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Hickory747
12-31-21, 10:42
This one is active again after a long layoff. Anyone ever partake?
https://members.seeking.com/member/8c10102a-ab3d-4e1a-9c91-4ffbdaf560ff
Sounds like you've hit your stride. Thanks for the tip about the sex toys in wishlists. It's been harder to decipher the intent of SBs since the site changed the FWB tag to 'friends'. SBs don't always tell you what's they're willing to do in their description so sometimes you need to use little clues. Anyone have any other good tips? TIA.No problem bro! It's not like everyone l favorite gets back to me. But the ones that have have been great. I'm still new there so still trying to figure things out. I'm just happy l met the ones l did and hopefully more down the road. The hunt continues. LOL.
Aloha and have a safe and happy new years eve my braddas!
BB44.
https://members.seeking.com/member/ebf2ed4c-ea39-4475-b9e7-fab770743324
Greetings from a snowy land far, far away. Did any of you ever sample this one? The account's not been active for a long time, but she has family in VA (and a separate account for that neck of the woods) that she visits. I met her out here in August and again a few weeks ago and filled her up raw 2 x on both occasions. Not super responsive or vocal, but relatively submissive during the act and she likes getting railed hard. She's supposed to be enlisting soon and will probably be off everyone's radar then, so I wondered if anyone else had sampled or if I was the only lucky bastard who did.
Stacey Kane23
01-18-22, 18:37
Anyone got Misty's new contact info? Her old phone is dead / sold.
Warning. PM if you want more info on this one. If you're going to see her, make sure you see her test first and that she's all clear. She has a nice body, but is about 15-20 lbs heavier than the pics she has up now. A bit of a dead fish.
https://www.sugardaddy.com/next/profilev3/1865830757800234
Hey boys I'll be stopping over for three days. Any intel on the cute UHM types?
BurtonVail
02-25-22, 07:42
https://members.seeking.com/member/ebf2ed4c-ea39-4475-b9e7-fab770743324
Greetings from a snowy land far, far away. Did any of you ever sample this one? The account's not been active for a long time, but she has family in VA (and a separate account for that neck of the woods) that she visits. I met her out here in August and again a few weeks ago and filled her up raw 2 x on both occasions. Not super responsive or vocal, but relatively submissive during the act and she likes getting railed hard. She's supposed to be enlisting soon and will probably be off everyone's radar then, so I wondered if anyone else had sampled or if I was the only lucky bastard who did.Where is the link?
NerdFriday
03-02-22, 14:21
Riches808.
https://members.seeking.com/member/3bab956b-22ca-47e0-84ad-e3af845e692f
MakeMeRich.
https://members.seeking.com/member/f4ec12d4-7bf9-435c-ac44-b396d4126511
Two profiles with the same picture, different usernames, stats, and bio.
Stay safe!
This short pinay in seeking is a stripper at rockza according to her pics off her Instagram.
https://members.seeking.com/member/8112a67e-80b1-48d9-85a0-78355341c638
Insta luxeprincesss
This short pinay in seeking is a stripper at rockza according to her pics off her Instagram.
https://members.seeking.com/member/8112a67e-80b1-48d9-85a0-78355341c638
Insta luxeprincesssPer her insta you see a dumb white tourist blowing all his $$ on this atm user, they are at the beach in Waikiki, she claims that's a friend I seriously doubt that it's probably her seeking clients.
YoungMonger808
03-13-22, 05:19
Per her insta you see a dumb white tourist blowing all his $$ on this atm user, they are at the beach in Waikiki, she claims that's a friend I seriously doubt that it's probably her seeking clients.She now massages at middle street.
She now massages at middle street.What name does she go by at middle street?
Decided to re-up my subscription to seeking, since they were running a 20% off promo. Met up with a sugar baby from Kauai https://members.seeking.com/member/6d951ffa-7454-4704-85fc-b9b8d97542d7 Not everyone's cup of tea, since she's really hairy. But very open to stuff.
https://members.seeking.com/member/8f7adb83-942c-49a2-989f-6a19ca4a3a1f Messaged this one before I quit seeking for a few months, gave my cell number. Out of the blue got a text a few days ago. Down to play, but it's more than I'd like to pay. On the other hand she's pretty hot. Long shot, but wondering if any brother's on the forum have met up with the second girl on this post?
NerdFriday
04-25-22, 20:44
Genie: https://members.seeking.com/member/4697ea7f-e131-4400-b02f-45670bc8de1c.
This ones definitely real, but she's crazy and probably an alcoholic.
Leilanisweet: https://members.seeking.com/member/d458564e-1d8e-4787-915f-e55d811df7cf.
Real and down to play. She's a little curvy, but not too bad. Her teeth are kinda weird, not sure if drugs or what.
Angelwings: https://members.seeking.com/member/6b48b3a2-0c02-4001-b5f4-44278f01fe8c.
This one IS NOT 33, not by a long shot. Probably closer to 53.
Ginger_baby: https://members.seeking.com/member/6e8b1296-f026-4eb3-954c-46ffc2bf9c18.
This one might not be real. Said down to play, but very flaky / unreliable. Next thing you know, posting her IG and asking me to follow.
Kstar850: https://members.seeking.com/member/acb356c3-902a-49fb-b46d-29fcaf5a5405.
This one seems genuine, but she's too big for me. Price was pretty low, considering she is very open to anything. Is married, which is also a turn off, even if her husband knows about it and is okay with it.
SunsetKisses: https://members.seeking.com/member/ba9b1f26-1c6b-47a5-82db-552466ed3ed1.
I think this one is on a new account for someone I met up with. If this is her, she's pretty nice, willing to play, a little bit bigger, but definitely lies about little things, which makes me concerned about more important things since she will do bare.
HardTimes808
04-25-22, 22:39
Decided to re-up my subscription to seeking, since they were running a 20% off promo. Met up with a sugar baby from Kauai https://members.seeking.com/member/6d951ffa-7454-4704-85fc-b9b8d97542d7 Not everyone's cup of tea, since she's really hairy. But very open to stuff.
https://members.seeking.com/member/8f7adb83-942c-49a2-989f-6a19ca4a3a1f Messaged this one before I quit seeking for a few months, gave my cell number. Out of the blue got a text a few days ago. Down to play, but it's more than I'd like to pay. On the other hand she's pretty hot. Long shot, but wondering if any brother's on the forum have met up with the second girl on this post?Do you have contact info for the Kauai girl?
Vajajalova
04-28-22, 18:09
Had a fun time with this one. Easy to meet up with, great companion to spend a few hours with. She's tall and long, great girl.
https://members.seeking.com/member/be3e655b-5d0a-4b07-9f50-4fbc13722df5
Nice little ginger girl, a former ballerina and loves to pleasure.
https://members.seeking.com/member/5abd136c-58df-4521-a2a8-eeb4a07372d3
Down to play but too many little rules that were red flags for me
https://members.seeking.com/member/113cc929-b33c-4ba6-9bfa-66fbd11b6969
Nice surfer girl, down to play, easy to meet up doesnt rush and is a lot of fun.
https://members.seeking.com/member/8030155d-a904-4720-b7a5-3494fc177f11
Nice lady, little older than her posted age of 28, easy to meet up with goes with the flow
https://members.seeking.com/member/3d4da927-c83e-432b-ab03-003c4a009e88
This one if full on pay for play, shes kinda annoying but for the first time seeing her she will have fun but is on the site more for a job than the spirit of a sd/sb arrangement
https://members.seeking.com/member/34800d0e-6e60-4216-befb-a8551ee05792
Awesome write ups. Good to see some success. Can I ask what a typical rate is if you averaged it out?
Had a fun time with this one. Easy to meet up with, great companion to spend a few hours with. She's tall and long, great girl.
https://members.seeking.com/member/be3e655b-5d0a-4b07-9f50-4fbc13722df5
Nice little ginger girl, a former ballerina and loves to pleasure.
https://members.seeking.com/member/5abd136c-58df-4521-a2a8-eeb4a07372d3
Down to play but too many little rules that were red flags for me
https://members.seeking.com/member/113cc929-b33c-4ba6-9bfa-66fbd11b6969
Nice surfer girl, down to play, easy to meet up doesnt rush and is a lot of fun.
https://members.seeking.com/member/8030155d-a904-4720-b7a5-3494fc177f11
Nice lady, little older than her posted age of 28, easy to meet up with goes with the flow
https://members.seeking.com/member/3d4da927-c83e-432b-ab03-003c4a009e88
This one if full on pay for play, shes kinda annoying but for the first time seeing her she will have fun but is on the site more for a job than the spirit of a sd/sb arrangement
https://members.seeking.com/member/34800d0e-6e60-4216-befb-a8551ee05792
Awesome write ups. Good to see some success. Can I ask what a typical rate is if you averaged it out?I don't know what he ended up gifting, but here's my experience with since of them.
1st one (tall and long) - was tons of fun 160.
Former ballerina. Was fun 200.
Lots of rules. Never saw and wouldn't go under 300.
Surfer girl. Never saw but wouldn't go under 300 for non intercourse, 5 for everything. Seemed chill though.
No experience with the older one.
Last one wanted 2-3 but seemed too much like a job with her and didn't find her looks good enough as well, so I passed.
She now massages at middle street.LOL for real is it verified? Her name is sierra from what she told me off text
LOL for real is it verified? Her name is sierra from what she told me off textI don't know about that. She's never mentioned it to me. I'll ask.
Very useful thank you!
I don't know what he ended up gifting, but here's my experience with since of them.
1st one (tall and long) - was tons of fun 160.
Former ballerina. Was fun 200.
Lots of rules. Never saw and wouldn't go under 300.
Surfer girl. Never saw but wouldn't go under 300 for non intercourse, 5 for everything. Seemed chill though.
No experience with the older one.
Last one wanted 2-3 but seemed too much like a job with her and didn't find her looks good enough as well, so I passed.
https://members.seeking.com/member/64f75925-3fb1-4b40-8d23-841ce8b3ffa6
Be careful of this one. I was in the mood for some chocolate, so I made contact and started texting back and forth. Everything went south when she asked me for my real phone # and address. To me, that is like asking for my bank account info. She said she wanted it for verification and trust issues. Trust deez nutz in her mouth. Anyway be careful out there braddahs.
She removed her profile pic, but here is a selfie from her.
https://members.seeking.com/member/64f75925-3fb1-4b40-8d23-841ce8b3ffa6
Be careful of this one. I was in the mood for some chocolate, so I made contact and started texting back and forth. Everything went south when she asked me for my real phone # and address. To me, that is like asking for my bank account info. She said she wanted it for verification and trust issues. Trust deez nutz in her mouth. Anyway be careful out there braddahs.
She removed her profile pic, but here is a selfie from her.Not comfy with asking for my address, no need to know if not asking for an outcall.
Been off USA and SA for about a year and a half.
When did SA rates go through the roof? Used to be 29.99 or 39.99 a month if memory serves me right? Inflation do that too? $109 per month?
You guys finding it worth it these days? Price hike maybe resulted in better talent, less bots and flakes or nah?
Was surprised to see that price for premium. Blame that on Biden too I guess. Thanks Uncle Joe.
JB.
LivininDa808
05-18-22, 02:58
Been off USA and SA for about a year and a half.
When did SA rates go through the roof? Used to be 29.99 or 39.99 a month if memory serves me right? Inflation do that too? $109 per month?
You guys finding it worth it these days? Price hike maybe resulted in better talent, less bots and flakes or nah?
Was surprised to see that price for premium. Blame that on Biden too I guess. Thanks Uncle Joe.
JB.Sadly there's a lot of young GPS out there. Has been for the past few years. I'm sure these women are thinking they're going to meet a lot of men willing to pay them for a platonic, online, nothing physical, I'll pay you for the honor of being in your presence relationship. Give me a effin' break. You can still find those willing to play, but most are asking the same as visiting escorts. The last two quotes I got this week was for 5 and 7. Personally I don't mind 3-4 for someone young and relatively good looking because they are extremely low volume in comparison to their sisters at the AMP.
Vajajalova
05-18-22, 19:12
Sadly there's a lot of young GPS out there. Has been for the past few years. I'm sure these women are thinking they're going to meet a lot of men willing to pay them for a platonic, online, nothing physical, I'll pay you for the honor of being in your presence relationship. Give me a effin' break. You can still find those willing to play, but most are asking the same as visiting escorts. The last two quotes I got this week was for 5 and 7. Personally I don't mind 3-4 for someone young and relatively good looking because they are extremely low volume in comparison to their sisters at the AMP.Who are you receiving quotes for 5 and 7.
Been off USA and SA for about a year and a half.
When did SA rates go through the roof? Used to be 29.99 or 39.99 a month if memory serves me right? Inflation do that too? $109 per month?
You guys finding it worth it these days? Price hike maybe resulted in better talent, less bots and flakes or nah?
Was surprised to see that price for premium. Blame that on Biden too I guess. Thanks Uncle Joe.
JB.I've been with SA over the years and share your sentiment. I think it's a basic function of SA being able to charge more as its user base grew. Unfortunately it's encouraged more GPS girls too. In the beginning the girls on SA were truly gnd and girls you might meet going out, but now there are a lot of what I would call semi pros that kind of ruin the game.
Nevertheless, I still keep my membership because while it feels like we have to do extra work, once you do find SB that matches your schedule and similar expectations, it's can be GREAT. Last year I had a golden window of 3 super hot young college SBs who got along and I was having BBFS threesomes with them almost every week. Now it took just as much work as normal dating, but that's part of the game with SA, you got to treat these girls like real life, and the reward is the sex will be just like in real life.
Long story short, two moved back to the mainland and one became a stripper and we kind of just stopped seeing each other. I spent the next 6 months trying to restock my stable but never found the right SBs. I recently just met another one and took a last min trip with her last week and I think it might be promising. It's all a game in landing the right girl and keeping them, just like dating, but SBs I can be more open sexually right off the bat and encourage them to try things like threesomes vs normal dating that would take forever or might even never be a topic of conversation. TEHO.
DrSexMachine
05-24-22, 15:23
I've been with SA over the years and share your sentiment. I think it's a basic function of SA being able to charge more as its user base grew. Unfortunately it's encouraged more GPS girls too. In the beginning the girls on SA were truly gnd and girls you might meet going out, but now there are a lot of what I would call semi pros that kind of ruin the game.
Nevertheless, I still keep my membership because while it feels like we have to do extra work, once you do find SB that matches your schedule and similar expectations, it's can be GREAT. Last year I had a golden window of 3 super hot young college SBs who got along and I was having BBFS threesomes with them almost every week. Now it took just as much work as normal dating, but that's part of the game with SA, you got to treat these girls like real life, and the reward is the sex will be just like in real life.
Long story short, two moved back to the mainland and one became a stripper and we kind of just stopped seeing each other. I spent the next 6 months trying to restock my stable but never found the right SBs. I recently just met another one and took a last min trip with her last week and I think it might be promising. It's all a game in landing the right girl and keeping them, just like dating, but SBs I can be more open sexually right off the bat and encourage them to try things like threesomes vs normal dating that would take forever or might even never be a topic of conversation. TEHO.Which strip club is she at? Stage name?
Which strip club is she at? Stage name?Hawaii by Night. Not sure of her stage name, didn't ask. Apparently they have an IG but it's private so I can't see it. Altho I've heard many first hand accounts out of that club so I wouldn't be surprised if she's not the only girl there that hustles on the side.
Regardless, I'm not going into more details and certainly not going to outright I'd her here. I try respect the privacy for non pros to a certain degree. Most of us are respectful but there's always that bad apple who might go there yelling "hey I heard you fuck dudes!
Tetare7227
06-05-22, 02:02
I'm new to this hobby and was wondering if anyone could share their favorite sb's that are easy to set up with and willing to play. And could also share what price they paid, mahalos.
Kbsomthin2
06-06-22, 16:07
Asking for our stable without putting the time and money into it to reciprocate would be a newbie move for sure. As a long time hobbyist on both seeking and secretbenefits all I can offer you is that if you're legit and polite the returns can be amazing. Lately there are more GPS type girls on both sites and it takes hours and hours of weeding out the good and bad. Put the time in and it will pay off!
I'm new to this hobby and was wondering if anyone could share their favorite sb's that are easy to set up with and willing to play. And could also share what price they paid, mahalos.
Asking for our stable without putting the time and money into it to reciprocate would be a newbie move for sure. As a long time hobbyist on both seeking and secretbenefits all I can offer you is that if you're legit and polite the returns can be amazing. Lately there are more GPS type girls on both sites and it takes hours and hours of weeding out the good and bad. Put the time in and it will pay off!Perfect summation.
I keep telling people you have to treat SA almost more like tinder or bumble. You need to put in work and gamesmanship. It's not just a directory of pros.
Agree on the GPS too. Seems to be more jaded ones & semi pros during the summer when the coeds go back home.
Bottom Out
06-07-22, 16:35
Perfect summation.
I keep telling people you have to treat SA almost more like tinder or bumble. You need to put in work and gamesmanship. It's not just a directory of pros.
Agree on the GPS too. Seems to be more jaded ones & semi pros during the summer when the coeds go back home.So since SA is becoming more like Tinder and Bumble but Tinder and Bumble already has been known to be the FWB dating apps, might it better to stick with Tinder and Bumble since they are free and might get the same results?
So since SA is becoming more like Tinder and Bumble but Tinder and Bumble already has been known to be the FWB dating apps, might it better to stick with Tinder and Bumble since they are free and might get the same results?Back when I was in Hawaii, I went this route the last four months or so and it paid off. It's free and the same girls are most likely on Tinder that you find on SA. SA in Hawaii wasn't worth the headache with the platonics and risks of being banned. The bars have the same level of girls and of course the strip clubs. There's young college type action to be had if you want to put some effort into it. Long gone are the days when you could hop on SA and have a girl over the same night. SA really have them thinking guys want to pay for their attention or lack thereof.
Bottom Out
06-08-22, 14:01
Back when I was in Hawaii, I went this route the last four months or so and it paid off. It's free and the same girls are most likely on Tinder that you find on SA. SA in Hawaii wasn't worth the headache with the platonics and risks of being banned. The bars have the same level of girls and of course the strip clubs. There's young college type action to be had if you want to put some effort into it. Long gone are the days when you could hop on SA and have a girl over the same night. SA really have them thinking guys want to pay for their attention or lack thereof.I've had a few success on Tinder. Some girls are straight forward in their profiles that they are seeking a FWB or a 3rd person. Slept with a few nice looking college age girls either looking for money or just needing to get some action. Sounds like SA was a great site at one time but slowly developed into a place for GPS girls to hang out.
Back when I was in Hawaii, I went this route the last four months or so and it paid off. It's free and the same girls are most likely on Tinder that you find on SA. SA in Hawaii wasn't worth the headache with the platonics and risks of being banned. The bars have the same level of girls and of course the strip clubs. There's young college type action to be had if you want to put some effort into it. Long gone are the days when you could hop on SA and have a girl over the same night. SA really have them thinking guys want to pay for their attention or lack thereof.Makes sense & I can definitely see that. For me the layer of privacy in SA over tinder is important. We all got to play to our situations. And I think overall (every case is different of course) SA does allow me to get to the point sooner than just going out or dating apps, this saving some time (theoretically).
Makes sense & I can definitely see that. For me the layer of privacy in SA over tinder is important. We all got to play to our situations. And I think overall (every case is different of course) SA does allow me to get to the point sooner than just going out or dating apps, this saving some time (theoretically).I've never posted a pic on tinder or SA. I cleverly written profile worked for a long time till I got banned (multiple times). For some strange reason I used to link with a higher percentage of military girls but I don't mind them. The price of SA was never the issue for me it's the platonics and the amount of time it takes to weed out the BS artist. I figure I might as well search Tinder for free and spend the same amount of time.
Anybody have experience w site what's your price? Thinking of buying some credits. Wanted to see if red hot Roxy was around. It says she accepted my offer but could be a scam. Is she still around?
Anybody have experience w site what's your price? Thinking of buying some credits. Wanted to see if red hot Roxy was around. It says she accepted my offer but could be a scam. Is she still around?Re: Whatsyourprice.com
I have used this site and have met a few good wahines as well as some not so good ones, both young and MILF wahines, I try not to spend on this site since I need my kala for my ATF wahines, GL.
Been on seeking now for almost three months trying this out. I had this once back in the day just before COVID and it was pretty good. I had some good hits that followed through and a some flakes or scams. This second time around, it seems like its either crazy over inflated prices or just flakes or just tiring to sell their OF accounts. Anyone who is active on Seeking has a different experience than this?
This chick is giving a "masterclass" on being a sugarbaby. Probably will start seeing more GPS.
https://www.instagram.com/ceoestheticsllc/
Cougar Bait
11-02-22, 22:18
Sounds too good to be true? Wants $400 for wham bam done. Lives in town.
Lookingangel.
https://members.seeking.com/member/9cf38493-026e-4245-87f1-a7238fd38ebd
Anyone try? She says she's been on before. Way too explicit in her messaging.
HIbabexo03.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/5b3ff27884c0cb63
Didn't quote a price but provided ppm for "dates and sexual meets" - I didn't follow through. Too much attitude.
Kissmyaxeee.
https://members.seeking.com/member/004ca71c-a0ab-4ecb-bb98-975ea423998b
Hawaii By Night stripper.
Bblinds.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/ea816a5d625f30c3
Onyx bargirl?
MsAlohaSugar.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/4b8f45f5e9875aeb
Quoted $500-1000 for action but conversation died off.
Sounds too good to be true? Wants $400 for wham bam done. Lives in town.
Lookingangel.
https://members.seeking.com/member/9cf38493-026e-4245-87f1-a7238fd38ebd
Anyone try? She says she's been on before. Way too explicit in her messaging.
HIbabexo03.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/5b3ff27884c0cb63
Didn't quote a price but provided ppm for "dates and sexual meets" - I didn't follow through. Too much attitude.
Kissmyaxeee.
https://members.seeking.com/member/004ca71c-a0ab-4ecb-bb98-975ea423998b
Hawaii By Night stripper.
Bblinds.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/ea816a5d625f30c3
Onyx bargirl?
MsAlohaSugar.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/4b8f45f5e9875aeb
Quoted $500-1000 for action but conversation died off.Kissmyaxeee is legit and love to fuck but has a huge hole. I saw her two years back with the Kat freak.
On a side note, those 420 hunny girls play quite a bit under the table if you're into that crowd.
Bottom Out
11-07-22, 14:12
I see Kayla is still on the site.
I see Kayla is still on the site.Tread carefully with her. I'm speaking from experience.
Who are the ones I should definitely reach out to?
Surfer Ten
11-14-22, 20:20
I totally agree with Brother Kbsomthin2. As it is with most things, one's results usually indicate the amount and quality of the effort they've put into it. I've been on SA, SB and AM for a long time now as I was tired of paying so much and dealing with the BS (high prices, shorting of time, upselling, bad attitude) of the newer generation of MT's (if you can even call them that). Many the MT's or I should say "providers" on Bedpage, CL, an other sites nowadays don't have a MT license and can't even give a decent rubdown, much less a therapeutic one. Many of them can't even give a decent HJ. The only thing they've got going for them is their looks. So, a while ago, I decided fuck that shit! For massages, I now only go to legit therapeutic massage thereapists. They are licensed, know what they are doing and help keep this old and battered up body running nicely.
For play, I began focusing on sharpening my game so that I could win on SA, SB and AM. I'm an old man but I do well on those sites because I've put in the work, can easily weed out the scammers and GPS bitches and know that simple honesty, respect and appreciation goes a very long way. There are some absolute gems on these sites that aren't only in it for the money. Many of them have gone through some hard times, other than financial hardship. You know, fucked up relationships (can't believe how many dumb fuckers out there treat their women like shit) or just simply a difficult life due to a whole range of other reasons. You treat them with the respect and genuine appreciation they've craved for so many years of dealing with assholes and you will win big my brother! But, you've got to put in the work. Be a gentleman. Don't send her stupid messages like "you look hot babe, I'd love to show you a good time!
Take your time to make a good first impression. She'll just delete one liners or some lazy assed generic shit. You can get a really good idea of who she is and what's important to her from either her profile or what she replies when you ask her about herself. If she seems interesting to you, then go for it. Don't try to fake your interest in her just to get in her pants because she'll see right through it. Put in the time and effort and you'll have great results brother! Good luck and much Aloha! ST.
Asking for our stable without putting the time and money into it to reciprocate would be a newbie move for sure. As a long time hobbyist on both seeking and secretbenefits all I can offer you is that if you're legit and polite the returns can be amazing. Lately there are more GPS type girls on both sites and it takes hours and hours of weeding out the good and bad. Put the time in and it will pay off!
Ok, got a good one lined up. Where can I get an hourly room rental or something like that? Need for a little while this evening. .
Captain Nemo
11-16-22, 14:21
I totally agree with Brother Kbsomthin2. As it is with most things, one's results usually indicate the amount and quality of the effort they've put into it. I've been on SA, SB and AM for a long time now as I was tired of paying so much and dealing with the BS (high prices, shorting of time, upselling, bad attitude) of the newer generation of MT's (if you can even call them that). Many the MT's or I should say "providers" on Bedpage, CL, an other sites nowadays don't have a MT license and can't even give a decent rubdown, much less a therapeutic one. Many of them can't even give a decent HJ. The only thing they've got going for them is their looks. So, a while ago, I decided fuck that shit! For massages, I now only go to legit therapeutic massage thereapists. They are licensed, know what they are doing and help keep this old and battered up body running nicely.
For play, I began focusing on sharpening my game so that I could win on SA, SB and AM. I'm an old man but I do well on those sites because I've put in the work, can easily weed out the scammers and GPS bitches and know that simple honesty, respect and appreciation goes a very long way. There are some absolute gems on these sites that aren't only in it for the money. Many of them have gone through some hard times, other than financial hardship. You know, fucked up relationships (can't believe how many dumb fuckers out there treat their women like shit) or just simply a difficult life due to a whole range of other reasons. You treat them with the respect and genuine appreciation they've craved for so many years of dealing with assholes and you will win big my brother! But, you've got to put in the work. Be a gentleman. Don't send her stupid messages like "you look hot babe, I'd love to show you a good time!
Take your time to make a good first impression. She'll just delete one liners or some lazy assed generic shit. You can get a really good idea of who she is and what's important to her from either her profile or what she replies when you ask her about herself. If she seems interesting to you, then go for it. Don't try to fake your interest in her just to get in her pants because she'll see right through it. Put in the time and effort and you'll have great results brother! Good luck and much Aloha! ST.Very nicely put ST. The wisdom of experience.
Mahalo.
Restless1728
11-16-22, 14:44
Ok, got a good one lined up. Where can I get an hourly room rental or something like that? Need for a little while this evening. .Check out dayuse app for discount hourly rates.
Check out dayuse app for discount hourly rates.Thanks. We just did some car play, but all good. I tried to get a day use but it was in the evening so it's questionable. LOL.
HogBalls69
11-25-22, 00:54
This chick is giving a "masterclass" on being a sugarbaby. Probably will start seeing more GPS.
https://www.instagram.com/ceoestheticsllc/Yes I already Googled, but I guess not well enough. What exactly does "GPS" mean in this context? Mahalo.
Yes I already Googled, but I guess not well enough. What exactly does "GPS" mean in this context? Mahalo.In this context, it probably means "Golden Pussy Syndrome."
LargeRocket69
11-25-22, 13:33
Yes I already Googled, but I guess not well enough. What exactly does "GPS" mean in this context? Mahalo.GPS=Golden Pussy Syndrome, if I recall. It basically means the girl thinks she's worth more because she's a female, has a pussy, and feels men should basically worship her without getting much in return or at an extremely high cost.
HogBalls69
11-27-22, 01:39
Aloha. Just joined SB several days ago, and already lined up a dinner date for several days from now. She said her rate was $300 for the date (with of course me paying for the dinner). I'm well versed regarding the timeliness of payment, such as with an AMP (house fee up front but no tips until end of session), or and. Kukui St. Dates (no payment until end of session), with under no circumstances payment with gift cards, upfront deposits, etc.
If it's a dinner date, I would assume it falls along the same lines of no payment of the $300 until the end of the date? Any pointers in avoiding scams (once the dinner date starts) would be greatly appreciated. You may PM me if you like. Mahalo.
Aloha. Just joined SB several days ago, and already lined up a dinner date for several days from now. She said her rate was $300 for the date (with of course me paying for the dinner). I'm well versed regarding the timeliness of payment, such as with an AMP (house fee up front but no tips until end of session), or and. Kukui St. Dates (no payment until end of session), with under no circumstances payment with gift cards, upfront deposits, etc.
If it's a dinner date, I would assume it falls along the same lines of no payment of the $300 until the end of the date? Any pointers in avoiding scams (once the dinner date starts) would be greatly appreciated. You may PM me if you like. Mahalo.Sounds like you're walking into the classic "platonic" trap. Never walk into things unsure what you're going to get. Why would you pay her 300 just to sit across from you playing on her phone? Just tell her you'd feel more comfortable meeting prior to dinner to make sure you guys are compatible.
HogBalls69
11-27-22, 16:28
Sounds like you're walking into the classic "platonic" trap. Never walk into things unsure what you're going to get. Why would you pay her 300 just to sit across from you playing on her phone? Just tell her you'd feel more comfortable meeting prior to dinner to make sure you guys are compatible.Much mahalo for the advice. I'll also ask her various questions (once face to face) about the mutually beneficial potential. She did seem really open to get a bite to eat almost anywhere in town. I'm sure for $300, I'd be willing to eat almost anywhere. LOL.
