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And some of you guys here are famous:
https://www.reddit.com/r/SugarBABYonlyforum/comments/mx0rqs/hobbists_forum/I had to look closely to find out that they pulled a reply of mine from April 2021. I few of us were discussing how to infiltrate the SB's Discord site.
SuckeredByaSB
12-05-22, 21:17
Anyone enjoy Mia _Mocha down in Southern Maryland? Cute Filipina.
https://members.seeking.com/member/b2cfffae-5b46-44e5-8ab5-e99f017d8a22
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Posted byu / DiscreetlyYoursToo.
# hours ago.
Santa said, I was on the Good Sugar Babe List & You? Discussion.
I had changed my whole profile on all major Sd sites, made it so interesting and eye catching with a twist of humor, Actually I received an early Christmas gift of $1200, more when we meet in person next week in NYC. And another SD not looking for emotional attachments I received $500. Always start high for a ppm, He can wiggle down but not up! , I think it's best to have more SDs then less. Have you been on santa's list too?
Yeah. Just this LMAO. In case any of you had any doubt. This is pretty much why we post here.
BuffBill75
12-06-22, 22:07
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Posted byu / DiscreetlyYoursToo.
# hours ago.
Santa said, I was on the Good Sugar Babe List & You? Discussion.
I had changed my whole profile on all major Sd sites, made it so interesting and eye catching with a twist of humor, Actually I received an early Christmas gift of $1200, more when we meet in person next week in NYC. And another SD not looking for emotional attachments I received $500. Always start high for a ppm, He can wiggle down but not up! , I think it's best to have more SDs then less. Have you been on santa's list too?
Yeah. Just this LMAO. In case any of you had any doubt. This is pretty much why we post here.These girls are so full of sh*t.
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Posted byu / DiscreetlyYoursToo.
# hours ago.
Santa said, I was on the Good Sugar Babe List & You? Discussion.
I had changed my whole profile on all major Sd sites, made it so interesting and eye catching with a twist of humor, Actually I received an early Christmas gift of $1200, more when we meet in person next week in NYC. And another SD not looking for emotional attachments I received $500. Always start high for a ppm, He can wiggle down but not up! , I think it's best to have more SDs then less. Have you been on santa's list too?
Yeah. Just this LMAO. In case any of you had any doubt. This is pretty much why we post here.They can say anything they want. The prevailing rate for the DC metro area is 3 oo to 5 oo with a median at 4 oo. There will always be exceptions to these values with lower and higher offers.
They can say anything they want. The prevailing rate for the DC metro area is 3 oo to 5 oo with a median at 4 oo. There will always be exceptions to these values with lower and higher offers.I would agree, anything lower that 4 is extremely rare in this area. And as another monger mentioned, I'm not sure I would want to spend any time with a girl that's 3 or less. Those are likely very high volume, high risk.
SixtyNineX10
12-07-22, 12:19
Has anyone met her? Feels like a pro but maybe not. Feel free to DM.
https://members.seeking.com/member/9832c343-f636-4439-9468-60fe655592ca
Not for nothing but I would be afraid of any girl accepts something less than 300 for what I want. That's either high volume or desperation. Neither of which I want.
On the other hand the games that they play will get some guys desperate. Money / Sex / Power dynamic can be real. The last two meetups I had were mental chess matches. Since I'm coming in from out of town they think I'm going to get desperate.There's a term used in marketing, called marketing in the mirror. When applied to Babies & Daddies, it means that many Daddies that have worked hard or gotten lucky to achieve a certain level of wealth at what ever age they currently are, look at allowances through a distorted filter.
$200, $300, $400, $500 means something different to us than a 18-22 y o struggling college coed, or waitress, bartender, retail worker, Amazon warehouse worker, etc.
Keeping in mind you guys are probably one of the most expensive Sugar markets in the country. It's okay to go on the upper end of the scale for above average young, low volume talent. Plus most in that age range didn't live through the early AIDS years as us older Daddies did. So most will go bare.
I've had some success in Nova at the $300-$400 level but the rest of Virginia & NC, $300 gets me what I'm hunting. Occasionally even $200, I'll go $400 for a true unicorn.
Just last week, in NC, I finally found my first platonic princess. 19, mixed beauty, perfect spinner body, killer ass. Originally no sex on our first meeting, but the more we texted the more comfortable she got. Finally told me she was on her period but she'd give me the BJ of my life. Met her in a hotel Friday morning & afternoon for three hours. Probably the best DFK & she got my to pop twice. Definitely top 5 BBBJDTCIM of my monger & Daddy life. Never discussed an allowance. I slipped $300 in the back pocket of her jeans as she left. I definitely wanted to lock her down for a long term play thing. Claims no one has ever gone down on her. Can't wait to see about that. Just rubbing her clut through her panties, she moaned so sweet, but her bottom lip and almost swallowed my tongue.
No lie, probably have messaged well over 100 hot platonic 18-22 y o princesses to try to bag one. When I asked her why she put platonic she said because she was brand new to the site, not very sexually experienced & wanted to find a nice Daddy, not a creep.
I do have a 32 y o Baby in Richmond, so I will go older. But she has the body & perfect ass of a 20 y o. One of my best friends that is also a experienced Daddy put it best, "if I'm going to pay for it I want exactly what I want".
There's a term used in marketing, called marketing in the mirror. When applied to Babies & Daddies, it means that many Daddies that have worked hard or gotten lucky to achieve a certain level of wealth at what ever age they currently are, look at allowances through a distorted filter.
$200, $300, $400, $500 means something different to us than a 18-22 y o struggling college coed, or waitress, bartender, retail worker, Amazon warehouse worker, etc.Right. And I've been called cheap for not wanting to pay $400+ even in some other markets. I'm not trying to low ball a girl, and I can afford to pay some of their asking prices, but I just don't see pussy as being that valuable when it can be obtained for much less. Or even free if you know how to treat some of these girls.
Before here I was in Madison, WI for about 2 years and hooked up with probably at least 20-40 college girls. I got a lot of them for free or the price of dinner, and I think the most I paid any of them was $350. Average was 200-300, however. So going from that to coming here where most girls want $600 and they are only average looking has really made me step back LOL. In this area I'd rather pay for a fake GFE experience with an Asian agency where I can still blow in their mouth or sometimes get free BBFS upgrade and costs less than $300. Plus I don't have to find a place to meet them.
TheHobbyLobby
12-07-22, 20:14
https://www.reddit.com/r/SugarBABYonlyforum/comments/zavp5p/i_want_hard_cash/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button
Like this one on reddit. These bitches are delusional. I heard there's a site the review the va mongers. Anyone know what it is.I just had to laugh at the hypocrisy of it all. They are mad that men talk trash about women but these & treat us guys the same. I read one entry how how these women were telling another SB, who wasn't physically attracted to her SD, to just close her eyes if he is on top of her. They suggested she take it from the back so she doesn't have to see him. LOL really. If a women read those exact same comments coming from a man on this board they would be so offended but it's ok for them to say that about us. Ahhh I guess equality isn't equal. Is it ladies.
TomFordModel
12-07-22, 20:25
I just had to laugh at the hypocrisy of it all. They are mad that men talk trash about women but these & treat us guys the same. I read one entry how how these women were telling another SB, who wasn't physically attracted to her SD, to just close her eyes if he is on top of her. They suggested she take it from the back so she doesn't have to see him. LOL really. If a women read those exact same comments coming from a man on this board they would be so offended but it's ok for them to say that about us. Ahhh I guess equality isn't equal. Is it ladies.I'm looking a DC SA these girls are absolutely hideous. They should be paying me to text them much less stick my D into their pussy.
I just had to laugh at the hypocrisy of it all. They are mad that men talk trash about women but these & treat us guys the same. I read one entry how how these women were telling another SB, who wasn't physically attracted to her SD, to just close her eyes if he is on top of her. They suggested she take it from the back so she doesn't have to see him. LOL really. If a women read those exact same comments coming from a man on this board they would be so offended but it's ok for them to say that about us. Ahhh I guess equality isn't equal. Is it ladies.Right? I've read other comments similar to these, advising girls who aren't attracted to their SD to close their eyes and pretend he's someone else. Fake an O when you're with a guy who wants you to O first, tips on how to fake an O to get it over with faster, etc. They are every bit as bad and in many (most) cases, worse than men talking.
Most recently a woman advised "You want these men to feel inadequate and know their place" in order to get more money out of them. I have absolutely no pity for these bitches that whine about guys comparing notes after reading that forum. None. Someone (man or woman) who sets out to purposely make someone else feel "inadequate" in order to take advantage of them deserves every sh1tty thing that happens to them in life. 100%.
...In this area I'd rather pay for a fake GFE experience with an Asian agency where I can still blow in their mouth or sometimes get free BBFS upgrade and costs less than $300. To each their own, but bro if you're getting BBFS at an Asian agency for 3 bills, just know you're definitely stirring the porridge of the five or six dudes that stopped by before you did that day.
Right? I've read other comments similar to these, advising girls who aren't attracted to their SD to close their eyes and pretend he's someone else. Fake an O when you're with a guy who wants you to O first, tips on how to fake an O to get it over with faster, etc. They are every bit as bad and in many (most) cases, worse than men talking.
Most recently a woman advised "You want these men to feel inadequate and know their place" in order to get more money out of them. I have absolutely no pity for these bitches that whine about guys comparing notes after reading that forum. None. Someone (man or woman) who sets out to purposely make someone else feel "inadequate" in order to take advantage of them deserves every sh1tty thing that happens to them in life. 100%.I'm not interested in browsing that forum, but I'd bet money that they never point out that half of our forum posts are dedicated to weeding out scammers and pro hookers. Like this forum exists only to get pussy as cheap as possible.
To each their own, but bro if you're getting BBFS at an Asian agency for 3 bills, just know you're definitely stirring the porridge of the five or six dudes that stopped by before you did that day.Doesn't feel like it, so it doesn't bother me LOL. I also doubt that many are paying for the upgrade. I'd guess if they see 15 guys a day, about 3-4 are paying extra. I could be way wrong though.
There's a term used in marketing, called marketing in the mirror. When applied to Babies & Daddies, it means that many Daddies that have worked hard or gotten lucky to achieve a certain level of wealth at what ever age they currently are, look at allowances through a distorted filter.
$200, $300, $400, $500 means something different to us than a 18-22 y o struggling college coed, or waitress, bartender, retail worker, Amazon warehouse worker, etc.
Keeping in mind you guys are probably one of the most expensive Sugar markets in the country. It's okay to go on the upper end of the scale for above average young, low volume talent. Plus most in that age range didn't live through the early AIDS years as us older Daddies did. So most will go bare.
I've had some success in Nova at the $300-$400 level but the rest of Virginia & NC, $300 gets me what I'm hunting. Occasionally even $200, I'll go $400 for a true unicorn.
Just last week, in NC, I finally found my first platonic princess. 19, mixed beauty, perfect spinner body, killer ass. Originally no sex on our first meeting, but the more we texted the more comfortable she got. Finally told me she was on her period but she'd give me the BJ of my life. Met her in a hotel Friday morning & afternoon for three hours. Probably the best DFK & she got my to pop twice. Definitely top 5 BBBJDTCIM of my monger & Daddy life. Never discussed an allowance. I slipped $300 in the back pocket of her jeans as she left. I definitely wanted to lock her down for a long term play thing. Claims no one has ever gone down on her. Can't wait to see about that. Just rubbing her clut through her panties, she moaned so sweet, but her bottom lip and almost swallowed my tongue.
No lie, probably have messaged well over 100 hot platonic 18-22 y o princesses to try to bag one. When I asked her why she put platonic she said because she was brand new to the site, not very sexually experienced & wanted to find a nice Daddy, not a creep.
I do have a 32 y o Baby in Richmond, so I will go older. But she has the body & perfect ass of a 20 y o. One of my best friends that is also a experienced Daddy put it best, "if I'm going to pay for it I want exactly what I want".Are you able to share any info on the NC princess?
DickLongwood
12-11-22, 00:12
Any intel on ShyJoey on WYP in Baltimore?
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/MVr93jPpAxV14zz5RdDOxW4n
CuriousVaMan
12-11-22, 14:16
Don't waste your time with this one. Surprised men on Seeking won't help her without wanting sex. Ugh. YMMV.
https://members.seeking.com/member/3d1d953f-7b33-4ee5-97ca-c93863157448
https://members.seeking.com/member/255151c3-3adc-4e5f-ab37-c03277784c17
Just curious if anyone taken this girl to the FC. PM if you want.
TonyTony1516
12-12-22, 20:55
Any intel on ShyJoey on WYP in Baltimore?
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/MVr93jPpAxV14zz5RdDOxW4nTalked to her she wants rent money now and "you can't handle her problems" if you ask to meet her.
ShortMan22
12-13-22, 00:06
Started talking to this one. I was able to get her to text. Before she said that's she's only looking for platonic. Jave any of you mongers been able to get any thing from her?
https://members.seeking.com/member/e11ca8fa-db65-4495-8a98-b1723702d03d
ShortMan22
12-13-22, 00:10
Wants 400 for meetings with no intimacy. If our meet includes intimacy, the the allowance goes up tp 1000. Sorry not worth it.
https://members.seeking.com/member/c5bb7282-8544-4d43-b136-c9d65c7e4b78
TomFordModel
12-13-22, 00:43
Is anyone paying 1 k ppm? I'm curious to the type of girls that receive that amount?
In addition, what do you usually spend on a date?
Eg. PPM + Food + Hotel + Gift.
ShortMan22
12-13-22, 05:04
Just curious.
Have any of you mongers.
Had any success with this one. Maybe we can compare notes.
https://members.seeking.com/member/8ed40d6f-238e-420a-9a57-e728d56a3024
Anyone got vids f-in SBs they've met with over the years? I've got a handful of pretty legit chicks that let me tape them. Curious if anyone has any good stuff to swap? Dm me.Stop spamming my inbox with your "my buddy has a SB site for the low low price of $25" bullshit.
TomFordModel
12-13-22, 09:31
Wants 400 for meetings with no intimacy. If our meet includes intimacy, the the allowance goes up tp 1000. Sorry not worth it.
https://members.seeking.com/member/c5bb7282-8544-4d43-b136-c9d65c7e4b78She has nicely filtered pics which makes her looks good. Bases on experience she is a lot worse in real life. Can anyone comment that have met her irl.
SixtyNineX10
12-13-22, 15:30
Obviously a nice rack, has anyone spent any time with her? Feel free to DM is you prefer.
https://members.seeking.com/member/5e5ecf51-118c-471f-a7c6-9471e1a8e2b1
Rudy Wellz
12-13-22, 21:49
Is anyone paying 1 k ppm? I'm curious to the type of girls that receive that amount?
In addition, what do you usually spend on a date?
Eg. PPM + Food + Hotel + Gift.Absolutely not paying $1 K ppm. Here's my rota:
1. $400 ppm, over 2 years, 2-3/ month, typically straight to hotel, occasionally drinks, occasionally food and drinks.
2. $600 ppm, 3 months, she wanted $750, smokin' hot and smart, 1-2/ month, always a meal w / wine + hotel.
3. $400 ppm, 4 months, 1-2/ month, food + hotel.
4. May drop this one, 6 months, $500,1/ month, food + hotel. She's is a little big, sex is good but not great, but always available.
5. Dropped me after 3 months, $500,2/ month, high end restaurant + hotel. Blocked me or no longer on SA. Screen name Cee, based in Arlington.
DickLongwood
12-13-22, 22:56
Absolutely not paying $1 K ppm. Here's my rota:
1. $400 ppm, over 2 years, 2-3/ month, typically straight to hotel, occasionally drinks, occasionally food and drinks.
2. $600 ppm, 3 months, she wanted $750, smokin' hot and smart, 1-2/ month, always a meal w / wine + hotel.
3. $400 ppm, 4 months, 1-2/ month, food + hotel.
4. May drop this one, 6 months, $500,1/ month, food + hotel. She's is a little big, sex is good but not great, but always available.
5. Dropped me after 3 months, $500,2/ month, high end restaurant + hotel. Blocked me or no longer on SA. Screen name Cee, based in Arlington.I think your numbers add to 7-10 dates per month. Is that accurate? If so, kudos to you! I'm generally more in the 1-4 range, typically 1-2.
Obviously a nice rack, has anyone spent any time with her? Feel free to DM is you prefer.
https://members.seeking.com/member/5e5ecf51-118c-471f-a7c6-9471e1a8e2b1Had lunch with her. Nice girl, just didn't vibe.
Wants 400 for meetings with no intimacy. If our meet includes intimacy, the the allowance goes up tp 1000. Sorry not worth it.
https://members.seeking.com/member/c5bb7282-8544-4d43-b136-c9d65c7e4b78Wanted $2 oo for m&g. Passed.
That's some deep pockets. Well in my world that is. LOL
I think your numbers add to 7-10 dates per month. Is that accurate? If so, kudos to you! I'm generally more in the 1-4 range, typically 1-2..
Is anyone paying 1 k ppm? I'm curious to the type of girls that receive that amount?
In addition, what do you usually spend on a date?
Eg. PPM + Food + Hotel + Gift.Paid a girl once 1 k for that experience. With hotel was like almost 1200. Did her raw CIP. The sex was amazing! However buyers remorse really hits you after the nut. Got a nice picture of her riding me for my memories, unfortunately deleted the video.
SuckeredByaSB
12-14-22, 00:42
Paid a girl once 1 k for that experience. With hotel was like almost 1200. Did her raw CIP. The sex was amazing! However buyers remorse really hits you after the nut. Got a nice picture of her riding me for my memories, unfortunately deleted the video.I have pretty high standards. Need really petite, attractive face and fit, and I can't deal with trashy / druggie types. Grad school or teacher types for me. Usually foreign.
And I always pay $250-$375 on average for long term arrangements. I have three going right now. One I met off a normal dating site and the other two are both off seeking now from what I can tell. Sometimes we lose touch for a few months but we have a good connection, I'm safe, good looking myself supposedly, and good in bed (I can occasionally pull a 20 or young 30 something off bumble but it's a LOT of work and a lot of misses), so they always come back. In fact, I've been tempted to take some of the relationships into a non-sugar level but I know that would be a mistake and more expensive in the long run!
The few times I've gone 400+ I've totally regretted it. Rather jerk it.
Key thing is to meet in person before you discuss price. Flirt, be charming and not creepy at all. Good luck.
Is anyone paying 1 k ppm? I'm curious to the type of girls that receive that amount?
In addition, what do you usually spend on a date?
Eg. PPM + Food + Hotel + Gift.NYC. Blonde with a masters. 8 face and bod, 10 skills. She came straight to my room after a late-ish night at work (verified her IRL so she wasn't a pro coming from gobbling down a cock dinner). Couple of drinks. Fucked, room service. Fucked again. Think I came 4 times, once for each hole and a facial. She left after showering with me. Well wroth it.
TomFordModel
12-14-22, 09:37
That's some deep pockets. Well in my world that is. LOL.I haven't done the math but I'm spending more than 3 k after all of the expenses on one girl. It's a bit ridiculous. If the market didn't take all my $$ away I wouldn't be as concern. Probably going to stop soon.
Rudy Wellz
12-14-22, 17:00
I think your numbers add to 7-10 dates per month. Is that accurate? If so, kudos to you! I'm generally more in the 1-4 range, typically 1-2.I typically see 1-2 SB's per week unless traveling. The math works as it is WAY CHEAPER than divorce. Also, that number will go way down when I have a civie girlfriend (which is a whole different ball game). For example, had a 6-9 month of-an-on relationship with a married woman late 2021 into 2022. It was fantastic as I only covered hotel and some meals. During that time, flushed my roster keeping only #1 SB.
