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MajMilkDuds
08-29-24, 12:55
Hey I had this girls number but I lost it when a recent update to my play number. If anyone has info on her can you please pass it along. I gave her my number but I don't have hers anymore. Very sweet girl.
https://members.seeking.com/member/f2cad06a-7672-4e0d-adc4-8dd7acd12d72Has nobody seen this girl?
TooHotForYou
08-29-24, 13:19
Her profile is updated saying she has "accepted an arrangement therefore I'm no longer in the market". Is that you? What's funny is that her profile is active almost everyday.I talked to her. I don't know what to believe about what she says other than knowing she was talked about on here but she seems pretty worthless. Unless I am proven wrong. A kid of what she said sounded very hard to believe though.
SeekingHead
08-29-24, 13:33
Has nobody seen this girl?She has been reviewed a few times on here, someone said she quoted $500.
http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/search.php?searchid=4183538
MajMilkDuds
08-29-24, 13:56
https://members.seeking.com/member/04e9a9ab-342b-440d-8f87-e9d77e0f052b
I met this girl a couple months ago. We met and she was visably drunk. I felt bad and gave her 50 to and put her in a lyft home. But She looks ALOT older in person. Maybe it was the being drunk thing but she also the next day scream at me for wasting her time and said I scammed her when she had 50 in her pocket and got home safe without being taken advantage of. I would avoid.
MajMilkDuds
08-29-24, 14:04
She has been reviewed a few times on here, someone said she quoted $500.
http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/search.php?searchid=4183538Ok. Well can someone PM the number? I lost it.
BrownSugaTwo
08-29-24, 14:19
Another red flag: looks like she got multiple profiles as well -.
https://members.seeking.com/member/449ab474-88d4-4e43-adfa-b5a163508686
https://members.seeking.com/member/04e9a9ab-342b-440d-8f87-e9d77e0f052b
I met this girl a couple months ago. We met and she was visably drunk. I felt bad and gave her 50 to and put her in a lyft home. But She looks ALOT older in person. Maybe it was the being drunk thing but she also the next day scream at me for wasting her time and said I scammed her when she had 50 in her pocket and got home safe without being taken advantage of. I would avoid.
Airmantroy
08-29-24, 14:40
https://members.seeking.com/member/04e9a9ab-342b-440d-8f87-e9d77e0f052b
I met this girl a couple months ago. We met and she was visably drunk. I felt bad and gave her 50 to and put her in a lyft home. But She looks ALOT older in person. Maybe it was the being drunk thing but she also the next day scream at me for wasting her time and said I scammed her when she had 50 in her pocket and got home safe without being taken advantage of. I would avoid.Dayum. I was litterally just going to post and ask if anyone had actually seen her in person, she is horrible at communicating and has ghosted me and apologized at least once. I honestly can't remember. As long as I wasn't out any funds and didn't have to go anywhere it didn't bother me to give her another shot.
Airmantroy
08-29-24, 14:42
Has anyone met one of these ladies?
Annmariexoxox - https://members.seeking.com/member/eea32f52-11ee-4785-863d-6c767dfec8a1.
Classyatl - https://members.seeking.com/member/fd368e59-98e8-40ba-800d-faaf48845728.
Sweetdesiredesiree - https://members.seeking.com/member/01001867-bf2a-4fff-b4c3-3a1252b6f703.
Heatherbaby777 - https://members.seeking.com/member/4188f6ac-5c42-4175-a37c-4e1989bf7d09.
Annmariexoxox seems to have an defunct tryst profile. And, Classyatl has been arrested, and her mugshot definitely doesn't match what she has on her profile. Same goes for Heatherbaby777, but her mugshot is even worse.Annmarie is a pro who is going to expect a $200 deposit. Nuf said.
Classyatl- she asked for $500 and wouldn't budge below $450. Not for somebody her age.
BrownSugaTwo
08-29-24, 14:48
Yeah, I had hoped Annmarie would be different, if we started through SA. I thought she might waive the deposit that's on her tryst profile. I guess that's wishful thinking. :)
Classyatl is the real shame. Her mugshot is ROUGH, and the age doesn't help. I think she asked for 600 when I talked to her.
Annmarie is a pro who is going to expect a $200 deposit. Nuf said.
Classyatl- she asked for $500 and wouldn't budge below $450. Not for somebody her age.
MajMilkDuds
08-29-24, 15:12
Dayum. I was litterally just going to post and ask if anyone had actually seen her in person, she is horrible at communicating and has ghosted me and apologized at least once. I honestly can't remember. As long as I wasn't out any funds and didn't have to go anywhere it didn't bother me to give her another shot.Ya. Sorry bud. But that is why we are here. To share contacts of the good and also warn against the bad. It helps everyone. Keeps the good ones in this and the bad ones out.
MajMilkDuds
08-29-24, 16:02
https://members.seeking.com/member/15282e94-7d90-4b21-bd4c-5ead03465c11
Any recent hits on this one? I know I talked to her before and she messaged me. So curious what others have to say.
MSmith3034
08-29-24, 18:48
Talked to her once or twice and moved offline to Snap. She had the personality of a wet mop and went straight to telling me about being broke, but between having a job and kid she seems to have no time or inclination to actually meet. She looks very cute too, shame.
https://members.seeking.com/member/15282e94-7d90-4b21-bd4c-5ead03465c11
Any recent hits on this one? I know I talked to her before and she messaged me. So curious what others have to say.
FarFarAway
08-29-24, 19:34
I stumbled upon a reverse image technique that's been working for me. The tech savvy among you probably have this trick in your bag, but for those that don't here it is: the free search options can be weak by themselves but pretty useful when used together.
Steps:
1) Use Facecheck I'd on the target picture.
2) Facecheck should return a grid of results. While it won't tell you the exact link of the results without paying (like it used to), it will tell you the websites it came from. You want to look for social media sites (Linkedin seems to work particularly well for this). Take a screenshot and cut out the pictures it gives you from the social media sites.
3) Take your new pictures from the social media sites and put them into Google Reverse Image Search. Be sure to put the whole thing and not just the face. Googles revers image search doesn't do well with just parts of pictures, like the face, but it does very well matching the entire picture.
4) This should give you the results that Facecheck I'd was trying to get you to pay for. If it doesn't work, try it with another social media picture.
I've been trying to find a good free alternative since Facecheck I'd went to a pay model and this has been working fairly well. It's not 100% and takes a few extra clicks, but it can definitely find people. Besides Facecheck I'd I like to also check out what some of the other pay sites, like Pimeyes and Social Catfish, are returning for results. Then I use the same method of screenshotting those pic previews and plugging them into a free tool like google image search.I would take 1 issue w / your idea. The idea of facial recognition could be brought up too often here. While we want to be able to use it, we don't want it to be used against us. You do know that some SBs are aware of these threads, right? The more they read about them the greater danger we are in. I will definitely give your technique a try. Hopefully, some POT I am dealing with doesn't do the same w / my pic. I have gone to the main sites and gotten my results purged, but this is something one must attend to periodically it seems. Run your own profile photos from whatever SD site you are using through the wringer before you use them.
MajMilkDuds
08-29-24, 19:57
https://members.seeking.com/member/c2e41a81-a47c-4f5b-a401-67a1e6e2d684adrianaxo
So I saw this girl back a few years ago. She was a great girl. Great body. And great attitude and VERY cool and chill. She is now back apparently spending some time in prison but she is actually pretty great. So when she first texted me again after years we connected and talked and hooked up. She didn't have a place of her own anymore so she got a room and I reembused her. We had a nice time but ill be honest for me the spark wasnt there anymore. She is alot dryer with it comes to her personality and didn't get into as much. Would I repeat probobly. Is she my first choice? No but I wanted to give my honest quick take first. If you want to know more and trade contacts PM me.
MAJ.
MajMilkDuds
08-29-24, 20:20
https://members.seeking.com/member/ebfbdace-bbc7-4689-963e-a555c88d7c1b
This girl plays games. She thinks she wants to meet but then gets cold feet and ghosts 5 times leaveing you sitting at the bar or apt complex. I just wanted to warn everyone.
BTW. Just dumping a few of my experiences since I haven't posted in a bit.
CrazyRocket
08-30-24, 00:13
1. 5 hrs?
Dude I would get bored as the reciever, never mind the lock jaw she would get as the donor.I know it sounds exaggerated but she stopped BJ a few times and tried some hand techniques which I didn't quite like and made me lose the mood. Although, she was quite obedient the whole time. She looked like really enjoying her treat. I might hit her up again this weekend and report back. Def recommended for those who like a good BBBJTC.
Patriarch112
08-30-24, 06:01
So, I got this girl who we set something up but then she bailed. Week later she now wants to meet for free "to see if we have chemistry". Does this happen to you guys?
So, I got this girl who we set something up but then she bailed. Week later she now wants to meet for free "to see if we have chemistry". Does this happen to you guys?Do you know why she's contacting you at the end of the month? Because the bills are due. My philosophy is not to meet a desperate person because she is more likely to do desperate things to get your money.
If you decide to meet, never reveal your real identity. If you're communicating with her using your actual cell number, then don't meet her. Pay cash at the restaurant or wherever you meet, don't use your credit card. But I already stated my opinion above about the meeting.
Patriarch112
08-30-24, 08:16
Do you know why she's contacting you at the end of the month? Because the bills are due. My philosophy is not to meet a desperate person because she is more likely to do desperate things to get your money.
If you decide to meet, never reveal your real identity. If you're communicating with her using your actual cell number, then don't meet her. Pay cash at the restaurant or wherever you meet, don't use your credit card. But I already stated my opinion above about the meeting.Smart, we are supposed to meet at her apartment. Already found her on IG. You got good stuff though.
https://members.seeking.com/member/c2e41a81-a47c-4f5b-a401-67a1e6e2d684adrianaxo
So I saw this girl back a few years ago. She was a great girl. Great body. And great attitude and VERY cool and chill. She is now back apparently spending some time in prison but she is actually pretty great. So when she first texted me again after years we connected and talked and hooked up. She didn't have a place of her own anymore so she got a room and I reembused her. We had a nice time but ill be honest for me the spark wasnt there anymore. She is alot dryer with it comes to her personality and didn't get into as much. Would I repeat probobly. Is she my first choice? No but I wanted to give my honest quick take first. If you want to know more and trade contacts PM me.
MAJ.It's somewhat relevant to your story.
I lived in Russia 10 years ago and always wanted to "date" this Russian girl who worked in a club. Then I left Russia, but she had always been in my mind. To your point, I decided to visit her during a weekend and surprisingly, she was still working at the club. Anyway, we had a great time together. One of the best experiences of my life: a beautiful blonde, blue eyes and sweet, sweet personality. But it was a one night thing. Obviously I ain't going to Russia anytime soon because of the war. But that girl will always be in my mind.
Sometimes you just got to try.
Smart, we are supposed to meet at her apartment. Already found her on IG. You got good stuff though.Park your car far, far away and take Uber to her place. Leave your I'd and credit cards in your car because you won't need them anyway.
I would never meet a girl in her place, especially for the first time. My first meeting would always be in a bar or restaurant.
Airmantroy
08-30-24, 11:22
https://members.seeking.com/member/c2e41a81-a47c-4f5b-a401-67a1e6e2d684adrianaxo
So I saw this girl back a few years ago. She was a great girl. Great body. And great attitude and VERY cool and chill. She is now back apparently spending some time in prison but she is actually pretty great. So when she first texted me again after years we connected and talked and hooked up. She didn't have a place of her own anymore so she got a room and I reembused her. We had a nice time but ill be honest for me the spark wasnt there anymore. She is alot dryer with it comes to her personality and didn't get into as much. Would I repeat probobly. Is she my first choice? No but I wanted to give my honest quick take first. If you want to know more and trade contacts PM me.
MAJ.I saw her once, did a public meet beforehand to see if she was as the pics suggested. Honestly, she was very lackluster, and was just barely into it. Didn't want DATY, wasn't thrilled with FIV. Bbj was ok, but CFS was her request beforehand and was basically just a barely alive starfish wanting me to nut and be done. She texts every week asking if I'm available and I'm definitely not interested in repeating that. Her ask was $5 or 600 settled at $350 if I rember correct, I had to host. She did do time for a possesion charge and was very truthful about it. Nice enough girl, looks pretty good just didn't have that spark I like.
Airmantroy
08-30-24, 12:55
A quick easy way to spot the pic seller girls, the newest way to spot them is their "about me" will say something about being an exhibishionist. Guranteed they will want pic purchase first.
I have fun with them. Ask if they are super x-rated, tell them you have a very dirty mind for the really good stuff, get them to send a sneak peek to make sure it's really them in the pics, then tell them you can find better on Instagram or Google. As you hit the block button.
Evening Gents. Long time listener, first time caller. Been lurking for years and thought I'd start making some contributions.
Been in the sugar bowl about 7 years and getting strip club take out for about 20 year now. I'll try to get you a few sugar baby reviews before I hit the sack tonight, and I'll start with this one.
https://members.seeking.com/member/fd368e59-98e8-40ba-800d-faaf48845728
Saw her a couple months ago.
The good: Ass looks good in doggy. Ok BBBJ. Very very tight pussy. Big man mades if you're into that (I could care less about that).
The bad: CFS. High volume. Can't take dick for very long because she is already sore from the last guy when she meets you. Her body has a bunch of scars from being sewn up (not sure what happened) and looks like she's a patched up chucky doll. It's hard to look at if I'm being honest. Weird and awkward personality.
I didn't pay her asking donation, but what I received wasn't worth more than 150, so I feel ripped. Overall I do not recommend and I definitely wouldn't repeat.
https://members.seeking.com/member/fd368e59-98e8-40ba-800d-faaf48845728
Saw her a while back.
The good: Ass looks good in doggy. Ok BBBJ. Very very tight pussy. Big man mades if you're into that (I personally could care less about that).
The bad: CFS. High volume. Can't take dick for very long because she is still sore from the guy she was with that morning or night before. Her body has a bunch of scars from being sewn up (not sure what happened to her torso. Some scaring from boob job). It's hard to look at if I'm being honest. Weird and awkward personality.
I didn't pay her asking donation, but what I received And experienced wasn't worth more than 150, so I feel ripped. Overall I do not recommend and I definitely wouldn't repeat.
LovePunnany
08-31-24, 00:13
Any info on this baby would be appreciated.
https://members.seeking.com/member/d099e081-4b6f-4071-bd3c-d3722c682c28
LovePunnany
08-31-24, 00:16
Any info on this baby would be appreciated.
https://members.seeking.com/member/917c39f0-a949-40d6-a44b-f23c06da582f
LovePunnany
08-31-24, 00:21
Any info on this baby would be appreciated.
https://members.seeking.com/member/e46703b1-ab3b-4a8c-b7b9-81202cb20fde
LovePunnany
08-31-24, 18:19
Any info on this baby would be appreciated.
https://members.seeking.com/member/f0161345-61c7-4d8b-af0b-1bf9ceb2719f
LovePunnany
08-31-24, 18:20
https://members.seeking.com/member/fd368e59-98e8-40ba-800d-faaf48845728
Saw her a while back.
The good: Ass looks good in doggy. Ok BBBJ. Very very tight pussy. Big man mades if you're into that (I personally could care less about that).
The bad: CFS. High volume. Can't take dick for very long because she is still sore from the guy she was with that morning or night before. Her body has a bunch of scars from being sewn up (not sure what happened to her torso. Some scaring from boob job). It's hard to look at if I'm being honest. Weird and awkward personality.
I didn't pay her asking donation, but what I received And experienced wasn't worth more than 150, so I feel ripped. Overall I do not recommend and I definitely wouldn't repeat.Thank for the info, crossed her off my list.
I find around September is a good time to look for sugar babies; based on their profiles, it looks like they are probably serious about meeting; I am wondering if anybody recognises them from Seeking.
Mvrmindmoth, 19, Conyers.
https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?tid=af100011222-m&userId=72989152&nsp=1
"looking for a kind and understanding man for mutual benefits".
Sky101,20, Acworth.
https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?tid=af100011222-m&userId=73114204&nsp=1
"young woman seeking a mutually beneficial relation".
Sunshine, 20, Talking Rock.
https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?tid=af100011222-m&userId=72567776&nsp=1
"would like to take care of me and me do the same for them as well".
Pbunny, 21, Atlanta.
https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?tid=af100011222-m&userId=71256620&nsp=1
"I'm a mommy of 2 and try to always manage my time. I don't work (can't) I would gladly talk to anyone. Just like someone to give me attention and money haha".
Young single moms are my kryptonite.
Emma0717,21, Warner Robins.
https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?tid=af100011222-m&userId=71175556&nsp=1
"Everything in life isn't free. Anything goes. As long as we have a good vibe I'm chill with whatever".
GokuBoy420
09-01-24, 08:36
Any info on this baby would be appreciated.
https://members.seeking.com/member/f0161345-61c7-4d8b-af0b-1bf9ceb2719fStay the F away. What you'll see in person, you'll be like WTF. Made her give me a BJ and then left her ugly ass.
I saw Yana few times. Initially she was good but she turned out money hungry and one time she became very aggressive after our session demanding $500 extra saying I have to pay many bills and I won't let you out of my place unless you pay. She created a big scene for no reason. Usually I do cash but that day I played smart and said I can only do paypal for extra and did it without friends and family option so that I can do a dispute later. So after I payed regular $200 cash she demanded $500 additional which I did anyway to get out of the situation and did a paypal dispute later and got my paypal money back.
Just avoid Yana.
Any info on this baby would be appreciated.
https://members.seeking.com/member/f0161345-61c7-4d8b-af0b-1bf9ceb2719f
I know she's been mentioned here many times, but here's my experience.
https://members.seeking.com/member/f2cad06a-7672-4e0d-adc4-8dd7acd12d72
The good: She will do anything except hair pulling and greek. Good personality, easy to get along with. Good communication and easy to schedule. BBFS w CIP. Can't get pregnant, has had a hysterectomy. Good vocals. She's a spinner if you're into that, which spinners are hard to come by in the south, so there's some value there.
The bad: Extremely high volume and does BBFS w CIP with the large majority of the guys she sees. And when I say high volume, I mean sky high volume. Dead fish experience. Bad at BJs, she prefers to just suck the tip. Bad at riding, although she will give an effort. Very flat chest. Doesn't like nipples touched.
She's a cool girl to hang with, but I had to stop seeing her because she became too loose and now I'm afraid to be involved with her as many guys as she's taking creampies from. It will catch up to her eventually and I don't want to be around when it does.
I'll leave it to you whether or not you want to take the good with the bad.
https://members.seeking.com/member/2e7c1e54-6d77-4d55-a56a-b9804c23603b
https://www.eros.com/georgia/atlanta/files/1521418.htm
Reached out to this one and she wants 1 k. Also did an image search and found her Eros listing, so she's a pro. Hard pass from me.
https://members.seeking.com/member/303e703c-a7da-4b55-9632-18097266a15b
Reached out and she immediately wanted to go to Snapchat. Red flag, but I went ahead and messaged, since I have actually have had a couple work out that liked to message over Snapchat. After little convo, she asks for money. Blocked and moved on.
https://members.seeking.com/member/355a7b2e-5076-471f-9d57-0b1c0942bc71
This one is asking 500 for all covered for 1 hr. And if I remember right she wanted me to Uber her. Hard pass.
TheAnswer4
09-01-24, 22:45
Holy shit finally a review on PetiteYoga. For as high volume as you said she is no one has really given a review worth a damn before. Thank you.
I know she's been mentioned here many times, but here's my experience.
https://members.seeking.com/member/f2cad06a-7672-4e0d-adc4-8dd7acd12d72
The good: She will do anything except hair pulling and greek. Good personality, easy to get along with. Good communication and easy to schedule. BBFS w CIP. Can't get pregnant, has had a hysterectomy. Good vocals. She's a spinner if you're into that, which spinners are hard to come by in the south, so there's some value there.
The bad: Extremely high volume and does BBFS w CIP with the large majority of the guys she sees. And when I say high volume, I mean sky high volume. Dead fish experience. Bad at BJs, she prefers to just suck the tip. Bad at riding, although she will give an effort. Very flat chest. Doesn't like nipples touched.
She's a cool girl to hang with, but I had to stop seeing her because she became too loose and now I'm afraid to be involved with her as many guys as she's taking creampies from. It will catch up to her eventually and I don't want to be around when it does.
I'll leave it to you whether or not you want to take the good with the bad.
Any info on this baby would be appreciated.
https://members.seeking.com/member/e46703b1-ab3b-4a8c-b7b9-81202cb20fdeIt's been years since I seen her. She was under a different name. She was DTF. BBBJ was good and she took direction pretty well.
I stopped seeing her just because her schedule became difficult to coordinate.
Nice personalty, though.
GokuBoy420
09-02-24, 08:53
Holy shit finally a review on PetiteYoga. For as high volume as you said she is no one has really given a review worth a damn before. Thank you.I saw her twice, once at her place and then she just started asking for extra $ and stuff when we weren't together. Blocked. She even had her cousin call her so she could teach her cousin about SDs while I was laying down next to her in her bed. But she got me good at $$.
