoon.You just have to push through her embarrassing tirade after she's thrown back a couple at like a dinner date. Having seen her a couple times in 2014-2015 *forgot actual years, she was practically just getting drunk for free. April / Summer was pretty hot back then. Don't know how she is now.
Any intel on:
https://www.seeking.com/member/aeb5230d-bdca-40cc-978c-6ebfb490f29a
Or:
https://www.seeking.com/member/d6c6fd7f-03aa-42af-882c-3a1bd31191cb
Any intel on:
https://www.seeking.com/member/aeb5230d-bdca-40cc-978c-6ebfb490f29a
Or:
https://www.seeking.com/member/d6c6fd7f-03aa-42af-882c-3a1bd31191cbMessaged her, but no reply. She does like to advertise her back door tho.
https://www.seeking.com/member/d6c6fd7f-03aa-42af-882c-3a1bd31191cb
Texted back and forth and it seemed like it would go somewhere. When it came time to meet up comms went dark. Happened twice. Then agreed to meet up at a coffee shop first. She ghosted me. Three strikes. Should have stopped wasting my time after the first.
HoosierDaddy69
04-18-21, 16:41
Any intel on:
https://www.seeking.com/member/aeb5230d-bdca-40cc-978c-6ebfb490f29a
Or:
https://www.seeking.com/member/d6c6fd7f-03aa-42af-882c-3a1bd31191cbI've never met her. She messaged me on SA the other day, but my membership expired 3/11. But she's got a recent post on STG. She lost me with the non GFE comment in the ad.
https://jacksonville.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/redhead-girl-nextdoor/223672578213
I've never met her. She messaged me on SA the other day, but my membership expired 3/11. But she's got a recent post on STG. She lost me with the non GFE comment in the ad.
https://jacksonville.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/redhead-girl-nextdoor/223672578213Interesting. I didn't see that stg post when I searched earlier. I was supposed to meet up with her. She flaked on me a couple times and went comms dark. Waste of time.
Fishguy717
04-19-21, 07:37
This one is in Singapore, trading bitcoin. Plus pic looks a lot younger than 37 years old.
https://www.seeking.com/member/1406b3de-e0cb-47dd-af95-869c11c5187e
Fishguy717
04-19-21, 07:41
I messaged her, and she messaged back immediately, asking to text. Red Flag #1.
She then says she's in a sorority and needs to be discreet. Reminded her she didn't hide her face, and her sorority sisters could see her SA ad if they look. Red Flag #2.
Asked her where she lived, and she replied "Brentwood" - Yeah right. Red Flag #3.
Then I asked for the particular pic to see that she is for real, and crickets since then.
https://www.seeking.com/member/ab8fde95-4499-4dc9-a5f9-265e3c80d25c
Fishguy717
04-21-21, 13:47
Another fake, don't waste your time.
https://www.seeking.com/member/f939dce7-5b36-4416-9c54-ac0c678b25c7
Joe Montana II
04-22-21, 22:38
The amount quoted seemed a bit steep for only drinks, although she did say she couldn't host. Doesn't sound like a fun afternoon.I like April and have seen her for years. She likes to have a couple of cocktails or glasses of wine and then off to the hotel. Soon she will be able to host again. She has never been sloppy drunk with me but does relax some. She is open to wearing sexy outfits and is a sweet lady in my opinion. I have seen her about 10-15 times and never an issue.
Ok, just stick with me here. I've had a good luck streak of 3 VERY hot SB's (19,20, and 23) BUT I keep hitting the same wall. SHIT GETS BORING.
So we start out great. Dinner, sometimes events (topgolf, axe throwing. Etc), and even nice over night hotel stays on the beach. Each time we see each other approx twice a week w / one night being a sleepover. But by approx month 2. I always hit a wall where it just gets boring. Everything, the sex, the meetings, the dinners. Everything boring. I feel bad because they want to continue but I'm just over it. The conversation gets stale and it almost becomes a hassle to meet with them. The only thing that keeps me going is thinking about the work I put in to "catch" them.
Has anyone else experienced this trend? If so, what do you do?
Thanks,
DonJon.
Fishguy717
04-23-21, 07:28
Ok, just stick with me here. I've had a good luck streak of 3 VERY hot SB's (19,20, and 23) BUT I keep hitting the same wall. SHIT GETS BORING.
