View Full Version : "Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"
Peter Johnson
07-01-24, 07:56
I logged in today and have a message saying my account is on hold until I verify my identity. I've been using this same account well over 5 years and now all of a sudden they are requiring this. I REALLY don't want to put my real identity on there because I don't trust their security at all, but I hate to lose access. I'm assuming others aren't having the same issue or people would be posting about it. Anyone else run into this?That hasn't happened to me, but I would just make a new acct. Major hassle, with new pics, email, etc, but not worth the risk with giving them your real identity. Although now with all those face recognition sites like "Pimeyes" not sure how much anonymity we even have any longer.
Peter Johnson
07-01-24, 08:01
Just wanted to see what has been successful for most of you when you have created a new account. Have you used a VPN or does SA even care if you do it from the same IP address? I just don't want to create a new account and then immediately get flagged and be out the money.
Thanks.It's safest to make the account and enter your payment info, without being behind a VPN. I just use McDonalds or library Wifi for that. Then after that, I don't think it matters. Also I don't think it likes some email domains, like protonmail. I had some of those get rejected, but I was also maybe behind VPN when I created those accounts.
But I would make new account and login for a couple of days, get your pics added and profile written. Then enter payment info and if that works, maybe login without VPN one more day and just use VPN all the time, after that. It's all such a hassle and makes me even less likely to make a new account and get another subscription. I've been on the sidelines for about a year now. I needed a break, but didn't plan on it being this long.
BumbaCloth
07-01-24, 08:46
Anyone know what happened to Nat? I was messaging her on the site last month but didn't get her number before I was went out of town for a few weeks. I see that her profile is now gone.Either she got brunt or knocked up. She was high volume.
WillDo4000
07-01-24, 09:26
Has anyone seen this girl?
https://members.seeking.com/member/ac836636-f726-4c90-b20e-985942db4cc7
2me4Looking2
07-01-24, 11:57
VWO33 RBELT1 - use this 33%off code.Just wanted to note that this code without the space is still working.
Airmantroy
07-01-24, 12:35
Just connected with this little spinner; and, a hippy like attitude also, which I like. Before I started talking fees, anyone have any experience or recommendations for this cutie?
https://members.seeking.com/member/50cd7b94-eaff-43aa-9c94-57c3e7b1c7baI had chatted with her about 2 motnhs ago, I mentioned I'm in Norcross area and she said I was too far, she prfers her lovers be closer. I'm like 8-10 miles tops, told her that and got left on read. Never got to discussions of $$, but 250-300 would be my offer based on her list of "won't or don't's if she could host.
BrownSugaTwo
07-01-24, 13:57
Either she got brunt or knocked up. She was high volume.I have a friend that's seen her before and messaged her recently. Her texting was off. From difficult to understand all the way to incomprehensible. He tried to plan something with her, she cancelled, then she acted like they had never met before or made plans. From what he says, she always seemed a bit unusual, but she may have gone completely off the deep end (drugs, etc.), or per the previous poster, finally gotten pregnant. Something is definitely not right, though.
LouisHernandez
07-01-24, 15:56
I tried with Brave, but it immediately says I'm blocked before I even get to the login screen. It's a weird window I've never seen before. I ended up using Firefox and customizing all the per site settings so that it won't be allowed to track or store data. I'm going to wait at least a day before I pay for the membership to make sure I don't get banned. I've tried other browsers in the past, but always end up back on Chrome because of the image search extensions. Hopefully I can find something similar for Firefox.Sounds like you have previous cookies set. You must clear them first. Also you can run in an incognito window to be 100% sure.
Also using a VPN can cause issues since those are shared IPs and many sites use VPN tracking and score VPN IPs as higher risk. A local WIFI would be ideal honestly.
Anyone seen her.
https://members.seeking.com/member/098e5268-4f3e-462d-8772-dffb3efebf90She's an online content seller. No IRL meetups.
GoneForGood97
07-02-24, 00:49
I have a friend that's seen her before and messaged her recently. Her texting was off. From difficult to understand all the way to incomprehensible. He tried to plan something with her, she cancelled, then she acted like they had never met before or made plans. From what he says, she always seemed a bit unusual, but she may have gone completely off the deep end (drugs, etc.), or per the previous poster, finally gotten pregnant. Something is definitely not right, though.I haven't seen here in awhile, but saw her pretty regularly last year and got to know her a bit. She struck me as a former party girl who would party if you wanted but wasn't particularly in need. Her vice always seemed like alcohol to me. Between that and her meds she seemed like she was on just this side of stable. I find it more likely she came off her meds, and if so I could see her becoming a basketcase.
If she got knocked up I'm pretty certain she'd have it taken care of, and it wouldn't surprise me to learn she's had one or multiples before, since she loves cream pies and was high volume.
Anyone talked to or have experience with the following:
Angelbby - https://members.seeking.com/member/eebf6cfe-d436-45ec-815b-32025b3047ca.
Miss_Shay7 - https://members.seeking.com/member/1c8e361b-8c21-47c8-beba-39f70a3cd0e4.
AdorableChickie - https://members.seeking.com/member/83b5e24d-bf0a-4f33-9d0b-5d5756964862.
ATLBABYGIRL512 - https://members.seeking.com/member/27218ad0-1498-ac79-37bc-463c4314119e.
SalvatoreIttup
07-02-24, 22:50
I haven't seen here in awhile, but saw her pretty regularly last year and got to know her a bit. She struck me as a former party girl who would party if you wanted but wasn't particularly in need. Her vice always seemed like alcohol to me. Between that and her meds she seemed like she was on just this side of stable. I find it more likely she came off her meds, and if so I could see her becoming a basketcase.
If she got knocked up I'm pretty certain she'd have it taken care of, and it wouldn't surprise me to learn she's had one or multiples before, since she loves cream pies and was high volume.Saw her a few times earlier this year, and she was always high on shrooms and coke. I am not an expert on drugs, but not quite sure those are supposed to be mixed. She also drinks a lot, so hopefully she didn't let it get out of control, because I think she had a decent regular job. Even when she was wasted, she would always get in the zone and give good head and ride like a champ.
GoneForGood97
07-03-24, 12:49
Saw her a few times earlier this year, and she was always high on shrooms and coke. I am not an expert on drugs, but not quite sure those are supposed to be mixed. She also drinks a lot, so hopefully she didn't let it get out of control, because I think she had a decent regular job. Even when she was wasted, she would always get in the zone and give good head and ride like a champ.Did she ever let you CIM? She was always real picky with me when it came to BJs, but she rode like a champ and loved when you finished inside her. I wonder if the coke made her more open minded LOL.
2me4Looking2
07-03-24, 16:29
Just wanted to see what has been successful for most of you when you have created a new account. Have you used a VPN or does SA even care if you do it from the same IP address? I just don't want to create a new account and then immediately get flagged and be out the money.
Thanks.I created a new account without VPN or trying to change my IP address. I did use a different browser (Firefox) and I did it in private mode. They seem to have gotten a lot stricter with photos and I think that may actually have been what got me on my last profile because all of my photos were of other people with blurry faces. This time I found a middle aged guy with somewhat similar body characteristics and uploaded 4 of his pics. I created the account on Saturday, paid for it on Monday with a prepaid card from giftcards.com and so far no issues. I will say that this time I left my profile as searchable and I'm surprised at just how many women message me. I've always left it on hidden and I've been the one doing the messaging. This is kind of a nice change, although I really wish they had a way to block people that aren't in a set location or at least not in the same country. Just wanted to report what worked for me so far.
BrownSugaTwo
07-03-24, 17:06
Did she ever let you CIM? She was always real picky with me when it came to BJs, but she rode like a champ and loved when you finished inside her. I wonder if the coke made her more open minded LOL.My boy missed out; she made him cover up: no cream pies for him, LOL. He's not white, so maybe that had something to do with it. Given that she is / was high volume, I suppose it's for the best. Not that I'm judging, I'm currently sort of in love with an SB that has a history of gangbangs. And likely has a boyfriend. It was all bare from day one (she just slid it in there), and I'm so intoxicated by her that I just can't stop. She's thick as hell and a doll. I'm sure she's crazy outside of an SB relationship, but I just can't help but fall under her spell. Sometimes, I really hate how vulnerable I am to that slit between these girls' legs, but it is what it is.
SalvatoreIttup
07-03-24, 21:31
Did she ever let you CIM? She was always real picky with me when it came to BJs, but she rode like a champ and loved when you finished inside her. I wonder if the coke made her more open minded LOL.Yeah, but we had a pretty good rapport, and whenever she gets in her zone through all her substances, she doesn't really say "No" to anything, and will even take less $ without much push back because she thoroughly enjoys herself. That's the key with a lot of them.
TooHotForYou
07-04-24, 19:24
Gives off a very pro vibe. Says she had different accounts in the past. From what Ive seen she has had a few accounts already.Anybody know if this one still around? Haven't seen her on seeking.
TheAnswer4
07-05-24, 01:08
Anybody know if this one still around? Haven't seen her on seeking.That chick is insane. Please stay away.
TooHotForYou
07-05-24, 10:23
That chick is insane. Please stay away.I know she may have had her problems. Just wondering where she's been. I suspect her habits might've got out of hand.
Any info on this one?
I talked to her a few times about a year ago when she was in Charleston. Never could get her to agree to meet, she always had an excuse usually no child care.
Doctor Sugar
07-05-24, 15:05
Another pic or video seller.
https://members.seeking.com/member/098e5268-4f3e-462d-8772-dffb3efebf90I had the same scam request outcome from messaging her. She wants online to start.
https://members.seeking.com/member/1e9ab655-3f09-487c-9e56-624388514953
- This one seems to be a scammer but wanted to confirm if any one had luck.
https://members.seeking.com/member/b403fef6-7728-47ad-b797-669f41e4f3ff
- Out of Atlanta but seems to be real, any one experienced DM welcome.
https://members.seeking.com/member/19f75992-49c7-4166-ad46-37ef47112004
Has a wife and in my opinion, the wife looks better. They can come as a pair but they don't kiss each other or any of what you think comes natural as a couple without an upcharge. BBBJ is on the menu followed by cfs. The back door is open only if they are drunk. 250 each. I won't repeat with the pair.
Some I've had a conversation with and have dates planned with several of them if anyone has any info.
https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?userId=71790408
https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?userId=71939856
https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?userId=72878246
https://members.seeking.com/member/1f2dbcfc-9f85-44b0-8ffd-f1fdd913e30a
https://members.seeking.com/member/705f9c5c-c8c1-4624-9929-ff8143808f1b
https://members.seeking.com/member/d65bf2cb-63fb-4fc0-b81b-7f365653d51a
https://members.seeking.com/member/b1776a0a-51b7-43f7-b86c-66413aa3adf9
https://members.seeking.com/member/647c6f89-0996-429d-9c89-fb41188e0f1a
https://members.seeking.com/member/e00eadd0-3dfe-4bec-950c-e48a0778a67f
https://members.seeking.com/member/3027f313-0a6b-4a9f-8c16-cc5a57bbc399
https://members.seeking.com/member/57626674-d260-4a02-83e6-f48a162fa10d
https://members.seeking.com/member/a2c4e72e-51c1-430c-86f6-42372a85a291
https://members.seeking.com/member/6e94c710-74ab-4420-ba53-87062283bbac
https://members.seeking.com/member/a6a0f83d-d413-4672-8e43-b204b9dfdccd
Wanted to get expert opinion on overnight rates with SBs. I am just over 62 and in good shape for the age and average looking. I have been in the game for more than 5 years, only one time I did overnight with a girl (I still see her). In her case, I give her 400 for the night. My typical ppm rate is 300-400 for few hours (typically 2 pops). The max I have given is 500 ppm (for a super cute Latina). I am talking to this 22 year old College senior. White girl, slim, no tattoos, face I would give 9 and body 8. I had phone calls and video calls with her and confirmed she is real and photos are of her. She literally gave me all information about her, I know her real name, and all background checks come clear and what she says in her profile is 100% true. She told me that she had one arrangement before and he gave her 600 ppm. When I asked about how much time we can spend, she gave me two options, either meet in the afternoon and spend few hours or meet after 7 pm and spend the night. She didn't give different rates for these options. For few hours, I would have definitely given her 400. I am wondering rather than negotiating the ppm just go for 600 for overnight. Based on the conversation so far, everything is super smooth and she seems to be a very nice girl. Just wanted put this scenario to you guys and get the feedback if I could have done something differently. I am tempted to go for 600 overnight (and I can afford it based on my budget if I limit to 4 meet ups per month).
Play safe.
Dr. S.
Wanted to get expert opinion on overnight rates with SBs. I am just over 62 and in good shape for the age and average looking. I have been in the game for more than 5 years, only one time I did overnight with a girl (I still see her). In her case, I give her 400 for the night. My typical ppm rate is 300-400 for few hours (typically 2 pops). The max I have given is 500 ppm (for a super cute Latina). I am talking to this 22 year old College senior. White girl, slim, no tattoos, face I would give 9 and body 8. I had phone calls and video calls with her and confirmed she is real and photos are of her. She literally gave me all information about her, I know her real name, and all background checks come clear and what she says in her profile is 100% true. She told me that she had one arrangement before and he gave her 600 ppm. When I asked about how much time we can spend, she gave me two options, either meet in the afternoon and spend few hours or meet after 7 pm and spend the night. She didn't give different rates for these options. For few hours, I would have definitely given her 400. I am wondering rather than negotiating the ppm just go for 600 for overnight. Based on the conversation so far, everything is super smooth and she seems to be a very nice girl. Just wanted put this scenario to you guys and get the feedback if I could have done something differently. I am tempted to go for 600 overnight (and I can afford it based on my budget if I limit to 4 meet ups per month).
Play safe.
Dr. S.Well bro if she's a 9 with a 8 body and seems legit might as well respect her rate atleast once. She might be worth it especially if she looks good. To me that's a great deal 600 over night. I Know girls who charge 400-1000 for FS for an hour. So 600 for over night is actually a good rate especially if she looks better than most providers. I'd say go for it once. If it's worth then her price is fair if not either talk her down next time, or find someone who does 400 ppm. Super pretty girls won't budge. I've had excellent service with a 9/10 chick it cost me a lot 800 $ but man she was worth it. So it's up to you. But if she looks how you said then go for it once atleast.
Wanted to get expert opinion on overnight rates with SBs. I am just over 62 and in good shape for the age and average looking. I have been in the game for more than 5 years, only one time I did overnight with a girl (I still see her). In her case, I give her 400 for the night. My typical ppm rate is 300-400 for few hours (typically 2 pops). The max I have given is 500 ppm (for a super cute Latina). I am talking to this 22 year old College senior. White girl, slim, no tattoos, face I would give 9 and body 8. I had phone calls and video calls with her and confirmed she is real and photos are of her. She literally gave me all information about her, I know her real name, and all background checks come clear and what she says in her profile is 100% true. She told me that she had one arrangement before and he gave her 600 ppm. When I asked about how much time we can spend, she gave me two options, either meet in the afternoon and spend few hours or meet after 7 pm and spend the night. She didn't give different rates for these options. For few hours, I would have definitely given her 400. I am wondering rather than negotiating the ppm just go for 600 for overnight. Based on the conversation so far, everything is super smooth and she seems to be a very nice girl. Just wanted put this scenario to you guys and get the feedback if I could have done something differently. I am tempted to go for 600 overnight (and I can afford it based on my budget if I limit to 4 meet ups per month).
Play safe.
Dr. S.So if you compare this overnight rate for some escorts, it's a steal.
Personally, I found most SB are new to negotiations and either inflate a prior rate or quote something they read on social media where SB's post. I also have found some dudes simply overpay and skew the market.
If the afternoon works, using 4 hours, its 150 an hour. Overnight her hourly rate takes a nose dive but you will likely incur dinner / drinks that you don't pay in the afternoon.
If she is at 600 and you are at 400 the meet point is 500. If she is as hot as you say, and based on your prior experience, the delta in dollars is not really material.
I do suggest that SB's working PPM generally show signs of being more "experienced" or have a leaning to being pro.
But to answer your question, 400 for a few hours is on the higher side from my experience but I tend to select over 30 versus under 30. If they aren't a pro or pro yet, the clock should not be a factor.
Rather, it just what you pay for the meet and it rolls organically. It seems she trends toward this with her offer. The only risk in pushing her to 4 is she gets pissed off or she cuts the time down. I'd wager she'll take 5. But I'd view the PPM as someone who knows this game.
Member #6718
07-08-24, 10:31
I am wondering rather than negotiating the ppm just go for 600 for overnight. Based on the conversation so far, everything is super smooth and she seems to be a very nice girl. Just wanted put this scenario to you guys and get the feedback if I could have done something differently. I am tempted to go for 600 overnight (and I can afford it based on my budget if I limit to 4 meet ups per month).
Play safe.
Dr. S.600 ppm for overnight if she is super hot is not bad at all.
Airmantroy
07-08-24, 13:30
Anybody know if this one still around? Haven't seen her on seeking.https://members.seeking.com/member/f79ecfb1-50af-4037-8247-23589e4013d3
Wanted to get expert opinion on overnight rates with SBs. I am just over 62 and in good shape for the age and average looking. I have been in the game for more than 5 years, only one time I did overnight with a girl (I still see her). In her case, I give her 400 for the night. My typical ppm rate is 300-400 for few hours (typically 2 pops). The max I have given is 500 ppm (for a super cute Latina). I am talking to this 22 year old College senior. White girl, slim, no tattoos, face I would give 9 and body 8. I had phone calls and video calls with her and confirmed she is real and photos are of her. She literally gave me all information about her, I know her real name, and all background checks come clear and what she says in her profile is 100% true. She told me that she had one arrangement before and he gave her 600 ppm. When I asked about how much time we can spend, she gave me two options, either meet in the afternoon and spend few hours or meet after 7 pm and spend the night. She didn't give different rates for these options. For few hours, I would have definitely given her 400. I am wondering rather than negotiating the ppm just go for 600 for overnight. Based on the conversation so far, everything is super smooth and she seems to be a very nice girl. Just wanted put this scenario to you guys and get the feedback if I could have done something differently. I am tempted to go for 600 overnight (and I can afford it based on my budget if I limit to 4 meet ups per month).
Play safe.
Dr. S.I've been in the Sugar game 7 years and have taken lots of trips well over 50 arrangements. I'm 64 and slowing down the last couple years have a couple girls I see 1-2 times per month and my GOAT comes back a couple time a year to ATL.
This girl sounds like a semi pro. I never talked about time / hours / overnight extras. If the girl doesn't like you enough to sleep over when you offer then forget it. I would just tell them we are going to blank Hotel and tell her I'm spending the night there. Would be cool if you want to stay over also. I never pushed it on the first date / meeting.
Usually the younger girls without full time jobs are the best shot for consistent overnights.
Some girls would usually stay, some would always stay and some could never stay (lived with parents had to be home etc.
I had one girl that always stayed the night and we did some trips some amazing times.. She would get upset if I tried to do a quick hit and run.
Most girls. I just told them at the first meet what the budget was. Always in the 150.00 to 400.00 range. I Never let them set the price and the pretty much always take it.
This is more Art than Science IMO. Just need to meet up with them and get them down the rabbit hole, have a good game and make sure they orgasm(s) was my go to.
My boy missed out; she made him cover up: no cream pies for him, LOL. He's not white, so maybe that had something to do with it. Given that she is / was high volume, I suppose it's for the best. Not that I'm judging, I'm currently sort of in love with an SB that has a history of gangbangs. And likely has a boyfriend. It was all bare from day one (she just slid it in there), and I'm so intoxicated by her that I just can't stop. She's thick as hell and a doll. I'm sure she's crazy outside of an SB relationship, but I just can't help but fall under her spell. Sometimes, I really hate how vulnerable I am to that slit between these girls' legs, but it is what it is.Man, you just nailed it BS2. That intoxication can be amazing to the point of temporary insanity LOL.
But so grateful I have had those experiences. Some guys never do.
For the record, I'm the cheap guy these ladies are complaining about. My professional sales background won't allow me to just foot these ladies request. I negotiate for everything while requesting to pay as little as possible. It is what it is. As for NattyNat. I walked out on her. She seemed too planned out and scripted. I enjoy a more natural flow to things.
Seeking and SDM are typically not for the cheap at heart. However, I've had the most amazing time with many different ladies. These ladies have been uterly beautiful, young and very talented. When I was in my twenties, I had to shoot game and hope the fine ones would give me a chance. Then I had to call them often and take them on dates only praying that their 3 month minimum or 6 date rule had been met for me to get a sniff. I banged my share and a few other guys share back then. But I had to pay substantially. This was when I made far less money.
