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  1. #41259

    The Love Language

    Quote Originally Posted by Garthie1  [View Original Post]
    LOL. No doubt they may be lonely, but love isn't in the equation. I laid down 'Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs' to one of the girls and told her that she's got many other basic needs that need to be fulfilled before 'love' can enter the equation.

    Most of these women are on the downside of 50. Their future is pretty bleak and not getting brighter, so they're looking for someone to (A) take care of them and (B) take care of them. They'll exchange companionship or sex in return, but there's not emotions or the same type of 'love' that a 20 year old might have.
    The other thing is that Asian culture, especially for FOBs or women who haven't lived here their whole life, has a much different perspective of what love is. Their version of love is way different than American, it is not Hollywood holding hands and movie night. It is far from the romantic stuff we grow up with. It is not long kisses under the moonlight and even the sexual component is often way different than what we think it is. They often mimic what they think we want well, but at their core it's different.

    Instead, love is much more is service based, it is literally taking care of your spouse and their family. The reality is that many providers don't even aspire to American=style love.

  2. #41258

    Tread Carefully.

    Quote Originally Posted by DocHolliday35  [View Original Post]
    I had a girl recently tell me she wanted out of the massage business and wanted to get married to strong American man. She did not ask for any extra money and texts me pictures of her dog. I think for some of these girls its certainly about the money but most of them are humans and want to be loved. I'm sure after being in the business for some time these girls get jaded but there are definitely girlfriend types who don't give it up to everybody.
    There are girlfriend types yes but most of those types have also been burned by even testing the girlfriend waters. They are not only jaded about the business, they are jaded about dating a monger.

    If you are a good looking monger and especially, if you tip really well, smart providers will go along for the ride. They will get your number, text you, let you in a little bit on their personal life, etc. Going beyond that into an actual romantic relationship is a giant leap of faith.

    But yeah most are human, they want to feel loved like we all do. Please treat them well, if you befriend them then make sure expectations on both sides are clear or else someone (you or her) will get hurt. True friendships (or beyond) with a provider can be more challenging than most people realise.

  3. #41257

    Lemon

    Stopped by a few weeks ago. Pulled a younger one she was thin and maybe attractive under the mask. Who knows. She was real quiet. I don't remember her name candy or Cindy or Cici or coco. I saw another one there and she was average size chubby and older.

    Opted for the table shower which was more clinical for ten dollars more. Germaphobes beware nobody washes the robes afterwards. I don't think most places wash the linens on the tables so.

    Anyway massage sucked. Pushing oil. In the flip the rates came flying out. 40 extra for the HJ. 100 for nude. 60 to touch her. Holly shit amigos I am looking at a plane ticket to Columbia for that amount. Columbia, South Carolina but still.

    I went for the standard ending and tipped a bit extra (120) but will not repeat. I can go next down the street without the haggling.

    By the way, anyone remember what this was called before? I remember it was 100% legit back a few years ago.

  4. #41256
    Quote Originally Posted by Garthie1  [View Original Post]
    LOL. No doubt they may be lonely, but love isn't in the equation. I laid down 'Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs' to one of the girls and told her that she's got many other basic needs that need to be fulfilled before 'love' can enter the equation.

    Most of these women are on the downside of 50. Their future is pretty bleak and not getting brighter, so they're looking for someone to (A) take care of them and (B) take care of them. They'll exchange companionship or sex in return, but there's not emotions or the same type of 'love' that a 20 year old might have.
    I am talking about younger 25-35 age. They want to marry an American man that yes will take care of them.

  5. #41255
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    Quote Originally Posted by Garthie1  [View Original Post]
    LOL. No doubt they may be lonely, but love isn't in the equation. I laid down 'Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs' to one of the girls and told her that she's got many other basic needs that need to be fulfilled before 'love' can enter the equation.

    Most of these women are on the downside of 50. Their future is pretty bleak and not getting brighter, so they're looking for someone to (A) take care of them and (B) take care of them. They'll exchange companionship or sex in return, but there's not emotions or the same type of 'love' that a 20 year old might have.
    I agree. Any woman who's been in the business a long time has been jaded / wrecked and I wouldn't marry one if someone paid me a million bucks.