So we start out great. Dinner, sometimes events (topgolf, axe throwing. Etc), and even nice over night hotel stays on the beach. Each time we see each other approx twice a week w / one night being a sleepover. But by approx month 2. I always hit a wall where it just gets boring. Everything, the sex, the meetings, the dinners. Everything boring. I feel bad because they want to continue but I'm just over it. The conversation gets stale and it almost becomes a hassle to meet with them. The only thing that keeps me going is thinking about the work I put in to "catch" them.
Has anyone else experienced this trend? If so, what do you do?
Thanks,
DonJon.I experienced that years ago, and just knew that I needed variety. So the only way to combat it is to build up an inventory of different girls, where you can go thru the rotation. Some I see more than others, for sure. But the others, when you only see them 'once in a while' that usually makes it better. Plus a lot of times those girls know they want to see you more often, and will try harder to impress you to make you want to 'come back sooner'.
Another fake, don't waste your time.
https://www.seeking.com/member/f939dce7-5b36-4416-9c54-ac0c678b25c7https://www.seeking.com/member/f939dce7-5b36-4416-9c54-ac0c678b25c7
Her spiel in text:
I want to meet a man who know's what he wants and isn't afriad to go the extra mile for his lady, He's happy to see the beauty in life. I am looking for a man who has experience wih life. I want a Possible SD&SB Relationship.
Because I like older men who know what they want, that's ready and willing to support my dream and Appreciate who I am because I have been taken for granted far too many times, Friday, April 23 2021,6:28 AM.
FourSeasons2
04-23-21, 08:47
Ok, just stick with me here. I've had a good luck streak of 3 VERY hot SB's (19,20, and 23) BUT I keep hitting the same wall. SHIT GETS BORING.
So we start out great. Dinner, sometimes events (topgolf, axe throwing. Etc), and even nice over night hotel stays on the beach. Each time we see each other approx twice a week w / one night being a sleepover. But by approx month 2. I always hit a wall where it just gets boring. Everything, the sex, the meetings, the dinners. Everything boring. I feel bad because they want to continue but I'm just over it. The conversation gets stale and it almost becomes a hassle to meet with them. The only thing that keeps me going is thinking about the work I put in to "catch" them.
Has anyone else experienced this trend? If so, what do you do?
Thanks,
DonJon.I'm no longer seeking but IMHO. I like variety, that's why I have previously enjoyed meeting up with some younger women. I usually saw them about 3-4 x for an outing and some playtime before the thrill of a new partner for s*x waned off. They by nature of being quite younger have limited life experiences and therefore provide no intellectual stimulus for me. I also did not feel anytype of ego boost when escorting a young pretty woman on my arm when out in town (I know some mongers do). I liked your comment about the work you put in to "catch" them. The SB also put in effort to "find" you so therefore wants the arrangement to continue.
HoosierDaddy69
04-23-21, 09:17
Ok, just stick with me here. I've had a good luck streak of 3 VERY hot SB's (19,20, and 23) BUT I keep hitting the same wall. SHIT GETS BORING.
So we start out great. Dinner, sometimes events (topgolf, axe throwing. Etc), and even nice over night hotel stays on the beach. Each time we see each other approx twice a week w / one night being a sleepover. But by approx month 2. I always hit a wall where it just gets boring. Everything, the sex, the meetings, the dinners. Everything boring. I feel bad because they want to continue but I'm just over it. The conversation gets stale and it almost becomes a hassle to meet with them. The only thing that keeps me going is thinking about the work I put in to "catch" them.
Has anyone else experienced this trend? If so, what do you do?
Thanks,
DonJon.Sometimes the thrill is in the hunt.
ZoomLens2013
04-23-21, 09:34
I've been with the same SB since early 2018. She was 18 when we met. She's not really the SB type, although she loved the idea of it. She had seen a few other guys while we were in our first few months, and I encouraged it, since I knew I would not be able to offer as much $ as she wanted. She eventually grew tired of the flakiness of the other guys and decided to "settle" on just one. Me. Although, it wasn't really settling for her. She developed feelings for me, which wasn't too surprising, considering that she openly admitted from the start that she has daddy issues. No worries, there. She's a good girl, super smart, accomplished, and she will go far. I enjoy her company and she's very attractive to me. There's definitely a maturity difference between us, but I've met 20-somethings who can't hold a candle to this girl in terms of intellect. We have great sex, and she's allowed her limits to be pushed along the way. I even get to go raw with her, which is a real treat, of course. Haha! She's getting close to being done with college and moving onto her graduate studies, and will likely have a full time job in the next month or two. That will cause our relationship to change, although she doesn't want to lose me. She'd marry me, if I left my wife, but a roughly 30 year age difference just isn't practical. I haven't paid her anything all year, because my business income has suffered for several months. She accepts that, but still wants me around. OK, no problem. I'm not a bad guy to be with.
