View Full Version : "Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"
NewAnonymousName
10-28-22, 21:23
Yes, I'm glad you get it. And some would argue that a Snickers bar is a commodity and all are the same, so it's not an accurate analogy. However, these girls are also commodities, for the most part. If one 40ish MILF is asking $400, then most likely you can find another 40 ish MILF, of near identical quality.
Pussy is pussy, after all, to a large extent, especially in different age ranges. Sure there are outliers, but for most part, if a woman is charging too much, the market will give that business to a similar woman who is charging an amount that is more reasonable (meaning what the market has priced her at).For the record, I don't disagree with you, nor do I fault you for accurately describing the current market prices. I'm simply saying there are reasons some men overpay either occasionally or often (several are listed in my post below), and it's sad that a few here (only a few, and not you as I recall) get bent out of shape that the wealthy value their time more than their money.
TallGuy3000
10-29-22, 00:49
Sofia.
https://members.seeking.com/member/e3f7263c-5663-43ac-a6da-e4e1102c86b3
I chatted with her briefly via text, and I offered up a PPM of $350. She basically told me that she's not sure that we will ever come to an arrangement and the comms have dropped way off. Has anyone else seen her?
Southern Gal.
https://members.seeking.com/member/bb77f2be-a7fc-4c7f-b0df-7ffe21428a2f
I've exchanged a few messages with her, and it's gone basically nowhere. Perhaps I'm not her type. Again curious if anyone has any info about her. She seems to have been on the site for a while, but her activity is sporadic..She looks like a lady I was seeing pre Covid, and came to an end with the pandemic. We Lost contact and I know she had some family impacted by Covid. She was a great time and just loved sex. Loved oral. BBBJCIM, BBFSCIP, slightly bedroom submissive. I'd be curious to hear if you meet up.
SgtHappyEnding
10-29-22, 01:04
https://members.seeking.com/member/8ae1421a-9b75-490d-97b9-f01748f106ca
This one is a scammer. I usually don't buy them anything before meeting, but she is full of sob stories, and I let my guard down and got her a $40 phone refill card. Then she said she needed gas to come meet up, so I sent her $7 with Cashapp. Then of course she ghosted me, after that.
I don't care much about $47.... but I do care, out of principle. I was just backed up and not thinking clearly, and let my guard down. The red flags were already there, with this one too.Happens to the best of us. I appreciate hearing that I'm not the only one that's made a mistake like that.
Not sure about this one.
She hits you in in chat without even a HI with her # to text. Wants a phone call, fine whatever quick into the call she wants money to go to the hair salon. Nope.
Tell her I don't give money until a in person meetup, also I don't usually talk to girls under 21. She texts me her actual GA drivers license Nothing blacked out, front and back. BRUH.
She's 18 for sure, but damn.
Anyway, I just kind of blow her off and a week later she sends me a paragraph about how she wants a weekly allowance, with sex 3 times a week. I just ignore it, and she tries to call my google voice # 3 times in a row, then once an hour for 3 hours. Finally a text asking if I can meetup tonight.
She's either thirsty, or a cop. Do with that what you will.
https://members.seeking.com/member/1ddd8e82-a7cb-47ba-bae0-f226380cfc48
Peter Johnson
10-29-22, 16:30
For the record, I don't disagree with you, nor do I fault you for accurately describing the current market prices. I'm simply saying there are reasons some men overpay either occasionally or often (several are listed in my post below), and it's sad that a few here (only a few, and not you as I recall) get bent out of shape that the wealthy value their time more than their money.And I certainly don't fault you for paying greater than market prices to get it done, more quickly and simply. It is frustrating that some of the less bright girls then think they deserve that amount, every time in the future, but that isn't your fault. They likely eventually figure it out, but takes awhile, with some of the slower ones.
I try to stick with minimum 200 ppm, as it just feels insulting to go below that, but it's tough with some of these older sbs who just aren't worth that much to me. Most of the women on there are fuckable, but some just for 50 or 100, and I don't feel comfortable offering that much, unless they are really a mess. I suppose I need to get over that though and just offer what they are worth to me. If it is too low below the market pricing, then they will just decline, and I will move on.
Not sure about this one.
She hits you in in chat without even a HI with her # to text. Wants a phone call, fine whatever quick into the call she wants money to go to the hair salon. Nope.
Tell her I don't give money until a in person meetup, also I don't usually talk to girls under 21. She texts me her actual GA drivers license Nothing blacked out, front and back. BRUH.
She's 18 for sure, but damn.
Anyway, I just kind of blow her off and a week later she sends me a paragraph about how she wants a weekly allowance, with sex 3 times a week. I just ignore it, and she tries to call my google voice # 3 times in a row, then once an hour for 3 hours. Finally a text asking if I can meetup tonight.
She's either thirsty, or a cop. Do with that what you will.
https://members.seeking.com/member/1ddd8e82-a7cb-47ba-bae0-f226380cfc48I had a similar situation a week or so ago. Slim brown skinned chick. I viewed her profile, and she message me fairly quick with her number. I text her to see what was up, and she called w / o any heads up. I didn't answer of course. Text asking for money to get hair done, and I blocked the number. Also blocked her on SA. I think this might be the same girl I dealt with as I couldn't view profile from your link. 18 as well.
I had a similar situation a week or so ago. Slim brown skinned chick. I viewed her profile, and she message me fairly quick with her number. I text her to see what was up, and she called w / o any heads up. I didn't answer of course. Text asking for money to get hair done, and I blocked the number. Also blocked her on SA. I think this might be the same girl I dealt with as I couldn't view profile from your link. 18 as well.Yeah sounds like her, and the link looks broken generally if they blocked you. I'm curious if she has gotten anything with these tactics. Most of us looking in the Sugar jar are more experienced in life and balk at such tactics.
I have been lurking on here for a few months. First for info on local and out of state AMPs as I travel for work, then I moved onto LK and finally independent escorts.
I have paid anywhere from 70 for FS from an AMP chick to 700 for two hours with a high-class escort while I traveled for work.
Thought I would share my experiences so far with sugar dating, and why I prefer it over the other options.
I dipped my toes into Seeking 30 days ago, and here are my results.
If you want the TL. DR, sex can be less transactional depending on what type of arrangement and SB you find.
First chick was fun, but with a decently high ppm of 500. (I know this high of a ppm is a matter on contention recently on this forum, but I had the funds and just wanted the experience).
And boy was she fun. Under 5 feet tall early 20's, tiny body with decent A cups and 10/10 hygiene. I spent several hours with her at her place just hanging out and several sessions of BBBJ DATY and BBFS.
Since then it looks like she's gone full Escort with a 1 hour time limit and everything, this was her profile.
https://members.seeking.com/member/2985dcf6-c426-4614-8054-947c5568736b
Second chick was an actual dinner date and some fun in the hotel later. She's a little crazy honestly, but nice to hit up when other options aren't around. Doesn't want PPM or Allowance, just help with whatever is going on. Like a few hundred to cover remainder of rent, or grocery money.
The last 2 I haven't met yet, but am this week. Really good prospects the both of them.
First is a 30 something single mom. She looks amazing in the selfies she's sent, and sounds like a freak.
Second is 23 and a current student at a local university. She's super cute and smart as hell.
Why do I prefer Sugaring over an escort? You get to know them, and they get to know you. Not to mention more things are generally on the menu since you aren't just some customer in their eyes.
The websites:
Overall I rate Seeking above the other sites, the girls are more responsive and there are less bots, spam and scammers to sort.
I did not like having to spend credits to open messages on SB. No thanks.
I tried AM for a week, and got 1 reply and tons of bots. Do not recommend.
Happy Sugaring.
DudeNextDoor
10-31-22, 10:24
I have the same experiences as you and have come to the same conclusion. I'll add that it's not for everyone. There's more work involved in going the sugaring route and for many it doesn't seem worth it since you can pay a similar price and not have to jump through hoops. I like the challenge of it and think it's worth it.
Also, the link to your first girl is showing as "profile not available". So either she took it down or I'm blocked from it. Can you provide a screen shot or name?
I have been lurking on here for a few months. First for info on local and out of state AMPs as I travel for work, then I moved onto LK and finally independent escorts.
I have paid anywhere from 70 for FS from an AMP chick to 700 for two hours with a high-class escort while I traveled for work.
Thought I would share my experiences so far with sugar dating, and why I prefer it over the other options.
I dipped my toes into Seeking 30 days ago, and here are my results.
If you want the TL. DR, sex can be less transactional depending on what type of arrangement and SB you find.
First chick was fun, but with a decently high ppm of 500. (I know this high of a ppm is a matter on contention recently on this forum, but I had the funds and just wanted the experience).
And boy was she fun. Under 5 feet tall early 20's, tiny body with decent A cups and 10/10 hygiene. I spent several hours with her at her place just hanging out and several sessions of BBBJ DATY and BBFS.
Since then it looks like she's gone full Escort with a 1 hour time limit and everything, this was her profile.
https://members.seeking.com/member/2985dcf6-c426-4614-8054-947c5568736b
Second chick was an actual dinner date and some fun in the hotel later. She's a little crazy honestly, but nice to hit up when other options aren't around. Doesn't want PPM or Allowance, just help with whatever is going on. Like a few hundred to cover remainder of rent, or grocery money.
The last 2 I haven't met yet, but am this week. Really good prospects the both of them.
First is a 30 something single mom. She looks amazing in the selfies she's sent, and sounds like a freak.
Second is 23 and a current student at a local university. She's super cute and smart as hell.
Why do I prefer Sugaring over an escort? You get to know them, and they get to know you. Not to mention more things are generally on the menu since you aren't just some customer in their eyes.
The websites:
Overall I rate Seeking above the other sites, the girls are more responsive and there are less bots, spam and scammers to sort.
I did not like having to spend credits to open messages on SB. No thanks.
I tried AM for a week, and got 1 reply and tons of bots. Do not recommend.
Happy Sugaring.
I have the same experiences as you and have come to the same conclusion. I'll add that it's not for everyone. There's more work involved in going the sugaring route and for many it doesn't seem worth it since you can pay a similar price and not have to jump through hoops. I like the challenge of it and think it's worth it.
Also, the link to your first girl is showing as "profile not available". So either she took it down or I'm blocked from it. Can you provide a screen shot or name?Yeah looks like I'm either blocked or her profile is gone, her name is Dakota. Although, I was just texting her a week ago.
If you are curious about her DM me, I'll ask her if it's cool to give her # out to a buddy.
Moves to text pretty quick after messaging. Responsive until you ask for a verification pic.
https://members.seeking.com/member/98bab46c-e6d9-4608-8150-215697a8de29
And I certainly don't fault you for paying greater than market prices to get it done, more quickly and simply. It is frustrating that some of the less bright girls then think they deserve that amount, every time in the future, but that isn't your fault. They likely eventually figure it out, but takes awhile, with some of the slower ones.I agree. However the problem still remains and it driving up the price for "more quickly". I had a SB on here started out at $300. We had our fun then moved on. Now I run across her profile and she is asking for 2 k ppm. I mean how insane. She is not worth its. I would know. She has a nice body but her vag is destroyed.
Can anyone share their experience using SA while traveling to South America? Or suggestions for mongering.
I plan to visit Colombia for a couple of weeks so I am also lurking around in the internationalsexguide site. Don't speak Spanish but trying to learn at the moment. Any helpful tips are appreciated.
GoneForGood97
10-31-22, 23:00
Yeah looks like I'm either blocked or her profile is gone, her name is Dakota. Although, I was just texting her a week ago.
If you are curious about her DM me, I'll ask her if it's cool to give her # out to a buddy.If that's the same Dakota I talked with a few weeks ago (spinner, tattoos, alt-goth look, wannabe alt cover girl model) then she has major major GPS and is a biatch on top of it. She's hot, but you can find hotter, and more importantly nicer, for less.
SugarDaddio
11-01-22, 10:27
She's a pic and vid seller. She told me she was in Knoxville a couple of weeks so couldn't meet right away. Then offered to get me off with pics and vids if I "spoiled her" a little bit. Just ignored her from there.
SD.
Moves to text pretty quick after messaging. Responsive until you ask for a verification pic.
https://members.seeking.com/member/98bab46c-e6d9-4608-8150-215697a8de29
SugarDaddio
11-01-22, 10:30
Wondering if anyone has any experience with this woman. She lives in Hampton but is willing to drive up.
https://members.seeking.com/member/0ce02416-a1dc-4607-b78e-b8fb3ebfeb09
May the pussy be with you.
SD.
DudeNextDoor
11-01-22, 10:43
Does anyone have experience with these two? They pop up on the site from time to time but answer messages sporadically.
https://members.seeking.com/member/e98fd542-6e6c-41d6-b4c2-027b1a72627e
Does anyone have experience with these two? They pop up on the site from time to time but answer messages sporadically.
https://members.seeking.com/member/e98fd542-6e6c-41d6-b4c2-027b1a72627eStayActive (posted about them (post #10665) Seems like they are charging for m&g and then ghosting according to his post.
Peter Johnson
11-01-22, 13:20
https://members.seeking.com/member/56dc3038-1020-4570-aaf9-87bc3b0e650d
I saw Missy last week and had a good time. I saw her mentioned before but no details that I could find. Her profile and pics are accurate; a late 40's MILF who likes sex. Normally I like to meet someone new in a neutral location first but after texting with her I felt comfortable skipping that. Other posts mentioned doing a m&g with her and not getting anywhere; so figured another reason to skip it.
She can't host but was willing to drive to me from Alpharetta to the Vinings area. She said ppm is fine and how much varied on how far she had to drive. I offered $250 which she accepted. Everything was on the menu except BBFS though it wouldn't surprise me if that was available after repeat visits. She stayed with me for about 2. 5 hours and multiples were no problem.In finally connected with her too, and had about the same experience, and same ppm. She insisted on condoms from the start, although get her worked up and turned on, and you may be able to get in there bare. But she's very outgoing and easy to talk to. Friendly and fun, and she is accommodating with BBBJTCWS. I rarely repeat with any of these sb's... because the power of new pussy is so strong..... but I would see her again on the right day, for sure.
SugarDaddio
11-01-22, 14:47
Is she the same woman that had a sister Lacey and did gangbang parties with King?
SD.
In finally connected with her too, and had about the same experience, and same ppm. She insisted on condoms from the start, although get her worked up and turned on, and you may be able to get in there bare. But she's very outgoing and easy to talk to. Friendly and fun, and she is accommodating with BBBJTCWS. I rarely repeat with any of these sb's... because the power of new pussy is so strong..... but I would see her again on the right day, for sure.
DudeNextDoor
11-01-22, 16:21
I'll let the board know what I find out.
StayActive (posted about them (post #10665) Seems like they are charging for m&g and then ghosting according to his post.
DudeNextDoor
11-01-22, 16:24
Sorry for spamming the board lately but I've got some time off and want to take advantage of it by lining up a handful of hotties.
Here's one I have a meet and greet set up with tomorrow. She just sprung on me that she wants 400 ppm. Of course I'll try to talk her down but when I said I don't pay for a m&g unless we're doing it somewhere more private she just said "let's talk in person. " Anyone have any experience here?
https://members.seeking.com/member/85aa8376-1244-49c9-9b4f-53a2426b3bd5
Peter Johnson
11-01-22, 21:38
Is she the same woman that had a sister Lacey and did gangbang parties with King?
SD.I think I know who you are talking about, and that's a different one, who lives in Marietta. I saw her a couple of times in 2018, but I think she is still around. She was a provider / escort, not a SB, but really sweet and a lot of fun.
Member #6517
11-02-22, 02:27
Thank you all for your inputs and advice to my previous post. It's been a while I wasn't here in this thread.
One of you mongers must have face f at #k her hard. She wants 400 with no head. She said she had a bad experience with and old SD. Everything was a go till she threw out the 400. I replied I usually do 200 with head, and golly, never heard back from her?
https://members.seeking.com/member/e2a5f3fe-4f1a-463b-bf7a-3e7a50d98039I'm thinking on hitting up this one. It could be my first and only once sugaring attempt. Ever since I've seen Apollo007's post, I've been checking this one out. How long did it take for her to open up for PPM discussion?
SgtHappyEnding
11-02-22, 10:06
In finally connected with her too, and had about the same experience, and same ppm. She insisted on condoms from the start, although get her worked up and turned on, and you may be able to get in there bare. But she's very outgoing and easy to talk to. Friendly and fun, and she is accommodating with BBBJTCWS. I rarely repeat with any of these sb's... because the power of new pussy is so strong..... but I would see her again on the right day, for sure.I met up with her for lunch one day as a meet and greet. She was super friendly, good conversation. But the connection kind of fizzled from there. If you're interested, get her attention, skip the M&G, and get down to business. Most of these women are getting so many messages that they need a green light quickly.
Peter Johnson
11-02-22, 10:31
https://members.seeking.com/member/40d52bc3-d7f3-46ac-ad47-068c153d3b94
This one appparently suffers from GPS. I asked her what kind of PPM she usually goes with and said that I start with 250, and more if the girl is into taking pics. She replied: "Sorry, that's quite low and isn't going to work for me", then ghosted me.
Of course we know that 250 is not especially low for the Atlanta market, and especially not for a 6.5 who is 30+.
But she proudly proclaims her Emory degree , so perhaps she thinks that makes her more valuable. Nope, of course that's not how men think, in looking for a sb. I am just as attracted to a hot Waffle House waitress, as I am a Phd from Harvard. And probably moreso, because less like to be a stuck up and entitled. Sure someone intelligent is sometimes more interesting to hang out with, but not that always or that much. Women are the ones who care about where the guy works and his education level. We don't care.
Anyway, bottom line is that she and I were just not on the same page there, which is no big deal. But she was clueless with saying 250 is "quite low", especially without referencing market data, or even what she usually receives. And for her to shut the conversation down at that point, you know she only accepts $500+, if not much more.
SeekingHead
11-02-22, 14:30
https://members.seeking.com/member/40d52bc3-d7f3-46ac-ad47-068c153d3b94
This one appparently suffers from GPS. I asked her what kind of PPM she usually goes with and said that I start with 250, and more if the girl is into taking pics. She replied: "Sorry, that's quite low and isn't going to work for me", then ghosted me.
Of course we know that 250 is not especially low for the Atlanta market, and especially not for a 6.5 who is 30+.
But she proudly proclaims her Emory degree , so perhaps she thinks that makes her more valuable. Nope, of course that's not how men think, in looking for a sb. I am just as attracted to a hot Waffle House waitress, as I am a Phd from Harvard. And probably moreso, because less like to be a stuck up and entitled. Sure someone intelligent is sometimes more interesting to hang out with, but not that always or that much. Women are the ones who care about where the guy works and his education level. We don't care.