On a side note, I noticed most people here talk about SA instead of SB. I've only been on SB for a short period of time as I just recently wanted a change of pace from the AMPs, the and. Kukui St. Runway, and the infrequent escort. I am actively exchanging messages on SB with several of them (from college age to cougars). I'm about out of my SB intro credit package however. Maybe SA would (in general) be a better site to check out?
Much mahalo for the advice. I'll also ask her various questions (once face to face) about the mutually beneficial potential. She did seem really open to get a bite to eat almost anywhere in town. I'm sure for $300, I'd be willing to eat almost anywhere. LOL.
On a side note, I noticed most people here talk about SA instead of SB. I've only been on SB for a short period of time as I just recently wanted a change of pace from the AMPs, the and. Kukui St. Runway, and the infrequent escort. I am actively exchanging messages on SB with several of them (from college age to cougars). I'm about out of my SB intro credit package however. Maybe SA would (in general) be a better site to check out?That's an expensive dinner. Was there a set understanding that you will get after the dinner or is it just dinner at the 300? Are you looking for just a one night stand or a arm candy while out and about the town? Let us know how everything turns out.
Sounds like you're walking into the classic "platonic" trap. Never walk into things unsure what you're going to get. Why would you pay her 300 just to sit across from you playing on her phone? Just tell her you'd feel more comfortable meeting prior to dinner to make sure you guys are compatible.Excellent advice.
Pay $300, plus the cost of the dinner, with no knowledge of what (if anything) will happen afterward? Doing that just encourages "parasites" to expect large amounts of cash merely for eating a free dinner.
NerdFriday
11-28-22, 01:03
On a side note, I noticed most people here talk about SA instead of SB. I've only been on SB for a short period of time as I just recently wanted a change of pace from the AMPs, the and. Kukui St. Runway, and the infrequent escort. I am actively exchanging messages on SB with several of them (from college age to cougars). I'm about out of my SB intro credit package however. Maybe SA would (in general) be a better site to check out?SB has a lot of bogus accounts, accounts that are simply there to bait you into spending "tokens" to see their messages. I didn't spend a lot time on that site, but I did find at least 2 "real" people on there, but one was a "professional" and the other one was a time waster, so none were real sugar baby material.
SA has a lot more real people on it and you don't need to pay to message each of them, but with that said, there is still a mix of scammers, fakes, time wasters, and GPS. However, I have had / have several great arrangements on there over the years. All were BBFS at some point and sometimes CIP because there is a degree of trust that doesn't come with seeing a "pro". If you're a good guy, keep your word, you can find sugar babies that are just like real girlfriends without all the hassle. If you're in a rush, you can try a pro and do CFS or super risky BBFS, but with a sugar baby there is a "courting" just like hooking up on tinder or meeting someone at a bar. Got to remember that "pay to play" is not really how it's supposed to work, especially once it comes to giving an allowance. Find a good baby and she might fuck you 3-4 times week because she likes it for the same allowance as 3-4 a month for one that doesn't.
SB has a lot of bogus accounts, accounts that are simply there to bait you into spending "tokens" to see their messages. I didn't spend a lot time on that site, but I did find at least 2 "real" people on there, but one was a "professional" and the other one was a time waster, so none were real sugar baby material.
SA has a lot more real people on it and you don't need to pay to message each of them, but with that said, there is still a mix of scammers, fakes, time wasters, and GPS. However, I have had / have several great arrangements on there over the years. All were BBFS at some point and sometimes CIP because there is a degree of trust that doesn't come with seeing a "pro". If you're a good guy, keep your word, you can find sugar babies that are just like real girlfriends without all the hassle. If you're in a rush, you can try a pro and do CFS or super risky BBFS, but with a sugar baby there is a "courting" just like hooking up on tinder or meeting someone at a bar. Got to remember that "pay to play" is not really how it's supposed to work, especially once it comes to giving an allowance. Find a good baby and she might fuck you 3-4 times week because she likes it for the same allowance as 3-4 a month for one that doesn't.I haven't been on SA for the past 2 years or so due to a ban, I've been trying SB. It definitely has a lot of bogus accounts, though I have had a few successes from SB. I can't really compare to SA since I haven't bothered remaking another account, but I definitely noticed a massive increase in the number of platonic only / time waster SBs after covid.
HogBalls69
12-01-22, 21:14
Sounds like you're walking into the classic "platonic" trap. Never walk into things unsure what you're going to get. Why would you pay her 300 just to sit across from you playing on her phone? Just tell her you'd feel more comfortable meeting prior to dinner to make sure you guys are compatible.Much mahalo everyone for the advice. I reached back out to her, and she never responded.
SB does seem to have quite a few bots. In my first two weeks, I have gotten one initial meet and greet out of the way (beautiful Japanese lady in her mid-20's). I'll probably start seeing her at my residence for about $400 ppm. Another one I'm planning for a meet & greet later this week (27 year old Hawaiian-Chinese. Medium build). She gave an initial quote of $300 ppm.
Seems that most of them greatly prefer to lay low at the other person's residence (for a variety of reasons).
I also got one quote of $600 for a CBJ by a 20 year old Japanese / Korean student. Would this be GLippsS or GMouthS? LOL.
HogBalls69
12-03-22, 20:56
Obviously one of the big reasons why this message board is around (other than for braggarts who are already ready all hours of the day / evening for mongering), is to post questions / concerns, and lessons learned for others.
The first lady whom I had about a 15 minute meet and greet (at her residence) which seemed really nice. We spoke about enjoying each others company. I told her I'd get back to her in a day or two to see if she wanted to start going out on a ppm basis (at a $ amount and frequency we talked about). Sent her a text two days later. Never got a response (other than she shut down my access to her private pics on SB).
I guess my question is, how do people schedule the meeting and greet (along with the date that the ppm is used for)? Do most people just have the ppm $$$ ready right there during the meet and greet?
If anyone wants to PM me, that's fine. Again, mahalo everyone for the previous advice.
I know it's still early in the game for me, but man I may have to go back to the and. Kukui St. Runway where it's a lot more straightforward. LOL.
TrialnError
12-03-22, 22:29
Obviously one of the big reasons why this message board is around (other than for braggarts who are already ready all hours of the day / evening for mongering), is to post questions / concerns, and lessons learned for others.
The first lady whom I had about a 15 minute meet and greet (at her residence) which seemed really nice. We spoke about enjoying each others company. I told her I'd get back to her in a day or two to see if she wanted to start going out on a ppm basis (at a $ amount and frequency we talked about). Sent her a text two days later. Never got a response (other than she shut down my access to her private pics on SB).
I guess my question is, how do people schedule the meeting and greet (along with the date that the ppm is used for)? Do most people just have the ppm $$$ ready right there during the meet and greet?
If anyone wants to PM me, that's fine. Again, mahalo everyone for the previous advice.
I know it's still early in the game for me, but man I may have to go back to the and. Kukui St. Runway where it's a lot more straightforward. LOL.Not sure how the sugar baby meet up's work but maybe another GPS situation and also maybe disappointed no payment was made on the first meet?
Obviously one of the big reasons why this message board is around (other than for braggarts who are already ready all hours of the day / evening for mongering), is to post questions / concerns, and lessons learned for others.
The first lady whom I had about a 15 minute meet and greet (at her residence) which seemed really nice. We spoke about enjoying each others company. I told her I'd get back to her in a day or two to see if she wanted to start going out on a ppm basis (at a $ amount and frequency we talked about). Sent her a text two days later. Never got a response (other than she shut down my access to her private pics on SB).
I guess my question is, how do people schedule the meeting and greet (along with the date that the ppm is used for)? Do most people just have the ppm $$$ ready right there during the meet and greet?
If anyone wants to PM me, that's fine. Again, mahalo everyone for the previous advice.
I know it's still early in the game for me, but man I may have to go back to the and. Kukui St. Runway where it's a lot more straightforward. LOL.I try to schedule the meet and greet (if they opt for it) near my place and ask them to come over at the end of the meet and greet if they're sane. In my experience, they know pretty quickly if they'll go all the way with you so I generally try to move quickly. If you schedule a follow up date rather than immediately getting them in bed, there's a pretty good chance they'll talk themselves out of it in the meantime. Got to strike while the iron's hot.
NerdFriday
12-04-22, 18:28
Obviously one of the big reasons why this message board is around (other than for braggarts who are already ready all hours of the day / evening for mongering), is to post questions / concerns, and lessons learned for others.
The first lady whom I had about a 15 minute meet and greet (at her residence) which seemed really nice. We spoke about enjoying each others company. I told her I'd get back to her in a day or two to see if she wanted to start going out on a ppm basis (at a $ amount and frequency we talked about). Sent her a text two days later. Never got a response (other than she shut down my access to her private pics on SB).
I guess my question is, how do people schedule the meeting and greet (along with the date that the ppm is used for)? Do most people just have the ppm $$$ ready right there during the meet and greet?
If anyone wants to PM me, that's fine. Again, mahalo everyone for the previous advice.
I know it's still early in the game for me, but man I may have to go back to the and. Kukui St. Runway where it's a lot more straightforward. LOL.I always ask if they are willing to meet me at my place for a M&G. This is the biggest indicator they are DTF, but it is not a guarantee. Some will insist on meeting in public, which can work out, but that could also be a waste of money if you take them somewhere nice and they don't want to come back to your place after.
You met her at her place. This is generally not a "good vibe" in the SB world. Remember that they want you to elevate their world, not come down to theirs. They are basically seeing if you are capable of fulfilling the promises you made to them. If you live in a shithole, drive a shitty car, and took them to McDonalds on a first date, they are unlikely to believe that you will pay them $X,OOO a month or w / e you have agreed to.
However, you need to understand that most SB's do not think of themselves as prostitutes, more like Tinder dates but for $. This means you have do be at least decent looking, have decent social skills, a decent job, place, and car. Most mongers forget about all that. If you are picking up a "professional" they don't care about anything except the money. Most SB's want to have a decent "vibe" with you. They don't want you to be a filthy old man, unless you are filthy rich.
Always try to seal the deal on the day of. Sure, it doesn't always work that way, but as others have said, you need to strike while the irons hot. Once you pounded squid one time, they are much more likely to do it again, whereas if you text them back after two days, they had time to reconsider. Only during the pandemic did I see SB's who just wanted a one nighter. I had like 5 hits. It was great because they need to pay rent / school / buy food LOL. Normally SB's are looking for something regular, and usually non-monogamous.
EDIT: I forgot to add that communication is the most important aspect of sugar dating. This means communication about allowances, PPM's, and "gifts". Before you start asking them anything related to sexytime, ensure that both of you know exactly how the money will work. Sometimes they want $ for a M&G, sometimes they don't, but the point is don't guess. Both of you should know what they're getting, how much, and when. They are judging you from the moment you message them and this intensity increases once you meet them in real life. Never start parting out "services", like saying platonic is 1, sexytime is 5, and ATM or whatever is 10. M&G is one price. After that, the money is always the same, whether it's PPM or allowance. Don't bargain with their bodies. Remember, they are not "professionals". The more they like you, the more they give you. It's not a la carte.
HogBalls69
12-05-22, 00:19
I always ask if they are willing to meet me at my place for a M&G. This is the biggest indicator they are DTF, but it is not a guarantee. Some will insist on meeting in public, which can work out, but that could also be a waste of money if you take them somewhere nice and they don't want to come back to your place after.Although it was my first M&G in the context of a SD / SB situation, it just seemed kinda weird. She DID initially want to meet at my place. Within a day of giving her my address, she then said she had car trouble and asked if I could meet at her place the next day. (NOTE: I live in a somewhat modern multi-bedroom house in a decent section of town). I soon discovered the place where she resides, is actually the same house (in Hawaii Kai) that I had gone to once last year, to see a well known (on this forum) MILF MT from Japan. I walked into the house. She led me into her bedroom (NOT the same bedroom where the other MT had worked on me). There was a massage table in the room with folded clothes on it, along with an actual bed, dresser, etc. We both sat on the bed. We had agreed on a 15 minute M&G. The conversation however lasted about 25 minutes. I then had to go as I had an appointment to be somewhere else in an hour. We had already discussed terms about ppm and frequency. I told her that I would leave it up to her to think it over, then I would get back to her in the next day or two. As I was leaving, she said she wished I could stay longer. (Note: I am middle aged man who engages primarily in face to face conversation with a wide variety of people for a living. I also regularly go to the gym, drive a modest sedan, and otherwise earn a decent living with an amount a little above the Hawaii median total household income). I told her I wish I could stay, but I really had to go to this other locale (which I did)).
Looking back, I should of at least had the $$ ready to put down, and told the other parties who were waiting on me to f**k off. I didn't have the $$ already on me (as I was only prepared for what I though was a "simple" M&G). Lessons learned, and I hope these reports will help someone down the road not make the same mistakes I did.
I have one more SD / SB M&G (hopefully) lined up for later this week. I'll keep you gentlemen posted.
I've also decided not to renew my SB account. If I decide to continue, it'll be with SA (or I'll wait until I retire in the next several years and become a SD somewhere in Thailand LOL). I'll post later this week about some of the numbers I've based my decision upon, to quit SB.
Hickory747
12-05-22, 02:03
Curve-a-licious.
PAWG. Solid menu and asks 3 for BBFS / CIM / CIP YMMV.
Sweetgirlhawaii.
PAWG. Solid menu and asks 2 for BBFS / BBBJ CIM YMMV.
Thiquekisses.
Thicc Local mix. Solid menu and asks 3 for.
BBFS / BBBJ YMMV.
PiperLUV3.
Thicc Local poly mix. Solid menu asks 2. 5 for.
BBFS / BBBJCIMWS / Greek on the table for xtra.
All is all SB has served me well! Good luck!
NerdFriday
12-05-22, 11:39
Although it was my first M&G in the context of a SD / SB situation, it just seemed kinda weird. She DID initially want to meet at my place. Within a day of giving her my address, she then said she had car trouble and asked if I could meet at her place the next day. (NOTE: I live in a somewhat modern multi-bedroom house in a decent section of town). I soon discovered the place where she resides, is actually the same house (in Hawaii Kai) that I had gone to once last year, to see a well known (on this forum) MILF MT from Japan. I walked into the house. She led me into her bedroom (NOT the same bedroom where the other MT had worked on me). There was a massage table in the room with folded clothes on it, along with an actual bed, dresser, etc. We both sat on the bed. The fact she had a massage table and you've been to that same place prior, I would think she is a "pro", and personally, I would avoid. With that said, it definitely sounds like she wanted to seal the deal that day and because that did not happen, she probably thinks you're a time waster and that's why she removed your access to her photos (no flame, just speculating as to what's going on in her mind). The good news is, if you are DTF, she's probably ready and willing, and her schedule is probably much more flexible than the average person.
I've also decided not to renew my SB account. If I decide to continue, it'll be with SA (or I'll wait until I retire in the next several years and become a SD somewhere in Thailand LOL). I'll post later this week about some of the numbers I've based my decision upon, to quit SB.IMO, SA is much better. After I wasted maybe $$ on SB I realized like 95% of my "unlocked messages" were never read and the "people" who were DMing me never logged in again. Have you thought about trying What's Your Price? I never have because SA has been working fine for me for about 4-5 years now, but I hear there is some action to be had on there. From the way it sounds though, it might have a lot of GPS and people who actually think you'll give them $$$ twice a week for the privilege of farming them Instagram content at your expense LOL.
NerdFriday
12-05-22, 11:40
Curve-a-licious.
PAWG. Solid menu and asks 3 for BBFS / CIM / CIP YMMV.
Sweetgirlhawaii.
PAWG. Solid menu and asks 2 for BBFS / BBBJ CIM YMMV.
Thiquekisses.
Thicc Local mix. Solid menu and asks 3 for.
BBFS / BBBJ YMMV.
PiperLUV3.
Thicc Local poly mix. Solid menu asks 2. 5 for.
BBFS / BBBJCIMWS / Greek on the table for xtra.
All is all SB has served me well! Good luck!Great report! Thanks!
Curve-a-licious.
PAWG. Solid menu and asks 3 for BBFS / CIM / CIP YMMV.
Sweetgirlhawaii.
PAWG. Solid menu and asks 2 for BBFS / BBBJ CIM YMMV.
Thiquekisses.
Thicc Local mix. Solid menu and asks 3 for.
BBFS / BBBJ YMMV.
PiperLUV3.
Thicc Local poly mix. Solid menu asks 2. 5 for.
BBFS / BBBJCIMWS / Greek on the table for xtra.
All is all SB has served me well! Good luck!How do you search by username? I see that you can search profile text, but nothing shows up.
LivininDa808
12-06-22, 02:48
Looking back, I should of at least had the $$ ready to put down, and told the other parties who were waiting on me to f**k off. I didn't have the $$ already on me (as I was only prepared for what I though was a "simple" M&G). Lessons learned, and I hope these reports will help someone down the road not make the same mistakes I did. I have one more SD / SB M&G (hopefully) lined up for later this week. I'll keep you gentlemen posted.If you agree on an amount, put the money in an envelope or small gift bag and hand it to her at the beginning of the date. That way she'll know you are not there to waste her time and she won't have to ask you for it. Sometimes I'll write "happy birthday" on the envelope. I normally get a chuckle from that. I'm not advocating giving money for a date but sometimes when I'm traveling I just want some company for dinner and not necessarily looking for anything more. Normally dinner will last a couple hours. I would not pay a cent for a meet and greet. Just my thoughts.
LargeRocket69
12-06-22, 06:00
If you agree on an amount, put the money in an envelope or small gift bag and hand it to her at the beginning of the date. That way she'll know you are not there to waste her time and she won't have to ask you for it. Sometimes I'll write "happy birthday" on the envelope. I normally get a chuckle from that. I'm not advocating giving money for a date but sometimes when I'm traveling I just want some company for dinner and not necessarily looking for anything more. Normally dinner will last a couple hours. I would not pay a cent for a meet and greet. Just my thoughts.How much do some guys pay for a meet and greet? Seems kinda ridiculous to pay someone just to talk to them and that's all.
From what I've been reading unless you want to give a girl an "allowance" of however thousands per week to do you this whole sugar baby thing is a waste of time. Seriously? They don't think of themselves as prostitutes so you have to develop a relationship? Sounds like regular dating to me where you may or may not ever get laid. Anybody prove me wrong?
NerdFriday
12-06-22, 12:27
From what I've been reading unless you want to give a girl an "allowance" of however thousands per week to do you this whole sugar baby thing is a waste of time. Seriously? They don't think of themselves as prostitutes so you have to develop a relationship? Sounds like regular dating to me where you may or may not ever get laid. Anybody prove me wrong?I have nothing to prove, but as a successful SD for 5+ years, I can say that I had the time of my life. It is absolutely not like "regular dating". They can find younger guys way hotter than you (or I) to bang for free on Tinder or to date. The only way you (or I) have a chance is if we make it worthwhile. Believe it or not, these are regular girls, so yes, they do not think of themselves as prostitutes. If you treat them like prostitutes, your arrangement will not last long. Arrangements are actually a lot cheaper than regularly seeing a prostitute of the same caliber for the same services, but people don't understand this because they can't afford to see even a mediocre prostitute 4 or more times a month.
Think of it this way. You own some rental property's near UH. A college-aged girl, who is your tenant, says she's having a hard time paying rent because her part-time job is not enough. She is willing to "see you casually" if you are willing to not charge her rent. Now, the girl is not thinking of herself like a prostitute. She's thinking she's a college student who needs to do this to get through school and guys her age won't be able to help her because they are also poor college students. Because you have a landlord and tenant relationship, you both have to be polite, proper, and professional to sustain the arrangement, but you certainly don't have to be "in love". This means that you have to at least trust her when she says she's on birth control and both of you have to trust that you don't have STDs, whereas if you're going to raw dog it in a prostitute, you probably don't care either way.
How much do some guys pay for a meet and greet? Seems kinda ridiculous to pay someone just to talk to them and that's all.I pay whatever the girl and I agree to. This could be $0 (assuming I pay for dinner or drinks) or up to $3 oo, and I'm sure it probably goes higher. You are paying "just to talk to them" in some sense, but you have to realize that if $3 oo is a big deal to you, then sugar dating is probably not for you. The girl needs to know that you're a legit sugar daddy, not a guy looking for a quick one-off with a hot young girl. To put this into perspective, if you wanted to have a PSE with a 18-25 year old pro, you might pay $1 Soo-$1 o,ooo for a single day, or you could just find a 30+ drug-addicted street walker to see 20 times. Different strokes for different folks.
Cougar Bait
12-06-22, 18:23
https://members.seeking.com/member/2a9076b5-8c8b-4aa6-9a71-0b50a9c5e33a
Anyone try this one?
Arrangements are actually a lot cheaper than regularly seeing a prostitute of the same caliber for the same services, but people don't understand this because they can't afford to see even a mediocre prostitute 4 or more times a month.
I pay whatever the girl and I agree to. This could be $0 (assuming I pay for dinner or drinks) or up to $3 oo, and I'm sure it probably goes higher. You are paying "just to talk to them" in some sense, but you have to realize that if $3 oo is a big deal to you, then sugar dating is probably not for you. The girl needs to know that you're a legit sugar daddy, not a guy looking for a quick one-off with a hot young girl. To put this into perspective, if you wanted to have a PSE with a 18-25 year old pro, you might pay $1 Soo-$1 o,ooo for a single day, or you could just find a 30+ drug-addicted street walker to see 20 times. Different strokes for different folks.This is similar to my experience. This is a side hustle for them, IMO many try to only have a single SD (who they also expect to be somewhat exclusive) that they see a few times a month which is why BB is fairly common. If they want to use a condom, that's usually a sign to me that they're seeing others. If someone says they're juggling multiple SBs at once, IMO they're either full of it or actually loaded.
I'll cover a nice dinner for a meet and greet, but won't give anything more until we seal the deal. My usual demographic might be a bit different / more selctive though- I'm pretty much only looking for 18-25 year olds. Fleecing a guy out of a couple hundo a big comeup for a college girl, so they don't care too much if they burn that bridge. If they're serious, a nice dinner (like $50 or more) is enough compensation for their time. That was a few years ago, though. I'm looking to step back into the game more seriously again so I might have to change things up to get with the times. I could see older SBs (35 and up) being less likely to ghost you after taking meet and greet money. They probably aren't getting spammed by as many lonely horny guys so the scam approach doesn't work as well.
Hickory747
12-07-22, 03:08
How do you search by username? I see that you can search profile text, but nothing shows up.The ones I listed are fairly active so you'll find them in the first 1-3 pages. Good luck!
I ask again. Now I'm wasting money too. I spent some time surfing around some of these spots and all I got was a lot of coy teasing in response to my own suggestive messages. I didn't want to say will you do it for spare change but hinted at a quid pro quo. Now, I'm out $100 and need to buy more "credits" to continue to work these so called "leads. " Minimum for Seeking is about $300 with no guarantee of anything or even being able to post "what do I get for three bills. ".
In these days of being paid to be a "social influencers" I don't put it past that some of these "leads" are just shills planted by the site to lead guys on and keep them engaged. After all, women are free right? I also notice I'm getting "favorites" and so forth by chicks in other states and other countries. Enough with the scamming already!
I notice that the minimum subscription for Seeking (arrangements) is now about $300 for 3 months with no guarantee of hitting anything but teasers and out of staters since it is against their policy to ask for outright quid pro quo in your "profile. ".
Curve-a-licious.
PAWG. Solid menu and asks 3 for BBFS / CIM / CIP YMMV.
Sweetgirlhawaii.
PAWG. Solid menu and asks 2 for BBFS / BBBJ CIM YMMV.
Thiquekisses.
Thicc Local mix. Solid menu and asks 3 for.
BBFS / BBBJ YMMV.
PiperLUV3.
Thicc Local poly mix. Solid menu asks 2. 5 for.
BBFS / BBBJCIMWS / Greek on the table for xtra.
All is all SB has served me well! Good luck!Can you link them? I feel like I'm on a wild goose chase. Haven't found one of them.
Hickory747
12-08-22, 01:21
To find them. Basically pay for credits.
Can you link them? I feel like I'm on a wild goose chase. Haven't found one of them.
NerdFriday
12-08-22, 15:17
I ask again. Now I'm wasting money too. I spent some time surfing around some of these spots and all I got was a lot of coy teasing in response to my own suggestive messages. I didn't want to say will you do it for spare change but hinted at a quid pro quo. Now, I'm out $100 and need to buy more "credits" to continue to work these so called "leads. " Minimum for Seeking is about $300 with no guarantee of anything or even being able to post "what do I get for three bills. ".
In these days of being paid to be a "social influencers" I don't put it past that some of these "leads" are just shills planted by the site to lead guys on and keep them engaged. After all, women are free right? I also notice I'm getting "favorites" and so forth by chicks in other states and other countries. Enough with the scamming already!
I notice that the minimum subscription for Seeking (arrangements) is now about $300 for 3 months with no guarantee of hitting anything but teasers and out of staters since it is against their policy to ask for outright quid pro quo in your "profile. ".It sounds like you're rushing it. You can't rush these things. If you need someone "this week" who will "guarantee" some action, a sugar baby is probably not it.
There are indeed a lot of scammers, time wasters, platonic only, etc. But there are very real sugar babies out there who will be like the best casual girlfriend you've never had.
No flame again, but if $100 or $300 is a concern, then sugar dating is probably not for you. Babies are looking for some degree of consistency, because they need the money on a regular basis in most cases. Sure, there may be some that just need some quick cash to get out of a jam, but those are not most babies. I don't think any sugar baby would accept a regular allowance of less than $1 k. $1 k a mo. Is only $12 k a year, which is not really supporting them unless they're trying to get 4-5 daddies. All my arrangements have been north of $2,500 a mo. Which covers rent, car, utilities and a little bit of spending cash. Of course, there are always extras, but $2,500 a mo. Is a good baseline amount.
My current arrangement is with a college student and her total allowance excluding "gifts" is about $3,500 a mo. I've been seeing her since she moved here to start her freshman year and I'm having the time of my life. It took about a month with her before anything intimate happened. Could she have scammed? Sure. But, she also knows that not scamming is worth way more money in the long run. She gets her entire tuition paid, and then some. There are definitely real babies out there. It just takes time.
Vajajalova
12-09-22, 19:01
It sounds like you're rushing it. You can't rush these things. If you need someone "this week" who will "guarantee" some action, a sugar baby is probably not it.
There are indeed a lot of scammers, time wasters, platonic only, etc. But there are very real sugar babies out there who will be like the best casual girlfriend you've never had.
No flame again, but if $100 or $300 is a concern, then sugar dating is probably not for you. Babies are looking for some degree of consistency, because they need the money on a regular basis in most cases. Sure, there may be some that just need some quick cash to get out of a jam, but those are not most babies. I don't think any sugar baby would accept a regular allowance of less than $1 k. $1 k a mo. Is only $12 k a year, which is not really supporting them unless they're trying to get 4-5 daddies. All my arrangements have been north of $2,500 a mo. Which covers rent, car, utilities and a little bit of spending cash. Of course, there are always extras, but $2,500 a mo. Is a good baseline amount.
My current arrangement is with a college student and her total allowance excluding "gifts" is about $3,500 a mo. I've been seeing her since she moved here to start her freshman year and I'm having the time of my life. It took about a month with her before anything intimate happened. Could she have scammed? Sure. But, she also knows that not scamming is worth way more money in the long run. She gets her entire tuition paid, and then some. There are definitely real babies out there. It just takes time.Agreed entirely with your take on sd / sb relationships.
$300 not guna do it when you get daddies out there providing allowances of $3 k a month. Stick to the mps if thats your budget
TrialnError
12-10-22, 17:30
It sounds like you're rushing it. You can't rush these things. If you need someone "this week" who will "guarantee" some action, a sugar baby is probably not it.
There are indeed a lot of scammers, time wasters, platonic only, etc. But there are very real sugar babies out there who will be like the best casual girlfriend you've never had.
No flame again, but if $100 or $300 is a concern, then sugar dating is probably not for you. Babies are looking for some degree of consistency, because they need the money on a regular basis in most cases. Sure, there may be some that just need some quick cash to get out of a jam, but those are not most babies. I don't think any sugar baby would accept a regular allowance of less than $1 k. $1 k a mo. Is only $12 k a year, which is not really supporting them unless they're trying to get 4-5 daddies. All my arrangements have been north of $2,500 a mo. Which covers rent, car, utilities and a little bit of spending cash. Of course, there are always extras, but $2,500 a mo. Is a good baseline amount.
My current arrangement is with a college student and her total allowance excluding "gifts" is about $3,500 a mo. I've been seeing her since she moved here to start her freshman year and I'm having the time of my life. It took about a month with her before anything intimate happened. Could she have scammed? Sure. But, she also knows that not scamming is worth way more money in the long run. She gets her entire tuition paid, and then some. There are definitely real babies out there. It just takes time.
Agreed entirely with your take on sd / sb relationships.
$300 not guna do it when you get daddies out there providing allowances of $3 k a month. Stick to the mps if thats your budgetMaybe that's why some guys keep striking out, they don't have the funds for some of the sb's.
NerdFriday
12-11-22, 11:47
Since this site came up, I decided to make a new (completely fake) account and try it out for a week to see what's up. I bought $300 in tokens so I could send out messages.
