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I also had a date with her. Nice restaurant in Birkdale. Nice girl, but didn't seem like there was a chance at anything extra happening.
I agree! She certainly is a serial dater, and she's got a line of BS for everything. I wish someone would actually come out on this forum who met her more than once and got anything out of her other than a dinner date and paid her agreed fee. First of all, I would never waste my time with a chick from that site, or any other, if in the back of my mind she was not a potential lay. In her case, she was definitely a potential for 2nd and third date in my book, maybe even longer. I treated her like a lady, and she played her part with a hug and convincing me how she'll send me her next week's schedule so that we can plan a 2nd date, etc. , etc. So it wasn't me who didn't like her. Also, I understand that I don't have to be every girls cup of tea, and I am OK with that. She may have not find me attractive or interesting, and that's OK. All she had to do was answer one of my messages and let me know that she changed her mind about seeing me again. But after she god a Benjamin from me, and a free lunch, she gave me a silence treatment, even thought I can see that she red every one of my messages. Besides, she is on that site almost every day, and pops up 80% of the times withing the first 5 profiles. So she is working it full time, whenever she's not working as a waitress. Gastonian, old friend, just be careful! I truly hope you get something out of her, more than any one of us did, but be careful. I will definitely keep you posted how my experiment works out with not paying anything on the first date. I already have an update on that, just didn't have time to write it up yet and post it. And for that reason, where no money is promised on the first date, I prefer SA over WYP. Besides, way more choices and faster turnaround on SA than WYP.
We have some great momentum on this thread and I want all of us start identifying time wasters on SA and WYP, its almost as important as Ripoff report in my opinion. Here is a classic one https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/bcfc46ce-1f21-44a0-8024-d8fc024e9064.
Total time waster / stood me up twice (I know, I know, I fell for it as first cancellation was because of heavy rain and low visibility). She completely ghosted on me, but is active every day, checking messages on SA, classic epitome of time waster.
Mravcapo69
10-06-16, 22:13
GB I completely agree with everything you said. It is all about the money. But I guess it works for both sides. If I don't get honey, because I am not offering money on the first date, that's fine. But I am being upfront about the reverse possibility. If they not ready to offer some honey, they are not getting any money.
No matter what else you think, these girls want one thing: money. Don't think they're attracted to fat, old, bald guys for any other reason. And if you're not fat old or bald good for you maybe you can meet chicks with your good looks and slim physique. But don't be fooled. Its only about the money. No money? No honey for you.
I've tried offering dinner, clothes, shopping, phone cards, everything. They want all that but what they really want is cold hard cash.
GB40.
OrdinaryJohn
10-25-16, 17:03
Been texting her and trying to see if she for real. May be taking one for the team here soon. Her pics look https://members.whatsyourprice.com/~Minela24.
I did get some info from Jessi from Raleigh. Sweet girl, definitely legit, but pretty expensive. Gives a decent massage and CBJ I hear.
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/~JessiR92
Been texting her and trying to see if she for real. May be taking one for the team here soon. Her pics look https://members.whatsyourprice.com/~Minela24.
I did get some info from Jessi from Raleigh. Sweet girl, definitely legit, but pretty expensive. Gives a decent massage and CBJ I hear.
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/~JessiR92She is legit. She some relatives here so hits Charlotte fairly regularly. I saw her about a year ago FS was on the menu $$. Only issue for me is she is heavier than her pictures show so I didn't keep her in my rotation.
OrdinaryJohn
10-26-16, 19:16
She is legit. She some relatives here so hits Charlotte fairly regularly. I saw her about a year ago FS was on the menu $$. Only issue for me is she is heavier than her pictures show so I didn't keep her in my rotation.Were you talking about Jessi or Milena?
Thanks for the info!
Were you talking about Jessi or Milena?
Thanks for the info!Referring to Jessi.
Agree with the info on Jessi, cute girl but much heavier than the pics, also nothing close to what you would call GFE.
Overall I have had much better luck on SA, just be 100% up front about what you are looking for, some are completely not into it, but about half are looking for the same thing.
Monger sues girls he met on WYP for loan that she was stupid enough to sign an iou for. This was on the peoples court Friday night. Just so funny listening to them trying to explain about the web site. A must see if you can get it on demand or on line.
THEFOG.
OrdinaryJohn
10-31-16, 12:52
Have a severe case of GPS.
There are a couple I really want to try but I'm not dropping 4 or 5 bills to test the waters.
Oh well. Maybe I'll find that needle in the haystack!
AGoodThing2
11-01-16, 16:45
LOL. LMAO. WOOWED.
I saw that too. Damn people are freekin stuu=pidddddd.
They lady judge asked a lot of questions.
Monger sues girls he met on WYP for loan that she was stupid enough to sign an iou for. This was on the peoples court Friday night. Just so funny listening to them trying to explain about the web site. A must see if you can get it on demand or on line.
THEFOG.
Holy Houndog
11-02-16, 12:17
Last month, I struck up an email coversation with Codii. Apparently she is infected with GPS. To the tune of 8 Benjamins. LOL. Not going to happen. Ever. More recently, I chatted with a young lady, mid 30's, who seemed promising, but was bitterly disappointed that I didn't want to give her money for eating lunch with her. I told her before meeting, that if it's a meet and greet, I'll buy dinner, etc, but not paying for her to eat with me. Odd that I haven't heard back from her. Oh well. I've met some nice ones off wyp, and some that are relunctant to follow thru. What is really fascinating is that very few of them see this as doing anything for money. Call it what you want, you take money, you are what you think you are not. Be safe & have fun.
Gigabyte40
11-02-16, 22:08
Last month, I struck up an email coversation with Codii. Apparently she is infected with GPS. To the tune of 8 Benjamins. LOL. Not going to happen. Ever. More recently, I chatted with a young lady, mid 30's, who seemed promising, but was bitterly disappointed that I didn't want to give her money for eating lunch with her. I told her before meeting, that if it's a meet and greet, I'll buy dinner, etc, but not paying for her to eat with me. Odd that I haven't heard back from her. Oh well. I've met some nice ones off wyp, and some that are relunctant to follow thru. What is really fascinating is that very few of them see this as doing anything for money. Call it what you want, you take money, you are what you think you are not. Be safe & have fun.As I've said before:
These girls want one thing: money. Don't think they're attracted to you. They're not. Its only about the money. You can offer dinner or whatever but they want to end the night with some of your money.
No money? No honey for you.
GB40.
OrdinaryJohn
11-06-16, 15:39
Got text and pics but she trying to verify if she's for real.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/6ec5e225-0cd1-5993-f39d-be6408ce4c1b
CarolinaSugarrrr.
Got text and pics but she trying to verify if she's for real.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/6ec5e225-0cd1-5993-f39d-be6408ce4c1b
CarolinaSugarrrr.She's for real. Nice country girl from up near Albemarle. A little on the heavy side but not a bbw.
Got text and pics but she trying to verify if she's for real.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/6ec5e225-0cd1-5993-f39d-be6408ce4c1b
CarolinaSugarrrr.Yes. She's real. Saw her twice. She didn't seem very into, so I stopped. But I also think I was her first UTR hook up, so she was a little nervous and unsure. Probably more experienced and comfortable now. This was over a year ago.
This one is a newbie on SA and posted an ad in BP. No hits found on the number.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/37bd4f0c-422c-4f5d-a8ae-0d9f12491fc4
http://charlotte.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/your-girl-next-door/31574916
OrdinaryJohn
11-08-16, 10:11
Yes. She's real. Saw her twice. She didn't seem very into, so I stopped. But I also think I was her first UTR hook up, so she was a little nervous and unsure. Probably more experienced and comfortable now. This was over a year ago.Thanks a lot guys. Really appreciate the info. Working on one more-- super hot but pricey. If I can get the price down I'm going to be in business.
Gastonian4
11-09-16, 18:07
Thanks a lot guys. Really appreciate the info. Working on one more-- super hot but pricey. If I can get the price down I'm going to be in business.Has anyone tried to hook up with Jordansmommy on WYP? Is so please respond via PM. She was in Gastonia now listed in Charlotte.
Gigabyte40
11-10-16, 00:24
Has anybody met Alex (AyyyBABY from Charlotte) on WYP? Her phone number ends with 712, just curious what kind of experience you had.
Thanks.
GB40.
Can you post a link to this profile?
Has anybody met Alex (AyyyBABY from Charlotte) on WYP? Her phone number ends with 712, just curious what kind of experience you had.
Thanks.
GB40.
Gigabyte40
11-10-16, 22:21
Has anybody met Alex (AyyyBABY from Charlotte) on WYP? Her phone number ends with 712, just curious what kind of experience you had.
Thanks
GB40.Link to her ad: https://members.whatsyourprice.com/~AyyyBABY.
This one is pushy and bitchy. Need money to buy a car and other things. Want to meet asap. Looks to be an UTR to me. Watch out before proceeding.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/9973fdf7-37e7-4662-8dad-971360d860b1
Any reliable SBs in Charlotte? Please pm me if you have any information. Thanks.
OrdinaryJohn
11-11-16, 13:51
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/a4853da8-51d5-40a4-8a07-c1863a875583
Been texting and she's sent several pics. Looks TGTBT except she is definitely pricey. Trying to talk her down in price and will TOFTT if I can. Just wondering if anyone has met her and what the experience was like.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/a4853da8-51d5-40a4-8a07-c1863a875583
Been texting and she's sent several pics. Looks TGTBT except she is definitely pricey. Trying to talk her down in price and will TOFTT if I can. Just wondering if anyone has met her and what the experience was like.Just sent you a PM.
Set up two dates with her and she no showed both without even providing an excuse. Hope you have better luck but I wouldn't wast a dollar or a minute on her.
PokerJack1
11-12-16, 20:05
Link to her ad: https://members.whatsyourprice.com/~AyyyBABY.Messaged her the other day, haven't heard back.
PokerJack1
11-12-16, 20:35
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/~Ginger86
Been messaging with this girl. Any of you talked to her at all?
Feel free to PM me.
Thanks.
Just checking to see if anyone has had any experience they are willing to share with the following:
Bellebabi96.
Sugarbabe420.
Kylie407.
Thanks.
PokerJack1
11-16-16, 21:44
Just checking to see if anyone has had any experience they are willing to share with the following:
Bellebabi96.
Sugarbabe420.
Kylie407.
Thanks.What site? Kind of need to know that. If it's Iwantdudes.com, I don't want any part of it.
What site? Kind of need to know that. If it's Iwantdudes.com, I don't want any part of it.Whoops. Good point. SA. I always forget about WYP.
This one is a newbie on SA and posted an ad in BP. No hits found on the number.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/37bd4f0c-422c-4f5d-a8ae-0d9f12491fc4
http://charlotte.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/your-girl-next-door/31574916She quoted me 80/150/250 but says she will be unavailable for a few weeks.
She quoted me 80/150/250 but says she will be unavailable for a few weeks.Looks like she is giving BP rates on SA. I bet Service will be same as BP. I will be far away from her.
FYI.
On SA. Profile "glamorousjade" appears to be trying to pull some type of paypal scam. Proceed with caution if "she" favorites or messages you.
FYI.
On SA. Profile "glamorousjade" appears to be trying to pull some type of paypal scam. Proceed with caution if "she" favorites or messages you.Thanks for the heads up. Received a message this morning.
FYI.
On SA. Profile "glamorousjade" appears to be trying to pull some type of paypal scam. Proceed with caution if "she" favorites or messages you.She messaged me. Not sure what her scam is but is asking for a PayPal payment of any amount to "prove" I am real to be able to plan a meet. Not sure what she could could do if I sent her 2 bucks.
She messaged me. Not sure what her scam is but is asking for a PayPal payment of any amount to "prove" I am real to be able to plan a meet. Not sure what she could could do if I sent her 2 bucks.I suppose, but the whole concept doesn't really make sense. I gave her my burner number and said call me for verification. She said no, I had to send her any amount of money via PayPal. The whole thing and her comments just seemed scammy.
Not to mention, her longer messages made it very clear she wasn't a native English speaker, despite the pic.
Onecurious
11-21-16, 12:31
FYI.
On SA. Profile "glamorousjade" appears to be trying to pull some type of paypal scam. Proceed with caution if "she" favorites or messages you.Came on to warn you guys and obviously others got the same messages and request to send PayPal to prove I'm real. I replied with a "good luck" and said if she changed her mind and wanted to meet let me know. She replied "I'm not changing my mind unless you send PayPal". I'm not falling for this one guys, I doubt that's even her in the pics.
Guys. This girl do have ads in BP and other escort websites. Watch out when dealing.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/4bacb327-43e0-4848-9a68-749be12f3553
Any of you folks had a chance to meet this girl. She looks awesome to me. Please PM me with any info.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/13fc780f-1216-b105-b992-5806b18cdcf1
Have fun and stay tight.
Came on to warn you guys and obviously others got the same messages and request to send PayPal to prove I'm real. I replied with a "good luck" and said if she changed her mind and wanted to meet let me know. She replied "I'm not changing my mind unless you send PayPal". I'm not falling for this one guys, I doubt that's even her in the pics.I got messaged too. She must live on the computer if we have all gotten messages from her and we are just a fraction of who she is contacted.
Anyone have any info on Samantha, have been talking on and off now, working on setting something up.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/afa05cec-b8c9-e188-dd89-b47335a16c30
Anyone have any info on Samantha, have been talking on and off now, working on setting something up.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/afa05cec-b8c9-e188-dd89-b47335a16c30I meet with her. She is for real. Married but plays around for fun and a some extra cash. If you like big boobs she has them.
Mravcapo69
11-23-16, 01:12
Has anyone had any contact with this girl?
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/20a2a4db-8f9c-67e5-2584-4f477c201fad
I found her profile on Tagged when she was 19. Huge set of boobs for such a little frame like that. We hooked up couple of times for a Benjamin. Great BBBJ skills with CIM, real tight, small petite body and a great deepthroat skills. She used to live in Mt. Holly. But than she disappeared, and now I see her on SA. Not sure if she's on any other sites. I am just curious if any one had any contacts or experience with her recently? You can inbox me. Thanks!
I got messaged too. She must live on the computer if we have all gotten messages from her and we are just a fraction of who she is contacted.Guess she didn't like all the bad publicity on here. She changed her profile name to " Your desire 11". Probably didn't realize that all her old messages are still there under the new name.
Hey any of you guys been talking with an "elletee843" on SA? From myrtle beach but coming up to Charlotte this weekend supposedly. Seems legit and normal with no traces of her on BP.
Had dinner with this woman. She's using SA like OK Cupid--looking for a boyfriend and a regular sugarless relationship. She was really judgmental about girls who are "just there to have sex for money. ".
Duh.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/ca1c1145-46eb-e61f-ad9e-57a8b7b84a31
Gigabyte40
11-24-16, 16:33
Had dinner with this woman. She's using SA like OK Cupid--looking for a boyfriend and a regular sugarless relationship. She was really judgmental about girls who are "just there to have sex for money. ".
Duh.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/ca1c1145-46eb-e61f-ad9e-57a8b7b84a31Maybe she's one of those who wants you to just give her money then not have sex.
If she wants sugarless then why does she ask for "practical allowances" in her ad?
GB40.
Maybe she's one of those who wants you to just give her money then not have sex.
If she wants sugarless then why does she ask for "practical allowances" in her ad?
