STD testing resources

[Masalic]

I feel like for anybody getting into this hobby condoms are practically required. Yes I know that if you sleep with a lot of people or sleep with someone who has slept with a lot of people, then you're going to get something somewhere down the road. But you can at the very least minimize the damage, no reason to get herpes if you can avoid it. Also I agree with the use of alcohol as far as disinfectant goes, soap only cleans surface level it doesn't go on the deep cleansing alcoholic substances do.

[Rook6642]

Put a little tabasco sauce down the urerthra too while your at it. How about plain old soap and water!

How about just shower at the incall?

Most providers are open to using the shower. Especially at a hotel.

When I've had outcalls I offer the shower to the girl and they are happy to take me up on the offer.

[Stuffdamuff]

I recommend Clorox Disinfecting Wipes. They come in convenient travel packs at Target, Walmart, etc. " Kills 99.9% of viruses and bacteria ". Don't forget to clean the Urethra opening.

Put a little tabasco sauce down the urerthra too while your at it. How about plain old soap and water!

[Himes]

Question for anyone who caught chlamydia or ghonorrhea via BBBJ + CFS. Did you shower after taking the condom off? I got it 10 years ago from cfs and no BJ, when I didn't shower until the next morning. I can imagine its easy to catch something if a provider cums all over you during cfs, then pulls the condom off for a sloppy BBBJ finish. Or it could spread from her pussy to your cock via DATY, DFK, then BBBJ. I've read conflicting reports about if STD bacteria can infect and stay in her mouth from a BBBJ with a previous client. Probably yes for a guy from earlier that day, but not sure about one from previous days. I've also read that mouthwash kills it. But who knows if that is BS. I try to stay safe by asking the girl if she used mouthwash beforehand, and making sure I shower as soon as the condom comes off (which is awkward if I want to go back for CIM). Also read that urinating immediately after exposure can lower chances of infection (but wouldn't count on only doing that) I get tested all the time via stdcheck, and been clean for 10 years. But who knows if I'm just getting lucky.

I just want to start a conversation about the safest way to get a BBBJ, since cbjs do nothing for me.

I recommend Clorox Disinfecting Wipes. They come in convenient travel packs at Target, Walmart, etc. " Kills 99.9% of viruses and bacteria ". Don't forget to clean the Urethra opening.

[LiquorThnPoker]

It was most likely from 2 visits to KP and 1 visit to 262 as those were in the incubation period and were BBBJ was had and where there may have been some exchange from unprotected touching. Although I've had several guys reach out and tell me they got stuff at times they used covers and don't know how either. It happens. And def BBBJ is not safe.

Question for anyone who caught chlamydia or ghonorrhea via BBBJ + CFS. Did you shower after taking the condom off? I got it 10 years ago from cfs and no BJ, when I didn't shower until the next morning. I can imagine its easy to catch something if a provider cums all over you during cfs, then pulls the condom off for a sloppy BBBJ finish. Or it could spread from her pussy to your cock via DATY, DFK, then BBBJ. I've read conflicting reports about if STD bacteria can infect and stay in her mouth from a BBBJ with a previous client. Probably yes for a guy from earlier that day, but not sure about one from previous days. I've also read that mouthwash kills it. But who knows if that is BS. I try to stay safe by asking the girl if she used mouthwash beforehand, and making sure I shower as soon as the condom comes off (which is awkward if I want to go back for CIM). Also read that urinating immediately after exposure can lower chances of infection (but wouldn't count on only doing that) I get tested all the time via stdcheck, and been clean for 10 years. But who knows if I'm just getting lucky.

I just want to start a conversation about the safest way to get a BBBJ, since cbjs do nothing for me.

[Daytime Jay]

Heard about couple other cases outside of this forum. Sounds like someone that's probably asymptomatic is going around giving out free gifts before the Holidays. Stay safe.

Dumb fool I am, I took a trip to a local AMP and think I got it again. I rubbed my member on her pussy a bit before covering up, but seems that might have been enough. Back to the clinic again for testing. Ffs.

[DivingDeep70]

So recently tested and results were negative and last BBBJ I had was probably 10 days ago. I even had 1 more covered. You think I can still have it? Made up a hell of an excuse for the wife about tearing my frenulum which gave me some time.

Prob not if you waited 10 days. Test is accurate usually in 5 and def in 7 days. Just remember that BBBJ is a risk. And not every girl is std loaded and not every encounter will pass it orally. Orally is lower odds, fairly low, but can happen obviously. And that's just for one STD. Others like Herpes simplex are much easier to pass orally both ways.

[OldSchoolGuy73]

I tested twice 5 days apart and the tests are 99% effective with an almost impossible false positive. So don't believe the write up, these tests are usually very accurate. Very accurate especially after 7 days which is minimum incubation period and 100% accurate after 21 days. If symptoms present, they are 100% accurate. Usually the false negative is what you see due to early testing. You don't see false positives. Once treated you are told not to test again for 21 days to avoid false positive because treatment is 1000 mg of Azithromicin in single dose and can take 7-14 days to cure.