I'm still 100% sure this site is full of scams / bots and like 99% of the people on there are not even real. The initial messages the girls send are still generic, and I still suspect that the site encourages them to just send the generic message to anyone who looks at their page. When I turned on invisible mode so they could not see I viewed their profile, I got significantly less messages.
Out of the 30 messages I sent:
0 meetups.
1 was responded to, with at least three back and forth messages.
3 were responded to, with at least one message.
15 people never logged in again for that week, despite them messaging me first, or me first messaging them.
20 messages were read, but not responded to.
My fake profile has a picture of a really good looking guy, with a really good job, and a high salary. I also browsed profiles to see what they were interested in. In every message I sent, I always told the "baby" what she would want to hear, that is, if she was into beaches, I had a small boat, if she was into luxury, I would take her shopping, if she wanted vacations, I said I travel internationally at least 4 times a year. Still, despite being the "perfect daddy" for these matches, the lack of responses clearly indicates these profiles are not real people.
Since this site came up, I decided to make a new (completely fake) account and try it out for a week to see what's up. I bought $300 in tokens so I could send out messages.
I'm still 100% sure this site is full of scams / bots and like 99% of the people on there are not even real. The initial messages the girls send are still generic, and I still suspect that the site encourages them to just send the generic message to anyone who looks at their page. When I turned on invisible mode so they could not see I viewed their profile, I got significantly less messages.
Out of the 30 messages I sent:
0 meetups.
1 was responded to, with at least three back and forth messages.
3 were responded to, with at least one message.
15 people never logged in again for that week, despite them messaging me first, or me first messaging them.
20 messages were read, but not responded to.
My fake profile has a picture of a really good looking guy, with a really good job, and a high salary. I also browsed profiles to see what they were interested in. In every message I sent, I always told the "baby" what she would want to hear, that is, if she was into beaches, I had a small boat, if she was into luxury, I would take her shopping, if she wanted vacations, I said I travel internationally at least 4 times a year. Still, despite being the "perfect daddy" for these matches, the lack of responses clearly indicates these profiles are not real people.Not disagreeing but would be kind of funny if you're not getting responses because they suspect your profile isn't real LOL. Maybe try it again but change it to an unattractive guy, more realistic. The guy in your scenario probably doesn't need seeking.
Great discussion by all, and tbh I think it's good that we separate SA from prostitutes. I can't agree more about the quality of young college girls, and 3 k / mo actually being really "cheap" in the grand scheme of things. A big challenge IMO is you have to be prepared to "restock" because these girls may move away if they simply can't financially stay in Hawaii.
I am currently in a golden (albeit expensive) arrangement with two UH girls, both are 21 and knockout beach body 10's. I met the first one on SA in May (after my previous great SB moved back to the mainland) when she was moving after the last school year. Nothing crazy, dinner first date to break the ice and the rest was history. A couple months ago she asks me if her best friend can also be my SB, I played hard to get but of course I eased them into a threesome, and it's been the best threesomes of my life. Before I used SA a lot to connect SBs for threesomes, but having SBs who are already friends and have great chemistry is another level. We've been having so much fun that after they briefly go home for Christmas, I'm taking them on a trip. It'll be the first time they ride first class, but I already know the payoff will be crazy, they're already stocking up on bikinis, lingeries, and sex toys.
As for allowance, I give them each 4 k a month. With dates I end up spending about 10 k a month. But between the two of them, I get action at least 4 times a week, sometimes more, depending on our schedules, and most of those being threesome. So if you want to calculate it out, it avg out to $675 for a threesome, and that's pretty cheap. These girls are young, not jaded, in their prime and very sexually willing to learn. Everything is on the table, msog, bb everything, creampie, swallow, cof, all kinds of sex toys (I made them wear those discreet vibrators out to dinner, controlled from my phone), light bondage, role play, one already enjoys Greek and we're currently training her friend. They genuinely are having the time of their lives too and say it's been really fun to explore / develop their sexuality and deepen their friendship. As for me I actually started working out harder to keep up with them and haven't been in this good shape in a decade. You could say that's pretty pricey, and it is, but to me the ROI is worth it and then some. This throuple (they taught me that term lol) is actually as exclusive as Ive been in a while, so thats saved some misc costs going out and typical dating too. And I haven’t seen an escort in forever because it’s just not even close to what I have at the moment. Plus I know all good things comes to an end, these girls are simply too hot to stay single and not get scooped up into serious relationships sooner or later.
They talked about maybe bringing in more girls or even guy friends to try a swinger party thing, so Im pretty excited for that. It sounds like theyll plan it so Ill let them drive that agenda. But in the meantime, I'm going to enjoy spoiling these hotties and being extremely spoiled by them as well.
RoadRally2
12-22-22, 14:57
Shit!! I got to get more funds for this!!
NerdFriday
01-08-23, 09:11
So, update with weird twist.
I noticed something or someone was "updating" my profile every time I tried to change it. First, they removed any "numbers" from my profile. Understandable. I updated it again with no numbers, within one hour, another part of my "About" was deleted, with some of the text there completely changed. I reached out to the last real person I found on the site and asked if they could help me. She agreed. She sent me a screenshot of what my profile looked like, and to my surprise, SHE WAS NOT EVEN ON SECRET BENEFITS, she was on a site called "Luxury Date".
This means that there are multiple websites all connected with one another.
The icing on the cake is that I got "shadowbanned" in this process. I was messaging here on there, but somehow she quit responding to me. I know she didn't block me, because access to her secret photos was still there (when you get blocked, it removes your access to the photos, but you can still see and message the SB she just won't receive your messages). I texted her since I had her number from earlier in the conversation, and she told me she never received any messages from me after her last message to me, so SHE THOUGHT I GHOSTED HER!
Yep. I'm out. Sticking to Seeking for sure.
Hi guys,
I recently resigned up to seeking.com and the site I am on is no way like the site I was on before. Even the charge was like 40 bucks a month or something. When I sign on I only get expired profiles idk WTF is going on. Any help out there?
So, update with weird twist.
I noticed something or someone was "updating" my profile every time I tried to change it. First, they removed any "numbers" from my profile. Understandable. I updated it again with no numbers, within one hour, another part of my "About" was deleted, with some of the text there completely changed. I reached out to the last real person I found on the site and asked if they could help me. She agreed. She sent me a screenshot of what my profile looked like, and to my surprise, SHE WAS NOT EVEN ON SECRET BENEFITS, she was on a site called "Luxury Date".
This means that there are multiple websites all connected with one another.
The icing on the cake is that I got "shadowbanned" in this process. I was messaging here on there, but somehow she quit responding to me. I know she didn't block me, because access to her secret photos was still there (when you get blocked, it removes your access to the photos, but you can still see and message the SB she just won't receive your messages). I texted her since I had her number from earlier in the conversation, and she told me she never received any messages from me after her last message to me, so SHE THOUGHT I GHOSTED HER!
Yep. I'm out. Sticking to Seeking for sure.I've also had my suspicions of SB. I had another hookup over the holidays and just had a meet and greet through it so it's been working, but it's certainly not fast. I'm not on seekingarrangement anymore so I can't really compare success across sites.
I'm not sure how many sites are linked together in the "SecretBenefits" system, but that's another to add to the list. Sugardaddy.com, secretbenefits, and now luxury date. I'm suspicious of message screening, because 90% of the time I read a message and reply, I'll get the photo access request / permission notification but no further messages. I'm not sure if they straight up shadowbanned you or are just screening messages, but that's incredibly shady of them. TBF, I've had similar issues on seekingarrangement, but overall the site felt less scammy.
For anyone that does decide to use SecretBenefits, here's the strategy to avoid the site sucking your credits dry.
Avoid any upselling from the site- read notifications, message boosting, any "unlocks" outside of baseline messaging. None of these make any meaningful difference in your reply / success rate, the only thing that's potentially useful is secret photos if they don't have many public photos. Think of it this way- what do read notifications actually tell you? If they respond, you're having a conversation. If they leave you on read or don't open your message, nothing really changes- you either message them until they respond or you give up. Secret photos are basically a scam if they have public photos up- they aren't going to be nudes. I'm not 100% sure on message boosting, but I honestly don't think it does anything since it hasn't had any affect on my successes / failures (my 4 successes were unboosted).
SB added even more upsell bullshit with the "questions" and "top admirer". Just ignore them, there's no reason to spend more than 10 credits to message.
Also, the "verified" tag doesn't really mean much imo. 3/4 of my successes were from "unverified" profiles. The more reliable way to spot a bot / fake is to read their profile and look at their pics. Remember, we live in Hawaii. More than likely a real girl here is going to have at least 1 picture taken on a beach here with a distinctive landmark like chinaman's hat or the mokuluas. Their profiles are also probably going to be more than 1 or 2 sentences.
NerdFriday
01-09-23, 03:12
Hi guys,
I recently resigned up to seeking.com and the site I am on is no way like the site I was on before. Even the charge was like 40 bucks a month or something. When I sign on I only get expired profiles idk WTF is going on. Any help out there?IDK if seeking was ever $40 a month without some kinda "special" promotion. The site seems same to me from at least 4-5 years ago. There are different ways to display the babies, so maybe you're in the wrong "mode" and that's why it looks weird.
Check to see if you have profile "filters" on. If for some reason you're only looking for babies 7' tall or whatever (ex: height), or only within a weird location (ex: Captain Cook Island), that could explain it. I logged in and it looks normal to me.
IDK if seeking was ever $40 a month without some kinda "special" promotion. The site seems same to me from at least 4-5 years ago. There are different ways to display the babies, so maybe you're in the wrong "mode" and that's why it looks weird.
Check to see if you have profile "filters" on. If for some reason you're only looking for babies 7' tall or whatever (ex: height), or only within a weird location (ex: Captain Cook Island), that could explain it. I logged in and it looks normal to me.Its kind of f up Idk how that happened I deleted my profile and signed up again. It then charged me the full rate and now I have access to all the chickies. Idk wth happened but I feel like I got scammed.
So how are you guys doing with the sugar baby sites recently?
So how are you guys doing with the sugar baby sites recently?I was on island the last week and had a few positive hits between SA and Tinder. Frankly it was the best week since before covid.
So how are you guys doing with the sugar baby sites recently?I just signed up again. For the price it's not worth it IMO. Too many girls are just wanting to get paid for not doing anything.
NerdFriday
02-21-23, 17:19
I just signed up again. For the price it's not worth it IMO. Too many girls are just wanting to get paid for not doing anything.I found that many are willing, but will definitely not say so upfront. Arrangements take time and if you're very upfront and direct, they will just say "platonic only" even if they're actually willing to do more. This is also their way of making sure you're a real SD and not just looking for a 1-nighter which is not what they're looking for unless it's big dollars. Besides, many of those profiles are "public". The last thing they would want is a family member DM'ing them something explicit and screenshotting that they have agreed to it. Small island.
Sure, some babies really expect to get paid for doing nothing, but I'm sure that many are aware of what is expected of them even if they won't agree to it outright. I've found that many "platonic only" babies are really using that as a screening method. I ask every baby about some of their worst horror stories and believe me when I say that for every timewaster baby we talk about, there's also a timewaster daddy. Be decent looking, have your own place, have a nice car, have the money you say you have. When you come through, so will they, because they know what they need to do to make sure the arrangement works. If they want to just run off with a few hundred and scam you, just consider that a 'daddy tax' and that you've saved a lot of time by being able to move on.
Moving this to the right thread-.
Feb report.
I was on Island 10 days in Feb and I meet these with mixed results.
https://members.seeking.com/member/f...4-e1f4e92bbb83
https://members.seeking.com/member/b...6-87278b71d001
https://members.seeking.com/member/5...c-c08a174f1858
https://members.seeking.com/member/6...5-79b23ed4e503
https://members.seeking.com/member/3...d-69eebd40d977
** Knew this before so: https://members.seeking.com/member/4...a-8ca0a31a761f..
https://members.seeking.com/member/1...1-5a4eb9853fbf
https://members.seeking.com/member/3...7-75c85f090ce4
Met a few others on Tinder that were much better but overall Hawaii seems to be course correcting from the Covid years.
I found that many are willing, but will definitely not say so upfront. Arrangements take time and if you're very upfront and direct, they will just say "platonic only" even if they're actually willing to do more. This is also their way of making sure you're a real SD and not just looking for a 1-nighter which is not what they're looking for unless it's big dollars. Besides, many of those profiles are "public". The last thing they would want is a family member DM'ing them something explicit and screenshotting that they have agreed to it. Small island.
Sure, some babies really expect to get paid for doing nothing, but I'm sure that many are aware of what is expected of them even if they won't agree to it outright. I've found that many "platonic only" babies are really using that as a screening method. I ask every baby about some of their worst horror stories and believe me when I say that for every timewaster baby we talk about, there's also a timewaster daddy. Be decent looking, have your own place, have a nice car, have the money you say you have. When you come through, so will they, because they know what they need to do to make sure the arrangement works. If they want to just run off with a few hundred and scam you, just consider that a 'daddy tax' and that you've saved a lot of time by being able to move on.Right on the money. When you date a girl normally you got to wine and dine them first too to get anywhere, it's no different with SA, except actually easier because on the date the ball is in your court and we typically hold the power / attention dynamic on SA dates.
I'm currently seeing 3 SBs who are all friends currently in college. Met one on SA and hit it off, she was new to SA, and we had a platonic date first to break the ice. But she's super hot so I considered the date an investment. Hooked up on the second date and the rest was history. After a few months she introduced me to her friends. They're all 20-22 yr old, and absolutely smoking. Long story short, I treat them really well with a high allowance, even spent the money to take them on trips. But I've been drowning in pussy basically everyday in singles, threesomes, and foursomes with them.
Before this I had almost a year of inconsistent dry spell on SA. And I understand this current situation might not last forever since those girls are so hot they're bound to get in serious relationships sooner or later. But it's like any investment with a big swing, you just got to roll with the times and stick to the due diligence when times are dry.
Just figured I'd give this SA thing a go. Got an account. Just wanted to see if you guys that have been on it can give some info on these two. Real / fake, worth it?
https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/f8989245-6e08-4b07-8976-609ec7dc1a23
https://members.seeking.com/member/113225d7-549b-4b11-b8a1-5a4eb9853fbf
Cheers!
Honolulu Yobo
05-03-23, 01:35
You need to take a screenshot of the ladies that you are looking at. If you don't have membership, you can't see the pictures. You have to log in.
Just figured I'd give this SA thing a go. Got an account. Just wanted to see if you guys that have been on it can give some info on these two. Real / fake, worth it?
https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/f8989245-6e08-4b07-8976-609ec7dc1a23
https://members.seeking.com/member/113225d7-549b-4b11-b8a1-5a4eb9853fbf
Cheers!
You need to take a screenshot of the ladies that you are looking at. If you don't have membership, you can't see the pictures. You have to log in.My bad.
My apologies.
DallasCowboys8
05-03-23, 16:17
This is what the younguns say are #goals. Drowning in pussy is the promiseland and to have 20-22 yr old three and foursomes is a dream that a lot of mongers would invest in to attain.
I dabbled in Secret benefits but spent way more time just trying to find legit girls who followed through. Got lucky only with one who was latina / Chinese and a former stripper. She was effin hot and we had some good fun, even had a photo sesh with toys. But recently I've been coming up empty handed and ran out of those damn credits. Figure it's easier to just hit the MPs since I don't got time to wine / dine. But the SB chase is definitely exciting.
Appreciate the nuggets that Nerd and Muse dropped and totally agree. Hana'Paa!
Right on the money. When you date a girl normally you got to wine and dine them first too to get anywhere, it's no different with SA, except actually easier because on the date the ball is in your court and we typically hold the power / attention dynamic on SA dates.
I'm currently seeing 3 SBs who are all friends currently in college. Met one on SA and hit it off, she was new to SA, and we had a platonic date first to break the ice. But she's super hot so I considered the date an investment. Hooked up on the second date and the rest was history. After a few months she introduced me to her friends. They're all 20-22 yr old, and absolutely smoking. Long story short, I treat them really well with a high allowance, even spent the money to take them on trips. But I've been drowning in pussy basically everyday in singles, threesomes, and foursomes with them.
Before this I had almost a year of inconsistent dry spell on SA. And I understand this current situation might not last forever since those girls are so hot they're bound to get in serious relationships sooner or later. But it's like any investment with a big swing, you just got to roll with the times and stick to the due diligence when times are dry.
Vajajalova
05-03-23, 21:54
Just figured I'd give this SA thing a go. Got an account. Just wanted to see if you guys that have been on it can give some info on these two. Real / fake, worth it?
https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/f8989245-6e08-4b07-8976-609ec7dc1a23
https://members.seeking.com/member/113225d7-549b-4b11-b8a1-5a4eb9853fbf
Cheers!Those two are spouses of one another. They're looking for 5 each to have fun with them. Appeared more like wham an bam than enjoying them.
I decided to setup a profile on both SA and SB. Still feeling my way around it so I don't have anything to report yet, but GODDAMN some of the chicks there are really cute! I know there's a lot of fake profiles and snagging a girl takes effort, but damn!
In that regard I kind of like SB better so far simply because of the video verification process they have. It would seem the profiles that upload one are more legit. I bought some credits so I'll be playing around with that.
But regardless, it's really hard to look at AMPs the same again. I know it's a totally different process, but I might prefer quality over convenience especially if some of those chicks are for real.
I decided to setup a profile on both SA and SB. Still feeling my way around it so I don't have anything to report yet, but GODDAMN some of the chicks there are really cute! I know there's a lot of fake profiles and snagging a girl takes effort, but damn!
In that regard I kind of like SB better so far simply because of the video verification process they have. It would seem the profiles that upload one are more legit. I bought some credits so I'll be playing around with that.
But regardless, it's really hard to look at AMPs the same again. I know it's a totally different process, but I might prefer quality over convenience especially if some of those chicks are for real.On SB don't spend credits on unlocking albums / questions or that "top admirer" bullshit. They're ways to make you waste more money on the site. All you need is to just unlock messaging.
On SB don't spend credits on unlocking albums / questions or that "top admirer" bullshit. They're ways to make you waste more money on the site. All you need is to just unlock messaging.Appreciate the tip and yes, I'm only spending to unlock the chat feature. Not boosting, not going for the hidden pics or any of that.
Vajajalova
05-05-23, 20:53
My bad.
My apologies.Guys don't ask me for they're numbers I find in odd and inappropriate for me to be giving out their numbers. If you need to reach them ask them to give you their numbers.
Yeah I feel you, I've had long stretches of discouraging dry spells when SA and SB just felt like a waste of time. Overall while many girls are on both sites, I find SA girls to be less flakey than SB, although idk why.
But the dry times really let's me appreciate my current situation. I've taken the girls on several trips and it's awesome. Just finished our EDC weekend where they actually helped me score 2 freebies with girls we met. Fucking epic weekend. But now summer will be a struggle as they're all going home for a few months. I don't think any pros can fill the void, and summer SA scene is pretty lame save for the girls who are home from college. All said and done I'll prob plan another summer trip with my SBs LOL.
This is what the younguns say are #goals. Drowning in pussy is the promiseland and to have 20-22 yr old three and foursomes is a dream that a lot of mongers would invest in to attain.
I dabbled in Secret benefits but spent way more time just trying to find legit girls who followed through. Got lucky only with one who was latina / Chinese and a former stripper. She was effin hot and we had some good fun, even had a photo sesh with toys. But recently I've been coming up empty handed and ran out of those damn credits. Figure it's easier to just hit the MPs since I don't got time to wine / dine. But the SB chase is definitely exciting.
Appreciate the nuggets that Nerd and Muse dropped and totally agree. Hana'Paa!
Yeah I feel you, I've had long stretches of discouraging dry spells when SA and SB just felt like a waste of time. Overall while many girls are on both sites, I find SA girls to be less flakey than SB, although idk why.
But the dry times really let's me appreciate my current situation. I've taken the girls on several trips and it's awesome. Just finished our EDC weekend where they actually helped me score 2 freebies with girls we met. Fucking epic weekend. But now summer will be a struggle as they're all going home for a few months. I don't think any pros can fill the void, and summer SA scene is pretty lame save for the girls who are home from college. All said and done I'll prob plan another summer trip with my SBs LOL.Sounds like a lot of the fun you have is with college girls who live off island when school is not in session. How are the girls that live in Hawaii in your encounters?
I decided to setup a profile on both SA and SB. Still feeling my way around it so I don't have anything to report yet, but GODDAMN some of the chicks there are really cute! I know there's a lot of fake profiles and snagging a girl takes effort, but damn!
In that regard I kind of like SB better so far simply because of the video verification process they have. It would seem the profiles that upload one are more legit. I bought some credits so I'll be playing around with that.
But regardless, it's really hard to look at AMPs the same again. I know it's a totally different process, but I might prefer quality over convenience especially if some of those chicks are for real.If guys could score the girls on these sites, dating sites, or girls they see walking around at the beaches, malls, school, work, etc, MP wouldn't be in business.
Yeah I feel you, I've had long stretches of discouraging dry spells when SA and SB just felt like a waste of time. Overall while many girls are on both sites, I find SA girls to be less flakey than SB, although idk why.
But the dry times really let's me appreciate my current situation. I've taken the girls on several trips and it's awesome. Just finished our EDC weekend where they actually helped me score 2 freebies with girls we met. Fucking epic weekend. But now summer will be a struggle as they're all going home for a few months. I don't think any pros can fill the void, and summer SA scene is pretty lame save for the girls who are home from college. All said and done I'll prob plan another summer trip with my SBs LOL.In my experience summer isn't too bad, just got to go for fresh grads and upcoming local talent.
For those who have used to site or are on the site, would you say it's worth signing up for? How's the success rate with meeting the girls? Are the girls GPS or they are really looking for some fun? I see some girl's on there I'd like to smash but don't want to waste time and money if it's not worth it.
For those who have used to site or are on the site, would you say it's worth signing up for? How's the success rate with meeting the girls? Are the girls GPS or they are really looking for some fun? I see some girl's on there I'd like to smash but don't want to waste time and money if it's not worth it.It's a scam, though and through.
I gave it a shot a couple of times and both times it was a real wasteland. They claim they no longer use bots and fake accounts, but it definitely seems like they do. There were three women I ended up meeting through there and two of them were prostitutes with rather high expectations ($2,000/ h and $2,500/ h) and the other. Was a woman who posed as a relatively attractive middle aged white woman and ended up being a much younger black woman with enough weight for two or three people. It gets worse, but I'll spare you.
It costs you to do any kind of interaction and most of them go nowhere, or you get interaction from suspiciously bangin' women who keep up until you spend to interact back, then nothing.
Bots and bullshit, save your money.
AFF worked out a lot better, with around two or three casual encounters a month when I was using it and I'm a really average looking guy. If you're looking for married women there, be aware a lot of them are looking for a plus one and a lot of their husbands are into bi-sexual stuff and the wife is basically bait. You might be worried about coming across as crass, but if you end up chasing swingers, make sure you're clear about what you're willing to do. I guess that applies to any of these sites.
Yes there are DTF co-ed type young smokin girls on there, but yes there are also scammers or GPS or just what I call “tourist” girls simply looking for attention.
Imo you have to treat it like any other dating app or situation. When you connect, it's more than worth it. However you also have to accept the fact that there will be lulls when it just seems like a waste of time.
Bottom line, do your due diligence, treat the girls like a real person, and youd be surprised how open they are.
For those who have used to site or are on the site, would you say it's worth signing up for? How's the success rate with meeting the girls? Are the girls GPS or they are really looking for some fun? I see some girl's on there I'd like to smash but don't want to waste time and money if it's not worth it.
JasonHungHung
05-28-23, 18:52
For those who have used to site or are on the site, would you say it's worth signing up for? How's the success rate with meeting the girls? Are the girls GPS or they are really looking for some fun? I see some girl's on there I'd like to smash but don't want to waste time and money if it's not worth it.I did it once. Can't remember if it was SA or SB. It was awhile back but they charge you 100 just for the monthly fee (might have been a little more). Not sure what it is now but if you end up seeing multiple girls it might be worth it. If you only see one or 2 that's already a big chunk to pay out. As for my date she was actually pretty good looking with nice tits and nice ass. Also mid to late 20's and 100% white. I had to take her out to eat where she did all the drinking and ordered 2 things. Total bill was 90 dollars (expensive for that area) but at the end of dinner she said that she wanted me to go home with her and she would "explain" her offer. When we got back she said she would do BBBJ and CFS for she said at first 300 but I told her I only had 260 and she was cool with that. Overall price was 450+ but not worth it to me. Even in the shitty areas where it's your only option if you are in this hobby. I do know that most girls you get will be low volume and you will hit an occasional dream girl but you will pay for it.
I did it once. Can't remember if it was SA or SB. It was awhile back but they charge you 100 just for the monthly fee (might have been a little more). Not sure what it is now but if you end up seeing multiple girls it might be worth it. If you only see one or 2 that's already a big chunk to pay out. As for my date she was actually pretty good looking with nice tits and nice ass. Also mid to late 20's and 100% white. I had to take her out to eat where she did all the drinking and ordered 2 things. Total bill was 90 dollars (expensive for that area) but at the end of dinner she said that she wanted me to go home with her and she would "explain" her offer. When we got back she said she would do BBBJ and CFS for she said at first 300 but I told her I only had 260 and she was cool with that. Overall price was 450+ but not worth it to me. Even in the shitty areas where it's your only option if you are in this hobby. I do know that most girls you get will be low volume and you will hit an occasional dream girl but you will pay for it.
Yes there are DTF co-ed type young smokin girls on there, but yes there are also scammers or GPS or just what I call tourist girls simply looking for attention.
Imo you have to treat it like any other dating app or situation. When you connect, it's more than worth it. However you also have to accept the fact that there will be lulls when it just seems like a waste of time.
Bottom line, do your due diligence, treat the girls like a real person, and youd be surprised how open they are.
It's a scam, though and through.
I gave it a shot a couple of times and both times it was a real wasteland. They claim they no longer use bots and fake accounts, but it definitely seems like they do. There were three women I ended up meeting through there and two of them were prostitutes with rather high expectations ($2,000/ h and $2,500/ h) and the other. Was a woman who posed as a relatively attractive middle aged white woman and ended up being a much younger black woman with enough weight for two or three people. It gets worse, but I'll spare you.
It costs you to do any kind of interaction and most of them go nowhere, or you get interaction from suspiciously bangin' women who keep up until you spend to interact back, then nothing.
Bots and bullshit, save your money.
AFF worked out a lot better, with around two or three casual encounters a month when I was using it and I'm a really average looking guy. If you're looking for married women there, be aware a lot of them are looking for a plus one and a lot of their husbands are into bi-sexual stuff and the wife is basically bait. You might be worried about coming across as crass, but if you end up chasing swingers, make sure you're clear about what you're willing to do. I guess that applies to any of these sites.Big Mahalo for the responses. I was about to drop some kala on the site seeing some tempting profiles. I'll find another site to hunt.
https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/3f50d553674b74af
Pictures are her, she's about 5'5" and will play for 4 bills.
FYI if you've created an acct on SB and receive a bunch of mssgs from girls, I think it's just bots sending the mssgs trying to get you to pay for credits.
TrialnError
06-05-23, 20:13
FYI if you've created an acct on SB and receive a bunch of mssgs from girls, I think it's just bots sending the mssgs trying to get you to pay for credits.Those are definitely bots, most girls don't message first.
Those are definitely bots, most girls don't message first.Sorry, I meant my comment to be a confirmation that SB sends fake mssgs to you using profiles, to get you to purchase coins.
MaxwellDrc
06-24-23, 20:12
Triisha, on Seeking Arrangements, very convincing thief, watch out.
NerdFriday
06-28-23, 12:14
Triisha, on Seeking Arrangements, very convincing thief, watch out.I found her profile: https://members.seeking.com/member/f2338c6b-39ee-4e62-b3f4-e1f4e92bbb83.
Can you explain what happened?
Been talking to this one for a second, quoted me 1 k-3 k.talked her down to like 8, but was wondering if anyone sampled?
Like she's right up my alley, but damn. Even 8 feels steep. Either way, will probably toftt, but just was wondering if anyone had any experience / could give me some insight. GPS? Or worth it? Will update if anything. Actually comes of this one.
https://members.seeking.com/member/f864d892-8501-4eb1-97c8-04bd42d025d9
Been talking to this one for a second, quoted me 1 k-3 k.talked her down to like 8, but was wondering if anyone sampled?
Like she's right up my alley, but damn. Even 8 feels steep. Either way, will probably toftt, but just was wondering if anyone had any experience / could give me some insight. GPS? Or worth it? Will update if anything. Actually comes of this one.
https://members.seeking.com/member/f864d892-8501-4eb1-97c8-04bd42d025d9I try to never speak on another mans money but it sounds like a classic bidding against yourself situations. If there were guys lined up to spend anywhere near 1 k for her then she would have been cut the negotiations off with you and moved on with bird in hand.
I try to never speak on another mans money but it sounds like a classic bidding against yourself situations. If there were guys lined up to spend anywhere near 1 k for her then she would have been cut the negotiations off with you and moved on with bird in hand.Damn. That's definitely true. I just don't want to underbid and cut myself out entirely. Haven't had much success lately with these SB's. Probably got to change my approach. Anyways, I appreciate the input. You're definitely one of the GOATs on here.