GB40.She seemed to think it was a good way to weed out deadbeats. Idk, maybe she thought I was a cop. Or maybe husband material.
OrdinaryJohn
11-27-16, 15:13
Hey any of you guys been talking with an "elletee843" on SA? From myrtle beach but coming up to Charlotte this weekend supposedly. Seems legit and normal with no traces of her on BP.I chatted with her and got the same store. Something came up with my schedule so I couldn't meet up with her. Seemed legit but never know for sure until you meet!
Stripper Love
11-28-16, 22:02
I chatted with her and got the same store. Something came up with my schedule so I couldn't meet up with her. Seemed legit but never know for sure until you meet!Asheville resident here who recently made Charlotte I weekend destination a couple times a month. I still can't believe the affordable 3 and 4 star hotels in up town on priceline. Anywho, I talked to this one as well. I think she is legit, but spidey senses went wild when she kept making excused to not talk to me on the phone. I told her I need to hear the woman's voice before I will meet someone. She went on to say "hearing someone's voice isn't going to magically change who the fuck I am. I hate insecure pricks like you. Thanks a lot for wasting my fucking time. Fuck you for real. ".
So yeah, even if she is real, that's not the attitude I am looking for. More reports to come.
I chatted with her and got the same store. Something came up with my schedule so I couldn't meet up with her. Seemed legit but never know for sure until you meet!I ended up meeting up with her. She was fine. Not quite what I'm looking for from SA, but a nice girl.
I ended up meeting up with her. She was fine. Not quite what I'm looking for from SA, but a nice girl.Just met her to assess the situation. Very sweet genuine girl who's trying to make quick cash for her kids. Not my type tall 5'9 ish very stocky thick girl. Not fat per say but just built like a middle linebacker. Not my cup of tee so just chatted and parted ways.
Has anyone tried the Sugar site that pops up when you start usasexguide?
JustFunCoastal
12-03-16, 21:50
Has anyone tried the Sugar site that pops up when you start usasexguide?To see what was available. It's a small gathering of women. I will not be paying for a full membership. SA is clearly the best option (it's been a gold mine for me).
Gigabyte40
12-03-16, 22:22
Asheville resident here who recently made Charlotte I weekend destination a couple times a month. I still can't believe the affordable 3 and 4 star hotels in up town on priceline. Anywho, I talked to this one as well. I think she is legit, but spidey senses went wild when she kept making excused to not talk to me on the phone. I told her I need to hear the woman's voice before I will meet someone. She went on to say "hearing someone's voice isn't going to magically change who the fuck I am. I hate insecure pricks like you. Thanks a lot for wasting my fucking time. Fuck you for real. ".
So yeah, even if she is real, that's not the attitude I am looking for. More reports to come.When I tried SA and WYP, I eventually got to that point too: the point where I want to hear her voice. And that's where a lot of deals stopped dead.
I believe there are fake ads and fake profiles on those sites. They are designed to make men think they have a chance with someone. Other ads seem to be placed by immature teens or pranksters who place fake ads posing as women. They must get a kick out of leading you on with fake pics of hot women and fake texts. When you ask to speak to them and hear their voice it usually tells if they're for real.
I just got tired of going through all that. Only a few of the hundreds I responded to ever turned out to be real women who want to meet.
GB40.
I have experienced same thing on this site and almost had a checklist to figure out if they are real or not, but there are some that talk on phone and make you believe, and waste your time by not showing up for their appointment / lunch etc. Its important we share these time wasters information so we can help each other.
When I tried SA and WYP, I eventually got to that point too: the point where I want to hear her voice. And that's where a lot of deals stopped dead.
I believe there are fake ads and fake profiles on those sites. They are designed to make men think they have a chance with someone. Other ads seem to be placed by immature teens or pranksters who place fake ads posing as women. They must get a kick out of leading you on with fake pics of hot women and fake texts. When you ask to speak to them and hear their voice it usually tells if they're for real.
I just got tired of going through all that. Only a few of the hundreds I responded to ever turned out to be real women who want to meet.
GB40.
Mravcapo69
12-05-16, 21:55
I keep my SA and WYP dating frequency to a minimum. Just a personal choice. But when it comes to those two, I am definitely in favor of SA. Yes, I had a one bad experience of no show for the date, although "she" was very convincing with all the understanding, promises, blah, blah, blah. I never asked for a voice confirmation, and that's OK. I figured, the risk is small, since there is no agreed price for a date. I don't mind the lunch, dinner, coffee, whatever treatment. But I do mind the dating fee. I think it's a scam that many of those girls are running, and choose dating as a 2nd, tax free, income. So I wasted a trip, and got disappointed. Who cares! I have a bigger problem the WYP girls, which many of them are professional daters. They come for the date, at least in my case, most of the time it was for that agreed date price. They collect the fee, they eat for free, drink for free, and than you can never meet them again. I'v learned my lesson very quickly.
I have experienced same thing on this site and almost had a checklist to figure out if they are real or not, but there are some that talk on phone and make you believe, and waste your time by not showing up for their appointment / lunch etc. Its important we share these time wasters information so we can help each other.
MountainMan60
12-05-16, 22:10
Do any of you have any experience with Nicole. She is going to come visit me and I wanted to see if any of you guys have seen her. PM me if you have info https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/13fc780f-1216-b105-b992-5806b18cdcf1.
Thanks.
Mm.
Do any of you have any experience with Nicole. She is going to come visit me and I wanted to see if any of you guys have seen her. PM me if you have info https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/13fc780f-1216-b105-b992-5806b18cdcf1.
Thanks.
Mm.Everything seemed cool, then she stood me up and went silent. Hope you have better luck than me.
Mravcapo69
12-06-16, 09:39
Planned to meed but never did. We exchanged several messages, and everything seemed cool, until she wanted 400-500 per date, plus covering all the dinner/date expenses. I never even consider of not covering date expenses, but when she hit me with the "fee", GPS red flag went off, and I decided to pull back.
Do any of you have any experience with Nicole. She is going to come visit me and I wanted to see if any of you guys have seen her. PM me if you have info https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/13fc780f-1216-b105-b992-5806b18cdcf1.
Thanks.
Mm.
John HandCock
12-06-16, 10:38
Planned to meed but never did. We exchanged several messages, and everything seemed cool, until she wanted 400-500 per date, plus covering all the dinner/date expenses. I never even consider of not covering date expenses, but when she hit me with the "fee", GPS red flag went off, and I decided to pull back.From her profile she has been a member for 5 years. IF her profile is correct then she can be selective, and shouldn't be a desperate girl looking. The GPS is a term used by guys who can't afford the price and really if she is spending the night its not an unreasonable request. Where I have the problem is if she is pricing before a m / g. This could be her way of weeding guys out since she has been on the site a long time making her a pro (sb, or escort or just knows what she is worth). If she is asking 4-5 just say your best you could do is 3 and she if she contacts you later. If your trying to get her for swer prices just move on to the girls in your price range. Some girls won't budge so never take it personally.
Do any of you have any experience with Nicole. She is going to come visit me and I wanted to see if any of you guys have seen her. PM me if you have info https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/13fc780f-1216-b105-b992-5806b18cdcf1.
Thanks.
Mm.Did you get a chance to meet her? She stood me up twice & I just ignored her messages. Just checking out of curiosity.
Mravcapo69
12-09-16, 22:33
Profile doesn't work. She mush have deleted it.
Did you get a chance to meet her? She stood me up twice & I just ignored her messages. Just checking out of curiosity.
Yeah I thought she blocked me. Responds way slow via text messaging, She cancelled the meet and greet once and then stopped responding. With SA its not now clear if someone deactivates the account or blocks you. Can't tell the difference, anyways Nicole is turning out to be another timewaster!!
Profile doesn't work. She mush have deleted it.
Can anyone share their experience with her? Try to setup a M&G, thanks.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/2346a040-6b98-4ed6-b85a-b3629b44e73e
OrdinaryJohn
12-17-16, 15:20
Seems legit via text. Didn't know if anyone had any experience with them.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/d1bf272a-b6d2-ce4b-8fe1-a0c36dcccccf
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/59b4ced1-e89b-4ef9-b5bd-5f090ff718c1
Oh and don't waste your time with this https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/5e6ce23e-b288-4105-bf2c-80054c94b4a6.
Seems legit via text. Didn't know if anyone had any experience with them.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/d1bf272a-b6d2-ce4b-8fe1-a0c36dcccccf
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/59b4ced1-e89b-4ef9-b5bd-5f090ff718c1
Oh and don't waste your time with this https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/5e6ce23e-b288-4105-bf2c-80054c94b4a6.The first one, Lisa, if she ever was a model it was a long time ago. Pictures are old. Was not into sex, and was always calling for more money for one "emergency" or another.
I had same experience with Lisa, she wanted like 200 for CBJ, and then money over western union before she even met, you can scratch her off your list, total time waste!
The first one, Lisa, if she ever was a model it was a long time ago. Pictures are old. Was not into sex, and was always calling for more money for one "emergency" or another.
I had same experience with Lisa, she wanted like 200 for CBJ, and then money over western union before she even met, you can scratch her off your list, total time waste!Agreed. Gave the run around about a year ago. Been ignoring her since.
OrdinaryJohn
12-18-16, 10:54
Thanks guys! I sort of got a desperate vibe from her through text. Marking her off the list.
FlameTamer69
12-19-16, 13:50
Agreed. Gave the run around about a year ago. Been ignoring her since.I met her a couple times, she ddid like to text alot, but shr seemed like a sweet girl. Just didn't click with her.
Beware of this one, https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/9affa74a-2b87-2d6d-7517-08e5c5080926.
She has Herpes / was in description of her earlier posts, and now she took it out, sending it out so you all can watch out!!
Gigabyte40
12-23-16, 01:34
On SA, has anyone met SouthernGirl89 (aka Amanda) from Belmont?
She texted me from number ending in 1882.
Any info about her would be appreciated.
Thanks.
GB40.
On SA, has anyone met SouthernGirl89 (aka Amanda) from Belmont?
She texted me from number ending in 1882.
Any info about her would be appreciated.
Thanks.
GB40.I chatted with her which eventually led to texting. I didn't feel a vibe so I went radio silent.
864-XXX-1882.
Onecurious
12-23-16, 20:35
On SA, has anyone met SouthernGirl89 (aka Amanda) from Belmont?
She texted me from number ending in 1882.
Any info about her would be appreciated.
Thanks.
GB40.I met her a few times awhile ago. Pictures are her but less attractive in person. Pretty nice body but heavy smoke smell and teeth are ehh. Nice price (she will start high but settle for $ to $. 5 most meetings). Definitely legit but just didn't click and she has a friend on the site as well that is ok.
I meet with her. She is for real. Married but plays around for fun and a some extra cash. If you like big boobs she has them.I'm talking with her. But she said her last SD gave her $450 each time.
I'm talking with her. But she said her last SD gave her $450 each time.I.
We discussed $300 and she seemed OK with that, but I never followed through. Just not my type.
Anyone has experience with this one? Chatting stages now.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/69c5924b-c790-f647-9ccc-1621820c964c
-thanks.
Onecurious
01-18-17, 02:02
Noticed a lot of girls lately on SA saying companionship only and no fun. Are there that many guys out there who go for this? I would hope they don't get any response and start understanding what a mutual benefits relationship is.
EggplantQn
01-18-17, 06:59
Some of those girls are scammers. I'm sure someone older may go for that, but not too many though. I actually met a nice girl on there. She does massages and we have become great friends. Will include her info later.
Noticed a lot of girls lately on SA saying companionship only and no fun. Are there that many guys out there who go for this? I would hope they don't get any response and start understanding what a mutual benefits relationship is..
John HandCock
01-18-17, 07:15
Noticed a lot of girls lately on SA saying companionship only and no fun. Are there that many guys out there who go for this? I would hope they don't get any response and start understanding what a mutual benefits relationship is.A MBR can mean something different to each person. Some guys are happy with just arm candy and that's all some girls offer. Just the way of the world but plenty who are looking for FUN.
Onecurious
01-18-17, 11:49
I agree there are plenty who do want to have fun. I was just noticing an uptick on profiles who say they want companionship only. I guess if I was a little older that would be desired but at 49 I still want fun.
If anyone knows any legit Caucasian average/slim build on there PM me.
DollarBill50
01-18-17, 15:13
I find it amazing that girl are seeking compensation for just talking with them. And I'm talking like real money. $300-$500 and NO fun. There are guys that have that kinda of money to give a young lady to just have on his arm. And this is per date. I had a young lady from that site that wanted $200 a week just to have lunch or dinner with her. I told her good luck finding that. Trust me, my profile on that site lets everyone know I want some p&why as a first date and then discuss when I will get some more on dates going forward. Not every date needs to have sex, but some of those will either end or begin with sex. If you don't like those arrangements please skip my profile.
Noticed a lot of girls lately on SA saying companionship only and no fun. Are there that many guys out there who go for this? I would hope they don't get any response and start understanding what a mutual benefits relationship is.
I find it amazing that girl are seeking compensation for just talking with them. And I'm talking like real money. $300-$500 and NO fun. There are guys that have that kinda of money to give a young lady to just have on his arm. And this is per date. I had a young lady from that site that wanted $200 a week just to have lunch or dinner with her. I told her good luck finding that. Trust me, my profile on that site lets everyone know I want some p&why as a first date and then discuss when I will get some more on dates going forward. Not every date needs to have sex, but some of those will either end or begin with sex. If you don't like those arrangements please skip my profile.Most women are delusional we older guys know that. Just read any of the ads at legit dating sites, they are whales, and want some Greek Adonis, or movie star. They have some stupid idea that they are way hotter than they are. It is like the Back Page ads as well where some trashy, tattooed drugged out woman is saying she is high class, it just is not so. And they make my hand look like a better option. Glad for now I am not looking.
I am still with the little honey I met at the WYP site a few months ago. I actually got really lucky with this one, she is a small town girl, who is happy when I take her out to some cheap place to eat, and if we go to Wal-Mart to pick up something she wants, she is pleased as punch. Also she does not drive, and does not know how to. I think I will keep it that way. Also she was raised by a single mom with daddy never being in the picture, so she was really looking for a daddy type. I think I have spent like a total of $700 total over the past few months, and she is happy, and I am happy.
DollarBill50
01-18-17, 18:39
And do you get some every once in a while? If so, you are either lucky or you have the secret.
I'm not made at you though. Just jealous. 😫128555;128555;.
Most women are delusional we older guys know that. Just read any of the ads at legit dating sites, they are whales, and want some Greek Adonis, or movie star. They have some stupid idea that they are way hotter than they are. It is like the Back Page ads as well where some trashy, tattooed drugged out woman is saying she is high class, it just is not so. And they make my hand look like a better option. Glad for now I am not looking.
I am still with the little honey I met at the WYP site a few months ago. I actually got really lucky with this one, she is a small town girl, who is happy when I take her out to some cheap place to eat, and if we go to Wal-Mart to pick up something she wants, she is pleased as punch. Also she does not drive, and does not know how to. I think I will keep it that way. Also she was raised by a single mom with daddy never being in the picture, so she was really looking for a daddy type. I think I have spent like a total of $700 total over the past few months, and she is happy, and I am happy.
And do you get some every once in a while? If so, you are either lucky or you have the secret.
