interesting thought of the day..

[Pdaam]

These things happen. I was going to a night club and somebody waved at me, I looked at her and she looked familier to me. Then I realized she was a provider I had seen her few months back. I was with my friends and I excused to join her. She introduced me to her friend and I had another blast with them, this time 2 some.

[Laylo5]

I've actually run into several Providers, Had a waitress at Outback and 1 at Longhorn steakhouse both recognized me, you shouldve seen the look on one of thems face she act like I was going to tell her boss or something. The other was super nice talk to me and my friend. I didn't tell my friend how I knew her tho. Saw one provider out shopping with her son talked to me like old friends. Saw another selling samples at a store. Saw another at a convenience store. Just strange looks from her tho. So its not uncommon but this was a few years ago. Did see one escort provider and we got to talking and found out I used to date her sister in law. Stay Safe Laylo.

[BadMagick5]

I posted about a lady named Sandee on Feb. 6th 2013. Maybe one month later, I saw her in a retail store. My main concern was her blowing up my spot while I had my ole lady with me. I didn't know what to do! I definitely didn't make eye contact with her. We just happen to be on the same aisle, so I stood very close to my ole lady with my hand around her waist as we reviewed some products on the shelves. It was a VERY, VERY uncomfortable situation, but luckily Sandee was mature about it and didn't say a word. Remind you though, she was older. Now if that was a young girl who was probably strung out on drugs, there definitely would have been a problem. As far as meeting a provider that I previously known from everyday life or a childhood friend, that has never happened; but I sure have thought about what I would do if that was to happen. That's a good topic Rock.

Happen to me after I had an affair with a coworker. I was with the family at Mcd's and the woman was there with coworkers etc. I couldn't tell if she noticed me at all cause it was real busy etc. I made everyone eat as fast as they could to get the hell out of there. LOL.

[Bobby D53]

So, Let's get your take on this situation and have you ever.

In your everyday life, you work and meet people and see people all the time. So here is the situation. You work at an office building all the time, whether you go in there to do a job there for a few hours or so or that you work there all day. And you one day you decide to go see a provider. Look up the ads, (no face pic just body) ask questions and decide to go see one. You call her up and briefly talk to her, make a date and go see her. She opens up the door. And. And. You already know her. What do you do, what do you say, how do you handle that situation.

Or you are out in public w / your friends and you happen to run into your provider.

I posted about a lady named Sandee on Feb. 6th 2013. Maybe one month later, I saw her in a retail store. My main concern was her blowing up my spot while I had my ole lady with me. I didn't know what to do! I definitely didn't make eye contact with her. We just happen to be on the same aisle, so I stood very close to my ole lady with my hand around her waist as we reviewed some products on the shelves. It was a VERY, VERY uncomfortable situation, but luckily Sandee was mature about it and didn't say a word. Remind you though, she was older. Now if that was a young girl who was probably strung out on drugs, there definitely would have been a problem. As far as meeting a provider that I previously known from everyday life or a childhood friend, that has never happened; but I sure have thought about what I would do if that was to happen. That's a good topic Rock.

[RockDog]

So, Let's get your take on this situation and have you ever.

In your everyday life, you work and meet people and see people all the time. So here is the situation. You work at an office building all the time, whether you go in there to do a job there for a few hours or so or that you work there all day. And you one day you decide to go see a provider. Look up the ads, (no face pic just body) ask questions and decide to go see one. You call her up and briefly talk to her, make a date and go see her. She opens up the door. And. And. You already know her. What do you do, what do you say, how do you handle that situation.

Or you are out in public w / your friends and you happen to run into your provider.

[BoSeefus]

Hard for me to decide Shelly from the old carolina fantasies was def a fav as I really like sexy asians. Was lucky to spend time with Valentina Rose when she was around and had alot of fun but when NC Playmates had my greatest dream with Erika Sanders.

[Lister69]

I travel internationally a lot for my job as the company I work for is based in EU. Anytime I'm in Prague, I go to one of the popular sex clubs (Sweet Paradise being my favorite http://www.sweetparadise.cz) . Imagine a strip club here where instead of picking a girl for a dance, you pick one to take upstairs to a room for how ever long you would like to pay for. Or you have the option of just buying them for x amount of hours and leaving and hitting the town, dancing, back to your flat, whatever. BTW they keep an online schedule and "who is active" list so you can see if your favorite girl is available before you even visit. Anyways, you are looking at roughly $70-90/ hr for girls of amazing beauty from all over EU. Many times I've picked out two girls, paid for 6 hours and grabbed a cab, headed out for a nice meal, hit a disco with dancing and drinks, then back to my room for all sorts of crazy fun. At the end of the night, they call a cab and you pay for it. Never paid for 3 as I thought I couldn't keep up and actively engage with that many at once but it would have just been a few more $$.

Same is possible at FFK's in Germany but you typically don't leave the establishment. The silly games we play here in the USA around all this is insane, so much easier where it is all legal and above board.

PK.

3 somes, 4 somes, 5 somes, group activities. I will type mine up when I am not on a phone. LOL. What is yours. GO!!

