"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[TylerDurden07]

LOL she told me she's from Nebraska going to GSU.

When I asked why she chose GSU she said she researched it and found it was a good party school and "amazingly open as far as the sex scene goes. ".

I asked what makes it so open and she said "tons of bi stuff and the group scene is amazing. ".

I'm absolutely crying laughing at this point. So I ask if she's bi and if she's into the group scene. Yep and yep. "back when I frsit started having SDs I had my first 3 sum, which lead to my first gangbang. And I found that I really like that a lot!

Gangbangs! So she's a 20 year blonde girl next door who's loves gang bangs and has had "tons" according to her.

I asked if there were pics or video of all this hot action and believe it or not she said YES! But I have to see it in person.

So I said let's meet. She gave me an email address to reach out to her. An email address? No text? No snap?

Needless to say, I'm not emailing that.

Hmm, maybe I should put it in the gangbang thread.I ran into the same situation recently. After seeking advice here & in the GB thread, I was advised to stay away. I took that advice. The email thing is a red flag.

[TylerDurden07]

I did exchange some messages with fairy bb. But my license expired and I gave her my number to text but have not heard back.Babeeblues.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...b-76916f3d8a5c

A little chatting but it's been sporadic. Plan on moving her offsite soon just wanting to know what the $ is and is she worth the chase?

Exchanged several messages with her on the site, quite a few actually. But then, when I asked if she wanted to exchange #'s & text, she stopped replying. So that's my experience with her, for what it's worth. It may not be worth much, though.

[LaidLow17]

https://members.seeking.com/member/4f8676e5-4ffe-4e17-b87b-1f8f4b5e0336

Talk on the site, move to text. Tells me she's never met for less than 1 k. I guess I'm in the wrong line of work.

[TattoedDaddy1]

https://members.seeking.com/member/4f8676e5-4ffe-4e17-b87b-1f8f4b5e0336

Talk on the site, move to text. Tells me she's never met for less than 1 k. I guess I'm in the wrong line of work.I'd pay her the G haha.

[Member #6704]

I am sure this is discussed before! But I can't locate it. In seeking website, I have some women as "attractive member" and some still show profile name but can't message.

In which case they blocked me Vs the profile no longer is active?

[GoneForGood97]

I am sure this is discussed before! But I can't locate it. In seeking website, I have some women as "attractive member" and some still show profile name but can't message.

In which case they blocked me Vs the profile no longer is active?If they are "Attractive Member" then that person has either fully deleted their account or SA has banned them completely.

If you can still see their profile name but can't message, they either blocked you OR they "deactivated" their account, which keeps it around in case they want to reactivate it later. People often do this once they find someone they like and they aren't swimming in the sugar bowl anymore, but they can easily come back once things finish up.

[LaidLow17]

https://members.seeking.com/member/d15440b2-ce2d-4d9f-9b9d-c15f993caa69

Pic seller.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b0306e81-6135-4ebd-b203-dfbe2c45b2f8

Pic seller.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9b25903b-ebd5-4bf2-bc91-46cf15091280

Wants me "to act like a platonic sugar daddy" in front of her bf and "pleasure me in private" on the side. Might pursue but sounds like a lot of added drama. Quoted her 3, she hasn't said no but we'll see if I'm just being strung along.

[Jrody1]

They never tell you what you get banned for on any of these sites. This was before I ever said anything about sugar dating. It was just regular conversation on Bumble. I always tried to be polite and respectful, but maybe I told one she had nice cleavage and she flew off then handle, or who knows. I'm sure I'll get banned on there again eventually, because it's just a minefield filled with crazy women, and they will complain and lie about you, for anything.I got banned twice and it was due to messages I had in private on seeking. One chick that is actively attending Georgia Tech. Prefers using telegram. So I just connect a fake number or burner to it. Best to keep the convo PG-13 on seeking. I've also been banned for what I put in my BIO.

[Member #6718]

I'd pay her the G haha.Damn dude she ain't remotely worth that LOL.

[TattoedDaddy1]

https://members.seeking.com/member/9b25903b-ebd5-4bf2-bc91-46cf15091280

Wants me "to act like a platonic sugar daddy" in front of her bf and "pleasure me in private" on the side. Might pursue but sounds like a lot of added drama. Quoted her 3, she hasn't said no but we'll see if I'm just being strung along.Sounds like fun. Make sure you let us know how it goes!

[TattoedDaddy1]

Damn dude she ain't remotely worth that LOL.Depends on her attitude.

I got a significant amount of joy and I thoroughly get off on actually paying them. And giving a girl 1000 bucks and then her falling for me and chasing me around for two weeks that would definitely be worth the money! And let's not talk about the ego trip some of us really get off on having her ego tripped up!

[Peter Johnson]

Damn dude she ain't remotely worth that LOL.It depends on how much money you have to burn, but I can't see giving any 32 y/o $1 k. No way. Maybe a near perfect 24 y/o who was really my type, and made me feel absolutely incredible, but still that would be a tough one.

And I've only agreed on $400, three times in all my sugaring experience, but did give that last one $100 extra, so was $500 in the end. But getting beyond that has to be something incredible special, and you don't know how will be, going into it. And I really can't see repeat pussy being worth $1000. Maybe if I really got along with the girl and she went to Vegas with me for a weekend, but still she would have to be 18-24 and smoking hot.

If I was a multi-millionaire, then of course I would go higher, but I still can't see throwing $1k at undeserving girls. It just wouldn't sit well with me.


Depends on her attitude.

I got a significant amount of joy and I thoroughly get off on actually paying them. And giving a girl 1000 bucks and then her falling for me and chasing me around for two weeks that would definitely be worth the money! And let's not talk about the ego trip some of us really get off on having her ego tripped up!

If it is worth it to you, and you are getting $1000+ of value and entertainment and pleasure out of it, then we really can't disagree with your decision there. But her PMV (pussy market value) is much less than that.

[NewAnonymousName]

Depends on her attitude.

I got a significant amount of joy and I thoroughly get off on actually paying them. And giving a girl 1000 bucks and then her falling for me and chasing me around for two weeks that would definitely be worth the money! And let's not talk about the ego trip some of us really get off on having her ego tripped up!Giving a bonus $1K to a hottie who isn't demanding nearly that much might result in her thinking you walk on water. Paying a woman who thinks she's worth $1K PPM out of the gate is not going to engender any loyalty or service that's any different than the ones who are within the more reasonable market range of $200 to $400. Actually, a woman who thinks her open legs are worth a grand, IMO, is more likely to be an entitled beotch.

[NewAnonymousName]

It depends on how much money you have to burn, but I can't see giving any 32 y/o $1 k. No way. Maybe a near perfect 24 y/o who was really my type, and made me feel absolutely incredible, but still that would be a tough one.

And I've only agreed on $400, three times in all my sugaring experience, but did give that last one $100 extra, so was $500 in the end. But getting beyond that has to be something incredible special, and you don't know how will be, going into it. And I really can't see repeat pussy being worth $1000. Maybe if I really got along with the girl and she went to Vegas with me for a weekend, but still she would have to be 18-24 and smoking hot.

If I was a multi-millionaire, then of course I would go higher, but I still can't see throwing $1k at undeserving girls. It just wouldn't sit well with me.



If it is worth it to you, and you are getting $1000+ of value and entertainment and pleasure out of it, then we really can't disagree with your decision there. But her PMV (pussy market value) is much less than that.I am a multi-millionaire. But I'm not paying a thousand bucks for a SB hookup, particularly one that's older and less attractive than many of the early 20's women who are available. I might drop $400 or $500 from time to time for the crème de la crème to outbid some of those who stick to their lower monetary caps. But again, a thousand is out of the question. There are too many great options for less than half the price.

[SeekingHead]

I am a multi-millionaire. But I'm not paying a thousand bucks for a SB hookup, particularly one that's older and less attractive than many of the early 20's women who are available. I might drop $400 or $500 from time to time for the crme de la crme to outbid some of those who stick to their lower monetary caps. But again, a thousand is out of the question. There are too many great options for less than half the price.Same here I'm just north of $3 million & the most I have ever paid was $400 & if she wouldn't have been 4'9 she would have been a solid 9 to 9. 5. She was still a solid 8. 5 with a perfect face.

[Jrody1]

I am a multi-millionaire. But I'm not paying a thousand bucks for a SB hookup, particularly one that's older and less attractive than many of the early 20's women who are available. I might drop $400 or $500 from time to time for the crme de la crme to outbid some of those who stick to their lower monetary caps. But again, a thousand is out of the question. There are too many great options for less than half the price.Same boat! There are to many better choices to blow on regardless of the individuals financial status. I have never given an allowance above 600 a month. It is usually between 300 and 450. With the occasional pampering. Want a dress, casual attire, some boujee bits. I'll purchase it and it goes to their spot but there is a condition! Got to be a good girl and get good grades etc. Usually fuck with college girls more. Less nonsense but it's subjective with whom it is. Some are stupid too.

Chick I added to post was going to KSU and was on seeking. She was 18 and just graduated HS. Started college. Wanted 700 a month in allowance. Told her no and negotiated down to around 400. Reason. I don't want them getting the wrong impression. Every dude is going to give them this extravagant allowance. However what I do do. Is teach them how to make some fucking money with the money I give them. Up to them to accept that though. So it's a win win.

My main thing that dictates the allowance. What are you doing or providing that's going to benefit me? If it isn't much. Bottom of the barrel or average allowance.

Someone who is above 32 and average is not getting an allowance. Get a dam job is what I say to them LOL. That old. Come on now. Only pampering for them if they arouse my interest.

[Member #6704]

Same here I'm just north of $3 million & the most I have ever paid was $400 & if she wouldn't have been 4'9 she would have been a solid 9 to 9. 5. She was still a solid 8. 5 with a perfect face.Can't help but admire this forum and the group in atlanta. Everyone sharing their experiences and perspectives. I am really impressed with the quality of dialogue and feedback this group is generating. Wish I had this level of guidance in the seeking hay day! Oh wow.

[Member #6704]

Based on the great dialogue I am seeing here, posting here to poll to see how many of the members of this forum keep their profile pic public vs private?

I keep mine private but I wonder if that reduces some SBs from clicking. 99.99% of my SB connects are initiated by me.

[Jrody1]

Based on the great dialogue I am seeing here, posting here to poll to see how many of the members of this forum keep their profile pic public vs private?

I keep mine private but I wonder if that reduces some SBs from clicking. 99.99% of my SB connects are initiated by me.Keep it private. Only open it up to those who you're interested in.

[QuartJess]

Same here I'm just north of $3 million & the most I have ever paid was $400 & if she wouldn't have been 4'9 she would have been a solid 9 to 9. 5. She was still a solid 8. 5 with a perfect face.Just north of 3 mills. LOL. I need to step my game up. The most I've gifted is 300 $, and I usually stay in the 250 $ range. Lately, I've had older 35-plus chicks quote me 400+ to meet. There's just no way I'd provide that to an older chick. I have a young 19 yr old that I gift 200 $ per meeting that I've been enjoying. She's submissive, allows BBFSCIP and allow multiple pops when we meet.

[SeekingHead]

Keep it private. Only open it up to those who you're interested in.Also never use photos which you have used on social media, keep them separate.

[Rican2323]

Been speaking to this one recently and took it to text. Negotiating arrangements, but wanted to see if anyone had any experience with er. Any info is much appreciated!

https://members.seeking.com/member/020a3442-6be2-4094-a009-8e50c16c26ed

[Hits79]

Also never use photos which you have used on social media, keep them separate.I honestly disagree on this. Here's the thing, your images on social media is open to the world. Anyone can download them and use them. If you really want to be safe, don't use any social media sites.

I used some images posted on my social media site and if I ever get question, all I have to say is I don't know. My images are open to the public I don't who used them.

[Hits79]

For the life of me, I remember her being review her? Am I wrong, I think she change her profile.

[Member #6704]

Been speaking to this one recently and took it to text. Negotiating arrangements, but wanted to see if anyone had any experience with er. Any info is much appreciated!

https://members.seeking.com/member/020a3442-6be2-4094-a009-8e50c16c26edI talked to her. But didn't meet up as I ended up finding other options at that time. But I think she is real as she was DTF. Let us know how it goes. But always use caution. Meet for coffee first. No money in advance the usual.

[GoneForGood97]

Keep it private. Only open it up to those who you're interested in.


Also never use photos which you have used on social media, keep them separate.Both of these right here. I don't use photos that are on any of my social media (and I've reduced my social media presence by as much as I can), and I'm marked completely private, and only show my pics to ones I'm interested in after we've talked enough on the site chat that I know I'm still interested.

[GoneForGood97]

Been speaking to this one recently and took it to text. Negotiating arrangements, but wanted to see if anyone had any experience with er. Any info is much appreciated!

https://members.seeking.com/member/020a3442-6be2-4094-a009-8e50c16c26edI spoke with her onsite during my last site sub back in Sept and she mentioned her average meets are 600-800. Since I had another SB on the hook already I didn't bother negotiating, just never responded.

[DRickGiver5]

I honestly disagree on this. Here's the thing, your images on social media is open to the world. Anyone can download them and use them. If you really want to be safe, don't use any social media sites.

I used some images posted on my social media site and if I ever get question, all I have to say is I don't know. My images are open to the public I don't who used them.The problem with that is if the baby you're talking to can use that pic to find your social media then she can possibly find your real name. And with that she can possibly find out where you work and live. And if she is unstable or you two have a disagreement, then she can cause some problems for you. Especially if you two have already met. That's not the kind of headache you need, especially if she shows up to your job talking very wreckless. Because even if you deny, people will still wonder.

[DudeNextDoor]

She quoted me 500 and said she couldn't host. When I said 500 was too much if I had to get a hotel she said she could possibly host but we couldn't spend a lot of time there due to family coming by often. I didn't pull the trigger as I had met someone else.


I spoke with her onsite during my last site sub back in Sept and she mentioned her average meets are 600-800. Since I had another SB on the hook already I didn't bother negotiating, just never responded.

[DudeNextDoor]

This girl is a pro on Tryst and rubmd in case you are pro-averse.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6329b267-3973-4123-b24d-abdd6a7ae956

https://tryst.link/escort/damiana-aurum

https://rubmd.com/atlanta-ga/bc62d316-8828-4570-96b6-5fbb449e470e

[Roddee]

I don't think so. I've seen the pro and her face doesn't look like the SB on seeking.

Are you sure? Have you gotten her number and it match the pro?


This girl is a pro on Tryst and rubmd in case you are pro-averse.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6329b267-3973-4123-b24d-abdd6a7ae956

https://tryst.link/escort/damiana-aurum

https://rubmd.com/atlanta-ga/bc62d316-8828-4570-96b6-5fbb449e470e

[Member #6718]

I am a multi-millionaire. But I'm not paying a thousand bucks for a SB hookup, particularly one that's older and less attractive than many of the early 20's women who are available. I might drop $400 or $500 from time to time for the crme de la crme to outbid some of those who stick to their lower monetary caps. But again, a thousand is out of the question. There are too many great options for less than half the price.I totally agree.

I have seen a couple of chicks in their mid twenties who are smoking hot who can pull in that kind of money pretty easily.

But anyone, literally ANYONE that is 32 years old. No f'ing way LOL. Doesn't happen every day but I match hot 30 somethings on hinge and bumble. No need to stoke their gps ego with $1 k. Holy sheet.

[DudeNextDoor]

She used to use the pic at topgolf on her escort profiles but looks like she's taken it down. But if you go through her twitter feed you'll see it there + other pics of her in the same dresses she's wearing in the pics on her seeking profile:

https://twitter.com/DamianaAurum/status/1544028063654182912?s=20&t=Fh0i0KQmvQIxCfcOnq3ICA


I don't think so. I've seen the pro and her face doesn't look like the SB on seeking.

Are you sure? Have you gotten her number and it match the pro?

[CuriousVaMan]

I'm amazed at how some of you mongers are incredible sleuths, cross referencing SBs to their other social media presence and / or SW advertisements. Wish I were as skilled!


She used to use the pic at topgolf on her escort profiles but looks like she's taken it down. But if you go through her twitter feed you'll see it there + other pics of her in the same dresses she's wearing in the pics on her seeking profile:

https://twitter.com/DamianaAurum/status/1544028063654182912?s=20&t=Fh0i0KQmvQIxCfcOnq3ICA

[Member #6718]

I'm amazed at how some of you mongers are incredible sleuths, cross referencing SBs to their other social media presence and / or SW advertisements. Wish I were as skilled!Pros are pretty easy to spot by their behavior and language, without the need to cross reference other sites.

Finding social media profiles can be a fun skill game though LOL.

[DaRiv]

I spoke with her onsite during my last site sub back in Sept and she mentioned her average meets are 600-800. Since I had another SB on the hook already I didn't bother negotiating, just never responded.I spoke with this one a while back too. We actually have state and communication here and there because we kind of hit it off for my friendship standpoint. In the beginning she told me the same thing between 500 and 800 per meet. Sent me several pictures and videos. A few of them of her work. Because she was actually in the industry. If any of you are savvy enough you could probably find her. So definitely a pro. I just happened to know a couple of the same people she knows that have worked in the industry. I'm playing the long game to see if I can weasel in there without the crazy up charge. 😉.

[SeekingHead]

I honestly disagree on this. Here's the thing, your images on social media is open to the world. Anyone can download them and use them. If you really want to be safe, don't use any social media sites.

I used some images posted on my social media site and if I ever get question, all I have to say is I don't know. My images are open to the public I don't who used them.I found this out before I even discovered seeking after my wife passed a few years ago. I made a tinder & plenty of fish account, I included photos I had used on social media for my photos. Within a month I had two different people reach out to me & try to blackmail me. Both told me they would contact my wife who I was still showing married to on facebook, that I was cheating on her if I didn't pay them money. I blocked & reported them but doubt anything happened. Scammers are everywhere, so be careful out there.

[LouisHernandez]

I totally agree.

I have seen a couple of chicks in their mid twenties who are smoking hot who can pull in that kind of money pretty easily.

But anyone, literally ANYONE that is 32 years old. No f'ing way LOL. Doesn't happen every day but I match hot 30 somethings on hinge and bumble. No need to stoke their gps ego with $1 k. Holy sheet.I basically don't even move on 30+ year olds if they start talking about "arrangement" stuff before I poke them. Then I know I can drop $200 in their tip jar which is fine AFTER the fact. No way I'm paying more than that for most girls, but especially 30+. Get a fucking job.

