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[Rumbln]

I decided to take your advice when a woman I had a m&g with back in the summer all of a sudden texted me out of the blue the other day. We had set up a second meeting back then but when she cancelled it I never contacted her again. Since she contacted me interested in continuing where we left off I decided to go your route and just never mention anything about finances. We arranged to meet at her nice Beavercreek apartment by the Greene and she had me take care of her obvious needs which I fulfilled for a couple of hours and then was on my way. She is already asking for a return engagement which I am sure I will be glad to oblige. Granted she is in her early 40's and a little heavier than I might like, but she is still attractive and has huge tracts of land and the sex was great so who am I to pass that up.

Glad that you found one!

[CarGuy63]

Has anyone found unicorns on seeking besides me? I've had an overnight at my place with two different girls who never mentioned an allowance but gave me all the sugar I could handle. One is a 24 year old from Oxford who was a little bit chunkier than the pic she sent but I still had a great time.

I decided to take your advice when a woman I had a m&g with back in the summer all of a sudden texted me out of the blue the other day. We had set up a second meeting back then but when she cancelled it I never contacted her again. Since she contacted me interested in continuing where we left off I decided to go your route and just never mention anything about finances. We arranged to meet at her nice Beavercreek apartment by the Greene and she had me take care of her obvious needs which I fulfilled for a couple of hours and then was on my way. She is already asking for a return engagement which I am sure I will be glad to oblige. Granted she is in her early 40's and a little heavier than I might like, but she is still attractive and has huge tracts of land and the sex was great so who am I to pass that up.

[Touche09]

Does anyone have any info on her?

Might be meeting up soon.

https://www.seeking.com/member/3754ee6c-a7f1-49d3-8072-1d6f2d9a99fa

[BamBam]

I have not met her but got to her private pictures under an earlier profile. She closer to 44 than 34 and heavier than her carefully posed public pictures let on. Possibly UTR.

BAM.

https://www.seeking.com/member/f6d2c...1-a56b90364aa4

Anyone have any info?

[KentHom]

https://www.seeking.com/member/f6d2c...1-a56b90364aa4

Anyone have any info?

GPS may be an issue, she quoted me something ridiculous. If she camd down ibwould definitely see her.

[WarlockKy]

https://www.seeking.com/member/f6d2c...1-a56b90364aa4

Anyone have any info?

[CatFever]

You seem to be viewing these scenarios under the misconception that I agreed to arrangements and then didn't hold up my end of the bargain. Let me fill in some blanks to ease your troubled mind. The first two girls that I met from SA wanted ppm at a fair rate. I saw one once and the other five times, paying the agreed upon amount each time. The third girl that I met invited herself over after we'd texted and talked for two weeks under the guise of being bored and wanting to watch college football with me. During our talks, she inquired about a weekly or monthly allowance but I told her that I was new to SA and had decided that weekly or monthly allowances was not for me. I took her at her word that she just wanted to hang as a friend and who knows, maybe more. After three hours of fun and flirty conversation, she straddled me and said, "Let's talk business. What kind of weekly allowance are you comfortable with?" I explained again that I didn't like that concept and she left about an hour later.

Fast forward to the two girls that I'm being attacked over for seeing for "free". The Oxford girl asked if I'd pick her up and take her back to my place to drink, hang out, and spend the night. Remembering girl #3, I asked, "So you really just want to hang out with me because you like me?, rather incredulously. She replied "yes" along with some other cute talk that I don't recall. I picked her up and saw that she weighed about 150 lbs instead of the 120 that she claimed on her profile and appeared to be in her profile pic. That pic turned out to be from a few years ago according to what I later saw on her FB. She had refused my requests to send a verification pic with a long winded explanation but I went ahead with the date since she wasn't asking for an allowance figuring that all I had to lose was a little time and gasoline. She is still very pretty and since she's tall, she isn't fat, and not quite bbw, but she doesn't have the body type that I'm most attracted to. Because of her lively personality, I was confident that we'd have fun, so I rolled with it. After our fun date and sleepover, she texted off and on for three weeks wanting to hang out again but I always had excuses as to why I couldn't. I prefer petite and athletic builds and didn't want to lead her on. I also found an arrest record online stating that she was four years older than she claimed to be. So I ask, who scammed who in this instance?.

Bravo! Well played, respectfully.

[Rumbln]

With this attitude you're as bad as the Girls who scam rinse and steal from guys they meet. I'm not the only one who thinks this on here either. Treat the girls with a little more respect. At least the amount you'd want. You'd be bashing a girl if she took your money and then left without following through on her end.

You seem to be viewing these scenarios under the misconception that I agreed to arrangements and then didn't hold up my end of the bargain. Let me fill in some blanks to ease your troubled mind. The first two girls that I met from SA wanted ppm at a fair rate. I saw one once and the other five times, paying the agreed upon amount each time. The third girl that I met invited herself over after we'd texted and talked for two weeks under the guise of being bored and wanting to watch college football with me. During our talks, she inquired about a weekly or monthly allowance but I told her that I was new to SA and had decided that weekly or monthly allowances was not for me. I took her at her word that she just wanted to hang as a friend and who knows, maybe more. After three hours of fun and flirty conversation, she straddled me and said, "Let's talk business. What kind of weekly allowance are you comfortable with?" I explained again that I didn't like that concept and she left about an hour later.