I'm not made at you though. Just jealous. 😫128555;128555;.Pretty much since the second date. Like I said she is a small town local gal that is easily impressed with very little. I took her to Olive Garden a couple of weeks ago, you you would have thought we had eaten at a $200 a plate bistro. She is really a sweet girl, and I know that she is really only looking to get out of her impoverished life. Which I am slowly leading her out of. The whole SB / SD thing does not really apply anymore for the most part. Also she actually is a great cook, and likes doing it when she spends a week-end here.
If I was still looking I would stay with the small town ads, and girls. My girls ad said take me to Wally World shopping, you can't make this stuff up, and you cannot pass it by either when you see it.
Member #5346
01-22-17, 19:21
I got lucky. I had a great deal for about a year. I was a regular at a Texas Roadhouse. Asked for the same waitress every week. We became friends. One Tuesday, she was extremely upset and told me her mom needed $$ to pay the doctor or he would not see her again. I left her a note and told her I could help. That started a weekly relationship that was mutually beneficial. For $ every week, she would come over for a couple of hours. Sometimes we had dinner, watched a movie, or went directly back to the bedroom. But, like all good things, it came to an end. She was a college student and transferred in Sept to UNC-CH. I saw her at Christmas. Helped her with Christmas money. Sigh.
Back at Texas Roadhouse on Tuesdays. You never know.
Most women are delusional we older guys know that. Just read any of the ads at legit dating sites, they are whales, and want some Greek Adonis, or movie star. They have some stupid idea that they are way hotter than they are. It is like the Back Page ads as well where some trashy, tattooed drugged out woman is saying she is high class, it just is not so. And they make my hand look like a better option. Glad for now I am not looking.
I am still with the little honey I met at the WYP site a few months ago. I actually got really lucky with this one, she is a small town girl, who is happy when I take her out to some cheap place to eat, and if we go to Wal-Mart to pick up something she wants, she is pleased as punch. Also she does not drive, and does not know how to. I think I will keep it that way. Also she was raised by a single mom with daddy never being in the picture, so she was really looking for a daddy type. I think I have spent like a total of $700 total over the past few months, and she is happy, and I am happy.
Onecurious
01-28-17, 18:13
Just a FYI, SA BossLani seems to be advertising massages also on BP. You can see report #8855 in massage section.
http://charlotte.backpage.com/TherapeuticMassage/platinum-pearl-retreat/33454545
Pics matched up on SA BossLani. Doesn't seem to be LEO but not a SB at all.
Gigabyte40
01-29-17, 02:32
Pretty much since the second date. Like I said she is a small town local gal that is easily impressed with very little. I took her to Olive Garden a couple of weeks ago, you you would have thought we had eaten at a $200 a plate bistro. She is really a sweet girl, and I know that she is really only looking to get out of her impoverished life. Which I am slowly leading her out of. The whole SB / SD thing does not really apply anymore for the most part. Also she actually is a great cook, and likes doing it when she spends a week-end here.
If I was still looking I would stay with the small town ads, and girls. My girls ad said take me to Wally World shopping, you can't make this stuff up, and you cannot pass it by either when you see it.You are my hero. That's a great situation. Exactly what a SB / SD should be. I know how feelings develop, but if you really think it's real then try cutting off the money. No money. No honey. That's what it's really about. And it sure is fun too.
GB40.
I tried to sign up for Secret Benefits but couldn't pay. An anonymous debit card was rejected and my own credit card company halted payment and called my home with a fraud alert, because ccbill is in Cyprus.
Anyone have better luck with other payment methods?
NC Transplant
01-29-17, 18:51
TER also uses CCBill and I had the same issue. I just did without. I am surprised a plain vanilla Visa doesn't work. Seems like they would figure out a way to get paypal or something.
I tried to sign up for Secret Benefits but couldn't pay. An anonymous debit card was rejected and my own credit card company halted payment and called my home with a fraud alert, because ccbill is in Cyprus.
Anyone have better luck with other payment methods?
She's also on WYP as Kokoiman. She offered $$ for a date, I countered with $, she countered back with $$ so she's off the list. Her WYP profile also says she's a spa owner. The ass pic in the pool is in her profile and the spa ad.
Just a FYI, SA BossLani seems to be advertising massages also on BP. You can see report #8855 in massage section.
http://charlotte.backpage.com/TherapeuticMassage/platinum-pearl-retreat/33454545
Pics matched up on SA BossLani. Doesn't seem to be LEO but not a SB at all.
NCTransplant, I had the same issue on the oThER site too. CCBill was rejected by my regular card / institution & I've never been able to get a pre-paid visa to go through either. Recently, I tried using some gift card exchange thing the oThER site has (it's an option on the payment page, but not well advertised or promoted,) & I used a $50 gift card to get almost 90 days of membership. You can read through ThEiR forums to see how it works, but wanted to report I had success with this anonymous method. Unsure if SB SA etc. Have a similar option, but may be worth looking around for on the sites.
TER also uses CCBill and I had the same issue. I just did without. I am surprised a plain vanilla Visa doesn't work. Seems like they would figure out a way to get paypal or something.
I tried to sign up for Secret Benefits but couldn't pay. An anonymous debit card was rejected and my own credit card company halted payment and called my home with a fraud alert, because ccbill is in Cyprus.
Anyone have better luck with other payment methods?
Anyone seen "Dreamichy"? We've been texting for a while, going to see her this week, everything seems fine, but I thought I'd check in here.
Triad Traveler
02-02-17, 17:19
Anyone know anything about her. I have been having discussions with her today but the whole thing tingles my spidery senses. She immediately settled for half of what she wanted. Then agreed to drive one hour to meet me. An told me she deleted her account so she could focus totally on me. All within a span of three hours. Just seems strange. Any info or thoughts?
Anyone know anything about her. I have been having discussions with her today but the whole thing tingles my spidery senses. She immediately settled for half of what she wanted. Then agreed to drive one hour to meet me. An told me she deleted her account so she could focus totally on me. All within a span of three hours. Just seems strange. Any info or thoughts?Haven't seen that profile but if it were me, I would follow those instincts and move on. I would see three red flags already. Sounds like a trap / scam. Just my. 02.
Been talking to Leah1985 on SA, does anyone have any info on her?
Thanks.
Gastonian4
02-03-17, 22:17
Jordan's mommy $1. 8. Candace nc $2. 0.
Been talking to Leah1985 on SA, does anyone have any info on her?
Thanks.Damn. Those pics scream TGTBT. Any social media hits on her cell number? I hope they are legit though.
Gigabyte40
02-04-17, 01:47
Anyone know anything about her. I have been having discussions with her today but the whole thing tingles my spidery senses. She immediately settled for half of what she wanted. Then agreed to drive one hour to meet me. An told me she deleted her account so she could focus totally on me. All within a span of three hours. Just seems strange. Any info or thoughts?If any of that seems strange to you, then it is just that. Strange. I would suggest meeting her in public somewhere for just a meet-and-greet. Park across from the agreed location and watch it first. See who shows up. Don't discuss business, just see if she's for real. Have you heard her voice on the phone yet? That usually tells you a lot. And if she won't even talk on the phone she's probably not for real. Let us know how this turns out.
I got tired of chasing down all those fake SB ads. I know there are some good ones out there. But you have to weed out all the fakes to find them.
GB40.
LovesMuffins
02-05-17, 09:19
Yes, stay away. Even if she's legit, "deleting her account so she could focus totally on me" (without you having met her) gives me the vibe that she's either jonesing for a fix or a stage IV clinger.
Anyone know anything about her. I have been having discussions with her today but the whole thing tingles my spidery senses. She immediately settled for half of what she wanted. Then agreed to drive one hour to meet me. An told me she deleted her account so she could focus totally on me. All within a span of three hours. Just seems strange. Any info or thoughts?
Gastonian4
02-05-17, 10:42
Lollipop Linda apparently back in business, sexy Nikita around 1. 2.
Triad Traveler
02-06-17, 00:38
She is supposed to contact me tomorrow to arrange a meeting. We will see if that happens.
If any of that seems strange to you, then it is just that. Strange. I would suggest meeting her in public somewhere for just a meet-and-greet. Park across from the agreed location and watch it first. See who shows up. Don't discuss business, just see if she's for real. Have you heard her voice on the phone yet? That usually tells you a lot. And if she won't even talk on the phone she's probably not for real. Let us know how this turns out.
I got tired of chasing down all those fake SB ads. I know there are some good ones out there. But you have to weed out all the fakes to find them.
GB40.
Jordan's mommy $1. 8. Candace nc $2. 0.I havei a feeling she (mom) is only after that first date money. Do lunch / dinner and then just keeps taking money as she is broke. Nothing more. Just milk you for what you have.
Gastonian4
02-07-17, 20:04
I havei a feeling she (mom) is only after that first date money. Do lunch / dinner and then just keeps taking money as she is broke. Nothing more. Just milk you for what you have.The way I took it no initial meeting would necessarily be required, plus I only bid $. 5 for the date.
Not meant to be a spam, just a tip.
One of my rules of SB dating is that I only see people who's real identity I can ascertain. Not trying to snoop into their lives but it makes me feel safer as I try to avoid girls that might be trouble.
Anyway, usually their first name and phone number is enough to figure it out, but I ran into a few where it didn't work, so I tried Spokeo and it's proven to be impressively accurate.
Anyway, just thought I'd pass that along.
Have any of you gotten a 33% discount for signing up? A friend of mine was given one when he clicked the Upgrade button on his SA, but I am not seeing it on mine.
I searched SB, SA & WYP. Couldn't find a reference to those names. Any other way to look them up?
Lollipop Linda apparently back in business, sexy Nikita around 1. 2.
Gastonian4
02-11-17, 12:02
I searched SB, SA & WYP. Couldn't find a reference to those names. Any other way to look them up?Both are on WYP.
Have any of you gotten a 33% discount for signing up? A friend of mine was given one when he clicked the Upgrade button on his SA, but I am not seeing it on mine.What is the code? It can probably be shared and used by all. If you get one please pm it to me. I would love to save some scratch from those greedy bastards LOL.
What is the code? It can probably be shared and used by all. If you get one please pm it to me. I would love to save some scratch from those greedy bastards LOL.There is no code. It just showed up as an automatic discount.
Have any of you seen Southern momma28?
Have any of you seen Southern momma28?If anyone is looking, skip her. She demanded that I send her some pics before she would send any, and then she even created another account with the same profile pic, but lowered her age by 10 years.
Gastonian4
02-17-17, 21:35
Has anyone tried secret benefits? I signed up but haven't paid to communicate but I keep getting messages from girls but I'm wary. Thanks for your help.
I've used it out on the west coast, met a few nice girls that way that wanted to play. Haven't used it in this area.
Has anyone tried secret benefits? I signed up but haven't paid to communicate but I keep getting messages from girls but I'm wary. Thanks for your help.
I've used it out on the west coast, met a few nice girls that way that wanted to play. Haven't used it in this area.Have several messages waiting for me. 10 credits just to get the message (but unlimited message with that person after that). Just not sure how worth it it may be.
If anyone knows anything about Lionsfan4 life on SA, shoot me a PM. Supposed to meet up with her soon. Everything seems fine, but wanted to check.
Have several messages waiting for me. 10 credits just to get the message (but unlimited message with that person after that). Just not sure how worth it it may be.I signed up to help support USG but haven't answered any messages. I got 7-8 notices almost immediately after signing up which is a red flag. I've also requested access to private photos from at least 15 girls and none of them have responded. Another red flag.
The biggest problem I'm having with them is they can't run prepaid cards. All the other sites have a way to run them but they don't. I was willing to drop $60 just to see what's up. There is one girl I've found so far that has potential but I'm not going to use my personal CC just to see. Most girls on there seem to be 18-22 with very similar profiles.
I had the same problem with Secret Benefits. After trying two different prepaid cards, I gave up and tried to use my personal card. The cc company blocked the transaction and called my house with a fraud alert. Not good.
Will WYP or SA take prepaid cards?
I had the same problem with Secret Benefits. After trying two different prepaid cards, I gave up and tried to use my personal card. The cc company blocked the transaction and called my house with a fraud alert. Not good.
Will WYP or SA take prepaid cards?
It should go without saying but if anyone has anything to lose at all, you NEVER use your personal cards on any of those sites for many reasons.
Both of those sites take prepaids. Both are owned by the same parent co. First make sure your card is registered for online transactions then run it on the site. If it gets denied just open a request and they can run it manually for you. I use both green dot and vanilla cards.
LovesMuffins
03-07-17, 18:23
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/14e2c0b1-cf69-4aea-ac81-d67b8daa19e3
Contacted me pretty quickly asking if I'd like to meet, even though we're quite far apart. Thoughts?
Anyone have any contact with Mindypie? Seems TGTBT. PM is fine. Thanks.
Gigabyte40
03-07-17, 20:16
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/14e2c0b1-cf69-4aea-ac81-d67b8daa19e3
Contacted me pretty quickly asking if I'd like to meet, even though we're quite far apart. Thoughts?Before you waste a lot of time and gas driving to meet her, see if she will actually talk by phone. I eliminated a lot of fakes by simply asking to hear a voice.
Some pervert or teenager could be pulling your chain with fake texts and pics. When you ask to talk that should tell you a lot.
One long distance chic said she would come meet me if I sent her some gas money. Watch out for that too.
And if she actually talks then good for you. You'll be one step closer to meeting the real thing.
GB40.
Gastonian4
03-07-17, 21:52
Anyone have any contact with Mindypie? Seems TGTBT. PM is fine. Thanks.I have had contact pm for details.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/14e2c0b1-cf69-4aea-ac81-d67b8daa19e3
Contacted me pretty quickly asking if I'd like to meet, even though we're quite far apart. Thoughts?I have seen her. Single mom up in Mooresville. Wants $$$ for a meet. More cute than pretty. Full menu but not really GFE.
Member #5371
03-09-17, 12:07
She goes by Britt89 and is out of Laurens, SC. I should have listened to my brain because let's be honest, she's got those "runaway bride" crazy eyes.
Accepted my $50 offer and we texted which got pretty heated. I'm cautious and let's just say when the texting heated up I asked her to do a few very specific things which she did, there's no way they could have been faked based on what I was asking her to do, trust me.
So I felt comfortable she was real. Agreed to meet her in Laurens, SC at a motel. I know, I know. Several of you are groaning already and know this won't go well for me. She texts about an hour before our time saying she just got a call for her job and would have to deal with that but that we were still on. I'm glad I never got a room. Waited an hour until giving up and driving back to Charlotte. That's 2 hours to Laurens, SC plus an hour of waiting plus a 2 hour drive home. Yeah, I'm an idiot and wasted 5 hours and gas but now you don't have to.
Lessons learned here is to probably not agree to a drive like this before at least meeting each other half way and also make sure to talk to her day of on the PHONE which in my haste of my other head getting the better of me, I didn't do. No phone contact day of or refuses to do phone = don't go.
If she is real, at least you can enjoy her shower photos too LOL. You'll see why I lost my mind because of that ass. My goodness.
Britt89.
About Me.
I love to laugh, you'll never see me not smiling. I love reading and running, not at the same time though. Ha! I tend to be brutally honest and my mouth lacks a filter. But I'll keep you laughing and entertained!
My Ideal First Date.
Something different.
ClamDigger69
03-10-17, 07:04
She is like 25 minutes down range from me so thanks for the intel. Will def stay away and not waste my time. Thanks again!
