View Full Version : "Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"
Airmantroy
03-20-24, 12:40
It's doomed at those prices agreed. However if you are taking good care of yourself and staying lean, then the prices can drop. If you bring ass, you'll get more ass. Girls are willing to negotiate a little more when they like what they see.This is somewhat true, I'm in shape, pretty decent looking, and I behave like a gentleman as required. It's gotten me much better initial rates from several of the girls who've been reviewed asking for way more than I'd be willing to splurge. It should also be noted that I will not pay $400 to someone who has been mentioned here multiple times, regardless of her menu. This chick was smoking hot, and only visting as a UTR escort. I doubt seriously she'll be back, or that I'd see her again. Price being the biggest factor in not seeing her again. And you are right Louis, learning spanish can get doors opened that were tough. I also know Spanish, German and enough Japanese to at least get a smile.
TooHotForYou
03-20-24, 17:44
Does anyone know the details about Sammi? Messaged with her for the first time today but we haven't gotten to taking about details.
https://members.seeking.com/member/bcedc797-798a-4003-9b1e-1eddd42b917fIs she that girl who drove her car into a lake here or something some time back and was on the news?
Pro vibes, went straight to the point. She's a PPM girl and can host in Norcross. Problem is, she asks 600 for covered service and NO BJ at all. If you want a covered BJ with FS it's 1 k. Hard pass, she's cute though.
https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?userId=72396201
MilfHunter818
03-21-24, 16:09
https://members.seeking.com/member/b72b5b37-e148-48ee-ba6b-c29d5808a747
I messaged her earlier this week and she replied, "if you want to talk ppm, text me" and she gave me her number.
She said $650-$1200 depending on what we did and for how long. Finally agreed on her coming to me in west Ga from sandy springs for $500. I always pay what I can to not sit in atl traffic so that was worth it. She comes to my room and I jokingly said "what do you want to talk about or want just fuck" she said "let's get started". She stripped and stood there waiting for me to tell her what to do. . She is incredibly hot! Just damn. She's like a poseable sex doll. Tell her how you want it and she does it. Whatever you want. I didn't ask for head and she said no buttstuff though. She offered bare but I always cover myself.
You're probably thinking why is she's not worth it? Even though she's submissive to no end, there are ZERO emotions from her, no moans, no movement, nothing. During cowgirl she did bounce but that's it. So if you want someone who doesn't talk that you can just rail, go ahead LOL. I'm trying to think of any questions anyone may have but that's about it. Her hygiene was top notch.
Tall, big, tattooed MILF. She should be fun. I couldn't get her to respond but hopefully you can.I clicked on and viewed her profile. She favorited and messaged me but I'm not premium right now so I can't even tell you what's up.
RediFusion
03-22-24, 16:52
Keep us posted how it went and how much damage.I'm talking to her now on secretbenefits, trying to set something up for my ATL business trip. Any intel how your meet went?
RediFusion
03-22-24, 18:36
Does anyone have any experience with this one?
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/d369a32ee966d978
I'm scheduled to meet with her and will share experience, but was curious if anyone else knows about her and can share.I've quoted the wrong post below. Did you end up meeting her?
AdmirerSecret
03-22-24, 18:37
Anybody fucking a girl who is 17 age is georgia? Keeping her as sugar baby? Is it legal or you all stay away until 18 age?
LovePunnany
03-23-24, 00:13
I have a meet with her next week and I know she has been reviewed before. Any intel would be appreciated.
LovePunnany
03-23-24, 11:34
Fellows this baby advertising on Seeking can be had on Listcrawler for $60.
Enjoy.
https://members.seeking.com/member/8ce08119-cf12-480f-9b49-cd6070b207cd
https://escortalligator.com.listcrawler.eu/post/escorts/usa/georgia/atlanta/166908134
LouisHernandez
03-23-24, 13:09
Fellows this baby advertising on Seeking can be had on Listcrawler for $60.
Enjoy.
https://members.seeking.com/member/8ce08119-cf12-480f-9b49-cd6070b207cd
https://escortalligator.com.listcrawler.eu/post/escorts/usa/georgia/atlanta/166908134Looks like a Fani Willis doppleganger. Well at least prices are coming down.
Not trying to be argumentative. But you didn't ask for head. And she said no to butt-stuff. I am not sure she is "whatever you want" material.
Just my 2 cents.
Dr. S.
https://members.seeking.com/member/b72b5b37-e148-48ee-ba6b-c29d5808a747
I messaged her earlier this week and she replied, "if you want to talk ppm, text me" and she gave me her number.
She said $650-$1200 depending on what we did and for how long. Finally agreed on her coming to me in west Ga from sandy springs for $500. I always pay what I can to not sit in atl traffic so that was worth it. She comes to my room and I jokingly said "what do you want to talk about or want just fuck" she said "let's get started". She stripped and stood there waiting for me to tell her what to do. . She is incredibly hot! Just damn. She's like a poseable sex doll. Tell her how you want it and she does it. Whatever you want. I didn't ask for head and she said no buttstuff though. She offered bare but I always cover myself.
You're probably thinking why is she's not worth it? Even though she's submissive to no end, there are ZERO emotions from her, no moans, no movement, nothing. During cowgirl she did bounce but that's it. So if you want someone who doesn't talk that you can just rail, go ahead LOL. I'm trying to think of any questions anyone may have but that's about it. Her hygiene was top notch.
MilfHunter818
03-23-24, 20:55
Not trying to be argumentative. But you didn't ask for head. And she said no to butt-stuff. I am not sure she is "whatever you want" material.
Just my 2 cents.
Dr. S.Yeah I meant position wise.
TacoSauce3
03-24-24, 15:11
I've quoted the wrong post below. Did you end up meeting her?I sent you a message.
NewAnonymousName
03-24-24, 17:11
Anybody fucking a girl who is 17 age is georgia? Keeping her as sugar baby? Is it legal or you all stay away until 18 age?It's DEFINITELY NOT legal to have a 17 year old sugar baby in Georgia. Paying someone under 18 for sex is a major crime and will be harshly punished. You will not win an acquittal by claiming the money and gifts were for companionship and would have been given even without sex. Everyone (meaning prosecutors and juries) knows what the money and gifts are for. Don't do it.
Anybody fucking a girl who is 17 age is georgia? Keeping her as sugar baby? Is it legal or you all stay away until 18 age?You asked if anyone is fucking anyone age 17. I am not. I want 18+. I am not a lawyer, but I am pretty sure age of consent is less than 18 in Georgia. However, age of consent is completely irrelevant in this hobby. They will pin you for the money part of it and call it soliciting. At that point, I think the penalties when a minor is involved are much much worse.
Stay FAR away from that one. And if you know someone on seeking is under age, I know I for one would appreciate the warning. I don't want that sort of trouble.
NewAnonymousName
03-24-24, 23:13
Yes, a 5-year SB that I lived with for the last 3-years. I play the long game rather than the PPM. She was a unicorn as I paid her $8 per month for about 14 months. She hosted in her apartment near my home and office. Total 3-hole player. I broke it off as she has major anger issues.
I have been conversing with this one. https://members.seeking.com/member/3a08c219-0d8e-460f-9649-133da9179d48
My M. O. Has always been to not even discuss $ until they bring it up. This one hasn't yet.
Yes, I know she's tall and big, but that's what I am hankering for.
Thanks in advance for any scoop. Of course, after I play with her, I will report.Did you ever hook up with this tall MILF? What's she like?
Aafakljgadkg
03-26-24, 15:30
Anybody fucking a girl who is 17 age is georgia? Keeping her as sugar baby? Is it legal or you all stay away until 18 age? Don't think with your dick.
Did you ever hook up with this tall MILF? What's she like?I've been co vered up with work. But have kept her on a leash. My M. O. Has always been seeking a relationship rather than the one and done of PPM. I will report when I do.
CreamyGiggles
03-26-24, 21:24
Been seeing this one posting nearby and was wondering if anyone has seen her or anything After searching around the forums I found post #14219 in this section since she also posts on seeking. The pictures attached to that post are of the same girl but neither link works as it seems the old posts are deleted often. Looking through the old post / pictures that shoe up in listcrawler another girl that posts under the same number named tiffany. They just deleted their past post this past week and started posting again under a different number. The post and pictures the other guy posted tells me that the person in the picture is at least a real poster however since the links don't work I can't confirm if its the same contact information to make sure. Tried contacting the poster for mor info but haven't heard back. I am also going to post this in escort forum just in case someone there has any info.
https://escortalligator.com.listcrawler.eu/post/escorts/usa/georgia/atlanta/167119985
If the link does not work then they probably deleted them again.
Not trying to be argumentative. But you didn't ask for head. And she said no to butt-stuff. I am not sure she is "whatever you want" material.
Just my 2 cents.
Dr. S.So where is her profile now? I would have to disagree with some of the things the other individual said, but I saw her about two years ago and originally met her off of Hinge dating site. She was not that great nor asking for anything over 200. I guess it depends on what those guys look like and what the girls are willing to go for.
JoeThighsMan
03-27-24, 13:41
Anybody fucking a girl who is 17 age is georgia? Keeping her as sugar baby? Is it legal or you all stay away until 18 age?Are you asking if its legal, or stating that a SB is only 17?
Gidden Lade
03-27-24, 18:15
Been seeing this one posting nearby and was wondering if anyone has seen her or anything After searching around the forums I found post #14219 in this section since she also posts on seeking. The pictures attached to that post are of the same girl but neither link works as it seems the old posts are deleted often. Looking through the old post / pictures that shoe up in listcrawler another girl that posts under the same number named tiffany. They just deleted their past post this past week and started posting again under a different number. The post and pictures the other guy posted tells me that the person in the picture is at least a real poster however since the links don't work I can't confirm if its the same contact information to make sure. Tried contacting the poster for mor info but haven't heard back. I am also going to post this in escort forum just in case someone there has any info.
https://escortalligator.com.listcrawler.eu/post/escorts/usa/georgia/atlanta/167119985
If the link does not work then they probably deleted them again.That was my post about her being on both. Sorry for the slow reply, been busy and haven't checked in for quite a while. Considered it, but I never went to see her, nor did I contact her. I just happened to see her profile on Seeking and remembered her from LC. I know some guys don't like to deal with pros posing as sugar babies, so I put the word out. Since neither profile is still active she has probably moved on like some of these gals do.
Keep checking periodically she may pop back up. I always found her on LC when I would do a search for "Lithonia. " Apparently that was her stomping ground for the time that she was here. Or course, that may or may not be the case if or when she returns.
Best wishes.
AdmirerSecret
03-27-24, 19:29
Thatīs my understanding also, I verified the girls is found out she is 17 and she was saying she is fucking few and age of consent is 17. I did not pursue though.
It's DEFINITELY NOT legal to have a 17 year old sugar baby in Georgia. Paying someone under 18 for sex is a major crime and will be harshly punished. You will not win an acquittal by claiming the money and gifts were for companionship and would have been given even without sex. Everyone (meaning prosecutors and juries) knows what the money and gifts are for. Don't do it.
AdmirerSecret
03-27-24, 19:32
I am asking is it legal or not? Also stating that girl met on seeking is 17 age after verification. She claims that few are already fucking her telling age of consent in Georgia is 17 for sex. I am not perusing but I am asking here how many daddies pursue these girls? Or totally drop them from radar?
Are you asking if its legal, or stating that a SB is only 17?
I am asking is it legal or not? Also stating that girl met on seeking is 17 age after verification. She claims that few are already fucking her telling age of consent in Georgia is 17 for sex. I am not perusing but I am asking here how many daddies pursue these girls? Or totally drop them from radar?You are confusing age of consent with legality. Paying for sex is illegal whether the person paid is 17 or 77. The age can be used as a factor in the penalty for the illegal act. Ga has laws that make the penalty more severe the younger the victim is. Also can result in required registration as a sex offender.
NewAnonymousName
03-28-24, 11:33
Thats my understanding also, I verified the girls is found out she is 17 and she was saying she is fucking few and age of consent is 17. I did not pursue though.I think the age of consent in GA is 16 (but I'm not positive, it might be 17). So in theory, you could meet a high school girl at the mall and have sex with her as long as no money changes hands.
The authorities look the other way when it comes to sugar daddy / sugar baby arrangements, but technically, they are illegal prostitution most of the time. PPM is definitely prostitution, and allowances and gifts are too if there's a deal of pay for play. It's not something the authorities are going to waste their time trying to prosecute. Trips, gifts, and money are part of regular relationships too, so it's hard to prove.
However, the authorities are NOT going to look the other way if a 16 or 17 year old girl (or her parents or protective brother) complains after the fact about a sugar daddy. The prosecutor will treat the gifts and money as payment and prosecute the sugar daddy for prostitution. And it's going to be very hard to convince a jury that it's not illegal prostitution. The penalties for prostitution involving a minor are much worse. Also, if the sugar daddy took the girl on a trip, then the sugar daddy could be looking at federal charges for transporting a minor across state lines for sex.
The sugar daddies hooking up with a 17 year old are taking a huge risk. If they get caught because someone complains, they're lives are going to be ruined. Registering as a sex offender stays with you for life. That's why I checked IDs on the several young sugar babies I saw. Fortunately none were under 18. If any had been, the coffee date would have been the end of it for me. One was 18 by only a week or two despite being on the site for months, but she was legal when I saw her.
Ozymandias
03-28-24, 13:05
Anybody fucking a girl who is 17 age is georgia? Keeping her as sugar baby? Is it legal or you all stay away until 18 age?It's legal in Georgia to drive with 0. 075% alcohol level carrying a handgun without a permit on your way to fuck a 16 year old girl, but that doesn't make it advisable.
Federal Law is the stickler: it's illegal to have *unlawful sexual contact* with people under the age of 18, to transport said people over state lines, or to engage in explicit electronic communication with them. And if you're paying, it's unlawful sexual contact.
I had a regular creampie fuck toy who was 18 (this was in an October and she'd turned 18 in August) and discovered that she was a *senior in high school*. Even though totally legal (18), I dropped the situation just because *she* would be around under-18's, and it just felt like too close for comfort. Like I wouldn't want her to bring some friend over for a three-way I'd have a hard time saying no to.
Best practice is to consider 19 a cut off. Just in case.
O.
Gidden Lade
03-28-24, 14:06
I am asking is it legal or not? Also stating that girl met on seeking is 17 age after verification. She claims that few are already fucking her telling age of consent in Georgia is 17 for sex. I am not perusing but I am asking here how many daddies pursue these girls? Or totally drop them from radar?I don't know how the age of consent thing works for sure, but I would think that only applies if the girl is having sex with someone who is also a minor. Or perhaps in a case where her parents have given their consent for her to willingly marry someone over 18. If this were not the case it seems like some of these teachers who get busted, for example, would have a loophole if the kid in question agreed that the sex was consensual. I could be totally off base here, so feel free to correct me if I'm wrong.
Regardless of that, here's my two cents on the whole matter of grown men hooking up with underaged girls. You are basically placing your entire life as you know it, including your freedom, in the hands of a teenage girl. You are betting your life on the fact that a teenage girl is going to keep her mouth shut and not tell one single solitary soul about what's going on. ESPECIALLY in this day and age of social media. NOT GOING TO HAPPEN! Hell, it's hard enough to find a fully grown adult woman or man that can keep anything to themselves. People can't keep secrets worth a damn. I had 3 teenaged step daughters and trust me they LOVED to talk. CONSTANTLY! My female coworkers NEVER shut up and constantly gossip. I bet 75% of them gossip in their freakin' sleep! I have one chick at work who I swear is ADDICTED to gossip. She sends so much time telling everyone else's business that she NEVER gets her work done, sad!
No way, no how, NEVER EVER would I place my life in the hands of a kid just to get laid. The juice is NOT worth the squeeze! Furthermore, if you get caught and imprisoned, guess what? Chances are you will be someone's prison bish or you'll be getting the hell beat out of you the whole time you're in there or both. I've heard that prisoners do not take kindly to child molesters. And no matter how someone wants to sugar coat it with the sugar daddy angle or anything else. If convicted of having sex with a minor that's what they will consider you to be.
Didn't mean to preach, but PLEASE. If anyone reading this is even remotely considering doing something like this PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE, DO NOT DO IT. For the sake of the kid and yourself!
There are plenty of rants on these forums about how overpriced pussy is. If we don't want to spend too much money, then surely you don't want to pay for it with your freedom, your reputation and possibly your life. Right?
TacoSauce3
03-28-24, 15:12
TLDR. Don't do it.
My dumbass brother started "dating" a 16 year old in Georgia when he was 44. There was a knock on my parents' door by the police because the girl was reported as a runaway and they were looking for him. He did not face any legal consequences since the age of consent in Georgia is 16. However, his face did appear on the local news with the story being should the age of consent be changed. If an employer Googles his name, the whole situation shows up. Not worth it.
TylerDurden07
03-28-24, 15:57
It's legal in Georgia to drive with 0. 075% alcohol level carrying a handgun without a permit on your way to fuck a 16 year old girl, but that doesn't make it advisable.
Federal Law is the stickler: it's illegal to have *unlawful sexual contact* with people under the age of 18, to transport said people over state lines, or to engage in explicit electronic communication with them. And if you're paying, it's unlawful sexual contact.
I had a regular creampie fuck toy who was 18 (this was in an October and she'd turned 18 in August) and discovered that she was a *senior in high school*. Even though totally legal (18), I dropped the situation just because *she* would be around under-18's, and it just felt like too close for comfort. Like I wouldn't want her to bring some friend over for a three-way I'd have a hard time saying no to.
Best practice is to consider 19 a cut off. Just in case.
O.The problem is knowing that they're that young. I've ran into a few girls (not many, but a few) on SA that claim they're in their early 20's, only to find out when we're texting that they're under 18. Needless to say, I end the chat & block them right then & there, but it's still too edgy for my liking.
BrownSugaTwo
03-29-24, 13:17
The problem is knowing that they're that young. I've ran into a few girls (not many, but a few) on SA that claim they're in their early 20's, only to find out when we're texting that they're under 18. Needless to say, I end the chat & block them right then & there, but it's still too edgy for my liking.I had one that was 19, back in the heyday of SA, when I was just starting out (those were the days, LOL). I was just excited she was so young. Just starting college, etc. And didn't even bother to check her I'd. She went on to have a decently successful OnlyFans and do some basic porn (some of you likely had her), so every time I see her online, I thankful the situation turned out the way it did; she could have easily been 17 and I wouldn't have noticed. I don't go any lower than 21, now, and I tend to embrace the safety of MILFs mot often (single moms tend to know the deal anyway and rarely make outlandish demands).
