Sugar Baby Guide

[PrivateParts]

Needs to be aware of this. … need to be aware os is pimeyes.com. Facial recognition search engine. Much more accurate than Google. …

Thanks Jay for the warning. Sites like Seeking and Secret Benefits are ripe with fake profiles and scammers so be careful how you navigate then. Here are some thoughts on how to assess your risk before sharing personal info:

In my endeavors I'm suspect of any profile that only has 1-2 sentence descriptions. New young & hot profiles pop up daily with very generic descriptions and a willingness to meet anyone (I. E. With no criteria on what the type of man they want to meet). Many will use tired tropes like "here for a good time not a long time", or post pictures from exotic locations inconsistent with their self description of a struggling college student. If the pictures look like they were posted on instagram or Facebook (and not selfies) then they probably were stolen. Most of these profiles are just looking for men to throw money at them, but some could be more sinister and try to get your identity and blackmail you if you are married as Jay warns.

The difference between escorts and a real woman on a Sugar site looking for a little extra is that escorts will see anybody. I want the ones who won't just see anybody. The ante for a true SB is establishing trust and the table stakes are greater. If you come across too protective or paranoid you likely will miss out. It's a delicate balance.

If you've read all the posts this may sound repetitive but worth repeating:

1. Don't use your real phone number, or give out your full name.

2. Try to get her number first before you talk terms but also before sharing personal info so you can.

3. Check her number on numlookup. Com and other sites. If it comes back as a VOIP, then she is likely either experienced in pay for play or a scammer. If the search comes back with a name now you have something to cross reference with to know she's at least real. Often I can find her on Facebook or linked and see unfiltered pics.

4. If you are unsure request a posed confirmation selfie exchange or video call as soon as you can without coming across as too pushy. Do it as fun & flirty way, not demand it, but get her to send you a unique pic first before you give up your face.

5. Don't use ANY pictures of yourself that can be found on social media or try to alter your normal look (remove glasses, where a hat, don't take it with your home in background, and not in your favorite shirt).

I catch tons of fake profiles but it doesn't mean if you verify she is a real woman you might not still get scammed or ghosted. Part of the gamble with SBs is knowing when to be more personal and open or even gift up front to separate you from all the other paranoid men asking her to jump through hoops or meet for free. Risk & reward. But as Clark W Griswald would say, "it's all part of the experience Russ".

[Broadway Jay]

Needs to be aware of this. It was reported in the Richmond thread but I wanted to share it here for our benefit.

The sure you need to be aware os is pimeyes.com. Facial recognition search engine. Much more accurate than Google.

If you have any kind of internet presence from work or social media you are vulnerable to this.

I just took a selfie that is nowhere on the internet, ran it on pimeyes, and it pulled up five websites I am on IRL.

Very scary. I never used real pics on my SA profile but occasionally I will text a face pic. Never again.

[Portols]

Good luck with Blackrosebelle, she's not cheap at all, she's at least $2 k, I've talked to Sashayed but didn't lead to anything. Seems like waters are a little cold right now, although I did see a return from last year so I think I'll hit her up. Happy fishing.

From what Blackrosebelle quoted me a few months back the 2 k would have been for 5 visits in a month with here being able to l host.

My message to Sasha went unread so I don't have anything on here or the other girl.

[Anonwmlatam]

Only logged-in SA members can see these (perhaps that's the point).

Good luck with Blackrosebelle, she's not cheap at all, she's at least $2 k, I've talked to Sashayed but didn't lead to anything. Seems like waters are a little cold right now, although I did see a return from last year so I think I'll hit her up. Happy fishing.

[OliverTwist500]

Anyone have the inside scoops on any of these ladies?

Babyyaz92: https://members.seeking.com/member/8...e-eb424af5cd6f.

Shadhayed: https://members.seeking.com/member/1...8-6af47dc0bc3c.

Blackrosebelle: https://members.seeking.com/member/a...6-eee7ac3e8838.

Only logged-in SA members can see these (perhaps that's the point).

[Mike Yepthatsm]

Anyone have the inside scoops on any of these ladies?

Babyyaz92: https://members.seeking.com/member/8...e-eb424af5cd6f.

Shadhayed: https://members.seeking.com/member/1...8-6af47dc0bc3c.

Blackrosebelle: https://members.seeking.com/member/a...6-eee7ac3e8838.

[Bth9318]

I have info on a few sugar babies who actually will have sex. I also have info on time wasters, and platonics etc. I have 2 that I know will fuck. I just don't have the time or money to see three regularly. I do have a regular but always looking to mix it up. I'm on secret benefits and I hate wasting credits on b. S. Ads and time wasters. So maybe we can help each other out. Pm me.

