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[Stoner]

This was posted recently in the NYC section of that oThER site. Just a reminder to be safe, gents.

http://www.theeroticreview.com/discu...&page=1#211043

Called a ad on BP for a provider, some girl Jenn answers a Texas, I should have known it was too good to be true. I pull up, call, she asks what kind of car I am driving, I tell her thinking she's looking out for the clients etc, who the fuck knows, I go to the room, walk in. 2 guys behind the door tell me empty my wallet and give them what I have, I had 600 on me, got knocked in the head and they said turn, leave and don't look back. I am freaking right now, everyone beware,

Hampton inn in Commack, these were some serious russians.

Watch yourselves out there, they might be moving around, they didn't' have a website just girls posted for 250

Earlier a user had posted questions on how to play safe. Can you spot the littany of things this user could have done to avoid the hell he went through?

I especially love how he carried $600 into a $250 incall. Just don't do it when visiting someone for the first time. If she is going to upsell you, then just be upsold and walk out the better for it.

[WhenWhen]

Excellent. Keep 'them coming! It always helps to get new mongers posting. Makes up for the dudes that ask me for digits, but then never post about their encounters. Why ask!

Will do! Sorry, yea just recently started posting. More contributors the better for all of us! So I'll leave you with a quick one right now: couple weeks ago did see the "double the fun"/cougar advertisers for a quick stop in a pinch. Just went with the cougar since she was the BBBJ "specialist." She is extremely talented in that regard and a cim always makes things great. Laid back, nice, and easygoing. Only downside, the area (and the place itself) is extremely sketchy. As in keep your head on a swivel!

[Shoc11]

Good advice. For someone with 2 posts, you obviously have a lot of experience. Why not post a few reports on your better conquests assuming you're still in the game?

Will do! Sorry, yea just recently started posting. More contributors the better for all of us! So I'll leave you with a quick one right now: couple weeks ago did see the "double the fun"/cougar advertisers for a quick stop in a pinch. Just went with the cougar since she was the BBBJ "specialist." She is extremely talented in that regard and a cim always makes things great. Laid back, nice, and easygoing. Only downside, the area (and the place itself) is extremely sketchy. As in keep your head on a swivel!

[Member #4554]

Hey All!

Well, I did it! My boyfriend and I went to the Art Cinema on Superbowl Evening. Guess it wasn't the greatest night to go, no one there, damn sports! J / K all you football fans! The place is definitely bigger than I thought, and we tried to sit in the front row of the balcony, but the damn safety railing blocked half the screen (which was really hard to see, seemed dark and blurry). But after a few minutes, I discovered my panties around my ankles and my boyfriend between my thighs. It didn't take long before I was crying out that I was cumming (and did not care who heard or saw me). Then the warning lights flickered and it was time to go. Next time (hopefully soon) we shall venture there again, only earlier and will have to wander to the front rows of seats in the theater, instead of just the balcony. Oh, and those of you that know me, know I usually act pretty quickly after an announcement. (hint, hint).

I am glad however that I did it! I guess I can scratch something of my bucket list (already crossed the being in a porn item off my list!). Hope all is going well and I miss ya all. Hope this wonderful storm has not affected any of you and you are all safe.

And. What kinda person would I be to leave no joke? This one hits a little close to my professional medical life. Mistakes are easy to make in certain situations. That's all I'm going to say!

Here ya go:

A man is lying in bed in the hospital with an oxygen mask over his mouth. A young nurse appears to sponge his hands and feet.

"Nurse," he mumbles from behind the mask,"Are my testicles black?" Embarrassed, the young nurse replies,"I don't know, I'm only here to wash your hands and feet".

He struggles again to ask,"Nurse, are my testicles black?" Finally, she pulls back the covers, raises his gown, holds his penis in one hand and his testicles in her other hand and takes a close look, and says "There is nothing wrong with them!"

Finally, the man pulls off his oxygen mask and replies,"That was very nice but, are. My. Test. Results. Back?

See. Told ya! HeHe! Later All, Stacy.

Oh and PS: Hi CoCo, I hear ya made it back to us! Glad to hear.

XOXO

[WhenWhen]

Good advice. For someone with 2 posts, you obviously have a lot of experience. Why not post a few reports on your better conquests assuming you're still in the game?