Have I gotten bored, at times? Yes. I have run a premium membership on SA several times over this 3 year period. I've only slept with one other girl during this time, and I've had platonic lunch dates with a handful of others. It wasn't that I didn't desire to fuck other girls. I've just not found the same connection with anyone else and most of the girls are asking that high dollar amount that we're all seeing, so it just hasn't happened. The quality of these girls simply isn't what I experienced between 2014-2018 on SA. I didn't even find my current girl on SA, I found her on Ashley Madison, which is a sorry excuse for an affair dating website, by the way.
I don't know if this helps you much, but I figured I'd at least share about my "unicorn" experience.
Ok, just stick with me here. I've had a good luck streak of 3 VERY hot SB's (19,20, and 23) BUT I keep hitting the same wall. SHIT GETS BORING.
So we start out great. Dinner, sometimes events (topgolf, axe throwing. Etc), and even nice over night hotel stays on the beach. Each time we see each other approx twice a week w / one night being a sleepover. But by approx month 2. I always hit a wall where it just gets boring. Everything, the sex, the meetings, the dinners. Everything boring. I feel bad because they want to continue but I'm just over it. The conversation gets stale and it almost becomes a hassle to meet with them. The only thing that keeps me going is thinking about the work I put in to "catch" them.
Has anyone else experienced this trend? If so, what do you do?
Thanks,
DonJon.
Ok, just stick with me here. I've had a good luck streak of 3 VERY hot SB's (19,20, and 23) BUT I keep hitting the same wall. SHIT GETS BORING.
So we start out great. Dinner, sometimes events (topgolf, axe throwing. Etc), and even nice over night hotel stays on the beach. Each time we see each other approx twice a week w / one night being a sleepover. But by approx month 2. I always hit a wall where it just gets boring. Everything, the sex, the meetings, the dinners. Everything boring. I feel bad because they want to continue but I'm just over it. The conversation gets stale and it almost becomes a hassle to meet with them. The only thing that keeps me going is thinking about the work I put in to "catch" them.
Has anyone else experienced this trend? If so, what do you do?
Thanks,
DonJon.I have a similar problem. Although lately the sugar game has gone downhill. But pre-scamdemic, I was fairly successful at it. I have a pretty fetish. Anything from 18 to 32 is fine, but she has to be one of "those" girls. The one that every guy checks out when she walks into a place. So SA was my go to site for that. I would start out with fairly vanilla sex but then my enjoyment came from pushing their sexual comfort zone a little more each date. At first it was the usual. Nice bare blowjob followed by covered cowgirl then doggy followed by finishing in the condom. Then I'd move them to bareback. Then into finishing with facials or swallowing. Then anal. Sometimes a threesome with another person. A couple of times that actually included another straight male hobbiest for a MFM. But you can see what happens. When I get to the point where this beautiful girl half my age is letting me fuck her in the ass and then cum in her mouth, there's no more frontier to explore. Once you're on top of Mount Everest, you lose interest in the climb. With some women this whole scheme only took four or five dates, with some it took much longer. But then I was done. I felt that I had to find the next pretty young woman to make into my dirty little *****. Oh well, we all have our "thing" I suppose.
Ok, just stick with me here. I've had a good luck streak of 3 VERY hot SB's (19,20, and 23) BUT I keep hitting the same wall. SHIT GETS BORING.
So we start out great. Dinner, sometimes events (topgolf, axe throwing. Etc), and even nice over night hotel stays on the beach. Each time we see each other approx twice a week w / one night being a sleepover. But by approx month 2. I always hit a wall where it just gets boring. Everything, the sex, the meetings, the dinners. Everything boring. I feel bad because they want to continue but I'm just over it. The conversation gets stale and it almost becomes a hassle to meet with them. The only thing that keeps me going is thinking about the work I put in to "catch" them.
Has anyone else experienced this trend? If so, what do you do?
Thanks,
DonJon.I'm kind of opposite in that I don't mind having an ongoing thing with just 1 - for a couple reasons.
First, there does HAVE to be a mutual chemistry / connection. So if that's not there, then it never get to 2 months for me. But if there is, since it's hard to find, I'm fine with just one good one.
Secondly, I think things can get better the more you see each other (again, IF my first point above is there).
But I certainly do see both sides of the coin. And sometimes the chase is fun as well.
Such a fun hobby we have LOL.
I'm kind of opposite in that I don't mind having an ongoing thing with just 1 - for a couple reasons.