With regard to hotels, frequently use Dayuse, and lower tier Hilton's. Weekends are great as the rates are lower. Also try to convince SB's how fantastic my favorite hole-in-the-wall restaurants (lower priced) are plus having to avoid getting spotted in the high-end trendy spots.
Rudy Wellz
12-14-22, 17:04
That's some deep pockets. Well in my world that is. LOL
.I budget about $3. 5 to $4 k monthly. Again, significantly cheaper than divorce and I am thoroughly enjoying myself. However, I still try and keep the ppm at $400 to $500. Have never had a SB for more than $600.
Wants 400 for meetings with no intimacy. If our meet includes intimacy, the the allowance goes up tp 1000. Sorry not worth it.
https://members.seeking.com/member/c5bb7282-8544-4d43-b136-c9d65c7e4b78Quoted me 200 to meet 800 to fuck. Reinforces my resolve to never entertain communications with these 30+ chicks.
HelloSd1990
12-14-22, 23:31
Is anyone paying 1 k ppm? I'm curious to the type of girls that receive that amount?
In addition, what do you usually spend on a date?
Eg. PPM + Food + Hotel + Gift.Current Sb I'm seeing is 700 , our next will be overnight. I'm trying to stay at same price, but when we do see each other I get off 3 times.
Dimples572
12-15-22, 10:58
Current Sb I'm seeing is 700 , our next will be overnight. I'm trying to stay at same price, but when we do see each other I get off 3 times.700 for 3 nuts?? WTF. Do sparks shoot out of her pussy? Does her pussy wear a cape and can do superhero shit? Jesus.
Current Sb I'm seeing is 700 , our next will be overnight. I'm trying to stay at same price, but when we do see each other I get off 3 times.Just out of curiosity. Did you find her on seeking and any details so we can kind of understand what she looks like.
Current Sb I'm seeing is 700 , our next will be overnight. I'm trying to stay at same price, but when we do see each other I get off 3 times.Bro,
You'd be better off with a high end pro. I've had countless SBs do overnights and have never once had to negotiate a rate for it. It just happens organically; drinks, fun time and they end up staying. Personally I prefer them to leave, but I'm not going to kick a girl out if she's someone I'm interested in. What you're describing (hourly rate) is more in line with a pro than a SB. Unless I'm just missing something.
Rose. Wants to meet "several times" with allowance before intimacy.
https://members.seeking.com/member/46ea1085-c619-404a-9d99-b1b5a9cd1cdf
Babymarthaaa. Agreed on 400 ppm. Set up time 2 days in the future since she was busy. Confirmed day of meeting. Confirmed 1 hours before meeting. Then she ghosted. Said she "fell asleep. ".
https://members.seeking.com/member/b39c23fc-f8a9-4242-adf8-0d09a5758d81
Cherry. Claimed to be 24 with 2 kids. Offered 400. She was good. Then Ghosted.
https://members.seeking.com/member/0d07dd24-7c34-4769-9485-d5919fc5009e
Flrncce. I offered 400 ppm, 2 K a month and she laughed at it.
https://members.seeking.com/member/330bcf47-b64c-4493-84e7-3d29ceb39922
BeautifulRunner. Scammer.
https://members.seeking.com/member/c416b857-763f-4136-a5e5-865913f3c896
PrincessJasmin She likes to travel, so I offered to take her to Park City UT. She said she would only travel to Aspen CO.
https://members.seeking.com/member/80964af6-2a24-4d9a-9392-c75f49dc59ca
Lovelydovie 18 year old. Offered 400. She was good with that. Chatted then ghosted.
https://members.seeking.com/member/5228a6c6-0f86-4872-87ba-1f1fb1e6d450
SubmissiveSweetheart. Chatted, set up a coffee date, and then ghosted me.
https://members.seeking.com/member/9bb46194-7b58-48d6-8297-f8278bb13bdd
JuliaReal. Chatted and she immediately sent nude. Offered 400 and she jumped at it. Didn't do her because she had crazy eyes.
https://members.seeking.com/member/cdf93f58-b4a9-4a77-ae47-3c893f40e8eb
TheGoldenBarbie (Yasmin) DTF. I offered 400. She said she was out of my league.
https://members.seeking.com/member/e44b3855-ab3c-4b09-9d53-e63f70d188fb
DickLongwood
12-15-22, 16:54
Rose. Wants to meet "several times" with allowance before intimacy.
https://members.seeking.com/member/46ea1085-c619-404a-9d99-b1b5a9cd1cdf
Babymarthaaa. Agreed on 400 ppm. Set up time 2 days in the future since she was busy. Confirmed day of meeting. Confirmed 1 hours before meeting. Then she ghosted. Said she "fell asleep. ".
https://members.seeking.com/member/b39c23fc-f8a9-4242-adf8-0d09a5758d81
Cherry. Claimed to be 24 with 2 kids. Offered 400. She was good. Then Ghosted.
https://members.seeking.com/member/0d07dd24-7c34-4769-9485-d5919fc5009e
Flrncce. I offered 400 ppm, 2 K a month and she laughed at it.
https://members.seeking.com/member/330bcf47-b64c-4493-84e7-3d29ceb39922
BeautifulRunner. Scammer.
https://members.seeking.com/member/c416b857-763f-4136-a5e5-865913f3c896
PrincessJasmin She likes to travel, so I offered to take her to Park City UT. She said she would only travel to Aspen CO.
https://members.seeking.com/member/80964af6-2a24-4d9a-9392-c75f49dc59ca
Lovelydovie 18 year old. Offered 400. She was good with that. Chatted then ghosted.
https://members.seeking.com/member/5228a6c6-0f86-4872-87ba-1f1fb1e6d450
SubmissiveSweetheart. Chatted, set up a coffee date, and then ghosted me.
https://members.seeking.com/member/9bb46194-7b58-48d6-8297-f8278bb13bdd
JuliaReal. Chatted and she immediately sent nude. Offered 400 and she jumped at it. Didn't do her because she had crazy eyes.
https://members.seeking.com/member/cdf93f58-b4a9-4a77-ae47-3c893f40e8eb
TheGoldenBarbie (Yasmin) DTF. I offered 400. She said she was out of my league.
https://members.seeking.com/member/e44b3855-ab3c-4b09-9d53-e63f70d188fbWhy do you say Beautiful Runner is a scammer? I don't doubt it, but you give no reason.
DickLongwood
12-15-22, 16:59
I typically see 1-2 SB's per week unless traveling. The math works as it is WAY CHEAPER than divorce. Also, that number will go way down when I have a civie girlfriend (which is a whole different ball game). For example, had a 6-9 month of-an-on relationship with a married woman late 2021 into 2022. It was fantastic as I only covered hotel and some meals. During that time, flushed my roster keeping only #1 SB.
With regard to hotels, frequently use Dayuse, and lower tier Hilton's. Weekends are great as the rates are lower. Also try to convince SB's how fantastic my favorite hole-in-the-wall restaurants (lower priced) are plus having to avoid getting spotted in the high-end trendy spots.Good for you! I'm lower volume, lower budget.
ProCatHunter
12-15-22, 23:54
Current Sb I'm seeing is 700 , our next will be overnight. I'm trying to stay at same price, but when we do see each other I get off 3 times.With some SB reddit user trying to get mongers to pump up allowance.
Only a 3 post history, but seems like he is a legit monger.
Why anyone is paying over $ $ $ $ ppm is beyond me. Whatevs. If you have the cash then burn, then more power to you.
Did 700 last year, but my SB at the time was ex professional cheerleader, and was a Miss Maryland beauty pageant contestant. Classic beautiful Blonde, blue eye mid 20's hottie. I it was a fun 10 months, but had to drop her from rotation when I met one of my current younger SB. 700 was worth it.
700 for 3 nuts?? WTF. Do sparks shoot out of her pussy? Does her pussy wear a cape and can do superhero shit? Jesus.
Rudy Wellz
12-16-22, 16:18
Did 700 last year, but my SB at the time was ex professional cheerleader, and was a Miss Maryland beauty pageant contestant. Classic beautiful Blonde, blue eye mid 20's hottie. I it was a fun 10 months, but had to drop her from rotation when I met one of my current younger SB. 700 was worth it.I'd give her $700 as well.
Here is one that I am not interested in, but you may be.
https://members.seeking.com/member/6ac82fe4-a220-4e6c-ba3c-ef06d46f2d5f
She said she was looking for 300-400. Thick long island accent. Decent body, but has kids so not my thing. Would love to hear a report if this helps anyone.
I met this one for a meet and greet. Tall, thin, young. I don't have a link to her profile, but her name is Rose23. A real sweetie and DTF for $400 is she likes you. Treat her well, and I would love a report if you see her.
https://members.seeking.com/member/38813a5a-d8f7-45e2-9e2c-331e2b6cc579
I definitely took one for the team. This one is Qv-100 escort at best, trying to creep into the SB World. Body 4/10, face 7/10, Sex 0/10 Personality 6/10.
She doesn't look like any of these pics, she's petite with baby damage to her body. We met for drinks and chatted a bit, she's cool, but it ends there. Unfortunately, she is stuck in the escort approach. She doesn't understand the art of seduction, she's still in the curtain open, lights on, etc, escort approach. She claimed to have great oral skills, but that is a BIG no and I wasn't crazy about the scent coming from her kitty. She will try for $3-$5 but some of her ads say $2.
https://adultsearch.com/washington-dc/washington-dc/female-escorts/2930316
If the novel of a profile isn't red flag enough, this geriatric GPS insists on discussimg allowance on SA. She's sure it will be fine since it's not PPM. Account is a couple days old, but she's so smart. Has all the answers LOL. Maybe she'll never get banned, but some poor schmuck who engages with her probably will.
She reached out to me with no test, just a request to view private pics. I should not have responded.
https://members.seeking.com/member/15ddad08-65ca-40e3-b0c6-e57e7c81a637
If the novel of a profile isn't red flag enough, this geriatric GPS insists on discussimg allowance on SA. She's sure it will be fine since it's not PPM. Account is a couple days old, but she's so smart. Has all the answers LOL. Maybe she'll never get banned, but some poor schmuck who engages with her probably will.
She reached out to me with no test, just a request to view private pics. I should not have responded.
https://members.seeking.com/member/15ddad08-65ca-40e3-b0c6-e57e7c81a637Thanks for the heads up. I was just about to respond to her request.
Rudy Wellz
12-18-22, 06:30
If the novel of a profile isn't red flag enough, this geriatric GPS insists on discussimg allowance on SA. She's sure it will be fine since it's not PPM. Account is a couple days old, but she's so smart. Has all the answers LOL. Maybe she'll never get banned, but some poor schmuck who engages with her probably will.
She reached out to me with no test, just a request to view private pics. I should not have responded.
https://members.seeking.com/member/1...6-e57e7c81a637
Thanks for the heads up. I was just about to respond to her request.If this is a real person, she is Bat Sh*t Crazy! Run. Run Forest!
If the novel of a profile isn't red flag enough, this geriatric GPS insists on discussimg allowance on SA. She's sure it will be fine since it's not PPM. Account is a couple days old, but she's so smart. Has all the answers LOL. Maybe she'll never get banned, but some poor schmuck who engages with her probably will.
She reached out to me with no test, just a request to view private pics. I should not have responded.
https://members.seeking.com/member/1...6-e57e7c81a637
If this is a real person, she is Bat Sh*t Crazy! Run. Run Forest!And she's gone LOL.
TomFordModel
12-18-22, 13:57
And she's gone LOL.Reality kicked in for her. She's an old busted female with no sexual value.
She's real and DTF. Just didn't click and at $$$$ I won't be seeing her again. Srs DM me if you have questions.
https://members.seeking.com/member/7de8ab24-d7ce-409c-a270-e2bb1cfda907
Cruisin1011
12-18-22, 18:44
Hi all, has any one here traveled with their SB? I am considering heading down to the keys for few days with a SB or two for few days of sun, drinks and laying around naked. Any tips for traveling with a SB?
TomFordModel
12-18-22, 19:46
https://www.reddit.com/r/SugarBABYonlyforum/comments/znnv74/why_tf_is_300_the_new_ppm/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button
LOL. 300 ppm offers. These stretched out things actually think they're worth more.
The reality of the recession is real.
TomFordModel
12-18-22, 19:48
She's real and DTF. Just didn't click and at $$$$ I won't be seeing her again. Srs DM me if you have questions.
https://members.seeking.com/member/7de8ab24-d7ce-409c-a270-e2bb1cfda907What! You paid $$ meaning 1 k for that trailer trash looking thing. Smh.
SuckeredByaSB
12-18-22, 20:33
Hi all, has any one here traveled with their SB? I am considering heading down to the keys for few days with a SB or two for few days of sun, drinks and laying around naked. Any tips for traveling with a SB?How do you agree on the price?
Cruisin1011
12-18-22, 22:36
How do you agree on the price?I pitched the ppm she usually get per day. She liked it. Apparently the draw of the ocean, free transportation, free dining out out, free activities, and a hot tub pretty much sell them selves.
Rudy Wellz
12-18-22, 23:03
Thanks for the heads up. I was just about to respond to her request.
I pitched the ppm she usually get per day. She liked it. Apparently the draw of the ocean, free transportation, free dining out out, free activities, and a hot tub pretty much sell them selves.Agree and disagree. I cover airfare, lodging (will typically upgrade to a suite), meals and entertainment. Then will give some cash, but less than the usual PPM. My thought is that the there is value in the experience that the SB otherwise would not have. I try and get 1-2 SB trips per year. Nothing like chilling by the pool with a young hottie, having AM sex, long lazy dinners, late night strolls, etc.
Rudy Wellz
12-18-22, 23:10
Agree and disagree. I cover airfare, lodging (will typically upgrade to a suite), meals and entertainment. Then will give some cash, but less than the usual PPM. My thought is that the there is value in the experience that the SB otherwise would not have. I try and get 1-2 SB trips per year. Nothing like chilling by the pool with a young hottie, having AM sex, long lazy dinners, late night strolls, etc.Also, I don't discuss the cash gift. Simply invite them and let them know that you will cover all expenses. Sometimes the SB will select a restaurant and offer entertainment suggestions. The cash gift is bonus and a pleasant surprise. I've only had 1 SB want to talk about how much she would receive for a trip. The answer turned out to be $0 as I did not take her.
SuckeredByaSB
12-18-22, 23:31
What would you say? What is the right answer? If you tell the truth (assuming there are a few others), I guess it's less likely they get clingy but more of a chance they move on.
And do you want to know how many other SDs she is seeing? If I'm trying for bareback that seems relevant. But would that question scare them off?
Cruisin1011
12-18-22, 23:51
Also, I don't discuss the cash gift. Simply invite them and let them know that you will cover all expenses. Sometimes the SB will select a restaurant and offer entertainment suggestions. The cash gift is bonus and a pleasant surprise. I've only had 1 SB want to talk about how much she would receive for a trip. The answer turned out to be $0 as I did not take her.This was the first time I am setting up travel with SB.
Cruisin1011
12-19-22, 00:19
What would you say? What is the right answer? If you tell the truth (assuming there are a few others), I guess it's less likely they get clingy but more of a chance they move on.
And do you want to know how many other SDs she is seeing? If I'm trying for bareback that seems relevant. But would that question scare them off?If they are new or young lie your ass off. Otherwise, they will suddenly find a reason not to see you, or that going raw will suddenly become covered. She will generally have the same concerns as you health wise.
I have had few that were little more experienced. As long as I suspect the number to be under three I am usually ok with it. Anything more and I bail. I am not a prude or stupid, this is good money for them and so they prob have a rotation to fund their life style. I also am 95% covered with my sb until after a few months.
When they ask me, I usually say only them or one other, since where I live and where I work all far apart. I have one on each end. They are usually ok with that. Typically I have 3-4 in rotation. It is a mental game more for me.
Just like dating in the real world, unless you say your exclusive, plan on her getting plowed by a few other guys while seeing you.
https://www.reddit.com/r/SugarBABYonlyforum/comments/znnv74/why_tf_is_300_the_new_ppm/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button[/URL]
LOL. 300 ppm offers. These stretched out things actually think they're worth more.
The reality of the recession is real.Worse than the post itself are the comments from this entitled group. "I know my worth" , "I wouldn't even go to dinner for 300" etc. It's pure comedy.
TomFordModel
12-19-22, 11:38
Worse than the post itself are the comments from this entitled group. "I know my worth" , "I wouldn't even go to dinner for 300" etc. It's pure comedy.Obviously, they're not living in reality hence the reason they're spreading their legs for money. All of you sbs, pros or whatever you call yourself. Money isn't as free flowing as the before for the guys that earn their money the real way.
There are a few are making it work now but crypto crash, stock market dying are hurting a lot of people.
Bases on what I've seen on SA these are things should be on the streets for 50 blowies.
ProCatHunter
12-20-22, 22:35
What would you say? What is the right answer? If you tell the truth (assuming there are a few others), I guess it's less likely they get clingy but more of a chance they move on.
And do you want to know how many other SDs she is seeing? If I'm trying for bareback that seems relevant. But would that question scare them off?Always tell them they are the only one if they ask. Then ask them that if they are interested in adding additional ones so you both can play with them. Her reaction to that question will let you know if she wants to be open relationship or exclusive.
If the kitty doesn't smell, then she is probably exclusive or low volume bareback with you. If it has a funk, Jimmy your trunk.
Kittymeowmeow.
https://members.seeking.com/member/f4a9d3c0-7378-42f7-a68f-e48e87e7135e
This one quoted me something outrageous like 2 k or something per meet. I offered her about 1/3 just thinking she would blow me off but she agreed and pushed to meet right away. Gave me weird vibes.
Decvv.
https://members.seeking.com/member/b612c6b1-0da0-4a78-9522-12e986330b04
600 per meet. Not much other info.
Soni.
https://members.seeking.com/member/d7fb3c1f-cb1e-4d0d-b7ab-e6189df49e4f
Didn't think this profile was real. Definitely someone who doesn't speak English for their first language. Wanted 200 to have a platonic first meet. I passed.
Spanishmami5.
https://members.seeking.com/member/239609b1-8f17-49b3-9a17-b6bd2a38266e
500 per meet.
MarylandLiving17.
https://members.seeking.com/member/c14f67fa-73f9-4f91-814d-4544e94368af
I think she has been discussed before. Quoted me 1 k per meet. Pass.
Brunette_baby071.
https://members.seeking.com/member/a2a447f6-7dd3-475a-adca-fd329515c5bd
500 per meet. Have a feeling she might be heavier than her pics.
Been chatting with this one. Something seems familiar about her and that maybe I ran into her pre-pamdemic. Conversation also a bit Weird. Does anyone remember this one from a few years ago, maybe in the Sterling / Herndon area? Thanks.
https://members.seeking.com/member/99263000-8f8b-4731-818c-833c260f4b97
When I see pictures of multiple girls, I always wonder if her friends know they are in her SA public photos and have given her consent. (Think we all know the answer.).
CruisingXX
12-21-22, 14:30
Thank you for the summary. On Soni below she is Latin I can confirm. She sent me selfies which look different than profile but close. But I agree that something is off and she is trying to get paid for the first meeting just to meet. Non starter, I will try to talk her into in person or no deal. Will report back.