Now, thanks to being SD age, I can just window shop. Ask how much. Ask what they are cool with before even seeing them in person. I'm spending far less and because these ladies want to continue the arrangement; am getting way more effort and skill than ever. It's a win win for me.
There have been sooooo many from Seeking. All full bare cip. Some are into much more; however I'm normally not thinking about getting a pic. But sometimes I just stood and looked at my meal before I devoured it and the thought of documenting the moment did creep into my mind. So enjoy LOL. At this point I can't even imagine not taking the easy route. As I'm approaching 50, ladies no longer look anything like this. I may be addicted. Shoot, I think this is way better vice than drugs or anything else.
GLHF.
For the record, I'm the cheap guy these ladies are complaining about......Spending less for more is call being SMART!
Well done, my friend, very well done.
I am also a big fan of Ebony spinners.
TG9.
https://members.seeking.com/member/f79ecfb1-50af-4037-8247-23589e4013d3This girl stole from me. She can't be trusted and you shouldn't put any money time or effort into her. Pussy is also loose.
Airmantroy
07-09-24, 12:33
This girl stole from me. She can't be trusted and you shouldn't put any money time or effort into her. Pussy is also loose.I'm not planning on seeing her, but how about some details for anybody who might want to risk it?
GoneForGood97
07-09-24, 20:58
Wanted to get expert opinion on overnight rates with SBs. I am just over 62 and in good shape for the age and average looking. I have been in the game for more than 5 years, only one time I did overnight with a girl (I still see her). In her case, I give her 400 for the night. My typical ppm rate is 300-400 for few hours (typically 2 pops). The max I have given is 500 ppm (for a super cute Latina). I am talking to this 22 year old College senior. White girl, slim, no tattoos, face I would give 9 and body 8. I had phone calls and video calls with her and confirmed she is real and photos are of her. She literally gave me all information about her, I know her real name, and all background checks come clear and what she says in her profile is 100% true. She told me that she had one arrangement before and he gave her 600 ppm. When I asked about how much time we can spend, she gave me two options, either meet in the afternoon and spend few hours or meet after 7 pm and spend the night. She didn't give different rates for these options. For few hours, I would have definitely given her 400. I am wondering rather than negotiating the ppm just go for 600 for overnight. Based on the conversation so far, everything is super smooth and she seems to be a very nice girl. Just wanted put this scenario to you guys and get the feedback if I could have done something differently. I am tempted to go for 600 overnight (and I can afford it based on my budget if I limit to 4 meet ups per month).
Play safe.
Dr. S.
This girl sounds like a semi pro. I never talked about time / hours / overnight extras. If the girl doesn't like you enough to sleep over when you offer then forget it. I would just tell them we are going to blank Hotel and tell her I'm spending the night there. Would be cool if you want to stay over also. I never pushed it on the first date / meeting.Leep has the right of it. You shouldn't compare SBs to escorts. If you're thinking of $/ hr then just go ahead and get an escort and skip the hassle and monthly membership fee for SBs. I'm paying for a DATE not for a certain amount of time. The date may consist of a couple of hours, or it could mean they stay overnight. But NEVER, EVER think you need to pay extra for more time. That's just escort / john thinking. Don't let yourself get conned into thinking like a John.
She is nice and has a nice apartment. But she wants you to get in and get out. She used her mouth less than a minute and started asking if I was ready. I said no, keep going, and she wouldn't keep a rhythm—kept stopping and spitting. Then after a couple minutes she started complaining that her mouth hurt and she was dizzy and all kinds of other stuff. I couldn't even get hard, so I left. Her breath is just terrible.
Any info on her?
https://members.seeking.com/member/c739077a-2db3-430d-bfb5-35f8050ecba3
BrownSugaTwo
07-10-24, 18:03
She is nice and has a nice apartment. But she wants you to get in and get out. She used her mouth less than a minute and started asking if I was ready. I said no, keep going, and she wouldn't keep a rhythmkept stopping and spitting. Then after a couple minutes she started complaining that her mouth hurt and she was dizzy and all kinds of other stuff. I couldn't even get hard, so I left. Her breath is just terrible.I couldn't even get past the texting stage with her. I asked for a meet and greet beforehand (part of my weed out strategy), and she wouldn't go for it. Just wanted in and out. I bailed after a few texts.
Thank you all who responded to my post. I scheduled a coffee meet with her this Friday evening. Depending on the vibe I get in person, I will decide on going on for overnight or not. So far all the vibes I am getting are very very positive. She didn't mention about the ppm anymore and I didn't ask either. My gut says this is going to go well. But I will of course try to use my big head. LOL. I will report back the outcome.
Play safe.
Dr. S.
Niterider450
07-11-24, 07:56
It tells me I have to purchase with bitcoin and contact support.
Hey gents -.
I've never tried the SB approach. I'm wondering if you guys post pics on your profile or share them with SBs? I prefer to remain very discreet. So wouldn't want to share pics until we do a video chat. Is that even worth it? Or will I not get any decent responses to my initial inquiries without a pic to post or share?
DM is ok too. I appreciate your advice!
2me4Looking2
07-11-24, 10:10
Hey gents -.
I've never tried the SB approach. I'm wondering if you guys post pics on your profile or share them with SBs? I prefer to remain very discreet. So wouldn't want to share pics until we do a video chat. Is that even worth it? Or will I not get any decent responses to my initial inquiries without a pic to post or share?
DM is ok too. I appreciate your advice!I used to have very blurry pics, but Seeking seems to not allow that anymore. My suggestion is to do a photo search and find someone that isn't famous, but has somewhat similar age and physical characteristics. You can sometimes get lucky and find someone that has multiple pictures you can use. I will share a real pic once we start chatting off the site, but make sure it's not a pic you have ever used online just to make image searching a little harder. Most women are not surprised when a guy doesn't use real pics, but I have had a couple of instances where they were pissed and ended it as soon as I told them.
BumbaCloth
07-12-24, 11:33
She is nice and has a nice apartment. But she wants you to get in and get out. She used her mouth less than a minute and started asking if I was ready. I said no, keep going, and she wouldn't keep a rhythmkept stopping and spitting. Then after a couple minutes she started complaining that her mouth hurt and she was dizzy and all kinds of other stuff. I couldn't even get hard, so I left. Her breath is just terrible.You're the second or third person that said she's an in & out bandit and a complainer either you're taking too long to bust or you're going too hard. Plus her pics are outdated someone else said.
Hey gents -.
I've never tried the SB approach. I'm wondering if you guys post pics on your profile or share them with SBs? I prefer to remain very discreet. So wouldn't want to share pics until we do a video chat. Is that even worth it? Or will I not get any decent responses to my initial inquiries without a pic to post or share?
DM is ok too. I appreciate your advice!I agree with 2 me. Think you would be at a big disadvantage without any pics, these girls complain about all the fakes etc. Many will think you are a waste of time.
I used my own pics on SA. I did use some "borrowed" photos for a Tender dating account. Find someone reasonably close to your look and build.
It's not easy, I ended up stealing some FB photos from a guy I went to HS with. I figured no harm since we aren't in the same state.
This girl stole from me. She can't be trusted and you shouldn't put any money time or effort into her. Pussy is also loose.Good to know as I have been talking with her for a year or so and was looking to have her to my place overnight (with cash and some valuables locked in my gun safe). I will now delete her.
Update on this. I met her on Friday. She looked even better in person and the vibe was so good, I had no hesitation to go for the overnight. I have been on the sugar hobby for more than 5 years, and have taken closer to 100 girls to FC. Hands down this is the best experience of all. She was all I wanted from a SB. Easy to get alone, clean, and great sex. After 3 rounds, I was so tired I fell asleep. Then 2 rounds in the morning. She left around 10 AM. Never mentioned about the ppm again. But I gave 600. Worth every penny. After 5 minutes I got the text thanking me and and wanting to see me again soon. That tells me she was happy with the allowance. Keep up the hopes, good girls are out there, but I know it is hard to find them.
Play safe.
Dr. S.
Thank you all who responded to my post. I scheduled a coffee meet with her this Friday evening. Depending on the vibe I get in person, I will decide on going on for overnight or not. So far all the vibes I am getting are very very positive. She didn't mention about the ppm anymore and I didn't ask either. My gut says this is going to go well. But I will of course try to use my big head. LOL. I will report back the outcome.
Play safe.
Dr. S.
Has anyone tried? Is she real?
https://members.seeking.com/member/f79ecfb1-50af-4037-8247-23589e4013d3
Christian Troy
07-15-24, 18:17
Has anyone tried? Is she real?
https://members.seeking.com/member/f79ecfb1-50af-4037-8247-23589e4013d3Check post #14537 http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?14265-quot-Sugar-Babies-quot-and-quot-Arrangements-quot&p=6958082&viewfull=1#post6958082.
She's a thief.
Check post #14537 http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?14265-quot-Sugar-Babies-quot-and-quot-Arrangements-quot&p=6958082&viewfull=1#post6958082.
She's a thief.Thanks. You saved me.
LittleMonster
07-16-24, 07:01
Visiting Atlanta for few days have a meeting lined up with this one says her name is S-L looks like she been around for a minute any info will be greatly appreciated.
https://members.seeking.com/member/64ee6cff-7351-48cf-b7d8-1a106f688f85
2me4Looking2
07-16-24, 10:00
Visiting Atlanta for few days have a meeting lined up with this one says her name is S-L looks like she been around for a minute any info will be greatly appreciated.
https://members.seeking.com/member/64ee6cff-7351-48cf-b7d8-1a106f688f85I just messaged her as well and would like to know how it goes if you go through with it.
Update on this. I met her on Friday. She looked even better in person and the vibe was so good, I had no hesitation to go for the overnight.Thanks for posting the update. It sounds like you've found a really good one that checks all your boxes, congrats!! There are definitely some high quality women out there waiting to be found on the SB sites if you have the patience to find them (and the game to catch them when you do)! I know for my part the experiences I've had have surpassed all of my expectations and then some. Good luck with your new girl and keep us updated!
JD.
ReffingMan94
07-17-24, 21:22
I've seen her a few times over the last year. She's very sweet, very thin with fake boobs but a pretty good lay. When I saw her she hosted at her place which was nice.
Visiting Atlanta for few days have a meeting lined up with this one says her name is S-L looks like she been around for a minute any info will be greatly appreciated.
https://members.seeking.com/member/64ee6cff-7351-48cf-b7d8-1a106f688f85
Thanks JD. You bring up a good point, patience. My experience in the hobby / mongering spans more than a decade. In the hay days of backpage, I was doing back to back 15 min QVs for 40 a pop. After a close call, I decided to quit that life forever, and focused solely on sugar since then. I have met great girls over the years, made happy memories, great sex, can't complain at all. While it could be my luck, I believe my approach and certain rules I follow religiously help me finding the girls I look for. I wanted to share some of those if that helps anyone.
First, I am looking for an SB, not a hooker or a PRO (I know, you are going to say they all are hookers, they are not exclusive, I get it). I don't expect them to be exclusive, but I don't want them fucking 5 guys in a raw one day. I am after certain type of girls. My target age group is 20-30. College girls, graduate students, professionals who are not doing this out of desperation, but to have some supplemental income. Not a big fan of single moms. In my early screening I weed out all others.
I guess certain aspects of myself gives me an edge in this game. First, I am divorced and single, no SO. This gives me freedom. While I am over 60, I am in good physical and mental shape. I am no George Clooney in any stretch of imagination, but I take care of myself well, appearance, health and manners. Clean shaven, makes sure my teeth, nails, hair etc in good shape. Although I like casual clothes, I present myself well, I guess. Not just first meet up, every meet, I take time to prepare for every meet up so that the girl finds me attractive. My profession is considered somewhat prestigious, that may help too (I don't bring it up with them first unless they ask). Basically I project myself to girls that I could be a long term, stable, and safe SD for them.
Few rules I follow. Always meet up for a coffee before heading to FC, no direct hotel visits. No money exchanged (under no circumstance whatsoever) until panties hit the floor. Only ask her if she is open for intimacy before we meet for coffee, but I don't go into details like how many pops, sex acts, covered or not etc. Allowance will be discussed if they are adamant, but only vaguely. Always ppm, no monthly allowance. I don't treat the girl as a piece of meet. Being respectful, friendly, and funny go a long way. But, I don't try to be a simp. I will be assertive, and no-nonsense when needed.
Regarding patience, I always have one or two girls in rotation, so I go to a meet up with a new girl not in a position of desperation, but more in an adventurous mood. Girls sense that so they are not going to play games with me. I am always ready to walk away if something doesn't feel right. Once I find the right girl, I treat them well, and seal the deal quickly. Typically the coffee will be followed by a dinner at a good restaurant, then fun in a hotel room. I spent money on a good hotel room not trying to be cheap (at least Hilton, Holiday In level, not Motel 6).
Hope this information is of some help to you guys. But, I have to tell you, finding a good SB is much harder these days. It is a numbers game. Before COVID, I would find a good match after messaging about 10 to 20 girls. Now it takes at least 100 girls. Yes, it is lots of work. But once you find them, it is a blast. If you have time and energy, you can do it. Don't give up.
Play Safe.
Dr. S.
Thanks for posting the update. It sounds like you've found a really good one that checks all your boxes, congrats!!
JD.
Regarding patience, I always have one or two girls in rotation, so I go to a meet up with a new girl not in a position of desperation, but more in an adventurous mood. Girls sense that so they are not going to play games with me. I am always ready to walk away if something doesn't feel right. Once I find the right girl, I treat them well, and seal the deal quickly. Typically the coffee will be followed by a dinner at a good restaurant, then fun in a hotel room. I spent money on a good hotel room not trying to be cheap (at least Hilton, Holiday In level, not Motel 6).
Hope this information is of some help to you guys. But, I have to tell you, finding a good SB is much harder these days. It is a numbers game. Before COVID, I would find a good match after messaging about 10 to 20 girls. Now it takes at least 100 girls. Yes, it is lots of work. But once you find them, it is a blast. If you have time and energy, you can do it. Don't give up.
Play Safe.
Dr. S.Damn, I'm shocked by this. I was active on Secrets and SDM last year and had no shortage of women in Atlanta anxious to meet me. I'm in my 60's as well and would gravitate to the slender black ladies that were in the 6-8 range. Most were less than 30 and worked. I did not split hairs about their educational background. Seems as if 3. 50 was getting it done with relieable ladies that would show up on time at the hotel, warm me up, go have dinner, and return for a finish. They put in a good effort and about 4 hours of time. The drive eventually just killed me coming from SC. I'm searching up this way now and had a M&G last night. 5'5' 130, black, student, 25, pretty, good figure, and could do all that I requested. Give her an 8 in looks. She said her car payment is 4. 75 so that's what she needs for a PPM. In my market I don't think she's far off but damn, I miss the Atlanta pricing. Just so competitve. Needless to say, with dinner and a room I'm well over 7. 0 Might have to drag my eldery ass back to ATL but your scaring me with this 1 in hundred thing. I'm not as particular, so maybe it's a non issue for me. Can you share what your PPM is for your 1 in 100 lady and give a rough estimate of how you would rate her looks? Appreciate your well thought out post. I don't mind spending, but just like to get a good value for what I spend. Thanks.
Damn, I'm shocked by this. I was active on Secrets and SDM last year and had no shortage of women in Atlanta anxious to meet me. I'm in my 60's as well and would gravitate to the slender black ladies that were in the 6-8 range. Most were less than 30 and worked. I did not split hairs about their educational background. Seems as if 3. 50 was getting it done with relieable ladies that would show up on time at the hotel, warm me up, go have dinner, and return for a finish. They put in a good effort and about 4 hours of time. The drive eventually just killed me coming from SC. I'm searching up this way now and had a M&G last night. 5'5' 130, black, student, 25, pretty, good figure, and could do all that I requested. Give her an 8 in looks. She said her car payment is 4. 75 so that's what she needs for a PPM. In my market I don't think she's far off but damn, I miss the Atlanta pricing. Just so competitve. Needless to say, with dinner and a room I'm well over 7. 0 Might have to drag my eldery ass back to ATL but your scaring me with this 1 in hundred thing. I'm not as particular, so maybe it's a non issue for me. Can you share what your PPM is for your 1 in 100 lady and give a rough estimate of how you would rate her looks? Appreciate your well thought out post. I don't mind spending, but just like to get a good value for what I spend. Thanks.JMAbacus, I don't think the 1 in 100 would apply to you based on the demographic you prefer. It definitely wouldn't if you were in Atlanta.
I am in SC, not in Atlanta. I would say, yes I am picky. I can afford to be picky as I always have one or two good girls in my rotation. The two girls I have in my current rotation, I have been seing both of them for more than a year. One is 24 and the other 28. Both are single, white, and no children. My ppm are generally 300 to 400. The highest I have given was 600 for the girl we are talking about here. My previous post has more details. It was an overnight. She is 22, white, a college senior. I rate her 9 on her face and 8 on her body. 8 for the body was because her boobs are bit smaller than my liking but they are perky and playable. She is the friendliest and most sensual girl I have ever dated in this hobby.
Regarding 1 in 100, it goes like this. I cast a wide net (200 mile radius) and message any possible girls (within my preferred age group). I get responses from about 30 for 100 messages. From those, about 10 agree for a meet up. Then after a voice and video call before meet it comes to about 2 to 3 I decide to meet. Out of those I meet, I usually go ahead with 1 out of 3. Again, yes I am picky. But I rarely get disappointed by my picks. Different people play this game differently. They are just different, not good or bad.
Play Safe.
Dr. S.
Damn, I'm shocked by this. I was active on Secrets and SDM last year and had no shortage of women in Atlanta anxious to meet me. I'm in my 60's as well and would gravitate to the slender black ladies that were in the 6-8 range. .
I am in SC, not in Atlanta. I would say, yes I am picky. I can afford to be picky as I always have one or two good girls in my rotation. The two girls I have in my current rotation, I have been seing both of them for more than a year. One is 24 and the other 28. Both are single, white, and no children. My ppm are generally 300 to 400. The highest I have given was 600 for the girl we are talking about here. My previous post has more details. It was an overnight. She is 22, white, a college senior. I rate her 9 on her face and 8 on her body. 8 for the body was because her boobs are bit smaller than my liking but they are perky and playable. She is the friendliest and most sensual girl I have ever dated in this hobby.
Regarding 1 in 100, it goes like this. I cast a wide net (200 mile radius) and message any possible girls (within my preferred age group). I get responses from about 30 for 100 messages. From those, about 10 agree for a meet up. Then after a voice and video call before meet it comes to about 2 to 3 I decide to meet. Out of those I meet, I usually go ahead with 1 out of 3. Again, yes I am picky. But I rarely get disappointed by my picks. Different people play this game differently. They are just different, not good or bad.
Play Safe.
Dr. S.Thanks, I was very satisfied with the value I was getting for a 3. 5 type PPM in the ATL even though the ladies were generally in the 7 range. They had good attitudes and good skills. The 4. 75 PPM for a non overnight stay just seemed a little high here in the Upstate for an 8. I think you have confirmed that's the case and I can choose to give it a try or shop around to see if I can do better in this area. When your looking for young, black, slender, and attractive SB's in the Upsate then the pool gets very shallow. Thick or fat we have in abundance. Thanks for the insight.
Member #6704
07-19-24, 00:57
Update on this. I met her on Friday. She looked even better in person and the vibe was so good, I had no hesitation to go for the overnight. I have been on the sugar hobby for more than 5 years, and have taken closer to 100 girls to FC. Hands down this is the best experience of all. She was all I wanted from a SB. Easy to get alone, clean, and great sex. After 3 rounds, I was so tired I fell asleep. Then 2 rounds in the morning. She left around 10 AM. Never mentioned about the ppm again. But I gave 600. Worth every penny. After 5 minutes I got the text thanking me and and wanting to see me again soon. That tells me she was happy with the allowance. Keep up the hopes, good girls are out there, but I know it is hard to find them.
Play safe.
Dr. S.Dr. S. did you meet this girl from seeking or another site? I always used seeking but curious if any other sites are worth it?
UninhibitedFla
07-19-24, 09:46
Update on this. I met her on Friday. She looked even better in person and the vibe was so good, I had no hesitation to go for the overnight. I have been on the sugar hobby for more than 5 years, and have taken closer to 100 girls to FC. Hands down this is the best experience of all. She was all I wanted from a SB. Easy to get alone, clean, and great sex. After 3 rounds, I was so tired I fell asleep. Then 2 rounds in the morning. She left around 10 AM. Never mentioned about the ppm again. But I gave 600. Worth every penny. After 5 minutes I got the text thanking me and and wanting to see me again soon. That tells me she was happy with the allowance. Keep up the hopes, good girls are out there, but I know it is hard to find them.