She goes by Britt89 and is out of Laurens, SC. I should have listened to my brain because let's be honest, she's got those "runaway bride" crazy eyes.
Accepted my $50 offer and we texted which got pretty heated. I'm cautious and let's just say when the texting heated up I asked her to do a few very specific things which she did, there's no way they could have been faked based on what I was asking her to do, trust me.
So I felt comfortable she was real. Agreed to meet her in Laurens, SC at a motel. I know, I know. Several of you are groaning already and know this won't go well for me. She texts about an hour before our time saying she just got a call for her job and would have to deal with that but that we were still on. I'm glad I never got a room. Waited an hour until giving up and driving back to Charlotte. That's 2 hours to Laurens, SC plus an hour of waiting plus a 2 hour drive home. Yeah, I'm an idiot and wasted 5 hours and gas but now you don't have to.
Lessons learned here is to probably not agree to a drive like this before at least meeting each other half way and also make sure to talk to her day of on the PHONE which in my haste of my other head getting the better of me, I didn't do. No phone contact day of or refuses to do phone = don't go.
If she is real, at least you can enjoy her shower photos too LOL. You'll see why I lost my mind because of that ass. My goodness.
Britt89.
About Me.
I love to laugh, you'll never see me not smiling. I love reading and running, not at the same time though. Ha! I tend to be brutally honest and my mouth lacks a filter. But I'll keep you laughing and entertained!
My Ideal First Date.
Something different.
She goes by Britt89 and is out of Laurens, SC. I should have listened to my brain because let's be honest, she's got those "runaway bride" crazy eyes.It's possible she could've chickened out too. Some guy driving 2 hours to meet her in a hotel room that she's never met before. Lots of movies out there with the same plot line that doesn't work out well for the girl. Did you talk to her about it after to see what happened?
Sounds like this was your first meeting with her so you're obviously a badass going right for the hotel meeting off the bat. Props bro!
Great points though, always talk on the phone before a meet especially the day of. Thanks for the info. I actually haven't clicked on that profile exactly because of those eyes LOL.
Member #5371
03-10-17, 09:34
It's possible she could've chickened out too. Some guy driving 2 hours to meet her in a hotel room that she's never met before. Lots of movies out there with the same plot line that doesn't work out well for the girl. Did you talk to her about it after to see what happened?
Sounds like this was your first meeting with her so you're obviously a badass going right for the hotel meeting off the bat. Props bro!
Great points though, always talk on the phone before a meet especially the day of. Thanks for the info. I actually haven't clicked on that profile exactly because of those eyes LOL.She's already deactivated her profile. Gone with the wind. And I wouldn't have posted a warning if she hadn't been so flakey in the follow up texts / communication over the last week. Done with her and her games.
Gigabyte40
03-10-17, 10:15
She goes by Britt89 and is out of Laurens, SC. I should have listened to my brain because let's be honest, she's got those "runaway bride" crazy eyes.
Accepted my $50 offer and we texted which got pretty heated. I'm cautious and let's just say when the texting heated up I asked her to do a few very specific things which she did, there's no way they could have been faked based on what I was asking her to do, trust me.
So I felt comfortable she was real. Agreed to meet her in Laurens, SC at a motel. I know, I know. Several of you are groaning already and know this won't go well for me. She texts about an hour before our time saying she just got a call for her job and would have to deal with that but that we were still on. I'm glad I never got a room. Waited an hour until giving up and driving back to Charlotte. That's 2 hours to Laurens, SC plus an hour of waiting plus a 2 hour drive home. Yeah, I'm an idiot and wasted 5 hours and gas but now you don't have to.
Hey Man that's OK. We all do dumb things just for pus*y. It's such a powerful force. You can admit mistakes here. I've made several myself. We all learn from each others mistakes. I have wasted lots of time, money, and gas chasing something that didn't happen. The risk / return tradeoff applies. High Risk = High Return but there a lots of failures along the way.
I just don't go too far and spend a lot of effort on someone new until I'm sure they're for real. Either I have to hear her voice on the phone or have a referral from one of her friends that she is real. And you still never know for sure until you actually meet.
Without that you just never know who is really behind an ad or post of text. There are a lot of weirdos out there that just want to waste your time.
Member #5371
03-10-17, 11:42
Hey Man that's OK. We all do dumb things just for pus*y. It's such a powerful force. You can admit mistakes here. I've made several myself. We all learn from each others mistakes. I have wasted lots of time, money, and gas chasing something that didn't happen. The risk / return tradeoff applies. High Risk = High Return but there a lots of failures along the way.
I just don't go too far and spend a lot of effort on someone new until I'm sure they're for real. Either I have to hear her voice on the phone or have a referral from one of her friends that she is real. And you still never know for sure until you actually meet.
Without that you just never know who is really behind an ad or post of text. There are a lot of weirdos out there that just want to waste your time.It's not like I'm some type of saint either. Through the years I've bailed on a few without notice and that's not fair to the provider.
In fact, embarrassed to say I bailed on lingbling from WYP this AM. Was going to have her come over, she lives in Hickory and she was willing to do so for 3 (from 930 am to 1 pm. Everything available on the menu too!) - as much as I want to that's just being crazy with my money and I had to exercise some self-control or I'll end up broke.
She's hot though and willing to also do overnights for 4. See attached photos and WYP is below.
Lingbling.
21 / Charlotte, North Carolina.
About Me.
I like dominant men.
My Ideal First Date.
Anything spontaneous and fun.
Member #5371
03-10-17, 16:42
I have had contact pm for details.PM for details especially if you've seen her as I'd love to compare experiences. Pretty this one, not sure what her game is.
Gastonian4
03-10-17, 19:58
I've accepted a date with this one on WYP but before I pull the trigger wanting to know if other mongers have experience with her?
StormyTuesday
03-11-17, 22:28
I'm talking with her. But she said her last SD gave her $450 each time.Well, if she said her last SD gave her $450 each time then it must be true. LMFAO.
Gastonian4
03-12-17, 09:40
Well, if she said her last SD gave her $450 each time then it must be true. LMFAO.She doesn't seem ameniable to giving up the goods at all once we started messaging. If you want more than a greet and meet I don't think she's your girl.
Member #5371
03-13-17, 11:37
Anyone seen her from WYP? PM me if you've had contact via WYP or other? I can share some intel on others as well.
Thanks.
EvaG236 - 25 / Charlotte, North Carolina.
About Me.
I'm realistic and very easy going, I need someone who's not going to complicate my life, someone I can have fun with and benefit from as much as he benefits from me I guess the long term goal would be to find someone who's smart, funny (funny being most important), and consistent enough to hold my attention. The road to the right man is paved with very boring dates so the sooner I can find a parking lot, the better. Please do not send me an offer with no intention of following through after I "accept". I am very much real and if I've accepted your offer, I'm prepared to get the ball rolling as soon as possible; I want to meet you! So don't be rude. Also, "favoriting" profiles seems kind of pointless so if you're interested, either send me an offer or write me a message. I don't really know what to do with a "favorite".
My Ideal First Date.
I love to eat so take me somewhere delicious.
Had many conversations in the past week but will pass. She's looking for a big SD payday. She's playing the field right now looking for the highest bidder and not open to negotiate. Don't waste your time on this one.
If anyone knows anything about Lionsfan4 life on SA, shoot me a PM. Supposed to meet up with her soon. Everything seems fine, but wanted to check.How did it go?
How did it go?Couldn't get the time to synch up, so just sort of gave up.
Couldn't get the time to synch up, so just sort of gave up.I was supposed to meet up with her two months ago, but had to cancel. She texted me every single day for two weeks trying to reschedule. I feel like I might have dodged a crazy bullet there, but who knows.
I was supposed to meet up with her two months ago, but had to cancel. She texted me every single day for two weeks trying to reschedule. I feel like I might have dodged a crazy bullet there, but who knows.Yeah, that's kind of the vibe I was getting, so I didn't try to hard to find a new time.
RWarNmsn69
03-29-17, 21:49
It should go without saying but if anyone has anything to lose at all, you NEVER use your personal cards on any of those sites for many reasons.
Both of those sites take prepaids. Both are owned by the same parent co. First make sure your card is registered for online transactions then run it on the site. If it gets denied just open a request and they can run it manually for you. I use both green dot and vanilla cards.I had an issue with a prepaid card that I use on SA. It would not process so I ended up using PayPal instead. Probably smarter anyway.
PokerJack1
03-30-17, 12:21
I had an issue with a prepaid card that I use on SA. It would not process so I ended up using PayPal instead. Probably smarter anyway.PayPal is not anonymous.
Gastonian4
03-31-17, 09:05
Anybody have any experience with jessica from lake Wylie?
PokerJack1
03-31-17, 09:36
Anybody have any experience with jessica from lake Wylie?Someone has. I remember reading about her. Apparently she's serious and all business, didn't get details via pm, just what was posted. I took it as more of. I'm not going to be your gorlfriend, or really connect with you than anything else. But yeah there was something about her in the thread.
RWarNmsn69
04-01-17, 19:03
PayPal is not anonymous.Thanks for the information but I'm not really worried about anonymity. I just wanted to trial the SA website.
RWarNmsn69
04-05-17, 21:22
Have any of you guys had the opportunity to talk with any of ladies supposedly from Bedford, VA? Well, I have. I'm currently talking to four of them, three offline and one still online. What do you think the odds are of at least four women from the same small Virginia community on SA at the same time? I said supposedly earlier because their grammar and syntax doesn't sound American to me. A lot of their sentences are almost identical too. The three that I'm texting with all have similar stories why they can only text and not talk on the phone; their exes caused their phones to be broken. Two of those three have already asked, or begged in one case, for me to send them money for their rent and food. (I've previously had one lady from the Phillipines and another from South Africa ask me to send them money for their rent and food too. The South African lady was supposed to be in the US according to her profile when we first started talking.) The third one just needs $240 for travel! Guys, watch these women or they will take your money. I think it's safe to say that there are a lot of scammers out there. You've been warned!
"Bedford is an incorporated town and former independent city located within Bedford County in the USA State of Virginia. It serves as the county seat of Bedford County. As of the 2010 census, the population was 6,622. It is part of the Lynchburg Metropolitan Statistical Area. Known as the "place that sells itself," Bedford boasts the Blue Ridge Mountains to the North, Smith Mountain Lake to the South, Lynchburg to the East, and I-81/ Roanoke to the West."
-- Courtesy of Wikipedia.
I wasn't sure whether to share SA profile or screen names on here or not. What do why'all think?
RWarNmsn69
04-05-17, 23:34
Here are the Bedford, VA profile or screen names I was referring to in post #391 below: ClassyBaby0719, JJ0419, VaJac217, and hotcutie1902. Yes, I started looking closer at the names and they all had numbers too, then similarities in the numbers jumped out at me. That set me to looking closer at our dialogue and even asking the same questions of the others, etc. Just now for "kicks and giggles" I searched that location only and there are 12 women in that town!
Be smart guys!
Rwarnmsn69.
Have any of you guys had the opportunity to talk with any of ladies supposedly from Bedford, VA? Well, I have. I'm currently talking to four of them, three offline and one still online. What do you think the odds are of at least four women from the same small Virginia community on SA at the same time? I said supposedly earlier because their grammar and syntax doesn't sound American to me. A lot of their sentences are almost identical too. The three that I'm texting with all have similar stories why they can only text and not talk on the phone; their exes caused their phones to be broken. Two of those three have already asked, or begged in one case, for me to send them money for their rent and food. (I've previously had one lady from the Phillipines and another from South Africa ask me to send them money for their rent and food too. The South African lady was supposed to be in the US according to her profile when we first started talking.) The third one just needs $240 for travel! Guys, watch these women or they will take your money. I think it's safe to say that there are a lot of scammers out there. You've been warned!
"Bedford is an incorporated town and former independent city located within Bedford County in the USA State of Virginia. It serves as the county seat of Bedford County. As of the 2010 census, the population was 6,622. It is part of the Lynchburg Metropolitan Statistical Area. Known as the "place that sells itself," Bedford boasts the Blue Ridge Mountains to the North, Smith Mountain Lake to the South, Lynchburg to the East, and I-81/ Roanoke to the West."
-- Courtesy of Wikipedia.
I wasn't sure whether to share SA profile or screen names on here or not. What do why'all think?I ran into hem girls are hustlers looking To make a quick buck anyway.
Trying to meetup with Mindypie from WYP to just find out for myself, but she flaked on lunch today. Will update when / if it every happens.
Gastonian4
04-18-17, 18:26
I've still been playing the game with some WYP girls. But I'm being more specific that I need something more to happen than a meal date. Has anyone tried starlight from Gastonia? I bid 99 for her, staying below 100 saves credits. I let her know I could do 50 for having drinks and if she feels comfortable another 50 in the car for some kissing, groping etc. She seems down with it will see what happens Sunday.
Gastonian4
04-20-17, 13:22
Does anyone have experience with Elle? Please PM with info, thanks!
PigSpoon41
04-30-17, 12:10
I've still been playing the game with some WYP girls. But I'm being more specific that I need something more to happen than a meal date. Has anyone tried starlight from Gastonia? I bid 99 for her, staying below 100 saves credits. I let her know I could do 50 for having drinks and if she feels comfortable another 50 in the car for some kissing, groping etc. She seems down with it will see what happens Sunday.I'm brand new to this game and feel like using WYP might be worth it. I've set up my profile to pretty much explain exactly what I'm looking for and expecting as opposed to just meeting together or a lunch or meal. I didn't spell out specifically what I want, but I worded it so that I'm basically looking for some fun between two consenting adults over a glass a of wine that might result in a pillow fight. I've received two offers so far, but I've never used the site, so I'm a little unsure of how it works. If anyone could PM me and fill me in with suggestions, it would be greatly appreciated. How does it all work? If they send me an offer and I accept it, do I then have to pay credits to be able to chat?
Another question I wondered about was that I read where the WYP site advises to give 50% of the date donation in the beginning and the remainder at the end of the date. Are the ladies typically ok with that? I guess I just need some pointers on how to approach using that site. Does Uncle LEO use that site? Any help would be greatly appreciated!
Gigabyte40
04-30-17, 21:51
I'm brand new to this game and feel like using WYP might be worth it. I've set up my profile to pretty much explain exactly what I'm looking for and expecting as opposed to just meeting together or a lunch or meal. I didn't spell out specifically what I want, but I worded it so that I'm basically looking for some fun between two consenting adults over a glass a of wine that might result in a pillow fight. I've received two offers so far, but I've never used the site, so I'm a little unsure of how it works. If anyone could PM me and fill me in with suggestions, it would be greatly appreciated. How does it all work? If they send me an offer and I accept it, do I then have to pay credits to be able to chat?
Another question I wondered about was that I read where the WYP site advises to give 50% of the date donation in the beginning and the remainder at the end of the date. Are the ladies typically ok with that? I guess I just need some pointers on how to approach using that site. Does Uncle LEO use that site? Any help would be greatly appreciated!Word of warning about WYP: Men pay, women don't. Men pay to communicate with the women. You offer an initial amount JUST TO MEET HER. Out of all the women on there in this area (with 100 miles of Charlotte. That's the search criteria I use). I attempted contact with HUNDREDS of women. Half of those turn me down. Half of the rest don't respond. Leaving only a dozen or so who actually message, text, or call you. So don't expect immediate results. You have to work hard to find one. Your chances could improve as more women sign up or you're willing to travel further.