Soni.
https://members.seeking.com/member/d7fb3c1f-cb1e-4d0d-b7ab-e6189df49e4f
Didn't think this profile was real. Definitely someone who doesn't speak English for their first language. Wanted 200 to have a platonic first meet. I passed.
Kittymeowmeow.
https://members.seeking.com/member/f4a9d3c0-7378-42f7-a68f-e48e87e7135e
This one quoted me something outrageous like 2 k or something per meet. I offered her about 1/3 just thinking she would blow me off but she agreed and pushed to meet right away. Gave me weird vibes.
Decvv.
https://members.seeking.com/member/b612c6b1-0da0-4a78-9522-12e986330b04
600 per meet. Not much other info.
Soni..
JustLikeThe
12-21-22, 14:53
When I see pictures of multiple girls, I always wonder if her friends know they are in her SA public photos and have given her consent. (Think we all know the answer.).She shared a pic with her mom as well!
Hi all, has any one here traveled with their SB? I am considering heading down to the keys for few days with a SB or two for few days of sun, drinks and laying around naked. Any tips for traveling with a SB?I've fantasized about it and discussed it with SBs knowing I'd never have the freedom from the wife to pull it off.
But based on my discussions, most of them would be thrilled with time at a 4/5 star resort, all expenses paid -- including a spa visit or two -- and banging your brains out.
They could never afford that kind of experience and would have a great story to rub in their girl friend's noses, without having to reveal how they got plowed in the process.
The trick is the discretion -- you can't get on a plane or check in to a hotel under a nom-de-sucre, so be prepared to be open kimono on your true identity.
For many years I had about 5 sbs I would rotate. Each different flavor in terms of ethnicity, height, age. Each one slowly has left the harem though. One had a boyfriend / got married, one moved to Houston, one got pregnant, and one just blocked me out of nowhere. I still have one but she really annoys me.
For those thinking about a sb trip, read back on my posts to read about what a complete nightmare that was. The girl I took is the same one I still see hence why she annoys me LOL. Never ever going to travel with her again but she looks great so. She goes by Maya but that's not her real name but it is close to it for those that may have her in their rotation.
Anyways then I got blocked from SA out of nowhere, wasn't even using it. So it kept me off for a long time. It was time to return and I successfully navigated around the block. Thanks for those who helped with that on here.
Started off as it usually does, sending tons of messages and throwing out lines to see what bites. A lot of escorts on these days. Some reports below and apologize for no links but I can't access the site through my phone bc if the block. Overall this time around was successful but took awhile. I found myself settling and about to do meet ups with girls below standards. It's almost like the grind wears you down. Luckily I reset each time and reminded myself that I'm not on here for a basic sb. Looking for that diamond in the rough. Luckily I found one and met up at the FC. Beautiful 21 year old. She goes by Sophia and some of you are seeing her, or have been. One of you took her to Vegas and Cali. Anyways this 30 day membership is over and I'll have fun with her until I have the energy to look some more. Some reports.
"Prettyfreespirit97" - escort. Her escort name is Dani Marie. She blurs her escort ads but unblurred on SA. She is quite beautiful but her escort rate is 600 an hour. She is a good twitter follow.
"Bbyygigi" - pains me to throw this one to you all. We all have our good regulars that we hold back on reporting about and this was one of them for me. This one was my regular for a few years and she unexpectedly blocked me. I reached out to her a few different ways and blocked each time so its def on purpose. Also goes by Bbygia. Anyways met her when she was 19. Really innocent and youthful. Face is okay but she has a baby face and a petite body which was amazing. Didn't take the d very well at first but over the years she got much better. I don't really know why the block. I think towards the end I didn't spend alot of time trying to get her off. In the beginning I would make sure to do that but I just got lazy. She is a great lay bc of her youthfulness and cute personality.
Anyways. Until the next 30 day membership, see you all soon.
JustLikeThe
12-22-22, 14:25
https://members.seeking.com/member/5bcb335a-b469-4ea9-b817-9e4013095d95
Quick to move to text and call. Wants allowance for meetings in public space and no intimacy. Looks she has been in the site for a while though. Either she is persuasive and patient to get those offers or some folks are paying allowance for Just dinner dates!
Just started chatting with this one, "SugarNaugthy" (sic). Had no conversation history, but thought perhaps I had talked to her before. Pics look familiar, like she may have been discussed here before. Seems like English is not her first language. Ring a bell with anyone?
https://members.seeking.com/member/ab0a4c6d-d596-4ce3-b1c1-455bee95db79
Just started chatting with this one, "SugarNaugthy" (sic). Had no conversation history, but thought perhaps I had talked to her before. Pics look familiar, like she may have been discussed here before. Seems like English is not her first language. Ring a bell with anyone?
https://members.seeking.com/member/ab0a4c6d-d596-4ce3-b1c1-455bee95db79My guess is there will be a sausage waiting for you under the dress.
TomFordModel
12-22-22, 18:19
My guess is there will be a sausage waiting for you under the dress.That's a big girl. If those are her best filtered pics I can't imagine how bad she looks in real life.
GuyInTheCorner
12-23-22, 09:40
Just started chatting with this one, "SugarNaugthy" (sic). Had no conversation history, but thought perhaps I had talked to her before. Pics look familiar, like she may have been discussed here before. Seems like English is not her first language. Ring a bell with anyone?
https://members.seeking.com/member/ab0a4c6d-d596-4ce3-b1c1-455bee95db79You are right, she's been around for a while. She is not young enough to warrant the price and crazy she brings to the table.
My guess is there will be a sausage waiting for you under the dress.Yeah, the pictures are a bit odd as TFM mentioned, and that jaw is a bit square. Something is off.
Yeah, the pictures are a bit odd as TFM mentioned, and that jaw is a bit square. Something is off.And it looks like his (Adam's Apple is airbrushed out.
She's not the girl in the pictures. Not really close. And she used pictures of a very hot woman, but she's still attractive. She uses her actual pictures on WYP.
Doesn't speak any English and used her phone to translate. That was kind of a pain. But she's sweet and friendly. The language barrier prevents me from further pursuit. I appreciate building a connection / casual relationship with a woman and seems really tough to do that here.
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/p3jnZ2Ge0WolzQy041YvKOqB
Thank you for the summary. On Soni below she is Latin I can confirm. She sent me selfies which look different than profile but close. But I agree that something is off and she is trying to get paid for the first meeting just to meet. Non starter, I will try to talk her into in person or no deal. Will report back.
Soni.
https://members.seeking.com/member/d7fb3c1f-cb1e-4d0d-b7ab-e6189df49e4f
Didn't think this profile was real. Definitely someone who doesn't speak English for their first language. Wanted 200 to have a platonic first meet. I passed.
Wants 500 for m&g.
Hey! I'm Celeste, nice to meet you. I want to Connect with someone who I can talk with, have fun and support. Connection is really important to me, looking for something long term but I'm open to possibilities. Honesty and respect are key.
Sure, we can have an initial meeting $500 not physical, see how we connect and take it from there. Lmk and I'll text you.
TomFordModel
12-24-22, 06:13
She's not the girl in the pictures. Not really close. And she used pictures of a very hot woman, but she's still attractive. She uses her actual pictures on WYP.
Doesn't speak any English and used her phone to translate. That was kind of a pain. But she's sweet and friendly. The language barrier prevents me from further pursuit. I appreciate building a connection / casual relationship with a woman and seems really tough to do that here.
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/p3jnZ2Ge0WolzQy041YvKOqBEven the fake pics are meh. I can't imagine how fugly she is.
SuckeredByaSB
12-24-22, 19:27
Do you guys get your SB presents? I normally hate spending anything more on these girls, but if you have a long term one at a below market allowance, I'm thinking a nice present (say 100-150% of a ppm amount) might be nice and a good investment to keep it going. Thoughts?
Good luck gents.
TomFordModel
12-24-22, 21:06
https://members.seeking.com/member/a19c88d0-2d5d-4c3c-be42-1f2c96af49b9
Any info on this one.
FederalHill
12-24-22, 22:33
Good lord. The endless scams on SA make this whole thing pretty tiring. Here's my most recent experiences. Just this week. Sorry most don't have links because they blocked me when I said no to their financial demands. Before even meeting. I do have two in rotation. So it's not a total loss.
Blocked. So no link:
StunningVenus "Happiness is Free" - Profile says Falls Church. But location says Vietnam. Serious red flag. We chat for a little while and then the money demands come. When I say no for the third time. She goes on a tirade. Cray cray.
Princess Cool "Good to Go" - She is moving here from Australia as a critical care nurse (yeah right) and can I help her figure out where to live. After some WhatsApp texting she want me to buy a baby blanket for $350 - but have it sent to me for when she gets here. No thank you. And then blocked.
CheekyMisses. A couple of twenty-somethings who work as a pair. Very flirty and sent some hot pictures on Kik and then the money requests start piling in. Once they knew I was not sending money. Blocked.
Chels3322 - I swapped a few good texts with her and I thought this might be a good fit. She sent a nice picture of her well endowed breasts and she is also quite pretty. Never got past that. She removed access to her photos and then went silent. Maybe one of you scooped her up. She seemed real.
https://members.seeking.com/member/bcf27775-79ba-4a51-83e1-5d65d73b410d
LovelyMissy. Had a good conversation going. Cute face. But a bigger girl. But thought her vibe was cool and sometimes the bigger girls are a lot of fun. Some solid flirting working up to a meet and greet and then ghost. No more responses.
https://members.seeking.com/member/687dc3b8-9800-441f-bbb9-0b41622bef4a
One last one who is gone from the SA site. But maybe some of you had interacted with her. Annie from Olney. Latina - We had a date set for this past Thursday. All good ahead of the date and then before I left. I sought confirmation and got nothing. So, I saved myself the trip. The next day she texted (no apology of course) and couldn't believe I was mad that she ghosted me. Soon after her profile went away.
I know some of you guys have a much better experience here. It is just a lot of work. Keep hoping for the diamond in the rough. Happy hunting guys and Happy Holidays.
FH.
DickLongwood
12-25-22, 02:00
Do you guys get your SB presents? I normally hate spending anything more on these girls, but if you have a long term one at a below market allowance, I'm thinking a nice present (say 100-150% of a ppm amount) might be nice and a good investment to keep it going. Thoughts?
Good luck gents.I have given modest Christmas gifts to about 3 SBs that I have seen fairly long term (several months to a few years), though not exclusively. I spend about 1/4 to 1/2 of the PPM allowance.
Do you guys get your SB presents? I normally hate spending anything more on these girls, but if you have a long term one at a below market allowance, I'm thinking a nice present (say 100-150% of a ppm amount) might be nice and a good investment to keep it going. Thoughts?
Good luck gents.I had my ATF SB in Wilmington, NC. She was gorgeous, 23 why o coed at UNCW, fitness bikini competitor. Because she stopped taking a PPM three months into our 2 1/2 year secret relationship, I bought her presents on the two B-Days & Christmases we were together. Probably an average of $200. Still the best sex of my like. Do it again in a heart beat. I helped her in other ways, other times. Work out gear, a tire once for her Mustang, books, some cash when she was a maid of honor to a GF. Still if I figured it all up, probably averaged $100,1-4 times a month for 2 1/2 years. 3-8 hours of all the fun I could handle, all BB, 7 months in introduced her to Greek, became her favorite playtime activity.
I really think it depends on the arrangement. If it just a FWB, PPM arrangement, I don't feel the need. I have one that is not exclusive. She got butt hurt I didn't make a big deal if her last two B-Days. I don't feel bad about it. It's a total different arrangement then Little Miss Wilmington. Like any Sugar relationship, think with your big head. If no feelings are involved, do what gets you the most MPG!
Roger that.
Dc / nova has a ton of scammers wanting prepayment, selling photos etc.
I found one girl from elite on SA LOL she was surprised I knew.
Good lord. The endless scams on SA make this whole thing pretty tiring. Here's my most recent experiences. Just this week. Sorry most don't have links because they blocked me when I said no to their financial demands. Before even meeting. I do have two in rotation. So it's not a total loss.
Blocked. So no link:
StunningVenus "Happiness is Free" - Profile says Falls Church. But location says Vietnam. Serious red flag. We chat for a little while and then the money demands come. When I say no for the third time. She goes on a tirade. Cray cray.
Princess Cool "Good to Go" - She is moving here from Australia as a critical care nurse (yeah right) and can I help her figure out where to live. After some WhatsApp texting she want me to buy a baby blanket for $350 - but have it sent to me for when she gets here. No thank you. And then blocked.
CheekyMisses. A couple of twenty-somethings who work as a pair. Very flirty and sent some hot pictures on Kik and then the money requests start piling in. Once they knew I was not sending money. Blocked.
Chels3322 - I swapped a few good texts with her and I thought this might be a good fit. She sent a nice picture of her well endowed breasts and she is also quite pretty. Never got past that. She removed access to her photos and then went silent. Maybe one of you scooped her up. She seemed real.
https://members.seeking.com/member/bcf27775-79ba-4a51-83e1-5d65d73b410d
LovelyMissy. Had a good conversation going. Cute face. But a bigger girl. But thought her vibe was cool and sometimes the bigger girls are a lot of fun. Some solid flirting working up to a meet and greet and then ghost. No more responses.
https://members.seeking.com/member/687dc3b8-9800-441f-bbb9-0b41622bef4a
One last one who is gone from the SA site. But maybe some of you had interacted with her. Annie from Olney. Latina - We had a date set for this past Thursday. All good ahead of the date and then before I left. I sought confirmation and got nothing. So, I saved myself the trip. The next day she texted (no apology of course) and couldn't believe I was mad that she ghosted me. Soon after her profile went away.
I know some of you guys have a much better experience here. It is just a lot of work. Keep hoping for the diamond in the rough. Happy hunting guys and Happy Holidays.
FH.
MarylandLiving17.
https://members.seeking.com/member/c14f67fa-73f9-4f91-814d-4544e94368af
I think she has been discussed before. Quoted me 1 k per meet. Pass.
Yea I reviewed her before. Paid the 1 k several times because I had no better options, and she was coming from Baltimore to see me. Ended up unsatisfied, she wouldn't stay that long, and although it was bare, she wasn't great at fucking and no anal. Told her could do 500, she ghosted me.
For many years I had about 5 sbs I would rotate. Each different flavor in terms of ethnicity, height, age. Each one slowly has left the harem though. One had a boyfriend / got married, one moved to Houston, one got pregnant, and one just blocked me out of nowhere. I still have one but she really annoys me.
For those thinking about a sb trip, read back on my posts to read about what a complete nightmare that was. The girl I took is the same one I still see hence why she annoys me LOL. Never ever going to travel with her again but she looks great so. She goes by Maya but that's not her real name but it is close to it for those that may have her in their rotation.
Anyways then I got blocked from SA out of nowhere, wasn't even using it. So it kept me off for a long time. It was time to return and I successfully navigated around the block. Thanks for those who helped with that on here.
Started off as it usually does, sending tons of messages and throwing out lines to see what bites. A lot of escorts on these days. Some reports below and apologize for no links but I can't access the site through my phone bc if the block. Overall this time around was successful but took awhile. I found myself settling and about to do meet ups with girls below standards. It's almost like the grind wears you down. Luckily I reset each time and reminded myself that I'm not on here for a basic sb. Looking for that diamond in the rough. Luckily I found one and met up at the FC. Beautiful 21 year old. She goes by Sophia and some of you are seeing her, or have been. One of you took her to Vegas and Cali. Anyways this 30 day membership is over and I'll have fun with her until I have the energy to look some more. Some reports.
"Prettyfreespirit97" - escort. Her escort name is Dani Marie. She blurs her escort ads but unblurred on SA. She is quite beautiful but her escort rate is 600 an hour. She is a good twitter follow.
"Bbyygigi" - pains me to throw this one to you all. We all have our good regulars that we hold back on reporting about and this was one of them for me. This one was my regular for a few years and she unexpectedly blocked me. I reached out to her a few different ways and blocked each time so its def on purpose. Also goes by Bbygia. Anyways met her when she was 19. Really innocent and youthful. Face is okay but she has a baby face and a petite body which was amazing. Didn't take the d very well at first but over the years she got much better. I don't really know why the block. I think towards the end I didn't spend alot of time trying to get her off. In the beginning I would make sure to do that but I just got lazy. She is a great lay bc of her youthfulness and cute personality.
Anyways. Until the next 30 day membership, see you all soon.It's so annoying that SA doesn't allow you to search by username.
SuckeredByaSB
12-25-22, 17:01
Yea I reviewed her before. Paid the 1 k several times because I had no better options, and she was coming from Baltimore to see me. Ended up unsatisfied, she wouldn't stay that long, and although it was bare, she wasn't great at fucking and no anal. Told her could do 500, she ghosted me.
It's so annoying that SA doesn't allow you to search by username.Jesus, why would you pay that skank $1 k??
Killing me and killing the market.
https://spark.adobe.com/page/aD7rrpEw2Z4aY/
Lexi is a great gal that has a great ass. She smelled and tasted fabulous. Chemistry was good, and she has a cute little accent.
BBBJ, but didn't try CIM.
5 $ 1 HR.
She lives further away but travels back here frequently for her clients. She also has an *.Wrong forum, this is for SB's, not escorts.
Jesus, why would you pay that skank $1 k??
Killing me and killing the market.Sorry you're poor?
JustLikeThe
12-25-22, 20:08
https://members.seeking.com/member/58122787-4d67-4fc9-8b3f-1618c676b584
They want funds for Platonic. Just 2 girls trying to pay off student loans. We also love beach days, shopping, & learning new things (:
Are there Dudes doing this or there are girls with this perception that this works?
BuffBill75
12-26-22, 08:43
Yea I reviewed her before. Paid the 1 k several times because I had no better options, and she was coming from Baltimore to see me. Ended up unsatisfied, she wouldn't stay that long, and although it was bare, she wasn't great at fucking and no anal. Told her could do 500, she ghosted me.
It's so annoying that SA doesn't allow you to search by username.Don't pay these girls a grand.
GuyInTheCorner
12-26-22, 08:53
Do you guys get your SB presents? I normally hate spending anything more on these girls, but if you have a long term one at a below market allowance, I'm thinking a nice present (say 100-150% of a ppm amount) might be nice and a good investment to keep it going. Thoughts?
Good luck gents.Yes, of course. Did it for my current SB. Also sent some holiday cheer to an occasional FWB who I know is a single mom with kids and who I keep warm. (Typically at this time of year I just try to find an excuse to see them and make sure the gift exchange is mutual but schedule was tight this December.).
This one went straight to text. Said she wants 1 k ppm and will not entertain less. Pass.
https://members.seeking.com/member/6fc194d8-e252-458d-b3de-09817406e10c
CaptMurphy
12-26-22, 12:51
IvanaGrand. You have to give her props for that name though LOL.
This one went straight to text. Said she wants 1 k ppm and will not entertain less. Pass.
https://members.seeking.com/member/6fc194d8-e252-458d-b3de-09817406e10c
Pics are accurate on WYP. Hot Colombian with minimal English. Ask for a gift on first meet only if there was mutual interest. Requested 800 ppm and can't host. Works only part time, so flexible schedule.
She's not the girl in the pictures. Not really close. And she used pictures of a very hot woman, but she's still attractive. She uses her actual pictures on WYP.