So recently tested and results were negative and last BBBJ I had was probably 10 days ago. I even had 1 more covered. You think I can still have it? Made up a hell of an excuse for the wife about tearing my frenulum which gave me some time.

[MLuv33]

To answer, I had symptoms and tested positive. I tried very hard to remember dates and timeline and unfortunately I had sex with wife during that period. Not knowing exactly when, meant she had a 30-50% chance of receiving it. Male to Female infection is very high. Higher than female to male but not by a lot. Anyway, given that statistics said 70% females and 90% males are asymptomatic, made me question saying something or not. However if she gets it and I didn't say anything I would be worse because then I lied. And if she gets it asymptomatic like the statistic, then she reinfects me anyway. And not treating in her can lead to uterus problems, and worse conditions like PID. She's my wife, I'm not trying to make her worse. So the right decision was to come clean and pray for the best. Time to man up and own the decisions I made. Anyway, we both will be in counseling now for a while. It was very very very difficult conversation but she's still here and is working through it. I didn't say I had 4 etc. and all.

The others, I just said 1 and I said it was happy ending blow job with old Asian lady. At least to make her feel like this wasn't cheating affaire but rather a physical release dumb idea. I think that helped and worked. Women can accept a physical need more than an emotional replacement of them. Reality is I'm a sex addict as are pretty much everyone here and now I'm really hoping I can benefit from the therapy to try to get over this disease and lifestyle. Not worth it. I value my family much more just couldn't stop the temptations. Shit, it's hard when you see all these hotties available for a few bucks. Anyway, it sucks but I'm going to do it and she's sticking around. She got tested yesterday and we will find out tomorrow hopefully.

I'm sorry you're going through that. I'm glad you're putting your family first. I would clear your history on your phone and delete numbers. Make it just a little bit harder to find everything. The little bit of extra effort it takes to find that stuff definitely can help deter from looking at the temptation. I stopped for a while because it was consuming my life and I needed to stop. It's how. I got away from some social media. Some I had to put right delete. (Damn thirst traps in insta) but I know you can do it. And I'm pulling for you and yours to work through this and maybe find a way to satisfy each other so stepping out won't be needed.

[DivingDeep70]

Did you use the same type of test twice? There are false positves, and using a different test type after the first positve would help determine if you really have chlamydia. Too late now, but why reveal to your spouse your result until after you completed antibiotics and test negative and then abstain from the lifestyle. If it it comes back, then you would know she's infected.

To answer, I had symptoms and tested positive. I tried very hard to remember dates and timeline and unfortunately I had sex with wife during that period. Not knowing exactly when, meant she had a 30-50% chance of receiving it. Male to Female infection is very high. Higher than female to male but not by a lot. Anyway, given that statistics said 70% females and 90% males are asymptomatic, made me question saying something or not. However if she gets it and I didn't say anything I would be worse because then I lied. And if she gets it asymptomatic like the statistic, then she reinfects me anyway. And not treating in her can lead to uterus problems, and worse conditions like PID. She's my wife, I'm not trying to make her worse. So the right decision was to come clean and pray for the best. Time to man up and own the decisions I made. Anyway, we both will be in counseling now for a while. It was very very very difficult conversation but she's still here and is working through it. I didn't say I had 4 etc. and all.

The others, I just said 1 and I said it was happy ending blow job with old Asian lady. At least to make her feel like this wasn't cheating affaire but rather a physical release dumb idea. I think that helped and worked. Women can accept a physical need more than an emotional replacement of them. Reality is I'm a sex addict as are pretty much everyone here and now I'm really hoping I can benefit from the therapy to try to get over this disease and lifestyle. Not worth it. I value my family much more just couldn't stop the temptations. Shit, it's hard when you see all these hotties available for a few bucks. Anyway, it sucks but I'm going to do it and she's sticking around. She got tested yesterday and we will find out tomorrow hopefully.

[DivingDeep70]

From Medscape.

"It should also be remembered that, when interpreting a positive result, NAATs do not require viable organisms. NAATs have superior analytical sensitivity as they can potentially produce a positive signal from as little as a single copy of the target DNA or RNA in the reaction. However, this high level of sensitivity can create problems because, although a positive NAAT result could reflect clinical infection, the test could also be amplifying dead organisms or be positive as a result of surface contamination (including contamination of the container in the case of self-collected specimens) and hence, produce a false-positive diagnosis. ".

I tested twice 5 days apart and the tests are 99% effective with an almost impossible false positive. So don't believe the write up, these tests are usually very accurate. Very accurate especially after 7 days which is minimum incubation period and 100% accurate after 21 days. If symptoms present, they are 100% accurate. Usually the false negative is what you see due to early testing. You don't see false positives. Once treated you are told not to test again for 21 days to avoid false positive because treatment is 1000 mg of Azithromicin in single dose and can take 7-14 days to cure.