I saw her twice, once at her place and then she just started asking for extra $ and stuff when we weren't together. Blocked. She even had her cousin call her so she could teach her cousin about SDs while I was laying down next to her in her bed. But she got me good at $$.She started asking me for money as well. As far as I know, she hits all of the guys she's seeing up for money outside of meets at some point. It's just part of her sugar baby business model. And you already know she's teaching her cousin to do it as well.
I find around September is a good time to look for sugar babies; based on their profiles, it looks like they are probably serious about meeting; I am wondering if anybody recognises them from Seeking.
Mvrmindmoth, 19, Conyers.
https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?tid=af100011222-m&userId=72989152&nsp=1
"looking for a kind and understanding man for mutual benefits".
Sky101,20, Acworth.
https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?tid=af100011222-m&userId=73114204&nsp=1
"young woman seeking a mutually beneficial relation".
Sunshine, 20, Talking Rock.
https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?tid=af100011222-m&userId=72567776&nsp=1
"would like to take care of me and me do the same for them as well".
Pbunny, 21, Atlanta.
https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?tid=af100011222-m&userId=71256620&nsp=1
"I'm a mommy of 2 and try to always manage my time. I don't work (can't) I would gladly talk to anyone. Just like someone to give me attention and money haha".
Young single moms are my kryptonite.
Emma0717,21, Warner Robins.
https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?tid=af100011222-m&userId=71175556&nsp=1
"Everything in life isn't free. Anything goes. As long as we have a good vibe I'm chill with whatever".Quick update, I got a response back from Pbunny and offered her $400 if she'd be up for meeting for a few hours, will update if I hear back.
MSmith3034
09-03-24, 10:03
Real woman and definitely good looking, but major GPS. Has multiple kids and is 34 years old. She wants $1 k per meet. I countered with roughly half that and she said good luck and blocked me. Her personality also is that of a wet mop. I'd avoid unless you can overlook the aforementioned details.
https://members.seeking.com/member/59f8b04c-b2ec-4bc1-856b-664df1c1f6da
https://members.seeking.com/member/e8d66d3f-6df8-4309-a905-e88a9876f499
Has anyone seen Stacy? If so, shoot me a dm. About to meet her this week.If someone had met her outside of SA, PM is appreciated.
Rinsed a lot of pic sellers and scammers, will be posting separate posts for each section soon. Few good finds.
MajMilkDuds
09-03-24, 20:23
https://members.seeking.com/member/383020d9-14bc-42aa-90a7-ca9e47f0e81d
Check out this girls Back tattoo! Profile pic is cool but OMG what is that second picture? Seems like a red flag!
Christian Troy
09-03-24, 20:49
https://members.seeking.com/member/383020d9-14bc-42aa-90a7-ca9e47f0e81d
Check out this girls Back tattoo! Profile pic is cool but OMG what is that second picture? Seems like a red flag!WTF red flag is right. It kind of reminds me of a saying popular with Alcoholics Anonymous: "One is too many, a thousand is never enough". But her version is kind of nonsensical. Regardless, I'm going to put on my armchair psychologist hat and suggest that we're looking at the manic phase of a bipolar episode.
Also, armpit hair?? I feel like I'm seeing more of that recently. Not a fan.
Anything over-tattooed. Like face, neck, breasts. Instant no-go.
A clear sign that those girls deal w / their own demons.
No, thanks.
WTF red flag is right. It kind of reminds me of a saying popular with Alcoholics Anonymous: "One is too many, a thousand is never enough". But her version is kind of nonsensical. Regardless, I'm going to put on my armchair psychologist hat and suggest that we're looking at the manic phase of a bipolar episode.
Also, armpit hair?? I feel like I'm seeing more of that recently. Not a fan.
WTF red flag is right. It kind of reminds me of a saying popular with Alcoholics Anonymous: "One is too many, a thousand is never enough". But her version is kind of nonsensical. Regardless, I'm going to put on my armchair psychologist hat and suggest that we're looking at the manic phase of a bipolar episode.
Also, armpit hair?? I feel like I'm seeing more of that recently. Not a fan.Red flag! Avoid. Don't say I didn't warn!
https://members.seeking.com/member/383020d9-14bc-42aa-90a7-ca9e47f0e81d
Check out this girls Back tattoo! Profile pic is cool but OMG what is that second picture? Seems like a red flag!That's a prison tattoo. Looks like it was done with pen ink, with a pen.
Airmantroy
09-04-24, 09:39
https://members.seeking.com/member/383020d9-14bc-42aa-90a7-ca9e47f0e81d
Check out this girls Back tattoo! Profile pic is cool but OMG what is that second picture? Seems like a red flag!The telltale sign of a pic scammer, the girl is obviously caucasian. Not ASIAN as her profile states. Also if they are hot be it blonde or brunette they will also be MIXED.
https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?userId=72851117
Got a meet with this one if anyone has any info.She is the girl in the pictures and can drink like a fish. $$$ for BBBJ and cfs. I could've gotten BBFS if I pushed the issue. Back door looks to be an option if you catch her on the right day. Not that I partook but for those that are curious.
https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?userId=71790408&nsp=1
Real but add 25 lbs to the pics on her profile. Met for breakfast and that was all but is dtf. Also mentioned wanting to dominate a guy which didn't sit well with me so I never pursued her.
https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?userId=72551088&nsp=1
Talked to this one for a while and agreed on 250, another one that can drink like a fish. Some weeks went by before our schedules aligned. She showed up at the hotel having been up over 24 hours. She couldn't remember the donation we agreed upon so I said 200 and she was good with that. BBBJ then flipped over for doggy. BBFS was on the table but I opted for the cover. Be careful, she mentioned she carries pepper spray.
https://members.seeking.com/member/57626674-d260-4a02-83e6-f48a162fa10d?_cf_ref=aHR0cDovL3d3dy51c2FzZXhndWlkZS5ubC8%3D
Trying to meet this one this weekend, wants $$ Sounded sexy over the phone, just not sure what's on the menu.
CrimpShrine
09-05-24, 01:29
https://members.seeking.com/member/383020d9-14bc-42aa-90a7-ca9e47f0e81d
Check out this girls Back tattoo! Profile pic is cool but OMG what is that second picture? Seems like a red flag!The armpit hair seems like a red flag to me.
2me4Looking2
09-05-24, 09:52
Just had a weird thing happen. When I switched to a new SA account, I also created a new Google Voice account and it has been a pain in the ass the whole time. I frequently can't send a message and it will show me the acceptable use policy even though I'm not sending anything weird or spammy. Usually it's at the start of a conversation after someone texts me and it will block things like "How are you". Well today I got into my GV account and then was redirected to a page saying I'm now blocked from accessing Google Voice. It doesn't give a reason and I was talking to several POTs that I'd like to follow up with. I emailed their support, but I have very little hope of them doing anything. I wonder if an upset SB reported my message as spam or something.
I've tried Textfree, but their web interface isn't very good. They don't have any way to archive messages.
Just had a weird thing happen. When I switched to a new SA account, I also created a new Google Voice account and it has been a pain in the ass the whole time. I frequently can't send a message and it will show me the acceptable use policy even though I'm not sending anything weird or spammy. Usually it's at the start of a conversation after someone texts me and it will block things like "How are you". Well today I got into my GV account and then was redirected to a page saying I'm now blocked from accessing Google Voice. It doesn't give a reason and I was talking to several POTs that I'd like to follow up with. I emailed their support, but I have very little hope of them doing anything. I wonder if an upset SB reported my message as spam or something.
I've tried Textfree, but their web interface isn't very good. They don't have any way to archive messages.Check out mysudo. Its only 10 bucks a year and you can keep it or change numbers as often as you want.
2me4Looking2
09-05-24, 14:27
Check out mysudo. Its only 10 bucks a year and you can keep it or change numbers as often as you want.Do they have a web interface or Windows app for texting? I do the majority of texting from my computer and don't want to have to use a phone all the time. Thanks.
Do they have a web interface or Windows app for texting? I do the majority of texting from my computer and don't want to have to use a phone all the time. Thanks.Not to my knowledge, its a mobile app.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/11589494f78382b4
Brace yourself for this one. She's asking for $1 k per hour (you read that right, per hour, not per meet) for intimacy and requires a paid dinner beforehand. She's 32 years old and not in good shape.
GoneForGood97
09-05-24, 15:47
Anything over-tattooed. Like face, neck, breasts. Instant no-go.
A clear sign that those girls deal w / their own demons.
No, thanks.I love the bad girl / e-girl / tattooed alt girl look. Except face tattoos. Anyone with a face tattoo is a no go for me.
GoneForGood97
09-05-24, 16:22
https://members.seeking.com/member/8a8f72af-c3d1-43c8-acdb-9085bd85167d
I'm 95% certain I talked to this one under her previous account. As I recall she was actually in Birmingham but had some story about working in Atlanta frequently. She seemed most interested in selling content, but I managed to get a few sex tapes from her for free, and was just curious if my instincts were correct and this one is a waste of time (though again, free content is appreciated) or if someone actually managed to meet up and fuck her.
If I recall correctly I think her initial PPM ask was also laughable for a late 30's (she's lying about her age, you can see in her face) woman, but again it's been a few years and I may be mixing it up with a different girl.
Also if you paid her for content you're a bit of sucker since you can get it for free with a little bit of game LOL. Or maybe it's not the same girl, the video quality isn't quite as high as the pics she put in her profile LOL.
https://members.seeking.com/member/355a7b2e-5076-471f-9d57-0b1c0942bc71
This one is asking 500 for all covered for 1 hr. And if I remember right she wanted me to Uber her. Hard pass.You didn't miss anything. She used Uber excuse on me when I contacted her a couple of months ago. She showed up driving a Mercedes.
I got her down to 350. Went to the FC and got undressed and she started saying her p*y is to tight, she's petite. Can I just do a BJ. It wasn't great. Her nostrils had scabs so I assuming coke or something she snorts. She's very thin but very flexible. I'm pretty sure she's a pro. She said while I was trying to fuck her she normally does 700. She killed the vibe. I just gave her a facial no intercourse. She asked if we can see each other again and I said not for 350.
https://members.seeking.com/member/e421f6a2-3f98-4d24-818f-68ef81a97152
Wants gas money.
https://members.seeking.com/member/d78c0e47-082a-4ff5-a013-ce4e0718cfc6
Wants 700, didn't counter.
https://members.seeking.com/member/a7e70275-ff52-4dd6-abb6-0beb4bd21663
Got down to 450 didn't pursue. It takes her 2-3 days to reply to texts.
https://members.seeking.com/member/bdf2374e-c524-43c6-963a-1de286a61e02
275 nice body, but nothing special in the bed, covered.
https://members.seeking.com/member/d560d191-5a1a-4b92-a912-542c9af647d0
Wanted 400 didn't pursue.
https://members.seeking.com/member/d25bd58c-b2c3-4948-b769-d1a194537c25
Hit once uncovered for 250, Dancer at Allure. Tried again and she ripped me off after sending 200 for her brakes being repaired and says I'm too far away now since she moved to Jonesboro and she didn't know why she agreed to 250. She says she is going to return it. Yeah, right. Stupid me, thought maybe since we had done the deed, she was somewhat trustable. LOL. She had a baby about 5 months ago with a medial condition. Has softened up her breast are not firm anymore.
https://members.seeking.com/member/bbc98a28-bb8e-48f8-9648-04a45cb16f9e
Wants 500 but got her down to 300 with some gifts like perfume and stuff. Wanted me to buy a camera for her and give to her on the first date. Negative on that.
Any info on https://members.seeking.com/member/10484a73-8df0-4a94-a67c-50655d30c7c1 ?
She's on the board a lot.
https://members.seeking.com/member/8a8f72af-c3d1-43c8-acdb-9085bd85167d
I'm 95% certain I talked to this one under her previous account. As I recall she was actually in Birmingham but had some story about working in Atlanta frequently. She seemed most interested in selling content, but I managed to get a few sex tapes from her for free, and was just curious if my instincts were correct and this one is a waste of time (though again, free content is appreciated) or if someone actually managed to meet up and fuck her.
If I recall correctly I think her initial PPM ask was also laughable for a late 30's (she's lying about her age, you can see in her face) woman, but again it's been a few years and I may be mixing it up with a different girl.
Also if you paid her for content you're a bit of sucker since you can get it for free with a little bit of game LOL. Or maybe it's not the same girl, the video quality isn't quite as high as the pics she put in her profile LOL.She's been mentioned on here before. I spoke to her a couple years ago under a different profile she had and she was just a time waster. She would never commit to a meet. She volunteered the video of her getting clapped in doggy right off the bat. She just sent it, I didn't even ask.
Has anyone met with Harmony and / or her partner?
https://members.seeking.com/member/b3027535-ac2f-4f8b-82ac-edc505f9b471
They live close by and we've been texting for a while. Thinking about setting something up with them but wanted to check with you guys. Feel free to PM me as well.I'm curious as to which profile belongs to her partner as she's also on the site. Asking for 500 but I think that's just for one. I wouldn't be surprised if a packaged deal is double that.
https://members.seeking.com/member/ebfbdace-bbc7-4689-963e-a555c88d7c1b
This girl plays games. She thinks she wants to meet but then gets cold feet and ghosts 5 times leaveing you sitting at the bar or apt complex. I just wanted to warn everyone.
BTW. Just dumping a few of my experiences since I haven't posted in a bit.I've seen her, huge natural tits. Only saw her once since I felt like she rushed me.
LovePunnany
09-05-24, 20:47
Wanted money to meet up, think the profile is fake.
https://members.seeking.com/member/4dfd165b-a631-4109-9fc8-03d66e6e6baf
VoraraMesh66
09-05-24, 22:33
Any senior member can share UTR or semi-pro contact who provide good service? It would be great help. Please please feel free to DM me. Thanks!
https://members.seeking.com/member/e421f6a2-3f98-4d24-818f-68ef81a97152
Wants gas money.
https://members.seeking.com/member/d78c0e47-082a-4ff5-a013-ce4e0718cfc6
Wants 700, didn't counter.
https://members.seeking.com/member/a7e70275-ff52-4dd6-abb6-0beb4bd21663
Got down to 450 didn't pursue. It takes her 2-3 days to reply to texts.
https://members.seeking.com/member/bdf2374e-c524-43c6-963a-1de286a61e02
275 nice body, but nothing special in the bed, covered.
https://members.seeking.com/member/d560d191-5a1a-4b92-a912-542c9af647d0
Wanted 400 didn't pursue.
https://members.seeking.com/member/d25bd58c-b2c3-4948-b769-d1a194537c25
Hit once uncovered for 250, Dancer at Allure. Tried again and she ripped me off after sending 200 for her brakes being repaired and says I'm too far away now since she moved to Jonesboro and she didn't know why she agreed to 250. She says she is going to return it. Yeah, right. Stupid me, thought maybe since we had done the deed, she was somewhat trustable. LOL. She had a baby about 5 months ago with a medial condition. Has softened up her breast are not firm anymore.
https://members.seeking.com/member/bbc98a28-bb8e-48f8-9648-04a45cb16f9e
Wants 500 but got her down to 300 with some gifts like perfume and stuff. Wanted me to buy a camera for her and give to her on the first date. Negative on that.
Any info on https://members.seeking.com/member/10484a73-8df0-4a94-a67c-50655d30c7c1 ?
She's on the board a lot.Thatgirl999 is been reviewed before, she is a pro and rushes, she sent me a message as soon as looked her profile but I ignored her.
That girl is looking for a billionaire! On seeking.
Just wanted to share if there are any billionaires here or in your friend circle who are interested!
LOL.
https://members.seeking.com/member/086b0ce6-ed85-40a0-83a6-a419ebeb9a13
But may be someone could have fun with her for free since she is not that bright!
LovePunnany
09-06-24, 00:08
Have a meet with this baby, wanted $$ but I countered with $$.
Any review would be appreciated.
https://members.seeking.com/member/3a1d0d04-1629-4eac-a2b1-be734c329600
MSmith3034
09-06-24, 14:48
She talks about all her requirements of a SD and the life she wants provided for her, but fails to qualify herself in any capacity or mention what she brings to the table in turn. The most golden of GPS. Also, there a total of 759 billionaires in the USA. Maybe she will settle for a multimillionaire.
That girl is looking for a billionaire! On seeking.
Just wanted to share if there are any billionaires here or in your friend circle who are interested!
LOL.
https://members.seeking.com/member/086b0ce6-ed85-40a0-83a6-a419ebeb9a13
But may be someone could have fun with her for free since she is not that bright!
https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?tid=af100011222-m&userId=72551088&nsp=1
Talked to this one for a while and agreed on 250, another one that can drink like a fish. Some weeks went by before our schedules aligned. She showed up at the hotel having been up over 24 hours. She couldn't remember the donation we agreed upon so I said 200 and she was good with that. BBBJ then flipped over for doggy. BBFS was on the table but I opted for the cover. Be careful, she mentioned she carries pepper spray.Thanks for sharing, $250 for her sounds fair based on her looks She said 5-1 but looks like she could throw me around even without the pepper-spray.
That girl is looking for a billionaire! On seeking.
Just wanted to share if there are any billionaires here or in your friend circle who are interested!
LOL.
https://members.seeking.com/member/086b0ce6-ed85-40a0-83a6-a419ebeb9a13
But may be someone could have fun with her for free since she is not that bright!LOL I'm still short a few bucks of a billion Thought girls asking for $1 k meets was nuts LOL.
I love the bad girl / e-girl / tattooed alt girl look. Except face tattoos. Anyone with a face tattoo is a no go for me.Same, I like the ones with some piercings, but even if it's just those stars some girls get under their eyes now, just doesn't do it for me.
https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?tid=af100011222-m&userId=71790408&nsp=1
Real but add 25 lbs to the pics on her profile. Met for breakfast and that was all but is dtf. Also mentioned wanting to dominate a guy which didn't sit well with me so I never pursued her.Yes, "Tattoo artist and truck driver" has a kid and trying to quit drinking? Sounds like might be a handful.
One positive, I saw she's got a tongue stud in one of her videos, that could be nice at least.
I do like she posts a few videos, find they give a better idea what her figure is like than the PSed photos.
https://members.seeking.com/member/dbde0be6-5422-4224-9d80-4df28c124ee5
Starts out ok, wants to exchange numbers to text. Then begins the ask to sell content.
https://members.seeking.com/member/04e69f11-ce75-4fd1-9428-d91177a517d0
MajMilkDuds
09-09-24, 11:54
https://members.seeking.com/member/302805c8-cff9-42a9-bd93-fd53b19d60e2
Skyebunny.
She is rough. She started out great and I had another Member recommend her. Also we did a double with her. She was Drugged out of her mind and I left. And then she got mad when she didn't have my allowance since we didn't do anything because she was high.
Scammer trying to sell content.
Tattedmama.
https://members.seeking.com/member/f94604ef-be35-450a-af7f-b0eaa7c3c17a
TooHotForYou
09-09-24, 15:16
Saw her yesterday up in Bethlehem. Nice girl and nothing to complain about. Be warned though. She has a dangerous habit she will ask you to do with her at the end. I politely declined and that was that.
Saw her yesterday up in Bethlehem. Nice girl and nothing to complain about. Be warned though. She has a dangerous habit she will ask you to do with her at the end. I politely declined and that was that.Do you have a seeking link for her? Willing to share?
VoraraMesh66
09-10-24, 21:55
Senior members please share you thoughts.
I just joined seeking and bought premium. I reached out to few those are discussed here as real profiles. Also contacted few on my own. I am not targeting top 20's profile but average profiles.
I sent message to them and only couple of them has replied so far. It is been 3 days. Also the one who replied said definitely interested. I responded to it. Basically 3 messages total. Never got response to my last message so I asked her again after few hours about why no response and she basically blocked me. She is constantly online and did not respond to me so I asked her.
Is it enough reason to block even after first enthusiastic message??
My question, is it same for you? They take so much time to respond and even say interested then play games like it? I thought they would be eager to chat and finally meet? Is it this much fragile?
If you can share your usual / on average experience that would be great.
DM is fine too.
Senior members please share you thoughts.
I just joined seeking and bought premium. I reached out to few those are discussed here as real profiles. Also contacted few on my own. I am not targeting top 20's profile but average profiles.
I sent message to them and only couple of them has replied so far. It is been 3 days. Also the one who replied said definitely interested. I responded to it. Basically 3 messages total. Never got response to my last message so I asked her again after few hours about why no response and she basically blocked me. She is constantly online and did not respond to me so I asked her.
Is it enough reason to block even after first enthusiastic message??
My question, is it same for you? They take so much time to respond and even say interested then play games like it? I thought they would be eager to chat and finally meet? Is it this much fragile?
If you can share your usual / on average experience that would be great.
DM is fine too.SA is a lot of work. It was a great site in 2015-2018, then like all things internet it has devolved. Then add COVID and the elimination of Craigslist and Backpage. I'd guess it is now 90% worthless (scams, bots, content sellers, and providers that are just a notch above SW.) Having said that, there are some genuine contacts to be made, especially international. Here in the ATL and surrounding areas, you'll have to send / sift thru 10 emails to find 1 genuine contact. That's before even accounting for chemistry, attraction, likeability, etc. If you are merely looking to monger here in the USA, TER is a much better site for the money.
