NoVA SugarBabies

[CireSire]

https://www.seeking.com/member/e9f27...7-51d4329e3e19

First conversation was going good until we came to the allowance came up with 600 per month she said good luck on your search.

https://www.seeking.com/member/d1dcb...8-88100a41f847

Looking for non-sexual relationship.

https://www.seeking.com/member/6198f...6-0be6165d0c8c

Made arrangements then all the sudden ask for half before we even meet no thank you.

The first is Luna and she was super eager to meet. I told her 200 PPM and she was okay with that as her rent is 600 a month and I would see her more than once to cover a part of her rent. Downside was that she didn't have a car and lives in DC. Didn't feel like driving to DC and getting a hotel so I passed but she is definitely DTF. 600 is waaaaay too much.

[Lobsid]

I always tell the girl I can't preform right after a meal. One of my current SB was like that at 1st too. I got her to do drinks at my hotel 1st, then dinner. If not there is always more girls on Seeking. A lot of the 23 years old plus girls are out of work and need to take care of rent. The government ended the extra unemployment payments.

I've been texting with her off and on for a while, her attitude / demeanor seems nice enough and we've discussed a few times dinner and then going to my place or getting a room to hook up. But I'm not interested in taking her to dinner if she's going to expect to get paid her donation upfront when we meet up for dinner. So I've tried several different tactics to get her to just meet up at the FC and skipping dinner but she always has a reason to say no or just doesn't respond till the next day. So the fact that she seems so adamant about meeting up in a restaurant first is a huge red flag for me that the cash and dash paranoia is valid.

[Pathfinder04]

https://www.seeking.com/member/e9f27...7-51d4329e3e19

First conversation was going good until we came to the allowance came up with 600 per month she said good luck on your search.

https://www.seeking.com/member/d1dcb...8-88100a41f847

Looking for non-sexual relationship.

https://www.seeking.com/member/6198f...6-0be6165d0c8c

Made arrangements then all the sudden ask for half before we even meet no thank you.

The first one should be paying you 600.

[WakeForYou]

Posted this on the Baltimore board but since we all (us & them) get around the region I might as well ask here too.

I swear I've seen this picture before, but she claims it's her first time on the site. The profile is new but I'm pretty sure she's been on at least as long as I have. There was one minor red flag when we were chatting that I wouldn't have even noticed had I not been sure I've seen the pic. And may have even chatted with her in the past. Anyway, any intel would be appreciated. My spidey senses are tingling.

[Shinshi86]

And now for part 2 with the nearby MD girls (and a brief sidenote):

Strongchick11 - Severn / Pasadena, MD (https://www.seeking.com/member/2b647...e-f1e0802f59b7).

Claimed to be visiting until September, unable to host, doesn't like to be wined-and-dined, and very straightforward. Definitely a pro based on one of the earlier messages: "$250 for straight forward sex and then I usually do more if you want to get 'freakier' per say LOL. Like anal, creampie, deep throat, no condom, etc. " I remained noncommittal & vague before finally securing her digits. Turns out she wants 250 for only an hour of hotel fun. Since I was paying for the hotel, I countered with 200 for two hours. She said she's desperate and agreed. She initially wanted to meet at that BWI hellhole that we all know about, but I convinced her into better lodging. A couple hours later, she texts back "You know what? I'm going to have to pass on today. 200 is not ideal for me. Thanks!" I wished her well, then blocked her. Guess she wasn't that desperate after all (or she found someone else). Yet another example of why you NEVER book a hotel until you have eyes on the prize.

MGurl96 - Ocean City, MD (https://www.seeking.com/member/2eb85...f-972a3d2d871d).

I was out-of-state when she initiated the convo. When I said I was interested but couldn't meet yet, she asked if I could help her out in the meantime by buying her naughty vids from CashApp. I said I don't engage in that sort of thing. "Well, I was hoping you'd make an exception for me?" Blocked, and moving on.

Emmanuela75 - Hanover / Silver Spring, MD (https://www.seeking.com/member/1b9be...d-3c7cae097f36).