FarFarAway
03-29-24, 14:03
Gentlemen. You of course should discuss whatever topics you wish on this site, consistent with the terms of service (worth re-reading from time to time) - I would never ever discourage you from posting. Here is a cautionary tale though. A gent in Philly who is an atty was holding forth on these very topics (of quite young SBs) on their sugar thread. Somehow, this caught the attention of LE. They evidently tracked him down IRL (therefore, don't assume all posts here are completely anonymous) and had a conversation w / him concerning activities he personally might have been involved in. While he was never prosecuted, or charged, or anything, you can understand how this situation scared the bejeesus out of him. He is not active at all on this site or in the sugar world as a result, he views it as too high a risk.
Lead on McDuff.
MilfHunter818
03-29-24, 15:37
So where is her profile now? I would have to disagree with some of the things the other individual said, but I saw her about two years ago and originally met her off of Hinge dating site. She was not that great nor asking for anything over 200. I guess it depends on what those guys look like and what the girls are willing to go for.Hey profile apparently got deleted. She talked about ppm on it but she has a new named babyjunni or something similar. What I said about her not showing any emotion was true.
AdmirerSecret
03-30-24, 22:30
Do you guys ask their STD status or take them to some testing center? What and test you conduct. ? Like hsv, hpv, hiv?. ,.
What are those types of diseases we should watch and how? Donts on first date. Like not kissing, touching.
Scammer. Sets coffee date then texts / calls needing uber money up front.
https://members.seeking.com/member/b970df92-a9c9-4686-9e84-a3304638ecdc
Pharmacy470
04-01-24, 12:21
Do you guys ask their STD status or take them to some testing center? What and test you conduct. ? Like hsv, hpv, hiv?. ,.
What are those types of diseases we should watch and how? Donts on first date. Like not kissing, touching.I have seen some very beautiful healthy looking women with HIV. I would ask about their testing, std history.
I think most people are honest but you need to trust your instinct. I will look to see for any needle marks or teeth issues.
Good hygiene usually tells me that odds are in my favor.
I won't do anything without a cover except a BJ.
FarFarAway
04-01-24, 19:59
I have seen some very beautiful healthy looking women with HIV. I would ask about their testing, std history.
I think most people are honest but you need to trust your instinct. I will look to see for any needle marks or teeth issues.
Good hygiene usually tells me that odds are in my favor.
I won't do anything without a cover except a BJ.Geez, this is why you are on seeking and not bedpage. You are trying to get a little higher cut of woman who is not a pro and has nothing like that. No arrest record, no drug use, no guys 'managing' them. Just amateurs in need of some $ and a bit horny, who don't have that risk-taking gene.
SalvatoreIttup
04-02-24, 11:10
Geez, this is why you are on seeking and not bedpage. You are trying to get a little higher cut of woman who is not a pro and has nothing like that. No arrest record, no drug use, no guys 'managing' them. Just amateurs in need of some $ and a bit horny, who don't have that risk-taking gene.Nah, the many SB's that are getting creampied regularly by supposed "rich" dudes definitely have that "risk-taking gene" you speak of, especially doing it in the city of Atlanta. As far as cities go, it doesn't get much riskier.
FarFarAway
04-02-24, 18:01
Nah, the many SB's that are getting creampied regularly by supposed "rich" dudes definitely have that "risk-taking gene" you speak of, especially doing it in the city of Atlanta. As far as cities go, it doesn't get much riskier.If a dude doesn't have spidey senses about what sort of a chick he's considering, and / or have the ability to track her down IRL through various modalities (facial rec, socials, paid databases, etc.), he will get what he deserves in this regard. Yeah, of course, the girls are all telling stories, just like we are. We are covering our tracks out in the wild and wooly sugar bowl. But anyone I have bedded down w / I had a pretty good sense about before hand, and I would never touch anyone who would go bare. I am not in Atlanta though. YK the CDC is there. You guys could benefit from reading some of the CDC data about demographics of STDs.
FabioAldeaDiaz
04-03-24, 22:38
I wrote to secret b (SB) and they do not take prepaid cards. Only Seeking does it.
Let me know, please.
SoonerFan72
04-04-24, 20:27
Pic and vid seller.
https://members.seeking.com/member/1cd897cd-8a92-4646-9108-6f5fdaa7efc1
AdmirerSecret
04-05-24, 18:20
Girls will have herpes if they give BJ bare you get it. Hsv2. Another fucking bad disease. People don't even know they have herpes or hsv2.
I have seen some very beautiful healthy looking women with HIV. I would ask about their testing, std history.
I think most people are honest but you need to trust your instinct. I will look to see for any needle marks or teeth issues.
Good hygiene usually tells me that odds are in my favor.
I won't do anything without a cover except a BJ.
LouisHernandez
04-05-24, 19:11
Geez, this is why you are on seeking and not bedpage. You are trying to get a little higher cut of woman who is not a pro and has nothing like that. No arrest record, no drug use, no guys 'managing' them. Just amateurs in need of some $ and a bit horny, who don't have that risk-taking gene.Definitely a difference between sugar baby and professional wh-o-r.e. I'll happily deal with the higher flake rates and copious messaging than deal with getting a deadly disease, getting robbed, or even getting killed.
SoonerFan72
04-05-24, 21:40
Another vid and pic seller.
https://members.seeking.com/member/6c54ba69-c673-466f-a4ae-d2c140cf9ac9
AdmirerSecret
04-06-24, 22:48
Met her today, asking $1500 per month and she can meet 3 to 4 times.
She is 35 age. I pass.
https://members.seeking.com/member/be97e268-3637-4170-b869-886543441725
Gentlemen. You of course should discuss whatever topics you wish on this site, consistent with the terms of service (worth re-reading from time to time) - I would never ever discourage you from posting. Here is a cautionary tale though. A gent in Philly who is an atty was holding forth on these very topics (of quite young SBs) on their sugar thread. Somehow, this caught the attention of LE. They evidently tracked him down IRL (therefore, don't assume all posts here are completely anonymous) and had a conversation w / him concerning activities he personally might have been involved in. While he was never prosecuted, or charged, or anything, you can understand how this situation scared the bejeesus out of him. He is not active at all on this site or in the sugar world as a result, he views it as too high a risk.
Lead on McDuff.That's odd. . . As an attorney he should've known the #1 rule when talking to LE is STFU AND DON'T SPEAK WITH THEM. Whether a short or any other kind of convo.
TylerDurden07
04-09-24, 11:14
https://members.seeking.com/member/c996221e-e0a0-49f6-9eac-a373b7f92535
"I'm not here to play games and I expect to be spoiled before we ever meet! Then I will make to time and pleasure for my SD! I know my worth and I won't change it. ".
I just copied & pasted 3 sentences. How many red flags can you count just in that short amount of verbiage?
TylerDurden07
04-09-24, 11:21
https://members.seeking.com/member/45dff85b-6111-4a2e-8e9b-97c216e85d56
"Spoil & worship" with nothing given in return. I avoided the temptation to message & ask what DOES she offer in return.
FarFarAway
04-09-24, 11:47
That's odd. . . As an attorney he should've known the #1 rule when talking to LE is STFU AND DON'T SPEAK WITH THEM. Whether a short or any other kind of convo.You are reading something I didn't write. While of course he knew / knows how to protect his constitutional rights, there right on the site were things he had posted. He could be taciturn in responding to inquiries from LE about those, but the mere fact that he had to have the discussion w / them, and the implied threat that carried, was quite chilling to him, as I am sure you can appreciate. So, your advice to him could be generalized to all of those stalwarts posting on this thread about young girls.
LogJammin18
04-10-24, 10:34
I have seen some very beautiful healthy looking women with HIV. I would ask about their testing, std history.
I think most people are honest but you need to trust your instinct. I will look to see for any needle marks or teeth issues.
Good hygiene usually tells me that odds are in my favor.
I won't do anything without a cover except a BJ.Thanks for the reminder, just went and did my yearly STD test for all 9 of the biggies (HIV, Chlamydia, gonorrhea, HSV2 etc.)
If you want to get tested and make sure you are anonymous, here is what I did:
Go to https://www.tkqlhce.com/click-7796100-11648780 You can sign up under any name online, they send you paperwork under that name that you take to a local lab (labcorp) and on the paper work it tells the lab to not ask for ID. Lab send the results back to your account online for you to look at. I have done it a few times over the last few years and it is fast and easy and does not involve your doc or insurance at all. Totally private.
Thanks for paying attention and yes she was fucked bareback. I only used a condom on my fingers because my nails hadn't been clipped in a few days and I didn't want to hurt her early on. As far as value, that's the most I've ever given to anyone for any thing and it seemed pretty special to me. She tasted absolutely amazing, too. I got a good follow-up message from her yesterday and she's deleted her SDM profile so at this point she's a UTR afaik. If she's open to be shared it would be later this year after she's left home and her controlling parents. Thanks for the support! I'm just sharing to keep hope alive that SA and SDM have value for finding UTRs and newbies.First time on here in a little while. Bored and have a little time to kill so I thought I would do some light reading. I've been really busy with a rotation for a while. But I'm always on SDM, I gave up Seeking a long time ago because of all the scammers and ridiculous pricing. They've actually gone out of their way to make it easier for picture Sellers and scammers etc. And girls who don't ever plan to meet. If you have screenshot conversation of girls asking for that on SDM and report it. I've had them blocked\suspended\deleted within minutes.
Anyway long story short as I saw all of this and started laughing inside. I have pictures and videos and text to prove that I was here before this guy. He definitely got scammed a bit. It is true she does have ridiculously controlling parents and she had to sneak out of the house late at night to meet with me. We did the deed in the back of my suburban that I have set up very comfortably for situations like this. Yes she WAS a virgin. And she had actually been with one person before me according to her but they couldn't get the job done fully because she couldn't handle it. She's a cutter and has lots of marks all over her legs although she has stopped doing it according to her after therapy etc. She told me she wanted 1000 to give up the vCard. I opted for one tenth that price for a BJ and roaming and fingering etc. But I was able to convert it into the deed. All bare, and ridiculously slow going in the spoon position. It did take quite some time to get in, and even longer to get about 3\4 penetration for about 15 minutes before she wanted to tap out. I then told her to just give me 2 more minutes and got a little deeper "accidentally" with faster thrusts and the sounds she was making due to that made me pop almost immediately. Which I did inside and gave her a MAP and watched her take it on the drive back to drop her at her subdivision where she walked back home. I'm only 7. 5 but very girthy so It was a challenge. But I know it's still in very good shape because I couldn't do any real stretching. So as far as "inspecting her" to see if she was legitimate. I'm not sure what he thinks he was looking at as a Monger OBGYN. 😂.
Anyway this was in early February and I already would have seen her again if my schedule wasn't so ridiculous. Yes we are still in touch. And being that she has earned enough money to gain her independence I suspect there are some others being fleeced as well. I did give her another 2 totalling 3 because its all I had on me and I don't "have or trust" payment apps. And I typically never go over 250. But it was a good experience and I honestly did feel bad for her based on what she was telling me about her parents etcetera. And maybe I got suckered there, but I'm almost 100% sure if you wasn't lying about that. Only goes to show that you can be ridiculously over controlling as a parent, and they will still go out of their way to do things like this. I think it actually almost guarantees they will.
Either way I still hope to meet with her again but if I don't it will just be another one that got away like so many others. But I'll always be able to enjoy the pics and vids of the entire "date". As well as ones she sent to me. I have talked with several people here that have video setups of all different types. And if you guys don't have them with all the money you're spending on these girls. You're really doing it wrong. It's only a few hundred dollars to have "private" really good quality day or night time pictures and videos of all of your experiences.
Have fun!
NewAnonymousName
04-10-24, 16:54
First time on here in a little while. Bored and have a little time to kill so I thought I would do some light reading. I've been really busy with a rotation for a while. But I'm always on SDM, I gave up Seeking a long time ago because of all the scammers and ridiculous pricing. They've actually gone out of their way to make it easier for picture Sellers and scammers etc. And girls who don't ever plan to meet. If you have screenshot conversation of girls asking for that on SDM and report it. I've had them blocked\suspended\deleted within minutes.
Anyway long story short as I saw all of this and started laughing inside. I have pictures and videos and text to prove that I was here before this guy. He definitely got scammed a bit. It is true she does have ridiculously controlling parents and she had to sneak out of the house late at night to meet with me. We did the deed in the back of my suburban that I have set up very comfortably for situations like this. Yes she WAS a virgin. And she had actually been with one person before me according to her but they couldn't get the job done fully because she couldn't handle it. She's a cutter and has lots of marks all over her legs although she has stopped doing it according to her after therapy etc. She told me she wanted 1000 to give up the vCard. I opted for one tenth that price for a BJ and roaming and fingering etc. But I was able to convert it into the deed. All bare, and ridiculously slow going in the spoon position. It did take quite some time to get in, and even longer to get about 3\4 penetration for about 15 minutes before she wanted to tap out. I then told her to just give me 2 more minutes and got a little deeper "accidentally" with faster thrusts and the sounds she was making due to that made me pop almost immediately. Which I did inside and gave her a MAP and watched her take it on the drive back to drop her at her subdivision where she walked back home. I'm only 7. 5 but very girthy so It was a challenge. But I know it's still in very good shape because I couldn't do any real stretching. So as far as "inspecting her" to see if she was legitimate. I'm not sure what he thinks he was looking at as a Monger OBGYN. 😂.
Anyway this was in early February and I already would have seen her again if my schedule wasn't so ridiculous. Yes we are still in touch. And being that she has earned enough money to gain her independence I suspect there are some others being fleeced as well. I did give her another 2 totalling 3 because its all I had on me and I don't "have or trust" payment apps. And I typically never go over 250. But it was a good experience and I honestly did feel bad for her based on what she was telling me about her parents etcetera. And maybe I got suckered there, but I'm almost 100% sure if you wasn't lying about that. Only goes to show that you can be ridiculously over controlling as a parent, and they will still go out of their way to do things like this. I think it actually almost guarantees they will.
Either way I still hope to meet with her again but if I don't it will just be another one that got away like so many others. But I'll always be able to enjoy the pics and vids of the entire "date". As well as ones she sent to me. I have talked with several people here that have video setups of all different types. And if you guys don't have them with all the money you're spending on these girls. You're really doing it wrong. It's only a few hundred dollars to have "private" really good quality day or night time pictures and videos of all of your experiences.
Have fun!I would ignore this advice to secretly videotape sex. It is a felony in Georgia to secretly videotape another person in a private place. As far as I know, the courts haven't decided whether a car is private, but a home or hotel room is private. So a secret camera in either place is illegal and a huge risk.
Even if a car is eventually deemed OK (and it may not be), do you want your face in a mugshot and on the news as the creep who secretly recorded sex acts while trying to convince the authorities that a car wasn't private enough to be covered by the law? You may avoid jail, but youll spend a fortune on lawyers and lose your friends and family and your job.
Only audio recordings are legal with just your own consent to recording your conversation. Even then, it could be illegal if it's over the phone or Internet depending on the circumstances.
I would ignore this advice to secretly videotape sex. It is a felony in Georgia to secretly videotape another person in a private place. As far as I know, the courts haven't decided whether a car is private, but a home or hotel room is private. So a secret camera in either place is illegal and a huge risk. Even if a car is eventually deemed OK (and it may not be), do you want your face in a mugshot and on the news as the creep who secretly recorded sex acts while trying to convince the authorities that a car wasnt private enough to be covered by the law?
Only audio recordings are legal with just your own consent to recording your conversation. Even then, it could be illegal if it's over the phone or Internet depending on the circumstances.I'm not trying to argue or debate the subject. But I will say that as long as you have signs on your home saying "you are being recorded". You have nothing to worry about from a legal standpoint. That's why whenever you walk into any business they have to have those stickers on the door etc. It's not your fault if people don't read the warnings. That's how private place is cover themselves legally. And this does not only apply to businesses or non moving structures. But don't believe me, always do your own research.
FarFarAway
04-10-24, 17:09
Thanks for the reminder, just went and did my yearly STD test for all 9 of the biggies (HIV, Chlamydia, gonorrhea, HSV2 etc.)
If you want to get tested and make sure you are anonymous, here is what I did:
Go to https://www.tkqlhce.com/click-7796100-11648780 You can sign up under any name online, they send you paperwork under that name that you take to a local lab (labcorp) and on the paper work it tells the lab to not ask for ID. Lab send the results back to your account online for you to look at. I have done it a few times over the last few years and it is fast and easy and does not involve your doc or insurance at all. Totally private.Same w / the site STDcheck.com. It costs like $149 for a full STD panel.
SalvatoreIttup
04-10-24, 18:21
I would ignore this advice to secretly videotape sex. It is a felony in Georgia to secretly videotape another person in a private place. As far as I know, the courts haven't decided whether a car is private, but a home or hotel room is private. So a secret camera in either place is illegal and a huge risk.
Even if a car is eventually deemed OK (and it may not be), do you want your face in a mugshot and on the news as the creep who secretly recorded sex acts while trying to convince the authorities that a car wasn't private enough to be covered by the law? You may avoid jail, but youll spend a fortune on lawyers and lose your friends and family and your job.
Only audio recordings are legal with just your own consent to recording your conversation. Even then, it could be illegal if it's over the phone or Internet depending on the circumstances.I concur with this take, especially since most of these chicks have gladly let me get some take-home videos. Sometimes a stipulation is that I don't put their face on camera, which is fine, and sometimes they want to see every last second of what I recorded, which can be tedious, but it's still worth it! Would never do it without them knowing, though.
I'm not trying to argue or debate the subject. But I will say that as long as you have signs on your home saying "you are being recorded". You have nothing to worry about from a legal standpoint. That's why whenever you walk into any business they have to have those stickers on the door etc. It's not your fault if people don't read the warnings. That's how private place is cover themselves legally. And this does not only apply to businesses or non moving structures. But don't believe me, always do your own research.This is why it's best to keep certain things close to the vest.
Everybody on this site is some type of degenerate, but you never know what subject will trigger someone to get on their high horse.
Some are ok to break rule "1", but rule "2" is sacred.
FlyWhyteGuy007
04-11-24, 05:45
I have seen some very beautiful healthy looking women with HIV. I would ask about their testing, std history.
I think most people are honest but you need to trust your instinct. I will look to see for any needle marks or teeth issues.
Good hygiene usually tells me that odds are in my favor.
I won't do anything without a cover except a BJ.You do know Atl is #3 in new HIV cases in the country? #2 is Miami and #1 is Memphis.
This is why it's best to keep certain things close to the vest.
Everybody on this site is some type of degenerate, but you never know what subject will trigger someone to get on their high horse.
Some are ok to break rule "1", but rule "2" is sacred.And to be 100% clear. I never once said I did anything without anyone's permission. Someone else said that based on their assumptions. I made it clear that all of my videos were "private" and that there's decent equipment out there that can be used in all situations with ease. I do not share any of the content I have, even with every one of these girls that has given me permission to do it. Just like they don't want to be on the internet, either do I. It always blows my mind how many mongers are out there making videos and putting them on websites for you to view with them in it and their vehicles etc.