SA international is still close to a 2018 experience, IMO.
Treat SA like a dating site. You need quality pics and a quality profile to attract interest. No personal details are needed but the profile needs to make clear you are doing well. I don't reach out to people and I normally get 2 to 3 people hitting me up daily not including the international scammers or people outside the area which I ignore. I could have much more interest if I juiced the profile but I prefer to be direct. The people hitting the profile are all shapes, sizes, and races and I chose what I want. Remember SA girls are not the cheapest option so get ready for sticker shock when you start talking business. Last thing, never talk business on the platform. Once you get a decent hit move the discussion to your GV or Telegram account or risk getting banned. SA doesn't play.
Safe Hunting.
Senior members please share you thoughts.
I just joined seeking and bought premium. I reached out to few those are discussed here as real profiles. Also contacted few on my own. I am not targeting top 20's profile but average profiles.
I sent message to them and only couple of them has replied so far. It is been 3 days. Also the one who replied said definitely interested. I responded to it. Basically 3 messages total. Never got response to my last message so I asked her again after few hours about why no response and she basically blocked me. She is constantly online and did not respond to me so I asked her.
Is it enough reason to block even after first enthusiastic message??
My question, is it same for you? They take so much time to respond and even say interested then play games like it? I thought they would be eager to chat and finally meet? Is it this much fragile?
If you can share your usual / on average experience that would be great.
DM is fine too.
JohnnyKash
09-11-24, 14:00
Treat SA like a dating site. You need quality pics and a quality profile to attract interest. No personal details are needed but the profile needs to make clear you are doing well. I don't reach out to people and I normally get 2 to 3 people hitting me up daily not including the international scammers or people outside the area which I ignore. I could have much more interest if I juiced the profile but I prefer to be direct. The people hitting the profile are all shapes, sizes, and races and I chose what I want. Remember SA girls are not the cheapest option so get ready for sticker shock when you start talking business. Last thing, never talk business on the platform. Once you get a decent hit move the discussion to your GV or Telegram account or risk getting banned. SA doesn't play.
Safe Hunting.Don't get in your feelings.
My profile is blank I have very few words. It says something like. I'm New here just checking this out.
They really don't care how you look for real they care about the cash. They will after chatting a few times ask you to send a pic. This is what I do and I will get a few new messages a day. Some I like some I don't. I don't reply to everyone and sometimes I take my time answering. You should never send multiple messages it makes you seem desperate and sends up red flags. If you must send more than one message wait a day or two don't make it seem like that's all you have to do in life is sending them multiple messages it gives off stalker vibes. You have to use a spider technique spin a web and wait she will come back she wants money she is a sugar baby once she is in the web you are in more control take your control back. You are let them control the outcome don't do that.
JohnnyKash
09-11-24, 14:05
Treat SA like a dating site. You need quality pics and a quality profile to attract interest. No personal details are needed but the profile needs to make clear you are doing well. I don't reach out to people and I normally get 2 to 3 people hitting me up daily not including the international scammers or people outside the area which I ignore. I could have much more interest if I juiced the profile but I prefer to be direct. The people hitting the profile are all shapes, sizes, and races and I chose what I want. Remember SA girls are not the cheapest option so get ready for sticker shock when you start talking business. Last thing, never talk business on the platform. Once you get a decent hit move the discussion to your GV or Telegram account or risk getting banned. SA doesn't play.
Safe Hunting.Sorry not ment for you ment for VoraraMesh66
JohnnyKash
09-11-24, 14:08
Senior members please share you thoughts.
I just joined seeking and bought premium. I reached out to few those are discussed here as real profiles. Also contacted few on my own. I am not targeting top 20's profile but average profiles.
I sent message to them and only couple of them has replied so far. It is been 3 days. Also the one who replied said definitely interested. I responded to it. Basically 3 messages total. Never got response to my last message so I asked her again after few hours about why no response and she basically blocked me. She is constantly online and did not respond to me so I asked her.
Is it enough reason to block even after first enthusiastic message??
My question, is it same for you? They take so much time to respond and even say interested then play games like it? I thought they would be eager to chat and finally meet? Is it this much fragile?
If you can share your usual / on average experience that would be great.
DM is fine too.Don't get in your feelings.
My profile is blank I have very few words. It says something like. I'm New here just checking this out.
They really don't care how you look for real they care about the cash. They will after chatting a few times ask you to send a pic. This is what I do and I will get a few new messages a day. Some I like some I don't. I don't reply to everyone and sometimes I take my time answering. You should never send multiple messages it makes you seem desperate and sends up red flags. If you must send more than one message wait a day or two don't make it seem like that's all you have to do in life is sending them multiple messages it gives off stalker vibes. You have to use a spider technique spin a web and wait she will come back she wants money she is a sugar baby once she is in the web you are in more control take your control back. You are let them control the outcome don't do that.
CrimpShrine
09-11-24, 14:52
I sent message to them and only couple of them has replied so far. It is been 3 days. It's like anywhere else online. Your return rate as a male is going to be low. That's just how it is. These girls get dozens of messages. You're a new profile. Be patient and when you send an ice breaker message, make it sound human so they know you're not a scammer in Indonesia. It's going to take longer than 3 days for you to get any traction.
Airmantroy
09-11-24, 15:46
Somebody has to know something about her. Lovee Liyra.
https://members.seeking.com/member/cd9b0995-5991-4410-9997-1fb97843948b
If you have any info I'd appreciate it, trying to get something setup with her. PM is fine.
Don't get in your feelings.
My profile is blank I have very few words. It says something like. I'm New here just checking this out.
They really don't care how you look for real they care about the cash. They will after chatting a few times ask you to send a pic. This is what I do and I will get a few new messages a day. Some I like some I don't. I don't reply to everyone and sometimes I take my time answering. You should never send multiple messages it makes you seem desperate and sends up red flags. If you must send more than one message wait a day or two don't make it seem like that's all you have to do in life is sending them multiple messages it gives off stalker vibes. You have to use a spider technique spin a web and wait she will come back she wants money she is a sugar baby once she is in the web you are in more control take your control back. You are let them control the outcome don't do that.Keep it simple, not too short or too much. Be very direct about you are real and wanting to meet irl.
You are the one who provides here and if they don't respond back, it's their loss. I followed the op and some other tips and was on date with 12 girls in last two weeks. Also your profile age does matter.
VoraraMesh66
09-11-24, 20:24
I read each of the advice multiple times. It definitely help someone like me who is new to hobby. Really appreciate your guidance.
Keep it simple, not too short or too much. Be very direct about you are real and wanting to meet irl.
You are the one who provides here and if they don't respond back, it's their loss. I followed the op and some other tips and was on date with 12 girls in last two weeks. Also your profile age does matter.
It's like anywhere else online. Your return rate as a male is going to be low. That's just how it is. These girls get dozens of messages. You're a new profile. Be patient and when you send an ice breaker message, make it sound human so they know you're not a scammer in Indonesia. It's going to take longer than 3 days for you to get any traction.
Don't get in your feelings.
My profile is blank I have very few words. It says something like. I'm New here just checking this out.
They really don't care how you look for real they care about the cash. They will after chatting a few times ask you to send a pic. This is what I do and I will get a few new messages a day. Some I like some I don't. I don't reply to everyone and sometimes I take my time answering. You should never send multiple messages it makes you seem desperate and sends up red flags. If you must send more than one message wait a day or two don't make it seem like that's all you have to do in life is sending them multiple messages it gives off stalker vibes. You have to use a spider technique spin a web and wait she will come back she wants money she is a sugar baby once she is in the web you are in more control take your control back. You are let them control the outcome don't do that.
Treat SA like a dating site. You need quality pics and a quality profile to attract interest. No personal details are needed but the profile needs to make clear you are doing well. I don't reach out to people and I normally get 2 to 3 people hitting me up daily not including the international scammers or people outside the area which I ignore. I could have much more interest if I juiced the profile but I prefer to be direct. The people hitting the profile are all shapes, sizes, and races and I chose what I want. Remember SA girls are not the cheapest option so get ready for sticker shock when you start talking business. Last thing, never talk business on the platform. Once you get a decent hit move the discussion to your GV or Telegram account or risk getting banned. SA doesn't play.
Safe Hunting.
SA is a lot of work. It was a great site in 2015-2018, then like all things internet it has devolved. Then add COVID and the elimination of Craigslist and Backpage. I'd guess it is now 90% worthless (scams, bots, content sellers, and providers that are just a notch above SW.) Having said that, there are some genuine contacts to be made, especially international. Here in the ATL and surrounding areas, you'll have to send / sift thru 10 emails to find 1 genuine contact.
https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?userId=72275583
Wants 400, can't host. Also see link below.
https://www.maturetubehere.com/videos/639320/my-neighbour-s-cheating-wife-let-me-shoot-a-sextape/?utm_source=iwank
CrazyRocket
09-12-24, 02:00
Senior members please share you thoughts.
I just joined seeking and bought premium. I reached out to few those are discussed here as real profiles. Also contacted few on my own. I am not targeting top 20's profile but average profiles.
I sent message to them and only couple of them has replied so far. It is been 3 days. Also the one who replied said definitely interested. I responded to it. Basically 3 messages total. Never got response to my last message so I asked her again after few hours about why no response and she basically blocked me. She is constantly online and did not respond to me so I asked her.
Is it enough reason to block even after first enthusiastic message??
My question, is it same for you? They take so much time to respond and even say interested then play games like it? I thought they would be eager to chat and finally meet? Is it this much fragile?
If you can share your usual / on average experience that would be great.
DM is fine too.You are not alone, don't feel bad.
Back in the good old days of OkCupid where "casual sex" meant the women were ready to meet immediately if they liked you, I had a fake account to stalk an ex. It was filled with first google image search results for "asian cosplayer" so it was beyond obvious that it was fake. Even so, to my surprise, I ended up receiving hundreds of messages in mere days.
Those girls receive tons of messages in a day. You are lucky if they actually reply. That's why you need to be very precise with what you want from the girl.
I recently put it to a test with a local SB who seems to be on site for meeting up quick. I messaged her, told her what I'm looking for and we moved to text. She then kept texting me about when to meet and such, which I don't quite like and I didn't proceed. For me, it's a red flag. SA is full of men. If a woman on SA is being pushy about meeting, or trying to convince you to meet if you have concerns by not addressing your concerns but making excuses, there is something extremely fishy there. Be extremely cautious while dealing with women on SA if you are unexperienced. Never share your real phone number or your full name. Don't invite them to your place if you are not prepared to deal with a nasty situation if things go bad and the girl goes nuclear on you.
There have been discussions here about SA ladies being ridiculous at times up to a point where signing up with local K-agencies is much more economical in term of time. To be honest, there was only one time that I really wanted to meet up with an SB who was reviewed here a year and a half ago. (Belle, for those who know her, please feel free to PM.) I chatted with her quite a while but due to my inexperience with securing my real identity, I chickened out and didn't meet her.
Do you have a seeking link for her? Willing to share?Whats the dangerous habbit? Can't leave us hanging like that!
Peter Johnson
09-12-24, 11:59
https://members.seeking.com/member/302805c8-cff9-42a9-bd93-fd53b19d60e2
Skyebunny.
She is rough. She started out great and I had another Member recommend her. Also we did a double with her. She was Drugged out of her mind and I left. And then she got mad when she didn't have my allowance since we didn't do anything because she was high.
Face tattoos are about the biggest red flags that there are. I would never meet up with a girl who has one of those, because you know something is very wrong in there.
https://members.seeking.com/member/ee606935-2963-4ce6-aeab-7764fdb503ec
This girl has had numerous accounts. Currently it's "bankerbarbie", but previously it was "mandyatl" if I remember correctly. Anyways, she is probably my second worse seeking experience of all time.
She met me at my hotel. I'm outside and she pulls up and rolls the window down and smoke starts billowing out like in a Cheech and Chong movie. I wanted to dip, but I was invested and wanted to try to make it work. She gets to the room with me and gets undressed. She's very unattractive in person, at least to me. She looks worn out. Her skin is saggy and she's skinny so it's like a soft bag of bones. Her body looks firm in her pics but I assure you it's not. I could also smell a metallic smell to her and it made me think I was smelling meth. I don't know what meth smells like, but if I had to guess, that would be it. And she acted like she was on something very strong. She proceeds to give a CBJ even though that's not what we agreed to. It was absolutely terrible. No suction and I couldn't even feel it. Even the face she made when doing it turned me off and it actually pissed me off because she was tweaking or something. Never felt so catfished before in my life and I couldn't stand her presence and the way she carried herself in general. At that point I told her to stop and get out of my room. I paid her a small amount of what we agreed to so she wouldn't pitch a fit. In my opinion she's a catfish and she doesn't know or at least act like she knows what she's doing in the bedroom. I wouldn't attempt a repeat if she paid me.
MSmith3034
09-12-24, 19:09
Dude, thanks for TOFTT and reporting back and kudos on taking the mini loss and dipping out.
I corresponded with her a few times and ended up finally moving on. Bottom line, we agreed on a price for a date and then she tried to push that number up in a variety of ways. So at that price point, I decided to think with the bigger head and pivot to a coffee date before anything further, which reset the communication and timeline altogether. She then pushed the coffee date bid up which further soured the whole interaction and I then decided she was not my cup of tea for multiple reasons. Sounds like she is trying to get in and out for the least effort and most cash. I also noticed during further research that any photo where she was smiling with teeth revealed a less than ideal situation going on, which corroborates your suspicions.
Mongers beware.
https://members.seeking.com/member/ee606935-2963-4ce6-aeab-7764fdb503ec
This girl has had numerous accounts. Currently it's "bankerbarbie", but previously it was "mandyatl" if I remember correctly. Anyways, she is probably my second worse seeking experience of all time.
She met me at my hotel. I'm outside and she pulls up and rolls the window down and smoke starts billowing out like in a Cheech and Chong movie. I wanted to dip, but I was invested and wanted to try to make it work. She gets to the room with me and gets undressed. She's very unattractive in person, at least to me. She looks worn out. Her skin is saggy and she's skinny so it's like a soft bag of bones. Her body looks firm in her pics but I assure you it's not. I could also smell a metallic smell to her and it made me think I was smelling meth. I don't know what meth smells like, but if I had to guess, that would be it. And she acted like she was on something very strong. She proceeds to give a CBJ even though that's not what we agreed to. It was absolutely terrible. No suction and I couldn't even feel it. Even the face she made when doing it turned me off and it actually pissed me off because she was tweaking or something. Never felt so catfished before in my life and I couldn't stand her presence and the way she carried herself in general. At that point I told her to stop and get out of my room. I paid her a small amount of what we agreed to so she wouldn't pitch a fit. In my opinion she's a catfish and she doesn't know or at least act like she knows what she's doing in the bedroom. I wouldn't attempt a repeat if she paid me.
SeekingHead
09-12-24, 19:21
https://members.seeking.com/member/ee606935-2963-4ce6-aeab-7764fdb503ec
This girl has had numerous accounts. Currently it's "bankerbarbie", but previously it was "mandyatl" if I remember correctly. Anyways, she is probably my second worse seeking experience of all time.
She met me at my hotel. I'm outside and she pulls up and rolls the window down and smoke starts billowing out like in a Cheech and Chong movie. I wanted to dip, but I was invested and wanted to try to make it work. She gets to the room with me and gets undressed. She's very unattractive in person, at least to me. She looks worn out. Her skin is saggy and she's skinny so it's like a soft bag of bones. Her body looks firm in her pics but I assure you it's not. I could also smell a metallic smell to her and it made me think I was smelling meth. I don't know what meth smells like, but if I had to guess, that would be it. And she acted like she was on something very strong. She proceeds to give a CBJ even though that's not what we agreed to. It was absolutely terrible. No suction and I couldn't even feel it. Even the face she made when doing it turned me off and it actually pissed me off because she was tweaking or something. Never felt so catfished before in my life and I couldn't stand her presence and the way she carried herself in general. At that point I told her to stop and get out of my room. I paid her a small amount of what we agreed to so she wouldn't pitch a fit. In my opinion she's a catfish and she doesn't know or at least act like she knows what she's doing in the bedroom. I wouldn't attempt a repeat if she paid me.What was the donation? Yea she smoked a bowl it sounds like within a few minutes of meeting you.
Also something I'm seeing lately is girls are asking for current testing status within 2 months for uncovered stuff, both SB's and Pro's. I've been getting tested quarterly at the VA.
Dude, thanks for TOFTT and reporting back and kudos on taking the mini loss and dipping out.
I corresponded with her a few times and ended up finally moving on. Bottom line, we agreed on a price for a date and then she tried to push that number up in a variety of ways. So at that price point, I decided to think with the bigger head and pivot to a coffee date before anything further, which reset the communication and timeline altogether. She then pushed the coffee date bid up which further soured the whole interaction and I then decided she was not my cup of tea for multiple reasons. Sounds like she is trying to get in and out for the least effort and most cash. I also noticed during further research that any photo where she was smiling with teeth revealed a less than ideal situation going on, which corroborates your suspicions.
Mongers beware.Good read on your part, you dodged a bullet. She is indeed the hustler type. And you mentioning her teeth reminded me, they are in fact in rough shape.
What was the donation? Yea she smoked a bowl it sounds like within a few minutes of meeting you.
Also something I'm seeing lately is girls are asking for current testing status within 2 months for uncovered stuff, both SB's and Pro's. I've been getting tested quarterly at the VA.She started out asking for 500 if I remember right, but we agreed to 400. But that was with me thinking she was attractive.
And yeah, on the increase in girls requiring testing, I think possibly a big contributor to that is a lot of these girls read the are / sugarlifestyleforum subreddit and that is something commonly preached on there. I've had numerous SBs tell me they're avid readers of that subreddit. They get a lot of their allowance expectations from there too.
BrownSugaTwo
09-13-24, 00:26
Glad to get some updated information on her. I was wondering about the teeth, till I tracked down her social media and saw them for myself. They're not the worst I've seen, but they go right past the edge of what someone could stand to look at without getting uncomfortable. The lackluster performance has been mentioned before, but it's unfortunate that she's not firm. I'm not sure if I could get even the smallest amount of enjoyment from that, especially for what she charges. She really takes "can't judge a book by its cover" to a whole new level.
Dude, thanks for TOFTT and reporting back and kudos on taking the mini loss and dipping out.
I corresponded with her a few times and ended up finally moving on. Bottom line, we agreed on a price for a date and then she tried to push that number up in a variety of ways. So at that price point, I decided to think with the bigger head and pivot to a coffee date before anything further, which reset the communication and timeline altogether. She then pushed the coffee date bid up which further soured the whole interaction and I then decided she was not my cup of tea for multiple reasons. Sounds like she is trying to get in and out for the least effort and most cash. I also noticed during further research that any photo where she was smiling with teeth revealed a less than ideal situation going on, which corroborates your suspicions.
Mongers beware.
https://members.seeking.com/member/ee606935-2963-4ce6-aeab-7764fdb503ec
This girl has had numerous accounts. Currently it's "bankerbarbie", but previously it was "mandyatl" if I remember correctly. Anyways, she is probably my second worse seeking experience of all time.
She met me at my hotel. I'm outside and she pulls up and rolls the window down and smoke starts billowing out like in a Cheech and Chong movie. I wanted to dip, but I was invested and wanted to try to make it work. She gets to the room with me and gets undressed. She's very unattractive in person, at least to me. She looks worn out. Her skin is saggy and she's skinny so it's like a soft bag of bones. Her body looks firm in her pics but I assure you it's not. I could also smell a metallic smell to her and it made me think I was smelling meth. I don't know what meth smells like, but if I had to guess, that would be it. And she acted like she was on something very strong. She proceeds to give a CBJ even though that's not what we agreed to. It was absolutely terrible. No suction and I couldn't even feel it. Even the face she made when doing it turned me off and it actually pissed me off because she was tweaking or something. Never felt so catfished before in my life and I couldn't stand her presence and the way she carried herself in general. At that point I told her to stop and get out of my room. I paid her a small amount of what we agreed to so she wouldn't pitch a fit. In my opinion she's a catfish and she doesn't know or at least act like she knows what she's doing in the bedroom. I wouldn't attempt a repeat if she paid me.
SeekingHead
09-13-24, 16:30
She started out asking for 500 if I remember right, but we agreed to 400. But that was with me thinking she was attractive.
And yeah, on the increase in girls requiring testing, I think possibly a big contributor to that is a lot of these girls read the are / sugarlifestyleforum subreddit and that is something commonly preached on there. I've had numerous SBs tell me they're avid readers of that subreddit. They get a lot of their allowance expectations from there too.That sub is overrun with escorts, if you click on a few of the main contributors you'll find them also posting in the.
https://old.reddit.com/r/SexWorkers/
They will also talk about how much they hate men & how to get every $ you can out of us.
https://members.seeking.com/member/43ea7264-d0af-4d19-b2b6-a87ae5ac22c7
Just started chatting with this woman. My M. O. Is a bit more long term. Just want any reports that you all may know about.
