Sugarbabies?

**JLZ61** · 09-18-21 21:48

The opposite happens. The SBs get too attached and want to be a GF.

I'm neither married nor attached and actually wouldn't mind a longer term dalliance but I've had a number of SBs simply want more than, for one reason of another, I am willing to give.

So it can go both ways.

Originally Posted by Prat652 [View Original Post]

Just want to share my experience. As I am feeling little sad. I had a sugarbaby kind of long term almost meeting her in last 3-4 months. I liked her as she is young and fit and hot UC student. But 3 weeks before she unfriended me in snap and again reappeared in seeking yesterday I asked what happened. She said she doesn't want a serious relationships. Hmm. Felt sad as I thought to keep her as my long term. I learnt my lesson we shouldn't get attached to them.

**Prat652** · 09-18-21 12:47

Originally Posted by JackOhLantern [View Original Post]

You are not the oddball at all, at least in my opinion. I've been on the site for a few years, and I've had a ton of experiences. Some really incredible, many not so much. Just one-offs. I've been scammed a handful of times as well. Even the really incredible experiences the excitement seems to fizzle out after 3-4 meets. There are a couple of women I still see on occasion, but for the most part it gets to the point (for me) where I'm looking for an out and the next new thing. I guess I just get bored easily. I just joined this forum, and I have a lot of reviews I can share, because I'm fairly active on the site.

Just want to share my experience. As I am feeling little sad. I had a sugarbaby kind of long term almost meeting her in last 3-4 months. I liked her as she is young and fit and hot UC student. But 3 weeks before she unfriended me in snap and again reappeared in seeking yesterday I asked what happened. She said she doesn't want a serious relationships. Hmm. Felt sad as I thought to keep her as my long term. I learnt my lesson we shouldn't get attached to them.

**Progressou812** · 09-17-21 23:33

Hello all, anyone have info on this lady from WYP? https://members.whatsyourprice.com/p...OeMYQ0NYVKQEML.

Thanks for any info. Stay safe,

P.

**JackOhLantern** · 09-17-21 00:11

Originally Posted by ToddCincy [View Original Post]

One thing I've found is that even with SBs, there is almost always a point of diminishing returns that sets in after a few sessions.

I don't mean that I'm strictly "one and done". But I would say that I have seldom adhered to the ideal presented on Seeking, of an ongoing, long-term arrangement.

I've seldom wanted to go beyond 4 or 5 times with the same one, in fact.

Am I the oddball? Or do the rest of you similarly crave variety, even with SBs?

You are not the oddball at all, at least in my opinion. I've been on the site for a few years, and I've had a ton of experiences. Some really incredible, many not so much. Just one-offs. I've been scammed a handful of times as well. Even the really incredible experiences the excitement seems to fizzle out after 3-4 meets. There are a couple of women I still see on occasion, but for the most part it gets to the point (for me) where I'm looking for an out and the next new thing. I guess I just get bored easily. I just joined this forum, and I have a lot of reviews I can share, because I'm fairly active on the site.

**WanderingAbout** · 09-16-21 23:47

Saffy.

https://www.seeking.com/member/3156b...3-63d215f41642

**JLZ61** · 09-15-21 12:12

As always, sad to hear. But I guess I should be glad our schedules didn't match!

Originally Posted by Dman1 [View Original Post]

My experience is she has gone down hill fast. Drug use and complications from that shows badly.

Hygiene very lacking these days.

Be careful.

**Dman1** · 09-15-21 10:36

Originally Posted by JLZ61 [View Original Post]

Chatted this one up. She is very much down for fun at 2 bills an hour. Seems friendly and flexible with requests. Doesn't drink but is 420 friendly. She has no car and asks to be picked up but also offered up that her girlfriend could drive her for gas money. Stays down Erlanger way.

Ended up not meeting due to schedule conflicts. Saw no red flags and will consider for future fun.

https://www.seeking.com/member/3da66...6-f2afe173eae8

My experience is she has gone down hill fast. Drug use and complications from that shows badly.

Hygiene very lacking these days.

Be careful.

**WanderingAbout** · 09-15-21 01:10

TCO you're always spot on correct. Didn't want to come off as a jerk to you in replying to your post. All good

Christian Mingles? Hmmm. Never tried. Wonder if the ladies are like this
https://youtu.be/j8ZF_R_j0OY

Originally Posted by TallCoolOne69 [View Original Post]

Didn't mean for it to come off like that. You're wells respected and I follow your posts closely. I have given up on "Platonic" member's. Just never went anywhere after countless messages, maybe it's just me. I'd have better luck on Christian Mingles. HA!

**Cincyfunguy** · 09-14-21 18:10

Originally Posted by WanderingAbout [View Original Post]

Not arguing with you TCO. Some girls use platonic in their profile as a screening method to discourage guys who want a quickie from messaging them. Have met several using platonic in their profile who were open minded. So if she's your type and says platonic explore the opportunity to see what platonic really means to her.

Totally agree based on first hand experience!

**TroublePlay** · 09-14-21 16:36

I once met a baby on the site who had written all kind of romantic aspirations, marriage minded stuff on her profile. Normally, I would have kept browsing, but she gave off sexy MILF vibes. And she was hot.

I inquired about what she was looking for. She was totally dtf and it turns out all that profile wording was there if someone she knew, especially her family, found her profile on the site. It was just a cover.

Originally Posted by BamBam [View Original Post]

Agree! I have had the same experience.

**TallCoolOne69** · 09-14-21 14:07

Originally Posted by WanderingAbout [View Original Post]

Not arguing with you TCO. Some girls use platonic in their profile as a screening method to discourage guys who want a quickie from messaging them. Have met several using platonic in their profile who were open minded. So if she's your type and says platonic explore the opportunity to see what platonic really means to her.

Didn't mean for it to come off like that. You're wells respected and I follow your posts closely. I have given up on "Platonic" member's. Just never went anywhere after countless messages, maybe it's just me. I'd have better luck on Christian Mingles. HA!

**BamBam** · 09-14-21 13:49

Agree! I have had the same experience.

Originally Posted by WanderingAbout [View Original Post]

Not arguing with you TCO. Some girls use platonic in their profile as a screening method to discourage guys who want a quickie from messaging them. Have met several using platonic in their profile who were open minded. So if she's your type and says platonic explore the opportunity to see what platonic really means to her.

**D Nut** · 09-14-21 11:59

Originally Posted by TallCoolOne69 [View Original Post]

Says Platonic in her profile.

Platonic can mean no emotional connection but open to fuck. I have platonic relationships that are also sexual. People in open relationships can have platonic sexual encounters. It's not polyamory. But it would be best to clarify that in the early stages. When tku.

**WanderingAbout** · 09-14-21 09:15

Originally Posted by TallCoolOne69 [View Original Post]

Says Platonic in her profile.

Not arguing with you TCO. Some girls use platonic in their profile as a screening method to discourage guys who want a quickie from messaging them. Have met several using platonic in their profile who were open minded. So if she's your type and says platonic explore the opportunity to see what platonic really means to her.