I also believe the site has tons of fake ads and fake responders. These just churn more credits and take more money from you to use the site.
As for 50/50, I don't think they care when you pay them as long as you pay what you promised. I got tired of giving women 50-99 dollars just to meet for lunch or a drink. (And I paid for that too). A lot of women just want to make a quick 100, get a free meal, and do nothing else. If you want to pay for sex there are a helluva lot easier ways than going through WYP.
GB40.
Onecurious
05-01-17, 11:51
Contacted and exchanged messages. Wanted 700, yes you read correct 700. On top that she mentioned that was only for dinner & drinks and did not guarantee any fun. Don't waste your time unless you are in that market.
Don't know how to post link. If someone could that would be great
DayTimeFun
05-01-17, 15:50
Contacted and exchanged messages. Wanted 700, yes you read correct 700. On top that she mentioned that was only for dinner & drinks and did not guarantee any fun. Don't waste your time unless you are in that market.
Don't know how to post link. If someone could that would be greatSome of these SA women are dumber than a sack of rocks. It's usually the younger ones that pull that crap.
Contacted and exchanged messages. Wanted 700, yes you read correct 700. On top that she mentioned that was only for dinner & drinks and did not guarantee any fun. Don't waste your time unless you are in that market.
Don't know how to post link. If someone could that would be greatI've gotten over $2,000 per date. That's right. $2,000 just to meet. No thanks.
I really do wonder if they ever get someone. I think they see SA's advertisements on TV or some show on millionaire sugar daddies and quickly get GPS.
FlameTamer69
05-02-17, 10:06
I've gotten over $2,000 per date. That's right. $2,000 just to meet. No thanks.
I really do wonder if they ever get someone. I think they see SA's advertisements on TV or some show on millionaire sugar daddies and quickly get GPS.I too had a similar experience. Was contacted by one of the women on SA and she offered a massage at her place. So I bought in and went. Was a great massage with no funny stuff. She was a really nice girl. Down to earth, funny, had a lot in common. That was until she wanted 3 k a month to be her 'friend' with no expectation of anything else. Wth.
DollarBill50
05-02-17, 12:00
But I believe they are all the same. I had had girls that just want some bills paid. They ask for the money up front. That tickled the hell out of me. I have to tell them do they really going to give / send them money on the first time we chat / meet unless there is something in return coming my way beside a smile and hand shake. I had a girl from Columbia, SC that want money to help with rent. She said that is was a way to see if I was playing with her or not. Lololol. I countered by saying why don't I come down there and we have a sexual fantasies for a few hours, then she will know if I'm for real or not.
DayTimeFun
05-02-17, 16:39
But I believe they are all the same. I had had girls that just want some bills paid. They ask for the money up front. That tickled the hell out of me. I have to tell them do they really going to give / send them money on the first time we chat / meet unless there is something in return coming my way beside a smile and hand shake. I had a girl from Columbia, SC that want money to help with rent. She said that is was a way to see if I was playing with her or not. Lololol. I countered by saying why don't I come down there and we have a sexual fantasies for a few hours, then she will know if I'm for real or not.Had a student in Columbia tell me it would be $100 for lunch and she would apply that to the next meeting which is normally $300. So I would be saving $100 to show that I was serious. Gee, what a deal.
Gigabyte40
05-02-17, 22:52
But I believe they are all the same. I had had girls that just want some bills paid. They ask for the money up front. That tickled the hell out of me. I have to tell them do they really going to give / send them money on the first time we chat / meet unless there is something in return coming my way beside a smile and hand shake. I had a girl from Columbia, SC that want money to help with rent. She said that is was a way to see if I was playing with her or not. Lololol. I countered by saying why don't I come down there and we have a sexual fantasies for a few hours, then she will know if I'm for real or not.A girls contacted me from out of state several hundred miles away. She said she wants to come meet me that weekend and she will drive to me. I said come on then. She said she needed $200 sent to her for gas so she could drive to me. I said you only talked to me my text and you think I'm going to send $200 to you? No honey. No money. They will try anything. Crazy.
GB40.
Anyone one have any info on UNC_girlie?
Also has anyone been having luck on this site, I was for awhile but not so much lately?
RWarNmsn69
05-21-17, 02:04
I recently learned that Hotwire is my new friend, especially in the Sugar Bowl arena. I've booked two rooms in the past couple of weeks using the red flame deal (Hot Rate) via the app on my iPad. Both time I paid approximately half price for two great rooms. This past week I selected a 3-star hotel near the airport for $72.00 plus taxes. Once I booked the room, I learned that it was Hilton Garden Inn Greensboro Airport and the room usually goes for $139.00 plus taxes per night. I have used other apps like Hotel.com, Priceline.com, Expedia, etc. But have seen the best deals with Hotwire. The Hilton Garden Inn Greensboro Airport room was as cheap as a lower scale rate near the airport. This may not work as well on the spur of the moment but will when prior planning is available.
Safe mongering and sugaring!
OrdinaryJohn
06-04-17, 21:01
Anyone having any luck on SA lately? Been talking to a few but lots of GPS going around lately.
RWarNmsn69
06-05-17, 02:30
Anyone having any luck on SA lately? Been talking to a few but lots of GPS going around lately.I've had better success in the Greensboro area lately. Thankfully I'm sort of in between the two. I'm talking to a few, mostly new, in the Charlotte area but haven't pulled the trigger yet. You're right about the GPS though; I had one want me to pay her rent for one dream!
Safe mongering and sugaring!
I renewed my SA membership and have been flooded with messages. They seem legit for the most part (only one in Ghana). Most have GP syndrome, but one, Athena Goddess, is tempting me with a $400 offer. I can't afford it but I realized I met her once at a music festival and she's insanely gorgeous (like make you cheat on Sandra Bullock hot! But I've been surprised by how many want to meet privately immediately. I'll report back if I find any good ones.
But I noticed Darlene, who I reported on a year or two ago, is back as Wicked Wanda. Supposed to see her today. I'll let why'all know how it goes.
I'd appreciate any recommendations though.
She (Wanda / Darlene) just left. Wow! She's so country MILF hot. Just like old times!
She says she is in financial dire straits so she's eager to find new generous friends. I usually try to give her a gift of two Franklin portraits.
RWarNmsn69
06-12-17, 01:14
I renewed my SA membership and have been flooded with messages. They seem legit for the most part (only one in Ghana). Most have GP syndrome, but one, Athena Goddess, is tempting me with a $400 offer. I can't afford it but I realized I met her once at a music festival and she's insanely gorgeous (like make you cheat on Sandra Bullock hot! But I've been surprised by how many want to meet privately immediately. I'll report back if I find any good ones.
But I noticed Darlene, who I reported on a year or two ago, is back as Wicked Wanda. Supposed to see her today. I'll let why'all know how it goes.
I'd appreciate any recommendations though.I've never met (or even seen) a woman that would make me cheat on Sandra Bullock! No way.
Safe mongering and sugaring!
I renewed my SA membership and have been flooded with messages. They seem legit for the most part (only one in Ghana). Most have GP syndrome, but one, Athena Goddess, is tempting me with a $400 offer. I can't afford it but I realized I met her once at a music festival and she's insanely gorgeous (like make you cheat on Sandra Bullock hot! But I've been surprised by how many want to meet privately immediately. I'll report back if I find any good ones.
But I noticed Darlene, who I reported on a year or two ago, is back as Wicked Wanda. Supposed to see her today. I'll let why'all know how it goes.
I'd appreciate any recommendations though.I've been using SA a lot to set up dates on business trips as it's more relaxing as I can have a nice dinner and an enjoyable evening. Anyway, usually it's not to difficult and can always find someone in the $2-3 range
The exception is D. C. The GPS is on another level. Can't get anyone's interest under $5 and I'm avoiding the 8-10's and focusing on the 6-7's. I guess those government types overpay for their strange.
I've been using SA a lot to set up dates on business trips as it's more relaxing as I can have a nice dinner and an enjoyable evening. Anyway, usually it's not to difficult and can always find someone in the $2-3 range
The exception is D. C. The GPS is on another level. Can't get anyone's interest under $5 and I'm avoiding the 8-10's and focusing on the 6-7's. I guess those government types overpay for their strange.Even real (tinder) girls were expensive to take out on dates when I was in D. C. Maybe it's the Rent? Dinner and drinks can easily be $2, and let's not even talk about the uber from any metro stop. Price we pay to play at the high roller tables I guess?
DollarBill50
06-25-17, 06:06
I'm a member of the AF web site. After I got rid of all the girls that want money after a couple of text messages (These type of girls kill me) I met this young girl on the site. She is about 19-20 years of age. We went out a couple of times for dinner. Not expenses dinner either. She is a buffet type of girl. Really, that is where she likes to eat. She is pretty cool to talk with. Now she want to go to another level with me. She wants to have sex. We haven't started talking about any arrangements yet and she has brought it up. So I mentioned it the last date we went on. She ask me to name a price. But she just wants to go on trips and weekend getaways sometimes. But she does want sex also. (Her words) My question for you guys. How do I hit it without feeling like the creepy old guy down the street wanting sex from the young high school graduate who just left home? I had to card her just to make sure she was over 18. That's how young she looked. But she is cute. I can say that. But every time I think about getting it, it hits me that she is 19-20 years of age. (I'm 50). Should I just let her go and move onto something a little older? And this is after complaining about all the girls on AF want is money before even talking to you on the phone. Should I hit it and just close my eyes while doing it, not looking at that young face? (Kidding on this statement). Just a little help on this one guys.
I'm a member of the AF web site. After I got rid of all the girls that want money after a couple of text messages (These type of girls kill me) I met this young girl on the site. She is about 19-20 years of age. We went out a couple of times for dinner. Not expenses dinner either. She is a buffet type of girl. Really, that is where she likes to eat. She is pretty cool to talk with. Now she want to go to another level with me. She wants to have sex. We haven't started talking about any arrangements yet and she has brought it up. So I mentioned it the last date we went on. She ask me to name a price. But she just wants to go on trips and weekend getaways sometimes. But she does want sex also. (Her words) My question for you guys. How do I hit it without feeling like the creepy old guy down the street wanting sex from the young high school graduate who just left home? I had to card her just to make sure she was over 18. That's how young she looked. But she is cute. I can say that. But every time I think about getting it, it hits me that she is 19-20 years of age. (I'm 50). Should I just let her go and move onto something a little older? And this is after complaining about all the girls on AF want is money before even talking to you on the phone. Should I hit it and just close my eyes while doing it, not looking at that young face? (Kidding on this statement). Just a little help on this one guys.What had you originally planned to do with her? She's young, but she is an adult. As long as she's consenting and you're willing to provide what she wants, there's no problem. Yeah, there's the creepy guy factor, but there are also lots of men with much younger paramours (one of them is in the White House). It's only creepy if you're manipulating her or taking advantage of her (or spying on her when she pees). Otherwise, the way I see it, it's too adults enjoying themselves.
Just my 2 cents.
Gigabyte40
06-26-17, 00:00
I'm a member of the AF web site. After I got rid of all the girls that want money after a couple of text messages (These type of girls kill me) I met this young girl on the site. She is about 19-20 years of age. We went out a couple of times for dinner. Not expenses dinner either. She is a buffet type of girl. Really, that is where she likes to eat. She is pretty cool to talk with. Now she want to go to another level with me. She wants to have sex. We haven't started talking about any arrangements yet and she has brought it up. So I mentioned it the last date we went on. She ask me to name a price. But she just wants to go on trips and weekend getaways sometimes. But she does want sex also. (Her words) My question for you guys. How do I hit it without feeling like the creepy old guy down the street wanting sex from the young high school graduate who just left home? I had to card her just to make sure she was over 18. That's how young she looked. But she is cute. I can say that. But every time I think about getting it, it hits me that she is 19-20 years of age. (I'm 50). Should I just let her go and move onto something a little older? And this is after complaining about all the girls on AF want is money before even talking to you on the phone. Should I hit it and just close my eyes while doing it, not looking at that young face? (Kidding on this statement). Just a little help on this one guys.Just go for it. Yes she's young but not too young. Right? Not too young for what?
I'm a few years older than you and I would do her, if that's what I had set out to do in the beginning. And I think you have plans.
Just make sure you have actually talked and met in person. Don't trust texts, it could be anyone. If you feel like you're about to get setup, don't reveal the name or location of your hotel ahead of time. And definitely don't take her to your home on the first few times. Anytime your spidey sense tells you to stop then stop. A hot little piece of action might not be worth the consequences if LEO, Dad, or a big BF are waiting for you somewhere.
Now onto the creepy part. Do you sound like a creepy old guy down the street wanting sex from a young high schooler who just left home? Yes you do. We're everywhere. But you have the means to do it with a willing and legal participant. Everyone in this hobby can feel creepy at times but that's just what we do. Of course if it really bothers you then don't do it. Just stay in touch with her and be respectful. It might get you a lot further in the long run.
Keep us posted. Sounds like you found a good one.
GB40.
ScreamingSheep
06-26-17, 05:51
I'm a member of the AF web site. After I got rid of all the girls that want money after a couple of text messages (These type of girls kill me) I met this young girl on the site. She is about 19-20 years of age. We went out a couple of times for dinner. Not expenses dinner either. She is a buffet type of girl. Really, that is where she likes to eat. She is pretty cool to talk with. Now she want to go to another level with me. She wants to have sex. We haven't started talking about any arrangements yet and she has brought it up. So I mentioned it the last date we went on. She ask me to name a price. But she just wants to go on trips and weekend getaways sometimes. But she does want sex also. (Her words) My question for you guys. How do I hit it without feeling like the creepy old guy down the street wanting sex from the young high school graduate who just left home? I had to card her just to make sure she was over 18. That's how young she looked. But she is cute. I can say that. But every time I think about getting it, it hits me that she is 19-20 years of age. (I'm 50). Should I just let her go and move onto something a little older? And this is after complaining about all the girls on AF want is money before even talking to you on the phone. Should I hit it and just close my eyes while doing it, not looking at that young face? (Kidding on this statement). Just a little help on this one guys.Damn, that's what we are all looking for isn't it?
I'm a member of the AF web site. After I got rid of all the girls that want money after a couple of text messages (These type of girls kill me) I met this young girl on the site. She is about 19-20 years of age. We went out a couple of times for dinner. Not expenses dinner either. She is a buffet type of girl. Really, that is where she likes to eat. She is pretty cool to talk with. Now she want to go to another level with me. She wants to have sex. We haven't started talking about any arrangements yet and she has brought it up. So I mentioned it the last date we went on. She ask me to name a price. But she just wants to go on trips and weekend getaways sometimes. But she does want sex also. (Her words) My question for you guys. How do I hit it without feeling like the creepy old guy down the street wanting sex from the young high school graduate who just left home? I had to card her just to make sure she was over 18. That's how young she looked. But she is cute. I can say that. But every time I think about getting it, it hits me that she is 19-20 years of age. (I'm 50). Should I just let her go and move onto something a little older? And this is after complaining about all the girls on AF want is money before even talking to you on the phone. Should I hit it and just close my eyes while doing it, not looking at that young face? (Kidding on this statement). Just a little help on this one guys.DB50, I hate to see you in this state of conflict. So to help out, and relieve you of this burden, I'm willing to step in and be the SD to this SB. Yes, it's a sacrifice on my part. But I feel I owe it to you as a fellow monger. Just PM her contact info and I'll do the rest.
