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ShortMan22
09-17-24, 14:59
Any details on this one? I messaged her but have not heard anything yet.
https://members.seeking.com/member/ce209e9e-52ec-43d9-8cc7-159b6e88a4ed
Sort of a similar experience with me. I got her number and we did text, but a couple messages in, she stopped responding. Interesting thing is the photo on the profile is of one girl, but the number she gave me doesn't seem to be a fake number and is registered to another girl who happens to be friends or an acquaintance of the girl in the photos. I don't really know what to make of it. I wonder if she is using her friend's photos on the site for discretion.I saw this profile before first reported but concluded in was probobly fake IMO. There are a bunch of red flags that I saw and if anyone else sees different then feel free to weigh in. 1. Profile is new 2. Pictures appear to be different people. First picture, cute little asian spinner with light hair which appears to be taken in Asia based upon the building in the background; second picture thicker but not fat asian and a taller asian spinner which appears to be in a western nation. Obviously the spinner is not the thicker girl so taller girl is supposed to be the girl in the first picture. Although I do not think the spinner in the first picture is the same spinner in the second photo, what caught my attention was the height. She lists her height at 5'-2". The thicker girl is considerably shorter in the second pic which would put the thicker girl somwhere in the range of 4'-8" to 4'-10" or so which is noticbly short even for an asian or hispanic chick. Also consider the railings in the background. Railings in the US are generally 42" in height. Looking at the thick girl compared to the railing, she appears taller than 56" to 58". 3. The second picture appears to be a dated, but well kept up neighborhood, of which I cannot think of any around DC. Could be Baltimore or some other city but at least in DC not a lot of vinyl siding row houses next to garage row houses sporting 1980's awning that I can think of. 4. Third picture is useless and skin tone appears much more yellow but this could be due to lighting. Why would she share pictures of herself in #1, her friend and herself in #2, and then pick some useless eyeball pic for #3. 4. A picture of two people without the face blocked out. Although I have found some real ones with a second person in the photo, the second person's face is always hidden. No reasonable girl is going to share her friend's face on her SA profile.
I have seen one that used photos of another girl when I actually did met her but she was still very hot and admitted she only did that so no one would find out she was on SA. Maybe I am over analizing but this one just seems to throw up too many flags for me to believe it is real. Just an opinion so if anyone has any other thoughts would love to hear so we can help eachother spot the fakes.
Any info on this one? Pursuing me out of the blue from miami and beverly hills?
https://members.seeking.com/member/b745dd8f-3b07-422d-b375-298a2f4a278a
Arianna expects 1 k. LOL.
https://members.seeking.com/member/223434a1-8552-4c7e-bca8-cba03aad2cbc
HornyTwist
09-18-24, 22:14
I have posted about this a few weeks ago. Now wasting 300 for 90 day membership again. Its hopeless for me at this time. I rejoined recently after 2 years after losing one of my SBs and seeking is a shell of its former self. I am going to list a few scammers below but I would love to hear from people who have tried any other competitors to SA like SDM, SB or even WYP recently. Are they any better? It astonishing to me that I am not even close to finding a replacement despite my experience and resources. It will probably be pure luck or fluke if it happens. I am searching in 40 miles radius DC and baltimore area.
Here are a few profiles you don't need to waste your time on. That will also give you idea of my type. Any help or ideas are most welcome.
Amber: E-meets only.
https://members.seeking.com/member/59be9bd2-4060-4de4-aebb-1d4adfc2c345
Elizabeth: selling pics.
https://members.seeking.com/member/548adafc-fbeb-48c1-8579-2f6d58aee143
Lauren: $100 in advance, 400 ppm.
https://members.seeking.com/member/7e72b772-ba8b-429e-b3d4-e2e4dd1e8d74
Sarah: Stopped responding after told about no advance money transfer.
https://members.seeking.com/member/92bb89df-74aa-4059-9a5d-43cc83be1b55
Cynthia: digits on first message. Gas money scam.
https://members.seeking.com/member/a631b566-295a-451f-adfa-bd49e0f73cdf
June: now in florida selling pics.
https://members.seeking.com/member/66f65359-39f3-4ee8-ad40-d56d25ce6b23
Dimples: I have seen her multiple profiles before. Selling pics.
https://members.seeking.com/member/616837ac-e366-423d-ae8d-83ff6a353e08
FrankCastle6
09-18-24, 23:15
...Against my better judgement, I paid for a month. Of the 100+ accounts messaging me, maybe 20 were attractive real humans. After filtering heavily for fakes, I've had a $5 k / month ask, one escort's digits, several ghosts, and three breadcrumbers. Maybe I'm dumb, but I'm hoping one of the latter three ends up with a meet.
I was seeing a stripper otc now and then to take care of things, but she was aggravating and flipped out recently, perhaps permanently blocking me.
It's way easier to get pussy in just about any other city in the country. My theory is that the high number of rich, powerful male politicians coming to the area blows up the market.
BuckNaked84
09-20-24, 00:09
Definitely the absolute worst in my 5 years.
I guess the question is, is Sugar a declining thing generally, or are SBs migrating to other platforms? Honestly don't know the answer.
I have posted about this a few weeks ago. Now wasting 300 for 90 day membership again. Its hopeless for me at this time. I rejoined recently after 2 years after losing one of my SBs and seeking is a shell of its former self. I am going to list a few scammers below but I would love to hear from people who have tried any other competitors to SA like SDM, SB or even WYP recently. Are they any better? It astonishing to me that I am not even close to finding a replacement despite my experience and resources. It will probably be pure luck or fluke if it happens. I am searching in 40 miles radius DC and baltimore area.
Here are a few profiles you don't need to waste your time on. That will also give you idea of my type. Any help or ideas are most welcome.
Amber: E-meets only.
https://members.seeking.com/member/59be9bd2-4060-4de4-aebb-1d4adfc2c345
Elizabeth: selling pics.
https://members.seeking.com/member/548adafc-fbeb-48c1-8579-2f6d58aee143
Lauren: $100 in advance, 400 ppm.
FarFarAway
09-20-24, 11:31
Against my better judgement, I paid for a month. Of the 100+ accounts messaging me, maybe 20 were attractive real humans. After filtering heavily for fakes, I've had a $5 k / month ask, one escort's digits, several ghosts, and three breadcrumbers. Maybe I'm dumb, but I'm hoping one of the latter three ends up with a meet.
I was seeing a stripper otc now and then to take care of things, but she was aggravating and flipped out recently, perhaps permanently blocking me.
It's way easier to get pussy in just about any other city in the country. My theory is that the high number of rich, powerful male politicians coming to the area blows up the market.Please explain "breadcrumbers."
FrankCastle6
09-20-24, 16:08
Please explain "breadcrumbers.""breadcrumbing" is a term for when they dole out just enough attention to keep you interested, but aren't really serious.
These girls are answering with a couple of sentences every couple of days. I'm pretty sure they're real, just some combination of entitled, used to not putting in any effort for attention, and lazy.
Has anyone had experience with McQueen? Her profile looked good and I sent her an intro message. It was kinda generic but it had a hook to show that I read her profile and I wasn't asking for pics right away. She replied "You are clearly a scammer. Goodbye" and then blocked me. Rough.I feel like someone is tapping that. She's been around a while with no mention here at all, so prob someone playing it close to the vest, which is fine. There are a few out there like that. Been around too long to be a scam, and seems to be too good to have no mention.
Dimples572
09-22-24, 14:08
This one's real big on the charm LOL.
https://members.seeking.com/member/9bac820d-9ba0-4b17-9bcd-4df511cfe81d
Dimples572
09-23-24, 09:46
Tried accessing the site this morning and got this pleasant message.
"We have detected some unusual activity on this account, resulting in suspension. During this time you will not be able to contact other users or pay for any services.
Please note that account suspensions are issued for either of the following reasons:
A violation of our Terms of Use.
Actions that trigger our automated security system.
We take such initiatives in order to identify / prevent violations and, ultimately, protect our member community. For more information, feel free to read our FAQs".
I've had my account shut down before, a few yrs ago, but I don't remember the verbiage they used at that time. Is a "suspension" a temporary thing while they look into whatever it is that triggered the system? Or am I proper fucked and this is essentially them telling me my account has been shut down? That whole "during this time you won't be blah blah" part of the message is confusing me. Idk if I should be expecting a follow up email from them in a day or two saying, after looking further into the situation, your account has been reinstated and / or closed permanently, or if this is just their way of saying you're blocked, go fuck yourself. ?
Any intel on this profile.
https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/0dc70c10-b4d2-4639-961a-bd8ec25f5012
Name is Bestie.
In that sweetspot of not being an obvious fake (fake IG model photos) but also don't see many fit white lasses on this site.
This one was catch and release.
https://members.seeking.com/member/bea5d6fd-0064-4c6d-8961-c40fa62c7c5a
She is truly 19 (she will show you her I'd), petite with a spinner body. Face is not great. Reasonable allowance. Enjoy, and always treat the ladies with respect.
Yah man she has hooker written all over her. She said that she has a kid too. Sheesh.I met her last week! DTF, price was a little high for what you get. Won't repeat as no vibe. I think she is UTR highish volume, tries to downplay.
FarFarAway
09-23-24, 16:33
This can happen from too many messages that are cut and paste. Like your opener. It can even occur if you go through and remove access to private photos for a bunch of old profiles you aren't interested in anymore. That happened to me. Because removing access to pix always sends a message to the girl, and they are all identical.
If you didn't do either of those, you likely did run afoul of TOS, and you might expect to be 1) asked to view a video about the TOS and be put on probation or 2) get that profile banned.
Tried accessing the site this morning and got this pleasant message.
"We have detected some unusual activity on this account, resulting in suspension. During this time you will not be able to contact other users or pay for any services.
Please note that account suspensions are issued for either of the following reasons:
A violation of our Terms of Use.
Actions that trigger our automated security system.
We take such initiatives in order to identify / prevent violations and, ultimately, protect our member community. For more information, feel free to read our FAQs".
Geechie Dan
09-23-24, 16:43
https://members.seeking.com/member/627663c3-350a-4ecd-8875-86f2cb86c88c
Does anyone have intel on this young lady? Seems too good to be true, from the allowance she quoted me.
https://members.seeking.com/member/627663c3-350a-4ecd-8875-86f2cb86c88c
Does anyone have intel on this young lady? Seems too good to be true, from the allowance she quoted me.OF model. Not real.
BuckNaked84
09-23-24, 18:42
Yah man she has hooker written all over her. She said that she has a kid too. Sheesh.Let it go.
Any intel on this profile.
https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/0dc70c10-b4d2-4639-961a-bd8ec25f5012
Name is Bestie.
In that sweetspot of not being an obvious fake (fake IG model photos) but also don't see many fit white lasses on this site.Link goes to your inbox friend. Almost everyone has done that at least once.
HornyTwist
09-23-24, 20:14
Definitely the absolute worst in my 5 years.
I guess the question is, is Sugar a declining thing generally, or are SBs migrating to other platforms? Honestly don't know the answer.That is the question I was getting at as well. Evolution is a strange thing. Seeking changed gradually over last 2 years while I was away on my regular rotation. Now I feel out of place there for last 4 months because I have nothing to show for them. I was only able to meet a pro but would not repeat due to poor experience. I may have some extra negative factors as compared to other guys here such as no public pics but I used to get so many more responses 2 years ago on same profile and most responses were legit. Now, Not many SB are checking my profile even the ones who are replying. I had parked my account and I have not changed my filters much. If anything, filters have became more inclusive because I thought maybe I am being too restrictive.
I hope that collected wisdom here can provide the best guess on if its a me problem or We problem. If others are having similar issues, then the question is, where did all the real SBs go? Is any of other SD / SB websites worth the membership? If so, which one is the closest to SA? Any recent experiences? Its a depressing thought that golden age in online sugaring may be over. I am still not accepting it and spending 300 on seeking every 90 days like its still a valuable resource it use to be.
TomFordModel
09-24-24, 00:40
Yah man she has hooker written all over her. She said that she has a kid too. Sheesh.Hmmm, All these girls are hooker they're receiving $$$ for the D.
Some might have a girl that claim it's their first time but whatever. They're here for cash.
Even, online dating most girls want something for a date. Whether a meal or gift. Like a spoiling bf.
Yah man she has hooker written all over her. She said that she has a kid too. Sheesh.Time stamp on this quoted post is October 1st. Of this year. How the fuck?
Any info on this one? Pursuing me out of the blue from miami and beverly hills?
https://members.seeking.com/member/b745dd8f-3b07-422d-b375-298a2f4a278a
Arianna expects 1 k. LOL.
https://members.seeking.com/member/223434a1-8552-4c7e-bca8-cba03aad2cbcArianna reached out to me first. I am not really in the market right now since I am happy with what I have going on but figured I would follow up with her for fun. Anyway quick to respond, wanted to hang out immediately, and quoted $500. Based upon her heading "Available Now" and the fact that she wanted to hang out right away without meeting publicly first I am thinking pro.
AnonDemon69
09-25-24, 08:12
That is the question I was getting at as well. Evolution is a strange thing. Seeking changed gradually over last 2 years while I was away on my regular rotation. Now I feel out of place there for last 4 months because I have nothing to show for them. I was only able to meet a pro but would not repeat due to poor experience. I may have some extra negative factors as compared to other guys here such as no public pics but I used to get so many more responses 2 years ago on same profile and most responses were legit. Now, Not many SB are checking my profile even the ones who are replying. I had parked my account and I have not changed my filters much. If anything, filters have became more inclusive because I thought maybe I am being too restrictive.
I hope that collected wisdom here can provide the best guess on if its a me problem or We problem. If others are having similar issues, then the question is, where did all the real SBs go? Is any of other SD / SB websites worth the membership? If so, which one is the closest to SA? Any recent experiences? Its a depressing thought that golden age in online sugaring may be over. I am still not accepting it and spending 300 on seeking every 90 days like its still a valuable resource it use to be.I have found that lots of strippers or bartenders (mainly at strip clubs) are into the SB game, however, they do ask for more than 500, so get ready to spend. I have also found that some of the friends of SB's are also into the game or at least are curious. They are afraid to be on the website, but do want to be part of the game by piggybacking of her friend. The thing is, that you can only get the friend that's not on any website if you ask for threesome (have to cough up the PPM for the friend too) and then get her digits after that, otherwise your current SB won't just introduce her friend to you in fear she will lose some income, which of course she will LOL.
You are right about the Seeking website, it sucks now. I can't find even a college average looking girl there. I am sticking to my finds from last year and early this year.
Any Intel on this one:
https://members.seeking.com/member/1309fdb9-6019-412a-981d-d81903a5943f
Ready to meet right away, ask was high, but negotiated quickly down.
Tia!
ShortMan22
09-25-24, 14:04
She must be desperate or in need of quick cash. She reached out to me and wanted to meet sametime.
Arianna reached out to me first. I am not really in the market right now since I am happy with what I have going on but figured I would follow up with her for fun. Anyway quick to respond, wanted to hang out immediately, and quoted $500. Based upon her heading "Available Now" and the fact that she wanted to hang out right away without meeting publicly first I am thinking pro.
This is one is coming through DC and just landed. Will meet for $400.
https://members.seeking.com/member/11f5290b-962d-402f-847d-a87f3a4e9b69
Have not pulled the trigger and probably won't but pics look good!
This one, the pics look better than in person; dtf, easy to meet with, 5 is good!
https://members.seeking.com/member/0743452f-7003-4ae7-8387-0f1f21afb191
TomFordModel
09-25-24, 15:55
She must be desperate or in need of quick cash. She reached out to me and wanted to meet sametime.She's huge. If those are her best pics trying to look thinner. Need to add another 50 lbs for that beach whale.
I wouldn't touch that thing.
BuckNaked84
09-25-24, 16:54
Rotation is zero.
Probably a good thing. My accountant approves.
BuckNaked84
09-25-24, 17:39
I met her last week! DTF, price was a little high for what you get. Won't repeat as no vibe. I think she is UTR highish volume, tries to downplay.You are the most prolific monger here. I now have to question, as I am quite prolific myself. I talk to the exact same girls. Is it realistic that you are closing all the girls that my 6'5 handsome self couldn't?
I am starting to wonder.