After granting access to each other's private pics, I admittedly lost interest. She has a very jaw-dropping, luscious, curvy body; unfortunately, her face really wasn't doing it for me. Still, major props to SBs like her for keeping it real & honest! God knows we need more like that! She also readily offers her number within the first couple messages.

Sugarluvxox - Baltimore, MD (https://www.seeking.com/member/7f5e3...2-e40b3463c8e2).

Pretty decent convo with this one--right up until I learn she's only looking for online-only arrangements. I reported her, but I think her page is still up. Guess the Seeking mods still hold grudges for some of my earlier sarcastic reports. But hey, fuck 'them if they can't even be bothered to enforce their own site guidelines.

Luciousbeautyxo - Rockville, MD (https://www.seeking.com/member/f1347...8-d6da5edd8399).

This college girl said she was unemployed and was passing the pandemic away making clothes, exercising, and videogaming. If she looked even half as good as her pics and was truly down for FWB (like her tag suggested), then I'd have found a true unicorn. Alas, she blocked me shortly after I was upfront about my expectations.

Kates00 - Frederick, MD (https://www.seeking.com/member/19fa3...3-d3b6f3ed56ce).

Got a reply almost a week after my first message to her. Seemed DTF and interested on meeting near her place, but she deactivated her page (or blocked me) the day of.

Cheyycat - Gaithersburg, MD (https://www.seeking.com/member/1c8eb...9-255561e22d5b).

This possibly petite treat has been reportedly addled with a severe case of GPS. On the other hand, she still hasn't quoted any price to me yet. She messaged several days after my initial one saying she had been "taking a break from the site. " Supposedly has a b-day coming up and hanging with friends for most of this week. Might try again next week, but I won't hold my breath.

Pinkykelz - Gaithersburg, MD (https://www.seeking.com/member/9f637...1-ca624771b904).

She initiated the convo. Pretty straightfoward, chill, and quite down with "a physical FWB arrangement" (her words). The problem is she wants to meet 2-3 x's a month and prefers an allowance. Because of work and my aversion to anything other than PPM, I asked if she was fine with dinner and (if compatible) a PPM arrangement for that first time. She said yes for this coming week, but I haven't scheduled a day as there's other SBs who've got my attention. We'll see.

LizzyTop - formerly Baltimore, MD (https://www.seeking.com/member/bc19d...c-2de1162f1d23).

Been around since 2015 and her pics really caught my attention! Presently, her location is listed as Maryland and Colorado; however, she told me she's actually in the Deep South for the foreseeable future. A real bummer as I got the impression that she's a real cool chick based on our convo.

Petite pink princess - formerly Baltimore, MD (https://www.seeking.com/member/1c13e...e-52433e70c399).

The mythical unicorn that had everyone a-buzzin' last month! She's changed her location to NY and has added more substance to her profile; however, the newly written content is just giving off even more of a scam vibe. Call me pessimistic, but I'm not buying the shy, innocent demeanor who wants a "Fifty Shades of Gray" type of SD. And even if she were legit, who would roll the dice and drive all the way to NY for that?

Now as to the final six SBs, each has received glowing, positive reports on this forum; nevertheless, I've personally gotten crickets. They'll read the reply but not respond. So it's probable that they're inundated with messages and already have a well-paying SD, or I'm not their type. That's what happens in this game though. Still, I'm very curious as to how those who've successfully seen these ones approached them:

Daniii23 - Baltimore, MD (https://www.seeking.com/member/bd36f...d-690c4dcca1a5).

Kkim13 - Arlington, VA (https://www.seeking.com/member/05b47...8-d39796cfa886).

Sweettea333 - DC (https://www.seeking.com/member/4fd0f...a-10dc5dd69098).

Zepedika - DC (https://www.seeking.com/member/a6ecc...d-2860df579c86).

Aik000 - DC (https://www.seeking.com/member/d160c...c-cef41004f0d6).

Annajes - DC (https://www.seeking.com/member/deb94...f-8d364bd074ec).

