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DiscreetMeet
01-05-21, 18:24
How reliable is this? Anyway to tell which are the bots and which are real? For instance, this one:
https://www.seeking.com/member/6d6fbbb5-414e-447a-9e27-dfe45483cb44
Really interested in this. The real MILF type but I truly wonder if someone that looks that good would be hanging around on this site?
Any recommended "tips" ?
Beware!
https://www.ripoffreport.com/report/katie-lewicki/atlanta-georgia-stole-wallet-1503445
I just found this post.
Katybaby220 is still on SA.
SoonerFan72
01-05-21, 19:23
How reliable is this? Anyway to tell which are the bots and which are real? For instance, this one:
https://www.seeking.com/member/6d6fbbb5-414e-447a-9e27-dfe45483cb44
Really interested in this. The real MILF type but I truly wonder if someone that looks that good would be hanging around on this site?
Any recommended "tips" ?Yes their are hot women, really hot women, that are on the site and want to hook up. There are also tons of scammers. You have to learn to read the profile, and use common sense. My golden rule before I meet anyone, is to get a specific picture from them. Have them take a pic holding up 3 fingers, or write your name on a piece of paper and take a selfie. Ladies that are legit, and want to meet, won't even hesitate. Scammers and fakes will likely ghost you once you ask for the pic. Its a simple way to verify they are the person in the pics, as well as getting a real time look at what they really look like. I usually ask them to stand in front of a mirror to take the pic, so I can see all of them. If they won't provide the pic, I move on.
PunkedLife
01-05-21, 22:16
Beware!
https://www.ripoffreport.com/report/katie-lewicki/atlanta-georgia-stole-wallet-1503445
I just found this post.
Katybaby220 is still on SA.Never had issues with her although haven't seen her in a while due to personal circumstances. Anyways whenever I meet her I choose the spot and I make sure I put my pants with my wallet on the side of the dresser away from the door. And I'm usually with her for like 3 plus hrs and we have never discussed prices. Even though I've seen her a lot I still wouldn't trust her farther than I could see her. Plus I think she got a handler tbh. Her "Uber rides" be suspect LOL anyways good on the heads up. Not defending her just pointing out to never get lax around these hoes. At the end of the day they can call themselves sb or escorts but they as bad as them street girls if they see an easy target. She didn't have to suck much dick and got way more than originally agreed upon. Win for her. I put her to work when I see her LOL.
Yes their are hot women, really hot women, that are on the site and want to hook up. There are also tons of scammers. You have to learn to read the profile, and use common sense. My golden rule before I meet anyone, is to get a specific picture from them. Have them take a pic holding up 3 fingers, or write your name on a piece of paper and take a selfie. Ladies that are legit, and want to meet, won't even hesitate. Scammers and fakes will likely ghost you once you ask for the pic. Its a simple way to verify they are the person in the pics, as well as getting a real time look at what they really look like. I usually ask them to stand in front of a mirror to take the pic, so I can see all of them. If they won't provide the pic, I move on.Great common sense rule. However, they can still be scammers. If they want to be paid in advance. I had one send me pictures I requested and then gave me a location and asked that I send her a picture of the hotel when I arrived. I did then she said: ok, send me $100 and then you can come up. I was like let me come up then I'll send it to you. She started getting mad at me. I gave her one last chance and she wanted the advance so I ended the convo.
Just because they are real doesn't mean then aren't thieves. Be careful! And have fun with the real ones.
HotLantaMike
01-06-21, 11:32
Beware!
https://www.ripoffreport.com/report/katie-lewicki/atlanta-georgia-stole-wallet-1503445
I just found this post.
Katybaby220 is still on SA.There was this from a couple years ago when she was Katiebaby190.
https://www.seeking.com/member/00e4561e-c7fe-4729-aa80-b0b2be712e59
She wants allowance the minute we meet. Big red flag and I passed.
This one got upset when I asked her how much was she asking for she wanted to know how much I was willing to pay.
https://www.seeking.com/messages/inbox/393d68a9-964a-4843-9ea5-2bac8e5025b7
Meg818 "Lmao. Wow. I feel like this ain't going to work. You just want to lowball or something and I'm not mine of those stupid bitches. J get plenty of messages so good luck I guess".
This girls are something else.
NewAnonymousName
01-07-21, 12:00
How reliable is this? Anyway to tell which are the bots and which are real? For instance, this one:
https://www.seeking.com/member/6d6fbbb5-414e-447a-9e27-dfe45483cb44
Really interested in this. The real MILF type but I truly wonder if someone that looks that good would be hanging around on this site?
Any recommended "tips" ?She's the real deal. Great in bed. A little chunky, but with large tits and a very attractive face, especially for her age.
Okay fellow mongers going to try to start 2021 by attempting to review more SA ladies that in 2020. I will not give out phone numbers and will only provide a compensation range. It's up to you to negotiate your financial compensation.
So Princess21_217.
https://www.seeking.com/member/8f034bcc-14ef-4f46-bf49-106f25de4285
Review: She is your typical twenty something entitled woman. Her picture a close, but she is probably 10 to 15 lbs heavier. Not sure what her employment status is, but then do we really care. Generally available anytime (I got a text from her at 10 am to come visit yesterday, smh). Comms are average to good, she doesn't blast your phone endlessly with money demands, but definitely make sure you let her know what isn't acceptable when it come to that. Compensation range was $200 - $300 range. DTF on first date and she can host at her place. She has good hygiene and keeps the cooch clean as well. I'm fixed so BBFS was okay. I don't remember if she said she was on birth control, but whatever. No head, she claims she was forced to do that by her ex and has some issues with it. Positions she seems to be good with are doggy and mish. Not sure the 3rd hole is in play, and I didn't ask. Overall she is a warm hole to dump a load when you are looking for release. Would I go out of the way to make her a regular, no.
Stay safe,
Jims2321.
HotLantaMike
01-07-21, 19:24
She's the real deal. Great in bed. A little chunky, but with large tits and a very attractive face, especially for her age.She looks good. Just curious what the Fee was and how long?
Okay fellow mongers going to try to start 2021 by attempting to review more SA ladies that in 2020. I will not give out phone numbers and will only provide a compensation range. It's up to you to negotiate your financial compensation.
So Princess21_217.
https://www.seeking.com/member/8f034bcc-14ef-4f46-bf49-106f25de4285
Review: She is your typical twenty something entitled woman. Her picture a close, but she is probably 10 to 15 lbs heavier. Not sure what her employment status is, but then do we really care. Generally available anytime (I got a text from her at 10 am to come visit yesterday, smh). Comms are average to good, she doesn't blast your phone endlessly with money demands, but definitely make sure you let her know what isn't acceptable when it come to that. Compensation range was $200 - $300 range. DTF on first date and she can host at her place. She has good hygiene and keeps the cooch clean as well. I'm fixed so BBFS was okay. I don't remember if she said she was on birth control, but whatever. No head, she claims she was forced to do that by her ex and has some issues with it. Positions she seems to be good with are doggy and mish. Not sure the 3rd hole is in play, and I didn't ask. Overall she is a warm hole to dump a load when you are looking for release. Would I go out of the way to make her a regular, no..I spent months trying to nail her down, when we finally met she wouldn't stop complaining. Entitled isn't the word for it, more like severely damaged. Take your chance with her, but I wouldn't recommend.
Okay fellow mongers going to try to start 2021 by attempting to review more SA ladies that in 2020. I will not give out phone numbers and will only provide a compensation range. It's up to you to negotiate your financial compensation.
So Princess21_217.
https://www.seeking.com/member/8f034bcc-14ef-4f46-bf49-106f25de4285
Review: She is your typical twenty something entitled woman. Her picture a close, but she is probably 10 to 15 lbs heavier. Not sure what her employment status is, but then do we really care. Generally available anytime (I got a text from her at 10 am to come visit yesterday, smh). Comms are average to good, she doesn't blast your phone endlessly with money demands, but definitely make sure you let her know what isn't acceptable when it come to that. Compensation range was $200 - $300 range. DTF on first date and she can host at her place. She has good hygiene and keeps the cooch clean as well. I'm fixed so BBFS was okay. I don't remember if she said she was on birth control, but whatever. No head, she claims she was forced to do that by her ex and has some issues with it. Positions she seems to be good with are doggy and mish. Not sure the 3rd hole is in play, and I didn't ask. Overall she is a warm hole to dump a load when you are looking for release. Would I go out of the way to make her a regular, no.
Stay safe,
Jims2321.300 No head 2 Positions and only good for a basic relief of desperation. That's the review in short. Who would know this ahead of time and still do it? Wow. 😲 That's another level of sad. Can't even be called GPS she's just horrible to consider. I wouldn't even give her basic Escort QV rates.
300 No head 2 Positions and only good for a basic relief of desperation. That's the review in short. Who would know this ahead of time and still do it? Wow. 😲 That's another level of sad. Can't even be called GPS she's just horrible to consider. I wouldn't even give her basic Escort QV rates.I saw her several months back before this guys review. She's got a nice big ass but that is her only redeeming quality, I wouldn't piss on her if she was on fire.
Is SA worth the money? I have been using WhatsYourPrice and SecretBenefits. There are lots of pretty girls on WYP and SB, but most want $500-1000 on a weekly basis. I guess the escort market has jaded me, and I am looking to spend less than 300.
Is SA worth the money? I have been using WhatsYourPrice and SecretBenefits. There are lots of pretty girls on WYP and SB, but most want $500-1000 on a weekly basis. I guess the escort market has jaded me, and I am looking to spend less than 300.You can absolutely meet lots a ladies on SA for less than 300. Read the reviews, 200 is actually very common. Now, most of the time you'll either need to use your place or get a hotel room. That adds to your cost. But you can line up more than one meet and in essence split the cost of a hotel.
SA does take time. There's a lot of scammers and flakes on there. You'll have to wade through that and may need to do a meet and greet first before actually getting to have fun. You'll meet all kinds on there. There are pros and semi-pros that use SA and if you're interested you could meet quickly. For the non-pros, it may take time for them to get comfortable with you.
Is SA worth the money? I have been using WhatsYourPrice and SecretBenefits. There are lots of pretty girls on WYP and SB, but most want $500-1000 on a weekly basis. I guess the escort market has jaded me, and I am looking to spend less than 300.But I don't think SA is worth the new price. As soon as my current subscription runs out, I'm done with it.
SeekingHead
01-10-21, 15:39
You can absolutely meet lots a ladies on SA for less than 300. Read the reviews, 200 is actually very common. Now, most of the time you'll either need to use your place or get a hotel room. That adds to your cost. But you can line up more than one meet and in essence split the cost of a hotel.
SA does take time. There's a lot of scammers and flakes on there. You'll have to wade through that and may need to do a meet and greet first before actually getting to have fun. You'll meet all kinds on there. There are pros and semi-pros that use SA and if you're interested you could meet quickly. For the non-pros, it may take time for them to get comfortable with you.I have two girls currently in the rotation & both are $200 ppm. I can host & prefer to host, usually we meet up on a weekday night. With Covid I either cook or pickup carryout like sushi or thai, before Covid dinner date then back to the crib.
But I don't think SA is worth the new price. As soon as my current subscription runs out, I'm done with it.I'm trying to get as many contacts as possible before my subscription runs out. Lately I've only seen one as the several girls I talked to were flakes or asking too much. And of course obvious scams. But overall it pretty good and you have a lot more freedom to do whatever you want with them.
I saw her several months back before this guys review. She's got a nice big ass but that is her only redeeming quality, I wouldn't piss on her if she was on fire.Ever wonder why a lot of members don't post, is shit responses like these two yahoos. I didn't post for you to critic the review, but to provide information about the lady in my review. If that is all you can do, please let me know and I will stop posting any reviews, because clearly the women I have met are too ugly and pricey.
Anyone have feedback on her? Nice ass and 18. Bit thicker though. Definitely not a pro. Seems like she just got engaged a couple months ago, but active as of this week.
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/XlOvwWa609P74PZ5ozpZgVeD
https://www.instagram.com/yfw.shawty/
DiscreetMeet
01-10-21, 20:35
Great common sense rule. However, they can still be scammers. If they want to be paid in advance. I had one send me pictures I requested and then gave me a location and asked that I send her a picture of the hotel when I arrived. I did then she said: ok, send me $100 and then you can come up. I was like let me come up then I'll send it to you. She started getting mad at me. I gave her one last chance and she wanted the advance so I ended the convo.
Just because they are real doesn't mean then aren't thieves. Be careful! And have fun with the real ones.For my fellow mongers that have SA memberships how are you paying that cost? Given that I have an SO, I try to go strictly with cash and gift cards. The market has changed recently for some things, for instance OnlyFans won't take certain VISA gift cards. So, what's the best way to get a membership that goes go on the "books" ?
Thanks for all the help and info. I really want to get a piece of that MistressforMoney. If anyone has contact info for her they'd be willing to share, help a brother out.
Thanks. Stay safe.
DM.
Member #6704
01-10-21, 21:35
1).
https://www.seeking.com/member/7a05daba-2f41-4ff8-ab65-94411159a3e3
2).
https://www.seeking.com/member/0e75472f-0736-4564-9725-3079ce75ba93
3).
https://www.seeking.com/member/3af0c564-06f3-412a-91d0-58e7b7c02323
SugarDaddio
01-10-21, 22:36
Harley you are absolutely right. I totally agree that there are plenty of very nice girls on SA for 200. As you say it takes time and patience but the returns ares well worth the investment in IMHO. My rule of thumb is I host then 200, if they can host then maybe go 300. Pretty much the same costs either way. I'm like you and like to host. I have been very successful with not many meet and greets but willing to do so if that is what the woman wants. Many times I find if you offer a meet and greet it kind of makes them feel comfortable enough to come straight to your hotel room. Every week there are new woman on the site for the same geographical area. It simply amazes me the number of opportunities there are.
As always May The Pussy Be With You.
SD.
You can absolutely meet lots a ladies on SA for less than 300. Read the reviews, 200 is actually very common. Now, most of the time you'll either need to use your place or get a hotel room. That adds to your cost. But you can line up more than one meet and in essence split the cost of a hotel.
SA does take time. There's a lot of scammers and flakes on there. You'll have to wade through that and may need to do a meet and greet first before actually getting to have fun. You'll meet all kinds on there. There are pros and semi-pros that use SA and if you're interested you could meet quickly. For the non-pros, it may take time for them to get comfortable with you.
Machintosh
01-10-21, 22:51
1).
https://www.seeking.com/member/7a05daba-2f41-4ff8-ab65-94411159a3e3
2).
https://www.seeking.com/member/0e75472f-0736-4564-9725-3079ce75ba93
3).
https://www.seeking.com/member/3af0c564-06f3-412a-91d0-58e7b7c023231 and 3 only want platonic.
Member #6704
01-11-21, 00:09
1 and 3 only want platonic.Thank you.
DocHolliday35
01-11-21, 08:29
Is SA worth the money? I have been using WhatsYourPrice and SecretBenefits. There are lots of pretty girls on WYP and SB, but most want $500-1000 on a weekly basis. I guess the escort market has jaded me, and I am looking to spend less than 300.I get a hotel room and am willing to pay 200. There are some married nympho's on that site who you can hookup with for free. I prefer somebody intelligent I can have a conversation and a glass of wine with before doing the deed. Some of these girls are serious stage 5 clingers though so do not give out your real phone number. And there are those who want to meet every day. My recommendation is to spend a little more time upfront chatting before wasting the time and money on meeting somebody who is platonic or not attractive.
Anyone have feedback on her? Nice ass and 18. Bit thicker though. Definitely not a pro. Seems like she just got engaged a couple months ago, but active as of this week.
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/XlOvwWa609P74PZ5ozpZgVeD
https://www.instagram.com/yfw.shawty/Have you reach out to her? I usually pass over girls who do not have "discreet affairs" in their profile. I guess their are guys willing to pay to date, but if I wanted that I would be on eHarmony.com or Bumble.
Ever wonder why a lot of members don't post, is shit responses like these two yahoos. I didn't post for you to critic the review, but to provide information about the lady in my review. If that is all you can do, please let me know and I will stop posting any reviews, because clearly the women I have met are too ugly and pricey.That was my experience with her, not you. Not sure why you're seeing anything I wrote as a judgement on your part.
YeOldHornDawg
01-11-21, 13:08
For my fellow mongers that have SA memberships how are you paying that cost? Given that I have an SO, I try to go strictly with cash and gift cards. The market has changed recently for some things, for instance OnlyFans won't take certain VISA gift cards. So, what's the best way to get a membership that goes go on the "books" ?
Thanks for all the help and info. I really want to get a piece of that MistressforMoney. If anyone has contact info for her they'd be willing to share, help a brother out.
Thanks. Stay safe.
DM.I've never had an issue using a prepaid Vanilla Visa card that you can buy from Walgreens or Walmart. Just do a month's worth and you shouldn't have much trouble making enough contacts to last you off-site for quite a while.
Anybody got any info on this tall blonde from Cumming. In chats, she has claimed be an Asst Sales Manager at Goodwill.
https://www.seeking.com/member/06bcb2cb-be46-41ae-ba0e-35459324891e
Steel Wolf
01-11-21, 21:25
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/y1WR8M2zJm6we8L5GPLe7j6K - Matched, then she stated she wasn't in Atlanta due to a sick mother. Which given these days. Plausible, except I guess she brought her 3 kids with her. Wants 50 for 5 pics, 75 for a video. She let me counteroffer, and she was extremely unhappy with my counteroffer for a video. I strongly suspect she has no interest in actually meeting anyone IRL, whether she actually has pics / vids of herself for sale is questionable. So it goes.
JeffInnAtlanta
01-11-21, 22:10
Anybody got any info on this tall blonde from Cumming. In chats, she has claimed be an Asst Sales Manager at Goodwill.
https://www.seeking.com/member/06bcb2cb-be46-41ae-ba0e-35459324891eSome guys will remember her as a GB girl a couple years ago. She's flaky sometimes. And she works at Goodwill. But those pics are dated. She's not a spring chicken. The last time I saw her she was worth the 2. 0 commission. But I am not there for the beauty, I am there to pound that pussy.
