View Full Version : "Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"
Peter Johnson
12-02-22, 19:03
In defense of those guys treating it like an escort experience, there are a lot of escorts in the bowl too..It is a full spectrum, on the site, that runs from stone cold hookers, at one extreme, to women who are interested in platonic dating, on the other. I actually talked to one like that who hadn't had sex in 27 years and was only on the site to find male friends. The rest of the girls are at different levels, between those two extremes.
I sometimes treat it like an escort experience, and other times I (somewhat foolishly) treat it like quasi-romantic dating. And I have even done both in the same day, with two different girls.
Generally, the women are on the site for the money, and most of them enjoy sex, so that is just a somewhat enjoyable way to get paid. And if they have more fun on a date than they expect, then that's just a bonus.
It is a full spectrum, on the site, that runs from stone cold hookers, at one extreme, to women who are interested in platonic dating, on the other. I actually talked to one like that who hadn't had sex in 27 years and was only on the site to find male friends. The rest of the girls are at different levels, between those two extremes.
I sometimes treat it like an escort experience, and other times I (somewhat foolishly) treat it like quasi-romantic dating. And I have even done both in the same day, with two different girls.
Generally, the women are on the site for the money, and most of them enjoy sex, so that is just a somewhat enjoyable way to get paid. And if they have more fun on a date than they expect, then that's just a bonus.My basic modus operandi is to avoid escorts as much as possible, but sometimes the line is too blurry to navigate, and at the end of the day I just want to get laid. My policy when I do need to operate in the grey area is that if they behave like a hooker, I am going to treat them as such and likewise if they behave as a daddy's girl they get an entirely different type of treatment from me.
Case in point, I once met a young hottie who I would categorize as a sugar baby and not escort (at least not yet), but she had been in the scene for nearly a couple of years, so she wasn't new to the game -- and I got the impression she was committed to the sugar lifestyle rather than regular dating. In other words, she had given up on dating in her age bracket and was strictly going for older high income guys.
Via texting, I explained my offering in terms of an ongoing arrangement and we texted back and forth a few times before setting up a meet. She started negotiating a higher rate and was being fairly stubborn about it, it was late in the evening, I was horny, and she was extremely hot so I agreed a middle ground between her terms and mine which was $100 more than my standard offering for per-meet, but this was in an expensive market anyway so I thought no big deal. When she showed up, it became clear to me she did not fully understand the monthly amount I was originally offering (and what all was involved) and was more focused on getting a per-meet price. As if she was assuming I would never call her again, or maybe that I was somehow not to be trusted. She did not demand payment up front but seemed like she wouldn't be at ease until I gave her a reason to trust me, so I did something that I never do. I pulled out the cash first, and said "here, put that in your purse". I am against the practice of paying before the deed, but made this one exception. Once I did that, it was like I had turned off the stress switch, she became very comfortable around me.
But, by pacifying her with cash up front, it made her a hooker in my eyes. So as she is sitting there on the couch, starting to kind of cuddle and talking about whatever she felt like talking about, I just unzipped my pants, pulled out my cock with one hand and pulled her head down into my lap with the other hand, stuffing her mouth so I didn't have to listen to any more talk. I then proceeded to fuck her like the paid sex object she demanded to be, making sure I got my moneys worth. Came inside, didn't ask for permission. Wham bam thank you mam and you may go home now thanks and nice meeting. Never called her again. Beautiful girl and a nice fuck, but negotiating rates and paying up front is something hookers do, so that's not going to be a repeat situation for me.
ReffingMan94
12-03-22, 11:20
This forum would be great if we went back to reviewing & recommending Sugar babies.
My basic modus operandi is to avoid escorts as much as possible, but sometimes the line is too blurry to navigate, and at the end of the day I just want to get laid. My policy when I do need to operate in the grey area is that if they behave like a hooker, I am going to treat them as such and likewise if they behave as a daddy's girl they get an entirely different type of treatment from me.
Case in point, I once met a young hottie who I would categorize as a sugar baby and not escort (at least not yet), but she had been in the scene for nearly a couple of years, so she wasn't new to the game -- and I got the impression she was committed to the sugar lifestyle rather than regular dating. In other words, she had given up on dating in her age bracket and was strictly going for older high income guys.
Via texting, I explained my offering in terms of an ongoing arrangement and we texted back and forth a few times before setting up a meet. She started negotiating a higher rate and was being fairly stubborn about it, it was late in the evening, I was horny, and she was extremely hot so I agreed a middle ground between her terms and mine which was $100 more than my standard offering for per-meet, but this was in an expensive market anyway so I thought no big deal. When she showed up, it became clear to me she did not fully understand the monthly amount I was originally offering (and what all was involved) and was more focused on getting a per-meet price. As if she was assuming I would never call her again, or maybe that I was somehow not to be trusted. She did not demand payment up front but seemed like she wouldn't be at ease until I gave her a reason to trust me, so I did something that I never do. I pulled out the cash first, and said "here, put that in your purse". I am against the practice of paying before the deed, but made this one exception. Once I did that, it was like I had turned off the stress switch, she became very comfortable around me.
But, by pacifying her with cash up front, it made her a hooker in my eyes. So as she is sitting there on the couch, starting to kind of cuddle and talking about whatever she felt like talking about, I just unzipped my pants, pulled out my cock with one hand and pulled her head down into my lap with the other hand, stuffing her mouth so I didn't have to listen to any more talk. I then proceeded to fuck her like the paid sex object she demanded to be, making sure I got my moneys worth. Came inside, didn't ask for permission. Wham bam thank you mam and you may go home now thanks and nice meeting. Never called her again. Beautiful girl and a nice fuck, but negotiating rates and paying up front is something hookers do, so that's not going to be a repeat situation for me.
This forum would be great if we went back to reviewing & recommending Sugar babies.It would be even better if we could collectively gather the wherewithal to understand not everyone plays the game the same way. Some are here to exchange ideas and experiences, not review escorts. Real SBs choose who they fuck. If johns are making appointments with girls based on reviews, they are just customers to an escort. The only way I would post something about a specific girl and her profile on this forum is if I had a particularly bad experience and wanted to warn others, but so far that hasn't happened yet. If someone wants to review girls as commodities, however, fine with me and this is a reasonable place to do that. Its not my place to be a prick and presume to tell them what to do.
It would be even better if we could collectively gather the wherewithal to understand not everyone plays the game the same way. Some are here to exchange ideas and experiences, not review escorts. Real SBs choose who they fuck. If johns are making appointments with girls based on reviews, they are just customers to an escort. The only way I would post something about a specific girl and her profile on this forum is if I had a particularly bad experience and wanted to warn others, but so far that hasn't happened yet. If someone wants to review girls as commodities, however, fine with me and this is a reasonable place to do that. Its not my place to be a prick and presume to tell them what to do.I read it all and base who I see, and approach on all I've read, so thank from me for any and all info / suggestions.
FarFarAway
12-03-22, 13:08
This forum would be great if we went back to reviewing & recommending Sugar babies.YK seeking is the only place I can find the relationship type I am looking for. Because that is what it is, for someone I am seeing, I am not going to pimp her out on this site. It is just completely anathema to how I relate to them. If you want to review escorts, there are different threads for that. I am not even from Atlanta, but I read this thread to get perspective and ideas, and to offer my own experience. I don't care a whit about some girl in Gwinnett who DTs.
BumbaCloth
12-05-22, 12:35
She got mad that I couldn't meet her the same day.
https://members.seeking.com/member/d868bfcf-9d70-447a-b031-f9a26f7a1aa7
BumbaCloth
12-05-22, 12:37
Any info on them.
Bellas Play House.
https://members.seeking.com/member/d868bfcf-9d70-447a-b031-f9a26f7a1aa7
GoneForGood97
12-05-22, 12:38
This forum would be great if we went back to reviewing & recommending Sugar babies.Alright, being as you're so eager to get this thread back on track, drop a review of your top 1 or 2 SB recommendations from the past 30-60 days. Don't forget to include profile links and / or pics. And no, reviews of obvious scammers / pic sellers don't count.
GoneForGood97
12-05-22, 12:40
Any info on them.
Bellas Play House.
https://members.seeking.com/member/d868bfcf-9d70-447a-b031-f9a26f7a1aa7You linked to Nezzy in both of your posts.
GoneForGood97
12-05-22, 12:57
https://members.seeking.com/member/9...9-036c5aaeaa54
Here's one a I saw earlier in the year when she was in Atlanta. Very fun, very kinky, just loves sex. Very much wants the "date experience" especially at first, so be prepared to do dinner / drinks first. She bounces between SC and Atlanta so keep an eye out and catch her next time she's in Atl.
Very submissive but doesn't give head on a first date, though still fucks bare. Will suck your cock like it's the cure to aging after the first date though LOL. She didn't host in Atlanta, so was a little higher than I recommend at 300 plus hotel. If she hosts though 300 is very worth it as she is the perfect little submissive sl ut. Toys, anal, BDSM, the works. Treat her well.
BadNewsBear
12-05-22, 14:15
She got mad that I couldn't meet her the same day.
https://members.seeking.com/member/d868bfcf-9d70-447a-b031-f9a26f7a1aa7She's been around for a while, this is like her third profile and right now she is desperate for money. I have been hitting her on and off for a couple years, 200 all bare but you probably could get it for less. I just don't want her anymore because she is aggravating me now and plus I'm just tired of her. Also she has lost weight from those pics she claims she only does weed and sometimes pills but I think its more than that, but she is good and definitely dtf.
https://members.seeking.com/member/9...9-036c5aaeaa54
You posted a bad link.
DudeNextDoor
12-05-22, 14:53
After talking to her it seems it's possibly a group of escorts traveling around or a complete scam. She said it was her and a few friends and the prices range based on which girl you go with. I asked for pics of all the friends and then google image searched them. A couple showed up on escort sites and one was on porn subreddit. I ignored her after that. She sent a message a couple days later saying they'd all be leaving town for the holiday soon.
Any info on them.
Bellas Play House.
https://members.seeking.com/member/d868bfcf-9d70-447a-b031-f9a26f7a1aa7
DudeNextDoor
12-05-22, 14:54
I think the profile has been deleted.
You posted a bad link.
She got mad that I couldn't meet her the same day.
https://members.seeking.com/member/d868bfcf-9d70-447a-b031-f9a26f7a1aa7I met with Arlena about three years ago. She would drive to me in Gwinnett for 100 $ a pop. BBBJ, BBFSCIP with multiple pops. Eventually, she needed money to pay rent and needed 600 $. At that point, I cut her off and moved on.
BumbaCloth
12-05-22, 16:32
https://members.seeking.com/member/2f94c5d2-b0ec-4cd3-b077-046735b28655
DudeNextDoor
12-05-22, 17:05
This profile uses one of the pics "Bella" sent me privately. A google image search of the profile pic had multiple hits on escort sites but it looks like they've taken down the ads now.
After talking to her it seems it's possibly a group of escorts traveling around or a complete scam. She said it was her and a few friends and the prices range based on which girl you go with. I asked for pics of all the friends and then google image searched them. A couple showed up on escort sites and one was on porn subreddit. I ignored her after that. She sent a message a couple days later saying they'd all be leaving town for the holiday soon.
MatteoRusso
12-05-22, 17:29
This profile uses one of the pics "Bella" sent me privately. A google image search of the profile pic had multiple hits on escort sites but it looks like they've taken down the ads now.https://members.seeking.com/member/2f94c5d2-b0ec-4cd3-b077-046735b28655?_cf_ref=aHR0cDovL3d3dy51c2FzZXhndWlkZS5ubC8%3D
She messaged me a few weeks ago and I wanted to definitely clap those cheeks for a few hours. She wanted 7 Benjamins for dinner to see if we had Chemistry but never mentioned doing the deed. I told her to stop wasting my time as I am a very busy Businessman. She later messaged me again apologizing and requesting 12 Benjamins for a 3 some with her friend but I declined as she seemed very shady. I got scammer vibes from her.
LouisHernandez
12-05-22, 18:45
This is an active forum, curious if the market prices have deflated from the covid BS money printing days? The vibe I get and from my experience is supply and demand is getting back to normal, but would like some other data points besides my own.
LouisHernandez
12-05-22, 18:54
But, by pacifying her with cash up front, it made her a hooker in my eyes. So as she is sitting there on the couch, starting to kind of cuddle and talking about whatever she felt like talking about, I just unzipped my pants, pulled out my cock with one hand and pulled her head down into my lap with the other hand, stuffing her mouth so I didn't have to listen to any more talk. I then proceeded to fuck her like the paid sex object she demanded to be, making sure I got my moneys worth. Came inside, didn't ask for permission. Wham bam thank you mam and you may go home now thanks and nice meeting. Never called her again. Beautiful girl and a nice fuck, but negotiating rates and paying up front is something hookers do, so that's not going to be a repeat situation for me.Excellent post and on point. I've paid upfront one time b / c she was that hot. I was mad about it but got my money's worth from the deed, and never saw her again either. Once you spend all the time and effort to get them back to your place, it's pretty much impossible to cancel trying to score, it's all up to them on if the situation reoccurs or not. Hookers I will never see twice.
LouisHernandez
12-05-22, 19:49
That all makes a lot of sense.
My MO is a little different. I am single, and enjoy dating younger chicks. So if they end up wanting it to be more of regular relationship, and I am into them, then I am generally 100% down with that. My challenge in my home turf is most of the chicks these days tend to be more pro about it all.I've been on SA for 6 years on and off, all throughout my 40's. I've never been able to cross over into vanilla dating when I tried. Once there is a monetary exchange for sex, it's impossible to just "flip a switch" and start vanilla dating any of these girl. In my mind it will never work, but the times I've tried, the girl wasn't interested either. For now if I'm looking for vanilla I just go to a vanilla site. SBs to me are just amateur prostitutes. Don't kid yourself. And that's fine, I use an all of the above approach. Vanilla dating takes too long to get laid so that's what SBs are for.
Member #6704
12-05-22, 20:49
I've been on SA for 6 years on and off, all throughout my 40's. I've never been able to cross over into vanilla dating when I tried. Once there is a monetary exchange for sex, it's impossible to just "flip a switch" and start vanilla dating any of these girl. In my mind it will never work, but the times I've tried, the girl wasn't interested either. For now if I'm looking for vanilla I just go to a vanilla site. SBs to me are just amateur prostitutes. Don't kid yourself. And that's fine, I use an all of the above approach. Vanilla dating takes too long to get laid so that's what SBs are for.Agree 100%. There might be some exceptions always. But above statement is the norm.
Peter Johnson
12-05-22, 23:47
I've been on SA for 6 years on and off, all throughout my 40's. I've never been able to cross over into vanilla dating when I tried. Once there is a monetary exchange for sex, it's impossible to just "flip a switch" and start vanilla dating any of these girl. In my mind it will never work, but the times I've tried, the girl wasn't interested either. For now if I'm looking for vanilla I just go to a vanilla site. SBs to me are just amateur prostitutes. Don't kid yourself. And that's fine, I use an all of the above approach. Vanilla dating takes too long to get laid so that's what SBs are for.Very well said. And time is money, so sugar dating is often less expensive than a vanilla dating woman who f*cks you for "free". But yes every time I try to do some regular dating, it always feels like there is something missing. I suppose we are just corrupted and spoiled too much, at this point. And as you point out, amateur prostitutes are the best prostitutes.
Member #6718
12-06-22, 00:38
I've been on SA for 6 years on and off, all throughout my 40's. I've never been able to cross over into vanilla dating when I tried. Once there is a monetary exchange for sex, it's impossible to just "flip a switch" and start vanilla dating any of these girl. In my mind it will never work, but the times I've tried, the girl wasn't interested either. For now if I'm looking for vanilla I just go to a vanilla site. SBs to me are just amateur prostitutes. Don't kid yourself. And that's fine, I use an all of the above approach. Vanilla dating takes too long to get laid so that's what SBs are for.Same here. Got on when I was 42 and still off and on (more on than off LOL) at 50.
Pretty much agree. The situations where I have had more of a vanilla or a purely vanilla relationship with seeking chicks is where they started out that way, with no $$$ exchange. My longest relationship post divorce was with someone from seeking 21 years my junior, and while she was "spoiled" and enjoyed an elevated lifestyle, at no point did I ever hand cash over to her. I can see it would be hard to make the jump from here is a few hundred bucks to fuck to hey be my serious gf.
Member #6718
12-06-22, 00:45
Very well said. And time is money, so sugar dating is often less expensive than a vanilla dating woman who f*cks you for "free". But yes every time I try to do some regular dating, it always feels like there is something missing. I suppose we are just corrupted and spoiled too much, at this point. And as you point out, amateur prostitutes are the best prostitutes.Haha yep there have been some vanilla dating chicks this year I have spent a fortune on for not much end action. I mean there is more to it than just sex, but damn at the end of the day the cost of getting laid can get wild.
A lot of sense being talked on this board. Sorry to the guys who just want to hear about whose dtf LOL.
LouisHernandez
12-06-22, 13:54
Very well said. And time is money, so sugar dating is often less expensive than a vanilla dating woman who f*cks you for "free". But yes every time I try to do some regular dating, it always feels like there is something missing. I suppose we are just corrupted and spoiled too much, at this point. And as you point out, amateur prostitutes are the best prostitutes.Seeking has at times skewed my vanilla dating cadence. I must remember to slow down my pace significantly in the vanilla real world, else I'll spook them.
LouisHernandez
12-06-22, 14:00
Same here. Got on when I was 42 and still off and on (more on than off LOL) at 50.
Pretty much agree. The situations where I have had more of a vanilla or a purely vanilla relationship with seeking chicks is where they started out that way, with no $$$ exchange. My longest relationship post divorce was with someone from seeking 21 years my junior, and while she was "spoiled" and enjoyed an elevated lifestyle, at no point did I ever hand cash over to her. I can see it would be hard to make the jump from here is a few hundred bucks to fuck to hey be my serious gf.$200 and then after "hey be my girlfriend", well honestly there is no girl I will want to date long term that took $200 for sex anyway. These aren't girls you will "take home to momma". These amateur prostitutes do serve a purpose and god bless them for that.
TravelinSD
12-06-22, 14:09
Here's a nut job to avoid. We texted a bit, all nice and cordial. We finally got down to specifics and she says $500. I politely responded that was out of my range and the most I could do was $300. She responded:
"Did you forget what I look like?
And sent me about 10 very sexy pics and this response:
"If you are a man who does not like to invest in a quality woman's time, please just being mature adult, and say that so that I can block you and make sure that I never received a message from your greedy ass again. ".
