General Reports

[Gigabyte40]

It's not a hill worth dying on, but I think people's use of code online is just hilarious. Authorities can't convict you based on you saying "this girl charges $300 for sex" or even that you paid that much for sex. It's not solicitation, it's just an after the fact report. And there's strong legal precedent against them being able to link a person to web activity anyway.

Also, people are kidding themselves if they think law enforcement doesn't know what all of these dumb codes mean. It takes about 3 minutes of reading context and an IQ over 60 to understand what's written here.

Personally I just see absolutely no reason to use code, and I think the stupid nomenclature people have adopted here to represent money spent is not only a waste but often confusing. Like roses is fine, but insisting on saying "$$.5" instead of just 250 is beyond silly. It's not a huge deal, but I get the idea that a lot of people on this forum are simultaneously incredibly cautious with what they write, which is pointless, but won't hesitate to text a girl and ask if she does BB for an upcharge. Which will land you in jail.

I agree, the use of code words here is kinda stupid. We all know what we're talking about. Hell, the name of the site is SEXGUIDE so what else would we be talking about. And yes the $$1. 50 or $$$ is more confusing than helpful. What's wrong with saying 150 and 200 dollars for a fuck & suck.

I guess using code words and saying I dreamed about fucking some girl is a way of saying it without really saying it. Its a way to describe what happened without admitting that you actually did it. It's like we're in a club with a secret language.

I like calling it easy plausible deniability which was mentioned in a previous post.

GB40.

[AnthonyMarc]

I mainly have pics from ads, but I've also gotten pics from them. I know some allow videos during the act, and I'm kicking myself for not asking that more. The SC walkers seem to be more willing based on past reviews. Summer cums to mind as allowing pics of action. Speaking of SC, I swung by McD's there and saw Summer and two other WSWs and a couple BSWs. I was going to skip breakfast because one was wearing a green miniskirt or short dress (around 9 am) by the hotel on Reagan. I turned around but she got scooped by a lucky monger. So close.

Yea I've had that happen, it starts getting super gushy and you look down and its all red! Glad you got a clean bill of health. The picture part is a good idea and I may start doing that. Are you taking a pic of them when you meet them or just a screen shot of the ad? As an FYI, I wasnt trying to be boastful, just curious about if any one else tracked their conquests.

[Bouinage]

It's not a hill worth dying on, but I think people's use of code online is just hilarious. Authorities can't convict you based on you saying "this girl charges $300 for sex" or even that you paid that much for sex. It's not solicitation, it's just an after the fact report. And there's strong legal precedent against them being able to link a person to web activity anyway.

Also, people are kidding themselves if they think law enforcement doesn't know what all of these dumb codes mean. It takes about 3 minutes of reading context and an IQ over 60 to understand what's written here.

Personally I just see absolutely no reason to use code, and I think the stupid nomenclature people have adopted here to represent money spent is not only a waste but often confusing. Like roses is fine, but insisting on saying "$$.5" instead of just 250 is beyond silly. It's not a huge deal, but I get the idea that a lot of people on this forum are simultaneously incredibly cautious with what they write, which is pointless, but won't hesitate to text a girl and ask if she does BB for an upcharge. Which will land you in jail.

Yea that is an excellent point, any mention of a sex act and money is the illegal part. I think code of using $$ for money was a convention that used to be set by the board? Not really sure though. Some of the code words l like cause it makes writing / reading easier, BBBJ, cfs, BBFS, its absolutely clear what he means, because often enough its difficult to understand what that monger is trying to say, but then again I'm no Hemingway. I really do wonder how much LEO pay attention to this board? Sure they could gather intel on hot parts of town, or maybe track particular mongers, or search out for missing persons, but agree 100% they know exactly what we are saying. I guess intel is intel. I remember a piece of advice an older monger gave me, never say, do, or write anything that you wouldn't want to explain to a judge (or your mom) LOL. That may be why some mongers are cagey about what they say, and honestly, in this type of hobby a healthy does of fear probably goes a long way to watching your 6. In reality we probably have more to fear from the religious zealots on a crusade doing what they think is best for everybody concerned by trying to out mongers to the community and stop the oldest profession. America is very 3rd world when it comes to this game, many countries have this biz regulated and provide health screening and help to ladies (and some men) who do this, just seems more pragmatic. It would be an interesting read to see a comparison of countries that have this legal vs not legal. We know it goes on, lets use that to our advantage and tax it, regulate it, maybe it will help cut down on sex trafficking? Look at alcohol and how it is regulated in some form or fashion all over the country and alcohol kills more people than STDs. According to the CDC, 95,000 people die each year from alcohol. Soapbox moment over.

