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**FarFarAway** · 02-05-21 15:55

Originally Posted by PussyPumper [View Original Post]

1st. She rules herself out, I don't have photos.

2nd. I loath tattoos.

3rd. Has cats.

4th. Says nothing, nothing a all, about herself or what she wants.

I looked at that last profile, I'd consider her a good prospect (for what I am looking for). The lack of content is not a problem. To me that indicates pliability. When I am messaging with a girl, I can tell her what I am looking for / or persuade her that what I typically do is good for her. Pliability to me means fun in the sack, so many of the real SBs are submissive, they want to know what will please you. Even when they don't say that in their profiles. This one doesn't have any of the real strong tells for subs that I look for, but still, I'd definitely spend some time on that one if I were in SD county. She's cute, just that one tat, she's not out on the stroll.

**PussyPumper** · 02-05-21 15:51

Originally Posted by RyanE36 [View Original Post]

And yeah, not sure if it was a scam or not, but wanted $550 plus uber. Could bring a friend for another 550.

What is everyone's thoughts on the girls that don't talk about money, they tend to be a little flirty, and after a few days of chatting say they want to meet. No mention of money / allowance or anything. In my mind, they put on the appearance that they're actually interested in you. My guess, not being a pro at SA, is that they're realistic about how this works. I'm decent looking, so I got that going for me I guess. But at least one of these girls is all like "you seem like a great guy, I don't get why you're on this site". "I'd love to meet you sometime. " That last message was yesterday, I responded back interested in meeting as well, but she hasn't been online since.

This is all quite usual.

Key $$ point is that asks are just that. An opening bid, in hopes of catching a whale. Most of these women will settle for at least half off of list price. (Not all, but most).

As for those that don't talk money straight off. Those are the best ones, the real, traditional SBs! Any girl who talks money in first or second message is obviously pro or semi-pro.

**PussyPumper** · 02-05-21 15:45

Originally Posted by Waxxon [View Original Post]

Received some responses from these Pot. Haven't closed deal, or ironing out details, playing some message tag.

https://www.seeking.com/member/23a15...b-99b7f8cd9a29

https://www.seeking.com/member/cb5d6...9-28553d8c49cb

https://www.seeking.com/member/d4575...5-60598a47e15b

https://www.seeking.com/member/8af1d...4-80913eeafb3f

1st. She rules herself out, I don't have photos.

2nd. I loath tattoos.

3rd. Has cats.

4th. Says nothing, nothing a all, about herself or what she wants.

**KingBaby** · 02-05-21 15:06

Originally Posted by Waxxon [View Original Post]

Received some responses from these Pot. Haven't closed deal, or ironing out details, playing some message tag.

https://www.seeking.com/member/23a15...b-99b7f8cd9a29

https://www.seeking.com/member/cb5d6...9-28553d8c49cb

https://www.seeking.com/member/d4575...5-60598a47e15b

https://www.seeking.com/member/8af1d...4-80913eeafb3f

The 1st 1, Alicat619, seems like she's spamming lots of people.

**Waxxon** · 02-05-21 14:04

Received some responses from these Pot. Haven't closed deal, or ironing out details, playing some message tag.

https://www.seeking.com/member/23a15...b-99b7f8cd9a29

https://www.seeking.com/member/cb5d6...9-28553d8c49cb

https://www.seeking.com/member/d4575...5-60598a47e15b

https://www.seeking.com/member/8af1d...4-80913eeafb3f

**Waxxon** · 02-05-21 13:52

Originally Posted by PussyPumper [View Original Post]

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Just another fake who was trying to stiff anyone foolish enough to give her $.

**Koolbeans** · 02-05-21 13:46

Originally Posted by RyanE36 [View Original Post]

Thanks for the tip Textfree was super easy to set up.

And yeah, not sure if it was a scam or not, but wanted $550 plus uber. Could bring a friend for another 550.