[NCSmokehouse]

When I am away on business, I use excuses like I am heading to the gym, then the sauna, or that I am grabbing a few drinks with a coworker, or use an excuse that will tie me up for a few hours, golf, disc golf, movie, whatever. Honestly, most of the sb won't give a shit if you have to answer the occasional text while you are with them. They know you are there on business and not going to be a permanent thing, so not like they are going to get jealous.

Agree wholeheartedly. A few days to a week before a business trip, search for sugar babies that are to your liking. A simple message that you will be coming to town for business from x to why day / dates and looking to meet up with a sugar baby during your visit. Add a call to action message, 'LMK if you'd be interested in getting together for an arrangement. ' You'd be surprised as to how many SB's prefer this arrangement. Many SB's who prefer these ST arrangements as there SD's on business trips are less controlling and less demanding.

[VetteMan6981]

When I am away on business, I use excuses like I am heading to the gym, then the sauna, or that I am grabbing a few drinks with a coworker, or use an excuse that will tie me up for a few hours, golf, disc golf, movie, whatever. Honestly, most of the sb won't give a shit if you have to answer the occasional text while you are with them. They know you are there on business and not going to be a permanent thing, so not like they are going to get jealous.

Great post. I agree 100%, sugaring on business trips is much easier than at home.

But, how do you prevent your SO from blowing up your phone in the middle of a sugar session? Just ignoring her calls / texts would lead to suspicion. If you are spending the entire evening and overnight with the baby, how do you communicate with the SO so she doesn't suspect anything?

[Broadway Jay]

Great post. I agree 100%, sugaring on business trips is much easier than at home.

But, how do you prevent your SO from blowing up your phone in the middle of a sugar session? Just ignoring her calls / texts would lead to suspicion. If you are spending the entire evening and overnight with the baby, how do you communicate with the SO so she doesn't suspect anything?

I thought I'd share how I've been using SA while I'm on business travel.

Background, I have used Sugar sites with good success mainly to get local affair partners. My local activity is limited since I'm married, which means I'm not looking for many young college PPM since I can't host, hotel credit card bills are a challenge to hide as well as just being just a big expense. So for local use, I had been very strategic in my Sugaring. But this year with business travel back to normal levels I've found sites like SA are a gold mine of opportunities! The sugar scene is so much easier when you can host, and so we'll worth it.

[D Foto]

What I do is buy a visa green dot card from a local store and put cash at the store on it. You have to register the card online, but you can use a fake name and address, a google voice number and just put 000-00-0000 for the social security number. It will complain about the google voice number and say I can't use the card as a bank account, but that doesn't matter. Wait an hour and it works on seeking, but remember to put in the same fake name and address you registered the card with.

That worked, thanks.

[Bsuh69]

What I do is buy a visa green dot card from a local store and put cash at the store on it. You have to register the card online, but you can use a fake name and address, a google voice number and just put 000-00-0000 for the social security number. It will complain about the google voice number and say I can't use the card as a bank account, but that doesn't matter. Wait an hour and it works on seeking, but remember to put in the same fake name and address you registered the card with.

[Shnshan99]

I've had success with the Walmart Visa Gift Card. Loaded with cash at register. Pay $4 charge per transaction.

Register it with an address (got a bit creative). Waited a day to be sure it populated in the system. Logged into SA and made sure I used the same address / zip as the registered card.

Golden minus another $4 transaction fee, but I'll happily pay that for the convenience.

I'm sure I could load more $$ on it later, but I plan to spend it down and repeat the process with a new number if needed.

Wallmart card is asking for SSN. What did you do for that?

[Samath2624]

Kroger (I'm sure elsewhere) sells a prepaid Mastercard that works. Get the kind where you choose the value, not the preloaded one. Vanilla changed processors again and this one is clearly blocking seeking payments, so on someone else's recommendation I tried those mastercards and it did indeed work. L.

I've had success with the Walmart Visa Gift Card. Loaded with cash at register. Pay $4 charge per transaction.

Register it with an address (got a bit creative). Waited a day to be sure it populated in the system. Logged into SA and made sure I used the same address / zip as the registered card.

Golden minus another $4 transaction fee, but I'll happily pay that for the convenience.

I'm sure I could load more $$ on it later, but I plan to spend it down and repeat the process with a new number if needed.

[D Foto]

I've always used Visa non relaodable prepared cards (like the vanilla card) but they no longer seem to work. Is anyone else having that problem? I plan to try an Amex gift card next. Any suggestions on what does work?

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