First, there does HAVE to be a mutual chemistry / connection. So if that's not there, then it never get to 2 months for me. But if there is, since it's hard to find, I'm fine with just one good one.
Secondly, I think things can get better the more you see each other (again, IF my first point above is there).
But I certainly do see both sides of the coin. And sometimes the chase is fun as well.
Such a fun hobby we have LOL.Can I just say, for me, when the boredom sets in. It's usually not sexual or physical boredom. It's just the company. I mean they don't suddenly become offensive either. It's just that girls, and maybe people in general, are actually quite boring in their twenties with their endless partying and their shitty fucking music, and their refusal to read anything longer than a goddamn tweet, and their "woe is me" whining. I don't see myself ever getting bored with putting my dick in the same pretty mouth over and over. It's the crap coming out of that mouth that drives me on to the next one.
I don't think getting bored means anything is wrong with you.
Just before lockdown I was dating a 24 year old stripper that I met on Tinder. Exactly why she bothered fucking me, I could not tell you. I'm sure I had a lot more in common with her typical client than with the younger, hotter guys she could easily have been dating instead. Maybe she wanted to play a long game, but just never got to the point where she tried to turn the corner and ask me for money. Who knows? Regardless, it was a lucky situation for me. She was a lot younger and hotter than I had any right to expect, without paying.
And yet, I got bored after a few months. She actually wasn't dumb, but she also wasn't especially bright. She had a lot of opinions on social topics that made me want to say: "Baby, please stop talking. " She meant well. She believed in the sort of idealistic shit that most people can only believe when they're young.
So, what did that leave for us to talk about? We didn't have any friends or work in common. I gave up on paying attention to pop culture a long time ago. I just cannot bring myself to care. Because of this, neither of us would understand each other's references. I found myself editing the things I was about to say, because I realized they were about things that happened decades before she was born, and she just wouldn't understand. It made conversation tiresome.
That relationship really made me feel the age gap. I don't think I realized how much people lean on small talk and shared popular culture. If you don't have any basic stuff in common with a girl, and you don't pay attention to the same news / gossip / memes, then conversation is hard. And then it's just sex, which is good until you get enough of it. And then you start looking for the next one.
TomCat4871
04-23-21, 16:32
It's vaginal attention deficit disorder. We all have it. I've almost NEVER gone beyond 3 visits with anyone except for a tiny handful of UTR's, and some contacts over the years. Even with a girlfriend I need to find a new nut about once every two weeks even if its something low end off of STG. Most of the time I leave moderately disappointed and the next day I can barely remember her face or even if I saw anyone.
Can I just say, for me, when the boredom sets in. It's usually not sexual or physical boredom. It's just the company. I mean they don't suddenly become offensive either. It's just that girls, and maybe people in general, are actually quite boring in their twenties with their endless partying and their shitty fucking music, and their refusal to read anything longer than a goddamn tweet, and their "woe is me" whining. I don't see myself ever getting bored with putting my dick in the same pretty mouth over and over. It's the crap coming out of that mouth that drives me on to the next one.
HoosierDaddy69
04-23-21, 17:35
Can I just say, for me, when the boredom sets in. It's usually not sexual or physical boredom. It's just the company. I mean they don't suddenly become offensive either. It's just that girls, and maybe people in general, are actually quite boring in their twenties with their endless partying and their shitty fucking music, and their refusal to read anything longer than a goddamn tweet, and their "woe is me" whining. I don't see myself ever getting bored with putting my dick in the same pretty mouth over and over. It's the crap coming out of that mouth that drives me on to the next one.I'm just a fucking W HORE and I love sex. I think women are beautiful creatures and I love sticking my dick in all three orifices' and want to do so with as many as I can.
It's not out of boredom, or because of anything they said or did. I just always move on to the next one because that's what us W HORE's do.
I've been with the same SB since early 2018. She was 18 when we met. She's not really the SB type, although she loved the idea of it. She had seen a few other guys while we were in our first few months, and I encouraged it, since I knew I would not be able to offer as much $ as she wanted. She eventually grew tired of the flakiness of the other guys and decided to "settle" on just one. Me. Although, it wasn't really settling for her. She developed feelings for me, which wasn't too surprising, considering that she openly admitted from the start that she has daddy issues. No worries, there. She's a good girl, super smart, accomplished, and she will go far. I enjoy her company and she's very attractive to me. There's definitely a maturity difference between us, but I've met 20-somethings who can't hold a candle to this girl in terms of intellect. We have great sex, and she's allowed her limits to be pushed along the way. I even get to go raw with her, which is a real treat, of course. Haha! She's getting close to being done with college and moving onto her graduate studies, and will likely have a full time job in the next month or two. That will cause our relationship to change, although she doesn't want to lose me. She'd marry me, if I left my wife, but a roughly 30 year age difference just isn't practical. I haven't paid her anything all year, because my business income has suffered for several months. She accepts that, but still wants me around. OK, no problem. I'm not a bad guy to be with.
