Seeking Arrangements

[BigIrishBalls]

I've shared before, some general helps, hints on maximizing value from SA. Today, I'm going to try something different. I'm going to offer you a my "system. ".

Some thoughts to start with[/URL] That chick is my current sb. So. Stay safe, don't be an ass, but keep perving away!

All the info here was really relevant and helpful and damn that chick is hot. Let me know when you become the bored sd with that one LOL.

[Joe1223]

She reached out to me and almost immediately started asking my location and wanted my number. It was weird how aggressive she was acting and almost in an angry manner. When I told her I only communicate via kik, email or on seeking she immediately blocked me. Seems like some kind of scam.

It is a scam, her location keeps changing after she messages. The photo looks fake also.

[Melo Yello]

QUOTE=Joe1223;4812147]I agree she is a familiar face just can't remember where. Had to be a BP girl thou. What is she asking for a donation.

She's legit, she likes girls also if you know another. She's laid back and goes with the flow. 420 friendly.

[BonerX2]

She reached out to me and almost immediately started asking my location and wanted my number. It was weird how aggressive she was acting and almost in an angry manner. When I told her I only communicate via kik, email or on seeking she immediately blocked me. Seems like some kind of scam.

[Patriarchist]

Communicated with Naomi on WYP. She seemed very direct and clear in her communication. Accepted offer of $150. Her profile indicated that initial appointment was for half hour.

Looking for "Casual Dating, Discreet Affairs". Profile indicates "5'3 Latina, 95 pounds tiny frame for all you old school guys that remember the 80's. Or so I hear. LOL. Bids are for 30 minute date unless otherwise discussed. ".
"My ideal first date.
I like nice guys. I enjoy taking care of those who take care of me. ".

Unfortunately for me she doesn't host so I told her we were not compatible. I had asked via text whether it was GFE. She indicated raincoat for FS.
Overall seemed nice, with her head on straight. If anyone recognizes or has any info, I'd be curious. Her is her link to WYP.

https://members.whatsyourprice.com/p...L96OW06jWqempk

She quoted 240 for a first meeting. Countered with 200 but said she wanted donation up front so I passed.

[BostonGuy25]

https://www.seeking.com/member/f2468...8-e45b42887402

Pics are her anyone have any good reviews I know here in real life and wanted to see if she would be worth it.

[TheList00]

I agree she is a familiar face just can't remember where. Had to be a BP girl thou. What is she asking for a donation?

200. I get better for that price but she's looking to meet.

[Joe1223]

Looks familiar. Anyone seen her, wants to meet and I just might dunno yet.

https://www.seeking.com/member/74419...5-88172e836098

I agree she is a familiar face just can't remember where. Had to be a BP girl thou. What is she asking for a donation?

[Joe1223]

I saw her a few years ago when she first hit SA at 300. Very fine but no BBCIP. She now wants $600 but she negotiated to 450 if it was a regular hookup. Too much for me but she is real and a smoke show. But she is all business.

https://www.seeking.com/member/f4604...5-bfdfdd57b0b0

[Joe Parkers]

Bro, you paying a site to fuck girls and it seem like all the thing you just said are pretty much for a guy that's looking for relationship.

SA has worked for me beautifully until that covid crap came along. I actually dropped STG for months and was really happy with cleaner pussies and don't worry much about bareback. Now with all going on. I put a pause to my subscriptions, you are literally wasting money at this point not to wait. I will re-activate it soon.

What worked for me are as follow:

1-I take convo off the site right away and give me phone number for you to text me saying something like I don't always see messages here so text me. Worked 80%.

(you don't text, I move on to the next) plenty to choose from.

2- I offer coffee meet up (NO DINER) worked 90% (again, she's not a piece of meat but she's not your girlfriend either and NO. You spend $1000 and I spend $300 don't make you a better lover and sometime I might get more than you do.

3- I don't give any prepaid thing what so ever. Worked 80% or I move on.