Play safe.
Dr. S.Are you holding this one close or sharing who she is?
Are you holding this one close or sharing who she is?Bro, he just informed how picky he is and how much vetting he does to find a chick he likes. And he's just getting started with this new chick.
And you ask if he's "holding this one close or sharing"? What you think?
You funny, bro, but you get an A for asking.
2me4Looking2
07-19-24, 16:38
I've seen her a few times over the last year. She's very sweet, very thin with fake boobs but a pretty good lay. When I saw her she hosted at her place which was nice.How does her looks compare to her pictures and mind sharing what you gave her for the donation?
Met this one in Buckhead.
You can Search her on Seeking. She is just moving into the apt with another Seeking lady. Dunno what the other one name is.
She is very nice. Worth the meet. The apt is reeked of smoke tho. I don't think she smokes. Her other roomie might.
AnxiousHippo
07-20-24, 13:04
I recently signed up for a membership on secretbenefits.com. I want to say it was about $55 for enough credits to message about 10 people. The use some an 'unlock' method where you have to unlock chats with a member once and then you get unlimited chats there-after. As with any dating site, I was expecting a bit of bait / scam, and sure enough within just minutes of opening the account, I had messages waiting to be unlocked, from people not within the range I was looking and from people who had never even visited my profile (you can see recent visitors).
Things went quickly further downhill than that, unfortunately. I would message people who who showing as 'online' only to receive crickets in return. OK, maybe they just aren't talkative or didn't like my profile. But this became a quickly recurring theme. Generic / generated messages coming in; and when I message out to what I had hoped were real members, no responses in return. Reading online, this appeared to be a common issue, and the recurring allegation is that they are pulling in unsuspecting member profiles from their sister site (sugardaddy.com) and pretending as if they are online when they are not. The unsuspecting users probably don't even realize this is happening.
So, fuck it, I confronted them with my allegations and said I had reasonable suspicion that their site was a hoax, and they probably know this as well. Either refund me or I would post negative reviews; and guess what. No apology, no dispute, they deleted my account and refunded my purchase, LOL.
Just a heads up; before you waste your time / money. I spent a week there and had ZERO real-life responses to anything I did.
It's not easy, I ended up stealing some FB photos from a guy I went to HS with. I figured no harm since we aren't in the same state.Well the harm is that it screws up the lifestyle for those of us that are honest and send real pics. Every time someone catfishes an SB, and shows up looking like someone different, they are guaranteeing the SBs return the favor x10 and waste a lot of our time and money.
You realize they have their forums and reddit threads too right? If you bait-and-switch them with pics, its not good for us.. the true gems will dodge out of the game altogether when they show up for the M&G and realize they've been scammed. The only ones left to meet then are the scammers.
Put into the hobby what you expect to get out of it. This is the kind of thing that's caused this lifestyle to diminish over the years. Girls don't appreciate showing up for a meet being disappointed because you sent a pic of your better looking friend.
GokuBoy420
07-21-24, 10:08
Met this one in Buckhead.
You can Search her on Seeking. She is just moving into the apt with another Seeking lady. Dunno what the other one name is.
She is very nice. Worth the meet. The apt is reeked of smoke tho. I don't think she smokes. Her other roomie might.She's super nice. She really liked me too. But her V always had a smell and it just turned me off. She wanted bare but I declined. BBBJ 5/10.
Thats funny. Yes, not sharing her info (at least not yet). I don't expect her to be exclusive, but don't want to contribute to the competition. LOL.
Dr. S.
Bro, he just informed how picky he is and how much vetting he does to find a chick he likes. And he's just getting started with this new chick.
And you ask if he's "holding this one close or sharing"? What you think?
You funny, bro, but you get an A for asking.
100% agree. If you post or send someone else's photos to them, you can't complain them catfishing or not representing themselves. It goes both ways. I try to get them to video call before the meet up so that we both have a good idea who we are meeting. You have to make them comfortable and feel safe (at least the type of girls I am after), then the rest is easy.
Dr. S.
Well the harm is that it screws up the lifestyle for those of us that are honest and send real pics. Every time someone catfishes an SB, and shows up looking like someone different, they are guaranteeing the SBs return the favor x10 and waste a lot of our time and money.
You realize they have their forums and reddit threads too right? If you bait-and-switch them with pics, its not good for us.. the true gems will dodge out of the game altogether when they show up for the M&G and realize they've been scammed. The only ones left to meet then are the scammers.
Put into the hobby what you expect to get out of it. This is the kind of thing that's caused this lifestyle to diminish over the years. Girls don't appreciate showing up for a meet being disappointed because you sent a pic of your better looking friend.
Met her on sugardaddymeet.com. I have used seeking and SDM only so far. Got permanently banned from seeking few months ago. Now SDM is my only option. The major drawback of SDM is much less number of profiles compared to seeking. But both sites have fare share of scammers, time wasters and bots. I have had good luck with SDM so far.
Play Safe.
Dr. S.
Dr. S. did you meet this girl from seeking or another site? I always used seeking but curious if any other sites are worth it?
BumbaCloth
07-21-24, 16:41
She's super nice. She really liked me too. But her V always had a smell and it just turned me off. She wanted bare but I declined. BBBJ 5/10.Seems like she has mixed reviews. Someone said she stole from them others say she is somewhat decent. Worth it or Not Worth it?
Member #6704
07-21-24, 19:13
Met her on sugardaddymeet.com. I have used seeking and SDM only so far. Got permanently banned from seeking few months ago. Now SDM is my only option. The major drawback of SDM is much less number of profiles compared to seeking. But both sites have fare share of scammers, time wasters and bots. I have had good luck with SDM so far.
Play Safe.
Dr. S.Thanks. I used seeking exclusively so far, I did get banned as well! But I created a new profile and so far it's ok.
Good to see you had success at SDM. I heard you purchase credits and use them to talk on SDM? It seems like that's a lot of money.
As I used to send a lot of messages on seeking so seeking might appear cheaper?
Member #6704
07-21-24, 19:16
Met her on sugardaddymeet.com. I have used seeking and SDM only so far. Got permanently banned from seeking few months ago. Now SDM is my only option. The major drawback of SDM is much less number of profiles compared to seeking. But both sites have fare share of scammers, time wasters and bots. I have had good luck with SDM so far.
Play Safe.
Dr. S.Also I know seeking have promo codes and I shared one in the past.
Does SDM have any promotions?
It is monthly subscription for $50. Unlimited messages. Same as seeking. I have not seen any promos or discounts yet. Two things I like about SDM. If you use mobile app you can see the location they are actually logged in as closest to the city or county. As I remember, seeking gave only the country. Then we can compare what they say about location in profile. It is a good feature to weed out scammers. Also SDs or (anyone) can comment on profiles and those comments are public. I would use those with a grain of salt though.
Play Safe.
Dr. S.
Also I know seeking have promo codes and I shared one in the past.
Does SDM have any promotions?
Seems like she has mixed reviews. Someone said she stole from them others say she is somewhat decent. Worth it or Not Worth it?Are you being serious? "Sure she's a thief, and yes her vagina smells horrific, and yeah her performance is mediocre at best. But, is she still worth it?" Worth what? FFS people. Are some people's standards that low, where they're willing to shell out hundreds of dollars to a thief with a vaginal bacterial infection at best? 😂.
Just signed up with a new profile and got offered a 33 discount, started messing girls, doesn't look promising, most trying to sell content, and this blocked me right away, she just keeps asking dumb questions and she looks like a listcrowler ho, since I was ignoring her she blocked me, anybody had dealing with her, she is in snelville.
2me4Looking2
07-22-24, 13:49
Has anyone had any experience with "Worship My Feet"? Her profile has her as a lesbian dom and I spoke to her a couple of years ago but we weren't on the same page. She messaged me after I got a new account and seems a lot more eager this time. I enjoy the dom kink stuff, but generally avoid that on the site because it almost always ends up being a scam for financial domination.
https://members.seeking.com/member/93089593-368e-4355-9b30-df38ee3473d6
TheAnswer4
07-23-24, 01:41
What the hell is everyone's deal with this MILF and Cookies chick. The other day, one person asked:
Anybody know if this one still around? Haven't seen her on seeking.To which I and another person replied:
That chick is insane. Please stay away.
This girl stole from me. She can't be trusted and you shouldn't put any money time or effort into her. Pussy is also loose.And then this person said:
I'm not planning on seeing her, but how about some details for anybody who might want to risk it?Really? An insane person and a thief with a loose pussy, and you STILL want the details?
And then not even a day later another guy asked about her again. Rtff bro.
Has anyone tried? Is she real?
https://members.seeking.com/member/f79ecfb1-50af-4037-8247-23589e4013d3To which we have 2 replies:
Met this one in Buckhead.
You can Search her on Seeking. She is just moving into the apt with another Seeking lady. Dunno what the other one name is.
She is very nice. Worth the meet. The apt is reeked of smoke tho. I don't think she smokes. Her other roomie might.
She's super nice. She really liked me too. But her V always had a smell and it just turned me off. She wanted bare but I declined. BBBJ 5/10.So now we have her description as "insane, thief, loose pussy, apt reeks of smoke, smelly vagina, 5/10 BBBJ". And yet we Still have some guys trying to ask for more details?
Seems like she has mixed reviews. Someone said she stole from them others say she is somewhat decent. Worth it or Not Worth it?No wonder you all get ripped off and shit. How many red flags do you need?
SeekingHead
07-23-24, 08:05
Also I know seeking have promo codes and I shared one in the past.
Does SDM have any promotions?The 6 months for $144 is a really good deal.
What the hell is everyone's deal with this MILF and Cookies chick. The other day, one person asked:To be honest, I've had amazing times with ladies who the site has said they were trash. We'll never really understand these ladies. Maybe they feel there's a type they can take advantage of. Idk. So even though some guys may have had a horrible experience, doesn't mean everyone will. Really, I just need to know she's not uncle LE. He didn't go on a vacation so I'm still interested in possibly seeing her. Therefore, as much details as possible would help.
Has anyone had any experience with "Worship My Feet"? Her profile has her as a lesbian dom and I spoke to her a couple of years ago but we weren't on the same page. She messaged me after I got a new account and seems a lot more eager this time. I enjoy the dom kink stuff, but generally avoid that on the site because it almost always ends up being a scam for financial domination.
https://members.seeking.com/member/93089593-368e-4355-9b30-df38ee3473d6She's real, and also on Tryst. However, she has more body hair than Donkey Kong, which in my personal opinion, is repulsive.
Interesting. Different people have different level of risk averseness. But if 3 seniors here say that she is a thief and her pussy smells bad, I just forget about her and move on. It is not about the taste or performance that could be YMMV. She may not steal from you first time. But she will do it second time. Again different people play this game differently.
To be honest, I've had amazing times with ladies who the site has said they were trash. We'll never really understand these ladies. Maybe they feel there's a type they can take advantage of. Idk. So even though some guys may have had a horrible experience, doesn't mean everyone will. Really, I just need to know she's not uncle LE. He didn't go on a vacation so I'm still interested in possibly seeing her. Therefore, as much details as possible would help.
Airmantroy
07-24-24, 09:40
What the hell is everyone's deal with this MILF and Cookies chick. The other day, one person asked:
To which I and another person replied:
And then this person said:
Really? An insane person and a thief with a loose pussy, and you STILL want the details?
And then not even a day later another guy asked about her again. Rtff bro.
To which we have 2 replies:
So now we have her description as "insane, thief, loose pussy, apt reeks of smoke, smelly vagina, 5/10 BBBJ". And yet we Still have some guys trying to ask for more details?
No wonder you all get ripped off and shit. How many red flags do you need?So clearly you have an agenda against this PRO. I stated I am not planning on seeing her, been there done that and it wasn't worthy of a repeat. The details I wanted him to divulge aren; t about how sickly skinny she is, or that she'll do BBFS, CIP, or greek CIA. I already know those things from personal experience. I want to know how she robbed him. So that anyone else who may be planning a visit with her can guard themselves. Oh, and she'll take 200 and host if you negotiate hard.
What the hell is everyone's deal with this MILF and Cookies chick. The other day, one person asked:
To which I and another person replied:
And then this person said:
Really? An insane person and a thief with a loose pussy, and you STILL want the details?
And then not even a day later another guy asked about her again. Rtff bro.
To which we have 2 replies:
So now we have her description as "insane, thief, loose pussy, apt reeks of smoke, smelly vagina, 5/10 BBBJ". And yet we Still have some guys trying to ask for more details?
No wonder you all get ripped off and shit. How many red flags do you need?Not a lot different than on another site where you have a number ranking system. You clearly see performance given as some low number. You also clearly see that the following reviews are people that are not new members and obviously have access to the site. But the super low performance and rip off scores keep coming in. Not sure why they would still go if all the low scores are there?
LovePunnany
07-24-24, 22:11
Have a meet with this baby on Monday, any intel would be appreciated.
https://members.seeking.com/member/93844db3-4d78-44e2-b09d-1bef5b40b8f3
Have a meet with this baby on Monday, any intel would be appreciated.
https://members.seeking.com/member/93844db3-4d78-44e2-b09d-1bef5b40b8f3I talked to her a while ago, but I got vibes that she was a pro and didn't follow through.
Let us know how was it.
LovePunnany
07-25-24, 11:57
I talked to her a while ago, but I got vibes that she was a pro and didn't follow through.
Let us know how was it.I am getting the same vibes also, she went right to scheduling a meet and letting me know what the donation would be. She is pretty though.
stdcheck.com is a pretty good resource for getting tested for STD's discretely.
"But I'm fine, I don't got any symptoms".
Considering how likely it is that you could carry something (clap, gono, MGen) while asymptomatic, you should still go get checked out just so you can be certain that you're safe.
You can pay using giftcards. I got a giftcard off of giftcardmall. Com and paid for a complete panel test.
Picked out a labcorp location and was in and out in less than 20 min. I didn't have to provide my I'd either, I just handed them the print-out from stdcheck and that was fine.
stdcheck.com is a pretty good resource for getting tested for STD's discretely.
"But I'm fine, I don't got any symptoms".
Considering how likely it is that you could carry something (clap, gono, MGen) while asymptomatic, you should still go get checked out just so you can be certain that you're safe.
You can pay using giftcards. I got a giftcard off of giftcardmall. Com and paid for a complete panel test.
Picked out a labcorp location and was in and out in less than 20 min. I didn't have to provide my I'd either, I just handed them the print-out from stdcheck and that was fine.I have done this exact thing a few times.
stdcheck.com is a pretty good resource for getting tested for STD's discretely.
"But I'm fine, I don't got any symptoms".
Considering how likely it is that you could carry something (clap, gono, MGen) while asymptomatic, you should still go get checked out just so you can be certain that you're safe.
You can pay using giftcards. I got a giftcard off of giftcardmall. Com and paid for a complete panel test.
Picked out a labcorp location and was in and out in less than 20 min. I didn't have to provide my I'd either, I just handed them the print-out from stdcheck and that was fine.Yep! "I'm always covered" or not. If you are in the hobby, get checked out bros.
stdcheck.com (https://www.dpbolvw.net/click-7901271-15733880) is a pretty good resource for getting tested for STD's discretely.
"But I'm fine, I don't got any symptoms".
Considering how likely it is that you could carry something (clap, gono, MGen) while asymptomatic, you should still go get checked out just so you can be certain that you're safe.
I agree with you, I've used them before. Most of the time I've had symptoms it shows after a week, but asymptomatic is tricky becasue you don't see anything. I prefer to get checked every few months.
Have a meet with this baby on Monday, any intel would be appreciated.
https://members.seeking.com/member/93844db3-4d78-44e2-b09d-1bef5b40b8f3"I am looking for some gentle and kind who is ready to have fun for a good and long time".
I saw her profile, and don't see any red flags, good luck with her.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gg6dDk4d5H4 (red flags).
Airmantroy
07-29-24, 09:36
https://members.seeking.com/member/56ef17e7-9de1-4ecd-8df6-e622dd49fc01
It'll probably get flagged, everybody loves sneaky titty pics though. I may need to head to Canada for a vacation.
NastyFrostyyy
07-29-24, 11:03
https://members.seeking.com/member/235f50bc-e7d6-4397-a4c5-3ce2b023a264
Very hot but will try to suck the life from you financially. Started off very chill but quickly devolved into asking for money every single day no matter what. It came to the point where she is essentially begging.
If you want to be financially dominated though this is your girl I bet.
This is her profile before she blocks me LOL.
https://members.seeking.com/member/f987bfc4-0835-440f-9ea5-b841daa2f5e5
Her pics are of a onlyfans model in oregon I believe.
The ig model pics she's using is lexxyypnw_.
https://members.seeking.com/member/235f50bc-e7d6-4397-a4c5-3ce2b023a264
Very hot but will try to suck the life from you financially. Started off very chill but quickly devolved into asking for money every single day no matter what. It came to the point where she is essentially begging.
If you want to be financially dominated though this is your girl I bet.For a broke college girl (per her description), she sure has a garage full of serious equipment. A pontoon boat, a mini-excavator, some tool chests and welding equipment.
Of course, it's probably her parent's stuff.
I agree with you, I've used them before. Most of the time I've had symptoms it shows after a week, but asymptomatic is tricky because you don't see anything. I prefer to get checked every few months.What's even more of a problem are new infections that aren't normally tested such as Mycoplasma genitalium (Mgen).
- It has the same symptoms as Chlamydia or Gonorrhea;.
- a lot of facilities don't test for it unless you specifically ask for it to be done; (stdcheck will test for it, but you have to pay extra)
- majority of women who carry it are are asymptomatic;.
And the icing on the cake:
- It's antibiotic resistant.
There is an entire reddit thread dedicated to discussion about how many rounds of treatment people had to go through just to get rid of it.
(https://www.reddit.com/r/MycoplasmaGenitalium/).
What's even more of a problem are new infections that aren't normally tested such as Mycoplasma genitalium (Mgen).
- It has the same symptoms as Chlamydia or Gonorrhea;.
- a lot of facilities don't test for it unless you specifically ask for it to be done; (stdcheck will test for it, but you have to pay extra)
- majority of women who carry it are are asymptomatic;.
And the icing on the cake:
- It's antibiotic resistant.
There is an entire reddit thread dedicated to discussion about how many rounds of treatment people had to go through just to get rid of it.
(https://www.reddit.com/r/MycoplasmaGenitalium/).STD check don't do mycoplasma, trich you have to ask to add it to the panel and cost an other 99, mycoplasma is treated with eritromicin and the trich is a parasite who is treated with metronidazole.
STD check don't do mycoplasma, trich you have to ask to add it to the panel and cost an other 99, mycoplasma is treated with eritromicin and the trich is a parasite who is treated with metronidazole.STDcheck does do mycoplasma, I know because I just had the test done in addition to my full panel.
The typical treatment for Mycoplasma is a treatment of doxycycline followed by a treatment of azithromycin or moxifloxacin. Even after you get a negative test results, residual symptoms can last for a couple months.
Member #6704
07-30-24, 00:54
Have a meet with this baby on Monday, any intel would be appreciated.
https://members.seeking.com/member/93844db3-4d78-44e2-b09d-1bef5b40b8f3Any update? How did the meet go?
LovePunnany
07-30-24, 12:04
Any update? How did the meet go?We rescheduled to Wednesday, but I am having second thoughts due to finding out she is a professional. Will let you know if I follow through.
Member #6704
07-31-24, 08:58
We rescheduled to Wednesday, but I am having second thoughts due to finding out she is a professional. Will let you know if I follow through.Cool. Good luck. I was just curious.
2me4Looking2
07-31-24, 15:10
I know this one has been around for a bit, but I can't find any mention of her with her current name. Does anyone have experience with this one?
https://members.seeking.com/member/142b674c-05fb-485a-b571-31d03fbd51fe
LovePunnany
07-31-24, 15:52
Cool. Good luck. I was just curious.So this was a bust. We communicated and I am ready to go then she proceed to tell me before I see her I have to make a deposit of half. Told her I would not and she would not budge, so we both cancelled.
LovePunnany
07-31-24, 15:56
On my bucket list is to have an Asian baby but I am finding it very difficult. There is not a lot on Seeking and it seems like they are very picky.
Anyone would like to have pity on me and throw a nice Asian baby my way? I am willing to go way above my regular price.
I know this fatty has been around for a bit, but I can't find any mention of her with her current name. Does anyone have experience with this one?
https://members.seeking.com/member/a0100b37-b311-415a-a6d7-bb5abfe99249
TheFrostyOne
08-01-24, 00:39
So, today I got caught being incredibly stupid and had to to pay the price (literally) for it.