[LouisHernandez]

I'm amazed at how some of you mongers are incredible sleuths, cross referencing SBs to their other social media presence and / or SW advertisements. Wish I were as skilled!Not sure how these guys are finding this stuff but here's a good chrome extension for reverse image searching:

https://chrome.google.com/webstore/detail/search-by-image/cnojnbdhbhnkbcieeekonklommdnndci?hl=en

[Member #6718]

Not sure how these guys are finding this stuff but here's a good chrome extension for reverse image searching:

https://chrome.google.com/webstore/detail/search-by-image/cnojnbdhbhnkbcieeekonklommdnndci?hl=enBing image search does a good job.

[LouisHernandez]

The problem with that is if the baby you're talking to can use that pic to find your social media then she can possibly find your real name. And with that she can possibly find out where you work and live. And if she is unstable or you two have a disagreement, then she can cause some problems for you. Especially if you two have already met. That's not the kind of headache you need, especially if she shows up to your job talking very wreckless. Because even if you deny, people will still wonder.This is some trickery but since it's so damn hard to get good photos of myself, I use MS paint to flip horizontal my photos before posting them on SA. It should be enough to throw off any reverse image searches, but I'm only guessing.

[Totalcsllc]

22 yr old Latina in Dalton. Talks a good game and will send nice pics. But ultimately wants you to send money. Could not get link to load.

[MrVmp]

22 yr old Latina in Dalton. Talks a good game and will send nice pics. But ultimately wants you to send money. Could not get link to load.Yeah, she made it sound like she wanted to meet, and got my number, but she never reached out. Really too far for me anyway, but she is thick and cute, so I was willing to set something up when time allowed. I think her profile said she was a teacher.

[Roddee]

Good job.

I paid a lot to see a high end'ish pro and got basic / okay service. I wouldn't give what she is asking for.


She used to use the pic at topgolf on her escort profiles but looks like she's taken it down. But if you go through her twitter feed you'll see it there + other pics of her in the same dresses she's wearing in the pics on her seeking profile:

https://twitter.com/DamianaAurum/status/1544028063654182912?s=20&t=Fh0i0KQmvQIxCfcOnq3ICA

[GoneForGood97]

Yeah, she made it sound like she wanted to meet, and got my number, but she never reached out. Really too far for me anyway, but she is thick and cute, so I was willing to set something up when time allowed. I think her profile said she was a teacher.Often times the girls in the more rural areas are willing to drive closer to you, since they are used to driving far out to do most other things (downside of living in a small town). Depending on the distance you may want to ask her if she'll meet you somewhere halfway between the 2 of you (maybe a local Starbucks somewhere between) or even all the way to where you are (though still get a hotel of course).

I don't mind meeting them halfway though, lowers the chances of running into someone I know in my resident town while I'm having coffee with a hot thing half my age LOL.

[AmpFanatl]

Often times the girls in the more rural areas are willing to drive closer to you, since they are used to driving far out to do most other things (downside of living in a small town). Depending on the distance you may want to ask her if she'll meet you somewhere halfway between the 2 of you (maybe a local Starbucks somewhere between) or even all the way to where you are (though still get a hotel of course).

I don't mind meeting them halfway though, lowers the chances of running into someone I know in my resident town while I'm having coffee with a hot thing half my age LOL.Yep same, all meetups are outside of my work or social sphere localities. Do not need any friends or co-workers seeing me having a good time with a hot piece in their early 20's.

[Roddee]

She recognized me and immediately blocked me. No words or nothing.


She used to use the pic at topgolf on her escort profiles but looks like she's taken it down. But if you go through her twitter feed you'll see it there + other pics of her in the same dresses she's wearing in the pics on her seeking profile:

https://twitter.com/DamianaAurum/status/1544028063654182912?s=20&t=Fh0i0KQmvQIxCfcOnq3ICA

[TattoedDaddy1]

I have been absorbing some of the conversations on here and I just have tp say, great content. And kudos to the honesty, does not happen often on the internet.

First I would like to address the opinion of GPS vs getting them to hookup for 3-500.I would agree with this providing you are looking to just hookup, there are some of us that get more pout of this than that. I don't need a hookup. I may be 50 but I can still land hot girls for free in their 20's. I am good looking and cool too be with so this is not why I am here. I want the lifestyle, not just hot girls on my dick, but the exchange, connection, dinner, shopping, traveling, great sex and of course the EGO trip. I get a lot out of paying them what they want and getting the whole 9 yards from them. Not talking them into a lower number and arguing with them about multiple pops LOL Each to their own but for me I want the red carpet if its available.

Next I am a 3rd generation OG and Millionaire." I have not needed money since I took jimmy's milk money in the 3rd grade." quote from "Departed" So I don't think your net worth is relevant. Especially since there is a difference between liquidity and someone that just rakes in millions and has nothing to show for it. Its all point of view. Easiest thing I have ever done is make money LOL I have seen people with a net worth of 500 k more liquid than people who claim millions. Just my not so humble opinion.

As for social media. I'm on none of it. No Facebook or anything. Its all fake, nobody is ever as cool in person as they are on social media. So I feel like its a waste of time. I have one pic on SA and write nothing about myself or what I want. Fuck 'them they can ask or fuck off!

None of this is meant to attack anyone just a point of view, and all points of view are distortions of the truth, so even mine is not that important LOL.

Stay safe fellas and thank you for being here!

[Jrody1]

I spoke with her onsite during my last site sub back in Sept and she mentioned her average meets are 600-800. Since I had another SB on the hook already I didn't bother negotiating, just never responded.This chick is literally on LC. So yeah.

[Rican2323]

This chick is literally on LC. So yeah.Damn really? You have the link to her ad? Would love to see that!

[Peter Johnson]

I have been absorbing some of the conversations on here and I just have tp say, great content. And kudos to the honesty, does not happen often on the internet.

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Stay safe fellas and thank you for being here!Yes, I have noticed that the sugar dating thread for other cities, here on USAG, is usually not nearly as good as the one we have here in ATL. Even the one for Vegas is relatively weak. We have a really active community in this thread and I truly appreciate everyone's contributions, as well.

I want to move to Utah, but what I would miss the most are the Southern girls, especially on SA. We really do have it good in the Southeast, at least if you like quality sugar baby opportunities.

For some reason I was browsing the girls in Perth Australia, and we have hotter girls here in ATL area. That is true for most places, although depends on your tastes.

[Peter Johnson]

Just north of 3 mills. LOL. I need to step my game up. The most I've gifted is 300 $, and I usually stay in the 250 $ range. Lately, I've had older 35-plus chicks quote me 400+ to meet. There's just no way I'd provide that to an older chick. I have a young 19 yr old that I gift 200 $ per meeting that I've been enjoying. She's submissive, allows BBFSCIP and allow multiple pops when we meet.Looks good and yes CIP in a 19 y/o is all you need. Definitely would keep you at least fairly satisfied.

[NewAnonymousName]

I have been absorbing some of the conversations on here and I just have tp say, great content. And kudos to the honesty, does not happen often on the internet.

First I would like to address the opinion of GPS vs getting them to hookup for 3-500.I would agree with this providing you are looking to just hookup, there are some of us that get more pout of this than that. I don't need a hookup. I may be 50 but I can still land hot girls for free in their 20's. I am good looking and cool too be with so this is not why I am here. I want the lifestyle, not just hot girls on my dick, but the exchange, connection, dinner, shopping, traveling, great sex and of course the EGO trip. I get a lot out of paying them what they want and getting the whole 9 yards from them. Not talking them into a lower number and arguing with them about multiple pops LOL Each to their own but for me I want the red carpet if its available.

Next I am a 3rd generation OG and Millionaire." I have not needed money since I took jimmy's milk money in the 3rd grade." quote from "Departed" So I don't think your net worth is relevant. Especially since there is a difference between liquidity and someone that just rakes in millions and has nothing to show for it. Its all point of view. Easiest thing I have ever done is make money LOL I have seen people with a net worth of 500 k more liquid than people who claim millions. Just my not so humble opinion.

As for social media. I'm on none of it. No Facebook or anything. Its all fake, nobody is ever as cool in person as they are on social media. So I feel like its a waste of time. I have one pic on SA and write nothing about myself or what I want. Fuck 'them they can ask or fuck off!

None of this is meant to attack anyone just a point of view, and all points of view are distortions of the truth, so even mine is not that important LOL.

Stay safe fellas and thank you for being here!Several of us (including me) mentioned net worth only because a poster suggested that maybe it would be worth it to pay a thousand dollars PPM to a sugar baby over 30 years old if he was a multimillionaire. We were merely pointing out that we don't think older sugar babies are worth that much coin no matter how wealthy you are. No offense was intended to anyone who is still building their nest egg. I wish I'd spent money on women more often before the last few years when I finally started putting some effort into the game. I'd have less savings but better memories.

[GoneForGood97]

I have been absorbing some of the conversations on here and I just have tp say, great content. And kudos to the honesty, does not happen often on the internet.

First I would like to address the opinion of GPS vs getting them to hookup for 3-500.I would agree with this providing you are looking to just hookup, there are some of us that get more pout of this than that. I don't need a hookup. I may be 50 but I can still land hot girls for free in their 20's. I am good looking and cool too be with so this is not why I am here. I want the lifestyle, not just hot girls on my dick, but the exchange, connection, dinner, shopping, traveling, great sex and of course the EGO trip. I get a lot out of paying them what they want and getting the whole 9 yards from them. Not talking them into a lower number and arguing with them about multiple pops LOL Each to their own but for me I want the red carpet if its available.


As for social media. I'm on none of it. No Facebook or anything. Its all fake, nobody is ever as cool in person as they are on social media. So I feel like its a waste of time. I have one pic on SA and write nothing about myself or what I want. Fuck 'them they can ask or fuck off!

None of this is meant to attack anyone just a point of view, and all points of view are distortions of the truth, so even mine is not that important LOL.

Stay safe fellas and thank you for being here!So, I apologize in advance if I'm wrong here. Your user name just looked super familiar, and I finally remembered why. Kids, gather round, I'm about to give you a demonstration on why you should never use the same user name on multiple sites ESPECIALLY on the pay to play site AND the site you post reviews on for those you pay to play.

A few months ago I was messaging this real cute blonde up in Atlanta, and we were chatting about the sugar game. She mentions that for the most part she felt like SDs were higher quality than the random dudes she'd find on Tinder, except sometimes you find guys like this: she then texted me the attached screenshots and said to me "Fuck this guy. What made him think I'd respond well to that?..I'm ripe fodder for doms that think they're too good to 'pay for sex'. I feel sorry for submissives that fall for that shit." Now, maybe it's a complete coincidence that this guys user name is the same as yours, and I apologize if I'm lumping you in with this guy if you're not him. But dude if any girl from SA Google's your user name and spells it out (and people will because that's often how I find these girls social media accounts, and I'm sure some of them are as good or better at this than I am) they will very easily find your posts here.

So lesson 1) Don't use the same screen name across platforms, even if you very cutely replace "too" with "2". This is the only place I use this name, no where else.

Lesson 2) Thanks to the way you (or this dude that is not you but just happens to have the same user name) approached this hottie, she jumped into my bed for cheaper than she otherwise would have because I wasn't a disrespectful douche. And for the record she was a fantastic lay, very submissive in the best way, but she was too far away for me to make her my regular. So selfishly thanks for being so bad at talking to women online they happily jumped into bed with me. However, the reason you're having to pay so much for "red carpet treatment" isn't because you're paying a premium. I promise I get the red carpet from most of these girls with my standard 200-300 arrangements. But you're basically paying an asshole tax. If you didn't approach them as indicated in these texts, you'd find you'd get "red carpet" experiences without the tax, and in fact I bet my next paycheck I actually get better experiences than you do while paying way less because my approach isn't. Whatever the fuck this is LOL. You do you, but don't delude yourself into thinking you're paying more for a better experience. You're paying more because you come off as a dick, and you're very likely not getting the best the girl has to offer. That's not to say you're not having a good time, you probably are, but I promise you've had some experiences that were subpar (even if you didn't realize it) and the girl was only putting up with you because you were willing to overpay and doing just enough to get you off and get done. But hell, if you're getting your rocks off with hot girls, do what you want. But in the spirit of giving guys in this thread advice on sugaring, this is textbook case of what not to do.

[GoneForGood97]

https://members.seeking.com/member/0f2b8da9-5011-4dab-966b-efadbd984c0c ElenaRP.

This one is closer to Athens, but the SB thread in Athens seems to be focused on UGA SBs (which makes sense) and I know a few of you are closer to Athens than Atlanta.

She's real, sent a verification pic. Negotiated down to 200, said she was open to "everything" though FS is CFS. Did confirm BBJ as well. However, she's too far from me to be a real possibility, and in my 4 days of having a sub back I've got so many potentials much closer I have no desire to chase someone this far out. Still if you're nearish Athens, take a shot. She doesn't have a car, and so you'll need to pick her up and take her whereever you go for your date. Good luck!

[FarFarAway]

Yes, I have noticed that the sugar dating thread for other cities, here on USAG, is usually not nearly as good as the one we have here in ATL. Even the one for Vegas is relatively weak. We have a really active community in this thread and I truly appreciate everyone's contributions, as well.

I want to move to Utah, but what I would miss the most are the Southern girls, especially on SA. We really do have it good in the Southeast, at least if you like quality sugar baby opportunities.

For some reason I was browsing the girls in Perth Australia, and we have hotter girls here in ATL area. That is true for most places, although depends on your tastes.Richmond was at one time the most active one, and I am sure the archive is still useful. I am in southern California, the LA thread is pretty active w / how-tos, and the mod, HollywoodGuy, is a master, though with his own peculiarities.

I'd challenge any of you to stack your girls up against those in SoCal. So many hotties, but also a lot of GPS. If I didn't have to worry about the SO catching me about the $, I'd have a hard time restraining myself with many of them. Like that earlier poster.

[FarFarAway]

Good job, GoneforGood97.

[KingHorama2]

The last few days posts have been informative and entertaining, especially for a newbie to the game, such that I am.

I am learning a fair bit from this forum and trying to improve my game, but all I seem to be finding is ppm asking for 500+.

I wanted to try and get a sense of the senior and more experienced members journeys. I just turned 39 and my NW is just over 1 mil. I started sugaring because my schedule is too hectic to meet traditionally and go through the rigamaroll of regular dating.

What age, NW and reason got you into sugaring. How did you navigate early on when you started and what lessons did you learn. And lastly, how is anyone finding SB's that don't bring up money? Every interaction I've had has involved them bringing up arrangement, ppm, or allowance or some form of payment.

[KingHorama2]

Been speaking to this one recently and took it to text. Negotiating arrangements, but wanted to see if anyone had any experience with er. Any info is much appreciated!

https://members.seeking.com/member/020a3442-6be2-4094-a009-8e50c16c26edI talked to her a couple of days ago and moved to text. Gave her my schedule and requirements, her response and I quote "My ppms have thusfar been between 5-8. I'd ask for 7+" After 9 was late night so extra for hosting and I couldn't stay for long.

She was pleasant to talk to, but ghosted her due to ridiculousness.

[Handle15]

Been speaking to this one recently and took it to text. Negotiating arrangements, but wanted to see if anyone had any experience with er. Any info is much appreciated!

https://members.seeking.com/member/020a3442-6be2-4094-a009-8e50c16c26edGreat lay, very nice / sexy / sensual person, treat her well. $500 firm.

[Member #6704]

Damn really? You have the link to her ad? Would love to see that!What is LC?

[GoneForGood97]

What is LC?Listcrawler. They own a few different sites (but all look like they use the same template) all used for escort classifieds.

[DaRiv]

https://members.seeking.com/member/0f2b8da9-5011-4dab-966b-efadbd984c0c ElenaRP.

This one is closer to Athens, but the SB thread in Athens seems to be focused on UGA SBs (which makes sense) and I know a few of you are closer to Athens than Atlanta.

She's real, sent a verification pic. Negotiated down to 200, said she was open to "everything" though FS is CFS. Did confirm BBJ as well. However, she's too far from me to be a real possibility, and in my 4 days of having a sub back I've got so many potentials much closer I have no desire to chase someone this far out. Still if you're nearish Athens, take a shot. She doesn't have a car, and so you'll need to pick her up and take her whereever you go for your date. Good luck!Bruh.

I hope you know that's NOT a female. Unless you're just into that sort of thing.

[FarFarAway]

The last few days posts have been informative and entertaining, especially for a newbie to the game, such that I am.

I am learning a fair bit from this forum and trying to improve my game, but all I seem to be finding is ppm asking for 500+.

I wanted to try and get a sense of the senior and more experienced members journeys. I just turned 39 and my NW is just over 1 mil. I started sugaring because my schedule is too hectic to meet traditionally and go through the rigamaroll of regular dating.

What age, NW and reason got you into sugaring. How did you navigate early on when you started and what lessons did you learn. And lastly, how is anyone finding SB's that don't bring up money? Every interaction I've had has involved them bringing up arrangement, ppm, or allowance or some form of payment.I am past retirement age. I started in 2016. I had never heard of seeking or arrangements before then. I am not too into the escort idea, it seems fake, and I am all about real. I have a SO, but health issues mean no boom-boom. Sadly, not the sort of person to give me a hall pass, so I have to keep it on the DL. All of my SBs have helped w / this, getting the hotel rooms we FC in.

There are many many girls on SA who are really just under the radar escorts. There are some who are looking for something more. It is just a numbers game. You have to send out a bunch of messages on the site and spend a bunch of time courting them. And I mean that, like you would someone you were dating civi.

[Hal1957]

How did you arrive at this conclusion? Granted, the main profile pic is a little sketchy, and 6'2" Hispanic is an Amazon, but I don't see even the hint of an Adam's apple.


Bruh.

I hope you know that's NOT a female. Unless you're just into that sort of thing.

[Member #6718]

So, I apologize in advance if I'm wrong here. Your user name just looked super familiar, and I finally remembered why. Kids, gather round, I'm about to give you a demonstration on why you should never use the same user name on multiple sites ESPECIALLY on the pay to play site AND the site you post reviews on for those you pay to play.Standing ovation for this post LOL.