This was my response:
"I know you're incredibly sexy, and I'm sure you're very much in demand. I was considering it, but after the attitude with that last sentence I'm definitely not interested. I'm blocking you as well. ".
I then blocked her on both Google Voice as well as on SA.
Then I receive like 4 calls on GV from another number. Here's the transcript from the messages:
"Kill yourself? You're f* worthless. You're f* useless. You're nothing f* kill yourself. Put a f* bullet through your no good worthless brain, b*. ".
Personally, rather than put a bullet through my brain, I'd say I dodged a bullet, LOL. No girl who turns that nasty would be a good experience to be with.
Sorry I don't have the link to her profile, I wanted to block it ASAP.
As always, Good Hunting.
Travelin.
NewAnonymousName
12-06-22, 14:11
Here's a nut job to avoid. We texted a bit, all nice and cordial. We finally got down to specifics and she says $500. I politely responded that was out of my range and the most I could do was $300. She responded:
"Did you forget what I look like?
And sent me about 10 very sexy pics and this response:
"If you are a man who does not like to invest in a quality woman's time, please just being mature adult, and say that so that I can block you and make sure that I never received a message from your greedy ass again. ".
This was my response:
"I know you're incredibly sexy, and I'm sure you're very much in demand. I was considering it, but after the attitude with that last sentence I'm definitely not interested. I'm blocking you as well. ".
I then blocked her on both Google Voice as well as on SA.
Then I receive like 4 calls on GV from another number. Here's the transcript from the messages:
"Kill yourself? You're f* worthless. You're f* useless. You're nothing f* kill yourself. Put a f* bullet through your no good worthless brain, b*. ".
Personally, rather than put a bullet through my brain, I'd say I dodged a bullet, LOL. No girl who turns that nasty would be a good experience to be with.
Sorry I don't have the link to her profile, I wanted to block it ASAP.
As always, Good Hunting.
Travelin.Here is the link: https://members.seeking.com/member/703acf70-807a-4a67-b0f1-1c364aff3f6f.
Atlanta2010
12-06-22, 14:35
Here is the link: https://members.seeking.com/member/703acf70-807a-4a67-b0f1-1c364aff3f6f.Ria and I were chatting, I went to bed and had work the next day. I'm less than 24 h she let out the crazy.
She sent me a text at 11 pm, I didn't respond in the morning then at 2 pm she sent me:
" Ha ha I guess that's not your type a mature man would've just said that".
" What a fucking joke".
Not even 24 hours before blowing up. And this was in response to me saying I'm more a country guy than a city guy and she responded she was a city girl. LOL.
Atlanta2010
12-06-22, 14:38
Here is the link: https://members.seeking.com/member/703acf70-807a-4a67-b0f1-1c364aff3f6f.Ria and I were chatting, I went to bed and had work the next day. I'm less than 24 h she let out the crazy.
She sent me a text at 11 pm, I didn't respond in the morning then at 2 pm she sent me:
" Ha ha I guess that's not your type a mature man would've just said that".
" What a fucking joke".
Not even 24 hours before blowing up. And this was in response to me saying I'm more a country guy than a city guy and she responded she was a city girl. LOL.
GoneForGood97
12-06-22, 16:34
I think the profile has been deleted.Looks like it's still up, I must've not copied the entire link. Let me know if this works better. Becca Belle: https://members.seeking.com/member/9d86a14d-d22e-421f-8849-036c5aaeaa54.
TylerDurden07
12-06-22, 16:54
https://members.seeking.com/member/793818e0-82a8-4362-9eef-d01ad1e31457
Nice chat on the site & then had a pretty lengthy nice chat via text. Communications were good & she was more detailed about her life & background than your typical scam artist. She's in Carrollton & won't travel "until (she) knows (she) can trust you. " My spidey sense got activated but I told her I'll see how soon I could get over to Carrollton. Her pics are hot, so I determined she was worth the drive. She was fine with that & then. Wait for it. Started insisted I "spoil" her right this second! Yeah, sending money without a meet first. Um, no, I think I'll pass. Gave her some snarky but truthful advice about what the word "mutual" means & then cut off contact with her.
Those pics are mighty impressive, but you've been warned. WHY oh WHY do most of these young'uns operate under the impression that a potential daddy is just going to start plying her with money merely because they have a little nice chat with you? So damn frustrating.
TylerDurden07
12-06-22, 16:57
https://members.seeking.com/member/bb17f20d-1cd3-41aa-a466-28fa323a0e92
I could swear I've talked to this one in the distant past but my memory fails me. Anybody know anything about her?
DocHolliday35
12-06-22, 17:21
https://members.seeking.com/member/bb17f20d-1cd3-41aa-a466-28fa323a0e92
I could swear I've talked to this one in the distant past but my memory fails me. Anybody know anything about her?Why would you even start a conversation with somebody who has an attitude like that in just their name? Imagine them in real life. Like a wild cat.
TylerDurden07
12-06-22, 17:50
Why would you even start a conversation with somebody who has an attitude like that in just their name? Imagine them in real life. Like a wild cat.She hit me up first. Convo ok so far, but there's just a little something off about her. Just wondering if anyone had any experience with her.
LouisHernandez
12-06-22, 17:53
Here's a nut job to avoid. We texted a bit, all nice and cordial. We finally got down to specifics and she says $500. I politely responded that was out of my range and the most I could do was $300. She responded:
"Did you forget what I look like?
And sent me about 10 very sexy pics and this response:
"If you are a man who does not like to invest in a quality woman's time, please just being mature adult, and say that so that I can block you and make sure that I never received a message from your greedy ass again. ".
This was my response:
"I know you're incredibly sexy, and I'm sure you're very much in demand. I was considering it, but after the attitude with that last sentence I'm definitely not interested. I'm blocking you as well. ".
I then blocked her on both Google Voice as well as on SA.
Then I receive like 4 calls on GV from another number. Here's the transcript from the messages:
"Kill yourself? You're f* worthless. You're f* useless. You're nothing f* kill yourself. Put a f* bullet through your no good worthless brain, b*. ".
Personally, rather than put a bullet through my brain, I'd say I dodged a bullet, LOL. No girl who turns that nasty would be a good experience to be with.
Sorry I don't have the link to her profile, I wanted to block it ASAP.
As always, Good Hunting.
Travelin.The girls that ask for money up front are always scammers / rinsers / clock watchers / lunatics. It's the ones that happily accept $200 after the fact without asking up front that are the best. Easy filter.
TylerDurden07
12-06-22, 17:54
Ria and I were chatting, I went to bed and had work the next day. I'm less than 24 h she let out the crazy.
She sent me a text at 11 pm, I didn't respond in the morning then at 2 pm she sent me:
" Ha ha I guess that's not your type a mature man would've just said that".
" What a fucking joke".
Not even 24 hours before blowing up. And this was in response to me saying I'm more a country guy than a city guy and she responded she was a city girl. LOL.Yep. That's her. See my fun experiences with her within the last month.
GokuBoy420
12-07-22, 00:37
https://members.seeking.com/member/9...9-036c5aaeaa54
Here's one a I saw earlier in the year when she was in Atlanta. Very fun, very kinky, just loves sex. Very much wants the "date experience" especially at first, so be prepared to do dinner / drinks first. She bounces between SC and Atlanta so keep an eye out and catch her next time she's in Atl.
Very submissive but doesn't give head on a first date, though still fucks bare. Will suck your cock like it's the cure to aging after the first date though LOL. She didn't host in Atlanta, so was a little higher than I recommend at 300 plus hotel. If she hosts though 300 is very worth it as she is the perfect little submissive sl ut. Toys, anal, BDSM, the works. Treat her well.3 $$ and hotel, can go for hours. BBBJ, bbfscip, squirts and cums so much. She forgot how many times she did LOL.
NewAnonymousName
12-07-22, 13:48
Broken4lyfe seemed promising. She sent a G rated picture. Then she hit me up for money when I asked for better pics. Maybe she's DTF if you work at it. But that annoyed me. I hate picture sellers. I haven't heard from her since I declined to pay for pics.
https://members.seeking.com/member/296703b0-72fc-4fbd-9747-92b70fd2af18
Peter Johnson
12-07-22, 14:12
Seeking has at times skewed my vanilla dating cadence. I must remember to slow down my pace significantly in the vanilla real world, else I'll spook them.Same here. It takes a very focused change in approach on Bumble or other tradiitional dating apps. The conversation on Seeking just feels so much more honest and direct by comparison. I told this one woman on Bumble that she had "nice cleavage" and she got all offended and bent out of shape.
And then of course it's rare to get sex on the first date from the ones I meet off of there. It has happened, but very few and far between. And as you say, there is more to dating than sex, but it's certainly a nice bonus to have it included.
LouisHernandez
12-07-22, 17:47
https://members.seeking.com/member/793818e0-82a8-4362-9eef-d01ad1e31457
Nice chat on the site & then had a pretty lengthy nice chat via text. Communications were good & she was more detailed about her life & background than your typical scam artist. She's in Carrollton & won't travel "until (she) knows (she) can trust you. " My spidey sense got activated but I told her I'll see how soon I could get over to Carrollton. Her pics are hot, so I determined she was worth the drive. She was fine with that & then. Wait for it. Started insisted I "spoil" her right this second! Yeah, sending money without a meet first. Um, no, I think I'll pass. Gave her some snarky but truthful advice about what the word "mutual" means & then cut off contact with her.
Those pics are mighty impressive, but you've been warned. WHY oh WHY do most of these young'uns operate under the impression that a potential daddy is just going to start plying her with money merely because they have a little nice chat with you? So damn frustrating.B / c she's hot and knows it and there are stupid simps out there playing her ridiculous con game. Pictures are just colored pixels on my screen, I'm not paying one cent for that either.
BumbaCloth
12-07-22, 18:54
Wants 6 ben Franklin no oral or anal and wants to go eat host out of a hotel.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/caa7c9032b78364d
LouisHernandez
12-07-22, 19:34
Same here. It takes a very focused change in approach on Bumble or other tradiitional dating apps. The conversation on Seeking just feels so much more honest and direct by comparison. I told this one woman on Bumble that she had "nice cleavage" and she got all offended and bent out of shape.
And then of course it's rare to get sex on the first date from the ones I meet off of there. It has happened, but very few and far between. And as you say, there is more to dating than sex, but it's certainly a nice bonus to have it included.I'm going to fire up bumble next week after I take some new pics. I've been dieting pretty hard core for the past 8 weeks. One tip I recommend is using photofeeler.com , post your pics and get them rated. I learned I'm my own worst critic / fan when it comes to my own pics.
I'll get back in the sugar bowl after new years b / c I'm pretty much running dry. The last SB put on 15 pounds from my previous encounter and I simply can't hit that again. Weight gain is the most annoying thing with these girls forcing me have to go fishing in the bowl again. It sucks b / c she had no rules and was trustworthy, a rare thing to find.
NewAnonymousName
12-07-22, 21:53
I'm going to fire up bumble next week after I take some new pics. I've been dieting pretty hard core for the past 8 weeks. One tip I recommend is using photofeeler.com , post your pics and get them rated. I learned I'm my own worst critic / fan when it comes to my own pics.
I'll get back in the sugar bowl after new years b / c I'm pretty much running dry. The last SB put on 15 pounds from my previous encounter and I simply can't hit that again. Weight gain is the most annoying thing with these girls forcing me have to go fishing in the bowl again. It sucks b / c she had no rules and was trustworthy, a rare thing to find.That's pretty funny about the weight gain. How old is she? I don't mind a little pudge on a young one.
What's Bumble like? Is it the best civilian dating site going? It's "about" describes that only women can contact you, not vice versa. That makes me question it.
LouisHernandez
12-07-22, 23:36
That's pretty funny about the weight gain. How old is she? I don't mind a little pudge on a young one.
What's Bumble like? Is it the best civilian dating site going? It's "about" describes that only women can contact you, not vice versa. That makes me question it.I've had some luck on bumble with 7 and up but it's been a while. It works better than the other sites b / c women must msg first. Simps ruin all the other dating sites b / c the dudes blow the girls inbox up. It's different than seeking as seeking requires a pretty sizeable membership fee to message any girls, not the case with bumble. If you don't have really good photos on bumble or any civilian dating site you are completely wasting your time. Seeking you can get away with not looking so good although don't kid yourself, if you stand out on seeking, there's a lot less BS thrown your way and girls all of a sudden get much more affordable and less flakey.
I'll run both in parallel and post results as they come in.
The chunky chick is 27. She was already a little pudgy, the 15 extra pounds put her over the edge. She said she had the flu or something and hasn't been able to exercise. Who knows and who cares.
Peter Johnson
12-08-22, 03:15
I've had some luck on bumble with 7 and up but it's been a while. It works better than the other sites b / c women must msg first. Simps ruin all the other dating sites b / c the dudes blow the girls inbox up. It's different than seeking as seeking requires a pretty sizeable membership fee to message any girls, not the case with bumble. If you don't have really good photos on bumble or any civilian dating site you are completely wasting your time. Seeking you can get away with not looking so good although don't kid yourself, if you stand out on seeking, there's a lot less BS thrown your way and girls all of a sudden get much more affordable and less flakey.
The women messaging first on Bumble is really just a gimmick. Perhaps it makes them feel more in control and "empowered", but the two people still have to match first, so it doesn't really matter who sends the first message, at that point. If you are young and attractive, then Bumble is probably a good hookup app. But old and relatively unattractive, not so much.
And yes, I always say I am much better looking with $300 in my hand, which is why I do ok on Seeking. $300 can raise you from a 5 to a 7...if not an 8, depending on when the girl's rent is due.
HollywoodGuy
12-08-22, 05:24
Here's a nut job to avoid. We texted a bit, all nice and cordial. We finally got down to specifics and she says $500. I politely responded that was out of my range and the most I could do was $300. She responded:
"Did you forget what I look like?
And sent me about 10 very sexy pics and this response:
"If you are a man who does not like to invest in a quality woman's time, please just being mature adult, and say that so that I can block you and make sure that I never received a message from your greedy ass again. ".
This was my response:
"I know you're incredibly sexy, and I'm sure you're very much in demand. I was considering it, but after the attitude with that last sentence I'm definitely not interested. I'm blocking you as well. ".
I then blocked her on both Google Voice as well as on SA.
Then I receive like 4 calls on GV from another number. Here's the transcript from the messages:
"Kill yourself? You're f* worthless. You're f* useless. You're nothing f* kill yourself. Put a f* bullet through your no good worthless brain, b*. ".
Personally, rather than put a bullet through my brain, I'd say I dodged a bullet, LOL. No girl who turns that nasty would be a good experience to be with.
Sorry I don't have the link to her profile, I wanted to block it ASAP.
As always, Good Hunting.
Travelin.Try dating something besides white girls. Tell me I am wrong. Its my opinion that all the karens that get guys banned from seeking are white. Just my 2 cents.
Try dating something besides white girls. Tell me I am wrong. Its my opinion that all the karens that get guys banned from seeking are white. Just my 2 cents.As someone who dates all types -- white / black / asian / latina / various mixes of any or all of above and stopped counting their SB conquests after the number exceeded 1500, I can tell you that BSCD (bat shit crazy disease) does not discriminate by race. The nut jobs come in all colors.
CrempieLover
12-08-22, 09:05
As someone who dates all types -- white / black / asian / latina / various mixes of any or all of above and stopped counting their SB conquests after the number exceeded 1500, I can tell you that BSCD (bat shit crazy disease) does not discriminate by race. The nut jobs come in all colors.It's like the crazy / hot scale. The hotter they are most likely means they are bat shit crazy.
I've had some luck on bumble with 7 and up but it's been a while. It works better than the other sites b / c women must msg first. Does it allow you to set who you want (age range etc) messages from? On most civilian dating sites, if I post real pics of myself I get too many requests from 40+ cougars because I look young for my age and they tend to be dreamers (thinking they are in my dating league). For it to work for me, there would likely need to be a way to indicate I'm looking for a young age range and auto-filter incoming requests from anyone else.
You're wrong. Shit like this has no place here.
Try dating something besides white girls. Tell me I am wrong. Its my opinion that all the karens that get guys banned from seeking are white. Just my 2 cents.
LouisHernandez
12-08-22, 14:29
Does it allow you to set who you want (age range etc) messages from? On most civilian dating sites, if I post real pics of myself I get too many requests from 40+ cougars because I look young for my age and they tend to be dreamers (thinking they are in my dating league). For it to work for me, there would likely need to be a way to indicate I'm looking for a young age range and auto-filter incoming requests from anyone else.Maybe this will help:
The other thing I like about bumble is there's just a lot more volume especially if you are in a big city and are located near the city center. Seeking, depending on your location, can be sparse; I see too many of the same girls. On seeking I typically run a 30 day membership and then quit for 3-4 months and wait for a fresh crop to come in. Also you can use bumble in a desktop web browser ( I hate smart phone apps)
Oh another thing about bumble, you can easily disable your profile / make yourself invisible when you want to take a break. This is all without paying anything.
FarFarAway
12-08-22, 14:38
Maybe this will help:
The other thing I like about bumble is there's just a lot more volume especially if you are in a big city and are located near the city center. Seeking, depending on your location, can be sparse; I see too much of the same girls. On seeking I typically run a 30 day membership and then quit for 3-4 months and wait for a fresh crop to come in. Also you can use bumble in a desktop web browser ( I hate smart phone apps)
Oh another thing about bumble, you can easily disable your profile / make yourself invisible when you want to take a break. This is all without paying anything.There is a web version of seeking.com, right? I use it almost exclusively, I don't have to pay for web access, whereas the bandwidth on my smart TracFone I do pay for. You can also disable your profile on seeking (on the web version, IDK about the app, as I don't use it anymore. I did at one time. However, didn't the app stores stop including 'trafficking' applications a while back?
LouisHernandez
12-08-22, 15:05
As someone who dates all types -- white / black / asian / latina / various mixes of any or all of above and stopped counting their SB conquests after the number exceeded 1500, I can tell you that BSCD (bat shit crazy disease) does not discriminate by race. The nut jobs come in all colors.Also stick with UTRs b / c they tend to be less crazy and have alot less rules. Rules can make or break an "arrangement". I'm not paying for a rulebook. The more "amateur" the better. I know I'm singing to the choir.