Doesn't speak any English and used her phone to translate. That was kind of a pain. But she's sweet and friendly. The language barrier prevents me from further pursuit. I appreciate building a connection / casual relationship with a woman and seems really tough to do that here.
https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/p3jnZ2Ge0WolzQy041YvKOqB
Do you guys get your SB presents? I normally hate spending anything more on these girls, but if you have a long term one at a below market allowance, I'm thinking a nice present (say 100-150% of a ppm amount) might be nice and a good investment to keep it going. Thoughts?
Good luck gents.Sent my top 2 amazon gift cards. 100 and 200. Went over well.
AnonDemon69
12-29-22, 01:20
New to this. Signed up to SA. Just wondering if you guys just plain ask if intimacy is included in the PPM or if you sorta just bring it up during the actual meeting. I assume these women are in this site knowing the drill, but some profiles and some of your reports are throwing me off.
SolRayode8
12-29-22, 11:25
Happy Holidays. I haven't been very active on SA so never had much to report. This one caught my eye, so I reached out to her and to be honest, I'm not sure what this was all about, but my experience with CheekyTemptress was a huge waste of time. https://members.seeking.com/member/5651c028-395c-49c5-94a9-591bdcaf5462.
Had a good conversation going on SA. She asked to move to Whatsapp pretty quickly (1st red flag); moved to Whatsapp where the approximately 2 week conversation was ok, except for the fact that most of her responses consisted of only 2-3 words (2nd red flag); she told me, "I am looking for an open arrangement where we have something on going and meeting for fun. " Said she couldn't host and agreed to come to me for $350. Two days before the scheduled meet, she asked, "Can you buy me weed?" I told her that I didn't smoke and wouldn't know how to go about it or how to get it to her. She ask me to cashapp her and she'd buy it herself (3rd red flag). I told her I didn't send money to anyone I'd not met. She said ok and said she was looking forward to us meeting. The day before our meet, I asked her to confirm that we were still getting together. She said "yes". The day of our meet, I asked if all was still good, she said "yes." I asked her to let me know if something came up, if she was going to be late or not be able to make it and she said "okay."
Of course, no show, no text, no message, no call.
Although I'm not out any money, I'll never get that time back. Her profile is still active, so be careful.
SuckeredByaSB
12-29-22, 14:05
That said, have any of you guys ever done the unthinkable? When you get the kind of arrangement where you are texting a few times a week and go out for dinner and drinks and not just F in the FC, slowly develop a friendship or connection, what do you do if you start to catch feelings? Or if you think they are catching feelings for you?
It's really the worst case scenario unless you can manipulate it to your advantage without letting anyone get hurt or have it affect your real life.
DoctorDoctor
12-29-22, 14:37
That said, have any of you guys ever done the unthinkable? When you get the kind of arrangement where you are texting a few times a week and go out for dinner and drinks and not just F in the FC, slowly develop a friendship or connection, what do you do if you start to catch feelings? Or if you think they are catching feelings for you?
It's really the worst case scenario unless you can manipulate it to your advantage without letting anyone get hurt or have it affect your real life.It depends. Could be a train wreck or the best thing that's happened.
You choose.
BTW, I meet a sugar that I ended up living with. It wasn't planned but works nicely for all.
TomFordModel
12-29-22, 15:29
That said, have any of you guys ever done the unthinkable? When you get the kind of arrangement where you are texting a few times a week and go out for dinner and drinks and not just F in the FC, slowly develop a friendship or connection, what do you do if you start to catch feelings? Or if you think they are catching feelings for you?
It's really the worst case scenario unless you can manipulate it to your advantage without letting anyone get hurt or have it affect your real life.Just fuck them out of your system and always remember you're paying for that piece of ass. They're not real. It's an infatuation.
Vamassage Fan
12-29-22, 16:18
New to this. Signed up to SA. Just wondering if you guys just plain ask if intimacy is included in the PPM or if you sorta just bring it up during the actual meeting. I assume these women are in this site knowing the drill, but some profiles and some of your reports are throwing me off.Nothing assured, sometimes they want to go straight to intimacy, but more often first meeting is in public, clothes and you chat, any intimacy waits till a subsequent occasion. If their is mutual attraction, sometimes spontaneous adjournment to a motel happens. Gift or no gift on first meeting also varies. Just know your limit and view it a a roll of the dice. Sometimes you win, sometimes you lose. But read profiles. Discretion, no strings attached, open to PPM are usually good clues.
I been seeing one of my SB for over a year. She been hinting about getting into a real relationship. I just keep telling her that if we are in a real relationship she would lose her allowance. That quiet her down a little. I recently got her pregnant, and thank the heavens she took care of that problem. She been clingy, and been pushing for more. She keeps saying that I'm the longest relationship she had. She even ask about me wifeing her up in the future. I just ignore her, and tell her I'm too old for her. She 21 years old and I'm 43 years old.
That said, have any of you guys ever done the unthinkable? When you get the kind of arrangement where you are texting a few times a week and go out for dinner and drinks and not just F in the FC, slowly develop a friendship or connection, what do you do if you start to catch feelings? Or if you think they are catching feelings for you?
It's really the worst case scenario unless you can manipulate it to your advantage without letting anyone get hurt or have it affect your real life.
DickLongwood
12-29-22, 17:48
Happy Holidays. I haven't been very active on SA so never had much to report. This one caught my eye, so I reached out to her and to be honest, I'm not sure what this was all about, but my experience with CheekyTemptress was a huge waste of time. https://members.seeking.com/member/5651c028-395c-49c5-94a9-591bdcaf5462.
Had a good conversation going on SA. She asked to move to Whatsapp pretty quickly (1st red flag); moved to Whatsapp where the approximately 2 week conversation was ok, except for the fact that most of her responses consisted of only 2-3 words (2nd red flag); she told me, "I am looking for an open arrangement where we have something on going and meeting for fun. " Said she couldn't host and agreed to come to me for $350. Two days before the scheduled meet, she asked, "Can you buy me weed?" I told her that I didn't smoke and wouldn't know how to go about it or how to get it to her. She ask me to cashapp her and she'd buy it herself (3rd red flag). I told her I didn't send money to anyone I'd not met. She said ok and said she was looking forward to us meeting. The day before our meet, I asked her to confirm that we were still getting together. She said "yes". The day of our meet, I asked if all was still good, she said "yes." I asked her to let me know if something came up, if she was going to be late or not be able to make it and she said "okay."
Of course, no show, no text, no message, no call.
Although I'm not out any money, I'll never get that time back. Her profile is still active, so be careful.I wouldn't bother with someone who has no verbiage in her profile. The photo is likely not her.
DickLongwood
12-29-22, 17:52
This hottie has had multiple profiles over the past few years. Pretty, huge breasts, nice skin. Has anyone actually met her?
https://members.seeking.com/member/ea0d43ea-f0f0-4bc5-9e25-0e1458843f9f#x.
This hottie has had multiple profiles over the past few years. Pretty, huge breasts, nice skin. Has anyone actually met her?
https://members.seeking.com/member/ea0d43ea-f0f0-4bc5-9e25-0e1458843f9f#x.I said 'Hello' to her on Seeking and she said "That all sounds great 😊 what kind of allowance are you offering".
I was turned off.
I said 'Hello' to her on Seeking and she said "That all sounds great 😊 what kind of allowance are you offering".
I was turned off.But any SB that responds with $ request without us even meeting to get acquainted is not worth my time and so I block them immediately. If all there simply in it for the $$.
I'm going to be sorely disappointed.
Also, I'm amazed at the SB asking for SD but are clear that the engagement will be strictly platonic w / no sex LOL. What SD in their right mind would contact them?
Anyways I'm new in past week and have 3 potential SBs that seem legit and cool and will report back.
New to this. Signed up to SA. Just wondering if you guys just plain ask if intimacy is included in the PPM or if you sorta just bring it up during the actual meeting. I assume these women are in this site knowing the drill, but some profiles and some of your reports are throwing me off.I know of more than one person who got banned from SA because they were a little too direct in their language about exchanging sex for money when messaging on SA. At some point I usually just move the conversation to text or have a platonic meet & greet (usually lunch) and discuss specifics about the ppm subject there.
LikesGirls
12-29-22, 20:15
Jesus, why would you pay that skank $1 k??
Killing me and killing the market.I don't think someone paying a girl $1 K PPM kills the market. It just means that girl is out of reach for some.
Kinda like some people buy $9 digital watches at Walmart, and some spend many (many, many) thousands on a Rolex or Breitling or whatever.
AnonDemon69
12-29-22, 20:56
I know of more than one person who got banned from SA because they were a little too direct in their language about exchanging sex for money when messaging on SA. At some point I usually just move the conversation to text or have a platonic meet & greet (usually lunch) and discuss specifics about the ppm subject there.Thanks. I didn't know that they monitor those messages. I will be careful.
Do some guys give an allowance and then also PPM? I think that is excessive. I've been reading in this forum that perhaps the dinner, entertainment, hotel, and PPM is enough to get some intimacy during a meeting, so no allowance needed. Or perhaps just an allowance but no PPM, maybe the allowance gets your more meets? Seems like the younger crowd is more open to this than the entitled later 20's or 30's.
Dimples572
12-29-22, 21:18
Thanks. I didn't know that they monitor those messages. I will be careful.
Do some guys give an allowance and then also PPM? I think that is excessive. I've been reading in this forum that perhaps the dinner, entertainment, hotel, and PPM is enough to get some intimacy during a meeting, so no allowance needed. Or perhaps just an allowance but no PPM, maybe the allowance gets your more meets? Seems like the younger crowd is more open to this than the entitled later 20's or 30's.LOL no. Just one or the other. I try to stay away from the ones seeking an allowance, at least initially upfront I try to sell them on a ppm arrangement and then if things are going well for a month or two we can discuss an allowance.
SuckeredByaSB
12-29-22, 23:51
I don't think someone paying a girl $1 K PPM kills the market. It just means that girl is out of reach for some.
Kinda like some people buy $9 digital watches at Walmart, and some spend many (many, many) thousands on a Rolex or Breitling or whatever.No, that's not the point. I've happily paid $5 k for Omegas and Breitlings. But I'm not paying $1 k for the Casio skank.
The market is the market.
https://members.seeking.com/member/acbc2512-c0ab-4746-8112-9051e8177fe9 BBB Again
https://members.seeking.com/member/9332f715-56ab-4718-bdd6-5bdd2d3afc60 elizxoxo
https://members.seeking.com/member/1ef81386-1f97-4f85-87bb-4ee93e5f0196 Dahlia Rose
https://members.seeking.com/member/3833e686-507b-4ffd-acbb-a5cbb2758e16 Bbyv
https://members.seeking.com/member/36fe1217-af78-48dc-b505-1865b7d2235a LittleRose
https://members.seeking.com/member/9fb2f2dd-7fdc-4eb7-ad66-05184036f473 Lanafitz93
https://members.seeking.com/member/a40ba1e5-622e-428f-ae6d-29ef488c817e FlirtyCutie
https://members.seeking.com/member/ce790153-b51e-4a09-b97b-f4a83a1e1ae0 ErikaEnvy
https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/101f277e-635a-4c60-9d89-43f72b01580f PersephoneSiren
Appreciate any heads up either via response or PM.
I been seeing one of my SB for over a year. She been hinting about getting into a real relationship. I just keep telling her that if we are in a real relationship she would lose her allowance. That quiet her down a little. I recently got her pregnant, and thank the heavens she took care of that problem. She been clingy, and been pushing for more. She keeps saying that I'm the longest relationship she had. She even ask about me wifeing her up in the future. I just ignore her, and tell her I'm too old for her. She 21 years old and I'm 43 years old.I'm in my 50's been seeing a 30 something MILF. All nomal boudaries dropped from the moment we met. That she told me last week that our anniversary is coming up, I suppose its a relationsip.
Pros: doesn't matter what I give her as long as I give her something. The sex is absolutely off the charts. Zero limits and insatiable. She's in DC me NY. The geography and us both having lives keeps it from being too frequent and this doesn't bother her. Always BB.
Cons: clingy. Tells me she misses me constantly. How she has not dropped the L word IDK. MILF Bod. Its good, but not a 20 something hard body.
GuyInTheCorner
12-30-22, 09:50
That said, have any of you guys ever done the unthinkable? When you get the kind of arrangement where you are texting a few times a week and go out for dinner and drinks and not just F in the FC, slowly develop a friendship or connection, what do you do if you start to catch feelings? Or if you think they are catching feelings for you?
It's really the worst case scenario unless you can manipulate it to your advantage without letting anyone get hurt or have it affect your real life.I've had a handful of experiences where real feelings developed. It can go poorly unless you have a solid head on your shoulders and communicate effectively.
First experience. Relatively early on in my sugaring days, met someone, we connected instantly, and she agreed we would not really have the sugar part. The lack of boundaries scared me a little and I was definitely more into her than I should have been. She moved away so it resolved itself. (Fun fact, her profile pic for a while was her holding a Plan B I bought her. Looking back, we should have had sugar from the get-go and had I been more in touch with my non-monogamous side I probably could have navigated that, because neither of us intended to be exclusive.
Second experience. About a year later, had an incredible ongoing arrangement with a lovely young woman. Sexual chemistry firing on all cylinders plus logistical convenience that led to regular meetings as much as 2-3 times a week. We genuinely connected on multiple levels and I found myself falling for her a bit. It seemed like she was doing the same. She moved in with her folks and that brought it to an end. Looking back, I think had I been able to communicate more directly and effectively, I could have resolved my concerns and kept the dynamic where it belonged. (Fun fact, she is back out on her own again and I still see her from time to time. It's fun but the magic of the original visits is gone.).
Third experience. Last year, hit it off with someone who was definitely falling for me. She wasn't consistently obsessive, and there was a d / s component to the dynamic so it was somewhat wrapped up in that, but it was clear she was over a line I did not want her to cross over. In her defense, the time together was pretty electric, but I most definitely did not not feel the same way. I cut it off, which was drama laden but that helped convince me it was for the best.
Fourth experience. Around the same time, also hit it off with another SB. She's very much my speed on multiple levels, and our chemistry is electric. She was somewhat experienced in poly life and also incredibly clear and communicative. Through our conversations and time together I broke through my own barriers on monogamy and got comfortable with the fact that a part of me really cared for her, and that she cared for me, and that did not undermine or take away from my feelings in my primary relationship. Again, communication has been essential in all of this. We've been together for over a year and it is by far the best arrangement I've had. One of the best relationships I've had. It is healthy and positive and supportive in all ways.
Moral of this story is that you absolutely can enjoy a mature and healthy relationship within a sugar context, but it takes time, chemistry, logistics, and communication.
Dimples572
12-30-22, 12:06
This one is expecting a ppm of 2 k. A ppm, not an allowance. LOL.
https://members.seeking.com/member/e23e4219-61d0-4869-9cd5-da9b7c0adf2c
Little further south but a few SBs tried to do what I call "dating". This ain't dating if you get payments but can give her the illusion if it make her feel like she's not an escort.
My buddy's top girl started to catch feelings and wanted to not charge, exchange full names, and go out. Had passion with her but never left the hotel. Had to decline because real dating is too much upkeep and had to keep the expectation what that was is physical only with passion of lovers.
Not here to hand out free meals or pay while making sure she is satisfied but willing to paint date or girlfriend illusion for feelings. She's paid to make the man's needs first, not paid for her to acknowledge you or make you jump through dating or waiting hoops.
Money and gifts off the table and we can date as equals but most want the money to flow and have multiple daddies they don't want to give up. Hooked on easy money but girl not charging and just going to SB site to find a good guy are dangerous/broken. Pay, play house, next.
The problem is girls minds are not designed for physical long term long term and some fools are actually using the site to exclusive date or find husbands. They want more and can risk getting upset if they don't get it. Had to cut it off before risk but was fun and hot! Just gotta be gentle to show them this ain't tender if paid.
If you are single go for it but you can't save a 304. Enjoy them, connect, treat them right, but don't fall in love long term. Too many risks and a good quality wife ain't a 2nd hand SB/escort. No hate and be nice, my buddy even had stronger bonds with SBs than girls actually dated but they are still arrangements not relationships. There is a reason these amazing girls are single or aren't already made wives.
Rudy Wellz
12-30-22, 18:22
I've had a handful of experiences where real feelings developed. It can go poorly unless you have a solid head on your shoulders and communicate effectively.
First experience. Relatively early on in my sugaring days, met someone, we connected instantly, and she agreed we would not really have the sugar part. The lack of boundaries scared me a little and I was definitely more into her than I should have been. She moved away so it resolved itself. (Fun fact, her profile pic for a while was her holding a Plan B I bought her. Looking back, we should have had sugar from the get-go and had I been more in touch with my non-monogamous side I probably could have navigated that, because neither of us intended to be exclusive.
Second experience. About a year later, had an incredible ongoing arrangement with a lovely young woman. Sexual chemistry firing on all cylinders plus logistical convenience that led to regular meetings as much as 2-3 times a week. We genuinely connected on multiple levels and I found myself falling for her a bit. It seemed like she was doing the same. She moved in with her folks and that brought it to an end. Looking back, I think had I been able to communicate more directly and effectively, I could have resolved my concerns and kept the dynamic where it belonged. (Fun fact, she is back out on her own again and I still see her from time to time. It's fun but the magic of the original visits is gone.).
Third experience. Last year, hit it off with someone who was definitely falling for me. She wasn't consistently obsessive, and there was a d / s component to the dynamic so it was somewhat wrapped up in that, but it was clear she was over a line I did not want her to cross over. In her defense, the time together was pretty electric, but I most definitely did not not feel the same way. I cut it off, which was drama laden but that helped convince me it was for the best.
Fourth experience. Around the same time, also hit it off with another SB. She's very much my speed on multiple levels, and our chemistry is electric. She was somewhat experienced in poly life and also incredibly clear and communicative. Through our conversations and time together I broke through my own barriers on monogamy and got comfortable with the fact that a part of me really cared for her, and that she cared for me, and that did not undermine or take away from my feelings in my primary relationship. Again, communication has been essential in all of this. We've been together for over a year and it is by far the best arrangement I've had. One of the best relationships I've had. It is healthy and positive and supportive in all ways.
Moral of this story is that you absolutely can enjoy a mature and healthy relationship within a sugar context, but it takes time, chemistry, logistics, and communication.Great post. Congratulations on Fourth experience and your great sugar relationship.
I have 2 experiences.
Young, smart and sexy SB but not much you can do with an anthropology degree. Trying to find herself and we connected and had a 2 year arrangement. She offered me essentially unlimited access in exchange for paying her half of the rent. The math absolutely worked in my favor. Unfortunately, with increased frequency, the chemistry decreased and the novelty wore off. As a married man, didn't need any additional relationship expectations or obligations. Ended the relationship and she moved out of the country.
Fast forward to my Covid SB. When everything was shut down we spent an incredible amount of time together. She had her own place, gave me a key and we really grew close. She was my #1 SB, but she wanted me to become her boyfriend'ish. After about 18 months, she suggested that we stop the PPM and that I just help her out occasionally with funds. That lasted about 2 months. Then the expectations for my time increased. When I couldn't make a dinner with her best friend from out of town, she absolutely lost it. Then cried when we met to talk about it. That was the last time that I saw her. Had to cut it off.