[AmpFanatl]

Why are there so many 18-20 yr old women on SA only wanting to sell pics. And that's just the real ones, not to mention the scammers. The number is too damn high!

/ rant.

[GoneForGood97]

Bruh.

I hope you know that's NOT a female. Unless you're just into that sort of thing.I'm sure she was born a girl, but not your type clearly LOL, and that's ok. I usually just immediately block any trannies I see.

[LouisHernandez]

So, I apologize in advance if I'm wrong here. Your user name just looked super familiar, and I finally remembered why. Kids, gather round, I'm about to give you a demonstration on why you should never use the same user name on multiple sites ESPECIALLY on the pay to play site AND the site you post reviews on for those you pay to play.

A few months ago I was messaging this real cute blonde up in Atlanta, and we were chatting about the sugar game. She mentions that for the most part she felt like SDs were higher quality than the random dudes she'd find on Tinder, except sometimes you find guys like this: she then texted me the attached screenshots and said to me "Fuck this guy. What made him think I'd respond well to that?..I'm ripe fodder for doms that think they're too good to 'pay for sex'. I feel sorry for submissives that fall for that shit." Now, maybe it's a complete coincidence that this guys user name is the same as yours, and I apologize if I'm lumping you in with this guy if you're not him. But dude if any girl from SA Google's your user name and spells it out (and people will because that's often how I find these girls social media accounts, and I'm sure some of them are as good or better at this than I am) they will very easily find your posts here.

So lesson 1) Don't use the same screen name across platforms, even if you very cutely replace "too" with "2". This is the only place I use this name, no where else.

Lesson 2) Thanks to the way you (or this dude that is not you but just happens to have the same user name) approached this hottie, she jumped into my bed for cheaper than she otherwise would have because I wasn't a disrespectful douche. And for the record she was a fantastic lay, very submissive in the best way, but she was too far away for me to make her my regular. So selfishly thanks for being so bad at talking to women online they happily jumped into bed with me. However, the reason you're having to pay so much for "red carpet treatment" isn't because you're paying a premium. I promise I get the red carpet from most of these girls with my standard 200-300 arrangements. But you're basically paying an asshole tax. If you didn't approach them as indicated in these texts, you'd find you'd get "red carpet" experiences without the tax, and in fact I bet my next paycheck I actually get better experiences than you do while paying way less because my approach isn't. Whatever the fuck this is LOL. You do you, but don't delude yourself into thinking you're paying more for a better experience. You're paying more because you come off as a dick, and you're very likely not getting the best the girl has to offer. That's not to say you're not having a good time, you probably are, but I promise you've had some experiences that were subpar (even if you didn't realize it) and the girl was only putting up with you because you were willing to overpay and doing just enough to get you off and get done. But hell, if you're getting your rocks off with hot girls, do what you want. But in the spirit of giving guys in this thread advice on sugaring, this is textbook case of what not to do.I would say be "classy". Not necessarily nice. There's a fine line between nice and simp. Simps get nothing. And agree on usernames.

[LouisHernandez]

I talked to her a couple of days ago and moved to text. Gave her my schedule and requirements, her response and I quote "My ppms have thusfar been between 5-8. I'd ask for 7+" After 9 was late night so extra for hosting and I couldn't stay for long.

She was pleasant to talk to, but ghosted her due to ridiculousness.Here's a little jedi mind trick when they pull stupid GPS numbers. Say "I'll do $600 a week if we meet twice a week". Sometimes it'll work, and you've got her down to $300. I've done that for a few one and dones and it worked.

[LouisHernandez]

Bruh.

I hope you know that's NOT a female. Unless you're just into that sort of thing.+1. That's no broad. The height also gives it away.

[GoneForGood97]

I would say be "classy". Not necessarily nice. There's a fine line between nice and simp. Simps get nothing. And agree on usernames.Agreed, I very intentionally avoided using "nice" in my post. I don't simp, but I'm respectful and classy. It's amazing how quickly you can get a girl to go from boring conversation to full on sexting and nudes by just being respectful while being just a little flirty.

[LouisHernandez]

Agreed, I very intentionally avoided using "nice" in my post. I don't simp, but I'm respectful and classy. It's amazing how quickly you can get a girl to go from boring conversation to full on sexting and nudes by just being respectful while being just a little flirty.The whole goal and I sometimes get sidetracked on this, is to make them laugh within the first several texts. If you can't do that you're sunk. Once they confirm with a few "LOLs" etc, then I try to setup a meet.

[FarFarAway]

I'd challenge any of you to stack your girls up against those in SoCal. So many hotties, but also a lot of GPS. If I didn't have to worry about the SO catching me about the $, I'd have a hard time restraining myself with many of them. Like that earlier poster.Here are a couple of examples, both I saw long ago. You can find really nice girls here, w / great personality, who aren't as hot as these, but still way above average, and who you can hang w / for a while without having to tolerate the usual SB crap.

[LaidLow17]

How did you arrive at this conclusion? Granted, the main profile pic is a little sketchy, and 6'2" Hispanic is an Amazon, but I don't see even the hint of an Adam's apple.Lordy, that ain't a lady.

[HollaHolla321]

https://members.seeking.com/member/210c0e15-31da-4dcb-a776-3a8b081d2a3f

Just curious if anyone has got anywhere with this one. Profile is a few months old, and they don't talk like a scammer. Moved her to snap, she snapped me a live pic. When I asked for one with a specific pose she pouted. Normaly I'd immediately cut off and move on, but her chatting doesn't have the usual hallmarks of scamming, and she hasn't asked for $.AVOID! She snaps you pics to make you believe she's real. I asked her multiple times to send me a video to verify she's legit but she said she would charge me for that. I said okay I'll meet you. She stays in Buckhead. I want to the place she said she stay and she wanted me to cash app first before she came to see me. I warn she ahead of time that I would only do it once I saw her in person. Anyways she refused to meet me she actually share the location what she was in Buckhead but I wouldn't take a chance. I would say cash only and see if she meets than.

[Peter Johnson]

Here are a couple of examples, both I saw long ago. You can find really nice girls here, w / great personality, who aren't as hot as these, but still way above average, and who you can hang w / for a while without having to tolerate the usual SB crap.Damn, that second one is stunning. Totally my type. Was that a SB or escort and how much was ppm / donation? Share some more pics of her in the "Greatest Hits" thread, if you like.

[Peter Johnson]

I'm sure she was born a girl, but not your type clearly LOL, and that's ok. I usually just immediately block any trannies I see.Yes same here. Trannies get immediate block. I don't know they should be on that part of the site, but it's Seeking mgmt's fault, not theirs.

[FarFarAway]

Damn, that second one is stunning. Totally my type. Was that a SB or escort and how much was ppm / donation? Share some more pics of her in the "Greatest Hits" thread, if you like.I feel the same way. The first girl was a single mom, European heritage, and had experience as a kept woman. I couldn't really afford her long-term, but did a lot of socializing w / her and got one overnight date at 600. The younger one, what a hard body, and I do have more photos of her from that same shoot, but I was really rolling the dice w / that posting, I don't think I'll take any more risks. She was 19, and I think I gave her 300. One small disappointment, I got her off DATY, and then she became super sensitive, so I couldn't do any more, she couldn't really have multiple Os. She relocated from soCal to San Jose last I knew. Both were well before the pandemic. Both SBs. From SA. I am retirement age, so there's that. 😁128513;.

My approach is to be the nicest guy they've ever been with. Its really the only weapon I have. Also bedroom skill of course, but they don't know that when they agree. I read of guys on here who are getting hot youngsters at small money because they have a quasi-dating relationship w / them. That will never happen with me of course, I am 40 years older than some of these girls. So, you geezers reading, take heart. Get in there, you would be surprised what kind of girls you can pull off of SA, at least around here. I have also had great luck when traveling, recently did a trip to Chicago, scored great dates w / 2 mid-late 20's girls.

[CuriousVaMan]

Hey FarAndAway – I've enjoyed your comments on the Richmond board for years. Thanks for your many contributions. I too am an older man (62) and find no trouble finding some pretty awesome young things for extramarital activities – and I'm overweight. Go Figure!

I absolutely love the Atlanta board – great combination of intel and experiences. And since I have the opportunity to visit Atlanta several times a year, all the better!

Further to GoneForGood's comments, I remember a poster on the Richmond board within the last year or so who used the SAME name for his USASG profile and his real-life profiles. Apparently, if you Google your USASG Username with "USA Sex Guide" after it, your posting history is displayed in the search results. This dude got into a mess of trouble because he used the same name across platforms and was some type of kids' little league coach while coaching SBs. Needless to say, he was discovered. . . .


Good job, GoneforGood97.

[TattoedDaddy1]

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I know you like to think of yourself as some serious bad ass but do you see where it says "Report Post?" They talk shit, you report them, and I take care of it. If you don't want to do that then take stupidity like this to the fight thread.

FYI people don't "write" on your shirt tails, they "RIDE on your coattails." What it means is that they lack ability so you have to drag them along.

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[Hal1957]

Something is off here. Look at the door in the picture. I measured my door with the same design features and she appears to be standing about 5' 4", probably in heels, no way she's 6' 2". The person who took the picture was standing at least six inches taller or holding the camera above his head. Unlikely. If I was in the market, I'd TOFTT and give her a grope. Since no one here admits to actually having seen her, it's more likely she's HAF and no one wants to share. But that's ok, some of the best sex I've ever had was with SBs that others dismissed without actually sampling. And then you ***** ***** ***** about the scammers and flakes. SMH.


Lordy, that ain't a lady.

[GoneForGood97]

The last few days posts have been informative and entertaining, especially for a newbie to the game, such that I am.

I am learning a fair bit from this forum and trying to improve my game, but all I seem to be finding is ppm asking for 500+.

I wanted to try and get a sense of the senior and more experienced members journeys. I just turned 39 and my NW is just over 1 mil. I started sugaring because my schedule is too hectic to meet traditionally and go through the rigamaroll of regular dating.

What age, NW and reason got you into sugaring. How did you navigate early on when you started and what lessons did you learn. And lastly, how is anyone finding SB's that don't bring up money? Every interaction I've had has involved them bringing up arrangement, ppm, or allowance or some form of payment.I started in my mid-30's. I'm no multimillionare but I'm debt free and own my own home, but I don't think net worth is actually as important as seeking thinks it is. For me, Tinder and other online dating apps suck and have incredibly low success since I'm not an attractive guy (the Tinder reddit posts the first 2 rules of Tinder: 1) Be attractive and 2) Don't be unattractive LOL). I've been doing this a little over a year now and have scored a ton, found some really great borderline relationships, and much much prefer this to dealing with escorts.

Regarding not bringing up the arrangement, I've had it happen a few times, but it's very rare. The girl has to either 1) seriously like you over text and / or 2) find talking donation awkward and hopes you'll bring it up. During my last active sub back in Sept I banged out a cute kinky red head co-ed who just hated talking about it and so did not, but after we finished I gave her what I thought was fair (my standard 200 since I picked up a hotel) and she pouted, said she normally gets 400. I gave her an extra 50 and she left without any fuss, but later blocked me. So that's the risk you take. On the other hand I did bang out a 19 year old near the beginning of my sugaring who was just happy to go out on a date that didn't involve fast food, and didn't give a rats ass about $. So if you don't bring up the arrangement, it can go either way.

[KingHorama2]

I started in my mid-30's. I'm no multimillionare but I'm debt free and own my own home, but I don't think net worth is actually as important as seeking thinks it is. For me, Tinder and other online dating apps suck and have incredibly low success since I'm not an attractive guy (the Tinder reddit posts the first 2 rules of Tinder: 1) Be attractive and 2) Don't be unattractive LOL). I've been doing this a little over a year now and have scored a ton, found some really great borderline relationships, and much much prefer this to dealing with escorts.

Regarding not bringing up the arrangement, I've had it happen a few times, but it's very rare. The girl has to either 1) seriously like you over text and / or 2) find talking donation awkward and hopes you'll bring it up. During my last active sub back in Sept I banged out a cute kinky red head co-ed who just hated talking about it and so did not, but after we finished I gave her what I thought was fair (my standard 200 since I picked up a hotel) and she pouted, said she normally gets 400. I gave her an extra 50 and she left without any fuss, but later blocked me. So that's the risk you take. On the other hand I did bang out a 19 year old near the beginning of my sugaring who was just happy to go out on a date that didn't involve fast food, and didn't give a rats ass about $. So if you don't bring up the arrangement, it can go either way.Thanks for sharing. And I'm the same, not attractive, average looks and a little overweight.

Started working before I was a teenager so never got any female attention and don't have the gift of gab so full on uphill climb for me, but even the last few days since finding this forum, I've noticed my text game improve and rate of responses drastically go up!

Had a Latin / Korean baddie on the hook and invited me out without any mention of money or arrangement but work ducked me and lost her!

Have to give you all props! The info and advice you generously share definitely works.

[TattoedDaddy1]

Yes, I have noticed that the sugar dating thread for other cities, here on USAG, is usually not nearly as good as the one we have here in ATL. Even the one for Vegas is relatively weak. We have a really active community in this thread and I truly appreciate everyone's contributions, as well.

I want to move to Utah, but what I would miss the most are the Southern girls, especially on SA. We really do have it good in the Southeast, at least if you like quality sugar baby opportunities.

For some reason I was browsing the girls in Perth Australia, and we have hotter girls here in ATL area. That is true for most places, although depends on your tastes.I have a good luck at a great many cities.

-Las Vegas.

-North Carolina.

-Montana.

-Northern Idaho.

-Aspen Colorado.

-Northern Nevada.

-north west both Oregon and Washington.

And each of those areas I have a regular it when I'm in the area that they see me. I tend to keep in contact with people that I have good experiences with!

[TattoedDaddy1]

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Time for you to go, you're just gonna be one of those asshole drama queens that is always starting shit. I've probably banned you before.

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[HollowGuy]

Thanks for sharing. And I'm the same, not attractive, average looks and a little overweight.

Started working before I was a teenager so never got any female attention and don't have the gift of gab so full on uphill climb for me, but even the last few days since finding this forum, I've noticed my text game improve and rate of responses drastically go up!

Had a Latin / Korean baddie on the hook and invited me out without any mention of money or arrangement but work ducked me and lost her!

Have to give you all props! The info and advice you generously share definitely works.It's a mindset thing. I'm not as attractive as I use to be when I was young. I pulled them in. However my chat game has improved. I pretty much tell all of them I want them but don't want them. Sex only nsa. In s nicer way. They love that and it works for me.

I view them all like a car rental. It's nice exciting but let's not get attached you don't own it. So enjoy the ride while you can.

[LouisHernandez]

I started in my mid-30's. I'm no multimillionare but I'm debt free and own my own home, but I don't think net worth is actually as important as seeking thinks it is. For me, Tinder and other online dating apps suck and have incredibly low success since I'm not an attractive guy (the Tinder reddit posts the first 2 rules of Tinder: 1) Be attractive and 2) Don't be unattractive LOL). I've been doing this a little over a year now and have scored a ton, found some really great borderline relationships, and much much prefer this to dealing with escorts.

Regarding not bringing up the arrangement, I've had it happen a few times, but it's very rare. The girl has to either 1) seriously like you over text and / or 2) find talking donation awkward and hopes you'll bring it up. During my last active sub back in Sept I banged out a cute kinky red head co-ed who just hated talking about it and so did not, but after we finished I gave her what I thought was fair (my standard 200 since I picked up a hotel) and she pouted, said she normally gets 400. I gave her an extra 50 and she left without any fuss, but later blocked me. So that's the risk you take. On the other hand I did bang out a 19 year old near the beginning of my sugaring who was just happy to go out on a date that didn't involve fast food, and didn't give a rats ass about $. So if you don't bring up the arrangement, it can go either way.I never bring up arrangement and you just clearly articulated the reason. You gave her $200, which is my standard fare also. However everyone of these girls likely thinks $200 is on the cheaper side pre-banging. Post banging they've received immediate pleasure and rarely complain. If they request arrangement dollar details pre-banging, I'd tell them $200 and if they go GPS, then I may go $300 or try negotiation tricky like saying $500 a week for 2 times a week knowing this will be a one time thing. Then I get off for $250 or $300 for a one and done situation. New pussy commands some premium even for a cheapass like me, but after that it's value crashes like a dotcom stock.

[TattoedDaddy1]

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[SeekingHead]

A couple of guys have reached out about taking trips with girls & meeting girls from other countries off seeking. I've done this I met a girl from Russia & Romania, flew them into Spain when I was on vacation there for 3 & 4 days, both times I've paid right at $1 k. I had vetted both by doing a video chat on what's app before I sent them the plane fare. I'm headed back to Spain for 3 weeks this summer, & have been chatting with a couple of girls on a website called travelgirls kinda of like seeking but girls who are looking for guys to pay for their travel & some spending cash. Very much UTR types mostly who want to get wined & dined on a nice vacation. Also quite a few of them want to visit the US so if your looking for a girl on your arm while vacationing this may be a good site for you.

https://www.travelgirls.com/

[AmpFanatl]

It's a mindset thing. I'm not as attractive as I use to be when I was young. I pulled them in. However my chat game has improved. I pretty much tell all of them I want them but don't want them. Sex only nsa. In s nicer way. They love that and it works for me.

I view them all like a car rental. It's nice exciting but let's not get attached you don't own it. So enjoy the ride while you can.I am not in my 20's or 30's anymore and have the same mindset going into these interactions. Previously it was mostly looks, now it's what I say / do. Ironically I get more 18-22 kitty in my 40's than I ever did in my 20's, and more frequent.

[Member #6718]

A couple of guys have reached out about taking trips with girls & meeting girls from other countries off seeking. I've done this I met a girl from Russia & Romania, flew them into Spain when I was on vacation there for 3 & 4 days, both times I've paid right at $1 k. I had vetted both by doing a video chat on what's app before I sent them the plane fare. I'm headed back to Spain for 3 weeks this summer, & have been chatting with a couple of girls on a website called travelgirls kinda of like seeking but girls who are looking for guys to pay for their travel & some spending cash. Very much UTR types mostly who want to get wined & dined on a nice vacation. Also quite a few of them want to visit the US so if your looking for a girl on your arm while vacationing this may be a good site for you.

https://www.travelgirls.com/Interesting, will give this a try.