4- at coffee, I lay out my budget and what I want. And I only do PPM. Not having you to texting me you need this or you need that. (if I that point you are still with me. I get pussy 100%.

[TheList00]

Looks familiar. Anyone seen her, wants to meet and I just might dunno yet.

https://www.seeking.com/member/74419...5-88172e836098

[Bran001]

I've shared before, some general helps, hints on maximizing value from SA. Today, I'm going to try something different. I'm going to offer you a my "system. ".

Some thoughts to start with:
7. MEET.

- pick a neutral place, coffee shop, a bar. Personally, I like dinner, I don't mind paying for a meal, even if nothing happens.

8. the sex.

- at some point, going to have to figure out the arrangment. Personally, I haven't found a good way to address physical intimacy as part of the package. Hopefully by this time you've made a good impression, and she's still smiling as you talk about sex.

- numbers. 300 is average for a ppm. I would always try for a ppm, then move to a weekly, etc. "how do we know we're compatible, sex is a big deal to me, just as <insert something they find important is to you?

I agree with a lot of what you wrote. My differences:

I hate dinner as a first date. I do not want to be trapped with someone if after 10 minutes I realize I'm not interested. I don't drink, and I always pursue a coffee date during the day. I have very good luck with that. It's low key, no pressure, and gives me and them a chance to talk. I've had coffee dates lead to sex an hour later, a day later, a few days later. . . Or never. Just how it works. I always think its a good investment of my time. I do not 'compensate' other than for parking or an Uber if necessary; usually it never comes up.

Sex. It pretty much always comes up naturally when talking. If you've screened well it has come up in chat. I only meet those who in chat let me know that they want it and love it, if chemistry is there. I never meet someone who says 'maybe in the future' or such bs.

The text / chat (before meeting) - the trick is to bring up sex and discuss it in a way that doesn't make you seem like a creep. Many men don't have that skill. They really appreciate it when you do. It gets you laid.

[Joe1223]

No, not at all. The sugaring world is a different culture. Just because you may not understand, or it may not be for you, don't put down those who like it. To each his own.

The girls I pursue on SA have been a much higher caliber than the typical STG or similar girls. I have been with both and prefer the SA girls and am willing to pay a little extra, treat them a little special and the reward has been worth my time and cash investment. I no longer worry about rip offs, pimp drama and all the other BS that comes with "just a hoe" attitude. Like he said it's not for everyone but it's my go to strategy now and it works good for me. The only downside and I really don't see at as a bad thing is that I now do long term arrangements vs bouncing around. The upside is the girls I have seen are not seeing multiple guys either and it's typically BB service. I have been very successful with just being polite and respectful of these girls. Once they trust you they get relaxed and the kinky stuff really comes out.

[HounDog3]

Bro, you paying a site to fuck girls and it seem like all the thing you just said are pretty much for a guy that's looking for relationship.

No, not at all. The sugaring world is a different culture. Just because you may not understand, or it may not be for you, don't put down those who like it. To each his own.

[Style20]

I've shared before, some general helps, hints on maximizing value from SA. Today, I'm going to try something different. I'm going to offer you a my "system. ".

Some thoughts to start with:

- I am, in no way, an attractive guy (not ugly), and I can figure this out when the girls reply to my intro, then ghost after they see my profile, LOL.

- I am also at the bottom of income for seeking. (I make 6 figures, but BAAAARELY).

- It takes time, what with the girls being flakey and they do get lots of offers (legit or otherwise, my messaging does get lost in the clutter).

Now, you've finally signed up for premium. You can start messaging these hot, young, chicks who will become prey to your sick perverted fetishes. (you pervert).

1. Check you f'ing profile.

- Positive, positive, positive. B+. Don't put anything in there about "no scammers, no this, no that".

- Have something fun, light, relevant (ie, 420 friendly, or likes to party).

- Don't overshare. Dunno about you, but I stop reading pretty much after 10 lines on a profile.

2. Scope profiles.

- the way the women rate themselves. It's all over the place.

- pics can be decieving.