BuckNaked84
09-25-24, 18:20
I met her last week! DTF, price was a little high for what you get. Won't repeat as no vibe. I think she is UTR highish volume, tries to downplay.You are the most prolific monger here. I now have to question, as I am quite prolific myself. I talk to the exact same girls. Is it realistic that you are closing all the girls that my 6'5 handsome self couldn't?
I a. Starting to wonder.
This is one is coming through DC and just landed. Will meet for $400.
https://members.seeking.com/member/11f5290b-962d-402f-847d-a87f3a4e9b69
Have not pulled the trigger and probably won't but pics look good!Seems like the kinda girls that rotates in for a couple weeks, sets up shop in CP or NOVA and the SA profile is another form of marketing.
Just my $0. 02.
Any Intel on this one:
https://members.seeking.com/member/1309fdb9-6019-412a-981d-d81903a5943f
Ready to meet right away, ask was high, but negotiated quickly down.
Tia!Yikes a neck tattoo. That should tell you all you need to know.
Dimples572
09-27-24, 00:55
Time stamp on this quoted post is October 1st. Of this year. How the fuck?And it keeps popping up over and over at the top of the thread. It's bizarre LOL.
I met her last week! DTF, price was a little high for what you get. Won't repeat as no vibe. I think she is UTR highish volume, tries to downplay.
Yah man she has hooker written all over her. She said that she has a kid too. Sheesh.Once upon a time, not any more.
Dimples572
09-27-24, 13:39
This one's fake af. Started texting and exchanged pics. Pics didn't match profile pics at all. After an image search the pics she sent were of someone named Valentina Nappi. Some porn star I've never heard of. Don't waste your time.
https://members.seeking.com/member/49dda2b9-3fdb-4107-ba75-b81fb19b19e9
https://www.instagram.com/instavalentinanappi?igsh=MWFoY3J4Njd5NGVwMg==
TomFordModel
09-27-24, 17:03
Once upon a time, not any more.I saw her Facebook she looks very raggedy. Looks older than her age probably from stress and life.
Plus the fact she's in the hood area. Pics of her social circle looks like they're from the ghetto.
She's was pretty when she was in her early 20's. After being blasted by all you mongers. - it's a big no.
Meetup with her 2 years ago. She is real. Meetup with her in Rio Lake MD. She insistent for me to put bills down 1st. I agree to only put half the allowance down. She grabbed it and ran off. She had it plan, because saw she had a car waiting outside through the hotel window.
Any Intel on this one:
https://members.seeking.com/member/1309fdb9-6019-412a-981d-d81903a5943f
Ready to meet right away, ask was high, but negotiated quickly down.
Tia!
Rudy Wellz
09-27-24, 20:00
There is a SB that I'm am currently seeing more "on than off" and have for the last 3 years. During this time, she disappeared. No breakup, just silence. Then, out of nowhere, several months later, she texted and wanted to see me. Told me she went back home to the midwest to help her family. Fast forward to several months ago when I ran her face through FaceCheck and her mug shot for child endangerment (assuming they were her own) popped up. Now I realize that she was away either locked up or getting her act together (or something else), but definitely not visiting family.I know this young lady had a few of us as SD's. She was in my rotation for a long time as stated above. Last saw her 2 months ago for our usual great time. Left with a hug and a smile with plans to meet up again soon. Then radio silence, no response to my texts, and now her phone number is disconnected. Perhaps one of you made her an exclusive offer? Just hoping that she is OK.
SteveStone123
09-28-24, 00:05
Another fake one as the location is showing as UK.
https://members.seeking.com/member/28fba801-f2d0-45ce-bec8-357af15e1a0d
Dimples572
09-28-24, 11:29
Another fake one as the location is showing as UK.
https://members.seeking.com/member/28fba801-f2d0-45ce-bec8-357af15e1a0dI've noticed over the past week or so probably a half dozen profiles that all have that phrase "love circuit" in their profile. Clearly the same person making all these profiles and just recycling the same words, just too lazy to come up with better verbiage.
FrankCastle6
09-28-24, 15:56
I've noticed over the past week or so probably a half dozen profiles that all have that phrase "love circuit" in their profile. Clearly the same person making all these profiles and just recycling the same words, just too lazy to come up with better verbiage."Love circuit" or LOVE in the title is a particular scam. They tell you that they only date through an exclusive 3rd party site or chat room called LOVE. You have to pay to get in. Once they have your money, they block you.
LOVE scammer:
https://members.seeking.com/member/28fba801-f2d0-45ce-bec8-357af15e1a0d
Who wants to tell her that her friends are lying when they say they aren't fucking their SDs?
https://members.seeking.com/member/091047bf-070c-4adf-a231-b50ad36af7c5
Hannah is back (never met her myself).
https://members.seeking.com/member/8dc92554-f3e4-46cb-82cf-719857300ea2
FrankCastle6
09-28-24, 17:30
https://members.seeking.com/member/eb21a862-151c-4e3c-a9cf-5798252039c0
Seems real, private pics are attractive, slim, vaguely Eastern European. Wants 5 k / mo or 1200/ meet.
Once upon a time, not any more.Does anyone have a new link to her profile? Couldn't find anymore.
For those of you who enjoyed her last time.
A Few for the board:
Jessica (aka Franchesca).
https://members.seeking.com/member/6cc8c45a-461f-4c13-8a27-1b71956866fe
She has been reviewed before with the same profile and different username. Finally got to meet her as she is back in town and picking up the pro or at least semi-pro vibes. Really nice person and her English is good though not perfect. Easy to communicate and setup meeting with. Head game was awesome with DT and sloppy. She really gets into the act. Would repeat at some point. Damage was $400.
ProCatHunter
09-30-24, 11:08
Have one in rotation; just turned 21; bare all access; tight young body. Amazing in bed, multi pops per session; screams "do whatever you want to me daddy" as I fuck her missionary in the ass while choking her. Loves being filmed as I desecrate her body in so many ways and Ppm is well under $300.
She is batshit crazy tho; has the need to mark me (scratches my back up while I'm nailing her); sucks me off after hitting her anal in an attempt to get me hard again; begs for me to piss in her mouth; etc, etc.
I know I need to ghost her and never look back, but my little head keeps telling me to hit it just one more time.
Fml.
ProCatHunter
09-30-24, 15:25
And the other offers, but truly not sure if I am ready to give her up just yet.
Not going to respond to all the individual PMs I received, but didn't want you all to think I was ignoring you. Going to have to empty my inbox again soon. Fml.
Have one in rotation; just turned 21; bare all access; tight young body. Amazing in bed, multi pops per session; screams "do whatever you want to me daddy" as I fuck her missionary in the ass while choking her. Loves being filmed as I desecrate her body in so many ways and Ppm is well under $300.
She is batshit crazy tho; has the need to mark me (scratches my back up while I'm nailing her); sucks me off after hitting her anal in an attempt to get me hard again; begs for me to piss in her mouth; etc, etc.
I know I need to ghost her and never look back, but my little head keeps telling me to hit it just one more time.
Fml.
VictorSmitham
10-01-24, 02:48
Already been reported on a handful of times (see below). In fact, you were the one asking about her last year. Personally, I reached out twice around that time. But I was left on read in both instances so I gave up.Yah man she has hooker written all over her. She said that she has a kid too. Sheesh.
FrankCastle6
10-01-24, 06:54
These two profiles have the exact same text, must be cut and paste spammers:
https://members.seeking.com/member/f3ef18cc-6a20-49e9-877f-fae39a12d69d
https://members.seeking.com/member/532b6189-268e-451e-bf60-89b01e727d66
Fake, this is a porn star whose name I do not know:
https://members.seeking.com/member/1bce0bf4-cb3f-4696-b3f5-c94f8cabb5c2
Hey everyone, I'm 30 and married to my high school sweetheart. In the past, I've mostly seen pump-and-dump girls, but I'm now in a fortunate financial position where I can afford to explore the sugar daddy lifestyle. I've recently met someone new, and this arrangement feels much more promising than anything I've experienced before.
As I'm navigating this dynamic, I have a lot of questions and would love to hear from those who are more experienced in balancing it with marriage. Any private insights on maintaining boundaries, handling expectations, and keeping things smooth would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks in advance for your advice!
CuriousVaMan
10-01-24, 17:44
You sure cast that net far and wide. You posted this question in the forums for about 10 different cities. Why? My spidey senses are activated.
Hey everyone, I'm 30 and married to my high school sweetheart. In the past, I've mostly seen pump-and-dump girls, but I'm now in a fortunate financial position where I can afford to explore the sugar daddy lifestyle. I've recently met someone new, and this arrangement feels much more promising than anything I've experienced before.
As I'm navigating this dynamic, I have a lot of questions and would love to hear from those who are more experienced in balancing it with marriage. Any private insights on maintaining boundaries, handling expectations, and keeping things smooth would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks in advance for your advice!
Gourmand56
10-01-24, 18:33
Hey everyone, I'm 30 and married to my high school sweetheart. In the past, I've mostly seen pump-and-dump girls, but I'm now in a fortunate financial position where I can afford to explore the sugar daddy lifestyle. I've recently met someone new, and this arrangement feels much more promising than anything I've experienced before.
As I'm navigating this dynamic, I have a lot of questions and would love to hear from those who are more experienced in balancing it with marriage. Any private insights on maintaining boundaries, handling expectations, and keeping things smooth would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks in advance for your advice!Generally. It's like dating. The girls in the sugar bowl run the gamut. They don't operate off of a more or less uniform set of standards like escorts do. You got girls who want you to pay them for platonic dates and nothing else. You got girls who double as escorts and want to be paid by the hour or the night. You got girls who want a financially secure relationship that leads to marriage. You got girls that want a boyfriend who'll buy them nice things. You really have to treat each one on a case by case basis and feel them out. Then once you find her.
The best thing to do is to be as anonymous as possible and state your intentions up front. Tell them you're married and intend to stay that way. Be brutally honest and reinforce it if need be. Don't assume that they're OK with married men. Don't assume that they're going to continue to be OK with married men as things progress. The biggest threat to your marriage is a girl who feels like you played her or lead her on. Being honest and upfront about your marriage is the best protection.
And you have to maintain boundaries too. That means letting her live her life outside of whatever arrangement you have with her. If you break the contract by trying to encroach on her life, you invite her in to do the same to you. Do not overstep if you intend to stay married. Do not let jealously wreck things.
To start.
ProCatHunter
10-02-24, 09:15
Ai and social media are becoming increasingly smart.
I noticed that snap was suggesting friends that looked familiar. Realized many of the suggestions were girls from seeking. I am guessing the following is occurring:
Once you add enough user ids from girls you meet on seeking; snap is identifying overlaps. So when snap sees that I'm friends with girls X, why, and Z; it is suggesting that I add some of you mongers and girls A, B, and C (which you mongers have added, but I didn't because I ended up being left on read when I messaged the same ladies and never reactivated my account).
Been messaging some of these ladies and will report back if this new technique pays off. Would be a fun way to maximize room usage (eg sugar babies 1 and 2 get scheduled) and then rando from Snap fills time in between.
ProCatHunter
10-02-24, 09:33
Footstomp on all of this; but emphasize that OPSEC is key.
Even if you don't encroach, maintain boundaries; and establish clear rules of engagement, you may find yourself on the wrong end of batshit crazy. Like the line from the movie Heat: "never let yourself get attached to anything that you cannot walk out on in 30 seconds if you feel the heat around the corner. ".
Just because you give her space and respect her boundaries, that doesn't mean she will do the same. It's more likely to happen if you do; but not all girls are built the same. Many who are on seeking are mentally unstable.
That said, the difference between the sugar game and escorts is the connection you develop and the "feel" of normal dating. In other words, if the person you found on seeking is asking for cash; sets a time limit for how long you see her; and has strict rules for what happens behind closed doors. You've found an escort who is using seeking as her backpage site.
The allure of the sugar world (at least for me) is when I find a 20 something year old who will let me do anything I want to her; wants to cuddle after I leave a creampie in between her legs, ass and mouth; and sends me naked pics and videos of herself masturbating to try to get my attention when I get busy with work and forget to respond to her text.
This of course leads to problems because that sort of relationship tends to come with more emotional attachments. And so the key is to compartmentalization your life and follow the "heat" rule while most young ladies lack that ability. My past is littered with SBs becoming jealous and obsessed. That's when I have to throw them back. The most recent one that started blowing me up was the one I posted about that many of you mongers were PM'ing me about for more details (not the batshit 21 year old, but the older one that tomfordmodel was asking about who had the stink puss. That one was blowing me up and trying to give the milk for free. Which is a clear sign to me that she wanted something more. Her high volume was also a bad signal).
Good luck navigating this world. It's hotel California for you now. My two cents for whatever it's worth.
Generally. It's like dating. The girls in the sugar bowl run the gamut. They don't operate off of a more or less uniform set of standards like escorts do. You got girls who want you to pay them for platonic dates and nothing else. You got girls who double as escorts and want to be paid by the hour or the night. You got girls who want a financially secure relationship that leads to marriage. You got girls that want a boyfriend who'll buy them nice things. You really have to treat each one on a case by case basis and feel them out. Then once you find her.
The best thing to do is to be as anonymous as possible and state your intentions up front. Tell them you're married and intend to stay that way. Be brutally honest and reinforce it if need be. Don't assume that they're OK with married men. Don't assume that they're going to continue to be OK with married men as things progress. The biggest threat to your marriage is a girl who feels like you played her or lead her on. Being honest and upfront about your marriage is the best protection.
And you have to maintain boundaries too. That means letting her live her life outside of whatever arrangement you have with her. If you break the contract by trying to encroach on her life, you invite her in to do the same to you. Do not overstep if you intend to stay married. Do not let jealously wreck things.
To start.
BuckNaked84
10-02-24, 16:10
Hey everyone, I'm 30 and married to my high school sweetheart. In the past, I've mostly seen pump-and-dump girls, but I'm now in a fortunate financial position where I can afford to explore the sugar daddy lifestyle. I've recently met someone new, and this arrangement feels much more promising than anything I've experienced before.
As I'm navigating this dynamic, I have a lot of questions and would love to hear from those who are more experienced in balancing it with marriage. Any private insights on maintaining boundaries, handling expectations, and keeping things smooth would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks in advance for your advice!1. Don't use your real name (ever).
2. Don't use your real phone (ever); caller ID.
3. Don't use a joint account (banking).
4. Don't have credit cards send physical mail.
5. Don't share your location with SO (get her an android, or you get one). IPhones share a lot.
6. Lock your devices with Looooong unlock codes.
7. Don't use an email your SO has access to.
Probably more, but that is the basics of OPSEC.
Have one in rotation; just turned 21; bare all access; tight young body. Amazing in bed, multi pops per session; screams "do whatever you want to me daddy" as I fuck her missionary in the ass while choking her. Loves being filmed as I desecrate her body in so many ways and Ppm is well under $300.
She is batshit crazy tho; has the need to mark me (scratches my back up while I'm nailing her); sucks me off after hitting her anal in an attempt to get me hard again; begs for me to piss in her mouth; etc, etc.
I know I need to ghost her and never look back, but my little head keeps telling me to hit it just one more time.
Fml.So tell us how you got PPM under 300 if you don't mind. Maybe this will help me. On a scale of 1-10 in looks, where does she land?
Gourmand56
10-02-24, 19:15
So tell us how you got PPM under 300 if you don't mind. Maybe this will help me. On a scale of 1-10 in looks, where does she land?Not the op but there's no method. Sugaring online is like dating online but paying to do it. It's hit or miss. It's chemistry. It's happenstance. You'll be just one girl's type in one case and in another girl's case not so much. You'll catch one when she's feeling hot and adventurous and the next guy will catch her when she's not into it at all. It's a totally different mindset than the girls who escort or give HE's on demand. It's all the hassle of dating, but with a slightly better chance of getting laid.
The exception is you happen to meet a girl who's about to make her way into being an escort or an escort who sugars. And if you do that, it's not probably not going to be 300 PM for everything you hoped for.
The most success I've had sugaring is with girls I met in person. I don't know how old you are, but if you're my age, and a 24 year old flirts with you, she's most likely down for an arrangement.
