"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

**OutsideProof** · 08-30-23 15:02

TD. If you are smart and you care for me or our immediate future then $$.

Originally Posted by TylerDurden07 [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...6-a48a17bc559b

This one is "not looking for anything physical at this time" but is "more interested in an intellectual, and emotional arrangement". Notice she didn't mention the word "financial" though I seriously doubt she'd give you "intellectual & emotional" satisfaction for free either. I didn't bother responding.

These girls.

**FarFarAway** · 08-30-23 14:35

Originally Posted by TylerDurden07 [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...6-a48a17bc559b

This one is "not looking for anything physical at this time" but is "more interested in an intellectual, and emotional arrangement". Notice she didn't mention the word "financial" though I seriously doubt she'd give you "intellectual & emotional" satisfaction for free either. I didn't bother responding.

These girls.

I looked at the profile, I don't see the platonic stuff, I guess that was in your messaging. However, you should not think that just because someone puts platonic even in the profile, or on one of the interest tabs, that is the end of the story. I will just paste in an exchange I just had w / a 20 YO Asian girl. Plagiarism is the sincerest form of flattery.

**FarFarAway** · 08-30-23 14:28

Originally Posted by FarFarAway [View Original Post]

I have another success story, but it isn't technique, it can be luck. But YK the saying about luck = preparation + opportunity.

Some PMing me weren't aware that I am not in Atlanta. This is a useful thread to compare techniques, kinda like the Richmond VA sugar thread, and many people nationwide read it. Besides the fact that anyone I mention is 1700 miles away from Atlanta, I am on seeking to get an actual arrangement, not just a rent-a-GF, so regardless, I am not giving out contact info to people who don't want to do work on their own on a girl or who are unwilling to get a membership on seeking. Why would I pimp out my own SB?

**AtlGuyForFun** · 08-30-23 14:23

Originally Posted by TylerDurden07 [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...6-a48a17bc559b

This one is "not looking for anything physical at this time" but is "more interested in an intellectual, and emotional arrangement". Notice she didn't mention the word "financial" though I seriously doubt she'd give you "intellectual & emotional" satisfaction for free either. I didn't bother responding.

These girls.

"I'm looking for someone that can help maintain my lifestyle and in return I give you the best vibes."

I didn't know you could get paid for vibes! Sign me up.

These girls.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...f-239061773403

**PoonHound1969** · 08-30-23 14:14

Originally Posted by Tribeca67 [View Original Post]

Any info on this one?

Why do you do the same post in like 50 cities? Strange.

**TylerDurden07** · 08-30-23 13:00

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...6-a48a17bc559b

This one is "not looking for anything physical at this time" but is "more interested in an intellectual, and emotional arrangement". Notice she didn't mention the word "financial" though I seriously doubt she'd give you "intellectual & emotional" satisfaction for free either. I didn't bother responding.

These girls.

**Tribeca67** · 08-30-23 11:21

Any info on this one?

**TopGun9** · 08-30-23 08:58

Anyone else having issue upgrading membership with SDM?

I tried Vanilla Prepaid card, Visa credit card, and Discover card. Nothing goes through.

This is the error message I got.

"We were unable to process your subscription. Please make sure your bank authorizes this transaction. ".

**WialdThang** · 08-29-23 22:50

Originally Posted by DiscreetMeet [View Original Post]

So, my very long term SB decided to move so I'm on the hunt for a new one. Does anyone have info on this one?

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...8-e30faa2b0ab3

Or if you have a recommendation of one about like this one I'd be greatful for some info.

She's definitely my type but one does wonder.

Thanks in advance.

Stay Safe,

DM.

I had brief chat with her threw text, she ask for $$$ no specifics mentioned except for she could not host. I passed!

**DiscreetMeet** · 08-29-23 17:23

So, my very long term SB decided to move so I'm on the hunt for a new one. Does anyone have info on this one?

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...8-e30faa2b0ab3

Or if you have a recommendation of one about like this one I'd be greatful for some info.

She's definitely my type but one does wonder.

Thanks in advance.

Stay Safe,

DM.

**DrSummer** · 08-29-23 16:15

VWO33 RBELT1.

Just used it today. 33% off. Remove the space (this site adds it for some reason).

Dr. S.

**Doctor Sugar** · 08-29-23 14:59

Just started messaging Southerndoll. Anyone have the scoop on her?