LouisHernandez
12-08-22, 19:23
There is a web version of seeking.com, right? I use it almost exclusively, I don't have to pay for web access, whereas the bandwidth on my smart TracFone I do pay for. You can also disable your profile on seeking (on the web version, IDK about the app, as I don't use it anymore. I did at one time. However, didn't the app stores stop including 'trafficking' applications a while back?Yes I only use the web version too. Seeking is in the google app store I just checked. Also I think the rebrand to "dating up" is additional cover so they maintain anti trafficking or anti prostitution compliance even though absolutely nothing has changed about the site and how users use it.
Try dating something besides white girls. Tell me I am wrong. Its my opinion that all the karens that get guys banned from seeking are white. Just my 2 cents.All women have varying tiers of crazy.
FarFarAway
12-09-22, 01:01
Yes I only use the web version too. Seeking is in the google app store I just checked. Also I think the rebrand to "dating up" is additional cover so they maintain anti trafficking or anti prostitution compliance even though absolutely nothing has changed about the site and how users use it.This is not true. The girls used to have a thing on their profiles for their allowance expectations. They went from practical to extravagant or some such, and then elsewhere on the site, there was a 'key' that told you what the monthly was for those descriptors. I think the lowest one, practical, was like 2 K. So SDs learned to ignore those completely. Girls communicate that same thing on their profiles these days, they just do it with coded language. High maintenance, etc.
Yes I only use the web version too. Seeking is in the google app store I just checked. Also I think the rebrand to "dating up" is additional cover so they maintain anti trafficking or anti prostitution compliance even though absolutely nothing has changed about the site and how users use it.I'm not sure why they aren't in the Apple app store, because there are lots of apps there that are blatantly branded sugar daddy dating apps.
Maybe it has more to do with billing practices or limitations.
Maybe this will help:
The other thing I like about bumble is there's just a lot more volume especially if you are in a big city and are located near the city center. Seeking, depending on your location, can be sparse; I see too many of the same girls. On seeking I typically run a 30 day membership and then quit for 3-4 months and wait for a fresh crop to come in. Also you can use bumble in a desktop web browser ( I hate smart phone apps)
Oh another thing about bumble, you can easily disable your profile / make yourself invisible when you want to take a break. This is all without paying anything.Thanks, yes the image is helpful, but I'm wondering if that actually filters the inbound messages, preventing you from getting messages past the range, or does it simply to broadcast your preference? Maybe a better question, do you ever get messages from women over 45? For me, the filter would be set much lower simply because I've found that the farther they get past 25 the more they are going to want something real from me instead of just sugar, and I'm already covered there.
Also does it require real name etc?
I also do like the idea of good desktop web support. Mobile apps have their place but for me they aren't efficient for high volume "big city pussy hunting". I have a system of tracking my interactions with girls in volume that really requires a computer, mouse etc. I will say that both my phone and iPad Pro are tools with a significant role in the overall game, but more for having access to the information I've already captured than the capturing of data.
SgtHappyEnding
12-09-22, 10:11
I'm going to fire up bumble next week after I take some new pics. I've been dieting pretty hard core for the past 8 weeks. One tip I recommend is using photofeeler.com , post your pics and get them rated. I learned I'm my own worst critic / fan when it comes to my own pics.
I'll get back in the sugar bowl after new years b / c I'm pretty much running dry. The last SB put on 15 pounds from my previous encounter and I simply can't hit that again. Weight gain is the most annoying thing with these girls forcing me have to go fishing in the bowl again. It sucks b / c she had no rules and was trustworthy, a rare thing to find.How's Bumble for dating if you're married? Who's had success on there as a married guy?
CrempieLover
12-09-22, 12:57
How's Bumble for dating if you're married? Who's had success on there as a married guy?You should also checkout WhatsYourPrice. I've had decent success with that site / app. Very similar to Seeking but no membership to join. You window shop, submit an offer, if she accepts you have to "unlock" messaging via credits.
You should also checkout WhatsYourPrice. I've had decent success with that site / app. Very similar to Seeking but no membership to join. You window shop, submit an offer, if she accepts you have to "unlock" messaging via credits.How does payment exchange hands? So let's say she accepts whatever the offer is. If I understand, I then have to pay to contact her and then pay her for a date which may or may not get me laid?
You should also checkout WhatsYourPrice. I've had decent success with that site / app. By success, do you mean sex? If so, is it like Seeking where you come to an agreement for ppm / allowance or was it just natural progression like a regular date?
CrempieLover
12-09-22, 16:08
How does payment exchange hands? So let's say she accepts whatever the offer is. If I understand, I then have to pay to contact her and then pay her for a date which may or may not get me laid?The amount you submit is really only to get their attention. If she accepts whatever the amount is that you offer no money is exchanged at that point. It only open's the ability to contact them via pm after unlocking them with credits. You can agree to whatever amount or service but I would highly suggest you take those kind of detailed conversations to another platform (text or whatever). Also note that after any exchange information is given you can not receive a credit refund from WYP if the "date" doesn't workout. Good rule of thumb is to feel them out with a pm and if it sounds like you two are on the same page take the convo elsewhere.
CrempieLover
12-09-22, 16:12
By success, do you mean sex? If so, is it like Seeking where you come to an agreement for ppm / allowance or was it just natural progression like a regular date?In my dreams in the past both of what you said are true. Not everyone on that site is looking for the same thing. Some want a regular allowance and to be spoiled a little before giving it up, others are game for a ppm and skip all the boring stuff.
I don't normally do this. But I had to share because this is just so classic. First things first you need to call her Empress. And then she's going to vet you and make sure you are a provider, because she has certain standards that need to be upheld. Then you need to make sure that you don't want to have sex with her so come to her correct and make sure you have your intentions in line. And you know what it really doesn't matter if you're good looking or ugly because you can just send her an allowance because that's what she prefers. And you need to make sure you treat her like a princess. I mean in what freaking world do these delusional women live in? What the hell is the man supposed to get out of it? These women want more than a wife or girlfriend would get. And they want to give less than a wife or girlfriend would have to give in a relationship. And that's exactly what I tell them when they reach out to me and say these things to me or it's in their profile. That they are out of their goddamn minds. Of course I only do that off of the site and I block them immediately. And then block them on the site immediately.
https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?userId=71590888
Don't miss your chance. 🤣.
LouisHernandez
12-09-22, 22:37
Thanks, yes the image is helpful, but I'm wondering if that actually filters the inbound messages, preventing you from getting messages past the range, or does it simply to broadcast your preference? Maybe a better question, do you ever get messages from women over 45? For me, the filter would be set much lower simply because I've found that the farther they get past 25 the more they are going to want something real from me instead of just sugar, and I'm already covered there.
Also does it require real name etc?
I also do like the idea of good desktop web support. Mobile apps have their place but for me they aren't efficient for high volume "big city pussy hunting". I have a system of tracking my interactions with girls in volume that really requires a computer, mouse etc. I will say that both my phone and iPad Pro are tools with a significant role in the overall game, but more for having access to the information I've already captured than the capturing of data.You can make your name up but it does ask for a real one. Same with birthday, just like seeking. As far as matching goes, that's a good question. My guess is it only matches the girls you see based on your selection criteria. However Girl X who is 45 will still see you if fall in her age and distance criteria.
Remember this is a swiping app like Tinder and not a window display app like seeking. Unless you pay you have no idea who has liked you unless you happen to have liked them also.
Another little trick if you are technically savvy like I am, is if you use chrome you can override your latitude longitude (GPS location) that it sends to bumble. So if you wish to search a different radius within your own city or search an entirely different city, it's easy to do and it's 100% free.
Member #6704
12-09-22, 22:47
https://members.seeking.com/member/899e8bca-2729-49f1-b3c8-2d00645286e9
Curious to know. If anyone had good experience with her?
LouisHernandez
12-09-22, 22:50
This is not true. The girls used to have a thing on their profiles for their allowance expectations. They went from practical to extravagant or some such, and then elsewhere on the site, there was a 'key' that told you what the monthly was for those descriptors. I think the lowest one, practical, was like 2 K. So SDs learned to ignore those completely. Girls communicate that same thing on their profiles these days, they just do it with coded language. High maintenance, etc.Right. All the rinser / gold digger coded words that tell me to avoid them at all costs.
Peter Johnson
12-10-22, 02:33
Try dating something besides white girls. Tell me I am wrong. Its my opinion that all the karens that get guys banned from seeking are white. Just my 2 cents.I have had the polar opposite experience, and seems like most every black girl I talk to on there has a bad attitude and goes off on me, out of nowhere. I just finally stopped talking to them, because I don't want to get banned, over nonsense. It's unfortunate, but I have to play the odds.
And speaking of that, of course you are wrong that 100% of the women that get guys banned are of any particular race. That is just a nonsensical claim.
LouisHernandez
12-10-22, 12:54
I have had the polar opposite experience, and seems like most every black girl I talk to on there has a bad attitude and goes off on me, out of nowhere. I just finally stopped talking to them, because I don't want to get banned, over nonsense. It's unfortunate, but I have to play the odds.
And speaking of that, of course you are wrong that 100% of the women that get guys banned are of any particular race. That is just a nonsensical claim.Stay away from hood rats, that goes without saying. Likewise stay away from white trash.
I've had some fun with some mixes though, lots of fun. Not crazy at all. In fact some of the most uncrazy ever.
Crazy does come in all shapes and colors. You risk missing out if you summarily dismiss purely based on ethnicity. Just use common sense, the pictures are often the best clue. If their pictures are pro like, click the next button.
If anyone has any information on this one please message me. I am will to share.
https://members.seeking.com/member/e8c47a00-78dc-4697-924e-605a2284e0d0
If anyone has any information on this one please message me. I am will to share.
https://members.seeking.com/member/e8c47a00-78dc-4697-924e-605a2284e0d0Curious about her also.
Curious about her also.See post #9859.
http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?14265-quot-Sugar-Babies-quot-and-quot-Arrangements-quot&p=5893827&viewfull=1#post5893827.
OutsideProof
12-12-22, 13:16
Yes, I would like info as well.
If anyone has any information on this one please message me. I am will to share.
https://members.seeking.com/member/e8c47a00-78dc-4697-924e-605a2284e0d0
DocHolliday35
12-12-22, 14:03
If anyone has any information on this one please message me. I am will to share.
https://members.seeking.com/member/e8c47a00-78dc-4697-924e-605a2284e0d0I have seen her. She is a stripper. Can send a pm.
Member #6704
12-12-22, 14:30
https://members.seeking.com/member/899e8bca-2729-49f1-b3c8-2d00645286e9
Curious to know. If anyone had good experience with her?Might toft. Since no made a comment.
German5050
12-12-22, 15:23
Love_Daphne: Does host now. Still wants $500.
- https://members.seeking.com/member/11505990-3f7b-4dce-912b-a9da5ec56d4f.
This one has been in with other profiles. Seem to recall it's always wanting to pay something in advance. Likely scammer.
https://members.seeking.com/member/010e0f72-c866-42e8-a0b7-87450fe85df5
Cookie CoPilot. Not sure about this one yet just started texting. May see her this evening. Seems legit.
https://members.seeking.com/member/00ada841-b769-4b6f-8040-cb726d1b7ae6
SugarDaddio
12-12-22, 17:11
She quoted me 800 ppm. Had to pass. Let us know if she is substantially lower than that with you. It would be appreciated.
SD.
Love_Daphne: Does host now. Still wants $500.
- https://members.seeking.com/member/11505990-3f7b-4dce-912b-a9da5ec56d4f.
This one has been in with other profiles. Seem to recall it's always wanting to pay something in advance. Likely scammer.
https://members.seeking.com/member/010e0f72-c866-42e8-a0b7-87450fe85df5
Cookie CoPilot. Not sure about this one yet just started texting. May see her this evening. Seems legit.
https://members.seeking.com/member/00ada841-b769-4b6f-8040-cb726d1b7ae6
I saw this girl at the club. We chatted but she was leaving end of shift. Wasn't able to really talk. Has anyone seen her?
https://members.seeking.com/member/55415f59-5ddf-4942-9d5e-4ad93479d530
Member #6704
12-12-22, 17:52
I saw this girl at the club. We chatted but she was leaving end of shift. Wasn't able to really talk. Has anyone seen her?
https://members.seeking.com/member/55415f59-5ddf-4942-9d5e-4ad93479d530What club? If you prefer DM that's ok too.
I'm going to take a wild guess and say Pink Pony.
What club? If you prefer DM that's ok too.
Might toft. Since no made a comment.Some guy reported she wanted 1 k.
DocHolliday35
12-13-22, 10:30
If anyone has any information on this one please message me. I am will to share.
https://members.seeking.com/member/e8c47a00-78dc-4697-924e-605a2284e0d0400, BBBJ, cfs, multiple rounds, hotel. She thoroughly enjoys sex however she is not my type.
SgtHappyEnding
12-13-22, 11:37
I'm going to take a wild guess and say Pink Pony.I'm not a fan of strippers as SB's. They are very transaction minded, and they tend to handle you like a client at the club. Also, they are always trying to get more money out of you by up selling you. On the positive side, they are quite good at the seduction and building up the expectation. Does anyone have a opinion on this?
German5050
12-13-22, 14:23
She quoted me 800 ppm. Had to pass. Let us know if she is substantially lower than that with you. It would be appreciated.
SD.Yeah $800. Passed.
NewAnonymousName
12-13-22, 14:59
Does anyone have information about this one? She looks familiar to me for some reason, but I've never met her. She favorited me and I'm curious about whether she's worth the effort.
https://members.seeking.com/member/d9655330-58b7-46c8-9b42-c25264b52c22
OutsideProof
12-13-22, 19:40
Her review states she is beautiful and a bombshell a few times so be pretty for a pretty penny.
Does anyone have information about this one? She looks familiar to me for some reason, but I've never met her. She favorited me and I'm curious about whether she's worth the effort.
https://members.seeking.com/member/d9655330-58b7-46c8-9b42-c25264b52c22
FarFarAway
12-13-22, 20:34
I'm not a fan of strippers as SB's. They are very transaction minded, and they tend to handle you like a client at the club. Also, they are always trying to get more money out of you by up selling you. On the positive side, they are quite good at the seduction and building up the expectation. Does anyone have a opinion on this?Agree with this perspective, which has been widely discussed over time and many different sugar locales / threads on this website. Some guys report success, but I'd guess they have real talents for picking up women generally, maybe are toward the young side, and very GL. For me, I would much rather target a shy profile of a not refined girl that I can cultivate, likely can get for a better price point, and which gives me a girl who is cooperative.
OutsideProof
12-13-22, 21:51
I agree with that viewpoint. I'm okay with a little work when I can see potential (diamond in the ruff).
Agree with this perspective, which has been widely discussed over time and many different sugar locales / threads on this website. Some guys report success, but I'd guess they have real talents for picking up women generally, maybe are toward the young side, and very GL. For me, I would much rather target a shy profile of a not refined girl that I can cultivate, likely can get for a better price point, and which gives me a girl who is cooperative.
LouisHernandez
12-14-22, 13:27
Agree with this perspective, which has been widely discussed over time and many different sugar locales / threads on this website. Some guys report success, but I'd guess they have real talents for picking up women generally, maybe are toward the young side, and very GL. For me, I would much rather target a shy profile of a not refined girl that I can cultivate, likely can get for a better price point, and which gives me a girl who is cooperative.Agreed. One of my targeting strategies is a girl who has no photography skills but you can tell is decent looking. She's not getting blasted with messages most likely. The true UTR as I call it. Those are the best in my experience and will let you do anything, but it's like trying to find a gold nugget in a river.
Also as a general rule, only choose girls with body types slim, average, and athletic. Curvy is a risky bet and can go either way. Usually it means clinically overweight and sometimes flat out obese.
FarFarAway
12-14-22, 15:14
Agreed. One of my targeting strategies is a girl who has no photography skills but you can tell is decent looking. She's not getting blasted with messages most likely. The true UTR as I call it. Those are the best in my experience and will let you do anything, but it's like trying to find a gold nugget in a river.
Also as a general rule, only choose girls with body types slim, average, and athletic. Curvy is a risky bet and can go either way. Usually it means clinically overweight and sometimes flat out obese.I think 'curvy' is in the eye of the beholder, and dependent on the locale. For young girls, here in California, I think they can also use curvy to mean they have some plump assets (boobs, butt), not that they are fat. I have a specific search I run for curvy under a certain age. It can also be you find a curvy (fat) young one who you could really enjoy for small sugar b / c she lacks confidence and is hoping to get some experience / action she isn't getting. I have had a few like this. I would stay away from MILFs who say curvy, or someone over 30.
FarFarAway
12-14-22, 15:42
Agreed. One of my targeting strategies is a girl who has no photography skills but you can tell is decent looking. She's not getting blasted with messages most likely. The true UTR as I call it. Those are the best in my experience and will let you do anything, but it's like trying to find a gold nugget in a river.
Also as a general rule, only choose girls with body types slim, average, and athletic. Curvy is a risky bet and can go either way. Usually it means clinically overweight and sometimes flat out obese.Here is an example.
https://members.seeking.com/member/5d092955-7e84-4a18-bf59-eb801b1ce4b1
Peter Johnson
12-14-22, 23:39
Love_Daphne: Does host now. Still wants $500.
- https://members.seeking.com/member/11505990-3f7b-4dce-912b-a9da5ec56d4f.
48 does not equal 500, regardless of how you do the math.
Seeking SN: Serena.
404 area code.
1st text message she says, Are you sending me money or giving me any money? No, so why would I text you.
TylerDurden07
12-15-22, 17:54
https://members.seeking.com/member/659cd00b-4a31-49bf-8933-a79a8b7feaf9
She's real & her pics are real. I'm a sucker for her look: ink, black hair & tall. Had a long & really nice chat on the messenger, she said she'd just created her profile & had 50 messages already (not surprised). Wanted to know if I was legit & told her I'm a real sugar daddy & have been for a long time. Then, after all that, & almost 30 messages, she acted puzzled when intimacy was mentioned for the first time. Asked her what she wanted: "Just quality time, nice dates and an allowance. " Question: why is she on a sugar dating site & not a regular dating site?
I just ended the conversation at that point as I'm not paying for that with no fun included, so no specific allowance details were discussed. These girls have no clue as to how disrespectful they sound when they pull these kind of stunts. We all work too hard to earn our money to not get what we want.
She's hot. Go for it if you want. Who knows, maybe you'll have better luck?
LouisHernandez
12-15-22, 18:01
Here is an example.
https://members.seeking.com/member/5d092955-7e84-4a18-bf59-eb801b1ce4b1Yeah I like your rule. I would say under 27 and curvy is a useful search query. I never thought of requiring a maximum age with body type. Thanks for the tip.