Have I gotten bored, at times? Yes. I have run a premium membership on SA several times over this 3 year period. I've only slept with one other girl during this time, and I've had platonic lunch dates with a handful of others. It wasn't that I didn't desire to fuck other girls. I've just not found the same connection with anyone else and most of the girls are asking that high dollar amount that we're all seeing, so it just hasn't happened. The quality of these girls simply isn't what I experienced between 2014-2018 on SA. I didn't even find my current girl on SA, I found her on Ashley Madison, which is a sorry excuse for an affair dating website, by the way.
I don't know if this helps you much, but I figured I'd at least share about my "unicorn" experience.So what's the going rate for platonic lunch or dinner dates? I have thought about entertaining that approach?
Fishguy717
04-24-21, 07:36
So what's the going rate for platonic lunch or dinner dates? I have thought about entertaining that approach?Most of my initial 'meet and greets' are for lunch, and I've already vetted them with extensive pics, so MOST of the time, I know it's someone I want to meet. That being said, I will treat them to lunch, but unless something else happens after, or the date is extended, I don't give them anything else. If the date goes well and it's someone I want to see, and they want to see me, we negotiate terms for future dates. And sometimes yes, it happens right then. Sometimes not Just depends on the girl.
DiscreetFun306
04-24-21, 12:31
Any intel on this one? Comms have been pretty good but she refuses to meet once in public first which is a red flag for me.
https://www.seeking.com/member/7b005195-31c8-467b-9c39-d3a1c4b0bf62
DiscreetFun306
04-24-21, 13:11
Another waste of time. She responded with a message about sending her my contact info so should could send info on how to join her "Events Party Group". Used to run into this a lot back in the day on Ashley Madison. First time SA, it is just not what it used to be, but still the best site I have found.
https://www.seeking.com/messages/inbox/8a393c6a-7524-4506-89b1-fac6e19cf630
All -- I hate to add to the chorus of negativity about the slim pickin's on SA, but damn -- I have been a member off and on for 15 years or so, and this is the biggest drought I have gone through. Don't get me wrong -- I still think it's the best site of it's type -- but the quality of SB's seems to really have dropped. No replies, no shows at scheduled meetings, ghosting, tons of unattractive ladies, etc. But I'll keep plowing along and hope for the best. Do you think that all the gov't-issued stimulus checks -- which is making it hard for restaurants and retail stores to find help for open positions -- is also keeping potential SB's off the market?
HoosierDaddy69
04-25-21, 10:55
All -- I hate to add to the chorus of negativity about the slim pickin's on SA, but damn -- I have been a member off and on for 15 years or so, and this is the biggest drought I have gone through. Don't get me wrong -- I still think it's the best site of it's type -- but the quality of SB's seems to really have dropped. No replies, no shows at scheduled meetings, ghosting, tons of unattractive ladies, etc. But I'll keep plowing along and hope for the best. Do you think that all the gov't-issued stimulus checks -- which is making it hard for restaurants and retail stores to find help for open positions -- is also keeping potential SB's off the market?Like you, I've been on / off SA (and all the others) for 15+ years. Obviously if they're able to lay up and do nothing, get $3200+ in stimulus money, and $600 a week in unemployment for a while vs working or sugaring, some will choose the easy / lazy path. But that incentive is drying up. I think the bigger culprit is * and other venues for selling their pics & vids. While most don't make all that much with that, the few really successful ones inspire the others (and the lower quality girls) to try. SA has apparently not bothered policing those online-virtual only arrangement seekers like they used to. So it equates to more work, time, etc to find fewer SB's to have fun with.
Most of my initial 'meet and greets' are for lunch, and I've already vetted them with extensive pics, so MOST of the time, I know it's someone I want to meet. That being said, I will treat them to lunch, but unless something else happens after, or the date is extended, I don't give them anything else. If the date goes well and it's someone I want to see, and they want to see me, we negotiate terms for future dates. And sometimes yes, it happens right then. Sometimes not Just depends on the girl.I have tried that but found myself wasting a lot of time just getting them to keep the date or a ton of cancelations some of the best SB I have had started with $100 but when you factor in that dinner / lunch allowance I'm better off on EROS so I haven't been doing meet and greets but have learned quickly when you just show up to their place you might not always like what you see.