Also, another good move I always employ is arriving early, calling and saying you'll be there soon and asking for the room. This way you can see what happens before she even knows you're there. Then use a side door if possible to the hotel, use the stairs, walk down one floor above and one floor below the room, see if anythings going on. Call her, tell her you're pulling in, Look through the stairwell window and just watch to see if anything happens. Wait, go to room, listen, knock. Judge, leave or go in. Stay by door. Check bathroom. Make sure second lock is on door so that even people w a key cannot get in. Enjoy. Obviously I might appear overly cautious, but it's the way to go.

[Wsst3]

Yes. The casual encounters section. Either they have been flagged or removed because they have expired.

Because 95% of the post are spams. If you reply to those posts, you will likely get a reply to get verfied on some website.

The other 5% is usually real escorts looking for $ for sex, which is prohibited in the section.

[Wanna Be Bad]

It's been like this for a long time at least in the New Haven Casual Encounters section. Almost all w4m ads get flagged pretty quickly.

If you use an RSS reader (like Google Reader) you can set it up to collect the craigslist feed, and read the ad content long after the ad has been flagged and removed. You don't get pictures, and you can't respond if the ad is already gone, but if the poster is smart enough to include a phone number or other contact method in the ad body, you can still get in touch with them.

Yes. The casual encounters section. Either they have been flagged or removed because they have expired.

[Mack Daddy II]

Are you talking about the casual encounter section?

Yes. The casual encounters section. Either they have been flagged or removed because they have expired.

[Wsst3]

Hey does anyone know what going on with Craigslist. Seems like things are being shut down. Ads are just being "flagged" or say "this posting has expired"

Any clues to what the hell is going on?

Are you talking about the casual encounter section?

[Erotica123]

Hey does anyone know what going on with Craigslist. Seems like things are being shut down. Ads are just being "flagged" or say "this posting has expired"

Any clues to what the hell is going on?

All it takes is for one jerk with too much time on his hands to sit there and flag every w4m ad as soon as it is posted. I doubt it has anything to do with CL itself since none of the other ads categories seem to be having an issue

[Mack Daddy II]

Hey does anyone know what going on with Craigslist. Seems like things are being shut down. Ads are just being "flagged" or say "this posting has expired"

Any clues to what the hell is going on?

[Michaelzxc]

Leave wallet, cell phone in your car and anything else you don't want to lose.

Only bring $$ that you intend to spend.

[Craven Morehed]

Probably the same photographers who take those real estate pics that make that fixer upper next to nuclear waste site look presentable.

LOL Use some UV lighting and see how nice it looks

[Shoc11]

Stoner thanks a lot for the nuggets of wisdom. And thanks for helping a new guy out. All great and useful information I will incorporate into my future endeavors. And hopefully won't make the same error again. Thanks Again

Also, another good move I always employ is arriving early, calling and saying you'll be there soon and asking for the room. This way you can see what happens before she even knows you're there. Then use a side door if possible to the hotel, use the stairs, walk down one floor above and one floor below the room, see if anythings going on. Call her, tell her you're pulling in, Look through the stairwell window and just watch to see if anything happens. Wait, go to room, listen, knock. Judge, leave or go in. Stay by door. Check bathroom. Make sure second lock is on door so that even people w a key cannot get in. Enjoy. Obviously I might appear overly cautious, but it's the way to go.

[Phil LaFaon]

Not exactly sure of your definitions of OC and IC. I assume you mean outcall vs incall.

To answer your more prominent question, a few things:

Regardless of incall or outcall, there are things to keep in mind.

What was stated earlier of checking for reviews, whatever, is important. If you can't afford the risk, leave it others and their reviews. I won't say much more on that.

If you are doing outcall (meaning she comes to you) :

1. Choose your outcall. I've known some ladies who tell you where to do outcall, from city to even which hotel. Avoid that at all costs. Your choice at all times for outcall.

2. Setup a time and place, and be there before the time you setup. Watch her arrive, and who with. See who else is at the locale walking about, on cell phones, or just seeming too "in place" or out of place. If you get funny vibes, bail. If something is not truthful. Bail. Be willing to bail. Better to lose $50 on a room. In all cases. Observe and keep mental note.