ReffingMan94
12-15-22, 18:50
Hey guys, been checking this blonde out and curious if anyone has any experience with her?
https://members.seeking.com/member/15fc9b8f-e82a-4782-aa61-bb20d9705609
https://members.seeking.com/member/659cd00b-4a31-49bf-8933-a79a8b7feaf9
She's real & her pics are real. I'm a sucker for her look: ink, black hair & tall. Had a long & really nice chat on the messenger, she said she'd just created her profile & had 50 messages already (not surprised). Wanted to know if I was legit & told her I'm a real sugar daddy & have been for a long time. Then, after all that, & almost 30 messages, she acted puzzled when intimacy was mentioned for the first time. Asked her what she wanted: "Just quality time, nice dates and an allowance. " Question: why is she on a sugar dating site & not a regular dating site?
I just ended the conversation at that point as I'm not paying for that with no fun included, so no specific allowance details were discussed. These girls have no clue as to how disrespectful they sound when they pull these kind of stunts. We all work too hard to earn our money to not get what we want.
She's hot. Go for it if you want. Who knows, maybe you'll have better luck?I saw the header, and passed. She is hot, but some of these girls want a lot while offering very little. I read the profile, and if she's not even mentioning what she can provide, and only mentioning being spoiled, I move on to the next.
https://members.seeking.com/member/8c39f0ec-d294-471f-919b-130d8787f9fd
Switched to text fast. Said 400 ppm and the asked for 100 deposit. Scam.
I might have found a keeper today. Had a coffee. Super cute. Young. Fun. We meet again tomorrow for the big show.
BrownSugaTwo
12-17-22, 02:19
Anyone seen "The best"?
https://members.seeking.com/member/13e71c76-7f66-4197-a39a-72d3a56eda4e
She's had a few profiles, and by the looks of it, she's a professional provider. However, I haven't been able to find her on any escort sites. I like her look, so if she's GFE, I wouldn't mind giving her a shot, unless someone reports a bad experience.
Anyone seen "The best"?
https://members.seeking.com/member/13e71c76-7f66-4197-a39a-72d3a56eda4e
She's had a few profiles, and by the looks of it, she's a professional provider. However, I haven't been able to find her on any escort sites. I like her look, so if she's GFE, I wouldn't mind giving her a shot, unless someone reports a bad experience.I messaged her once before when her profile had a different name. I always see her on at certain points of the day, but she never responded so I moved on. I'm with you on her look, I really like it, but I'm not going to chase her if she didn't reply. Might be different for you.
DavidGooms
12-17-22, 15:59
Try to contact her thru * You may get lucky.
https://onlyfans.com/andiespalace
Anyone seen "The best"?
https://members.seeking.com/member/13e71c76-7f66-4197-a39a-72d3a56eda4e
She's had a few profiles, and by the looks of it, she's a professional provider. However, I haven't been able to find her on any escort sites. I like her look, so if she's GFE, I wouldn't mind giving her a shot, unless someone reports a bad experience.
Try to contact her thru * You may get lucky.
https://onlyfans.com/andiespalacePost 10567 is by about her.
BrownSugaTwo
12-18-22, 01:26
There she is. Figured she had a "professional" presence somewhere.
Try to contact her thru * You may get lucky.
https://onlyfans.com/andiespalace
DocHolliday35
12-18-22, 10:04
Anyone seen "The best"?
https://members.seeking.com/member/13e71c76-7f66-4197-a39a-72d3a56eda4e
She's had a few profiles, and by the looks of it, she's a professional provider. However, I haven't been able to find her on any escort sites. I like her look, so if she's GFE, I wouldn't mind giving her a shot, unless someone reports a bad experience.She's a pro. Been talked about here 100 times.
LouisHernandez
12-18-22, 18:32
There she is. Figured she had a "professional" presence somewhere.Can someone explain to me the point of onlyfans.com? Why would you pay for pictures from some random pro / escort you'll never meet in person? Why not just rub one out at pornhub.com or whatever.
Can someone explain to me the point of onlyfans.com? Why would you pay for pictures from some random pro / escort you'll never meet in person? Why not just rub one out at pornhub.com or whatever."Different strokes for different folks".
SgtHappyEnding
12-19-22, 10:23
https://members.seeking.com/member/659cd00b-4a31-49bf-8933-a79a8b7feaf9
She's real & her pics are real. I'm a sucker for her look: ink, black hair & tall. Had a long & really nice chat on the messenger, she said she'd just created her profile & had 50 messages already (not surprised). Wanted to know if I was legit & told her I'm a real sugar daddy & have been for a long time. Then, after all that, & almost 30 messages, she acted puzzled when intimacy was mentioned for the first time. Asked her what she wanted: "Just quality time, nice dates and an allowance. " Question: why is she on a sugar dating site & not a regular dating site?
I just ended the conversation at that point as I'm not paying for that with no fun included, so no specific allowance details were discussed. These girls have no clue as to how disrespectful they sound when they pull these kind of stunts. We all work too hard to earn our money to not get what we want.
She's hot. Go for it if you want. Who knows, maybe you'll have better luck?She says, "Strong Preference for Women" on her profile as well as looking for Men / Women. I've noticed a lot of women on Seeking that are quite obviously more into women than men. And maybe not really into men at all. But they've found out the truth: women, even very wealthy women, aren't paying! There's probably an example here and there that go against that wisdom. But if you're looking for a sugar mama, it's a needle in a haystack. Whereas, there are plenty of sugar daddies.
ReffingMan94
12-19-22, 12:05
Hey guys, started chatting with this little blonde and curious if any of of you have experience with here:
https://members.seeking.com/member/9562ece7-be67-4e1e-ab85-dc7fd8add858
SugarDaddio
12-19-22, 16:32
Very good at chat. Thought we were getting somewhere LOL. Then 500 per meet and she can't host. At that price I didn't even try to negotiate. After crickets on my end she simply said she would consider an allowance. I've just totally ignored her from then on out.
Not sure about the rest of you but I seemed to be getting a lot more than normal of GPS from the site the last couple of weeks.
May the pussy be with you!
SD.
Hey guys, started chatting with this little blonde and curious if any of of you have experience with here:
https://members.seeking.com/member/9562ece7-be67-4e1e-ab85-dc7fd8add858
Totalcsllc
12-19-22, 17:15
Very good at chat. Thought we were getting somewhere LOL. Then 500 per meet and she can't host. At that price I didn't even try to negotiate. After crickets on my end she simply said she would consider an allowance. I've just totally ignored her from then on out.
Not sure about the rest of you but I seemed to be getting a lot more than normal of GPS from the site the last couple of weeks.
May the pussy be with you!
SD.Gave me the same price. Said she would stay 2 to 3 hours since she liked me. Even though we never met.
TylerDurden07
12-19-22, 17:48
"Different strokes for different folks".OF is not without some usefulness. If a prospective SB has an OF page, I'll subscribe to it IF IF IF it's free. I kinda like seeing what I'm going to get before I get into private with one of these girls. But like I said, it'd better be free to subscribe. And yeah, if she's got some nude pics / vids up on the page, I'll pay $10 or less, but no more. Think of it as reconnaissance.
I think 'curvy' is in the eye of the beholder, and dependent on the locale. For young girls, here in California, I think they can also use curvy to mean they have some plump assets (boobs, butt), not that they are fat.I agree with this 100%. A lot of younger girls think curvy means they have boobs or an ass. The first girl I ever met in this context many years ago described herself as curvy (she was 21). She was an absolute knockout, thin, 5'-2" 120 lbs with D cup tits. I asked her about it one day and she thought curvy was a perfectly accurate description of her body type, she had no idea most guys interpreted it as a code word for overweight. I think the perspective above is spot on: if they're under 25, then about half the time "curvy" could mean just mean they have ample boobs and / or ass. As you get closer to 30 and beyond, "curvy" just means belly rolls (if not worse). I have curvy as a body type in most of my searches, but there are a ton of women who come up who don't even belong in the "a few extra pounds" class. They're flat out obese. Ugh.
LouisHernandez
12-20-22, 00:29
OF is not without some usefulness. If a prospective SB has an OF page, I'll subscribe to it IF IF IF it's free. I kinda like seeing what I'm going to get before I get into private with one of these girls. But like I said, it'd better be free to subscribe. And yeah, if she's got some nude pics / vids up on the page, I'll pay $10 or less, but no more. Think of it as reconnaissance.I would be concerned that a OF SB is too much of a pro to pursue. I'm all about the UTR scene.
Peter Johnson
12-20-22, 01:04
My current subscription expires tomorrow, so hopefully they will do another 33% off deal for Christmas, or at least New Years.
Peter Johnson
12-20-22, 01:11
Very good at chat. Thought we were getting somewhere LOL. Then 500 per meet and she can't host. At that price I didn't even try to negotiate. After crickets on my end she simply said she would consider an allowance. I've just totally ignored her from then on out.
SD.I just did 500 ppm for the first time yesterday with a different 24 y/o (agreed on 400 but I gave her extra 100), but she was really cute and BBFS CIP....and she went on a 2 hr hike with me before we went to the hotel for 90 min or so. Ok that tinylittlepixie on is 24 y/o too, but looks older. Maybe just not my type, but 300 seems more appropriate there, if not 250. (And always talking about BBFS prices, as CFS would be $100 less.)
And I got together with a 22 y/o pregnant girl out West last month for 400....well we agreed on 300 there, but once again I gave her extra, because was just so. damn. good. These last two are definitely Top 5 of any girls I've seen from site, over the past few years. So on a mini hot streak, but I'm sure it will end soon.
Anyway I am trying some of the 400 girls now and will just try to see less than I used to when I was doing 250-300. They can be worth it...this last one certainly was, although I wish she would have let me take pics. I'll probably review her on here eventually, but keeping her under wraps for now. Hopefully will get some repeat action, but we shall see.
Her account showed as deleted earlier today (I actually thought she might have blocked me), but then was back. I mentioned that weird fact as an icebreaker (not the best line, but I was just reengaging conversation).
Anyways, she completely flipped out, talked about me needing psych help and accused me of threatening to kill her. I'll post the full conversation for your inspection.
I am not particularly worried about them banning me like she says because I still cannot see where I did anything wrong. However, I tend to avoid crazy wherever I can, but she is hot so proceed at your own risk. Maybe she was just having a bad day 🤷127995;128514;128514;128514;.
Edit: apparently I don’t know how to control the order of the attachments, so good luck interpreting it 😂😂
Seems we've done ourselves a Very Stable Genius, here. I told why'all. At this point I think you guys keep messaging her just to poke the bear and see what kinda crazy you can get out of her today.
Her account showed as deleted earlier today (I actually thought she might have blocked me), but then was back. I mentioned that weird fact as an icebreaker (not the best line, but I was just reengaging conversation).
Anyways, she completely flipped out, talked about me needing psych help and accused me of threatening to kill her. I'll post the full conversation for your inspection.
I am not particularly worried about them banning me like she says because I still cannot see where I did anything wrong. However, I tend to avoid crazy wherever I can, but she is hot so proceed at your own risk. Maybe she was just having a bad day 🤷127995;128514;128514;128514;.
Edit: apparently I dont know how to control the order of the attachments, so good luck interpreting it 😂😂
Peter Johnson
12-20-22, 12:22
I am not particularly worried about them banning me like she says because I still cannot see where I did anything wrong. I got a warning on the site and didn't do anything wrong either. Remember, the girls can report you and claim that you offered them money for sex, off the site.
JoeThighsMan
12-20-22, 13:56
400, BBBJ, cfs, multiple rounds, hotel. She thoroughly enjoys sex however she is not my type.Not your type? Why? Great looking bod.
LouisHernandez
12-20-22, 16:05
Her account showed as deleted earlier today (I actually thought she might have blocked me), but then was back. I mentioned that weird fact as an icebreaker (not the best line, but I was just reengaging conversation).
Anyways, she completely flipped out, talked about me needing psych help and accused me of threatening to kill her. I'll post the full conversation for your inspection.
I am not particularly worried about them banning me like she says because I still cannot see where I did anything wrong. However, I tend to avoid crazy wherever I can, but she is hot so proceed at your own risk. Maybe she was just having a bad day 🤷127995;128514;128514;128514;.
Edit: apparently I dont know how to control the order of the attachments, so good luck interpreting it 😂😂Anytime they refer to me as "love" alarm bells go off. Anyway thanks for the text screenshots, I needed some nice laughs this Tuesday morning.
SeekingHead
12-20-22, 16:17
I got a warning on the site and didn't do anything wrong either. Remember, the girls can report you and claim that you offered them money for sex, off the site.Which is why after you start texting you block the girl on SA so she can't report you.
TylerDurden07
12-20-22, 17:48
Seems we've done ourselves a Very Stable Genius, here. I told why'all. At this point I think you guys keep messaging her just to poke the bear and see what kinda crazy you can get out of her today.So many dudes on here, myself included, have experienced her, um, "eccentricities. " I'd love to see if there's a way we can shut her down, at least get her permanently banned from the site. There should be consequences for her blowing up at every guy she talks to.
TylerDurden07
12-20-22, 17:52
I would be concerned that a OF SB is too much of a pro to pursue. I'm all about the UTR scene.So far (knock on wood), I've not had that problem.
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Peter Johnson
12-20-22, 22:00
Which is why after you start texting you block the girl on SA so she can't report you.Smart move, and I really should start doing this, but I like having the ones Archived that I have already spoken to, for easy access to their pics, etc. But there are other ways to do this and I shouldn't be lazy and should block, as you suggest.
LikeMike1963
12-21-22, 09:40
I have been off a few months but I remember still being able to report someone EVEN if they blocked me. So that does not "save" you.
Smart move, and I really should start doing this, but I like having the ones Archived that I have already spoken to, for easy access to their pics, etc. But there are other ways to do this and I shouldn't be lazy and should block, as you suggest.
Made out in the parking lot after a night of drinks with this one but didn't get any further. Later that week she moved a few hours south from Atlanta.
https://members.seeking.com/member/0d7b24d3-7e10-41bf-851f-4c669059dd1f
Any info on OpalQueen4?
https://members.seeking.com/member/9ccd6a9d-a631-4301-8dc4-3ff313c4db44
LouisHernandez
12-21-22, 15:38
So far (knock on wood), I've not had that problem.You're telling me you can get BBFS with SB that are on OF in the $200-$300 range?
I'm not paying for covered anything , it has zero value to me. I'll just go vanilla and deal with that shit.
https://members.seeking.com/member/8d6fe6b6-4a82-4f94-9ab5-ded2f7656260
Saw her after Thanksgiving. Not sure why she doesn't update her location as she told me she hasn't been in Forest Park for awhile. The pic of her is accurate but very flattering. When I saw her, she came from work w / o makeup etc and didn't look as good. Has more tattoos now too. She is petite which I like but she was almost too thin. We agreed to $$. 5 for two hours and she came over. FYI, told me she can host and would be moving to Buckhead in December.
Unfortunately the sex wasn't that great. She doesn't like to kiss and only CBJ and CFS. The problem is that she didn't enjoy herself and basically a starfish. Though she did enjoy DATY and gave her an O. After I popped, we cuddled for a bit but when I started for rd 2; she gave pickup the kid excuse and that she'd make it up to me next time yada yada. I highly doubt I'll see her again unless I have no other options.
LouisHernandez
12-21-22, 15:57
Smart move, and I really should start doing this, but I like having the ones Archived that I have already spoken to, for easy access to their pics, etc. But there are other ways to do this and I shouldn't be lazy and should block, as you suggest.The best way to deal with SB retards is to ghost at the first sign of retard. If they call you "love" that is ghetto / trash language for a "john". Insta-ghost them. Block them immediately on seeking too so they can't find you anymore. Remember these bitches are morons and if you disappear from their message list they will move on to the next poor sap to try to exploit and rain down their crazy on.
I don't want my account banned so no reason to engage a wild animal in the wild.
NewAnonymousName
12-21-22, 17:14
What's the potential scam / angle in play when a "woman" (or scammer) is trying to get your phone number right off the bat? Over the last week or two, a couple different SBs asked for my number right away, then blocked me after I gave it, and then never text messaged me on the phone number. So I assume getting the phone number was the goal all along. I use google voice, which is linked to a gmail account with no personal information associated with it, so I'm not worried about giving out that number. But because this has happened a few times recently with the same approach, I assume there is some kind of scam in the works. I'm wondering what it is. Why would a scammer want to collect phone numbers?
People Pleasur
12-21-22, 17:18
So far (knock on wood), I've not had that problem.Me either. Actually had one that I made content with. Was pretty fucking hot.
TylerDurden07
12-21-22, 17:30
You're telling me you can get BBFS with SB that are on OF in the $200-$300 range?
I'm not paying for covered anything , it has zero value to me. I'll just go vanilla and deal with that shit.I don't do covered anything either, but the answer to your question is yes. On OF, pay attention to what they charge. If it's not a free subscription, avoid. Further, if it's some ridiculous amount to buy a pic or vid, avoid that too. Those are the girls that are making money off of OF & therefore can negotiate from a position of strength, I. E. , give you GPS numbers because they don't "need" you. OTOH, the free or very low cost ones need the money. Those will take the $200-300 ppm.
TylerDurden07
12-21-22, 17:34
Made out in the parking lot after a night of drinks with this one but didn't get any further. Later that week she moved a few hours south from Atlanta.
https://members.seeking.com/member/0d7b24d3-7e10-41bf-851f-4c669059dd1f
Any info on OpalQueen4?
https://members.seeking.com/member/9ccd6a9d-a631-4301-8dc4-3ff313c4db44Talked a good bit with her a few months ago. She's real, nice & I think she's a beautiful young girl. Unfortunately, our schedules didn't mesh well, so we never met, but that's not her fault. If you see her, I'd love to hear how it went. I liked her.
GoneForGood97
12-21-22, 22:17
https://members.seeking.com/member/8d6fe6b6-4a82-4f94-9ab5-ded2f7656260
Saw her after Thanksgiving. Not sure why she doesn't update her location as she told me she hasn't been in Forest Park for awhile. The pic of her is accurate but very flattering. When I saw her, she came from work w / o makeup etc and didn't look as good. Has more tattoos now too. She is petite which I like but she was almost too thin. We agreed to $$. 5 for two hours and she came over. FYI, told me she can host and would be moving to Buckhead in December.