Seeking as a sister site called MissTravel.com which is similar premise. I used it for a while and while I met one gorgeous woman my own age where we had some fun weekends together, otherwise it was a complete failure.

[WillDuff]

My phone works fine but 3 days ago out of the blue I get this error message. I have reset password and tried a vpn. No answer from their support of course.

[LouisHernandez]

I am not in my 20's or 30's anymore and have the same mindset going into these interactions. Previously it was mostly looks, now it's what I say / do. Ironically I get more 18-22 kitty in my 40's than I ever did in my 20's, and more frequent.I'm 47 and maybe look 42. I've given up on the 18-21 group but I had some great times with them when I was 42. They are the very best if you can land them, but I'm just too old now to deal with all the randomness and flakiness from that age group.

[Member #6718]

I'm 47 and maybe look 42. I've given up on the 18-21 group but I had some great times with them when I was 42. They are the very best if you can land them, but I'm just too old now to deal with all the randomness and flakiness from that age group.I am 50 and only recently decided to dabble in this age range. A lot of flakiness for sure and I don't get as many responses with the bigger age gap, but damn it's worth it when you pull it off. My current one steady SB just turned 21 and is amazing.

[SugarDaddio]

Wondering if anyone has any experience with this woman. We have talked and texted. She is definitely a woman I am interested in. She wants up front babysitter money and this is something I don't do. Most likely a scam but just wondering if anyone has met her yet. If so then I may be willing to take the plunge.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e86e525f-b14c-4438-bd38-f1b6e77998a5

May the pussy be with you.

SD.

[LouisHernandez]

The phone numbers are starting to roll in, as I suspected things were just really slow during the holidays. I have a meet setup Tuesday with a spry 23 year old who has given very positive vibes so far so flake percentage is lower than normal. Have a few other phone number leads. The quality is pretty good so far and many have favorited me / messaged me first - all in the 20's range.

[Member #6704]

The phone numbers are starting to roll in, as I suspected things were just really slow during the holidays. I have a meet setup Tuesday with a spry 23 year old who has given very positive vibes so far so flake percentage is lower than normal. Have a few other phone number leads. The quality is pretty good so far and many have favorited me / messaged me first - all in the 20's range.Do you have public profile pic? Just curious how you got favorites and messages first. I keep my profile pic private and no pics on public profile. So I don't get any hits until I reach out to them.

[Member #6704]

I am 50 and only recently decided to dabble in this age range. A lot of flakiness for sure and I don't get as many responses with the bigger age gap, but damn it's worth it when you pull it off. My current one steady SB just turned 21 and is amazing.Wow, that's awesome. Well done!

[Member #6718]

Do you have public profile pic? Just curious how you got favorites and messages first. I keep my profile pic private and no pics on public profile. So I don't get any hits until I reach out to them.I stay private too, and don't have a public pic just privates. I have gone public a few times but I find 99% of the messages you then get are just scammers.

I will be honest I do have a couple of fake SB accounts just to check out the competition from time to time and it amazes me dudes that put up real pics in public on seeking.

[AmpFanatl]

I stay private too, and don't have a public pic just privates. I have gone public a few times but I find 99% of the messages you then get are just scammers.

I will be honest I do have a couple of fake SB accounts just to check out the competition from time to time and it amazes me dudes that put up real pics in public on seeking.I have found myself doing the same, seeing what our competition is using in their profiles.

Dude, I do reverse image searches on a few of them randomly. It's absolutely crazy how many men used their professional head shots from interviews, linkedin etc. Able to find their real name, and employment with a couple clicks. It just blows my mind.

[KingHorama2]

I started in my mid-30's. I'm no multimillionare but I'm debt free and own my own home, but I don't think net worth is actually as important as seeking thinks it is. For me, Tinder and other online dating apps suck and have incredibly low success since I'm not an attractive guy (the Tinder reddit posts the first 2 rules of Tinder: 1) Be attractive and 2) Don't be unattractive LOL). I've been doing this a little over a year now and have scored a ton, found some really great borderline relationships, and much much prefer this to dealing with escorts.

Regarding not bringing up the arrangement, I've had it happen a few times, but it's very rare. The girl has to either 1) seriously like you over text and / or 2) find talking donation awkward and hopes you'll bring it up. During my last active sub back in Sept I banged out a cute kinky red head co-ed who just hated talking about it and so did not, but after we finished I gave her what I thought was fair (my standard 200 since I picked up a hotel) and she pouted, said she normally gets 400. I gave her an extra 50 and she left without any fuss, but later blocked me. So that's the risk you take. On the other hand I did bang out a 19 year old near the beginning of my sugaring who was just happy to go out on a date that didn't involve fast food, and didn't give a rats ass about $. So if you don't bring up the arrangement, it can go either way.Thanks for sharing. And I'm the same, not attractive, average looks and a little overweight.

Started working before I was a teenager so never got any female attention and don't have the gift of gab so full on uphill climb for me, but even the last few days since finding this forum, I've noticed my text game improve and rate of responses drastically go up!

Had a Latin / Korean baddie on the hook and invited me out without any mention of money or arrangement but work ducked me and lost her!

Have to give you all props! The info and advice you generously share definitely works.

[FarFarAway]

Just to put a finer point on this, I presume what you guys are referring to is whether your profile is hidden from search. I. e. Private. Yes, I do the same. Women cannot search to find me cold. I must go to their profile for them to see mine. This is the way to go I think, for someone w / a SO. For most people, too, for the reason mentioned by another poster. If you can be found, you get a huge # of messages from outside the US, indeed likely scammers.

About the photos, I found photos of someone not too famous who I've been told I look like. I doctored all of them to cut off about mid-face. It looks like they could be my real photos, just that I am concerned about my privacy. I have several, one public one, and a few private photos, and then opening up "my" private is one way to communicate interest to a POT in between my paid memberships. I get likes and even messages from that, sometimes they even open up their own private photos, presumably based on reading my pretty complete profile. The only thing I still can't really get when I am not paid up is their contact info. Though I did have a recent situation, I had sent my burner # to a POT the last time I was on but I guess I missed her. She got back on, I happened to view her profile at the same time, and my number was there. So she texted me and we started chatting, she shared full photos that way (her photos on the site had the face blanked out). No doubt she is real, and I am totally good w / the fact that she is a little careful.

[GoneForGood97]

Hey folks, just wanted to see if anyone has spoken with Venus https://members.seeking.com/member/7ad11345-5bd4-467b-935e-6c16d66533d5 and got anywhere. I like her a look (I'm a sucker for tattood alt / goth girls) and it looks like one of her pics is in a strip club locker room, which means I figure one of you guys has filled her up at least once. What was the damage and how was she?

[SugarDaddio]

We had a very good chat on the site. Found out she lives in south fla. She never offered why she is on an Atlanta SA board. Maybe she was just blowing me off. Who knows. If you find out is she really is in Atlanta it would be good to know.

May the pussy be with you.

SD.


Hey folks, just wanted to see if anyone has spoken with Venus https://members.seeking.com/member/7ad11345-5bd4-467b-935e-6c16d66533d5 and got anywhere. I like her a look (I'm a sucker for tattood alt / goth girls) and it looks like one of her pics is in a strip club locker room, which means I figure one of you guys has filled her up at least once. What was the damage and how was she?

[LouisHernandez]

Do you have public profile pic? Just curious how you got favorites and messages first. I keep my profile pic private and no pics on public profile. So I don't get any hits until I reach out to them.Yeah I make it public, there's always a poker edge if they make the first move. I only pay attention to the ones that are local, and many are scammers / pros. I had one recently that seemed legit, went to text and she started the picture selling scamming nonsense. Immediately blocked her number / profile. I still find messaging first having the highest success rate if they respond back.

There are girls who keep their profiles hidden from public search and you potentially will miss them if they can't find you. I don't have a SO or care much about being hidden.

I only run 30 day subscriptions so I'm not "public facing" for very long.

[SugarDaddio]

Guys this woman needs money now and wants to meet today or tomorrow. She quoted me 300 off the bat with no attempt to negotiate down as I'm not available until Wednesday. I'm thinking for an immediate meet up you can get her lower. Best of luck and let me know if anyone was able to take advantage of her two day availability.

https://members.seeking.com/member/cf327426-31e9-4766-babb-316a5f485fde

As always may the pussy be with you.

SD.

[GoneForGood97]

Tinylittlepixie.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9562ece7-be67-4e1e-ab85-dc7fd8add858

Someone else here linked to her and I clicked the link. She messaged me unprompted within a few minutes of viewing her profile. Was very direct and went to snap very quickly. Asked for nudes and she immediately sent over her cashapp LOL. Told her I didn't do that but only meet in person cash only which she was fine with. We talked a bit about what she likes (I'm getting pro/semi-pro vibes), and she eventually asks about the arrangement amount. I tell her it would help if she's send me nudes to determine the arrangement amount, and she sent a few lingerie pics over. Eventually she said she's looking for 500 per meet but she can't host. I tell her that's too high if she can't host and she immediately goes down to 400 but says she won't do less than that, but I suspect I could move her lower. Was open to BB all.

I might could charm / negotiate with her more, but frankly I've already met 2 SBs last week that I'm happy with and both are less than that and host, so I don't really feel the need to push for more with her. Still she seems easy to land if you want to land her.

[GoneForGood97]

Guys this woman needs money now and wants to meet today or tomorrow. She quoted me 300 off the bat with no attempt to negotiate down as I'm not available until Wednesday. I'm thinking for an immediate meet up you can get her lower. Best of luck and let me know if anyone was able to take advantage of her two day availability.

https://members.seeking.com/member/cf327426-31e9-4766-babb-316a5f485fde

As always may the pussy be with you.

SD.The profile gives off scammer vibes. Brand new account, only 1 pic that looks like an instagram model, and very little profile info. Combine that with the "sense of urgency" she's attempting to create in her messages to you, and I bet a shiny nickel she'll ask for cashapp money upfront for gas or a babysitter.

[Member #6517]

I met my first SB candidate the other day. She is 30+, lives close to my place, has her own routine during the day and so on. We met at a coffee shop. She was hot. I wasn't particularly well-dressed because SO was around when I left home, it was quite early in the day, and I wanted to see her reaction. I explained why I didn't dress like I'm going to a freaking wedding. She sounded ok. We spoke for a while over the coffee. She couldn't get to the details since there was a dude sitting close to us. Said she was going to text about details. Never received that text LOL.

I suspect she was going to ask for a ridiculous amount and in form of allowance since she pulled up with a luxury car. I'm no millionaire yet, just your friendly neighborhood PPM guy.

There is one more in line that I'm trying to meet up but she is super late in responding to my texts. My "cross-hobby" experience and spidey senses are telling me that a potential meet will not be up to my expectations.

That being said, if you know of a 18-24 yo girl who is looking for extra cash and cool with ppm, please let me know.

[LouisHernandez]

I met my first SB candidate the other day. She is 30+, lives close to my place, has her own routine during the day and so on. We met at a coffee shop. She was hot. I wasn't particularly well-dressed because SO was around when I left home, it was quite early in the day, and I wanted to see her reaction. I explained why I didn't dress like I'm going to a freaking wedding. She sounded ok. We spoke for a while over the coffee. She couldn't get to the details since there was a dude sitting close to us. Said she was going to text about details. Never received that text LOL.

I suspect she was going to ask for a ridiculous amount and in form of allowance since she pulled up with a luxury car. I'm no millionaire yet, just your friendly neighborhood PPM guy.

There is one more in line that I'm trying to meet up but she is super late in responding to my texts. My "cross-hobby" experience and spidey senses are telling me that a potential meet will not be up to my expectations.

That being said, if you know of a 18-24 yo girl who is looking for extra cash and cool with ppm, please let me know.You have to consider one and done opportunities with a hot GPS. I suggest reading a book on how to negotiate, it can come in handy.

[Member #6704]

Unfortunately I can't share the link as she blocked me. But wanted to share with this group as you might have better luck than I did. Her profile is sunmoonsky. Experienced SB. Legit and latina. Late 20's.

If you have good luck, please post the details!

[Member #6704]

Anyone had any luck with this girl?

https://members.seeking.com/member/75599f78-90b7-4946-b859-3066670930f7

[Peter Johnson]

There is one more in line that I'm trying to meet up but she is super late in responding to my texts. My "cross-hobby" experience and spidey senses are telling me that a potential meet will not be up to my expectations.

That being said, if you know of a 18-24 yo girl who is looking for extra cash and cool with ppm, please let me know.Yes, you have to listen to your instincts and if something is off, just move on to the next prospect. And I agree that 18-24 is the ideal age range (at least in most jurisdictions). I just get more bang for my buck, and I can't think of any 30+ girls who really blew my mind, although many were very good, or great, and well worth the ppm. But I'm shooting for the stars now, and trying to have experiences that I will remember for the rest of my life.

I saw my 24 y/o again and gave her another 500, which is twice as much as I usually do with other girls. I've never seen a sb more than twice, but plan to see her again, although I may wait longer before another session. I am far from a millionaire as well, and I will likely need that $500 for food and shelter in several years, but sometimes just got to go for it, and worry about the rest later.

Actually I'm actually spending less than I did for most of 2022, when I would sometimes bang two girls in one day and six or seven in a month. It's good that I'm getting older and takes me longer to recharge to critical mass level.

But this is so superior to Bumble and all those old ladies (my age) with their sexual hangups. So just hang in there and be slightly picky, and you will have all the fun you can afford, in the sugar dating world.

[Member #6704]

Yes, you have to listen to your instincts and if something is off, just move on to the next prospect. And I agree that 18-24 is the ideal age range (at least in most jurisdictions). I just get more bang for my buck, and I can't think of any 30+ girls who really blew my mind, although many were very good, or great, and well worth the ppm. But I'm shooting for the stars now, and trying to have experiences that I will remember for the rest of my life.

I saw my 24 y/o again and gave her another 500, which is twice as much as I usually do with other girls. I've never seen a sb more than twice, but plan to see her again, although I may wait longer before another session. I am far from a millionaire as well, and I will likely need that $500 for food and shelter in several years, but sometimes just got to go for it, and worry about the rest later.

Actually I'm actually spending less than I did for most of 2022, when I would sometimes bang two girls in one day and six or seven in a month. It's good that I'm getting older and takes me longer to recharge to critical mass level.

But this is so superior to Bumble and all those old ladies (my age) with their sexual hangups. So just hang in there and be slightly picky, and you will have all the fun you can afford, in the sugar dating world.Hmmm. I like how you said it, shooting for the stars and creating memories. But there is a lot of flakes, pic sellers and rejections as well in this 18-24 range until you land someone good. But I would expand to 18-29. Because I found some good ones at 28 and 29 as well.

[BrownSugaTwo]

I believe this is her:

https://members.seeking.com/member/de094980-eb9e-4955-9d8d-6da6132a105e


Unfortunately I can't share the link as she blocked me. But wanted to share with this group as you might have better luck than I did. Her profile is sunmoonsky. Experienced SB. Legit and latina. Late 20's.

If you have good luck, please post the details!

[BrownSugaTwo]

I'm thinking possible escort and / or substance abuser. Does she look familiar to anyone?

https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/93c3df32-99b8-4ed5-9bc0-e8d89d83e018

[Peter Johnson]

Hmmm. I like how you said it, shooting for the stars and creating memories. But there is a lot of flakes, pic sellers and rejections as well in this 18-24 range until you land someone good. But I would expand to 18-29. Because I found some good ones at 28 and 29 as well.For sure, and one of the best I had last year was Kayla in Kennesaw who was 27 at the time:

https://members.seeking.com/member/5f3613f8-657b-4e2d-8be7-5a1f92b9470d

She hasn't been on the site in several months, and apparently is pretty much retired, but damn she was good. I just wish she would have let me take pics that one time.

[GoneForGood97]

Tinylittlepixie.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9562ece7-be67-4e1e-ab85-dc7fd8add858

Someone else here linked to her and I clicked the link. She messaged me unprompted within a few minutes of viewing her profile. Was very direct and went to snap very quickly. Asked for nudes and she immediately sent over her cashapp LOL. Told her I didn't do that but only meet in person cash only which she was fine with. We talked a bit about what she likes (I'm getting pro/semi-pro vibes), and she eventually asks about the arrangement amount. I tell her it would help if she's send me nudes to determine the arrangement amount, and she sent a few lingerie pics over. Eventually she said she's looking for 500 per meet but she can't host. I tell her that's too high if she can't host and she immediately goes down to 400 but says she won't do less than that, but I suspect I could move her lower. Was open to BB all.

I might could charm / negotiate with her more, but frankly I've already met 2 SBs last week that I'm happy with and both are less than that and host, so I don't really feel the need to push for more with her. Still she seems easy to land if you want to land her.Literally got a screenshot of this review from her less than 4 hours after posting this. Good job whoever sent her a copy of this. You're not getting laid for any cheaper LOL. FWIW she was cool about it. But you just guaranteed she's not moving off her 500 PPM now

Anyways, this is why I don't post reviews of my ATFs or anyone I'm actively seeing. I was going to post a link to my last SB's recent active profile now that she and I aren't hooking up, but I guess I'll wait a few months first. Not only are you not getting laid by the girl you sent the screenshot to, but now you're not getting good info on an active, real, eager, and fun SB. To quote a meme: Congratulations, you played yourself.

[LouisHernandez]

Yes, you have to listen to your instincts and if something is off, just move on to the next prospect. And I agree that 18-24 is the ideal age range (at least in most jurisdictions). I just get more bang for my buck, and I can't think of any 30+ girls who really blew my mind, although many were very good, or great, and well worth the ppm. But I'm shooting for the stars now, and trying to have experiences that I will remember for the rest of my life.

I saw my 24 y/o again and gave her another 500, which is twice as much as I usually do with other girls. I've never seen a sb more than twice, but plan to see her again, although I may wait longer before another session. I am far from a millionaire as well, and I will likely need that $500 for food and shelter in several years, but sometimes just got to go for it, and worry about the rest later.

Actually I'm actually spending less than I did for most of 2022, when I would sometimes bang two girls in one day and six or seven in a month. It's good that I'm getting older and takes me longer to recharge to critical mass level.