[Bouinage]

I definitely record and try to keep pics. I only got 6 last year because of rona. I had 20 the year before. I had a scare with a lady who got blood all over my balls. I had a condom and The dr said it was low risk, but I sweated about it for 6 months. Happy to report I was clean.

Yea I've had that happen, it starts getting super gushy and you look down and its all red! Glad you got a clean bill of health. The picture part is a good idea and I may start doing that. Are you taking a pic of them when you meet them or just a screen shot of the ad? As an FYI, I wasnt trying to be boastful, just curious about if any one else tracked their conquests.

[FunderJ]

It's not a hill worth dying on, but I think people's use of code online is just hilarious. Authorities can't convict you based on you saying "this girl charges $300 for sex" or even that you paid that much for sex. It's not solicitation, it's just an after the fact report. And there's strong legal precedent against them being able to link a person to web activity anyway.

Also, people are kidding themselves if they think law enforcement doesn't know what all of these dumb codes mean. It takes about 3 minutes of reading context and an IQ over 60 to understand what's written here.

Personally I just see absolutely no reason to use code, and I think the stupid nomenclature people have adopted here to represent money spent is not only a waste but often confusing. Like roses is fine, but insisting on saying "$$.5" instead of just 250 is beyond silly. It's not a huge deal, but I get the idea that a lot of people on this forum are simultaneously incredibly cautious with what they write, which is pointless, but won't hesitate to text a girl and ask if she does BB for an upcharge. Which will land you in jail.

I agree 100%. They are a lot smarter than some give them credit for. This is one reason why I try to stick with my regulars until they get tired of me. When you do lose a regular and you find another provider who interests you, just call or text her and ask for a QV without asking for any specific favors. You will know after your first visit if there is a connection. If there is a connection, you can have a specific discussion about her services for your next and future visits.

[CuriousGeor]

I tried using our code word roses in another forum to ask how much certain jobs pay. I was trying to ask without actually referring to money. They didn't understand the reference and told me that nobody gets paid in roses.

GB40.

It's not a hill worth dying on, but I think people's use of code online is just hilarious. Authorities can't convict you based on you saying "this girl charges $300 for sex" or even that you paid that much for sex. It's not solicitation, it's just an after the fact report. And there's strong legal precedent against them being able to link a person to web activity anyway.

Also, people are kidding themselves if they think law enforcement doesn't know what all of these dumb codes mean. It takes about 3 minutes of reading context and an IQ over 60 to understand what's written here.

Personally I just see absolutely no reason to use code, and I think the stupid nomenclature people have adopted here to represent money spent is not only a waste but often confusing. Like roses is fine, but insisting on saying "$$.5" instead of just 250 is beyond silly. It's not a huge deal, but I get the idea that a lot of people on this forum are simultaneously incredibly cautious with what they write, which is pointless, but won't hesitate to text a girl and ask if she does BB for an upcharge. Which will land you in jail.

[AnthonyMarc]

I definitely record and try to keep pics. I only got 6 last year because of rona. I had 20 the year before. I had a scare with a lady who got blood all over my balls. I had a condom and The dr said it was low risk, but I sweated about it for 6 months. Happy to report I was clean.