I've never had an issue using a prepaid Vanilla Visa card that you can buy from Walgreens or Walmart. Just do a month's worth and you shouldn't have much trouble making enough contacts to last you off-site for quite a while.Seeking is going up on the price soon.
TheFrostyOne
01-12-21, 12:47
Anybody got any info on this tall blonde from Cumming. In chats, she has claimed be an Asst Sales Manager at Goodwill.
https://www.seeking.com/member/06bcb2cb-be46-41ae-ba0e-35459324891eYes, I have seen her both at a GB and 1-1. She hosts at her house and that pic is from her garage. She has an assortment of wigs and she likes to dress up with different looks. She's also married (or was) and likes to fuck random dudes in their marital bed. She's a good time and knows her way around a cock. The pics makes her look a little better than she does IRL (she in a wig in that pic), but she's definitely worth a try.
SoonerFan72
01-12-21, 15:06
Seeking is going up on the price soon.It went from $89 a month to $99 a month starting Jan 1st.
Some guys will remember her as a GB girl a couple years ago. She's flaky sometimes. And she works at Goodwill. But those pics are dated. She's not a spring chicken. The last time I saw her she was worth the 2. 0 commission. But I am not there for the beauty, I am there to pound that pussy.No a spring Chicken. Try rode hard and put up wet. I bailed after our meet. Flaky is putting it nicely. She was barely coherent for the conversation.
Scandalously Sweet. I got a chance to visit with this one. The ad is now gone, but pictures are attached. She was in town visiting family during the holiday and was looking for fun. She stated that she was a squirter, and boy was she telling the truth. As I licked and sucked on the kitty, I felt a gush of warm sweetness squirting from the puss. She just kept cumming, and squirming as I licked and sucked. Breasts were a 38 N, red hair up top and shaved below. BBBJ with CIP for two bills. She said she visits a few times a year.
https://www.seeking.com/member/333dac05-ba63-47d9-8a4b-9bf82847d04d
Met with DreamingOfSummer a few times. Her age in profile states 39, but she's closer to 50. Nice pint-sized MILF with good sloppy BBBJ, CFS for $$.5.
This has been my best week so far on SA. I had 5 new SB's last week. I spent over 1 K on gift $$ amounts and hotel rooms, but it sure was fun. LOL. I have more that I'll review & post their profile links once I'm done seeing them.You made it past Dreaming of Summer's list of demands? I met her several months back for coffee and shouldn't have wasted the 5 on the Starbucks. She is much older than she says and only thing attractive is that she's petite. Beyond that, it was only certain days and times, only a certain geography, I had to get a room, and not just any room one that she approved of. She told me 3 $ CFS and BJ which is total GPS. Not worth the $ or the hassle YMMV.
DiscreetMeet
01-12-21, 23:45
Seeking is going up on the price soon.Damn thing keeps getting denied. Does it have to be a real number. I'm trying to use my textfree number. Is that an issue?
Damn thing keeps getting denied. Does it have to be a real number. I'm trying to use my textfree number. Is that an issue?Have you tried associating google or apple pay with the vanilla card and then paying via the mobile app?
Damn thing keeps getting denied. Does it have to be a real number. I'm trying to use my textfree number. Is that an issue?They work, but you sometimes have to wait 24 hours or register them.
SoonerFan72
01-13-21, 13:24
Damn thing keeps getting denied. Does it have to be a real number. I'm trying to use my textfree number. Is that an issue?I use PayPal for all my discreet activities. They will send you a physical debit card to use. You can download the app to your phone, and use it to load cash at local stores such as Walgreens, Walmart, etc. I use my business address for the physical address. Make sure you don't link it to a checking account if you are trying to stay discreet. It works for hotels and SA membership with no issues at all.
Anyone has any information on this one?
https://www.seeking.com/member/4335b37a-1742-4713-9efd-e1a5e46f4fdd
JokeKing11
01-13-21, 16:27
1.
https://www.seeking.com/member/f69c8107-b9df-433f-99a4-b5206cfef1f4
2.
https://www.seeking.com/member/d44a0cd1-e229-4120-ab86-ff577578c51b
3.
https://www.seeking.com/member/a6c759f1-5898-44f2-b4c7-b55e67311a49
4.
https://www.seeking.com/member/fe384ac2-ca9f-4d2f-8e31-d18ba1ddb57f
5.
https://www.seeking.com/member/d593aefe-4845-4f07-975f-0573e3a72bc6
6.
https://www.seeking.com/member/ce721183-1257-48e6-9a05-7e40ef5c7710
7.
https://www.seeking.com/member/4f91d425-d084-4a50-85ab-e2aa28b6dc74
Thanks in advance!
Started talking to this one: https://www.seeking.com/member/0b64e683-1d6e-45c4-94d3-87ba191ff35e.
Stayed on the site for a bit, then moved to Text. All was going well, setup to meet for lunch, etc. However, right before I left to drive there, she hits me with its 450. Seems like a real person, but GPS.
Started talking to this one: https://www.seeking.com/member/0b64e683-1d6e-45c4-94d3-87ba191ff35e.
Stayed on the site for a bit, then moved to Text. All was going well, setup to meet for lunch, etc. However, right before I left to drive there, she hits me with its 450. Seems like a real person, but GPS.Buahahahahahahahaaaaa.
Middle-aged with buck teeth. And Jesus Christ it looks like she put her makeup on with a pallet knife. That picture with a red lipstick oh my God. It would be charity if we were actually going to see her for QV rates. That is some serious GPS right there.
It went from $89 a month to $99 a month starting Jan 1st.I already got a discount offer from them, 25% off. Of course 75 is still higher than the 67 it would have been with a discount last year.
Anyone has any information on this one?
https://www.seeking.com/member/4335b37a-1742-4713-9efd-e1a5e46f4fddShe is looking for $600 per meet.
SugarDaddio
01-13-21, 19:03
How do you know if you are available for a discount?
I already got a discount offer from them, 25% off. Of course 75 is still higher than the 67 it would have been with a discount last year.
You made it past Dreaming of Summer's list of demands? I met her several months back for coffee and shouldn't have wasted the 5 on the Starbucks. She is much older than she says and only thing attractive is that she's petite. Beyond that, it was only certain days and times, only a certain geography, I had to get a room, and not just any room one that she approved of. She told me 3 $ CFS and BJ which is total GPS. Not worth the $ or the hassle YMMV.A lot of you guys have talked about finding the suburban housewife type who loves sex. This is her to a T. Does she have standards (like making sure you don't want her to meet at a hotel that rents by the hour)? Absolutely. Is she asking for an allowance that is totally with the market rate and that she is certainly capable of getting, but may be more than some are willing pay? Yes.
The bottom line is that this is Seeking. Everyone there is free to negotiate terms based on what they want.
But if you are looking for a woman who is cool, easy to deal with, and, if she decides to fuck you, will have a great time doing it, hit her up respectfully and see what happens.
You made it past Dreaming of Summer's list of demands? I met her several months back for coffee and shouldn't have wasted the 5 on the Starbucks. She is much older than she says and only thing attractive is that she's petite. Beyond that, it was only certain days and times, only a certain geography, I had to get a room, and not just any room one that she approved of. She told me 3 $ CFS and BJ which is total GPS. Not worth the $ or the hassle YMMV.A lot of you guys have talked about finding the suburban housewife type who lives sex. This is her to a T. Does she have standards (like making sure you don't want her to meet at a hotel that rents by the hour)? Absolutely. Is she asking for an allowance that is totally with the market rate and that she is certainly capable of getting, but may be more than some are willing pay? Yes.
The bottom line is that this is Seeking. Everyone there is free to negotiate terms based on what they want.
But if you are looking for a woman who is cool, easy to deal with, and, if she decides to fuck you, will have a great time doing it, hit her up respectfully and see what happens.
A lot of you guys have talked about finding the suburban housewife type who lives sex. This is her to a T. Does she have standards (like making sure you don't want her to meet at a hotel that rents by the hour)? Absolutely. Is she asking for an allowance that is totally with the market rate and that she is certainly capable of getting, but may be more than some are willing pay? Yes.
The bottom line is that this is Seeking. Everyone there is free to negotiate terms based on what they want.
But if you are looking for a woman who is cool, easy to deal with, and, if she decides to fuck you, will have a great time doing it, hit her up respectfully and see what happens.Sounds like DreamingOfSummer stopped by and created an account to do some damage control.
She is looking for $600 per meet.I met her 3 years ago and was one of my first experiences. Short, really cute, talkative but not too much. One of the best times I've had honestly. Saw her twice after. Very non rushed and one of best BBBJ I've ever had. If you want a non pro and have the extra, I recommend.
Any info on this petite little redhead who is also on AM. She expressed interest.
https://www.seeking.com/member/c2c0f9f9-9448-4b2b-a75d-c9b481d2821b
She is looking for $600 per meet.Have you spoken to her or met with her?
Sounds like DreamingOfSummer stopped by and created an account to do some damage control.I see why'd you think that. But I knew that she was going to see my response and probably correctly guess who I am. Did not want her to be able to see my posting history. So I created a new User Id.
I met her 3 years ago and was one of my first experiences. Short, really cute, talkative but not too much. One of the best times I've had honestly. Saw her twice after. Very non rushed and one of best BBBJ I've ever had. If you want a non pro and have the extra, I recommend.Thanks for the update. Her account has been out there for a while.
PunkedLife
01-14-21, 22:05
Any info on this petite little redhead who is also on AM. She expressed interest.
https://www.seeking.com/member/c2c0f9f9-9448-4b2b-a75d-c9b481d2821bShe's been reviewed on the escort thread a few times. Nothing good has been said. My personal experience with her back in 2015 was her wasting my time by being in the bathroom doing whatever the fuck drug she was doing. Sex was OK. Lately I've heard she has gotten a lot worse. Like straight crack head SW type experience from what I got from the review. Either way she is a pro. Probably better off looking elsewhere.
Any info on this petite little redhead who is also on AM. She expressed interest.
https://www.seeking.com/member/c2c0f9f9-9448-4b2b-a75d-c9b481d2821bShe looks like a jfl girl from a few years back. I wonder.
Any info on this petite little redhead who is also on AM. She expressed interest.
https://www.seeking.com/member/c2c0f9f9-9448-4b2b-a75d-c9b481d2821bJust search for peach on the forum. I remember people saying that she is also an escort. But if I remember it was just ok review. Look into it yourself. She's not for me. Tend to go for the older type.
YeOldHornDawg
01-15-21, 10:21
Anyone has any information on this one?
https://www.seeking.com/member/4335b37a-1742-4713-9efd-e1a5e46f4fddWell, I can tell you how much she costs per meet, LOL.
Anyone seen Mackenziexx https://www.seeking.com/member/1f8278f7-17cc-4e0c-aac1-739839d38ca7.
Any info on this petite little redhead who is also on AM. She expressed interest.
https://www.seeking.com/member/c2c0f9f9-9448-4b2b-a75d-c9b481d2821bHere is one of her old ads. https://yolo.com.listcrawler.eu/post/escorts/usa/georgia/atlanta/55469231/.
FlMongerer
01-18-21, 00:36
Well, I can tell you how much she costs per meet, LOL.How much does she cost? I'd pay a pretty penny for an hour with her. LOL.
MunichMan21
01-21-21, 00:14
Was wondering if anyone might have some feedback on Koloa Surf / SA? We spoke some today, not a big conversation piece. She says she is "new"? We spoke off the site, and she shared a dozen "real" pictures.
I think she is lost or seems that way.
https://www.seeking.com/search?limit=25&page=2&radius=100&user_location=5b880451-c4ed-4742-9d6d-ed562660c56d
ReffingMan94
01-21-21, 10:26
Hey guys,
Been chatting up the following ladies and wanted to see if anyone had reviews of them:
Glasshaffull.
https://www.seeking.com/member/67aa2f29-6a1a-40c9-8b01-2f6718b85513
Bella404.
https://www.seeking.com/member/ff55c9bf-72cd-49df-921e-aa6fd1d1b8c1
Tabitha.
https://www.seeking.com/member/e0290293-89c1-4435-a6ff-1ac0de06af7b
Well, I can tell you how much she costs per meet, LOL.That is something most would be interested in I think. LOL.
Meeting this little painted hotty tomorrow for a meet and greet at a local bar. If she works out 400 ppm quoted for playtime at local hotel afterwards. LMK if there are any warnings?!
https://www.seeking.com/member/1c25e93e-b3db-4463-a0f9-139569aba257
Ozymandias
01-21-21, 16:59
Just search for peach on the forum. I remember people saying that she is also an escort. But if I remember it was just ok review. Look into it yourself. She's not for me. Tend to go for the older type.Yes, she escorts by the same name; she has a profile on Erotic Monkey, I know.
I saw her a couple of years ago. She is *tiny*, and would take oral and vaginal loads; she pulled a few good ones out of me BBBJ and swallowed. For a while I considered seeing her regularly just for something like a Friday afternoon oral ball-draining session, but she was too far away to be reliable (Carrolton or some other godforsaken hinterland.).
She has kids (usually a deal killer for picky old me), but the vagina was toned and tight.
HOWEVER, at some point she went GPS, jacked her prices beyond what she's worth (last I checked, $400 per hour), and my understanding is that her service declined. That, and she was operating out of shady digs, one of those filthy rentals with various people living or squatting (and not the good kind) there. Sounded like a junkie to me, so I removed her from consideration.
She's legit, though. If you want to do your research, she uses that name for her "civilian" social media as well.
O.
DiscreetMeet
01-21-21, 21:13
Meeting this little painted hotty tomorrow for a meet and greet at a local bar. If she works out 400 ppm quoted for playtime at local hotel afterwards. LMK if there are any warnings?!
https://www.seeking.com/member/1c25e93e-b3db-4463-a0f9-139569aba257Damn. Report back. Love me some inked hotties.
SlimGuy619
01-22-21, 01:53
Met with this doll my first night in Atlanta.
Quoted me $$/ HR, $$2 HR.
Menu was pretty open. BBBJ, CIM, BBFS, CIP, MSOG.
Obviously, YMMV disclaimer with these ladies on seeking.
https://www.seeking.com/member/ed78b636-bf04-45ef-b38c-b764eda43bff
Met with this doll my first night in Atlanta.
Quoted me $$/ HR, $$2 HR.
Menu was pretty open. BBBJ, CIM, BBFS, CIP, MSOG.
Obviously, YMMV disclaimer with these ladies on seeking.
https://www.seeking.com/member/ed78b636-bf04-45ef-b38c-b764eda43bffIt says she's in Denver, Colorado. ?
Met with this doll my first night in Atlanta.
Quoted me $$/ HR, $$2 HR.
Menu was pretty open. BBBJ, CIM, BBFS, CIP, MSOG.
Obviously, YMMV disclaimer with these ladies on seeking.
https://www.seeking.com/member/ed78b636-bf04-45ef-b38c-b764eda43bffAnything to report on her? And can you clarify your quoted amounts?
Met with this doll my first night in Atlanta.
Quoted me $$/ HR, $$2 HR.
Menu was pretty open. BBBJ, CIM, BBFS, CIP, MSOG.
Obviously, YMMV disclaimer with these ladies on seeking.
https://www.seeking.com/member/ed78b636-bf04-45ef-b38c-b764eda43bffI met with her last visit. She travels into Atlanta monthly. Traveled to her hotel. Understood I wasn't the only visitor. Attractive MILF with fake but perfect tits. Mouth is on point. Believe her and SouthernHockeyGirl are friends. BBBJ CIP 3 $$ was quoted.
Fun and worth the $.
SlimGuy619
01-22-21, 18:03
Anything to report on her? And can you clarify your quoted amounts?She's a home run in the sack? I'm not a novelist LOL. And sorry about the amounts, I fat fingered it on my phone. Supposed to be $$/ HR and $$2 hrs.
It says she's in Denver, Colorado. ?She's always on the move. Comes here every other week supposedly.
I have a particular taste for the 18-20 year old, super-skinny black girls. Has anybody made an offer to hook up with one of them? What was the asking price for a hookup?
Johnny Mapalo
01-22-21, 19:45
She's a home run in the sack? I'm not a novelist LOL. And sorry about the amounts, I fat fingered it on my phone. Supposed to be $$/ HR and $$2 hrs.
She's always on the move. Comes here every other week supposedly.Thanks for single fingering it and adding some clarity to the posted amounts. Smdh. $$/ HR and $$2 hrs. What ever happened to typing in layman terms. Smdh, again.
Steel Wolf
01-22-21, 20:31
Got two available. One is a 22 why / o, married BBW just north of Perimeter. One is 23, single, HWP, somewhere between Atlanta and Athens. Both blonde. LMK via DM if you want details. Can give you quotes they've given me along with their profiles. Both are aware and asked me to help them find guys. P. Sure you'll have to host for them both.
SeekingHead
01-22-21, 21:04
I have a particular taste for the 18-20 year old, super-skinny black girls. Has anybody made an offer to hook up with one of them? What was the asking price for a hookup?$200 to $300 would be your sweet spot. I've been with at least 20 girls under 25 over the past 3 years & except for a solid 9 have never paid more than $300. I've been with two black girls who fit that description, one was a solid 8. 5, always showed up dressed to the 9's in business clothes. She looked like the hot girl from the office.
Steel Wolf
01-22-21, 21:12
DeeBaby4 u2 - https://www.seeking.com/member/f38dc30f-deff-483d-910b-1d693477a805 : 150/ Hour.
Maygingersnap - https://www.seeking.com/member/55985ce8-a57d-4cb9-b1e0-6ebb3bc5fef5 : 300/ Meet, offering pics / vids for 75. Claims to be amateur never did it, sceptical.
Amber0517 - https://www.seeking.com/member/7cbfd00b-8c76-4918-8ee3-fdb5586a40cb : 50/100 for pics / vids, not offering irl services.
Yourcuteabg - https://www.seeking.com/member/b45a7d95-1092-4ce2-a5fa-0dfbc2b73b28 : 250-400 quote, "depending".