But this is so superior to Bumble and all those old ladies (my age) with their sexual hangups. So just hang in there and be slightly picky, and you will have all the fun you can afford, in the sugar dating world.I'm on bumble also and between the ladies all being old and requiring 3 dates before FS and then making you get a STD test before going uncovered, it's really not worth it. Then when the new pussy factor wears off you can't even climax. Not all will make you jump thru those hoops but on avg this is the bullshit you deal with. And it's not any cheaper if you factor in the TIME (number 1 thing) and the dinners etc before they will spread their legs. I digress.

[Member #6718]

I'm on bumble also and between the ladies all being old and requiring 3 dates before FS and then making you get a STD test before going uncovered, it's really not worth it. Then when the new pussy factor wears off you can't even climax. Not all will make you jump thru those hoops but on avg this is the bullshit you deal with. And it's not any cheaper if you factor in the TIME (number 1 thing) and the dinners etc before they will spread their legs. I digress.I spent over $500 on one chick who was older than me on Bumble, and she ghosted me. Fuck that shit LOL. This sugar shit is way more fun.

[HollowGuy]

Another Scammer.

We moved to text and she trys to scam didn't waste any time.

[Member #6704]

Unfortunately I can't share the link as she blocked me. But wanted to share with this group as you might have better luck than I did. Her profile is sunmoonsky. Experienced SB. Legit and latina. Late 20's.

If you have good luck, please post the details!I think I am having the best of luck. Joking but similar to "sunmoonsky" I will add.

"SMeadow" this is even weird. As she seemed real, exchanged numbers and supposed to meet for coffee. She is a and Gainesville. Confirmed 2 hrs before.

And then didn't show up. Blocked my account when I asked.

[TylerDurden07]

For the past 5 days or so, every time I've tried to log in to SA on my PC, with what I know is my correct password, I've gotten this message:

"Sorry we experienced an issue loading this content. Click here to retry. ".

I know it's not my account, as I've had no problems accessing the site on my phone. I've tried every trouble shooting method I could find & even tried different browsers, but so far no luck in fixing this. I emailed SA, but their customer service seems worthless.

Anyone experienced this before and / or has any idea how to fix this? Like I said, it affects my access only on my PC.

[LouisHernandez]

Hmmm. I like how you said it, shooting for the stars and creating memories. But there is a lot of flakes, pic sellers and rejections as well in this 18-24 range until you land someone good. But I would expand to 18-29. Because I found some good ones at 28 and 29 as well.+1. The prob with the 18-24 range is the flake rate is off the charts. So many times everything is great and they seem excited and then when the day of meet comes, radio silence. They are just playing you for an ego boost and never were serious. 25-29 there's alot less games: They'll either ignore you completely or if they talk to you are much more likely to meet. A 26 year old looks just as good as a 22 year old to me anyway.

Now 30+ you start running into either really trashy girls or super overpriced MILF GPS types.

PS: Just had a 23 year old flake the day off. Said she "needed to clean her house". Couldn't even come up with a good excuse. This is a girl who had sent several "excited to meet" texts the previous days. A few things I may have done wrong. When the girl is ready to meet, meet within 2-3 days. I waited 4 days. Get in there before she finds a better prospect. In this case I tried to schedule a meet with her sooner but she had to work this weekend and Tuesday was her first day off. Most likely this was just a time waster. It is very frustrating dealing with < 24 year old chicks. My attitude is to expect them to flake and be pleasantly surprised if they don't. That way I'm never disappointed.

Also it helps I had some good sex last nite with one of my regular SBs and tomorrow have another potential lined up. Always play the numbers game, never stop trying to obtain prospects b/c the vast majority are bust outs.

[FarFarAway]

+1. The prob with the 18-24 range is the flake rate is off the charts. So many times everything is great and they seem excited and then when the day of meet comes, radio silence. They are just playing you for an ego boost and never were serious. 25-29 there's alot less games: They'll either ignore you completely or if they talk to you are much more likely to meet. A 26 year old looks just as good as a 22 year old to me anyway.

Now 30+ you start running into either really trashy girls or super overpriced MILF GPS types.

PS: Just had a 23 year old flake the day off. Said she "needed to clean her house". Couldn't even come up with a good excuse. This is a girl who had sent several "excited to meet" texts the previous days. A few things I may have done wrong. When the girl is ready to meet, meet within 2-3 days. I waited 4 days. Get in there before she finds a better prospect. In this case I tried to schedule a meet with her sooner but she had to work this weekend and Tuesday was her first day off. Most likely this was just a time waster. It is very frustrating dealing with < 24 year old chicks. My attitude is to expect them to flake and be pleasantly surprised if they don't. That way I'm never disappointed..Do you speak w / POTs by phone before the M&G? I find this to be a very helpful filter. I mean, if a girl won't talk to me on the phone, why would I think she would get in her car and drive to a Starbucks? I don't even send my real photos to a girl until I have spoken to her and know I am still interested.

I still get flaked on from time to time, but by someone who is just irresponsible, not just young. Overslept, etc.

[QuartJess]

+1. The prob with the 18-24 range is the flake rate is off the charts. So many times everything is great and they seem excited and then when the day of meet comes, radio silence. They are just playing you for an ego boost and never were serious. 25-29 there's alot less games: They'll either ignore you completely or if they talk to you are much more likely to meet. A 26 year old looks just as good as a 22 year old to me anyway.

Now 30+ you start running into either really trashy girls or super overpriced MILF GPS types.

PS: Just had a 23 year old flake the day off. Said she "needed to clean her house". Couldn't even come up with a good excuse. This is a girl who had sent several "excited to meet" texts the previous days. A few things I may have done wrong. When the girl is ready to meet, meet within 2-3 days. I waited 4 days. Get in there before she finds a better prospect. In this case I tried to schedule a meet with her sooner but she had to work this weekend and Tuesday was her first day off. Most likely this was just a time waster. It is very frustrating dealing with < 24 year old chicks. My attitude is to expect them to flake and be pleasantly surprised if they don't. That way I'm never disappointed.

Also it helps I had some good sex last nite with one of my regular SBs and tomorrow have another potential lined up. Always play the numbers game, never stop trying to obtain prospects b/c the vast majority are bust outs.Yes, I have a 19 yr old that's sporadic with her text replies, but she always comes with a confirmation text the day we're supposed to meet. She hasn't flaked yet, so I guess that's a good thing.

[MrVmp]

Another Scammer.

We moved to text and she trys to scam didn't waste any time.Georgia, Georgia as a location means don't even waste your time.

[Member #6718]

+1. The prob with the 18-24 range is the flake rate is off the charts. So many times everything is great and they seem excited and then when the day of meet comes, radio silence. They are just playing you for an ego boost and never were serious. 25-29 there's alot less games: They'll either ignore you completely or if they talk to you are much more likely to meet. A 26 year old looks just as good as a 22 year old to me anyway.

Now 30+ you start running into either really trashy girls or super overpriced MILF GPS types.
I have to say I really haven't noticed it any better or worse at 18-24 than 25-29. I mean they are all pretty flakey LOL. But I would say all of my best SBs over the past year have been in the 20-23 age range. I had TWO 23 year olds that were happy to just hang out and fuck, no allowance even LOL. And we did a lot many times.

Maybe I am getting too spoiled and a bit LEO DiCaprio but I am starting to see a difference between 25+ and a 20 yo, and I am always preferring the 20 yo LOL.

30+ and it's game over for me. I can find those chicks on Bumble. Yeah it may take the same money in dinners and whatnot but frankly if you're 30+ and looking for a sugar daddy you're either a pro or washed up hag.

[LouisHernandez]

I have to say I really haven't noticed it any better or worse at 18-24 than 25-29. I mean they are all pretty flakey LOL. But I would say all of my best SBs over the past year have been in the 20-23 age range. I had TWO 23 year olds that were happy to just hang out and fuck, no allowance even LOL. And we did a lot many times.

Maybe I am getting too spoiled and a bit LEO DiCaprio but I am starting to see a difference between 25+ and a 20 yo, and I am always preferring the 20 yo LOL.

30+ and it's game over for me. I can find those chicks on Bumble. Yeah it may take the same money in dinners and whatnot but frankly if you're 30+ and looking for a sugar daddy you're either a pro or washed up hag.That's very valid. Over 30 is stupid. I just have a really tough time at 47 getting anything under 22 now but I shouldn't summarily dismiss them.

[LouisHernandez]

Do you speak w / POTs by phone before the M&G? I find this to be a very helpful filter. I mean, if a girl won't talk to me on the phone, why would I think she would get in her car and drive to a Starbucks? I don't even send my real photos to a girl until I have spoken to her and know I am still interested.

I still get flaked on from time to time, but by someone who is just irresponsible, not just young. Overslept, etc.No and I've landed plenty under 22's throughout my SA career. My game may be off. I think I need to send them a vetted pic a day before the meet to keep them interested or something. The one today who flaked I probably could have played a little differently but she could also just been a retard time waster.

[MilfHunter818]

I had this problem using chrome. I switched to edge and was able to login just fine.


For the past 5 days or so, every time I've tried to log in to SA on my PC, with what I know is my correct password, I've gotten this message:

"Sorry we experienced an issue loading this content. Click here to retry. ".

I know it's not my account, as I've had no problems accessing the site on my phone. I've tried every trouble shooting method I could find & even tried different browsers, but so far no luck in fixing this. I emailed SA, but their customer service seems worthless.

Anyone experienced this before and / or has any idea how to fix this? Like I said, it affects my access only on my PC.

[FarFarAway]

Having good operational security is key to keeping your identity safe from a SB, and eliminating any possibility of blow back from a failed sugar relationship, extortion attempts, and possible exposure to a SO. I without fail remove my license plate before a M&G. I can usually arrange the meeting spot so I can do this across a big parking lot, so I am not really driving plate less on public roads. In California they don't care much about this anyway, but in other jurisdictions YMMV, literally. One other thing I have done is put black electrical tape across the last part of the VIN, which is visible on the lower left of my windshield. Having a VIN is just about as good as a plate # for identifying someone based on their vehicle.

There is at least one website where you can provide a plate # or VIN and, for $40, get the registration of the vehicle. I have used this a couple of times to identify SBs I was seeing, but of course they could do the same in reverse. Some SBs may also go to the trouble of getting a 'friend' in LE to run your car.

I have as a main goal at a M&G to get the POT into my car 'for more private discussion of sensitive topics'. There I can touch her if the vibe suggests she is receptive, and with appropriate preamble, I always try to get the girl to kiss me. One can always wonder if a girl is really interested in or even willing to bang someone 20,30, even 40 years her senior (I admit to being a geezer). I figure if she won't kiss me at the M&G, there's no damn way she is going to meet at the FC. I also typically rely on the girl to book the room for us, which reduces the risk of discovery for me. If things feel right at the M&G, I will even advance a girl cash that will cover the room, so she knows she isn't going to be stiffed by me. It is a show of good faith on my part, and only a couple of times has the girl not delivered. I guess I can claim to be a good judge of character / choosing wisely.

[LouisHernandez]

Anyone tried any other sites besides SA recently? The male to female ratio is nothing like it was even a few years ago, which is slowly turning SA into another vanilla dating app where the girls get so many messages and so many "pseudo" options that the flake rate is getting unbearable. The site is getting away from its core mission of sugar dating with the new "datingup" name change. I miss the good ole days. I know about secretbenefits.com but that site has been thoroughly discredited as a rinser / scam site. Too many phony profiles and phony messages from fake accounts being sent to try to drain your credits.

On SA I'd say half of the profiles are just straight up fake, and another 25% are just time waster / cashapp scammers. Maybe only 25% of the girls on there are real and of those maybe half of them are actually willing to meet up.

Wondering what else is out there. My subscription on seeking is about to end soon and this may finally be my last hurrah. Just not worth the amount of time and effort anymore.

On an unrelated note and thinking outside the box: I'm into fitness and considering as a side gig to be a part time personal trainer. The certification test takes about 3-6 months to prepare/study and complete. I can pick whatever hours I want and even try to pick my clients since I don't need the money. So many times I see hot young women dripping wet literally when some dude is training them. I had a friend back in the day who did that and every month he was dating some hot young piece of ass, all personal training clients.

[FarFarAway]

All sugar babies are local. The ones in Atlanta are different than those around me.

Long ago, I met someone special on the site Established Men. I even posted a photo of her hotness on the Richmond thread recently. I saw her on SA after we stopped dating also. There is a lot of cross listing. Back then, Established Men was OK, I know nothing about it now.

[SoonerFan72]

Anyone tried any other sites besides SA recently? The male to female ratio is nothing like it was even a few years ago, which is slowly turning SA into another vanilla dating app where the girls get so many messages and so many "pseudo" options that the flake rate is getting unbearable. The site is getting away from its core mission of sugar dating with the new "datingup" name change. I miss the good ole days. I know about secretbenefits.com but that site has been thoroughly discredited as a rinser / scam site. Too many phony profiles and phony messages from fake accounts being sent to try to drain your credits.

On SA I'd say half of the profiles are just straight up fake, and another 25% are just time waster / cashapp scammers. Maybe only 25% of the girls on there are real and of those maybe half of them are actually willing to meet up.

Wondering what else is out there. My subscription on seeking is about to end soon and this may finally be my last hurrah. Just not worth the amount of time and effort anymore.

On an unrelated note and thinking outside the box: I'm into fitness and considering as a side gig to be a part time personal trainer. The certification test takes about 3-6 months to prepare/study and complete. I can pick whatever hours I want and even try to pick my clients since I don't need the money. So many times I see hot young women dripping wet literally when some dude is training them. I had a friend back in the day who did that and every month he was dating some hot young piece of ass, all personal training clients.I've had a little success with Sugar Daddy Meet (www.sugardaddymeet.com). I know a few others on here has as well. Not quite as much traffic, and you still have fakes and flakes, but success can be had if you put some work into it. And its cheaper, $90 gets you 3 months.

[OutsideProof]

I had this problem using chrome. I switched to edge and was able to login just fine.I did the same as the milfhunter.

[LouisHernandez]

Finally got a piece of ass. 28 year old, not too thick but with a nice ass. Went straight to her place and after a 15 min intro went to town.

Her profile was pretty UTR, one pic with no face and then shared private pics. Took some prodding to get her share her private pics. I'm finding now the only success is with a UTR with bad photos and just hope she looks better in person. She looked better in person.

I'll keep this one going for a while as she's into BBFS CIP for $200. I'm pretty much done with my search for this subscription. I've never had it this tough before. So many fucking flakes. Even after getting numbers they go dark for no reason after a few messages. The seeking heydays aren't just over, they are long gone. This is a an insane amount of work and I was close to coming with nothing at all.

[Member #6718]

Finally got a piece of ass. 28 year old, not too thick but with a nice ass. Went straight to her place and after a 15 min intro went to town.

Her profile was pretty UTR, one pic with no face and then shared private pics. Took some prodding to get her share her private pics. I'm finding now the only success is with a UTR with bad photos and just hope she looks better in person. She looked better in person.

I'll keep this one going for a while as she's into BBFS CIP for $200. I'm pretty much done with my search for this subscription. I've never had it this tough before. So many fucking flakes. Even after getting numbers they go dark for no reason after a few messages. The seeking heydays aren't just over, they are long gone. This is a an insane amount of work and I was close to coming with nothing at all.It's a fair bit of work man but it's not that bad out there. In 2022 I pretty much averaged one new chick per week. Many were one offs but several where it has been a good ongoing relationship. There is a lot of weeding and sifting to be done, but the rewards are still great.

[LouisHernandez]

It's a fair bit of work man but it's not that bad out there. In 2022 I pretty much averaged one new chick per week. Many were one offs but several where it has been a good ongoing relationship. There is a lot of weeding and sifting to be done, but the rewards are still great.Well I'm in Denver, maybe ATL is better. Denver was great up until the Chinese flu hit and since it's never been the same. The ratio is just really bad. I send messages to many girls who won't reply and they aren't anything particularly special. Before 2019 it was like shooting fish in a barrel. I landed some incredible young pussy on seeking pre 2019 with little to no effort. I think too many California dudes moved here or something.

[Member #6704]

Anyone tried any other sites besides SA recently? The male to female ratio is nothing like it was even a few years ago, which is slowly turning SA into another vanilla dating app where the girls get so many messages and so many "pseudo" options that the flake rate is getting unbearable. The site is getting away from its core mission of sugar dating with the new "datingup" name change. I miss the good ole days. I know about secretbenefits.com but that site has been thoroughly discredited as a rinser / scam site. Too many phony profiles and phony messages from fake accounts being sent to try to drain your credits.

On SA I'd say half of the profiles are just straight up fake, and another 25% are just time waster / cashapp scammers. Maybe only 25% of the girls on there are real and of those maybe half of them are actually willing to meet up.

Wondering what else is out there. My subscription on seeking is about to end soon and this may finally be my last hurrah. Just not worth the amount of time and effort anymore.

On an unrelated note and thinking outside the box: I'm into fitness and considering as a side gig to be a part time personal trainer. The certification test takes about 3-6 months to prepare/study and complete. I can pick whatever hours I want and even try to pick my clients since I don't need the money. So many times I see hot young women dripping wet literally when some dude is training them. I had a friend back in the day who did that and every month he was dating some hot young piece of ass, all personal training clients.Funny I was thinking the same. Personal trainer route. But that means I need to get in shape!! Curious what age is your friend who was hooking up with girls from the gym? But that's true I had personal trainer friend as well but he was early 40's.

[WillDuff]

I had this problem using chrome. I switched to edge and was able to login just fine.I had the same problem from Saturday to night before last. I found that I needed to install the last Chrome update. That fixed it.

[Member #6718]

Well I'm in Denver, maybe ATL is better. Denver was great up until the Chinese flu hit and since it's never been the same. The ratio is just really bad. I send messages to many girls who won't reply and they aren't anything particularly special. Before 2019 it was like shooting fish in a barrel. I landed some incredible young pussy on seeking pre 2019 with little to no effort. I think too many California dudes moved here or something.I have been looking at Denver because I will be skiing there a few weeks over winter. The pickings look terrible there I have to say.