Rudy Wellz
12-30-22, 18:32
LOL no. Just one or the other. I try to stay away from the ones seeking an allowance, at least initially upfront I try to sell them on a ppm arrangement and then if things are going well for a month or two we can discuss an allowance.Allowances create expectations. SD: I'm paying you $X, so I want to see you why times, especially next weekend. SB: SD is paying me $X, I don't feel like seeing him this week, but he's requesting and I don't want to upset him. Whereas PPM means I want to see you and you want to see me, so let's do it. I get the SB's that want an allowance. I would too. PPM are more transactional and some SB's equate that with sex work.
I will not entertain any conversations of an allowance. PPM or next!
So I'm just guessing this might be a violation of TOS on seeking. But may also explain why some of this shit lately seems a bit odd in the chats. Apparently somebody is trying to monetize a SD screening service.
Rudy Wellz
12-30-22, 18:57
New to this. Signed up to SA. Just wondering if you guys just plain ask if intimacy is included in the PPM or if you sorta just bring it up during the actual meeting. I assume these women are in this site knowing the drill, but some profiles and some of your reports are throwing me off.Welcome to the Sugar Bowl. It is phenomenal. This is what has worked for me over the past 8 years. Others likely have different advice based on what worked for them. Full disclosure, 55, married, great shape, 5'8", balding, impeccable dresser, extrovert, smart and have "Game".
-Make contact on Seeking and get them off that platform and to text. You can say things on text that will get you banned on Seeking.
-Never send money in advance to any SB that you are not in an arrangement with. Never.
-Never pay for a M&G (meet and greet). If they insist for money to meet, politely decline and move on.
-Meet in public and set up the expectation for arrangement dates=sex=payment. Occasionally the first M&G will become the first BCD's meeting, so always be prepared, but don't expect or push for it.
-You have the $$, therefore negotiate from a position of strength. This is my formula and if the SB doesn't fit, the next one will. I do PPM $400-500. I only play in Arlington / Tysons (occasionally Alexandria) and have had SB's drive to me from MoCo, PG, Lorton, Manassas, and Ashburn. My sweet spot is late afternoon and weekends. Connected with a beautiful young Columbian with a banging body, but she worked 9-5 pm and spent weekends with her family. Didn't work for me.
-No matter how hot the SB is, You will be happiest sticking to a formula that works for you.
Good Luck.
That is spot on accurate. That's how I operated also.
Warning. Don't cross the emotional boundary, especially if married. It's a deep dark hole.
Welcome to the Sugar Bowl. It is phenomenal. This is what has worked for me over the past 8 years. Others likely have different advice based on what worked for them. Full disclosure, 55, married, great shape, 5'8", balding, impeccable dresser, extrovert, smart and have "Game".
-Make contact on Seeking and get them off that platform and to text. You can say things on text that will get you banned on Seeking.
-Never send money in advance to any SB that you are not in an arrangement with. Never.
-Never pay for a M&G (meet and greet). If they insist for money to meet, politely decline and move on.
-Meet in public and set up the expectation for arrangement dates=sex=payment. Occasionally the first M&G will become the first BCD's meeting, so always be prepared, but don't expect or push for it.
-You have the $$, therefore negotiate from a position of strength. This is my formula and if the SB doesn't fit, the next one will. I do PPM $400-500. I only play in Arlington / Tysons (occasionally Alexandria) and have had SB's drive to me from MoCo, PG, Lorton, Manassas, and Ashburn. My sweet spot is late afternoon and weekends. Connected with a beautiful young Columbian with a banging body, but she worked 9-5 pm and spent weekends with her family. Didn't work for me.
-No matter how hot the SB is, You will be happiest sticking to a formula that works for you.
Good Luck.
Dimples572
12-30-22, 22:54
Nice chick, seemed cool and I'm pretty sure she's real. Sent me a pic with my name on it (could've been fake, who knows) but was adamant about sending half up front. Wouldn't budge and neither would I so we ended at a stalemate.
https://members.seeking.com/member/e0ed9c33-e04b-43c6-bf4f-4ed752af8f85
AnonDemon69
12-31-22, 01:15
Welcome to the Sugar Bowl. It is phenomenal. This is what has worked for me over the past 8 years. Others likely have different advice based on what worked for them. Full disclosure, 55, married, great shape, 5'8", balding, impeccable dresser, extrovert, smart and have "Game".
-Make contact on Seeking and get them off that platform and to text. You can say things on text that will get you banned on Seeking.
-Never send money in advance to any SB that you are not in an arrangement with. Never.
-Never pay for a M&G (meet and greet). If they insist for money to meet, politely decline and move on.
-Meet in public and set up the expectation for arrangement dates=sex=payment. Occasionally the first M&G will become the first BCD's meeting, so always be prepared, but don't expect or push for it.
-You have the $$, therefore negotiate from a position of strength. This is my formula and if the SB doesn't fit, the next one will. I do PPM $400-500. I only play in Arlington / Tysons (occasionally Alexandria) and have had SB's drive to me from MoCo, PG, Lorton, Manassas, and Ashburn. My sweet spot is late afternoon and weekends. Connected with a beautiful young Columbian with a banging body, but she worked 9-5 pm and spent weekends with her family. Didn't work for me.
-No matter how hot the SB is, You will be happiest sticking to a formula that works for you.
Good Luck.Thank you for the response. It's exactly how I was thinking of operating. I am getting bombarded with messages, which is expected and shows how much in control we are in this arrangement. In other apps, the girls are the ones in control. There are also a few that are from way out of town, seems like they are fishing for online arrangements or a trip, I am just going to assume that I should stay from that. I have connected with someone that wants to meet next week, will let you guys know how it goes. She has already implied in PPM if I like her, perhaps during the same meeting.
ProCatHunter
12-31-22, 10:19
I've been in the bowl for over a decade. Have a few SBs who I've been seeing for years now. SBs who have been in rotation for years are more than friends, but less than an SO.
Hard to not have an emotional connection with someone you've been banging for months or years.
The trick is to figure out which of the girls are stage 5 clingers and cut them early, and which ones have the capacity to understand boundaries. The latter are extremely hard to find, but worth keeping around.
And of course there are plenty of men who will also confuse the chemical release that comes when you meet a PYT for the first time and hit it off with her; and believe that they are in love. Once you bang enough of them, its easier to compartmentalize your sugar life with your real one.
Finally, if you're playing in the bowl because you hate your SO or real life, then the issue isn't that you've allowed yourself to become emotionally attached to your SB, it's that you're looking for an escape from your real life.
That is spot on accurate. That's how I operated also.
Warning. Don't cross the emotional boundary, especially if married. It's a deep dark hole.
I've been in the bowl for over a decade. Have a few SBs who I've been seeing for years now. SBs who have been in rotation for years are more than friends, but less than an SO.
Hard to not have an emotional connection with someone you've been banging for months or years.
The trick is to figure out which of the girls are stage 5 clingers and cut them early, and which ones have the capacity to understand boundaries. The latter are extremely hard to find, but worth keeping around.
And of course there are plenty of men who will also confuse the chemical release that comes when you meet a PYT for the first time and hit it off with her; and believe that they are in love. Once you bang enough of them, its easier to compartmentalize your sugar life with your real one.
Finally, if you're playing in the bowl because you hate your SO or real life, then the issue isn't that you've allowed yourself to become emotionally attached to your SB, it's that you're looking for an escape from your real life.I had one SB that I would've definitely wifed up. I don't even care how we met or who else she was with LOL. It's only happened once tho.
This one looks familiar, I feel like she was reviewed in the past and maybe this is a new profile. Anyone recognize or remember what was said about her? https://members.seeking.com/member/ddf59528-5d06-4a9d-9aa2-dc35fb6c1dd6.
ChiefQueef
01-01-23, 12:45
What's up with this one?
https://members.seeking.com/member/02d74a85-66c0-4af4-ad65-98ea3f5b3014
I've seen her / him / it create over 5 profiles in a month or so. Any of you gents dealing with her? Clearly sus, but I'm just curious if she is real and has been dealt with before.
What's up with this one?
https://members.seeking.com/member/02d74a85-66c0-4af4-ad65-98ea3f5b3014
I've seen her / him / it create over 5 profiles in a month or so. Any of you gents dealing with her? Clearly sus, but I'm just curious if she is real and has been dealt with before.Real or not, just based on the profile, it would be a hard pass for me. I don't like dealing with entitled SBs.
CuriousVaMan
01-01-23, 13:54
Yea, I don't know if she's real. I;'m in contact with her via text. Wanted to meetup that night, sent some nudes pics, then comms went sporadic.
This one looks familiar, I feel like she was reviewed in the past and maybe this is a new profile. Anyone recognize or remember what was said about her? https://members.seeking.com/member/ddf59528-5d06-4a9d-9aa2-dc35fb6c1dd6.
DasHottCalla
01-01-23, 17:37
What's up with this one?
https://members.seeking.com/member/02d74a85-66c0-4af4-ad65-98ea3f5b3014
I've seen her / him / it create over 5 profiles in a month or so. Any of you gents dealing with her? Clearly sus, but I'm just curious if she is real and has been dealt with before.Texted this one on her older page. She wanted to be paid for the meet and greet. I refused, so we didn't meet.
DasHottCalla
01-01-23, 17:47
What's up with this one?
https://members.seeking.com/member/02d74a85-66c0-4af4-ad65-98ea3f5b3014
I've seen her / him / it create over 5 profiles in a month or so. Any of you gents dealing with her? Clearly sus, but I'm just curious if she is real and has been dealt with before.Texted this one on her older page. She wanted to be paid for the meet and greet. I refused, so we didn't meet.
Search the forum for "LifeofLexi" and you will see some results. I messaged with her a couple years ago and she was underage at the time so I ended communication immediately. I would imagine she is 18-19 now but who knows.
https://members.seeking.com/member/ddf59528-5d06-4a9d-9aa2-dc35fb6c1dd6
This one looks familiar, I feel like she was reviewed in the past and maybe this is a new profile. Anyone recognize or remember what was said about her? https://members.seeking.com/member/ddf59528-5d06-4a9d-9aa2-dc35fb6c1dd6.
She has been off and on the site for a long time now. I met her for lunch a couple years ago. Very pretty and epic all natural tits but we didn't hit it off and she is apparently looking for a "good connection".
https://members.seeking.com/member/ea0d43ea-f0f0-4bc5-9e25-0e1458843f9f?_cf_ref=aHR0cDovL3d3dy51c2FzZXhndWlkZS5ubC8%3D
This hottie has had multiple profiles over the past few years. Pretty, huge breasts, nice skin. Has anyone actually met her?
https://members.seeking.com/member/ea0d43ea-f0f0-4bc5-9e25-0e1458843f9f#x.
https://members.seeking.com/member/2bb5dd79-a0c1-49a4-bc3a-b3fb0bb2112c
29 yo very average looking *****. Probably lying about age, looks like she's mid 30's. Messaged her 4 months ago even though she lives up in PA because I had no local options that were consistent. Figured I could score a good deal, maybe 200-300 since she lives in bumfuck PA. She finally responds 4 months later, and I bring up 300 allowance for a dinner date. She says:
"300 is not going to work for me. LOL Iv only done 600. I'm no drama. I'm down to earth and fun. 300 won't do. ".
This hottie has had multiple profiles over the past few years. Pretty, huge breasts, nice skin. Has anyone actually met her?
https://members.seeking.com/member/ea0d43ea-f0f0-4bc5-9e25-0e1458843f9f#x.Fucked her a couple years ago. Met platonic for lunch first, then the second meet was straight to the hotel. Absolutely epic tits.
https://members.seeking.com/member/2bb5dd79-a0c1-49a4-bc3a-b3fb0bb2112c
29 yo very average looking *****. Probably lying about age, looks like she's mid 30's. Messaged her 4 months ago even though she lives up in PA because I had no local options that were consistent. Figured I could score a good deal, maybe 200-300 since she lives in bumfuck PA. She finally responds 4 months later, and I bring up 300 allowance for a dinner date. She says:
"300 is not going to work for me. LOL Iv only done 600. I'm no drama. I'm down to earth and fun. 300 won't do. ".Sounds like she's read one too many SB Reddit posts. Those women are all delusional.
Looks like she has since become willing to compromise on that good connection:
https://tryst.link/escort/veronicaivy
She has been off and on the site for a long time now. I met her for lunch a couple years ago. Very pretty and epic all natural tits but we didn't hit it off and she is apparently looking for a "good connection".
https://members.seeking.com/member/ea0d43ea-f0f0-4bc5-9e25-0e1458843f9f?_cf_ref=aHR0cDovL3d3dy51c2FzZXhndWlkZS5ubC8%3D
LOL that's amazing. I might consider reaching out again as I love big tits. Not sure if I'll do through seeking or tryst.
https://members.seeking.com/member/ea0d43ea-f0f0-4bc5-9e25-0e1458843f9f#x.
Looks like she has since become willing to compromise on that good connection:
https://tryst.link/escort/veronicaivy
ChiefQueef
01-02-23, 11:09
Texted this one on her older page. She wanted to be paid for the meet and greet. I refused, so we didn't meet.Thanks for confirmation.
https://members.seeking.com/member/2bb5dd79-a0c1-49a4-bc3a-b3fb0bb2112c
29 yo very average looking *****. Probably lying about age, looks like she's mid 30's. Messaged her 4 months ago even though she lives up in PA because I had no local options that were consistent. Figured I could score a good deal, maybe 200-300 since she lives in bumfuck PA. She finally responds 4 months later, and I bring up 300 allowance for a dinner date. She says:
"300 is not going to work for me. LOL Iv only done 600. I'm no drama. I'm down to earth and fun. 300 won't do..I used to live in PA and saw her a couple times years ago. She was 300-400 back then and was able to host at her apartment. Has a kid so her schedule was difficult to coordinate with so stopped seeing her. She is average looking and average body (used to be heavier especially post giving birth but has slimmed down but body is not that great). Lots of us on the Harrisburg, PA forum have seen her so she's getting borderline semi-pro / high volume now.
Guys, I just signed up last week and wanted to share my first week. All the prior tips and comments on this forum helped greatly so thanks in advance. It was tough weeding through many of the scams / fakes but here are my first three meetups. I have 3 others scheduled for this week and next:
1- Ellis (Rockville, Md) - she's a 37 year old Persian MILF (7. 5 looks in person). She's married but her husband only likes to be intimate once a month. We met at hotel for first meet per her request after she was comfortable with our SA exchanges. She's a sexual freak and it was phenomenal. She can take a pounding and was very tight. BBBJ was only ok though and no cim. But everything else is on table but covered of course. Only issue with her is that husband works from home so she can only really get out of house for 2-3 hrs max and only few days during week as she tells him she's out to meet client for her part time real estate gig. (400 ppm).
2 - EndearingDuchess (Centreville, Va) - she's a young 20 Chinese recent grad. Face was 6 in person and 400 ppm. I usually pass if not at least a 7 in looks bc I'm visual person but I decided to give it a try. Technically lives by herself in Manassas apt. Was willing to host for our first meet after she became comfortable with out text exchanges. One of the tightest I've been with and she was able to take pounding for almost 2 hrs with few breaks. Her BBBJ (no cim) was decent but only after I was able to train her to apply more pressure and suction LOL.
I came 4 times LOL and afterwards she said she said that next time 4 in 2 hrs will have to go up to 600 ppm. I'll prob pass bc she needs to look better if I'm shelling out more.
3- EducatedAphrodite (Washington DC) 25 year old Filipina very cute (8 in looks in person) Lives in Rockville. She just started this last week too and I was her first M&G. She's very careful and wants platonic interview M&G first before actual intimate session. So we met for lunch today at her request. Lunch was great and I thought we hit it off real well. After lunch she texted me to let her know when I'm avail for next actual PPM meet and what I'd be willing to offer. I responded that for first intimate session 400 so that I can see if we really connect. She responded that she was already offered 1200 PPm and my 400 wouldn't do it. As cute as she looked, no ppm is worth 1200 especially for yours truly who only makes 250 k / yr. I'll pass but if one of you millionaires takes one for the team and tries her out and reports back that she was amazing maybe I'll treat myself on my bday LOL.
BobDingle10
01-02-23, 21:21
https://members.seeking.com/member/270b822a-b790-41a1-ad50-587b9d5163a2
In talks with this one. Wondering if any info is out there? Feel free to pm.
Chatted with her too on and off. She travels to another state for a few months at a time so think she gives up on the SA stuff then tries to set something up when back. She randomly messaged me too a week or two ago that she would be back in town mid January probably checking all her old messages. Quoted 600, but pretty sure she'll meet for less.
https://members.seeking.com/member/2bb5dd79-a0c1-49a4-bc3a-b3fb0bb2112c
29 yo very average looking *****. Probably lying about age, looks like she's mid 30's. Messaged her 4 months ago even though she lives up in PA because I had no local options that were consistent. Figured I could score a good deal, maybe 200-300 since she lives in bumfuck PA. She finally responds 4 months later, and I bring up 300 allowance for a dinner date. She says:
"300 is not going to work for me. LOL Iv only done 600. I'm no drama. I'm down to earth and fun. 300 won't do. ".
AnonDemon69
01-03-23, 09:15
That is spot on accurate. That's how I operated also.
Warning. Don't cross the emotional boundary, especially if married. It's a deep dark hole.How are you guys dealing with the ones that say they only want "platonic" relationships. I really like college girls and most of the ones I've seen on the site keep saying they want platonic.
I have also had same really high quotes. I have read that some still meet up and then during dinner low ball them. These were older posts though. Any advice? My budget is exactly like half of what they quote.
SuckeredByaSB
01-03-23, 09:37
I've never felt comfortable doing that in normal relationships, but do you guys like to talk dirty to your SBs? Call them a dirty **** *****? Whatever LOL.
Do you think a long-term SB would get off on that or be offended?
I've never felt comfortable doing that in normal relationships, but do you guys like to talk dirty to your SBs? Call them a dirty **** *****? Whatever LOL.
Do you think a long-term SB would get off on that or be offended?Dude. SB or not. Some chicks dig it, others don't. It has nothing to do with a girl being a SB or a traditional GF.
AnonDemon69
01-03-23, 09:48
Any intel on these?
https://members.seeking.com/member/32fe6fa9-d340-484f-a4b0-6fb9d592e743
https://members.seeking.com/member/fa95a8d5-5c0f-4b7d-a733-cb7f22da9977
https://members.seeking.com/member/ce409596-ebeb-4618-b862-4277f7cc2d00
https://members.seeking.com/member/6aed1a80-2252-46a2-b139-6b279a66d4fe
Couldn't find anything by searching the thread with their usernames. Much appreciated.
Guys, I just signed up last week and wanted to share my first week....She responded that she was already offered 1200 PPm and my 400 wouldn't do it. You'll figure this out soon enough, the longer you hang around. No one is giving an 8 in appearance 1200 PPM. Tons of great advice here, but do your research and understand the angles these women work in order to extract as much of your cash as possible. By saying "my last arrangement was blah blah blah" or "I've been offered blah blah blah" she's trying to do two things.
First, she's trying to convince you she's worth the value she's assigned TO HERSELF. Regardless of how good someone looks, 1200 PPM is Very, Very rare. For an 8. It's not happening. So again, she's convinced herself of her value and projects it by saying she's been offered that much, in an effort to convince you of same. It's like selling a used car on CL. You ask 5 k, someone offers you 4 k. You tell them you've been offered 4. 7 k as a negotiation technique, to justify the asking price. Same thing with SBs.
Second, she's trying to trigger the macho "big dick" syndrome. You showing her that you have a fat wallet and you tuck it in your sock. "If the other guy can pay it, so can I" sort of thing. As if how much money one monger has is somehow a reflection of your manhood (or lack thereof) if you don't have as much.
