Arrangement Reports

[Cherokee70]

Amen. Like maybe she's worth it? LOL.

I'm sure she's a good person and is probably worth every penny she asks for. I just don't know if a lot of people in this area of the world see that same value. It's not a negative to her. It's just basic supply and demand. I'm curious how many people around here actually front that. I do know that she either saw this posting or someone here told her about it LOL. Because ever since I made the posting and said something, the only thing she said was that she wanted somebody who was not going to talk about her on a random website. Oh well.

[Flagrant]

There appear to be various levels of success for you guys with SA.

How do you get them to "take the hook", varies by the situation? Read the tea leaves?

Sounds like it is difficult to close the deal.

What are these gals expecting?

Curious.

I think it's important to establish for yourself clarity about what you want. Like, what are you looking for? For me, it's a combination of:

* Looks. The girl has to be at least a high 7. Someone you'd stop and stare at if you saw them on the street. Doesn't have to be supermodel. But has to be clean, presentable, healthy, and reasonably cute / attractive. I prefer slim / athletic.

* Communication. This is easy to take for granted. But I've found most of the girls I've met on SA generally fail in this category. I'm looking for someone who can communicate reliably. Is largely honest about what they want. Open to what I want. Ideally, flirtatious. And responsive. Without seeming over the top fake. Or completely disinterested.

* Fun to fuck and not acting like a sex worker. Ultimately, I'm looking for a fuck buddy. And not someone who isn't warmed up until they guzzle a bottle of wine. And not someone who has one foot out the door before the date begins. Or asking me, "how much time do you want?" LOL.

Once you're clear on what you want, you can't just straight up ask for it. Why? Because even though all these girls are sex workers, they generally don't respond well to being treated like one.

So you have to at least pretend to want to get to know them. Even better if you actually do. But don't lose sight of what you want. And don't ignore the abundant signals they send about what they want and what they're open to.

It takes a lot of time. And a volume approach in my experience is kind of necessary. You'll try with many girls and at each step, only a small percentage of girls will make it to the next step:

1. You send a message, do they read it? Not all of them do.

2. They read it, but do they reply? Not all of them do.

3. They reply, and stay engaged? Not all of them do.

4. You land on some predicate to move forward and meet that's mutually agreeable? Not all of them get this far.

Get the picture? Each step, all the failures, you're learning. Adjust your approach. In a month, most relatively decent looking guys will meet up with some girls who are probably worth seeing.

You have to be completely OK with knowing when to give up on girls that aren't really willing to give what you're looking to experience. There are plenty of girls who think they're going to find a guy willing to give them thousands of dollars a month for the pleasure of their conversation. I have no idea who those fools are. LOL. But I ain't one of them. And if that's what a girl is looking for and she isn't willing to "settle" for anything else, I really don't need to waste my time trying to pry her legs apart.

[Flagrant]

She texted me today and wanted 800. F that.

Amen. Like maybe she's worth it? LOL.

[Flagrant]

So, I have been getting text messages from this girl for a little while. Her pictures look pretty decent. She seems like she has life put together and I figure let's chat. Well, she shows up to dinner basically looking like she's homeless. Smelled horrible. Had dirt on her hands. I actually think it wasn't dirt and was residue from crack or something. Smelled like weed. I just really do not recommend her. Heed my warning if you want.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...2-3f9a4e6d534f

Yeah, I tried to meet with her a few times (within the past year), all of them resulted in me bailing before actually meeting. For various reasons. She has no concept of time. Like, we'd been coordinating a meet for a half hour or more. I finally get to the spot where I'm supposed to pick her up. 15 minutes later, I'm still waiting. I have learned that waiting is almost never an activity that's rewarded. So I left. Another time, she finally wanders into view. And I thought, like you, who the fuck is this random dirty ass looking homeless girl? LOL, just kept on driving.

P.S. For reports on SA girls, it's most useful if you leave the link to her profile (which you did), her username (this is how people might search for her, which is only useful until she changes it), and a screen shot (I'm too lazy to do that right now).

[Cherokee70]

She has a nice ass, wonder what the front looks like? I would toft for 500 if she would travel to me which I highly doubt she would being my distance from Madison.

She texted me today and wanted 800. F that.

[Cherokee70]

So, I have been getting text messages from this girl for a little while. Her pictures look pretty decent. She seems like she has life put together and I figure let's chat. Well, she shows up to dinner basically looking like she's homeless. Smelled horrible. Had dirt on her hands. I actually think it wasn't dirt and was residue from crack or something. Smelled like weed. I just really do not recommend her. Heed my warning if you want.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...2-3f9a4e6d534f

[Sancho Pansa]

There appear to be various levels of success for you guys with SA.

How do you get them to "take the hook", varies by the situation? Read the tea leaves?

Sounds like it is difficult to close the deal.

What are these gals expecting?

Curious.

It really is based on what the sb is looking for. Some, like the one I posted here are really quick to move to text and want to meet right away so act more as escort. I've had much better luck building a conversation and digging into what they are looking for. It's much more rewarding. I met a 19 yr old last week that basically wants to meet and fuck, no allowance. I'm meeting another this Friday with similar expectations. I'm providing some mentoring to both. They both need guidance that I can offer. There's a little of everything on there. Doesn't really answer your question but hopefully gives you an idea.

[Real1211]

I also heard she's in Janesville, actually. Maybe that's closer to you? Who knows why these girls deceive about where the fuck they are? LOL.

I'm 90 minutes northeast of Madison.

[Stoker999]

Won't talk details? That sounds like what a sex worker would say. It takes a fair amount of time and patience and skill to tease out what you're expecting, what she's open to, etc. Best not to approach these girls like you would someone posting on STG. Each girl is different.

There appear to be various levels of success for you guys with SA.

How do you get them to "take the hook", varies by the situation? Read the tea leaves?

Sounds like it is difficult to close the deal.

What are these gals expecting?

Curious.

[Dan Madison]

I don't think so. Are you able to see here from the link?

Yup I can see her when I click on the direct link that was in the review earlier, but I don't see her when I use the Filter feature in the site.

[Flagrant]

Weird, I removed all filters but don't see this profile in the listing.

Is SA like Tinder / Bumble in that the profiles displayed are based on your rating or something?

I don't think so. You can remove yourself from search, though. For guys, you have to have a subscription to do that. I don't know whether women can do that without a subscription.

If you can see the profile directly, but it's not visible when searching, then it's because she removed herself from search. I typically do that (when I'm subscribed) because the only girls who contact me are scammers from thousands of miles away, and that's just pure noise.

[Sancho Pansa]

Weird, I removed all filters but don't see this profile in the listing.

Is SA like Tinder / Bumble in that the profiles displayed are based on your rating or something?

I don't think so. Are you able to see here from the link?

[Dan Madison]

Talked to her briefly, moved to text quickly. Located in Sun Prairie. Wants 350 ppm but won't talk details.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...b-4c0801089544

Weird, I removed all filters but don't see this profile in the listing.

Is SA like Tinder / Bumble in that the profiles displayed are based on your rating or something?

[Flagrant]

Talked to her briefly, moved to text quickly. Located in Sun Prairie. Wants 350 ppm but won't talk details.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...b-4c0801089544

Won't talk details? That sounds like what a sex worker would say. It takes a fair amount of time and patience and skill to tease out what you're expecting, what she's open to, etc. Best not to approach these girls like you would someone posting on STG. Each girl is different.

[Sancho Pansa]

Talked to her briefly, moved to text quickly. Located in Sun Prairie. Wants 350 ppm but won't talk details.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...b-4c0801089544