Beautifull Angel - https://www.seeking.com/member/06c7d08d-633b-48af-a7a5-f25eec09eff2 : 400, not quoted for time. Honestly seems worth unless she's known to be a flake / fraud.
Flowerio - https://www.seeking.com/member/88208647-9771-4cb3-8553-ea10ddb1b906 : wants 200-250 for platonic dates before anything truly fun, doesn't give a time frame, probably not worth your time.
SlimGuy619
01-22-21, 23:31
Thanks for single fingering it and adding some clarity to the posted amounts. Smdh. $$/ HR and $$2 hrs. What ever happened to typing in layman terms. Smdh, again.Dude, I don't know why it keeps converting my entry.
Anyways;.
2. 00/ Hr.
3. 00/2 Hrs.
Sue me.
ReffingMan94
01-23-21, 15:23
Had the pleasure of seeing Southern Hockey Girl recently. Met at her place in cumming for an incredible hot time, she's a sweet MILF with great curves and mouth action.
Everything is on the menu (covered) and I will definitely be back. Paid out $ 250 for the session. Very sweet lady that deserves to be treated well.
DocHolliday35
01-24-21, 14:23
DeeBaby4 u2 - https://www.seeking.com/member/f38dc30f-deff-483d-910b-1d693477a805 : 150/ Hour.
Maygingersnap - https://www.seeking.com/member/55985ce8-a57d-4cb9-b1e0-6ebb3bc5fef5 : 300/ Meet, offering pics / vids for 75. Claims to be amateur never did it, sceptical.
Amber0517 - https://www.seeking.com/member/7cbfd00b-8c76-4918-8ee3-fdb5586a40cb : 50/100 for pics / vids, not offering irl services.
Yourcuteabg - https://www.seeking.com/member/b45a7d95-1092-4ce2-a5fa-0dfbc2b73b28 : 250-400 quote, "depending".
Beautifull Angel - https://www.seeking.com/member/06c7d08d-633b-48af-a7a5-f25eec09eff2 : 400, not quoted for time. Honestly seems worth unless she's known to be a flake / fraud.
Flowerio - https://www.seeking.com/member/88208647-9771-4cb3-8553-ea10ddb1b906 : wants 200-250 for platonic dates before anything truly fun, doesn't give a time frame, probably not worth your time.Beautifull Angel is a fraud. I was texting pictures with her and the mole on her face changed locations. I called her out on it and then her profile was deleted.
Had the pleasure of seeing Southern Hockey Girl recently. Met at her place in cumming for an incredible hot time, she's a sweet MILF with great curves and mouth action.
Everything is on the menu (covered) and I will definitely be back. Paid out $ 250 for the session. Very sweet lady that deserves to be treated well.Would you please pm me detail info. Much Thanks!
JeffInnAtlanta
01-24-21, 18:04
Maygingersnap - https://www.seeking.com/member/55985ce8-a57d-4cb9-b1e0-6ebb3bc5fef5 She chats on the site for a while, then she won't be on for a few days. I doubt she can work a meet into her schedule.
Maisthebaddest https://www.seeking.com/member/d80c3c28-43d1-4c81-95fc-0c42639031bc - She has no clue what she's doing. She tries to chat at work and you end up just wasting time with a young girl with no clue and no plan to meet.
AK1215 https://www.seeking.com/member/a789b450-ede0-4731-9a19-4dc286346d59 - This one is a scammer. She'll send you pics and builds a connection, tells you the sob story, then hits you up for 500 a month to be "friends".
Laprincessssaa https://www.seeking.com/member/871d69c0-fab0-4a50-8cdf-cced87a1461c - not worth it, she thinks she's worth 400 PPM x 5 paid monthly in advance.
Bestoneyet https://www.seeking.com/member/3143562c-eed1-4e2e-b708-eaad6e7bf1c6 - Wants Buckhead rates and when you tell her she's not worth it she rants about her hacker friends coming after you and all sorts of other threats. Avoid.
53 hotandreal https://www.seeking.com/member/64fd2296-232b-4f92-8cfc-c04679138bd9 - She never meets anyone. I don't know of she is hot or real, and I don't think anyone will know. If you push to meet she will block you. Time waster.
ReffingMan94
01-25-21, 16:22
Would you please pm me detail info. Much Thanks!Clear your inbox so I can send pm.
Would you please pm me detail info. Much Thanks!Yes indeed. A wonderful submissive woman who can take all you can give.
This one reached out to me and I started chatting with her (him). Move to text to discuss arrangement, and she starts sending me texts with picture (of her allegedly). So of course its time to do detective work. Quick google image search turns up the picture is of Natasha Nice.
https://www.pornhub.com/model/natashanice
https://twitter.com/benicenatasha/status/1220584113008066560?lang=en
So I removed my cc last month after they auto renewed me. Because I did not renew my account they suspended my account say due to using escort terminology. This is bs. I use canned responses as to not violate any rules.
Johnny Mapalo
01-28-21, 18:35
This one reached out to me and I started chatting with her (him). Move to text to discuss arrangement, and she starts sending me texts with picture (of her allegedly). So of course its time to do detective work. Quick google image search turns up the picture is of Natasha Nice.
https://www.pornhub.com/model/natashanice
https://twitter.com/benicenatasha/status/1220584113008066560?lang=enMaybe, she's the broke twin sister of Natasha? Goddess Nice.
SeekingHead
01-28-21, 21:27
So I removed my cc last month after they auto renewed me. Because I did not renew my account they suspended my account say due to using escort terminology. This is bs. I use canned responses as to not violate any rules.I had auto-renew turned off & they tried to hit my amex with a auto-renew, which amex rejected. Doubt it was a glitch, almost sounds like a exit type of scam thing.
I had auto-renew turned off & they tried to hit my amex with a auto-renew, which amex rejected. Doubt it was a glitch, almost sounds like a exit type of scam thing.I had auto renewal on for a year. I finally turned it off it appears that because I disable auto renewal they penalise me by deactivating my account.
I had an email from them saying they tried to bill me even though it was turned off for auto bill. I'm thinking scam too.
I had auto renewal on for a year. I finally turned it off it appears that because I disable auto renewal they penalise me by deactivating my account.
RunTheRabbit
01-31-21, 12:31
Damn. Report back. Love me some inked hotties.Would love to know the outcome of this tatted beauty.
Had the pleasure of seeing Southern Hockey Girl recently. Met at her place in cumming for an incredible hot time, she's a sweet MILF with great curves and mouth action.
Everything is on the menu (covered) and I will definitely be back. Paid out $ 250 for the session. Very sweet lady that deserves to be treated well.PM me details please sounds like a fun one.
PM me details please sounds like a fun one.LOL What details do you need beyond what he's shared? Go message her and have some fun.
BadNewsBear
02-02-21, 18:28
After 10 minutes of promising chat, this scammer hits me with this.
I have been reading this forum and found that most of the providers on SA are either scam artists or overprice manipulators. For the price paid per encounter, many other options exist. I just want to know more about the merits of this type of encounters. Someone please enlighten me. PM is welcome.
SeekingHead
02-03-21, 12:01
I have been reading this forum and found that most of the providers on SA are either scam artists or overprice manipulators. For the price paid per encounter, many other options exist. I just want to know more about the merits of this type of encounters. Someone please enlighten me. PM is welcome.SA oiffers me at least, the ability to raw dog & cum in the pussy of a hot 20 something in her prime for $200 to $300 per meet up. For over 3 years I've consistently had 1 or 2 girls go out or come to my house for a dinner date, drinks, smoke, & usually 2 to 3 hours of adult play time. Yes, you have to shift through the time wasters, scammers, & pro's, but in the end once you find a good one your set for 2 to 6 months.
Pro's are cheaper but you have to use a condom, 99% of them watch the clock like a hawk, & after a while hate men.
SA oiffers me at least, the ability to raw dog & cum in the pussy of a hot 20 something in her prime for $200 to $300 per meet up. For over 3 years I've consistently had 1 or 2 girls go out or come to my house for a dinner date, drinks, smoke, & usually 2 to 3 hours of adult play time. Yes, you have to shift through the time wasters, scammers, & pro's, but in the end once you find a good one your set for 2 to 6 months.
Pro's are cheaper but you have to use a condom, 99% of them watch the clock like a hawk, & after a while hate men.I completely agree, there is no other source like this, especially for us older gents. If you are looking for high volume at low prices, the site definitely is not what it once was. But I am a low volume guy and like to stick to a couple solid situations at a time. I never overpay 2 xx is my number most days (sometimes more) but never paid more than 3 XX. I have two right now that are great with the former number and any guy here would be all in with either of them. Not BBFS, but I am not really looking for that. And they are good with everything else. Incl DFK and BBBJ, both a must for me. And keep in mind, IMO most guys on here are not sharing the "A" ladies with the peanut gallery, just common sense. Once you have a good situation you stay with it, like many other things in life!
https://www.seeking.com/member/c7676311-7b4b-4905-baa9-49705d859174
This one approached me, while certainly not my type, to each their own. Down for pretty much whatever you want, kink-friendly. However, she wants no less than 7 xx per meet, "because of COVID". I guess it's kinda like buying something at the butcher with this one.
SA oiffers me at least, the ability to raw dog & cum in the pussy of a hot 20 something in her prime for $200 to $300 per meet up. For over 3 years I've consistently had 1 or 2 girls go out or come to my house for a dinner date, drinks, smoke, & usually 2 to 3 hours of adult play time. Yes, you have to shift through the time wasters, scammers, & pro's, but in the end once you find a good one your set for 2 to 6 months.
Pro's are cheaper but you have to use a condom, 99% of them watch the clock like a hawk, & after a while hate men.Sounds like some of my experiences with young strippers. (Before they develop GPS.) Girls are available and willing for sugar arrangements from different mediums. Just have to figure out what works for you.
SeekingHead
02-03-21, 14:47
I completely agree, there is no other source like this, especially for us older gents. If you are looking for high volume at low prices, the site definitely is not what it once was. But I am a low volume guy and like to stick to a couple solid situations at a time. I never overpay 2 xx is my number most days (sometimes more) but never paid more than 3 XX. I have two right now that are great with the former number and any guy here would be all in with either of them. Not BBFS, but I am not really looking for that. And they are good with everything else. Incl DFK and BBBJ, both a must for me. And keep in mind, IMO most guys on here are not sharing the "A" ladies with the peanut gallery, just common sense. Once you have a good situation you stay with it, like many other things in life!Same here, I'm not looking to fuck 50 different girls a year at this point in my life except on vacation. I want normalcy with 2 to 3 x's a week.
I understand the BBFS is a no go for a lot of people but my thoughts on BBFS with SB's off of SA are, 95% of the girls I see off of the site are not professionals. They are 20 somethings looking to plug a whole in their finances who also like older men, I'm snipped with no swimmers, so no worries about birth control. This leaves STD's, eventually I'll roll the dice & hit snake eyes, I get checked 4 x a year for STD's.
SA oiffers me at least, the ability to raw dog & cum in the pussy of a hot 20 something in her prime for $200 to $300 per meet up. For over 3 years I've consistently had 1 or 2 girls go out or come to my house for a dinner date, drinks, smoke, & usually 2 to 3 hours of adult play time. Yes, you have to shift through the time wasters, scammers, & pro's, but in the end once you find a good one your set for 2 to 6 months.
Pro's are cheaper but you have to use a condom, 99% of them watch the clock like a hawk, & after a while hate men.Sounds like some of my experiences with young strippers. (Before they develop GPS.) Girls are available and willing for sugar arrangements from different mediums. Just have to figure out what works for you.
BoJackSugarman
02-04-21, 07:39
SA oiffers me at least, the ability to raw dog & cum in the pussy of a hot 20 something in her prime for $200 to $300 per meet up. For over 3 years I've consistently had 1 or 2 girls go out or come to my house for a dinner date, drinks, smoke, & usually 2 to 3 hours of adult play time. Yes, you have to shift through the time wasters, scammers, & pro's, but in the end once you find a good one your set for 2 to 6 months.
Pro's are cheaper but you have to use a condom, 99% of them watch the clock like a hawk, & after a while hate men.I agree with everything SH said and I was lucky enough to pull some quality regulars off SA before I let my membership expire. I've been with SA since the old days like 2014. It gets worse every year and I finally figured out why. Math.
In 2014, SA boasted there were 8 SBs for every SD and it felt like it. You could send some messages and meet up with a chick same night most times. Back then, they didn't even expect $ many times and never on the first meet or in advance. I checked the site and they list the members in each category and last I checked it was like 8 M SBs and 2. 5 M SDs that's only 3. 2/1 also when you factor how many scammers / fatties / time wasters have polluted SA it is probably much worse. Supply and demand govern every market thus the GPS prices and lower conversion rates. .
As an experiment, I'm going to try to convert some random civilians I meet into SBs. I've done it before with a hot waitress I met traveling in Chicago a few years ago. I feel like that market might be untapped. Will let you know how it goes.
Best of luck to you all, with the current state of affairs on SA, you are going to need it.
It's the thrill of the chase, with a greater expectation of success. Why does a guy go sit in a deer stand all day instead of sleeping in and going to a restaurant for dinner? Thrill of the chase. If it's not for you, then it's not for you.
If you go into it acting like a John, you're going to find hookers and scammers. If you set the bar too high, looking for a blonde size 2 fuck bunny with a DD rack, you're going to have to sift through a lot of chaff to find that one pearl.
If you're looking for a young (er) girl / woman who will make time to spend time with you on a regular basis, in return for making her life better, you've come to the right place. Some of the qualities you want to look for are:
Comes from broken home.
Working dead end job like fast food or food service.
Lots of impersonal contact with people she can't connect with.
Single mother.
Now:
Be a nice guy.
Chat her up for a few days before suggesting a meeting. Don't even mention sex unless she brings it up.
Don't discuss money. If she goes straight to the money conversation, she isn't the right one. Keep looking.
Take her someplace nice, a sit-down restaurant that requires reservations where you order from a menu. Order something mid to upper price from the menu so she understands she can do the same.
Encourage her to talk about herself, her life, her goals. No vulgar talk, no bad language. Be a gentleman.
Send / take her home with no discussion of sex.
Send her a note right away that you had a great time.
Wait a day or two, then suggest an overnight at the beach, in the mountains, something that sounds exotic to a woman who's never been spoiled.
Take her shopping, plan to drop 100/200.
Slip an envelope in her purse while she's in the bathroom with 200/300.
That's sealed the deal for me every time. And 90 percent of the time it's been raw and she'll come back over and over, for several hours, overnight, weekends. I've never spent more than 250 on the visit itself. I'm 63. In 2019, I had a year-long run with a 27/28 year old single mother who came to my house once or twice a week on her days off and spent the day while her son was in school. At least once a month there was an overnight. After that I sifted through half a dozen 2-date, full-contact possibilities before settling down with a 42 year old single mom. We spend 2-3 days together every weekend and I pay her rent, take her out, overnights out of town once a month, buy things she needs.
This is a SGF relationship with someone who has a financial incentive to keep you around and keep you happy. If it doesn't work out, there isn't a messy divorce afterwards where you lose half your shit.
Or you can book a clock watching, twerking hooker who will pressure you to get it over with and out the door as soon as possible.
Sugar life isn't for everyone, and can be a lot of work to get it going, more if you're married or have an s / o you want to hang onto. Your money, your choice.
I have been reading this forum and found that most of the providers on SA are either scam artists or overprice manipulators. For the price paid per encounter, many other options exist. I just want to know more about the merits of this type of encounters. Someone please enlighten me. PM is welcome.
Anyone using SDM? The app sucks compared to SA, and it always shows people out of state, but I've had much better luck recently. Less scams / deposits / online only stuff.
SeekingHead
02-04-21, 13:20
It's the thrill of the chase, with a greater expectation of success. Why does a guy go sit in a deer stand all day instead of sleeping in and going to a restaurant for dinner? Thrill of the chase. If it's not for you, then it's not for you.
If you go into it acting like a John, you're going to find hookers and scammers. If you set the bar too high, looking for a blonde size 2 fuck bunny with a DD rack, you're going to have to sift through a lot of chaff to find that one pearl.
If you're looking for a young (er) girl / woman who will make time to spend time with you on a regular basis, in return for making her life better, you've come to the right place. Some of the qualities you want to look for are:
Comes from broken home.
Working dead end job like fast food or food service.
Great post, newbies read this as it's what most of us are after in a sugar relationship. We want a younger women to date & spend time with in exchange for some $$'s.
NewAnonymousName
02-04-21, 14:48
https://www.seeking.com/member/c7676311-7b4b-4905-baa9-49705d859174
This one approached me, while certainly not my type, to each their own. Down for pretty much whatever you want, kink-friendly. However, she wants no less than 7 xx per meet, "because of COVID". I guess it's kinda like buying something at the butcher with this one.You are exactly right. She must be charging by the pound. There's no other explanation for that absurd price.
NewAnonymousName
02-04-21, 14:55
I have been reading this forum and found that most of the providers on SA are either scam artists or overprice manipulators. For the price paid per encounter, many other options exist. I just want to know more about the merits of this type of encounters. Someone please enlighten me. PM is welcome.It's worth it if you put in the time to search for worthwhile sugar babies. You read about the duds so often because we post about duds to help you avoid wasting the time we wasted chatting with a scammer or dime store ho.
You are exactly right. She must be charging by the pound. There's no other explanation for that absurd price.They can have all the body positivity they want, it won't pay the bills. Lmao.
You are exactly right. She must be charging by the pound. There's no other explanation for that absurd price.I can drag a fat girl with an attitude out of the local bar for free.
If you're looking for a young (er) girl / woman who will make time to spend time with you on a regular basis, in return for making her life better, you've come to the right place.
This is a SGF relationship with someone who has a financial incentive to keep you around and keep you happy. If it doesn't work out, there isn't a messy divorce afterwards where you lose half your shit.
Hal, I appreciate your response and it describes well the SGF adventure. I can see the fun in it when one has the time and money to contribute beyond instant fleshly gratification. Great post!