Bottom line. When a girls says some BS like that, just give her an "LOL, better jump on that offer quick. Good luck!" and move on.
FederalHill
01-03-23, 11:20
Any intel on these?
https://members.seeking.com/member/32fe6fa9-d340-484f-a4b0-6fb9d592e743
https://members.seeking.com/member/fa95a8d5-5c0f-4b7d-a733-cb7f22da9977
https://members.seeking.com/member/ce409596-ebeb-4618-b862-4277f7cc2d00
https://members.seeking.com/member/6aed1a80-2252-46a2-b139-6b279a66d4fe
Couldn't find anything by searching the thread with their usernames. Much appreciated.Swapped a couple of notes with YourBae. She wanted to go to text. We connected on text with one message and she was gone. She is either super-flaky or got scooped up before we connected.
FederalHill
01-03-23, 11:25
Guys, I just signed up last week and wanted to share my first week. All the prior tips and comments on this forum helped greatly so thanks in advance. It was tough weeding through many of the scams / fakes but here are my first three meetups. I have 3 others scheduled for this week and next:
1- Ellis (Rockville, Md) - she's a 37 year old Persian MILF (7. 5 looks in person). She's married but her husband only likes to be intimate once a month. We met at hotel for first meet per her request after she was comfortable with our SA exchanges. She's a sexual freak and it was phenomenal. She can take a pounding and was very tight. BBBJ was only ok though and no cim. But everything else is on table but covered of course. Only issue with her is that husband works from home so she can only really get out of house for 2-3 hrs max and only few days during week as she tells him she's out to meet client for her part time real estate gig. (400 ppm).
2 - EndearingDuchess (Centreville, Va) - she's a young 20 Chinese recent grad. Face was 6 in person and 400 ppm. I usually pass if not at least a 7 in looks bc I'm visual person but I decided to give it a try. Technically lives by herself in Manassas apt. Was willing to host for our first meet after she became comfortable with out text exchanges. One of the tightest I've been with and she was able to take pounding for almost 2 hrs with few breaks. Her BBBJ (no cim) was decent but only after I was able to train her to apply more pressure and suction LOL.
I came 4 times LOL and afterwards she said she said that next time 4 in 2 hrs will have to go up to 600 ppm. I'll prob pass bc she needs to look better if I'm shelling out more.
3- EducatedAphrodite (Washington DC) 25 year old Filipina very cute (8 in looks in person) Lives in Rockville. She just started this last week too and I was her first M&G. She's very careful and wants platonic interview M&G first before actual intimate session. So we met for lunch today at her request. Lunch was great and I thought we hit it off real well. After lunch she texted me to let her know when I'm avail for next actual PPM meet and what I'd be willing to offer. I responded that for first intimate session 400 so that I can see if we really connect. She responded that she was already offered 1200 PPm and my 400 wouldn't do it. As cute as she looked, no ppm is worth 1200 especially for yours truly who only makes 250 k / yr. I'll pass but if one of you millionaires takes one for the team and tries her out and reports back that she was amazing maybe I'll treat myself on my bday LOL.Thanks for this detailed update. I would say 66% is pretty good for the first week. FH.
I've never felt comfortable doing that in normal relationships, but do you guys like to talk dirty to your SBs? Call them a dirty **** *****? Whatever LOL.
Do you think a long-term SB would get off on that or be offended?Some like it. Always good to ask them if they have any kinks, like dirty talk, etc. I have two that love being degraded in the bedroom.
SuckeredByaSB
01-03-23, 11:53
Dude. SB or not. Some chicks dig it, others don't. It has nothing to do with a girl being a SB or a traditional GF.I guess my thinking is that a SB, because they are being paid for sex, is more likely to have that kink.
I'll try it.
CruisingXX
01-03-23, 12:18
Thank you for the response. It's exactly how I was thinking of operating. I am getting bombarded with messages, which is expected and shows how much in control we are in this arrangement. In other apps, the girls are the ones in control. There are also a few that are from way out of town, seems like they are fishing for online arrangements or a trip, I am just going to assume that I should stay from that. I have connected with someone that wants to meet next week, will let you guys know how it goes. She has already implied in PPM if I like her, perhaps during the same meeting.Thank you for the message, your rules of the road are spot on, I agree with staying in the 400-500 range. Thanks.
JustLikeThe
01-03-23, 16:07
Thanks for this detailed update. I would say 66% is pretty good for the first week. FH.Met her a few months back.
Go's.
- not a scam, but her profile pic is old, add another 10 yrs.
- right into the act after you meet.
- likes sex and loud.
- can do multiple rounds quickly YMMV.
No go's.
- not into kissing that much.
- pussy fucking stinks, you know what I mean.
- saggy boobs and average body relative to 400 gift.
- definitely wants volume if she can get it to take in the money.
- Persian ghetto and short visit if you want to meet in northern Virginia.
She might me right or a no go depending on the above as it's different strokes for everyone. There is so much girls out there with the same price range, college, etc. I don't want the stink LOL!
Met her a few months back.
Go's.
- not a scam, but her profile pic is old, add another 10 yrs.
- right into the act after you meet.
- likes sex and loud.
- can do multiple rounds quickly YMMV.
No go's.
- not into kissing that much.
- pussy fucking stinks, you know what I mean.
- saggy boobs and average body relative to 400 gift.
- definitely wants volume if she can get it to take in the money.
- Persian ghetto and short visit if you want to meet in northern Virginia.
She might me right or a no go depending on the above as it's different strokes for everyone. There is so much girls out there with the same price range, college, etc. I don't want the stink LOL!Bro, you lost me at stinky poon. No matter the price, or even if they're paying me; not down with rotten crotch.
CuriousVaMan
01-04-23, 02:03
EndearingDuchess is high volume and has been extensively reviewed here. She was 26 when I saw her lover a year ago (apparently, she's 20 now, go figure) and has been described as having a "thousand yard" stare. She's still a good lay though.
Guys, I just signed up last week and wanted to share my first week. All the prior tips and comments on this forum helped greatly so thanks in advance. It was tough weeding through many of the scams / fakes but here are my first three meetups. I have 3 others scheduled for this week and next:
1- Ellis (Rockville, Md) - she's a 37 year old Persian MILF (7. 5 looks in person). She's married but her husband only likes to be intimate once a month. We met at hotel for first meet per her request after she was comfortable with our SA exchanges. She's a sexual freak and it was phenomenal. She can take a pounding and was very tight. BBBJ was only ok though and no cim. But everything else is on table but covered of course. Only issue with her is that husband works from home so she can only really get out of house for 2-3 hrs max and only few days during week as she tells him she's out to meet client for her part time real estate gig. (400 ppm).
2 - EndearingDuchess (Centreville, Va) - she's a young 20 Chinese recent grad. Face was 6 in person and 400 ppm. I usually pass if not at least a 7 in looks bc I'm visual person but I decided to give it a try. Technically lives by herself in Manassas apt. Was willing to host for our first meet after she became comfortable with out text exchanges. One of the tightest I've been with and she was able to take pounding for almost 2 hrs with few breaks. Her BBBJ (no cim) was decent but only after I was able to train her to apply more pressure and suction LOL.
I came 4 times LOL and afterwards she said she said that next time 4 in 2 hrs will have to go up to 600 ppm. I'll prob pass bc she needs to look better if I'm shelling out more.
3- EducatedAphrodite (Washington DC) 25 year old Filipina very cute (8 in looks in person) Lives in Rockville. She just started this last week too and I was her first M&G. She's very careful and wants platonic interview M&G first before actual intimate session. So we met for lunch today at her request. Lunch was great and I thought we hit it off real well. After lunch she texted me to let her know when I'm avail for next actual PPM meet and what I'd be willing to offer. I responded that for first intimate session 400 so that I can see if we really connect. She responded that she was already offered 1200 PPm and my 400 wouldn't do it. As cute as she looked, no ppm is worth 1200 especially for yours truly who only makes 250 k / yr. I'll pass but if one of you millionaires takes one for the team and tries her out and reports back that she was amazing maybe I'll treat myself on my bday LOL.
RyanHarvey
01-04-23, 08:40
Has anyone seen this one? Her username is a default one and she's listed as Middle Eastern so she scratches my itch. Was wondering if anyone has talked to her.
Pluses.
- again not a scam, she updated her pics so they're more representative but smoothed / whatever the tech is they all use.
- can do multiple rounds quickly.
- pleaser. Will do as requested.
- is going semi-pro, knows to limit sessions (4 hr one probably taught her this) and covered.
Minuses.
- not into kissing that much.
- 1000 yard stare / won't look into your eyes much (improved as time went on but still).
To be accurate, her boobs aren't sagging they're just shaped that way and its not atypical in Asian women that I've seen (think more banana tits w. Large nips). She's average Asian women's body. No stank on the poon when she saw me, think she's learning / adjusting or got her on a bad night. Again, like previous poster, she might me right or a no go depending on the above as it's different strokes for different folks. Lots of different flavors out there. If you want an Asian almost spinner and don't mind some disengagement /1000 yard stare. She'd be up your alley. Good luck all.
Dimples572
01-04-23, 13:36
Looking for 1 k ppm at a minimum lmao.
https://members.seeking.com/member/23248a2d-2293-4c69-86e3-9013a1d3b232
SuckeredByaSB
01-04-23, 15:14
Pluses.
- again not a scam, she updated her pics so they're more representative but smoothed / whatever the tech is they all use.
- can do multiple rounds quickly.
- pleaser. Will do as requested.
- is going semi-pro, knows to limit sessions (4 hr one probably taught her this) and covered.
Minuses.
- not into kissing that much.
- 1000 yard stare / won't look into your eyes much (improved as time went on but still).
To be accurate, her boobs aren't sagging they're just shaped that way and its not atypical in Asian women that I've seen (think more banana tits w. Large nips). She's average Asian women's body. No stank on the poon when she saw me, think she's learning / adjusting or got her on a bad night. Again, like previous poster, she might me right or a no go depending on the above as it's different strokes for different folks. Lots of different flavors out there. If you want an Asian almost spinner and don't mind some disengagement /1000 yard stare. She'd be up your alley. Good luck all.Tight pussy but really weird vibe and messy house. I can't imagine wanting (or being able at this age) to fire four loads. When I saw her a few times I got my nut and was out of there in literally 15 minutes or so. LOL. Spending time with her is rolling the dice. Something bad will eventually happen.
BobDingle10
01-04-23, 17:52
https://members.seeking.com/member/29ea2097-be5f-4add-843e-2d1b49bf3c8d
Likely Scammer.
First message in reply to mine talked about sending advances for a babysitter so we can meet and hang out.
I said maybe after we meet. During negotiations off site, would not discuss allowance for fun but wanted 75-100 in advance for a nanny.
Sent a pic of her with two fingers up and requested that I do the same to verify. I ask her to send one with 4 fingers up and she sends on that is sorta compliant but.
Clearly just an open palm photo she took a while ago. Next day before we discuss meeting I ask for a pic of her holding today's date on a piece of paper (yeah maybe a bit much) but she wouldn't do it. Still didn't want to discuss allowance but wanted the advance for the babysitter to meet.
Bailed and deleted our convo. Mofo did a lot to try and scam that little bit of dough. Anyone with a different experience?
FederalHill
01-04-23, 18:04
https://members.seeking.com/member/29ea2097-be5f-4add-843e-2d1b49bf3c8d
Likely Scammer.
First message in reply to mine talked about sending advances for a babysitter so we can meet and hang out.
I said maybe after we meet. During negotiations off site, would not discuss allowance for fun but wanted 75-100 in advance for a nanny.
Sent a pic of her with two fingers up and requested that I do the same to verify. I ask her to send one with 4 fingers up and she sends on that is sorta compliant but.
Clearly just an open palm photo she took a while ago. Next day before we discuss meeting I ask for a pic of her holding today's date on a piece of paper (yeah maybe a bit much) but she wouldn't do it. Still didn't want to discuss allowance but wanted the advance for the babysitter to meet.
Bailed and deleted our convo. Mofo did a lot to try and scam that little bit of dough. Anyone with a different experience?I have used the "picture with today's date" approach for many who seem to good to be true. Almost 100% that's the last you hear from them. And as far as babysitting money. Maybe things have changed. But I NEVER had to pay my babysitter before I left. Always when I came back. So this pay me in advance crap (which I have gotten so many of these) just doesn't track.
FederalHill
01-04-23, 21:49
This one. Who goes by Annie. Reached out two weeks ago. She had Olney, MD listed. And I thought. Cool, as I live in Silver Spring. We chatted for a couple of days and then she was gone. Profile deleted. Now she re-surfaced. Same name, same picture and now has her location as Yorktown, VA. So much bulls**t out there.
https://members.seeking.com/member/0c532b1b-2de5-4389-83b0-dd89b6bb1d8a
So much pussy out there. And with the markets tanking and student loans getting turned back on, it just means a larger supply of SBs and fewer Bitcoin and tech bros to compete.I was pretty quiet during December. But I'm ramping up now that the holidays are over, making some new contacts and waking some old ones up and, holy heck, I think this theory is correct. They're coming out of the freaking woodwork!!
Do you all put pics public on your profile? I have private pics that I want to share only during a conversation, but in the past two months haven't picked up any conversation. Am I doing this wrong? Any pointers on getting to a conversation would be helpful.
Do you all put pics public on your profile? I have private pics that I want to share only during a conversation, but in the past two months haven't picked up any conversation. Am I doing this wrong? Any pointers on getting to a conversation would be helpful.I have a body shot with my face covered and the uncovered version in my private photos. I've never had any complaints about that approach. Sometimes I share them proactively and other times I wait for them to ask. Doesn't seem to make a difference. YMMV.
Dimples572
01-05-23, 18:23
Anyone have any experience with this one?
https://members.seeking.com/member/a5e4c283-5ea3-4b76-b1c0-c88e853d63b2
FatWhiteGuy
01-05-23, 18:25
Do you all put pics public on your profile? I have private pics that I want to share only during a conversation, but in the past two months haven't picked up any conversation. Am I doing this wrong? Any pointers on getting to a conversation would be helpful.I have 15 pics up. 5 public, 10 private. In my opening text to them I share my pics, a very forward and dirty message and also my phone number. Never know when theyre going to respond back. Also helps to rotate your main pic. Patience is also key.
I also had a bumper crop of responses this month. These are the ones I didn't get a chance to try but were willing to meet up. Hope this can help some of you.
Cece.
https://members.seeking.com/member/22c236ba-925a-4c8d-9816-85ef4ee4bc0a
19 year old cutie in Manassas. Sporadic messages.
Kennedy. KH.
https://members.seeking.com/member/560569b8-5b22-4f52-90f0-abcbf5f42226
18 year old in Alexandria. Wants 4 K a month. I offered 2 K.
Girlnextdoor.
No link. She was willing to meet up for 500.
Charmingwoman.
https://members.seeking.com/member/db8c6a44-cb0c-41da-a8db-a7fe2bc8e7a3
She was willing to meet up for $400.
Dream - 777 dream.
https://members.seeking.com/member/e91c6598-005d-479b-9980-2c93ac69f5dd
She was willing to meet up for $600 and can host.
Kayla. Kaylababy.
https://members.seeking.com/member/adbeb612-4312-4c77-834c-dad7444c1a85
Willing to meet up for $500.
Sensualsiren.
https://members.seeking.com/member/579d95c0-6af0-459c-987d-5addef2da47e
Willing to meet up for $800. I offered 500.
DOLL.
No link.
Met up with her for $500. She was good,. But I have better.
Kittymeowmeow.
https://members.seeking.com/member/f4a9d3c0-7378-42f7-a68f-e48e87e7135e
Met up with her for $500. HOt 20 year old, but very entitled. Not worth the attitude. Bad performance. But beautiful.
Paris28.
https://members.seeking.com/member/6ac82fe4-a220-4e6c-ba3c-ef06d46f2d5f
Willing to meet up for 500.
Day_umm.
https://members.seeking.com/member/ccf55200-3683-46d4-9eed-caba8f330913
Willing to meet up for $500.
CleverAngel.
https://members.seeking.com/member/038e7d4f-2135-4440-b15c-c3e92690f9b0
Willing to meet up for $500.
Bbaxmourr.
https://members.seeking.com/member/bda10152-f7e4-4f3e-8b82-05aa76922bd2
Willing to meet up for $500.
Cherry.
https://members.seeking.com/member/0d07dd24-7c34-4769-9485-d5919fc5009e
Willing to meet up for $500.
BabyA.
https://members.seeking.com/member/e820cfe9-739f-4049-af18-1003520329df
Wants $800 ppm.
Flrncce.
https://members.seeking.com/member/330bcf47-b64c-4493-84e7-3d29ceb39922
Offered her 2 K a month, and she was insulted.
Bertha.
No link.
Scammer.
TemptingBeauty.
https://members.seeking.com/member/99360b39-a44f-46bc-b2a0-9c0e27b941ef
Beauty willing to meet up for $500.
ItsMimi411.
https://members.seeking.com/member/24bbf518-0189-4199-af24-51a7849b6334
Willing to do a duo with her friend for $700. Friend less attractive. Also tries to sell *.
DickLongwood
01-05-23, 19:59
I also had a bumper crop of responses this month. These are the ones I didn't get a chance to try but were willing to meet up. Hope this can help some of you.
Cece.
https://members.seeking.com/member/22c236ba-925a-4c8d-9816-85ef4ee4bc0a
19 year old cutie in Manassas. Sporadic messages.
Kennedy. KH.
https://members.seeking.com/member/560569b8-5b22-4f52-90f0-abcbf5f42226
18 year old in Alexandria. Wants 4 K a month. I offered 2 K.
Girlnextdoor.
No link. She was willing to meet up for 500.
Charmingwoman.
https://members.seeking.com/member/db8c6a44-cb0c-41da-a8db-a7fe2bc8e7a3
She was willing to meet up for $400.
Dream - 777 dream.
https://members.seeking.com/member/e91c6598-005d-479b-9980-2c93ac69f5dd
She was willing to meet up for $600 and can host.
Kayla. Kaylababy.
https://members.seeking.com/member/adbeb612-4312-4c77-834c-dad7444c1a85
Willing to meet up for $500.
Sensualsiren.
https://members.seeking.com/member/579d95c0-6af0-459c-987d-5addef2da47e
Willing to meet up for $800. I offered 500.
DOLL.
No link.
Met up with her for $500. She was good,. But I have better.
Kittymeowmeow.
https://members.seeking.com/member/f4a9d3c0-7378-42f7-a68f-e48e87e7135e
Met up with her for $500. HOt 20 year old, but very entitled. Not worth the attitude. Bad performance. But beautiful.
Paris28.
https://members.seeking.com/member/6ac82fe4-a220-4e6c-ba3c-ef06d46f2d5f
Willing to meet up for 500.
Day_umm.
https://members.seeking.com/member/ccf55200-3683-46d4-9eed-caba8f330913
Willing to meet up for $500.
CleverAngel.
https://members.seeking.com/member/038e7d4f-2135-4440-b15c-c3e92690f9b0
Willing to meet up for $500.
Bbaxmourr.
https://members.seeking.com/member/bda10152-f7e4-4f3e-8b82-05aa76922bd2
Willing to meet up for $500.
Cherry.
https://members.seeking.com/member/0d07dd24-7c34-4769-9485-d5919fc5009e
Willing to meet up for $500.