NewAnonymousName
04-11-24, 11:42
This is why it's best to keep certain things close to the vest.
Everybody on this site is some type of degenerate, but you never know what subject will trigger someone to get on their high horse.
Some are ok to break rule "1", but rule "2" is sacred.It's not intended to be a high horse and it's not sacred. I'm just letting the group know what the law is. We all take risks in this game. Everyone is free to decide how much risk they want to take. For example, PPM is illegal, and most are violating that one. An allowance could be over the line too depending on your communications about what you're paying for. So again, I was just letting the group know that secret videotaping in a private space is illegal in Georgia. I didn't think it's a well known law.
Everyone is free to decide whether to worry about the legality of secretly taping. Some like me won't do it at all -- It seems wrong to me regardless of whether it's legal. If others don't agree and think it's fine, then they can decide for themselves whether to take the risk. If the cameras aren't well hidden enough, a SB might see them and turn you in because she's pissed. If you post the pics or videos online, then you're taking more risk, obviously.
NewAnonymousName
04-11-24, 11:54
I'm not trying to argue or debate the subject. But I will say that as long as you have signs on your home saying "you are being recorded". You have nothing to worry about from a legal standpoint. That's why whenever you walk into any business they have to have those stickers on the door etc. It's not your fault if people don't read the warnings. That's how private place is cover themselves legally. And this does not only apply to businesses or non moving structures. But don't believe me, always do your own research.A business is privately owned but a public space. It's not the same expectation of privacy in Target, McDonald's, or a big office as in a private home. For example, no one expects to be able to strip naked in their cubicle or the produce aisle. Are signs in your home enough to make the private home space not private? If the signs are only at the front door, my guess is no. Reasonable people would assume they're being filmed out front, not inside. If the signs are prominently displayed in the bedroom or living room where the deed is going down, then maybe, maybe not. However, wouldn't that put a damper on the mood with most sugar babies? Maybe the hardened pros who use the site like backpage wouldn't care, but the soccer moms and divorcees probably would run for the hills after seeing prominent posters warning them of videotaping.
BumbaCloth
04-12-24, 08:52
Any info on her?
https://members.seeking.com/member/c739077a-2db3-430d-bfb5-35f8050ecba3
Any info on her?
https://members.seeking.com/member/c739077a-2db3-430d-bfb5-35f8050ecba3She is real but the pics might be 3-5 years old and is now BTW curvy-chubby side. Can host but couldn't enjoy much as she just want to lay down and you can do whatever you want. YMMV.
https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/6155e8c1-2f7e-4799-ba22-bb7752a442a1
She belongs on LC Escort Alligator, and the likes. Not Seeking. She is an escort, nothing more, nothing less.
Pics are accurate, I actually think looks better in person.
Overall nice demeanor. Wanted $400 for ppm, but immediately offered a special of $300. We agreed to $200 for 30 min! (escort!
She operates out of a Hilton in Buckhead. Didn't want to engage even in minimal conversation, like "What's your name?
Instead she asked, "Are you ready?" W / phone in hand, and timer set to 28 min. .
I bailed. No monies had yet changed hands. Who needs that. ?
Here is the correct member link, https://members.seeking.com/member/d560d191-5a1a-4b92-a912-542c9af647d0.
https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/6155e8c1-2f7e-4799-ba22-bb7752a442a1
2me4Looking2
04-15-24, 16:39
Anyone have any experience with this one? She has been around for a bit, but I didn't find any mention of her on the board under her username.
https://members.seeking.com/member/f1e85f7e-7c8a-4490-852d-6a52d299c2b0
A business is privately owned but a public space. It's not the same expectation of privacy in Target, McDonald's, or a big office as in a private home. For example, no one expects to be able to strip naked in their cubicle or the produce aisle. Are signs in your home enough to make the private home space not private? If the signs are only at the front door, my guess is no. Reasonable people would assume they're being filmed out front, not inside. If the signs are prominently displayed in the bedroom or living room where the deed is going down, then maybe, maybe not. However, wouldn't that put a damper on the mood with most sugar babies? Maybe the hardened pros who use the site like backpage wouldn't care, but the soccer moms and divorcees probably would run for the hills after seeing prominent posters warning them of videotaping.Unfortunately you might think that's how it works. But it's not. Just like the sign I have in front of my house saying beware of dog. Removing me of accountability if Amazon driver decides to be an idiot and gets bitten. Having signs outside my home and stickers on my front door and rear doors inside doors saying that this home is being monitored my full circuit security systems covers me inside and outside my home. It's exact same reason I can have a nanny cam and not tell someone as well. Otherwise Nanny cams would be no good and would just get thrown out of court. Hire someone to watch your kid and they beat the shit out of them while your teddy bear with a camera built in watches it happen. Take it and give it to the police and then they would throw it out under the logic that most people think the law should be. But again, do your own research and find out the facts. You'd be surprised how many people think you have to have permission to film them in public or from a public place. And the same amount of people think you're not allowed to have cameras in your house recording them without their permission. It's just not true. When you're inside someone else's domicile all bets are off. Private business or private home. More people have cameras inside their homes than you think.
NewAnonymousName
04-15-24, 23:42
Unfortunately you might think that's how it works. But it's not. Just like the sign I have in front of my house saying beware of dog. Removing me of accountability if Amazon driver decides to be an idiot and gets bitten. Having signs outside my home and stickers on my front door and rear doors inside doors saying that this home is being monitored my full circuit security systems covers me inside and outside my home. It's exact same reason I can have a nanny cam and not tell someone as well. Otherwise Nanny cams would be no good and would just get thrown out of court. Hire someone to watch your kid and they beat the shit out of them while your teddy bear with a camera built in watches it happen. Take it and give it to the police and then they would throw it out under the logic that most people think the law should be. But again, do your own research and find out the facts. You'd be surprised how many people think you have to have permission to film them in public or from a public place. And the same amount of people think you're not allowed to have cameras in your house recording them without their permission. It's just not true. When you're inside someone else's domicile all bets are off. Private business or private home. More people have cameras inside their homes than you think.The actual Georgia statute (quoted in pertinent part below) says you're wrong. As I posted, if it's in an area of a "private place and out of public view," it is illegal to record unless the recording is for security purposes, crime prevention, or crime detection. Your sex recordings are not for any such purpose. Even if they were, they would still be illegal in an area where someone has a reasonable expectation of privacy. You apparently believe your signs are enough to provide implied consent or make it unreasonable for a visitor to expect privacy anywhere in your home, even in the bedroom while having sex or the bathroom. I disagree. I am confident that you will lose the criminal case if your hidden cameras are discovered by a girlfriend or sugar baby.
GA Code 16-11-62 (2020).
It shall be unlawful for:
(1) Any person in a clandestine manner intentionally to overhear, transmit, or record or attempt to overhear, transmit, or record the private conversation of another which shall originate in any private place;.
(2) Any person, through the use of any device, without the consent of all persons observed, to observe, photograph, or record the activities of another which occur in any private place and out of public view; provided, however, that it shall not be unlawful:
(A) To use any device to observe, photograph, or record the activities of persons incarcerated in any jail, correctional institution, or other facility in which persons who are charged with or who have been convicted of the commission of a crime are incarcerated, provided that such equipment shall not be used while the prisoner is discussing his or her case with his or her attorney;.
(B) For an owner or occupier of real property to use for security purposes, crime prevention, or crime detection any device to observe, photograph, or record the activities of persons who are on the property or an approach thereto in areas where there is no reasonable expectation of privacy;.
(C) To use for security purposes, crime prevention, or crime detection any device to observe, photograph, or record the activities of persons who are within the curtilage of the residence of the person using such device. A photograph, videotape, or record made in accordance with this subparagraph, or a copy thereof, may be disclosed by such resident to the district attorney or a law enforcement officer and shall be admissible in a judicial proceeding, without the consent of any person observed, photographed, or recorded; or.
(D) For a law enforcement officer or his or her agent to use a device in the lawful performance of his or her official duties to observe, photograph, videotape, or record the activities of persons that occur in the presence of such officer or his or her agent;.
The actual Georgia statute (quoted in pertinent part below) says you're wrong. As I posted, if it's in an area of a "private place and out of public view," it is illegal to record unless the recording is for security purposes, crime prevention, or crime detection. Your sex recordings are not for any such purpose. Even if they were, they would still be illegal in an area where someone has a reasonable expectation of privacy. You apparently believe your signs are enough to provide implied consent or make it unreasonable for a visitor to expect privacy anywhere in your home, even in the bedroom while having sex or the bathroom. I disagree. I am confident that you will lose the criminal case if your hidden cameras are discovered by a girlfriend or sugar baby.
GA Code 16-11-62 (2020).
It shall be unlawful for:
(1) Any person in a clandestine manner intentionally to overhear, transmit, or record or attempt to overhear, transmit, or record the private conversation of another which shall originate in any private place;.
(2) Any person, through the use of any device, without the consent of all persons observed, to observe, photograph, or record the activities of another which occur in any private place and out of public view; provided, however, that it shall not be unlawful:
(A) To use any device to observe, photograph, or record the activities of persons incarcerated in any jail, correctional institution, or other facility in which persons who are charged with or who have been convicted of the commission of a crime are incarcerated, provided that such equipment shall not be used while the prisoner is discussing his or her case with his or her attorney;.
(B) For an owner or occupier of real property to use for security purposes, crime prevention, or crime detection any device to observe, photograph, or record the activities of persons who are on the property or an approach thereto in areas where there is no reasonable expectation of privacy;.
(C) To use for security purposes, crime prevention, or crime detection any device to observe, photograph, or record the activities of persons who are within the curtilage of the residence of the person using such device. A photograph, videotape, or record made in accordance with this subparagraph, or a copy thereof, may be disclosed by such resident to the district attorney or a law enforcement officer and shall be admissible in a judicial proceeding, without the consent of any person observed, photographed, or recorded; or.
(D) For a law enforcement officer or his or her agent to use a device in the lawful performance of his or her official duties to observe, photograph, videotape, or record the activities of persons that occur in the presence of such officer or his or her agent;.You actually made my point for me. It's lawful to do it for "security purposes". This is why it says it can be given to the district attorney or law enforcement if you needed to do so. Like with a nanny cam. So what if I'm paranoid and in have cameras everywhere in my home. That's perfectly legal. There was a story on this site I read about a guy who had a girl ubered over to his house. Turns out she had some thugs follow her in the uber. While he wasn't looking she unlocked the doors and just when we were about to get busy but thugs came inside, tied him up, and spent several hours robbing the entire house. Then left him there for 2 days until his family came home and found him tied to the chair. And if he had cameras in his home, it would have been perfectly legal for him to not only have them. But give them to the district attorney or the police so they can use them to try to catch and prosecute the criminals. And that those cameras inside his home happen to catch any other things going on, well it wouldn't matter because they were there for security purposes. The burden would lie on the state to try to prove that your cameras were not there for security purposes. And good luck doing that if you have terabytes of hard drive filled with security surveillance and everything else that happens in your home.
NewAnonymousName
04-16-24, 07:36
You actually made my point for me. It's lawful to do it for "security purposes". This is why it says it can be given to the district attorney or law enforcement if you needed to do so. Like with a nanny cam. So what if I'm paranoid and in have cameras everywhere in my home. That's perfectly legal. There was a story on this site I read about a guy who had a girl ubered over to his house. Turns out she had some thugs follow her in the uber. While he wasn't looking she unlocked the doors and just when we were about to get busy but thugs came inside, tied him up, and spent several hours robbing the entire house. Then left him there for 2 days until his family came home and found him tied to the chair. And if he had cameras in his home, it would have been perfectly legal for him to not only have them. But give them to the district attorney or the police so they can use them to try to catch and prosecute the criminals. And that those cameras inside his home happen to catch any other things going on, well it wouldn't matter because they were there for security purposes. The burden would lie on the state to try to prove that your cameras were not there for security purposes. And good luck doing that if you have terabytes of hard drive filled with security surveillance and everything else that happens in your home.Good luck arguing that a camera aimed at a bed or in a bathroom is for security purposes as opposed to ones aimed at the doors, windows and hallways. Don't forget that IT experts will tear through your devices to prove that you were using the feed to view clips for voyeuristic purposes. Also, even if you somehow win that argument, you still have no right under the statute to record someone, even for security purposes, where they have a reasonable expectation of privacy unless you have their consent. You'll need even better luck trying to argue that there is no reasonable expectation of privacy in a bedroom or bathroom and that signs at the entryways are somehow implied consent for the bedrooms and bathrooms. Finally, even if you somehow get acquitted, you would be publicly shamed.
This is my last post on the topic. It's illegal and it's a risk. Everyone else on the boards has gotten enough (probably more than enough, LOL) information to decide for themselves whether they agree with your misguided interpretation of the statute. And of course, as was said from the outset, lots of things are illegal (speeding, prostitution, etc.) that people regularly decide to do anyway. Everyone can evaluate whether to take that risk for themselves. I'm not telling them what to do, just laying out the legal background. Personally, I'm not risking a girlfriend or sugar baby discovering hidden cameras in my home.
Good luck arguing that a camera aimed at a bed or in a bathroom is for security purposes as opposed to ones aimed at the doors, windows and hallways. Don't forget that IT experts will tear through your devices to prove that you were using the feed to view clips for voyeuristic purposes. Also, even if you somehow win that argument, you still have no right under the statute to record someone, even for security purposes, where they have a reasonable expectation of privacy unless you have their consent. You'll need even better luck trying to argue that there is no reasonable expectation of privacy in a bedroom or bathroom and that signs at the entryways are somehow implied consent for the bedrooms and bathrooms. Finally, even if you somehow get acquitted, you would be publicly shamed.
This is my last post on the topic. It's illegal and it's a risk. Everyone else on the boards has gotten enough (probably more than enough, LOL) information to decide for themselves whether they agree with your misguided interpretation of the statute. And of course, as was said from the outset, lots of things are illegal (speeding, prostitution, etc.) that people regularly decide to do anyway. Everyone can evaluate whether to take that risk for themselves. I'm not telling them what to do, just laying out the legal background. Personally, I'm not risking a girlfriend or sugar baby discovering hidden cameras in my home.You win. Nobody ever has security cameras aimed everywhere in their homes. There you go. Better? Ok good. Moving on.
NewAnonymousName
04-16-24, 23:19
You win. Nobody ever has security cameras aimed everywhere in their homes. There you go. Better? Ok good. Moving on.I didn't say nobody does it. I said it's illegal because it is. But so is almost all of the "mongering" and SD / SB (at least PPM) being discussed on the boards. It's all good. I don't mean it as criticism of you. Each of us makes choices in this game that aren't necessarily the same choices everyone else would make.
NewAnonymousName
04-17-24, 09:08
Soundshennington's profile says Dallas, TX, but she said she recently moved to Atlanta. She reached out to me first and I asked her what she's looking for. She answered with a series of snotty messages about how I should have read her profile and she didn't spend her valuable time writing it to have her time wasted. Even when I wrote that I was just trying to make conversation she persisted with her onslaught. I wished her good luck in her search (because telling her that she's a beotch that I wouldn't see in a million years could get me reported) and she blocked me. YMMV, but I can't imagine trying to navigate an arrangement with an entitled, short tempered pain in the ass.
Christian Troy
04-17-24, 10:34
I connected with these two Latinas on non-sugar dating apps and have sugar dates lined up. They both claim they've done this before but I've never seen them on any sugar sites (I did find their socials though). Anyone have any experience? I'll report back next week.
Member #6704
04-17-24, 12:15
https://members.seeking.com/member/c6074481-6764-4479-bb5f-25d64aae3186
Don't bother.
TylerDurden07
04-17-24, 15:52
Soundshennington's profile says Dallas, TX, but she said she recently moved to Atlanta. She reached out to me first and I asked her what she's looking for. She answered with a series of snotty messages about how I should have read her profile and she didn't spend her valuable time writing it to have her time wasted. Even when I wrote that I was just trying to make conversation she persisted with her onslaught. I wished her good luck in her search (because telling her that she's a beotch that I wouldn't see in a million years could get me reported) and she blocked me. YMMV, but I can't imagine trying to navigate an arrangement with an entitled, short tempered pain in the ass.I see those types occasionally. But I usually respond with a lot of attitude, & with a ton of sarcasm ("oh wow! You seem so nice!" right back at them. Don't take guff off these girls. You can respond in a way that won't get you banned. Just avoid profanity, ya know.
She used to reside in Atlanta. Then moved to LA, now back to Atlanta, via Dallas, for vacation.
She contacted me also as we have had some prior business. Her recent msg, which really highlights her devolving 'tude: "You also know the power lies with the woman. That's why it's free for me to join, but you have to pay. I will never have to pay for s*x, but you do. "
Just for the record. Before she moved to LA, still residing in Atlanta. Met her 3 x for $200 ppm at her place. All bare, BBBJ and CIP. Was enjoyable as she is not unattractive or unskilled. But next she decided that CIP is off the table, so I called it quits.
Soundshennington's profile says Dallas, TX, but she said she recently moved to Atlanta. She reached out to me first and I asked her what she's looking for. She answered with a series of snotty messages about how I should have read her profile and she didn't spend her valuable time writing it to have her time wasted. Even when I wrote that I was just trying to make conversation she persisted with her onslaught. I wished her good luck in her search (because telling her that she's a beotch that I wouldn't see in a million years could get me reported) and she blocked me. YMMV, but I can't imagine trying to navigate an arrangement with an entitled, short tempered pain in the ass.
https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/f5a8fde7-5720-4a3f-bc1f-82364304bdb3
Wants a $200 advance for her pups sake so she can have them watched.
TylerDurden07
04-18-24, 15:29
She used to reside in Atlanta. Then moved to LA, now back to Atlanta, via Dallas, for vacation.
She contacted me also as we have had some prior business. Her recent msg, which really highlights her devolving 'tude: "You also know the power lies with the woman. That's why it's free for me to join, but you have to pay. I will never have to pay for s*x, but you do. "
Just for the record. Before she moved to LA, still residing in Atlanta. Met her 3 x for $200 ppm at her place. All bare, BBBJ and CIP. Was enjoyable as she is not unattractive or unskilled. But next she decided that CIP is off the table, so I called it quits.LOL. "I will never have to pay for sex, but you do. " Like Bane said in The Dark Knight Rises: "And you think this gives you power over me? Does this girl need reminding that there are a LOT of girls on that site, & other sites, who will gladly take our money?
In the end. Every girl has a pussy. There is no lack of competition.
LOL. "I will never have to pay for sex, but you do. " Like Bane said in The Dark Knight Rises: "And you think this gives you power over me? Does this girl need reminding that there are a LOT of girls on that site, & other sites, who will gladly take our money?