Anyway, bottom line is that she and I were just not on the same page there, which is no big deal. But she was clueless with saying 250 is "quite low", especially without referencing market data, or even what she usually receives. And for her to shut the conversation down at that point, you know she only accepts $500+, if not much more.She's looking for a guy who will keep her in her lifestyle of volunteering, working with refugee children, & make her monthly mortgage payment. This requires a lot of investment in her probably $500 plus. Her issues are she is on the wrong side of 30 & like you said a 6. 5 which I think you are being generous about. While it's nice to have a good intelligent conversation over a glass of bourbon before I take them to the bedroom & fuck their brains out, it's not something that would move a 6. 5 women looks wise past a solid 8 waffle house waitress who dropped out of high school. Almost all of us on this site prefer a woman in the Gunny's famous words "who can suck a golf ball thru a garden hose" over a degree any day of the week.
Peter Johnson
11-02-22, 22:48
I met up with her for lunch one day as a meet and greet. She was super friendly, good conversation. But the connection kind of fizzled from there. If you're interested, get her attention, skip the M&G, and get down to business. Most of these women are getting so many messages that they need a green light quickly.I just met Missy at the hotel, but sometimes I think I should meet more of them for lunch first, just to look for any red flags. Although that could work against me too, if they think twice and then don't think I'm fuckable.
But if I have $250 in my hand, I'm almost always going to get over, there. I've only met maybe two of them for a meal, before hotel fun, and it did go just fine.
I would not want to put off the action for a different day though, because so many of these girls drift away, and then it's even more frustrating. I banged 3 sb's in the past week, but there are a couple that got away that I wanted really badly. In most cases, some other guy takes their interest away from me, or who knows. But these last three were excellent and it really is amazing we can have this kind of fun for two or three Franklins.
Thank you all for your inputs and advice to my previous post. It's been a while I wasn't here in this thread.
I'm thinking on hitting up this one. It could be my first and only once sugaring attempt. Ever since I've seen Apollo007's post, I've been checking this one out. How long did it take for her to open up for PPM discussion?I wouldn't waste 400 on any SB that won't give head.
I thought about negotiating, but I was kind of turned off by her attitude. I think I could have gotten her down to 300 but, damn, I need head! LOL.
TylerDurden07
11-03-22, 17:41
I just met Missy at the hotel, but sometimes I think I should meet more of them for lunch first, just to look for any red flags. Although that could work against me too, if they think twice and then don't think I'm fuckable.
But if I have $250 in my hand, I'm almost always going to get over, there. I've only met maybe two of them for a meal, before hotel fun, and it did go just fine.
I would not want to put off the action for a different day though, because so many of these girls drift away, and then it's even more frustrating. I banged 3 sb's in the past week, but there are a couple that got away that I wanted really badly. In most cases, some other guy takes their interest away from me, or who knows. But these last three were excellent and it really is amazing we can have this kind of fun for two or three Franklins.I was always someone who preferred just getting right to good stuff with the girls I meet off of SA, although if the girl was hot enough & really wanted a meet & greet, I'd meet them for lunch--but not my first choice if I could avoid it.
I'm now starting to rethink that strategy because a lot of these girls are crazy & there's a small percentage that are potentially dangerous crazy. If you just go right to meeting in private, you may not sense that until you find yourself in a pickle. Case in point: I met a girl on SA recently named "Ria" something, she's a petite brunette & smoking hot. Everything went great for a week, she was very flirty & sexual & friendly via text. She wanted a meet & greet lunch today, which was fine. Again, if they're hot enough, I'll do it. Well, last night she started going ape shit about her ppm. She told me she wants no less than $3 k / month &, further, $10 k / month to "be exclusive", & $20 k / month if I "wanted to marry" her. Uhhhh, yeah. I tried to politely tell her we're not on the same page & I'll just move on. She called me & her mood turned nasty & she started into a lecture / rant about "what a real daddy does" & "value" (something like the "I know my worth" nonsense), blah blah. I hung up on her & blocked her on the site, which is why I don't have a link to share with you. I'm in my early 50's, have been in this hobby for 20 years, & am not going to be lectured to by a college-age girl. I thought that'd be the end of it. Boy, was I wrong. I blocked her phone # from my phone so then this nutjob calls me almost 40 times from a "no caller I'd" number. I put my phone on silent & didn't answer. I am NOT exaggerating any of this. She then ran out of gas, I guess, & then texted me that "we can do this forever *****" & "no one wastes my fucking time. " I blocked that # too & then found a voicemail she left from the "no caller I'd" # telling me that she wanted me to die & that I had "just met a demon. " I swear I'm not making any of this up.
Do I think she's REALLY going to do something? No. Is this just some young, mentally disturbed girl venting at me with empty threats? Sure, realistically that's what I think it is. But I sure am glad she didn't have my real name & that I'd never been in private with her if she's like that. On the other hand, if she'd shown up for lunch, I think I'd probably pick up on these little quirks. My job requires me to read people & their body language well, so I have some insight into that. So yeah, I'm starting to rethink my idea about "no meet & greets, let's just get to the action. ".
P.S. --I haven't seen anything like what I've gotten from this girl before in my hobby experiences, & I understand maybe I've just been lucky over the years. Sure, I've had girls chirp at me about "wasting their time" if I don't agree to an excessive & unreasonable ppm, but never had anyone actually threaten my safety. Oh well.
DocHolliday35
11-03-22, 18:36
I just met Missy at the hotel, but sometimes I think I should meet more of them for lunch first, just to look for any red flags. Although that could work against me too, if they think twice and then don't think I'm fuckable.
But if I have $250 in my hand, I'm almost always going to get over, there. I've only met maybe two of them for a meal, before hotel fun, and it did go just fine.
I would not want to put off the action for a different day though, because so many of these girls drift away, and then it's even more frustrating. I banged 3 sb's in the past week, but there are a couple that got away that I wanted really badly. In most cases, some other guy takes their interest away from me, or who knows. But these last three were excellent and it really is amazing we can have this kind of fun for two or three Franklins.Yeah because I'll scoop them up if you don't.
You can always meet at the hotel bar for a drink. If things go well book a room and go up. If there are red flags it's easy to leave. I have left several that simply did not look like their pictures or gave off escort vibes. I also Uber to the first meet so they don't see your car.
I don't recall a Kennesaw Jessica (only been doing SB and SA a year now) but. What in the actual fuck is that profile? The sense of entitlement is breathtakingly cunty.She passed away a few weeks ago. Stunning girl, very sad.
I was always someone who preferred just getting right to good stuff with the girls I meet off of SA, although if the girl was hot enough & really wanted a meet & greet, I'd meet them for lunch--but not my first choice if I could avoid it.
I'm now starting to rethink that strategy because a lot of these girls are crazy & there's a small percentage that are potentially dangerous crazy.This is a wild story and a messed up one but I enjoyed reading it!
Juat can't see how a chick can put out these outlandish numbers BEFORE actually giving anything at all (beyond their precious time, of course).
I figure a chick that really knows her worth, would lure you in with a reasonable rate, then once they snare you into their p*ssy trap and sex skills can THEN coerce you for more to keep you on the hook.
GoneForGood97
11-04-22, 00:10
Case in point: I met a girl on SA recently named "Ria" something, she's a petite brunette & smoking hot. Everything went great for a week, she was very flirty & sexual & friendly via text. She wanted a meet & greet lunch today, which was fine.
I bet this is "BabyRia". She's been reviewed on the board. I posted her profile back in Sept asking if anyone had seen, and got warned off by a stand up guy here over DM. I think she's been reviewed in this thread as well and they mentioned she's pretty clearly bi-polar. I already had my annual dose of crazy earlier in the year, so glad I passed on this one, especially since she's got GPS to go along with the BPD / bipolar.
Peter Johnson
11-04-22, 11:52
I am NOT exaggerating any of this. She then ran out of gas, I guess, & then texted me that "we can do this forever *****" & "no one wastes my fucking time. " I blocked that # too & then found a voicemail she left from the "no caller I'd" # telling me that she wanted me to die & that I had "just met a demon. " I swear I'm not making any of this up.
Do I think she's REALLY going to do something? No. Is this just some young, mentally disturbed girl venting at me with empty threats? Sure, realistically that's what I think it is. But I sure am glad she didn't have my real name & that I'd never been in private with her if she's like that. On the other hand, if she'd shown up for lunch, I think I'd probably pick up on these little quirks. My job requires me to read people & their body language well, so I have some insight into that. So yeah, I'm starting to rethink my idea about "no meet & greets, let's just get to the action. ".
Of course I believe every word. Anyone who has dealt with women long enough, know that a significant percentage of them are batshit crazy. I've run into quite a few like this, and most of us likely have.
And yes, good point about the advantage of the meet and greets, and I had that same thought. With the bad one I had a few weeks ago (Lys), I could have sensed her cuntiness beforehand and saved myself a bad experience and -$300. And if it's a nice pretty girl, then can be kind of enjoyable to share a meal with them. Well I should probably do this a bit more, but not sure if I will actually make that move or not.
MariettaJoe
11-04-22, 12:45
https://members.seeking.com/member/395ae975-fbeb-4406-85f9-847a45d78c62
Scammer, avoid.
Got a real number, links to a dude's snapchat account. Pictures linked to some tiktok star not from around here.
Sandstorm1373
11-04-22, 16:39
Does anyone know if seeking has regional pricing? Meaning a subscription for someone in Europe would be paid in Euros instead of USD? Or maybe India would be paid in Indian rupees? Could get some cheap premium this way.
https://members.seeking.com/member/395ae975-fbeb-4406-85f9-847a45d78c62
Scammer, avoid.
Got a real number, links to a dude's snapchat account. Pictures linked to some tiktok star not from around here.She sent me a text wanting 300 for 30 minutes. Then asked if I had any "kinks". So I said rimming and cum catching. She replied +100 for rimming +50 for swallowing.
I told her I'd get back to her. Not interested in a Pro, but thought it I'd ask anyways.
So, how did you find this info about the snapchat account and tiktok star? I need this valuable info. Sorry if it's a stupid question.
Peter Johnson
11-04-22, 19:56
In finally connected with her too, and had about the same experience, and same ppm. She insisted on condoms from the start, although get her worked up and turned on, and you may be able to get in there bare. But she's very outgoing and easy to talk to. Friendly and fun, and she is accommodating with BBBJTCWS. I rarely repeat with any of these sb's... because the power of new pussy is so strong..... but I would see her again on the right day, for sure.Following up about Missy, she had texted me afterwards and said she had a great time and she wanted to get together again. But a couple of days ago, I noticed she blocked me on SA. I asked her what's up, and she said she was angry at herself for not having us use a condom.
She didn't really blame me (overtly), but I suppose I was a bad influence. I really didn't even push it, but she was on top grinding and we both just wanted it in there. I get how she felt guilty afterwards though, and I suppose she can tell I'm not going to want to wrap it up next time after some bare action already. She even said I shouldn't take it personally. Anyway no repeat fun for me, but I still highly recommended her in that age range, and pics on the site are accurate.
TylerDurden07
11-04-22, 22:46
This is a wild story and a messed up one but I enjoyed reading it!
Juat can't see how a chick can put out these outlandish numbers BEFORE actually giving anything at all (beyond their precious time, of course).
I figure a chick that really knows her worth, would lure you in with a reasonable rate, then once they snare you into their p*ssy trap and sex skills can THEN coerce you for more to keep you on the hook.That would require these girls to actually have a good business sense. But 90-95% of them don't. Total entitlement mentality that's really off-putting.
MariettaJoe
11-05-22, 14:29
She sent me a text wanting 300 for 30 minutes. Then asked if I had any "kinks". So I said rimming and cum catching. She replied +100 for rimming +50 for swallowing.
I told her I'd get back to her. Not interested in a Pro, but thought it I'd ask anyways.
So, how did you find this info about the snapchat account and tiktok star? I need this valuable info. Sorry if it's a stupid question.No no, no such thing as a stupid question here!
The number "she" gave me I just checked against snapchat since it uses a phone number to register an account. The profile had a male avatar and name on it.
There are browser add-ons to do a reverse image search and "her" second SA profile pic came up a lot under a tiktok star somewhere. I guess it could be that person, but it's unlikely.
BumbaCloth
11-06-22, 12:33
Princess Jasmine.
https://members.seeking.com/member/7538ea87-83f4-43e0-8fd7-14b1c58b5753
Naomipink.
https://members.seeking.com/member/395ae975-fbeb-4406-85f9-847a45d78c62
TravelinSD
11-06-22, 14:45
She's been mentioned on here several times. She does seem to pop up with a new profile on occasion. I had lunch with her 4 years ago or so. She looks a lot more skanky than her pics (if they're her). I just didn't get a good vibe from her and did not pursue.
Princess Jasmine.
https://members.seeking.com/member/7538ea87-83f4-43e0-8fd7-14b1c58b5753
Naomipink.
https://members.seeking.com/member/395ae975-fbeb-4406-85f9-847a45d78c62
Peter Johnson
11-06-22, 16:07
I am out in SW Utah for a few days, and sb's are not as plentiful out there. Plus this is not that far from Vegas and the girls have more GPS than they do in the ATL area.
I think we basically have it pretty good, and if I move out here, what I will miss the most will be all the variety on Seeking. And not only in ATL, but in SC, NC, etc. I very rarely get to TN or AL, but I'm sure really good there too. I guess it depends on your tastes, and if you love Latinas, you might want to be in AZ or TX. But I love the fair skinned wild Southern girls, and the are obviously more concentrated in the Deep South.
Wants 1 k ppm, she crazy.
https://members.seeking.com/member/24a720ea-6bd0-4699-9d4d-67c0e381d383
Does anyone have any experience with her?
https://members.seeking.com/member/2524ed6c-c877-4da6-a07b-a16165265e38
DudeNextDoor
11-07-22, 06:01
Just search Titi and it should come up.
Does anyone have any experience with her?
https://members.seeking.com/member/2524ed6c-c877-4da6-a07b-a16165265e38
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/4eQKnwdY0pr1LnqJjZvO92xL
Any info on her. I remember seeing someone say they had a M & G with her but I don't think I saw how it turned out. She had a slightly different name when she was on seeking and nothing is coming up in searches.
SgtHappyEnding
11-07-22, 10:54
I am out in SW Utah for a few days, and sb's are not as plentiful out there. Plus this is not that far from Vegas and the girls have more GPS than they do in the ATL area.
I think we basically have it pretty good, and if I move out here, what I will miss the most will be all the variety on Seeking. And not only in ATL, but in SC, NC, etc. I very rarely get to TN or AL, but I'm sure really good there too. I guess it depends on your tastes, and if you love Latinas, you might want to be in AZ or TX. But I love the fair skinned wild Southern girls, and the are obviously more concentrated in the Deep South.I lived in Kansas City for a number of years, and unless you really like sturdier women, the women from the South are better. And it's true the ones that are decent looking have GPS. I called them a Kansas '10'.
DocHolliday35
11-07-22, 17:59
I am out in SW Utah for a few days, and sb's are not as plentiful out there. Plus this is not that far from Vegas and the girls have more GPS than they do in the ATL area.
I think we basically have it pretty good, and if I move out here, what I will miss the most will be all the variety on Seeking. And not only in ATL, but in SC, NC, etc. I very rarely get to TN or AL, but I'm sure really good there too. I guess it depends on your tastes, and if you love Latinas, you might want to be in AZ or TX. But I love the fair skinned wild Southern girls, and the are obviously more concentrated in the Deep South.Atlanta is a beautiful melting pot. There is not a better playground then seeking if you want variety either. We are fortunate to have a large population of Asians, black, white, Latin. Seeking is a gold mine. Overwhelming at times.
She *is* crazy. She's a stripper. I talked with her about a year ago. We texted on and off for a few weeks. We never met. She seemed to be wrapped up in helping her addict roommate. She finally got pissed at me one day for trying to move things along sexually and blocked me.
Wants 1 k ppm, she crazy.
https://members.seeking.com/member/24a720ea-6bd0-4699-9d4d-67c0e381d383
RondaColdSon
11-08-22, 10:17
She *is* crazy. She's a stripper. I talked with her about a year ago. We texted on and off for a few weeks. We never met. She seemed to be wrapped up in helping her addict roommate. She finally got pissed at me one day for trying to move things along sexually and blocked me.I can't remember which club I saw her at. Not sure if it was end of Follies or the beginning of Vivide, but 1 k ppm is wild when she was doing it for 200 in VIP.
I can't remember which club I saw her at. Not sure if it was end of Follies or the beginning of Vivide, but 1 k ppm is wild when she was doing it for 200 in VIP.She told me tattletales back last year.
Member #6704
11-09-22, 08:12
Just wondering anyone from this board talked or met with one of these two?
https://members.seeking.com/member/3d18f135-5738-40fc-bf28-c5a641bf886d
https://members.seeking.com/member/d6d8f369-db33-42e6-a524-349b1e2257d4
Shizzy6969
11-09-22, 09:45
I've had experience with Maraj.
She's a very nice person, academic and easy to talk to. A little bigger than my preference so we didn't go further. Feel free to pm me forndetails.
Just wondering anyone from this board talked or met with one of these two?
https://members.seeking.com/member/3d18f135-5738-40fc-bf28-c5a641bf886d
https://members.seeking.com/member/d6d8f369-db33-42e6-a524-349b1e2257d4
Peter Johnson
11-09-22, 14:56
WTF. I am so careful with what I say on there. But still I get accused of this bullsh*t. I bet some girl reported me when I rejected her, but still, I don't know what I could have said, in chat.
This warning page came up when I logged in, and I had to watch a 2 min video and answer three questions about how I would never exchange anything of monetary value for sexual services. And do a digital signature (of the name I use on there, not my real one, of course)
Well I think I will let my membership lapse for a month or two. I don't want to give them more money, so they can just take it from me with a full ban before long. I should just make a new account and start from scratch, because that one wouldn't have a strike against it.
TomFoolary
11-09-22, 16:55
I made a Seeking profile a few weeks ago cause of the buzz it's creating on here, but I don't see anyone appealing enough. Am I doing the search wrong, or maybe cause I don't have the upgraded profile? It also seems dead on there, only a few log ins per day from woman. Please help, I'm really want to try this experience.
Machintosh
11-09-22, 21:10
I made a Seeking profile a few weeks ago cause of the buzz it's creating on here, but I don't see anyone appealing enough. Am I doing the search wrong, or maybe cause I don't have the upgraded profile? It also seems dead on there, only a few log ins per day from woman. Please help, I'm really want to try this experience.What's your search radius set to? What filters if any do you have applied?