Been talking to this one for a second, quoted me 1 k-3 k.talked her down to like 8, but was wondering if anyone sampled?
Like she's right up my alley, but damn. Even 8 feels steep. Either way, will probably toftt, but just was wondering if anyone had any experience / could give me some insight. GPS? Or worth it? Will update if anything. Actually comes of this one.
https://members.seeking.com/member/f864d892-8501-4eb1-97c8-04bd42d025d9She sounded offended by my offer and told me she gets the same amount, 1-3 k even just for platonic meets. She's either has no idea what normal PPMs are, or she's hunting for whales. She's also on secretbenefits and has multiple accounts there (she has an account with a friend, doubleduo or something), and she signs in fairly often. If she was regularly getting these big PPMs and allowances from ongoing arrangements even for platonic meets, why is she so active?
Imo 8 is steep but not unreasonable, but whether or not it's worth it is totally based on your own personal budget and desire. In my experience, sugar baby PPM is fairly similar to what most escorts are asking for hourly on PD (4-6), which in my opinion, is reasonable. Obviously, you need to sift through a lot more bullshit to find a SB and it's not as simple as just dialing a number and setting a date, but you're trading that time spent for exclusivity. Obviously they could be seeing other people, but generally SBs either work or are in school, so they aren't doing it full-time and therefore aren't going to see the same volume as an escort, and in my experience, they're generally willing to do more because of the additional exclusivity.
NormalDude2002
07-01-23, 16:49
She sounded offended by my offer and told me she gets the same amount, 1-3 k even just for platonic meets. She's either has no idea what normal PPMs are, or she's hunting for whales. She's also on secretbenefits and has multiple accounts there (she has an account with a friend, doubleduo or something), and she signs in fairly often. If she was regularly getting these big PPMs and allowances from ongoing arrangements even for platonic meets, why is she so active?
Imo 8 is steep but not unreasonable, but whether or not it's worth it is totally based on your own personal budget and desire. In my experience, sugar baby PPM is fairly similar to what most escorts are asking for hourly on PD (4-6), which in my opinion, is reasonable. Obviously, you need to sift through a lot more bullshit to find a SB and it's not as simple as just dialing a number and setting a date, but you're trading that time spent for exclusivity. Obviously they could be seeing other people, but generally SBs either work or are in school, so they aren't doing it full-time and therefore aren't going to see the same volume as an escort, and in my experience, they're generally willing to do more because of the additional exclusivity."told me she gets the same amount, 1-3 k even just for platonic meets" she's clearly lying because she's now agreeing to 800 for FS meet, think about that do her actions support her words? If she could really get 3 k to go to dinner and talk to some old rich guy she wouldn't be banging you for 800. So now that we know she is lying I wouldn't put any trust into her performance or even that she won't rip you off.
Damn. That's definitely true. I just don't want to underbid and cut myself out entirely. Haven't had much success lately with these SB's. Probably got to change my approach. Anyways, I appreciate the input. You're definitely one of the GOATs on here.That's how you're in the hole you're in now. Worrying about what some non existent guys is paying. Not many guys are paying 800 let alone 1 k+ in Hawaii on a consistent basis. Even during the crazy COVID days then the GPS was at an all time high the non suckers paid within reason. Think about it with your brain, if she "settles" for your "cheap" 800, do you think she's going to put her best effort forward? Just my 2 cents.
This says she has an open menu. I passed because the gross nose ring but her other pics are cuter than the ones she shows. Wanted 500 PPM pass.
https://members.seeking.com/member/28455c2d-8252-42df-91c6-544e7a9e682e
This one lives on Maui and wants to be flown over. A bit older than I go for but her body is amazing and her menu is wide open. Wanted 500 plus flight hotel etc.
https://members.seeking.com/member/6ad00c4d-5363-4bc0-9c72-4055be802d44
Scammer beware. This is some dude trying the "I don't like cash I want cashapp only".
https://members.seeking.com/member/86bb1243-e778-4a7f-8fab-03d89530013b
This one is a head case but will do the do and seems high mileage. Wanted 500 and I wouldn't touch that high.
https://members.seeking.com/member/7fad0cc1-8db0-4671-bc63-023ba7e4d56c
Claims to be a virgin and has turned down 10 K LOL.
https://members.seeking.com/member/2d2e0e45-7a2f-47a5-bec0-1dde4e519bac
Bigger than the pics but has freebie potential. I passed.
https://members.seeking.com/member/6d4bf608-7dd2-415b-9c9f-d7840696517d
Real hottie but is young and inexperienced, not worth the headache for me but I'll keep an eye out.
https://members.seeking.com/member/6c452c3b-8d70-456c-bc71-ae02d3b130f7
Trashy stripper at HBN. Seems to want to only sell feet pics or get suckers to come into HBN.
https://members.seeking.com/member/1b18d3ed-3e1b-478f-985b-a4e481bb2cbd
Strips at Ballas and has a sister that's on SA too. Said she's willing to do the do but wanted 1 K.
https://members.seeking.com/member/678a3741-417f-41f4-b3a3-9c44c50ed208
Another high mileage stripper from 939. I was with her during covid and it was one and one. Dead fish.
https://members.seeking.com/member/5e205a62-d6c4-484d-9d99-8a82bb93ed0c
Nice body and was fun a few times but she's lost some weight.
https://members.seeking.com/member/f28792aa-daa7-4c18-9478-d98b6e1c3fbc
Rare white girl for me. Ok looking and full menu. Reasonable PPM too.
https://members.seeking.com/member/6a70a85e-31ba-4c19-a51a-cc9f3b0a71e0
Looks better in person and open menu but super flaky. One and done.
https://members.seeking.com/member/7c0c0b9f-e38f-4a1e-8bc5-665ebd94bd25
Cute girl but too much baby damage for me and wanted 500 on top of that. She's at least legit.
https://members.seeking.com/member/f7dac28f-25fe-439c-997d-a64f63cd5f46
I've mentioned her before. She's a full fledged traveling escort now and I suspect she's being managed.
https://members.seeking.com/member/412f2d91-dfb4-48c6-aaba-8ca0a31a761f
That's how you're in the hole you're in now. Worrying about what some non existent guys is paying. Not many guys are paying 800 let alone 1 k+ in Hawaii on a consistent basis. Even during the crazy COVID days then the GPS was at an all time high the non suckers paid within reason. Think about it with your brain, if she "settles" for your "cheap" 800, do you think she's going to put her best effort forward? Just my 2 cents.You right. Dropping not just 2 cents, but whole ass dimes over here! Unfortunate, but I guess I might have to pass and wait and see what happens. Doesn't take much effort to send a text or whatever to keep them on the line tbh. The "Think about it with your brain" does it for me though! LMAO Still interested in any intel / info if anyone has any. When I build up my stable again, I'm more than happy to share.
NerdFriday
07-01-23, 23:53
https://members.seeking.com/member/84b15691-880e-4399-a19b-503643c9188b
This one is wayyyy bigger than she looks. When I met up with her, she was telling me where she was waiting and I honestly thought she was lying about actually being there. She's got to be like 250 lbs. I'm not a very big guy, so I'm not down with a girl who is probably 100 lbs. Heavier than I am. If you're a bigger guy and like a cute-ish face, then she's the one for you!
This says she has an open menu. I passed because the gross nose ring but her other pics are cuter than the ones she shows. Wanted 500 PPM pass.
https://members.seeking.com/member/28455c2d-8252-42df-91c6-544e7a9e682e
This one lives on Maui and wants to be flown over. A bit older than I go for but her body is amazing and her menu is wide open. Wanted 500 plus flight hotel etc.
https://members.seeking.com/member/6ad00c4d-5363-4bc0-9c72-4055be802d44
Scammer beware. This is some dude trying the "I don't like cash I want cashapp only".
https://members.seeking.com/member/86bb1243-e778-4a7f-8fab-03d89530013b
This one is a head case but will do the do and seems high mileage. Wanted 500 and I wouldn't touch that high.
https://members.seeking.com/member/7fad0cc1-8db0-4671-bc63-023ba7e4d56c
Claims to be a virgin and has turned down 10 K LOL.
https://members.seeking.com/member/2d2e0e45-7a2f-47a5-bec0-1dde4e519bac
Bigger than the pics but has freebie potential. I passed.
https://members.seeking.com/member/6d4bf608-7dd2-415b-9c9f-d7840696517d
Real hottie but is young and inexperienced, not worth the headache for me but I'll keep an eye out.
https://members.seeking.com/member/6c452c3b-8d70-456c-bc71-ae02d3b130f7
Trashy stripper at HBN. Seems to want to only sell feet pics or get suckers to come into HBN.
https://members.seeking.com/member/1b18d3ed-3e1b-478f-985b-a4e481bb2cbd
Strips at Ballas and has a sister that's on SA too. Said she's willing to do the do but wanted 1 K.
https://members.seeking.com/member/678a3741-417f-41f4-b3a3-9c44c50ed208
Another high mileage stripper from 939. I was with her during covid and it was one and one. Dead fish.
https://members.seeking.com/member/5e205a62-d6c4-484d-9d99-8a82bb93ed0c
Nice body and was fun a few times but she's lost some weight.
https://members.seeking.com/member/f28792aa-daa7-4c18-9478-d98b6e1c3fbc
Rare white girl for me. Ok looking and full menu. Reasonable PPM too.
https://members.seeking.com/member/6a70a85e-31ba-4c19-a51a-cc9f3b0a71e0
Looks better in person and open menu but super flaky. One and done.
https://members.seeking.com/member/7c0c0b9f-e38f-4a1e-8bc5-665ebd94bd25
Cute girl but too much baby damage for me and wanted 500 on top of that. She's at least legit.
https://members.seeking.com/member/f7dac28f-25fe-439c-997d-a64f63cd5f46
I've mentioned her before. She's a full fledged traveling escort now and I suspect she's being managed.
https://members.seeking.com/member/412f2d91-dfb4-48c6-aaba-8ca0a31a761fGreat rollup. Thanks for the info!
She's been on the site forever and is still active, curious if she's real and if anyone chatted or met her?
https://members.seeking.com/member/0a23fada-ff27-413c-9848-2fa71494806c
Met her for coffee once and didn't vibe with her. Nice girl, more looking for a long term rather than just booty call. I just wasn't that attracted to her and didn't feel it was worth the work and money to have her as a sb.
She's been on the site forever and is still active, curious if she's real and if anyone chatted or met her?
https://members.seeking.com/member/0a23fada-ff27-413c-9848-2fa71494806c
Bottom Out
07-10-23, 21:29
Great rollup. Thanks for the info!Very useful intel.
Vajajalova
07-11-23, 06:13
Had to try an old blondie, only once.
https://members.seeking.com/member/37a252e6-28f5-4fee-8caa-0fddb154859d
Pics on her profile are all a big lie.
https://members.seeking.com/member/6f95dddc-c3a4-40d0-9b3c-5964d381e0b1
This one is fun but just too damn needy.
https://members.seeking.com/member/65a972b8-4fba-421b-9065-61fdeb5c882d
Anyone experience this one. have a meet and greet with her Saturday
https://members.seeking.com/member/62c37dc7-7ceb-41fb-aa8b-8e03098b6f73
Shes visiting from latin america speaks very little english, meeting her Thursday anyone see her
https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/e228aaa8-9da0-4d95-ace2-a4cc51fe26eb
Has anyone had any luck with her. We texted back and forth then she ghosted me.
https://members.seeking.com/member/250901fb-f2bb-43e5-a336-967ada783108
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Had to try an old blondie, only once.
https://members.seeking.com/member/37a252e6-28f5-4fee-8caa-0fddb154859d
Pics on her profile are all a big lie.
https://members.seeking.com/member/6f95dddc-c3a4-40d0-9b3c-5964d381e0b1
This one is fun but just too damn needy.
https://members.seeking.com/member/65a972b8-4fba-421b-9065-61fdeb5c882d
Anyone experience this one. have a meet and greet with her Saturday
https://members.seeking.com/member/62c37dc7-7ceb-41fb-aa8b-8e03098b6f73
Shes visiting from latin america speaks very little english, meeting her Thursday anyone see her
https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/e228aaa8-9da0-4d95-ace2-a4cc51fe26eb
Has anyone had any luck with her. We texted back and forth then she ghosted me.
https://members.seeking.com/member/250901fb-f2bb-43e5-a336-967ada783108Wow thanks for the info! Curious as to how it was with the old blondie, thinking of one for fun. Any info would be appreciated. Mahalo, M.
Vajajalova
07-19-23, 02:40
She quoted me $1200 a week, like WTF.
https://members.seeking.com/member/c5600683-93b4-4b37-9f40-752cdcddb32a
Have a date with her tomorrow, anyone seen Barbie?
https://members.seeking.com/member/8669ca8a-0200-44a0-902b-105987dd637f
She's a lot of fun.
https://members.seeking.com/member/6f95dddc-c3a4-40d0-9b3c-5964d381e0b1
Kinda of shy but a lot of fun.
https://members.seeking.com/member/ed0abf9e-a7a9-4498-ad37-983d521fa333
Never had a japanese but she is a straight up hustler.
https://members.seeking.com/member/2199e57b-12d8-4efe-ae10-73999fe671b6
She has her own place in town, lots of fun.
https://members.seeking.com/member/e84dbc7e-56fb-40f6-9a74-c861453d03ad
She is a lot of fun.
https://members.seeking.com/member/733a5a72-d2ad-476b-873e-aa9084c7373c
She can fuck and suck.
https://members.seeking.com/member/9bd5c10e-ff1b-495b-bcff-3a0c7d643549
She has a good time.
https://members.seeking.com/member/5422927e-56bd-45ab-a6c3-0e63bfaf11b6
She quoted me $1200 a week, like WTF.
https://members.seeking.com/member/c5600683-93b4-4b37-9f40-752cdcddb32a
Have a date with her tomorrow, anyone seen Barbie?
https://members.seeking.com/member/8669ca8a-0200-44a0-902b-105987dd637f
She's a lot of fun.
https://members.seeking.com/member/6f95dddc-c3a4-40d0-9b3c-5964d381e0b1
Kinda of shy but a lot of fun.
https://members.seeking.com/member/ed0abf9e-a7a9-4498-ad37-983d521fa333
Never had a japanese but she is a straight up hustler.
https://members.seeking.com/member/2199e57b-12d8-4efe-ae10-73999fe671b6
She has her own place in town, lots of fun.
https://members.seeking.com/member/e84dbc7e-56fb-40f6-9a74-c861453d03ad
She is a lot of fun.
https://members.seeking.com/member/733a5a72-d2ad-476b-873e-aa9084c7373c
She can fuck and suck.
https://members.seeking.com/member/9bd5c10e-ff1b-495b-bcff-3a0c7d643549
She has a good time.
https://members.seeking.com/member/5422927e-56bd-45ab-a6c3-0e63bfaf11b6Mahalo Vajajalova for all the links. Admittedly never used SA. Do you need a paid or upgraded acct to view the links? Every link I try, I end up with the message below -.
Profile Not Available.
This member's profile can no longer be found. The member might have deactivated their account, been suspended, blocked you, or been blocked by you.
Vajajalova
07-19-23, 16:31
Mahalo Vajajalova for all the links. Admittedly never used SA. Do you need a paid or upgraded acct to view the links? Every link I try, I end up with the message below -.
Profile Not Available.
This member's profile can no longer be found. The member might have deactivated their account, been suspended, blocked you, or been blocked by you.You may need an account. I clicked on each link and they opened up.
CheapCharlie
07-19-23, 19:25
I met 3 girls on Facebook and Instagram who I was just chatting with. Small talk, how are you, what are doing later, etc. Exact same pattern with all of them. Then about a week later they ask for "help". Could you please send me some money? The last one I was messaging told me she was starting her period. Then asked to help her out so she could buy some supplies. I was reluctant and suspicious, but sent $20. She then gets all mad saying she didn't receive anything and hates how selfish I am. So I deleted all our messages and blocked her. So if you guys looking for sugar babies just go Facebook or Instagram.
Vajajalova
07-19-23, 22:25
I met 3 girls on Facebook and Instagram who I was just chatting with. Small talk, how are you, what are doing later, etc. Exact same pattern with all of them. Then about a week later they ask for "help". Could you please send me some money? The last one I was messaging told me she was starting her period. Then asked to help her out so she could buy some supplies. I was reluctant and suspicious, but sent $20. She then gets all mad saying she didn't receive anything and hates how selfish I am. So I deleted all our messages and blocked her. So if you guys looking for sugar babies just go Facebook or Instagram.Whats your approach? Are you just browsing other folks ig scoping out the ones your attracted to then sending a message in their dms that your interested to be their sugar daddy? Out of the 3 girls you met how many girls did you attempt to talk to? Is it like 3 in 200 or 3 in 25?
I met 3 girls on Facebook and Instagram who I was just chatting with. Small talk, how are you, what are doing later, etc. Exact same pattern with all of them. Then about a week later they ask for "help". Could you please send me some money? The last one I was messaging told me she was starting her period. Then asked to help her out so she could buy some supplies. I was reluctant and suspicious, but sent $20. She then gets all mad saying she didn't receive anything and hates how selfish I am. So I deleted all our messages and blocked her. So if you guys looking for sugar babies just go Facebook or Instagram.Tinder Hinge and IG have been gold mines for me. Takes a ton of work but it's funner if you like the hunt. That period scam has been mentioned a lot. Just consider it a 20 lesson and reminder to never send money to someone you've never met.
Whats your approach? Are you just browsing other folks ig scoping out the ones your attracted to then sending a message in their dms that your interested to be their sugar daddy? Out of the 3 girls you met how many girls did you attempt to talk to? Is it like 3 in 200 or 3 in 25?I cast wide nets but all it takes is one or two to hit and it's all worth it. Out of the 10 or so I've got from IG 7 or 8 have bee way cheaper than SA. Tinder has the highest likelihood for freebies in my experience. Hinge is a new honey hole for me but the ladies tend to be older and hornier but less straight forward.
Vajajalova
07-20-23, 08:04
I cast wide nets but all it takes is one or two to hit and it's all worth it. Out of the 10 or so I've got from IG 7 or 8 have bee way cheaper than SA. Tinder has the highest likelihood for freebies in my experience. Hinge is a new honey hole for me but the ladies tend to be older and hornier but less straight forward.
How long does it take to land those one or two?
If your reaching out to 20 or 30 of them and it takes up to 30 min to engage seriously with any one of them thats a lot of time.
CheapCharlie
07-20-23, 09:54
Tinder Hinge and IG have been gold mines for me. Takes a ton of work but it's funner if you like the hunt. That period scam has been mentioned a lot. Just consider it a 20 lesson and reminder to never send money to someone you've never met.Lesson learned. Me thinking with little head instead of big one.
How long does it take to land those one or two?
If your reaching out to 20 or 30 of them and it takes up to 30 min to engage seriously with any one of them thats a lot of time.No definitive timeline when dealing with girls like this. Sugaring isn't a priority and it's not a instant guarantee. It is very time consuming and not for the impatient type for sure.
Renewed my subscription to seeking recently.
Thought this one was kind of cute. Reverse image search says this one is a catfish. Using two different girls pictures.
https://members.seeking.com/member/b8e36239-3ecd-4047-85e7-e8b34d83f9b6
Not my type, but she initiated contact. Gave me her number. Looked up number and it belongs to a 40 year old lady living in California. Seems like a red flag. Website seems fairly reliable, I looked up my own number and it had past address I've lived at.
https://members.seeking.com/member/c4981d12-795d-4ac7-b568-2bba1055aedb
I love getting sugar babies that are 8's,9's and 10's. But sometimes my strategy is to go for what I could get in the civilian dating world or 1-2 lower. I feel like you get a good bang for your buck, they're usually okay with a smaller allowance. In my humble experience older women seem to be extra horny. Hooked up this older blonde.
https://members.seeking.com/member/37a252e6-28f5-4fee-8caa-0fddb154859d
Using my google, confirmed that this one is not a catfish. She's real and actually in Hawaii. Waiting to hear back.
https://members.seeking.com/member/316fd165-1dc0-464c-a911-33cb6fd7cb23
Messaged this one, no response. Guess she was here on vacation looking for some fun. A rare fetish I'm into. And I know it's niche and not for everyone. She's lactating. Recently checked profile, she's back in California. Wondering if anyone from the forum met her?
https://members.seeking.com/member/828efed3-1709-4c26-8589-1d0fbcfd0e1a
Nice college student visiting from Latin America, nice girl, setup was actually quite simple and more pro like, less courting. She can't host, English is not great and is a bit of a barrier but good enough for general conversation. Great ass and can take a pounding in doggy for a while.
She leaves Monday. May be back the end of the year.
https://members.seeking.com/member/07524988-380b-4ea5-bd4a-1e2f3cd2ee3e
Nice college student visiting from Latin America, nice girl, setup was actually quite simple and more pro like, less courting. She can't host, English is not great and is a bit of a barrier but good enough for general conversation. Great ass and can take a pounding in doggy for a while.
She leaves Monday. May be back the end of the year.
https://members.seeking.com/member/07524988-380b-4ea5-bd4a-1e2f3cd2ee3eShe has an even hotter friend that does this low key but not on seeking. Also she's fr from a college student. There's a whole crew on IG actually. The Raegan girl introduced me to her last time I was on island. Raegen is on Seeking but she wasn't my cup of tea but I was nice and that goes a long way with some.
I've gotten a ton of DMs about the IG crew and as a general rule of thumb I don't share anything in the DM. I've been burned that way. I try and post all my encounters here good or bad. Now to the IG and Tinder ones I avoid sharing those since it's so easy for them to connect the dots and those girls are so YMMV. Only thing I can suggest is cast a wide net and don't come off creepy or too desperate. I think I have a 2-3 percent success rate but they all have been cheaper and a better lay than SA.
Ended up giving this one a try. Messaged her on the site couple months ago, she responded and said she was off island. Chatted for couple days then out of the blue she texted asking for a ride. She said she would repay me so WTH let's do it. Picked her up, driving down the Main strip of Waikiki (Kalakaua Ave) she starts giving me BJ, my window has minimal tint. Just slamming her head down on the D. Pulled into zoo parking lot to finish in her mouth and she didn't let anything go to waste!! Hooked up with her the next morning and gave her a good pounding, very submissive and looking for a consistent SD. Says her Roommate is making 8 k plus an apartment paid for from a SD, I think she's looking for same. Hit it for $$ Good luck mongers!
https://members.seeking.com/member/70d88e89-dbf2-4ac4-b176-254d411ee754
Vajajalova
08-05-23, 20:29
Ended up giving this one a try. Messaged her on the site couple months ago, she responded and said she was off island. Chatted for couple days then out of the blue she texted asking for a ride. She said she would repay me so WTH let's do it. Picked her up, driving down the Main strip of Waikiki (Kalakaua Ave) she starts giving me BJ, my window has minimal tint. Just slamming her head down on the D. Pulled into zoo parking lot to finish in her mouth and she didn't let anything go to waste!! Hooked up with her the next morning and gave her a good pounding, very submissive and looking for a consistent SD. Says her Roommate is making 8 k plus an apartment paid for from a SD, I think she's looking for same. Hit it for $$ Good luck mongers!
https://members.seeking.com/member/70d88e89-dbf2-4ac4-b176-254d411ee754I've been coming across a lot of girls asking for $800 and up ppm or weekly allowance. Does anyone else think $800 rates are just way to high for these young girls. That's around 4 times in an AMP. Most of the girls are from off island. I can't imagine people are paying these rates considering how expensive everything is.
Like what sugar daddy is paying $2k a week for vagina
Smokin Gun
08-05-23, 20:52
I've been coming across a lot of girls asking for $800 and up ppm or weekly allowance. Does anyone else think $800 rates are just way to high for these young girls. That's around 4 times in an AMP. Most of the girls are from off island. I can't imagine people are paying these rates considering how expensive everything is.
Like what sugar daddy is paying $2k a week for vaginaPrecovid I would just tell my baby 300. If they wanted more I'd say sorry it won't work out. Of course, I'd only say this toward the end of our coffee meet if we had a connection. Many times they'd be okay with it because she was already comfortable with me and knew there's potential for an extended relationship. Not giving in GPS or just what the girl wants. I'd try to call the shots for what I want.
NormalDude2002
08-05-23, 20:59
I've been coming across a lot of girls asking for $800 and up ppm or weekly allowance. Does anyone else think $800 rates are just way to high for these young girls. That's around 4 times in an AMP. Most of the girls are from off island. I can't imagine people are paying these rates considering how expensive everything is.
Like what sugar daddy is paying $2k a week for vaginaIf there were that many guys paying 2 k a week then these girls wouldn't still be on there looking for a guys. You see a lot of the same girls come and go from these sites. A lot of the same girls on there for years. Thats because they heard from a friend or read somewhere of a a girl getting that much and have been looking for it for years.
I've been coming across a lot of girls asking for $800 and up ppm or weekly allowance. Does anyone else think $800 rates are just way to high for these young girls. That's around 4 times in an AMP. Most of the girls are from off island. I can't imagine people are paying these rates considering how expensive everything is.
Like what sugar daddy is paying $2k a week for vaginaLike any commodity, it's only worth that the market will bear.
I've been coming across a lot of girls asking for $800 and up ppm or weekly allowance. Does anyone else think $800 rates are just way to high for these young girls. That's around 4 times in an AMP. Most of the girls are from off island. I can't imagine people are paying these rates considering how expensive everything is.
Like what sugar daddy is paying $2k a week for vaginaThis one you reviewed, I hit her up on SA and she wanted 1 k for a visit then hit me up a week later and asked if I would do 750, said nope. She texted last week and said she would see me for 500.
https://members.seeking.com/member/62c37dc7-7ceb-41fb-aa8b-8e03098b6f73
I'm going to be traveling to the PNW soon and I've been connecting with some SA girls on the mainland to set up dates for for multiple rounds for 400. So they will negotiate their rates. Maybe different for everyone.
Vajajalova
08-06-23, 02:31
This one you reviewed, I hit her up on SA and she wanted 1 k for a visit then hit me up a week later and asked if I would do 750, said nope. She texted last week and said she would see me for 500.
https://members.seeking.com/member/62c37dc7-7ceb-41fb-aa8b-8e03098b6f73
I'm going to be traveling to the PNW soon and I've been connecting with some SA girls on the mainland to set up dates for for multiple rounds for 400. So they will negotiate their rates. Maybe different for everyone.Did you see her for 500?
Vajajalova
08-06-23, 02:37
Like any commodity, it's only worth that the market will bear.I hear this all the time from realtors trying to sell my homes for the price I want.
Did you see her for 500?No, didn't take it. Pics look really good on the profile, how is she?
Vajajalova
08-06-23, 18:18
No, didn't take it. Pics look really good on the profile, how is she?She's a cool chick lots of fun, very personable, easy on the eyes.
Here are some recent reviews:
Met with this one while she was in Hawaii. She's a pornstar and says she visits Hawaii quite often as she has a lot of friends and family here. Definitely a fun time. BBBJ, CIM, and allows for multiple rounds.
https://members.seeking.com/member/d54736fe-8be6-44bb-932e-fec04b2d246a
If you're into Asians that make a lot of noises like in Japanese porn, she's your go to. LOL. Fake tits & all about the $. Won't try again.
https://members.seeking.com/member/73172453-6877-44b0-813d-90221b0a3a7e
Has a good personality and very down to earth / easy to get along with but the sex was meh.
https://members.seeking.com/member/3cedd5f3-9a17-40b6-ab1d-9c858f6731d2
She's a cool chick lots of fun, very personable, easy on the eyes.LOL she was also another sugar baby that said he last sugar daddy in LA gave her $1000 per meet. Was able to get her to go down but did not try yet. She also said she found a daddy willing to pay the $1 K haha.
LOL she was also another sugar baby that said he last sugar daddy in LA gave her $1000 per meet. Was able to get her to go down but did not try yet. She also said she found a daddy willing to pay the $1 K haha.That's exactly what she said to me as well. Then she texted later saying if I was okay with coming down to 750, I told her no. Then she texted again saying she'll do 500 if we met right now. I'm sure she's fun to be with but not into playing games like that.
Just seeing if anyone has sampled these two.?
https://members.seeking.com/member/cd0e6bda-ec89-407a-bd90-c6b3c715addc
https://members.seeking.com/member/94d9c9eb-0247-4983-8525-bec59a0b457c
Just couple messages back-and-forth, then nothing. Looks like a good time.
YoungMonger808
08-10-23, 12:10
No experience with this one but looks like at least a PD girl or two is on this site.
https://members.seeking.com/member/c345877a-ea83-4f7c-9776-c778b5fec231
Looks to be the same as.
https://privatedelights.ch/USA/Hawaii/Honolulu/Aisha_Jay
LivininDa808
08-10-23, 19:34
I've been coming across a lot of girls asking for $800 and up ppm or weekly allowance. Does anyone else think $800 rates are just way to high for these young girls. That's around 4 times in an AMP. Most of the girls are from off island. I can't imagine people are paying these rates considering how expensive everything is.