Member #6704
04-21-24, 12:24
https://members.seeking.com/member/838f6e4a-a8f6-4750-a53d-6b86ca7f3f28
LThomas777
04-22-24, 10:31
https://members.seeking.com/member/838f6e4a-a8f6-4750-a53d-6b86ca7f3f28I sent you a PM.
TylerDurden07
04-22-24, 15:15
I've had enough with Seeking, it just sucks now. The best alternative I've heard about is SDM. Is anyone here using it? If so, what's the lowdown on it? Do you like it?
Any info on her?
https://members.seeking.com/member/c739077a-2db3-430d-bfb5-35f8050ecba3Had a session. She was quick to reply (pm'd me after visiting her profile) and gave out her phone number. It was a negative experience. She had a really bad breath and wasn't really into it. Felt worse after. Will not repeat.
I've had enough with Seeking, it just sucks now. The best alternative I've heard about is SDM. Is anyone here using it? If so, what's the lowdown on it? Do you like it?The UI is probably only 60% of what seeking is. Also not too many members on there. On seeking you could virtually keep scrolling forever. On SDM it's a much shorter list. I have much better luck on seeking.
TallGuy3000
04-22-24, 23:22
Anyone have any info?
https://members.seeking.com/member/fc988d99-de87-4794-8771-5afc50d2f7c0
TylerDurden07
04-23-24, 11:58
https://members.seeking.com/member/ac836636-f726-4c90-b20e-985942db4cc7
Anyone have any experience with her? I like her look, & we exchanged a LOT of messages on the site, much more so than I usually prefer doing. She seems real, & is very flirtatious in her talk.
But. She just won't go to text. Like, she'll talk your head off on the site, but for reasons she won't give, won't take the next step.
Anybody dealt with her, & know why this is?
KingFish34
04-23-24, 19:48
So, debating about biting the bullet and trying one of these sites. I feel it would be fun to be with a non professional maybe get to know someone better, etc. Anyway, reading through some of the posts, is it even worth it? I mean lots of negativity coming up about the sites. Note, I would be using a pre paid CC so is that an issue with any of the sites? Anyway, trying to gauge how successful this venture would be. Also, is it a cheaper or more expensive prospect than just going with a pro?
Thanks for the info.
Of course, Seeking contacts are all over the place for ppm. $200 to $1,000 ppm. And more!
They have no clue, those girls just signed up and have absolutely no idea how much their pussy is worth. Other than it is made out of gold.
And what they read about it on reddit.
This is how it works for me. I can get 8-10 pussy in East Africa, for $25/ day / 24 hrs. Easy.
DR, $40/ day /24 hrs.
Looking closer at home. Atlanta. 1 hr, w / an Asian provider. She provides place, and 10+ service. $330.
I don't have to provide hotel, saves me time, money, and stress in doing so. We also don't need to have a M&G.
Subtracting $100, for hotel / accommodation. $200, for me, is the max ppm. Simple as that.
This thread has devolved into scam reports. I think there are two reasons: (1) there are fewer A+ girls throwing it around for reasonable rates, and (2) guys are keeping their girls to themselves because of (1).
You never know until you try it it's for you. There's a lot of frustration with scammers and time wasters. You have to keep your head on straight and be patient. Don't treat it like browsing tryst or LC for that quick fix, you'll be disappointed. These girls are almost never ready on a moment's notice. (There have been a couple of notable exceptions to that.) You need to think about logistics, time, hotel rooms, etc. Most of these girls want at least a little connection / attraction.
Be prepared to spend a little time and money, show a little class, and you'll be one deep in some first class pussy. Heck, you might even like the girl too!
So, debating about biting the bullet and trying one of these sites. I feel it would be fun to be with a non professional maybe get to know someone better, etc. Anyway, reading through some of the posts, is it even worth it? I mean lots of negativity coming up about the sites. Note, I would be using a pre paid CC so is that an issue with any of the sites? Anyway, trying to gauge how successful this venture would be. Also, is it a cheaper or more expensive prospect than just going with a pro?
Thanks for the info.
So, debating about biting the bullet and trying one of these sites. I feel it would be fun to be with a non professional maybe get to know someone better, etc. Anyway, reading through some of the posts, is it even worth it? I mean lots of negativity coming up about the sites. Note, I would be using a pre paid CC so is that an issue with any of the sites? Anyway, trying to gauge how successful this venture would be. Also, is it a cheaper or more expensive prospect than just going with a pro?That really depends on how you value your time. It is absolutely guaranteed to be cheaper and easier to find a pro if you factor in the time and hassle involved. So it really comes down to what you're looking for.
Seeking has a little bit of something for everyone. You can find anything from escorts that charge you by the hour to girls who are looking for a successful older lover who will wine and dine them. I've been very fortunate to find some great women on the site over the years. I go for the girlfriend types who aren't looking for an allowance. My current girl has been with me over two years, she's a total knockout 25 years to my junior. Very well-to-do and cultured; definitely the type of girl who's equally comfortable at a tennis club in the Hamptons or in the finest restaurants in New York. She's at a stage in her life where she's focused on her career, doesn't care at all about finding a guy her age or starting a family, and honestly takes a lot of pride in being my trophy girlfriend / mistress. She's happily exclusive to me and enthusiastically gives me more pussy than I know what to do with. I've never paid her a dime (but I do take great care of her when we're together and cover all expenses, of course). I know that's not everyone's cup of tea but the point is, those girls are out there if that's what you're looking for.
If you're just looking to get your dick wet with minimal hassle, those girls are on Seeking as well. You'll just have to invest the time to message a lot of women and go back and forth with the hits you get until you find someone that is looking for the same type of situation you are. There are plenty of those girls on the site, so I'd encourage you to give it a try. Just read as much as you can before you get started so you know what to expect going in.
One thing I've noticed about Seeking lately is that it's completely overrun by scammers now. I still log in regularly to admire the new talent and would venture an educated guess that at least half the new accounts I see are fake. This is a small sample, but to underscore the point I just checked and 6 of the newest 10 accounts on my saved search were not real. You're probably familiar with the stories about organized crime syndicates in Asia kidnapping job seekers and forcing them into a confidence scam operations. Seeking is ground zero for that type of thing since all of the men are there to spend money on women. It's easy to spot the fake profiles once you know what you're looking for, but still, I'm glad I'm not having to deal with any of that because it's just such a pain in the ass to sort through all the scammer BS.
Good luck if you do decide to try it, report back and let us know how you did.
KingFish34
04-24-24, 21:37
That really depends on how you value your time. It is absolutely guaranteed to be cheaper and easier to find a pro if you factor in the time and hassle involved. So it really comes down to what you're looking for.
Seeking has a little bit of something for everyone. You can find anything from escorts that charge you by the hour to girls who are looking for a successful older lover who will wine and dine them. I've been very fortunate to find some great women on the site over the years. I go for the girlfriend types who aren't looking for an allowance. My current girl has been with me over two years, she's a total knockout 25 years to my junior. Very well-to-do and cultured; definitely the type of girl who's equally comfortable at a tennis club in the Hamptons or in the finest restaurants in New York. She's at a stage in her life where she's focused on her career, doesn't care at all about finding a guy her age or starting a family, and honestly takes a lot of pride in being my trophy girlfriend / mistress. She's happily exclusive to me and enthusiastically gives me more pussy than I know what to do with. I've never paid her a dime (but I do take great care of her when we're together and cover all expenses, of course). I know that's not everyone's cup of tea but the point is, those girls are out there if that's what you're looking for.
If you're just looking to get your dick wet with minimal hassle, those girls are on Seeking as well. You'll just have to invest the time to message a lot of women and go back and forth with the hits you get until you find someone that is looking for the same type of situation you are. There are plenty of those girls on the site, so I'd encourage you to give it a try. Just read as much as you can before you get started so you know what to expect going in.Thanks a bunch for your detailed answer. On the scammer front I got hit up just recently someone demanding money or they would come after my family. Sounds like clearly a scam, but that kind of shit is not fun to deal with and does make me nervous. I will say that I have a second text number now which should help with that. Do you give your real name on these sites or when you meet the woman? I have a personal life that I want to keep separated, and on that note, wondering if maybe seeking is a bad idea. I want to remain discreet, regardless of what I do.
ZeppDawg33
04-24-24, 23:50
https://members.seeking.com/member/ac836636-f726-4c90-b20e-985942db4cc7
Anyone have any experience with her? I like her look, & we exchanged a LOT of messages on the site, much more so than I usually prefer doing. She seems real, & is very flirtatious in her talk.
But. She just won't go to text. Like, she'll talk your head off on the site, but for reasons she won't give, won't take the next step.
Anybody dealt with her, & know why this is?She isn't the person in the pics.
SeekingHead
04-25-24, 12:35
Thanks a bunch for your detailed answer. On the scammer front I got hit up just recently someone demanding money or they would come after my family. Sounds like clearly a scam, but that kind of shit is not fun to deal with and does make me nervous. I will say that I have a second text number now which should help with that. Do you give your real name on these sites or when you meet the woman? I have a personal life that I want to keep separated, and on that note, wondering if maybe seeking is a bad idea. I want to remain discreet, regardless of what I do.My advice set your profile to private with no photo, have a few photos of you which have never been on the internet as your private photos. Burner # & text app.
Only message women you are interested in, do a meet & greet over lunch or drinks to weed out the fakes.
FarFarAway
04-25-24, 15:16
Thanks a bunch for your detailed answer. On the scammer front I got hit up just recently someone demanding money or they would come after my family. Sounds like clearly a scam, but that kind of shit is not fun to deal with and does make me nervous. I will say that I have a second text number now which should help with that. Do you give your real name on these sites or when you meet the woman? I have a personal life that I want to keep separated, and on that note, wondering if maybe seeking is a bad idea. I want to remain discreet, regardless of what I do.You need to read the thread and the archives on the Richmond, VA page on sugaring. Spend a week doing that. Then you will know.
I have a lot to lose like you, and I have been safely on seeking for many years now.
There is also an OpSec thread on the Northern Virginia page.
Airmantroy
04-25-24, 15:32
Thanks a bunch for your detailed answer. On the scammer front I got hit up just recently someone demanding money or they would come after my family. Sounds like clearly a scam, but that kind of shit is not fun to deal with and does make me nervous. I will say that I have a second text number now which should help with that. Do you give your real name on these sites or when you meet the woman? I have a personal life that I want to keep separated, and on that note, wondering if maybe seeking is a bad idea. I want to remain discreet, regardless of what I do.I recently got "threatened" by a scammer myself. I told her in no uncertain terms that it would be a very painful mistake to attempt any type of extortion and that her best course of action would be to shove it up her ass. She got all up in her feelings after I had to cancel a meet, (after she'd ghosted me once previously), I had came down with a cold and didn't feel like doing crap.
Had another one pull the"had a detective call me about sexting with a minor that had attempted suicide" I politely told said detective if he was serious about speaking with me, I wasn't very hard to find. Good Luck. I never sent her any pics and the only communication between us was Hello my name is "FAKE NAME" from me followed by her sending 2 nudes and asking when we could meet.
I have found that the easiest way to avoid BS is stay over 21 yrs old, and any profile that has the True Love tag in what they are seeking is guranteed to be a scammer. Pics that are TGTBT are almost always a dead giveaway if combined with the True Love tag. 95% or more of the Asian chicks are fake, for whatever reason. Names like IntelligentIngenuine, GratifiedHotness, or stupid shit like that are always scammers. I'm still working on picking out the content sellers by their profiles, but those are more difficult. They want to give the illusion of availability, but never available.
TylerDurden07
04-25-24, 15:41
I recently got "threatened" by a scammer myself. I told her in no uncertain terms that it would be a very painful mistake to attempt any type of extortion and that her best course of action would be to shove it up her ass. She got all up in her feelings after I had to cancel a meet, (after she'd ghosted me once previously), I had came down with a cold and didn't feel like doing crap.
Had another one pull the"had a detective call me about sexting with a minor that had attempted suicide" I politely told said detective if he was serious about speaking with me, I wasn't very hard to find. Good Luck. I never sent her any pics and the only communication between us was Hello my name is "FAKE NAME" from me followed by her sending 2 nudes and asking when we could meet.
I have found that the easiest way to avoid BS is stay over 21 yrs old, and any profile that has the True Love tag in what they are seeking is guranteed to be a scammer. Pics that are TGTBT are almost always a dead giveaway if combined with the True Love tag. 95% or more of the Asian chicks are fake, for whatever reason. Names like IntelligentIngenuine, GratifiedHotness, or stupid shit like that are always scammers. I'm still working on picking out the content sellers by their profiles, but those are more difficult. They want to give the illusion of availability, but never available.If they choose to actually threaten you, never give an inch & tell them to go f- themselves. And if you can do a little social media digging yourself, find some dirt on "her. " The best defense is always a good offense.
TacoSauce3
04-26-24, 06:10
If they choose to actually threaten you, never give an inch & tell them to go f- themselves. And if you can do a little social media digging yourself, find some dirt on "her. " The best defense is always a good offense.I've been wondering if another sign of scammers is usernames that contain an actual woman's name. Any thoughts on this? I had two recent situations where the person asked for money upfront for various reasons, and both had real names in the profile (ex. Mary123). Looking back, including my current SB, I've always had luck with girls with fake names (ex. Peaches or baby something). Just thinking a real person would want to stay mostly anonymous.
NewAnonymousName
04-26-24, 11:58
I've been wondering if another sign of scammers is usernames that contain an actual woman's name. Any thoughts on this? I had two recent situations where the person asked for money upfront for various reasons, and both had real names in the profile (ex. Mary123). Looking back, including my current SB, I've always had luck with girls with fake names (ex. Peaches or baby something). Just thinking a real person would want to stay mostly anonymous.I haven't noticed any pattern or trend with user names and scammers. Seeking generates automatic name suggestions. I've had both scammers and good luck with names that are typical of their algorithm (usually two word combos like TemptingSiren or AstuteDiva, etc.). I've also had good and bad luck with user names that were more obviously individually selected, including those with an actual woman's name incorporated into it.
Pictures are a better barometer. You can tell that some are in Europe (a dead giveaway unless it's a college girl or a milf -- 20s to 30s year old waitresses rarely are able to go to Europe and get perfect photos for Seeking). You can tell from the style of palm trees that some pictures are in California, another sign of a potential scammer. Some are too perfect like they're professional photos, which is a another red flag. And oddly enough, early to mid-30s Asian women without a clear face picture are almost always scammers. I'm not sure why.
Even then, I'll message with almost anyone. The scammers become pretty obvious pretty quickly in most message exchanges.
I haven't noticed any pattern or trend with user names and scammers. Seeking generates automatic name suggestions. I've had both scammers and good luck with names that are typical of their algorithm (usually two word combos like TemptingSiren or AstuteDiva, etc.). I've also had good and bad luck with user names that were more obviously individually selected, including those with an actual woman's name incorporated into it.
Pictures are a better barometer. You can tell that some are in Europe (a dead giveaway unless it's a college girl or a milf -- 20s to 30s year old waitresses rarely are able to go to Europe and get perfect photos for Seeking). You can tell from the style of palm trees that some pictures are in California, another sign of a potential scammer. Some are too perfect like they're professional photos, which is a another red flag. And oddly enough, early to mid-30s Asian women without a clear face picture are almost always scammers. I'm not sure why.
Also starting to see AI generated images as well, oddly enough mostly seems to be Asian females as well.
FarFarAway
04-26-24, 16:16
If they choose to actually threaten you, never give an inch & tell them to go f- themselves. And if you can do a little social media digging yourself, find some dirt on "her. " The best defense is always a good offense.I honestly don't believe it ever pays to be an asshole to someone on the seeking site or elsewhere on websites where we are playing about. Just move on. The momentary exhilaration of flaming isn't worth it, in case someone really takes issue w / the site mods.
However, I have posted my approach to shakedown attempts. Short version. Tell them that what you are doing might not be nice but it isn't illegal. However extortion is a federal felony, and their messages provide all the evidence LE would require to track them down (w / resources you don't have to do so). They usually stop at that point.
oddly enough, early to mid-30s Asian women without a clear face picture are almost always scammers. I'm not sure why.
The organized crime outfits that run these scams in high volumes are based in Asia and they staff their operations with Asians lured by the promise of well paying jobs. They have women there held against their will who are forced to take photos when the target victim requests sexy pics. Think about that for a second. A single woman can supply personalized pics for any number of scam operators. So it makes sense if you think the girl you're talking to is Asian, you get special photos made just for you from your new Asian friend, it's easy to see how guys fall for this.
GreekLurker212
04-27-24, 20:13
I'm new to the sugar baby game, what exactly are "arrangements"? Like in my mind I'm thinking its SW but I could be wrong. I've been on seeking and alot of the girls have been talking about arrangements do they mean like money? Or is it a mutually beneficial type of thing somebody help me out.
SeekingHead
04-27-24, 21:00
I'm new to the sugar baby game, what exactly are "arrangements"? Like in my mind I'm thinking its SW but I could be wrong. I've been on seeking and alot of the girls have been talking about arrangements do they mean like money? Or is it a mutually beneficial type of thing somebody help me out.No they mean money. PPM is pay per meet, most common & what I do. Going rate is $300-400.
GoneForGood97
04-27-24, 23:22
I'm new to the sugar baby game, what exactly are "arrangements"? Like in my mind I'm thinking its SW but I could be wrong. I've been on seeking and alot of the girls have been talking about arrangements do they mean like money? Or is it a mutually beneficial type of thing somebody help me out.The "arrangement" is whatever 2 consenting adults want it to be. For most people, that's dates plus sex for cash. For some, it's just straight up sex for cash. However, there are some girls and guys that use gifts / trips / fancy dinners instead of pure cash. The arrangement might be "I take you to 5 star restaurants and a shopping trip and we hook up afterwards. ".
I've had a few that just wanted to be "spoiled" occasionally in exchange for hooking up. About a year or so back I had a early 30's cutie who just wanted a mani / pedi / massage spa day once a month. If I paid for that for her once a month, she'd fuck my brains out every week. It was a pretty sweet deal, but not very common. I had one late last year that agreed to hook up with me if I would sub to her OnlyF*ns afterwards (I would never agree to beforehand). We met at a hotel, we fucked twice, I subbed to her OF right there on the spot for $15. Canceled it a couple of weeks later after she ghosted, but not before downloading all her material.
Most of my cash arrangements are 200 per intimate date, plus I pay for hotel, or if they can host, I'll do 300 for them per intimate date. If we meet for coffee or dinner I'll cover the tab as well.