BuckNaked84
10-02-24, 20:50
So tell us how you got PPM under 300 if you don't mind. Maybe this will help me. On a scale of 1-10 in looks, where does she land?You ask her PPM, and either counter, or say OK.
Sometimes, they lowball themselves. It has happened.
You ask her PPM, and either counter, or say OK.
Sometimes, they lowball themselves. It has happened.I've had more than a few for 300, average is 500, lowballed a few one and dones for less than 300, but knew.
I would never see again. Bottom line need to negotiate and depending on how hot is how the negotiation goes. I usually start with I have a range, especially for the ones that start at 800 or above. They will come down most of the time.
You sure cast that net far and wide. You posted this question in the forums for about 10 different cities. Why? My spidey senses are activated.Someone else asked her was my answer.
You're right I did post in multiple places. They're not at random. I've actually visited those places before, but the reason why is because there is a wealth of knowledge out there men with real experience. Unfortunately, in my hometown, the game is dying if you look through the sugar baby forum you'll see how bad it is. So if I post it in Myrtle and only Myrtle, I would've never gotten great advice . We're all here for the same reason why settle for one when you can have as many as you'd like.
Why settle for for one post in one area when posting in a few pages will increase my chances of getting real advice.
ProCatHunter
10-03-24, 12:28
1. Don't play the numbers game. If a lady insists on a number up front then she isn't in the game for the dating aspect. Focus on the ladies who are looking for a side piece. If there is a discussion about numbers, I tend to focus on broad ranges. The objective is to get to the M&G. This is where deals are closed, in person, after they get to know you. Based on percentages and numbers, I've concluded that if you can get a lady to an M&G and get her to laugh, you are more likely than not going to be able to bang her. The idea here is to make her feel like she would fuck you even if you weren't giving her any ppm / allowance. I focus and set my search filters to "newest" instead of "recently active" because the real profiles who are new are less likely to be bookers using seeking as a backpage site.
2. There are exceptions to general rule 1 above. I break them if the profile is hot or interesting enough and will engage with a numbers discussion before meeting if the lady merits it. GPS vibe before meeting- no thanks. As with above, I will provide a broad range. This will generate questions about what factors I use to determine exact amounts. Again, I give general answers, like can she host, what is she looking for, what she wants our dates to be like, but mainly focus on what our in person chemistry will be like.
3. If during the M&G there is a GPS or hooker vibe. No thanks, I move on. Plenty of fish in the sea and new profiles appear every day. Current rotations need attention. Prior SBs who have had changes in circumstances need attention too. Girls I have thrown back into the pool are often up for a spin when I'm in a pinch. Junior and the checking account can always use a break. If during the M&G the chemistry is good and it's clear she is into me; then more often than not, we won't ever even have an allowance discussion. If we do, and she's worth it, I'll be happy to provide it, but any senior knows that the allowance / PPM amounts are subject to downward change. Once a lady gets comfortable with you, the covers come off and condoms aren't required if you forgot to bring them after the fifth or sixth date and then going forward you don't ever have to. At some point, you may experience a financial difficulty (ie laid off, kid has to go to private school, etc) and so you tell her, "I really want to continue seeing you, but can't afford to." if she enjoys your company then more often than not you'll find her negotiating against herself.
But more often than not, if you focus on not engaging in the numbers discussion up front and show a lady a good time on a date; you'll find that numbers drop considerably. And most importantly, make sure you start working out. Lose the gut, dress nicely, stay well groomed, show her a good time, and don't be a douche.
Can't tell you how many dudes out there can't comprehend why they can't get low cost pussy; but are 50 lbs overweight and treat a girl like trash.
So tell us how you got PPM under 300 if you don't mind. Maybe this will help me. On a scale of 1-10 in looks, where does she land?
RJKing1221
10-03-24, 13:48
Can't tell you how many dudes out there can't comprehend why they can't get low cost pussy; but are 50 lbs overweight and treat a girl like trash.
BuckNaked84
10-03-24, 16:35
Can't tell you how many dudes out there can't comprehend why they can't get low cost pussy; but are 50 lbs overweight and treat a girl like trash.50 and then 60 hit you in the face. Particularly 60. LOL.
Can't tell you how many dudes out there can't comprehend why they can't get low cost pussy; but are 50 lbs overweight and treat a girl like trash.Work on loosing your fat gut. Most of us don't want to bang a fat girl and most of these girls don't want to bang a fat dude unless they are compensated more. The hottest girls spend a lot of time in the gym so if you are overweight, she knows right off the bat that that you and her do not have that in common. I was about 30 lbs over weight. I made minor changes to my diet while begining moderate excercise and have been able to shed a little over 20 lbs. In a few months. Not only does this help with your sugar relationships, you will also feel better about yourself.
Also agree on treating them appropriately while not being a simp. A small gift after a few dates that shows you have actually listened to what she is interested in goes a long way.
ProCatHunter
10-03-24, 20:19
Yep. Appropriate is the key. If you're a douche, you're paying more. If you're a simp, you're paying more and you're not getting fcked.
Key here is Goldilocks. You need just the right mix of treating them right without being a douche or a simp. You're not trying to get her to marry you, you're trying to be the guy she calls when the dude who takes her out on a date expects her to pay; and the guy who paid for dinner at the Michelin star rated restaurant expects her to take it up the ass raw after the first date.
Play your cards right she'll be taking it up the ass raw and then sucking her shit off your junk.
Having a good rotation helps moderate how eager you are. It’s like planting seeds. Once you have a nice crop that is growing plenty of fruit, you can pick and choose which tree to harvest.
Work on loosing your fat gut. Most of us don't want to bang a fat girl and most of these girls don't want to bang a fat dude unless they are compensated more. The hottest girls spend a lot of time in the gym so if you are overweight, she knows right off the bat that that you and her do not have that in common. I was about 30 lbs over weight. I made minor changes to my diet while begining moderate excercise and have been able to shed a little over 20 lbs. In a few months. Not only does this help with your sugar relationships, you will also feel better about yourself.
Also agree on treating them appropriately while not being a simp. A small gift after a few dates that shows you have actually listened to what she is interested in goes a long way.
ProCatHunter
10-03-24, 20:22
Completely understand what this man is saying. I feel seen. Getting older means losing muscle. But oddly, exercising to get pussy means we will live longer.
50 and then 60 hit you in the face. Particularly 60. LOL.
Very good advice from the gentleman: just a few thoughts, I was very into the SB lifestyle with many different hot girls, I enjoy peak of seeking arrangements and have a few amazing stories to share, but warning was I met a few crazy girls that black mailed me for money all the time. I had 3 sb get pregnant and had to pay for abortions, but they might have been scamming me too. Going raw is addicting and makes you only want it more. I had a few SB I couldn't get rid of. After a very turbulent time period I gave up on sb and only deal with AMPs or a few apartments. Good luck.
1. Don't use your real name (ever).
2. Don't use your real phone (ever); caller ID.
3. Don't use a joint account (banking).
4. Don't have credit cards send physical mail.
5. Don't share your location with SO (get her an android, or you get one). IPhones share a lot.
6. Lock your devices with Looooong unlock codes.
7. Don't use an email your SO has access to.
Probably more, but that is the basics of OPSEC.
CuriousVaMan
10-03-24, 21:46
Brother X, I owe you an apology for doubting your motives. Your explanation makes perfect sense.
I must admit, I've enjoyed reading the updated, collective wisdom of the other brothers responding to your inquiry. The replies here in NOVA and those on the LA and Atlanta Boards were very informative. I say updated wisdom because when I first started in the game a few years ago, I started from the first post on Richmond SB thread and read forward. While many of the OGs have moved on (and many remain), reading about their exploits, tips and tricks was truly enlightening. The brothers who responded to your inquiry provide an updated, concise "best practices" of how to navigate the bowl. Heed that advice.
Someone else asked her was my answer.
You're right I did post in multiple places. They're not at random. I've actually visited those places before, but the reason why is because there is a wealth of knowledge out there men with real experience. Unfortunately, in my hometown, the game is dying if you look through the sugar baby forum you'll see how bad it is. So if I post it in Myrtle and only Myrtle, I would've never gotten great advice . We're all here for the same reason why settle for one when you can have as many as you'd like.
Why settle for for one post in one area when posting in a few pages will increase my chances of getting real advice.
ProCatHunter
10-03-24, 21:51
Bucknaked's opsec post is a good one.
Opsec is key. When the crazy one tells you that the baby is yours, walk out the door without looking back. You can't do that without good opsec.
Been in the game for a long time now. Never paid for an abortion, but been accused of making babies that I know are not mine. Ladies be posting pics of babies that could not have come from my seed, because the skin tones are all wrong. Might have had to pay out had opsec not been top notch.
Very good advice from the gentleman: just a few thoughts, I was very into the SB lifestyle with many different hot girls, I enjoy peak of seeking arrangements and have a few amazing stories to share, but warning was I met a few crazy girls that black mailed me for money all the time. I had 3 sb get pregnant and had to pay for abortions, but they might have been scamming me too. Going raw is addicting and makes you only want it more. I had a few SB I couldn't get rid of. After a very turbulent time period I gave up on sb and only deal with AMPs or a few apartments. Good luck.
Completely understand what this man is saying. I feel seen. Getting older means losing muscle. But oddly, exercising to get pussy means we will live longer.
50 and then 60 hit you in the face. Particularly 60. LOL.Pro Cat always offers some sound advice. Exercise fucking sucks but it pays off. Most of us are focused on our work and spend 10-12+ hours a day committed to making money. The last thing that I want to do is any kind of exercise after a long day at work. Would much rather go home, eat some steak and potatoes, and mix a couple of drinks before heading off to bed and start the same boring routine the next day. If you RTFF, there is a lot of talk about the benefits of exercise and getting into shape when you are in the sugar game. Eat right, limit the booze, get motivated to exercise and it will pay off. RFK is 70 years old, looks amazing with his shirt off, and just tore up an engagement with some 32 year old ***** all because she got wet at the thought of being with him.
So the new season of Love is Blind on Netflix is out and it's set in DC. Given the ladies on the show there is at least a possibility that some of the cast members have been in the bowl in the past. Anyone recognize anyone?
AnonDemon69
10-04-24, 14:33
I've had more than a few for 300, average is 500, lowballed a few one and dones for less than 300, but knew.
I would never see again. Bottom line need to negotiate and depending on how hot is how the negotiation goes. I usually start with I have a range, especially for the ones that start at 800 or above. They will come down most of the time.I agree, on average I have been experiencing 400 to 500. But regarding how they SB's look, it seems to me that 300-400 girls are usually average looking or even a little overweight, maybe like 6's to 7's. Any 8's are around 500 and the 9's want 600 plus to 1 k at times (no, I have not given this high PPM because I am not a simp and don't want to contribute to letting these prices go up) Do you guys have different experiences when it comes to looks and prices? I am seeing other posts regarding being overweight, I am actually in shape so I know that is not working against me in case you all disagree with my assessment.
Also, keep in mind that the further you get from DC, the cheaper they are because of where they live such as a Richmond girl is usually 100 less.
AnonDemon69
10-04-24, 14:35
So the new season of Love is Blind on Netflix is out and it's set in DC. Given the ladies on the show there is at least a possibility that some of the cast members have been in the bowl in the past. Anyone recognize anyone?I went to High School with one of them. I don't think they have been in the bowl because I heard that they do a descent social media / dating app search of the contestants.
Arianna reached out to me first. I am not really in the market right now since I am happy with what I have going on but figured I would follow up with her for fun. Anyway quick to respond, wanted to hang out immediately, and quoted $500. Based upon her heading "Available Now" and the fact that she wanted to hang out right away without meeting publicly first I am thinking pro.I've been in contact with her on on and off for over a year but never met. Comms can be pretty bad, like 2 weeks to reply. She alternates between "come tonight I'll do anything baby" texts at 11 pm and "I need guaranteed 2 k monthly before we do anything". Seems like a freak tho if you actually meet up.
I agree, on average I have been experiencing 400 to 500. But regarding how they SB's look, it seems to me that 300-400 girls are usually average looking or even a little overweight, maybe like 6's to 7's. Any 8's are around 500 and the 9's want 600 plus to 1 k at times (no, I have not given this high PPM because I am not a simp and don't want to contribute to letting these prices go up) Do you guys have different experiences when it comes to looks and prices? I am seeing other posts regarding being overweight, I am actually in shape so I know that is not working against me in case you all disagree with my assessment.
Also, keep in mind that the further you get from DC, the cheaper they are because of where they live such as a Richmond girl is usually 100 less.Well I was trying to get info on this as well for my utr sb I wast posting about before.
I messaged with a few guys and we agreed based on mines looks / age / shape. I should propose no more than a monthly budget. All the guys said don't spend more than your comfortable with. I'm okay at 2000/2500 a month. So I proposed $500 per meet to mine.
She countered me at $800 because she knows she's a hot insta influencer LATINA. But I too know my worth. I'm young with money and as well in decent shape. So I told her if I did $800 I'd see her 1-3 times a month max because my budget was still the same $2/2. 5 k a month LOL.
Or $500 per meet 4/5 times a month at $2-2. 5 k a month.
Then I told her like in any relationship / business I believe we all have to invest. And I was investing stability and consistency at that budget so if she was interested I'd expect her to invest back into our relationship moving forward.
She happily took it $500 per meet 4/5 times.
Same monthly budget and I get to fuck more LOL. Some of these wiser men helped me organize that deal and I'm comfortable at that price point.
I will say one guy said more money doesn't mean more quality. I think think that guy is right. I feel if I would have told my Chick that she wouldn't try to please harder and I would be wallet hurting so that sex / relationship would prob die out faster.
Sorry to bore with my experience I thought I’d give an update to my seeking if advice and thank you guys
But
To answer your question I’d say my Sb is a hard 9 not just from looks … she thought she was worth $800 I thought $500 …
All guys who private message me told me at 5/8 you should be getting exclusivity,raw,consistency,
And exactly what you want… It seems 8-10s would be in the 500/800 range from what I see …
I agree, on average I have been experiencing 400 to 500. But regarding how they SB's look, it seems to me that 300-400 girls are usually average looking or even a little overweight, maybe like 6's to 7's. Any 8's are around 500 and the 9's want 600 plus to 1 k at times (no, I have not given this high PPM because I am not a simp and don't want to contribute to letting these prices go up) Do you guys have different experiences when it comes to looks and prices? I am seeing other posts regarding being overweight, I am actually in shape so I know that is not working against me in case you all disagree with my assessment.
Also, keep in mind that the further you get from DC, the cheaper they are because of where they live such as a Richmond girl is usually 100 less.I haven't seen a real profile in the DC area of anyone I'd rate as 8+ in months. I don't pursue anyone less than an 8 so I can't speak to their asks, but the idea of agreeing to pay an average looking girl 400 but refusing to pay a hot girl 1 k is a weird definition of not being a simp. Paying is paying, and compromising is compromising. Reading the circle jerks that go on here about amateurs vs. Pros and simping and not simping is one of my guilty pleasures.
BuckNaked84
10-07-24, 17:27
Great banter online. Offline setup, and boom "I need something in good faith".
https://members.seeking.com/member/228f4f26-810c-409c-b51a-b14b9b48bd95
Save yourself some time. Shite is getting old.
BuckNaked84
10-07-24, 18:12
Found with face check.
https://members.seeking.com/member/96f2b916-deba-4f01-a295-1e946cd1a7bf
https://members.seeking.com/member/dc93b763-bceb-4a72-911c-3654e990f64d
Second one has a review on the well known review site.
BuckNaked84
10-07-24, 18:17
Supposedly married. Asks tons of sexual questions, and wants to Skype the same. Spydy sense alert.
https://members.seeking.com/member/00ebe778-8e84-4ce1-9163-b75d176a0808
BuckNaked84
10-07-24, 18:20
500 for M&G (pass).
https://members.seeking.com/member/08b8748a-a776-449f-b7cd-581f3df2f669
I looked this girl up. Seems to be a model and former Miss MD pageant contestant, so I think legit. However, I found an obituary that listed her as a fiancee saying the guy (Almost twice her age, of course) passed away on March 12. She created this account March 20th. Right back to it LOL.
https://members.seeking.com/member/9f0fd016-561e-455b-b0cb-73a747c97836
I agree, on average I have been experiencing 400 to 500. But regarding how they SB's look, it seems to me that 300-400 girls are usually average looking or even a little overweight, maybe like 6's to 7's. Any 8's are around 500 and the 9's want 600 plus to 1 k at times (no, I have not given this high PPM because I am not a simp and don't want to contribute to letting these prices go up) Do you guys have different experiences when it comes to looks and prices? I am seeing other posts regarding being overweight, I am actually in shape so I know that is not working against me in case you all disagree with my assessment.