Any intel on this one? Comms have been pretty good but she refuses to meet once in public first which is a red flag for me.
https://www.seeking.com/member/7b005195-31c8-467b-9c39-d3a1c4b0bf62Most of the girls I have met this past year do not do public meets they prefer discretion and would rather have the cash than the food. I enjoy dining just don't think I should have to pay for it.
DiscreetFun306
04-25-21, 13:08
Most of my initial 'meet and greets' are for lunch, and I've already vetted them with extensive pics, so MOST of the time, I know it's someone I want to meet. That being said, I will treat them to lunch, but unless something else happens after, or the date is extended, I don't give them anything else. If the date goes well and it's someone I want to see, and they want to see me, we negotiate terms for future dates. And sometimes yes, it happens right then. Sometimes not Just depends on the girl.My initial 'meet and greets' are similar. I like to meet for a coffee or drink first to make sure we are both comfortable with each other and want to move forward with an arrangement. The allowance does not start until the fun starts. Sometimes than can happen as soon as we are done with the meet and greet, sometimes it is the next meeting.
DiscreetFun306
04-25-21, 13:16
Most of the girls I have met this past year do not do public meets they prefer discretion and would rather have the cash than the food. I enjoy dining just don't think I should have to pay for it.Thanks for the feedback. I have had good success with just a coffee or drink for the first meet. I really like that first meet in public to make sure it is a good fit. It has been my experience in the past if I have her come straight to my hotel room for the first meet she is not what I am expecting and then things can get a little awkward.
Like you, I've been on / off SA (and all the others) for 15+ years. Obviously if they're able to lay up and do nothing, get $3200+ in stimulus money, and $600 a week in unemployment for a while vs working or sugaring, some will choose the easy / lazy path. But that incentive is drying up. I think the bigger culprit is * and other venues for selling their pics & vids. While most don't make all that much with that, the few really successful ones inspire the others (and the lower quality girls) to try. SA has apparently not bothered policing those online-virtual only arrangement seekers like they used to. So it equates to more work, time, etc to find fewer SB's to have fun with.I agree but I also have seen multiple sites including SA and various SB forums where SD actually does fly SB in from all over the country because airline tickets are cheap. Trust me very few girls in the central United States will turn down an all-expense paid to central Florida most with a minimal allowance if anything other than a little spending money however at the very least a grand for a weekend probably longer. The marketing of SA makes it crystal clear a good SB should expect to make a couple hundred just for being herself and most SD are young studs who are in great shape own successful businesses and money is not a problem. They always do these interview pieces and the SB is always bragging about make 5 k a month. Many of the ones that sign up and disappear are doing so because they are looking for a rich husband. The overweight, average girl is the real target. LOL Has anyone flew someone in before?
Recently met a sexy 20 something I would to explore the possibility of an arrangement with. The problem is don't really know how to approach it. Any ideas? I absolutely don't want to offer too much too fast.
HoosierDaddy69
04-25-21, 19:19
I agree but I also have seen multiple sites including SA and various SB forums where SD actually does fly SB in from all over the country because airline tickets are cheap. Trust me very few girls in the central United States will turn down an all-expense paid to central Florida most with a minimal allowance if anything other than a little spending money however at the very least a grand for a weekend probably longer. The marketing of SA makes it crystal clear a good SB should expect to make a couple hundred just for being herself and most SD are young studs who are in great shape own successful businesses and money is not a problem. They always do these interview pieces and the SB is always bragging about make 5 k a month. Many of the ones that sign up and disappear are doing so because they are looking for a rich husband. The overweight, average girl is the real target. LOL Has anyone flew someone in before?An no, I have not. But I get messages from girls all the country / world asking for that. I think twice it has actually happened where a girl was actually coming to Florida for another reason and we met up. But I have had multiple girls travel to me in Jax (and vice versa) within a 2 hour radius. The pickins' are much better in Orlando. Not as much competition for the ones in Savannah, Tally, Gainesville, etc.
HoosierDaddy69
04-25-21, 19:21
Recently met a sexy 20 something I would to explore the possibility of an arrangement with. The problem is don't really know how to approach it. Any ideas? I absolutely don't want to offer too much too fast.Asking her what she wants. I never just offer an amount first.