When I first talk to a potential sugar baby (or POT) I get to know them first, standard online dating questions. Once we've been talking a few hours, or even a day or 2, I'll normally ask them if they want to talk about the "arrangement." I ask them what they are looking for, and try to get them to be the first to mention money, though some will play coy. If they do, I'll generally ask them if they prefer a cash allowance, gifts, or something else. Once they finally tell me what they are looking for, then I'll ask if they are willing to talk through the intimate details so we can make sure we have chemistry before figuring the specifics of the arrangement. At that point I point blank ask them what they enjoy sexually, and have a pretty detailed talk about what turns them on. If this goes well then our conversation will actually turn them on. If they're turned on enough, I can usually get nudes / vids at this point for free. Another bonus of turning them on is they actually will WANT to meet you, and are willing to see you for less than normal (since if theoretically if you turned them on here you could have just as easily turned them on through a standard dating site and they would've fucked you for free anyways). Once I feel like they really like me, I ask them specifically what they are looking for allowance/gift wise, and then negotiate from there.
It's not a 100% success rate but you can comb through my post history under this thread to see specific examples. When my SA sub is active, I can normally bag 4-5 different girls, usually in their early 20s - early 30s, maybe the occasional 19 year old, and never pay more than 300 per date. You have to be willing to pass on girls who have GPS (gold pussy syndrome), the girls who are wannabe instagram models or influencers who think a billionaire should pay them thousands a week. When someone is unreasonable or not willing to move come down to a reasonable arrangement, I tell them we're not a good fit and move on. Remember, there's a LOT more "average income" guys on the site than there are multi-millionaires, and as long as you're willing to say "no" to some very pretty girls, you'll find some real pretty ones that'll take great care of you, are grateful for the help you give them, and won't break the bank.
My most recent lasted three years, single mom who said if she was going to have sex with a guy she might as well get paid for it! After a "get-to-know-you" weekend at a boutique hotel on the coast (her suggestion after a few days of texting), I paid her rent, she gave me a key to the apartment and I spent 2-3 day weekends there every week. Fantastic sex. Definitely a unicorn. But definitely the exception.
Best advice is to ease into it until you figure out what your budget and schedule will accommodate. And NEVER hand over cash until the intimate date. I prefer at least a few days of casual texting, m / g over coffee or drinks, or late lunch at a sit-down restaurant when the crowd has gone back to work and you can have a semi-private conversation. PPM for each intimate "meeting" until you're satisfied she's not going to bolt when you giver her the first monthly allowance.
The "arrangement" is whatever 2 consenting adults want it to be. For most people, that's dates plus sex for cash. For some, it's just straight up sex for cash. However, there are some girls and guys that use gifts / trips / fancy dinners instead of pure cash. The arrangement might be "I take you to 5 star restaurants and a shopping trip and we hook up afterwards. ".
I've had a few that just wanted to be "spoiled" occasionally in exchange for hooking up. About a year or so back I had a early 30's cutie who just wanted a mani / pedi / massage spa day once a month. If I paid for that for her once a month, she'd fuck my brains out every week. It was a pretty sweet deal, but not very common. I had one late last year that agreed to hook up with me if I would sub to her OnlyF*ns afterwards (I would never agree to beforehand). We met at a hotel, we fucked twice, I subbed to her OF right there on the spot for $15. Canceled it a couple of weeks later after she ghosted, but not before downloading all her material.
Most of my cash arrangements are 200 per intimate date, plus I pay for hotel, or if they can host, I'll do 300 for them per intimate date. If we meet for coffee or dinner I'll cover the tab as well.
When I first talk to a potential sugar baby (or POT) I get to know them first, standard online dating questions. Once we've been talking a few hours, or even a day or 2, I'll normally ask them if they want to talk about the "arrangement." I ask them what they are looking for, and try to get them to be the first to mention money, though some will play coy. If they do, I'll generally ask them if they prefer a cash allowance, gifts, or something else. Once they finally tell me what they are looking for, then I'll ask if they are willing to talk through the intimate details so we can make sure we have chemistry before figuring the specifics of the arrangement. At that point I point blank ask them what they enjoy sexually, and have a pretty detailed talk about what turns them on. If this goes well then our conversation will actually turn them on. If they're turned on enough, I can usually get nudes / vids at this point for free. Another bonus of turning them on is they actually will WANT to meet you, and are willing to see you for less than normal (since if theoretically if you turned them on here you could have just as easily turned them on through a standard dating site and they would've fucked you for free anyways). Once I feel like they really like me, I ask them specifically what they are looking for allowance/gift wise, and then negotiate from there.
It's not a 100% success rate but you can comb through my post history under this thread to see specific examples. When my SA sub is active, I can normally bag 4-5 different girls, usually in their early 20s - early 30s, maybe the occasional 19 year old, and never pay more than 300 per date. You have to be willing to pass on girls who have GPS (gold pussy syndrome), the girls who are wannabe instagram models or influencers who think a billionaire should pay them thousands a week. When someone is unreasonable or not willing to move come down to a reasonable arrangement, I tell them we're not a good fit and move on. Remember, there's a LOT more "average income" guys on the site than there are multi-millionaires, and as long as you're willing to say "no" to some very pretty girls, you'll find some real pretty ones that'll take great care of you, are grateful for the help you give them, and won't break the bank.
GreekLurker212
04-28-24, 15:17
The "arrangement" is whatever 2 consenting adults want it to be. For most people, that's dates plus sex for cash. For some, it's just straight up sex for cash. However, there are some girls and guys that use gifts / trips / fancy dinners instead of pure cash. The arrangement might be "I take you to 5 star restaurants and a shopping trip and we hook up afterwards. ".
I've had a few that just wanted to be "spoiled" occasionally in exchange for hooking up. About a year or so back I had a early 30's cutie who just wanted a mani / pedi / massage spa day once a month. If I paid for that for her once a month, she'd fuck my brains out every week. It was a pretty sweet deal, but not very common. I had one late last year that agreed to hook up with me if I would sub to her OnlyF*ns afterwards (I would never agree to beforehand). We met at a hotel, we fucked twice, I subbed to her OF right there on the spot for $15. Canceled it a couple of weeks later after she ghosted, but not before downloading all her material.
Most of my cash arrangements are 200 per intimate date, plus I pay for hotel, or if they can host, I'll do 300 for them per intimate date. If we meet for coffee or dinner I'll cover the tab as well.
When I first talk to a potential sugar baby (or POT) I get to know them first, standard online dating questions. Once we've been talking a few hours, or even a day or 2, I'll normally ask them if they want to talk about the "arrangement." I ask them what they are looking for, and try to get them to be the first to mention money, though some will play coy. If they do, I'll generally ask them if they prefer a cash allowance, gifts, or something else. Once they finally tell me what they are looking for, then I'll ask if they are willing to talk through the intimate details so we can make sure we have chemistry before figuring the specifics of the arrangement. At that point I point blank ask them what they enjoy sexually, and have a pretty detailed talk about what turns them on. If this goes well then our conversation will actually turn them on. If they're turned on enough, I can usually get nudes / vids at this point for free. Another bonus of turning them on is they actually will WANT to meet you, and are willing to see you for less than normal (since if theoretically if you turned them on here you could have just as easily turned them on through a standard dating site and they would've fucked you for free anyways). Once I feel like they really like me, I ask them specifically what they are looking for allowance/gift wise, and then negotiate from there.
It's not a 100% success rate but you can comb through my post history under this thread to see specific examples. When my SA sub is active, I can normally bag 4-5 different girls, usually in their early 20s - early 30s, maybe the occasional 19 year old, and never pay more than 300 per date. You have to be willing to pass on girls who have GPS (gold pussy syndrome), the girls who are wannabe instagram models or influencers who think a billionaire should pay them thousands a week. When someone is unreasonable or not willing to move come down to a reasonable arrangement, I tell them we're not a good fit and move on. Remember, there's a LOT more "average income" guys on the site than there are multi-millionaires, and as long as you're willing to say "no" to some very pretty girls, you'll find some real pretty ones that'll take great care of you, are grateful for the help you give them, and won't break the bank.Man I sure wish I would have read this before I started having conversations with a few of them. I'm sure Ill have some great success thanks for you input, really helped me out alot on my jounery Ill read your older post so I can get a better understanding. This is 10 x better then regular SW on listcrawlers I think ill enjoy this alot. LOL.
TheAnswer4
04-28-24, 16:38
Man I sure wish I would have read this before I started having conversations with a few of them. I'm sure Ill have some great success thanks for you input, really helped me out alot on my jounery Ill read your older post so I can get a better understanding. This is 10 x better then regular SW on listcrawlers I think ill enjoy this alot. LOL.GoneforGood97 is a real one and a top contributor to this thread. Great advice.
MilfHunter818
04-29-24, 00:21
https://members.seeking.com/member/19256eda-40f0-4d3b-bd62-1246c4dad30c
I've been talking to her for weeks. Exchanging pics and just having normal conversation. Said her and her roommate needed money for rent. They offered a 3 way for $600. She gave me her address. I show up and they lead me to the bedroom. Everything checked out so far. As soon as I hand over the cash, a dude runs out asking what I'm doing in his house and kicks me out while pretending to yell at the girls for having me over. They run off and hide.
I'm deciding what I want to do since his house isn't far and her number isn't a burner. I use Spokeo.com to find out all the info.
She has none of my info. I use a burner myself and leave my wallet in my vehicle anytime I meet someone.
Peter Johnson
04-29-24, 03:02
https://members.seeking.com/member/19256eda-40f0-4d3b-bd62-1246c4dad30c
I've been talking to her for weeks. Exchanging pics and just having normal conversation. Said her and her roommate needed money for rent. They offered a 3 way for $600. She gave me her address. I show up and they lead me to the bedroom. Everything checked out so far. As soon as I hand over the cash, a dude runs out asking what I'm doing in his house and kicks me out while pretending to yell at the girls for having me over. They run off and hide.
I'm deciding what I want to do since his house isn't far and her number isn't a burner. I use Spokeo.com to find out all the info.
She has none of my info. I use a burner myself and leave my wallet in my vehicle anytime I meet someone.Damn that is messed up, but considering you have their address and they don't have any of your info, seems like you can fuck with them somehow.
LikeMike1963
04-29-24, 09:25
Just make their life really annoying. Sign there phone and address up for everything under the sun. Free subscriptions. Phone solicitors. Sales calls. Anything along that line you can think of.
https://members.seeking.com/member/19256eda-40f0-4d3b-bd62-1246c4dad30c
I've been talking to her for weeks. Exchanging pics and just having normal conversation. Said her and her roommate needed money for rent. They offered a 3 way for $600. She gave me her address. I show up and they lead me to the bedroom. Everything checked out so far. As soon as I hand over the cash, a dude runs out asking what I'm doing in his house and kicks me out while pretending to yell at the girls for having me over. They run off and hide.
I'm deciding what I want to do since his house isn't far and her number isn't a burner. I use Spokeo.com to find out all the info.
She has none of my info. I use a burner myself and leave my wallet in my vehicle anytime I meet someone.
GoneForGood97
04-29-24, 14:40
Man I sure wish I would have read this before I started having conversations with a few of them. I'm sure Ill have some great success thanks for you input, really helped me out alot on my jounery Ill read your older post so I can get a better understanding. This is 10 x better then regular SW on listcrawlers I think ill enjoy this alot. LOL.Here's a link to a post where I provide links to some of my more well received advice posts. Hope these help. Good luck!
http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?14265-quot-Sugar-Babies-quot-and-quot-Arrangements-quot&p=6451251&viewfull=1#post6451251
TravelinSD
04-29-24, 16:39
All great advice and overview from Gone. Not so much anymore, but the Richmond, VA sugar baby thread was the defacto national forum for general info for ages. There is a thread of favorites from that thread in the Richmond User Blogs as well:
http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?15100-Sugarbaby-Thread-Highlights-Index-and-FAQ
Good luck and good hunting!
Travelin.
I'm new to the sugar baby game, what exactly are "arrangements"? Like in my mind I'm thinking its SW but I could be wrong. I've been on seeking and alot of the girls have been talking about arrangements do they mean like money? Or is it a mutually beneficial type of thing somebody help me out.
NastyFrostyyy
04-30-24, 21:04
Hey guys new here. Anyone have experience with this one?
https://members.seeking.com/member/82b131ec-adff-4bd2-8bfb-f1bd5cc4c6f7
Just make their life really annoying. Sign there phone and address up for everything under the sun. Free subscriptions. Phone solicitors. Sales calls. Anything along that line you can think of.Any subscription will send an email for confirmation, until the person gives consent they are not subscribed. Also all this subscription group email comes with unsubscribe link. So it's easy to unsubscribe.
Ph# works somewhat better. You share the phone number with telemarketers and donation websites. LOL.
Not sure how the address can be used to annoy someone.
It will interesting other people's ideas on this topic.
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05-01-24, 16:15
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LikeMike1963
05-02-24, 08:50
Looking for some thoughts form anyone that has met a bartender. Waitress etc and how they may of approached with them if they would have an interest in a mutually beneficial scenario?. I appreciate your thoughts and experience!
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You need to learn the difference between trapping somebody in a corner and using a little game to see if a chick would be interested. Read the second post after this one and learn someting.
I ran restaurants for years and most of the hot waitresses had some guy taking them places they couldn't afford.
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Buck Owens
05-02-24, 09:27
Looking for some thoughts form anyone that has met a bartender. Waitress etc and how they may of approached with them if they would have an interest in a mutually beneficial scenario?. I appreciate your thoughts and experience!FWIW years ago I had a smoking hot barber that as time went on I ended up going to her place to get my haircuts rather than the shop she worked out of. She was always complaining about $ issues and I broached the subject of a mutually beneficial arrangement with her. Needless to say I tipped astronomically well for a haircut and we had a really good time for a number of years. I'd simply call her up and say I needed a haircut every couple of weeks and sometimes she would give me a cut but she always gave some trim! She eventually fell in love moved to the country and got fat.
Stay Safe!
Buck.
GoneForGood97
05-02-24, 18:12
Looking for some thoughts form anyone that has met a bartender. Waitress etc and how they may of approached with them if they would have an interest in a mutually beneficial scenario?. I appreciate your thoughts and experience!During the tail end of the pandemic I imagine waitresses were struggling. This requires some game, and it doesn't hurt if you're decent looking or a charmer. I had success one (and only one) time with a Hooters waitress. It wasn't planned or calculated, I was eating dinner and there to watch a football game. It wasn't very busy and I'd been there over an hour and we started chatting. During the conversations she mentioned her young son, which is only important because it meant I knew she was a mom and likely single (no wedding band) working at Hooters, which is a prime demographic for possible SB.
Asked her what she did for fun, and she mentioned traveling. Asked her about the most exotic place she'd ever been, and she replied Panama City, FL. Told if she enjoyed traveling she really needed to get her passport and go to Europe while she was young enough to enjoy it. "Oh, well, that's not exactly something I can afford. " "Sounds like you need a sugar daddy hahahaha" "Oh yeah I wish hahaha". Game wraps up and I get my check. After she brings me back my card I keep her there with small talk a few seconds while I write in the tip and sign it. Once it's obvious I've signed it and her tip won't be affected by her response I say to her "You know, if you're serious about the sugar daddy thing, I could see us doing something like that. I'm going to the bathroom before I leave, but if you want to leave your number on a napkin when I get back we could work something out. ".
Hit it twice for 100 PPM plus hotel over the next few weeks before she eventually ghosted. All it took was having a decent conversation with her for 2+ hours, followed by a little prodding about if she needed money or not, and offering to solve the problem.
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05-02-24, 22:32
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SteveStone123
05-03-24, 12:10
This profile was listed as Philly till yesterday night and today its changed to Atlanta. And the person texted me saying his / her profile name is sweetmizz and shared a picture which is no where matching with what she posted in profile. The scammer even don't know from what profile he / she is texting from.
https://members.seeking.com/member/295e1467-206b-47d2-b152-b406f50789f8
CookiesMan
05-05-24, 05:38
https://members.seeking.com/member/a4f157c0-8c49-4349-af4c-7b55c369799c
Has another page as well, name is just backward, but same girl. So try at own risk.
https://members.seeking.com/member/e449f4a5-99c8-44c9-bd47-a7fe71bc2948
Nice girl but a little immature. Couldn't decide on when she wanted to meet. Good with 300 ppm.
https://members.seeking.com/member/c39cfd8b-e461-4308-ae51-d6611d540402
Too many restrictions for me, doesn't like to talk / text much. Good with 300 ppm.
https://members.seeking.com/member/578045bc-6e99-4d28-be98-958c4e7c0012
From South Africa visiting till August. 350 ppm is her asking.
https://members.seeking.com/member/288a3b1b-897d-43df-ae01-f5672399fb03
Nice body. Works out. Trying to get her a car. Initially agree to 300 ppm, but then said she got a better offer. She called 2 days later and wanted to take me up my offer. Stand your ground men.
https://members.seeking.com/member/c3d033dc-8ac2-4345-a532-35aa42f882fd
Still trying to figure her out, but is just a time waster for now. Says she needs help with finding a place and help with her kid, but always flakes. We have had good convo, but you guys can try your luck.
https://members.seeking.com/member/001c0167-392d-4c8c-ab0a-3aaa6f103056
Young and vibrant. Open to anything and will stay overnight. Good with 300-350 ppm.
https://members.seeking.com/member/6bcfa3d4-5c03-4221-8876-5fc0ce8d37c3
New to SB and freaked out on me out of the blue saying she thinks we may be cousins. LOL. Good with 300 ppm.
A lot nice ladies out there, so stick to your gunns and don't overpay or give in too something you don't feel good about. Enjoy!
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DiscreetMeet
05-07-24, 09:36
https://members.seeking.com/member/586e948f-e17d-47eb-a5f3-9b46b68021b2
Does anyone have info on this one (or pair, it seems)? If so, would you be willing to DM some contact info?
Thanks!
DM.
https://members.seeking.com/member/586e948f-e17d-47eb-a5f3-9b46b68021b2
Does anyone have info on this one (or pair, it seems)? If so, would you be willing to DM some contact info?
Thanks!
DM.Guessing you might be missing an organ or two. But hey, you never know it might be the best time of your life!
Christian Troy
05-07-24, 18:53
I connected with these two Latinas on non-sugar dating apps and have sugar dates lined up. They both claim they've done this before but I've never seen them on any sugar sites (I did find their socials though). Anyone have any experience? I'll report back next week.I had a session with the younger one. 300 ppm, dfk, bbj, cfs. She was skittish but settled down and was fun (she turned out to be 21 BTW, not 18). I'm trying to schedule with the older one because I like 'them milfy too.
BTW, the dating app I was using was Badoo. It's not very popular in the United States compared to tinder or bumble, but it's very popular internationally and very popular with immigrant populations. Yes, you have to wade through scammers that are on another continent, but there's a huge contingent of local Georgia girls as well.
However, most do not speak English so go ahead and download a translator app. Most are cool with the translation (and I think appreciate the effort). I'd say trying out the membership is worth it for the extra benefits (just be sure it doesn't auto-renew). Trust me when I say it is a Latina Gold Mine!