NewAnonymousName
02-05-21, 12:42
I can drag a fat girl with an attitude out of the local bar for free.I think JustMikey has claimed best post of the day long before lunch time. Well done.
It's the thrill of the chase, with a greater expectation of success. Why does a guy go sit in a deer stand all day instead of sleeping in and going to a restaurant for dinner? Thrill of the chase. If it's not for you, then it's not for you.
If you go into it acting like a John, you're going to find hookers and scammers. If you set the bar too high, looking for a blonde size 2 fuck bunny with a DD rack, you're going to have to sift through a lot of chaff to find that one pearl.
If you're looking for a young (er) girl / woman who will make time to spend time with you on a regular basis, in return for making her life better, you've come to the right place. Some of the qualities you want to look for are:
Comes from broken home.
Working dead end job like fast food or food service.
Lots of impersonal contact with people she can't connect with.
Single mother.
Now:
Be a nice guy.
Chat her up for a few days before suggesting a meeting. Don't even mention sex unless she brings it up.
Don't discuss money. If she goes straight to the money conversation, she isn't the right one. Keep looking.
Take her someplace nice, a sit-down restaurant that requires reservations where you order from a menu. Order something mid to upper price from the menu so she understands she can do the same.
Encourage her to talk about herself, her life, her goals. No vulgar talk, no bad language. Be a gentleman.
Send / take her home with no discussion of sex.
Send her a note right away that you had a great time.
Wait a day or two, then suggest an overnight at the beach, in the mountains, something that sounds exotic to a woman who's never been spoiled.
Take her shopping, plan to drop 100/200.
Slip an envelope in her purse while she's in the bathroom with 200/300.
That's sealed the deal for me every time. And 90 percent of the time it's been raw and she'll come back over and over, for several hours, overnight, weekends. I've never spent more than 250 on the visit itself. I'm 63. In 2019, I had a year-long run with a 27/28 year old single mother who came to my house once or twice a week on her days off and spent the day while her son was in school. At least once a month there was an overnight. After that I sifted through half a dozen 2-date, full-contact possibilities before settling down with a 42 year old single mom. We spend 2-3 days together every weekend and I pay her rent, take her out, overnights out of town once a month, buy things she needs.
This is a SGF relationship with someone who has a financial incentive to keep you around and keep you happy. If it doesn't work out, there isn't a messy divorce afterwards where you lose half your shit.
Or you can book a clock watching, twerking hooker who will pressure you to get it over with and out the door as soon as possible.
Sugar life isn't for everyone, and can be a lot of work to get it going, more if you're married or have an s / o you want to hang onto. Your money, your choice.LOL don't think I have the patience for this.
LOL don't think I have the patience for this.LOL, I'm with you John. That's more time and effort than I can afford, not so much the money but the time and effort.
It's the thrill of the chase, with a greater expectation of success. Why does a guy go sit in a deer stand all day instead of sleeping in and going to a restaurant for dinner? Thrill of the chase. If it's not for you, then it's not for you.
If you go into it acting like a John, you're going to find hookers and scammers. If you set the bar too high, looking for a blonde size 2 fuck bunny with a DD rack, you're going to have to sift through a lot of chaff to find that one pearl.
If you're looking for a young (er) girl / woman who will make time to spend time with you on a regular basis, in return for making her life better, you've come to the right place. Some of the qualities you want to look for are:
Comes from broken home.
Working dead end job like fast food or food service.
Lots of impersonal contact with people she can't connect with.
Single mother.
Now:
Be a nice guy.
Chat her up for a few days before suggesting a meeting. Don't even mention sex unless she brings it up.
Don't discuss money. If she goes straight to the money conversation, she isn't the right one. Keep looking.
Take her someplace nice, a sit-down restaurant that requires reservations where you order from a menu. Order something mid to upper price from the menu so she understands she can do the same.
Encourage her to talk about herself, her life, her goals. No vulgar talk, no bad language. Be a gentleman.
Send / take her home with no discussion of sex.
Send her a note right away that you had a great time.
Wait a day or two, then suggest an overnight at the beach, in the mountains, something that sounds exotic to a woman who's never been spoiled.
Take her shopping, plan to drop 100/200.
Slip an envelope in her purse while she's in the bathroom with 200/300.
That's sealed the deal for me every time. And 90 percent of the time it's been raw and she'll come back over and over, for several hours, overnight, weekends. I've never spent more than 250 on the visit itself. I'm 63. In 2019, I had a year-long run with a 27/28 year old single mother who came to my house once or twice a week on her days off and spent the day while her son was in school. At least once a month there was an overnight. After that I sifted through half a dozen 2-date, full-contact possibilities before settling down with a 42 year old single mom. We spend 2-3 days together every weekend and I pay her rent, take her out, overnights out of town once a month, buy things she needs.
This is a SGF relationship with someone who has a financial incentive to keep you around and keep you happy. If it doesn't work out, there isn't a messy divorce afterwards where you lose half your shit.
Or you can book a clock watching, twerking hooker who will pressure you to get it over with and out the door as soon as possible.
Sugar life isn't for everyone, and can be a lot of work to get it going, more if you're married or have an s / o you want to hang onto. Your money, your choice.More power to you Sir. If it's pay to play, I do not have the time or patience to go through this relationship merry go round unless I'm looking to hook up with a future wife and it ain't happening anytime soon.
Machintosh
02-05-21, 20:59
More power to you Sir. If it's pay to play, I do not have the time or patience to go through this relationship merry go round unless I'm looking to hook up with a future wife and it ain't happening anytime soon.Half the work and effort still pays dividends. The milage WILL vary.
https://www.seeking.com/member/79318cb4-7447-4ea0-8bb0-514f30e7d175
Any info? Looks familiar, as in someone reviewed her here. Got a meet and greet this weekend.
BadNewsBear
02-06-21, 04:44
https://www.seeking.com/member/79318cb4-7447-4ea0-8bb0-514f30e7d175
Any info? Looks familiar, as in someone reviewed her here. Got a meet and greet this weekend.She hit me up 3 days ago, wants 350 per meet but will probably go lower, she doesn't host and says she wants something consistent. She was extremely anxious to meet up this weekend, I told her I had major plans because of the super bowl so I couldn't meet.
She hit me up 3 days ago, wants 350 per meet but will probably go lower, she doesn't host and says she wants something consistent. She was extremely anxious to meet up this weekend, I told her I had major plans because of the super bowl so I couldn't meet.Thanks, this helps. I have about 5 lined up this weekend but I have only about an 8 hour window. If I can do process of elimination, and skip the ones that are as high as camel couchie and don't host then I've done good.
It's the thrill of the chase, with a greater expectation of success. Why does a guy go sit in a deer stand all day instead of sleeping in and going to a restaurant for dinner? Thrill of the chase. If it's not for you, then it's not for you.
If you go into it acting like a John, you're going to find hookers and scammers. If you set the bar too high, looking for a blonde size 2 fuck bunny with a DD rack, you're going to have to sift through a lot of chaff to find that one pearl.
If you're looking for a young (er) girl / woman who will make time to spend time with you on a regular basis, in return for making her life better, you've come to the right place. Some of the qualities you want to look for are:
Comes from broken home.
Working dead end job like fast food or food service.
Lots of impersonal contact with people she can't connect with.
Single mother.
Now:
Be a nice guy.
Chat her up for a few days before suggesting a meeting. Don't even mention sex unless she brings it up.
Don't discuss money. If she goes straight to the money conversation, she isn't the right one. Keep looking.
Take her someplace nice, a sit-down restaurant that requires reservations where you order from a menu. Order something mid to upper price from the menu so she understands she can do the same.
Encourage her to talk about herself, her life, her goals. No vulgar talk, no bad language. Be a gentleman.
Send / take her home with no discussion of sex.
Send her a note right away that you had a great time.
Wait a day or two, then suggest an overnight at the beach, in the mountains, something that sounds exotic to a woman who's never been spoiled..I started on SA at the end of 2010, before there were scammers and a lot of media attention. I was 49, and hooked up with a beautiful, smart, fun 21 year old. We met at a nice restaurant, and I did not plan or expect us to hook-up immediately, but there was an awesome connection. Turned out she lived about 4 miles from me, and for about 1200 a month or so, I saw her several times a week, (was married; wife traveled; no kids). We went out to see music, ate. She was awesome, and I am still in touch with her. She has her own business, and lives in FL. Spoke with her 2 weeks ago, she might come visit next weekend. The X and I were relocating back to DC, and she came up there twice.
The next girl, I met in DC. She had never done this before, and was super cautious. We had great email discussions, and I liked her so much that I waited. We exchanged emails for two months (I had a couple of meet and greets during that time). Finally she said she wants to meet. We had two brunches together, and one date at a bar, and then the 4th time, off to the races. She was 23. She was working at a bar in Georgetown and a student at University of Maryland; she was smart; cool; needed help, and was the cute GND. So, we'd meet a couple of times or so a month. She would dress beautiful; we'd go out, and bar to the hotel. We took a weekend blowout trip here to Atlanta; went to the Euclid Ave Yacht Club, Vortex and then back to the high-end hotel, next night out for steak and Clermont Lounge. The issue with her was that there were too many feelings forming, and she said if I was single, she would be all in. We are in touch; she has a Master's degree now and is in practice as therapist in Philly. I woulda married this chick in a heartbeat.
The last and best was a freshman at school in VA, and I was preparing to leave DC finally time to posit up with the X, and had kept in touch with this woman. Short story was there was a 33 year age difference; it was like she was almost 40 years old in spirits. We lived together here as a real couple from 2014-2018, and both our families accepted our relationship. The age difference made it unsustainable, and nature's cruel trick for me is that she by far was the best "fit" for me in my entire life. The time finally came, and she's 26 now; we are close like family and still get together, and I am sure we'll always be close friends.
I chose women that I would "date." The one woman in DC had very strict communication boundaries when we were not together, and I totally respected her. After I left DC, she tried the SD thing a few times, and messaged me on FB telling me that no man had ever treated her so respectfully, kindly, etc. She wrote a very sweet and loving email.
I think it's true, if you find a gem on SA, and she is really is great, you could be in for a serious amount of fun in a lot of ways. I treated these women no differently than I would a date under a "normal" scenario. I chose women who really needed help; who were really striving to succeed and had goals; who weren't looking for Gucci bags, but really to have support for their goals, and have a chance to do something special. The woman in DC loved the Beatles and Paul McCartney. He came to DC, ad I texted her one day, telling her that I have two tickets, and they are good seats. She called me right way almost crying. She could have never afforded this on her own.
Not sure people think about how much certain women really appreciate this; you can literally help them advance their lives. Believe me, they'll never forget you. I like to help people, and sure it was certainly for me to have that fun, but I wanted to leave these women seeing how they should be respected, appreciated and supported. They would have all done it without me, I am sure; I feel so much satisfaction that there three women have succeeded. OF course, I played only a tiny role in their lives, with the exception of the one with whom I lived.
Bubba Love
02-06-21, 19:24
I already got a discount offer from them, 25% off. Of course 75 is still higher than the 67 it would have been with a discount last year.How did you manage to get a discount? By attempting to cancel your membership?
DocHolliday35
02-07-21, 09:51
I have been reading this forum and found that most of the providers on SA are either scam artists or overprice manipulators. For the price paid per encounter, many other options exist. I just want to know more about the merits of this type of encounters. Someone please enlighten me. PM is welcome.Be upfront and honest about what you want. Hide the profiles of girls that are unattractive or don't fit what you want. It takes some time and effort to filter out the scams, fake profiles, and overpriced girls but I have found a few gems who are attracted to me and we agree to terms quickly.
https://www.seeking.com/member/c7676311-7b4b-4905-baa9-49705d859174
This one approached me, while certainly not my type, to each their own. Down for pretty much whatever you want, kink-friendly. However, she wants no less than 7 xx per meet, "because of COVID". I guess it's kinda like buying something at the butcher with this one.WOW dose she charge per pound LOL.
NallaFaltu69
02-07-21, 18:20
How did you manage to get a discount? By attempting to cancel your membership?SA deactivated my account saying voilation of T & C's. I tried with a diff card and it didn't go. Any suggestions on how to create a new account?
DocHolliday35
02-07-21, 22:50
SA deactivated my account saying voilation of T & C's. I tried with a diff card and it didn't go. Any suggestions on how to create a new account?The address of the card probably flagged it. Try sending SA an email apologizing and that you will never do it again. They will re activate you.
Be upfront and honest about what you want. Hide the profiles of girls that are unattractive or don't fit what you want. It takes some time and effort to filter out the scams, fake profiles, and overpriced girls but I have found a few gems who are attracted to me and we agree to terms quickly.All I say Doc is that You Got Game! Merry Mongering.
SkyWalker21
02-08-21, 12:13
Anyone using SDM? The app sucks compared to SA, and it always shows people out of state, but I've had much better luck recently. Less scams / deposits / online only stuff.I used it for about a year, and had great success. Bagged about 6 chicks off there and still hitting one on occasion. Got busy with this whole pandemic (work in Healthcare), and haven't had the time to play as much.
Skywalker.
Man the scammers be out there in full force but it is easy to identify if you are asking them the right questions.
PunkedLife
02-08-21, 17:07
I hope none of you are clueless fools like this guy. Because you can buy them all the expensive gifts, vacation resort trips, dinners, allowances and at the end of the day they will still choose to spend your money with the guy who getting it all and more for the free because that's who makes her wet.
https://youtu.be/WZKKBZqKHZg
https://www.ktnv.com/news/kelsey-turners-case-wont-go-to-trial-until-next-year
If you find a gem on SA, and she is really is great, you could be in for a serious amount of fun in a lot of ways. I treated these women no differently than I would a date under a "normal" scenario. I chose women who really needed help; who were really striving to succeed and had goals; who weren't looking for Gucci bags, but really to have support for their goals, and have a chance to do something special.
Not sure people think about how much certain women really appreciate this; you can literally help them advance their lives. Believe me, they'll never forget you. I like to help people, and sure it was certainly for me to have that fun, but I wanted to leave these women seeing how they should be respected, appreciated and supported. They would have all done it without me, I am sure; I feel so much satisfaction that there three women have succeeded.You sound a lot like me, we take the exact same approach to arrangements. Here's a link to a post I made in the Richmond SB thread about a 4 year relationship I had with a girl I met on SA:
http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?9746-quot-Sugarbabies-quot-quot-Arrangements-quot-Amateurs-or-Not&p=4307822&viewfull=1#post4307822
A lot of the guys approach the girls on SA like they would any escort or UTR (that is, paying to get laid with zero strings attached). While that's certainly a valid approach, I prefer longer term arrangements that are pretty much indistinguishable from traditional dating. There's just no substitute for the attention, affection and enthusiasm you get from a super hot 20-something who is genuinely into you. Like you, I enjoy helping a hard-working girl reach her goals, and I've found that a little effort invested in the right girl can pay incredible dividends. I've had 3 long term arrangements since 2012. I'm still good friends with all 3 of them. The last one, the girl I was with for 4 years, she really was something special. Almost too good to be true. My experience was exactly like yours in that she was by far the best relationship of my life. We were 20 years apart but I've never been with anyone who was a more perfect fit and it's not even close. Toward the end we did talk about the possibility of staying together. But ultimately she decided she wanted to settle down with someone closer to her own age, and that was definitely the right choice for her (I am married). We shared a lot of great experiences together and we were a big part of each other's lives for quite a while. It was exactly what we both needed at the time. I'm certain she and I will be close for life.
Parrot Scope
02-09-21, 01:12
I hope none of you are clueless fools like this guy. Because you can buy them all the expensive gifts, vacation resort trips, dinners, allowances and at the end of the day they will still choose to spend your money with the guy who getting it all and more for the free because that's who makes her wet.
https://youtu.be/WZKKBZqKHZg
https://www.ktnv.com/news/kelsey-turners-case-wont-go-to-trial-until-next-yearLOL take it easy on them. I used to put a lot of energy into chastising simps and gullible guys, but they have a place and a purpose.
Plenty of get taken advantage of, and many of these SB arrangements are not exclusive.
I can't imaging taking care of all a woman needs, only for her to sleep with other men on the side. But it is what it is.
PunkedLife
02-09-21, 12:02
You sound a lot like me, we take the exact same approach to arrangements. Here's a link to a post I made in the Richmond SB thread about a 4 year relationship I had with a girl I met on SA:
http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?9746-quot-Sugarbabies-quot-quot-Arrangements-quot-Amateurs-or-Not&p=4307822&viewfull=1#post4307822
A lot of the guys approach the girls on SA like they would any escort or UTR (that is, paying to get laid with zero strings attached). While that's certainly a valid approach, I prefer longer term arrangements that are pretty much indistinguishable from traditional dating. There's just no substitute for the attention, affection and enthusiasm you get from a super hot 20-something who is genuinely into you. Like you, I enjoy helping a hard-working girl reach her goals, and I've found that a little effort invested in the right girl can pay incredible dividends. I've had 3 long term arrangements since 2012. I'm still good friends with all 3 of them. The last one, the girl I was with for 4 years, she really was something special. Almost too good to be true. My experience was exactly like yours in that she was by far the best relationship of my life. We were 20 years apart but I've never been with anyone who was a more perfect fit and it's not even close. Toward the end we did talk about the possibility of staying together. But ultimately she decided she wanted to settle down with someone closer to her own age, and that was definitely the right choice for her (I am married). We shared a lot of great experiences together and we were a big part of each other's lives for quite a while. It was exactly what we both needed at the time. I'm certain she and I will be close for life.4 years of treating her like a queen and at the end of the day you were too old for her. You weren't too old for her to be spending your money though. At least you had 4 good years though so I guess that's a good investment if it made you happy. I just can't personally wrap my head around treating a woman like a girlfriend when I'm paying her. That's always been my issue. When things start from an economic standpoint everything else just seems fake no matter how good it might seem at the time. Even in regular dating. You want to know how much a woman likes you. If she's spending her hard earned money on you unprovoked especially when you didn't start the encounter with spending money on her then you'll know she truly likes you. Maybe you found great matches but I'm sure more often than not, then men that take your approach aren't as successful. They just get taken advantage of. Like the guy in the video I posted. Now if he wasn't throwing his money at that heifer he would probably still be alive.
