Sugarbabies?

**Cincyfunguy** · 09-13-21 19:40

Originally Posted by JLZ61 [View Original Post]

Chatted this one up. She is very much down for fun at 2 bills an hour. Seems friendly and flexible with requests. Doesn't drink but is 420 friendly. She has no car and asks to be picked up but also offered up that her girlfriend could drive her for gas money. Stays down Erlanger way.

Ended up not meeting due to schedule conflicts. Saw no red flags and will consider for future fun.

https://www.seeking.com/member/3da66...6-f2afe173eae8

For what it's worth, she goes by the name of Nikki and says she used to advertise on USA (that's obviously some time ago. Wonder if anyone knows of her? She's very flakey with repeated no-shows and ghosting after making a commitment.

**BamBam** · 09-13-21 16:09

Same here as other comments. Messages sounding eager then ghosts.

Bam.

Originally Posted by WanderingAbout [View Original Post]

Found her to be a waste of time. Interest faded quickly as her messages never really said anything meaningful or actionable. Platonic vibes. YMMV.

**WanderingAbout** · 09-13-21 14:39

Found her to be a waste of time. Interest faded quickly as her messages never really said anything meaningful or actionable. Platonic vibes. YMMV.

Originally Posted by ToddCincy [View Original Post]

This one seems to be a time-waster, though I'm not entirely certain what her game is. When you ask her to meet, or what she's looking for in an arrangement, she'll immediately reply that she's "not a hooker". And I am always extremely circumspect when messaging on Seeking, I should note. May be a rinser. Not sure
https://www.seeking.com/member/bfedb...f-867ec10bbe92

**JLZ61** · 09-12-21 23:45

Chatted this one up. She is very much down for fun at 2 bills an hour. Seems friendly and flexible with requests. Doesn't drink but is 420 friendly. She has no car and asks to be picked up but also offered up that her girlfriend could drive her for gas money. Stays down Erlanger way.

Ended up not meeting due to schedule conflicts. Saw no red flags and will consider for future fun.

https://www.seeking.com/member/3da66...6-f2afe173eae8

**BamBam** · 09-12-21 15:53

I sent a PM.

Originally Posted by ToddCincy [View Original Post]

I have been chatting with this one. Seems friendly and legit, though a bit scattered. Any info would be appreciated. Feel free to PM me.

https://www.seeking.com/member/a8217...0-f726ef0c6792

**Todd Cincy** · 09-11-21 20:48

This one seems to be a time-waster, though I'm not entirely certain what her game is. When you ask her to meet, or what she's looking for in an arrangement, she'll immediately reply that she's "not a hooker".

And I am always extremely circumspect when messaging on Seeking, I should note.

May be a rinser. Not sure.

https://www.seeking.com/member/bfedb...f-867ec10bbe92

**Todd Cincy** · 09-11-21 20:45

I have been chatting with this one. Seems friendly and legit, though a bit scattered. Any info would be appreciated. Feel free to PM me.

https://www.seeking.com/member/a8217...0-f726ef0c6792

**TallCoolOne69** · 09-11-21 16:26

Originally Posted by BamBam [View Original Post]

Took me straight to text. Strike 1. Number gets a name, which she / he shares, but no reliable PII. Catfish?? Sent me to a fundraiser site I had never seen before. Apparently a Nando1. Strike 2. Finally hit with a tale of woe about a heart condition, being hospitalized and needing a small amount for medicine before she can get out: 82.84 and will not let me bring the money to her in the hospital. Strike 3. Closed with a bitter text accusing me of treating her like she was a low down scammer. I am so ashamed!

Bam.

https://www.seeking.com/member/85e5b...7-5c24db41d3fa

I got the sob story online and stopped it right there. Her comment was that it probably wasn't the right place for it and I replied NOPE!

**BamBam** · 09-11-21 12:10

Took me straight to text. Strike 1. Number gets a name, which she / he shares, but no reliable PII. Catfish?? Sent me to a fundraiser site I had never seen before. Apparently a Nando1. Strike 2. Finally hit with a tale of woe about a heart condition, being hospitalized and needing a small amount for medicine before she can get out: 82.84 and will not let me bring the money to her in the hospital. Strike 3. Closed with a bitter text accusing me of treating her like she was a low down scammer. I am so ashamed!

Bam.

https://www.seeking.com/member/85e5b...7-5c24db41d3fa

**CooperTown** · 09-10-21 17:40

Originally Posted by WanderingAbout [View Original Post]

No hard and fast rule for landing a sugarbaby except you have to keep trying. Takes time.