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...3-d0ff0c12ffbe

**FarFarAway** · 08-29-23 13:40

Originally Posted by GoneForGood97 [View Original Post]

Click my name and scroll past the first page of my post history and scan through the next 2-3 pages. I've posted a lot of my tips / tricks / negotation tactics. I've been balls deep in a TON of hot 20-30 year olds for between 200 plus hotel or 300 if they host. I've had a lot of success in the Atlanta area with those rates. Do I nail every potential I message? Of course not, more than a few never go anywhere. I've also noticed that girls with the "alt girl" or "hippie girl" look tend to be more reasonable allowance than the wannabe Insta-models. Which is lucky for me because I absolutely have a thing for the alt girl look.

I have another success story, but it isn't technique, it can be luck. But YK the saying about luck = preparation + opportunity.

I M&G a 25 YO, blond, slim, had a nice chat by phone. She has had two arrangements in the past, 'arranged' by a female friend who had experience. She was a little concerned about my being married, but reflected and decided my situation justified my behavior. We got comfortable w / coffee and took it to my car for the A / C. Conversation was frank and wide-ranging. We agreed about the sexual parameters, and when I asked her about finances, she was very non-committal, and basically said whatever I wanted to give her was fine. Her past SDs, one was all about just buying her what she needed, the other was all allowance all the time. I got a brainstorm, asked if she saw herself as a hippie, she agreed strongly. I plan on catering to her biases, w / some gifts, some flattery, and some cash. I asked what she enjoyed most sexually, she could not come up w / anything. This poor girl, she hasn't been treated well by her past SBs. For sure if you aren't getting the girl to wilt in bed by your wiles, you'll have trouble in the sugar bowl. I gave her a Sephora gift card, she swooned. I just offered to buy her a plan at a nail salon (hers looked ragged, and I really like to see a nice manicure on my girl), and she swooned again.

I had met another hippie girl at this exact same coffee place about a year ago, she also said whatever I gave her was fine. I think I went w / 250. She was just OK, body not up to my usual preference, so it was a 1-timer. She still texts me.

**NewAnonymousName** · 08-29-23 05:36

Originally Posted by GoneForGood97 [View Original Post]

She's legit but if you ask her to host before the first date it's a huge turn off for her. She's a little high considering age and has the beginnings of a muffin top. I think I got her to agree to 350 if she hosted or 300 if I got a hotel, but I could tell she wasn't real happy that I was preferring that she host. Since she was higher than I thought reasonable for someone who couldn't host I never really followed up.

Thanks for the info. Did you learn her menu of dos and don'ts before your discussion ended?

**GoneForGood97** · 08-29-23 00:52

Originally Posted by Verdit [View Original Post]

Sometimes I'll chat with a girl on SA who checks all the boxes, but her ask amount for PPM is too high for what I'm willing to pay.

Normally, I'll just politely decline without a counter. However, a couple of times that I have countered the girl gets offended that I'm not willing to pay the amount she wants.

So what have been SUCCESSFUL negotiation tactics you've used to get a girl down from a high dollar amount to something you're comfortable with paying?

Click my name and scroll past the first page of my post history and scan through the next 2-3 pages. I've posted a lot of my tips / tricks / negotation tactics. I've been balls deep in a TON of hot 20-30 year olds for between 200 plus hotel or 300 if they host. I've had a lot of success in the Atlanta area with those rates. Do I nail every potential I message? Of course not, more than a few never go anywhere. I've also noticed that girls with the "alt girl" or "hippie girl" look tend to be more reasonable allowance than the wannabe Insta-models. Which is lucky for me because I absolutely have a thing for the alt girl look.

As other guys have said, a big part of it is not moving staight to allowance talk, but spend an evening or 2 texting getting to know them, find out what they like and what their interests are. Eventually steer the conversation sexual, then find out what they enjoy sexually. Ask about things they like such as their favorite position (doggie) and don't like (anal). Once you have a few things they don't like, keep those in the back of your mind when you bring up the allowance. Ask what she's looking for, if she gives a sky high number, tell her that you'd only pay that much for someone who would do <insert things she doesn't like here> . Doesn't matter if anal isn't your thing, or if you don't like rough sex and neither does she, or if you were going to use a condom anyways: when negotiating, the things she dislikes are now things you like, but you want to respect her wishes, so you'll happily keep to her "things she enjoys" but for <insert reasonable allowance here>, or you'll use protection but that would be a different amount than for someone who is ok without it.

There's also the old "jedi mind trick". They ask for something too high, like 500 PPM. Tell them you can do that, but you can only see them once or twice a month for that PPM. If she could do 300 PPM then you could see her 4 times a month, and 4 x300 is more than 2 x500. Would she rather have $1200 a month or $1000 a month? Adjust the math to make the amount make sense within your budget. Of course if she's too skyhigh, then just move on.