Sugaring in the wild is a trip! I think I found my new favorite hobby.
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05-08-24, 01:19
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For those who go through ppms rather than allowances.
How do you navigate ppms? For example, if you have an SB that's open to intimacy but after some time of regular meets. What is the line that draws it for you?
For example, ppms are pay per meet, not PPF pay per fuck haha. So are you all just doing ppms to just splurge until they hopefully say they're ready? Or do you meet and start ppms after intimacy?
DiscreetMeet
05-08-24, 15:57
For those who go through ppms rather than allowances.
How do you navigate ppms? For example, if you have an SB that's open to intimacy but after some time of regular meets. What is the line that draws it for you?
For example, ppms are pay per meet, not PPF pay per fuck haha. So are you all just doing ppms to just splurge until they hopefully say they're ready? Or do you meet and start ppms after intimacy?Unless it's crystal clear, the first meet (or first few meets) are for a drink, late afternoon chat, etc. And those are never PPM.
During those times the ground rules get established and we go from there. After a time (depends a lot of the attitude of the SB) it's very possible to have PPMs that don't involve intimacy and, at the same time, meeting involving intimacy that are not PPM.
You'll know when you meet the right one.
DM.
SeekingHead
05-08-24, 16:49
Unless it's crystal clear, the first meet (or first few meets) are for a drink, late afternoon chat, etc. And those are never PPM.
During those times the ground rules get established and we go from there. After a time (depends a lot of the attitude of the SB) it's very possible to have PPMs that don't involve intimacy and, at the same time, meeting involving intimacy that are not PPM.
You'll know when you meet the right one.
DM.Don't get sucked into paying for a meet & greet, I usually do lunch meetups as it's when I am normally free. Sushi or Taco's are the two most common lunch dates. If you can't pick up a $20 lunch then sugaring isn't for you.
https://members.seeking.com/member/586e948f-e17d-47eb-a5f3-9b46b68021b2
Does anyone have info on this one (or pair, it seems)? If so, would you be willing to DM some contact info?
Thanks!
DM.I met Blair, the blue haired one, once. There was a second girl on the profile with her just a week or so ago. One of the best BBJ I've ever had, so good I finished early and didn't get the chance to sample the pussy. She'll likely go to text right away and be easy to convince to meet. $250 for an hour but that was 3 years ago. She can be very business like if that's a big turnoff.
Don't get sucked into paying for a meet & greet, I usually do lunch meetups as it's when I am normally free. Sushi or Taco's are the two most common lunch dates. If you can't pick up a $20 lunch then sugaring isn't for you.Oh, not 20 $ lunch isn't the issue. My question is mainly people asking for more meet and greets? For example, let's say we go to Atlas and I cover the tab obviously. Then the conversation lately has been "I'd like to continue meeting and feel out if intimacy would be right for this (SB)" but would like to continue ppms until we get there. Usually never given a timeline and kinda odd to even ask for one in the first place.
Wondering if that's the norm?
And appreciate the response!
Unless it's crystal clear, the first meet (or first few meets) are for a drink, late afternoon chat, etc. And those are never PPM.
During those times the ground rules get established and we go from there. After a time (depends a lot of the attitude of the SB) it's very possible to have PPMs that don't involve intimacy and, at the same time, meeting involving intimacy that are not PPM.
You'll know when you meet the right one.
DM.DM,
Thanks for this! This was what I was asking for and generally assuming typically how it looks like.
Not saying that every meet needs to be intimate, but I also don't want to be suckered for PPMs indefinitely waiting on an answer for a maybe on intimacy (if that makes sense). A lot of people have been demanding paid meet and greets.
TheAnswer4
05-09-24, 01:30
Atlvoy, I think you might be misunderstanding the game a little bit.
The "M" in PPM might stand for "meet", but it means "fuck". Absolutely do NOT pay any amount other than the tab just to meet with someone, as like on a date. If she wants to charge you just to hang out with her, move on.
Unless she's picking up the tab, I will only go on a maximum of 2 "dates", the initial meet and the second one only if we agree to fuck afterwards.
DM,
Thanks for this! This was what I was asking for and generally assuming typically how it looks like.
Not saying that every meet needs to be intimate, but I also don't want to be suckered for PPMs indefinitely waiting on an answer for a maybe on intimacy (if that makes sense). A lot of people have been demanding paid meet and greets.
SeekingHead
05-09-24, 10:15
Oh, not 20 $ lunch isn't the issue. My question is mainly people asking for more meet and greets? For example, let's say we go to Atlas and I cover the tab obviously. Then the conversation lately has been "I'd like to continue meeting and feel out if intimacy would be right for this (SB)" but would like to continue ppms until we get there. Usually never given a timeline and kinda odd to even ask for one in the first place.
Wondering if that's the norm?
And appreciate the response!Meet & Greets are usually the closing moment, you have usually exchanged messages with them over the last week or so before meeting. During the meeting I go over the amount they want for PPM or text them right after the meet if PPM didn't come up. I'll offer for ex. $400 for the first meet & then $300 going forward.
The next meet up is usually dinner & back to the hotel or we meet at my house.
GoneForGood97
05-09-24, 10:25
Oh, not 20 $ lunch isn't the issue. My question is mainly people asking for more meet and greets? For example, let's say we go to Atlas and I cover the tab obviously. Then the conversation lately has been "I'd like to continue meeting and feel out if intimacy would be right for this (SB)" but would like to continue ppms until we get there. Usually never given a timeline and kinda odd to even ask for one in the first place.
Wondering if that's the norm?
And appreciate the response!Remember the second most important rule: only sugar for sugar. In other words, no $ unless they put out. Period. Full stop.
There's a very common scammer in sugar baby circles called a "rinser". They try to get either PPMs with no intimacy or expensive meet ups at restaurants, shopping trips, etc with no intimacy. Which is why the 2nd most important rule for sugaring is "Only sugar for sugar, and no sugar for no sugar. " In other words, $ is only exchanged once you're intimate.
One of the reasons I make most of my meet and greets coffee dates. It usually filters out the rinsers.
The first most important rule: never pay in advance.
I'm fucking done with a few of you guys on this thread. Some of you are higher maintenance than strippers.
If you got a bunch of infractions today your account has been placed in moderation which means a responsible adult needs to read what you write before anybody else can see it. If you keep being a dick on this thread I'm going to get rid of you.
If you enjoy this forum I would suggest taking this seriously.
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Peter Johnson
05-09-24, 13:08
https://members.seeking.com/member/586e948f-e17d-47eb-a5f3-9b46b68021b2
Does anyone have info on this one (or pair, it seems)? If so, would you be willing to DM some contact info?
Thanks!
DM.I guess you like to live dangerously. Face tattoos are about the biggest red flag there is. And that one has even more than that. Well good luck and godspeed.
Peter Johnson
05-09-24, 13:17
For those who go through ppms rather than allowances.
How do you navigate ppms? For example, if you have an SB that's open to intimacy but after some time of regular meets. What is the line that draws it for you?
For example, ppms are pay per meet, not PPF pay per fuck haha. So are you all just doing ppms to just splurge until they hopefully say they're ready? Or do you meet and start ppms after intimacy?It depends on what you are looking for, and certainly some guys are looking for platonic dates, or regular dates with some occasional sex.
But safe to say, most of us on here are looking for PPF and the girls know that and it's what most of them are offering. So just screen the ones out who aren't willing to do what you are looking for, on the timetable that you are looking for. I will do a free meet and greet, but if I'm giving them any $$ then their clothes are already off.
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SalvatoreIttup
05-10-24, 12:25
https://members.seeking.com/member/586e948f-e17d-47eb-a5f3-9b46b68021b2
Does anyone have info on this one (or pair, it seems)? If so, would you be willing to DM some contact info?
Thanks!.She used to go by Nixie (blue hair) and worked at Tattletales (maybe still does? And you can refer back to post #8914 to see how others have interacted with her. With me, she was a little rude through texting, but then actually very chill in-person. Gave good head and rode me pretty good, too. She's had a bunch of kids, so not the greatest feeling walls, but she made up for it with effort, and was only $150 each time. Would consider a threesome with that friend for sure!
SalvatoreIttup
05-11-24, 12:01
Had a meet with Liz and it was very enjoyable. We agreed on $$$ and her menu was very broad. We met at the notel for 2. 5 hrs. And I popped 3 times. She commented that I was greedy (Got my moneys worth). She gave me a BBBJ and she also swallowed. Anal was on the table but I did not partake, not my cup of tea. Had a vey good time with her. Probably will not repeat since she is a little too chunky for my liking. Personality is good and she take direction very well. Give her a try.
https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?userId=72088452She told me she wanted $100 just to meet up for drinks! I take it she's a little more than chunky, maybe?? Sometimes when girls know there's a good chance I will back out of going forward after seeing what they really look like in-person, they try to charge a meet-up fee. In their minds, these dummies think getting together for a drink and not moving forward is a bigger waste of time for them, but I make way more per hour than they do, so it's really a bigger loss for me.
So, I have been logging in to my SA account easily for the last month or so. Just renewed my membership. On Friday, I try to login and it goes straight to the "create an account" page. I have tried multiple browsers, with and without VPN etc. I got an email from support that nothing was wrong with my account, they sent me a new password to log in with. Didn't work. I have sent them another support request. Meanwhile, my account is still visible and I am still receiving notifcations when someone views, likes or sends me a message. Anyone had this happen or have any suggestions on a fix other than waiting on support?
Thanks,
Pirate.
Any one had any lock with this one?
https://members.seeking.com/member/2ac4415c-fbaf-4cc0-a647-cad66c94d367
LouisHernandez
05-11-24, 15:05
DM,
Thanks for this! This was what I was asking for and generally assuming typically how it looks like.
Not saying that every meet needs to be intimate, but I also don't want to be suckered for PPMs indefinitely waiting on an answer for a maybe on intimacy (if that makes sense). A lot of people have been demanding paid meet and greets.Never pay the girl cash just to MnG. But if you meet for lunch or something picking up the tab is pretty standard even for vanilla dating.
LouisHernandez
05-11-24, 15:11
Any one had any lock with this one?
https://members.seeking.com/member/2ac4415c-fbaf-4cc0-a647-cad66c94d367Way too much photo filtering. Screams catfish. Hard pass.
Way too much photo filtering. Screams catfish. Hard pass.Sorry I meant luck LOL.
Avoid this scammer. Reverse search of private photo resulted in a Brazilian influencer. She said she was from Colombia. Major redflag: she says she charges 650 per overnight stay. Also asks for deposit.
Yeah right.
https://members.seeking.com/member/f5a82152-8f90-4517-bb0e-b6b9335be98a
SalvatoreIttup
05-12-24, 20:12
Any info on her?
https://members.seeking.com/member/c739077a-2db3-430d-bfb5-35f8050ecba3This girl is HUGE. However, she is able to host, and can be talked down to $200. Gives quick head, and is just ok at it. Not sure if those are even her real pics, but she currently needs to lose a ton of weight.
SalvatoreIttup
05-12-24, 20:33
https://members.seeking.com/member/0e3e94bb-7bfc-4dd2-af99-c73b0d64868e
This is another one using old pics and expecting to be paid based off of her old pics. In real life, she's actually currently a whale, and asks for $300, but settled for $250. Her saving "grace" is that she does give really good porn star head, and if you give her a blunt first, even better. Doesn't host, but willing to do outcalls to hotels in Dunwoody and Sandy Springs.
This girl is HUGE. However, she is able to host, and can be talked down to $200. Gives quick head, and is just ok at it. Not sure if those are even her real pics, but she currently needs to lose a ton of weight.I always find it funny that women like to be in pics with women that are hotter than them. My eyes immediately went to the other chick in her profile pic.
StudMonquie
05-14-24, 16:38
Any one had any lock with this one?
https://members.seeking.com/member/2ac4415c-fbaf-4cc0-a647-cad66c94d367Looks like Brooke Davis a stripper from Goldrush.
https://members.seeking.com/member/99f9cb02-5ed1-4611-b140-e404b801b598
Sky. Viewed / favorited my profile so I checked back. Well at least she's honest? But is she really expecting to find somebody? She's looking for NSA dating.
https://members.seeking.com/member/99f9cb02-5ed1-4611-b140-e404b801b598
Sky. Viewed / favorited my profile so I checked back. Well at least she's honest? But is she really expecting to find somebody? She's looking for NSA dating.She's not the only one in the world with an std.
Would you rather date her and find out afterwards?
She's not the only one in the world with an std.
Would you rather date her and find out afterwards?Of course STDs are out there. It's our responsibility to vet and be responsible about who we meet. But if I know, it's a hard pass. I know we are all taking risks there on these sites, but yeah I think anyone would rather know. But being that she's on a SD site I'd say her desirability goes way down and wish her the best of luck. She might need a new line of work.
TheAnswer4
05-16-24, 01:04
Of course STDs are out there. It's our responsibility to vet and be responsible about who we meet. But if I know, it's a hard pass. I know we are all taking risks there on these sites, but yeah I think anyone would rather know. But being that she's on a SD site I'd say her desirability goes way down and wish her the best of luck. She might need a new line of work.Does she say what STD? If it's HSV-1 then like 75% of the population have it, and while it's classified as an STD most people get it as like a baby from people kissing them.
Looks like Brooke Davis a stripper from Goldrush.I have found a lot of strippers on here running up rates.
Airmantroy
05-16-24, 10:27
Does she say what STD? If it's HSV-1 then like 75% of the population have it, and while it's classified as an STD most people get it as like a baby from people kissing them.She had stated HSV and HPV. Obviously her "transparency" wasn't helping her, she's now showing Knoxville as her location and has removed the STD sentence and added a $500 K a yr will be a wife line. LMFAO SCAMMER, the STD line was so she didn't have to screw anybody and still get paid.
BumbaCloth
05-16-24, 11:41
Any info on her? Couldn't find her SA profile.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/4519636cd87d2fe5
TylerDurden07
05-16-24, 16:04
https://members.seeking.com/member/0ad9cec8-9c09-4fab-89e1-6df1400cd0b5
For the bargain low price of $1 k, you can enjoy this hot blonde. What do you get in return? "Play only on the first date, no intimacy. ".
Uhhhh. Yeah.
She quoted me the same. She does takes a while to reply on my messages. Told me she is divorced with 2 little kids living with her. I asked about the kid's dad and she said he lives in Alabama.Is the uber driver still around? I couldn't find her page; either I was blocked or she left the site.
Does she say what STD? If it's HSV-1 then like 75% of the population have it, and while it's classified as an STD most people get it as like a baby from people kissing them.
She had stated HSV and HPV. Obviously her "transparency" wasn't helping her, she's now showing Knoxville as her location and has removed the STD sentence and added a $500 K a yr will be a wife line. LMFAO SCAMMER, the STD line was so she didn't have to screw anybody and still get paid.Yep. Her original ad was worded that she has herpes and genital warts. But she's edited it and changed locations like mentioned here. Sounds like she's probably just a scammer and the STD line is to scare people away from wanting to actually meet, but sounds like she still wants money. Very high GPS for a girl saying she's got STDs.
Ok so bear with me. I lost my PW to my email that is linked to my SA account. Still had the SA password. Logged into SA, changed my email in settings. All was good, was able to access SA for several weeks. A week or so ago I saw some stuff about new security measures. I didn't pay it much attention since I could still log in with my new email and my password. Last Friday, it asked me to login via email. I did. It sends me a numerical confirmation number to my email, and I enter it. It then takes me to the new account creation screen. I try with email and pw. Same thing, new account screen. Now I am still getting notifications in my email that people messaged me, or viewed or favorited etc (still getting them today). So I contacted support. Initially they replied back, gave me a new PW to use. I tried that, took me to the new sign in screen. I wrote back to support. They asked me to verify my account. I gave them the info the asked (not my I'd), and they confirmed my account. They told me to send them a new email address to link the account to. I sent them a new email, now they have gone radio silent for the last 4 days or so. I have replied back to support, I have tried to open a new ticket. Nothing.
So my questions, first is there any thing that I can do to speed this up / fix it? Second, any clues what caused this? Security update? Someone reported me? Should I just ask them to refund my card at this point and make new account? I am not sending them my I'd, have no trust in letting my actual details out to them.
Thanks!
Just a warning guys, if you see this one on site don't bother, she ask you to text her on Google chat, she act like she don't need your money until couple of days later, she ask for a favor, she need a long LOL. Her name Freda.
I lost a lot of money with many accounts banned for no reason. As long as I was the free member to test the waters, I had no issues. Once I started paid membership, issues started with warnings, notices ultimately leading to a ban, and the reason? No clue. Customer service keeps asking for real I'd which I will never do as I don't trust these guys.
Ok so bear with me. I lost my PW to my email that is linked to my SA account. Still had the SA password. Logged into SA, changed my email in settings. All was good, was able to access SA for several weeks. A week or so ago I saw some stuff about new security measures. I didn't pay it much attention since I could still log in with my new email and my password. Last Friday, it asked me to login via email. I did. It sends me a numerical confirmation number to my email, and I enter it. It then takes me to the new account creation screen. I try with email and pw. Same thing, new account screen. Now I am still getting notifications in my email that people messaged me, or viewed or favorited etc (still getting them today). So I contacted support. Initially they replied back, gave me a new PW to use. I tried that, took me to the new sign in screen. I wrote back to support. They asked me to verify my account. I gave them the info the asked (not my I'd), and they confirmed my account. They told me to send them a new email address to link the account to. I sent them a new email, now they have gone radio silent for the last 4 days or so. I have replied back to support, I have tried to open a new ticket. Nothing.
So my questions, first is there any thing that I can do to speed this up / fix it? Second, any clues what caused this? Security update? Someone reported me? Should I just ask them to refund my card at this point and make new account? I am not sending them my I'd, have no trust in letting my actual details out to them.
Thanks!
She is a single mom and used to be an escort for many years. She moved to SC for a few months and got back to ATL pretending to be an SB and as a new person with more weight.
https://members.seeking.com/member/0e3e94bb-7bfc-4dd2-af99-c73b0d64868e
This is another one using old pics and expecting to be paid based off of her old pics. In real life, she's actually currently a whale, and asks for $300, but settled for $250. Her saving "grace" is that she does give really good porn star head, and if you give her a blunt first, even better. Doesn't host, but willing to do outcalls to hotels in Dunwoody and Sandy Springs.
Catfish. She says she is a nurse but always fucks around. Maybe she was a nurse once upon a time and no less than a hooker.
This girl is HUGE. However, she is able to host, and can be talked down to $200. Gives quick head, and is just ok at it. Not sure if those are even her real pics, but she currently needs to lose a ton of weight.