I signed up for Seeking a few months ago and was having some pretty decent success. I met and played with 4 different babies over the course of about 2 months and I let my success go to my head and I dropped my guard. A few days ago, a girl with the profile name Rita contacted me and said she was interested. Her profile pics were smoking hot. I am 52 y/o and she is 24 y/o, thin, great rack, big pouty DSL lips, she reminded me of Amanda Seyfried. Anyways, she moved to negotiate a price pretty quick. She asked for 450. I countered with 2 and she accepted right away. First warning sign. I asked about rules, she said she had none. Second warning sign. She did all this without asking me ANY details about me. Third warning sign. I asked her to move to text and she readily agreed. So I gave her my Google Voice account and we continued, where she was talking dirty about all the nasty stuff she wanted to do to me and I was eating it up like kid in a candy store. At this point, I am no longer thinking with my big head and she has me wrapped around her finger. So, she sets a M&G for tomorrow at a Starbucks in Midtown and said if it went well we could go back to her place for some fun. Awesome! Or so I thought. At this point, she asked me to send her a recent headshot so she would know what I looked like. And this is where I fucked up royally. Not thinking straight, I dug through my photo album and found a headshot from about 10 years ago and sent it to her. Unfortunately, I had completely forgotten that this was the headshot I used in my LinkedIn profile that I set up 10 years ago and completely forgot about.
A few hours later, she springs her trap. She sends me a screen capture of my LinkedIn profile, my Facebook profile, my wife's Facebook profile, my property address, etc. And tells me if I don't send her $1600 via Cash App she will go public to my wife and all our friends that I like to pay young girls for sex and send them copies of our conversation, screen caps of my Seeking profile, etc. , etc. Apparently, she did a Google image search and found my LinkedIn profile and from there got enough info about me to search Facebook and property records. She has me dead to rights and she knows it. She promises me that if I pay her, she will go away and I will never her from her again.
I'm completely busted and I don't see any way around it. I could risk telling her to fuck off but I looked at all the contact info she has from my LinkedIn profile and Facebook profile and I decided it wasn't worth the risk to see if she was bluffing. So, I told her I would pay her off but I can't do $1600. We settled on $1 K and I sent it her. At this point, I have no choice but to hope that she is an honest thief, but I won't be surprised if she comes back and asks for more, in which case, I will have to tell her NO and just risk dealing with the fall out or the blackmail will never end.
Lesson learned! Don't send ANY photos that you have ever used anywhere else. Don't give out ANY personal information that can be used to track who you are. I know these are probably common sense, but damn, she pushed all the right buttons and, like I said, I let my recent string of successes blind me to this trap.
Needless to say, I deleted my Seeking profile, my LinkedIn profile, and my Facebook profile. I have access to my wife's Facebook page (which she never checks), so I am going to monitor it for a while so I can intercept any incoming DMs, but I just have to hope for the best at this point.
In related news, I think I am probably going to take a break from this hobby for a while.
Stay safe out there.
NastyFrostyyy
08-01-24, 01:00
So, today I got caught being incredibly stupid and had to to pay the price (literally) for it.
I signed up for Seeking a few months ago and was having some pretty decent success. I met and played with 4 different babies over the course of about 2 months and I let my success go to my head and I dropped my guard. A few days ago, a girl with the profile name Rita contacted me and said she was interested. Her profile pics were smoking hot. I am 52 y/o and she is 24 y/o, thin, great rack, big pouty DSL lips, she reminded me of Amanda Seyfried. Anyways, she moved to negotiate a price pretty quick. She asked for 450. I countered with 2 and she accepted right away.Can you share any images of her so we know who to avoid if she changes names?
Never mix sugar life and real life if you have Anything to lose. NEVER NEVER NEVER.
Turning it over to the cops isn't much consolation after you've lost your job and your marriage. And even though you paid, there is no guarantee she won't pop up again tomorrow or next month or next year. An honest thief. An oxymoron for sure. It might be better to pay a great hacker to get HER personal information and exact some non-violent revenge.
So, today I got caught being incredibly stupid and had to to pay the price (literally) for it.
I signed up for Seeking a few months ago and was having some pretty decent success. I met and played with 4 different babies over the course of about 2 months and I let my success go to my head and I dropped my guard. A few days ago, a girl with the profile name Rita contacted me and said she was interested. Her profile pics were smoking hot. I am 52 y/o and she is 24 y/o, thin, great rack, big pouty DSL lips, she reminded me of Amanda Seyfried. Anyways, she moved to negotiate a price pretty quick. She asked for 450. I countered with 2 and she accepted right away. First warning sign. I asked about rules, she said she had none. Second warning sign. She did all this without asking me ANY details about me. Third warning sign. I asked her to move to text and she readily agreed. So I gave her my Google Voice account and we continued, where she was talking dirty about all the nasty stuff she wanted to do to me and I was eating it up like kid in a candy store. At this point, I am no longer thinking with my big head and she has me wrapped around her finger. So, she sets a M&G for tomorrow at a Starbucks in Midtown and said if it went well we could go back to her place for some fun. Awesome! Or so I thought. At this point, she asked me to send her a recent headshot so she would know what I looked like. And this is where I fucked up royally. Not thinking straight, I dug through my photo album and found a headshot from about 10 years ago and sent it to her. Unfortunately, I had completely forgotten that this was the headshot I used in my LinkedIn profile that I set up 10 years ago and completely forgot about.
A few hours later, she springs her trap.
So, today I got caught being incredibly stupid and had to to pay the price (literally) for it.
I signed up for Seeking a few months ago and was having some pretty decent success. I met and played with 4 different babies over the course of about 2 months and I let my success go to my head and I dropped my guard. A few days ago, a girl with the profile name Rita contacted me and said she was interested. Her profile pics were smoking hot. I am 52 y/o and she is 24 y/o, thin, great rack, big pouty DSL lips, she reminded me of Amanda Seyfried. Anyways, she moved to negotiate a price pretty quick. She asked for 450. I countered with 2 and she accepted right away. First warning sign. I asked about rules, she said she had none. Second warning sign. She did all this without asking me ANY details about me. Third warning sign. I asked her to move to text and she readily agreed. So I gave her my Google Voice account and we continued, where she was talking dirty about all the nasty stuff she wanted to do to me and I was eating it up like kid in a candy store. At this point, I am no longer thinking with my big head and she has me wrapped around her finger. So, she sets a M&G for tomorrow at a Starbucks in Midtown and said if it went well we could go back to her place for some fun. Awesome! Or so I thought. At this point, she asked me to send her a recent headshot so she would know what I looked like. And this is where I fucked up royally. Not thinking straight, I dug through my photo album and found a headshot from about 10 years ago and sent it to her. Unfortunately, I had completely forgotten that this was the headshot I used in my LinkedIn profile that I set up 10 years ago and completely forgot about.
A few hours later, she springs her trap. She sends me a screen capture of my LinkedIn profile, my Facebook profile, my wife's Facebook profile, my property address, etc. And tells me if I don't send her $1600 via Cash App she will go public to my wife and all our friends that I like to pay young girls for sex and send them copies of our conversation, screen caps of my Seeking profile, etc. , etc. Apparently, she did a Google image search and found my LinkedIn profile and from there got enough info about me to search Facebook and property records. She has me dead to rights and she knows it. She promises me that if I pay her, she will go away and I will never her from her again.
I'm completely busted and I don't see any way around it. I could risk telling her to fuck off but I looked at all the contact info she has from my LinkedIn profile and Facebook profile and I decided it wasn't worth the risk to see if she was bluffing. So, I told her I would pay her off but I can't do $1600. We settled on $1 K and I sent it her. At this point, I have no choice but to hope that she is an honest thief, but I won't be surprised if she comes back and asks for more, in which case, I will have to tell her NO and just risk dealing with the fall out or the blackmail will never end.
Lesson learned! Don't send ANY photos that you have ever used anywhere else. Don't give out ANY personal information that can be used to track who you are. I know these are probably common sense, but damn, she pushed all the right buttons and, like I said, I let my recent string of successes blind me to this trap.
Needless to say, I deleted my Seeking profile, my LinkedIn profile, and my Facebook profile. I have access to my wife's Facebook page (which she never checks), so I am going to monitor it for a while so I can intercept any incoming DMs, but I just have to hope for the best at this point.
In related news, I think I am probably going to take a break from this hobby for a while.
Stay safe out there.Sorry this happened to you brother. Yeah, a lot of mistakes were made, not much you can do about them at this point, and I am certainly not one to rub salt in this wound.
Thanks for all the info, as the details can help others not make future mistakes.
Is her profile still up? It may help others to be aware of her.
FarFarAway
08-01-24, 09:24
Sorry this happened to you brother. Yeah, a lot of mistakes were made, not much you can do about them at this point, and I am certainly not one to rub salt in this wound.
Thanks for all the info, as the details can help others not make future mistakes.
Is her profile still up? It may help others to be aware of her.The dude fucked up big time, no doubt. However, there are different ways to deal w / extortion. I think a common tactic goes something like this. Send her a message:
While IK that stepping out on my spouse isn't the nicest thing I have ever done, it isn't a crime. However, extortion definitely is a crime. A Federal crime. I have all the evidence I need in all the messages you have sent me to get you easily convicted. So if you want to persist in threatening to out me to, my next stop will be with the FBI, because at that point I have nothing to lose. Doing time in Federal prison is no walk in the park. Among many things, there is no parole or time off for good behavior. You serve the sentence you are given.
TooHotForYou
08-01-24, 10:07
So, today I got caught being incredibly stupid and had to to pay the price (literally) for it.
A few hours later, she springs her trap. She sends me a screen capture of my LinkedIn profile, my Facebook profile, my wife's Facebook profile, my property address, etc. And tells me if I don't send her $1600 via Cash App she will go public to my wife and all our friends that I like to pay young girls for sex and send them copies of our conversation, screen caps of my Seeking profile, etc. , etc. Apparently, she did a Google image search and found my LinkedIn profile and from there got enough info about me to search Facebook and property records. She has me dead to rights and she knows it. She promises me that if I pay her, she will go away and I will never her from her again.
I'm completely busted and I don't see any way around it. I could risk telling her to fuck off but I looked at all the contact info she has from my LinkedIn profile and Facebook profile and I decided it wasn't worth the risk to see if she was bluffing. So, I told her I would pay her off but I can't do $1600. We settled on $1 K and I sent it her. At this point, I have no choice but to hope that she is an honest thief, but I won't be surprised if she comes back and asks for more, in which case, I will have to tell her NO and just risk dealing with the fall out or the blackmail will never end.
Lesson learned! Don't send ANY photos that you have ever used anywhere else. Don't give out ANY personal information that can be used to track who you are. I know these are probably common sense, but damn, she pushed all the right buttons and, like I said, I let my recent string of successes blind me to this trap.
Needless to say, I deleted my Seeking profile, my LinkedIn profile, and my Facebook profile. I have access to my wife's Facebook page (which she never checks), so I am going to monitor it for a while so I can intercept any incoming DMs, but I just have to hope for the best at this point.
In related news, I think I am probably going to take a break from this hobby for a while.
Stay safe out there.And little do you know you may have sent money to somebody who doesn't even live here. You got played. You sending them money wasn't even more stupid. Never send them money. And if they do reveal your secret, so what? You're a man. Now wise up and keep hobbling after taking this advice.
So, today I got caught being incredibly stupid and had to to pay the price (literally) for it.
I signed up for Seeking a few months ago and was having some pretty decent success. I met and played with 4 different babies over the course of about 2 months and I let my success go to my head and I dropped my guard. A few days ago, a girl with the profile name Rita contacted me and said she was interested. Her profile pics were smoking hot. I am 52 y/o and she is 24 y/o, thin, great rack, big pouty DSL lips, she reminded me of Amanda Seyfried. Anyways, she moved to negotiate a price pretty quick. She asked for 450. I countered with 2 and she accepted right away. First warning sign. I asked about rules, she said she had none. Second warning sign. She did all this without asking me ANY details about me. Third warning sign. I asked her to move to text and she readily agreed. So I gave her my Google Voice account and we continued, where she was talking dirty about all the nasty stuff she wanted to do to me and I was eating it up like kid in a candy store. At this point, I am no longer thinking with my big head and she has me wrapped around her finger. So, she sets a M&G for tomorrow at a Starbucks in Midtown and said if it went well we could go back to her place for some fun. Awesome! Or so I thought. At this point, she asked me to send her a recent headshot so she would know what I looked like. And this is where I fucked up royally. Not thinking straight, I dug through my photo album and found a headshot from about 10 years ago and sent it to her. Unfortunately, I had completely forgotten that this was the headshot I used in my LinkedIn profile that I set up 10 years ago and completely forgot about.
.This has happened to me 3 times and I have never paid every time and call their bluff. Warning signs are def. There. Think with your big head, if its TGTBT then it is. Be careful out there fellas.
You guys need to check out fet. If you have patience and a little game, you can find some easy gems in there. PITA because its hard to filter for women in Atlanta, but you WILL find some freaks for free.
Doctor Sugar
08-01-24, 10:31
So, today I got caught being incredibly stupid and had to to pay the price (literally) for it.
I signed up for Seeking a few months ago and was having some pretty decent success. I met and played with 4 different babies over the course of about 2 months and I let my success go to my head and I dropped my guard. A few days ago, a girl with the profile name Rita contacted me and said she was interested. Her profile pics were smoking hot. I am 52 y/o and she is 24 y/o, thin, great rack, big pouty DSL lips, she reminded me of Amanda Seyfried. Anyways, she moved to negotiate a price pretty quick. She asked for 450. I countered with 2 and she accepted right away. First warning sign. I asked about rules, she said she had none. Second warning sign. She did all this without asking me ANY details about me. Third warning sign. I asked her to move to text and she readily agreed. So I gave her my Google Voice account and we continued, where she was talking dirty about all the nasty stuff she wanted to do to me and I was eating it up like kid in a candy store. At this point, I am no longer thinking with my big head and she has me wrapped around her finger. So, she sets a M&G for tomorrow at a Starbucks in Midtown and said if it went well we could go back to her place for some fun. Awesome! Or so I thought. At this point, she asked me to send her a recent headshot so she would know what I looked like. And this is where I fucked up royally. Not thinking straight, I dug through my photo album and found a headshot from about 10 years ago and sent it to her. Unfortunately, I had completely forgotten that this was the headshot I used in my LinkedIn profile that I set up 10 years ago and completely forgot about.
A few hours later, she springs her trap. She sends me a screen capture of my LinkedIn profile, my Facebook profile, my wife's Facebook profile, my property address, etc. And tells me if I don't send her $1600 via Cash App she will go public to my wife and all our friends that I like to pay young girls for sex and send them copies of our conversation, screen caps of my Seeking profile, etc. , etc. Apparently, she did a Google image search and found my LinkedIn profile and from there got enough info about me to search Facebook and property records. She has me dead to rights and she knows it. She promises me that if I pay her, she will go away and I will never her from her again.
I'm completely busted and I don't see any way around it. I could risk telling her to fuck off but I looked at all the contact info she has from my LinkedIn profile and Facebook profile and I decided it wasn't worth the risk to see if she was bluffing. So, I told her I would pay her off but I can't do $1600. We settled on $1 K and I sent it her. At this point, I have no choice but to hope that she is an honest thief, but I won't be surprised if she comes back and asks for more, in which case, I will have to tell her NO and just risk dealing with the fall out or the blackmail will never end.
Lesson learned! Don't send ANY photos that you have ever used anywhere else. Don't give out ANY personal information that can be used to track who you are. I know these are probably common sense, but damn, she pushed all the right buttons and, like I said, I let my recent string of successes blind me to this trap.
Needless to say, I deleted my Seeking profile, my LinkedIn profile, and my Facebook profile. I have access to my wife's Facebook page (which she never checks), so I am going to monitor it for a while so I can intercept any incoming DMs, but I just have to hope for the best at this point.
In related news, I think I am probably going to take a break from this hobby for a while.
Stay safe out there.Is it this Rita?
https://members.seeking.com/member/7984a4c3-54ac-4510-ab22-b97cdd285464
Even if this is the right one, the overseas fraudsters run this scam constantly. New profiles will pop up with the same attempts to scam us. We should all be careful about sharing real face pictures with the anonymous person behind a supposed SB profile.
BrownSugaTwo
08-01-24, 10:55
Lina - https://members.seeking.com/member/1a6847b2-f6fd-4343-94fc-2c4205d1477f.
Maestra - https://members.seeking.com/member/21ed2ede-5216-4169-bff7-ed6fae23677a.
Kimmy - https://members.seeking.com/member/ba9ec2e9-920e-4a07-a5d9-c4e52aa57e16.
Maestra is a nut I can't seem to crack. Maybe she's not down with the brown, but I'm curious to know if she's even real.
So, today I got caught being incredibly stupid and had to to pay the price (literally) for it.
I signed up for Seeking a few months ago and was having some pretty decent success. I met and played with 4 different babies over the course of about 2 months and I let my success go to my head and I dropped my guard. A few days ago, a girl with the profile name Rita contacted me and said she was interested. Her profile pics were smoking hot. I am 52 y/o and she is 24 y/o, thin, great rack, big pouty DSL lips, she reminded me of Amanda Seyfried. Anyways, she moved to negotiate a price pretty quick. She asked for 450. I countered with 2 and she accepted right away. First warning sign. I asked about rules, she said she had none. Second warning sign. She did all this without asking me ANY details about me. Third warning sign. I asked her to move to text and she readily agreed. So I gave her my Google Voice account and we continued, where she was talking dirty about all the nasty stuff she wanted to do to me and I was eating it up like kid in a candy store. At this point, I am no longer thinking with my big head and she has me wrapped around her finger. So, she sets a M&G for tomorrow at a Starbucks in Midtown and said if it went well we could go back to her place for some fun. Awesome! Or so I thought. At this point, she asked me to send her a recent headshot so she would know what I looked like. And this is where I fucked up royally. Not thinking straight, I dug through my photo album and found a headshot from about 10 years ago and sent it to her. Unfortunately, I had completely forgotten that this was the headshot I used in my LinkedIn profile that I set up 10 years ago and completely forgot about.
A few hours later, she springs her trap. She sends me a screen capture of my LinkedIn profile, my Facebook profile, my wife's Facebook profile, my property address, etc. And tells me if I don't send her $1600 via Cash App she will go public to my wife and all our friends that I like to pay young girls for sex and send them copies of our conversation, screen caps of my Seeking profile, etc. , etc. Apparently, she did a Google image search and found my LinkedIn profile and from there got enough info about me to search Facebook and property records. She has me dead to rights and she knows it. She promises me that if I pay her, she will go away and I will never her from her again.
I'm completely busted and I don't see any way around it. I could risk telling her to fuck off but I looked at all the contact info she has from my LinkedIn profile and Facebook profile and I decided it wasn't worth the risk to see if she was bluffing. So, I told her I would pay her off but I can't do $1600. We settled on $1 K and I sent it her. At this point, I have no choice but to hope that she is an honest thief, but I won't be surprised if she comes back and asks for more, in which case, I will have to tell her NO and just risk dealing with the fall out or the blackmail will never end.
Lesson learned! Don't send ANY photos that you have ever used anywhere else. Don't give out ANY personal information that can be used to track who you are. I know these are probably common sense, but damn, she pushed all the right buttons and, like I said, I let my recent string of successes blind me to this trap.
Needless to say, I deleted my Seeking profile, my LinkedIn profile, and my Facebook profile. I have access to my wife's Facebook page (which she never checks), so I am going to monitor it for a while so I can intercept any incoming DMs, but I just have to hope for the best at this point.
In related news, I think I am probably going to take a break from this hobby for a while.
Stay safe out there.Sorry about what you have dealed brother. But you shouldn't have paid her anything. She will definetly come back to you. Her account will be banned after some days she will run out of money and she will again try to blackmail you. Now a days so many scammers can get pics online and if you sent her money she can have that as a proof to blackmail you more.
Airmantroy
08-01-24, 11:58
Is it this Rita?
https://members.seeking.com/member/7984a4c3-54ac-4510-ab22-b97cdd285464
Even if this is the right one, the overseas fraudsters run this scam constantly. New profiles will pop up with the same attempts to scam us. We should all be careful about sharing real face pictures with the anonymous person behind a supposed SB profile.ALWAYS look at their recent location. This one in particular says Mexico. That'd be an instant block or absolutely zero personal info.