What is everyone's thoughts on the girls that don't talk about money, they tend to be a little flirty, and after a few days of chatting say they want to meet. No mention of money / allowance or anything. In my mind, they put on the appearance that they're actually interested in you. My guess, not being a pro at SA, is that they're realistic about how this works. I'm decent looking, so I got that going for me I guess. But at least one of these girls is all like "you seem like a great guy, I don't get why you're on this site". "I'd love to meet you sometime. " That last message was yesterday, I responded back interested in meeting as well, but she hasn't been online since.

Anyone ever meet & greet and just have a nice time, paid for the coffee or whatever, but nothing else came out of it and no other money lost? I've seen a few profiles saying they're interested in something leading to marriage, and one girl said her best friend just got engaged from the site, so she's also hoping to find a long term relationship. I have no plans on meeting up with ether of them.

I am sure you could find someone and they might be genuinely interested in you, but don't get married in CA. Community property state and divorce is half plus child support if you have any. I'm going through it at the moment and going to cost mid 6 figures. I've been on dates for lunch and dinner to gauge interest, but most seem to be interested in just talking. No money out of my pocket other than paying for the meal and time. I would never pay them in advance or just to meet like another poster mentioned that he doesn't pay until panties are off or after deed as another one had a runner. I've found that it takes too much of my time to coordinate on SA and have my regulars that offer GFE and are available with no games. I'll keep trying to find an ideal arrangement, but it is just a dream in my head at the moment. I can't wait to get the vaccine and travel again. I might try out Medellin in the future.

**RyanE36** · 02-05-21 11:10

Originally Posted by PussyPumper [View Original Post]

Either.

A. Scam, or.

B. Desperate. It is start of month, and rent is due or overdue! But beware, the desperate can often turn out to be robs (typically runners).

You really should get a burner number. Textfree and Google voice are both free options, though I personally avoid Google, as they are too good at connecting dots. If you give them a burner number, you can then sit back and see if they ask for cashapp or money in advance, in which case it is a scam for sure. If not then may be desperate - but they are notorious for robs.

In general, I tend to avoid the meet today types, as probably either scam or robs. However, I do talk to them, both to improve my knowledge base, and who knows, if there are no other red flags, you may have found a genuine girl who simply needs some assistance right away.

You can also post links to profiles here, for a second opinion.

Thanks for the tip Textfree was super easy to set up.

And yeah, not sure if it was a scam or not, but wanted $550 plus uber. Could bring a friend for another 550.

What is everyone's thoughts on the girls that don't talk about money, they tend to be a little flirty, and after a few days of chatting say they want to meet. No mention of money / allowance or anything. In my mind, they put on the appearance that they're actually interested in you. My guess, not being a pro at SA, is that they're realistic about how this works. I'm decent looking, so I got that going for me I guess. But at least one of these girls is all like "you seem like a great guy, I don't get why you're on this site". "I'd love to meet you sometime. " That last message was yesterday, I responded back interested in meeting as well, but she hasn't been online since.

Anyone ever meet & greet and just have a nice time, paid for the coffee or whatever, but nothing else came out of it and no other money lost? I've seen a few profiles saying they're interested in something leading to marriage, and one girl said her best friend just got engaged from the site, so she's also hoping to find a long term relationship. I have no plans on meeting up with ether of them.

**PussyPumper** · 02-03-21 17:44

Originally Posted by Waxxon [View Original Post]

Got a response, some texting and set up a meet up with https://www.seeking.com/member/a49dd...2-11807cd5fed1 Started to discuss details, and she is asking for 450/ mo for 2 dates. Not bad, not bad. As I clarify the terms, I ask about FC. She says after a month or so when she is comfortable and there is a connection. OK, sure and I'm not comfortable giving allowance until you are comfortable earning it. No hunny, no munny. Starts complaining that guys always give her ppm just for dinner dates. Then go ahead, go to all those other guys. Hit her up guys and let her know how the bowl works.

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**Pay to Play** · 02-03-21 14:05

Originally Posted by Waxxon [View Original Post]

Was in contact with another Pot this weekend. Got to negotiating, I inquired how much is she asking for. Her response, whatever I can afford. What? She can't be serious. I offer 150 and she says "awesome" Now I'm really suspicious of the situation. We set up a date and then she hits me up for cashapp. Haha. I don't have cashapp and ask what's wrong with cash. Gives me the same sob story I heard a couple weeks ago. Someone gave her counterfeit money and men can't be trusted. She asks for half up front before meeting. LOL with that, ghosts me and blocks me. User I'd is xlaxvidaxlocax beware of this scam. Never give $ up front before meeting unless you like throwing money away.