Fast forward to the two girls that I'm being attacked over for seeing for "free". The Oxford girl asked if I'd pick her up and take her back to my place to drink, hang out, and spend the night. Remembering girl #3, I asked, "So you really just want to hang out with me because you like me?”, rather incredulously. She replied "yes" along with some other cute talk that I don't recall. I picked her up and saw that she weighed about 150 lbs instead of the 120 that she claimed on her profile and appeared to be in her profile pic. That pic turned out to be from a few years ago according to what I later saw on her FB. She had refused my requests to send a verification pic with a long winded explanation but I went ahead with the date since she wasn't asking for an allowance figuring that all I had to lose was a little time and gasoline. She is still very pretty and since she's tall, she isn't fat, and not quite bbw, but she doesn't have the body type that I'm most attracted to. Because of her lively personality, I was confident that we'd have fun, so I rolled with it. After our fun date and sleepover, she texted off and on for three weeks wanting to hang out again but I always had excuses as to why I couldn't. I prefer petite and athletic builds and didn't want to lead her on. I also found an arrest record online stating that she was four years older than she claimed to be. So I ask, who scammed who in this instance?

As for the Dayton girl, we hit it off immediately via texting and formed a real connection. We both said that it felt like a potential dating relationship and not one involving the exchange of money for time we might spend together. When I invited her to dinner followed by hanging out at my place if she was comfortable, she accepted. Again, remembering girl #3, I asked the same question and she replied "yes" followed by some cute talk that I do remember but will not share. I have continued to see her when our schedules permit and when I offered to help her with a bill that she casually mentioned, she declined and said that she would feel funny accepting money from me.

And so, back to my original point, which has been misinterpreted as a means of taking advantage of poor, helpless, naive young girls, there ARE young women who DO genuinely enjoy the company of older men and while they are rare, I've found them irl and more recently, on SA. If you're accusing me of singlehandedly undermining SA and running off girls that you might have the opportunity to meet, then you are giving me far too much credit. I'm not recommending this strategy as a modus operandi, but rather offering my experiences so that others will be aware that such "arrangements" are a possibility. When I asked the Oxford girl why she likes older men, she replied, “Because they're better at sex.”

As for respect for women on SA, how is dicking a girl down from her stated need, as you bragged about on the Cincinnati thread in posts 4191 and 4187 (page 2) signs of respect? You didn't call this guy out for doing the same thing that I did as he stated 3/4 of the way into report 3546 (page 45 of the Cincinnati thread) in the paragraph starting with "As context". *My apologies, everyone, but I could not get the hyperlinks to work correctly* Granted, he provided a little more context than I did in my original posts but it’s the exact same thing. There's nothing wrong with utilizing SA as a regular dating site in certain situations, such as when there's a real spark, and when both parties are 100% in agreement.

[MikeStud513]

Oh no! If they leave the site then there might not be 100 more signing up that same same day to take their place! And sure, when we're dealing with hookers we can't take them at their word but this girl is believable. Let us know when you turn down free pussy so we can all pat you on the back.

With this attitude you're as bad as the Girls who scam rinse and steal from guys they meet. I'm not the only one who thinks this on here either. Treat the girls with a little more respect. At least the amount you'd want. You'd be bashing a girl if she took your money and then left without following through on her end.

[Rumbln]

Otherwise they're likely to leave the site because they'll feel like they were taken advantage of. Also, if you think any girl is telling the truth when they say theyre only seeing you that is a lie 99% of the time. Id never take a girl at their word on BC either

Oh no! If they leave the site then there might not be 100 more signing up that same same day to take their place! And sure, when we're dealing with hookers we can't take them at their word but this girl is believable. Let us know when you turn down free pussy so we can all pat you on the back.

[MikeStud513]

Has anyone found unicorns on seeking besides me? I've had an overnight at my place with two different girls who never mentioned an allowance but gave me all the sugar I could handle. One is a 24 year old from Oxford who was a little bit chunkier than the pic she sent but I still had a great time.

The other is a super cute 21 year old spinner from Dayton with whom I had the best sex of my life. Or at least close to it. I think that our most recent encounters tend to overshadow past experiences. With that said, she was so tight that she gripped my manhood like no other that I can recall. Plus she made a lot of eye contact throughout and made the sexiest little whimpering noises. And she rode me like a champ when it was her turn to take the reigns. We banged one out then fell asleep with her curling up beside me still naked. We woke up around 3 am and I initiated round 2 which was very nice. We then had round 3 before I drove her home. She said she is on birth control and that I'm the only guy she's met off of the site so CIP each time. I have plans to see her again very soon.

Sorry but maybe it's just me but in my opinion this is messed up. Even if they don't mention an allowance we should still give them something. Otherwise they're likely to leave the site because they'll feel like they were taken advantage of. Also, if you think any girl is telling the truth when they say they’re only seeing you that is a lie 99% of the time. I’d never take a girl at their word on BC either

[ATrueHobbyist]

Do any of you Dating Site Aficionados recognize this young beautiful lady?

PMs are fine.

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[ATrueHobbyist]

Do any of you Dating Site Aficionados recognize this young beautiful lady?

PMs are fine.

[RickMann]

https://www.seeking.com/member/afce4...f-feb8c5515ae1

Anyone have any info on this one?

[Bkbh1]

I found both around 3 weeks into my 1st month's membership. Oxford was about a week of texting every day with a few calls mixed in. I started texting Dayton on a Monday and had her at my place on Friday of that week. As for sharing her info, sorry but I might take Dayton off the market if things work out. She's a sweetheart. I was just throwing out the concept that if you don't lead with or bring up allowances, there's a chance that you will hit it off with a girl and she'll feel like she's being courted vs purchased and want to explore things gratis. Win, win!

It does take some work, but that is the magic button. Make them feel courted. My current gal is just 21, a very tight spinner, and loves to perform PSE for me. Hunting a 3rd for us now.

A couple that have been referenced on here just in the last few months were also my gals, that got off SA, and only had me as their Daddy. They still fucked boys / girls their own age. Most stayed sober for a year plus, but the attraction to the bottle or needle took them away.

When that happens, they go straight to whoring. Sad.