I have screwed with at least 15 scammers in the past 23 days. They are really easy to pick out and I have the time to waste to set my trap to get them banned. As soon as they offer to sell pics and videos I ask them how I can pay. Any mention of CashApp will get them banned for TOS violation and using the site for commercial use.
FarFarAway
08-01-24, 13:48
Even if this is the right one, the overseas fraudsters run this scam constantly. New profiles will pop up with the same attempts to scam us. We should all be careful about sharing real face pictures with the anonymous person behind a supposed SB profile.This is why there has been significant discussion on this site of facial recognition technology, which can definitely be used to track people's real identities down. I have a photo that I have vetted through all of the common sites, even those that charge.
Now, one other point to add to the message I suggested sending earlier, it is that even though you don't know the scammer's real identity, it would be simple for LE to figure out exactly who they are and where they are. Honestly, that is your best play to begin with if this happens to you. If they get their back up, well, you'll have to face the music one way or the other. Like always, criminals are usually lazy and will move on to a nut that is easier to crack. You have to be steadfast.
So, today I got caught being incredibly stupid and had to to pay the price (literally) for it.
I signed up for Seeking a few months ago and was having some pretty decent success. I met and played with 4 different babies over the course of about 2 months and I let my success go to my head and I dropped my guard. A few days ago, a girl with the profile name Rita contacted me and said she was interested. Her profile pics were smoking hot. I am 52 y/o and she is 24 y/o, thin, great rack, big pouty DSL lips, she reminded me of Amanda Seyfried. Anyways, she moved to negotiate a price pretty quick. She asked for 450. I countered with 2 and she accepted right away. First warning sign. I asked about rules, she said she had none. Second warning sign. She did all this without asking me ANY details about me. Third warning sign. I asked her to move to text and she readily agreed. So I gave her my Google Voice account and we continued, where she was talking dirty about all the nasty stuff she wanted to do to me and I was eating it up like kid in a candy store. At this point, I am no longer thinking with my big head and she has me wrapped around her finger. So, she sets a M&G for tomorrow at a Starbucks in Midtown and said if it went well we could go back to her place for some fun. Awesome! Or so I thought. At this point, she asked me to send her a recent headshot so she would know what I looked like. And this is where I fucked up royally. Not thinking straight, I dug through my photo album and found a headshot from about 10 years ago and sent it to her. Unfortunately, I had completely forgotten that this was the headshot I used in my LinkedIn profile that I set up 10 years ago and completely forgot about.
A few hours later, she springs her trap. She sends me a screen capture of my LinkedIn profile, my Facebook profile, my wife's Facebook profile, my property address, etc. And tells me if I don't send her $1600 via Cash App she will go public to my wife and all our friends that I like to pay young girls for sex and send them copies of our conversation, screen caps of my Seeking profile, etc. , etc. Apparently, she did a Google image search and found my LinkedIn profile and from there got enough info about me to search Facebook and property records. She has me dead to rights and she knows it. She promises me that if I pay her, she will go away and I will never her from her again.
I'm completely busted and I don't see any way around it. I could risk telling her to fuck off but I looked at all the contact info she has from my LinkedIn profile and Facebook profile and I decided it wasn't worth the risk to see if she was bluffing. So, I told her I would pay her off but I can't do $1600. We settled on $1 K and I sent it her. At this point, I have no choice but to hope that she is an honest thief, but I won't be surprised if she comes back and asks for more, in which case, I will have to tell her NO and just risk dealing with the fall out or the blackmail will never end.
Lesson learned! Don't send ANY photos that you have ever used anywhere else. Don't give out ANY personal information that can be used to track who you are. I know these are probably common sense, but damn, she pushed all the right buttons and, like I said, I let my recent string of successes blind me to this trap.
Needless to say, I deleted my Seeking profile, my LinkedIn profile, and my Facebook profile. I have access to my wife's Facebook page (which she never checks), so I am going to monitor it for a while so I can intercept any incoming DMs, but I just have to hope for the best at this point.
In related news, I think I am probably going to take a break from this hobby for a while.
Stay safe out there.Sorry to hear that. Actually she sent me a message few days ago.
I check her location and joined date. As soon as I found out her location is in Mexico and joined not too long ago, I wanted have little fun with her.
I had some free times, so why not. LOL.
She asked my number due to she doesn't log it often. But I asked her number, even I use texting app, I didn't want to give out that number either.
Got her number in 1 min and text her who I am. So the fun began. LOL.
I asked her about ppm and what she likes and she said 450 ppm and she is very submissive, will do anything I want. Even everything bare. She said she was on BC. She asked me when I'm available, she really wanted meet me right away. I asked her some pics and got few pics from her. Which might be fake.
I knew her location is in Mexico, so I asked her where she from. She told me she was born in San Diego but she is Spanish. Most of her families stays in Barcelona. But her ethnicity was Native American in her profile. She doesn't even remember what she wrote on her profile.
We had some sexting, this one might be a guy. LOL.
Asked her to send me some naked pics but it wasn't free.
About 30 mins of sexting, I lost interest in this fake scammer.
So told her to write down today's date and my name on a paper and take selfie. Then send it to me. She couldn't do it because she / he was fake.
I blocked her from texting app and reported her from seeking.
Don't give her any money. That might cause you to pay her more later.
NastyFrostyyy
08-01-24, 14:59
Anyone have any success with this one?
https://members.seeking.com/member/82b131ec-adff-4bd2-8bfb-f1bd5cc4c6f7
TylerDurden07
08-01-24, 15:47
Never mix sugar life and real life if you have Anything to lose. NEVER NEVER NEVER.
Turning it over to the cops isn't much consolation after you've lost your job and your marriage. And even though you paid, there is no guarantee she won't pop up again tomorrow or next month or next year. An honest thief. An oxymoron for sure. It might be better to pay a great hacker to get HER personal information and exact some non-violent revenge.But I NEVER pay & go by the phrase "the best defense is a great offense. ".
TheFrostyOne
08-01-24, 16:00
And little do you know you may have sent money to somebody who doesn't even live here. You got played. You sending them money wasn't even more stupid. Never send them money. And if they do reveal your secret, so what? You're a man. Now wise up and keep hobbling after taking this advice.I'm sure I got played, but this advice is easier said than done when you actually have a lot to lose. 20 years ago, I would told her to fuck off. Today, $1 K is not a huge deal.
TheFrostyOne
08-01-24, 16:06
Is it this Rita?
https://members.seeking.com/member/7984a4c3-54ac-4510-ab22-b97cdd285464
Even if this is the right one, the overseas fraudsters run this scam constantly. New profiles will pop up with the same attempts to scam us. We should all be careful about sharing real face pictures with the anonymous person behind a supposed SB profile.Yes! That's "her". Avoid like the plague.
TheFrostyOne
08-01-24, 16:09
Sorry about what you have dealed brother. But you shouldn't have paid her anything. She will definetly come back to you. Her account will be banned after some days she will run out of money and she will again try to blackmail you. Now a days so many scammers can get pics online and if you sent her money she can have that as a proof to blackmail you more.If she contacts me again, I simply won't respond. I would have done the same last time except we were right in the middle of discussing if I could bareback her, so she knew I was there. Next time, it will simply look like I shut off that phone number.
LovePunnany
08-01-24, 19:28
You guys need to check out fet. If you have patience and a little game, you can find some easy gems in there. PITA because its hard to filter for women in Atlanta, but you WILL find some freaks for free.So I have never head of this site and wow I was shocked. The site is the world largest and most popular social network for the BDSM community, Kink and Fetish community. So, how difficult it is the score on this site?
DavidGooms
08-01-24, 22:41
So sorry you had to go thru this stressful situation. I was in the same state a year ago. I talked with someone in seeking website and somehow they found all my social media details and tried to blackmail for $1500. At that moment I had decided not to send to her any money thinking if I pay them once the asking for money is not going to end ever. She kept sending me threatening text messages for the 3-4 days or a week don't remember but eventually she (or a he I don't know) gave up. I deleted my Facebook profile but luckily nothing bad happened. I don't know if she reported me in seeking, but my seeking profile got banned. Never signed up again.
So, today I got caught being incredibly stupid and had to to pay the price (literally) for it.
I signed up for Seeking a few months ago and was having some pretty decent success. I met and played with 4 different babies over the course of about 2 months and I let my success go to my head and I dropped my guard. A few days ago, a girl with the profile name Rita contacted me and said she was interested. Her profile pics were smoking hot. I am 52 y/o and she is 24 y/o, thin, great rack, big pouty DSL lips, she reminded me of Amanda Seyfried. Anyways, she moved to negotiate a price pretty quick. She asked for 450. I countered with 2 and she accepted right away. First warning sign. I asked about rules, she said she had none. Second warning sign. She did all this without asking me ANY details about me. Third warning sign. I asked her to move to text and she readily agreed. So I gave her my Google Voice account and we continued, where she was talking dirty about all the nasty stuff she wanted to do to me and I was eating it up like kid in a candy store. At this point, I am no longer thinking with my big head and she has me wrapped around her finger. So, she sets a M&G for tomorrow at a Starbucks in Midtown and said if it went well we could go back to her place for some fun. Awesome! Or so I thought. At this point, she asked me to send her a recent headshot so she would know what I looked like. And this is where I fucked up royally. Not thinking straight, I dug through my photo album and found a headshot from about 10 years ago and sent it to her. Unfortunately, I had completely forgotten that this was the headshot I used in my LinkedIn profile that I set up 10 years ago and completely forgot about.
A few hours later, she springs her trap. She sends me a screen capture of my LinkedIn profile, my Facebook profile, my wife's Facebook profile, my property address, etc. And tells me if I don't send her $1600 via Cash App she will go public to my wife and all our friends that I like to pay young girls for sex and send them copies of our conversation, screen caps of my Seeking profile, etc. , etc. Apparently, she did a Google image search and found my LinkedIn profile and from there got enough info about me to search Facebook and property records. She has me dead to rights and she knows it. She promises me that if I pay her, she will go away and I will never her from her again.
I'm completely busted and I don't see any way around it. I could risk telling her to fuck off but I looked at all the contact info she has from my LinkedIn profile and Facebook profile and I decided it wasn't worth the risk to see if she was bluffing. So, I told her I would pay her off but I can't do $1600. We settled on $1 K and I sent it her. At this point, I have no choice but to hope that she is an honest thief, but I won't be surprised if she comes back and asks for more, in which case, I will have to tell her NO and just risk dealing with the fall out or the blackmail will never end.
Lesson learned! Don't send ANY photos that you have ever used anywhere else. Don't give out ANY personal information that can be used to track who you are. I know these are probably common sense, but damn, she pushed all the right buttons and, like I said, I let my recent string of successes blind me to this trap.
Needless to say, I deleted my Seeking profile, my LinkedIn profile, and my Facebook profile. I have access to my wife's Facebook page (which she never checks), so I am going to monitor it for a while so I can intercept any incoming DMs, but I just have to hope for the best at this point.
In related news, I think I am probably going to take a break from this hobby for a while.
Stay safe out there.
LovePunnany
08-01-24, 23:49
Have a meet with the baby next week. She has been on Seeking for a while, any insight on this baby would be appreciated.
https://members.seeking.com/member/9a524141-1559-4c60-9360-63468082fc46
LovePunnany
08-02-24, 00:00
Reenlisted on Seeking and had meets set up with a few babies and most are requiring a deposit before any meet.
Is this a new trend? I truly hope no one is making deposits.
JunkSecond
08-02-24, 08:47
So I have never head of this site and wow I was shocked. The site is the world largest and most popular social network for the BDSM community, Kink and Fetish community. So, how difficult it is the score on this site?I have done it when traveling for work, escorts and SBs use it along with LOTS of profiles created as a shill for an OF account. You will have a hard time finding success for free as a single male, but it is possible.
Christian Troy
08-02-24, 09:29
So I have never head of this site and wow I was shocked. The site is the world largest and most popular social network for the BDSM community, Kink and Fetish community. So, how difficult it is the score on this site?
I have done it when traveling for work, escorts and SBs use it along with LOTS of profiles created as a shill for an OF account. You will have a hard time finding success for free as a single male, but it is possible.I've never had good luck with fet but also didn't put a tremendous amount of time into it. Might try another go.
An alternative to put on the radar is FEELD. It's like a BDSM tinder. Much smaller pool than Fet, but less bots, etc.
I'd actually be interested in exploring the kink world more. I wish I had known about Dungeon 1763 when it was around, sounds like it was a great time.
https://members.seeking.com/member/b1776a0a-51b7-43f7-b86c-66413aa3adf9
I know someone reported this one long time ago, she wants 4 $$ and lots of no nos, any of you guys had dealing with her?
LouisHernandez
08-02-24, 17:05
I got news for you chief, any photo you send of yourself can likely be matched to your linkedin profile pic, unless you run it thru fawkes (a digital scrambling windows app for pics).
I'm sorry to hear what happened. You have to use alot of common sense with these "women" before sharing details about yourself. I don't have a wife so I really don't care, but fast movers are usually scammers. Buyer beware.
So, today I got caught being incredibly stupid and had to to pay the price (literally) for it.
I signed up for Seeking a few months ago and was having some pretty decent success. I met and played with 4 different babies over the course of about 2 months and I let my success go to my head and I dropped my guard. A few days ago, a girl with the profile name Rita contacted me and said she was interested. Her profile pics were smoking hot. I am 52 y/o and she is 24 y/o, thin, great rack, big pouty DSL lips, she reminded me of Amanda Seyfried. Anyways, she moved to negotiate a price pretty quick. She asked for 450. I countered with 2 and she accepted right away. First warning sign. I asked about rules, she said she had none. Second warning sign. She did all this without asking me ANY details about me. Third warning sign. I asked her to move to text and she readily agreed. So I gave her my Google Voice account and we continued, where she was talking dirty about all the nasty stuff she wanted to do to me and I was eating it up like kid in a candy store. At this point, I am no longer thinking with my big head and she has me wrapped around her finger. So, she sets a M&G for tomorrow at a Starbucks in Midtown and said if it went well we could go back to her place for some fun. Awesome! Or so I thought. At this point, she asked me to send her a recent headshot so she would know what I looked like. And this is where I fucked up royally. Not thinking straight, I dug through my photo album and found a headshot from about 10 years ago and sent it to her. Unfortunately, I had completely forgotten that this was the headshot I used in my LinkedIn profile that I set up 10 years ago and completely forgot about.
A few hours later, she springs her trap. She sends me a screen capture of my LinkedIn profile, my Facebook profile, my wife's Facebook profile, my property address, etc. And tells me if I don't send her $1600 via Cash App she will go public to my wife and all our friends that I like to pay young girls for sex and send them copies of our conversation, screen caps of my Seeking profile, etc. , etc. Apparently, she did a Google image search and found my LinkedIn profile and from there got enough info about me to search Facebook and property records. She has me dead to rights and she knows it. She promises me that if I pay her, she will go away and I will never her from her again.
I'm completely busted and I don't see any way around it. I could risk telling her to fuck off but I looked at all the contact info she has from my LinkedIn profile and Facebook profile and I decided it wasn't worth the risk to see if she was bluffing. So, I told her I would pay her off but I can't do $1600. We settled on $1 K and I sent it her. At this point, I have no choice but to hope that she is an honest thief, but I won't be surprised if she comes back and asks for more, in which case, I will have to tell her NO and just risk dealing with the fall out or the blackmail will never end.
Lesson learned! Don't send ANY photos that you have ever used anywhere else. Don't give out ANY personal information that can be used to track who you are. I know these are probably common sense, but damn, she pushed all the right buttons and, like I said, I let my recent string of successes blind me to this trap.
Needless to say, I deleted my Seeking profile, my LinkedIn profile, and my Facebook profile. I have access to my wife's Facebook page (which she never checks), so I am going to monitor it for a while so I can intercept any incoming DMs, but I just have to hope for the best at this point.
In related news, I think I am probably going to take a break from this hobby for a while.
Stay safe out there.
FarFarAway
08-02-24, 18:23
I got news for you chief, any photo you send of yourself can likely be matched to your linkedin profile pic, unless you run it thru fawkes (a digital scrambling windows app for pics).
I'm sorry to hear what happened. You have to use alot of common sense with these "women" before sharing details about yourself. I don't have a wife so I really don't care, but fast movers are usually scammers. Buyer beware.One point of clarification. Fawkes is good, but it needs to be applied to the real photos that are of you that are already out on the internet. That is how the facial recognition sites form a model they used to interrogate new inquiries. So, if the LinkedIn pic has been out there without cloaking, the world already has everything it needs to find it.
I have started making cloaked headshots for professional purposes, I can't avoid providing headshots to people. Perhaps over time the new ones will dilute the regular, old ones and then I won't be found by facial rec.
You should also take any photo you intend to send to a POT and use it as the basis for a search on the two main facial rec sites. You can do this for free. Once it finds your IRL postings of your photos, you can request the search sites to delete your IRL results. They will do this for free.
I have one photo that I have put black dots over the nose and eyes. It is 'safe' for facial rec and other reverse image searches. The basic photo I used to start was NEVER put on the internet.
BTW, if you intend not to put your own photos on a dating site, but someone who looks like you, these sites are a good way to find some pix. You might even pick someone who looks better. However, to get to the site to grab those photos, you would have to pay their fee. One of the sites takes only bitcoin. A pain for those of us who are crypto skeptics.
https://members.seeking.com/member/62b28bf9-e1a5-4a98-ab55-eedf8c914b2c
Any of you had any deals with this one? She said she is ok with ppm but aI have to send the donation before meeting LOL.
TravelinSD
08-02-24, 21:21
I certainly agree with Far that most of these are foreign scammers looking for easy prey. I had one a bunch of years ago. I did the "It's extortion, I'll report you thing. " They actually responded that they were offshore and not concerned with that. Fortunately, I'm pretty much much blackmail proof. I'm single, a freelancer (so no employer to contact), etc. Up to you, but they probably wouldn't follow through with exposing you. I know it's a lot harder for those with a wife, family, etc. So, best to step careful.
Good Luck,
Travelin.
The dude fucked up big time, no doubt. However, there are different ways to deal w / extortion. I think a common tactic goes something like this. Send her a message:
While IK that stepping out on my spouse isn't the nicest thing I have ever done, it isn't a crime. However, extortion definitely is a crime. A Federal crime. I have all the evidence I need in all the messages you have sent me to get you easily convicted. So if you want to persist in threatening to out me to, my next stop will be with the FBI, because at that point I have nothing to lose. Doing time in Federal prison is no walk in the park. Among many things, there is no parole or time off for good behavior. You serve the sentence you are given.
Texted with this one, she said her ppm was $$. 5 but she didn't want to discuss any details of what she was providing, just keeps saying something chill, then she started telling me that she does content, I just stopped replying her text, she immediately deactivate her account, but two days later she hit me again she wanted me to send her. 5 for food, she said she'll do anything LOL, I told her to go try to scam other guys.
As a married, professional guy doing well there's a lot to lose in being exposed so respect for the panic. But with all the new AI tools and ransomware attacks in the news a good case could be made that the conversation and pics were AI generated fraud and you are the target of scam. The LinkedIn profile is already public and probably showing a good job title and company suggesting you're doing well. Add the public FB profile and the rest is easy to find. The conversations and chats could be photoshopped. Plus the scammer is probably an overseas man so no voice contact. Scorned women actually call each other and not hide behind the keyboard. If your mongering has been cash-based the "exposure" can be explained. Not to mention what you described is pure extortion and $1600 doesn't make sense for the risk so probably an overseas scammer. So at worst it's 50/50 on if the Mrs. Will buy the scam story with better odds on how you handle it.
Safe hunting.
So, today I got caught being incredibly stupid and had to to pay the price (literally) for it.
I signed up for Seeking a few months ago and was having some pretty decent success. I met and played with 4 different babies over the course of about 2 months and I let my success go to my head and I dropped my guard. A few days ago, a girl with the profile name Rita contacted me and said she was interested. Her profile pics were smoking hot. I am 52 y/o and she is 24 y/o, thin, great rack, big pouty DSL lips, she reminded me of Amanda Seyfried. Anyways, she moved to negotiate a price pretty quick. She asked for 450. I countered with 2 and she accepted right away. First warning sign. I asked about rules, she said she had none. Second warning sign. She did all this without asking me ANY details about me. Third warning sign. I asked her to move to text and she readily agreed. So I gave her my Google Voice account and we continued, where she was talking dirty about all the nasty stuff she wanted to do to me and I was eating it up like kid in a candy store. At this point, I am no longer thinking with my big head and she has me wrapped around her finger. So, she sets a M&G for tomorrow at a Starbucks in Midtown and said if it went well we could go back to her place for some fun. Awesome! Or so I thought. At this point, she asked me to send her a recent headshot so she would know what I looked like. And this is where I fucked up royally. Not thinking straight, I dug through my photo album and found a headshot from about 10 years ago and sent it to her. Unfortunately, I had completely forgotten that this was the headshot I used in my LinkedIn profile that I set up 10 years ago and completely forgot about.
