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10-21-21 09:41 #10283
Posts: 8How to spot a scammer? And some other insights for a first time arranger.
OK so this is my first attempt on SA. I'll go through the few I've been talking with and what but I know and the bits that make me scratch my head. TLDR Have any of you ever sent money before meeting for "x" reason. Like she needs help or her car is broken kind of stuff? I've Also been talking to a few others and they seem like pros and am curious for intel.
First the "pros".
1. Sweetestbabe https://members.seeking.com/member/e...7-4eb931ee364f.
This one got back to me quick and we switched to text and is looking to setup a ppm. Waiting for initial price and location possibility still but seems like a pro from what I've read lurking here? Anyone met her before?
2. Savannah1770 https://members.seeking.com/member/5...b-430a242eb082.
I saw a few pages back some info about her but did anyone actually go see her?? Immediately switched to text and rates.
Then here's my trouble girls. Basically for both there was long seemingly great conversation that devolved into them having issues of some sort that required money in advance. Both are "new" to the site but having no reference I don't know how often or easy it is for a scammer to setup on SA.
Girl one StarrbabyXX https://members.seeking.com/member/a...a-c209dc4a6f61.
Conversation went on for a while. We started talking arrangements and switched to snap. She sent me some hot pics to get me excited and even responded to a request so this is where my confusion starts because it seemed very nice up to that point. I get her number we switch to text. The story comes out. Now if you look at her profile she's actually specifically saying she needs out of a current relationship so I knew there was some baggage coming. But she wants me to send her enough money she can leave her BF and get her own place so she can be safe. And part of me wants to help her because she's not even asking for all that much because she's got the rest ($300) I guess I'm just in a weird spot I normally see independent girls or massages and here I am trying not to care about her situation but able to help but hoping someone's with experience here has seen this stuff and can help me out?
The second one "beck" https://members.seeking.com/member/9...e-3127cc23cc12.
I'll keep this one shorter but very similar story "feel" and am looking for the same insight as above except this one started "tough" and when we started talking arrangements she admitted to me she had no idea what to ask or anything and would follow my guidance. We switch to text and conversation about a date ultimately lead her revealing she had been kicked out of the house and was staying at her sisters with a broken down car and she's running out of time to stay there. She has t talked any numbers yet but I can't help but my soft side wants to help but I'd go broke helping every girl in trouble too!
On top of these I have one new girl I did set up a date with and TOFT and will report as well as a couple girls from a bit too far away (think one state) who haven't even asked for anything financially but are already just chatting away on snap like FWB. I'm pretty happy with my experience on SA so far just don't know what to do with these 2! Please advise and sorry for the monster write up.
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10-20-21 23:46 #10282
Posts: 600"that paying for girls when younger prevents development of the hunting instinct (game)" Bro, for wanting to drop some truth, that is some pseudoscientific nonsense. I could just as easily say that young dudes gain experience they otherwise would not have when they do this. Also, again, you keep saying that if they save their $$ then it all adds up. They ain't making enough $$$ for that. So they should spend it on whatever makes them happy now. If you're going to connect Seeking Arrangement to wokeness then there is nothing, absolutely nothing, you will not blame on wokeness, which means that it's meaningless and just a thing that old guys say when they no longer understand the world. Also, I am not one of those woke people, but you know, those woke people are all for legalizing sex work. Ever go on twitter? It aint the Far Right taliban types you probably watch that are supporting that. For someone so concerned about instinct, I think being alienated by the world so much that everything seems woke to you is a bad spot to be in.
Bottom line, I am youngish. And I do get laid without paying a dime. AND I use SA, and I get laid more. I am not going to judge or complain or cry about any of it. The economic outlook for this country is bad. We are still in a pandemic. People getting laid and having a decent time, young or old, is a good thing.
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10-20-21 22:02 #10281
Posts: 111Originally Posted by LolBoat [View Original Post]
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10-20-21 20:46 #10280
Posts: 39Well, I didn't mean to ruffle so many feathers here LOL. No worries. I still believe, though, that one shouldn't spend on girls when you're younger simply because you're much more able to get them for free at that age. Someone mentioned this, and I totally agree, that paying for girls when younger prevents development of the hunting instinct (game) that should be developed when you're younger. And saving all that $$$ will able a guy to be able to buy them when he really needs to pay – when he's older and can't get them otherwise, except dried up old hags!
And the younger guys need to realize that whatever game you develop when you are younger will only get better as you age, because you gain confidence and status if you become successful in life. If you don't develop some type of game when younger, there's nothing to build upon. And if you stay in shape and keep your looks, add the $$ and you can be deadly in the P2 P game. In our culture, broke older guys are probably the lowest on the totem pole socially and in the mating game. Even fat, old women can get action. But broke, older men? For the most part, nah. J.