VoraraMesh66
09-14-24, 18:00
She is definately PRO. I did chat with her just last week. Directly sent me her phone number. When I started texting without me asking send me nudes. Was asking for $600. I said can't do that. Offered 500 immediatly saying she can host so that saves me 150 hotel charges so it is better deal. LOL.
All kind of fake personal stories she was telling me. I did not follow up after that.
QUOTE=LGSeeking;7033080]https://members.seeking.com/member/43ea7264-d0af-4d19-b2b6-a87ae5ac22c7
Just started chatting with this woman. My M. O. Is a bit more long term. Just want any reports that you all may know about.
Machintosh
09-14-24, 21:16
https://members.seeking.com/member/43ea7264-d0af-4d19-b2b6-a87ae5ac22c7
Just started chatting with this woman. My M. O. Is a bit more long term. Just want any reports that you all may know about.She has some serious problems. Proceed with caution.
That sub is overrun with escorts, if you click on a few of the main contributors you'll find them also posting in the.
https://old.reddit.com/r/SexWorkers/
They will also talk about how much they hate men & how to get every $ you can out of us.My research indices the same. I looked into the posters profiles as well. A large majority of them were pros.
BrownSugaTwo
09-15-24, 10:37
https://members.seeking.com/member/43ea7264-d0af-4d19-b2b6-a87ae5ac22c7
Just started chatting with this woman. My M. O. Is a bit more long term. Just want any reports that you all may know about.I never got her to commit to a day / time, but we did talk. Someone else here spoke of significant baby damage, but I don't necessarily mind that if she has a shirt on, etc. Sounds like she might have other problems (habits? Though, so maybe I dodged a bullet.
https://members.seeking.com/member/c2e41a81-a47c-4f5b-a401-67a1e6e2d684
VoraraMesh66
09-17-24, 00:11
Talk to her and get her number. Now search her number online and you find her ads as escort. She is pro and also not GFE.
https://members.seeking.com/member/c2e41a81-a47c-4f5b-a401-67a1e6e2d684
Airmantroy
09-17-24, 09:24
https://members.seeking.com/member/c2e41a81-a47c-4f5b-a401-67a1e6e2d684Nice enough girl, but not a repeat. She's been mentioned before, did a stint in the gray bar motel for posession, but that's in her past. Stills hits me up trying to meet all the time and it just wasn't good enough to warrant another shot. CFS, BBJ doesn't like DATY (I call bs on that) asked for 6 settled on 3. 5 doesn't host and isn't exactly like her pics, although not too far off. Just a wild guess but she may be more open with BBC more so than BWC as she did have a little hood to her.
https://members.seeking.com/member/ee606935-2963-4ce6-aeab-7764fdb503ec
This girl has had numerous accounts. Currently it's "bankerbarbie", but previously it was "mandyatl" if I remember correctly. Anyways, she is probably my second worse seeking experience of all time.
She met me at my hotel. I'm outside and she pulls up and rolls the window down and smoke starts billowing out like in a Cheech and Chong movie. I wanted to dip, but I was invested and wanted to try to make it work. She gets to the room with me and gets undressed. She's very unattractive in person, at least to me. She looks worn out. Her skin is saggy and she's skinny so it's like a soft bag of bones. Her body looks firm in her pics but I assure you it's not. I could also smell a metallic smell to her and it made me think I was smelling meth. I don't know what meth smells like, but if I had to guess, that would be it. And she acted like she was on something very strong. She proceeds to give a CBJ even though that's not what we agreed to. It was absolutely terrible. No suction and I couldn't even feel it. Even the face she made when doing it turned me off and it actually pissed me off because she was tweaking or something. Never felt so catfished before in my life and I couldn't stand her presence and the way she carried herself in general. At that point I told her to stop and get out of my room. I paid her a small amount of what we agreed to so she wouldn't pitch a fit. In my opinion she's a catfish and she doesn't know or at least act like she knows what she's doing in the bedroom. I wouldn't attempt a repeat if she paid me.This is why we need to review these girls gentlemen. She actually just reached out to me today and the first thing I did was come here. Really disappointed to read it but glad I dodged a bullet. Her profile makes her seem pretty fun and she is very nice on the eyes on her pics. Shame her body isn't really like that. Maybe it used to be but she's destroyed it with meth or whatever else.
BrownSugaTwo
09-18-24, 12:51
SunKissedCurves - https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/80588c6f-2832-4fb2-9b21-10b44e35754a.
Tarrica - https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/62e02d29-723b-4c90-9734-aed2e9e45d69.
The second one seems pretty familiar. I think she's been around a while.
SunKissedCurves - https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/80588c6f-2832-4fb2-9b21-10b44e35754a.
Tarrica - https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/62e02d29-723b-4c90-9734-aed2e9e45d69.
The second one seems pretty familiar. I think she's been around a while.You linked to messages.
SunKissedCurves - https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/80588c6f-2832-4fb2-9b21-10b44e35754a.
Tarrica - https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/62e02d29-723b-4c90-9734-aed2e9e45d69.
The second one seems pretty familiar. I think she's been around a while.Every single time I reactivate my profile, she immediately messages me and shares her private photos. Reeks of desperation and honestly she's not even remotely cute for what type of arrangement she's looking for. Read her profile, she's a very BBW and she wants a boyfriend that pays her basically to go out to fancy restaurants, shows, etc, not really a SB IMO.
Not sure about the second one.
BrownSugaTwo
09-19-24, 12:09
You linked to messages.My bad. Here's Tarrica's link - https://members.seeking.com/member/3d5c4026-9726-4f37-907b-ab18eac63d47.
VoraraMesh66
09-21-24, 12:58
ArtsyPrincess 26 is fake. Had a date yesterday but she did not show up. No communication at all. It was waste of my Friday evening. Lost total 4 hours.
She was so eager to meet. She was telling me all kind of made up stories like she can not host as she live with her grandma to take care of her. She has busy schedule but how she is eager to meet me and very excited. Many messages exchanged and we decided to meet. Time and location both she decided and I agreed. I drove for 50 min in Friday's traffic to Emory druid hills area to meet her at Coffee place. She did not show up. Since then no communication. Radio silence. So I do not recommend her at all.
Please share some genuine SA profile that you have good experience with. DM is welcome.
Coldgin499
09-22-24, 17:32
Hey fellahs, long time reader here, I don't post too often, wanted to see I can get everyone's take on a specific type of sd. My sb and I have a normal ppm arrangement, we both get something out of it and have fun. She's told me that she knows of someone who has arrangements where the SB pays just to have insults hurled at them. I've also seen things like paypig and findom. My guess is these unicorns might exist? Do you think there's any credibility to this? Also, no judgement, to each their own. I'm really just curious.
CrazyRocket
09-22-24, 23:10
ArtsyPrincess 26 is fake. Had a date yesterday but she did not show up. No communication at all. It was waste of my Friday evening. Lost total 4 hours.
She was so eager to meet. She was telling me all kind of made up stories like she can not host as she live with her grandma to take care of her. She has busy schedule but how she is eager to meet me and very excited. Many messages exchanged and we decided to meet. Time and location both she decided and I agreed. I drove for 50 min in Friday's traffic to Emory druid hills area to meet her at Coffee place. She did not show up. Since then no communication. Radio silence. So I do not recommend her at all.
Please share some genuine SA profile that you have good experience with. DM is welcome.When a good looking girl is very eager to meet after a few messages, it's almost always a scam. Especially if she shares unsolicited nudes.
I spoke to this petite blonde blue eyed late 20's single mom (my weakness) in Lawrenceville once. Facecheck returned a facebook profile which had some of SA photos. I was curious where it would lead to so I gave her my GV number. After greetings, I got busy with something else and didn't reply for a while. Then I received a short masturbation video from her with some really exciting moans. She quickly agreed to meet up the following Monday at a location I recommended. This whole thing evolved within 3 hours.
Red flags:
1- An attractive girl should be receiving tons of messages, why insist on meeting ME?
2- No meet&greet. Any sane woman would require to meet in public to be safe.
3- No discussion of limits. Any sane woman would ask your expectations before wasting time with meeting.
4- Important: Trying to rush you. Scammers usually try to rush you so you don't have a moment to stop and think.
5- Important: Sending you nudes and other sexually influential material so that your little head takes over the thinking process.
When a good looking girl is very eager to meet after a few messages, it's almost always a scam. Especially if she shares unsolicited nudes.
Red flags:
1- An attractive girl should be receiving tons of messages, why insist on meeting ME?
2- No meet&greet. Any sane woman would require to meet in public to be safe.
3- No discussion of limits. Any sane woman would ask your expectations before wasting time with meeting.
4- Important: Trying to rush you. Scammers usually try to rush you so you don't have a moment to stop and think.
5- Important: Sending you nudes and other sexually influential material so that your little head takes over the thinking process.Idk, but I've had many arrangements / meetings with ladies that were eager to meet my old fat ass. I assumed, it was because that's when they would get paid. (money is always the answer to a question you can't figure out).
I've never don't a meet and greet. This is with ****** and GND's. I assumed because I have a sense of humor and can carry on a stimulating conversation.
I get rushed by almost all the women I've met. I assumed it's because they've met many men who bs them for pix and never really meet. They only get paid when they meet. Just like any job, you don't get paid till after you start working. I don't want to start in 2 weeks. Let me start a new job. . . Now.
I get nudes from scammers and real possibilities. To me it ensures we are on the same page or at least reading from the same book.
Hey fellahs, long time reader here, I don't post too often, wanted to see I can get everyone's take on a specific type of sd. My sb and I have a normal ppm arrangement, we both get something out of it and have fun. She's told me that she knows of someone who has arrangements where the SB pays just to have insults hurled at them. I've also seen things like paypig and findom. My guess is these unicorns might exist? Do you think there's any credibility to this? Also, no judgement, to each their own. I'm really just curious.If that's your thing. I had a girl reach out to me once about wanting me to be a paypig to her. Not my thing so declined. Not really in to weird stuff though. I just want something mutually beneficial / fwb. So they are out there but honestly if you want that just put that in your profile and see who bites?
The only way to stop the scammers is to report them to SA.
ArtsyPrincess 26 is fake. Had a date yesterday but she did not show up. No communication at all. It was waste of my Friday evening. Lost total 4 hours.
She was so eager to meet. She was telling me all kind of made up stories like she can not host as she live with her grandma to take care of her. She has busy schedule but how she is eager to meet me and very excited. Many messages exchanged and we decided to meet. Time and location both she decided and I agreed. I drove for 50 min in Friday's traffic to Emory druid hills area to meet her at Coffee place. She did not show up. Since then no communication. Radio silence. So I do not recommend her at all.
Please share some genuine SA profile that you have good experience with. DM is welcome.
Hey fellahs, long time reader here, I don't post too often, wanted to see I can get everyone's take on a specific type of sd. My sb and I have a normal ppm arrangement, we both get something out of it and have fun. She's told me that she knows of someone who has arrangements where the SB pays just to have insults hurled at them. I've also seen things like paypig and findom. My guess is these unicorns might exist? Do you think there's any credibility to this? Also, no judgement, to each their own. I'm really just curious.My friend these unicorns do exist but they are rare and even when found they don't last long. These stories of SBs "knowing someone" are usually from online SB forums and amount to dreams of women getting big coins for doing virtually nothing. When I connect with women on SB sites most like to throw out what the "last SD or guy" did. I always love the story of the last "older guy" that was "cool" that paid her rent but didn't want "anything" in return. All they did was "talk". Yeah, ok.
Long-term, consistent SDs are rarer than most might think. Your SB would do well to focus on keeping you happy and the ppm arrangement working than pondering stories like those. My 2 cents.
Good Luck.
SeekingHead
09-23-24, 13:07
Hey fellahs, long time reader here, I don't post too often, wanted to see I can get everyone's take on a specific type of sd. My sb and I have a normal ppm arrangement, we both get something out of it and have fun. She's told me that she knows of someone who has arrangements where the SB pays just to have insults hurled at them. I've also seen things like paypig and findom. My guess is these unicorns might exist? Do you think there's any credibility to this? Also, no judgement, to each their own. I'm really just curious.In those instances 99% of the time women are lying to their friends & or boyfriends. They are not going to brag to their friends they are sucking a 60 year old dude's dick for cash.
Peter Johnson
09-29-24, 01:16
https://members.seeking.com/member/db4f5bbf-576a-4e3f-a6cc-8279a0a45737
This girl is for real and fairly chill and laid back. She needs some $ pretty badly right now, and is probably open to car dates as well. She is ok with BBBJ. Not sure about BBFS, but might depend on the the monger and the PPM amount. Anyway, she is in a bad spot and some money would help her out, so perhaps one of you gents can meet up with her.
MajMilkDuds
09-29-24, 13:43
https://members.seeking.com/member/db4f5bbf-576a-4e3f-a6cc-8279a0a45737
This girl is for real and fairly chill and laid back. She needs some $ pretty badly right now, and is probably open to car dates as well. She is ok with BBBJ. Not sure about BBFS, but might depend on the the monger and the PPM amount. Anyway, she is in a bad spot and some money would help her out, so perhaps one of you gents can meet up with her.I can vouch for her. She is a little odd but is real and legit. Does suck a good cock. I have had plenty of car dates. But her not having a car and she said she lived with family kinda turned me off. If you are ok with all that she is safe a fun.
Peter Johnson
09-29-24, 15:17
I can vouch for her. She is a little odd but is real and legit. Does suck a good cock. I have had plenty of car dates. But her not having a car and she said she lived with family kinda turned me off. If you are ok with all that she is safe a fun.Yes I had to go pick her up from her house on her lunch break. Then was kind of rushed doing it in the car, but not that she rushed me but I knew she had to get back to work. (She does call center work from home).
But she was super casual about everything and not uptight. She got naked in the back of my SUV and went to work. She was also ok with pics and video, and CIM at the end. Although she was a bit of a cum dodger, which was disappointing. Anyway, I would see her again for the right PPM.
Again, I don't know about BBFS vs CFS. I think I could talk her into bare, but I'm trying to take less risks lately, after some penicillin shots recently so maybe I don't want to try to get in there. But if I get together with her again, I will probably get turned on and try anyway.
Anyway I like her and treat her right if you meet up. I think she said she will be staying in Roswell for the next week.
CookiesMan
09-29-24, 18:24
I have found my long term SBs for now, so here are a few more I am throwing back:
London.
She started out great. Nice body and tall. We went on a meet and greet and talked and texted. Great conversation but when intimacy was brought she tried to delay and only wanted to date for gifts, so I stop pursuing. A great girl if you ok with no intimacy.
https://members.seeking.com/member/d9e09743-39ea-44fa-94b5-71d65eab0eb4
AsianPersuasion.
Good conversation, but never could tell if she was real or fake.
https://members.seeking.com/member/3e0a6d1c-9934-4e9d-87d0-2df51586a59c
Jasmine.
A small beauty, but too inconsistent. I knew her from her massage days so we hit it off instantly. If you don't mind the inconsistency, she is a good one.
https://members.seeking.com/member/883933c0-5d73-43dc-bc07-465b566292db
Mei.
I think she is all about the meet and greets for $150. I usually don't pursue but I thought she was interesting, but surely after the third day she texted and said she had fun but it wasn't enough to enter an arrangement. Smh. So if you just ok with taking out and paying her, go for it.
https://members.seeking.com/member/3b93434a-5b39-48da-866e-b00d809172a6
Wittylady.
Nice and sweet, but travels a lot to be in an arrangement to meet weekly.
https://members.seeking.com/member/035cc1b3-5019-4426-a3f1-3ebfa8a09be5
Excited beauty.
A freak for sure. Very sexy, but a pro. She is all about the Benjamins.
https://members.seeking.com/member/e00eadd0-3dfe-4bec-950c-e48a0778a67f
Maola.
A scammer. She lies about what is agreed on. She is a pro working as a SB and wants to upsale you on everything. She says she GFE, but she is not. She has a nice body, but not worth the time.
https://members.seeking.com/member/001c0167-392d-4c8c-ab0a-3aaa6f103056
TallGoddess.
Nice girl. Starting stripping and loss contact.
https://members.seeking.com/member/f6e2e9c9-3038-47d4-b055-4856247f8ed8
Slim honey.
I believe she was a pro as well. She immediately had car problems and was strained in another state and needed money. She caught an attitude when I decided not to meet her after picking up on her pro vibes.
https://members.seeking.com/member/1d3276fd-fa13-479b-9f10-8dc7a23eb984
GeorgiaGal.
I hated to let this one go because she was a true SB and was great at everything I needed. She is a little needy at time where she will call everyday and talk like a real girlfriend, but I do not have a SO so I was ok with it. She ran into some money problems and began to ask for more than I was willing to give.
https://members.seeking.com/member/58a5b0e0-4743-4303-85ca-c6df57ce8f7b
Adrain.
Not sure if she is a pro or not I have read mixed reviews. She is a sweet girl with a nice body but a bore lay. She just lays there and don't like much touch.
https://members.seeking.com/member/c2e41a81-a47c-4f5b-a401-67a1e6e2d684
DarlaDarling.
Crazy. You have been warned.
https://members.seeking.com/member/9d42367e-009d-4b55-be53-dc21901046f2
Maria.
Very Beautiful. Obsess with working out. Just like the fun part of an arrangement.
https://members.seeking.com/member/8ee4c21d-04e0-4f4d-8e58-7522609c40ac
Thecrazymamacita.
My boo. My first SB and she was great and still is.
https://members.seeking.com/member/46ed00ce-f838-4ea4-8f3d-0d8ec2137e9c
Lizette.
Too many games.
https://members.seeking.com/member/c2a55388-8c2a-46a7-8749-40fc93c81261
KitKat.
Have a date set up. She is in between Atlanta and Birmingham.
https://members.seeking.com/member/2b7f114a-d663-484e-9408-ec4d6be5ecfe
LovingHeiress.
Very sweet girl.
https://members.seeking.com/member/9b957288-3994-4aa6-b6b5-841401a349cd
Enjoy guys!
ReffingMan94
09-29-24, 20:59
Hey guys,
Been chatting with a few sb's on seeking and wanted to see if anyone has experience with any of these babes?
Xoxo195.
https://members.seeking.com/member/9a10abc6-3690-403e-a8bf-3d6d7f691eb0
Lani.
https://members.seeking.com/member/7c587eaa-a081-471a-9d9e-2202b608b1ff
Bean.
https://members.seeking.com/member/86c51496-f9d3-4799-8f9e-712cc5d12ecb
Petite2638.
https://members.seeking.com/member/8256b820-ba6b-4a06-8500-c7687038b432
Pheonix.
https://members.seeking.com/member/4145576b-9cbd-46ce-8b8e-345591b17dc7
The end of the month is usually a good time to check the sugar sites out as rent / bills are coming due. I usually look for girls with something in their profile that sounds like they are willing to meet and have a few photos, ideally full body. Here's a couple around the Atlanta area:
Gracie6431,20, Marietta.
https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?tid=af100011222-m&userId=73132081&nsp=1
"Looking for a kind and caring individual to occasionally hangout with. Should be mutually benefial!
Esme, 22, Griffin.
https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?tid=af100011222-m&userId=67837782&nsp=1
"I want to be your sugar b*by*. I go to college, I live on my own*.
Diva, 21, Atlanta.
https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?tid=af100011222-m&userId=72945838&nsp=1
"currently looking for a short term arrangement but long term is possible".
Goddess08,21, Savannah.
https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?tid=af100011222-m&userId=72456646&nsp=1
"interested in a mutually beneficial arrangement".
Sofi2834,22, Atlanta.
https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?tid=af100011222-m&userId=69320884&nsp=1
"prefer a longterm discreet arrangement. I require an allowance. Monthly or PPM. ".
CookiesMan
09-30-24, 02:34
Hey guys,
Been chatting with a few sb's on seeking and wanted to see if anyone has experience with any of these babes?
Xoxo195.
https://members.seeking.com/member/9a10abc6-3690-403e-a8bf-3d6d7f691eb0
Lani.
https://members.seeking.com/member/7c587eaa-a081-471a-9d9e-2202b608b1ff
Bean.
https://members.seeking.com/member/86c51496-f9d3-4799-8f9e-712cc5d12ecb
Petite2638.
https://members.seeking.com/member/8256b820-ba6b-4a06-8500-c7687038b432
Pheonix.
https://members.seeking.com/member/4145576b-9cbd-46ce-8b8e-345591b17dc7Lani always claimed she could meet, but would ghost when the time was agreed upon.
Petite: I reached out to her about 4 months ago but never heard anything back.
Airmantroy
09-30-24, 09:30
Hey guys,
Been chatting with a few sb's on seeking and wanted to see if anyone has experience with any of these babes?
