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Originally Posted by OldManRiver
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I would normally suggest sending him to a Swingers club--many of them have one night a month for single men. But he sounds like he's too entitled, thinks the world owes him something, and doesn't want to invest anything in the situation to be a good fit for the "lifestyle".
Honestly--if he's not willing to put the work in for an SB, isn't interested in the "Hobby" side of the game, and is too entitled and emotionally lazy to be a swinger, it sounds like he's more suited to the InCel lifestyle. He would probably be better off investing in lots of hand lotion, tissues, and a fast internet connection for free porn sites.
I'm going to defend my buddy's honor for a second. I think he, like a lot of people, just hear about the fascinating aspects of any hobby and just think about the fun without any of the work. Due to office closures, both of us have had to work from home and I'm sure he's just getting a little stir crazy. He's free to go into his office and work, but there's barely anyone else there. So what's the point? I also don't think it ever dawned on him that something like this has a 'community' of sorts. I haven't told him about this site because I don't know how serious he is just yet.
He'll most certainly bring up the topic again and I'll clue him into the advice you guys have provided. I actually think that a Swingers club might be a good fit for him, however, with the virus, I can't imagine too much of that going on at the moment. But as someone else mentioned, he most definitely DOES NOT have the street smarts for some of the dicier scenarios in this game.
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All band together
Originally Posted by KitFox
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I was introduced to dating by a very successful criminal lawyer in NYC many years ago. He obviously had a lot to lose if he dated in an unsafe manner. He also gave me a list of 10 rules. The most glaringly obvious deviation from this list is he said ONLY DO OUTCALLS. Now, certainly this does not mean invite a first date to come to your residence, he meant a hotel. But more importantly, don't ever let your date have the home field advantage, because you never know what lurks in and around her playground. And traffic to your place = 1, to hers, who knows? Traffic draws attention. I know its not practical for everyone, but I would not agree with the "No Outcalls" except if its your residence that is the field of play.
We all band together, we all chip in for a room and we can book slots (times).
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Outcalls
Originally Posted by JoeLooking
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1. Don't pay deposits.
2. Don't do outcalls.
3. Get a burner phone or an voip number (ex: textnow).
4. Only carry the cash you are prepared to spend.
5. If anything feels wrong then bail.
6. Be wary if she wants you to get naked first.
7. Don't DATY. I know some guys like it but personally I see no point.
8. Know the area, show up early and scan the parking lot multiple times. To that I'll add to know how you're going to get out of the lot as well as back to your car from the room.
9. Wrap it up. Whatever a sex worker will do for you she probably did for the guy who was there last, especially if she's only doing it because you paid more.
I could go on but the above should be enough to get him started or scare him off.
I was introduced to dating by a very successful criminal lawyer in NYC many years ago. He obviously had a lot to lose if he dated in an unsafe manner. He also gave me a list of 10 rules. The most glaringly obvious deviation from this list is he said ONLY DO OUTCALLS. Now, certainly this does not mean invite a first date to come to your residence, he meant a hotel. But more importantly, don't ever let your date have the home field advantage, because you never know what lurks in and around her playground. And traffic to your place = 1, to hers, who knows? Traffic draws attention. I know its not practical for everyone, but I would not agree with the "No Outcalls" except if its your residence that is the field of play.
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This looks like a girl I saw yesterday evening with another girl holding up a sign on 68 and I 40 .
She looked pretty hot, I gave her 3 dollars because my girl was with me, and I saw a pimp in the rear view mirror scamper over and grab her money.
Is this what hard times are coming to? Street walking to sign holding asking for money?
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Outcall goto
Who is everyone's Outcall goto. ?
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Originally Posted by Vnamvet
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Had a visit with Kyra this week. Because I am pushing 80 years old the visit was 75 % social and 25 % qv BBBJ.
However it occurred too me that she is a good replacement for Milana for a reliable provllider. Coincidently when she is working in Greensboro she stays in same hotel. Unless I missed something she has good reviews. She is an older provider decent body and when I interviewed her she agreed to 90 percent of what I asked her to do (which is, given my 50 plus years in the game, is a lot).
Point of interest, for those who don't know. I happened to mention that last week my regular provider could not make our scheduled date. And my back up was with her "fianc" so I called Alex offered a gmajor contribution, site unseen. For a 3 hr session. She enthusiastically agreed. Of course she ghosted me. The hotel I use is very nice and has a lot of security so It might have scared her off. But, I am getting off point. Alex is Kyra's daughter.
Kyra, told me she would call her but providers who make a date with me and no show, don't get a 2nd date without a sincere apology and promised service concessions. If we.