Unfortunately the sex wasn't that great. She doesn't like to kiss and only CBJ and CFS. The problem is that she didn't enjoy herself and basically a starfish. Though she did enjoy DATY and gave her an O. After I popped, we cuddled for a bit but when I started for rd 2; she gave pickup the kid excuse and that she'd make it up to me next time yada yada. I highly doubt I'll see her again unless I have no other options.Yeah, I reviewed her last year and had a very similar experience, though at least I got BBJ, though she was real light with it, and could tell she didn't really want it in her mouth. She hosted and was 200 for me.
GoneForGood97
12-21-22, 22:22
You're telling me you can get BBFS with SB that are on OF in the $200-$300 range?
I'm not paying for covered anything , it has zero value to me. I'll just go vanilla and deal with that shit.I've met all my SBs through SA, but 2 of them had active OF and I fucked one of them bare for weeks (or months in case of my current) for 200 PPM. The other was a 1 time CFS that was only 100 Gift card plus hotel (I put up pics of her in greatest hits thread). Her OF is still active and she posts nudes to twitter.
I had one last year that smashed for 3 months bare for 200 PPM plus hotel, but ended things once she started to get a little dramatic. We stayed friends on snap, which is how I know she eventually started an OF once I cut things off with her.
So yeah, I've been with at least 3 OF girls, and I think 1 other former OF girl, and all for an average of 200 PPM plus room (and one unicorn for 100).
I smashed her two times about six months ago. Beautiful girl, very toned body. BBBJ, BBFS, CIP. No complaints about her bedroom performance. $200 ppm + hotel.
Reliability is the issue. I didn't appreciate sitting in the hotel room, and each time she showed up belated, about 60-90 minutes after our agreed-upon time. Plus, she will get it over w / in 45 min or less.
Talked a good bit with her a few months ago. She's real, nice & I think she's a beautiful young girl. Unfortunately, our schedules didn't mesh well, so we never met, but that's not her fault. If you see her, I'd love to hear how it went. I liked her.
Peter Johnson
12-21-22, 23:02
You're telling me you can get BBFS with SB that are on OF in the $200-$300 range?
I'm not paying for covered anything , it has zero value to me. I'll just go vanilla and deal with that shit.Any girl can make an OF. It doesn't mean she is attractive and has a very profitable one.
And yes same here, I'm not paying for CFS. Or maybe would do 100 in some cases, but most all the girls would get insulted if that was offered, although some would probably take 100 for just BBBJ.
I smashed her two times about six months ago. Beautiful girl, very toned body. BBBJ, BBFS, CIP. No complaints about her bedroom performance. $200 ppm + hotel.
Reliability is the issue. I didn't appreciate sitting in the hotel room, and each time she showed up belated, about 60-90 minutes after our agreed-upon time. Plus, she will get it over w / in 45 min or less.She ghosted me about 4 months ago. Contacted me the next day with some lame excuse. Tried for another meetup and she had to check the drive and never heard back from her. Think I'll try again knowing she's real. She lives / lived in Midtown and I'm in Marietta. Not too far.
LouisHernandez
12-22-22, 19:35
What's the potential scam / angle in play when a "woman" (or scammer) is trying to get your phone number right off the bat? Over the last week or two, a couple different SBs asked for my number right away, then blocked me after I gave it, and then never text messaged me on the phone number. So I assume getting the phone number was the goal all along. I use google voice, which is linked to a gmail account with no personal information associated with it, so I'm not worried about giving out that number. But because this has happened a few times recently with the same approach, I assume there is some kind of scam in the works. I'm wondering what it is. Why would a scammer want to collect phone numbers?Extortion perhaps if it was your real number? Who knows. Could be a pimp compiling a list of Johns for his hoes.
LouisHernandez
12-22-22, 20:08
I don't do covered anything either, but the answer to your question is yes. On OF, pay attention to what they charge. If it's not a free subscription, avoid. Further, if it's some ridiculous amount to buy a pic or vid, avoid that too. Those are the girls that are making money off of OF & therefore can negotiate from a position of strength, I. E. , give you GPS numbers because they don't "need" you. OTOH, the free or very low cost ones need the money. Those will take the $200-300 ppm.I see. Well that makes sense. Any reconnaissance that can be obtained is of course valuable in this game. I'm anti pro for obvious reasons stated above but every case is unique.
Hoozawutzit
12-22-22, 22:37
Anybody have intel on her? I've seen her pics on multiple sites with different names.
https://members.seeking.com/member/b7595539-7a6a-463a-8019-ffc1ca19b45c
Hoozawutzit
12-22-22, 22:58
Any intel? I've seen her pics on numerous sites under different names.
https://members.seeking.com/member/b7595539-7a6a-463a-8019-ffc1ca19b45c
LouisHernandez
12-22-22, 23:32
I took the plunge today for 30 days. Damn it. It's been about 4 months so it looks like a completely new crop. Sticking with curvy, athletic, slim, and average 18-25 right now. Shooting high and will gradually lower the standards if I can't hit any home runs in this range.
BTW a little trick, if you get favorited make sure you've also been viewed otherwise it's likely a bot.
She got mad that I couldn't meet her the same day.
https://members.seeking.com/member/d868bfcf-9d70-447a-b031-f9a26f7a1aa7I met with her before. She was staying down in Fayetteville.
Very fun girl, but she also got pissed at me because I didn't IMMEDIATELY respond to her texts either.
Peter Johnson
12-23-22, 02:02
I took the plunge today for 30 days. Damn it. It's been about 4 months so it looks like a completely new crop. Sticking with curvy, athletic, slim, and average 18-25 right now. Shooting high and will gradually lower the standards if I can't hit any home runs in this range.
Yes 18-25 is a good age. I cut it off at 24 myself, although I often go above that, or even far above. But nothing like a young creamy 21 why / o BBFS CIP. OMG.
Good luck on the search.
Peter Johnson
12-23-22, 02:04
https://members.seeking.com/member/8d6fe6b6-4a82-4f94-9ab5-ded2f7656260
Saw her after Thanksgiving. Not sure why she doesn't update her location as she told me she hasn't been in Forest Park for awhile. The pic of her is accurate but very flattering. When I saw her, she came from work w / o makeup etc and didn't look as good. Has more tattoos now too. She is petite which I like but she was almost too thin. We agreed to $$. 5 for two hours and she came over. FYI, told me she can host and would be moving to Buckhead in December.
Unfortunately the sex wasn't that great. She doesn't like to kiss and only CBJ and CFS. The problem is that she didn't enjoy herself and basically a starfish. Though she did enjoy DATY and gave her an O. After I popped, we cuddled for a bit but when I started for rd 2; she gave pickup the kid excuse and that she'd make it up to me next time yada yada. I highly doubt I'll see her again unless I have no other options.That is disappointing. I texted with her a bit last week, but will just let it drift away.
LouisHernandez
12-23-22, 12:54
Yes 18-25 is a good age. I cut it off at 24 myself, although I often go above that, or even far above. But nothing like a young creamy 21 why / o BBFS CIP. OMG.
Good luck on the search.Exactly. Usually after a 30 day script I end up bagging 2 girls. I'll blast out about 10 or so messages at a sitting once every 2-3 days. Back in the heyday I was landing 10 girls in a month but those gold rush days are long over. There's still value in this site if you put in the effort. We'll see what happens this round.
BrownSugaTwo
12-24-22, 02:02
But nothing like a young creamy 21 why / o BBFS CIP. OMG.Yes! For me, there's a big difference even between 30 year old and 19-22 year old vagina. Never had BBFS CIP in that age range, though. But even CFS was amazing with a 22 year old. There's just something different about it.
Peter Johnson
12-24-22, 03:26
Yes! For me, there's a big difference even between 30 year old and 19-22 year old vagina. Never had BBFS CIP in that age range, though. But even CFS was amazing with a 22 year old. There's just something different about it.Yes so true, and I think you could tell, even with your eyes closed. Your body just knows.
BBFS CIP is just incredible with some of the younger ones. It just can't get any better than that. We evolved for millions of years to blow massive loads in young, fertile, attractive, healthy young women. That's what it is ALL about. That's the only reason people fall in love or do anything else with the opposite sex. Just a subconscious and instinctive drive to make babies, and the best way to do that is to unload deep inside a 21 year old beauty. Nothing feels more natural or more right.
And a lot of girls that age are not really even that good in bed, but there is something different about that young poon. The fact that you can feel it even when wrapped up, in CFS, says it all.
Member #6718
12-24-22, 16:01
Yes so true, and I think you could tell, even with your eyes closed. Your body just knows.
BBFS CIP is just incredible with some of the younger ones. It just can't get any better than that. We evolved for millions of years to blow massive loads in young, fertile, attractive, healthy young women. That's what it is ALL about. That's the only reason people fall in love or do anything else with the opposite sex. Just a subconscious and instinctive drive to make babies, and the best way to do that is to unload deep inside a 21 year old beauty. Nothing feels more natural or more right.
And a lot of girls that age are not really even that good in bed, but there is something different about that young poon. The fact that you can feel it even when wrapped up, in CFS, says it all.Damn that is so on point LOL.
Now I need to get out and get some fresh low 20's pussy.
Out of curiosity anyone notices any patterns on cover requirements? I have found latina chicks generally good to go bare, especially mexican ones. And they are always super passionate. Best sex I ever had in my life was a 23 yo mexican chick from seeking who didn't even want an allowance.
Damn that is so on point LOL.
Now I need to get out and get some fresh low 20's pussy.
Out of curiosity anyone notices any patterns on cover requirements? I have found latina chicks generally good to go bare, especially mexican ones. And they are always super passionate. Best sex I ever had in my life was a 23 yo mexican chick from seeking who didn't even want an allowance.As I was reading this particular discussion, an experience a couple of years back with a 19 year old college freshman came to mind. The texture of her lips and tongue during kissing, and overall softness of her skin was so amazing, and after a while of mostly just pounding her in missionary position, I could tell a serious gusher was about to unleash. Her being such a sweetie, I asked permission to come inside so as not to be rude. Not only did daddy get permission, it was the WAY she said it, a very enthusiastic and unhesitant "ummm. Hmmmmm" with a nod and a look in her eyes like the mere question turned her on. LOL. Something about that just put me over the top and sticks in my mind still as one of my top 10 orgasms (at least int he last 5 years). Oh and you may be onto something, she was latina.
Then again I've met girls of all races who seem to think the deed isn't complete if I don't come inside them, and will literally start requesting I do if I fuck them enough times with out it. Not sure if some of those are just trying to have a kid and have nice support or not though, or if its just one of those oddities of human nature.
NewAnonymousName
12-24-22, 18:51
Says she's out of town and wants online until she gets back. Of course, this is 99% a scam. I asked her when she returns and if we can get together then. So of course —— crickets.
https://members.seeking.com/member/f5774b25-329f-47d1-a103-8588f7230314
LouisHernandez
12-24-22, 19:44
Yes so true, and I think you could tell, even with your eyes closed. Your body just knows.
BBFS CIP is just incredible with some of the younger ones. It just can't get any better than that. We evolved for millions of years to blow massive loads in young, fertile, attractive, healthy young women. That's what it is ALL about. That's the only reason people fall in love or do anything else with the opposite sex. Just a subconscious and instinctive drive to make babies, and the best way to do that is to unload deep inside a 21 year old beauty. Nothing feels more natural or more right.
And a lot of girls that age are not really even that good in bed, but there is something different about that young poon. The fact that you can feel it even when wrapped up, in CFS, says it all.😂 Alot of them are good in bed but some of them aren't. I've could have done alot more CIP with these girls but many weren't on the pill and I just pulled out for safety. Of course the really hot ones I didn't give a shit and CIP anyway. The best memories of my life.
LouisHernandez
12-25-22, 01:01
Damn that is so on point LOL.
Now I need to get out and get some fresh low 20's pussy.
Out of curiosity anyone notices any patterns on cover requirements? I have found latina chicks generally good to go bare, especially mexican ones. And they are always super passionate. Best sex I ever had in my life was a 23 yo mexican chick from seeking who didn't even want an allowance.My experiences with latinas are the same. They like and want the real thing more than any other group. Nothing is 100% but I know my odds with a latina going bare are the highest and I'm a numbers guy. I specifically preference latinas in my searches for that reason.
Peter Johnson
12-25-22, 01:50
😂 Alot of them are good in bed but some of them aren't. I've could have done alot more CIP with these girls but many weren't on the pill and I just pulled out for safety. Of course the really hot ones I didn't give a shit and CIP anyway. The best memories of my life.What I do now is bust in there and then have them take a Plan B pill, immediately afterwards, in front of me. You can buy them on Amazon for $8 each or something like that. Even if I pull out, I'll try to get them to take one, just for backup. They are usually happy to do it.
Member #6718
12-25-22, 13:25
What I do now is bust in there and then have them take a Plan B pill, immediately afterwards, in front of me. You can buy them on Amazon for $8 each or something like that. Even if I pull out, I'll try to get them to take one, just for backup. They are usually happy to do it.Haha my 23 yo Mexican chick that was the only thing I really spent money on, three Plan B doses in one month LOL. Risky living. Got a vasectomy shortly after and she made me one of those funny baskets of stuff with vasectomy jokes. Good times.
Member #6718
12-25-22, 13:25
My experiences with latinas are the same. They like and want the real thing more than any other group. Nothing is 100% but I know my odds with a latina going bare are the highest and I'm a numbers guy. I specifically preference latinas in my searches for that reason.I am legit considering going to Mexico City or somewhere like that for a month of debauchery.
Peter Johnson
12-27-22, 00:36
I am legit considering going to Mexico City or somewhere like that for a month of debauchery.I wish I liked latinas better. I did have an incredible time with Maya, from Seeking, and agree that latinas are often extra horny and creamy. But my favorite is ivory skinned white girls. Maybe I need to go to Ireland, or Sweden, for a month of debauchery. Ha, I don't think it equates that perfectly.
https://members.seeking.com/member/f0c54bde-4c4f-4d85-8507-032fe56ad005
HersheyKissLips ss a picture seller. Cooks up a good story, but when you set up a meet she wants money for pictures before she leaves.
TattoedDaddy1
12-28-22, 22:28
Her account showed as deleted earlier today (I actually thought she might have blocked me), but then was back. I mentioned that weird fact as an icebreaker (not the best line, but I was just reengaging conversation).
Anyways, she completely flipped out, talked about me needing psych help and accused me of threatening to kill her. I'll post the full conversation for your inspection.
I am not particularly worried about them banning me like she says because I still cannot see where I did anything wrong.Well here goes.
Of course I read the reviews and got more interested. Sex is best with the crazy ones!
I met her initially at a bar, we chatted and drank club soda. She 19 ya know LOL. And then had some food, she kept looking at me funny and smiling, I was like wow what's she up to?! We then headed to a hotel close by. (I don't ever get a room until the dtf is confirmed) So was amazing. Anything goes, we had no less than 6 pops and she stayed the night for morning sex. 500 and tipped her 200 more!
I took a hiatus for a week and then she starts messaging me that she thought we had a connection and and thanks for wasting her time LOL. I talked her into another date. We had steak downtown and then to the Georgian for boom time. And this is where it starts. We fucked several times and then I passed out and woke up to her beating her head on the wall talking some interesting shit. Then after I watched her rack her skull, she stopped and said " why didn't you stop me?" LOL I got turned on and fucked her some more to include anal. She's a trooper to handle my " beer can "!
Well needless to say she did not leave my side for 7 days LOL. About 12 pops a day. Some more head beating. This time I stopped her. Then the I love you, and are you going to Marry me? Of course I said yes. She kept showing me this picture from another sugar daddy, where he offered to buy her a 3 1/2 carat ring. Anyway the crazier it got no more turned on I got, I had to make a trip up north and so I figured I would pack her with me. So we took a 3 Day Rd. Trip and on the way back we got in an argument and she pulled out a knife and said she was going to kill herself, if I left her.
When we got back, she confessed that at one of the restaurants that we went to that she took the waitress into the bathroom and finger banger while I was paying for dinner. That preceded the next argument, and the one that got her to go home, as soon as she made the decision to go home and help her pack and I drove her to her front door and kick her out of my truck!
Best sex I've had in a long time, but seven days was enough for me!
Don't take this as anything other than I knew what I was getting into. She acts up because she wants to be choked and fucked, sometimes by a gangbang of men. Have fun fellas and hold onto you hat LOL.
TattoedDaddy1
12-29-22, 09:03
I am legit considering going to Mexico City or somewhere like that for a month of debauchery.I did this last year, except I went to Monterrey Mexico. Monterey is the business community it's not set up for tourism. There's a little more of a scare for cartel, but I'm a protector, so really didn't bother me. Either way once you start hitting them up on seeking you will find a plethora of gorgeous Latin gals want to enjoy your company. They're not going to want a lot of money and they're going to make you feel like a king.
Member #6718
12-29-22, 13:37
I did this last year, except I went to Monterrey Mexico. Monterey is the business community it's not set up for tourism. There's a little more of a scare for cartel, but I'm a protector, so really didn't bother me. Either way once you start hitting them up on seeking you will find a plethora of gorgeous Latin gals want to enjoy your company. They're not going to want a lot of money and they're going to make you feel like a king.This sound like living the dream. Is having zero spanish going to be a hinderance? I do remember getting laid with a tinder date in santiago using google translate. The convo still shows in my history with my last request being "do you want to come to my room?" LOL.
TattoedDaddy1
12-29-22, 14:22
This sound like living the dream. Is having zero spanish going to be a hinderance? I do remember getting laid with a tinder date in santiago using google translate. The convo still shows in my history with my last request being "do you want to come to my room?" LOL.I am fluent in Google Translate as well, I also have a name of a Spanish school in Monterey that you can take classes with them via zoom. Plus, I think that the girl that runs the school is a sugar baby she's pretty hot. Not to mention it's cheap as hell to fly into Monterey I think the last round-trip ticket I bought from Houston was like $110 round-trip.
They're going to make you have a Covid test, so make sure you have that done.
Her account showed as deleted earlier today (I actually thought she might have blocked me), but then was back. I mentioned that weird fact as an icebreaker (not the best line, but I was just reengaging conversation).
Anyways, she completely flipped out, talked about me needing psych help and accused me of threatening to kill her. I'll post the full conversation for your inspection.
I am not particularly worried about them banning me like she says because I still cannot see where I did anything wrong. However, I tend to avoid crazy wherever I can, but she is hot so proceed at your own risk. Maybe she was just having a bad day 🤷127995;128514;128514;128514;.
