Seeking Arrangement

[JadooMazar]

Has anyone seen this one? I have been texting with her for a few days. Decent comms replies to regular questions. She is willing to meet but apparently she had a bad experience with in the last relationship and wants 100 or so before we first meet. She seems genuine but my spider sense is tingling. Advice?

https://www.seeking.com/member/58370...9-7483a7818b92

Thanks in advance.

JM.

[STime]

https://www.seeking.com/member/1c2ec...7-c9f25714dc59

This is a little old but I've been a little busy lately and forgot to post. Comms were good online. She asked to move to text which was cool. She everything is going good with us both laying out what we are looking for. She asks if we can meet the same day. I'm like "sure". My schedule was open. She asks if we can meet at Harbor House on Groesbeck and like 14 mile. She says its only a few blocks from her place. If things go well, we can go back there after we meet. Great! Well, an hour or so before we are supposed to meet, she hits me up and says her B-Daddy came to gets the kids but he left the youngest which is like 3 months old. She asks if its ok if she brings him or we can reschedule. Something should have told me then to reschedule but I was thinking with the little head and not the correct one. I tell her its not problem but how are going to have fun back at her place after if things go well. She says it won't be an issue, she'll just put him down to sleep. Cool.

I get to the restaurant and she arrives 20 minutes later. She the same girl. Petite. With some nice breasts and a very pretty face. She co. Es in with this huge stroller. Lmao. I was like WTF? Anyway she sits down and we chat for a sec and then the waitress comes up. Without hesitating she orders an alcoholic beverage. 1st red flag. Then she calls herself being polite and only orders an appetizer. Lmao. Mind you, this place isn't the cheapest.

Then during the meal. She gets up and goes and starts taking food from the salad bar and packing it for home! I mean soup in takeout containers and everything. Its like this girl hasn't eaten in weeks. So its getting to the end of the meal and I ask her is everything going well enough to head back to her place. She says yes. But. We have to hurry because her B-Daddy might be on his way back. What?.

I had a similar experience with her. Same restaurant. Didn't bring her kid with her but was nearly a half hour late. I had a parking spot at the front door so waited until she arrived. Her phone was was out of service also at the time. First thing she does is order a double. Bangs that down and orders another. Same thing with going to the salad bar. Waitress knows her by name during meal she tells me the whole history of the restaurant owners. I'm guessing she brings so many of us there that they don't raise a fuss over her attack of the salad bar. Along with you dinner wasn't cheap. When we left got into my car and I told her I was out of time would have to make it another day and drove her to her condo / apartment. Never called her back. Agree with you that she has a nice face and body.

[AnanaMo]

https://www.seeking.com/member/1c2ec...7-c9f25714dc59

This is a little old but I've been a little busy lately and forgot to post. Comms were good online. She asked to move to text which was cool. She everything is going good with us both laying out what we are looking for. She asks if we can meet the same day. I'm like "sure". My schedule was open. She asks if we can meet at Harbor House on Groesbeck and like 14 mile. She says its only a few blocks from her place. If things go well, we can go back there after we meet. Great! Well, an hour or so before we are supposed to meet, she hits me up and says her B-Daddy came to gets the kids but he left the youngest which is like 3 months old. She asks if its ok if she brings him or we can reschedule. Something should have told me then to reschedule but I was thinking with the little head and not the correct one. I tell her its not problem but how are going to have fun back at her place after if things go well. She says it won't be an issue, she'll just put him down to sleep. Cool.

I get to the restaurant and she arrives 20 minutes later. She the same girl. Petite. With some nice breasts and a very pretty face. She co. Es in with this huge stroller. Lmao. I was like WTF? Anyway she sits down and we chat for a sec and then the waitress comes up. Without hesitating she orders an alcoholic beverage. 1st red flag. Then she calls herself being polite and only orders an appetizer. Lmao. Mind you, this place isn't the cheapest.

Then during the meal. She gets up and goes and starts taking food from the salad bar and packing it for home! I mean soup in takeout containers and everything. Its like this girl hasn't eaten in weeks. So its getting to the end of the meal and I ask her is everything going well enough to head back to her place. She says yes. But. We have to hurry because her B-Daddy might be on his way back. What?

I met this one right before the lock down. No kids, seemed nervous. Head was good, she wanted to leave here shirt on, seems like she may have been pregnant by your story. Depending on when you met. Had a messed up tooth which through me off. No furniture, she said she just moved in. She is a heavy smoker. Overall the action was good. Would maybe repeat in a pinch but not make it a regular thing.

[JoeLefty]

This one wanted 5/ hr and got all pissy when I declined. Too fat in the ass for my liking, but to each their own.

[BrandoM]

Is $500 for an hour or for a night. ?

The whole time she spends with me, whatever that is. I rarely actually sleep with anyone, so typically a long evening. In the past, I have had a couple that have slept over though, but thats either because we both got wasted or trust was established.