If it sounds to good to be true it likely is. What you have described here are common scams. Never give money before you meet and I don't pay until we are naked or after the deed. You learn the hardway in this game and you will be burned. Accept that as a risk. But try to protect yourself and limit your exposure. That's why I would never invite a new girl to my place. Be smart and be willing to walk away if it doesn't feel right. I have turned and walked a few times even after entering the room.

**PussyPumper** · 02-03-21 02:03

Originally Posted by RyanE36 [View Original Post]

Getting a bunch of girls with hot pics messaging me and asking for my number saying they want to meet up tonight. I respond back with something other than my number and they start trying to entice me to give them my number saying they'll start texting me pics and stuff if I send it to them, or that they'll be able to meet tonight if I send them their number. Some look pretty hot, but I'm assuming they're fake pics? I've got a second phone number, but it's not exactly a burner phone that I don't mind throwing away the number for.

Am I right to assume it's some sort of scam? Especially since some of these girls are a good distance aways?

Either.

A. Scam, or.

B. Desperate. It is start of month, and rent is due or overdue! But beware, the desperate can often turn out to be robs (typically runners).

You really should get a burner number. Textfree and Google voice are both free options, though I personally avoid Google, as they are too good at connecting dots. If you give them a burner number, you can then sit back and see if they ask for cashapp or money in advance, in which case it is a scam for sure. If not then may be desperate - but they are notorious for robs.

In general, I tend to avoid the meet today types, as probably either scam or robs. However, I do talk to them, both to improve my knowledge base, and who knows, if there are no other red flags, you may have found a genuine girl who simply needs some assistance right away.

You can also post links to profiles here, for a second opinion.

**RyanE36** · 02-03-21 01:37

Getting a bunch of girls with hot pics messaging me and asking for my number saying they want to meet up tonight. I respond back with something other than my number and they start trying to entice me to give them my number saying they'll start texting me pics and stuff if I send it to them, or that they'll be able to meet tonight if I send them their number. Some look pretty hot, but I'm assuming they're fake pics? I've got a second phone number, but it's not exactly a burner phone that I don't mind throwing away the number for.

Am I right to assume it's some sort of scam? Especially since some of these girls are a good distance aways?

**Waxxon** · 02-03-21 00:59

Got a response, some texting and set up a meet up with https://www.seeking.com/member/a49dd...2-11807cd5fed1 Started to discuss details, and she is asking for 450/ mo for 2 dates. Not bad, not bad. As I clarify the terms, I ask about FC. She says after a month or so when she is comfortable and there is a connection. OK, sure and I'm not comfortable giving allowance until you are comfortable earning it. No hunny, no munny. Starts complaining that guys always give her ppm just for dinner dates. Then go ahead, go to all those other guys. Hit her up guys and let her know how the bowl works.

**Waxxon** · 02-01-21 22:51

Was in contact with another Pot this weekend. Got to negotiating, I inquired how much is she asking for. Her response, whatever I can afford. What? She can't be serious. I offer 150 and she says "awesome" Now I'm really suspicious of the situation. We set up a date and then she hits me up for cashapp. Haha. I don't have cashapp and ask what's wrong with cash. Gives me the same sob story I heard a couple weeks ago. Someone gave her counterfeit money and men can't be trusted. She asks for half up front before meeting. LOL with that, ghosts me and blocks me. User I'd is xlaxvidaxlocax beware of this scam. Never give $ up front before meeting unless you like throwing money away.

**HelloYouAre** · 01-31-21 17:45

Originally Posted by KingBaby [View Original Post]

More importantly: How much was the admission?

Four of my Benjamin Franklin buddies. Yeah I'm on the younger side so I'm sure her ad that says 40 or under is what she's looking for too. I just enjoy sharing the good ones I find. I might give her a call this week for round 2.