RWarNmsn69
06-26-17, 14:56
DB50, I hate to see you in this state of conflict. So to help out, and relieve you of this burden, I'm willing to step in and be the SD to this SB. Yes, it's a sacrifice on my part. But I feel I owe it to you as a fellow monger. Just PM her contact info and I'll do the rest.BBHunt, you're a real friend to offer to save a fellow monger from a dilemma like that! I just hate that you beat me to it.
DB50, I do agree with GB40 that you were looking when you found her so unless your conscience completely tells you otherwise, I'd say go for it. I'm close to forty (it looked better in text than numerals) years older than her but I would, in a heartbeat. And yes, I have felt creepy at times too.
Safe mongering and sugaring!
Gigabyte40
06-26-17, 18:04
BBHunt, you're a real friend to offer to save a fellow monger from a dilemma like that! I just hate that you beat me to it.
DB50, I do agree with GB40 that you were looking when you found her so unless your conscience completely tells you otherwise, I'd say go for it. I'm close to forty (it looked better in text than numerals) years older than her but I would, in a heartbeat. And yes, I have felt creepy at times too.
Safe mongering and sugaring!This is great: Please note: DB50 did not say he is 40. He said he is 40 years older than her. Now that's MY hero! I thought I was doing something f*ck*ng girls that are half my age. I'm happy to learn there's still hope for me into my sixties and beyond.
GB40.
Hello,
I'm John Barns I'm new to the site and was wondering what this forum is about.
NC Transplant
06-26-17, 20:36
Those little blue wonders helps a lot of guys 60 years and older.
This is great: Please note: DB50 did not say he is 40. He said he is 40 years older than her. Now that's MY hero! I thought I was doing something f*ck*ng girls that are half my age. I'm happy to learn there's still hope for me into my sixties and beyond.
GB40.
John Whitman
06-26-17, 21:26
So nice of you to step up and help out your fellow monger, LOL.
The one thing about a big age difference is that it is hard to avoid it once one gets to be really old and is fortunate enough to still be alive and in the hobby world. The escort population is pretty heavily shaded to younger age women. So an old guy has very limited selection of gals even 20 years younger than himself, but lots of selection 30-40 years younger. My philosophy as an old codger would be to try to find the more "mature" younger gals in order to have good variety. But as always, to each his own.
DB50, I hate to see you in this state of conflict. So to help out, and relieve you of this burden, I'm willing to step in and be the SD to this SB. Yes, it's a sacrifice on my part. But I feel I owe it to you as a fellow monger. Just PM her contact info and I'll do the rest.
John Whitman
06-26-17, 21:29
Reading back a dozen pages or so should give you a pretty good idea what this forum is about. IMHO the main thing is sharing information and helping each other out so that we all have nice dreams and avoid nightmares.
Hello,
I'm John Barns I'm new to the site and was wondering what this forum is about.
DollarBill50
06-28-17, 14:06
Thanks a whole lot. You guys are the sh $t. BBHunt!! That was funny as hell. Take her off my hands.
As you guys have stated. She is of age and that makes us both adults. So I will be trying to hit it when I see her the next time. She is out of town right now, but will be back in town on the 7th of July.
Lets see if we can do this.
As for what I was looking for, I just didn't expect her to be so young. I was figuring she would be at least a little bit older. But you guys have made me see the errors of my ways. She just turned 20 and fresh, I think I can work with that.
Again Thanks a lot.
NC Transplant
06-28-17, 15:01
I haven't had the best of luck with younger ones myself. Most don't know what they are doing. She is of legal age. You may have to show her the ropes? I guess you can handle that?
Thanks a whole lot. You guys are the sh $t. BBHunt!! That was funny as hell. Take her off my hands.
As you guys have stated. She is of age and that makes us both adults. So I will be trying to hit it when I see her the next time. She is out of town right now, but will be back in town on the 7th of July.
Lets see if we can do this.
As for what I was looking for, I just didn't expect her to be so young. I was figuring she would be at least a little bit older. But you guys have made me see the errors of my ways. She just turned 20 and fresh, I think I can work with that.
Again Thanks a lot.
I recently renewed my membership to SA and auditioned a few potential SBs. I purposely looked for 27 and older--I'm following the old half plus 7 rule. Thought I'd share my findings with you gents.
Irishprincess2017 is real and very sweet. Met her in person. She's accommodating and very reasonable in her expectations. She's older and very thin, but attractive. I liked her but she lives too far away.
Gyspsyroselee is very attractive--she has a sexy Lauren Hutton like gap in her teeth (if you old guys remember) and an amazing body. We had a misunderstanding about her expectation (3 a visit vs. 1. 5). But she was still very friendly and sexy.
Greent91 is a sexy as hell Black MILF. Loves DATY! And very reasonable.
Dirtyfarmgirl seems legit but she flaked on me and canceled our date at the last minute.
Athena Goddess is crazy sexy looking. And she's good company--very down to earth girl. I thought she had GPS when she quoted 5, but she came down to 3 for the first meeting and 2 for the second. YMMV.
Those are the ones I met at my place or theirs. There are a few more I've talked to that seem real. Seniors, pm me for those or for details about the others.
I renewed my SA membership and have been flooded with messages. They seem legit for the most part (only one in Ghana). Most have GP syndrome, but one, Athena Goddess, is tempting me with a $400 offer. I can't afford it but I realized I met her once at a music festival and she's insanely gorgeous (like make you cheat on Sandra Bullock hot! But I've been surprised by how many want to meet privately immediately. I'll report back if I find any good ones.
But I noticed Darlene, who I reported on a year or two ago, is back as Wicked Wanda. Supposed to see her today. I'll let why'all know how it goes.
I'd appreciate any recommendations though.Darlene / Wicked Wanda is as hot as ever and now has a friend she wants us to meet.
Hey everyone,
I am new to Charlotte, originally a west coaster and used another site to share intel. I prefer SD / SB sites for a few reasons and do my hunting there. I have had a month of experience on Seeking, AF and WYP. I can say this is completely different than Los Angeles.
My initial take is that there is an abundance of millenial GPS or platonic emotional friend for hire. I stay away from anyone who asks me to text them immediately. I do my research through facebook and google on phone #s. This turned up a few scary criminals that I would not rather spend my time with.
Two meetings have occurred, both looked nothing like their photos. One was at least 30 pounds heavier and was sheepish when we first met, why waste our time.
I have a lunch scheduled this weekend with a 20 yo from Rock Hill. We will see, seems legit and sending the right signals. Wish everyone success. Nova.
Darlene / Wicked Wanda is as hot as ever and now has a friend she wants us to meet.Not sure if it is the same person. A complete no show, with texting every 20 minutes saying she is on her way, 90 minutes later says she has an emergency and never even left. YMMV, I guess.
I'm a member of the AF web site. After I got rid of all the girls that want money after a couple of text messages (These type of girls kill me) I met this young girl on the site. She is about 19-20 years of age. We went out a couple of times for dinner. Not expenses dinner either. She is a buffet type of girl. Really, that is where she likes to eat. She is pretty cool to talk with. Now she want to go to another level with me. She wants to have sex. We haven't started talking about any arrangements yet and she has brought it up. So I mentioned it the last date we went on. She ask me to name a price. But she just wants to go on trips and weekend getaways sometimes. But she does want sex also. (Her words) My question for you guys. How do I hit it without feeling like the creepy old guy down the street wanting sex from the young high school graduate who just left home? I had to card her just to make sure she was over 18. That's how young she looked. But she is cute. I can say that. But every time I think about getting it, it hits me that she is 19-20 years of age. (I'm 50). Should I just let her go and move onto something a little older? And this is after complaining about all the girls on AF want is money before even talking to you on the phone. Should I hit it and just close my eyes while doing it, not looking at that young face? (Kidding on this statement). Just a little help on this one guys.
I have been seeing a young lady who is 21 y/o for the last 3 months. I am in my late 50's. We get along great, talk almost constantly and the sex is fabulous!. She is cool with our age difference, and so am I.
If you feel creepy, stay away. If you're cool with it. , go for it.
Not sure if it is the same person. A complete no show, with texting every 20 minutes saying she is on her way, 90 minutes later says she has an emergency and never even left. YMMV, I guess.Sorry to hear that. She flaked on me the other day and I haven't heard back from her. She did that once when I was seeing her a couple of years ago. I never got an explanation but she did make it up to me.
I think I've found my sb for the rest of the summer. A tattooed MILF!
But in my quest to find this unicorn, I had one last audition. _biblioclasm is real and fun! She's heavier than her pics on SA, but the weight gain has given her a magnificent backside. She's friendly, accommodating, and reasonable. She's also a little shy and very young--20. I, however, was fine with the age difference (I'm 30 years her senior) as was she apparently. If your looking, consider her--particularly if your near Rock Hill. Seniors pm for details.
Been texting with this one and curious if you gents have any info on here as none were found when I searched the forum. The number she gave me shows on social media as her real pics so I am thinking she is true to life. We are supposed to meet for dinner and drinks and maybe more Thursday night. Any input is appreciated. I can return the favor in Middle TN area if you have any questions in that area.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/623a250b-d9ea-4fc4-9d7b-6fde19ea1572
Been texting with this one and curious if you gents have any info on here as none were found when I searched the forum. The number she gave me shows on social media as her real pics so I am thinking she is true to life. We are supposed to meet for dinner and drinks and maybe more Thursday night. Any input is appreciated. I can return the favor in Middle TN area if you have any questions in that area.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/623a250b-d9ea-4fc4-9d7b-6fde19ea1572Well set up the date for dinner and literally 10 minutes before we had agreed and confirmed to meet, boom. "Blocked". Knew that was the end of that. Don't waste your time, fellow daddies.
And to think, I wanted my 300th post to be like a bowling score..Perfect. not to be I guess
Well set up the date for dinner and literally 10 minutes before we had agreed and confirmed to meet, boom. "Blocked". Knew that was the end of that. Don't waste your time, fellow daddies.
And to think, I wanted my 300th post to be like a bowling score..Perfect. not to be I guessI had one from your town do the same thing recently but at least it was 2 days before our meetup so I had time for a Plan B which worked out pretty well to say the least. Some weird ass women out there as we all know.
I thought I'd share a few more names of women from SA I think are legit. These I've talked to but haven't (yet) met:
Mwlove3.
PrincessNovalei1212.
Icanbeyourplaything.
SherrY_1970.
Jypsy.
SouthernGrace74.
Redheadadventurer417.
Smartandsugarsweet.
I've had extended conversations with all of these but stopped just short of meeting. Generally, it's been a timing thing.
Something I noticed that's helped me to some extent. If you look at the profile, you can see when the girl joined. Newer ones are skittish, ones that have been around for several years are easy to deal with but may have GPS, and there's a sweet spot Somewhere between a few months and a couple of years. Just my 2 cents.
I had one from your town do the same thing recently but at least it was 2 days before our meetup so I had time for a Plan B which worked out pretty well to say the least. Some weird ass women out there as we all know.Do you have a name or link so I can avoid and pass the word on her?
Just a heads up--GypsyRoseLee from SA is apparently in a tough spot and open to negotiation. She's a sexy MILF. If I wasn't already invested in another SB, I'd take her on.
It's come to my attention that _biblioclasm will rip you off. I got my money's worth, but she was at my place and I didn't give her any gift until she was about to leave. But apparently, she's not trustworthy so I withdraw my recommendation.
If you're interested, she gave me permission to share her contact information. Seniors, pm for details.
Do you have a name or link so I can avoid and pass the word on her?Nuttybabygirl01.
Queen City Guy
07-19-17, 23:15
Note: I posted this under UTR but meant to post it here:
OK so I've been at this hobby for gawd, 40 years?! As I've gotten older and less active (60 soon) I have become more selective but only to a point. Got into this SB thing a couple of years ago but there is a vast array of what's on these sites. I stick with WYP and SB. The SA site looks like too many gals with Golden Kitty Syndrome. Looking for (or claiming) allowances starting at 1 large and up. Too many other options out there before I get tied up in that stuff (like going onto a 'wife' site and offering to rent if you are willing to let hubby watch for much less).
I don't want to pay an allowance, to have daily / weekly contact or to wine and dine in hopes of paying more money, travel, shopping sprees, etc and soforth (unlike you guys not in relationship) to get to the point that I can do what we are all after in the end (party favors for party favors).
Some of these same gals post on BP or elsewhere so don't let them kid you, they're trying to do the same work for more jack with a better clientele so the burden is on the buyer to be sure he doesn't over pay, plenty of sites to check phone numbers. Also some are willing to play-for-pay under the right circumstances they just don't want you fat slob rednecks, prefer white collar, clean, safe, guys but that comes at a little premium for the buyer. Problem is sorting them out right?
For me I take a direct approach say something like: "My deal is I'm being left 'home alone' Wed-Sun morning. Looking to not do a lot of game playing but some discrete quality time and settle up. You are a very attractive lady and don't mean to insult you AT ALL, just being straight up. I get these opportunities periodically but not often enough to do a steady arrangement or allowance. " OR "You're nice and I like you a lot and have some time the next four nights but am more of a discrete, cuddle and pay at the end of the night guy; let me know if we can work something out". Truth is a lot (most) of you don't want to be seen out and about with gals your daughters age. And BELIEVE ME that 6 degrees of separation is true! I walked into a gift shop in Yellowstone and run into a neighbor! You and your SB can run into an old HS acquaintance in St Louis or elsewhere. All the more in the greater CLT metro area.
Found quite a few willing to go for less than a GFE. Reality is most of these gals are in a short term bind whether its hubby left, medical bills mom / kids, college bills, bills bills, stupid management, etc. On any particular day they may be willing to accept something they wouldn't do another day. Just have to be opportunistic. They want something safe, where they won; t get beat up, raped, or taken into trafficking. They just are playing the only card they have to get short term funds.
QCG Tips:
'I'm available today but all I can do is (a rate) if you're willing to meet, let me know if you're interested; safe, sane, clean, (etc)'.
'I have some discreet time this evening if you are available, certainly am willing to compensate for your time'.
'I have a limited schedule and am in town (or available) this evening if you want to get a drink and see where it goes, but be aware that I only have tonight'.
'I have a limited schedule and more of a pay at the end of the night kind of guy if you are available x evening'.
If you meet them and take them home NEVER let them out of your sight, even if they go to the bathroom. Guys on this site have been divorced over someone taking something that belonged to their w. (I. E. DO NOT do her in the wife's bedroom; den, spare room, family room are OK).
I suggest meeting them at a 24 hour store or something (WM, HT, something) you can meet exchange pleasantries, take her. Never mind 100 things I can say. Maybe another post.
Anyway, like most, looking for someone I can meet occasionally as long as that lasts, no drama, don't over pay (I have a house-limit the big head has determined in advance, and I can assure you I can pay way more than many on here; but hey, once you pop it doesn't matter does it? And has no residual effects.
Any fool can pay 5 Franklins and convince himself he got every dollars worth.
My cousin married into a wealthy family and one thing he taught me is this: "wealthy people are wealthy because they never overpay for anything".
Any one tried https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/b1f8aa7f-4992-3326-67d7-d95bbc11508e.