Also, keep in mind that the further you get from DC, the cheaper they are because of where they live such as a Richmond girl is usually 100 less.Been a while since I played south of woodbridge but I often found some of those areas to be more challenging since the quality is less dense. That being said, never went as far as Richmond.
Well I was trying to get info on this as well for my utr sb I wast posting about before.
I messaged with a few guys and we agreed based on mines looks / age / shape. I should propose no more than a monthly budget. All the guys said don't spend more than your comfortable with. I'm okay at 2000/2500 a month. So I proposed $500 per meet to mine.
She countered me at $800 because she knows she's a hot insta influencer LATINA. But I too know my worth. I'm young with money and as well in decent shape. So I told her if I did $800 I'd see her 1-3 times a month max because my budget was still the same $2/2. 5 k a month LOL.
Or $500 per meet 4/5 times a month at $2-2. 5 k a month.
Then I told her like in any relationship / business I believe we all have to invest. And I was investing stability and consistency at that budget so if she was interested I'd expect her to invest back into our relationship moving forward.
She happily took it $500 per meet 4/5 times.
Same monthly budget and I get to fuck more LOL. Some of these wiser men helped me organize that deal and I'm comfortable at that price point.
I will say one guy said more money doesn't mean more quality. I think think that guy is right. I feel if I would have told my Chick that she wouldn't try to please harder and I would be wallet hurting so that sex / relationship would prob die out faster.
Sorry to bore with my experience I thought Id give an update to my seeking if advice and thank you guys
But
To answer your question Id say my Sb is a hard 9 not just from looks she thought she was worth $800 I thought $500
All guys who private message me told me at 5/8 you should be getting exclusivity,raw,consistency,
And exactly what you want It seems 8-10s would be in the 500/800 range from what I see I can tell you that I have a friend that is not a looker, not all that much of a fun guy, doesn't take them anywhere special, but I would bet with his system he would get your girl for half of what you're paying. I'm not saying this to talk trash. I say it because he has girls on his roster for half of what I paid them and some that won't take double what he pays from me. Everyone has a system. And you never know how many guys yours is banging. They have a system too.
RyanHarvey
10-11-24, 22:49
Well I was trying to get info on this as well for my utr sb I wast posting about before.
I messaged with a few guys and we agreed based on mines looks / age / shape. I should propose no more than a monthly budget. All the guys said don't spend more than your comfortable with. I'm okay at 2000/2500 a month. So I proposed $500 per meet to mine.
She countered me at $800 because she knows she's a hot insta influencer LATINA. But I too know my worth. I'm young with money and as well in decent shape. So I told her if I did $800 I'd see her 1-3 times a month max because my budget was still the same $2/2. 5 k a month LOL.
Or $500 per meet 4/5 times a month at $2-2. 5 k a month.
Then I told her like in any relationship / business I believe we all have to invest. And I was investing stability and consistency at that budget so if she was interested I'd expect her to invest back into our relationship moving forward.
She happily took it $500 per meet 4/5 times.
Same monthly budget and I get to fuck more LOL. Some of these wiser men helped me organize that deal and I'm comfortable at that price point.
I will say one guy said more money doesn't mean more quality. I think think that guy is right. I feel if I would have told my Chick that she wouldn't try to please harder and I would be wallet hurting so that sex / relationship would prob die out faster.
Sorry to bore with my experience I thought Id give an update to my seeking if advice and thank you guys
But
To answer your question Id say my Sb is a hard 9 not just from looks she thought she was worth $800 I thought $500
All guys who private message me told me at 5/8 you should be getting exclusivity,raw,consistency,
And exactly what you want It seems 8-10s would be in the 500/800 range from what I see How does one meet a UTR SB that's a 9? I was on the site for a few months and all the hot girls were obvious fakes. Is she exclusive to you or do other guys see her as well?
How does one meet a UTR SB that's a 9? I was on the site for a few months and all the hot girls were obvious fakes. Is she exclusive to you or do other guys see her as well?Take these reports with a grain of salt. Although sometimes you get random chance when you keep trying. It's a lot of work to figure who are fakes and who is real and even then find someone who delivers everything. I've had luck many times, and even then it won't last. For instance, had an absolute gorgeous blonde girl with perky tits, nice ass, and clean kitty, and a young professional. She met me on a whim one day after we chatted for a bit and had great time. Everything uncovered, like having it on with a hot GF. After that, she kept messaging me on and off, but never met again. She kept saying she can't find time off work, and she never was free evenings. What I figured, she is either married or have a live in BF, she was cheating on them, and she got horny, for something different that's why she had to sneak out during work hours, she also asked me for cover for follow up, which firmed up my assessment. Anyhow, she never met me again although we kept messaging trying for it.
There were others, like a 25 year old hot dancer girl who I met a few times then she stopped seeing me. She too got horny for some action in between her new work she was trying, then she went back to dancing at which point said no longer can see me. There was a 18 year old Freshman last year I was picking up from campus outside her dorm, and having great time nearby hotel room. Absolute feast on her young and fresh body and tight clean kitty, with her face looking at me with sexy expressions was like in heaven. But the commute was brutal, and she too dropped me since I could not meet her weekly meet demands. I would've met her every week had I not have to commute 2 hrs to her campus. If she was in this area then it would be perfect, but then you have to find that rare gem which can only happen with luck.
Right now I am tired of putting in the effort, which is enormous. So yes, it is possible but the work involved and the compromises you have to make to get that rare experience is a lot, then none of this is long lasting either. Best I had was a pretty 24 years old I was seeing for over a year, and still missing her after she moved on.
As per my research, a large number of the US population has HSV2 but are not aware of it. I would suspect that this percentage is even higher in Sugar Babies. What are your thoughts on this subject? Especially if you contract this from Sugar Baby and you have SO. After reading some of this research, I am reevaluating my options.
FarFarAway
10-14-24, 19:03
As per my research, a large number of the US population has HSV2 but are not aware of it. I would suspect that this percentage is even higher in Sugar Babies. What are your thoughts on this subject? Especially if you contract this from Sugar Baby and you have SO. After reading some of this research, I am reevaluating my options.Read the CDC statistics, the only reliable ones out there. Note the demographic distribution (age / race). That will inform you which sugar bowl you should be trolling in. And, depending on what you are aiming for, you should really consider getting tested and requiring a SB get tested, so that 'not aware of it' is no issue.
A 'large number' - a million is a large number, but within a population of around 300 million, would be a drop in the bucket. I am sure the seroprevalence of HSV2 in the US population is a proportion not to be sneezed at.
Dimples572
10-14-24, 21:04
She's got some tig ole fake bitties but she wants compensated her full ppm (she wants 1 k) first for a meet and greet with zero intimacy. And then if she decides "we vibe" she'll agree to meet at a later date to fuck. She lives in WV near Charles Town, married and unemployed, her hubby works from home so sounds like her free time to get away is very limited. So if you're foolish enough to pay for the m&g good luck getting her to meet you again LOL.
https://members.seeking.com/member/7a338cc6-c7b3-43d7-ac33-ea873644ff75
DickLongwood
10-15-24, 10:35
She's got some tig ole fake bitties but she wants compensated her full ppm (she wants 1 k) first for a meet and greet with zero intimacy. And then if she decides "we vibe" she'll agree to meet at a later date to fuck. She lives in WV near Charles Town, married and unemployed, her hubby works from home so sounds like her free time to get away is very limited. So if you're foolish enough to pay for the m&g good luck getting her to meet you again LOL.
https://members.seeking.com/member/7a338cc6-c7b3-43d7-ac33-ea873644ff75Interesting bio. I never got that far with her, but she did lecture me on the value of her time. It sounded as if she wanted $1,000 to play, which I declined.
TomFordModel
10-15-24, 12:42
She's got some tig ole fake bitties but she wants compensated her full ppm (she wants 1 k) first for a meet and greet with zero intimacy. And then if she decides "we vibe" she'll agree to meet at a later date to fuck. She lives in WV near Charles Town, married and unemployed, her hubby works from home so sounds like her free time to get away is very limited. So if you're foolish enough to pay for the m&g good luck getting her to meet you again LOL.
https://members.seeking.com/member/7a338cc6-c7b3-43d7-ac33-ea873644ff75She's reading too much reddit. 3 to 4 is about the rate for a trailer park girl.
She's reading too much reddit. 3 to 4 is about the rate for a trailer park girl.Lets see who can get her down to 400? Giving it a go, LOL!
Let it suffice to say she's real but those nice tits are man made. She's been on and off seeking many times with different names. Have fun fellas.
https://members.seeking.com/member/6d2d2682-3359-40b3-a952-bccedda9b117
DickLongwood
10-17-24, 17:58
https://members.seeking.com/member/5d42c63d-8d47-4dc3-819f-377c68e4b64d
Levi--looks good, but wants money for bills before meeting.
https://members.seeking.com/member/52876f63-45cd-40e5-86ba-1aef7b78a93e
TropicalAphroditee--wants to meet, but expects a gift.
https://members.seeking.com/member/96f2b916-deba-4f01-a295-1e946cd1a7bf
Pearl--seems eager to meet.
https://members.seeking.com/member/57940c2f-7829-4476-8aa3-3e5ce6a474ec
Colombiana--seems friendly and hot AF.
https://members.seeking.com/member/7e65bcd6-a97a-4d25-ae6a-b83a73cf1f29
Mia--pretty and curvy, allegedly moving to D. C. From Ukraine.
https://members.seeking.com/member/0c264363-9cba-475a-8b1a-ed9be1a01743
Mik--pretty and legit pre-med but wants an allowance or PPM of $1,000 or more.
TomFordModel
10-17-24, 21:53
Let it suffice to say she's real but those nice tits are man made. She's been on and off seeking many times with different names. Have fun fellas.
https://members.seeking.com/member/6d2d2682-3359-40b3-a952-bccedda9b117She's pretty much a pro by now. She hosts. BBFS etc 400.
Dimples572
10-18-24, 06:53
Anyone have any info on her. She's been on SA for a minute. Thanks.
https://members.seeking.com/member/47c60e91-adac-47dc-889e-55b48d7ebcaa
While sa still sucks with all the issues everyone knows, and increasingly harder to find gems, there's some ray of hope as I was able to meet a rare gem of a girl, the kind of girl you won't expect on that site and doing this type of thing. The only problem is she comes with higher allowance, which you can't rate simply on her physicality but how accomplished and cultured she is. I am going to take a chance and go with this and possibly just keep to one person for a while.
Arranged a date with her last week and booked a hotel.
On the day of the meet before an hour or so she said she is running late and needed extra time, I said fine but continued with my plan. I checked into the hotel at agreed time and was waiting. She never showed up ultimately and stopped responding to the messages but she is active on Seeking. She is a time waster, please avoid.
https://members.seeking.com/member/87562e71-f6a2-436c-ba87-18f8240eeac0
This always suck and happen every now and then. Most of us have been in your shoes.
Arranged a date with her last week and booked a hotel.
On the day of the meet before an hour or so she said she is running late and needed extra time, I said fine but continued with my plan. I checked into the hotel at agreed time and was waiting. She never showed up ultimately and stopped responding to the messages but she is active on Seeking. She is a time waster, please avoid.
https://members.seeking.com/member/87562e71-f6a2-436c-ba87-18f8240eeac0
Dimples572
10-18-24, 14:47
Arranged a date with her last week and booked a hotel.
On the day of the meet before an hour or so she said she is running late and needed extra time, I said fine but continued with my plan. I checked into the hotel at agreed time and was waiting. She never showed up ultimately and stopped responding to the messages but she is active on Seeking. She is a time waster, please avoid.
https://members.seeking.com/member/87562e71-f6a2-436c-ba87-18f8240eeac0Looks like with that gut she's rocking you dodged a major bullet LOL.
TomFordModel
10-18-24, 16:13
Arranged a date with her last week and booked a hotel.
On the day of the meet before an hour or so she said she is running late and needed extra time, I said fine but continued with my plan. I checked into the hotel at agreed time and was waiting. She never showed up ultimately and stopped responding to the messages but she is active on Seeking. She is a time waster, please avoid.
https://members.seeking.com/member/87562e71-f6a2-436c-ba87-18f8240eeac0Holy shit, how much did you offered that beach whale.
I threw up in my mouth.
Lets see who can get her down to 400? Giving it a go, LOL!She's trashy, is on snap, send me pictures and nudes for free after we exchanged horny messages. I decline to partake in anything in person with her.
Arranged a date with her last week and booked a hotel.
On the day of the meet before an hour or so she said she is running late and needed extra time, I said fine but continued with my plan. I checked into the hotel at agreed time and was waiting. She never showed up ultimately and stopped responding to the messages but she is active on Seeking. She is a time waster, please avoid.
https://members.seeking.com/member/87562e71-f6a2-436c-ba87-18f8240eeac0Never book a hotel with a pot first time, ever. Let alone check in, if you don't check in there is always a possibility to cancel even if it says non-cancellable by saying something, once you get keys you're done, money down the drain. Always wait, see in person, then book only when ready to head out to the place, the trick is to scout the place first for last minute availability then propose to meet in walking distance.
Anyone have any info on her. She's been on SA for a minute. Thanks.
https://members.seeking.com/member/47c60e91-adac-47dc-889e-55b48d7ebcaaI've chatted with her a bit. Agrees she wants to meet but won't make plans. Disappears, reappears, etc. I gave up and hid her profile.
Holy shit, how much did you offered that beach whale.
I threw up in my mouth.350 $, not that bad actually.
Hey, beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.
BuckNaked84
10-21-24, 17:20
Says from Rockville, has a DC number, and posts makeup ads in South Jersey. Hmmm.
https://members.seeking.com/member/1fc979a3-fc43-447f-9360-4029fcb9d1ac
https://www.instagram.com/alexissierrah?igsh=ejZ5MjFqdDB5ZHA2
BuckNaked84
10-21-24, 18:32
Jazmine.
https://members.seeking.com/member/dc93b763-bceb-4a72-911c-3654e990f64d
https://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/chanel-2407307631-395898
In the past few weeks did something happen, like bitcoin and tech bros went broke or student loans are due again?? Because pu $$why is raining, making hard to keep up with all the interests from real SBs who want to meet and fck. I am about get settled for a unicorn that I found, although expensive which means I may needed to settle for one for a while, and then two SBs from past who've been messaging but not meeting suddenly wants to come back and meet, this week. Then yesterday another 21 year old I've tried to reach in past but never responded suddenly came back activating her profile and met on short notice, busted a nut on her that was held for 4 days. Then met another 25 year old two days back, petting and kissing on first meet, she's cute and willing although bit overweight, but can't let that go either. Another 23 year old just started texting today. Anyhow, only the unicorn is totally worth long term.
Thinking now may be more and better ones will come out, at this rate, something up in the air.
I keep seeing references to L girls and L events. Profiles are sus so I'm assuming it's a scam or something but wanted to see if anyone has some experience. Link below for reference.
https://members.seeking.com/member/07e06011-72a4-4d51-925c-1db0e52cc740
I keep seeing references to L girls and L events. Profiles are sus so I'm assuming it's a scam or something but wanted to see if anyone has some experience. Link below for reference.
https://members.seeking.com/member/07e06011-72a4-4d51-925c-1db0e52cc740I have no idea what any of that means but anytime there is a clear pattern across numerous profiles, they're all very likely fake.
Dimples572
10-22-24, 18:19
I keep seeing references to L girls and L events. Profiles are sus so I'm assuming it's a scam or something but wanted to see if anyone has some experience. Link below for reference.
https://members.seeking.com/member/07e06011-72a4-4d51-925c-1db0e52cc740When they reference "L" group or "Love" in the profile is a particular scam. You move to text and they'll send you a link for an exclusive 3rd party site or chat room called LOVE they're "recruiting the hottest guys for" that of course is behind a bullshit paywall. Once they have your money you'll never hear from them again.