Xoxo195.
https://members.seeking.com/member/9a10abc6-3690-403e-a8bf-3d6d7f691eb0
Lani.
https://members.seeking.com/member/7c587eaa-a081-471a-9d9e-2202b608b1ffShe has decent pics on the site, but they hide the gut in front (40#'s worth). And she is very aware of it, boring, unethusiastic and a pain in the ass to pin down for a meet.
https://members.seeking.com/member/033251ce-6046-455f-ad9b-2269a2e8d8bc
Hey everyone, I'm 30 and married. In the past, I've mostly seen pump-and-dump girls, but I'm now in a fortunate financial position where I can afford to explore the sugar daddy lifestyle. I've recently met someone new, and this arrangement feels much more promising than anything I've experienced before.
As I'm navigating this dynamic, I have a lot of questions and would love to hear from those who are more experienced in balancing it with marriage. Any private insights on maintaining boundaries, handling expectations, and keeping things smooth would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks in advance for your advice!
MSmith3034
10-01-24, 10:48
PM if you like, but this is the concise version.
It's still a quid pro quo situation, just as you are accustomed to, but less turn & burn. You need to play up your value slightly (but not overboard) and persona a bit more than a girl who knows nothing about you before you come & after you go. But don't overthink it, keep it simple and don't share anything you don't want getting out to the world. Create an alter ego and live up to that. A decent SB only wants to know some basics to know you are a decent human typically and she wants to be left alone outside of the arrangement probably as much as you do.
Hey everyone, I'm 30 and married. In the past, I've mostly seen pump-and-dump girls, but I'm now in a fortunate financial position where I can afford to explore the sugar daddy lifestyle. I've recently met someone new, and this arrangement feels much more promising than anything I've experienced before.
As I'm navigating this dynamic, I have a lot of questions and would love to hear from those who are more experienced in balancing it with marriage. Any private insights on maintaining boundaries, handling expectations, and keeping things smooth would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks in advance for your advice!
BumbaCloth
10-01-24, 12:06
Hey guys,
Been chatting with a few sb's on seeking and wanted to see if anyone has experience with any of these babes?
Xoxo195.
https://members.seeking.com/member/9a10abc6-3690-403e-a8bf-3d6d7f691eb0
Lani.
https://members.seeking.com/member/7c587eaa-a081-471a-9d9e-2202b608b1ff
Bean.
https://members.seeking.com/member/86c51496-f9d3-4799-8f9e-712cc5d12ecb
Petite2638.
https://members.seeking.com/member/8256b820-ba6b-4a06-8500-c7687038b432
Pheonix.
https://members.seeking.com/member/4145576b-9cbd-46ce-8b8e-345591b17dc7She's Filipina, it was like pulling teeth to get her to show a pic of her. The profile pic is supposedly her four kids go. She first sent me a pic of her when she was slim her current pics she try to hide her shape.
Peter Johnson
10-01-24, 12:22
Has anyone met this girl:
https://members.seeking.com/member/3b8f1e2b-8b5e-4294-af53-66ed59a717eb
She seems nice enough in chat. I got her on the Signal app, for more private conversation, but she oddly didn't want to discuss ppm details that way, and only wanted to do so over the phone.
That could be an awkward conversation, and of course a chance it could be recorded, etc. One reason I use Signal is not have paper trail of such conversation, at least linked to my name and identity. (Although Signal still uses your phone #, but the girls don't have it. And you can actually register with any # you want).
In her Seeking pics, she has hairy pits, so perhaps that means hairy bush as well? Anyway I doubt I will pursue her further, but just curious if anyone else has.
CocoMuffin
10-01-24, 12:28
The sugar daddy lifestyle is very much a situation of you get exactly what you're looking based on how much effort you and SB put into the relationship.
If you still just want pump and go, you'll find that. If you want something more long term FWB, you'll find that. If you want to divorce your wife and find a new one, you'll find it. If you're poly and want a real gf with sugar benefits, you'll find it. Whatever you want, establish it early at the latest in the meet and greet.
For boundaries, a burner phone or google voice number is great. Avoid connecting on social media. If you're meeting out in public, have a game plan if you run into someone you know.
Hey everyone, I'm 30 and married. In the past, I've mostly seen pump-and-dump girls, but I'm now in a fortunate financial position where I can afford to explore the sugar daddy lifestyle. I've recently met someone new, and this arrangement feels much more promising than anything I've experienced before.
As I'm navigating this dynamic, I have a lot of questions and would love to hear from those who are more experienced in balancing it with marriage. Any private insights on maintaining boundaries, handling expectations, and keeping things smooth would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks in advance for your advice!
Peter Johnson
10-01-24, 12:28
As I'm navigating this dynamic, I have a lot of questions and would love to hear from those who are more experienced in balancing it with marriage. Any private insights on maintaining boundaries, handling expectations, and keeping things smooth would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks in advance for your advice!I'm not married, but just remember the saying "There are 100 ways to get busted, cheating, and if you can think of 50 of them, you are a genius." And I've certainly had girlfriends and had to do the same thing so I know how challenging it can be. But the obvious steps to take are use burner phone, don't use your real name. Use burner email for the Seeking acct, of course don't have your real pics on there, etc. You can also go further and takes steps not to let a SB see your car or license plate, etc but can only go so far and there will always be some risk. And always, the usual std, pregnancy and psychb*tch stalker risks, as with any dating.
But yes, it can all be worth it if you find the right girl and have some amazing experiences (and no fallout). Just don't get lazy and complacent, if you have a lot to lose and could be a lot of innocent and harmless fun, to be had by all.
CocoMuffin
10-01-24, 12:43
I had messaged her back and forth several times via text and almost met up. I don't recall what she was asking for because I deleted our convos. We never met up though, my fault. Seems nice and real though.
Has anyone met this girl:
https://members.seeking.com/member/3b8f1e2b-8b5e-4294-af53-66ed59a717eb
She seems nice enough in chat. I got her on the Signal app, for more private conversation, but she oddly didn't want to discuss ppm details that way, and only wanted to do so over the phone.
That could be an awkward conversation, and of course a chance it could be recorded, etc. One reason I use Signal is not have paper trail of such conversation, at least linked to my name and identity. (Although Signal still uses your phone #, but the girls don't have it. And you can actually register with any # you want).
In her Seeking pics, she has hairy pits, so perhaps that means hairy bush as well? Anyway I doubt I will pursue her further, but just curious if anyone else has.
BumbaCloth
10-01-24, 12:49
Has anyone met this girl:
https://members.seeking.com/member/3b8f1e2b-8b5e-4294-af53-66ed59a717eb
She seems nice enough in chat. I got her on the Signal app, for more private conversation, but she oddly didn't want to discuss ppm details that way, and only wanted to do so over the phone.
That could be an awkward conversation, and of course a chance it could be recorded, etc. One reason I use Signal is not have paper trail of such conversation, at least linked to my name and identity. (Although Signal still uses your phone #, but the girls don't have it. And you can actually register with any # you want).
In her Seeking pics, she has hairy pits, so perhaps that means hairy bush as well? Anyway I doubt I will pursue her further, but just curious if anyone else has.If you like 70's & 80's porn she's your girl if I remember right she said she's doesn't used deodorant or uses natural deodorant.
Hey everyone, I'm 30 and married. In the past, I've mostly seen pump-and-dump girls, but I'm now in a fortunate financial position where I can afford to explore the sugar daddy lifestyle. I've recently met someone new, and this arrangement feels much more promising than anything I've experienced before.
As I'm navigating this dynamic, I have a lot of questions and would love to hear from those who are more experienced in balancing it with marriage. Any private insights on maintaining boundaries, handling expectations, and keeping things smooth would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks in advance for your advice!All the advance given is right on so nothing to add there. But I think it all depends on what you want. Do you want something more touchy feely or just an attractive side piece that doesn't ask a lot of questions? You need to know. If it's just a side piece the SB doesn't need to know your real name, your real number, details about your life, or any other details that can hurt you as already stated. You set the time, place, conditions, because you're the one paying. If you can't maintain this frame consult a divorce lawyer and protect your assets.
CocoMuffin
10-01-24, 15:15
Wants $$$ + a hotel b / c they can't host.
https://members.seeking.com/member/e72cf0dc-c9cb-4605-849a-581c6137725b
FarFarAway
10-01-24, 16:28
I'm not married, but just remember the saying "There are 100 ways to get busted, cheating, and if you can think of 50 of them, you are a genius." And I've certainly had girlfriends and had to do the same thing so I know how challenging it can be. But the obvious steps to take are use burner phone, don't use your real name. Use burner email for the Seeking acct, of course don't have your real pics on there, etc. You can also go further and takes steps not to let a SB see your car or license plate, etc but can only go so far and there will always be some risk. And always, the usual std, pregnancy and psychb*tch stalker risks, as with any dating.
But yes, it can all be worth it if you find the right girl and have some amazing experiences (and no fallout). Just don't get lazy and complacent, if you have a lot to lose and could be a lot of innocent and harmless fun, to be had by all.Listen to the man with 1000 posts. And PM if you'd like.
Has anyone met this girl:
https://members.seeking.com/member/3b8f1e2b-8b5e-4294-af53-66ed59a717eb
She seems nice enough in chat. I got her on the Signal app, for more private conversation, but she oddly didn't want to discuss ppm details that way, and only wanted to do so over the phone.
That could be an awkward conversation, and of course a chance it could be recorded, etc. One reason I use Signal is not have paper trail of such conversation, at least linked to my name and identity. (Although Signal still uses your phone #, but the girls don't have it. And you can actually register with any # you want).
In her Seeking pics, she has hairy pits, so perhaps that means hairy bush as well? Anyway I doubt I will pursue her further, but just curious if anyone else has.I talked to her a month ago, her requirements is that you have to talk on the phone about what you looking for and a meet and greet is a must, didn't pursue since for me meet and greet never work she blocked me right after we hung up.
Hey everyone, I'm 30 and married. In the past, I've mostly seen pump-and-dump girls, but I'm now in a fortunate financial position where I can afford to explore the sugar daddy lifestyle. I've recently met someone new, and this arrangement feels much more promising than anything I've experienced before.
As I'm navigating this dynamic, I have a lot of questions and would love to hear from those who are more experienced in balancing it with marriage. Any private insights on maintaining boundaries, handling expectations, and keeping things smooth would be greatly appreciated.There's great advice in the previous comments below. The sugarbaby dynamic has been exceptionally rewarding for me personally. Like you I am married and I fully intend to stay that way, so my first and most critically important rule has always been to keep everything as discreet as possible. I have always sought out longer term girlfriend type relationships and have been very successful on that front. There are SO MANY young women out there in their 20's living their best life who are very happy to have an older successful man in their life, even if he's married. Many of them prefer dating married guys - even BEING COMMITTED to married guys - given they don't have any desire to settle down. That is a tremendous opportunity for guys like us, and those are the girls I look for. I've posted about this before, but a quick recap: My first girlfriend and I saw each other for a year before she decided she wanted me to leave my wife. That was never going to happen so it would be fair to say I learned a lot about what NOT to do going forward. I used that experience to approach things differently with the next girlfriend; that worked out much better and she & I saw each other for four years. That was an exceptionally good relationship and very rewarding for us both. I'm now in my 3rd long term girlfriend situation which is my best yet BY FAR. I won't bore you with the details, but suffice to say I have hit the SB jackpot and found the unicorn of all unicorns. I've got it so good you guys wouldn't believe me if I told you. We have been together for almost 4 years at this point and we're both very happy with how things have turned out. She's in her late twenties, she's focused on her career goals and is in no hurry to settle down. We're in a really good spot with each other. She loves her role as my trophy girlfriend and treats me better than any woman I've ever been with. There is absolutely zero drama. She honestly brings a tremendous amount of value to my life, and I'm lucky to have her. Life is good.
I've been very fortunate to have these experiences over the past 12 years with no issues at all at home (knock on wood). To emphasize and add to some of the points below:
- Be very upfront about the type of arrangement or relationship you want in the short term and long term. It's very beneficial when you both know you're on the same page.
- It's important to talk about what you both want out of the relationship. It's even more important to talk about boundaries and set clear limits so you both know that you have no chance of a future together. That will help her keep things in perspective as the relationship progresses.
- The best candidates for the type of relationship I'm looking for either aren't looking for an allowance, or it's not at the top of their list of priorities. They want the experience - they want to be squired around town, they want the nice dinners that guys their age can't afford, they want the sex and orgasms that guys their age can't give them. Vet your potential SB's carefully. If they lead with questions in the early conversations about how much of an allowance you can offer, they're obviously focused on the money. That's not necessarily a deal breaker, but I always sought out women that were fairly self sufficient. That eliminates a LOT of potential problems down the road. The counter argument is that the allowance keeps things more business-like, and that's a fair point. I have always preferred to spend my time with women who didn't have a financial incentive to be there ... your mileage may vary.
- Get full panel STD tests for you both up front. This can be done discreetly and anonymously.
- Use birth control. Be paranoid about it. Have a serious talk with your girl about what happens if she gets pregnant so you're both on the same page. This is actually such a huge issue that I would never have been able to do this had I not gotten a vasectomy beforehand. If you're not already snipped you should very seriously consider it.
- Keep your personal details hidden. Don't use your real name for AT LEAST the first year. If you're into short term arrangements, use whatever fake name you want. But if your intent is to go long term, I would recommend using your real first name with a different last name just so you don't have to make an awkward switch somewhere down the road. Your SB will eventually know your real name. It will be on the TV in a hotel, she'll see it on the credit card when you pay for dinner, she'll see it on something in your car. It's going to happen. Plan accordingly.
- Given she will eventually know your name, take the initiative to clean up and lock down your online profiles NOW. Set your Facebook account to private and make sure there are no public posts on your page. Do the same for all of your wife's social accounts.
- I found it very helpful to be up front and honest with my girls as much as possible. I told them there would be things they would ask that I couldn't tell them, or maybe parts of my life I couldn't share with them, but rather than lie about it I would always do my best to tell them exactly that. When you explain that keeping your home together for your kids depends on it, the good ones will understand and respect your position.
- Use an app on your phone to keep all of your communications hidden. I recommend Google Voice for initial comms as you can be completely anonymous. If you get to the point where you are comfortable assuming a little more risk with your SB I recommend switching to WhatsApp as it offers a great option to keep private conversations hidden and secure. WhatsApp will reveal your real phone number to anyone you communicate with, so that's why you need to wait until you fully trust the girl to use it.
- Don't leave a paper trail. Use cash. When you can't use cash, use a Vanilla Visa card or similar. Create a firewall between your real life and your SB life and don't ever breach it. It takes a lot of discipline, but the consequences will be severe if you don't.
- Never let your guard down. Keep your head on a swivel and pay close attention to the small comments your girl makes, the little things she does that tip you off to being dishonest or any sort of instability or personality traits / character issues that could threaten your situation at home. My best advice is to end the relationship at the first sign of trouble. You're married, there is no margin for error. I've found the tipping point on all my relationships to be somewhere around the one year mark. By that time you'll have a pretty good idea if your girl is emotionally and mentally stable.
- Don't change any of your patterns at home. Never take risks or do anything unusual in the service of your SB relationship. That's the first thing that tips off the wife that something is amiss.
- Finally, as in all things in life, always hope for the best but plan for the worst. Give yourself outs. Don't take unnecessary risks. If the wife thinks you're in Toledo for business when you're out of town with your SB, actually be in Toledo. Always be very deliberate about the chances you take and be vigilant - never let your guard down. Take the time to think through your worst case scenarios and have plausible excuses well rehearsed and ready to go.
Obviously this is just a quick list of general pointers. Feel free to send me a PM to discuss this further, I'm happy to share more insight on what's worked for me. Good luck!
Peter Johnson
10-02-24, 00:00
I recommend switching to WhatsApp as it offers a great option to keep private conversations hidden and secure. WhatsApp will reveal your real phone number to anyone you communicate with, so that's why you need to wait until you fully trust the girl to use it.Why would you use Whatsapp over Signal? Whatsapp is owned by Meta / FB and is closed source code, so you basically have to trust Zuck. It also requires access to all of the contacts on your phone to even work.
Signal is open source code, so you don't have to trust anyone. It's a non profit company. The app allows to to set a username, and you can give that to to the girls and they don't even know your phone number. I won't even SMS text the girls anymore, and it's Signal or nothing. But I sure wouldn't go with Whatsapp.
(And not to nitpick and the rest of your advice is very good).
FarFarAway
10-02-24, 00:08
The OP got a wealth of info out of Joydrop, and I can say to heed it, because he did the same for me 5 years ago. He's a longtime bowl bud; you can't imagine the quality of experiences he's had. If you got 1/10th of his scores, you will be happy.
However, the OP did post pretty much the exact same solicitation on a dozen or more sugar thread across the country. Makes me a little curious about what his ulterior motives might be.
Why would you use Whatsapp over Signal? Whatsapp is owned by Meta / FB and is closed source code, so you basically have to trust Zuck.I'm not doing anything illegal so tbh Zuck's closed source code isn't high on my list on concerns.
It also requires access to all of the contacts on your phone to even work.That's actually not true. I am using Whatsapp successfully every day and have not given WhatsApp access to my contacts. The new option they recently introduced to keep hidden conversations secured with a code entered in the search bar is a GREAT feature. If you don't know to enter that code in the search bar, there's absolutely no indication that any hidden conversations exist. I do appreciate Zuck for that LOL.
Signal is a great option as well, and maybe even better in that you can use it anonymously, so thanks for pointing that out. In my case WhatsApp worked for me and my girl as we both already had it on our phones to communicate with friends and colleagues overseas. That's very beneficial to me as the wife doesn't think anything of it if she happens to catch a glimpse of me using the app on my phone. That wouldn't be true with Signal.
- Don't change any of your patterns at home. Never take risks or do anything unusual in the service of your SB relationship. That's the first thing that tips off the wife that something is amiss.
A lot of great advice in here, but since you pointed out you have a warden at home. This is at the top of the list for me. Its the little things that get you caught up.
What worked for me is having a routine that can be easily swap for a meet-up. For example, going out to drink to watch a game or something do that and do it consistently, also invite the wife a few times. Do that enough times till your wife is comfortable with you going out for a few hours with low communication, so you can use one of the days to do your meetup.
Also always always have a plan, in case you have to explain something away. Making up a story on the spot will make things worst.
Airmantroy
10-02-24, 10:02
There's great advice in the previous comments below. The sugarbaby dynamic has been exceptionally rewarding for me personally. Like you I am married and I fully intend to stay that way, so my first and most critically important rule has always been to keep everything as discreet as possible. I have always sought out longer term girlfriend type relationships and have been very successful on that front. There are SO MANY young women out there in their 20's living their best life who are very happy to have an older successful man in their life, even if he's married. Many of them prefer dating married guys - even BEING COMMITTED to married guys - given they don't have any desire to settle down. That is a tremendous opportunity for guys like us, and those are the girls I look for. I've posted about this before, but a quick recap: My first girlfriend and I saw each other for a year before she decided she wanted me to leave my wife. That was never going to happen so it would be fair to say I learned a lot about what NOT to do going forward. I used that experience to approach things differently with the next girlfriend; that worked out much better and she & I saw each other for four years. That was an exceptionally good relationship and very rewarding for us both. I'm now in my 3rd long term girlfriend situation which is my best yet BY FAR. I won't bore you with the details, but suffice to say I have hit the SB jackpot and found the unicorn of all unicorns. I've got it so good you guys wouldn't believe me if I told you. We have been together for almost 4 years at this point and we're both very happy with how things have turned out. She's in her late twenties, she's focused on her career goals and is in no hurry to settle down. We're in a really good spot with each other. She loves her role as my trophy girlfriend and treats me better than any woman I've ever been with. There is absolutely zero drama. She honestly brings a tremendous amount of value to my life, and I'm lucky to have her. Life is good.
I've been very fortunate to have these experiences over the past 12 years with no issues at all at home (knock on wood). To emphasize and add to some of the points below:
- Be very upfront about the type of arrangement or relationship you want in the short term and long term. It's very beneficial when you both know you're on the same page.
- It's important to talk about what you both want out of the relationship. It's even more important to talk about boundaries and set clear limits so you both know that you have no chance of a future together. That will help her keep things in perspective as the relationship progresses.
- The best candidates for the type of relationship I'm looking for either aren't looking for an allowance, or it's not at the top of their list of priorities. They want the experience - they want to be squired around town, they want the nice dinners that guys their age can't afford, they want the sex and orgasms that guys their age can't give them. Vet your potential SB's carefully. If they lead with questions in the early conversations about how much of an allowance you can offer, they're obviously focused on the money. That's not necessarily a deal breaker, but I always sought out women that were fairly self sufficient. That eliminates a LOT of potential problems down the road. The counter argument is that the allowance keeps things more business-like, and that's a fair point. I have always preferred to spend my time with women who didn't have a financial incentive to be there ... your mileage may vary.
- Get full panel STD tests for you both up front. This can be done discreetly and anonymously.
- Use birth control. Be paranoid about it. Have a serious talk with your girl about what happens if she gets pregnant so you're both on the same page. This is actually such a huge issue that I would never have been able to do this had I not gotten a vasectomy beforehand. If you're not already snipped you should very seriously consider it.
