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01-31-24 19:00 #15
Posts: 79I have to disagree. I have met some nasty cumsluts that want cum in every hole through fetlife. Also, you already know what they want from the start, so it makes it that much easier.
Originally Posted by Thirty3 [View Original Post]
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01-20-24 19:01 #14
Posts: 668Originally Posted by Thirty3 [View Original Post]
I have never not once not gotten what I wanted out of a woman on FetLife. It's just a different game than just a dating site and you have to learn to play that game. If not then I think you'll get nine experiences exactly like you've described.
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02-21-23 01:31 #13
Posts: 131I agree with most of what's been said. A single guy looking for normal sex is not going to do well there. There's a lot of emphasis on impact and such. Pain, bruising, and some blood.
That all turns me off as does public play. In my experience those people are less sexual, in terms of penetrative sex, than normal girls. They talk a big game but don't back it up and are largely unattractive. What they have to offer is their supposed freakiness. There are a lot of them with trauma and mental issues and that's how they try to take control of it and gain confidence and power.
I've dated maybe 9 fet girls all told. Same story each time. Boring. I've met girls on dating apps and through friends who make those 9 fet girls look like nuns. The difference is passion, not "freaky" play.
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01-11-23 11:41 #12
Posts: 79MFM off fetlife
I've met many women off fetlife. I used to use CL casual encounters and met up with countless women after vetting to make sure they weren't men posing as women. Also, I had a buddy I would do mfm with, and that drove a lot of attractive women's attention. I also used doublelist with little success (here are there). With fetlife, I usually post about mfm interactions and always get replies. Done quite a few with a buddy. If you just are saying you want to get laid, youll have little luck. You need to add some kink in there.
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01-01-23 22:16 #11
Posts: 75Mongering
When mongering, even if a lady lists bdsm as an activity, rarely do I go there for fear of freaking a provider out.
I'm a medium / heavy impact player. I do it well hence I'm sought out for play. For the ladies that enjoy that to find someone that can go heavy but do it well is rare. Many of those ladies wear the bruises with pride. They take pics and post them on fet.
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01-01-23 22:07 #10
Posts: 75Indeed
Kinky folks, by in large, are intelligent people. And if you try to fake it, it's quickly obvious. We generally vet anyone before we play with them through various means.
If you are sincerely interested in a particular kink you can state that and will be better recieved. Bare handed spanking is pretty basic but like anything else it's a learned skill. I'm a sought after impact player which includes bare handed spanking.
Originally Posted by TheRocketeer [View Original Post]
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01-01-23 22:01 #9
Posts: 75Swinger
Yes, that is more the swinging community which I'm not a part of. There are plenty of swingers in Fet.
Originally Posted by JustLookn [View Original Post]
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01-01-23 19:40 #8
Posts: 417Originally Posted by GregsRed99 [View Original Post]
AFF is mostly a scam.
Doublelist, like craigslist personals before it, is very hit or miss with either guys pretending to be girls (very rife in the w4 m section) or couples looking for a very particular third that, quite frankly, they ain't going to be finding on Doublelist ("50 yo couple with bbw looking for athletic, fit, HWP, male in their 20's nothing under 8 inches " and the like).
Fetlife is actually serious about what it is, so single guys going on there just tryna lay pipe likely are going to strike out. Kinksters can sniff out those intentions pretty easily.
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01-01-23 19:29 #7
Posts: 248Faking
Originally Posted by GregsRed99 [View Original Post]
Back in the day we joined the swingers club TSC. She got off being watched while I did her. She liked watching me do other women but never group sex. Was her kink, mine was fucking her.
Awww the good ole days.
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01-01-23 18:01 #6
Posts: 75Kinky People
So I'm a monger and in the kinky community as well. Looking for just sex on fet is a long shot not to say it can't be done. The only real way is to be into what kinks they are into. They have an introductory munch that anyone can go to, but if you're not into kink and accepting of others kinks you are going to be out of place. It's literally a community for kink, not just sex or sexually related. Not just a meat market. But much of kink is sexually related. I have known one provider that was in the community as well and the community is very sex worker friendly. You will definitely see some 'out there' stuff in the community. A lot of gay and trans in the community as well.
Back to fet. You can find people to play with that are just on fet but not really in the community. But back to the kink thing, you really have to be into kink in some form or another to find someone to play with on fet.
I had a friend that got on fet just looking for sex without the kink part and he bombed. Even with a large cock.
Just trying to give yall mongers a real perspective on fet and the community.
Originally Posted by RickForFun1 [View Original Post]
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01-01-23 16:15 #5
Posts: 690Fet
Originally Posted by Lougle69 [View Original Post]
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01-01-23 14:46 #4
Posts: 301Originally Posted by TheRocketeer [View Original Post]
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01-01-23 13:14 #3
Posts: 417Graveyard
Originally Posted by Lougle69 [View Original Post]
Same situation as you, really only met one or two chicks. Might be good for actual fetish communities, but rather poor if you're using it just to hookup.
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01-01-23 13:03 #2
Posts: 258App
Originally Posted by Lougle69 [View Original Post]
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01-01-23 12:57 #1
Posts: 301Fet Life
I started an account on FET and over the course of a year only met one girl. Has anyone else had better luck with that site?