FarFarAway
05-21-24, 12:27
The reason you keep getting banned is b / c you are violating the TOS. Read all of the cautions mentioned in this thread and other sugar threads concerning how you contact women on the site and you will have no problems. I have had two profiles, paid off and on, for several years, and have never had any significant problems.
Your current profile seems to me to be a lost cause. I would start over. And, read the recommendations of guys who have gotten banned concerning getting back on the site and hiding the fact that you were on there before w / a different profile. You need to change as much as possible, photos, profile content, IP address, VPN, MAC address, method of payment, electronic device, browser.
AdmirerSecret
05-25-24, 15:54
Positive impact health center in duluth, decature. They do free std tests, just tell your income is 20 k per year. Very clean, private and good people. Every year you get full panel test. Also you can do small talks if you are having some concerns, take your babies also if you want to fuck bare and exclusive for you. LOL hard to find. Very hard to find girls for gifts. If you need more test centers let me know.
Thanks for the reminder, just went and did my yearly STD test for all 9 of the biggies (HIV, Chlamydia, gonorrhea, HSV2 etc.)
If you want to get tested and make sure you are anonymous, here is what I did:
Go to https://www.tkqlhce.com/click-7796100-11648780 You can sign up under any name online, they send you paperwork under that name that you take to a local lab (labcorp) and on the paper work it tells the lab to not ask for ID. Lab send the results back to your account online for you to look at. I have done it a few times over the last few years and it is fast and easy and does not involve your doc or insurance at all. Totally private.
AdmirerSecret
05-25-24, 16:04
Always wear condoms, check the girl before fucking, check signs of teeth, smelly pussy, there are guys who has std and they are on HIV prep. They fuck all girls here. Money is not problem them. They fuck bare. Girls never gets HIV but still, its a hobby for few. You guys don't know how many girls are impacted with this. Not all daddies are like that.
So don't rush, sometimes if you a girl is having some stds after fuck. Its a nightmare. There many stds which spread skin to skin.
Educate yourself. Few girls they just ignorant don't even know what they are doing it for money. Also read some reddit blogs where people are sharing thier experiance being in those situations. Talk to your doctor and ask for vaccines for your hobbies.
Not every girl has stds but there are few and lack education and get fucked by someone bare for $100 more. They did not even know about status. Many won't evem detect in tests and some goes dormant.
Be healthy and keep your babies also heathy.
SeekingHead
05-26-24, 13:10
The reason you keep getting banned is b / c you are violating the TOS. Read all of the cautions mentioned in this thread and other sugar threads concerning how you contact women on the site and you will have no problems. I have had two profiles, paid off and on, for several years, and have never had any significant problems.
Your current profile seems to me to be a lost cause. I would start over. And, read the recommendations of guys who have gotten banned concerning getting back on the site and hiding the fact that you were on there before w / a different profile. You need to change as much as possible, photos, profile content, IP address, VPN, MAC address, method of payment, electronic device, browser.There is an extension called ghostery which will block all trackers a site inserts into your browser, add it to your browser before you create a new profile.
https://www.ghostery.com/
JumboNiner1
05-30-24, 15:48
Met this one last week and had a fun time. She's a bbw MILF that's really into massage and pleasing her man.
Cute face and huge rack, met her at a restaurant in Norcross for a drink and then went to her place for a hot sensual massage and everything bare.
No anal but sucked me to completion and had an intense orgasm of her own.
Gave 250 for the session.
https://members.seeking.com/member/86df3295-f7e1-4cd4-b310-03d6d369f694Have any contact info you could share?
Have something set up with this curvy freak. She is traveling from Iowa to Florida according to her profile. I was thinking of hosting her at my corporate apartment. Then she says she is traveling with her male cousin. I said that's a bit "sketch". Her reply was "pick me up or send Uber. Search of her text number (516-xxxx410) revealed nothing.
She has agreed to come over and spend the night (all valuables are in the gun safe) for a meal, a little partying, and I have to take her to a car wash so she can give me a BJ (her fantasy), but wants to just fuck all night. Cost is an undefined few hundred.
I am tired of one and done's and was just looking for a woman that would let me take them to pound town, and then in the middle of the night and then in the morning.
Thoughts?
I use my Mac / iPhone and Safari to access this site. Recently when I get to the home page and click on "Forum" or "Atlanta", the screen blinks very quickly with a red background. Blinsk so fast I cannot see what it is. But the only way I can get access is via Chrome on the Mac. I ran Clean My Mac including deep scan and found nothing. Looked at my Privacy settings and saw no issues.
Anyone else experiencing this?
TooHotForYou
05-30-24, 17:45
I use my Mac / iPhone and Safari to access this site. Recently when I get to the home page and click on "Forum" or "Atlanta", the screen blinks very quickly with a red background. Blinsk so fast I cannot see what it is. But the only way I can get access is via Chrome on the Mac. I ran Clean My Mac including deep scan and found nothing. Looked at my Privacy settings and saw no issues.Yes something is up with safari. There is a way to change your settings on safari to make you access the site again but you can still access it through google chrome or other browsers. You can read it about in the general thread some posts down as I was the first to bring this up two or three weeks ago. Don't know what happened with safari and this site but just turn off fraudulent site warnings in settings once you go to safari on your iPhone or Mac.
SalvatoreIttup
05-30-24, 21:25
Have something set up with this curvy freak. She is traveling from Iowa to Florida according to her profile. I was thinking of hosting her at my corporate apartment. Then she says she is traveling with her male cousin. I said that's a bit "sketch". Her reply was "pick me up or send Uber. Search of her text number (516-xxxx410) revealed nothing.
She has agreed to come over and spend the night (all valuables are in the gun safe) for a meal, a little partying, and I have to take her to a car wash so she can give me a BJ (her fantasy), but wants to just fuck all night. Cost is an undefined few hundred.
I am tired of one and done's and was just looking for a woman that would let me take them to pound town, and then in the middle of the night and then in the morning.
Thoughts?Looks to me that she is the "male cousin" tbh.
Member #6704
05-31-24, 07:43
I use my Mac / iPhone and Safari to access this site. Recently when I get to the home page and click on "Forum" or "Atlanta", the screen blinks very quickly with a red background. Blinsk so fast I cannot see what it is. But the only way I can get access is via Chrome on the Mac. I ran Clean My Mac including deep scan and found nothing. Looked at my Privacy settings and saw no issues.
Anyone else experiencing this?Same issue here!
Member #6704
05-31-24, 08:05
Some women in seeking only want to offline communicate via WhatsApp or.
Telegram or signal! They are don't want to text to burner phone or free text app.
Or Snapchat. Have you guys encountered that? Seems like some scammers? Who want to get.
Our real phone numbers?
SeekingHead
05-31-24, 09:45
Some women in seeking only want to offline communicate via WhatsApp or.
Telegram or signal! They are don't want to text to burner phone or free text app.
Or Snapchat. Have you guys encountered that? Seems like some scammers? Who want to get.
Our real phone numbers?Whatsapp & telegram are popular outside of the US, whatsapp is fine if you can verify with a call which I did with a girl this week.
I get very few for snapchat, its almost like privilege to get in their snaps, the ones who do let you in usually will send a lot of nudes. I have a girl from Savannah who I see 2 x a year who I get snaps from & almost all are nudes.
IrishGringo2
05-31-24, 11:02
Looks to me that she is the "male cousin" tbh.Jaja (in english).
Whatsapp & telegram are popular outside of the US, whatsapp is fine if you can verify with a call which I did with a girl this week.
I get very few for snapchat, its almost like privilege to get in their snaps, the ones who do let you in usually will send a lot of nudes. I have a girl from Savannah who I see 2 x a year who I get snaps from & almost all are nudes.I haven't been in the SB game. But I assumed that ads posted for bodyrubs or escorts were a scam if they included telegram or signal. Am I wrong about that?
LThomas777
06-03-24, 11:29
I use my Mac / iPhone and Safari to access this site. Recently when I get to the home page and click on "Forum" or "Atlanta", the screen blinks very quickly with a red background. Blinsk so fast I cannot see what it is. But the only way I can get access is via Chrome on the Mac. I ran Clean My Mac including deep scan and found nothing. Looked at my Privacy settings and saw no issues.
Anyone else experiencing this?Yes, same issue. However, if you hit the forward tab / page button it works fine. Apparently the correct screen pops up and then goes back to previous page.
TylerDurden07
06-03-24, 15:51
Some women in seeking only want to offline communicate via WhatsApp or.
Telegram or signal! They are don't want to text to burner phone or free text app.
Or Snapchat. Have you guys encountered that? Seems like some scammers? Who want to get.
Our real phone numbers?I avoid the ones who refuse to text & instead insist on Whatsapp or Telegram. Those are girls in foreign countries who you will never meet in person.
https://members.seeking.com/member/a954afda-4a12-49d2-b349-27826c3447ed
I thought this one has been reviewed before but can't seem to find the review. Wants 300 and also has another female that can come along for the fun.
https://members.seeking.com/member/585e800d-3f34-4312-9b64-d39aca7859d6
Wants 500 ppm. Looks good but out of my range. I haven't tried to negotiate.
https://members.seeking.com/member/5fc6548d-2b74-4dca-aa9c-f5af58dc9ae4
Been talking to this one for a while now. Have yet to meet in person. Wanted 350 ppm.
https://members.seeking.com/member/52adfa28-9ca5-4526-9068-a9f8846c182f
I like the fact she's bisexual but informed me she's going through a situation and doesn't want to add new people into her life. But she's always online.
https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?userId=72551088
Any info on her would be greatly appreciated. Is ok with 250 ppm, says she's a fun girl.
TylerDurden07
06-04-24, 13:24
https://members.seeking.com/member/4bde7881-cfac-4977-bc57-b148242415b2
Online-only. SA has been heading downhill for a long time, but now it just sucks balls all the way. I wonder if any dude really pays for "online only. ".
https://members.seeking.com/member/4bde7881-cfac-4977-bc57-b148242415b2
Online-only. SA has been heading downhill for a long time, but now it just sucks balls all the way. I wonder if any dude really pays for "online only. ".And 90% of the time there's no actual online stuff, just scamming to get you to play up front.
GoneForGood97
06-05-24, 10:39
https://members.seeking.com/member/585e800d-3f34-4312-9b64-d39aca7859d6
Wants 500 ppm. Looks good but out of my range. I haven't tried to negotiate.
https://members.seeking.com/member/5fc6548d-2b74-4dca-aa9c-f5af58dc9ae4
Been talking to this one for a while now. Have yet to meet in person. Wanted 350 ppm.
https://members.seeking.com/member/52adfa28-9ca5-4526-9068-a9f8846c182f
I like the fact she's bisexual but informed me she's going through a situation and doesn't want to add new people into her life. But she's always online.
https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?userId=72551088
Any info on her would be greatly appreciated. Is ok with 250 ppm, says she's a fun girl.Remember supply and demand. There is a huge supply of black girls in Atlanta, so you should easily get them to 200. And if they won't? I promise there's one who is prettier that will. It's simply a flooded market in this area.
Feel like I read this someplace, but now can't find it.
Are the messaging rules on SDM as limiting as Seeking? Was thinking they were more lax and allowed more directness about PPM, $$, etc.
Thanks in advance.
ReffingMan94
06-07-24, 17:55
Hey guys,
Just got back on seeking for the hell of it. Been chatting with a couple babes and curious if anyone has experience or recs for them:
Sweetums.
https://members.seeking.com/member/6659937a-32ef-4f20-a103-fdb7b8fc1c85
Typical scorpio.
https://members.seeking.com/member/69b69367-df8b-4aae-b58e-0f784d8392e4
Zkay23.
https://members.seeking.com/member/77555417-102c-4ba3-ae2e-3600f9a4445d
Armcandy4 you.
https://members.seeking.com/member/9fceab1d-fa9f-44da-a1a2-658759285ee2
Thanks in advance.
Feel like I read this someplace, but now can't find it.
Are the messaging rules on SDM as limiting as Seeking? Was thinking they were more lax and allowed more directness about PPM, $$, etc.
Thanks in advance.I've been out of this game for a while now, but I can share some experience. Never discuss details on the website. Get a burner phone and continue the conversation there. Don't use your actual phone and name.
Hey guys,
Just got back on seeking for the hell of it. Been chatting with a couple babes and curious if anyone has experience or recs for them:
Sweetums.
https://members.seeking.com/member/6659937a-32ef-4f20-a103-fdb7b8fc1c85
Typical scorpio.
https://members.seeking.com/member/69b69367-df8b-4aae-b58e-0f784d8392e4
Zkay23.
https://members.seeking.com/member/77555417-102c-4ba3-ae2e-3600f9a4445d
Armcandy4 you.
https://members.seeking.com/member/9fceab1d-fa9f-44da-a1a2-658759285ee2
Thanks in advance.I set up meeting with Sweetums, I witted at the hotel parking lot, when she arrived she look way deferent form her pictures, she look older and homeless, I get back into my car and drove away LOL.
https://members.seeking.com/member/6659937a-32ef-4f20-a103-fdb7b8fc1c85
I set up meeting with Sweetums, I witted at the hotel parking lot, when she arrived she look way deferent form her pictures, she look older and homeless, I get back into my car and drove away LOL.
https://members.seeking.com/member/6659937a-32ef-4f20-a103-fdb7b8fc1c85I agree on Sweetums. She was way too desperate for me and I passed after moving to text.
I've reached out to ArmCandy4 You but cannot get her to reply. I am older and she may be wanting one of you young studs.
Looks to me that she is the "male cousin" tbh.She's a female as she sent me some pics via text. Seemed too sketch for me, I passed.
Any reports are always appreciated. I have reports for women in Montgomery, AL and Huntsville, AL (PPM). I don't do much PPM in the Atlanta region anymore as I have done better playing the long game.
Chatting with this one via text from her actual cell as I found her on Facebook. She is ready to meet. But any report would be appreciated.
https://members.seeking.com/member/64ee6cff-7351-48cf-b7d8-1a106f688f85
This one is really too young for me, but I still like to do some PPM. She reached out to me and said she liked older guys (she's 27, so all of us are prolly older guys to her). I am interested given her height 4'8".
https://members.seeking.com/member/098e5268-4f3e-462d-8772-dffb3efebf90
With those lips and that hair, I would consider this one for a girlfriend (everything else being equal of course). Bu a review would be nice.
https://members.seeking.com/member/d21cb517-1c47-4f07-8629-758282ede201
Met this little Huey who has a vivacious personality for drinks (she didn't;t drink). Had a takeout session at the bar. The offer of "Freak beneath the sheets" has been on the table but I have been traveling for business and family issues with my father and haven't had time to take her to pound town. Review?
https://members.seeking.com/member/39a2aab1-e06a-4e3d-8761-0449487ce511
OBTW, I turn the pay, on and off. And just love who the algorithm starts seeing me favorites with the hour of my subscription canceling. HA!
Forgot to ask for info on this little Asian Hot who says she has been her before.
https://members.seeking.com/member/6874c31a-67c5-4a87-b5ba-737761ce9f23
Forgot to ask for info on this little Asian Hot who says she has been her before.
https://members.seeking.com/member/6874c31a-67c5-4a87-b5ba-737761ce9f23Chat with her awhile back. But was never able to actually meet with her, despite several attempts over a period of a month. She always had excuses, (kid, work, family, sick). Finally gave up and moved on. Update us if you do decide to engage her and are successful.
JimS2321.
2me4Looking2
06-10-24, 14:01
Curious what texting apps most people use? I don't give out my real cell for numerous reasons and I do have a burner phone, but I prefer texting from my browser. I'm a long time Google Voice user and it works well, but you can't send videos. Are there any good free ones or really inexpensive ones that you think work better and also have a web interface?
Curious what texting apps most people use? I don't give out my real cell for numerous reasons and I do have a burner phone, but I prefer texting from my browser. I'm a long time Google Voice user and it works well, but you can't send videos. Are there any good free ones or really inexpensive ones that you think work better and also have a web interface?Sudo Studio. It is expensive, but have had zero issues, zero spam.
Curious what texting apps most people use? I don't give out my real cell for numerous reasons and I do have a burner phone, but I prefer texting from my browser. I'm a long time Google Voice user and it works well, but you can't send videos. Are there any good free ones or really inexpensive ones that you think work better and also have a web interface?I use TextFree.
CuriousVaMan
06-11-24, 20:12
I use both TextMe ($10/ month w / o ads) and Google Voice (Free).
I use TextFree.
GoneForGood97
06-11-24, 21:54
Sudo Studio. It is expensive, but have had zero issues, zero spam.I use Sudo as well with the unlimited plan.
SalvatoreIttup
06-11-24, 23:04
Curious what texting apps most people use? I don't give out my real cell for numerous reasons and I do have a burner phone, but I prefer texting from my browser. I'm a long time Google Voice user and it works well, but you can't send videos. Are there any good free ones or really inexpensive ones that you think work better and also have a web interface?I use TextNow for free.
Doctor Sugar
06-12-24, 12:06
I had good texts with each of these milfs. Both seem openminded and like they'd be fun, but they keep disappearing from the texting for long stretches too. I haven't been able to see either one yet. Has anyone seen them that can give some feedback so I can decide whether to keep pursuing?
BrilliantVenus -- says her name is Sophia.
https://members.seeking.com/member/c415a112-e730-498a-b75d-128b4fdaef39
SultryTemptress -- says her name is Gina.
https://members.seeking.com/member/a5fd44af-9561-45f7-87de-0814c1f86e4d
So I have some questions about the various communication apps that people use. When I go to take a conversation off of SA to text, I usually use Snapchat or a phone number text through a burner phone. A lot of the girls that I talk to you want to use WhatsApp or telegram. I don't know a lot about either of these. What are the dangers of using these what are the pros and cons of using these anything that should look out for when making an account with these?
Thanks!
FarFarAway
06-12-24, 15:43
So I have some questions about the various communication apps that people use. When I go to take a conversation off of SA to text, I usually use Snapchat or a phone number text through a burner phone. A lot of the girls that I talk to you want to use WhatsApp or telegram. I don't know a lot about either of these. What are the dangers of using these what are the pros and cons of using these anything that should look out for when making an account with these?There are plenty of guys here who have the experience that girls who use those apps are actually scammers, they will string you along and eventually try to get you to buy crypto w / them, or send them gas money to meet, or whatever. WhatsApp is very big in China, I would be wary of an Asian 'girl' who wants to use it. Telegram I have found is more common in Russia / eastern Europe. I am sure there are exceptions to every rule, there might be good all-American sugarbabies on the other ends of transactions on these apps, but often not. And even if you don't do something stupid and send $, you may waste a lot of time. There are lots of SBs in the world. Spend your time where you can actually bang one.