- Keep your personal details hidden. Don't use your real name for AT LEAST the first year. If you're into short term arrangements, use whatever fake name you want. But if your intent is to go long term, I would recommend using your real first name with a different last name just so you don't have to make an awkward switch somewhere down the road. Your SB will eventually know your real name. It will be on the TV in a hotel, she'll see it on the credit card when you pay for dinner, she'll see it on something in your car. It's going to happen. Plan accordingly.
- Given she will eventually know your name, take the initiative to clean up and lock down your online profiles NOW. Set your Facebook account to private and make sure there are no public posts on your page. Do the same for all of your wife's social accounts.
- I found it very helpful to be up front and honest with my girls as much as possible. I told them there would be things they would ask that I couldn't tell them, or maybe parts of my life I couldn't share with them, but rather than lie about it I would always do my best to tell them exactly that. When you explain that keeping your home together for your kids depends on it, the good ones will understand and respect your position.
- Use an app on your phone to keep all of your communications hidden. I recommend Google Voice for initial comms as you can be completely anonymous. If you get to the point where you are comfortable assuming a little more risk with your SB I recommend switching to WhatsApp as it offers a great option to keep private conversations hidden and secure. WhatsApp will reveal your real phone number to anyone you communicate with, so that's why you need to wait until you fully trust the girl to use it.
- Don't leave a paper trail. Use cash. When you can't use cash, use a Vanilla Visa card or similar. Create a firewall between your real life and your SB life and don't ever breach it. It takes a lot of discipline, but the consequences will be severe if you don't.
- Never let your guard down. Keep your head on a swivel and pay close attention to the small comments your girl makes, the little things she does that tip you off to being dishonest or any sort of instability or personality traits / character issues that could threaten your situation at home. My best advice is to end the relationship at the first sign of trouble. You're married, there is no margin for error. I've found the tipping point on all my relationships to be somewhere around the one year mark. By that time you'll have a pretty good idea if your girl is emotionally and mentally stable.
- Don't change any of your patterns at home. Never take risks or do anything unusual in the service of your SB relationship. That's the first thing that tips off the wife that something is amiss.
- Finally, as in all things in life, always hope for the best but plan for the worst. Give yourself outs. Don't take unnecessary risks. If the wife thinks you're in Toledo for business when you're out of town with your SB, actually be in Toledo. Always be very deliberate about the chances you take and be vigilant - never let your guard down. Take the time to think through your worst case scenarios and have plausible excuses well rehearsed and ready to go.
Obviously this is just a quick list of general pointers. Feel free to send me a PM to discuss this further, I'm happy to share more insight on what's worked for me. Good luck!You knocked that out of the park. Not much can be added to improve.
OutsideProof
10-02-24, 11:26
Remember, your home address is on your insurance and registration card in your glove box unless you have a PO box listed. Be careful not to allow to much searching in your car or forgetting something in the car trick.
You knocked that out of the park. Not much can be added to improve.
The OP got a wealth of info out of Joydrop, and I can say to heed it, because he did the same for me 5 years ago. He's a longtime bowl bud; you can't imagine the quality of experiences he's had. If you got 1/10th of his scores, you will be happy.
However, the OP did post pretty much the exact same solicitation on a dozen or more sugar thread across the country. Makes me a little curious about what his ulterior motives might be.You're right I did post in multiple places. They're not at random. I've actually visited those places before, but the reason why is because there is a wealth of knowledge out there men with real experience. Unfortunately, in my hometown, the game is dying if you look through the sugar baby forum you'll see how bad it is. So if I post it in Myrtle and only Myrtle, I would've never gotten the drop from Jay. We’re all here for the same reason why settle for one when you can have as many as you'd like.
Why settle for for one post in one area when posting in a few pages will increase my chances of getting real advice.
Get an app like Airguard to make sure you know if someone puts an air tag or something similar in your bag or on your car. I don't think they pick up professional grade trackers, but if your SO has a PI on you, you're cooked anyway.
A lot of great advice in here, but since you pointed out you have a warden at home. This is at the top of the list for me. Its the little things that get you caught up.
What worked for me is having a routine that can be easily swap for a meet-up. For example, going out to drink to watch a game or something do that and do it consistently, also invite the wife a few times. Do that enough times till your wife is comfortable with you going out for a few hours with low communication, so you can use one of the days to do your meetup.
Also always always have a plan, in case you have to explain something away. Making up a story on the spot will make things worst.
Peter Johnson
10-02-24, 13:30
https://members.seeking.com/member/db4f5bbf-576a-4e3f-a6cc-8279a0a45737
This girl is for real and fairly chill and laid back. She needs some $ pretty badly right now, and is probably open to car dates as well. She is ok with BBBJ. Not sure about BBFS, but might depend on the the monger and the PPM amount. Anyway, she is in a bad spot and some money would help her out, so perhaps one of you gents can meet up with her.Ok, one last note about Marie, that I am still talking to her and she really does need $$$ (don't we all), but she said it's ok to give out her # to some guys who don't have Seeking subscription. I'll have to go back at post history to make sure the guy seems safe (and not possibly LE), but feel free to PM me for her digits, if you have a fairly long and reputable post history. And I'm not trying to be a "gatekeeper" here, but I'm sure you understand.
Or actually...I got her on the Signal app, so why would I give out her #, when it's safer for her, and for you, to just contact her on there. So I will go that route instead.
FarFarAway
10-02-24, 16:14
You're right I did post in multiple places. They're not at random. I've actually visited those places before, but the reason why is because there is a wealth of knowledge out there men with real experience. Unfortunately, in my hometown, the game is dying if you look through the sugar baby forum you'll see how bad it is. So if I post it in Myrtle and only Myrtle, I would've never gotten the drop from Jay. Were all here for the same reason why settle for one when you can have as many as you'd like..One more place you need to go. The Richmond VA board. There is an archive of highly useful past posts on sugaring. It used to be that the Richmond thread was the de facto national thread, people from all over posted there. It has died down a fair amount lately, but the old wisdom is still good.
That being said, typically sugaring is a game for guys in their 40's and up. And there is particular attraction of some girls on the site to much older guys. I personally am very grateful for that. I've had SB one-third my age. Don't be trying this yourself, obviously. And then most younger guys don't have the bank to do it, or don't want to spend theirs that way.
Got one looking for new friends. She is asking for 300, do your own negotiations. If you look good she'll go bbfscip no problems. I believe she is late 20's / early 30's. Can host off North Druid Hills in her apartment.
PM me if you are interested.
One more place you need to go. The Richmond VA board. There is an archive of highly useful past posts on sugaring. It used to be that the Richmond thread was the de facto national thread, people from all over posted there. It has died down a fair amount lately, but the old wisdom is still good.
That being said, typically sugaring is a game for guys in their 40's and up. And there is particular attraction of some girls on the site to much older guys. I personally am very grateful for that. I've had SB one-third my age. Don't be trying this yourself, obviously. And then most younger guys don't have the bank to do it, or don't want to spend theirs that way.Yeah that's part reason why I was seeking advice. I worked my ass off the last decade to have the bank to do this.
Like 80 percent of me is okay being married and settled but 20% of me wants more and more adventure.
I've had several people say $500 per visit with an expect $2000 a month budget is good. Thanks to all the advice I've done the math and feel comfortable to start there but I was getting ready to offer her $800 per visit LOL.
FarFarAway
10-02-24, 19:18
Yeah that's part reason why I was seeking advice. I worked my ass off the last decade to have the bank to do this.
Like 80 percent of me is okay being married and settled but 20% of me wants more and more adventure.
I've had several people say $500 per visit with an expect $2000 a month budget is good. Thanks to all the advice I've done the math and feel comfortable to start there but I was getting ready to offer her $800 per visit LOL.You should be getting tip top quality at that allowance. Instagram model quality. I have an IG model I get at 500 per, but she isn't orgasmic w / me, and overall the sex is just pretty good, not mind-blowing. She likes me because I am nice, clean, etc. And is always making me propositions. I am routinely turning those down. And note the market is different in different places. When I travel to a city I try to calibrate that.
More than 500 won't likely buy you a better experience.
GoneForGood97
10-02-24, 23:00
Yeah that's part reason why I was seeking advice. I worked my ass off the last decade to have the bank to do this.
Like 80 percent of me is okay being married and settled but 20% of me wants more and more adventure.
I've had several people say $500 per visit with an expect $2000 a month budget is good. Thanks to all the advice I've done the math and feel comfortable to start there but I was getting ready to offer her $800 per visit LOL.
You should be getting tip top quality at that allowance. Instagram model quality. I have an IG model I get at 500 per, but she isn't orgasmic w / me, and overall the sex is just pretty good, not mind-blowing. She likes me because I am nice, clean, etc. And is always making me propositions. I am routinely turning those down. And note the market is different in different places. When I travel to a city I try to calibrate that.
More than 500 won't likely buy you a better experience.500 is higher than you need to pay in Atlanta. You can get really good mid 20's single moms for 200-300. As FarAway hinted at, you actually end up hitting diminishing returns pretty hard at higher amounts. Joydrop is paying 0 for his unicorn. I've done anywhere from 150-400 allowance, and the sex was NEVER worth more than 300. I wrote up an analysis awhile back when I had a really successful month, comparing experiences for price, and concluded that actually paying more results in worse sex. Girls that want that much are pretty enough to command it and therefore never learn to be "good" in bed. They can starfish and will have a line of guys waiting to see them because they are "insta" pretty. Do you want boring sex with an 8 or fantastic mind blowing sex with a 7? Because in my experience, the more you pay, the worse it usually is. Especially if you're looking for a long term side girlfriend, you don't want someone who is only seeing you because you're a high PPM. It almost certainly means she's $ focused, which means she's seeing you and a few others as well. Don't fall into the trap of thinking "more $ leads to better. " These aren't luxury cars. I suppose if you absolutely want to nail a co ed with a perfect body, 500ppm would guarantee you that.
Here's the analysis I did last year, and no matter how much people moan about inflation, prices haven't gone up triple digits in the past year: http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?14265-quot-Sugar-Babies-quot-and-quot-Arrangements-quot&p=6464044#post6464044.
You should be getting tip top quality at that allowance. Instagram model quality. I have an IG model I get at 500 per, but she isn't orgasmic w / me, and overall the sex is just pretty good, not mind-blowing. She likes me because I am nice, clean, etc. And is always making me propositions. I am routinely turning those down. And note the market is different in different places. When I travel to a city I try to calibrate that.
More than 500 won't likely buy you a better experience.Kind of weird but she she actually is an insta model who spent some time in Dubai. She moved to the states after she cut it off with her fiancée in Dubai and decided to relocate here with her mom whom lives here. She got here 5 months ago and she still doesn't know people here. She said I was her second date but the first was a disaster two gay guys trying to experience something with a girl lmfao. Anyways I'm likely to be the youngest guy in my area with the bag to offer her stability. Sex the first time was orgasmic for her but I think because she hasn't gotten any since she got here. With that being said I feel I could be cheaper but one thing to keep in mind is pump and dump escorts here in Myrtle was no less than 120/150 qv yes it's ridiculous and there is legit no girls in my area anymore which is why I'm excited about this chick. She young. Latina, hot as hell, cute face, and has the Brains.
500 is higher than you need to pay in Atlanta. You can get really good mid 20's single moms for 200-300. As FarAway hinted at, you actually end up hitting diminishing returns pretty hard at higher amounts. Joydrop is paying 0 for his unicorn. I've done anywhere from 150-400 allowance, and the sex was NEVER worth more than 300. I wrote up an analysis awhile back when I had a really successful month, comparing experiences for price, and concluded that actually paying more results in worse sex. Girls that want that much are pretty enough to command it and therefore never learn to be "good" in bed. They can starfish and will have a line of guys waiting to see them because they are "insta" pretty. Do you want boring sex with an 8 or fantastic mind blowing sex with a 7? Because in my experience, the more you pay, the worse it usually is. Especially if you're looking for a long term side girlfriend, you don't want someone who is only seeing you because you're a high PPM. It almost certainly means she's $ focused, which means she's seeing you and a few others as well. Don't fall into the trap of thinking "more $ leads to better. " These aren't luxury cars. I suppose if you absolutely want to nail a co ed with a perfect body, 500ppm would guarantee you that.
Here's the analysis I did last year, and no matter how much people moan about inflation, prices haven't gone up triple digits in the past year: http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?14265-quot-Sugar-Babies-quot-and-quot-Arrangements-quot&p=6464044#post6464044.Well said GoneForGood, this post needs to go in the posts of distinction thread. My hobby budget allowance is in the 150-300 range and I'm doing pretty well.
SeekingHead
10-03-24, 11:19
Yeah that's part reason why I was seeking advice. I worked my ass off the last decade to have the bank to do this.
Like 80 percent of me is okay being married and settled but 20% of me wants more and more adventure.
I've had several people say $500 per visit with an expect $2000 a month budget is good. Thanks to all the advice I've done the math and feel comfortable to start there but I was getting ready to offer her $800 per visit LOL.A little trick which has always worked for me is to offer a little more for the first visit & then less for any further visit. Start with $400 & then $300 for every visit after.
NewAnonymousName
10-03-24, 15:50
Wants $$$ + a hotel b / c they can't host.
https://members.seeking.com/member/e72cf0dc-c9cb-4605-849a-581c6137725bTRANS -- the profile says so.
GoneForGood97
10-03-24, 16:29
A little trick which has always worked for me is to offer a little more for the first visit & then less for any further visit. Start with $400 & then $300 for every visit after.Yeah, I've used this strategy as well. My go to strategy though is to offer to see them more frequently for less per week but more per month. "I could do 400 per date, but I can only see you once or twice a month, so you're getting 400-800 a month. If we do 250 per date, I could see you every week, so you'd be getting at least $1 K per month. Do you want $1 K a month or 400 per month?" They usually agree to the higher per month average, and everyone wins.
She said that she wanted something that started online and then transitioned to us getting to know each other?
Wha. ?
https://members.seeking.com/member/dd2ec2d9-def1-4d12-98ba-f7f285772d07
- Finally, as in all things in life, always hope for the best but plan for the worst. Give yourself outs. Don't take unnecessary risks. If the wife thinks you're in Toledo for business when you're out of town with your SB, actually be in Toledo. Always be very deliberate about the chances you take and be vigilant - never let your guard down. Take the time to think through your worst case scenarios and have plausible excuses well rehearsed and ready to go.
Obviously this is just a quick list of general pointers. Feel free to send me a PM to discuss this further, I'm happy to share more insight on what's worked for me. Good luck!
Shit ALWAYS HAPPENS when you least expect it. I've been in hotels that had to be evacuated due to a fire! Always assume something random is going to happen you'll have to explain why you were in a particular location.
Be where you say you're gonna be. Don't take that gamble of flying to city B when you said you were in city A, because that's when flights will be cancelled or you'll be stuck somewhere you're not supposed to be.
Or even on a smaller scale, you could be the safest driver in the world, but if some dumbass slams into you on the east side of down and you were supposed to be at the office, you're going to have to explain why you were over there during that time of the day. Always have a legit reason to be in the area where you are. It makes it a lot simpler to explain when something completely outside of your control happens.
Nice, small, and cute girl.
We had fun once we got in the room. BBBJ, but everything else covered.
https://members.seeking.com/member/6dbe95a9-48ce-475f-90fd-375ac3ec10bd
Here is her IG, You can definitely find out more about her.
https://www.instagram.com/theonlyskyrrose/
https://members.seeking.com/member/c2e41a81-a47c-4f5b-a401-67a1e6e2d684
Those that have it, is it worth it? Are there a lot of bots?
Peter Johnson
10-03-24, 23:14
Those that have it, is it worth it? Are there a lot of bots?Have you RTFF? Why would we all be paying for Seeking if it wasn't worth it? And yes there are a lot of bots and fake accounts. And they are usually easy to spot.
Any info on this baby would be appreciated.
https://members.seeking.com/member/e46703b1-ab3b-4a8c-b7b9-81202cb20fdeHer schedule was difficult to deal with. But when we did meet up she was submissive, loved to be chocked, and took dick with no problems.
Airmantroy
10-04-24, 12:30
https://members.seeking.com/member/73458893-c678-4b77-a1fd-747d832f28d0
I know somebody had asked way back, don't remember anyone actually meeting her and she's been on the site for 2 years. Anybody got info on her? PM is fine.
Got one looking for new friends. She is asking for 300, do your own negotiations. If you look good she'll go bbfscip no problems. I believe she is late 20's / early 30's. Can host off North Druid Hills in her apartment.
PM me if you are interested.She has enough prospects to vet right now so if you PM me I won't respond.
VoraraMesh66
10-04-24, 21:41
I have seen some post recently talking about arrangement with SBs in range 150-300. It is hard to believe. May be some just want to boast about how great deal they got??
I have connected with around 30-40 profiles in last 1 month and non ready to go below 400. Even if they can not host.
400 seems lowest and it make sense as well with rest of the other mongering options. I don't know what others are talking about.
Peter Johnson
10-04-24, 23:13
I have seen some post recently talking about arrangement with SBs in range 150-300. It is hard to believe. May be some just want to boast about how great deal they got??
I have connected with around 30-40 profiles in last 1 month and non ready to go below 400. Even if they can not host.
400 seems lowest and it make sense as well with rest of the other mongering options. I don't know what others are talking about.What age and quality of women are you hitting up? Sure the 22 y/o blonde co-ed types may be 400 minimum. If you get some pleasant looking thick 33 y/o, then could get by with 300 or less. Or any woman 37+. Or I would think a lot of black girls are 300 or less, but I'm not into that market, so can't really say for sure.
If you find a girl who really shouldn't even be on there, then 200 is probably doable, or even less. I found one who sort of has a tomboy looking face, and thin body, and offered her 200. She sent me a nude pic and body looks really good actually...just an A cup. Or actually that's the first number she came back at me with, and I said sure.
And also if you just get oral and not full sex from some of these girls, it could be less than 300.
But I don't offer anyone who I really want, anything less than 300 now. And if the girl looks like she gets 600, I will mighty offer her 400. And 400 is reasonable for me if CIP, and especially if I can take some pics/video too. But I know you weren't asking what is reasonable, so I didn't mean to go off on a tangent there.
MSmith3034
10-05-24, 07:58
This girl is the biggest con artist and time waster. She is absolutely real, and she lives in north GA / Chattanooga. I played her get-to-know-me game and sent her a few bucks for some decent 'content. ' When she supposedly was en route to meet me subsequently, she needed a little $ for gas and surprise surprise, ghosted and never made it to ATL and came up with lame excuses. Please, waste her time as much as she wasted mine.
Details via PM if needed.
She said that she wanted something that started online and then transitioned to us getting to know each other?
Wha. ?
https://members.seeking.com/member/dd2ec2d9-def1-4d12-98ba-f7f285772d07
GoneForGood97
10-05-24, 11:48
I have seen some post recently talking about arrangement with SBs in range 150-300. It is hard to believe. May be some just want to boast about how great deal they got??
I have connected with around 30-40 profiles in last 1 month and non ready to go below 400. Even if they can not host.
400 seems lowest and it make sense as well with rest of the other mongering options. I don't know what others are talking about.It's really not. I've posted literal screenshots of text conversations in the past showing how I negotiate prices to my reasonable 200-300. I had 2 long term SBs in the past year that were both former models, both in their mid-late 20's, one was 300, white, and she hosted, the other was 250 plus hotel and was a Latina.
You just have to be 1) charming 2) not an asshole 3) not a creep. Talk to them like they are potential girlfriends and not just someone you're paying for a service, and you'll get results. It's also worth mentioning that I had to talk to probably over a hundred girls on the site to find 1 that would meet my criteria of 1) hot and 2) reasonable allowance. If you're messaging 10 girls, only get 2-3 off site into text messages, and then are struggling to get 1 of those girls to meet for a reasonable allowance, you're not talking to enough girls.
You could also be struggling due to ethnicity. I know it's not fair, but if you're talking to white girls then it's just going to be tougher if you're not also white, though enough white girls like exploring other options you could luck out into one of them.
GoneForGood97
10-05-24, 11:57
This girl is the biggest con artist and time waster. She is absolutely real, and she lives in north GA / Chattanooga. I played her get-to-know-me game and sent her a few bucks for some decent 'content. ' When she supposedly was en route to meet me subsequently, she needed a little $ for gas and surprise surprise, ghosted and never made it to ATL and came up with lame excuses. Please, waste her time as much as she wasted mine.
Details via PM if needed.Something something stop paying deposits something all content sellers are scammers something something.
Erthoivy.
Isn't mobile, been trying to schedule a date for months now.
https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?userId=72663621&showCurrent=0&from=discover
Jasmine.
Curious if anyone has met her yet.
https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?userId=73178338&showCurrent=0&from=discover
Ashbash.
Got a date planned with this one. Any info would be appreciated.
https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/message?userId=72092523
Bellamoretti.
Throwing this one back in the water. Wanted 500, got her down to 350. CBJ, cfs. Didn't mind a thumb inside her booty while in doggy. Not a repeat for me due to price. The tongue piercing is removed for those wondering.
https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/message?userId=72562359
Simply Tae.