BabyA.
https://members.seeking.com/member/e820cfe9-739f-4049-af18-1003520329df
Wants $800 ppm.
Flrncce.
https://members.seeking.com/member/330bcf47-b64c-4493-84e7-3d29ceb39922
Offered her 2 K a month, and she was insulted.
Bertha.
No link.
Scammer.
TemptingBeauty.
https://members.seeking.com/member/99360b39-a44f-46bc-b2a0-9c0e27b941ef
Beauty willing to meet up for $500.
ItsMimi411.
https://members.seeking.com/member/24bbf518-0189-4199-af24-51a7849b6334
Willing to do a duo with her friend for $700. Friend less attractive. Also tries to sell *.There are several Girlnextdoor profiles. Which one?
I though Kaylababy was reviewed, but I can't find anything.
Paris28 is in her 30's, has 4 kids, and doesn't drive. Pass, unless you want to help her out.
Sensualsiren has been reviewed at some length. She sounds sexy.
https://members.seeking.com/member/255151c3-3adc-4e5f-ab37-c03277784c17
Had coffee. With her. Nice girl. Looks iike in pics, petite, but pics are few years old. Schedules did not match so did not see her. I think she has changed her mind. Just curious what I missed and if anyone has seen her.
Anyone have any experience with this one?
https://members.seeking.com/member/a5e4c283-5ea3-4b76-b1c0-c88e853d63b2I've sent a couple of messages, she's never opened them.
Do you all put pics public on your profile? I have private pics that I want to share only during a conversation, but in the past two months haven't picked up any conversation. Am I doing this wrong? Any pointers on getting to a conversation would be helpful.Variety of discussions on the topic of safety, photos, etc. Posting your own photos, esp with an SO, is not recommended. Also keeping things off other profiles etc etc, non-linking photos to maintain some distance from the profile / somebody who would extort you. Good luck.
https://members.seeking.com/member/dda8f5e9-aa5d-453f-bba7-f45c1c36a0d2
I'm almost certain I've chatted with this one before and I thought she was reported on at one point, maybe a different profile? If it's the same girl, she flaked on me 2-3 times and we never met. Anyone have any experience with her?
GuyInTheCorner
01-07-23, 11:10
Variety of discussions on the topic of safety, photos, etc. Posting your own photos, esp with an SO, is not recommended. Also keeping things off other profiles etc etc, non-linking photos to maintain some distance from the profile / somebody who would extort you. Good luck.Sharing the wrong photo is tantamount to sharing your real name these days if you have any sort of social media or Internet presence. At the same time, there's no way to avoid it if you want to draw in the true SBs. There are professional extortion artists out there as well as amateur scammers, plus there are just situations where things go wrong and the SB may try to lash out. So I think you have to be really careful. Here are my rules:
1) NEVER share a photo that was used on social media by you or by anyone else. Far too easy for anyone to reverse search that image and pull up your Facebook, Instagram, etc.
2) Be aware that even if you share a photo that isn't otherwise out there on the web, there are advanced search engines (I refuse to publicize the name of the site but you will know it if you have been paying attention) that can use a photo to scan the internet and identify similar images with disturbing accuracy. With regularity, it turns up my professional page with any non sunglasses pic (and even with some in sunglasses).
3) Never show public pics.
4) I personally don't use the private photos. Instead, I will send a photo in the chat feature — and then promptly delete it shortly after sending it. It means my photo is on their server (until I decide to completely wipe my account), but it at least means the SB doesn't have it sitting around in a few hours / days / weeks if and when things go south and she wants to cause trouble.
5) Sometimes we get to text before a photo has been shared and she asks for it in text. I don't like this as much because once I send that photo in a text message, she has it for good. I tend to screen as much as I can before sharing a pic to make sure she is for real. And there are plenty of situations where I have cut off the conversation and missed out because I didn't feel comfortable sharing a pic yet. I have no regrets.
6) Use the same photo and only send one photo. I have one photo I use. I'm in sunglasses and the backdrop is obviously not anywhere close to here. It is pretty clearly me to anyone that knows me, but I can at least argue for some plausible deniability.
GuyInTheCorner
01-07-23, 11:16
Chatting with a 24 yo POT in Arlington, profile name is Jacqueline. I blocked her (by accident) so I can't share a link. White girl, brunette, relatively tight body, has used the little video feature a couple of times. Anyone else meet her and have any thoughts? There were a couple of yellow flags at first (sent a number of pretty explicit pics and was somewhat pushy about meeting), but I did my diligence and was able to confirm she is indeed for real, so I am thinking of meeting her. Wanted to see if anyone else had experiences and could let me know whether it is worth the time.
https://members.seeking.com/member/dda8f5e9-aa5d-453f-bba7-f45c1c36a0d2
I'm almost certain I've chatted with this one before and I thought she was reported on at one point, maybe a different profile? If it's the same girl, she flaked on me 2-3 times and we never met. Anyone have any experience with her?Figured it out, she used to go by Blond1 and indeed it's the same flake I dealt with before. LOL Sounds like others have dealt with her flakiness as well.
Chatting with a 24 yo POT in Arlington, profile name is Jacqueline. I blocked her (by accident) so I can't share a link. White girl, brunette, relatively tight body, has used the little video feature a couple of times. Anyone else meet her and have any thoughts? There were a couple of yellow flags at first (sent a number of pretty explicit pics and was somewhat pushy about meeting), but I did my diligence and was able to confirm she is indeed for real, so I am thinking of meeting her. Wanted to see if anyone else had experiences and could let me know whether it is worth the time.She sent me explicit pics and video on snap (including another guy). Asking 1 k. I don't have good vibes, so decided to skip.
Chatting with a 24 yo POT in Arlington, profile name is Jacqueline. I blocked her (by accident) so I can't share a link. White girl, brunette, relatively tight body, has used the little video feature a couple of times. Anyone else meet her and have any thoughts? There were a couple of yellow flags at first (sent a number of pretty explicit pics and was somewhat pushy about meeting), but I did my diligence and was able to confirm she is indeed for real, so I am thinking of meeting her. Wanted to see if anyone else had experiences and could let me know whether it is worth the time.I think you mean this one:
https://members.seeking.com/member/fa95a8d5-5c0f-4b7d-a733-cb7f22da9977
Chatted with her as well, she wanted to text quickly and was sharing very explicit pics, started to pick up scammer vibes but now I'm thinking she's legit. But still something seems off. She's pushing hard to "have some fun" but she's not responding to any questions about when.
AnonDemon69
01-08-23, 01:27
I think you mean this one:
https://members.seeking.com/member/fa95a8d5-5c0f-4b7d-a733-cb7f22da9977
Chatted with her as well, she wanted to text quickly and was sharing very explicit pics, started to pick up scammer vibes but now I'm thinking she's legit. But still something seems off. She's pushing hard to "have some fun" but she's not responding to any questions about when.She gave me her snapchat, she responds there a lot. She is an escort though, she wanted $1 k for ppm and she even told me the hotel she is at. She is into BSDM it seems from all the videos and pics she shares. I wouldn't risk it, seems sketch.
AnonDemon69
01-08-23, 01:35
Sharing the wrong photo is tantamount to sharing your real name these days if you have any sort of social media or Internet presence. At the same time, there's no way to avoid it if you want to draw in the true SBs. There are professional extortion artists out there as well as amateur scammers, plus there are just situations where things go wrong and the SB may try to lash out. So I think you have to be really careful. Here are my rules:
1) NEVER share a photo that was used on social media by you or by anyone else. Far too easy for anyone to reverse search that image and pull up your Facebook, Instagram, etc.
2) Be aware that even if you share a photo that isn't otherwise out there on the web, there are advanced search engines (I refuse to publicize the name of the site but you will know it if you have been paying attention) that can use a photo to scan the internet and identify similar images with disturbing accuracy. With regularity, it turns up my professional page with any non sunglasses pic (and even with some in sunglasses).
3) Never show public pics.
4) I personally don't use the private photos. Instead, I will send a photo in the chat feature and then promptly delete it shortly after sending it. It means my photo is on their server (until I decide to completely wipe my account), but it at least means the SB doesn't have it sitting around in a few hours / days / weeks if and when things go south and she wants to cause trouble.
5) Sometimes we get to text before a photo has been shared and she asks for it in text. I don't like this as much because once I send that photo in a text message, she has it for good. I tend to screen as much as I can before sharing a pic to make sure she is for real. And there are plenty of situations where I have cut off the conversation and missed out because I didn't feel comfortable sharing a pic yet. I have no regrets.
6) Use the same photo and only send one photo. I have one photo I use. I'm in sunglasses and the backdrop is obviously not anywhere close to here. It is pretty clearly me to anyone that knows me, but I can at least argue for some plausible deniability.I found out that lots of the girls are put off by the private pictures. I started putting public pictures and have tons of actual matches from real veriified girls. I did video chat with many and have set up meetings. It seems all too easy with public pics, but to each his own.
Question for people in a relationship or married, are you sharing that in your profile or are you just putting single?
She gave me her snapchat, she responds there a lot. She is an escort though, she wanted $1 k for ppm and she even told me the hotel she is at. She is into BSDM it seems from all the videos and pics she shares. I wouldn't risk it, seems sketch.1 k PPM for that? She's clearly not doing her market analysis on the price of girls these days. 1 k brings a very high end and highly reviewed lady for the most part, this one looks more like listcrawler material.
I found out that lots of the girls are put off by the private pictures.This makes no sense. Not busting balls or anything but why would a girl be put off by a guy having private pics? It's an option on SA for a reason, and nearly every girl has private pics as well. Have a handful of girls from SA told you they were put off by private pics, and why? Or is this just an assumption?
NovaDaddy69
01-08-23, 13:55
https://members.seeking.com/member/61a66e8c-ceee-4dd8-aaab-81259c98a27b
Wants 650 ppm. Says others always give her that. So politely suggested she find those others instead.
RegularJoe1985
01-08-23, 18:19
Met her for lunch some time back.
GPS, wants to be wined and dined for some time before moving further.
https://members.seeking.com/member/ed544663-2524-4468-8748-351f9548c906
Told her am to busy for that.
https://members.seeking.com/member/61a66e8c-ceee-4dd8-aaab-81259c98a27b
Wants 650 ppm. Says others always give her that. So politely suggested she find those others instead.She has been on the site for years. Almost did a meet and greet with her but backed out bc I was too hungover from the day before. The reason why we never got together was that she wouldn't do BBFS. Wouldn't budge at all even with extra. Also if you are well endowed then that also is a no go. Back then, three years, we agreed on 400 but not surprised it's 6 now.
Too bad because she seems gorgeous and also fun sized.
Dimples572
01-08-23, 19:34
Met her for lunch some time back.
GPS, wants to be wined and dined for some time before moving further.
https://members.seeking.com/member/ed544663-2524-4468-8748-351f9548c906
Told her am to busy for that.No offense but I don't understand why some of you guys don't make it abundantly clear over text specifically what it is you want or what is expected before meeting? I just don't have the time to waste on a meet and greet just to feel each other out and realize it's not a match. I am overly explicit with these women over text, with everything from what kind of sex I am expecting, how long I am expecting them to hang out, where they're comfortable with me cumming on them LOL, how frequently, I try to cover every detail. I leave nothing to chance so there are no surprises on anyone's part. Fuck all that not setting expectations before why'all meet.
Grafenberg
01-08-23, 19:55
This makes no sense. Not busting balls or anything but why would a girl be put off by a guy having private pics? It's an option on SA for a reason, and nearly every girl has private pics as well. Have a handful of girls from SA told you they were put off by private pics, and why? Or is this just an assumption?It depends on what the picture subject is. His private pics could be of his hairy butthole because he wants to show the ladies what they are expected to stick their tongue in. Now that could be off putting to some of the ladies.
CruisingXX
01-08-23, 22:27
This starts out nice, messages are strange, sends nice pictures of herself well dressed. Then she says she needs diapers, 4 children. Etc and needs me to send her money. Hard pass scammer.
https://members.seeking.com/member/6ac82fe4-a220-4e6c-ba3c-ef06d46f2d5f
AnonDemon69
01-09-23, 00:30
This makes no sense. Not busting balls or anything but why would a girl be put off by a guy having private pics? It's an option on SA for a reason, and nearly every girl has private pics as well. Have a handful of girls from SA told you they were put off by private pics, and why? Or is this just an assumption?I have been told by 4 of them. I also read that in a few profiles.
Any advice on what to put under relationship? Should we be honest or just lie?
At the end of the day, I feel like the ones that want Single Sugar Daddies must be delusional. I was on video call with one of them and she was all upset that I was not single. Another one also messaged me asking what my status was or she wouldn't moved forward, she wasn't even that hot.
AnonDemon69
01-09-23, 00:36
Anyone seen her yet? https://members.seeking.com/member/f41f14e1-2a3d-416f-92f8-cda4edf071c2.
She is pretty upfront that she wants online first. She actually has OF and sells a bunch of content on other sites. She did do video call to verify that it is her but asked me to buy content before even entertaining the idea of meeting. She is a pro at making content. For the meeting she quoted me at $900 ppm and deposit, but if I feel like it's way too high. She has high mileage it seems and probably a boyfriend. Just wondering if anyone has actually seen her and what the damage was. She is attractive enough to give her a good pounding but can't justify such a high price.
GuyInTheCorner
01-09-23, 08:18
This makes no sense. Not busting balls or anything but why would a girl be put off by a guy having private pics? It's an option on SA for a reason, and nearly every girl has private pics as well. Have a handful of girls from SA told you they were put off by private pics, and why? Or is this just an assumption?My experience as a married guy (who is upfront about it in his profile): there is a subsection of women that view this as a form of dating, where attraction matters as much as money and they want to know there's a future for it. It's Tinder but with guys who will pick up the tab and then some. They aren't interested in faceless profiles and they aren't interested in being the other woman. Many of them are clear about one or both; some aren't but they just don't respond. That's okay. Whatever works for them and I wish them well. For them, I'd imagine a public picture is important, both for their own initial screening and so that they know that the guy is genuine. They don't want to waste time where there is no attraction.
I am upfront about my status. I don't want to waste anyone else's time and I Definitely don't want to inadvertently bring in someone who is hoping to catch feelings and think there's a future. It eliminates some women to be sure — including those where I could just meet them once or twice and then move on if it doesn't click — but I am past my kid in a candy store phase.
MilesNoDavis
01-09-23, 10:11
Any insight regarding any of these ladies is appreciated. Direct message me if you prefer. Thanks.
https://members.seeking.com/member/6b21c306-17ab-4023-8381-0d62f0432b53
This is the third profile I've seen with these same pics.
Anyone have any info on this POT:
https://members.seeking.com/member/f58ada5a-429f-4a84-9405-d79a6895a833
42 year old middle Eastern chick. Had a few back and forth and seems legit.
TomFordModel
01-09-23, 15:36
My experience as a married guy (who is upfront about it in his profile): there is a subsection of women that view this as a form of dating, where attraction matters as much as money and they want to know there's a future for it. It's Tinder but with guys who will pick up the tab and then some. They aren't interested in faceless profiles and they aren't interested in being the other woman. Many of them are clear about one or both; some aren't but they just don't respond. That's okay. Whatever works for them and I wish them well. For them, I'd imagine a public picture is important, both for their own initial screening and so that they know that the guy is genuine. They don't want to waste time where there is no attraction.
I am upfront about my status. I don't want to waste anyone else's time and I Definitely don't want to inadvertently bring in someone who is hoping to catch feelings and think there's a future. It eliminates some women to be sure including those where I could just meet them once or twice and then move on if it doesn't click but I am past my kid in a candy store phase.Hmmm, you're getting it twisted. These girls just want money not some damn relationship with the busted dudes on SA.
Don't kid ourselves we're old and as much as we want to believe we're attractive. That's not the case for 99.9% of us.
So, they're here to drain as much $$$ as they can.
Anyone seen her yet? https://members.seeking.com/member/f41f14e1-2a3d-416f-92f8-cda4edf071c2.
She is pretty upfront that she wants online first. She actually has OF and sells a bunch of content on other sites. She did do video call to verify that it is her but asked me to buy content before even entertaining the idea of meeting. She is a pro at making content. For the meeting she quoted me at $900 ppm and deposit, but if I feel like it's way too high. She has high mileage it seems and probably a boyfriend. Just wondering if anyone has actually seen her and what the damage was. She is attractive enough to give her a good pounding but can't justify such a high price.900 PPM for this? No way in hell, this is bedpage material at best. What in the real world fuck is going on these days?
Anyone have any info on this POT:
https://members.seeking.com/member/f58ada5a-429f-4a84-9405-d79a6895a833
42 year old middle Eastern chick. Had a few back and forth and seems legit.She's been reported on extensively here, try the search function.
She's been reported on extensively here, try the search function.Under which name? She told me her name was Lindsay. Nothing comes up. Sorry I'm relatively new.
Under which name? She told me her name was Lindsay. Nothing comes up. Sorry I'm relatively new.The last 12 digits & letters of any SA account are the next best thing to an ID if you put them in the search box.
She's been reported on extensively here, try the search function.Sorry, I'm not seeing the extensive reviews you allude to and I've searched both her name and title.
Can you simply just advise if the reviews were good, bad or meh?
Thanks.
Under which name? She told me her name was Lindsay. Nothing comes up. Sorry I'm relatively new.No worries. Copy and paste the last 12 digits of her profile URL and put that into the search box, that's usually the best way to search for a lady on here.
Rudy Wellz
01-10-23, 09:29
This SB responded to my initial message that she is looking for a weekly allowance. Hasn't responded to my attempts to get her to text so that I can tell her "No Way", but I'll do PPM. She also doesn't have a face picture or private photos. Has anyone actually met her?
https://members.seeking.com/member/8e85095d-1d50-42e1-a651-00b35b2ff270
Sorry, I'm not seeing the extensive reviews you allude to and I've searched both her name and title.
Can you simply just advise if the reviews were good, bad or meh?
Thanks.What Itfcd is saying and many others have said is that if the URL for her page is this:
https://members.seeking.com/member/f58ada5a-429f-4a84-9405-d79a6895a833
Then you search the forum for the last 12 digits:
d79a6895a833
I would say there is some discussion (mostly people who don't know how to use the search function) but not many actual reports on her.
What Itfcd is saying and many others have said is that if the URL for her page is this:
https://members.seeking.com/member/f58ada5a-429f-4a84-9405-d79a6895a833
Then you search the forum for the last 12 digits:
d79a6895a833
I would say there is some discussion (mostly people who don't know how to use the search function) but not many actual reports on her.Thanks for enlightening me in the search methodology. Now I got it. Only found one actual report and others were just questions with no actual reportx.
Sorry, I'm not seeing the extensive reviews you allude to and I've searched both her name and title.
Can you simply just advise if the reviews were good, bad or meh?
Thanks.Seems she's on the verge of crazy or bipolar. Lives in a messy one bedroom apartment and she's moody, erratic. That's the jest of what I gathered and didn't bother meeting her.
Dimples572
01-10-23, 11:38
What Itfcd is saying and many others have said is that if the URL for her page is this:
https://members.seeking.com/member/f58ada5a-429f-4a84-9405-d79a6895a833
Then you search the forum for the last 12 digits:
d79a6895a833
I would say there is some discussion (mostly people who don't know how to use the search function) but not many actual reports on her.I guess there are a few different ways to solve this riddle. The one that's always worked for me is this.