[Shinshi86]

I'm splitting this extensive post into two parts. A "brief explanation" and all NOVA / DC girls are detailed below. All others that are somewhat nearby (MD) will be in my follow-up.

I recently changed my approach on Seeking to see what would happen. Previously, I'd message 3-4 different SBs a week--maybe more if I'm traveling for work or on vacation. If there's no response, I'd message new ones while trying again with the previous week's SBs after 10-14 days go by. The latter is dependent on when they're back online and if they've really caught my attention (and if there's still nothing, I cut my losses and move on). In the last couple weeks, I sent out 32 messages thinking that I'll get maybe a couple replies and probably one meet (it had been that kind of a losing streak). However of those 32, I received 16 responses with an additional 7 SBs who initiated the convo!

Needless to say, I was a bit overwhelmed to see so much activity! But as always, that number of potentials dropped off after subsequent follow-ups. It can be difficult to get a read on some of them: who likes / dislikes small talk; who prefers / loathes public meet-and-greets; who has FWB tagged despite not wanting such an arrangement; who's a scam despite a well-written profile; etc. For their convenience, I offered to meet them at any restaurant / cafe near their area and that they can pick the day & time as long as I know a few days in advance (working multiple jobs kinda limits my free time). Meeting in public doesn't only put their mind at ease, but also mine as it helps knowing if they look like their pics and what their expectations are. If they're afflicted with GPS or if I get stood up, at least I'll still have enjoyed great food and explored a new area outside of where I typically visit.

Before I dive further into this novel, know that I've left off some SBs since either I'm holding out hope that it'll eventually work out in my favor (5), or we have blocked one another and I forgot to copy the link. Five potentials is still a lot, so hopefully I'll know within a week or two about who's the golden ticket and who's a bust. Also, many women prefer their digits not to be shared (though I'd gladly do so if one gave me the green light or was acting like a * for no reason). So do the legwork: create a profile, message them yourself, and treat them with respect. Some offer their number, Snapchat, or Kik if you only ask. Most offered without me even asking. Finally, I make no guarantees that you'll have a fantastic time. Hell, some of you might even succeed where I have failed--as always, YMMV in this hobby. Without further ado:

Ashleyy-babyy - Stephens City, VA (https://www.seeking.com/member/4784c...f-51b28658246a).

She initiated the convo. I declined at first due to distance, but she offered to meet me halfway in DC. And that's when she shared a sob story about a gf who left her & her kid, how she's out of work, can't afford baby formula, etc. As soon as she requested immediate financial aid, I blocked her.

Aaliyahbaby22102 - McLean, VA (https://www.seeking.com/member/97e6d...5-1d74f28e3ecc).

Supposedly a teen "looking for fun," though she might be a bot / scam going off of a profile that's severely lacking in creativity and her four-word replies. Can't definitively confirm this, but I gave up.

Baybeemarii - DC (https://www.seeking.com/member/6cc40...8-0c24f4351056).

Also seems averse to writing longer than four-word sentences. We granted each other access to our private pics, then she said she wasn't interested. No problem, I actually prefer upfront honesty and don't hold it against her! Moving on.

ThePrincessAlexa - DC (https://www.seeking.com/member/485d0...5-31aaf626bb05).

Another that initiated the convo while I was out-of-state. We seemed to be hitting it off nicely. She told me she'd heard about SA from her friends, wanted a FWB, then asked what my previous arrangements had been like. After only sharing about the more recent one, she promptly blocked me. I always keep it PG on that site, but ah well.

Safhere77 - DC (https://www.seeking.com/member/5e9a5...3-84a117e89fcb).

Decent convo with this 18 yo. She claimed to not have a set work schedule and that she was only available on weekends. We were scheduling a day & time to meet near her area, but then she suddenly stopped replying. I sent two messages to rekindle the convo before giving up. She's logged on a couple times since, so who knows?

LatinLady0618 - DC (https://www.seeking.com/member/7f408...e-643b27abbd6f).