So not sure how many of you do this; I have known a few mongers to track their mongers over the year. One guy I know kept a detailed spread sheet LOL. I don't go to that extent but I do track who and when. It all started when a cover broke while with a provider with questionable hygiene. You know that feeling, your doing the deed and all of a sudden it starts feeling really good, then you bust a big nut. You pull out and see that rubber ring at the base and your cock is all shiny with the mixed juices LOL. That was a sinking feeling for me and I was worried about STDs, so I recorded the date and her name. I came up clean but the habit stuck. I know alot of guys on here have SO so that's not a good idea, but its just me. So last year I made 95 recordings (obviously not all reported on here) I was stunned when I did the math at what I had spent. Any one else keep track of their visits or is this crazy and I should stop doing it immediately LOL. Don't think it would really prove anything in court if it came to that, my text messages are way more detailed lmao.

[TheMechanik365]

You called it "easy plausible deniability" - now that's what I'm talking about. Whether in person in a store, or by text or email, or on the phone, there is nothing wrong with asking questions like: are you open minded, do you know anybody that does housekeeping, or even- do you know anyone that's trying to make some extra money? Since you don't mention sex for money you could easily claim that you needed a housekeeper or gardening advice. Yes anyone could say "but we know what you meant". But that's impossible to prove. If the girl knows what you mean then it's mission accomplished. If anyone else hears about it just deny it all day long.

I tried using our code word roses in another forum to ask how much certain jobs pay. I was trying to ask without actually referring to money. They didn't understand the reference and told me that nobody gets paid in roses.

GB40.

It's not what you know, it's what you can prove.

[Bouinage]

So not sure how many of you do this; I have known a few mongers to track their mongers over the year. One guy I know kept a detailed spread sheet LOL. I don't go to that extent but I do track who and when. It all started when a cover broke while with a provider with questionable hygiene. You know that feeling, your doing the deed and all of a sudden it starts feeling really good, then you bust a big nut. You pull out and see that rubber ring at the base and your cock is all shiny with the mixed juices LOL. That was a sinking feeling for me and I was worried about STDs, so I recorded the date and her name. I came up clean but the habit stuck. I know alot of guys on here have SO so that's not a good idea, but its just me. So last year I made 95 recordings (obviously not all reported on here) I was stunned when I did the math at what I had spent. Any one else keep track of their visits or is this crazy and I should stop doing it immediately LOL. Don't think it would really prove anything in court if it came to that, my text messages are way more detailed lmao.

[Gigabyte40]

Not to discourage anyone from taking whatever precautions they feel are necessary but this is why I mostly stick with slightly higher end / more expensive places. They're not as worried about all working girls so much as they are the ones that are gonna cause trouble elsewhere.

Furthermore NEVER discuss explicit acts over text / phone. It's always just "I'd like to set up some time together" or "a session". That's easy easy plausible deniability and there's no way a the will try and file charges with evidence like that. Now if you go texting this girl "do you do BBBJ" then ask her what her rate is you've automatically put in writing that you're soliciting someone. Like not to be rude but most of the people busted for this sort of stuff are not that bright and don't think twice about straight up asking about specific acts and costs. Like all these posts I see on here where someone inquires about BB and is told it's an upcharge. That's direct evidence of solicitation in writing.

Now you might end up spending a bit of money on an experience that's a bit different than what you wanted, like maybe you show up and find out the girl only does CBJ or whatever, but at the end of the day that's an easy tradeoff for me vs having a written record of solicitation.

You called it "easy plausible deniability" - now that's what I'm talking about. Whether in person in a store, or by text or email, or on the phone, there is nothing wrong with asking questions like: are you open minded, do you know anybody that does housekeeping, or even- do you know anyone that's trying to make some extra money? Since you don't mention sex for money you could easily claim that you needed a housekeeper or gardening advice. Yes anyone could say "but we know what you meant". But that's impossible to prove. If the girl knows what you mean then it's mission accomplished. If anyone else hears about it just deny it all day long.

I tried using our code word roses in another forum to ask how much certain jobs pay. I was trying to ask without actually referring to money. They didn't understand the reference and told me that nobody gets paid in roses.

GB40.