Here's part of her URL. The only part that matters imo.
https://members.seeking.com/member/f58ada5a
You take the first 8 digits after the "member /" and plug those into the search bar and viola. You'll get your results. So in this instance take the f58 ada5 a and search those characters and you should get 11 different results. Hope that helps simplify it for you.
MrNiubility
01-10-23, 11:50
My experience as a married guy (who is upfront about it in his profile): there is a subsection of women that view this as a form of dating, where attraction matters as much as money and they want to know there's a future for it. It's Tinder but with guys who will pick up the tab and then some. They aren't interested in faceless profiles and they aren't interested in being the other woman. Many of them are clear about one or both; some aren't but they just don't respond. That's okay. Whatever works for them and I wish them well. For them, I'd imagine a public picture is important, both for their own initial screening and so that they know that the guy is genuine. They don't want to waste time where there is no attraction.
I am upfront about my status. I don't want to waste anyone else's time and I Definitely don't want to inadvertently bring in someone who is hoping to catch feelings and think there's a future. It eliminates some women to be sure including those where I could just meet them once or twice and then move on if it doesn't click but I am past my kid in a candy store phase.As a man with SO, this probably is the biggest concern of me not really tapping into seeking. I don't want to get attached or be attached, technically ppm should work for me, but I am not posting my face pics on the site, and that seems to not work for this game? Did I get this all wrong? Any recommendations on how to get started while maintaining adequate privacy?
This SB responded to my initial message that she is looking for a weekly allowance. Hasn't responded to my attempts to get her to text so that I can tell her "No Way", but I'll do PPM. She also doesn't have a face picture or private photos. Has anyone actually met her?
https://members.seeking.com/member/8e85095d-1d50-42e1-a651-00b35b2ff270She wanted 2-3 k weekly or bi-weekly. I saw a face picture. Pretty average. She offered 700 ppm when I balked. She's maybe worth 3-4, so I declined.
TomFordModel
01-10-23, 13:08
She wanted 2-3 k weekly or bi-weekly. I saw a face picture. Pretty average. She offered 700 ppm when I balked. She's maybe worth 3-4, so I declined.LOL. 2-3 k weekly for that thing. How can she even think she's worth that. I wouldn't touch that if she pays me.
This one starts with 300 ppm and offers to host in Capitol Heights MD.
https://members.seeking.com/member/8dca280b-a31a-49b2-ba53-a66147af6dfa
She can only do today or tonight. That's probably when she has her accomplices with her. She's all red flags including the fake picture LOL.
https://www.stylevore.com/magenta-and-pink-dress-lips-smile-long-hair-girl/
As a man with SO, this probably is the biggest concern of me not really tapping into seeking. I don't want to get attached or be attached, technically ppm should work for me, but I am not posting my face pics on the site, and that seems to not work for this game? Did I get this all wrong? Any recommendations on how to get started while maintaining adequate privacy?I don't see how you will be successful without a face pic in private gallery. That's what I do and put an athletic body pic that doesn't show my face for the public profile. By that I meant it was me doing a selfie in the mirror from the neck down, shirt on, after I came back from the gym. SA with an SO is a risk. You just have to fully analyze who you grant access to your private pics.
As a man with SO, this probably is the biggest concern of me not really tapping into seeking. I don't want to get attached or be attached, technically ppm should work for me, but I am not posting my face pics on the site, and that seems to not work for this game? Did I get this all wrong? Any recommendations on how to get started while maintaining adequate privacy?Again. Do the work. There are LONG LONG posts on this. Everything from payments via pre-paid cards, to phone security, to pics discussed. And I'm not being a dick, just that the info is out there. As for pics, think about it. Find somebody who looks like you. Your celeb double and edit the pic per guidelines on seeking. But go do your legwork man
Here - one example, one search on this thread:
http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?11278-NoVA-SugarBabies&p=6109701&highlight=Opsec#post6109701
Rudy Wellz
01-10-23, 18:45
Choclatbar_b is attractive, brown, has a lovely rack, DSL's and hips. Unfortunately, she's been reading the Sugar Forums on other sites and wants $2500/ month allowance. I explained why that doesn't work for me and countered with $400-$500 ppm depending on a number of factors that I left vague. She agreed to the PPM, but wanted $1 K "start-up" fee. Of course that doesn't work for me either. She wouldn't budge. I texted her just now saying that since our initial meeting, we could have gone BCD's 3-4 times (more tactfully stated). We'll see if she responds.
https://members.seeking.com/member/1710e719-37dd-4332-9bb1-6da724d40284
So I might just be being totally silly / off the mark with this but many many years ago I met up with a girl from a dating app and she turned out to be trans, she told me before it got physical and I dropped her off at home, I'm not into that.
I recently connected with a really hot black girl on Seeking that is very eager to meet, everything seems good, but her look / pheno kinda reminds me of that girl from years ago, she just looks really robust (not unusual for black girls) and she's 5'8, I just want to make sure she's not a trans before I fly her out here.
How would you approach? I feel like straight up asking her would turn her off, no?
Thanks guys.
TomFordModel
01-11-23, 15:25
So I might just be being totally silly / off the mark with this but many many years ago I met up with a girl from a dating app and she turned out to be trans, she told me before it got physical and I dropped her off at home, I'm not into that.
I recently connected with a really hot black girl on Seeking that is very eager to meet, everything seems good, but her look / pheno kinda reminds me of that girl from years ago, she just looks really robust (not unusual for black girls) and she's 5'8, I just want to make sure she's not a trans before I fly her out here.
How would you approach? I feel like straight up asking her would turn her off, no?
Thanks guys.LOL. Its a dude. Don't do it.
So I might just be being totally silly / off the mark with this but many many years ago I met up with a girl from a dating app and she turned out to be trans, she told me before it got physical and I dropped her off at home, I'm not into that.
I recently connected with a really hot black girl on Seeking that is very eager to meet, everything seems good, but her look / pheno kinda reminds me of that girl from years ago, she just looks really robust (not unusual for black girls) and she's 5'8, I just want to make sure she's not a trans before I fly her out here.
How would you approach? I feel like straight up asking her would turn her off, no?
Thanks guys.When you get to the sex talk tell her that DATY is super important for you. Like you can't get hard unless you can do that, and that DATO is a no go for you. Gives her an opening to discuss.
CruisingXX
01-11-23, 18:14
Wondering if anyone has any intel on her, had a great discussion going with her, seems real. But when I offered 400-500 ppm she said it was a not go. I decided not to counter above that.
https://members.seeking.com/member/d1dc653e-3244-40b8-bf52-7e895129f49e
Rudy Wellz
01-12-23, 07:57
So I might just be being totally silly / off the mark with this but many many years ago I met up with a girl from a dating app and she turned out to be trans, she told me before it got physical and I dropped her off at home, I'm not into that.
I recently connected with a really hot black girl on Seeking that is very eager to meet, everything seems good, but her look / pheno kinda reminds me of that girl from years ago, she just looks really robust (not unusual for black girls) and she's 5'8, I just want to make sure she's not a trans before I fly her out here.
How would you approach? I feel like straight up asking her would turn her off, no?
Thanks guys.Being direct removes all ambiguity. You could say something like "I look forward to your visit. Rest assured I don't have any kinks or fetishes. Enjoy a woman, her mind and her body. How about you? Is there anything that you enjoy / like out of the ordinary that we should discuss?
Also, share the SB URL so that we can opine on whether we think she is trans or not.
Hope she is not and that you have a wonderful visit.
BuffBill75
01-12-23, 08:59
Choclatbar_b is attractive, brown, has a lovely rack, DSL's and hips. Unfortunately, she's been reading the Sugar Forums on other sites and wants $2500/ month allowance. I explained why that doesn't work for me and countered with $400-$500 ppm depending on a number of factors that I left vague. She agreed to the PPM, but wanted $1 K "start-up" fee. Of course that doesn't work for me either. She wouldn't budge. I texted her just now saying that since our initial meeting, we could have gone BCD's 3-4 times (more tactfully stated). We'll see if she responds.
https://members.seeking.com/member/1710e719-37dd-4332-9bb1-6da724d40284LOL it's like a signing bonus.
Being direct removes all ambiguity. You could say something like "I look forward to your visit. Rest assured I don't have any kinks or fetishes. Enjoy a woman, her mind and her body. How about you? Is there anything that you enjoy / like out of the ordinary that we should discuss?
Also, share the SB URL so that we can opine on whether we think she is trans or not.
Hope she is not and that you have a wonderful visit.Or just ask "want to trade dick pics" and see how he / she responds?
ProCatHunter
01-12-23, 22:13
Am at the dorm waiting for my college free baby to let me in. Nothing gets the blood pumping like knowing you're about to get sucked off by a cute 22 year old in her dorm room. What makes it even better is that she will be giving me my Christmas presents today.
God bless the sugar bowl.
Am at the dorm waiting for my college free baby to let me in. Nothing gets the blood pumping like knowing you're about to get sucked off by a cute 22 year old in her dorm room. What makes it even better is that she will be giving me my Christmas presents today.
God bless the sugar bowl.You're livin the dream Cat!
She has been off and on the site for a long time now. I met her for lunch a couple years ago. Very pretty and epic all natural tits but we didn't hit it off and she is apparently looking for a "good connection".
https://members.seeking.com/member/ea0d43ea-f0f0-4bc5-9e25-0e1458843f9f?_cf_ref=aHR0cDovL3d3dy51c2FzZXhndWlkZS5ubC8%3D
Looks like she has since become willing to compromise on that good connection:
https://tryst.link/escort/veronicaivyI chatted with her briefly, and she basically chastised me saying she wasn't "a PPM type of girl" and that I needed to show "real interest and trust" with an allowance. Not one to be scolded, I told her allowance wasn't going to work for me and that based on her Tryst ad I assumed PPM cool. She blocked me, not sure why? LOL.
Anyone have any experience with this one?
https://members.seeking.com/member/a5e4c283-5ea3-4b76-b1c0-c88e853d63b2She's asking 500 PPM, but her location isn't at all convenient for me so I passed.
So I might just be being totally silly / off the mark with this but many many years ago I met up with a girl from a dating app and she turned out to be trans, she told me before it got physical and I dropped her off at home, I'm not into that.
I recently connected with a really hot black girl on Seeking that is very eager to meet, everything seems good, but her look / pheno kinda reminds me of that girl from years ago, she just looks really robust (not unusual for black girls) and she's 5'8, I just want to make sure she's not a trans before I fly her out here.
How would you approach? I feel like straight up asking her would turn her off, no?
Thanks guys.Meet her for a drink, then when she's relaxed do the Crocodile Dundee test on her!
Oops, sorry about that Mate!
https://members.seeking.com/member/b2a57b8f-d3cd-478f-83ee-1ae8c2fb6b8a
Started talking on text and she asks for money for naughty pics. I tell her to prove she's real first, send a selfie holding up 3 fingers. She refuses, I block her. Her number is 262-217-4811.
CuriousVaMan
01-14-23, 02:31
Can confirm. Claims to be around Annapolis.
https://members.seeking.com/member/b2a57b8f-d3cd-478f-83ee-1ae8c2fb6b8a
Started talking on text and she asks for money for naughty pics. I tell her to prove she's real first, send a selfie holding up 3 fingers. She refuses, I block her. Her number is 262-217-4811.
AnonDemon69
01-14-23, 10:19
Anyone have any intel on this one?
https://members.seeking.com/member/399ae1f8-fa75-4ebc-8e80-a533b7d148fd
Appears to be real, sent selfies via text.
AnonDemon69
01-14-23, 14:03
Can confirm. Claims to be around Annapolis.She starts the texts with legit convo and then moves on to try to sell content. She gets a bit aggressive and asks for money to prove you are real. Avoid her, probably a scammer.
Anyone have any intel on this one?
https://members.seeking.com/member/399ae1f8-fa75-4ebc-8e80-a533b7d148fd
Appears to be real, sent selfies via text.I felt she was a scammer. She brought up her 2 kids in conversation and talked about babysitter and gas.)
I wanted to give a report on the sugar experience I've had in Vegas. Since December, I've been going to Vegas on personal trips, and have had way better luck over there on SA than in the DC area. Firstly, some basic info before going into details:
- I'm a 35-yo Asian, 6 ft, 300 pounds so very fat.
- I have high disposable income, able to afford 500-1000 PPM for the right girl.
- I'm attracted to white-skinned, thin girls. So caucasians, light-skinned latinas or mixed girls, middle eastern, etc. No Asians, AA, etc.
- I only go for BBFS. I'm willing to entertain 1 date with a condom if she says she has to get to know me, but no more beyond that.
The problems I face in DC are:
- Girls aren't attractive to me.
- The ones I'm attracted to have a low response rate.
- Girls that do end up getting into an arrangement won't do BBFS, and have a high allowance requirement. I've never had anything less than 500 PPM, can't report on the 300-400 that other people say they get.
My schedule was less busy in December so I decided to schedule some time to go to Vegas and work remotely while I gambled a little and ate good food. I hit up SA a week before I went to see if I could set up some dates, and was pleasantly surprised. There were way more hot girls, and they were more responsive. Many were open to BBFS, and sure they had middle to high PPM requirements, but that's all I ever get.
For some numbers, I've been on SA since October of 2021. I currently have 2 SB's doing BBFS, and if I count the ones I dumped because they wouldn't go BBFS, I'd have 2 more, one of which would be sensualsiren, a high-volume girl. All were 500+ PPM.
In the month I've been searching in Vegas, with 3 trips made so far, I have 10 solid SB's, along with 4 more flaky and unreliable girls. All of them do BBFS, with between 500-1000 PPM. I've let go of countless others who won't do BBFS but were otherwise good options, which would bring my total above 20 if I was willing to use protection.
I'm going to try going to other cities now as well, such as NYC and Miami, and seeing my luck there.
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CuriousVaMan
01-15-23, 16:35
I really appreciate your report. Especially the candor on your physical appearance. It was great getting a physical description of another monger out there. I'm white, 6'2", 60, and 300 pounds – money not an issue. Despite my age and weight, which I disclose in my Seeking profile, I've been able to get a fair amount of pussy in the DC area – much more than I ever thought!
That said, I've come to the conclusion my time is best spent not chasing tail, but spending the time to get back into physical shape. Not too long ago, I weighed in at 220. So, while I have a few SBs in long-term rotation, I'm going to take a break from actively pursuing new recruits until I can put forth a more desirable profile.
I wanted to give a report on the sugar experience I've had in Vegas. Since December, I've been going to Vegas on personal trips, and have had way better luck over there on SA than in the DC area. Firstly, some basic info before going into details:
- I'm a 35-yo Asian, 6 ft, 300 pounds so very fat.
- I have high disposable income, able to afford 500-1000 PPM for the right girl.
- I'm attracted to white-skinned, thin girls. So caucasians, light-skinned latinas or mixed girls, middle eastern, etc. No Asians, AA, etc.
- I only go for BBFS. I'm willing to entertain 1 date with a condom if she says she has to get to know me, but no more beyond that.
The problems I face in DC are:
- Girls aren't attractive to me.
- The ones I'm attracted to have a low response rate.
- Girls that do end up getting into an arrangement won't do BBFS, and have a high allowance requirement. I've never had anything less than 500 PPM, can't report on the 300-400 that other people say they get.
My schedule was less busy in December so I decided to schedule some time to go to Vegas and work remotely while I gambled a little and ate good food. I hit up SA a week before I went to see if I could set up some dates, and was pleasantly surprised. There were way more hot girls, and they were more responsive. Many were open to BBFS, and sure they had middle to high PPM requirements, but that's all I ever get.
For some numbers, I've been on SA since October of 2021. I currently have 2 SB's doing BBFS, and if I count the ones I dumped because they wouldn't go BBFS, I'd have 2 more, one of which would be sensualsiren, a high-volume girl. All were 500+ PPM.
In the month I've been searching in Vegas, with 3 trips made so far, I have 10 solid SB's, along with 4 more flaky and unreliable girls. All of them do BBFS, with between 500-1000 PPM. I've let go of countless others who won't do BBFS but were otherwise good options, which would bring my total above 20 if I was willing to use protection.
I'm going to try going to other cities now as well, such as NYC and Miami, and seeing my luck there.
AnonDemon69
01-15-23, 16:50
I felt she was a scammer. She brought up her 2 kids in conversation and talked about babysitter and gas.)You are right, she is probably a scammer. She actually offered to sell me content before meeting. I sent something small to test it out, have yet to receive it, probably never going to send it. I quickly learned that many in SA just want to either sell content or just scam out of small amounts.
SuckeredByaSB
01-15-23, 16:54
I really appreciate your report. Especially the candor on your physical appearance. It was great getting a physical description of another monger out there. I'm white, 6'2", 60, and 300 pounds money not an issue. Despite my age and weight, which I disclose in my Seeking profile, I've been able to get a fair amount of pussy in the DC area much more than I ever thought!
That said, I've come to the conclusion my time is best spent not chasing tail, but spending the time to get back into physical shape. Not too long ago, I weighed in at 220. So, while I have a few SBs in long-term rotation, I'm going to take a break from actively pursuing new recruits until I can put forth a more desirable profile.Good luck losing the weight. I've been in and out of the sugar bowl for years, and IMHO the quality SBs are after the money and good sex both, so they want to be attracted to the SD. That's the big difference between SB and true prostitutes. Now there is certainly a sliding scale where they will be less selective the more you spend.
Bellissimo
01-16-23, 09:35
https://members.seeking.com/member/99c6b0c7-3e0f-473f-89b2-ab84e2f988b8
This one got back to me right away but only wants to sell you pictures for sixty dollars. Next!
What is the obsession with BBFS? Seriously, you have to ask that?
to me if you know what you're doing with right type of protection, lube etc. There's not much difference.Clearly you've never had good BBFS.
How about you worry about you, and let other people worry about themselves. No one comes to this forum to have unsolicited advice about STDs, etc. Forced at them. We're grown ass men and know the risks. This is an information sharing board, not the Sunday morning gospel.
Wants 500 for m&g.
Hey! I'm Celeste, nice to meet you. I want to Connect with someone who I can talk with, have fun and support. Connection is really important to me, looking for something long term but I'm open to possibilities. Honesty and respect are key.
Sure, we can have an initial meeting $500 not physical, see how we connect and take it from there. Lmk and I'll text you.Reached out to this one before seeing the reports here, and got the same copy and paste response. Who TF is dropping 5 bills on a M&G? SMH.
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I really appreciate your report. Especially the candor on your physical appearance. It was great getting a physical description of another monger out there. I'm white, 6'2", 60, and 300 pounds money not an issue. Despite my age and weight, which I disclose in my Seeking profile, I've been able to get a fair amount of pussy in the DC area much more than I ever thought!
That said, I've come to the conclusion my time is best spent not chasing tail, but spending the time to get back into physical shape. Not too long ago, I weighed in at 220. So, while I have a few SBs in long-term rotation, I'm going to take a break from actively pursuing new recruits until I can put forth a more desirable profile.For me, it's not a choice between gym or sex. It's a choice between doing something stress-relieving or not. Some days I work from 9 AM until 12 AM with a 2 hour break for dinner. I'm not about to go to the gym, which is more stressful and unenjoyable for me.
If I wasn't going on SA, I'd be spending money on escorts, or playing Poker at MGM, or something else. If I didn't have money to spend, I'd just be at home playing video games. My work is already stressful as is, I'm not going to add to it right now. Maybe when my business is more stable, but not in the near future.
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