Hey is a typical intro message from a SB to a SD. Doesn't mean they are not real. Just a common starting point.

The profiles that give you one, two, three word responses consistently and never engage in a real conversation are generally a waste of time.

Try this: Add a different market to your profile that you will never travel too. Like Dallas. Then message the hell out of the profiles in Dallas. Try different approaches and see which gets a response. If the Dallas SBs reply and ask why you are listed in two markets say Dallas is your home town but you come to Cincinnati for work. When you find an approach that works try it in Cincinnati with your real prospects. Reason not to do this message testing in Cincinnati is its your SB pool. Don't crap in your own pool with approaches that are sheeeet.

This isn't the method I'd recommend using, but I'm a different person. I send a few sentences saying something about their profile and I'd like to get to know them better. There's usually some back and forth. Some will get right down to business. Others want to feel out the situation. Generally everyone knows who's there and why and are pretty open with what they're looking for and (maybe more important) what they're NOT looking for.

I'm honest with them, especially after I am confident they're real.

**BamBam** · 09-10-21 12:00

SCAMMER! His number is 773 (Cicero, IL) and 7 six2- 9378. Sends you to a scheduling site. Number shows all over the country linked to escort sites likely asking for deposits, etc.

https://www.seeking.com/member/46ce6...5-17d4a080221a

Bam.

**WanderingAbout** · 09-09-21 21:53

No hard and fast rule for landing a sugarbaby except you have to keep trying. Takes time.

Hey is a typical intro message from a SB to a SD. Doesn't mean they are not real. Just a common starting point.

The profiles that give you one, two, three word responses consistently and never engage in a real conversation are generally a waste of time.

Try this: Add a different market to your profile that you will never travel too. Like Dallas. Then message the hell out of the profiles in Dallas. Try different approaches and see which gets a response. If the Dallas SBs reply and ask why you are listed in two markets say Dallas is your home town but you come to Cincinnati for work. When you find an approach that works try it in Cincinnati with your real prospects. Reason not to do this message testing in Cincinnati is its your SB pool. Don't crap in your own pool with approaches that are sheeeet.

Originally Posted by Nob72 [View Original Post]

I just joined SA for the first time and thought I'd give sugarbabies a try. So far I haven't had much luck and thought I'd ask some advice how to get started.

I've had a few send me messages that consist mostly of "hey" and nothing else. When I reply to them I usually still only get only a few words in response. I've initiated contact and messaged a few girls but it's mostly been just smalltalk. Even when I ask they don't come out and say what they're REALLY looking for.

So, how blunt do I need to be? Do I just openly ask how much $ they charge to meet and what their rules are for being physical? Or do I have to continue to dance around the subject and try to woo them until they bring up their rules?

**BamBam** · 09-09-21 14:25

She is now down to 500 ppm. I suspect she has bloomed to BBW. I would have offered 400 if she could host or 300 if I get a room. If she was not a whale at the MnG. I suspect I dodged a bullet. I have text pics and more info for contributing seniors.

Bam.

Originally Posted by WanderingAbout [View Original Post]

Wants 600 ppm. NSA FWB. Wants money immediately upon meeting. Got pro-like and cash and dash vibes. Could be wrong. YMMV.

https://www.seeking.com/member/e4002...b-d8fddf3d92a2

**RogerOver** · 09-09-21 13:56

Originally Posted by Nob72 [View Original Post]

I just joined SA for the first time and thought I'd give sugarbabies a try. So far I haven't had much luck and thought I'd ask some advice how to get started.

I've had a few send me messages that consist mostly of "hey" and nothing else. When I reply to them I usually still only get only a few words in response. I've initiated contact and messaged a few girls but it's mostly been just smalltalk. Even when I ask they don't come out and say what they're REALLY looking for.

So, how blunt do I need to be? Do I just openly ask how much $ they charge to meet and what their rules are for being physical? Or do I have to continue to dance around the subject and try to woo them until they bring up their rules?

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**Nob72** · 09-09-21 10:56

I just joined SA for the first time and thought I'd give sugarbabies a try. So far I haven't had much luck and thought I'd ask some advice how to get started.

I've had a few send me messages that consist mostly of "hey" and nothing else. When I reply to them I usually still only get only a few words in response. I've initiated contact and messaged a few girls but it's mostly been just smalltalk. Even when I ask they don't come out and say what they're REALLY looking for.

So, how blunt do I need to be? Do I just openly ask how much $ they charge to meet and what their rules are for being physical? Or do I have to continue to dance around the subject and try to woo them until they bring up their rules?