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10-13-21 22:58 #4160
Needing help
So a couple of people wanting help. After being an SD for many years I can tell you that some of it just comes with a bit of experience dealing with crazy situations but I'll try to provide a short list.
Originally Posted by Hoskis
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1. Never pay in advance, do not send dick pics especially with your face unless you want extorted. Either situation will leave you alone on a date with Rosie.
2. Within your profile just try to be normal, something like "Just an average, chill guy, looking to have fun with one lady, who appreciates a successful man. Looking for discretion, and one on one time with the right lady. " Avoid words like "intimacy, sex, ppm, etc. " just state "I prefer to discuss this stuff off line, if you'd like to text to work out specifics, I'm down for that. " Always speak like you're chill and cool.
3. Hide all Live in Indiana, Indiana. They don't live in Indiana and / or live too far away and have zero good intentions.
4. Just hide the ones that say that they are looking to sell pics and videos or meet in person eventually, there is no eventually.
5. If they text you, don't assume all is good, talk to them like normal, if they say times have been tough (red flag, ask more questions. Chances are it'll lead to asking you for money for a baby sitter, money for their sisters meds, money for groceries, or gas ahead of meeting. Just wait for it, I promise, 90% of the time, they'll reveal that to you and then you'll just end up blocking them, therefore refer to rule number 1.
6. Never pay for a meet and greet. If a woman needs to be paid to simply meet for drinks, she doesn't like you anyway and you aren't getting anywhere but a boner for some hot chick being a ***** to you and checking her watch.
7. Ignore the "My last SD paid me" or "I usually get" because remember, they just said "I'm new to this". So stick to your guns, the average is 2-3 $4 these days, or 4 $$ for top of the line, hosting, no hotel, babes. Fat, ugly chicks, maybe $1.
8. If their first and last call is todays date, feel free to reach out and let us know how it goes. But chances are they are dudes who robbed instagram photos so might as well wait a day or two to see if they get banned or not.
9. Some women despite what I said are real, and just on drugs, so ask for current photos and look for obvious signs of pharma use -- track marks, rotten teeth, extremely skinny, etc. At that point its up to you, just please use a condom with the real women on that site that the rest of us may choose to date. I don't want what you catch from the crackster.
10. Be nice, be real, be sincere. While they are all hooking, basically, some do like to see one guy at a time (most lie but some no) so be cool to them. If they want to meet you and you click with them in text, they probably do find you attractive for your age so be even more nice to them. Just don't start offering stupid money to make them think that's the norm, because they likely aren't just seeing you and our replies will just piss them off and your price will go up as a result (just sayin' Consider your hourly worth and never offer more then that as you surely aren't getting your value at that point. Also consider their hourly rate if they have a job, and meet somewhere in the middle. Mutual means mutual. Last point here. If you meet a good one, stick with her for a while, until things wear off for both of you, as the good ones are more rare these days and as long as I've been on I've had the luxury of once knowing great ones who are still on every single day that are now just bitter and cold.
11. Don't discuss price. I've gotten laid for free simply for being successful and charming the hell out of a woman many times. Just agree to meet, and avoid Starbucks, those dates suck and usually just create uncomfortable situations. Somewhere comfortable for both of you. Also, you don't want to be entrapped for solicitation. So stick to the "we can discuss that once we know chemistry exists on both sides as I want you and I to both be comfortable with one another. " If you meet in person the price normally cuts down considerably.
12. It's best to discuss "weekly until I know you better allowance" and focus the energy on how many times per week, better value that way. Many will want a ball park, just throw it back in their lap and ask them what their ball park is and say "Ok, sounds cool, we can discuss that in person. ".
13. If they need to know price upfront without even getting to know you, just tell them you aren't on Ebay, you're on a dating site, do you want to get to know me or not? If not, then move on, that or fuck with them but caution. You could get reported and banned from the site.
14. I'll stop on an even number. I don't care if a lady is a pro hooker or a lady who is trying to get through college, or a lady just wants a slightly older man to marry, the site is becoming very diverse and is full of crazy ass liberals. So I guess the best suggestion I could give is to not rush the conversation to What, how much, when, and where. Just get to know them as if you wanted to date them, or had interest in considering so. It'll get you further with more incredible experiences then if you treated someone like a peace of meat; as you probably don't want treated like an ATM.