Peter Johnson
11-09-22, 22:21
I made a Seeking profile a few weeks ago cause of the buzz it's creating on here, but I don't see anyone appealing enough. Am I doing the search wrong, or maybe cause I don't have the upgraded profile? It also seems dead on there, only a few log ins per day from woman. Please help, I'm really want to try this experience.Yes you are doing something wrong, or you aren't hetero....not that there's anything wrong with that. But there are many hot girls on there as well as many who are not super hot, but still appealing and very fuckable. It's too bad the people who run the site it are a$$holes, but it's still worth it.
I made a Seeking profile a few weeks ago cause of the buzz it's creating on here, but I don't see anyone appealing enough. Am I doing the search wrong, or maybe cause I don't have the upgraded profile? It also seems dead on there, only a few log ins per day from woman. Please help, I'm really want to try this experience.Did you pay for a monthly Premium subscription?
Peter Johnson
11-09-22, 22:27
Did you pay for a monthly Premium subscription?That would not affect his search results, I don't think. Maybe he does have too many restrictive filters set, as someone else suggested. I don't get it.
I made a Seeking profile a few weeks ago cause of the buzz it's creating on here, but I don't see anyone appealing enough. Am I doing the search wrong, or maybe cause I don't have the upgraded profile? It also seems dead on there, only a few log ins per day from woman. Please help, I'm really want to try this experience.Had a buddy go through the same thing. It was the way you setup the account in the beginning that restricted your search results. SA customer got him squared away in no time and the rest has been historic as they say. Ripper.
What do you guys normally spend on a girl on seeking per month? I have some situations at clubs that are good and reliable but of course it's only a half hour at a time. I'm probably in the range of 8 bills per month. Seeking seems interesting but I think I caught my ex on there w / a profile. She modified her face with photoshop so can't be quite sure. Either way kind of deters me at the moment from that site.
SeekingHead
11-10-22, 12:14
What do you guys normally spend on a girl on seeking per month? I have some situations at clubs that are good and reliable but of course it's only a half hour at a time. I'm probably in the range of 8 bills per month. Seeking seems interesting but I think I caught my ex on there w / a profile. She modified her face with photoshop so can't be quite sure. Either way kind of deters me at the moment from that site.I have two girls I see about 10 times a month, both are mid 20's with solid 8 bodies, all sex is bare with cim / cip. I pay one girl $200 ppm who I see weekly & the other girl $1200 for 6 visits a month.
What do you guys normally spend on a girl on seeking per month? I have some situations at clubs that are good and reliable but of course it's only a half hour at a time. I'm probably in the range of 8 bills per month. Seeking seems interesting but I think I caught my ex on there w / a profile. She modified her face with photoshop so can't be quite sure. Either way kind of deters me at the moment from that site.I have a regular I found on SA, that I have been seeing for 10 months now. She is in her late 20's and drives herself to my place 200 ppm. I see her on average 2 X per month.
SugarDaddio
11-10-22, 13:21
BCBeauty25. This one wants you to fund her hotel so she can travel to Atlanta to meet you. Right! LOL.
https://members.seeking.com/member/e961c876-fa5a-42e6-972b-049db8f53a16
EducatedGorgeous. This one is the best scam for me yet. Spent a day and half sexting with me before she dropped the bomb. Picture seller and only fans seller. No thanks.
https://members.seeking.com/member/071dc5eb-8165-402d-b372-e5316bea5de7
FineHeiress. The jury is still out on this one. She is pushing me to learn and get into trading crypto. She is very persistent though. I haven't figured out the angle yet. I will let yall know when the scam drops.
https://members.seeking.com/member/6d61aa6d-2d9d-480a-93d7-d4993583554d
As allways, may the pussy be with you.
SD.
SugarDaddio
11-10-22, 13:29
I don't know about the rest of you guys but the pina colada song popped in my head when I read the last part of this message. How interesting it would be to set up an arrangement with your wife and actually meet her for a M&G or straight to the hotel room. Parkway91 please keep us informed if you learn more about the possibility of that profile being your wife or not.
SD.
What do you guys normally spend on a girl on seeking per month? I have some situations at clubs that are good and reliable but of course it's only a half hour at a time. I'm probably in the range of 8 bills per month. Seeking seems interesting but I think I caught my ex on there w / a profile. She modified her face with photoshop so can't be quite sure. Either way kind of deters me at the moment from that site.
I have two girls I see about 10 times a month, both are mid 20's with solid 8 bodies, all sex is bare with cim / cip. I pay one girl $200 ppm who I see weekly & the other girl $1200 for 6 visits a month.Overall that's probably worth it compared to what I spend on my other situations. As far as my ex I'd really rather not find out for certain as on the same token she wouldn't want to know about my activities; it's just complicated and will leave it at that.
NewAnonymousName
11-10-22, 15:15
I don't know about the rest of you guys but the pina colada song popped in my head when I read the last part of this message. How interesting it would be to set up an arrangement with your wife and actually meet her for a M&G or straight to the hotel room. Parkway91 please keep us informed if you learn more about the possibility of that profile being your wife or not.
SD.Very Funny! A more explicit update to an old song.
And as Sugardaddio said, please give us an update, Parkway91, when you confirm if it's really her and how you go about finding out. Everyone loves a good drama story.
Seeking seems interesting but I think I caught my ex on there w / a profile. She modified her face with photoshop so can't be quite sure. Either way kind of deters me at the moment from that site.Can't you just block that profile and they won't see you anymore?
TylerDurden07
11-10-22, 18:05
BCBeauty25. This one wants you to fund her hotel so she can travel to Atlanta to meet you. Right! LOL.
https://members.seeking.com/member/e961c876-fa5a-42e6-972b-049db8f53a16
EducatedGorgeous. This one is the best scam for me yet. Spent a day and half sexting with me before she dropped the bomb. Picture seller and only fans seller. No thanks.
https://members.seeking.com/member/071dc5eb-8165-402d-b372-e5316bea5de7
FineHeiress. The jury is still out on this one. She is pushing me to learn and get into trading crypto. She is very persistent though. I haven't figured out the angle yet. I will let yall know when the scam drops.
https://members.seeking.com/member/6d61aa6d-2d9d-480a-93d7-d4993583554d
As allways, may the pussy be with you.
SD.https://members.seeking.com/member/9c1538d6-8c6a-4eb4-9c96-825121aa0c5e
Something is up with this crypto thing. I talked to this one today & she lost interest after I expressed no interest in discussing crypto trading. I talk finances with my finance guy, not some girl on SA! SA is about lining up good pussy, not investment tips. Jeez.
Can't you just block that profile and they won't see you anymore?That's a good idea. At the moment I don't have any PI or photos up on seeking arrangements so it's not a worry at this point.
Newbee5791
11-11-22, 00:21
https://members.seeking.com/member/9c1538d6-8c6a-4eb4-9c96-825121aa0c5e
Something is up with this crypto thing. I talked to this one today & she lost interest after I expressed no interest in discussing crypto trading. I talk finances with my finance guy, not some girl on SA! SA is about lining up good pussy, not investment tips. Jeez.I got her details through dating app. We texted for 1 or 2 days and started asking me about crypto. Pushing me to take part for trading. I just wanted to play with her. Did what she said for a time and blocked her after that. She have done video call as well. Looks dam hot!! 10/10.
SugarDaddio
11-11-22, 13:16
So does anyone know the benefit for the woman pushing crypto trading? I haven't let the conversation go far enough to hear what they ultimately want.
SD.
I got her details through dating app. We texted for 1 or 2 days and started asking me about crypto. Pushing me to take part for trading. I just wanted to play with her. Did what she said for a time and blocked her after that. She have done video call as well. Looks dam hot!! 10/10.
MariettaJoe
11-11-22, 15:41
So does anyone know the benefit for the woman pushing crypto trading? I haven't let the conversation go far enough to hear what they ultimately want.
SD.I'm guessing most are scammers. I get a bunch of requests from random texts / chats on various services for it. Some are shady places to buy crypto that will disappear a month after you purchase it, others are money mules using crypto to move money around the world and would love for you to help in the process.
Newbee5791
11-11-22, 15:45
So does anyone know the benefit for the woman pushing crypto trading? I haven't let the conversation go far enough to hear what they ultimately want.
SD.She asks you to invest in a website where you need to put your credit card details and deposit in your account. She will guide you step by step process how to deposit money into your account. I forgot the website name but there is no security for the website and very basic website. I told her I am not going to trade to trade in that website instead I prefer Bi*ce. She send you article and says lot of people have lost money trading in Bi*ce. She pushed you to invest in that shit website.
GoneForGood97
11-11-22, 17:28
C'mon guys! I know the little head gets in the way sometimes, but seriously, any and all crypto related things someone you met on SA might push is 100% a scam. Always. Every time. No exceptions. You boys got to be smarter than this. What's the possible legit thing that's happening here? A beautiful early-mid 20's girl who is really into crypto (red flag 1, any girl that pretty doesn't want / need crypto, they make way more money leveraging their looks 1000 different ways) decides she wants to find legit crypto investments through a SUGAR DADDY site, and decides she can buy crypto using her pussy instead of cash? Shit, the new Game of Thrones has less fantasy in it than that.
GoneForGood97
11-11-22, 17:32
What do you guys normally spend on a girl on seeking per month? I have some situations at clubs that are good and reliable but of course it's only a half hour at a time. I'm probably in the range of 8 bills per month. Seeking seems interesting but I think I caught my ex on there w / a profile. She modified her face with photoshop so can't be quite sure. Either way kind of deters me at the moment from that site.I'm plowing my 22 year old gorgeous red head SB for 200 plus hotel a week, and usually pick up dinner while we're together. Dates normally last all evening, from 7 pm to whenever I decide we finish. Sometimes dinner first, then hotel where we take turns fucking and watching streaming until I'm spent. If she's off work then she'll stay the night and so will I, if she has to work then I take drop her off at her place when we finish.
https://members.seeking.com/member/d559ad22-c7e6-4d1e-b983-6d56ccebaa04
Brittany El James.
Ad says she's married. Started chatting and she's on the gas hard about meeting ASAP. Seems suspicious.
https://members.seeking.com/member/d559ad22-c7e6-4d1e-b983-6d56ccebaa04
Brittany El James.
Ad says she's married. Started chatting and she's on the gas hard about meeting ASAP. Seems suspicious.Looking at her profile, she is a straight up escort. Even has her body size listed like it's Tryst.
I would abort, she claims she is in an open relationship but you never know. Last thing we need is a jealous husband on your case.
JunkSecond
11-11-22, 23:42
Princess Jasmine.
She asked for 4. 5 countered 2. 5 and she showed up at the bar for drinks. She likes tequila with lime, so just get a bottle for the room and save some cash. Chatted a bit and confirmed BBFS ok no cip, but don't mention it until she is comfortable with you. Very much a YMMV situation. Pics were real and she is very pretty around 135#, with a bit of ADD. Clothes came off to show some stretch marks said she lost some weight recently. BBBJ was ok, receptive to direction but tired out quickly. Hit mish and doggy then pulled out for the finale. Had a slight natural V odor going on when she got creamy but nothing funky. No CIM either.
She wanted another drink to prepare for the next round. As we were getting dressed she said she was behind in her rent and offered a multi hour complete drain session as she was comfortable with me and wanted to get her rent caught up. I bit and she got an extra Benjamin, she also asks for the cash up front as she says she got scammed before. Went down to the bar and as soon as I turn around to order a drink she vanished like a fart in the wind. I screen the shit out of people and still got dinged.
Do us all a favor. If your interested, follow the script above, and when she pulls the upsale act slip some singles in the envelope. She will only count it the first time. If she complains tell her a guy she pulled a cash and dash on is still waiting for her to deliver what she agreed to. Or just agree to meet and ghost her. Karma is a *****.
https://members.seeking.com/member/7538ea87-83f4-43e0-8fd7-14b1c58b5753
TallGuy3000
11-12-22, 01:45
I renew my subscription usually for 30 days every 4-6 months. I'm due now. I know this topic comes up every few months, but wanted to get any recent experiences anyone might have had.
My usual VISA debit card routine from Target didn't work last time. I wound up getting a VISA card from Publix, on recommendation from a fellow monger on here. I'm usually careful to get a "debit" card vs a "gift" card. That's sometimes made a difference in SA accepting them in the past. But most all cards I saw at Publix yesterday were branded as gift cards.
Anyone have any recent experiences, good or bad, on what cards work with SA these days?
TG.
I renew my subscription usually for 30 days every 4-6 months. I'm due now. I know this topic comes up every few months, but wanted to get any recent experiences anyone might have had.
My usual VISA debit card routine from Target didn't work last time. I wound up getting a VISA card from Publix, on recommendation from a fellow monger on here. I'm usually careful to get a "debit" card vs a "gift" card. That's sometimes made a difference in SA accepting them in the past. But most all cards I saw at Publix yesterday were branded as gift cards.
Anyone have any recent experiences, good or bad, on what cards work with SA these days?
TG.I recently renewed my SA subscription using the Visa Gift Card, with no issues. Just make sure you give it a few hours after you purchase for the giftcardmall systems to update.
Parrot Scope
11-12-22, 14:19
[Deleted by Admin]
From now on I'm not even going to try and let you be here. I'm just going to ban you as soon as I realize it's you.
A2
https://members.seeking.com/member/d559ad22-c7e6-4d1e-b983-6d56ccebaa04
Brittany El James.
Ad says she's married. Started chatting and she's on the gas hard about meeting ASAP. Seems suspicious.She has been reviewed here with her escort profiles. Advertises as a hotwife escort, IIRC. She had one in Hampton for cheap rates, and one in Atlanta a while ago that was way inflated. If she brought her home rates to the Atlanta area, or even a little more, I would probably TOFTT.
DavidGooms
11-12-22, 15:46
This happened to me. I got full ban on SA and don't know how can I get back my membership.
WTF. I am so careful with what I say on there. But still I get accused of this bullsh*t. I bet some girl reported me when I rejected her, but still, I don't know what I could have said, in chat.
This warning page came up when I logged in, and I had to watch a 2 min video and answer three questions about how I would never exchange anything of monetary value for sexual services. And do a digital signature (of the name I use on there, not my real one, of course)
Well I think I will let my membership lapse for a month or two. I don't want to give them more money, so they can just take it from me with a full ban before long. I should just make a new account and start from scratch, because that one wouldn't have a strike against it.
DiscreetMeet
11-12-22, 17:26
I renew my subscription usually for 30 days every 4-6 months. I'm due now. I know this topic comes up every few months, but wanted to get any recent experiences anyone might have had.
My usual VISA debit card routine from Target didn't work last time. I wound up getting a VISA card from Publix, on recommendation from a fellow monger on here. I'm usually careful to get a "debit" card vs a "gift" card. That's sometimes made a difference in SA accepting them in the past. But most all cards I saw at Publix yesterday were branded as gift cards.
Anyone have any recent experiences, good or bad, on what cards work with SA these days?
TG.SA is about the worst site possible. Issues with payment; banning for no *real* reason and then when you contact tech support -- crickets. Thinking about building my damn site.
Looking at her profile, she is a straight up escort. Even has her body size listed like it's Tryst.
I would abort, she claims she is in an open relationship but you never know. Last thing we need is a jealous husband on your case.She was replying non-stop and answering questions quoting prices etc. Said she hosts at her own house and her husband knows all about it and doesn't mind etc. Ask for another picture and she sent another basic picture of her standing in a dress in the house. After asking for a verification picture that I typically ask for with three fingers up standing in front of something I typically request them to stand in front of. She completely went ghost.
Never got deep enough to fully figure out what the exact scan is here. But she's obviously one to avoid. More than likely the pictures are fake and money was going to be asked for upfront. Maybe if somebody else gets bored you can contact her and see where she actually goes with it. I never tried to negotiate or get to a actual set meeting etc. So I think they never got around to asking for upfront money. Yet.
Obviously full of shit.
https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?userId=71183931
Does anyone have any info on her? She seems nice and cool so far.
HalliknWolk
11-12-22, 20:34
https://members.seeking.com/member/d559ad22-c7e6-4d1e-b983-6d56ccebaa04
Brittany El James.
Ad says she's married. Started chatting and she's on the gas hard about meeting ASAP. Seems suspicious.https://escortalligator.com.listcrawler.eu/post/escorts/usa/georgia/atlanta/99422821
Shizzy6969
11-12-22, 21:25
Thank you good sir.
https://escortalligator.com.listcrawler.eu/post/escorts/usa/georgia/atlanta/99422821
Princess Jasmine.
She asked for 4. 5 countered 2. 5 and she showed up at the bar for drinks. She likes tequila with lime, so just get a bottle for the room and save some cash. Chatted a bit and confirmed BBFS ok no cip, but don't mention it until she is comfortable with you. Very much a YMMV situation. Pics were real and she is very pretty around 135#, with a bit of ADD. Clothes came off to show some stretch marks said she lost some weight recently. BBBJ was ok, receptive to direction but tired out quickly. Hit mish and doggy then pulled out for the finale. Had a slight natural V odor going on when she got creamy but nothing funky. No CIM either.
She wanted another drink to prepare for the next round. As we were getting dressed she said she was behind in her rent and offered a multi hour complete drain session as she was comfortable with me and wanted to get her rent caught up. I bit and she got an extra Benjamin, she also asks for the cash up front as she says she got scammed before. Went down to the bar and as soon as I turn around to order a drink she vanished like a fart in the wind. I screen the shit out of people and still got dinged.
Do us all a favor. If your interested, follow the script above, and when she pulls the upsale act slip some singles in the envelope. She will only count it the first time. If she complains tell her a guy she pulled a cash and dash on is still waiting for her to deliver what she agreed to. Or just agree to meet and ghost her. Karma is a *****.
https://members.seeking.com/member/7538ea87-83f4-43e0-8fd7-14b1c58b5753She's been reported several times on this forum. Makes a new profile every month.
BumbaCloth
11-13-22, 09:13
Damn I'm supposed to meet her later this week.
Princess Jasmine.
She asked for 4. 5 countered 2. 5 and she showed up at the bar for drinks. She likes tequila with lime, so just get a bottle for the room and save some cash. Chatted a bit and confirmed BBFS ok no cip, but don't mention it until she is comfortable with you. Very much a YMMV situation. Pics were real and she is very pretty around 135#, with a bit of ADD. Clothes came off to show some stretch marks said she lost some weight recently. BBBJ was ok, receptive to direction but tired out quickly. Hit mish and doggy then pulled out for the finale. Had a slight natural V odor going on when she got creamy but nothing funky. No CIM either.