- some flags to look out for: "I know my worth", contact info to kik, nothing in profile.

3. Send Introduction.

- don't be generic. Hi, hey. Only gets you so far.

- Try to be personable. Use something from their profile ("I like your. Face" is an attempt, but do better).

- Don't immediately start off with business, get them comfortable, make them feel SAFE.

4. Categorize.

- Once they start replying, you need to quickly identify who you're talking to. Are they scammers? New girls (lost in the sauce)? Utr? Pro? WTF am I talking about?

- Okay: scammers. If they ask for money without a meet, scammers. Period. The moment you mention "lets meet up for drinks" and they demand payment, scammers. Move on. They want to sell you anything before meeting up: scammers. Move on.

- new girls (first timers). These girls will either over value themselves or undervalue themselves. You can tell they're new because, when you ask for a meet, they'll take a while replying back. They will also have no idea what arrangements are, or honestly, they'll just tell you. Personally, these are a pain in the ass. They will flake on you like no other. But be nice, because they're real people, and you never know. Don't put too much effort into these girls, but get their contact info and check in every so often.

- UTR. (under the radar) now THESE are the true gems of SA. They've had a few arrangements, and it didn't work out for whatever reason (and they will lie about how much their previous daddies paid and did, whatever). They're the ones that will initiate "business" and throw a relatively reasonable number out. Don't take their first number. 300 is the average, if you're wondering. These girls WANT to make it happen, but holy fuck, they're still flakey. It takes effort to get them to the first meet, but after the first one, subsequent meets are easier.

- Pros. Yeah, they'll get down to business immediately. Also, never take their first number. But pros on SA be asking 500+. Personally, I avoid.

5. Communicate.

- SAFE, SAFE, SAFE. This is the first thing you must be able to communicate to the girl. That you're safe. Don't be trying to get them alone on the first meeting. (you will, but don't put that in communication) Think of it like a date. The trick here is, information about being safe is snuck in, as opposed to annoucements of it.

- Positivity. You like. Their um. Features. Fucking look up internet jokes. Don't be shit talking anyone. Not even the scammers.

- the meet. To avoid forever being stuck in text hell. Set up a time / date and MEET. Doing this eliminates lots of potential candidates.

6. Screen.

- see if you can't find them on some sort of social media.

- reverse image search pictures they give you.

- google search their name, username, phone number.

7. MEET.

- speak to their needs. Money is a means to an end. They don't want to be a *****, and putting money up front makes them feel that way. Here's how to spin it: you like "providing," and you enjoy the time spent with her. You'll "take care" of needs.

- never pre-pay or promise to pay for the meet. Usually, a meet will turn into an arrangement. But sometimes it just is a promise for another meet. ("I don't have sex on the first date") It's okay to show a token of your provenance. Ie, offer to pay for gas, or small gift.

- pick a neutral place, coffee shop, a bar. Personally, I like dinner, I don't mind paying for a meal, even if nothing happens.

- Conversation. This allows the girl to relax, get to "know" you. Remember 6? If you find anything they're interested through screening, bring it up on the down low, and let her talk about it. Make HER the center of attention.

8. the sex.

- at some point, going to have to figure out the arrangment. Personally, I haven't found a good way to address physical intimacy as part of the package. Hopefully by this time you've made a good impression, and she's still smiling as you talk about sex.

- numbers. 300 is average for a ppm. I would always try for a ppm, then move to a weekly, etc. "how do we know we're compatible, sex is a big deal to me, just as <insert something they find important is to you?

Finding a place to make this all work, is on you.

Final Thoughts. The more positive experiences these girls have from SA, the better the chances I have of picking up that slim, young redhead when their current daddy gets tired of her. That easy money and lifestyle can be addicting. As a parting gift, I leave you this link: https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.p...h5b1b5a6297bd8 That chick is my current sb. So. Stay safe, don't be an ass, but keep perving away!

Bro, you paying a site to fuck girls and it seem like all the thing you just said are pretty much for a guy that's looking for relationship.