Edit: apparently I dont know how to control the order of the attachments, so good luck interpreting it 😂😂Is this her? She's still has profile up.
TylerDurden07
12-29-22, 22:00
Well here goes.
Of course I read the reviews and got more interested. Sex is best with the crazy ones!
I met her initially at a bar, we chatted and drank club soda. She 19 ya know LOL. And then had some food, she kept looking at me funny and smiling, I was like wow what's she up to?! We then headed to a hotel close by. (I don't ever get a room until the dtf is confirmed) So was amazing. Anything goes, we had no less than 6 pops and she stayed the night for morning sex. 500 and tipped her 200 more!
I took a hiatus for a week and then she starts messaging me that she thought we had a connection and and thanks for wasting her time LOL. I talked her into another date. We had steak downtown and then to the Georgian for boom time. And this is where it starts. We fucked several times and then I passed out and woke up to her beating her head on the wall talking some interesting shit. Then after I watched her rack her skull, she stopped and said " why didn't you stop me?" LOL I got turned on and fucked her some more to include anal. She's a trooper to handle my " beer can "!
Well needless to say she did not leave my side for 7 days LOL. About 12 pops a day. Some more head beating. This time I stopped her. Then the I love you, and are you going to Marry me? Of course I said yes. She kept showing me this picture from another sugar daddy, where he offered to buy her a 3 1/2 carat ring. Anyway the crazier it got no more turned on I got, I had to make a trip up north and so I figured I would pack her with me. So we took a 3 Day Rd. Trip and on the way back we got in an argument and she pulled out a knife and said she was going to kill herself, if I left her.
When we got back, she confessed that at one of the restaurants that we went to that she took the waitress into the bathroom and finger banger while I was paying for dinner. That preceded the next argument, and the one that got her to go home, as soon as she made the decision to go home and help her pack and I drove her to her front door and kick her out of my truck!
Best sex I've had in a long time, but seven days was enough for me!
Don't take this as anything other than I knew what I was getting into. She acts up because she wants to be choked and fucked, sometimes by a gangbang of men. Have fun fellas and hold onto you hat LOL.Thanks for sharing. I'm so glad she lost her marbles on me BEFORE she & I met. She is coo-coo for Cocoa Puffs. I'm reminded of the Garth Brooks line now: "I thank God for unanswered prayers", ha ha.
Peter Johnson
12-30-22, 00:02
Well here goes.
Of course I read the reviews and got more interested. Sex is best with the crazy ones!
I met her initially at a bar, we chatted and drank club soda
......
Best sex I've had in a long time, but seven days was enough for me!That is way too over the top to be believable, but it is scary how much of it could actually be true, with this girl, or many others.
TattoedDaddy1
12-30-22, 08:16
That is way too over the top to be believable, but it is scary how much of it could actually be true, with this girl, or many others.I promise you that everything I've said is the truth, I would have no reason to lie. And I have left a lot out, there are things about the situation that I would never disclose. The hard truth, that some of us have to acknowledge, even though we tell ourselves in some way, shape or form that it's not true. Some of these girls have been through a lot!
However, I'm not here to save souls. Just like the girls that I have met on this site there are some facets or version of the situation that I find valuable. And with this one and many others there is a portion of this, that they find valuable, no matter how insane no matter how crazy that you think a situation is there is always some version of it that both parties desire.
I met my second wife off the site, and there was a great amount of my experience with her that I found very valuable. It's only when I get to the point where I find that somebody is a danger to themselves or others when I find that it's time for me to MoveOn, I'm not trying to do this to leave people worse than I found them. My hopes always are to leave them better than I found them sometimes that just means money in their pocket.
If you are chatting with somebody, or you are spending time with someone and it's too much by all means, have enough love for yourself, and that person to walk away. If there's something that you find valuable about them, no matter what others say, I will always pursue something that I find enjoyable. And there's no shame in paying the Mickey to somebody's Mallory. If you don't get that reference, google it.
My appologies fellow members. Just noticed I had Posted in the Wrong Thread.
OK. Scammer! We started chatting and agreed to meet at a restaurant for a meet and greet and afterwards some fun for 2. She said she was on her way in a uber. I sent her a screenshot of the distance via waze and asked her to send me one as well. She asked me to send her the payment over electronic method I responded with I deal in cash she replied cash makes her feel dirty. I LOL anyways she pretended to be in the uber car so I asked for a pic of the uber car she never sent it. However she presented to be pulling up and getting out the car. I am waiting outside she never arrived then she says she at the wrong place when I sent her the address. It was clear she was lying. Don't waste your time. LOL.
https://members.seeking.com/member/d74b35c9-19eb-4456-98be-fa89f707c79e
TattoedDaddy1
12-30-22, 11:40
My appologies fellow members. Just noticed I had Posted in the Wrong Thread.
OK. Scammer! We started chatting and agreed to meet at a restaurant for a meet and greet and afterwards some fun for 2. She said she was on her way in a uber. I sent her a screenshot of the distance via waze and asked her to send me one as well. She asked me to send her the payment over electronic method I responded with I deal in cash she replied cash makes her feel dirty. I LOL anyways she pretended to be in the uber car so I asked for a pic of the uber car she never sent it. However she presented to be pulling up and getting out the car. I am waiting outside she never arrived then she says she at the wrong place when I sent her the address. It was clear she was lying. Don't waste your time. LOL.
https://members.seeking.com/member/d74b35c9-19eb-4456-98be-fa89f707c79eI feel like this is one of the main reasons why this forum is such a good place, there are plenty of people on this site that are either trying to get people to buy Content or they just want attention. There are plenty of other kinds of daddies, but I'm one that like physical in person interaction, and I am one that likes new pussy. And I like to pay them.
I've had my share of no-shows, which is why I have a few rules:
FaceTime at some point before you meet.
Nothing upfront.
And never buy content, and do not join their only fans.
Thanks for this post again, this is why I'm here!
TattoedDaddy1
12-30-22, 12:18
Sorry it's taken me so long to do this review.
After the reviews I of course had to check this one out. I was on my way to a project so I did not have a lot of time to commit to a regular date and she seemed desperate and could host so an escort was right up my alley. Came to her apartment and she had a toy laid out already. DATY, BB, and two pops, was a pillow princess I guess but not a requirement for me to get head so I never paid attention. 300 ppm.
I went to leave and she wanted to know where I was off too so fast. Told her about project and she wanted to go so she arranged for daughter and I packer her on my trip. 4 pops a day or so. I covered all expenses and additional 500 ppm.
Next few days she hmu pretty much constantly and talking about our connection and so on.
After two day I saw her again, clearly after she saw a jon or two (was crying about her life) and she stayed the night and asked me to take her to court and stuff. After court she said she had to get her daughter, which was a lie. Another "appointment". And then called with lie about her daughters dad wanting her and wanted to see me. Of course I always have to see what they want, my curiosity is always more than my good sense. I got there and she was crying again. This is starting to feel like a relationship and not as much like a sugar arrangement. This was 5 days after I met her!
We had an argument about what was going on and it ended with her, throwing me out of her apartment! She sent one more dishonest text and I haven't heard from her since!
Afterwords I saw on the site briefly she changed her location to Syracuse, NY and now I have not seen her profile, but I really have not looked. The emotional part was a bit much for me idk!
ALCON: I don't give a crusty fuck if anyone believes my experiences here I'm just presenting the facts. I leave a lot out because not all details are pertinent.
KingHorama2
12-30-22, 13:46
Hey guys, newbie here. New to the forums and newish to the hobby.
I wanted to know if anyone interacted with this one before. I met her on sugar site and everything seems fine, but spidey sense is throwing me off. Maybe just because of language barrier, but thought I'd see if anyone knows more.
KingHorama2
12-30-22, 13:59
We started chatting back and forth and everything was great. There was no negotiations or back and forth, everything was pleasant and chats were pleasant. She even initiated contact and reached out the next day when we were supposed to meet and we chatted for a bit, so all was well.
Contacted her before getting in the car to go see her and ghosted. No clue why, everything was great up to that point, but haven't heard from her since.
NewAnonymousName
12-30-22, 18:04
Hey guys, newbie here. New to the forums and newish to the hobby.
I wanted to know if anyone interacted with this one before. I met her on sugar site and everything seems fine, but spidey sense is throwing me off. Maybe just because of language barrier, but thought I'd see if anyone knows more.Including the sugar baby's name from the website and a cut and paste of the URL as a link would help us figure out who she is and whether we've seen her, or seen reviews about her, in the past.
KingHorama2
12-30-22, 18:25
AlejandraGL.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/cff18169bc1d0920
Hey guys, newbie here. New to the forums and newish to the hobby.
I wanted to know if anyone interacted with this one before. I met her on sugar site and everything seems fine, but spidey sense is throwing me off. Maybe just because of language barrier, but thought I'd see if anyone knows more.
KingHorama2
12-30-22, 18:27
Including the sugar baby's name from the website and a cut and paste of the URL as a link would help us figure out who she is and whether we've seen her, or seen reviews about her, in the past.Updated both posts to include additional details. Thanks for the info!
Over the past couple of years I have looked back on my journey and realized it has been a very interesting trip. One that has very good and crazy memories. All thanks to our great community of bowlers and mongers. This site along has helped in so many ways to broaden my scopes in ways I have never thought of before. If you have a open mind you can find value in it. I have to say over the past 2 yrs I have seen after counting my trophy pics upward to 113 girls and the majority of them were SB. Well I want to wish everyone a happy holidays and happy new years and keep at it hopefully in 2023 I will be able to double that number.
My experience has been that the SBs who discuss money, especially any specific discussion of how much and for what, leads to an SW or a dead end. Especially if they seem too busy to chat for a couple of days before the m / g. Especially if there is any discussion of videos or pictures.
The last time out, I had six "trial runs" between Locust Grove and Waycross. I don't mind driving if the vibe is right. All but one were single mothers, the other was a medical professional with two masters degrees.
One mom had several "dates" and visits to her home but never made it to the FC. Never did figure out her thing.
Three mentioned a specific amount but kept the conversation going. All three of these were BBFS and one was multiple overnights with multiple pops. All were 250. Two were repeats but unable to host, the third started asking for money for her hair, nails, etc.
One came to my house numerous times after the m / g, spent the night with multiple BBFS pops. Never asked for anything specific, just help fix problems. Over a month there were maybe half a dozen overnights and my investment was about 1.5 k spread out over the month. But then she called me from jail, needed to get bailed out of a DUI. Only cost me $20 because I'm a property owner in that county. I helped her through the court appearance then I walked away from it.
Last one is still going after two and a half years, started out paying her rent now it's SGF with trips to the beach, NYC, New Orleans, and Orlando with her kids. I spend the weekends with her, always BBFS.
Lesson learned: If it's all about the money, expect a high percentage of GPS, flakes and scammers. If they don't seem overly concerned about the money, that's where you want to invest your time.
TattoedDaddy1
12-31-22, 11:08
Over the past couple of years I have looked back on my journey and realized it has been a very interesting trip. One that has very good and crazy memories. All thanks to our great community of bowlers and mongers. This site along has helped in so many ways to broaden my scopes in ways I have never thought of before. If you have a open mind you can find value in it. I have to say over the past 2 yrs I have seen after counting my trophy pics upward to 113 girls and the majority of them were SB. Well I want to wish everyone a happy holidays and happy new years and keep at it hopefully in 2023 I will be able to double that number.I cannot agree with you more, although I have no way of counting. I know that since I've embarked on this quest, even though there has been some downfalls, I could not be happier with the outcome of this environment.
I see every interaction as either a lesson or a blessing. I cannot honestly say that there isn't a single person that I've interacted with that hasn't taught me something or gave me something to improve my walk.
I come from a long line of sugar daddies, my grandfather was one, my father was one, my cousin, and now me. Fortunately, I've had the opportunity to have people bestow on me their lessons, so I didn't have to make as many mistakes this some.
Thank you everyone for making this forum possible it has definitely enlightened my walk!
SalaminoThing
12-31-22, 11:59
My appologies fellow members. Just noticed I had Posted in the Wrong Thread.
OK. Scammer! We started chatting and agreed to meet at a restaurant for a meet and greet and afterwards some fun for 2. She said she was on her way in a uber. I sent her a screenshot of the distance via waze and asked her to send me one as well. She asked me to send her the payment over electronic method I responded with I deal in cash she replied cash makes her feel dirty. I LOL anyways she pretended to be in the uber car so I asked for a pic of the uber car she never sent it. However she presented to be pulling up and getting out the car. I am waiting outside she never arrived then she says she at the wrong place when I sent her the address. It was clear she was lying. Don't waste your time. LOL.
https://members.seeking.com/member/d74b35c9-19eb-4456-98be-fa89f707c79eI had a similar experience. However, in my case she gave me an address to her apartment (supposedly). I got there and it was indeed an apartment with restaurants. She told me where to park and that she was on the way to get me since the gate was locked. 2 minutes later she texted me saying that she did not receive the payments. I asked what payments? She says she likes payments upfront and does not like discussing it in the room. I said I prefer cash; but I can do electronic transfer after seeing her and if I am comfortable. She insisted that I send any amount to show that I was real. That was when I realized she was a scammer. I left.
TattoedDaddy1
12-31-22, 12:41
https://members.seeking.com/member/4aa6b25b-9dab-4158-8455-55042e362c28
She's back. Started at 500 ppm then after she got mad at me it went to 1000 ppm but quoted 400 ppm too. Let's see what happens LOL.
FarFarAway
12-31-22, 14:30
Over the past couple of years I have looked back on my journey and realized it has been a very interesting trip. One that has very good and crazy memories. All thanks to our great community of bowlers and mongers. This site along has helped in so many ways to broaden my scopes in ways I have never thought of before. If you have a open mind you can find value in it. I have to say over the past 2 yrs I have seen after counting my trophy pics upward to 113 girls and the majority of them were SB. Well I want to wish everyone a happy holidays and happy new years and keep at it hopefully in 2023 I will be able to double that number.Impressive. You must be single. I have a SO, which limits my availability. I've had like 3 dozen or so girls since joining SA since 2016, and a few keepers I've seen for long-terms. I often fantasize about what would happen if a magic wand was waved and my SO didn't exist anymore. I think I would go a little crazy, I could afford a lot in the sugar bowl, both my schedule and the need to hide the $ I am spending is what limits me now. With those brakes off, I really can't imagine how much fun I could have. And I am a guy in my 60's. Pretty proud of that, all of you SDs should be.
Peter Johnson
12-31-22, 14:35
Over the past couple of years I have looked back on my journey and realized it has been a very interesting trip. One that has very good and crazy memories. All thanks to our great community of bowlers and mongers. This site along has helped in so many ways to broaden my scopes in ways I have never thought of before. If you have a open mind you can find value in it. I have to say over the past 2 yrs I have seen after counting my trophy pics upward to 113 girls and the majority of them were SB. Well I want to wish everyone a happy holidays and happy new years and keep at it hopefully in 2023 I will be able to double that number.Nice number there, and of course that represents a lot of fun and adventure. I nailed 37 in 2002 and all but 2 of those were sbs. My best ever was 83 in 2012 and that was when Craigslist Casual Encounters was an amazing resource for free action, but of course the quality was nowhere as high as sugar dating....a lot of chunky housewives back then, but was still glorious.
37 was my best year since 2015...had some LTRs that slowed me down, and only 5 in 2020, when covid hit. Only 12 last year, again mainly because of covid risk.
I am going to try to average maybe 2 a month in 2023, for both budgetary reasons and because I'm slowing down a bit as I get older with my recharge time. I could get it up and do a new one every day, but I wouldn't enjoy enough. I need to be really backed up to be crazy horny, and then it can be a mind blowing peak experience. That is what I'm going for at this point.
LouisHernandez
12-31-22, 15:11
https://members.seeking.com/member/f0c54bde-4c4f-4d85-8507-032fe56ad005
HersheyKissLips ss a picture seller. Cooks up a good story, but when you set up a meet she wants money for pictures before she leaves.Fucking grifters. I'll tell ya seeking in Denver where I live has gotten tough. I notice SA no longer advertises they have a "4 female to 1 male" ratio anymore. Regular online dating is completely broken and has been forever. I think most guys have given up on it and all have moved to SA. Glad I was ahead of the crowd and experienced what a rock star life is like for a few years. That's over with. Lots of work now with often little to show for it.
LouisHernandez
12-31-22, 15:26
My experience has been that the SBs who discuss money, especially any specific discussion of how much and for what, leads to an SW or a dead end. Especially if they seem too busy to chat for a couple of days before the m / g. Especially if there is any discussion of videos or pictures.
The last time out, I had six "trial runs" between Locust Grove and Waycross. I don't mind driving if the vibe is right. All but one were single mothers, the other was a medical professional with two masters degrees.
One mom had several "dates" and visits to her home but never made it to the FC. Never did figure out her thing.
Three mentioned a specific amount but kept the conversation going. All three of these were BBFS and one was multiple overnights with multiple pops. All were 250. Two were repeats but unable to host, the third started asking for money for her hair, nails, etc.
One came to my house numerous times after the m / g, spent the night with multiple BBFS pops. Never asked for anything specific, just help fix problems. Over a month there were maybe half a dozen overnights and my investment was about 1.5 k spread out over the month. But then she called me from jail, needed to get bailed out of a DUI. Only cost me $20 because I'm a property owner in that county. I helped her through the court appearance then I walked away from it.
Last one is still going after two and a half years, started out paying her rent now it's SGF with trips to the beach, NYC, New Orleans, and Orlando with her kids. I spend the weekends with her, always BBFS.
Lesson learned: If it's all about the money, expect a high percentage of GPS, flakes and scammers. If they don't seem overly concerned about the money, that's where you want to invest your time.Good post here. If they bring up cash amounts before FS especially before meeting face to face, more often than not they are grifters / flakes / scammers. All of my 50+ SBs I never talked about money until face to face. A good rule of thumb is to walk no matter "hot" she appears if she starts asking about dollar amounts before IRL meeting.
Member #6718
12-31-22, 17:25
Nice number there, and of course that represents a lot of fun and adventure. I nailed 37 in 2002 and all but 2 of those were sbs. My best ever was 83 in 2012 and that was when Craigslist Casual Encounters was an amazing resource for free action, but of course the quality was nowhere as high as sugar dating....a lot of chunky housewives back then, but was still glorious.
37 was my best year since 2015...had some LTRs that slowed me down, and only 5 in 2020, when covid hit. Only 12 last year, again mainly because of covid risk.
