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06-06-24 22:04 #41
Posts: 6Originally Posted by Sleep135 [View Original Post]
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05-13-24 18:52 #40
Posts: 68Originally Posted by OrangeGoku [View Original Post]
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05-11-24 12:53 #39
Posts: 81Start posting reviews of cuddles
I went to the cuddle boards in other counties and states and people and leaving reviews of actual encounters. At least give a hint or a nikename so other can get some extras also. Waisted alot of money testing the waters but once I found a solid few I only go back to them. Feel free to dm me if you want to trade cuddle stories in LA.
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05-10-24 16:58 #38
Posts: 6Goddess. 12
Has anyone seen goddess. 12? I added a period in her username. Was talking to her and she had some thirsty pics, but she deactivated her account yesterday.
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04-26-24 01:15 #37
Posts: 2Want to try
If any of you have some cuddler recs pm me please.
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04-24-24 20:56 #36
Posts: 63Originally Posted by Grimmy23 [View Original Post]
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04-24-24 10:37 #35
Posts: 664Originally Posted by Ghost323 [View Original Post]
As for the SO thing, I've had it come up. It often does, not in every session but in more than half for me. I'm a happily married guy and wear a ring. Most of them are oblivious to it. They seem to understand that a guy can be very happy in his relationship but still have a subpar sex life. And if it's not about sex, the platonic cuddlers understand that sometimes people need space and time to hang out with someone else for an hour or two. I've just never found it to be a problem.
People ask me for recommendations all the time. Which cuddler should I see? I have a fairly sizable list of intel that I've collected either personally or from others who have reported to me since I started the OC thread. I'm happy to share. However, my typical request is please don't DM and ask who I would recommend. That's a very difficult thing to answer because cuddling is such a YMMV game. I hate to be the guy who says go see so and so because she puts out, and then you see her and get nothing. I also don't know what any given guy might be looking for. What I ask is that you find a few that you might be interested in and I'll tell you if I have anything on them. That works out a lot better.
Finally, I can't restate this enough times. Go in hoping for what you want but expecting absolutely nothing but a nice platonic cuddle. Be a gentleman. Don't get grabby or pushy. Don't try sticking hands inside her clothes in the first couple minutes. Be squeaky clean, freshly showered, teeth brushed right before the session and breath smelling fresh. Just be a nice guy that the girl would legitimately want to cuddle with if she wasn't being paid for it. Do all of those things and your chances of success are much higher. You'll leave with blue balls once in a while. That’s a given in the cuddling world. For me that happens about 1/4 of the time. But even the blue balls sessions are almost always very pleasant. You just spent an hour alone cuddled up in bed with a girl that you chose. How bad can that be? This requires a mentality change from the typical AMP experience where you fully expect to get action and leave pissed off if you don’t get it. In cuddling, you’re going in for a platonic cuddle. Anything else that happens is a bonus. Go in expecting to enjoy the cuddle regardless of whether you get laid or not. When you do get laid it’s more like sex after a first date and it’s much more fulfilling than anything you’ll ever get in an AMP.
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04-23-24 22:11 #34
Posts: 184Yet to take the plunge
Curious how much info do you guys divulge on the site and in these sessions? I've yet to have my first session but I do have a Pic on profile to help my odds at extras. Also this might sound like a dumb question since these sessions are geared more platonic does the S / O topic come about? I don't want to kill my chances if they ask. If anyone has any good rec's for a first timer for a session and don't mind sharing my DMs are open. TIA kindly.
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04-23-24 11:24 #33
Posts: 582Originally Posted by MountainLover [View Original Post]
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04-22-24 13:09 #32
Posts: 664Originally Posted by TnaStylez [View Original Post]
If I were to categorize, there are probably 4 different types of girls in the pro cuddling world.
25% are legit, platonic only cuddlers. You won't get any extras with them. Clothes stay on (both theirs and yours), no putting hands under the clothes, no kissing, no touching intimate parts either over or under the clothes. They're what they are at face value, strictly pro cuddlers.
On the other end of the spectrum, I'd estimate 15% are escorts disguising themselves as pro cuddlers. Their legs spread for any guy who shows up with a wad of cash. They're usually pretty easy to spot. Some of them even advertise on escort sites or on Seeking.
Of the remaining 60%, those are what I'd call the "normal girls" who you just don't know about.
- 30% start with the intention of "just a cuddle session" but will do extras if she likes you and the mood is right.
- 30% do this because they aren't in relationships and need their own sexual needs met. This doesn't mean they'll bang all of their clients, but they can make some extra cash on the side and easily get laid when they come across a guy they like.
Now going back to that 25% of platonic only cuddlers, I firmly believe that it's completely possible for stuff to happen even with them. As I've said before, the ingredients are there. You're alone in a private room, minimally clothed, in a bed, making close body to body contact for at least an hour. It doesn't take a whole lot for a spark to get ignited that causes clothes to fall off. The chances of it happening with one of these 25% girls is pretty small, but it does happen.