She wanted another drink to prepare for the next round. As we were getting dressed she said she was behind in her rent and offered a multi hour complete drain session as she was comfortable with me and wanted to get her rent caught up. I bit and she got an extra Benjamin, she also asks for the cash up front as she says she got scammed before. Went down to the bar and as soon as I turn around to order a drink she vanished like a fart in the wind. I screen the shit out of people and still got dinged.
Do us all a favor. If your interested, follow the script above, and when she pulls the upsale act slip some singles in the envelope. She will only count it the first time. If she complains tell her a guy she pulled a cash and dash on is still waiting for her to deliver what she agreed to. Or just agree to meet and ghost her. Karma is a *****.
https://members.seeking.com/member/7538ea87-83f4-43e0-8fd7-14b1c58b5753
Liking Ladies
11-13-22, 09:55
https://members.seeking.com/member/d559ad22-c7e6-4d1e-b983-6d56ccebaa04
Brittany El James.
Ad says she's married. Started chatting and she's on the gas hard about meeting ASAP. Seems suspicious.She use to advertise on LC in athens where she did MFM with said husband. I will look and see if I can find one of the older postings.
LL.
Damn I'm supposed to meet her later this week.Damn. This one has been around for a long time and reported on here frequently. Typical shenanigans. Either cash and dash. Complaining about pain during sex. Promising multiple rounds but only offering one day of deed, causing scenes etc. Not going to lie, her pics always look enticing, but I will always stay clear based on the Intel from mongers that took the plunge previously. Ripper.
Peter Johnson
11-13-22, 17:28
SA is about the worst site possible. Issues with payment; banning for no *real* reason and then when you contact tech support -- crickets. Thinking about building my damn site.Here is their customer service reply:
"Hi there,
Thank you for reaching out to us.
The decision to ban your profile for "Soliciting sex in exchange for compensation" was based on factual evidence, obtained during a thorough investigation by our team. We would not warn, suspend or ban without the necessary proof.
Our decision is based solely on your actions. Please note that due to our Privacy Policy, we will be unable to divulge this proof to preserve member security.
Best Regards,
Camille.
Seeking Support."
So of course they told me nothing. I can only assume that a number of girls complained about me, when I rejected them, and that would most likely happen to anyone, and everyone over time. I am pretty sure I didn't say anything that was against their rules, in chat on the Seeking site.
But this pretty much suggests that if you decide that you don't want to proceed further with a girl, you should block them immediately. Then at least if they report you for nonsense, it looks even less legitimate.
Peter Johnson
11-13-22, 17:30
Damn I'm supposed to meet her later this week.Might be a good idea to cancel, unless you want to give money to a R.O.B.
There are enough decent girlls on there to focus on, without dealing with the c*nty and thieving ones.
Shizzy6969
11-13-22, 18:37
Hi, thinking about reaching out to this lady. Anyone have experience?
https://members.seeking.com/member/96c953dd-c816-4ba2-87a4-16fed077f0db/
NewAnonymousName
11-13-22, 21:07
Here is their customer service reply:
"Hi there,
Thank you for reaching out to us.
The decision to ban your profile for "Soliciting sex in exchange for compensation" was based on factual evidence, obtained during a thorough investigation by our team. We would not warn, suspend or ban without the necessary proof.
Our decision is based solely on your actions. Please note that due to our Privacy Policy, we will be unable to divulge this proof to preserve member security.
Best Regards,
Camille.
Seeking Support."
So of course they told me nothing. I can only assume that a number of girls complained about me, when I rejected them, and that would most likely happen to anyone, and everyone over time. I am pretty sure I didn't say anything that was against their rules, in chat on the Seeking site.
But this pretty much suggests that if you decide that you don't want to proceed further with a girl, you should block them immediately. Then at least if they report you for nonsense, it looks even less legitimate.Seeking once asked me to upload the text string when I reported a woman for some crazy crap she was pulling. I don't think I ever bothered, but they asked. It's possible a woman may have sent in pay for play discussions that occurred off of their site.
TylerDurden07
11-13-22, 21:20
Here is their customer service reply:
"Hi there,
Thank you for reaching out to us.
The decision to ban your profile for "Soliciting sex in exchange for compensation" was based on factual evidence, obtained during a thorough investigation by our team. We would not warn, suspend or ban without the necessary proof.
Our decision is based solely on your actions. Please note that due to our Privacy Policy, we will be unable to divulge this proof to preserve member security.
Best Regards,
Camille.
Seeking Support."
So of course they told me nothing. I can only assume that a number of girls complained about me, when I rejected them, and that would most likely happen to anyone, and everyone over time. I am pretty sure I didn't say anything that was against their rules, in chat on the Seeking site.
But this pretty much suggests that if you decide that you don't want to proceed further with a girl, you should block them immediately. Then at least if they report you for nonsense, it looks even less legitimate.If I detect even the slightest hint of a girl pulling a bunch of drama, even after moving to text, I block on the site with speed. I'm not giving some whack job female with a chip on her shoulder (because I won't pay her a several thousand ppm, or because I won't advance money) the satisfaction of getting me kicked off the site.
SeekingHead
11-13-22, 21:34
If I detect even the slightest hint of a girl pulling a bunch of drama, even after moving to text, I block on the site with speed. I'm not giving some whack job female with a chip on her shoulder (because I won't pay her a several thousand ppm, or because I won't advance money) the satisfaction of getting me kicked off the site.The minute we move to text I block them. No need to take any chances.
SeekingHead
11-13-22, 22:02
If I detect even the slightest hint of a girl pulling a bunch of drama, even after moving to text, I block on the site with speed. I'm not giving some whack job female with a chip on her shoulder (because I won't pay her a several thousand ppm, or because I won't advance money) the satisfaction of getting me kicked off the site.The minute we move to text I block them. No need to take any chances.
She use to advertise on LC in athens where she did MFM with said husband. I will look and see if I can find one of the older postings.
LL.I saw her / them a few years ago. She wasn't into it and basically was doing it to make hubby happy. It's a weird setup, her husband wants to watch and there was a dog too, I couldn't get out of there fast enough.
BumbaCloth
11-14-22, 19:21
She's older looking in the pic she sent me.
Hi, thinking about reaching out to this lady. Anyone have experience?
https://members.seeking.com/member/96c953dd-c816-4ba2-87a4-16fed077f0db/
JunkSecond
11-14-22, 20:56
Damn. This one has been around for a long time and reported on here frequently. Typical shenanigans. Either cash and dash. Complaining about pain during sex. Promising multiple rounds but only offering one day of deed, causing scenes etc. Not going to lie, her pics always look enticing, but I will always stay clear based on the Intel from mongers that took the plunge previously. Ripper.Only 14 hits on "Jasmine" on the site, I saw one review that said she had been around for a while but nothing to stop me in me in my tracks. Screened her with a phone call and drinks. It really was a decent time until she dashed in between rounds, no issues until that point. Going into it eyes wide open you can have a good time, just watch your 6 and don't ante up until she leaves. Hopefully my review gives some insight on how to be successful for those brave enough to ride the crazy train.
Here are a few links.
http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?14265-quot-Sugar-Babies-quot-and-quot-Arrangements-quot&p=4121151&viewfull=1#post4121151
http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?14265-quot-Sugar-Babies-quot-and-quot-Arrangements-quot&p=4303040&highlight=avoid#post4303040
http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?14265-quot-Sugar-Babies-quot-and-quot-Arrangements-quot&p=4292711#post4292711To be fair she constantly changes names and deactivates profiles so you wouldn't have found her under Jasmine. But she always uses the same pics. Here is my post from 2019 quoting three other mongers and their experiences of her crazy behavior, trying to rob, etc. I also recall a recent report from Aug / Sept but couldn't find it. Ripper.
https://members.seeking.com/member/d559ad22-c7e6-4d1e-b983-6d56ccebaa04
Brittany El James.
Ad says she's married. Started chatting and she's on the gas hard about meeting ASAP. Seems suspicious.Here you go brother, she used to be out in Athens. As others have said, weird setup but mostly legit.
https://escortbabylon.net/review_list/4045427898
To be fair she constantly changes names and deactivates profiles so you wouldn't have found her under Jasmine. But she always uses the same pics. Here is my post from 2019 quoting three other mongers and their experiences of her crazy behavior, trying to rob, etc. I also recall a recent report from Aug / Sept but couldn't find it. Ripper.Its funny she rejected me when we met in person and some time later we met at Latina Spa. She is pretty but something is def wrong with her head. She talked about being in a relationship and she didn't want her vag stretched out because her man would def noticed. She tried to put it in but complained it hurt and was to big and left the room to go to another customer. Lmao. Eventually another the mgr came in to check because she left the door open I told her what happen she sent another girl in to finish me off. This girl is the worst. She will rip anyone off in any way she can.
TJennings7024
11-16-22, 10:33
Can anyone share their experience using SA while traveling to South America? Or suggestions for mongering.
I plan to visit Colombia for a couple of weeks so I am also lurking around in the internationalsexguide site. Don't speak Spanish but trying to learn at the moment. Any helpful tips are appreciated.I'm late / but the site really shines abroad. I've used it in Europe and South America. Top notch talent for a lot less $. Had no problem not speaking Spanish well. Use a translator. Or they will use one. But in a lot of cases you'll find ladies that speak English well enough.
TooHotForYou
11-16-22, 11:52
Its funny she rejected me when we met in person and some time later we met at Latina Spa. She is pretty but something is def wrong with her head. She talked about being in a relationship and she didn't want her vag stretched out because her man would def noticed. She tried to put it in but complained it hurt and was to big and left the room to go to another customer. Lmao. Eventually another the mgr came in to check because she left the door open I told her what happen she sent another girl in to finish me off. This girl is the worst. She will rip anyone off in any way she can.She texted me when I gave her my number. Was always texting fast and not making sense. That was enough for me to not want to meet her. I do agree with you. Something is off with her.
WoodstockShane
11-16-22, 13:21
Another scammer.
https://members.seeking.com/member/c8137c72-04cb-4486-b13b-30682c00c87a
Said she was having a not so good day. When asked why, she stated she has just broken her phone and needs $25 to get a new one. It would have been more believable if she said she needed $250. When I decided to play along a bit, I told her that we could meet and I'd give her the money in person. She then says she's not comfortable meeting me without a phone LOL. Quite the little scam she has going on, the then proceeds to send a half naked pic saying that if I help her out, she'll make it worth my while. Oh well. Keep on scamming.
Stay Frosty.
She texted me when I gave her my number. Was always texting fast and not making sense. That was enough for me to not want to meet her. I do agree with you. Something is off with her.This is one I have negatively reviewed several times here as well. Tons of us have. I got together with her one time and it was a bad experience. Kept complaining that I was too big and was hurting her. Didn't want to do it in certain positions. Wouldn't put it all in her mouth while doing oral. Kept saying don't do it that way you'll hurt me etc. After she propositioned me on the site I screenshotted it and reported her and she got banned. But you kept making new profiles over and over again. And every time she would make a profile I would link it to the email that seeking sent me. And they would ban her again. I must have done that 8 or 10 times while she kept changing names and they just kept letting her make new profiles over and over again. I finally gave up and she has had this name on the site for quite some time now. This most recent one. I could get it nuked right now if I wanted to. But she's already ruined her reputation well enough to at least hopefully not give a bad time to any of the guys here on the board. Seriously, avoid her like the plague.
Here you go brother, she used to be out in Athens. As others have said, weird setup but mostly legit.
https://escortbabylon.net/review_list/4045427898Thanks I appreciate it. I knew there had to be something more to it.
Thanks I appreciate it. I knew there had to be something more to it.The look on her face says it all: I'm trapped.
Guy looks like a real gem LOL.
SgtHappyEnding
11-17-22, 12:29
https://members.seeking.com/member/1d81f6f2-7d81-49be-b8d4-c8a18d811c43
She's been reviewed before, and I should have heeded caution. This is not so much a report as a explanation of a traumatic event. Don't under any circumstances have any contact with her. I think she's bipolar. When I messaged her initially, she promised sexual bliss: all three holes. When I got to her place two days later, she was agitated and preoccupied with her outstanding apartment maintenance. She wants an arrangement, but she won't tell you what she wants. All she dwells on are the lowball offers she's received. Someone needs to inform her that she's too old to receive top dollar, but I was to scared to tell her. I think she's trying to find someone that will take care of her; like desperate for money. In the middle of coitus, she told me to stop and kicked me out. She insulted my body, style, and made belligerent verbal attacks on me as a person. I blocked her on SA as soon as I left. Afterwards, she sent me an angry message saying how she's going to find out who I am and fuck me over. I was very polite and nice to her; no need for all that. I think she was mad that I blocked her before she could report me. Also, I've never been so thoroughly rejected like she did. And she's not even attractive. If I were younger and had a fragile ego, it would have been devastating.
The experience freaked me out so much that I'm done (at least for a while) with the sugar bowl.
TylerDurden07
11-17-22, 14:29
I posted this on the GB thread, but I'll ask here too:
Today, I was contacted by a girl on the site asking me if I wanted to come to an orgy at the Hyatt Regency. 25 girls & 12 dudes. Wanted me to send $80 via paypal to get "membership. ".
I'm a total novice to the swinger party thing, so hopefully why'all can tell me if this is legit in terms of how it works. I don't like prepaying money ever, but tell me if this is how the swinger party thing operates.
The girl in question goes by "My-Beautifulhot42". I can't get a link because she's already deactivated her profile. That sends a red flag to me, but like I said I'm interested, but unfamiliar, with the Swinger Party thing.
I posted this on the GB thread, but I'll ask here too:
Today, I was contacted by a girl on the site asking me if I wanted to come to an orgy at the Hyatt Regency. 25 girls & 12 dudes. Wanted me to send $80 via paypal to get "membership. ".
I'm a total novice to the swinger party thing, so hopefully why'all can tell me if this is legit in terms of how it works. I don't like prepaying money ever, but tell me if this is how the swinger party thing operates.
The girl in question goes by "My-Beautifulhot42". I can't get a link because she's already deactivated her profile. That sends a red flag to me, but like I said I'm interested, but unfamiliar, with the Swinger Party thing.I got hit up by the same profile today.
It's a scam. To be frank it was pretty obv from the start.
Single photo, limited description in the profile, broken English, and quick to email or text.
I let it play out in my throwaway prontonmail account so I could get the evidence needed to report the profile.
Peter Johnson
11-17-22, 15:07
I posted this on the GB thread, but I'll ask here too:
Today, I was contacted by a girl on the site asking me if I wanted to come to an orgy at the Hyatt Regency. 25 girls & 12 dudes. Wanted me to send $80 via paypal to get "membership. ".
I'm a total novice to the swinger party thing, so hopefully why'all can tell me if this is legit in terms of how it works. I don't like prepaying money ever, but tell me if this is how the swinger party thing operates.
The girl in question goes by "My-Beautifulhot42". I can't get a link because she's already deactivated her profile. That sends a red flag to me, but like I said I'm interested, but unfamiliar, with the Swinger Party thing.Almost certainly a scam and never prepay anything, for anyone. I mean unless it is $10 for gas, or some truly insignificant amount, and then you are still almost certainly losing it. And she probably didn't deactivate her profile. It was probably flagged for scamming, and taken down.
Peter Johnson
11-17-22, 15:11
I can't remember if Seeking usually does a holiday promo around Thanksgiving. I need to renew my subscription, but don't want to do it at full price, especially with them hassling me lately and accusing me of soliciting, and that type of nonsense.
I can't remember if Seeking usually does a holiday promo around Thanksgiving. I need to renew my subscription, but don't want to do it at full price, especially with them hassling me lately and accusing me of soliciting, and that type of nonsense.I haven't gotten a promo email since the summer. I believe they have done promos around the holidays but can't remember if it was around Thanksgiving or around Christmas / New Years.
SeekingHead
11-17-22, 17:54
https://members.seeking.com/member/1d81f6f2-7d81-49be-b8d4-c8a18d811c43
She's been reviewed before, and I should have heeded caution. This is not so much a report as a explanation of a traumatic event. Don't under any circumstances have any contact with her. I think she's bipolar. When I messaged her initially, she promised sexual bliss: all three holes. When I got to her place two days later, she was agitated and preoccupied with her outstanding apartment maintenance. She wants an arrangement, but she won't tell you what she wants. All she dwells on are the lowball offers she's received. Someone needs to inform her that she's too old to receive top dollar, but I was to scared to tell her. I think she's trying to find someone that will take care of her; like desperate for money. In the middle of coitus, she told me to stop and kicked me out. She insulted my body, style, and made belligerent verbal attacks on me as a person. I blocked her on SA as soon as I left. Afterwards, she sent me an angry message saying how she's going to find out who I am and fuck me over. I was very polite and nice to her; no need for all that. I think she was mad that I blocked her before she could report me. Also, I've never been so thoroughly rejected like she did. And she's not even attractive. If I were younger and had a fragile ego, it would have been devastating.
The experience freaked me out so much that I'm done (at least for a while) with the sugar bowl.I bailed on her after talking to her on the phone, absolute batshit crazy is an understatement. I'm glad I found SB#2 & didn't have to hit that out of desperation.
TylerDurden07
11-17-22, 18:24
Almost certainly a scam and never prepay anything, for anyone. I mean unless it is $10 for gas, or some truly insignificant amount, and then you are still almost certainly losing it. And she probably didn't deactivate her profile. It was probably flagged for scamming, and taken down.This Board is a valuable, & invaluable, resource.
I bailed on her after talking to her on the phone, absolute batshit crazy is an understatement. I'm glad I found SB#2 & didn't have to hit that out of desperation.Holy shit glad I read this board. I was just talking to her, now blocked.
ViseMonkey
11-18-22, 00:27
Consider yourself lucky as you were not hosting her to your place or room. She has demons and no amount of money or beauty will cure that.
https://members.seeking.com/member/1d81f6f2-7d81-49be-b8d4-c8a18d811c43
She's been reviewed before, and I should have heeded caution. This is not so much a report as a explanation of a traumatic event. Don't under any circumstances have any contact with her. I think she's bipolar. When I messaged her initially, she promised sexual bliss: all three holes. When I got to her place two days later, she was agitated and preoccupied with her outstanding apartment maintenance. She wants an arrangement, but she won't tell you what she wants. All she dwells on are the lowball offers she's received. Someone needs to inform her that she's too old to receive top dollar, but I was to scared to tell her. I think she's trying to find someone that will take care of her; like desperate for money. In the middle of coitus, she told me to stop and kicked me out. She insulted my body, style, and made belligerent verbal attacks on me as a person. I blocked her on SA as soon as I left. Afterwards, she sent me an angry message saying how she's going to find out who I am and fuck me over. I was very polite and nice to her; no need for all that. I think she was mad that I blocked her before she could report me. Also, I've never been so thoroughly rejected like she did. And she's not even attractive. If I were younger and had a fragile ego, it would have been devastating.
