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Exactly how I feel about my mistake
Originally Posted by
Eric1975
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Ditto, 8 years of my life ill never get back. Should have listened to my dad when he told me about the three rings. Engagement ring, wedding ring and suffering.
These three rings are soooo true.
But I have kids and they are what is keeping me married.
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Originally Posted by
LoveBoydodo
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I am divorced. So no issue on privacy. I wish I had never married. It was a total waste of time except the kids.
Ditto, 8 years of my life ill never get back. Should have listened to my dad when he told me about the three rings. Engagement ring, wedding ring and suffering.
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Wasted days
Originally Posted by
LoveBoydodo
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I am divorced. So no issue on privacy. I wish I had never married. It was a total waste of time except the kids.
Agree so deeply. Think of the money that could have been paid for quality service.
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Marriage. Its a curse
Originally Posted by
Eric1975
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You got that right. Thats why females make the best archeologists, they are great at digging up shit from the past.
I am divorced. So no issue on privacy. I wish I had never married. It was a total waste of time except the kids.
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Originally Posted by
Real1211
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She is not leaving yet but her shadow of doubt towards you has been established and she will not forget that. It will be brought up again again in future disagreements between you two and now she's probably going to be more skeptical of of your honesty.
You got that right. Thats why females make the best archeologists, they are great at digging up shit from the past.
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Google voice, checking account
Originally Posted by
RawlSocket
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It's worked for me for over 20 years: Cash, and a burner phone.
Try a google voice number? Private browsing, a separate checking account. With direct deposit of your fun budget.
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Oops
Originally Posted by
PNR2004
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I like having a credit card because when you check in to a hotel you need to give one of those and a Drivers Lic. I have worried about getting junk mail from them when they get my DL but has not been a problem.
It is BleachBit, not Bitwarden, that is the program to use to delete files, folders and caches in your computer. I use both. Bitwarden is a password manager.
I'd like hear more about a prepaid Visa cards. Easy to set up with alias?? Web sites take it?? Hotels?? Hotels do require DL, if the prepaid card is registered under a different name are you still in like flynn?? I've gotten a room a few times. Any way to keep anonymous in a half way decent place??
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Be Careful out There
Originally Posted by
BeerGood
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If you want to go overboard. Here's what I've done.
I use Tor for browsing. Clears itself when used and maintains your online privacy. If I've downloaded anything I want to save I put it on a USB stick with a vault (try SanDisk). I run Bitwarden to clean afterwards.
I use a burner phone that I load time onto using cash. I use cash for everything hobby.
I've bought money orders for cash to buy into a few websites. I've never used gift cards. Not opposed to that I just think they take a big slice. I've looked at the prepaid Visa cards but looked like you have to register & wasn't sure if I knew how to set up alias. Probably will just have to try someday. Education has a price.
Been through a wife and enough girl friends, so have learned me lesson more than once. Practice makes perfect.
Happy hunting!
I like having a credit card because when you check in to a hotel you need to give one of those and a Drivers Lic. I have worried about getting junk mail from them when they get my DL but has not been a problem.
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Overboard
If you want to go overboard. Here's what I've done.
I use Tor for browsing. Clears itself when used and maintains your online privacy. If I've downloaded anything I want to save I put it on a USB stick with a vault (try SanDisk). I run Bitwarden to clean afterwards.
I use a burner phone that I load time onto using cash. I use cash for everything hobby.
I've bought money orders for cash to buy into a few websites. I've never used gift cards. Not opposed to that I just think they take a big slice. I've looked at the prepaid Visa cards but looked like you have to register & wasn't sure if I knew how to set up alias. Probably will just have to try someday. Education has a price.
Been through a wife and enough girl friends, so have learned me lesson more than once. Practice makes perfect.
Happy hunting!