  6. #41254
    Quote Originally Posted by DocHolliday35  [View Original Post]
    I had a girl recently tell me she wanted out of the massage business and wanted to get married to strong American man. She did not ask for any extra money and texts me pictures of her dog. I think for some of these girls its certainly about the money but most of them are humans and want to be loved. I'm sure after being in the business for some time these girls get jaded but there are definitely girlfriend types who don't give it up to everybody.
    LOL. No doubt they may be lonely, but love isn't in the equation. I laid down 'Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs' to one of the girls and told her that she's got many other basic needs that need to be fulfilled before 'love' can enter the equation.

    Most of these women are on the downside of 50. Their future is pretty bleak and not getting brighter, so they're looking for someone to (A) take care of them and (B) take care of them. They'll exchange companionship or sex in return, but there's not emotions or the same type of 'love' that a 20 year old might have.

  7. #41253
    Quote Originally Posted by MassageAwesome  [View Original Post]
    Oh I thought you got a HE. In that case 20 was more than enough. You should've tipped 10. I wonder why she didn't deliver. You go to Sisi on Cobb Parkway? That place delivers.
    I did, in the Walmart parking lot.

  8. #41252

    Travelling to Atlanta tomorrow

    Does anyone know of any place that offers young FS in the Atlanta area?

  9. #41251
    Quote Originally Posted by Marmong  [View Original Post]
    I am in shape and an ok looking guy. Just got a bit weirded out by her touching my ears, eyes and shoulder while telling me how good I look. And yet she refused to touch my johnson (I was freshly showered BTW). I gave her a 2 O tip for the massage, would have given more if she offered a HE. Was planning on tipping 6 O if she offered HE since the massage was actually very good. Anyways, onto the next one.
    Oh I thought you got a HE. In that case 20 was more than enough. You should've tipped 10. I wonder why she didn't deliver. You go to Sisi on Cobb Parkway? That place delivers.

  10. #41250

    Best AMP for Great Massage and unlimited menu?

    Quote Originally Posted by RiverRat99  [View Original Post]
    Now that Covid has changed it all up, I am missing my favorite haunt which was T+. I always was able to get a great massage and whatever else I wanted. This was back in the days when mamasan was hot. She told me her name was Emo but you guys probably got different names for her. Always wanted to get a massage from her but I digress.

    Royal also gave a great massage and FS on the menu.

    Now it seems like its one or the other great massage but with limited menu or unlimited menu and poor massage.

    Anybody have any recommendations?
    Sounds like from the thread that Tiger should be on the list! I haven't been to Sauna in a couple of years- might have to refresh with a visit.

  11. #41249
    Quote Originally Posted by MassageAwesome  [View Original Post]
    They always compliment about how handsome you are, especially if you're a thin younger guy. They're used to seeing old or fat or Harry guys (sometimes all 3, apologies to any of you mongers who are like that, if youre happy with, then you be you) most of the time so seeing a young fit dude is a change for them (that is, if you are that). Most of the time they'll compliment any guy so they can make you feel good and make you tip more but sometimes they may actually mean it. You don't know the kind of men they've seen before they seen you. I workout 5-6 days a week so I always get compliments on my body when I go to an AMP. I know they mean it because of what they go through but when they say it too much I know they trying to feed my ego and raise their tippage.

    As far as the tip goes, you did tip small. If you get a HE you should tip 30-50. I tip 30 when they short me on time, 40 for the usual, and 50 maybe even 60 if both massage and HE were fantastic.
    I am in shape and an ok looking guy. Just got a bit weirded out by her touching my ears, eyes and shoulder while telling me how good I look. And yet she refused to touch my johnson (I was freshly showered BTW). I gave her a 2 O tip for the massage, would have given more if she offered a HE. Was planning on tipping 6 O if she offered HE since the massage was actually very good. Anyways, onto the next one.

