Seeking Arrangement

[LoVecchio]

This has been my experience too. I find it's the norm and not the exception. I have actually asked a couple of women if there is some website with scripts for these girls to use.

There clearly is some place that a lot of these girls get their profiles, as identical language turns up over and over:

"This isn't all about money for me, so please do not insult me by pretending it isn't part of the arrangement. Also if you are looking for intimacy before an arrangement, you are on the wrong website & profile. I do not get intimate with anyone until I am certain comfortable both financially and physically. If you can exceed my expectations I will certainly exceed yours. ".

"I am a force to be reckoned with, but emit only positivity -- something I'd love to see in the world. ".

Or the ones who say that we'll "have dinner by sunset on _ eating (insert fancy dish here) and sipping a 2017 (wine that she's never heard of). ".

I've seen this identical language scores of times, but I never contact any of them, so I have no idea if they're real people who just got a template for a profile somewhere or if they're just bots.

Does anyone know where this stuff comes from?

[Jay23]

This one messaged me and said she used to work at Flight Club but can't do to Covid and wants 2500 - 3500 a month for unlimited meetings. I gave a hard counter of 300 a meet just to see the response, but she kept talking about her prior SD or something, haha. https://www.seeking.com/member/0f2de...9-7c0fdc9267fb.

She was down to 2 K with me.

[DMichael5]

This one messaged me and said she used to work at Flight Club but can't do to Covid and wants 2500 - 3500 a month for unlimited meetings. I gave a hard counter of 300 a meet just to see the response, but she kept talking about her prior SD or something, haha. https://www.seeking.com/member/0f2de...9-7c0fdc9267fb.

If she bites on the 300 let us know. She pops into my searches and she looks pretty tempting! Good Luck!

[DMichael5]

Person is the safest, but I tend to do it in text beforehand so as to not waste anyone's time.

Definitely discuss meeting particulars off-the site. I have heard that you can be kicked for discussing money / payments in the message area.

[BrandoM]

Love this guide. Long time hobbiest but new to SA. One last need of help. When you ask for the specifics of the arrangement do you do it in person, cell to cell, email? What is the safest way? I don't want to be foolish to the SB, s. TY agian. I'm looking all the time and once I'm meeting up with them Ill report back. Happy hunting my friends.

Person is the safest, but I tend to do it in text beforehand so as to not waste anyone's time.

[MichiganMan686]

Paying for sex is illegal is MI. More than LEO this can be a setup by the girl to blackmail you.

To blackmail me? I'm divorced or is their another intent other than ratting me out to a SO?

[MichiganMan686]

Love this guide. Long time hobbiest but new to SA. One last need of help. When you ask for the specifics of the arrangement do you do it in person, cell to cell, email? What is the safest way? I don't want to be foolish to the SB, s. TY agian. I'm looking all the time and once I'm meeting up with them Ill report back. Happy hunting my friends.

[BrandoM]

This one messaged me and said she used to work at Flight Club but can't do to Covid and wants 2500 - 3500 a month for unlimited meetings. I gave a hard counter of 300 a meet just to see the response, but she kept talking about her prior SD or something, haha. https://www.seeking.com/member/0f2de...9-7c0fdc9267fb.

[JoeLefty]

She has been mentioned before; has anyone seen her recently? She's early 40's, I think she's $500 PPM, tall, dark hair locsted near downtown.

Anyway, she messaged me the other day and seemed eager to move things along. Down-to-earth and was punctual but no way I would pay $500 if that's true.

Her page said she's 420 friendly and who knows what else. Kind of on the fence.

Quoted me 5. Sent me a couple photos. I might hit it for shits and giggles.

[Jay23]

Could not find her in SA, any one has a link.

And what's with girls asking $500 for 60 min. That's a 70" 4 K TV. LOL.

I've chatted with her a bit as well. But when she thought 90 minutes was a sufficient amount of time for a "date" I started pulling back. Which is too bad, she is very attractive and seems pretty easy to talk to. But she's maybe an hour from me and for $500, I can't justify spending more time in my car then I do playing, etc. Maybe I am just cheap but, to me, $500 means the better part of an afternoon together, something in the range of three hours? Some time to relax and just chill out. I dunno if I will try to resurrect our conversation or not.

[SeMichman]

I've chatted with her a bit as well. But when she thought 90 minutes was a sufficient amount of time for a "date" I started pulling back. Which is too bad, she is very attractive and seems pretty easy to talk to. But she's maybe an hour from me and for $500, I can't justify spending more time in my car then I do playing, etc. Maybe I am just cheap but, to me, $500 means the better part of an afternoon together, something in the range of three hours? Some time to relax and just chill out. I dunno if I will try to resurrect our conversation or not.

She has been mentioned before; has anyone seen her recently? She's early 40's, I think she's $500 PPM, tall, dark hair locsted near downtown.

Anyway, she messaged me the other day and seemed eager to move things along. Down-to-earth and was punctual but no way I would pay $500 if that's true.

Her page said she's 420 friendly and who knows what else. Kind of on the fence.

[SeMichman]

This has been my experience too. I find it's the norm and not the exception. I have actually asked a couple of women if there is some website with scripts for these girls to use. You can practically predict the conversation after you've had a few of them. It is some crisis or they have been "burned" before and need to know if you are serious. It's a major annoyance and waste of time but it seems that's the path many women on the site have chosen.

I gave up on her. It seems like it is one sob story after another. Car broken, out of work, phone turned off, and a couple other things that hint at needing money. Then when a date to meet is set. Crickets.

She could be real but I have only seen a hassle to meet.

[BestDjInOhio]

I passed after I saw her other pics. I ended up finding a different one that didn't look like a"pro" and that has a grip that's so tight it'll pull the nut out of me LOL.

Damn! Now you got me curious. If you want to share her lmk, and I can share back.

[BestDjInOhio]

Paying for sex is illegal is MI. More than LEO this can be a setup by the girl to blackmail you.

Paying for sex I'm pretty sure is illegal in all fifty states. But yeah to respond to this, I don't think LEO is on seeking, I don't think they are even running stings as much any more in general. But I could be wrong.

I think the girl was just dumb, and didn't know any better and wanted you to be very clear of the expectations. What I would do is ask them if they are kinky. That right there sets my intentions in the right direction, and if she answers back that she is (girls will most all the time say yes they are kinky) then that tells me they are expecting sex to happen. And this also keeps everyone safe. I never once said we were going to get sexual, did I? I was merely asking if she was kinky, so I'm protected from the law but yet if she's real, she knows what's up.

Stay safe.

[Jay23]

Had a weird one yesterday. Started texting a girl and soon was beeing asked what I wanted very quickly. I said email me. I told whoever it was ppm 300 and I want 2 hr date 1 hr of fun. They came back and said you mean sex? I stopped after that. Girls profile had 1 pic and was 3 days old. Today profile has been deactivated. Might that have been LEO? Kinda worried today. TY.

Paying for sex is illegal is MI. More than LEO this can be a setup by the girl to blackmail you.