[LaidLow17]

https://members.seeking.com/member/b358a83b-98dc-4ef7-afe5-2a9e1b628017

Don't even know why I'm surprised anymore.

[FarFarAway]

I don't understand some of the profiles I see, where the girls want to travel, sometimes big overseas trips. That is definitely going to involve both parties knowing each other's real identities, with all the risks that entails. It is sort of an understood aspect of arrangements that the guy gets to keep his anonymity, and for the married SDs (supposedly about 40% of the men on seeking) that is a foregone conclusion. It is a rare SD who reveals his actual full name to a SB. So what is this from the girls? Is it just a pleasant fiction, lies SBs and SDs tell one another that puts a spin on a relationship that may really be more sordid? I guess I'd like to have a SB who has a brain and some worldly experience, including travel, but that doesn't mean I am taking them on a trip with me.

That being said, I have a bowl buddy who is on here (this thread) but rarely posts, he had a long-term (years) SB who did eventually find out his real name. Now, they were committed, he nearly threw over his whole life for her, and he took her to Europe. How he was able to swing this having a SO I was never able to figure out, but he definitely was a magician as far as SDs are concerned. For most of us, I don't see how this could work.

I have a trip coming up to Vegas, part of the time I'll be there alone, some of the girls I see on my local SA mention they spend time in Vegas; now, I could see hooking up w / one of those and having a great time. Safely.

[TylerDurden07]

"I don't understand some of the profiles I see, where the girls want to travel, sometimes big overseas trips. That is definitely going to involve both parties knowing each other's real identities, with all the risks that entails. It is sort of an understood aspect of arrangements that the guy gets to keep his anonymity, and for the married SDs (supposedly about 40% of the men on seeking) that is a foregone conclusion. It is a rare SD who reveals his actual full name to a SB. So what is this from the girls? Is it just a pleasant fiction, lies SBs and SDs tell one another that puts a spin on a relationship that may really be more sordid? I guess I'd like to have a SB who has a brain and some worldly experience, including travel, but that doesn't mean I am taking them on a trip with me."

I've had 8-9 long-term babies over the last couple of decades & all of them have accompanied me on at least one trip. Of course, these trips occurred well into the relationship so no, they weren't learning my full name within the first handful of dates. I can't think of any trip that I took with any of them that wasn't great, to varying degrees. For me, the young lady must prove to me she's trustworthy & then in turn I have to be able to trust myself that I did my homework on her properly.

This lifestyle carries a certain amount of risk. Someone who is averse to risks of any kind is not going to get the most of out of this lifestyle that they could otherwise be getting.

Honest disclaimer, though: I am not married & have no SO. If I did, then sure, my analysis would indeed be more cautious on this.

[Member #6718]

I don't understand some of the profiles I see, where the girls want to travel, sometimes big overseas trips. That is definitely going to involve both parties knowing each other's real identities, with all the risks that entails. It is sort of an understood aspect of arrangements that the guy gets to keep his anonymity, and for the married SDs (supposedly about 40% of the men on seeking) that is a foregone conclusion. It is a rare SD who reveals his actual full name to a SB. So what is this from the girls? Is it just a pleasant fiction, lies SBs and SDs tell one another that puts a spin on a relationship that may really be more sordid? I guess I'd like to have a SB who has a brain and some worldly experience, including travel, but that doesn't mean I am taking them on a trip with me.
I am single. I have taken SBs all over the USA and over the world. It is a helluva lot of fun going to London or Vail as a 50 yo with a hot 23 yo coming along for the ride.

[PornRider]

So I connected with a girl on SB, who asked me for a $300 eBay gift card. I've never met anyone who's asked for that before instead of cash or Venmo before.

It feels kinda shady. Is this a new scam that I've never heard of before or has anyone else done this successfully?

This is the girl's profile on Seeking:

https://members.seeking.com/member/f0786bac-6441-42de-814c-f3ca2b812e07

She doesn't have much on her profile and signed up recently, which usually is a red flag for me.

[LouisHernandez]

Funny I was thinking the same. Personal trainer route. But that means I need to get in shape!! Curious what age is your friend who was hooking up with girls from the gym? But that's true I had personal trainer friend as well but he was early 40's.This was a long time ago. He was in his late 20's at the time. I've been researching the personal training business a bit. You do need to be in good shape for obvious reasons. Remember the client chooses the trainer but if you are doing it as a side gig, you can sort of pick the clients you want. I would only train females and ones who are under a certain age. That might be a little tricky if a gym tried to match me up with some middle aged woman or some fairy dude.

Relying on seeking exclusively is just not a tenable option anymore. Anything that was this easy for a time was never going to last forever.

[LouisHernandez]

I have been looking at Denver because I will be skiing there a few weeks over winter. The pickings look terrible there I have to say.Yeah well you'd be correct. Colorado had the weed thing going for it and a lot of young girls moved here b / c it was legal here and nowhere else. Now that the novelty of that stupid drug has worn off and it's defacto legal everywhere, Denver is now an unaffordable metro area with too many dudes running around and not enough girls. I like all the amenities here like skiing and the outdoor stuff but this is not the place to get young hot pussy unless you are over 6'0 with plenty of coin. Seeking.com is dead here I know that much.

[Member #6704]

So I connected with a girl on SB, who asked me for a $300 eBay gift card. I've never met anyone who's asked for that before instead of cash or Venmo before.

It feels kinda shady. Is this a new scam that I've never heard of before or has anyone else done this successfully?

This is the girl's profile on Seeking:

https://members.seeking.com/member/f0786bac-6441-42de-814c-f3ca2b812e07

She doesn't have much on her profile and signed up recently, which usually is a red flag for me.Location Georgia, Georgia is a red flag!!

[Dawgins]

Watch out ya'll. She's all glammed up and out to rip you a new one.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a8372b6e-c158-4e20-afba-3878860b9a4f

[GoneForGood97]

So I connected with a girl on SB, who asked me for a $300 eBay gift card. I've never met anyone who's asked for that before instead of cash or Venmo before.

It feels kinda shady. Is this a new scam that I've never heard of before or has anyone else done this successfully?

This is the girl's profile on Seeking:

https://members.seeking.com/member/f0786bac-6441-42de-814c-f3ca2b812e07

She doesn't have much on her profile and signed up recently, which usually is a red flag for me.


Location Georgia, Georgia is a red flag!!Agreed. Location is "Georgia, Georgia", account is less than a few days old, bio is practically non-existent, and they are requesting a gift card, which I'm assuming she's asking for before the meetup? Scam. Of course if you follow the golden rule (no deposits, only $ meeting in person) then you'll have 0 issues and won't fall for it. If you want to run it down and confirm, then get her texting offsite, tell her you want to meet for coffee or a drink first, and I bet she'll push hard for a deposit first either for a "babysitter" or because she "doesn't have gas money" or "to prove your real" etc etc. 100% always a scam.

I had 1 girl who I gave a $100 Amazon gift card to, but I had it in a paper hallmark card and she only got it once she was in the hotel room with me. And that was only because she didn't like "talking" about the arrangement amount so I voluntarily went that route so she wouldn't feel like an escort.

[SeekingHead]

Watch out ya'll. She's all glammed up and out to rip you a new one.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a8372b6e-c158-4e20-afba-3878860b9a4f411? I searched baby ria but didn't find anything.

[GoneForGood97]

411? I searched baby ria but didn't find anything.Search for "babyria" all one word (no space) and you'll find the reports. She's bugshit nuts but if you don't mind the crazy / drama and possible real world meltdown, she apparently fucks exactly like you would expect a 19 yo stripper to fuck. She also has GPS on top of the crazy.

[LouisHernandez]

Location Georgia, Georgia is a red flag!!From: {State} , {State} is fake every time, all the time.

[LouisHernandez]

Watch out ya'll. She's all glammed up and out to rip you a new one.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a8372b6e-c158-4e20-afba-3878860b9a4fSeriously who in the HELL falls for a profile like that. Even if she wants to actually meet, GPS would be putting things lightly.

[ReffingMan94]

Hey guys, been chatting with the following milfs on sa up in.

My area. Any experiences good or bad would be appreciated!

Majalisa.

https://members.seeking.com/member/640f98c2-be84-5fad-fc85-b78b08560c47

Love me tender.

https://members.seeking.com/member/142b674c-05fb-485a-b571-31d03fbd51fe

Thanks.

[Member #6718]

We chatted a bit about Latinas and going to South America. Any of you gents have specific experience in Colombia? Feel free to PM. Looking at a trip there.

[MrSmoothGent]

I had this problem using chrome. I switched to edge and was able to login just fine.Had the same problem. Were you using Chrome? Apparently there was an update to chrome that wasn't auto loaded. I went into Chrome settings and did check for update. Works fine now. My chrome on phone auto updates, so didn't have a problem there.

[GoneForGood97]

https://members.seeking.com/member/d54e91af-f59e-48ad-a412-918c22388150

ArtisticVenus.

Met this one ealier in the week for a meet and greet. Great vibes and seemed open but we both had places to be so couldn't do much more other than talk after our drinks. Heard from her later and she's apparently decided she's looking for platonic since her friends have had "good experiences" with "platonic". Guess it never occurred to her that her friends don't want to appear slutty and are lying their asses off while choking down whichever dick is meeting their allowance LOL. Oh well. I already have a really fun twentysomething that's scratching my itches so I was really just meeting her just in case she might provide a better value / experience. I suspect her desired allowance was going to be way to high for a 30+ girl anyways, no big loss.

I got 2 weeks left on my SA sub but I'm not even really checking it since my new SB is fulfilling my needs, hosts, and has a reasonable allowance.

[Member #6517]

I remember seeing and talking to this one a while back under the alias of BrightChick.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d05850d7-b3ce-4d00-bcc3-b705153c62d5

We had timing issues and I lost interest. This account looks to be new. Tingling spidey senses again but she looks good on that one piece dress!

[LouisHernandez]

https://members.seeking.com/member/d54e91af-f59e-48ad-a412-918c22388150

ArtisticVenus.

Met this one ealier in the week for a meet and greet. Great vibes and seemed open but we both had places to be so couldn't do much more other than talk after our drinks. Heard from her later and she's apparently decided she's looking for platonic since her friends have had "good experiences" with "platonic". Guess it never occurred to her that her friends don't want to appear slutty and are lying their asses off while choking down whichever dick is meeting their allowance LOL. Oh well. I already have a really fun twentysomething that's scratching my itches so I was really just meeting her just in case she might provide a better value / experience. I suspect her desired allowance was going to be way to high for a 30+ girl anyways, no big loss.

I got 2 weeks left on my SA sub but I'm not even really checking it since my new SB is fulfilling my needs, hosts, and has a reasonable allowance.I've never understood the "platonic" nonsense. No girl is getting a thing other than maybe a scam free meal being "platonic". I'm not sure whether to just ignore that if they list it in their profile, or ignore their profile completely if they list it. Obviously they are completely clueless and the last thing I want to do is waste energy on an idiot.

Anyway too bad, she looks pretty hot. Definitely worth a one and done if you can pull off some jedi mind trick action.

[BrassMan73]

Location Georgia, Georgia is a red flag!!She's a scanner and is likely monitoring this forum. She she has taken her profile down.

[Slo Mo]

I've decided to try to get some momentum going by posting a few that I'm either done with or I've confirmed that the profile is legit and possible action can be had. Please bear with me as I'm in a lazy mood & don't feel like posting full detailed reviews, my apologies ahead of time.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9b6f5902-998a-4e90-a40d-e3ce5ee0661f

It's been a while so I hope that I posted link correctly, but anyways here ya go. This one is legit, pics are accurate. If you're into the small petite then this one you'll have fun with. I don't know if she can host, she came to me. Cool attitude & 420 friendly, very reasonable in regards to price of admission. Very submissive, bbj, BBFS, etc. Overall nice lay, I'll definitely recommend for a one time rendezvous, stable currently a little full so I couldn't find a current roster spot for her in my world but she's cool peeps.

More posts to come, as I get the time & opportunity to do so. It would be great if we could get a full page of consecutive reviews of decent lays. Since everyone is complaining about the slim pickings, lets get this sub heated up with a few bones that we could all enjoy!

[Slo Mo]

The head game is nothing short of amazing. I'm not really into the thick ones, but she's cool & pretty so I've had her in rotation for some time now. She can host at times, she normally posts up in a low-key hotel right OTP. Very affordable & she enjoys what she does that's for sure. I'm hesitant to flat out say she has a "pro" vibe but she's definitely experienced but it took no time for me to get comfortable. If receiving an awesome bbj is your thing, then you definitely want to scratch this one off of your bucket list!

https://members.seeking.com/member/c005a56d-4a05-45b9-804f-023f3fe50e51

[Slo Mo]

Whyyy this one hasn't been reviewed yet. From the looks of it she's been around for quite sometime. I've engaged in convo, but haven't got around to pulling the trigger. Anyone willing to share the juicy details??

https://members.seeking.com/member/f197e41e-52b0-4f80-92ba-c4b39bbb6f64

[DArrow404]

Love me tender.

https://members.seeking.com/member/142b674c-05fb-485a-b571-31d03fbd51fe

Thanks.She's been mentioned in the past but don't recall any details. I did reach out to her last year but from what I remember she was slow to respond between messages so I lost interest.

[TylerDurden07]

https://members.seeking.com/member/a58c1f81-ec62-4738-8052-3408012fc06a

Seemed nice at first, very personable. After asking what she was looking for, she said she was new to this, but knew that she didn't want "anything sexual. " What a pity. She'll get nothing financial then, at least not from me.

[Mekura]

Sorry if it's been discussed at length recently, but I'm looking for an anonymous payment method and I tried a metabank Visa card from Lowes but that got my account suspended. I didn't want to try the same one again so does anyone have any recommendations? Thanks.

[TheLife1]

I remember seeing and talking to this one a while back under the alias of BrightChick.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d05850d7-b3ce-4d00-bcc3-b705153c62d5

We had timing issues and I lost interest. This account looks to be new. Tingling spidey senses again but she looks good on that one piece dress!She showed me a message where someone was offering her 600. She wouldn't respond when I countered. Same person though.

[DArrow404]

https://members.seeking.com/member/53975180-ab02-49b8-bd94-8ef36c4e1587

Saw a familiar face. Has anyone talked to her recently? I remember she had very good reviews awhile back but her profile went inactive.

[Member #6704]

https://members.seeking.com/member/4eafe120-5108-4b80-93cd-b26ce03f255e

Or.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3fa3fe02-ff4d-42e9-b839-6319af1a755f

[NapataJohn]

Sorry if it's been discussed at length recently, but I'm looking for an anonymous payment method and I tried a metabank Visa card from Lowes but that got my account suspended. I didn't want to try the same one again so does anyone have any recommendations? Thanks.Sorry.

This one.

https://www.reddit.com/r/sugarlifestyleforum/comments/zqthzg/anyone_found_a_way_to_use_prepaid_cards_for/

[Peter Johnson]

Sorry if it's been discussed at length recently, but I'm looking for an anonymous payment method and I tried a metabank Visa card from Lowes but that got my account suspended. I didn't want to try the same one again so does anyone have any recommendations? Thanks.

I did a big step by step writeup, not long ago:

Post: #11143
http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?14265-quot-Sugar-Babies-quot-and-quot-Arrangements-quot&p=6223602&viewfull=1#post6223602

[Peter Johnson]

https://members.seeking.com/member/a58c1f81-ec62-4738-8052-3408012fc06a

Seemed nice at first, very personable. After asking what she was looking for, she said she was new to this, but knew that she didn't want "anything sexual. " What a pity. She'll get nothing financial then, at least not from me.Yes too bad, although I doubt I could afford her anyway. That is top shelf SB or at least pretty far up there.

[HollowGuy]

https://members.seeking.com/member/a58c1f81-ec62-4738-8052-3408012fc06a

Seemed nice at first, very personable. After asking what she was looking for, she said she was new to this, but knew that she didn't want "anything sexual. " What a pity. She'll get nothing financial then, at least not from me.Why do these girls think money is free. They are so lazy and entitled. I have had several girls get mad and block me because I would not loan them any money. One wanted 5 k but was to lazy to write up a contract, another one wanted $2300 I told her no that's her bd job.

[SugarDaddio]

She offered me 2,500/ month on the site. I just simply replied that I couldn't meet her expectation and never heard back from her.

SD.


https://members.seeking.com/member/53975180-ab02-49b8-bd94-8ef36c4e1587

Saw a familiar face. Has anyone talked to her recently? I remember she had very good reviews awhile back but her profile went inactive.

[BrassMan73]

Why do these girls think money is free. They are so lazy and entitled. I have had several girls get mad and block me because I would not loan them any money. One wanted 5 k but was to lazy to write up a contract, another one wanted $2300 I told her no that's her bd job.The typical modern western woman thinks all she has to do is show up and bless you with her presence. They don'twant to do anything to earn their resources. They think having a v-jay-jay ENTITLES them to your time when they need you, and your resources when they want them!

[SgtHappyEnding]

She offered me 2,500/ month on the site. I just simply replied that I couldn't meet her expectation and never heard back from her..I met with her about two years ago at a Mexican restaurant for drinks. At the time, she wanted $1500/ month. (Inflation is killing us! She's beautiful, but older than 43. The chemistry in person wasn't there; she didn't flirt or touch my arm or anything. She was very nice. However, I'm younger than her. I can pull older women like her just by going out to a bar and buying them a drink. I think her demographic is older rich, retired guys (based on an arrangement story she told me). Also, she might still be married if that matters. My take: She doesn't fit into what this board is looking for.

[LouisHernandez]

The typical modern western woman thinks all she has to do is show up and bless you with her presence. They don'twant to do anything to earn their resources. They think having a v-jay-jay ENTITLES them to your time when they need you, and your resources when they want them!It's just pussy capitalism and also these young not terribly bright females translate loads of messages and likes on their profiles to potential cash offerings, which is not even remotely true. They end up pricing themselves out of an arrangement either wittingly or unwittingly ultimately wasting their time and everyone else's.

How do I know this? B / c I'll do 2 30 day memberships spread out of the course of a year and see the same hot chicks on SA online. If they had landed what they were looking for, why would they still be online all the time? They're stupid and their shelf life is limited to just a few years but they won't know it till it's too late.

The really hot ones keep chasing squirrels on SA. The mid tier ones will eventually give up. Both go back to banging guys their own age for free.