[Jay23]

What's with all these girls having kids at a young age, I met a 35 year on match.com who has a 20-year-old son. So she had him at 15.

Is it the lack of sex education in this country? We teach kids not to have a STD but having kids at a young age is ok.

https://www.seeking.com/member/1c2ec...7-c9f25714dc59

This is a little old but I've been a little busy lately and forgot to post. Comms were good online. She asked to move to text which was cool. She everything is going good with us both laying out what we are looking for. She asks if we can meet the same day. I'm like "sure". My schedule was open. She asks if we can meet at Harbor House on Groesbeck and like 14 mile. She says its only a few blocks from her place. If things go well, we can go back there after we meet. Great! Well, an hour or so before we are supposed to meet, she hits me up and says her B-Daddy came to gets the kids but he left the youngest which is like 3 months old. She asks if its ok if she brings him or we can reschedule. Something should have told me then to reschedule but I was thinking with the little head and not the correct one. I tell her its not problem but how are going to have fun back at her place after if things go well. She says it won't be an issue, she'll just put him down to sleep. Cool.

I get to the restaurant and she arrives 20 minutes later. She the same girl. Petite. With some nice breasts and a very pretty face. She co. Es in with this huge stroller. Lmao. I was like WTF? Anyway she sits down and we chat for a sec and then the waitress comes up. Without hesitating she orders an alcoholic beverage. 1st red flag. Then she calls herself being polite and only orders an appetizer. Lmao. Mind you, this place isn't the cheapest.

Then during the meal. She gets up and goes and starts taking food from the salad bar and packing it for home! I mean soup in takeout containers and everything. Its like this girl hasn't eaten in weeks. So its getting to the end of the meal and I ask her is everything going well enough to head back to her place. She says yes. But. We have to hurry because her B-Daddy might be on his way back. What?

I tell her that ok. I'm cool on that. She gets all sad and starts begging me to come back with her because she needs the money. She calls the dude in FaceTime (FYI. I had to turn on my mobile Hotspot because her phone is actually not in service. Smh). She asks him where he is. And tells him the baby needs some more milk or something and he needs to go to the store. We get to her place and she puts the baby in his little walker and we go upstairs. She's kinds rushing me, but also trying not to but I can tell she's nervous. I get partially undressed and she starts with a BJ. Very good actually. Then she straddled me and we finished in missionary. She started off like she was just ready to get it over with. But during the action. She actually started getting into it. Moaning and saying my name and asking me to go harder and faster because she wanted to cum. I wasnt caring about her coming. I finished and got the hell out of there.

So overall. Cool chick but kinda ratchet. Brought he kid to a fuckin date with a stranger. Action was good and I feel if we had time with no worries about the baby dad. She would have been much better. She's a freak. Likes it in all holes. At least that's what she said.

Not sure if I would repeat. Didn't like how she just started ordering shit at the restaurant. Spent 70 bucks on that meal. Damage for fun was $150 even though she was adamant about wanting $200.

[John Inv]

https://www.seeking.com/member/1c2ec...7-c9f25714dc59

This is a little old but I've been a little busy lately and forgot to post. Comms were good online. She asked to move to text which was cool. She everything is going good with us both laying out what we are looking for. She asks if we can meet the same day. I'm like "sure". My schedule was open. She asks if we can meet at Harbor House on Groesbeck and like 14 mile. She says its only a few blocks from her place. If things go well, we can go back there after we meet. Great! Well, an hour or so before we are supposed to meet, she hits me up and says her B-Daddy came to gets the kids but he left the youngest which is like 3 months old. She asks if its ok if she brings him or we can reschedule. Something should have told me then to reschedule but I was thinking with the little head and not the correct one. I tell her its not problem but how are going to have fun back at her place after if things go well. She says it won't be an issue, she'll just put him down to sleep. Cool.

I get to the restaurant and she arrives 20 minutes later. She the same girl. Petite. With some nice breasts and a very pretty face. She co. Es in with this huge stroller. Lmao. I was like WTF? Anyway she sits down and we chat for a sec and then the waitress comes up. Without hesitating she orders an alcoholic beverage. 1st red flag. Then she calls herself being polite and only orders an appetizer. Lmao. Mind you, this place isn't the cheapest.

Then during the meal. She gets up and goes and starts taking food from the salad bar and packing it for home! I mean soup in takeout containers and everything. Its like this girl hasn't eaten in weeks. So its getting to the end of the meal and I ask her is everything going well enough to head back to her place. She says yes. But. We have to hurry because her B-Daddy might be on his way back. What?