The experience freaked me out so much that I'm done (at least for a while) with the sugar bowl.
I haven't gotten a promo email since the summer. I believe they have done promos around the holidays but can't remember if it was around Thanksgiving or around Christmas / New Years.I recall getting promos on Black Friday and post Christmas. Usually 20 or 25% off. I can recall promos for Valentine's, St. Patricks, Easter, Memorial Day and July 4th.
MilfHunter818
11-18-22, 11:16
I can't remember if Seeking usually does a holiday promo around Thanksgiving. I need to renew my subscription, but don't want to do it at full price, especially with them hassling me lately and accusing me of soliciting, and that type of nonsense.Don't renew and let it expire. The following day go ahead and log in and out throughout the day and when you log back in, you will get a screen with a discount to renew. This is what I do. I haven't paid full price since last year.
WoodstockShane
11-18-22, 12:24
Well this was a bummer. Really good looking woman.
https://members.seeking.com/member/444ac9a5-b24b-4e83-87d0-7959fe3b5cae
Told me her previous SD gave her $1500 -$2500/ wk. We all know that is most likely BS. I sometimes think I get targeted as an "easy mark" because I'm over 50 and I look like I'll just drop big $$ because they're young and pretty. (Please spare me your opinions on the word "young".
I told her that I would not be offering her anything near that stratospheric request, and kept things polite. She came back and then asked how frequent I'd want to see her, and I told her at most twice a month. She then countered with $700 ppm. Still a no from me dawg.
Stay Frosty.
WoodstockShane
11-18-22, 12:26
https://members.seeking.com/member/1f40fead-73be-4365-85af-496762c058d0
Pretty girl, but a pic seller. At least that's what she was willing to provide me. Shame though, because she seems cool af over messaging. I didn't bother reporting her.
Stay frosty.
SeekingHead
11-18-22, 12:53
Holy shit glad I read this board. I was just talking to her, now blocked.She had trouble maintaining a conversation & jumped from one topic to another without rhyme or reason. To me this means either meth. Or mental issues.
Peter Johnson
11-18-22, 13:43
I've ran into some Seeking girls on Bumble, and someone in the Nashville forum, on USAG, said that he saw some that were also on cuddlecomfort site as well, including:
https://www.cuddlecomfort.com/tachoudh
I don't remember hearing about that site before, and it blocks my VPN, but I switched that off and looked around a bit. Sounds like $100-$150 an hour for "cuddling", and I wonder how many of the girls do more, or how much more. It could be an interesting way to find some new sb's, although also a lot of time and money for nothing, in many cases. I know my hands would want to roam during cuddling sessions and would be frustrating. Or it could be hot sometimes to get them turned on and have them do more than they planned.
DudeNextDoor
11-19-22, 08:36
Whey_fu in Norcross is also on Seeking.
I've ran into some Seeking girls on Bumble, and someone in the Nashville forum, on USAG, said that he saw some that were also on cuddlecomfort site as well, including:
https://www.cuddlecomfort.com/tachoudh
I don't remember hearing about that site before, and it blocks my VPN, but I switched that off and looked around a bit. Sounds like $100-$150 an hour for "cuddling", and I wonder how many of the girls do more, or how much more. It could be an interesting way to find some new sb's, although also a lot of time and money for nothing, in many cases. I know my hands would want to roam during cuddling sessions and would be frustrating. Or it could be hot sometimes to get them turned on and have them do more than they planned.
DiscreetMeet
11-19-22, 16:11
I can't remember if Seeking usually does a holiday promo around Thanksgiving. I need to renew my subscription, but don't want to do it at full price, especially with them hassling me lately and accusing me of soliciting, and that type of nonsense.Here's the latest one I've seen.
VWO33 RBELT1 -33% off.
Peter Johnson
11-19-22, 20:48
Here's the latest one I've seen.
VWO33 RBELT1 -33% off. Ok thanks much. That first code worked and saved me the 33%...much appreciated.
The first card I tried to use didn't work, even though it was a $200 prepaid VISA card from giftcardmall. However it didn't instantly ban my account, when it rejected the card, as it has in the past. I went to Publix and bought a $100 card (also from giftcardmall), and it seemed to have worked just fine. I think they were both registered properly, but who knows what happened with the first one.
I really should just collect a lot of phone #s this period and then give it a rest for a few months and make a new acct. After getting that "warning" recently, it's clear my days are numbered on there adn they have no problem letting me renew and then banning me soon thereafter, stealing my $100.
DiscreetMeet
11-19-22, 23:09
Ok thanks much. That first code worked and saved me the 33%...much appreciated.
The first card I tried to use didn't work, even though it was a $200 prepaid VISA card from giftcardmall. However it didn't instantly ban my account, when it rejected the card, as it has in the past. I went to Publix and bought a $100 card (also from giftcardmall), and it seemed to have worked just fine. I think they were both registered properly, but who knows what happened with the first one.
I really should just collect a lot of phone #s this period and then give it a rest for a few months and make a new acct. After getting that "warning" recently, it's clear my days are numbered on there adn they have no problem letting me renew and then banning me soon thereafter, stealing my $100.Glad you've had better luck than I. I'm tried two different gift cards, google play, and paypal. I can't get any of them to work. Meanwhile, I've tried chatting with their support and even tried to call their "business support". I'm becoming more and more convinced that SA is way out of their league in the web business. About as frustrated as I've ever been.
Meanwhile, I have some messages from ones I'd like to meet but can't get passed the "upgrade to read".
FarFarAway
11-20-22, 10:07
Glad you've had better luck than I. I'm tried two different gift cards, google play, and paypal. I can't get any of them to work. Meanwhile, I've tried chatting with their support and even tried to call their "business support". I'm becoming more and more convinced that SA is way out of their league in the web business. About as frustrated as I've ever been.
Meanwhile, I have some messages from ones I'd like to meet but can't get passed the "upgrade to read".The perennial question. Seek out my recent posts. I have renewed in the past month, no problem, instantly, online. My month ends Wednesday, I will then shut it down for the holidays, as I have much less freedom to meet SBs, with work as an excuse to get out of the house. I have quite a roster of POTs, though. For the sort of interaction I seek, it takes some time to get to the M&G. I met one MILF who has her own professional firm, the sex was great, but her availability is spotty.
Been talking to this one over text. Anyone have experience with her? I searched here but couldn't come up with anything.
https://members.seeking.com/member/b5a0976d-f752-4cfa-809a-8d81a40d95b3
Been talking to this one over text. Anyone have experience with her? I searched here but couldn't come up with anything.
https://members.seeking.com/member/b5a0976d-f752-4cfa-809a-8d81a40d95b3She's been reviewed under different profile, mostly positive I believe, BBBJ, cfs if I remember correctly.
Haven't renewed my SA and my long term SB moved away last week. I don't have time to start this process again and vet them. Asking for seniors If there are any white UTR MILFs or PAWGs who's sweet and can host let me know.
Peter Johnson
11-20-22, 19:53
Haven't renewed my SA and my long term SB moved away last week. I don't have time to start this process again and vet them. Asking for seniors If there are any white UTR MILFs or PAWGs who's sweet and can host let me know.Are the SBs that we have seen, UTR? I don't think so, considering they are on the site. If you are looking for UTR girls, this is the wrong sub forum.
And what is so time consuming about the vetting process? Just start talking to them and meet at a hotel, and go from there. You would have to do the same thing with any recommended UTR girls, I would think. Anyway, the discount code for Seeking worked for me yesterday and I renewed my subscription for about $78.
And I know you asked a (somewhat) innocent question, so I don't mean to push back on it like that, but you should understand what I am saying.
Peter Johnson
11-20-22, 20:06
Ok, I appreciate those who helped me in the past with getting back on Seeking, after getting banned, so I thought I would write a short guide for others. (And even if you aren't banned, there are some tips about what prepaid cards seem to work to renew subscriptions).
1. Make a brand new Seeking account, with all new information. I usually just do this at home, behind a VPN, and with a new Proton email address. But you could use public wifi if you preferred. Sometimes it will insta-ban that newly created account, and other times it will let you proceed. But I would assume that gmail, or similar, is probably even more likely to work. (Don't use your regular naked home IP address, as that's just careless and ill advised).
2. Once you have the new Seeking account created, and can logout and log back in, then go ahead and write at least a short profile. I don't know if this makes a difference, but just seems better to have some profile info in there when you go to try to make a payment to start the subscription. You can go ahead and upload a photo too, although I usually wait on that. But get the account working for a day or two, and make sure can login on home computer and/or phone. You can still do searches, and set some girls as "Favorites", that you can message later when you get the subscription activated.
3. Buy a prepaid VISA card and use their website to register it with all fake information. I use the cards in the attached photo and you check their balance and register them at: https://mygift.giftcardmall.com/. I have heard that OneVanilla prepaid cards will work as well, and also Greendot cards, but someone said you have to call to register them and use 000-00-0000 as SSN#. However, I haven't tried any of those, and have only used the giftcardmall prepaid VISA cards that I buy at ATL area Publix grocery stores.
4. Go to a McDonalds, or other public WIFI, and login to Seeking that way, and not behind any VPN. Choose the subscription you want, and use information that matches the prepaid card registration. Be sire to enter the information EXACTLY as you did on the prepaid card site. Just copy and paste, to be safe.
5. Hopefully it will work and then maybe use the site for a few minutes, then log out and clear cookies and then should be able to login behind VPN, at home, etc.
SeekingHead
11-20-22, 20:53
Peter,
There is a good extension for chrome called ghostery, it will allow you to track cookies & other trackers for each website. The extension does a really great job, I got banned from my reddit account. It took a couple of new accounts getting banned before I found the extension. You can actually see each cookie or tracker is blocked & then look it up to see what it is. Reddit like seeking injects a tracker which links your accounts with it.
Peter Johnson
11-20-22, 20:59
Peter,
There is a good extension for chrome called ghostery, it will allow you to track cookies & other trackers for each website. The extension does a really great job, I got banned from my reddit account. It took a couple of new accounts getting banned before I found the extension. You can actually see each cookie or tracker is blocked & then look it up to see what it is. Reddit like seeking injects a tracker which links your accounts with it.That's a good tip, and even better is Firefox Multi-Account Containers. It lets you easily create tab groups for different sites, and then the cookies are isolated to just that one tab. I know Reddit is terrible for tracking everything, and all the Google related sites are probably just as bad. So I don't ever let my Reddit accounts mix with each other, or anything else.
I have a special tab group container for Seeking, and I also use it with USAG and maybe some porno sites, but nothing personal. I have another container group for ebay, one for Facebook, etc, etc. It sounds complicated, but once you get it setup, it is is not cumbersome and makes everything much more safe.
Are the SBs that we have seen, UTR? I don't think so, considering they are on the site. If you are looking for UTR girls, this is the wrong sub forum.
And what is so time consuming about the vetting process? Just start talking to them and meet at a hotel, and go from there. You would have to do the same thing with any recommended UTR girls, I would think. Anyway, the discount code for Seeking worked for me yesterday and I renewed my subscription for about $78.
And I know you asked a (somewhat) innocent question, so I don't mean to push back on it like that, but you should understand what I am saying.
I just need one reliable person that I can see once or twice a month for about 200 a pop, who's not high volume and a bit low key, so doesn't have to be a complete utr. I'm old enough to where I don't feel the thrill to rotate them. That's why was hoping if any of you seniors know someone like that and has a approval stamp
Peter Johnson
11-20-22, 22:59
I just need one reliable person that I can see once or twice a month for about 200 a pop, who's not high volume and a bit low key, so doesn't have to be a complete utr. I'm old enough to where I don't feel the thrill to rotate them. That's why was hoping if any of you seniors know someone like that and has a approval stampOk that makes sense. I was going to suggest FriendlyLady in Duluth, who is a great value at 200 ppm, imo, but she is probably high traffic, from what I can tell.
I know what you are saying, and I love the variety, but getting a bit tired of dealing with all the flaky ones, and everything else. Having someone fun and relaible, but may be the best solution for me, as well, not far down the road.
Ok that makes sense. I was going to suggest FriendlyLady in Duluth, who is a great value at 200 ppm, imo, but she is probably high traffic, from what I can tell.
I know what you are saying, and I love the variety, but getting a bit tired of dealing with all the flaky ones, and everything else. Having someone fun and relaible, but may be the best solution for me, as well, not far down the road.Yeah, she's cool but I agree with you. Seem very high traffic which kinda shys me away.
NewAnonymousName
11-21-22, 10:48
Sorry for an off topic question, but USASG logs me out automatically very frequently. If I jump on a call or do work for even a short period, I'm logged out when I come back. I looked through the settings and, if there's a way to change it to leave me logged in for longer, I overlooked it. Any advice?
Ok that makes sense. I was going to suggest FriendlyLady in Duluth, who is a great value at 200 ppm, imo, but she is probably high traffic, from what I can tell.
I know what you are saying, and I love the variety, but getting a bit tired of dealing with all the flaky ones, and everything else. Having someone fun and relaible, but may be the best solution for me, as well, not far down the road.Is this the one your referring to? https://members.seeking.com/member/b208617e-5980-4cae-b829-fe3dd53f24b3.
Sorry for an off topic question, but USASG logs me out automatically very frequently. If I jump on a call or do work for even a short period, I'm logged out when I come back. I looked through the settings and, if there's a way to change it to leave me logged in for longer, I overlooked it. Any advice?I'm the opposite of your issue. Mine is always logged in every time I come to the page from my bookmark.
SoonerFan72
11-21-22, 12:36
Sorry for an off topic question, but USASG logs me out automatically very frequently. If I jump on a call or do work for even a short period, I'm logged out when I come back. I looked through the settings and, if there's a way to change it to leave me logged in for longer, I overlooked it. Any advice?At the top of the screen where you log in, there is a little box that says "keep me logged in" next to your username password. It will extend the amount of time.
Ok that makes sense. I was going to suggest FriendlyLady in Duluth, who is a great value at 200 ppm, imo, but she is probably high traffic, from what I can tell.
I know what you are saying, and I love the variety, but getting a bit tired of dealing with all the flaky ones, and everything else. Having someone fun and relaible, but may be the best solution for me, as well, not far down the road.FriendlyLady? She also goes by the name Lyndsay I believe. Yes, I second that recommendation.
JeffInnAtlanta
11-21-22, 13:25
FriendlyLady? She also goes by the name Lyndsay I believe. Yes, I second that recommendation.You should know she asked for a $200 pre-payment and then ghosted that guy. She was a GB girl, but she's ghosting the guys that have seen her multiple times. No explanation. Caveat emptor.
Peter Johnson
11-21-22, 14:11
Is this the one your referring to? https://members.seeking.com/member/b208617e-5980-4cae-b829-fe3dd53f24b3.That's her photo, but I don't know if that is her new profile. She did live in Duluth, so not sure if she moved, or what happened there. Her previous profile is now inactive though (on both my accts so I know she didn't block me).
FriendlyLady? She also goes by the name Lyndsay I believe. Yes, I second that recommendation.So yeah, I see quite a few of us had had this one LOL. I worked in the area she lived in, so I've seen her a few times.
You should know she asked for a $200 pre-payment and then ghosted that guy. She was a GB girl, but she's ghosting the guys that have seen her multiple times. No explanation. Caveat emptor.She took money and ghosted someone? Wow, I may fall back on this one then.
TylerDurden07
11-21-22, 18:11
https://members.seeking.com/member/8d575cb1-dea5-45ed-85b9-9b6127b8d7c0
Anyone know anything about these two? They're pretty aggressive in communicating, to the point of being mildly annoying, but so far our schedules don't mesh. Was wondering if they're so amazing that maybe I should be more schedule-flexible.
TallGuy3000
11-21-22, 19:05
Any one had any contact with this one? Looks / sounds interesting.
Peter Johnson
11-21-22, 20:20
Any one had any contact with this one? Looks / sounds interesting.A link / URL would greatly increase the odds of you getting an answer.
Peter Johnson
11-21-22, 20:22
So yeah, I see quite a few of us had had this one LOL. I worked in the area she lived in, so I've seen her a few times.For sure. She is high volume and did a gang bang. I've seen her twice and hope she really did move to Braselton, so I won't be tempted for another repeat. She is a very cool chick, but I already had to get a few penicillin shots earlier this year, so trying to be at least a bit more careful now.
Peter Johnson
11-21-22, 20:36
You should know she asked for a $200 pre-payment and then ghosted that guy. She was a GB girl, but she's ghosting the guys that have seen her multiple times. No explanation. Caveat emptor.You can't trust any of these girls. But of course I suppose that applies to women in general. And I would say why would anyone prepay $200 to a girl, but I've done that before myself, with a regular SB, and got ghosted/burned as well. So just a somewhat expensive lesson, but just the way it is.
TallGuy3000
11-21-22, 20:48
A link / URL would greatly increase the odds of you getting an answer.My bad. Thought I'd included BronzeBeauty's link.
https://members.seeking.com/member/dd847e60-7357-4950-b68d-dc9977cd959b
-For sure. She is high volume and did a gang bang. I've seen her twice and hope she really did move to Braselton, so I won't be tempted for another repeat. She is a very cool chick, but I already had to get a few penicillin shots earlier this year, so trying to be at least a bit more careful now.-
Yeah, she is cool but I don't really like high traffic girls. Not that it bothers me in particular, it's just you have no idea about the overall clientele. Just takes one guy to get too attached and start stalking the chick, and see you leave or something. Now you got a problem you didn't sign up for. She was fast and loose with her actual address, and real name. But I should've know she was high traffic based on how I got to know her. I never messaged her on SA, I viewed her once and she reached out to me. She was always on whenever I'd get on there, so she was racking us up LOL. Was fun while it lasted, but yeah she moved this past weekend.
Had to edit to add in the person I was quoting/responding to...
DavidGooms
11-22-22, 00:10
I met her in July or August at her Duluth apartment before got banned from SA LOL. I felt she is cool. It was $300 ppm smh. I need to work on my negotiation skills lmao.
So yeah, I see quite a few of us had had this one LOL. I worked in the area she lived in, so I've seen her a few times.
I met her in July or August at her Duluth apartment before got banned from SA LOL. I felt she is cool. It was $300 ppm smh. I need to work on my negotiation skills lmao.Am I the only monger here that hasn't nailed her yet (and I am not going to either after see the list of horny dogs that have. Maybe she should advertise in the provider section.
Am I the only monger here that hasn't nailed her yet (and I am not going to either after see the list of horny dogs that have. Maybe she should advertise in the provider section.I'm def backing off LOL. So I totally get your sentiment on the topic.