Like what sugar daddy is paying $2k a week for vaginaThis one has been on SA for a while and sounded like she was dtf. Not sure if she still works at the strip club but she wanted 1 k per meet. She said anything less makes her feel cheap LOL.
https://members.seeking.com/member/5e205a62-d6c4-484d-9d99-8a82bb93ed0c
This one has been on SA for a while and sounded like she was dtf. Not sure if she still works at the strip club but she wanted 1 k per meet. She said anything less makes her feel cheap LOL.
https://members.seeking.com/member/5e205a62-d6c4-484d-9d99-8a82bb93ed0cUsed to see her a couple years ago. Always was 2-300. She's good looking, but would only do one position, wouldn't kiss, no daty. If she's changed I might consider seeing her again, but definitely not for 1 k or more. That's way more than she's worth IMHO.
LivininDa808
08-11-23, 20:55
Used to see her a couple years ago. Always was 2-300. She's good looking, but would only do one position, wouldn't kiss, no daty. If she's changed I might consider seeing her again, but definitely not for 1 k or more. That's way more than she's worth IMHO.Pity she jacked her rates up that much. I had a feeling she wasn't open to negotiations. I would've considered half if she was willing. #gps.
TrialnError
08-12-23, 08:48
Just seeing if anyone has sampled these two.?
https://members.seeking.com/member/cd0e6bda-ec89-407a-bd90-c6b3c715addc
https://members.seeking.com/member/94d9c9eb-0247-4983-8525-bec59a0b457c
Just couple messages back-and-forth, then nothing. Looks like a good time.First one looks like she could toss you around in bed. So any luck with these two or still crickets?
Vajajalova
08-13-23, 17:39
This one has been on SA for a while and sounded like she was dtf. Not sure if she still works at the strip club but she wanted 1 k per meet. She said anything less makes her feel cheap LOL.
https://members.seeking.com/member/5e205a62-d6c4-484d-9d99-8a82bb93ed0cShowing her nani at the strip club makes her feel distinguished?
SteveTandberg
08-21-23, 18:42
https://members.seeking.com/member/d54f910f-bacc-4e46-b0dd-01731043c10d
Been going back and forth with this one. Seems like she lives in Hawaii or visits quite often. Any experiences with her? She definitely seems like she's been a SB for some time.
SteveTandberg
08-22-23, 15:42
https://members.seeking.com/member/d54f910f-bacc-4e46-b0dd-01731043c10d
Been going back and forth with this one. Seems like she lives in Hawaii or visits quite often. Any experiences with her? She definitely seems like she's been a SB for some time.Photos from Seeking.
I started a conversation with this one but my membership expired. I was interested in meeting up but I don't want to renew just for her. If anyone can DM me contact I would appreciate it.
https://members.seeking.com/member/37a252e6-28f5-4fee-8caa-0fddb154859d
Recently found out from one of my SBs that they have an equivalent of this forum that discusses SDs LOL. I didn't get the specifics, will try to find out more and share. Thought it was amusing. Anyone know the forum / chat room / site?
*hope this is within forum rules here, if not, please delete
I've long suspected this. It's the only way that these girls would know to be asking the same exact prices across the board, especially the brand new to the game SBs. And what's worse, that some of the idiots on this site and in the game just keep throwing dollars at them for pussy. Been back on SA actively for 3 months after some long term freebie relationships, and you'd have to be blind not to see it. I spent hours upon hours when I got back on SA talking to just about every girl that was recently active (when I have time I'll do a deep dive post on it so others don't waste their time) and every one of these girls asking for 600,800, 1000 for an hour, when just two and three years ago it was 200 and 300 for an hour. There's a forum, which I actually suspect is probably hosted or encouraged by SA to join, where all these girls are talking and sharing the "going rate" and which John's are the desperate saps or don't give a shit about throwing 500,1 K at a 20 something for some pussy. No thanks. Inflation my ass. The pussy is the same. Hasn't gotten better. Isn't more scarce, so no way in hell to justify those rates. Nor 3 K-4 K a month allowances. That's a month's rent or mortgage payment for most. Ne hole is worth that. Idiots have ruined the SB scene here by over paying because they are desperate for pussy. And there's now too many on the site wasting time and space just hoping to find that one desperate sap that's going to drop a grand for an hour of their average uninspired pussy. AMP all day and get 3, 4, 5, fucks for the price of one of these SBs. And don't get me started on the ADHD, inability to carry on a conversation, or the. How much will you give me to be your friend and go to dinner with you platonic shit. The entire scene here has really fallen off a cliff the last two years thanks to * and the like and more desperate saps wasting cash for pics and vids when there's an internet with billions of free pics and vids at your disposal to jerk until your dick falls off. The good days, the easy days, are gone for sure.
Recently found out from one of my SBs that they have an equivalent of this forum that discusses SDs LOL. I didn't get the specifics, will try to find out more and share. Thought it was amusing. Anyone know the forum / chat room / site?
*hope this is within forum rules here, if not, please delete
Butigroove
10-17-23, 16:35
Anyone able to meet up with Kayla lately? Saw her had a profile back up for a short time a few weeks back, but forgot to message and then disappeared. She's always provided a good time.
Anyone able to meet up with Kayla lately? Saw her had a profile back up for a short time a few weeks back, but forgot to message and then disappeared. She's always provided a good time.Which Kayla??
Anyone meet with Seekingclarity? Was speaking with her and asked her to verify with snapchat. She sent me her pic and asked for mine. Took too long and she freaked out and blocked me on snap and on seeking. I suspect she is legit but was unable to confirm. Her tag is cutest haole you ever did meet. And she is cute.
https://members.seeking.com/member/6f9184ee-10c6-4274-884e-c3ca7c50a82f
WesleyPipes773
10-19-23, 14:53
I've long suspected this. It's the only way that these girls would know to be asking the same exact prices across the board, especially the brand new to the game SBs. And what's worse, that some of the idiots on this site and in the game just keep throwing dollars at them for pussy. Been back on SA actively for 3 months after some long term freebie relationships, and you'd have to be blind not to see it. I spent hours upon hours when I got back on SA talking to just about every girl that was recently active (when I have time I'll do a deep dive post on it so others don't waste their time) and every one of these girls asking for 600,800, 1000 for an hour, when just two and three years ago it was 200 and 300 for an hour. There's a forum, which I actually suspect is probably hosted or encouraged by SA to join, where all these girls are talking and sharing the "going rate" and which John's are the desperate saps or don't give a shit about throwing 500,1 K at a 20 something for some pussy. No thanks. Inflation my ass. The pussy is the same. Hasn't gotten better. Isn't more scarce, so no way in hell to justify those rates. Nor 3 K-4 K a month allowances. That's a month's rent or mortgage payment for most. Ne hole is worth that. Idiots have ruined the SB scene here by over paying because they are desperate for pussy. And there's now too many on the site wasting time and space just hoping to find that one desperate sap that's going to drop a grand for an hour of their average uninspired pussy. AMP all day and get 3, 4, 5, fucks for the price of one of these SBs. And don't get me started on the ADHD, inability to carry on a conversation, or the. How much will you give me to be your friend and go to dinner with you platonic shit. The entire scene here has really fallen off a cliff the last two years thanks to * and the like and more desperate saps wasting cash for pics and vids when there's an internet with billions of free pics and vids at your disposal to jerk until your dick falls off. The good days, the easy days, are gone for sure.Preach braddah! Those idiots have def ruined SA! I joined back in 2016 and gone are the days were you could find great freebies on that site! I just recently deleted my account due to the GPS. These hoes are crazy if they think they're worth even 500 a meet. You're right, some desparate dumb f $ck is going to throw all kinds of money at these average looking hoes. The talent pool has def gone down as well. Just sad these idiots ruined it for the rest of us. Been having to my hunting using alternative means.
Used to see her a couple years ago. Always was 2-300. She's good looking, but would only do one position, wouldn't kiss, no daty. If she's changed I might consider seeing her again, but definitely not for 1 k or more. That's way more than she's worth IMHO.Totally agree. Back when she was in that curvy apartment, the one that had the fire the other year, she was at reasonable allowance numbers, like 2 or 3 as GrateFu says. Saw her profile too, but if she tryn to pull 1 k no wayz. Plus honestly does anyone here think her face modifications are a bit much?
Totally agree. Back when she was in that curvy apartment, the one that had the fire the other year, she was at reasonable allowance numbers, like 2 or 3 as GrateFu says. Saw her profile too, but if she tryn to pull 1 k no wayz. Plus honestly does anyone here think her face modifications are a bit much?She for sure went overboard with all the plastic surgery. She was a one and done for me. Dead fish and wasn't worth 2 even back then. On a side note, 939 has the most takeout if you're looking for strippers.
https://members.seeking.com/member/052a86c9-0ee9-4889-a19c-f7214f28dc3f
Apparently she travels back and forth to Oahu regularly. Weird vibes. Def not all natural, tits are definitely fake, and she wants to try pass for a newbie when it's pretty clear she's seasoned. I would even guess she's an ex pro.
4, tons of rules, and just the fakery was annoying and big turn off for me.
Alright folks. After having two long term freebee relationships the better part of the last 2. 5 years, life happens and those two moved away with their husbands, thus I made my way back to SA after a long hiatus. Jumped back on the site in late August after about 3 years off it. As mentioned in a previous post, I'm severely disappointed across the board. It has really gone downhill since pre-COVID times. The amount of spammers / scammers, time wasters, and GPS and pay me to be your platonic friend has ruined the site. I also think SA has bots / AI creating new accounts daily with poached photos giving the illusion that there are hundreds if not thousands of women and students joing SA in Hawaii looking for action every year. I find that very hard to believe, but that's another conversation and posting altogether. I've actually got more entertainment out of trolling these girls (not women) and trying to beat them at their own game (wasting their time) as soon as I realize they are scammers or GPS. Not sure it's worth the $100+ per month though to keep having that kind of fun. Anyway.
So here's a rundown in somewhat chronological order, or as I recognized them after scrolling through the search feed. It's top to bottom, newly messaged to several months ago when I first got on. Hopefully this helps so that you don't waste your time. Of note, I've had a total of 3 successful encounters since August. Not worth the money / time (almost daily visiting the site and messaging several hundred women or so called real women). Two of those successes we're not even from Hawaii, they were foreign visitors, one from Asia one from South America. The one local girl was a chunky girl desperate for money that was not quite as advertised in her photos. She's mentioned below.
For reference, I'm late 30's, married, good shape, good looking, white guy from the southeast that now lives here permanently. Not old or sloppy or overweight, etc. No offense to those of you that may be. Say this as it might be useful for you if you decide to try and work some of these girls as some have types and only want an older man willing to throw money at them, or a man they aren't attracted to so there's no risk of a relationship developing, etc etc.
I'm posting usernames only. Not links. Sorry you're not getting that level of effort out of me for this project. You can look them up on the site yourself if it's of that big a concern to you:
1. MermaidRosalia – GPS and full of herself. Great looking ass and super tan, but has zero sense of humor. Didn't even get to the point of discussing arrangement. Wants a man to pay all of her bills. Legit joked with her about her being my sugar mama and me a trophy husband she lost her shit and went in to a diatribe about being pathetic and you'll never be anything blah blah blah then hit the block button. Literal no sense of humor or sarcasm. Tells me she's bitchy and full of herself.
2. Tiny Dancer – No discussion of an arrangement yet. This is the second person on here that has said " I have a retreat this weekend let's talk when I get back". Seems kinda strange to use that exact same line. She has quite a few pictures uploaded though so probably real. We shall see when she "gets back".
3. Alice23 – cute petite thing, pictures are from Vegas. Getting a weird vibe though. She can't hold a conversation, very sporadic. Texted on my burner with her, and talked on site, continually asks me where I'm located. She says she's in Waikiki. Asked her what her price was. She says "something mutually beneficial". The fuck answer is that? Probably won't pursue, hair on neck is tingling as possible LEO even though her profile say I'd validated.
4. SweetBabeA – new to the site. Huge tits. Says she's just seeing what's out there. Doesn't know what she wants. Asked her if she was interested in a FWB mutually beneficial arrangement after talking for a couple of days, no response.
5. Yogini_Hawaii – little bit of talking back and forth. Lives on Big Island but occasionally visits Oahu. Very sporadic. Not sure she's worth pursuing. Nice ass, but don't think she's serious about PPMs.
6. Qu3 efqueen – short convo then disappeared. ADHD I think.
7. Amarie – very cute looking – another platonic pay me to be your friend and take me to dinner types.
8. Adelaide – few messages then disappears for weeks at a time. Don't waste your time.
9. Mysti – not serious, just a time waster.
10. Curvyasian512 – get on here when she get's lonely just looking for attention then disappears for weeks at a time. Doesn't seem like she actually wants to meet up.
11. TemptingGoddess – cute looking military spouse going through a divorce. Just here when she's bored, lonely, looking for male attention (convo only). Not serious about meeting up. May be willing to sell you some pics. Not my thing as there is plenty of free porn out there. Leaving in another month or two anyway.
12. Lola – Very sexy. Great pics. Only wants a platonic take me to dinner and trips arrangement. Have at it if you like wasting your money on something pretty that isn't going to put out. Maybe, after months of a platonic deal, she might open up to something sexual. I sense GPS though but at least she was honest and straightforward.
13. RedheadGoddess – messaged. No response. Constantly online though. Might be a bot account?
14. X0 X0 sexyfairies – not serious about a meet up. On occasionally then disappears for weeks at a time. Strikes me as a picture / vid seller maybe. Wouldn't be surprised if she's just trying to get O F subscribers.
15. SurfinKitten – ADHD. Convo for a few minutes. Disappears for weeks. Model photos which might be stolen from somewhere else. Couldn't find them on tineye or google search anywhere. Not serious about meet ups anyway.
16. Eva – Korean MILF. Think she was seeing one of you mongers here for a little while. Mentioned she knows of a woman (ankle bracelet linda) that does bb anal that's how I know she was seeing one of you, or she peruses this site. Talked about getting married to the monger. Guess that fell through after he took a trip to PI. Maybe you two worked things out though, hope the best for you guys. She's not giving up that Hoe life as she told me though LOL. Tried to help you out and told her to stop if she was serious. Clearly that's not happened though. Quoted me 4 bills for meetup. Everything covered. Not my thing. I'll wear the cover but I better be getting an open menu for that much and you better be young hot thing, not a MILF with a restricted menu. She does have an OF but it's only pictures in lingerie and bikinis, nothing nude. Got to pay extra for those. Have fun if that's your thing.
17. Roslyn – looks hot. Quoted me 8 bills for standard menu. No thanks. Has a friend that will join for 15 bills, no thanks. GPS x2. I'm not that desperate.
18. Kayla was back on SA for a minute under a new username then quickly disappeared. Probably needed some quick cash and was trying to avoid her stalker. Briefly talked. She quoted me 4 bills for standard menu 5 bills with anal. Passed. Had her back 3 or 4 years ago for 2 bills with anal. Sorry but nothing has changed with your service, offering, etc. Not paying over double the price for same action. Inflation isn't that bad. And sorry Kayla if you read this as I know you peruse from time to time, just my personal feelings. Nothing against you. You've got a price, I've got my limits.
19. StunningSiren – wants a platonic take me on dates. No thanks.
20. Mikala – cute Mexican / japanese mix. Not serious. ADHD. Few messages, then gone for weeks, few messages, gone another few weeks. Don't waste your time.
21. SweetBelle – Seems like a game player / time waster and GPS. Exchanged a few messages and that was that. Not worth my time.
22. Temptations – time waster. Not serious. Think she deleted the account anyway.
23. Sensualsadie – weird seeming one. The second one on here that used the line about having a retreat over the weekend and messaging after that. Which she never did. Actually started texting over phone before that. Reverse searched number and found a CL ad about trying to sell space for storing a boat in Kaneohe. Possible scammer or maybe a dude moonlighting as a chick trying to sell you fake pics.
24. Gabriellaxo – GPS, not super serious about meeting up. Wants someone to just give her money for her presence and conversation LOL.
25. SurfandBeach – messaged once. No reply.
26. BeachGirl – holding a goat in her picture. Had a few days of convo, talked about meeting up, then disappeared. Hasn't been online since.
27. Jbat – messaged once, no reply.
28. Bunny – semi-cute young girl in Hilo. Seems promising but does me no good over there.
29. Peacelove – messaged once, no reply.
30. Bbclark05 – serious ADHD and not serious about meetups. Might be a O F er trying to sell pics and vids, or could be a scammer. Will send one or two messages then disappear for weeks.
31. Ripcurlv – cute girl but not serious about meetups. Isn't even in Hawaii half the time it seems. Talked about being in the mid-east, travelling, etc. Don't waste your time. The pics are just clickbait.
32. Maklaya – wants me to teach her how to surf. Not my type though and not feeling the vibe.
33. JustAnotherGirlll – ADHD. On once in a blue moon. Not interested in meeting up.
34. GoinGolfin – older woman, 44 year old Not serious about meetups. Seems like she's constantly got some drama or issue going on. Don't waste your time.
35. Glamorous – deleted profile I think. Time waster anyway. Not serious about a meetup.
36. Baabyloovee – Now in Canada according to her profile. Didn't seem serious.
37. Elina111 – Deleted profile it appears. Foreign looking skinny girl, maybe Russian or Ukrainian. Quoted me 6 bills for standard action. Passed.
38. Thelovelyerika – cute little Filipino looking girl. Quoted me 8 bills for standard. Tempted to pull the trigger but I've got a limit, and she was above it. Passed.
39. Yogababyy – Unsure about this one. Cute, claimed she was from Maui and a Yoga instructor that comes to Oahu to teach classes. Profile says she's in LA now. Quoted me 6 bills. Everything covered. Lots of rules. Passed.
40.808 Hiromi – Japanese looking MILF. Claims she's just seeing what's out there. Says she is married but unsatisfied. Wasn't serious about meeting up though. Wouldn't waste my time any further but may be just isn't in to white guys. Good luck if you give it a go.
41. Kellyshay – waste of time. Not serious about meetup. Got a sense of GPS. Never got to price or arrangement terms.
42. Luna21 – looks like profile deleted now. Not serious about meetups. Think she's either trying to sell pics or O F. Or maybe looking for an old man to pay her to be friend and take on fancy dinner dates.
43. ThiccGoodGirl – ADHD. Messaged back and forth a few times. Got to discussion about meetup and terms. Read message then disappeared. Not serious. Don't waste your time.
44. Aphrodite – profile says in Orlando now. Seemed fake. Exchanged few messages then I stopped the convo.
45. Vinsincity – this one is the chunky desperate early 20's local girl. Met up with her back in late August. 2 bills for 45 minutes. Everything covered but did give a teethy BBBJ. Got the job done but wouldn't repeat. Pics definitely hid the extra weight. She deleted her original profile, then created another one, then deleted that one and I think I saw her with a new one after that but not sure. Not sure if she's got a stalker or trying to be discrete and hide from family.
46. Kailanikauai – GPS. Quoted me 8 bills. Everything covered, lots of rules. Passed.
47. Sbaby111 – tall girl. Exchanged a few messages. Went no where.
48. CoCoBae – profile says in Australia now. GPS. Exchanged a few messaged. Quoted me 10 bills. Passed.
49. Tori – exchanged a few messages, then disappeared. Not serious.
50. Juliet May – cute student. Not serious about meetups. Talked awhile. Tried to discuss arrangement, price. Was more interested in just finding a free place to stay for a month or so in exchange for her platonic company. Sorry, my wife wouldn't go for that.
51. Renee – one message, no response.
52. Jocelyn – Talked a bit. Seemed interested in an arrangement. Gave phone number. She never texted. Not serious. Says she can add spice to your life. Seemed pretty bland and absent to me LOL.
53. Babygray – not serious about meetup and got whiff of GPS. Not worth the time.
54. Badbrattykitty – not interested in a meetup. O F er I think.
55. Babylis – quoted me 6 bills for 1 hr all covered. Too many rules. Semi-cute looking 31 year old With a decent rack but doesn't strike me as being worth the price. Could hold a convo at least.
56. SoSoKute – late 30's MILF. Messaged a few times. Got the GPS vibe, but she was definitely willing to meetup. Decided I wasn't interested as I was pursuing another option. She's in Irvine CA now.
57. Eden – says she wants to do bad things with you. But all talk and no action. Can't tell if she's a student or not. Serious ADHD though. Local looking girl so maybe just not in to white guys.
58. Luvmeorh8 me77 - 46 year old Local woman. Pretty muscular, looks like a weightlifter type. Not really my thing but was semi-interested. Asked about arrangements then she went on vacation to CA. She never followed up afterwards.
59. Lil_one – waste of time. Can't hold a convo and not serious about meetups.
60. Mxghtcap – local girl. Doesn't seem serious about meetups. Off site for weeks at a time. May just not be in to white guys.
61. KamaKimmy – disappeared after a few days of convo. Seemed GPS. Don't waste your time.
62. Silver – hot looking girl. Not on the site very much. Don't think she's serious or might be a scammer. Account is verified, but definitely not a professional. Could be an O F er of pic seller not sure.
63. ExcitedDuchess – claims to be a bottle girl and works a poker game as a server. Tried to meetup with her at the poker game for an arrangement after game was over, she disappeared and hasn't been back. Either trying to funnel people to the game, or she's just playing games.
64. Lovelykenziek – very cute student – totally my type! Messaged for a few days. Get to the part about an arrangement or meetup. Disappears and hasn't been back on site since.
65. Obscureprincess – local girl, messaged me. Says she searched and came across my profile, after reading it blah blah blah. Sounds like a salesman pitch. Bot or fake in my opinion.
66. Sensualgoddess222 – messaged for about a week. Decent convo. Could probably actually be a friend, not a fuck buddy, but doesn't seem interested in meetups. Maybe just not her type. Seems like a nice girl though.
67. Lilinoe – convo started. Never finished. Ghosted.
68. Ludovica – GPS – wanted me to pay her 500 just to meet in a public place for lunch or coffee to discuss an arrangement. Yeah no. GTFOH.
69. Little_baybea – white girl with a decent ass. Wants dinner dates. Not interested in anything sexual.
70. Victoria – Goes by Vick – local girl. Messaged back and forth a few days. Got to the point of meetup discussion, left on read and ghosted. I see she's active again now, but haven't bothered with reaching back out.
71. Veesellshomes – cute looking 30 year old, but is more interested in trying to sell you a house or get you to list with her. Realtor obviously. She might be open for dinner dates and trips, but she seems to have zero interest in a ppm or anything sexual.
72. Miche – tiny asian girl. Doesn't seem interested in a meetup, or younger or white guys isn't her thing.
73. Chrlttetheprincess – not serious about meetups. All talk, no action. Don't waste your time.
74. Gardengirl – messaged a few days then ghosted. Wouldn't waste time here.
75. Jaybee197 – saw where one monger said he had success with her, but not sure I buy it. Messaged back and forth for about a week. Seemed interested in a meetup or longer term arrangement. Then disappeared when it came time for particulars and actual plan to meetup. Seems sporadically active on the site also.
76. SillySarahhh – don't waste your time. Cute pics, but not serious. Total time waster.
77. Celina – in New York now apparently. Quoted my 800 for a meet with lots of rules and everything covered. No thanks.
78. Singlesweetmom – time waster. Another military spouse going through divorce. Sits at home all day playing games online. Just looking for attention. Cute, but not at all serious.
79. May – not serious. Cute, but couldn't hold a convo, no interest in meeting up.
80. Lovelybird888 – weird late 30 year old white girl in an orange bikini. She has a new profile now that is lovelybird808 but with same pic. Her pics are screenshots of pics on her phone. Also weird. You can see the arrows on the screen. Quoted me 6 bills for a meetup, but I wasn't feeling it. Says she's Polish. Talked to her on the phone and has the right accent, and said she was a delivery driver in town. Was going on about seeing some guy that was a mechanic and fixed her car but then it was breaking down again, he ran in to her walking in the parking garage yada yada. Seems like a nutcase and drama queen that I don't need to deal with. Had an LA phone number. Careful with this one.
81. Barbiegyal – wanted to sell me pics and vids for 3 bills. No thanks. I'm a hands on guy that doesn't waste money on pics and vids.
82. BbAurora24 – hot looking young girl. Messaged but she has total GPS and only wants platonic dinner dates and trips. GTFOH.
83. AlwaysMissME – profile says she's 30. I think she's early 40's though. Nice man mades but has total GPS. 8 bills for 1 hour. All kinds of rules. Nope.
84. SumScarlet – white blonde girl. Quoted 10 bills right off the bat. Sorry GPS not getting that out of me.
85. Bbyhailey – gorgeous looking asian 19 year old Messaged a few times but no response. Maybe not in to younger guys or white guys. Not sure though. I imagine she's wanting only platonic or is total GPS just looking at her, but maybe not. At any rate she's not interested in late 30's white guys.
86. Dulcebebe – Colombian girl. Doesn't actually seem interested in anything but platonic.
87. Surfergurl999 – snobby GPS white gurl looking for platonic only. Very cute though. YMMV but I wouldn't waste my time.
88. Keababy – profile claims she's looking for causal fun, but doesn't respond to messages. Looks like a local white gurl. Maybe white guys isn't her thing.
89. Beach baby – white girl with long legs. Messaged a few times. No response.
That's all I got and all I can remember for now. There's probably another 20 or 30 not listed that I messaged once and never responded back, or deleted their profiles. Moral of this story is SA is just not worth the trouble anymore and I'll probably be deleting the app. AMPs, PD, BP, etc seem to be the only reliable outlets anymore. Too much ADHD, GPS, platonic pay me to be your friend BS, or just general time wasters and scammers, spammers, and bots / fake profiles. Good luck to those of you still here, I just don't see the value in paying 1300 a year for a site that does little to nothing to screen the female profiles and actually, in my opinion, muddies the waters with fake accounts and bots posing as real people just to cheat you out of your 100 bucks a month. That's just me.
Alright folks. After having two long term freebee relationships the better part of the last 2. 5 years, life happens and those two moved away with their husbands, thus I made my way back to SA after a long hiatus. Jumped back on the site in late August after about 3 years off it. As mentioned in a previous post, I'm severely disappointed across the board. It has really gone downhill since pre-COVID times. The amount of spammers / scammers, time wasters, and GPS and pay me to be your platonic friend has ruined the site. I also think SA has bots / AI creating new accounts daily with poached photos giving the illusion that there are hundreds if not thousands of women and students joing SA in Hawaii looking for action every year. I find that very hard to believe, but that's another conversation and posting altogether. I've actually got more entertainment out of trolling these girls (not women) and trying to beat them at their own game (wasting their time) as soon as I realize they are scammers or GPS. Not sure it's worth the $100+ per month though to keep having that kind of fun. Anyway.
So here's a rundown in somewhat chronological order, or as I recognized them after scrolling through the search feed. It's top to bottom, newly messaged to several months ago when I first got on. Hopefully this helps so that you don't waste your time. Of note, I've had a total of 3 successful encounters since August. Not worth the money / time (almost daily visiting the site and messaging several hundred women or so called real women). Two of those successes we're not even from Hawaii, they were foreign visitors, one from Asia one from South America. The one local girl was a chunky girl desperate for money that was not quite as advertised in her photos. She's mentioned below.
For reference, I'm late 30's, married, good shape, good looking, white guy from the southeast that now lives here permanently. Not old or sloppy or overweight, etc. No offense to those of you that may be. Say this as it might be useful for you if you decide to try and work some of these girls as some have types and only want an older man willing to throw money at them, or a man they aren't attracted to so there's no risk of a relationship developing, etc etc.
I'm posting usernames only. Not links. Sorry you're not getting that level of effort out of me for this project. You can look them up on the site yourself if it's of that big a concern to you:
1. MermaidRosalia GPS and full of herself. Great looking ass and super tan, but has zero sense of humor. Didn't even get to the point of discussing arrangement. Wants a man to pay all of her bills. Legit joked with her about her being my sugar mama and me a trophy husband she lost her shit and went in to a diatribe about being pathetic and you'll never be anything blah blah blah then hit the block button. Literal no sense of humor or sarcasm. Tells me she's bitchy and full of herself.
2. Tiny Dancer No discussion of an arrangement yet. This is the second person on here that has said " I have a retreat this weekend let's talk when I get back". Seems kinda strange to use that exact same line. She has quite a few pictures uploaded though so probably real. We shall see when she "gets back".
3. Alice23 cute petite thing, pictures are from Vegas. Getting a weird vibe though. She can't hold a conversation, very sporadic. Texted on my burner with her, and talked on site, continually asks me where I'm located. She says she's in Waikiki. Asked her what her price was. She says "something mutually beneficial". The fuck answer is that? Probably won't pursue, hair on neck is tingling as possible LEO even though her profile say I'd validated.
4. SweetBabeA new to the site. Huge tits. Says she's just seeing what's out there. Doesn't know what she wants. Asked her if she was interested in a FWB mutually beneficial arrangement after talking for a couple of days, no response.
5. Yogini_Hawaii little bit of talking back and forth. Lives on Big Island but occasionally visits Oahu. Very sporadic. Not sure she's worth pursuing. Nice ass, but don't think she's serious about PPMs.
6. Qu3 efqueen short convo then disappeared. ADHD I think.
7. Amarie very cute looking another platonic pay me to be your friend and take me to dinner types.
8. Adelaide few messages then disappears for weeks at a time. Don't waste your time.
9. Mysti not serious, just a time waster.
10. Curvyasian512 get on here when she get's lonely just looking for attention then disappears for weeks at a time. Doesn't seem like she actually wants to meet up.
11. TemptingGoddess cute looking military spouse going through a divorce. Just here when she's bored, lonely, looking for male attention (convo only). Not serious about meeting up. May be willing to sell you some pics. Not my thing as there is plenty of free porn out there. Leaving in another month or two anyway.