I've dreamt of both and they are equally good in terms of service IMHO. We're lucky to have them. Just my 2 cents.
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Kelly
I was looking around today and wondered if anyone has any info to share about this petite one? I hope someone can share some good info this one. Post or send me a private message. Thank you.
https://greensboro.skipthegames.com/...8/557413805725
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Originally Posted by Hotocu
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HEADS UP GUYS!! Another gal that will rob you! Her ad says "Young Sweet Tasty Treat" beware, she is in an apartment on e fisher in Greensboro. Her phone # ends in 1888. Don't BE FOOLED!!
E. fisher is a decent side of town I'm a little surprised. But there are tgiefs everywhere. Thanks for the heads up.
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Kyra vs Milana
Had a visit with Kyra this week. Because I am pushing 80 years old the visit was 75 % social and 25 % qv BBBJ.
However it occurred too me that she is a good replacement for Milana for a reliable provllider. Coincidently when she is working in Greensboro she stays in same hotel. Unless I missed something she has good reviews. She is an older provider decent body and when I interviewed her she agreed to 90 percent of what I asked her to do (which is, given my 50 plus years in the game, is a lot).
Point of interest, for those who don't know. I happened to mention that last week my regular provider could not make our scheduled date. And my back up was with her "fianc" so I called Alex offered a gmajor contribution, site unseen. For a 3 hr session. She enthusiastically agreed. Of course she ghosted me. The hotel I use is very nice and has a lot of security so It might have scared her off. But, I am getting off point. Alex is Kyra's daughter.
Kyra, told me she would call her but providers who make a date with me and no show, don't get a 2nd date without a sincere apology and promised service concessions. If we.
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THIEF!! Young Sweet Tasty Treat
HEADS UP GUYS!! Another gal that will rob you! Her ad says "Young Sweet Tasty Treat" beware, she is in an apartment on e fisher in Greensboro. Her phone # ends in 1888. Don't BE FOOLED!!
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Originally Posted by JoeLooking
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1. Don't pay deposits.
2. Don't do outcalls.
3. Get a burner phone or an voip number (ex: textnow).
4. Only carry the cash you are prepared to spend.
5. If anything feels wrong then bail.
6. Be wary if she wants you to get naked first.
7. Don't DATY. I know some guys like it but personally I see no point.
8. Know the area, show up early and scan the parking lot multiple times. To that I'll add to know how you're going to get out of the lot as well as back to your car from the room.
9. Wrap it up. Whatever a sex worker will do for you she probably did for the guy who was there last, especially if she's only doing it because you paid more.
I could go on but the above should be enough to get him started or scare him off.
I always bring my own wrappers just in case.
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Originally Posted by DJprofessorK
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So, after a night out, a buddy of mine figured out that I was in the hobby and wants to get into it as well.
I generally gravitate towards SB's, but when I told him it would take time to talk to them and get to know them before a lot of them will agree to meet, he wasn't interested.
I think the route of traditional girls is too rife with demons, handlers, and unsafe locations. So I'm not the one to ask about how to get into it.
However, he's set on giving it a go: Any general advice you can give me that I can pass along to my buddy?
I would normally suggest sending him to a Swingers club--many of them have one night a month for single men. But he sounds like he's too entitled, thinks the world owes him something, and doesn't want to invest anything in the situation to be a good fit for the "lifestyle".
Honestly--if he's not willing to put the work in for an SB, isn't interested in the "Hobby" side of the game, and is too entitled and emotionally lazy to be a swinger, it sounds like he's more suited to the InCel lifestyle. He would probably be better off investing in lots of hand lotion, tissues, and a fast internet connection for free porn sites.
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Fit Beauty
Curious if anyone has TOFTT. Has posted a few now. Looks too good to be true.
https://winston-salem.skipthegames.c...p/817491634527
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Originally Posted by DJprofessorK
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This is solid advice. Essential really. I think I might suggest he foot the bill for an EROS date.
Exactly. If he doesn't have street smarts, a lot of the STG will take him for a ride. They will smell a newbie, coming.
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Few more tips
Originally Posted by DJprofessorK
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Thanks for this! I mentioned a couple of these, and was told I was being 'dramatic'. However, I missed quite a few! It'll be cool to have someone to chat with about it if he's into it. But I'm also not certain if he's built for it. Time will tell, I guess. Thanks again!
Great tips here a few more. I don't care how friendly they are, or if they tell you how special you are. Unless your getting it free. Don't every give a loan, don't every give them ride to the so call friends house, don't give them too much personal info ,have fake info. Pay attention to your surroundings. Don't hangout in a hotel parking waiting on a girl . Be sure to contribute to this site with reviews....have fun with right one and keep it moving
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