I am going to try to average maybe 2 a month in 2023, for both budgetary reasons and because I'm slowing down a bit as I get older with my recharge time. I could get it up and do a new one every day, but I wouldn't enjoy enough. I need to be really backed up to be crazy horny, and then it can be a mind blowing peak experience. That is what I'm going for at this point.Ha good times. While we are at it comparing numbers this year has been my best by some margin with 40 (was at 46 starting the year). It has been a mix of paid sb's from seeking (mostly), some freebie sb's from seeking, smaller number of paid sb's from bumble, and then some regular dates from the regular apps. Just between Christmas and tonight NYE I will have banged 5 different chicks, 3 sb's all in there early 20's, a hot 35 yo asian from bumble last night and tonight a 50 yo I've known through some social groups. It's been a good here. Next year I plan to slow down with the sugar, I have my one super solid smoking hot 20 yo asian gal, and another that is very into the swinger scene so hoping to get some numbers up in that world. We shall see.
Member #6718
12-31-22, 17:27
Good post here. If they bring up cash amounts before FS especially before meeting face to face, more often than not they are grifters / flakes / scammers. All of my 50+ SBs I never talked about money until face to face. A good rule of thumb is to walk no matter "hot" she appears if she starts asking about dollar amounts before IRL meeting.Honestly I have not had this experience over the last year. Pretty much every single chick I have banged from seeking where I paid the amount was agreed up front. Some were clearly "amateur pros" but others were pretty regular chicks. There were a few where money wasn't discussed and dates went well and got some freebies LOL.
SgtHappyEnding
12-31-22, 18:06
Well here goes.
Of course I read the reviews and got more interested. Sex is best with the crazy ones!
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Don't take this as anything other than I knew what I was getting into. She acts up because she wants to be choked and fucked, sometimes by a gangbang of men. Have fun fellas and hold onto you hat LOL.That was the best story I've ever read on here. It had everything! It may or may not be true, but as far as I'm concerned, it doesn't matter. Most on here thought Babyria was beyond redemption, but you did it. I think there's something admirable about coaching a troublesome SB into doing her best. I love it. Keep up the good work.
LouisHernandez
12-31-22, 18:09
Ha good times. While we are at it comparing numbers this year has been my best by some margin with 40 (was at 46 starting the year). It has been a mix of paid sb's from seeking (mostly), some freebie sb's from seeking, smaller number of paid sb's from bumble, and then some regular dates from the regular apps. Just between Christmas and tonight NYE I will have banged 5 different chicks, 3 sb's all in there early 20's, a hot 35 yo asian from bumble last night and tonight a 50 yo I've known through some social groups. It's been a good here. Next year I plan to slow down with the sugar, I have my one super solid smoking hot 20 yo asian gal, and another that is very into the swinger scene so hoping to get some numbers up in that world. We shall see.SB on bumble? What's your game / approach there? How old are you?
Member #6718
12-31-22, 18:43
SB on bumble? What's your game / approach there? How old are you?Yep. I am 50. Got one 20 yo, just swiped right, we matched, bantered a bit, asked if she was into sugar dating. In my area we have the "compliment" function where you can comment on one of their pics. I have used this too and just said something like "Hey great pic you look fabulous. Are you open to sugar dating at all"? Same approach on hinge. Landed two from bumble and one from hinge this way, age 20,20 and 23.
Peter Johnson
12-31-22, 20:01
Yep. I am 50. Got one 20 yo, just swiped right, we matched, bantered a bit, asked if she was into sugar dating. In my area we have the "compliment" function where you can comment on one of their pics. I have used this too and just said something like "Hey great pic you look fabulous. Are you open to sugar dating at all"? Same approach on hinge. Landed two from bumble and one from hinge this way, age 20,20 and 23.I have tried a similar approach and have some prospects, but haven't closed the deal with one of them yet. It takes a slightly different strategy, because sometimes you have to educate them about sugar dating, and be careful not to make them feel like a wh*re, but also explain how they can benefit.
One 18 y/o says she had been thinking about sugar dating for awhile, so she seems good to go. Another 23 y/o says "I don't really need money", so that could be considerably more difficult. She likes dating older guys though, so maybe some hope there. Also I could see some of these civilians being more strict about CFS, so that could be a dealbreaker for me.
I definitely look a lot better with $300 in my hand, so I can't see getting these young girls without it being financially beneficial to them. But working on it, and we'll see.
Peter Johnson
12-31-22, 20:08
Good post here. If they bring up cash amounts before FS especially before meeting face to face, more often than not they are grifters / flakes / scammers. All of my 50+ SBs I never talked about money until face to face. A good rule of thumb is to walk no matter "hot" she appears if she starts asking about dollar amounts before IRL meeting.I kind of have the opposite attitude here, and I often don't want to waste their time, or mine, meeting in person if we aren't on the same page with ppm. But perhaps I should meet up with a few more first and then decide how much it is worth to me, after judging the chemistry and vibe.
TattoedDaddy1
12-31-22, 21:50
SB on bumble? What's your game / approach there? How old are you?I like to overflow from SA in the big three. However they are nothing more than time filled when I'm not cruising SA. I'm working a 22 year old rn! We will see but I never put stock in anyone. The best deal is the one your willing to walk away from haha.
LouisHernandez
12-31-22, 22:39
Yep. I am 50. Got one 20 yo, just swiped right, we matched, bantered a bit, asked if she was into sugar dating. In my area we have the "compliment" function where you can comment on one of their pics. I have used this too and just said something like "Hey great pic you look fabulous. Are you open to sugar dating at all"? Same approach on hinge. Landed two from bumble and one from hinge this way, age 20,20 and 23.Good info. I'm going to give this game approach and see what happens on hinge and bumble. Gracias.
Peter Johnson
01-01-23, 01:17
Ok, I got an email in my extra SA account for -25% offer. I don't see any for -33% yet.
But I'm going to try to renew tomorrow, and if it works, I will post the URL to the offer and anyone else can try to use it too.
Fucking grifters. I'll tell ya seeking in Denver where I live has gotten tough. I notice SA no longer advertises they have a "4 female to 1 male" ratio anymore. Regular online dating is completely broken and has been forever. I think most guys have given up on it and all have moved to SA. Glad I was ahead of the crowd and experienced what a rock star life is like for a few years. That's over with. Lots of work now with often little to show for it.I definitely feel the winds of change on SA lately, the changes made to eliminate escort behavior have had a definite impact.
Opinions vary here of course, but I'm of the belief that sugar-dating *is* a "legit" form of dating where there are clear distinctions between that and escorting, therefore SA can now be considered more of a legit dating site than what it used to be.
This good in some ways, bad in others.
The good is that there are less escorts, so there is less concern that a girl I meet has had six other dicks in her that day. In truth that wasn't ever a real risk, because all of us know how to spot an escort once the conversation gets rolling, but because they are fewer and farther between (at least in the cities I play in), there is a lot less time wasted in the process of figuring this out. I have to assume this is because escorts are getting kicked or banned for shop talk and eventually get frustrated and go elsewhere.
The bad is that it seems to have drawn far more girls that want a real relationship, in many cases sugar-optional, with an older guy. Sugar-dating was always very time consuming, but so many of these girls want to spend a lot of time texting or getting to know you before deciding to meet or not. More of the 23+ year olds looking for an older boyfriend with a nice job than the 18-22 year olds that want some money to party with their friends over the weekend.
I can't say the net amount of time spent in the process of conversion to fuck chamber is any different than before, what's changed is the way in which the time is spent. Personally I hate constant texting, so for the most part I miss the old SA, but at the end of the day the ROI (amount of pussy versus time spent) is roughly same. It feels like a return to the old days before SA, where sugar opportunities were there, but spotting them and generating leads was less convenient.
TattoedDaddy1
01-01-23, 12:17
That was the best story I've ever read on here. It had everything! It may or may not be true, but as far as I'm concerned, it doesn't matter. Most on here thought Babyria was beyond redemption, but you did it. I think there's something admirable about coaching a troublesome SB into doing her best. I love it. Keep up the good work.I'm glad you see it that way, I do not regret nor take back any time that I spent with her. But I am very in touch with things and when I feel like something has run its course, I have no problem with walking away. I absolutely wish her the best.
P.S. If you don't believe the story, I said about her, just read the other reviews and that should tell you.
LouisHernandez
01-01-23, 12:52
Yep. I am 50. Got one 20 yo, just swiped right, we matched, bantered a bit, asked if she was into sugar dating. In my area we have the "compliment" function where you can comment on one of their pics. I have used this too and just said something like "Hey great pic you look fabulous. Are you open to sugar dating at all"? Same approach on hinge. Landed two from bumble and one from hinge this way, age 20,20 and 23.I replied last night to an 18 year old that "liked" me on hinge and asked her if she was "interested in sugar dating", response "Yes actually I am". So far so good haha.
Question regarding bumble and others: do you pay so you can see your matches? It's very time consuming to find your matches otherwise.
FarFarAway
01-01-23, 12:55
Ha good times. While we are at it comparing numbers this year has been my best by some margin with 40 (was at 46 starting the year). It has been a mix of paid sb's from seeking (mostly), some freebie sb's from seeking, smaller number of paid sb's from bumble, and then some regular dates from the regular apps. Just between Christmas and tonight NYE I will have banged 5 different chicks, 3 sb's all in there early 20's, a hot 35 yo asian from bumble last night and tonight a 50 yo I've known through some social groups. It's been a good here. Next year I plan to slow down with the sugar, I have my one super solid smoking hot 20 yo asian gal, and another that is very into the swinger scene so hoping to get some numbers up in that world. We shall see.I presume that most of you, like me, keep a list and even a gallery of the girls you have banged. I have all the contact info on my SBs on a master list that has everyone I have ever been in contact with from SA, all of the other pertinent facts, etc. This is protection for me, and presumably will give me fodder for strolling down memory lane when I am too old to get it up anymore. Thankfully I appear to be years (or decades) away from that. LOL!
LouisHernandez
01-01-23, 12:59
I definitely feel the winds of change on SA lately, the changes made to eliminate escort behavior have had a definite impact.
Opinions vary here of course, but I'm of the belief that sugar-dating *is* a "legit" form of dating where there are clear distinctions between that and escorting, therefore SA can now be considered more of a legit dating site than what it used to be.
This good in some ways, bad in others.
The good is that there are less escorts, so there is less concern that a girl I meet has had six other dicks in her that day. In truth that wasn't ever a real risk, because all of us know how to spot an escort once the conversation gets rolling, but because they are fewer and farther between (at least in the cities I play in), there is a lot less time wasted in the process of figuring this out. I have to assume this is because escorts are getting kicked or banned for shop talk and eventually get frustrated and go elsewhere.
The bad is that it seems to have drawn far more girls that want a real relationship, in many cases sugar-optional, with an older guy. Sugar-dating was always very time consuming, but so many of these girls want to spend a lot of time texting or getting to know you before deciding to meet or not. More of the 23+ year olds looking for an older boyfriend with a nice job than the 18-22 year olds that want some money to party with their friends over the weekend.
I can't say the net amount of time spent in the process of conversion to fuck chamber is any different than before, what's changed is the way in which the time is spent. Personally I hate constant texting, so for the most part I miss the old SA, but at the end of the day the ROI (amount of pussy versus time spent) is roughly same. It feels like a return to the old days before SA, where sugar opportunities were there, but spotting them and generating leads was less convenient.I basically never run into a girl that is "sugar optional" at least not recently (last few years). Maybe I should tweak my profile text and add more vanilla dating terms. Good post.
FredFlintBc
01-01-23, 13:02
I've got a SA girl that recently moved to Atlanta. I'll share details with seniors via PM.
Member #6718
01-01-23, 13:43
I replied last night to an 18 year old that "liked" me on hinge and asked her if she was "interested in sugar dating", response "Yes actually I am". So far so good haha.
Question regarding bumble and others: do you pay so you can see your matches? It's very time consuming to find your matches otherwise.For Bumble I was able to get lifetime premium for like $99, so that covers that. Hinge I don't bother with premium.
Peter Johnson
01-01-23, 16:28
For Bumble I was able to get lifetime premium for like $99, so that covers that. Hinge I don't bother with premium.I bought lifetime premium for bumble for $149, and then they banned me a few months later.
Peter Johnson
01-01-23, 16:35
I got these in my email, and just used a 25% off and was $82.49 for a month of premium subscription. So if you need to renew, you can try them:
25% off: http://links.email.seeking.com/ctt?ms=MjAzOTgwMTgS1&kn=6&r=NDQyNTc0NjEzOTYxS0&b=0&j=MjUyMDAxNTA3MwS2&mt=2&rj=MjUwMTg0MjI2NgS2&rt=0.
25% off: http://links.email.seeking.com/ctt?ms=MjAzOTgwMTUS1&kn=6&r=NDQyNTc0NjEzOTYxS0&b=0&j=MjUwMTcwMTg5OAS2&mt=2&rj=MjUwMTY2MDg4NAS2&rt=0.
15% off: http://links.email.seeking.com/ctt?ms=MjAzOTgwMTIS1&kn=6&r=NDQyNTc0NjEzOTYxS0&b=0&j=MjUwMTYzMjQwNgS2&mt=2&rj=MjUwMTYwNjI4NQS2&rt=0.
Peter Johnson
01-01-23, 16:40
I presume that most of you, like me, keep a list and even a gallery of the girls you have banged. I have all the contact info on my SBs on a master list that has everyone I have ever been in contact with from SA, all of the other pertinent facts, etc. This is protection for me, and presumably will give me fodder for strolling down memory lane when I am too old to get it up anymore. Thankfully I appear to be years (or decades) away from that. LOL!Yes, I have my "new pussy spreadsheet" that goes back to the start. I didn't start it until I was up to #75 or so and just had to sit and remember all those, but I've kept it mostly updated and current, since then. I have pics saved of many of them, but some of the others I have zero recollection of, which is too bad. I am really pushing for taking pics and video of new girls I am with lately, because that adds a lot of value to the experience for me. Of course I don't blame the ones who aren't down for this, but they just get moved farther down the list.
I presume that most of you, like me, keep a list and even a gallery of the girls you have banged. I have all the contact info on my SBs on a master list that has everyone I have ever been in contact with from SA, all of the other pertinent facts, etc. This is protection for me, and presumably will give me fodder for strolling down memory lane when I am too old to get it up anymore. Thankfully I appear to be years (or decades) away from that. LOL!Yep, once I get them off the site and texting. I usually start a folder with any pics they have sent plus one or two from their profile, and any pertinent information. Every now and then when I want something particular I hit up the "Pussy Folder" to know who to text LOL.
TattoedDaddy1
01-01-23, 16:54
Yes, I have my "new pussy spreadsheet" that goes back to the start. I didn't start it until I was up to #75 or so and just had to sit and remember all those, but I've kept it mostly updated and current, since then. I have pics saved of many of them, but some of the others I have zero recollection of, which is too bad. I am really pushing for taking pics and video of new girls I am with lately, because that adds a lot of value to the experience for me. Of course I don't blame the ones who aren't down for this, but they just get moved farther down the list.New Pussy Spreadsheet. Brilliant!
I basically never run into a girl that is "sugar optional" at least not recently (last few years). Maybe I should tweak my profile text and add more vanilla dating terms. Good post.I encounter it fairly regularly (like when an SB is getting the hint that the new and shiny factor is wearing off for me, and suddenly she has the idea maybe we could date without sugar in order to keep me around), but only within a certain age bracket (maybe 25+ on average).
But, what I'm seeing now is a little different. It's the girls who make clear they are in search of a long-term relationship and ask me explicitly to not ruin it by talking about ppm or allowance.
Is that really sugar-optional? I don't think so. I still think the majority of them still want their hands in my pockets, they would just like it to be under the successful boyfriend / young girlfriend way of doing things rather than anything like an official specified amount.
If that's what you're looking for (and I know some folks are), then yes probably a different approach in the profile to indicate that's what you want would attract more of what you want. I try to craft my profile in a way that it doesn't limit opportunities. That's not always easy, because if I say I want casual & NSA, the girls who want BFs won't react well to it, and if I say I want a LTR, it might land me more cheap or free pussy (at the expense of lots of texting) but turns away the casual encounters I actually prefer.
Member #6718
01-01-23, 18:14
I bought lifetime premium for bumble for $149, and then they banned me a few months later.What did they ban you for? I have been pretty open. But respectful. On the sugar dating questions.
Member #6718
01-01-23, 18:18
Yes, I have my "new pussy spreadsheet" that goes back to the start. I didn't start it until I was up to #75 or so and just had to sit and remember all those, but I've kept it mostly updated and current, since then. I have pics saved of many of them, but some of the others I have zero recollection of, which is too bad. I am really pushing for taking pics and video of new girls I am with lately, because that adds a lot of value to the experience for me. Of course I don't blame the ones who aren't down for this, but they just get moved farther down the list.How do you approach chicks for pics / vids? I would love to do this but just don't seem to know the right approach.
Peter Johnson
01-01-23, 19:02
How do you approach chicks for pics / vids? I would love to do this but just don't seem to know the right approach.There are a couple of different ways to do it. I used to just wait until we were in the middle of having sex, and preferably after I get them off with oral, and they are loose and feeling good. Then in doggy, I will say something like "Damn what a beautiful view. I wish I could capture this somehow. Are you ok with taking some hot pics. I keep them encrypted on my computer, and only for my personal use". Some will go for it, and some will not.
But now I will bring it up before we meet, when we are discussing PPM. I will throw out a number what I did with past girls and casually mention, "or more if they were ok with me taking some hot pics together. For my personal use only and I keep them encrypted on my computer". So I basically upcharge myself there, and offer extra 50 or 100. And if the girl is hot, an extra 100 for pics I will enjoy for many years, is so worth it.
And I never say anything about "video", but just do it when I'm taking the pics. Saying you want to take video just sounds more creepy or intrusive. But nothing better than a BJ video or oral cumshot vid....although feels better to put it somewhere else, of course.
Basically the perfect date for me is 90 min to 2 hrs of BBFS / CIP, and I can take hot pics. If they give me all that, then I'm fine with being extra generous.
Peter Johnson
01-01-23, 19:06
What did they ban you for? I have been pretty open. But respectful. On the sugar dating questions.They never tell you what you get banned for on any of these sites. This was before I ever said anything about sugar dating. It was just regular conversation on Bumble. I always tried to be polite and respectful, but maybe I told one she had nice cleavage and she flew off then handle, or who knows. I'm sure I'll get banned on there again eventually, because it's just a minefield filled with crazy women, and they will complain and lie about you, for anything.