TomFordModel
10-22-24, 18:25
https://www.xvideos.com/video.upbeffm7156/sammi_summers_joins_www.strippersinthehoodxxx.com
https://members.seeking.com/member/ce64f967-9af2-4ab8-962a-626ebbf986a9
Big no for me. Chatting with her. I'll see how much she goes for.
TheYoungMonger
10-23-24, 02:16
https://www.xvideos.com/video.upbeffm7156/sammi_summers_joins_www.strippersinthehoodxxx.com
https://members.seeking.com/member/ce64f967-9af2-4ab8-962a-626ebbf986a9
Big no for me. Chatting with her. I'll see how much she goes for.Speaking of pornstars, this is Anne. Formerly known as Eve Lawrence, a busty (implants have since been removed) porn star in the early to mid 2000's. I believe this is her real profile, as she is from the area (Maryland) and talks about dating websites on her Twitter. And speaking of her Twitter, take a gander if you want to see the ramblings of a true psycho.
https://members.seeking.com/member/9531bb63-30b1-4f6b-8cbf-d5b709ec63bc
https://x.com/EveLaurence
Any luck with this one yet?? Messaged a few times, so believe she is real, lives in maryland montgomery county. Hoping to meet next week, but no ppm has been discussed yet. Little older than I prefer, but pics look good.
https://members.seeking.com/member/0727098a-ee46-48b8-8313-587114d6736c
Nice girl from phone convo but heavier in additional pics shared; dtf 300. Did not partake, but easy to meet and set up a date.
https://members.seeking.com/member/59f27a76-22a8-46d4-8b71-faddabf44471
I know this one has been discussed before. Down to meet now it seems, but checking if anyone actually has, also the mixed look has me confused, LOL. Checking to see if anyone has had positive experience?
https://members.seeking.com/member/613640c9-75c7-4a90-8f25-d08bb9e06ae9
Good convo, wants 700, anyone partake?
https://members.seeking.com/member/1cbee3a8-96e7-4345-9b46-386ad3870e90
TomFordModel
10-23-24, 20:20
https://members.seeking.com/member/93c6877d-5a32-4da2-bb29-e7a8391c3b28
Definitely a pro or stripper. Too trashy for me. Ppm 600.
Not worth more than 300.
BuckNaked84
10-24-24, 19:39
https://members.seeking.com/member/e6c34c4b-5b33-43ab-bfa3-3560951c4176
Wanted 100 (half up front) for all access. LOL.
https://members.seeking.com/member/00772413-7d68-40d5-bfd1-b5bc4b263fd5
She wants 100 as a security fee and 300 when we meet. I've never been on SA or had an arrangement before. Is this a scam?
DickLongwood
10-25-24, 15:46
https://members.seeking.com/member/00772413-7d68-40d5-bfd1-b5bc4b263fd5
She wants 100 as a security fee and 300 when we meet. I've never been on SA or had an arrangement before. Is this a scam?I would pass. Most likely a scam.
DickLongwood
10-25-24, 15:48
https://members.seeking.com/member/e6c34c4b-5b33-43ab-bfa3-3560951c4176
Wanted 100 (half up front) for all access. LOL.Likely a scam. Look at the verbiage. If there are no periods at the end of sentences, it's likely a bot.
TomFordModel
10-25-24, 22:51
https://members.seeking.com/member/b6458daa-4bf5-4251-9505-9d5f8363926b
So I had to cleanse my eyes from looking at the DC trash and started browsing NYC.
800 ask got it to 6- IMHO. She's hot!!
TodayHustling
10-27-24, 09:12
Any intel on this one?
https://members.seeking.com/member/ae38460b-77ad-4127-b777-09b595f0a1d9
A new profile, I remember seeing her pics before. She had a previous profile on SA. I don't remember the previous account nickname, and can't look up reviews.
W been texting for almost a week. She sent me some photos and one of them doesn't look like the same person on the other photos that she sent or on SA.
Some red flags are that she wants to meet right away, and keep pushing to meet. Also, she seems to be available at any time!
She wants to meet in public, and get her allowance then I can follow her home. When I told her I can meet on public at this time. She said she would give me the address if I pass on the allowance before I come in, outside in her driveway!
I didn't not like the vibe and told her I will pass this time.
Her asking is $300.
Thanks in advance.
https://members.seeking.com/member/b6458daa-4bf5-4251-9505-9d5f8363926b
So I had to cleanse my eyes from looking at the DC trash and started browsing NYC.
800 ask got it to 6- IMHO. She's hot!!Are you going to NY or flying her to DC?
TomFordModel
10-27-24, 22:54
Are you going to NY or flying her to DC?I go to NYC quite often for food etc. Actually, I'd see someone else she's just the normal matches from NYC. I'd prefer someone under 25 in NYC.
It's same dc is so trash and all I see are reviews of trailer trash, ghetto things. I refuse to let that be my norm.
BobDingle10
10-28-24, 02:09
She's a scammer.
There's some info on the Fredericksburg board under her old name. Probably still on the first page if you skim. A monger said he had info. I reached out and he didn't have much to offer and I don't think he met her. She sent me explicit pics and vids that were definitely her. We agreed on an allowance, she said she would come to me then claimed she got lost. I asked her for landmarks to see where she was and she gave me some bullshit and it was obvious she just used google maps to name places near me.
She did say I could come to her and get a hotel room to meet. I don't travel more than 45 minutes so I declined but I suspect even if I had something would have come up. Like you reported she's down to meet almost anytime and for anything. Pics I have show a great curvy body and a pretty face. The pics on this current profile are less flattering.
80% sure between what you shared and what I experienced she's a scammer or has super cold feet about really being in the bowl, but I think it's the former. Luckily it didn't cost me any money.
Any intel on this one?
https://members.seeking.com/member/ae38460b-77ad-4127-b777-09b595f0a1d9
A new profile, I remember seeing her pics before. She had a previous profile on SA. I don't remember the previous account nickname, and can't look up reviews.
W been texting for almost a week. She sent me some photos and one of them doesn't look like the same person on the other photos that she sent or on SA.
Some red flags are that she wants to meet right away, and keep pushing to meet. Also, she seems to be available at any time!
She wants to meet in public, and get her allowance then I can follow her home. When I told her I can meet on public at this time. She said she would give me the address if I pass on the allowance before I come in, outside in her driveway!
I didn't not like the vibe and told her I will pass this time.
Her asking is $300.
Thanks in advance.
ShortMan22
10-28-24, 20:28
https://sugar-sites.com/how-much-to-pay-sugar-baby/
I came across this and just wanted to share it.
She's a scammer.
There's some info on the Fredericksburg board under her old name. Probably still on the first page if you skim. A monger said he had info. I reached out and he didn't have much to offer and I don't think he met her. She sent me explicit pics and vids that were definitely her. We agreed on an allowance, she said she would come to me then claimed she got lost. I asked her for landmarks to see where she was and she gave me some bullshit and it was obvious she just used google maps to name places near me.
She did say I could come to her and get a hotel room to meet. I don't travel more than 45 minutes so I declined but I suspect even if I had something would have come up. Like you reported she's down to meet almost anytime and for anything. Pics I have show a great curvy body and a pretty face. The pics on this current profile are less flattering.
80% sure between what you shared and what I experienced she's a scammer or has super cold feet about really being in the bowl, but I think it's the former. Luckily it didn't cost me any money.Friendly Mizz, I met her for a M&G in Fredericksburg over a year ago and gave her $ for that, had a pleasant conversation but was pressing for $$ for her to purchase a sofa FB marketplace. I did not get a genuine vibe from her and never contacted her again. IMHO I would not trust her at all. She is larger in person if you like bigger ladies but has a pretty face. Good luck.
I go to NYC quite often for food etc. Actually, I'd see someone else she's just the normal matches from NYC. I'd prefer someone under 25 in NYC.
It's same dc is so trash and all I see are reviews of trailer trash, ghetto things. I refuse to let that be my norm.It's been hit and miss in NYC. I closed on only one (new) sub 25 year old in my three intermittent month of premium. She was oh. A 5? Pretty girl but could lose 20. Had a 7 ask for. 700 and I did not counter. That's my move sometimes and sometimes it works. Had an 8 laugh at 600. That being said I'm not really trying as I've had two in the rotation that are / were a great value. My last score was a 7 but as she was a unicorn for one of mine who thought she was a 10 I went to 800.
Was considering renewing my membership. Usually enter a discount code for 20% off. I'm not seeing anywhere to enter it anymore. Is that the same for everyone else?
CuriousVaMan
10-31-24, 11:38
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Was considering renewing my membership. Usually enter a discount code for 20% off. I'm not seeing anywhere to enter it anymore. Is that the same for everyone else?
Oh you're right, that's the one I've been using. But I'm not seeing anywhere to enter the code now.
Try VWO33COM for 33% off.
Uncountable
10-31-24, 12:38
Try VWO33COM for 33% off.They have removed the option of entering discount codes for now, so we all have to pay the full price. I don't know if it is temporary, but that is what it is now.
ShortMan22
10-31-24, 15:43
Currently trying to talk with this one any details on her?
https://members.seeking.com/member/74f1f2b5-74e8-4dcc-8310-88cce61477ab
Alice.
https://members.seeking.com/member/2...0-eb0bcc443b81
Honduras woman, 28. Little chubby. Wanted 500 ppm.
Above is from a previous report, she's still asking same ppm. Send me a few pictures, don't look bad at all, not super skinny, but not too chubby. Anyone actually met her?
BuckNaked84
10-31-24, 18:22
Never had telegram work, but letting it play out.
Any experience with these two? Am I wasting cycles here?
https://members.seeking.com/member/7c4ec4f1-a5dd-4e6f-b9b4-43e4ef4f74f9
https://members.seeking.com/member/120c6aeb-e4d7-4f4a-a7d2-1f0bd32548bf
Alice.
https://members.seeking.com/member/2...0-eb0bcc443b81
Honduras woman, 28. Little chubby. Wanted 500 ppm.
Above is from a previous report, she's still asking same ppm. Send me a few pictures, don't look bad at all, not super skinny, but not too chubby. Anyone actually met her?She is gone?
BuckNaked84
10-31-24, 23:28
Never had telegram work, but letting it play out.
Any experience with these two? Am I wasting cycles here?
https://members.seeking.com/member/7c4ec4f1-a5dd-4e6f-b9b4-43e4ef4f74f9
She wanted a deposit. Lol. Nope
https://members.seeking.com/member/120c6aeb-e4d7-4f4a-a7d2-1f0bd32548bfStill in play, we shall see. Not high hopes.
You message the girl you saw one time before for another meet soon, she agrees on date, then goes on to ask some of that as advance for her to pay for stuff she needs. What you do? Tell her you can't send advance but only if she waits two days we are meeting and she can have it. Next day she text you asking to meet that day instead of previously planned day, possibly because she needs money desperate, you tell her you can't due to other things, but you can on the day planned. What does she do? Gets mad apparently, because on the day planned I message her saying ready to meet, then she goes silent. She is mad you didn't give her advance or meet her sooner, because she had a urgent money need. You refuse advance and you refuse to meet sooner because it was just a matter of waiting 3 days, and you kept up your word to meet. Not at all feeling bad about it because if she can't wait a few days and gets her panties all twisted up because a guy she saw one time didn't give her cash advance then she's not a keeper, no matter how good her pussy is.
https://members.seeking.com/member/dc93b763-bceb-4a72-911c-3654e990f64d
You can also find her here:
https://tryst.link/escort/dominicandemon
and here https://skipthegames.com/posts/northern-virginia/female-escorts/latin/--incall/459073025479
TomFordModel
11-01-24, 16:10
https://members.seeking.com/member/0498da05-4c7c-4532-97e1-975a40dd00a4
Pics are filtered- shit almost catfish. No more sisters for me. 300.
Gourmand56
11-01-24, 21:04
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You message the girl you saw one time before for another meet soon, she agrees on date, then goes on to ask some of that as advance for her to pay for stuff she needs. What you do? Tell her you can't send advance but only if she waits two days we are meeting and she can have it. Next day she text you asking to meet that day instead of previously planned day, possibly because she needs money desperate, you tell her you can't due to other things, but you can on the day planned. What does she do? Gets mad apparently, because on the day planned I message her saying ready to meet, then she goes silent. She is mad you didn't give her advance or meet her sooner, because she had a urgent money need. You refuse advance and you refuse to meet sooner because it was just a matter of waiting 3 days, and you kept up your word to meet. Not at all feeling bad about it because if she can't wait a few days and gets her panties all twisted up because a guy she saw one time didn't give her cash advance then she's not a keeper, no matter how good her pussy is.I had one SB I'd seen several times ask for an advance. I did it. Then she asked again another time, and another. It was never an advance either, just a gift. I had seen her more than once and she was pretty amazing but flaky. I grew tired of it and moved on. Looking back I don't really have strong feelings one way or the other about the advance. Had I not done it she may have moved on. Ultimately I moved on b / c I got sick of her shit. Had fun while it lasted.
If I'd only seen her once, unless I was really into her and had no other options, I wouldn't have done it.
FrankCastle6
11-02-24, 00:26
You message the girl you saw one time before for another meet soon, she agrees on date, then goes on to ask some of that as advance for her to pay for stuff she needs. What you do? Tell her you can't send advance but only if she waits two days we are meeting and she can have it. Next day she text you asking to meet that day instead of previously planned day, possibly because she needs money desperate, you tell her you can't due to other things, but you can on the day planned. What does she do? Gets mad apparently, because on the day planned I message her saying ready to meet, then she goes silent. She is mad you didn't give her advance or meet her sooner, because she had a urgent money need. You refuse advance and you refuse to meet sooner because it was just a matter of waiting 3 days, and you kept up your word to meet. Not at all feeling bad about it because if she can't wait a few days and gets her panties all twisted up because a guy she saw one time didn't give her cash advance then she's not a keeper, no matter how good her pussy is.She's just mad she didn't get to scam you and ghost. Meeting up earlier than planned? Ok if I can swing it. An advance after one meet? No fucking way.
FrankCastle6
11-02-24, 00:28
https://members.seeking.com/member/dc93b763-bceb-4a72-911c-3654e990f64d
You can also find her here:
https://tryst.link/escort/dominicandemonLooks terrible on seeking but good on tryst. ? Always believe the worst picture.
The pictures comes back to an IG account of the exact woman, trick or treating in TX with her husband and kids 2 days ago. Shame, as she's cute as hell.
https://members.seeking.com/member/c9698db7-0e05-4952-8d4e-56e63a7feb6a
I had one SB I'd seen several times ask for an advance. I did it. Then she asked again another time, and another. It was never an advance either, just a gift. I had seen her more than once and she was pretty amazing but flaky. I grew tired of it and moved on. Looking back I don't really have strong feelings one way or the other about the advance. Had I not done it she may have moved on. Ultimately I moved on b / c I got sick of her shit. Had fun while it lasted.
If I'd only seen her once, unless I was really into her and had no other options, I wouldn't have done it.She was just being flaky, which goes with her young age, and seems to be okay now.
ShortMan22
11-02-24, 20:58
Any of you mongers have any details on this one?
We were chatting and things were going great until she started to ask for an advance before we meet up. I wished her well and just moved on.
https://members.seeking.com/member/b3421ddb-ebb6-4e0b-86a9-44a7d54f57be
CuriousVaMan
11-02-24, 21:54
I might be mistaken, but I believe I spoke to her last year when she was using a Fairfax profile address. Divorced, 2 kids etc. Wanted an advance. Then as I was searching for road babies in North Carolina, her profile address changed to Charlotte and later Savannah. When I called her out on the Charlotte address, she claimed I was stalking her. She can go fuck herself. ShortMan, don't waste your time on her.
Any of you mongers have any details on this one?