12. Lola Very sexy. Great pics. Only wants a platonic take me to dinner and trips arrangement. Have at it if you like wasting your money on something pretty that isn't going to put out. Maybe, after months of a platonic deal, she might open up to something sexual. I sense GPS though but at least she was honest and straightforward.
13. RedheadGoddess messaged. No response. Constantly online though. Might be a bot account?
14. X0 X0 sexyfairies not serious about a meet up. On occasionally then disappears for weeks at a time. Strikes me as a picture / vid seller maybe. Wouldn't be surprised if she's just trying to get O F subscribers.
15. SurfinKitten ADHD. Convo for a few minutes. Disappears for weeks. Model photos which might be stolen from somewhere else. Couldn't find them on tineye or google search anywhere. Not serious about meet ups anyway.
16. Eva Korean MILF. Think she was seeing one of you mongers here for a little while. Mentioned she knows of a woman (ankle bracelet linda) that does bb anal that's how I know she was seeing one of you, or she peruses this site. Talked about getting married to the monger. Guess that fell through after he took a trip to PI. Maybe you two worked things out though, hope the best for you guys. She's not giving up that Hoe life as she told me though LOL. Tried to help you out and told her to stop if she was serious. Clearly that's not happened though. Quoted me 4 bills for meetup. Everything covered. Not my thing. I'll wear the cover but I better be getting an open menu for that much and you better be young hot thing, not a MILF with a restricted menu. She does have an OF but it's only pictures in lingerie and bikinis, nothing nude. Got to pay extra for those. Have fun if that's your thing.
17. Roslyn looks hot. Quoted me 8 bills for standard menu. No thanks. Has a friend that will join for 15 bills, no thanks. GPS x2. I'm not that desperate.
18. Kayla was back on SA for a minute under a new username then quickly disappeared. Probably needed some quick cash and was trying to avoid her stalker. Briefly talked. She quoted me 4 bills for standard menu 5 bills with anal. Passed. Had her back 3 or 4 years ago for 2 bills with anal. Sorry but nothing has changed with your service, offering, etc. Not paying over double the price for same action. Inflation isn't that bad. And sorry Kayla if you read this as I know you peruse from time to time, just my personal feelings. Nothing against you. You've got a price, I've got my limits.
19. StunningSiren wants a platonic take me on dates. No thanks.
20. Mikala cute Mexican / japanese mix. Not serious. ADHD. Few messages, then gone for weeks, few messages, gone another few weeks. Don't waste your time.
21. SweetBelle Seems like a game player / time waster and GPS. Exchanged a few messages and that was that. Not worth my time.
22. Temptations time waster. Not serious. Think she deleted the account anyway.
23. Sensualsadie weird seeming one. The second one on here that used the line about having a retreat over the weekend and messaging after that. Which she never did. Actually started texting over phone before that. Reverse searched number and found a CL ad about trying to sell space for storing a boat in Kaneohe. Possible scammer or maybe a dude moonlighting as a chick trying to sell you fake pics.
24. Gabriellaxo GPS, not super serious about meeting up. Wants someone to just give her money for her presence and conversation LOL.
25. SurfandBeach messaged once. No reply.
26. BeachGirl holding a goat in her picture. Had a few days of convo, talked about meeting up, then disappeared. Hasn't been online since.
27. Jbat messaged once, no reply.
28. Bunny semi-cute young girl in Hilo. Seems promising but does me no good over there.
29. Peacelove messaged once, no reply.
30. Bbclark05 serious ADHD and not serious about meetups. Might be a O F er trying to sell pics and vids, or could be a scammer. Will send one or two messages then disappear for weeks.
31. Ripcurlv cute girl but not serious about meetups. Isn't even in Hawaii half the time it seems. Talked about being in the mid-east, travelling, etc. Don't waste your time. The pics are just clickbait.
32. Maklaya wants me to teach her how to surf. Not my type though and not feeling the vibe.
33. JustAnotherGirlll ADHD. On once in a blue moon. Not interested in meeting up.
34. GoinGolfin older woman, 44 year old Not serious about meetups. Seems like she's constantly got some drama or issue going on. Don't waste your time.
35. Glamorous deleted profile I think. Time waster anyway. Not serious about a meetup.
36. Baabyloovee Now in Canada according to her profile. Didn't seem serious.
37. Elina111 Deleted profile it appears. Foreign looking skinny girl, maybe Russian or Ukrainian. Quoted me 6 bills for standard action. Passed.
38. Thelovelyerika cute little Filipino looking girl. Quoted me 8 bills for standard. Tempted to pull the trigger but I've got a limit, and she was above it. Passed.
39. Yogababyy Unsure about this one. Cute, claimed she was from Maui and a Yoga instructor that comes to Oahu to teach classes. Profile says she's in LA now. Quoted me 6 bills. Everything covered. Lots of rules. Passed.
40.808 Hiromi Japanese looking MILF. Claims she's just seeing what's out there. Says she is married but unsatisfied. Wasn't serious about meeting up though. Wouldn't waste my time any further but may be just isn't in to white guys. Good luck if you give it a go.
41. Kellyshay waste of time. Not serious about meetup. Got a sense of GPS. Never got to price or arrangement terms.
42. Luna21 looks like profile deleted now. Not serious about meetups. Think she's either trying to sell pics or O F. Or maybe looking for an old man to pay her to be friend and take on fancy dinner dates.
43. ThiccGoodGirl ADHD. Messaged back and forth a few times. Got to discussion about meetup and terms. Read message then disappeared. Not serious. Don't waste your time.
44. Aphrodite profile says in Orlando now. Seemed fake. Exchanged few messages then I stopped the convo.
45. Vinsincity this one is the chunky desperate early 20's local girl. Met up with her back in late August. 2 bills for 45 minutes. Everything covered but did give a teethy BBBJ. Got the job done but wouldn't repeat. Pics definitely hid the extra weight. She deleted her original profile, then created another one, then deleted that one and I think I saw her with a new one after that but not sure. Not sure if she's got a stalker or trying to be discrete and hide from family.
46. Kailanikauai GPS. Quoted me 8 bills. Everything covered, lots of rules. Passed.
47. Sbaby111 tall girl. Exchanged a few messages. Went no where.
48. CoCoBae profile says in Australia now. GPS. Exchanged a few messaged. Quoted me 10 bills. Passed.
49. Tori exchanged a few messages, then disappeared. Not serious.
50. Juliet May cute student. Not serious about meetups. Talked awhile. Tried to discuss arrangement, price. Was more interested in just finding a free place to stay for a month or so in exchange for her platonic company. Sorry, my wife wouldn't go for that.
51. Renee one message, no response.
52. Jocelyn Talked a bit. Seemed interested in an arrangement. Gave phone number. She never texted. Not serious. Says she can add spice to your life. Seemed pretty bland and absent to me LOL.
53. Babygray not serious about meetup and got whiff of GPS. Not worth the time.
54. Badbrattykitty not interested in a meetup. O F er I think.
55. Babylis quoted me 6 bills for 1 hr all covered. Too many rules. Semi-cute looking 31 year old With a decent rack but doesn't strike me as being worth the price. Could hold a convo at least.
56. SoSoKute late 30's MILF. Messaged a few times. Got the GPS vibe, but she was definitely willing to meetup. Decided I wasn't interested as I was pursuing another option. She's in Irvine CA now.
57. Eden says she wants to do bad things with you. But all talk and no action. Can't tell if she's a student or not. Serious ADHD though. Local looking girl so maybe just not in to white guys.
58. Luvmeorh8 me77 - 46 year old Local woman. Pretty muscular, looks like a weightlifter type. Not really my thing but was semi-interested. Asked about arrangements then she went on vacation to CA. She never followed up afterwards.
59. Lil_one waste of time. Can't hold a convo and not serious about meetups.
60. Mxghtcap local girl. Doesn't seem serious about meetups. Off site for weeks at a time. May just not be in to white guys.
61. KamaKimmy disappeared after a few days of convo. Seemed GPS. Don't waste your time.
62. Silver hot looking girl. Not on the site very much. Don't think she's serious or might be a scammer. Account is verified, but definitely not a professional. Could be an O F er of pic seller not sure.
63. ExcitedDuchess claims to be a bottle girl and works a poker game as a server. Tried to meetup with her at the poker game for an arrangement after game was over, she disappeared and hasn't been back. Either trying to funnel people to the game, or she's just playing games.
64. Lovelykenziek very cute student totally my type! Messaged for a few days. Get to the part about an arrangement or meetup. Disappears and hasn't been back on site since.
65. Obscureprincess local girl, messaged me. Says she searched and came across my profile, after reading it blah blah blah. Sounds like a salesman pitch. Bot or fake in my opinion.
66. Sensualgoddess222 messaged for about a week. Decent convo. Could probably actually be a friend, not a fuck buddy, but doesn't seem interested in meetups. Maybe just not her type. Seems like a nice girl though.
67. Lilinoe convo started. Never finished. Ghosted.
68. Ludovica GPS wanted me to pay her 500 just to meet in a public place for lunch or coffee to discuss an arrangement. Yeah no. GTFOH.
69. Little_baybea white girl with a decent ass. Wants dinner dates. Not interested in anything sexual.
70. Victoria Goes by Vick local girl. Messaged back and forth a few days. Got to the point of meetup discussion, left on read and ghosted. I see she's active again now, but haven't bothered with reaching back out.
71. Veesellshomes cute looking 30 year old, but is more interested in trying to sell you a house or get you to list with her. Realtor obviously. She might be open for dinner dates and trips, but she seems to have zero interest in a ppm or anything sexual.
72. Miche tiny asian girl. Doesn't seem interested in a meetup, or younger or white guys isn't her thing.
73. Chrlttetheprincess not serious about meetups. All talk, no action. Don't waste your time.
74. Gardengirl messaged a few days then ghosted. Wouldn't waste time here.
75. Jaybee197 saw where one monger said he had success with her, but not sure I buy it. Messaged back and forth for about a week. Seemed interested in a meetup or longer term arrangement. Then disappeared when it came time for particulars and actual plan to meetup. Seems sporadically active on the site also.
76. SillySarahhh don't waste your time. Cute pics, but not serious. Total time waster.
77. Celina in New York now apparently. Quoted my 800 for a meet with lots of rules and everything covered. No thanks.
78. Singlesweetmom time waster. Another military spouse going through divorce. Sits at home all day playing games online. Just looking for attention. Cute, but not at all serious.
79. May not serious. Cute, but couldn't hold a convo, no interest in meeting up.
80. Lovelybird888 weird late 30 year old white girl in an orange bikini. She has a new profile now that is lovelybird808 but with same pic. Her pics are screenshots of pics on her phone. Also weird. You can see the arrows on the screen. Quoted me 6 bills for a meetup, but I wasn't feeling it. Says she's Polish. Talked to her on the phone and has the right accent, and said she was a delivery driver in town. Was going on about seeing some guy that was a mechanic and fixed her car but then it was breaking down again, he ran in to her walking in the parking garage yada yada. Seems like a nutcase and drama queen that I don't need to deal with. Had an LA phone number. Careful with this one.
81. Barbiegyal wanted to sell me pics and vids for 3 bills. No thanks. I'm a hands on guy that doesn't waste money on pics and vids.
82. BbAurora24 hot looking young girl. Messaged but she has total GPS and only wants platonic dinner dates and trips. GTFOH.
83. AlwaysMissME profile says she's 30. I think she's early 40's though. Nice man mades but has total GPS. 8 bills for 1 hour. All kinds of rules. Nope.
84. SumScarlet white blonde girl. Quoted 10 bills right off the bat. Sorry GPS not getting that out of me.
85. Bbyhailey gorgeous looking asian 19 year old Messaged a few times but no response. Maybe not in to younger guys or white guys. Not sure though. I imagine she's wanting only platonic or is total GPS just looking at her, but maybe not. At any rate she's not interested in late 30's white guys.
86. Dulcebebe Colombian girl. Doesn't actually seem interested in anything but platonic.
87. Surfergurl999 snobby GPS white gurl looking for platonic only. Very cute though. YMMV but I wouldn't waste my time.
88. Keababy profile claims she's looking for causal fun, but doesn't respond to messages. Looks like a local white gurl. Maybe white guys isn't her thing.
89. Beach baby white girl with long legs. Messaged a few times. No response.
That's all I got and all I can remember for now. There's probably another 20 or 30 not listed that I messaged once and never responded back, or deleted their profiles. Moral of this story is SA is just not worth the trouble anymore and I'll probably be deleting the app. AMPs, PD, BP, etc seem to be the only reliable outlets anymore. Too much ADHD, GPS, platonic pay me to be your friend BS, or just general time wasters and scammers, spammers, and bots / fake profiles. Good luck to those of you still here, I just don't see the value in paying 1300 a year for a site that does little to nothing to screen the female profiles and actually, in my opinion, muddies the waters with fake accounts and bots posing as real people just to cheat you out of your 100 bucks a month. That's just me.Nice review. Have you tried Adult Friend Finder? I just opened a new free account. Can't message though, not sure if it's worth paying.
NormalDude2002
11-10-23, 13:18
Nice review. Have you tried Adult Friend Finder? I just opened a new free account. Can't message though, not sure if it's worth paying.Adult Friend Finder is for swingers. The chances of you finding a single girl on there are super low. There are probably only a handful of actual single women on there from the entire island and they have their pick of whomever they want. There are a lot of couples, of the ones that want single guys if you are good looking or have a big dick you can bang some of the guys wives with them or while they watch. I wouldn't spend money on it unless you want threesomes and are decent looking.
There are also a lot of bots on there to make it look like there are way more single females on the site than there actually are.
Alright folks. After having two long term freebee relationships the better part of the last 2. 5 years, life happens and those two moved away with their husbands, thus I made my way back to SA after a long hiatus. Jumped back on the site in late August after about 3 years off it. As mentioned in a previous post, I'm severely disappointed across the board. It has really gone downhill since pre-COVID times. The amount of spammers / scammers, time wasters, and GPS and pay me to be your platonic friend has ruined the site. I also think SA has bots / AI creating new accounts daily with poached photos giving the illusion that there are hundreds if not thousands of women and students joing SA in Hawaii looking for action every year. I find that very hard to believe, but that's another conversation and posting altogether. I've actually got more entertainment out of trolling these girls (not women) and trying to beat them at their own game (wasting their time) as soon as I realize they are scammers or GPS. Not sure it's worth the $100+ per month though to keep having that kind of fun. Anyway.
So here's a rundown in somewhat chronological order, or as I recognized them after scrolling through the search feed. It's top to bottom, newly messaged to several months ago when I first got on. Hopefully this helps so that you don't waste your time. Of note, I've had a total of 3 successful encounters since August. Not worth the money / time (almost daily visiting the site and messaging several hundred women or so called real women). Two of those successes we're not even from Hawaii, they were foreign visitors, one from Asia one from South America. The one local girl was a chunky girl desperate for money that was not quite as advertised in her photos. She's mentioned below.
For reference, I'm late 30's, married, good shape, good looking, white guy from the southeast that now lives here permanently. Not old or sloppy or overweight, etc. No offense to those of you that may be. Say this as it might be useful for you if you decide to try and work some of these girls as some have types and only want an older man willing to throw money at them, or a man they aren't attracted to so there's no risk of a relationship developing, etc etc.
I'm posting usernames only. Not links. Sorry you're not getting that level of effort out of me for this project. You can look them up on the site yourself if it's of that big a concern to you:
1. MermaidRosalia GPS and full of herself. Great looking ass and super tan, but has zero sense of humor. Didn't even get to the point of discussing arrangement. Wants a man to pay all of her bills. Legit joked with her about her being my sugar mama and me a trophy husband she lost her shit and went in to a diatribe about being pathetic and you'll never be anything blah blah blah then hit the block button. Literal no sense of humor or sarcasm. Tells me she's bitchy and full of herself.
2. Tiny Dancer No discussion of an arrangement yet. This is the second person on here that has said " I have a retreat this weekend let's talk when I get back". Seems kinda strange to use that exact same line. She has quite a few pictures uploaded though so probably real. We shall see when she "gets back".
3. Alice23 cute petite thing, pictures are from Vegas. Getting a weird vibe though. She can't hold a conversation, very sporadic. Texted on my burner with her, and talked on site, continually asks me where I'm located. She says she's in Waikiki. Asked her what her price was. She says "something mutually beneficial". The fuck answer is that? Probably won't pursue, hair on neck is tingling as possible LEO even though her profile say I'd validated.
4. SweetBabeA new to the site. Huge tits. Says she's just seeing what's out there. Doesn't know what she wants. Asked her if she was interested in a FWB mutually beneficial arrangement after talking for a couple of days, no response.
5. Yogini_Hawaii little bit of talking back and forth. Lives on Big Island but occasionally visits Oahu. Very sporadic. Not sure she's worth pursuing. Nice ass, but don't think she's serious about PPMs.
6. Qu3 efqueen short convo then disappeared. ADHD I think.
7. Amarie very cute looking another platonic pay me to be your friend and take me to dinner types.
8. Adelaide few messages then disappears for weeks at a time. Don't waste your time.
9. Mysti not serious, just a time waster.
10. Curvyasian512 get on here when she get's lonely just looking for attention then disappears for weeks at a time. Doesn't seem like she actually wants to meet up.
11. TemptingGoddess cute looking military spouse going through a divorce. Just here when she's bored, lonely, looking for male attention (convo only). Not serious about meeting up. May be willing to sell you some pics. Not my thing as there is plenty of free porn out there. Leaving in another month or two anyway.
12. Lola Very sexy. Great pics. Only wants a platonic take me to dinner and trips arrangement. Have at it if you like wasting your money on something pretty that isn't going to put out. Maybe, after months of a platonic deal, she might open up to something sexual. I sense GPS though but at least she was honest and straightforward.
13. RedheadGoddess messaged. No response. Constantly online though. Might be a bot account?
14. X0 X0 sexyfairies not serious about a meet up. On occasionally then disappears for weeks at a time. Strikes me as a picture / vid seller maybe. Wouldn't be surprised if she's just trying to get O F subscribers.
15. SurfinKitten ADHD. Convo for a few minutes. Disappears for weeks. Model photos which might be stolen from somewhere else. Couldn't find them on tineye or google search anywhere. Not serious about meet ups anyway.
16. Eva Korean MILF. Think she was seeing one of you mongers here for a little while. Mentioned she knows of a woman (ankle bracelet linda) that does bb anal that's how I know she was seeing one of you, or she peruses this site. Talked about getting married to the monger. Guess that fell through after he took a trip to PI. Maybe you two worked things out though, hope the best for you guys. She's not giving up that Hoe life as she told me though LOL. Tried to help you out and told her to stop if she was serious. Clearly that's not happened though. Quoted me 4 bills for meetup. Everything covered. Not my thing. I'll wear the cover but I better be getting an open menu for that much and you better be young hot thing, not a MILF with a restricted menu. She does have an OF but it's only pictures in lingerie and bikinis, nothing nude. Got to pay extra for those. Have fun if that's your thing.
17. Roslyn looks hot. Quoted me 8 bills for standard menu. No thanks. Has a friend that will join for 15 bills, no thanks. GPS x2. I'm not that desperate.
18. Kayla was back on SA for a minute under a new username then quickly disappeared. Probably needed some quick cash and was trying to avoid her stalker. Briefly talked. She quoted me 4 bills for standard menu 5 bills with anal. Passed. Had her back 3 or 4 years ago for 2 bills with anal. Sorry but nothing has changed with your service, offering, etc. Not paying over double the price for same action. Inflation isn't that bad. And sorry Kayla if you read this as I know you peruse from time to time, just my personal feelings. Nothing against you. You've got a price, I've got my limits.
19. StunningSiren wants a platonic take me on dates. No thanks.
20. Mikala cute Mexican / japanese mix. Not serious. ADHD. Few messages, then gone for weeks, few messages, gone another few weeks. Don't waste your time.
21. SweetBelle Seems like a game player / time waster and GPS. Exchanged a few messages and that was that. Not worth my time.
22. Temptations time waster. Not serious. Think she deleted the account anyway.
23. Sensualsadie weird seeming one. The second one on here that used the line about having a retreat over the weekend and messaging after that. Which she never did. Actually started texting over phone before that. Reverse searched number and found a CL ad about trying to sell space for storing a boat in Kaneohe. Possible scammer or maybe a dude moonlighting as a chick trying to sell you fake pics.
24. Gabriellaxo GPS, not super serious about meeting up. Wants someone to just give her money for her presence and conversation LOL.
25. SurfandBeach messaged once. No reply.
26. BeachGirl holding a goat in her picture. Had a few days of convo, talked about meeting up, then disappeared. Hasn't been online since.
27. Jbat messaged once, no reply.
28. Bunny semi-cute young girl in Hilo. Seems promising but does me no good over there.
29. Peacelove messaged once, no reply.
30. Bbclark05 serious ADHD and not serious about meetups. Might be a O F er trying to sell pics and vids, or could be a scammer. Will send one or two messages then disappear for weeks.
31. Ripcurlv cute girl but not serious about meetups. Isn't even in Hawaii half the time it seems. Talked about being in the mid-east, travelling, etc. Don't waste your time. The pics are just clickbait.
32. Maklaya wants me to teach her how to surf. Not my type though and not feeling the vibe.
33. JustAnotherGirlll ADHD. On once in a blue moon. Not interested in meeting up.
34. GoinGolfin older woman, 44 year old Not serious about meetups. Seems like she's constantly got some drama or issue going on. Don't waste your time.
35. Glamorous deleted profile I think. Time waster anyway. Not serious about a meetup.
36. Baabyloovee Now in Canada according to her profile. Didn't seem serious.
37. Elina111 Deleted profile it appears. Foreign looking skinny girl, maybe Russian or Ukrainian. Quoted me 6 bills for standard action. Passed.
38. Thelovelyerika cute little Filipino looking girl. Quoted me 8 bills for standard. Tempted to pull the trigger but I've got a limit, and she was above it. Passed.
39. Yogababyy Unsure about this one. Cute, claimed she was from Maui and a Yoga instructor that comes to Oahu to teach classes. Profile says she's in LA now. Quoted me 6 bills. Everything covered. Lots of rules. Passed.
40.808 Hiromi Japanese looking MILF. Claims she's just seeing what's out there. Says she is married but unsatisfied. Wasn't serious about meeting up though. Wouldn't waste my time any further but may be just isn't in to white guys. Good luck if you give it a go.
41. Kellyshay waste of time. Not serious about meetup. Got a sense of GPS. Never got to price or arrangement terms.
42. Luna21 looks like profile deleted now. Not serious about meetups. Think she's either trying to sell pics or O F. Or maybe looking for an old man to pay her to be friend and take on fancy dinner dates.
43. ThiccGoodGirl ADHD. Messaged back and forth a few times. Got to discussion about meetup and terms. Read message then disappeared. Not serious. Don't waste your time.
44. Aphrodite profile says in Orlando now. Seemed fake. Exchanged few messages then I stopped the convo.
45. Vinsincity this one is the chunky desperate early 20's local girl. Met up with her back in late August. 2 bills for 45 minutes. Everything covered but did give a teethy BBBJ. Got the job done but wouldn't repeat. Pics definitely hid the extra weight. She deleted her original profile, then created another one, then deleted that one and I think I saw her with a new one after that but not sure. Not sure if she's got a stalker or trying to be discrete and hide from family.
46. Kailanikauai GPS. Quoted me 8 bills. Everything covered, lots of rules. Passed.
47. Sbaby111 tall girl. Exchanged a few messages. Went no where.
48. CoCoBae profile says in Australia now. GPS. Exchanged a few messaged. Quoted me 10 bills. Passed.
49. Tori exchanged a few messages, then disappeared. Not serious.
50. Juliet May cute student. Not serious about meetups. Talked awhile. Tried to discuss arrangement, price. Was more interested in just finding a free place to stay for a month or so in exchange for her platonic company. Sorry, my wife wouldn't go for that.
51. Renee one message, no response.
52. Jocelyn Talked a bit. Seemed interested in an arrangement. Gave phone number. She never texted. Not serious. Says she can add spice to your life. Seemed pretty bland and absent to me LOL.
53. Babygray not serious about meetup and got whiff of GPS. Not worth the time.
54. Badbrattykitty not interested in a meetup. O F er I think.
55. Babylis quoted me 6 bills for 1 hr all covered. Too many rules. Semi-cute looking 31 year old With a decent rack but doesn't strike me as being worth the price. Could hold a convo at least.
56. SoSoKute late 30's MILF. Messaged a few times. Got the GPS vibe, but she was definitely willing to meetup. Decided I wasn't interested as I was pursuing another option. She's in Irvine CA now.
57. Eden says she wants to do bad things with you. But all talk and no action. Can't tell if she's a student or not. Serious ADHD though. Local looking girl so maybe just not in to white guys.
58. Luvmeorh8 me77 - 46 year old Local woman. Pretty muscular, looks like a weightlifter type. Not really my thing but was semi-interested. Asked about arrangements then she went on vacation to CA. She never followed up afterwards.
59. Lil_one waste of time. Can't hold a convo and not serious about meetups.
60. Mxghtcap local girl. Doesn't seem serious about meetups. Off site for weeks at a time. May just not be in to white guys.
61. KamaKimmy disappeared after a few days of convo. Seemed GPS. Don't waste your time.
62. Silver hot looking girl. Not on the site very much. Don't think she's serious or might be a scammer. Account is verified, but definitely not a professional. Could be an O F er of pic seller not sure.
63. ExcitedDuchess claims to be a bottle girl and works a poker game as a server. Tried to meetup with her at the poker game for an arrangement after game was over, she disappeared and hasn't been back. Either trying to funnel people to the game, or she's just playing games.
64. Lovelykenziek very cute student totally my type! Messaged for a few days. Get to the part about an arrangement or meetup. Disappears and hasn't been back on site since.
65. Obscureprincess local girl, messaged me. Says she searched and came across my profile, after reading it blah blah blah. Sounds like a salesman pitch. Bot or fake in my opinion.
66. Sensualgoddess222 messaged for about a week. Decent convo. Could probably actually be a friend, not a fuck buddy, but doesn't seem interested in meetups. Maybe just not her type. Seems like a nice girl though.
67. Lilinoe convo started. Never finished. Ghosted.
68. Ludovica GPS wanted me to pay her 500 just to meet in a public place for lunch or coffee to discuss an arrangement. Yeah no. GTFOH.
69. Little_baybea white girl with a decent ass. Wants dinner dates. Not interested in anything sexual.
70. Victoria Goes by Vick local girl. Messaged back and forth a few days. Got to the point of meetup discussion, left on read and ghosted. I see she's active again now, but haven't bothered with reaching back out.
71. Veesellshomes cute looking 30 year old, but is more interested in trying to sell you a house or get you to list with her. Realtor obviously. She might be open for dinner dates and trips, but she seems to have zero interest in a ppm or anything sexual.
72. Miche tiny asian girl. Doesn't seem interested in a meetup, or younger or white guys isn't her thing.
73. Chrlttetheprincess not serious about meetups. All talk, no action. Don't waste your time.
74. Gardengirl messaged a few days then ghosted. Wouldn't waste time here.
75. Jaybee197 saw where one monger said he had success with her, but not sure I buy it. Messaged back and forth for about a week. Seemed interested in a meetup or longer term arrangement. Then disappeared when it came time for particulars and actual plan to meetup. Seems sporadically active on the site also.
76. SillySarahhh don't waste your time. Cute pics, but not serious. Total time waster.
77. Celina in New York now apparently. Quoted my 800 for a meet with lots of rules and everything covered. No thanks.
78. Singlesweetmom time waster. Another military spouse going through divorce. Sits at home all day playing games online. Just looking for attention. Cute, but not at all serious.
79. May not serious. Cute, but couldn't hold a convo, no interest in meeting up.
80. Lovelybird888 weird late 30 year old white girl in an orange bikini. She has a new profile now that is lovelybird808 but with same pic. Her pics are screenshots of pics on her phone. Also weird. You can see the arrows on the screen. Quoted me 6 bills for a meetup, but I wasn't feeling it. Says she's Polish. Talked to her on the phone and has the right accent, and said she was a delivery driver in town. Was going on about seeing some guy that was a mechanic and fixed her car but then it was breaking down again, he ran in to her walking in the parking garage yada yada. Seems like a nutcase and drama queen that I don't need to deal with. Had an LA phone number. Careful with this one.
81. Barbiegyal wanted to sell me pics and vids for 3 bills. No thanks. I'm a hands on guy that doesn't waste money on pics and vids.
82. BbAurora24 hot looking young girl. Messaged but she has total GPS and only wants platonic dinner dates and trips. GTFOH.
83. AlwaysMissME profile says she's 30. I think she's early 40's though. Nice man mades but has total GPS. 8 bills for 1 hour. All kinds of rules. Nope.
84. SumScarlet white blonde girl. Quoted 10 bills right off the bat. Sorry GPS not getting that out of me.
85. Bbyhailey gorgeous looking asian 19 year old Messaged a few times but no response. Maybe not in to younger guys or white guys. Not sure though. I imagine she's wanting only platonic or is total GPS just looking at her, but maybe not. At any rate she's not interested in late 30's white guys.
