"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

**SeekingHead** · 07-16-19 09:55

Originally Posted by PeterJohnson [View Original Post]

What do you guys use for talking to these SB prospects, offline from the Seeking website? Obviously, it's not great to be divulging much personal info on the site and especially when you start talking about $ per meet and what you are looking for in return for that financial help. And obviously, it's not great to use your regular phone number for this, especially if it's tied to your name.

I have used TextNow a good bit, but of course the messages are not encrypted and could be possibly traced back to you, especially if you don't use a VPN (which I always do).

You can use a burner phone, but regular SMS is still not secure. I suppose could use Signal on a burner phone, but then your number is still out there and requires and additional phone and monthly fee for minutes, although could just use it for a month and then wifi mode after that, with Signal. But still involves toting around an additional phone. And many girls don't want to give out their numbers either and they aren't going to mess with a burner.

Something like Snapchat, or Kik or Whatsapp doesn't require your phone number to be divulged, but those aren't totally secure either.

I have used Wire app before, and it is good, but apparently does save some metadata. Right now I'm trying Keybase and it is open source, does not require phone number, and is end to end encrypted. Of course no one else seems to use it, but I don't have a problem telling a girl she has to install if she wants to talk to me. If they won't take the time to install a good app that protects their privacy, as well as mine, then maybe not someone I need to talk to. However, I don't like to see so many fall through the cracks because of this too.

I am probably being overly cautious and paranoid here, but I'm convinced that's the way to go at this point. But I'm curious about your thoughts and what you use for off-site messaging.

I use kik, snapchat, & a gmail burner number. This is good for about 99% stealth when contacting SB's & keeping my private life private.

On SA I have my personal info & pay with a normal CC so if a subpoena was issued my info would be available. I don't have a significant other so there is really no fallout from for me regarding this unless it's a paternity test.

**Peter Johnson** · 07-16-19 00:33

What do you guys use for talking to these SB prospects, offline from the Seeking website? Obviously, it's not great to be divulging much personal info on the site and especially when you start talking about $ per meet and what you are looking for in return for that financial help. And obviously, it's not great to use your regular phone number for this, especially if it's tied to your name.

I have used TextNow a good bit, but of course the messages are not encrypted and could be possibly traced back to you, especially if you don't use a VPN (which I always do).

You can use a burner phone, but regular SMS is still not secure. I suppose could use Signal on a burner phone, but then your number is still out there and requires and additional phone and monthly fee for minutes, although could just use it for a month and then wifi mode after that, with Signal. But still involves toting around an additional phone. And many girls don't want to give out their numbers either and they aren't going to mess with a burner.

Something like Snapchat, or Kik or Whatsapp doesn't require your phone number to be divulged, but those aren't totally secure either.

I have used Wire app before, and it is good, but apparently does save some metadata. Right now I'm trying Keybase and it is open source, does not require phone number, and is end to end encrypted. Of course no one else seems to use it, but I don't have a problem telling a girl she has to install if she wants to talk to me. If they won't take the time to install a good app that protects their privacy, as well as mine, then maybe not someone I need to talk to. However, I don't like to see so many fall through the cracks because of this too.

I am probably being overly cautious and paranoid here, but I'm convinced that's the way to go at this point. But I'm curious about your thoughts and what you use for off-site messaging.

**SkyWalker21** · 07-15-19 20:58

Originally Posted by SloMo [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/member/0846b...4-f21098d1dc5e

I talked to her about 6 months ago and she wanted $. 5 I never bit the bullet, seemed like she had a bad attitude back then. Fast forward to this weekend and she messaged saying that she'll settle for $ and come to me but when I reminded her of how I felt about her attitude back then she went silent on me. Claims she just wrecked her car and needs to hustle up on deductible money so I'll say she's very vulnerable right now.

Thanks Johnny and Slo Mo. I had sensed the dark side of the force in the one you guys talked about. She said she would come to me for 100 for an hour. No time for getting a hotel today, but I might use her in a pinch one day.

Skywalker.

**Slo Mo** · 07-15-19 20:42

So I just blocked some dumb bird, asked me for my number in the 2nd message. I wish I knew how to post a screenshot of my text log smh, anyways we're texting and she tells me that it's $50 to meet and that she just made a nasty video LOL and that's $25. So I had the time today and I lit into her / his ass telling them that every other profile is doing the same thing but your approach has been the weakest game that I've seen so far LOL. I then tell them that they sounded like they live in the projects or apartments with roommates guaranteed LOL. They then get mad and go on yo tell me that it's a team of them that are sitting around behind bunk profiles trying to rip people off etc. And trying to brag about the crap! Anyways I should've saved the link so I could post it but the name on it is Kat_blossom. Just don't be a fool guys and fall for the okie doke, seems like it's open season these days more so than ever.