We were chatting and things were going great until she started to ask for an advance before we meet up. I wished her well and just moved on.
https://members.seeking.com/member/b3421ddb-ebb6-4e0b-86a9-44a7d54f57be
The pictures comes back to an IG account of the exact woman, trick or treating in TX with her husband and kids 2 days ago. Shame, as she's cute as hell.
https://members.seeking.com/member/c9698db7-0e05-4952-8d4e-56e63a7feb6aFor what it's worth, I do not know if I would necissarily write off her profile just because of fake pictures. I mean if she had porn star pictures or something obviously fake then yes I would write it off, but just some random pics of someone that is not famous, then no I would not just write it off. I saw one for several months that had someone else's pictures in her profile. I was not positive on our first date as she looked great in person but then after our date I verified. A few more dates into it, I asked why she was using someone else's pictures and her response was that she did not want anyone knowing she was on the site. Maybe I just got lucky. This girl's profile has been around for awhile so that is a good sign. It is also very short so red flag. If I was in the market, I would still engage and see where it goes.
ShortMan22
11-03-24, 14:47
I've only been back on SA 3 days and so far it seems that you have more scammers and bots than real people.
Cass.
https://members.seeking.com/member/3e509d58-813f-41d3-b49a-334d4174352e
Not looking for physical intimacy, however expects an allowance. I wished her well.
Tshear38.
https://members.seeking.com/member/fd972bc0-8f95-c642-2930-d75c60a38f15
This one was very eager to exchange numbers and text. She seems Dtf wanted 400-600, but not my cup of tea.
Bossy.
https://members.seeking.com/member/165f070e-28c6-4a7d-8972-78cbd2c794b7
She seems very eager to meet up, I'm not sure but was getting pro vibes. She wanted to meet right away and said that she can host. I'm not sure about her.
Kay.
https://members.seeking.com/member/0bfc20a8-7057-4cb0-b89e-fa667579e20a
Reached out to me and was very eager to meet, however after reading a few reviews on the forum. Meeting her would most likely be a bad idea.
Vee
https://members.seeking.com/member/94d26552-d496-49a5-bdf3-ae4731ebca44
This one reached out to me and was eager to meet. I met up with her sometime last year already. Nothing special to talk about. By the way she's queer
DickLongwood
11-03-24, 23:44
I've only been back on SA 3 days and so far it seems that you have more scammers and bots than real people.
Cass.
https://members.seeking.com/member/3e509d58-813f-41d3-b49a-334d4174352e
Not looking for physical intimacy, however expects an allowance. I wished her well.
Tshear38.
https://members.seeking.com/member/fd972bc0-8f95-c642-2930-d75c60a38f15
This one was very eager to exchange numbers and text. She seems Dtf wanted 400-600, but not my cup of tea.
Bossy.
https://members.seeking.com/member/165f070e-28c6-4a7d-8972-78cbd2c794b7
She seems very eager to meet up, I'm not sure but was getting pro vibes. She wanted to meet right away and said that she can host. I'm not sure about her.
Kay.
https://members.seeking.com/member/0bfc20a8-7057-4cb0-b89e-fa667579e20a
Reached out to me and was very eager to meet, however after reading a few reviews on the forum. Meeting her would most likely be a bad idea.
Vee
https://members.seeking.com/member/94d26552-d496-49a5-bdf3-ae4731ebca44
This one reached out to me and was eager to meet. I met up with her sometime last year already. Nothing special to talk about. By the way she's queerBoth Bossy and Kay are heavier than pictured. I would recommend passing on both.
ShortMan22
11-04-24, 15:12
I just did a reverse picture search of this one and look what popped up. SMH.
https://members.seeking.com/member/7538c3a7-8c3b-4c59-9ddb-1ea29d625f08
https://www.ripandscam.com/blog/romance-scams/sharon-mathilda-scammer-of-the-day/
ShortMan22
11-04-24, 16:27
This one want me to send her Money in order to get her number.
https://members.seeking.com/member/84bacd8b-f0be-49f3-b969-41cb96513647
BuckNaked84
11-04-24, 16:32
I just did a reverse picture search of this one and look what popped up. SMH.
https://members.seeking.com/member/7538c3a7-8c3b-4c59-9ddb-1ea29d625f08
https://www.ripandscam.com/blog/romance-scams/sharon-mathilda-scammer-of-the-day/FaceCheck is a hell of a tool. Not just for blackmail. LOL.
Dimples572
11-05-24, 11:18
This one want me to send her Money in order to get her number.
https://members.seeking.com/member/84bacd8b-f0be-49f3-b969-41cb96513647Did you report her account? If they don't flag that then those mods are more than worthless.
ShortMan22
11-05-24, 13:22
Not interested in any thing sexual, however wants a donation in order to meet up.
https://members.seeking.com/member/c441413b-aef4-423d-bd1c-27869f3ce772
ShortMan22
11-05-24, 16:03
Anyone of you mongers have any details on this one?
https://members.seeking.com/member/83f49fe5-f635-424f-b677-6806c8990c07
TomFordModel
11-05-24, 22:12
https://members.seeking.com/member/cac1dcd8-e285-4276-b951-b3cf008eec8e
Seems real. Dtf. Any info on her?
https://members.seeking.com/member/f099e0fb-29d9-464b-8984-8b2801d363fc
She's 36 and looks it. Don't get me wrong, she looks good with a nice body, just don't be expecting a young 20 something.
Anyone willing to share her private pictures with me? Either through here or private message. I think I might know her in real life so want to avoid if I do.
https://members.seeking.com/member/f1949524-2d3c-4f73-9546-dfbfc8ed4222
ShortMan22
11-06-24, 07:15
This one responded to my intro message asking for a donation just to talk. Really?
https://members.seeking.com/member/ed1cf79a-57a2-4b8c-b1d0-eeea6b7755cd
TomFordModel
11-06-24, 10:03
https://members.seeking.com/member/cac1dcd8-e285-4276-b951-b3cf008eec8e
Seems real. Dtf. Any info on her?She wanted 1 k. Totally delusional for a avg chunky Asian girl.
BuckNaked84
11-06-24, 14:18
Keeps pinging for money upfront, even though told her a dozen times no.
Note to self, delete Telegram (has never been a real person).
https://members.seeking.com/member/120c6aeb-e4d7-4f4a-a7d2-1f0bd32548bf
Here is some info on the following:
Kate.
https://members.seeking.com/member/ec5b7298-0857-4571-8f12-d20f277811ca
24 year old. Agreed to meet up for lunch. She ghosted me and never showed up.
Lucky.
https://members.seeking.com/member/61bf00af-47ef-4351-b173-791c9f63e5f4
24 year old with a kid. She claimed to be working 2 jobs and never had time to meet.
Kelsey.
No link. She deactivated.
Hot 21 year old, blond, 5'10, thin. Stopped responding for a time.
JAce.
32 year old in Baltimore, hot, claims to not be able to have sex.
https://members.seeking.com/member/87019103-44ab-42bf-9a1b-922eedb7c0be
Gia.
No link. She blocked me.
Wanted 1000 per meet.
Selenaa.
No link. She blocked me.
Was in Baltimore, but is really a traveling escort. DTF 500.
Linda.
https://members.seeking.com/member/c9698db7-0e05-4952-8d4e-56e63a7feb6a
Very cute girl. Gave her my number and then ghosted me.
Any info on these?
Noel.
https://members.seeking.com/member/65726864-5370-4d32-a93d-cbb109e96100
Mik.
https://members.seeking.com/member/0c264363-9cba-475a-8b1a-ed9be1a01743
SweetCheeks26 xo.
https://members.seeking.com/member/8cfbca32-1754-817c-7a89-af5695d41dd5
DEja.
https://members.seeking.com/member/02c4895c-190e-4cdc-af07-c51b9625e9f9
Asia.
https://members.seeking.com/member/eb8f3522-b08e-4bd5-9b7c-c43e3ee4ed16
Maya.
https://members.seeking.com/member/e3b5335e-f44c-4663-afdb-6e184f7c7fc0
Sorry, but most of these blocked me so I do not have a link.
Dija.
Cute, tiny 23 year old black girl. She expressed some regret that I was married and blocked me.
Camila SpicyRusCookie.
Cute Russian girl. Divorced. 28 yrs old. For drinks $500 ppm. UTR pro.
Love and Honey.
Chatted with Honey first, and She said she had a friend Love. Met both for dinner. They were both high, and Honey was loud and obnoxious. Honey was also chubby and a bit manly with droopy tits. $500 for both girls. I told them I only wanted Love and they said OK. Was planning on meeting Love in the future. Love was tall (5'8), 28 year old, claimed to be a nurse. Very cute face and personality. Told me her phone bill was up before we could meet and asked for payment. She then disappeared.
Andrea peachykeen.
https://members.seeking.com/member/6b688acb-66ba-42e8-8744-ef24c19fff13
26 year old waitress in WV. Met her for dinner. Cute, but uneducated. Nice shape (120 lbs), but said she used to be 200 lbs so I assume baggy skin. I did not partake.
TropicalAphroditee Aphrodite.
https://members.seeking.com/member/52876f63-45cd-40e5-86ba-1aef7b78a93e
She wanted $5 K / month or $2500 every two weeks, meet weekly. She was chubby in her private pics.
Viv daydream.
Very attractive asian woman. Wants $5 K / month.
Teona velvetty.
Cute girl from the country Georgia. 28 year old. 5'2. Lived in Russia and Spain and Miami as well. Met for dinner / drinks. Cute face but short, squatty legs. She wanted $5 K / month so I declined.
Amber.
Texted her and she disappeared.
Emily.
Texted her, set up a time / place and she disappeared.
Lisa Tropah.
Girl from Frederick who would drive to NOVA, but only with a deposit. I passed.
Any info on these?
Noel.
https://members.seeking.com/member/65726864-5370-4d32-a93d-cbb109e96100
Mik.
https://members.seeking.com/member/0c264363-9cba-475a-8b1a-ed9be1a01743
SweetCheeks26 xo.
https://members.seeking.com/member/8cfbca32-1754-817c-7a89-af5695d41dd5
DEja.
https://members.seeking.com/member/02c4895c-190e-4cdc-af07-c51b9625e9f9
Asia.Except for one or two all looks like fake profiles to me, the types of profiles that won't tempt me to initiate contact cause they could be scammers or time wasters, although you never know with some of them may be real. I probably miss out a few real ones by filtering.
Dimples572
11-06-24, 15:50
SweetCheeks26 xo.
https://members.seeking.com/member/8cfbca32-1754-817c-7a89-af5695d41dd5..With this one I messaged her that it's a bit of a red flag that she's bragging about her fanboy-ism of Chris D'Elia in her profile and she might want to remove it. Her reply was "LOL. I don't care". Not that she's going to be my future wife but the fact that she's unapologetically loud and proud about being a fan of someone who's a self admitted multi-time sexual predator shit bag isn't exactly high praise for her character so I chose to pass on this one LOL.
Dimples572
11-06-24, 15:56
I like 'them athletically thicc and curvy so she's very much my type so willing to pay a little extra for this one if necessary as long as it's reasonable. I proposed $800 for 3-4 hrs. She said that wasn't enough for that long so I asked what she's looking for, she counters with 1 k for one hour. LOL WTF? They get more and more delusional by the day I swear.
https://members.seeking.com/member/7c0d8b3e-6ae8-4d29-bf12-ae809a31db22
BuckNaked84
11-06-24, 16:01
Any info on these?
Noel.
https://members.seeking.com/member/65726864-5370-4d32-a93d-cbb109e96100
Mik.
https://members.seeking.com/member/0c264363-9cba-475a-8b1a-ed9be1a01743
SweetCheeks26 xo.
https://members.seeking.com/member/8cfbca32-1754-817c-7a89-af5695d41dd5
DEja.
https://members.seeking.com/member/02c4895c-190e-4cdc-af07-c51b9625e9f9
Asia.
https://members.seeking.com/member/eb8f3522-b08e-4bd5-9b7c-c43e3ee4ed16
Maya.
https://members.seeking.com/member/e3b5335e-f44c-4663-afdb-6e184f7c7fc0Asia is looking for the elusive Platonic daddy (no intimacy, her words). Noel is her bestie, so assuming the same.
ShortMan22
11-06-24, 18:33
Is it me or does this girl look like a transgender person.
https://members.seeking.com/member/774e129f-3fbb-472f-9f92-400c00716c29
Except for one or two all looks like fake profiles to me, the types of profiles that won't tempt me to initiate contact cause they could be scammers or time wasters, although you never know with some of them may be real. I probably miss out a few real ones by filtering.I know that they are all "real" people in the DMV except for Mik. Mik sent a personalized selfie, but not sure where she is located. I do not know if they actually provide any sugar.
Wants 800 you can get her down to 600; looks like an avg Asian AMP girl 300 max for me, unless I hear a good report.
https://members.seeking.com/member/361c563a-885b-4568-92ee-2ef40a1a65f0
DickLongwood
11-06-24, 23:33
I know that they are all "real" people in the DMV except for Mik. Mik sent a personalized selfie, but not sure where she is located. I do not know if they actually provide any sugar.Mik is real, fairly attractive, pleasant, pre-med in DC, but wants $1,200 PPM.
With this one I messaged her that it's a bit of a red flag that she's bragging about her fanboy-ism of Chris D'Elia in her profile and she might want to remove it. Her reply was "LOL. I don't care". Not that she's going to be my future wife but the fact that she's unapologetically loud and proud about being a fan of someone who's a self admitted multi-time sexual predator shit bag isn't exactly high praise for her character so I chose to pass on this one LOL.She gives vibes of the bitchy wife from the hangover.
I like 'them athletically thicc and curvy so she's very much my type so willing to pay a little extra for this one if necessary as long as it's reasonable. I proposed $800 for 3-4 hrs. She said that wasn't enough for that long so I asked what she's looking for, she counters with 1 k for one hour. LOL WTF? They get more and more delusional by the day I swear.
https://members.seeking.com/member/7c0d8b3e-6ae8-4d29-bf12-ae809a31db22What's the problem? She actually should be asking for more per hour the longer the commitment. I do the same with my work.
ShortMan22
11-07-24, 18:30
This one wants a donation before meeting. I got the sob story about needing financial help.
https://members.seeking.com/member/a0551c28-b9c6-48bf-83b0-9c905b67b6cf
ShortMan22
11-08-24, 10:02
I'm not 100%sure but this one has multiple profiles under different name.
When I was chatting with her profile name was Bossy, now its Lovely miss.
As I said I 'm not 100%sure about her being a scammer, but proceed with caution.
https://members.seeking.com/member/d2903d9a-7eab-491c-aea8-ff9c7cb0160e
I'm not 100%sure but this one has multiple profiles under different name.
When I was chatting with her profile name was Bossy, now its Lovely miss.
As I said I 'm not 100%sure about her being a scammer, but proceed with caution.
https://members.seeking.com/member/d2903d9a-7eab-491c-aea8-ff9c7cb0160eAre you, uh, seeking transgender?
ShortMan22
11-08-24, 10:46
Are you, uh, seeking transgender?No! Are you?
Dimples572
11-08-24, 16:13
This one's delusion has gone to another level. First she wants $1200 ppm (huh? But the kicker is that she wants both the first and second ppm paid upfront once you meet! Lmao! These bitches are getting crazier by the day I swear.
https://members.seeking.com/member/61b156e7-b60e-46a9-afa3-efc3eafce220
TomFordModel
11-08-24, 17:48
This one's delusion has gone to another level. First she wants $1200 ppm (huh? But the kicker is that she wants both the first and second ppm paid upfront once you meet! Lmao! These bitches are getting crazier by the day I swear.
https://members.seeking.com/member/61b156e7-b60e-46a9-afa3-efc3eafce220She's an absolute beast. She needs to pay.
BuckNaked84
11-08-24, 20:21
No! Are you?He asked that for a simple reason. The profile has the "Seeking Transgender" tag.
You don't filter that out?
BuckNaked84
11-08-24, 20:23
She's an absolute beast. She needs to pay.Got to side with TFM here.
CharmCityBro
11-08-24, 21:59
https://members.seeking.com/member/eb8f3522-b08e-4bd5-9b7c-c43e3ee4ed16
Not looking for intimacy. Wants compensated dinners with her and her friends.