Am I the only monger here that hasn't nailed her yet (and I am not going to either after see the list of horny dogs that have. Maybe she should advertise in the provider section.I haven't seen her either but that's mainly because I'm in west Cobb and Duluth is too far for me usually but had considered it. Braselton; yeah not happening now.
So head is now worth $$. Noted.
TallGuy3000
11-22-22, 16:58
So head is now worth $$. Noted.That's not GPS. More like PPS (platinum)!
TylerDurden07
11-22-22, 17:59
I haven't seen her either but that's mainly because I'm in west Cobb and Duluth is too far for me usually but had considered it. Braselton; yeah not happening now.Had some interactions with her under her old account. Never got to meet because my schedule didn't sync with hers. I did get several pics. She has a fantastic body (I like tall girls). But her face is meh. If I was in West Cobb, I wouldn't drive to Duluth for her, much less Braselton.
BumbaCloth
11-22-22, 22:00
Anyone seen her?
https://members.seeking.com/member/0ea9eef8-34f6-4a03-a0d1-61623d04192b
Anyone seen her?
https://members.seeking.com/member/0ea9eef8-34f6-4a03-a0d1-61623d04192bSo I have not seen her, but exchanged several message with her about 4 years ago. So she has been around. I believe she is a hair stylist in the suburbs or exurbs. The reason I remember her is she was asking for an allowance that clear GPS. I know it was at least $$ But her pics were nice and she did seem to have that crazy hair dresser vibe.
Peter Johnson
11-23-22, 12:33
https://members.seeking.com/member/5e4e5d2f-c214-4fe5-9e17-a5c372ac642d
I texted with her a bit, ad seems fairly polite and reasonable. She says she usually gets 500 ppm, but would go down to 300, although it's the lowest she would ever go. She also says no BBFS and insists on CFS. She's not really my type, and I will pass.
Peter Johnson
11-23-22, 12:36
I just renewed the the discount code that someone else posted a few messages down, but I also just got an email with 33% off offer, so try this link as well.
http://links.email.seeking.com/ctt?ms=MjE0MTgwNjQS1&kn=7&r=NDQyNTc0NjEzOTYxS0&b=0&j=MjQ4MTUxNTExMAS2&mt=1&rt=0
People Pleasur
11-23-22, 15:21
https://members.seeking.com/member/8d575cb1-dea5-45ed-85b9-9b6127b8d7c0
Anyone know anything about these two? They're pretty aggressive in communicating, to the point of being mildly annoying, but so far our schedules don't mesh. Was wondering if they're so amazing that maybe I should be more schedule-flexible.I'm curious too. My initial thought is they are out of my budget and look the type to be shown off and pampered rather than DTF.
I just renewed the the discount code that someone else posted a few messages down, but I also just got an email with 33% off offer, so try this link as well.
http://links.email.seeking.com/ctt?ms=MjE0MTgwNjQS1&kn=7&r=NDQyNTc0NjEzOTYxS0&b=0&j=MjQ4MTUxNTExMAS2&mt=1&rt=0Worked for me, so thanks for the code.
Sarcastic King
11-23-22, 16:31
I'm thinking of trying SA and had a question. I don't want to spend more than a $100 until I figure this thing out.
Do I sign up for the one time or the subscription (and cancel after a month)? The one time shows $274 for a single month under diamond. I thought they had lower rate for a month. Thanks for the help.
NewAnonymousName
11-23-22, 18:34
I'm thinking of trying SA and had a question. I don't want to spend more than a $100 until I figure this thing out.
Do I sign up for the one time or the subscription (and cancel after a month)? The one time shows $274 for a single month under diamond. I thought they had lower rate for a month. Thanks for the help.No. You definitely do not need Diamond. IMO, it simply tags you as someone who will overpay and you'll find yourself handcuffed in negotiations and inundated with messages from the hard core gold diggers. A regular paid membership is all you need. It lets you message women members.
Use a discount code and sign up for the standard monthly membership with automatic monthly payments. Enter a $200 VISA gift card as the credit card. You must first register the VISA gift card to a fake name and address (but remember those -- you need them to enter the payment information on Seeking). Seeking will bill the first month immediately when you sign up and enter the gift card.
Then you can try it out for most of that month. If you like Seeking, you can leave everything as is, and Seeking will auto-charge the VISA gift card that you already put on file with them. (It will be mostly empty as the discount applies only to the first month. Just use it on a large purchase at Walmart or Costco. Their registers will auto-drain the remaining gift card balance and prompt you to swipe another card to pay the rest of your shopping bill.) If you don't like Seeking, you will need to remember to go to your settings and delete that VISA gift card before your automatic payment for the second month occurs. Otherwise, again, they will automatically charge it and you'll be stuck paying for a second month you didn't want.
If you delete the VISA gift card from your payment cards on the website, Seeking will simply shut down your paid access at the end of the first month. Once they do that, you not only won't be able to exchange messages with women any longer, you also won't be able to even see any of the old messages you received while your paid membership was still in effect. This means you need to copy down any names and phone numbers you have collected in Seeking's message system before Seeking shuts you down at the end of the first month.
Member #6517
11-24-22, 02:53
No. You definitely do not need Diamond. IMO, it simply tags you as someone who will overpay and you'll find yourself handcuffed in negotiations and inundated with messages from the hard core gold diggers. A regular paid membership is all you need. It lets you message women members.
Use a discount code and sign up for the standard monthly membership with automatic monthly payments. Enter a $200 VISA gift card as the credit card. You must first register the VISA gift card to a fake name and address (but remember those -- you need them to enter the payment information on Seeking). Seeking will bill the first month immediately when you sign up and enter the gift card.
Then you can try it out for most of that month. If you like Seeking, you can leave everything as is, and Seeking will auto-charge the VISA gift card that you already put on file with them. (It will be mostly empty as the discount applies only to the first month. Just use it on a large purchase at Walmart or Costco. Their registers will auto-drain the remaining gift card balance and prompt you to swipe another card to pay the rest of your shopping bill.) If you don't like Seeking, you will need to remember to go to your settings and delete that VISA gift card before your automatic payment for the second month occurs. Otherwise, again, they will automatically charge it and you'll be stuck paying for a second month you didn't want.
If you delete the VISA gift card from your payment cards on the website, Seeking will simply shut down your paid access at the end of the first month. Once they do that, you not only won't be able to exchange messages with women any longer, you also won't be able to even see any of the old messages you received while your paid membership was still in effect. This means you need to copy down any names and phone numbers you have collected in Seeking's message system before Seeking shuts you down at the end of the first month.Thanks for this post. It's good information. When the junior was in charge, I made a mistake of opening a profile with my actual card. How bad is it? I'm usually careful about these things, but like I said, junior was ruling the waters back then.
I have a blurred photo in my main. Some chicks request access to private photos immediately. It's a red flag for me, but some of them are really good looking.
Thanks for this post. It's good information. When the junior was in charge, I made a mistake of opening a profile with my actual card. How bad is it? I'm usually careful about these things, but like I said, junior was ruling the waters back then.
I have a blurred photo in my main. Some chicks request access to private photos immediately. It's a red flag for me, but some of them are really good looking.If you don't have a significant other or you do, but they don't have access to your credit card statements it shouldn't matter much to use your actual credit card.
NewAnonymousName
11-24-22, 12:53
I just renewed the the discount code that someone else posted a few messages down, but I also just got an email with 33% off offer, so try this link as well.
http://links.email.seeking.com/ctt?ms=MjE0MTgwNjQS1&kn=7&r=NDQyNTc0NjEzOTYxS0&b=0&j=MjQ4MTUxNTExMAS2&mt=1&rt=0Thanks for this. It worked on the 3 month auto-renewal membership option too. I squeezed 3 months onto a single $200 visa gift card for an average of about $65 per month.
If you don't have a significant other or you do, but they don't have access to your credit card statements it shouldn't matter much to use your actual credit card.I use my credit credit and immediately cancel my membership and delete my credit card info on the site after signing up.
SeekingHead
11-24-22, 15:34
Thanks for this post. It's good information. When the junior was in charge, I made a mistake of opening a profile with my actual card. How bad is it? I'm usually careful about these things, but like I said, junior was ruling the waters back then.
I have a blurred photo in my main. Some chicks request access to private photos immediately. It's a red flag for me, but some of them are really good looking.I have my profile hidden, seeking isn't a dating site & you really have nothing to gain from having a public profile. All of my photos are private also. Every time I make first contact with the girl if I am interested in, I message her, introduce myself, make a comment on her profile & then make my private photos available to her.
So somehow my text now number has been disabled due to " A violation of the terms of agreement. " All I did was check on a few sugar babies to wish them a happy Thanksgiving. I submitted an appeal and asked what the violation was so I'll await their response. If I'm unable to log back on, that's a ton of numbers and conversations I'll lose. Anyone else had this happened?
Peter Johnson
11-25-22, 01:47
So somehow my text now number has been disabled due to " A violation of the terms of agreement. " All I did was check on a few sugar babies to wish them a happy Thanksgiving. I submitted an appeal and asked what the violation was so I'll await their response. If I'm unable to log back on, that's a ton of numbers and conversations I'll lose. Anyone else had this happened?Yes, Textnow locked a couple of my accounts for no reason, so I just bailed on them and didn't look back. Now I used https://mysudo.com/ on my phone and I'm not crazy about it, but it allows multiple numbers for something like $15 a month. It is billed as a "All-in-one Privacy App", which seems absurd, because it still uses SMS.
Mysudo works fairly well, but it is buggy sometimes with sending and receiving photos and have to send them one at a time or sometimes they don't go through at all. I don't highly recommend it, but it's what I use.
I know a lot of people use Google Voice #, but Google is terrible with privacy, so that's not really a good option for me.
I know you were asking about TextNow appeal though, and I vaguely remember getting an account of mine temporarily reinstated. But I"m not sure.
Peter Johnson
11-25-22, 01:51
If you don't have a significant other or you do, but they don't have access to your credit card statements it shouldn't matter much to use your actual credit card.It matters to me if Seeking.com has my real name, address, etc. It matters a lot. I don't need my real identity linked to what is essentially a prostitution site, not to mention the other risks involved. I don't blame anyone who just doesn't care, but to act like there's no reason anyone would possible care. Is kind of absurd.
It matters to me if Seeking.com has my real name, address, etc. It matters a lot. I don't need my real identity linked to what is essentially a prostitution site, not to mention the other risks involved. I don't blame anyone who just doesn't care, but to act like there's no reason anyone would possible care. Is kind of absurd.Fair point.
IMHO, all dating sites double as prostitution sites. Goal should always be to move someone you connect with offsite ASAP. Even folks that take as many precautions as possible can end up banned and having to circumvent to get back on the site.
There are risks to any site you put your personal info into and I get why one would be cautious but the risk applies to your entire online footprint not just the dating sites. If you're being discreet with Seeking but plugging all your info into the McDonalds app, you're still taking a risk.
Yes, Textnow locked a couple of my accounts for no reason, so I just bailed on them and didn't look back. Now I used https://mysudo.com/ on my phone and I'm not crazy about it, but it allows multiple numbers for something like $15 a month. It is billed as a "All-in-one Privacy App", which seems absurd, because it still uses SMS.
Mysudo works fairly well, but it is buggy sometimes with sending and receiving photos and have to send them one at a time or sometimes they don't go through at all. I don't highly recommend it, but it's what I use.
I know a lot of people use Google Voice #, but Google is terrible with privacy, so that's not really a good option for me.
I know you were asking about TextNow appeal though, and I vaguely remember getting an account of mine temporarily reinstated. But I"m not sure.I use an app called Hushed. It costs around $70/ year. For me, it just shows as an apple charge on my cc statement. I generally text through it without issues however its wi-fi voice calls can be hit or miss.
Hushed is also based in Canada so USA privacy is better in terms of USA LE.
I also have a free app called "text free" also seems to work good. Never had a problem. On that one, you must use the free number once a month or risk losing it.
FarFarAway
11-25-22, 11:29
It matters to me if Seeking.com has my real name, address, etc. It matters a lot. I don't need my real identity linked to what is essentially a prostitution site, not to mention the other risks involved. I don't blame anyone who just doesn't care, but to act like there's no reason anyone would possible care. Is kind of absurd.I don't agree that SA is only for escorts, but undoubtedly there are escorts and their customers using it. Those are the people who get banned. If you are like me and looking for an arrangement, either shorter or longer term, you should not have trouble with that. Of course, I have a SO, I can't take any chances of getting my membership being exposed. I take all precautions. There used to be a lot more posting on here about all of the precautions to take. The Richmond VA sugar thread is a great resource, with a fantastic archive of all the good how-tos you could want.
Anyone who says it doesn't matter has forgotten the Ashely Madison hack. That one exposed personal info of a lot of users, names, email addresses, credit cards, you could go to a web page and look people up. That was used in extortion attempts, lame ones though. Just emails that appeared in people's inboxes. If you were lucky the SO would never know that happened and you could just lay low for a while. However, in a few cases, the hack led to people getting exposed, and sad consequences ensued, obviously.
If you don't have a significant other or you do, but they don't have access to your credit card statements it shouldn't matter much to use your actual credit card.Very true, I use my credit card and then immediately cancel my membership and delete my credit info from the site. My membership is still in effect for a month and no auto renewal from my credit card.
NewAnonymousName
11-25-22, 13:52
It matters to me if Seeking.com has my real name, address, etc. It matters a lot. I don't need my real identity linked to what is essentially a prostitution site, not to mention the other risks involved. I don't blame anyone who just doesn't care, but to act like there's no reason anyone would possible care. Is kind of absurd.I agree with this. When adult friend finder was hacked some years ago, many users' names and email addresses were published on the internet. I don't want friends, family and potential civilian dates to see my name listed as a Seeking user if it is ever hacked.
Peter Johnson
11-25-22, 14:45
I agree with this. When adult friend finder was hacked some years ago, many users' names and email addresses were published on the internet. I don't want friends, family and potential civilian dates to see my name listed as a Seeking user if it is ever hacked.Yes exactly. I was going to bring that up too. It's not a good look to be outed as being on a quasi-prostitution website, or at least as being on a site where "creepy old men try to groom innocent young girls", etc. You know how that twisted, bullshit narrative would play out. I just don't need my real name / identity associated with that, if it was hacked (or if the gov't decided to subpoena all their records, which is another possibility, however remote).
Not to mention, we all know many of these girls are batshit crazy and don't need to make it extra easy for them to find me if they claim sexual assault, or worse. Of course it is just limited protection, but better than nothing, on top of all of the other risks.
Fair point.
There are risks to any site you put your personal info into and I get why one would be cautious but the risk applies to your entire online footprint not just the dating sites. If you're being discreet with Seeking but plugging all your info into the McDonalds app, you're still taking a risk.
Yes, but a much, much lower risk, of course. And btw, I don't use my real name in the McDonalds app either. It's probably does have some spyware aspects, from what I've read. I don't even like having it on my phone, but the $1 Large Fry offer is too good pass up.
Anyway, it's all about limiting risk, and each person has to decide how far they want to go with all of that.
Peter Johnson
11-25-22, 16:21
https://members.seeking.com/member/12fc3a2e-aa7a-4136-8675-fced4fd64b7f
Has anyone talked to this girl? That is a top shelf piece of ass. I'm not even going to message her, as there's just no way she is in my price range.
Member #6517
11-25-22, 18:28
Relating to privacy on SA, how hard is it to find someone's name with actual cell phone number? Someone in the past found me using facebook's phone number search. That was back when they had shitty privacy. I use textnow, which is ok for now. I don't trust them either, though.
What's your average PPM these days? Some chick is asking for 300, which is below what I dream with LKatl. When you negotiate a PPM session, how many hours do these girls usually expect to stay?
Sorry for noob questions. New in this hobby. I'm younger than usual daddy profile so there is that lack of experience. Other venues of dating are too risky for me. However, given the discussion here, seeking sounds worse than actually getting caught on a dating app -since it has a pay-to-play context.
About to meet this one. Anyone have any dealings with her?
FarFarAway
11-25-22, 18:48
Relating to privacy on SA, how hard is it to find someone's name with actual cell phone number? Someone in the past found me using facebook's phone number search. That was back when they had shitty privacy. I use textnow, which is ok for now. I don't trust them either, though.
What's your average PPM these days? Some chick is asking for 300, which is below what I dream with LKatl. When you negotiate a PPM session, how many hours do these girls usually expect to stay?
Sorry for noob questions. New in this hobby. I'm younger than usual daddy profile so there is that lack of experience. Other venues of dating are too risky for me. However, given the discussion here, seeking sounds worse than actually getting caught on a dating app -since it has a pay-to-play context.You can use sites like Beenverified, they will give you a week's membership with limited #s of searches per day for $1. I find a lot of girls real names this way. You can't do it via google. Use a prepaid card that doesn't have enough to pay for your SA membership.
Knowing her real name is more insurance than anything. If she gets mouthy, or threatens you, you can always push back with that info. I have never figured out how to use it to get a girl into bed easier, or get her for a lower $.
I posted elsewhere, the LA thread, about an incredible woman I banged off SA, and I have found every shred of her life, because she has a very very public presence.
MariettaJoe
11-25-22, 22:47
https://members.seeking.com/member/12fc3a2e-aa7a-4136-8675-fced4fd64b7f
Has anyone talked to this girl? That is a top shelf piece of ass. I'm not even going to message her, as there's just no way she is in my price range.Pics line up with an Instagram account, reverse image searches found that one easily. Might actually be her though, locations line up. Still raises a red flag to me that it's a fake profile on SA.
Peter Johnson
11-26-22, 14:16
Pics line up with an Instagram account, reverse image searches found that one easily. Might actually be her though, locations line up. Still raises a red flag to me that it's a fake profile on SA.She sure isn't shy about her identity being out there. And yes could also be fake profile, but she's probably just on there fishing for a whale.
https://www.instagram.com/averyschuhardt/
https://www.facebook.com/porky.pickle
Member #6718
11-26-22, 14:32
She sure isn't shy about her identity being out there. And yes could also be fake profile, but she's probably just on there fishing for a whale.
https://www.instagram.com/averyschuhardt/
https://www.facebook.com/porky.pickleProbably finding them too. There is a similarly hot chick in Wilmington who is easily picking off $1-2 k ppms from guys across the country willing to fly her out. The legit 9. 5+/10's can get crazy money.
Member #6718
11-26-22, 14:42
So head is now worth $$. Noted.Be careful talking about explicit acts or $$$ on the website. That is a quick way to get banned. Take these conversations offline asap.
As for the rate, lolol. Plus anyone who prices on service level is full on pro. I know it is all really pro in reality, but I prefer to stick to the toe dippers who aren't making a career of it.