**Johnny Mapalo** · 07-15-19 16:43

Originally Posted by SkyWalker21 [View Original Post]

Good Day,

I'm looking into adding some new talent to the pool, and wondering if any of you guys have any intel?

https://www.seeking.com/member/18ced...b-0d1f3d1e973a

Just started chatting it up with her. Haven't talked money, trying to meet and smash (Oops greet) this week, if my schedule frees up.

https://www.seeking.com/member/0846b...4-f21098d1dc5e

This one looks familiar, like I've seen her on the Escort sites (eh).

https://www.seeking.com/member/f175c...1-396f9c9bff5e

Haven't moved to text with this one yet. Will see where it goes.

https://www.seeking.com/member/a47f1...f-5a638ee0f206

Here is another that looks familiar. Perhaps one of you is or has pounded it?

Thanks for any Intel.

Skywalker.

A couple of those chic's messaged me before, but the conversation went nowhere, so I went nowhere with them.

This chic below just messaged me earlier today. She text me her phone number this afternoon and when I text her she told me that her birthday was yesterday and I lived too far. Heh? I figure she's texting someone else while texting me. Her attitude seemed stink though. I'll pass on her ass. Some desperate simp will take her up on her offer.

https://www.seeking.com/member/0846b...4-f21098d1dc5e

**Slo Mo** · 07-15-19 15:05

Originally Posted by SkyWalker21 [View Original Post]

Good Day,

I'm looking into adding some new talent to the pool, and wondering if any of you guys have any intel?

https://www.seeking.com/member/18ced...b-0d1f3d1e973a

Just started chatting it up with her. Haven't talked money, trying to meet and smash (Oops greet) this week, if my schedule frees up.

https://www.seeking.com/member/0846b...4-f21098d1dc5e

This one looks familiar, like I've seen her on the Escort sites (eh).

https://www.seeking.com/member/f175c...1-396f9c9bff5e

Haven't moved to text with this one yet. Will see where it goes.

https://www.seeking.com/member/a47f1...f-5a638ee0f206

Here is another that looks familiar. Perhaps one of you is or has pounded it?

Thanks for any Intel.

Skywalker.

https://www.seeking.com/member/0846b...4-f21098d1dc5e

I talked to her about 6 months ago and she wanted $. 5 I never bit the bullet, seemed like she had a bad attitude back then. Fast forward to this weekend and she messaged saying that she'll settle for $ and come to me but when I reminded her of how I felt about her attitude back then she went silent on me. Claims she just wrecked her car and needs to hustle up on deductible money so I'll say she's very vulnerable right now.

**SkyWalker21** · 07-15-19 14:41

Good Day,

I'm looking into adding some new talent to the pool, and wondering if any of you guys have any intel?

https://www.seeking.com/member/18ced...b-0d1f3d1e973a

Just started chatting it up with her. Haven't talked money, trying to meet and smash (Oops greet) this week, if my schedule frees up.

https://www.seeking.com/member/0846b...4-f21098d1dc5e

This one looks familiar, like I've seen her on the Escort sites (eh).

https://www.seeking.com/member/f175c...1-396f9c9bff5e

Haven't moved to text with this one yet. Will see where it goes.

https://www.seeking.com/member/a47f1...f-5a638ee0f206

Here is another that looks familiar. Perhaps one of you is or has pounded it?

Thanks for any Intel.

Skywalker.

**Thunderbolt27** · 07-15-19 11:47

If anybody is thinking about having a sugar relationship with somebody you may know personally, then you need to read this.

https://old.reddit.com/r/sugarlifest...rst_overnight/

**Thunderbolt27** · 07-15-19 11:33

https://old.reddit.com/r/sugarlifest...oing_straight/

This is one of the SB's that responded in the other reddit forum. I clicked on her profile and found this. Interesting reading and helps to gain some insight.

**Tartus100** · 07-15-19 11:28

Originally Posted by AtlantaJC [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/member/f5ad3...c-265a1cff6030 - this one is fun to talk to. Not the girl in the pic but she's still cute. She's married and not looking to get into your pocket too much. $$$ plus the room and she's good to do whatever you want. Doesn't like to kiss and not the best BBBJ but can take a pounding pretty good.

https://www.seeking.com/messages/inb...f-95c25214f7c2 - easy to reach and will probably go as low as $$ plus will go to any cheap room. Works nights and is a pretty good kisser & a good time. Don't give out too much personal info to her as she told me all about a couple of her regulars that made it really easy to identify who they were. Likes to take and send nude pics to you as well.

https://www.seeking.com/member/93462...e-f334c59842ac - infamous Tara. Avoid her sister and probably would recommend avoiding her also. She was fun at one time. Now you can have her for almost nothing up to $$ depending on the day.

I'm about done with a few others that I will share soon. If anyone has any experience with any of these below I would love to hear about it:

https://www.seeking.com/member/6874c...a-737761ce9f23

https://www.seeking.com/member/07dae...4-9b493c5e85e4

https://www.seeking.com/member/8fd13...3-a81fcaf29cc2

I saw the married one like few months ago, she lives on north side of atlanta. You are spot on. I probably was one of the first ones to see her, she was still shy and warming up to the idea. She does take a good pounding but was very disappointed with out BBBJ or kissing.