What would help SA is to stop allowing male users to send messages to girls before paying. Don't new users get to send up to 10 messages before paying? It's flooding girls inboxes and screwing everything up. Maybe they will fix that, b/c SA really has little value for me now. All the girls I'd consider allowances don't seem to respond. I only get legit responses from low-mid tier girls and pros, neither of which I'm interested in paying.

[GoneForGood97]

https://members.seeking.com/member/bea0a277-9189-4e5e-b16c-623e5843c32c

Urfr3akflor

Here's one I moved off site and had some good conversations with. Sent confirmation pic so I know she's real. Settled on 200 ppm plus hotel. She's a little far out for me and I'm pretty happy with my regular SB so I'm throwing her to here. Was open to BBJ. She didn't want to send nudes without payment (another reason I didn't chase, if an SB wants $ to send nudes I normally eject) but I think she's easy to land if you're looking for a nice latina.

[Rican2323]

Anyone have any history on this one?

https://members.seeking.com/member/e0bac1a6-502b-4661-b16a-23a4e32295b6

[TylerDurden07]

Yes too bad, although I doubt I could afford her anyway. That is top shelf SB or at least pretty far up there.Likely true. Which makes her refusal to provide sexual benefits all the more appalling.

[FarFarAway]

https://members.seeking.com/member/a58c1f81-ec62-4738-8052-3408012fc06a

Seemed nice at first, very personable. After asking what she was looking for, she said she was new to this, but knew that she didn't want "anything sexual. " What a pity. She'll get nothing financial then, at least not from me.I don't fish in your sugar bowl (to mix metaphors) but she's been on less than a week. She likely will have few different course corrections in her time on the site. I wouldn't write her off based on what you've said she replied thus far.

I also wasn't too impressed w / her. Despite her 'slim' self-description, she looks a little thick for me. We have Latinas like her a lot on the site in southern California.

[SugarDaddio]

She can't host and she wants 400 ppm. I haven't tried to negotiate down yet but seems DTF.

SD.



Anyone have any history on this one?

https://members.seeking.com/member/e0bac1a6-502b-4661-b16a-23a4e32295b6

[Rican2323]

She can't host and she wants 400 ppm. I haven't tried to negotiate down yet but seems DTF.

SD.I'm surprised that she hasn't been reviewed or mentioned before. Her profile says she's been on the site since 2017.

[MrVmp]

Anyone have any history on this one?

https://members.seeking.com/member/e0bac1a6-502b-4661-b16a-23a4e32295b6Chatted a bit on the site, tried to move off the site. Never reached out to me, and when I came back on the site a month later when I renewed, she reached out to me with small talk on the site. I lost interest.

[Member #6704]

I'm surprised that she hasn't been reviewed or mentioned before. Her profile says she's been on the site since 2017.I have seen her and that number quoted is accurate and she cannot host. But she is DTF.

[2me4Looking2]

Has anyone had experience with Petiteyoga? I know she is on both Seeking and SDM. We messaged a little off site and she is firm on 400 per meet.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f2cad06a-7672-4e0d-adc4-8dd7acd12d72

Thanks.

[SugarDaddio]

So it sounds like there is no need to try and negotiate her down then if you saw her at 400. I appreciate the input.

Thanks,

SD.


I have seen her and that number quoted is accurate and she cannot host. But she is DTF.

[Member #6704]

So it sounds like there is no need to try and negotiate her down then if you saw her at 400. I appreciate the input.

Thanks,

SD.I would say try negotiating. She did not budge in my case. Please report if you have success.

[Rican2323]

Here's another I'm chatting with.

Any info on this one? Definitely seems DTF.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a2ff68fa-a03f-4da1-9f39-18e00e125e4f

[Rican2323]

I would say try negotiating. She did not budge in my case. Please report if you have success.She quoted me the same so looks like that is set for her.

[Peter Johnson]

Anyone have any history on this one?

https://members.seeking.com/member/e0bac1a6-502b-4661-b16a-23a4e32295b6I almost got together with her a couple of times, but just didn't feel like going out that particular night. But she seems real and DTF. I think she wanted 400, but I talked her down to 350 or so.

[PornRider]

So I was talking with a girl on Seeking and I decided to cancel our meeting together after I asked for a pic and she didn't look as good in that photo. She raged at me over text and said that she would publish my number with a negative review for other girls to see. Since she said that, I noticed a bunch of girls not respond to my messages or block me after we exchange a couple of messages.

Does anyone know if this is a feature on Seeking that only the women can see? I've never heard of this before.

[DudeNextDoor]

Short answer: Pretty sure she's only selling pics / vids on snapchat.

Longer answer: I used to flirt with this girl a little when she worked at a starbucks I stopped at on my way to work. This was about 6 years ago. So I was pretty excited to see her on Seeking. I reached out, told her I used to see her at the starbucks and we moved to snapchat. She seems pretty funny and nice to chat with. When I asked if she'd like to do a meet and greet she said she just needed to arrange a babysitter and would let me know when she got one. She never directly asked me for money to cover it. A day later I see in her story that she's having a $50 sale for content. So I did something I never do because I felt like I kinda knew this girl. I sent her a message saying I'd send her the 50 for the content. She sends me some pics of her ass in various poses and one with a dildo in it. Honestly it may not even have been her for all I know. I'm a little disappointed but whatever. I then ask when she can meet and she says that she'll need to get some money for a babysitter. WHAT? I just gave you 50. She says something like she didn't realize it was for the babysitter and she's already used it for gas.

So moral of the story and advice that's always given out in this thread. Never send money ahead of time. I live by it most of the time. Thought I could trust her but still got burned.

Also, note that she says she's 25 on seeking. I'm pretty sure she wasn't 19 when I knew her at the starbucks. I'd guess she's closer to 30. Also, if this is actually the girl I knew from starbucks she looks more like her main profile pic than the last one. She told me she uses a filter for all of her snapchat stuff.


Here's another I'm chatting with.

Any info on this one? Definitely seems DTF.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a2ff68fa-a03f-4da1-9f39-18e00e125e4f

[GoneForGood97]

Moved her to snap earlier in the month. I was a bit skeptical when she asked for only 500 a month for weekly meetups. Scheduled a meet, texted the day of to confirm but she had "forgot" and couldn't, but wouldn't you know she has some content for sell. Typical content selling time waster.


Short answer: Pretty sure she's only selling pics / vids on snapchat.

Longer answer: I used to flirt with this girl a little when she worked at a starbucks I stopped at on my way to work. This was about 6 years ago. So I was pretty excited to see her on Seeking. I reached out, told her I used to see her at the starbucks and we moved to snapchat. She seems pretty funny and nice to chat with. When I asked if she'd like to do a meet and greet she said she just needed to arrange a babysitter and would let me know when she got one. She never directly asked me for money to cover it. A day later I see in her story that she's having a $50 sale for content. So I did something I never do because I felt like I kinda knew this girl. I sent her a message saying I'd send her the 50 for the content. She sends me some pics of her ass in various poses and one with a dildo in it. Honestly it may not even have been her for all I know. I'm a little disappointed but whatever. I then ask when she can meet and she says that she'll need to get some money for a babysitter. WHAT? I just gave you 50. She says something like she didn't realize it was for the babysitter and she's already used it for gas.

So moral of the story and advice that's always given out in this thread. Never send money ahead of time. I live by it most of the time. Thought I could trust her but still got burned.

Also, note that she says she's 25 on seeking. I'm pretty sure she wasn't 19 when I knew her at the starbucks. I'd guess she's closer to 30. Also, if this is actually the girl I knew from starbucks she looks more like her main profile pic than the last one. She told me she uses a filter for all of her snapchat stuff.

[LouisHernandez]

Moved her to snap earlier in the month. I was a bit skeptical when she asked for only 500 a month for weekly meetups. Scheduled a meet, texted the day of to confirm but she had "forgot" and couldn't, but wouldn't you know she has some content for sell. Typical content selling time waster.Just a general question regarding "snapchat", do you find girls wanting to use that platform to communicate instead of regular phone number texting to always be content scammers?

[Rican2323]

Short answer: Pretty sure she's only selling pics / vids on snapchat.

Longer answer: I used to flirt with this girl a little when she worked at a starbucks I stopped at on my way to work. This was about 6 years ago. So I was pretty excited to see her on Seeking. I reached out, told her I used to see her at the starbucks and we moved to snapchat. She seems pretty funny and nice to chat with. When I asked if she'd like to do a meet and greet she said she just needed to arrange a babysitter and would let me know when she got one. She never directly asked me for money to cover it. A day later I see in her story that she's having a $50 sale for content. So I did something I never do because I felt like I kinda knew this girl. I sent her a message saying I'd send her the 50 for the content. She sends me some pics of her ass in various poses and one with a dildo in it. Honestly it may not even have been her for all I know. I'm a little disappointed but whatever. I then ask when she can meet and she says that she'll need to get some money for a babysitter. WHAT? I just gave you 50. She says something like she didn't realize it was for the babysitter and she's already used it for gas.

So moral of the story and advice that's always given out in this thread. Never send money ahead of time. I live by it most of the time. Thought I could trust her but still got burned.

Also, note that she says she's 25 on seeking. I'm pretty sure she wasn't 19 when I knew her at the starbucks. I'd guess she's closer to 30. Also, if this is actually the girl I knew from starbucks she looks more like her main profile pic than the last one. She told me she uses a filter for all of her snapchat stuff.Yeah, she hit me with the "need babysitting money" before meeting.

[RanManCan]

Just a general question regarding "snapchat", do you find girls wanting to use that platform to communicate instead of regular phone number texting to always be content scammers?Yes, Snap is always scammers. I respond: "I don't have Snapchat. How about Telegram, Signal, Discord, Instagram, Whatsapp, or Text?

[MilfHunter818]

Anyone have any history on this one?

https://members.seeking.com/member/e0bac1a6-502b-4661-b16a-23a4e32295b6I've seen her twice.

Talked her down to $300 but gave her a tip because she drove an hour to my motel twice. Didn't watch the clock. Hung out a while after the session just looking at memes. BBJ doggy mish, she doesn't like DATY so I opted out. She gets off on thrusting with some speed. Only cons is she smokes and covers it with perfume.

[NewAnonymousName]

I've seen her twice.

Talked her down to $300 but gave her a tip because she drove an hour to my motel twice. Didn't watch the clock. Hung out a while after the session just looking at memes. BBJ doggy mish, she doesn't like DATY so I opted out. She gets off on thrusting with some speed. Only cons is she smokes and covers it with perfume.I'm not 100% sure, but I think SucculentSweetheart is a woman I saw several times about three years ago. Her body was smoking hot. She had curvy hips and nice tits but wasn't fat at all. She was really tight for both vaginal and anal. She didn't really like to kiss, which is the main reason why I stopped seeing her. She seemed disinterested when I was DATY, so I only did it once and didn't keep at it for very long. I really can't be certain it's the same woman because I don't have any old pictures of her to compare. But your comment about her not liking DATY makes me think it's her. She didn't host. She always drove to my hotel room.

[GoneForGood97]

Just a general question regarding "snapchat", do you find girls wanting to use that platform to communicate instead of regular phone number texting to always be content scammers?I run into the same amount of pic sellers / scammers on normal text and snap. No difference. The SB I've been enjoying this month I moved from the site to text, the one I banged out the previous 4 months I took from the site to Snap. I've had a lot of one time meet ups off both. Generally after a little bit of site chat and I know I'm interested in moving forward I just say something like "I'd love to talk arrangement details. Do you prefer text or snap?"

I actually find it easier to weed out scammers on snap since you can see someone's "snap score" once you've added each other. If a girl's snap score is too low then it's usually a dead giveaway they are scamming, since they constantly have to make new accounts after the previous account gets banned.

[HollowGuy]

I'm not 100% sure, but I think SucculentSweetheart is a woman I saw several times about three years ago. Her body was smoking hot. She had curvy hips and nice tits but wasn't fat at all. She was really tight for both vaginal and anal. She didn't really like to kiss, which is the main reason why I stopped seeing her. She seemed disinterested when I was DATY, so I only did it once and didn't keep at it for very long. I really can't be certain it's the same woman because I don't have any old pictures of her to compare. But your comment about her not liking DATY makes me think it's her. She didn't host. She always drove to my hotel room.Do you remember if she had any identifiable tattoos.

[MilfHunter818]

Probably her. She didn't like to kiss either. Said too many had bad breathe. I was able to kiss her once. Haven't seen her since.


I'm not 100% sure, but I think SucculentSweetheart is a woman I saw several times about three years ago. Her body was smoking hot. She had curvy hips and nice tits but wasn't fat at all. She was really tight for both vaginal and anal. She didn't really like to kiss, which is the main reason why I stopped seeing her. She seemed disinterested when I was DATY, so I only did it once and didn't keep at it for very long. I really can't be certain it's the same woman because I don't have any old pictures of her to compare. But your comment about her not liking DATY makes me think it's her. She didn't host. She always drove to my hotel room.

[SgtHappyEnding]

Anyone have any history on this one?

https://members.seeking.com/member/e0bac1a6-502b-4661-b16a-23a4e32295b6I've seen her once. Good body, cute face. Like her personality too. Smoked with her; 420 is her true passion. Prices quoted thus far are in line. No DATY, but I usually don't look for that anyway. When we got down to it, she was a little rushed and distracted. So, the quality wasn't there. Definitely DTF. She's contacted several times since, but the connection was too flaky for me. Would really like her if she actually liked me more.

[NewAnonymousName]

Do you remember if she had any identifiable tattoos.I don't remember. Sorry. It was a long time ago.

[Rican2323]

I don't remember. Sorry. It was a long time ago.She does have tattoos several but can't remember what they were. I did end up meeting her. She was pretty cool, put on more weight than her photos show but still good looking. She was down for everything except for anal. Paid less than originally agreed upon so that was a plus!

[NewAnonymousName]

She does have tattoos several but can't remember what they were. I did end up meeting her. She was pretty cool, put on more weight than her photos show but still good looking. She was down for everything except for anal. Paid less than originally agreed upon so that was a plus!I wonder why she stopped doing anal. I did it with her all three times I saw her a few years ago.

[Member #6704]

Hey guys,

I noted some good dialogue on succulent sweetheart. Here is another one who has been around and.

Makes a new profile sometimes.

https://members.seeking.com/member/899e8bca-2729-49f1-b3c8-2d00645286e9

Does anyone have history with her?

She wants 600! But DTF.

[Rican2323]

I wonder why she stopped doing anal. I did it with her all three times I saw her a few years ago.Well, let just say that the square peg has never been able to fit ANY round hole!

[Peter Johnson]

Hey guys,

I noted some good dialogue on succulent sweetheart. Here is another one who has been around and.

Makes a new profile sometimes.

https://members.seeking.com/member/899e8bca-2729-49f1-b3c8-2d00645286e9

Does anyone have history with her?

She wants 600! But DTF.600 for that is insane. Her face is a 6, maybe a 7. Way too much ink. and body isn't that nice. And pushing 30. She is a 250 girl if she is lucky, or maybe 300 if someone has tattoo fetish.

[Member #6704]

600 for that is insane. Her face is a 6, maybe a 7. Way too much ink. and body isn't that nice. And pushing 30. She is a 250 girl if she is lucky, or maybe 300 if someone has tattoo fetish.Thank for talking some sense into. I appreciate this forum and your post! Helps stopping me from making stupid ass mistakes as I think with my sick sometimes! But yeah she does not go down below 600 apparently. And last SD was 60 M net worth and was going to buy her a car etc. But obviously didn't! Anyways thanks.

[NewAnonymousName]

Thank for talking some sense into. I appreciate this forum and your post! Helps stopping me from making stupid ass mistakes as I think with my sick sometimes! But yeah she does not go down below 600 apparently. And last SD was 60 M net worth and was going to buy her a car etc. But obviously didn't! Anyways thanks.It's a standard exaggeration for a SB to talk about how generous her "last" sugar daddy was. I usually stop pursuing them when I hear that line. To me, it screams overentitled [female dog]. (Edited because I didn't know USASG blocks the actual word; sorry.)

In the same vein, I never respond to a profile that says you can get her attention by buying her something from her wishlist. To me, it means she's either overentitled or a scammer.

[SugarDaddio]

As soon as I see the line about getting her attention by getting something form the wish list it is an automatic skip. I know most on this forum get this but I have gotten some of the best pussy I have ever had from sweet submissive women on SA that are not necessarily models (although there have been a few LOL) but are beautiful to me. And you know that's all that counts. I hit two this past week for 200 and 300 and they both hosted. I had a good week to say the least. Sorry for the rant here I simply got excited LOL.

As always may the pussy be with you.

SD.

[LouisHernandez]

As soon as I see the line about getting her attention by getting something form the wish list it is an automatic skip. I know most on this forum get this but I have gotten some of the best pussy I have ever had from sweet submissive women on SA that are not necessarily models (although there have been a few LOL) but are beautiful to me. And you know that's all that counts. I hit two this past week for 200 and 300 and they both hosted. I had a good week to say the least. Sorry for the rant here I simply got excited LOL.

As always may the pussy be with you.

SD.One of the many reasons Seeking has gone down hill was the stupid wish list they added. All that did was create more expectation of being able to scam / grift from a simp. I've been on the lookout for a new UTR sugarbowl website, if anyone has done any research they'd care to share on this subject, please PM your findings.

[GoneForGood97]

Hey guys,

I noted some good dialogue on succulent sweetheart. Here is another one who has been around and.

Makes a new profile sometimes.

https://members.seeking.com/member/899e8bca-2729-49f1-b3c8-2d00645286e9

Does anyone have history with her?

She wants 600! But DTF.I fucked her a few times for half that last year. She's into anal which is hot, but I got real manic vibes from her. She let me CIP on future dates as long as I brought a Plan B. I felt like I lucked out and always caught her on a good day, but prior experience with manic-depressive girls meant I eventually pulled away. Nothing she ever did, she was sweet as could be when we were together, but I just I opted to listen to my gut.

Reviewing my old texts with her, she originally wanted 500 but I got her down to 3, and she hosted.