And for me, no I'm not bitter at all. I've had a decent run on SA, for an older guy, and being a relative newbie at mongering at all. I will concede it takes tons of work though, probably a lot more than it takes a younger guy. It is what it is.
And truth be told, push cums to shove, I'd trade places with any of you younger guys in a minute. You have plenty of time to make stupid mistakes and hopefully recover from them. And stupid mistakes are fun! Older guys don't have the luxury of making a lot of stupid mistakes. LOL.
And I would tend to agree with all of you who say that our economic system is rigged and unfair, and there's an impending collapse coming. Even though I went to college, I started out with nothing working years in a factory making $5/ hr, but had success upward from there. I don't think that's possible any longer. And you CAN blame the Boomers for that. But I don't see succeeding generations doing that much to change things economically, as they seem to be more concerned with materialistic consumption (which just feeds the current unfair economic model) and their politics is aimed more towards social issues woke stuff and climate change – not changing the economic model.
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10-20-21 20:22 #10279
Posts: 517Originally Posted by ChicagoBred33 [View Original Post]
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10-20-21 16:41 #10278
Posts: 166Originally Posted by HarryMcHardon [View Original Post]
Let the young guys do whatever they want. If they have the money bang all the SB's you want.
College athletes are not paying for pussy. Guys in their 20's who are in The top 10% are not paying for Pussy.
Young guys candle hat they want but if my 20 year old son came to me and said I am going to get on SA and pay for pussy I would probably be against it. I think it can make you lazy and you have to learn how to hunt. You have to smash a good amount of girls in the wild and transition to this when you're older. You will never develop game by ducking SB's for money!
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10-20-21 16:26 #10277
Posts: 678Not a Scam
She's not a scam. She's been on SA for a while and has been discussed on the board over the summer. This is just her latest of many profiles she's had. Pics are her she doesn't live up to them in person. She's basically a pro, or at least a very high volume SA type that sees pretty much anyone who will give her 400 and be happy with an all covered and very rushed escort like time.
Originally Posted by Bonadrag [View Original Post]
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10-20-21 15:16 #10276
Posts: 102Catfishing
Originally Posted by Bonadrag [View Original Post]
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10-20-21 14:54 #10275
Posts: 163SexySugar a scam
Messaged with her and moved quickly to texting. English was broken with weird grammar and when I asked for a specific pic to prove she was real (holding up a paper with my name written on it), she got pissed and called me a detective (https://members.seeking.com/member/b...5-921aeeef6f47.
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10-20-21 14:05 #10274
Posts: 17Qualityoverquantity
https://members.seeking.com/member/1...0-52e74c3295b2
https://www.eros.com/illinois/chicago/files/8119726.htm
Any info? I'm not even sure if she is a "she".
Wants 1 K to start.
Successfully photo verified at least. Which is more than I can say for 90% of the other profiles on SA.
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10-20-21 10:55 #10273
Posts: 19Bitter much?
Originally Posted by HarryMcHardon [View Original Post]
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10-20-21 09:05 #10272
Posts: 517Originally Posted by HarryMcHardon [View Original Post]
Both are entry level professionals who have a combined income of prob around a 120 k a year if that.
Our whole system is going to crash down sooner or later.
i highly doubt any college athletes are on SA. those guys are the big dogs on campus and have plenty of girls looking to get piped down by them. i honestly just think its gotten so competitive on traditional dating apps that more and more guys are just saying screw it, this saves me time. there are a few manosphere podcasters who did exposes on SA and that is also prob why alot of younger guys are signing up for it as well.
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10-19-21 23:45 #10271
Posts: 908Originally Posted by HarryMcHardon [View Original Post]
Do not hate on the (relative) success of others. Instead, look to improve your own situation.
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10-19-21 21:12 #10270
Posts: 600Originally Posted by HarryMcHardon [View Original Post]
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10-19-21 20:16 #10269
Posts: 39Originally Posted by LolBoat [View Original Post]
Also, about the recent influx of younger guys on SA – I wonder how much of this is due to all the stupid money being made trading on Robinhood and meme stocks. Also the Bitcoin bubble. All this is stupid money which will vaporize when there's an inevitable crash in these markets. It's when and not if. Enjoy it while you can guys! So maybe us older farts should hope for an economic crash to flush these young hot shots back to their gig job income where they would likely be otherwise? And out of SA? Hahaha.
The other thing is, college athletes can now make money off their names via advertisements, endorsements, etc. Etc. Maybe more stupid money potentially chasing girls on SA, especially in big time college towns? Just something to think about.