4 years of treating her like a queen and at the end of the day you were too old for her. You weren't too old for her to be spending your money though.Obviously you didn't click on the link and read the original post LOL. If you had, you would know I didn't pay her. Context is important, so here's a snippet:
She was new to the site and I was the first guy she met. She disliked the term "sugarbaby" and didn't want money or any type of arrangement per se. She just wanted an older guy in her life that would help her and guide her.
I just can't personally wrap my head around treating a woman like a girlfriend when I'm paying her.I agree with you 1000%. I can't speak for anyone else, but for me, if I'm paying for it, it's just not the same. I've had my fair share of regular arrangements where there was money involved, whether it be per date or per month. While I'll always treat those girls with care and respect, and I appreciate the carnal benefits that consistency and familiarity bring to the equation, at the end of the day that's just rental pussy like any other. I would never think of anyone as a "girlfriend" in that situation, or treat her as such.
With respect to the long term relationships I mentioned in the previous post, none of them were based on financial arrangements. I did meet 2 of the 3 on SA, but honestly money was never a factor. Yes they all wanted support, but it wasn't direct financial support they were looking for. The common thread for each of them was the desire to have a relationship with a successful older man that could mentor her and guide her. I was more than happy to oblige, and in each case I found the experience to be extremely rewarding. I spent the same on them as I would a girlfriend in a traditional dating relationship. No more, no less. I'm going to include a snippet of the 2019 post again because it described the dynamic pretty well:
We had incredible chemistry and an amazing connection right from the beginning. It was the type of effortless first date we all dream of, everything just fell into place and it just got better from there. The first year or so we kept everything very simple, casual and fun. I remember thinking how impressed I was that she didn't lose her perspective, we were exclusive to each other but she didn't get too emotionally attached. She honestly had a very mature outlook on it all. We both knew our relationship was never going to have a happy ending, but we were both happy and content to enjoy the ride as long as it lasted. She was an absolute go-getter, she worked very hard and soaked up the advice and guidance I gave her like a sponge. I taught her how to budget, I helped her pay off her credit card debt, I helped her with academic decisions and school projects, I helped her put herself in position for promotions at work and advance her career. All of which I found very rewarding, and she was always very good about expressing her appreciation of my efforts in ways that were very meaningful to me. Now just because we didn't have an "arrangement" doesn't mean I didn't contribute funds, because I most certainly did when times were tough for her. But in the grand scheme of things, it really wasn't much.To put that spending in perspective, I paid her phone bill about 6 months in. She didn't want me to, but I insisted. After 3 years together I offered to help with her rent so she could get a place of her own, but it was a no brainer because it was less than I was spending on hotels every month. There were other things along the way of course, but in our entire time together, she never asked me for money even once. She *hated* the idea of asking me for money. She really was a unicorn.
As for being too old for her. Yes and no. We were never going to end up together and we were clear about that with each other from the beginning. Neither of us wanted that. As it turned out, at the end she did tell me if I was already divorced she would absolutely marry me. But at the time I had school age kids at home and there was no way I could ever be a part time dad. She always respected that, and I really appreciated that about her. She was truly the most level headed, drama free girl I've ever been involved with. There was also the issue of children, she wanted kids of her own one day and I'm past that phase of my life. So it was never going to happen. In looking back, it was a perfect "arrangement" in that we established boundaries for the relationship from the outset and we both got exactly what we wanted and needed within those boundaries. Given that we were able to walk away as good friends, both better and happier for the experience, I think it was a pretty damn good deal.
SeekingHead
02-10-21, 09:30
Obviously you didn't click on the link and read the original post LOL. If you had, you would know I didn't pay her. Context is important, so here's a snippet:
She was new to the site and I was the first guy she met. She disliked the term "sugarbaby" and didn't want money or any type of arrangement per se. She just wanted an older guy in her life that would help her and guide her.
I agree with you 1000%. I can't speak for anyone else, but for me, if I'm paying for it, it's just not the same. I've had my fair share of regular arrangements where there was money involved, whether it be per date or per month. While I'll always treat those girls with care and respect, and I appreciate the carnal benefits that consistency and familiarity bring to the equation, at the end of the day that's just rental pussy like any other. I would never think of anyone as a "girlfriend" in that situation, or treat her as such.
With respect to the long term relationships I mentioned in the previous post, none of them were based on financial arrangements. I did meet 2 of the 3 on SA, but honestly money was never a factor. Yes they all wanted support, but it wasn't direct financial support they were looking for. The common thread for each of them was the desire to have a relationship with a successful older man that could mentor her and guide her. I was more than happy to oblige, and in each case I found the experience to be extremely rewarding. I spent the same on them as I would a girlfriend in a traditional dating relationship. No more, no less. I'm going to include a snippet of the 2019 post again because it described the dynamic pretty well:
To put that spending in perspective, I paid her phone bill about 6 months in. She didn't want me to, but I insisted. After 3 years together I offered to help with her rent so she could get a place of her own, but it was a no brainer because it was less than I was spending on hotels every month. There were other things along the way of course, but in our entire time together, she never asked me for money even once. She *hated* the idea of asking me for money. She really was a unicorn.
As for being too old for her. Yes and no. We were never going to end up together and we were clear about that with each other from the beginning. Neither of us wanted that. As it turned out, at the end she did tell me if I was already divorced she would absolutely marry me. But at the time I had school age kids at home and there was no way I could ever be a part time dad. She always respected that, and I really appreciated that about her. She was truly the most level headed, drama free girl I've ever been involved with. There was also the issue of children, she wanted kids of her own one day and I'm past that phase of my life. So it was never going to happen. In looking back, it was a perfect "arrangement" in that we established boundaries for the relationship from the outset and we both got exactly what we wanted and needed within those boundaries. Given that we were able to walk away as good friends, both better and happier for the experience, I think it was a pretty damn good deal.I've met 5 women off the site to where the relationship didn't involve money. The first two were a 21 & 41 year old women who just wanted to date a guy who could afford to travel & take her out on the town, both lasted for about 6 months. The 21 year old just liked older guys. There was another 29 year MILF with two kids who I would probably still be with if she didn't have a lot of alcohol related issues, & the other was a bored housewife who wanted some dick as she was in a dead bedroom. She was a lot of fun & would come over at night, get dicked down then go home with my cum in her snatch. The last was this year & lasted for 6 months, I met a 27 year old grad student who was in a poly relationship. She was a complete freak in bed, we would literally fuck for 3 hours straight, I had to up my cardio for this chick. After about 2 months I just started referring to her as my girlfriend & she was completely fine with this.
If you go in looking for a relationship on the site you can find it pretty easy, there is a pretty women fantasy out there among quite a few of the girls. Dating a older guy who wines & dines them, buys them a few gifts is what they want in addition to sugar. I've also found these types of sugar relationships cost less than purely ppm. The current girl I have is a 24 year old college grad who I take shopping once a month & drop about $200 on outside of the sugar allowance, our ppm is $200. She comes to my house or meets me at a hotel for about 2 rounds of bareback sex weekly.
PunkedLife
02-10-21, 11:57
Obviously you didn't click on the link and read the original post LOL. If you had, you would know I didn't pay her. Context is important, so here's a snippet:
She was new to the site and I was the first guy she met. She disliked the term "sugarbaby" and didn't want money or any type of arrangement per se. She just wanted an older guy in her life that would help her and guide her.
I agree with you 1000%. I can't speak for anyone else, but for me, if I'm paying for it, it's just not the same. I've had my fair share of regular arrangements where there was money involved, whether it be per date or per month. While I'll always treat those girls with care and respect, and I appreciate the carnal benefits that consistency and familiarity bring to the equation, at the end of the day that's just rental pussy like any other. I would never think of anyone as a "girlfriend" in that situation, or treat her as such.
With respect to the long term relationships I mentioned in the previous post, none of them were based on financial arrangements. I did meet 2 of the 3 on SA, but honestly money was never a factor. Yes they all wanted support, but it wasn't direct financial support they were looking for. The common thread for each of them was the desire to have a relationship with a successful older man that could mentor her and guide her. I was more than happy to oblige, and in each case I found the experience to be extremely rewarding. I spent the same on them as I would a girlfriend in a traditional dating relationship. No more, no less. I'm going to include a snippet of the 2019 post again because it described the dynamic pretty well:.I would have to say that for one you found a few unicorns and two you caught these before these types of sites became mainstream. I'm not saying that you can't find them at this time but it's a lot harder due to scams and real girls that just want easy money without needing to do anything. It all depends on how much time and patience you have to weed through all the bs. It's like traveling overseas nowadays is becoming more difficult then it was 15 years ago, not that I have personal experience in this seeing as I only began traveling 5 years ago myself but it's what I've heard from other more seasoned individuals. The scamming, good digging etc. Now instead of being able to find regular girls easily, if that's what you want, you have some serious work to wade through all the pro escorts and the amateur escorts. Never attempt to date an escort LOL. There are plenty of women you can meet just walking around while running errands to engage with them looking for girlfriends on platforms where money is the motivating factor. And another thing to point out is the fact that you probably have game. From what you spoke about you were able to impart some serious knowledge to some of these women. Not many of these men on these sites got any game so they are more likely to get played.
Meeting a thick white girl in Carrollton tomorrow who needs help with rent, if she is decent I'll share. If she is really good I'll share in a month or two haha.
I would have to say that for one you found a few unicorns and two you caught these before these types of sites became mainstream. I'm not saying that you can't find them at this time but it's a lot harder due to scams and real girls that just want easy money without needing to do anything.Oh there's no doubt I got lucky. The first one was in 2012, the second in 2014, it was a very different scene. And even then, it took a lot of effort to find them. But I agree, it is much harder now.
What's really frustrating is all these girls who have been conditioned to expect there are all these guys who are just waiting to throw money at them for platonic arrangements. WTF? And since COVID, SA is overrun with girls who use that as an excuse to ask for "online only" arrangements. Again WTF. If I want pics or videos I can get an unlimited supply of that for free. Next.
And another thing to point out is the fact that you probably have game.LOL well I think I do OK. There's nothing unique about my approach. I'm a confident guy and I treat these girls very well. It's not rocket science. By the time I've invested the effort to get a girl to go to dinner with me, it's almost like shooting fish in a barrel. In all seriousness, if I take a new girl to dinner, 4 times out of 5 she's giving me "the look" that lets me know she's decided she wants me to fuck her before we're done with the meal. I do enjoy the payoff that follows.
I've fucked somewhere around 30 girls I've met off of SA over the past 8 years. I can only think of 3 that involved any sort of direct financial consideration. I knew I would be donating funds going in, and in all 3 cases I paid because I needed something simple and easy at the time. As for the rest of them, they weren't "free" (we all know it's never really free) because I stiffed or scammed them, they were free because I specifically target girls who are looking for a successful, confident older guy to treat them well and make them cum hard. It was "free" because I put in the effort to get the panties on the floor. Let's be honest, if you consider the value of my time, it would have been much cheaper to pay for it LOL, but where's the fun in that?
The truth is I get a lot more fulfillment out of the experience when a girl gives it up because she wants me to have it, not because I'm paying her to give it to me. That genuine enthusiasm and desire is what I'm after, and it can be intoxicating for me. But that's my angle, I know a lot of guys aren't looking for that.
The 4 year unicorn I told you about? She was 21 when I met her. She had never had an orgasm from sex, only masturbation. The first time I slid inside her, she came immediately. I mean literally within 3 seconds. It was amazing to witness and one of my favorite memories of all time. She was just that turned on and being with an older guy was a huge fantasy fulfilled for her. She came 3 more times that night. True story, when we met for our next date she asked if we could skip dinner. That's what I live for.
I haven't been that active this past year between COVID, traveling less for work and competing priorities. But I did take the time to meet a sweet little blonde girl next door right before the holidays. She's 22 and very much a quiet submissive with an old soul. She wasn't looking for financial support, she had an older guy fantasy and just wanted to be treated well. To hear her tell it, she was just sick of guys her age just wanting one thing and treating her like shit. After about a month of effort (texts and calls) I got her to agree to meet me for dinner. She was nervous at first, but really loosened up over the next 90 minutes as she got more comfortable with me. We decided to continue the conversation in my truck afterward, and when I opened the door for her, she told me she had never had a guy do that for her even once in her life. Think about that for second. The thing I liked about her was when I went to give her a kiss, she came at me hard. She was the one who moved my hands to her chest and begged me to touch her body. She was the one who unbuttoned her pants and told me she wanted me to feel how wet I made her. She was just so eager and enthusiastic. That was a damn good day. And it set me back a $70 meal. Again, not because I led her to believe she was going to get any money out of the deal. She specifically told me she didn't want any money. She just wanted a guy to pick up the tab instead of her having to do it for once (she actually offered to pay for her half when the check came, believe it or not). Yes it took effort. But I enjoy that chase and the payoff is worth it to me.
So anyway, I'm rambling now. But the point is. There are definitely a LOT of great opportunities on SA. If you're looking to drop $2 or $300 on a college coed for a sure thing with no strings attached, you can find that. If you're looking for a girl that will give it to you for "free" if you win her over, you can find that too. It takes effort, but they're out there. Just be up front and honest about your intentions and enjoy the ride!
One thing I want to be perfectly clear about. I would never take advantage of a girl under any circumstances. For those of you reading this who are just starting to dip your toes into the sugarbowl, I am going to encourage you to always be transparent about your intentions. Have the financial discussion early and make sure her expectations are aligned with yours. A lot of girls are uncomfortable talking about or asking for money up front, so they give it up with the assumption that you'll take care of them after the fact. Because after all, you met on a sugar dating site. Don't think for a minute that just because she didn't ask for or mention money before you fucked her that you don't owe her anything. Be a man about it, ask her what her expectations are before you get what you want. That's the right thing to do.
DetroitJohnny
02-11-21, 08:11
You sound a lot like me, we take the exact same approach to arrangements. Here's a link to a post I made in the Richmond SB thread about a 4 year relationship I had with a girl I met on SA:
http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?9746-quot-Sugarbabies-quot-quot-Arrangements-quot-Amateurs-or-Not&p=4307822&viewfull=1#post4307822
A lot of the guys approach the girls on SA like they would any escort or UTR (that is, paying to get laid with zero strings attached). While that's certainly a valid approach, I prefer longer term arrangements that are pretty much indistinguishable from traditional dating. There's just no substitute for the attention, affection and enthusiasm you get from a super hot 20-something who is genuinely into you. Like you, I enjoy helping a hard-working girl reach her goals, and I've found that a little effort invested in the right girl can pay incredible dividends. I've had 3 long term arrangements since 2012. I'm still good friends with all 3 of them. The last one, the girl I was with for 4 years, she really was something special. Almost too good to be true. My experience was exactly like yours in that she was by far the best relationship of my life. We were 20 years apart but I've never been with anyone who was a more perfect fit and it's not even close. Toward the end we did talk about the possibility of staying together. But ultimately she decided she wanted to settle down with someone closer to her own age, and that was definitely the right choice for her (I am married). We shared a lot of great experiences together and we were a big part of each other's lives for quite a while. It was exactly what we both needed at the time. I'm certain she and I will be close for life.There's just no substitute for the attention, affection and enthusiasm you get from a super hot 20-something who is genuinely into you. Like you, I enjoy helping a hard-working girl reach her goals, and I've found that a little effort invested in the right girl can pay incredible dividends.
THIS.
My current SB wanted to learn about the stock market so I helped her open an account and add $1000 a month into that account.
She's up 20 k YTD.
I'm up 67 k YTD.
We text about plays chat on a server she has but we make more money working together in my home office. She now spends 2-3 days a week with me. We trade, we spend days fucking, charting and making money together. The last play she discovered (on her own) ran 255% and when we both closed out positions seeing her go crazy jumping all over the place literally shoving me on the bed with a fire in her eyes asking if I was ready for my $12,000 dollar blow job (her profits invested with her own money) that was real. Even if it wasn't I FELT that it was real and that good enough for me.
Plus she just made me more money in one day than I've ever given her.
I know one day she will move on. Shes not mine its just my turn.. but I will never forget that $12,000 blow job or the happiness I help bring to her life being able to experience her first fully fledged DD stock investment.
This is a skill that when she’s ready to leave will be with her for life. We all seek immortality in our own ways.
Oh there's no doubt I got lucky. The first one was in 2012, the second in 2014, it was a very different scene. And even then, it took a lot of effort to find them. But I agree, it is much harder now.
What's really frustrating is all these girls who have been conditioned to expect there are all these guys who are just waiting to throw money at them for platonic arrangements. WTF? And since COVID, SA is overrun with girls who use that as an excuse to ask for "online only" arrangements. Again WTF. If I want pics or videos I can get an unlimited supply of that for free. Next.
LOL well I think I do OK. There's nothing unique about my approach. I'm a confident guy and I treat these girls very well. It's not rocket science. By the time I've invested the effort to get a girl to go to dinner with me, it's almost like shooting fish in a barrel. In all seriousness, if I take a new girl to dinner, 4 times out of 5 she's giving me "the look" that lets me know she's decided she wants me to fuck her before we're done with the meal. I do enjoy the payoff that follows.
I've fucked somewhere around 30 girls I've met off of SA over the past 8 years. I can only think of 3 that involved any sort of direct financial consideration. I knew I would be donating funds going in, and in all 3 cases I paid because I needed something simple and easy at the time. As for the rest of them, they weren't "free" (we all know it's never really free) because I stiffed or scammed them, they were free because I specifically target girls who are looking for a successful, confident older guy to treat them well and make them cum hard. It was "free" because I put in the effort to get the panties on the floor. Let's be honest, if you consider the value of my time, it would have been much cheaper to pay for it LOL, but where's the fun in that?