Going off her pics, she's extremely gorgeous & sexy! The problem is we never seem to get around to meet owing to our busy schedules. I do get the sense that she's a very chill & down-to-earth person. So I might try again in a few weeks, though that's dependent on how many reliable, time flexible SBs that I'm seeing by then.

Butterfly_wings - formerly DC (https://www.seeking.com/member/1b3f3...a-9d7bb511df71).

She's been positively reported on in the past, but she's now changed her location to Massachusetts. Near as I can tell, she's a pro who bounces from MA, DC, and NY. Next time she's in the area, I'll make an effort to get her attention and see what all the fuss is about. She once messaged me asking for a fun time while she was briefly in town, but I was out-of-state at the time.

[Kaiphas]

https://www.seeking.com/member/e9f27...7-51d4329e3e19

First conversation was going good until we came to the allowance came up with 600 per month she said good luck on your search.

https://www.seeking.com/member/d1dcb...8-88100a41f847

Looking for non-sexual relationship.

https://www.seeking.com/member/6198f...6-0be6165d0c8c

Made arrangements then all the sudden ask for half before we even meet no thank you.

[RegularJoe1985]

Attractive but too any negatives or question marks. Her profile is now gone, so it's moot.

But plenty of folks have her digits and keep in touch, it seems.

[RegularJoe1985]

I've been texting with her off and on for a while, her attitude / demeanor seems nice enough and we've discussed a few times dinner and then going to my place or getting a room to hook up. But I'm not interested in taking her to dinner if she's going to expect to get paid her donation upfront when we meet up for dinner. So I've tried several different tactics to get her to just meet up at the FC and skipping dinner but she always has a reason to say no or just doesn't respond till the next day. So the fact that she seems so adamant about meeting up in a restaurant first is a huge red flag for me that the cash and dash paranoia is valid.

You tell her that it is difficult to do dinner but you can get a quick drink and move further and then see.

Guess that must have pissed her off.

[Dimples572]

She had a terrible attitude over SA messaging. Seems to want dinner dates before deciding. So if guys suspect cash and dash, then add 'dinner-only' to that list.

I've been texting with her off and on for a while, her attitude / demeanor seems nice enough and we've discussed a few times dinner and then going to my place or getting a room to hook up. But I'm not interested in taking her to dinner if she's going to expect to get paid her donation upfront when we meet up for dinner. So I've tried several different tactics to get her to just meet up at the FC and skipping dinner but she always has a reason to say no or just doesn't respond till the next day. So the fact that she seems so adamant about meeting up in a restaurant first is a huge red flag for me that the cash and dash paranoia is valid.

[DickLongwood]

She had a terrible attitude over SA messaging. Seems to want dinner dates before deciding. So if guys suspect cash and dash, then add 'dinner-only' to that list.

Attractive but too any negatives or question marks. Her profile is now gone, so it's moot.

[RegularJoe1985]

She looks good, but guys suspected late last year that she may be a cash and dash girl. Has anyone met her?

https://www.seeking.com/member/7f4649ac-3799-4004-a2e3-f4ebe7afb562

She had a terrible attitude over SA messaging. Seems to want dinner dates before deciding. So if guys suspect cash and dash, then add 'dinner-only' to that list.

[Dimples572]

Time waster. Wants money upfront so she can get a caretaker to watch over her aunt who has diarrhea, LOL. That was her actual excuse.

https://www.seeking.com/member/c5456...0-9fe5c61db153

[BikeRider]

EXACTLY. So the flip side is that I have zero problem stopping it at that point for any reason I want. And neither should any of you.

I was naked in bed with a married woman long ago. She was giving me an awesome BJ, and I was looking forward to the ride. All of the sudden out of no where she stops mid-stroke and says to me "I can't do this". I'm like what? She says she can't cheat on her hubby like this blah blah. I said can you just finish the BJ. The ex-President says it isn't sex?

Long story short. We dressed and I walked her to her car. You can't force things.

[DWinthrop]

Yes, otherwise they call that RAPE.

EXACTLY. So the flip side is that I have zero problem stopping it at that point for any reason I want. And neither should any of you.