[NC Transplant]

I have run into one or two that figured out I was using a VOIP number. If that is their policy I move to the next one. I am not giving them my real number. We take too much risk when we do that. I don't trust any of them that well. Even if you can trust them, if they get busted then LEO has your contact on their phone.

Based on what I've been told and seen a lot of upscale providers won't even accept clients with app or voip #s for security purposes because of all the issues they have with them and scheduling.

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[KingEpqng]

Based on what I've been told and seen a lot of upscale providers won't even accept clients with app or voip #s for security purposes because of all the issues they have with them and scheduling.

Not to discourage anyone from taking whatever precautions they feel are necessary but this is why I mostly stick with slightly higher end / more expensive places. Generally speaking you don't see Eros or AMPs getting in trouble because the cops don't want to bother them. The girls at Nice have told me several times that Judges/cops use their spa - and it's not like these places aren't sitting right out in the open for LEO to find if they wanted to. Cops in most jurisdictions are more concerned with removing the type of prostitution that exists concurrently with sex trafficking, drugs, pimps, etc. They're not as worried about all working girls so much as they are the ones that are gonna cause trouble elsewhere.

Furthermore NEVER discuss explicit acts over text / phone. It's always just "I'd like to set up some time together" or "a session". That's easy easy plausible deniability and there's no way a the will try and file charges with evidence like that. Now if you go texting this girl "do you do BBBJ" then ask her what her rate is you've automatically put in writing that you're soliciting someone. Like not to be rude but most of the people busted for this sort of stuff are not that bright and don't think twice about straight up asking about specific acts and costs. Like all these posts I see on here where someone inquires about BB and is told it's an upcharge. That's direct evidence of solicitation in writing.

Now you might end up spending a bit of money on an experience that's a bit different than what you wanted, like maybe you show up and find out the girl only does CBJ or whatever, but at the end of the day that's an easy tradeoff for me vs having a written record of solicitation.

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[CuriousGeor]

I knew a guy arrested a few years back in Greenville when a lady advertised massages, but was busted for soliciting. The guy was charged with a misdemeanor and lost his job, face in the media, then all that fun stuff that followed. He lives in Idaho now. Maybe it's just me, but why risk this over a minor charge?? Leo got his information from girls phone and her corroboration by offering her a lesser charge. This is why I go yo extra lengths to avoid problems like this.

Not to discourage anyone from taking whatever precautions they feel are necessary but this is why I mostly stick with slightly higher end / more expensive places. Generally speaking you don't see Eros or AMPs getting in trouble because the cops don't want to bother them. The girls at Nice have told me several times that Judges/cops use their spa - and it's not like these places aren't sitting right out in the open for LEO to find if they wanted to. Cops in most jurisdictions are more concerned with removing the type of prostitution that exists concurrently with sex trafficking, drugs, pimps, etc. They're not as worried about all working girls so much as they are the ones that are gonna cause trouble elsewhere.

Furthermore NEVER discuss explicit acts over text / phone. It's always just "I'd like to set up some time together" or "a session". That's easy easy plausible deniability and there's no way a the will try and file charges with evidence like that. Now if you go texting this girl "do you do BBBJ" then ask her what her rate is you've automatically put in writing that you're soliciting someone. Like not to be rude but most of the people busted for this sort of stuff are not that bright and don't think twice about straight up asking about specific acts and costs. Like all these posts I see on here where someone inquires about BB and is told it's an upcharge. That's direct evidence of solicitation in writing.

Now you might end up spending a bit of money on an experience that's a bit different than what you wanted, like maybe you show up and find out the girl only does CBJ or whatever, but at the end of the day that's an easy tradeoff for me vs having a written record of solicitation.

[NC Transplant]

I have seen that done on other boards.

Maybe upload to pornhub then link?

[PSeries]

I hope this question is in the correct thread but do you mongers know how to upload a video? I saw in the FAQ that zip files are automatically deleted. If I don't zip the mp4 file, I get an invalid file extension message. I appreciate the reports especially from the senior members.

You can't upload videos

A2

Maybe upload to pornhub then link?