The truth is I get a lot more fulfillment out of the experience when a girl gives it up because she wants me to have it, not because I'm paying her to give it to me. That genuine enthusiasm and desire is what I'm after, and it can be intoxicating for me. But that's my angle, I know a lot of guys aren't looking for that.
The 4 year unicorn I told you about? She was 21 when I met her. She had never had an orgasm from sex, only masturbation. The first time I slid inside her, she came immediately. I mean literally within 3 seconds. It was amazing to witness and one of my favorite memories of all time. She was just that turned on and being with an older guy was a huge fantasy fulfilled for her. She came 3 more times that night. True story, when we met for our next date she asked if we could skip dinner. That's what I live for.
I haven't been that active this past year between COVID, traveling less for work and competing priorities. But I did take the time to meet a sweet little blonde girl next door right before the holidays. She's 22 and very much a quiet submissive with an old soul. She wasn't looking for financial support, she had an older guy fantasy and just wanted to be treated well. To hear her tell it, she was just sick of guys her age just wanting one thing and treating her like shit. After about a month of effort (texts and calls) I got her to agree to meet me for dinner. She was nervous at first, but really loosened up over the next 90 minutes as she got more comfortable with me. We decided to continue the conversation in my truck afterward, and when I opened the door for her, she told me she had never had a guy do that for her even once in her life. Think about that for second. The thing I liked about her was when I went to give her a kiss, she came at me hard. She was the one who moved my hands to her chest and begged me to touch her body. She was the one who unbuttoned her pants and told me she wanted me to feel how wet I made her. She was just so eager and enthusiastic. That was a damn good day. And it set me back a $70 meal. Again, not because I led her to believe she was going to get any money out of the deal. She specifically told me she didn't want any money. She just wanted a guy to pick up the tab instead of her having to do it for once (she actually offered to pay for her half when the check came, believe it or not). Yes it took effort. But I enjoy that chase and the payoff is worth it to me.
So anyway, I'm rambling now. But the point is. There are definitely a LOT of great opportunities on SA. If you're looking to drop $2 or $300 on a college coed for a sure thing with no strings attached, you can find that. If you're looking for a girl that will give it to you for "free" if you win her over, you can find that too. It takes effort, but they're out there. Just be up front and honest about your intentions and enjoy the ride!
One thing I want to be perfectly clear about. I would never take advantage of a girl under any circumstances. For those of you reading this who are just starting to dip your toes into the sugarbowl, I am going to encourage you to always be transparent about your intentions. Have the financial discussion early and make sure her expectations are aligned with yours. A lot of girls are uncomfortable talking about or asking for money up front, so they give it up with the assumption that you'll take care of them after the fact. Because after all, you met on a sugar dating site. Don't think for a minute that just because she didn't ask for or mention money before you fucked her that you don't owe her anything. Be a man about it, ask her what her expectations are before you get what you want. That's the right thing to do.SA has been good to me also. I enjoy having somewhat long term arrangements. A year or two, then moving on to keep the sex fresh. If you're the type of guy who can get a date with desirable women in "real life" then you can do so on SA but with younger and more desirable women. Its lets you tap a bigger market.
I've had both PPM and free arrangements. Many women in their early twenties are used to men their age. And sex with men in their twenties is usually not very satisfying. Get drunk, get a BJ, poke around for ten minutes, then back to partying with your buddies. These women are thrilled be treated nicely, have their pussy eaten by someone who knows what he's doing, get fucked for a solid two hours instead of ten minutes, and then treated well when its over. A couple of drinks at an expensive bar before hand, and some respect afterwards really does work.
Its harder now than five years ago, but they are out there.
DocHolliday35
02-11-21, 10:53
There's just no substitute for the attention, affection and enthusiasm you get from a super hot 20-something who is genuinely into you. Like you, I enjoy helping a hard-working girl reach her goals, and I've found that a little effort invested in the right girl can pay incredible dividends.
THIS.
My current SB wanted to learn about the stock market so I helped her open an account and add $1000 a month into that account.
She's up 20 k YTD.
I'm up 67 k YTD.
We text about plays chat on a server she has but we make more money working together in my home office. She now spends 2-3 days a week with me. We trade, we spend days fucking, charting and making money together. The last play she discovered (on her own) ran 255% and when we both closed out positions seeing her go crazy jumping all over the place literally shoving me on the bed with a fire in her eyes asking if I was ready for my $12,000 dollar blow job (her profits invested with her own money) that was real. Even if it wasn't I FELT that it was real and that good enough for me.Very well said, I feel the same.
The last play she discovered (on her own) ran 255% and when we both closed out positions seeing her go crazy jumping all over the place literally shoving me on the bed with a fire in her eyes asking if I was ready for my $12,000 dollar blow job (her profits invested with her own money) that was real. Even if it wasn't I FELT that it was real and that good enough for me.
I know one day she will move on. Shes not mine its just my turn.. but I will never forget that $12,000 blow job or the happiness I help bring to her life being able to experience her first fully fledged DD stock investment.Great story! It's obvious you and I both find fulfillment in very similar ways. I really do enjoy being a mentor, and I love being a part of the process when my girl finds success.
This is a skill that when shes ready to leave will be with her for life. We all seek immortality in our own ways.Absolutely agree. As a wise man once said.
Give a girl a fish, fuck her for an hour.
Teach a girl to fish, fuck her for life.
Or something like that haha.
It sounds like I'm kidding, but there's actually a lot of truth to that. The girl I saw for a year in 2012? She's 29 now, married with a family. We stay in close contact, it'd be fair to say we're still "special" friends. We make time to see each other twice a year. The girl I saw in 2013? She asks me to come see her a couple of times a year. The 4 year unicorn isn't there yet, we stay in touch but are on hiatus for a while because that's that way it has to be after a really intense relationship. But she's joked more than once about making me *her* little secret once she's been married for a few years, so the potential is definitely there. More than anything though, I really enjoy the close connections these relationships have brought to my life. We can never have enough good friends.
The Wiseacre
02-11-21, 17:34
More than anything though, I really enjoy the close connections these relationships have brought to my life. We can never have enough good friends.This x100.
The older I get, the more important this is.
It makes me happy to see these stories on here. I get so jaded reading all these reports about haggling over $10 for a BJ. It's nice to know there are dudes out there who treat the ladies with respect.
SeekingHead
02-13-21, 14:06
It makes me happy to see these stories on here. I get so jaded reading all these reports about haggling over $10 for a BJ. It's nice to know there are dudes out there who treat the ladies with respect.There are quite a few of us out there who us SA as a way to date college age or 20 something hotties. I could date the local 40 year MILF who has 2 kids & 40 extra pounds & I do, I banged 5 of them last year. I just prefer college age spinners over the mid 40 year olds.
If all I am going to do is have sex with a girl I prefer massage girls, where it's about the women pleasing me. I disdain escorts due to time watching & it all about the nut. This is in the US, over seas it's a different experience with escorts.
Has anyone had any info or details / dealing with this one, wants 700,has somewhat of an attitude, high on on horse. Any info thanks.
I am getting back in the sugar game after a few years.
I have digits of a couple of girls but don't want anything to trace back to me.
Do you guys have any suggestions for good burner phones or apps.
Thanks in advance.
I am getting back in the sugar game after a few years.
I have digits of a couple of girls but don't want anything to trace back to me.
Do you guys have any suggestions for good burner phones or apps.
Thanks in advance.I'd suggest creating a new / fake Gmail. Once you do that you can request a Google phone number.
SoonerFan72
02-15-21, 11:37
I am getting back in the sugar game after a few years.
I have digits of a couple of girls but don't want anything to trace back to me.
Do you guys have any suggestions for good burner phones or apps.
Thanks in advance.I've been using Google Voice for years, it works great. I suggest creating a new Gmail account strickly for mongering. Use that account to sign up for a Google Voice number, its free. Once signed up, you can text and talk via GV with chics without them knowing your real number.
GoneForGood97
02-15-21, 17:33
I am getting back in the sugar game after a few years.
I have digits of a couple of girls but don't want anything to trace back to me.
Do you guys have any suggestions for good burner phones or apps.
Thanks in advance.I use the MySudo app, and pay the one dollar a month subscription. It's privacy focused, and although the app subscription can be traced to me, none of the phone numbers, calls, or texts are (supposedly), and everything's encrypted.
Google Voice works great. The advice below is solid, set up a completely separate Gmail account and use that for your Google Voice account. I've been using GV for almost 10 years and it's been extremely reliable (and flexible).
You can have all your texts (and attachments!) forwarded to your gmail account for archival purposes. You can also have texts and calls forwarded directly to your main phone number, but that can get tricky if you're not really careful. I recommend using the free GV app for everything, it works great.
While we're on the subject of Google Voice, I want to pass along something I started doing recently. I don't have a SB right now and haven't been seeing anyone lately. My GV account is quiet. For security purposes I want to be able to log completely out of the GV app on my phone to minimize any risk of accidental discovery. But given I stay in touch with former SB's, I want to receive a timely notification if I had a new text message on my GV number. The easiest solution would be to use the email forwarding option to have my text messages sent to my gmail account, then set up a filter to forward them to my primary email address. The problem with that is the emails contain the sender's phone number and text message itself. That's not good for business. I want to receive a generic notification. Here's how I achieved that:
- Create a free account at Zapier.com.
- Set up a "zap" to check your gmail account for a new message that matches a search or label you define.
- When the zap is triggered, have it send an email to the address of your choice.
You can define the sender name / subject / message of the email that's sent. So in my case, when a new GV text comes through, Zapier sends me a generic email I wrote that looks like a standard notification from one of my web sites. But when I get it, I know I have a new message waiting for me on my GV number.
The free Zapier account runs every 15 minutes. So I'll always get that notification email within 15 minutes of a new text coming in. That's good enough for me.
A couple of important considerations:
- I only turn these notifications on when I'm not expecting to use the account for a while. That way my GV account is out of sight and out of mind, the app is dormant on my phone and I don't have to remember to log in and check it periodically.
- If a message comes in and I am going to engage in a conversation, I use the GV app or web interface to turn email forwarding off until I go dormant again. Otherwise every text message will trigger an email notification and quickly burn through the limits of the free tier on the Zapier account.
I hope this helps some of you guys.
JD.
SoonerFan72
02-15-21, 19:07
Google Voice works great. The advice below is solid, set up a completely separate Gmail account and use that for your Google Voice account. I've been using GV for almost 10 years and it's been extremely reliable (and flexible).
You can have all your texts (and attachments!) forwarded to your gmail account for archival purposes. You can also have texts and calls forwarded directly to your main phone number, but that can get tricky if you're not really careful. I recommend using the free GV app for everything, it works great.
While we're on the subject of Google Voice, I want to pass along something I started doing recently. I don't have a SB right now and haven't been seeing anyone lately. My GV account is quiet. For security purposes I want to be able to log completely out of the GV app on my phone to minimize any risk of accidental discovery. But given I stay in touch with former SB's, I want to receive a timely notification if I had a new text message on my GV number. The easiest solution would be to use the email forwarding option to have my text messages sent to my gmail account, then set up a filter to forward them to my primary email address. The problem with that is the emails contain the sender's phone number and text message itself. That's not good for business. I want to receive a generic notification. Here's how I achieved that:
- Create a free account at Zapier.com.
- Set up a "zap" to check your gmail account for a new message that matches a search or label you define.
- When the zap is triggered, have it send an email to the address of your choice.
You can define the sender name / subject / message of the email that's sent. So in my case, when a new GV text comes through, Zapier sends me a generic email I wrote that looks like a standard notification from one of my web sites. But when I get it, I know I have a new message waiting for me on my GV number.
The free Zapier account runs every 15 minutes. So I'll always get that notification email within 15 minutes of a new text coming in. That's good enough for me.
A couple of important considerations:
- I only turn these notifications on when I'm not expecting to use the account for a while. That way my GV account is out of sight and out of mind, the app is dormant on my phone and I don't have to remember to log in and check it periodically.
- If a message comes in and I am going to engage in a conversation, I use the GV app or web interface to turn email forwarding off until I go dormant again. Otherwise every text message will trigger an email notification and quickly burn through the limits of the free tier on the Zapier account.
I hope this helps some of you guys.
JD.I actually just use the GV web client from my PC, or my cell phone, to log in and check messages. I don't use GV for calling, just texting. I also have a burner phone I keep at the office, its just plugged in charging in my desk. I use it when I'm going to meet a SB. But I still use the GV client and not the burner phone number. Everything is completely off my main phone and Gmail account, they are completely separate.
DetroitJohnny
02-15-21, 22:07
It makes me happy to see these stories on here. I get so jaded reading all these reports about haggling over $10 for a BJ. It's nice to know there are dudes out there who treat the ladies with respect.Got it all wrong. It's treating yourself with respect and quality ladies see that in a man.
Got it all wrong. It's treating yourself with respect and quality ladies see that in a man.Correction, it's treating each other with respect and quality ladies like that in a man.
LuvThemTugs
02-16-21, 07:08
Correction, it's treating each other with respect and quality ladies like that in a man.Lady like a prostitute.
I am getting back in the sugar game after a few years.
I have digits of a couple of girls but don't want anything to trace back to me.
Do you guys have any suggestions for good burner phones or apps.
Thanks in advance.There's an app called Text Now. Create a gmail email account not linked to you. Download it, use the email account, and when it asks to use your contacts, say no. It's free, and allows texts and phone calls. When you want to not be bothered, but anyone who has that number, log out, or even delete the app. You can change your phone number every 15-20 days also, and while the app download can be associated with your phone, none of the calls, texts, etc will be as long as you delete app when you aren't using it. Works in USA and Canada, that is the only limitation.
There's an app called Text Now. Create a gmail email account not linked to you. Download it, use the email account, and when it asks to use your contacts, say no. It's free, and allows texts and phone calls. When you want to not be bothered, but anyone who has that number, log out, or even delete the app. You can change your phone number every 15-20 days also, and while the app download can be associated with your phone, none of the calls, texts, etc will be as long as you delete app when you aren't using it. Works in USA and Canada, that is the only limitation.Can you use the Text Now app in conjunction with your default messaging app? The messaging apps that I'm aware of always want to take over as your default messaging app, but based on your description it sounds like you can use both simultaneously without Text Now wanting to take over as default.
PunkedLife
02-17-21, 00:43
There's an app called Text Now. Create a gmail email account not linked to you. Download it, use the email account, and when it asks to use your contacts, say no. It's free, and allows texts and phone calls. When you want to not be bothered, but anyone who has that number, log out, or even delete the app. You can change your phone number every 15-20 days also, and while the app download can be associated with your phone, none of the calls, texts, etc will be as long as you delete app when you aren't using it. Works in USA and Canada, that is the only limitation.2nd line has worked pretty well for me too. Same concept. I have like 3 numbers with different emails and just log in and out when needed. One thing I like to do is use one number to get any detailed info on a girl then use a second number a few days later to just book the appointment without speaking about any details. Just an extra precaution.
MajMilkDuds
02-17-21, 09:32
Hey guys let's get back on track.
Here is a good one that I had a fantastic time with. Smart, easy going, and sexy. Honestly better looking in person. Saw her at her house and talked for a bit before doing anything. Connection was there. Clean. A minx in the bedroom. Give her a shot and message her on SA.
https://www.seeking.com/member/8c630c32-f88c-4a46-93cd-07237b48f251
Here is a good one that I had a fantastic time with.Username checks out LOL.
Tried Pm'ing but it won't go thru. Thanks.
Hey guys let's get back on track.
Here is a good one that I had a fantastic time with. Smart, easy going, and sexy. Honestly better looking in person. Saw her at her house and talked for a bit before doing anything. Connection was there. Clean. A minx in the bedroom. Give her a shot and message her on SA.
https://www.seeking.com/member/8c630c32-f88c-4a46-93cd-07237b48f251
SoonerFan72
02-17-21, 13:00
Hey guys let's get back on track.
Here is a good one that I had a fantastic time with. Smart, easy going, and sexy. Honestly better looking in person. Saw her at her house and talked for a bit before doing anything. Connection was there. Clean. A minx in the bedroom. Give her a shot and message her on SA.
https://www.seeking.com/member/8c630c32-f88c-4a46-93cd-07237b48f251I chatted her up a few months ago, she came across a bit to pro'ish for me. Nothing wrong with that, just not what I'm looking for. That body looks like a lot of fun though. If I recall she wanted like 400-500 ppm? Is that still the case?
JeffInnAtlanta
02-17-21, 13:46
This one wants more than 400 and she does not host, and will not meet at a less than 4 star hotel. She's not that hot.
https://www.seeking.com/member/91288a76-6051-4341-a5e9-2d21f2cae503
MajMilkDuds
02-17-21, 15:52
Tried Pm'ing but it won't go thru. Thanks.Clear!! Sorry guys.
MajMilkDuds
02-17-21, 15:54
I chatted her up a few months ago, she came across a bit to pro'ish for me. Nothing wrong with that, just not what I'm looking for. That body looks like a lot of fun though. If I recall she wanted like 400-500 ppm? Is that still the case?Negative. And not a pro at all. Hung for like 2 hours. And I did not do a 400 allowance ha ha. She is actually a hard working girl who is making a change and had a break-up so wanted to get some. But why not get some random dick and get some $ too ha ha.
Negative. And not a pro at all. Hung for like 2 hours. And I did not do a 400 allowance ha ha. She is actually a hard working girl who is making a change and had a break-up so wanted to get some. But why not get some random dick and get some $ too ha ha.Only wants younger dudes: 22 - 45. Guess that leaves several of us out of the lineup.
https://www.seeking.com/member/8f1fe139-cfa9-4b97-9e0d-af31d8528e71
And I quote "at least $750, I usually do 1000". Conversation started well on the app, moved to text, 3 minutes in, that is what I get. I simply said Good Luck.
This one wants more than 400 and she does not host, and will not meet at a less than 4 star hotel. She's not that hot.
https://www.seeking.com/member/91288a76-6051-4341-a5e9-2d21f2cae503That's a pro. Recreates her profile all the time. Also crazy. Watch out.
She has a public snap: London1016735.