86. Dulcebebe Colombian girl. Doesn't actually seem interested in anything but platonic.
87. Surfergurl999 snobby GPS white gurl looking for platonic only. Very cute though. YMMV but I wouldn't waste my time.
88. Keababy profile claims she's looking for causal fun, but doesn't respond to messages. Looks like a local white gurl. Maybe white guys isn't her thing.
89. Beach baby white girl with long legs. Messaged a few times. No response.
That's all I got and all I can remember for now. There's probably another 20 or 30 not listed that I messaged once and never responded back, or deleted their profiles. Moral of this story is SA is just not worth the trouble anymore and I'll probably be deleting the app. AMPs, PD, BP, etc seem to be the only reliable outlets anymore. Too much ADHD, GPS, platonic pay me to be your friend BS, or just general time wasters and scammers, spammers, and bots / fake profiles. Good luck to those of you still here, I just don't see the value in paying 1300 a year for a site that does little to nothing to screen the female profiles and actually, in my opinion, muddies the waters with fake accounts and bots posing as real people just to cheat you out of your 100 bucks a month. That's just me.20. Mikala She's legit but wants a pretty penny. Not really my type but she's at least real.
38. Thelovelyerika – Legit and told me the same 800 "because she's never taken less" We settled on much lower but she wasn't worth that. Cute and more my type but all business.
50. Juliet May – Scammer looking to be paid to "get to know her".
54. Badbrattykitty – straight up escort and advertises on PD. She is managed so I'd avoid at all cost.
68. Ludovica – Stripper airhead with baby damage.
85. Bbyhailey – Stripper and bar girl. Will do the deed but not worth the headache.
20. Mikala She's legit but wants a pretty penny. Not really my type but she's at least real.
38. Thelovelyerika Legit and told me the same 800 "because she's never taken less" We settled on much lower but she wasn't worth that. Cute and more my type but all business.
50. Juliet May Scammer looking to be paid to "get to know her".
54. Badbrattykitty straight up escort and advertises on PD. She is managed so I'd avoid at all cost.
68. Ludovica Stripper airhead with baby damage.
85. Bbyhailey Stripper and bar girl. Will do the deed but not worth the headache.38. Thelovelyerika- she's lying about never taking less than 800, smashed her bbfscip last year for four bills. Tried to schedule her a few more times, but she kept flaking.
38. Thelovelyerika- she's lying about never taking less than 800, smashed her bbfscip last year for four bills. Tried to schedule her a few more times, but she kept flaking.I agree they all lie. That's why I sent an amount and don't go over. Take it or leave it.
I'm seeing a lot of bargirls and strippers make new accounts on SA. Something must be coming up so now's a good time to bargain.
AwabiLover
11-21-23, 21:02
Maybe they need Christmas gift money or they just want Christmas presents. I'm only assuming since it's the season.
I'm seeing a lot of bargirls and strippers make new accounts on SA. Something must be coming up so now's a good time to bargain.
Loveasianhi
11-22-23, 13:57
Alright folks. After having two long term freebee relationships the better part of the last 2. 5 years, life happens and those two moved away with their husbands, thus I made my way back to SA after a long hiatus. Jumped back on the site in late August after about 3 years off it. As mentioned in a previous post, I'm severely disappointed across the board. It has really gone downhill since pre-COVID times. The amount of spammers / scammers, time wasters, and GPS and pay me to be your platonic friend has ruined the site. I also think SA has bots / AI creating new accounts daily with poached photos giving the illusion that there are hundreds if not thousands of women and students joing SA in Hawaii looking for action every year. I find that very hard to believe, but that's another conversation and posting altogether. I've actually got more entertainment out of trolling these girls (not women) and trying to beat them at their own game (wasting their time) as soon as I realize they are scammers or GPS. Not sure it's worth the $100+ per month though to keep having that kind of fun. Anyway.
So here's a rundown in somewhat chronological order, or as I recognized them after scrolling through the search feed. It's top to bottom, newly messaged to several months ago when I first got on. Hopefully this helps so that you don't waste your time. Of note, I've had a total of 3 successful encounters since August. Not worth the money / time (almost daily visiting the site and messaging several hundred women or so called real women). Two of those successes we're not even from Hawaii, they were foreign visitors, one from Asia one from South America. The one local girl was a chunky girl desperate for money that was not quite as advertised in her photos. She's mentioned below.
For reference, I'm late 30's, married, good shape, good looking, white guy from the southeast that now lives here permanently. Not old or sloppy or overweight, etc. No offense to those of you that may be. Say this as it might be useful for you if you decide to try and work some of these girls as some have types and only want an older man willing to throw money at them, or a man they aren't attracted to so there's no risk of a relationship developing, etc etc.
I'm posting usernames only. Not links. Sorry you're not getting that level of effort out of me for this project. You can look them up on the site yourself if it's of that big a concern to you:
1. MermaidRosalia GPS and full of herself. Great looking ass and super tan, but has zero sense of humor. Didn't even get to the point of discussing arrangement. Wants a man to pay all of her bills. Legit joked with her about her being my sugar mama and me a trophy husband she lost her shit and went in to a diatribe about being pathetic and you'll never be anything blah blah blah then hit the block button. Literal no sense of humor or sarcasm. Tells me she's bitchy and full of herself.
2. Tiny Dancer No discussion of an arrangement yet. This is the second person on here that has said " I have a retreat this weekend let's talk when I get back". Seems kinda strange to use that exact same line. She has quite a few pictures uploaded though so probably real. We shall see when she "gets back".
3. Alice23 cute petite thing, pictures are from Vegas. Getting a weird vibe though. She can't hold a conversation, very sporadic. Texted on my burner with her, and talked on site, continually asks me where I'm located. She says she's in Waikiki. Asked her what her price was. She says "something mutually beneficial". The fuck answer is that? Probably won't pursue, hair on neck is tingling as possible LEO even though her profile say I'd validated.
4. SweetBabeA new to the site. Huge tits. Says she's just seeing what's out there. Doesn't know what she wants. Asked her if she was interested in a FWB mutually beneficial arrangement after talking for a couple of days, no response.
5. Yogini_Hawaii little bit of talking back and forth. Lives on Big Island but occasionally visits Oahu. Very sporadic. Not sure she's worth pursuing. Nice ass, but don't think she's serious about PPMs.
6. Qu3 efqueen short convo then disappeared. ADHD I think.
7. Amarie very cute looking another platonic pay me to be your friend and take me to dinner types.
8. Adelaide few messages then disappears for weeks at a time. Don't waste your time.
9. Mysti not serious, just a time waster.
10. Curvyasian512 get on here when she get's lonely just looking for attention then disappears for weeks at a time. Doesn't seem like she actually wants to meet up.
11. TemptingGoddess cute looking military spouse going through a divorce. Just here when she's bored, lonely, looking for male attention (convo only). Not serious about meeting up. May be willing to sell you some pics. Not my thing as there is plenty of free porn out there. Leaving in another month or two anyway.
12. Lola Very sexy. Great pics. Only wants a platonic take me to dinner and trips arrangement. Have at it if you like wasting your money on something pretty that isn't going to put out. Maybe, after months of a platonic deal, she might open up to something sexual. I sense GPS though but at least she was honest and straightforward.
13. RedheadGoddess messaged. No response. Constantly online though. Might be a bot account?
14. X0 X0 sexyfairies not serious about a meet up. On occasionally then disappears for weeks at a time. Strikes me as a picture / vid seller maybe. Wouldn't be surprised if she's just trying to get O F subscribers.
15. SurfinKitten ADHD. Convo for a few minutes. Disappears for weeks. Model photos which might be stolen from somewhere else. Couldn't find them on tineye or google search anywhere. Not serious about meet ups anyway.
16. Eva Korean MILF. Think she was seeing one of you mongers here for a little while. Mentioned she knows of a woman (ankle bracelet linda) that does bb anal that's how I know she was seeing one of you, or she peruses this site. Talked about getting married to the monger. Guess that fell through after he took a trip to PI. Maybe you two worked things out though, hope the best for you guys. She's not giving up that Hoe life as she told me though LOL. Tried to help you out and told her to stop if she was serious. Clearly that's not happened though. Quoted me 4 bills for meetup. Everything covered. Not my thing. I'll wear the cover but I better be getting an open menu for that much and you better be young hot thing, not a MILF with a restricted menu. She does have an OF but it's only pictures in lingerie and bikinis, nothing nude. Got to pay extra for those. Have fun if that's your thing.
17. Roslyn looks hot. Quoted me 8 bills for standard menu. No thanks. Has a friend that will join for 15 bills, no thanks. GPS x2. I'm not that desperate.
18. Kayla was back on SA for a minute under a new username then quickly disappeared. Probably needed some quick cash and was trying to avoid her stalker. Briefly talked. She quoted me 4 bills for standard menu 5 bills with anal. Passed. Had her back 3 or 4 years ago for 2 bills with anal. Sorry but nothing has changed with your service, offering, etc. Not paying over double the price for same action. Inflation isn't that bad. And sorry Kayla if you read this as I know you peruse from time to time, just my personal feelings. Nothing against you. You've got a price, I've got my limits.
19. StunningSiren wants a platonic take me on dates. No thanks.
20. Mikala cute Mexican / japanese mix. Not serious. ADHD. Few messages, then gone for weeks, few messages, gone another few weeks. Don't waste your time.
21. SweetBelle Seems like a game player / time waster and GPS. Exchanged a few messages and that was that. Not worth my time.
22. Temptations time waster. Not serious. Think she deleted the account anyway.
23. Sensualsadie weird seeming one. The second one on here that used the line about having a retreat over the weekend and messaging after that. Which she never did. Actually started texting over phone before that. Reverse searched number and found a CL ad about trying to sell space for storing a boat in Kaneohe. Possible scammer or maybe a dude moonlighting as a chick trying to sell you fake pics.
24. Gabriellaxo GPS, not super serious about meeting up. Wants someone to just give her money for her presence and conversation LOL.
25. SurfandBeach messaged once. No reply.
26. BeachGirl holding a goat in her picture. Had a few days of convo, talked about meeting up, then disappeared. Hasn't been online since.
27. Jbat messaged once, no reply.
28. Bunny semi-cute young girl in Hilo. Seems promising but does me no good over there.
29. Peacelove messaged once, no reply.
30. Bbclark05 serious ADHD and not serious about meetups. Might be a O F er trying to sell pics and vids, or could be a scammer. Will send one or two messages then disappear for weeks.
31. Ripcurlv cute girl but not serious about meetups. Isn't even in Hawaii half the time it seems. Talked about being in the mid-east, travelling, etc. Don't waste your time. The pics are just clickbait.
32. Maklaya wants me to teach her how to surf. Not my type though and not feeling the vibe.
33. JustAnotherGirlll ADHD. On once in a blue moon. Not interested in meeting up.
34. GoinGolfin older woman, 44 year old Not serious about meetups. Seems like she's constantly got some drama or issue going on. Don't waste your time.
35. Glamorous deleted profile I think. Time waster anyway. Not serious about a meetup.
36. Baabyloovee Now in Canada according to her profile. Didn't seem serious.
37. Elina111 Deleted profile it appears. Foreign looking skinny girl, maybe Russian or Ukrainian. Quoted me 6 bills for standard action. Passed.
38. Thelovelyerika cute little Filipino looking girl. Quoted me 8 bills for standard. Tempted to pull the trigger but I've got a limit, and she was above it. Passed.
39. Yogababyy Unsure about this one. Cute, claimed she was from Maui and a Yoga instructor that comes to Oahu to teach classes. Profile says she's in LA now. Quoted me 6 bills. Everything covered. Lots of rules. Passed.
40.808 Hiromi Japanese looking MILF. Claims she's just seeing what's out there. Says she is married but unsatisfied. Wasn't serious about meeting up though. Wouldn't waste my time any further but may be just isn't in to white guys. Good luck if you give it a go.
41. Kellyshay waste of time. Not serious about meetup. Got a sense of GPS. Never got to price or arrangement terms.
42. Luna21 looks like profile deleted now. Not serious about meetups. Think she's either trying to sell pics or O F. Or maybe looking for an old man to pay her to be friend and take on fancy dinner dates.
43. ThiccGoodGirl ADHD. Messaged back and forth a few times. Got to discussion about meetup and terms. Read message then disappeared. Not serious. Don't waste your time.
44. Aphrodite profile says in Orlando now. Seemed fake. Exchanged few messages then I stopped the convo.
45. Vinsincity this one is the chunky desperate early 20's local girl. Met up with her back in late August. 2 bills for 45 minutes. Everything covered but did give a teethy BBBJ. Got the job done but wouldn't repeat. Pics definitely hid the extra weight. She deleted her original profile, then created another one, then deleted that one and I think I saw her with a new one after that but not sure. Not sure if she's got a stalker or trying to be discrete and hide from family.
46. Kailanikauai GPS. Quoted me 8 bills. Everything covered, lots of rules. Passed.
47. Sbaby111 tall girl. Exchanged a few messages. Went no where.
48. CoCoBae profile says in Australia now. GPS. Exchanged a few messaged. Quoted me 10 bills. Passed.
49. Tori exchanged a few messages, then disappeared. Not serious.
50. Juliet May cute student. Not serious about meetups. Talked awhile. Tried to discuss arrangement, price. Was more interested in just finding a free place to stay for a month or so in exchange for her platonic company. Sorry, my wife wouldn't go for that.
51. Renee one message, no response.
52. Jocelyn Talked a bit. Seemed interested in an arrangement. Gave phone number. She never texted. Not serious. Says she can add spice to your life. Seemed pretty bland and absent to me LOL.
53. Babygray not serious about meetup and got whiff of GPS. Not worth the time.
54. Badbrattykitty not interested in a meetup. O F er I think.
55. Babylis quoted me 6 bills for 1 hr all covered. Too many rules. Semi-cute looking 31 year old With a decent rack but doesn't strike me as being worth the price. Could hold a convo at least.
56. SoSoKute late 30's MILF. Messaged a few times. Got the GPS vibe, but she was definitely willing to meetup. Decided I wasn't interested as I was pursuing another option. She's in Irvine CA now.
57. Eden says she wants to do bad things with you. But all talk and no action. Can't tell if she's a student or not. Serious ADHD though. Local looking girl so maybe just not in to white guys.
58. Luvmeorh8 me77 - 46 year old Local woman. Pretty muscular, looks like a weightlifter type. Not really my thing but was semi-interested. Asked about arrangements then she went on vacation to CA. She never followed up afterwards.
59. Lil_one waste of time. Can't hold a convo and not serious about meetups.
60. Mxghtcap local girl. Doesn't seem serious about meetups. Off site for weeks at a time. May just not be in to white guys.
61. KamaKimmy disappeared after a few days of convo. Seemed GPS. Don't waste your time.
62. Silver hot looking girl. Not on the site very much. Don't think she's serious or might be a scammer. Account is verified, but definitely not a professional. Could be an O F er of pic seller not sure.
63. ExcitedDuchess claims to be a bottle girl and works a poker game as a server. Tried to meetup with her at the poker game for an arrangement after game was over, she disappeared and hasn't been back. Either trying to funnel people to the game, or she's just playing games.
64. Lovelykenziek very cute student totally my type! Messaged for a few days. Get to the part about an arrangement or meetup. Disappears and hasn't been back on site since.
65. Obscureprincess local girl, messaged me. Says she searched and came across my profile, after reading it blah blah blah. Sounds like a salesman pitch. Bot or fake in my opinion.
66. Sensualgoddess222 messaged for about a week. Decent convo. Could probably actually be a friend, not a fuck buddy, but doesn't seem interested in meetups. Maybe just not her type. Seems like a nice girl though.
67. Lilinoe convo started. Never finished. Ghosted.
68. Ludovica GPS wanted me to pay her 500 just to meet in a public place for lunch or coffee to discuss an arrangement. Yeah no. GTFOH.
69. Little_baybea white girl with a decent ass. Wants dinner dates. Not interested in anything sexual.
70. Victoria Goes by Vick local girl. Messaged back and forth a few days. Got to the point of meetup discussion, left on read and ghosted. I see she's active again now, but haven't bothered with reaching back out.
71. Veesellshomes cute looking 30 year old, but is more interested in trying to sell you a house or get you to list with her. Realtor obviously. She might be open for dinner dates and trips, but she seems to have zero interest in a ppm or anything sexual.
72. Miche tiny asian girl. Doesn't seem interested in a meetup, or younger or white guys isn't her thing.
73. Chrlttetheprincess not serious about meetups. All talk, no action. Don't waste your time.
74. Gardengirl messaged a few days then ghosted. Wouldn't waste time here.
75. Jaybee197 saw where one monger said he had success with her, but not sure I buy it. Messaged back and forth for about a week. Seemed interested in a meetup or longer term arrangement. Then disappeared when it came time for particulars and actual plan to meetup. Seems sporadically active on the site also.
76. SillySarahhh don't waste your time. Cute pics, but not serious. Total time waster.
77. Celina in New York now apparently. Quoted my 800 for a meet with lots of rules and everything covered. No thanks.
78. Singlesweetmom time waster. Another military spouse going through divorce. Sits at home all day playing games online. Just looking for attention. Cute, but not at all serious.
79. May not serious. Cute, but couldn't hold a convo, no interest in meeting up.
80. Lovelybird888 weird late 30 year old white girl in an orange bikini. She has a new profile now that is lovelybird808 but with same pic. Her pics are screenshots of pics on her phone. Also weird. You can see the arrows on the screen. Quoted me 6 bills for a meetup, but I wasn't feeling it. Says she's Polish. Talked to her on the phone and has the right accent, and said she was a delivery driver in town. Was going on about seeing some guy that was a mechanic and fixed her car but then it was breaking down again, he ran in to her walking in the parking garage yada yada. Seems like a nutcase and drama queen that I don't need to deal with. Had an LA phone number. Careful with this one.
81. Barbiegyal wanted to sell me pics and vids for 3 bills. No thanks. I'm a hands on guy that doesn't waste money on pics and vids.
82. BbAurora24 hot looking young girl. Messaged but she has total GPS and only wants platonic dinner dates and trips. GTFOH.
83. AlwaysMissME profile says she's 30. I think she's early 40's though. Nice man mades but has total GPS. 8 bills for 1 hour. All kinds of rules. Nope.
84. SumScarlet white blonde girl. Quoted 10 bills right off the bat. Sorry GPS not getting that out of me.
85. Bbyhailey gorgeous looking asian 19 year old Messaged a few times but no response. Maybe not in to younger guys or white guys. Not sure though. I imagine she's wanting only platonic or is total GPS just looking at her, but maybe not. At any rate she's not interested in late 30's white guys.
86. Dulcebebe Colombian girl. Doesn't actually seem interested in anything but platonic.
87. Surfergurl999 snobby GPS white gurl looking for platonic only. Very cute though. YMMV but I wouldn't waste my time.
88. Keababy profile claims she's looking for causal fun, but doesn't respond to messages. Looks like a local white gurl. Maybe white guys isn't her thing.
89. Beach baby white girl with long legs. Messaged a few times. No response.
That's all I got and all I can remember for now. There's probably another 20 or 30 not listed that I messaged once and never responded back, or deleted their profiles. Moral of this story is SA is just not worth the trouble anymore and I'll probably be deleting the app. AMPs, PD, BP, etc seem to be the only reliable outlets anymore. Too much ADHD, GPS, platonic pay me to be your friend BS, or just general time wasters and scammers, spammers, and bots / fake profiles. Good luck to those of you still here, I just don't see the value in paying 1300 a year for a site that does little to nothing to screen the female profiles and actually, in my opinion, muddies the waters with fake accounts and bots posing as real people just to cheat you out of your 100 bucks a month. That's just me.Great report, I was researching two of the asian girls you noted, hopefully I can communicate with them next month.
Alright folks. After having two long term freebee relationships the better part of the last 2. 5 years, life happens and those two moved away with their husbands, thus I made my way back to SA after a long hiatus. Jumped back on the site in late August after about 3 years off it. As mentioned in a previous post, I'm severely disappointed across the board. It has really gone downhill since pre-COVID times. The amount of spammers / scammers, time wasters, and GPS and pay me to be your platonic friend has ruined the site. I also think SA has bots / AI creating new accounts daily with poached photos giving the illusion that there are hundreds if not thousands of women and students joing SA in Hawaii looking for action every year.Got a couple to mention from your list.
2 Tiny Dancer. Messaged with her and it seemed like she was interested in meeting. Tried to facetime over the app but she could not see my face. I saw hers and she looks older than I prefer.
3. Alice23 I don't think she is LEO. She agreed to a meet in public, but then asked me to give her some money at the meet just for meeting up. Told her I would give her money after we hook up and then she ghosted me.
10. Curvyasian512 messaged with her and she messaged me to meet up one weekend. My membership expired so I couldn't read her message until way later. Never got to meet.
37. Elina111 she is an escort that advertises on Private Delights with the same or similar name.
39. Yogababyy spoke with her a while ago. Told me she was staying in a hostel but would meet for $600. Never met though.
48. CoCoBae she also quoted me $1000. Found out from her she is a porn star. Google her username and you will find her vids. May be worth it if someone wants to bang a porn star.
75. Jaybee197 same experience as you. Got her phone number and message a few times then she disappeared.
76. SillySarahhh cute girl but for me she just wanted to do online arrangement. Passed.
84. SumScarlet white blonde girl. Same response as you. $!000 FS for 45 min, or $800 BJ. Passed. She is still active on the site.
87. Surfergurl999 messaged her and got no response.
Alright folks. After having two long term freebee relationships the better part of the last 2. 5 years, life happens and those two moved away with their husbands, thus I made my way back to SA after a long hiatus. Jumped back on the site in late August after about 3 years off it. As mentioned in a previous post, I'm severely disappointed across the board. It has really gone downhill since pre-COVID times. The amount of spammers / scammers, time wasters, and GPS and pay me to be your platonic friend has ruined the site. I also think SA has bots / AI creating new accounts daily with poached photos giving the illusion that there are hundreds if not thousands of women and students joing SA in Hawaii looking for action every year. I find that very hard to believe, but that's another conversation and posting altogether. I've actually got more entertainment out of trolling these girls (not women) and trying to beat them at their own game (wasting their time) as soon as I realize they are scammers or GPS. Not sure it's worth the $100+ per month though to keep having that kind of fun. Anyway.
That's all I got and all I can remember for now. There's probably another 20 or 30 not listed that I messaged once and never responded back, or deleted their profiles. Moral of this story is SA is just not worth the trouble anymore and I'll probably be deleting the app. AMPs, PD, BP, etc seem to be the only reliable outlets anymore. Too much ADHD, GPS, platonic pay me to be your friend BS, or just general time wasters and scammers, spammers, and bots / fake profiles. Good luck to those of you still here, I just don't see the value in paying 1300 a year for a site that does little to nothing to screen the female profiles and actually, in my opinion, muddies the waters with fake accounts and bots posing as real people just to cheat you out of your 100 bucks a month. That's just me.Thanks a helluva report and nobody can say you didn't do your hw. While I totally agree that SA has been not as straightforward as back when I started using it in 2016, I still see value in the UTR college coeds. In fact I have one that only used SA for a couple months not seriously, but fast forward she's basically my freebie fwb. I take her on trips and its basically a buffet during the trip for just her flight, and at home the only thing I pay for is her yoga membership, our dates, and sometimes small gifts and flowers like dating any other girl.
Also, there is a local community not unlike burning man. I'm not going to out them as they seem to be pretty private and invite only, but some of these girls go to those events and retreats and camps they host and some of those lead to orgies. I was invited to one by a girl I met on SA and it was awesome.
Basically, you are right that SA is not as easy anymore, but meet the right girls on it and they can actually open more doors for you.
Decided to pay for an account and try my luck again here are couple reviews. I was only able to see the one.
https://members.seeking.com/member/2972dce0-90b6-490e-917d-54144fa3cce4
It's the girl in the pic but about 30 lbs heavier. Met her in public and was like daaaamn. Definitely a bigger girl.
I said hell with it, and switched it up, adapt to the situation. Walked to my vehicle and told her I just wanted.
A BJ. She was down, so got in my truck and found a spot, pulled over and had her give me a sloppy BBBJ and videoing the session, 140 then I asked if she rimmed and she said for 200. Just went for it, damn girl all in, moving her tongue and was all up in it. Rimming and stroking at the same time. Won't repeat. Just sharing to some of you who would want to see her.
Enjoy!
https://members.seeking.com/member/6546e7d5-9890-4601-8f96-2f4d91009b62
Possible scammer, keeps asking about cashapp and sending her money. Sob story of my son is important to me and all that. Says she's on the windward side.
Will report on some other ones I'm working on.
Cheers!
Decided to pay for an account and try my luck again here are couple reviews. I was only able to see the one.
https://members.seeking.com/member/2972dce0-90b6-490e-917d-54144fa3cce4
It's the girl in the pic but about 30 lbs heavier. Met her in public and was like daaaamn. Definitely a bigger girl.
I said hell with it, and switched it up, adapt to the situation. Walked to my vehicle and told her I just wanted.
A BJ. She was down, so got in my truck and found a spot, pulled over and had her give me a sloppy BBBJ and videoing the session, 140 then I asked if she rimmed and she said for 200. Just went for it, damn girl all in, moving her tongue and was all up in it. Rimming and stroking at the same time. Won't repeat. Just sharing to some of you who would want to see her.
Enjoy!
https://members.seeking.com/member/6546e7d5-9890-4601-8f96-2f4d91009b62
Possible scammer, keeps asking about cashapp and sending her money. Sob story of my son is important to me and all that. Says she's on the windward side.
Will report on some other ones I'm working on.
Cheers!Slim pickens on SA but I met the second one earlier this year and she's huge and gross. She's had a bunch of profiles.
On a separate note, social media has been much better this year for me.
First time joining since pre-pandemic. So much more flakes, GPS, ghosts, and scammers / fake profiles. Have a few coffee dates lined up. I was actually thinking of a more traditional SB / SD arrangement, I know most will typically only PPM. I've only done ppm, but wondering if anyone has any advice on a more formal allowance, boundaries, expectations for that type of arrangement. Any tips would be appreciated. Dm okay.
First time joining since pre-pandemic. So much more flakes, GPS, ghosts, and scammers / fake profiles. Have a few coffee dates lined up. I was actually thinking of a more traditional SB / SD arrangement, I know most will typically only PPM. I've only done ppm, but wondering if anyone has any advice on a more formal allowance, boundaries, expectations for that type of arrangement. Any tips would be appreciated. Dm okay.Just my $0. 02 based on my experience, I still start with per meet at least a first couple times and only move to allowance once both sides build a trust and also an informal routine of what is realistic with each others schedules. My best allowance experiences have been ones that you don't sweat the little things like you must meet X number of times, but rather just keep it spontaneous. Usually if you play your cards right it comes out to a discount vs ppm, but you also have to be ok that sometimes you might be down one and know that in the grand scheme of things it'll be in your favor. And don't assume the allowance will keep the girls from getting distracted, you still got to do the usual legwork to keep their attention. If you do tho, it'll pay dividends and likely even open doors to UTRs because tbh girls all tell their friends what they're up to. With that said, be fluid abd ready to adjust the allowance based on what makes sense and is realistic. Keep a rotation and always plan for the next one in case it doesn't work out.
NerdFriday
12-13-23, 16:34
First time joining since pre-pandemic. So much more flakes, GPS, ghosts, and scammers / fake profiles. Have a few coffee dates lined up. I was actually thinking of a more traditional SB / SD arrangement, I know most will typically only PPM. I've only done ppm, but wondering if anyone has any advice on a more formal allowance, boundaries, expectations for that type of arrangement. Any tips would be appreciated. Dm okay.HotMuse gave a pretty good run-down.
I would just advise not doing full allowance before getting to "know them well". Most allowances are going to be in the thousands, so you probably don't want to give someone a few thousands only to find out it's not going to work. What I do is break down the agreed upon allowance into PPMs. Say the agreed upon allowance is 2 k a month, the ppms would be 5 every week. I would tell them lets meet for food / drinks, I'll pay for the food / drinks and give them a couple hundred for their time. This is where you'll meet face to face, probably in a public place, and get to know them on the surface. I'll then explain I'm only comfortable doing PPMs in the beginning and the PPM payments start when we spend "time in private". If she doesn't know what "time in private" means, just say you'll discuss more details when that time comes (this offers you a layer of protection). This also lets the potential baby know this isn't going to be a strictly platonic thing.
Never discuss sexual acts for money, partly because you don't know who you're talking to, and no legitimate sugar baby wants to be reduced to penny pinching transactions (e. G. Blowjob for X or anal for XXX etc.). This is the difference between an SB and a hooker. With an SB you're paying for a "personal connection"; with a hooker you're paying for an immediate act.
Trust me. If you treat your baby well, she'll do anything you want within reason. They know the game. Once she knows you're legit, she'll open up, and she'll be like the not-girlfriend, girlfriend, you always wanted.
Just my $0. 02 based on my experience, I still start with per meet at least a first couple times and only move to allowance once both sides build a trust and also an informal routine of what is realistic with each others schedules. My best allowance experiences have been ones that you don't sweat the little things like you must meet X number of times, but rather just keep it spontaneous. Usually if you play your cards right it comes out to a discount vs ppm, but you also have to be ok that sometimes you might be down one and know that in the grand scheme of things it'll be in your favor. And don't assume the allowance will keep the girls from getting distracted, you still got to do the usual legwork to keep their attention. If you do tho, it'll pay dividends and likely even open doors to UTRs because tbh girls all tell their friends what they're up to. With that said, be fluid abd ready to adjust the allowance based on what makes sense and is realistic. Keep a rotation and always plan for the next one in case it doesn't work out.Great advice. Definitely want to take the shotgun approach, there's so many flakes and majority of meet ups go nowhere.