GoneForGood97
01-01-23, 19:16
Just curious if seeking ran a holiday or New Year discount and I just missed the boat? I was traveling over the holidays so wasn't really in a place to be able to discretely check the site on Christmas, and surprised to see there was no email sent to me with a New Year discount. Was going to resub since my most recent SB went to the wayside. Was a code sent out that I missed?
Peter Johnson
01-01-23, 22:19
Just curious if seeking ran a holiday or New Year discount and I just missed the boat? I was traveling over the holidays so wasn't really in a place to be able to discretely check the site on Christmas, and surprised to see there was no email sent to me with a New Year discount. Was going to resub since my most recent SB went to the wayside. Was a code sent out that I missed?I posted a few messages below with links to 25% off. I heard about a 33% one as well, but don't have the info there.
Thunderbolt27
01-01-23, 23:31
Thank you so much for sharing these. For some reason, I rarely get these emailed to me.
T-Bolt.
I got these in my email, and just used a 25% off and was $82.49 for a month of premium subscription. So if you need to renew, you can try them:
25% off: http://links.email.seeking.com/ctt?ms=MjAzOTgwMTgS1&kn=6&r=NDQyNTc0NjEzOTYxS0&b=0&j=MjUyMDAxNTA3MwS2&mt=2&rj=MjUwMTg0MjI2NgS2&rt=0.
25% off: http://links.email.seeking.com/ctt?ms=MjAzOTgwMTUS1&kn=6&r=NDQyNTc0NjEzOTYxS0&b=0&j=MjUwMTcwMTg5OAS2&mt=2&rj=MjUwMTY2MDg4NAS2&rt=0.
15% off: http://links.email.seeking.com/ctt?ms=MjAzOTgwMTIS1&kn=6&r=NDQyNTc0NjEzOTYxS0&b=0&j=MjUwMTYzMjQwNgS2&mt=2&rj=MjUwMTYwNjI4NQS2&rt=0.
GoneForGood97
01-02-23, 00:39
https://members.seeking.com/member/a50ab671-9f8f-46e1-ac89-7b771c050d8e
Real, but just looking to sell nudes. Next!
GoneForGood97
01-02-23, 01:51
https://members.seeking.com/member/210c0e15-31da-4dcb-a776-3a8b081d2a3f
Just curious if anyone has got anywhere with this one. Profile is a few months old, and they don't talk like a scammer. Moved her to snap, she snapped me a live pic. When I asked for one with a specific pose she pouted. Normaly I'd immediately cut off and move on, but her chatting doesn't have the usual hallmarks of scamming, and she hasn't asked for $.
CuriousVaMan
01-02-23, 02:04
I chatted with her tonight on Seeking as well. Wanted to immediately move to Snap, which I don't have. Haven't heard anything from her since informing her. Good luck. Please report back!
https://members.seeking.com/member/210c0e15-31da-4dcb-a776-3a8b081d2a3f
Just curious if anyone has got anywhere with this one. Profile is a few months old, and they don't talk like a scammer. Moved her to snap, she snapped me a live pic. When I asked for one with a specific pose she pouted. Normaly I'd immediately cut off and move on, but her chatting doesn't have the usual hallmarks of scamming, and she hasn't asked for $.
SoonerFan72
01-02-23, 12:15
Scammer. I blocked her before I got her profile link. She wanted to switch straight to text, when I Googled her number I got a hit on her RubMD page, with a review stating she is a scammer.
https://rubmd.com/nashville-tn/69ffed6f-6b98-47ba-96e1-7daff15c4af0?ref=p
TattoedDaddy1
01-02-23, 13:50
Scammer. I blocked her before I got her profile link. She wanted to switch straight to text, when I Googled her number I got a hit on her RubMD page, with a review stating she is a scammer.
https://rubmd.com/nashville-tn/69ffed6f-6b98-47ba-96e1-7daff15c4af0?ref=pThis her?
https://members.seeking.com/member/1cfc49fb-60ae-4191-9aa7-08f2ccc97e3c
LouisHernandez
01-02-23, 13:51
They never tell you what you get banned for on any of these sites. This was before I ever said anything about sugar dating. It was just regular conversation on Bumble. I always tried to be polite and respectful, but maybe I told one she had nice cleavage and she flew off then handle, or who knows. I'm sure I'll get banned on there again eventually, because it's just a minefield filled with crazy women, and they will complain and lie about you, for anything.Well that's complete BS if you've paid for a lifetime. They should refund you.
LouisHernandez
01-02-23, 13:53
https://members.seeking.com/member/a50ab671-9f8f-46e1-ac89-7b771c050d8e
Real, but just looking to sell nudes. Next!If the profile was created only a few days ago and they are especially hot, I always ignore. Seeking is good about purging the scammers but it takes them about a week.
LouisHernandez
01-02-23, 14:39
I encounter it fairly regularly (like when an SB is getting the hint that the new and shiny factor is wearing off for me, and suddenly she has the idea maybe we could date without sugar in order to keep me around), but only within a certain age bracket (maybe 25+ on average).
But, what I'm seeing now is a little different. It's the girls who make clear they are in search of a long-term relationship and ask me explicitly to not ruin it by talking about ppm or allowance.
Is that really sugar-optional? I don't think so. I still think the majority of them still want their hands in my pockets, they would just like it to be under the successful boyfriend / young girlfriend way of doing things rather than anything like an official specified amount.
If that's what you're looking for (and I know some folks are), then yes probably a different approach in the profile to indicate that's what you want would attract more of what you want. I try to craft my profile in a way that it doesn't limit opportunities. That's not always easy, because if I say I want casual & NSA, the girls who want BFs won't react well to it, and if I say I want a LTR, it might land me more cheap or free pussy (at the expense of lots of texting) but turns away the casual encounters I actually prefer.Yes I prefer the casual encounters too, but come to think of it, given the entire goal is BBFS with a UTR, it's best to come across looking for "monogamous" and "emotional connection" even though we all know everything about seeking is short term.
Member #6718
01-02-23, 15:54
Yes I prefer the casual encounters too, but come to think of it, given the entire goal is BBFS with a UTR, it's best to come across looking for "monogamous" and "emotional connection" even though we all know everything about seeking is short term.I actually legit dated someone from seeking for 2. 5 years LOL.
FarFarAway
01-02-23, 17:00
I actually legit dated someone from seeking for 2. 5 years LOL.Thanks for that perspective. I also disagree that everything about SA is short term. It might be for him, but he's in no position to speak for everyone. I have truly enjoyed several long-term arrangements I have had, and my last one, she had to relocate out of the lower 48 for work, but every time she is back home visiting her family, we FC. If she were still here we'd still see each other weekly, we have that strong a connection. I saw her at Thanksgiving, we had this exact conversation, and she agrees completely with that. Of course, we know we aren't a long-term match for a committed relationship. I've been married 2 decades+. What I think is the max you can expect from an arrangement is the *intention* that you are going to continue to see someone, but of course that is just until something happens. One of you gets a job in a different location, perhaps she meets a dude she wants to date vanilla, or your wife finds out you've been banging a 20-something.
I have also had a lot of fun w / girls I've seen only once (mostly when traveling) or a few times, we didn't match well for a continuing arrangement.
I chatted with her tonight on Seeking as well. Wanted to immediately move to Snap, which I don't have. Haven't heard anything from her since informing her. Good luck. Please report back!She's real, and really in Atlanta. Did live location sharing with her to confirm, but then she's asking for deposit offering 250 for all night. I said nah and she immediately dropped to 1.0. Classic deposit scam, nothing else to see here.
https://members.seeking.com/member/a9c51d16-28e9-4c83-aa66-e0567d7f8bfc
Messages on the site, moved off pretty easy. Got to talking and pic sharing, this girl wants 500 ppm with a body that is worth half that maybe. I politely declined.
P. s this round of seeking has been real rough for me, nothing but scammers hitting me up from Estonia and fat chicks who think they're worth 10 x what they are. Anyone else or is it just me?
https://members.seeking.com/member/b0a413ff-9412-14a7-b1ab-20ef81ca2eb5
Said she'd love to meet but gosh she just needs to pay the babysitter first, wants to know if I could help w that. I politely declined.
Member #6718
01-02-23, 18:06
Thanks for that perspective. I also disagree that everything about SA is short term. It might be for him, but he's in no position to speak for everyone. I have truly enjoyed several long-term arrangements I have had, and my last one, she had to relocate out of the lower 48 for work, but every time she is back home visiting her family, we FC. If she were still here we'd still see each other weekly, we have that strong a connection. I saw her at Thanksgiving, we had this exact conversation, and she agrees completely with that. Of course, we know we aren't a long-term match for a committed relationship. I've been married 2 decades+. What I think is the max you can expect from an arrangement is the *intention* that you are going to continue to see someone, but of course that is just until something happens. One of you gets a job in a different location, perhaps she meets a dude she wants to date vanilla, or your wife finds out you've been banging a 20-something.
I have also had a lot of fun w / girls I've seen only once (mostly when traveling) or a few times, we didn't match well for a continuing arrangement.Yeah in my case I have only been using seeking since I got divorced, so have been single the entire time. The 2. 5 year one, that was not an arrangement, we were just vanilla dating, despite an age gap of over 20 years. There is a decent chance I will end up in another relationship at some point with someone from seeking. I also remain friends with the first chick I ever banged from seeking way back in 2014. We hookup from time to time.
Member #6718
01-02-23, 18:07
https://members.seeking.com/member/b0a413ff-9412-14a7-b1ab-20ef81ca2eb5
Said she'd love to meet but gosh she just needs to pay the babysitter first, wants to know if I could help w that. I politely declined.With an account dating back to 2015 you have to believe she is legit though. However I would never send money first. That is a weird one. Maybe say you will give her babysitter money when you meet.
With an account dating back to 2015 you have to believe she is legit though. However I would never send money first. That is a weird one. Maybe say you will give her babysitter money when you meet.Maybe, and it's a good point about account age. I've just been burned and I didn't want to deal with it.
TattoedDaddy1
01-02-23, 18:29
https://members.seeking.com/member/b0a413ff-9412-14a7-b1ab-20ef81ca2eb5
Said she'd love to meet but gosh she just needs to pay the babysitter first, wants to know if I could help w that. I politely declined.I chatted with her on the site. She wanted to know what I wanted. I explain to her and she hasn't responded couple months. She may not be ready to pull the trigger on this lifestyle idk.
KingHorama2
01-02-23, 19:14
https://members.seeking.com/member/0c728f9a-1f22-48f7-a09d-70a6b0f45010
Not sure if anyone seen her before, no hits on the name, but she immediately moved convo to phone and then started asking personal details.
SoonerFan72
01-02-23, 19:18
Reached out to me first, very aggressive, but nice. Comes off with a pro vibe. She said she was in the Johns Creek area. Asked for $450, I passed. I did not get a verification pic, so if you pursue, I'd make sure and get one. I also got a few hits on her number for arrest records, mostly family stuff, nothing too crazy. Anyways, just providing info for you guys, tread at your own risk.
https://members.seeking.com/member/60e55b18-e929-460c-a083-e551ab30346d
LouisHernandez
01-02-23, 20:08
I actually legit dated someone from seeking for 2. 5 years LOL.No shit? My longest stint with a SB was also 5 years but it was 100% "casual". It was like a once every 3 month kinda deal. Met her when she was 19. Holy shit did she go down hill though, unrecognizable. Easily put on 50 pounds over the 5 years. She still has a nice ass though, but I finally couldn't do it anymore and she got really flakey, so that finally went dark. It was BBFS pullout $200 everytime, 1 pop, 30 mins. Girl was a trip.
LouisHernandez
01-02-23, 20:14
https://members.seeking.com/member/a9c51d16-28e9-4c83-aa66-e0567d7f8bfc
Messages on the site, moved off pretty easy. Got to talking and pic sharing, this girl wants 500 ppm with a body that is worth half that maybe. I politely declined.
P. s this round of seeking has been real rough for me, nothing but scammers hitting me up from Estonia and fat chicks who think they're worth 10 x what they are. Anyone else or is it just me?It's definitely gotten harder. I'm hoping things improve in January, perhaps everyone is on Christmas break and not needing any cash etc. I've got a few leads but haven't had any meets this subscription round yet and nothing is lined up. Could have scored easily with a 35 yo "curvy" latina (fatty) and a skinny 28 year old methhead, but I digress, not going there. I've only been on for about a week so far.
LouisHernandez
01-02-23, 20:25
https://members.seeking.com/member/b0a413ff-9412-14a7-b1ab-20ef81ca2eb5
Said she'd love to meet but gosh she just needs to pay the babysitter first, wants to know if I could help w that. I politely declined.Babysitter help scam. I've been hit with it recently and the girl put in her profile she has 0 kids. What a dumbass. Any money upfront is always fraudulent. Payment is only rendered after services are performed. Next.
SeanLively85
01-02-23, 20:41
I chatted with her tonight on Seeking as well. Wanted to immediately move to Snap, which I don't have. Haven't heard anything from her since informing her. Good luck. Please report back!Brilliantheiress is definitely a scammer. I went to Snapchat with her to discuss and I asked her to do a video chat to talk and prove she was real. She said "Not for free". Then I asked if she could at least send me a live video saying "Hey *my name*" she declined to do so without me paying her first. Of course, I said no and called her out for being a scammer. She then went on a rant about how I'm just a "cheap ass" and that she has plenty of men willing to pay top dollar, blah blah. In other words, avoid her.
SeanLively85
01-02-23, 20:50
https://members.seeking.com/member/a50ab671-9f8f-46e1-ac89-7b771c050d8e
Real, but just looking to sell nudes. Next!She may be real, but she is definitely a scammer. I spoke with her on SA and moved to text. We agreed to meet up tonight. . 4 ppm.
I asked her if we could video chat before I head out and she asked for 100 deposit. She gave me shit when I called her out.[blue]The screenshot was deleted because the telephone number is not edited. Moderator12[blue]
https://members.seeking.com/member/0c728f9a-1f22-48f7-a09d-70a6b0f45010
Not sure if anyone seen her before, no hits on the name, but she immediately moved convo to phone and then started asking personal details.She's pretty much a pro. Aggressive on getting a meetup.
Offered everything bare, all holes open for 300 ppm. Can't host.
I could tell her pics are older, in her verification her face is much chubbier. Between the pro-vibes and the old pics I declined.
GoneForGood97
01-03-23, 12:37
Here are a few I'm talking to. Anyone have any previous luck or insight?
Fairy bb.
https://members.seeking.com/member/26f68c6b-4f92-486d-a83e-48bfeb3a09e2
Seems to have gone dark after we traded pics, just thought I'd see if anyone has smashed and what the $ damage and experience was.
Q-ofhearts42.
https://members.seeking.com/member/3fa3fe02-ff4d-42e9-b839-6319af1a755f
I'm usually wary of self described models, but I like her look. Texting has been ok, just curious if anyone has confirmed what the damage is to bed her.
Babeeblues.
https://members.seeking.com/member/0f01a36f-742d-4ebf-9c2b-76916f3d8a5c
A little chatting but it's been sporadic. Plan on moving her offsite soon just wanting to know what the $ is and is she worth the chase?
Here are a few I'm talking to. Anyone have any previous luck or insight?
Fairy bb.
https://members.seeking.com/member/26f68c6b-4f92-486d-a83e-48bfeb3a09e2
Seems to have gone dark after we traded pics, just thought I'd see if anyone has smashed and what the $ damage and experience was.
Q-ofhearts42.
https://members.seeking.com/member/3fa3fe02-ff4d-42e9-b839-6319af1a755f
I'm usually wary of self described models, but I like her look. Texting has been ok, just curious if anyone has confirmed what the damage is to bed her.
Babeeblues.
https://members.seeking.com/member/0f01a36f-742d-4ebf-9c2b-76916f3d8a5c
A little chatting but it's been sporadic. Plan on moving her offsite soon just wanting to know what the $ is and is she worth the chase?Babeeblues was pretty firm on wanting an allowance. I couldn't get her to budge to a PPM let me know if you have better luck.
Member #6704
01-03-23, 12:59
Here are a few I'm talking to. Anyone have any previous luck or insight?
Fairy bb.
https://members.seeking.com/member/26f68c6b-4f92-486d-a83e-48bfeb3a09e2
Seems to have gone dark after we traded pics, just thought I'd see if anyone has smashed and what the $ damage and experience was.
Q-ofhearts42.
https://members.seeking.com/member/3fa3fe02-ff4d-42e9-b839-6319af1a755f
I'm usually wary of self described models, but I like her look. Texting has been ok, just curious if anyone has confirmed what the damage is to bed her.
Babeeblues.
https://members.seeking.com/member/0f01a36f-742d-4ebf-9c2b-76916f3d8a5c
A little chatting but it's been sporadic. Plan on moving her offsite soon just wanting to know what the $ is and is she worth the chase?I did exchange some messages with fairy bb. But my license expired and I gave her my number to text but have not heard back.
Shizzy6969
01-03-23, 16:56
https://members.seeking.com/member/8e9ab849-fdb1-4a99-8d40-66394c02834d/
Any one have any experience with this girl?
https://members.seeking.com/member/8e9ab849-fdb1-4a99-8d40-66394c02834d/
Any one have any experience with this girl?I was just talking to her today.
She's a pro. Quick to take conversation to email, wants 500 ppm to host.
DudeNextDoor
01-03-23, 17:33
LOL she told me she's from Nebraska going to GSU.
When I asked why she chose GSU she said she researched it and found it was a good party school and "amazingly open as far as the sex scene goes. ".
I asked what makes it so open and she said "tons of bi stuff and the group scene is amazing. ".
I'm absolutely crying laughing at this point. So I ask if she's bi and if she's into the group scene. Yep and yep. "back when I frsit started having SDs I had my first 3 sum, which lead to my first gangbang. And I found that I really like that a lot!
Gangbangs! So she's a 20 year blonde girl next door who's loves gang bangs and has had "tons" according to her.
I asked if there were pics or video of all this hot action and believe it or not she said YES! But I have to see it in person.
So I said let's meet. She gave me an email address to reach out to her. An email address? No text? No snap?
Needless to say, I'm not emailing that.
Hmm, maybe I should put it in the gangbang thread.
https://members.seeking.com/member/8e9ab849-fdb1-4a99-8d40-66394c02834d/
Any one have any experience with this girl?
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