Lunch date with this one. Hopefully she shows up.
https://members.seeking.com/member/1fcfd38d-6f3d-45f8-9f86-7b09b017ca07
Arativa06.
Curious about this one. Has a boyfriend, can host, wants 400. Not sure if it's worth the risk.
https://members.seeking.com/member/0415c8f0-7e16-42cd-9b44-b334f6c2cca4
High class.
Like her looks, Curious if anyone has any info.
https://members.seeking.com/member/4c7422d9-4df1-4aa6-a6fb-156e96f4396a
Tata.
I'm a sucker for a tongue piercing.
https://members.seeking.com/member/70bd4f1e-87ae-46b4-b7a4-7054ae583832
Emmy.
Another with a pierced tongue. Info is appreciated.
https://members.seeking.com/member/24ec3677-337e-4dd1-9e89-fd452e886578
Classy Chanel.
Chatting with this one.
https://members.seeking.com/member/f48da919-38fe-4b0f-9be4-b53e5932a812
Endearinglady.
Stays busy with work or school.
https://members.seeking.com/member/14bc2d7f-1d8b-4835-8ce6-9f5e458766a7
Keekeebabvy.
Met this one for a meet and greet, body didn't match her pictures. Almost as if she was pregnant. Wants 200 cfs. 300 BBFS.
https://members.seeking.com/member/e21568a1-a00a-47ff-9206-b9a7e3b1960c
Livewithhope7.
Just my type. Won't respond to messages though.
https://members.seeking.com/member/8eacf323-093a-4a06-883d-561c87581a79
Sweetvenus.
Just my type but looks TGTBT.
https://members.seeking.com/member/4027586d-71d0-46d3-810d-f9eb02436452
Aleah
Not in Atlanta, I believe somewhere up North like Wisconsin but plans to move here this month.
https://members.seeking.com/member/a56b09c4-32ec-4fb7-8d09-6220015fdc78
Gracey.
Likes to drink. Was cool with 200. BBBJ, BBFS on the table.
https://members.seeking.com/member/54636406-e055-4bde-a5a4-e4e0457cfae5
CookiesMan
10-06-24, 07:11
I have seen some post recently talking about arrangement with SBs in range 150-300. It is hard to believe. May be some just want to boast about how great deal they got??
I have connected with around 30-40 profiles in last 1 month and non ready to go below 400. Even if they can not host.
400 seems lowest and it make sense as well with rest of the other mongering options. I don't know what others are talking about.Yeah Gone and the others are right you should be able to find some pretty good ones for at least 300. I am usually between 200-400, and $400 is only if she looks really good and I know she could get more on looks alone. There are too many on the site to not be able to find some. You have to approach them like a girl you see for the first time and want to get to know. Yes you have to use some charm and invest in getting to know some of their interests even if you don't really care about them.
Your approach is everything and you will fine a lot of them don't care about how much, but they care about consistency and dependable. They also care if you are a nice guy. Remember these are young women who are mostly only sugaring for a short time to get what they want or help them through a phase in life.
I have been really success with just treating them like a real person and not a lunch snack.
CrimpShrine
10-06-24, 12:26
Something something stop paying deposits something all content sellers are scammers something something."Sent money for content".
Hoooook.
Peter Johnson
10-06-24, 17:44
There are so many fake profiles on Seeking and they are often hitting me up. I used to think they had someone in a call center in Pakistan doing the chatting, but I think they are using AI bots now.
They usually live in "Atlanta" and you ask them where, and they always say "Midtown". Not anything more specific or different than that.
I had the idea to ask them what grocery store they usually go to and one said "Meijr and Valuestore". I don't think those are in GA. But they never get this simple question right. They never say "Publix" or "Kroger" or "Ingles" or anything else that could possibly be correct.
I was talking to this one in Cleveland GA and asked them what big mountain is there, and the grocery store and they said:
"The big mountain I've seen so far since I came here is the Gildersleeve mountain.
And the famous store I visit is the Heinen's grocery store darling.
How about you dear?
I've never heard of Gildersleeve mtn but googled it and one in Ohio. And weird answer about the "famous" grocery store.
I think they are AI bots and they can already generate nearly photo realistic profile pics too, so will probably just get worse.
At least it is fairly easy to spot these fakes and I was only fooled once, for a day or so.
Peter Johnson
10-06-24, 18:22
You just have to be 1) charming 2) not an asshole 3) not a creep. Talk to them like they are potential girlfriends and not just someone you're paying for a service, and you'll get results. Just to add to these good points. Always remember that these girls are on the site for $$$. It's not like a regular dating app, where you have to seduce them with your good looks and game. You just want to sound normal and not turn them off or sound dangerous. They love dick and they probably are fine with hanging out with an older guy, even if the sex is just "ok" they get paid. I've had girls who are really into it and other who just close their eyes and probably think about someone else while they enjoy the most pleasurable internal pussy massage. Beyond that, many of them enjoy the fantasy of being a bad girl and getting paid to pleasure older guys.
But my main point is that they don't really care much if you sound geeky or whatever. Sure you don't want to sound like an autistic incel (and I do have genuine pity for those guys). I just speak to them like I would anyone else, and if I think they are beautiful, I will tell them that and won't try to play it cool. They know they are attractive and they likely enjoy being admired and worshipped for it, to some extent. Plus I like just being honest and telling them their ass looks incredible from their pics or what beautiful breasts. I don't think it turns them off.
Unless they are too hot and then I will admit, it does throw me off balance, and I cannot do exactly what I am advising here. But I just accept that they are going to see me as some lonely/horny old dude and whatever I say is not going to change that. As long as they think I am safe, and that I have deep pockets, I'm likely in there.
NewAnonymousName
10-06-24, 19:06
Any information about Brooke?
https://members.seeking.com/member/a218c4c9-54be-4acb-ac26-7e7da50e64a9
Peter Johnson
10-06-24, 22:21
https://members.seeking.com/member/3b8f1e2b-8b5e-4294-af53-66ed59a717eb
Talked to this one at length.
Hairy pits, hairy legs, hairy bush.
Is in a relationship, but he's ok with it.
CIP is possible, with recent clean tests, but otherwise CFS.
Is ok with BBBJ but not DATY.
Is ok with pics during session.
Nice girl seems very personable.
Wants 500 ppm. Or she says "Donation", which sounds too escort-why to me, but ppm is not much better.
Anyway, I will pass because 500 is pushing it hard...or beyond my usual line. And I need DATY for that too.
Erthoivy.
Isn't mobile, been trying to schedule a date for months now.
https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?tid=af100011222-m&userId=72663621&showCurrent=0&from=discover
Jasmine.
Curious if anyone has met her yet.
https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?tid=af100011222-m&userId=73178338&showCurrent=0&from=discover
Ashbash.
Got a date planned with this one. Any info would be appreciated.
https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/message?tid=af100011222-m&userId=72092523
Bellamoretti.
Throwing this one back in the water. Wanted 500, got her down to 350. CBJ, cfs. Didn't mind a thumb inside her booty while in doggy. Not a repeat for me due to price. The tongue piercing is removed for those wondering.
https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/message?tid=af100011222-m&userId=72562359
Simply Tae.
Lunch date with this one. Hopefully she shows up.
https://members.seeking.com/member/1fcfd38d-6f3d-45f8-9f86-7b09b017ca07
Arativa06.
Curious about this one. Has a boyfriend, can host, wants 400. Not sure if it's worth the risk.
https://members.seeking.com/member/0415c8f0-7e16-42cd-9b44-b334f6c2cca4
High class.
Like her looks, Curious if anyone has any info.
https://members.seeking.com/member/4c7422d9-4df1-4aa6-a6fb-156e96f4396aThanks for sharing those, I like BellaMoretti's look, sometimes you can get the price down a bit if you offer to see them regularly. I've had a few which will go lower depending on if they need cash in a hurry or just prefer having you as a regular. Not a fan of CFS either, but they'll usually open to bare once you've seen them more than once. Worse case, go to STDCheck or something and show them you're clean.
The girl with the boyfriend sounds like it be fun too, guess it depends how big he is LOL.
https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?tid=af100011222-m&userId=72275583
Wants 400, can't host. Also see link below.
https://www.maturetubehere.com/videos/639320/my-neighbour-s-cheating-wife-let-me-shoot-a-sextape/?utm_source=iwankIsn't she a bit too young to be on MatureTube? If she can give you as good a massage as in that video, she's earned the $400 Love the lighskinned hotties.
Peter Johnson
10-08-24, 00:28
https://members.seeking.com/member/8d589c2e-f721-4720-b922-f53cecb472b4
I could go into the whole long story here, but I basically I was supposed to meet her at a local park for a quick date. But instead she takes a pic of my license plate and the threatens to go to the police if I don't send her $100 (which I did not do).
And you can see how bizarre those pics are, on her profile. I don't know why I even agreed to meet her. Just was being lazy and reckless, I suppose. She hit me up when I first got back signed up on the site and I saw lots of red flags, but still thought like some fun a the park could be worth it.
She didn't even come up to my vehicle, so had no interest in doing anything. But she did message me (on Signal) the pic of my plate, so she does have it. It's a rental car though, so even less of a concern. Then she keeps messaging me that she's at the police station, about to file the report.
I suggest blocking, but up to you.
LikeMike1963
10-08-24, 09:11
Although certainly a bit unnerving at first when threatened.
1) What is she going to go to the police for?
02 I strongly suspect if Shen went to the police. She is likely to be arrested for a warrant of some so. Sooooo yeaahhh. That's not happening.
https://members.seeking.com/member/8d589c2e-f721-4720-b922-f53cecb472b4
I could go into the whole long story here, but I basically I was supposed to meet her at a local park for a quick date. But instead she takes a pic of my license plate and the threatens to go to the police if I don't send her $100 (which I did not do).
And you can see how bizarre those pics are, on her profile. I don't know why I even agreed to meet her. Just was being lazy and reckless, I suppose. She hit me up when I first got back signed up on the site and I saw lots of red flags, but still thought like some fun a the park could be worth it.
She didn't even come up to my vehicle, so had no interest in doing anything. But she did message me (on Signal) the pic of my plate, so she does have it. It's a rental car though, so even less of a concern. Then she keeps messaging me that she's at the police station, about to file the report.
I suggest blocking, but up to you.
Peter Johnson
10-08-24, 10:56
Although certainly a bit unnerving at first when threatened.
1) What is she going to go to the police for?
02 I strongly suspect if Shen went to the police. She is likely to be arrested for a warrant of some so. Sooooo yeaahhh. That's not happening.Exactly. She said she was going to show the entire chat, on Signal, to the police and I would be arrested for "solicitation". But she's the one who messages me every day, and wants to get together.
I pointed out that the chat also shows that she is threatening me, and insisting I send her money, which is extortion. She agreed and said "blackmail" is more accurate, but she doesn't care.
She doesn't have my name or phone number, even. But I did send her my pics, which I know can be used with Facecheck to get my real name, which is bad. I wish there was some way to change this. I need to be much more careful who I send my pics to now.
This morning she messaged me:
"I didn't turn you in and I never would I just lost my car".
So many crazies out there.
BrownSugaTwo
10-08-24, 13:14
https://members.seeking.com/member/8d589c2e-f721-4720-b922-f53cecb472b4
I could go into the whole long story here, but I basically I was supposed to meet her at a local park for a quick date. But instead she takes a pic of my license plate and the threatens to go to the police if I don't send her $100 (which I did not do).
And you can see how bizarre those pics are, on her profile. I don't know why I even agreed to meet her. Just was being lazy and reckless, I suppose. She hit me up when I first got back signed up on the site and I saw lots of red flags, but still thought like some fun a the park could be worth it.
She didn't even come up to my vehicle, so had no interest in doing anything. But she did message me (on Signal) the pic of my plate, so she does have it. It's a rental car though, so even less of a concern. Then she keeps messaging me that she's at the police station, about to file the report.
I suggest blocking, but up to you.I had a series of shady text messages with her. She didn't outright ask for money before meeting, but it never felt right. I guess my instincts were correct. She has multiple profiles I think, but the pics on both profiles are similar.
I had a series of shady text messages with her. She didn't outright ask for money before meeting, but it never felt right. I guess my instincts were correct. She has multiple profiles I think, but the pics on both profiles are similar.I had conversations with this one too but nothing as crazy as blackmail. She tells me she's ill and needs $$ for meds but still wants to meet. After some back and forth I tell her once she gets her medical situation handled to hmu. Definite scammer.
Peter Johnson
10-09-24, 13:13
Ok I already took some heat from Carmel , from posting my bad experience on the board, to help you guys. Someone here told her about what I wrote and then more threats, but I think she finally calmed down. No good deed goes unpunished.
The latest is that I got this message on Signal from some girl that I must have talked to, probably in Asheville. I can't figure out her Seeking profile, so maybe I already blocked and deleted her? And I can't even find the rest of her Signal messages so I probably deleted those too, a few days ago
But my point is that I don't even remember who she is and I've just been back on Seeking for two weeks, so it must have been recent, and we must have barely talked or I would remember.
But this is what she wrote:
"This is my last message to you before I block you here too, because I hope it gives you some clarity on something I personally felt was obvious.
No, it wasn't my plan to come here and fuck you over. I in fact felt extremely obligated to move forward with you because of your generosity, even though you were actually starting to scare me. You were being pushy, unempathetic towards me literally having to evacuate my home, you were demanding of my time. I've pushed myself to do things I felt obligated to do with men because of their generosity in the past and trust me, the trauma that leaves me with is far more detrimental than someone like you losing a little money. I wasn't about to put myself in a situation to meet you, not be down with you (which based off of your pushiness I probably wouldn't have fucked with you anyway), and then feel stuck.
If you want to make something like this work with a real woman and not have it be so transactional feeling, which neither of us want, you need to be a little more considerate of people's emotions and whether or not you're cultivating an environment that feels safe. I have made arrangements work many times and it requires two people who actually, seriously get down with one another, something that you and I don't have. I need more emotional intelligence from a man.
Sorry this didn't work out, best of luck. ".
I'm in ATL and she is in NC. I never made plans to go there. I never put any pressure her at all to do anything. I don't even remember who she is. Just totally wacky, and you can read between the lines and see how many issues she has.
FarFarAway
10-09-24, 16:52
I had one who I had texted with off the site. Things dropped off a bit, and I tried to revive the conversation. We got into a back and forth about how she was certain I had invited her over to my house, got her into the hot tub, was crazy drunk and did all sorts of stupid shit, and she bailed. I claimed innocence, I'd never met her, I have a SO so I could not have had her at my home. She told me all sorts of stuff about my children, which, IRL, I have none.
Anyway, some people literally cannot be reasoned with. The current political situation in the US is evidence of that. In this case, I just took the attitude that there are lots of women on seeking and related dating sites, I never have to have any particular one, and in fact this person did me a favor by revealing (early in our interactions) just how nutty and unreliable she would be as a SB. So, that block button really comes in handy.
MadDog1746
10-09-24, 17:25
Ok I already took some heat from Carmel , from posting my bad experience on the board, to help you guys. Someone here told her about what I wrote and then more threats, but I think she finally calmed down. No good deed goes unpunished.
The latest is that I got this message on Signal from some girl that I must have talked to, probably in Asheville. I can't figure out her Seeking profile, so maybe I already blocked and deleted her? And I can't even find the rest of her Signal messages so I probably deleted those too, a few days ago
But my point is that I don't even remember who she is and I've just been back on Seeking for two weeks, so it must have been recent, and we must have barely talked or I would remember.
But this is what she wrote:
"This is my last message to you before I block you here too, because I hope it gives you some clarity on something I personally felt was obvious.
No, it wasn't my plan to come here and fuck you over. I in fact felt extremely obligated to move forward with you because of your generosity, even though you were actually starting to scare me. You were being pushy, unempathetic towards me literally having to evacuate my home, you were demanding of my time. I've pushed myself to do things I felt obligated to do with men because of their generosity in the past and trust me, the trauma that leaves me with is far more detrimental than someone like you losing a little money. I wasn't about to put myself in a situation to meet you, not be down with you (which based off of your pushiness I probably wouldn't have fucked with you anyway), and then feel stuck.That is why I don't put too much info on here that can give me away. I have to be cautious these days. I mainly dabbled in the escort market and felt that is good to not give away information but recently got into the cuddling game and they try and figure you out LOL.
CocoMuffin
10-10-24, 09:02
Verbatim her dm to me.
"Come fuck my throat daddy and let me squirt on you".
Loves anal too apparently.
Anya.
https://members.seeking.com/member/3b02f237-5672-415b-8aae-cb684a8656be
500.
CocoMuffin
10-10-24, 09:07
I've been talking to her too. She reeks of desperation and super pushy via text. Doesn't help that she isn't cute.
https://members.seeking.com/member/8d589c2e-f721-4720-b922-f53cecb472b4
I could go into the whole long story here, but I basically I was supposed to meet her at a local park for a quick date. But instead she takes a pic of my license plate and the threatens to go to the police if I don't send her $100 (which I did not do).
And you can see how bizarre those pics are, on her profile. I don't know why I even agreed to meet her. Just was being lazy and reckless, I suppose. She hit me up when I first got back signed up on the site and I saw lots of red flags, but still thought like some fun a the park could be worth it.
She didn't even come up to my vehicle, so had no interest in doing anything. But she did message me (on Signal) the pic of my plate, so she does have it. It's a rental car though, so even less of a concern. Then she keeps messaging me that she's at the police station, about to file the report.
I suggest blocking, but up to you.
MilfHunter818
10-10-24, 15:31
https://members.seeking.com/member/dea05b69-9a87-46c9-a691-bf74fd2ebcb2
Anyone talking to her? She seems fun but looks like a time waster. You can send a PM if you want.
MajMilkDuds
10-10-24, 15:37
https://members.seeking.com/member/dea05b69-9a87-46c9-a691-bf74fd2ebcb2
Anyone talking to her? She seems fun but looks like a time waster. You can send a PM if you want.You can see if from her profile. She said looking for Online arrangement. I am baffled Seeking even allows this to still be up.
MilfHunter818
10-10-24, 17:01
You can see if from her profile. She said looking for Online arrangement. I am baffled Seeking even allows this to still be up.It did say she'd meet after being comfortable.
MajMilkDuds
10-10-24, 17:15
It did say she'd meet after being comfortable.But she will not be comfortable ever. Just continually asking for money allowance for online.
MSmith3034
10-10-24, 20:12
This ☝65039;9757;65039;9757;65039;.
Why go to the time and trouble to ever meet if guys will continually send money to a girl to stay home and sext? A girl friend confided in me that she meets-and-greets guys for coffee for $200, promising more on subsequent dates with no plans to follow through.
Seeking was much better about the enforcement of no "online-only" profiles pre-Covid. Speaking of which, that was an excuse for many for a while too.
But she will not be comfortable ever. Just continually asking for money allowance for online.
The only way to combat this is to report them to seeking. In your report make sure you say they're advertising online only right on their profile and tell them it's a violation of their terms of service. Everyone should do this. If they get enough kickback from paying members maybe it'll force their hand. Just my two cents.
You can see if from her profile. She said looking for Online arrangement. I am baffled Seeking even allows this to still be up.
The only way to combat this is to report them to seeking. In your report make sure you say they're advertising online only right on their profile and tell them it's a violation of their terms of service. Everyone should do this. If they get enough kickback from paying members maybe it'll force their hand. Just my two cents.I did report a scammer 1 x and guess what? Seeking went through my chats and flagged certain conversations and words and sent me to a virtual re-education camp. So a monger chatting with SBs and looking to score is going to bring attention to themselves by reporting a person offering "online only" when you could ignore it and mind your own business? To each his own.
Peter Johnson
10-11-24, 13:29
https://members.seeking.com/member/d696610c-d179-4147-8286-20e59c843728
I love this girl, and wasn't planning to share yet...and have your guys' dirty d*cks in there, but she is a real sweetheart and can use the help.
She's actually from AL and just comes to visit ATL occasionally, but she's here right now, and staying in Marietta.
She is thick, and some would say fat, but big tits and sweet 23 y/o face. But if you only like the spinner types, she's probably not for you. CIP was on the table for me, but not sure about with everyone. Probably, but I don't want to think about that...(so not sure if she is high volume or not).
Anyway, I obviously recommend her, but YMMV, as always. And if you don't have a Seeking sub and want her info, if you have a long post history and feel like you are legit, I can probably give you her # or how to contact her on the more secure and private Signal Messenger app (that I recommend we all use).
Anyone seen this one? Was comfortable going straight to text but the lack of verifications is concerning.
https://members.seeking.com/member/5df26a29-b37c-4121-b307-3a92312303c1
Anyone seen this one? Was comfortable going straight to text but the lack of verifications is concerning.
https://members.seeking.com/member/5df26a29-b37c-4121-b307-3a92312303c1Got my answer very quickly, she is a dirty faker!