MikeIsHome
04-25-21, 20:03
Most of the girls I have met this past year do not do public meets they prefer discretion and would rather have the cash than the food. I enjoy dining just don't think I should have to pay for it.I do SA when on travel and will gladly pay for a dinner with some cute, screened, potential baby. Honestly I enjoy it and much prefer meeting under those conditions. They are the greatest encounters.
MyDarkSide
04-25-21, 20:12
LOL Has anyone flew someone in before?Met my forever atf in jax when I'd regularly get down there. She moved and I was bummed for a year until one night on the road I thought of flying her to me. It's awesome. The real question is had anyone made it work for a first time meeting? It would open the potential babies to astronomical numbers that would blow my mind LOL. Airfare is cheap.
Met my forever atf in jax when I'd regularly get down there. She moved and I was bummed for a year until one night on the road I thought of flying her to me. It's awesome. The real question is had anyone made it work for a first time meeting? It would open the potential babies to astronomical numbers that would blow my mind LOL. Airfare is cheap.Unfortunately for it to work for me I would have to go out of town for a couple days or just put them up in hotel and see them as schedule permits.
I do SA when on travel and will gladly pay for a dinner with some cute, screened, potential baby. Honestly I enjoy it and much prefer meeting under those conditions. They are the greatest encounters.What do you think is a reasonable ppm for just a dinner or lunch?
MyDarkSide
04-25-21, 22:31
What do you think is a reasonable ppm for just a dinner or lunch?Every guy has their own thing but when the discussion turns to ppm for a meal it sends a negative vibe and I tend to lose interest. Maybe a little gift if I think things may work. In my experience, demanding a fee for a lunch isn't a good sign.
DiscreetFun306
04-26-21, 07:44
Every guy has their own thing but when the discussion turns to ppm for a meal it sends a negative vibe and I tend to lose interest. Maybe a little gift if I think things may work. In my experience, demanding a fee for a lunch isn't a good sign.I agree. I have had a lot of success on SA and I never paid a ppm for a lunch / dinner, unless we had some fun afterwards.
DiscreetFun306
04-26-21, 07:46
Another time waster. Says she would love to meet if I can gift her $50 for gas first.
https://www.seeking.com/member/955aaae7-ec26-40e0-8d50-54e6003d2055
Every guy has their own thing but when the discussion turns to ppm for a meal it sends a negative vibe and I tend to lose interest. Maybe a little gift if I think things may work. In my experience, demanding a fee for a lunch isn't a good sign.I have never and would never pay someone just to hang out and have lunch / dinner / coffee / drink. Defeats the purpose really.
A smart girl if she was hot enough could make a decent living doing that. Meet for dinner, conversation, make a little gift and then either ghost you or she can just say 'sorry, I didn't really feel a connection' and you'd never see her again.
IMO, there is NO upside to paying someone to meet and see if you are a great fit, etc. But, whatever works for you.
ZoomLens2013
04-26-21, 09:36
So what's the going rate for platonic lunch or dinner dates? I have thought about entertaining that approach?I don't hesitate at giving them $60-100 for having lunch with me. None have ever complained about it. I appreciate their company and I want to honor the overall purpose of being on the site, not from a monger POV of course. It hasn't always lead to "more", but I'm fine with that. While I'm still holding on to the "pay no more than $250" budget, this isn't just about the money for me. There's a human on the other side of the table, and I want us both to have a human connection. Based on what I read in these forums, I'll never get that from any girl on STG or a SW or an "escort" LOL. I've never made any effort to meet one thru those other sites, but I browse those sites to help weed them out from my SA searches, since they do sometimes make profiles on SA. And, if I get the impression from any girl on SA that they'll only see me as an ATM, I won't bother meeting.
Comms seemed promising then asks to pay $50 for a cam show with the possibility of a meet. Politely declined. Be advised.
https://www.seeking.com/member/121d447f-0864-4b5f-a3e2-e143ba2fa52f
HoosierDaddy69
04-27-21, 01:03
Comms seemed promising then asks to pay $50 for a cam show with the possibility of a meet. Politely declined. Be advised.
https://www.seeking.com/member/121d447f-0864-4b5f-a3e2-e143ba2fa52fThat's s huge red flag.
DiscreetFun306
04-27-21, 16:09
Any intel on this one? Comms have been pretty good but she refuses to meet once in public first which is a red flag for me.
https://www.seeking.com/member/7b005195-31c8-467b-9c39-d3a1c4b0bf62Since no one had any intel I decided to TOFTT. Should have went with my first instinct. One my worst experiences on SA, a dead fish who refused to do a mic check.