Hope some of this is helpful and I'm sure others will have useful advice.
P.S. -- if you want to know about someone, I only block those that fall into the unsafe category and most of the time when you guys are asking about someone with plans to meet, I've long ago blocked them because either a: they wanted money up front, b: were on drugs c: sent nasty photos compared to their profile, or d: were super GPS (like over 5 $$ . Which I'd pay for a dream chick I must admit but never more). I'll try to do better by just hiding them so I can give advice but will be sure to let you know if I blocked them for those reasons. I never block someone over just being an ass, as they usually forget about me within a couple of weeks and like Ground Hog Day I can attempt a better approach the next time. Just PM me as I don't check in here often enough to reply. Also I would say, trust Mr. P. He's a good dude and knows his shit.
JaX.
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10-13-21 22:42 #4159
2 girls
You could easily have 2 girls or maybe 3 for that. And no drop off on looks. Sumthin to consider. Originally Posted by DuckRep
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10-13-21 22:18 #4158
Blocked
I've already blocked her, which I never do unless they try to pull shit on me such as wanting money in advance and / or they tried to be stupid on rates above 300 ppm. I've been on SA for almost 8 years and can attest that right now is just a crappy time to be on SA. November will be better, less scams and more chicks who don't plan ahead for the holidays. But I'd proceed with caution. Originally Posted by Dyoung35
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10-13-21 22:01 #4157
LOL close but no
But it does look a lot like me, and I'm very familiar with the place these pics were taken at. Originally Posted by TyCox
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10-13-21 19:49 #4156
I'm late but.
I'm late but. Is she still around?
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10-13-21 16:45 #4155
Dynasticlotus25 and Dynasticlotus21
Before Dynasticlotus25 she was Dynasticlotus21 and I believe there is info on her here. Originally Posted by Dyoung35
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10-13-21 14:31 #4154
In a forest
Been there. Done that. Not for 8. $$5. Anal fsbb.
Didn't go back at $$5. Can't imagine anyone is going any higher.
Originally Posted by DuckRep
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10-13-21 14:16 #4153Don't put ppm on profile or discuss it on site, probably will get banned. Originally Posted by SpinAndWin85
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10-13-21 11:28 #4152
Ppm
I truly believe, and always tell potential SBs, that PPM is mutually beneficial. My schedule is erratic. Some months I can meet 4 times, some months only 2. Negotiating a fair PPM is better. There are plenty out there who'll do this. If they won't, move on. Originally Posted by Slayter9
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10-13-21 11:27 #4151
DynasticLotus
Hello Gents,
I have a lunch date scheduled with Miss Lotus. Might anyone have any experience or information they'd like to share?
https://members.seeking.com/member/8...0-8be7c06e5a25
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10-13-21 10:14 #4150
Same
I got her number out of state area code and pictures, she hit me with $1000 per meet. Yea right! Originally Posted by DuckRep
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10-13-21 00:46 #4149
In a forest GPS
https://members.seeking.com/member/7...8-de4231bff2e6
Anyone have any intel on this one. She indicated that she must have $800 for a ppm arrangement. I hope someone took her tor a ride and can report back. Hopefully for less than $800 😳.
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10-12-21 22:39 #4148I don't show my face in my profile. If they question it, simply say you saw a female co-worker or your daughter's friend on there. Ever since, you're being more cautious. Originally Posted by Neyiak
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They don't like PPM? Tell them your previous SB actually preferred it, but you're not against a weekly or monthly allowance. But, you can't commit to that until you know the relationship has staying power. PPM makes sense until we agree we're steady. By then, you moved on or they don't care anymore.
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10-12-21 16:42 #4147
Help
Yes. I need help as well. Very little success in the pas few weeks. Originally Posted by Neyiak
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10-12-21 03:56 #4146
What does your SA look like?
I'm new here and I'd really appreciate showing me the ropes.
What's your SA profile look like? How many pic?
Do you show your face?
What do you write in order to attract SB?
Should I tell the SB that I'm not interested in paying her an allowance, instead I'll pay her $$$ every time we meet?
How do you assure these SB won't turn crazy and dox you out?
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