Seeking Arrangements

**Bran001** · 02-14-24 18:35

The college / grad school / young professional women I've met from Seeking are not "in the (sex) business" such as the escorts who post ads on escort platforms. Out of respect for them I would not post a "review" of the type of woman I gravitate to unless someone specifically asked about her and I knew she was actively seeking a new partner. And at that, I'd more likely respond in private.

As others have mentioned, the college / grad school / young professional women often are doing this not as a profession but to supplement their income while living in the 2nd-most expensive city in the US. And yeah some do get off on the kink and / or get off on being with an "older gentleman" but that doesn't throw them into the same category as those women who post ads on typical escort platforms.

I have no interest in a "what is sex work" debate; and many of the young women I've met are not shy about thinking of what they do on Seeking as sex work. But it's a different flavor and I'll leave it at that for now.

Originally Posted by MarkPowers [View Original Post]

I'm wondering if people are getting scared to post on here for two reasons.

1 - there's at least one frequent poster on here that will share your review with the girl putting your repeat potential at risk.

2 - worried about girls checking the site after the Reddit discussion.

I've been more likely than in the past to just PM people asking about girls rather than sharing broadly.

What do you think?

**FriendlyKing** · 02-14-24 17:40

Originally Posted by DarkClouds [View Original Post]

If you mean the oThER review site, I don't believe they allow reviews of girls who don't have a public profile. So, that would exclude anyone who is only on Seeking. And you're dead wrong if you think they are all also on OF, etc. Many of them are super discreet and want to stay that way. They have serious ambitions about building a proper career and this is just a phase in life, not a permanent lifestyle.

Spot on! I've encountered girls who are highly ambitious and utilize the site solely to financially supplement their living expenses until they graduate. And no, they are not on OF etc.

**DarkClouds** · 02-14-24 17:05

If you mean the oThER review site, I don't believe they allow reviews of girls who don't have a public profile. So, that would exclude anyone who is only on Seeking. And you're dead wrong if you think they are all also on OF, etc. Many of them are super discreet and want to stay that way. They have serious ambitions about building a proper career and this is just a phase in life, not a permanent lifestyle.

Originally Posted by Style20 [View Original Post]

I don't see the point of not posting regarding college girls. If they on seeking, they are on OF, snapchat and other social media trying to make the easy money. They may not post on stg, Eros or trust but if they on seeking. They are on other site.

**Style20** · 02-14-24 16:51

Originally Posted by FriendlyKing [View Original Post]

It's important to acknowledge that this platform is primarily for escort services. Personally, I'd rather refrain from discussing college girls here. I don't feel at ease sharing such information on a public platform like this. However, I'm open to sharing details with Senior Members who have been actively contributing. That being said, I'm dropping a regular who is a 22-year-old from Northeastern University. Scheduling has become a significant challenge with her. I'm willing to provide further details if needed.

I also agree to have a closed group for folks who are active in here.

I don't see the point of not posting regarding college girls. If they on seeking, they are on OF, snapchat and other social media trying to make the easy money. They may not post on stg, Eros or trust but if they on seeking. They are on other site.

**Wockser** · 02-14-24 15:30

Originally Posted by MarkPowers [View Original Post]

I'm wondering if people are getting scared to post on here for two reasons.

1 - there's at least one frequent poster on here that will share your review with the girl putting your repeat potential at risk.

2 - worried about girls checking the site after the Reddit discussion.

I've been more likely than in the past to just PM people asking about girls rather than sharing broadly.

What do you think?

I'll admit, I don't post the good stuff publicly. I'll sometimes share in DM's with folks the good experiences if my arrangement has run its course. Otherwise we all share the bad ones to help others from scams.

**FriendlyKing** · 02-14-24 14:44

Originally Posted by MarkPowers [View Original Post]

I'm wondering if people are getting scared to post on here for two reasons.

1 - there's at least one frequent poster on here that will share your review with the girl putting your repeat potential at risk.

2 - worried about girls checking the site after the Reddit discussion.

I've been more likely than in the past to just PM people asking about girls rather than sharing broadly.