I tell her that ok. I'm cool on that. She gets all sad and starts begging me to come back with her because she needs the money. She calls the dude in FaceTime (FYI. I had to turn on my mobile Hotspot because her phone is actually not in service. Smh). She asks him where he is. And tells him the baby needs some more milk or something and he needs to go to the store. We get to her place and she puts the baby in his little walker and we go upstairs. She's kinds rushing me, but also trying not to but I can tell she's nervous. I get partially undressed and she starts with a BJ. Very good actually. Then she straddled me and we finished in missionary. She started off like she was just ready to get it over with. But during the action. She actually started getting into it. Moaning and saying my name and asking me to go harder and faster because she wanted to cum. I wasnt caring about her coming. I finished and got the hell out of there.

So overall. Cool chick but kinda ratchet. Brought he kid to a fuckin date with a stranger. Action was good and I feel if we had time with no worries about the baby dad. She would have been much better. She's a freak. Likes it in all holes. At least that's what she said.

Not sure if I would repeat. Didn't like how she just started ordering shit at the restaurant. Spent 70 bucks on that meal. Damage for fun was $150 even though she was adamant about wanting $200.

[Jay23]

I agree with that. I've talked most down to 3 or less in general, but the women that I've been fine with paying 5 for were legitimately hot enough to be pro cheerleaders, ACTUAL models and such. In those cases, it becomes, "why would you expect them to take 200?" Especially, as you state, you aren't just meeting them at a hotel; you're actually hanging out with them all evening.

Is $500 for an hour or for a night. ?

[BrandoM]

Here's my take. Some of you are probably not going to like it. Some of these girls look good enough for the 5. They know it and they're getting it. Which is why some of you are complaining that you can't get any dates at a lower pricing point. If I like the look of the girl, I'll agree to pay the 5 up front. With stipulations. 1. I have to do a meet and greet so I can evaluate in person. This will pretty much tell you all you need to know. I usually offer to pay them for the meet and greet, but do not commit to a price. Pay accordingly for the meet and greet. Do you want to see them again or not? 2. If I move forward with the next date and pay the 5, I always negotiate from that point on. Most will come down if you see them on a semi-regular basis. 3. Be upfront with your expectations. No quickies. I like to take my time. Most will spend an hour and 1/2 to two hours with you. So now your hourly rate is reduced. IMO, you're getting a better class of girl than you would get on LC or STG and that to me is worth the extra cost.

I agree with that. I've talked most down to 3 or less in general, but the women that I've been fine with paying 5 for were legitimately hot enough to be pro cheerleaders, ACTUAL models and such. In those cases, it becomes, "why would you expect them to take 200?" Especially, as you state, you aren't just meeting them at a hotel; you're actually hanging out with them all evening.

[MichiganMan686]

Took her out a couple years ago. Way heavier than pics. Totally disinterested during dinner. Texting the whole time. I cut things short. We were downtown, and she asked me to give her a ride to where her friends were. It was actually easier than taking her home, so I did. When we got there she said I should give her $100 for her time. I said, not a chance. We were meeting to discuss an opportunity. It was not an opportunity I wanted. Offered handy for the $100, and I still passed. Save your time and money.

Not that I know what I'm doing yet but I've been meeting at like a Meijer and walking around and discussing details Your situation sounded horrible. You did the right thing. Good for you.

[AnanaMo]

So I have had good results in the past but lately it seems like you have to act faster. I have been on and of SA for the past 4 years. Been back on for 2 weeks, and meet 2 and they were amazing experiences but have obligations that don't allow me to see them when I want. Each of those I met same day. All others, really seams if you let it sit out there for more than 72 hours after talking. You're waiting your time. There seem to be less women and I assume just as many guys, so act fast.

[JoeLefty]

Took her out a couple years ago. Way heavier than pics. Totally disinterested during dinner. Texting the whole time. I cut things short. We were downtown, and she asked me to give her a ride to where her friends were. It was actually easier than taking her home, so I did. When we got there she said I should give her $100 for her time. I said, not a chance. We were meeting to discuss an opportunity. It was not an opportunity I wanted. Offered handy for the $100, and I still passed. Save your time and money.

Damn, that sucks. Thanks for the heads up. That's why I always do a meet and greet first.

[The Emmy Goes2]

https://www.seeking.com/member/a4289...c-0327838fd967

This lemontart wants 500.

Took her out a couple years ago. Way heavier than pics. Totally disinterested during dinner. Texting the whole time. I cut things short. We were downtown, and she asked me to give her a ride to where her friends were. It was actually easier than taking her home, so I did. When we got there she said I should give her $100 for her time. I said, not a chance. We were meeting to discuss an opportunity. It was not an opportunity I wanted. Offered handy for the $100, and I still passed. Save your time and money.

[AnanaMo]

Does anyone have any info on this one?

https://www.seeking.com/member/92f18...d-4729cb9044c4

[JoeLefty]

I've had some communication with her, with the same price quote. She seemed like at least a semi-pro and not particularly nice.

Yeah, that's a pretty accurate assessment based on my comms too. I'm supposed to see one of the strippers I mentioned in another post, this evening. Better pricing point and definitely friendlier. I'll report back.