Any feedback?
Does anyone have any info on Goddesshenz?
Thanks.
Anyone come across Charlotter224?
Mravcapo69
08-15-17, 00:59
Does anyone have any info on these two? Their profiles sound interesting.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/75fdc600-413d-e001-1474-c29dd21dc8d5
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/68fb4c5f-9073-44e8-af55-742f96be4a31
Thanks
Does anyone have any info on these two? Their profiles sound interesting.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/75fdc600-413d-e001-1474-c29dd21dc8d5
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/68fb4c5f-9073-44e8-af55-742f96be4a31
ThanksI messaged with Emily for a while. Just could never get her to actually pull the trigger on meeting, even for coffee. Who knows, could have been my approach though.
Mravcapo69
08-16-17, 01:44
Yeah, I had a same result with Emily. Exchanged few messages. Real hard to set anything up. Than she said that she found SD, but now looking for a 2nd girl for threesome. So, I am thinking, shouldn't' he be looking for a 2nd girl, and not her. Yet, she's online daily. That doesn't tell me that she found what she's looking for. I don't feel like renewing my membership at the time, just to try her again.
The other one, didn't talk to her for the same reason. I just thought some of you guys did. If I renew my membership, and talk to her, I'll report. I'd appreciate the same, if anyone beats me to it.
I messaged with Emily for a while. Just could never get her to actually pull the trigger on meeting, even for coffee. Who knows, could have been my approach though.
Yeah, I had a same result with Emily. Exchanged few messages. Real hard to set anything up. Than she said that she found SD, but now looking for a 2nd girl for threesome. So, I am thinking, shouldn't' he be looking for a 2nd girl, and not her. Yet, she's online daily. That doesn't tell me that she found what she's looking for. I don't feel like renewing my membership at the time, just to try her again.
The other one, didn't talk to her for the same reason. I just thought some of you guys did. If I renew my membership, and talk to her, I'll report. I'd appreciate the same, if anyone beats me to it.Ok, I had same exact experience with Emily, she emailed back and forth for 3 weeks saying she is looking for the right SD. Wanted another girl for a threesome. She is just playing around the site in my opinion.
Mravcapo69
08-16-17, 14:06
Yeah, my opinion is the same. I guess she gets turn on by such flirting and the fact that the guys are interested in her. But, her games are free to her, unlike where we have to pay a lot per month to play those games. Than again, I prefer to find that out through exchanging messages, than paying a $. 100, or whatever, for the first date, for the same outcome on WYP. Just my 2 cents.
Ok, I had same exact experience with Emily, she emailed back and forth for 3 weeks saying she is looking for the right SD. Wanted another girl for a threesome. She is just playing around the site in my opinion.
Yeah, my opinion is the same. I guess she gets turn on by such flirting and the fact that the guys are interested in her. But, her games are free to her, unlike where we have to pay a lot per month to play those games. Than again, I prefer to find that out through exchanging messages, than paying a $. 100, or whatever, for the first date, for the same outcome on WYP. Just my 2 cents.WYP was not a great success for me. I swear some girls are employed by the site and message you so you have to buy credits. They never respond after the first email.
My trend on SA continues. I have exchanged emails with 3 women over the past few weeks who are looking for monthly allowance and no physical contact. I feel like saying, well honey, that is called a job, not an arrangement.
Mravcapo69
08-16-17, 22:44
Ha! I get you completely. I am not a big fan of WHY. I have limited myself to $50, and had some success, but many of the ladies on there are serial daters, because they know they are getting money for the first date no matter what, so they don't ever have to see you again. They take the cash, get treated and you get a hug. SA has been better for me. At least there is no promise of cash for the first date. However, there is a lot of GPS syndrome on there, or just expecting allowance for the virtual "excitement", texts, video chat, etc. Not sure what is going on in these chicks heads, but they try to convince me that there are guys out there who pay them without ever meeting them. That's certainly not me, but nothing surprises me any more.
WYP was not a great success for me. I swear some girls are employed by the site and message you so you have to buy credits. They never respond after the first email.
My trend on SA continues. I have exchanged emails with 3 women over the past few weeks who are looking for monthly allowance and no physical contact. I feel like saying, well honey, that is called a job, not an arrangement.
DollarBill50
08-17-17, 07:55
I get that same response from some of the ladies on AF (Arrangement Finder). They think that just because some of them are cute (And they are) that I want to pay them for being seen with them. Hell I think my dog is cute. I can walk around with her and it only cost me a Scooby snack. And they honestly believe that there are guys out there that will pay them an allowance just to go out with them. NO SEX what so ever.
WYP was not a great success for me. I swear some girls are employed by the site and message you so you have to buy credits. They never respond after the first email.
My trend on SA continues. I have exchanged emails with 3 women over the past few weeks who are looking for monthly allowance and no physical contact. I feel like saying, well honey, that is called a job, not an arrangement.
I get that same response from some of the ladies on AF (Arrangement Finder). They think that just because some of them are cute (And they are) that I want to pay them for being seen with them. Hell I think my dog is cute. I can walk around with her and it only cost me a Scooby snack. And they honestly believe that there are guys out there that will pay them an allowance just to go out with them. NO SEX what so ever.Well I am glad it is not just me LOL. Just like any part of this hobby we need to weed out the flakes and mine the gems. When the right arrangement occurs it is wonderful and we keep chasing that high. I don't know if I can justify the 89 a month from SA to keep farming talent.
Mravcapo69
08-17-17, 15:25
I guess you have those sort of girls on all of these sites. They believe that they are a God's gift to humanity, and all we guys need to do is get a wink from them to have a mind blowing orgasm LOL. Sad part is that probably some of them get money form some of us, who are just fine with online relationships. Not me! Best of luck to them and all of those who support their fantasies in such ways. I'd never pay for something I can get for free on hundreds of sites.
I get that same response from some of the ladies on AF (Arrangement Finder). They think that just because some of them are cute (And they are) that I want to pay them for being seen with them. Hell I think my dog is cute. I can walk around with her and it only cost me a Scooby snack. And they honestly believe that there are guys out there that will pay them an allowance just to go out with them. NO SEX what so ever.
I guess you have those sort of girls on all of these sites. They believe that they are a God's gift to humanity, and all we guys need to do is get a wink from them to have a mind blowing orgasm LOL. Sad part is that probably some of them get money form some of us, who are just fine with online relationships. Not me! Best of luck to them and all of those who support their fantasies in such ways. I'd never pay for something I can get for free on hundreds of sites.Once in a while you get really lucky though! Last week hooked up with a 19 year old college girl that was in town with some friends. She had been on SA for a few months but hadn't seen anybody as she was too nervous to do it in her hometown. Perfect little body. Did anything I wanted. Even sent some pics and a couple vids the day after when I asked for something to remember her by.
Actually had a little talk with her. She made it way to easy to identify her. As much as I appreciated her sending me a link to her instagram to prove she was real, that wasn't a smart thing to do. She's a college athlete with a bright future. Had to give her a little lecture. LOL.
Mravcapo69
08-19-17, 22:42
Yes, some of these girls are very naive and easy to find out the real identity. I've done similar thing couple of times, in similar situations. I'd never take advantage of them in such way, but you never know who they may run into out there, that will mark their record for life. I must say that in bot cases, after giving them similar lecture, they were very appreciative and I got rewarded Sometimes it pays to be nice.
Once in a while you get really lucky though! Last week hooked up with a 19 year old college girl that was in town with some friends. She had been on SA for a few months but hadn't seen anybody as she was too nervous to do it in her hometown. Perfect little body. Did anything I wanted. Even sent some pics and a couple vids the day after when I asked for something to remember her by.
Actually had a little talk with her. She made it way to easy to identify her. As much as I appreciated her sending me a link to her instagram to prove she was real, that wasn't a smart thing to do. She's a college athlete with a bright future. Had to give her a little lecture. LOL.
Yes, some of these girls are very naive and easy to find out the real identity. I've done similar thing couple of times, in similar situations. I'd never take advantage of them in such way, but you never know who they may run into out there, that will mark their record for life. I must say that in bot cases, after giving them similar lecture, they were very appreciative and I got rewarded Sometimes it pays to be nice.Agreed. I mean I'm not some white knight. I love hooking up with these girls, but they are human beings and also not pros. Don't want anything bad to happen to them. She appreciated my advice.
GeminiVenus.
22 • Female • Charlotte, North Carolina, United States.
Ambitious, fun-loving girl looking for adventure.
Was corresponding with this girl and happened to finally read her profile down to the bottom edge where she said if you lied to her about being married, she would find your wife and tell her everything. After I saw that I asked.
"That would be fun, but I just read the last line of your profile. I am married. Is that an issue for you?
GeminiVenus about 11 hours ago.
"No, not if you're honest with me about it".
I noticed today she has updated her profile to remove that line about calling your wife.
But frankly, someone who threatens that is not someone I would see anyway.
DollarBill50
09-08-17, 13:21
So I signed up with SA for the first time and I'm getting all these message from ladies trying to hoop up. But its funny that some of them don't read the profile. When they get to "Life Style Expectation" a lot of them have HIGH. So when they contact me and I see that I tell them that they are too rich for me. They don't understand. I point out that if they say HIGH, they are expecting a monthly allowance of up to $10,000. If they can get it more power to them. I'm not mad. But they weren't getting it from me. So tell me. Should I do them on a per meeting allowance? Some of them sound like a lot of fun. But if I get a good one, I might retire. So tell me how to handle SA. Is it like AF and WYP? They all the same? I don't believe that all of them are BP girls.
Thanks Guys.
So I signed up with SA for the first time and I'm getting all these message from ladies trying to hoop up. But its funny that some of them don't read the profile. When they get to "Life Style Expectation" a lot of them have HIGH. So when they contact me and I see that I tell them that they are too rich for me. They don't understand. I point out that if they say HIGH, they are expecting a monthly allowance of up to $10,000. If they can get it more power to them. I'm not mad. But they weren't getting it from me. So tell me. Should I do them on a per meeting allowance? Some of them sound like a lot of fun. But if I get a good one, I might retire. So tell me how to handle SA. Is it like AF and WYP? They all the same? I don't believe that all of them are BP girls.
Thanks Guys.I have had pretty good success with the site seeing a woman tonight who I've kind of started dating, had a great arrangement with a woman who just moved back to Missouri, and have had some great Pay to play / one time visits. My advice would be to make your financial parameters known up front. When they inevitably ask me if I have had an arrangement before (or I ask them and they respond--what about you), I tell them about my favorite arrangement where are young woman would come to my house, we would hang out, intimacy was always an option, and I gave her 4 to 5 a month, which breaks down to about a Franklin a visit. So they know basically what I am offering. If they counter with something like well I usually get 1000 a month. I say I am sure you are worth it, but that is too rich for me. Usually, they move on, or call me cheap and move on, or in a couple of instances decide to negotiate. I have seen a 400 a visit girl for a buck 50. But I find most of the ones I am interested in -- not necessarily the Barbie doll / beauty queen / porn star, more like the Girl next door / MILF type-- are good with a Franklin a visit after we meet and they see that I am polite, clean, and fun. Also, I like to get them off of SA.
And talking to me by text or email that often gives me the opportunity to do a little background checking on them as well.
Most will do a per visit areangement if they really need the money and they feel like you are safe and reliable.
So I signed up with SA for the first time and I'm getting all these message from ladies trying to hoop up. But its funny that some of them don't read the profile. When they get to "Life Style Expectation" a lot of them have HIGH. So when they contact me and I see that I tell them that they are too rich for me. They don't understand. I point out that if they say HIGH, they are expecting a monthly allowance of up to $10,000. If they can get it more power to them. I'm not mad. But they weren't getting it from me. So tell me. Should I do them on a per meeting allowance? Some of them sound like a lot of fun. But if I get a good one, I might retire. So tell me how to handle SA. Is it like AF and WYP? They all the same? I don't believe that all of them are BP girls.
Thanks Guys.I have had pretty good success with the site – – seeing a woman tonight who I've kind of started dating, had a great arrangement with a woman who just move back to Missouri, and have had some great Pay to play slash one time visits. My advice would be to make your financial parameters known up front. When they inevitably ask me if I have had an arrangement before (or I ask them and they respond--what about you), I tell them about my favorite arrangement where are young woman would come to my house, we would hang out, intimacy was always an option, and I gave her 4 to 5 months, which breaks down to about a Franklin a visit. So they know basically what I am offering. If they counter with something like – – well are usually get 1000 a month. I say I am sure you are worth it, but that is too rich for me. Usually, they move on, or call me cheap and move on, or in a couple of instances decide to negotiate. I have seen a 400 a visit girl for a buck 50. But I find most of the ones I am interested in – – not necessarily the Barbie doll / beauty queen / porn star, more like the Girl next door / MILF type-- are good with a Franklin a visit after we meet and they see that I am polite, clean, and fun. Also, I like to get them off of SAM talking to me by text or email – – that often gives me the opportunity to do a little background checking on them as well.
So I signed up with SA for the first time and I'm getting all these message from ladies trying to hoop up. But its funny that some of them don't read the profile. When they get to "Life Style Expectation" a lot of them have HIGH. So when they contact me and I see that I tell them that they are too rich for me. They don't understand. I point out that if they say HIGH, they are expecting a monthly allowance of up to $10,000. If they can get it more power to them. I'm not mad. But they weren't getting it from me. So tell me. Should I do them on a per meeting allowance? Some of them sound like a lot of fun. But if I get a good one, I might retire. So tell me how to handle SA. Is it like AF and WYP? They all the same? I don't believe that all of them are BP girls.
Thanks Guys.I have had pretty good success with the site – – seeing a woman tonight who I've kind of started dating, had a great arrangement with a woman who just moved back to Missouri, and have had some great Pay to play slash one time visits. My advice would be to make your financial parameters known up front. When they inevitably ask me if I have had an arrangement before (or I ask them and they respond--what about you), I tell them about my favorite arrangement where are young woman would come to my house, we would hang out, intimacy was always an option, and I gave her 4 to 5 a month, which breaks down to about a Franklin a visit. So they know basically what I am offering. If they counter with something like – – well are usually get 1000 a month. I say I am sure you are worth it, but that is too rich for me. Usually, they move on, or call me cheap and move on, or in a couple of instances decide to negotiate. I have seen a 400 a visit girl for a buck 50. But I find most of the ones I am interested in – – not necessarily the Barbie doll / beauty queen / porn star, more like the Girl next door / MILF type-- are good with a Franklin a visit after we meet and they see that I am polite, clean, and fun. Also, I like to get them off of SA and talking to me by text or email – – that often gives me the opportunity to do a little background checking on them as well.
So I signed up with SA for the first time and I'm getting all these message from ladies trying to hoop up. But its funny that some of them don't read the profile. When they get to "Life Style Expectation" a lot of them have HIGH. So when they contact me and I see that I tell them that they are too rich for me. They don't understand. I point out that if they say HIGH, they are expecting a monthly allowance of up to $10,000. If they can get it more power to them. I'm not mad. But they weren't getting it from me. So tell me. Should I do them on a per meeting allowance? Some of them sound like a lot of fun. But if I get a good one, I might retire. So tell me how to handle SA. Is it like AF and WYP? They all the same? I don't believe that all of them are BP girls.
Thanks Guys.-ignore the lifestyle expectation.