Anyone ever accidentally come across a sugar baby in public? I ran across two whom I have seen pictures of online but never met with. If it was a SB I previously met with, I wonder what her and my reaction would be if we ran across eachother. I was with some friends who don't know I do this.
Island Guy808
12-14-23, 01:47
Anyone ever accidentally come across a sugar baby in public? I ran across two whom I have seen pictures of online but never met with. If it was a SB I previously met with, I wonder what her and my reaction would be if we ran across eachother. I was with some friends who don't know I do this.Nothing to be worried about. You know another human being and might want to greet them if they are open to it. You are in control of your life right?
I've seen plenty providers out in the open, the legend Monica while she was out with someone, so we just exchanged smiles and moved on. Happy of Happiness fame was always open to say hi and exchange hugs while out, or pretty easy to tell if she didn't want the attention, and if anyone I knew asked (most didn't) I just said we had met previously, they don't need to know details. I'm known as a hugger when greeting folks so no big deal if anyone I know see it.
SB's, AMP girls, Escorts are people too. Some are transactional (business), but some are pretty cool and comfortable with themselves too.
Just my. 02.
IG.
HotMuse gave a pretty good run-down.
I would just advise not doing full allowance before getting to "know them well". Most allowances are going to be in the thousands, so you probably don't want to give someone a few thousands only to find out it's not going to work. What I do is break down the agreed upon allowance into PPMs. Say the agreed upon allowance is 2 k a month, the ppms would be 5 every week. I would tell them lets meet for food / drinks, I'll pay for the food / drinks and give them a couple hundred for their time. This is where you'll meet face to face, probably in a public place, and get to know them on the surface. I'll then explain I'm only comfortable doing PPMs in the beginning and the PPM payments start when we spend "time in private". If she doesn't know what "time in private" means, just say you'll discuss more details when that time comes (this offers you a layer of protection). This also lets the potential baby know this isn't going to be a strictly platonic thing.
Never discuss sexual acts for money, partly because you don't know who you're talking to, and no legitimate sugar baby wants to be reduced to penny pinching transactions (e. G. Blowjob for X or anal for XXX etc.). This is the difference between an SB and a hooker. With an SB you're paying for a "personal connection"; with a hooker you're paying for an immediate act.
Trust me. If you treat your baby well, she'll do anything you want within reason. They know the game. Once she knows you're legit, she'll open up, and she'll be like the not-girlfriend, girlfriend, you always wanted.With due respect, this is the fastest way to get rinsed if you're looking to actually get action. If you're interested in a paid friend zone then def follow this logic. That's how we got to this whole "platonic" nonsense. Trust me, non of these girls are on seeking for a older man to be friends with, they are there for one thing, you're money. I would recommend you determine what you're looking for. If you're like most of us looking for hot fun then by all means don't pay to "get to know them". Your time is just as valuable. That "couple hundred bucks for their time" is all most rinsers want in the first place. She can do that five times a week and never open her legs. If you're looking to find a paid friend zone then join a dating app, it's cheaper and the girls are more likely to become freebies.
First time joining since pre-pandemic. So much more flakes, GPS, ghosts, and scammers / fake profiles. Have a few coffee dates lined up. I was actually thinking of a more traditional SB / SD arrangement, I know most will typically only PPM. I've only done ppm, but wondering if anyone has any advice on a more formal allowance, boundaries, expectations for that type of arrangement. Any tips would be appreciated. Dm okay.Hold firm on your budget and don't think with emotions. Always be respecful when you encounter GPS and oh you will. It's much different these days and it takes more patience then before. The Tik Tok fad really ruined things and the concept of a platonic arrangement but I blame seeking for that. These girls are smart enough to realize all they need is one sucker to "pay to get to know them" and they'll never have to give you any. After all, why would she give you any if she's already milked you for free?
NerdFriday
12-14-23, 03:22
With due respect, this is the fastest way to get rinsed if you're looking to actually get action. If you're interested in a paid friend zone then def follow this logic. That's how we got to this whole "platonic" nonsense. Trust me, non of these girls are on seeking for a older man to be friends with, they are there for one thing, you're money. I would recommend you determine what you're looking for. If you're like most of us looking for hot fun then by all means don't pay to "get to know them". Your time is just as valuable. That "couple hundred bucks for their time" is all most rinsers want in the first place. She can do that five times a week and never open her legs. If you're looking to find a paid friend zone then join a dating app, it's cheaper and the girls are more likely to become freebies.Um, if you want to think getting "rinsed" is losing a few hundred, that's on you--typical arrangements are in the THOUSANDS a MONTH, so a few hundred is literally nothing in the grand scheme of things. The way I see it, is if a girl is planning on ghosting after I buy her a meal and give her a few hundred, I'm more than happy to pay her because I don't need to waste any more time. I don't know where you're getting this idea that I'm looking for platonic arrangements only. LOL. If the girl wants to do that "five times a week" that's on her, because it's no longer my time being wasted. Besides. If that girl were to pursue a "real arrangement", she'd have to spend less time meeting random guys, not to mention that every random guy she meets is a risk.
Hold firm on your budget and don't think with emotions. Always be respecful when you encounter GPS and oh you will. It's much different these days and it takes more patience then before. The Tik Tok fad really ruined things and the concept of a platonic arrangement but I blame seeking for that. These girls are smart enough to realize all they need is one sucker to "pay to get to know them" and they'll never have to give you any. After all, why would she give you any if she's already milked you for free?I don't know where you get the impression that an SD needs to continue paying if they're unhappy with their SB. You got to give some to get some--with that said, you don't need to give everything at once. I hear so many stories from SB's about guys who lie about how much they make, how much they can pay, how actually disgusting some guys are etc. If you can really afford to pay thousands a month, a few hundred for a meet and greet is literally nothing. There are literally dudes who say they're worth millions, but live in a shitty house and drive a shitty car. There are dudes who say they'll pay a 10 k a month allowance, but need to "see if it will work first" for. A few hundred, which is obviously not scaling correctly. Don't be these guys.
Once you find a good baby, you'll fuck like you've never fucked before. Maybe you got "rinsed" a couple times, but you won't even think about that for very long. I mean, I've paid for international travel, surgeries, bought cars, paid tuition, helped SB's relocate, all over months / years of time of course, so I don't really give AF about a few hundred spent on time wasters, because it allowed me to move on to real arrangements and that's where the fun begins.
If you want quick, guaranteed action, stick to hookers. If you want to "BBFSCIM / P" a blonde, 6' tall, 20-something college student 3-times a week, it will take time to make it happen.
Anyone ever accidentally come across a sugar baby in public? I ran across two whom I have seen pictures of online but never met with. If it was a SB I previously met with, I wonder what her and my reaction would be if we ran across eachother. I was with some friends who don't know I do this.Yes, I once saw my SB with her husband in a 7-Eleven. We had actually discussed the possibility before and we agreed that we wouldn't "know" each other. As it happened, we caught each other's eye, smiled and that was it. I was happy to see her.
Yes, I once saw my SB with her husband in a 7-Eleven. We had actually discussed the possibility before and we agreed that we wouldn't "know" each other. As it happened, we caught each other's eye, smiled and that was it. I was happy to see her.Quite uncomfortable, well it was for me. Not really an SB, more a side piece but maybe PT SB, LOL. We had been seeing each other for a few months, never at her place, either mine, Quick QirBnB back then, or our trucks, until that weekend at our Athletic Camp, and boom, not only met her boy but also her husband. That was pretty awkward, and a LOL moment. Worse, was holding our usual Super Bowl party, we closed off our cul-de-sac, neighbors and I go all out, invited all of our friends, had multiple TV setups, a game area for the kids to keep them busy, food forever, so I laid the backdrop. Was seeing this PT SB sidepiece FWB later, and helped her start her online business using our model (not OF, LOL). She always complained of being not appreciated, lonely, blah blah blah, and a sex on her mind all the time, sex text and all that 10 yards. She go, sometimes need help, back then, can can, so, ehhhh. Then a neighbor said to come meet his co-workers (they are Carpenters) Fk Me! There she stands, AIYAH! Never really thought about the consequences back then. OH boy, wondered if? My neighbor never saw her sneaking into my house, but they leave for work very early, so? That one was awkward. We all will have them. YOLO.
NerdFriday
12-15-23, 15:18
Anyone ever accidentally come across a sugar baby in public? I ran across two whom I have seen pictures of online but never met with. If it was a SB I previously met with, I wonder what her and my reaction would be if we ran across eachother. I was with some friends who don't know I do this.It's happened many times. It's never been weird, in fact, if they're with someone else (friends, or new SD), they usually introduce me as a friend. When an arrangement ends, I always ask if they want to keep in touch. If they say "no", then obviously I wouldn't make a scene in public. If they say "yes", then I know they'll probably want to say hi!
With that said, I never make arrangements with people who are 'involved', even if the SB claims their husband / BF /(in one case, her wife) is okay with it. I always do my due diligence to check to make sure a potential SB is actually single and doesn't have any drama with EX's. Nothing will make me end an arrangement faster than being introduced to a spouse I had no idea existed, or an extreme case where a spouse shows up at my house. Luckily, none of those things have ever happened, and I think that's in part to being super selective on who I make arrangements with.
Nearly every arrangement I had ended on good terms. I only had a couple that ended with the girl ghosting me, but those were both very short term (less than a month) arrangements.
It's happened many times. It's never been weird, in fact, if they're with someone else (friends, or new SD), they usually introduce me as a friend. When an arrangement ends, I always ask if they want to keep in touch. If they say "no", then obviously I wouldn't make a scene in public. If they say "yes", then I know they'll probably want to say hi!
With that said, I never make arrangements with people who are 'involved', even if the SB claims their husband / BF /(in one case, her wife) is okay with it. I always do my due diligence to check to make sure a potential SB is actually single and doesn't have any drama with EX's. Nothing will make me end an arrangement faster than being introduced to a spouse I had no idea existed, or an extreme case where a spouse shows up at my house. Luckily, none of those things have ever happened, and I think that's in part to being super selective on who I make arrangements with.
Nearly every arrangement I had ended on good terms. I only had a couple that ended with the girl ghosting me, but those were both very short term (less than a month) arrangements.Agree, I don't even really use the term SB, I emphasize "FRIEND with benefits" and treat the good ones legits like a friend. That way that sets the expectation if we see each other in public we're friends with our own lives and cordial but on our date we can still be pda, it's all about context.
Guapo Marx
12-18-23, 19:35
Anyone ever accidentally come across a sugar baby in public? I ran across two whom I have seen pictures of online but never met with. If it was a SB I previously met with, I wonder what her and my reaction would be if we ran across eachother. I was with some friends who don't know I do this.I did. She was a server at Chili's. Mature MILF. Waited on me. There was no doubt. I was so nervous I could not eat much of my meal. That was a few years ago before COVID.
Guapo Marx
12-24-23, 16:39
I did. She was a server at Chili's. Mature MILF. Waited on me. There was no doubt. I was so nervous I could not eat much of my meal. That was a few years ago before COVID.Went back a few weeks later. Found out she was on Match. Then wasn't. Coworker told me she moved in with some famous local radio dj. Years later right before COVID she was back working but didn't know how to approach the subject. I was shaking, my mouth went dry, and I couldn't eat. Never saw her again.
NerdFriday
12-25-23, 10:40
Went back a few weeks later. Found out she was on Match. Then wasn't. Coworker told me she moved in with some famous local radio dj. Years later right before COVID she was back working but didn't know how to approach the subject. I was shaking, my mouth went dry, and I couldn't eat. Never saw her again.The hardest ones for me were the SBs I met during COVID. Many of the people on SD sites were desperate and scared, and I sorta got the vibe they hated doing what they did, hence some of them ghosted me after a short term arrangement. I always treated them well, respected them, and kept my promises, but after one or two meetings--ghosted. I saw one of them later on FetLife, haha, but other than that, haven't contacted any of them!
TaylorMarvin
12-28-23, 01:05
Alright folks. After having two long term freebee relationships the better part of the last 2. 5 years, life happens and those two moved away with their husbands, thus I made my way back to SA after a long hiatus. Jumped back on the site in late August after about 3 years off it. As mentioned in a previous post, I'm severely disappointed across the board. It has really gone downhill since pre-COVID times. The amount of spammers / scammers, time wasters, and GPS and pay me to be your platonic friend has ruined the site. I also think SA has bots / AI creating new accounts daily with poached photos giving the illusion that there are hundreds if not thousands of women and students joing SA in Hawaii looking for action every year. I find that very hard to believe, but that's another conversation and posting altogether. I've actually got more entertainment out of trolling these girls (not women) and trying to beat them at their own game (wasting their time) as soon as I realize they are scammers or GPS. Not sure it's worth the $100+ per month though to keep having that kind of fun. Anyway.Met up with Jaybee197 a couple times, she's ok and very accommodating, but just wasn't my type, but she does play, I guess she's just being picky.
I was browsing seeking.com and came across the profile of an obvious catfish. They're using photos of Maitland Ward, former actress on Boy meets World and current adult film star.
https://members.seeking.com/member/b24a93f0-5753-4f13-bf7c-6f3e3c2fd224
Did some recon on seeking.com looking for new sugar babies.
https://members.seeking.com/member/5487a76a-8f9b-40b5-ae83-bac7f98f253f
Latina MILF, wants $200 for a lunch date. Down to play, for $600. Little too rich for my taste.
https://members.seeking.com/member/139d815b-4a2b-41f5-a7b4-f576cbda2ca0
I think this one may have deleted account. Korean MILF down to play. Was very direct about how much she wanted hourly, $500. Made a point to say she doesn't do anything without protection.
https://members.seeking.com/member/87280155-39a6-4970-a5f6-81eba06d53e7
This one agreed to a dinner date, messaged 2 hours before reservation asking to reschedule. So I cancelled the dinner reservation. Then she ghosted and didn't show to dinner the following week. I decided to make the best of it and just have dinner at the restaurant. I don't understand the point of that. No, benefit, unless you get off on wasting other people's time.
https://members.seeking.com/member/c272e10e-eab4-484d-8ae2-6c7b2716964b
This one messaged me, saying she'd love to go out for a bite or drinks and get to know each other.
https://members.seeking.com/member/417bc8a5-84cc-40d8-b7e1-918ba920bc5b
Older white divorced MILF. I have seen her in the past and lost touch, saw the profile picture and recognized her. She's pretty kinky and into bdsm. Honestly the sex is pretty good, but she's bad at being punctual. I hate having my time wasted, so I won't see her anymore.
https://members.seeking.com/member/89c61015-4309-4eeb-b4ec-fdffd17f22c2
I saw this one for about 6 months before she moved to mainland. She's coming back to visit for a month. I'll probably see her when she visits. I got a BJ on a hike that was pretty fun. I had never done anything in public before. Pretty adventurous sexually, anal, toys, bareback, facials. She's open to a lot. Allegedly I gave this one her first facial.
Messaged a few others and no responses.
Hi guys.
Has anyone been able to meet up with this one?
https://members.seeking.com/member/c498c1cb-1239-4f93-85ea-94135288a5b6
She's my type but I can't seem to schedule a meeting with her.
Initially she said she's free anytime but eventually she starts saying she's too busy to meet.
But for some reason she would continue to tell me she is interested.
TIA!
A few observation from my last trip to the islands.
Legit but not as cute in person.
https://members.seeking.com/member/6d7b0a25-8e06-4a4c-accf-8cf3269bb887
Mentioned this one before, butta face but nice everything else. Serious GPS, much cheaper options.
https://members.seeking.com/member/1d8efe9f-fea7-4afd-b771-b0f1109cc666
Claims to have an open menu but didn't meet her. Reasonable rates.
https://members.seeking.com/member/0ddf8089-e776-42b5-bbab-610e90b6171f
Game player and delusional.
https://members.seeking.com/member/7b2cc2d2-10ec-4b67-a483-31361f753048
Strange girl but fun. She's had multiple profiles so that should tell you all you need to know.
https://members.seeking.com/member/c39ee977-e893-46fb-ab9e-b0872ee5d308
Not my cup of tea but she's reasonable and decent rates. Open menu as well.
https://members.seeking.com/member/440dce0a-740a-4e58-a618-0cd8d333ec50
Here's a couple I've had contact with:
IslandFairy.
https://members.seeking.com/member/d637489e-d83f-40a9-afd3-8fae776bf7c7
This one I think is just a tease. Seems very nice and bubbly, but always had an excuse why she couldn't meet. She did send a few topless photos / videos for money. Found her IG and she does have a BF that she seems very attached to, so I think she's just scamming for money.
Sweetcatch23.
https://members.seeking.com/member/741fa023-3a2e-4b77-8bed-2b566a2ed02b
Met her a couple years ago, she's pretty but also on the skinnier side. Wasn't really impressed with her bedroom skills and we didn't vibe that well and conversation was a little dull. Only saw her a couple times before moving on.
Abg-hi.
https://members.seeking.com/member/50b72da0-4af8-420a-bab2-3f27f39c9814
Saw her a few times, pretty and easy to talk to. Pretty and also slim. She went on a trip and lost contact after that.
Natalie Hawaii.
https://members.seeking.com/member/8f7adb83-942c-49a2-989f-6a19ca4a3a1f
Definitely beautiful, man made boobs, nice bod, annoying voice. While she's hot, just wasn't into her.
Sbaby111.
https://members.seeking.com/member/952298c1-62fd-4253-98c6-dd98c0edc20f
Only messaged, major GPS. Wanted 1. 5 k per session. Did not meet.
Miche.
https://members.seeking.com/member/b8b6ef81-e21f-4d3d-98fc-3cc094dc6638
Met this one for coffee, not as good looking in person, she seemed nice and down to meet privately. Ultimately wasn't that into her and passed.
Anyone have intel on this one. She willing to meet but has a bit of an attitude.
https://members.seeking.com/member/5487a76a-8f9b-40b5-ae83-bac7f98f253f
Since I've been permanently banned from SA, figured I'd give this other site a try, SugarDaddyMeets (SDM). Just wanted to see if anyone has used this site and had any luck? Looks like some of the girls are from SA as well.
Cheers!
Since I've been permanently banned from SA, figured I'd give this other site a try, SugarDaddyMeets (SDM). Just wanted to see if anyone has used this site and had any luck? Looks like some of the girls are from SA as well.
Cheers!No one is ever permanently banned. You should be using a burner and prepaid cards so there's no way they can ban you unless you're trying to use your actual CC and the same phone.
TaylorMarvin
03-11-24, 21:30
Heads up fellas, seeking is allowing you to use their premium services for an hour for free, just got to message the girls and shoot your shot at as many as possible and leave your number with them and hope they message you, I've had about 6 girls message my number so far, so if you've been on the fence, here's your chance to go all in!!
Stacey Kane23
03-12-24, 14:46
Spinalcat on IG. Seems interested but something is tingling my spider senses.
If anyone has info feel free to DM.
Spinalcat on IG. Seems interested but something is tingling my spider senses.
If anyone has info feel free to DM.Long time bar hustler, not as cute in person IMO.
Long time bar hustler, not as cute in person IMO.Met her at Onyx a while ago. Not sure if she's still there.
BeefCake808
03-17-24, 01:54
Anyone got info / pics on https://members.seeking.com/member/2972dce0-90b6-490e-917d-54144fa3cce4 ? Lmk.
Anyone got info / pics on https://members.seeking.com/member/2972dce0-90b6-490e-917d-54144fa3cce4 ? Lmk.All I have is that she was open to meeting and dtf for 350. Never did it, because that was more than I was willing to do for her. I think she lives out in Kaimuki area rn.
All I have is that she was open to meeting and dtf for 350. Never did it, because that was more than I was willing to do for her. I think she lives out in Kaimuki area rn.Note that at least one of the pictures has a date stamp on it from Nov 2020 - ages ago in this world.
Anyone got info / pics on https://members.seeking.com/member/2972dce0-90b6-490e-917d-54144fa3cce4 ? Lmk.Yeah, I've seen this one. I wrote a review on her a few months ago. She's a big girl, I had to switch it up. She agreed to bbfscip but when I saw her I was like definitley not. You can definitely negotiate down on $ with her. Those are outdated pics for SURE.
Spinalcat on IG. Seems interested but something is tingling my spider senses.
If anyone has info feel free to DM.Met her for a meet and greet a few months ago.
She's cute and seems nice. Was pretty open about.
Her past being a bargirl at Onyx. But she wants $1000 ppm.
Too steep for me, I didn't even try to negotiate.
https://members.seeking.com/member/cf053f94-e256-48c6-a8cd-21dc588612c5
Just seeing if anyone had seen this one.
https://members.seeking.com/member/c81f6800-1593-46b8-94d0-e25e56a2d884
Watch out for this one. She lives on NS. I actually met her cousin (The one in the black) who visits her every now and then from LA. Had a fun time with the cousin, so she introduced me to this cousin that moved out here to surf.
Initial dates are fun, when it came down to business she started playing cute and innocent like "we moving too fast, blah blah blah", then when I was in the shower she snooped through my stuff and took $1700 cash I had stashed in a suitcase and bounced saying she was getting us something to smoke to help her get more in the mood. She thought she was slick by turning all my cameras around, but she missed one.
Her and her cousin told me stories similar, they felt disrespected one time and stole these two other guys car keys & wallet and didn't give it back unless they got $2200. We were vibin great that I didn't think that would happen to me.
Anyways, don't trust this one. Tread carefully if you do close, only take her to hotels & keep your belongings on your person at all times.
For some background SA has been treating me real good & I know how to game these girls. Some of you who shared stories with me off line can couch. I have many great arrangements, set up threesomes and group things with fun open minded girls on there, so this experience is not indicative of how I work with SBs. This girl, simply put, is trouble.
she snooped through my stuff and took $1700 cash I had stashed in a suitcaseThat is very unfortunate. I always wondered what to do in a situation like that, but it seems you got it handled.
Honolulu Yobo
04-11-24, 09:41
Take a picture of her profile and post it here.
I am not spending money on SA to look at a ripoff.
Future posters should also post a screenshot of the girls on the site so we can see.
https://members.seeking.com/member/c81f6800-1593-46b8-94d0-e25e56a2d884
Watch out for this one. She lives on NS. I actually met her cousin (The one in the black) who visits her every now and then from LA. Had a fun time with the cousin, so she introduced me to this cousin that moved out here to surf.
Initial dates are fun, when it came down to business she started playing cute and innocent like "we moving too fast, blah blah blah", then when I was in the shower she snooped through my stuff and took $1700 cash I had stashed in a suitcase and bounced saying she was getting us something to smoke to help her get more in the mood. She thought she was slick by turning all my cameras around, but she missed one.
Her and her cousin told me stories similar, they felt disrespected one time and stole these two other guys car keys & wallet and didn't give it back unless they got $2200. We were vibin great that I didn't think that would happen to me.
Anyways, don't trust this one. Tread carefully if you do close, only take her to hotels & keep your belongings on your person at all times.
For some background SA has been treating me real good & I know how to game these girls. Some of you who shared stories with me off line can couch. I have many great arrangements, set up threesomes and group things with fun open minded girls on there, so this experience is not indicative of how I work with SBs. This girl, simply put, is trouble.
Take a picture of her profile and post it here.
I am not spending money on SA to look at a ripoff.
Future posters should also post a screenshot of the girls on the site so we can see.You can be a member without having a subscription. You only need the subscription if you want to make contact. Otherwise you can browse all the profiles you want and when others post links here it'll take you directly to the profile in question and you can see their pics. GL!
https://members.seeking.com/member/c81f6800-1593-46b8-94d0-e25e56a2d884
Watch out for this one. She lives on NS. I actually met her cousin (The one in the black) who visits her every now and then from LA. Had a fun time with the cousin, so she introduced me to this cousin that moved out here to surf.
Initial dates are fun, when it came down to business she started playing cute and innocent like "we moving too fast, blah blah blah", then when I was in the shower she snooped through my stuff and took $1700 cash I had stashed in a suitcase and bounced saying she was getting us something to smoke to help her get more in the mood. She thought she was slick by turning all my cameras around, but she missed one.
Her and her cousin told me stories similar, they felt disrespected one time and stole these two other guys car keys & wallet and didn't give it back unless they got $2200. We were vibin great that I didn't think that would happen to me.
Anyways, don't trust this one. Tread carefully if you do close, only take her to hotels & keep your belongings on your person at all times.
For some background SA has been treating me real good & I know how to game these girls. Some of you who shared stories with me off line can couch. I have many great arrangements, set up threesomes and group things with fun open minded girls on there, so this experience is not indicative of how I work with SBs. This girl, simply put, is trouble.It's very odd she knew exactly where to find the cash. Someone else told me a similar story of being robbed by some girls in Kalihi just last week. Maybe that's the latest Tik Tok scam?
https://members.seeking.com/member/09d5f23c-40a8-4957-a28c-cd352ae9c6d4
Been talking to this one, actually met her on SugarDaddyMeets (SDM) site but I see she is on SA as well. Just seeing if anyone has met her? Dates never work when trying to set something up for a meet and greet. Anything helps.
Cheers!
https://members.seeking.com/member/09d5f23c-40a8-4957-a28c-cd352ae9c6d4
Been talking to this one, actually met her on SugarDaddyMeets (SDM) site but I see she is on SA as well. Just seeing if anyone has met her? Dates never work when trying to set something up for a meet and greet. Anything helps.
Cheers!Got to texting with her, she wants 5-6 bills.
Vajajalova
04-21-24, 21:31
https://members.seeking.com/member/09d5f23c-40a8-4957-a28c-cd352ae9c6d4
Been talking to this one, actually met her on SugarDaddyMeets (SDM) site but I see she is on SA as well. Just seeing if anyone has met her? Dates never work when trying to set something up for a meet and greet. Anything helps.
Cheers!She always sets up times and days to meet then when you go to meet her she's never at the location she gives you.
BeefCake808
05-07-24, 10:46
Lookin for content / talk about experiences on certain SB, hmu in pm.
She always sets up times and days to meet then when you go to meet her she's never at the location she gives you.Lose money.
https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?userId=71791150
This one wants $800 ppm.
Stacey Kane23
05-21-24, 19:31
https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userProfile?userId=71791150
This one wants $800 ppm.She can be had for much less. Just be nice and get to know her a little bit.
Been with her a bunch and she's pretty good. I wouldn't pay $8 though.
https://members.seeking.com/member/fba4ac38-040c-4ac4-a400-82b9a981eb78
A known scammer. She keeps making accounts so I keep reporting them. She'll try to sell you content and say she's free to meet up, but will try to flake at the last second if she can't get a "deposit" out of you.
NerdFriday
08-02-24, 19:50
https://members.seeking.com/member/fba4ac38-040c-4ac4-a400-82b9a981eb78
A known scammer. She keeps making accounts so I keep reporting them. She'll try to sell you content and say she's free to meet up, but will try to flake at the last second if she can't get a "deposit" out of you.Interesting!
I never contacted this one, but I have seen her on multiple sites and, as you mention, on multiple accounts. It definitely looks like she's in Hawaii, but something always did seem off about the profile. The person is definitely dedicated because I feel like the first time I saw their profile was like a year ago.
Did they ever drop a link to OF or something? I can't imagine taking so much time only to be a time-waster. The pictures on the profile are definitely new and different from the ones I've seen on the past profiles.
Interesting!
I never contacted this one, but I have seen her on multiple sites and, as you mention, on multiple accounts. It definitely looks like she's in Hawaii, but something always did seem off about the profile. The person is definitely dedicated because I feel like the first time I saw their profile was like a year ago.
Did they ever drop a link to OF or something? I can't imagine taking so much time only to be a time-waster. The pictures on the profile are definitely new and different from the ones I've seen on the past profiles.She's a snapchat seller / scammer.
Hickory747
08-17-24, 14:32
I've read that there aren't a lot of positive experiences with SB, but I've had a lot of good times.
Range is 2-3 and providing a brief synopsis of each. Happy hunting and message me if you'd like further intel on any of them.
Sweetgirlhawaii.
Thick haole girl originally from Canada.
Thiquekisses.
Thick local girl. Claims she has a boyfriend, so ghosted after a few meetups. Still active on the site.
Mililani Girl.
Older haole woman. Not super attractive but got down to business.
Curve-a-licious.
Big ass haole woman and very accommodating. Still active on the site.
Appletree888.
Cute bite size local girl.
Jaybee15.
Mixed race petite local girl. Very fun. Periodically active on the site.
Mariela101.
Light skinned redbone. Greek on the table.
Kuli808.
Thick tita. One hit wonder.
MamiiiiixNani.
Very cool and thick local woman. Very active on the site.
TayyS-32.
Tiny latina that strips. Flakey tho. Active on the site.
NurseMeagan.
Handle says it all. Pricey but worth it. Active on the site.
Navybaby1903.
Thick and young haole. Flakey. Actually in the Navy. Somewhat active on the site.
PiperLUV3.
Thick local girl. Bi and open to anything. I've got video to prove it. 😆. Active on the site.
Stacey Kane23
09-08-24, 22:37
Anyone have any recs for hotels in the Pearl.
City / aiea / waipahu area? Trying to.
Get access to SBs in central or Kapolei—-town is a little too far from them.
DMs welcome!
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