[DivingDeep70]

I'm so sorry to hear that.

And prayers that it all works out for the best.

Can I ask what agencies to frequent.

Kp?

Ac?

Just curious as I'd hate to find myself in a similar situation?

Thanks.

Darth.

It was most likely from 2 visits to KP and 1 visit to 262 as those were in the incubation period and were BBBJ was had and where there may have been some exchange from unprotected touching. Although I've had several guys reach out and tell me they got stuff at times they used covers and don't know how either. It happens. And def BBBJ is not safe.

[Stuffdamuff]

Did you use the same type of test twice? There are false positves, and using a different test type after the first positve would help determine if you really have chlamydia. Too late now, but why reveal to your spouse your result until after you completed antibiotics and test negative and then abstain from the lifestyle. If it it comes back, then you would know she's infected.

From Medscape.

"It should also be remembered that, when interpreting a positive result, NAATs do not require viable organisms. NAATs have superior analytical sensitivity as they can potentially produce a positive signal from as little as a single copy of the target DNA or RNA in the reaction. However, this high level of sensitivity can create problems because, although a positive NAAT result could reflect clinical infection, the test could also be amplifying dead organisms or be positive as a result of surface contamination (including contamination of the container in the case of self-collected specimens) and hence, produce a false-positive diagnosis. ".

[Stuffdamuff]

Mod deleted my report but it's not like you can publish records of someone else test results. So let me say this, I am positive through 2 tests for Chlamydia. Given the incubation period it could be 7-21 days or more if asymptomatic. However I am not asymptomatic as I had burning, clear drip and some aches in testicles. So when I trace back my encounter over 2 months, I had 4. All had covered FS and BBBJ. Since covered FS is supposedly very safe though not fool proof, I have to guess it was from the BBBJ. Google shows that odds of that are very low also female to male. So I'm either very very unlucky, or I missed something like maybe when I was touching here and then touching myself or when I removed cover I let it touch my tip or something stupid. As for me I have to think it was the BBBJ which for my whole life I thought was safe. Anyway, that's my truth. So I can't name who or where but you can message me. What I know is in that 2 month period I was with 4 providers. My point to you all is that regardless of what you read online or what we think is safe, I am here to tell you it happens. I have been hobbying for about 30 years now and this is my first. Go figure. And I am married and I did tell my wife and it was a huge mess that I am dealing with now and have to go to counseling etc to save marriage. Also had to admit I'm a sex addict. And she is going to get tested herself today. It's a mess. I wish I was single and I'd hobby with no regrets but I'm not. So now I have to either find a way to quit or I have to be super duper extra careful and maybe even test before I do anything with wife and remember that testing only works if you allow incubation period, otherwise won't show accurate and you can still pass it.

Did you use the same type of test twice? There are false positves, and using a different test type after the first positve would help determine if you really have chlamydia. Too late now, but why reveal to your spouse your result until after you completed antibiotics and test negative and then abstain from the lifestyle. If it it comes back, then you would know she's infected.

[Darth Cosmos]

Mod deleted my report but it's not like you can publish records of someone else test results. So let me say this, I am positive through 2 tests for Chlamydia. Given the incubation period it could be 7-21 days or more if asymptomatic. However I am not asymptomatic as I had burning, clear drip and some aches in testicles. So when I trace back my encounter over 2 months, I had 4. All had covered FS and BBBJ. Since covered FS is supposedly very safe though not fool proof, I have to guess it was from the BBBJ. Google shows that odds of that are very low also female to male. So I'm either very very unlucky, or I missed something like maybe when I was touching here and then touching myself or when I removed cover I let it touch my tip or something stupid. As for me I have to think it was the BBBJ which for my whole life I thought was safe. Anyway, that's my truth. So I can't name who or where but you can message me. What I know is in that 2 month period I was with 4 providers. My point to you all is that regardless of what you read online or what we think is safe, I am here to tell you it happens. I have been hobbying for about 30 years now and this is my first. Go figure. And I am married and I did tell my wife and it was a huge mess that I am dealing with now and have to go to counseling etc to save marriage. Also had to admit I'm a sex addict. And she is going to get tested herself today. It's a mess. I wish I was single and I'd hobby with no regrets but I'm not. So now I have to either find a way to quit or I have to be super duper extra careful and maybe even test before I do anything with wife and remember that testing only works if you allow incubation period, otherwise won't show accurate and you can still pass it.

I'm so sorry to hear that.

And prayers that it all works out for the best.

Can I ask what agencies to frequent.

Kp?

Ac?

Just curious as I'd hate to find myself in a similar situation?

Thanks.

Darth.