II've seen her before at a hotel. She wasn't picky on which hotel, but I sensed a pro-vibe. I didn't care since I was there to see her in action. Not a repeat for me.
This one wants more than 400 and she does not host, and will not meet at a less than 4 star hotel. She's not that hot.
https://www.seeking.com/member/91288a76-6051-4341-a5e9-2d21f2cae503
I need some help from an ATL brother that has seen southernhockeymom. I had made plans to meet with her but my account got banned if one of you fine gentlemen can help out I would appreciate it.
There's an app called Text Now. Create a gmail email account not linked to you. Download it, use the email account, and when it asks to use your contacts, say no. It's free, and allows texts and phone calls. When you want to not be bothered, but anyone who has that number, log out, or even delete the app. You can change your phone number every 15-20 days also, and while the app download can be associated with your phone, none of the calls, texts, etc will be as long as you delete app when you aren't using it. Works in USA and Canada, that is the only limitation.More like big pp.
MrHobbyist
02-19-21, 11:48
Hey guys let's get back on track.
Here is a good one that I had a fantastic time with. Smart, easy going, and sexy. Honestly better looking in person. Saw her at her house and talked for a bit before doing anything. Connection was there. Clean. A minx in the bedroom. Give her a shot and message her on SA.
https://www.seeking.com/member/8c630c32-f88c-4a46-93cd-07237b48f251Her preferences stop at 45, bummer, she looks sexy as hell.
CarmelFight
02-19-21, 12:48
Are why'all just getting swamped with gals favoriting your profile from Venezuela or is it just me? Very annoying.
SeekingHead
02-19-21, 13:12
Are why'all just getting swamped with gals favoriting your profile from Venezuela or is it just me? Very annoying.There is an option on preferences to make your profile private, the only way a girl can see you is if you visit her profile while not premium. If your premium then they don't know you even visited them.
CarmelFight
02-19-21, 13:42
There is an option on preferences to make your profile private, the only way a girl can see you is if you visit her profile while not premium. If your premium then they don't know you even visited them.I meant that your notifications are just endless scammers from Venezuela.
SeekingHead
02-19-21, 13:49
I meant that your notifications are just endless scammers from Venezuela.Which is why I made my profile private. The only notifications I get are from women who I contact or if I am not premium if I visit their profile. When I'm not premium I'll check out profiles & favorite girls who I would like to bang, if they favorite me back I will hit them up when I renew my membership.
CarmelFight
02-19-21, 15:08
Which is why I made my profile private. The only notifications I get are from women who I contact or if I am not premium if I visit their profile. When I'm not premium I'll check out profiles & favorite girls who I would like to bang, if they favorite me back I will hit them up when I renew my membership.Ahh ok I gotcha.
SoonerFan72
02-19-21, 15:35
Anyone seen this one? She's been around a while, not sure if I want to take the plunge though.
https://www.seeking.com/member/843c7307-8d9e-48fa-a702-c12d1661a7b4
I blocked the profile before I got the URL. But SmilesandTitties wants $800 for a first platonic date. I have had a ton of success on that site, lots, but here lately things seem to be getting out of hand on new users.
I blocked the profile before I got the URL. But SmilesandTitties wants $800 for a first platonic date. I have had a ton of success on that site, lots, but here lately things seem to be getting out of hand on new users.What are these girls smokin' LOLOL It's totally absurd.
She has a public snap: London1016735.
II've seen her before at a hotel. She wasn't picky on which hotel, but I sensed a pro-vibe. I didn't care since I was there to see her in action. Not a repeat for me.She has been reviewed here several times. She's ridiculously picky once a lot of money and can't take the dick at all. She complains the whole time gets in positions to keep you from getting in deep. She's an all right enough person I knew her for a minute before taking the plunge. And back then I had talked her down to 150 for a couple of hours and two rounds bare. That in itself was still barely worth it. She now told me that she lives out of a hotel with roommates which is why she can't host. And that she wanted me to pay for her room for an entire week and then pay $300 or $400 on top of that just to see her. She is absolutely out of her mind. It's a shame because she has a nice spinner body although her tits are pretty gross. She has been reviewed in the past by myself and others. She has delusions of grandeur about being a model. If you have never seen her Snapchat you see that she has gone through apartments like water so her credit is atrocious I'm sure and she always shows up when she's desperate for cash but still tries to ask way too much for the service. I would just avoid it all together if I were you guys.
2nd line has worked pretty well for me too. Same concept. I have like 3 numbers with different emails and just log in and out when needed. One thing I like to do is use one number to get any detailed info on a girl then use a second number a few days later to just book the appointment without speaking about any details. Just an extra precaution.This is the exact way to do it. There are several times I've had a girl quote me one thing on one number then tell me something else on a different one. They give up their number so much they forget who their talking to half the time. This is also a good way to find out if they have just stopped replying to you and not everyone. By heading them from a different number if they reply you know they are ignoring you for whatever reason.
Spratty711
02-20-21, 10:48
There's an app called Text Now. Create a gmail email account not linked to you. Download it, use the email account, and when it asks to use your contacts, say no. It's free, and allows texts and phone calls. When you want to not be bothered, but anyone who has that number, log out, or even delete the app. You can change your phone number every 15-20 days also, and while the app download can be associated with your phone, none of the calls, texts, etc will be as long as you delete app when you aren't using it. Works in USA and Canada, that is the only limitation.I use Textfree on two of my older phones with two different #'s on wifi. You can call and text using the app.
https://www.seeking.com/member/270284b6-5ed9-4d49-96fd-d97f86814b31
MajMilkDuds
02-20-21, 11:38
Has anyone seen this one? Seems promising texts seems like she is legit and not a bit or scam. House near camp creek. Wanted to prime for info before pulling the trigger. Definitely hot and verified pics.
https://www.seeking.com/member/3143562c-eed1-4e2e-b708-eaad6e7bf1c6
Has anyone seen this one? Seems promising texts seems like she is legit and not a bit or scam. House near camp creek. Wanted to prime for info before pulling the trigger. Definitely hot and verified pics.
https://www.seeking.com/member/3143562c-eed1-4e2e-b708-eaad6e7bf1c6This is an ad I would normally blow right by being that it's brand new and only one picture with so little information. Let us know if it's legit. It would be nice to see one of these that's real.
You sound a lot like me, we take the exact same approach to arrangements. Here's a link to a post I made in the Richmond SB thread about a 4 year relationship I had with a girl I met on SA:
http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?9746-quot-Sugarbabies-quot-quot-Arrangements-quot-Amateurs-or-Not&p=4307822&viewfull=1#post4307822
A lot of the guys approach the girls on SA like they would any escort or UTR (that is, paying to get laid with zero strings attached). While that's certainly a valid approach, I prefer longer term arrangements that are pretty much indistinguishable from traditional dating. There's just no substitute for the attention, affection and enthusiasm you get from a super hot 20-something who is genuinely into you. Like you, I enjoy helping a hard-working girl reach her goals, and I've found that a little effort invested in the right girl can pay incredible dividends. I've had 3 long term arrangements since 2012. I'm still good friends with all 3 of them. The last one, the girl I was with for 4 years, she really was something special. Almost too good to be true. My experience was exactly like yours in that she was by far the best relationship of my life. We were 20 years apart but I've never been with anyone who was a more perfect fit and it's not even close. Toward the end we did talk about the possibility of staying together. But ultimately she decided she wanted to settle down with someone closer to her own age, and that was definitely the right choice for her (I am married). We shared a lot of great experiences together and we were a big part of each other's lives for quite a while. It was exactly what we both needed at the time. I'm certain she and I will be close for life.I never expected my experiences to turn out so well. Of course, there were a few false starts, when you go out one or two times, and it's just not going to work. The DC area is like a gold mine. There were a lot of beautiful, intelligent and fun young women on SA up there. The expectations were no higher than here, and there a ton of them -- little Capitol Hill staffers, college interns working there, local girls who were in college, non-profit girls not making much money. Etc. Way before SA, I had moved there while finishing a graduate degree. I was working full-time doing consulting and then did a gig at one of the prestigious DC universities as an adjunct professor teaching one class and was 31-32 and married. Crap, there were some unreal girls beautiful, smart, etc. In my classes. There was always at least one if not two in each class that had the thing for the professor, but that is a very, very bad line to cross. I never flirted with them when they came in my office or up to me after class; had some light personal discussion to be friendly; but it was all business. I had one pretty much ask me out after the Fall semester during Christmas break. "What are you doing over the holidays, Dr. X?" "Just hanging here with the wife for Christmas, no real plans. " "Oh. I am going to be here over the holidays. Are you going to be free?" "Uhhhhh. I got to go Nicole someone came into my office (not really). Merry Christmas. Blah blah. " Shit man. I was a good boy though, and at least the upper head prevailed. I wasn't really tempted, since my wife was intelligent, smoking hot and fun just like those girls only 5 years older. LOL.
I've been back on SA for a few weeks, and it's really futile. I am 59, but can pull off 50, and I am sure that's a factor. I'm not desperate, and I'm mining for the little gem. I'd report on someone, if I actually had something meaningful to contribute. There's been some of the "smash and cash" girls, but I think anyone here who is on SA has probably been hit up by them; the scammers, etc. Some have already been mentioned on here.
I decided to deactivate for a little, and am in touch with couple who are not in a hurry. One of them is little newbie, and the situation is somewhat like the the one in DC where she's super cautious, but very interested. She lives further out from Atlanta, and where she is, she's not having any luck. She deleted her account, because she's tired of nasty emails and the scammers. Maybe nothing will come of it, but I've wasted a shitload of time dicking around with girls on there. I tested the waters asking if she wanted to do voice, but she was hesitant. That was last week, and she's been steadily texting me for three weeks total. So I got the "I definitely love talking (meaning texting) with you, and am enjoying getting to know you. I'm looking forward to meeting one day. " This is a very good sign. When the SB thing happened like this the one time up in DC, it was great; she was worth the wait. Hope this one works.
https://www.seeking.com/member/270284b6-5ed9-4d49-96fd-d97f86814b31To be fair, mine's a lesbian too. But she sure can take dick for $.
Johnny Mapalo
02-20-21, 18:13
This is an ad I would normally blow right by being that it's brand new and only one picture with so little information. Let us know if it's legit. It would be nice to see one of these that's real.You should blow right by the ad. Anyone with half a peanut brain would blow by it too. 1 pic posted, new profile= rethread scammer. I'll bet you my left nut that she's had more than 2 previous profiles on the site. Stop lusting, you thirsty tricks!
You should blow right by the ad. Anyone with half a peanut brain would blow by it too. 1 pic posted, new profile= rethread scammer. I'll bet you my left nut that she's had more than 2 previous profiles on the site. Stop lusting, you thirsty tricks!Definitely a scam post. But hey I figured I would let somebody else find it out and share the info. Every now and then one of them is real. But it's stupid rare.
To be fair, mine's a lesbian too. But she sure can take dick for $.Yes but this one clearly makes it known that she wants to be platonic. So she wants me a lesbian that just teases you for money. Haha.
DocHolliday35
02-21-21, 08:32
To be fair, mine's a lesbian too. But she sure can take dick for $.Hopefully it is not that blue eyes.
DocHolliday35
02-21-21, 08:34
Has anyone seen this one? Seems promising texts seems like she is legit and not a bit or scam. House near camp creek. Wanted to prime for info before pulling the trigger. Definitely hot and verified pics.
https://www.seeking.com/member/3143562c-eed1-4e2e-b708-eaad6e7bf1c6Looks like an escort. I have talked to a few girls on SA who are located by the airport with out of state numbers. Never met with them so would be interested in how your experience is.
MajMilkDuds
02-21-21, 09:04
This is an ad I would normally blow right by being that it's brand new and only one picture with so little information. Let us know if it's legit. It would be nice to see one of these that's real.She is real. But honestly not my type in person. She was very very thin with no ass. She is good with angles so she looked curvier. She also can't take dick. I'm not big my any means but I'm not small. Just a hair above avg. She was holding me back and making sure I couldn't go deep. But if you like skinny skinny and fake tits with no ass. She is for you. 2 $. Good oral. But also very pro like.
MajMilkDuds
02-21-21, 09:06
Definitely a scam post. But hey I figured I would let somebody else find it out and share the info. Every now and then one of them is real. But it's stupid rare.Well she is real and I fucked her. So I guess I worked out. If you want to check her out she has a house off camp creek.
She is real. But honestly not my type in person. She was very very thin with no ass. She is good with angles so she looked curvier. She also can't take dick. I'm not big my any means but I'm not small. Just a hair above avg. She was holding me back and making sure I couldn't go deep. But if you like skinny skinny and fake tits with no ass. She is for you. 2 $. Good oral. But also very pro like.Thanks for the update. Like I said these are the ones I typically avoid, but every now and then they are real. So you are saying she didn't even look like the pictures? And yes skinny girls are not my type. I don't mind if they're thin but not super skinny. I'm about to share another post of a girl who keeps reposting new profiles and is the exact same way. Glad you had a decent time!
She has been reviewed here several times. She's ridiculously picky once a lot of money and can't take the dick at all. She complains the whole time gets in positions to keep you from getting in deep. She's an all right enough person I knew her for a minute before taking the plunge. And back then I had talked her down to 150 for a couple of hours and two rounds bare. That in itself was still barely worth it. She now told me that she lives out of a hotel with roommates which is why she can't host. And that she wanted me to pay for her room for an entire week and then pay $300 or $400 on top of that just to see her. She is absolutely out of her mind. It's a shame because she has a nice spinner body although her tits are pretty gross. She has been reviewed in the past by myself and others. She has delusions of grandeur about being a model. If you have never seen her Snapchat you see that she has gone through apartments like water so her credit is atrocious I'm sure and she always shows up when she's desperate for cash but still tries to ask way too much for the service. I would just avoid it all together if I were you guys.Well she is back at it again with a brand new profile. I wonder if the purple profile is taken down now. More than likely it is. London is the name she was going by regularly. So that is why I'm making this post so if someone searches the word London they will find her and this information because she keeps making new profiles with new names and won't be able to search her that way has the same person.
https://www.seeking.com/member/229980ea-7246-4787-b445-2572445930dd
UPDATE: I just checked on the super purple ad is still active. So she has multiple ads that are active... Beware guys
She has a public snap: London1016735.
II've seen her before at a hotel. She wasn't picky on which hotel, but I sensed a pro-vibe. I didn't care since I was there to see her in action. Not a repeat for me.I've seen her as well. Not worth it.
DocHolliday35
02-21-21, 15:12
Met with her recently. She is young. A little rougher in person then in the pictures. Was not the best and she was a little to young for me. Very nice girl though.
https://www.seeking.com/member/0a4c04c6-6d83-4e9c-b764-8c47095c0ee4
MajMilkDuds
02-21-21, 15:16
Thanks for the update. Like I said these are the ones I typically avoid, but every now and then they are real. So you are saying she didn't even look like the pictures? And yes skinny girls are not my type. I don't mind if they're thin but not super skinny. I'm about to share another post of a girl who keeps reposting new profiles and is the exact same way. Glad you had a decent time!Ya. I learned my lesson. 🤦127996;8205;9794;65039;.
Ya. I learned my lesson. 🤦127996;8205;9794;65039;.Brother you are still doing better than me right now. It used to be so easy but now there are so many scammers and time wasters selling pictures. I have also changed my technique which I need to snap myself out of and go back to the way I was doing it. I think that has raised my failure rate. I have to remember to cultivate more and build a good crop rather than trying to harvest the same day.
SoonerFan72
02-22-21, 12:43
Complete scammer, wants money up front to do all the nasty things you want. Yeah right.
https://www.seeking.com/member/ddc58a3a-6eab-4671-ba18-4a6c18f583e1
SoonerFan72
02-22-21, 13:54
Another scammer, send me money for gas and Ill come see you chic. Blah.
https://www.seeking.com/member/c5c07b8b-e754-4c74-b0a2-a76bc4c18ca8
Meat Dumper
02-22-21, 14:42
Had an opening in the rotation and thought I found one. Talked a good game, aligned with how I want my arrangements, and seemed reasonable on the pockets. Do my research and I find pics on Eros under Victoria London. I guess she's not really hiding it but I'm going non-pro for a minute. If pics are legit, she's well maintained and has a body on her. Didn't pursue any further after seeing the ad. Have at her:
https://www.seeking.com/member/73782cff-fee5-4a36-b7d6-ae1367ad886a
https://www.eros.com/georgia/atlanta/files/1487392.htm?cat=1
Dumper.
JeffInnAtlanta
02-22-21, 21:42
Luxbunny6610 - https://www.seeking.com/member/99fd95f4-d979-420e-b371-41057519015f sends a number, they delete the profile to get you to text, they send a buttload of pics, and it's a scam.
Gababie2021 - https://www.seeking.com/member/fba0e739-b4b0-4802-95ab-e538f93eb175 only wants to sell pics and calls.
Doubletroublee21 - https://www.seeking.com/member/e619a851-9639-45e2-943b-f87981de1945 - try to get you to facetime or snap to get you to send them money.
I was on Established Men for a while and found that the majority of girls with numerals in their names / handles were likely scammers. I don't know if it might be a similar thing on Seeking (or maybe beginning to be)? So not sure if this is a sign of likely potential scammers. Although a couple of numbers like age (xxxxx21, etc.) might be fairly innocuous. Just food for thought and maybe some other observations and opinions.
MrHobbyist
02-23-21, 06:16
I've been playing around with SDM for a few days. I'm liking it better than STG, mostly because I can get three months for the price of one at STG, but I'm also getting a lot of traffic. I'm not sure how much more BS I'll get, but I've got a meet set up for Thursday and another for Saturday. I'll let you know how they go.