Relating to privacy on SA, how hard is it to find someone's name with actual cell phone number? Someone in the past found me using facebook's phone number search. That was back when they had shitty privacy. I use textnow, which is ok for now. I don't trust them either, though.
What's your average PPM these days? Some chick is asking for 300, which is below what I dream with LKatl. When you negotiate a PPM session, how many hours do these girls usually expect to stay?
Sorry for noob questions. New in this hobby. I'm younger than usual daddy profile so there is that lack of experience. Other venues of dating are too risky for me. However, given the discussion here, seeking sounds worse than actually getting caught on a dating app -since it has a pay-to-play context.The best bet is to get a burner phone. Ppm varies widely, but that seems reasonable. I don't use seeking anymore. It's a lot of work and too many girls waste my time. 2 years ago I met a girl and our relationship lasted several months, but that was rare for me. But I met many interesting and beautiful girls.
Be careful about your privacy and identity, never trust them. Don't give your name, number, job or address info. Good luck.
Peter Johnson
11-26-22, 16:17
Probably finding them too. There is a similarly hot chick in Wilmington who is easily picking off $1-2 k ppms from guys across the country willing to fly her out. The legit 9. 5+/10's can get crazy money.Yes, winning the genetic lottery can easily translate into winning the $$ lottery for these top tier girls. Their job is just to travel the world and have sex with a few guys a month. $100 k a year easy or more.
I was reading some messages on https://www.reddit.com/r/sugarlifestyleforum/ and some of these girls get crazy allowances and gifts. But that is top tier and different than what most of us are doing on there. And It's a good thing there more pretty women than multi-millionaire men.
I've been on seeking for over a year and last month my account was put on hold pending verification. I don't think it's because of anything I said because I stay very generic until we get offsite. I removed the app and I'm probably done with SA.
Has anyone had this experience?
What could have caused this after a year paying for the site?
Has anyone done this verification?
Member #6718
11-27-22, 14:00
Yes, winning the genetic lottery can easily translate into winning the $$ lottery for these top tier girls. Their job is just to travel the world and have sex with a few guys a month. $100 k a year easy or more.
I was reading some messages on https://www.reddit.com/r/sugarlifestyleforum/ and some of these girls get crazy allowances and gifts. But that is top tier and different than what most of us are doing on there. And It's a good thing there more pretty women than multi-millionaire men.I follow that reddit too, that is how I found out about usasg LOL. I think a lot of the chicks on their bullshit about their allowances in order to make male readers think the market is higher than it is. With that said, there are some whales out there. My current fave sb, who is still willing to see me for a "mere" four bens a time, found some dude in Miami making $15 m a year and she is working on marrying him. I am actively encouraging her LOL.
I follow that reddit too, that is how I found out about usasg LOL. I think a lot of the chicks on their bullshit about their allowances in order to make male readers think the market is higher than it is. With that said, there are some whales out there. My current fave sb, who is still willing to see me for a "mere" four bens a time, found some dude in Miami making $15 m a year and she is working on marrying him. I am actively encouraging her LOL.50/50 odds that dude is cartel connected, especially if he is in south Florida making that type of coin.
GoneForGood97
11-27-22, 18:42
Relating to privacy on SA, how hard is it to find someone's name with actual cell phone number? Someone in the past found me using facebook's phone number search. That was back when they had shitty privacy. I use textnow, which is ok for now. I don't trust them either, though.
What's your average PPM these days? Some chick is asking for 300, which is below what I dream with LKatl. When you negotiate a PPM session, how many hours do these girls usually expect to stay?
Sorry for noob questions. New in this hobby. I'm younger than usual daddy profile so there is that lack of experience. Other venues of dating are too risky for me. However, given the discussion here, seeking sounds worse than actually getting caught on a dating app -since it has a pay-to-play context.One thing to keep in mind is if they host or not. If they host, I'll do 300. If they can't host and I need to get us a hotel, then I'll offer 200 plus hotel. I've had a lot luck, and banged a lot of hot 20-30 year old girls (even a couple of 19 year olds) all within that price range. Be willing to walk away from anyway asking for much more than that. There's a LOT of girls on the site, no need to let one take you way more when another will happily drain you dry for hours for a more reasonable PPM.
I posted about this a few months ago, but when my sub was last active I probably fucked 7 or 8 different girls, all in the 20-35 year old range, all hot, almost all bare, and I was averaging 250 PPM plus hotel. Funniest part? The 200 PPM girls were way better lays than the 300 girls.
JokeSterkev
11-27-22, 23:25
I finally have set something up with this one. So hard to find redheads. Only one review and it seems positive. Anyone else have any experience with her. Some insight of what to expect? Thanks.
https://members.seeking.com/member/756fa313-fee0-4044-b80c-8f735eabbaec
Peter Johnson
11-28-22, 02:14
One thing to keep in mind is if they host or not. If they host, I'll do 300. If they can't host and I need to get us a hotel, then I'll offer 200 plus hotel. I've had a lot luck, and banged a lot of hot 20-30 year old girls (even a couple of 19 year olds) all within that price range. Be willing to walk away from anyway asking for much more than that. There's a LOT of girls on the site, no need to let one take you way more when another will happily drain you dry for hours for a more reasonable PPM.
I posted about this a few months ago, but when my sub was last active I probably fucked 7 or 8 different girls, all in the 20-35 year old range, all hot, almost all bare, and I was averaging 250 PPM plus hotel. Funniest part? The 200 PPM girls were way better lays than the 300 girls.I have just been having too many slip away at 200 ppm offers and not sure how you get away with that. Well I do have two girls in GA that I see for that amount, bu they are well past 30 and maybe 7's at best, and that is pushing it. 300 might become my new floor for any girl in her 20's who is reasonably attractive. And I am feeling some pressure to go up to 400 for select ones who are really my type. I just don't know anymore, but I agree some of the more average looking girls are often much better in bed that the pricier one.
JokeSterkev
11-28-22, 02:20
I finally have something set up with this one in the near future. Any one seen her recently or have experience with her and can maybe give me some details of what to expect?
https://members.seeking.com/member/756fa313-fee0-4044-b80c-8f735eabbaec
Peter Johnson
11-28-22, 03:00
I've been on seeking for over a year and last month my account was put on hold pending verification. I don't think it's because of anything I said because I stay very generic until we get offsite. I removed the app and I'm probably done with SA.
Has anyone had this experience?
What could have caused this after a year paying for the site?
Has anyone done this verification?I had that happen a couple of times, but it was when I made a new account. And was instabanned. Or maybe once when I tried to use a prepaid card that it didn't like. Of course I didn't verify and just abandoned the account and went with a different strategy.
DudeNextDoor
11-28-22, 09:47
She's been talked about here before and I think it was positive but can't remember exactly.
I finally have something set up with this one in the near future. Any one seen her recently or have experience with her and can maybe give me some details of what to expect?
https://members.seeking.com/member/756fa313-fee0-4044-b80c-8f735eabbaec
JokeSterkev
11-28-22, 10:44
She's been talked about here before and I think it was positive but can't remember exactly.Yeah. I've only been able to find one review from back in August. It was a positive review but haven't seen anymore since.
I have just been having too many slip away at 200 ppm offers and not sure how you get away with that. Well I do have two girls in GA that I see for that amount, bu they are well past 30 and maybe 7's at best, and that is pushing it. 300 might become my new floor for any girl in her 20's who is reasonably attractive. And I am feeling some pressure to go up to 400 for select ones who are really my type. I just don't know anymore, but I agree some of the more average looking girls are often much better in bed that the pricier one.Pete,
Are you crazy? Look at the $400 mark you might as well get a pro. I have 3 of them right now that I rotate thru at $200/ meet. They are at best 6's, but god are the fucking sexual animals. And at the end of the day, isn't it just about getting laid?
JimS2321.
GoneForGood97
11-28-22, 12:18
I finally have something set up with this one in the near future. Any one seen her recently or have experience with her and can maybe give me some details of what to expect?
https://members.seeking.com/member/756fa313-fee0-4044-b80c-8f735eabbaecGood luck, hope it's a blast. I messaged her awhile back but she replied weeks later and we just never got a good discussion going. Sounds like you broke through. If you get nudes / vids let me know, I'm willing to trade as I really wanted to see how all of her looks, especially if that curtains match the drapes.
Same thing happened to me. Couldn't get a conversation going. Looks like she hasn't been on there since Nov 8. She definitely seems to be just my type.
Good luck, hope it's a blast. I messaged her awhile back but she replied weeks later and we just never got a good discussion going. Sounds like you broke through. If you get nudes / vids let me know, I'm willing to trade as I really wanted to see how all of her looks, especially if that curtains match the drapes.
JokeSterkev
11-28-22, 15:10
Same thing happened to me. Couldn't get a conversation going. Looks like she hasn't been on there since Nov 8. She definitely seems to be just my type.I will let y'all know how it goes. Still if any one has experience with her I'd love to hear it.
Peter Johnson
11-28-22, 20:28
Pete,
Are you crazy? Look at the $400 mark you might as well get a pro. I have 3 of them right now that I rotate thru at $200/ meet. They are at best 6's, but god are the fucking sexual animals. And at the end of the day, isn't it just about getting laid?
JimS2321.No I'm not crazy.
And I generally prefer the SB experience to that of $400 escort. I don't have to pay by the hour and much more interaction with them, before and afterwards.
No it's not just about getting laid. 6 does not equal 9.
FarFarAway
11-28-22, 20:33
Yes, Textnow locked a couple of my accounts for no reason, so I just bailed on them and didn't look back. Now I used https://mysudo.com/ on my phone and I'm not crazy about it, but it allows multiple numbers for something like $15 a month. It is billed as a "All-in-one Privacy App", which seems absurd, because it still uses SMS.
Mysudo works fairly well, but it is buggy sometimes with sending and receiving photos and have to send them one at a time or sometimes they don't go through at all. I don't highly recommend it, but it's what I use.
I know a lot of people use Google Voice #, but Google is terrible with privacy, so that's not really a good option for me.
I know you were asking about TextNow appeal though, and I vaguely remember getting an account of mine temporarily reinstated. But I"m not sure.I would like to know about the different texting app choices. I agree google is notorious, but here are all the good things about Voice. It is free. I can access it via a browser, so that means I can text from a laptop at home and I have no need to ever have my burner phone inside, less risk of discovery. And I make a point of not ever having it on even when it is stashed at home (deep in a golf bag), so even if google were to reveal the location of that burner, it would never uniquely identify me. My home is a cell signal dead zone, which is just fine w / me. I would never never use wi-fi for accessing the web at my home from my burner, that would be stupid.
When I use GV on the web, I either use the Epic browser that has a built-in VPN (at my office), or I use a VPN to access a large corporate server.
Can textme or text now say the same?
PurpleMonkey
11-29-22, 09:03
She just favorited me and I messaged. What was your experience with her like?
Been talking to this one over text. Anyone have experience with her? I searched here but couldn't come up with anything.
https://members.seeking.com/member/b5a0976d-f752-4cfa-809a-8d81a40d95b3
Member #6704
11-29-22, 09:48
Hey guys. Anyone willing to share what was the 33% discount code for.
Seeking? I think they ran a promotion for Black Friday.
I wonder if it still works?
DudeNextDoor
11-29-22, 10:34
This is the link that was posted = http://links.email.seeking.com/ctt?m...MAS2&mt=1&rt=0.
Worked for me a couple days ago.
Hey guys. Anyone willing to share what was the 33% discount code for.
Seeking? I think they ran a promotion for Black Friday.
I wonder if it still works?
Hey guys. Anyone willing to share what was the 33% discount code for.
Seeking? I think they ran a promotion for Black Friday.
I wonder if it still works?It worked for me yesterday, I found the code 3 or four pages down in somebody's post.
Member #6718
11-29-22, 10:44
Pete,
Are you crazy? Look at the $400 mark you might as well get a pro. I have 3 of them right now that I rotate thru at $200/ meet. They are at best 6's, but god are the fucking sexual animals. And at the end of the day, isn't it just about getting laid?
JimS2321.Yeah this ain't the same for me. My relationships with SBs tend to go well beyond just getting laid, and depending on the connection I spend a lot of time with them outside of the bedroom. Hell I even ended up living with someone I met on seeking for a couple of years.
Yeah this ain't the same for me. My relationships with SBs tend to go well beyond just getting laid, and depending on the connection I spend a lot of time with them outside of the bedroom. Hell I even ended up living with someone I met on seeking for a couple of years.That's called a girlfriend. And if that your thing, well more power to you.
Member #6718
11-29-22, 14:02
That's called a girlfriend. And if that your thing, well more power to you.It is! I use the sb world more to date younger, hotter chicks than I could otherwise, as opposed to just getting laid.
It is! I use the sb world more to date younger, hotter chicks than I could otherwise, as opposed to just getting laid.This is the part that often gets lost on the thread. Everyone isn't necessarily using sugar sites as a revolving door of actual or wannabe escorts.
Some are truly looking for a certain connection that can last longer than a PPM.
-For sure. She is high volume and did a gang bang. I've seen her twice and hope she really did move to Braselton, so I won't be tempted for another repeat. She is a very cool chick, but I already had to get a few penicillin shots earlier this year, so trying to be at least a bit more careful now...Has anyone had any contact recently with FriendlyLady that moved to Braselton?? I Know a couple of ya'll have messaged me with a phone number but she doesn't seem to respond. I was wondering if maybe someone has had contact with her in the last week or so and if so, I would really appreciate it if you would message me her digits. Thanks in advance.
Anyone has any information on this one?
https://members.seeking.com/member/e1aa1e14-8618-45d4-9778-e1a211fa24f4
TylerDurden07
11-29-22, 18:13
This is the part that often gets lost on the thread. Everyone isn't necessarily using sugar sites as a revolving door of actual or wannabe escorts.
Some are truly looking for a certain connection that can last longer than a PPM.I started out in this hobby with strippers, then with escorts, & now with SB's. Does that make strippers the "gateway drug"?
But anyway, I won't go back. The right SB is hotter than your average escort, & most importantly the right SB will stay with you for several hours (& overnight, if you want) for the same price you pay for 1 min 3 max hrs of an escort's time.
I target girls who will act like a gf but not really be a gf, if that makes sense. A "real gf" will eventually get marriage expectations. A "real gf" will want you to see her exclusively too. I've never had a gf-like SB have those types of expectations.
It really is just in choosing the right girl to be your SB, &--as always--what you want is totally up to you. What works for one dude doesn't necessarily work for another.
DudeNextDoor
11-29-22, 18:32
She's a scammer. Says she's looking for FWB / NSA and moves to text. She's using pics of some * girl. I found it through an image search that had a few twitter hits. I blocked and reported her so can't share the link to her page now.
BumbaCloth
11-30-22, 17:51
She asked for 3 k allowance.
So I have not seen her, but exchanged several message with her about 4 years ago. So she has been around. I believe she is a hair stylist in the suburbs or exurbs. The reason I remember her is she was asking for an allowance that clear GPS. I know it was at least $$ But her pics were nice and she did seem to have that crazy hair dresser vibe.
BumbaCloth
11-30-22, 17:54
Naanii is a pro she on listcrawler.
https://members.seeking.com/member/b75039f1-fff7-4557-9a01-17db5edbda8e
https://www.eros.com/georgia/atlanta/files/2131029.htm
If they are selling ass, their amateur status is gone.
Naanii is a pro she on listcrawler.
https://members.seeking.com/member/b75039f1-fff7-4557-9a01-17db5edbda8e
https://www.eros.com/georgia/atlanta/files/2131029.htm
That's called a girlfriend. And if that your thing, well more power to you.That made me laugh out loud when I read it. And yeah, that is my "thing".
Nothing against those of you who are looking to smash PPM, but I prefer the longer term relationships. Different strokes for different folks right? I'm married, I use SA to find girls who have a fantasy of being in a relationship with an older man and don't mind being the side chick. The best ones prefer it. It's not easy to find a girl with the right mindset, but when you do, damn it can be good.
The girls I look for and wind up dating are going through a phase in life where they're either focused on finishing school or starting their career and they're tired of the shit they have to deal with from guys their own age. They want an older man who treats them with respect, doesn't make them pay for dinner or drinks and knows how to keep them cumming over and over. If you get a good one she'll be mature enough to accept it for exactly what it is and give you the ride of your life for a year or two until she gets it out of her system and decides she's ready to find someone (else) to settle down with.
I've been fortunate enough to have done this several times; the girl I've been seeing for about a year now is an extraordinarily sweet, pretty 26 year old that falls squarely into the description above. She's a college grad, working hard to establish her career and is doing pretty well for herself. She doesn't want to even think about looking for a husband until she's 30. But she does want a good man in her life to keep her physically satisfied. We're in an exclusive relationship and we're both pretty happy about it. She does consider herself my girlfriend, and to be completely honest I'm good with that. She doesn't just respect my boundaries for our relationship, she embraces them. It's truly 100% drama free. But most importantly, she puts it on me hard every time I see her and acts like I'm doing *her* a favor. It's really hard to explain just how far she goes out of her way to accommodate all of my needs and make sure I'm always completely fulfilled ... it's almost too good to be true. I get all I can handle (and then some) and it doesn't cost me a dime outside of the dinners we share together. It's really tough to complain.
BumbaCloth
11-30-22, 22:43
Any info on her?
https://members.seeking.com/member/536bc084-f26f-4d13-a9f7-1809d583944c
That made me laugh out loud when I read it. And yeah, that is my "thing".
Nothing against those of you who are looking to smash PPM, but I prefer the longer term relationships. Different strokes for different folks right? I'm married, I use SA to find girls who have a fantasy of being in a relationship with an older man and don't mind being the side chick. The best ones prefer it. It's not easy to find a girl with the right mindset, but when you do, damn it can be good.
The girls I look for and wind up dating are going through a phase in life where they're either focused on finishing school or starting their career and they're tired of the shit they have to deal with from guys their own age. They want an older man who treats them with respect, doesn't make them pay for dinner or drinks and knows how to keep them cumming over and over. If you get a good one she'll be mature enough to accept it for exactly what it is and give you the ride of your life for a year or two until she gets it out of her system and decides she's ready to find someone (else) to settle down with.
I've been fortunate enough to have done this several times; the girl I've been seeing for about a year now is an extraordinarily sweet, pretty 26 year old that falls squarely into the description above. She's a college grad, working hard to establish her career and is doing pretty well for herself. She doesn't want to even think about looking for a husband until she's 30. But she does want a good man in her life to keep her physically satisfied. We're in an exclusive relationship and we're both pretty happy about it. She does consider herself my girlfriend, and to be completely honest I'm good with that. She doesn't just respect my boundaries for our relationship, she embraces them. It's truly 100% drama free. But most importantly, she puts it on me hard every time I see her and acts like I'm doing *her* a favor. It's really hard to explain just how far she goes out of her way to accommodate all of my needs and make sure I'm always completely fulfilled ... it's almost too good to be true. I get all I can handle (and then some) and it doesn't cost me a dime outside of the dinners we share together. It's really tough to complain.You're only paying dinner with no allowance? Nice deal.