MadDog1746
10-11-24, 20:20
This one is talking good so far and gave me a ppm. Has anyone seen her or talked to her before I jump in and see what she is about?
https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?userId=72851117
Cudjoe Man
10-12-24, 09:56
She is on the other site as well. See link below. From her, I received an unsolicited message right of the bat asking if I want a PPM. I am not too turned on by her like some others on the site I am communicating with. I reached out to and is now sugar dating a 22-year-old much more to my liking, yesterday we went on a dinner date then to hotel to do the deed. Plan to repeat a few more times with her before doing a review here.
https://members.seeking.com/member/4220bc02-72cf-41a1-9a5e-c817528ffde8
Arabian7.
This one is talking good so far and gave me a ppm. Has anyone seen her or talked to her before I jump in and see what she is about?
https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userP...serId=72851117
This one is talking good so far and gave me a ppm. Has anyone seen her or talked to her before I jump in and see what she is about?
https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?userId=72851117
She is on the other site as well. See link below. From her, I received an unsolicited message right of the bat asking if I want a PPM. I am not too turned on by her like some others on the site I am communicating with. I reached out to and is now sugar dating a 22-year-old much more to my liking, yesterday we went on a dinner date then to hotel to do the deed. Plan to repeat a few more times with her before doing a review here.
https://members.seeking.com/member/4220bc02-72cf-41a1-9a5e-c817528ffde8
Arabian7.
This one is talking good so far and gave me a ppm. Has anyone seen her or talked to her before I jump in and see what she is about?
https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?tid=af100011222-m&userId=72851117No red flags, not a fan of neck tattoos but each to their own Fact she's on two sites is a good sign though.
Kingjack543
10-13-24, 21:31
I'll be sharing a few that I've come across and really liked, as well as some that I haven't seen yet but would love more information on. If anyone knows any cute white chicks and can share their details with me, that would be awesome! Feel free to send me a private message with the info.
1. https://members.seeking.com/member/0e3e94bb-7bfc-4dd2-af99-c73b0d64868e.
She's pretty chill. A big thicker than the pics. Would love to see her again but lost her number. If someone can give me her number that would be dope.
2. https://members.seeking.com/member/e9984f1f-de3f-4583-958c-e778d7921f66.
Haven't seen her but a buddy has and said she's good. Anyone got any info on her.
3. https://members.seeking.com/member/f0c54bde-4c4f-4d85-8507-032fe56ad005.
Bunch of people seen her. I haven't seen her but heard she's wild.
4. https://members.seeking.com/member/1b8c266e-02df-4f9d-88da-16fad11bbd8a.
Would love info on this chick.
5. https://members.seeking.com/member/58e95177-2b13-4032-821f-3381b1f26073.
Would love this girls info. She use to do threesome with another chick. The other chick got a BF so she's by her self.
6. https://members.seeking.com/member/e2a5f3fe-4f1a-463b-bf7a-3e7a50d98039.
College chick. She has a nice body. Charges close to $400.
7. https://members.seeking.com/member/f2cad06a-7672-4e0d-adc4-8dd7acd12d72.
Charges $500 and slim.
[QUOTE=MadDog1746;7063224]This one is talking good so far and gave me a ppm. Has anyone seen her or talked to her before I jump in and see what she is about?
https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?userId=72851117[/QUOTE
I remember her being mentioned here few times, remember the first time she was mentioned I looked her profile and she sent me a message wanting to meet ASAP but the same day she posted on listcrwler so I discard her, then few days after someone her post about her, she drinks and open for almost everything according with the report.
2me4Looking2
10-14-24, 14:55
I did report a scammer 1 x and guess what? Seeking went through my chats and flagged certain conversations and words and sent me to a virtual re-education camp. So a monger chatting with SBs and looking to score is going to bring attention to themselves by reporting a person offering "online only" when you could ignore it and mind your own business? To each his own.I had the exact same experience. I used to report these scammers, but then they flagged my account and I had to read through some BS terms before they would let me back on. After that I don't bother. Just block them and move on.
DudeNextDoor
10-16-24, 09:03
Does anyone have any experience with her? I believe there's been a post about her before but I can't find it. Feel free to PM me as well. Thanks.
https://members.seeking.com/member/b5b9b66d-4bb1-446d-87cd-cad400b656b9
Airmantroy
10-16-24, 12:30
https://members.seeking.com/member/ee24cc0d-12f2-45bd-91fe-dedcdeeca0df
You have been warned. See my rip off post in Athens section for details. She's back.
Peter Johnson
10-16-24, 15:31
https://members.seeking.com/member/ee24cc0d-12f2-45bd-91fe-dedcdeeca0df
You have been warned. See my rip off post in Athens section for details. She's back.SBs should not have the ability to "cash and dash", because they get their PPM at the end of the session. I don't like to give it to them beforehand, because feels too transactional, and they they are also less motivated to put in the effort, on the date.
But I have been in that situation before, where the girl does want it up front, and you already in the hotel room, so not really any perfect solution then.
Kacey immediately went to texting without asking to see my pictures. Within five text comments, she said the long sad story which I was able to verify in a 2023 post in another city.
https://members.seeking.com/member/8f042ee2-00d9-48b9-990d-33074fadaac2
"Most people would see this not even read it without giving me a chance but I have to try so I'm sorry if this burdens you. I'm a single mother to my 2 year old Jackson and he has a rare genetic condition where he has no immune system called ada scid. One of the only things that can help at this point is a bone marrow / stem cell transplant and it's scheduled in a couple days. Up until this point he's been taking two medications one is revcovi and the other is hizentra both help his symptoms, this month I'm short on how much I need to get them I recently moved here because of something that happened back home and truthfully I know what this looks and sounds like. I've been completely alone through all of this which is another huge reason for me being on the site. And I'm not asking you to undertake all these burdens or give me hundreds of thousands of dollars. Truthfully the first reason I came to the site was to meet someone in a place where I don't know anyone or anything. I'm hoping to spend time with someone physically and emotionally and to just forget the scary things going on also. Idk but if there's anyway you'll help me with the rest of the money I need for his medicine and meet me in a couple days. It means more then you know even if you just give me a chance to prove to you. Once he goes into the hospital he'll be there for about 8 weeks. The first two weeks hes there I won't be aloud to have physical contact with him so I'll only be able to see him through a window. And I honestly don't know even one single person here so yes that means I can't meet just yet but I truly do want to. So if there's anyway you could find it in your heart to give me a couple min to prove to you I'm real and genuine I won't let you down. ".
Peter Johnson
10-16-24, 18:56
Does anyone have any experience with her? I believe there's been a post about her before but I can't find it. Feel free to PM me as well. Thanks.
https://members.seeking.com/member/b5b9b66d-4bb1-446d-87cd-cad400b656b9I was talking to her, but something seemed a bit off, so I moved her to the backburner.
JohnnyKash
10-16-24, 20:33
No red flags, not a fan of neck tattoos but each to their own Fact she's on two sites is a good sign though.Do you know her PPM.
There has been a post about her few days ago which inspired me to see her. TLDR, bigger (much) than her pictures, not very active in bed but very sweet.
First, I am not contradicting the other member's review about her, he was definitely honest about her size and the picture he posted is a more accurate representation of her. She is at least 50-75 pounds bigger than her pictures. Which imo puts her between fetish big and fat. She had two kids so there is a good chunk of baby damage as well.
Pros:
- Hosted.
- Great sloppy head.
- very sweet and will definitely spend the evening with you.
Cons:
- Big.
- Loves to talk! To the point I had to ask her to get down to business.
- had some pro vibes.
MadDog1746
10-16-24, 21:43
Do you know her PPM.It was 300 ppm.
Peter Johnson
10-17-24, 01:31
There has been a post about her few days ago which inspired me to see her. TLDR, bigger (much) than her pictures, not very active in bed but very sweet.
First, I am not contradicting the other member's review about her, he was definitely honest about her size and the picture he posted is a more accurate representation of her. She is at least 50-75 pounds bigger than her pictures. Which imo puts her between fetish big and fat. She had two kids so there is a good chunk of baby damage as well.
Pros:
- Hosted.
- Great sloppy head.
- very sweet and will definitely spend the evening with you.
Cons:
- Big.
- Loves to talk! To the point I had to ask her to get down to business.
- had some pro vibes.Of course it's always YMMV, but I don't remember her being too talkative at all. She was very friendly, but didn't talk too much for me. Maybe you just inspired her somehow in that area.
I don't remember any baby damage, but I don't doubt it is there. Perhaps I subconsciously blocked it out.
I don't think I have any kind of fetish for bigger girls, (although there is some evidence to the contrary). She just seemed thick to me, until after I finished and she was getting dressed, and I did have the thought "she is fatter than I was thinking".
The BBBJ was good, but I don't remember it being that remarkable. But I just thought she was a real sweetheart and was really fun being with her. I agree with the pro vibes, and I wouldn't suggest to anyone that she is "low volume".
Anyway, she was in a bad financial situation and I'm glad the guys on here are helping her a good bit lately.
MSmith3034
10-17-24, 08:56
Agreed in that the funds should be transferred discreetly at the end of a session. If a girl has been taken advantage of before and not paid by a SD or wants it up front, 2 options come to mind that I've done:
1) Half before and half after, but only once we're in private and with no easy opportunity for her to skip out. Show her the other half is in hand and ready for her after the session.
2) Full amount (or half) is placed in the open in a mutually visible and accessible location but is not picked up by the recipient until the deed is done. If your SB is not agreeable to any of the above, she doesn't have honest intentions, and there is no trust / confidence, or she is not wanting to earn the funds - think with the proper head and bail, even if that costs some cash and / or time and effort.
SBs should not have the ability to "cash and dash", because they get their PPM at the end of the session. I don't like to give it to them beforehand, because feels too transactional, and they they are also less motivated to put in the effort, on the date.
But I have been in that situation before, where the girl does want it up front, and you already in the hotel room, so not really any perfect solution then.
Airmantroy
10-17-24, 09:41
SBs should not have the ability to "cash and dash", because they get their PPM at the end of the session. I don't like to give it to them beforehand, because feels too transactional, and they they are also less motivated to put in the effort, on the date.
But I have been in that situation before, where the girl does want it up front, and you already in the hotel room, so not really any perfect solution then.
Agreed in that the funds should be transferred discreetly at the end of a session. If a girl has been taken advantage of before and not paid by a SD or wants it up front, 2 options come to mind that I've done:
1) Half before and half after, but only once we're in private and with no easy opportunity for her to skip out. Show her the other half is in hand and ready for her after the session.
2) Full amount (or half) is placed in the open in a mutually visible and accessible location but is not picked up by the recipient until the deed is done. If your SB is not agreeable to any of the above, she doesn't have honest intentions, and there is no trust / confidence, or she is not wanting to earn the funds - think with the proper head and bail, even if that costs some cash and / or time and effort.Backstory- I had seen her solo one time and for a threesome with her friend one time. Had a great time on both occasions and didn't have any reservations about having another threesome. I secured a room closer to them (Monroe area) and they came over, it was a hot humid day and her friend asked if she could rinse off. Obviously I'd prefer them to be shower fresh. She wanted to run out to their car and hit a blunt first, whatever. While I was opening the door the theif grabbed the funds from the dresser and said she wanted to hit the blunt too. By the time I noticed the funds were gone, they were hauling ass out of the parking lot. She re-appeared on the site a couple of weeks later and I extracted my time and trouble in the most epic way, and I'm actually thinking of doing something similar again, just because I'm that spiteful SOB and they are too dumb to know what's happening.
This one is talking good so far and gave me a ppm. Has anyone seen her or talked to her before I jump in and see what she is about?
https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?userId=72851117 (https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?tid=af100011222-m&userId=72851117)
I remember her being mentioned here few times, remember the first time she was mentioned I looked her profile and she sent me a message wanting to meet ASAP but the same day she posted on listcrwler so I discard her, then few days after someone her post about her, she drinks and open for almost everything according with the report.Thanks for confirming her, yes she does have that working girl look to her. At least you'll get what you pay for (and hopefully nothing more) .
TooHotForYou
10-17-24, 21:18
I was talking to her, but something seemed a bit off, so I moved her to the backburner.I asked her for clear pictures of her face and body together, told her it didn't have to be nude, and she got pissed. Something is off indeed.
Johnny Mapalo
10-18-24, 09:54
They've been messaging on the Seeking site for years but I never hooked up with neither.
https://members.seeking.com/member/ac3a1475-e7a7-4cd5-8be6-b63099fcfce0
https://members.seeking.com/member/63c8d704-d7d5-432e-9a01-7b34267d4151
She re-appeared on the site a couple of weeks later and I extracted my time and trouble in the most epic way, and I'm actually thinking of doing something similar again, just because I'm that spiteful SOB and they are too dumb to know what's happening.Come on now, you have to share.
Airmantroy
10-18-24, 14:48
Come on now, you have to share.It didn't involve bodily harm. Just a giant waste of her time and a brush with the Dekalb uncles.
LovePunnany
10-18-24, 20:10
So, I have had the pleasure of being on both sites over the years and hands down I have had the best results on SDM.
I was on Seeking for the past 3 month and after sorting through all the bogus profiles, professional providers and lady boys on the site I was only able to bag 1 baby. Now, I have only been on SDM for the last 2 weeks and I have gotten two babies already. They are not professionals, both are college students, my donation for each visit is $150 and they rock my world in bed. Everything sexually is on the menu. Literally they are like my girlfriends. Now there are some disadvantages with SDM, however I just deal with them as best as possible.
Overall SDM hands down for me. As I stated this is just my personal opinion.
Safe safe.
https://members.seeking.com/member/ee24cc0d-12f2-45bd-91fe-dedcdeeca0df
You have been warned. See my rip off post in Athens section for details. She's back.Is she in Athens? As the profile states?
MilfHunter818
10-19-24, 12:04
SBs should not have the ability to "cash and dash", because they get their PPM at the end of the session. I don't like to give it to them beforehand, because feels too transactional, and they they are also less motivated to put in the effort, on the date.
But I have been in that situation before, where the girl does want it up front, and you already in the hotel room, so not really any perfect solution then.On first meets for me, I tell them they have to get topless before I hand over anything. Has worked out great so far.
SoonerFan72
10-19-24, 14:23
Does anyone have any experience with her? I believe there's been a post about her before but I can't find it. Feel free to PM me as well. Thanks.
https://members.seeking.com/member/b5b9b66d-4bb1-446d-87cd-cad400b656b9I'm interested as well. Dude, I tried to DM you to see if you heard anything, your inbox is full. If you gathered any intel, please DM me.
Same goes for anyone else with info. Thanks.
So, I have had the pleasure of being on both sites over the years and hands down I have had the best results on SDM.
I was on Seeking for the past 3 month and after sorting through all the bogus profiles, professional providers and lady boys on the site I was only able to bag 1 baby. Now, I have only been on SDM for the last 2 weeks and I have gotten two babies already. They are not professionals, both are college students, my donation for each visit is $150 and they rock my world in bed. Everything sexually is on the menu. Literally they are like my girlfriends. Now there are some disadvantages with SDM, however I just deal with them as best as possible.
Overall SDM hands down for me. As I stated this is just my personal opinion.
Safe safe.I've used both too, started with Seeking and Seeking is still good if you're outside the US, but SDM seems to have a lot of non-pros looking to make a bit of extra cash.
These are a couple I found that looked like they are open to PPM and have a regular girl look to them. Usually, I'll just message them all and see if anybody bites. Haven't found anybody for $150 yet, but then I'm in my 40's, so if you're a younger guy you can probably clean up on this site.
Arisosa, 21, Sugar Hill.
https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?tid=af100011222-m&userId=73252889
"Ready to find a serious mutually benefical relationship long term, not here for one night onlys!
Nicole, 22, Atlanta.
https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?tid=af100011222-m&userId=73237732&nsp=1
"Quick learner and can quickly meet expectations. Short-term / Casual relationship".
Esme, 22, Griffin.
https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?tid=af100011222-m&userId=67837782&nsp=1
"I want to be your sugar b*by*. I go to college, I live on my own*.
Diva, 21, Atlanta.
https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?tid=af100011222-m&userId=72945838&nsp=1
"currently looking for a short term arrangement but long term is possible".
Sofi2834,22, Atlanta.
https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?tid=af100011222-m&userId=69320884&nsp=1
"prefer a longterm discreet arrangement. I require an allowance. Monthly or PPM. ".
MadDog1746
10-21-24, 12:53
Anyone seen this one? She is talking good and about to try out.
https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?userId=71784875
MajMilkDuds
10-21-24, 13:17
https://members.seeking.com/member/90c3c6f4-0224-4c32-b75f-975bb2a9b00e
Talking to this one. Talks a good game and seems grounded. Can report back or if soneone has info I'd love to know.
This one is talking good so far and gave me a ppm. Has anyone seen her or talked to her before I jump in and see what she is about?
https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?userId=72851117I've seen her before. Nice girl, not much in the tits department though.
Gives great BBBJ, tho.
Kingjack543
10-21-24, 16:08
https://members.seeking.com/member/90c3c6f4-0224-4c32-b75f-975bb2a9b00e
Talking to this one. Talks a good game and seems grounded. Can report back or if soneone has info I'd love to know.Let me know what she says. She looks pretty good. If you get her number let me know.
Anyone have any experience with this one? First saw her in the knoxville area now in Atlanta. Talks a great game but haven't been able to set anything up.
https://members.seeking.com/member/3c240d01-a4fd-4520-a17a-2933d8f2763a
DudeNextDoor
10-22-24, 16:19
Has anyone met Angel? She's super cute and very close to me. Would be incredibly convenient. So far my only red flag is she's a bit too spontaneous and goes dark around when it's time to meet. To be fair we've kept our timing kinda loose since she's so close but I've been getting a sense that she gets pre-occupied easily or maybe gets cold feet or something else. If you have any experience would love to know. Will share a few recent interactions with others soon.
https://members.seeking.com/member/a5106659-7951-4b78-a7e0-6f259a1a7c07
Saw her for around 2 years. She flakes a lot and you need to get used to her way. Many daddies saw her. She used to be low volume until 6 months back now she is high volume.
Has anyone met Angel? She's super cute and very close to me. Would be incredibly convenient. So far my only red flag is she's a bit too spontaneous and goes dark around when it's time to meet. To be fair we've kept our timing kinda loose since she's so close but I've been getting a sense that she gets pre-occupied easily or maybe gets cold feet or something else. If you have any experience would love to know. Will share a few recent interactions with others soon.
https://members.seeking.com/member/a5106659-7951-4b78-a7e0-6f259a1a7c07
Her pics are catfish. I kicked her out of my room as she is no way close to the pics and I didn't like her.
Anyone have any experience with this one? First saw her in the knoxville area now in Atlanta. Talks a great game but haven't been able to set anything up.
https://members.seeking.com/member/3c240d01-a4fd-4520-a17a-2933d8f2763a
Peter Johnson
10-24-24, 01:22
Has anyone met Angel? She's super cute and very close to me. Would be incredibly convenient. So far my only red flag is she's a bit too spontaneous and goes dark around when it's time to meet. To be fair we've kept our timing kinda loose since she's so close but I've been getting a sense that she gets pre-occupied easily or maybe gets cold feet or something else. If you have any experience would love to know. Will share a few recent interactions with others soon.
https://members.seeking.com/member/a5106659-7951-4b78-a7e0-6f259a1a7c07I saw her too, and she is a bit flaky and often is running late. But I did have a good time with her and she was fine with pics and video, BBFS and CIP, I think. It was a couple of years ago, so trying to remember. But nice girl and I would recommend, although was not sensational.
Peter Johnson
10-24-24, 01:25
https://members.seeking.com/member/90c3c6f4-0224-4c32-b75f-975bb2a9b00e
Talking to this one. Talks a good game and seems grounded. Can report back or if soneone has info I'd love to know.I met her for M&G, but never got together for real fun, although that was my fault (long story), but she is super smart, and body is incredible if you like slightly thick, buxom girls. But PPM is probably $600+, and I think she really prefers allowance.
MadDog1746
10-24-24, 14:41
Anyone seen this one? She is talking good and about to try out.
https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?userId=71784875So one of them finally got me! She was talking good and got her off the site and she kept flaking. I gave up on her but the little head was thinking and I hit her up today and she finally met me at a hotel. Came in and asked for the donation in cash app. Shouldve said no but as soon as she got the money, I heard a knock on the door and guess who it is! Thug looking boyfriend. She said it was her brother so I cut my losses and let her go. She has blocked me on SDM so I created a new account and reported her. Please watch out for her!
MadDog1746
10-24-24, 14:46
Anyone seen this one? She is talking good and about to try out.
https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?userId=71784875Well long story short, was thinking with the little head and not the big one. She came to my room and asked for donation in cash app. As soon as I paid, here comes a knock at the door, guess who! You guess it, Thug boyfriend. She paid dumb saying it was her brother. I just let her out the room and cut my losses but stay safe out here guys. These hoes are scamming. She blocked me on SDM so I created a new account and reported her. Please report her if you are on there!
HighFlyer21
10-25-24, 11:23
I have found a number of jewels on Facebook. A friend request starts the convo. There are scammers on there so you have to be careful. But there are also legit women looking for a little extra income.
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