WillDo4000
06-14-24, 11:46
Anyone know if these two are legit?
https://members.seeking.com/member/73c0ef86-e319-4f1c-8bfa-c830154923be
Airmantroy
06-14-24, 14:06
Anyone know if these two are legit?
https://members.seeking.com/member/73c0ef86-e319-4f1c-8bfa-c830154923beThey aren't sisters. But they are UTR pros at the SB game. I've seen their profile pop up when they blow thru town (pun intended) but never had any contact with them, I'm guessing the GPS would be ridiculous.
UninhibitedFla
06-14-24, 15:24
They aren't sisters. But they are UTR pros at the SB game. I've seen their profile pop up when they blow thru town (pun intended) but never had any contact with them, I'm guessing the GPS would be ridiculous.You nailed the GPS assumption. Totally agree. And I'll be they look like twins more due to all the Photoshop going on in those photos. Probably are a couple cute-faced piggies in real life. Roll them in flour! Somebody is paying for it though so God bless 'them.
There are plenty of guys here who have the experience that girls who use those apps are actually scammers, they will string you along and eventually try to get you to buy crypto w / them, or send them gas money to meet, or whatever. WhatsApp is very big in China, I would be wary of an Asian 'girl' who wants to use it. Telegram I have found is more common in Russia / eastern Europe. I am sure there are exceptions to every rule, there might be good all-American sugarbabies on the other ends of transactions on these apps, but often not. And even if you don't do something stupid and send $, you may waste a lot of time. There are lots of SBs in the world. Spend your time where you can actually bang one.I am not too worried about being scammed into giving them money, I am more concerned with an exploit or doxxing. I typically use burner numbers or snapchat. Does anyone know of any exploit type stuff with Whatsapp or Telegram?
Doctor Sugar
06-15-24, 16:15
I am not too worried about being scammed into giving them money, I am more concerned with an exploit or doxxing. I typically use burner numbers or snapchat. Does anyone know of any exploit type stuff with Whatsapp or Telegram?The big risk is from sharing a face picture if you have any work bios or other searchable pictures out there on the public internet. Others posted explanations in this thread of how sharing a real face picture gives away your identity. Pimeyes can use a picture thats never been posted publicly and figure out what public pictures are the same person. It found my medical practice bio using brand new selfies that I used as a test. It even worked with the one with sunglasses.
Search for the term pimeyes for more information.
HoneyBunny - 1 K.
https://members.seeking.com/member/1a2ac5de-5853-41f3-8e21-35777dc0affa
FlitatiousDiva - 3 $-5 $ but won't get to private until a few dates.
https://members.seeking.com/member/8a68e992-0bf6-4370-bda3-fabdf637fa06
Mei - 3 $ for food dates and then decides if further fun is available, if any one went beyond the initial phase dm, curious to try her.
https://members.seeking.com/member/3b93434a-5b39-48da-866e-b00d809172a6
Korean_69 shared lot of nudes and sexting but did not meet.
https://members.seeking.com/member/80a89e7c-7e40-43fe-a2cc-6af63728b834
Icyting. Texted her with the new profile but the drama continues, wants 1 k per meet and not into guys, so not sure. But have reports that she is fun and BBFS.
https://members.seeking.com/member/79bff1c8-ff8e-47ed-a357-e6f58888e1c2
Have few more profiles, trying to gather links but profiles are no longer visible but can share in dm for senior and existing mongers. Have a latina and asian girl in rotation, will share in couple of months when the subscription is renewed.
TheAnswer4
06-18-24, 01:26
I've been with Korean_69 a few times. She's legit, can host, passionate in bed, all holes open, multiple shots, around $250-300 depending on your game. I would highly recommend her.
HoneyBunny - 1 K.
https://members.seeking.com/member/1a2ac5de-5853-41f3-8e21-35777dc0affa
FlitatiousDiva - 3 $-5 $ but won't get to private until a few dates.
https://members.seeking.com/member/8a68e992-0bf6-4370-bda3-fabdf637fa06
Mei - 3 $ for food dates and then decides if further fun is available, if any one went beyond the initial phase dm, curious to try her.
https://members.seeking.com/member/3b93434a-5b39-48da-866e-b00d809172a6
Korean_69 shared lot of nudes and sexting but did not meet.
https://members.seeking.com/member/80a89e7c-7e40-43fe-a2cc-6af63728b834
Icyting. Texted her with the new profile but the drama continues, wants 1 k per meet and not into guys, so not sure. But have reports that she is fun and BBFS.
https://members.seeking.com/member/79bff1c8-ff8e-47ed-a357-e6f58888e1c2
Have few more profiles, trying to gather links but profiles are no longer visible but can share in dm for senior and existing mongers. Have a latina and asian girl in rotation, will share in couple of months when the subscription is renewed.
GoneForGood97
06-18-24, 22:44
Mei - 3 $ for food dates and then decides if further fun is available, if any one went beyond the initial phase dm, curious to try her.
https://members.seeking.com/member/3b93434a-5b39-48da-866e-b00d809172a6
Have few more profiles, trying to gather links but profiles are no longer visible but can share in dm for senior and existing mongers. Have a latina and asian girl in rotation, will share in couple of months when the subscription is renewed.This looks like a textbook rinser to me. I wouldn't waste time / effort.
Madison. Started with 8 $ but came down to 4 $ for intimacy, good convo heavier than pics.
https://members.seeking.com/member/1fe405d7-cfe0-42fe-8248-8edb29e40f2f
Snowbunny - $$ restaurant date to discuss details, upon seeing her pics I dropped the conversation.
https://members.seeking.com/member/c1aeb7c2-1e10-4d37-80f7-b5ed4828133b
PrettyDiscreet1 - Wanted 5 $ but came down to 2. 5 $ but needs to be very discreet.
https://members.seeking.com/member/38c6ac72-d0b6-4f38-9e5d-c98e320a1c8b
Charlie - 1 K says her facebook groups are generous to know of how much a sugar baby should be gifted fairly.
https://members.seeking.com/member/dd374e2f-c851-4bd7-a800-2f1c34ec7dd0
Amber422 - Great conversation but ghosted after brining up date.
https://members.seeking.com/member/e965ee88-99f2-41ca-a723-49aa0a80a749
Erose87 - Very hot looking, but wants 1 K for intimacy because that's what her previous sugar daddy has set the expectations. May come down if taken on a lunch / dinner date.
https://members.seeking.com/member/68862e79-4611-42d1-ae51-7c72f6acfbf1
Peter Johnson
06-19-24, 17:32
Charlie - 1 K says her facebook groups are generous to know of how much a sugar baby should be gifted fairly.The market decides what is "fair" or not. Some of these girls are dumb as dirt.
Peter Johnson
06-19-24, 17:38
There are plenty of guys here who have the experience that girls who use those apps are actually scammers, they will string you along and eventually try to get you to buy crypto w / them, or send them gas money to meet, or whatever. WhatsApp is very big in China, I would be wary of an Asian 'girl' who wants to use it. Telegram I have found is more common in Russia / eastern Europe. I am sure there are exceptions to every rule, there might be good all-American sugarbabies on the other ends of transactions on these apps, but often not. And even if you don't do something stupid and send $, you may waste a lot of time. There are lots of SBs in the world. Spend your time where you can actually bang one.They are mostly scammers, as very few girls want to use an privacy apps, because they are both dumb, and paranoid. And if you are going to use a privacy app, use open source Signal or Session, not those other two that want access to all your phone contacts and history, etc.
TylerDurden07
06-20-24, 11:52
https://members.seeking.com/member/8759070f-64f0-4df5-9e9c-159f229f4d1d
Remember--YOUR time isn't valuable!
Airmantroy
06-20-24, 13:57
https://members.seeking.com/member/8759070f-64f0-4df5-9e9c-159f229f4d1d
Remember--YOUR time isn't valuable!Her ask is 800 per meet.
GoneForGood97
06-20-24, 22:34
Her ask is 800 per meet.Sorry, if I ever considered doing more than 500, then I'm smashing an early 20's model for an overnight. I'm sure these photos are from a few years ago, and her face likely shows her true age (especially with girls who love to tan or who smoke, the face always tells the tale). I know more than a few mongers will pay her based on those pics, but time isn't on her side.
Airmantroy
06-21-24, 09:32
Sorry, if I ever considered doing more than 500, then I'm smashing an early 20's model for an overnight. I'm sure these photos are from a few years ago, and her face likely shows her true age (especially with girls who love to tan or who smoke, the face always tells the tale). I know more than a few mongers will pay her based on those pics, but time isn't on her side.I won't hesitate to reach out to these girls that appear TGTBT, but like you I'm not going to pay a pro price for mediocre "princess" bs, 300 tops. I think I actually offered her 350-400 for the initial meet IF she hosted and she wasn't going for it. There are too many 8's that'll take 250-300 to fool with a 9-9. 5 for 350-400.
SaranRam1984
06-21-24, 11:36
Anyone seen her.
https://members.seeking.com/member/098e5268-4f3e-462d-8772-dffb3efebf90
The market decides what is "fair" or not. Some of these girls are dumb as dirt.To them the internet world IS the real world.
Sluuudgrif
06-24-24, 19:18
Been chatting with Leahsweet. Looking to seal the deal soon with a meet. Wondering if anyone has experience or knows damage?
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/b365bbf7130be8cf
So far seems legit but worried she's going to try to gouge me. TGTBT?
Been chatting with Leahsweet. Looking to seal the deal soon with a meet. Wondering if anyone has experience or knows damage?
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/b365bbf7130be8cf
So far seems legit but worried she's going to try to gouge me. TGTBT?How do you feel about your experience on SB? Anyone else want to chime in? My best luck has been off SDM LOL.
Sluuudgrif
06-27-24, 09:26
How do you feel about your experience on SB? Anyone else want to chime in? My best luck has been off SDM LOL.I've generally had more luck with SB than SA. It's a lot easier to use in my opinion. You don't have to worry about a recurring subscription if you're particular about charges. Just re-up on credits at your convenience. Also I've found SA to be extremely strict on their profile rules, what words you can say etc. SA will quickly ban you for the smallest things, including if they think your VPN is sus. I get TONS of spam on SA from accounts in South America or other states. Not so on SB.
LouisHernandez
06-27-24, 12:28
I've generally had more luck with SB than SA. It's a lot easier to use in my opinion. You don't have to worry about a recurring subscription if you're particular about charges. Just re-up on credits at your convenience. Also I've found SA to be extremely strict on their profile rules, what words you can say etc. SA will quickly ban you for the smallest things, including if they think your VPN is sus. I get TONS of spam on SA from accounts in South America or other states. Not so on SB.SDM has been the best for me. Less South American spam like on seeking. When I've created a SB "lurker" account with no pic / profile text, I get tons of likes and even messages leading me to believe much of the message generation is fake. I'm not saying all the girls on SB are fake, but many are and I think it's a scam to burn credits. So use that site intelligently.
Divorce was final today and I need to take it out on a young spinner. Offer is $4 for PPM or $8 for overnight for this spinner. I am sure I can counter with less. I have requested some full body pics. I don't want a hook up. I want overnight for extended pound town time. I will meet first for a drink for that visual test. Any experience or thoughts gentlemen?
https://members.seeking.com/member/c60b1916-d5e1-4c3a-b26f-004df0174f91
Or suggestions for a reliable overnight spinner or other?
Airmantroy
06-27-24, 16:06
Divorce was final today and I need to take it out on a young spinner. Offer is $4 for PPM or $8 for overnight for this spinner. I am sure I can counter with less. I have requested some full body pics. I don't want a hook up. I want overnight for extended pound town time. I will meet first for a drink for that visual test. Any experience or thoughts gentlemen?
https://members.seeking.com/member/c60b1916-d5e1-4c3a-b26f-004df0174f91She's fav'd me, but I've been busy with others that were closer to me. I was thinking 300 unless she is just a straight freak and No is not in her vocabulary. Congrats on the big D final.
Divorce was final today and I need to take it out on a young spinner. Offer is $4 for PPM or $8 for overnight for this spinner. I am sure I can counter with less. I have requested some full body pics. I don't want a hook up. I want overnight for extended pound town time. I will meet first for a drink for that visual test. Any experience or thoughts gentlemen?
https://members.seeking.com/member/c60b1916-d5e1-4c3a-b26f-004df0174f91
Or suggestions for a reliable overnight spinner or other?She fav'd me also. When I asked for an offer, that's when she said $4 and no backdoor and condoms, which is okay with me.
SaranRam1984
06-27-24, 17:07
She fav'd me also. When I asked for an offer, that's when she said $4 and no backdoor and condoms, which is okay with me.She fav'd me as well. Asked for 400 but she accepted for 300. Couldn't schedule for this week due to work trip.
Let me know your review, if you guys meet her.
Divorce was final today and I need to take it out on a young spinner. Offer is $4 for PPM or $8 for overnight for this spinner. I am sure I can counter with less. I have requested some full body pics. I don't want a hook up. I want overnight for extended pound town time. I will meet first for a drink for that visual test. Any experience or thoughts gentlemen?
https://members.seeking.com/member/c60b1916-d5e1-4c3a-b26f-004df0174f91
Or suggestions for a reliable overnight spinner or other?She's ghosted me a couple times. We agree to meet and it's crickets the day of; maybe because she's talking to you other guys LOL. She agreed to meet for $4 as well but couldn't host. I'll probably try and reach out to her again but in no hurry as I've got another one that's been occupying my time.
FYI, a couple weeks her ago her profile showed a boyfriend / husband and it was for them as a couple. I noticed this week, it doesn't show him but wonder if he's still in the picture.
SaranRam1984
06-28-24, 11:22
Another pic or video seller.
https://members.seeking.com/member/098e5268-4f3e-462d-8772-dffb3efebf90
2me4Looking2
06-28-24, 17:25
I logged in today and have a message saying my account is on hold until I verify my identity. I've been using this same account well over 5 years and now all of a sudden they are requiring this. I REALLY don't want to put my real identity on there because I don't trust their security at all, but I hate to lose access. I'm assuming others aren't having the same issue or people would be posting about it. Anyone else run into this?
FarFarAway
06-28-24, 18:47
I logged in today and have a message saying my account is on hold until I verify my identity. I've been using this same account well over 5 years and now all of a sudden they are requiring this. I REALLY don't want to put my real identity on there because I don't trust their security at all, but I hate to lose access. I'm assuming others aren't having the same issue or people would be posting about it. Anyone else run into this?I am not experiencing this on my main account. I have had this happen in the past, I believe in response to a complaint from a girl. I agree w / you not to give up personal info, it's poor opsec, so I just abandoned that account. Whatever it is that got them sensitized, you are better off without. Get a new profile. Hey, you can become younger.
Anyone know what happened to Nat? I was messaging her on the site last month but didn't get her number before I was went out of town for a few weeks. I see that her profile is now gone.
2me4Looking2
06-29-24, 10:30
Just wanted to see what has been successful for most of you when you have created a new account. Have you used a VPN or does SA even care if you do it from the same IP address? I just don't want to create a new account and then immediately get flagged and be out the money.
Thanks.
FarFarAway
06-29-24, 10:52
Just wanted to see what has been successful for most of you when you have created a new account. Have you used a VPN or does SA even care if you do it from the same IP address? I just don't want to create a new account and then immediately get flagged and be out the money..You need to make it as different as possible. New email for sure. New name, new patter, new prepaid card. If you can change your electronic device, you maybe change the MAC address of you can't change machines, log in from a new IP address (WIFI). New (fake) photos. Make the account and then wait a bit before paying the membership.
SeekingHead
06-29-24, 16:17
Just wanted to see what has been successful for most of you when you have created a new account. Have you used a VPN or does SA even care if you do it from the same IP address? I just don't want to create a new account and then immediately get flagged and be out the money.
Thanks.Download the extension called ghostery, it will remove all the trackers & cookies for a website. It's how seeking tracks your account & footprint.
https://chromewebstore.google.com/detail/ghostery-tracker-ad-block/mlomiejdfkolichcflejclcbmpeaniij?pli=1
LouisHernandez
06-30-24, 12:57
You need to make it as different as possible. New email for sure. New name, new patter, new prepaid card. If you can change your electronic device, you maybe change the MAC address of you can't change machines, log in from a new IP address (WIFI). New (fake) photos. Make the account and then wait a bit before paying the membership.Just to simplify things: Mac address is only readable on layer 2 which is your local ethernet. Once you go into the internet it's layer 3 (IP addresses) and nobody knows your mac address. So don't worry about that.
Email, pictures, try to make those things different when creating a new account. IP address not so much since even your residential IP isn't necessarily static.
If you are worried about browser fingerprints, use brave browser. Also with brave you don't need any extra "privacy" extensions b/c they are already built in.
Just connected with this little spinner; and, a hippy like attitude also, which I like. Before I started talking fees, anyone have any experience or recommendations for this cutie?
https://members.seeking.com/member/50cd7b94-eaff-43aa-9c94-57c3e7b1c7ba
2me4Looking2
06-30-24, 14:59
Just to simplify things: Mac address is only readable on layer 2 which is your local ethernet. Once you go into the internet it's layer 3 (IP addresses) and nobody knows your mac address. So don't worry about that.
Email, pictures, try to make those things different when creating a new account. IP address not so much since even your residential IP isn't necessarily static.
If you are worried about browser fingerprints, use brave browser. Also with brave you don't need any extra "privacy" extensions b/c they are already built in.I tried with Brave, but it immediately says I'm blocked before I even get to the login screen. It's a weird window I've never seen before. I ended up using Firefox and customizing all the per site settings so that it won't be allowed to track or store data. I'm going to wait at least a day before I pay for the membership to make sure I don't get banned. I've tried other browsers in the past, but always end up back on Chrome because of the image search extensions. Hopefully I can find something similar for Firefox.
GoneForGood97
07-01-24, 00:14
Just connected with this little spinner; and, a hippy like attitude also, which I like. Before I started talking fees, anyone have any experience or recommendations for this cutie?
https://members.seeking.com/member/50cd7b94-eaff-43aa-9c94-57c3e7b1c7baNever seen her but looks like my type. Over 30 so no need to pay a premium, especially if she's a true hippy. I think you can offer her 300 if she's able to host, or 200 if you need to provide a room. If you're charming enough that should be all it takes.
If she's just a "fad" hippie then she might push back, but since she's over 30 I'd cut bait if she did. If you're willing to dish out more than 300 you can find early 20's for higher, no need to spend college age SB money on a over 30's girl.
Peter Johnson
07-01-24, 07:55
Download the extension called ghostery, it will remove all the trackers & cookies for a website. It's how seeking tracks your account & footprint.
https://chromewebstore.google.com/detail/ghostery-tracker-ad-block/mlomiejdfkolichcflejclcbmpeaniij?pli=1Or use "Multi Account Containers" on Firefox and have a specific Tab group that Seeking opens in. It will limit the cookies and trackers to that one tab group.
For Chrome, I also use both uBlock Origin and Privacy Badger at the same time..maybe I'll add Ghostery in there too.
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