SoonerFan72
02-23-21, 11:20
Anyone seen this one? She had another profile awhile back, we chatted for a bit, and I'm pretty sure she is real. If anyone has seen her, and can give some insight, please let me know. PM if necessary.
https://www.seeking.com/member/2ff8f20c-9998-44a8-84df-de1e56ab1c06
SoonerFan72
02-23-21, 11:26
I talked with this one a few months ago, got a verification pic, she is real. Was straight to the point, only "no" was no anal. She asked 400 at the time, I think she would have easily went lower. I had better fish at the time, so I didn't pursue. So have at it mongers, let me know how it goes.
https://www.seeking.com/member/83064dac-086e-4159-8a1b-fff2adcb3e82
SoonerFan72
02-23-21, 12:34
Just promoting her OnlyFans site. Not interested in meeting.
https://www.seeking.com/member/7c0de667-6785-43c8-960f-9870b6f84f7a
https://www.seeking.com/member/186f51bf-01c7-46fa-8cb8-b7b69da6146e
Got what a sob story here. 2 months behind on rent, car all due by Friday. Oh and a 17 month old baby boy she will have taken away if she get evicted smdh. Told her to slink home to the 'rents because she isn't getting that amount of coin via Seeking.
Stay safe,
Jims2321.
CarmelFight
02-23-21, 13:58
Definitely a scam post. But hey I figured I would let somebody else find it out and share the info. Every now and then one of them is real. But it's stupid rare.She isn't a scam post, I saw her on a different S / and using readyforyou9000 like year ago. She has a pro vibe to her and I never repeated. Idk what her ppm is now but when I saw her I dropped her down to $$. 5 she wanted 4 benz.
JeffInnAtlanta
02-23-21, 16:26
Sokolov1 - 400-600 - I think she's fake, Marietta, from Vegas - https://www.seeking.com/member/53caddd6-8aff-4a70-a71a-ac2eab89f93d.
REESE. Stripper? https://www.seeking.com/member/689091fb-847d-ea05-4ae6-a28f3335c6bc.
I talked with this one a few months ago, got a verification pic, she is real. Was straight to the point, only "no" was no anal. She asked 400 at the time, I think she would have easily went lower. I had better fish at the time, so I didn't pursue. So have at it mongers, let me know how it goes.
https://www.seeking.com/member/83064dac-086e-4159-8a1b-fff2adcb3e82She wanted 350 and I just say no. Counter for 200 and just said no. So yeah. But she did look real cute.
Avoid. Total GPS. Wants 6. 5 $$ per meet. LOL, so crazy. Not worth even close to that. She blocked me, so I can't link to her profile.
SoonerFan72
02-23-21, 22:07
She wanted 350 and I just say no. Counter for 200 and just said no. So yeah. But she did look real cute.Thanks bro!
SoonerFan72
02-24-21, 09:00
Chatted this one a bit, she is straight to the point. Wants 300 to meet. I didn't feel she was 300 material, countered with 200, and she passed. She is a little on the thick side, but cute. Sent a verification pic, she is the girl in the pics. Once again, I did not meet her, that's all the info I have.
https://www.seeking.com/member/3c12b13d-fb61-45cb-9ab3-a67157edcc4a
SoonerFan72
02-24-21, 09:28
Completely fake. Sends fake pics of hot latinas, would not send verification pic. Might be a real person hiding behind fake pics, but I'm not going to find out. Wanted 400, countered with 300, she agreed. But since she wouldn't verify, I bailed.
https://www.seeking.com/member/76122d5c-0570-4450-9639-e1a1597607d4
fatherland
02-24-21, 12:38
Haven't gotten a response yet but she seems legit. Anyone have experience?
https://www.seeking.com/member/2ccb4900-47e4-4732-a872-18dbd85910e0
Haven't gotten a response yet but she seems legit. Anyone have experience?
https://www.seeking.com/member/2ccb4900-47e4-4732-a872-18dbd85910e0Have not but there are reports that she expects 700 per meet.
BoJackSugarman
02-24-21, 19:54
Have not but there are reports that she expects 700 per meet.I talked to her and at the last minute she asked for 800 and then when I countered she got rude and said how guys offer her "way more than 1000". I told her to f_ off LOL.
Ferocious1980
02-24-21, 20:32
https://www.seeking.com/member/d99370b2-b0a2-4e60-a4af-a566deb78379
Told me 250 with no head and must wear protection. Have a go fellas.
RudyMantooth
02-25-21, 08:41
Have not but there are reports that she expects 700 per meet.Looks like Sapphire without the horrible wig.
https://www.eros.com/georgia/atlanta/files/5258382.htm?cat=1
https://www.seeking.com/member/d7768ad0-a6f0-45a1-a239-37b2f2dcd5a6
Chatted with this one for awhile. She is real (found her facebook) but in the end tried to sell me pics / videos. Says she is open to meeting in person; however lives in Rockmart, wouldn't come to me and can't host etc.
SoonerFan72
02-25-21, 14:44
Wants 600-700 a week. Don't we all. NOPE.
https://www.seeking.com/member/f32011eb-90e0-4de3-a69e-26c26818444c
JeffInnAtlanta
02-26-21, 08:51
If you get blocked by one of those scammers on Seeking you can still report them. Go to the messages and even though the pictures are all circles with a line, and the profile won't come up, click the wheel in the top right corner. The link for REPORT is still active, or block if you want to block them back. Don't let these fake profiles get away with trying to scam guys.
Hi Generals!
Wondering if anyone uses secretebenefits.com? Can you share some experience here please? Kudos!
Another advice after you block them on seeking is to post here with a pic of them. You should know how to attach an image. This will save people time searching and asking about links that are posted. Links expire, new ones can easily be created so the pic helps.
If you get blocked by one of those scammers on Seeking you can still report them. Go to the messages and even though the pictures are all circles with a line, and the profile won't come up, click the wheel in the top right corner. The link for REPORT is still active, or block if you want to block them back. Don't let these fake profiles get away with trying to scam guys.
NikkaNamedSlik
02-27-21, 15:49
Hi Generals!
Wondering if anyone uses secretebenefits.com? Can you share some experience here please? Kudos!I use secret benefits cause I got banned from seeking about a year ago and don't feel like jumping through hoops to get another account. I've been successful on sb. There's a lot less girls. The thing about sb is it is way more expensive cause you have to buy credits to msg girls, see private pics, etc. Since this is a numbers game, it's way more easier to get your roster up on seeking whereas on sb you'll be spending a lot of money messaging women. SB is a lot more relaxed though as far as what you can say in messages and the interface is much better. I still miss seeking though LOL.
Have not but there are reports that she expects 700 per meet.She's real, I've met her, total platonic scammer. Will lead you on and get what she can get before providing then split.
https://www.seeking.com/member/ef31c4b6-3dd0-4aaa-bb60-d8a0a30c2bc7
Wants at least 900 mer meet. LOL. Pass.
SoonerFan72
03-01-21, 09:39
This crazy ***** sends me this totally unsolicited. I'm guessing the guys are lining up! WTF!
"Hi there! My name is Kyra. I am ideally looking for someone to go on nice dates, shopping etc while getting a weekly or monthly allowance. My requirements depend on you because every SD is different. My last SD gave me $500 PPM then $1000 on the 1st of every month for bills, on my birthday and Christmas gave 2 gifts and a $1,000 bonus. I can not host but once it gets to that point I could meet at a local hotel. Let me know if you might me interested. ".
https://www.seeking.com/member/2efa0b5a-10df-4fb0-8452-c2b2b349f668
This crazy ***** sends me this totally unsolicited. I'm guessing the guys are lining up! WTF!
"Hi there! My name is Kyra. I am ideally looking for someone to go on nice dates, shopping etc while getting a weekly or monthly allowance. My requirements depend on you because every SD is different. My last SD gave me $500 PPM then $1000 on the 1st of every month for bills, on my birthday and Christmas gave 2 gifts and a $1,000 bonus. I can not host but once it gets to that point I could meet at a local hotel. Let me know if you might me interested. ".
https://www.seeking.com/member/2efa0b5a-10df-4fb0-8452-c2b2b349f668Did she say how she got your info? I hope you laughed and told her to get lost, LOL.
SeekingHead
03-01-21, 13:33
This crazy ***** sends me this totally unsolicited. I'm guessing the guys are lining up! WTF!
"Hi there! My name is Kyra. I am ideally looking for someone to go on nice dates, shopping etc while getting a weekly or monthly allowance. My requirements depend on you because every SD is different. My last SD gave me $500 PPM then $1000 on the 1st of every month for bills, on my birthday and Christmas gave 2 gifts and a $1,000 bonus. I can not host but once it gets to that point I could meet at a local hotel. Let me know if you might me interested. ".
https://www.seeking.com/member/2efa0b5a-10df-4fb0-8452-c2b2b349f668Honestly looks like the first crazy ***** who emailed me when I first joined SA, before my first arrangement. I had a good idea of $'s per meet up so I didn't politely declined her rate of $800 for a dinner date & fun. I don't know what I would have done had she actually looked hot, but being over 200 lbs & looking like the back end of a dog ass made the decision easy. I declined & told her no thanks wasn't interested, the crazy ass ***** then sent me over 10 messages going off on me. I had to block her.
Maygingersnap - https://www.seeking.com/member/55985ce8-a57d-4cb9-b1e0-6ebb3bc5fef5 She chats on the site for a while, then she won't be on for a few days. I doubt she can work a meet into her schedule.
Maisthebaddest https://www.seeking.com/member/d80c3c28-43d1-4c81-95fc-0c42639031bc - She has no clue what she's doing. She tries to chat at work and you end up just wasting time with a young girl with no clue and no plan to meet.
AK1215 https://www.seeking.com/member/a789b450-ede0-4731-9a19-4dc286346d59 - This one is a scammer. She'll send you pics and builds a connection, tells you the sob story, then hits you up for 500 a month to be "friends".
Laprincessssaa https://www.seeking.com/member/871d69c0-fab0-4a50-8cdf-cced87a1461c - not worth it, she thinks she's worth 400 PPM x 5 paid monthly in advance.
Bestoneyet https://www.seeking.com/member/3143562c-eed1-4e2e-b708-eaad6e7bf1c6 - Wants Buckhead rates and when you tell her she's not worth it she rants about her hacker friends coming after you and all sorts of other threats. Avoid.
53 hotandreal https://www.seeking.com/member/64fd2296-232b-4f92-8cfc-c04679138bd9 - She never meets anyone. I don't know of she is hot or real, and I don't think anyone will know. If you push to meet she will block you. Time waster.AK1215 - is real. I met with her not too long ago for BBFS & BBBJ. She's a little heavier than her pics would suggest, though. The damage was 200 $.
This crazy ***** sends me this totally unsolicited. I'm guessing the guys are lining up! WTF!
"Hi there! My name is Kyra. I am ideally looking for someone to go on nice dates, shopping etc while getting a weekly or monthly allowance. My requirements depend on you because every SD is different. My last SD gave me $500 PPM then $1000 on the 1st of every month for bills, on my birthday and Christmas gave 2 gifts and a $1,000 bonus. I can not host but once it gets to that point I could meet at a local hotel. Let me know if you might me interested. ".
https://www.seeking.com/member/2efa0b5a-10df-4fb0-8452-c2b2b349f668LOL. I was in contact with her as well. She's a little weird. I wasn't terribly interested, but I enjoy the conversation for my own amusement. Quickly moved to text, doesn't host, but down for quite a lot. She's hard up for cash, as I quickly and easily got her down to $100/ hr. Word of warning, that profile picture is probably after a good 2 hours in the makeup chair. Not at all representative of what she looks like say to day. Got a couple of selfies to prove she's real, and holy hell, if scraggly and frumpy is your thing, she does that well. If you told me they were pictures of a haggard panhandler, I'd believe you.
Ozymandias
03-01-21, 19:12
This crazy ***** sends me this totally unsolicited. I'm guessing the guys are lining up! WTF!
"Hi there! My name is Kyra. I am ideally looking for someone to go on nice dates, shopping etc while getting a weekly or monthly allowance. My requirements depend on you because every SD is different. My last SD gave me $500 PPM then $1000 on the 1st of every month for bills, on my birthday and Christmas gave 2 gifts and a $1,000 bonus. I can not host but once it gets to that point I could meet at a local hotel. Let me know if you might me interested. ".
https://www.seeking.com/member/2efa0b5a-10df-4fb0-8452-c2b2b349f668I don't think there's enough tequila in Mexico to get me to a point where I wouldn't be staring at that weird patch or burn scar above her lip.
Theory: there has to be some cash out scheme people are using sugarbaby sites for, like maybe they're carders or something. I don't know what the provider-side experience is with such sites, but I do know there is NO WAY she's getting dudes throwing bands at her. I mean, she's actually ugly.
The pics must be chosen to *avoid* contacts, and then they use the account for some other purpose. I don't know what it is, but it must be in service of some kind of money laundering or fraud.
I mean, surely no one sees Burned Mouth Chick and thinks "dayum it's worth a gee to git up deep in there! " Shudder.
O.
ChrisHansen92
03-01-21, 19:24
1. Don't use it you will spend a huge amount of money and wasted time.
2. If you absolutely must use it only spend your credits on profiles that have verified with a video.
3. See rule #1.
I use secret benefits cause I got banned from seeking about a year ago and don't feel like jumping through hoops to get another account. I've been successful on sb. There's a lot less girls. The thing about sb is it is way more expensive cause you have to buy credits to msg girls, see private pics, etc. Since this is a numbers game, it's way more easier to get your roster up on seeking whereas on sb you'll be spending a lot of money messaging women. SB is a lot more relaxed though as far as what you can say in messages and the interface is much better. I still miss seeking though LOL.
Pharmacy470
03-02-21, 14:34
I apologize as I deleted her chat but yesterday I chatted with a latina from chicago who is now moving to Atlanta and needs help.
She asked for my number so she can text more. At 330 AM I get texts that you got my pregnant and I am coming over to tell your wife etc. LOL.
I got 3 more texts from different numbers and a call. I picked up the call but they hung up.
Anyone going through this. Its funny but annoying.
NewAnonymousName
03-02-21, 20:18
I apologize as I deleted her chat but yesterday I chatted with a latina from chicago who is now moving to Atlanta and needs help.
She asked for my number so she can text more. At 330 AM I get texts that you got my pregnant and I am coming over to tell your wife etc. LOL.
I got 3 more texts from different numbers and a call. I picked up the call but they hung up.
Anyone going through this. Its funny but annoying.Unless you left an important event out of your chronology, you haven't even met her in person yet, but she's claiming you got her pregnant. That's a new level of stupidity in blackmail. I hope you used a burner phone or google voice, like any careful monger would.
Where are these girls getting guidance from. This one use to be $600 now asking $1000.
https://www.seeking.com/member/4335b37a-1742-4713-9efd-e1a5e46f4fdd. I know some will be fooled by the makeup and dollar store lashes. Don't pay that. Make her bring her prices back down to reality.
1. Don't use it you will spend a huge amount of money and wasted time.
2. If you absolutely must use it only spend your credits on profiles that have verified with a video.
3. See rule #1.So the quality of the ladies are about the same as SA? With lots of fake spams?
You can imagine folks on here aren't Ob / gyn so it seems her tactic may have worked before.
Lesson: People lack what we think of as "common sense". I'm not even talking about expert level knowledge.
Where are these girls getting guidance from. This one use to be $600 now asking $1000.
https://www.seeking.com/member/4335b37a-1742-4713-9efd-e1a5e46f4fdd. I know some will be fooled by the makeup and dollar store lashes. Don't pay that. Make her bring her prices back down to reality.
SeekingHead
03-03-21, 01:44
Unless you left an important event out of your chronology, you haven't even met her in person yet, but she's claiming you got her pregnant. That's a new level of stupidity in blackmail. I hope you used a burner phone or google voice, like any careful monger would.Damn the tits on her.
https://www.seeking.com/member/8c106b68-ee3d-4416-84c2-e69bc50bdee5
LikeMike1963
03-04-21, 10:19
I don't live in your area but of course linked on her profile. She reached out to me. Sooo I thought lets have some fun. Her offer was considerably less than than what you mentioned. About 1 k month plus extras etc. She asked if that was ok to meet a couple weekends a month. I said it was. I mentioned the distance and asked if she would be compfortable if I would fly here first class for our weekends. She said of course!. LOL. I also asked about her ability to travel and take trips out of the country. Islands etc. She said yes of course. Carried on with other fun tidbits and benefits for her. Dragged on for a couple days. . annnnnd so I told her I found another match. I did not block her. Waiting to see what nasty response I may get. Hahahahha.
I don't think there's enough tequila in Mexico to get me to a point where I wouldn't be staring at that weird patch or burn scar above her lip.
Theory: there has to be some cash out scheme people are using sugarbaby sites for, like maybe they're carders or something. I don't know what the provider-side experience is with such sites, but I do know there is NO WAY she's getting dudes throwing bands at her. I mean, she's actually ugly.
The pics must be chosen to *avoid* contacts, and then they use the account for some other purpose. I don't know what it is, but it must be in service of some kind of money laundering or fraud.
I mean, surely no one sees Burned Mouth Chick and thinks "dayum it's worth a gee to git up deep in there! " Shudder.
O.
Pharmacy470
03-04-21, 14:46
https://www.seeking.com/member/e91df97d-4d08-4eeb-9f91-378b422ab8ea
She has been very responsive. Wants $200 to meet LOL but haven't negotiated.
I will at the very least meet up with her but I can't find any reviews.
Thanks!
MatteoRusso
03-04-21, 15:13
This one reached out to me and said that she wanted a long term arrangement. Wanted something right away and mentioned that she definitely could take care of my needs. I did a search on her photos and discovered she's a escort on multiple platforms. I felt like this was a scammer so I mentioned to them about the out of State escort sites that I noticed the same identical photos and she immediately blocked me.
https://www.seeking.com/member/e91df97d-4d08-4eeb-9f91-378b422ab8ea
She has been very responsive. Wants $200 to meet LOL but haven't negotiated.
I will at the very least meet up with her but I can't find any reviews.
Thanks!I was supposed to meet this one for breakfast. Something felt off so I stood her up. She blocked me.
Hey guys anyone seen this girl lately or did demons get her or a pimp LOL.
Had heard some reviews a while back. Was thinking of reaching out. You can PM me too. Have some good ones to share as well.
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