A few hours later, she springs her trap. She sends me a screen capture of my LinkedIn profile, my Facebook profile, my wife's Facebook profile, my property address, etc. And tells me if I don't send her $1600 via Cash App she will go public to my wife and all our friends that I like to pay young girls for sex and send them copies of our conversation, screen caps of my Seeking profile, etc. , etc. Apparently, she did a Google image search and found my LinkedIn profile and from there got enough info about me to search Facebook and property records. She has me dead to rights and she knows it. She promises me that if I pay her, she will go away and I will never her from her again.
I'm completely busted and I don't see any way around it. I could risk telling her to fuck off but I looked at all the contact info she has from my LinkedIn profile and Facebook profile and I decided it wasn't worth the risk to see if she was bluffing. So, I told her I would pay her off but I can't do $1600. We settled on $1 K and I sent it her. At this point, I have no choice but to hope that she is an honest thief, but I won't be surprised if she comes back and asks for more, in which case, I will have to tell her NO and just risk dealing with the fall out or the blackmail will never end.
Lesson learned! Don't send ANY photos that you have ever used anywhere else. Don't give out ANY personal information that can be used to track who you are. I know these are probably common sense, but damn, she pushed all the right buttons and, like I said, I let my recent string of successes blind me to this trap.
Needless to say, I deleted my Seeking profile, my LinkedIn profile, and my Facebook profile. I have access to my wife's Facebook page (which she never checks), so I am going to monitor it for a while so I can intercept any incoming DMs, but I just have to hope for the best at this point.
In related news, I think I am probably going to take a break from this hobby for a while.
Stay safe out there.
2me4Looking2
08-03-24, 14:26
One point of clarification. Fawkes is good, but it needs to be applied to the real photos that are of you that are already out on the internet. That is how the facial recognition sites form a model they used to interrogate new inquiries. So, if the LinkedIn pic has been out there without cloaking, the world already has everything it needs to find it.
I have started making cloaked headshots for professional purposes, I can't avoid providing headshots to people. Perhaps over time the new ones will dilute the regular, old ones and then I won't be found by facial rec.
You should also take any photo you intend to send to a POT and use it as the basis for a search on the two main facial rec sites. You can do this for free. Once it finds your IRL postings of your photos, you can request the search sites to delete your IRL results. They will do this for free.
I have one photo that I have put black dots over the nose and eyes. It is 'safe' for facial rec and other reverse image searches. The basic photo I used to start was NEVER put on the internet.
BTW, if you intend not to put your own photos on a dating site, but someone who looks like you, these sites are a good way to find some pix. You might even pick someone who looks better. However, to get to the site to grab those photos, you would have to pay their fee. One of the sites takes only bitcoin. A pain for those of us who are crypto skeptics.I swapped out all my of profile pics with cloaked pics through Fawkes and I cloak anything I send. So far when I check my own pics I use through the AI search tools, they don't turn up anything. I also set all my social sites to private. People can still share uncloaked pics of me and I can't really do anything about that without drawing attention, but so far so good. I would never put a real pic on the site though. I won't even send one in a private message on the site.
Peter Johnson
08-03-24, 17:44
It sounds like Frosty did the right thing, by paying this extorting scamming piece of sh*t theif, even though it could still not work. If he has a lot to lose, with his family and reputation, etc, then $1600 is not a high price to pay. It's not like you can go to the police or FBI and explain,. "Yes I was going to pay this girl $450 for. Ummm. Errr. Companionship and to let me mentor her, but then she blackmailed me. And all that sex discussion in the texts was just play. Didn't mean it. ".
Basically, the "girl" has you in a bad spot, if they know your personal info, name, address, etc and you know nothing about them. That puts them in the power position. You could agree to meet in person and give them the cash, but they probably aren't going to go for that, unless they are really stupid.
Anyway, you did make some mistakes, but was mainly just bad luck and with this facial recognition bullsh*t, it could happen o most any of us, at any time.
Big props for sharing your story, and helping to make us more aware of the risks out there. We know the, but we also forget sometimes how omnipresent they are. You can certainly feel frustrated for making a few slip ups, but nothing to feel embarrassed or ashamed about, for sure.
Peter Johnson
08-03-24, 17:58
A. But with all the new AI tools and ransomware attacks in the news a good case could be made that the conversation and pics were AI generated fraud and you are the target of scam. .We need some AI tools, where we can take our photo and will generate something that looks sort of like us, but not too much. I suppose that Fawkes tool is essentially similar to that though.
I haven't been on the site for a year, with no dating / sex, and wanting to get back on, but these horror stories are what keep me hesitant. Every time I get on there, I have some great experiences, but also some bad ones that turn me off for months, or longer.
MilfHunter818
08-03-24, 23:33
https://members.seeking.com/member/022b6e44-ad16-4a1c-8b16-2d22d30253c7
Said she wanted $1 k ppm. No one is really paying that right? I've had absolute bombshell 20-25 yr olds for $400. Is anyone really paying $1 k?
STDcheck (https://www.jdoqocy.com/click-7901271-15733880) does do mycoplasma, I know because I just had the test done in addition to my full panel.
The typical treatment for Mycoplasma is a treatment of doxycycline followed by a treatment of azithromycin or moxifloxacin. Even after you get a negative test results, residual symptoms can last for a couple months.Agree, on their website though they say you have to order it from "their sister site" https://www.healthlabs.com/mycoplasma-genitalium-test.
https://www.stdcheck.com/blog/mycoplasma-genitalium-new-std/
https://members.seeking.com/member/022b6e44-ad16-4a1c-8b16-2d22d30253c7
Said she wanted $1 k ppm. No one is really paying that right? I've had absolute bombshell 20-25 yr olds for $400. Is anyone really paying $1 k?Never heard of anybody giving that amount of money, 400 is much more reasonable for a few hours.
FarFarAway
08-04-24, 13:22
Did the OP report the extortionist to Seeking? He should. You can say that scammers will just set up a new profile once they get banned.
However, there are lots of guys who get banned (for different reasons. Being too explicit on the pay for play they are doing), and they often show up here moaning about how they can't establish a new profile because the site bans them again. Seeking has tools that can detect when the person is the same as someone who has been banned in the past.
Undoubtedly, extortion is illegal activity, and one would not have to divulge their own IRL info to report them. Just screenshot the messages demanding payment.
Never heard of anybody giving that amount of money, 400 is much more reasonable for a few hours.Same as you, don't recall a post on the Atlanta forum with 1 K getting paid for a PPM. Have seen more than a couple posts with 500 PPM. If you look on Reddit, 1 K is a standard ask for SB's in many larger metropolitan areas. Some that I am seeing in the 8-9 category refuse to drop below that amount. They are or have been in relationships drawing 5-10 K per month. So, it's sometimes tough to figure our what is reasonable. I have paid mid 300's for PPM in ATL for a 6-7 that is very nice and very accomodating (SB's, not Pros). No experience with anyone over an 8 so I don't know what's being paid. I do know that what's quoted on this board is the very bottom of the pay scale mentioned on Reddit threads. Numbers that low are referred to as Salt Daddy's. 500 PPM get's you to Splenda Daddy. Obviously, none of the whales paying 10 K per month are posting on this site so it leaves me scratching my head sometimes on a $475 ask for a PPM for an 8. Forum says I'm bordering on Simp and Reddit (SB's and SD's) says I'm barely a Splenda Daddy. Right or wrong, I just try to guess what the average in a particluar market might be and shoot for something in that range which can be quite broad, and changes from week to week.
Member #6704
08-04-24, 19:49
https://members.seeking.com/member/e5d9358d-01bb-4434-b1d7-f1fd9f6a52ca
JunkSecond
08-04-24, 20:21
Same as you, don't recall a post on the Atlanta forum with 1 K getting paid for a PPM. Have seen more than a couple posts with 500 PPM. If you look on Reddit, 1 K is a standard ask for SB's in many larger metropolitan areas. Some that I am seeing in the 8-9 category refuse to drop below that amount. They are or have been in relationships drawing 5-10 K per month. So, it's sometimes tough to figure our what is reasonable. I have paid mid 300's for PPM in ATL for a 6-7 that is very nice and very accomodating (SB's, not Pros). No experience with anyone over an 8 so I don't know what's being paid. I do know that what's quoted on this board is the very bottom of the pay scale mentioned on Reddit threads. Numbers that low are referred to as Salt Daddy's. 500 PPM get's you to Splenda Daddy. Obviously, none of the whales paying 10 K per month are posting on this site so it leaves me scratching my head sometimes on a $475 ask for a PPM for an 8. Forum says I'm bordering on Simp and Reddit (SB's and SD's) says I'm barely a Splenda Daddy. Right or wrong, I just try to guess what the average in a particluar market might be and shoot for something in that range which can be quite broad, and changes from week to week.I looked up household income distributions in GA and there are not enough HOUSEHOLDS with the cashflow to regularly entertain all these girls at 1 k ppm weekly. My suspicion is that some simp paid that much one time, the girl started bragging about her worth and now ALL the influencers get that much or more REGULARLY, or so they claim. Most girls I talk to ask 1 K, I then follow up with how they came up with that number. They say a friend told them that's what they heard, Reddit or saw it somewhere as the amount that EVERYONE gets. Not a single one said they ever got paid that or had anything more than a $500 one night stand with a few random dudes. The concept of an Arrangement seems to have gone away.
Member #6704
08-04-24, 21:50
1) https://members.seeking.com/member/257306a5-32b5-4167-9168-85b25eaa715b.
2).
https://members.seeking.com/member/ffdb2379-4487-405a-942f-eae3be31ad8f
TravelinSD
08-05-24, 12:00
She told me she just moved into town and forgot her meds (claims she's epileptic). Didn't come out and ask for $, but gave me the sob story. I just ignored her.
https://members.seeking.com/member/e5d9358d-01bb-4434-b1d7-f1fd9f6a52ca
GoneForGood97
08-05-24, 14:08
Reenlisted on Seeking and had meets set up with a few babies and most are requiring a deposit before any meet.
Is this a new trend? I truly hope no one is making deposits.No, it's just scammers doing scam things. You can safely block and move on.
GoneForGood97
08-05-24, 14:11
So I have never head of this site and wow I was shocked. The site is the world largest and most popular social network for the BDSM community, Kink and Fetish community. So, how difficult it is the score on this site?Fetlife used to be a great resourced. As someone mentioned the filtering / searching is the hard part, as the site just isn't well designed. But I met a few dates years ago and had some fun through the site. However when Onlyf*ns blew up, the site was overwhelmed with OF content creators, and those 1000's of wannabe content creators drown out the few legitimate girls looking to have fun.
Airmantroy
08-05-24, 14:47
She told me she just moved into town and forgot her meds (claims she's epileptic). Didn't come out and ask for $, but gave me the sob story. I just ignored her.I saw thru that scam immediately, played along, told her I was epileptic had extra med and that my business partner was my doctor, I could be to her in 15 minutes with the life saving medication. All of a sudden she didn't know what pharmacy she was at. LMFAO.
https://members.seeking.com/member/2bf7af87-2a9d-4d7b-a1ef-767ed7a142b7
Has anyone seen gigi? If you have, please send a dm.
Member #6718
08-06-24, 07:38
Same as you, don't recall a post on the Atlanta forum with 1 K getting paid for a PPM. Have seen more than a couple posts with 500 PPM. If you look on Reddit, 1 K is a standard ask for SB's in many larger metropolitan areas. Some that I am seeing in the 8-9 category refuse to drop below that amount. They are or have been in relationships drawing 5-10 K per month. So, it's sometimes tough to figure our what is reasonable. I have paid mid 300's for PPM in ATL for a 6-7 that is very nice and very accomodating (SB's, not Pros). No experience with anyone over an 8 so I don't know what's being paid. I do know that what's quoted on this board is the very bottom of the pay scale mentioned on Reddit threads. Numbers that low are referred to as Salt Daddy's. 500 PPM get's you to Splenda Daddy. Obviously, none of the whales paying 10 K per month are posting on this site so it leaves me scratching my head sometimes on a $475 ask for a PPM for an 8. Forum says I'm bordering on Simp and Reddit (SB's and SD's) says I'm barely a Splenda Daddy. Right or wrong, I just try to guess what the average in a particluar market might be and shoot for something in that range which can be quite broad, and changes from week to week.The info being spouted on slf on reddit is utter bullshit. There are a group of people who post with the intent to deliberately inflate expectations of allowance and ppm rates. They are having a negative impact for both men and women, as women who follow these expectations don't find any guys willing to meet them. I have chatted with below average looking black chicks on that forum in atlanta who don't understand why they cannot get 600+ppm. Like erm lady go look outside and see that you are a dime a fucking dozen.
Some cities have a lot of money swirling around and the truly hot 8+ chicks can get great ppms. A hot 9+ I have been seeing off and on over 2 years who does 400 with me has done trips to Miami where she gets 800-1 k a time. Atlanta rates are more normal though.
SeekingHead
08-06-24, 15:40
The info being spouted on slf on reddit is utter bullshit. There are a group of people who post with the intent to deliberately inflate expectations of allowance and ppm rates. They are having a negative impact for both men and women, as women who follow these expectations don't find any guys willing to meet them. I have chatted with below average looking black chicks on that forum in atlanta who don't understand why they cannot get 600+ppm. Like erm lady go look outside and see that you are a dime a fucking dozen.
Some cities have a lot of money swirling around and the truly hot 8+ chicks can get great ppms. A hot 9+ I have been seeing off and on over 2 years who does 400 with me has done trips to Miami where she gets 800-1 k a time. Atlanta rates are more normal though.Alot of those same women on the.
https://old.reddit.com/r/sugarlifestyleforum/
https://old.reddit.com/r/SugarBABYonlyforum/
Are also escorts & post on the.
https://old.reddit.com/r/SexWorkers/
So don't believe the reddit hoes, a lot them are hardened pro's.
LouisHernandez
08-06-24, 18:01
The info being spouted on slf on reddit is utter bullshit. There are a group of people who post with the intent to deliberately inflate expectations of allowance and ppm rates. They are having a negative impact for both men and women, as women who follow these expectations don't find any guys willing to meet them. I have chatted with below average looking black chicks on that forum in atlanta who don't understand why they cannot get 600+ppm. Like erm lady go look outside and see that you are a dime a fucking dozen.
Some cities have a lot of money swirling around and the truly hot 8+ chicks can get great ppms. A hot 9+ I have been seeing off and on over 2 years who does 400 with me has done trips to Miami where she gets 800-1 k a time. Atlanta rates are more normal though.Reddit forums are complete leftwing censored trash. Full of delusional overweight feminists who hate men and everything else. You'd be too if you looked like them and had to look at yourself in the mirror every day.
I know this one has been around for a bit, but I can't find any mention of her with her current name. Does anyone have experience with this one?
https://members.seeking.com/member/142b674c-05fb-485a-b571-31d03fbd51feI think her old reviews was under a screen name like "bikini worn wrong". She has been around a long time, like 7 or 8 years. She is older than her profile as she was early 40's eight years ago.
Member #6718
08-07-24, 08:29
Reddit forums are complete leftwing censored trash. Full of delusional overweight feminists who hate men and everything else. You'd be too if you looked like them and had to look at yourself in the mirror every day.I am super left wing myself I don't think that has anything to do with anything.
Member #6718
08-07-24, 08:33
Alot of those same women on the.
https://old.reddit.com/r/sugarlifestyleforum/
https://old.reddit.com/r/SugarBABYonlyforum/
Are also escorts & post on the.
https://old.reddit.com/r/SexWorkers/
So don't believe the reddit hoes, a lot them are hardened pro's.Oh I definitely do not believe them, and the couple of chicks that are active in slf that I am actually friends with and have met irl I make it clear I think slf is mostly dominated by escorts.
Are there any good tools that can compare users who have posted in one reddit with another? Would be useful. The sb only one is pretty close to the sex worker one tbh, it is all just about how to scam guys.
LovePunnany
08-07-24, 15:54
Have a meet with the baby next week. She has been on Seeking for a while, any insight on this baby would be appreciated.
https://members.seeking.com/member/9a524141-1559-4c60-9360-63468082fc46Anyone, anyone??
https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?userId=72851117
Got a meet with this one if anyone has any info.
Is it me or is there something going on with her eyes?
That being said, I'd still bang her in the puscy.
GLHF.
https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?userId=72851117
Got a meet with this one if anyone has any info.
BrownSugaTwo
08-08-24, 10:27
She's been around for a while:
https://members.seeking.com/member/2d40679a-0526-4835-9508-20f6c6c46ee1
Hopefully, someone has met her and can give an opinion.
LouisHernandez
08-08-24, 12:38
I am super left wing myself I don't think that has anything to do with anything.Then don't complain about reddit, you should love it.
Pasture Finder
08-08-24, 13:55
So, today I got caught being incredibly stupid and had to to pay the price (literally) for it.
And this is where I fucked up royally. Not thinking straight, I dug through my photo album and found a headshot from about 10 years ago and sent it to her. Unfortunately, I had completely forgotten that this was the headshot I used in my LinkedIn profile that I set up 10 years ago and completely forgot about.I had a very similar experience, but went the route of saying "fuck you. ".
Basically, I met for a M&G. She was real and hot and chemistry was there. We decided to get a room later that week.
The night before she asks me to send her $100 because she was stressed about XYZ. I tried to kick it until cash when we meet, but she was stressed. I sent a MoneyGram.
I learned NEVER to send digital funds.
She got my real name from the transfer looked me up and started threatening.
I said, "you're a dumb ass. You could have had me ongoing making your life better. Now you can figure out life with out me. I'm a grown ass adult and fine living with my decisions but won't let her threaten me. ".
She instantly was saying how she messed up and was sorry. She was just stressing about money.
Certainly a shitty experience. I luckily did decide before I started that I would do what I could to prevent someone finding out, but would live with my punishment if I fuck up. That has let me be bold when bad players come around.
10 years in and I've stayed hidden. Just a few "I think you'd be better off if I told your wife" comments from SBs I got close with. Which I quickly squashed.
LovePunnany
08-08-24, 19:49
Any info on this baby?
https://members.seeking.com/member/73bc5c0a-82a2-4045-8362-589e7881dbbe
BrownSugaTwo
08-08-24, 20:01
Any info on this baby?
https://members.seeking.com/member/73bc5c0a-82a2-4045-8362-589e7881dbbeShe wouldn't respond to any of my messages. I'm curious to know if she's real.
SpaceCoast99
08-08-24, 20:30
So, today I got caught being incredibly stupid and had to to pay the price (literally) for it.
I signed up for Seeking a few months ago and was having some pretty decent success. I met and played with 4 different babies over the course of about 2 months and I let my success go to my head and I dropped my guard. A few days ago, a girl with the profile name Rita contacted me and said she was interested. Her profile pics were smoking hot. I am 52 y/o and she is 24 y/o, thin, great rack, big pouty DSL lips, she reminded me of Amanda Seyfried. Anyways, she moved to negotiate a price pretty quick. She asked for 450. I countered with 2 and she accepted right away. First warning sign. I asked about rules, she said she had none. Second warning sign. She did all this without asking me ANY details about me. Third warning sign. I asked her to move to text and she readily agreed. So I gave her my Google Voice account and we continued, where she was talking dirty about all the nasty stuff she wanted to do to me and I was eating it up like kid in a candy store. At this point, I am no longer thinking with my big head and she has me wrapped around her finger. So, she sets a M&G for tomorrow at a Starbucks in Midtown and said if it went well we could go back to her place for some fun. Awesome! Or so I thought. At this point, she asked me to send her a recent headshot so she would know what I looked like. And this is where I fucked up royally. Not thinking straight, I dug through my photo album and found a headshot from about 10 years ago and sent it to her. Unfortunately, I had completely forgotten that this was the headshot I used in my LinkedIn profile that I set up 10 years ago and completely forgot about.
A few hours later, she springs her trap.I've had a few ask for a face picture, so I downloaded one from my ex-wife new boyfriends Facebook page and use that. Then when we meet I just tell hem I was being safe.
Anybody seen this one? Her profile comes and goes, seems she goes fishing and then deactivate her profile for a while then comes back months later. I am sure somebody reported her before. PM.
GokuBoy420
08-09-24, 08:07
Anybody seen this one? Her profile comes and goes, seems she goes fishing and then deactivate her profile for a while then comes back months later. I am sure somebody reported her before. PM.Faaaaaaaaar from her pictures, that's for sure. I met her and was like was I catfished? LOL. But DTF and she'll host if she likes you. I dropped her home and left.