This one's delusion has gone to another level. First she wants $1200 ppm (huh? But the kicker is that she wants both the first and second ppm paid upfront once you meet! Lmao! These bitches are getting crazier by the day I swear.
https://members.seeking.com/member/61b156e7-b60e-46a9-afa3-efc3eafce220This profile always makes me laugh. The sense of entitlement on this one. Divorced, single mom, overweight stripper, with a full neck tattoo and another on the forehead to top it all out. I am sure someone out there is into all this but good grief.
https://members.seeking.com/member/d929043b-0c63-49f4-995b-14a9f2df64f7
She's an absolute beast. She needs to pay.
This one's delusion has gone to another level. First she wants $1200 ppm (huh? But the kicker is that she wants both the first and second ppm paid upfront once you meet! Lmao! These bitches are getting crazier by the day I swear.
https://members.seeking.com/member/61b156e7-b60e-46a9-afa3-efc3eafce220Looks like she is into granny panties too based on the outline on her hip in the second photo. G-probably get stuck inside that fat ass of her's.
https://members.seeking.com/member/eb8f3522-b08e-4bd5-9b7c-c43e3ee4ed16
Not looking for intimacy. Wants compensated dinners with her and her friends.Met them, big waste of time, paid bill and bolted. They are real, if someone can flip them to intimacy, please share. They don't drink either, no fun!
Met them, big waste of time, paid bill and bolted. They are real, if someone can flip them to intimacy, please share. They don't drink either, no fun!
https://members.seeking.com/member/eb8f3522-b08e-4bd5-9b7c-c43e3ee4ed16
Not looking for intimacy. Wants compensated dinners with her and her friends.She lists her age as 19. No restaurant in the DMV area is going to serve alcohol to a 19 year old now days.
She lists her age as 19. No restaurant in the DMV area is going to serve alcohol to a 19 year old now days.Nobody check I'd's anymore and they probably have fakes anyways, my point is, they said they don't drink as they are doing some workout.
1. Don't play the numbers game. If a lady insists on a number up front then she isn't in the game for the dating aspect. Focus on the ladies who are looking for a side piece. If there is a discussion about numbers, I tend to focus on broad ranges. The objective is to get to the M&G. This is where deals are closed, in person, after they get to know you. Based on percentages and numbers, I've concluded that if you can get a lady to an M&G and get her to laugh, you are more likely than not going to be able to bang her. The idea here is to make her feel like she would fuck you even if you weren't giving her any ppm / allowance. I focus and set my search filters to "newest" instead of "recently active" because the real profiles who are new are less likely to be bookers using seeking as a backpage site.
2. There are exceptions to general rule 1 above. I break them if the profile is hot or interesting enough and will engage with a numbers discussion before meeting if the lady merits it. GPS vibe before meeting- no thanks. As with above, I will provide a broad range. This will generate questions about what factors I use to determine exact amounts. Again, I give general answers, like can she host, what is she looking for, what she wants our dates to be like, but mainly focus on what our in person chemistry will be like.
3. If during the M&G there is a GPS or hooker vibe. No thanks, I move on. Plenty of fish in the sea and new profiles appear every day. Current rotations need attention. Prior SBs who have had changes in circumstances need attention too. Girls I have thrown back into the pool are often up for a spin when I'm in a pinch. Junior and the checking account can always use a break. If during the M&G the chemistry is good and it's clear she is into me; then more often than not, we won't ever even have an allowance discussion. If we do, and she's worth it, I'll be happy to provide it, but any senior knows that the allowance / PPM amounts are subject to downward change. Once a lady gets comfortable with you, the covers come off and condoms aren't required if you forgot to bring them after the fifth or sixth date and then going forward you don't ever have to. At some point, you may experience a financial difficulty (ie laid off, kid has to go to private school, etc) and so you tell her, "I really want to continue seeing you, but can't afford to." if she enjoys your company then more often than not you'll find her negotiating against herself.
But more often than not, if you focus on not engaging in the numbers discussion up front and show a lady a good time on a date; you'll find that numbers drop considerably. And most importantly, make sure you start working out. Lose the gut, dress nicely, stay well groomed, show her a good time, and don't be a douche.
Can't tell you how many dudes out there can't comprehend why they can't get low cost pussy; but are 50 lbs overweight and treat a girl like trash.Must have missed this before. I've been dodging the hard number talk with ranges (that I also really try not to define) for months. It really weeds out the mercenaries effectively.
My bad habit is engaging these women before doing a search on here. So what's funny is when pressed and I do give a range that's well below and well above what people here have reported they take, a few times they disengage. Almost like they don't have enough security in what they're selling that I will deem them worth what they insist.
ShortMan22
11-10-24, 20:42
It seems thar go around I'm not having much luck.
This one seems cool and easy to talk with at first, once we scheduled the meet and greet she asked for baby sitter and gas money. I declined and aished her well. Her schedule seems very flexible.
https://members.seeking.com/member/5995d7a5-dae5-4eaf-b97e-6454d2494664
Not sure what the deal, with this one our schedules could never mesh and she would always have something coming up when we try to schedule the meet up.
https://members.seeking.com/member/0da184f4-c4b8-485f-8c48-d17c77f59807
Only wants platonic.
https://members.seeking.com/member/a044d69d-ec29-4a77-b064-4ff47353a509
Wants $200 just to meet, this prove to her that you are serious. I wished her well.
https://members.seeking.com/member/612ed1dd-bf89-42e1-8c63-9a4e95490467
Met them, big waste of time, paid bill and bolted. They are real, if someone can flip them to intimacy, please share. They don't drink either, no fun!Did you pay a PPM or just pay the bill? How many of her friends were with her?
Did you pay a PPM or just pay the bill? How many of her friends were with her?Just the bill, her and a friend. They wanted an additional allowance but LOL.
Was on for a month, had a few encounters, the good the bad and every in between, the keeper from this one month is just one that is not listed here.
https://members.seeking.com/member/dd0e4e85-12ad-40ea-a189-496cd8b29f2d
Sugarsweet (and goes by other names too), she's a serial SB who rotates SD's I think, but is flaky and not easy to schedule. Done twice, 5 oo.
Ana, 26, I blocked her so no link. Scammer. You can read some of her reports in Charlotte board, went by Blond something.
She's actually cute somewhat in person, talks up a big game, asks for 1 k, settle for 500, comes for M&G and waste time coffee / talking / walking then expect to be paid full allowance money for "spending time" says going to FC location is "sex for money" - gave nothing and walked away (exchanged a few kisses under the trees on the side walk before than, glad I did before the money ask came up, she's a good kisser too shame she won't move forward).
https://members.seeking.com/member/e2d31171-e57c-4ff4-b475-9fc997324596
Shianne, went to texting, appears DTF, had a lot of questions on how this works, appeared wanting to meet soon, then radio silence.
https://members.seeking.com/member/e27ead72-e976-4aa1-a17f-a65708d8dceb
Aura, exchanges messages, seems interested, then nothing.
https://members.seeking.com/member/510a9643-f8bf-46d9-8c31-7ffb088eda88
Elora, looks interesting, she seems legit and may be worth it, left me on read, anyone any luck lmk.
https://members.seeking.com/member/885be60b-0ac4-4522-842a-d76619456b0f
Peach, looks fake, talked about meeting, but won't exchange text, says too risky, asked me to come to telegram, denied.
https://members.seeking.com/member/9bec59fb-76f9-4821-a6a0-c9372a3f7333
Kittelova (also goes by other names) she's Faith, been discussed here before, done twice, 5 oo, young perky boobs and spinner body, will take a pounding, do not drive and is flaky.
Grace, 26, can't find her profile anymore, single mom, chubby but cute face, one and done, 4 oo. Open for anything, sometimes you have to scratch an itch and fat girls who comply are okay.
https://members.seeking.com/member/60ea8216-eda9-4345-85ed-cba6a84dd256
Gem55, I blocked her, she was mentioned before. She's pretty and in shape in the photos sent to me, make up girl from Towson. Talks vague about meeting and then moving to arrangement if chemistry good, ask 6 oo, but then expects pay for M&G if things don't work. Says all the dates I've been on were like that. Standard scam line for getting paid for M&G. Over their head these girls, I made her drive around a bit for a planned meet while I sat at home texting her. Teach her a lesson for being greedy.
https://members.seeking.com/member/8a204004-87be-44ad-a65a-fcde82358246
Rain, 27, looks attractive, messaged me showing interest, then silence.
There were many others in between that were fakes, scammers, pic sellers, as usual a mess. But managed to laid a few times.
TomFordModel
11-12-24, 15:18
https://members.seeking.com/member/3b3de6b9-e62f-49ad-9128-84d3c3007e8f
Traveling pro. We didn't discuss any specifics just met her ar her hotel BBFS 400.
CharmCityBro
11-12-24, 18:05
https://members.seeking.com/member/3b3de6b9-e62f-49ad-9128-84d3c3007e8f
Traveling pro. We didn't discuss any specifics just met her ar her hotel BBFS 400.How was the performance? Worth a visit?
https://members.seeking.com/member/3b3de6b9-e62f-49ad-9128-84d3c3007e8f
Traveling pro. We didn't discuss any specifics just met her ar her hotel BBFS 400.Which one of those two is she?
BuckNaked84
11-12-24, 19:55
Which one of those two is she?Same question. Red or Purple?
Which one of those two is she?Arent they both the same, LOL??
TomFordModel
11-12-24, 20:33
How was the performance? Worth a visit?No kissing, covered by and wanted covered but I just slap it in and she was all good.
I'm not into pros but she was ok. Looks older than 26 - at least 30's. Tight body.
Arent they both the same, LOL??Fook Me, Fook Yu. LOL.
ShortMan22
11-13-24, 14:46
Any one of you mongers have any details on this one?
https://members.seeking.com/member/955dbe92-47b6-4764-bab0-6bda6bd77c92
What's the upside for those SB profiles who look real, text like real, ask all the legit questions, and answer everything as a normal SB would, send pictures, plan a date, never ask any money before, keep in touch until the day of the meet, then vanish. Not even stood up after making you go there, just time waste chatting up a good game, then disappear. I haven't figured what's in it. Had to deal with a few like that in past, and found one just recently.
Anyone test out her yet? Comms have been spotty and she was hesistant to give #, now have a date planned for this weekend. PPM has not yet been discussed. Thanks!
https://members.seeking.com/member/6c1cb45a-e000-47f2-ab23-d74324d2da32
Dimples572
11-13-24, 17:04
Just like was mentioned a few weeks ago about the profiles with LOVE in all caps being a tell tale sign of a scammer group, I contacted one that had THE in all caps in her profile but it didn't register at the time. Then she messaged me back saying to email her about her "exclusive group". I immediately blocked her, thought it was a one-off but I came upon another one this afternoon with the same bullshit in her profile as well. Something to keep an eye out for.
https://members.seeking.com/member/ce762c9d-664c-4f2b-a7bd-b85792f1050c
https://members.seeking.com/member/885be60b-0ac4-4522-842a-d76619456b0f
Opened with 2 k ppm.
https://members.seeking.com/member/088b1032-f056-4f55-a678-8d51c5661b04
Initial ask was 2 k per hour.
https://members.seeking.com/member/5454647d-8474-49df-bed4-8e966b2c7d1a
Feels fake.
https://members.seeking.com/member/c5cbc092-57be-4afe-9207-87845d727134
Asks for 1 k ppm.
GuyInTheCorner
11-14-24, 06:04
Are you, uh, seeking transgender?I don't see the big deal if he is.
Dimples572
11-14-24, 06:32
https://members.seeking.com/member/885be60b-0ac4-4522-842a-d76619456b0f
Opened with 2 k ppm.
https://members.seeking.com/member/088b1032-f056-4f55-a678-8d51c5661b04
Initial ask was 2 k per hour.
https://members.seeking.com/member/5454647d-8474-49df-bed4-8e966b2c7d1a
Feels fake.
https://members.seeking.com/member/c5cbc092-57be-4afe-9207-87845d727134
Asks for 1 k ppm.The last one- stefanifoxx, got her down to $600 but didn't pull the trigger. After checking out her Instagram there's just something about her that rubs me the wrong way, can't put a finger on what it is. I kinda get the vibe that she'd be an uppity ***** with an attitude I'd fucking hate. But if that doesn't matter and you think you'd get along with her counter with 500 or 600 she'll take it, and FYI I think she's only in town a few more days.
The last one- stefanifoxx, got her down to $600 but didn't pull the trigger. After checking out her Instagram there's just something about her that rubs me the wrong way, can't put a finger on what it is. I kinda get the vibe that she'd be an uppity ***** with an attitude I'd fucking hate. But if that doesn't matter and you think you'd get along with her counter with 500 or 600 she'll take it, and FYI I think she's only in town a few more days.I'm no longer interested. Comms with her just aren't snappy enough. DM me her insta.
BubbleBobble
11-15-24, 14:45
So I got into escorts and left a handful of reviews (and sadly a few ripoff reports too) between 7 cities and now NOVA.
I've only briefly been in the agency groups partially due to how they operate (wanting a lot or very little PII or having a NBA policy) with most of my experience being in NYC. I'm considering the "sugar scene" since it seems to have more what I'm looking for but waa hoping to get some insight.
IMO it seems like;.
Escorts are for one and done or great long term high quality sex. Donation can be anywhere from. 8 to a few $, and everyone offers something different.
Agencies (that I've been to) are a little more refined with a "group" of escorts, usually have a higher "entry fee" but its "supposed" to be higher quality (filming, duos, BBFS, etc.) Though I've never seen much in terms of variety in terms of flavor. (Mostly asian, not complaining but a snowbunny would be great here and there).
So at a glace the sugar scene seems more like actual dates, or like an "agreed upon relationship" for x donation a month or meet its dinner drinks and all of that other fun stuff people enjoy in between.
Trying not to rant but I had a few questions and wanted to add some context:
Seeking starts at $. 1 a month, is it worth it? (otherwise I can't message them).
If my "budget" is only $400-$600 a month (for one meet) should I expect quality or am I better off sticking with something else? (I know some asking for like 1-2 k ppm).
Is this a good time of year to look for someone with holidays around the corner?
I guess what I'm looking for is a long term early to mid 20's, petite to average build woman I could see once a month. Maybe text on ocassion but every meet would be for intimacy (not just intimacy like dinner or something too).
Appreciate any insight, I'm going to continue my F2 P seaech and see if theyre reviewed here.
Dm available if preffered.
For what it's worth, I do not know if I would necissarily write off her profile just because of fake pictures. I mean if she had porn star pictures or something obviously fake then yes I would write it off, but just some random pics of someone that is not famous, then no I would not just write it off. I saw one for several months that had someone else's pictures in her profile. I was not positive on our first date as she looked great in person but then after our date I verified. A few more dates into it, I asked why she was using someone else's pictures and her response was that she did not want anyone knowing she was on the site. Maybe I just got lucky. This girl's profile has been around for awhile so that is a good sign. It is also very short so red flag. If I was in the market, I would still engage and see where it goes.
The pictures comes back to an IG account of the exact woman, trick or treating in TX with her husband and kids 2 days ago. Shame, as she's cute as hell.
https://members.seeking.com/member/c9698db7-0e05-4952-8d4e-56e63a7feb6aThis one has changed her pictures now. Used to be a white girl now she is a black girl. I guess we have our answer now as to whether or not she is real.
Dimples572
11-17-24, 20:57
Anyone notice that on Seeking renewal page there's no longer the option to submit a discount code? I thought maybe it was a format thing but I've checked it on both my iPhone and iPad as well as my laptop and there's nothing there for it on all 3. And has the 30 day fee always been $109.99? I've not paid the full amount in years so tbh I guess I've not really paid to the amount without the discount. But typically in the area I've circled in Red there would be a spot for the discount code. Kinda irritating its not an option right now. No chance I'm paying the full amount to renew.
GoodNightBalt
11-18-24, 11:23
Anyone notice that on Seeking renewal page there's no longer the option to submit a discount code? I thought maybe it was a format thing but I've checked it on both my iPhone and iPad as well as my laptop and there's nothing there for it on all 3. And has the 30 day fee always been $109.99? I've not paid the full amount in years so tbh I guess I've not really paid to the amount without the discount. But typically in the area I've circled in Red there would be a spot for the discount code. Kinda irritating its not an option right now. No chance I'm paying the full amount to renew.They did change that, the old codes don't work anymore, they seem to randomly generate them and give you a pop up offer. I can say the new codes seem to work across accounts so if you get a good one on a burner you can try to use it on your primary. Just have to add it to the URL parameters. THey basically just hid the field in the GUI but it still works the same way.