I've had great success. Currently have 2 girls I want to see for a while, so I'm off the site for the time being. I'll go back on when I get bored with these 2.
-offer up texting early. I only meet up with girls who I can identify ahead of time, for my own safety.
-DON'T BE A CREEP. Approach them like they are a human being. A lot of men on that site don't. Just take a little interest in their lives. Make them feel like they aren't essentially being a prostitute, even though we know the truth.
-I tell them I only do per meet but tell them that, that way also doesn't obligate them to hang out a certain number of times a month. Many end up liking that.
-I make it clear up front that I have zero interest in interfering in their real lives. Most seem to appreciate that. Also gives a chance to tell them I expect the same discretion in return.
-Offer up a meet and greet. I like to meet for coffee. That type of casual meet seems to put people at ease. I've never paid anyone for a meet and greet (though don't be a jerk, buy them a coffee)
-I do make it clear that I am looking for a physical arrangement.
Well, I had an amazing 4 weeks with a girl next door type, she was 20 and genuinely innocent bordering naive. The advice below is spot on. Don't be a creep, be upfront. You can be kind and still be firm in your wants / offerings.
Sadly, the young lady I had been seeing found her old boyfriend and began another relationship. I paid per visit and was transparent from the beginning. Bruco and SludgePup said it very well. Do your homework if possible, be nice and upfront.
DollarBill50
09-11-17, 12:10
All I can say is WOW!
First all I paid for just 1 month, so I have gotten a few day left. I'm finding out that some of these young ladies just want the money just to pay some bills. There is nothing for them on that site but that. Some of them are "SUPPOSE" to get getting like $500 per visit. OMG! I have been ask for $500 for rent to $400 for getting their car fixed. No first date, no lets meet in the parking lot first. Just give me that cash and we can call it a day. I have been offered webcam (Which I never do unless we have had a sexual relationship first) A couple of them want to be just exclusive. Which I don't mind. That could lead to a lot of other things. But I have a couple that just want to go to dinner and meet. Then lets go from there. Hanging out can lead to the other stuff. That comes from the olders ladies. (30+ in age). The young ones want to meet right away. Lets get to the business of having sex so that I can get my monthly allowance or per visit cash. I find it funny.
Let me tell you a funny.
So I had these ladies from Charlotte. They wanted money as a favor from me and will pay me back (YEA! RIGHT!) So I told one of them that I had a date with one girl on the site for like $500. She was going to let me spend the night with her and have as much as I wanted. (I really wasn't). The other girl got mad and told me that she was way better than the one I was going to see. She said that I can come see her for $400. I fell out. I said to myself SELF: You could parlay this into everything and a all nighter for like $50 if yu play your cards right. So there are girls on that site you can probably get for like $100 every 2 weeks and get everything. I haven't indulge just yet. Just see how far they are willing to go. SA is kinda of a gold mine.
But there are some of the older ladies that just want to hangout, have dinner and drinks. Then see what can become of that. But I bet you have them for a LTR. There is no STR with them at all. But there a few cute older ladies that I might try that with. I would be out of pocket on this site, but just maybe it might be worth it. WHO KNOWS.
You guys be safe.
And have fun.
Luvstophuk
09-11-17, 13:26
I just signed up but haven't actually met up with anyone yet. I've exchanged texts with afew and gotten respectable $2-3 prices. I'm still having ahard time about that nevermind your $500 advances and promises "to get you back " LOL.
Agreed could be a gold mine or just fools gold. Let me know how you make out.
All I can say is WOW!
First all I paid for just 1 month, so I have gotten a few day left. I'm finding out that some of these young ladies just want the money just to pay some bills. There is nothing for them on that site but that. Some of them are "SUPPOSE" to get getting like $500 per visit. OMG! I have been ask for $500 for rent to $400 for getting their car fixed. No first date, no lets meet in the parking lot first. Just give me that cash and we can call it a day. I have been offered webcam (Which I never do unless we have had a sexual relationship first) A couple of them want to be just exclusive. Which I don't mind. That could lead to a lot of other things. But I have a couple that just want to go to dinner and meet. Then lets go from there. Hanging out can lead to the other stuff. That comes from the olders ladies. (30+ in age). The young ones want to meet right away. Lets get to the business of having sex so that I can get my monthly allowance or per visit cash. I find it funny.
Let me tell you a funny.
So I had these ladies from Charlotte. They wanted money as a favor from me and will pay me back (YEA! RIGHT!) So I told one of them that I had a date with one girl on the site for like $500. She was going to let me spend the night with her and have as much as I wanted. (I really wasn't). The other girl got mad and told me that she was way better than the one I was going to see. She said that I can come see her for $400. I fell out. I said to myself SELF: You could parlay this into everything and a all nighter for like $50 if yu play your cards right. So there are girls on that site you can probably get for like $100 every 2 weeks and get everything. I haven't indulge just yet. Just see how far they are willing to go. SA is kinda of a gold mine.
But there are some of the older ladies that just want to hangout, have dinner and drinks. Then see what can become of that. But I bet you have them for a LTR. There is no STR with them at all. But there a few cute older ladies that I might try that with. I would be out of pocket on this site, but just maybe it might be worth it. WHO KNOWS.
You guys be safe.
And have fun.
Finger Bang
09-13-17, 18:21
What does SA mean?Seeking Arrangement.
DollarBill50
09-13-17, 20:21
Seeking Arrangement.
What does SA mean?
I've actually had some decent luck on SA. You do have to weed trough the fakes and escorts, etc. But many real women are on there. Previous reports are correct, treat them with respect, like you would a real person (that's what they are) and you can have fun.
Only bad experience I had ever was from supersweetnfun. Her profile is deleted now, or maybe she just blocked me, but we met once in public, had some fun, everything seemed fine. Next time she ripped me off. I think her name is Heather and she posted her location as Denver. Not sure what her issue is, maybe drugs? (But didn't seem that type at all). But she could have made a lot more off me than what she stole. I'm not the type to make a big deal out of it.
Just heads up!
Shelby 500
09-15-17, 13:04
She blocked you. Her profile is still up.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/6b5dcfbd-2dec-4974-b7e6-1563001fee67
I've actually had some decent luck on SA. You do have to weed trough the fakes and escorts, etc. But many real women are on there. Previous reports are correct, treat them with respect, like you would a real person (that's what they are) and you can have fun.
Only bad experience I had ever was from supersweetnfun. Her profile is deleted now, or maybe she just blocked me, but we met once in public, had some fun, everything seemed fine. Next time she ripped me off. I think her name is Heather and she posted her location as Denver. Not sure what her issue is, maybe drugs? (But didn't seem that type at all). But she could have made a lot more off me than what she stole. I'm not the type to make a big deal out of it.
Just heads up!
DollarBill50
09-15-17, 16:03
I know that girl. She has been pinging me for like 4 days now. Trying to get me to hookup with her. She wanted $200 for her to come by and have some fun. I kicked her to the curb. But she still pings me. LOLOLOL.
I can't believe it. She always want to come over to my house. I'm glad that I turned her down. Sorry for your lost. There are some good ones on that site. You are right. I have been out with a couple of them. But I never come over to my house on a date. I told them once I get to know you then we might start that. We always meet somewhere public. THAT GIRL BEEN JOCKING ME FOR A FEW DAYS NOW!!
I willl stay away from her like the plague.
I've actually had some decent luck on SA. You do have to weed trough the fakes and escorts, etc. But many real women are on there. Previous reports are correct, treat them with respect, like you would a real person (that's what they are) and you can have fun.
Only bad experience I had ever was from supersweetnfun. Her profile is deleted now, or maybe she just blocked me, but we met once in public, had some fun, everything seemed fine. Next time she ripped me off. I think her name is Heather and she posted her location as Denver. Not sure what her issue is, maybe drugs? (But didn't seem that type at all). But she could have made a lot more off me than what she stole. I'm not the type to make a big deal out of it.
Just heads up!
She blocked you. Her profile is still up.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/6b5dcfbd-2dec-4974-b7e6-1563001fee67I figure as much. It's odd, I have her personal email and contact info, so what's the point of blocking me? LOL. I just hope she's ok. She seemed like the perfect girl for this. I'd be interested in if anyone else sees her.
Hell, Maybe she just wasn't into me. That's fine if that's the case, no hard feelings, but she could of just said so. Others may have better luck. Just go in being warned. She's at least legit and willing to meet. She even suggested a hotel. I'd be interested in what would of happened had I done that. She looks good. Could of made a lot more off of me than what she took.
Does anyone have any info on Hannah 96 ?
Thanks.
I saw her a couple of months ago. Heavier than photos, and the turnaround was too quick. More of a backpage encounter. Would not repeat.
Treader.
I figure as much. It's odd, I have her personal email and contact info, so what's the point of blocking me? LOL. I just hope she's ok. She seemed like the perfect girl for this. I'd be interested in if anyone else sees her.
Hell, Maybe she just wasn't into me. That's fine if that's the case, no hard feelings, but she could of just said so. Others may have better luck. Just go in being warned. She's at least legit and willing to meet. She even suggested a hotel. I'd be interested in what would of happened had I done that. She looks good. Could of made a lot more off of me than what she took.
I have just signed up for SA but I cannot do much without adding a photo to my profile. I do not want to add a personal photo so just wondered what other guys have done to get around this and still be successful on the site.
Appreciate any help.
Mravcapo69
09-28-17, 09:46
There are app and websites that you can blur your photo or put something over the face so that the public photo is not recognizable. But you can't overdo it, because I had my photo rejected few times because I covered too much. Best of luck!
I have just signed up for SA but I cannot do much without adding a photo to my profile. I do not want to add a personal photo so just wondered what other guys have done to get around this and still be successful on the site.
Appreciate any help.
John HandCock
09-28-17, 11:29
I have just signed up for SA but I cannot do much without adding a photo to my profile. I do not want to add a personal photo so just wondered what other guys have done to get around this and still be successful on the site.
Appreciate any help.You can post a profile pic as private and only let girls see it that your interested in or no pic and send one by text or email when someone request one. If your not a paying member your not going to be able to read or send messages anyway.
Hi. There is a gorgeous MILF on SA, looks to be in Gastonia area. Our correspondence has been sporadic, but I'm just not able to close the deal to meet with her, although I've suggested it. Wondering if any of you have met with her? And maybe will pass on your secret?
You really don't have to buy a membership. I have contacted 5 women from those sites simply from googling their usernames. People are creatures of habit and tend to always use the same user name. Other times I've used Google image search. I only contact people who have contacted me first and when I do I send them a screenshot of the message they sent. So far it works good, and since these girls are not hip to the game. PM Me for the rest of what I want to say. Its too important to divulge publicly. I'll check messages later today around 730 pm.
Goes by Vanessa and I think she used to work in once of the massage parlors (Nice Spa? , Comes of as demanding and too much of an up sell. Made me wait 1 hour for the meet and then farted during the session which killed my mood / Nasty written all over her, she had kids and body is not all that good once clothes come off. Avoid this one on my advice.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/b00dcc09-6a8a-4438-9bbc-3b120bda5117
Anyone else notice that a number of the girls photos are in the same car? I've had a couple of M&G, one may be promising, another the girl wanted $600/ wk. A couple have flaked on me. One turned out for a nice bit of afternoon delight for a reasonable fee. https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/7aba0d8c-f99c-4a34-9e06-17da4b54ee47.
Keep on hunting.
Anyone else notice that a number of the girls photos are in the same car? I've had a couple of M&G, one may be promising, another the girl wanted $600/ wk. A couple have flaked on me. One turned out for a nice bit of afternoon delight for a reasonable fee. https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/7aba0d8c-f99c-4a34-9e06-17da4b54ee47.
Keep on hunting.How was your experience with Nikki? We messaged but she could only meet during daytime. One thing to note: Many girls are using the same exact description and desires. It is a cut and paste across 5 profiles I have seen. Does it make sense to trust those who have been verified or premium?
My luck has been awful lately. Every single one wants a minimum 500 per visit. I can't budget for that and simply do not see the return on that investment.
Does anyone have experience with Melissa?
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/bc4ec617-5aa0-ef72-fcd1-1ac1c4368028
We just exchanged numbers.
A few random notes:
Worthy24: seemed pretty normal and attractive and interested, but then no showed on me for a M&G. Likely because I told her I don't pay for M&G.
AC_25: Some extra pounds but she is nice, normal, and very willing to please. $$.
How was your experience with Nikki? We messaged but she could only meet during daytime. One thing to note: Many girls are using the same exact description and desires. It is a cut and paste across 5 profiles I have seen. Does it make sense to trust those who have been verified or premium?
My luck has been awful lately. Every single one wants a minimum 500 per visit. I can't budget for that and simply do not see the return on that investment.
Does anyone have experience with Melissa?
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/bc4ec617-5aa0-ef72-fcd1-1ac1c4368028
We just exchanged numbers.I've had better luck with getting value out of girls from places like Greenville and Greensboro. Less bankers and lawyers throwing stupid money around there.
A little bit of a pain, but I can usually get them to meet me in between.
How was your experience with Nikki? We messaged but she could only meet during daytime. One thing to note: Many girls are using the same exact description and desires. It is a cut and paste across 5 profiles I have seen. Does it make sense to trust those who have been verified or premium?
My luck has been awful lately. Every single one wants a minimum 500 per visit. I can't budget for that and simply do not see the return on that investment.
Does anyone have experience with Melissa?
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/bc4ec617-5aa0-ef72-fcd1-1ac1c4368028
We just exchanged numbers.She's the classic MILF. Well reviewed escort on many sites. You can Google Sweet Melissa. Great kisser.
She loves a good cab or pinot, agree, she can be a great date, and she is open to meeting at different hours, though she says she has another job that sometimes makes getting an appointment difficult.
She's the classic MILF. Well reviewed escort on many sites. You can Google Sweet Melissa. Great kisser.
She's the classic MILF. Well reviewed escort on many sites. You can Google Sweet Melissa. Great kisser.Thanks for the intel. This seems to be more my speed than chasing the coeds who seem to flake or want way too much.
I agree with all that said she is great. It's been a while since I've seen her, but she's a great date and a great lady.
She's the classic MILF. Well reviewed escort on many sites. You can Google Sweet Melissa. Great kisser.
I've seen Nikki a couple of times. Something clicked between us and we are very compatible sexually. She is super limber from years of ballet.
How was your experience with Nikki? We messaged but she could only meet during daytime. One thing to note: Many girls are using the same exact description and desires. It is a cut and paste across 5 profiles I have seen. Does it make sense to trust those who have been verified or premium?
My luck has been awful lately. Every single one wants a minimum 500 per visit. I can't budget for that and simply do not see the return on that investment.
Does anyone have experience with Melissa?
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/bc4ec617-5aa0-ef72-fcd1-1ac1c4368028
We just exchanged numbers.
Gastonian4
10-17-17, 17:22
I talked with one of you about mindypie from WYP a few months back, she accepted a reasonably priced offer from me but I didn't follow through and she is trying to contact me again. Would appreciate hearing from anyone with info to share.
PoorMan101
10-17-17, 18:58
Hey guys,
If by chance you came across my older posts. I just wanted to post something I found personally to avoid scammers. Been having lot's of fun and having lot's of success on that site. Check the picture below "this is normal and safe". If you notice the country doesn't match, it's a scammer, if there is no information on how long they have been on the site. It may be LEO. So be safe! Thanks.
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