I spoke to Atlbelle223 but we never agreed on a meet. She is pretty slow to respond. I don't have the patience to wait for weeks so never worked out.

I did Sales_Short_Sweet but she never responded to me. Let me know if you meet her.

**Thunderbolt27** · 07-15-19 11:25

Your second link-the one that works nights-would not come up for me. Could you pass along her username?

I have exchanged pictures and messages with Sophie but that was a month ago. I sent the last message and she "read" it. I felt it was interesting enough to respond to but she didn't.

ATLBelle. She sent me her cell number. I have not reached out to her yet. That was several weeks ago. I was able to google her number and learn that she is a real estate agent. She's a bit naive to be sharing her personal / work cell number on dating sites.

Originally Posted by AtlantaJC [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/member/f5ad3...c-265a1cff6030 - this one is fun to talk to. Not the girl in the pic but she's still cute. She's married and not looking to get into your pocket too much. $$$ plus the room and she's good to do whatever you want. Doesn't like to kiss and not the best BBBJ but can take a pounding pretty good.

https://www.seeking.com/messages/inb...f-95c25214f7c2 - easy to reach and will probably go as low as $$ plus will go to any cheap room. Works nights and is a pretty good kisser & a good time. Don't give out too much personal info to her as she told me all about a couple of her regulars that made it really easy to identify who they were. Likes to take and send nude pics to you as well.

https://www.seeking.com/member/93462...e-f334c59842ac - infamous Tara. Avoid her sister and probably would recommend avoiding her also. She was fun at one time. Now you can have her for almost nothing up to $$ depending on the day.

I'm about done with a few others that I will share soon. If anyone has any experience with any of these below I would love to hear about it:

https://www.seeking.com/member/6874c...a-737761ce9f23

https://www.seeking.com/member/07dae...4-9b493c5e85e4

https://www.seeking.com/member/8fd13...3-a81fcaf29cc2

**Peter Johnson** · 07-15-19 09:01

Originally Posted by SeekingHead [View Original Post]

Thought this was interesting, it's off of reddit and somebody took the time to actively chart the amount of SD to SB ratio.

We are in good shape in Atlanta. There are 602 active premium SD's to 8437 SB's a 14.0 to 1 ratio.

https://old.reddit.com/r/sugarlifest...atios_by_city/

Very interesting. This seems to be one of the best markets for SD mongers. Got to love to be on the right side of supply and demand.

**CagerCoach** · 07-15-19 01:21

This one reached out today after about 3 months of silence. Talked like everything is on the menu and she wants an allowance per meet. She said she has had two SD and they were both long term. Not too sure about that since she's 18. She said she gets $400 per visit twice a week. Who on here is one of those two guys? I told her an 18 year old girl isn't worth $400 per visit. She told me I should leave the site and leave it for real Sugar Daddies. Any info.

https://www.seeking.com/member/b022a...a-80b4a7569c75

**Atlanta JC** · 07-14-19 23:10

https://www.seeking.com/member/f5ad3...c-265a1cff6030 - this one is fun to talk to. Not the girl in the pic but she's still cute. She's married and not looking to get into your pocket too much. $$$ plus the room and she's good to do whatever you want. Doesn't like to kiss and not the best BBBJ but can take a pounding pretty good.

https://www.seeking.com/messages/inb...f-95c25214f7c2 - easy to reach and will probably go as low as $$ plus will go to any cheap room. Works nights and is a pretty good kisser & a good time. Don't give out too much personal info to her as she told me all about a couple of her regulars that made it really easy to identify who they were. Likes to take and send nude pics to you as well.

https://www.seeking.com/member/93462...e-f334c59842ac - infamous Tara. Avoid her sister and probably would recommend avoiding her also. She was fun at one time. Now you can have her for almost nothing up to $$ depending on the day.

I'm about done with a few others that I will share soon. If anyone has any experience with any of these below I would love to hear about it:

https://www.seeking.com/member/6874c...a-737761ce9f23

https://www.seeking.com/member/07dae...4-9b493c5e85e4

https://www.seeking.com/member/8fd13...3-a81fcaf29cc2

**Slo Mo** · 07-14-19 17:37

https://www.seeking.com/member/3c598...f-e9f4106ebdaf

So I had this one about 6 months or so ago. She came over to my place one night but I had a lot going on at the time. I had a house full of out of town guests and it was not the best look on my part but it was what it was. Anywho she came over and didn't even mention anything about money prior to coming nor did she bring it up while she was at my place. As far as looks, her pics are dead on and she may even look better than the pics honestly! Sadly not much went down and don't ask me why, I don't know WTF happened LOL. But I'm sick as shit because she won't even shit my way anymore so I'm tossing her to the dogs! LOL Only helpful information / tips that I can offer is she acts and responds like an airhead but she's not slow, I don't know what it was but she maneuvered kinda weird for some reason but she's cute asf! Anyways if anyone has any luck I would love to hear what I missed out on smh.