Member #6704
08-09-24, 08:59
https://members.seeking.com/member/ed2f96bc-a2bd-4de8-9a7e-9bc9627fb097
Asks for WhatsApp then I said no. We connected on Snapchat.
Her location shows Atlanta. But can you guys spot anything from the.
Profile that would help avoid these? So we skip their profile.
So, today I got caught being incredibly stupid and had to to pay the price (literally) for it.
I signed up for Seeking a few months ago and was having some pretty decent success. I met and played with 4 different babies over the course of about 2 months and I let my success go to my head and I dropped my guard. A few days ago, a girl with the profile name Rita contacted me and said she was interested. Her profile pics were smoking hot. I am 52 y/o and she is 24 y/o, thin, great rack, big pouty DSL lips, she reminded me of Amanda Seyfried. Anyways, she moved to negotiate a price pretty quick. She asked for 450. I countered with 2 and she accepted right away. First warning sign. I asked about rules, she said she had none. Second warning sign. She did all this without asking me ANY details about me. Third warning sign. I asked her to move to text and she readily agreed. So I gave her my Google Voice account and we continued, where she was talking dirty about all the nasty stuff she wanted to do to me and I was eating it up like kid in a candy store. At this point, I am no longer thinking with my big head and she has me wrapped around her finger. So, she sets a M&G for tomorrow at a Starbucks in Midtown and said if it went well we could go back to her place for some fun. Awesome! Or so I thought. At this point, she asked me to send her a recent headshot so she would know what I looked like. And this is where I fucked up royally. Not thinking straight, I dug through my photo album and found a headshot from about 10 years ago and sent it to her. Unfortunately, I had completely forgotten that this was the headshot I used in my LinkedIn profile that I set up 10 years ago and completely forgot about.
A few hours later, she springs her trap. She sends me a screen capture of my LinkedIn profile, my Facebook profile, my wife's Facebook profile, my property address, etc. And tells me if I don't send her $1600 via Cash App she will go public to my wife and all our friends that I like to pay young girls for sex and send them copies of our conversation, screen caps of my Seeking profile, etc. , etc. Apparently, she did a Google image search and found my LinkedIn profile and from there got enough info about me to search Facebook and property records. She has me dead to rights and she knows it. She promises me that if I pay her, she will go away and I will never her from her again.
I'm completely busted and I don't see any way around it. I could risk telling her to fuck off but I looked at all the contact info she has from my LinkedIn profile and Facebook profile and I decided it wasn't worth the risk to see if she was bluffing. So, I told her I would pay her off but I can't do $1600. We settled on $1 K and I sent it her. At this point, I have no choice but to hope that she is an honest thief, but I won't be surprised if she comes back and asks for more, in which case, I will have to tell her NO and just risk dealing with the fall out or the blackmail will never end.
Lesson learned! Don't send ANY photos that you have ever used anywhere else. Don't give out ANY personal information that can be used to track who you are. I know these are probably common sense, but damn, she pushed all the right buttons and, like I said, I let my recent string of successes blind me to this trap.
Needless to say, I deleted my Seeking profile, my LinkedIn profile, and my Facebook profile. I have access to my wife's Facebook page (which she never checks), so I am going to monitor it for a while so I can intercept any incoming DMs, but I just have to hope for the best at this point.
In related news, I think I am probably going to take a break from this hobby for a while.
Stay safe out there.Oh, I guarantee she'll be back for more. These fuckers are like parasitic leaches and will try to bleed you dry.
2me4Looking2
08-09-24, 11:28
https://members.seeking.com/member/ed2f96bc-a2bd-4de8-9a7e-9bc9627fb097
Asks for WhatsApp then I said no. We connected on Snapchat.
Her location shows Atlanta. But can you guys spot anything from the.
Profile that would help avoid these? So we skip their profile.It's a recent add, with very little information and she is looking for true love, plus hot pictures. I generally avoid these unless there is something in the pictures or something she says that identifies her as being in Atlanta and even then tread lightly with anyone looking for true love or marriage.
GoneForGood97
08-09-24, 12:42
https://members.seeking.com/member/ed2f96bc-a2bd-4de8-9a7e-9bc9627fb097
Asks for WhatsApp then I said no. We connected on Snapchat.
Her location shows Atlanta. But can you guys spot anything from the.
Profile that would help avoid these? So we skip their profile.Red flags:
1) Has that wannabe insta-model look, probably because these pics were stolen off some wannabe Insta-model's page.
2) No pics showing local landmarks.
3) Profile less than a month old.
4) Her bio stuff is super short and contains no details.
If there were only 1 or 2 of those flags maybe I would've pinged her, but more than 3 and I just don't bother.
Member #6704
08-09-24, 12:45
https://members.seeking.com/member/a7a5dea0-458c-42ce-9f8b-267719b6c28d
https://members.seeking.com/member/a7a5dea0-458c-42ce-9f8b-267719b6c28d
This one is full of games, she was reviewed last year, the review said that she was cool chick but it seems she she got spoiled or something, gps, still was able to negotiate a little set an appointment, we keep texting to be in touch an updating the time of the meeting but just when I let her know that I was at the place crickets, Unless you are one of her regulars and you trust her really don't recommend to deal with her, I am just stop hitting those girls that are Way to far, not worth the hassle of driving, wasted gas, the cancellation fee an my valuable time smh.
An other GPS, she is been reviewed here, this girls are tripping, they don't have a place, don't drive they live far.
They have bunch of rules etc and they asking 350 for a car date smh.
This loser just is full of drama, she wanted on line only for now until she gets her car fix, mmm no thanks.
This one sent me a message as soon a look at her new profile, everything was going smoothly until I ask for verification pic, she was not happy and started to calling me pedo and a scammer and she blocked me. She was about to ask me for Uber money but I told her to hold her horses.
TheFrostyOne
08-12-24, 15:50
Oh, I guarantee she'll be back for more. These fuckers are like parasitic leaches and will try to bleed you dry."She" just texted my GV number and asked for more.
"Hello XXXX I hope you remember me I am in a financial crisis and I am desperate this is nothing personal and like that time I will keep my word that after this last and final deposit I will disappear this time forever deposit $999 to the same Zelle account.
Let me now asap or I will expose all your information. ".
I just going to ignore her and pretend the number has been deactivated.
TheFrostyOne
08-12-24, 15:51
I've had a few ask for a face picture, so I downloaded one from my ex-wife new boyfriends Facebook page and use that. Then when we meet I just tell hem I was being safe.Thats awesome.
Airmantroy
08-12-24, 16:19
"She" just texted my GV number and asked for more.
"Hello XXXX I hope you remember me I am in a financial crisis and I am desperate this is nothing personal and like that time I will keep my word that after this last and final deposit I will disappear this time forever deposit $999 to the same Zelle account.
Let me now asap or I will expose all your information. ".
I just going to ignore her and pretend the number has been deactivated.What's the number "she" is texting from? We can have some fun with "her".
TheFrostyOne
08-12-24, 20:56
What's the number "she" is texting from? We can have some fun with "her".Tempting. Believe me. I've imagined all kinds of ways to get back at "her". But I don't want to give this POS any reason to think that number is active. Or any reason to act out of spite. I think it's probably best to just let it die and pretend like I disconnected the number and never got it.
MilfHunter818
08-14-24, 17:41
https://members.seeking.com/member/3522aa06-9339-4d09-881b-1dbd66610e39
This woman is AMAZING! We started talking a few weeks ago on snap and finally met up. 400 ppm. It took us a few weeks to meet up but it was worth it! She's 43 but has the body of a 20 something. She looks better than her pics, trust me. She does have fake boobs but her dr did an amazing job. Very little baby damage if at all. Very vocal in bed and gives head likes she's sucking the soul out of your body. It didn't work out between us because we both had to drive an hour to meet in the middle. She wants something close to her (Woodstock) and consistent. Please please be respectful and treat her right if you're one who can accommodate her requests.
She is slightly heavy on the perfume so if you have an SO, you might kindly request she doesn't wear any. Or take a shower afterwards right away.
Member #6704
08-14-24, 21:44
https://members.seeking.com/member/67bed432-4fd1-43f2-b00f-983cdaab6fa0
Seem GPS to me. Curious if any one from here got to her?
MilfHunter818
08-15-24, 08:24
https://members.seeking.com/member/67bed432-4fd1-43f2-b00f-983cdaab6fa0
Seem GPS to me. Curious if any one from here got to her?I met her yesterday for a meet and greet + quickie. She's very much GF material and our chemistry was really good so we are probably going to move forward long term. She doesn't have GPS, at least for me.
Patriarch112
08-15-24, 09:17
I met her yesterday for a meet and greet + quickie. She's very much GF material and our chemistry was really good so we are probably going to move forward long term. She doesn't have GPS, at least for me.I have a SA account but still don't see the links. Do these girls take down their profiles a lot?
MilfHunter818
08-15-24, 11:44
I have a SA account but still don't see the links. Do these girls take down their profiles a lot?
It's still up
UtahLedgend2
08-15-24, 11:49
Or you have blocked her? The link is good and she is good.
I have a SA account but still don't see the links. Do these girls take down their profiles a lot?
Member #6718
08-15-24, 12:30
I met her yesterday for a meet and greet + quickie. She's very much GF material and our chemistry was really good so we are probably going to move forward long term. She doesn't have GPS, at least for me.Ha I see she has updated her profile based on comments from here. I think whenver a chick gets posted on this site they get inundated with messages from lazy guys here who don't put any effort into finding sbs themselves.
Member #6704
08-15-24, 12:45
Ha I see she has updated her profile based on comments from here. I think whenver a chick gets posted on this site they get inundated with messages from lazy guys here who don't put any effort into finding sbs themselves.Also this has been referenced in the forum previously, we share things to help each other or ask things to help each other.
But clearly some idiot passed the information to her in an incorrect way.
Airmantroy
08-15-24, 15:16
Ha I see she has updated her profile based on comments from here. I think whenver a chick gets posted on this site they get inundated with messages from lazy guys here who don't put any effort into finding sbs themselves.Somebody actually thought they'd get bonus pussy points by telling her. Now she is going to be damn near impossible to reach out to. Great Job Dummy! They're all hookers whether they admit it or not. Face the reality whoever you are.
LovePunnany
08-15-24, 16:29
Any intel on this baby would be appreciated.
https://members.seeking.com/member/a7751b60-c94c-486c-b651-afba7b40d87a
LovePunnany
08-15-24, 16:33
Any intel on this baby would be appreciated.
https://members.seeking.com/member/4b19fc89-8a2a-4e2f-b73e-aebf6a4ff696
Member #6704
08-15-24, 19:12
Somebody actually thought they'd get bonus pussy points by telling her. Now she is going to be damn near impossible to reach out to. Great Job Dummy! They're all hookers whether they admit it or not. Face the reality whoever you are.You are 100% right.
Info on these please? DM if you want.
Can't seem to set up a meet with these two since they only uber.
https://members.seeking.com/member/85a05bdd-e3fe-dc42-de35-3ab5fdf12c14
https://members.seeking.com/member/6598093f-a60a-41f6-acb2-808cf2924c24
Shoshi ubers as well, she's on the site a lot.
https://members.seeking.com/member/355a7b2e-5076-471f-9d57-0b1c0942bc71
Anyone here used the Secret Benefits site?
MSmith3034
08-18-24, 11:11
How does them needing to Uber preclude a meeting?
Info on these please? DM if you want.
Can't seem to set up a meet with these two since they only uber.
https://members.seeking.com/member/85a05bdd-e3fe-dc42-de35-3ab5fdf12c14
https://members.seeking.com/member/6598093f-a60a-41f6-acb2-808cf2924c24
Shoshi ubers as well, she's on the site a lot.
https://members.seeking.com/member/355a7b2e-5076-471f-9d57-0b1c0942bc71
GoneForGood97
08-18-24, 12:36
I met her yesterday for a meet and greet + quickie. She's very much GF material and our chemistry was really good so we are probably going to move forward long term. She doesn't have GPS, at least for me.Based on her profile it looks like you or someone else locked her down. What did the rate end up being (since she's off the market I assume no harm in sharing with the class?
I've used it for about three years now. Message me with any questions.
Bob.
[QUOTEvs=Oily123;7000992]Anyone here used the Secret Benefits site? QUOTE].
I am talking to this baby's right know, some had been playing around some other very open for ppm but don't want to do the next step yet, you can pm, thanks.
Talking to this also, can't upload more than two.
This ones I think been reviewed before, they look like pros.
https://members.seeking.com/member/85c9c2fe-582a-4ec7-835a-302f10405b23
https://members.seeking.com/member/5cf17a50-86dc-483a-81eb-fc1cfb7c1fb2
https://members.seeking.com/member/51ddcbce-24b7-4987-b69c-d876c43e10e4
Talked to this one because she is been reviewed previously, they said she is open for almost anything, but she is very bussynness like wanting $$ 5 ,she said she can not host but she'll get a room or drive, she is really staying in Lithonia, was about to pull the trigger but she started taking about time limiting when I required for multiple, for my experience so far most of girls are wana be escorts, every seem going ok until you mention multiple rounds, they asking 300-400 and they want you in and out. There are some real ones for sure but it takes knowledge to find them.
Have a date with this girl, any info?
https://members.seeking.com/member/88b37461-4d09-4c1e-b2cf-e4c048fc86d2
I am talking to this baby's right know, some had been playing around some other very open for ppm but don't want to do the next step yet, you can pm, thanks.Pmd about cookie was planning on seeing her.
2me4Looking2
08-19-24, 14:42
I'm currently talking to an SB that I can easily verify is real and exactly what her job is because of her cell number. Because she has a good job and is in her 40's, I asked about expectations and her response was that in the past she was given a little walking around money, gift cards, or nails. She says she isn't doing this to support herself. Personally I think cash is easiest, but that may feel too transactional. I'm curious if any of you have had an arrangement like this and what you did for compensation?
OutsideProof
08-19-24, 14:51
I think of the seasoned SDs put the financial agreement guidelines in a thread.
I'm currently talking to an SB that I can easily verify is real and exactly what her job is because of her cell number. Because she has a good job and is in her 40's, I asked about expectations and her response was that in the past she was given a little walking around money, gift cards, or nails. She says she isn't doing this to support herself. Personally I think cash is easiest, but that may feel too transactional. I'm curious if any of you have had an arrangement like this and what you did for compensation?
MSmith3034
08-19-24, 15:51
My guidance would be to see of you can get an Amazon wishlist out of her or something similar. Since you've got some good MacGyver skills, look for Pinterest page that could also give you some clues as to what she likes. In your shoes though, I'd try to not make it feel transactional yet also assign a subtle "budget" to myself between the gifts and cash so that things don't get out of hand with your costs.
I'm currently talking to an SB that I can easily verify is real and exactly what her job is because of her cell number. Because she has a good job and is in her 40's, I asked about expectations and her response was that in the past she was given a little walking around money, gift cards, or nails. She says she isn't doing this to support herself. Personally I think cash is easiest, but that may feel too transactional. I'm curious if any of you have had an arrangement like this and what you did for compensation?
FarFarAway
08-19-24, 19:42
My guidance would be to see of you can get an Amazon wishlist out of her or something similar. Since you've got some good MacGyver skills, look for Pinterest page that could also give you some clues as to what she likes. In your shoes though, I'd try to not make it feel transactional yet also assign a subtle "budget" to myself between the gifts and cash so that things don't get out of hand with your costs.I had a POT who was adamant that she wanted hers only in gift cards for Trader Joes grocery.
GoneForGood97
08-20-24, 11:16
I'm currently talking to an SB that I can easily verify is real and exactly what her job is because of her cell number. Because she has a good job and is in her 40's, I asked about expectations and her response was that in the past she was given a little walking around money, gift cards, or nails. She says she isn't doing this to support herself. Personally I think cash is easiest, but that may feel too transactional. I'm curious if any of you have had an arrangement like this and what you did for compensation?Good news is she already gave you her budget when she told you she was looking for "nails. " Call a nail salon near her and tell them you want to buy a gift card for your girlfriend for a mani / pedi. Whatever number they tell you is her budget, probably 70-80. Boom, go buy her a gift certificate to one that's in the same town she says she lives in.
VoraraMesh66
08-20-24, 12:58
Hey folks, I am new to posting in the forum but reading and following for past few months. I would really appreciate if some of the senior members can give me some leads on down to earth good service provider who is fine with DFK and other GFE like things. I am fine with average looks and body. Please feel free to DM me. Thanks again and enjoy stay safe.
Coldgin499
08-21-24, 13:20
Hi, anyone have experience with this one? We've texted back and forth, wants 5 for ppm and she hosts.
https://members.seeking.com/member/b64ba652-79a8-4436-908f-6d8802329b22
Doctor Sugar
08-21-24, 14:10
Madison. Started with 8 $ but came down to 4 $ for intimacy, good convo heavier than pics.
https://members.seeking.com/member/1fe405d7-cfe0-42fe-8248-8edb29e40f2f
Snowbunny - $$ restaurant date to discuss details, upon seeing her pics I dropped the conversation.
https://members.seeking.com/member/c1aeb7c2-1e10-4d37-80f7-b5ed4828133b
PrettyDiscreet1 - Wanted 5 $ but came down to 2. 5 $ but needs to be very discreet.
https://members.seeking.com/member/38c6ac72-d0b6-4f38-9e5d-c98e320a1c8b
Charlie - 1 K says her facebook groups are generous to know of how much a sugar baby should be gifted fairly.
https://members.seeking.com/member/dd374e2f-c851-4bd7-a800-2f1c34ec7dd0
Amber422 - Great conversation but ghosted after brining up date.
https://members.seeking.com/member/e965ee88-99f2-41ca-a723-49aa0a80a749
Erose87 - Very hot looking, but wants 1 K for intimacy because that's what her previous sugar daddy has set the expectations. May come down if taken on a lunch / dinner date.
https://members.seeking.com/member/68862e79-4611-42d1-ae51-7c72f6acfbf1Has anyone connected with Madison (the first one in this post, which is the only mention of her my forum search turned up)? What's she like in the sack?
Hi, anyone have experience with this one? We've texted back and forth, wants 5 for ppm and she hosts.
https://members.seeking.com/member/b64ba652-79a8-4436-908f-6d8802329b22Told me $800 for all night.
That's why I dropped out of Seeking, and similar venues, a while ago.
You deal w / amateurs, who have GPS, but no clue about real-world pricing in the business.
Plus, the vagaries of M&G, $-wise, time-wise. Plus paying the sites, too.
No thanks. I can do better, and cheaper, than that. Easily.
Madison. Started with 8 $ but came down to 4 $ for intimacy, good convo heavier than pics.
https://members.seeking.com/member/1fe405d7-cfe0-42fe-8248-8edb29e40f2f
Snowbunny - $$ restaurant date to discuss details, upon seeing her pics I dropped the conversation.
https://members.seeking.com/member/c1aeb7c2-1e10-4d37-80f7-b5ed4828133b
PrettyDiscreet1 - Wanted 5 $ but came down to 2. 5 $ but needs to be very discreet.
https://members.seeking.com/member/38c6ac72-d0b6-4f38-9e5d-c98e320a1c8b
Charlie - 1 K says her facebook groups are generous to know of how much a sugar baby should be gifted fairly.
https://members.seeking.com/member/dd374e2f-c851-4bd7-a800-2f1c34ec7dd0
Amber422 - Great conversation but ghosted after brining up date.
Doctor Sugar
08-21-24, 18:18
Told me $800 for all night.The original poster said she came down to $400. I was wondering if she's worth it. I'm guessing you didn't partake at $800. I wouldn't either.
Did anyone get Madison down to $400 or less and hit it? I'm not sure if it's worth more time trying to negotiate. If she's not that great or wants everything covered, I'm wasting my time even if I can get the price in line.
Former GT student now in grad school here in Athens.
Connected real quickly and wanted to hop to Snapchat.
Spoke and wanted me to by videos before we meet. Said nah and was blocked on Snap and SA instantly. LOL.
https://members.seeking.com/member/64c5ab5b-1f72-4438-86d4-3f8aa95e3918
GoneForGood97
08-21-24, 22:42
That's why I dropped out of Seeking, and similar venues, a while ago.
You deal w / amateurs, who have GPS, but no clue about real-world pricing in the business.
Plus, the vagaries of M&G, $-wise, time-wise. Plus paying the sites, too.