3. After she arrives. Watch the change in the environ of other customers there. Again: Who was "in place" before. What are they doing? Are they reacting in any way to your approach? Again. Be prepared to bail.

4. You are less likely to get stung on outcall. But all sorts of bad things can spook the hell out of you, and you are trapped in more ways than one.

5. Never hinder your guests ability to make calls, but pay attention. And keep your wits. That hotel receipt (you know, the one with you CC info, address, plate number, etc) lock it up or destroy it. Your wallet. Protect it.

6. If at all possible, do not park near your outcall. Again, arrive early and place car away from your room.

7. If you are actually staying at the hotel for an extended period. Please be careful of who you bring in. Is it worth letting them know where you are to be found later? Be careful of the info you share.

8. Just because a place is no-tell does not mean they will defend your rights like zealous ACLU lawyer. Stay observant.

If you are doing incall (meaning you go to her) :

1. This is potentially the highest risk in every way, but for some of us. Its the only way to go.

2. Again, setup the time and show up earlier. Observe it. Note changes as your time is about to start what changes in the environ take place.

3. If you must: it is better to be late and postpone an incall. The reaction of that speaks volumes. Observe their verbal reaction to your slight delay, and the environment change.

4. Follow the procedure about where you park when in doubt. Again, arrive early and observe. Can't tell you how many times I do this to observe who leaves, how, and in what before my "start" time. If she lies to you about it, watch out. You can't assume you are the only rooster in the hen house. You are just concerned about what rooster is in the hen house.

5. She may ask what type of car you are driving. Think on your feet because she's smart. Lie, and it can go badly. Tell the truth. And you've given away your advantage. Choose your own adventure there.

6. On approach to room: Again, especially with arriving early. Observe what you can. I want to elaborate, but some of you have the guile of an ox in heat. I won't throw pearls before swine, so to speak. Just be observant with eyes and ears.

7. When entering room. Keep this in mind: Its already over. If its a sting, you are caught. You just don't know it yet. You f'd up and you are one and done. If its not a sting. Your concern is not about the sting now, but all of the other nefarious surprises that can happen. If it is a sting, hopefully you've read enough on how NOT to incriminate yourself.

8. So you are now in. She openned the door, you are in. Now assess and think. Greet as normal, but your eyes should on a swivel. Does the room look lived in? Long term? Short term? How many people? You see shoes? Who's shoes? Are there closed doors? Bathroom door? If so, ask to see the bathroom and (if needed other closed spaces) briefly. (I've stumbled into lots of dumb scenarios here). If it looks like multiple chicks are there by all signs, yet you don't see them. Don't panic, but *think. They may have been outside watching you come in! They may be in the bathroom with the door locked, waiting for you to do your thing and leave! It may be the chick you watched go from one room to another moments before you were to arrive.

9. One of my favorite ATFs in the escort world would travel with boyfriend. He would keep his shaving kit in the bathroom with his toothbrush. I don't mind. But once I knew, I stayed aware. Just from casual observation of using the bathroom. (Later, I found his timberland boots still under the bed.) He keeps her safe and happy. I have no problem with that. But what you don't want. Is him in the bathroom!

10. Keep your stuff within reach at all times, and be ready to bail. If someone knocks, or a someone is hiding in bathroom. Just realize it was by design. Bail. Not worth the hassle. Ever. No matter what she says, get your stuff and go. And chalk it up to being more observant next time with the big head. Do not pass go, and definitely do not try to get your "money back" or plot revenge. Do not accept "promises" for future dates. Just review it and move on, knowing you've saved others, and cost her thousands in cash with a one honest bad review. Hopefully you did all of your assessing before you gave her that envelope.

11. BTW. The envelope is good for you. Mark it as gift, unless she asks otherwise. Or make it a birthday card. .

Finally, in all cases: If the escort has a bodyguard or driver. Be cognizant, but the rules change. Be savvy enough to play along. She should have reviews. If not. Stay sharp. But the odds are no longer in your favor in any way.

Stoner thanks a lot for the nuggets of wisdom. And thanks for helping a new guy out. All great and useful information I will incorporate into my future endeavors. And hopefully won't make the same error again. Thanks Again