HoosierDaddy69
04-28-21, 02:19
Since no one had any intel I decided to TOFTT. Should have went with my first instinct. One my worst experiences on SA, a dead fish who refused to do a mic check.PM is fine.
Since no one had any intel I decided to TOFTT. Should have went with my first instinct. One my worst experiences on SA, a dead fish who refused to do a mic check.That sucks. She looked pretty cute and was hoping for good experience.
Sorry man but thanks for TOFTT.
ZoomLens2013
04-28-21, 09:00
Since no one had any intel I decided to TOFTT. Should have went with my first instinct. One my worst experiences on SA, a dead fish who refused to do a mic check.Wow, so you actually got to meet her? I recall chatting with her briefly, but I had the biggest problem even getting a response from her for the longest time. I ended up blocking her, but I remember her username. Super cute girl in pics, and I hate that I could never meet her for lunch or coffee. I wish it wasn't so difficult for these girls to just type out, "I'm not interested, so please stop contacting me. " or just simply block me. LOL.
DiscreetFun306
04-28-21, 11:38
That sucks. She looked pretty cute and was hoping for good experience.
Sorry man but thanks for TOFTT.Actually it didn't suck, that was the problem She didn't look as good in person but looks were fine, however the experience was awful.
DiscreetFun306
04-28-21, 11:45
Wow, so you actually got to meet her? I recall chatting with her briefly, but I had the biggest problem even getting a response from her for the longest time. I ended up blocking her, but I remember her username. Super cute girl in pics, and I hate that I could never meet her for lunch or coffee. I wish it wasn't so difficult for these girls to just type out, "I'm not interested, so please stop contacting me. " or just simply block me. LOL.Be happy you didn't meet her. She wouldn't agree to lunch or coffee, nothing in public. That is usually a deal breaker for me but with SA being slow at the moment I broke my own rules. Need more self control.
https://www.seeking.com/member/e1f92138-7fb0-4961-a955-e983c300d8c0
Any intel on this one will be greatly appreciated.
FYI. That is a link to your inbox and not a link to her profile.Thank You! I corrected it on a new post. Sorry for the screw up.
ZoomLens2013
04-29-21, 12:38
I tried to reply to you SB-related message, but your inbox is full.
I tried to reply to you SB-related message, but your inbox is full.Ditto Don.
RedChaser1
04-30-21, 18:20
https://www.seeking.com/member/5ebafaf1-7c9b-4f3b-9b8d-900a64e07d22
Profile says she's a 4 foot 7 retired adult actress. Anyone know who she is or might have been? I just want to look her up and see her in action.
RedChaser1
04-30-21, 18:26
https://www.seeking.com/member/5ebafaf1-7c9b-4f3b-9b8d-900a64e07d22
Profile says she's a 4 foot 7 retired adult actress. Anyone know who she is or might have been? I just want to look her up and see her in action.Skylar Valentine.
Zoom and Scooter. My bad guys. Inbox is all clear now.
Ditto Don.
Anybody get far with her, was supposed to meet her but she said she has a bf and looking for nonsexual relationship.
Skylar Valentine.
Anybody get far with her, was supposed to meet her but she said she has a bf and looking for nonsexual relationship.Naw, a lot of attitude months ago for suggesting anything and last time I checked her Instagram her BF had died but it seems she removed those pics.
Looks like she has a face tattoo now, not really my thing.
https://twitter.com/skyvalentinexxx
Didn't report this one yet but will in a few days so others could be aware. She reached out said wanted 500 to meet started asking intimate details about want I wanted said she sent verification pic but never received than got pissed because she said she sent a ton of nudes to me never got anything than started asking for my email address and that ended it for me. I had a couple try to extort me before and this one is the exact same way so be carful but my senses may be wrong. Anyone else have any info on her?
https://www.seeking.com/member/d40ba5ba-54ea-47d4-bceb-6c82ae80d95a
Didn't report this one yet but will in a few days so others could be aware. She reached out said wanted 500 to meet started asking intimate details about want I wanted said she sent verification pic but never received than got pissed because she said she sent a ton of nudes to me never got anything than started asking for my email address and that ended it for me. I had a couple try to extort me before and this one is the exact same way so be carful but my senses may be wrong. Anyone else have any info on her?
https://www.seeking.com/member/d40ba5ba-54ea-47d4-bceb-6c82ae80d95aSeveral posts about her if you look back a couple months.
I never had any issues like you described though. But for a while she had on her profile if you were offering anything less than 5 bills then you had no chance etc.
She flaked on me before and she sent me some hot pics before etc that I almost pulled the trigger but her attitude sucks so I moved on.
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