No thanks. I can do better, and cheaper, than that. Easily.One of the thing that determines my SB budget is escort pricing. Right now the SPP agency provides GFE girls for 1 hr at 300. I don't have to buy a room, just go there and have fun and leave. Now I'm willing to pay a little more for an SB due to lower volume and BFS, but not a lot more. High quality escort agency's cap the market price.
No clue about SPP. But GFE for $300 sounds about right, including hotel. I am the same way.
Why would I want to bother paying $90/ mo. To Seeking. Just to be quoted $800 by some GPS chic.
Seeking has long ago outlived its usefulness.
One of the thing that determines my SB budget is escort pricing. Right now the SPP agency provides GFE girls for 1 hr at 300. I don't have to buy a room, just go there and have fun and leave. Now I'm willing to pay a little more for an SB due to lower volume and BFS, but not a lot more. High quality escort agency's cap the market price.
GokuBoy420
08-22-24, 08:36
Hi, anyone have experience with this one? We've texted back and forth, wants 5 for ppm and she hosts.
https://members.seeking.com/member/b64ba652-79a8-4436-908f-6d8802329b22Fake asf. Don't waste your time.
Hi, anyone have experience with this one? We've texted back and forth, wants 5 for ppm and she hosts.
https://members.seeking.com/member/b64ba652-79a8-4436-908f-6d8802329b22She went down to 350 for me but she asked for a deposit told her to kick rocks LOL.
Coldgin499
08-22-24, 11:33
She went down to 350 for me but she asked for a deposit told her to kick rocks LOL.Yep, you guys were right, this one is definitely a fake.
Airmantroy
08-22-24, 11:34
Kinda like her look and wanted to know if anyone had good intel, PM is fine if you want. Thanks!
https://members.seeking.com/member/b219fb71-cfcc-4a81-9983-d99057460e73
LovePunnany
08-22-24, 18:25
Any info on this baby would be helpful.
https://members.seeking.com/member/0415c8f0-7e16-42cd-9b44-b334f6c2cca4
LovePunnany
08-22-24, 18:31
Any intel on this baby would be appreciated.
https://members.seeking.com/member/4b19fc89-8a2a-4e2f-b73e-aebf6a4ff696Waste of time want money just to meet.
CollegeHung
08-23-24, 11:54
Check your inbox.
Any info on this baby would be helpful.
https://members.seeking.com/member/0415c8f0-7e16-42cd-9b44-b334f6c2cca4
Defenetly a pro, asking 500 ppm, two hours max, she will drive to you LOL.
https://members.seeking.com/member/9a0146f1-1f92-487d-9293-39b8a772791f
She lives down south in Lithonia.
JunkSecond
08-24-24, 06:02
One of the thing that determines my SB budget is escort pricing. Right now the SPP agency provides GFE girls for 1 hr at 300. I don't have to buy a room, just go there and have fun and leave. Now I'm willing to pay a little more for an SB due to lower volume and BFS, but not a lot more. High quality escort agency's cap the market price.I also run the numbers on a flight to Europe and visits to clubs, which was cheaper than anything in the states before Covid.
LovePunnany
08-24-24, 14:36
Any info on this baby would be appreciated.
https://members.seeking.com/member/e00eadd0-3dfe-4bec-950c-e48a0778a67f
Any info on this baby would be appreciated.
https://members.seeking.com/member/e00eadd0-3dfe-4bec-950c-e48a0778a67fShe's been around for several years and is based out of Greensboro, NC. She is DTF and will go straight to fuck chamber if you got game. She is more professional now.
People Pleasur
08-25-24, 20:08
So, this is probably my 6th or 7th time on SA. I have had good success in the past and have met some wonderful ladies. I usually join for a month and get loads of contacts and work them for the next several months. If I find a good one we stay connected for a while till it fizzles out and I rejoin to start over.
This time I did the usual of sending tons of PMs and waiting to see what comes back. Literally dozens. No response period. Not even opening my messages. I even responded to the scam girls who contacted me first and the messages go as "unread".
I think something is broken. I can't believe all my messages have gone "delivered" amd none of them have been read! Every single one. Even to the scammers who contacted me first.
Anyone else had this happen? I have game and.
Why messages are usually what a girl wants to hear on first contact. I swear it's broken.
Christian Troy
08-25-24, 20:50
I stumbled upon a reverse image technique that's been working for me. The tech savvy among you probably have this trick in your bag, but for those that don't here it is: the free search options can be weak by themselves but pretty useful when used together.
Steps:
1) Use Facecheck I'd on the target picture.
2) Facecheck should return a grid of results. While it won't tell you the exact link of the results without paying (like it used to), it will tell you the websites it came from. You want to look for social media sites (Linkedin seems to work particularly well for this). Take a screenshot and cut out the pictures it gives you from the social media sites.
3) Take your new pictures from the social media sites and put them into Google Reverse Image Search. Be sure to put the whole thing and not just the face. Googles revers image search doesn't do well with just parts of pictures, like the face, but it does very well matching the entire picture.
4) This should give you the results that Facecheck I'd was trying to get you to pay for. If it doesn't work, try it with another social media picture.
I've been trying to find a good free alternative since Facecheck I'd went to a pay model and this has been working fairly well. It's not 100% and takes a few extra clicks, but it can definitely find people. Besides Facecheck I'd I like to also check out what some of the other pay sites, like Pimeyes and Social Catfish, are returning for results. Then I use the same method of screenshotting those pic previews and plugging them into a free tool like google image search.
If anyone has any good techniques or knows any good free resources please post them. I know this topic gets brought up at least monthly, but with as frequently as search AI changes I think it's a topic worth revisiting frequently.
CrazyRocket
08-26-24, 00:17
Recent posts about getting caught by scammers made me wanted to share my experience:
I got sloppy once and gave my actual phone number to a "girl. " I got a text message one morning asking how I am. I usually don't reply to unknown numbers, but I think it was supposed to happen. As soon as I reply, I got some screenshots of our conversation in SA, me and my spouse's social profiles, and sextortion started shortly after. I won't discuss the details here but I figured out to defuse it temporarily to this date.
To the fellow SD who got hit by sextortion and paid: They won't stop. I say this by experience because I still get suspicious messages to this date. The latest I got was from a country known to be a host of such scammer networks. I fear if I reply, there will be another set of "hey I got these screenshots of you, guess what?" Be 100% sure that your info is out there, especially if you already paid them some $$ and they will once in a while attempt to come after you again. And if possible, keep the number. I'm keeping my busted number the same in order to be informed of future attacks. God forbid if someone else picks my number and plays it wrong.
I panicked and deleted my SA altogether shortly after I got the messages. I regret doing that. I sent my actual number to only a few. I could figure out which one "she" was, but I couldn't think straight.
Shortly after this experience, I began minimizing my digital footprint relating to my actual identity. I had any results reaching to my identity in identity brokerage sites removed. There are a handful of services who do that for you. I signed up for one, they deleted half of the crap while leaving other half "ongoing" state. That's another form of scam to be honest LOL. I now vet my photos through face search engines. I blocked all my social profiles from revealing my profile photo to public search. Kudos to Facebook for f'ing this up. My profile was extreme locked up before this incident. I excluded myself from being found both in internal Facebook search and search engine results years ago. Even if they could get a hold of my actual name, I didn't think they could find my Facebook profile. Somehow, they could reach to my and my spouse's Facebook profiles so I'm guessing these scammers has some ties to some Facebook partners who can search beyond regular users' capabilities.
It's a pretty rough experience if you have things to lose like a spouse or a job. You can always argue screenshots are fake, but it's better to be safe from the start.
MSmith3034
08-26-24, 08:50
Have been doing exactly this already with mixed results. You can also run through Pimeyes for hits on photos, screenshot those and run through Google (or Tineye). At minimum, if you aren't paying for the searches, the results can at least give you an idea if you may be working with a scammer or not (ie, are the pictures found on IG vs. Port sites and how many hits are there.).
I stumbled upon a reverse image technique that's been working for me. The tech savvy among you probably have this trick in your bag, but for those that don't here it is: the free search options can be weak by themselves but pretty useful when used together.
Steps:
1) Use Facecheck I'd on the target picture.
2) Facecheck should return a grid of results. While it won't tell you the exact link of the results without paying (like it used to), it will tell you the websites it came from. You want to look for social media sites (Linkedin seems to work particularly well for this). Take a screenshot and cut out the pictures it gives you from the social media sites.
3) Take your new pictures from the social media sites and put them into Google Reverse Image Search. Be sure to put the whole thing and not just the face. Googles revers image search doesn't do well with just parts of pictures, like the face, but it does very well matching the entire picture.
4) This should give you the results that Facecheck I'd was trying to get you to pay for. If it doesn't work, try it with another social media picture.
I've been trying to find a good free alternative since Facecheck I'd went to a pay model and this has been working fairly well. It's not 100% and takes a few extra clicks, but it can definitely find people. Besides Facecheck I'd I like to also check out what some of the other pay sites, like Pimeyes and Social Catfish, are returning for results. Then I use the same method of screenshotting those pic previews and plugging them into a free tool like google image search.
If anyone has any good techniques or knows any good free resources please post them. I know this topic gets brought up at least monthly, but with as frequently as search AI changes I think it's a topic worth revisiting frequently.
SeekingHead
08-26-24, 12:13
So, this is probably my 6th or 7th time on SA. I have had good success in the past and have met some wonderful ladies. I usually join for a month and get loads of contacts and work them for the next several months. If I find a good one we stay connected for a while till it fizzles out and I rejoin to start over.
This time I did the usual of sending tons of PMs and waiting to see what comes back. Literally dozens. No response period. Not even opening my messages. I even responded to the scam girls who contacted me first and the messages go as "unread".
I think something is broken. I can't believe all my messages have gone "delivered" amd none of them have been read! Every single one. Even to the scammers who contacted me first.
Anyone else had this happen? I have game and.
Why messages are usually what a girl wants to hear on first contact. I swear it's broken.Was my last experience as well, first week received responses & messages were read, then nothing until the last 3 days of the monthly membership.
MajMilkDuds
08-26-24, 13:27
Hey I had this girls number but I lost it when a recent update to my play number. If anyone has info on her can you please pass it along. I gave her my number but I don't have hers anymore. Very sweet girl.
https://members.seeking.com/member/f2cad06a-7672-4e0d-adc4-8dd7acd12d72
LovePunnany
08-26-24, 20:35
She's been around for several years and is based out of Greensboro, NC. She is DTF and will go straight to fuck chamber if you got game. She is more professional now.Is she worth $3, I was not trying to get with any professional?
MariettaJoe
08-26-24, 21:02
I stumbled upon a reverse image technique that's been working for me. The tech savvy among you probably have this trick in your bag, but for those that don't here it is: the free search options can be weak by themselves but pretty useful when used together.
Steps:
1) Use Facecheck I'd on the target picture.
2) Facecheck should return a grid of results. While it won't tell you the exact link of the results without paying (like it used to), it will tell you the websites it came from. You want to look for social media sites (Linkedin seems to work particularly well for this). Take a screenshot and cut out the pictures it gives you from the social media sites.
3) Take your new pictures from the social media sites and put them into Google Reverse Image Search. Be sure to put the whole thing and not just the face. Googles revers image search doesn't do well with just parts of pictures, like the face, but it does very well matching the entire picture.
4) This should give you the results that Facecheck I'd was trying to get you to pay for. If it doesn't work, try it with another social media picture.
I've been trying to find a good free alternative since Facecheck I'd went to a pay model and this has been working fairly well. It's not 100% and takes a few extra clicks, but it can definitely find people. Besides Facecheck I'd I like to also check out what some of the other pay sites, like Pimeyes and Social Catfish, are returning for results. Then I use the same method of screenshotting those pic previews and plugging them into a free tool like google image search.
If anyone has any good techniques or knows any good free resources please post them. I know this topic gets brought up at least monthly, but with as frequently as search AI changes I think it's a topic worth revisiting frequently.I have a browser extension / add-on named "Search by image" that will make this even easier. Keep steps one and two except ignore the screenshot part. You'll be able to right-click the picture, "search by image" will be an option and you can run it through several reverse-image searching sites. Google images does the best job overall of them ones listed, but others may pick up a hit too on occasion that help. Still faster too.
Side note: I'm doing this on a PC, unsure how this would do on a mobile device. It's a chromium-browser extension, so it should work on Chrome, Brave, and others that are based on it.
Recent posts about getting caught by scammers made me wanted to share my experience:
I got sloppy once and gave my actual phone number to a "girl. " I got a text message one morning asking how I am. I usually don't reply to unknown numbers, but I think it was supposed to happen. As soon as I reply, I got some screenshots of our conversation in SA, me and my spouse's social profiles, and sextortion started shortly after. I won't discuss the details here but I figured out to defuse it temporarily to this date.
To the fellow SD who got hit by sextortion and paid: They won't stop. I say this by experience because I still get suspicious messages to this date. The latest I got was from a country known to be a host of such scammer networks. I fear if I reply, there will be another set of "hey I got these screenshots of you, guess what?" Be 100% sure that your info is out there, especially if you already paid them some $$ and they will once in a while attempt to come after you again. And if possible, keep the number. I'm keeping my busted number the same in order to be informed of future attacks. God forbid if someone else picks my number and plays it wrong.
I panicked and deleted my SA altogether shortly after I got the messages. I regret doing that. I sent my actual number to only a few. I could figure out which one "she" was, but I couldn't think straight.
Shortly after this experience, I began minimizing my digital footprint relating to my actual identity. I had any results reaching to my identity in identity brokerage sites removed. There are a handful of services who do that for you. I signed up for one, they deleted half of the crap while leaving other half "ongoing" state. That's another form of scam to be honest LOL. I now vet my photos through face search engines. I blocked all my social profiles from revealing my profile photo to public search. Kudos to Facebook for f'ing this up. My profile was extreme locked up before this incident. I excluded myself from being found both in internal Facebook search and search engine results years ago. Even if they could get a hold of my actual name, I didn't think they could find my Facebook profile. Somehow, they could reach to my and my spouse's Facebook profiles so I'm guessing these scammers has some ties to some Facebook partners who can search beyond regular users' capabilities.
It's a pretty rough experience if you have things to lose like a spouse or a job. You can always argue screenshots are fake, but it's better to be safe from the start.Thanks for sharing. It's just a reminder for all of us. I had a crazy SB that demanded money after getting into my hotel room and was going to make a nuisance and I ended up paying her to leave essentially. So not only be safe with pics and phone info! But vet them before directly seeing them at the hotel.
So, this is probably my 6th or 7th time on SA. I have had good success in the past and have met some wonderful ladies. I usually join for a month and get loads of contacts and work them for the next several months. If I find a good one we stay connected for a while till it fizzles out and I rejoin to start over.
This time I did the usual of sending tons of PMs and waiting to see what comes back. Literally dozens. No response period. Not even opening my messages. I even responded to the scam girls who contacted me first and the messages go as "unread".
I think something is broken. I can't believe all my messages have gone "delivered" amd none of them have been read! Every single one. Even to the scammers who contacted me first.
Anyone else had this happen? I have game and.
Why messages are usually what a girl wants to hear on first contact. I swear it's broken.Not broken. But the site has become about 90% scam, bots, and providers seeking 30/60 minute transactions. After you weed thru all of that, it leaves very few left. But they are out there. Especially if you travel international.
2me4Looking2
08-27-24, 14:28
Here is one I saw a while back and overall had a good time, but her body has some very noticeable baby damage. Her face is very attractive and I actually love all the tattoos, but any of the pics showing her body are older. She isn't really big, just a lot of flab. She was very easy to communicate with and was fun to be with, but the body was definitely a let down. We had a quick lunch and then went to a hotel and I believe I gave her $300. She did BBBJ and allowed dining at the why, but said it wasn't normally her thing. The main act was covered, but that's not an issue for me. She wanted a repeat, but I never did go back.
https://members.seeking.com/member/6f3b5bba-8167-49f4-a990-80393c498d94
Any info on this baby would be appreciated.
https://members.seeking.com/member/e00eadd0-3dfe-4bec-950c-e48a0778a67fI think she's a pro, but don't know. I negotiated her down to 350 but didn't follow thru. , she may have gone lower, if she had I would have taken her up on it. This was about 5 months ago.
CrazyRocket
08-28-24, 01:55
Thanks for sharing. It's just a reminder for all of us. I had a crazy SB that demanded money after getting into my hotel room and was going to make a nuisance and I ended up paying her to leave essentially. So not only be safe with pics and phone info! But vet them before directly seeing them at the hotel.I found out the other day some fake chick account from another African country has also followed a pretty defunct account of mine. There is no possibility that I could get a natural follower from that country on that platform out of blue so it must be 100% related to the scammer. I don't have many followers / following there so they couldn't have gotten an easy list of contacts. Same goes for Linkedin. Those bast*rds are going after all of the social profiles that they can find. It's been a good exercise of privacy and information security on social media / internet. Bad actors have a lot of opportunities to create a profile of someone in order to approach via social engineering / smishing techniques.
Meanwhile, I returned to SA because some other gent here posted about a MILF (ClassyFun) I had my eyes on being legit. I contacted her and she gave me some BS about me being single (I don't disclose it on my profile anymore) not working for her. I figured she was not interested but pushed my luck to no avail. I have a weakness against blonde women. It's difficult to find a sane SB these days.
I am much more secretive due to my previous experience and it doesn't work well with most of those girls. My only success from SA so far from a few months ago:
https://members.seeking.com/member/c729c12e-e345-4897-80d9-e4267496ed5e
She was in her period and I was looking for BBBJCIM w / swallow around that time. We made it happen. She looked better in person. She put on the lipstick and the necklace I liked, bonus points. She claims to be married and cool with married men. I've been trying to meet her again but she keeps evading. Either she found a better paying SB, or I was too rough on her. (CIM and swallow after 1. 5 hrs of BBBJ. She took it like champ, though).
Member #6718
08-28-24, 16:26
I found out the other day some fake chick account from another African country has also followed a pretty defunct account of mine. There is no possibility that I could get a natural follower from that country on that platform out of blue so it must be 100% related to the scammer. I don't have many followers / following there so they couldn't have gotten an easy list of contacts. Same goes for Linkedin. Those bast*rds are going after all of the social profiles that they can find. It's been a good exercise of privacy and information security on social media / internet. Bad actors have a lot of opportunities to create a profile of someone in order to approach via social engineering / smishing techniques.
Meanwhile, I returned to SA because some other gent here posted about a MILF (ClassyFun) I had my eyes on being legit. I contacted her and she gave me some BS about me being single (I don't disclose it on my profile anymore) not working for her. I figured she was not interested but pushed my luck to no avail. I have a weakness against blonde women. It's difficult to find a sane SB these days.
I am much more secretive due to my previous experience and it doesn't work well with most of those girls. My only success from SA so far from a few months ago:
https://members.seeking.com/member/c729c12e-e345-4897-80d9-e4267496ed5e
She was in her period and I was looking for BBBJCIM w / swallow around that time. We made it happen. She looked better in person. She put on the lipstick and the necklace I liked, bonus points. She claims to be married and cool with married men. I've been trying to meet her again but she keeps evading. Either she found a better paying SB, or I was too rough on her. (CIM and swallow after 1. 5 hrs of BBBJ. She took it like champ, though).1. 5 hrs?
Dude I would get bored as the reciever, never mind the lock jaw she would get as the donor.
CrimpShrine
08-28-24, 17:00
She claims to be married and cool with married men.Some dude shows up at your door with a bat, think fast.
https://members.seeking.com/member/e8d66d3f-6df8-4309-a905-e88a9876f499
Has anyone seen Stacy? If so, shoot me a dm. About to meet her this week.
I met her yesterday for a meet and greet + quickie. She's very much GF material and our chemistry was really good so we are probably going to move forward long term. She doesn't have GPS, at least for me.Her profile is updated saying she has "accepted an arrangement therefore I'm no longer in the market". Is that you? What's funny is that her profile is active almost everyday.
BrownSugaTwo
08-29-24, 12:31
Has anyone met one of these ladies?
Annmariexoxox - https://members.seeking.com/member/eea32f52-11ee-4785-863d-6c767dfec8a1.
Classyatl - https://members.seeking.com/member/fd368e59-98e8-40ba-800d-faaf48845728.
Sweetdesiredesiree - https://members.seeking.com/member/01001867-bf2a-4fff-b4c3-3a1252b6f703.
Heatherbaby777 - https://members.seeking.com/member/4188f6ac-5c42-4175-a37c-4e1989bf7d09.
Annmariexoxox seems to have an defunct tryst profile. And, Classyatl has been arrested, and her mugshot definitely doesn't match what she has on her profile. Same goes for Heatherbaby777, but her mugshot is even worse.
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