  12. #41248
    Quote Originally Posted by Marmong  [View Original Post]
    I am new to the world of AMPs and decided to hit up Sisi's to bust my cherry. Was welcomed in by a couple of 40 something Chinese ladies. Got a temperature check and some sanitizer to kill the rona. At this point, one of the 'girls' (Kylie I think) put her hand on my shoulder and walked me into one of the rooms. Expected the mamasan to give me a choice of girls but I guess it was a slow day. I don't think much of it and decide to just go with the flow. The massage starts and it was definitely one of the better one. She applied a lot of pressure on my back and neck and worked some other problem areas. BTW, as she massaged me she keeps saying how handsome and strong I am (I don't think I am either of those things). Don't think much of it and I keep pointing her to problem areas which she obliges. On the flip, things started getting weird. She began running her hands on my chest and asked if I wanted her to go lower. I said yes. She ran her finger on junior a couple of times while continuing to tell me how handsome I was. She then leans in and touches my ears and says I have great ears and I am very lucky. Ok. At this point I just want to get tugged and get out. I asked her how much for the extras. She quickly draped the blanket over me and asked me to quiet down since the 'mamasan' might hear us. After this exchange she went straight to rubbing my feet and told me that she took care of my back so no more extras. After a bit more feet rub she asks me to get dressed and hugs me and tells me I should tip her big for how good my back feels. Ok. On my way out I gave her 7 O (5 O /2 O) and she didn't seem too happy about it. Think I got blown off by a masseuse, LOL..
    How are you a senior member but new to the world of AMPs?

  13. #41247
    Quote Originally Posted by Niteluvr  [View Original Post]
    Getting one fresh off the boat, who hasn't been jacking dicks and who has a good attitude is a rarity. Most are the opposite.
    Quote Originally Posted by Rydin  [View Original Post]
    Same story here, doesn't matter what you do. Had 2 different ones at different times staying with me during shutdown. There are always 10 other guys more lonely with bigger pockets. After 6 figures I know its all about money. Some still believe in unicorns, but I never met one.
    I had a girl recently tell me she wanted out of the massage business and wanted to get married to strong American man. She did not ask for any extra money and texts me pictures of her dog. I think for some of these girls its certainly about the money but most of them are humans and want to be loved. I'm sure after being in the business for some time these girls get jaded but there are definitely girlfriend types who don't give it up to everybody.

  14. #41246
    Quote Originally Posted by Marmong  [View Original Post]
    I am new to the world of AMPs and decided to hit up Sisi's to bust my cherry. Was welcomed in by a couple of 40 something Chinese ladies. Got a temperature check and some sanitizer to kill the rona. At this point, one of the 'girls' (Kylie I think) put her hand on my shoulder and walked me into one of the rooms. Expected the mamasan to give me a choice of girls but I guess it was a slow day. I don't think much of it and decide to just go with the flow. The massage starts and it was definitely one of the better one. She applied a lot of pressure on my back and neck and worked some other problem areas. BTW, as she massaged me she keeps saying how handsome and strong I am (I don't think I am either of those things). Don't think much of it and I keep pointing her to problem areas which she obliges. On the flip, things started getting weird. She began running her hands on my chest and asked if I wanted her to go lower. I said yes. She ran her finger on junior a couple of times while continuing to tell me how handsome I was. She then leans in and touches my ears and says I have great ears and I am very lucky. Ok. At this point I just want to get tugged and get out. I asked her how much for the extras. She quickly draped the blanket over me and asked me to quiet down since the 'mamasan' might hear us. After this exchange she went straight to rubbing my feet and told me that she took care of my back so no more extras. After a bit more feet rub she asks me to get dressed and hugs me and tells me I should tip her big for how good my back feels. Ok. On my way out I gave her 7 O (5 O /2 O) and she didn't seem too happy about it. Think I got blown off by a masseuse, LOL.

    Would appreciate any OTP leads that tug my Johnson instead of talking about my eyes.
    They always compliment about how handsome you are, especially if you're a thin younger guy. They're used to seeing old or fat or Harry guys (sometimes all 3, apologies to any of you mongers who are like that, if you’re happy with, then you be you) most of the time so seeing a young fit dude is a change for them (that is, if you are that). Most of the time they'll compliment any guy so they can make you feel good and make you tip more but sometimes they may actually mean it. You don't know the kind of men they've seen before they seen you. I workout 5-6 days a week so I always get compliments on my body when I go to an AMP. I know they mean it because of what they go through but when they say it too much I know they trying to feed my ego and raise their tippage.

    As far as the tip goes, you did tip small. If you get a HE you should tip 30-50. I tip 30 when they short me on time, 40 for the usual, and 50 maybe even 60 if both massage and HE were fantastic.

  15. #41245

    Rtf

    Quote Originally Posted by SgtLurker  [View Original Post]
    Sorry to disagree but it might be something about you. Too many, me included, have had tremendously great times at Kaina. Me personally, I had Candy once and instead of sweet it was rather sour. However, I have had 2 and 4 hands and always left with a big smile on my face.
    Since someone asked.

    http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/show...orts&p=4766545#post4766545.

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