What do you think?

It's important to acknowledge that this platform is primarily for escort services. Personally, I'd rather refrain from discussing college girls here. I don't feel at ease sharing such information on a public platform like this. However, I'm open to sharing details with Senior Members who have been actively contributing. That being said, I'm dropping a regular who is a 22-year-old from Northeastern University. Scheduling has become a significant challenge with her. I'm willing to provide further details if needed.

I also agree to have a closed group for folks who are active in here.

**Mark Powers** · 02-14-24 14:40

I think she's been posted about before. Great personality and down for a good time. Huge tits and fat ass. She's asking 300 for BBBJ and cfs but you might be able to negotiate. She can't host.

She knows about this post. Doing it to help her out. PM me for her number.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...e-f12de9fd592a

**DarkClouds** · 02-14-24 13:19

But for a different reason, at least for me. Not scared of losing access to her, because I barely ever repeat. So I'm not worried about the harm to my reputation, although I've had girls react very badly to a negative review and try to dox. So, I'll hint at the negative stuff and only tell the full story privately. But, equally importantly, although I'm happy to share, I don't want the girl to get carpet bombed, especially by the many freeloading jerks on here. So, I do most of my sharing privately.

Originally Posted by MarkPowers [View Original Post]

I'm wondering if people are getting scared to post on here for two reasons.

1 - there's at least one frequent poster on here that will share your review with the girl putting your repeat potential at risk.

2 - worried about girls checking the site after the Reddit discussion.

I've been more likely than in the past to just PM people asking about girls rather than sharing broadly.

What do you think?

**Mfp79** · 02-14-24 13:19

Originally Posted by MarkPowers [View Original Post]

I'm wondering if people are getting scared to post on here for two reasons.

1 - there's at least one frequent poster on here that will share your review with the girl putting your repeat potential at risk.

2 - worried about girls checking the site after the Reddit discussion.

I've been more likely than in the past to just PM people asking about girls rather than sharing broadly.

What do you think?

This plus 3) Want to keep the girl to themselves.

But yeah, I think PM is probably best for this sort of thing unfortunately. If the forum had a mode that only allow listed members could view and participate in, that could help.

**Mark Powers** · 02-14-24 13:08

I'm wondering if people are getting scared to post on here for two reasons.

1 - there's at least one frequent poster on here that will share your review with the girl putting your repeat potential at risk.

2 - worried about girls checking the site after the Reddit discussion.

I've been more likely than in the past to just PM people asking about girls rather than sharing broadly.

What do you think?

**Style20** · 02-13-24 22:30

Originally Posted by Np36781 [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...0-20c0fb2bcc34

Beautiful, soft spoken, well travelled Columbian. Calls herself Sara. From Dracut / Tewkesbury area. Agreed to meet for 4. Her car was in shop, so had to get her Uber both ways. All natural, toned body. It was covered sex. I had a good time, but I didn't feel connection. She's been texting me to see her again. YMMV.

Does she do BBBJ or dfk?

**PaulRew** · 02-13-24 22:14

Originally Posted by Tribeca67 [View Original Post]

Any Intel on this one? Boston area.

Here is her link.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...b-c3fa9387900c

**PaulRew** · 02-13-24 22:11

Originally Posted by Tribeca67 [View Original Post]

Any Intel on this one? Boston area.

Any chance that you could offer the board info on the girls you have actually met off of SA?

Thanks in advance!

**Tribeca67** · 02-13-24 20:59

Any Intel on this one? Boston area.

**Max Walker86** · 02-13-24 19:23

Originally Posted by Np36781 [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...0-20c0fb2bcc34

Beautiful, soft spoken, well travelled Columbian. Calls herself Sara. From Dracut / Tewkesbury area. Agreed to meet for 4. Her car was in shop, so had to get her Uber both ways. All natural, toned body. It was covered sex. I had a good time, but I didn't feel connection. She's been texting me to see her again. YMMV.

Now that's a beauty. I'm happy for you and who ever else has seen her.

Just being next to her hanging out would make me happy.