As the previous poster said, if you want a sure thing, go to an MP. Any one of us can walk into any AMP right now and get a HJ, BJ, or FS very easily. It's just a matter of bringing the right amount of tip money. But how satisfying is that? You got your balls drained, good for you. But with the cuddlers it's more like sex after a first date when you're able to make it happen. The sex might be more spectacular with an escort, but with a cuddler you have the satisfaction of getting it from someone who doesn't give it up for any guy to show up with the right amount of cash.
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04-21-24 20:14 #31
Posts: 218Originally Posted by MountainLover [View Original Post]
The best part of CC is exactly what it is meant for: cuddling and having an emotional connection with a woman.
Disappointment will be had if someone is coming into this expecting a cheap release or expecting a hot young provider. If these are the goals there are way more efficient and cheaper ways to get your rocks off.
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04-19-24 20:38 #30
Posts: 345Originally Posted by MountainLover [View Original Post]
LM.
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04-19-24 13:52 #29
Posts: 1631st Cuddle Report
Hello All,
After hearing about Cuddle Comfort and seeing posts from Grimmy (thank you BTW), I decided to give Cuddling a shot and am thrilled I did so. Cuddling is so different from going to an AMP as you honestly do not know what you'll get out of the experience, although at the very least, you should be getting a good cuddle with a stronger connection than you would have at an AMP. And save money to boot. This was a great experience and one that I am looking forward to trying out again.
Here are some thoughts if anyone is trying to do research as I had. Like many of us on this site, I have a significant other, I love her and am attracted to her, but sexually I have a much stronger drive than she does. Sexually she is not adventurous nor spontaneous, she is often only thinking of her own needs and does not do a good job of satisfying mine (she loves DATY, but does not really care to give a BJ). In short, she is just not overly interested in sex. Her gratification comes from exercising and yoga. We are both fit (her more than I to be honest), are both attracted to each other, have a good relationship, but sex does not really factor much in her world. Maybe once a month, whereas I would prefer it two to three times per week. Deciding (or following an urge) to go to an AMP or escort feels (and is) shitty, although I do not want to have an affair; I'd rather find and pay someone for their time and walk away. I have to deal with my guilt and / or justification, although apart from getting a divorce, (which I do not want), and needing to satisfy my sexual desires, this is the route I have chosen. I think many of you are probably in a similar boat rather than just being deviants, although there is no judgement either way if you are.
Enter Cuddle Comfort. As someone else posted, you get to select a girl who is very often the one who appears at your door. Since this is not an escort service most pictures are accurate (although I have heard stories of a few fakes). My visit was in my hotel, which felt safe. The Cuddler who I selected was exactly as she presented herself. If not better. There was a near-immediate connection and I was able to let my guard down. The cuddle was amazing. Even without anything sexual happening, and in the end I had a wonderful time. I will say that if something would have presented itself, I would have had no hesitation, but it didn't and I did not make any moves whatsoever in that direction. I understood the core of what this is. A cuddle. My visit was $120 for an hour. An AMP is around that for a half-hour. Yes, at the AMP you'll usually get a HE, although with a Cuddle you get a connection and in the end I felt less dirty and in many ways more fulfilled. Did I have blue balls, you bet, but I had a better time and I look forward to seeing her again.
Take the above for what you will. When I travel and need something, I will probably look first for a Cuddle over an AMP and see what happens (had someone called this a game? As always YMMV.
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04-19-24 12:39 #28
Posts: 664Originally Posted by DigMeSome [View Original Post]
One cuddler I was with (please don't PM to ask who she was because she's no longer active on the site) hosted in a hotel that she paid for. She got the room just for our session. All she asked for was a 2 hour booking at $100/ hr to cover her room costs. She showed me the room bill. It was $135 for a 6-hour room rental. The CC website charges the cuddlers a 15% booking fee. So for two hours of cuddling with a complete stranger in a hotel room she netted $35, and we ended up having sex. We chatted about it afterwards and she said she was fine with that and she doesn't do it for the money. Basically she has a bunch of extended family living in her house and they drive her crazy. She got an escape to some solitude for half a day in a hotel room that I paid for, got to go use the pool and hot tub, and had $35 left over for a nice lunch. And as an added bonus, she got laid. She doesn't have a BF so this is how she gets her sexual needs met, but only if she likes the guy. I know she ended up booking another session the same day in the same room. Someone asked to book her the same day and she had a room, so why not? But she didn't have sex with that guy (I know this because the guy just happened to PM me here later). Not that she didn't like him or anything, but we went at it pretty hard and heavy a few hours earlier and she probably just wasn't in the mood. That's how things go. These aren't sex workers. They're "normal" girls doing cuddling as a little side hustle or for a little escape, and if they feel like doing more than just cuddling the opportunity is certainly there.
That being said, there are a few on there who are either known escorts who also advertise on escort sites, and there are a few who are pretty much automatic at giving extras. But strangely enough, that's not what most of us who are seasoned cuddlers want. We look for the girl next door who is a little bit of a challenge to get naked. It's incredibly satisfying when it happens.
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04-18-24 22:42 #27
Posts: 568Recommendations
Any cuddler recommendations? I'm fine with just platonic cuddles but with a slim beauty and affordable thanks!