Dimples572
11-18-24, 13:38
They did change that, the old codes don't work anymore, they seem to randomly generate them and give you a pop up offer. I can say the new codes seem to work across accounts so if you get a good one on a burner you can try to use it on your primary. Just have to add it to the URL parameters. THey basically just hid the field in the GUI but it still works the same way.Good to know, thank you sir. I guess I'll turn off my pop-up blocker and keep an eye out for one to show up.
They did change that, the old codes don't work anymore, they seem to randomly generate them and give you a pop up offer. I can say the new codes seem to work across accounts so if you get a good one on a burner you can try to use it on your primary. Just have to add it to the URL parameters. THey basically just hid the field in the GUI but it still works the same way.Assume you have a code say ABCD, can you give the URL of how it should be for the code to work?
ShortMan22
11-19-24, 18:31
Obscurenerd.
I chatted with this one for a while but could not get her to meet. Communication lately has become spotty. Maybe one of you mongers will have better luck than I do. She does seem like a cool person but not sure why we couldn't get to a meet and greet.
https://members.seeking.com/member/b3fbd0c0-076d-40bc-adfd-8a7a1a7fa46d
Columbianqt.
Similar as above, communication extremely spotty and answered everything questions with a one word answer. Who knows maybe she wasn't interested in me. Ultimately I stop wasting time and deleted her number.
https://members.seeking.com/member/749e6384-7c26-4146-8aea-9e335c1a5fbf
Emily
Exchange phone numbers with this One but never received a text from her. Luckily, I read reviews about her on this forum, so it was a no go for me. In her private pics she looks much older than the age that's posted on her profile.
https://members.seeking.com/member/426c32b8-c516-43ea-949f-60875724f8d5
Andidi,
Straight to the point wants north of $600per ppm. Some of her private pics shows that she may have a gut on heroe some extra From what I gathered she may be an au pair.Also to add scheduling was a bit difficult to pin down.
https://members.seeking.com/member/426c32b8-c516-43ea-949f-60875724f8d5
Kara
Straight to the point she wanted at least 1k per ppm . Sorry darling I'm not interested anymore.
https://members.seeking.com/member/361c563a-885b-4568-92ee-2ef40a1a65f0
Dejavu22
This one was too ghetto for me.I quickly ended our discussion and will be blocking her once I post this.
https://members.seeking.com/member/e0219364-67d0-4d2f-a106-86d93790a60d
Blooming Flower
I gave her my burner number but she never texts me.Maybe she lost interest or one of you mongers gave her a better offer.My offer was 400-500ppm.
https://members.seeking.com/member/7e6c1bb5-998f-484f-9091-ebf3007b261e
VB14
This one has been reviewed on here, we couldn't get our schedules to align.I think that she's a school teacher, maybe in PA or very close to it.Also from reading the reviews, I didn't put much effort in it. If it wasn't for our misaligned schedules she seemed dtf and ppm was good at 300-400.
https://members.seeking.com/member/6b573470-ef44-4bc1-a068-29fec709d0e4
If any of you have any details on any of these SBs please share.
GoodNightBalt
11-20-24, 11:45
Assume you have a code say ABCD, can you give the URL of how it should be for the code to work?https://members.seeking.com/billing/memberships?ref=nag&promo=ABCD
Anyone had any luck with Maya, a gorgeous 21 year old in NOVA. She seems DTF for $600. Unfortunately, she blocked me so I don't have a link, but her photo is attached.
LocalCustomer
11-20-24, 17:19
Anyone has intel on her:
https://members.seeking.com/member/21c7acf3-3bbd-4627-a1a6-98b9ccbdc5df
Luna.
She's been reported before as a dancer at a club and seeking customers for visit to club. Beyond that can anyone met her, can confirm her looks?
She's a scammer, don't bother.
DmvTrickGawd
11-20-24, 17:45
Obscurenerd.
I chatted with this one for a while but could not get her to meet. Communication lately has become spotty. Maybe one of you mongers will have better luck than I do. She does seem like a cool person but not sure why we couldn't get to a meet and greet.
https://members.seeking.com/member/b3fbd0c0-076d-40bc-adfd-8a7a1a7fa46d
Columbianqt.
Similar as above, communication extremely spotty and answered everything questions with a one word answer. Who knows maybe she wasn't interested in me. Ultimately I stop wasting time and deleted her number.
https://members.seeking.com/member/749e6384-7c26-4146-8aea-9e335c1a5fbf
Emily
Exchange phone numbers with this One but never received a text from her. Luckily, I read reviews about her on this forum, so it was a no go for me. In her private pics she looks much older than the age that's posted on her profile.
https://members.seeking.com/member/426c32b8-c516-43ea-949f-60875724f8d5
Andidi,
Straight to the point wants north of $600per ppm. Some of her private pics shows that she may have a gut on heroe some extra From what I gathered she may be an au pair.Also to add scheduling was a bit difficult to pin down.
https://members.seeking.com/member/426c32b8-c516-43ea-949f-60875724f8d5
Kara
Straight to the point she wanted at least 1k per ppm . Sorry darling I'm not interested anymore.
https://members.seeking.com/member/361c563a-885b-4568-92ee-2ef40a1a65f0
Dejavu22
This one was too ghetto for me.I quickly ended our discussion and will be blocking her once I post this.
https://members.seeking.com/member/e0219364-67d0-4d2f-a106-86d93790a60d
Blooming Flower
I gave her my burner number but she never texts me.Maybe she lost interest or one of you mongers gave her a better offer.My offer was 400-500ppm.
https://members.seeking.com/member/7e6c1bb5-998f-484f-9091-ebf3007b261e
VB14
This one has been reviewed on here, we couldn't get our schedules to align.I think that she's a school teacher, maybe in PA or very close to it.Also from reading the reviews, I didn't put much effort in it. If it wasn't for our misaligned schedules she seemed dtf and ppm was good at 300-400.
https://members.seeking.com/member/6b573470-ef44-4bc1-a068-29fec709d0e4
If any of you have any details on any of these SBs please share.If you can set me up with VB14, I'll send you something after I link up with her to show my gratitude. Just message me.
BuckshotWatson
11-21-24, 10:12
Anyone had any luck with Maya, a gorgeous 21 year old in NOVA. She seems DTF for $600. Unfortunately, she blocked me so I don't have a link, but her photo is attached.That is a photo of a Miss Virginia Teen contestant, but I can't vouch for her.
DickLongwood
11-21-24, 14:12
Anyone had any luck with Maya, a gorgeous 21 year old in NOVA. She seems DTF for $600. Unfortunately, she blocked me so I don't have a link, but her photo is attached.I messaged her, but I think she blocked me. I can't find her profile.
She's a scammer, don't bother.Check this out:
https://fansly.com/vgetsfreaky/posts
I got word from back channel that she has high demands, in her words she will only fck select people and only for top allowance. Word is that she had a SD who splurged a lot on her and took her on a trip to a tropical island where she let him fck without cover and then they broke up soon after that trip. I guess the guy blew up a wad on her to get the chance to fuck her, and then finally couldn't keep up with her demands for cash.
Check this out:
https://fansly.com/vgetsfreaky/posts
I got word from back channel that she has high demands, in her words she will only fck select people and only for top allowance. Word is that she had a SD who splurged a lot on her and took her on a trip to a tropical island where she let him fck without cover and then they broke up soon after that trip. I guess the guy blew up a wad on her to get the chance to fuck her, and then finally couldn't keep up with her demands for cash.That girl is so mid looking, wouldn't give her more than 300. But to each their own.
Anyone get with this one yet??
https://members.seeking.com/member/49bae26a-1b5f-4772-87fd-95dfed811cd6
Comms are spotty, very flaky but love the look??
Thanks!!
That girl is so mid looking, wouldn't give her more than 300. But to each their own.I don't get it either. But the fact is there are dudes out there willing to blow a wad of cash on some of these girls, and while I don't get it, that's one reason there's GPS out there.
TheYoungMonger
11-22-24, 03:19
She's a scammer, don't bother.https://x.com/g0ddessluna1800
Works at a strip club in DC, also.
TomFordModel
11-22-24, 14:36
https://x.com/g0ddessluna1800
Works at a strip club in DC, also.I would be embarrassed to be seen with such ghetto trash. Well, there are busted dudes that need some affirmation.
I would be embarrassed to be seen with such ghetto trash. Well, there are busted dudes that need some affirmation.She's trash bro, but ghetto trash is different, did you click on the photo??
BuckNaked84
11-22-24, 18:47
She's trash bro, but ghetto trash is different, did you click on the photo??Butterface.
BuckNaked84
11-22-24, 18:49
Anyone get with this one yet??
https://members.seeking.com/member/49bae26a-1b5f-4772-87fd-95dfed811cd6
Comms are spotty, very flaky but love the look??
Thanks!!Chatted with prior profile. Concluded fake at the time, but who knows.
TonyTony1516
11-22-24, 19:39
Any info?
I tried searching but didn't see anything.
https://members.seeking.com/member/8e6db056-a6a2-4b06-a96b-0be91e122228
DickLongwood
11-22-24, 20:11
Nicole.
https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/79fe7e02-475b-4032-be90-5b6fb73dfbca
MissDoe90--there is some intel from a few years ago.
https://members.seeking.com/member/934edd23-73d6-4694-ab82-18d25fc31951
MusicLover.
https://members.seeking.com/member/59f27a76-22a8-46d4-8b71-faddabf44471
Sophialuv97.
https://members.seeking.com/member/cef8dc4b-0fba-4bc7-a014-65dbe9924440
HeyLolita--located in RVA.
https://members.seeking.com/member/4d48ac08-f165-4f6b-af7d-5a2f260f193a
DickLongwood
11-22-24, 20:27
Any info?
I tried searching but didn't see anything.
https://members.seeking.com/member/8e6db056-a6a2-4b06-a96b-0be91e122228Great photos, but is she real?
Nicole.
https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/79fe7e02-475b-4032-be90-5b6fb73dfbca
MissDoe90--there is some intel from a few years ago.
https://members.seeking.com/member/934edd23-73d6-4694-ab82-18d25fc31951
MusicLover.
https://members.seeking.com/member/59f27a76-22a8-46d4-8b71-faddabf44471
Sophialuv97.
https://members.seeking.com/member/cef8dc4b-0fba-4bc7-a014-65dbe9924440
HeyLolita--located in RVA.
https://members.seeking.com/member/4d48ac08-f165-4f6b-af7d-5a2f260f193aThe Richmond board has some info on HeyLolita. If I recall correctly, she is real and has been around for awhile.
FYI, first link goes to your inbox.
DickLongwood
11-22-24, 22:02
The Richmond board has some info on HeyLolita. If I recall correctly, she is real and has been around for awhile.
FYI, first link goes to your inbox.Nicole:
https://members.seeking.com/member/d79f24da-feae-423d-acc2-e63cb524e252
I think is a fake account or someone using pictures of someone who goes to college in MD. She's in Baltimore: https://www.instagram.com/thesantanaryan/.
I talked to her twice before, two different accounts. She tells you a general area in the city and starts asking for uber money on cashapp. Both times we talked on the phone, text and made plans. The second time she was on the phone with me saying she was on the way but never showed up.
Nicole.
https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/79fe7e02-475b-4032-be90-5b6fb73dfbca
MissDoe90--there is some intel from a few years ago.
https://members.seeking.com/member/934edd23-73d6-4694-ab82-18d25fc31951
MusicLover.
https://members.seeking.com/member/59f27a76-22a8-46d4-8b71-faddabf44471
Sophialuv97.
https://members.seeking.com/member/cef8dc4b-0fba-4bc7-a014-65dbe9924440
HeyLolita--located in RVA.
https://members.seeking.com/member/4d48ac08-f165-4f6b-af7d-5a2f260f193a
BuckNaked84
11-22-24, 22:46
Great photos, but is she real?Responds, but not from here. Might take a while, if ever.
BuckNaked84
11-22-24, 22:48
Nicole.
https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/79fe7e02-475b-4032-be90-5b6fb73dfbca
MissDoe90--there is some intel from a few years ago.
https://members.seeking.com/member/934edd23-73d6-4694-ab82-18d25fc31951
MusicLover.
https://members.seeking.com/member/59f27a76-22a8-46d4-8b71-faddabf44471
Sophialuv97.
https://members.seeking.com/member/cef8dc4b-0fba-4bc7-a014-65dbe9924440
HeyLolita--located in RVA.
https://members.seeking.com/member/4d48ac08-f165-4f6b-af7d-5a2f260f193aMiss Doe is real.
DickLongwood
11-23-24, 01:44
I think is a fake account or someone using pictures of someone who goes to college in MD. She's in Baltimore: https://www.instagram.com/thesantanaryan/.
I talked to her twice before, two different accounts. She tells you a general area in the city and starts asking for uber money on cashapp. Both times we talked on the phone, text and made plans. The second time she was on the phone with me saying she was on the way but never showed up.She told me she moved from Richmond to Baltimore.
I think is a fake account or someone using pictures of someone who goes to college in MD. She's in Baltimore: https://www.instagram.com/thesantanaryan/.
I talked to her twice before, two different accounts. She tells you a general area in the city and starts asking for uber money on cashapp. Both times we talked on the phone, text and made plans. The second time she was on the phone with me saying she was on the way but never showed up.Music lover is super nice but way heavier, sent her on her way before fc. Some of you guys will like her, but not my type, easy to meet.
Dimples572
11-26-24, 10:09
Anyone have any experience with this one? I think we've exchanged numbers at one point but that's it.
https://members.seeking.com/member/b1611bdb-56c2-444f-b80b-f189191b50fb
ProCatHunter
11-26-24, 11:58
She is real. She is also free. Just take her out for drinks. Basically, she's looking for a boyfriend not a SD.
Was not impressed with her skills and don't need her showing up at my doorstep (in case you're wondering why I'm tossing back).
https://members.seeking.com/member/1743c654-cb8f-4d41-8e4a-c9e3d4b28d50
ProCatHunter
11-26-24, 12:57
https://members.seeking.com/member/c2335f8b-5090-4b4a-95e8-a53fbda42bd1
Another being thrown back. Also real. Allowance request on higher end of my normal scale; but lower end of what most ladies asking for these days.
Absolutely amazing in bed. Throwing her back because (bat emoji) (poop emoji) (crazy face emoji).
As the saying goes, there is an inverse relationship between how good in a woman is in the sack and how insane she is. This one proves that the saying is.
ProCatHunter
11-26-24, 13:16
She is real. She is also free. Just take her out for drinks. Basically, she's looking for a boyfriend not a SD.
Was not impressed with her skills and don't need her showing up at my doorstep (in case you're wondering why I'm tossing back).
https://members.seeking.com/member/1743c654-cb8f-4d41-8e4a-c9e3d4b28d50To answer questions and avoid additional PMs. She is being thrown back because she is a dead fish. She will take direction well and falls into "sub needing a dom" category. If you're looking for a girlfriend and you're into the DOM / SUB thing where the woman needs your direction for everything in the bedroom. She's your girl. As for me; too many in rotation right now and that's definitely not my type. Don't need or want her showing up at my doorstep asking me what she should wear that day. Also prefer women who don't need to be told exactly what to do in bed. Also, though she didn't require an allowance; she still required a night out for dinner and drinks.
TheBarbarian
11-27-24, 09:12
Took a long break from the site, returned and it appears to be dead (or I'm way off). Even when I click on links members post here, I get nothing. It says something to the effect the person has deactivated.
Either way, have you all pivoted to a different site? Is seeking dead in the DMV area. Can someone fill me in. Thanks.
Took a long break from the site, returned and it appears to be dead (or I'm way off). Even when I click on links members post here, I get nothing. It says something to the effect the person has deactivated.
Either way, have you all pivoted to a different site? Is seeking dead in the DMV area. Can someone fill me in. Thanks.Covid is what happened. Pre covid was amazing. So was early stages of Covid when the college girls weren't working and needed extra money or to just get out of the house. But because of Covid, there was also way too many girls spending way too much time online and on Tiktok and learning about SA. So then it just turned into scam and greedy girl central.
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