[Nominal]

Hey all, I am a long time lurker who has finally decided to bite the bullet and am looking for some advice. I have finally come into a little money and thought I would give this whole sugar thing a whirl, it seems much more appealing to me than the traditional escort route. I work from home with a job that has half forgotten about me so I have the time, have a nice enough apartment and car to impress, and have finally come into a bit of money so I have the funds. The only thing in my way is that I still have a girlfriend (one who I have not slept with since the pandemic). We have separate finances and I drive her to and from work most days so no real threat of the whole coming home early thing, but still not ideal. Are there any more senior members willing to lend some wisdom on how to navigate this sorta thing so I do not end up with more trouble than I bargained?

[NewAnonymousName]

Hey all, I am a long time lurker who has finally decided to bite the bullet and am looking for some advice. I have finally come into a little money and thought I would give this whole sugar thing a whirl, it seems much more appealing to me than the traditional escort route. I work from home with a job that has half forgotten about me so I have the time, have a nice enough apartment and car to impress, and have finally come into a bit of money so I have the funds. The only thing in my way is that I still have a girlfriend (one who I have not slept with since the pandemic). We have separate finances and I drive her to and from work most days so no real threat of the whole coming home early thing, but still not ideal. Are there any more senior members willing to lend some wisdom on how to navigate this sorta thing so I do not end up with more trouble than I bargained?Dump her if you're not having sex. Haha.

But seriously, I wouldn't bring women to your place when the girlfriend lives there. Too much risk that a woman refuses to leave, shows up unannounced, or blackmails you.

Women who host are usually hard to find on Seeking. But that's the first choice.

Does your girlfriend review your credit card statements? If not, hotels will easily work as plan B to finding women who host. If she does review your credit cards, youll have to buy hotels.com gift cards at Office Depot with your credit card (if you can explain the office store charges) or cash.

Use a fake name. Never give your real phone number. Use google voice instead or Kik or WhatsApp. A burner phone is risky because the girlfriend might find it. Obviously delete your browsing history.

[CarmelFight]

Hey all, I am a long time lurker who has finally decided to bite the bullet and am looking for some advice. I have finally come into a little money and thought I would give this whole sugar thing a whirl, it seems much more appealing to me than the traditional escort route. I work from home with a job that has half forgotten about me so I have the time, have a nice enough apartment and car to impress, and have finally come into a bit of money so I have the funds. The only thing in my way is that I still have a girlfriend (one who I have not slept with since the pandemic). We have separate finances and I drive her to and from work most days so no real threat of the whole coming home early thing, but still not ideal. Are there any more senior members willing to lend some wisdom on how to navigate this sorta thing so I do not end up with more trouble than I bargained?I was single when I had my SB's so didn't have this issue, we all have our different reasons on having a SB or a line up of SB. To me it seems like a lot of work just to get some pussy if you have to basically tip toe and sneak it from your SO. If you haven't slept with your girlfriend since the pandemic (that's like 2 years ago) maybe you should rethink the whole having a girlfriend? SB is like having a GF without the whole drama issues of a relationship. Temp GF in simple terms. Some of us deal with SB drama and we drop en like it's hott and post it on here so another guy hits it haha.

[Peter Johnson]

Hey all, I am a long time lurker who has finally decided to bite the bullet and am looking for some advice. I have finally come into a little money and thought I would give this whole sugar thing a whirl, it seems much more appealing to me than the traditional escort route. I work from home with a job that has half forgotten about me so I have the time, have a nice enough apartment and car to impress, and have finally come into a bit of money so I have the funds. The only thing in my way is that I still have a girlfriend (one who I have not slept with since the pandemic). We have separate finances and I drive her to and from work most days so no real threat of the whole coming home early thing, but still not ideal. Are there any more senior members willing to lend some wisdom on how to navigate this sorta thing so I do not end up with more trouble than I bargained?First of all, one of the good things about sugar dating is that you don't really need to "impress" the girls with a nice car and apartment, etc. It doesn't hurt, but it's not really necessary. All you need is the right amount of $$$ to get 90% of them into bed, which is clearly a big part of this.

Second, if you have a gf, who lives with you it is a very risky move to bring any other girls back there. Just that idea sounds a bit self destructive or like self sabotage. Maybe you like the thrill of living dangerously, but it's generally not a great idea to let many of these girls even know where you live, much less if you have a gf/wife. There are all kinds of crazy stalker women out there. You could do nothing wrong, and they could still show up at your door and cause trouble.

Also, I wouldn't be texting them with your regular phone or phone #. Get a separate burner phione and use an app like Sudo or TextNow, or Google Voice #.

Anyway, there are 100 ways to get caught cheating, and if you can think of 50 of them, you are a genius. I've been in your situation before, so I know the risks.

And others are saying to dump your gf, if not having sex, but I bet it is not that simple. Sex has never been a big part of a LTR for me, which is why I need the side p*ssy action. But you can still love and care about your SO and not want to get rid of her.

So good luck, and there is plenty of additional advice in this thread, every day.

[Peter Johnson]

Dump her if you're not having sex. Haha.

But seriously, I wouldn't bring women to your place when the girlfriend lives there. Too much risk that a woman refuses to leave, shows up unannounced, or blackmails you.

Women who host are usually hard to find on Seeking. But that's the first choice.

Does your girlfriend review your credit card statements? If not, hotels will easily work as plan B to finding women who host. If she does review your credit cards, youll have to buy hotels.com gift cards at Office Depot with your credit card (if you can explain the office store charges) or cash.

Use a fake name. Never give your real phone number. Use google voice instead or Kik or WhatsApp. A burner phone is risky because the girlfriend might find it. Obviously delete your browsing history.All great advice here. And can buy Hotels.com gift cards at many locations, including Walmart and Target. However, you will still often need a regular credit card for deposit / incidentals. I sometimes use a prepaid VISA card for this, but many hotels insist on a regular one, with your name on it. But those charges often drop off, so less risk that just paying for hotels with main credit card.

I still say burner phone is better than regular one, and could hide it with little to no chance of detection, if you are smart about it.

[Jims2321]

Dump her if you're not having sex. Haha.

But seriously, I wouldn't bring women to your place when the girlfriend lives there. Too much risk that a woman refuses to leave, shows up unannounced, or blackmails you.

Women who host are usually hard to find on Seeking. But that's the first choice.

Does your girlfriend review your credit card statements? If not, hotels will easily work as plan B to finding women who host. If she does review your credit cards, youll have to buy hotels.com gift cards at Office Depot with your credit card (if you can explain the office store charges) or cash.

Use a fake name. Never give your real phone number. Use google voice instead or Kik or WhatsApp. A burner phone is risky because the girlfriend might find it. Obviously delete your browsing history.I've got to ask is having your GF review your personal financial information a thing now? It certainly wasn't back 30 years ago when I was dating. Hell even when I got engaged to my wife, she still didn't need to know. After your married that might be an thing.

[LoriTruck]

These 2 are an actual couple but I just can't seem to score. Both are real and cute but I got platonic vibes. Was quoted 250 each, not sure if that includes fun in the sack.

https://members.seeking.com/member/99cdcf0c-b1ad-40be-a4e9-fe20f388f908

https://members.seeking.com/member/c9705742-27ab-4fee-ac83-4e9cc38929cd

[NewAnonymousName]

All great advice here. And can buy Hotels.com gift cards at many locations, including Walmart and Target. However, you will still often need a regular credit card for deposit / incidentals. I sometimes use a prepaid VISA card for this, but many hotels insist on a regular one, with your name on it. But those charges often drop off, so less risk that just paying for hotels with main credit card.

I still say burner phone is better than regular one, and could hide it with little to no chance of detection, if you are smart about it.I had a burner phone. But it was too much work trying to be sure my significant other wouldn't find it. There were several times over the years when she would have found it if I hadn't been lucky that day. I ditched it and use google voice on my real phone.

When I'm single again, I’ll go back to having a second phone. It's convenient to have one device that is entirely for chasing sugar babies.

[NewAnonymousName]

Does anyone know the story on 2Sassy4U? I was chatting her up before the holidays, but I went dark on her when some family and work conflicts put me on the sidelines for a couple months. She revoked my private picture access, so I'm sure I'll have some work to do to get back in a positive groove that could lead to meeting up. Is she worth the trouble?

https://members.seeking.com/member/07322601-7210-49f8-8062-c05edd90efb7

[SugarDaddio]

Had lunch with her. She's a real chatter. She's a photographer and claims she was taking pictures once and it happen to get Trump in the picture so the secret service took her camera and Trump persoanlly bought and gave her a new one. She talked so much that time ran out on me before we could get back to her place. I'm thinking she wanted 300 but could host. I just never followed back up with her LOL.


Does anyone know the story on 2Sassy4U? I was chatting her up before the holidays, but I went dark on her when some family and work conflicts put me on the sidelines for a couple months. She revoked my private picture access, so I'm sure I'll have some work to do to get back in a positive groove that could lead to meeting up. Is she worth the trouble?

https://members.seeking.com/member/07322601-7210-49f8-8062-c05edd90efb7

[NewAnonymousName]

Had lunch with her. She's a real chatter. She's a photographer and claims she was taking pictures once and it happen to get Trump in the picture so the secret service took her camera and Trump persoanlly bought and gave her a new one. She talked so much that time ran out on me before we could get back to her place. I'm thinking she wanted 300 but could host. I just never followed back up with her LOL.Thanks. How does she look? The pics are hard to tell.

[SugarDaddio]

I liked her look pretty good.


Thanks. How does she look? The pics are hard to tell.

[Member #6718]

Had lunch with her. She's a real chatter. She's a photographer and claims she was taking pictures once and it happen to get Trump in the picture so the secret service took her camera and Trump persoanlly bought and gave her a new one. She talked so much that time ran out on me before we could get back to her place. I'm thinking she wanted 300 but could host. I just never followed back up with her LOL.300 for a bang average 45 yo? Fuck that shit LOL. You can get chicks like this on bumble all day long for the price of lunch or dinner.

[NewAnonymousName]

300 for a bang average 45 yo? Fuck that shit LOL. You can get chicks like this on bumble all day long for the price of lunch or dinner.Bumble is off limits for those with significant others. But I get your point about price. Given that she hosts, it's more like 200 or less for her when you don't have to pay for a hotel room. Still pricey for a 45 y.o., but not outrageous in a pinch (if she’s good).

[FarFarAway]

Hey all, I am a long time lurker who has finally decided to bite the bullet and am looking for some advice. I have finally come into a little money and thought I would give this whole sugar thing a whirl, it seems much more appealing to me than the traditional escort route. I work from home with a job that has half forgotten about me so I have the time, have a nice enough apartment and car to impress, and have finally come into a bit of money so I have the funds. The only thing in my way is that I still have a girlfriend (one who I have not slept with since the pandemic). We have separate finances and I drive her to and from work most days so no real threat of the whole coming home early thing, but still not ideal. Are there any more senior members willing to lend some wisdom on how to navigate this sorta thing so I do not end up with more trouble than I bargained?Richmond, VA has a sugar thread that isn't just local, it has become de facto a place where SDs from across the country go to read and post. Somewhat like Atlanta. However, they have an archive of all the valuable posts from the past. Sort of a how to.

[Member #6718]

Bumble is off limits for those with significant others. But I get your point about price. Given that she hosts, it's more like 200 or less for her when you don't have to pay for a hotel room. Still pricey for a 45 y.o., but not outrageous in a pinch (if shes good).Fair enough if attached, but still, you can get a hot 23 year old For 300 so who would want this?

[Smitty Scott]

Hey all, I am a long time lurker who has finally decided to bite the bullet and am looking for some advice. I have finally come into a little money and thought I would give this whole sugar thing a whirl, it seems much more appealing to me than the traditional escort route. I work from home with a job that has half forgotten about me so I have the time, have a nice enough apartment and car to impress, and have finally come into a bit of money so I have the funds. The only thing in my way is that I still have a girlfriend (one who I have not slept with since the pandemic). We have separate finances and I drive her to and from work most days so no real threat of the whole coming home early thing, but still not ideal. Are there any more senior members willing to lend some wisdom on how to navigate this sorta thing so I do not end up with more trouble than I bargained?Even though you are home alone all day, do not bring a girl back to the apartment while you live together. The first few visits (if she is worth a repeat) should be in a hotel or at her place. There are enough girls on there that can host, so you should do that. Always have 5-6 girls chatting with you at one time. If you need to get a hotel, try and get two girls to commit to that day and location as one of them sometimes fall through. Set one up for 11 am and one for 3 pm. If they both hit, you have plenty of time to recover in between.

Last suggestion. Go away from your normal. If your GF is a 28 white girl with blonde hair and blue eyes, look for a 20 year old brunette and a 40 year old single mom. Spice it up and see what you like.

[NewAnonymousName]

Fair enough if attached, but still, you can get a hot 23 year old For 300 so who would want this?Variety is the spice of life. Plus sugardaddio passed on her and I haven't reached out and negotiated yet, so there's that.

[SugarDaddio]

Anybody got any experience with this woman? We have moved to text and she is asking me some deep questions about what I like and don't like in a relationship. I don't know, just don't have a good read on her yet LOL. No meet up details or damage amount discussed yet.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3f5170ff-2a0c-4ea6-916a-d4212c392f30

As always may the pussy be with you.

SD.

[DudeNextDoor]

"I am seeking for a serious soulmate and a lifetime lover. ".

If she's asking deep questions I'm guess she's sincere about that statement and will likely not be open to the usual type of Sugar relationship that's predominantly discussed in this thread. Some women actually use seeking for legit dating.


Anybody got any experience with this woman? We have moved to text and she is asking me some deep questions about what I like and don't like in a relationship. I don't know, just don't have a good read on her yet LOL. No meet up details or damage amount discussed yet.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3f5170ff-2a0c-4ea6-916a-d4212c392f30

As always may the pussy be with you.

SD.

[Member #6704]

Outside of this forum. Is anyone aware of or part of any other SD / SB discussion forums. One of my sb eluded to it. But don't know her enough to press details yet.

[NotPrinceAli]

Outside of this forum. Is anyone aware of or part of any other SD / SB discussion forums. One of my sb eluded to it. But don't know her enough to press details yet.There's a pretty active subreddit on Reddit. That's probably what she's referring to, I've heard about it from a few SBs.

[Member #6718]

Outside of this forum. Is anyone aware of or part of any other SD / SB discussion forums. One of my sb eluded to it. But don't know her enough to press details yet.Just slf and a couple of other subs on reddit.

And of course a million private group chats.

[Member #6704]

Anyone seen tiny little pixie?

[Nominal]

I just want to say I appreciate y'all for taking the time to give me some advice and understanding in all this. It without a doubt made me avoid some obvious pitfalls that I otherwise would have made, and some good perspective. Luckily enough I should be able to follow through on said advice whether it be from being smart and never hosting at my place, to the best burner, and making sure to keep the finances separate and to really explore my options. I will let you all know if I meet anyone choice, how this all goes for me, and if / when I end up exploding my real life for this hobby. I know that this will end up making everything more complicated but it should be a fun ride in the meantime. There is a whole lot of options of people to meet out there and I am looking forward to getting started. Any suggestions on a good budget to start? Seems like it would be real easy to get addicted to all the time and attention you can get for flashing a little cash.

[Hal1957]

Why would you pay 300 for a 40 year old? Because you prefer the vibe of an adult. You're more likely to get that with a 40 year old than a 23 year old.


Fair enough if attached, but still, you can get a hot 23 year old For 300 so who would want this?

[Hal1957]

There are several forums on Reddit. Stick with SugarLifestyleForum, the others are glorified content sellers. You'll see the entire range of personalities there, SB and SD. And FFS do not use the same screen name you use here. As others have pointed out, it's very easy to search out your USASG posts.


Outside of this forum. Is anyone aware of or part of any other SD / SB discussion forums. One of my sb eluded to it. But don't know her enough to press details yet.

[SgtHappyEnding]

"I am seeking for a serious soulmate and a lifetime lover. ".

If she's asking deep questions I'm guess she's sincere about that statement and will likely not be open to the usual type of Sugar relationship that's predominantly discussed in this thread. Some women actually use seeking for legit dating.I think she's looking for serious dating. Nothing wrong with that. But not quite the thing for most of us.

[NewAnonymousName]

Hey all, I am a long time lurker who has finally decided to bite the bullet and am looking for some advice. I have finally come into a little money and thought I would give this whole sugar thing a whirl, it seems much more appealing to me than the traditional escort route. I work from home with a job that has half forgotten about me so I have the time, have a nice enough apartment and car to impress, and have finally come into a bit of money so I have the funds. The only thing in my way is that I still have a girlfriend (one who I have not slept with since the pandemic). We have separate finances and I drive her to and from work most days so no real threat of the whole coming home early thing, but still not ideal. Are there any more senior members willing to lend some wisdom on how to navigate this sorta thing so I do not end up with more trouble than I bargained?I almost forgot one thing. There are posts in the past about how to get the right gift cards and use them to pay for a Seeking membership so you can see and send messages. This will be helpful if your live in girlfriend reviews your credit cards. Search VISA and you'll find those posts.

[BumbaCloth]

Any info on her?

https://members.seeking.com/member/8d6fe6b6-4a82-4f94-9ab5-ded2f7656260

[NewAnonymousName]

Belongs_to_you is a pic seller.

I messaged her. After some back and forth, she revealed that she lives in Florida, not Atlanta. Out of curiosity, I told her I have a beach house just an hour from where she lives (I wish I did. LOL). As expected, she revealed that she wants to be paid to send me pics and videos. She might meet me someday. Yeah, right. Blocked her.

https://members.seeking.com/member/fa60aced-cba3-4ead-8963-229272a4f1c8

[DaRiv]

https://members.seeking.com/member/a58c1f81-ec62-4738-8052-3408012fc06a

Seemed nice at first, very personable. After asking what she was looking for, she said she was new to this, but knew that she didn't want "anything sexual. " What a pity. She'll get nothing financial then, at least not from me.1000% a scammer. Talk to her on SDM. Left the site and went to text. Immediately started trying to sell pictures or videos and making up reasons as to why she couldn't meet etc. Basically said she's looking for online relationship. She's looking for a simp not a sugar daddy. Like so many of the rest. She's blocked on SDM. And I know immediately blocked her on SA as well because I always verbally blast these lazy ass hoes when they're looking for simps. Then I block them right away.