FarFarAway
12-01-22, 01:34
You're only paying dinner with no allowance? Nice deal.I can tell you that Mr. JoyDrop is the real deal. There are some people here who claim that there is no such thing as a guy having game, and that the deal you make w / a girl is simply a financial transaction. He is the exception to that rule for sure. I don't think many of us have his talents, so we can't exactly mimic his strategy, but we can aspire to it.
I met a 30's girl off SA recently, the GM of an auto dealership. Tall slender and pretty MILF (maybe needs a little trip to the dentist). I focused on overall interactions w / her in the M&G, didn't spend much time at all on the sexual part. I did ask what sort of gift she needed to FC, her non-committal response was something like 'oh, I do pretty well for myself, but I'm a girl, I like to get my hair done, my manicures, etc. And that is what I get out of an arrangement. ' Well I am still in the dark on allowance based on that. So I guessed. I am in California where the market is high, but I got her a gift card to Lululemon for 100, and 250 cash. Oh, yes, and a $7 bouquet from the grocery store. Well, in the FC, she was the bomb. Totally amazing 37 D boobs, all natural, bearing very dark and very large nipples. Which commanded attention for a long long time. Many funs were had. She is incredibly submissive, just begged to be told what to do.
Texting her after, DYK what she said? That the gifts I got her were amazing, and the flowers she put in her office. I went overboard. I should have just given her the 250 and the flowers.
I've been on seeking for over a year and last month my account was put on hold pending verification. I don't think it's because of anything I said because I stay very generic until we get offsite. I removed the app and I'm probably done with SA.
Has anyone had this experience?
What could have caused this after a year paying for the site?
Has anyone done this verification?I did not do the verification, but this is the process copied from a seeking email.
To do so on your browser:
1. Log into your account.
2. Click on 'Get Verified'.
3. Select the 'Start'.
4. You'll have the option to continue the process on your mobile device (by scanning the QR code) or continuing on your browser.
5. Submit the front of your I'd.
6. Submit the back of your I'd (If you are submitting a passport, scan the front of your passport twice).
7. Take a selfie and then follow the rest of the prompts to complete your submission.
If you decide to just open a new account, use a new method of payment because they will cross reference and suspend the new account.
Few things to add:
Most gift cards (like Vanilla) will not work if used for a recurring subscription so only use them for a one-time fee.
Retail vanilla card only allows you to set a PIN online, not a billing zip code.
A vanilla account lets you buy virtual vanilla cards online but does not seem to allow you to add a retail purchased (physical) card to the vanilla account or a billing zip code to a retail card.
If you add a new seeking account, use a new payment method because seeking will cross reference payment methods and ban new account.
So. I'm not an expert, I learned this over a past few frustrating daysI'm going to use a Publix card as suggested below.
Ok, I appreciate those who helped me in the past with getting back on Seeking, after getting banned, so I thought I would write a short guide for others. (And even if you aren't banned, there are some tips about what prepaid cards seem to work to renew subscriptions).
1. Make a brand new Seeking account, with all new information. I usually just do this at home, behind a VPN, and with a new Proton email address. But you could use public wifi if you preferred. Sometimes it will insta-ban that newly created account, and other times it will let you proceed. But I would assume that gmail, or similar, is probably even more likely to work. (Don't use your regular naked home IP address, as that's just careless and ill advised).
The girls I look for and wind up dating are going through a phase in life where they're either focused on finishing school or starting their career and they're tired of the shit they have to deal with from guys their own age. They want an older man who treats them with respect, doesn't make them pay for dinner or drinks and knows how to keep them cumming over and over. If you get a good one she'll be mature enough to accept it for exactly what it is and give you the ride of your life for a year or two until she gets it out of her system and decides she's ready to find someone (else) to settle down with.
I've been fortunate enough to have done this several times; the girl I've been seeing for about a year now is an extraordinarily sweet, pretty 26 year old that falls squarely into the description above. She's a college grad, working hard to establish her career and is doing pretty well for herself. She doesn't want to even think about looking for a husband until she's 30. But she does want a good man in her life to keep her physically satisfied. We're in an exclusive relationship and we're both pretty happy about it. She does consider herself my girlfriend, and to be completely honest I'm good with that. She doesn't just respect my boundaries for our relationship, she embraces them. It's truly 100% drama free. But most importantly, she puts it on me hard every time I see her and acts like I'm doing *her* a favor. It's really hard to explain just how far she goes out of her way to accommodate all of my needs and make sure I'm always completely fulfilled ... it's almost too good to be true. I get all I can handle (and then some) and it doesn't cost me a dime outside of the dinners we share together. It's really tough to complain.
26 is right about the age that I find this mindset tends to emerge in them. I've actually come to prefer the 18-25 year old range, because I can be fairly sure they aren't going to start dropping hints that they want to be my sugar-free girlfriend after the second fuck session. 26 or over and it seems to happen more often than it doesn't. I understand why some are in search of that, because once they've decided they want that it can lead to some amazing sugar-free sex, but I find there are side effects that occur when their mind is in "girl friend mode". Like they start wanting to know too much about me, they text constantly and otherwise become clingy, etc. I'm really only in it for the sex and fun, I don't need the relationship responsibilities. For that reason I go a bit younger. It still happens to some extent if they are over 21, but I haven't had much problems with clingy behavior in the 18-20 age range.
FarFarAway
12-01-22, 10:32
Few things to add:
Most gift cards (like Vanilla) will not work if used for a recurring subscription so only use them for a one-time fee.
Retail vanilla card only allows you to set a PIN online, not a billing zip code.
A vanilla account lets you buy virtual vanilla cards online but does not seem to allow you to add a retail purchased (physical) card to the vanilla account or a billing zip code to a retail card.
If you add a new seeking account, use a new payment method because seeking will cross reference payment methods and ban new account.
So. I'm not an expert, I learned this over a past few frustrating daysI'm going to use a Publix card as suggested below.You definitely got it right when you said you aren't an expert. Track down my posts in the past month on this topic. Use a OneVanilla prepaid debit card. Those can be hard to locate. They are in packaging w / a vertical window. You must Phone in to the 800# to set a zip code for the card so it can be "used for pay at the pump and online purchases". Once you do that, it will work seamlessly first time for online purchase of membership on seeking. I only ever get a month at a time. No reason to do more.
Member #6718
12-01-22, 11:22
26 is right about the age that I find this mindset tends to emerge in them. I've actually come to prefer the 18-25 year old range, because I can be fairly sure they aren't going to start dropping hints that they want to be my sugar-free girlfriend after the second fuck session. 26 or over and it seems to happen more often than it doesn't. I understand why some are in search of that, because once they've decided they want that it can lead to some amazing sugar-free sex, but I find there are side effects that occur when their mind is in "girl friend mode". Like they start wanting to know too much about me, they text constantly and otherwise become clingy, etc. I'm really only in it for the sex and fun, I don't need the relationship responsibilities. For that reason I go a bit younger. It still happens to some extent if they are over 21, but I haven't had much problems with clingy behavior in the 18-20 age range.Funnily enough I have had the opposite experience. I find 26+ they start getting a bit pro about it. For some unknown reason my magic age spot is 23 LOL. This year I have had at least three 23 year olds who have ended up dating me fairly normally, sugar free or "light" sugar (just nice dinners, events, little help with the odd bill etc). I think I may be getting into a relationship with one of them.
Funnily enough I have had the opposite experience. I find 26+ they start getting a bit pro about it. For some unknown reason my magic age spot is 23 LOL. This year I have had at least three 23 year olds who have ended up dating me fairly normally, sugar free or "light" sugar (just nice dinners, events, little help with the odd bill etc). I think I may be getting into a relationship with one of them.I agree that 23-ish is somewhat of a "magic spot", in terms of the right combination of being interested enough in a "real" relationship such that they aren't focused on money, but not yet into the 26+ category where they are already exhibiting signs of "OMG my clock is ticking I'm almost 30" etc.
But I guess I was trying to convey that 26+ becomes my "be careful" threshold in terms of going out of my way to be sure I'm not getting involved in a clingy / drama situation where she is expecting me to be a boyfriend.
I don't generally equate 26+ with necessarily becoming more pro -- I've certainly known the types that gravitate in that direction but I think in general something about my sugar workflow seems to be good at avoiding the pro-minded or UTR escort types. But yes in general, if they are of that type then it does get worse with age.
Member #6718
12-01-22, 12:11
I agree that 23-ish is somewhat of a "magic spot", in terms of the right combination of being interested enough in a "real" relationship such that they aren't focused on money, but not yet into the 26+ category where they are already exhibiting signs of "OMG my clock is ticking I'm almost 30" etc.
But I guess I was trying to convey that 26+ becomes my "be careful" threshold in terms of going out of my way to be sure I'm not getting involved in a clingy / drama situation where she is expecting me to be a boyfriend.
I don't generally equate 26+ with necessarily becoming more pro -- I've certainly known the types that gravitate in that direction but I think in general something about my sugar workflow seems to be good at avoiding the pro-minded or UTR escort types. But yes in general, if they are of that type then it does get worse with age.That all makes a lot of sense.
My MO is a little different. I am single, and enjoy dating younger chicks. So if they end up wanting it to be more of regular relationship, and I am into them, then I am generally 100% down with that. My challenge in my home turf is most of the chicks these days tend to be more pro about it all.
That all makes a lot of sense.
My MO is a little different. I am single, and enjoy dating younger chicks. So if they end up wanting it to be more of regular relationship, and I am into them, then I am generally 100% down with that. My challenge in my home turf is most of the chicks these days tend to be more pro about it all.I can relate to that. To some extent I do enjoy the dating aspect, but I mean dating literally; in other words I enjoy taking them out for drinks / music / food etc and just being in the presence of crowds while having a stunner that's approx 1/3 my age on my arm etc. But by no means am I interested in any sort of real or long-term relationship with any SB. This is simply because I already have a LTR that meets all of my relationship needs with the exception of my need for sex on the side. I have met a few that were really special, and I enjoyed all aspects of their personality and company so much that I thought to myself "if I didn't already have someone, I would probably not be able to send this one away".
I actually think that the fact that I am in a LTR and not interested in anything but superficial fun is a big part of the reason so many of these girls start trying to reel me in as a boyfriend. Women can sense when a man is not emotionally available and there is something in their nature that makes them want what they can't have -- their desire for the guy's attention becomes amplified, as does their desire to please. The hot ones, in particular, have such a high opinion of themselves and are so used to a relentless onslaught of male attention and clingy dudes, that when they meet a guy who seems to already have his needs met, they start trying to find ways to be needed.
So, as a strategy for SDs in general, I can definitely recommend the idea of having some relationship (gf, wife whatever) where the heart goes, keeps it out of the sugar equation entirely, and separates it from how your dollars are spent. But then, continue to sugar in a way that doesn't jeopardize the relationship. This not only fends off emotionally charged expenditures, but as mentioned invokes that magnetism that will have SBs competing for attention and offering lots of free pussy, sometimes on the first or second date. I've had some that tried to rope me into a "valid sugarless dating situation" in the first hour of the first date, before the FC even happened.
I said "as a strategy" even though that's not the reason I'm in an LTR, I'm just playing the hand I was dealt so to speak. But if something ever happened to my relationship, I would probably look for ways to get back into that position.
I think to some extent, unless SBs are really in it strictly as an escorting mechanism, by default they are likely to put up a wall and be a bit more pro / UTR by default if they sense a guy is single, emotionally available, and interested in more than sex from her. They may relax that over time once they see that the guy isn't clingy or needy. I do the exact same thing with someone new. I've been accused of having a "player mentality" because of this (I guess in the sugar scene that's the male personality equivalent of UTR / pro), in other words not giving a fuck enough in the beginning until I know the girl is cool and will not hound me relentlessly and text me all day every day.
Oliver is spot-on with this analysis. I read so many posts by guys who can't seem to find success in the bowl. If you can't find it, you really need to take a look at yourself, your goals and your approach because You are the one thing in common with all your failures. Insanity is trying the same thing over and over and expecting a different result, right?
I cruise a lot of the SB boards between Richmond and Jacksonville, and Atlanta has certainly become the go-to place for developing and honing your strategies. And I can certainly agree with the "keep them at arm's length" philosophy. If you don't want a traditional relationship, you Must keep them guessing and working for it. Once they decide you're hooked, their efforts to please begin to drop off. When that happens, don't be afraid to cut it off and move on. You found her, you'll find another.
I can relate to that. To some extent I do enjoy the dating aspect, but I mean dating literally; in other words I enjoy taking them out for drinks / music / food etc. and just being in the presence of crowds while having a stunner that's approx 1/3 my age on my arm etc. But by no means am I interested in any sort of real or long-term relationship with any SB. This is simply because I already have a LTR that meets all of my relationship needs with the exception of my need for sex on the side. I have met a few that were really special, and I enjoyed all aspects of their personality and company so much that I thought to myself "if I didn't already have someone, I would probably not be able to send this one away".
I actually think that the fact that I am in a LTR and not interested in anything but superficial fun is a big part of the reason so many of these girls start trying to reel me in as a boyfriend. Women can sense when a man is not emotionally available and there is something in their nature that makes them want what they can't have -- their desire for the guy's attention becomes amplified, as does their desire to please. The hot ones, in particular, have such a high opinion of themselves and are so used to a relentless onslaught of male attention and clingy dudes, that when they meet a guy who seems to already have his needs met, they start trying to find ways to be needed.
So, as a strategy for SDs in general, I can definitely recommend the idea of having some relationship (gf, wife whatever) where the heart goes, keeps it out of the sugar equation entirely, and separates it from how your dollars are spent. But then, continue to sugar in a way that doesn't jeopardize the relationship. This not only fends off emotionally charged expenditures, but as mentioned invokes that magnetism that will have SBs competing for attention and offering lots of free pussy, sometimes on the first or second date. I've had some that tried to rope me into a "valid sugarless dating situation" in the first hour of the first date, before the FC even happened.
Oliver is spot-on with this analysis. I read so many posts by guys who can't seem to find success in the bowl. If you can't find it, you really need to take a look at yourself, your goals and your approach because You are the one thing in common with all your failures. Insanity is trying the same thing over and over and expecting a different result, right?
I think there are a number of reasons guys have bad experiences or low success rates in the bowl. Here we probably read about them more simply because the forum is geared toward the escort scene, and if a guy goes into the sugar lifestyle as an alternative to escorts, they are probably undermining their own success and would be better of just sticking to escorts. Sugaring, when done optimally, really is different than the simple transactional matter of paying for sex. The good SBs will always be able to detect the guys that haven't figured that out and will actively avoid them, thus the disappointment we sometimes read about here.
SeekingHead
12-02-22, 14:11
I think there are a number of reasons guys have bad experiences or low success rates in the bowl. Here we probably read about them more simply because the forum is geared toward the escort scene, and if a guy goes into the sugar lifestyle as an alternative to escorts, they are probably undermining their own success and would be better of just sticking to escorts. Sugaring, when done optimally, really is different than the simple transactional matter of paying for sex. The good SBs will always be able to detect the guys that haven't figured that out and will actively avoid them, thus the disappointment we sometimes read about here.If you treat the girls like a mistress you will have a lot of success in the bowl, sugaring is what the early 20th century mistress has turned into. Successful men would have a mitress who they saw a couple of times of week back then it was widely accepted.
A lot of guys who are knew to sugaring treat it like an escort experience which it isn't.
NewAnonymousName
12-02-22, 14:25
If you treat the girls like a mistress you will have a lot of success in the bowl, sugaring is what the early 20th century mistress has turned into. Successful men would have a mitress who they saw a couple of times of week back then it was widely accepted.
A lot of guys who are knew to sugaring treat it like an escort experience which it isn't.In defense of those guys treating it like an escort experience, there are a lot of escorts in the bowl too. One of the time sinks on Seeking for me is trying to sort through those who are by the hour hos and those that are more like a mistress. I've had some incredible long term SBs, so it's worth the effort, but it definitely takes time and patience.
FarFarAway
12-02-22, 14:41
Oliver is spot-on with this analysis. I read so many posts by guys who can't seem to find success in the bowl. If you can't find it, you really need to take a look at yourself, your goals and your approach because You are the one thing in common with all your failures. Insanity is trying the same thing over and over and expecting a different result, right?
I cruise a lot of the SB boards between Richmond and Jacksonville, and Atlanta has certainly become the go-to place for developing and honing your strategies. And I can certainly agree with the "keep them at arm's length" philosophy. If you don't want a traditional relationship, you Must keep them guessing and working for it. Once they decide you're hooked, their efforts to please begin to drop off. When that happens, don't be afraid to cut it off and move on. You found her, you'll find another.I will throw in my 2 cents. The experience some of you guys are reporting, it I think is most available to dudes in their 40's. I am past Medicare eligibility, there isn't a lot of opportunity for that for me. However, I do have experience w / long term SBs who were getting minimal sugar and we really had great relationships, intellectually, emotionally, and physically, we just never even got close to BF / GF thing. That includes a 40's MILF and a 20's coed. I have a SO.
The Richmond thread has been the de facto national sugaring thread for some time, the 6+ years I've been on this board. If Atlanta wants to take over that would be OK. It really is helpful to have a central place to go to for how-tos about all aspects of this lifestyle.
In defense of those guys treating it like an escort experience, there are a lot of escorts in the bowl too. One of the time sinks on Seeking for me is trying to sort through those who are by the hour hos and those that are more like a mistress. I've had some incredible long term SBs, so it's worth the effort, but it definitely takes time and patience.The same is true about any place that women hang go with the intention (or willingness) to meet guys. It includes bars, "regular" online dating sites, strip clubs, etc.
In my bar hopping days, it was not unusual to hit on a girl and then have her drop a hint that pay for play was available. Sometimes I was able to turn it into free sex, sometimes not. Get a little alcohol down any girl and the line between a hooker and a civilian can get quite blurred. Women pursue sex for the sake of the sexual experience sometimes, but the hot ones know that they can get that need easily met plus some money, and many of them figure why not do so.
But the thing is with Seeking, the site itself is actively taking measures to stomp out escort activity. So, despite the fact they are there, it's ultimately a pretty stupid place for either an escort or a john to be, since there are so many other ways to get what they both want. I say the same thing about pic sellers and buyers. For the love of fuck they have dedicated specialty sites for that. Use them.
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