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She's not leaving "yet"
Originally Posted by
MiloMadison
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For those that are married wondering what tricks you use to avoid getting caught? The basic stuff I think we all get. Looking for less obvious things. One of my challenges is, she checks the CC statement so can't subscribe to any sites. Also a word of warning, after several years I got lazy and left Twitter open. Of course that day she decided she needed to use my devise for something. Fortunately she decided not to leave me. So you have to be 100% in your security. Good luck and be safe out there.
She is not leaving yet but her shadow of doubt towards you has been established and she will not forget that. It will be brought up again again in future disagreements between you two and now she's probably going to be more skeptical of of your honesty.
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Originally Posted by
MiloMadison
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For those that are married wondering what tricks you use to avoid getting caught? The basic stuff I think we all get. Looking for less obvious things. One of my challenges is, she checks the CC statement so can't subscribe to any sites. Also a word of warning, after several years I got lazy and left Twitter open. Of course that day she decided she needed to use my devise for something. Fortunately she decided not to leave me. So you have to be 100% in your security. Good luck and be safe out there.
It's worked for me for over 20 years: Cash, and a burner phone.
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Single Now, but Had Partner
Originally Posted by
MiloMadison
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For those that are married wondering what tricks you use to avoid getting caught? The basic stuff I think we all get. Looking for less obvious things. One of my challenges is, she checks the CC statement so can't subscribe to any sites. Also a word of warning, after several years I got lazy and left Twitter open. Of course that day she decided she needed to use my devise for something. Fortunately she decided not to leave me. So you have to be 100% in your security. Good luck and be safe out there.
There are two browsers I use. I use chrome for business and personal, I use Firefox for screwing around and Monkey Business. Besides using a different browser, I use Yahoo for my fictitious face for fucking as well as for Facebook. That way my ADHD self can't log into the wrong one by accident. So cruising STG, USASexGuide, Chaturbate, POF, or any of the other insanity in which I participate is logged in on FireFox's Private window. It clears the cache and any browsing history when I shut down, so even if the ex had opened Firefox, the traces would all be gone.
Of course, she's gone now, which is the ultimate in privacy. Do I miss her? Not a fucking bit!! This probably won't work for you, but, hey, it's an option!
Coochie (free at last, free at last, Thank Lord Jesus, I'm free at last) Eater.
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Originally Posted by
MiloMadison
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For those that are married wondering what tricks you use to avoid getting caught? The basic stuff I think we all get. Looking for less obvious things. One of my challenges is, she checks the CC statement so can't subscribe to any sites. Also a word of warning, after several years I got lazy and left Twitter open. Of course that day she decided she needed to use my devise for something. Fortunately she decided not to leave me. So you have to be 100% in your security. Good luck and be safe out there.
Many years ago I had a credit card account that I used for work with one employer. I have always kept it open and use it for my hobby. Wife does not know about it. All statements come to me online. I pay them with a checking account wife does not know about from a bank wife has never heard of. All my online activity is done InPrivate or InCognito so it erases after I sign out. Have not had issues but I am extremely careful.
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Originally Posted by
MiloMadison
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For those that are married wondering what tricks you use to avoid getting caught? The basic stuff I think we all get. Looking for less obvious things. One of my challenges is, she checks the CC statement so can't subscribe to any sites. Also a word of warning, after several years I got lazy and left Twitter open. Of course that day she decided she needed to use my devise for something. Fortunately she decided not to leave me. So you have to be 100% in your security. Good luck and be safe out there.
Never use your real credit card for the hobby. Just use cash to get a prepaid card at Walgreens. And use fake names / addresses when subscribing.
A good protocol for this activity is to use a distinct chrome persona for all this. And delete it every session. Don't leave it open. And never use your real Chrome persona for anything hobby related.
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Education question
For those that are married wondering what tricks you use to avoid getting caught? The basic stuff I think we all get. Looking for less obvious things. One of my challenges is, she checks the CC statement so can't subscribe to any sites. Also a word of warning, after several years I got lazy and left Twitter open. Of course that day she decided she needed to use my devise for something. Fortunately she decided not to leave me. So you have to be 100% in your security. Good luck and be safe out there.