[RockDog]

Ok, now that I have a few to type this up. My turn. I was 19 and a senior in HS, living at home w / my Dad and Step-mom. The neighbor girl was 24 going to MSU. We knew each other but really didn't know each other. LOL. If you know what I mean. It was a Friday nyt she came to my door that the house and said come on lets go. I was like OK, where are we going at 9 pm at nyt and why are we going there together, because her and I never hung out or went places together. So she drove to her dorm at MSU. All girls dorm. = We walked in her room where she shared it w / 3 other girls. All 3 where there and one other guy was there too. She introduced me, one of the girls gave me a drink of my choice. One thing lead to another, cloths started coming off and I was like WTF. LOL. But wow. That is where and when I was taught to go down on a girl. I learned a lot from that night. Me and that other guy probably the luckiest nyt of our lives. The question isn't what we did, more so what didn't we do or experience that nyt. I remember we didn't even sleep she just drove me home in the mourning so I could go right to class. LOL.

3 somes, 4 somes, 5 somes, group activities. I will type mine up when I am not on a phone. LOL. What is yours. GO!!

[RockDog]

I agree w / you totally. Usually the first trip around just meeting someone I really don't take them gifts esp if I have to TOFT or really don't know much about her. Then if I like her and plan on seeing her again for the 2nd time I will take her some flowers or chocolates or something that she likes. If the dates continue on then maybe offer to take her out to dinner before hand or take her shopping for something sexy. While some people just give them a tip, which is totally acceptable, I really don't do that in most cases because they are already getting a donation for the time and so forth. Or am I completely wrong on this one. I have heard it both ways. But, on the other hand I feel if you do get her something, it is something that is not just generic like a tip. Something that takes time and thought and preparation to it. Most of them will enjoy that more I think.

Depending on how long and how well I have know them, lingerie or toys is kind of a fun way to surprise them and reward yourself. If I haven't seen them that often, I figure the donation is gift enough. Also, if they're not really giving me the full effort, I don't feel like I should reward that behavior either.

[RedRedRooster]

This was brought up somewhere else so I figured I would bring it up here to. What kind of gifts do you bring to a date.

Depending on how long and how well I have know them, lingerie or toys is kind of a fun way to surprise them and reward yourself. If I haven't seen them that often, I figure the donation is gift enough. Also, if they're not really giving me the full effort, I don't feel like I should reward that behavior either.

[RockDog]

This was brought up somewhere else so I figured I would bring it up here to. What kind of gifts do you bring to a date.

[RockDog]

3 somes, 4 somes, 5 somes, group activities. I will type mine up when I am not on a phone. LOL. What is yours. GO!!

[Scotty66]

Firstly Scotty66 what is ASE?

ASE was Absolute Sheer Elegance, an agency that closed late last year. I never had a bad experience with them. Too bad they are gone now.

[Pdaam]

I believe you can always tell if your dream is going to be a great one, an ok one, or just a bad one in general, just by how she presents herself when you first meet her. Now, I am not saying that every SP is going to be like that because there are always exceptions to the rule. But I am saying this in general. If you go into a room and it definitely looks bad, all smokey, and there is just crap everywhere then it is basically a crap shoot. LMAO. Now, if you go into a place and it is clean and looks good and she comes up to you and gives you a big hug and kiss and a warm welcome then chances are you will have a good time. I think you can tell which ones will want you for repeat clients and which ones will not.

So I have had a few people ask some various questions and I thought I might start putting them here too. So if you have any questions or ideas PM me w / them subject line questions.

Firstly Scotty66 what is ASE?

Agree with Rock to a large extent. But let me tell you what happened with a dreamer friend.

He set's up TOFTT with great looking girl from BP and pledged only will go inside the room if she is indeed the girl in picture when he meets at her door. He is called to an impressive upper range hotel room and he is stunned to see the girl at the door, He finds her in most exotic lingerie and best bodies, she is probably the BEST he has seen in his experience in hobbying till then, the girl was charging top dollars as per BP standard, but he was ok. He had setup hhr but upgraded to hr impromptu. Session begins with a hug & friendly talk, soon donation business is take care of as she requested to settle it before as most gals do.

Fastforwarding. Everything wen't downhill from there, no kissing to begin with, still frnd kept going. Some massage attempt. But what put final nail when he was told that she does not do SX, She tells that she is just an escort and stripper who entertains people, and asked him to leave the room if he continued to do like that.

-Guys you see what am I saying.

[Toolman356]

I believe you can always tell if your dream is going to be a great one, an ok one, or just a bad one in general, just by how she presents herself when you first meet her. Now, I am not saying that every SP is going to be like that because there are always exceptions to the rule. But I am saying this in general. If you go into a room and it definitely looks bad, all smokey, and there is just crap everywhere then it is basically a crap shoot. LMAO. Now, if you go into a place and it is clean and looks good and she comes up to you and gives you a big hug and kiss and a warm welcome then chances are you will have a good time. I think you can tell which ones will want you for repeat clients and which ones will not.

So I have had a few people ask some various questions and I thought I might start putting them here too. So if you have any questions or ideas PM me w / them subject line questions.

I have had to interview a lot of sales people as well as other positions over the last 30 years and quite honestly, the first 30 seconds are the most critical. And the hobby is no different!